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I have lied about listening to certain songs or watching movies to make someone interested in me in the past (as a high schooler) You're going to jail son. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 01:03 PM
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Have these guys never heard of being a munch before? No reciprocity. Same deal here. Different cultures I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 04:01 PM
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The iron laws of market forces apply to biological life as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:27 PM
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"Instead he leveraged his good qualities" His good qualities being a foreigner in a different country? Hey I respect the game though. Anytime I travel I feel like a god damn celebrity on dating apps. Good for him honestly. Looking at his profile he's a fairly okay looking guy too! I tell people this constantly but the heightism shit is way less important in other countries. I'm kinda short myself and it just isn't a big deal in most of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:21 PM
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I think the average person (yes white people) thinks Neo Nazi's and blatant psychopathy is for absolute freaks. So be my guest. I read the comments on her donations and it was just people saying the most vile shit ever so. If this is a win for "your side" everyone knows how morally bankrupt you are. Good for you though if this is supposed to be anti "cancel culture", all you will end up doing is actually reinforcing the idea that leftists were actually right. There's a middle ground between stup…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:17 PM
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It depends what community you're from. Where I'm from there are women can be considered "fat" by normie standards but they are extremely shapely. But that's because their bodies are built a certain way with fat distributed mainly in the ass. I'm willing to bet you're right and if he wants a slimmer girl he needs to drop some more weight. Or start interacting more with people in real life and not use dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:19 PM
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I'm thinking the same thing, now. Apparently he went from 200+ lbs to 180. That is fat as fuck and I don't think he is jacked at this weight at all. Still fat. Dude needs to lose more weight if he wants to be more selective when it comes to dating
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:16 PM
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Kind of meaningless without looking at body fat percentage. 5'6 at 180 makes me think he's more on the strong fat side if he says he looks good in mediums. Which is still dad bod fat anyway, and I'm willing to bet it's bloating his face. But he asks the wrong question. He should be asking how should he get leaner while retaining as much muscle mass and how to meet thinner women (ex, move to Boulder, CO).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:09 PM
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Money doesn't turn anyone on anyway I don't know why so many Men think its for anything other than a lifestyle booster. Jeff Bezos and Zuckerberg are not sexual icons just because they're the richest dorkiest nerds in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:31 PM
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No he's literally just a gay man trying to date and that is extremely normal in that community.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:28 PM
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These guys haven't internalized that no one cares and they need to get over it. You did all that work and are successful and attractive now? Great, enjoy the fruits of your labor. I know guys who never dated until they were 32-35 (autism spectrum), and while their lack of romantic success caused them much heartache they completely forgot about it once they found someone. Now how they deal with their very first relationship in their mid 30s with women who have a had a lifetime worth of experience…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:25 PM
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How does someone get married and divorced twice within 1 year of legally being able to??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 06:29 PM
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One thing that I seriously cannot understand for the life of me is anyone counter signaling a really nice physique. It simply has never been my experience offline that any guy I know, including myself got less positive attention from women (or men) after working out more. In any combination too. Whether it's going from fat to jacked or skinny to jacked, it's always been more positive. Now it ain't the end all be all because it's not like Women just flock to you because you have a really nice bod…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 04:50 PM
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By all metrics I should be able to get a girlfriend. Life is not an RPG that's not how that works at all. But, if you actually are autistic then by all "metrics", statistically, this is extremely unsurprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 04:10 PM
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You will potentially age much faster. Seriously hopping on a few cycles in your 20s could make you look like a 40 year old by the time you're 30. You are tinkering with an extremely fine tuned endocrine system. If you fuck that up you will be dealing with this for life. Your natural test levels may never go back to normal and you will need to be on TRT for life. You are sacrificing long term health gains for short term vanity. It might be cool to be super hot looking and feel amazing for a short…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 04:08 PM
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Dating apps just aren't that good if you fall under a certain level of visceral attractiveness that's easily assessable through photos. However, no ones putting the genie back in the bottle and pretty much any platform can be a dating app if you allow messages and photos.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:58 PM
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Are all your friends from a certain country near the equator?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:04 PM
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Dumb and won't work
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 07:16 PM
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Yeah you could. Crazier things have happened. https://balleralert.com/profiles/blogs/empress-delfina-converts-trump-supporters-into-joe-biden/
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 06:03 PM
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I lean more sub than dom sexually but I learned through my experiences with lots of different women that women who want to take the dominant role are pretty rare. So I had to get good at playing the right role. There are way more guys into it than girls which is why dommes can charge a lot of money to cater to those fantasies. Being a switch is a lifesaver. The most submissive dudes are kind of fucked (ironic since they usually don't fuck) to a degree. After lots of discussions with them someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 10:17 PM
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The men complaining about the "loneliness epidemic" are not the ones responding nonchalantly to women texting them lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 09:43 PM
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I'm from the early internet so people pseudo self doxxing always scares me because super psychos with time on their hands can be extreme bad actors. I believe your story because it's pretty banal, I've traveled a lot and seen some of the same things. I personally would say take anything identifying your real name down on a public forum it's not actually safe bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 09:24 PM
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This was posted like twice already
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:05 PM
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Doesn't make sense when you scale it up or think too deeply about it so don't take it too seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:09 PM
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Thanks bud
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 07:03 PM
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Sexless marriage debates running through twitter and it's always the same thing. Why is it hard for people to get there's so many reasons why a marriage can end up sexless besides you're just a shitty wife/husband, or fat, or blah blah blah blah
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 06:57 PM
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A man of science
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:15 AM
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This for grown folx
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:15 AM
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Is sucking another girls toes cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:44 AM
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Competitive I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:30 AM
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I now know three guys who are married and already complaining about their sex lives and honestly I have zero sympathy. Not even 30 with no kids. Relationship is always described as "great BUT" and looking from the outside in it's so obvious that they just slacked and stopped putting in effort. And no it's not because they don't do enough damn dishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:07 AM
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As long as you're fucking his brains out and treating him well who else cares
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:04 AM
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My testosterone levels are too high to suffer from this level of neuroticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:01 AM
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Opposite in my experience but I date latinas
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:38 AM
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People like having sex and like traveling at the same time. A concept invented tens of thousands of years ago when human tribes made contact with each other. Nothing has changed besides the technology. Yes some Women like fucking hot guys in different countries too. This isn't nuclear physics or requires the imagination of Salvador Dali or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:30 AM
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Lol "offenders". People fuck. People travel. People meet other people on their travels and fuck. What's with the theatrics.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:26 AM
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I would at least set it up so he thinks the woman is legit and not getting paid. Tyrion style.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 07:19 PM
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Billionaire. In the future no one rich will be ugly at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 07:18 PM
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You know 3 girls that would pityfuck a dying teenager?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 07:17 PM
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Men aren't Women so we aren't as creeped out by a random woman wanting to suck our dick. If anything granny with no teeth makes for better suction. Just close your eyes and think about London. He's into it even though this is highly inappropriate at work. In my opinion it is very foolish. On both parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:25 PM
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You can't be 25 years old and be like "I've been single for 25 years". Your ass was not trying to get dates at 2 years old man! Hopefully...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 11:10 PM
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You're the best poster here
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 11:07 PM
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Heterosexual has a specific meaning. Wanting to fuck the opposite sex. That's it. Literally. Being heterosexual has nothing to do with respect or adoration or reverence so I always found this quote stupid Homoeroticism also means something specific and none of the examples provided have anything to do with it. Leave it to a feminist theorist to conflate literally anything to busting a nut. Not everything is about getting fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:18 AM
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There is no race. Just stop giving a fuck. I myself will tell you your 16 year age gap will statistically make your relationship unstable but why care? You know the risks, aren't doing anything illegal, and if you can stomach side eye from people and still not care just do you. It's your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:10 AM
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I believe in you kid. You can make it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 11:41 PM
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Dick size isn't that big of a deal unless you're super small with little girth. Having a big cock thats too big isn't gonna hurt more than a small cock thats too small, however.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:16 PM
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Using an individuals scenarios and trying to place them in the context of group behavior is stupid if the trait that is held constant is something immutable. Becsuse statistically speaking any negative thing you find is always going to be done by a vast minority of people in your grouping anyway you slice it. That's just a natural pareto principle. It's why you can say 100% of murders are caused by Humans but 99.999% of Humans will never murder anyway. An alien trying to make a statement on huma…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:01 PM
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It's the internet there are no manners here. You could DM a picture of a dead cow telling me to fuck off and I'd forget in minutes and move on with my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:57 PM
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Low cost to payoff ratio. It's like if casino slots. Might as well see what you can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:56 PM
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Against. Im pretty moderate on immigration. It is not feasible to have tons of people coming here illegally. If homeless citizens don't even get this why should they? Sorry you gotta go back. Im with conservatives on that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 08:06 PM
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This article came out when half the users here were still in elementary school. Time moves fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 08:04 PM
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"Do you see your female friends completely non sexually in a way where even any sexual contact with them would feel disgusting like if they were a sibling" Yeah I have zero interest in fucking any of my female friends but the idea of sex with them doesn't gross me out like it would say my cousin or sisters. If a friend were to ask me I'd decline out of respect for my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 06:47 PM
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Yeah I've seen some of his videos he certainly is entertaining. Can't say I agree with all of his conclusions. But the point is you can't really ban it without getting extreme. Either you need a hyper authoritarian technological system that would make a Soviet commissar or SS officer salivate, or you make the conscious choice to not have any technology exist past 1965.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:30 PM
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There is no solution to any technological problems we face that don't amount to a ban on general purpose computing. The cards were wrapped as soon as the internet existed and everyone had a device in their hand capable of more computational power than the flight trajectory systems for the Apollo program. May you live in interesting times is a Chinese curse not a compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:22 PM
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The speed at which you can do something is actually irrelevant. Sending fake photos of someone in 10 seconds vs 10 hours isn't more or less illegal because you can do it faster. The invariant is harrassment not how fast you can create the image itself. It should be illegal to harrass people by spreading lies using their images, and it already is. But it isn't illegal to make a fake picture of someone in general. Whether you use photoshop, an AI tool or drawing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:44 PM
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You always had the ability to create a fake photo of someone and try to fuck with them. The fake photo isn't the illegal part, especially if you tell everyone it's fake. Slandering someone using it would be illegal. Nothing has actually changed other than it's just easier to do what we always could do, which is make fake images of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:33 PM
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I think creating images of someone in a fucked up situation is wrong but I don't necessarily think its illegal unless it passes certain parameters like slander, libel, violating fair use, profiting off of someones image, etc. The technology is irrelevant here imo. If you could draw a hyperrealistic photo of a politician getting fucked in the ass or having a dog shit on their head it doesn't make a difference whether you use pen and paper or a computer program. I could make an AI photo of Trump g…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:31 PM
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Tallness, hotness ect wont change that you are invisible to people. It literally does. More physically attractive people are more visible in public. That's why if you're super hot you're more likely to get stared at walking down the street vs an average person. You have to get peoples attention somehow. Guess what being hot does to how much attention you get. Funnily enough being super ugly can do almost the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:12 PM
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How would you know if they just lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:01 PM
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Now, that’s not common case, obviously Yeah exactly it's like getting orange juice by smashing fruit with a rock instead of using a juicer. Just do what's more common and effective! Which ain't being super duper kind duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:59 PM
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Some guys think they're lucky to have any girl at all. I think that's nonsense and an easy way to get emotionally abused. A society going from "women suck amirite" to "men suck amirite" still fucking sucks!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:01 PM
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Physical health is the foundation of mental health. Move more, get better quality sleep, and eat better food. Very hard to withstand life stress if you physically feel like crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:59 PM
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There was an old lady working the toll booth who said I looked handsome. She was very nice and definitely looked hot 50 years ago. We could make it work.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:58 PM
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A person who is starving and always hungry is usually thinking about food. If someone tells me they're as hungry as a guy always thinking about food but they themselves don't think about it as much I can only conclude they aren't as hungry. Doesn't mean they can't enjoy the meal as much as the starving person but it's very obvious to me they don't crave it as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:52 PM
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A lot of these guys are extremely lonely, desperate, and just plain fucked up and mentally ill. It gets fucking dark man. Real dark. It's like the fentanyl of the BDSM community. Also doesn't help there's like 100 sub dudes for every domme girl so they can only get their outlet paying some girl who's not even into it like that. I think it's pure evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:43 PM
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What site
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:38 AM
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Oofy doofy theory? Do you people listen to yourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:37 AM
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I still remember his war in chiraq series. I think the clout and money got to his head. Getting robbed of 500k by some thot is some sucker shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 10:36 PM
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sees stupid tattoos closes video Might be my biggest irrational ick. Cannot take anything you say seriously if your body looks like a boys bathroom stall. If they're something cool or meaningful different story
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:46 PM
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Total compensation packages like that were pretty normal but only if you were working at like FB, Citadel, Jump Trading, Jane Street, Hudson River Trading, Linkedin, Uber, Lyft, Airbnb. And interviewed well with other offers. At least from what I remember. Google would offer slightly less but still with total stock options like 200k+ with maybe a 120k base.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:40 PM
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Clearly doesn't come from actually fucking them that was immediately obvious. Why do you guys tell on yourselves like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:53 PM
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Yes and Women brag about playing women...like...in this video which is about a woman...playing other women...but people think they're a man....but they're actually...a woman. So the conclusion here has nothing to do with men or even women. Did I break it down or do I need to go slower.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:41 AM
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Women getting played by other women. Men are to blame. Yawn.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:37 AM
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She's a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:33 AM
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Lol the person they're complaining about isn't even a man. They're a stud. Slang for lesbian in the black community. Played yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:32 AM
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Only if he asks her out at her funeral
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 04:50 PM
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People are so out of touch they think every person who is just super lean is doing steroids. Being lean gives you an optical illusion. I used to look "bigger" on a 3 week cut while losing mostly 5lbs of water and my arms and veins pop. If this guy was taking steroids he would look nuts. People really just don't work out or eat like complete shit and wonder why their body is 25% bodyfat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 03:19 PM
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If you look good. But are incredibly corny and lame. You do not get laid. That is called having no game.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 11:08 PM
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Blackpilled son is most likely a loser but not necessarily traumatized. Idk if you guys know how dark the sex work industry is but uh a daughter like that will most likely have seen some shit or experienced massive amounts of trauma at some point. If not before then definitely after fucking tons of men for money. It really gets dark and I assume you didnt mean shit like selling feet pics. TL;DR: I don't want a daughter that gets fucking raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 12:09 AM
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Yes. No. Maybe. Those are the 3 types people you will get. Depending on who you are and external factors these different buckets have different ratios. But guess which one ends up wasting peoples time the most? Let it be fuck yes, fuck no, or fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 12:02 AM
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Gender norms are constructed because one group has babies and the other doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 07:40 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 07:38 PM
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Reminds me of this post of this guy who had a castration fetish and the idea made him SUPER HORNY. One day he goes through with it but immediately becomes engulfed with despair as the reality hits since he is no longer capable of being horny. Ironic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:31 PM
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It would seem then that the age-old debate: "Women are just as sexual/horny as men" can finally be put to rest. No that was put to rest about...100,000 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:20 PM
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Now that's true love.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:08 PM
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Make an ig and use AI pics to craft a fake dope life but not too fake that it's unbelievable. Start following girls in your city and if they follow back AND watch your story, send them a message after you watch theirs. From there start a convo and meetup for drinks. Every market is gameable including this one. Ed Thorp taught me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:07 PM
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=/ Respect for her keeping it real. That's the best case for most couples after a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:02 PM
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I wonder what the answer is if you ask your mom?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 04:56 PM
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If you believe in the dissolution of gender roles and progressive values but also believe due to biological constraints and evolution the goals are literally impossible and therefore stupid to try and implement hamfistedly... What would that make you? Like to me it would be great if Men didnt feel they had to be strong, or confident, or manly to be fulfilled or Women didn't feel they had to be ultra feminine paragons of beauty who shouldn't age or else they're worthless. But we are literally ani…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 04:24 PM
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This is a therapist that's supposed to be dispencing advice and proper mental models for people to better navigate life??
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 04:23 PM
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My pet peeve are people who think they're speaking directly when they aren't. Stop with the "Well you should have known..." stupid shit. Just say what you fucking mean and say whats on your mind. If you don't feel safe enough to communicate openly with your partner why are you even with them? This is such a common thing, people expecting to have someone always read you while you write nothing. A person shouldn't need the position of the stars and the sun to determine how you felt about something…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 04:05 PM
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He looks fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 04:01 PM
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It wasn't about the chocolate but how many times do humans have to learn men and women are different and this leads to conflict due to lack of understanding. We can ameliorate this by having better mental models of your partner. Women tend to give a shit about things Men think are trivial and vice versa. Add in no open communication and resentment just festers. Yes she is being OD as fuck over some dumb shit because it's the straw and she never feels heard or seen but in my experience subcommuni…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:53 PM
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Because gender equality as it pertains to behavior is total nonsense lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:41 PM
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I will never fault a man in the arena for trying. Good on him, more balls than most guys his age will ever have. And you don't need to let the opinions of other people knock your confidence. This becomes easier as you get older are get a bunch of life wins under your belt or go through really hard shit. Why the fuck would you care about some random cunt when they weren't there seeing you battle your lifes problems. Just laugh it off, on to the next one. You guys care way too much what some rando…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 01:17 PM
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Female women as opposed to??
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 12:58 PM
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Because they're chicks. If they were all dudes theyd just call you a fag
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 11:48 AM
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Girl Math: Facetious observations about being bad with numbers or math Boy Math: Facetious observations that have nothing to do with numbers or math So weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 11:08 AM
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https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5745404/ How many people actually bother to read the entire contents of things instead of the title. Most of the time it aint even the damn abstract. Always take these as data points and not gospel and understand the damn limitations of these studies. There's a reason half of these studies can't even be replicated. If your study participants are always 20 year old white girls trying to get credit or WEIRDs how reflective will it be towards certain dem…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:59 AM
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Boy science is realizing her complaints may just be reflections of guys she fucked meaning those behaviors are correlated with success. Ever met a girl who complains a fuck ton specifically aboout white dudes? Yeah because she's always fucking them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:31 AM
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God I miss her. Fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 06:59 AM
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"It wasn't you". BINGO. Half the time you get ghosted because they want to be serious with someone else, or someone else came back. That falls through and they hop back on, rinse repeat. This is why I dont delete numbers. Sometimes they text again like 4 years later just needing some dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:20 PM
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I've seen it. Guy was 5'4 with the face of a pitbull but looked like an absolute monster with arms bigger than my head. Wife was 5'8 and a bombshell. Obvious outlier but damn he intimidated everyone around him. Nice guy though. Just don't cross him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 05:09 PM
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By "Dadbod lol" I meant they never had dad bods
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 05:08 PM
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30
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 05:08 PM
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My primary experience with "bad boys" I've observed tend to fall in 3 buckets. Super hot guy. He's just a chill dude. He's "bad" but ultimately because he just doesnt gaf. If he likes to fuck a lot and has tons of options he will exercise. So good luck making him your loyal boyfriend. Maybe when hes like 45, but even then I've met loserish dudes getting their lives funded because they are still hot as fuck for 45. Average looking guy. Above average levels of charisma and extremely socially adept…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:47 PM
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That's great! You are above average and an outlier. In general women communicate much more than men do. At least verbally.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:58 PM
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A better one came along and time is limited
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:31 PM
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Put it on my face and make eye holes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:55 AM
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The funny thing is Im actually asexual to a degree. Sex feels really good but the part of my brain that drives wanting to have sex is missing for some reason. It's like always enjoying a nice meal and loving food but you never feel hungry. I just have sex because it's fun but could go the rest of my life never getting a blowie again. But life is more fun with blowjobs and steak.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:42 AM
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Might as well just go all the way at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:32 AM
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Being more physically attractive means you probably win more times you try not that you win them all. The hottest men on the planet do not literally have every woman interested in them no matter what cmon now
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:32 AM
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It's acceptable if the wife is okay with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:56 AM
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People with a higher sex drive will actively seek out sex more which is why gay men stereotypically have circuit queens and gay women largely do not. Women do not have a higher sex drive than men. The bell curves overlap though. Like height.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:52 AM
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https://twitter.com/Ruesavatar/status/1743617525290504628 This is the reason why large age gaps mostly fail. You can be 42 fucking 20 year olds but making them your wife? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:49 AM
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It isn't impossible but you really need to be plugged into a tight knit religious community. At the very least that helps a lot. Hope it works out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:20 AM
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Why are you "taking a girl out" on dates and she isn't actively fucking you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:15 PM
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They'll pretend to be born again virgins and fornicate anyway, or they were never all that interested in sex anyway which is why they are also able to be virgins at 30 yo. In my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:12 PM
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So you wanna play penpal with your pretend girlfriend who you never met. The advice is find someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 01:20 AM
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I see the vision. This guy could pull a specific niche.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 01:17 AM
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If a girl looked like a 10/10 model but only to my eyes and she was ugly to every other dude in the world I would never complain. No competition whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 12:42 AM
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Vaping while pregnant 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 06:36 PM
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https://old.reddit.com/r/AskWomenOver30/comments/18s832n/have_you_ever_had_a_profound_sexual_experience/ I dont understand guys who put a womens enjoyment of sex as a non priority. Bro you can legit steal a chicks soul by fucking the shit out of her right why are some dudes so lazy. Durrr female orgasm isn't necessary. Knock that shit out of the box and just watch what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 06:28 PM
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That's actually the entire planet in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:55 PM
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Tech recruiting is even easier. You just get hot girls to reach out to nerds.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:49 PM
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Because of scenarios like this. The next letter I post after this sentence will be the letter Q. G.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:04 PM
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Debate topic: Is not allowing debates in the daily chat megathread a good idea or dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:00 PM
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Her legs don't work not her pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:32 PM
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He has an extremely small niche and he's 5'3 to boot. It really is a massive uphill. A Henry Cavill lookalike could pull this off but he'd definitely have less matches than a version of his profile that wasn't so anime specific. He's 21 so he has a lot to learn. The height is super tough so I get it depending on his environment. It's like the equivalent of being obese as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:06 PM
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You know that most 5'3 indians are happily married? How? Literally I claim no ability to determine the validity of this in the negative or affirmative I'm legitimately curious how its possible to even determine this. Unless you just made it up to try and counter a point on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:43 PM
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I don't take these "just a" things seriously because the devil is always in the details and humans have a penchant for just confabulating their true desires or not even being aware. So what comes out of peoples mouth is different than their real preferences in behavior. For example I don't think if they met a guy who made $2 an hour selling hot dogs in the park and he was a nice guy they would hop on and start dating. Aka it isnt JUST have A job and not be an asshole. Most people in general aren…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:24 PM
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By changing aspects of yourself to make it more likely to get what you want. Whether it be your location, your social skills, your physical appearance. Everyone who goes "I dont have to change anything" and still complains about their results is foolish. And life isn't fair so asking why some guys have to change everything about themselves to become dateable and some guys don't is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:18 PM
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The reason men struggle with getting dates is because they're a "bad person" List examples of women being abused or terrorized by their partner and serial abusers. You have to pick one (the answer is 1. Isn't valid). My issue isn't that being a "bad person" makes you a worse option to date. It's ultimately that in my experience it's almost completely irrelevant at least on the front end. I have had way too many girlfriends, in fact literally every woman ive talked to has dated a guy or had a fli…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 02:53 PM
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I would never ever be this guy myself or put myself in this position and I wouldn't want my friends or someone I really care about to be this guy either. However, I am happy for all of them especially the kid as they seem to be getting a great step dad. So I'm not like "omg what a beautiful love story he's a real man and if you don't want to do what he did you're bad" Cuz fuck that. And I'm also not like "omg what a cuck and a loser single moms deserve to die alone!!" So kinda neutral
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:50 AM
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If his brother is old enough to "do well with women" there's very little if anything to "protect" him from like he's a 10 year old accidentally getting taken by the youtube algorithm. Also OP agrees with his brothers views obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 10:50 PM
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It's more rare but I've seen it. The guy was just extremely absurdly hot. At least she thought so.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 10:43 PM
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Have a chip or don't. You're getting what you wanted now right? You have more options. Exercise them if you want. Settle down if you want. Be the fuck boy you always wanted to be out of "revenge" if you want. It's your life why should we care how you feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 10:36 PM
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Someone who is super hot. And people meming about Margot Robbie being "mid" isn't the "patriarchy" it's people taking the piss. There's a pretty general consensus on who is hot and who is "ugly" with most people clustering in the middle. There is no objective "hottest woman" but there's patterns and traits you tend to see mathematically in people who are concensously deemed the most beautiful. Beauty not being 100% objective does not mean you can't tell that some people look very hot to a lot of…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:38 PM
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Poor lady :(
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 11:16 PM
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What if he watches porn of you and him having sex or has like a VR simulator where the only girl is you and it feels like hes fucking you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 10:36 PM
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Honestly I say this very frankly and offensively. Every single dude who I knew that was completely normal but struggled with dating was just a complete pussy. Like that was their problem. Put a savage dude's brain in their body and they'd get 5 girlfriends. We do a huge disservice telling some guys their dating issues are that they aren't kind enough or don't buy flowers or some dumb shit when they get hit with "You're such a great guy" like 4 times in a row.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 06:34 PM
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I studied computer science and have always had an extremely diverse network of friend groups, male and female. Hung around the nerds, frat bros, stoners, foreigners, etc. The biggest issues I saw with a lot of the computer nerds were Didn't look great but mostly due to lack of effort in appearance. Some of the spectrum tier type near geniuses I knew had entire wardrobes from hackathons and never knew what shampoo was. No game/awkward around women even if they had a lot of female friends. One guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 06:24 PM
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Teen love is overrated. Now early 20s love? That's that good shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 06:01 AM
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Because she's a little ass girl why are you going toe to toe with a high school kid lmao why even take what she says seriously cmon dude lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 02:26 AM
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Pareto distributions everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 11:18 PM
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Girl I had a thing with years ago (she was dating some guy at the time) hits up again through my venmo. Thought she was blocked but we started talking again. We only speak for a few days and she blocked me out of nowhere. Droll conversation but I get it. What tipped me off was her trying to acknowledge I thought about her after all this time. I mean yeah it was a weird coincidence you popped into my head right before you venmoed me but like I deleted your nudes years ago. That was some good shit…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 11:10 PM
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"I love him, but I was never in love with hi" Mayday mayday engage emergency ejection. Crisis terminal. EJECT. Also is he the poor guy. Dude sounds like he totally sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 09:02 PM
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I was once uglier and know all too well
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 09:01 PM
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https://twitter.com/soupinthering/status/1738955714800836681 I love social media jokes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 08:41 PM
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This is so dumb cmon now lmfaooo. Yeah if his name was InfiniteBuddhaAweseomePerfectHuman I'm sure that changes things too. Lmfao really hahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 07:57 PM
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For every red flag you ignore the lower peoples sympathy will be
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 06:50 PM
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You turned "escalating" which in this context means making the first move into suddenly being a predator. OP isn't talking about raping people so your comments just look silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 06:42 PM
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I was always very skinny, didn't notice a change in my dating life until I put on muscle mass and boom there you go. I only speak for myself, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 06:58 PM
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The only thing that matters is what she thinks as she is a 27 year old who ostensibly pays taxes after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 06:54 PM
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You've never met a super hot guy or pro athlete before?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:07 PM
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Go to sleep earlier
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:24 AM
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Nope. Almost no one is actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:29 AM
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It's the norm because it's biological
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:24 AM
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https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoHotTakes/comments/18ga2yu/my_36f_daughter_12f_now_thinks_her_dad_50m/ This entire thread is dumb. This is a 12 year old child who spends too much time on the internet, specifically tiktok most likely. If she's asking this question it probably has less to do with having a nuanced understanding of relationships or critical thinking and more so just memeing stuff from the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:49 PM
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The women who had to escalate with me didn't prefer it and I lost a few opportunities becsuse I didn't push things forward and they lost interest. Mostly because I came across as clueless.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 12:00 AM
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Great. She called me an 8 and said I looked like her ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 11:08 PM
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Most bisexual people end up with the opposite sex long term that's part of the reason why dyed in the wool gay people are constantly accused of "biophobia" for not taking bisexuals too seriously and don't really consider them gay. Because they accurately see that for a lot of "bisexuals" their bisexuality really isn't that much of a thing. Everytime a girl tells me she's bi I just roll my eyes internally. I won't take it seriously and most dudes aren't gonna be afraid their chicks gonna leave th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 10:20 PM
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You like him due to some ineffable trait by your unconscious mind that your conscious mind confabulates to tell other people. Anything you say about him that you like can ultimately be said about someone you don't like. Just roll with it not everything needs explanation and you aren't meant to actually know why you like your specific dude. That's just life. "There's just something about him" Yeah, we know, and you don't. That's called being a girl. Jk. But not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 08:11 AM
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Idk why more big hairy guys don't start Gandolfinimaxxing. Not even for the mob boss bad boy aspect. Same with shrek. So many guys confused why some women like big "kinda ugly" guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 03:04 AM
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What does casual sex have to do with the selling organs, sex work, or capitalist exploitation. It's two people who just have a temporary relationship that's just about fucking. Two or more people can just agree to have sex and like it. Idk just thought that was weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 02:59 AM
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It is extremely fascinating to me how we can 3D print new humans!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 12:03 AM
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Because I'm the best she'll ever have and if she fucks this up she is dumb as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 10:36 PM
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Because. They're less horny. That's literally why they are acting like that. Just look at trans men who start taking testosterone and finally understand to some degree what a more male libido is like. It's just hormonal at the end of the day. It's just a bell curve and yes some women can be as horny as guys but the horniest people are mostly going to be dudes. The same way the tallest people tend to be men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 10:30 PM
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Your friend is an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 05:00 PM
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I was never a stereotypical masculine guy. If anything I was always a bit more sensitive than my male peers and more of a girlyish guy. It certainly made me a lot of female friends. Girlfriends? Nope. Im not even 30 yet but my entire life experience taught me to be more traditionally masculine over and over again. And it's not even something I WANT to do it's just what works best with the most people. It would be great if I could shirk male gender roles and still get the results I want but....I …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 12:54 AM
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If a lot of women want him, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 11:17 PM
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Destiny the twitch streamer in an open relationship with his swedish wife getting cucked by some 5'4 emo looking dude. You hate to see it. He was warned.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 11:16 PM
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This is like going to adopt a kid then 10 years later you're like "well I mean you're not biologically my kid". Ok great you shouldn't have adopted the kid in the first place which is exactly what the OP did. I have no sympathy if the dude gets thrown off a cliff. What a shitty step dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 09:40 PM
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No one forced him to marry a single mom and become the caretaker to her child which is what you are explicitly signing up for when you marry a single parent. He is a fucking dipshit and so is the mom for allowing this to happen. I only feel bad for the kid who has a retard as a mom and has no real dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 09:37 PM
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That's mostly irrelevant. Everyone wants something from other people even if it's as simple as their company.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 09:31 PM
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The internet isn't real life. Just a subset of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 04:51 PM
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This is not saying that women are hornier than men at older ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 04:32 PM
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"Think this way about women" as opposed to what exactly? This is legitimately just human behavior. Even women claim to operate like this. Ala "he was good enough to have sex with but not good for a relationship". In any case I dont see the problem with men or women thinking like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 02:35 PM
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I only like british accents on black girls and I have zero idea why.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:17 AM
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How do they know the babies are gay already??
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:13 PM
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American slang
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:13 PM
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You honestly sound like my youngest sister
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:00 PM
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When a lot of men are single they're single single so no pussy at all. I know guys who are with a shitty girlfriend because she's the only girl who will touch his dick. Better getting some play than having to work hard to get laid outside of it is their thought process.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 09:21 PM
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Because she was naive and desperate for validation. Sometimes you want to believe the lies becsuse they feel much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 09:20 PM
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Untrue as I can offer counter examples. At that height it's massively stacked against you so a masculine 5'4 dude is an auto outlier. But yeah the bro I know is that height and doesn't play around. But he has that hispanic machismo and comes from a family of 4 brothers and grew up fighting all the time. Ive seen the man work and he's pulled some pretty girls. If he was 6'4 I can't even imagine what he'd be capable of. Again. He's an outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 09:16 PM
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I took it to mean "I haven't thought really hard about this Im just saying words based on immediate emotional reactions don't take my response too seriously nor can I predict how I actually would feel if this was reality again don't take my hypothetical response to this hypothetical situation as anything other than banter"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 09:11 PM
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Who are self interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 03:24 PM
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Not a woman thing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:13 PM
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Meh sure I guess it depends Sure Ehhh if a guys invested you wont need to. If hes not he might just bounce Yeah nah Pointless That's just stupid as fuck Should be paying you 30 to listen
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:11 PM
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As an addendum I've met more gay women who fucked men than gay men who fucked women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:42 PM
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Ive met more misogynists with girlfriends than misandrists with boyfriends because misandrists tend to just be gay
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:39 PM
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Actually biology created the "80/20" "problem". It's the norm across multiple species including humans, chimpanzees, and bonobos including other genetic cousins. I'd reckon monogamy as a cultural invention allowed us to form much more stable and larger communities and civilizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:33 PM
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One has pussy One is pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 03:00 PM
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It doesn't offer good explanations. Just plausible ones we CAN'T PROVE OR TEST. But another thing is people conflate current data with evo pysch. Knowing men prefer women with large waists or bigger breasts != trying to explain through evolution why that is the case. Some people will also deny the former calling it "evopsych" when it's just an observation. TL;DR: What we see can't explain how it got there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:49 PM
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5'6 - 5'8 is officially "short" but I don't think it's short enough that it makes dating absurdly difficult. It's definitely harder but honestly to me you don't have a right to complain yet until you are shorter than half of women. At that point yeah it gets pretty hard. Im 5'6, 5'7ish and I would definitely be way more attractive just 3 to 5 inches taller but do alright for being my height. The only thing I can't be is scrawny. I say 5'8 is the perfect height to be jacked while being short.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:42 PM
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First time? Haha this exact scenario has happened to me don't sweat it bro. She was never serious about hanging out it's just something she said. Then she made excuses. Won't get into it but I notice this type of flaky behavior among some people. The key here was she said "one day". She legitimately had no interest in doing anything. Or if the tone changes over text when trying to set a real time to meet. I hate the different communication styles and having to play meta word games to know where …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:53 AM
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Yeah and McDonalds stole my wallet by marketing their product and making it appealing to me enough to eat. Gun to my head I was manipulated.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:31 AM
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The internet
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:23 AM
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I actually know a guy like this. Facially pretty ugly and 5'2. Nice enough guy, makes good money in tech, never had a girlfriend in his life and just married a chick from Vietnam at age 35. Now if he was broke. Yeah I have no clue.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:18 AM
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My friends always sending me this stuff. Like dude just lose some fucking weight bro and stop watching these videos that make you feel bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 11:44 PM
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Oh how could I forget that part too
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 11:44 PM
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https://youtu.be/dDgbett4_Ps?si=YUzTX2ASAqiWikam Videos like these are always so odd. Could sum it up in 30 seconds but it's really an excuse to show off. Lift more get jacked, dress well, walk down the street. The end. That's the entire video.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 11:39 PM
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Contrary to popular belief women in other countries aren't stupid and they're playing the game too. Some guys get fleeced that way thinking a 25 year old girl is truly truly in love with a 60 year old fat dude who is rich relatively speaking. Maybe <1% of those partnerships end up being genuine but everyone gets what they paid for anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 10:06 PM
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If I was a dude traveling to another country to either just get laid or find a wife I don't think I'd have any shame about it anymore than if I went to a different state in the US for the same reason
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:57 PM
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Your audio gonna get scraped and cloned brah.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:55 PM
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If you're more attractive or have social status people are more willing to let what you do and say slide. Grab em by the pussy!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:04 PM
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when I see men lean into the persona of being this successful alpha male As a neutral observer I think the OP of your reply finds irony here because they think you are also doing this. Also there's levels to the game. It's pretty pointless comparing yourself to other people. Someone will always be faster, smarter, richer. Someone will always be slower, dumber, poorer. Jerking yourself off to feeling superior feels nice but you're still naked with your dick in your hand when we all die.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:28 AM
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Because the "love of your life" is about actual love. Not just lust.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:25 AM
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Everyone is statistically more likely to be murdered by someone they know because in order to kill someone you need to be near them and people spend most of their time with someone they know. That's why this stat exists while you can simultaneously understand that 99.9% of people will never be murdered ever in their life or even know someone who was murdered unless they live in an actual dangerous area.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:23 AM
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What's wrong with you? A short man stick his penis in your asshole? Get a grip. Anyway. Yes what people say they desire and what they get are two different things. Because it's not possible to obtain what you really want in all cases. We have statistical data regarding the saliency of height with regards to men's attractiveness along with wealth. Men who are taller than other men are more attractive on average. Men who are wealthier than other men are also more attractive on average. Showing dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:16 AM
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That is one aspect. The same way antlers were sexually selected for in deer or elaborate feather designs in peacocks. Ronald Fishers principles regarding sexual selection also apply to humans. However we are different in that cultural evolutions happen much faster than our biological ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:08 AM
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You're confusing selection effects. The majority of men being stronger and taller than women does not explain why women tend to choose men who are stronger and taller than other men. It isn't random. You are being the dummy here lol, I don't like insults but you said it first.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:03 AM
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What's physically attractive in human beings hasn't changed. Im not quite sure what relevance your question has to my explanation. Regardless of whether you accept the notion that men are more "feminised" or not, masculine men and feminine women are generally regarded as more attractive, cross culturally. Physically speaking and behaviorally. Doesn't mean a feminine man or masculine woman can't be however. Again I still think your question isn't relevant. But if I had to nail it down, I would su…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:00 AM
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Evolved traits don't go away because the environment changes. That's why our bodies easily store fat when it's actually not really needed in an age of carbohydrate hyperabundance. Everything that is extremely attractive in both sexes is from thousands of years of evolution. This is like getting confused people get fat when they eat ice cream and not knowing why.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 12:03 AM
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When the substance is no longer needed the symbols which represent them act as proxies. Fiat Masculinity is like Fiat currency. It doesn't need to be backed by anything besides trust in the symbol and the ability to exchange it when needed if you needed to. Women don't literally need a protector or provider as most of that has been abstracted away by the state and technology. However. Our biological programming based on 50,000-100,000 years of evolution don't change just because society changes …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:50 PM
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Drink water. Get a good nights sleep. Eat enough greens. Get enough protein. Avoid consistent drug use. Get out in nature more when you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:27 PM
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Lol good luck you're not a dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:46 PM
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We don't have an earthly example of a non religious culture that doesn't have it's moral roots in some previous or current religious framework. So Im willing to say yes. Because dictating enough moral rules for everyone to adhere to will end up being a religion anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:07 PM
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It's real enough that memes about "when you dated a guy and find out he was the ugly friend" exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:57 PM
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The reality is people have always traveled to find a partner, short or long term. Whether it be the next town, next city, next state, next country. It's a global world. I think shitting on women from your home country is lame but there's nothing to "defend" about "passport bros", or "attack". It's just people leveraging their global arbitrage in a market that values them more. Can't care if women do it their way, can't care if men do it their way. It's a free world.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:51 PM
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If you have zero clue what they really look like, yes it's a lot easier. People are falling for chatbots that have no physical form. And before that falling in love on discord while only knowing a username and pfp. This wouldn't work as well with humans because once you meet in real 3D space your mind could get turned off by the way they look even if you know what they're like on the inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:47 PM
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Yes it's very big in America to not split
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:43 PM
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Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:22 AM
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I don't think libido is the root cause of the urge to propagate. Narrator: "It literally is."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 12:26 AM
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Extinction of humanity except for the ones with a genetic mutation that made them more aggressive to fuck more and have more children. Thus replacing the super low sex drive ones leading us back to where we are now. We are the result of humans who generally like to fuck a lot. The ones who didn't.... Aren't here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 12:25 AM
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Women do not find the majority of men physically attractive either. Of the men that are the most attractive their wholesomeness is orthogonal to their sexual success so they can essentially do what they like. You aren't getting princess treatment from a guy who can fuck 10 girls on speeddial. This was less of an issue 30 years ago but societal changes accelerate our worst behaviors in each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 10:26 PM
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Quality is a subset of attraction in this case so thats not a real answer. The real answer is people are bad at holding two logical conclusions at the same time if it makes them feel bad. Why I don't know. It doesn't bother me the average woman finds most men unattractive. That's just how our biology has always worked. Even in fucking Bonobos. In most mammalian species the vast majority of males in a population are not selected for. Humans aren't any different we just created this thing called s…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 10:23 PM
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Lesbians commit too quickly to someone they aren't compatible with and women in general are harder to please. Add in two people who are simultaneously overeager to commit and hard to please and you get...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 10:16 PM
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Your solution literally prescibes a way to fake being less vulnerable. Some problems have no solution and input from anyone else isn't gonna do shit. Talking about it with some women WILL make them see you more negatively than if you said nothing. Personally I'd avoid those who can't handle any male emotions that aren't pride or anger myself. But being "vulnerable" is inherently about exposing your weaknesses. Which is not as socially acceptable to do as a Man and never will be. It's your life t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 10:14 PM
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My Dad cried once and my Mom was disgusted by it. So sample size of N=1. The term "man flu" also exists for sort of the same reason. If a guy gets sick he's just being a big baby. Ironically that's the reason my dad was crying. He was super super sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 10:11 PM
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Patterns can be observed and then used to your advantage when you figure it out. And human nature isn't actually random. People aren't that special, male or female. We tend to act in very predictable ways. And attraction isn't completely subjective or magical.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:32 PM
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so a guy who is machiavellian is high value because he lies and manipulates women? If a lot of women value him yes. would a violent rapist be high value because he gets a lot of women by physical force? If a lot of women want to be with that violent rapist. Yes. Just look at Chris Brown. Note: this is not an endorsement!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:13 PM
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You need society to tell people not to be promiscuous. Not the other way around. They are capable of doing so naturally. So naturally in fact religions separated by time and space routinely pop up telling humans to avoid aspects of their own nature because when scaled up it can lead to certain problems. Like STDs destroying your entire tribe.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:11 PM
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That's why its step 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:37 PM
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Look better. Talk better. Fuck better. There you go the three pillars of getting laid more. Every man must know his limits and whether his goals are worth trying for.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:32 PM
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Not my type but I always reiterate. "High value" whatever just means how many people value you (outside of their stated preferences). She's conventionally hot so yeah it's easy for me to see how a ton of men find her attractive regardless of whether she could potentially be a crackwhore who spent 20 years in jail for murder. So yeah no shit a billionaire warlord El Chapo type who has murdered thousands of people is "high value" because a ton of women in his country want to marry him. To me being…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:15 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:16 PM
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It's important enough that people will complain if they don't get enough. Like most people are actually not capable of being totally solitary. Im not even speaking intersexually. Just in general. I personally don't care that much but it's trivially easy for me to observe that in general it's kind of important. So to me it seems kind of odd to pretend it's not the case. Or maybe you're mixing an is with an ought.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:11 PM
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Stand by what you said or say nothing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:07 PM
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It's "easy mode" comparatively speaking since you only have to sift through suitors, which is generally the female role vs being the suitor which is generally the male role. Which is simply just how the natural world tends to work anyway, at least at the mammalian level.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:56 PM
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Seems people in general have a hard time relating to experiences they've never personally experienced themselves. Personally, can't imagine it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:48 PM
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Shit test: failed
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:45 PM
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I was just begging them to talk to me and keep trying to say things to get them to become even a little interested back Lol what dude. Not that serious you should know within 5 seconds if a girls interested then just bounce. Wont even remember her face the next day. But I been there. Some nights you take constant Ls. If anything going out is just for the stories. I actually have better success striking up conversations on Friday nights around the Lower East Side since everyones already drunk
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:13 PM
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Got a venmo request from a girl I havent seen in almost 4 years. Forgot to block her there too. But let's have some fun first 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:09 PM
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"Women are attracted to a minority of Men" "The majority of Men are unattractive to Women" Sentences which mean the exact same thing but if you say one vs the other it's fine because one sentence seems to center one group for "blame".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:27 PM
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Dressing better? Talking to more people? Cultivating an active social life? Better grooming? Overall just looking better, being fun to be around, being more appealing to look at and talk to? Impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:22 PM
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There are no guarantees to anything but pretending everything is purely luck with no influence on your part doesn't make sense. All the game, confidence, and looking better does is give you more weight to your dice to better bias it in your favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:19 PM
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A guy who dresses better, works out, starts meeting new people, gets better social skills, and overall works on how people perceive him as a more attractive man is going to do a lot more to "get bitches". The point isn't using the term "get them bitches" which is extremely irrelevant. The point is doing one thing (studying astrophysics) vs another thing (dressing better) is less likely to actually get you more romantic prospects. Some guys don't bother to dress well, make friends, or look good b…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:11 PM
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That I had nice veiny hands
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:42 PM
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I don't take bisexuals serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:25 PM
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https://twitter.com/rahsh33m/status/1730364009524699604 People stage all sorts of stuff like this but I have seen something like this in real life. My boy just used the excuse of trying to find the nearest gift shop in Times Square. They are married now with a kid in tow.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:11 PM
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"High value" just means "highly valued". That's literally it. A guy who gets lots of casual sex is obviously more valued romantically than a guy who can get none. A lot easier to go from fucking to dating and is pretty common nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:55 PM
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Second. Being on a reality show will make it easier to cheat if I want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:51 PM
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Natural doesn't mean "good" or "ideal". Lots of things are a part of the natural order that we as humans try our best to mitigate against.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 06:21 PM
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Makeup routines usually or putting more effort into their appearance. I'm done doing shit to appeal to others in general Then don't. You don't have to do anything and no one else has to do anything either.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 06:19 PM
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Only a minority of straight Men are like that. Why do people here have such a hard time grasping how population distributions work. Individual people != population averages. Yes the person you described is a minority *overall. Anyone can go and find some dude who paints his nails. The average guy isn't doing that though. Id say less than 20% of guys paint their nails in general and its also more prelevant based on specific sub cultures. Like the rave scene for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:33 PM
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Because if these are self reports then people just lie. Like with all self reported anything. Im willing to bet the completely straight group is full of half liars.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:28 PM
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everyone will spot that you are a poser and you will be mocked Not necessarily. Scam artists who get away with it have always and will always exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:24 PM
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"Deserve" is an empty word here. You get what you can get. There is no deserving or not deserving anything. Simple market forces at play.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:21 PM
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The normal way. At least in my experience political views aren't that big of a deal if a person really likes you. Also it's called tact. You don't need to lie but if someone really really is diametrically opposed to your views is a long term relationship viable? Idk. Short term, doesn't matter literally at all, in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:34 AM
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Because gay men don't fuck gay women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:02 AM
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Depends on the woman
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:14 AM
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You're just redefining what potential means and swapping out the definition for a new one to prove your point. Yeah and if we define a cat to be a dog my pussy can bark.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:19 AM
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I dealt with this lack of structure post high school and college by crafting my own purpose in life. Your basic goal is to survive. The rest of the game design is kinda up to you, within reasonable parameters.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:30 PM
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Right so if everyone was equally attractive to everyone else physically (impossible), physical attributes become a non issue outside of extra body modification.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:08 PM
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Do Men who have sex with lots of women and are consistently validated purely for their sexual prowess actually think this way? In my experience, not at all, really. Is this also buttressed by the lack of any super attractive men writing think pieces on being objectified?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:02 PM
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Why is it that gay male bathhouses, the entire circuit queen subculture and glory holes exist and lesbian female ones barely do?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:58 PM
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Can this be solved outside of making everyone look like a carbon copy "objectively" attractive model so peoples looks now become a pointless differentiator?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:45 PM
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But is that actually true? If anything as we make it easier and easier to "upgrade" your looks, not doing so when you have the ability to could give you even less social capital. We now kick the can to poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:43 PM
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Ok so everyone agrees to acknowledge that human beings overall are "shallow" physically. What changes? If you're really ugly facially and fat do you suddenly feel better now that everyone agrees your biggest problem when it comes to finding a partner is because you aren't nice to look at? Great as a society we now acknowledge not everyone who is homeless is that way because they are a lazy drug addict. Does that mean anyone will do anything? No. So what's the goal here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:40 PM
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Took care of her for 2 weeks while she went through an episode. Cooked for her, bathed her, fed her, cleaned her apartment, took care of her dog. Made me a nice picnic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:44 PM
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The critique against online sex work isn't even actually that real women are featured in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:40 PM
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Noble goal if not impossible. We can really only save ourselves
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:38 PM
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With regards to online "sex work" what blame is there to assign that doesn’t boil down to "people are free to do what they like anyway". Unless you were trafficked or coerced literally no one is forcing anyone to or to not sell pictures of themselves. And no one is forcing anyone to or to not buy them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:25 PM
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Not really. It'll either be too extreme in one direction or another. On the topic of height it's not "literally over" it's just the shorter you are the curve under which the population of women finds you attractive gets smaller and smaller relatively speaking. So yes keeping all things equal I will indeed find at least some dudes in the population of 5'2 males who are in relationships, dating, etc. But itll be a small group by proportion compared to all of the 6'2 males.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:00 PM
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Not necessarily. The friendzone is a direct result of not finding you to be a sexual partner. A lot of women are totally fine being emotionally open with someone they have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 08:44 PM
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Smart
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 08:05 PM
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What happens if you both become single at the same time, have a deep emotional connection and find each other sexy.?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 07:56 PM
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Unless this dude is sending flowers to everyone else what about this specific girl makes him want to do that? Hmmm I can't put my finger on it...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:29 PM
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Is anal even more intimate?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:23 PM
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Blowjobs can create a baby?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:22 PM
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This happen to you? Because I can't relate at all
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:19 PM
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You can't consume mercury in moderation without long term nerve damage. You can drink alcohol moderately without altering your life span or damage. And have you drank before? What a basic question. It makes people feel good, puts them at ease, and acts as social lubricant. Not gonna kill you in small doses. But Uranium will. Relax.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:13 PM
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Outside of religious circles it might as well be zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:10 AM
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Personality does. But its not "rubs your feet and bakes your grandma a cake" its "funny and charming, bold, not a pussy". Which you can be an asshole and still pull off. Easier if she finds you easy on the eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:08 AM
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Not that hot but good enough
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:03 AM
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Bingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:26 AM
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Doesn't really matter why. Men seem more possessive in general. Just the average guy thinking his wife fucked some random guy he never met years before enrages some. Unless they're Adam 22. Don't ask Don't tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:43 PM
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Yeah and some women are also 6 feet tall. In general though they aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 09:36 PM
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Masculine polarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 02:33 PM
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Not enough hot guys, not enough money. And we will never have a society where the majority of women like the fact their husband makes the same or less vs if he made way more. Pick one: Men on average make more but there is a larger pool of husbands who make more Women on average make the same/more but there is a smaller pool of husbands who can
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 02:25 PM
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Actually "good people" can end up compromising their morals at anytime under different circumstances. You seem to look at "goodness" as some immutable character trait like we are in a video game and "good people" are always good except when they're not which means they were never good. World doesn't work that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:58 PM
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Obviously. Or is every single adult you've met in your life the paragon of emotional maturity? Lucky!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:47 PM
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You can't fix human nature
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:46 PM
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"Genuine" kindness is completely orthogonal in my point of view. Whether you are "kind" because you'll get something out of it verses being kind for kindness sake is that at the end of the day people can only tell who is bad at it. "I can tell when a person is actually x". No, you can't not really. It's just a selection bias for the times you did tell. In the real world genuinely terrible people can be very popular because they're able to navigate with a very good show at pretending to be good.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 07:32 PM
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Telling a girl to "shut the fuck up already" when she was pissing me off. She actually enjoyed my brief display of visceral anger and respected my ability to finally put her in her place. Whereas beforehand I was overly accomodating. Mean verbiage but in general I'd say being too "nice" is just being a doormat.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 07:28 PM
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When it comes to pure animalistic bumping ugly sex you'd be an outlier. Like statistically we do know that less agreeable, less "spineless" men do get laid more. This says nothing of the quality of their relationships, however, and the metric is purely focused on having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 07:25 PM
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https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6879192/#:~:text=Men%20married%20to%20differently%2Daged,work%20in%20higher%2Dearning%20occupations. It's just a selection effect. Wealthier spouses tended to have met in more age homogenous groups, college, grad schools, law schools, etc. Easy to find a wife within 3 years of your age when you both attended the same school and had class together. And higher education is generally correlated with higher income. Men being bajillionaires and marrying a …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:06 PM
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ShitRedditSays won in the end
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:00 PM
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"glad this could bring you some relief. Gotta love Reddit" Reddit was better 12 years ago when not many [redacted] used it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:52 PM
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Lol. Just lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:30 PM
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There are more hot girls than there are wealthy men so not necessarily. Although in general the hotter you are the more likely it is for you to marry rich
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:30 PM
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It is actually possible to do both? I don't understand the obsession over certain things. You tell someone to "eat healthier" and all of a sudden they need to bomb a Pepsi factory. Someone needs to spend less time jacking off and smoking weed now they need to become a buddhist ascetic living in a cave somewhere. No moderation abilities whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:50 PM
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Yeah instead of pre filtering you just swipe left if you see a height you don't like. Changes almost nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:16 PM
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Something be true or not doesn't hinge on how good or bad it makes other people feel 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:38 PM
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Man like you more likely to get head smashed in by big rock in 50,000B.C. and get all your meat stolen by Grug Grug. Man too nice, man too weak, Gruginas no like as much
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:24 PM
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Nonexistent. I was a popular kid and had a ton of friends male and female. I however was shorter than a lot of girls and very skinny. So no pussy for me despite my popularity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:13 PM
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I only feel bad for a stripper if she's really young or a single mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:12 PM
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I'm here enjoying the decline 😎🏖
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 08:33 PM
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The thing that is harder to obtain as easily is what we consider an accomplishment. Plenty of men can easily get into a stable long term relationship with a woman who doesn't want to fuck them or only uses them as a wallet. Which is why the sex part actually matters. Much harder to get laid while being broke at that point you know she finds you very physically appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 08:23 PM
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I know more broke bois getting laid than dudes with great careers. Money isn't sexy it's at best transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 07:56 PM
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You only need to be at "hes kinda cute i guess" and your personality can take you the rest of the way. I have never really witnessed an actually ugly guy with many girls in real life but it happens. Just so infrequently that it causes an eye roll internally whenever mentioned. You're better off maximizing what you look like FIRST and not wasting your time asking people who are like "my ex was 5'1 and ugly but I still fell for him during our 4 day relationship that happened 40 years ago on a diff…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 07:42 PM
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Half of the reason for working out is to have the physical ability and stamina to turn your bedroom into a Pretzel factory.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 06:18 PM
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Real autism hours if you think a girl who wants you to toss her around in bed requires a consent form first.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 06:16 PM
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Sure and my statement stands. You are only as valued as other people think you are. There's no real objective scale of high low this or that when it comes to sexual reproduction. Is a woman "low value" if she dates drug dealers? Yeah if most people think so. But in reality a lot of men don't even care. Same with being a "slut". Yeah yeah yeah fucking tons of men makes a woman "low value" except in the real world where men don't really care that much and those chicks still get married and cheat a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 06:06 PM
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"Low value"/"high value" are meaningless. In general it may as well be "not that many options"/"many options". An apple that can grant you eternal life might as well be "low value" if no one actually wants it. Marginal Theory of Valuecels vindicated yet again.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 06:02 PM
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I told them all this cringe manosphere theories Why? Lame topic. they are chads in the sense they are happy in committed relationships with awesome women. That's honestly great! But not what people men so just use a different word. Anymore than someone being "wealthy" not because they have lots of money but because they feel very good about life with a good stable job.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:51 PM
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That's a good thing honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:47 PM
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Men are more likely to overrate their attractiveness and their competency because of higher levels of testosterone. These are good things as fortune favors the bold.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:05 PM
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Most people have to settle, compromise, or account for trade offs. But those are what they are. Trade offs. No woman I was with LOVED the fact that I was short, but it wasn't the biggest dealbreaker ever obviously. They definitely wouldn't have complained if I was 5 inches taller though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 02:58 PM
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“if I’m really feelin this guy, what’s wrong with him that other women aren’t” He's too short. At 5'7 he is below the ideal height of around 60-75% of women. That's just an ideal though. The height thing doesn’t matter to me at all. Yeah. Exactly. Doesn't matter to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:49 PM
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I would massively be disappointed if my 18 year old son or daughter did porn. It's the porn part for me not the age. Also hypergamy means a specific thing idk why everyone red pill included just use the word wrong all the time. Hypergamy != fucking someone who is hot but I digress
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:32 PM
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You only have so many hours in the day. If he spent a lot of time focusing on his career, schooling, and non romantic life then yeah he might be alone for periods of time. He's 5'7 which isn't crazy small but it's short enough that every guy I knew at that height never effortlessly got women. Always took way more work. Sometimes more than it was worth. Lol but thinking there might be a red flag when literally all this guy did was be single and not fuck hoes is so dumb and unsurprising hahaha.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:26 PM
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Beautiful girls are still getting dick they're just not showing him off
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 07:03 AM
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Don't go out to eat unless she ate you first. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 07:00 AM
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Drugs are bad mmkay
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:53 AM
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Tinder like all technology just allows you to do whatever you wanted to do just easier. The platform doesn't matter. Not like people 70 years ago needed the internet to know how people act in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 01:49 AM
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Well not doing so doesn't mean you're lying unless she asks. Not like you need to inform her of your last bowel movement too. Pushing her out of her comfort zone? Just how do you expect her to react dude? Wow thanks for letting me know some girl just sucked your dick we still on for dinner at six?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 11:10 PM
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Right now my plan is to tell the girl I’m talking to now that I was offered sex by another women. Uh...why?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 11:06 PM
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Weight filters used to be a thing in the og og days. They aren't anymore because women would get mad. That's about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:00 AM
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The red pill is just what everyone already knew like 40 years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 01:47 AM
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Every guy has a subset of women who are naturally attracted to them off the jump purely based on their phenotype. What matters is how many women of those exist, how practical it is to meet them, and whether you like them too. For some guys they appeal to a ton of women because they're conventially hot. Some guys have very niche appeal. Some guys appeal to 10 girls on the face of the planet and all of those women are blind.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:33 PM
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"Oh man there's this extremely beautiful woman who looks like a literal 9/10 yeahhhh idk if i wanna date her lets wait 8 months first and just have sex while she also fucks other guys too". If you're super hot guys wanna lock that shit down asap unless they also bag like 3 other super hot girls at the same time
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:30 PM
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100% although girls always considered me "cute" facially. I didn't start getting laid until I started lifting weights, dressing better, and getting nice haircuts. Linear correlation for me between more muscle mass and more fatty ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:26 PM
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I schedule dating locations to be the most logistically pragmatic with respect to my apartment. I also always pick her up and make an effort to do so. Not really for her sake necessarily but because it makes it easier to just go back to my place. Sometimes we go to my apartment first and she might leave something there so we definitely have a reason to go back. We both know what we're doing but the subtext and subtlety is how humans actually work. Most girls do not really give a fuck about my gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:41 AM
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Dog drilling a 40 year old bored Mom is such good practice for a 21 year old man. They need love too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:46 AM
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Fake, but for the purposes of exposing how douchey the commenters are lol. For all the virtue signaling nonsense about inclusion and diversity we seem to have an extreme blind spot for the "neurodiverse". Anxious? Agoraphobia? Autism? Fuck you! In any case we need to accelerate this "no one owes anyone anything"-world, which is fine, but don't be surprised when no one owes anyone anything including politeness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:45 AM
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Sure that will be $500/hr.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:42 AM
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All that it takes is not being misogynistic Yeah not really this is completely irrelevant. This is like saying "drink water". Not that women literally like a guy who is "misogynistic" although we can split hairs on what that even means in certain contexts, but like, in reality, "not being misogynistic" is not the biggest plus or minus to a guys dating life. Anymore than drinking water. Though you should because if you don't you could die, which would make dating hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:40 AM
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Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:37 AM
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I miss dakru. I can't remember the brief conversation we had like years ago but he was a really smart guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:30 AM
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And my first year after divorce Telling women you were divorced is very different than telling them you literally never had a girlfriend. You realize you getting married in the first place then divorcing is way more positive than if you said you were never able to get married? That's why.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:27 AM
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It's because he makes cute drawings, it's like dangling keys in front of a baby. It sort of reconfirms things people tend to already know about certain aspects of gendered human nature but we pretend isn't real for whatever reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:25 AM
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jammerly or atlas
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:18 AM
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Short term mating: Women. Long term mating: Men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:16 AM
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That's for each person to decide. You guys are way too black and white on so many things. Also just because women generally like older guys doesn't mean you're gonna be like 37 and killing it with 25 year old women. I mean you could but you're probably already attractive to many women already. If you had loads of trouble dating and are still pretty "average" I don't really see a guy hitting his 30s and getting lots of attention although in general I do see guys get more attention than they got b…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:15 AM
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my age (39) Uh yeah that's why dude lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:10 AM
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It's crazy how dihydrogen monoxide and water are both able to quench your thirst
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:09 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7rgXgANHrhk Honestly the reason why content creators like these blow up so fast is because they tap into the lived experiences of too many people who went through the same. And I say that as someone who's experiences are able to differ quite a lot but have the theory of mind to understand how it could be like that. So stuff like this is never confusing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:41 PM
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Evo psych has no real explanatory power as to WHY the cognitive differences evolved that way. But evo psych opponents lump in obvious differences we can observe in multiple different societies across time and space that are clearly sub cultural and therefore biological as "evo psych" when it's just psych.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:05 PM
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Yeah people lie. All the time. Sometimes they don't even realize they're lying. Anyone else born yesterday?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:02 PM
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Well I mean it happens in real life. To what degree I don't know but most people don't become expats anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:44 PM
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If you turn off css styling you see the normal downvote button. I personally never downvote, I like the css, Im too lazy, and don't care enough
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:43 PM
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Think of it like sales. If you think the product you are selling is crap, automatically think the buyer won't like it, already think no one will ever buy do you think you're gonna sell more than the person who thinks it's the best in the world (regardless of whether thats true or not)?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:41 PM
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Generally better since I didn't psyche myself out of a potential yes who was waiting for me to say something but would never make the first move. Never taking a shot might as well be an auto miss.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:37 PM
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Lame
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:22 PM
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Stuff like this happens all the time. Ive been both guys in the scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 10:45 PM
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It was honest and hurtful (because it made her feel bad). Guy was just dumb enough to actually be too honest. Yeah no shit when she was uglier and fatter he wouldn't have dated her. Complete goober for saying that out loud. You get no points for telling the truth. Just lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 09:27 PM
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Dude 1 is boring and sounds like he's not even trying to get laid whereas Dude 2 is. Put dude 2s brain in dude 1s body and watch what happens. Put dude 1s brain in dude 2s body and he'll get laid even less.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 05:47 PM
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Proper discernment is key. Just know too many guys who argue with their wife (while being completely correct) and are confused as to why she reacted a certain way. What did you expect. Understand womanese and speak manglish.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 05:18 PM
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Some things are better left unsaid. There's more ways to communicate than literally info dumping the contents of your mind with absolutely zero tact or theory of mind. "Hey honey I had a dream I fucked your friend and you at the same time. Im do glad we are 100% honest with each other all the time no matter what"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 05:06 PM
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I can't read reddit sometimes it gets so painful. Bro you're 28 years old. Grown ass man at this point. These are like 19--25 year old mistakes. All over a 23 year old you met 2 weeks ago. Unreal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 04:57 PM
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https://twitter.com/Trossardinho1/status/1720793972182810652 Here's an example of a person who can be considered Ugly. Not average, not below. Like actually ugly. With those hands he probably can pull though. Man has almost chimp like arms
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 03:41 PM
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I can be friends with a girl and find her sexy. If she asked Id be down but it's not like im pursuing it. Her company is enough
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 03:36 PM
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It depends how you slide.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 03:35 PM
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There are a percentage of women out there who are viscerally attracted to your features from the jump. Being hot just moves that needle higher and higher. Yes you would be good enough for "social circle game", Ideally though at least to me you get much wider options the more handsome and less boyishly cute you are. Unless you're trying to attract teenyboppers. But I would say being cute keeps you in the game. Id rather be considered cute than just neutral or ugly. "He's kinda cute" = There's a c…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:52 PM
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It means you're not actually "ugly". Gay Men are paradoxically even more discriminating when it comes to looks while also being less discriminating when it comes to hooking up. You are at the very least "cute". Which isn't bad by any means but on dating apps unless you're hot as fuck you might as well be kind of ugly. But men and women don't think the same anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:42 PM
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Your ability to obtain and retain muscle mass is genetic. Also chicks do like athletic physiques which you obtain by...doing...athletic...things.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:34 PM
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Also some men will fvck anything! I've literally had dudes tell me they're only type is "girl", period! Yeah which is why there are looser beauty standards in women by men. They simply don't care as much. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:32 PM
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AI chat bots. AI girlfriends/boyfriends. Shits already here
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 02:39 AM
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You're too slow that's why
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 02:31 AM
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Rian stone
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:54 AM
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Drive me places, buy me food, crash at her apartment, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:51 PM
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Bro wtf this is so gross and weird lol they sound so lame im ngl. Bringing shame to the family. If this was a girl I could understand. Sort of.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:27 PM
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No woman who is banging a complete neanderthal himbo idiot is saying "I just love the fact that he has the emotional intelligence of a grape".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:55 PM
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The average person has no idea how juicy most actors and athletes are. Which is bad because people think all these sauced physiques are even remotely attainable naturally when they just arent.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:52 PM
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OP: "I used to feel bad about other people getting good jobs but now I feel happy for them" Therapist: "That's great dude! We've made progress! How is the new job treating you as well?" OP: "The what now?"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:50 PM
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The initiated know the ego inflation that comes with a guy pulling a baddie just one time. It's like the super soldier serum for your confidence. Lol fake it till you make it my left asscheek. Once you made it you know you can and will do it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:48 PM
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Half of my family is
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:28 PM
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Perfect recipe for never being able to close the deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:17 PM
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Mandems funny innit 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:16 PM
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It makes more sense to be rich and ugly than hot and poor. In 50 years you can just buy good looks with enough money. I forsee a period in time when everyone above a certain networth will look like modern models with perfect features. This will then devolve into the ultra wealthy trying to look "uglier" the way rich kids now dress in poverty chique.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:33 PM
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Someone who falls for someone and ends up getting abused is "mentally challenged". Yeah ok 👍. Lets tell all the women in battered shelters they were just complete retards. I got a new anti domestic violence slogan. "It was your fault you fucking dumb slut!". Genius.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:14 PM
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The "tEsT" is just them passing his standards lmao. Also who cares if someone wants someone who is physically attractive. He just said "beautiful". Ok big whoop, wow ick. Lets be fucking for real right now bro. Everyone wants someone they find "beautiful", subjective or otherwise. Also mans a centi millionaire. Nothing he said here was even remotely problematic compared to the vitrol in the comments. People are losing their minds over the dumbest shit now
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:09 PM
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People were flaming her because she's not hot. Yet if she looked like a smokeshow this would just be another cute tiktok couple. Humans are so full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:13 AM
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This always ends up being a just world fallacy type thing because if what you're saying is true no good person ever would end up in an abusive relationship anddddd that shit happens all the fucking time...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:10 AM
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I was around your age when I first started posting on PPD. Ah the good old days.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:53 PM
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All im saying is my collection of Nike Dunks is getting buried with me along with my first Gamecube. She can keep the modded xbox 360 and 200 burned games.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 08:00 PM
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I never understood the bellyaching around prenups. It's not signifying you are expecting to get divorced. It's laying some architecture as to what happens if that worst case comes to pass. If that's the point then yeah a prenup already exists, it's called whatever your future lawyers/the government decides. At least in this case you guys can hash it all out beforehand without the potential emotional baggage or vindictiveness. No one thinks about what happens if their car crashes when they're try…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 07:54 PM
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Wetin b dis nonsense? sucks teeth
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 06:39 PM
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Change absolutely nothing besides becoming famous so your face is seen by millions of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 06:23 PM
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I still do
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:02 PM
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FDS for black chicks, sort of.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:43 PM
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If you could take a pill that permanently locked your looks at a certain age what would it be. I would choose 28.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:27 PM
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Typical
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:22 PM
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Never met a super hot girl or a hot guy who hates men and vice versa women. May not take them super seriously but no hate. They were treated too well and don't have a litany of bad experiences to have an axe to grind. Every misandrist or outright malevolent misogynist was just kinda ugly or had something terrible happen to them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:24 PM
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Yes mens and womens sexual attraction works differently but mens isnt any more or less pure just because guys need less context to fuck. Men don't get pregnant. Women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:15 PM
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I think no one actually cares that much about this or else they'd raise the age of consent to like 25 or something. An 80 year old woman with the body and looks of a 22 year old would be hot as fuck too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:11 PM
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They aren't lying they just don't know they're not even telling the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:07 PM
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0th world problems lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:05 PM
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👑💪
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:13 PM
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She kept using your instead of you're and it actually became a massive turn off. I asked my friends if they thought that was weird. It's crazy I never knew I had icks like that but it would continue to bother me. George Constanza level.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:28 AM
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He's only 22. If he is a combination of really facially ugly + short + neurotic it will be very difficult for him but not impossible. The feedback loop of feeling defeated is what will kill his chances. I understand where he's coming from. Personally because he's talking like this I don't think he has the mental character or what it takes to become a "good looking guy" that can easily have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:01 PM
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I need to see a picture of this guy because honestly so many blackpilled dudes just look normal as shit. Just have negative sub zero game and are overly neurotic or try to talk to women like they're men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:46 PM
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Tell doja cat that i wanna indulge in that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:42 PM
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Cmon I can think of at least one thing which would be good to shame people for.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:41 PM
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Money is not that important when it comes to getting laid. You should make money for your own sake. Trying to get rich to appeal to women is absolutely the most fucking stupid shit I've ever seen in my life. Who do you think the bored wives of rich guys who work 80 hours a week cheat with. The richer guys working 100 hours a week? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:18 PM
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taps sign Individuals != Population level averages
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:29 PM
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I have in fact it's a running joke now how some of the hottest girls we knew in high school ended up marrying guys who look NOTHING like their ex boyfriends. Boyfriends being tall hot jocks. Husbands are short, kinda fat, shlubby looking. What do all these husbands have in common? Extremely well paying jobs! Hey get it how you live it I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:31 PM
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Generalized male sexual strategy by looking at the average differences between men and women and what they generally respond to in certain situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:12 AM
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Lower class signaling. Like face tats.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:22 PM
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Being old kind of sucks. Savor your youth, energy and lack of real life problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:18 PM
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"Is it okay if I touch you here, are you okay is this ok 🥺👉👈" "🙄😒🏜"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 08:43 PM
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Me saying "can I kiss you 🥺" was cool and all when I was like 17 years old. After enough experience you should already know what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 08:39 PM
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Says who, God? What's a real man anyway besides an adult human male. Would make more sense to replace "Real" with "Good", at least then it's more clear as a moral modifier.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:28 PM
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There isn't an equal distribution of these things along with their relative frequency. Anytime I meet a middle to upper middle class white girl who's afraid of getting murdered or kidnapped my eyes roll very far back into my head. Like relax Becca you come from a sleepy town in the middle of PA not the south side of philly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:10 PM
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The study was controlling for people who are already having sexual encounters. And being a feminist has basically nothing to do with how often you get your dick sucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 09:19 PM
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You sound like a complete pussy so I'm not surprised your ass was getting bullied like this...10...years ago. You've learned literally nothing bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 09:11 PM
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If you took the extremes then yes it is clearly easy to see more men who are disagreeable and violent have more success with women than their complete polar opposite. Some of whom post here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 09:08 PM
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It's not apps It's the internet. Every app is a dating app if you can exchange messages and pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 09:06 PM
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Of course you can be hot in your 30s. And your 40s and your 50s. It's just unlikely a person is gonna continue to get physically hotter the older they get. We don't have an entire beauty industry around preserving features associated with youth because we think looking 40 is better than looking 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:21 PM
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My friend started crying over the situation in Palestine. He's a very empathetic person and honestly extremely soft for better or worse. It's good that he cares but it's always some new issue he feels bad about. Dude you have real life problems you ignore but spend so much mental energy over situations you can't control and constantly watch and read things that upset you. Maybe don't fill your head with images of dead kids all day then wonder why you feel like shit? I think all that stuff sucks …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:01 PM
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Still telling on yourself. Like when guys say women dont cook for them or clean for them or buy them things. No no women definitely do that just not for most guys. Become a guy women do that for if you want it so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:57 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:30 PM
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They want guys who have a ton of options and don't want to settle down. They're annoying as fuck. You know when you aim higher and higher the game changes. At your high school you may have been the best sprinter. At your college you may have been one of the best. At your recruitment trial you find yourself in the bottom 50% of all recruits. Only gets more competitive. This is NYC. How many influencer type chicks want to date some guy with an average job who looks good. How many rich, talented, f…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:16 PM
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Because my 17 year old sister sends them to me
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:00 AM
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That shit looked intentional. Doesnt this dude who hurt the guy have a history of recklessness. Feel for the family.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:59 AM
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I mean obviously lol. The only tall athletic dudes I knew who couldn't get pussy had extreme mental issues, low self esteem, or super small penises leading to the first two. Only reason anyone knew about the small dick thing was because some girl blabbed and it spread on campus and dude got known as weiner baby dick. Small school though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:54 AM
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https://twitter.com/markusshussle/status/1718665761747538319 Don't post your dirty laundry on the internet but stuff like this always reinforces my belief "She has most likely fucked a guy uglier than you"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:50 AM
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Just did the first link told me it's a meaningless ad-hoc description. Blame google not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:39 PM
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Meth
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:37 PM
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Is this Zherka guy another loud mouth retard streamer
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:37 PM
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This is a cheat code. Just do the opposite of what this list tells you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:08 PM
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Yes with the assumption that she's gonna cheat eventually with her coworker.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:06 PM
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Isnt Mike o Tren gay
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:07 PM
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I laughed
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:49 PM
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You can and will be sexualized no matter what you do so it doesn't really matter. People sexualize women in burkhas or even feet. Lets be real.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:48 PM
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This is like trying to solve a headache by shooting yourself in the face. And no it wouldn't work. You are already seeing the effects of male productivity crashing when its libidinal energy is just directed at nothing. Now imagine it not existing at all. You have no economy. You think guys with zero drive and aggression are the ones working on oil rigs or 100ft in the air repairing energy lines? Guys with zero aggression are sitting at home laying around. Low testosterone means hard work doesn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:47 PM
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You still have to talk to girls even if you're jacked. But even then having muscle mass is good for your health and longevity. Just resistance training in general twice a week is pretty good. No one says you gotta win the Arnold Classic. Also avoid PEDs. Not worth it unless your body is making you money.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 03:43 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 03:17 PM
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In real life A is never a real girlfriend just a fuck buddy. Guy will just cheat on B with A
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 03:16 PM
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Internal contractor for a 3 letter agency. KFC.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:44 PM
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It is useless because it doesn't mean anything. It's like saying "breathe air" in order to pass a job interview.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:38 AM
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How the fuck is this gonna get some dude a "virgin". If you want a girl that's a virgin then move to Saudi Arabia. This isn't 1450 A.D. that shits not real anymore after age 19. And if you happen to meet a virgin who is 30 years old guess what. She doesn't like sex at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 10:28 PM
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If you want to date online make an ig profile and look cool at social events then dm the girls who look at your story
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 10:26 PM
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Why would you give a fuck about that at age 27 dude. Only 3?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 09:16 PM
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This is a story of a passport bro who went to sri lanka to rape some girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 07:57 PM
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Say something zany or out there. It helps if theres something stupid in your bio. No compliments just do something that could either flip into a conversation or is actually interesting to read. Also don’t overthink it I literally used to say "I will spit in your mouth, respectfully."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 07:14 PM
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But not really. They're on a decline and Putnam's "Bowling Alone" was a canary's ghost singing on top of a dead coalmine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 06:40 PM
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In sociology, the third place refers to the social surroundings that are separate from the two usual social environments of home and the workplace. Examples of third places include churches, cafes, bars, clubs, community centres, public libraries, gyms, bookstores, makerspaces, stoops, and parks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 06:26 PM
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If the person you're talking to has no social connection to you at all then yeah it counts
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 06:22 PM
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Dude idk what you're getting at I'm simply explaining the correlation between perceived failure and tesosterone levels which has nothing to do with society. You can see the same phenomena in chimps. Not sure what you are saying has to do with what I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 06:21 PM
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Unless someone puts a gun to your head you can walk away at any time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 06:07 PM
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Losing a lot and failure is correlated with lower testosterone levels so it becomes a bad feedback loop if you are constantly exposed to negative stressors. Winners continue to win more and the losers find it easier to keep losing so they stop trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 05:55 PM
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Nah im not gay but if you're into that you should just find a guy. There's a few out there waiting to be approached for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 05:32 PM
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Actually at least one human has thought that so by definition a single counter example disproves your claim. Lol why do you guys always tell on yourself like this
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 05:30 PM
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You're puppy zoned. That's even worse. So much worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 05:23 PM
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"Aww"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 05:19 PM
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She looks fine. The 3D model looks way worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 04:54 PM
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Are we doing cold approach stories today. Once me and my bud approached two friends. My friend starts talking to the one girl, and I open my mouth to speak to the other. I let out a "H..." followed immediately by her saying "Yeah no thanks 😒🙄" and her whipping out her phone while we just stood their awkwardly while our friends hit on each other. My friend and her friend exchanged phone numbers and I pissed the friend with the phone off by saying "You suck as a wingwoman idk what she sees in you"…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 04:45 PM
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Your chance of matching is even worse in an environment where she only have 5 slots meaning the "meh maybe" guys aren't even in that pool. What it does mean is if you do end up matching she's probably more interested than normal. If. You end up matching.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 04:39 PM
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So basically you create a scenario where a guy can only talk to one girl at a time and she can only talk to 5 guys at a time? Why would I as a guy want to download this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 04:33 PM
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It's those guys in Sales. Every fucking time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 04:20 PM
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I had one roommate who basically was an animal. All he wanted out of life was to fuck girls and play video games. Completely average looking dude but literally just made it a mission to always hit on any girl he thought looked good enough to him. He just simply did not care. Him being "obsessed with sex" is actually the reason why he was always trying to date even through dry spells. Ended up with a girlfriend he really liked that he didn't even cheat on. First time for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 04:12 PM
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As a guy you do realize not having a high sex drive (SEX DRIVE, not jerking off drive) is a reason you don't want to expend lots of energy to meet women in real life to have sex with. Never met a dude who really wanted to fuck who judt gave up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 04:01 PM
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Those guys are legitimately a combination of really ugly, short, low sex drive, low initiative and of poor mental constitution. Not even bad people but they aren't red blooded enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:54 PM
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It says they actually know their audience
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:22 PM
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I would stop smoking it if I were you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:21 PM
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Girl don't you have homework to do or gym class to skip grown ups are talking.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:00 PM
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https://twitter.com/whotfisjovana/status/1718412685807690077 Posts like this must also confuse guys who weren't exposed to a lot of women or never had a bunch of sisters. For all the bellyaching out there one common thing I found was girls were way more into horror movies than guys were. I never knew why. I now understand why and its the same reason girls think serial killers are hot. Low grade hybristophilia. Which to me isn't even a disorder if it's purely a fantasy. That's actually totally no…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 02:57 PM
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Humans are wired a certain way. It eez what it eez. Doesn't bode well for anyone who legitimately believes society needs 50/50 gender parity in certain fields or statistics. Not happening. Yesterday, today, tomorrow, or ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 02:48 PM
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Because everyone has a common enough experience of knowing a woman exaggerating her pain or distress for attention or just straight up lying. And its common enough that you can read ancient greeks making fun of it. Unfortunately this affects the women who are telling the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 02:28 PM
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See what I mean lol. The joke is the OP texted his friend to call him with a fake emergency so he could leave as soon as he finished having sex. And all the quote tweets are people basically saying they've all tried to donthe same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 02:25 PM
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No it's 50,000 BC with a veneer of civility and more advanced technology due to an abundance of energy and food.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 01:53 PM
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https://twitter.com/CarlWinsHigh/status/1718431329325346983 Threads like these must be so foreign to people on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 01:50 PM
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You could start a war or release a disease that kills almost 20% of the population. That's what we used to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 01:34 PM
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Yeah not really. They aren't thinking about this at all actually. Guys who AREN'T fucking her feel bad because she is literally fucking everyone else besides him so he must really suck! The guys who already hit are like "whatever still beat tho 🤷‍♂️" and the guys who fall for her after fucking are mad they because you know they really liked her personality OUTSIDE of the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 01:26 PM
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Create a narrative. Enotional spikes up and down like a rollercoaster. Perception is everything. I disagree with your first sentence though. Some of the biggest successful dudes I know where dumb as bricks they were just very handsome and fun to be around. Didn't think too much about any of this and honestly didn't understand much of anything at all
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 01:12 PM
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Hating women for acting like women and not men is like getting mad your cat doesn't bark.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:25 PM
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You sound like your sex drive is really low and you don't give off the red blooded energy that would fold her like a pancake in bed. You'd make a nice pet though. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:13 PM
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Because too many people bullshit each other by pretending your successes or failures have to do with you "being a good person". Yeah and my rich neighbor has lots of money and wealth because he's just a nicer person than everyone else. Anyone want to buy the Brooklyn Bridge from me? Half off.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:11 PM
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One struggle being I fucked some guy I really like and he doesn't like me back but I want to keep fucking him and I'll stop fucking him unless he promises to be exclusive but he just left and fucked other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:04 PM
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Having a scumbag ex is a deal breaker. Nice and boring will make you a retirement home for all her shitty dating drama and you won't even get your dick sucked like the last guy. FUCKKK THATTTTT
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:01 PM
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On a long enough time scale the truth is its own witness. TRP talking points basically won because they match more guys lived experiences than not. Especially compared to 10 years ago. Enjoy the ride.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 11:30 AM
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Of a certain race and culture. All the clear spectrum guys Ive ever worked with who were incredibly competent but couldn't understand social cues whatsoever were all married by 36. Forgetting the money thing aside they tended to have Rabbis. If you get what Im saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 09:10 PM
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Ratio doesn't work like that in real life. Autism is not a coin flip with 50% of autistic people being male. There are more male autists than female ones even when accounting for diagnoses.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 09:06 PM
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Because people here have autism and need an entire Principia Mathematica to prove 1+1=2 for basic social interactions
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 09:04 PM
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I like dark haired girls because of Shego
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 04:35 PM
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What's the opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 04:31 PM
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Of which peoples personal experiences come into play sometimes. But I still think banning minors from the sub makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 04:30 PM
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Robert Goddard the literal father of rocket engineering was inspired to develop machines that could travel to space because he read H.G. Wells. Jeff Bezos loved science fiction. We have an entire cohort of scientists inspired to create technology because they liked Star Trek. Why is this so hard to understand lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 04:28 PM
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THANK FUCK
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 04:23 PM
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Some like it some don't up to you to find who can work with ya
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 02:16 PM
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I don't know about literally SEX EVERY DAY but im not gonna complain about a footjob before bed or hot dogging her titties. Cmon babe you don't gotta do nothing just let me work
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 02:11 PM
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Well thats gay
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 01:59 PM
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You gotta be a special kind of retarded to be a dude and marry someone with down syndrome. That's legal?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 01:39 PM
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He's a grown man who is free to do whatever the fuck he wants. His situation isn't ideal and I definitely don't wanna be him. But why don't you DM him and tell him to breakup you obviously know whats best for him. You should suck his dick instead itll be better than what he has now
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 01:23 PM
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Spousal privilege. Useful when committing crime
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 01:22 PM
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You sound cute
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 01:21 PM
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Looks british
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:50 PM
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Lol I DID have a girl ask me how many chicks I had been with becsuse I was coming across as WAY too polite and inexperienced. I wasn't even a virgin but I could count the number of times I had sex on one hand by that point. Plus literal virgins will fumble questions like these "Are you seeing anyone else" "So what was your ex like" "What would you do to me"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:48 PM
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It's just a lot easier now to get a 60 body count due to the internet. Pareto distributed of course
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:45 PM
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Look dude guys lucky just to get A girl in general. Let him live. If he wants her to whip him while dumping a box of cheerios on his head singing Old McDonald guy will do it. Or he could be single again for another bazillion years lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:41 PM
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I notice how much of a piece of literal garbage the person who takes a photo of a random person minding their own business so they can make fun of their features on the internet. And I don't even know what they look like!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:29 PM
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Pretty low bar for "depravity" lets be level headed here and no one said anything about cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:31 PM
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They were too ugly, too lame, too tame, and didn't get enough early positive experiences to make them confident enough to keep trying. Like every late bloomer I ever met. Ex coworker just never had a girlfriend until 34 while being a super awesome guy at 6'2 because the man was just too fat. Lost some weight and bam he's married. Took him long enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:58 PM
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I hate gender roles and definitely fit more outside the male one but growing older has ultimately taught me I succeed more by adhering to them. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:14 PM
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You're thinking of poppers. That's different.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 01:18 PM
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Peggings definitely on a spectrum somewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 01:06 AM
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They could have separate partners too. Even kids. Possibilities are endless!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 12:29 AM
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Alternative to 3 is being dangerous. Like you don't want to fuck with this guy dangerous. I have literally never met a short violent dude who wasn't getting ass. And not incel shooting up a school violent. More like knocking someone the fuck out for looking at them wrong or defending their friend and proving their mettle.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 12:15 AM
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Some guys trying to date some super young girl is a tale as old as gilgamesh. I personally don't care one way or the other. He (Woo) just shouldn't complain or care if other people don't approve or she's too annoying and immature. Foolish to get a dog and lose your shit when it barks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 10:02 PM
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Find a fat girl and offer her a ham and cheese
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:21 PM
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Nothing wrong with being delusional. There's a good chance a girl you meet has fucked a guy uglier than you especially if shes a hoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:02 PM
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You can cry as a Man. No one has to respect you or give a single fuck if you do though. Outside of a few cases with a few people no ones gonna see a grown man crying in public and try to console him. They'll be disturbed and move away. That's life
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:57 PM
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I've met more "i just wanna get my dick wet 😈" guys with more dating success than "i really want a girlfriend 🥲" guys and it's kind of obvious to me why.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:53 PM
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I knew a few guys who only had female friend groups. Most of whom he hooked up with already.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:49 PM
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I remember going on a date once with this 40 yo woman when I was 23. I also had a baby face so I might as well have looked 18. We definitely got weird looks from the table next to us. Especially since they were a black couple and I am black and she is white. They could not stop looking at us. It was a fun time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:21 PM
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Context?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:14 PM
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One reason being the link between autism and being transgender https://www.npr.org/2023/01/15/1149318664/transgender-and-non-binary-people-are-up-to-six-times-more-likely-to-have-autism#:~:text=People%20who%20are%20transgender%20or,who%20live%20at%20this%20intersection. Men are more likely to be autistic even when controlling for diagnoses.f
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:14 PM
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Yes, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 06:58 PM
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A fool and his money are easily departed. I'd be so disappointed my Dad was such a clown. More respect if he just doused it in gasoline and threw a cigarette on the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 06:57 PM
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And in that guys mind he's thinking "I wish she was less fat". People can choose to be with someone even if they don't find everything ideal. Whether it's enough to break up over is a different story. If someone craved excitement but found me safe and boring the relationships gonna be dead pretty soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 05:27 PM
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Lol most women are not going to consider it sexual assault that their boyfriend or husband slapped their ass let's be real. Even if they didn't like it at that moment. A total stranger, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 05:21 PM
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The main issue with getting your first girlfriend at 34 is having no barometer for knowing what it's like when someone really likes you and not knowing what you want/don't want in a relationship. I also believe your type never changes. You just make a conscious decision to find someone like that or not. If your type is hard to find you will end up with someone who isn't by definition and will need to perform more mental gymnastics to be okay with it. But don't complain after the fact like someon…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:46 PM
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Make it 600k and we can start talking unless she wants us to live in Burundi
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:49 PM
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Two words. Band camp.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:24 PM
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That and working in a restaurant of some type. Everyone's on the same page
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:53 PM
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Name an unlikely job you think makes it easy to get laid. For me it's bodyguard or security. Tangentially related are bouncers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:47 PM
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Depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 08:19 PM
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Isn't sociopathy overrepresented amongst CEOs, highly paid Lawyers, and Surgeons?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 07:15 PM
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Im not a cut off my nose to spite my face type of person so I believe no one should be drafted.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 06:39 PM
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The ones who liked me a lot paid at least half or would pay next time and the ones who didn't like me that much didn't have a problem with me paying all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 06:38 PM
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Because its a dumb question and if it's high enough you'll find out anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 05:21 PM
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How come people never just take some advice, try it out, see if it works, keep doing it if they like it and then stop if it doesn't work or they don't like it. Why does everything have to be a religion to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 04:38 PM
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https://www.rianstone.com/blog/menarenthappy Also it's obvious why he changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 04:35 PM
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https://www.rianstone.com/blog/menarenthappy Also it's obvious why he changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 04:35 PM
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This is stupid as fuck but if it is real how exactly is the dude losing here? He's jacked now and no longer has to have dumb debates about cartoon characters
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 04:33 PM
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Lately there have been small arguments related to our clashing opinions. Most of them being about how some animated female characters were treat by men (Korra from LOK; Princess Bublegum from adventure time; Mabel Pines from Gravity Falls This is so fucking retarded I hope this is fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 04:31 PM
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Lost her virginity? Bro thats just r*pe.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:26 AM
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Wtf are you Nigerian too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:23 AM
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Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:22 AM
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We used to call it eggs and sausage back in the Navy. Full plate stuffer. Fold em like an IHOP pancake with a side of two hard boiled eggs, a sausage link, and a nice glass of milk.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 10:41 PM
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Guys caring about BIG DICK ENERGY as a phrase is SMALL DICK ENERGY because everyone knows dick size is never used to evaluate anyone at all. Ever. We made that shit up in the 90s. In fact having a small dick works much better for anal. No one ever needs a dick at all if you're getting fucked in the arse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 10:37 PM
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Its not that deep. No one cares about women and children yapping their mouths off. Actual revolutions happen when a critical mass of men want things in society to change not when women cry a lot. That's why frustrated men are scary and not frustrated women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 10:24 PM
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Well no one cares so it won't change. Bodyshaming personally isn't my thing. I just don't take anyone who shames dick size or labia size or being ugly seriously. It's childish to me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 10:17 PM
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No one cares about children or puppies complaining either. They can't do anything except complain, they aren't remotely dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 10:13 PM
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They don't really "respect" you more just because you have a large dick. In general there are a lot more women who are into massive dongs (size queens) than there are women into small dicks. In general we all know what a larger penis is supposed to signify. It's called your "manhood" for a reason. Having a smaller dick sucks and everyone knows why. Pretending you don't know why we make fun of it is very stupid. Like pretending you don't know why people call someone broke as an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 10:09 PM
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Because people find it to be a bad thing. Hard to insult someone for something people find to be a good thing. Is it weird that it's very hard to insult a guy by saying "You're such a loser who has a big penis, a hot wife, and tons of money! Ha looooserrrr!". Yeah doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 10:05 PM
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You as a guy are free to choose any girl you like. No one's putting a gun to your head if you don't want to wife up an ex party girl and you yourself never partied
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 07:44 PM
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What about when you look in the mirror? 🥁
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 05:25 PM
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Not necessarily. But I would say it's a selection thing. Guys who are more likely to experiment with drugs or hang around those circles are 1.) More social. Duh you gotta leave your house and hang around people to get a plug 2.) Higher in openness and novel experiences and less fearful. Never met a xanhead who was afraid to talk to a girl. Never met a dope dealer who was an incel. Never met a coked dude who was afraid of rejection 3.) Around more girls who are also higher up on these spectrums. …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:05 PM
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Ah the fried ice problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 04:49 PM
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50 shades of grey is one of the most popular series ever because most women fantasize about being a billionaire astronaut warlord who makes a young average looking man with nothing going for him, her sex slave.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 04:18 PM
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Women say all sorts of things based on how they feel at that moment there's not really a framework to it based on first principles or anything. A mans worth is just how he makes her feel. If you were gay your looks would count even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 04:16 PM
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CHIRP CHIRP CHIRP CHIRP
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:46 PM
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Call me a weirdo but I'm more attracted to a super hot 38 year old than a super hot 28 year old. Granted hot at 38 is a lot more rare than hot at 28.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:39 PM
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https://twitter.com/imbethmccoll/status/1228459983064436736 Unemployed guys fuck the most in my experience. They have the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:34 PM
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100% serious you need a tripod, an iPhone, some wigs, and lube.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:14 AM
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Probably 1-2 years left before the internet is completely unusable. Governments will probably need to issue an online id or something to prove you're human.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 10:53 PM
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Talking points that were denied like years ago won ultimately. I still remember the sub at 2k subscribers
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:39 PM
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Patriarchy is when a small minority men are incentivized to obtain and gain lots of power over a large majority of people and then a bunch of men who are homeless or broke are blamed for sending people to war.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 07:09 PM
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We live under anarcho patriarchy which is even worse than patriarchy which is worse than actual Patriarchy patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 07:06 PM
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Your capacity for evil is measured by agency. People are less threatened by someone they see as weaker and needing of more protection. The wider implications of this are extremely obvious though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:58 PM
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You could be locked in a 10x10 cage with a treadmill, a pull up bar, being fed milk, potatoes, and a multivitamin and you would survive a long time. Most things aren't biological needs. Sex drive exists on a bell curve it's very easy for someone on the low end to not care while someone on the higher end basically wants to fuck all the time like they're sneezing. You're an old man now no one's expecting your dick to work like it did when it was 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:23 PM
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https://www.tiktok.com/@akhvenainen/video/7291976749624184095 This guy is a total loser but the reason girls don't just block guys who are bothering them is basically for clout and the validation I wouldn't think too much of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:14 PM
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Those things are fun because you're breaking the rules. Nothing says lame like your mom telling you to smoke weed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:09 PM
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We can, some won't but your petition was heard. I prefer broads, birds, and chicks myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:53 PM
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That's what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:32 AM
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Is it gay to call your girl friends the "girlies"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:14 AM
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Is that your pisces moon showing 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:10 AM
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I've been stopped by the police walking in the wrong neighborhood but never for that. These guys are just way too neurotic. Might as well keep your car in park because of the small chance you'll get hit by a semi merging on the freeway
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:09 AM
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Just ask them to guess and reply with "that's exactly what a scorpio would say"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:04 AM
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Then the aversion should be for adults hitting on kids not adults hitting on other adults. Thats why it doesn't make sense to me. It only works if you still consider people a kid at a certain age even though they're literally not. Does the aversion go away if you're 90 and a 120 year old is hitting on you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:59 AM
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And if you were that's wrong because you were a child and people shouldn't be hitting on children. Those people are disgusting and evil because they're children. I personally like my women a bit older than me so no I can't relate to hitting on younger women. I however just do not care what adults do. And if what adult means is too big of a deal then change the definition of adult to mean something else. If you got hit on at 5 or 15 thats terrible but I dont care now that you're 22 and being hit …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:43 AM
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Yeah and everyone 50 years old was also 3 years old once. This is stupid. Sex with an 11 year old is pedophilia because they're A KID.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:36 AM
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Someone trying to have sex with you as an 11 year old is a pedophile who deserves to go to jail. When you're 20 it's fair game unless you still have the mind of an 11 year old. The disconnect is one is an adult and the other is a child so I find the equivocation just a little silly that's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:34 AM
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No but I was at 20. Don't really care if a 40 year old gay dude is trying to fuck a 20 year old. I do care if they try to fuck an 11 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:28 AM
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Using an 11 year old child to try and prove a point ultimately undermines it. They're a kid they don't know anything about sex or dating. Hopefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:25 AM
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The content creators were a reaction. Your causality is backwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:22 AM
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Most men are not ugly they're just average. Ugliness like beauty are opposite ends of the bell curve and most people are in the middle.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:50 AM
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Because being short as a girl is cute. "Somehow" lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:29 AM
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My boys Raph, Mikey, and Gabe know I'm good for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 09:51 PM
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The 6 feet thing is a meme based on lower spatial reasoning. It's just tall, not tall, taller than everyone else. It's kind of stupid but I have literally talked to a girl who was 5'1 and she said her boyfriend was "5'6 maybe 5'10?". She literally could not tell. The reason you see the massive jump between 5'11 and 6 on apps is for the same reason. 6 just means "oh tall". You would swear you set your height as 5'9 and some girls will think you are the same height as danny devito when they see it…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 09:40 PM
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Sampling bias
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:43 PM
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As a straight man you don't want her options because her options are other dudes unless you want to suck dick too. You want another guys options. You're in competition with other dudes, not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:41 PM
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It doesn't but that's why some dudes who took that advice to heart get smacked in the face by reality. If you started fucking when you were 14 or had some older bros/cousin teach you the ropes you knew what the score was pretty early. Isn't hard for me to see how someone on the lower end of the sex drive bell curve along with idealistic views about relationships gets very confused by the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:07 PM
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It's not "Here son mommy is teaching you how to get a sloppy top 3000", it's more like if you act like this you will attract a partner. They aren't literally thinking about the sex part because the assumption isn't that you will be celibate with your partner. An older brother doesn literally need to say "Here's how you get laid bro" either, it's "Heres how you get a girlfriend (subtext being you will probably 'get laid'). What's with the density here like we are trying to smack Lead against Uran…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:51 PM
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Yes people assume when they get a girlfriend that this advice is saying they will get if they adhere to it then they will get laid by said girlfriend, yes obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:45 PM
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Ain't that the truth lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:41 PM
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Lol I didn't even catch the high school part. Nahhh bro that is kind of weird cmon. Even if meant innocuously you can see how that would come off.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:39 PM
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You knowingly fucked around with her you ain't exactly blamless here. You were an accessory to it so you can't claim ignorance. If she was going to do it anyway and it was some other guy. Then guess what you wouldn't be blamed!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:34 PM
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Humans have always been humans. Take that as you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:32 PM
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You can be blind sided by someone you completely trusted. False paternities aren't that high but they do happen. The anxieties around it are real but to me most of the guys talking about it aren't even having kids. In the real world it's not a huge concern. On a completely neutral basis, however, I understand the fears involved and don't fault men who want to get one. And I don't fault women for being offended by it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:30 PM
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Yea. Made a friend cause I needed a lighter and we started talking. Cool dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:26 PM
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You can abstract this more generally. Don't take advice from someone who doesn't have your best interest in mind and whose interests aren't aligned with your goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:25 PM
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Record breaking athletes are on PEDs. Like all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:23 PM
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You should always assume anything you send in a text or dm will end up in a group chat or at least seen by someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:20 PM
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They're stereotypically visibly masculine and they're into that. Talkless of their personalities never met a guy who did construction, was an oil rigger or a fire fighter who had a hard time meeting chicks. Stereotypically attractive women tend to pair up with stereotypically attractive men. The scrawny weesh computer nerd with a hot babe are anonalies. I generally have only seen guys with large frames or short jacked guys with super hot girlfriends. But my own experience
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:19 PM
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Ironic name dontcha think
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:30 AM
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Everytime I read about a girl saying money gets her wet I wonder if her panties drip everytime her paycheck drops. Like can we be fucking for real. Your last boyfriend was broke as fuck how are you unable to understand your own internal state and what it actually reacts to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:29 AM
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I am entitled. It's written in my prenup.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:32 AM
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You mean non romantic entity. Many guys like fucking really fat girls they just don't want to go on dates with them or be seen as a couple. It's the reverse of the guys situation. Aka ton of dates but no action.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:30 AM
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Everyone knows that's such bs. A person who wants to cheat is going to even after you provide everything they want from you sexually
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:15 AM
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Confidence is value and morally neutral. No need to add modifiers. It's merely just trusting in yourself or your abilities. You can be a confident person and an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:13 AM
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You don't but none of these things are like super insane. Clumsy flirt big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:05 AM
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Must be a cultural thing, every short hispanic guy I know who is jacked has dated baddies.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:21 PM
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Why would a straight man want to have a romantic relationship with another man?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:12 PM
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Because they think one side is one color and the other side is a different color and they support the one color and don't like the other color. That actually explains a lot of different groups actually come to think of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:11 PM
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I mean at that point what is there to say. The world is the way it is all you can do is add leverage and put your thumb on the scale. I used to be 5'6 130lbs soaking wet. Yeah girls said I was cute and had a lot of female friends but my dating life was bricks until I put on a ton of muscle mass. I still have to try way harder than my taller bros. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:06 PM
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I remember getting rejected once when I was younger because the girl could tell I was inexperienced and it turned her off. By that same token I remember talking to a girl who said she hooked up with every guy in her friend group and I was turned off.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:03 PM
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Short and skinny with the sweetness and build of a pomeranian makes you good enough to fit in a girls purse. Great if you want to get cute pet-zoned. Your boy's 5'7 tell him to eat more and lift weights.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:51 PM
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I always find stuff like that interesting because growing up in a community that actually was dangerous, people there are actually less anxious than these people. When you don't experience real danger on a day to day basis your threat detection fills the void with shadows. Redditors have never seen anyone get stabbed before (which is good!) and it shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:47 PM
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You can be less socially inept by practicing but you have to learn from your experience which involves potentially fucking up and being off putting. This issues only gonna get worse when you have less avenues to practice and more consequences for being awkward even when the stakes are incredibly low. And "Well just don't try to talk to people" isn't a solution either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:44 PM
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None. Men and women aren't the same and aren't afraid of the same things that bother the other. He was persistent while she was disinterested but it was such a banal conversation it doesn't set off my "OMG WTF CREEP" sensor, it set off my "Wow who cares, cash or credit" sensor. But then again, I'm not female so I wouldn't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:39 PM
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Yes, which doesn't contradict the OP. A guy who is used to getting a chick like her is confident because he's reasonably done it before. But the trope has an added observation that guy ends up getting big-headed because they aren't used to this attention from a pretty woman if they do end up together. They do you the worst they can't believe they got you and think they can do better whole time you doing charity work +59 they start feeling their self after a while +32
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:28 PM
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And there's nothing you can do about that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:19 PM
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It's not the "pretending to be nice" it's the "niceness is sufficient and necessary to find a partner" (which it isn't) part.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:18 PM
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(we will say Lisa for privacy) I don't know why this annoyed me. I knew a guy (lets call him Borak Shmobama for privacy) and he ran for president. Wonder what he's up to. Anyway here's a bunch of details about his personal life. For privacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:32 PM
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I mean that's what the tweet means. It's a sentiment I've seen on a few occasions, offline and online.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:25 PM
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That was a gross read.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:36 PM
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If you can bench 225 (not that bench numbers matter), you are 1/1000 people. That's only 2 plates.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:33 PM
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A million aint what it used to be, it isn't the 90s. Invest and save.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:28 PM
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It depends on the context. For short term sex/with people you barely know looks are the primary reason you're hooking up with them. I think another factor here is the population of men that are head turningly hot is a lot smaller than women. Go to a major city in the hip part of town and you can see a fair amount of smoke shows. Most women will usually never walk down the street and see a guy who looks like an Adonis, and most guys will never be friends with one. I had the luxury of having a bud…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:22 PM
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Just be a loveable asshole. No girl really wants a guy whos a complete sociopath unless she is messed up in the head herself. But hearing "Ugh you jerk!! then making her smile and laugh makes my heart sing. Maybe bring her a flower you stole from the neighbors garden after.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:58 PM
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If women find you cute in an "awwww thats so sweet" or a puppy dog kind of way that's not a BAD thing. Personally for me it's not maximally great either if you just want lots of crazy sex but it's much easier to go from generally cute to sexy by just developing a few more things in yourself. Helps as you get older. Being "Husband cute" is nice, but being the "Sexy Husband" is fucking awesome. You gotta try it man. Plus it doesn't mean you become a complete alpha wolf either. You can still be cut…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:43 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:38 PM
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No...no you don't. You don't even realize you don't. There's a reason why a disproportionate number of people who have renounced society to live as ascetics in caves have been men. I dont think the average woman is okay with zero interpersonal contact whatsoever, talkless of the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:36 PM
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Be good because of goodness sake not because of other people. An entire nation of people were in love with a genocidal maniac so being popular in most other peoples eyes means absolute dog shit to me. Hitler was a sex symbol don't take it too seriously. I know being amoral makes absolutely zero difference in getting laid (if anything it makes it easier) but I don't like being amoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:13 AM
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He didn't mention being an asshole but you did
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:10 AM
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Humans are self interested. Sometimes those interests align. Sometimes they don't. We can stop pretending humans are anything more than what they are. George R. Price killed himself because he couldn't handle the true nature of our reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:05 AM
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Dude you have to stop taking nonsense on the internet so seriously. Also why are you letting random anonymous womens words on reddit get to you lmao. Like crying becsuse some kid called you a poopie head. They're women on the internet why do you give a fuck what they think. Same goes for any woman crying over dudes on the internet. Like grow up hahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:58 AM
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"Desire seeks the path of desire, not the path of righteousness. It thrives not on social order but on its negation. This is one reason all religions and societies try to control, contain, limit and re-direct it." - Heartiste
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:07 AM
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As a man you need to become a luxury brand to differentiate yourself. Women don't need a partner to survive and that shit sucked anyway. Where do guys think all the headache tropes came from. Yeah from wives who never truly desired their husbands but had to be with them. And considering some of the old rates of paternal fraud it was easy to see women didn't just stop fucking either. AncestryDNA literally had a disclaimer over stuff like that. Keep being hot if you wanna keep fucking. And that do…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:54 AM
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First guy is on steroids and you don't need to be that big
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:43 AM
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If your material needs are met you kind of just need some good dick
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:32 AM
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No. It's some weird phenomena of thirsty dudes leaving verbal offerings on the altar of an idol who can neither hear nor see them. Why worship a fake goddess instead of the real God. Lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:42 PM
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My unscientific opinion based purely on observation is that women who are into extremely aggressive men have absurdly high sex drives, are into freakier masochistic shit and fuck more. A good proxy is a chick who loves getting tattoos on areas that are the most painful. Tattoo in the middle of her tits...bring a belt. Face tats? Bring an exorcist.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:36 PM
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If you aren't autistic and you have bad social skills you're just knowingly trying to be a dickhead. If that's your prerogative then knock yourself out but you can't complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:51 PM
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we even fucked once It's this part hombre.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:50 PM
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Can't understand the "i DonT wAnT a FEEmaAlE FrIeNd!" people. Even from a purely machiavellian level it's very useful if you want to meet other girls. No heavy wingman stuff either, just have her start talking to a girl you like first then you come in and she introduces you. Already pre-vetted so the chick knows you're not a complete weirdo if another girl likes your company. Works great in the clubbing scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:20 PM
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You don't need to be conventionally hot to get laid either. "Good personality" can just mean very charismatic, funny, charming, fun to be around, eats pussy. Attractive for a relationship or marriage? Maybe not. But you don't need all that much just to get your dick sucked. This isn't even accounting for guys who are just straight up LIARS and fake their personality and cheat. Or is any woman who ever got cheated on also a shitty person? Get real hun.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:20 PM
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they never had a good personality or even morals at this point. Nah people can change once they're frustrated enough and start doing what works for them. Scratch a cynic and you find a...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:16 PM
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If the sperm bank had sexy women you had sex with then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:06 PM
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You need to get better looking at that point
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:05 PM
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He will only be considered a chad by other men if they think his wife is hot so that's the denominator.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:50 PM
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BECAUSE YOU DON'T NEED TO BE SUPER HOT OR A GOOD PERSON TO FUCK LOTS OF WOMEN YOU JUST NEED TO BE CHARMING ENOUGH AND FUCK WELL!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:45 PM
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People want the best for themselves and average for everyone else then cloak themselves in righteousness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:18 PM
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"Morally upstanding" is orthogonal to being sexy. A guys biggest issue when he's not getting laid probably isn't he doesn't call his grandma enough
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:05 PM
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Not really. Bad people get laid all the time. They're just very charming. Seems like a just world fallacy to assume a nice upstanding girl has never gotten her heart broken by a pussy hounding wolf. I see it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:01 PM
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The last 3 are irrelevant but yeah being lazy, whiny, and insecure is a good way to never get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:42 PM
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I think it's fine if she also asks her husband first before making decisions. But usually it's just an indirect way of saying "No."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:41 PM
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"Every generation thinks it invented sex; each generation is totally mistaken. Anything along that line today was commonplace both in Pompeii and in Victorian England; the differences lie only in the degree of the coverup - if any." - Robert A. Heinlein What is old is new again. What is new was once old. Humans never change.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:24 PM
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They did.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:21 PM
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It's because they're not that unpleasant to look at or else they'd show short fat guys
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:12 PM
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Work on that part then. A generically sexy body isn't usually gonna make most women go "ewww i hate his broad shoulders and nice forearms"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:55 PM
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3 chicks in one month is not semi inceldom be fucking for real man
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:54 PM
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Being tall puts less on the brakes not more on the gas. To actually get back to bed you need to be more than tall. A short guy and a tall guy who both are lame as fuck are both not getting laid. The tall guy just has more initial opportunities to fuck up later.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:52 PM
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It's psychological masochism. Reading some of the stories of cucks it precipitated after getting cheated on or made fun of for their sexual prowess.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:47 PM
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The man works in sales. Do people think you get laid by being mute. He didn't describe an ugly troll just a fairly average looking guy with charisma dripping from his balls. Yes those guys get laid. But obviously less than super good looking guys with just as much charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:43 PM
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Winner take all pareto distributions and no cultural constraints on the worst aspects of male/female intersexual dynamics. It's a free for all. Most males in the wild never reproduce (not because they're bad animals who are too mean either).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:11 PM
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Gay Men are more likely to get their brains bashed in than lesbians. Being objectified is a boo boo problem. Call me when you hear stories of lesbians being burned alive in their home village. My family is Nigerian. Even then it's not tolerated but still given more leniency than gay men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:07 PM
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My toaster complained when I called it a dirty slut so I just unplugged it. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:52 AM
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Lol thats stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:51 AM
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"AI" aren't people. The turing test doesn't mean shit you can already convince dumber people using LLMs already. Neither are corporations which are just very slow moving artificial intelligences that are real life chinese rooms. So no protections for non feeling code that's just designed to trick people. Not today, not now, not ever. People can have their waifu 9000 fuckatrons who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:50 AM
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It's easier from my perspective because when I was 21 it was harder to have sex with women who were older than me, also I was very scrawny. So it was basically 18-21 girls. At 29 my range is wider than it was at 21, and I'm also less scrawny. Also I have a much nicer bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:47 AM
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Why buy the cow when the milk is free in the land of honeys
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:45 AM
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casual sex doesn't mean one night stand it's basically any sex without a defined relationship label which is pretty normal
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:44 AM
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Handsome face and no game make jack not a sex toy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:03 AM
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Those are not the majority of comments and you know it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:01 AM
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It does make a statistical difference
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:52 AM
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Bings image creator is too fun. Yes show me Luffy and Barbie holding two cups of lean while Ken is angry in the background
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:54 PM
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Too many irrelevant details like someone's trying to write a teen novel
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:46 PM
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I'm getting fucking old
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:36 PM
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Wouldn't change that much. People in Saudi Arabia hoe around they just make a much better effort not to get caught.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:36 PM
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Anywhere if you have the balls
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:35 PM
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I met an asshole who wanted me to pay for the Uber to see him and then on the way back 😭. Cheap ass. Good for you though. Then buy a fucking car you're the cheap one lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:18 PM
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Who is this
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:16 PM
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For me maybe the mid 90s. Peak era.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:13 PM
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35M, 30F. If anything she would divorce him but the going is too good right now. Cake and eating it. It would be bad for him financially if it happened. But i mean he clearly likes her more than she likes him
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:37 PM
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Brother is dumb for complaining how naive a 19 year old is. Yeah she's 19 they are pretty naive. But if he was my bro I wouldn't give a shit he was dating a 19 year old. 9? Then yeah I'd call the fucking FBI.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:35 PM
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Yes, yes he does.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:47 PM
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Lol that shit is dumb but how is this a "left" thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:45 PM
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Guy's wife got pregnant with another dude, thought it was his kid. Baby daddy died and he now takes care of the kid. Open Relationship and he just helps fund her life and he is perpetually sad. He chose his fate. Grown ass man, I have no sympathy for him. I just feel bad for the kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:28 PM
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I had a girl into that. It's the outcome of too many submissive guys and barely any dominant girls so the only way they can get off is that way which to me is like drinking seawater hoping to get hydrated. Actually, scratch that. It's like drinking sand.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:22 PM
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This is the telephone game thing again
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:20 PM
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Having a job can be kind of irrelevant if she loves you a lot and the sex is amazing. She'll just get frustrated eventually especially if you're married.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:19 PM
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everywhere check under your couch
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:17 PM
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What if an alien race of super hot intergalactic babes dropped on planet earth???
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 08:17 PM
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The biggest dating app is Instagram. Not Tinder. Honestly any platform that allows you to post pictures and send messages will be a dating app. IG is just the biggest.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 08:05 PM
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Well I mean it was feminist rhetoric from like the early 2000s. This is what happens when the train arrives at the last stop then the conductor hits the gas. Nowhere left to go. Not sure what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 06:43 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 06:41 PM
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You can be a creepy weirdo and get laid. Some girls are into that. They're also just as weird. But these are bold creepy weirdos not really shy creepy weirdos. Lack just enough social awareness to feel no shame but enough awareness to dress nice
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 06:38 PM
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Aroused? Like literally getting a boner? No but I can instantly tell if someones face/body makes me think they're sexy enough to have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:05 PM
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Douchebro fratboy energy is evergreen. Like buying US Treasury Bonds. It'll take a massive crisis to cause it to go out of style.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 04:50 PM
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He's got good crowd control. Not my style of comedy but he makes it work. Also wouldn't the bolt on comment be seen as another part of his bit? Very stupid for them to criticize him on that when it's literally his whole shtick so I agree with you. Very dumb so you can't take any of those comments seriously. Like a kid calling you a meanie poopie head. What am I supposed to get mad? Outta my way kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 04:47 PM
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Studies this studies that do people actually analyze how studies are conducted. Do people not go out into the real world and not overanalyze data sets of 300 undergrads at the psychology department of a very specific set of individuals who arent representative of the world. Fucking smile if you have nice teeth and a nice smile.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 04:42 PM
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Autistic dudes are pretty much the only ones I have extreme sympathy for when it comes to dating. It's like trying to swim with concrete shoes. Sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 04:40 PM
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Yeah which is why your dollar can stretch so far. It's called vacation and having a few flings not moving your entire life there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 02:16 PM
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Oh in that case yeah. Just ask guys in prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 02:13 PM
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Consciously like will yourself? Nope. Altering your underlying biological state? Maybe. Just ask the guys on trenbolone who start fucking ladyboys. Your mileage may vary. Would avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 06:23 AM
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If you're gonna pay for a whore at least get your moneys worth. Though I personally don't support whore mongering I kind of get it. No finance without romance is my MO, even then you get a $3 hotdog. Maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 06:21 AM
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If you are a dude and you're spending lots of money to date women in 2023 you're a fucking idiot. I know women traveling to Spain to hookup with dudes that make $500 a month. You seriously think she's gonna be impressed if you do that when you are one of 5 guys doing the same thing. If she really liked you it'd be $2 in the park for a hot dog. Shout out to my finance bro simps. Stop wasting your fucking money!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 06:00 AM
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That's very nice I hope so too! But I don't really care anymore either
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 04:09 AM
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I actually really like spoiling a girl but I also found that it was extremely easy to get taken advantage of. So I just stopped 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 03:56 AM
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Dating is supposed to be fun. Being angry and angsty about it is a highway to nowheresville
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:02 AM
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It's mostly just people not using them correctly or even at all. Baby trapping is also extremely real. Besides that pulling out fails...a lot. Why? Because you're not rational enough to do so since you're super horny and just going with it. It's post nut clarity not pre nut clarity after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:52 AM
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When you're really really horny rational ideas like condom use go out the window. Every girl who was super into me just didn't want to use one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:41 AM
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Human nature hasn't changed in thousands of years. What made you sexually attractive in 50,000BC, 5000BC, 500BC, 500AD, and now is basically the same. That's why Im optimistic for the people who "get it"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:09 AM
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"Improving your personality" doesn't mean become a second Ghandi. It means becoming more exciting and fun to be around. I've seen cute guys perpetually lonely because they're honestly just too nice and extremely boring as fuck. I've seen uglier guys who are honestly kind of shitty people with super hotties. They're just more fun man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:58 PM
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He looks fine. Bios a bit irrelevant. Easier to date using IG if anything. Tinders ratio and algo makes it a non starter for most people
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:22 PM
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Well it's pretty obvious "goodness" is orthogonal to success. Be good for goodness sake not because it will make you rich, or get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:19 PM
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"Good personality" in the context of sex/dating doesn't actually mean kind person who takes care of kittens and feeds his grandma chicken soup. Idk why people still bullshit about this. It just means "not boring"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:23 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:15 PM
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Men don't have an inherent in-group bias the way Women do. This is like asking Women why they don't stand up to pee.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:02 PM
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Whether they work or not is irrelevant. And some are misogynists and abusers but you don't really need an online forum to learn that. I just look at all the men that read it in the abstract with no real interest in getting laid and instead treating like some Platonic philosophy to discuss. It's simply because they are unhappy and are searching for answers as to why this is the case. The talking points some young guys faced to explain their dating issues boiled down to some variation of they're n…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:59 PM
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Would make life a lot easier wouldn't it mate? Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:10 AM
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Turn that rage into something useful
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:53 AM
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Nah not good for me imo but I speak for myself. If I could hack my brain or go back in time I'd just alter my psychosexual schema to be "normal"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:50 AM
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I've had more dommes than I can count but I was always a freaky boi.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:42 AM
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That's what he wants in his *public relationship. Super rich giga nerds only live like Dan Bilzerian if they have a ton of NDAs so you wouldnt even hear about it. Eric Schmidt of Google apparently had a bunch of mistresses and a private home just to cheat on his wife. It's can be all for show. Not saying it is
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:17 AM
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I've had women tell me about the time they got assaulted on the first date. Way too TMI and fucked up. Just blindsided. Very pathological.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:08 AM
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An unspoken cause of Men who are actually pretty okay looking but chronically single is just overall low sex drive. Very low tolerance for having to "play the game". They may even have a lot of girl friends. But without the actual horniness to go out and make something happen they're pretty comfortable not doing anything. In cases like that the girl will legit have to do all the legwork if she really wants the guy. Even then he could end up being disappointing because he just isn't that sexual o…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:42 PM
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If what you're primarily looking for sex money isn't really necessary and basically overrated. Idk why guys keep saying they need to make 100k to date. Broke jobless dudes fuck the most. A guy busting his ass 100hrs a week as an analyst making 120k simply doesn't even have the time. How many stories can one hear of a rich dude's wife who gets lonely because he's always away and she needs someone to break her back. It aint fucking him that's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:06 PM
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Idk why some people think a guy is supposed to be excited by the prospect of his wife appreciating how great of a husband he is despite not being that sexy to her. Dad bod my asshole my mans trying to get crazy monkey sex swinging from the chandelier how the fuck he gonna do that looking like a teletubbie!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 08:20 PM
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I knew a guy like that. Broke. Effectively Homeless. And yet always had a place to stay, always had nice clothes. He was just being funded by all his girls lol. The man had the face and physique of a model even at 5'9 and he was a cool guy. It was amazing to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 08:16 PM
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Who gives a fuck if a guy wants to date a single mom. Good for him. Personally won't do it myself anymore but I'm not gonna bullshit my friend and tell him dating someone who already has a kid, has a baby daddy, has literally less time to do stuff because of said kid, more likely to have more drama due to said baby dad, is a better prospect for dating than a woman who has zero of that going on. Pick your poison just don't fucking complain to me because I don't wanna hear it. Buddy of mine won't …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:35 PM
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You need to put in a bit more effort than that mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:31 PM
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I find the whole act of paying for it very sad. It unironically seems like the only people who arent negatively affected by it emotionally are guys with zero empathy who literally just see a whore like some fuck doll and give zero fucks at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 04:47 PM
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Is the sex mutually exciting and satisfying Yeah it really is just when she doesn't have a headache for the 8th time this week. Do the ordinary men realize they’ve been settled for and do the hot guys realize their wives are insecure? Nope. The only ones who do are guys who used to be hot and let themselves go. A guy who was never hot has no idea what being seen as really sexy purely for his looks feels like. Not too many people saying "I became obese and my wife wants to fuck me even more!". Li…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 04:41 PM
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And a Man would prefer a hot not obese woman who wants to suck his dick like it's the last on earth because he's so sexy. Life is about tradeoffs. I absolutely do not want to be the short balding fat fuck who is a great guy and intelligent when I can be a hot dude with the exact same non physical qualities. Keep lifting boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 04:37 PM
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That's what some women mean when they say they love dad bods. They do love him. Sure they might not want to have sex with him as much but they feel much less pressure to look good themselves. So if as a guy you want to get laid less by your wife just get fatter.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 04:33 PM
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Seen it too. Guys who look good but are "off" socially. Do people really think some dude who gets his dick sucked randomly in a club bathroom was talking about Roman geopolitics in 1st century AD or reciting the entire Pokedex from Gen 1-Gen 8 from memory? Not that there's anything wrong with a guy like that. I've had friends on the spectrum be married. But the girl was very unique herself and loved his quirks in a way that most women just simply did not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 03:35 PM
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Haha I can say though there was a woman I spent an hour blabbing to about interest rates and the federal reserve. She was enamored the whole time. Reality was she wasn't listening to a single word I said she just thought I was really hot and stared at my lips. So it really depends. A guy who was less hot to her but a super smooth talker would probably go just as far. I guess the issue is with dudes who truly are just themselves they can really only be so with girls who just really really like th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 03:08 PM
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Your looks are just bait. How many times can a girl say a guy looked good until he opened his mouth. In my extremely nerdy days I experienced this myself where a chick just told me to shut up and was visibly getting turned off because I didn't "get it" and actually flirt well with her. My brick for brains just kept trying to talk about this thing I learned in my macroeconomics class. Missed my shot with her then, she went from very interested going back to my room to leaving disappointed. I was …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 02:50 PM
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I do but only when it's convenient
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 09:38 PM
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Lol brah ever heard of photo editing. Not that he hasn't had work done obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 09:34 PM
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Or just specific context wtihin a space. Being a team manager isn't exciting but I legitimately became more "interesting" at the place I worked just because I had more "power". Was kind of weird to experience at the time honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:31 PM
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Average looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:17 PM
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I think it's pointless to opine about the genetic freaks of nature who look absurdly beautiful. Yes if you look hot as fuck you are in a completely different ball game. There are actually no diminishing returns and it's not like you can't also be hot and be a cool person. The hotter you are the better it is all else being equal. Now unless someone invents a magic pill that can turn you into a genetic anomaly theres only so much you can do about your appearance. But there's more ways to be appeal…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:02 PM
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He didn't call himself ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:56 PM
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A girl can think you're sexy as fuck even if you're not hot by consensus. And not because you're a nice caring guy who treats her well either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:52 PM
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The first sentence sounds nice but is empirically just not true even remotely.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:50 PM
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Then use ants on a sidewalk?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:46 PM
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Nah just deny. Never ever admit fault, never confirm, redirect, obfuscate and change the frame. Gaslight.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:19 PM
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You don't need to pretend you don't care how your partner looks just because you're lonely. Although if that's actually the case more power to you just don't complain you can't get your dick up because you were so desperate you tried to convince yourself to be with a girl you thought was ugly. In fact the short guys I know who are generally successful don't even think like this. They're so confident they believe a hot girl would like them no matter how short because they're just the shit. You ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:17 PM
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Societies go through lengths to mitigate anti social behavior in human beings. Or ought to. You don't come out the womb knowing what good morals are. If you are raised where violence against women is normal guess what you'll become. If you're a genius it just means you'll be even smarter about doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:12 PM
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When it's used to describe places that aren't really patriarchies in any meaningful way anymore then yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:07 PM
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Because the "rules" of the game say men and women are equals but society as a whole whether conservative or feminist don't actually believe this. No one gives a fuck about women complaining about dudes because we don't actually see them as full adults with the same agency as an adult man. It's like getting mad at a kid who hates grown ups. Women don't even treat women with the same agency. Men don't treat women as though they had the same agency either. The perceptive ones at least. In fact the …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:28 PM
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If she's not doing for him as much as he is for her then this is just fucking lame. He doesn't need to "woo" someone who actually likes him like shes on some pedestal.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:20 PM
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It's the asymmetry that makes something simping. This isn't them impressing each other we hear nothing about what this girl is even trying to do for him. Dudes not even getting laid come on now lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:18 PM
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"It's impossible to shame a man who's still getting his dick sucked. It's ever harder to shame a man who's trying to" - Sun Tzu
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:08 PM
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Doing literally anything for money violates consent then. The real problem is that consent isn't sufficient for something to actually be good in your own view. Which is fine but then just say that. You can't so you have to negate the idea of consent but in an inconsistent way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 11:45 AM
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Hell no are you crazy they are paid to tell you anything you want to hear. If they're really good they know how to get you off quick and make you think you did something. Sex workers generally hate their customers for obvious reasons too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 11:41 AM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:02 AM
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It's a hospital not a prison your dating pool extends beyond those walls
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:02 AM
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The way I hear nurses and other health care workers talk about doctors is about how attractive their career and income potential is Yeah dude that has literally always been the case. This life observation is what taught me that your intelligence and life ambitions have absolutely no influence on increasing one’s sex appeal. It just makes you a more attractive provider. Yeah dude that has literally always been the case. The gender ratio in this environment only helps if you have sex appeal Yeah d…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:58 AM
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I know you a sick c*nt! Mirin brah.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:41 AM
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Ive only seen getting "jacked" become a game changer for dudes who already had a ton of girl friends and some barebones level of game. Now if the dude could already pull while being a fat fuck, once he became really fit then it was like adding jet fuel to a bonfire. Every gymcel I talk to is just very lame and doesn't know how to spark a girls interest or is on the spectrum which sucks for them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:32 AM
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The fact is the shorter you are the more exceptional you have to be in some way. In a way that is actually pretty unrealistic for an average dude leading to a survivorship bias. Yes I know guys who were 5'3 and had a hot girlfriend. I know guys who were 5'5 and crushed pussy. But these were not normal dudes whatsoever. If they were 6'4 its hard to imagine what these guys could accomplish. I think it's partially genetic and upbringing. If you are 5'5 and feel like you can't compete you just don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:18 AM
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You could say the same thing about women who fuck criminals, drug addicts, dead beats Not really. A lot of those girls had early life experiences that predispose them to that psychosexual schema in men. A girl like that could meet the perfect guy on paper in her mind and he won't turn her on because she grew up around gangsters. She has more options than that she just won't choose them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:42 PM
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For purely primal sex? Not really. Unless by Dad Bod you mean a muscular dude with a layer of fat. Like Mamoa in an off season. If you mean like a not obese but not really defined dude who is cute then that assuages feelings of anxiety because you know your partner isn't going to catch the eye of many other women/also be more vain. At least from everything I continue to observe. If you're a guy what would you rather be assuming you could snap your fingers and instantly get the body you want most…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:07 PM
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Porn industry skyrockets.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:12 PM
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The male population stays the same. The number of males identifying as men changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:10 PM
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People don't like playing semantic shell games and having to pretend they don't know you think they're stupid. In this context it's mutual sexual desire with someone who freely wants to have sex with you without financial enumeration. And you know that. Don't play dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:09 PM
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No they do. It's just not necessarily wanted. But it's like getting 100 job offers from firms you never want to join. If you suddenly went flat broke desperate for a job but those leads dried up it would definitely bother you that there are no longer tons of companies willing to hire you. Even if they seemed mediocre before.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:06 PM
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Yeah for practical purposes it literally is. You're not a guy so you wouldn't get it. It's like a dude wondering why a woman doesn't like the idea of a guy trying to fuck without romancing her or taking her to dinner or anything. Girl wants me to come over, bang and then leave? Can't say that would make me feel like a loser. In fact that's pretty ideal especially when I'm too busy. Girl wants me to spend time and money and go on 10 dates then not have sex with me. That certainly would bother me …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:01 PM
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No one? That's way too strong a label. I could name around a dozen instances off the bat. No fetish required.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 11:27 AM
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What exactly is stopping him from making up this entire scenario as well as having people pretend in order to advertise his app
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:26 PM
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I did once in a red light district. Couldn't stomach having sex with the chicks because I felt so bad. We just ended up smoking weed and talking for a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 08:52 PM
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Worse nutrition and sleep will take away from you reaching your natural maximum height which is determined by genetics
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 10:09 AM
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"but they were in a very close platonic friendship, to the point where she would let him rub her feet ect." Uh huh, they were such good friends, right. How many times did she rub his back, you know, platonically to return the favor like a 50/50 friendship. Or help him move a couch. Lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 04:11 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:54 AM
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Women can think a guy is physically attractive but "feel nothing" for him. That's why you can have identical twins who literally look the same but act different and one gets laid while the other doesn't. Seen it a few times in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 12:23 PM
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Muscular + larger penises + sex ability. That is literally the only three reasons why.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 09:27 PM
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No one actually cares you're 34 trying to fuck a 21 year old. And if you're easily shamed into not doing so by people who don't give a fuck about you then you're not even the guy that could pull it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 12:50 PM
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People will always naturally feel bad for people who can't keep a partner while searching for one. No ones patting someone on that back like "You go girl all your previous boyfriends left you!" "Nice job dude you literally never had a woman love you while you wanted one to" Unless they're a total asshole. It's not reducing peoples value anymore than just observing a sad reality. No mental gymnastics needed for people who looked for love and either never found it or lost it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 12:43 PM
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Not really
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 12:24 PM
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Inexperience with women obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 12:17 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 12:06 PM
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There is no end game. Learn what you like, find out what works what doesn't and just do what you want with what you got. Most Men aren't going to have LESS options for dating by being richer, more physically fit, more fun, more traditionally masculine, with higher status. But the real world isn't so black and white anyway. Hey there are guys out there who have wives that peg them, there are dudes who are a foot shorter than their girlfriend, I've seen basically every configuration of relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 12:04 PM
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No wont fix everything but it helps No they are just humans Not necessarily, no. But real life is not an ideal world. Also no, not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:58 AM
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Just because they're single doesn't mean they aren't fucking someone and getting their sexual needs met
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:56 AM
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Scheme or Racket
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:37 AM
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It simply comes down to this. Your relationship either lasts until you die or it's over at some point. That's the reality of any relationship. And since most don't last until you die, the statement is just a highly cynical way of explaining that. Any romantic relationship you start at any point especially while young is not going to last your entire life so don't be so sad your bf/gf dumped you at 25. It was just your turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:36 AM
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Not at basketball games or art shows or libraries All these places are totally fine. There really is no right or wrong place. People have literally hooked up at funerals. All that matters is if someone likes what they see, likes what they hear, and happen to be emotionally available. The right time is just being able to guage potential interest from a distance which isn't that hard when you get experienced enough to recognize body language. Friends first is also nonsense if you literally try to …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:17 AM
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When I was 3 years old I was fundamentally 2 feet tall. Now I'm much taller. Because I grew.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 10:33 PM
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First off, one night stands are hardly a thing anymore Why do people just come here and lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 10:32 PM
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Guys who don't fuck say that shit all the time which is very ironic
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:08 PM
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Sure but you still look so dumb lying so blatantly like that. At that point skip the apps or something
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:01 PM
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Who cares. Fortune favors the bold. If you got something to sell keep making leads and ignore people who don't like your sales, someone out there will buy it just go and find em.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:58 PM
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It's rare enough that being afraid of it is stupid for the average person to be worried about. Statistically speaking it basically never does. Whatever happened with you, however, sucks. Sorry. But you aren't the average case at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:13 PM
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I don't have a crying fit every time some random dude tries to sell me something on the street and I don't want their wares. Lol get a grip it's not that deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:10 PM
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Damn, If that's actually true then I'm sorry that happened. Someone always wins the lottery I guess. Still rare for the average person. That being said I don't tell people to never use a plane because the very rare existence of plane crashes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:19 PM
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Yeah obviously just trying to exchange digits out the gate is probably not gonna work but you aren't gonna get arrested either for being so lame. Idk where people are getting these crazy ideas from.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:16 PM
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That won't happen either. She will just say no and you move on. Or she gives you a fake one, or she just walks away. All cases in which she's not interested. Do you know a single person personally in real life who has gone to jail that way? A single person? If you do then I could understand. If not you're just bullshitting yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:14 PM
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There is no "supposed to". You can and people have literally met their partners anywhere. Some places might statistically be easier than others. "Where are you allowed to strike up a conversation?" Anywhere. Literally. You are not going to get assassinated by the secret illumanti police and publically shamed and put on a watch list by the shadow government for saying "Hey how's it going" in a library, on a boat, at the train station, waiting for the bus, shopping for groceries, on a bridge, on a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:12 PM
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Most men will NEVER get the police called on them just for walking up to a stranger and talking to them. Where are all the street salesmen ending up in rikers island? You guys need to stop with these goofy ass fantasy scenarios. Do you even know someone this has happened to? It's so rare it would actually make a news story. A girl might not like you approaching her but there's a massive gulf between inconveniencing someone else for 5 seconds and the 1/1000000 chance you ran into a neurotic psych…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:07 PM
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I would still say you're better off just getting with someone who already displays high interest off the bat. We ended up ruining our friendship after she caught feelings and we only hooked up a few times after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 11:03 PM
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There was a girl I met once who didn't feel any arousal towards me until we tried making out. Before that point I was neutral. So there can at least be a case where she doesn't even know she'd be into you until you actually make some sort of move.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:59 PM
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In general no. I mean there are women out there aroused hearing elephant sounds. I'm obviously talking about extremely weird corner cases that exist outside the norm. But it is possible. I've seen at least one example in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:53 PM
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Ejaculating immediately relieves horniness temporarily. Whether you do it with a partner or by yourself. Point being, they aren't horny because they're sex starved. They're horny because they're dudes and dudes in general are pretty horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:49 PM
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It doesn't because men who aren't sex starved are also still very horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:32 PM
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Because there is no "accountability" to enforce. No woman is getting thrown in jail because she likes fucking a violent man. No man is getting thrown in jail because he thinks women are inferior. In general no one even cares. There are no "shoulds" either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:53 PM
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Being nice can be sexually attractive. Also do understand humans are very complex. In the general case, no, having good manners does not make a man a sex object to most women. So if that's your goal as a man focus less on being a super nice guy. Doesn't mean there won't be a woman out there who isn't into that but notice she also said "That led me to getting to know him better, which lead me to notice that he is actually pretty attractive." For me personally, and I speak for myself, I don't want…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:41 PM
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Extremely linear correlation between how sexy someone thinks you are and how quickly/willing they are to have sex regardless of stated beliefs or values. But that is incredibly obvious to me. The fear of literal eternal damnation can't even stop the ultra religious from fucking around so that should tell you something. Sex is a very physical activity and it's easier to have sex with more people who are also hotter too if you are in good shape. If a woman finds you very sexy/hot she will ignore 1…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:07 PM
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Online dating was not as culturally relevant in the year 2000 even if it existed in some form. And the cultural problems we see now aren't just due to online dating. Even the economic outcomes for young people are much worse than they were 20 years ago. Human's at their base level don't change too much, but their conditions do, and people are very adaptable for better or for worse. We are speed running dangerous social conditions that lead to the breakdown of institutions followed by a large mas…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:35 PM
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some men are waiting for an autistic list of stuff they can do to check and suddenly become successful with women Because they're autistic. With enough life experience it really isn't that hard to figure out what women in general find attractive. And women aren't all into the same things either. Guys should focus on what they can control and max those things out. For example, yes being taller will make it way easier to date Women, anyone who says otherwise is an idiot or a liar. Unfortunately we…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:17 PM
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It's a systematic issue that has only recently just surfaced. Respectfully, if you are too old you are indeed way too out of touch and have less than zero idea what's going on out there. People with almost 18 year old kids are not going to say anything useful to current 20 year old men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:09 PM
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Automatic negativity bias when applied to Men in this society. This is due to the assumption of female hypoagency vs male hyperagency. I believe this is mostly cultural, however, and can be changed. Easily? Doubtful.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:04 PM
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It's an empty statement and ultimately meaningless self defeating rhetoric which makes zero sense if you just scratch below the surface. It shouldn't upset anyone, though, anymore than a 4 year old saying something that doesn't make sense. Just smile and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:00 PM
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Who cares no one owes anyone anything and no one actually cares. You aren't owed a conversation, and she isn't owed having no one attempt to talk to her. Go up and start a conversation if you like. If she's not into it then exit gracefully and go about your day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:53 PM
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but it won't be all it takes for a long term relationship You...would be surprised. Especially < Age 26.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:46 PM
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You could just throw out all of evolutionary biology with that logic. Nope. You can literally measure allele frequency distribution in a population over time due to selection pressures. You can look at the growing complexity of biological systems in the fossil record and cross reference that with the geological record, radiometric dating, etc. Hell we can even calculate genetic drift through common ancestors between different species. Can't really do that with "Women like pink because they picke…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 09:28 AM
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Working backwards using plausible sounding stories with no way to test any of these hypotheses along with layers of assumptions is why evo psych is unfalsifiable and mostly nonsense. We have no idea why or how psychological traits evolved and there is no way to know. We don't have a time machine and we can't isolate humans in an ancestral environment and test how they evolve. Just pick whatever story and run with it if it sounds good. Psychological traits did evolve, yes. Do we know how? No. Can…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:59 AM
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"They changed my life by showing me how cheap, easy and stress free the box is. I spend close to $1,000 one time on a shorty and got NOTHING in return. Got a escort and spent 100 something, didn’t have to check up on her, and was 10x more attractive than the other shorty💯" - YT Comment Damn bro. $1k to not get laid? A Glock, some bullets, and a ski mask is like $500
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:53 AM
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It's easy to argue with this. You don't love your grandma the same way you love your child or the same way you love your dog. Semantic shell games are just that, games. Yeah Men don't want to fuck a guy they want to emulate, and for Men they don't need to "respect" or greatly admire the people they like to have sex with. It is what it is, sorry, Men aren't Women and their sexuality works differently. Straight Men are heterosexual because they want to have sex with the opposite sex. That's litera…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:54 AM
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It would look like Ancient Greece (Not Sparta), Babylon, Egypt, or basically any ancient society and be extremely misogynistic
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:50 AM
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Yeah so I don't really care about evolutionary just so stories. You can literally make up anything that sounds plausible. For example, what you just said. You literally just made it up. I can easily posit relaxed confident people were the last to die since their lower neuroticism allowed them to plan and think clearly to navigate potential danger while the overly anxious got killed by acting irrational during a disaster like a scared chicken running around.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:20 AM
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Men on average indeed are less emotional, less neurotic, less empathetic, and more likely to exhibit traits of psychopathy. This isn't "men bad, women good" or "women bad, men good", just observable traits in human behavior, on average. Men who are too emotional end up in jail or dead. Women who are too emotional don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:16 AM
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I had a very attractive male friend who was bisexual and just cruised sex parties. I was invited to one. Not my scene, personally kind of gross to me but it really selects for people who are more voyeuristic and into random sex/very high sex drives. People have all sorts of tastes and I think the sex party scene is very niche, although you can't tell who would be into something like that just by looking at someone. I'd say a mix of attractiveness/no correlation
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:52 PM
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It's not about "need". People do all sorts of things to have fun
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:44 PM
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Because they like sex with strangers concentrated in one place. "CHadS" are just real people who happen to look really hot. They aren't a different species and have all types of personalities like normal humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:29 PM
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The entire point is to figure out early enough who's into you and who's not. There will be a subset of the population who are viscerally attracted to you from the jump with zero effort on your part, those in my opinion make the best sexual partners. And not the "I spent 8 months getting her to warm up to me". To each their own. Every "strategy" works. It's up to you to find your "Am I wasting my life"-tolerance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:24 PM
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Is that enough for me to say "this is women's nature etc etc etc"? Fool me once. Fine. Fool me dozens of times with almost zero counterexamples of Men doing it to your wife with other Men saying this thing happens all the time, it gets super obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 04:27 PM
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Reddit posters in general seem to score way higher on the neuroticism spectrum. Female subreddits even more so to the point where you can get banned for the most milquetoast opinions. If you take reddit seriously you'll think everyone is autistic and demisexual and it just ain't the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 08:57 PM
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Due to scaling laws we are encountering diminishing returns in transformer architecture. GPT-4 is impressive but I still think we are far enough away from "can replace a real human being". At the same time we got dudes fucking anime pillows so "good enough" is probably a very low bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 08:21 PM
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Remember kids it's not cheating if you "go on a break" for 2 days, fuck someone else then restart your relationship after they take you back.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:06 PM
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Complete dealbreaker. Hot and dumb will get very old very fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 02:29 PM
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Do you even have super good looking friends? They are normal people who are into all sorts of things, they just happen to be hot. It's not the 1950s where only the super geekiest nerds read comic books, cmon dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 02:28 PM
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Options to have 99% of men treat you like a sex toy aren't the options women are talking about. Also sometimes chicks just get horny and any dick will do. They just won't talk about it, mention it, or will even lie/say it never happened, and you better keep that shit discrete. Reddit people are way too caught up in some disney fantasyland world of what happens raw in the real life jungle. People, men/women do all sorts of things they wouldn't even admit to their closest friends. That's why I don…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 02:25 PM
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Stuff like this is why people from super religious backgrounds end up with a ton of sexual hangups or just overcompensate (seriously what's up with catholic girls and anal). Just weird to me how you spend years scaring the crap out of people growing up making them think their head will explode just looking at someone lustfully and then once they get married it's "ok have at it, it's fine now!". Good luck feeling comfortable with your sexuality by that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:53 PM
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From women in my life - basically "Be nice, be yourself" From men in my life- basically "Learn how to spit game and get jacked" I remember one clear anecdote when I was younger with my two older cousins, one male and one female. Him - "I'm telling you man, lift weights it will make a difference!" Her - "Don't listen to him, you can enhance your muscle but you don't want to look bulky" Him - "shushhhhhh Look she doesn't know what she's talking about. Dude I'm telling you you're short, I'm short. …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:40 PM
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You cannot expect a feminine woman if you yourself are not masculine. Some guys get the bossiest ball buster to act like a sweet little girl when they're around him because he kind of brings that out of her/she really likes him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:30 PM
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Being able to smooth talk and know the right things to say isn't necessarily "putting on a front". Some things are better to say given a situation than others. That's why some guys sound "smooth". They figured out what works for them and what doesn't. Anti Game would be bumbling your words coming across as awkward and saying weird, rude, or straight up dumb things. Ever hear of women saying they liked a dude until he opened his mouth?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:59 PM
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It's not really a race thing either. It's extremely obvious based on culture. Generally the less wealth your community has the less you have the ability to obfuscate the aspects of human nature. You kind of need to be more masculine to survive in those environments anyway. TL;DR: Less time to bullshit about what actually happens in the streets.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:14 PM
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For the same reason some dudes will still watch porn even though they have a girlfriend that has lots of sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:11 PM
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Is it? I'll keep it gender neutral. The person dating the one who is not attracted to them is the bigger loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:07 PM
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Intrasexual competition. Doesn't take a nut and a hammer to figure out the women getting the "most desirable" men expend more effort on their physical appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:03 PM
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I will say Doesn't matter, just go for it. "Let her figure out why she shouldn't date you.". You never know, you might actually just be her type. Just don't be rude or yell at her from across the street (hell I even seen that work, I don't advise though). You can do that if she interested to some degree. Being hot buys you an extra 30 seconds. Also women aren't fucking stupid, they know why you are talking to them. This is good. This is also good. You CAN go in for the kill immediately but it de…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 08:25 PM
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refusing ALL men as a direct result of the behaviour you just advised. Man no one is actually doing that shit. Look the reality is men, women, humans like each other, like to fuck, and will do so regardless of how they meet. People have literally found their fuck buddies at funerals. You are making it more complicated than it needs to be. Online shame is just that. Online. Guys just shoot your shot. Obviously don't be an asshole. But a big thing I noticed in my life is the hottest women actually…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 08:19 PM
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It depends. Mode One shout out Allen Rodger Currie. RIP. IYKYK!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 08:15 PM
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Are people just going insane or what? Reddit site wide has become so deranged and neurotic I question how often people actually spend outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 08:11 PM
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I can almost guarantee this has never happened to you or anyone you personally know or anyone they know so stop bullshitting yourself already.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 08:08 PM
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"Tradcons" are fighting a losing battle. I'll dip my toes into the religious debates I get into with apocalyptic evangelicals, of which I run into a lot due to where I've lived. (Suspend your disbelief I am merely holding ideas I don't necessarily agree with in my head. I'm not here to disprove/prove their argument) Ok so some literally believe the entire world is run by Satan who is preparing his way and the world will continue to get worse until the "end of days". Fine, whatever. If you truly …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 09:26 PM
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And you probably aren't crying about all the kids in the world in shitty 3rd world countries without clean drinking water or how hard they have to work for basic daily survival. Get a grip man you're a dude (I assume) stop acting like an ugly girl jealous of hotter chicks. Count your blessings. You have something women who effortless receive validation and money, don't. An easier time engaging with how reality actually works, since people aren't just lying to you all the time and gassing you up …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 09:16 PM
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Cmon man the act of being pregnant isn't some cakewalk, and pushing an entire kid out your cooter isn't easy either.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 09:11 PM
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No in-group bias based purely on sex. Men don't tend to see other random men and think "oh hey it's a Man another potential pal!". Not unless some other identifier is involved. Men aren't Women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:52 PM
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Modern wars?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:52 PM
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Yeah they aren't. I'm not familiar with the "narrative" here. I'm just one guy so don't lump me in with whatever the fuck you're pretending i'm talking about. But people in general who have sex in the real world usually aren't too afraid of getting falsely accused of rape. Not saying it doesn't happen but being scared of that is like getting scared of getting murdered. It can happen, it's just rare. And the people who tend to do that are pretty fucked up in the head anyway. If someone told me th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:49 PM
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Huh? Lol what the fuck does that have to do with what I'm talking about. Dude, if you have lots of testosterone freely flowing through your bloodstream your mind is going to prioritize sex a lot more than someone who doesn't. That's literally all I'm saying. So yes to you sex is not "the most important thing", because, newsflash you can't empathize with someone who has way more testosterone and thus places a higher weight on sex (on average). Just like how I can't fully understand/empathize with…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:30 PM
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Yeah in the real world where real people live and not on the internet getting accused of rape for no reason after someone consensually had sex with you isn't actually THAT common. You guys really need to get real and stop creating entire scenarios in your head over rare corner cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:24 PM
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None of these dorks here who constantly complain about #metoo are even remotely close to getting falsely accused of rape. Can you people get real for just one day here? Sometimes I underestimate the level of autism here because it's not that hard to figure out when someone actually wants to have sex with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:20 PM
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Because she has a sex drive and likes his ass? People fuck their coworkers all the time. Whether its a good idea is a different story but she sounds horny. This is something that is foreign to people who don't get propositioned by coworkers or fuck a lot. Also pretty normal in the service industry. Outright fuckfest at certain restaurants. As a matter of practicality I would generally avoid for dramas sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 03:25 PM
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Your free and total testosterone levels are pretty low you simply just wouldn't get it. And will never get it. Ever. Unless of course you alter your endocrinology to mimic that of the average male, let alone those at the upper range.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 03:22 PM
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One of the consequences of raising boys to be more like girls. Men aren't supposed to give a fuck they aren't treated like Women. Complaining all the time (and petitioning other people to help because you can't fix it yourself) is traditionally seen a female thing not a male thing. You can't raise bitch ass dudes then complain they're just bitches but acknowledging raising them to actually be masculine would undermine the whole thing innit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 03:19 PM
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Seeing how my sisters live has made me just a little less empathetic. None of them are super ugly and are fairly cute so they live in a different reality than a lot of fairly average/ok looking dudes I know. Short of it some guy somewhere bails them out when they fuck up. Wouldn't be possible if they were normal dudes. Not envious, since they have a looser grip on reality since they are insulated from the worst of their own decisions and I at least can say I have more agency over my life. Lower …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 03:14 PM
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How big is his cock and does he use taladafil
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 02:24 AM
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Guys who tend to get a lot of options also tend to date more women regardless of how abusive they are. Matthew effect. By virtue of the fact there aren't groups of women complaining about dating a guy who never gets dates with other women at all that should tell you everything you need to know. Being able to date multiple men is a given as a woman and therefore trivial/expected, whereas it's generally rare for men to be that "successful". It's like asking a fish how the water is. They're just co…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 09:16 PM
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These guys just sound like men raised as defective women and continually confused as to how the world actually works. So bizarre to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 08:42 PM
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https://imgur.com/hXnBmqe Why is it so hard for dudes on reddit to just get it? You are so close to getting it, does it really need to be spelled out for some of you? This is shit you should have learned in grade school. "when I 'vent' or anything it typically gets ignored and I have a bad feeling that it's because I'm a guy" Duhhhhh. "i've learned not to vent about women to them bc they invariably take the woman's side when I'm not even asking for advice or feedback. Idk whats up with that." I …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 08:39 PM
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What say they do, ignore watch they what
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 07:39 PM
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How about we censor nothing. If what you are saying is actually illegal then the issue is it's illegal. Anything other than that I do not care about unless you want to provide a list of government mandated things you can talk about.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 07:32 PM
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There's like a 0% chance anyone who gets married after 2010 is staying together for 20 years let alone life. Get used to it. Society isn't built for that anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 06:29 PM
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They aren't trying to make moves. They're looking for customers and/or followers. Especially if its snap.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 06:26 PM
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Open up about some fake bullshit and if it gets thrown in your face during your first fight just breakup
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 05:28 PM
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Yeah so don't open up about certain things or things in a non approved way. My best buds can open up to me any how and ive seen them at their darkest. However im not trying to fuck them so losing attracton isn't an issue. For their girlfriends yeah maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 05:26 PM
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Money has pretty much zero relevance to casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 05:22 PM
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Then shouldn't she just split it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 05:20 PM
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Not only is this not spooky but extremely obvious to anyone with real experience in the real world it makes your original statement even dumber.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 01:40 PM
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Everyone is born to eventually die so it doesn't make sense. And until recently childbirth was relatively dangerous, that's why it was seen as the "woman's battlefield" whilst men tended to die in war/violence. Both are born to "sacrifice their lives" for the tribe if we take your teleology to it's limit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 01:37 PM
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Yeah in real life people sometimes settle with people they aren't that attracted to, for whatever reason, and wonder why it causes extra relationship problems
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 01:31 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/aspergers/comments/lvtew2/40_of_autistic_men_are_virgins_32_have_never_been/
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 07:33 PM
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https://www.bankrate.com/mortgages/single-women-pursue-homeownership/ Single women own more homes than Men. Housing market crashes. Men will be blamed. https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2022/09/26/women-now-outnumber-men-in-the-u-s-college-educated-labor-force/#:~:text=This%20shift%20in%20the%20college,a%20bachelor's%20degree%20each%20year. Women now go to college more than men Student debt explodes. Men will be blamed. I kid. I kid!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 05:53 PM
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Just because you also make money doesn't mean you mind spending someone elses. How many women are getting down on one knee to propose to their man even though they have equal rights now? Yeah, exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 05:49 PM
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I actually like paying for my girl's nails, hair and clothes as long as she doesn't abuse my generosity. Maybe after we've been exclusive for like 9 months or so. Don't believe the nonsense tiktoks about dating a "baddie" where you HAVE to buy all these gifts and fund her lifetyle before she gets with you. Nuh uh. Nah. If anything these simps drop $400 for her hair when that shit costs $150 and she spends the rest on another dude. Now that's just gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 05:38 PM
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But Doctor. Im Pagliacci!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 05:34 PM
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An example of a community that wants to "help men" but basically has zero to say that is even remotely relevant or useful to the average guy. Like I'm sorry, but the average man's issues are not due to not being able to paint his nails and wear a dress. Or not being super radically feminist enough. Just Get fucking real. And people wonder why clowns like Tate get increasingly popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 04:01 PM
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Christian or not (being religious and part of a community sure helps though) there's a very good chance your marriage will not stay together for the rest of your life, not under these conditions, in this environment, or in this era. It is what it is, but it's up to you to decide what's worth it and how much you value this specific walk in your life's ministry.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:56 PM
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"red pill" as I understand it is praxeology. Take what you need, leave what you don't. If it's boiled down to "here's how men and women tend to operate when it comes to sex" (key words, tend to), it's just a matter if finding what works for you. Or just read the book of proverbs and ecclesiastes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:54 PM
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I don't really give a fuck about her job but she can't be broke. However, I mesh much better with women that have advanced degrees than someone who barely graduated high school. Billionaire Heiress with a PhD in Microbiology? Sign me up!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:52 PM
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I would say do not use staged and/or edited (aka only take the best results) prank videos as evidence of really anything
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 08:57 PM
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I would suggest not doing this if you know what's good for you. This is how people end up with false accusations.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:48 PM
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600lbs with no ass, zero boobs, completely bald with burn scars, no teeth and smells like a dumpster. The most obvious beauty standard in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:46 PM
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Disorders of Sexual Differentiation (DSDs) which is what "intersex" is doesn't make you a third sex. Anymore than having down syndrome makes you a separate species. There are only 2 sexes due to the entire point of sexual reproduction requiring two people with a large gamete and a small gamete, egg/sperm. Gender is as real as choosing your favorite sports team and has no relevance to medicine. No one cares you are Colecovisiongender when you get testicular cancer or "identify as" a 3000 year old…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:49 AM
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Dancing a lot at nightclubs or in general showing off dance skills a bit too much. My friend along with multiple people would always tell me it's intimidating and a turn off to most women (some find it super cool, sometimes) but ultimately I do it because I find it super fun, not because I'm trying to woo anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 05:26 PM
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Someone who likes a guy and waiting to "feel a spark". Your assumption is she knows all that. She doesn't. All she sees is a guy she finds attractive and wanting him to make her feel like these other guys did in a sexy way and she ends up being frustrated he can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:36 PM
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They do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:34 PM
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It's real just super rare in fact really only the sexiest of dudes can pull that off (sexiness is more than just looks btw). Most guys are nowhere near the type to be able to pull multiple hot women over and over and then decide they want to settle down in their 30s. It's simply not how a lot of men operate, because they literally can't. In contrast it aint THAT hard to fuck a new guy who looks pretty good looking if all you want are hot flings if you're an average girl, I got plenty of friends …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:32 PM
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https://old.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/qzufyg/nice_guy_sucks_at_being_sexy_and_flirting_which/ I don't like the term AF/BB because life is more complicated. But this is an example of a woman being interested in a dude who she indeed finds physically attractive and being turned off because he's coming across as....
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:29 PM
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Yeah uh not acting like a girl isn't a bEhAviOrAl PrOblEm. Did you not read the rest, boys are getting the same scores because they understand the material but are getting dinged on shit that doesn't matter when it comes to their learning style. Imagine being a girl losing points for getting a perfect score but your teacher thought you were TOO QUIET and didn't talk enough. I say we need to balance the parity in male/female teachers if not segregate it entirely but idk. I merely observe the prob…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:18 PM
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Tell beautiful women they're smart and ugly women they're pretty. Ez.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:06 PM
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https://bigthink.com/thinking/boys-graded-more-harshly-in-school/ https://phys.org/news/2022-10-teachers-girls-higher-boys-italian.html https://www.bbc.com/news/education-31751672 Darn rad prill BBC and their manospear talking points!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:05 PM
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I can immediately tell from his responses he just doesn't come across as cool. AND he's using dating apps which put him at a severe disadvantage. I know guys uglier than him who do okay dating and it isn't because they volunteer at their animal shelter. They just know how to engage women in a way that comes across as super confident dudes who know what they're doing. Dating apps are absolutely terrible guys stop using this bullshit. Has nothing to do with being a "terrible" person. Being boring …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:01 PM
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I listened to it. It seems real to me I've heard plenty of girlfriends say the exact same thing she has. It's simple. There was no chemistry. Some guys can look handsome but come across as not sexy at all. Of course it dragged on for 10 dates the dude was probably completely lame. You could put another dudes brain in that guys body and it would have turned out differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 08:18 PM
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"He's cute but I don't feel a chemistry". Aka the guy wasn't sexy. End of. It has nothing to do with how many dates you plan or how nice you are or even how handsome you are (seriously) or anything. It's sexiness. Twins can literally look exactly the same and one of them comes across as lame. Men need to learn how to be sexy. Being cute or handsome doesn't mean shit if she doesn't want to fuck you. And you don't need a trillion dates to figure that out either. She literally claims he's attractiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 08:13 PM
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I Dm'd her on twitter and we got to know each other then met up. We eventually moved away far from each other for work so it didn't end up working out
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 07:58 PM
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What is up with people building entire fanfics in their head based on extremely little info? Yeah people tend to find each other physically attractive then get to know each other. It's called real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 07:56 PM
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Is it homophobic if I wouldn't fuck a man but otherwise would if he was female?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:22 PM
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He was basically a dating coach for super nerds. I remember it from a long time ago it was super meh but like most dating advice didn't really spell things out. Which is even more of a disservice given the demographic he was trying to appeal to, which was, extremely socially awkward men. If anything Dr. Nerdlove was liked more by women than men. The advice back then seemed more centered around "Don't be sexist and take a shower". The real advice a lot of men need in order to even get past the ga…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 12:48 PM
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Projection? Unless a man is really just getting pussy thrown at him like he's an NBA player it's not really an "impulse" decision to just get laid. Even for super hot normal dudes some work is still involved, just a lot less.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 12:13 AM
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it was obvious we were into each other from the start though. Many many such cases. Idk why guys think they shouldn't befriend a girl with a boyfriend. Not like you have to cheat with her. Once he gets dropped you could be up to bat next!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 04:12 PM
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There are plenty of 30+ women who are virgins Lol why do people here brazenly lie like this. No there are not that many people like this in general, so "plenty" is doing a ton of heavy lifting here. If you as a grown man are banking on your partner being a virgin when you meet them you are absolutely fucking delusional. Not saying you can't find one but you might as well go to the Arab world if you're so hung up on finding a "virgin". There are "virgin" women who still engage in some sexual play…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:44 PM
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He's a pussy bitch, she's a sadistic bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 12:28 PM
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It's hard seeing good guys I know get married to someone who's a complete bitch because they think it's the best they can do. Sure you've been in an on/off relationship with her for 8 years but dude she made fun of your dead mother. I wish this dude would grow some fucking nuts and drop this stupid bitch. But nope, engaged. RIP.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:51 AM
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Maybe it's only been my experiences but I truly believe a lot of women are way freakier than men think. Due to slut shaming they can't expose that side of themselves to most dudes and honestly most men could not handle it anyway. Women are horny as fuck! If you haven't seen some real down and dirty gully ass shit I can see why you'd think women don't love sex. And it's NOT just with guys who are 6'5 "chads" either you fools.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 12:38 AM
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The crimson chin pill is that you can pretty much do whatever you want and most people really do not care what you're doing unless it's extremely unethical or illegal. So go live your life and stop looking for the approval of people who don't care about your best interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 10:20 PM
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Yeah Im talking about the West. Unless you're like my family in Africa you do not live in a patriarchy. No one is excluding the >50% of voters who are female from voting for who they want anymore and no one is stopping any woman from obtaining political or social power
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 10:17 PM
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Rule by fathers hasn't existed for almost 80 years
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 10:12 PM
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But most assholes aren't rapists
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:27 PM
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Yeah it's called just being inexperienced. You don't necessarily have to be an "asshole". After a certain age there isn't that much leeway if your skills in general are just bad because you haven't had that much sex. If it requires multiple times with his partner to get the rhythm down and he gets rejected after awkward sex the first time guess how much better he'll get at it. You aren't going to be a good sex partner in general if you only had it less times than you have had fingers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:01 PM
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There's a giant gulf between being so whack in bed she doesn't want to deal with you and pornstar skills. Why should a woman put up with some super whack dick if she doesn't have to? What because he's nice? It's 2023 people have options now
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 04:50 PM
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Because its not really hard to tell who the mother is when you see the baby pop out of her vagina? But yeah go ahead do both who cares. Why would I or the mother be concerned that the baby is potentially from a different mother who I didn't fuck? What we implant the wrong fetus behind her back? So dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 06:02 PM
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The man's bi. He's the "most swiped" because he's batting for both teams. I could set my range to seeking men and get 200 potential likes in like 2 hours. Its that fuckin easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 04:46 PM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/TL;DR As a person who likes writing a lot my advice is don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 04:40 PM
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Hot girls with shitty personality are for recreational use only
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 04:31 PM
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If you don't want to live in a society stop using all public services you didn't directly pay for right now and move to your own island. Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:49 PM
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No one does sex work for validation "No one" is doing A LOT of heavy lifting here. Because I can personally name a few from my hoe friends
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:46 PM
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The question is assuming the guys know. Of course former sex workers try not to out themselves, they know the vast majority of men they want would not be down with that shit. Date as in hang out sometimes and fuck? Sure. Serious girlfriend they see long term exclusively and want to eventually marry? Maybe if he is also a sex worker or into polyamory.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:45 PM
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Nope. A specific type of girl gravitates towards industries like that and it will be nigh impossible to maintain a stable relationship long term. In general. Outliers exist though. But go ahead, marry the woman who is used to massive amounts of male attention directed toward her sexually for money. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:42 PM
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You're taxed to pay for some other dudes healthcare and you're taxed to pay for the public services used when his kid is born, and you're taxed to pay for the legal system in place when he has to pay child support. It's really not a big deal. You're taxed to pay for the infrastructure that keeps this network in place for you to post here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:56 PM
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I'll meet in the middle. No mandatory paternity tests but if the man finds out the kid isn't his and can prove it the woman's wages should be garnished for 18 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:42 PM
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Once you're outside college that shit is extra lame unless it's with someone you are super close with and that's your dynamic. In a group setting? Ugh. Be more chill about it, no one has to know shit. Plus who are you trying to impress? It's your dick getting sucked it's not like you get extra points for telling other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:37 PM
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Hit up Latin America or Eastern Europe
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:15 AM
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Reddit used to be extremely free speech. I miss those days. But yeah she was pretty racist
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:14 AM
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Half of game is just logistics and placement
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:12 AM
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Are we talking about how to start a relationship from scratch and get dates or sustain a relationship with someone they are already dating? I'm talking about the former. Knowing how to date your own spouse isn't really helpful when telling someone how to get a girlfriend/boyfriend in a completely different era. Grandma's got nothing useful to tell me until I get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 02:10 AM
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Trying to do the uno reverse card on feminist rhetoric doesn't work and looks retarded. Just say the thing you're opposing is stupid. Trying to make it look hypocritical is a waste
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 02:07 AM
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Which is the opposite...of gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 02:05 AM
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single as in can’t turn a date into successful repeated interest. A person who can get interviews and always gets rejected would give great job hunting advice
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:10 AM
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Depends what you mean by "single". Single by choice as in goes on lots of dates and fucks around? Single as in can't get dates ever? A person who's been in a successful relationship for the last 30 years has almost zero useful active dating advice for the modern day, anymore than a software engineer who retired in 1998 giving me advice on Java applets.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:54 AM
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You are 6'3? Bro just get fucking jacked. Start right now, since it'll take you a few years to look really good. At least 2-3 assuming you aren't fucking around in the gym. Your first year will be noobie gains and figuring out what works for your physique. By the time you're 30 you will look pretty strong for your size but nothing crazy assuming you're natural (I'd suggest not using performance enhancing drugs). Don't let reddit nerds bullshit the fuck outta you, it can make a world of a differe…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:45 AM
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Look if you have the funds and you're basically a virgin 30+ and you seriously cannot find anyone, get a sugar relationship for the training wheels. Don't go see a hooker, get yourself a glorified GFE but don't fall in love. This is not ideal at all, and in fact don't go searching for the hottest girl either. This is purely pragmatic to get your dick wet and get some experience, even if it's partially synthetic. You should also be working on yourself at the exact same time and not bullshitting y…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:25 AM
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IG is free and can be more effective depending on how you curate your profile, along with more plausible deniability.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 04:08 PM
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Devil-may-care "I literally do not give a single fuck I'm here to have fun" attitude. Depending on how adventurous you are, go to a city you've never been before for a few days, drop some phenibut and just talk to everyone you see. You may come out with an interesting story or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:43 PM
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damn that's crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:40 PM
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And there are people starving and dying of incurable diseases or going bankrupt because their health insurance lapsed. Welcome to reality and life. What do you want sympathy? A shoulder to cry on? If you are a MAN you will be waiting a long fucking time sitting around hoping people care. Nature is ruthless and does not give a single fuck about you or me. Either do what you can to get the results you want or be okay with your lot in life. Like what do people want? I acknowledge that life is unfai…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:16 PM
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This is pretty good advice. I'd drop the "grass isn't greener" shit. Bro, i've been "ugly" and i've been "attractive". Beyond all the problems you might face because too many women want to fuck you, it's 1000x better man. People literally are just more likely to be an asshole to you in general just because you don't look good. I'd rather be ugly and not disabled to be honest. Lol like get the fuck outta here with that shit bro. Somehow everyone who says this puts zero effort into looking uglier.…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:38 PM
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Almost zero correlation
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 09:55 PM
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I had an extremely attractive roommate confide in me he could never get married due to a lack of trust because he fucked so many dudes wives. Well he's married now so...if anything I'm pretty much expecting him to cheat on his wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 09:52 PM
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No wonder findom (financial domination) got so popular...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 02:07 PM
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In my experience some of these "christian" wives really get down on the low.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 01:23 PM
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Literally nothing wrong with this. Breaking the touch barrier is how normal humans with a normal sex drive flirt. You don't need 10 different consent forms and a declaration "IS IT OKAY IF I FORMALLY PROCEED FROM TOUCHING YOUR HAND TO HOLDING YOUR HIPS AS WE ENGAGE IN MUTUAL DANCING". I guess if you're autistic you have to learn by a guide online but this is is stuff dudes learn naturally by trial and error.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 01:20 PM
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Next time don't waste your life "building a connection" and never meeting over an entire month. Move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 12:16 PM
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Id actually be okay with this if I knew it would work. If it would work. If.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 07:03 AM
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Steven Anderson I think this guys views are total garbage but I can't knock being fruitful and multiplying if you can afford it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 06:59 AM
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You have time on your side
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 06:55 AM
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It works on anyone susceptible to any degree of marketing to various degrees so basically every human to exist. Every advertisement won't get you but some will. That's why marketing firms hire psychologists. There's not a single person out there who can't be influenced by shiny packaging except maybe the most isolated of spiritual monks living in the desert.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 06:54 AM
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Yeah of course "it works". Makeup "works". Applied psychology "works". Putting on a more attractive persona that's not necessarily how you normally are "works". But why is this a "problem"?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 06:50 AM
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How the fuck are you gonna get a gf without female platonic friends People say that? I say overall it's irrelevant but if you can't make ANY female friends you are either so creepy and/or extremely ugly you probably can't get a gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 09:23 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Selection_bias
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 07:14 PM
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A seductive personality and ability to flirt well is what people forget when they say "good personality". I know short broke guys who look average facially who are literally never without a sex partner, some of whom are very beautiful. They aren't "nice" or the ultimate paragon of "good" people necessarily either. If anything they tend to put their wants and needs first and are assertive about it. Now, not evil villains, but absolutely not the next walking gandhi (like most people). What do they…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 07:04 PM
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how is the women's fault? It isn't. I believe blaming women for your dating problems is stupid. Learn to get good or get lost. Figure out what works, and what doesn't. Don't complain as a Man because honestly no one gives a shit anyway. Either whine about being a loser or learn how to win. That's my view.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 04:00 PM
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Devil's in the details but what do you think came first, the rejections and constant failure or the reading internet forums? These guys end up there because they just couldn't figure it out, unfortunately. Unless you're a man who's had to figure it out on their own it's hard to get as well. Passivity as a dude will get you nowhere and confidence doesn't come in a vacuum.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:57 PM
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In my experience, coming across as a confident sexual being.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:53 PM
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Being kind hearted is not the same thing as being a sexual being (what like 99% of people are). That's what guys like these lack. An inherent sexual nature that makes them come across as a mating partner. That's not just looks but also behavior. A good personality doesn't necessarily just mean you are kind and sweet hearted. I know guys who are super sweet and awesome dudes who volunteer but are basically almost always single. Why? They come across as asexual puppy dogs. Great friends. Not great…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:52 PM
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If that's your takeaway I'm sorry but you are kind of a dumb person. Let me go on r/teenagers as the cultural heartbeat of how teenagers around the world think on a day to day basis. Lol get a grip son.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:12 AM
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I personally can't get super hard if Im stressed out as well
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 10:40 PM
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How much do you agree with this statement? "When Women are stressed they tend to not want sex. When Men are stressed they tend to want to have sex to relieve it."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 10:27 PM
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Responsive vs Spontaneous desire isn't necessarily gendered but you definitely notice distributions. Women tend to have more "brakes" and are thus turned off easily. Men tend to have the pedal on and are thus turned on more easily. "Come how you are" is basically female coded, which is good. Men and Women aren't exactly the same it's good to know how the differences work so people aren't confused. You can't hate what you truly understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 10:25 PM
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Ice Spice has dethroned J. Cole and Drake as the best female rapper in the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 10:15 PM
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Danger zone is guys who make a decent amount with most of their equity in their home. Not broke but not rich either. Which was the majority of the middle class at least. Was.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 08:41 PM
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The easiest way to disarm this is to literally not care what you say or think so how would this work on an actual sociopath?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 05:54 PM
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dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 05:53 PM
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Nothing, who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:11 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:09 PM
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This somehow makes even less sense than starting a company that sells dollar bills for 90 cents.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:08 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/tavtbz/men_who_opened_up_your_feelings_has_there_been/ https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/sgc83k/men_who_dont_express_their_feelings_with_their/ https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/oo2pte/men_who_have_opened_up_their_emotions_to_your_so/ Men on reddit constantly talk about when they open up it gets used against them. What evidence do you need? Just listen to some people's experiences. The shit has happened to me, it's happened to my friends. I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:23 PM
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Interesting. I sometimes observe that and sometimes do not. Or else no good people would ever get hurt yet it happens all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:34 PM
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Basic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 04:13 PM
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it’s that men enjoy feeling sexually desired too That's...what makes it better sex...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 04:12 PM
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Idk I live in the real world and don't get my views about life from an internet forum. Try it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 03:12 PM
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Then just make it the 2nd date
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 03:01 PM
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Gen Z is weird. Apparently sending cashapps counts as showing interest. Guys are really sending 10 dollars just to talk? What the hells going on
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 01:56 PM
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You look like a lesbian
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 01:55 PM
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Hooking up with people you barely know in the place of their residence in order to engage in sexual activity is extremely commonly normal. Do you live in the 1940s with access to the modern internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 12:51 PM
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Yeah. Jerk off material.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 12:23 AM
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"Think". Lol you don't have to think it when you can see it yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 12:12 AM
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Collapse of the entire economy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:35 PM
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Oh well yeah that is a lot of work for the average guy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:02 PM
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Learning how to fuck isn't expensive and incredibly painful. Time consuming, maybe? But it's not that hard to do man. Easy to go from no experience to some experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 06:57 PM
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You guy's are making a big mistake trying to coopt feminist/feminine ways of dealing with issues. Complaining that something is "misandry", lol, lmao even. Women get things done by complaining about it a lot. Men don't get things done by complaining, since surprise, no one cares about men whining. Here's one way to deal with this "issue". Stop giving a fuck. Seriously. Who fucking cares if someone think's you're "predatory". Unless they're fucking you or feeding you their opinion literally does …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 06:53 PM
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have money meh. be outgoing sure. be confident yes. be funny meh have exciting interests not really have style that helps a lot be fit that also helps a lot. In order to date easily sure. But just to date all you need to do is try over and over again and see what works for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 06:50 PM
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No true physical lust means no true desire. Waste of time to couple up like that but life is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 06:05 PM
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The problem occurs when your sex life is completely whack, when she doesn't respect you, and/or when she cheats.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 06:05 PM
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No, they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 05:18 PM
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You do not need to "be amazing" to date. If that was the case no one ever would complain about a shitty ex or their current partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 05:16 PM
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Cheer up man, it's a fixable problem
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:38 PM
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"African American" isn't granular enough. Being Black from South Africa isn't really the same as being Black from Atlanta tracing your ancestry back 200 years. Idk what's the point of your answers?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:32 PM
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Idk man when I was on sosauve there were definitely examples of dudes who would claim they made "3000" approaches and never got anywhere. I'd say in general meeting more Women (not necessarily cold approaching) is just a good idea. ROI on a cold approach is actually extremely low as fuck unless you are very good looking or have leverage (aka a white guy in south east asia). Warm approaches are much better. Like showing up to the same venue and running into the same people until they get to know …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:30 PM
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"American Descendants of Slaves". Black Americans whose family members didn't immigrate from overseas but were brought here
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:28 PM
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ADOS Black or Immigrant Black?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:25 PM
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Black?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:21 PM
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White?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:17 PM
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Aren't you hispanic?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:14 PM
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"Women don't know what they want" has to be one of the dumbest cliché's men tell themselves. Uh, knowing what you want and not being extremely vocal about it are two different things guys. You think the people most likely to get shamed for having sex with more than one guy are the most likely to be vocal about things that would make them look "slutty"? Then you have all these guys who think women don't want crazy monkey sex. They do. Just not with you. It's called the beast with two backs. Not t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:04 PM
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Because they haven't seen too many positive wins in their life/love that's why. But all you need is one W
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 10:36 PM
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Men will only change their behavior in response to the Women they want. Women will only change their behavior in response to the Men they want. That's pretty much it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 08:29 PM
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Higher sensitivity to being judged and on average higher levels of neuroticism on the set of Big 5 Personality traits. It's half the reason most dudes don't know shit because women don't open up to you if they think you'll think negatively of them. Men are more likely to not give a shit which is why there are a disproportionate number of loners/anti social people who are male vs female. I speak in general terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:49 PM
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Why do people still think women give a single fuck about money?? They are getting fucked by your body not your bank account. What do you guys stuff dollars in her pussy to get her off? It's always the men who don't fuck that say this too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:23 PM
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