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People are allowed to not be interested in anyone for any reason
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 04:45 PM
23

Men aren’t villianized for sex there’s literally an entire billion dollar industry that caters to them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 09:44 PM
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Because she’s one of the few politicians they can sexualize. That’s literally it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:06 PM
12

You do realize splitting the date 50/50 is because of feminism…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:59 PM
3

What is a rape joke
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 05:17 PM
15

I’m a woman and I would definitely get a prenup. Most of my friends share this opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 08:34 PM
7

It’s amazing how men can beat women up and y’all will still blame her
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 09:04 PM
9

Leaving an abusive relationship is actually the most dangerous time for women in those. This is the time they have the highest chance of being murdered by their significant other
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 09:03 PM
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Idk why you’re trying to fight me when all I said initially was that I agree with your dating outlook.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 06:32 PM
3

I’m just picky and have high standards. Everyone should have high standards in my opinion. I understand it upsets men though when we say we have standards
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 06:08 PM
1

It’s called standards, all people should have them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 06:07 PM
13

I’m a woman and this is my thought process as well. As I’ve aged I’ve lost interest in shorter flings and am looking for the real thing. But it’s hard to find of course
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 02:52 PM
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Thoughts like these are why y’all can’t talk to women or get dates. You act like we’re aliens who prey on humans
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:14 PM
3

Dude these men had countless victims over years and years. What a bad take
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 04:56 PM
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Honestly dude please go try to make a friend and get offline. It will benefit you greatly
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:40 PM
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And who exactly created that ideology?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:50 PM
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When we are assertive y’all call us bitches
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 10:18 PM
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Dude respectfully this post is insane
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 10:17 PM
2

The vast majority of men don’t even wash their hands after using the bathroom. Which is not a big ask at all lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 06:13 PM
3

You guys talk about women like they’re aliens. It’s so bizarre to me. Women are humans, men are humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 09:08 PM
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I think this can be difficult for men to understand since don’t have the prey aspect that women have. We’re cautious because it’s a safety issue. And for most women, there have been occasions where a man has shown us to be unsafe. Even my own dad and uncles taught me to be careful with men. Statistically, men can be dangerous to women. Notice I don’t say all men- because it isn’t all men. But some men unfortunately have ruined things for all men. And as a result, women act cautious. Idk why you …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 06:01 PM
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How do y’all come up with these random hypothetical situations
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 05:51 PM
1

Because most of you can’t be even if you wanted to
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 06:32 AM
4

If I’m being honest I don’t seek out male friends because all of the ones I’ve had eventually asked me out or wanted to pursue me romantically. The main thing I need from a male friend is safety. I need to feel safe with them, and I need to feel like they actually want a friendship and not just a chance to date me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 05:45 PM
2

Dude lowkey it sounds like you just don’t like women. Maybe take a break
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 03:13 AM
11

Hell no I enjoy having rights
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:07 PM
15

But also your husband raping you was legal, no fault divorce didn’t exist, you couldn’t own your own bank account or credit cards, black women couldn’t vote, segregation existed, you had to work from sun up to sun down doting on your husband and kids
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:06 PM
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This is the issue, men put far too much pressure on having a woman in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:45 PM
6

Why do men seem to frame their loneliness as only solvable through women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:29 AM
5

This is a huge assumption on an entire gender and an unhealthy take in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:23 PM
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It’s much more accepted now so people feel more comfortable to come out or participate
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:55 PM
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It’s not the 1950s anymore. Women don’t need men, and men cannot seem to handle that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:28 PM
3

I’m already harassed when I’m wearing a shirt so I cannot imagine how bad it would be without one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 07:30 PM
1

But he just added one of the authors to his cabinet…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 02:56 AM
8

If you walk outside you will see countless average men with average women. Tons of people are married, dating and in love. This type of thinking is illogical.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 09:01 PM
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So you raised your standards and now it’s harder to find dates. That’s how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 08:56 PM
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Then don’t date them again? I’m not sure what the issue is? You won’t like everyone you go on dates with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 08:54 PM
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I mean I’m assuming you wouldn’t even want those women, so why worry about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 08:32 PM
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I agree. Male attention is easily obtained. You have to understand most women are getting men sexualizing them and what not by age 5/6/7. I think men put more pressure on themselves and each-other to find romantic relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 05:56 PM
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Kinda insane how many of you would love if women went back to being property again.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 05:49 PM
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Those all sound like a mom or dad punishing their child. Not a healthy relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 07:10 PM
5

Dude this is so unhinged
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:52 PM
1

Exactly this!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:51 PM
11

Do you ever talk to women in real life? This reads as someone who is chronically online with little experience with women in the “real world”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:41 PM
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What’s the point of even having a federal government then? If it all goes back to states why have a country at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:19 PM
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Can some someone point me to the policies the left has proposed that disenfranchise men? I hear a lot about how the right has gone out of its way to appeal to men, but I don’t really see examples other than far right grifters taking advantage of men (Andrew Tate types).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:17 PM
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Ahh yes because only gay men can have friends or learn hobbies. This is why there’s a male loneliness epidemic yall are miserable and refuse to do anything about it lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:57 PM
1

Kids are a lot of work. I think many people can find fulfillment in many ways. Not everyone will find having kids or being a mom/dad fulfilling and that’s ok. There’s nothing wrong with not having kids. There’s no one right way to live this life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:54 PM
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Me too!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:20 PM
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Ok bye. Sorry no one here wants you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:03 PM
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I think some men truly underestimate just how much their wives or girlfriends do for them. Once it ends and the wake up call hits, they’re stunned.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:51 PM
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Maybe men should make friends and learn hobbies instead of being obsessed with this so called “status”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:37 PM
3

Yes why would women have a child if there’s potential we will die from complications? Many complications result in an abortion, with those being banned we will die. Some won’t want to risk death.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:12 PM
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I mean in Afghanistan women are no longer allowed to speak outside the home. In many nations women are not entitled to an education or to operate a vehicle. I’d argue those are all pretty obvious points as to how a woman’s personhood is limited.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:10 PM
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Our name has never even belonged to us. Even that is a title we were expected to take from a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:09 PM
9

How do you know if they’ve never been historically in charge?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:08 PM
1

It’s not the equivalent to literally anything a man does because he will never risk his bodily health to create a child nor will he experience the pain and trauma inflicted during pregnancy and child birth. These aren’t even comparable in the slightest
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:33 PM
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The fact that a woman can go through 9 months of hell, losing hair, mental exhaustion, vomiting, losing teeth, swelling, pain and more just to rip their vagina to their asshole to push a child out, bleed for 6 weeks, potentially get serious complications physically and mentally all to have men like you state they need to lose the weight? Don’t have kids then. If you can’t handle your wife gaining weight after bring a child into this world than you’re certainly not mature enough to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:11 PM
4

And men murder at far significant rates, rape at far significant rates. Statistics prove how dangerous men as a whole are. The most dangerous thing to men is also men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 02:40 AM
2

Ok so there are zero policies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:31 AM
0

Ok so then you’re point is completely irrelevant and based solely in opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:31 AM
2

And how are any of those liberal policies? These are just random words you picked.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:12 AM
3

Now do murder and rape
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:11 AM
5

So you’re shitting on other men? Is that a conservative thought?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:11 AM
2

So there’s no actual liberal policies or ideas that support your opinion? Got it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:09 AM
7

Can you provide exactly how the left has demonized men? I think you correlate women with being the left.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 08:17 PM
10

Physical violence kills people
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 08:16 PM
6

Inherently more dangerous or predatory to what? Women? Men? Children? It’s not a belief if it is a statistical fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 08:15 PM
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You didn’t even use the correct their….
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 07:34 PM
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I’m the same way. If we don’t share core values then what’s the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 05:40 PM
2

Yes I would never date a conservative or trump supporter. Our values don’t align. I’m fine being single and having this as a standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 05:37 PM
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This subreddit gets filled with incel anti women comments constantly. Idk what you’re taking about
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 05:33 PM
11

Leading cause of death of pregnant American women is actually homicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:48 PM
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Lmaoooo at least you’re honest 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:03 AM
1

I’ve never met or known a man who was falsely accused. I have, however, known many women who were raped. Some men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:32 AM
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Why do you care if it does or doesn’t happen? Most of the men on this page can’t get laid either way lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:29 AM
12

I literally want the opposite of an alpha male lmao. If they even attempt to call themselves that I immediately cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:33 PM
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Gotcha I mean I don’t disagree there. Clearly democrats need to change strategy because it’s not working.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:02 PM
10

I don’t date Trump supporters. That will continue but overall I will stop dating. I’m fine alone with my female friendships. Men in this country are lost and I’m really not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:45 PM
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I haven’t seen any republicans discuss men’s issues? Where are they talking about male homelessness, male crime, male suicide, etc.? Men have voted Republican because they think that’s how masculinity looks, the Andrew Tate extremism stuff. Republican leaders don’t care about men, but they’re smart in knowing men are desperate so they can easily appeal to them. Y’all are getting played.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:35 PM
3

What are the women’s issues men spend all day fighting for?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:19 PM
2

You don’t have to do anything. She’s just making suggestions. You’re allowed to not take these suggestions lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 01:36 PM
0

Lmao for not wanting women to be raped? Sounds like you have some big feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:00 PM
0

It’s human decency which you clearly lack. I hope you have the day you deserve
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:50 PM
6

Well it sounds like you’ve got it all figured out!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:20 PM
2

I truly hope you get the help you so desperately need. What an evil statement for a human to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 06:52 PM
6

I find someone not even having one friend a huge red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:29 PM
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I think a fair amount of people really want a wedding instead of a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:57 PM
3

Sometimes people use protection and still get pregnant, or have an ectopic pregnancy and need an abortion as a life saving measure
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 04:40 PM
6

You know this isn’t true but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 04:39 PM
10

I was taught to be financially independent, get an education and make a career. All of my friends were taught the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 04:31 PM
1

Ectopic pregnancy exists and will kill you if untreated
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:12 PM
-1

She never said it doesn’t? It’s a fact only women get pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:09 PM
1

People who lack boundaries or ignore them, people who stare at me like I’m prey, people who make things sexual in inappropriate situations, people who have intense non blinking direct eye contact, people who make uncomfortable statements about me, to me, or sexualize me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:38 PM
3

I’ve often found men who claim they have “dark humor” are using it to cover their own sexism, racism and misogyny. Immediately a turn off for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:11 PM
4

I always split the bill because I’ve had some men tell me I owe them things when they’ve paid. It’s easier on everyone if we split
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 06:39 PM
15

This he’s telling on himself
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 02:33 PM
1

I judge anyone who cheats on their partner regardless of gender
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 06:13 PM
2

My parents were engaged after 4 months and they’ve been married for 34 years now. Not saying I recommend that but for them it worked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 07:06 PM
3

Lmaoooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:20 PM
20

This entire post makes no sense but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:58 PM
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As a woman on a dating app I can assure you that half of men’s profiles are absolute disasters. Terrible pics, no prompt answers, or they make it appear that they just want a bro. The amount of times I’ve seen men answer the prompt “the way to my heart is - cooking for me”. That’s really not attractive to most women lmao. I think a lot of men fail to realize they are putting things on these profiles that women are not gonna be attracted to. “Typical Sunday- the gym and football”, ok most men do …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:01 PM
2

Men already leave pregnant women/ mothers all the time lmao it’s a common occurrence.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:43 PM
-1

So again, I what rights did men lose by trying to make employers and schools more gender equal?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 02:35 PM
2

When you’re accustomed to privilege equality feels like oppression
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 01:57 PM
7

What rights did men lose from women gaining equality?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 01:55 PM
2

The word already exists and it’s the word feminist lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 01:54 PM
-4

The fact that you see the Me Too movement as a bad thing tells me everything I need to know about your views on women in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:11 PM
1

They’re enraged women are having sex because these men aren’t lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 12:29 PM
1

Why would it matter to me? As long as it’s consensual it’s literally no one’s business.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 12:12 PM
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Of course my friends don’t find the men they married unattractive. Otherwise they would not have married them. What even is this conversation lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 12:04 PM
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Do you have eyes? There are beauty stores for a reason. An entire billion dollar industry for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 04:46 PM
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Why would I be upset that he treated his ex girlfriends well???
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:58 PM
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“Treat someone with disrespect so they like you” is insane advice but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:18 PM
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This sounds like she just wanted to pet a dog. I’ve pet many men’s dogs without wanting to date them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:59 PM
0

Sounds like you were only being nice to try and get into women’s pants… which is weird…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:36 PM
3

I see men berate each-other more often than women berate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:00 PM
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The vast majority of the profiles I see make it sound like the guy is looking for a bro rather than a girl. Typical Sunday- football with the boys and gym. Looking for a gym buddy. Another one I see so often- men writing the way to their “heart” is when someone cooks for them. Not a good look tbh. I’m sure these guys are fine but half the time I’m like dude you just want another bro to hang with lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:44 PM
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It implies he believes you were un faithful in some way obviously. A normal, functional relationship would never need such a thing as it is built on trust. The people on this page seem to lack that understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 01:22 PM
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These are the same men who can’t get dates to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 01:21 PM
0

I hate to tell you this but anyone can reject you romantically for any reason- and that includes women. The sooner you get over it the better you will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:27 PM
3

Lmao at least you’re honest
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 05:03 PM
5

Do you have friends who are women? Do you have some fun hobbies?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:46 PM
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If you’re not please get off this website. It’s super toxic for young folks
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:40 PM
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Idk I’m a girl with friends and sisters. It’s so weird that a grown man made this post…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:28 PM
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Kinda weird for a grown man to be ranting about women being friends with each other….
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:17 PM
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Basing women’s views off of one tik tok? My god y’all are cooked…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:04 PM
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Ok yes expanded to most men. Not women….
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 02:57 PM
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I’m not saying women didn’t. But women as a whole were banned from education for the majority of history, forced into societal roles, etc. just in the United States women had to fight for the right to vote not including women of color who had to fight even harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 02:57 PM
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They were leaders and innovators because women were not allowed in those roles. It’s not that hard to understand…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 02:45 PM
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I’m fine with or without men personally. If Im dating someone they need to be better than my peace being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 02:44 PM
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So you would rather we go back to an era where women were completely financially responsible on men? Unfortunately for you guys women are now able to live comfortably alone. And as a result women want men less. Women aren’t just going to abandon their careers or goals anytime soon so I suggest you focus on making yourself the best version of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 02:14 PM
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If you think porn is an accurate representation of sex then you need help…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 12:43 PM
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I’m a girl who’s single and has been for a few years. No sex or anything in the meantime. Personally, I’m not bothered by the lack of physical touch at all. Never have been
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 12:39 PM
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Personally, I would see it as concerning that someone is continuing to nag their partner to fuck them. I find it very strange when people are interested in having sex even when they know their partner isn’t in the mood/isn’t enjoying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 04:16 PM
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That would be considered sexual coercion. People should respect others answers when they say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 03:42 PM
3

That all sounds way more fun than tearing my vagina to my asshole and cleaning up vomit and shit tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:00 PM
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There are plenty of smooth pregnancies but they will still permanently alter your body in some way. Some women find that deeply unsettling which I get
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 12:06 PM
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My coworkers teeth fell out during her pregnancy. Her epidural has led to spinal issues so she can no longer feel her legs. My friend bled out and had to have her ovaries and tubes removed. Pregnancy and delivery is shockingly dangerous
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 11:52 AM
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We watched our dads do nothing to help raise us. It’s incredibly expensive and some people don’t want the stress. The overturning of Roe V Wade has made it incredibly dangerous to be a pregnant woman in certain states. Women don’t want to risk it. We also live in a country with zero maternity leave, little assistance to parents, and poor healthcare. Why would I want to raise a kid rn?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 11:49 AM
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Y’all just need to learn how to flirt tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 07:44 PM
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As a woman I’ve never had an issue with my partner watching porn, masturbating or occasionally hitting up a strip club with his friends. I’m not his mother, I’m his partner and I trust him. Same way he trusts me. This whole thing is insanely insecure tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 06:05 PM
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I’d rather be single than stick around in something I know is not gonna go anywhere. I think many men feel the same way
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:10 PM
2

And yet a quick google search will tell you the majority of men who have been raped were actually raped by men. It is much less likely to be raped by a women- that doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen obviously. Men are the majority of sexual predators to men and women alike.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:16 PM
1

Male victims can also be raped by men. Or are we ignoring those victims?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:55 PM
0

Men being the majority of rapists is statistically proven and has always been that way. Along with committing the majority of violent crimes. The vast majority
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:46 PM
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Only one often leads to violence
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:25 PM
2

Dude just say you don’t like women and go we get it lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:08 PM
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I find a lot of parents raised their sons and daughters differently and I think in some cases we’re seeing it now
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:06 PM
7

Getting dates is easy. Getting quality dates is difficult. I find most men want sex nearly immediately, cannot communicate in an appropriate and healthy way, and often lack any effort. I think it’s hard for most people- men and women- to find people they really connect with on a romantic level. I’ve found men consistently try to push my personal boundaries, belittle me if I reject them or say something they don’t agree with. The amount of dates I’ve been on where the man has not asked me a singl…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:02 PM
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This is why we always feel like we’re being hunted
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:32 AM
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Most of you guys don’t have any money so I would argue most women aren’t gold diggers. I promise no woman is coming after your 55k annual salary.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:16 PM
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And only about 3% of accusations are false. In fact men are more likely to be raped themselves than to be falsely accused. Whereas women are far more likely to be raped. I know you really want to feel like a victim, but the reality doesn’t lie. And unfortunately the minority of men continue to act poorly, therefore the majority of men will continue to be looked at with a cautious eye. It’s not fair to most men, but men have created that fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:15 PM
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Probably because gold digging is financially based and the things women are being careful of are murder, rape and assaults
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:52 PM
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Lmao this attitude doesn’t seem to be helping you. Perhaps changing it will help women like you. Best of luck
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:47 PM
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Literally no one is arguing that the majority of men rape. The unfortunate truth is that the majority of rapes are committed by men. You know this and so do I. It’s not rocket science. It’s not discriminatory for women to be careful around men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:41 PM
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I never said that the majority of men commit crimes. I said the overwhelming majority of crimes are committed by men. Which would infer to some that men can be dangerous. I never said all men. Most women are taught by the men in their lives (fathers, grandfathers, brothers, etc) that men can be incredibly dangerous
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:38 PM
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No offense OP but this energy is likely why girls have zero interest in dating you. Your responses are reading unhinged
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:36 PM
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Because most people don’t report rape due to the low conviction rates. I was violently raped and never reported it as I knew it wouldn’t go anywhere and I was deeply ashamed. According to you, that means I wasn’t raped at all? Is that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:34 PM
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At the same time though the vast vast vast majority of violent crimes are committed by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:31 PM
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It’s interesting you mention women getting triggered when I have countless men in my dms from this page telling me I should kill myself, they’ll rape me, I’m a cunt, etc. because I’ve literally just responded to random stuff on threads that have been posted lmaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 12:58 PM
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Lots of things used to be fairly common and normal but that doesn’t make them ok
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:47 PM
2

Nothing says healthy relationship like someone giving in after being pestered repeatedly despite them stating they’re not interested!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 05:15 PM
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Why would you even want someone who would make you do that?? I would highly recommend just leaving women alone after they state they are not interested the first time. Any more effort begins to make you look like a creep or predator.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 05:13 PM
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That’s called a friendship. Which is actually different than a sexual relationship. If you ask me out and I politely decline and you continue to ask me out I’ll assume you’re a creep who has zero respect for consent or women, since you clearly don’t understand boundaries. Did your parents never teach you “no means no”? Men like you are literally the reason other men get a bad reputation when asking girls out- because you guys can’t accept rejection
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 05:06 PM
2

And are you at least having it regularly?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 05:04 PM
0

Why are you even attempting to date if you have this view? Genuinely curious as it sounds like you just don’t really like women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 05:00 PM
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If you ask someone out 2-3 times after they already said no that means you’re insane. And also a creep
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 04:59 PM
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Actually, it’s nearly always been white men who I’ve had issues with
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 05:38 PM
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The leading cause of death for pregnant women in the USA is homicide
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 05:35 PM
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You can make your own thread about woman on woman harassment then!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:00 PM
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Again, this is unhinged. You know women aren’t literally using the hashtag kill all men. That’s insane and you know it. It seems like you really really reallyyyyy want to feel like a victim. Which is fine- but when the vast majority of actual murder, assaults and harassment is literally done by men, your argument doesn’t make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:47 PM
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Where did she say that? She said all women have been harassed by a man. Because that’s the conversation we’re discussing on this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:45 PM
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And what about the children who get molested at schools, church, clubs, etc. did those kids put themselves in danger?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:38 PM
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The overwhelming majority of women get sexually assaulted and had harassed. The large majority of that is by men. You and I both know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:36 PM
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Why would that make him weak in any way? How is that any different than your friends helping you improve your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:25 PM
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They’re VERY offended that women see men as dangerous because men have put us in danger. And somehow that is our problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:02 PM
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This is unhinged. No one I is asking for a genocide against men and you know it. Be so for real right now. Go outside for ten minutes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:01 PM
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This is a great point. The men in our lives told us how dangerous men are beginning at a young age.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:00 PM
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Men have ruined men’s reputation regarding safety. Unfortunately, good men get looked at differently because so many women have bad experiences with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:58 PM
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It’s honestly sad that so many men are so proud to claim that they have never and would never help others. Like damn that’s depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 06:53 PM
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The profiles just pop up for you on the app. So you look at them and then decide. I would say the ones i described are about 50% or so. The other 50% is men who actually do put in some effort, though that varies widely.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 05:45 PM
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I mean there’s plenty of things and obviously it depends on the person. But some examples would be men’s profiles where they answer zero questions, where they only have a couple very close up selfies, only gym pics, things like “I want a gym girl” or “I want a girl who will cook for me” are likely not appealing to many, men who’s entire profile is about football or video games, men who post no photos at all (only pics of their dog or car).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 04:26 PM
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No but based on the male profiles I do see, it’s obvious as to why women would not swipe for them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:58 PM
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It’s really weird that you’re probably fantasizing about women being physically hurt and you not stepping in to help them. Really weird brag
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:42 PM
5

I thought he just got hit with additional charges last week?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 01:30 AM
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Except they’re not sex offenders
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 01:28 AM
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What a disgusting thing to say- especially when the leading cause of death to pregnant women is homicide
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:22 PM
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As a woman if I found out my husband, who’s child I carried for months at the expense of my own physical and mental wellbeing, wanted a paternity test I would oblige. But I would also be getting a divorce. Men have a right to that if they feel they want one. But that doesn’t mean it won’t come with consequences unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:13 PM
4

Have fun in Nepal! My sister just went and loved it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:57 PM
0

Definitely a red flag for me. I can’t be someone’s only socialization. That’s unhealthy and puts pressure on me. A couple friends is fine- doesn’t need to be a lot. But none is not gonna work for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:47 PM
3

It’s always the broke men complaining about this like bro worry about rent lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:33 PM
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I’ve had men from this very page message me saying they would find me and rape me lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 01:53 PM
10

Y’all should focus on trying to get a date and not the hypothetical cheating your pretend future wife is up to
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 01:47 PM
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I sincerely hope you are able to get the help you need. Best of luck
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 10:57 PM
1

So instead of just trying to enjoy single life you’d rather sit inside and argue with people about what women think and do? This can’t be good for you mentally
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 10:17 PM
4

Aren’t you guys the same men who argue that men are victims of violent crime at higher rates than women? From other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:33 PM
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Men on this page don’t have a desire to understand women. Nearly every post turns into a rage fueled argument. This one will too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 03:38 PM
3

Can you name what western nations are matriarchal?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 03:36 PM
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What happened to all of your friends op?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 01:37 PM
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Do you think sitting online and spewing this is helping your cause? Is it going to attract more women in the long run? Or is it fostering even ire resentment in your mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 01:36 PM
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Some of the men in these comments are seriously unhinged. If you’re reading this please take a moment and breathe. Nothing is this deep
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 03:14 AM
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Bro please get some help these responses are insane
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 03:12 AM
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This page is actually insane. Get out of your house and go do a hobby. Make a friend. Learn something. My God
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 02:36 AM
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Many women can attest to this. Men are not subtle. I know you probably don’t know how it feels for people to want you sexually nonstop
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:01 PM
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I think the issue is when nearly every man we meet from age 10 on wants to fuck us it becomes this constant feeling of being hunted or viewed as a sexual object instead of a person
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:51 PM
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This is a very good point- my mom is a pediatric doctor and said tons of teens are hardcore addicts
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 12:58 PM
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Two big things- some men neglect all their responsibilities to play video games and it gets pathetic. The other is some men are incredibly rude, sexist and honestly scary while playing them. I’ve seen men tell women they wish they’d be raped or murdered before.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 12:57 PM
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Couldn’t you make this same argument for Mormons, The Catholic Chuch, jehovah witness? None of those religions support the LGBTQ either
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 06:24 PM
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These men have zero social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 04:46 PM
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Men on this exact page have said they would literally do anything for sex. Men have raped children, animals and dead bodies. It’s not rocket science that men crave sex. Most men are normal and can control that, some however, are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 04:14 PM
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The interesting part is how most of the men who care about women’s sex count cannot get laid themselves. They’re jealous lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 12:30 PM
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Same if I could be a dad I totally would! A mom? Absolutely not
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 06:57 PM
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We watched our mothers lose their freedom, body, time and self while our dads watched football. Kids take away a ton from women- not as much from men. Also pushing out a baby is terrifying. I would be a dad if I could but not a mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 06:56 PM
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Ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 04:36 PM
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Women absolutely face pressure to have a certain temperament. If we’re too cold- we’re bitches. Too nice? Pushovers. Too sexual- sluts, not sexual enough? Prudes. Aren’t always watching their kids? Terrible moms. Watch their kids too much? Obsessed helicopter moms. Good at corporate jobs? Probably slept her way to the top! Bad at corporate jobs? Only hired due to diversity!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 03:52 PM
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No I would not
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 03:42 PM
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Unfortunately if you’re on this page you’re likely uncomfortable with approaching other people. Y’all can blame the nasty, rude, creepy men who have made it an absolute nightmare to be approached as a woman. I know most men are nice but the ones who aren’t really impact how women see men in general
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:59 AM
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I consider it a red flag if a guy has just pics of himself on his profile
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 03:20 PM
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You do realize that nothing is universal in everyone’s life other than being born and dying. Everyone lives different walks of life. Of course you’re not going to have a lot to say about cat calling when you’re a man lmaooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 04:14 PM
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Lmao it’s called playing- it sounds like you had a chronically indoor and online childhood and that’s sad
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 04:12 PM
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It’s definitely kinda weird to not have some type of part time job. I was in an upper class family but still had to get one because my parents weren’t just going to hand me money. They told us if we wanted things we could get jobs and buy those things ourselves (which we did).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 02:44 PM
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I’m 28- nope my parents just worked until 6. We were outside all the time. I got my first job at 15, so interacted with many people there. I will remind you that just because you and your sister haven’t experienced something doesn’t mean it’s just not real. I’ve never experienced racism- does that mean racism is fake?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 02:41 PM
3

I worked at a summer camp for like 6 summers and it was by far my favorite job
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 02:40 PM
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Omg where was it? Mine was good old JC Pennys lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 02:24 PM
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I got my first job at 15!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 02:07 PM
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I’m the same way- my parents said be home by 6:30 for dinner. They never had any idea what we were up to lollll
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:41 PM
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Ok so there you go- many kids do go in public unsupervised. It’s a norm for many working families.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:39 PM
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My friends and I all started to experience harassment and cat calling around age 9/10/11. I was stalked at 14 by a 60 year old man. My friend was staked at 16 by a different old man (she had to get a restraining order). I can assure you this happens to many girls. I recall realizing at that age that men wanted me in a sexual way and it really made me feel unsafe or almost like I was constantly being watched or hunted. I know it’s probably hard to understand as a boy but many young boys are also …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:38 PM
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I don’t do hook ups but if I did the standards would remain the same
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 06:06 PM
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Someone who is intelligent, treats others with kindness and respect, can communicate effectively, has emotional maturity, isn’t a Republican, takes care of themselves (can cook, clean and has proper hygiene). Those are big ones I suppose
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:59 PM
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Someone who is intelligent, treats others with kindness and respect, can communicate effectively, has emotional maturity, isn’t a Republican, takes care of themselves (can cook, clean and has proper hygiene). Those are big ones I suppose
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:59 PM
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Someone who is intelligent, treats others with kindness and respect, can communicate effectively, has emotional maturity, isn’t a Republican, takes care of themselves (can cook, clean and has proper hygiene). Those are big ones I suppose
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:59 PM
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She owes you literally nothing. Hope that helps
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:58 AM
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He had no problems because women needed men. Now we don’t anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:04 PM
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Ok not sure what your solution is. You’re not entitled to sex regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 01:47 PM
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I mean this with the upmost respect- this entire post is unhinged
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 06:05 PM
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Perhaps don’t try to date women if you clearly hate them lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:29 PM
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Unfortunately men have ruined this for other men. Far too many men are inappropriate, rude and make women feel unsafe. If they didn’t exist then of course we’d be more open to interacting with y’all. But that’s just not reality
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:28 PM
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Idk why it’s shocking to you guys that women wouldn’t have casual sex with someone they don’t find attractive. There’s way more risks for women sexually of course they’ll only take those for some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:35 PM
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I hate to be the one to tell you this but men have ruined dating for men. Far too many men are dangerous, lie for sex, sexist, etc. hence many women quitting dating. It would be easier for everyone if all men were more chill about dating and rejection’s especially.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 07:23 PM
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It’s amazing how men will always blame things on women. We are promoting it amongst ourselves. Y’all are free to do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:01 PM
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Y’all can’t even talk to a women much less marry and procreate with one. Why even worry about this stuff???
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:10 PM
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The main issue with this page is the men on it don’t interact with women ever- as friends or romantically. Then they go to a space and create echo chambers which end up making them hate women. Then they get mad said women won’t date them. Then they get angrier and the cycle continues. Y’all need to get off the computer and go make some friends and connect with people
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 04:50 PM
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Plenty of men have friends who are girls and maintain those relationships platonically. Just because you can’t do that doesn’t men all men are the same way
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 04:37 PM
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Men need to do a better job of opening up and supporting one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 07:56 PM
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Most of the men on this page don’t luck women and see them as the enemy. They want to have sex with women, but they also hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:26 PM
1

This is so Maureen ponderosa
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:53 PM
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He used emojis. I don’t date guys who use emojis lmaooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:16 PM
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You are completely unhinged. Hope that helps
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 04:39 PM
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Emotional maturity
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 01:35 AM
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Humor, intelligence, emotional maturity
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 06:23 PM
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Some men quite literally murder women who reject them but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 02:59 PM
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Wouldn’t that argument not work considering children get sexually harassed as well as men and women who are not dressed “provocatively”? For me I began to be harassed starting around 7 when I was wearing kids tee shirts and pants. It almost seems as though you can still be sexually harassed regardless of how you dress
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 05:32 PM
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So for all the kids who get sexually harassed like myself, while wearing jeans and a tee shirt, are they also dressing for sexual attention? Because I hate to tell you this but men see women sexually regardless of how they’re dressed
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 05:19 PM
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Bro wut? Did you just try to argue men should be sexually harassed lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 04:39 PM
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Yes everything is women’s fault!! So glad you came to this thought out and nuanced conclusion!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 12:28 PM
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I’ve always made the first move though I’ve found that it has often led to an unbalanced effort in the relationship. Men I’ve pursued have given little effort where as men who have pursued me often are much more willing to show effort or even meet me halfway.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 01:41 PM
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Whatever floats your boat!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 07:01 PM
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You might want to date men instead dude
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:15 PM
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I think as a woman it sometimes just feels like I’m being hunted in a sense. It feels unnatural at times
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 07:24 PM
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Are men not the most dangerous predators to women? And other men too?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 06:49 PM
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I think they’re both bad of course but murder is definitely a worst outcome obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 06:49 PM
1

Probably because statistics back women up
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 05:16 PM
2

These are definitely real and not made up
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 05:15 PM
1

Why is the whole bear thing an issue with you though? Are you not understanding what they are communicating?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 05:14 PM
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I mean many men literally rape women if they won’t have sex with them soooo
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 05:13 PM
3

I’m a woman and I also feel this about dating
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 05:06 PM
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I’m a woman and my taste has definitely shifted as I’ve aged. I think most people- men and women- mature and figure out which traits they prefer and don’t prefer in a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:36 PM
1

I would love to hear your solution and thoughts
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:11 PM
1

So you get out of it what you put into it. Assuming you were to enter with your attitude- it wouldn’t work of course
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:11 PM
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You’re a man and we’re discussing male problems as a whole. I see you’re having some big emotions. Might I suggest therapy?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:43 PM
2

So essentially nothing?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:43 PM
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So you’ve done nothing and are confused as to why there’s no changes being made. Literally one of my points. You guys try nothing and are disappointed lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:33 PM
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I agree it’s a cultural problem. I think most people in the US would do well with a cultural shift of goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:32 PM
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Therapy is dependent on the work you put into it as well as the therapist you connect with. Sometimes it takes three or four different therapists to find something that is beneficial. Perhaps the reason men are killing themselves at alarming rates is because you guys don’t talk about your feelings. Clearly your current methods are not working
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:32 PM
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This may piss a lot of you off but I see too many men simply blaming women for this instead of creating their own spaces. A lot of the anger I see comes from entitlement- many men feel entitled to love and sex but unfortunately no one is. I have seen countless men in my life try to open up to their friends and have it shot down as being gay or womanly. If men want things to change they also need to be willing to create positive environments where they can openly discuss things without shitting o…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 07:59 PM
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This is very true. Men seem to blame women for their own downfalls simply because women are not willing to sexually fulfill them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 07:51 PM
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What exactly should women be doing? And why is this women’s fault? I see a ton of men who refuse to get therapy, who don’t even try to make friends or create healthy spaces to discuss their emotions. Why must this all somehow fall onto women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 07:49 PM
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Only by creeps who won’t take no for an answer aka homeless men, very old men, creepy men. Normal well adjusted men? Never.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 02:38 PM
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Pls define a matriarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 01:42 PM
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They just make shit up lmaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 03:22 AM
3

None! When I worked at Dunkin in college my coworker came back into work three days after her stillborn delivery. Three days.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 04:34 PM
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There’s a lot of projecting in this post. Idk why men are so confused that single women can be and are happy and fulfilled! I’m single and I’m incredibly happy. Lots of women understand the physical, mental and emotional toll that kids take on and are choosing not to have them. Some of my friends are married and I’m often much happier than them. Marriage/partnership doesn’t equate to being happy or fulfilled. Many people, men and women, are happier single than in a bad relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 07:18 PM
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What an incredibly sad way to think. I really hope you’re able to learn and grow. Please get the help you need. This is just a really sad post all around tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 07:30 PM
7

Seriously what girl would ever take a man seriously who watches garbage like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 02:35 PM
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Please tell me you are not seriously taking advice from a YouTube channel with the name Hoe math…. Dude be so for real rn
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 02:15 PM
33

Literally he’s getting mad at pretend situations
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 07:08 PM
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So you are just doing this to live out a weird fantasy where you can be mad at women you don’t know who date men you’ll never meet…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 07:08 PM
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Why are you even thinking of these hypothetical scenarios? Just to be annoyed at women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:48 PM
2

Wut lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:47 PM
3

Dude men literally murder women when they get mad at them lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:52 PM
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Lmaoo pls get help dude this is unhinged and unhealthy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:01 PM
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This post screams incel. Please take a social media break and go make some friends. Get a therapist. Learn a skill. Go watch a sunset.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 07:46 PM
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He’s either creepy, got a shit personality, or not as hot as he thinks he is. If he’s only attracting women he deems unattractive he may want to reevaluate his own looks
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 07:33 PM
5

Bruh lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 07:31 PM
6

So do you just want to get laid or have a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 07:26 PM
2

And the majority of women would agree that “basic social skills” is not a personality
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 07:21 PM
4

Basic social skills is not a personality. I’ve met many attractive men who I would never date because they have the personality of a rock. Literally so boring. I’ve also dated men who are less attractive but had great personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 07:15 PM
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How old are you now?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 06:30 PM
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So you wouldn’t just respect her decisions. Wow that’s really sad for her. I hope she gets the support she needs in life
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 06:04 PM
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So what will you say to your daughter if she doesn’t want kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 06:00 PM
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I get what you’re trying to say. I think the main issue is women are tired of men telling us our worth is solely based in us becoming mothers as if we don’t have any value unless and until that happens. It’s very frustrating to hear this from the age you can talk
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:49 PM
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Lots of women and men don’t want children though. And lots of women and men who do have children regret it and find it overwhelming instead of fulfilling.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:43 PM
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Why not get married then and be a stay at home mom? What’s stopping you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:41 PM
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My mom is a doctor and absolutely loves and adores her career. I actually know several women who adore their careers. Not everyone hates their job. Some people find them fulfilling
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:40 PM
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Of course why do you think they’re banning abortion in so many states? This is all about control of women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:38 PM
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I’m so sick of men telling women that the most important part of their life is their reproduction. It feels so belittling. I know many women with kids who completely feel like they lost their life once their children arrived. I know many men who feel the same way. Not everyone is going to be fulfilled with having kids. And telling this to a group of women who just got degrees is crazy. He can have an opinion but my god I’m exhausted hearing men for generations explain to us that we must have kid…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:37 PM
2

Whatever helps you sleep at night big guy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 06:14 PM
1

So then take out your other points that are factually incorrect. As for similar crimes what crimes are you talking about? Murder? Burglary?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 06:09 PM
3

How is factual evidence misandrist lmaoooo
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 06:03 PM
3

Not to be that person but the majority of school shooters, murderers, rapists, pedophiles, are men. That’s just factual. Of course they’ll have a higher incarceration rate if they’re committing the majority of crimes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 06:01 PM
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I’m a girl I’ve never rejected someone in an embarrassing way. But I was once punched for declining to give my number to a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 12:52 PM
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I think you just really hate women OP
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:51 PM
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I really hope you can get the help you need in life
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:41 PM
8

Interesting these are all good points
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:19 PM
8

I didn’t say anything about women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:06 PM
6

Where did I say that? I didn’t say anything about women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:06 PM
23

The unfortunate thing is most men who consider themselves “average” are not average at all. Far below it. Honestly the majority of men I’ve encountered see themselves as far more attractive and interesting than they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:40 PM
3

Some of y’all really really want to rape women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 12:43 PM
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I never said it didn’t happen
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:05 PM
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It’s more so that it has a predatory aspect
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:51 PM
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Just because it’s allowed doesn’t necessarily equate to morally correct
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:22 PM
3

Ahhh yes because 18 year olds often make logical adult decisions and definitely aren’t still mentally teenagers
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:11 PM
2

Often exploitive and honestly sad
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:13 PM
3

Actions- I look at his actions, his listening, his communication, his friends. Those tell me what I need to know
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 06:47 PM
4

I literally got beat up for turning a man down because I had a bf but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:21 PM
5

It’s fascinating that women essentially said hi we fear a large number of men and men have taken this and responded with extreme anger and obsession really
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 11:38 PM
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I’m a woman and I’d choose women for a few reasons. Notably less likely to turn violent, more organized, I wouldn’t have to worry about threats of rape or murder. Bear and men I’d have to always be watching my back
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 11:37 PM
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Y’all can’t even get dates idk why you’re worried about the hypothetical children most of you will never even have lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:09 AM
10

Wut??? Lol who is saying men can’t wear hats? More men wear hats than women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:14 PM
4

Every woman I know including myself has far more enjoyment being completely single not even speaking to a man. I know that for men that idea can be difficult to comprehend. But that’s the reality- of course not for all women. But for many
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:54 AM
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Rape jokes? Really dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:54 PM
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Wait so why aren’t you doing a manual labor job? You know the “manly” jobs you’re complaining that women don’t take? The same jobs that you also don’t take?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:51 PM
13

It is not won by popular vote buddy…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:39 PM
14

I mean let’s just start with presidents and majority of leaders- please list all of the female presidents and vice presidents
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:35 PM
7

Buddy you’re three examples do not prove a matriarchy lmao. In fact there’s very few matriarchal societies today
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:32 PM
1

I mean regardless of your thoughts we are living in a patriarchal society just from definition
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:28 PM
4

Op no one is forcing you to like women. You can absolutely date men instead
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:25 PM
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Agree cats are so much easier. I love dogs too but I like that cats are less needy personally
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 07:31 PM
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Some of us just like cats lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 06:43 PM
2

I find that men do not foster friendships in the way women do. Most of them don’t even make plans to see their friends- they just tag along with their girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 05:53 PM
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If I wanted to babysit I would watch my friends kids
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:20 PM
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So you’re blaming all women because none of them want you? Maybe you should do some self reflection dude. Y’all put women on these pedestals and act like it’s all you live for.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:06 PM
2

We don’t fear them the way we fear men. We can relate to them on a deeper level.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 06:01 PM
4

If I’m out and about I may see one or two attractive guys. Personally I find most men unattractive. And my attraction has narrowed down as I’ve aged.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:35 PM
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It is. You’re just creating an idea in your brain and running with it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:55 PM
4

He’s a 5 star man!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:58 PM
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So there’s actually a thing called nuance. It’s situational.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:51 PM
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It’s interesting that when this argument comes up men always try to justify using physical violence against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:36 PM
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I’m a girl and I love being single. I haven’t had sex since I broke up with my ex 2 years ago. If I date someone they have to be better than my free time being spent alone or with friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:36 PM
1

That’s a good point. I think it maybe would shock some men just how painful the cramps are. Sometimes they shock me lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 07:57 PM
2

Men would realize how scary it can be to be a woman. Also how truly miserable it is for 7-10 days each month as a woman. Blood, shit, clots, cramps, nausea
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 06:51 PM
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Idk if men could handle periods tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 06:50 PM
4

Liberal men. I want someone who matches my views
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 11:50 AM
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Literally what are you talking about I’m lost now? Again most women have normal jobs and function normally. A small subset of humans are “influencers”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:23 PM
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Sorry no one wants you when you randomly approach them dude
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:22 PM
7

That’s gross af damn
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:21 PM
8

We expect is sometimes because it’s so common for men to not accept a simple no
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:00 PM
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We mind when y’all won’t take no and walk away. Which way too many of you don’t seem to do
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 06:56 PM
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How is going to college and a part time job an influencer lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 06:53 PM
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Done that many times and they still persist. Also if someone isn’t interested move on
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 06:49 PM
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Do y’all not realize most women work 9-5s and go home? Do you genuinely think all women want to be influencers? My god take a few days off from the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 06:26 PM
10

Not to random men who approach them out of nowhere
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 05:59 PM
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Most women don’t mind when men approach. The issue that y’all continue to ignore is that far too many men refuse to take no for an answer. I can’t even count the amount of times I’ve been hit on and when I said I had a bf it turned into a “well he’s not here is he?” “Bf isn’t husband” “I’m sure he won’t mind” etc. those men are the ones who have effectively made some women sour to the approaching idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 05:01 PM
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We don’t get healthcare to deliver our babies. We don’t get universal pre k. We don’t get maternity leave. Men don’t get paternity leave. Dogs are treated better after birth than women. Why would we have kids? There’s zero incentive
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:34 PM
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Idk what you’re talking about. Men punch walls when they’re angry and everyone acts like it’s normal. Chris brown beat the shit out of Rihanna and still has a career and is doing fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 11:46 AM
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It’s a normal question to ask someone? I ask most people men and women what they do when I meet them? If someone didn’t ask I would be confused
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:01 PM
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Men spent decades bullying other men for coming across “gay” when they were emotional to friends. Most men I’ve met put zero effort into making friends, developing hobbies, or taking time to do some self growth. Men put way too much pressure on themselves and other men to find a woman. They seem to think a gf will cure all their problems. If men want to create a healthy space then they need to actually try. I see so many men complain about how difficult they have it and simultaneously do absolut…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 08:02 PM
7

Like seriously are all men just horny, desperate sex addicts?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 03:42 PM
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Hobbies aren’t boring- it’s the lack of conversation, lack of interest and ambition that I find boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 01:23 PM
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I own a horse, I rock climb, I take pottery classes, kickball team, and cooking classes. I’ll also join in whatever my friends are up to when time allows.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 12:43 PM
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Yup. I sat my ex down twice to discuss changes I needed in our relationship in order to stay. He listened both times and made zero changes. He was “shocked” when I ended things.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 07:10 PM
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We feel safe with them. We know they’re not a threat to us sexually- and they see us as people without any sexual attraction which puts no pressure on us.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 05:01 PM
4

This is why male victims don’t come forward though. Because other men frame rape situations as “my god I would have loved that”. It belittles the actual trauma that comes with rape
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 08:40 PM
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Yikes dude
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 08:33 PM
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Probably damaged you once you reached the age where you understand consent and rape (sounds like you’re still not there)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 08:28 PM
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This is why men don’t come forward. Comments like yours are disgusting. 15 is a child. A 30 year old having sex with a 15 year old is rape. You’re gross as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 08:18 PM
4

*she raped male students her whole career
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 06:02 PM
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Any man who is concerned about this video needs an unreal amount of therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:03 PM
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What kind of changes do you want to happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 08:07 PM
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How exactly do you want this system to change?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:58 PM
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See I would argue that it really isn’t information that anyone but myself would ever need to know. Obviously if I’m being sexually active with someone I would ensure to relay that I don’t have any STDs and have been tested and what not. But my “body count” has nothing to do with them just as theirs has nothing to do with me. I have actually never had one single man in real life ask my body count. This seems to be a Reddit thing- probably one of the countless reasons none of the men on this page …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 06:06 PM
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Yikes. You can ask but don’t be surprised when she ghosts you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 05:44 PM
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The bar is low tho lol. Like a man who has good hygiene, is respectful and can cook/take care of his house is literally already above tons of other men. Sorry but many men live in filth, don’t take care of their bodies or minds, have no friends, video game all day, don’t have goals, hate women, etc. even the washing the ass thing, which may seem like a meme, is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:42 PM
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I most certainly am! And all my friends as well. Regardless, why does this matter to men? This data will not help y’all get dates or get laid soooooooooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:10 PM
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Why can men not understand this concept
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:52 PM
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I love that vid omg
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:51 PM
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Tbh girls do have the same sex drive. The issue is most men are not hot or sexually attractive to us. Harsh but true. Other issue is most men don’t try to please us making sex less enjoyable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:44 PM
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I mean y’all can’t even get dates. This isn’t really something you need to worry about
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:42 PM
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I’m on guard with all men after living a lifetime of harassment, sexual assault and more. Every woman has had incidents with men that, as a result, make you wary going forward. There’s been cases of women getting murdered on dates with men from OLD. Everyone should prioritize safety. I hate to say this but a fair amount of men are creepy. If you’re “driven away” by women prioritizing their safety then maybe you’re not that great of a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 01:39 PM
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It’s probably a codependency issue. Weak? Not necessarily but usually desperate. I don’t think it’s healthy to jump from relationship to relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 12:37 AM
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I am a woman and every single male friend I have had has professed feelings at some point. It’s disheartening because I have never felt that towards them. I think for us girls it can make us feel a bit like they don’t value the friendship as much. I think girls can feel like we were being used (even if we weren’t). Like I’ve said I’ve never reciprocated and after the professions I find that the friendship is typically never the same afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:57 PM
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I can promise you people who are having sex aren’t on Reddit bitching about “nice guys”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:27 PM
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I’m screaming you are not literally beefing with a pop song rn
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 06:08 PM
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Seems incredibly exhausting tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 08:19 PM
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Men hate women a lot more than I had anticipated
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:51 PM
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I mean if you’re a man why even go in those spaces? Especially if you know they will upset you? It sounds like you need to spend more time offline meeting real women and not just reading random posts from strangers on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 05:51 PM
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Sorry no one wants to fuck you? Women don’t owe you sex
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 03:53 PM
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Y’all wanna be victims so bad my god
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 12:52 PM
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Lmao wut are you even talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:46 PM
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Buddy you’re literally beefing with yourself rn. Take a deep breath and go walk outside. Sounds like it would be helpful for you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:04 PM
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So random? I’m not obese so idk what to tell you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:34 PM
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Who says I only want to feel hot around men? I date girls too lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:34 PM
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Most women genuinely don’t give a fuck about men. We dress sexy when we want to feel hot. We dress cozy when we want to feel cozy. Not everything is about you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:41 PM
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Lmao wut
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 01:35 PM
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Yikes! Poor girl
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 01:27 PM
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Whatever helps you sleep at night my guy. This is why y’all can’t get dates lmao you hate women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 01:21 PM
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We learned we don’t need men to be successful
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:54 PM
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At last in the USA we don’t get guaranteed maternity leave, rarely get paternity leave, we have a very high infant mortality rate, the cost of raising a kid is extremely expensive, women no longer feel like that’s our path. It appears that when women are given a choice between a career and a child many are now opting for a career.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:50 PM
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Hate to say it but maybe they aren’t interested in you???????
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 01:30 PM
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Please please get a hobby or go talk to a real life girl. Wtf is a two inch hymen? Christ
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 08:44 PM
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With Roe v Wade being overturned how could it not be important to women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 01:20 PM
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My guy- don’t watch dating coaches. Anyone who is actually getting dates isn’t on the internet making videos about it. They often offer horrible advice and half the time the women they “date” are either being paid by them or are just looking to get Instagram followers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 01:17 PM
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It does. Best of luck to you comfortablepok5003- sounds like you’ll need it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 08:12 PM
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When only one sex can carry a child then it will never be equal. But you already know that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 08:07 PM
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Roe v wade was overturned and several lawmakers want to remove birth control. Yes women are upset. Most men don’t stand up for us so idk what y’all expect.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 01:29 PM
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I mean chewing with your mouth open is gross regardless of gender
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 08:10 PM
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Believe it or not many people do enjoy being married and want to be married.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 11:33 PM
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Please get a hobby instead of spending hours doing this “research”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:20 PM
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Harry Styles, Ryan Reynolds, Cody Ko, Nate Bargatze
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:01 PM
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You should be nice to people regardless of whether you want to fuck then or not. Hope this helps!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:24 PM
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Tragically, it is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:59 PM
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Lmaooooooo it’s scary the amount of men who genuinely do this
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:50 PM
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No all dick doesn’t feel the same. I would argue the biggest difference between good and bad sex for women is whether or not a man actually tries to make it enjoyable for us. Most don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:47 PM
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I hate to tell you this but many men do not cook, clean, have any friends or work out. Notably the cooking and cleaning is somewhat rare. The bar for many men is low when it comes to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 09:28 PM
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No one owes you access to their body regardless of whether or not their your wife. There’s this thing called consent
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:25 PM
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Most of these posters are likely lonely, autistic men with little understanding of the world or the opposite gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 04:01 PM
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My guy just say you hate women and go…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:15 PM
2

This is how dating has always been? Then you find someone you genuinely feel you can grow with and not get tired of lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 07:30 PM
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So you just described the handmaids tale lol. Just say you want women to be raped and go…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:08 PM
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Girl same lmaoooo
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 08:25 PM
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Made me realize that many men are much more sex obsessed than I originally thought. Made me realize that they really do see women as objects and sex as something they’re “owed”. It’s made me more worried about men in general really.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:51 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:47 PM
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It’s reported in countless studies but ok! You sound delightful
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:34 PM
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Actually the highest cause of death to pregnant women in the USA is homicide
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:27 PM
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Listen- I’ve been in many committed relationships and I’ve been to clubs without my bfs. They’ve been to clubs without me. That’s because we had trust and communication. We trusted eachother enough to know we wouldn’t cheat or anything. Personally, I strongly support having nights with your friends and not your bf so you can get a break from one another. But if this bothers you then just break up and let her find someone who will trust her more.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 01:42 PM
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It’s genuinely not as uncommon as men would think tbh. A lot of men are friends with rapists and wouldn’t know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 07:43 PM
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Harry Styles
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 07:04 PM
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Idk what you’re asking technically but yes it can be frustrating to be a woman in the USA. Personally, I’ve been raped and have several friends who have. Statistically in the USA one in 5 women will be a victim of rape or attempted rape (those are just reported numbers so it’s much higher). I don’t know any American women who haven’t been catcalled, or harassed at some point often beginning as children. It of course depends on your area. When I’m out and about doing errands I don’t immediately t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:39 PM
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No one is obligated to fuck you my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:49 PM
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Perhaps men should work to foster more emotionally fulfilling friendships so they don’t feel like having a gf is the only way they can be happy or fulfilled
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 07:58 PM
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I agree with everything you said! I think that it’s a result of years and years of toxic masculinity and this ingrained idea that having close, emotional friendships is a “girl” trait and men don’t need them. I also think it’s cultural. In the USA we live in a very individualistic society where it’s everyone for themselves. Meanwhile other cultures are more collectivist and value communities more. There’s so many aspects that feed into it but I do think younger generations are more aware of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:18 PM
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There’s definitely more lonely men but there’s also many lonely women. I think women often put much more effort into maintaining relationships with their friends. Whenever I get invited to a trip, concert, party- nine times out of ten a woman planned and coordinated it. I find that men often just don’t seem to take the initiative that women take. I also think men see women as an end all- they think getting a gf will make them less lonely. Women I think often don’t share this mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:45 PM
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Attitudes like this are the reason so many women have decided men aren’t worth their time. You’re only hurting everyone’s chances of finding someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:13 PM
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Honestly it’s a result of toxic masculinity. For years being nurturing, educational, etc. was seen as a woman’s role. Men weren’t even considered to be a part of their kids life for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:04 PM
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Proactively have a good sense of self worth. Work on themselves and be able to see red flags. I think having a secure sense of self is important for everyone man or woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 06:05 PM
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Have standards, know when to leave, feel secure in their decisions
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 05:58 PM
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I’m fulfilled by my family, friendships and hobbies. I put time and effort into those. I would rather be single than in a bad relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 05:02 PM
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If you can’t help it then you should probably seek help. Sounds like you may have some issues. Most humans can control themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 08:45 PM
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You walk around annoyed that women are naturally nervous around men. Women walk around knowing that men see them as sexual objects and that some will rape you if the circumstance arose.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 08:44 PM
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Maybe because I don’t enjoy being looked at as a sexual object by complete strangers? Why would anyone like to be stared at especially by old men? Even you said they may be imagining an intimate moment with me. That’s not something anyone would enjoy from a stranger they’re not attracted to? And it’s easy to distrust men if they continue to act inappropriately. Unfortunately as the average woman, we are exposed to that often.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 06:34 PM
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I agree. But men fail to understand how scary it can be when men of all ages continue to watch us starting from when we’re children. Yes it is certainly part of being a girl, I get that. But it that doesn’t make it anymore disturbing knowing the old man staring me down is likely imagining what it’s like to fuck me or something
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 06:24 PM
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It’s just incredibly exhausting as a women to go everywhere and just feel men’s eyes watching you. It’s a bit unsettling.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 05:25 PM
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Ahhh yes women bad! Another post about how everything is a woman’s fault! Just say you hate women and go lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:49 PM
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I really hope someday you can get the help you need. Sincerely. You don’t have to live with this attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 10:43 PM
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I think a lot of women crave feeling safe with a partner and often times we feel safe around other women. I also think women are more accepting to bi women and I think that men are a bit more timid about experimenting and what not. I think more men feel nervous about being labeled “gay” whereas women don’t seem to care about sexual fluidity as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:52 PM
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Lmaoooo
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:50 PM
1

Yes lots of men are ugly. Most men put in little effort to better their looks or personality. Idk why this is shocking. Men will wear gray sweatpants and an orange hoodie, shower every third day and be confused as to why no one wants them. Women would probably be uglier if they also put in zero effort, but more women actually try to improve their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:11 PM
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My guy most of the men on this page never interact with women. They listen to podcasts and then run with those talking points. You have to understand that these are the same men who complain that zero women like them on dating apps. They’re not getting women so they end up turning resentful towards women which then turns off women and it slowly becomes a vicious cycle. Most women are normal in real life. Most men are normal in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:02 PM
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I would argue the overturn of roe v wade is quite concerning to most women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 12:05 AM
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Yes why tf would I willingly date a conservative man lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:01 PM
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Actually in terms of human connection, mutual self disclosure is the most important aspect to relationships. It’s the sharing of feeling a or ideas that you would need to self disclose (aka no one could look at you and see it). In all relationships it’s critical to the continuous deepening in feelings. It self disclosure stops then the relationship will not continue to grow. It can still exist but it won’t be deepening.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:13 PM
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I think yes. It honestly got worse when Trump took office. Many women I know will not date republicans or Trump supporters and many men I see are republicans and Trump supporters. Overturning abortion made women even MORE weary of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 12:56 PM
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My guy she’s literally the breadwinner in that couple. She’s literally worth more than him
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:45 AM
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Yes all women are exactly the same! But generally “nice guys” are not as nice as they think they are
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:49 PM
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And women are overwhelmingly likely to be victims of sexual crimes at the hands of men. Men are predators to other men as well as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:45 PM
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It’s not a gotcha. Women are also afraid of aggressive unhinged men and more often than not they’re showing that aggression towards women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:42 PM
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It isn’t their responsibility. And interestingly enough every time anyone has intervened when a man was doing something that made me uncomfortable, it was a woman. Y’all spend all this time saying not all men are bad and women blame men too much. And then when you do have a chance to actually intervene y’all don’t do anything. Not saying it’s right or wrong- just interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:26 PM
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It’s just interesting because the only people I ever hear complain about weight gain are men. I’ve never once heard a girl say anything about it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:53 PM
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But instead of framing it as a male issue you chose to frame it as a female issue and then add one random sentence to try and save face
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:47 PM
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If y’all care that much about someone gaining a little weight you probably just shouldn’t date anyone. And it’s interesting that this somehow continues to fall on women much more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:45 PM
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I think all your points are true. Still now on Thanksgiving I get frustrated watching all then men in the family sit in the living room watching TV while all the women spend five hours slaving away in the kitchen making the food. I think another issue is many men have little experience even being around kids. Women too but I’ve found we’re more likely to have been babysitters or camp counselors. Many men seem to not really get what they’re getting into until the baby is here and then they realiz…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:54 PM
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Idk as a woman who doesn’t want kids I’m really struggling finding any men to date who also don’t want kids. Every man I meet wants them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:28 PM
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Believe it or not many couples still marry the person they love and have wonderful happy lives. In fact, divorce rates have decreased in younger generations. I think people now have better chances of staying together longer as women have more choice, people tend to get married later now and people have more choice regarding kids or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:31 PM
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Exactly this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 06:07 PM
2

Then we can agree to disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:53 PM
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I love this page because these are the same men who consistently complain about how no women want to date them. Then they go complain about an entire movement that’s main goal was to end the stigmatization of sexual assault lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:26 PM
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The first one can definitely be said about someone’s actions? I would argue someone’s presence doesn’t have anything to do with their looks
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:21 PM
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And what about all them men who make us uncomfortable because of their actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:07 PM
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Ahh yes one woman represents all women. Makes sense!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:50 PM
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Maybe a man is making a woman uncomfortable? Are we not allowed to express that?? Y’all want to be victims so bad
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:38 PM
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Best way is to start a conversation. Don’t just walk up and say hi can I have your number? I’ve had men do that and they don’t even ask my name lmao. Holidays are around the corner- saying something like “hey I like your shirt do you know where you got it? My sister would love something like that for Christmas.” Starts a natural flow of conversation. Don’t use pick up lines or something tacky. If she has headphones in- don’t walk up to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:01 PM
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Damn that’s weird af
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:59 PM
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Yah and some people prefer that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:57 PM
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If you want a family then you do need a woman right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:22 PM
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What’s wrong with cats?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:20 PM
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Uhhhh yah conservatives are banning abortion left and right and you expect women to just ignore that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 12:11 PM
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Ask the men they’re the ones who can’t seem to handle the rejection
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:36 PM
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It unfortunately is not unlikely
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:33 PM
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It was a random man who came up and asked me for my number. I said I’m sorry I’m already in a relationship. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:44 PM
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For telling someone I was already in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:35 PM
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I’ve had men threaten to kill me for turning them down. Men literally have killed women just for turning them down. I’ve had men degrade me when I’ve said no, punch me and be extremely rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:23 PM
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Whatever you say buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:12 PM
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What a disgusting thing to say
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:05 PM
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My guy you sound insane right now
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:04 PM
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I never said everyone did??
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:52 PM
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Lmao wtf? Freedom to hang out with friends whenever I want, do whatever I want when I want it. I’m secure being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:21 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:04 PM
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Lol wut. I’m literally just saying women usually choose pills and men more violent methods hence them being more “successful”. Get some help.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:52 PM
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Maybe for you. I would always choose my freedom and being single over being in something I don’t feel fully satisfied in
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:33 PM
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Uh been there done that too
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:31 PM
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More women attempt suicide tho. Men just succeed more as they pick more violent ways to use.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:27 PM
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If you’re looking for something funny and non toxic men I highly recommend Cody Ko, Danny Gonzalez, Drew Gooden and Curtis Conner
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:31 PM
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Ahhh yes as a man you would most certainly know how women think and work
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:30 PM
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First of all this isn’t a new concept. People don’t just date other people they have no attraction or chemistry with. Secondly- men have to elicit these emotions to hook women? What a creepy thing to say? So men are being manipulative in order for sex in other words?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 03:38 PM
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As a bi woman who sees both men and women’s profiles- men are significantly worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:50 PM
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Most 20 something year olds can’t afford kids and don’t want them. And actually more educated women tend to marry less and have less kids if any. It’s interesting that you framed the argument about women raising the family and didn’t really mention the men (husband or bf) who is also responsible. Most women would rather be single than settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 06:51 PM
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I’ve actually never met a romantic man. But I have met romantic women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:27 PM
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Lots of men lie about their intentions and make it clear they are looking for a relationship. Only after sex do they ghost or decided to end things
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:05 PM
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Lack of effort, lack of goals, no hobbies or friends, can’t do chores, dirty house, speaks down on women or minorities, lacks empathy, poor hygiene, can’t take accountability, believes in stereotypes, has “dark humor”, feels the need to speak over people, sex obsessed, can’t cook
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 11:54 AM
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You clearly have a very warped view of having a kid if this is your main concern and not the safety well being and care of your spouse and child
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 12:23 PM
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Men’s obsession with sex. And lying as an attempt to get it. It’s exhausting and made me quit dating. The rampant misogyny is rough. And most men cannot hold conversations or read social ques
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 12:22 PM
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Pls never have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 12:19 PM
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If you don’t trust the person you’re having kids with then you shouldn’t have kids with them. That’s literally it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 12:18 PM
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Maybe they’re just introverted? And the girls are extroverts? My ex was very shy and I’m very not shy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:38 PM
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And who’s targeting the men? Other men? Ok cool men are dangerous to everyone. However, as a woman we have to fear rape and sexual assault at much higher rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:15 PM
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Unfortunately that would be the majority of women. It sucks living in fear but it’s the reality
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:09 PM
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It seems like many men feel they’re “owed” women’s attention or time. Unfortunately for them that’s not the case
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:08 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:07 PM
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If you think that asking a girl for coffee is the same as screaming sexual slurs at her then you have some serious problems to figure out my guy. All women ask if that y’all be polite and leave us alone if we ask you to- but so many men cannot seem to handle the walking away part and that’s why we’re here
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:04 PM
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Now imagine how scary it is to be a woman where the chances of being raped are FAR higher than anyone falsely accusing a man
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:02 PM
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If my husband who I loved dearly and trust implicitly, asked me for a paternity test after I carried his child for 9 months, got sick daily, couldn’t enjoy most foods, lost hair, fucked up my body and took a risk of death to have his child- I would be beyond hurt. It’s a huge betrayal of trust in the sense that our bodies go through literal hell to bring a child into this world only for the person you do it with to accuse you of cheating. Would I take the test? Sure- but he would be handed the r…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 12:14 PM
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Well it doesn’t matter what you think if it’s literally just harassment. Clearly you need help if you think those are the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:40 PM
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Romantic interest is one thing but crude sexual remarks are another
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:21 PM
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No we do want to be ignored that sounds so lovely
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:01 PM
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A lottttt of salty men in the comments I see. What she said is true and many of you know it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:29 PM
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Your mindset of women is very degrading and concerning. The fact that you’re judging them while you’re also having sex and giving up your body after a month? You clearly have some weird sexual views about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:09 PM
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Well ok then. Tell us how you really feel
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:32 PM
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Maybe try dating men? Sounds like you don’t like women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:06 PM
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Men on this sub will find a way to blame women for literally anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:20 PM
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For me standards don’t really have anything to do with looks or salary. They have to do with character. Does this person have drive/goals? Do they put in effort? Do they treat others with respect? Do they see women as equals? Can they cook meals and keep a clean house? Do they have interests? Things like that. I meet lots of “hot” men who lack those traits and therefore I wouldn’t waste my time going out with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:35 PM
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Really up until the 1970’s. In 1974 the Equal Credit Opportunity Act passed making it illegal for banks to require a husband’s signature in order for a woman to open a bank account.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:30 PM
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It depends on who you ask. For women dating was a financial decision as we needed a man in order to do certain things like own property or a bank account. It was a necessity in order to live. Therefore, many women probably settled as means. Men had the upper hand in society so dating was probably much better for them. So for women probably not but for men probably
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:14 PM
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Women have standards and men refuse to meet them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 12:32 PM
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I think most women would welcome that option!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:38 PM
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The real issue for men is that women no longer need one to survive. We can live independently and unfortunately for men many women are choosing to live independently than settle. It’s either men improve themselves or women move on. And women are moving on
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:36 PM
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I would say the majority of men are creeps. Probably about 80% or so based on personal experience
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:59 PM
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Most men don’t make any effort to really be attractive. Wearing a hoodie and basketball shorts everyday isn’t gonna make a woman swoon. Most men seem to use shitty 5 in 1 shampoo, don’t wash their hands after the bathroom, don’t use face wash or masks (because girly apparently). Many men don’t have good hygiene either. I always notice men who actually put in effort rather than looking like a slob. Pro tip to men- if you develop an interesting style you will stand out. I much prefer men who dress…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 07:53 PM
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Most men don’t make us orgasm anyways so what’s the point in risking murder, an std, pregnancy or something else just for mediocre sex where I probably won’t finish?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 12:05 PM
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If sex is necessary for you to experience mental wellness that’s concerning. Y’all act like you will literally die without it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 03:15 AM
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My rapist was 5’5- size doesn’t really have much to do with whether or not danger is present
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 01:55 PM
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I’ve never witnessed a man in a situation where they needed me to intervene. Women yes but men no
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:14 AM
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I never said they did
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:26 AM
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I got punched once too for declining a date with a man. Unfortunately no one man or woman stepped in that time
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:26 AM
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I can say as a woman every time a man has harassed me or assaulted me in public the only ones to call them out have been other women. Every single time. Not once has a man stepped in to help.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:29 PM
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The fact that you called rape victims “perfect victims” or not is disgusting and part of the belittling that men continue to put on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:20 PM
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What problems exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:24 PM
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Unfortunately I don’t have the time to explain all of human history to you. Idk why you seem to think men and women both were active participants in government historically when women literally couldn’t even vote until the 1900s (and that was only white women- 1960s is when black women could vote in the usa). Again, this really isn’t complicated stuff and I advise you read a history book.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:57 PM
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So then you should have ample knowledge on the history of societies and the roles men had. Men created societies that catered towards other men. It’s not rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:46 PM
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What actions are you referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:32 PM
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Are people telling you directly to your face that you’re trash? I’ve never called anyone trash
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:27 PM
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What exactly is the abuse? That women won’t fuck them lmao?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:09 PM
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Found the incel!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:02 PM
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Sounds like you don’t like your friends very much?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:01 PM
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Please open even one history book. Even one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:51 PM
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I depends. Many men vent and it’s quite clear they despise women and the rights we’ve achieved. I’ve seen men on these threads complain about how women have achieved too much in society so we need some of our rights taken away to make it “like the old days”. Men vent and will refer to women as sluts, prudes, too old, too fat, too ugly, too feminist, etc. it’s not venting when it’s just pushing hateful rhetoric. And then there’s accountability. Men consistently lack accountability notably when di…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:37 PM
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Dirty jobs are male dominated? My nurse friend literally scraped maggots out of a man’s festering leg last week and cleans up shit puke and piss regularly. Women do dirty jobs- nursing is not for the faint of heart and is a primarily women run industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:32 PM
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And those are only reported. In certain groups such as Native American women- they’re more likely to be raped than attend college. It appears 1 in 6 women will face attempted or completed rape in the USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:57 PM
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Unfortunately there are usually not repercussions. The overwhelming majority of rapists and abusers spend zero time in jail. It’s actually a shockingly large statistic. And what’s concerning is the fact that you think this is rare- especially with kids. 1 in 4 girls will be abused, 1 in 6 boys. That’s not as rare as you may think it is. Some of your students are likely being abused. Aren’t you a mandatory reporter? Are you a teacher? Does your school not have mandatory trainings on this?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:54 PM
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Google is free for everyone to use. It’s an incredible tool. Highly recommend
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:36 PM
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Your student being hit on by her authority figure is definitely different the. Girls your age making fun of you??? Those are so incredibly different lmao. Again- most people are assaulted by their own family or friends not random serial killers like Ted Bundy. If you’re actually a teacher it’s concerning that you have these viewpoints.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:36 PM
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You clearly have zero clue of how growing up as a girl is like. All girls have been hit on by grown men at a young age. Ask them. My first time was around 7. My friends similar timeline. 1 in 3 women are raped. With your energy is it only a few men raping 33% of all women? Especially when you’re more likely to be raped by your own family members or friends than a stranger?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:17 PM
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So why then? Why do kids warm up to women? Why don’t women want to compliment men? Is it because many men have ruined this by being creeps to women at young ages?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:06 PM
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This is the issue. 1 in 3 women are raped and yet apparently it’s only a couple bad men doing it to all of us? Your entire comment is saying yah rape sucks but men we don’t get any attention so our lives suck too!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:04 PM
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We dress to get compliments from other women. Why tf wild I do a Smokey eye for a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:01 PM
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As a woman the main issue isn’t the random approach’s. I find the bigger issue is many men cannot read social ques and many women have been socialized to be polite and kind to strangers. So while our body language is telling men we’re not interested, they’re not getting that. I’ve had men approach me and when I’ve told them I have a boyfriend than you though it turns into the “well I don’t see him” or “he isn’t here rn why can’t we talk?”. Those types of interactions are why women have exhaustio…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:07 PM
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Are you referring to the video where she was catcalled hundreds of times and followed?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:00 PM
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Murdered by who
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 04:47 PM
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The number one cause of death for pregnant women in the USA is homicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 04:32 PM
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To be completely frank a lot of average men lack social skills and personality. The majority of men I interact with it’s me pulling teeth for conversation the whole time. Which isn’t necessarily the worst but it definitely isn’t going to make me attracted to someone. I’m at a point in my life where every single man I meet is so desperate for sex that it turns me off immediately. I’ve been used for sex too many times by men so I no longer engage and it appears that most men only want sex and noth…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 07:23 PM
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Men literally kill us when we turn them down. I turned down a man and he punched me in the face. You guys fail to understand how dangerous this can be for us women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:41 PM
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Legally she cannot consent if she’s that drunk. So no that would not be consensual. That would legally be rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:47 PM
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This is why women get divorced- because men like you view it as a reason for a woman to give you constant sex at your command. Women want partnership and companionship. Many woman need to feel wanted, loved and cared about in order to have sex. It’s interesting that your entire argument revolves around sex. There is much more to a marriage than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 04:02 PM
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Yup- they equate it to having sex with is something they desperately want.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 03:57 PM
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The vast majority of rapists and pedophiles are men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 03:24 PM
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Maybe men shouldn’t rape
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:03 PM
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So what’s the solution then? Women start doing worse?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 04:23 PM
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But why would it be women’s responsibility to make men feel less lonely? How would we even achieve that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:49 PM
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Nah I’m happily single and I don’t date at all. I don’t need male attention. I like to have my own free time and do my own thing. Most women are happily single because it means they don’t have to babysit men who don’t know how to do basic tasks. We also tend to have large support systems so I spend time with friends. There’s lots of women who are single and aren’t interacting with men at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 02:25 PM
1

There’s lots of men I find attractive but have zero spark with. No sexual chemistry or attraction. And that’s fine! But I find that the spark is limited to people you just can banter with, are attracted to, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 03:17 PM
8

Better question why are men consuming such violent porn. And why do they expect normal average women to want that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 10:36 PM
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Any man who says women and men can’t be friends clearly only sees women in a sexual light. Women and men can absolutely be friends. I actually think it’s healthy to have friends of the opposite gender as it can expand your worldview and understanding. If a man sees that as a red flag then he himself has issues. Same if a girl thinks her bf can’t also have friends who are girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 07:35 PM
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“Positive attention and sexual interest an average woman gets”. This isn’t positive. Nothing about being sexualized, stalked, cat called and harassed starting at 7 is positive. So many of you have a warped view of the “attention” women receive. Men are bitter women don’t need them. Unfortunately that isn’t changing soon. The best thing men can do is adapt to the more equal ways of life and stop putting insane pressure on getting a woman. The men on this page have this world view where they are c…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:30 PM
5

A lot of women are happier alone than dealing with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:50 PM
9

You’re certainly not wrong. But with the internet it’s impossible to escape them now. Here on Reddit I have nasty messages asking for nudes. Instagram you get people sending gross things. Facebook, Hinge, etc. now when I give a guy my number I have to hope I don’t get a dick pic. Before the internet at least if you were in you’re home you weren’t constantly inundated with gross messages.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:55 PM
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Multiple things: Societal changes have allowed women to no longer need men. Lots of women have quit dating altogether. The economy- dating costs money unfortunately. Some people are limited there. I’ve found that there is a disconnect in what men and women want. I think a huge part is a lot of men dont do certain tasks such as cooking, cleaning, etc. women would rather be single than be a mom. Jaded- women are jaded from growing up surrounded by gross men. Unfortunately if you ask any woman, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:43 PM
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I’m sure. But my god some of the comments me. Have sent me from this page are absolutely vile. I see men defend abuse, men leaving children, etc. it’s quite disappointing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 05:11 PM
4

That sounds so lovely! Good for you ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 05:10 PM
6

I resonate with this so much. The more men I meet the clearer I’m seeing how influenced they are by this culture. And how none of them call one another out for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 05:10 PM
22

My mind hasn’t changed but this sub has confirmed to me that there is rampant misogyny and hatred for women among many men. In fact, from reading this sub I’ve decided to primarily date women. I knew lots of men saw women as inferior but it’s insane how deep it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:31 PM
6

Right? Lol these are the same men who complain all day long that women don’t want to date them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:28 PM
2

So since women have been educated in the past 40 years that makes up for all the rest of human history when we we’re literally considered property and unable to be educated
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:32 PM
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Ahhh yes. Blame women for men leaving them to raise kids alone. It’s definitely all the woman’s fault! Men are free to do whatever they want but it’s the moms job to stick around! It’s so interesting to me that this sub will ALWAYS blame the mother who’s trying to raise a child alone and NEVER blame the deadbeat man who willingly chose to abandon his responsibilities or relationship with his child.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:30 PM
2

Clearly you think very highly of women. Perhaps this is why you can’t get dates lmaooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:15 PM
7

Imagine what women could have invented throughout history if we were allowed to get an education instead of being at home
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:07 PM
0

Women may have more empathy towards men if men as a whole would stop murdering us, assaulting us, harassing us online and in person, belittling us, stating that we’re sluts if we have sex, etc. your fellow men have ruined dating for us. Why should we actively participate anymore when all it gets us is sexual harassment or abuse? Sure tons of men are totally normal but tons aren’t. And it’s exhausting having to navigate which ones are which.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 11:52 AM
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Probably because they want to? Does there need to be any other reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 07:59 PM
1

It’s so hard to tell which stats are accurate for a thing as subjective as dating or relationships. For one person dating means one thing- for another it’s completely different. I think everyone should just take those surveys as a grain of salt and not as pure truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:50 PM
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Walk around outside and people watch. You will see tons of average couples. Tons of men dating women. This page is full off gloom and doom and the people feed into it by posting random stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:21 PM
1

At least your honest
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:51 PM
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This sub is filled with extremely bitter men. The replies I read tell me everything. What girl would willingly date a man she knows belittles women or sees them as inferior? Many men on here may find more luck if they did some self reflection and figured out where the hatred stems from.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:37 PM
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A lot of men cannot handle that women are completely happy without them. They’re desperate and lonely and convey that through anger. Reality is many women prefer to be single and can do so happily.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:11 PM
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Why are men assuming they know what women want? How has that worked out so far?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:13 PM
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Men created a society where being considered “feminine” was problematic. They’re terrified of being called gay or girly from other men so they don’t do things for themselves, they do things to impress and please other men. I think men’s energy towards one another has been detrimental to their friendships and overall mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 12:21 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:50 PM
3

I privilege to not be groped and harassed while traveling?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:52 PM
2

Yes they can but the rates of women being assaulted by men far surpass the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:51 PM
2

Crazy thing - you actually cannot tell how many people someone has had sex with just by looking at them! Wild! Someone can dress with their tits nearly out and still not have sex often. Wild stuff! The more you know!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 02:47 AM
13

As a girl on dating apps I can promise you this is wrong. Then men who swipe for me are often times really not equal to me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:25 PM
35

Y’all are obsessed with women’s ages
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:17 PM
0

Probably but honestly a lot of women enjoy being single so they have no reason to ask anyone out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:42 PM
14

I think the biggest is finances. Kids are insanely expensive and we’re living in a time where people can barely pay rent much less daycare. Additionally, I think women are being more honest about motherhood and how difficult it is. It’s definitely had me take a step back and reevaluate if I really do want kids or not. It’s a huge sacrifice to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:17 PM
10

Congratulations!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 11:50 AM
5

Literally lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:48 PM
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Y’all will blame literally anything on women. A man leaves his wife and children and somehow it’s the woman’s fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:05 PM
12

Why would women willingly have a child with someone they don’t even like? We can just go to a sperm donor…..
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:28 PM
1

I prefer chunky men tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:56 PM
1

As a woman I can say I have never once ever met a girl who would even date a man who listens to Andrew Tate. Never ever. All of us see it as a massive red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:26 PM
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This is a result of the patriarchy that men have created and upheld. It’s years of emotional trauma that has continued through the ages as men have had to suppress their emotions. It seems to me that men desperately need emotional friendships with one another where they can actually express their emotions. Women have extremely deep emotional connections to friends and I notice men seem to lack that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:10 PM
1

Men are angry women have standards. They should be angrier at the fact most women would rather be single than date a loser lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:00 PM
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It’s unlikely they would have stepped in anyways lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:49 PM
19

If it’s bitchy than so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:40 PM
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Because creepy men don’t leave women alone. That’s literally it. Walk around a city for a day alone as a girl and you’ll get approached by creeps.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:39 PM
14

I genuinely have zero idea as to what you’re talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:36 PM
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Because many of them only want us for sex. And that’s not happening. And many men take kindness as flirting. It’s easier to ignore them than talk to them and end up having them think you’re attracted to them or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:26 PM
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What kind of question is this lmao? Obviously a man who would raise kids regardless. Anyone who has children they choose not to raise or be a part of their life is garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:07 PM
2

This sounds like codependency. You need to learn to not rely on other people or what if’s for your happiness. Of course people want romantic relationships but you have to first be able to be comfortable by yourself. Otherwise you go into said relationships with far too much pressure and dependency on the other person. I’d recommend therapy or learning about your attachment style if you’re struggling this much.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:04 PM
2

Most men cannot handle basic chores or cooking. We would rather be single than have to take care of another person like they’re a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:36 PM
12

Because most men in our society are just man children who want moms instead of equal partners
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:34 PM
5

Most men are bad at sex because they don’t take into account pleasing the woman. The men who do try to and make sure the woman finishes are the minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:29 PM
-4

Or how about the dudes not cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:21 PM
3

Unfortunately most women like myself learn this growing up when men catcall us at 8 years old
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 04:53 PM
1

Women begin to feel like their moms instead of spouses. They lose attraction to their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 11:48 PM
6

Men on this sub are men who don’t get dates. Then men who do get dates are off the internet lmaoooo.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:02 PM
5

If it’s a stranger I’ll usually say I already have a bf thank you though. If it’s a friend I’ll usually say I don’t see them romantically and don’t want to mess up the friend group’s dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 06:16 PM
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Relationships in general are on the decline because women are fed up and would rather be single than dating a loser. We don’t need men anymore and many men aren’t worth us giving up our free time. I think once Roe v Wade was overturned, many women lost interest in dating men altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:37 PM
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Every time I’ve met a self proclaimed “nice guy” they have turned out to be a huge misogynistic asshole. I find they often lack self awareness and feed into the “everyone owes me” self pity. Just because you’re nice to women doesn’t mean they owe you sex or a relationship. Everyone should strive to be kind to everyone regardless of whether romantic interests are the goal or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:00 PM
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Most of the double standards you listed were created by men and continue to be perpetuated by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:44 PM
2

Unfortunately for men, women no longer need them to survive. Society is shifting and many women would rather be single than be with a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:34 PM
7

I don’t think we can effectively measure why people are increasingly depressed. Could be lack of relationships. Could be the economy. Could be stress. Could be state of the world. Could be personal to that person. Lots of things impact our feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:26 PM
5

Some people choose not to have kids or get married
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:21 PM
2

Meaningful human connections.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:19 PM
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Men who can’t hold a decent conversation. They either talk about themselves the whole time or don’t ask any questions at all. Men who’s only hobby is playing video games for hours nightly. Men who have little interest in knowing about the world, experiencing new things or learning.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:15 PM
0

Bruh just say you hate women. My god is this post sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 11:35 AM
2

Bummer
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:42 PM
9

I’m talking about actual relationships not one night stands
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:29 PM
4

And yet the amount of men I meet who do just that is insane
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:26 PM
4

Can you expand on the culture?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:24 PM
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Why does it matter if we’re talking about men overall? I see men on dating apps (lots of complaining about those on this page) who put one picture and answer maybe one prompt. Sorry but girls aren’t going to go for that you know? And to answer you I have a a large friend group, good job, hobbies, cooking, cleaning. I enjoy being single or in a relationship- I don’t feel I need a relationship in order to be ok though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:19 PM
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In my opinion men need to get hobbies and friend groups and stop making chasing women their entire personality. The desperation is wild. The self pity is insane. Invest in yourself, your likes and dislikes, etc. to be brutally honest a lot of men don’t seem to realize that they bring absolutely nothing to the table. What girl wants to date a boy who has zero friends and spends 4 hours a night playing video games and all he can “make” is hot pockets? What girl wants a man who hasn’t cleaned his s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:10 PM
2

Most men don’t even try to make sure the girl finishes from what I’ve experienced. In fact if he does he’s in the minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:46 AM
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Yah there’s a huge chance their joking. My coworkers and I are always joking about just finding a sugar daddy or something. Would we do it? Fuck no. It’s just a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:59 PM
6

Ok so you have flat out asked them if they want their husband paying every single bill?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:53 PM
7

So you’ve flat out asked them if they want them to pay every single bill? You do realize that’s not realistic in todays world?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:47 PM
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So you know for a fact all the women you have “heard” want their husbands to pay all the bills? Sounds like you go on Reddit a lot and have a preconceived notion of women now
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:44 PM
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There have been far less female leaders in general historically. Many male leaders were incredibly violent. Many still are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:39 PM
6

Whatever helps you sleep at night big guy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:38 PM
5

This sounds like an addiction
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:38 PM
2

Well that’s a good start!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:01 PM
5

Unfortunately there’s no how to on getting sex. How old are you? Sounds like you have a lot of women in your circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:24 PM
7

Hmmm all the colleges I know of still have active fraternities so idk what you’re talking about. Maybe men should rely more on making friends rather than chasing women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:18 PM
7

They may wanna be a part of your life just not date you or fuck you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:16 PM
6

Wouldn’t banning dating apps be unconstitutional? Is it societies job to ensure men are getting laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:16 PM
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Women can tell when a man is desperate for sex and often it’s a turn off for us
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:04 PM
6

How can society help them though? It is survival of the fittest some men just won’t get chosen. Such is life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:00 PM
6

Maybe we should let women be in charge
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:55 PM
3

So what’s the solution then? If it isn’t fostering meaningful friendships
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:40 PM
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I’d argue more so that men lack relationships in general. Many men seem to lack deep meaningful friendships with other men. To blame an entire crisis on just lack of sex is wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:33 PM
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The men in this thread are incredibly desperate. The men off Reddit have it easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:24 PM
5

You’ll be ok
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:23 PM
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Men have died in the pursuit of sex? Bruh lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:22 PM
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I would not ask anyone I date because I am normal and understand people have had lives before I meet them. People on this page are OBSESSED with this weird body count stuff. It’s really not deep and does not and has not impacted any of my relationships at any point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:38 PM
5

And mass shooters
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:06 PM
8

I’m a girl and I’ve asked out all of my previous bfs lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:46 PM
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Well I ended things with them and I dated each of them for several years and neither asked so… why do you care so deeply about it anyways? It makes men seem insane
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:39 PM
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Idk I mean I dated one for three years and one for two years and I ended the relationships so they were pretty serious
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:37 PM
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I would never date someone who cared about “body count” anyways. Every guy I’ve dated didn’t ask, never cared.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:19 PM
3

When did I say the majority of men act like that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:26 PM
9

Why do you choose to not believe women?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:16 PM
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Bruh this thread is full of women stating their experiences. Why is is so hard for you to believe them?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:15 PM
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Ahh yes because reporting crimes goes well for women. How many reported sexual assaults actually end up going to jail?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:15 PM
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You can just say you hate women and go lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:10 PM
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Yes he did. I don’t understand why y’all can’t believe this. Just google women murdered after saying no- countless come up. Men can’t handle rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:04 PM
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So what do you say to the women who get murdered for saying no?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:56 PM
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I don’t see tons of women murdering their spouses at the rates men do? Hurting people at the rate men do?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:56 PM
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I’m in the USA. No one did a thing. And I understand your argument but actually statistically speaking we’re more likely to be raped and hurt by our significant others, friends or families than strangers. So that makes things even more confusing for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:53 PM
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Most men aren’t but how do we know which ones will and which ones won’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:35 PM
34

When I was punched after saying no it was in a public space
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:26 PM
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The reason why many women don’t just say no is because men cannot handle it. I once said no to a man asking me out and he literally punched me in the face. Some men absolutely cannot handle rejection and act violently when they are turned down. It’s unfortunate but it’s for our safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:20 PM
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Bruh this is why y’all can’t get dates smh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 02:41 PM
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Ok and? Such is life- if you want to date you have to put yourself out there
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 02:32 PM
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Just go up to women and ask if you can give them your number. Put the ball in their court. If they look uncomfortable- leave. Most of us don’t mind it men approach us, it’s the fact that men don’t know when to leave that gets weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 02:27 PM
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This. A lot of men don’t understand consent and end up raping women without them seeing it that way. Men don’t want to see their friends as rapists of course, but unfortunately some of them are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:03 PM
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Statistically we actually have a better chance being abused or raped by our own friends and family rather than strangers. Additionally, women are more likely to be murdered by their spouse than random strangers. And the leading cause of death for pregnant women in the USA is homicide. So it’s not just strangers doing this to us which makes it even more confusing for us to navigate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:51 PM
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Their parents??? My guy how old are you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 09:01 PM
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So if two 15 year olds get pregnant they should have to raise their kid as a consequence? Since they had sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:30 PM
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Yah I think as a girl we can agree most men aren’t that attractive. Most men don’t really try to be attractive anyways. Girls put effort into their appearances.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:20 PM
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The majority of people (men and women) don’t cheat. You’re thinking of a random subset of humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:03 PM
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Of course all women don’t cheat. Do all men cheat? Pls go find a hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:50 PM
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Absolutely yes! I am so content being alone. I have my cat, my friends, my free time. I personally love being alone and would much rather be alone than in a bad relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:06 PM
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Men literally punch holes in walls and murder people when they’re angry. They certainly can be emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 12:56 PM
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It literally doesn’t matter. But several dates. I want to make sure they’re normal before
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 12:21 AM
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Girl these men are genuinely insane. These same men bitch about how they can’t even get a girl to look their way. They’re jealous that women can easily get sex and they can’t. And they probably never will.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 12:17 AM
2

Not the most attractive I’ve dated. Not necessarily bad looking either. We had a lot in common personality wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:09 PM
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Sir you did not just use their instagrams to try and prove they’re unedited I can’t
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:05 PM
0

No unless you have an insane amount of chemistry. To be fair there was only one time and it was my ex. Him and I just hit it off immediately
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:58 PM
0

Why does that matter at all
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:54 PM
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What if their partner cheats? Gets addicted to drugs? Or a man marries a woman and then she decides she no longer wants to have sex? How would all of their significant others be at fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:59 PM
1

Unless sparks are beyond flying- I don’t want men touching me on the first date. Bigger yet- I don’t want men asking me about sex on the first date. I’ve realized that’s my biggest turn off. I’ve been on first dates where within minutes the guy asks me what I like in bed, when I usually have sex, etc. it’s just way too early for me to have those conversations and usually makes me feel like all they want is sex (probably true too). But overall I think the idea of escalating is a bad one. Most gir…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 05:57 PM
2

You’re absolutely correct
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:40 PM
1

Thank you for being normal
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:05 PM
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We just want to be seen as human beings
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:03 PM
2

So like an intrusive thought almost
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:59 PM
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I’m not- but so far several men have told me that it’s impossible to not see women in a sexual way especially friends. I personally disagree I think many men can have healthy friendships with women. But a number of people have responded to me stating that it’s extremely difficult for men to manage their sexual needs
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:32 PM
4

From what other men are telling me that’s nearly impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:25 PM
7

I mean personally I don’t really have an interest in being friends with someone who only wants to fuck me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:19 PM
0

This!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:41 PM
4

Lmaoooo ok big guy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:39 PM
6

You’re missing my point too. I literally said to op that this is why women get frustrated. Because men cannot see us as anything other than sexual objects. But yes if the only way he can cope is to completely ignore me that’s totally fine with me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:36 PM
10

Yes pls leave us alone!! Thank you!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:32 PM
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Where did I say I was?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:31 PM
7

He literally said first cousins don’t count lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:27 PM
0

And you’re not entitled to sex. Easy as that. I’m not forcing anyone to be my friend. I was talking more in the context of coworkers like op listed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:58 PM
8

Lmaoooooo this is genuinely insane
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:57 PM
8

So men cannot control their sexual thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:50 PM
11

So it sounds like you can barely control your sex drive. Any woman you interact with you see in the frame of sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:42 PM
10

What about your mom, cousins, family?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:38 PM
5

That’s dope
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:36 PM
12

So you cannot control your sex drive at all? You can’t look at a girl and not see her in a sexual light?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:33 PM
10

Obviously you have a very clear view of women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:31 PM
19

Lmao just see women as humans. Human beings- not sex toys, not maids, not mothers- humans. That’s literally the key to all of this. We don’t want to fit into this gendered roles that society has set for us. We’re people just like you who have hobbies, likes and dislikes, favorite things, etc. It feels like a lot of men on this page don’t see value in women unless they have a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:30 PM
5

I don’t. But I am friendly to my fellow coworkers since we’re all forced to interact with one another anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:22 PM
22

Because it proves that most men only value us when there’s potential to have sex with us. Once that’s no longer an option men decide they don’t like us. It’s just men treating us as sexual objects instead of human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:12 PM
4

Probably a lot less sex crimes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:51 PM
5

Why would feminists not want this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 11:46 AM
3

Why not get a vasectomy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 11:44 AM
4

The list is truly infinite
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:29 PM
28

Yes men are a danger to men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:26 PM
5

Because men kill us, rape us, make unwanted sexual comments, stalk us, and abuse us. By the time we’re 10 we’re getting cat called, adults make sexual comments to us and more. Worst is that we’re statistically more likely to experience the above from men close to us (fathers, uncles, spouses, boyfriends). So not only do we have to face this from strangers, some times we also have to face it from our friends and family. It creates extremely confusing problems for us as we literally don’t know whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:26 PM
4

Abortion is illegal or financially difficult to get. Women feel forced and unable to make an uncomfortable decision regarding termination. The better question is why do so many men lack the personal responsibility and immediately leave when they get her pregnant?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 12:36 PM
6

If a man is doing chores he’s way more likely to get laid by me than if he isn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:00 PM
9

I find that men typically cannot read social ques the same ways women can. For example, when talking to a guy at a bar a friend or myself will state the “well it was nice meeting you enjoy your night” as a farewell/ not interested thing, and most men will try to continue the conversation. Another thing is body language- a lot of men cannot seem to read when women are either uncomfortable, or not interested. I’m not entirely sure if it’s society or what but I find women read social ques much bett…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:28 PM
2

How does this correlation work
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:51 PM
1

Lmaooooo I’m dead
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:50 PM
6

This may be the most wild take yet. Likes to travel apparently means likes to have sex with random men????
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:52 PM
4

I think for a lot of women physical attraction doesn’t just equate to sexual attraction. Their two different things. Someone can be physically good looking but that doesn’t mean I want to have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:49 PM
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Women need sexual chemistry. If it’s not there it really can’t be forced. I am friends with lots of attractive men but I don’t see them in a sexual way so I couldn’t date them. I see very few men in a sexual way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:22 PM
2

I’m an objectively above average woman and I have not once received a dm from a man lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:05 PM
2

I’m gonna be real the amount of men who do not have good hygiene and lack social stills is surprising
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 03:37 PM
4

I think a lot of men think having a gf is the most important thing. It’s their only goal, or social outlet, they put a ton of personal pressure on it. Women on the other hand, I think have an easier time being single as we have emotional friendships and get a lot of what men seek in relationships from our friends. We have deep discussions with our friends and feel fulfilled in that way. I see a lot of men complain that they feel like their friendships are too surface level. I strongly believe th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:00 PM
1

Ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 01:51 AM
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So you only listen to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 07:22 PM
2

Idk because they want to I suppose
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 07:21 PM
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People literally just want to have fun. For most it’s not that deep other than being fun and feeling good.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 06:19 PM
1

I’m gonna be real- I’m a woman and tons of men stop messaging also. This is not just a girl problem. It goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 04:03 PM
4

I would argue that if femcels do exist they’re much less of a threat than incels. Men are more likely to act violently. Women are more likely to complain online and then go on with their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:48 PM
9

No. Contrary to your strange beliefs many people get married because they are in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 02:24 PM
-1

Crazy things happen all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:06 PM
2

It’s possible
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:06 PM
-1

That’s how I interpreted it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 12:54 PM
2

Well that’s how I interpreted it lmao don’t know what else to tell you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 12:51 PM
0

They asked for my opinion as a woman on what I wanted from men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 12:38 PM
0

Y’all are strangely obsessed with women’s virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 12:16 PM
4

That’s fair but women often don’t get violent in the ways men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 11:42 AM
6

Men take rejection normally and don’t scream and become aggressive or violent. Rapes and assaults stop. I would honestly go on a lot more dates if I knew I was safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 11:39 AM
0

Survival of the fittest. The least desirable men won’t have kids. And so it continues.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:23 PM
1

I assume men don’t have interest in me now. I love it. I function as though things are completely neutral. I don’t sit around thinking about what strangers think of me because it doesn’t matter anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:21 PM
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I know this is hard for y’all to believe but some men fall in love with women and they want to make a commitment to one another. Plenty of people want to get married because they look forward to spending the rest of their lives with their person
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:46 PM
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Teach him that women are human beings who deserve respect. Teach him about consent. Explain the dangers of being a woman in society and how those impact how women see men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 02:34 PM
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Objectively I can see how men would think this is what women find attractive. He’s not ugly but he’s definitely not really my type. I’m not that into “pretty boys” like him. I know it’s hard for y’all to understand that people have different preferences and like different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 11:22 AM
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Putting together a nice outfit that’s not workout shorts and an adidas hoodie. Taking care of their beards. Stuff like that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 12:57 PM
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Yah most men don’t really try very hard tbh. So yah I don’t notice most men. Even attractive men I’m like yah he’s attractive and kinda move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:31 AM
0

This is weird as hell
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 02:13 PM
1

Definitely turn lesbian
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 02:09 PM
1

Yes. I think a lot of parents did not raise their sons to “todays” standards and it shows. I’ve noticed a lot of parents never taught their sons useful skills like cooking, cleaning, etc. those same moms are the ones confused as to why no one is dating their sons lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:54 PM
1

You’d be surprised. Also washing means using soap and getting in there. I’ve met men that think water counts as washing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 01:35 PM
0

I would wait for the girl to bring it up. I’ve had guys bring it up within the first day of texting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 01:23 PM
3

It’s genuinely concerning how many men I’ve met that don’t because it’s “gay”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 01:15 PM
5

As a girl, there are some good points here. I would say the masculinity aspect is not necessarily an issue. I don’t like competitive men, and what not. I think huge factors are hygiene (men pls wash your butt I promise it’s not gay), sense of style (if you’re 25 and still wearing your clothes your mom bought you it’s time to go shopping and get some personal style), constant sex need (worst thing I see guys do is asking a girl for sex/ turning the conversation sexual way too early. It’s a huge t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 11:58 AM
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It’s simple- women have never had the amount of autonomy we have today. We no longer need a man in order to live a successful life. Prior generations had to. Since women don’t need anyone they’re no longer going to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 12:48 PM
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It depends on the man. Lots of men are capable of having consensual, good sex where both parties are satisfied. In addition, lots of men consume way too much porn and have equated sex to violence in their minds. Some women are into things like choking and what not. However, some men do push boundaries for sure. I will say the majority of men are fine. Women like sex and want to have it. The problem is which man will you be getting- the violent one or the normal one? Usually the normal one but oc…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 12:31 PM
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You’re both adults. You can split the chores. Why would any woman want a man who refuses to help out with the house or kids? That would just be another kid essentially. It’s 2023 not 1950. Grow up or stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 12:17 PM
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Absolutely not. You’re not her father. Women aren’t children. Women typically don’t even dress for men. This reads as you just want to control what she wears because you’re insecure about your relationship. I’ve dated many guys and have never had one ask me to change my outfits or anything. I would consider it a massive red flag. Why would a girl want to date someone who will tell her what she can and cannot wear? I’m assuming you’re fine if a girl tells you what you can and can’t wear also then…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:23 PM
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Do any of the men on this shit want to actually meet meaningful partners? Or is it literally just sex you guys want? Y’all sound insane
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:39 PM
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Idk why men do not understand this concept. If you don’t adapt then a woman is not going to be interested anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:11 PM
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Yes - most of my friends and I would much rather be single than settle for anyone. I think many more women will choose to be single instead of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:08 PM
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Maybe if you’re dating your step moms age group? I would say women like ambition- someone with goals and what not. But status is meh. Who cares honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 03:34 PM
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The people saying women are attracted to status are men lmao. Average men are fine!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 03:25 PM
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If men want these spaces then make them! This is the issue with toxic masculinity- it has created a group of men who don’t show each other emotions, hang out, even hug each other for fear of being considered “gay” or feminine. Men continue to force each other into these roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 11:47 PM
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Not at all
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 12:30 PM
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The main issue is HOW men cold approach. I don’t mind a man coming up to me to chat and ask for my number. I would be flattered honestly! The problem is the amount of men who CANNOT take no for an answer is genuinely shocking. It turns the situation uncomfortable and scary for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 12:27 PM
1

I have never seen one work. All of my friends who have tried it just wanted to break up but opened things as a last ditch attempt.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:42 PM
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This is an extremely strange and sad mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:13 PM
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Ahhh yes one woman who faked an abduction is most definitely how all women are!!! You’ve got us all figured out huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:59 PM
2

I’ve found that men don’t have as intense as emotional relationships with their friends as women do. So they often times put all of their emotional needs onto their significant others. I think to women this can come across needy sometimes. However, both genders can be needy because humans are needy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 07:14 PM
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I think it comes across that women are annoyed by it because a lot of men on this sub act as though the only part of a relationship is sex. Or that women are only good for sex. There’s much more to a successful relationship than just a good sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:43 PM
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Why would I want a random stranger to sexualize me to my face
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:59 PM
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Sometimes I do! But I have in the past and then the man takes it as an excuse to sexualize me or make it weird, which in turn has ruined it for me. Some guys will just take the compliment and move on whereas some see that as an open invitation to ask me weird ass questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:13 PM
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Those girls are fucked up if they’re ignoring your boundaries and essentially assaulting you. But saying you’ve never seen a guy go up and grope a woman? That happens to us women all of the time- it’s actually one of the reasons I stopped going to clubs and bars. I was so over the constant ass grabbing, touching, etc. Obviously I cannot speak on all women but the women I know would not just grab a man or kiss them or anything- especially since we have all had scary encounters with men doing that…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:57 PM
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A person to be my best friend and to love. And an adult who can clean up after themselves, takes care of their homes and themselves, treats others with respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 01:59 AM
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Are you a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 04:04 PM
1

It’s also just lived experiences. Ask any woman and we have encountered scary experiences with men often from a young age.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 03:05 PM
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Alone would be kinda weird? But I always encourage the men I date to go out with their friends without me if they want to, and still have fun. I don’t need to babysit him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 12:34 PM
1

I don’t disagree with that. It’s unfortunate that bad men ruin it for all of the good ones (which are the majority).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 12:29 PM
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I think it’s probably the recurring problem of sexual assaults, abuse and murder from men that has not helped either.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:02 AM
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The issue is how do we know which ones are good ones? Statistically we are even more likely to be assaulted by friends or family than strangers- so even the good ones can turn on us.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:02 AM
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I don’t think men will every truly understand how frightening it can be to be a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 10:58 AM
4

The issue is often the men they marry essentially turn into kids and the attraction dies.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:46 AM
1

How is she promiscuous
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 11:59 AM
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Lmaooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:40 PM
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Because casual sex has much higher risks for women than men. And usually the sex sucks anyways making it not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:19 PM
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My grandma would have loved a life where she could have been child and husband free lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:06 PM
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Maybe for some. I’m very happy as is. And statistically, single women are the happiest group.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:35 PM
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Jonah hill can have his preferences that’s fine. He can leave the relationship, that’s fine too. The issue most women are having is how he communicated his concerns and problems. It came across very controlling. As a woman- if any of my friends told their bfs that they shouldn’t speak to any other women I would tell them they’re insane. He chose to eventually change his mind on how he wanted her to behave and it was communicated in a way that was inappropriate. He has every right to leave at any…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 12:03 PM
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Most of you really hate women and that’s why you don’t get dates. We can tell. You don’t hide it. And many of you will deny it but it’s very obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:59 AM
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Victims could contribute more? It’s not them who need to contribute more it’s definitely police. And if they took women’s stories seriously that would be a good place to start.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 12:03 AM
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Idk what you’re point is? Since it’s so hard to convict people have utilized sharing information online. If you’re normal you’ll be fine dude
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 11:46 PM
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There’s a difference between communication and control. If he can’t handle dating a surfer he shouldn’t have dated one. It’s bizarre to tell your significant other that they can’t interact with anyone in the opposite gender except for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 07:32 PM
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Do you not realize that statistically around 98% of rape and assaults don’t lead to an arrest or conviction? The criminal record system is an absolute joke to those who are assaulted and raped. Look at Brock turner who did get convicted of rape and then served three months.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 07:29 PM
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As a Psa I joined one of those groups out of curiosity and it’s mostly men who have raped and assaulted or cheated on women they’ve dated. If you’re a normal dude- you won’t end up on that page.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 05:38 PM
1

Literally what?! So if you’re dating a girl and she says “if you follow any other girls on Instagram I’ll leave you” then that’s fine?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 05:31 PM
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It’s wild how few men seem to understand this. His choice or words came across very controlling. Telling her to swim away from male surfers and say you have a bf? That’s wild lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 05:29 PM
4

You guys will blame women for quite literally anything it’s wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 11:29 AM
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She can wear whatever she wants while surfing lmao. If that bothered him why even date her in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:44 PM
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I totally understand!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:43 PM
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Not the same at all. Instagram isn’t a primary dating website. It’s a photo app and I’m sure she was using her image to try and get sponsors, recognition, etc. it just shows his insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 02:52 PM
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To be fair- the overturning of Roe didn’t help this whole mess. For me that pretty much took away any interest I had in any type of hookup. I think women are fed up with men and are choosing single life more. I think the economy doesn’t help with dating- everyone is paycheck to paycheck. There’s so many parts to blame as to why there may be a gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 02:50 PM
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It’s not a gendered issue however we hear about it more from men because they turn more violent than women. Women have literally been murdered just for declining dates. But both genders don’t like being rejected. I don’t think anyone does.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 02:25 PM
6

He met her through her dms so he was aware of her using social media to promote herself
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 02:21 PM
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He got mad at a surfer for wearing a swimsuit to work…. Like bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:20 AM
1

I’m a liberal feminist girl and I absolutely strongly believe neither party should be financially responsible to support their ex spouse for the rest of their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 02:38 PM
2

Like $55 dollars an hour
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 12:00 AM
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My friend works part time teaching yoga and makes absolute bank. Literally like a shitload of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 06:45 PM
1

I absolutely agree. My last bf had no friends in my town and it turned very clingy as he had no one else to hang out with and I did. It can turn exhausting quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:14 PM
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As a happily single girl I can maybe provide some context. Women we are much more emotionally invested in our friendships than men. Many of us feel very supported and fulfilled by our female friendships and therefore really aren’t lonely. I think a lot of women find man and dating exhausting, belittling and centered around sex. To be frank a lot of men treat us like maids, mothers or therapists when dating us and it can be very tiring. Being single is honestly much more relaxing for me than bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 06:05 PM
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Guys- pls don’t ask women to go on hikes especially for a first date. That makes me immediately have alarm bells for being hidden away from the public. Don’t get me wrong I love joking but as a first date I would assume you want to kill me in the woods or something lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 03:13 PM
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Lmao whatever helps you sleep at night
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:42 PM
2

Women tend to be happier than men when single because we have fulfilling friendships that give us much of what men experience while dating. We discuss all sorts of topics with friends and feel deeply for one another. From my understanding, men’s friendships are often not as deep as women’s and for that I think a lot of men feel lonely or feel like they have no one to discuss things with. Personally I am so much happier single than I am dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:00 PM
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Effort is huge. I want to feel loved and special. Communication, respect, seeing me as an equal, the ability to listen to me, kindness, a good balance of alone time and together time, the ability to do things without needing to be asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:55 PM
0

Which gender created the draft?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 12:14 PM
2

But if people have clearly stated they don’t feel comfortable being called female and would prefer being called women what’s the problem? Why can you not just adjust that word and continue on? It doesn’t seem hard to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 07:25 PM
1

I’m totally cool with them leaving
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 07:05 PM
7

Usually it’s just people have a personal sense of style and like to dress that way to make them feel confident and comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 06:34 PM
2

This is why women leave men smh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 05:45 PM
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We don’t dress for men. We don’t care if you think we’re not modest. You will be ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 05:40 PM
2

It’s not immigrants killing us. The most likely person to kill us is our husband or boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 03:37 PM
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Now do rape and sexual assault
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 02:06 PM
4

Well it’s certainly not women murdering other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 01:50 PM
4

It’s just facts. Men commit violence against women at huge rates. This shouldn’t be a surprise to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 01:45 PM
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Men absolutely do not ensure women feel safe. You guys are our biggest predator.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 01:38 PM
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Why would it be women’s responsibility to ensure men aren’t lonely? Men are lonely because they lack friendships and human interaction. I don’t necessarily see men try and foster friendships the way women do. And even when men have friends they seem to keep it so surface level with them- like they don’t even know each other that well
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 04:38 AM
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Ahh yes the infamous “please rescue me” look. I know it well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 11:50 PM
2

Whatever helps you sleep at night
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 11:41 PM
0

Not to my knowledge lmao. Probably the same amount as men?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 11:08 PM
0

I think the big thing is effort. Women, we have close platonic friendships with girls and so we are fulfilled in that way when we find someone to date. I think we expect men to attempt to show us you like us. Tons of girls I know have ended things because it felt like their boyfriends stopped liking them or dating them really.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 10:55 PM
2

Single childless women are statistically the happiest group of adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 10:53 PM
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Honestly this is a big thing for me when it comes to dating. I have past trauma from a male friend and so now dating is difficult as I have to sus out if they’re normal, or if they will rape or kill me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:38 PM
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Men need to adapt or be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:35 PM
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Why do women file for divorce or leave men?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 07:20 PM
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Men have been leaders in our society (and still are) since it’s conception. The gender stereotypes you guys hate were created by yourselves and often are perpetuated by other men. Women may feed into it as a result that’s true. But you guys have always been in charge and set up nearly every single system that remains.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 07:12 PM
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They are the perpetrators of the pattern. Still in the pattern though. Both are in the cycle just one has control.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 02:49 AM
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So you’re down for men to leave their children and just walk away instead
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 02:48 AM
2

I was yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 02:47 AM
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Honestly idk what it is but every relationship I’ve had I asked them out lmao and I’m a girl. Typically I remind myself that it’s intimidating for men so I try to even the playing field.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 04:50 PM
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I mean yah I think it’s kinda obvious they likely had it the worst being raped and impregnated by their slave owners in addition to other forms of abuse and trauma. As a survivor of rape I can tell you it’s pretty terrible to experience. Regardless we’re off topic now. Life sucked for most historically.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 04:47 PM
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I think both sucked- poor women often had to turn to sex work and what not. And yes slave men were certainly treated worse than women. Slave women were treated the worst of all. Regardless, financial autonomy for women is a fairly recent historical gain and that has fed into them needing men less and less.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:54 PM
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So birth control is 100% effective according to yoy?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:17 PM
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So you’re bitter women have rights now
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:16 PM
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What consequences are you referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:15 PM
2

Only recently has sex been controlled by women. Historically we were property
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:14 PM
3

So what if the father leaves after they’re born
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:12 PM
1

Depends on where you live
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:12 PM
5

Ahh yes blame women for a society completely constructed by men lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 01:59 PM
3

I think men should also get sympathy for abuse. Men don’t deserve abuse either. No one does. I was just referring to the op who was discussing women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 09:23 PM
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This entire thread is literally men belittling women’s abuse…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 08:45 PM
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LOL WUT
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 08:44 PM
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If we were good at detecting predators no one would be getting murdered by their boyfriends or husbands. Predators don’t always look like predators. In fact we’re far more likely to be raped or abused by a family member or someone close to us. And we’re the most likely to be murdered by our husband or boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 08:43 PM
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What a terrible thing to say. Please take time to educate yourself on the cycle of abuse. I know you won’t but please try.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 08:41 PM
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Again it’s hard to prove when it turns into a he said she said situation. The other big thing is that even when it turns violent the abuser will do whatever they can to keep the person there. So if you haven’t spoken to your friends in two years and then are trying to leave someone it’s difficult to reconnect with those friends. The other thing is that a lot of victims don’t disclose their abuse to others so it limits a possibility for witnesses should a trial occur.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 08:40 PM
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What an incredibly rude thing to say about people on trailer parks or inner cities?? This doesn’t just impact them abusive relationships are in every tax bracket my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 06:21 PM
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The thing is that they aren’t sane men. They hide it in order to gain control. This is true for all abusers. As control is gained they can begin to get increasingly violent whether that be emotional, mental or physical. Personally, I feel sympathy for anyone being abused because I don’t think anyone deserves to be beat up for trying to date someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 06:20 PM
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It’s not clear at all. The action is having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 06:17 PM
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Typically it’s to “woo” the person and give them a false sense of love and security. It can last months before it turns to control elements. It’s almost like “grooming” in a way as they make the victim feel safe and loved and adored so when they begin to control them the victim won’t notice or think it’s weird because they’re “in love”. Things to look for are difficult because some people do show love by providing gifts or words of affirmation. The big things to look for are isolation tactics/ w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 06:17 PM
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Potentially- though cops have the highest domestic violence cases out of any profession. The other issue is being believed- Often times if there’s no physical evidence than there isn’t much they can do. And restraining orders only work if the people decided to follow it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 06:14 PM
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Because it’s a cycle. There’s evidence to back this up- it is highly likely that a person being abused was raised by others who have been abused and seen it growing up so they interpret that as love. Google cycles of domestic abuse- there is science to all of this
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 06:12 PM
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I think both genders can be manipulated by the other
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 06:10 PM
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The assholes getting laid are probably wildly manipulative and good at manipulating women to sleep with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 03:47 PM
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These comments are wild. No one starts an abusive relationship with abuse. It starts with love bombing, and slowly turns into control and violence. The fact that men on here are literally staying women deserve abuse because they “choose” it is wild. A women’s most dangerous point is leaving an abusive relationship- often times this is how it spirals to murder (when she tries to leave).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 03:45 PM
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Do you realize that abusive relationships don’t start abusive? The abuser nearly always follows a timeline that begins with love bombing and slowly turns into increased control. If you are not familiar with abuse tactics don’t speak on it. No one deserves to be abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 03:41 PM
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How is that the same as being beat up. Explain it to me like I’m 5
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 03:38 PM
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Ok cool so you have never taken a psychology course or learned about abuse then I assume?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 03:20 PM
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I’m sorry ??? How are they any different if both people are having sex with each other???
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 03:19 PM
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How would a woman be accountable for her own abuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 03:16 PM
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You guys are OBSESSED with women’s body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 10:52 PM
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Men don’t have any and I have come to realize that. I don’t expect it in return I already know I won’t be getting it from them regardless. I can empathize with some men however men who choose to ignore the historical treatment of women and how that has continued to cause problems don’t deserve it. Enjoy your day babes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:22 PM
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I mean if you look at the US it’s pretty rough for women rn. Roe v wade overturned, lawmakers attempting to ban birth control, etc. Most of you have zero empathy for us anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:01 PM
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Just a reminder to all men- women do not owe you anything and that includes dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:52 PM
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Why should we have empathy for you? You guys have treated our gender like shit until fairly recently lmao. Not add to that- ask any woman and she has had a sexual assault or harassment situation with a man. Not all men are responsible but all women have had an issue with a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:51 PM
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Tell me you’ve never made a girl orgasm without telling me you’ve never made a girl orgasm
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:23 PM
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This sentence makes literally no sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:47 PM
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Believed?! Have you seen rape statistics lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 02:41 PM
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There’s a ton of bitter men on this sub who hold serious resentment towards women. Unfortunately they likely won’t change their views unless they want to and most don’t want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 02:39 PM
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To all men- you guys are seriously overthinking how much we think about you. We get degrees because we want to. That’s it. We don’t put ourselves through school to attract random men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 07:50 PM
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Sounds like you’ve got it all figured out!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:04 AM
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Ahhh yes. All women would immediately just stop having kids. Makes total sense
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:02 AM
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Ok now do all of the things women face on a daily basis like sexism and violence
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:02 AM
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Don’t men also create those children
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 02:34 PM
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Imagine how many achievements could have been made historically if women were allowed to be educated, financially independent and not forced in the home to take care of children for centuries
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 02:30 PM
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What do we have to celebrate lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 02:29 PM
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No one will die from not having sex. You will be ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:03 PM
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Gonna be real the main issue here is that most women want sex but most men cannot perform well enough for women to orgasm. As a result, women are less interested in sex because most times for us it’s really a chore and most men don’t satisfy us. It really comes down to what do we get from it? I guarantee almost every woman has faked an orgasm at some point. Why would we still wanna pursue sex regularly when we know we will likely just be dissatisfied anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:00 PM
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You’re our biggest threat. Look at the news everyday. Women get murdered for turning men down, saying the wrong things, wearing the wrong clothing. We get raped at unreal rates. Ask any group of women to tell you about a time a man knowingly made them uncomfortable and all of them will have an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:24 AM
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Why would we want to be treated like an employee?????
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 02:54 PM
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Or maybe women’s preferences have changed as society has shifted
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 05:27 PM
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I feel like that goes both ways- it’s just good to be financially stable in general
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 07:59 PM
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I promise it doesn’t guarantee success. Most women will immediately be over a guy if they even mention liking Andrew rate
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 07:29 PM
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Absolutely agree. This country and world is growing increasingly difficult to survive in. For a lot of young people there’s no hope at all, so dating is kinda the last thing on our minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 02:28 PM
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Pls get some professional help
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 02:16 PM
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Cost of living is insane right now. It’s a lot better to have two people in relationships making money than just one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:09 PM
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Men have literally murdered women for rejecting them but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 12:37 PM
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Everyone should date someone who is financially independent as no one should be depending on someone else for finances. You guys create this narrative about women that generally has no truth to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 02:58 PM
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My guy have you seen this economy? Women and men are both working? You are making a very huge generalization based on very few women. I don’t know a single woman who doesn’t have a job. In fact most I know make more than their male significant others. Also more women go to college now than men. Women are putting careers ahead of relationships more often than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 02:09 PM
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Many of these responses show why y’all are so bad with women. We have to fear men as we have all had bad past experiences with creeps. Why downplay someone’s fear? Her concerns are valid? If you are a man you will never be able to understand how scary this world can be to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 01:16 PM
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If you don’t abort an ectopic pregnancy the mother and child both die.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 01:28 AM
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What about ectopic pregnancy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:31 PM
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You need some serious psychological help. Please look into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:57 AM
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Most of you have never spent extended time around kids and it shows
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 11:09 PM
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So many of our grandmas would have been single forever if that was socially acceptable
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 09:15 PM
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I get that! I’m the same way it’s better to be alone than in a shit relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 09:13 PM
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Same here. I would rather be alone honestly. I’m happier this way!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 08:48 PM
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I agree. I think women have deeper emotional relationships with their friends than men do, so even when we’re not dating someone we still are emotionally fulfilled. Most of my friends as well as myself would be totally fine alone forever with our pets lol. If a great guy comes along then that’s amazing too. But so few men seem to put in any effort or see women as humans that it’s honestly fine if we remain single.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 08:46 PM
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Probably because you have never had your worth determined by if you’ll put out or not
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 03:13 PM
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I would much rather be valued by what I bring to the table than the fact that I happen to own a vagina. Also born with sex appeal sounds a bit pedo my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 02:56 PM
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You guys genuinely don’t value women as humans and it shows. You literally only see us as a sex object.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:35 AM
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I don’t really care either way and I’m not actively looking for one. I’m very content with being by myself, hanging with friends, etc. sometimes I miss sex but that’s about it really.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 11:44 PM
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She said no. No means no. Idk how this is confusing to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:10 PM
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But you said that they’re selfish, superficial, lack empathy and greedy?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 08:58 PM
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Damn you really don’t like women huh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 08:39 PM
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A lot of the men on this page have completely made up views of women and women’s dating life. If most of them actually took the time to go work on their personal lives instead of arguing online, they would be doing much better. A lot of men on this page also resent women. They try to act as though they don’t using messy arguments and what not but it’s true. Women can tell and it probably doesn’t help you in the dating world. It’s similarly difficult as a woman to date, as lots of men are just lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 07:44 PM
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Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:15 PM
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You sound like a good person
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:57 PM
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The fact that you’re only being kind to them because the outcome is sex
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:45 PM
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Why not just treat everyone with respect and as though they’re humans. Why treat women differently
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:39 PM
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You’re essentially saying the only reason to talk to women is so you can fuck them or date them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:37 PM
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This is so dehumanizing lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:27 PM
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That’s the thing these men complain women don’t want them and then degrade women in the comments? This is why women don’t want you- you hate us and don’t see us an an equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:53 PM
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I’m not fucking anyone right now lmao. Please go to therapy ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:36 PM
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You’re just confirming my original comment but go off
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:35 PM
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I rest my case again
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:26 PM
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I rest my case
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:26 PM
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There are several people in the comments doing just that? There’s always a discussion about women’s autonomy and sex life but never men’s?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 01:08 PM
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“Emotional meltdown” Whatever helps you sleep at night little buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 01:02 PM
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What reality? The reality that the majority of this Reddit sub feeds into misogynistic views and acts as an echo chamber for the hatred of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:55 PM
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You see women as less than men. Just accept that and move on dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:47 PM
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The disgusting belittling language you guys use is probably why no one wants to sleep with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:28 PM
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This thread is filled with casual sexism and misogyny. THIS is why women don’t want you guys. You complain if they have sex because they’re “sluts” and you complain if they don’t because they don’t know enough about sex or won’t “put out”. Y’all are genuinely gross and seriously need to rethink the way you view women. We are human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:13 PM
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This sub definitely makes me wary of men. Some of the posts and responses are extremely concerning
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 09:36 PM
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We’re asking them to do this for us so we don’t have to talk to the guy lol. All girls do this especially when going out. My friends and I give each other the eyes when we need help
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 11:50 AM
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I’m a girl and I’ve found that I’ve been on dates that feel like job interviews where I end up asking most of the questions because it seems like the guy doesn’t know what to say/ doesn’t ask me anything back. Ideally it should be an easy flow of conversation however some people lack social skills so it turns into the “job interview” vibe.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 05:31 PM
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Women couldn’t have their own bank accounts until 1974
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 02:35 AM
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Whatever helps you sleep at night
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 10:00 PM
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Dating apps are not the best way to compare yourself to others especially since photos of men usually suck honestly. I’ve been on dating apps and usually men don’t have pictures that are up to date, good quality, etc. that could also have helped him. Also maybe don’t compare yourself to a random stranger on YouTube who can put out anything for views.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:19 PM
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Sexual success is different than full on relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:09 PM
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I respectfully disagree. I’m not saying people who are attractive don’t have it easier- they do in both genders. I think many men see women with attractive men and immediately assume that’s all women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:09 PM
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Right. Men also seem to love preaching that women need to pick better partners and then simultaneously complain when they are not picked by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:08 PM
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For the first time in history women now have a say in what we want in a partner. It makes men miserable because they seem to refuse to adapt and work on themselves. If they want to complain all the time women will go to the men who have put in the effort. Not sure why men don’t understand this
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:56 PM
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Maybe this is why you don’t get women lollll
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:54 PM
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This!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:53 PM
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This is what we mean when women say we want men to work at themselves. I applaud you for putting in the work!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:53 PM
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Don’t men also contribute to nearly all physical violence though?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:55 AM
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It’s certainly subjective. And I appreciate your response. I think I surround myself with women who work on themselves so that’s how I see most women. I have met many men who do put in the work and I do think society is shifting to allow men to do that (therapy, etc). I think from many men I meet they do not seem to have the interest or empathy on the level women do. But that’s certainly my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:23 PM
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I like men. I date men. However I am picky because most men do not work on themselves. Women often look internally at how to better ourselves and what not. I have found that men do not do that as often. I also think that starting from a young age women get introduced to inappropriate comments, sexual assault, other issues that taint our view of men. Half the time we can’t even have male friends because they end up wanting to date us. If men would actually put in the work, go to therapy, better t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:30 PM
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