AR12PleaseSaveMe Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	we care about men too If you ever need an example of how pervasive misandry is, send people to the comments section of this video.	/r/MensRights	17/10/23 06:18 PM
4	My feminist wife age 44 who used to complain about abuse of male power at work is now having sex with her 29 year old employee while breaking our marriage vow Women somehow assumed that if they were in power they wouldn’t act on their libido? Don’t do something drastic like get her fired. You take away her income, then you’re going to have a huge problem, especially with children in the picture. Get divorced. Give evidence to the lawyer only. Don’t make a huge scene out of this. Keep it all in the courtroom.	/r/MensRights	14/09/23 02:21 AM
1	Man doused in acid and shot in the face by boyfriend of 'one night stand' because woman claimed she was raped Nope	/r/MensRights	22/07/23 01:23 AM
24	Another horrific example of the disposability of men. When they're battling against a slow and painful death they're often thrown away to die alone as they're no longer able to provide If a man leaves a dying wife, he's a piece of shit. If a woman leaves a dying man, she's a hero for leaving "what most likely was an abusive relationship." I've seen this mentality in person. A family friend's husband was diagnosed with liver cancer (genetic disease, not from alcohol or drug abuse.) He was put on a transplant list, but didn't get a liver in time. While waiting for a potential transplant, people would call her frequently to check up on her, where she was crying a ton. She never…	/r/MensRights	24/06/23 12:53 AM
1	"...In our culture, men do not expect to be stalked" - most of men will likely never report about having a stalker As a man, I'm scared as fuck if I walk alone at night. Idk where people think "men can do whatever they want at night and not have to worry about being assaulted."	/r/MensRights	16/06/23 04:10 AM
1	the hypocrisy in the comments of both posts is just baffling! From what? Getting pregnant puts your life in danger. Not getting pregnant increases risk for health conditions as well.	/r/MensRights	10/03/23 06:09 PM
3	the hypocrisy in the comments of both posts is just baffling! Where are you basing the claim that women shouldn’t be taking BC after their 30’s? Women can still get pregnant in their 30’s. It has a ton of benefits to them as well.	/r/MensRights	10/03/23 07:14 AM
7	Currently ostracised from my friend group for telling one of them that she man who got her pregnant shouldn't have to step up. Then she should also hold herself to said standard. If she doesn’t want a kid, then she shouldn’t have sex until she’s ready for one. Birth control fails. Plan B will fail if she takes it after ovulation and before menses. See how it quickly turns into “you can’t police her body!!!” when you reverse the situation. (I’m not saying people should police a woman’s body; just pointing out how you shouldn’t police a man’s body either.)	/r/MensRights	28/12/22 11:41 PM
7	How does this study make you feel? Women more aroused by naked women than men There’s a paywall so I’m not sure if this was a survey. If it was, these studies are practically useless. In every step of data collection, there’s a ton of room for bias. It only serves as a stepping stone to do actual research to look at what you’re testing. Nothing more.	/r/MensRights	18/12/22 04:07 PM
32	As a 16yr old male, seeing this trend on r/whitepeopletwitter is soul crushing. We're not all rapists, are we? Death by statistics. I can make statistics say anything I want. Other people have shown examples of this, so I won’t belabor the point. However, this is common manipulative/gaslighting behavior that has no logical basis for it. Look at it this way: let’s say a man were to tell his wife “hey, women (in general) need to shut the fuck up cause most of them say stupid shit. If you disagree, then it’s because you can’t see what your gender does around here.” That would be abusive. She’s getting stron…	/r/MensRights	27/11/22 02:47 PM
20	Feminist twitter, ladies & gents.... Your first mistake was going onto Twitter.	/r/MensRights	04/11/22 08:18 PM
5	Fasley accused of sexual harassment Get a lawyer.	/r/MensRights	26/10/22 01:19 AM
1	Wikipedia is funny It seems like the article spends way more time and energy just trying to downplay or reject the notion of systemic discrimination and hatred of men.	/r/MensRights	23/10/22 05:57 PM
2	I asked why is rape coercion only rape when it’s done to a woman and lost a friend If you agree to have sex with someone that is on BC, then it’s consensual. But if you don’t consent to sex with someone without a form of BC, is that not grape? This is of course assuming there was dialogue that led to the reproductive coercion.	/r/MensRights	09/10/22 11:15 PM
1	looking for opinions on this mess Men will spend hundreds to thousands of $$$ just to be spit/stepped/urinated on. I am NOT surprised they’ll pay for an actual date	/r/MensRights	03/10/22 01:30 AM
-5	Why do people tell unattractive guys to be “nice” to compensate for being unattractive? Bro you’re not unattractive. I’d honestly focus on yourself. Be courteous (ie, not an asshole.) But seriously consider therapy to grow your confidence. To keep it “vapid,” I knew guys in high school and college that were not conventionally attractive. I mean they were very overweight, not too tall, and stuck out of the crowd in the wrong way if you didn’t know them. Yet, they were the most confident mother fuckers out there. Yeah, people gave them shit and were mean to them. But holy hell, they …	/r/MensRights	30/09/22 03:18 AM
1	What do you think of "emotional labor"? It’s the same notion as “you can’t fix her bro.” If the partner is relying on you to handle their problems without said partner actively working on it, then it’s emotionally exhausting. I’ve been there: ex gf had depression and anxiety. She wouldn’t even try to work on herself through the mental illnesses. Over the course of 1.5 years, it wore me down to the point where I burned out emotionally. The relationship ended with her cheating on me and abusing me in multiple ways, including sexually. I…	/r/MensRights	26/09/22 11:17 PM
1	Just got a letter from AAA about life insurance. Men pay up to 40% more than women because they were born with the wrong genitals Car insurance companies do this as well. Men ages 16 - 25 are charged the most, assuming all other things equal.	/r/MensRights	14/09/22 04:06 PM
2	"Nurse Who Won't Give Viagra to White Conservative Men Resigns" (June 29, 2022) The comments in the article are a shit-show	/r/MensRights	26/08/22 01:09 PM
4	Does anyone know when we will get out of this “woke” phase? When they have sons that are victimized and discriminated against.	/r/MensRights	15/12/21 08:29 PM
4	Woman was revolted at the fact that I tapped her shoulder He never said he was owed the charger. That’s not what this is about lmao	/r/MensRights	07/12/21 02:37 PM
2	Are there upcoming weddings in your family? Because this one saying really ticks me off. It’s the bride’s day because traditionally, the bride’s father/family pays for it. That is also antiquated.	/r/MensRights	03/11/21 02:51 AM
8	Those Who Were Former Feminists, What Made You Stop Being A Feminist? Oddly enough, my feminist wife lol. When I write this, it comes from a place of learning on both ends. I carry no I’ll-will or harbor resentment in the slightest. We have a healthy marriage. Also, I’m sorry this is a long post lol. On one of our first dates 6 years ago, she and I went to a millennial-esque bar with ping pong tables. She’s from the west coast and I from the south (you’ll see why that’s important lol.) Now, I suck at playing ping pong; she’s great at it. And it really doesn’t both…	/r/MensRights	31/10/21 11:11 PM
4	Introducing our BRAND NEW International Men's Day Leaflet Pack. These leaflets are free to copy, print, and modify. (Link to the full pack in the comments) I don’t know if anyone will read this, but just to add something: I’m in medical school and we are in our reproductive system block, where we learn everything about male and female reproduction - from physiology to the social determinants of health. We have a few days where we (the med students) practice being a doctor AND a patient with various sexual health. One of those is a partner in a domestic violence case. Except, only women play the role of the abused partner. Men don’t. And I don’t thi…	/r/MensRights	01/10/21 12:32 PM
7	A gay mans struggle with female lead fetishization and Sexual assault One girl I dated for a little over 2 years had sexually assaulted me our first time. I had a minor dental procedure done that day and was in pain. She and I were just talking at this point, so she wanted to come over to “take care of me while I healed.” I thought it was just a simple gesture to show she cared about me. But she used me being in a “weaker” state to force herself on me. I didn’t want to have sex, but she essentially used myself “not wanting it” as a sign of “being a f****t” (clear …	/r/MensRights	05/08/21 10:22 PM
1	In fact men are more likely to be victims of a violent crime. You’re not getting the point of his comment.	/r/MensRights	28/06/21 04:34 PM
12	Patronizing and talking down to men about their mental health is not helping and often comes across as rather hateful (which turns away many men in the process). Let's work with men, not against them. Men are dispensable, according to society	/r/MensRights	25/05/21 12:20 AM
1	Author J.K. Rowling facing backlash over tweets criticized as transphobic.... turns out that declaring only people that menstruate are women, has left out an awful lot of women that don't menstruate. The press has taken up the fight and bloodied Rowling's nose in this first round... It’s coming from women who identify as men who can still menstruate. As in, towards the beginning of the transition, they still menstruate. That’s how I view it anyway	/r/PussyPassDenied	08/06/20 05:27 PM