Auckboy Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	Cancelled dates, where am I going wrong?	Fundamentals	Auckboy	/r/seduction	01/03/24 11:13 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	I genuinely dk why TF this keeps happening. Hey mate, ive had similar experiences, but way better now. Its also a numbers game you must remember. Its hard to say whats going wrong without seeing what your text game is like	/r/seduction	08/05/25 01:23 AM
1	Opinions on dating coaches. Dating coaches are a great idea if you’re getting stuck with certain things	/r/seduction	30/03/25 11:16 AM
1	I can’t text to save my life Hey mate I’m happy to help, I’m very good at txting, online dating organising dates etc If you dm me an example of your convo I can maybe give you some pointers	/r/seduction	05/03/25 11:44 PM
2	I will DM you a few of my OLD convos if you are willing to tell me what I'm doing wrong and what to fix.. If your fixes work over the next week, I'll venmo $300 Send them through I’ll take a look	/r/seduction	19/01/25 09:41 AM
9	Always assume they’re going to flake. Girls do flake a lot, it can be very frustrating! Why do you think girls flake? Is it mainly as they just want validation from your attention but have no interest in actually meeting you?	/r/seduction	03/01/25 09:47 AM
1	Cancelled dates, where am I going wrong? Hey there, im in New Zealand! Ha are you in the South Pacific?	/r/seduction	03/05/24 10:05 AM
1	Cancelled dates, where am I going wrong? Bigger dicks? Ha nah, I know it’s their loss! I can’t control how they show up, I can only control how I do and I work on myself everyday. Just gets frustrating constantly getting flaked on, if I can change my approach I will	/r/seduction	02/03/24 06:40 AM
1	Cancelled dates, where am I going wrong? Thanks but yeah I know all this, I don’t speak much prior to the date unless they are initiating. The girls I’m speaking too are attractive so not sure if it’s because they have tons of better options, just not sure how to stand out more over chat. I am in Auckland, everyone complains how difficult the dating scene is here, but I’m sure everyone says that about where they live	/r/seduction	02/03/24 04:52 AM
2	Cancelled dates, where am I going wrong? Any advice on how to build better rapport? I try leaving voice notes occasionally to make things abit more personal and add them on social media before hand before setting up dates. I know girls like to just chat with no intention of dating as they like the attention, so if they flake I just move on as in previous experience if I try a re arrange they just flake again.	/r/seduction	02/03/24 01:39 AM
2	Cancelled dates, where am I going wrong? Hmmm I try and gauge it, I think my chat is pretty good over txt. What would be a better way of building rapport?	/r/seduction	02/03/24 12:28 AM
3	Cancelled dates, where am I going wrong? Nah usually a couple days before depending when they are free..I’ll ask them when they are free before making the plans. In terms of talking before the date, a few messages here and there depending how much they message. I like to get to know someone in person so I don’t send loads of messages prior to meeting	/r/seduction	02/03/24 12:26 AM
4	Cancelled dates, where am I going wrong? Yep always solid plans, let’s meet at this place at this time on this day and we agree on it. My last 3 excuses: Excuse 1 “Shit can’t make it I forgot, I’m at gym” Excuse 2 “Sooo… I completely forgot I have a workout class booked this evening with a girlfriend :( can we reschedule please. I’m sorry 😢” Excuse 3 “Good afternoon sorry been feeling unwell 🤒 not sure if I can make tomorrow sorry” All from different girls. If they suggest to re schedule I just say, “cool-will leave it to you to resche…	/r/seduction	01/03/24 11:52 PM
2	Q4M: Males, do you experience the "ick"? It so - what? If not, why not? Fake colour contact lenses	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/23 11:56 AM
-13	A Personal Tale Of A Pussy Pass Denial What’s her number?	/r/PussyPassDenied	09/01/23 11:57 AM
11	Correlation does not = causation. Case study: The Gym Being short, balding, unattractive and jacked is better than being short, balding unattractive and fat	/r/seduction	12/10/22 09:58 AM
3	Quite a few girls have thought that I was gay when they first met me? I get accused of being gay aswell some times, I just shrug it off and say “I wish! would be so much easier, girls are a pain in the ass” in a joking way	/r/seduction	10/10/22 10:17 AM
1	Best compliments to give during making out/sex I wanna be on you	/r/seduction	09/10/22 06:53 AM
1	What's the best lesson you've learned on your seduction journey? Less is more	/r/seduction	12/07/22 11:35 AM
1	Men 30+ y.o. successful at game, do you get girls in their 20s? I’m 38 and I still do well with women off all ages. I keep myself in great shape though! I’ve found as I’ve gotten older, progressed in my career, earned more money and matured I’ve become more attractive to women. I know we’re all on a different timeline but I look back to when I was 30, and although I did ok with women back then I was a fucking idiot, maturity wise ect! I guess I’ll probably say the same to how I am now when I’m 45	/r/seduction	25/06/22 07:55 AM
1	How can I talk to my friends about my declining LTR? It is sad, but it will be more damaging to you, her and the child if you stay in a loveless relationship. It will give you both a chance to find happiness in another relationship, also the child will hopefully see you both in happy relationships rather than the only example of you two fighting which is what they see now	/r/seduction	23/06/22 01:22 AM
5	How can I talk to my friends about my declining LTR? Just say there was something missing deep down. You clearly have different values which is a fine way to feel. Say you felt in your gut that it wasn’t going to work out long term so you would rather end the relationship now than waste both your time. Lastly who gives a shit what anyone else feels, it’s your relationship and if you want to get out of it to make you happy then do so	/r/seduction	22/06/22 11:41 AM
3	she took 18 hours to respond, should i stop texting her? You should try to use your phone for setting dates, save the chit chat about hobbies ect for real life face to face	/r/seduction	21/06/22 11:04 AM