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For a woman to string a guy along he needs to make it clear he wants to have sex with her... If hes done that then fine, I'm on your side here she should help him out and put some distance between them otherwise women help their friends move, women sleep next to their friends in bed, women will take care of sick friends, help them with work etc. Other than sex there is no boundary with friends, male and female so...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 04:04 PM
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Yes. Healthcare was made by men, for men. And if you want to point score you can even say men were test subjects which is true, men is prison in many countries were used for autopsies.... Women were not studied in the same way untill female slaves (not serfs) became common place. You can say rich men used poor men as lab rats but the outcome was knowledge of men's medical problems and an array of ways to solve them. The treatments for the male body exploded and the understanding of the woman's b…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 03:48 PM
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'orbiter'? Man who pretends to want friendship so he can stay close by rather than being honest admitting he wants sex and being rejected from her space? Orbiter is a male concept used to hide a lack of accountability. Women really do think you want to be friends and they treat those men just the same as their female friends. Your problem is you've forgotten women have many male friends, some of which will be masculine presenting gay men. Women aren't going to know you want sex unless you make i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 03:26 PM
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It's not a 1up. The question of why should women be given grace postpartum was asked... An answer was given.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 03:22 PM
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No woman needs to switch sides for emotional intimacy. Women will hug and hold each other and cry with each other over sad things after meeting for a week...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 03:21 PM
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I never said they never recover. I said they don't recover fully but they do what they need to do to compensate for their husbands financial deficits. I do believe my wording was 'pull themselves up by their bootstraps to put food on the table'
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 09:01 PM
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Hmmm, you realise the reason why women in most countries get child benefit payments is because it was common knowledge and constantly proven that men were more likely to take the money for alcohol, gambling and prostitutes.... SOME men work to be providers and protectors. Many men don't want to do the work. Few men buy/build a house and renovate it with their dads and uncles, then look for a wife, many men cannot fix a car.... Some men kill their wives/girlfriends, some men abuse their families …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:59 PM
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Unless you have 4 or more children, are a midwife, obstetrician or womens clinical psychologist... I doubt you can play top trumps with me. Decent mat leave is different in different countries in Germany mat leave is 3 years in Sweden its about the same...in some countries women are never expected tp go back to work because they understand the recovery time is different to being able to minimum time required to pull yourself up by the bootstraps to put food on the table. Go talk to your mum dude…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:52 PM
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Probably just close to women's pregnancy hormone levels just not of specifically testosterone and women's bodies will increase other hormones more effectively to balance it out... Mainly because they're not adding drugs to their bodies like a man taking tren... I don't know why. You'd use that as an example a tiny fraction of men take it, most women have babies... And tren is self inflicted for no good reason pregnancy births human life....
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:48 PM
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You said 'a good time' and I said I assume by that you mean have sex.... It doesn't change what I have written above. Females of most species get agitated when males,, especially ones that haven't shown they are safe and trying to be helpful, are around. The nature argument is also fine. I have clarified the points that are when non-violent. Male humans do the same object able violent things that male dolphins and chimps and dogs and birds and - insert intelligent animal that does not mate for l…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:45 PM
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That's not true. Most women do not recover From pregnancy in montha. Most women return to work in months, many women stop having vaginal bleeding and the need for pads within months but being able to return to work is not the same as returning to your baseline. You know more women die from child birth per year than men die in wars... Im not sure about the disability rates but they're probably not far off each other. Men and family go through hormonal changes but not even close to the same degree…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:38 PM
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That is insulting to men. Many men are not biologically programmed to rape just like many men are not biologically programmed to be pedophiles. The predisposition may be geneticl but its not biological
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:32 PM
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Nature taking its course. Is for these men to die out. As has happened in history in many countries. Violent men group and gang together to sexually enslave women whose viable reproduction falls significantly and who die at higher rates and lower ages. Those men litterally run out of women and girls to sexually take advantage of. Depending on the geographic location those men then raid other tribe and countries and steal their girls to raise into complaint women but again due to the mistreatment…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:30 PM
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So men will do what they have always done. Trade their freedom and labour for sex. Except this time instead of doing it with women, they will do it with other men who provide them with plastic customisable women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:24 PM
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Things will go back to the way they used to be. Extended and communal families and societies rather than nuclear families. Women will raise children together. Men will not be needed or wanted unless they are very agreeable towards women's and safe towards children.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:21 PM
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Fun fact men wore make up before women across most countries to be appealing. Men went through an odd period where their money could bail them out of any genetic or personality deficits because women had 0 money. Now women have money men. Are remembering how to reen themselves like birds.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:20 PM
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When war was high, families aborted girls in favour of boys who could protect family property and wouldn't be at risk of rape/abduction. When pornsickness and low work workplace participation is high there will be less boys born. They become a social and family liability.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:18 PM
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This is a strange take. Why do you assume if ai robots are available men won't just be aborted at high rates and sperm of the top 10% put in a sperm bank? I mean robots are best for muscle, so all the hard labour jobs men do can be easily replaced and let's say they can make wombs that replace the vestibular and auditory input a mother provides... Why do you assume they won't just keep women working and free them from having to carry the babies... And let's say they make a milk formula as good a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:15 PM
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They have disproportionately high levels of femicide and male on female domestic violence. Where there is violence it is hidden in the family and normally taken out on women so as not to be caught and bring shame
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:09 PM
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Find a female friend or two and move in with them. They will be much more helpful, caring and consistent if you're sick than a man who expects sex from you. At 40-50 men need to start popping pills to have sexual relationships and you will still have to deal with all the behaviours your friends complain about intnerms of entitlement and self centredness. If you want children that's a different kettle of fish. You can have a blended family but it's a road not many have taken so it won't be easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:08 PM
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Some men like the chase. It's validating. To be chosen after proving that you're better than the others just like some men like owning billion dollar companies, it's validating, to be the richest when putting in hard work.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:01 PM
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Absolutely not. Women would approach men for relationships, be men would hope/assume those women were approaching for sex. The less moral men would accept multiple approaches and juggle women in secret ... Same outcome as now but more carnage and more women mistrusting men overall
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 07:59 PM
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You asked why women should be able to be stay at home mums without judgment... That's why and its all true... You should go and talk to your mum about how hard it was to birth and raise you for the first 5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 07:57 PM
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I haven't talked about sex. I've talked about males accessing females space. The more intelligent the species the more at risk a female is when having a male. In her vicitinty. This is why all females are standoffish with males, in 'intelligent' animals. All non-violent males have to do something to earn a place to share oxygen. You're angry at women for a fact of nature that spans almost every species.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 07:52 PM
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Young men tend to be unemployed because they're disagreeable, which is why middle classed men tend to do better, they're conditioned to be less disagreeable or at least within a work place.... Patriarchy is simply a society structured around male needs and wants and this society absolutely is. Nuclear families are awful for mothers and children but it givens men a chance to be a king in his castle. Healthcare for women is awful and much worse than for men. You may be alluding to men having poor …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 07:48 PM
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Congratulations. And just to be clear I'm not trying to discourage you form being financially sensible, I just wanted you to be aware. Many older women have horrific pregnancies becuase they have them with older men... Kick The weed habit if your mental health can afford it and good luck with life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 07:38 PM
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Women view inadequate usefulness as below average. Women view too large for comfort/usefulness as above average. We use average as a goldilocks term.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 07:35 PM
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Women like to be desired like men like to have their achievemqnts and efforts validated.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 07:32 PM
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No woman will ever want you for your penis. Penises don't have that much value to us. Sex doesn't have that much value to us. Take it up with your god. A woman who understands your wants will give you verbal validation to make you happy just like a man may sit and listen to a woman complain about work...the desire that makes you feel sexual validation comes from a woman's psychology not your body.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 07:31 PM
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Societal role.... Those are different for men and women depending on the country and time in history... Farming depending on the country is a man's or womans job. Speaking of jobs, most women that have them do so because their grandmother's and sometimes mothers born at a time when women weren't allowed access to credit, bank accounts, unchaperoned doctors appointments, university etc told them never rely on a man because the hand that feeds can also starve and unfortunately too many men abused …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 07:23 PM
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The problem women have is they don't understand the concept of 'fuck meat'. It takes years for them to accept its a thing for you men and even then, can understand its a thing but don't understand it. That Is why men get called gross, creepy, predatory etc. The concept of treating a person like a fleshlight isn't something we have an equivalence for.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 07:19 PM
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No woman needs sex enough to 'switch sides'. That's a man thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 07:17 PM
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Don't do that. 35-40 is where sperm quality starts taking a nose dive. The man is responsible for the quality of the placenta. When the placenta quality is at its worst it leads to death for mum or late pregnancy death of the baby. When sperm quality is poor it leads to gestational diabetes, pre-eclampsia, morning sickness etc. And if mum or the baby doesn't have a permanent disability mum will simply have a hard pregnancy. If you're going to wait till 40, be in the gym, eat clean, no alcohol et…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 07:15 PM
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All men are privaleged comes from the fact we live in a patriarchy. It's not evil, it just is what it is. Everything has been designed for and with men in mind and women are an afterthought. A example is that all car safety crash testing is done for males/male bodies. Female parameters are represented by a smaller than average male. Another is the 9-5 workplace without provison for onsite childcare. 9-5 as work hours meet a male physiology of testosterone being highest first thing in the morning…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 07:04 PM
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Men in pain are more likely to get into fights or try to kill others women in pain are more likely to self harm and try to kill themselves. ... Women are bad at violence so don't succeed often with killing themselves...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 06:49 PM
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Because pregnancy can take years to recover from for most women, especially if breast feeding is occurring. Some women have end up permanently disabled (varying degrees) some women recover but all women have to manage a new hormone profile and a chronic anxiety around their children's wellbeing that fathers don't have. This is often why you see mothers cry when their children get upset at them being left at day care. Not including the baby blues and other well established mental health challenge…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 06:46 PM
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I'm not talking about those women I'm talking about women, full stop. If that's your focus. For complaint you really don't understand our psychology at all, and when I say turn on I mean the entire thing of feeling attracted, safe, interested etc all before sexual appeal
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 06:08 PM
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Men and women are both humans. So that's the equality By good time I assume you mean have sex. But to do that youre a predator. Hypersexual women are so because of childhood (usually sexual) abuse and 'easy' women are naieve either due to age, autism or learning difficulties. The type of women men hope to come across for their good time are rarely naturally occurring and normally made through trauma. So its not that women need special treatment but women expect a higher level of social functioni…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 06:05 PM
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Don't discourage men with close to zero emotional intelligence to pursue real life women when all they want is the ego boost from accessing something female enough to brag to other men about. You're just hurting other women. Some men were born for sex dolls and prostitutes. They don't 'like' women as people, simply as bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 11:16 PM
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Escorts are perfect for you If you see 'courting' women as paying for sex then you don't get it and likely don't have the genetics to ever understand. That empathy is just missing.... Same for any guy who thinks marraige should secure him access to sex, a cleaner and A cook... A prostitute, take out and a cleaning company are perfect for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 11:13 PM
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You don't understand what turns a woman on if this is your take....
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 10:56 PM
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Net, yes, very much cheaper. A woman's Labour in the home and in child rearing v the cost of a wedding, ring plus additional food isn't comparable. A single man still needs a roof, utilities and food. If he wants children renting a womb is 6 figures as is an egg. A woman is a cook, cleaner, nurse, p.a., entertainer, therapist, social capital, etc. And that's a woman that doesn't work at all. Women that contribute 50% financially pay half the cost for a man having to put a roof over his head and …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 10:10 PM
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Feminism is about the right of women to choose their lives... Previously women were legal property to their husbands or fathers. It is about female autonomy, which branches to the welfare of children and as boy children grow, men. It has nothing to do with sex. Just women's ability to choose from whatever life has to offer. Many men have a sexual addiction so are very interested in how every change in the world affects their access to sex. Women do not have a sexual addiction unless abuses as a …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 10:03 PM
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You're either young or a guy trolling and I can't work out which one. Opression is a fact of life for males and females of every species. Feminism is the fight for choice against the current system of idealogical oppression. Feminism looks different in different places because the idealogical oppression is not the same everywhere because culture and politics are not. That is why feminism is about freedom of choice and not abolishing a specific type of Opression. And the animal rights movement al…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:59 PM
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Don't go slandering all men now. Some men had a good dad who taught them how to make sure they and their families are alaays looked after. Those men were taught everything and told a man can do everything.... Its like 50 years ago to be a man you needed to build a house get married and plant a tree. There are still men in the west who will get their uncles down and build a house on land they bought... Or renovate a house they bought in the city, then go look for a wife. Different cultures have d…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:50 PM
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Not all, a lot of. Downs, autism and many others. There are chromosomal problems from being too genetically related, or either parent having a dodgy egg/sperm that one time But robalems that come from the mother generally are carrying problems eg insufficnet hormonal regulation to support the pregnancy and illness or abnormality is generally the father eg gestational diabetes, downs syndrome
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:47 PM
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All men are slaves to their d*ck. If it tells them to touch kids best believe they'll be outside a school at 3pm
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:44 PM
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Men don't want to spend money, even on a fleshlight...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:43 PM
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Kindness is power To be generous you must have a lot of something yourself. Kind men are generally secure and mentally stable. Niceness is not kindness and women are constantly measuring personality proxies... Its the most important thing to a woman. A personality match
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:41 PM
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Men don't want to pay prostitutes so bitterly stay with their aging wives and have free sex. This is what they mean by stuck. They want free sex with the women they want to have free sex with but they cant
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 02:29 PM
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That's a wild statement. Men are lucky to access any woman outside of paid prostitution... To say them getting any wife is settling shows you have no clue how hard it is for men to get women to sneeze in their direction
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 02:26 PM
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Any woman with a developed brain hits the wall in the eyes of a pedophile.... Thats why not all men agree with the wall philosophy, only a sunset of men who are constantly trying to talk to teenagers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 02:19 PM
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You have somehow disproved. Your own point with your own references in B Old (unhealthy) fathers cause most of the chromosomal abnormalities and pregnancy sicknesses in women, regardless of that woman's age. Younger women tend to deal with those illnesses better than older women. Gestational diabetes for example, as well as morning sickness, pre-eclampsia etc are the fathers fault as are most of the conditions deadly to the mother. Older women are more likely to have weaker bodies unable to deal…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 02:11 PM
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Kpop femboy aesthetic (which not all Kpop idols follow) is a personality indicator. Young women love taking strong edgy secure men and painting their nails or putting them in pink. That's what those women are looking at, making men cute. It has nothing to do with social status, glamour or aesthetic as such. It's like people who dress up their cats and their dogs. They'll still feel the same about their pets without the cute hats. Men need the glamour and aesthetic to feel the required level of a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 02:00 PM
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... You don't know what feminism is or how it came about then.... 50 years ago women didn't have the choice to not attach herself to an abusive man, women didn't have the choices you have today. If you have a bank account, don't live under a father's or husbands roof, go to the doctor on your own, think marital rape is a husbands right and that women should be legal property of men... Then you're right, you're not a feminist and there are old women today who truly are not feminists. They grew up…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:54 PM
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The reason why men are simple is because their dck have full veto and voting rights. When you're dealing with a man just speak directly to his dck, that's the brain that is in charge
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:46 PM
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Let's be honest men don't care about pretty or nice. They care about keeping their d*ck. Happy. If it says jump they ask how high, if it says marry that woman who takes all your money and uses it on botched plastic surgery she's now addicted to they nod and handover their wallets.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:45 PM
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It probably wasn't even that he liked 45f. It was probably just he found someone he could be sexully open with, without worry and who then indulged him.... I have yet to hear a story about a man who cheated who didn't do it purely for sexual gratification a man who cheats doesn't respect women... Not the new one or the old one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:40 PM
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They don't find guys 'so insecure or addicted to working out that it's their perosnality' attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:35 PM
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Your mum wasnt wrong. Be your best self and at least 1 woman will like you romantically. What she didn't add was that those women may not be the ones you want and the older you get, the bigger the potential gap between you and women. .... She probably didn't realise she was raising an entitled son and you would turn your nose up at any woman. This is why i feel sorry for late blooming men. A woman will never have lower standards for dating than when she is young, cared for by parents and ignoran…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:33 PM
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You've confused a lot of historical context. Historically women were much less approachable than they are now. Over the last few hundred years governments have wanted to populate areas and encouraged promiscuity... The era of 'free love' in the 70s came about when women were starting to become their own legal entities whereas before they were legal property of husbands or fathers. A lot of young men have gotten 'old' dating advice which was appropriate for the 70s when women couldn't have bank a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:24 PM
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I see what you're saying but I think you have a bias. Some women jump between men and will have a sugar baby setup where they will be fully looked after. They will move less often between men but have no issues moving as often as they need. There's also the women who don't want men having the ability to integrate themselves in their lives and just want to sex. They will also move between men and not want a penny from them. Both women need a level of promiscuity to do this though the first one ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:05 PM
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Some men just see financially taking care of a woman as a thing men do. Regardless of how much money she has....its like men who were raised to be able to service their own cars or do the electric work in their home. They may earn well more than enough to pay someone else to do it rather than getting dirty but it's something men should be able to do, so they do it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:00 PM
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Most women aren't 4th wave feminists. Every woman that doesn't cover her face outside and that wouldn't allow her husband to sell their teen daughter to pay the mortgage early is at least a 1st or 2nd wave feminist... Because that's the sort of things men were doing before the western feminism movement started
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 12:50 PM
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Feminism is about the right to choose. All women will agree that in the current state of patriarchy, where capitalism has allowed the life of the average person to be physically and financially unsafe a man that can provide financial and physical safety will get BONUS POINTS. Women do not choose men based on those things, men get bonus points for them. Especially if that woman wants children. Patriarchy hurts men most because it conditions men to be entitled to women, to look, talk, smile, use t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 12:47 PM
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You've sent your last few messages talking about how you've hyper focused on a woman you know to be unhealthy.... That is the reason I am sure you are happy wallowing in your level of mud. You have no idea of the potential clean waters out there. You have everything you want where you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:48 AM
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Emotionally unhealthy women are attracted to emotionally unhealthy men. The fact you notice and harbour resentment over it highly suggests you want the emotionally unhealthy women.... Because you're emotionally unhealthy yourself. Those women aren't the average or majority. Just in the circles you're in and looking at. You're like a pig rolling in mud complaining there are no large bodies of water to swim in...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:38 PM
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Shariah law is practiced wherever devout Muslims find themselves in a community that will allow it to govern them. And in non-Muslim majority countries Muslims are obliged to take over, once they hit a certain percentage of and strength within that country. Shariah outlines government and how it should run....also a government by definition exercises power and direction over communities as well as countries. Nothing wrong with my understanding of English.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:34 PM
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Men can't tell the difference between lust and love.... Especially when young. The first time most men understand love in the way women speak of it is when they have their first child.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 02:42 PM
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Escorts who take a job just to be arm candy for an evening, not for any sexual activities, will charge a few hundred an hour..... You have taken this woman's time for free, to be an awful host she feels the need to run away from early and then you'll make her pay for her food.... Your issue is men around you value women more, so when you give them half hearted/crappy treatment they will walk away. You're not special and you don't treat them as if they are special... Why expect them to waste thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 02:39 PM
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If she left early it's to get away with you. Women don't just leave decent company. Imagine you're offering to buy her a 3 course meal and she can't stand you enough to wait around for dessert.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 02:35 PM
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Plenty of men are just raised to be providers just like some men are just raised to be able to do the basics of cars, house maintenance and to open doors for women. It's not a trade in their mind it's just what men do... Some men have been told they can buy the woman they want and she will never leave if he makes her finaivally dependent.... Both types of men and upbringing are Not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 02:33 PM
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Man dying of thirst in a desert complains a woman dying of thirst whilst stranded in the middle of the ocean should be less passive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 02:30 PM
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That's mid-high level private school fees, especially if it's boarding. Forget about uniform transport etc. A man whose income calculates that small percentage as his payments should be sending his kids to a decent school
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 02:24 PM
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The ingrown hairs occur from shaving. If they let a Bush grow free they wouldn't have an ingrowing problem
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 02:11 PM
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Both are terms designed to explain how men are unable to integrate their perception of people. A woman can have maddonna and whore traits a man can be an alpha with beta benefits. People's psyches are that polarised. If they are either than person has a personality disorder or your personality disorder is causing them to polarise around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 02:07 PM
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Most women don't care about looks. Most women are sexully attracted to your personality. They lust after your personality. A good looking guy who she considers to have a child's mind will not get her lust. I the same way you like but don't really lust after a woman's personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 02:01 PM
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Well adjusted men need to teach boys and other men how to be socially adjusted but men don't care about men.... Which is why you're never good friends with each other and need women in the firstplace
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 01:53 PM
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Men and women aren't biologically equal. Women risk their lives to birth children and many men risk their li es to be able to participate in the opportunity to get a woman pregnant. The hormonal incentives around sex are not the same, women do not care about or value sex in the same way men do
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 01:26 PM
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Women don't approach men because 1/3 of them are dangerous to women. We can't tell which ones, men won't tell us which ones and it is easier to sift through the men that approach us, as it gives us more information on them (and if we get it wrong at least we didn't deliver ourselves into the lap of an unhinged man) than approach additional men, who won't say no if they think there's a chance f sex, despite not being that attracted to or interested in us, plus dealing with the men approaching us.…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 12:56 PM
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The advice is correct the wording is wrong. "at least be/appear confident" Insecure men appear creepy to women for good reason. If she likes you and there is social proof you're not a weirdo she might think you're cutely shy, but that puts you into the aww he needs to be looked after category, not the hmmm he seems masculine category. A lack of confidence loses you points and makes things unecessarily hard. So when you're told just be confident. Those people believe you have the prerequisites if…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 12:50 PM
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I prefer a WoW guy to a guitar player. Just like men women have different tastes and hobbies. You're looking for a woman who shares your interests so expand into all of your interests. Don't pick up something you have no interest in else you'll end up with the common complaint of 'before we got married we'd used to - Insert hobbies-together but now he's lazy and won't go and I'm misetable
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 12:42 PM
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Many women aren't attractive to men, many men aren't attractive to women. Neither are entitled to the other. Women are okay with that. Men go insane at the idea and want to burn the world down. And when I say attractive I don't mean alluring as a hole to put you dick in, i mean as a whole person to try and build a life with. Men boil everything down to sex too often an. Wonder why women think their sexual attention is a joke when men are known for putting their dicks in anything alive or dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 12:37 PM
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"Just be yourself". They mean "be the best version of yourself." Anything else is pretending to be someone else which means you can never relax or be loved for you and if you try the other person will leave, angry that you lied to them
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 12:34 PM
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Society is government. Were you dropped on your head as a baby? Shariah has their own version of courts and judges and the punishments are given to those who are deemed guilty by such courts and judges. Different names, same concepts, same powers that the society gives to small groups to hold over individual. S
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 12:32 PM
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It can scale as far as the local patriarchal system will allow That's always been the problem. The patriarchal system goes in, uses brute force to take what it wants or believes is of value and subjugated everything below it. Patriarchal systems canabalise themselves after a while though if there aren't local systems to consume being either matriarchal or a weaker patriarchal one. When the world was smaller men used to steal resources from neighbouring villages be that food, 'wives', clothes, sl…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 11:38 PM
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Before marraige you know what the state. Or countries laws are on marital unions. If you don't like them you can add pre or post nuptual contracts to amend the default one.... But every contract under the sun is enforced by the or a government.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 11:27 PM
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The type of capitalism we have is bastardised. Companies having this much power over individual workers is a result of patriarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:49 AM
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Child bearing family units" are the only way society perpetuates itself in a stable way... Uh no. That is the Abrahamic way of doing things. The Abrahamic religion way of doing things spread through the world by the sword. Those who didn't conform died and with them cultural diversity. But if we look at societies that either were untouched by Abrahamic religious groups or 'converted' recently in history we see communal sometimes matriarchal groups. Sometimes where men are kicked out after a cert…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:45 AM
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All coveture laws that only started being repealed in the late 1900s and some still stand on statute books today. Litterally they were the laws outlining how women were the possessions of men. Fathers or husbands....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:38 AM
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The male mind is hierarchical. Someone has to be at the bottom for someone to be at the top. This is why patriarchy will always be unequal and oppressive for many. Matriachy is more communal everyone gets what they need and everyone contributes what they can. More communal possibly communist. It sets mens teeth on edge. Because it's so far from their pyramid scheme way of thinking where working hard is to get to the top, not to care for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:37 AM
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Patriarchy in the west is weakened but not dead. Patriarchy is just a world built on the male fantasy. Sometimes some fantasies can't function and they shift to a different form of a man's ultimate fantasy but... Its still very much clearly there and they hurt society in general. Just because women are no longer legal posessions (slaves) of their husbands and fathers doesn't mean the male fantasy isn't still running rampant through society.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:33 AM
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A marraige contract would still be enforceable by the state... Who do you think enforces contracts?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:29 AM
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Question: "heard about a women who complains about how her Boyfriend doesn't clean up after himself and rarely showers. Instead of feeling sympathy for her I asked myself "why is she continuing to be with him then? Why is she continuing to tolerate this behaviour instead of leaving?" Answer : She has the heart of a mother. She believes he's defective and loves him anyway so tries to help him but is still burdened by his dependency... As all mothers are. Good people tend to get taken advantage of…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:26 AM
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I read everything. My response is appropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:16 AM
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Then you didn't read the responses...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 08:25 AM
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You have no idea how rapey your comment is. Sir you many act a nice guy but you are not what we'd consider a good man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 08:06 AM
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By good I believe you mean 'nice guy' Women are very off put by the fakeness of the nice guy. So being your open toxic self gets points for authenticity and slightly less ick for not being as much or a snake
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 08:01 AM
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Women don't need men. Women grow up thinking they do because they have weddings shoved down their throats from a young age and the idea that theyll find 'the one'. Then they hit 20s and meet men and realise most men aren't tolerable to live with, let alone finding 'the one' so their early 30s is the frustration of realising they'd been lied to by society and they start looking for 'good enough' or choose to stay single. But many men nowadays don't fit into the 'good enough' . They're financially…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 08:00 AM
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Women have lots of inbuilt systems that stop them from having children from genetically incompatible men. To reduce child deformities Men don't even have the inbuilt systems to ensure they're inserting themselves into their own species.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:55 AM
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Choose emotionally healthy women who had love since they were born and think not having it is weird. Though the fact your type is women that push you away emotionally suggests you're just as broken but complaining about it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:08 AM
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This is why antisocial men used to get branded and tossed out of the group before they could pass their antisocial genes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:06 AM
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Yes. Broken people are attracted to broken people emotionally. Predatory people will take an opportunity to leach from anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:05 AM
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Within female spaces men normally require some sort of vetting before they're accepted. he left out the important part. He's not going to shed meet-ups he's going to primarily nice feminine spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:04 AM
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Many men don't care about female company. It's simply different forms of female validation to prop their egos and regulate their anxieties and insecurities
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:02 AM
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Women that decenter men don't date or have sex unless a very special man comes along. That can be years of zero dating, zero sex with men and women are fine with that. If a woman wants a baby she can go directly to a sperm bank. You underestimate how little value mens validation and sex has for women once the shine of the 'Prince in shining armour' and romcom movies from her childhood shine wears off. Society works double time to convince women they should want to be around, sleep with and marry…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:00 AM
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Yes you're 100% right in that relationships we want have been a media fantasy product used to sell movies and songs and that men should be able to have a happy life without women or female validation....but you've come at it from the wrong angle. Men needed to have sexual attractive full stop and perosnality cannot make it grow. Women are the opposite. Emotional attraction has to be there and physical attraction will come if it wasn't there to begin with....but if you're able to be a self suffic…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:51 AM
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Men who wanted a house slave finally realising the courts see her as a person rather than chattel and that on divorce their wives labour is compensated.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:27 AM
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Females is too broad. Ask the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:26 AM
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A friend zoned person is a friend and treated as all other friends. They can come and or go, just like every other friend. Best of all, they know they're friends and can choose where they spend their time. Stringing someone along is cruel because they're not sure. They invest in the hopes of getting over the line because they think theyre on it or close to it. They cannot make an informed decision. About where to spend their time
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 11:12 PM
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Sure thing my guy. Keep paying women to swallow their disgust and spend time with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 11:10 PM
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Go to an ask women forum and hear it for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 11:09 PM
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Game has nothing to do with women choosing you as the man she will birth the future generations of. Women aren't shallow, at all. Men think women are, because it's the way they rationalise choices they don't understand. That being said definitions of game are different and I cannot lie. A short, bald etc man with good social value and confidence can get far more interest from women than a tall handsome guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 11:08 PM
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.... Sure.... The guy who doesn't understand the value of a shower gets female sexual validation.... Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 12:21 AM
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... No plenty of hot guys fall from grace when they open their mouths, I've said this already.... Or when women find out they're stinky and dirty
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 08:25 PM
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Men lie to women to get sex or a relationship That is the line you need to focus on. Men lie to the women they want because their personifies are not matched. Men do not have to lie to all women...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 08:22 PM
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Even flawed women don't want gross men. Even gay men don't want gross men... They'll try and push through because they value sex but even they have their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 08:21 PM
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The species where females can be raped normally can either hide their fertility windows or self abort the babies also tend to make that process very costly for the males forming social matriarvhies and kicking boys out before puberty...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 08:19 PM
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Everyone reacts to people words because they betray how people think. Only psychopaths or people deranged enough to relate to the worst of what people say don't have a visceral and avoidant response. Just like people will move if someone smells really bad....which is also another thing a handsome or otherwise okay man forgets about that loses them points. Adequate hygiene....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:16 PM
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Most men seek status through women, women helping them dress, being seen as 'not single', looking as though they're taken care of in some way. Etc. And ost men try to change women. It's a hangover from the narcissism of childhood. Men and women have to overcome this. Most women do by early 20s many men don't over a lifetime. Youve said you don't see the benefits of personality, yet you've said men HAVE to lie to women they do not have a perosnality compatibility with... Well lie or try to change…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 09:28 PM
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"To a starving man, there is no such thing as hard bread" - a young man Men seek status through women and feel entitled to a/multiplewoman that has their desired asthetic - they prioritise the status of their chosen asthetic (or getting as close as possible) ober personality compatibility. So they lie and pretend to be someone they're not, for as long as they can to secure the asthetic rather than living a peaceful and relaxed life with an attractive enough personality match
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 06:55 PM
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You don't like gold diggers or you don't like poor women? All the married female doctors I know dont pay for a thing and do the 'what's yours is mine and what's mine is mine' it's great hey look much less stressed out at work than the women who need to support a family whilst also having people die in their arms or care.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 08:51 AM
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The men's loneliness epidemic will stop when they start being friends with and likeable to each other. If you can keep a male friend you can start doing the work to keep female company.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 08:49 AM
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Ah..... Noooo! Did you plan on going home the next day or just hadn't thought that far ahead? Did you mum know she dropped you down? What a shame, she seems like a good woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 08:47 AM
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Hmmm. The problem men have is that they value aesthetic over compatibility. There are plenty of women who will prefer your disagreeable perosnality over a 'Wife is always right' guy....but men are so specific about their chosen asthetic it boxes them in a lot. When they're young they say I don't care about asthetic as long as I can get it up as they get older the status signalling from the asthetic becomes more important to them and trumps the perosnality they would need to match with to not hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 08:36 AM
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Ah thank you. I was thinking about this yesterday (minus your very valuable write up on resentment). It's strange women seem to want men who have integrated both sides but can't find them at all whereas most women have an integrated Madonna/whore but men treat them in a way where one gets repressed for self-protection.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 08:28 AM
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..... Dude. I'm laughing but genuinely feel bad for you. If it makes you feel better most women have that life. Especially daughters of immigrants. Maybe try to form connections there, you'll have a shared understanding for each others awkward moments
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 08:21 AM
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The manosphere strangely enough are men with fully developed 'feminine' energy and poorly developed 'masculine' energy. They lack the masculinity to do and get the outcomes they want so they sit and gossip it into creation (the best they can). It's jarring to see because women complain about things that affect them and the next generation (boys and girls) a monthly period will remind you of children, even if you don't have any. Men, given the chance have sat down to complain about things that af…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 08:12 AM
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Fat is an example of something that can be affected by perosnality but for most women isn't a huge red flag and sometimes women prefer it if they want a home bodied man. Men likely to be unwell due to fat is a bad perosnality trait but plenty of women prefer big men over fit or not fit ones. Sex toys? Fine but they're tools created for a purpose. You don't find women turning up at A&E because they saw an object Tring around the house and thought it might fit in one of their holes like men do. No…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 08:05 AM
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The scenario you suggested should be true but due to millenia of social engeneering isn't occurring, and it's causing cognitive dissonance and anger, mainly in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 07:59 AM
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Read the opening again
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 07:57 AM
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Considering how specific that idea was...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 07:55 AM
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This is why women say personality is important, looks don't matter. They don't mean looks don't matter at all but more when the chips are down personality indicators can trump phsycial attributes. Confidence is a perosnality indicator, an emotional maturity and stability indicator in fact and the best example of men who do well with this is short men. They will get a lot of interest from women if they ooze confidence but that is emotional attraction not physical attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 10:36 PM
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"And on the flipside, someone that's up there in looks and attractivness doesn't need to treat women nicely or respectfully to get their sexual interest....And if a top, 10/10 looks woman wants to fuck you, the fact she's not a good person won't make you go "uf, no she's not attractive to me at all". You might not marry her or commit to her, but the attraction is there." An attractive man who doesn't have the right perosnality can in incel speak go from 10 to 0. Like women will be dry like the S…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 10:32 PM
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Emotional attraction is about confidence. Physical attraction is determined by genetic preferences. Plenty of women would pass up Brad Pitt in his prime for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 10:25 PM
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Some women are so disgusted by the paltry choice in men they go their whole lives as willing virgins....it balances out
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 10:23 PM
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Men are struggling because their fathers weren't good enough.... I their fathers and garanafathers time, in the west, women legally needed a man to function in society, to get loans, to go the doctors, they weren't allowed in university classes unless attending as a plus one.... So many fathers didn't learn the skills to engage and entice women who aren't mandated by the state to need them and therefore didn't pass them onto their sons who were born into a world where coveture laws had been tras…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 10:21 PM
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"renting 9's" is why no women want to be around you unless they're being paid.....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 10:16 PM
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A woman could have told you that one day one for free...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 10:15 PM
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If only men like you could become gay and exit the realm of women's spaces completely....youre so self aware and like 95% of the way there
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 10:11 PM
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Status is not about confidence or looks.... Popularity can be confidence and/or looks but those are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 10:07 PM
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If you ask a woman about her looks preference she will start talking about face If you ask about attractiveness reference she'll talk about perosnality
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 10:06 PM
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Men and women are the same untill they're opposites.... Sexually appealing men can become the grossest creatures on the planet after opening their mouths for 5 minutes. "treat a woman well/better" is always solid advice to stop you from losing points or gaining enough to get you over the line. The problem comes when that level of niceness isn't something the men can maintain which is why you'll find lots of women to tell you stories about how they thought they had a kind and loving man and after…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 10:04 PM
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Powerful men tend to have a confidence level and an ease with moving through society due to interpersonal skills that is attractive. But status means litterally nothing to women, especially when it's determined by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 10:01 PM
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Women aren't attracted to status, women are attracted to usefulness as defined by her. It's why there are rich and powerful lonely men who get a hi5 at work from the bros and cry into the skirts of prostitutes on the weekends.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:52 PM
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I don't think any woman goes on a date with a man she can't at least confidently know she'd kiss but then he opens his mouth and the thought of even sitting next to him makes her skin crawl. You do lose points of dates due to personality guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:49 PM
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Looks are not height or weight.... At least not to women. If you say looks ill be talking about the face and if he played contact sports he's probably not a pretty boy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:46 PM
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Your problem is your definition of attractive. Women talk about perosnality traits when thinking of an attractive man. Men tend to think of looks when asked about attractiveness. Ask women what looks and body type that they prefer.... Be specific about that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:45 PM
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You mean the guy who openly says he targets vulnerable women because they're easier to manipulate?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:43 PM
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You're unreal. Do you know how athletic you have to be to be a cheerleader and the head one is normally the most motivated and organised if not also the most talented of the team.... The power in those thighs to get the spring height, the flexibility requicked the shoulder and back strength and let's not even get into any tumbling routines.... Only a guy who has no exercise experience could say something like that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:40 PM
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That is how it normally works in nature but within human societies we've had a thousand years or so of societies making women legally dependent on men so fathers have forgotten the natural ways and now that women are no longer legally dependent on men to live no-one is teaching the boys correctly and the boys are flailing. Historically men (on average) are lucky to be picked by any woman, despite her face or body type. Men are also lucky to live to 30 without having their heads caved in by anoth…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:37 PM
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Women are human too. If you raise a woman in a war zone/cartel locality she will grow with dark triad perosnality traits or a desire to be protected by someone with them. Maslows hierarchy say that survival is the most basic need, if she does not have tools for survival men with those tool will be attractive to her. If you raise the same woman in a middle classed western society her taste in men will be vastly different. Men are chosen by their usefulness in a woman's eyes, not his status in oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:31 PM
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Women are picker about perosnality traits that impact presentation. There's a huge difference. Men have been known to attempt reproduction with animals and inanimate objects. Men have 0 standards as long as they can imagine it to be 'female enough'
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:25 PM
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Op isn't talking about a relationship. Op is talking about utilising feminine attributes to self medicate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 02:14 PM
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Women are very picky about personality Men are very picky about looks Shrugs. That's nature for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 02:10 PM
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Trust me, women aren't picky. They will drink muddy water and hope it doesn't kill them a few years down the line. "I can change him/clean it" they cry! Women that stay single are the ones on a raft floating In the ocean grateful they're not floating through the sewers as they know some other women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 10:59 PM
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Is there anything immoral about manipulating people into investing their time and energy into you so you can self medicate with them and then discard them when you're ready? Most qocieties have some sort of rule against stealing. I'd say that the most fundamental form of theft
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 10:57 PM
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Generally only when men decide to leave their families for an opportunity with a woman of a higher feminine status....that causes a lot of societal problems. I don't care either way. I made the point men are attracted to looks and status, not women and you took umbridge with the statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 10:54 PM
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Going to the gym is a perosnality trait. Knowing how to dress reasonably well/cleanly is a perosnality trait. Having tidy hair comes from a perosnality trait. Not having a posture induced hunchback is a personality trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 10:52 PM
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What men find beautiful is not equal to who men marry and have children with/take as misresses (I'm not talking about brief and fleeting sexual encounters here. If we're talking about brief sexual encounters men will find anything with a slight curve or in the worse cases anything 'female enough' adequate) The male image you're speaking of is just the most masculine image. You're describing indicators of high testosterone and therefore indicators of more likely being a man than woman. Low testos…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 10:08 AM
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Exactly, men (in general) are attracted to status indicators.... There are some men who are not. And the local crack head he sees sleeping on the pavement will also rustle him What men find beautiful is extremely culturally tailored. The most desired women ( as determined by marraige or mistress hood) varies wildly depending on the time in history or country and trends often start with the highest status women and then get adopted lower down as women start having to adopt it or lose the chance o…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 08:57 AM
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Women partner for personality so ye, they partner with men more similar to their personalities, because they like themselves and are stable people. If only 3% of men can be relatable to women, earn as much and have sociable hobbies men have a big issue. There is no 80 20 rule in this regard. Its not a universal law in the same way equilibrium is. I will say in the same way men see boobs, hips and clear skin as sexuallu appealing signs women see some personality traits of men in the same way, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 08:51 AM
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You're either old or inexperienced in life. Women are out earning men and more likely to be bread winners even when producing children now than ever before. Men get alimony too. They have done since late 1800s. The cases of women taking half of something worth anything was either back in the day when women legally couldn't earn much and had 10 children for a man 10+ years older than her or the time where an average/below average man could earn enough to have those things and keep a woman at home…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 08:34 AM
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Yes. Men aren't attracted just to indicators of fertility, they're normally attracted to 'feminine' status indicators. It's why men covet not pretty celebrities/cheerleaders/anything else of that ilk over very biologically attractive but non glamours women. Men tend to demand in women what seems to be popular in men's eyes, I think its gay as hell but i do believe homosocial is the correct term where men can sway each others views on the status and therefore desirability of the women they are in…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 08:29 AM
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Most women aren't interested in short term sex. Most women tend to the sexuallu Conservative side, which is whys men struggle with cold approaching and have to manipulate women into situationships and whatever other names there are for the bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 10:22 PM
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Because there was a level of attraction and she was able to know him better in a safe environment....and like him even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 10:18 PM
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.... Men just have to do hard things again. Form strong social groups partly through participating in charity, start up businesses within the community so they're fianically independent. Spend their time building social capital and becoming indepensible to the community. Men forget. Males are attracted to status, females are attracted to usefulness (which is sometimes but not always rewarded with status). I like to say 'be the man you wish your father was' because everyman knows what they need t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 10:14 PM
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When you tell women to lower their standards which standards do you mean then?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 10:02 PM
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That used to be the case because couples were having children int heir late 20s early 30s so had less time to maintain friendships. You don't become less socialble on your 30th birthday
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 09:57 PM
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TLDR: men use women and sexual validation from them as natural drugs to numb the pain of failing in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 09:54 PM
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Most men are clueless about the average female experience. A lack of empathy a around
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 09:48 PM
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The way you make it seem like predatory women are roaming the streets looking for men down in their romantic luck to "pick up" and bend over in an alleyway is quite funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 09:44 PM
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Person A:dying of thirst in a desert Person B dying of thirst in an ocean.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 09:42 PM
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.... Im glad you had an epiphany.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 09:30 PM
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That didn't use to happen often. Mind you. Age of consent for marraige in a lot of the western world was 12...only a couple of hundred years ago and boys would have been working ad earning money, contributing to the household since 6 or 7 years old. "modern men" are children by many standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 09:28 PM
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Apearance is an indicator of social status, especially for men. Women are looking at bone structure and men are looking at glamour and aesthetic....
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 09:25 PM
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.... No, that's not true at all. Men are at different points on a scale. I might tell you to bathe (something many incels need to hear and heed) and it might do nothing for you because that wasn't your main problem. The main issue I normally see with incels is they say girlfriend but they mean free prostitute. They try to treat women like free prostitutes and are confused by the response.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 09:23 PM
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Men are hard work in the eyes of all women and offer very little. So women are looking for a man she can tolerate and love, not the best man in the world. Which is why when women bring up issues, they never let them go, they are pointing out the straw about to break the camels back.... Which leads us onto divorce. Most women do file because men make them miserable and are a high cost low reward venture. It's also why most women never remarry after a divorce. They took a chance on a guy they thou…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 09:20 PM
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If you have a bad friend stop being friends...this is tuff you should have learned ins school.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 09:14 PM
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Yes. Millenials+ grew up on that and are now having a collective aneurysm over the fact that in nature the female always has higher value and makes always compete for access and it is the fittest (definition is environment and culture dependent) that get attention and access from females. Men of old knew this that's why the idea of a man building a home before getting married and then promising to fund a woman's life was ingrained in pretty much every culture untill a little bit after the indust…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:40 PM
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Men who are looking for hookups will put their d*cks anywhere. Women therefore will always have value to a subset of men.... But male validation has always been worthless due to that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:31 PM
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Older women aren't looking for commitment from younger men most of the time, they realise they're incapable of many things, so they don't expect it. So younger men dont have to fiance anything ad have low expectations in terms of having their lives together. Basically women that aren't worried about getting pregnant (even by accident) don't care about the reproductive viability of the man they're with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:28 PM
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What deception and manipulation? Just to be clear. Were weighing up a woman being told she has a 'safe place' to potentially get pregnant within if she chooses to engage with this man and then finds out he lied about everything to feel the validation and biological high of having the sensation of getting her pregnant. Versus...?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:23 PM
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Young men struggle because they have undesirable personalities. When they mature they do better. This is why most women date and marry older than their own age (by a few years). They found the immaturity level of the men their ages to be undesirable. Even in high-school girls turn down boys in their year and look at the older more mature boys in the years above. It's not a woman's job to fix you. .. Maybe your mothers....but you need to decide to grow up and then follow through
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:18 PM
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Women like vulnerability. They dislike dysregulation. No-one likes male dysregulation. Even men don't. Like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:58 PM
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Friends ask each other for favours... Friends go above and beyond to help each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:57 PM
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If you're close enough to be her friend that's highly unlikely to happen.... Not unless you were pretending to be gay to be in the room changing together or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:55 PM
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... If you say so. Plenty of marraiges and children being born. You're not getting tm at because there are issues. If you feel better focusing on the lower tier of female personalities go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:54 PM
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Women do, all the time. Men get angry and ignore them. Or assume women are a monolith and should have 100% the same needs so reject any advice with a small discrepancy from the narrative they've chosen
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:52 PM
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...i believe you even less now. What man posts a picture of his girlfriend up as fap fodder for other men? Also she's in a bikini top and shorts... Could be any dating app profile pic
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:48 PM
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Men (in general) need women in a way most women won't ever understand. If an island of women found out a man was 3 Islands away, they'd say cool and carry on with their day. No man is better than a cost inflicting man and most men are cost inflicting as a default because they have higher rates of dysregulation and then acting that dysregulation out, whereas women normally deal with it internally. It hasn't been 50 years in the west since women legally didn't need a man. I think the last laws got…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:45 PM
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.... Sure. We believe you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:38 PM
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Said woman is 'in love' and therefore struggles to leave. Love gets the ugliest, lowliest of men lifetime loyalty and service
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:34 PM
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Women are as abundant as precious stones but highly sought and often a status symbol because its hard to obtain one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:33 PM
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Those women are mad about the deception and manipulation. Polyamorus women don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:30 PM
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Plenty of women are happier single than with a guy that inflicts costs on her
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:29 PM
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You want her due to her appearance and social status..... Women aren't thinking like that. Th ose are man thoughts
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:28 PM
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It's that men have so many flaws women are looking at who meets their tolerance level. That's why women are so dogged about 1 or 2 specific things. They are the straws that would break the camels back and women are trying to tell you that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:26 PM
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When desperate men are inserting themselves into animals and inanimate objects I would comfortably argue all women are desirable
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:20 PM
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Women report lower happiness because they have less of a community. Religion builds in community. No woman is unhappy about not having to stay with a useless or violent man untill death parts them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:17 PM
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Yes and no. It depends on how bad the issues are and how well they deal with it day to day. Just like men don't mind kids with an anxious woman but would say no to the bipolar drug addled mess
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:14 PM
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Yes and no. 1. Social media allows women to learn from each others mistakes so cultural gaslighting gets dismantled and women get to learn Red flags they thought were normal due to upbringing or bad family examples are not normal Dating apps. Women get to see men and have the space to work out what they are attracted to, sometimes traits they didn't even know existed before. Women no longer legally need a man to survive. Coverture laws pretty much everywhere have been repealeds so there is the c…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 09:25 AM
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You're missing the point. OP is talking about the male experience and limitations and you're inserting your female experience to invalidate it. Then adding that women are valuable than men...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 09:18 AM
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There is an empathy gap but it's due to men being difficult. Men have a loneliness epidemic because even men don't want to be their own and each others friends. Women don't have that because women are not as difficult to be with or around. I don't blame men as individuals there's a lot biochemically that make men difficult to be around, they are more likely to. Be dysregulated and when dysregulated. More. Likely to cause harm to their environment and others in it. Its just easier to be kind to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 09:10 AM
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Women date/marry men their friends call ugly all the time. This is why it's said women fall in love with their ears and men their eyes. Looks don't mean much (though they do mean something) When women speak of 'the bar' they speak of personality. They're saying the personalities of men are so poor they'd rather be single. This doesn't mean all of these men are bad people but it means they are too far on the extreme of certain traits that makes them detrimental (in that woman's eyes) to pair up w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 09:02 AM
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Women tolerating abuse for access to resources is the same as an animal born into a zoo not escaping, even when transferred to another zoo. The level of normal has been set and there is no ability to dream of a better life. It's how we get culture. What shit were you raised to tolqrate as a child tends to be the shit you tolerate and perpetuate as an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:53 AM
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Women choose men that are reflective of how well they are treated/safe they are within the world. Women in safe established economies are not attracted to the level of low morality that can mean life or death for women (or their families) in war torn and unstable countries. Unless their upbringing and communities are unstable and violent. I don't understand how men don't understand this still. Women don't care about status at all, they are attracted to what makes them feel safe in their immediat…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:50 AM
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Being strung along is to have a reasonable belief that you have something but no confirmstion as o the other person has plausible deniability. Which is situationships. Every aspects of a relationship bar the confirmation of it. Friendzone doesn't have a reasonable belief of anything just a gdneral hope after many indicators of the negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:03 AM
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Spoken as a man who has no clue how horrific pregnancy is.....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:00 AM
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Eating is a consequence of low self esteem And low-self esteem is a consequence of being fat and undesirable due to this. It seems your energy match is the obese girlie's. You should date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:56 AM
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But doesn't hold on to them for long it seems. Women aren't god you know. We make bad decisions due to childhood trauma and being decieved. Women tend to leave once they realise their mistakes. The ones that don't get put in a box early
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:54 AM
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Adam never told Eve not to eat the apple. God only informed Adam and god only showed up once Adam ate it. Men are bad leaders, always blaming others. Adam truly was the first man and Eve was described as cursed for having to deal with him. I'm always amused that the Bible references unmarried/single women as blessed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:52 AM
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That was the case 50 years ago because women had to marry to access a bank account 1970s or a decent income 1990s Now women can get a best friend to be a housemate/split a mortgage. Unless a woman wants children there is no need to be in a relationship with a man. Now it's more she wins or she stops playing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:47 AM
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What happens if you're not struggling with dating as a man, should you still view women's complaints differently?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:44 AM
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Salty men never change. They just mask for a few years, then go back to being asshole then claim they were blind sided when their nagging and miserable wife finally file for divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:43 AM
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If you you could understand. Most men are negative value, some men are low value and a vanishingly small number or men are moderate to high value to women and society in general. Its why prisons are full no matter where you go, crime is controlled by threat of punishment and women naturally do their best to stay away from men at aren't pre screened in some way for safety. Then after that you have the hoards of men who aren't harmful, but they're difficult to be around for half a day let alone a …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:40 AM
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If you you could understand. Most men are negative value, some men are low value and a vanishingly small number or men are moderate to high value to women and society in general. Its why prisons are full no matter where you go, crime is controlled by threat of punishment and women naturally do their best to stay away from men at aren't pre screened in some way for safety. Then after that you have the hoards of men who aren't harmful, but they're difficult to be around for half a day let alone a …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:40 AM
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Stringing someone along and friend zoning a very different. Stringing along is more in the context of situationships. Everything that should be there is there but theirs no final commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:28 AM
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Beauty is a sign of status and men are status driven creatures. That's about it. What is beautiful is largely dependent on societal conditioning and changes depending in country and time in history. And yes, any man interested in a pre menopausal woman should make more than her 'for the good of the community' because if she gets pregnant, her economic output capacity will drop during pregnancy (let's ignore the health risks that come with pregnancy for a mokment as well) and at least the first 5…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:13 AM
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That's sad for teenagers, maybe early 20s but how old do you have to be before you start looking at the world objectively and thinking for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:11 AM
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Because women's standards relate to family formation and community maintenance. Men's standards relate to the way a person looks, at least whilst outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:07 AM
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Women are desperately looking for good men, by a female standard. Obviously poor quality men never admit it and always say they're good enough. 1+2= if a man is having really severe dating problems he is probably not self aware and thinks he's a catch when women would rather chew off their arm than be with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:05 AM
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They trigger you because they hit at the heart of your insecurity. "other men can do it, the problem is you"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:02 AM
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Even women with poor options choose to be single rather than deal with subpar men....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:01 AM
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Men only get friend zoned when they're not honest with their intentions and then resent other people for not going out of their way to mind read and bend over backward to make a decision in the friend zoned guys best interest. If you want to have a sexual relationship, tell her, if you're too scared, endure the life of a coward. It's pretty simple. Men hate being accountable for their actions
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 02:57 AM
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1 is getting rarer to find now days as we have so many sub cultures within cultures. We're mixing so much and have so much choice that people can grow up in the same place with similar parenting and still have so many different preferences. But you only need to agree on the important things/have similar enough values, everything else is for compromise
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 09:55 AM
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"And plenty who will say yes even if they don’t like her, but want a chance to get laid." - this is the part I'm talking about. "But are you going to say yes if you have absolutely no attraction to her?" I don't think a man can have zero attraction to a woman. Men get bricked up over curvy wood, men dressed as women, clothes that make them think of women, the voices of women etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 09:50 AM
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Sad. Especially because a man (of any sexual orientation) is more likely to be sexually assaulted by a man than falsely accused of sexual assault by a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 05:43 PM
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Plenty of women have similar stories of not finishing their degrees to move across stare to be with some abusive asshole who baby traps her later and she's working crappy jobs to support her family. Bad people are bad people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 05:34 PM
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You haven't found a compatible person where you don't need to compromise on much because you agree so much You haven't found someone you like enough that their smile/comfort is worth more to you than having your way on something small You are extremely rigid in your thinking and can't compromise at all or see the value in it. One of more of those is probably true.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 05:30 PM
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Average doesn't determine quality, just gives you an idea of hierachy. Certain environments may have an abunadance of high quality, where even below average is seen as high quality but the inverse is also true. An example is eye sight when flying a plane. Minimum requirements are set. It doesn't matter what the population average in sight is if it improves or gets worse, minimum requirements to do the job safely are what they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 05:26 PM
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The infrastructure was there because of the need for family formation. Untill men as a majority decide from a young enough age they want families, rather than to play the field and see what they can achieve, this will continue. Sorry to put this at mens feet but it's where the break down starts. Male antisocial behaviour makes girls strive to be independent of them when they're women. When men's antisocial behaviour manifests in their dynamics with women, women start being raised and wanting to …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 05:14 PM
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"Women don't avoid asking men out because it's hard. They avoid it because no man is going to say no, whether he likes her or not." I think I answered your question
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 05:01 PM
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So he wanted something but didn't ask because he didn't think he could or would get it so "settled" on a relationship he wasn't happy about. But then founds out his wife would and did provide the type of relationship he wants.... He's a bum for not asking for/marrying what he wanted then for blaming the wife for him not getting something he never asked for either because he's a coward or his self loathing was high and he didn't feel deserving. He should grow a pair and be open about what he want…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 08:04 PM
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Women don't avoid asking men out because it's hard. They avoid it because no man is going to say no, whether he likes her or not. It's not a question of courage untill you point out her guy didn't have the spine or the motivation
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 01:19 AM
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Men get confused. They want to be high in the hierarchy which requires men below them to acknowledge that. So young men get caught up in hierarchy games, forgetting the point of it is to determine who is more likely to access a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 01:06 AM
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That is litterally one of the pillars of patriarchy. For men to band together to fight the oppression of women and stand strong together against them. The problem is men forget women aren't oppressing them, it's millions of years of evolution telling them how to pass of their genes, but they don't like feeling helpless and invalidated by women. So the older men get, the lower the drive becomes, the less they need to band with other men for mental support to fight their biology
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 01:03 AM
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Men aren't social conditioned into worshiping females Males are biologically made up to do anything for female sexual and affection based validation. All males. Over thousands of years the males that didn't care for female validation didn't pass on their genes. Partiarchy was about giving every man one woman, which is why abrahamic religions say a man that does not provide for his wife is worse than a non-believer. If you're going to get gifted a woman, the least you should do is make sure she e…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:59 AM
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If you're not gay yet, you're going to learn to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:52 AM
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I think you miss the main point. The males of all species are programmed to want female approval and sexual validation. Especially ones they see as environmentally 'fit' The females of all species are programmed to like specific types of males they deem as 'fit' within the environment they forsee or live in. Men will always care about and work for fenlae validation, as much as their enlightened brain tells them not to. Even when their balls fall off they will still want the affection and validat…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:49 AM
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The jobs market became globalised and women only had to partner with men if they wanted to rather than to get a bank account or go to the doctors. So parents stopped trying to arrange marraiges by having lots of family and friends gatherings in the hopes of teenagers getting paired off with socially approved families. And the below average men could no longer 'buy' an opportunity with their earning advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:40 AM
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'hero'? Her guy needed saving?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:38 AM
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She loved him but didn't feel loved by him. So when you see the marital deadbedrooms. Those women love those men but they're also exhausted from having to care for him like a child as well as herself and feels like she's carrying everything. She doesn't feel loved by him. She (rightly) feels abused. And whether it's mental or physical abuse, few women, no matter the Stockholm syndrome can orgasm with that man... But like all abuse victims will compulsively seek validation through compulsive repe…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:35 AM
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Men can't age a woman or girl by looking at her so this is nonsense. Especially when they're on the younger side. Many kiddie fiddlers have tried the 'but I thought she was insert countries legal age' when they get caught and many men think women older than that bracket are within it. Men are attracted to aesthetic. Yes. That is different for different men. Yes. The litterally age doesn't mean much or anything. Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:28 AM
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You're thinking of a real golden era for men in the west when you think of your grandfather's time. Women had gotten the pill so the old ways of no sex before marriage and being married often as teens (as we still see in religious communities) in an arranged, though not forced way was gone. Both men and women had choice. On top of that the American(Western) dream had come into full fruition, families that had fled starvation and authoritarian countries had over a few generations settled in a pla…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:25 AM
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Nothing. My point exactly. The TV shows the male fantasy, men watch it from a young age and internalise it as somewhat standard within life and then 20 years later we get threads like these. Wondering why women are saying large age gaps aren't normal, they're a bit creepy infact. It's that or the trope of the skinny slightly awkward nerd in the end gets the high social status woman....and we're seeing that mass delusion play out now as well
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:44 AM
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Because those men value women and can't satisfy themselves with porn. Women tend to have an idea about men from seeing male teenagers and getting warnings from family. I'm pretty sure it's porn rather than the Internet in general
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:50 PM
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Boys are immunologically weaker than girls. So they often die more. Most of the aspects that balanced out the sexes were seen when women have children. Death rates and mental health problems go up whilst income plummets. Untill then women do very well. Men generally have their problems once the testosterone kicks in.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:31 PM
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...if you're attractive to women, then you're not a plan B. Or have I missed the definition of a BB - unattractive but has money. You've just described attractive an has money
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:26 PM
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You've heard the words but not understood them at all. Women are not impressed or flattered if you approach them with the hopes of having sex with them. Always approach them with the intention of playing on their court, personality, and romantic compatibility. same as point 1. No woman is flattered you think their asses are nice. Even if they smile sweetly and thank you for the compliment. This is why you flatter the clothes (and extension of her perosnality) and not the body part (an indication…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:22 PM
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This is beyond immature thinking though. Litterally it's the mindset toddlers have when deciding who to play with over lunchtime
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:15 PM
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Grooming is about a differential in intelligence and experience. Not age. Adults can be groomed. It's recognised by la.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:12 PM
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On TV shows written by men or in counties so poor that women routinely will prostitute themselves to buy medicine for their families?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:10 PM
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" less in a rush to marry, " is whybit seems manipulative. And just like dicaprio as soon as that woman is ready for marraige and children those older men dip. Unless she baby traps them first.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:08 PM
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You're an edgy guy clearly. I bet you have the best locker room talk
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:04 PM
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The risks ou mentioned exist no matter the men's declarations before the community and law. But if you think those are the only sexual risks women deal with I can understand why your empathy seems so low
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:03 PM
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I agree. But they do determine e your hormone levels for the most part. Your arousal and predilection for certain sexual interests. A strong willed person can always overcome that. But we're talking about the genetic makeup bringing an absence of temptation. Not whether it impacts the ability to deal with temptation
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 10:29 PM
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Cool. I don't do it so you need to tell a different audience. But women's issues with locker room talk is the choosing a woman yo disrespect and gratuitus sexual violence that comes with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 05:46 PM
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Genetically monogamous people. People with a genetic predisposition to monogamy, don't struggle. You could offer them any partner anytime, even the men and they'd turn it down
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 05:44 PM
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Most risks in sex are held by women. Whether 1 or more partners are involved. But I agree the risk isn't a solid reason not to have sex, but it can lead to the mental over overload that often leads women to not want to have sex. And once a woman doesn't want to have sex but is forced to that add on another 3 or so risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 05:42 PM
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Funnily enough exactly the same risks as having sex with a man you've known for 5 days. I'm happy to expand but I do wonder what sexual risk you think women face. Tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 05:39 PM
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" Jersey Shore, Love Island USA, Love Island UK, The Only Way Is Essex, " Use your head and think about the character of the men (at least portrayed) on those shows. Parasocial relationships are inherently for emotionally sick and avoidant people but even within that group, some of those men will be wildly more successfully than others. Again look at the displayed character traits. You realise the English language is one of the most subverted languages in existence. Multiple cultures use it, add…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 05:32 PM
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Monogamous people don't struggle because their arousal is directly linked to their partners. The thought of others either isn't interesting or a bit off putting. Non genetically monogamous people trying to be monogamous is very difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:36 AM
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Usually it's the men certainly if work is hard and they've been together for a while
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:34 AM
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Sex has far more risks to it, for women, than man care to acknowledge which is why men struggle with the empathy gap
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:33 AM
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Only a woman out for revenge will do that. Most arent
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:26 AM
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When women think of locker room talk we mean degrading and abusive conversations. Rape jokes etc. Men that are trying to be edgy purposefully used depraved language when talking about women. Men that are genuinely depraved use depraved language also. We can't tell the difference we just despise the depravity. Women have no issues with men talking about their sexual experiences, tastefully and respectfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:23 AM
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You're missing the point. Women are happier without men, so it's not a choice of which man is best, its a question of is this one going to make me regret getting into a relationship. Most women can happily not have sex with men for years...forever even. Men are an active cost.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:16 AM
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This. Men don't realise that they are on average more work and less benefit than being single
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:14 AM
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You're still wrong because you're still projecting your male oriented ideals. " Men who are highly extraverted have low social inhibition, because they seek out and thrive in social situations. Many, many women find performers (e.g. music artists) attractive, and by definition being a public performer is having low social inhibition." Women don't specifically like extroverted men, many like introverted men but all women like appropriate men. Can the extrovert be calm and quiet when he needs to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:54 AM
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If I come up from behind you and try to give you a voucher for a free sandwich. You'll be much less at ease accepting it than of I had a stand, smiled at you from a distance, waved the voucher at you and let you come to me o see what it is. Same works for women. It doesn't matter how attractive you are. If you put her in defenceode via your asshole cold approach you will struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 10:06 PM
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Low social inhibition being attractive. It's not, it's gross and childlike. Litterally reminds us of toddlers. You're assuming women think like men too much. Women want USEFUL men. Not status, USE. A man with no backbone can't provide the things women look to men for. Protection. Women love it. We want to see you exercise your dominance over other MEN so we know those men won't mess with us. We're safe. A cowardly man with no back bone can't do that. As a man, he's useless, he lacks functional m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 10:01 PM
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Like a flat chested woman
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:58 PM
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You're missing the point entirely. I've just told you masculinity + perosnality, different for different women. Then I told you to look at characters women fawn over and break down why. You answer was to mention love bombing (which is an intense version of romance) name two books and put it down to sexual abuse. Nothing about what those women liked about those men so much they'd stick around for the sexual abuse. Do you see why I call you lazy?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:55 PM
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I assume your rizz game feels predatory and overbearing. You being you is enough confidence and you not trying to rizz means women don't have to be in defence mode. We're like cats, not dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:49 PM
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You think a free meal where I have to sit in the company of someone I don't like and wonder if they're a physical abuser or sexual assaulted is a good deal? Food isn't that expensive and you've just admitted the experience is crap. I'd rather just work those extra hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:31 PM
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There's a delineation between romance and sexual tension but what bridges both is pro-social masculinity. Like have none of you read the main protagonist characters of female romance novels? Has no-one even thought to break down the appeal of different male anime/TV characters and listened to why their fangirls say they love them? Romance isn't just about doing nice things it's about signalling masculinity. The buying nice things. You had to pay attention to her to figure out what she likes, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:20 PM
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Why not be the best of both worlds. The safe and secure guy who is also very masculine and has an edge. They exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:14 PM
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Yup. Women still expect resources from men. If it not hard cash, it's gifts, holidays etc. But unless men can stump up resources many women's desire for children remains low. Plenty of women have gone from being child free when with a broke man child to looking at areas with good schools, just incase with competent men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:49 PM
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Iys because women feel its so basic it doesn't need to be said. Men need to be masculine to be attractive, just as women need to be feminine. On top of that, a kind, sociable generous perosnality for most women is wanted. Even with the murderers with fanmail, they're expected to be rough around the edges but basically polite and capable of kindness.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:45 PM
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Women want romance. They don't get wet for NPCs
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:35 PM
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Surely it's obvious that romance is about romance, not being a nice person. A nice person can be romantic or they can be a NPC. Romance is just showing off beneficial or pro-social masculinity. Its not difficult but it is work. Just like for women seduction is about showing off pro-sexual anti-social femininity. Not difficult, just effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:33 PM
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Yes and no. Some women prefer introverted men who are a bit awkward, not all women like the larger than life characters. But as with physical appearance there is a cut off where no woman would want a child that would struggle as much as you do. If you're below it you're going to struggle. Some women get wet for angels and some women get wet for demons. Men only pay attention to demons in prison swimming in panties because they think its unjust but there are lovely men women want obsessively beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:25 PM
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Or say you want to change gender and just take one set of pills. Or do what most people do. Go to a country where a doctor gives you what you pay for. It's most countries in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 05:18 PM
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When you ask what do you look for in men is a completely different question to what do you look for in women. So you get two different answers. One talks about sexual excitement, the other talks about romantic excitement. They're both honest answers. A man's sexual fantasy is a porno or 2, a woman's sexual fantasy is an adventure with a good man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 05:12 PM
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Men say hot women, women say nice/good men. Ask for detail, you get detail
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 03:29 PM
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The same can be said for women. Litterally in the same way, everyone uses the same scale
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 03:28 PM
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I've seen lots of handsome tall and naturally buff men on these subs lamenting. Often it's a perosnality issue from some childhood trauma they haven't gotten over. For those poor men that are disabled and dysmorphic it's hard, but not impossible. Really and truly it's an effort issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 03:24 PM
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Nature has made men dig for youth and fertility. Nature has made women dig for the resources and personalities to help them raise children.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 03:22 PM
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What exactly is it you think women want you to transform into?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 03:21 PM
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You can chemically castrate yourself and be free from your biological desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 03:20 PM
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Men do need to be good humans to be accepted ... in society. Once in society they have a chance at convicing a woman he's worth risking pregnancy with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 03:19 PM
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Women prefer that on an attractive man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 03:18 PM
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Good men as in fine male specimens psycologically and physically. Not good men as in good little boys who deserve a lollypop.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 03:17 PM
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That sounds like a recipe for sexual assault claims and convictions
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 03:15 PM
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There's two types of women...well three. You're the third types equivalent. The other two are the ones who wear make-up and dress well out of insecurity and to be accepted and the ones that do the same because it tickles their creative bone/they want to use it as a manipulative tool. Men see the same pretty made-up woman without seeing the the self loathing, predation, etc and they get hard all the same. I assume you're going for the first two and ignoring the third...your counterpart.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 03:11 PM
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But why are they the opposite. What women want as a base has been the same forever, just the toppings that change for each individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 03:07 PM
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....Sir, I am a woman. Don't talk to me as if I was a man. I agree that low impulse control causes me to feel disgust towards men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 02:10 PM
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More than that. But yes, the men in prison couldn't control the impulse, the men outside still have the same impulses but better control
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 02:08 PM
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This is really long, I don't think I can respond to it all. I will say women that 'go through' a ho phase rather than become the ho they've always wanted to be do so often for socioromantic validation at a very vulnerable time in their life. It's no different to a guy going through his nice guy phase because he was taught that's how you get into relationships and do life. Do with that information what you will. Women learn to assume that if you're infront of us you at least want sex. Its a depre…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 02:07 PM
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This place is a circle jerking sausage fest. The examples aren't strong but the men on here will not notice...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 10:04 AM
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Like I said. If you knew what women said about men after casual sex you wouldn't be able to derive validation from it at all. It's a gamble to scratch an itch, with the guy least likely to cause any trouble/put up a decent fight. So they pick weaker looking ones. The women that do that function in the same way men do in that pretending he has someone else's face, not thinking about the parts of his body that are gross etc. Plenty of women the next day will tell their friends they faked whatever …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:59 AM
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The need sex like children need praise and boundaries. Without it psycological development goes ary and they become poorly adjusted, struggle with addiction and impulse control etc. It's not essential to life, I agree. But men, at the most fertile points in their life, have a strong drive to get female validation and affection that they associate with sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:50 AM
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I read what you wrote the first time perfectly fine. I haven't changed my opinion of your low self esteem answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:46 AM
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I will repeat " crime speaks to a populations nature when they are unable to control their impulses"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:44 AM
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It used to be that young men were looking for wives so didn't bother with older women leaving child bearing age. Now most men can be honest about not wanting children and rarely wanting life long commitment there's not really an age limit as long as she's attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:57 AM
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You misunderstand us. We want those men to go and be gay together. Not be violently and hateful sexual with gayen
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:53 AM
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No, as feminine people. I mean even if we go with your weird idea, objects for what purpose?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:52 AM
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Depending on the fantasy women get burned young and look for less risky men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:12 AM
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Thugs have the skills to be a protector but not the inclination
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:09 AM
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If only you knew the jokes and put downs those women made the day after with her friends. Casual sex is an itch scratcher a desirable man isn't required. One to look at everyday and risk having your children look like on the other hand...I mean unless she's trying to slyly have a hookups genes....he's far from special
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:01 AM
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You're confused. Men show love by providing for women in the same way women show love by displaying desire for men. Love isn't either of those thing but both parties require the validation and security of having it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:59 AM
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These are signs she has low self esteem. Not that she does or doesn't like him
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:55 AM
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Absolutely not. Men treat hookups very well, especially if he wants to show her off to his friends. The wife gets the end of the day crumbs and treatment that comes with thinking she can't leave
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:51 AM
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She was young/new to putting up sexual boundaries. It sounds like she was doing it by rote rather than instinct. The being honest and telling you about the hoe phase was instinct though, she must've liked you. Men don't appreciate openess and honesty, they prefer ego protection. She'll get better at it overall. She's trying to change from who she was, you caught her mid-metamorphosis. "Never once over three weeks did she show me what she brought to the table through her character, values, or her…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:35 AM
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Women don't need sex like men. If we don't like what's on offer, we abstain. That is where the power comes from. Sex is 100% optional, all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:07 AM
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A random man is worthless. Takes time to know him enough to judge and value him
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:01 AM
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Litterally the opposite if women's strategies. Most don't know if they'd have sex with you untill they get to know you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:00 AM
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2 is deadbedroom fodder. Why try an ltr with a man that makes you ick and is lazy enough that you cab forsee yourself turning into his mother. Certainly can't have kids with him. It'd be easier to be a single mum.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:57 AM
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Physical affection? Ever heard of a hug? A kiss? You don't need to try and climb into a woman womb for affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:44 AM
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We mean it but we don't mean date the cool, lovely and living gay men. We mean dare each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:39 AM
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Men in prison and ancient Greece can learn, any man can
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:37 AM
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Crime speaks to a populations nature when they're unable to control their natural impulses. Murder for example is extremely natural. Every man is capable of it, under the right circumstances. But the stronger the nature, the more compelling the urge and the harder it is to suppress...hence we have so many male murderers. Some who never had control and killed consistently post puberty and some who snapped and crime of passioned away lives
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:32 AM
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To women, this is as meaningless and confusing as our conversation about disgust from mens pov "I think women need to understand that they have to bring a lot to the table consistently. I look to see if she knows she has to do that and how to do that". I'm not a waitress, what're you talking about? That's helpful in weeding out situationships and men with low moral character but in the same way you don't want to risk divorce and the break up of family, neither do we. Your fear is losing half of …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:26 AM
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Look at any countries crime statistics, at anytime in history. Men are men everywhere. The only real hope is them having good older male role models and enough men who've passed peak testosterone to keep the younger ones in line
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:39 PM
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As a group, they will do anything for sexual satisfaction. They are litteral dick heads, men will kill, maim, cheat, lie for something as insignificant as a 2 minute nut. If we're talking about a group of 'unworthy' men. They have even less self control and generally lash out at everyone. Yes it includes men but is much more harmful when done to women and children. Mainly because they can't protect themselves against adult male dimorphism but also because a woman or child can never heal through …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:07 PM
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Thanks. I guess that helps. If you have other ideas on how to avoid being a placeholder girlfriend or starter wife please do share them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:03 PM
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Keeping angry and damaging men away from women you (and the wider menkind) don't want damaged?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:00 PM
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We women would 100% encourage it. Just keep the children out of it. If you've got all that misplaced hate and frustration, we'd rather you direct it at each other rather than us.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 05:59 PM
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Yeah but not out of hate. Usually selfishness and greed. War is about a man killing another man so he can take his stuff. Nothing personal. Even in the present, most men fighting each other is over a silly principle, nothing personal
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:32 PM
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Throuought history misogynistic men have encouraged each other to be gay to strengthen that brotherly bond, especially in times of war. Think ancient Greece. Rome during many periods. Afghanistan is the worst country for both, misogyny and groups of men (who wouldn't dare touch each others female family) having gay sex parties, normally with trafficked young men/boys. For a lot of men the sexual urge is about dominance, you don't need a woman for that, a man that won't flip you over will do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:28 PM
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I occasionally tell men to go after other men. These are men that clearly dislike women and are hoping for a psycological man in a woman's body, can't recognise why thats not a fair expectation, are into/or not against anal and only value women for their procreation ability. At that point I'm fully convinced you're a closeted Bi-guy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:19 PM
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This was all too long ago to reply fully We agree that guys law was crap, full of bias and derived from ignorance. I'm not sure why his name is still being used, especially in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:09 PM
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Health (defined by culture) and perosnality
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:17 AM
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Go for it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:50 AM
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I'm not nisunderstanding disgust. You're misunderstanding women. When we say 'gross' 'ew he's creepy/an asshole/poor/too old/too young/etc' we mean it from the bottom of our disgusted souls. More men would get right swipes if they catered to the female gaze properly. Plenty of good looking men cause 'the ick' from their photos and get lefted. Plenty of mid-ugly and unfortunate looking men get lefted because of something captivating about their photos. A photo needs to cause attraction and not ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:35 AM
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When unworthy people date they pee in the pool and make life difficult for everyone, including themselves. Better they become worthy, then sit at thee table rather than infecting others
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:54 AM
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Lots of animals kill lions, hyenas kill lions. But that point is moot because were talking about females allowing males to be a part of the pride but being willing to getting rid of him and make way for another male, that they prefer, if he doesn't act as they want. Male lions don't just rock up, roar and rule. If thew females don't accept him he can kill as many male challengers as he wants, and roar as loudly as hew wants. It makes no difference In some prides males hunt alongside and as often…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:42 AM
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Uhuh. Good luck crossing swords with 'the bros'
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:34 PM
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Tell that to pretty much every teen male, some in their 20s and every man whose been on a dry spell for a while. Also every man confused over transwomen. You're not attracted to females you're attracted to body shapes and parts
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:33 PM
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Only the crazy people will say everyone's funked. And dicaprio is an outlier because he's not a playboy, he has monogamous relationships intill those women leave him to get married. Beard behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 09:37 PM
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Not true at all. Objectification isn't required as part if sexuality. Men just really like doing it and it leads to weird things like men getting turned on by curvy coke bottles or seeing a peach that reminds them of a bottom.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 09:35 PM
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Mmm, mamy beautiful women but not in a playboy way, like a handing her over to a husband once she finds one way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 09:33 PM
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So if simps don't care if she's a 10 and non Simpson don't care. Who is this huge group of men complaining about the lack of and holding out for 10s?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 09:31 PM
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It absolutely is. Sexual assault, violent behaviour and destruction of property
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 09:30 PM
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Firstly. Women latterly can't rape as per the definition. Sexualnassualt is the word you're looking for Secondly most women don't have the testosterone surges to even care to do it, even if you're right and women can be as amoral as men. Thirdly. Gay me complain all the time thay other gay men just want to chase the young men, don't want relationships and if they do either want them open or cheat all the time. Gay men complain like women all the time about male fidelity. They will also sit with …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:11 AM
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The men who liked marital rape didn't live long. There have been poisons and techniques throughout the ages rich wives used to get rid of bad husbands. Sometimes brothers would also help a bad husband go missing. It's also why women quite liked wars. Men went away and the goverment gave them a lifetimes worth of money if he never came back. The number of Russian women signing men up for war because they'd get paid more than je can bring home is a running joke on the female side of the Web. Espec…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:01 AM
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They wouldn't care about looks because they weren't planning on having sex with you more than once a year to make the children.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:57 AM
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You're kidding me. Less than 100 years ago in the US the best way to get a wife was to rape her, get her pregnant and then te her family you'd marry her. Or win her In a poker game or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:55 AM
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Most women would have children earlier but father worthy men are few and far between. And like you said, old sperm has increased risk of trisomy 21, autism etc, so at a certain point women have to look at younger men who again may not be ready. The real solution is for goverments to support women having children who haven't found a good man yet....or societies to raise boys in preparation to be a husband or father, rather than these free range men we have today. But men will complain they should…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:47 AM
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Plenty of lesbians carry 1 biological child each or each others biological child. Women would never dream of cheating on a pregnant partner. They understand they risks to health and life. They understand the sacrifice. A man that cheats on his pregnant wife either hates her or is a lowlife with no understanding of how difficult pregnancy is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:43 AM
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Read what I wrote again. Not men politely coming up asking if they can buy you a drink. Men who are going to be grabbing at what they want on you, staring at it unblinking whilst talking and doing their best to get you drunk and cornering you off from other people whilst doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:40 AM
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Most men who make a point if going after societies 10s either have daddy issues from childhood or want a daddy in the bedroom. There comes a point where it gets weird. Dicaprio for example. Pretty much half the world is now convinced he's gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:38 AM
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...you realise pregnancy can kill a woman, don't you? This is why whether a baby is aborted or not is such a big decision a man can't be part of. Both have physical consequences for the mum that can be life long. If you don't ever want to lose the choice over whether you have children or not don't nut in women That right there is your male choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:35 AM
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These men don't understand you because they don't have honor and can't empathise.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:26 AM
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As a man can can sexualise anything in an instant. Just has to be curvy. That is the exact reason why male sexuality is vilified. Even men don't want to be in vulnerable places like a toilet with other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:23 AM
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Boys will be boys is used to side sweep, sexual assault. Plenty of peadophiles go to Asian (for example) for the short, thin, baby faced women and they get them as legally young as they can. A peadophile doesn't have to kiddie fiddle to give themsleves away
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:21 AM
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No Most women don't call creeps out because men, especially emotionally hurt men feel dangerous. Most women will be polite and gentle. If you're getting called out as a creep youre doing something really wrong. Like something in your energy or perosnality is super off
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:19 AM
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Women would still be disgusted by the objectification. Its like saying men don't like being treated like arms but wouldn't mind being at 24/7 atm for *insert female celebrity * or maybe you wouldn't mind but women don't like being brought down to body parts. It's not a compliment to tell us you want to master bate with bits of our body
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:17 AM
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Honestly, you're a guy who needs to experience something before you can empathise. Go to a gau bar or something. Go experience male sexual energy once they've 'locked in' on you and are too sexually charged to care about consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:14 AM
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Being more excited about the validation from your male friend about having sex with a woman than the actual sex with a woman is hella homo.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:10 AM
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Lesbianism couples could cheat on each other when one is pregnant, they wouldn't but they could
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:07 AM
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It's more bisexual men that are the biggest Std risk to women but they don't flag themsleves as such when dating heterosexually and they transfer the gay dating std risk over to hetero women, not heterosexual men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 06:42 AM
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Why would a woman be happy cooking and cleaning or you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:27 PM
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Everyone involved ends up crying.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:27 PM
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You misunderstand women again. Women swipe left on men that disgust them and swipe right on ones jqt don't disgust them. Plenty of mid ugly men are getting a chance. The scope of the word disgust is important though. This is both visual/physical and perosnality traits. Women will scour your picture for indicators of perosnality as well as respond to your profile. Hot guys get lifted, mid ugly guys get rights. Hot guys get righted, mid ugly guys get the left. What's your disgust calculation for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:26 PM
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So I hear, all the time....
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:22 PM
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I whole heartedly disagree. Men have their hair at varying lengths. Other cultures wear men traditionally wear skirts and dresses have mixed in so there are 'man versions of everything. Men can walk around singing, men will wear pink shirts, style their hair, there a big trend for mens makeup piggy backing off of the popularity of bulldog face creams and manscape male grooming. Normal barbers are offering pamper packages etc. What exactly is it you want to do that you're scared of. I guarantee y…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:21 PM
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It's not apples with apples as a paternity fraud is far worse of an accusation than just cheating but if the relationship is so bad you font trust each other....then what're you doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:54 AM
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The caveat is that not all men are shitty or toxic. Just a lot and most in the dating pool after a certain age
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:51 AM
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Well then most women are with shuttle men The data is clear that marraige shortens a woman's life and prolongs a man's when compared to their single counterparts
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:50 AM
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No, it just makes them feel bad about themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:47 AM
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Single people help each other hold up their standards. Depending on your social circle standards differ. Most standards are just healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:44 AM
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Then encourage men to treat her badly as punishment for having a sexual self in anyway that's not centred around them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:35 AM
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Your problem is you talk about the man as though she accepts him as a sexual being. Women sit I the laps of other women, jokingly flirt with other women and touch other women. Women also buy things for each other and pay for each others things. These are very heterosexual women. But it's fine because they're being friendly and loving with no sexual interest or energy. The guy you've described is learning what it feels like to be one of the girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:31 AM
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A dating app frame of mind is very different to a marriage and have children frame of mind. Women are not men. Personality means more to us than looks. Yes we need to not vomit when we look at the guy and he shouldn't make us think he's unwell just at a glance but women choose men based on perosnality. A right swipe is not being chosen, it's having a chance to interview for being chosen.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:26 AM
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The std spread problem does tend to be a male one. The gay male community first, then bisexual men second. Otherwise, women are also human finding their way through life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:22 AM
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Sure. And if the world gets too dangerous wij too many men that think like that women aren't obligated to birth male babies, or to raise them really, the state can have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:19 AM
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We already have male emancipation. Men don't have to look at women and they don't have to participate in society. No one will berate them, no-one will care. Men can wear nail polish, a skirt and a beard. They can tattoo their faces and spend all day in a brothel or a gym. Women had to marry men or else they would litterally be penniless, have no bank account, or access to legal recompense. Men have never been in that sort of bond age outside slavery. Men doing what they want doesn't mean the wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:18 AM
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The city isn't better. Its full of Peter pan men that feel because they made it to or in the city, they're entitled to their share of sexual experiences. The other side is there's a lot of men who can't afford to buy homes and worry about the cost of children in a city and generally while men are indulging in all he worldly things they think they're owed, they get addictions. Littlerally the same bottom of the barrel men, just in suits or nicer cars.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:45 AM
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No, most men who don't get a chance to raise children have something about them that isn't good for raising children.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:42 AM
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I'm surprised you could write this. Why do you treat kocking random vulnerable women up, the definition of sowing wild oats, is a rite of passage for men? It's not psycologically necessary for men because religious communities manage to squish that. Really think about it. Lost opportunities for what? To use a woman like a blowup doll? That's what prostitutes are paid for, why do you think it's okay for your brother to have his turn pissing in the dating pool?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:41 AM
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Again. You boil everything down to sex. When you're 45 with erectile dysfunction and a beer belly you won't be won't be worried about how many women you could get or will look at you. Why are you men putting sexual validation above everything in your lives? It's destroying the community.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:37 AM
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Yes and most men spend their time and energy playing video games rather than developing themsleves in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:35 AM
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Yes but the one to a woman is very different to the one for a man. For a man it's a look for a woman it's a perosnality trait that is important if you want to have children. This is why women think they can 'fix him' normally its a maturity issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:33 AM
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Couples already don't have access to active grandparents as the retirement age is rising and grandmothers have to work. But I wouldnt worry much about this one. The people who will be born will still be born, just over a longer time span to richer parents who can give them a better start in life therefore reducing crime etc. Also men have it in their heads that it's natural and normal for women to pop out children consecutively for 10 years. It's not, it's really bad for the women and we have gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:29 AM
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Most men are holding out for their visually perfect woman (absolutely fine) but will lie to and pursue women they're not interested in in the meantime for sex and all the other things those men benefit from an value from women. So we've gone from a world of shot gun weddings and generally men policing each others behaviours so they don't take advantage of women to men having a free for all and hoping the woman they want doesn't get caught up in their own or other men's games. Most women want LTR…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 11:14 PM
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You need to define dating The relationships market sucks for women. The sex market does not suck for women Dating is a process of finding a relationship but is being used to trick women into casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 09:16 AM
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Are you a 15 year old? Your biological knowledge is basic and incomplete. Males only dominate social structures where violence is rife and even then the males at the top of the hierarchies don't last long. Otherwise it's normally females that dominate the structures. In pair bonded animals such as most birds the males remain bigger but they work equally and continue to be monogamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 08:24 AM
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I didn't ask for the TED talk, I understand how lions live. What you missed out is if the female lions don't like the male lion they will gang up on and kill him. But areas with 2 cooperating male lions attached to one pride are normally very harsh living and not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 08:20 AM
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Again, circles. Yes men are victims of rape. Yes some women are rapists No women aren't even close to being half of perpetrators, even if we change definitions to fit our morals rather than following legal statute. Go educate yourself, really. You're wasting my time and I'm not going to continue to type in response to this nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:22 PM
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Yes, you're an emo child. That's what I said before. How are you enjoying your reality that you've crafted, whilst shouting at others that theirs is wrong. Others that are much happier and more functional than you....
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:19 PM
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This, right here is why women aren't interested in having sex with you. You have zero foresight or empathy. If you did, you'd understand why women's stance and expectations are completely reasonable. Your loss
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:17 PM
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Men have sex with socks, fruit and trees. A woman will have little to no issue getting children from one. If you're talking about life long relationships with financial responsibility, yes women would struggle with that the less attractive she is to a man. There's plenty of relationships, marraiges and babies being born daily. That you opted out of the competition to be one of those people is your business and of zero interest to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:15 PM
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Attractive for women covers so many bases and is so environment specific. Healthy: depends on what she thinks looks sickly. Some women think skinny looks unwell and some think fat and chunky looks unwell. Clear skin, decent teeth, bathed, clean clothes. Not looking like you have a genetic abnormality ( which is what very short guys look like they have) Masculine in comparison to her. Women want men to have a feminine side (think gushing over puppies and being tender generally) but are masculine …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 08:55 PM
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Honestly give up with you. I'm here to have a good faith conversation and you're here to complain at a woman. Go and genuinely read the research. Look at the rates for and within different types of domestic abuse also go and look at the difference in rates and definitions of rape and sexual assault. Men win out in all of them but still, go and inform yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 08:42 PM
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I hear you, and we both agree it won't change but if you give a girlfriend AI to a 15 year old boy, that he can customise, he will step into the matrix pod willingly unless he has an amazing father who prepared him for the AI allure etc. Most men don't have that. They will walk happily into litteral slavery. I don't want that for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:33 AM
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Nothing in what you linked suggested women are half of domestic abusers or rapists. Just that numbers are higher than previously thought and that men are also victims of those crimes I general. You seem to not accept that gay men exist in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:30 AM
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Only Insects and some fish have larger females. What're you smoking g?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 10:20 PM
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There's no such thing as a pack of male lions. There are male lions that will help each other survive whilst waiting for the chance to fight for or find a pack of female lions. As soon as they see ladies the claws are out for the brothers
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 10:20 PM
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Definition of disappointment is important. No-one wants a spineless doormat but if you're refusing reasonable requests, sit down so I can talk to the man behind you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 10:16 PM
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Women do not make up vlose to half of domestic abusers. Half of domestic abuse victims may be men, I haven't seen the stats
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 10:12 PM
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Wo.en aren't curves and curves aren't women. The problem is men aren't attracted to women. Infact some men hate women but they're all hot for curves which can be on anything from a man, to a tree to a doll. Men being led by their penises that are enslaved to the curve is a big problem. Men will kill women and children for abstract curve
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 10:10 PM
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It's not so much man bad that it is "man goals and wants destroy community and social cohesion unless under strict control" Which is what religion did for many years. Either a big sky daddy or tribes of women with a handful of men that could be neutralised if they became a threat to the community.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 10:08 PM
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I'm glad we agree but can you see how men's love of curve will lead to the end of the world and the beginning of the matrix (insert other dystopia sci-fi futures.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 10:06 PM
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I know. But it is the crux of our social problems and it will be men's undoing in the age of robots and AI
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 10:04 PM
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I was very clear. Read it again
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:03 PM
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Women do have more choices than men. On any month of the year she can choose to have a baby. The point I was making is women are deciding dealing with men is too stressful and bypassing normal family routes. Men are just that gross and awful
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:02 PM
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Gay men don't report abuse because its part of being a man. In the same way a woman won't tolerate they way toy talk to your friends, violence is normalised within male groups, as is infidelity
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:01 PM
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Gosh you wrote a lot of trash. Women have been able to go to uni for the last 50 years and have now reached parity with men. Women have had sexual harassment protections in the white collar work place for 20 years and blue collar 10 years. Their numbers in the professions have started picking up significantly. Give it 30 years and there will be women only plumbers for women that don't want dirty random men in their home. Etc. A man who dies trying is more pathetic for sure. All that effort for n…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:56 PM
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Unmarried millennial women make more money than their male counterpart. You've confused unmarried with has children. Women with child require a lot of resources, which the father of the children should provide but most men are pretty useless and report this would cause them to be homeless and request state support
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:50 PM
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Depends on who that woman was. Most bilkionaire men either get startup money from their fathers or their wives. If their wife then yes, she was an angel investor and deserves returns on the litteral money she put upfront as any man would. If their fathers then thay woman has to have had lots of children dj been with him for a long time, which means he's spent her youth and fertility and she can't offer it to another man so again...fair compensation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:48 PM
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Women plumbers electricians etc are increasing in numbers. As are women in the military and body guard roles. Women couldn't do those jobs for fear of sexual harassment and in some cases being attacked. Male uardinnof those roles has only been removed over the last 20 or so years. Just like university has only been available to women legally over the last 50 years and now here's 50% representation, male dominated jobs have only been accessible over the last couple of decades and the numbers are …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:42 PM
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Says the guy who is so emo his username is dark heart....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:34 PM
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There are toxic aspects of the masculine and the feminine. You should be guided by you morality to know which parts are and are not toxic. You do know, you just may choose to ignore the problem An example. Aggression a very neutral masculine trait. You can implement it healthily, getting something difficult done, protecting your boundaries, etc. You can implement it toxically, abusing your wife and children as quick and easy outlets. Destroying other people's or even your own belongings, intimid…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:32 PM
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Men would simply for a curvy tree because of their penises. Wen have little to do with anything but rather indicators of a female body. That's the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:20 PM
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Most men don't earn enough to lose anything in a divorce. On top of that, alimony only goes to women who don't earn anything. How many women do you know willing to give up their jobs to be a stay at home ? This is a top 5% of men problem and even then, only the ones who choose to marry trophies. But that's besides the point. Married men are perceived as more trust worthy reliable and competent. They convinced a woman to marry them afterall. And from that they get more work.and networking opportu…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:15 PM
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Are the actual men the ones that use violence to settle disputes even if that includes beating his wife and children because someone outside of the home upset him but he was too scared to address them, so took that pent up agression out on his family? What about the men unable to and unwilling to cook (a woman's job) even after his wife has given birth and can't stand without bleeding from her vagina? So many examples of non-simp behaviour that men really should t be proud of
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:13 PM
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Going the way of men is celibacy or homosexuality. What you're describing is continuing to follow women and trying to pick off the emotionally weak for sexual exploitation like a gremlin. You can look at the reasons women cite for divorce, you can look at the domestic abuse statistics within marraige, you can look at the rates of women remarrying, you can look at the testimonials of divorce lawyers. In general men are intolerable. Sometimes it's women but the majority are men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:10 PM
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That's a male way of thinking. Most women don't have that worry. Mainly because men trigger women's disgust and to have sex at the very least disgust has to be low. For the women who want genetic children they can be highly selective of the sperm they choose and most will choose the same sperm. It will be very normal for most men to be genetic dead ends over the next 3p years. You forget its only been 50 years since women could have bank accounts, 40 since they could go to university and the doc…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:02 PM
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You clearly have no empathy with women which is why you're struggling. Male pigs tusks growing through their heads is analogous to women having periods, painful ones. Stockholm syndrome is a mamal trait. Female or male, bear or human. It allows children to get through abuse and still be mildly functional adults. You have no clue what reproductively stable is. You have no idea of the level of stress a woman's body does or doesn't go through depending on the gender of the child, the weather or amo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:58 PM
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Humans in general but men more specifically are horrendously predictable. They're predictable because they are rational, it's just the goals are so stupid most people struggle to follow the line of logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:44 PM
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Male abusive partner can punch a man in the face and cause blindness? Sure. Most domestic violence against men is by men. I'm also using the writers terminology around finding a nerve bundle and pinching.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:03 PM
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You're confused. Very confused. Women like security ( that's what makes dark triad traits attractive) and have been taught the way to get that is marriage. So women desire and enter mareaige for a range of reasons men don't care about, certainly not untill they're 60 or so. So when they're married to a man with a different idea of marraige who refuses to meet in the middle women leave. This is often after a lot of work, begging and tears but most men are unmoved. When women divorce the dream and…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:24 PM
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The reality of a situation doesn't change men's underlying psycological desire. That's why porn works. The patriarchial setup is that every man works for the great king and every man is entitled cosplay with a castle and a queen. To do this, women weren't allowed to work jobs that could sustain them, let alone children. This is why spinster is a well used term. It was a job women were allowed to do that earned them enough money to live alone and maybe support a couple of children. It was the fem…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:11 PM
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Marraige is an institution that just mean's union. They're is no definition or defined set of roles. What women hope to get out of marraige rarely matches up with what men want, which is why in every county where divorce is legal, once divorced, unless they are unable to work, women stay single and men remarry. Also the groups that have the lowest divorce rates tend to be those that belong to heavily patriarchial religions or cultures where unmarried women face a huge social cost that leads to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:01 PM
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Previously men would fight for their Kings and if their Kings wanted to fight, then that's what happened. To be fair, men have that instinct to follow high status men into ruin even now. Some Kings did want to fight, told the peasants a lie and got an army, other Kings didn't want to fight but made too many wrong moves and the peasants had to mobilise anyway. I used the word stuff ironically but it's resonated with you. Men would die to get the Internet turned back on so they can watch depersona…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 01:54 PM
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Dropping toxic masculinity isn't the same as dropping masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:42 PM
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Women and men don't agree on the work of marraige. That's why women divorce and men are blindsided that despite her threats and pleading she actually left.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:32 PM
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Women aren't spoilt for choice, that's why they choose terrible men. If all the options were old ones we couldn't pick a bad one and if bad ones were a small percentage there litterally wouldn't be enough to go around. Besides, why should women curse their children with bad genes so you can feel better about yourself. At least most men who don't look good try and make up for it by being masculine, generous and competent. If all women are passing you up, it's you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:29 PM
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You're confused. Firstly men and women are hypergamous. Just what are good gametes differe between the sexes Secondly, most women that want children also want to raise them. The nuclear family is very new and has failed. The standard is a village to raise a child, so a man that can afford the gold standard of a village will of course be more desirable. In terms of birth rates dropping, yes because more women are being forced into true nuclear family set ups and are losing the village aspect of g…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:26 PM
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Many men are lazy and selfish. If you give them a chance to do something good for others they don't take it. If you offer them haracter building responsibility they run away. It's reasonably new to see that behaviour in men past the age of 20, 25. Now you can see it in grown men of many ages. I do believe the clinical term has become Peter pan syndrome. Women don't like the idea of having sex with children, even if it's just psycologically children but man bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:15 PM
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Previously men would believe other men that their stuff was in jeopardy. Be that women, cattle, land. Or other men would mess up and invaders would come for men's property in really time. Then men would fight. But now, you could have a script for every AI girlfriend that could mobilise men and cut out the elite classes meddling completely
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:12 PM
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Plenty of OF women are men with filters.... And women wish men wouldn't lower their standards to get laid. Those are the most resentful abusive men that women deal with. The problems stem from men being walking penises. Women want a meeting of the minds and soul and men just follow what makes them hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:49 AM
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Are you really comparing women going blind from being punched in the face to being pinched in the right places?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:45 AM
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You don't need a shelter from emotional abuse. You just need to be out of the house and to not pick up the phone. Shelters are for people who fear for their lives and women get turned away sometimes. Also shelters are provided because women on the street arr more likely to be raped than men and that can lead to a baby which is more drama and trauma down the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:45 AM
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Feminism freed men, plenty are child free asexials or fbois But any man that wants to put himself in the father box has to accept what comes with the father box.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:41 AM
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No, it's as they grow up, their minds stay in the teenage phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:39 AM
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Wrong, birth rates are declining because of the nuclear family and the majority of men not being suitable as the secondary parent, despite being the only option in that structure. Men dont give birth, how men feel about having children has nothing to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:38 AM
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Women won't marry you for lifestyle when she has to work as well. Poor women will solve this by cohabitation with other poor women. Not get married
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:36 AM
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...most divisions between class yes. Divisions that exist between the semester, no
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:35 AM
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Women want good husbands that don't lead them to depressions that can only be cured through divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:34 AM
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Divorce rates are high where the husband sees the wife as a sex/maid appliance for the home that works when he puts in moneym Women initiate divorces but they don't cause them. Divorce lawyers and relationship therapists have stories for days about abusive, low empathy, misogynistic men causing women to give up and file for freedom
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:33 AM
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Untill it gets hacked by a bad actor who convinces men to go to war for their AI girlfriends. Men will absolutely die for sexy code
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:30 AM
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Women don't want to be submissive they want a competent man that can hold down the Fort while they focus on raising the children. This is why women don't date down on average. If you don't have your shit together a t the same or higher rate, she's going to have to do the kid stuff plus the family household stuff. At which point you're just an extra burden and mouth to feed
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:29 AM
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Absolutely. Having access to a woman's fertility isn't a joke. It can litterally kill her. Why do men feel like they're entiltieled to jobs they're not qualified for. It's like an artist complaining law firms won't hire them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:27 AM
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Not always.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:15 AM
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India has a lot of rape and even more cases of women being treated worse if she was found to have been raped. That law benefits men in the round
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:15 AM
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Low stays women are treated worse than men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:12 AM
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Men in the dating pool aren't useful enough to be compared to food. That's why they're still I the dating pool
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:11 AM
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If it didn't, women wouldn't be complaining about it and choosing to be single rather than participating in it. You forget men and women's goals are not the same. If women enmasse are saying he same things about a problem, it's a problem, even if you don't agree
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:10 AM
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Not all men are young, usless and chaotic men. Society favours married fathers more than mothers and possibly more than single women. It's a young man problem, not an all men problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:07 AM
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The advice isn't bad. The advice is for a different struggle. Women want relationships and family so if you say, I want to date and have relationships women will give advice for LTRs and getting married. If you're honest and say I want casual responsibility free sex with as many women will look at me, most women will walk away in disgust but the ones that hang around will give you advice for what you want
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:03 AM
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Courtship is you showing her that you're a decent guy with his shit together and the life you could both have. If she's attracted she decides if she wants to choose you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:59 AM
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Talk to women as if you were a woman or gay male. That can be sexualised.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:57 AM
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Women don't like those guys either. Especially after children
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:55 AM
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That's wrong. *men are less scary to women when they observe other women to be less scared.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:51 AM
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That is good advice if youre looking for, what women are looking for. If you're yourself, women who actually like you will be drawn to you and your relationships will be solid. If you pretend to be someone you're not the women drawn to you won't like you and you will live in chaos. The problem is men aren't honest. They say, how do I get women to like me/go on a date with me/ get a relationship. And the advice they get is relationship orientated. What they mean to ask is what's he best way to ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:49 AM
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Women of all ages want the same thing more or less. Youg women struggle to know what theyre looking at so accept toxic variations. The fools gold if you will. The other problem is the women want all men to have what they want, regardless of age and arent willing to target the ages groups most likely to have the skill and perosnality set they want
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:45 AM
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Society doesn't favour women.. on average young men are antisocial so society are wary of them. That why married fathers get a status boost, they seperate themselves from young aimless trouble causing men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:43 AM
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MGTOW is fine but men rarely do that. Often they just avoid relationships to try and maximise sex As for passporting. Those men go to poor countries, promise the poorest women a decent life then mistreat them. If I ever hear of a passport bro going to Monaco or Sweden I will cheer them on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:41 AM
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So you were with her for the sex experience? Gross. Just see a prostitute
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:39 AM
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Monogamous men don't need a lot of options. They just need to really like the woman they're with. The problem comes when he doesn't like the woman he's with buy he gets regular sex so stays and treats her badly out of resentment. I'm pretty sure that's the basis of all domestic violence
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:38 AM
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Men watch too much Disney. You don't all get princesses and if you ever got them, you'd realise you don't want them. Men need to stop wanting women based off of how they look or that woman's percieved status. Not going to happen but untill it does Men will never be happy. There's always a prettier, younger, more aligned with your fantasy woman out there
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:35 AM
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You say that but the number of women hitting their 40s childless and unmarried or adopting says otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:33 AM
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Pretty much every world untill men start triggering women's disgust. Starts with the nose picking and fart jokes, peaks at the sexual predation and tapers off with the laziness and selfishness
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:32 AM
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Humans are completely rational. Men are just uniquely selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:31 AM
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Absolutely not true. I can see your logic but will tell you its male logic and can only apply to men. Women operate differently. Firstly your definition of intimacy needs to be given. I assume you mean sex because women will cuddle the hell out of men they are or aren't attracted to. If it does mean sex you need yo realise that women have sex for bad reasons, regret it and try not to make those bad decisions again that come from her feeling troubled on the inside and have nothing to do with the …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:25 AM
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Dating is equally unfair for men and women. It's just unfair in different ways and the consequences of the unfairness impact society as a whole more on the women's side. Most men would struggle as women with women's wants and most women would struggle as men with men's wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:19 AM
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You're confused. What use to happen is girls were sold to men and would birth double digit children, and get beaten so their self esteem would be too low to leave. That alongside the religion telling them to stick it out. You forget the trope of the 1960s housewife is always drunk, regretting her children and of the times before that, plotting to kill her husband so she can be free
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:22 AM
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You are 100% correct
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:17 AM
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You don't understand women at all or men for that matter. Women date for a solid, committed man. We don't need to date for hookups nor do we need an app. Men use dating and apps to try and get hookups (for the most part). Women when they're younger take the lead, then learn that men will rarely say no, even if he hates you so it's better to wait for men to take the lead so you know who is really interested and who is a chancer. That applies online and in real life. Basically there are too many a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:12 AM
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The urban landscape was planned and made for each man to have his place, a woman and children. Apart from the ghettos which as just hen cages. The urban landscape was designed with men's needs and wants in mind and does not cater to women or children. You were born into the urban landscape? That's awful, other people, poorer than you, on the planet are living better lives. Go travel or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 02:31 PM
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You haven't seen some of the men around the world with wives and children. Short, facially dysmorphic, visible mental or physical disabilities...I scratch my head when I meet those women, I really do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 02:27 PM
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This. Most women don't mind men gaming. It's that they're gaming for almost the same period of time they work, whilst being behind in life and having lots of chores that need to be done
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 02:25 PM
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It's 100% perosnality. That's why dark triad traits do do well. Women are looking for the perfect mix of effective masculinity and affectionate femininity from men. A handsome guy that's too feminine or has the wrong masculine traits will struggle v a highly effective and respected 'uggo'
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:07 PM
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I dont doomscroll. Both are a wzste if attention and time however the obvious answers are travelling, typing/writing, packing things away (most home chores), participating in work meetings or other conversations, etc. The scrolling requires like 10% attention and between 1 finger and 1 hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:05 PM
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You sn scroll a phone whilst doing g a lot of life tasks. You can't play a game whilst doing that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 03:54 AM
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Your issue is that you approach dating and marraige as a sex opportunity. Women look at relationships for relationships. That's why if a man is too immature by her standards, despite being Chad. She will pass him up. Most young men are not preparing for or considering family. They're not mature in their life choices and most women see less mature men as children. Because women don't like child like features in men, it's off putting. If young men had the maturity of men 5 years older women would …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 03:26 AM
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Nice guy is a lack of masculinity that feels like it's in a slimy manipulative way. Good man is the attractive standard. Nice guy is all about perosnlity, nothing about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 03:07 AM
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That is a big ick. She imagined him being poor and stingy with money. Asking for left overs for anything other than your dog is an ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:07 PM
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Women have their mate choice preferences. It's like a transwoman complaining straight men aren't into them and the only way to get straight men is to lie about being trans.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:06 PM
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She said she wouldn't mess around with him as a hookup because she sees him with respect and places him in husband material. She's been dating the guy for like 2 years. If she wanted marriage and money she'd have a ring or be gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 08:55 PM
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Culture is what impacts fertility. The drop off of religiosity the drop off of a family centred community etc. These were not all inevitable and aren't global but in the capitalist areas of the world. The more late stage capitalist the more men don't want the responsibility of a child and the more women don't have the community support of women to have a child. The biggest thing is there is no longer tribe. We lost that when men fought for a nuclear family and men fought hard. There are countrie…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 08:51 PM
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I can't tell if you're genuinely dense or trolling. The pill is not revolutionary in the way you think. It's like me saying vasectomies are revolutionary in changing fertility rates. Sure, for those men that choose to undertake the associated medical risk ( the pill has a high rate of causing 4 types of cancers), where its fail rate is taken into account, who are getting it done for the primary reason of fertility management (most women have it prescribed as a treatment from teenagers for dsymen…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:38 PM
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I do keep saying I agree in principal. The west has a different social contract to the east. The majority uphold and and often punish those who choose to break it. Plenty of people move country to live under different social contracts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:15 PM
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I do keep saying I agree in principal. The west has a different social contract to the east. The majority uphold and and often punish those who choose to break it. Plenty of people move country to live under different social contracts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:15 PM
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Men do use it as an excuse. Truly stressed out men often turn down sex from their female partners. Just few men often get to that level of stress. Especially when they're young. Often men will offload the stress onto women or use women/drugs/gaming as a distraction but when stress is so high they can't do that. Their libido drops
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:12 PM
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Why is the truth outlandish? Especially when many women think the same way?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 08:31 AM
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You just went back in a circle to say nuclear family isn't working but if men had more money and women were more dependent on them it would....it wouldn't. Before the pill there were herbal abortions, or manual ones. Before and during widescale taxes women were having children in high single to double digits, no fault divorce and family courts don't impact a woman's decision to get pregnant or not. You keep looking at this as a men's issue. Fertility rates have little to do with men and everythi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 08:29 AM
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Women are hugely caring and self sacrificing towards their in-group and are more viscious and bloodthirsty against the outgrown than men. Men, for once, are in the ambivalent middle. When women are born and grow up men are part of in-group. The more women see men abuse other women or get abused by men the more they seem like an outgroup. The less empathy they get and the more they get thrown under the bus to protect the in-group at any cost. Women constantly tell men, you need to protect us from…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 08:16 AM
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Most of the time the drive for sex is just drive for validation. If your right hand doesn't sort out the problem, the problem isn't sex
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 08:11 AM
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Women that sleep with you early on see you as a dick. Litterally. She told him she sees him as more than that. Women expect to have sex with their husbands. So much sex that she may even get pregnant and dedicate her life to raising his hellspawn, for free. Let's not forget, every egg is 100k and surrogacy is about 60k. Women marry for love, men marry for convenience in the west. Yes in poor countries where women cant leave the house wijout a male escort they will marry for conveiniencd but not …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 09:59 PM
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Appropriate aproach and cold approach are two very different things. One will get you eyed as a creep or potential threat, the other will get you a pleasant conversation with either a gentle let down or a date
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:49 PM
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When women say that it's because they see the guy has enough earnes value in him to be able to portray the adequate level of confidence for women to notice him. Women are not saying pretend to be the most confident guy on the planet, with the biggest invisible lats and dick dragging on the floor. That is silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:48 PM
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Yup. Men make sex their whole purpose for being and personality so...you'd expect them to be decent at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:43 PM
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This concept is so silly. Men will seperate women into marraige material or just for fun thing. When women do the same, the disrespect connotations are the same. The marraige guy is the one she is willing to sacrifice and compromise for and sees as more than a walking penis. Not all men want to be seen as walking penises. Many want a relationship where the woman can appreciate and respect the things that make him him, especially if he's done anything decent with his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:15 PM
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Validation doesn't come with ot but validation isn't sex. You need to choose what the issue is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 07:56 PM
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No-one is entitled. I said society has a contract with people at least in the west where being free from physical harm is one of the things we agree to uphold for each other. Plenty of countries don't have this part of the contract in their societies
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 07:54 PM
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I am self made. I have no issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 07:54 AM
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You're not listening and it's frustrating. Yes men on average have always been inadequate for a mother to rely on. That's my point. The nuclear family is new. The concept of one woman relying on one man is new. The experiment has failed. You need far more than money to raise children. This is part of the reason why it's failing, most men think all that's required is money (even though they can't even do that part right). If you solved the money problem, you still won't have solved the birthing p…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 07:53 AM
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You misunderstand. I'm not talking about emotional stress and wanting to talk. I'm talking about actual life stress and needing practical help. For example parents with young children are often too tired and stressed to have sex. Getting a baby sitter occasionally and a cleaner relieves stress so they can be in the mood again. It has nothing to do with emotional safe havens it's to do with high cortisol levels dampening down women's libido on a biochemical level. Men's libido have a testerone pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 11:21 PM
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.... I don't know what to say to you. I can't work out if you're autistic or being difficult for fun. Let's try this. You know hunger and how its a strong desire and some people are more hungry than others? Let's assume we have a guy who is always hungry and I want him to eat monies worth at a buffet. He agrees, then I kick him in the nuts. Despite him being a hungry hippo and under normal circumstances eing happy to eat crazy amounts. Because of that life instance, he sort of loses his appetite…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 11:16 PM
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Whether I find a body aesthetically pleasing has nothing to do with my sexual desire for a man. Bodies are low on my list
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 11:11 PM
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What do you think a dad bod is? Skinny fat? Fat fat? Would you like to ask women what the consensus is?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 10:48 PM
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No but I did date a ripped jungle guy who brought me a baby Bush baby when I got angry with him. Then I had a second reason to be angry with him but the baby bush baby was so cute. Anyways that way of life gets boring. A ripped guy who will carry you up a mountain side when you're tired or build a raft so you can go downstream faster without getting wet is lovely but gets boring. Women have the same story about dating the psychopathic millionaire. The misunderstood special forces guy. Etc My pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 05:51 PM
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Incels tend to be left leaning funnily enough...and happy to lean into authoritarianism
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 05:36 PM
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Women in some parts of the west don't see the men here as worth sacrificing for, so the birth rate plummets. Women in other countries love their men and will take that risk for them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 05:31 PM
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Men and wome are different. What can I tell you. What's nice to look at and the crazy adventure fantasy is nice from the safety of home for a short period but gets boring and the reality of physical and emotional satisfaction is better than adventure and domination
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 05:30 PM
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Even those women aren't sure why they have ONS, the orgasm gap for that group is horrendous
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 05:26 PM
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Or the men in the relationship to be a partner and offload her stress so she can have a libido again. Why is your go to to jump ship when life gets hard. Women who have sex to distress can only do that when they feel supported by you. If they feel emotionally abandoned they develop a disgust for you and the destress sex doesn't work
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 05:22 PM
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You realise marraige isn't a prostitution contract
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 05:19 PM
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The idea is thebdeadbedroom comes about because the woman has developed a disgust around a man or he has lost interest in her for more exciting(normally porn) options.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 05:18 PM
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Look at the fantasy physiques with men doing fantasy things like being pirates and other silly things? You realise that would get old quickly for women in real life and the fantasy is the wild man taming himself for her so the more wild the more validating. Just like some women need expensive gifts, the more expensive the more validating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 05:05 PM
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Not attractive. Weak wrists, delts flat on the top, no pec volume. Something else though I'm not sure what, might be a slim neck. There's just no harmony there. Maybe it's the pictures I looked at... Do you have pictures?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 04:56 PM
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If you say so. I think men forget that every pregnant woman and mother knew that she might die delivering her children, women do it and we often gp in for seconds. Considering conscription for war is the first time men ever contemplate dying for their community and family. Women get reminded monthly
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 04:50 PM
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Nothing and I can see you regarding it highly
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 04:45 PM
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If you say so. Mansplain away. It's clearly worked for you up till now
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 04:44 PM
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It depends on the woman. If she likes snuggles and cuddles and sofa time. A fat guy is litterally better on those metrics. If she's sporty and wants to go on hikes together and get back rides and picked up, those arms and that back needs to be sorted. I'm she's a perfectionist and wants a highly curated life with a family that fits her image of how her life should be 6 pack, low fat required.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:51 PM
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Don't insult me. We all have access to your post history you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:48 PM
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Will you finish your sentences. "Its unjust and unfair so its better for men to make a run for it....so they can regroup and have gay sex with the bros without annoying women to make them feel bad or ashamed about what they want from life "
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:38 PM
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America is a land of immigrants. They will replace you. Eastern European countries tend to be a bit more communal
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:36 PM
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A man who dodges a draft is a coward. The same kind of man that uses his children as shields when he hears a loud bang or an animal runs towards him. Waste of time and affection
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:35 PM
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Chris Hemsworth? I'd prefer him with a dad bod. Also women have a type some skinny women like fatties and some chunky women like fatties. I don't know how much of a bean pole you are to say if you're slender, slim or disappearing. But to be fair most women aren't going to comment on your weight unless you make it a topic. We generally don't care. I also don't know where the 6ft reference came from. Are you 6ft and thin for your height? Do people make jokes about the wind blowing you over?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:33 PM
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better dressed and more attractive people get preferential treatment -people used to veing treated well as babies tend to grow up to be better adjusted adults, adults who aren't weird with anxiety and self loathing tend to not male people feel awkward. People who dress well tend to not have mental health issues and make people feel awkward. picking low level criminals over the average person - depending on your culture, drug dealers are more useful than the average person. If a woman likes drugs…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:28 PM
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You say misandry, it's actually androphobia. You're not wrong that spending time with good men helps women notice a bad man but that only works when everyone's young and bad men haven't had the life experience/are too stupid and therefore can only prey on the young to be better at hiding their intentions and manipulation. Both the wolf and she sheepdog have teeth. The most fearful of women will see teeth others will take the time to try and work through the camouflage and hope they survive the p…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 10:05 AM
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Sure, if they find him attractive. But women didn't make him fat, he was fat and likely will always be fat, 100% his choice. Women don't have to marry or have sex with fat men they don't like, you know that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 09:57 AM
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No hun. Some women like chunky men. Just like some men like big boobs/bums on an in shape woman, some women like an in shape but on the larger side man
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 09:51 AM
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I prefer a dad bod but I don't think men know what a dad bod is. Massive arms, broad back, overall muscular man but with a soft midsection. A physically attractive man that has relaxed into life and isn't in the gym 24/7
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 09:50 AM
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Women won't force feed you lard and burn your trainers. Promise
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 09:47 AM
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You've single handedly restored my faith in men not all being manipulative monsters with bell ends of heads and nut sacks for hearts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 09:47 AM
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You can always pay a prostitute if your hand gets tired.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 09:45 AM
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I agree. Men and women want different things from life. Nature and then patriarchy used to make them both compromise. Religions served to brainwash one group into wanting what the other did so there was harmony. In the absence of training children or forcing adults women will find men disgusting and men will find women to be an emotional nightmare. If men get their own way, society crumbles due to competition and inadequate family formation. If women get their own way men will have to learn to c…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 09:39 AM
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Yes more attractive for breeding, I.e. having children with. When it's hookups it's about the personality traits that could make money (the admiration that comes with being around a useful man), not the litteral money ( that you both know you won't benefit from).. Men pick women based off of fertility cues and status, women do not pick men off the same. You risk projecting your way of thinking onto us and digging yourself a hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 09:19 AM
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Money has no value to women in a hookup. Only if they're considering a long term relationship/marraige or children. Women who want expensive dates are vetting you for long term relationships. Are you generous and do you have enough income not to sweat it. Also status means nothing to women. Women care about usefulness. Sometimes usefulness and status converge within society but not always. But again for LTRs not one night stands. There's a caveat to that. Celebrities that some women have been fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 08:57 AM
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Only men care about status and looks. You're projecting. What women care about, which is often confused for status, is usefulness. You don't have to be at the top of your chosen hierarchy but a woman has to deem it valuable because it has use in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 08:48 AM
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A man with money is only hot if he has the personality traits that help a person get money. If his dad gave it to him and hes useless asa human being....not hot
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 08:45 AM
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Women want me to treat th as other women would. Women don't realise that men are degenerate and treat each other like trash. No woman wants a man to treat her like he treats other men, nor does she want him to treat her as he treats women. Men have little respect and manners naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 08:44 AM
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Wrong. BPD women often confuse drama for commitment. Men fighting their natural debased and animalistic tendencies to come back to her and fight for her. If you're selecting for these types of women by playing mind games, or fetishising female infantislisation through mental health issues you got what you deserved. I
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 08:42 AM
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Worse deal? She's not a car you pay to ride.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 08:38 AM
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Worse deal? She's not a car you pay to ride.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 08:36 AM
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If he was buying them things to get into their pants quickly then it's different o buying them things. If a woman isn't going to sleep with you immediately because she doesn't respect the men she does that with and plays a sadistic fantasy in her head around...it's different to just not having sex because of attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 08:35 AM
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Just say you hate women and can't believe men have to march towards death while they get to stay home, learn to do the dirty jobs men can't do in their absence and only worry about death potentially visiting them. My guy. We're all waiting for you to say the thing you really want to say
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 08:27 AM
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You are the sort of person who leads to these war scenarios. People are people, not resources to use for an aim
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 08:07 AM
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I'd rather an amputee than a coward. Most women would. Being able to support the family is an issue for an amputee and that's for the goverment to sort out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 08:03 AM
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Attraction is highly negotiable for women. Ugly man with a good perosnality is attractive. Jason Mamoa that makes fart jokes and can't clean up after himself - gross
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 08:00 AM
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Love and romance. The one thing men hate giving women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:56 AM
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That's so sad. No men will ever treat us well enough, it's all fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:49 AM
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I don't think any women disagree, many women live that reality already. The only thing I will raise is that part of the social contract means that everyone contributes and everyone gets the benefit of whatever that society deems essential. Physical safety is one of those, not every man or woman gets it but society will often fight for them to. A minimum level of respect as a fellow human being probably covers everything though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:47 AM
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You talk about this like someone who has never considered what it means to have children. Just the price. I agree that legacy patriachial structures make it hard. My argument is the traditional way, before patriarchy entrenched 'every man gets a woman and a castle' was better for women and children. Since every man has had a woman and a castle the only way societies have been able to maintain birth rates is to have 'romance' festivals (Eastern Europe), teach girls getting married is the best par…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:37 AM
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Women want to be treated how women treat other people. We forget how degenerate men's are that there's a big difference
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:29 PM
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Approach them with the energy of wanting to be friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:23 PM
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I'd rather a disable guys than a coward. The issue comes in if I have to financially support him and he's depressed because he can't look after his family. But that's a goverment problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 12:10 PM
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Any woman can become emotionally unhealthy after having a baby. It's more a case of support than previous history. There are so many temporary hormonal and permanent brain changes. And pretty much everyone can think of a time where their mother took her own stress out on them, even if it was through a level of neglect. This is why, if you have a nuclear family, dad needs to be emotionally regulated.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 08:47 AM
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It's not extremities at all. Emotionally dysregulated men will attack the children physically when they're distressed. Many people from poor backgrounds especially will cosign. Also mothers who aren't supported enough because they're ina nuclear setup and the man doesn't have the capacity to carry his load plus some of hers tend to be mothers who for various mental health reasons detach emotionally and sometimes physically from their children. Emotionally stable men are essential for child raisi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 08:20 AM
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That some men are treating dating as a way of getting charity from sex workers is really annoying. Especially because they assume and treat all women like potential sex workers. It's a dating app not a hookup app.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 08:09 AM
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A man capable of being an emotional support systems is so important with children. I'd women have PPD that gets bad enough they can abandnon their children. Men that are emotionally dysregulated tend to shake crying babies
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 08:05 AM
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Those men aren't wrong. Men are choosy with relationships but will put their dick in anything
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:42 AM
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Most men have standards for women they'd show to their friends and family. For women they'd be in relationships with For sex? Zero if no-one would ever know
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:40 AM
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Men will f anything. A man wanting to have sex with you is not a compliment, often its an insult, he thinks you're so dumb he can try and use you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:38 AM
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The problem men have is they externalise their problems, often aggressively or violently so people have less patience for their issues. If a woman is hurt, she likely won't hurt you and will be grateful for support, when a man is hurt he will use you to make himself feel better, regardless of its impact on you. It's the age old trope, a woman sits at home and self harms through the pain while the guy goes out, has a few drinks and gets intoa punchup
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:36 AM
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Most beautiful women are with significantly less attractive men that make them happy. When those men don't make them happy they get ugly, then there's a break up and the women look beautiful again. Personality is the main one. I don't know if we roll "does not trigger disgust " in there but it's also high. Either way most women don't look at men and get attracted. There has to be a context built up and that's all about her trying to gauge your personality. That is all the female gaze is, persona…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:32 AM
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You seem to be the kind of guy who confuses girlfriend for charitable sexworker. I don't think you should be in a relationship either
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:24 AM
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I'd answer but I don't see how it's relevant to the conversation and I'm not going to help you derail it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:13 AM
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Looks are like 9th on a woman's list. Also average doesn't matter. What's necessary is necessary. If the average income is 30k and the minimum required for a decent life is 90k, guess what income women will be looking out for as a minimum. Also if the average guy is so animalistic and deformed it makes women's skin crawl, women will be looking for a guy that doesn't make their skin crawl. Doesn't matter if his is the top 10 or 0000.1 %.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 05:37 PM
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I'm complaining that goverment policy and societal stricture is still around the nuclear family. It is still the default, even though it isnt implemented 100% of the time. Were still pushing young girls towards it, and we will continue to wonder why they have few or no children. This is not a push for nanny stateism. It's a push for the traditional way of things. The nuclear family has always been an experiment and it pretty much failed from the getgo bit men liked it so it stayed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 05:32 PM
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I 100% agree. And that is why men in their 30s become more attractive. Hey stop being walking penises and start being people
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 01:44 PM
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Depends on her genetics, his age, their combined genetics, the hospital overall culture, how busy they are on the day, the experience of her prenatal team, the experience of her post natal team. If she can afford to rest pre and post natal etc. A lot can and does go wrong. Most mothers thought they might die on at least one of their births. Not from the pain but while they were losing consciousness, or were so fatigued didn't think they could push anymore and afterwards with infections or being …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 09:39 AM
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Define afford. If they're relying on their introverted male friends. They're doomed. If they have female friends introverted or extroverted have told them they're looking for a woman they won't mess around with and will be respectful of and those female friends aren't inviting them out or creating circumstances where he can bump into her female friends and acquaintances....she's not doing it consciously. We women have lots of male friends that are lovely as friends but we know would be a nightma…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 09:32 AM
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It's more than men care about sex, food, sport and looking cool. Calling a guy a loser or incel hits two of those with one stone. Most women have no clue how truly sexually depraved men are untill they hit their 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:10 AM
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I don't disagree with 1, 2 or 3. I disagree that its about getting laid. If you're still on the whole I need a woman to validate my manhood arc of life...loser
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:06 AM
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Your problem is a lack of masculinity not balancing sexual overtness. Plenty of women will swoon over men who show nil sexual interests in them. Women do not swoon over men being sexually interested, it's not a compliment or a turn on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:02 AM
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Ego
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:00 AM
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Men do the community a disservice when they settle. If the women knew, those relationships would be over. Instead those men lie and treat those women poorly. This is why married, partnred and single women say men are trash. Because lots of women assume men can't be better. Luckily the new generations of women are learning the signs of the difference between a man that likes you and one that sticks around for easy sex. Women would rather be alone than settled for
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 04:59 AM
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And value them the least
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 04:55 AM
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For a woman to become a mother she has to willingly, risk death and lifelong disease. This is why men don't get a standing ovation after a baby is born
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 04:54 AM
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This is part if the problem. Women: mothers aren't appreciated! Men: I think she's beautiful, what other appreciation does a woman need? Bin the whole nuclear family model
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 04:52 AM
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It's not about appreciation. Appreciation is worth shit. It boils down to society changing to meet men's needs via a nuclear family which is awful for women and children.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 04:47 AM
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The number of women who die in childbirth, evennin the west, would suggest otherwise. Not much research funding gets devoted to keeping mothers healthy, many hospitals do not divert resources to it either. It's weird. Providig an egg and birthng a baby and producing a placenta in the US is on the market, worth a few hundred thousand dollars probably half a mill. But women are expected to do it for free, for their country, with very poor health service. Despite it being litterally life threatenin…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 04:42 AM
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...most women will say something along the lines of "the beat is good" Do you listen to music for the inspirational poetry of the lyrics?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 04:35 AM
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Probably one with a cannibalism fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 04:31 AM
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It's not a new trend. Women have been fiddling below the belt for aesthetics ever since porn hit mainstream in the 70s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 04:27 AM
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Oh, I was on my way to get coffee do you want to come Is different from I'd like to meet you and spend time with you and see where this goes. Can I take you out for coffee?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 04:26 AM
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Urgh that is the story of any human with a cluster B perosnality pathology. Look at what you're typing in point two , you've just described a narcisssit trying to get supply through a partner because they do not feel competent enough to get it themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 04:23 AM
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Only works with broken women with no self esteem. Women with decent self esteem won't even listen to the music, let alone pay to go to a concert
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 04:19 AM
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By your logic "go to a morgue, mental asylum or a school " is also based advice for finding a sexual partner. The groupies at concerts are very emotionally damaged and vulnerable women. The question is only how vulnerable is acceptable for you. As for women in the crowds screaming, women do that at other women's concerts as well. Attention does not equal sexual opportunity
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 04:17 AM
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Because lots of men don't have standards and will put their dick in anything dead or alive. The question is what is the percentage of the male population that has 0 standards and does it change after 30
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 04:12 AM
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You mean during college and its not a true cold approach if its on or close to campus. There's the assumption you go to the same or an affiliated school, or have something to do with the college. Itsbluke saying you cold approach at work. Actually there's already a lot of context and information about you, to be in that building and workplace etc. Or at high school. A cold approach on the street with zero social context is what you're comparing it to. You forget cold approaching mainly doesn't w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 04:03 AM
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Wife is looking after the children. Where do you think the cut off should be for her in terms of diverting her resources of time, money and emotional labour from the children to baby him in his time of weakness? How much long term damage should children endure from functionally losing two parents, because mum is consumed with trying to jump start dad and dad is struggling to get back on his feet? Should a good father not want his children taken care of even when he's struggling?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 08:00 AM
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And if he has intention but is struggling with the fear of failure again, has developed an addiction dependency etc which is slowing him down and the children are suffering while he has his emotional breakdown?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 07:15 AM
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There used to be a system. It was called community. Men would be slung into shotgun weddings or end up in bushes. Men would carefully choose women they wanted to court and they thought were in their league and would speak to their families to make sure they made decent decisions Men would invite a woman into his world, not over spend trying to compete with other men, and wouldn't date if they couldn't afford it Women would never be expected to pay for their dates, even if they could afford it so…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:21 PM
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Men get more female attention when dating a woman because you're deemed as safe. So I guess it is social proof in someway but its not romantic or sexual. Women will sit and laugh with you, and touch you and hug you - platonically. Once you're single and certainly I you start flirting, you're suspicious and not safe, you get chucked out of the harmless friend zone into potential predator zone. Men however don't seem to know what sort of women they like, so go by what their most respected friend/t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:09 PM
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Its the same scenario. Many of those men will turn to alcohol if they struggle with ego or can't go back to similar work and often turn violent. The men that can go back to adequately paying jobs often have a level of savings, a plan they can share with their families and are back on the horse within months. I'll ask you again. If a guy has no plan and can't get back on track. Should the mother let the children suffer, physically and mentally to save his feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:54 PM
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Lonely men are lonely because they have no male or female friends and no life goals to give themselves self respect.... It's entirely a them problem that external people can solve
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:52 PM
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Women don't make it difficult at all if you're looking for a relationship. Only of you're looking for casual sex. Your examples of meeting women are about coming across one in the wild you gind sexually alluring and convincing her to let you as a stranger get close to her. If your focus was to find a woman with similar interests as you by spending time doing social things that interest you, you'd find that women would be more open. But that would require you approaching women wih a relationship …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:50 PM
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All women have a dream of what they want from their children. If a man who said he would care for their children decides he no longer wants to put in the work to provide for their children, should she or should she not find a man that will care for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:45 PM
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That's a woman who likes you trying to lower her standards for you. The degree signifies lots of real world skills. Sociability, being able to tolerate intellectual stress etc. You couldn't show those things with the degree but there's a chance you can show them in your current job, if you've matured. Women are always subconsciously looking for a father to their children. Are your genes good, is your character good enough to pass onto children.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:14 PM
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They confuse status with usefulness and therefore get the wrong metrics. A useful but low paid man is better than a high status but useless high paid man. See firefighters, men who volunteer to community and youth services, men who have a big social circle that's like extended family etc. Human resource are more valuable than capital.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:11 PM
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If she has children, should she stay and let their children suffer because he's failing or is it her duty as a mother to both of their children to ensure they're provided for?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:05 PM
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Enough men disgust women or portray men as the devil that women would rather be single
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:00 PM
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The advice is fine your understanding of it is wrong. Friendships: take the edge off of loneliness (so youre not so desperate) and allow you to work on your people skills, conflict resolution and empathy. Friendship is not supposed to help you with your sexual desire. As a man you need to learn to control that. Friendship groups: are not there so you have women around to have sex with you. It's not a shared harem. It's there so you can spend time with people who have shared interests and similar…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:45 PM
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Only if the woman is also playing patriarchy. Younger women are refusing to play yhe mating game by those rules
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:14 AM
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Honestly it's where I'm having second thoughts in whether he's not attractive but may have a good perosnlity so worth talking to or something k his post has triggered my disgust response and I didn't give it weight untill second time around. Lots of men take pictures from the male gaze rather than the female gaze then wonder why the pictures don't do well
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 07:54 AM
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Lot of conjecture here. The participation rate is something like 15 years old +. They take education seriously so most girls don't enter the labour force till after that. Plus women of retiring age/grandma's don't work because traditionally they just don't. South Korea is a rapidly ageing society, most women are in the too old to work or grew up in the traditional patriarchial era group. We are talking about women of mareaigeable and reproduction age, yes? Then let's talk about them, the disappe…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 10:19 PM
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Porn sickness is about unrealistic expectations about women's sexuality and men's inability to get sexually excited about women outside of a very small body part niche or very specific sexual acts. All females are choosy. Women have inbuilt systems to avoid men who are not genetically compatible and would produce sick children with them or would otherwise be harmful to a family unit. That is the crux of an ick - disgust. Its not that women swipe left because that guy isn't super amazing, it's be…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 09:56 AM
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If you understood economics you wouldn't have bothered referencing medium income to try and justify why 100k was good or not. Don't try and back pedal. Also the poverty line is set by many supranational bodies. The US does not have abject poverty as defined by the UN but many areas meet the poverty definitions for international aid by charitable organisations such as the rest cross and areas recieve it. 100k in the US can have people skipping meals to feed their children, 100k in the US can have…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 11:28 AM
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Your answer is too long to respond to. Reset. Provide a series of questions and I'll answer. Right now you're rambling and whining about difficult aspects of being male. There's not much to respond to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 08:33 AM
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The median salary of a country can still lead to poverty. To know if a salary is good you need to look at average costs of housing, utilities, food, raising children, transport, necessary insurance. Those are the basics. If the median (or twice the median) salary doesn't cover that comfortably, your country has severe poverty. What the Victorians called destitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 08:30 AM
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I'm not sure what country you're in but I can say home owners don't want homes to increase in price they don't want them to depreciate or lose value against inflation. Corporations and land owners do want values to increase and they spend a lot of money lobbying the goverment. I agree about the tribalism making things worse but I'd say it's overall too much power being centralised and then that centralised structure being too vulnerable to corruption
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 08:25 AM
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You assume that woman comes from a reliable family. You assume that women have the finances to save sufficiently to buffer against inflation for life costs, baby costs and potential baby related illness costs. I think you have unreasonable expectations of women in their 20s. ...and zero expectations for men. Some women have decided having a child alone is too much work and never come across worthy men to have children with so our birth rate falls (yes that's not the only factor) Going forward so…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 10:07 PM
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Honestly, I don't hate anyone but poor men have no business orgasming babies into existence. Children deserve better
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 10:02 PM
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You gave them a rest from a day of hammocking an unreasonable weight. Huh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 10:00 PM
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Like I said. That (non trans) women can't legally rape is something for you to take up with the legal system. So when you're quoting your stats be accurate. It takes away from your argument otherwise and makes it boring for me to prove you wrong. I'm not denying the existence of female peadophiles but if we can't agree that male ones vastly outnumber the female ones...you're not a reasonable person and aren't having a good will conversation. High violence tends to come from high testosterone ind…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:57 PM
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....dude. I don't know whether to laugh at or cry for humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:48 PM
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I know what the anglospehere is. You don't, it's what I'm trying to point out. Your IQ is so low, I'm wasting my time here...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:46 PM
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You're a good guy. Looking out for the 'cel bros
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:45 PM
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Then let's stop before you bunch your knickers.. Both of us have made our points. The thread can make their own decisions
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:42 PM
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The lady was pointing out its a common stand point in those communities. Anyone who looks at those sites can confirm she is correct. Saying the relevance is low is like saying the number of murderers of racists is low. We hope so Enough of them to do serious damage
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:41 PM
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Most of the world is patriarchy but they're fractured and broken. Korean women work hard. The work culture in Korea is 6 out if 7 days and they're still traditional society where women are expected to cook and clean as a duty to their husbands. Unmarried women do less domestic labour than married women world wide and childless women less still so considering Korean women are unpartnered with nil children, that could be true. In terms of domestic violence, there are few laws against it and men on…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:37 PM
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If that's what gets you through life. Go for it. You get one, be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:32 PM
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Most people will find your attempt at smearing my name hilarious. They can go back and see my history you know. You didn't discover the functionality. What a clown. Do you have your full makeup face on right now? Do you go out and buy women's makeup, put it on with a wig and smile at yourself in the mirror to get through the week. Is that the only feminine smile you get directed towards yourself? You may as well go get yourself a skirt and dildo and practice being cucked. One day a woman might l…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:29 PM
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Go on a womens forum and ask them. Would they rather a man who proves his masculinity by dominant men or women. They will all say men. The followup, which is the nuance, is do you like it when a man is a bit/occasionally ruff and gruff with you, answer will be yes but only because that's spill over behaviour from his core personality (a gentle reminnder), not.because it's directed at them. An example is women who like the scratchy feel of a man's beard. They don't like the litteral scratching, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:22 PM
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You haven't read a thing I've written....go back gave another look, write an appropriate response and I'll answer you accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:17 PM
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No I'm making the point this guy is morally repugnant that he can't get the women he wants so he'll go out of his way to interfere with and preemptively damage a section if women he doesn't want but they're he only ones that will give him the time of day. Dude needs to be put in a hole untill he chooses to be human over making his dick happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:16 PM
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Agressive language why? Too much sex makes women sore. They need a rest, I get time to hop on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:13 PM
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Men, someone please explain that men will 'secure' a woman with a popular look, to show off to his friends, even if she's not his type and go get his type as a well cared and invested in for mistress or second wife. He will also replace the trophy when the shine fades and the wrinkles come through but keep his type because that's his type. I hope you don't catch marital aids or whatever your guy brings home for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:11 PM
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...uhuh. And after you wrote that all the ladies on the thread dried up, like the desert. You don't know when to call it quits huh. Are you one of those guys that creep women out, not knowing when to leave even when you can practically see their skin crawl.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:07 PM
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Women can get the ick very quickly and easily with men. They just need to trigger disgust. Younger generations understanding of men is already causing a level of disgust so individual men don't have to do much to get them over the line. Abused girls and women will partake in abusive cycles, just like abused men participate in abusive cycles. Those instances are sad and we hope those women grow out of it as they get older. Not all do. But that's not promiscuity it's sexual trauma patterns.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:05 PM
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Statutory maternity pay normally isn't enough to cover nappies and clothes for a child. Individual companies can choose to offer more but not all women can access the best companies. Anti discrimination laws are great for women not wanting to crash out of the economy to have children or yo be blocked from opportunities but it doesn't impact her difficulty accessing funds if she has increased sick leave during pregnancy or post partum, struggles to return to the same level of work if she is unwel…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:01 PM
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Depends on the country. 100k usd is nothing. 100k GBP is top 5% 100k aud is the average electrician. You're an idiot because you're comparing 100k in the US to 100k in India. The cost of living is wild different. The amount t of work required to earn it is wildly different. You're the top 1% of having no conception of how an economy works.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 08:57 PM
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You're gross. Source the law in most of the west
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 08:54 PM
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State mandated child support is pittance in comparison to the financial cost of raising children and doesn't include the more important parenting aspects of giving children time and love. Punishment and accountability are not the same thing. I don't care for men being punished. Them dying alone over years, Following a stroke and poor health, seeing other people have children visit and cook etc will be their natural punishment. I'm talking accountability. Noticing what they're doing wrong and mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 08:54 PM
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Source for what exactly? That men can see their children without the mothers permission? Try the law in most Western countries, including the US
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 08:51 PM
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Says the guy who comparer women risking health and life having sex with them to TV entertainment. You're self centred and oblivious. You are the reason there is pee in the dating pool. Go away
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 08:48 PM
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I know you're gross. You know you're gross. Women take seconds to work out you're gross. Stop making everyone's life hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 08:46 PM
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Women are changing their minds as they realise men and women aren't similar in important ways and men on average trigger women's disgust. Boys and men have always pressured women into sex. We forget that kidnapping your wife in some world regions became so popular it remained as part of the wedding ceremony. Giving the wife's family money because traditionally men bought girls directly from the family etc. Women have always had to deal with that instinct in men and fight for their safety in soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 08:43 PM
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So we agree. The reason is wrong. But the outcome is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 08:38 PM
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Men will never understand that concept. They hate each other
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:49 AM
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Promiscuity is two people on the same page having sex what he's suggesting is deception of naieve women to get aex. It's not comparable
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:47 AM
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I wish men with your mind set would stay away from relationships. You're making women hate men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:45 AM
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Yet he will settle for having to have that guilt around taking away virginity because the promiscuous women don't want him?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:44 AM
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Because you're not telling the woman that you're doing that. Infact you hope she never finds out else you know she won't agree. That is taking advantage of someone's trusting nature, naivete and bring deceitful
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:40 AM
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Most men have a specific type of woman in mind to marry but will try their luck with any woman who gives them the time of day. They just decided not to play with you. I wouldn't calk that nice but I suppose it's the beginning of a redeeming arch.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:37 AM
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Birth control did nothing. Convincing young women to be sexually promiscuous was the problem. Young women are changing their minds back, slowly but the abundance of porn and onlyfans will continue to delay men's desire to settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:35 AM
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It is but these are the same magazines and websites encouraging girls to be promiscuous and engage in porn sex...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:31 AM
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Do you know ehat the world Anglo means?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:23 AM
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You're an idiot if you think the average Indian man makes 1500usd per month. These countries are still on 5 USD a day median income
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:22 AM
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It's a shame that it's so hard to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:17 AM
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Not social status *usefulness
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:15 AM
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Men used to out earn women because society wanted them to have more money etc and women were barred from uni. That's not fair. Women want men who outearn them because they're stronger, faster, more resilient, more intelligent, more resourceful etc. Money is a proxy for good father traits, upbringing and genetics. That is hypergamy. Better gametes(genes)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:15 AM
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Why are you on reddit and not living your best passport bro life with your wife that can't speak English?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:10 AM
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You do. It's just American men who didn't have dad's to teach them how to work effectively, complaining they're too poor to look after themsleves, let alone a family. They think that if they went to a poorer country, they'd be paid the same US wage over there and live well. They're too dumb to understand country specific economies means they'd be paid an equivalent, which would leave then in the same place of poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:06 AM
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The problem osnt poverty but life quality thay comes with it. Gone are the days that poor meant less nice clothes and less expensive sweets. Now poverty means dangerous towns, insecure housing low quality food, pare ts always working so no attention etc
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:01 AM
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So you're complaining about inflation? In Latin America men are still building houses for their wives with families help. That'd save you 400k in the US but men aren't traditional enough to have those skills
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:59 AM
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Not unless the state pays for their children or they choose not to have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:56 AM
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A poor man can gey a woman pregnant and abandon her. That's the worst case. He can stay and she can watch her children suffer from the effects of poverty. Malnutrition, unsafe environment poor future prospects. That and men under stress tend to be more violent. With a woman too tired ( from over working and poor health) to have eex, plus added child bills men tend to be abusive. Women risk their lives and health birthing children. Women having sex with men risk their lives. Why risk your life fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:53 AM
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But women still want a man who cab provide some security if she gets pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:47 AM
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Women like dominant men that dominate other men, not that dominate women. Women feel safe and relaxed with them because they don't have to worry about the threat other men potentially pose. Occasional Reminders of the dominant man's nature is fine but if he starts controlling the woman she outta there. He's supposed to be protecting her from other men, not chaining her up in the basement. Otherwise I agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:42 AM
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Hookup men dislike hookup culture? Where's my violin....
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:34 AM
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That guy is ugly. Womens taste varies, a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:33 AM
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The problem is that friend means something different to men and women. Women wouldnt dream of treating their friends as poorly as men do. Be able to be female friends to keep her Be a dimorphic male to attract her
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:26 AM
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A good personality isn't goodness coins. You are or you aren't. Doing nice things in the hopes of getting sex out of it is goodness coins. Pretending to be what your not and growing resentment in the meantime
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:23 AM
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To maintain a relationship you need to be friends. To get the opportunity to have the relationship you need to be attractive as a sexually dimorphic human
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:18 AM
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Girls assume boys are more like them so a nice guy is just friendly in their minds. It takes explicit teaching for women to understand how sexually depraved men are and with that context they can understand the nice guys way of thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:15 AM
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If you try and work with boys in an educational format you'd understand why she wrote that. It's not surprising yo anyone who works with boys. Male teachers will agree. Boys like to learn the hard way on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:13 AM
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You should look at the incel forums. The only time they really fight is when they try to draw the age line for peadophilla. They'll make multi page report around historical levels in different countries, reported mental health implications at different ages etc. Every guy looks down on the guy with an age lower than his. At the end they all cry that the legal age is almost hitting the wall and there's no point in trying to date...occasionally some sickos popup and suggest passport bro'ing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:09 AM
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Bravo. To add though. The education system was built by men for boys. It's just that girls thrive in that arena. We can choose to change it to benefit boys but can we be honest that it was never envisioned that girls would access this level of education enmasse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:04 AM
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Correct outcome, wrong reason. Those boys will still be better adjusted than the average male redditor. Most boys are ticking time bombs, that's why prisons are full, tough guy coaches need to lead agressive sports for adolescent boys and we have most of our antisocial crime. It was a few decades ago that all boys were enlisted in an army style coming of age in all countries. The boys with the most potential will blow up the worst if they're not guided to divert that energy to somewhere useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:00 AM
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Men are naturally slower to develop, more likely to not be neurotypical, have worse emotional Regulation etc. It's just biology
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:52 AM
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By feminists and misandry do you mean data and millenia worth of anecdote?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:48 AM
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A real man role models yo his children regardless of what any woman says. Are you really here asking women permission for men to be strong role models. Get outta here. Just be, how about that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:47 AM
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Divorce doesn't cause fatherless children. It is illegal for mothers to stop fathers getting access and most fathers settle out of court because they don't want their children or at least the time and financial burden they represent. It's not that women are leaving the men it's that men are leaving the children and societies is trying to shame the women for the men leaving the children, like it should be a package deal. Hold men accountable for how they treat their children and you will see men …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:45 AM
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Most women want men in their eareas of dominance for that reason. Men will not put up with suppressed wages and low pay. It's not women stopping them, it's men not wanting to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:41 AM
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Plenty of ugly and just about surviving men out there married wih multiple children. Just because you're level of personality repulsion has meant you can't a wife and kids doesnt mean ugly men can't do it. Honestly it's a game of disgust. All men are loved and valued by women and then things they do to actively disgust those women just torpedo their chances and they chances of men that remind her of you. It's possible for men's personalities to be so gross they turn women to social lesbianism.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:35 AM
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That's a ridiculously false statement
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:31 AM
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That's not what I described at all. Side note korea has one of the worst domestic violence rates in the (measured) world. Women will always make decisions around their children even if they let the man think its his idea. Its intrinsic to being a woman and a mother. Every mother risks her life to birth each child and her ongoing health to raise them. She's not deferring their best interest to anyone who isn't close to being as intune with them as she is. Lastly. Submissive by your definition is …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:30 AM
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No. Most of the time when men don't get women who like them it's because they triggered disgust and that digust outweighs the love like that is still there and exists independently. So you're right they can't imagine kissing you bit it's not due to your face. Women love absolute orks because of their personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:17 AM
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" woman who used even MORE physical violence than the man, would STILL get a shorter jail sentence, simply because she is a woman." Untrue. Unless you're measuring violence on intent v outcome. So she hit twice and split a lip v he hit once and put them in a coma. The damage don't to the victim is the aggravating factor, not the intent. Also the biggest victims of male violence is men. I don't know why you'd think anyone would assume men aren't suffering when men are around. Everyone suffers whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 08:53 PM
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The last generation of naieve women are gen Y. All women before that were taught that men aren't sexually predatory, men like and want families. Men like women and spending non sexual time wih hem etc. Women are still unlearning as they get older. The first generation to have men truly being men upfront and close in their media, whilst they are children is generation y. The first generation of girls raised to know some men aim for multiple broken families, that rely purely on the mothers strengt…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:19 PM
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I'm wincing at the older man part but I'm hoping it's an age gap for the right reasons. I'm glad you're thriving.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:10 PM
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I can't tell if you're trolling or not. People that fall into patterns of abuse have exactly the same pattern it just manifests differently depending on the abuse. A woman who was sexually abused as a child will subconsciously seek out the sake dynamic to give herself he chance to make it right. So they will feel comfortable around men healthy women would not and honk they can manage situations it wouldny even occur to healthy women to have nightmares about. That's why therapy is needed. To iden…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:04 PM
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" dumping process you just pull back while you start to look for a woman who's on your level. " I do believe this is the monkey branching men accuse women of. It's immoral. At the point you decide a woman is not for you, you should end a relationship by telling the truth. Anything past that is deception and sociopathic. Which to be fair to you, may be who you are but society tends to despise people like that, they used to be thrown out of the community into the wilderness. I guess it'll take you…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 01:40 PM
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You must be doing poorly in life because your comprehension is awful. Women get grace only where it impacts or could impact a child. Where women commit the same crime, their jail time is usually lower because men have additional aggravating factors such as violence during the crime or women get mitigating factors such as chronic domestic abuse that they do not feel they can leave for reasonable reasons and like a caged animal they lash out or they did something bad whilst pregnant and a long jai…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 01:30 PM
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I think every woman has been there. Wondering if men who know they're lucky getting a chance will treat you well...and they just act as though they earned it and sometimes are worse wih resentment if they acknowledge they're luck and don't deserve you. Many famous female singer has written a song about the ugly guy being worse human beings than the good looking ones. Sorry that's your world. Make sure to teach and save the younger ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 12:04 PM
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Is it that bad out there? My cut off is 5, that leeway is for getting into multiple bad relationships with good intentions. It feels like anything higher than that was testing promiscuity simply because. It is funny how we both have odd numbers though. I could've been 6 or 16
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 11:58 AM
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Men are men and women are women globally. Im not sure what primary language has to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 11:57 AM
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They are. But cues of health are more likely preserved between two good lookers than two non good lookers. If you're ugly the best thif you can do is breed outside of your race. Genetic diversity via trait variety looks good.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 11:37 AM
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Hmm. If you can self orgasm it's not a physical problem and youre not asexual, there's a psycological block somewhere. Maybe try r/twoxchromosomes. You won't be the first or only woman looking for answers to that question.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 11:34 AM
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Women are raised to think thees an abundance of decent men. No one is raised to think there's an abundance of pri ces, close to ruin who'll email randomers in other countries to ask for hel
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 11:31 AM
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Wifely duties...oh gosh...let's hope women don't talk to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 11:23 AM
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Yes women with low and lower self esteem tend to be sexually predated upon. The same is said for women who have been sexually absued tend to be sexually abused in the future. It's low self esteem and no clue how to vet men. So men that should be side stepped get their time and when there's an opportunity attack that woman. When women blame the men and not themsleves they look for the traits in that man that led to the attacks and are hyperviiglant of them in the future. Those men don't get acces…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 11:19 AM
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Women struggle with men and relationships because no-one taught them men are actively predatory and will lie and cheat for sex and no-one teachers them how to vet those men past 'make them crawl over glass' if they keep crawling they really want you. Gen Y were the last generation to grow up on Disney and other 'men are good people who will not sexually predate' media. Future generations of girls are learning from a younger age that sex and ego has a value to men women will never understand and …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 11:15 AM
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They're talking about different things. Those women are talking about finding a lifetime partner. Not having hookups. Men hold most powwer there because women generally want security and stability of one man so men have to agree to that exclusivity. If it comes to hookups women could go up to any man they wanted suggest a quickie in the car and go about their day but that is harmful to women. They don't want it. Men hold power in women accessing what women want and women hold power in men access…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:59 AM
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Doing life together in a way that means you're responsible for each other and each others well being. If I use a business analogy two owners of that business will be 100% on making sure it thrives and that each other are if a good frame of mind to keep putting 100% in. Your best interests align fully and that person being at their peak becomes your best interest. Friends you may want to do well but you're not going to sacrifice on your side to bolster them in the same way. Their ups and downs wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:50 AM
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Women are the prize in all cultures and most species. In different times a prize can be won with more or less work but women will never understand what access to women means to men. Also what being 'chosen'as the winner means to men. They're buit for competition and guarding. Women should hold a man she chooses in high esteem but women won't fight each other for men (for security and other thigs maybe, but access to a man, no). If that's what you call a prize then sure. But men will work and pla…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:45 AM
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She just needs to meet decent men. It's like men in hookup culture only get to know women in hookup culture so their view of women is set by their social circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:40 AM
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Why 15? Genuine question.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:38 AM
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It's the idea of using another person's body for sexual gratification....if there's no intent of emotional connection. You need to have a sociopathic/psychopathic mind set to do this and the more you do it the more it entrenches. I'd seperate this from friends with benefits because even though that's also bad there is a level of mutual respect and aspect of playing adult games together rather than using each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:37 AM
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This. I'm pretty sure this type of man is the one we see, rejected by women his own age who know better and who then go for the big age gaps with women with no "baggage" who are sweetly naieve.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:34 AM
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Men and women are different on this one. Women that have sex with multiple men do it just because. It's like going abroad and trying new food. Men that have sex with multiple women are satisfying a lizard brain urge that quickly turns into a habit and addiction. Neural pathways get laid down for men in a way they don't for women. Being able to access multiple women start affecting men's dopamine and serotonin pathways in a similar way the porn addicted men struggle. Women don't have those issues…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:31 AM
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Don't be triggered. This is representative of the poorly adjusted men in the world who have never known women well enough to understand them as people rather than sex objects. It's #not all men and these ones are too porn addicted and ineffectual in life to ever bother with an uprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:07 AM
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If you're reading that as hostile your life can't be that great right now, I'm sorry for you etc. No woman has disagreed thus far but if it makes you feel better about your life...go for it. You've yet to ask for clarification or elaboration. If you're being genuine by all means ask away. Just mention what you want elaborated.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:01 AM
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Women need to know the man they've chosen can manage with them in the pregnant, nursing and small child rearing phases, this is years of women putting in work men can't even comprehend. Breastfeeding is 30 hours per week in the first year or her handing over the milk her body has made. It doesn't even account for the energy taken to make it. So women look for men they think would be 'good fathers' I.e. patient with children and 'generous' able to be equitable win them if they.have children. A 's…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 09:58 AM
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I never said looks aren't important. I said they're not high up on the list For men they are number one on the list if her perosnality is shit it doesn't matter to them, if she abuses them but looks good, t doesn't matter, she could be in debt to her eye balls, etc... I did say attraction is important and that perosnality feeds into that for women. I don't know where sex comes into this but yes, sex is important. You need to be attracted to want to have sex as a woman. Men can and sometimes do h…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 09:50 AM
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That's playing games. You should be you. If you need to be more to get her interested it's playing games and if you have leeway to pull back it's not you either which is still games. What do you then say to/about the woman who has had men offer more than they could (for a bait and switch) before so decided to wait a bit longer before getting attached to see if it was him before becoming invested herself and you 'pull back' before she decides you're being honest and because of timing you seem lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 09:46 AM
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Oh no. Do you like him a lot? Does he treat you well? A lot of sex is psycological. Have you ever had an orgasm/can you give yourself one? Are yu chronically stresssed? There must be sub reddits for this. We will find you one!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 09:41 AM
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Oh boy. Considering the list is long I was surprised to find you're wrot on all of them. Men die on average earlier, partly because genetically their immune system is inferior to women's, especially if that woman has had a baby. But secondarily because men, on average, don't look after themselves. So a married/partnered/single but have children who care man lives longer than a willing or unwillingly single man who doesn't have family that will bag him to eat better, see the doctor etc. It's sad …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 09:38 AM
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Whatever. I don't benefit from you taking good advice and absorbing perspective. Do what you want with the information
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:08 PM
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The conundrum. A cold approaching means a guy saw your face and body and thought 'I want to tap that's so goes up to you to see if he can. It's insulting and objectifying. The other end of the spectrum. They good friend that betrays a woman's trust. They guy who got so close to her she saw him as a brother/family member actually the entire time saw her ina sexual light and was taking his time ploting to get into her pants. He never liked or cared about her. It was just the long game. It was alwa…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:06 PM
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Women desire equity whilst thinking they desire equality. That's where the confusion lies. Equity to women is equality. Equality in a man's eyes puts women at a significant disadvantage. The most obvious example is a 6 month pregnant woman who gets out of breath going up the stairs (because the baby is compressing her lungs) having to equally match a man's labour...it's not happening. In that situation a woman looks for what men call equity. She has to take the hit to burn his demon spawn he nee…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:59 PM
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Sure let's have the debate. What do you Hinksey women get that isn't indirectly linked to safeguarding children.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:50 PM
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No woman (feel free to survey) will say looks are the number 1 thing they look for. Attraction yes. But attraction for a woman is far more than looks. Most of it is personality cues.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:49 PM
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I disagree. It sounds like you've tried to bait and switch and are wondering why women don't like it. During the courting phase you show a woman's the best parts of your life and eventually invite her into it. You shouldn't be doing this you can't maintain. If a woman wants more from life than you can maintain you are batting out of your league. Women have plenty of relationship skills which they use to keep friendships and families running smoothly, they're constantly practicing relational skil…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:48 PM
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Men who want to settle down will look for women to settle down with and do what they need to get a woman to agree. Men who want sex with no strings will do what they need to to get a woman to agree. Womens trouble is not being able to tell the difference between men in those two modes without making men jump through hoops and crawl over glass. Women have decided that's demeaning for a fellow human and removed the requirement but all that happened was cowardly lying men took advantage of the good…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:43 PM
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If men's push for hookup vulture to take root is anything to go by...then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:39 PM
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Looks are very low down on the priority list for women. If a guy isn't getting offers and options it's a personality problem which is 100% fixable. Women are screaming at men to go to therapy, treat us better or just put effort into life....men refuse br also want to be desired and respected for their dumpster fire of a life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:28 PM
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We've had too many generations of men with poor genetics using their family name or other leverage to get women pregnant when those women's skin would crawl just glancing at them.. Every guy can be a Chad if we breed them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:25 PM
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Women don't have safety nets, children do. All protections women get arrested actually for the children and women benefit due to proximity if at all. Hence women no longer being able to abort a baby that doctors can say ahead of time may kill her during labour and die anyway. But vulnerbale women will be kept off the road because men are likely to take advantage of ehr and put a baby in her that she can't look after.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:23 PM
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Girls are primed with Disney and other aspects of culture to marry and have children. Sometimes it's a beast, sometimes its a handsome Prince, more recently it was a man with poor people skills raised by trolls in the woods. Never before in history has it been so easy for men to get women. There's no dowry, you don't have to have a house first, you don't need to make enough to support the whole family, parents won't vet you, you don't have to choose the first women who says sure once you hit pub…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:20 PM
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Have you seen some of the orks that marry beautiful women who adore them. Compare that to handsome, wealthy fit men who can't keep a woman for more than a month. It's 100% a personality problem
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:13 PM
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Side note hun. Sex is great if you're having it with the right perosn. Lust (physical and or mental) + emotional bonding. Hookups are notoriously bad for women's orgasm rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:09 PM
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If you think getting married is the equivalent of a down payment on a prostitue/sugar baby...don't get married. Women are looking for partners, not John's.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:05 PM
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It's not sex they want. It's ego validation from women. If every man got a realistic sex bot they still wouldn't be happy because its not a real woman who is risking getting pregnant with them. If we suggest they all get a transwoman or gay man it would also be a hard pass. It's just a bid to control wombs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:00 PM
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Don't suggest it, they'll think you're being serious
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 08:57 PM
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Then men need to work on being desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 08:56 PM
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Many of them aren't. I've seen odd looking, big eared, missing teeth asshole men with slender, young often feminine women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:43 PM
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I'm really struggling to see a point linked to all this anger you have for me. Go rub one out to clear your head and come back with a comprehensive thought
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 07:46 PM
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If you read what I wrote in full rather than stopping at the part you don't like you'll notice I haven't demonised any community
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:21 PM
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Complaints women have are abouy men treating them poorly. Women are looking for good men. They will keep searching untill they find one. Of a woman comes across you and decides you're good enough you get to deal with the baggage that comes from letting other men pee in the pool. Men who take no responsibility for the community will later complain the community has fallen to crap after missing multiple opportunities to stop the decline. There is no point at being angry at women for you being a la…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:20 PM
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It's not the extreme. It is common enough that most men that have the coveted tinder life are interacting with the emotional dependency women. Women say the bar is in hell because of what men think they can get away with enmasse because of what a critical mass of women, with low self esteem will give up and accept. Cheating for example. No woman wants a man that cheats. It risks her medical health through STIs, her mental health through abandonment wounds, her financial health if he's splitting …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:16 PM
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and some NT men are the best husbands on the planet. What is your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 09:01 PM
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So then you need to be a man who can provide copious amounts of fun for women and the women who are interested in fun will decide which men can't provide the highest quality fun and choose accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 07:22 PM
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I could but i'm not trying to fight with you. Find someone else for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:22 PM
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Personality is such a huge area of potential. Untill you tell me what you want a woman for or what you want a woman to want you for how on earth can I give you specifics or provide proof. I can tell you that conventional looks are like 8th on most womens list. What is above that 8th thing depends on what women value. An adventurous woman wants a guy who can plan holidays, a naturitic woman wants a guy with camping skills, an artistic woman wants a man with an ear for music and talent, a foodie w…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:13 PM
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It doesn't matter how women present themselves, what matters is how they make choices based off of their desires. But you're unable to tell me what you want a woman for, so I'm unable to tell you which women to aim for or how to appeal to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:07 PM
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There is grey between the black and white that I've painted
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:06 PM
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Cool, then find a woman who shares the same passions in life as you. She will prefer you to a man that doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 12:36 PM
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The scenarios where you have more of what she likes in a person than them. Do you have any skills or talents a woman might like? Do you like adventure, do you play instruments, do you enjoy cooking, do you like snuggling and watching anime ? Like do you have any level of character beyond being a walking penis?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 12:07 PM
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Some autistic men are a danger to society. I think she may be thinking about those. No point In her sacrificing her life to make men feel better about themsleves. Some autistic men are lovely, organised and will be the most hyperfaithful man she will meet. It a depends.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 12:01 PM
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Don't drop your standards hun. Men who see you as a sister do so because you don't seem sexually available to them, Ie you don't sexualise yourself enough. If you wanted sexual attention, put on a small amount of make-up, do your hair and dress up in flattering clothing. Men are very status sensitive and want the higher status women. If they percieve your autism to lower your status (as it lowers theirs) you can raise your status in other ways. Best to avoid self hating men though when you share…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:59 AM
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I would agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:39 AM
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allowed to be "good enough" and not have to prove themselves? - yes, society will love them but those men shouldn't expect women to sleep with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 09:28 AM
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That only works if you're trying to attract men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 09:22 AM
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No. Korea has horrific Partiarchy so the female response to the structure is more pronounced. They have the societal expectation that the wife provides all housewife functions but most men can't afford for a woman not to work so she ends up doing a lot of the man's and woman's job Domestic violence is very common so many women don't want to become housewives as they then can't escape those situations. It's also hard to get men arrested for it. You date at your own risk. Children's lives a predic…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 09:15 AM
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Lots of men marry and have children with women they have no interest in whilst waiting for the right one. This is why women are so wary of men, some of y'all are crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 09:04 AM
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It says a lot about you that you think the masculine way is to take advantage of people as much as you can and be subservient to gain leverage otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 08:59 AM
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Do you dare to suggest that men prefer personality? Lol I have a line up of married porn stars that says otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 08:55 AM
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It's not attraction its emotional dependency. That's a very sick person with a very sad childhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 08:53 AM
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They start off trying to gain your trust and once they have it, start small scale abuse. At that point for low self esteem people their emotional Regulation is normally tied to that perosn and they now how to pull the right levers. It's almost like an addiction. People will snort drugs off the floor bt turn their noses up at 4 star rated restaurants.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 08:52 AM
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You're not listening and getting frustrated. Female attention for what. The why is very important to women. Does she need something off a shelf? The tall guy gets the most attention. Does she need her house renovated, the guy with renovation skills/willingness to pay another guy gets the most attention. What do you want women to want you for? When you work that out, I can tell you how your fair v other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 08:46 AM
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Very small subsection of women are like that but it does exist. Those women have a lot of childhood trauma of being used by family and working for their validation. Those women struggle to accept help and support and seek out jobs and partners that retraumatise them. The comfort is in lowering anxiety through getting validation and then confusing that for love. It's not dissimilar to the retraumatisation cycle sexually abused people go through.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 08:44 AM
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Sea-what now? Can you stop using lingo and socially loaded words. Please use the breadth of English language granted to you from thousands of years of evolution to articulate your thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 08:41 AM
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All women. Full stop. You can argue how much of each and I would say the capacity needs to be present and obvious to her but does not need to be obvious to everyone else. Shes looking for a skill set not virtue signalling. In the same way a woman doesn't care what can you drive if you're a millionaire willing to share with her. A woman doesn't care how soft/nice you are in public as long as you're tender to her and your family. In fact you looking like a complete push over in public is a negativ…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 08:32 AM
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Okay so I'm hearing blurred lines friendship to low commitment or situationship. Then the most fun, charismatic man able to offer the best, stress free short-term experience. I imagine the guy with the highest self-esteem, most money and shared hobbies will do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 01:11 AM
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What do you define as dating? Some men it's spending non- sexual time with a woman, some men its a sexual relationship, other men its an opportunity to find a wife Please, specifiy, what do you want women to want you for?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 01:02 AM
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Again attractive for what? Men have different value in womens minds for different things. Edit: Also on looks alone Henry Cavill - 8 Thimothee Chalamet - 4, Jeremy Meeks - 8 and Brad Pitt - 7 Women are not a monolith, we find different things physically attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 12:56 AM
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"choose you" for what exactly, i want to make sure we're on the same page before I go forward
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 12:47 AM
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Women find personality more sexy than body type. Most dead bedrooms come about from a husband that a wife sees as a child as he's not pulling his weight. Men like the idea of having sex with a girl as young as they legally can. That sort of thing is not sexy for women, we want capable men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 12:40 AM
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Professor Autist
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 11:40 PM
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Private message me. I will help you hun.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 11:39 PM
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On the one hand, you are gross. On the other, I'm glad you're being honest with the struggling men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 11:36 PM
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Women don't understand what sex means to men. We can't comprehend why you would lie and sell your mother to get it. We have no conceptual framework for it at all. We don't understand why you get upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 11:32 PM
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You need to define success because many will disagree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 11:31 PM
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Terrible men do well with naive women, which is normally why they like to go for vulnerable or young women. They don't keep families and often die alone as old sick men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 11:29 PM
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Women want good father traits (even if they don't want children) A man that has an edge that will allow him to protect his family and gather resources A man that is safe around children and would be nurturing towards them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 11:26 PM
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Thank you Mr Autist, proving that neurodivergence isn't a reason for not treating women like humans
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 11:24 PM
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Your kindness will keep a woman, your personality will get one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 11:23 PM
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So be the sort of man your wife finds sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 11:20 PM
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I'll bite. What you said is true but for a very small subsection of men. Most women don't care for looks the way men do, most women are promiscuous in the way men are so most women are looking for a partner differently to the way a man is. The upside of that is, a man needs to have decent father traits/skills and be that particular womans personality type. I don't mean friendship type, i mean romantic personality type. In the same way men can be mesmerised by breasts, women can obsess over a nos…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 11:18 PM
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People with dark triad traits are better at all forms of sales because they have dark triad traits. That's why men and women select them as politicians, then after sometime they come to realise their true colours and that person has to step down/ leave. Dark triad is an effective short term strategy because it relies on a deception that can only be maintained for a fixed period of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 11:08 PM
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" fight the Capitalist to win a better future for myself and my countrymen" - I'm meeting a lot of people who feel oppressed by their current situation, labelling the system they exist in capitalist when normally its corporatist, normally the neoliberal flavour of global corporatist at that. If you want to fight the power, go at it. First you need to know what you're aiming at
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 08:18 PM
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The capitalist or the neoliberal corpratists? I feel like you don't know your enemy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:50 PM
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I'm not a business owner or likely to work with you so your actions have no impact on me...if you chose to take any action that isn't whining.... If you were "about life" you'd move to a country that lived the way you wanted or start a community yourself. Everyone can be a leader!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 02:03 PM
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Anything where your ego comes into play, whether ego is stroked or feels threatened. Shut that all down
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 12:44 PM
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Sex is psychosocial and we as mammals are social beings. Sexual contact and activities are about more than baby making.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 12:44 PM
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This is hilariously adorable. Most sex is in women's heads. Make her happy before hand and make it playful during.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 12:42 PM
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Some men want women bare foot and pregnant. I'm glad that's not you but don't encourage women to drop their defences when controlling men exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:31 AM
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You can just become your own employer...or go live in the woods and dig a well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:29 AM
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No. Its that they don't realise they don't have to. It's like paying a holiday company to book your holiday, then getting to the destination and realising you could book a trip for cheaper directly through the hotel. Litterally a naivety thing and a lack of self confidence to break the percieved standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:27 AM
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Most women aren't into hookup culture but go with it because it seems to be the standard for entry into a relationship. If you are ugly and talentless then yes, you will have to wait for a woman to settle. If you're on the higher side of average or have an unusual trait about you, you'll be fine. Women like unusually irrelevant things about men that you'd have never even considered before let alone wondered if it was a good or bad thing. What will screw you up is a lack of confidence. Some women…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:09 PM
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Neither is screaming and crying. I don't get your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:04 PM
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I thought we were talking about women wanting performative rather than real vulnerability...?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 07:23 PM
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Sure but the whole point of incel is that women wont give those men relationships as well. I say that because when you suggest to them seeing a prostitute they say no, the woman has to want them etc. Also, no man can get any woman. every womans taste in men is different. So yes, cheating is a cowardly way of breaking up...at the same time manosphere groups screech about women initiating 70% of divorces and f-boi villains claiming their arcs started when a woman broke their hearts and denied them…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:50 AM
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So women want vulnerability, not a bag'o'dicks. But many men think it's the bag o's and get upset when women respond badly
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:46 AM
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Definitely, it's not simple. Men and women either want the same thing or the complete opposite it seems. A significant percentage of the male population is only motivated in life by sexual access to women. They tend to make awful absent (physically or psychologically) parents. If it's genetic...really we should try and remove or water down those genes. The west is unusually successful because it gave men enmasse, via religious family roles and status positions, a reason to invest in their childr…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 09:45 PM
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I think you underestimate the soft skills you've gained along with your technical ones that have allowed you to find places to apply your skills set within the community but you point is made. AI will unseat a lot of people. I can tell you're male from your last paragraph though. "soon-to-be relic of the post and overstating its importance." This bit will give you away everytime. If you can't understand the biological importance of a woman having a provider, be it family/community, the goverment…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 07:20 PM
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Why would you love homophobia? Bad Naragub, bad. Also, it's not homophobic to tell a bi guy to enjoy the men he can get. Or are you saying it's homophones to wish him on the gay community?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 07:06 PM
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The dude is qn incel going on women hate men rants. It's clear he doesn't get ladies. He might get men though as a Bi guy...I dunno, ask him. But yeah, let it be a lesson to you to. Women don't like men who don't prioritise their safety
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 07:03 PM
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Mmm but to a woman a relationship with infidelity is practically worthless. She may stay for ongoing access to his stuff but if she hates him, won't have sex with him and is there for his debit card...is it still a relationship? This is all assuming she doesn't leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 07:01 PM
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Get some friends? You can live with your friends and order in prostitute services
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 06:58 PM
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Hmmm. Is it really performative to war game with your lady rather than melt down in front of her? Isn't it an emotional maturity? I can have an argument and throw things or I can have a level headed calm argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 06:57 PM
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That's true but it's not impossible and it's not back breaking. Not unless you're stuck in a minimum/low wage job and lack the creativity or brain power to move to something more lucrative. If you can afford to look after yourself you only need a little more to cover food and transport for +2 or so people. I'm not talking millionaire lifestyle provide. I am just talking provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 06:53 PM
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It's true some men are cursed with bad genetics that mean they can't provide. I don't think it's wrong to say if the genes are that bad it's immoral to pass them onto another generation. Plenty of men choose an easy life though and due to ongoing life choices can't provide, its not a lack of capability. You make good money because you chose to. If you lost it tomorrow you know how to get it back, how much work is required and where the short cuts are. Or maybe even a better path going forward. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 06:51 PM
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I'm asking why as in what's your reasoning to yourself? It has an amoral impact on the community, yes, good and bad as you said. But why do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 06:43 PM
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Girls like mature guys. The boy bands are always early 20's Girl groups are older than teen boys. The guys just look at which one they want to paste on their walls
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:31 PM
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Porn stars and only fans women are marrying rich men who i assume treat them reasonably....else they'd divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:29 PM
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They want you to be vulnerable towards them and not vulnerable infront of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:27 PM
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Why be with an SO who isn't your object of limerance?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:24 PM
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Interesting but too complicated. If a guy is crying he's not in control. He asked this woman to hand over the reigns to him and he's not able to control himself. If a man is talking through how bad things are but has a veneer of self control he is given the points for being strong enough to deal with the problem Women value safety. A man can struggle to victory and she will support as much as she can but he can't lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:22 PM
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As long as you don't take your issues out on other people...that's very attractive. A good partner should help you work through problems if you let them know you're brainstorming for problems. There's no rule that says you can't have your head in her buxom while you throw out ideas and she simulates them for you. Still very manly and in charge and she gets to feel like she helped.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:16 PM
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the impact is them showing up as low FR. In the east where girls are married and pregnant by 12 per 1000 population those numbers remain high. IF you're comparing with a country where the average first baby is mid 20s and last baby is at an age where eastern girls are dying it's skewing the data.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:09 PM
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Whatever helps you sleep at night with your blow-up doll. 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:01 PM
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I think you opinion is silly and smelly. Like its owner.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:58 PM
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" because no man will touch you. " and here I thought you were going to try and make a respectable comeback. Go back to your family Mr married with kids but burning time on a purple pill sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:47 PM
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Sure. Enjoy the sausage fest
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:43 PM
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...What? That's not even a reasonable thing to accuse me of a revenge fantasy around. I thought I asked you to pull back off this Incel detour.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:43 PM
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And this is why you're single. Untill you can accept that one of the differences between men and women is women have a high need for safety and value it over access to men, you will never not scare a woman off Edit: My bad, you may not be single, you may get lots and lots of men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:39 PM
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That tracks lol 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:35 PM
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....why did you have to take an incel detour. none of that had anything to do with what we're talking about. We're talking about men coasting on their pretty faces getting relationships. The answer is no
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:30 PM
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TFR depending on how it's measured, does take men into account. It looks at births per 1000 people, not women. They also normally define woman from 14 years old which will again skew numbers. Awful measuring from incompetents with intertia
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:28 PM
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Are you German by any chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:26 PM
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You are confused dumpling. There is a critical mass of men that hurt women and children out of sadism. Those men are in the general population at all times, like red coloured M&M's in a full bag. Women don't understand male psychology well enough to work out which man it is as quickly as men do. Men are very good at meeting other men and knowing he's a wrong'un. Women have to put their hands in the bag and pull out one at random, hoping that one wont hurt them and they wont know untill it's too …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:24 PM
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why do you think anal sex is the best?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:13 PM
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Some women will have sex with men they know they wont have a relationship with, hence situationship Some women will date him but not be able to get over the ick of him just being a face
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:10 PM
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How are you measuring your number? There are almost 0 teen pregnancies, so if you take a year snapshot it will be lower than to look at the number of children produced per woman after age 35. Also some data sets are per 1000 people, not even per 1000 women. In a country that's a had a huge immigration (mainly male) surge that measurement will be useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:08 PM
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Egalitarianism is feminism. Feminism and "woman supremacy" are not the same thing. You can get behind 1st and 2nd wave because they are egalitarian and are feminism. The 'modern stuff' is communism
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:03 PM
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" A woman will not stay with a pretty face because it's a pretty face. She will stay with an adequate man with a pretty face but he has to clear the bar first."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:48 PM
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Nope. that she didn't mind you saying you aren't feminist because your actions and thought patterns are. I mean egalitarianism over hierarchical elitism is literally feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:47 PM
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Genetics or personality aspects better than theirs in a way that impacts social or economic advantage
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:44 PM
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Men love high status women, it's why the celebrity is so coveted, despite her being uglier than the girl next door quite often. Men who value their intelligence often go out of their way to reproduce with intelligent women. This is hypergamous with the gene being selected for being intelligence. As much as men willl date the ugliest, dumbest, genetically disabled women out there given a chance, those men when thinking with their upstairs long term brain pick hypergamously. Edit: to be clear mone…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:39 PM
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Sweden? One of the few countries that have managed to maintain a replacement rate despite the huge devaluation of currency and reduction in affordable housing? You realise we don't even expect animals to breed as many offspring as human woman have been forced to over the last 100 years or so. 2.5 is a very reasonable number for a woman's health. No country will or should ever get back to the days of double digits, nor r should they get back to the days of 7(ish)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:35 PM
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I'm glad you haven't you're not missing out at all. You offered them a job, they said no thanks. You offered him and he jumped at it. Good for you, you managed to side step a lot of trauma girls from as young as 12 go through in regards to men constantly pursuing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:29 PM
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Men do that all the damn time. Those are the men who work 80 hour weeks so they don't have to go home.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:27 PM
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Wonderful. Are you coming around to my conclusion then?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:26 PM
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If that's genuinely how you feel you'll be fine. The men women are angry at are the ones defending rapists, cheaters and abusers. If that's not you, don't take the message personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:25 PM
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That is hilarious. Womens main predator is men Mens main weakness is women. A real life woman is always more alluring and attractive than the alternatives. Not being able to get one is the ultimate blow to a mans ego. They're not joking when they put a woman laughing at them on par with a man killing a woman. So as all knuckle draggers do, throw the baby out with the bath water. I can't have them, no-one can and finally what I do have will be the best a man can get. The men that advocate for thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:23 PM
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Everywhere that women have decided they're tired of being beaten and sexually assaulted is having a low birth rate. Your side are going to have to try and squeeze as many babies out of the women as possible then do as the Abrahamic doctrines suggest. Take the little girls and start afresh in a mountain somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:16 PM
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Women aren't men. A woman will not stay with a pretty face because it's a pretty face. She will stay with an adequate man with a pretty face but he has to clear the bar first.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:08 PM
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You mean the muslims...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:07 PM
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You would be surprised what happens in eastern countries....
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:05 PM
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Not a stable or long lasting one. Hence the situationship offering. Also this applies if his redeeming quality is his looks. If he has what women want from a man + looks then yes he'll be fine
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:03 PM
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Watch the birth rates and weep
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:02 PM
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You're joking. Most rich men like status and intelligence in women and normally pair with those women to have at least children with them. The marriages may break down after and they may go for the dumb blonde who will never be smart enough to hurt them or interesting enough for them to emotionally invest in. But the first marraiges of men who made their money without their looks/bodies is always with the highest status women they could bag
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:02 PM
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Here you describe men using money or hotness to 'buy a woman'. Women struggle to understand why a hot guy can't love the woman he chooses and be with her and why non-hot guys are assumed to be loyal because they can't cheat. Both describe men as doing what they need to do to get a woman but not valuing her as a person, just a woman. Elaborate please
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:59 PM
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I've heard so many definitons on the interweb it's best to ask
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:56 PM
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What is your definition of boyfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:51 PM
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Securing a baby maybe, situationship yes. Not a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:50 PM
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You find the plastic disgusting but not the overall look. Plenty of guys will ignore something a little firmer than normal if it looks natural enough
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:49 PM
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Men love a high status woman. We can argue a porn star may not be of high status but men are hypergamous as hell with status
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:48 PM
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I don't disagree with you but please explain this to me. On the one hand I have yet to hear of a porn star who hasn't been able to get married on the other men are hollering all over the internet that they want purity, they don't want to think about the other men shes been with, they worry about pair bonding blah blah blah
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:46 PM
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Relationships are something women select, like a manager looking at candidates for a job position. Women don't need to even go outside, we get hit on by delivery drivers, gardeners etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:44 PM
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Women have been taught for centuries to look pretty and shut-up...it seems to have worked. If a man wants a woman he will pursue her, hence women complaining about being harassed and bothered on the street, in the gym, drinking coffee, on the train etc. A woman just needs to look like a woman he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:41 PM
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Feminism includes the rights of men and males.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:39 PM
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Because you're egalitarian, a very feminine trait. You're probably pro feminist in everything but name because you worry about what bro might think of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:39 PM
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Don't get angry with him. Men's lives literally revolve around women and their place in hierarchy. Many men struggle with the concept of it not being the same for women. He's projecting and doesn't realise how far off he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:37 PM
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Girlfriend for 14 years tells women all they need to know about how unsafe she felt in the relationship and how low your emotional EQ is. The married guy knew how to treat women, hence him being married. Its a shame he used his power for evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:32 PM
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Modern feminism is a collective complaint about how men have been treating women and a refusal to play ball untill men promise to be nice in the future. Polyamory may happen but only because the number of men who promise to "be nice in the future" will not match the womens demand for men. Women to this day are gobsmacked about how men are absolutely refusing to be good people to the point where they'd rather give up contact with women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:31 PM
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If you get too ripped you'll only have Grinder bimbos
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:26 PM
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Who knew there'd be a day when young men advocated for abstinence by example.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:25 PM
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Depends on if he wants to keep her and sex outside. At that point, she decides if she stays or goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:24 PM
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"Have any girl they want at a moment’s notice? 0.5%" - that's like 500 men in the whole world and only because they'll send their security to knock out her husband and pick her up off the street, knowing they'll be safe from comeuppance. No one man fits all women's preferences for that to be a consensual statement
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:23 PM
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Women with a college degree want men who have the same or more ambition and earning potential. Plenty of business owners have no degree and can out earn a degree holding person. The degree is a proxy for how functional you are in the economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:19 PM
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Plenty of women will still take the provider. It's just that most men aren't motivated to become the sort of guy that can provide. Or if they are, are portion of them they think it'll get them a free pass for multiple women...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:18 PM
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Every man has sexual options. Most men don't want to pay for them. About half of the male population has relationship options and even fewer have marital options.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:15 PM
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I'm rolling my eyes. Go get a girlfriend to bolster your paper thin ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 05:54 PM
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There's nothing wrong with loving men despite how gross and aggressive you are (on average). Matriarchies had a ton of herbal abortifacients - women in patriarchies had that. Women would also be burnt at the stakes as witches for that sort of thing, as well as delivering more healthy babies than male doctors and other witchcraft men couldn't get their heads around. Patriarchy isn't the problem of everything. It is the problem of what we're discussing. Women are not perfect. I haven't once said t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 12:43 PM
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You've got me wrong. I begrudgingly love men. I was raised with all boys, I grew up ferral. That doesn't detract from the problem we have. Men willingly harming the community on multiple levels for their own, short term gratification. Some men have morals and consciences, others don't. Lets first agree that everyone makes mistakes that can be out of normal character. For the ones that just are so inclined to do first and seek forgiveness later men no longer police or manage the group as they onc…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 10:23 AM
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Whatever men do, it's not as effective as what men used to do because the reoffending rates are too high. Masculinised women, such as Mrs M Thatcher were indeed masculine in their mode of ruling. But you're not talking about a woman fitting in to climb patriarchial ranks and then acting like the men around her. You are talking about feminised rulers working within matriarchial ranks. Mens eugenics throughout history have been brutal and shed lots of blood for no other benefit than to get rid of …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:05 PM
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Struggling to get a good paying job once let out into the community doesn't protect women, children and also men from rapists, murderers and violent offenders. Whether they can get a job on release has nothing to do with anything other than your sympathy for them. One out of 3 got married. What do you think the rate of marriage is exactly? Women are talking about traditional courting advice, big woop. What do you think women were taught 100 years back? Do you think they're brilliant and unique i…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:46 PM
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Prison has lowlifes, there are plenty of lowlifes outside of the community known to be lowlifes. Even more fun, known lowlifes make it out of prison, back into society and normally move to a different area to continue their low moral behaviour. IT's not taken seriously unless the relative of someone with power is affected, then that individual is crushed and the world moves on. It used to be that men as a whole looked after their communities in that way. Litterally within the living memory of a …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:42 PM
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Hairlessness is a West western thing, mainly USA and other countries that have a lot of plastic surgery like Brazil. Northern Europe, even southern europe are pro signs of sexual maturity via hair. Most of eastern europe is too. Most of souther asia doesn't care, south east asia has a hair preference.... Like your brain is porn addled. Western porn addled more specifically
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:30 PM
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Now you're confusing self reporting (have not) with active testing (cannot)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:50 PM
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If men policed men heavily peadophiles litterally wouldn't exist, they'd be removed from the gene pool everytime they popped up. Same goes for a lot of other poor male behaviours and proclivities. Men used to police men heavily, lots of wife beaters used to 'go missing' for example. Any country fresh out of war will be a good example of women being raised as gold diggers. I do believe Trumps current wife is from a extremely impoverished ex communist country. Don't get me wrong. In countries wher…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:48 PM
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It's a huge shame. Plenty of poor people would make wonderful parents and there fare plenty of well off people that use their children as accessories. I wont say poor people should have children but I will say it's a huge risk for the family and both parents need to be aware that children will come with a significant financial cost. Some people will choose hard poverty and still have children, others wont for various reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:39 PM
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White people assume in twenteens. Asian people are off by 6 years or so. Black people off by 3 or so years. Now I'm super suss of white guys my age that are into me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:34 AM
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Not many women are in relationships at all which proves both points
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:29 AM
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Eventually you can breed in a trait via the men alone. It just takes longer. Men arent attracted to physically hard masculine women most men want smaller, softer, sweeter women than the average man. Men brought up in difficult environments want psycologically masculine eomen but never physically
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:27 AM
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Womens bodies cannot work as hard as men's. Hard labour makes women litterally infertile and increases men's fertility. I'm not saying men are born slaves but we have coadapted for men to do more of the hard labour and women to have more of the psycological labour
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:24 AM
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Whatever you want to think dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:18 AM
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I don't find Henry Cavil attractive at all, let alone sexy. Women often use money as a barrier to entry. You need enough to have a shot but money doesn't win you the prize. Status is a personality test. Is he caring, is he ambitious is he orderly is he whatever that individual woman is looking for. A lawyer that works 60 hours a week is appealing to some and not appealing to others Looks - you can be an ugly version of her type or a handsome version of not her type or her type. All three work so…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:16 AM
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I think men and women want the same amount but in a different way. Women are not as promiscuous. The idea of a different guy every night doesn't appeal and women generally want some sort of emotional attachment with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:07 AM
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If you didn't have a secure home, you would care about what he earns more. Your family have paid forward your housing security so he doesn't have to be able to offer that to you. Congrats on that by the way. Its the biggest headache for families
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:04 AM
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When I was younger I told men I didn't care what they earned when working. I was apparently very sheltered. I didn't meet a man on a living (not minimum) wage untill I was 26 and the way he lived made me litterally cry for him. I couldn't understand why men would want to go 50:50 untill then. The men around me either thought me wanting to pay for things was insulting to them or I was cute with my little bit of money and would 'let' me pay for small things. I now know the minimum a man would need…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:03 AM
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I can see where your frustration lies. We are still in a patriarchy, where society is structured off of men's needs and preferences and women's are an after thought or not included at all. But we're not in a strong patriarchy, we are moving towards the middle. So a lot of benefits men had in a patriarchy aren't accessible to all men at the same time a lot of the things a woman needs from a man in a patriarchy are still needed because the patriarchy still stands. The main one is finance for when …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:52 AM
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Yes there is a huge male demand for women with prepubescent hair levels. There's also a high demand for prepubescence in general of the number of dads drugging girls during their daughters sleep overs and the number of children being abducted into sexual slavery across the west is anything to go by.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:41 AM
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It all depends in men's sexual fantasies and the porn they're watching enmasse. Men in the west like the prepubescent look on average. No hair anywhere. Men in other countries think its weird that a woman doesn't have hair in multiple places and discourage western grooming ideals. Young women who encourage you don't know any better and arr doing what's popular older women who encourage you don't want you to stand out from the crowd of women and to be picked by the men. As long as you're neat and…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:35 AM
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You're confused and you ate confusing others You claim I have said "all women can orgasm vaginally so long as they have the right person" And you claim you have said that data shows that not all/many women have experienced this yet Do you not see how these are two seperate comments that have no bearing on each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:02 AM
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If you want to get in the slime pod where life is easy and reality is the one you were promised as a child, no woman will stop you from jumping in...except maybe your mother. Life is hard, even in this time of peace and prosperity. If you can't hack it no-one is going to stop you from opting out to what you can manage. Women care less about materialism than men and care nothing for status. its true we wouldn't be the most economically dominant societies, mental health would be better and we woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:59 AM
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Ill take one hormone process as an example. The release of oxytocin during sex is high in women. That causes them to 'lovingly' bond. The oxytocin I mean. It's the same hormone released when mothers breastfeed and when you're hugging friends. Men release a tiny amount of oxytocin on orgasm and that's normally what triggers them to become sleepy(due to interactions with other hormones). The higher the testosterone in a person, the less oxytocin that person can produce. So men don't primarily bond…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:43 AM
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I can tell you're not a woman. You're struggling with the fundamentals of the way women think. Women don't have a desire to pass on their genetics in the way men do. They have a desire to surround themselves with loving family and to love. There is no biological benefit to any animal to put your life on the line to bring another animal into your space, especially a second animal that will require your time and resources to survive for years. Women aren't stupid. We just get different things out …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 01:34 PM
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"Are you sure you know what you're talking about because I haven't experienced it and data says not all women have (especially with one night stands, in stressfull relationships and difficult periods in life) either" is also condescending. Moving the goal posts of discussion is unnecessary but I am genuinely sorry that you've found your sex life so difficult that you can't comprehend what i've said above. I don't wish ill on anyone and it's a satisfying aspect of partnership that everyone should…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 01:04 PM
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Do you not understand that females are born with the ability to pass it on whenever they choose. They are selective about the genetic code that theirs is mixed with, they are selective about the environmental conditions in which they will put their bodies under the stress of gestation and females across species sometimes decide to never pass on their genes. To the point where some female animals can selectively self-abort foetuses The desire is different for females than it is for men. Women are…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 01:01 PM
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Hey hey hey. I had a typo above said guys when i meant gays. We love love gay guys. They can stay. They don't hurt women and they're awesome. Straight men are enslaving themselves via porn and video games, it so weird to watch. Completely addicted to things that corporations can dominate the production of, control the distribution of and charge for. Like they are litterally going to put the sex fantasy VR headset on themselves and willingly jump into those matrix pods so they don't need to take …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 10:46 AM
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What does part of the luck few mean exactly? I'm not being condescending. You've raised statistics on womens awful orgasm rates, i've clarified what I was talking about had nothing to do with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 10:35 AM
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I never said women arent having poor or no orgasm. I said "PIV is the best orgasm, just only when it's with someone you love. At that point clitoral stimulation is unnecessary" You may meet someone later in life and all this will make sense. untill then, good luck with whatever you've got going on right now
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 10:26 AM
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If you look at how men bond it's very diffferent to how women bond. For men it's much more about achieving together for women it's being together. Men seem to love their children in the way that women love full stop so I wont say men can't do it at all but it's not an easily accessible way of being.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 10:19 AM
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there is a mental health condition where women are attracted to proven killers. IT's not all women but a large enough group that it can be named. Just like we know a significant subset of men throughout history that have sex with dead, mainly female bodies. Not all men but consistent and large enough group to be studied, named and for undertakers to struggle hiring men for embalming. All women with many good friendzoned men - you don't understand women. You're expecting them to act like men. Eit…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 10:16 AM
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Well, you need to work out why you're attracted to women with the potential to offload their anxiety onto you in an abusive manner. It's not common but as with women with this problem with men. When you tend to get into relationships with those sorts of people, it's hard to break the cycle and pick someone different.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 09:53 AM
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As a woman, with many female friends who has also worked in female pelvic health. I can confirm what I have said is accurate. Sorry you're vaginally inorgasmic, you're missing out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 09:51 AM
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Women want children to have the social bonds of children. Men want to have children to have the genetic continuation. It's just a male thing, many children with many women is the fantasy. For women the fantasy is normally a close loving family.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 09:50 AM
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Because women see people as whole and men see people as parts. When women want to have sex its social, when men want to have sex it's to fulfill a goal So if women don't come across a good whole person who she wants to share a social bond with they're not interested in sex. Whereas men just need to come across a body part to achieve the goal or orgasm with. But if you put the right person in front of a woman her libidio can be higher than the mans. If you put a peice of blank paper infront of a …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:38 PM
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We don't. That a guy thing. Dude is an incel pretending to have experience with women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:32 PM
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PIV is the best orgasm, just only when it's with someone you love. At that point clitoral stimulation is unnecessary
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:31 PM
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As a woman I support what you're saying. It's like when women say men dont love, they do, just not in the same way women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:29 PM
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Different women want different things in life. The problem is men treat us all the same and use the honest women who want families like prostitutes because they're easy to engage and get confused and insecure around women who want to be treated as a one-night stand and fall into an ego love with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:28 PM
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At the frontal lobes yes but monkey and lizard brain will still release chemicals that try and hormonally bond to that man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:26 PM
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This is an adorable question. Orgasm for me is like the satisfaction of scratching an itch and that pleasant after feeling but in the body rather than a body part. No monatges with us being hi-5'ed. But males are biologically designed to convince a female to carry on their genetic line. All males have a strong desire to pass on that genetic material and most males will willingly put their lives on the line for the opportunity. It makes sense that the evolutionary hormonal reward for passing on y…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:23 PM
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Women don't want to be abused. Some decide if they're going to cry they'd rather it be in a mansion, others decide its better to stay away from men altogether. Most women start off trying to find love with the 'poor' man who will 'love' her. Most find that men can't love or if they can, not the way women do or not untill they've had children. Men, for some reason think they are better as a collective than they are. Some women find the truly good men and don't let those men get away but we both k…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:13 PM
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Women with PTSD aren't going to attack you. That sounds cluster B
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:53 PM
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Oh I forgot about location. Yes, if I'm in a rural area I'm having tea parties at home and going for country walks with the girls. In the city i'm out doing everything meeting everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:52 PM
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Maybe it's a country culture thing. Where I am,in the UK, most outdoor activities are female dominated. Men are indoors playing video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:16 PM
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Men spend money and shit ton of time time looking for sex. Roomates works for gay men and asexual men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:51 PM
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You clearly haven't been listening. Women are scared men will hurt them. They are moving away from men. It makes those women happy that men are not in their spaces, they would prefer 100% of men (guys not included) to not be near them. There is no mutually assured destruction. Women don't need men like men need women. There is no loss, just enhanced freedom and safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:47 PM
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It depends on your age. The older you get the more women expect of you. But got to where women are. What hobbies do women have, painting, pottery, debate, dancing classes, sports, board games. Etc. Don't hope to meet someone getting drunk
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:44 PM
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Mmm some people get stuck in trauma and develop complex ptsd. Some people have narcissim or other cluster b probless before trauma amd it makes it harder for them to cope with pre-existing conditions...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:41 PM
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Then don't complain about men's withdrawal rates....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:38 PM
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Libertarian right. 👋 I would suggest you say you're a libertarian with concerns for men's rights. It is less offensive from the outset than saying men's rights activist. Most men that fall in that category are looking to reinstate men's rights to a wife and other anti-female freedom things. There will be less hostility when people don't assume you're pro barefoot and pregnant women chained to the stove. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:29 PM
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Women removing themsleves from the dangers of men as a collective is not women trying to punish men. Just as men distressed at their rate of rejection and removing themsleves from the judgement of women isn't them trying to punish women. Both groups deem it too dangerous. Women fear for their lives, men fear for their egos. The problem men have is that on the goverments economic spreadsheet. Men's labour, which generally only spans the workplace is easier to replace than women's labour which cov…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:23 PM
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That's different. You're describing a mentally unwell person. Clinical paranoia and rumination is different to baggage
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:16 PM
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Men's bad behaviour has a bigger impact on the community. It is what it is. That's why women fear men will kill them and men fear women will laugh at them. Men are stronger, more violent (when they choose to be violent), are faster to anger etc. A society with poorly disciplined men is a war zone. A society with highly disciplined men is somewhere people flock to. Womens bad behaviour has very little overall impact on society as a whole. Womens mental health and ability to cope has a huge impact…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:14 PM
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When I was young I didn't expect men to pay for things. Those men were poorly put together and didn't have the ability to go far in life, regardless of how much they earned. Now it's an expectation men will pay because I want children. A man that can't afford a few meals a month can't afford an extra mouth to feed for 18 years plus a bigger home. It's a way of sorting the wheat from the chaffe. A man that doesn't want to spend his money on me will probably not want to spend his money on piano le…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 06:28 PM
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No downside for the most desirable men for a while. What tends to happen is women don't form families and society crumbles or sexless frustrated men take out the top their who are hogging all the women. Short but sex saturated lives for the topteir and a broken society for the rest. It's why Kings with more wives/concubines than days of the year always got over turned within years of woman collecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 06:23 PM
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That's like women saying all men are cheats, players qnd abusers. No, some women have lower morals. Also China is so far from comparison. They have an excess of tens of millions of reproductive aged men. They also have a patriarchial culture that is transitioning. If you start off with 5 men to every 1 woman in a dowry culture, of course dowry will increase. If you're in a men compete for women with money and stability culture of course the level of stability required will increase. Thats patria…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 06:17 PM
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I think this is the point. Men say evil hateful stuff and women express how they don't want men around them. #notallmenorwomen. Bur the point is, when a critical mass of men are hateful and harmful a critical mass of women want nothing to do with men, just incase they pick the wrong one. Men say pick better, women look at the odds and decide not to play stupid games if they can live happily single. That's all that's happening. Untill men take responsibility for their collective image by either t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 06:07 PM
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Big difference between being open about baggage and appropriately discussing it v emotional dumping on someone and expecting them to work through it with/for you to have a functional relationship. It sounds like they weren't talking about you but you still took it personally. There's a lot of men out here that are a complete mess. Clearly more than you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 06:01 PM
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I don't disagree. But why dint decent men, if they truly are the majority straighten out the psychodudes or at least teach women what a psychodude looks like. Rather than throwing up their hands, saying its not their business, then complaining psychodrama has passed I the pool when they want to take a swim.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 05:59 PM
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We like genuinely nice guys not guys pretending to be nice to get something. It's like the sleazy salesman sating whatever they need to to get your money. Good men are naturally kind. They don't need to over think or worry, just be their nice selves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 12:31 PM
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That's not true at all. I know plenty of spotty, balding skinny fats that are married because their wives love doing shared hobbies like that. Will those hobbies get you an Instagram woman? No. Mainly because she's not that interested I those hobbies. If you want a woman take part in her activities, use those as a way to become familiar then ask her out
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 12:30 PM
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You say that but there aren't many father material men around for those women to choose from. Basement dwellers Failure to launch Prison stayers Mental health paralysis What about any of that is going to help provide a good environment to raise children in? They might bring in money...that's about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 12:20 PM
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Men confuse rabid sexual energy for enthusiasm. This is the problem. Women are not men, we don't respond to your sexual energy in the way gay men would, certainly not on first meeting you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 12:16 PM
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Would you agree that you're more libertarian than "mens rights"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 12:13 PM
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Is that why so many pranks with 'the boys' end up with hospital attendance?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 11:14 PM
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I understand you concerns about your life being pre-allocated on a war economy spreadsheet. I hope you feel the same way about women being seen as wombs and the progression of anti-abortion laws, even in the case of rape and incest
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 11:12 PM
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That's a dark, masculine way of coming to normal and natural behaviour. A man should want to court a woman and a woman should entertain him untill she decides he's not for her or she gets married. That's basically the action you've described but with the wrong intention. As long as you don't dump your husband you've not done anything wrong. That's exactly how men feel who wanted to trick sex out of an unsuspecting virgin...you just knew ahead of time and played along....which isn't good for you …
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/24 12:07 PM
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Some men are similar to women in that they need a lot of mental foreplay and some women are more like men in that foreplay is the undressing. I wonder if he is stressed out or feeling unappreciated or even like a hunk of meat.... Try and give him a day of his love language, don't ask for anything sexual from him, but be suggestive etc The other issue might be that he has some porn hang ups or a high need for variety and is bored of your look. It's one reason why women have wigs and makeup....dif…
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/24 12:02 PM
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It sounds like weaponsied incompetence. You need to make it clear that you require specific things from him and let him work it out. If it was work he would have to. I'm sorry you've had a baby with a man who isnt focused on the team aspect and is turning into an "extra child". You need to have a conversation with him. Let him know the lack of help is making you unwell. Then hand him some responsibilities and make them fully his and have consequences. As you would for a three year old. If he get…
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/24 11:56 AM
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Makes no sense. Do you mean the girls interested in makeup, hair and fashion group together? Like the girls interested in sports will group
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:29 PM
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Women don't 'social proof' for men. Men do that for women. Women will spend time around men women are comfortable with because they assume the guy isn't predatory. That's it. Nothing sexually interesting, just safe
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:24 PM
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We have more billionaires now than a decade ago and we also have the worst cost of living crisis now than a decade ago. Bottom 60% struggle because profit margins are too high and the labour force is pitted against itself rather than unionising. Everyone having a degree isn't the issue you think it is. Congratulations on being able to save money. I hope you spend it wisely and give something back to the people who have supported you to get to that position.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 12:43 PM
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Let me edit * not allowed to access financially viable work. This is why the term spinster came to represent women highly unlikely to marry. T was one of the few jobs a poor woman could do and earn enough to look after herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 12:28 AM
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Women that won't have sex with you aren't crazy irrational feminists. They just acknowledge the low quality of your genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 12:27 AM
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You missed the word 'essentially' . You didn't say it litterally but that is your ideas logical conclusion. If men can't be worthy of millionaire women then those women are with those men because they are in a level of environmental survival. They're not choosing those men, they're choosing to survive. Would you choose to have ugly, deformed or otherwise defective genes passed onto your children unless you had no other choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 12:25 AM
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Poor women always worked. Only middle and upper classed women didn't work. So women didn't flood the workplace. They just got access to better paid jobs. Like I said "exporting inflation" is why you're poor not women being able to get better paid jobs. You're shouting at women when you've already identified that fat cats in big corps are the ones that have you bent over. Aaaand that is why you'll stay at the bottom of the barrel.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 12:21 AM
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They could lengthen a few things while in surgery
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 12:18 AM
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Silly boy. I have a high sex drive. The truth is just the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 12:17 AM
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Let me clarify. Women were not allowed to work decent paying jobs. Which is where he term spinster came from. It was one of the few jobs a woman was allowed to do by society that would allow her to earn enough to look after herself. At the same time. Women weren't allowed access to credit or to own property in their own names....in the anglophone at least. In most of Asia, preclinical Americas Americas Africa women owned the housing and would work within their tribes/hamlets.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 12:16 AM
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Didn't you get the memo? Men cant be men because women won't let them. Also can't get good jobs because women aren't having sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:48 PM
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No. Women just want good genes for their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:47 PM
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Part of the Freedom of being able to earn as a woman is to move into the social class you want (so you can find a man there) and also to be able to leave an abusive situation as many of our grandmothers could not, if man becomes abusive because you can provide for yourself and children. As for pay decreasing that would be the side effect of significant and prolonged Liberal migration and simple jobs being exported to the third world to reduce inflation t home.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:45 PM
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That would require men to take accountability for their immaturity and perosnality deficits....
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:35 PM
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3 would make the birth rate plummet even further. Single mothers/fathers keep coporations going. Many women currently want to have children but can't find a decent man to have them with. Only a few go 'sod it, I'll do it on my own'. Even fewer fall in love with a scumbag and give birth thinking they'll get married and he has no intention.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:33 PM
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You're asking for women to be given to men esentially. That happens in Islam and other patriarchial structures where everyman gets a woman and they pay for that with their lives when war time comes, and it always comes....or if she poisons him. That also happens. If you wanted to lush egalitarianism that also helps your dick you'd want to level the playing fields. All men get free gym access, everyone couple starting a family gets social housing, minimum wage is a living wage and the goverment p…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:29 PM
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Men's lack of dick discipline is why we're here. Women aren't walking qround looking for sexy men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:22 PM
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Men are not seen as success objects by anyone other than other men. Historically women weren't allowed to work so we're forced to pick financially viable men but this was also back in the day when the average job paid 50k, house cost 90k and you didn't need to finish high-school to get a 'good job'. Women have always wanted financially stable men but rarely successful men. Not in the top 10 of important things at least. You're living your grandpa's trauma. Wake up
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:21 PM
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Humans aren't objects, they're animals at worst but still capable of objective thougt and self determination
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:17 PM
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Sexiness is how a woman is perceived. Sexualisation is the act of taking a woman's image and fitting it into a specific sexual fantasy mould.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:16 PM
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Men know but it doesn't fit into the scenario they want. As for the women who don't know the difference, it's because they've been seuxalised from a young age and have a thicker skin. Some women don't see the problem with secretaries getting a spank as the boss goes by, then often tell you many stories of how it happened to them and they lived yada yada. It's a trauma response to downplay violation, so the mind can survive something it can't get justice for.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:15 PM
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I think dating is meritocratic. Change my mind if you can. Everything you listed as being unfair is something you can acheive/earn yourself in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 02:51 PM
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He's not completely wrong. There's different types of incels. Some are hapless and we're never taught adequate socialisation - they should be helped. Some are violent, entitled and agressive - they should be brought down a peg.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 09:59 AM
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Only a man who has never ejaculated could believe that lol.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 09:56 AM
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Feminism is about destroying the patriarchy, not destroying men. Omen are trapped in the patriarchial structure with men, its not natural to us we constantly complain about being forced into it
/r/MensRights28/09/23 09:55 AM
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Men do have all the power. But not all men have all the power. En at the top have the most and those at the bottom have nothing. Just like with money and because it's a male based system created for men by men a woman can move like a chess queen all over that patriarchy pyramid.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 09:54 AM
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Most women love men for who they are. Women who love men for their money have been hurt d decided men can't love. And if not for love, money is the only thing a man can give as women will not be with you for sex. So the question is why do you choose the broken women? Edit: all women require financial investment or else they will love you from afar. Any desire to have children will make they require q stable man - finances emotions etc.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 09:51 AM
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I was with you till 10. Some men dress like litteral children....it stops them from getting jobs qnd being taken seriously. I will upgrade you within your own tastes. It's hard to respect a mam that won't grow
/r/MensRights28/09/23 09:49 AM
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Get a therapist
/r/MensRights28/09/23 09:47 AM
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Mothers are venerated because a woman risks her life to birth a baby. Abortion is thousands of years old women who choose to carry full term and birth are risking a lot. That used to be recognised when our communities were smaller and healthcare was worse. After that a village would rise a child. So 'bad mothers' weren't destructive.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 09:47 AM
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Girls don't but by the time they become women they've learnt not s many of you are as good as you think. So guilty unless proven otherwise because the risk is too great. Bullying is bullying. We agree here. However a woman who isn't attracted to those things isn't attracted. Men's issues are what they are. Men's opinions on their issues is what gets you the label of following someone's philosophy. It's hard to know which ones you're talking about considering this world was built by men, for men …
/r/MensRights28/09/23 09:44 AM
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But other people's food tastes better
/r/MensRights28/09/23 09:35 AM
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Women can mock you because the level of blind desire is animalistic to us. The number of men that don't have self control and will over their bodies is animalistic. Women don't have close to that level of desire for men or were able to control our bodies far better. It's why women are most attracted to men win discipline and self control.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 09:34 AM
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🤣
/r/MensRights28/09/23 09:32 AM
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All females have empathy for men and mankind untill theyre bitten one too many times 2.no women hate disabled men. They may not find them sexually attractive but that is very different. Agreed. It's enshrined in US law most fathers who don't get access don't try to get access then try to lie to their adult children /community to save face Not sure what those are but fair 6.men force men to fight in wars normally men start...seems like an internal issue 1000% Men's pain is taken more seriously th…
/r/MensRights28/09/23 09:32 AM
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In bdsm communities women are normally beaten by men and participate in rape fantasies. The world moves on. This is just the male gender dynamic equivalent.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 09:24 AM
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Lol its a fetish, just like everywhere aspect of the BDSM community the dominant provides a level of pain for the asochistic submissive and both get off on it.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 09:23 AM
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Men dont die for women, they die for men who've pimped women. It's like an Andrew Tate thing. Hes fleecing other men, his target is other men's money, he's doing it through women's bodies, women ye recruits because he knows that's that's only way to get men's money
/r/MensRights28/09/23 09:19 AM
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Because women make little soldiers. It's like cooking your golden goose when you can wait for it to shit some gold and take that to the market
/r/MensRights28/09/23 09:17 AM
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In a patriarchy yes, everyone is a resource and every life has a price. In a patriarchy women have the highest value and men who want to be the richest will only do so by having the most women to access. Which is why feminism is a push toward matriarchy, where people qre people, not resources, not belongings. The men who want to be the richest will be unhappy because capitalism will not function well in that setup
/r/MensRights28/09/23 09:16 AM
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I hear you. My advice would be to own the fact your a male teacher and market yourself as the disciplinarian, the guy that can guide your wayward sons etc. You may get away with suggestions a daughter could also benefit from the structure approach you as a male could bring but..also maybe don't qdvertise specilaiing in teaching girls, as a man. All parents will have q second thought about a man choosing to work with children. So go either for the single mother families or the naughty boy familie…
/r/MensRights28/09/23 09:14 AM
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And buy up all their tampons.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 09:10 AM
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Calling transphobia misandry is misogyny. Trans isn't just males presenting and women and they're not the only ones with problems.they just the only ones shouting loud enough and demanding attention often enough to have their problems addressed.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 09:09 AM
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The idea is, if you're a trans woman and you don't fear men, you haven't experienced the life of a woman and can be dangerous because you can't see the pitfalls and protect other women from them. You're basically too "male".
/r/MensRights28/09/23 09:06 AM
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Diehard feminist is correct. In their teens most women are sexually abused by older men who know exactly what they're doing and/or younger men focused n sexual gratification no matter what. Most men probably have been sexually abusive at their lowest sex fogged moments but just a few times and choose to forget t happened or put it down to silly teen antics. That doesn't mean men don't get abused but they're two different topics. Making the comparison to complain about women is weird.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 09:04 AM
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Yes. Men are an absolute mess right now and communities aren't coming together to support each other. The goverment needs to step in.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 09:00 AM
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That's the most feminist thing I've read on here and it's true. You need to learn to be Kennough for yourself. Centre yourself in a way that maintains your integrity and be happy. People male and female will want to be around you then rather than chasing sex like a mindless goon.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 08:59 AM
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People act very forgivingly towards rapists. They have one of the shortest prison sentences for violent or serious crime. And in a world where innocent untill proven guilty it takes a long long time to gather very hard evidence for conviction. Often by the time a man can be convicted he's ruined a handful of people's lives or attacked multiples of people. That's is what I mean by low conviction rate. Also, the defense of " I didn't read the room, sorry, my mistake" especially when said by a youn…
/r/MensRights28/09/23 08:52 AM
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Legally male rape is classed under sodomy. Molestation is something different. Boys are included under that definition. It's nice to see you're worked up over the topic. Hopefully you'll take that energy and do something about it rather than spunking it over a discussions thread.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 08:47 AM
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That's the decision most countries and mental health boards have come to. It's sad because sick girls often get their help in the maternity and parenting services and sick boys get theirs in prison. Both lives were ruined before they started.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 08:45 AM
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And in all of that I haven't read 1 line of how you've tried to resolve it. Just reasons you're angry with her. Which courts did you file with, which legal teams did you work with? Which orders did you get and how many times did you renew them. This situation isn't good for a lot of men. American men do absolutely fine though because its in law that both parents have a right to see their children and input into their lives...f they can be bothered to go to court, which rules in their favour over…
/r/MensRights28/09/23 08:43 AM
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Absolutely not. I love men. I'm just honestly answering posts here. The truth is the truth and you're upset that men get therapy, just not in the superspecial way that some women get it. It's like being jealous of special needs kids getting more of teachers time. Ridiculous.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 08:38 AM
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Most women with poor mental health have procreated with men who are just as bad or worse. The father is rarely q better option in those cases unless it was a sudden onset illness for the mother and father chose a healthy mother at the time.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 08:35 AM
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100% no father is better than an unhealthy father but a good father is best. But all children need a good enough mother for good mental health and resilience. Men have been known to take up the role of mother but its rare and a birth mothers mental health will chemically impact the unborn child. Breast milk is being studied but currently the idea is that depressed mother, whilst breastfeeding causes attachment issues in the child subconsciously. Not, not being actively abusive isn't enough to no…
/r/MensRights28/09/23 08:34 AM
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I like to find pigs in mud and throw it at them on occasion. But it's absolutely true. Babies in the womb are chemically affected by mothers mental health which is why adopted children, even as babies have worse health outcomes than those from a mother who was happy during pregnancy. Babies are also extremely sensitive to mothers moods and there's research that a lot of attachment disorders were from subconscious cues from mother rather than outright abuse from both parents in the older years. I…
/r/MensRights28/09/23 08:29 AM
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The court can't stop you from having access to your children unless you were proven to be a risk to safety for the children only. Your right to access your children is in law. OP is leaving out information
/r/MensRights27/09/23 07:35 PM
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You're looking in the wrong place. Rape of males is under sodomy -they kept it seperate as there's never pregnancy risk with it.
/r/MensRights27/09/23 07:33 PM
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Men get raped all the time. They suffer alongside women with horrendously low conviction rated and low prison sentences. At the same time, men are the ones screaming conviction rates should be low and prison sentences shouldn't be long because "he couldn't control himself", "it was a misunderstanding", "he's learnt his lesson he can't lose his future over something so small". Pick a struggle. You're all your worst enemies
/r/MensRights27/09/23 07:32 PM
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It's accurate 90% of the time. It's the male equivalent of "are you on your period"
/r/MensRights27/09/23 07:30 PM
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Yup. The men are always older. Men of the same age are awkwardly creepy. Most women roll their eyes call it immaturity and think of them as children. Older men are intentionally creepy. Like going after girls in school uniform, not caring if you have a boyfriend/married. Watching mothers where breastfeeding. Maybe they're just coomers and thebyoung men haven't been able to mature into full coomerhood yet
/r/MensRights27/09/23 07:28 PM
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Isn't this the fat argument? Yes they shouldn't stuff doughnuts down their throat. Yes they do it because they're sad and it makes them feel good....but at something they need to tame responsibility and do what's right and good for them, not comfortable - or it will kill them slowly. No-one but you can make you kick an addiction
/r/MensRights27/09/23 07:24 PM
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Yes but women are more likely to purchase for the household, male partners qnd children whereas men are more likely to purchase for themsleves. If you want to take on more responsibility in the community it will reflect in the economy.
/r/MensRights27/09/23 07:22 PM
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Womens mental health has a significant impact on children. It's a better investment to deal with women's mental health as a priority because it also trickles down to the children. Both born qnd yet to be born
/r/MensRights27/09/23 07:20 PM
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Yes, because you lied to her. You should have told her he truth upfront and worked through the consequences at the beginning, rather than building up hurt for her then going through the same consequences +. It's a good rule to have in life, not just with your wife. Be honest, have integrity.
/r/MensRights27/09/23 07:19 PM
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You're making the point that they have female only meetings, not that men aren't able to access meetings. The reason is many women experience sexual assault. Moat do. It's about the severity. Those who've had severe sexual assault can't even be in the same room as men. Those are the onesnthe women's only group is aimed at. The women that aren't severely traumatised attend the mixed groups...where the men are....
/r/MensRights27/09/23 07:16 PM
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Okay. Tell me of the non Indo-European civilisations made by men Edit: just European ones. The old indo world made buildings that lasted
/r/MensRights26/09/23 09:20 PM
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Yup. 70s free love and peace era. Followed by the biggest boom in aids seen in a long while. Feel free to rub it in for the young men who apparently have given up on any sexual contact with women. Ah, that's an exaggeration. The stat is something like half of men under 30 haven't had sex in over a year and aren't pursuit women. Apparently that's a big thing for the male world. Women don't get the big deal at all. Though if it was a big deal for men, couldn't they just see a prostitute?
/r/MensRights26/09/23 07:29 PM
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None of what I wrote was assumption but I'll bite, what specifically do you deem "wrong"?
/r/MensRights26/09/23 07:25 PM
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Men aren't villanised for wanting to sleep around. They're villaninsed for badgering and trying to manipulate people (usually women) who don't want to sleep around, into sleeping around. Like you said, there are a number of women who do want to sleep around. Just form a queue outside their houses, probably be willing to pay a little something and leave the majority of women alone.
/r/MensRights26/09/23 07:25 PM
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I absolutely agree that lesbians and women who didn't want children wold flock to uni when they were allowed. It would mean women who 100% didn't want to live under the influence of men could live q reasonable lifestyle on their own. Basically levelled up spinsters. Do you know where the term spinster came from in relation to women dedicated to the bachelorette lifestyle? It was the most well paid job a woman could do at the time and women who did it often lived with her elderly parents and swor…
/r/MensRights26/09/23 04:23 PM
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In the 1960s only a handful of women could go to university. I don't know what movies you've been watching to come to these conclusions but they're movies. Gender studies and oppression observations came from rich white women watching the dynamics of native American women and men and also black women and men. At that point they realised what they thought was natural gender dynamics was Anglo European/abrahamic religion dynamics. That is the only reason why feminism ended up being ties in with er…
/r/MensRights26/09/23 03:55 PM
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Okay. But then it'll be a huge legal debate qnd legal precedence will be set but currently so few people give eggs to those who aren't family or people who want to do science experiments on embryos. It's not a thing and normal case law covers and applies
/r/MensRights26/09/23 03:45 PM
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Oh wow. You're so far removed from reality I don't know where to start. I'll just say. Women that initiate divorce rarely remarry. The men they were with put them off marraige for a lifetime. Of those that do remarry its because they dont/can't work. A small number with today's zeitgeist. Men are horn and often men confuse horn with love. Many men get past the horn and like the woman as a person and assume that is love. Neither are love. Many old men will admit this. I didn't knownwhat live was …
/r/MensRights26/09/23 08:46 AM
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The person she sold it to. As per surrogacy laws and IVF guidelines
/r/MensRights26/09/23 08:29 AM
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