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| 1 | Women look better in minimal makeup, and they look even better with no makeup.The fact that you've gone out if your way to call random dudes ugly tells me all I need to know about you. But he could never fuck her himself even when she did that. It still made her more obtainable to him because she stopped thinking about what real men might want So in your mind, "real men" want women to cover their faces in makeup instead of just being natural? 😂😂 That's so ridiculous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 10:00 AM |
| 1 | Women look better in minimal makeup, and they look even better with no makeup.That's just how people look. That's just not true. Most don't normally have dark circles around their eyes and uneven skin unless they're sick, didn't sleep for a while or something. Most guys faces don't even look like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 09:03 AM |
| 1 | Women look better in minimal makeup, and they look even better with no makeup.What men really mean when they say that is they hate that they know women are dressing up to look submissive for better, younger, more dominant men than them No, that perspective has more to do with your own psychological baggage. The post is about genuine women, not women playing roles by dressing a certain way to attract dumb men. I'm not into those women, so 🤷 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Women look better in minimal makeup, and they look even better with no makeup.I said less than 5% are authentic. I, for example am more attracted to women who don't wear makeup because im authentic and therefore, im into authentic women. But i don't care if a woman wears makeup, it's just a sign (to me atleast) of insecurity and a lack of authenticity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Women look better in minimal makeup, and they look even better with no makeup.🤦♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Women look better in minimal makeup, and they look even better with no makeup.Well, good thing there's atleast a couple of women in this thread who aren't attached to makeup and they see what I'm saying. You are still caring way too much for my tastes about what women are doing with their own face. Not really. Saying women look better when they're natural isn't "caring way too much" about what women do with their faces. The fact that you said that tells me that you're way too attached to makeup and are inauthentic, so naturally, a man saying he prefers authentic women who… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Women look better in minimal makeup, and they look even better with no makeup.Sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 01:58 AM |
| 0 | Women look better in minimal makeup, and they look even better with no makeup.Having imperfections is a result of being human. Yes, but constantly having "baggy eyes and uneven skin" is a sign that maybe something isn't right because skin shouldn't look like that naturally on a healthy person. And women who wear makeup to hide it aren't really doing themselves any favours because they're not addressing the real issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Women look better in minimal makeup, and they look even better with no makeup.I bet you’re hanging out with ugly, fat, unwashed people all the time because you are so unshallow, right? Maybe you missed this part of my comment: not wearing makeup doesn't mean you don't shower or take care of your body. I'm not sure why you'd jump to the opposite extreme. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 01:23 AM |
| 0 | Women look better in minimal makeup, and they look even better with no makeup.I know what a woman without makeup looks like. I live with women. or a woman with under eye circles, dull skin, acne scars and sun spots? Is this really what your skin normally looks like without products from the store? If true, that sounds more like you need to take care of your skin in other ways because the makeup isn't going to help you much. It just hides the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Women look better in minimal makeup, and they look even better with no makeup.I think the “no-makeup, makeup look” is fooling y’all No, I know what the 'no makeup' look looks like. It's weird how the women commenting keep saying this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Women look better in minimal makeup, and they look even better with no makeup.That's because they're used to seeing you with makeup and so when they see you without it, they naturally notice the difference. It's like if I wore fake muscles or something under my clothes every day, and then one day I don't. People will obviously notice the difference, so it would be much better to just be real from the beginning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Women look better in minimal makeup, and they look even better with no makeup.It is probably a very unpopular view Yeah, unfortunately. but to me women without makeup often look friendlier and I feel on average more comfortable with women who don't wear makeup. Exactly. Women without makeup look much more real and down to earth too. some encourage or teach their daughters to wear makeup even before they are teenagers. Yeah, it's sad. You would think if they genuinely loved their daughters, they would teach them that they're beautiful the way they are naturally, without ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Women look better in minimal makeup, and they look even better with no makeup.Maybe your "natural" baggy eyes and uneven skin are the result of the chemicals called makeup up you constantly put on your face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Women look better in minimal makeup, and they look even better with no makeup.Do you treat a man in a suit the same way you treat a homeless guy in rags? Yes, actually. In some cases, the man in a suit is a psychopathic politician or ceo of a corrupt company. So I have enough intelligence to look beyond the costume people wear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Women look better in minimal makeup, and they look even better with no makeup.Sometimes mods just remove stuff because they don't like it and then they come up with an excuse. It's actually happened to me a few times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Women look better in minimal makeup, and they look even better with no makeup.You mean they look better with "no-makeup makeup" No, if that's what I meant, I would've said so. It's strange how women commenting assume they know what I mean and proceed to tell me, even though in the post I literally say what I mean. I refuse to believe you prefer uneven skin, bags under eyes and spots. So without some product you buy from the store, your skin is naturally uneven, and you have spots and bags under your eyes? How come only women's skin is like this? I literally never have bag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 05:36 PM |
| 4 | Women look better in minimal makeup, and they look even better with no makeup.If more men wore eyeliner and some concealer and foundation women would be more attracted to them. No thanks. I prefer attracting women while looking and being natural. And if I needed to wear eye liner and concealer to attract them, I would choose to be singe forever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Women look better in minimal makeup, and they look even better with no makeup.but it just hides what they really look like. Exactly. So it doesn't actually make them look better, unless you just go along with the illusion in your own mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Women look better in minimal makeup, and they look even better with no makeup.Why do you need there to be a "benefit" to being natural and authentic? It seems you wear makeup because you benefit from the attention you get from men. Sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Women look better in minimal makeup, and they look even better with no makeup.Says who and why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Women look better in minimal makeup, and they look even better with no makeup.Do you normally have dark circles and blemishes? I don't wear makeup and I don't. Neither do women around me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Women look better in minimal makeup, and they look even better with no makeup.Lack of makeup isn't some cheat code for which women are authentic. What? Its a sign that the woman is potentially authentic, whereas if she's wearing makeup I know she's not that awake and authentic. Men who insult and care so much about appearance.. blech and ick. And yet women cater to them by wearing makeup, fake eye lashes and so on 🤷♂️. Who do you think would be into that, except men who care too much about women's appearance?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 02:29 PM |
| 0 | Women look better in minimal makeup, and they look even better with no makeup.Not really. Either you agree that authenticity is better or you don't. Me showing you pictures of random women won't change that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Women look better in minimal makeup, and they look even better with no makeup.Lest than 5%, unfortunately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 02:25 PM |
| 2 | Women look better in minimal makeup, and they look even better with no makeup.Do you think the majority of men would prefer if no women ever wore makeup starting tomorrow? The authentic ones, yes. And also, that doesn't even matter. You should go natural because you're authentic. Not because men like it. because a lot of men want women to look a certain way. And women wear makeup to appeal to them, which encourages those men even more🤦 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 02:13 PM |
| 5 | Women look better in minimal makeup, and they look even better with no makeup.I am going to let you in on a little secret most women you think are not wearing makeup are wearing makeup. What's up with women assuming that I don't know what women without makeup look like? And they say it as if their inauthenticity is a "gotcha" too. Weird. If I couldn't tell, I wouldn't have made the post. I have sisters, I have seen them countless times with and without makeup. And I've been with women I've seen before and after applying makeup within an hour. So I know the difference. Mak… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 02:08 PM |
| -1 | Women look better in minimal makeup, and they look even better with no makeup.although most tend to go for the "natural"/no makeup look. And my point t is I can see through the "natural" look and prefer genuine authenticity, not the appearance of it. They all need to be told that she's perfectly healthy...just not made up today. This is more on women who wear makeup than the men who can't tell. I was in a psych class once with a girl who wore a tonne of makeup, and one day she didn't wear it. When the lecturer was taking the roll, she almost missed her because she literal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 02:05 PM |
| 2 | Women look better in minimal makeup, and they look even better with no makeup.I've only worn makeup once in my entire life. My friend kept nagging me about how I should try it out, I would like it, blah blah. So I went to the mall and got it done at one of those makeup counters. I felt like I had a concrete mask on my face. It was so uncomfortable. Never again Good for you. It's encouraging to see a woman who can see through the trap of makeup. Unfortunately, out of many comments from women, you're the only one so far who can see what I'm saying. Most are basically attach… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 01:51 PM |
| -2 | Women look better in minimal makeup, and they look even better with no makeup.For someone who doesn’t mind, you seem to mind a lot. Okay, if you say so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 01:46 PM |
| -1 | Women look better in minimal makeup, and they look even better with no makeup.the vast majority of men, both online and in real life, have no idea what makeup actually is Well, I do. Hence the post. I'm into natural and authentic women, not women creating a look that appears natural because I can see through the inauthenticity (here comes the downvotes). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 01:40 PM |
| 2 | Women look better in minimal makeup, and they look even better with no makeup.How do you know what I mean? Makeup looks even worse on older women because i can see through it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 01:38 PM |
| -4 | Women look better in minimal makeup, and they look even better with no makeup.By showing you pictures of random women online who I don't even know, even though I've told you that I've literally seen women with and without makeup after showering together? Like I said, free to just not believe me, I don't mind. And feel free to downvote my comments, as if that means anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Women look better in minimal makeup, and they look even better with no makeup.I’m cursed because I’m a face man first and an ass man second. There are way more women with nice asses and bodies in general than with nice faces. Hahah fair enough, man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Women look better in minimal makeup, and they look even better with no makeup.Well, atleast you're honest. But doesn't seeing through the makeup ruin it for you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 01:25 PM |
| -8 | Women look better in minimal makeup, and they look even better with no makeup.No. I'm not going to prove to you that I know what a woman who isn't wearing makeup looks like. That's silly. Feel free to just not believe me, I don't mind 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 01:24 PM |
| -1 | Women look better in minimal makeup, and they look even better with no makeup.they don't know how much makeup the average woman is wearing. Well, I do. In fact, I was just with some women who looked like they weren't wearing makeup and I thought that was great, but then I remembered that they might be wearing "natural"-looking makeup. Which is unfortunate because even when it seems like a woman is authentic, I still have to consider that she may not actually be. It's more attractive to seem "natural No, to authentic men (which aren't very many) it's more attractive for a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 01:22 PM |
| 0 | Women look better in minimal makeup, and they look even better with no makeup.The title of the post says: Women look better in minimal makeup, and they look even better with no makeup. So obviously, I know what minimal makeup looks like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 01:18 PM |
| 0 | Women look better in minimal makeup, and they look even better with no makeup.I think you don’t know what a woman wearing ‘little to no makeup looks like.’ I do. You just make me not take you seriously by assuming I don't. I have sisters, I have seen them for years with and with no makeup. And I've also been with women I've seen with and without makeup, I know because we've taken showers together and I've seen them putting it on at the start of the day. The rest of your comment is based on a false assumption. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Women look better in minimal makeup, and they look even better with no makeup.I know it does. But if you were actually an authentic person you would know that beyond the "natural look", there's also the authenticity of not wearing makeup and just being real. It's funny how you think you're actually making a good point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 01:07 PM |
| 5 | Women look better in minimal makeup, and they look even better with no makeup.Yeah, obviously. That's why I said this is just my perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 01:03 PM |
| 2 | Women look better in minimal makeup, and they look even better with no makeup.Like I said, this is just my perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 01:02 PM |
| 1 | The dating world is alot easier for women because most men dont have real standards.The mind is an illusion, yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 01:31 PM |
| 1 | The dating world is alot easier for women because most men dont have real standards.It's beyond the mind. This is the core of Buddhist and other ancient religions also say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 01:25 PM |
| 1 | The dating world is alot easier for women because most men dont have real standards.That happiness isnt in the mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 01:06 PM |
| 1 | The dating world is alot easier for women because most men dont have real standards.But that's not true either. The mind is actually the source of misery and when it slows down, this is what people experience as happiness. But happiness itself isn't in the mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 12:54 PM |
| 1 | The dating world is alot easier for women because most men dont have real standards.They're only "happy" relative to the misery they live in. So its not really happiness, it's just less misery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 12:50 PM |
| 1 | The dating world is alot easier for women because most men dont have real standards.anyway happiness lies in the head..... Not for Hefner it didn't, or most people for that matter, hence an unhappy world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 12:30 PM |
| 1 | The dating world is alot easier for women because most men dont have real standards.Why not? He achieved what 99.99% of this planet male species is unable to accomplished ROFL.. You should probably do a quick google search on him to see the true reality. He was so bored with sex with women that he started paying them to have sex with animals while he watched, atleast according to his ex in a documentary about what he used to do. So no, he wasn't happy because sex isn't the key to happiness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 12:19 PM |
| 1 | The dating world is alot easier for women because most men dont have real standards.example those old rich men getting hotties half their age while the rest of the poor old men with their old sagging walrus Yeah, but so what? I mean look at someone like Hugh Hefner, do you think he was actually happy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 12:06 PM |
| 1 | The dating world is alot easier for women because most men dont have real standards.Clearly you're more interested in berating men than expending any effort trying to understand or address the situation. No, I'm interested in men dropping their victim mentality and stopping simping. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 06:47 AM |
| 1 | The dating world is alot easier for women because most men dont have real standards.No, I mean what? What you're saying makes no sense. Men don't know how to give women? Wtf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 03:07 AM |
| 1 | The dating world is alot easier for women because most men dont have real standards.Modern men have no clue how to give to a woman, What?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 03:00 AM |
| 1 | The dating world is alot easier for women because most men dont have real standards.Do you want to address male loneliness at all, or are you just interested in blaming men? Nobody can address loneliness for you. Be an adult. I have been lonely in the past, but I never complained about other people not addressing it for me. That doesn't even make sense. but your mind is what your brain does. What does this even mean? but refuse to touch them, hug them, or physically interact with them, the babies will die. You're not a baby, you're an adult. It's amazing the lengths men go to j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 02:01 AM |
| 1 | The dating world is alot easier for women because most men dont have real standards.Are you intelligent enough to not require water or sleep? If you think sex and attention from women is the same as water and sleep, I feel very sorry for you. What's it like to depend on women to the point where you think you need them to exist? That's so sad. And psychology is a function of how our brains are made, aka biology. No, you should actually look up what psychology is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 01:31 AM |
| 1 | The dating world is alot easier for women because most men dont have real standards.You can be intelligent all you want, So you don't have enough intelligence to not be controlled by your biological urges?? I don't see why society should ignore the biological realities that loneliness in men is a killer Loneliness is not biological, it's psychological. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 12:15 AM |
| 1 | The dating world is alot easier for women because most men dont have real standards.Has little to do with male standards Yes, it does. Women don't exist in a vacuum where it's just them. planning and approach are on the guys shoulders. They don't have to be. Men allow it, when they don't even need to approach women in the first place. All that does is stroke random women's egos just for existing, which is part of the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 12:12 AM |
| 1 | The dating world is alot easier for women because most men dont have real standards."she was right". Why would I quote her if I thought she was wrong? Are you even thinking through what you're typing? Obviously I was referencing your original position on women being forced into corruption. It's the position of a woman I was quoting. Maybe your problem is with her. And judging by how triggered you are and all the name calling, she was right, but unfortunately you don't seem to know what a hyperbole is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 10:02 AM |
| 1 | The dating world is alot easier for women because most men dont have real standards.and yet biology doesn't give a damn about intelligence. Good thing you have intelligence (hopefully) to not be controlled by your biological urges. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 06:28 AM |
| 2 | The dating world is alot easier for women because most men dont have real standards.Well, good luck with that then. I'm sure people who've started families with this mentality have found happiness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 04:06 AM |
| 1 | The dating world is alot easier for women because most men dont have real standards.loneliness kills faster than cigarettes Being alone doesn't mean loneliness. You only feel lonely when you're alone and are trying to escape from it. It's alot worse to be lonely in a relationship, which many people are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 03:46 AM |
| 2 | The dating world is alot easier for women because most men dont have real standards.Like a said, any man who's starting a family with women with your mentality has to be an idiot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 03:41 AM |
| 3 | The dating world is alot easier for women because most men dont have real standards.It doesn't. It's just that women think it does because they're programmed to think that. A man might make money from sex trafficking, and ofcourse women will think he's attractive because he has money and they don't care how he got it. But is he actually attractive? No he's a garbage person who trafficks people, but women don't really care. They just see money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 03:39 AM |
| 1 | The dating world is alot easier for women because most men dont have real standards.by backing away from arguing that women are "forced" into being "corrupt" That's a quote from Esther Vilar, not me 🤷♂️. Also, I know you know that she was being hyperbolic as a literary device, unless you've just never read a book before, which is possible. argue for your original position rather than shamelessly changing your position I didn't change my position, and you even said you agree with it. You're choosing to focus on the quote by Esther Vilar for some weird reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 03:31 AM |
| 1 | The dating world is alot easier for women because most men dont have real standards.lemme guess, the fertility rate is low cause bill gates put something in the water and men dont wanna reproduce anymore Yeah, exactly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 02:19 PM |
| 4 | The dating world is alot easier for women because most men dont have real standards.No I read it. That's why I said maybe you read it, but you didn't understand what you read. If you did, you wouldn't have made the comment you did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 01:38 PM |
| 7 | The dating world is alot easier for women because most men dont have real standards.Maybe you read the post, but it seems you didn’t understand what you read. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 01:35 PM |
| 1 | The dating world is alot easier for women because most men dont have real standards.The fact that there's no incentive to not be "corrupt" (which isn't even true) doesn't mean that there are any penalties for not being corrupt There are social penalties. Your point is dumb and you should just take the L Ofcourse you have to say that considering what the post is about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 01:29 PM |
| 8 | The dating world is alot easier for women because most men dont have real standards.You didn't actually read the full post, did you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 01:26 PM |
| 3 | The dating world is alot easier for women because most men dont have real standards.but it’s not like these guys are saying “hey I don’t really like you but let’s get married.” Yeah, but they reveal that they're not actually into her as a person in many ways. What happens is they pay for meals and other stuff, so women over look this fact because they think money means love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 01:25 PM |
| 2 | The dating world is alot easier for women because most men dont have real standards.Assuming this is a real quote I was paraphrasing which is why it wasn't in direct quotes. I don't think Esther knows what the word "forces" means. She obviously didn't mean it in a physical way. But I see you have no counterpoints coz she was right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 01:23 PM |
| 2 | The dating world is alot easier for women because most men dont have real standards.Being a provider isn’t being an ATM. It is though. A "provider" has to be an atm. Ofcourse at this point any man getting a woman pregnant so he can provide for her has to be some kind of idiot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 01:18 PM |
| 5 | The dating world is alot easier for women because most men dont have real standards.Also, why is financially providing for your family considered being used as an ATM? Dating a woman with no children isn't providing for a family. Why is being a kind, considerate, and respectful person being labeled as “catering to them”? Because you as a woman aren't "kind" enough to do the same for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 01:08 PM |
| 0 | The dating world is alot easier for women because most men dont have real standards.Jesus Christ Im wasting my time. You really are, because everything you're saying is nonsense. For example: If they had the same standards no ones gonna meet those standards just like many men I never said men should have the same standards. Thats you saying that. There's no such things as alignment. This is a dumb thing to say. the fertility rate is the lowest. Yeah, but not for the reasons you think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 01:05 PM |
| 6 | The dating world is alot easier for women because most men dont have real standards.This isnt about me or you. This is about masses behaviour. Yeah, which is why the post refers to "most men". I didnt even mention myself so how can I be trying to portray myself in anyway? I get you wanna portrait yourself as an high value male, I really don't, which is why the post isn't about me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 01:01 PM |
| 0 | The dating world is alot easier for women because most men dont have real standards.you lack basic biology knowledge. Biology doesn't turn men into simps with no standards. If everybody has the same standard as the average woman humanity will go exctint. This is a dumb thing to say. If most men had standards, most women would have to be in alignment with those standards since they're also programmed to be attracted to men (atleast the straight ones). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 12:57 PM |
| 3 | The dating world is alot easier for women because most men dont have real standards.Some women end up married to and having kids with these guys This is on them though. As a woman, you should be able to tell if a guy is into you enough to have kids with him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 12:53 PM |
| 0 | The dating world is alot easier for women because most men dont have real standards.yeah, men need women Good luck with that mentality. I'm sure women won't take advantage of it. Everybody wants a partner Again, the key word is wants. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 12:49 PM |
| 0 | The dating world is alot easier for women because most men dont have real standards.Im not talking about my experience nor about me. Everyone is programmed. So when I say you're programmed to say what you said, I don't just mean you. I mean anyone with that mentality. Its basically impossible to escape social programming so its not just you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 12:46 PM |
| 5 | The dating world is alot easier for women because most men dont have real standards.and hes gonna be alone forever This isn't even true. You're just programmed to think this. Even if you're right, basic Intelligence should tell you that its better to be alone than to be with someone you don't genuinely like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 12:30 PM |
| 5 | The dating world is alot easier for women because most men dont have real standards.Unfortunately many men actually defend and justify their own lack of standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 11:28 AM |
| 7 | The dating world is alot easier for women because most men dont have real standards.by your logic, most women don’t have real standards either. Well, their standards are usually materialistic. They don't care what kind of person a man is, they mostly only care about his income/money and his ability to stroke their egos. Cue the downvotes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 11:20 AM |
| 2 | The dating world is alot easier for women because most men dont have real standards.We, since this is your perspective, sounds like you think that people like rapists have no choice but to rape, because there is no free will after all, according to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 11:17 AM |
| 3 | The dating world is alot easier for women because most men dont have real standards.The average man can't have "real standards" He can, he just chooses not to. He just wants somebody. Want is the key word. Edit: The men downvotting this are basically insisting that they need women and can't have real standards. Interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 10:54 AM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.That actually is loving, and way better than lying to people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 03:01 PM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.The truth is the priority, not being right. And yes, I put the truth before people's feelings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 03:02 AM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.while I see you just wanting to be right I can't help that I actually am right 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 12:43 AM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.How do you know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 12:37 AM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.You don't have to agree with something for it to be true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 06:51 PM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.From Merriam-Webster: Transaction : a communicative action or activity involving two parties or things that reciprocally affect or influence each other From the OED an exchange or interaction between people. "intellectual transactions in the classroom" I'm sure you know that the dictionary has a couple of definitions for that word, and you also know which definition the post is using, if you've read it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 06:08 PM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.But it is the truth? Show me what's untrue in my post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 06:06 PM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.Except that's not what I'm saying. Maybe your problem is with the truth, not me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 02:52 PM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.Yeah, but sex being a condition of romantic relationships doesn't make that transactional. It seems people on reddit don't really understand what transactional means, and then when I suggest that they should actually look up the definition, they say I'm being passive aggressive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 02:48 PM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.Reciprocation is a type of transaction. If we're sticking by what words objectively mean, especially in the context of the post, it isn't. Just because it’s mutual doesn’t mean it isn’t a transaction Ofcourse not. Transactions are mutual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 02:45 PM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.It is quite convenient that “love”, in your definition, means “doing what I want to do, regardless of how it makes others feel” That's not what I said. But I'm not going to not say something true just because people's feeling get hurt over it. Sometimes it's necessary to tell people unpleasant truths. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 02:42 PM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.No, its reciprocation. Those are 2 different words with different meanings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 02:18 PM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.In your limited idea of love, sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 02:17 PM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.Calling the npcs is very dehumanizing, Not really. Most people are indeed npcs, or at the least they act like it. and saying that we don’t love. Most people don't, and that's the truth. “Vaxx brain” Many people are actually suffering from that. It's called encephalitis, among other things. “You don’t think” I was clearly joking with that comment since I purposely took it out of context. “I don't really care what an entitled princess thinks. I'd have to be an idiot to care.” Why should I care wha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 02:16 PM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.When did I insult and dehumanise anyone? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 02:02 PM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.I don't care about being right, but I am, atleast with what I wrote in the post. Also, if you care about people's feelings to the point where you lie to them and strike their egos, this isn't love. A man who actually loves women for example, is honest with them. But ofcourse they won't like it. And so most men lie to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 01:52 PM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.Just because to you it doesn't sound loving, doesn't mean it isn't. And calling out people's npc behaviour isn't insulting them, it's an observation of their drone like behaviour, which is everywhere in society. And if more people called it out, we wouldn't be where we are as a species. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 01:45 PM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.so how do you personally love people to make the world a better place? By realising that we're all one, and that separation is an illusion, and by making music and YouTube videos that spread the message about oneness and what real love is. And also by telling people the truth, no matter how unpleasant it may be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 01:41 PM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.There is no "how" to it. You either do or you don't. And if you don't and you're being genuine with your questions then you have to find out why you don't. You have to find out why your "love" is limited to one person or a specific group of people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 01:35 PM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.Well, not exactly. Nothing is good or bad, apart from physically harming ither people. Most people are selfish, so it was bad, most people would be "bad". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 01:25 PM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.because you are claiming we should all love like you When did I claim that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 01:16 PM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.That's not a genuine question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 01:12 PM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.How are you so special? I'm not. You can have it too, you just choose not to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 01:08 PM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.If a man loves a woman, he doesn't try to get sex from her when she's not interested. He can get sex elsewhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 11:21 AM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.If you think that someone shouldn't judge you based on how much money you have, just because you think it's just piece of paper, then you are really delusional, and trying to cope for your lack of money. Did I say any of this? I don't care if anyone judges me. there's nothing wrong with it. Reread my post. I clearly said there's nothing wrong with a relationship being transactional, but the fact is it won't be based on love. Your feelings about this don’t change the fact that its true. Ignoring … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 09:35 AM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.Money is one of the things that tell about who someone is. This is just a silly thing to say. So no, someone making money by child-traficking is not the same as someone making money by spending years learning the useful skills I didn't say they were the same. Reread my comment. Money is not just a paper, lol...!! It literally is. Banks print it out of thin air. We just project value onto it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 08:17 AM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.the money that they have is a reflection of who they are. That's just silly. Money is just paper and numbers on a screen. It means nothing about who someone is, otherwise what does the lack of money say about poor people in third world countries? And what about people who make lots of money from child trafficking and other horrible stuff? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 07:40 AM |
| 2 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.Nothing, never mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 06:39 AM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.But requiring sex does make it transactional the same as any other requirement. It's not a requirement. It's a part of a relationship. what makes you confidently say that no men actually like being in the provider role? They only like it because they get something in return for it. It's just a business transaction. No man would provide for a woman he's not sleeping with. So its basically just a socially acceptable way of paying for sex. No different to prostitution, especially since many women w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 03:31 AM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.why focus on one type of transaction over another? Because one is a part of healthy relationships (sex) and the other is just selfish stuff women use men for. And both partners participate in and enjoy sex. If one doesn't enjoy it then that's something they need to discuss, but in normal relationships, sex is a part of it, which you know. I could say the same about men who lie, manipulate, and try to cajole women into having sex with them. And you would be correct. And what do you base this on o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 03:16 AM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.It's all the same. It really isn't. I find it odd that you don't see how using a man for money and material things isn't what love is. But to some women, the man paying for dates, etc., helps them feel taken care of. Such women have a parasitic mentality where they want to take but don't like giving. Some dudes also enjoy taking on a provider role. Because they've been conditioned into playing it. No sane person enjoys providing for another adult unless they get something from it, which is trans… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 02:24 AM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.my point is different things are important to different people in romantic relationships. Yeah, but if money and material things are what's important then the relationship is not based on love, that's the point. It's strange that many people in here don't understand this simple truth. like to feel taken care of in a relationship, Everyone does. Women aren't special because they want this. If someone requires sex out of a relationship, it's transactional in the sense of your OP, and thus not trul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 01:57 AM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.Why do you ask? I know you're not genuinely interested in the answer. This is a very common thing on reddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 01:50 AM |
| 0 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.I'm pretty sure you know what I mean since asexuality isnt the norm, but okay 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 01:49 AM |
| -1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.Never said it was. I said sex is part of a romantic relationship, and I know you know it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 01:42 AM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 01:41 AM |
| 0 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.Dating a guy for his money and material things is clear not based on love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 01:39 AM |
| 2 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.What are your thoughts I don't really care what an entitled princess thinks. I'd have to be an idiot to care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 01:38 AM |
| -1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.It’s not clear there’s “no love involved if it’s transactional.” To me it is. Love doesn’t help if you’re starving or sexless or miserable. Real love does. If you have love within yourself, you're not going to be miserable. Being sexless isn't a big deal, monks are celibate and they're happier than most people. If you want proof, date a girl (because you think she’s pretty, smart, etc) then have her stop taking care of herself, depend on you for everything, gain 200lbs, never do a thing around t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 01:21 AM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.Real love comes with intelligence and wisdom, therefore someone who actually loves their partner will know to leave when it's necessary. Real love is unconditional but that doesn't mean putting up with abuse because real love also includes loving yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 01:17 AM |
| 3 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.You aren’t the dictator of love . No, but if for example a guy is in a relationship with a woman he abuses, I can point out that he doesn't love her, which would be true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 01:11 AM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.The word has multiple meanings to it. The meaning I'm talking about is described in the post in a couple of paragraphs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 01:09 AM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.Hahaha okay 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 01:08 AM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.Then be humble instead of expecting men to spend money on you. Thats way more attractive. Many of them also don't have much money, you're not unique in that sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 01:07 AM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.Your idea of love is extremely limited. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 01:06 AM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.Okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 01:05 AM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.I'm not really concerned about how I come accross to npcs, sorry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 01:05 AM |
| 2 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.Stop trying to sound smart. I can't not sound smart if I am smart 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 01:04 AM |
| 0 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.Do you agree with the above statement? Sex is part of a romantic relationship. Leeching money and material things off your partner isn't. Well, it actually is for most relationships, but these a fake relationships not based on love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 01:01 AM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.she respects you for being a man with the drive and work ethic to be able to provide and having the natural desire to protect the people you love. Good luck with that. This all sounds like a bunch of cope to cover for the fact that you can’t provide. I'm not interested in providing for another adult. That sounds like a job for you. Enjoy it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 12:47 AM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.I do. Just look at the kind of world we live in. It's a reflection of the lack of love of the people in it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 12:46 AM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.How do we know you love random people on the street? You don't, and you don't need to either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 11:09 PM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.Because their relationships are transactional and focused on getting what they want for themselves. I didn't say there is no way to tell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 11:06 PM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.Then everyone loves random people on the street, and all humans Nope, most don't even love each other in their personal relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 11:03 PM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.There's no "how" to it. It just is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 10:58 PM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.Transactional is also not inherently bad. Like I already said in the post, it's fine if people want their relationships to be transactional. But they should atleast stop pretending to love each other because that is not love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 10:48 PM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.Tiktok is not a source. I don't have tiktok 🤷♂️ I don’t think That much is clear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 10:45 PM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.Most don't, yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 10:38 PM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.You’re making generalizations. Yes, that's how talking about large groups of people works. We’d like to believe that we are all loved exclusively for who we are, but the truth is that a relationship, any relationship, is about the value you bring to each others lives. If you're not loved for who you are then it's clearly not real love. When a man provides for his wife and family the dynamic shifts because she sees tangible reasons why he is deserving and worthy of her respect. That's not real re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 10:37 PM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.That's not really true either. Even mothers' love for their children is usually conditional, and therefore not really love. It's just a biological thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 10:26 PM |
| 0 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.so for the relationship to work there is an expectation for mutual feelings. No, there is reciprocation of feelings. Expectations have nothing to do with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 10:25 PM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.Than no relationship can be based on love. Well, most aren't. As long as there are any conditions, requirements or standards of any sort, currently or in the beginning, it is transactional. I think you should look up what transactional means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 10:22 PM |
| 2 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.If you feel like sex is something that women give to men that benefits men and diminishes women, it doesn’t surprise me that you have bad experiences with dating. Did I say this?? That doesn't even make sense. most women don’t see men as a source of money and status. Many unfortunately do. This is nothing like my experience with relationships, I know, that's a why I said in the post that most relationships are transactional and not based on love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 10:18 PM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.Okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 10:15 PM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.Are you malfunctioning or something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 10:14 PM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.So, do you love random people on the street? Yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 10:12 PM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.Love is conditional Its actually the opposite of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 03:00 PM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.Reality, and its not an assumption. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 02:27 PM |
| -1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.That's great, if true. But this doesn't necessarily mean that there is any real love there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 02:27 PM |
| 0 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.there is no such thing as a true love. In your experience, sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 02:26 PM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.If you’re in a relationship with someone obviously you expect them to also be in love I don't expect anything. Either they love me back or they don't. If they don't, there's no relationship in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 02:25 PM |
| -2 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.I would never date a man that didn't make 6 figures. No surprise there. Its actually the norm for women to be this entitled and superficial, but the truth is there will be no love in that relationship. Not because I want his money. Yeah, right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 02:22 PM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.Yes I'd expect them to pay more because it's a courtship. This is a parasitic mentality. Very self centered and unattractive. But in a relationship it can be split or 1 of us pay or we take turns. If from the first date you're self centered and entitled, this won't change once you're in a relationship because it's a reflection of your parasitic mentality. You're not suddenly gonna become less egoic in a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 02:19 PM |
| -1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.Then it isn't love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 02:16 PM |
| 2 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.I'm not sure you read or understood what I said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 02:16 PM |
| 0 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.kiss your partner and they kiss you back, you can call it a transaction. Okay, let's agree to disagree. You confuse transactions with calculating "what you owe me for doing so and so". This is what transactional means, but never mind, I see you're not getting it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 02:14 PM |
| 2 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.but some are based on love, too. Not if they're transactional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 02:12 PM |
| 3 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.I don't doubt that most relationships are transactional, that's what the post is about. The point is that it's not love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 01:19 PM |
| 0 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.Did you copy someone else's comment? Because I literally just read this exact comment from someone else just now. NPCs are malfunctioning these days it seems. Wow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 01:13 PM |
| 2 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.Yes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 12:29 PM |
| 0 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.You can purposely misunderstand what I'm saying all you like, but the truth remains that if a woman loves a man, she's not concerned about his money and isn't trying to extract it from him in one way or another. Rent and bills are a different thing, and you know that. If you don't then something is clearly lacking in you psychologically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 12:28 PM |
| 2 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.No one ever loved someone without getting something out of it - money, affection, mere attention Then it's not really love, that's the point. You’ve been sold a fairy tale. Okay, by who?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 11:52 AM |
| 2 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.Well yeah, a transaction involves 2 people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 10:38 AM |
| -1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.You’re getting those downvotes because you’re simply not realizing that what you’re saying is actually not the truth dude… It is. You’ve provided no explanation for why love isn’t transactional. Isn't it obvious? If you for example get a woman a gift while expecting one in return, the gift you gave wasn't out of love. It was for your own self interest, which isnt love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 10:36 AM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.If a man genuinely loves a guy, he is not going to be concerned by her body count, or be jealous of her male best friend as long as she assures him and doesn't play games, or whether she has a kid from previous marriage. I think you meant girl not guy but yes, you're correct. And women end up allowing themselves to be used like a sex doll. In exchange for money and free food. It's just a transaction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 10:34 AM |
| -1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.If by your definition, love doesn't have any conditions, then everyone should be able to love everyone equally, Well, they can't because they lack love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 10:30 AM |
| 0 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.OP must be 12 years old. Totally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 10:29 AM |
| -3 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.Yes it is love. Objectively speaking, it isn't. All love is transactional… Nope. Then it isn't love. Where are you getting this ridiculous idea that love isn’t transactional? Its not an idea, it's the truth. People's feelings and downvotes don't change the truth. We love people/things based on the joy or pleasure those people/thing give us. Then it's not love. I'm inviting downvotes by saying this but again, it's the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 10:28 AM |
| 2 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.Wow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 10:25 AM |
| -1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.No, because that's not love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 10:24 AM |
| -1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.This is just some incel doomer nonsense. Right. Saying love isn't transactional is what incels say. Sure. I didn't even bother reading the rest of your comment. What a dumb way to begin a response. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 10:23 AM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.You can love someone based on what they do for you. Yes, but that's not love. Love isn't just chemicals in the brain. It's way beyond that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 09:55 AM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.I’m doing them because I love you. Not because I want you to do it back to me. . Yeah, exactly. Once the expectation to have done back to you comes in, it's no longer love. It's like giving your partner a gift expecting to get one in return. That just turns it into a transaction. And with love also comes wisdom so you'll be able to tell if you're just being used. You wrote a lot in your response, and I agree with most of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 09:39 AM |
| 0 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.Transactional means doing something for someone while expecting something in return. This includes money, but it also goes beyond that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 09:12 AM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.many people define "love" as performing tasks without expecting anything in return. How people define love doesn't mean that's what it actually is. "Performing tasks without expecting anything in return" is an expression of love, but its not love itself. Are you saying the only way a relationship is "real love" in your opinion is if both parties perform tasks they dont want to do for one another, emotionlessly, due solely to obligation? Again, love isn't about performing tasks for someone. It's … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 09:05 AM |
| -10 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.But everyone is loved based under certain conditions. If it's conditional, its not love. If my kids went out to torture animals, steal and bully people, I don't think i'd be able to love them anymore. Then you don't love them in the first place. Love doesn't mean you just let them do whatever they want including harming others. Love, when it comes to children also means holding them responsible for their actions if they harm others. So i guess even a mother's love is transactional if you look at… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 08:56 AM |
| 0 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.The problem is you're approaching this from a very limited perspective. You're still in a transactional mentality. If you stop giving someone what they need The only things people "need" are food, clothes and shelter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 08:53 AM |
| -1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.For most people, yes. Not because it doesn't actually exist but because they lack it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 08:41 AM |
| -4 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.Never said any of that. If its actually based on love "cheating" won't happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 08:03 AM |
| 2 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.relationships are always transactional/conditional, no matter how much love exists. If it's conditional and transactional then it isn't love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 07:59 AM |
| 0 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.What I said applies no matter your definition of love. No, it doesn't because things have an objective meaning. Making up your own doesn't change their real meaning. but anyone who's not a literal teenager and who's not a loner virgin will immediately know that what I said is true. Wow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 07:41 AM |
| -17 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.It doesn’t make one’s love any less real though. If it's transactional, it's not love. Transactional means expecting something in return, which isnt love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 07:40 AM |
| 0 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.Every relationship is transactional. I know. That's what I'm saying in the post. The point is such relationships are not based on love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 07:38 AM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.Things can never be truly equal I know. That's why the post isn't about things being equal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 07:37 AM |
| -6 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love."Love" however you define it, Well, no. A sociopath will define it as control and manipulation. That doesn't mean that's what love actually is. Even those who are not concerned with money will still treat the relationship transactionally. I know. That's why I said most relationships are transactional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 07:36 AM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.Wow. Okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 07:34 AM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.Is that really the point of the whole post, you think? You skipped all the other paragraphs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 07:27 AM |
| -2 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.No, because that's not love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 07:10 AM |
| 3 | Women are NOT for saleWomen literally sell themselves in exchange for money and free food. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 05:05 AM |
| 2 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.You said "It's just evolutionary biology, pure and simple. Without it, none of us would be here." So how is it that you yourself don't seek approval from women, if it's just "evolutionary biology"? Saying that implies that you're also a part of it since you're a man influenced by "evolutionary biology". Unless ofcourse you're so much different from other men. It seems like you didn't think your responses through. Hence: Dear Lord. I'm out. Nobody invited you in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.I don't seek approval, So what are you going on about?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.Okay. Have fun seeking approval from women then. I'm sure that they'll definitely respect you for doing so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 12:10 PM |
| 1 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.Very much yes, that is exactly what I said Well, that's just absurd. I don't seek approval from women and I hook up with them just fine. Even if I didn't, who cares? There's more to life than sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.So, in your mind, this is actually a good comparison? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 05:49 AM |
| 1 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.I explained that desperation is what makes men act like simps, they would degrade themselves to get the chance of having sex or a relationship. But this doesn't change anything said in the post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 05:48 AM |
| 2 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.Should of clarified men have higher levels of testosterone so the dynamic of wanting sex is not equal Testosterone doesn't make men act like simps and seek approval from women. Otherwise celibate monks wouldn't exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 04:24 AM |
| 1 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.Wow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 12:58 AM |
| 2 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.Well men are built to procreate And women aren't?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 12:57 AM |
| 2 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.Yea, that's clearly what happened. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.Seeking approval from women is not a biological need. How do you not see how ridiculous that is?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 12:55 AM |
| 0 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.but it's also a useless and pointless thing to say. This is a pointless and useless thing to say since it adds nothing to the debate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 12:51 PM |
| 3 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.Men dont care about womens approval. Yes, they do. To even fuck or date a woman, a man needs her approval in some way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 12:50 PM |
| 2 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.Without seeking approval from women humanity wouldn't exist? Did you even read your own comment while typing it? It's so absurd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 12:05 PM |
| 1 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.You seem to think that to have sex you need to seek women's approval. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 03:09 AM |
| 0 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.No one cares. So why even mention it?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.he is fucking her with no regard to whether she approves or not But she does, otherwise she wouldn't fuck him. That's the point. and your post is aimed at men. Yeah, not the hypothetical guy you've created. not sure why it’s so hard for you comprehend that some men can fuck with 0 effort whatsoever. I never said they can't? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 03:07 AM |
| 0 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.Who cares? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 03:06 AM |
| 3 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.Not to mention other facts of life like police, roads, etc. all protection and provision for adults. If you think the police are here to protect you, you are extremely naive. Many cops abuse their own partners, and you think they care about protecting you? What a joke. Have fun protecting and providing for women, I'm sure they appreciate your protection and value you as a human being. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 03:05 AM |
| 0 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.Males want females to approve them No shit. That's what the post is about. The ones that don’t do that eventually die out. This is a dumb take. Men who don't chase women's approval eventually die out? How do you not see how absurd that is? You don't have chase women's approval to have kids. Also, even if they die out, who gives a shit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.That's so dumb. All species don't survive because men want women's approval. That's so silly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 02:57 AM |
| 2 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.she can consent to fucking you but still feel unsure of you as a person. classic example, fucking a guy in hopes that he’d stay (he won’t). She still has to approve of him to fuck him, otherwise she wouldn't. It's so obvious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.Literally the state allows for fully grown adults who need protection and to be provided for a legal category. Yeah, once something bad actually happens. The state doesn't just go around protecting healthy and safe adults. It's amazing how attached you are to the idea of being a protector and a provider. It's pretty pathetic. It's like you don't realise that women are just people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.I’d argue that consent isn’t the same as approval. I didn't say they were the same. No woman willingly has sex with a man she doesn't approve of in some way, unless they're prostitutes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.That's great, but I never said that YOU had to do any of that. I was addressing someone else, clearly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 02:44 AM |
| 3 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.Again, if the sex is consensual you still need the woman to approve of you in some way, which is why you stroke their egos so you can get laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 02:43 AM |
| 2 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.Do you want me to name a specific guy or something? Wtf, you wouldn't even know anyone I name. This is so dumb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 02:16 AM |
| 4 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.Why not? It’s an accepted way to externalize control over your own life. What? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.Social constructs are part of nature. That's just silly.You need to look up what the word "construct" means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 02:10 AM |
| 2 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.What a dunderheaded silly post. What a silly sentence. I'd argue that women do need to be protected and provided for --- by and large in my experience they do not make good decisions for themselves. Does that mean it is worth it to do so in this day and age? Of course not. Gross. Any man with the mentality that fully grown adults need protection is an idiot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 02:03 AM |
| 3 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.men are born wanting to simp unless taught otherwise The opposite is actually true. Simping is learned behaviour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 02:01 AM |
| 3 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.That's just ridiculous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 02:00 AM |
| 4 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.No, they put sex on a pedestal. And who do straight men want to have sex with? You can't put pussy on a pedestal without also putting a woman on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.I just don't buy this at all. You don't have to buy it for it to be true. It's the same in every culture. That's not true. There are some cultures where things like money and status dont matter when dating. Where do you think people get their ideas of "high value qualities" from? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 01:58 AM |
| 0 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.Keep worshipping women then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 01:55 AM |
| 3 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.If a man get sex in exchange for paying, that's prostitution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.That’s not conditioning. It actually is. That’s lack of thirst at the level men have Multiple things can play a role in something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 01:25 AM |
| 3 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.That's called prostitution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 01:24 AM |
| 2 | Spending 50/50what if in my case it involves money ? What if what involves money? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 01:20 AM |
| 2 | Spending 50/50It’s not being a Leech It is. Ofcourse you can't see that because you have that mentality. but if YOU TAKE ME out … you pay ! You brought me here, you invited me There's nothing feminine about this. Adults who accept invites to go out should be okay with paying for their own food. I've had women ask me out, and I still expected to pay for myself because I'm not a parasite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 01:18 AM |
| 8 | Spending 50/50Your whole post is basically portraying femininity is being a leech. You literally said you pay so that your date can feel like a soft woman and feminine. It's sad that we live in a world where most women don't even know what femininity actually means. It's has nothing to do with men spending money on you. If anything, a truly feminine woman cares enough to at the very least offer to pay for herself. Not expect to be paid for. There's no femininity in that. It's just a gross mentality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 01:16 AM |
| 4 | Spending 50/50(even tho if you don’t pay for the dates you can’t be my bf💀) This is called being a leech. And its exactly why I split the bill, to weed out the women with a parasitic mentality. Its extremely unattractive no matter how hot a woman is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 01:03 AM |
| 9 | Spending 50/50Isn’t Femininity and masculinity based on being opposite ? No. Femininity means being open and caring, not being a leech who expects to be paid for just for having boobs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 12:57 AM |
| 4 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.That doesn't make it less true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 04:47 PM |
| 7 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.This is basically what some men are saying in the comments, unironically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 04:46 PM |
| 5 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.Have you ever met a man in your life? Imagine the first guy that comes into your mind. He's my example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 04:26 PM |
| 4 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.because I strongly feel like protecting, providing for, and being a strong and wise role model for a woman is a meaningful way to express love, even if she's safe and can make her own money. This just infantalises women. If you're so keen on protecting people, then protect children. According to the FBI, one child goes missing every minute. These are the people that actually need your protection. Not fully grown women who can protect and provide for themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 04:25 PM |
| -2 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.which means that the origin of them is likely biological. That's just not true. People can literally be conditioned into being attracted to certain things, which is what has actually happened to women, which is why they seem to be attracted to a small percentage of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 04:22 PM |
| 5 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.Exactly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 04:16 PM |
| 7 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.Well, have fun basing your sense of self on sex and women's approval. I'm sure that will lead you to happiness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 04:15 PM |
| 5 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.Most men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 04:14 PM |
| 4 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.But I don't think that can change Ofcourse it can. Status is a social construct. Not something that exists in nature. Men who can attract women obviously have more abilities than men who cannot That's not really true. Attraction doesn't necessarily have anything to do with ability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.its only a means to the end of getting laid. Exactly. So you need it, if you're trying to get laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 04:09 PM |
| 5 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.Sex Is a need as a man. That's an absurd thing to say. If it was a need, you would literally die without it. I can't imagine giving away my power by believing that I need physical contact from another human being. It's no wonder why women manipulate men so easily. It's actually sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 04:08 PM |
| -3 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.The guys who get sex without female approval No straight man gets sex without a woman's approval, unless it's rape. Just like no woman gets sex from a guy without some kind of approval from him. The person you have sex with has to approve of you in some way. men want sex. So do women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 04:03 PM |
| 0 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.Sex actually isn't a "need". You're putting yourself at the mercy of women by believing that nonsense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 03:51 PM |
| 12 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.Success with women is a huge status marker for men among other men. Yeah, and that's the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 03:49 PM |
| 23 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.I agree. I've literally heard men say they would rather be with a woman who they know is using them than be single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Most men are the enablers of most women's behaviour and mentality.Most women don't wear makeup? Really? Is that why makeup is a multi billion dollar industry? I guess it's the small amount of women in the world who wear makeup that are keeping the industry alive. I bet even you have never worn makeup, right? Because you're one of the many women who don't wear it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Most men are the enablers of most women's behaviour and mentality.Right... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 01:21 PM |
| 0 | Most men are the enablers of most women's behaviour and mentality.Except it isn't. You only say that coz you're probably who the post is about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Most men are the enablers of most women's behaviour and mentality.No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Most men are the enablers of most women's behaviour and mentality.Do you assume all women are wearing make-up, No, I know they are. In the same way some people have a "gaydar" , I have the equivalent when it comes to makeup. Or do you concede that there are women who don't wear make-up? I've already discussed the amount of women who don't wear makeup, and its utterly negligible, especially the younger they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Most men are the enablers of most women's behaviour and mentality.Quoting yourself is very weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 12:22 PM |
| 0 | Most men are the enablers of most women's behaviour and mentality.This is the topic you chose to talk about. Not if you actually read the full post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 12:21 PM |
| 0 | Most men are the enablers of most women's behaviour and mentality.Do you just ASSUME all women are wearing make-up Most women do. Saying otherwise is beyond ridiculous because even women themselves know that most women wear makeup. And yet here you are, a man claiming most women don't wear something they clearly do. Amazing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 12:16 PM |
| -2 | Most men are the enablers of most women's behaviour and mentality.Sure you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 12:08 PM |
| -5 | Most men are the enablers of most women's behaviour and mentality.I'm pretty sure you know what I meant, but now you suddenly you feel like you have to do this for some reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Most men are the enablers of most women's behaviour and mentality.The point you're focusing on takes a few lines out of a post with 3 paragraphs... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 12:01 PM |
| -1 | Most men are the enablers of most women's behaviour and mentality.Yep. And they don't care. And yet you're here defending such women? You're who the post is about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 11:55 AM |
| -7 | Most men are the enablers of most women's behaviour and mentality.30% of the women at the store were wearing visible make-up. Just because its not visible to you doesn't mean they aren't wearing it. Even women in this sub talk about how men always compliment them about how they look great without makeup, while they're actually wearing it. They wash it off when they're home alone with you. No shit. they're wearing it because they either like it, or because they think it's easier to navigate society. You're extremely naive. the Professional World that says women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 11:53 AM |
| -1 | Most men are the enablers of most women's behaviour and mentality.women already know this. And they don't care? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 11:36 AM |
| -2 | Most men are the enablers of most women's behaviour and mentality.You sound like that horrible man on Love is Blind who criticized his fiancé for wearing makeup. I don't know what you're referring to so it means nothing to me. I'm still right about makeup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 11:33 AM |
| -4 | Most men are the enablers of most women's behaviour and mentality.And MANY women don't wear make-up. This is a blatant lie. Not sure why you'd even say that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 11:32 AM |
| -1 | Most men are the enablers of most women's behaviour and mentality.But I didn't? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 08:21 AM |
| -2 | Most men are the enablers of most women's behaviour and mentality.I don't think that most men care about animal testing That's not the point though, is it? Whether men care or not, the fact still remains that animals are used for testing makeup. To most people, normal everyday makeup doesn't look like "a mask" It does. Only the degree ti which it looks like a mask differs. Really light makeup won't look like a mask but I can still see you're wearing it which to me is a sign of inauthenticity, not that women care about being authentic. Men generally choose wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 06:54 AM |
| -8 | Most men are the enablers of most women's behaviour and mentality.but it would still be irrational to handicap youself to that extent because of it. You're not handicapping yourself by not catering to women and stroking their egos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 05:42 AM |
| 2 | Attraction to money and status is NOT real attractionmostly because they have resources You're attracted to their resources, not them. All that stuff about taking care of a family is just the ego justifying being superficial. Lots of women have that self-centered mentality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 04:31 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.The more useful I am to a woman, the more leverage I have in the relationship. I could care less about being useful to a woman. This is exactly why you get used. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 03:57 AM |
| 2 | If men spent more time working on themselves instead of chasing women and trying to get laid, they would be a lot better off.l'm not simping Chasing is a form of simping. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 11:41 AM |
| 2 | If men spent more time working on themselves instead of chasing women and trying to get laid, they would be a lot better off.But you're saying you don't care about self improvement and will continue simping, so why even comment? Why not just focus on simping? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 11:35 AM |
| 2 | If men spent more time working on themselves instead of chasing women and trying to get laid, they would be a lot better off.I'm gonna do what l want which is chase Good for you, I guess. Your opinion doesn't change anything Im not sure what you were hoping to accomplish by commenting in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 11:02 AM |
| 4 | If men spent more time working on themselves instead of chasing women and trying to get laid, they would be a lot better off.Lust isn't love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 09:16 AM |
| 3 | If men spent more time working on themselves instead of chasing women and trying to get laid, they would be a lot better off.It's really not that deep It is. You just don't have enough awareness to see it. I don't care about self-improvement Exactly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 08:07 AM |
| – | Women defend each other's behaviour online and when talking to men, but in reality they don't seem to like each other, generally speaking.One would think people who blindly defend each other's shitty behaviours actually like each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/24 04:53 PM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.Do it 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 04:07 PM |
| 2 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.Am I wrong? Is that not the world we live in? I even linked a video of a woman with a parasitic mentality to prove it, and the comments from women on that video prove it even more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 03:08 AM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.So shouldn't you know that the post isn't based on that book?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/24 02:15 AM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.It isn't. And you'd know this if you read the post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/24 12:46 AM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.Thanks for your input. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/24 12:44 AM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.I know you won't, but you should read the book 'The Manipulated Man' by Esther Vilar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 02:43 PM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.they’ve been manipulated by women into paying for dates? They have been manipulated. You can easily tell because now women are allowed to work and therefore can afford to pay for themselves, and yet many still choose to be leeches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 02:20 PM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.You're lying to yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 12:37 PM |
| 2 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.Looking up what that word means will show you that there are no positive connotations because it's essentially manipulation. Ofcourse it's beneficial for women coz they only care about themselves, but objectively, it's not positive. Luring is essentially bait. Baiting a human being is trash behaviour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 11:16 AM |
| 2 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.There are no good connotations to luring other human beings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 04:27 AM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.Why do you think that is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 03:28 AM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.And yet in 2024 when some women even make more money than men they still expect men to pay. It's like no psychological evolution has taken place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 01:45 AM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.It doesn't really make much sense when you replace the word "women" with "men" because many men care about women as human beings which is what makes it easy for women to manipulate them. For example, no man shows up to a date expecting a woman to pay for him, yet women do that all the time, because they dont care about men they just want to be catered to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 01:43 AM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.It kinda is true though. Now downvote me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 01:05 PM |
| 5 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.men prefer women to look good. You don't think women prefer men to look good as well? What planet do you live on? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 12:58 PM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.Well, if you wanna believe that then I can't stop you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 12:57 PM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.I don't need to live in the wilderness to not conform. Do you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 12:52 PM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.Just think about why in the movie "Titanic" the "women and children" were the first to be put in the boat. And why no men or "random" people went in the boats. Because women are seen as being like children, socially . And sometimes you benefit from being seen as children, and other times you don't. The only instances you have a problem with being seen like children is when you don't benefit from it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 12:42 PM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.If only. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 12:40 PM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.we don't chase, we lure. You're right. But you should look up what the word "lure" actually means. You spoke more truth than you realise and are willing to acknowledge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 12:34 PM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.What is this equal rights? 😂 The world doesn't work on paper based rules... Rights aren't paper based rules. Do you think a woman can protect you as much as you can protect her? I don't really care. I don't need protection from women, so why should I care? Or can you look after the child, educate, be patient and caring in the same way as a "woman" who is like that in "nature"? Yes. I can do that better than most women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 12:31 PM |
| -1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.If I only cared about what women can do for me, I would be content with them just being npcs who don't think for themselves because that would make it easier for me to get laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 12:29 PM |
| 2 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.The problem is that men and women are not the same... Both should be able to pay for their own meals, otherwise what's the point of equal rights? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 12:24 PM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.Accuse you of doing exactly what he's doing. So you think I'm going on dates expecting women to pay for my meals? That's literally what women do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 12:21 PM |
| 0 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.More men than women think men should pay for the first date Which is why Esther Vilar wrote the book 'The Manipulated Man'. Because men have been manipulated to behave like that by women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 12:17 PM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 12:16 PM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.But as you interpret it = "I ask a woman out on a date and expect her to pay her share because she's an adult. " O.O I've had women ask me out and I had no problem with paying for my own food. But somehow women do, because they're so "caring". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 12:15 PM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.Most people conform, Because they're dumb sheep, and I say that fully ware of all the downvotes I'm gonna receive. Use your own intelligence instead of going with the norms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 12:03 PM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.It's a "social" thing, you know? So what? That doesn't make it less superficial. Adults should be okay with paying for things they eat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 12:02 PM |
| -2 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.Studying psychology and how the human mind, (especially women's) works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 11:58 AM |
| 2 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.And what's the woman bringing to the table, besides her body and entitlement? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 11:57 AM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.don’t spend hours thinking and debating about it.. So why bother commenting at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 11:56 AM |
| 2 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.Exactly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 11:55 AM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.It always benefits us to conform with norms as conformity is rewarded. If you're a dumb sheep, yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 11:55 AM |
| 2 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.so why should the woman pay? Because they're an adult, supposedly. Imagine for a second that someone invites you to lunch or dinner and expects "you" to pay for the food. How would you feel? I've had women ask to hang out with me, and I paid for myself and had no problem with it because I'm the one who accepted to hang out with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 11:54 AM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.There opinions don’t really matter And yours does? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 11:35 AM |
| 2 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.Women have agency, meaning they can go against the norm if they choose to, and they do when it doesn't benefit them to go along with it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 11:31 AM |
| 2 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.If a guy was poor and he expected women to pay for him, what would you think of him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 11:30 AM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.expect a man to pay but I still care about them. If you actually cared about them, you would just pay for yourself and not expect them to pay for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 11:16 AM |
| 3 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.damn do you just mean in this context or in general, that’s a rough generalization either way lol and false if you’re saying that describes 99-100% of men. Most people aren't altruistic, which means most women aren't either, which is evident in their expectations. namely referring to men who feel slightly emasculated by women splitting or paying when said men think they’re not doing what they were born to do These are called idiots. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 10:44 AM |
| 3 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.Here's another opportunity for you to downvote my comment and feel good about yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 10:33 AM |
| 3 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.Men aren't altruistic. So obviously if they prefer to pay for something, it's because they think they'll get something in return for it. Or they're just traditional men, who are just simps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 10:32 AM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.Nope. I wish I did, that would make dating easier coz I would just use women for their bodies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 10:29 AM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 10:28 AM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.The point is as a man, most women you date are gonna be the superficial type. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 10:19 AM |
| -4 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 10:18 AM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.She’s wrong for you. No shit. That was just one example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 10:13 AM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.Well, in one case she called me after and told me how she didn't like the fact that I let her pay for her own food. And that's just one example from my own limited experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 10:08 AM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.Yeah, good job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 09:46 AM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.You are some kind of special needs idiot. I bet if I had said this about you, I would be banned from this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 09:40 AM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.Just because you imagine women behave that way doesn’t mean they do. If only it were just imagination. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 09:37 AM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.Just because you don't behave a certain way doesn't mean other people also don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 09:34 AM |
| -5 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.I've studied psychology and I know how the mind works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 09:32 AM |
| 2 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.There's nothing "up" with someone who is expecting a social norm to be followed. There definitely is. Especially if that norm requires them to expect strangers to put them on a pedestal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 09:27 AM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.Your basis for this is a first date? That was an example, which is also very revealing because if a woman has a problem with paying for her own meal, there's clearly something up with her. Couples who have known each other for a while are more likely to alternate or split. Because the woman knows she gets more in the long run. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 09:15 AM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.Who hurt you? Atleast try to be more original if you wanna be taken seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 09:08 AM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.Have you ever dated a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 08:51 AM |
| 0 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.Like I said, you can tell yourself whatever you like. But that doesn't change the reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 08:51 AM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.if your goal is anything other than buying sex, is to establish up front that you will meet very casually at first and each pay half. Unfortunately it seems like you don't date women so you don't understand the fact that talking about payment upfront is a turn off for most women. This is why it's best for men to just walk away from dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 08:48 AM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.That's probably because many women insist on paying while expecting the man to insist even more on paying. The sad reality is women play themselves, and then they act like victims. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 08:45 AM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.Well, you can tell yourself what you like, but that's exactly what it is. Most men only find that out when they get divorced. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 08:40 AM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.And yet women still let men spend the $50 on them 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 08:28 AM |
| 2 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.A woman in love will go to Hell and back for you. Its not really love. It just means she's emotionally attached to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 08:27 AM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.they won’t do it because it makes the pool of potential sex targets smaller And what does that say about women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 08:18 AM |
| 3 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.Some guys get a bit aggressive and won't let you pay. I find this 🚩 and I end up letting them pay but then I don't see them anymore. That's the right decision to make. Any man who won't let a woman pay for her own meal and is aggressive about it obviously has issues and an ulterior motive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 08:15 AM |
| 3 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.You're not disproving the point of the post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 08:06 AM |
| 0 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.Okay, thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 07:56 AM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.Dates are not brothels. Most women have turned them into that. However those typically aren’t guys like you who are looking for transactional sex. I'm not interested in transactional sex, hence the post. the solution is simple- up front you explain that this is an informal meeting to get to know each other and you both pay your part. Any man with experience with women knows this is a turn off for most of them because money and resources is their main concern. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 07:54 AM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.For some people, paying for a date is a way of showing generosity too. Yeah, women want men to be generous. But women themselves don't really care about being generous, which is why they expect men to pay instead of paying for men, let alone paying for themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 07:51 AM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.If you are honest with yourself this is about you being rejected by some woman you felt entitled to. It always is. I'm sure that makes you feel better, but its not true. Not that you care. And if you aren’t bothering with women you do not have access to these insights based on observation anyway. Just because I don't chase women doesn't mean I don't talk and hang out with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 07:48 AM |
| -4 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.It applies to most women. You wanted a woman way outside your league and you got rejected or used. It ALWAYS goes back to that. Not really. I don't bother with women anymore, but I still see what's going on in the world and I understand how they think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 07:44 AM |
| -6 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.I insist I will pay my half, but alot of guys then get really angry and accuse me of “trying to a man”, be a feminist, unfeminine, emasculating them. Shouldn't this be a sign to you that there's something wrong with these men you're referring to? What women don't understand is that if a man spends money on you then he's obviously going to expect something in return. That's literally how transactions work, and women have turned relationships into transactions so they should know this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 07:42 AM |
| 0 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.Try reading the post again. It's not about "Stacy", it's about women in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 07:39 AM |
| -4 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.Men pay up front to get sex. Then if they don’t get sex they are angry they paid. And yet women allow them to pay for dates knowing this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 07:37 AM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.If you don't like each other, you won't go on a date, if you are afraid to lose money, don't go on a date. Easy enough. Shouldn't this apply to women who expect men to pay? Or does being a woman exempt them from that? she probably wants to be a stay-at-home-mother Yeah, which is all about her being provided for. The children are just the excuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 07:36 AM |
| -22 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.None of this changes the truth of what I'm saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 07:26 AM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.But i might be manipulated into believing it isn't kind because i was raised without gender roles. No, expecting someone else to spend money on you is never kind, regardless of manipulation. it can feel offensive if a guy wants to pay for the whole date because he might expect sex immediately. That's understandable. But if these women were truly kind, they would be against it not because of the expectation of sex, but because expecting men to spend money on you is trashy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 07:20 AM |
| -23 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.This is how one talks when you're trying to frame yourself as some rational, detached observer when you're actually making an emotionally charged indictment of 50% of the population. Well, whether you like it or not, social programming is very real and it affects almost 99% of people. And there is actually a form of social programming directed at women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 07:17 AM |
| 2 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.Same what you said is is comments under bear posts. I don't think you'll agree that it makes "men are rapists" correct. I'm not sure what you're referring to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 07:15 AM |
| 3 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.he feels that women in my country are manipulated by our equalitarian culture when he sees them carrying heavy groceries with their boyfriend walking next to him I rest my case. Both men and women seem to be raised to be kind and caring to the other gender Is it really kind and caring to expect someone to spend money on you just because they have a penis? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 07:14 AM |
| -3 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.Also it assumes all/absolute majority have the same worldview that makes them compatable with "not caring about men" nurture. The majority do have the same mentality. If they didn't, many other men wouldn't be able to relate to this post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 07:06 AM |
| 2 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.Well, he explained to me that in Italy that is called a true masculine man, and that men who cannot or do not want to pay for a date are deemed losers in his country. That's what is meant by "manipulation". So, Ester Vilar is a feminist, right? I have read the book, felt like she kinda hated herself The book isn't about her, so why would it mean she hates herself? She was just sick of women exploiting men while acting like they're victims. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 07:03 AM |
| 4 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.He said that as a man he should be able to pay for dates, that is how to show a woman he is interested in that he might be worth her time. By suggesting to pay half it made him feel like a lesser man. Because he is what Esther Vilar called "a manipulated man". A real man won't feel like less of a man simply because he allowed another adult to pay for their own food, obviously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 06:57 AM |
| -3 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.Sounds just like another misogynistic post. I must be terrible at being misogynistic since I'm saying it's nurture rather than nature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 06:51 AM |
| -1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.Actually splitting the bill is a good test. I agree. But why do you think most men dont do this? Because they know this limits the amount of women they have a chance with. This is the unfortunate reality we live in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 06:39 AM |
| 6 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.Yeah, but when it comes to intimate relationships as a man, you would expect that not to be the case, hence the post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 06:25 AM |
| 1 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.how are you gonna get a girl without dating ffs I'm not interested in getting a girl, that's the point. How did you miss it if you actually read the post? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 11:43 PM |
| 1 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.Sounds like someone has been burned recently and has a broken heart…so he’s making generalizations about all women. So what's your explanation for the quote by Esther Vilar, if im only saying what's in the post because of what you say? Did she also have a broken heart?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 02:25 PM |
| 6 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.Please leave us alone. That's what the post is about so I'm not sure why you'd tell me to do something I've already suggested 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 02:15 AM |
| 1 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.About 70% of women prefer a men with more financial resources, that means some women don't prefer that. Who cares? I couldn't care less what women prefer. I guarantee you they don't care what you prefer either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 01:25 AM |
| 1 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.Ladies expect the man to be a man (a provider). Being a man has nothing to do with providing for another adult. You've been manipulated, and apparently, your wife doesn't even value you as a human being. She requires payment, according to your own words. Thats not a real partner, thats a leech. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 01:20 AM |
| 2 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.Okay, thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 11:58 PM |
| 3 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.Being alone is only a problem if you're dependent on other people to make you happy. Which will make you very easy to manipulate and control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 11:35 PM |
| 1 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.Your mistake is assuming my opinion is based on tik tok, which I don't even have. Making your whole comment meaningless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 11:32 PM |
| 1 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.That says alot about how she sees you. Thats sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 11:30 PM |
| 1 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.Plenty of people with jobs don't make enough money. Doesn't mean you'll be better off living under a bridge. Really? Only force the woman to pay for the meal if you want to shoot yourself in the foot. It's very odd that you see letting an adult pay for food that's going into her own mouth as forcing her. Well, keep simping in the hopes of getting sex and validation. Good luck. I guess that's what being a "redpill man" means these days. You should read the book 'The Manipulated Man' by Esther Vil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 11:23 PM |
| 1 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.In what way are you oppressed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 05:31 PM |
| 2 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.It's not what the post is about. Which is why you should read it again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 05:25 PM |
| 1 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.Tell that to men who pay for dates and expect sex in return. I don't do either of those things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 05:22 PM |
| 2 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.You should read the post again. But read to understand what is being said, not just to respond. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 05:21 PM |
| 1 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.like you’re telling us what women do. Yeah, and I'm saying men shouldn't cater to women or base their behaviour off what women say and do. The same applies to women. Men whine about paying IF they don’t end up getting laid. Since its become a transaction, ofcourse when a man pays he's gonna expect to get something in return. It's basic psychology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 05:20 PM |
| 3 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.Then why are you whining about entitled women who won’t fuck you? I'm not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 05:17 PM |
| 1 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.You don't know as much as you think you do. You're just making meaningless assumptions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 05:12 PM |
| 2 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.Why would you listen to idiots? When you hang out with your friends and pay for your own food, is that masculine? Masculinity and femininity have nothing to do with paying for food going into your own mouth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 05:10 PM |
| 1 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.I don't 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 05:07 PM |
| 5 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.I'm not. Read the post, or even just the title. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 05:06 PM |
| 1 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.The point is they're actually oppressed, but you're not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 05:05 PM |
| 1 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.I just asked a question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 05:04 PM |
| 1 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.Skewed reality viewed through the lens of a victim mentality. There are women in Muslim countries who have basically no rights, and they still have less of a victim mentality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 05:04 PM |
| 1 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.It upsets you enough to comment on it No, its just an observation of victim mentality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 04:57 PM |
| 1 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.no matter how much it upsets you That's so silly. Why would someone's victim mentality upset me? I mean, its your mentality, not mine. Because we’re going to put our own welfare ahead of your opinions and feelings Again, then you should be in support of my post telling men to walk away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 04:54 PM |
| 1 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.Its not reality. Its just a victim mentality. And if men are so bad, you should be in support of what I'm saying about men walking away from women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 04:51 PM |
| 1 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.Stop being a victim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 04:49 PM |
| 1 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.Already most women will be put off by this Who cares? you are a staunch atheist No, im not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 04:44 PM |
| 1 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.Well, you're being very specific about women's weight and average looks, which is odd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 04:14 PM |
| 1 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.You know exactly what it means, I really don't. Because we don’t like it And complaining about it is definitely gonna change it, isn't it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 04:10 PM |
| 0 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.Well, keep jumping through hoops and playing that game then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 04:08 PM |
| 1 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.No personal attacks. So you think being seen as an average woman is a personal attack? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 04:07 PM |
| 1 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.It's like saying "one of the best thing workers can do for their sanity is to walk away from work" No, it isn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 03:53 PM |
| – | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.Are you describing yourself? Is that what this is about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 03:52 PM |
| 1 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.Then keep complaining about men being "bears". Whatever that means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 03:42 PM |
| 1 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.Then why not encourage them to stop like I'm doing? Rather than going on about how they'll never stop. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 03:19 PM |
| 1 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.Nah, you want men to keep chasing and validating entitled women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 03:13 PM |
| 1 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.But is it likely to happen? History says nah Sounds like you don't want it to happen. Strange. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 03:08 PM |
| 1 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.Again, you said you agree with the post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 02:49 PM |
| 1 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.I'm not sure you actually read the post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 02:46 PM |
| 2 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.You’re the one who admits he only wants the top 5-10% of women. When did I say this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 02:45 PM |
| 0 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.I'm not sure why you ask disingenuous questions. Like I said, downvote and move on if you don't understand what to debate. Besides, you already you agree with the post so...🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 02:37 PM |
| 1 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.And yet some men are understanding what I'm saying 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 02:32 PM |
| 0 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.That's the utterly confusing part here. This is a debate sub. It's the place to discuss these ideas. If you're not interested, downvote and move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 02:30 PM |
| 1 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.Okay, whatever you say 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 02:29 PM |
| 0 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.I didn’t downvote. Screenshot I didn't say you did. I said I wonder which genius did. In fact, you likely downvoted me. I've literally never downvoted a post or a comment since I've been on reddit. I don't see the point. Attractive women are premium. This is a strange way to view human beings. Meat is premium, not people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 02:27 PM |
| 2 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.Like I said before, thanks for proving my point. Walking away from people with this weird mentality is the best thing men can do. If you want someone young, hot, and fit, prepare to pay a premium. No thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 02:23 PM |
| 1 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.Your 2 paragraphs can’t hand wave away the root of behaviors and thoughts Which is what? I think you're confused and probably didn't understand what you read. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 02:22 PM |
| 0 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.I don't really understand what point you're making. I was just pointing out that my opinion isn't based on tik tok videos like you were implying 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 02:20 PM |
| 0 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.without this co-dependency our world would end. That's not even true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 02:11 PM |
| 1 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.Sure, okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 02:11 PM |
| 0 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.(Though I don't base my opinions on vapid TikTok videos.) Neither do I. It was an example to illustrate a point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 02:09 PM |
| 0 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.Why would anyone date someone they find unattractive? Just think about it for a second. Edit: I wonder which genius downvoted this comment, and yet didn't answer the question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 02:00 PM |
| 1 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.This is why I asked if you read the whole post. The last 2 paragraphs address this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 01:47 PM |
| 0 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.This has nothing to do with meditation You said to look within. That's what meditation is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 01:43 PM |
| 7 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.And what you forget is i can make observations about women too Then do it. but I know lots of women and they aren't like what you described. Sure they aren't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 01:41 PM |
| 1 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.Then why don’t you date them? Because I'm not attracted to them. That doesn't mean there's anything wrong with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 01:40 PM |
| 1 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.And you decided to ignore the thing that causes the entire situation, Which is what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 01:38 PM |
| 3 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.Proving what point? Read the post and find out. What’s wrong with middle aged, unattractive, perimenopausal women? Nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 01:37 PM |
| 7 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.You obviously think very little of women No, I'm just making observations of their behaviour and mentality. It's not my fault if their behaviour and mentality tends to be on the negative side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 01:36 PM |
| 6 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.Thank you for proving the point of my post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 01:30 PM |
| 3 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.Did you read the whole post? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 01:24 PM |
| 5 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.Good one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 01:23 PM |
| 8 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.Your choice of women, sure. No, women in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 01:23 PM |
| 6 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.This is just narcissism. they are paying for our time Why do you need to be paid for your time in interpersonal relationships? Might as well become a prostitute. We are giving them a portion of our youth, beauty, and fertility. No you're not. This is just absurd. It just further proves the point of my post. No sane man wants to date a woman who requires payment because she's "giving" him her youth. That's nonsense. Its like you didn't even read the post because your comment is just encouragement… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 01:20 PM |
| 3 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.If that's what you think you need to look within. It has nothing to do with looking within. I meditate very often. Obviously if a relationship is transactional and there's entitlement, nothing good will come out of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 01:16 PM |
| 4 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.Men and women are better together. Not when one party is entitled and uses the other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 01:07 PM |
| 7 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.If you really feel like dating women is drama, It actually is for many men and also many women actually are parasitic. I even linked a video as an example. Also, some women even get bored without drama in relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 01:04 PM |
| 1 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.And you’ve never heard of common sense. There you go. I'm glad I could help you start punctuating your sentences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 12:55 PM |
| 4 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.Men in relationships report being more calm and relaxed and they live longer. Sure they do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 12:53 PM |
| 2 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.This is not the path to happiness. And chasing women is? You must be joking. The MGTOW approach greatly empowers women. Suddenly they can take your resources and never have to deal with you. This makes no sense if you actually know what MGTOW is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 12:52 PM |
| – | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.It seems like you've never heard of punctuation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 12:48 PM |
| -1 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.Dating? Sorry, but that's a difficulty that men need to learn to engage with. Nobody "needs" to engage with dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 12:40 PM |
| 4 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.Simps are gonna simp. It's the way of the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 12:31 PM |
| 6 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.I’m not “dependent” on anyone, If you think life without women/sex isn't worth living, then you're clearly dependent on women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 12:30 PM |
| 4 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.Sounds like you're dependent on women. This makes it easy for them to manipulate you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 12:24 PM |
| 5 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.Okay, thanks for the advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 12:22 PM |
| 4 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.Sure, okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 11:35 AM |
| 8 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.I like how you ignored everything else in the post and only addressed one sentence out of 3 paragraphs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 11:32 AM |
| 4 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.Okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 11:31 AM |
| 15 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.What attitude? Not wanting to be used by entitled women and catering to them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 11:30 AM |
| 16 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.But also, they don't wear makeup for men, but you must pay for it anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 11:21 AM |
| – | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.Hahahah wow. You didn't even finish your sentence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 11:17 AM |
| 11 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.If you want a healthy mind you need your own family. This is not true. Many married people with families are unhappy. The man should always pay for dates. No, he shouldn't. A woman should be an adult and pay for her own food. It's no wonder women can manipulate men so easily. If you believe you must pay for a woman's food, you're a simp and are setting yourself up to be used. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 11:16 AM |
| 4 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.I think one of the best things men can do for their sanity is to delete TikTok so they stop getting all their shitty ideas from the app. Women in real life actually have that mentality. I don't even have TikTok; I just came across this video on reddit and it lined up with my experience. Also, the people on TikTok exist in real life. You're just letting yourself be brainwashed by internet rage bait. No, I've met women who actually have this mentality. But ofcourse you have to defend women you don… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 11:10 AM |
| – | Generally speaking, to women love means power, and to men it means enslavement.Your comment reminds me of a book someone recommended to me the other day called 'Woman's Inhumanity To Woman' by Phylis Chesler. And its amazing how the women commenting are acting like the idea of women wanting to be led by men is unheard of, and they don't even address the other points raised in the post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 10:36 AM |
| – | Generally speaking, to women love means power, and to men it means enslavement.And also the no-trad ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 09:04 AM |
| – | Generally speaking, to women love means power, and to men it means enslavement.A bit of a difference but hardly a master/slave dynamic. Obviously it goes beyond paying for dates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 08:49 AM |
| – | Generally speaking, to women love means power, and to men it means enslavement.It's not a small minority and the being led part isn't even the main point of the post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 08:42 AM |
| – | Generally speaking, to women love means power, and to men it means enslavement.I have never heard an actual woman say they want to be lead, That doesn't mean they don't exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 08:37 AM |
| – | Generally speaking, to women love means power, and to men it means enslavement.Also, what's this weird obsession with men "leading"? Thats a question you should ask women, especially the "traditional" type, which is alot of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 08:31 AM |
| – | Generally speaking, to women love means power, and to men it means enslavement.I don't know any women like this. That must mean they don't exist, and yet Esther Vilar wrote about them in the 70s and men talk about them today, which is way many are walking away from dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 08:05 AM |
| – | Generally speaking, to women love means power, and to men it means enslavement.From women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 07:52 AM |
| – | Generally speaking, to women love means power, and to men it means enslavement.I guess we can pretend they don't exist, if you like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 07:52 AM |
| – | Generally speaking, to women love means power, and to men it means enslavement.I'm an atheist so anything religious doesn't appeal to me. That doesn't mean many women aren't religious. And even those who aren't still want a man to lead and provide and take responsibility for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 07:51 AM |
| – | Generally speaking, to women love means power, and to men it means enslavement.Well, they exist. Many of them are the "traditional" and religious type. But some of those who aren't still want the man to lead and therefore take responsibility for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 07:49 AM |
| – | Generally speaking, to women love means power, and to men it means enslavement.I'm not sure why you're acting like you've never heard the idea that some women want to be led by men. Even religious books talk about this, and that's where the idea actually comes from and many women have bought into it. Pretending otherwise is just disingenuous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 07:45 AM |
| – | Generally speaking, to women love means power, and to men it means enslavement.How? Just do a simple google search and you'll come across them. It's disingenuous to pretend like such women don't exist, many of them are the "traditional" type. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 07:42 AM |
| – | Generally speaking, to women love means power, and to men it means enslavement.Men can’t and aren’t protecting women from anything. And yet many women still say a man's role is to protect them 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 07:39 AM |
| 0 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.I am a biologist with a PhD from research on evolutionary adaptations to urban environments Oh okay, I guess that means you understand what Darwin (who was a rascist) meant by the word 'race'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 09:53 AM |
| 1 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.but what triggers sexual desire is whats fit for reproduction, Obviously. No one is disputing that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 09:49 AM |
| 1 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.So what's your point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 09:49 AM |
| 1 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.The ultimate reason for sex is reproduction. No shit. The point is people don't just have sex for reproduction purposes. Which is why condoms and birth control exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 05:45 AM |
| 1 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.How tf are you so wrong about nearly everything you talk about on here? Maybe I'm not and you're just ignorant 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 06:07 PM |
| 1 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.Again, race is not used and understood in the sense we use it today. How do you know what he meant by "race"? Have you actually read any of his books? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 04:08 PM |
| 1 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.The term "race" in the title does not refer to human races as we understand them today, but rather to variations within species. And you know this because he told told you? Instead of defending a racist, you might wanna learn more about him and his views: https://evolutionnews.org/2022/02/the-racism-of-darwin-and-darwinism/ Here's a quote from one of his books 'The Descent of Man' (1871), where he claimed, “At some future period, not very distant as measured by centuries, the civilised races of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 03:42 PM |
| 1 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.maybe start with Darwin, The full title of Darwin's book is 'On the Origin of Species by Means of Natural Selection, or the Preservation of Favoured Races in the Struggle for Life.' That's not a guy you wanna base your perspective on, unless you wanna go down the same rascist path he was on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 02:35 PM |
| -1 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.Who people are attracted to has nothing to do with evolution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 02:32 PM |
| 0 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.course some disabled men reproduce, Exactly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 02:31 PM |
| 1 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.Remember each man can impregnate many women and any given woman can only be pregnant with at most 2 children at once and only one pregnancy per 12 months (plus 5 months to even get pregnant). So even if womens' collective goal was to maximise reproduction, only a very small ratio of men to women would be needed. None of this has any bearing on reality. It's basically just nonsense. I don't think we understand nature well enough to ascribe a main concern or teleology to it, I don't disagree that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 01:17 PM |
| 1 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.That's not what i said You basically did. You responded to a comment where I said people don't always have sex to reproduce all the time. And you said "Yes they do." Go back and read your original comment. You don't speak the same language of the majority of other humans. But I cam learn it, that's the point. mostly gestual. And how do they reason using gestures? Can you reason with a dog? How? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 01:10 PM |
| 1 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.People have sex because it's pleasurable. No shit. You said they only have sex to have kids, all the time. that must mean humans are not rational. But they have the capability to be that, unlike animals. Logic and reasoning requires language, words. Hence why animals don't speak. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 12:51 PM |
| 1 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.Yes they do. I believe you. Which is why I now have philosophical discussions with animals. Wow, just because we found a way to prevent having kids on the last 100 years, Why would we do that? People only have sex to have kids, remember? So what's the need for condoms and birth control? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 12:17 PM |
| 1 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.They totally do. Animals have reason and logic? Sure, okay. Yes they do. You're right. It's not like condoms exist or anything. People only have sex to reproduce. Totally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 12:09 PM |
| 1 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.By "evidence" you mean your date telling you about sex with other men? 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 10:27 AM |
| 1 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.Yes because we are on a debate sub and you posted some drivel that I and others are trying to tell you is drivel. Well, you get a gold sticker for trying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 10:19 AM |
| 1 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.They do, you have to know how to get it out of them. Sure... So it is your opinion that doesn't mean much. Yet here you are talking about it... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 10:07 AM |
| 1 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.If you think women don't like talking about themselves (especially to someone they feel comfortable with and after a little alcohol) then I have a bridge to sell you. Buddy, women aren't going to tell you honestly about their sexual experiences with other men, especially if they're into you. The last woman I went on a date with I got her talking about how she was a sugar baby to a man 20 years older who could only cum if she was wearing some thigh high boots. Then that woman wasn't actually inte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 09:55 AM |
| 1 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.and any of the wild things she has done in her life If you think she's actually gonna be honest with you about her past sexual experiences with other men, then you are delusional. Also, nothing you said is gonna tell you anything about her sex drive. the fact is you think it isn't true, but it is. Okay, you've convinced me. Also, you quoted one line from a post with more than 4 paragraphs, and the line you quoted isn't even the point of the post, its literally just the opening line. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 09:32 AM |
| 1 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.Dude, I'm not a researcher so I can't answer every question If you want evidence, surely you have some idea of what that evidence entails. If you can't even tell me how you would get info about women's sex drive then that tells me that you know that getting that info would be unrealistic and unreliable. The basic fact is that, it is quite evident in society that men have stronger sex drives and women are picky about the men they will get with. I never said they didn't. You should actually read t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 09:14 AM |
| 1 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.You could do a meta analysis of other studies this wouldn't require consent. What are those studies based on? How do they get info about women's sex drive? People produce questionnaires And you don't think that women know that questionnaires are related to academic or scientific studies? Also, what kind of questions would you ask in it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 08:55 AM |
| 1 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.People can produce studies based on factors where the group being studied don't know they are being studied. And how would you do that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 08:33 AM |
| 1 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.It's not uncommon for people to think someone is talking out their ass when they don't understand what is being said. What sort of evidence do you want? A study on women's sex drive? That's beyond stupid since it would depend on women saying what their sex drives are. "...since women have no respect for exact scientific data and are interested only in what is of immediate benefit to them, they will say what seems to be convenient or opportune at the time. Consequently, any facts acquired on the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 08:05 AM |
| 1 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.Is that not what you said? Re-read the comment you're referring to to see what I said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 07:14 AM |
| 0 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.According to you, sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 06:51 AM |
| 1 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.to support my claim that everything is social conditioning i'll only cite the guy chiefly known for claiming that everything is social conditoning Okay? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 04:12 AM |
| 1 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense."this general tendency in behavior isnt real because sometimes there are exceptions" These are your words, not mine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 04:12 AM |
| 1 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.Since people today use dating apps to have relationships, you dont think its good place to have an idea how society is working? Dating apps don't reflect reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 02:58 AM |
| 1 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.And you're free to view it as incorrect if you like, but that doesn't mean it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 02:57 AM |
| 1 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.Like I said, we've already established that you disagree with the post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 02:51 AM |
| 1 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.I did, in the post. And we've already established that you disagree with it, so you can just ignore the post and go on with your day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 02:41 AM |
| 1 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.That's your opinion, chief. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 02:38 AM |
| 1 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.It’s not basic psychology It is. I know because I've studied psychology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 02:38 AM |
| 1 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.And no, it’s not basic biology that our personality is shaped completely by nurture… I said it's basic psychology... I’m not going to keep arguing with someone clinging to one irrelevant quote from a guy that isn’t even an authority figure on the subjects of evolution, human mating or biology. Then don't. It's not like I asked you to engage with my post 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 02:34 AM |
| 1 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.Most of our behavior is not due to “nuture”. It actually is. This is basic psychology. you aren’t as knowledgeable on these subjects as you seem to think you are. I studied both psychology and counselling and I've read alot about about this topic. Here's a quote from 'the father of PR' who created propaganda that got women to start smoking: “We are governed, our minds are molded, our tastes formed, our ideas suggested, largely by men we have never heard of.” - Edward Bernays What do you think "o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 02:07 AM |
| -1 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.That's dumb. Human behaviour is mostly due to nurture (conditioning), not nature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 01:58 AM |
| 1 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.and are simply struggling to cope with the harsher realities of the mating game for men. If this were the case I would be complaining about how women are only attracted to a small amount of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 01:55 AM |
| 0 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.All sex and relationships across all animal kingdoms have to do with what's evolutionary beneficial, that's just part of the natural selection. That's ridiculous, especially considering people don't just have sex to have kids. For example, male birds with lots of colors are attractive to female birds, because they obviously display healthy gene attributes. Animals also don't have the ability to use reason and logic, so everything they do doesn't reflect on humans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 01:43 AM |
| 0 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.Your only argument is basically just “na ah. I don’t like that theory so it’s nonsense🤮”. You didn't actually read the post. Also, it's called a theory for a reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 01:41 AM |
| 1 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.I'm not sure how you can say this when women on this sub will openly say that they are attracted to a very small number of men when they are asked Again, I discussed this in the post. "We are governed, our minds are molded, our tastes formed, and our ideas suggested, largely by men we have never heard of…. It is they who pull the wires that control the public mind." - Edward Bernays, who most definitely knew what he was talking about. Look him up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 01:26 AM |
| -1 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.Well, it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 01:17 AM |
| 0 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.so I'm not sure how it could be considered "nonsense". Did you read the post or just the title? I explain in the post what I mean. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 01:13 AM |
| 1 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.You should read the post, I explained why that is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 01:12 AM |
| 1 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.Well, if you wanna believe that nobody can stop you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 01:01 AM |
| 1 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.so I don’t see any “points”. You might be blind then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 12:59 AM |
| 1 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.They do. All of them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 12:59 AM |
| 1 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.My god how regarded can you be Very highly regarded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 12:57 AM |
| 0 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.they can pick the men the reproduce with. This doesn't change any of the points made. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 12:57 AM |
| 1 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.It's called sarcasm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 12:56 AM |
| 3 | What does it mean to "Lead" a relationship?You weren't kidding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 12:44 AM |
| 1 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.Not all of them, all the time. And even when they do, I can guarantee you that they're not doing it for evolutionary benefits or whatever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 12:43 AM |
| 2 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.Okay, good debate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 12:36 AM |
| 0 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.Yes. Most women and people in general know nothing about themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 12:30 AM |
| 2 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.No, I don't put faith into any academics. Nobody I quoted is an academic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 12:20 AM |
| -1 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.Academic studies aren't the best source of information about women's sex drives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 12:19 AM |
| 5 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.they should also understand that the weak don’t get to reproduce This isn't even remotely true. Society is full of weak people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 12:18 AM |
| 0 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.They rationally analyse empirical studies This doesn't mean they understand sex or women. It just means they're nerds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 12:15 AM |
| -4 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.Guess the academics can pack up and go home. Academics know nothing about sex and women, which is why they're academics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 12:08 AM |
| -3 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.Because they don't. Nobody hooks up with someone while thinking about what's beneficial to evolution, that's nonsensical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 12:04 AM |
| -4 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.Relationships and sex have nothing to do with what's "evolutionary benefitial." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 12:02 AM |
| 1 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.Nature doesn't give a fuck about less or more reproduction Ofcourse it does. That's the whole point of it, hence the animal kingdom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 12:01 AM |
| -6 | The idea that women are naturally not attracted to most men or that they naturally have a weaker sex drive is nonsense.They need to be attracted to the fittest, strongest men with the best genes. This is all evolutionary nonsense. If it were true, disabled men would never have partners or get married, and yet they do. And many marry women who aren't disabled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.My comment is literally what my post is about. Even the title says it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 02:38 PM |
| 2 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.Not really Well, whether you wanna acknowledge it or not, that's the reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.When I see a woman genuinely trying to put in effort during our interactions and make sure we both have a good time it makes me want to pay regardless. Maybe so. But on some level you also know that if you don't pay you might not get a second date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 11:19 AM |
| 1 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.women show they like him by having sex with him So do men, genius. is wanting approval and validation not showing you like someone? No, its showing you're insecure and weak. she probably won't fuck him so paying to get laid doesn't even work without everything else. It actually does, which is why many women end up in abusive relationships. Coz they're just focused on payment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.you cant explain a claim as simple as why paying for dates does not equal representing liking someone, I've already told you, men only do it to get a second date and to increase their chances of getting laid. Also, women don't even pay for their own food, so how do they show they like someone? By letting him pay for them? simps do this all the time. Again, they do it for approval and validation, not out of any genuiness. saying paying for dates is only about pussy is just a blatantly false reali… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 05:10 AM |
| 2 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.. I believe you and you've totally changed my mind I don't need you to believe me and I wasn't trying to change your mind. I only responded to you because you commented on my post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 04:57 AM |
| 2 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.these are all ways to get her into bed. Yeah, and they're also ways to show interest. It's up to you to use your intuition to see what the guy's intentions are. But thinking payment means he likes you is just laughably stupid. women equally can show this interest during the duration of the dinner so she can get free dinner. Which is why intelligent men split the bill. It's an easy way to weed out the prostitutes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 04:52 AM |
| 3 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.then what are ways men show they like a girl on a date? Paying attention to her, asking her about herself, being present and so on. Same way women show interest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 04:47 AM |
| 3 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.shows you really like her No it doesn't. Men pay just to increase their chances of getting laid, but most women are so dumb that they think a man paying means he likes them. if you wanna call it prostitution go for it. It literally is prostitution. Whether I call it that or not won't change the fact that that's what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.They get laid because they pay for it. If they understood women, they wouldn't be traditional men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.No it isn't. Many women have babies with trashy men just to get alimony or a provider, which also makes them trashy people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 03:56 AM |
| 3 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.Women act entitled to have their date paid for the same way men act entitled to fucking on the first date. Yeah, because they paid. Like I said in the post, if you expect payment, you're no different than a prostitute. if sex is the main goal, you better pay, especially if you're not Chad. This is literally what prostitution is. There's nothing wrong with being a prostitute, but atleast be honest about it and don't pretend to be a respectable and authentic woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 03:53 AM |
| 2 | Which is harder? Stay-at-home Parent? Or sole-provider for a family?If being a stay at home parent was hard, women wouldn't choose to do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 02:50 AM |
| 4 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.You’re mad because you can’t get it easy and for free Sex between two people who love each other is free and easy. Your comment just reveals that you're no different to a prostitute since you think men should pay you for sex. Gross. Atleast be an honest prostitute and accept what you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 02:48 AM |
| 2 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.It's not me saying so. That's literally what prostitution is 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.If she uses you, she obviously doesn't love you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.Because she's judging a man's ability to provide. Again, you didn't actually answer the question. Also, paying for a 50 meal doesn't mean a man will he able to provide in the future. It just means he's paying to increase his chances of getting laid. No, because women have traditionally stayed home to take care of children. Men have not. Buddy, we're in 2024 where women work and some even make more money than men. If a woman has children, then she has a genetic interest to ensure that they will b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.But enough men are still likely going to pay because men are that desperate. Okay, but this doesn't answer my question. How is a woman not stingy for expecting random men to pay for her meal? So, in your mind, unemployed women shouldn't date until they find jobs? Whatever applies to unemployed men applies to unemployed women. I told you why the behavior exists in nature. Nature didn't make women incapable of paying for their own meals and being independent. In fact, there is nowhere in nature wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 11:30 PM |
| 3 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.What you're describing is called prostitution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.I'd certainly be more likely to show my appreciation for a generous man than one who seems stingy. If a man splitting the bill makes him stingy, what is a woman who expects random men to pay for her food? Does that make her generous? This is why men who are hoping for affection from women continue to pay This is called prostitution. when everyone knows that men and women are not the same and therefore things are not going to be fair. Because men allow them to not be fair. I mean just look at you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 10:27 PM |
| 2 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.he would be a woman who wants a real man. Being a real man has nothing to do with money and paying for dates. Wake up. Traditional men are such simps it's pathetic. You define your masculinity by spending money on women, thats why its so easy for women to manipulate you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 10:20 PM |
| 5 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.It’s always the guys with nothing to offer who are so terrified of being “used.” That's so dumb. Nobody with self respect likes being used. But ofcourse a traditional man doesn't mind being used because such men are simps and understand very little about how women think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.Again, according to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 03:17 PM |
| 2 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.You are denying science and reality That's so dumb. Science has nothing to do with who pays on a date. In some countries this isn't even an issue because it's the norm for women to pay for themselves. It is usually men who want sex with women more than the other way around. This says more about you than anything else. If I were a woman and a man made me split a date that he asked me out on, that would be the last date and there would not be sex. Then you would be a vapid and basic bitch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.Then why did you ´make a post without figuring out what you are talking about. What? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 03:11 PM |
| 2 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.He shouldn't be asking out women for dates if he can't pay. And she shouldn't be accepting date invitations if she can't pay for herself. You sound like the kind of men this post is about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.What does 80% have to do with anything here? It has to do with the word "most" and "many" being interchangeable. Are you even aware of what post you're responding to? The gorup you are talking about in your OP is definetly not a majority I disagree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.Okay, who cares? I can see that what I'm saying in the post is actually true, otherwise semantics wouldn't come into it. If 80%+ of people in a particular group engage in a particular behaviour to me the words "most" and the word "many" can be used to describe them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 03:00 PM |
| 2 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.Oh I see you're a "traditional man", makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 02:56 PM |
| 0 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.According to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 02:44 PM |
| 3 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.How is a woman being used for sex if she gets free food out of a date? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.In Australia. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 01:12 PM |
| 0 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.Okay? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 12:53 PM |
| -2 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.Most, many, same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.I don't think that these women should be expected to split a date. That is so dumb. So if a man makes less than a woman he should expect her to pay? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 12:23 PM |
| -4 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.What are you talking about? I'm talking about how many women expect men to pay for dates and provide for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.It seems only in certain places in America that do this and guys are trying to pretend it’s the norm I don't live in America. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 11:10 AM |
| 1 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.Yea most of the women that you keep picking No, most women in the world in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 10:12 AM |
| 2 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.You have no idea how a vastbmajority of the female population behaves. I do though. Most of them behave the same. Those girls are gonna what they wanna do Obviously. I'm just pointing out that many women are like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 10:11 AM |
| 0 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.Well the more you affirm it, the more the universe will deliver that to you. The sad truth is most women are as described in the post. And many men know this. Every negative belief you have about women Its not my belief that some women use men for resources. Its a reality and has been the case for hundreds of years | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 10:03 AM |
| -3 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.But women in general aren't all like how you're generalizing. In my experience(and in the experience of many men) they are. Other ladies are more down to earth. Find them Well, my whole point is it's rare to come across women like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 09:49 AM |
| 5 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.If you read the first paragraph of the post you'll see that I've already mentioned this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 09:17 AM |
| 17 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.when your experience is every man you’ve dated has always offered to pay, it can feel like someone isn’t really interested in you if they don’t. The thing is most men only offer to pay because they know not paying lowers their chances of getting a second date or even getting laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 08:44 AM |
| 1 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.Validation is cheap and women don’t need to seek it The post is about men seeking validation, not women. You should reread it. and sex with a man she doesn’t care about is likely to be terrible and not with the risks associated with sex. Again, the post is about men seeking sex from women, not the other way around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 08:42 AM |
| – | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.This isn't really addressing the points raised in the post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 08:19 AM |
| 6 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.If you are going after top % women who have tons of choices, obviously they will be entitled. The post is about women in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 07:13 AM |
| 27 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.Most men allow themselves to be used by women HOPING to get sex and validation in return. Good point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 06:26 AM |
| 2 | Why do women get turned off if a guy is living with parents even though they live with parents too?Why? So she can use him for it. That's the reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.You didn't answer my question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.How am I being hostile by saying atleast you have a functioning brain? I don't understand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.And courtship is a back and forth. So you chase her, and she let's you catch her? Thats your back and forth? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.It’s how humans work. No, it isn't. Not all men need to chase women to get their attention. Grown adults with self respect don't chase other human beings because they understand that women are just human beings, no need to chase them like they're some prize. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Okay, fair enough. It seems like you're not who the post is about, so forget about it. But nonetheless, women like that do exist, and there are many of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Yeah, in fact, I became more "successful" (for lack of a better word) with women when I stopped trying. I don't even ask for women's numbers now, I just give them mine, and they text me. But even if they don't, i don't care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Okay, well I guess we can agree to disagree. For me, I resonate with this quote and live by it: “Easy is right. Begin right, and you are easy. Continue easy, and you are right. The right way to go easy is to forget the right way, and forget that the going is easy.” - Chiang Tzu Wrap your head around that one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.So why the focus on being single and competing to avoid it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Besides, it’s fun when you chase her - and she lets you catch her If you're still children, sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 01:22 AM |
| 2 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Your entire comment is basically saying "it's not women's fault, they're not responsible for their actions". The industry creates insecurities in women so that they can be exploited for financial gain. Yeah, it's all the industry's fault. Essentially the villain here is capitalism. Yeah, it's all capitalism's fault. Its like you can't acknowledge that women aren't perfect angels or something, so you have to work overtime to defend their image. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.I never run into dudes thinking I use them irl.. Because they would totally tell you if they thought that, right? When I become a parent, I will be a SAHM n school my child because a child's development is essential and the US education system is 💩 Bringing a child into this current world is insane, but it does justify having a provider. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Just because you don’t mind being single doesn’t mean are you aren’t single Yeah, which is fine. It sounds like you're afraid of being alone, even though you don't seem to even appreciate men that much. Strange. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Of course you’re not competing with your options, you’re competing with hers We've already been through this. I don't mind being single so I don't need to compete with hers or anyone else's options in relationships. Do you understand yet or not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.That’s your option that she is competing with Again, like I already said, since I'm not competing, that's her problem, not mine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Maybe you missed the part where I said I don't mind being single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Agreed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Why would anyone, regardless of gender marry someone they're not even attracted to enough to have sex with them? Can you answer that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.That's silly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.it’s an alternative that your partner is competing with Well, that's her problem, not mine. I'm not the one competing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.It's that you're willingly ignoring "the other side" No im not. The "other side" is women saying they're aren't like that. Which let's say its true, it doesn't change the fact that many women are indeed like that. Also, I only tagged this post "debate" because if I don't, the mods will remove it. Its happened to me a few times before. So even though I don't care to debate anyone about this, I have no choice but to but that tag if I wanna make a post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Reciprocation and a transaction are 2 different things. Ofcourse sex is Reciprocated, it would have to be if its consensual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.For you, ofcourse because you require payment for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Doesn’t matter what you think, Ofcourse it does. If I don't mind being single, I have no need to compete for relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Okay, I'll make it simple for you. Here's the definition of what a translational relationship actually is: "Transactional relationships are built on the expectation for reciprocation. Both individuals are concerned with how they will benefit. Individuals are self-serving, making sure they get as much as they can from the relationship for a set amount of work in return." My relationships aren't like this, that's what I'm saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.You are in competition with singledom and other options I don't mind being single. I actually prefer it to being in a relationship with most women because of their social programming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.No, im not. I don't mind if my partner decides to leave. There is no need to compete with anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.I'll refer you to my previous comment. Here's the definition of a transaction: "relating to the conducting of business, especially buying or selling." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.and your "job" is to persuade the opposition you're correct. This post has 700+ comments. It's not realistic or wise for me to try to persuade everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Again, if you wanna see it that way, I can't stop you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.If a relationship is competitive, then it's not real. A real team doesn't compete against each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 03:32 PM |
| 2 | Men only have importance to women as providers.No, that's just you approaching it with your transactional mind. It's not a transaction, but if you wanna see it that way, I can't stop you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Relationships should be, otherwise it's better to be single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Yeah, but if you're not as described in the post, what's there to debate? You can say other women aren't like that, but if you don't date women, how would you know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.It's mutual, not transactional. They also enjoy having sex with me. So I don't have to pay them for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Speak for yourself. My relationships aren't transactions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.It’s not fun, So what's the point? Why not just be single and happy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Okay, well good luck with your transactions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Okay, have fun with your semi-sex work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 02:57 PM |
| -1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.I actually didn't. Because you're obviously a Chad with better stuff to do, so go do it. You don't need to waste your time here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.I bet you can you traditional Chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.You don’t actually have an argument. My argument is the post, which we've already established that you agree with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 11:04 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.What? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 10:53 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.If those women are telling the truth, then this post isn't about them, so what's the issue? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 10:52 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.If I did not already know him, the expectation would be different. Oh I stand corrected. Esther Vilar's right again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 10:50 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.I never said they couldn't. You should read the post again. When they get older, pure attraction based on who the man is goes to the back seat and resources and being provided for come to the front. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 10:05 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 09:19 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Because basing a relationship on payment would've been superficial and shallow, and you know that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 09:16 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Youre dodging the question. If he hadn't paid for the first date or whatever, would you be with him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.If he hadn't paid from the start, would you be with him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.He knows I like him for who he is Yeah, right... If at the very beginning the whole thing was dependent on payment, it's not genuine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 05:59 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.You're lying to yourself. Your guy knows your "love" for him is dependent on money, resources and him buying you stuff. It's just like a business transaction not a genuine human relationship. He should also read 'The Manipulated Man', it might help you both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.I invest in other ways, as is normal. You're lying to yourself. Leeches take, they can't give anything back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 05:39 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Yet you can’t name another way he could demonstrate investment. How do you demonstrate investment? By wearing makeup and showering? Because you don’t have value to women financial or otherwise. In the post I mostly quote a woman. The post is basically in her words, so it's not actually about me. wouldn’t you want to pay and make her happy? If you valued a man, wouldn't you wanna pay for yourself to show you're not a leech like other women who use men? You could save yourself time by just saying … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.You’re weaseling because you can’t answer my questions. I was right. If that's you wanna believe that's okay. I've already tried to answer your questions, even though I knew that you wouldn't even understand the answers. He said without a hint of irony while focusing solely on whether or not he has to pay for a first date. A woman expecting a man to pay is an indication that she's a leech. why make this post? Actually read it and find out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Can you answer it? No, I'd rather not. If you yourself only value money in men, then that's where you're at psychologically, and a reddit comment isn't going to change that. Again, what is the issue with that? At your mental level, there is no issue with that. But once you grow out of that mentality, you'll have a deeper understanding. Unfortunately, you're at mental level where relating with others is a transaction and it's about financial investment rather than a genuine human connection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.I asked you what other ways than money a man should invest and demonstrate he values a woman on a first date. So besides money, you personally can't think of another way for a man to show he values you? If not, this is a reflection of you and the mental level you're at. If that’s what you believe, then presumably you would be interested in dating people on the same page who are more low maintenance. This whole idea of being high or low maintenance is gross. Just be a normal and decent human bein… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 04:49 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.It's actually what has happened to women, and why they all basically want the same things and overwhelmingly act the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.And they almost can't help it either. They're socially programmed to be leeches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.I know, you can't help it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.To get to know them. Yeah, and payment has nothing to do with that. and those men get dumped regardless of whether or not they’re willing to pay for dates in the future because they don’t value women. They don't. They're actually very successful with women because they pay. Again, in your comment you keep proving Esther Vilar right, so I'm not sure what the debate is about. You agree with the post, so what are we talking about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 04:25 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.I think you’re being a weasel because you don’t have answers to those questions. It's not my first day on reddit. Most people ask questions but they don't actually care to understand the answers. I know because I make reddit posts and people always do that. But I'll humour myself and answer your questions. Why, did you have some other ideas? How about actually getting to know what kind of person you're on a date with, and judging them on their character rather than payment? Did you know that the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Why are you interested? Of what value are my answers gonna be to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.You're not actually interested in the answers. Besides, we're already in agreement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.And haven’t slept with every man I’ve dated So you haven't slept with every man who paid? I guess that's what separates you from sex workers. Good for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Are you sure you read the post? You keep agreeing with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.So if you want to be paid for your time in order to have sex, what separates you from a sex worker? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.and this is a defense against that So, wanting men to pay you for your time is a way to defend against them using you for sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Nope. Not all women require it Most do, including you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.You were just talking out your butt, weren't you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Human beings have skills that are valuable and take time Like wearing make up and doing your hair? Women value men who value us. And you think men are any different? Money is just one of many different ways of expressing that. It's the main way for women, as evidenced by your comment. Because women can get dinner themselves more cost effectively than that. And yet they choose to beggars on dates. go for something lower in quality. So if a man doesn't want to buy you food, he should go for "somet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.How? Please explain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.What? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Makes no difference. The point is payment is what gets those legs open. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.and can pay for my own dinner But you choose not to when a man is involved, proving Esther Vilar right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Was Esther Vilar money coping when she wrote those quotes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.That’s like saying “well I didn’t tell you to spend time and do quality work when installing my bathroom shower, why are you charging more than an apprentice?” Are you an object or a human being? It's odd that you want compensation for taking care of yourself. If you had self awareness and if you had actually read the post you're responding to, you'd realise that you're basically proving that Esther Vilar was right about you. You don't value men, you value extracting things from them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.They will since they paid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.No, they're pretty substantiated by many men's experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.It can also refer to time and effort Yeah, but money comes first. Be honest. That's all you care about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.such men will do that No, they just go on dates with normal women and pay because that's all that matters to you. Plus it's cheaper than a hooker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 02:55 AM |
| 2 | Men only have importance to women as providers.They kinda are. It's very rare to come across a unique woman who thinks outside the box. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Right, because a guy using women for sex doesn't understand he has to pay to get it... All that's required is payment. It has nothing to do with being or not being lazy. Some of the most misogynistic men pay for dates because they know what women are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.“Only” means 100% No, "all" means 100%. I don't think you understand language. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.So why expect compensation for something you're not being forced to do? You choose to wear makeup and spend ages getting ready, and you want men to pay because it took you ages to get ready. That's absurd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.That's the thing. In the past they had no choice. Now they do, yet they still choose to be dependent and to be led by men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.In other words, Esther Vilar was right about women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 02:44 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.The fact that many men today relate to what she wrote means many women today are like she described. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Or just don't be a leech. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Your entire premise is based on discussions had in dating forums dominated by single men No, its based on what another woman wrote in a book and my own experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 02:39 AM |
| -1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.You're really working over time to be a white knight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.also likely broke The fact you think this is an insult says alot about what kind of person you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.I've never even hugged a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.It’s not about money It clearly is. You even said it's about financial investment in one of your comments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.The quotes in the post aren't anecdotal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.The point of your post is that you are claiming all women do this Most, not all. Probably more than 95% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 02:29 AM |
| 2 | Men only have importance to women as providers.No we don’t Yeah, you do. Why else would you go on a date expecting a man to pay? That's choosing to be dependent on men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.You realise that the post isn't about you specifically, right? If it's not describing you and your behaviour, what's the problem? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.They expect men to do it because women invest more time and energy in getting ready for the date. Who is forcing them to do this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.In other words, Esther Vilar was right. Thanks for proving my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.I'm not sure what planet you live on. But on earth that's literally what happens. It's just that two men do it indirectly. Getting straight cash would make it too obvious that they're prostitutes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Of course we have. I'm glad you agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.What? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.The time when nobody has any money of their own, There's your answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 02:19 AM |
| 2 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Women kind of are though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 02:17 AM |
| 0 | Men only have importance to women as providers.That's for you to figure out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 02:16 AM |
| 2 | Men only have importance to women as providers.And they're tasked with filtering through those men to pick the most ideal partner, and if she's dating for longterm, then jt makes sense to pick a man who is stable, financially literate, and won't sweat paying for simple meals. They're tasked with finding a provider and a man they can use. If they valued men, they wouldn't care about the money at all, just like men don't care about women's money because they have their own. Your comment is basically another way of saying Esther Vilar was right… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.That sucks. It sounds like you might be better off being single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.You should read the post again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Even women who out earn men still expect men to pay for their stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Women can buy their own dinner though And yet they still expect men to do it. That's how amazing and generous they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.This is a long-winded way of saying Esther Vilar was right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.If women care about men courting or even be a provider by paying for dates, it doesn’t mean she only cares about using him. It kinda does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.That's a terrible comparison. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 02:05 AM |
| 0 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Thanks for sharing your opinion. I didnt ask for it, but still, thanks for sharing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.money is like plan Z More like plan A,B and C for most women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.I think you should read your comment again and see if it makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.In other words, Esther Vilar was right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 02:01 AM |
| 0 | Men only have importance to women as providers.There are loads of women on this thread, giving details about how they earn more in relationships and pay for more, yet you ignore them. There is a reason why men into the whole redpill thing say "watch what she does not what she says". Women will say anything to make themselves look good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Read the post again and you'll see that you're only proving it right. May as well just leave a comment saying "Esther Vilar was right about women". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.You’re generalizing hundreds of millions of women right now it’s ridiculous Generalisations exist for a reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 03:13 PM |
| 3 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Chasing and trying to impress women are what men have been doing for as long as we’ve been human So what? Men are suckers. It's no wonder how women can use you and manipulate you so easily. You're so eager to put women on a pedestal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Makeup doing ur hair and perfume arent hygiene So you want compensation for it? no one wants to go on a date w someone who looks like they just woke up So do you compensate the men you go on dates with for not looking like they just woke up? Your comment is more proof of how right Esther Vilar was about women. Truly amazing, with no hint of self awareness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.You’re extrapolating “shitty women on tiktok” and not what the data supports. No, I don't even have tik tok. My views are based on women in the real world. Also, shitty women on tik tok exist in real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Men are suckers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.This has nothing to do with psychological evolution. If women wanted a provider they wouldn’t have fought so hard to work and have independence. That's the amazing thing about modern women. Women in the past fought to be independent, and women today prefer being dependent on men. They even depend on men to pay for their food on dates, otherwise they won't want a second one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.There’s been no change from 1930 to 2024? Not psychologically, no. In fact, I would say women have gone backwards in terms of psychological change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.But we’re supposed to give a fuck about the girls you know? I don't really care. After all, I didn't comment on any of you people's post, did I? I’m a girl, nothing you’ve said applies to me. So then the post isn't describing you, so what's the problem? If you made a post saying most men just use women for their bodies, I'm not gonna be bothered by it coz I know I'm not like that, but I also know some guys are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Because all you’re giving is anecdotes Yeah, to make a point in response to the person I was talking to. I didnt give anecdotes in the actual post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 01:25 PM |
| 2 | Men only have importance to women as providers.That doesn't change the point, or your leechy attitude to dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.The person I responded to said "who the fuck cares about the women you've talked to?". Is this someone who commented in good faith? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 01:18 PM |
| 0 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Some do Okay, as long we've established that theres atleast some truth to what Esther Vilar wrote. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 01:15 PM |
| 0 | Men only have importance to women as providers.they don’t actually need men to “provide” Many women still want a provider. I hope the emojis made you feel better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.See how dumb it sounds? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Reread all you comments on the post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 12:42 PM |
| 2 | Men only have importance to women as providers.expect the man to pay for me after i took so much time to look good for him hair makeup perfume etc r expensive This is pretty silly. Just don't go on the date if you expect to be compensated for being hygienic and taking care of yourself. Nobody even asks you to wear makeup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Obviously the point I was making is, just because women go to college doesn't mean they don't want a provider. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 12:18 PM |
| -4 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Who gives a fuck how dumb it sounds? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 12:02 PM |
| 3 | Men only have importance to women as providers.'The Manipulated Man'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 12:01 PM |
| 3 | Men only have importance to women as providers.You seem strangely invested in the life of this woman Because I mentioned she received death threats? Okay... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 12:01 PM |
| 2 | Men only have importance to women as providers.You sound like the women who sent her death threats after she wrote her book. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 11:19 AM |
| 6 | Men only have importance to women as providers.You only call her a sociopath coz she triggers you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 11:13 AM |
| -1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.And yet you're the one commenting on my post. Why waste your time on it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 11:06 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.You just discovered that obscure book No, I discovered it a while ago. Now what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 11:05 AM |
| 0 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Do you think it's possible that my view is based on my own experience and I resonate with what she wrote because of that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 11:00 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Yes some women want this. So it is true, we just disagree on the amount of women who want it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 10:58 AM |
| 3 | Men only have importance to women as providers.It's like you have no self awareness. You keep agreeing with the post while thinking you're not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 10:56 AM |
| 4 | Men only have importance to women as providers.I'm pretty sure she never gassed millions of people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 10:53 AM |
| -6 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Every girl I know from college has a career and is making close to or way over 6 figures Who gives a fuck about the girls you know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 10:53 AM |
| 2 | Men only have importance to women as providers.And yet you expect the man to be generous from the beginning while you give nothing. You should read the post again coz I feel like you didn't actually read it coz you think you're disagreeing with it, but your comments prove it right. For example, one of the first things the post says is that women expect men to pay on dates because they just see them as providers. And in your comment you said that you expect men to pay on dates and some other self-centred stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 07:53 AM |
| 3 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Someone to cater to me yes. Exactly. Coz its all about you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 07:42 AM |
| 4 | Men only have importance to women as providers.She said she wanted someone to show interest in the pursuit of her by paying for a couple dates This is just narcissism. When she goes on a date with a man, what does she expect? She expects the man to provide food for her and be generous. And what does she do for him to show she's interested? She allows him to provide for her. You don't think men also want women to show interest? But ofcourse women don't care because the man is just a means to an end. Who cares what he wants? It's obvious women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 07:40 AM |
| 8 | Men only have importance to women as providers.It does. It shows you don't actually value men as human beings. You just want a provider and someone to cater to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 07:34 AM |
| 11 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Thanks for proving the point of my post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 07:33 AM |
| 5 | Men only have importance to women as providers.What does expecting a man to pay for your food say about your generosity and ability to give? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 07:27 AM |
| -2 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Not any woman I know Do you date women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 07:20 AM |
| 5 | Men only have importance to women as providers.I expect the guy to pay for dates initially when we aren't in a relationship yet. Exactly. If it were genuine and not about using the man as a means to an end, you wouldn't expect him to pay for you. You'd be fine paying for your own food because you'd be interested in him, not free food. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 07:19 AM |
| – | Men only have importance to women as providers.Maybe to you those things are secondary No. To most women they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 07:11 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.The truth is the opposite, it's women who act as leeches, which is why they expect men to pay for dates and so on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 07:10 AM |
| 0 | Men only have importance to women as providers.I literally quoted a woman saying the same thing in the post, and she wrote that before I was even born, but sure, okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 07:09 AM |
| 4 | Men only have importance to women as providers.This is BS most women work now. And yet they still want a provider... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 07:05 AM |
| -7 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Because they know it's all women want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 07:04 AM |
| -17 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Do you think women are studying for 3-5 years just be a SAHM? Yes. I've literally had conversations with women at college and they want to be stay at home mothers or find a man to provide for them in some way. Studying is a good way for them to meet a man who'll provide for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 07:03 AM |
| 0 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Projection. What? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 07:02 AM |
| – | Men only have importance to women as providers.All those things are secondary to money. Remove the money and women couldn't care less about a man's intelligence, humour and whatever else you mentioned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 07:01 AM |
| – | Men only have importance to women as providers.Who would collect this data and how? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 07:00 AM |
| -21 | Men only have importance to women as providers.just as women spend more time on chores and childcare. Women choose to do this. Many women's goal in life is to become a stay at home mother while a man provides for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 06:43 AM |
| – | Men only have importance to women as providers.You hear anecdotes It's more than just anecdotes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 06:42 AM |
| 1 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.You just said your relationships aren't a transaction I said more than this in all my responses to you. I keep trying to tell you that love is the key. That it has to be the foundation. If it is, compromise doesn't even come up. I've already told you this, but you ignore it and keep asking about compromising, while I'm telling you that's the wrong place to begin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.Just simply deny it if it's not true, If you read my answers you'll see that I've already answered you, several times and I was even dumb enough to elaborate and try to explain it to you as if you were actually interested in the answers. In my first response I answered, in the second one I explained what I meant, in the third one I elaborated, yet here you still are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.Okay, if you insist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.why would anyone in their right mind listen to you? I actually don't care if no one listens to me. In fact, I highly recommend that you shouldn't listen to me and keep doing what works for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.If you want to make claims on the internet like "homemakers are leeches", then expect others to examine your logic. This isn't even what we were talking about. Again, keep compromising in your relationships if that works for you. Your whole approach starts off at the wrong place because the base should be love. If there's genuine love in your relationships, compromise won't even be an issue. This is what I said at the very beginning, and I've tried to simplify it for you but you can't grasp it, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.None of your answers explained how a serious relationship can work with no compromise. I assume you compromise in your relationships and it works for you, right? So keep doing it. how you apparently just do whatever you want at all times This is why I say you're disingenuous. I never said I do what I want all the time, and I even tried to clarify what I mean, but because you're not actually interested in understanding, you just put words in my mouth. What I don't get is, if compromising works fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.I don't care to because I've made an effort to engage with you and gave you alot of details, yet you just keep asking questions, yet it seems you're not even interested in the answers. You don't even address most of what I say. From the very beginning, you seemed disingenuous which is why inignired you after you made it obvious with your downvote. Again, if compromising works for you then that's great. What more do you want? You've already found what works for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.Can you please clarify; do you ever help even when it doesn't come very naturally/you don't feel like it? Why do you care so much? And what do you expect to get from this? If the way of no compromise doesn't work for you or feel right to you, then do what works for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.that anything which would be "natural human behavior" cannot qualify as a compromise. The definition of the word is "an agreement or settlement of a dispute that is reached by each side making concessions". Anything that's natural behaviour to me isn't compromise because there is no dispute. believe, in those contexts, the idea that you only contribute "when you feel like it", would make you a bad partner. This isn't what I said. I was giving you an example of what natural behaviour is to me. I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.Is this a fair understanding of your logic? Not exactly, because I don't even think about it like that. If my friend cooks, it's just natural for me to help in some way, if I feel up to it. It's not like I calculate it in my head or feel like I have to help because it's normal human behaviour. I either help if I feel like it, or I don't, if I don't feel like it. I don't really think about whether it's normal human behaviour or not. If so; why can something which is "normal human behavior" not qu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.With my friends, there are certainly tradeoffs. For example, sometimes we hang out at their house and sometimes my house. I get them gifts on their birthdays and they get me gifts. But these aren't really trade-offs. They're just things that are inevitable when you relate with other people. Does it really matter whether your friends come to you or you go to them? Ofcourse not. If we rented a cottage for a weekend, i might buy groceries and clean the dishes while they cook. Again, this is just no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 12:17 PM |
| 1 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.They function based on love. With love present, everything else takes care of itself. Do you have to compromise to remain friends with your friends? If so, why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.Nah, I don't care enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 06:44 AM |
| 1 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.Some actually don’t I guess they have something in common with most women. And stop being schrodinger’s douchebag. I don't even know this is supposed to mean. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 04:16 AM |
| 1 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.Joking requires a different punctuation to signal it’s not literal, Well, that's just not true. If you actually think I was seriously saying that all men bring to the table is money to pay for their own food then I'm not even sure what to say to you. If you date men, even you know they bring more than that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.If you seriously think that is a legitimate contribution, you’re a lost cause and exactly the reason why all men should go extinct. Do you think it's possible that I was joking? Which is why I said atleast they bring their own money.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 03:58 AM |
| 0 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.No, using people is what makes someone a bad person. It's not arrogant for me to tell you that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 03:42 AM |
| 0 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.Women just don’t want to waste their time Which us why they show up to the date? but at least u can make a man pay for date…Use them before they use you This makes you a bad person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.LOL not even once jabbed. Atleast you have a functioning brain. Can you even figure out what side you're on? I don't even know what this means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.What do men bring to the table besides their dicks? At the least, they bring money to pay for their own food, unlike most women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.Says the one who's probably triple jabbed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.What? Are you one of the idiots? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.Do you think upvotes don't indicate that atleast some people want hear what I'm saying? Use your brain a bit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.The moment I'm talking to someone and they downvote my comment, this tells me they're not gonna listen to anything I say. You ask me questions then downvote my responses. Why not just forget the questions and go about your relationships the way you always have? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.Do you disagree with my description of relationships? Yes, because it shouldn't be a transaction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.All relationships are built on compromise and tradeoffs: I cook, you do the dishes. I had to work overtime tonight, you pick up the kids from school. I have a high stress, high paying job that supports us, you handle the home. So your relationships are transactions? Whether the above can be described as a transaction I'm not sure without looking up the definition You should probably look up the definition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.Are your relationships a transaction? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.WANTING KIDS IS A VERY IMPORTANT DEALBREAKER AND IS A VALID REASON TO BREAK UP This doesn't change the fact that its selfish and isn't actually about love of children. It's just a way for women to justify having a provider. If they actually cared for kids, they would try to make the world a better place for the ones that are already here. It isn’t selfish It is, on multiple levels. It's selfish to have kids in the kind of world we live in and it's selfish to go on a date with another person only… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 01:30 PM |
| 2 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.Do you not see how your hatred of stay at home moms only reflects what you want? The problem is people who have kids don't actually consider what kind of world they're bringing kids in. Did you know that according to the FBI, there's a child that goes missing every 45 seconds? What sane person would bring a child into a world like that? You have no choice but to pay taxes to a government that uses your money to bomb innocent kids in Gaza, and yet you wanna bring children into a world like that. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.Do you date women? If not, it makes sense why your experience doesn't match them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 01:02 PM |
| 2 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.You have a grudge against women. I actually don't. The thing is I know what women could actually be if they were independent and not concerned about extracting resources from men. I know their potential, and I know what the narcissism is leading them into. I want a man who can and will provide and values what a homemaker does. If I have kids, I want to have the option to stay at home and a husband who respects and admirers the role of a SAHM. Do you see how all of this is about you and what you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.Do you believe homemakers are leeches? Yes. Because their home-making is a way of finding a provider. Read how angry you are about paying for the first few dates. Look Calling women who use men for free food leeches doesn't mean I'm angry. It's just the truth. If they can’t afford meals Like someone who expects others to pay for their meal? Clearly, I am right that men who have issues with paying for the first few dates have a grudge against women. You're just proving the point of the post. Its … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 12:37 PM |
| 4 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.It’s not being a leech to have a guy pay for a $40 meal. It is. A leech takes without giving anything back. If he offers that's a different issue. But to expect him to pay and having your feelings about him be dependent on payment makes you a leech. Do you believe homemakers are leeches? This has no bearing on going on a date with a guy. As an adult, you should be able and okay with paying for your own food. I don't see how women aren't embarrassed about depending on random men for food. Maybe t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.Do women bring more to the table besides sex? If so, what? Also, the post is about women, not men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 10:57 AM |
| 1 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.No I read fast. Then how is it you don't address anything I actually say? It does so answer the question. It does. The answer is it literally doesn't matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 08:50 AM |
| 1 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.I'll be honest with you, i feel like you responded to quick to be able to have understood anything I said. It seems you're just asking questions but don't care about the answer. Do you feel women and men are equal as far as things they typically value? This doesn't actually matter. What you value should have no bearing on how you treat other human beings, regardless of gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 08:48 AM |
| 1 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.So it's absolutely not a loving relationship for a woman to require kind gestures? Yes. Love and requirements don't go together. If a man does kid gestures that's great, but making them a requirement for love isn't love. I for example love when women wear my jacket when they're cold. But them requiring this kind of stuff makes it obvious that love on their part isn't involved. I also don't mind paying for a woman's food, but when she makes that a requirement this tells me she doesn't actually lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 08:44 AM |
| 1 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.those are definitely not loving relationships? Not if the woman requires the man to do those things for her to "love" him. Isn't it obvious? And also, what does the woman do for the man in return? Nothing. So its obviously not love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 08:38 AM |
| 2 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.What you mean by "chivalry" is a man paying for stuff and basically putting you on a pedestal. This is a self centred and egoic desire. You may be able to like the man, but you won't be able to love because love has nothing to do with what you want from another person. Love gives, it doesn't insist on taking. If you loved someone, you wouldn't be so concerned about yourself and what you want from them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 08:28 AM |
| 2 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.I couldn't care less if you think I'm a bad person. I don't expect you to, and it's not an opinion. The post already mentions that people who do what you do are not good people. So it's not a personal insult; I mentioned it in the post before you even left a comment. So it's not personal, it's just the truth. I'm here for a debate Yet you're not able to address anything in the post. All your response does is prove the post correct. You even start off your comment by saying you're special. And th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 08:10 AM |
| 2 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.Still doesn't address any of the points I made in response to your comment. Because you know I'm right. Using men for free food on dates makes you a bad person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 07:53 AM |
| 2 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.It's so sad that I live in your head like this. I responded to a comment you made on a post I made. What are you on about? Why comment on it if you don't expect me to respond? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 07:50 AM |
| -1 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.AKA women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 07:45 AM |
| -1 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.And yet women in this thread are literally proving the post right by calling themselves special and saying a man who doesn't pay for them is broke... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 07:44 AM |
| 5 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.I could also argue that women who are lovable don't attract abusive partners... Do you agree with that? It seems you do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 07:42 AM |
| 2 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.I am special and should be treated as such. What makes you special? I'm perfectly capable of paying for my own food but I expect men to pay on the first date because chivalry is attractive. You're literally proving the point of the post. Being this kind of leech actually makes you a bad person. You can genuinely care about a man Not if you're using him for free food and ego strokes. You don't actually care about men you date. You just use them. You care about them in the way a parasite cares abo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 07:38 AM |
| 1 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.The comments and upvotes beg to differ. Even you gave your attention to the post and left a comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 07:30 AM |
| 2 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.You don't have to agree with something for it to be true. Just read the comments by women in this thread, they're disagreeing with the post while saying how a man who doesn't pay for their food is broke and hates women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 07:30 AM |
| 1 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.Sounds like you're projecting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 07:29 AM |
| 3 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.You're literally who the post is about. You say men who don't pay for you are broke and yet you're the leech who expects them to pay for you. This makes you a bad person like the post says. You have no self-awareness. Read the post again, it describes you perfectly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 07:19 AM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.If he had accepted a split, because I offered, I still would have gone on additional dates In your first comment you said: "If you are not willing to show investment from the get go there will likely be no get go. " You yourself said you look at a man spending money on you as an investment. Your words, not mine. If he had invited me, we sat down, and he was like we are getting separate checks…it would have been a totally different vibe. I would have thought he wasn’t really into me. Exactly. You… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 06:33 PM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.How did I use my husband now or when we were dating just because I liked and let him pay for our first two dates? Because if he didn't pay he probably wouldn't be your husband. Do you think women in general are incapable of love? Most are too concerned about themselves to he able to love. Is she incapable of love because she chooses a man who she knows can support her and their kids? Yeah, because she's only concerned about herself and what she wants. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 05:39 PM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.Now it’s “some” when it comes to men; but women are all the same. Well, i don't date men so I don't know how many of them are trash, but I do date women and so I know about them. So its up to you to decide if most men are trash, and if they aren't, that doesn't mean most women aren't superficial and mainly concerned about themselves and getting stuff like free food from men. Even women who responded to this post trying to disagree with me admitted that wmif a guy doesn't pay, there's no second d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 03:13 AM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.You see? You can't actually answer a simple question. You were right though, you are special. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 02:58 AM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.So if any man with a job can provide for a woman, then why did she choose me? Well, she has to pick someone. So you just want to endlessly cycle through ultimately meaningless short term relationships? Most relationships are meaningless. It doesn't matter if they're short term or long term. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 02:54 AM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.Whether most are or not, the point is atleast some are. You see, unlike you I don't feel the need to defend my gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 02:51 AM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.That doesn’t mean they’re incapable of love. But they are though. The fact that you can’t understand this is utterly baffling to me. The truth is you don't actually understand what love is, which is why it's "baffling" to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 02:49 AM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.Which was what? I don't think you actually know. How am I proving your point when you're the one who thinks she's a special princess? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 02:47 AM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.If you understand evo bio there is no reason on initial meeting or early courtship should be equal, Don't blame your use of men on evolutionary bio. Atleast be honest and own the fact that you require payment to be able to pretend to love someone. Evolutionary biology didn't make anybody a leech. I don’t think my hubs has any regrets No married woman thinks her husband has any regrets about her, even the ones that end up getting murdered by their husbands. But women are not men. But they're stil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 02:44 AM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.It’s a natural assumption Not really. There's nothing natural about assuming someone is a man just because they are against using men for free food. It's actually pretty odd and very revealing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 02:38 AM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.I was making 6 figures when I started dating my husband. And yet you expected him to buy you food. Strange. I actually made about 20% more than my hubs the first 5 years of our relationship. Again, you made more than him, and yet still used him for his money. That's called greed. We were madly in love within a month. Which wouldn't have happened without him paying. It's not really love, it's a transaction. and wanting someone to be an equal partner You're not an equal partner if you expect a man… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 02:35 AM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.I desire to be treated like I'm special because I am special Thank you for proving my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 02:32 AM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.Then i’m sure you’d agree with the women who say men are trash then? Well, some are. No need to pretend like some men aren't trash. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 02:31 AM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.Generalisation don't exist for no reasons. It's possible to make true general statements about women. Just read the comments. Many women have proven the post right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 02:34 PM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.You sound wounded the same way these women are, two sides of the same coin. That's how you feel and internalised your experiences whenever anyone says anything negative about women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 01:45 PM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.Most women have no trouble getting dates. Who cares? Men wanting to sleep with a woman isn't a compliment. Men and women are not the same and thus don't have the same societal norms. Yeah, in some countries, women don't even have the same rights as men because of societal norms. No need for change, right? It's just the social norm that women aren't allowed to work in some countries. And why should they? Men will provide for them. Problem solved. How would I know how much money other women have? … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 01:02 PM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.Agreeing to go on the date with them in the first place lol. This is what I mean by narcissism. Showing up on a date isn't bringing anything to the table. I will but you're not likely to get a second date afterwards. It's better for you to just decline the date. Men and women are not the same and you're just going to have to get over that. Is one of the differences that women are incapable of being independent and paying for themselves? I'm going to ignore that part about the fake nails and face… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 12:40 PM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.That's irrelevant because we're talking about dating not hanging out with friends. So what? I'm perfectly capable of paying for my own meal Yet you won't.... shows that he cares about impressing me and making me feel special. What are you doing to impress him? Basically being a begger with fake nails, and paint on her face? You don't think men also want to feel special? The narcissism is revealing itself. Doesn't it feel a little insane to draw that conclusion just because I expected him to pay … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 12:24 PM |
| 0 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.it's the principal. This has no meaning and just a way to justify your greed. When you hang out with your friends, do you expect them to pay because of "the principal"? you think you can tell me what I think You yourself told me what you think. I'm happily married to a man who actually put effort into couring me. That's great. Who wouldn't be happy using men for resources? It's all about you, princess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 12:05 PM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.There are better ways to weed out leeches. Not even bothering to pay for a $15 meal isn't it lol. It clearly is, based on your own comment. If a man doesn't pay, he won't get a second date, you said. That's literally the point I'm making in the post, and you just proved it without even knowing it. Not paying makes the parasites reveal themselves since they're that vain and superficial. Better to just see a prostitute, they're more honest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 11:55 AM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.To me that shows low effort What are you talking about? You don't even want to pay for your own food. Thats beyond low effort, that's just straight up greed and is unattractive, no matter how hot a woman is. Personally if a man doesn't pay for the first date he won't get a second one. You would actually be doing him a favour. The point of not paying is to weed out the leeches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 11:45 AM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.A mature adult knows if they need protection or guidance. A mature adult doesn't need protection or guidance on how to live life and be an adult. What religions call women children? All the major religions. I know because I've actually researched them. You seem so Jealous of women’s ability to create children That's so silly. I have no interest in having children, I couldn't care less. I also don't like the idea of being dependent on a man. that you feel the need to resort to calling them childr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 07:29 AM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.People like you think just cause religion have duties for women and rules to follow therefore It's bad since It's not about women . This tells me you don't really know what you're talking about and have never researched religion and where it came from. you all just love to worship women Again, you don't know what you're talking about. Reread my post and then see if I worship. Worshipping women is thinking you're on ermarth to provide them and protect them like religion says men should do. You ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 05:39 AM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.There is a a term in psychology we call it "antagonisation " which mean that people adopt other people's idea and standards to detect the morally flawed people. This has no meaning and isnt relevant to what I'm saying. It's the same as men hating pick me women just cause women also hate them although they may be nice to men 😂😂😂😂 I think you're confused. How is this relevant to religion oppressing women? What are you actually on about? Religion is not centred about women like western culture ther… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 04:53 AM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.No, I'm just honest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 04:50 AM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.Most women love conversations, are willing to split bills or pay things for their partners This isn't really the truth. They love superficial conversations. Talk about anything of substance and you lose them. They may not mind paying for things once a man has already invested alot of money in them, if the man is lucky. But many men aren't even that lucky, they just get used. If you haven’t met that type of woman just say that instead of stereotyping all women. Stereotypes exist for a reason. The… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 03:00 AM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.And how are men so different from one another? I didn't say men are different. But If we're honest, men are more interesting and generous than women since men have to carry the conversation during dates, and they willingly pay for women and provide for them and protect them, while women have a problem with even paying for their own food and doing selfless things for men. Imagine being that kind of person, while still being insanely entitled with no self awareness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 02:47 AM |
| 2 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.There are women out there that are educated, have hobbies, don’t wear makeup or just stick to the minimum. Where? Women aren’t monolith and all have different values, personalities, and interests. Not really. Most women are the same and want the same things, like a man to provide for them and cater to them. They might differ on their favourite pop singer but they're pretty much the same where it matters. This is why pick-up artist exist, because women are essentially the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 02:38 AM |
| 2 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.Part of the issue is that it can come across and not caring and only wanting sex. When you hang out with your friends, do they come across as not caring when they let you pay for your own food? If you wait a bit to have sec and prove that you aren’t broke in other ways it should be fine What? When men date, do you think they care whether a woman is broke or not? No, yet women are so concerned about money. This shows how inauthentic and fake most women are. You can't even form a genuine relations… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 02:33 AM |
| 0 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.if you’re dating a more traditional woman Modern women and traditional women are the same. It's all just brainless people who don't think for themselves. Most men’s entire motivation behind pursuing a woman is based on her looks yet women are superficial. This is because most women don't bring much else to the table, unfortunately. They spend more time on their appearance than they do developing themselves as human beings. And yet they're entitled to a man spending money on them just because the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 02:29 AM |
| 2 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.The term "traditional woman" is basically meaningless. Modern women are npcs and traditional women are npcs. There's no real difference. Neither of them can think for themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 02:24 AM |
| 2 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.If a woman has such a problem paying for her own food, she can just decline. If not getting free food is a deal breaker for her, who needs a leech like that in their life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 02:22 AM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.The first two dates my future husband payed. That's what "egalitarian" means to you? it proceeded to a very equitable relationship in which I payed and planned for half of everything. Why didn't it start equitably? Because you're a special princess, right? or that I didn’t want a masculine man. What does masculinity have to do with a man spending money on you? It means that our relationship is based on principles of mutually agreed upon division of labor, resources, finances and child care. This… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 02:18 AM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.It's interesting how you just assumed a woman who doesn't use men for free meals is a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 02:15 AM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.If you are not willing to show investment from the get go there will likely be no get go. I keep being amazed at how much many women lack self awareness. You don't want to pay for your own food on a date but expect a man to show investment. Only a being with no self awareness can be this blind. You've reduced yourself to being a sex worker. Women are biologically wired to look for investment. Women aren't special, they're just people. You don't need to be treated differently just because you cla… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 02:08 AM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.You should make sure your comment makes sense before responding arrogantly while displaying your ignorance. What does this mean: Bro thing religion is " oppressive " to women I assume you meant to say "thinks". If you think religions don't oppress women then you are ignorant beyond belief. It's actually funny, especially considering how your response makes no sense and just shows how ignorant you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 02:00 AM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.You should make sure your comment makes sense before responding arrogantly while displaying your ignorance. If you think religions don't oppress women then you are ignorant beyond belief. You probably don't even know how women are treated in Muslim countries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 01:56 AM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.I provide something tangible So does every other man with a job. What do you offer that would make a woman want to stay with you? I don't care to make women want to stay with me. I don't need adult children I have to provide for, protect and coddle in my life. I'm into grown adults, not children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 01:52 AM |
| 2 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.No, it’s about being provided for. Exactly. It's not actually about you. You're just a way for her to be provided for. Of course it’s transactional. If its transactional then it's not based on love. Atleast be honest with yourself. than something arbitrary and ephemeral like my looks or that we share the same music tastes. You mean like loving them for their "feminine energy and companionship"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 01:50 AM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.Protecting and “bringing home the bacon” is what men have done since time immemorial. Dude, it's 2024 and women are capable of doing that themselves. I'm not sure why you insist on treating them like children. I simply choose to trust the wisdom of the ages The wisdom of the ages said women should be quiet in church, not be allowed to work and obey men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 01:48 AM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.Why do you think she couldn’t care less about me? If you stopped providing, what would happen? that does not preclude her from genuinely liking the man who provides. This means nothing because her genuinely liking you is based on money, which isnt even real if you understand how it's created. So her feelings for you are dependent on something fake, just paper to buy material things with, which are also fake. She can like that I provide for her and also like being with me. As long as her liking b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 05:37 PM |
| 3 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.Everyone is easily replaceable. Especially a human wallet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 05:32 PM |
| 2 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.If she’s an adult, then she is absolutely subjected to it. Like every ither adult? Her companionship. Her feminine presence and energy These are all vague things with no meaning. Don't you also provide companionship, masculine presence and energy? Do you think she values you for any of that? in order to bring themselves closer to the divine. Which means catering to women does what? it brings you further from the divine. The vast majority of men have no desire to live the monastic life either. If… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 05:30 PM |
| 2 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.Why would I want to subject a woman I care about to that kind of life? Buddy, she's an adult. No one "subjects" her to anything. And in exchange, she does the same for me. In what way? She cooks and cleans? And is therefore you as long as there's payment? This is undeniable. Tell that to monks who wouldn't even allow women into their monasteries. I’m not sure how needing a woman in my life makes me any less of a man. Because you depend on women to feel good about yourself and to feel like a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 04:52 PM |
| 4 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.What do you think you’re proving here? That you're just a wallet to her, you're just a provider which is easily replaceable. Would you stay with a woman who wasn’t the type of woman you wanted to be with? The type of woman I want to be with isn't dependent on money or whether or not she pays for my food. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 04:49 PM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.of course she’s going to think less of me. Meaning she couldn't care less about you. You're just a means to an end. And that end is free food and attention. I’m not sure what you think you’re proving here. I'm proving that you actually agree with my post. You're just too dependent on female approval to not allow yourself to be used. then I need something to offer. So you offer money like every other guy. Genius. This is how it works You're describing sex with sex workers. that I value and apprec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 04:46 PM |
| 2 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.Well, the point remains the same. The lack of a deeper thought process is part of why they've been oppressed historically. The religions have oppressed them, but at the same time made them feel better by telling them they had to be provided for. So it strokes their egos while enslaving them. It's genius. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 04:41 PM |
| 2 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.Men were providers and protectors long before organized religion. We're in 2024. Women are allowed to work now. They're adult human beings who should be able to look after themselves, just like you. for some weird reason seem to want men to be women and women to be men. A woman providing for herself doesn't make her a man. And a man treating women like adults doesn't make him a woman. Are you even aware of what you're typing? I don’t think women were oppressed throughout history Then you don't k… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 04:35 PM |
| 2 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.They shouldn't if they want to remain as psychological children. Why do you think all religions have oppressed women historically and have treated them like children? Those same religions have also said men should provide for women and lead them because God made the smarter than women. So while it works for them in a small financial way, the price they pay is they're not seen as true equals. Not even by the religions they follow, and they remain children their whole lives as Arthur Schopenhauer … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 04:27 PM |
| 4 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.Well, by doing that, they actually just encourage women to be more entitled and unrealistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 04:22 PM |
| 2 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.Why does this upset you so much? I'm just calling it what it is. If it wasn't fake and superficial, this post wouldn't have got people's attention. It did because there's truth in it, and if you're honest with yourself, one of the reasons you would never split the bill is you're afraid that women will think less of you and won't want to see you again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 04:17 PM |
| 4 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.The problem with men is they're so afraid to be alone that they'd rather partner up with a leech that couldn't care less about them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 04:12 PM |
| 6 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.If you like being used by shallow women, that's on you men. But don't project it onto others. Intelligent men who have money also use this approach because when you have money, most women will reveal themselves if you don't spend it on them. But you don't even understand any of that. You're too focused on being a simo and impressing women who don't even care about you. They just pretend because you provide. Stop providing and see what happens. I actually feel kinda bad for traditional men. They'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 04:09 PM |
| 3 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.The only social programming going on are posts like this telling men that they shouldn’t be providers. Men were providers and protectors throughout 99% of human history. Do you think it's be a coincidence that women have also been oppressed for most of human history? Religions that say men should be providers for women also say men are superior to women because God made them smarter. Wake up. That’s literally our only purpose. If you believe your purpose on earth is to provide for other adults, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 04:05 PM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.You should be able to show me proof of most women not loving and neglecting their kids I didn't say they neglect them, they just don't genuinely love them. If you have realised this by "evidence" can convince you. I can't prove to you that most parents don't love their children, when you don't even know what love is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 04:01 PM |
| 4 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.If having her attention requires me to pay, I'd rather not have her in my life. The same applies to men. Women are just people, and most people don't even know who they are. What kind of idiot would I be to chase and try to impress women who don't even know themselves? And all for what? Sex? Fake relationships? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 03:58 PM |
| 3 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.You didn't answer the question. What is she actually gonna add to my life? Why should I care? What makes her different from other women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 03:41 PM |
| 4 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.Which one do you think she's gonna take? Who cares? What is she actually gonna add to my life, if you remove sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 03:37 PM |
| 5 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.99.9999999% of men don’t. So you're going to dumb yourself down and lower yourself to attract men so they can buy you food? Why do you not respect yourself? they also don’t value intelligence, friendship, and care Women don't value those things either. But I'm not gonna change to get their validation, I don't need it. Also how can I be used for sex if I am waiting for for marriage? You don't think married women get used for sex? What do you think the whole point of marriage for dumb religious pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 03:31 PM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.Then you're blind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 03:29 PM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.You're the child here, clearly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 03:29 PM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.Isn't it great that if we lose interest we can walk away? My whole point is this makes someone superficial. You're free to be like that and to use people for resources like free food, but don't pretend like there's any authenticity in it. Go on, go save them. They're saving themselves by using women just like women use men. This is the result of women making dating transactional. And women have such little awareness that they think men pay because women are so amazing, not even realising how the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 03:27 PM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.Of course there are. It’s called being single, childless and employed What? We're talking about women who have children. People’s lives are taken over by their kids, Well yeah, that doesn't change the fact that women have them to justify being provided for. Not because they actually love kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 03:20 PM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.Their insistence sets my expectations for them to pay. You don't seem to have enough awareness to reflect on why other human beings would insist on spending money on you, when you don't even consider them enough to want to pay for yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 03:19 PM |
| 2 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.As I've told you already, the men I date insist on paying. Bevause if they don't pay, you lose the interest to pretend like you're into them. You've made this clear. They are grown men who don't expect sex because they bought another human a slice of pizza or a bowl of pasta. You don't really understand how men's minds work. If you're selfish enough to think men should pay for your food, what makes you think the men who kay aren't just as selfish. A man who doesn't learnt to get things in return… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 03:16 PM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.Can you comprehend that first dates can occur from real-life occurances with people you already know or have some connections with? And those people insist on paying to the point where I never have the expect anything? Maybe that's too complex of a thought for some people. This changes nothing about women who expect other people to spend money on then. You saying they insist on paying means nothing when you've already made it clear that with no payment, you're not interested. Their insistence to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 03:13 PM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.There’s easier ways to get money and comfort that don’t involve total blowing up of your life, finance Ms, free time and body Apparently not for women. Women can be independent and pay for their own stuff, but they choose not to. Kids are just a way to justify that. Have you seen how terrible some mothers are? Also, what do you mean blowing up your life? What else where you gonna do with it, besides extract resources from men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 03:10 PM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.Maybe because I'm the one who dated them If you think men who you expected to spend money on you in exchange of you pretending to like them would tell you if they feel used then you're delusional. Many men don't even talk to women about their money problems. You pay to get sex eventually? Men you expect to pay do. Why else would they pay? You don't actually believe it's because of who you are as a person, do you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 03:08 PM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.Any woman who expects strangers to spend money on her is controlling. You want to control how others treat you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 02:55 PM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.Funny how they have never felt this way. How would you know? Maybe for you. That's literally why they pay. It's not because you're special, you're just a human being like everyone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 02:53 PM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.Most of us want kids, Yeah, but the kids are just a means to an end. They're just a way to justify women being provided for. I actually feel bad for kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 02:50 PM |
| 7 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.This is why women are entitled and why its so easy for them to use and manipulate men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 02:42 PM |
| 2 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.Yes, for kids. It's not really for the kids, let's be honest. Women do it for their own satisfaction. Kids are just the excuse. Women use them just like they use men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 02:41 PM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.Because men care about sex more than people. And what do women care about? Extracting resources from men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 02:37 PM |
| 3 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.one caveat - that you pick the date together and make sure it fits both of your budgets. Well, ofcourse. There's 2 people involved so the location has to have input from both people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 02:32 PM |
| 3 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.But why do they run? If most women were fun and interesting, would men run? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 02:30 PM |
| 4 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.Men don’t value intelligence, friendship, and care. Real men do, but these are men with enough intelligence to split the bill to get the superficial users to reveal themselves. Men constantly tell us that they don’t value that. You see, while you basically think in a hive mind with other women, I have my own mind and don't go with the male hive mind. So I don't represent all men as you can tell. I respresent the genuine and intelligent ones. If I was like other men, I'd be willing to pay just ge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 02:29 PM |
| 5 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.So the only thing you expect from women is sex, You yourself said a man should pay because you bring youth, beauty and fertility. These are all sex related things which literally any woman under 35 brings to the table. You had a choice and you could have said you bring intelligence, friendship and care, but you didn't. You chose to say stuff related to your body to justify men spending money on you. So please tell me why I should pick men who have this mindset. I don't have this mindset, you do … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 02:24 PM |
| 5 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.I am waiting until marriage. That's even worse. So you expect men to pay and you don't even bring anything yourself to the table. So it’s impossible for me to be a sex worker. And yet you both require payment to be able to talk to men and pretend to care about them. You don't need to reduce yourself like that, yet you do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 02:07 PM |
| 3 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.He obviously didn’t want a second date. This isn't disproving my point. Basic intelligence tells a man that since women are interested in money and resources, it's better to just pay. Paying for a date is a token of appreciation that I am giving you some of my youth, beauty, and fertility. You're not special, you're a human being like everyone else. Get over yourself. This is just narcissism. It says that I understand that women expire after a certain age. It seems you're not able to self reflec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 01:55 PM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.there is no unity Where's the unity in basically making payment a requirement to be able to form a relationship with someone? You must be joking. heaven knows women are more mature overall. They so mature that paying for their own food is such a big deal for them. I think Arthur Schopenhauer was right when he said "Women are children all their lives." What kind of mature adult wants to be provided for, protected and coddled? men can be mature enough to economically provide for women. It seems yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 01:38 PM |
| 8 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.Almost every guy I have ever dated has paid for the first date Yeah, but you don't actually know why. You were just programmed to think that's men's role in your life. Unless these guys are stupid, they know that not paying lowers their chances of getting a second date or getting laid. It's just a business transaction. I am at a point where, due to reading Reddit, jf a guy has issues with paying, I will assume he is either poor, is constantly worried about being used for his money and has a gene… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 01:33 PM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.yes a big part of being a man is connecting with your instincts as a man, some of which if not total war for the best is peaceful resource collection at the least. Being a man has nothing to do with collecting resources for women. That's ridiculous. A woman doesn’t have to be superficial though to want the person who invited her out to pay it’s just common courtesy. Is it common courtesy to expect random men to pay for your food and then get upset when they don't? Before women weren't allowed to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 01:17 PM |
| 2 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.Most men do not have this much demand from women, though. But the whole point is it doesn't matter. If the only way to get women's attention is to chase them and cater to them by playing the role they expect you to play, is their attention really worth it? If so, why? What can they actually add to your life, if you have to chase them to get their interest, along with spending money on them, while knowing that they'd lose interest in you if you stopped paying? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 12:52 PM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.If you want a fertile woman I'm not interested in having children. As evidenced by your comments, most women are children themselves. Since you’re not a man This is just female manipulation. You're so self centred that you think a man who doesn't want to provide for a grown adult is not a man. It's narcissistic manipulation and I can see through it. What women think is a real man has no meaning. It's like caring what a child thinks an adult is. they remove an incentive for women to seek safety i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 12:46 PM |
| 2 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.Women are more in demand by men Because most men are simps. Women are just people, there's no need for them to be " in demand". It becomes even more absurd when you actually know what women are like. It's like the difference between what you think about a celebrity and who they actually are as a person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 12:27 PM |
| 3 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.Then the guy shows that he’s at least generous, Isn't it interesting how the woman doesn't have to be generous, or even oay for her own food? Asking for separate orders just seems really petty to me When you hang out with your friends and you each pay for your own food, do you find that petty? and likely shows a bad personality trait to the woman. Do you think an adult woman depeding on random men for food is a good personality trait? Is that what a generous person does? Why the double standards… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 12:16 PM |
| 3 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.No, superficial is being so selfish and narcissistic that paying for food that's going into your own mouth is a problem for you. This is objectively true. No sane person with self respect depends on strangers for food. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 12:04 PM |
| 7 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.Expecting a stranger to pay for your meal is what, then? Is it something a respectable woman does? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 11:58 AM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.the man chases the woman. Who cares? Just because idiots chase other people doesn't mean you have to. How do you not see the absurdity of chasing another human being, just because you're sexually attracted to them? There's no need to chase women. Women are courted by men Because that's what idiots in the past decided to do. In middle eastern countries, women don't even have a say in who they marry. So its social programming. if you want to get ahead. Get ahead in what? Dating idiots? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 10:49 AM |
| 2 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.the differences is because of their biology they are the ones being sought after by men. Because men are simps. Women are also attracted to men because of their biology. But because men like you have double standards and put them on a pedestal, many women end up having high opinion of themselves and therefore become narcissistic. It has nothing to do with biology. In some cultures money isn't even an issue and women prefer paying for themselves. This is about dating, not about capacity to pay. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 10:36 AM |
| 0 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.think men and women are different Obviously. Is one of the differences that women are incapable of paying for their own food on dates? I'm not looking for a girl-boss 3000 who pays for everything A woman providing for herself and paying for herself on a date isn't being a girl boss, it's being an independent adult. I'm looking for a wife and mother of my children, How is a woman who doesn't want to provide for herself going to provide all the non material things a child needs? At best she can gi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 10:29 AM |
| 4 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.Sure, and many decent women also like traditional dating practices as they find it fun, charming, and attractive. I think our definition of decent is very different. I wouldn't call a guy who expects me to pay for him when we hang out decent, same applies to women. They're just people. and assume they all see relationships like a business transaction. If a woman's interest in a man depends on him paying, how is that not transactional? fucking stop assuming all women are like that and expecting s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 10:13 AM |
| 9 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.I'm just saying you're cutting out a lot of quality decent people, especially if you're looking for more traditional women, Decent women have no problem paying for food that's going into their own mouths. This seems obvious to me. especially if you're looking for more traditional women, Traditional women aren't different from modern women. They're both entitled and see relationships as transactions. Plus traditional women tend to believe in braindead religions like Christianity. It's a sign of s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 09:40 AM |
| 2 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.If a man doesn’t want to provide or protect Are you a child who needs protection and being provided for? Real men want a partner, not a child they have to provide for and protect. I have no desire to bless or create for him. Having kids with a woman who depends on men to provide for her when she's not even pregnant is a terrible idea. She's not a genuine partner. And the moment a man is unable to provide, she just moves along to the next provider. Better not to have kids with such women. (which … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 09:35 AM |
| 9 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.But it's still a social norm. It's called culture. Doesn't make it less superficial. You're not required to follow social norms, it's a choice you make, and that choice makes someone superficial. or bad people. It does if they're just blindly following them. But you're likely going to be missing out on some quality women, Quality women don't require payment for us to hang out, prostitutes do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 09:25 AM |
| 11 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.Even the most social progressive women like the idea of men paying. No shit women like men spending money on them. They're not special for liking it. It makes them feel special and like the prize. Again, everyone likes feeling special, not just women. You don't think a man would feel special if a woman paid for his food as well? In fact, all a woman has to do is be fine paying for her own food for a man to feel special. Enjoying this isn't a character trait, and expecting to be paid for is a sig… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 09:00 AM |
| 0 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.What you listed is too much effort to find out something simple. Whereas one simple act shows you the mentality of who you're on a date with, before you even spend any money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 08:43 AM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.Who said it was new? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 08:24 AM |
| 0 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.This is so low on the list of ways to separate the good from the bad. Not really. It actually reveals alot about a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 08:18 AM |
| 2 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.Hahah good one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 08:05 AM |
| 7 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.Go halves and the 😻 dries up real quick 🤷. Sounds like dealing with a prostitute. No thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 07:58 AM |
| 2 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.I'm not one to be controlled, Yeah, because you're the controlling one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 07:46 AM |
| 2 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.I wasn't aware you spoke for every man. The way I knew you have a very high opinion of yourself is how I also know that men you date have to accept being used, especially if they're willing to play the long game to get a return on their financial investment. I didn't have sex on first dates. Again, most girls don't have sex on first dates and men know that, which is why they play the long game. So they pay and in return they get laid later down the line. Its like dealing with a sex worker, excep… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 07:45 AM |
| 5 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.I wonder why that is... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 06:27 AM |
| 9 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.It does mean they're superficial. It's literally putting money before a human being. from finding a good partner A good partner wouldn't expect men to spend money on her, especially when they don't even know each other. Better to be single than with someone like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 06:25 AM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.It's not "role-playing" to be a submissive woman nor a dominant man. It's how some people are. It actually is. Being submissive is just a way for a weak and insecure woman to find a provider. And being dominant is just a way for a weak and insecure man to feel good because he has power over some weak woman. Dude, I specifically said this was just an example. Yeah, and my point is it's a terrible example. Do you seriously, unequivocally believe that there's absolutely nothing that current society… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 06:21 AM |
| 0 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.Right, I was just answering your question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 06:10 AM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.It wasn’t their idea so logically speaking if someone wants you in their wedding or wants you to travel for their wedding they should be the one to pay for it right? But don't you see how you're complicating something as simple as connecting with another human being by bring payment into it? Its like dealing with a sex worker, which also requires some form of payment. Except in this case, a man is guaranteed to get laid. Where did the girl not wanting to go out come from? If her paying for her o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 06:08 AM |
| 2 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.Wait, are you saying it’s not really fair because it takes courage It's not fair to expect men to pay just because they asked you out. If you don't want to go out, just say no, rather than expecting a man who took a chance to ask you out to spend money on you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 05:59 AM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.If they like those roles, they'd be idiots for not doing them just because some random guy thinks they're stupid for doing so. They can do whatever they like. But the truth is role playing is inauthentic. But it was done pretty frequently and sanctioned by many societies across the world at one point. And it was still wrong... that doesn't change the facts that it wasn't then. It was wrong then and its wrong now. I shouldn't have to say this about paedophilia. (Just an example) Sex with children… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 05:55 AM |
| 6 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.if someone HAD to be the one to pay for all of it, it should be the one that asks the other out True, but its usually men who always ask, which takes courage so it's not really fair. It's better for both people to just not mind paying for their own food since it's about getting to know each other, not payment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 05:51 AM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.You don't seem to understand much about feminine energy, even though it seems you're a woman. We all have feminine and masculine energy, the goal is to balance the two within yourself so that you don't depend on men to make you feel feminine and also so that you can use your masculine energy to do things in the world, like being an adult and paying for your own food. Also, you're making relationships transactional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 05:42 AM |
| 1 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.There's still men who want to pay for dates because they expect and want to be the dominant partner, and women who expect to be paid for because they want to be the submissive partner. Yeah, those people are called idiots who are into playing roles rather than being genuine. Obviously for us it isn't, and for them it is. Don't be ridiculous. Marrying children and raping them (what else do you think after a man marries a child?) is wrong no matter what country you live in or what religion you fol… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 05:40 AM |
| 2 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.These men never want children or deep conversations and intuitive insights What does this have to do with payment? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 05:34 AM |
| 6 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.Women love scorekeepers, beancounters Women are "scorekeepers, beancounters", and they've made dating transactional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 05:25 AM |
| 2 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.The names and pejoratives you just can't seem to help yourself from using about them says otherwise. I'm just calling a spade a spade. Somebody has to be honest about women using men, and since you seem to be one of those women, its only natural that you'll respond this way. Yes, to us it is. To them it's not. So is it right for adult men to marry 6 year olds? Is it less weird because pedos in Afghanistan are fine with it? Just like in America, it's not weird and abnormal for a guy to pay on the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 05:07 AM |
| 7 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.He can’t feel entitled to sex because he bought dinner. I pick a place within MY budget and I usually pick pancakes. Exactly. Expecting strangers to spend money on you just makes dating more complicated than it has to be, especially since most men will naturally expect something in return for paying. It ends up becoming transactional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 04:57 AM |
| 5 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.Well, of course. When dating as a man, most women have your mentality so a guy gets used to being used. It's not that big a deal to most men. It's the price they have to pay to get laid and so on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 04:55 AM |
| 4 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.Poor fellows. I know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 04:42 AM |
| 2 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.so I won't address yours. It was rhetorical. Obviously it's not polite to expect strangers to pay for your food. It's selfish and greedy. Okay, so you have sex with your buddies? Interaction means talking to people and relating with them. It doesn't mean sex. It means I treat everyone the same. It doesn't matter what you call them or how much you hate them, they don't care and neither do the guys who want them. I don't hate them, I feel sorry for them. It's not "weird," because "weird" implies a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 04:40 AM |
| 4 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.Yup, I have a very opinion of myself. Exactly. And I'd expect any man who wants to date to me have a very high opinion of me too. Yeah, coz it's all about you. got more than free food. I got relationships. Relationships based on payment are not real relationships. It's just a transaction. All in all, ended up happily ever. I'm sure you did. Not so sure about the poor guys you use. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 04:35 AM |
| 3 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.Reread the post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 04:33 AM |
| 9 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.I'm happy to pay for my own food when I'm not on a date. This is what I meant when I said women who have a problem with paying for their own food have a very high opinion of themselves. Thankfully, I date men who happily paid and stated it up front when making plans. Yeah, you're very lucky. Unfortunately for them, they are dating someone who doesn't really value them as people, which is why payment is required for them to date you. But hey, atleast you get free food. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 04:32 AM |
| 3 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.And the easiest way to weed out these superficial women does not work for you What? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 04:26 AM |
| 6 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.I'm not gonna call men who don't pay for dates cheap Having a problem with paying for your own food is cheap. Be honest with yourself atleast. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 04:24 AM |
| 3 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.Is a stranger the same as your good buddies? Is it polite to expect strangers to spend money on you just because they asked if you wanted to hang out? Do you interact the same way with a stranger as you do your good buddies? I interact with everyone in the same way. and women who want to be paid for. Yeah, the fake and vapid ones mentioned in the title of the post. As if making a point of asking for separate checks on a date isn't weird. You don't think expectating random men to pay for your foo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 04:24 AM |
| 9 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.Same with women who weed out men who don't pay for a date. Those are the superficial women mentioned in the title of the post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 04:21 AM |
| 6 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.Is paying for a first date really that big of deal? If a woman doesn't want a second date with you because you didn't pay, do you think she sees paying for a first date as a big deal? He taught me that it’s just the right thing to do cause we make money. Any adult with a job makes money, including the women you'd be on a date with. Your comment explains why it's so easy for women to use men for money and resources. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 04:19 AM |
| 5 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.That's not really the point. I don't want to hang out with someone who I have to discuss payment with before doing so. If that's what I wanted, I would just see a prostitute. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 04:16 AM |
| 4 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.Talking about payment is gross, that's what I said. Also, read the rest of my comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 04:12 AM |
| 8 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.I mean... Not as much time, money, and energy as making this clear before going on the date, but sure... I guess... Talking about who's going to pay before you hang out with someone is weird and actually kinda gross. If a woman has such a problem with paying for her own food, she should just decline the invitation. The same applies to when I hang out with guys, we don't talk about who's gonna pay for each other's food because we are all adults and expect to pay for ourselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 04:09 AM |
| 0 | The idea women are loved unconditionallyLumping women in with pets and children is a way of infantalizing women Many women want to be led and provided for by men so they basically infantalise themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 02:13 PM |
| – | Women's personalities are more important than their physical appearance.Based upon my experience in the world and the experience of other people, including women who have even written books about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 01:19 AM |
| – | Women's personalities are more important than their physical appearance.When children are that young, their brain is extremely malleable to influences. So don't you think it's a good idea to emphasise to them that who they are and their personality is more important than how they look? Therefore, to decondition a gender expression, one needs to be in the same state of consciousness in which it was conditioned in the first place - aka malleable childhood consciousness. Not necessarily. Otherwise nobody would ever grow or change as a human being. They would stay exact… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 01:17 AM |
| – | Women's personalities are more important than their physical appearance.Attractive people utilize their looks for leverage in most aspects. They can't use their looks for leverage if the observer doesn't care about that stuff. That's the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 01:15 AM |
| – | Women's personalities are more important than their physical appearance.As women, a good stock of our social currency is how we look and how fit we are. It's up to you to care about that stuff. Caring about "social currency" is a choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 01:14 AM |
| – | Women's personalities are more important than their physical appearance.I am not convinced a philosopher from 2000 years ago has much insight into what women are doing today. They're doing the same things, otherwise the quote wouldn't be relevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 01:13 AM |
| – | Women's personalities are more important than their physical appearance.Do you need evidence to see that many women spend alot of time working on their physical appearance and less on their personalities? Really? This is so prevalent that a philosopher from 100AD wrote about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 12:58 AM |
| – | Women's personalities are more important than their physical appearance.and it wouldn't matter for dating if men don't find you fuckable at first glance Why do you want men to find you fuckable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 12:44 AM |
| – | Women's personalities are more important than their physical appearance.We are animals, No, we aren't. Or rather maybe you are, but I am not. so the primary purpose of relationships is to make babies. No, it isn't. Maybe if you had said sex, but even then, most people don't have sex just to have kids. In fact, most times people have sex its not to have babies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 12:43 AM |
| – | Women's personalities are more important than their physical appearance.You can’t undo neurological conditioning with theoretical idea… What do you mean by this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 12:31 AM |
| – | Women's personalities are more important than their physical appearance.Why? Because there's more to life as a woman than attracting men. Why? Because there's more to life as a man than attracting women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 12:29 AM |
| – | Women's personalities are more important than their physical appearance.so why is it women being part of the problem? Just because men don't seem to care about personality doesn't mean women shouldn't work on their personalities. Just like how women liking men who simp doesn't mean men should behave like simps just to get women to like them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 12:27 AM |
| – | Women's personalities are more important than their physical appearance.Unfortunately women are part of the problem because they spend more time working on their looks than on other aspects of themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 12:17 AM |
| – | Women's personalities are more important than their physical appearance.If men had high standards for women personality the entire human race would be extinct by now. Well, that's just not true. They're going to be shit people because society allow it, "Society" in this instance is made up of men with low standards. So its men allowing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 11:56 PM |
| 4 | Why do some people bend over backwards to find excuses for everything women do?All of the issues men and women have are often the result of the same things, and we should work together to address them. I agree with you there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 10:35 AM |
| 25 | Why do some people bend over backwards to find excuses for everything women do?You're doing exactly what the post is saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 10:03 AM |
| 1 | Many people talk about toxic masculinity, but we rarely hear about toxic femininity.But there are such people. What do you think government is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Many people talk about toxic masculinity, but we rarely hear about toxic femininity.Words and phrases have agreed-upon meanings for good reasons. If I use certain words and I specify what I mean by them so that many other people are still able to understand me, I don't see the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 08:42 AM |
| 1 | Many people talk about toxic masculinity, but we rarely hear about toxic femininity.These terms already have definitions. I can redefine them according to my liking, and people will still be able to understand what I'm saying, as evidenced by this post and the engagement on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 08:27 AM |
| 2 | Many people talk about toxic masculinity, but we rarely hear about toxic femininity.Your post is a bunch of pseudo science. Only if you don't understand it. I mean it’s not good or respectable but I’m not sure if I call it toxic. If it's not good or respectable, then what is it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Many people talk about toxic masculinity, but we rarely hear about toxic femininity.What does being feminine mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 01:25 PM |
| 2 | Many people talk about toxic masculinity, but we rarely hear about toxic femininity.Yeah, you're right. There are literally no people who are behind things that happen in the world. It all just happens randomly. All religions just randomly happen to suppress women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Many people talk about toxic masculinity, but we rarely hear about toxic femininity.You chose terms that already have well-known meanings. I didn't deny that. The point is I defined what I mean by them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 11:21 AM |
| 1 | Many people talk about toxic masculinity, but we rarely hear about toxic femininity.Why did you use terms that are already in use? Because that's how people understand what you're saying? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 10:50 AM |
| 2 | Many people talk about toxic masculinity, but we rarely hear about toxic femininity.All I'm saying is just because a word or phrase is popular doesn't make it truly meaningful. Which is why I provided the definition for what I mean by these terms in the post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 10:27 AM |
| 4 | Many people talk about toxic masculinity, but we rarely hear about toxic femininity.My main point was that neither toxic femininity or toxic masculinity exist. In the way that I defined them in the post they definitely do. Also it’s insane you think being passive is the same as being toxic. Passivity can be toxic. It often is. For example, there are many cases, especially in Muslim countries where the father is abusing the daughter, and the mother is so passive that she does nothing to stop it because of her religion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 10:26 AM |
| 0 | Many people talk about toxic masculinity, but we rarely hear about toxic femininity.You think men are never manipulative or controlling without being aggressive? Try and read the whole post again very carefully. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 10:12 AM |
| 3 | Many people talk about toxic masculinity, but we rarely hear about toxic femininity.It's a bad idea to assume labels necessarily have anything to do with reality. Labels are used to describe aspects of reality and human behaviour. That's why they exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 09:56 AM |
| 10 | Many people talk about toxic masculinity, but we rarely hear about toxic femininity.Women showing emotion and not dating you is not toxic femininity. This is just an unpleasant way of you saying you didn't read or understand the post. At no point did I even bring up my own dating life because the post isn't about me or any specific woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 09:42 AM |
| 2 | Many people talk about toxic masculinity, but we rarely hear about toxic femininity.I see these terms thrown around all the time but I'm yet to meet a person in real life that has the traits to fit in either category The traits I mentioned in the post definitely exist. However, my definition of those terms are different to most people's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 09:36 AM |
| 3 | Many people talk about toxic masculinity, but we rarely hear about toxic femininity.I put it on debate because whenever I make a post and put a "discussion" flair on it, it gets removed because apparently, no non- neutral discussion posts are allowed by the mods. So its just so that the post doesn't get removed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 09:35 AM |
| 3 | Many people talk about toxic masculinity, but we rarely hear about toxic femininity.I argued that misandry is way worse than passivity, yet you chose to discuss passivity. Because passivity is one of the points the post is talking about, and like I said, it's not a competition so it's not about what's worse. It's about "toxic" behaviour. Judging by these traits alone, toxic masculinity is worse than toxic femininity. You're not really getting the point. I'm not comparing shitty behaviours, I'm just explaining the different forms they take and why they exist in the first place. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 08:59 AM |
| 1 | Many people talk about toxic masculinity, but we rarely hear about toxic femininity.I have a problem with the terms toxic masculinity/femininity mostly because I feel they are too vague to really mean anything. I agree. But we can use the words to point to certain problematic behaviours if we can define what we mean by them, like I did in the post. I’m assuming when you talk about manipulative crying your meaning when the emotion isn’t genuine Yes, but also, the programming is so deep that even when some women are expressing genuine emotions, they can still unconsciously use th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 08:49 AM |
| 2 | Many people talk about toxic masculinity, but we rarely hear about toxic femininity.If you said toxic femininity comes in the form of misandry, i would have agreed with you. You don't need to agree with it for it to be true. Also, I didn't say toxic femininity was limited to what's in the post. Its a reddit post, so I can't go into all the aspects of toxic femininity because no one would even read everything I could write about it. Agression is always worse than passivity. It's not a competition. The point is they're both a result of social programming. a person is being beated… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 08:37 AM |
| 1 | Men need to stop being so thirsty.countless of studies have determined that male sex drive is higher than women's In the real world this doesn't actually matter. It also doesn't mean that men have to be thirsty. and from the dating dynamics of today , where women have more leverage than men, Yeah, because men are too thirsty. Women can't have more leverage if men don't give it to them. since in the end she has to go trough the painful process of giving birth and risking to get sick. Do you think most women who have sex do it to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Men need to stop being so thirsty.it's much more ingrained in men. According to who? men desire women more thatn women desire men, How would that make sense from the perspective of nature, which is only interested in reproduction? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Men need to stop being so thirsty.Okay, thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 11:26 AM |
| 0 | Men need to stop being so thirsty."Work on yourself" isn't even real advice, it's just a badly hidden attempt to be condescending. It actually is good advice. Work on yourself so you aren't thirsty and dependent on women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 10:52 AM |
| 2 | Men need to stop being so thirsty.If you see yourself in relation to women as a man wandering in the desert, then you should probably work on yourself. Being thirsty isn't gonna help you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 09:20 AM |
| 2 | Men need to stop being so thirsty.we are biologically ingrained to desire women You don't think women are also ingrained to desire men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 12:44 AM |
| 3 | Men need to stop being so thirsty.I have those standards. I don't want to be with a shitty person. and I have held onto that standard. Would you rather lower your standards so that you're not alone? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 01:33 PM |
| 21 | Men need to stop being so thirsty.That some people here would be fine with an abusive girlfriend. And when you tell them that it's better to be single than to be with someone like that, you get downvoted to hell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 11:57 AM |
| 2 | Men need to stop being so thirsty.When it’s drilled into your head by popular media since childhood that a man is only truly a winner when he gets the girl - an attractive one, too - it’s no surprise that you’d do everything in your power to attract and keep a girl if that kind. This is true. But it also implies that there's an effort being made to keep men in a state where they are thirsty and easy to manipulate, which is also true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 11:19 AM |
| 8 | Men need to stop being so thirsty.Looks like someone hasn't seen hunger. Hunger and a lack of sex aren't the same thing. You can die from one, but not the other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 11:04 AM |
| 11 | Men need to stop being so thirsty.Every man is incentivised to act thirsty to get laid as much as they can, leading to a shit situation for everyone. Exactly. And this doesn't just affect men, it also affects women because they start to expect men to act thirsty to get their attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 11:02 AM |
| 6 | Men need to stop being so thirsty.You forgot about one factor, the loneliness in the dating world. Why don't women have that? Women also experience loneliness. Women friendships are more intimate while men's are casual so their intimacy somehow is fulfilled but not for men. Yeah, but this is because of men and how they view each other. Also, society expects men to be more hardworkers compared to women. What is society, though? Isn't it just people relating and communicating with each other? Who in society expects men to be more … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 10:57 AM |
| 3 | Men need to stop being so thirsty.this might correct in time. Only if men stop being thirsty. Otherwise how would it correct? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 10:40 AM |
| 2 | Men need to stop being so thirsty.Women are programmed to be attracted to assertive socially competent men. In the real world, this actually doesn't matter that much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 10:30 AM |
| 4 | Men need to stop being so thirsty.We're a sexually reproducing species. Yeah, including women. Someone has to initiate. Initiating doesn't mean you have to be thirsty. In fact, you don't even have to initiate. Society deems this our role. Society is the relationship between you and everyone around you, so it's up to you. Society doesn't make you do anything. Women typically aren't going to dot it for you The main reason why women don't initiate is because there are too many simps throwing themselves at their feet. If men didn't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 10:23 AM |
| 1 | Chasing women is a huge waste of time.By not simping. If you're only able to get sex by putting women on a pedestal then you need to work on yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Chasing women is a huge waste of time.It doesn't matter what they want. It's not men's job to cater to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Chasing women is a huge waste of time.Sure, okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 12:48 AM |
| 0 | Chasing women is a huge waste of time.No truly masculine man chases women and puts them on a pedestal. However, to you and other women, a masculine man is one who strokes your ego and caters to you, so your idea of masculine means nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Chasing women is a huge waste of time.Then why commen on a post about it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 02:52 AM |
| 2 | Chasing women is a huge waste of time.How is not catering to other people toxic? Do you think women not catering to men is toxic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Men need to stop jumping through hoops for women and stroking their egos just to get laid and get validation.Telling men to stop putting women on a pedastal and catering to them isn't toxic. Wanting men to behave that way is what's toxic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Men need to stop jumping through hoops for women and stroking their egos just to get laid and get validation.What's the issue with simps then, If you don't know the issue with simping then you're beyond reach unfortunately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 12:26 PM |
| 1 | How do you inspire a man to provide?Your views dont match with the rpw subreddit. Good. Nobody learns anything new in an echo chamber. But a feminist view in which women are opressed and everything is social conditioning… it doesnt betong here. Women have been oppressed, and they still are in Islamic countries. They can't even leave the house without a man, if they do they literally get lashed in front of the whole neighbourhood. There are countless sickening videos of this. Feminism has nothing to do with it. Also, studying psych… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/12/23 12:25 PM |
| 1 | How do you inspire a man to provide?Listen, I believed the same as you It's not a belief. If you do some research you'll see that what I'm saying is what's actually going on. I do believe attraction and behavior largely stem from biology and genes. You have free will. Your thoughts and behaviour are not controlled by your genes. However I do wish and feel so feminine and happy when my boyfriend takes me to dinner and buys me medicine and takes care of me. You don't think your boyfriend would also appreciate being taken to dinner a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/12/23 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Men need to stop jumping through hoops for women and stroking their egos just to get laid and get validation.It's possible for two people to use and exploit each other. This is what most relationships actually are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 11:35 AM |
| – | How do you inspire a man to provide?According to evolutionary phycology and studies This is nonsense. If you have the ability to provide for yourself, this means you've evolved to be able to provide for yourself. Expecting a man to do it for you because of "evolutionary psychology" is just an excuse to be lazy and use men for resources. BUT attraction is bone deep, and you can’t ignore how evolution have shaped our preferences for partners. Evolution has nothing to do with who and what you're attracted to. Social conditioning does… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/12/23 11:32 AM |
| 1 | How do you inspire a man to provide?It is a natural wish from women and a natural responsibility men feel. According to who? Providing is the same as protecting, (protecting from hunger and cold). Adults protect and provide for themselves. If you as an adult can't even protect and provide for yourself, how are you going to be able to raise a child when you still think and behave like one?? . To inspire protectiveness from a man you have to seem like you need it. This is just manipulation, which you don't do if you love someone. It… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/12/23 07:07 AM |
| 2 | Men need to stop jumping through hoops for women and stroking their egos just to get laid and get validation.Thanks, you too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Men need to stop jumping through hoops for women and stroking their egos just to get laid and get validation.Thanks honey. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Men need to stop jumping through hoops for women and stroking their egos just to get laid and get validation.Get married No thanks honey, I know better than to adopt an adult child known as a wife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Men need to stop jumping through hoops for women and stroking their egos just to get laid and get validation.You don't know? Oh honey... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 03:33 AM |
| 2 | Men need to stop jumping through hoops for women and stroking their egos just to get laid and get validation.Triggered? Yes, honey. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Men need to stop jumping through hoops for women and stroking their egos just to get laid and get validation.I'm sure that's why they always get alot of upvotes, and why they trigger women like you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Men need to stop jumping through hoops for women and stroking their egos just to get laid and get validation.If you're effortlessly pulling girls left and right, why do you care if other guys pay for dates? I can make posts about anything I like, including weak men with no self respect who behave like simps and narcissistic women who want to be put on a pedestal. I call bullshit. I don't really care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 02:25 AM |
| 2 | Men need to stop jumping through hoops for women and stroking their egos just to get laid and get validation.Teenage girls aren't women and high school dances aren't real life lol Like I said in the comment, since highschool I've had experiences like that, meaning in my 20s I'm still having them. . I think you made it because you have awfully strong opinions about stuff you know nothing about, ie adult relationships and sex Good thing your opinion is essentially meaningless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 02:16 AM |
| 2 | Men need to stop jumping through hoops for women and stroking their egos just to get laid and get validation.And yet you keep spending your time commenting on my posts... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 01:44 AM |
| 2 | Men need to stop jumping through hoops for women and stroking their egos just to get laid and get validation.The point I was making is it's not necessary to chase women and stroke their egos to be able to attract them, because you were implying that the reason I made this post is because I don't attract women. It must be nice to have 0 self awareness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 01:43 AM |
| 2 | Men need to stop jumping through hoops for women and stroking their egos just to get laid and get validation.Your comment was a weak attempt at whatever point your ego was trying to make. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Men need to stop jumping through hoops for women and stroking their egos just to get laid and get validation.Now tell me why you hate women so much? Coz they ask dumb questions, like you're doing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Men need to stop jumping through hoops for women and stroking their egos just to get laid and get validation.It's not really a "gotcha". Just an example of why I don't think its necessary to chase women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 12:28 AM |
| 0 | Men need to stop jumping through hoops for women and stroking their egos just to get laid and get validation.Why don't you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 12:26 AM |
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