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Ime, absolutely women can not understand other women's sexuality. I'd say men tend to understand individual women's sexuality even less. Like I love sex. It's a hoot, a great time. There are so many women who have insisted that it's a self destructive activity, or I'm trying to heal some trauma. (I'm really not. I just like sex.) However, there are also soooo many men who insist that I actually can't enjoy casual sex. That it's ruining me or that I'm secretly trying to get the men to be in a rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 08:38 PM
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Yes, especially if it's an activity that I picked out. I do the same thing with friends though. If I earn way more, I'm bringing them as a plus one, or if it's an activity they aren't super into, I'll cover everything. When they don't seem comfortable with it, I say they can drive and I'll pay as a trade.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 08:21 PM
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Instinctively I'd say yes. I like the men I date, and I've never liked being spoiled financially. I might get sad about no gifts eventually, but more because that cuts off a way for my partner to show they were thinking about me. No monetary support is no issue, I make enough. No food, roof, or bed is confusing though. Like I can't ever stay over at his place? And if I do I have to bring my own food and sleep on the couch? Or like he doesn't have a place? I'm infertile and frankly not interested…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 06:11 AM
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Yes we also invented dragons
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 03:49 AM
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Yeah? Like our closest relative the chimps? The ones that aren't monogamous? Or most other apes? Which are also not monogamous?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 02:27 AM
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Humans have been using different forms of birth control for 4,000 years and before that were using planned pregnancy based off the woman's cycle. For as long as humans have known sex is what causes pregnancy, we've been finding ways to prevent it while still having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 01:46 AM
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You can find sex disgusting all you want, hating it is your choice. You're not required to enjoy or seek out sex. That doesn't make it inherently disgusting or less enjoyable to other people. Shitting on the sidewalk is a bio hazard and a public health risk. With more open information about stds and birth control, a society can low the spread and prevent teen pregnancy while still allowing freedom of choice. There isn't a way to do a similar thing for shitting on the sidewalk.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 01:28 AM
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I bought some for my ex. It was hot, they were a fun addition to our sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 10:44 PM
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You know, I'm debating someone right now who thinks men are inherently superior to women. Despite that, I still call myself a feminist and support everything on this list. I still want life to be better for the men around me. You can call yourself egalitarian if that suits you better, I don't mind unless you truly believe men and women shouldn't be equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 04:06 PM
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Then there's no reason to try to keep women from those positions, or be against feminism which is simply trying to give equal opportunities. By your belief system, men will naturally fill most of those positions anyways. Also, idk if it's you, but someone has been downvoting every single one of my comments within this chain. It's against subreddit rules, and frankly unnecessary. It's a debate subreddit, we're supposed to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 03:56 PM
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Or, hear me out, we could work at dissolving sexist attitudes and then allow both genders to choose the jobs they want. The men and women who deserve to become CEOs would become them, and the men and women who deserve to become teachers would become them. We could even lower the wealth inequality so everyone could afford to choose the job they're best fit for without having to worry about money. That's....a stratocracy. Why would you want such a large military population... Sure, and also protec…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 02:58 PM
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Okay, what would you want women's role in society to be then?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 02:05 PM
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Ah yes, the privilege of forcibly being a second class citizen. Almost like...the exact argument for why people could "ethically" keep slaves.... And men wouldn't have had bullets in their guns or aircraft to drop bombs with. That's what happens when you don't cut off 50% of your population from working.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 12:30 AM
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If your position is that subjugating women is necessary and ethical, I can't imagine us ever coming to a satisfying conclusion to this debate. And yet, despite women making up a third of the manufacturing force during ww2, of course they could never fix up a robot. Not to mention aircraft manufacturing plants where they exceeded the amount of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 11:10 PM
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Yes, but humans could need to eat whales. We've hunted them for their meat, fat, and skin. Keeping a predator from hunting is unnatural, why keep humans from hunting whales? We have better technology, we can kill them, it's only natural for us to hunt them as much as we can. We could add women to the military with lighter equipment and in areas where physical size matters less, like drone pilots and the airforce (if you insist they must be a part of combat).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:20 PM
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Yes and whales only exist because humans allow them to. Are they an illusion? Should we massacre the whales too since humans are so much stronger? Go all the way back to might makes right? What ways do you treat men that would be impossible to do with a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 09:19 PM
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That's wild, the feminist men in my life are really kind and supportive of other men. So now that you've said feminist men don't care and I say they do, which one of us wins this debate?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 09:15 PM
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Do feminists care about the ways that it can help themselves, yes. It's a social movement about inequality. It would be a very odd social movement if it didn't help the people who are a part of it. That said, men can be feminists. The op lists ways that feminism can help men. This is an entire conversation about the ways feminism by men can be for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 08:03 PM
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Those are women who engage in choice feminism. It's the idea that people can engage with traditional relationship structures and elements with the understanding that's a choice the couple made. For example, a stay at home mom and working father. Compare that to no feminism, which would be that everyone must engage in a traditional relationship. Which would mean every couple should have that structure, including people who don't want it. You can dislike choice feminism, I have a few critiques mys…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 07:57 PM
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I use we to indicate that I'm putting myself in the group I'm referencing. Like if I say "we can get cravings for red meat during our periods because of lower iron," I'm adding myself to the group of women who get cravings. It's just cause reddit is anonymous and people keep assuming I'm a man if I don't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 01:57 PM
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And I disagree because his arguments are directly in line with things feminists have actively fought for over the years. Not passively accepted, actively worked towards. Once again, women and feminists are not even a little bit the same thing. A lot of women are absolutely not feminists. He specifically said "a lot of feminists would ironically hate it"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 01:52 PM
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How does that relate to what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 01:45 PM
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They'd lose I was referring to mainstream american feminism, which I guess I should've specified. The consensus seems to be abolishing the draft or a gender neutral draft.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 08:10 PM
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It definitely feels like an awkward discussion just because of the repercussions men vs. women face under the patriarchy, but i think it's definitely still a valuable discussion. If we want to have future generations of men who feel comfortable exploring traditionally feminine behaviors, we have to be able to allow them to discuss feelings surrounding it. Which in the case is mostly dating, but that's where these men are feeling the pressures of patriarchal standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 06:13 PM
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Right? This feels like very mainstream feminism, with the only caveat being that feminists also tend to be against the draft entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 06:09 PM
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This all sounds great. Like all of these things sound amazing. It sounds a bit like you're saying feminists instead of just....women. There are feminist women who haven't deconstructed their interaction with the patriarchy. However, all of these sound like things feminists would support and enjoy. Again, keeping in mind that men can also be feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 04:15 PM
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1) yes, of course I'd vote for legalized prostitution (but I'd vote for that anyways) or maybe some form of sex therapy (which is fairly close to prostitution in the first place, and I'd want it to be covered by insurance) 2) kind of? I already try to be very kind if I'm turning someone down. I've never turned someone down or resisted coming onto a man because I thought they got plenty of attention. The people who get my attention are the people who catch it. If I knew of a way to turn someone d…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 07:45 PM
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It's definitely a safer compliment than calling a woman hot, but the women who hate being called cute are going to really really hate it. I've almost torpedoed my chances calling someone cute. Men are suprisingly okay with it, which I've always found neat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:54 AM
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A lot of younger people assume they're somehow special or 100% going to spot manipulative dynamics just because they know what that looks like in other people's lives. Having an older friend/aunt/whatever to gently point out when something might be skeevy can absolutely make a difference. Do I think teenage girls are going to listen to random women on the internet with any regularity? Ehhh less likely. Doesn't make it impossible though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:44 AM
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I think the quality of the compliment is less dependent on why they're saying it and more what they're saying, like you mentioned in number 3. I've had plenty of people give generic compliments when they were flirting vs. not flirting. Them not wanting to fuck me didn't make "you're cute" any better of a compliment. I've also had a guy who 100% was just being a sleazeball say that he liked how my dress was fluttering in the wind and that it was very cinematic. Did I like him? No. Do I wear that …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:04 PM
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I think this framing doesn't completely accurately describe what dressing scandalously results in. It assumes that the person who looks has the ultimate authority of what is sexual, and that the person looked at knows exactly what would be sexual. For example, during the summer I prefer to wear sundresses, which have recently begun to be sexualized. A five years ago, the same dress didnt garner nearly the same amount of catcalling and leering. It similarly assumes that the wearer can truly contr…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:33 AM
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I think a lot of womens' actions in dating do represent it. Using personally controlled birth control, going to public places on dates, sharing locations with friends, and learning basic self defense techniques/staying vigilant are all ways we try to mitigate harm. It's disingenuous to imply that women are facing that risk just to get cock. Plenty are doing it because they genuinely believe in love and believe being in love is what they need to feel fulfilled. Similarly, it's disingenuous to ass…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:37 AM
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I find it's even more frustrating if I knew the person before we went on the date. Otherwise, I don't mind playing the manic pixie dream girl for a couple hours. I still like going on dates, but I've also never needed to use dating apps to get them. So I get to skip the whole "please like me" bit (which is the absolute worst part). My girl friends (especially the queer ones) have grown to absolutely despise dating apps for that exact reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:06 PM
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Im probably not the main audience for this question since I'm not intentionally looking for anything longterm and I'm bi, but I do love inanely adding my opinion. For me, it feels like dating has gotten so performative that it's hard to genuinely get to know the person. Like I'm on the date because I already want you. You dont have to continue to convince me to want you. We're here to decide if we actually want to be together, not whether you're a person worthy of being loved. Which has got to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 10:35 PM
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Personally, I think it's a ridiculous compliment no matter what gender it's going to. The reason women are probably more chill with it being said to men is that it's meant to be a compliment that also includes a reference to gender dynamics. Like for your emotional intelligence comment. Not only does your friend have high emotional intelligence, he's also working against the socialization of his gender roles. It pops up similarly for race dynamics as well. As in being complimented for being pret…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:21 AM
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And if that 4 year old bitten by a dog pays more attention to dogs' body language and learns when one is aggressive, we would call that discernment. And if that guy burnt by a gold digger goes on a date where the woman refuses to pay, he would then have the discernment to understand she's a gold digger.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 06:23 PM
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Labia is mostly aesthetic, longer one's can make it more difficult to get hard suction on the clit. Women taste different, but the same woman can also taste different. Pubic hair maintenance all has different pros and cons. Natural is usually pretty soft, but it can get in their mouth. (I have a tongue ring so that wasnt a super great time for either of us) Shaved can look good, but if it's not a super close shave and she's wiggly it's really rough on their face. Waxed/epilating can work best if…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 02:17 AM
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I was 20 for both my first kiss and my first relationship. (Although my first kiss was a week after I lost my virginity because she smoked and I refused to kiss her) No casual sex yet, I'm sure I'll get around to it eventually. I've had 4 total relationships. Got cheated on in the first 3...took a nice longish break from dating after that. My fourth one went on for about a year and a half before he got a job out of state and I started up grad school. At most I've gone maybe 6 months single/sexle…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 04:36 PM
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First of all, trying to understand what might be going on in someone else's mind is the literal opposite of solipsism. Second of all, you're describing the kink version of objectification. Which similar to all kink, subsists itself on consent. Kind of hard to have consent if you think the other person isn't really a person Third of all woman-brained solipsism It does make women impossible to respect, though. Rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 04:02 PM
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It was more that since objectification of someone happens in someone's mind, the way to tell if they're specifically objectifying someone rather than making a faux pas is whether they care about how the other person feels. For example: Person 1: woooweee smile for me Person 2: oh...no thanks, not in a good mood Person 1: oops, my bad Vs. Person 1: woooweee smile for me Person 2: oh...no thanks, not in a good mood Person 1: no come on, I can make you smile Even though telling a person to smile is…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:49 AM
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I'm sure there are some women who misuse objectification to mean "any attention i did not want". However, this conversation sounds very similar to the guys who are clearly catcalling you and if you push back, they say it was just a compliment. It's easy to accidentally give an awkward or weird compliment. Exceedingly easy. It's normal for someone to be uncomfortable if you accidentally gave an off putting compliment. Do you know how it keeps from becoming objectification after you've made someon…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 03:32 PM
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It's hard to give advice to every gen z guy, so I'm just gonna go with the advice I've given my personal friends Body/looks: most of my friends already had some basic info about this, a lot of it was tailoring the advice to them specifically. Try to find a cheap shampoo and conditioner that's actually meant for your hair type. (Curly, straight, thining), some simple skin care if you need it, and absolutely some spf sunscreen (for your face, the sunscreen needs to be able to go on your face). Clo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 04:09 PM
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I can't tell if this post is asking "men, would you intentionally emotionally abuse a woman?" or "men, have you ever suggested watching a horror movie on a date?"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 01:17 PM
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Wouldn't the agreeable thing to do in that instance be to be bluntly honest? I mean it's the thing you both agree on
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 05:40 PM
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Who in the world are you guys dating that you feel more desired by a random hookup??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:31 AM
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oh i worded my responses poorly. i was saying intrinsic human value is a pretty popular belief because it's the basis for a lot of our ethical frameworks. as a way to refute that intrinsic human value is similar to religion (which is closer to morals)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 09:19 PM
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i think you might be thinking of morals instead of ethics?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 08:04 PM
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It's also the basis of pretty much all of our ethics...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 10:13 PM
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Idk, intrinsic human value is a pretty popular belief
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 09:54 PM
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She sounds cool as hell tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 06:51 PM
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Considering he seems to think either character or merit should be performed to impress people, I think we could also argue a lack of integrity. So possibly he goes 3 for 3
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 03:43 AM
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