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/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 02:07 PM
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Safety is another thing, every trans person has to deal with feeling unsafe whether they pass or not. Trans women who don't pass are unequivocally more at risk of being hatecrimed than someone who looks indistinguishable from a cis woman at a glance. And furthermore, they're also at lower risk of being hatecrimed if they don't socially transition at all and look indistinguishable from a cis man. Do you feel safe enough going out in woman's clothes? Would you too if you looked like a wide shoulde…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 02:50 PM
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To what extent do people that don't pass at all can have "successful transitions"? Is their gender dysphoria gone, do people around them perceive and treat them as their gender, can they go out in their gender's clothes without fearing being hatecrimed by bigots or getting weird stares?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 02:34 PM
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Aren't you trans? What do you think about late transitioners sad they can't pass due to their bone structure?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 02:21 PM
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Marriage 1. Is a contract which enforces sharing assets, also giving legal protections to enforce this with financial abuse laws that wouldn't apply to unmarried couples that signed no papers. "It's my money" would be literally legally unenforceable if the correct papers were signed and he should know this when he signed all papers 2. If broken results in alimony for long term homemakers as ultimate protection. And also this thread was talking specifically about stingy men refusing to put in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 05:42 AM
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Ace Attorney and Yakuza have flamboyant characters that support the hero like Trucy and Majima respectively, and both also have at least some major villains that are meant as the protagonist's counterpart like Edgeworth or the one from Yakuza 2 and thus got similar design. The other ones of those that I know I consider in-between a reach, and to the extent they aren't a reach, that they only apply to the protagonists the audience is meant to relate to and thus got a more grounded appearance and …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 07:34 PM
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The enforcement mechanism exists though, it's marriage. Also "the point" you mention seems like a sanitized version of the OP's, who's borderline arguing for traditional male provider relationships before children are involved, with how much she focuses on the point of 50/50 specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 06:31 PM
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Can you share the thread? Sounds wild
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:13 PM
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Uncompensated labor is basically part of the woman's finances that is being unjustly taken away
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 02:15 PM
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The man wasn't doing 50% of the childcare so it wasn't real "rigid 50/50". The woman was providing the man free uncompensated childcare labor. Ironically a real rigid, scorekeeping, hypertransactional 50/50 arrangement where the woman bargained with the man the value of her childcare labor like he was her client/employer would've solved this. (This is devil's advocate and non-facetious. My real opinion is this is a warning tale of what can happen when you have children outside of marriage)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:58 PM
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She's real. Her post history is a trip: she also has BPD, has a 9 yo daughter that somehow dislikes her more than her bad boy baby daddy due to her being dysfunctional and depressed to the point she eventually got on visitation instead of shared custody, then a few months ago the baby daddy seemed to turn abusive towards the child so she asked help regarding that? And also the boyfriend of a few years she mentioned in that post was dragging his feet regarding marriage. Shit's wild
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:30 PM
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Examples? I don't get that impression from the media I consume
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:09 PM
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Online women allegedly don't mind you having a porn actor build lol (short so that your big dick stands out more)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:02 PM
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Interestingly according to the study body shape is the most important factor of the three by a fair amount. In IRL it's king, linear selection gradient of 1 compared to both height and dick size being 0.25. The online women though however are somehow short king loving size queens so it ends up body shape 0.77, height 0.11, dick size 0.52 (Linear selection gradient = a standard deviation increase of one in that measure corresponds with the specified amount of standard deviation increase in attrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 06:54 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 03:28 PM
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If you believe some aren't self aware enough or have hidden bigoted reasons why they don't date certain people then argue that especially instead of somehow trying to argue against the entire concept of Taste
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 11:22 AM
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I think horror games have been on the easier end since forever. Remember playing the Resident Evil 1 on the DS and for starters the limited inventory/resource management was basically an illusion I've seen some people suggest that a lack of difficulty takes the tension away from the horror I symphatize with the take somewhat, in the sense that the ideal difficulty is "dying is theoretically possible but rare". If it doesn't even feel theoretically possible then that also goes against the horror …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 09:43 AM
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I think that's a common knowledge videogame design take. There's some horror games that pull high difficulty well like Alien Isolation, where the alien can end up feeling more like sort of a rival than a monster, and each run of a level can vary depending on what the alien does making retries still feel fun. But unless the game is explicitly made around the high difficulty, making it so that dying is theoretically possible but rare is better
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 09:01 AM
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Agency is whenever what you want to happen happens. The more it happens the more agency you have. Ultimate agency means being omnipotent
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 08:13 PM
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Woman doesn't want something. It hapens anyway. That goes against women's empowerment
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 08:04 PM
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What if the body shaming infringes on the woman's agency to not be body shamed
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 07:55 PM
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NTpill
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 04:26 PM
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If they solo travel then yeah through a fairly direct mechanism. If they travel more socially then probably still yes but would have more to do with personality types and openness to experience and variety rather than necessarily hoeing on vacation
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 04:24 PM
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Body dysmorphia and gender dysphoria are different mental conditions for which different treatments are fitting. No comment though about normal people getting sane cosmetic surgeries or about transtrenders transitioning though
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 08:54 PM
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Lol I think that's the joke with the internet meme about Misato being a pedo
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:54 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:40 PM
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It was real, I saw now and the mod got banned by Reddit over it already In her case she opted for the "how did you know I meant jump off a cliff" defense https://np.reddit.com/r/ihatethissmug/s/ewcdrEOiYZ
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:49 PM
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It was real, I saw now and the mod got banned by Reddit over it already In her case she opted for the "how did you know I meant jump off a cliff" defense https://www.reddit.com/r/ihatethissmug/s/ewcdrEOiYZ
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:47 PM
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Recently a r/trueuglywomen mod messaged someone this. Don't say femcels aren't also great at getting their subs banned <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:33 PM
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LaDS has proven there exists a market for high budget otome games, but I think there's constraints preventing the gold rush. The studios that know how to make good high budget videogames aren't the same with the know how on how to make a good otome game. The market will probably adjust itself eventually but it'll take time. +18 is a different issue sadly, they're niche even among men, and all the difficulties with publicizing and monetizing them aren't helping
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 06:32 PM
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Eastern Asian male beauty standards are legitimately fascinating. Recently Love and Deepspace (Chinese romance videogame for women) tried to add a new more western-looking square-jawed love interest to their roster and the fanbase revolted. Chinese women were saying he looked like a hypermasculine gay guy lol. Left is the original design and right is the "proposed community redesign" <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:12 PM
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Real, for a while I bought his "clueless bluepill guy surrounded in redpill world" shtick but in recent months it's stretching believability
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:30 PM
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Are hip dips more common in narrow-hipped women? I would think it has more to do with the tissue than the bone
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 11:59 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:53 PM
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It might deadass pass around to one more writer? Lol Same as legitimate-way btw
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:10 AM
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Have you had it read No More Mr Nice Dog?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 10:19 PM
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You can age gracefully into a handsome masculine man rather than an old geezer. But twink death is very much not preventable
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 10:04 PM
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I would tell you to lurk moar, both your account and OP's are super young, though I'll assume you've both been here before those accounts at least
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 05:33 AM
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Did she know or suspect you thought she was "hard to look at"?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:49 PM
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Tbh my perception of discourse on this sub is also literal opposite of yours. PPD men routinely say that the hotter person controls the relationship and you need to be the other person's best option and hotter than the woman for a successful LTR, that that means she will simp more for you etc etc, meanwhile women are like "I gave a chance to an ugly guy but he still was a bad partner anyway" (in big part for the literal same reasons you gave of need for ego and validation btw). Like, your target…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:40 PM
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I think he got banned (don't remember if by Reddit or by the mods?) and then never came back
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:51 PM
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My wife being cautious about me probably being a future abuser years into out marriage would feel offensive to me too tbh. There's even discourse about it on Reddit, women who hide "go-bags" at home (food, essentials, self defense weapon, money, etc. in case of emergency where they need to flee) and their husbands find out and that nukes the marriage. Seems reasonable to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 06:29 AM
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I might now be on a government list but I found the meme 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 12:38 PM
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The ethics might be controversial? The decision vast majority of people take when they're in that situation isn't however. https://www.cbsnews.com/news/down-syndrome-iceland/
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 12:34 PM
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I didn't, was among the first Google img results of "raping your boyfriend apocalypse instagram"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 12:32 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:27 AM
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Link? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:18 AM
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Perky and appropriately sized breasts signal youth and hormonal health (i.e. fertility). Think there exists studies in the subject. The preference of men for butts and wide hips has also been studied
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:05 PM
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Largely agree but whether someone agrees depends somewhat on the person's mood. Depending on mood the claim might be that hot people don't need to develop a nice character because people will still simp for them anyway regardless of how they behave (brought up a lot regarding hot men in this sub)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:33 AM
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Here's a blogpost on the subject https://nuancepill.substack.com/p/are-men-uglier-than-women The most relevant graph is from Costa & Maestripieri (2023) <image> A bunch of other studies also mentioned in the article. There's also a full meta analysis https://www.biorxiv.org/content/10.1101/2025.05.21.655261v1.full.pdf which says essentially: women have a higher difference in how they rate men from how they rate women, though the trend is clear, both men and women say women are hotter than men. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 12:10 PM
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She likes being friends first -> He doesn't and tries to do otherwise -> He doesn't see women as people She dislikes being friends first -> He does and tries to do so -> He doesn't see women as people Sorry man but if you ever come across a woman with a different preferred dating script than yours then you don't see women as people
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 12:30 AM
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I don't see the need for symmetry in turn ons, if she's horny about you that's all the mutuality you need and I don't see why not. Also I do see sex as mental as much as physical. Thinking about it I'd probably be most hurt if she wasn't aroused in any way by me and just liked my dick inside her because it feels nice like a massage lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 08:41 AM
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Should have said that being liked for things you're at lower risk of losing makes you feel more calm and secure, rather than that "it feels more personal" If it's more about control than risk, I dispute whether you have higher influence on whether you end in a disfigurement accident or not than in a "status lowering accident".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 08:22 AM
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So I take it that yes, you see all of these outside of your agency and that you don't have free will at least philosophically? But even then that would be an argument for every part of you being equally you, not that beauty is you but the rest of you is "circumstance" Or maybe I misread your post and you just mean that you're more afraid of losing your job and status than of becoming a facially deformed burn victim? (understandable if so)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 08:08 AM
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In what sense are things like status, success, etc. more "circumstantial" than beauty? Do you go through life with the outlook that you don't have any agency on where your life goes, things just "happen" to you? You stumbled into being well respected and popular and it was just "circumstance"? But your genes aren't?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 07:27 AM
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Undesirable guys are also insecure and tend to be distrustful of women, that's a good point
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:17 PM
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In this context, being fine when the relationship ends means that they'll find someone as good as you if you break up more than anything regarding coping well with being single? Since that's the implied context when talking about 'undesirable nice guys'
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:15 PM
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Why do you think this happens and/or what bothers you exactly? Are lonely/inexperienced guys too clingy and jealous for your liking? Do they have less experience with regulating their emotions than more relationship experienced men? Or a combination of both factors and maybe more? Your writing almost makes you imply that if you felt more replaceable to them then they wouldn't mind so much whether they lose you, is that your preferred dynamic?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:24 PM
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It has recently become a rhetorical tactic on this sub to, instead of rejecting a despective label, embracing it and arguing that since the label is applied to something trivial, then it delegitimizes the label itself and is no longer a big deal Normal person: "approaching isn't harassment" Debaters like OP: "approaching is harassment, which means harassment isn't that bad, and thus it's ok to harass women sometimes" Cue the bangmaid post and the pickme post from last month or so, and now this o…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 05:50 AM
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Are you implying that it not being a big deal according to you is grounds to not bring it up despite what I commented? And do you hold the same opinion regarding women hiding your sexual history? Also theoretical question, imagine your parents (with whom you're close and meet often) for some reason or another had a threesome with your girlfriend in the past. In her infinite wisdom she's reached the conclusion to not bring it up because it'd just cause unnecessary drama and you knowing would just…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 05:26 AM
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If this is a play on the archetypical "my gf hid her sluttery from me" posts this is a good one since the hookup seemed completely irrelevant and buried in the past, I convinced myself bringing it up would only create unnecessary drama. And the same discourse as with hidden sluttery applies here. You don't get to decide what's relevant or not relevant to someone else. And the fact he knows it might be relevant to her ("unnecessary drama") but hides it because it's not relevant to him and only ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 08:23 PM
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Physically his n didn't increase but from an ego perspective (I.e. the way people use male n count as a metric on this sub) then it did. Though the formula for calculating "ego n count" probably has way more edge cases and complexities than this one
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:30 PM
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If they got a middle class job it's likely disposable income that they might be willing to give, can't say much more than that Yeah I'm Spanish. 1-2 years ago there was another Spanish user around but haven't seen him in a while. Spanish speaking ppl have their own corners of the internet for manosphere and gender warry stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:11 PM
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Here in Spain it's either like 2 weeks of groceries for a single person or inviting your friends out to lunch like twice. Also depends on whether you live in Madrid/Barcelona (more money but everything's expensive) Vs rest of Spain. More or less in that ballpark
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:49 PM
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In these situations it's good to take a note from Confucian ethics. You don't have a duty to martyrdom or for moral crusading, but you should at least disengage with wrongdoing. See no evil, hear no evil, speak no evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 05:40 AM
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I think the public perception of his persona has been moderated/whitewashed recently? But I very well remember early on he publically had "bad guy" takes, including regarding promiscuous women Though yeah I believe his female haters are on the older and more anti-twink side
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:19 PM
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Damn so in reality it's due to his autism??? NTpill proved again 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:50 PM
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Way more criticism at his looks are lobbied than just babyface tbf, like that he looks "weird" or "unnatural"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:41 PM
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Ppl claiming random ppl Clavicular comes across mog him is proof of the Devil effect (he's a bad guy so he's ugly)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:31 PM
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"Are women gay?" Weekly Discussion Megathread
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 02:32 PM
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Whichever qualities they believe you have that make children like you, and you rubbing it in their faces through these anecdotes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 07:53 PM
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Jealousy?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 07:42 PM
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The correct response to jealousy tests changes as the relationship advances though. During early dating, the proper answer is usually non chalance, yes. But as the relationship progresses, more likely she'd expect self-respect/you curtailing that behaviour, which is why women would do these tests by then. If she wanted you to tolerate her behaviour then conscious tests wouldn't really be needed, the situations where your boundaries are tested would happen organically as she does actions that tes…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 07:44 AM
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Are you not disputing that following the advice would be good and would lead to higher success, but instead that it's too hard to implement? That "treating women as human" is actually harder than pedestalizing them? I get that at a high level, if you're a nervous mess and can't help but stress a lot over what'll be the outcome of this interaction, then perfectly pretending to not be pedestalizing them will be hard. However, just taking the advice into account and being aware of how pedestalizing…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 05:36 PM
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Also interesting read on the subject: https://archive.is/4WFtN
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 10:04 PM
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How long was it since her husband died she started getting back with that ex? Uncle of mine went back to dating months after becoming widowed and family and specially his kids gave him hell for it, though maybe it's a different culture
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 09:51 PM
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Unironicallly yeah, there's a certain line in early dating where people take advantage of the ambiguity. But 6 months in, meeting friends and family and stuff? And he never even referred to her as his girlfriend in public or anything? The ambiguity loophole was still plausible? Guy was probably feeding into the ambiguity himself despite what he says
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 10:51 AM
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Were they playing hard to get?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 04:55 PM
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No dates or less dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:28 PM
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Likewise, you're implying you know what the liars you're talking about (which can't be a guess because you have telepathy to know that they're lying to keep you single) mean by not tryharding as much. You know it's things that are good to do. How do you know or reach the conclusion? Stay alone in your home. Do not grow a social circle which includes women. Don't download dating apps. Do not ever try flirting with anyone. If she shows any interest short of directly asking you on a date, do not en…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 01:45 PM
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You underestimate the extent to which women participate in flirting and "drop the handkerchief" so to speak in warm approach settings, the extent to which approaching women who have shown no prior signs of interest is effective, and even the negative social consequences of spam approaching in settings where you can develop a reputation. Your point 2 is conjecture and conspiratorial thinking. Likely because you are imagining full strawman versions of the advice where suspicion would be logical. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 01:15 PM
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Not an expert, though still not the typical result just from googling "porn". Do you disagree?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 12:07 PM
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baldness/niceguyness/fatness isn't what is holding you back, it's you giving desperate vibes Do you mean your comment was in response to this exact kind of advice? Even then I still don't know what "all kinds of assholes getting dates and relationships" has to do with the original comment, it's still a non sequitur
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 12:01 PM
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No I think I missed the meaning of your comment, you mean that the people giving the advice aren't sufficiently explicit that part of the reason behind the advice to let relationships come to you isn't at least partly to avoid desperate vibes? Personally don't get that vibe but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 12:01 PM
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I also see bald fat short dudes get dates and relationships, what's your point here, that it makes no difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:45 AM
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Notice what, that their rp ex drew them in through being a simp lovebomber who hardcore chased them? Don't know what you're rebutting, and your "design or purpose" as to this kind of advice is conjecture
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:41 AM
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Real talk on the women watching lesbian porn subject: women who watch typical porn aimed at straight men are also probably kinda gay. There's only so much straightness in looking at an entire woman's body and a man's dick in the border of the screen, like porn cameras tend to work. Women into porn will kinda have to go out their way to find stuff that feels really fully straight
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:29 AM
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Correct the right way to go is monkey dancing for every woman in your vicinity and acting desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:23 AM
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She also says she'd let you do anal if your dick shrank and became a micropenis. Would you be satisfied with that kind of consistency? She treats all micropenises equally
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:28 PM
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If your definition of self respect fits with my comment where I ascribe insecurity to him, then what's interesting about your original post? Yeah all men will say no they don't have a problem with it apart from especially insecure ones or men who like anal. What interesting insight or gotcha comes from that? The motivations I gave btw perfectly explain why he wants his gf to want to do something with him even though he doesn't like it. 1. Ego 2. He wants a girl who likes him 3. He wants a girl w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:04 PM
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The commenter doesn't explicitly state what he means by worse treatment or the implications he believes about it. Very likely he'd admit "yeah I think she sees me as a beta and the idea of me trying to dom her icks her out unlike with her alpha ex, or that since he was chad she let him do kinky sex she dislikes" if pressed
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:44 PM
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Who's arguing it comes purely from a place of self respect? I think the men engaging in this discourse do openly recognize there's a heavy element of insecurity to it. Which for obvious reasons (regardless of whether they're correct), a small-dicked ex doesn't trigger as much
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:32 PM
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Not debating but Inexperienced men can feel overwhelmed and all that direct intimacy really felt too much for them to handle afterwards. Then they understand they really want to be volcels for a bit, figuring themselves out better. This is the first time I hear about this about either men or women. Does this come from testimony/experience or is it just a hypothetical possible explanation? I find it hard to wrap my head around it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 01:36 PM
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See? Typical high n woman smh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 07:33 AM
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If the dildo is bigger than mine then 100 and if otherwise 0
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:41 AM
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Obviously the greentext is exaggerating for comedy, but gayness in men is both more culturally taboo and undesirable in dating than lesbianity in women, and depending on the space/context many women overplay theirs while men underplay theirs
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:38 AM
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Damn everyone in the insta comments has no knowledge of romance animanga tropes and particularly tomboy manga tropes?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:17 AM
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Homeowners are overwhelmingly NIMBY in many countries and collectively contribute to young people, including their sons, not being able to afford their own homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 08:28 PM
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Can you link those studies?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:10 PM
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Can you link those studies?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:04 PM
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Irrespective of gender, adolescents with ADHD had nearly double the number of lifetime sexual partners
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 04:06 PM
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Actually the opposite from what we know afaik https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/1087054714538660 https://www.jaacap.org/article/S0890-8567(17)30205-8/fulltext
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 02:12 PM
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Which book?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 01:10 PM
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I used to flair as purple pill but tbh my beliefs never really changed, I just noticed blue was a better label to communicate my leanings. Tbh pills by this subreddit's definition are more self-assigned labels more than clear cut sets of beliefs
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 10:27 AM
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Aww thanks 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 10:06 AM
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People usually date within their looks league, even if the outcomes when dating inside that league are heavily influenced by personality
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 10:05 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 10:03 AM
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The biggest steelman is that the prompt says "Everyone", which includes toddlers, and that even without toddlers/grandpa's with dementia/etc some people are bound to die (likely at least 0.1% of voters which would still be millions of people). Though probably many blue voters voted without realising that if everyone votes red then nobody dies
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 04:09 PM
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Your post is reaching a lot and I don't think you have a point in how there's a double standard regarding acceptable forms of manipulation. Your point regarding paying is straight up wrong, women complain about men paying expecting laid on the regular. They want men who pay but have no expectation. If you wanted to give a better example of "plausibly accepted" manipulation regarding paying, you could've brought up the typical theatre of the woman reaching for her purse without having any actual …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 08:05 PM
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You might be terrible at flirting and escalation if this is how you feel about it, especially to the point where that flirting cancels you as anybody's sexual or romantic prospect in that circle
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 01:41 PM
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Flirting and gauging someone's interest in you with plausible deniability doesn't require a long platonic phase, and specially not the sort of 'platonic phase' where they'd feel betrayed/blindsided after you showing interest
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 01:37 PM
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"before you drop plausible deniability make sure she really likes you because consequences of a failure are very significant." Yeah that's what it's about. Is doing this particularly complicated or limiting?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 01:29 PM
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The future's arrived <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 12:45 PM
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It's proof that women cheat more jk
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 12:45 PM
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I made all the arguments with the assumption that there's no equal androcide law, thus the question of whether a gender flipped law would punish women as severely is not relevant. If your point is that the wording of the law is so vague that basically any instance of a man murdering a woman qualifies, that I'm not informed enough to comment. The Spanish law: - Applies to male-on-female domestic violence in general. It doesn't even look into where there was misogynistic motivations or power imbal…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 12:27 PM
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Possibly, fast googling says 80% of homicides in the US involve firearms, and we all know the Samuel Colt's quote
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 12:03 PM
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ok so how does who pass the law change it's interpretation and why does right wing parties agreeing to it mean that women getting lesser punishments for the same offence comitted by man (as dictated by law and not judge bias) should not be interpreted as that woman is worth more/more important than the man? Do you think any of these parties go around in their rallies saying "so yeah we voted on this law because we think women's lives are more important than men's"? They'll say things like - The …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 12:01 PM
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are you under the impression that my original comment is complaining about the government leaning left? Yes? our opportunities started to be taken away from us in the name of equality 10-15 years ago and now that the dynamic shifted enough that we can just act full mask off about how men are seen in society. Though my main point is addressing your alleged incapability of seeing alternative interpretations of the law apart your own uncharitable one I am not sure how else this is supposed to be in…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 11:35 AM
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As extra funfact btw 24% of Vox members of parliament are women, compared to the total of 44% in our overall parliament Meanwhile I just googled and the Romanian party with highest percentage of women in parliament is PSD at 22% Edit: wrong, 22.7% if the current percentage of female members of parliament in Romania https://data.ipu.org/parliament/RO/RO-LC01/data-on-women/ though point still stands
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 11:23 AM
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I'll just say, in my country Spain we have a femicide law akin to what you describe since 2004 and our far right party Vox wants it repealed. And we routinely rank among the most progressive countries in Europe in gay marriage abortion and such. That a conservative country like yours where even the center left party is boomer conservative socially is unanimously behind the law should give you pause as to your interpretation of the law where the entire spectrum of feminists to tradcons is behind …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 11:17 AM
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TIL the US is one of the most eglalitarian countries in intimate partner homicides in the world https://ourworldindata.org/data-insights/women-are-more-likely-to-be-victims-of-partner-homicide <image> And people will claim the US isn't progressive 🙄 50% of spouse murderers should be women 👏
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 10:52 AM
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Interesting. What's your thoughts on even AUR, SOS Romania and POT all voting for the bill? Seems like even the right wing is co-opted by the gynocracy nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 10:19 AM
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Score as in sex and potential situationship. Relationship is a different thing, likely a lot of factors would inhibit even her from committing seriously to a guy 15 years younger than her even if she kinda liked you. I don't read the sex offer as a "consolation prize" at all. For herself, maybe. By that point I can see her getting frustrated by your lack of flirting back and thus acting accordingly
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 08:59 AM
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If you ask me to speculate I agree you likely would've scored if you'd gone for it, though IDK why make this thread if you already had strong opinions on the subject
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 08:52 AM
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Have you made a move on her? Why or why not, and what was the result? Without that I don't see enough information to conclude if she was leading you on for favors. Apart from that, if you feel uncomfortable about the imbalance of effort/maintenance in the relationship, just pull back. Even if someone is sexually interested in you but also wants a lot of favors, but you don't see the sex as worth the favors, you're allowed to pull back. Some people are just "takers", no leading on or manipulation…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 08:29 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 12:02 AM
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Yeah thinking better the rationale for excluding bi men but including bi women is likely a sort of compromise between 1. keeping sample sizes high (20% of women were some degree of bi, men were only 6.6%) 2. focus on the heterosexual dating market, avoid distorsions. The result I imagine is that women might seem slightly less slutty than they are in this graph, since when judging that, it's worth noting that their female partners aren't being counted. Though that's not the purpose of the graph h…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 10:55 PM
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There's multiple biases pushing in the STD question because women have routine gynecological visits, pregnancy screenings and such plus even targeted screenings that push them toward getting tested despite lack of symptoms, both STD's afaik are related to pregnancy complications. I was able to Google this up regarding screenings for example, men who have sex with women are a low priority: https://www.cdc.gov/std/treatment-guidelines/screening-recommendations.htm I agree it's right to be skeptica…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 09:25 PM
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Did you mean to reply to the OP instead of to my comment? As for your findings yeah I can't find much about the OP's survey in the Anglosphere either. You might have more luck looking in french language but dunno, not unthinkable that the article's writer got numbers wrong probably for clickbait value
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 08:46 PM
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Neither the OP or men were talking about mere opportunities however. I also am not planning on turning this into an omni-debate, OP's talking point is "who are these women having sex with", that's what I'm particularly addressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 07:57 PM
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Admittedly I don't have the will to go look into the raw survey data (it's publicly available to analyze in R tbf) to compile a table for the 18-24 yo cohort or so, though I don't expect the results to be heavily different. Also big error bars since the respondents of the survey skew older (visible in the no opposite sex partner last year image for 18-24 yos), and probably even more so after taking the online answers with caution going by the author's warning. Whatever skewing there is can likel…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 07:45 PM
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Here's the graph for the 2022-2023 version of NSFG, the newest one: https://nuancepill.substack.com/p/new-sex-data-has-arrived <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 07:20 PM
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Here's what they found regarding sexuality of 18-49 yo women for what it's worth <image> https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/key_statistics/s-keystat.htm#sexualorientation
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 06:18 PM
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It counts bisexual women. Bisexual men hook up a lot (with men) and would thus probably show weird things in the comparison Edit: nvm this incorrect
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 06:03 PM
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This paper https://psycnet.apa.org/fulltext/2024-78558-001.html which the author of the blog post debates
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 05:54 PM
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Is the study inside the nypost link also 200 years old
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 05:48 PM
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How many phones is he carrying
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 05:39 PM
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Yes, and yours is a tabloid. You're linking to a tabloid newspaper. What about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 05:37 PM
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Promiscuous people usually hook up with other promiscuous people. Also the distributions of male and female past sexual partners aren't heavily different. <image> Source for both the graph and the first claim: https://nuancepill.substack.com/p/the-chad-myth
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 05:30 PM
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Fair point and the OP could've used that instead of saying that "honesty is good manners, lying and sugar coating is rude"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 05:21 AM
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Had a female friend around to make the woman feel safe and convince her / Had a female friend bring her to you Damn at least 43.8% of men have female friends that have been complicit with them in committing rape (by "social coercion"?) sounds fucked Edit: also this is somehow classified as "Strategy Used by Men to Get Unwilling and Nonconsenting Women to Have Sex" Focused on a stranger to have sex with (or someone who did not know you) What? Edit2: it also has typos in the dataset, "kept touchin…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 02:25 PM
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Mom really got their noses
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 11:05 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 09:16 AM
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Yeah NGL being in the bottom 0.5% of height is bound to be way tougher than being in the bottom 20%
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 08:40 AM
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Being good at lying is a social skill. Analyzing the vibe of the group and imitating it to maintain or improve status within the group is also a social skill, saying whatever without caring about how it'll go takes no skill. Your post seems to be more about pet peeves of yours rather than anything that could be defined as social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 08:22 AM
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Creative writing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 12:36 PM
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Moral of the story: if you got a big dick wear tight pants
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 07:25 PM
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https://www.lrt.lt/en/news-in-english/19/2884198/state-sponsored-discos-lithuania-eyes-ways-to-get-people-to-have-more-children <image> According to Minister Zailskienė, young people are not starting families because they struggle to find partners – they lack opportunities to meet. “We are even talking about bringing back traditional discos, where older people now happily go dancing, and organising something similar for young people so they can at least meet,” she says. “It may sound like a joke…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 04:24 PM
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Out of the studies you link, none are comparing clitoral orgasms with vaginal orgasms. The Brody & Costa ones talk specifically about coital sex frequency Vs non coital sex frequency Vs masturbation frequency. Klapilová et al looks only at vaginal orgasms in isolation. And the other two studies aren't related to types of orgasm EDIT: Actually Brody & Costa 2012 references previous research of theirs before 2009 which did strongly hint at vaginal orgasm > clitoral orgasm? But simultaneously with …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 11:12 PM
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What are their stats? I remember the split in the US being 70% or so of middle aged men being bio fathers compared to 80% of women, is it more pronounced in Sweden?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 08:24 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 06:25 PM
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I do agree that fictional porn isn't unethical. You could make "drug supplier" arguments especially with porn depicting unethical acts but I personally disagree. And I don't think antiporn subs are representative of the average opinion in at least Western countries
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 06:25 PM
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I think animated porn and some kinds of fictional porn can be often unhealthier for the consumer even if it's easy to create ethically. You can draw whatever, with dubious link to reality, and then feed fetishes from those that can't be satisfied with real sex. Live action porn has more limitations
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 05:28 PM
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Where should honesty begin? You could've already communicated from the start that there exist possible situations in which you'll feel the need to commit adultery and that if it happens you will. It protects them from the trauma of getting blindsided by it, and also establishes trust that you won't do it behind their back.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 09:40 AM
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Circumference was the only significant predictor of Overall Popularity (B = −0.15, p = .02), indicating that products with a smaller circumference were preferred. The top 5 most popular products in our sample had an average circumference of 4.85 inches. Insertable length was not a significant predictor of popularity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 08:58 PM
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Actually, got access to the first study <image> Do these girth sizes for vaginal dildos back up your priors?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 08:46 PM
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The later study explicitly says Only products listed under the category Dildo were included in the study [...] Of these, 62 were excluded from analysis. Exclusions included products which were categorized as dildos but were primarily used as “packers,” which are designed for transgender males to place inside their underwear, rather than for use as a sexual toy (Cole, Citation2018). Also excluded were very long double-ended dildos where insertable length could not be determined, vaginally inserta…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 08:43 PM
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What's your opinion on these studies? https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25631708/ https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/36749311/ Even from what I can google from more sources the most popular dildo girth sizes seem surprisingly average, with length being the less reliable stat since you can often substract as much length as you want by grabbing the dildo further from the base
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 08:32 PM
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FWIW this study says the average preferred height gap by women is 21cm or 8.3 inches (which would be her being at your upper chest more or less) https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886913000020
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 07:27 AM
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All the anecdotes you use to argue your point are filtered through a great deal of confirmation bias. Toxic exes = they were attracted to them due to their toxic behaviour Unattractive toxic ex = further proof she had to be drawn to him by the toxicity Unattractive toxic man who gets play = "he figured out how to generate attraction [through toxicity]" In relationships between an attractive and an uglier partner especially, it's common for insecurity by the uglier partner to manifest as toxicity…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 07:15 AM
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Why not ask him why he asked? Altho you've been here long enough to be able to form an approximate idea as to why let's be real
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:51 PM
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I used to think like this. More cynically, shy broke 20 yo guys are probably aware that they benefit most personally from "playing the long game" being socially accepted, so they got reason to back age gaps. The more average 20 yo guys are the ones who instead benefit from age gaps being taboo. So the lines aren't as set as young men Vs old men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 08:46 AM
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Know multiple people NEET and NEETlite now or in the past and that in addition to media (created by NEETs) documentaries and internet interactions, that's my takeaway. As for statistics, I imagine dividing homeless people by NEETs already yields a minority. And homeless people usually have a kind of addiction or mental illness that doesn't match the image of NEETs I know and have. I also live in a country where you get livable welfare benefits for noticeable disabilities that hamper work so not …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 01:51 PM
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Very few people at least in the first world are truly losers to the level that they'd end up in the street if they were faced with the threat of actually potentially ending up in the street. These NEETs' parents are largely bad parents and enabling their behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 12:57 PM
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<image> https://theonion.com/women-now-empowered-by-everything-a-woman-does-1819566746/
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 12:36 PM
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Lol. Knew nothing about this but if it is real it confirms my priors so hard
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 12:30 PM
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Yeah being turned on gives me desire but it doesn't by itself transform it into further action like fantasizing. If I see a stimulus like a hot woman I might be turned on a bit but unless I begin fantasizing or checking her out I won't get to the point of having an erection. The horniness isbcontained in my case by not interacting with the stimulus. Goonerbrain is internet slang, I think the etymology of gooner + brain-ed is self explanatory lol I already said what I meant by it But I think if I…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 12:14 PM
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How could it be otherwise? Of course, I have my tastes. But isn't that the essence of attraction: I see something and it immediately turns me on? At least personally I have a distinction between being turned on and sexually fantasizing. The later is a completely conscious and voluntary action. What does "normal" mean? At 38, I don't understand what the downside of masturbation is. Not masturbating doesn't make me more outgoing or socially active. Goonerbrain is thought patterns that cause you to…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:31 AM
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You definitely seem like you have a higher libido than average. It's abnormal in the sense that you're statistically rare, though it might be natural rather than a sign of something sinister like "goonerbrain" necessarily. When you see a hot woman in the street does your mind jump to sex fantasies almost involuntarily? I've read anecdotes from men that they had this kind of "goonerbrain" and after addressing these thought patterns their libido became more normal, though can't say if this is your…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:58 AM
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The real deadline in this context should be when trust in his honesty regarding his desires and intentions has been established. Yes it's based on trauma and/or paranoia (which cause lack of trust) but seems reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 02:09 PM
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Can you share them? Would've been interesting to have them in your main post
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 09:47 AM
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Are age gap relationships equally as successful as non-age gap ones right until the guy turns into a dependent in your experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 07:16 AM
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Is this facial attractiveness or bone structure? Or is it just that jacked healthy people have better immune systems?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 10:54 AM
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You can't go wrong using the phone just for logistics until then
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 06:05 PM
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Having this thread and the "if they play hard to get then they ain't into you" thread next to each other is comedic
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 05:08 PM
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Damn we have a very powerful keyboard warrior right here. Thank you for stopping the genocidal RSF militias through your twitter posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:51 AM
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Are you fighting against the genocide happening right now in Darfur? Are you fighting against the illegal Rwandan invasion of the Congo happening right now? Are you fighting against China's crackdown of democracy in Hong Kong? Are you fighting against the human rights abuses committed by the Saudi monarchy? If being informed means a duty to fight, I'm sorry to tell you that you'll be morally failing as of right now by any interpretation of your previous words.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:45 AM
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My comment perfectly addresses your point. "not all men" in this context = abdication of moral responsibility. It claims that a section of men are neither perpetrators nor complicit. Meanwhile, you: If you want to cry "not all men" then actually care and condemn rape. Don't just say "not all men" and become complicit. Which I address with my above comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:36 AM
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I don't think the moral crusading attitude you exhibit throughout the comments gets applied evenly or fairly. If you're trying to say that silence and lack of activism is equivalent to complicity, even for an event that's happened halfway across the globe, committed by or affecting no one you know, then you don't have clean hands either. As an average first world layperson, your ability to influence these events, and thus your moral duty and responsibility to answer for them, are both limited, u…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:29 AM
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Respectfully speaking from your history on this sub you sound mentally ill, probably some sort of obsessive compulsive disorder, and you should look into that. Unironically might help you getting laid if it interferes with your social functioning
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 07:09 PM
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It's been fallen off since the 2020 dem primaries at minimum
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 12:19 PM
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The sub is the same as it has ever been. What period are you comparing it to? 2015 r/badeconomics spinoff era?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 08:16 AM
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Sadly looking into it further TehranDispatch seems like very much not a legit source at all and they're the only ones that came up with this
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:29 PM
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https://tehrandispatch.com/article-supreme-leader-looksmaxxing <image> Among the devices recovered from the Supreme Leader's personal quarters was a tablet registered to a pseudonymous account with an extensive viewing history on Kick, the American livestreaming platform. The account's most-watched content, logged over a period of approximately fourteen months, belonged almost entirely to Braden Peters — the American influencer known online as Clavicular. The account, created in the autumn of 20…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:01 PM
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Both the desert and swamp analogies do at least acknowledge that perfect information is rare in dating and you often don't have an array of choices cleanly categorized, displayed and with all relevant information in the back of the package. Dismissing that fact will lead to an inaccurate analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 02:53 PM
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For balance I petition the mods to ban keyboardslop and phonetapslop from the daily thread
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 12:09 PM
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Just being in an environment doesn't make your offspring genetically become adapted to that environment. The correct evopsych explanation would be that Men died when conquered regardless of how good they fit in (thus no evolutionary push towards fitting better) Women who didn't fit died while women who did survived and reproduced Or you can say that women were already adapted towards better fitting beforehand, but then you don't give an explanation for that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 10:18 AM
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We already know that reality is that people immorally lie due to perceived selfish benefits from lying. Do you have more concerns apart from that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 09:31 AM
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imagine Morally, which is what I'm talking about in this context, you can just respond that it's private. What you don't have is a right to impose on other people what they should care about and they shouldn't. If you respond that it's private but he pries further going detective mode in an effort to breach your privacy, that's shitty too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 07:27 AM
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Firstly, I’m genuinely baffled as to why men think they have a right to that information. Information about her past relationships and “body count” is entirely up to her whether she discloses it or not. It's up to her to disclose it or not, not to lie about it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:39 AM
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My comment was in response to gaining information about your desirability without sex. Being flirted with or not and women losing interest or not are both valuable feedback. I do not argue about what's "better", but about gaining information.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 10:31 PM
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I think "confidence" is an accurate term for what you describe. I think the better term is "uninhibited". Though otherwise, I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 03:21 PM
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I do not think it's backed by science that conservative men are disproportionately likely to be sexually sadistic. If anything, a lot of conservative men can be into femdom because they see being dominated by someone they consider 'inferior' especially arousing. I also do not think it's common for men to 'choose' their ideology based on their fetishes. The idea that "dom" men are attracted to conservatism would imply that thus, whoever's left is more likely to be subby, and that doesn't really m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 03:04 PM
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I can't help but think it's likely heavily ironic she's complaining about men's looks standards when seemingly dating/pursuing the kind of men that reject her due to looks
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 02:21 PM
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Lol. You can listen to that lecture, it asserts straight men can be that way. I read sometime ago that you also got a femdom fetish so that might play into that along with bi-curiosity
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 12:56 PM
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Girldick is a common fetish for men and I even remember this lecture on the subject suggesting penises themselves frequently do not ellicit sexual disgust in straight men and maybe even the reverse, which contributes to the former. Here's the lecture by a sexuality researcher: https://youtu.be/p-A8GvUehq4?is=vDMWF_RScahYQdnx
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 12:27 PM
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It's this thing https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pathways_(video_game)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 06:25 PM
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Mb
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:59 PM
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Nah big boobs make you a walking sex doll, only small boobied women are real people /s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:54 PM
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Women often don't respect men below them in social status and have a high aversion to hypogamy. Thought this was RP 101
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:53 PM
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I have to eventually play the racist goth girl game they made
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:45 PM
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How many of these points your genuine thoughts and how many are arguing from a sort of devil's advocate position to poke holes at pro-sex work feminists' logic?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 02:57 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/719E0GVMLN
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 02:38 PM
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I think it's probably the most fitting term in the English dictionary for this, taking inspiration from the frequently used "self-blame"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 06:03 PM
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I repeat: Within this context failing can be merely defined as a positive experience that she misses out on due to "not being wired that way", so to speak. This is not casting negative judgement on anyone for not being into someone in particular. It's reframing, "externalizing" the cause of someone not being into you. The original/default state of mind is that "you are not good enough, you're failing to fit other people's standards" (self-blame). The flipped version is "there's nothing wrong wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 05:49 PM
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All good
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 03:33 PM
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I think you have my positions mistaken. Reread my comment, the articles I link and the surrounding context
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 03:26 PM
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Did you respond to the right comment? Which meta analysis in the article I linked did I ignore
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 03:24 PM
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Lol. Admittedly I'm probably steelmanning OP a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 01:17 PM
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Within this context failing can be merely defined as a positive experience that she misses out on due to "not being wired that way", so to speak. I think having more sexual/romantic options is generally positive for both genders. Though we could get into transhumanist arguments and that maybe attraction is a failure in and on itself, though I think that's outside the scope of this conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 12:59 PM
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Is he failing to attract women? Or are women failing to be attracted to him? That's what I interpret the OP is saying, leaving aside the connotations of the specific wording
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 12:43 PM
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Largely agree "Most women have preferences I don't fit in" / "I'm failing to attract women" Is probably a healthier frame of mind in many cases than "I do not fit into most women's preferences" / "Women are failing to be attracted to me" Excessive internalization can be bad for mental health, and in such a scenario like romance and dating where the metrics of "success" are more biological than logical, it's worth philosophically asking if actually women are the ones who are missing out on you du…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 12:39 PM
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Its numbers are backed by more prestigious surveys like NSFG and GSS mentioned in the article and in the image. It's mentioned at the top of the article because it's the dataset inspected by the study that has most explicitly looked into this issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 12:26 PM
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graphs and data The correlation between lifetime sexual partner count and height is insignificant, at 0.04 <image> Source and more graphs here: https://nuancepill.substack.com/p/height-and-sexual-success Also, the stat you're thinking about percentage of men filtered out by height on apps is likely fake: https://nuancepill.substack.com/p/the-bumble-height-filter-graph-and-heights-effect-on-male-celibacy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 12:08 PM
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There's ironically likely more communication breakdowns around this issue from both sides. Getting mad at your failure to understand probably carries unfair assumptions, like that you're being a lazy partner that doesn't put effort into understanding her. There might be nothing further from the truth. Some people might be fairly unexpressive and closed off and not cognizant of it, others might be simply bad at this even though they strive to be good partners. Sometimes the challenges might be be…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 01:10 AM
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A lot of what we actually attribute to women isn't communication, it's emotional expression. And those are not the same thing. You will absolutely know when a woman is angry. What you will almost never know is why. The expectation becomes "you should already know," which may or may not be true but here's the real issue: that belief functions as a permission slip to stop communicating altogether. If you're convinced the other person should know, you never have to actually say it. Another question…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 12:42 AM
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What's your thoughts on children born from incest OP? Seeing as your brother is like 99.95% genetically similar to you, just a bit more than a random stranger, it seems that people against inbreeding don't understand genetics
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 09:09 PM
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Pants too high waisted imo. Some girls kinda look good in high waisted pants, men not so much
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 03:58 PM
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Please read comments past the first sentence before spewing irrelevant rants and hitting "send".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:54 PM
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MGTOW is certainly not endorsing of pity parties nor putting pussy on a pedestal. Certain sectors absolutely cast judgement on your frame of mind if it's so dependent on women still. Your post is only addressed at a certain percentage of bluepill (the one that doesn't believe chronic singleness is essentially a disease you should actively avoid and that it makes you a freak weirdo) and doesn't address people in other pills who don't see "how sad should you be about having no women" as blue=littl…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 09:40 AM
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Your post feels jumbled. The title starts out talking about mere feelings (being upset). But you end up arguing regarding the morality of prostitution, and adding in the line "it is never immoral to deal with pain however they can". Which of the two do you want to argue? Also do you feel as virulently towards redpill MGTOWs and blackpill "women aren't worth it if you're sub5" as towards bluepill "just cope being single"? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 09:19 AM
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Sadly nothing stopping them from fucking men but biology stopping them from pp getting big 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 08:52 AM
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Depends on the mood, often some men wish they were gay
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 08:36 AM
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I feel there's being a shift in gender war spaces away from citing lesbian bed death and divorce rates and that lesbianity is doomed for failure, towards putting lesbianity as sort of a wonderful ideal where female pickiness doesn't exist and women are into everyone. Away from going on the offensive and towards sympathy-drawing pity farming and how worse guys have it than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 08:00 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 01:43 PM
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edit: they don't do that to flirt or to hope of gaining a relationship out of it. Those guys are either already in a relationship or not ineterested in me. I'm just at a loss as to why they act this way ??? They might condescendingly believe you to be incompetent partly due to your gender, but reading the examples you give I feel more or less as inclined to believe that you are the one mistaking (probably obsequious?) gestures of kindness for patronising condescension. Idk what's your problem wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 01:17 PM
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True but I talk about cases where it might be heavily or completely divorced from even perceived self interest, like Leo Tolstoy or Marquis de Lafayette
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 02:21 PM
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Or they get a human to raise as a baby or open the relationship to the dog
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 02:11 PM
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Ideology does certainly not always match self interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 02:11 PM
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Wait does that mean that they practice zoophilia or slavery?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 02:08 PM
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So either Self interest (getting laid) Or Self interest (social acceptance) Is that the full list of reasons for men to adopt a certain ideology?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 02:06 PM
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IKR? The combination of not warning that day was a friend's birthday beforehand combined with the rest of contextual clues all point towards her using the guy. Find it hard to at minimum not suspect it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 01:53 PM
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If we’re expected to go to war with every country that wrongs their own people then we have a lot more countries that we should be at war with. The US is being indiscriminate in this regard, after Iran Cuba is likely going next seeing how they've recently tightened the embargo even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 01:05 PM
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Where is the cope then
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 12:49 PM
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American hegemony is FINISHED, all their middle eastern allies hate them, anti-imperialist century incoming No I'm not coping YOU are the one coping
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 12:42 PM
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The dude was likely thinking that was an Iranian pilot. That's what you'd think would've been downed on Kuwaiti soil lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 12:24 PM
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So in Rollo's world: soldiers' and policemens' votes count triple maybe you need to fulfill military service to vote? maybe women working in the military could have their vote counted? there's a bench press on the voting booth, lift as much as you can to have your vote weighted 60 years old = vote revoked in most cases oligarchs' vote counts hundredfold feminist terrorism & other forms of resistance will likely appear but it's a minor casualty the social contract hinges on the consent of 51% of …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 08:22 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 10:59 PM
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Supreme leader of Iran Ali Khamenei was recently announced dead by Trump. Let's remember him with some of his hottest tweets: Women & men have different roles in the family. For example, the man is responsible for the family's expenses, while the woman is responsible for childbearing. This doesn’t imply superiority. They’re different merits, & the rights of men & women aren’t calculated based on these. https://x.com/khamenei_ir/status/1869369780098195595 "A woman is a delicate flower and not a h…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 10:35 PM
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Exact same opinion as tardigrade_disco. I'll also add that the comparison kinda doesn't scale well. Porn of women tends to spread a lot further among men than porn of men among women or among anyone really. Jealousy and all can be there but chances are nobody ever will find out her bf did porn, which is a different calculus from the one men make in response to these scenarios
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 10:10 PM
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Also a shower thought regarding "cope". Cope is extremely contextual and here you can basically argue any stance as cope depending on who's saying what and the purpose. "it's easier to score if it's with ugly women? Nice cope. Every other guy is thinking the same and has the same strategy. You'll have as much competition with uglier women as with hotter ones" "Cope, uglier women are way easier to score with and if you can't even do that there's something wrong with you" I say this because I foun…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 09:44 PM
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Hot women will in many contexts be less likely to be hit on by men who feel she's out of their league Going a step further, there sometimes is the perception that uglier women are easier, ironically leading men towards hitting on uglier women more than hotter ones in certain contexts Too intimidating/resting bitch face seems like it will obviously lower the chances of approaching to me. Men will be less likely to approach if they believe they'll be put down, humiliated, or the experience will be…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 09:06 PM
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diametric opposition opinion1 opinion2 Did I not explain myself correctly?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 12:03 PM
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I find these diametric opposition between these two age gap discourse talking points interesting: opinion1: There's no actual power imbalance in age gap relationships, so that's not a valid argument against them. men do lower in value as they age. Young women are above old guys' league, and old guys in relationships with younger women are paying for it one way or the other. They need to pay in ways that younger men wouldn't need to with younger women, or in ways older men wouldn't need to with o…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 09:14 AM
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the 1964 Louisiana literacy test
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 09:04 PM
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True but the age things got broken at least once, Arvis from Fire Emblem 4 is a morally gray-ish (for reference, Edelgard is very analogous to him) DILF (at least he turns so halfway through the game after a timeskip, and even before it he looks believably 30ish) and markedly more attractive than the other less morally complex villains. Overall I believe the cast of FE4 was older than the usual Fire Emblem's and yet the tropes used stayed consistent Edit: Sephiram from Fire Emblem 9/10 is also r…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 08:41 PM
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The trick is to water down the definition of "homo" to stuff like "I don't feel my masculinity threatened for deeming a conventionally attractive man attractive"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 04:08 PM
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Hell you barely need to be holed in a trench. Just spending the night in an military camp was terrible enough. 3/4 of napoleonic soldiers' deaths in the Peninsular war are estimated to be from disease, and the weather was mostly fine
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 04:01 PM
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Usually disease, exposure and starvation have made the majority of deaths in most pre-contemporaneous age wars. Yeah, fielding big armies with old technology and medicine was hard
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 03:53 PM
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Something related to this thread I've been thinking recently is how media frequently uses beauty as a shorthand to communicate morality and the extent they play around with this. Plenty of people want to see the hot guys win and the ugly guys lose, and it's pretty simple to do that. But many writers go a step beyond that. The seem self aware of the consequent common association that beauty=good, and use that to visually communicate more abstract ideas. Specially in anime/cartoon media, you can t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 03:39 PM
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It's worth noting that neither of your sources are unbiased. The former comes admittedly from a hair transplant clinics website. The later is a bit vaguer in the article ("men's health platform"), but turns out comes from a German hair loss company https://www.myspring.com/ It's worth being skeptic about companies publishing research that validates the products they themselves sell
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 01:50 PM
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A lolbertarian quoting two statements and addressing the substance of neither? Must be tuesday
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 01:15 PM
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You demonstrate very little knowledge about what marriage means though. All your statements on how the government benefits are either simply wrong or at most maybe US specific. You usually are subject to whatever corrupt or just laws it levies against you just by existing there without signing anything. Taxes, inheritance, children taken away, everything against you is already there by default and if it somehow isn't it can be applied at any moment. You talk as if marriage is a deal with the dev…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 12:31 PM
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Another reason other commenters haven't brought up yet is that marriage protects homemakers. Despite its usefulness it is poorly regarded in the job market, so there's a heavy opportunity cost to being a homemaker when you could've spent those 20 years grinding a more high paying career and skills. In case of break up you get completely shafted and might even end up destitute, to the point of leading to warped incentives where homemakers in bad relationships see it in their best interest to stay…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 07:45 AM
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If your comment didn't carry the implication that not being hit on provides no information on your general level of desirability, it changes nothing about mine either
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 08:26 AM
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Is "hivemind" here just an alternative term to refer to cultural influences?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 10:46 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 09:26 PM
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He can experience being desired for example by having casual sex with a drunk 3/10, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 09:14 PM
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"heavily hint" is a very charitable wording. I copypaste these again: RP says to remove covert contracts entirely yet they are condemned for it. On one hand BP will say "she doesn't owe you anything, her body her choice", yet they still won't emphasize splitting the bill, there is no feminist push to have women cover their own costs, they are by and large, silent in that regard. Pretty much all of TRP community seeks to remove covert contracts, even though in many ways it could be used in their …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 02:41 PM
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Thats not an example, you're just defining what a covert contract is. Read the other paragraphs. When did I bring up paying for sex? Men paying for dates under the idea that will make the woman owe them sex. not from the perspective of mainstream TRP, since majority of TRP is men. Yes, if that were the case, where long term they could still benefit in those relationships. Its not a moral position. Whereas feminism DOES have a moral position, its an ideology, they don't see covert contracts as mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 10:33 AM
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An example of covert contract is someone giving someone else a favor expecting that it will make them reciprocate back in an expected manner, and if they don't, resentment grows. Someone telling you that your wife will fuck you if you do choreplay is neither a covert contract nor inculcating a covert contract. Your wife telling you that she will fuck you if you do choreplay is not a covert contract, it's a normal contract done in the open. You doing chores under the hopes that it will make your …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 12:16 PM
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When did I say women are personally responsible Here: "BP/Feminism does not even push that level of transparency, they don't say that women should be explicit about their intentions with the man, and offer to cover the bills if they aren't willing to have sex with them. " You are arguing that women should take preemptive action in dispelling possible covert contracts the man has regarding paying for sex. I'm arguing that's an unreasonable moral standard. You don't understand what a "covert contr…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 05:43 AM
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"do x to get y" Y is not provided despite X having been done It seems to me like fraud/lying/bad advice is totally correct term for this situation. Covert contract might be at most what is inculcated into you making you think doing X to Z Will make Z give you Y despite Z having no idea you were under this impression (the advice-giver inculcated a covert contract into you, but is not engaging in a covert contract themselves). But even then that use of language is dubious due to what's already sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 02:38 PM
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And why use "covert contract" instead of lying or fraud, way better terms for when a deal is explicitly agreed on but is then broken?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 02:25 PM
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No More Mr Nice Guy is at its core a self help book inviting to self reflection for your own doormat behaviors. That is the context where the term 'covert contract' is brought up, as the Nice Guy actively hides his desires and expectations in large part to avoid confrontation and to the benefit of other people, allowing resentment to build up, and relies on covert contracts rather than open communication. Upholding covert contracts as also "when your wife goes back on her wor" goes completely ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 02:16 PM
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No More Mr Nice Guy is at its core a self help book inviting to self reflection for your own doormat behaviors. That is the context where the term 'covert contract' is brought up, as the Nice Guy actively hides his desires and expectations in large part to avoid confrontation and to the benefit of other people, allowing resentment to build up, and relies on covert contracts rather than open communication. Upholding covert contracts as also "when your wife goes back on her word" goes completely a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 02:15 PM
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In No More Mr Nice Guy covert contracts are contracts that have not been verbalized and that one party just assumes that they exist while the other party is unaware of the existence of such contract, not fraudulent contracts. What you're describing about hiding terms is fraud or a breach or contract, not a covert contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 12:59 PM
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No, that is not the meaning of covert contract. Please read No More Mr Nice Guy by Robert Glover instead of using buzzwords for behaviors you don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:32 AM
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That is a contract in the open, not a covert contract
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:29 AM
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No, what they say is "doing X FOR HER will make you more attractive TO HER, enough to get sex", e.g. with choreplay, thats the whole point why they're comparing men who do chores vs. how much sex they get. Its not, men who do chores (including single men) are more attractive to women in general. Its framed as a deal between two parties, thats the foundation of a contract. I think you're heavily expanding definitions to fit your framing. The use of "to her" and "for her" do not meaningfully turn …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:27 AM
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I think it's completely okay to not append advice with "you're not entitled to women stop thinking women re slot machines that you put X and give you Y back like videogame NPC's" unless the other party has insinuated they think that. It's not an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:14 AM
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You say it throughout your post. A BP/Feminist mantra is "she doesn't owe you anything, her body her choice". It is an extremely explicit rejection of the idea that actions will result in rewards. I think you fail to establish how BP/Feminists meaningfully inculcate covert contracts to their benefit in spite of that. When BP/feminists say "doing X will make you more attractive" but append it with "she still doesn't owe you anything", that is not a covert contract. They might be giving hurtful ad…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 08:23 AM
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No, I do not think the same rules apply. For starters, if a person makes an agreement for which they know they might not be able to hold their end of the deal and doesn't communicate this, that's a failure in their part. That diverges heavily for how the term is supposed to be used. I'm not advocating for chore charts, just arguing why they aren't covert contracts. I'll make a top level comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 07:45 AM
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The definition of covert contract doesn't hinge on whether there exists evidence that following the contract is beneficial for you. That would mean a scam/fraud, not a covert contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 07:28 AM
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Chore charts are still covert contracts because they are still not obligated, they can say after the fact that they aren't in the mood anymore. I think you're using an extremely extended definition of "covert contract" with which it loses its meaning. Pretty sure the book No More Mr Nice Guy uses a different definition of covert contract apart from "an established agreement where at least one of the persons isn't physically forced to hold their end of the deal or is capable of breaking it/retrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 07:27 AM
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I agree that ability to get casual sex is a marker of attractiveness but disagree on your interpretation of OP's argument. I think it's partly because you might not have context on his history, he talks frequently about his complex on casual sex in the daily thread and n count thread and others. With that extra context I'm pretty sure that I'm addressing the point that OP both believes and is making.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 08:19 AM
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I think you are making in your head a different argument from the one OP is making so that my argument loses against it. Again: reread the title of the post. "Casual sex is the only way to know you're desirable as a man". That is what I'm arguing against. Maybe you mean that any other marker of desirability is just a "submarker" that points towards how much casual sex you can have, so that casual sex ends up being the ultimate metric? But that's convoluted logic as those other markers of desirab…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 07:22 AM
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The purpose of the scenario is to show a man who's had 0 casual sex (religious) who, despite this, is understood to be desirable (hot gf, is hit on by other women). Taking into account the title of OP's thread, it is enough to refute his argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 12:37 AM
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I think flaking is usually more about waning/fluctuating/middling interest than fake flirting, that it usually manifests in more ways beside rejecting sleeping with you while otherwise flirting, and that getting flaky interest already gives information about your general desirability
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 09:57 PM
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Do you find fake flirting that common?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 09:49 PM
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Do you mean that she's way above Milo Yiannopoulos' league?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 09:44 PM
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<image> Can you explain us what source is "Similarweb.com"?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 03:01 PM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 02:59 PM
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FYI, pretty sure the link you use for gender ratios is a badly sourced AI slop site with many of the stats made up. I know because I tried looking up dating app statistics some time ago, but it seems that most the stuff online is garbage data. Also pretty sure Tinder USA is not the worst region and that second and third world places like India are worse. Though yes, seems like 65-35 or so is the most common stat for the USA. For reference, The Economist claims 84% of dating app users are men htt…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 02:36 PM
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Is a man who has casual sex with drunk 3/10s and especially under specific contexts/circumstances likely more desirable than a trad guy who refuses casual sex for religious reasons and is married to his high school 8/10 crush, and is frequently hit on by other women of similar caliber? Apart from that, I find the idea of being unable of gauging whether a woman is attracted to you without any other metric apart from the act of having no strings attached sex heavily autistic. I agree with the othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 12:58 PM
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Femcels will almost always have a higher component of standardscel compared to incels regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:54 PM
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Extra-internalised misogyny 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:51 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 06:18 PM
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PDD-NOS nowadays falls midway between high and low functioning. The real meat is in the studies of the blogpost which are largely over high-functioning autists, who for reference are 50% or so of autism diagnoses and likely higher when accounting for not officially diagnosed autists. Anecdotically, autist and autist-like men struggle significantly more and also face>height to begin with. You can also dive on the blog as it has a bunch of stuff on height both in isolation and also vs other factor…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 05:49 PM
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Even being a high functioning autist is a massive disadvantage. https://nuancepill.substack.com/p/the-autism-pill
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 05:06 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 04:58 PM
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He's autistic, which from all data available on the subject, is a way bigger factor than anything regarding height.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 04:55 PM
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Ironic comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 04:53 PM
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The conflict I am talking about is not just any old conflict. This type of conflict I've listed in the OP involves toxic people who are better off avoided entirely. Engaging them at all is defeat. If so okay and understandable but for the record I don't consider "wanting her partner to be "her rock"" a valid definition of toxic for the context I'm talking about. That quality doesn't imply neither starting lots of conflict nor only tolerating appeasement and capitulation whenever conflict appears…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 07:22 AM
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I will reformulate my comment since it seems I wasn't clear enough: there's more methods of dealing with conflict apart from capitulation and appeasement, which is the category to which the 4 you listed there belong to. Before simply avoiding any potential conflict in the first place by avoiding putting yourself in situations where it can arise, by going MGTOW, it'd do you better to learn how to better deal with conflict. This is about how hypocritical women are when they talk about mankeeping. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 07:00 AM
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A lot of what men do emotionally is about preventing blow-ups during courtship: choosing not to argue with her, letting things slide, absorbing accusations without defending themselves, and staying quiet to keep the peace. Failure to do so reliably provokes women and endangers the relationship even as women demand that men be more emotionally open. This statement shows that your own meager self-respect and conflict resolution skills are causing you stress whenever any of these situation arise, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 05:47 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 06:59 PM
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Subredditdrama having a field day
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 06:37 PM
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Is this a ChatGPT-generated copypasta about US democrats but with "democrats" changed with "bluepill"? This does not fit the subreddit.
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All qualities mentioned there have dubious heritability, ironically confidence might be the most heritable trait out of the 4 following the other commenters' logic. Overall the girl's supposed strategy is nonsense, a beta nice guy will raise his hot kid like a beta nice guy to end up a hot beta nice guy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 04:24 PM
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That would still beg the question: would anyone else have been as successful as him when put in his shoes?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 11:48 AM
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my epstein take that yall aren't ready for is that he was, in fact, an incredibly charismatic and likeable guy. you don't get on a first name basis with 70% of the world's wealth without having that. Sure, you can call everyone who ever associated with him a poor judge of character, but the fact is that none of them (apart from maybe prince andrew i guess) would have been willing to take a photograph with him if they had an inkling of what he was up to (at least in terms of the, uh, extensive do…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 11:28 AM
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Do you mean your perception comes from what your Instagram/Tiktok/twitter algorithm show you based on your tastes? That's even more insular than Reddit echo chambers, ofc you'll only see stories where the guy feels indignant and shares it with other men From my part on IRL I know one open relationship trainwreck story but didn't involve either stereotype
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 02:06 PM
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I'm not going to put more effort proving the stereotype. I browsed by top in order to especifically look for old posts that I remember to help with the search. Yes it's a repost subreddit, which means it pulls from an array of other subs. I'll just say I'm surprised you came to the opposite belief on how open relationship trainwreck stories on Reddit usually go
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:49 PM
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Bro those are the first ten that match the stereotype I saw scrolling from All Time Top. I'm not compiling a database of every single post on the sub lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:31 PM
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Only 1 and 3 involve love and whether love was "a change of the situation" is dubious in both. Regardless, here's two more stories then to replace those two https://np.reddit.com/r/openmarriageregret/s/tyfufus9q6 https://np.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/s/WNrqpnFgjw
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:29 PM
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Ten examples 1 https://np.reddit.com/r/openmarriageregret/s/TV2JCGtEkC 2 https://np.reddit.com/r/openmarriageregret/s/VM77l3J2tf 3 https://np.reddit.com/r/openmarriageregret/s/pqHXOImtey 4 https://np.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/s/B2mnZ6SavR 5 https://np.reddit.com/r/openmarriageregret/s/7yKomCmHDO 6 https://np.reddit.com/r/openmarriageregret/s/HIwBVzkxK8 7 https://np.reddit.com/r/openmarriageregret/s/Uxer4GLI2C 8 https://np.reddit.com/r/openmarriageregret/s/hyZCteiDSx 9 https://np.reddit.…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:11 PM
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The stereotype is the opposite tho r/openmarriageregret
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:48 PM
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This is the exact same shit as when (many) men propose open relationships tho. Take a stroll through r/openmarriageregret
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:44 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 10:12 PM
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Unironically I think unconsensual male genital mutilation is one of the biggest men's rights problems worldwide
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 10:12 PM
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On the other hand how does the OP learn of the event? If the gf brought it unprompted "ugggghhhh there was this pushy guy in the bar today" that wins points. Although I can also imagine a kinda negging gameplaying angle "look how in demand I am". Overall idk
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 10:07 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 10:00 PM
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"Ok so before I say this it didnt really bother me at first but talking to my co-worker kind of made my eyes open. My gf and i have been dating for 3 years, last night gf went out with her gfs to a bar, ofc she got hit on which I knew would happen but the way she went about telling him no made me kind of second guess. So this guy kept asking her to go out and she said no she had a bf, but then he was like "well let's be friends" and she kept saying no till one point she said "ok we can be friend…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 09:59 PM
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AFAIK the studies over stretched measures CalcSD uses are only featured in the dataset tab for the 'flaccid stretched length' number. They're not actually used in the erect penis length averages. You can check this out in the western dataset: the number of erection length measures is listed at only 341, and the stretched length at 3028, separately, hinting the later are neither being piled up with nor used to calculate the former. What newer reliable studies especifically on erection length are …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 08:52 PM
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<image> Is Elon proof that the NTpill isn't real
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:51 PM
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<image> Politicians should be held accountable to their campaign promises, not to people's wishful thinking of them. They're free to stop voting for that politician but for it to count as a slap in the face it has to be more than "I voted for you, now you've got to change your programme to what I want".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:31 PM
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Someone being valued for something apart from "who they are" is not objectification. Someone being valued for something that "isn't part of who they are" does not inherently reduce someone to that value or function. It'd be way more productive rhetorically to reject bad framings instead of acquiescing to them and trying to flip them as a gotcha. Especially you use a definition of objectification that essentially brands almost any kind of social relationship or interaction as objectifying. Does a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:05 PM
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Even better, I found this writeup addressing the exact paper he uses to claim dick sizes have increased in the last decades and that the global average is now 6 inches: https://www.cremieux.xyz/p/no-penises-havent-gotten-longer
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 11:52 PM
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Do you have gripes with the sources https://calcsd.info/ uses? What ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 09:11 PM
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What do you find appealing about movies on a first date? The other user essentially admitted it's a way to watch movies instead of going on a date lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 04:16 PM
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That's a good Xth idea, not a good first date idea. If you need to watch a film to get topics of conversation for a first date that usually doesn't bode well. Better to expect more time interacting with each other and establishing chemistry
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 03:34 PM
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In the context of bluepill, morally good traits are supposed to be positively correlated with sexual/dating success, while morally bad traits should do the opposite. But we aren't seeing this anywhere. This is not correct. Here's 4 studies on the effects of 'morally bad traits': https://iranarze.ir/wp-content/uploads/2016/12/5864-English.pdf https://ray.yorksj.ac.uk/id/eprint/3006/1/DT%20Face%20SS%20AAM.pdf https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886915300684 https://link.spri…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 02:05 PM
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However there's absolutely nothing on their side. 99% of the time it's anecdotes or fallacious statements. Whenever they pull out any "research" it's always some survey/self-report bs that doesn't even give a close idea on reality because of how much the participants virtue signal. Ask a person what they want in their partner, they'll say whatever society considers to be moral and good Your post betrays a line of thinking: seemingly no proof seems to be good enough for you. - Anecdotes are anecd…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 01:06 PM
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Feel like the videogame gender war is evolving, and things are trending towards women demanding their own gooner games (and to some degree being given then, there's the gacha game space that already goes back a few years, and also the recent push with this around Resident Evil Requiem is interesting) rather than demanding to stop being gooned after/"gooned after but with respect"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 10:19 AM
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Bro you read nothing from his post, you read the word "race" and then proceeded to write and post lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 04:17 PM
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He means the race of the woman
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 09:37 AM
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Probably because this is a debate sub, and 'excluding people from the debate' who would otherwise have a word to say, goes against the spirit of it, if I had to steelman it. And probably a hold-over of how blocking used to work in it's early days which I think maybe didn't actually make your comments invisible to the blocked
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:23 PM
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I also think not letting you block people you aren't currently debating with is dumb. Maybe the way blocking works has changed with time, but the current system is that your posts and your profile appear as deleted while logged in, and I only found you out because "hey why did this deleted comment get a response after it was deleted?". With this system I don't see the problem in just blocking people you aren't interested in engaging with
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:57 PM
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K thanks for telling, now that you can't block me without getting banned I'll make sure to take good care of your feed 😇
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:51 PM
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Did you block me some time ago and just recently unblocked me back? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:31 PM
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As a woman you can also often cope as a butch stone lesbian and be decently socially accepted if for some reason or another you don't want to transition despite dysphoria. Femboys, outside of very select social circles, will get you perceived as a pariah freak weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:26 PM
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Japanese visual novels already had this formula nailed down since the 90s, far from the first "twilight for guys" game, even if this one made a hit with a more normie demographic. Now thinking about it, Doki Doki Literature Club is the last game of this kind I remember making a hit in normie audiences and that was a decade ago Both are flirty. One in a very romantic way, the other in a bitchy (but nice) push pull way. None of them are playing hard to get and they are engaging the flirt. This is …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:09 PM
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Precisely the lethal lack of self awareness of the way the problem is two-way (wtf is that use of the adjective "qualified" by the OP?) leads me to hope this is a troll, at the same time I recognize that women being more reticent than men on average to date people "below themselves" is a real theme. I think that female bitterness towards this tends to manifest more as "men are all low quality NEETs nowadays" than "muh patriarchy"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 05:21 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 01:57 PM
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Damn I didn't know being ugly makes you ovulate all month and being hot gives you permanent PMS
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 01:28 PM
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More like US college in general. Plenty of articles on the phenomenom https://archive.is/Ochm5 In the 2015 book “Date-onomics,” the business reporter Jon Birger builds the case that hookup culture has become the norm on almost all college campuses, largely because the gender ratio is so skewed. In a world in which straight men are scarce, he maintains, they control the terms of social life. That argument may seem somewhat dated given that so many students now have a wider and more fluid understa…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:22 PM
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I hope this is a troll post. Talking points straight out of the bunch of college gender ratio articles, and "patriarchy is when guys my status don't pick me and I'm forced to pick poorer guys"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:19 PM
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I also agree with your comment. Mine was mostly directed at this chunk: Your mindset must be that you like her (or love her) but you must never need her. Tell her what she means to you and that you want her in your life, but [...]
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 02:51 PM
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I largely agree. I notice the redpill framing in some statements, but regarding actionable advice this is nearly completely sound. I only have one issue: If she wants to break up, do not cry or beg. Your mindset must be that you like her (or love her) but you must never need her. Tell her what she means to you and that you want her in your life, but if she's dead set on leaving, let her go. You must always be ready to walk away from the girl, if the relationship no longer satisfies you. And not …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 02:34 PM
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In my social circles I've totally heard about men being dumped explicitly for not being sexually forward enough on early dating. That said I don't think sex is required to establish chemistry and believe heavy flirting can do the same thing, which is what I believe many people of both genders expect even if not necessarily first date sex
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 09:59 AM
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I still remember an ocassion where someone accused Lillith of being misandrist and she responded "no I'm not, prove it showing me a statement of mine that's misandrist". I read some of her posts from time to time, but unironicallly I haven't seen or don't remember to this date one self-contained statement of her that is explicitly misandrist. To the degree that she is, it's something that shows more in her general belief system and perceptions than any individual statement interestingly
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 10:16 PM
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What kinda answer was she expecting? It feels impossible not to take it as a shit test and respond accordingly
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 09:37 PM
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less tracking
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 08:13 PM
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The benefit of working on site is you can be taking a giant 20 minutes shit and still be getting paid hourly
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 08:03 PM
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Arguably true but such is the contradiction when wanting the feeling of romance despite also being fearful of commitment and/or unwilling to put the necessary emotional investment. Or more cynically he just ain't that into you/doesn't want monogamy with you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 07:51 PM
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And they won. Class war in the US as part of politics is pretty much over <image> https://edition.cnn.com/election/2024/exit-polls/national-results/general/president/0
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 07:42 PM
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I assume "causal" is a misspelling of casual (sexual relationship). Adding the adjective "consistent", I imagine it means he wants a higher degree of commitment than a typical casual relationship but still not a full blown relationship (i.e. 'situationship'). What to do with this info: your call
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 07:37 PM
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I largely disagree. "desire to be in control": is something that can be attributed to more or less any political faction by virtue of being a political faction "lack of care about consent and ethics": I think many MAGA supporters do actually have strong moral codes, even if arguably misguided. For a cool article on how many MAGA supporters reconcile their leader's immorality with it, take a read: https://www.vox.com/identities/2018/3/5/16796892/trump-cyrus-christian-right-bible-cbn-evangelical-p…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 05:54 PM
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Glad to have you back!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 05:36 PM
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It's ok. Whenever you want to retire just let your rebels topple you and have ready a nice cozy apartment on your benefactor superpower where to spend the rest of your days playing videogames in and working as an ophthalmologist
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 05:11 PM
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I'm talking about morality mostly from a utilitarian perspective though. Do you agree or disagree that those wartime measures are worth it to topple a slaver oligarchy? If then, I guess your point is that for your tax dollars to be worth it going abroad they better be to support heaven on Earth versus literally Satan, whereas in situations where there's more self interest involved you can more enthusiastically merely back the lesser evil?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 04:47 PM
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The US suspended habeas corpus, detained political opponents, censored the press, enacted martial law in border areas, etc. during the civil war. Despite that, I'd say there was very much a point in them doing what was needed to stop the confederates, and that the US' wartime measures aren't reflective of the US' overall values
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 04:25 PM
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TIL that "see no evil, hear no evil, speak no evil" is a literal, serious confucian/buddhist moral teaching about the value of directly disengaging yourself from other people's immorality. All this time I thought it was a critique of people who turn a blind eye to immorality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 03:57 PM
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Maybe you become so embedded with pornsickness you develop pornimmunity
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 03:02 PM
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I assume you have wide hips in general? Yeah that's killer if so, you'll probably get greater returns out of bulking up compared to most men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 02:47 PM
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You too used to be pornsick? It's an epidemic
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 02:13 PM
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Damn it's that easy huh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 02:10 PM
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Is your bf pornsick
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 02:07 PM
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"A woman in a relationship wants to see you happy" is a good argument for relationships for men, unlike "women are more sexually satisfied in relationships"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 01:44 PM
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This is not about whether good sex means more fucking (obviously true). My point was that as described, the 'good' in being a relationship guy was lifting his ego and benefitting other people apart from him, and whether women have more pleasurable sex with him by virtue of being in a relationship with him should not be a factor in a decision to be relationship material for someone, and thinking so suggests a toxic, people-pleaser, insecure mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 12:39 PM
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And then there's KKKaptain AmeriKKKa. Women not beating the allegations
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 11:56 AM
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I think you're talking past me. As I said in my initial comment: what does "good" mean in this context and why is it good for men? Why is the woman cumming more a good thing by itself for a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 09:11 AM
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If your argument was that relationship material guy gets more sex/benefits overall that would be a different thing, but it's not what you wrote
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 09:04 AM
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This is a very vapid definition of "good". Seemingly your arguments are 1. That you can extract more validation from selected, as you belong to a more exclusive/"better" class of men 2. That you better sexually pleasure her. Leaving aside whether these two are true, how are these "good"? Good for whom? If a man argued it was good for him I'd argue that's a toxic unhealthy mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 08:46 AM
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Monkey branching. The relationship begins dying -> she gradually tunes out, starts taking more and more with other men -> officially breaks up after finding the replacement bf. I imagine is how it went. Now this mix of inability/fear of being alone likely gets to the source of her problem
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 07:35 AM
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The relationship has run its course and it's okay to break up. Woman can have her 'hoe phase' and learn how greener the grass is so that she no longer has these doubts in her next relationship. Man can do the same or find a woman who doesn't have these doubts with him. Overall both of these people seemingly have their judgement clouded by scarcity mentality. "Soulmates" at 21 aren't real. If you've captured that lightning in a bottle with someone, you likely can do it with someone else. Neither …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 05:16 PM
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Has made interesting 'research' though sadly most of it is on a highly self selected group of people afaik. I also read her birthday gangbang blogpost. Overall interesting person and I agree with some of her takes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 05:07 PM
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They just announced another one. Why does square enix keep pumping out these games
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:39 PM
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One interesting theme from gender war discourse is women agreeing with 80/20 under specific circumstances Recently saw this video by a female gender warrior: https://youtu.be/Q3bZIcObkp0?si=x5U_zx_WIrwjwMiB She agrees with 80/20 (peddles the dodgy science that way more women than men ever reproduced, calls it "nature" and "selection", says now it's better because the ratio has "risen to 1 to 3, says "men call this hypergamy but it's literally how it works"). Why? Because the theme of conversatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 10:37 PM
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In typical wingcuck fashion they disagree with the more defensible takes of his (whether sex is a "need", whether sexual and romantic frustration are rooted in misogyny etc) and the soundbite is just what drums up support to their point This video shows they don't even need to barely misrepresent his points to already label him a 'pseudo intellectual incel': https://youtu.be/Q3bZIcObkp0?si=Wcn1SjHmwlsjAmrG
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 10:23 PM
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I don't know where the algorithm perceives me in the spectrum between incel and chad. I get both condom ads and AI gf ads sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 10:36 PM
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Thinking better I guess the survivor ship bias thing makes sense as in "it's not that men are bad, it's that the men you end up with are bad because of your shitty vetting" but if so there had to be a better way to argue this
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 04:57 PM
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Every men who steals, uses the woman only for sex, betrays here, "shows his true face" is a big claim of failed filtering. This is obviously and uncontroversially correct, what is there to debate regarding this statement?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 03:51 PM
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What makes you believe that the belief that women are good at filtering is backed by survivorship bias? That would imply that by some process, the women who are good at filtering are the ones which are most likely to be accounted for and perceived and thus people incorrectly come to the conclusion that women are good at filtering. You do not explain how this actually happens, and furthermore, it seems wrong to me at first glance, plenty of women have shitty exes stories, many women with shitty e…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 03:46 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 01:44 PM
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The archetypical incel vs chad meme does feature the virgin having a weak chin --- edit: going a step further, strong chin = good and weak chin = bad is very much ingrained in men's meme culture, even if often ironically Many famous sjw women who became viral memes in the 2010s or so were actually healthy bodyweight <image> Zelensky has also been made fun of by right wing leaning men for being short. It still hits his masculinity Idk if you're correct that men make fun of self inflicted flaws an…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 12:59 PM
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Fuck I'm hungry
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 12:41 PM
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A probably better image would have been the blue haired fat unattractive feminist stereotype
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 12:34 PM
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It is a portrait of a controversial figure being portrayed unflatteringly, inferably by someone who dislikes him
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 12:30 PM
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What food fetish? Eating food from another person's body? That seems sane enough
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 12:23 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 12:22 PM
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Thanks for sharing the substack, I saw that reposted Reddit image but was unaware of the blogpost, interesting read
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 11:51 PM
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<image> 50% of witchcraft believers should be men edit because reddit refuses to display the image: https://www.reddit.com/media?url=https%3A%2F%2Fpreview.redd.it%2Fthe-gender-balance-in-different-religions-v0-2ooovk9ty6dg1.png%3Fwidth%3D640%26crop%3Dsmart%26auto%3Dwebp%26s%3D1c11c58c89d4174906dec6d8609f76ea3a3bef6b
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 11:19 PM
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Processing img e5jaao84nsdg1... 50% of witchcraft believers should be men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 11:12 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 10:54 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 10:49 PM
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A man in a relationship has a bargaining chip to satisfy his need for sex: the ability to break up with that woman
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 10:47 PM
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That's why China gets a boost in birth rate during the year of the Dragon compared to the rest of Chinese zodiac years
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 10:45 PM
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Texting the FWB in the middle of a date? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 09:59 PM
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Male hypogamy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 01:55 PM
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r/marriedredpill is right there and don't think it agrees with being overly attentive or obsequious even in bed Though thinking better - "if he uses toys he also likely gives head and caters to her fantasies and etc" is a pretty sane take, I was reacting mostly to the dysphemistic "compliance" language
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 09:27 PM
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Men jacking off stroking it so hard they get used to that level of grip and get desensitized to vaginas that are weaker than hands
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 09:17 PM
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How is that statement red pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 09:16 PM
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Not being able to orgasm without toys is pretty much literally female death grip
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 09:12 PM
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Precisely, I deduce his gf is the kind of person who doesn't care about things that don't personally affect her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 07:03 AM
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Free markets, free trade, free people is proven and keeps proving to be the best way to maximize human prosperity and well-being, and history will keep condemning democratic socialism and other populist ideas that in the end merely leave everyone worse off
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 09:38 PM
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Have one pal that exactly echoes your sentiment. Is now getting a college degree in his early 30s because due to some serious medical problems he's been stuck on a hospital bed a way too big chunk of his life. But good news is, he's early 30s yet blends right in there lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 06:55 PM
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What's your source on female labor participation rate stagnating? This is what the south korean government says, female participation still going up, male participation down: https://www.moel.go.kr/english/resources/statistics.do Plenty of conservatives embrace left wing economics, see PiS in Poland, Peronists in Argentina, and more as of recently. You can use the left-wing coded lump of labor fallacy to justify social conservative views, does not make you not socially conservative You understan…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 06:32 PM
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Half of South Korean households are dual-income with those numbers having been increasing as of 2023 https://www.oecd.org/content/dam/oecd/en/publications/reports/2025/03/korea-s-unborn-future_1b836111/005ce8f7-en.pdf Not only that will matter in women's willingness to have kids, it will also matter in men's pushiness towards having kids and prioritizing women who want children as their partners. DPK also has made no pro-tradwife reforms to my knowledge, if anything, they've made being a working…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 03:17 PM
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South Korea is arguably among the countries with worst material conditions to raise children though. It's the top 5 country in hours worked per year behind a bunch of underdeveloped countries. It's the top 3 in other metrics of work balance ratios. Maternity leave is also currently being addressed but as of recently it's been far behind developed country averages. If there's a country where material changes could make a dent it was this one, and I think you overestimate the power of propaganda a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 02:38 PM
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Link?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 02:25 PM
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Is OffTheRedSand a trans woman and not a gay man? TIL That said, being a (fat) trans woman (that I imagine is not medically transitioning, partly because impossibility) in the middle east is extra hard mode territory, I think when leaving aside cultural factors it's not that bad for straight trans women. I'm not sure lesbian trans women have it better And being a non-medically transitioning trans woman is kinda functionally equal to being a cis man dating-wise
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 02:10 PM
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Poor countries have pitiful pensions, people's pension plan is to have your children take care of you. There's also material reasons in addition to cultural reasons for poor countries to have higher birth rates
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 02:03 PM
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In practical terms though recent DPK policy to increase birth rates has been normal centre left/improving material conditions stuff. Working culture reforms, subsidies on childcare and housing for married couples, and the like. Ragging on feminists doesn't increase birth rate, and apart from that the DPK has done nothing revolutionary as of yet like for example banning contraception (which unironically China is kinda doing, they did a targeted increase in sales taxes on contraception recently)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 02:02 PM
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Not as bad, gay MtFs can usually get some because they're into men at the end of the day, it's straight trans men the ones who often reach borderline incel territory
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 01:57 PM
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Yeah that's the first instinct in light of these news, but I don't know if gender war causes discourse about lowering birth rates, or lowering birth rates cause discourse about gender war
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 12:14 PM
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Wait my habbo girlfriend was not real???
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 12:05 PM
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Trans men tend to usually basically date other trans ppl. Know one who managed to get with a pretty cis gal, but as a straight trans man aiming for average cishet women good luck lol, they are one of the demographics who have it the hardest. You can lurk trans 4chan-adjacent spaces to get an idea of how many are doing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 11:55 AM
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https://www.taipeitimes.com/News/front/archives/2026/01/10/2003850357 <image> South Korean fertility rate has rebounded in the past two years, from 0.72 to 0.83 or so approximately, surpassing Taiwan and leaving it now in last place with a fertility rate of 0.8. Wonder what will be the gender discourse ramifications of this, honestly I have heard 0 things about the gender war in Taiwan.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 11:33 AM
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Also, gay men getting BBL's is a real thing, that ain't a thing in straight men to my knowledge
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 10:36 PM
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Do you have knowledge of the lesbian dating market? I'm saying my comment seriously. Lesbian women's attraction to women is often different from heterosexual men's attraction to women, being heavily influenced by the mechanisms through which women are often attracted to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 10:31 PM
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Lesbian and bi women do also often have height preferences in women yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 10:22 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 11:36 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 11:36 AM
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He's notorious for reposting his own old threads yes, sometimes with only the title changed, sometimes not even that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 11:10 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 11:24 PM
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Sorry, you're behind on the discourse. Now you just have to say "you have fatty energy" instead of "you're fat" and then it stops being fatphobic because spiritual fatness has nothing to do with physical fatness duh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 11:18 PM
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Ok that doesn't seem like a mental breakdown more like a public humiliation fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 10:24 PM
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If he cheats and doesn't suffer a mental breakdown immediately after he's not the one
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 10:16 PM
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Smh how can someone go this far in rejecting the showerpill
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 10:10 PM
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Funnily, one study found women more likely to count oral sex as sex in partner count studies, even though you'd expect it to be the opposite if women aim to minimize and men to maximize their number: https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/00224499.2018.1481193?rfr_dat=cr_pub++0pubmed&url_ver=Z39.88-2003&rfr_id=ori%3Arid%3Acrossref.org
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 10:07 PM
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Here's a blogpost looking into the subject. Researchers have already caught on to the fact people can lie on self reported surveys and thus began studying that, getting some insights along the way: https://nuancepill.substack.com/p/we-can-mostly-trust-sexual-self-reports And these findings do not back up social desirability or shame being extremely impactful on people's responses. As the blogpost points out, the effect ends up being either absent or small depending on the study. And as for the c…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 09:58 PM
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Sounds like what a smellmaxxed sweatcel would say
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 07:31 PM
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N-count thread didn't unsticky, rip
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 07:12 PM
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Yeah but if they shower and still get no poon then that means they haven't showered enough. They need to showermaxx harder
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 04:53 PM
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Is showering actually a form of looksmaxxing? Are bluepillers advicing to shower x->∞ times a week actually basically like neurotic looksmaxxer blackpillers but in a different spirit?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 04:17 PM
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I thought it was a gay man
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 11:45 AM
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He's targeting his brow ridges that make him look too masculine. He wants to become a trans woman 🏳️‍⚧️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 09:46 AM
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Yes and alternatively they probably were shit tests and checking whether you'd go into horse seller mode or get offended or dismiss and redirect into banter. Maybe seeing how you react to tactlessness is the point. Depends on their dating style and totally understandable not to vibe with it tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 12:19 AM
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Stop being an useful idiot for the side that holds the opinion opposite to mine 😡
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:38 PM
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height Gym pics Dick pics (to judge) There's probably a better term for this than "transaction" here. I understand being uncomfortable with feeling like a horse and the person across you is behaving like a horse buyer inspecting your teeth. However, will a relationship born out from someone who cares about these metrics be "transactional" in a meaningful sense, more than average relationships? Seems like your problem is more with the crudeness of their vetting methods more than their practical g…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:30 PM
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Bro is already putting all his energy into the arrow magnet field you now expect him to also make them come neatly ordered too???
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 09:58 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 08:41 PM
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'Closeted poly' people. Some people have that mental switch that stops them from being able to grow feelings for others when they're already in a relationship, others don't
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:09 PM
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Yeah nvm it's an interesting topic how much you're able to sus out the moral characters of your friends. I initially interpreted your post as ragging on women that dislike friends to lovers stuff, and I was like wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 02:57 PM
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You mean the rapist friends post? I thought this was in response to women hating their friends hitting on them, but that's another interesting angle
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 02:45 PM
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<image> How I feel reading this post. Legitimately had no idea this discourse existed
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 02:38 PM
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It's a breach of trust that she hasn't exercised appropriate action and emotional regulation to both avoid and stop those feelings, and if we were married that seems like almost couples therapy material, seeing that confessing to it seems like a good faith attempt to start making amends
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 02:33 PM
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Men don't give the same takes because for some reason "If she's uglier than me then that's relationships on easy mode" is for some reason a more common take compared to the opposite of ugly men making better partners. If it weren't you'd totally see men doing similar kinds of comments and I even remember OffTheRedSand posting one such kinda comment from 4chan some time ago
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 12:19 PM
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Charitably, maybe she just didn't think it was relevant info. But the "what can I do about it" tilts me heavily towards believing she knows what she's doing and is now shit testing him hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 02:40 AM
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"just so you know me and X had a story but it's over we've moved past it" seems a pretty easy comment to make before or after you meet an ex. And most people are aware that some people have issues with their partners hanging out with exes, her directly withholding the information instead of making sure her bf wasn't one of those people raises red flags as to her approach to relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 02:35 AM
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It's worth noting that mate value is also self reported in the study, the methodology they followed for measuring mate value is detailed here, it was done by asking 4 questions: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S019188691400097X So it's not a slam dunk on that regard either, you can also find a logic that simps believe their simping makes them a catch while simultaneously admitting they do not have the results to back that up. Though it might not necessarily be that either, like…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 01:54 AM
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Tinder has the worst gender ratio out of all big apps and Hinge's is pretty decent though I believe
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 02:36 PM
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Exactly what it sounds like
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 01:48 PM
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The thermostat is the FaceTune app logo, rock climbing is just as justalternative says
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 01:24 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 12:38 PM
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Seen hate of him but only from 'manosphere' ppl. Didn't know he also said stuff that angered the other side Edit: example: https://youtu.be/4iKLC46fYz0?si=b1_nTQfZCCy43yHW
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 11:56 AM
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If it's an ONS and there won't likely be or he won't be interested in further sex then little incentive to be an attentive lover. Even if it won't necessarily be a ONS, the fact that they're having casual sex hints that the guy will be less bummed out about getting dumped than if she was his gf, and will put more effort with whom he wants to get dumped the least. And generally, they have less rapport and he will be less inclined to do favors for her. Casual sex also tends to involve alcohol, wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 07:13 AM
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Yes, I imagine one of the reasons the orgasm gap closes down in couples is because men have more of an incentive to be attentive lovers in them, seems straightforward
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 10:46 PM
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I agree that the reason the women in your anecdotes do not orgasm do not have to do with male selfishness, and that these are a significant percentage of women that likely affect statistics, but also believe that they do not neatly map into reasons you describe in your post
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 10:15 PM
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Unironically take notes from what/how people who get argued with a lot post and write. Usually their comments are concise, snappy and are good at baiting emotional reactions beyond disapproving indifference
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 10:10 PM
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The women you're with have a mix of: performance anxiety, having it harder to feel pleasure when they feel observed and feel like they have an expectation that if they don't meet will hurt your ego, being people-pleasers in bed by taste, and sexual hangups regarding their focusing on their own pleasure. My "chore" explanation feels convoluted if anything, if locking you down was the goal they could've let you do it and fake their enjoyment if necessary
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 10:07 PM
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Do you think your personal anecdotes back the points you provide in this post? I kinda see how, but in a pretty roundabout way and I assume you understand there's likely more/different factors at play than "I think he sees getting me off as a chore and I want to lock him down so I'll reject it in order to be more desirable to him".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 09:43 PM
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I think your point would be easier to agree with if you framed it as "I'm not going to put in all the work for someone who puts none themselves". Apart from that, at least I personally am looking for partners who do have active curiosity and interest in learning how I work, rather than just "expect me to know how to get myself off" and "be willing to help if I need it", and I assume most people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 09:21 PM
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It's in the past 365 days, and indeed shows people currently on a sex spell rather than what percentage of people have had a sex spell, tho it's the closest statistics to that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 09:29 AM
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Indeed that's what the data mostly points at going back to the famous Financial Times graph that made the rounds everywhere last year, though it's often framed differently or cherrypicked in lots of places (from both sides sometimes btw) <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 12:23 AM
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This is what the GSS says about this statistic btw <image> I got the vibe these are likely mostly right for my country too, long stretches sexless are rare, tho I do know some chronically single women I heavily suspect aren't banging a lot either - just not the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 12:03 AM
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Support immigration 😇
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 11:52 PM
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The US is a big country, and if you add in the circles you self-select in you can end up in an island pretty different from the mean. On some level, it also make sense that lonely people are probably the people you're least likely to meet too. Interestingly the survey also finds that single women feel slightly more lonely than single men, another point that doesn't fit my priors. https://ukonward.com/reports/ballot-of-the-sexes/
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 11:49 PM
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When you're married you can probably kinda subsist off just your spouse for social relationships, but if you're 16-25 (the ages the cited study finds the most difference on now that I look into it) a semi-serious bf you hang out with sometimes in-between studies and who has his own separate male friend group is I'd say is not enough that you can fill the rest of your social needs by bedrotting on Tiktok. Though still a significant percentage of young women are single and the commonly cited 60-30…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 11:33 PM
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The article does very little coddling. A different normie lib writer would've more likely taken the framing that UK Greens are a completely normal centre-left party whereas Reform are gigafarright and that young women's political positions need to be considered and that the UK being racist and stuff is a legitimate issue that needs addressing. Instead, the article goes on to call women terminally online and also suggest that there's no particular logical reason women should be any more lonely or…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 11:06 PM
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Be aware that, as the article says, this phenomenon started in 2015 or so and before then there seemingly wasn't much of a young female radicalisation. I think the recent social media bans on children/teenagers are a step on the right direction, as the article hints as to young women's likely main cause of their recent alienation. The UK porn ban gets very clowned on, but it's recently proven that current technology is fairly effective at stopping teenagers' access to certain sites, laying the g…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 10:26 PM
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Did you grow up in a rural setting and then moved to an urbanite liberal college town or something? Death to cheaters sounds wild to me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 10:00 PM
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<image> https://www.newstatesman.com/politics/uk-politics/2026/01/young-women-are-radicalising Interesting article. It features basically all the "male radicalisation" talking points but gender flipped. And also seems to be backed by data. Some excerpts: Multiple paragraphs detailing how young women are supporting Green relative to the rest of the country far harder than young men are supporting Reform relative to the rest of the country "Britain’s young women seem to feel more alienated from th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 09:46 PM
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It's an obvious satire post lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 02:18 PM
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Out of curiosity, how would you prefer a guy more inexperienced than you to generally behave? To defer to you and ask advice/directions from someone more experienced, or for him to put in work and be able to learn on the go himself?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 10:07 AM
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<image> You're outside the norm. Though it's ok, plenty of people have atypical preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 09:51 AM
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I agree with all your comments on women who aren't comfortable with early/casual sex not necessarily having low libido, but it's a long shot from that to marrying a virgin you began dating at the age where she's still a virgin. Are you from a western country? I think that marrying someone with extremely little dating experience (and likely while having little experience yourself I assume) often is its own can of worms, people in my country rarely end up with the first person they ever seriously …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 09:52 PM
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Your friends will be less likely to learn that she's a hoe than I'd you all lived in her town if that's what you ask
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 09:36 PM
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You married a virgin? At what age and why?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 09:33 PM
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Unironically I've seen extremely similar takes from women on why it's effective to make men wait for sex on purpose. r/femaledatingstrategy in particular pretty sure basically echoes your sentiment, especially in regards to playing hard to get making the idea of sex feel more rewarding when it finally happens, even for not necessarily conservative men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 09:32 PM
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There's even a specific fetish for being with a high n ex-whore, that one is called "hotpast"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 08:50 PM
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Idk about being the biggest share, but ppd bi men being disproportionally blue leaning pretty sure is true
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 08:36 PM
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We had this convo yesterday but what exactly is the problem with bisexual men "telling men how to behave in relationships with women"? I don't see it. If they have experience dating women they can pitch in and say whatever. And personally I think it's likely to be interesting stuff if they self identify as bluepill despite being direct victims of women's general preference for masculinity. The irony I see is heterosexual men being outraged about bi men's dating problems on their behalf, even as …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 08:22 PM
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That is a better point. I agree that in certain societal contexts, personal rejection or consent can be perceived as being personally revoked or bestowed validation and lead to bitterness, and also in that it's possible to be bigoted against romantically unsuccessful people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 10:38 AM
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By your logic in the other comments, by refusing to date a gay man who wants a lavender relationship you're personally implying them to be unworthy of social acceptance, which is kinda bigoted. And also it's worth noting that people dating while being confused about their sexuality also happens, even if uncommonly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 10:32 AM
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Your definition now that I think about it is particularly dumb because if a child prodigy with a massive IQ "personally denies" his competition in a math Olympiad "from achieving a trophy" (dysphemism for beating them, akin to rejecting=undeserving of love) is he also a bigot?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 10:23 AM
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If you subject someone to a negative experience based off immutable traits, it’s bigotry. I heavily disagree with this definition and give the ones from Oxford Languages instead: obstinate or unreasonable attachment to a belief, opinion, or faction, in particular prejudice against a person or people on the basis of their membership of a particular group. By that definition, it isn't bigotry. My attachment to the faction of not wanting to have sex with people are not into is completely reasonable…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 10:21 AM
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Lookism also means discrimination or prejudice, I have neither towards people I'm not personally attracted to. Asexual people are not misanthropic either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 10:16 AM
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Me rejecting someone is not "suggesting them to be undeserving of love". And what definition of bigotry are you even using? Something not making my dick hard isn't bigotry towards it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 10:14 AM
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by definition, can’t date a gay (homosexual) man. Can you really not? Some gay men want to date women for a variety of reasons, especially in conservative countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 10:10 AM
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You make an overreach wrongly assuming there's any bigotry involved when sexual and romantic attraction is in many parts a subconscious and involuntary process that isn't always necessarily "fair". Someone might not want to date a trans person not because they're bigoted against them, but because the knowledge of their biological sex might be a turnoff at a deep level. And instincts are not morally evil, they're morally neutral, as morality implies choice, which instincts do not give regarding w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 10:08 AM
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It would only lead to one or more of those when together with extra assumptions. Which? My comment by itself doesn't directly lead to one or more of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 01:48 PM
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Morality is not supreme, it's just 1 of the 2 possible direction. Maintaining current order can be valid reason to ditch morality. If my kingdom is under threat, you think i'd be moral enough to invite enemies to battlefield? no i am going ambush them if that's what is necessary for long term peace. Upholding unjust current orders is immoral, and unless you practice ritual warfare, ambushes are not immoral not a war crime either. I don't know why you draw a parallel between this and ostracizing …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 12:46 PM
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Knowingly being in a relationship with a bad person is a moral failing itself that puts into question the morality of that person. Sure, dumb but good people delude themselves plenty though, and some bad people are good at masking, among other factors. Assortative mating is real and it's pretty well established that yes, people generally seek out people similar to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 12:30 PM
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Generally, kind people seek out fellow kind people, and these men end up with women similar to themselves. Logan Paul is famous for his crypto scams, I imagine his gf is a woman who doesn't have an issue with having a bf who ran a crypto scam.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 10:18 AM
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Redpill: Bro you don't know how women hate bi men's sexual history??? They're the biggest hypocrites when talking about how history shouldn't matter Meanwhile Bi men: stfu insecure slutshamer lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 09:38 PM
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Me when I explain YIMBYism 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 09:34 PM
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Yes I do, hence my comment lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 09:17 PM
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Definitely a lot of bisexual bluepill dudes on this sub. Usually there's a lot of discourse on women's hate of bi men, but it seems to be made more in their behalf than by bi men themselves. In the end I imagine their ability to get easy casual sex is the bigger factor on whether these dudes end up bitter against women or not
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 09:09 PM
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Interestingly, the percentage of american couples that fall outside the 'half plus seven rule' itself seems to be 3.6% as of 2017 and lowering: https://www.city-data.com/blog/5707-half-age-plus-seven Even rarer than +10 year age gaps which are indeed 8% from what I can find.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 08:42 PM
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Are you ok with being friend with lesbians?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 04:57 PM
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This guy looked into the data on the subject and found that attractive women have only slightly more lifetime sexual partners than ugly women https://archive.is/CLggA The top of the article gives some reasons as to why there's more factors to take note of than 'more dick offered -> more dick taken': This might seem counterintuitive to some, but the logic rests on two basic premises: Whether a product of evolved psychology or social conditioning, women tend to favour long-term commitment over sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:13 PM
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did advice A, B, C Blue and red pill are often nearly equal on actionable advice, even if they often have different framing. Like: RP: "stop putting pussy on a pedestal" BP: "Have more of a life besides women" Or RP: "Hold frame" BP: "Be confident" Or RP: "Adopt an abundance mentality" BP: "Plenty of fish in the sea" Or sometimes RP: "Grind your career and hit the gym" BP: "Grind your career and hit the gym" Plenty of people around the world improve their dating chances through normie self impro…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:05 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 09:45 PM
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Okay, I personally consider pretending to be into someone for payment a form of prostitution though. Pretty sure that many women who do so explicitly call their services a form of prostitution (Girlfriend Experience or GFE) but I suspect that this is a semantical argument. Either way: the sugar daddy does get neither legitimate interest nor legitimate sexual attraction, just like the John. Just a somewhat better service. I do not think the line between winners and losers is whether you can get w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 07:06 PM
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If your assertion is instead that these women do have some degree of sexual desire for all sugar daddies, that's another outrageous assertion. Either way you meant it your comment about comparing sugar dating to women who expect their dates paid for is nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 06:53 PM
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Are you saying that women who expect men to pay for dates are all pretending to be into the guys they expect to pay? Yes that would make them betabuxxers/prostitutes, what about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 06:30 PM
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As a sugar daddy you pay for desire vibes, not for getting your dick wet with a whore. Yes, the more money you spend or the more you can leverage your position for sex the better service you'll receive. Is it a fundamental difference though? Also seems like you're commiting the steelman fallacy trying to find the best possible interpretation of events through which OP is the most winner possible. Mine is a pretty normal interpretation based on the information given.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 05:30 PM
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Lol nvm excuse my brainfart
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 05:24 PM
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Likely. Though bi people's preferences in each gender aren't always symmetrical
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 05:17 PM
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A very normal argument that's done in response to women telling incels "just masturbate" is that your hand does not validate your attractiveness, doesn't lust for you, and is no good psychological substitute to sex with a woman who's into you. Why tf is seemingly every redpill-leaning guy in the comments now cheering for a guy who gets sex equivalent to masturbation?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 04:44 PM
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I live in a country with legal prostitution and it's not prohibitively expensive to my knowledge? Most 30yo men with a job can get action that way, with more or less depending on budget. Though if you position that the late bloomer who wasted his youth, and is now trying to make up for it by hanging out playing videogames with the male interns and banging the female ones, past the age where they would do it for pleasure instead of favors, is a winner, be my guest.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 04:21 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 03:55 PM
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Nothing in the post points him towards being a winner apart from sleeping with young chicks, which he achieves through that method.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 03:51 PM
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Bisexual Absolutely true. Bisexual women generally have more atypical preferences in men than hetero women on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 03:34 PM
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He said his position allows him to offer internship, sometimes a job through referrals and his salary allows him to dress better, groom, afford dates and trips. Most women his age does not want to have NSA sex with him and wants a LTR but younger woman who are just starting out on life are very eager to take help from someone who has already been there which is what helps him have his way with women way younger and out of his league and commitment does not matter cause these women are mostly doi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 03:02 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 09:37 AM
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The woman I'm talking about among other things heavily """joked""" about being mind controlled and raped by a mind flayer from DnD. Maybe she could've imagined the mind flayer as just an octopus head guy with an otherwise Adonis body but even then that's a heavy step above Malevola or She-Hulk lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 12:37 PM
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Lol didn't know about her, googled her right now Also femdom-leaning I guess but she's attractive not heavily unlike the girls on the left of the original meme Don't catch what your point is
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 12:27 PM
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She-hulk - femdom Chun Li from street fighter - nothing, she's purposefully a conventionally attractive woman Malevola - saw the movie as a child and ended up growing a fetish just based on exposure
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 12:25 PM
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No idea how accurate the right side is compared to the left (obv know women goon to humanoid werewolves and minotaurs and stuff) one but have interacted with the media 3/4 of the left examples come from and thought this was funny One thing I know is a woman who is into this stuff but heavily interwined with her masochism rather than from just seeing the creatures as attractive, so that part tracks
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 12:09 PM
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Women will bang the fucking xenomorph but not Yoshi from super mario. Even zoophile women want dark triad super predators 😔😔😔
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 10:23 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 10:05 AM
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Your friends circles are a reflection of the people you tolerate, and if you tolerate friends who would have a secret affair with your gf if given the chance it's natural that the friends you have will tend to be like that. I don't tolerate that behaviour. I keep people who aren't trustworthy or respectful at arm's length. And I assume your gf would likely act the same if given the information.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 09:55 AM
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This is what I'm talking about: hiding information because in your opinion it has no bearing on her being a good or bad friend, even though she'd likely think otherwise. If you're not saying a word about this to her (if she was really ok with it she would laugh it off and brush it aside) at least have it be based on pure self-interest: you just don't want to deal with the potential drama. Doing it the self-righteous reasoning that you know what's good for her is plain backwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 09:31 AM
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Fine if you personally forgive her, but you can't forgive her on your gf's behalf. That's not your prerogative.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 09:13 AM
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Friends can be attracted to friends' partners but friends don't openly flirt or homewreck. I have trouble believing your gf wouldn't have an issue with her behaviour if she knew about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 08:45 AM
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Your gf has a shitty friend
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 08:37 AM
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TIL about sumptuary laws Imagine committing such egregious fashion crimes that you become actually literally in breach of the law
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 07:08 PM
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the one's that do deserve life in prison How many layers of bait are you on
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 07:05 PM
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completely fine with it At what point is 'cheating' just an edgy dysphemism of being in an open relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 06:13 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/e1h2mxonsf7g1.jpeg?width=320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f4d66d8345c56bdf3cff7a9e9e81329d541ec4ff How many times have you been like this on this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:35 PM
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This is stupid. A virgin woman you find by dating methods that make you high-n is either 1. Not virgin 2. Her being a virgin is a matter of chance because she's not chaste. What's the thought process here, if you bang enough drunk sluts in the club within few hours of meeting them eventually you'll find one who happened to still be a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:01 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/3y0dp217jf7g1.jpeg?width=1146&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=28e6a85371fb5f4d13d880dea6eedf259d834e04
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 08:42 PM
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If what you're debating is the commonality of submissive fetishes in men, that's a different issue from selfishness in bed due to what I stated
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 11:34 AM
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Food for thought: Having a fetish for wearing chastity cages has little to do with selfishness in bed. Selfishness, in the context of sex, is about forcing others to go along with desires of yours that you that they do not share. Facefucking and treating a woman as a sex doll is not selfish if that's what she wants. If anything, it would be selfish of her to force you to treat her like that if you aren't into it. For the same reason, forcing your femdom fetishes onto other people is not actually…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 10:54 AM
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When I don't self identify with her partner: "choose better" When I self identify with her partner: "women keeping women single"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 10:12 PM
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Unironically I consider the middle comment usually more true than the "if you partner up with someone uglier than you then it's relationships on easy mode" that is a really common take here
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 10:06 PM
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Scratch hoeflation. These days men will literally match with slenderman-like faceless women. Brootal
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:33 PM
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Femcel doesn't mean involuntarily celibate, it's widely recognized even by femcels that being involuntarily celibate as a woman is extremely rare. Femcel tends to refer to certain variants of volcel women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:28 PM
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Balance = saying that they find a balance that seems fair to them, not that they literally do 50/50 on childcare and chores
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:15 PM
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She was a femfakecel
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:04 PM
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Rapidly asking ChatGPT why Elizabeth I didn't marry yields heavily different answers from the ones Kimi Onoda gives
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:01 PM
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People will claim Japan is a "conservative country" while having one of the most oppressed disadvantaged groups ever represented in government (femcels) 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:54 PM
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Bang better women if you can't give suggestions or instructions without hurting their ego
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:51 PM
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I think it would be interesting to compare a guy with that face to a female profile with no pictures and no bio as kind of a control experiment
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:43 PM
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I think it's a pretty safe bet to say that primary breadwinner males contribute less to chores, and in America, fast googling says that in 55% of heterosexual couples, the man is the primary breadwinner https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2023/04/13/in-a-growing-share-of-u-s-marriages-husbands-and-wives-earn-about-the-same/ So it's not necessary to poll PPD women on this one, the more interesting question would be what percentage of men in couples where he isn't the primary breadwinner hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:38 PM
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Japan now has a femcel fujoshi minister Japanese Minister for Economic Security Kimi Onoda discusses her love life “the possibility of getting married feels so utterly creepy to me... I don't consider 3D (real-life) people as romantic prospects… it's the same as if you were to suggest to a gay person that they marry someone of the opposite sex” “"Hurry up and get married," "Have kids" I've been told this by voters since my 20s… I'II say it over and over: I'm 2D-exclusive!!” … Though Onoda has lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:30 PM
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Interesting, I would've guessed >=20 matches a month on OLD would be fairly above average pretty much anywhere without passportbroing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 10:22 PM
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He says all those dates were from OLD in his comments. You think he put in his bio that he was offering free dinners?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 10:19 PM
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Damn I'm sorry he's getting betabuxxed by his entire town on OLD in a month
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 09:59 PM
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What's your favorite the "Kamala-voting vegans only" bios or the "no 🚬s real men only" bios
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 09:32 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/bodylanguage/comments/1p7pjvk/comment/nqzqc8l/ I’ve gone on 20 first dates this month, definitely not putting all my eggs in one basket buuut I have to admit she is a golden egg Sometimes chad also becomes retarded from stacy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 09:24 PM
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Aiming for your age + 30 to 50% is probably a good ballpark
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 08:25 PM
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Aim older: more money, lower libido, less competition from women your age.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 08:07 PM
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Deleting shortly after posting is bad manners if there were people looking to debate in the thread and you do a rugpull. But if you clean your posts a week after who cares
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 06:32 PM
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It's a tool through which people that don't have the expertise to draw, or resources with which to hire a human artist, can hit above their league and put out art comparable to that of a human. Artist can also improve their efficiency with AI-assisted art.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 06:26 PM
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Just yesterday/today we have a bunch of posts about being social being impossible nowadays. All these guys tried but reached the conclusion that looksmaxxing and OLD is the only way?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 02:19 PM
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May I never end up late 30s and single 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 02:17 PM
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Staying willingly as the back-up option of a single mother after getting rejected. Wild
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 02:10 PM
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Napoleon syndrome 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 09:54 AM
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It's a fairly common claim in blackpill circles that short men get too bullied and disrespected to want to socialize
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 08:56 AM
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You still haven't read the studies I posted I see
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 05:52 PM
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Yes and also my beliefs are aligned to the science. Edit: are you the person I debated about female attraction to dark triad some time ago? I think you were lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 04:13 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 11:34 AM
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On an abstract level this might be right, but in practice, I think a heavy majority of men dating for relationships are basically ok with any sex where the woman shows enthusiasm in the early stages. In sex where she just laid there and starfished, which is the biggest trigger for potential breakup after I'm assuming she wasn't that particularly thrilled about it either and she's not going to give much of a shit either about being "dumped". The exception is heavily anxious women with a hard time…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 11:27 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 11:20 AM
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Yes when he has areas of significant improvement. Looks, money, status, game being key areas. Significantly obese and unkempt men, or significantly socially awkward, or broke and living with parents for example, can have significant improvement when addressing the specific issues that significantly reduce their chances. There can also be sometimes significant improvement from significant excelling in some areas, like going hard into looksmaxxing, roids and aesthetic surgery, or becoming a presti…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 06:49 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 05:47 PM
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Wtf cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 05:38 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 05:38 PM
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Sad the female hive mind couldn't bail out their sister on this one😔
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:28 PM
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Does the francosphere have their own redpill content creators, or is it mostly anglo imports?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:02 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 11:31 AM
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Personally I think that angle doesn't work super well with him being self admittedly autistic. The RP community also had HoeMath as a (self proclaimed TBF, his content didn't have him show face) hot gymmaxxed rp'er, but it's hard to fit his personal experiences and observations to the average man when he's heavily different from the mean: he's the rare kind of man that suffers from "female problems", women will have casual sex with him, but will refrain from going further due to his autism and p…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 10:54 AM
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To add more to my post, besides the mutual understanding and compatibility aspect - there could be theoretical value to a "experienced woman teaching and guiding inexperienced guy by hand" dynamic, but for it to work well the woman needs to between tolerate and enjoy the role somewhat, and that's rare. Most relationships between inexperienced man and experienced woman would be more like the guy feeling like fish out of water and forced to fast track to meet her refined needs and wants, and obv t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 10:47 AM
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Is Clavicular getting a legit following like other manosphere influencers? The way I've seen him branded in places outside PPD is as a mentally ill lolcow
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 10:23 AM
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He'll be generally happier interacting with women who are approximately like him in life experiences, even if it's harder to achieve when you differ significantly from the mean
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 10:21 AM
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Stacies should pay men reparations for rejecting them. It's baffling people are debating issues like "slavery reparations" while real injustices like this are still going on
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 10:16 AM
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I think your post is only tangentially related to the article - these people have a clear material incentive for doctor-shopping a diagnosis or getting it through connections: getting their degree more easily. This is a different issue from people thinking ADHD is a quirky identity or anything like that, this is basically about fraud at universities
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 09:53 PM
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Incredible, everything you just said is either incorrect or misleading
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 09:21 PM
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On a related note I think "online is/isn't real life" just gets selectively applied on this sub to back whatever user's personal ideas are against either what they see online or what they see in their personal experiences. There's the bluepill "everything is sunshine and rainbows irl if you struggle it's because you're terminally online, everyone struggling is terminally online" etc. But then redpill will opportunistically pick and choose what's only online and what's also real life. Women being…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 09:15 PM
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Jesus’ teachings were primarily moral and spiritual, not a blueprint for state policy. See also Matthew 22:21
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 09:03 PM
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You make a legit point about 'performative uninhibition' as often preached by PUA and redpill. Some men can do better with some masking rather than legitimate uninhibition
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 06:13 PM
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In gender war world men are portrayed as mentally slaves to women. The reality is that men do things with the purpose of seeking validation from other men plenty, and if toxic masculinity is rewarded by men, they'll keep performing toxic masculinity for other men while keeping a nice guy charade to their gf's. Which is btw how reality already goes a decent percentage of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 05:52 PM
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Yes, baby-face and behind on career/life stage can cause that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 05:21 PM
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https://vm.tiktok.com/ZNRRCmMbC/ Damn she's also saying every man has had crazy Stacy as his first love but that he should settle down with beckybangmaid. Brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 04:15 PM
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In my circles I plainly don't think you can distinguish yourself from others through game, but it's... because most men already practice it to begin with. Most men know about and/or embody this stuff on some level. Being a sperg is what fucks you up, meanwhile if you were to read a half decent PUA book you would see that's basically what people around you are already doing. The flip side is that I also don't find IRL the fatalistic outcomes of 80/20 and shit that people here routinely talk about…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 09:29 PM
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Pussy so wet there's barely any friction and it just slides with barely any feeling unless you wipe it is real
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 09:06 PM
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It's interesting that, as a norm, the more gender equal a society is, the more gender segregated careers become and the more women settle into "girly" professions <image> https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gender-equality_paradox Edit: cool article, the issue is nuanced now that I read more into it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 03:57 PM
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Where did you hear about this sub where it wasn't referred to as an incel sub
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 03:34 PM
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You must have heard a million times on this sub about how women have higher standards for hookups than relationships, AFBB 80/20 the cock carousel situationships chad's harem settling down after hitting the wall etc., those are what I colloquially refer to as "high standards sluts" and that my initial post focuses on
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 03:15 PM
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Sorry every great general in story who has ever lead from the front, you're now classified as a beta male
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 02:48 PM
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Hey it's a FOMO story rather than an AFBB one today, nice change of pace
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 02:44 PM
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Brainrotted 4channers 🤝 AGP transexuals Autogynephilia is just standard female sexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 02:38 PM
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I see the people who say they can't masturbate to someone they have a crush on but can to other people/acquaintances as weirder.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 08:53 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 08:50 PM
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Interesting point, you can argue twitch is "getting paid to play videogames" and in that regard twitch stats consistently shows male streamers having higher ceilings of success than female streamers
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 05:47 PM
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🤣 in this case it was both the guy and the girl opened up the relationship, guy tried swiping on apps but mostly failed, girl meanwhile got a 2nd bf, after a while and some drama the 2nd bf demanded monogamy so she went along with it and dumped the original bf, then after a while the 2nd bf dumped her anyway, then she tried going back with the 1st bf but by then he got a new gf with whom he doesn't plan to ever again go into any poly shit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 05:44 PM
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Don't know any people legit into the lifestyle only a few people that tried it for a while but ended in dumpster fire, those were normal looking
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 05:25 PM
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Why didn't Saddam Hussein claim his invasion of Kuwait to be just "ragebait"? Did he not know how international politics work?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 05:14 PM
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You're behind on the discourse, Trump saying Haitians are eating the dogs is ragebait now (it implies him to be intentionally dishonest)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 05:06 PM
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<image> Conservative competition to this meme coming strong
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 04:59 PM
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I do not argue against the argument since I have no issue with it. My post was based around to having hooked up with hotter, bigger dicked, more exciting, better in bed etc. men. 'Low standards sluts' as I described are again a blind spot and don't fit in my post. One could have insecurity about a girl who wants regular kinky group sex and can't be satisfied in monogamy, but gangbangs are a quite extreme act and it's understandable to have sexual disgust from it. I also agree that low standards …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 10:57 AM
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So less data is better than more data? I based my thoughts in a lot of things. Including what women say... Lol why wouldn't I? If you were basing your thoughts on more than just women's arguments then congrats. That is however, not what you wrote, and I responded exactly to what you wrote. If what I said is logically sound it should stand on its own What I claimed to be in poor standing is your belief in it, not whether the belief makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 09:08 AM
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Why base your thoughts on what "women argue" rather than what you think is true based on a wider array of sources? Your thoughts on low standards sluts who have sex with whoever (admittedly they aren't the focus of my post) are understandable, but inserting "women argue" makes me doubt whether these are your legitimate thoughts or some attempt at a gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 08:31 AM
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Gay dating is so tilted towards both singleness and non-monogamy that I think it's hard to compare. Tops also are usually in short supply AFAIK. Size queen gay bottoms definitely exist, but due to a variety of factors I think tops are less afraid of unwittingly ending up stuck with them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 10:11 AM
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This logic but used to argue that sucking micropenis is less gay than sucking big cock
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 09:52 AM
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Lol I used to be in that girl's shoes at 6yo. Tbh I'm not sure romantic feelings are even a thing at that age, your son is probably imitating what he sees in cartoons and TV and thinking that it'd be cool to have it with that girl, not a particularly deep feeling and even if it was it'd be best to prune it. I also felt confident handling matters myself and not bringing in adults, but if that girl has problems with that I don't think it'd be bad for you to step in a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 09:50 AM
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I think one of the primary drivers behind N count preferences is insecurity and that in addition, this fact also explains a big degree of the intensity of the preference between men and women. Most postpubescent people have learned by then on some level the simple principle that dick is abundant and pussy is scarce, and that thus women can hook up above their league to a greater degree and more often than men can. Likely, a woman is only 'in competition' with his exes, if anything perceiving his…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 09:40 AM
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The most I interacted with 40k was playing Dawn of War as a kid. Recently a Total war Warhammer 40k has been leaked, when it comes out I'm playing the shit out of that one
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 11:04 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 10:51 AM
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"Weirdly standoffish" nah he'll sweep with his bad boy dark triad traits easily
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 10:31 PM
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Wtf. Tylenol discredited, being a nerd giving you autism is the new scientific truth
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 10:27 PM
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Yesterday or so we had a post by a man peddling the autistic savant trope
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 10:13 PM
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What's gay dating like in the Cosmic Shroud? Do you see extradimensional horrors still putting "BISEXUAL DOWNLOW FEMS ONLY" on their bio?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 09:33 PM
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Chad gets bored of Becky when there's more stacies to go around. He has less reason to dumpster dive. Even Beckies will have to settle for chadlite if they want to chadchase in an environment where women noticeably outnumber men, whereas in an environment where men heavily outnumber women, Becky can more often gigachadchase. Also thank god for apps like the Tea app that serve a similar function to the gossip of small towns 😃 Mouse utopia was a pseudoscientific experiment that tells nothing notew…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 08:58 PM
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Do you think they'd have been open to further physical affection like hand holding or a bigger hug? If so I don't think there's reason to stress over the definition
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 07:59 PM
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Was it in a semi-romantic setting? Or is it like "kissing my mom on the cheek makes me not kissless"? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 07:56 PM
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Fun fact, a big ass chunk of Americans making 6 figure salaries self identify as "living paycheck to paycheck" in surveys <image> https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2022-06-01/a-third-of-americans-making-250-000-say-costs-eat-entire-salary?embedded-checkout=true
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 07:23 PM
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Rip, you should've been here while that daily copypasta was going around lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 07:03 PM
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I think guys standardscel-ing themselves with these neuroses is a real thing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:58 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠As a man, your ability to attain commitment-free (casual) sex is a bigger indicator of your level of attractiveness than you…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:52 PM
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Understandable, it's just that many swingers and kinksters do end up taking similar risks and I thought it comes with the territory
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:40 PM
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52.5% women and 47.5% men means that if everyone paired up monogamously, there'd be a 5% of people left out, all of them women, meaning 0.05/0.525=9.5%ish of women will be left out. You're free to give yourself an idea of the impact. Btw there's biologically approximately 105 male births per 100 female births, although the gender ratios tend to eventually even out due to men having higher mortality rates at all ages
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:37 PM
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Yeah I was planning to amend my comment "trust me bro STD tests results" but I thought maybe there's a way to verify that info lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:33 PM
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Feeder fetishists, not even once
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:31 PM
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Isn't fucking without condom and just passing around STD test results the norm in many swinging/fetish spaces?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:29 PM
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NYC is 52.5% female, in comparison to the whole country which is on average 49.75% female. Definitely leaning towards skill issue or standards issue
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:28 PM
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And you haven’t told me how im indiscriminate… I've already told you that the mere fact of being open to casual sex is indiscriminateness itself. What's unclear about that? You also know you can pair bond just fine, but can you pair bond just as fine as if you had been more discriminate? That's the question I see you skirting around and I would doubt your knowledge on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:14 PM
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The core reason women often dislike short guys is due to physical attraction. They also often mention more 'logical' reasons like short guys being especially insecure or having Napoleon complex, analogous to what you say about consequences from promiscuity, but they often aren't the core reason. Are you intending to draw that comparison when equating men regarding n count to women regarding height?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:05 PM
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I read your explanation on how you're discriminate in certain ways. I then told you how there's ways in which you're indiscriminate. Which point towards you not being fully discriminate. There's other people who are/have been more discriminate than you. If you admit that your definitions and classifications are arbitrary instead of based on anything even close to scientifically measurable, then case closed - it means you do not have a basis from where to argue your ability to pair bond can't hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:58 PM
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The mere fact that you are open to casual sex makes you t least somewhat indiscriminate by at least by some definitions of the word. It's certainly more discriminate than someone who discriminates against sex with people they are not in a relationship with. Sociosexuality, as researched, is a spectrum, not a binary measurement.. And this makes sense, there's an array of people with different levels of promiscuity, not just 2 classes of people, and all of them different degrees of likely to featu…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:35 PM
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FOMO is a pretty real feeling arising in response to an hypothetical/suspicion, and many incels should be able to tell you so. I assume you visit the daily and see the stories raw attraction guy posts and have your opinions shaped by them. Well, here's one of the kinds of stories he doesn't post: https://np.reddit.com/r/DeadBedroomsOver30/s/MGZCBY1PcN Don't have them at hand, but r/openmarriageregret also features multiple stories about childhood sweethearts where the women ended up blowing the …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:19 PM
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And you don't consider yourself relatively indiscriminate by your own previous admission that there's women you would fuck but not date and that you don't have problems picking up fuck sessions? Do you consider promiscuity a binary state, either full yes or full no, instead of there being multiple degrees of promiscuity?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 10:27 AM
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That's fair, old RP argued for the anger phase to be that, just a phase. That's followed less literally nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 10:12 AM
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As I've said in my comment, you're free to see solipsism, female love being more opportunistic, women being incapable of empathy, etc. as not necessarily a moral failing since "it's how things are", similar to like I said in my first paragraph regarding biology. But then how is exactly old RP different from new? What misogyny do they have now that they previously didn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 10:06 AM
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Red pill as of a decade ago might not argue that women are purposefully evil, but that they biologically have instincts that they follow, that if they were conscious choices rather than instincts, would make them morally worse than men overall, kind of similar to wondering about the morality of carnivorous animals. And AFAIK, these are approximately similar as to what modern figures like what Andrew Tate say, with little difference. Red pill as of a decade ago believed in gynocentrism and solips…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 09:46 AM
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So your claim is not that casual sex damages pair bonding abilities, but that an arbitrary number of past sexual partners that is above the number you've had does damage your pair bonding abilities, but so long as you stay below that arbitrary number then you're completely emotionally undamaged? And how does the link I provided validate that position?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 08:30 AM
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I'm using reputable sources such as the Medical Institute For Sexual Health for my claims. What source do you have that promiscuity does not negatively affect the ability to pair bond?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 08:03 AM
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Hey, the article talks about you Often the individual is not aware that the brain has adapted to the behavior pattern and he/she begins to think, “That’s just the way I am”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 07:50 AM
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Do you agree with the following OG red pill blogposts? https://therationalmale.com/2011/11/14/appreciation/ https://therationalmale.com/2011/12/27/women-in-love/ I don't treat women badly. Do you believe that dread game is an important and effective part of maintaining a relationship, and that women are genetically attracted to dark triad traits? I don't know if you have a selective view of what was red pill like a decade ago
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 07:48 AM
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Approximately similar consequences to not having had better but thinking you could have better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 07:17 AM
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She's missing out on your emotionally undamaged version. See how promiscuity destroys your brain chemistry: https://web.archive.org/web/20201101125030/https:/www.medinstitute.org/articles/pair-bonding-and-the-brain/
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 07:08 AM
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Do you consider your pair bonding abilities damaged? Is your wife missing out on something due to you having fucked around?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 09:14 PM
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Kinda facts lol even studies say that anxiety, nerves, unrest negatively affect women's sexual desire more than men's, and there's plausible evopsych explanations for it (it sounds like this might not be the best time for pregnancy). But veer to hard into it and you get into r/deadbedroom's infamous "choreplay"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 04:14 PM
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trying anything new Chad can always do boring lights off missionary and roll over and doesn't matter initiating earlier Chad can pester her for sex at 3 AM reducing her mental load Chad can reduce her mental load by banging her actually going back in time and not having kids Believe it or not, Chad also has time travel powers. Sorry for temporalcels but if you're constrained by the laws of time and physics it's already joever for you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 04:06 PM
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Everyone's escaped from the confines and the flesh and uploaded their minds to hormone-less, emotion-less robots free from faulty human instincts like sexual desire
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:17 PM
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Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:04 PM
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Then I assume your preferred course action would be to wife up that girl heavily below your league? In that case I consider it more respectable, if it comes more from fear of deadbedrooming or abandonment rather than just seeking ego boosts
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:04 PM
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Do you value the validation boost from one instance of NSA sex with a woman wildly below your league under the premise that you'll likely be her best sexual partner, more than steady sex with a looksmatched gf? That is, you value the ego boost more than tangible real material benefits (steady good sex)?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 11:36 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 07:13 AM
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Whenever I have brought up the topic, the feminist and feminist-leaning posters have overwhelmingly opposed the policy, saying that it would go against the best interests of the child and would be child abandonment. The state can foot the bill just fine. The state can give the child support (in this case under general welfare laws) instead of the biological father. The question is who should foot the bill, not what's best for the child, as both options are equal for the child. The rest of your p…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 09:08 PM
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<image> Brutal for pinkskincels
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 04:25 PM
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For reference: IMO this situation is the man's problem, he shouldn't have hooked up with a woman who was open to keeping the baby in case birth control failed. Even if she had lied about it, you can deploy the point of "should have chosen better". And also, I'd prefer the father of the baby to help foot the bill rather than my taxes. -Explains that their financial situation can't really accommodate a baby -Says he's just too busy for a baby -Implies that taking time off on maternity leave will h…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 02:42 PM
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Is it about this paragraph of the study in particular?: One possible explanation for our surprising result is that there are anatomic differences in the face and head structure (dysmorphology) of individuals with HFA that can be detected quickly and effectively by TD adults in this task. Some recent studies have investigated this possibility, but the findings so far are inconclusive. Some data show an array of Minor Physical Abnormalities (MPA), including two measures of the epicanthal structure…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 01:36 PM
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Yeah, the blogpost even uses the term "uncanny valley effect" to talk about autistic people's mannerisms and facial expressions too. I'm sorry about your experiences. There definitely are a lot of progressive™ people with selective empathy for only the correct groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 01:16 PM
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it's backed by research that (high functioning, let's not even mention severe forms of) autism is the single biggest predictor of a man being sexually unsuccessful by a long shot. Another previous blogpost by the same author on the subject: https://archive.is/hOHhn Unless you can assert that autistic men's dating problems are due to them being uniquely extremely ugly, I don't know how exactly autistic men's thoughts on looks over confidence are indicative of anything. By the way, another stat on…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 12:32 PM
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You misunderstand the levels of crazy that r/waifuism people are if you're equating them to the readers of those novels lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 10:12 PM
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Do fictosexuals read much fanfiction? Unless the protagonist is an absolute self insert it's like they're getting cucked
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 10:07 PM
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Interesting that men have been in relationships with r/waifuism jpg's since forever, but it took until txt generators to get really good until women got more into similar stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 09:30 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/u/ThrowAwayMrF202/s/mwzL4CwbU3 You posted a bisexual man lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 09:21 PM
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There have been some modern experiments with communal child raising, but none went mainstream https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kibbutz_communal_child_rearing_and_collective_education
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 09:14 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 08:33 PM
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What genre of man is this? Does it count as betabuxx?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 08:14 PM
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Anarchists and syndicalists/far left market socialists are extremely fringe. Leftist parties throughout the world are overwhelmingly statist, dirigist, welfarist, and in extreme cases supportive of a planned economy. In practice, the government doing more stuff is plain and simply self admitted part of the electoral programme of most mainstream leftist parties
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 08:13 PM
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Actually 6 in my phone screen 😃 Though I consider it self explanatory? There's plenty of other research about disgust as an emotion and people's sensitivity to disgust. I don't have access to the exact methodology in that study, but you can look up how it's usually done in other disgust related research
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 02:03 PM
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These universities mentioned in the article are pretty much self admittedly acting in their self interest as an organization/institution, not out of altruism for any particular group. Which is arguably the same reason that they tilt the balance in women's favor whenever they do so
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 01:58 PM
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Participants also completed a questionnaire to measure their own level of disgust sensitivity, a personality trait related to how easily a person feels disgust in response to various situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 01:50 PM
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You're gonna be looking real dumb when Elon Musk discovers the secret behind genetically engineered catgirls and sells it to governments to boost birth rates
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 11:37 AM
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Don't worry the state controlled dating apps where every man will be assigned their ideal genetically modified catgirl gf will be coming soon
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 11:31 AM
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There sometimes are, just in a more stealthy manner <image> https://www.nytimes.com/2023/09/08/magazine/men-college-enrollment.html
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 11:27 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 11:17 AM
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https://www.psypost.org/disgust-sensitivity-is-linked-to-a-sexual-double-standard-study-finds/ Disgust sensitivity is linked to a sexual double standard, study finds Across two studies (total N = 678), participants read one of four flyers introducing a 25- or 65-year-old woman (Study 1) or man (Study 2) with information on the target’s sexual or romantic lives. Individuals who were more easily disgusted tended to judge the sexually open women more harshly, viewing them more negatively and as bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 11:01 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 08:26 AM
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There is no problem with high n men desiring low n women either
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 09:14 PM
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I have noticed that, although this subreddit has 117k weekly visitors, I did not receive 117k upvotes on my previous post. I'm not sure if this is being done intentionally or if these "friends" are forgetting to click 'upvote'. Either way, I'll repost it again louder for the people at the back. There's👏nothing👏wrong👏with👏the👏town👏bicycle👏wanting👏to👏settle👏down👏with👏a👏shy👏nerd👏after👏having👏her👏fun Women👏are👏entitled👏to👏their👏preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 07:53 PM
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r/menslib indeed has its discourse shaped by its more 'pro-woman' moderation. Probably r/leftwingmaleadvocates is more up your alley Edit: nvm, just remembered r/mensrights existed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 11:54 AM
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Living in Spain I can confirm to you Colombian women absolutely have a sugar baby/"passportbro-fleecer" culture. Hell there's even stereotypes among women to not trust northern south American/Caribbean men either lol. No idea about Russian women though, know more Ukrainian women and those ones seem more normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 11:49 AM
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Yeah it's shitty to misrepresent yourself or mislead other people about your dating behaviours. Here in western Europe, it's expected for dating to be casual at the start and it's basically customary to expect sex early, both by men and women, indeed if she doesn't put out relatively soon she's assumed to not be into you by default, women too dump men who don't make a sexual move relatively soon either lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 06:03 PM
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First woman, either one of the following or a mix of the following based solely on her answer: - wanted to avoid looking like a slut (I assume, idk how you discovered she hooked up?) and cosplay as chaste wife material - is vetting you in case you only want casual sex even though she wants a relationship - probably some other hangups around sex and romance Second woman: assuming her ex was subject to the same 'rules', then the previous, plus probably distrustful, anxious, demisexual. Are you Ame…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 05:36 PM
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You can read the full report for further context. However it has so much bizarreness in it I'd take it with a grain of salt: https://www.equimundo.org/resources/state-of-uk-men-2025/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 08:22 PM
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I googled up that study and it's crazy. 42% of UK men have thought about either self-harming or suicide in the past two weeks, 44% of people (across men and women) have affirmed 'having given up on relationships completely'. Wtf? https://www.equimundo.org/resources/state-of-uk-men-2025/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 08:17 PM
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This is the famous female delusion calculator lol: https://igotstandardsbro.com/
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 08:55 PM
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A note of bloom on your math: I assume you've calculated it with independent variables, e.g. 50% of men are introverted and 20% of men have long hair so the percentage of men introverted and with long hair is 10%. But this is not usually how it goes, many variables have a good degree of correlation, e.g. if we say introverted men are double as likely to be long haired. This is most noticeable in conventionally desirable traits, which tend to be correlated with other desirable traits. So some del…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 08:51 PM
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Passportsis time
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 08:38 PM
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You already touch on it slightly but it seems to me that jealousy is a better term to describe the feelings and situations you talk about than disgust
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 08:36 PM
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If that was already communicated from the start then there wouldn't be a problem, I consider it respectable. However finding out from outside sources would heavily lower my trust in her and lead to believe she lied by omission, withholding info that she likely knows would have been relevant to his decisions if communicated. After that, I'd be way more inclined to see whatever explanation she gives as damage control and not trustworthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 05:36 PM
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Tbh I was thinking of defining "insecure" as a "insecure about the relationship" in my original comment, but it's true that it's a bad definition. If anything I was kinda steelmanning the definition as sort of backing up the original poster, providing a definition of "insecure" by which his post I would consider is fairly true. But it was not my intention to debate that fearing a trait being bad in a partner is insecurity, nor was it even my intention to proclaim that insecurity is bad, I'm fair…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 02:32 PM
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Damn I guess you must have biologically evolved to nitpick definitions 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 02:07 PM
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Did you "keep yourself low n" for the sake of your future high n partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 01:39 PM
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So you debate the used terminology but accept the rest of the post? Regardless, fast googling of definition of insecurity: uncertainty or anxiety about oneself; lack of confidence. Most of the reasons I mentioned are about her seeing you as inferior to her past partners which is pretty uncontroversially textbook insecurity. Others, although aren't directly that, are closely related, like hurt ego. I'll accept that fearing your partner being jaded has little to do with insecurity though. What the…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 01:23 PM
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It seems to me that many bitter men seethe at literally any looks-mismatched pairing. When the woman is hotter it's betabuxx, when the man it's hotter it's hoeflation. Basically any data point fuels their pre-established beliefs about fatalism in the dating market
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 10:56 AM
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This is the second post about this kind of situation I've seen recently where the guy, confronted with direct evidence of his gf being a liar, goes "I am not one to judge her for her past", "I know we weren't exclusive yet or anything", "I'm not one to slut shame", and similar bs as if they were relevant to the problem of his gf lying about her stances on sex. Part of me would scream creative writing, but the other wonders if this is a similar phenomenon to women being delusional about their abu…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 10:52 AM
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More or less same if you lie about being a virgin as something like "I've dated around a bit but it never progressed too far yet" aka had little sex, not very experienced, still not a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 09:10 AM
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Being a virgin will also come with the fact you're bad in bed implied
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 09:06 AM
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Also They could of course lie/not tell the hookup, but then the woman would talk about the man being pathetic in bed. If you told them you're a virgin, wouldn't they mouth off about you being a virgin instead? Seems like an unnecessary double bind
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 09:04 AM
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Plenty of posts by women talking about jealous boyfriends who dislike them playing the game in r/loveanddeepspace
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 08:56 AM
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You're likely overestimating the social risks of having one bad hookup with a stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 08:54 AM
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Do you care about being not being able to see a woman again because you're bad in bed, or about a woman you're never seeing again thinking you're bad in bed? The former I can understand, the later not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 08:47 AM
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Do you see yourself sleeping within your social circles anytime soon? Who cares if a random hookup thinks you're bad in bed and then proceeds to never see you again
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 08:42 AM
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It's No Nut November, not No Girlgasm November
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 09:40 PM
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In these posts throughout the weeks, many men do argue at length about avoiding promiscuous women due to perception that they'll be bad partners, which can be labeled insecurity. Divorce stats is only scratching the surface of it, there's also the talks about how promiscuous women are likelier to have been alpha widowed, that they'll reminisce about past better partners, gotten trauma from having been pumped and dumped and thus jaded, how sex will feel less "special" to them, how they're likelie…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 09:07 PM
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In these posts throughout the weeks, many men do argue at length about avoiding promiscuous women due to perception that they'll be bad partners, which can be labeled insecurity. Divorce stats is only scratching the surface of it, there's also the talks about how promiscuous women are likelier to have been alpha widowed, that they'll reminisce about past better partners, gotten trauma from having been pumped and dumped and thus jaded, how sex will feel less "special" to them, how they're likelie…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 09:06 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 07:01 PM
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With "trolling" getting replaced by "ragebaiting", this feels like the ultimate death of rage comics. Trollface will become an even more boomer meme than it is right now in a few years
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:59 PM
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Have never heard the "tfw no gf" catchphrase? If you meant cock holster as a play on my username then congrats I'd never thought of that one lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:52 PM
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Tfw no cuckquean gf passing you around all her friends to give you experience 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 04:00 PM
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In my circles it's totally a stereotype backed by a decent amount of anecdote that female virgins are clingy AF and to be careful dating them non seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 03:54 PM
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Have you seen much other anime social deduction/mystery thriller stuff? I love it though not as much as others Zero Escape or Kaiji or Danganronpa (even if half of those aren't manga lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 01:59 PM
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Holy shit I read that one a decade ago. Nostalgia trip
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 01:56 PM
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Tbh with all these questions it's a gradient. It gets progressively weirder the longer it goes on but I don't consider there exists a hard cutoff year, maybe I'd say the age where it's already reached 100% weird and it can't get any weirder is 30. Well, maybe 30 is 95% weird, 40 is 100% weird but 20 is like 10% weird, it's still not a linear function either My definition of weird: "there's likely a reason she's still a virgin at her age and it's likely not a good one"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 01:35 PM
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By the way Mark Anthony was a beta simp and Cleopatra a high N post-wall betabuxxer alpha widow
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 10:12 AM
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No, I believe in Modern Monetary Theory
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 10:09 AM
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very confident [...] kings and emperors If you know much about history: bruh moment
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 10:05 AM
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Cuck fetishists are truly the most oppressed minority in Salvador. Now for real tho I've just thought: Would mandatory paternity testing do anything to help raise birth rates? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 10:02 AM
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Then just turn on the money printer to get free money duh. Economics is easy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 09:54 AM
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Research shows dating outcomes for autistic women aren't significantly different from NT women, unlike autistic men. What's sad is the abuse and sexual assault stats of autistic women, those are bleak
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 08:06 AM
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There could've been some room for debate here if the line "at this point in my life" hadn't been used
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 07:41 AM
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Why don't governments just repeatedly borrow infinite debt, spend it and then bankrupt in quick succession? Are they dumb? argentinamaxxing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 08:34 PM
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What other deep topics are they more eager to engage in? In my personal irl circles, I see women as much more eager to argue for anti-bioessentialism, men are usually the more traditional ones regarding those issues. I'd go as far as to say that anti-bioessentialism is mainstream among feminists here
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 08:01 PM
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Yeah 200 approaches 2 numbers and (I'm guessing) 0 dates seems rough. Probably more factors at play than your game, but if you're autistic and know little about game, that's not a great sign either. For reference: it's backed by research that (high functioning, let's not even mention severe forms of) autism is a way higher factor in a man being sexually unsuccessful than his looks. Just so that you're aware. Edit: another previous blogpost by the same author on the subject: https://archive.is/hO…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 07:46 PM
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What was your success rate? I think it's well established in PUA circles to expect your street cold approach success rate to be something like 1-5%. Also, there's PUA/dating books around that explain flirting and escalation. Haven't read Models yet, but "The Attraction Code" by Vin DiCarlo I remember touches on the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 07:24 PM
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It's a very common sentiment on this sub to as a male aim below your league in looks, so that she'll simp more even if she isn't quite as hot. Sadly the term "beckybangmaid" hasn't caught on
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 07:00 PM
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Lol, I've heard around people saying that ultimatums are manipulative, but saying that refusal to be someone for a reason from the start is manipulative is a new one
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 05:44 PM
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I thought it was red pill who talked about manning up and setting rigid boundaries and expectations instead of relying on covert contracts
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 05:35 PM
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Yesterday's "weekly" looks thread had a good run the last day, rip
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:23 PM
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"Liking someone" is a perfectly acceptable term to define/mean as "wanting a romantic relationship with them". Your semantic debate is very pointless
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 07:50 AM
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Maybe they believe you might have a chubby fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 05:09 PM
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Tbh I can't relate to getting an "ick" to promiscuity. To the extent to which it turns me off from a relationship with them it's from normal rational processes, not particularly unlike discovering they're some trait I dislike like greedy or impulsive or a picky eater for example. As for the post you cited, I think it's pseudopsychology tbh. He's self aware of his neurotic-like intrusive thoughts when breaching the subject of a woman he's had sex with also having had it with other men, but I thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 04:40 PM
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Guys who're prestigious in the scenes they cosplay in, from what I've seen. Top e-sports players, event organizers, YouTube/twitch personalities from those scenes etc. I'm pretty sure are disproportionately likely to have gf's who at least dabbled in the subject
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 04:20 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 03:38 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 03:33 PM
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I have similar thoughts, I would've thought bi women would be more likely to be just clueless as to how to initiate and escalate and thus likely shy, rather than making bold moves that would work with men but I don't think are convention. I lean more towards thinking creepy people are creepy rather than a generalized statement of "straight/bi women don't learn how to not be creepy" but she had a different opinion. Tbf she's not generally a fan of bi women either lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 03:26 PM
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I've heard from a lesbian recently about how bi women have terrible rizz with women. More or less paraphrasing, that they're too used to the heterosexual female dating script and conventions, and when they try with a woman, they frequently do stuff that works with men (or their bastardised version of how they think they'd try rizzing a woman if they were a man) and end up coming across as creepy and boundary-breaking. Do you agree with that take?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 03:07 PM
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Nah actually women's advice is meant to keep other women single. "Ask the fisher not the fish" applies to men only
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 02:51 PM
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I assume this is creative writing based on this recent r/redscarepod thread?: https://np.reddit.com/r/redscarepod/s/gx5EwHkZdk What's complicated about the psychology of that situation? They were just unaware (or maybe uncaring) of your ick towards promiscuity or women having sex with men apart from you, and then expressing insecurity about you (the last man she's had sex with) ending up doing the same as the last man she had sex with. Her lack of social awareness might be bizarre, her direct tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 02:45 PM
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Mem crave the stay at home NEET gf
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 12:27 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 11:54 PM
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Probably not as known in gender war circles. I see the concept more thrown around regarding politics
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 09:28 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Out-group_homogeneity
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 09:14 PM
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Wtf is up with right guy's eyes' position? Are they misaligned with his head or am I tripping?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 09:13 PM
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What the fuck is up with the right guy's eyes position? Am I tripping?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 09:06 PM
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We've already talked about this in the n-count thread. Just factory reset the software
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 11:01 PM
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On average, heterosexual men and women will have the same ncount. What you're looking for ('ncount of the average person') is the median. And in that graph... The median is very much simply 1 per year for both men and women. What you can say is that men have higher dispersion than women, who are more tightly clustered around only 1 sexual partner in the past year, but that's it. I think what you were expecting is men being a Pareto distribution and women having a more normal distribution... As y…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 10:44 PM
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Are you claiming that graph validates your claim that the 'average woman' has higher ncount than the 'average man' to a significant degree?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 10:31 PM
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So are women's https://preview.redd.it/d1egremrn31g1.png?width=900&format=png&auto=webp&s=435d3371e88d87832b708b9f484f611caf322c07
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 10:21 PM
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Do you have data to back up the math
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 06:02 PM
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The data backs you up, FYI. Research shows couples' N-counts as being significantly correlated https://www.researchgate.net/publication/5964280_Matching_in_Sexual_Experience_for_Married_Cohabitating_and_Dating_Couples https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5431278/ https://www.cambridge.org/core/journals/epidemiology-and-infection/article/patterns-of-sexual-mixing-with-respect-to-social-health-and-sexual-characteristics-among-heterosexual-couples-in-england-analyses-of-probability-sample-surve…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 06:02 PM
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Satire is dead 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 12:44 PM
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I was joking lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 12:34 PM
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What's more bluepilled than a harem anime protagonist?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 12:25 PM
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If she doesn't let you have a harem then you're a betabuxx to her actually
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 10:57 AM
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It's already well established that a woman having sex with a woman doesn't affect her n-count. Thus, if I'm transported to the body of a woman then yes, my n-count will reset to 0 unless I was gay
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:25 PM
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You said even if we assume that this man decided to go after younger women because he "can't get smart older women," Well I'm asking you, if we assume that, what's your opinion of the guy? Or do you admit that your opinion of him is low, it's just that it's a rare case
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:07 PM
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What makes you think he wants a 40 year old woman I am assuming the opposite of that? Reread my post. cares about what she's attracted to Irrelevant to my comment. Though I less caring little about others' opinions makes someone a little less of a loser
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 02:48 PM
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Why do you think a 40 year old man would be able to attract 20 year old women but not 40 year old women? You're arguing "he can't be a loser because he's getting what he wanted since the start" well duh if that's what he wants (let's leave aside if the only 20 yo's he can pull are fatties for example), but I don't know what impression you have of these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 02:39 PM
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I think that's dumpster diving chad and not really chad in relationship with stacy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 08:47 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 10:01 PM
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You should be having unlimited power with how the bot fails to ever actually unsticky the ncount thread lately
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 09:29 AM
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Maybe he could use her as practice girlfriend or girlfriendzone her until he levels up and Stacy notices him who knows 🤷‍♂️ there's nothing wrong with being distrustful of men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 08:31 AM
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Sorry, she's been burned by some pumps and dumps in the past so she now waits a month or so before sex to check they're serious about her. She flirts and expresses desire, but no sex
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 08:25 AM
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Terribly unethical columnist advice. She already knows her boyfriend would likely raise an issue with it from how she says it would damage his relationship with his parents, and spends multiple paragraphs talking about how his parents should stay tight-lipped and if not she should get them tight-lipped. At that point, is probably more important is nothing to do with Who are you to decide this for other people? Are you okay when other people decide this kind of stuff for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 08:23 AM
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In statistics terms this isn't being generalized against the general population, it's comparing the non virgins of the sample and the virgins of the sample. Mathematically, this still leads to a degree of information about what the differences between the two groups are
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 12:30 AM
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Looks as a whole matter less at settling age. That’s why it’s settling, they aren’t physically attracted but you may have a nice income or place to stay. Drugs and alcohol does both Again, the virgins in question are at settling age, but they also have been at "fun age" in the past. One would expect that to make it past "fun age" not having gotten laid, one should be likely to be unattractive, thus short. Yes it makes sense for non virgins to have average height as it'll contain both betabuxxes …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 12:23 AM
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28% of men in the surveys, not necessarily the US's male population. Fast Google search says the number of US men who have ever been to jail is 9%, it might be higher for +30 yo men but not by a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 12:13 AM
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I generally agree with your comment but I don't know if you read who was it in response to, it was to the above comment saying that +30 yo virgins being poor is just because they aren't even worth being "betabuxxed" for and that if they had money then they would be getting betabuxxed instead of being incels
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 12:08 AM
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Height isnt really relevant at the settling age. One would think incels are the men who in addition to not being worth betabuxxing are also physically undesirable, both things should be totally relevant even at the settling age for men who haven't gotten laid neither at 20 nor at 30. Unless you believe face is everything? Drugs and alcohol makes it easier to cope with the lackluster life you settled into. Drugs and alcohol into broken families and criminals Are you implying the settled for betab…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 12:02 AM
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Thoughts on: Wizards having healthier bodyweight and being on average only 0.4 inches shorter than non-wizards Non-wizards being likelier to: have broken families, drink alcohol, take drugs, have been jailed (all bad betabuxx qualities)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 11:48 PM
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Thoughts on: Wizards having healthier bodyweight and being on average only 0.4 inches shorter than non-wizards Non-wizards being likelier to: have broken families, drink alcohol, take drugs, have been jailed (all bad betabuxx qualities)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 11:48 PM
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Body count is a social construct
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 11:20 PM
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There's nothing wrong with the town bicycle woman wanting to settle down with a shy nerd after having her fun
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 11:02 PM
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Algorithms nowadays are ruthless and will definitely push stuff into you if they think there's a chance you might be the target demographic, same way you watch one workout vid and suddenly you have your YT recommendations crawling with owned SJW compilation #316 or some woman saying something dumb on a dudebro podcast
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 10:43 PM
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<image> +30 year old virgin males are disproportionately likely to be poor. Further reading: https://nuancepill.substack.com/p/how-many-men-become-wizards-and-why
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 06:21 PM
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Every morning I dedicate a wank to Milton Friedman with the invisible hand of the free market. Does that cancel it out?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 09:46 AM
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The correct reason to not hard carry conversations, in platonic setting or elsewhere, is because lack of engagement is a heavy sign of lack of interest in the first place. And it's not needed to "wait" to check for this. Also, good conversations should not feel like "work"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 09:43 PM
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I think you guys' thoughts regarding what "bluepill" says is schizophrenic. One day y'all say that bluepill says if you're a nice kind thoughtful people pleaser guy you'll get pussy and that that's what bluepillers mean by personality. The next day you say that bluepill says if you can't get women then you're a loser. Bluepill/"society" basically means whatever you're in the mood to rail against in the moment
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 09:37 PM
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Possibly "she's in my league" effect. I think prettier women being approached by a smaller percentage of men since less people feel in their league is totally a thing in some dating markets. But who knows
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 07:34 PM
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Tbh can't get this sort of savior complex mentality. I think if you purposefully want a flawed partner in order to improve them instead of one already well-rounded, there's something wrong in your head
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 07:31 PM
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Required reading together with Sex At Dawn
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 11:55 AM
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How would you classify it apart from rape by deception
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 10:55 AM
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Questions: Is lying about having a vasectomy to a sex partner rape? Is pretending you like someone in order to have sex with them rape (i.e. pump and dump)? how do you reconcile your beliefs about not disclosing transness being worthy of prosecution with your answer to these previous two questions?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 10:28 AM
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What's the problem of trans people hooking up without disclosing their transness if they don't reveal their genitals?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 10:21 AM
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Even if she didn't show her genitals...? Honestly I could see hooking up with someone without knowing they had male genitals, and then they go and show them or even reveal they have them, basically morally count as flashing. But in this theoretical instance of giving a clothed BJ, who cares if she didn't reveal she had them?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 10:13 AM
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I think generally people virtue signal a lot about morality of candidates, but when it comes down to it, most of the time they'll vote to push forward their economic self interests/preferred policy agenda most of the time. Anti-socialist boomer women will still vote like anti-socialist boomer women. Apart from that Cuomo was the "though on crime" candidate which could've made inroads with some women concerned about street harassment I'm guessing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 09:40 AM
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https://edition.cnn.com/election/2025/exit-polls/new-york-city/general/mayor/0 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 08:34 AM
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https://rd.springer.com/article/10.1007/s12119-020-09729-1 "Women with tattoos reported greater willingness to engage in uncommitted sexual relations, as well as higher endorsement of egalitarianism and sensation-seeking, relative to non-tattooed women" https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/22739949/ "A higher prevalence of tattooing and piercings was observed in groups with a history of psychiatric disorders, criminal records, alcohol, tobacco and illicit drug consumption and initiation of sexual act…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 07:09 AM
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Damn sucks. Tbh even just seeing graphs comparing the growth of post-soviet republics that joined the EU Vs the ones who didn't is just sad
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 02:31 PM
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Have you ever voted? If so what have you voted?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 02:27 PM
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https://edition.cnn.com/election/2025/exit-polls/new-york-city/general/mayor/0 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 02:22 PM
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You get in your head too much
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 08:59 AM
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How? She's just saying she's not into this guy. What redpill is she saying
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 08:58 AM
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Bad means immorality. The moral response to immoral behaviour is ostracism, and failure to adhere to that is a moral failing, and hints at more moral failings from these people that they willingly associate themselves with immoral people. And well, if you hang out around this company, you'll reap what you sow. It's also heavy naivety to think that when there's a "lower value" partner in a relationship, it'll be basically "relationship in easy mode" for the higher value partner and that the lower…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 08:52 AM
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YIMBYism by itself has little to do with right vs left or traditionalism vs progressivism. Though as for what you say yeah it makes a lot of sense due to easy access to birth control, etc. A more interesting thing I looked up some time ago is relationship structures: did more feminist women in 50/50 relationships, or homemaker tradwives, have better sex and romantic lives? I think there's not enough info to tell, I saw research papers pointing both ways
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 06:23 PM
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High housing prices from artificially restricted supply and bad incentive structures is a common problem in many cities in developed countries, not NY in particular
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 06:17 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 05:57 PM
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be more comparatively conservative in comparison to other ages I asked for difference between young men and old men, not for difference between young men of blue states and of red states
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 04:48 PM
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Why would young men in red states be more comparatively conservative in comparison to other ages than young men in blue states
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 04:32 PM
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Now I'm really curious to read about stories on reddit where people tried that after their partner cheated. None with that synopsis come to mind, but you can also look for the word "threesome" in dating advice subreddits and look for some stories about partners demanding a threesome with the third being the gender they're into after having one with the gender the other partner was into. Those are also fun
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 04:28 PM
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Again, you’re assuming that these men who are currently only in relationships because of their compensatory value will still be chosen/stayed with if their partners no longer needed them to be financially secure. I think that many self respecting men would not have chosen to enter the relationships in the first place if they knew they would be BB. But if we're talking from the point of someone who actively wants that kind of relationships and is afraid of rising "betabuxx prices", I guess that's…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 04:22 PM
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Remember, it’s not a coincidence that the overwhelming majority of marriages with a sole breadwinner feature a working man, not a woman: women prefer men who earn more than them. Weren't you a few months ago talking about why women complain that biology forces them into homemaking roles or something like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 04:13 PM
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The basic counterpoint is that good economy makes it easier to vet and ensure that you won't get betabuxxed since there's less of an incentive for it. If you want to "betabuxx-maxx" in that way, sugar dating and passportbroing is always still available Edit: also, better economy = bigger war chest with which to whoremaxx/passportbro
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 04:09 PM
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Interesting take. I think you're the first person I've ever seen in this sub claiming that bad economy is actually good for dating for men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 03:52 PM
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The NYC YIMBY ballot proposals passed today. Reminder to incels: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 03:43 PM
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Yeah that narrative is very much bs
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 03:38 PM
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CNN NJ exit polls shows men 18-29 being more right wing than men 30-44 actually, though wasn't the case in neither NY nor Virginia. Also the Virginia election had a very stark gender divide of 34 points, though dunno why https://edition.cnn.com/election/2025/exit-polls/new-jersey/general/governor/0 Also fun fact: there was almost no gender divide in the NY election, the one where one of the candidates is under sexual harassment scandals (EDIT: digging into it more, basically older women DGAF whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 03:28 PM
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Polling suggests the porn age verification law is popular with UK's electorate though, and draws huge multipartisan support. It isn't the reason normies aren't voting labor <image> https://www.ipsos.com/en-uk/britons-back-online-safety-acts-age-checks-are-sceptical-effectiveness-and-unwilling-share-id
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:51 PM
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On 2020 r/neoliberal this was called the "Miami-Dade incident"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 07:38 AM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Doomscrolling
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 06:12 PM
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Pretty sure therapy totally helps with anxiety problems or if you legitimately cannot stand the idea of probably upsetting people even slightly/being a doormat. Self help books also exist for both these issues. What do you expect to gain about those problems of yours here that you wouldn't gain with therapy?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 02:22 PM
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I think you're being unnecessarily obtuse and imagining opinions of mine that I haven't voiced. Sure, Jordan Peterson would be left wing in Taliban Afghanistan, and Bernie Sanders would be right wing in the Soviet Union, if that's what you were aiming for. Dunno what Joe Rogan has ever voted, but I'm explaining that the hate he gets is by left-wing leaning people that disapprove of the republican party and want the republican party to lose elections.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 12:35 PM
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For the general context of my comment, association with USA's republican party.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 12:06 PM
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Jordan Peterson is right wing and thus controversial. You can pretty much ask ChatGPT why is he controversial. Ironically though, on gender war issues related to this sub he's kinda bluepilled, though in the tradcon kind rather than feminist kind. Joe Rogan is disliked in left wing spaces because he's perceived to present himself as moderate, but have a right wing slant, have right wing leaning opinions, and give higher degree of voice to right wing figures while not pushing back. Don't know muc…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 11:09 AM
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You ragebaited so hard your comments are now autocollapsed. Wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 08:43 AM
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Have you ruled out awkwardness, anxiety, demeanor etc? Those are way likelier to be a factor in impressions than your looks when socializing with men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:14 PM
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Be a bit loud, be a bit overbearing, be a bit arrogant, be chatty, be funny, be low inhibition cockier, louder, and more insufferable In red pill lingo, these are referred to as "alpha traits", whereas good partner traits are referred to as "beta traits". That is what I'm referring to. And btw yes, you can employ salesman skills to showcase your "beta traits" too. That is however not what you initially said.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 12:45 PM
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This idea that you should be "alpha" only at the start and "beta" only in the "maintenance phase" is deeply misguided. Women attracted to alpha traits will want you to stay alpha the entire relationship, and women who want a partner with beta traits will expect a man to showcase those beta traits since early on. Your point of different skillsets is overall true, but your advice of scamming women by acting alpha only to then reveal that actually you were a beta is a bad one. You should learn to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 12:37 PM
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Here's the full article: https://archive.is/wmPGX This one also doesn't really support how the OP characterizes it. It's not about "emotionally available men giving her the ick" it's more about the guy being a beta loser, which is arguably different issues. I saw it interesting as in in and of itself regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 10:10 PM
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That third article is interesting, thanks for sharing. It basically feels like the guys detailed in No More Mr Nice Guy but from a female perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 07:58 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 11:01 AM
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> Believer in patriarchy > Bent over to women at the slightest pushback This really says a lot about our society 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 09:49 AM
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From my perspective his defenders come more from a place of wingcuckery and and cronyism (dunno what would be the correct english word for this? I mean his buddies defending him due to being his buddies) more than anything. The political angle is extremely close to how people regardless of gender personally defend their "tribe"'s members and I'm not sure there's any gender angle at all to which of his supporters were more likely to turn on him or not. Both his male and female buddies are defendi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 09:48 AM
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deleted his account yesterday because he felt bad about upsetting women here with his takes or something like that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 09:41 AM
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Someone commented in the daily that the Hasan's female fans and female friends' response to the drama was proof of the halo effect and women making excuses for men they find attractive. Sadly no thread on that one though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 09:38 AM
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"I don't fully trust so I want proof": ❌ """Trust but verify""":
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:14 PM
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Pro or anti? That people don't want to be with someone who wants (and especially, needs) constant verifications is a common talking point in these threads
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:06 PM
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Real conversation from a Reddit thread: Did you go through her phone [to learn that]? Absolutely, trust but verify This is something I've been kinda thinking for a long time, but this is the first time I've seen such a brazen display of "trust but verify" being such a meaningless buzzword. At best seems like just an euphemism of "gain trust by verifying"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 05:25 PM
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Men's romance wish fulfillment/erotica media is usually done in other formats. Japanese visual novels for example. From those, I'd say Clannad, Muv-Luv and Fate/Stay Night are pretty decent, to name 3 popular and successful ones. All have male authors. F/SN went on to make a massive multimedia empire off the original VN. The other two were still very successful but not quite to that level.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 01:36 PM
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Gains from muscle. You can't choose where you get gains from becoming fatter, that's genetics
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 10:36 PM
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My favourite in the anime community is men liking "chubby women" that just so happen that all the fat went to the correct places. There's also the 25 year old = MILF thing, but that's also because of the target audience of anime tbf
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 10:34 PM
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Most people IRL do know that LMS makes you more conventionally desirable though, no difference in that point. That's a different issue from optimism/pessimism
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 09:56 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 09:48 PM
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Again that's for private citizens to consider and engage in in my opinion. IMO government should have little say on how individuals that haven't been proven to commit a crime are treated due to belief of it. But as for what people apart from the government should do: it's a gradient. The more likely the crime seems the more ostracism is justified, even if it'll suck for them if they're innocent and their reputation's still ruined. On the flip side, a nearly obvious criminal getting scot free isn…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 09:40 PM
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I think the legal system should always maintain due process, but that private citizens should be free to practice ostracism or other social punishments (bar vigilantism) however they like in these situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 09:31 PM
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It's already happened multiple times in a row I think? Automod's broken
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 09:02 PM
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Conventional mainstream advice or belief might vary by location and thus key red pill beliefs LMS might go as far as being considered considered mainstream and pill-agnostic, and at that point even disagreeing with the mere framing of mainstream society having taken Matrix's metaphorical blue pill could even be enough to qualify as having some degree of disagreement with RP. Not that finding niche stuff to disagree with RP is hard, going into stuff like evopsych, dark triad, AWALT, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 08:30 PM
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From the wiki: To BPers, "blue pill" is basically disagreeing with TRP, usually with it's stance on women, relationships, and/or science. Generally by agreeing with societies mainstream view of these matters (hence, the blue pill). There's no set philosophy or goal other than disagreeing with RPers, so the Red Pill and Blue Pill shouldn't be seen as two contrasting ideologies so much as one strategy and set of beliefs about the world and another group that satirizes and disagrees with it. You ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 08:12 PM
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Socializing with extroverted men lands you access to their female friends/acquaintances and access to general extroverted people events and social opportunities. You yourself said you have introverted friends with seemingly small social circles too so that's something to look into
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 08:05 PM
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2 and below according to truerateme is bottom 0.134% and and 3 and below is bottom 2.5%, are these the approximate magnitudes we're talking about? If so I'm inclined to agree somewhat, I was thinking more tbh in terms of height were shorter men could be likelier to be picked on
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 08:04 PM
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Beating around the bush is not pivoting to talking about date logistics, which was indeed likely the play. His comment about her staying late seems to me to have a akward and accusatory tone that Idk if she'd approve, though plenty of people in the responses talk about what's bad about his game in general
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 07:58 PM
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How unattractive do you have to be to the point of it mattering heavily when socializing with men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 07:45 PM
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Her in the comments: they were introduced via a matchmaker. They both already opted into meeting for a date. He should ask her on a date, not ask her "what u been up to tonight" unless you're literally 100% certain you're a good texter, stick to logistics! Her biggest post: The main problem is that he sent her multiple paragraphs of text without asking her out. She already spent 30min on the phone with his matchmaker, and agreed to go on a date with him. Now he's beating around the bush? Not pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 07:38 PM
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WAW derangement syndrome
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 10:38 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/0i1p7xlcs0xf1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b09dc4e65d5daddbd4afcfaaa438e4fc23b620ca
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 08:25 AM
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I assume you'll keep your thoughts consistent in response to the next news about a sexual assault resulting in likely zero proof (going from this piece of news about him attempting to assault her in a secluded location and failing) but ending with a man in jail
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 08:02 AM
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So women should be allowed to make whatever false accusations for whatever reason and skip due process, they should just take care of maintaining a good reputation before doing them Well at least that sets you slightly apart from #believeallwomen
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 07:47 AM
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When Mohamed was eventually arrested, he was acquitted by a judge for lack of evidence. The prosecutor, however, filed an appeal, which led to [...] Something tells me that this is the kind of story that if the suspect was a native guy would lead to a very different kind of discourse from right wingers. Right wingers will become a horseshoe with #believeallwomen ultra-feminists when migrants are involved lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 07:42 AM
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Wtf what happened to eulenwatcher?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 12:48 PM
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You seem to be mistaking pickiness with shallowness it’s not because she has a specific checklist of features it’s her overall look, energy, and presence that catch him *Proceeds to make a bunch of checkpoints about how basically nothing matters for men and anything is fine enough* 'Overall look' and then you proceed to make points 1 through 4 about how they don't matter for men. 'Energy, presence' and then proceed to make points 6 through 9. That’s why men’s attraction feels broader. It’s not a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 09:41 AM
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Dating market problems of asian american men has been in the conversation since the 90s at least https://www.stevesailer.net/p/classic-sailer-is-love-colorblind
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 04:29 PM
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Lol your post history is a trip. Recommendation if you want to hide your trolling, go from new reddit into profile -> Curate your profile -> Content and activity -> Hide all
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 09:16 AM
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Yeah anxiety is a common turn off including for men. Though women with BDSM fetishes can actually be turned on by anxiety or feelings adjacent to anxiety. You can capture those kinda feelings by getting into BDSM or light BDSM yourself. Some women can also be turned on by roleplay BDSM but not aroused by a real situation of sexual assault. There's also some women who've developed BDSM fetishes as a consequence of suffering sexual assault. As to your perception that women only orgasm when they're…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 07:24 AM
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This was the original quote regarding masculinity I was talking about be less emotional, hide thier stress We're referring mostly to psychological, emotional weakness, rather than physical mostly. I do not personally believe the correct solution to these issues is condescending coddling, which is what women usually experience in societies with high masculinity expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 11:05 AM
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Isn't your flair red pill? What do you think about the red pill motto of treating your wife as the oldest teenager in the house? In your opinion the proper solution to masculinity expectations is to treat weak immature men in a similar manner as women?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 10:27 AM
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In an alternative universe we're in 2050 and GKilat is still going about how reality isn't real and it's not possible to learn information from reality in response to being shown any uncomfortable scientific finding, and the other guy is still responding
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 04:11 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1hjdz54/comment/myh1fpj/ Lasted half a year
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 03:53 PM
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You mix a bunch of expectations coming from different sources that make little sense to ground together socially expected to be the provider, work more The only part of society who expects you this in western societies is the dating market. The dating market in this context is nothing more than women who seek to date's collective preferences for who they want to date. If you think women's standards in general are unreasonable in comaprison to men's average standards and that it is a societal pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 08:21 AM
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Yes I'm talking about hormonal BC
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 07:45 PM
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Are you or them on birth control? That's a fun theory I read from time to time on what causes women to like less masculine men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 02:44 PM
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If you're at the stage where you do not even know which dating apps are popular in your area, you're already at the stage where you should be looking into other things
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 09:41 AM
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Yes, I read that part. What about it? It doesn't contradict the conclusion section of the blogpost. .5 is almost 5x stronger correlation than anything else produced in these studies. The correlation you're quoting is between being fat and being unattractive, not between being fat/unattractive and being high N
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 09:39 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 08:14 AM
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In your first paragraph, marriage went from 51.5% in 2004 to just 47.1% in 2024, including having a slight stall and even a resurgence from 2015 to 2020 before COVID hit. Seems like hypergamy and 80/20 was already here in 2004
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 07:52 AM
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When looking at the literature on the subject rather than shows made for entertainment, evidence points towards more attractive women having slightly higher N counts, approximately same as men https://archive.is/CLggA
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 07:38 AM
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<image> How hard would you swipe right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 08:14 PM
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If you live with spouse and children and also go out your way to find stuff to do and improve things rather than just do the necessary for things to work, you'll spend more time
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 07:58 PM
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Men tend to do handyman stuff that's infrequently useful but requires strength or expertise. Electrician, plumbing, home repairs, maintaining cars, internet & telephone, bricolage, etc. That kind of work is valuable and should be recognized when appropriate
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 07:34 PM
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Lol I'm joking I think neither AOC nor MTG will win the nomination, likely neither will run for president AOC if anything will go to the senate first at least and MTG will stay where she is I'd love for it to be buttigieg but sadly he has an uphill battle
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 07:15 PM
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Actually my sources say it's inevitable, gynocracy is coming to the US in 2028 one way or the other
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 07:05 PM
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Who will you support in the coming civil war between antifa terrorist AOC and Empress MTG who took the throne after Emperor Trump was assissanated
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:28 PM
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Who will you vote in the inevitable 2028 election between AOC and MTG
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:24 PM
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and if you're happy in your relationship Easy to do this if you've been able to be picky in that regard instead of settling for whatever you could get There are studies on the subject but think they're kind of a tossup, regarding non-monogamy in particular, attractive men have on average higher lifetime sexual partner counts but only slightly. On serial monogamy, I think they're also slightly more serially monogamous but haven't looked into those
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:19 PM
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Feigning and building confidence/status definitely positively affects more parts of your life than just dating
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 03:26 PM
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I think you might have shared an AI slop article, what is that website, where are they pulling their exact numbers from, why are sources listed like that (and also cite reddit as a source)? though yeah women swiping right in like 10% of profiles whereas men swiping right on 50% is well established
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 03:12 PM
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essential facts cervical orgasms are said to increase pair bonding Real ass fact that something has been said by someone
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 03:07 PM
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MFW voting democrat doesn't only make me honorary black according to Biden, it now also makes me spiritually tall according to AOC. Wonder what more powers I could receive
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 03:00 PM
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I agree that the term manosphere is more or less a buzzword tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:20 PM
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The USA democrat and republican parties are massively well oiled political machines and future elections are unlikely to be landslide sweeps for the foreseeable future.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:08 PM
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If you explicitly trim down manosphere to explicitly mean male content creators that cater to a heavily male audience but that also are heavy gender warriors, that again calls into question the importance of gender war in American politics, as their postures aren't hegemonic. The article you shared also has Kamala using a pretty blanket definition of 'manosphere'.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:05 PM
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Funnily, Rolling Stone published this recently: https://www.rollingstone.com/politics/politics-news/theo-von-joe-rogan-manosphere-influencers-trump-1235441563/ <image> At the end of the day, the gap between how men and women voted was actually smaller in 2024 than in 2016. The influence of the gender war in American politics, or how much that influence is growing, is overstated. https://edition.cnn.com/election/2024/exit-polls https://edition.cnn.com/election/2016/results/exit-polls
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 08:50 PM
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they need to feel like the man is better than her Literally nothing like what the driver argued, hypergamy is evolutionary and biological according to RP especially when it mirrors her relationship with her father. Also RP's thought and rhetoric on daddy issues and its effects is quite different from the more bluepill idea of trauma bonding
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 09:39 PM
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RP is supportive of monolithizing rhetoric like 'all men are trash' over self-introspection over who you choose to associate with ('AWALT', 'unicorns'), and disagrees with the driver on her reasoning for her disliking that type of men, pointing towards biological evolutionary reasons where women have evolved to be attracted to aloof/avoidant men or men with dark triad traits or traits correlated with those due to their success in reproducing. I don't know how you see RP as the main people behind…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 09:33 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 07:28 PM
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The guy suggests anal and the girl says no that she already tried it and she disliked it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 05:14 PM
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Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 02:18 PM
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Steelmanning the butthurt women in the comments: they've had a situation when they were doing some enjoyable activity, then bf tries to initiate sex but she isn't into it right now, she rejects him, he gets butt hurt, mood sours, now she's also butthurt ("he only likes me so long as I give him that something"). I assume that most average and below average libido women can relate
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 02:16 PM
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Going for giga-clingy unstable women for short term is definitely a bruh moment
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 01:29 PM
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I spot maybe like 5 of those guys who are legit weird looking? The rest I think seem normalish. Tho I don't know much about eastern Asian beauty standards
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 01:22 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/or7zchfpcgtf1.jpeg?width=1000&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c25adb33bddc587b4ed4f66a3d4931e9b148594d
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 08:32 AM
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Liking to travel is a cliche women post on dating apps to fill up their interests/hobbies list with something that 1. Makes them seem worldly, adventurous, etc. 2. If they're lying there'll be few opportunities to be caught on, it's very cost free to put it in your bio, not like women are culturally expected to pay for trips in early dating either. I don't think dating app women in his age range actually like travelling more than the average (AKA sun and beach tourism on summers and maybe a rare…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 05:58 AM
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Why does he look short? Is it partially a fashion issue (long shirt, pants' waistline) or posture issues or does he have a legit elongated torso/big head/short legs?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 05:50 AM
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I'm talking about getting a gf, not maintaining her
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 05:38 AM
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What exactly do you learn from a practice gf relevant for getting a gf that you don't from escorts or just trying to date casually?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 09:04 AM
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There exists an ethical version of this: sugar babies/GFE prostitutes. That said, I think most skills relevant to be able to get into a relationship with a woman can be mostly practiced and earned without being in/cosplaying a relationship with women, you can probably figure them out of trial and error without needing to lead people on. Maintaining a relationship is a different issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 07:15 AM
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A good place to twist the knife in is if part of their harsh rejection stems from thinking they're above your league/offended that you thought you were in her league. That's a good insecurity to exploit, you having approached means you indeed think you have a chance with her, and is she sure her judgement is better than yours? communicate that point her and you can very well damage her self confidence. As always with banter, don't fall into the trap of accepting her 'frame' and assume her worldv…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 10:51 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 10:40 AM
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Thanks for answering. Your hypothesis for how could the new GSS methodology underrate sexlessness compared to telephone is valid. At the same time, I assume you concede that looking at the 2018 GSS figure as an arbiter of truth for estimating not even undesirability but even just the question it directly asked is putting a lot of stock into one outlier figure - again, looking at surveys as a whole right now, the 30%ish figure is for "no sex in the last year" for 18-29 yo men right now, which is …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 04:21 PM
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Can you briefly explain how? To my understanding the industry is moving towards online surveys from more telephone/in person methods, and don't see how online surveys are likelier to be filled by sex-having people, or how the format of online surveys makes people likelier to lie for social approval. In fact, I'm familiar with political polling, and it's kind of a fact by now that online surveys are as good or an even better methodology to predict elections than telephone (and yes, online pollste…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 03:04 PM
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There's also outright studies (in addition to common sense TBF) suggesting that whereas being highly attractive has drawbacks for women, for men it's nearly all upsides
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 02:27 PM
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I'm still curious about your past comment about newer Pew Research surveys being biased towards sexually active people. Where/how did you get that? Edit: GSS, not Pew Research
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 02:23 PM
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Red pillers actually agree with many normie ideas they just give them an edgier branding appealing to the bitter and misogynistic sensitivities of its adherents, add some BS on top, then proceed to claim that they actually are the inventors of those ideas and that others "actually agree with redpill ideals but just dislike the branding". No, the concept of women liking tall billionaires wasn't invented in 2011 by Rollo Tomassi or whatever you think happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 02:19 PM
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I believe in other incentive-based approaches in order to deter immoral behavior, just like markets incentivize people to be productive. Strong police force with the fitting judiciary to process and deter drug dealers, anti-corruption bodies overseeing police and judiciary, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 06:52 PM
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Virgin/low n is not synonimous with not promiscuous. If you aim for younger women and women who are inexperienced due to lack of opportunity rather than lack of want, this FOMO'll be the usual result, despite claims of "alpha widowing" being the primary cause of desire to cheat or monkey branch.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 06:46 PM
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I'm a capitalist, I think the pursuit of status and wealth is an excellent incentive for people to be productive and to make societies prosper, and that thus it's fine for women to sexually desire status as it incentivizes men to be productive in the pursuit of status. Societies that offer no incentive for productivity often fall to societal rot, regardless of whether some individuals in it might choose to be productive without incentive, like this theoretical cancer-curing good samaritan, whose…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 06:24 PM
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Argued point: women are more delusional than men One of the arguments: if she shows interest in you she's below your league Societal result: women adjust their behaviour to avoid seeming desperate Later consequence: self fulfilling prophecy, now women are colder with men in their league Finally, the later consequence is used to argue in support of the original point
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 01:42 PM
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When looking into PPD forums, you still read takes like that if a woman flirts with you she's likely below your league, that if she goes so far as to approach you she's likely heavily below your league, and that if she's in your league she'll be a bitchy ice queen because actually women are the ones who overrate themselves so they're permanently only aiming at men above their league. Which is a funny circular logic if you think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 01:13 PM
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High n is tied to a variety of personality traits in studies (extraversion, impulsiveness, openness of experience, among others) and can also be tied to things like environment and upbringing. They aren't crucial but notable for personal compatibility. Btw, studies also say that couples' N counts are correlated, with an r of approximately 0.4-0.5, and also that large discrepancies in n-count negatively affect relationship happiness
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 06:12 AM
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The real male oppression is men not being allowed to wear ultra tight yoga pants
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 08:02 PM
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r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 07:34 PM
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Hillary's margin with women in comparison to men was actually higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 07:35 AM
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Yes, read the second paragraph again. You aren't actually saying anything that goes against what was written in the paragraph.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 06:42 AM
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The bluepill, according to the wiki, is essentially everyone not redpill or blackpill. This lumps your stereotypical rural normie religious conservative tradhusband together with radfems. That said for the dynamics of this subreddit, bluepill is essentially the "pro-women" side while black/redpillers are the "anti-women" side. I personally am not sure if I would self-label as feminist, but I do definitely self label as egalitarian. For reference, I live in a country where only 60% of women and 5…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 06:38 AM
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To begin with, agriculture in the US was dominated by small and medium sized landowners whose interest do not align at all with socialism, whereas in China, the tenants working in pseudo-feudal conditions absolutely had personal interest in land reform. That said, it's fair to say American politics are evolving in a post-class war direction <image> https://edition.cnn.com/election/2024/exit-polls/national-results/general/president/0
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 06:12 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/djo8qj3kufsf1.jpeg?width=640&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=401afcce5b308095cbc913d18d84a827421495b4
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 05:44 AM
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Fast googling says that actually Egypt allows abortion to save mother from mortal danger. TBF the map is unnuanced and I think doesn't for what exactly defines each category, pretty sure that in at least some countries "on social or economic grounds" pretty much means that you can abort so long as you claim that it's on those grounds lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 04:26 PM
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The US for the most part is uniquely conservative on abortion, conservatives of many countries are way more pro-abortion than US ones https://preview.redd.it/5s0syymaubsf1.png?width=927&format=png&auto=webp&s=3ad9dd11a85acb880d0d9e61b937293cfd9460db
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 04:15 PM
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Similar with menopause and perimenopause. The usual and also what makes biological sense would be a lowered libido, though well, human bodies are essentially machines with all kinds of weird kinks. Have even seen accounts of women turning lesbians after menopause
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 04:10 PM
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I think it's very common to see pregnant women as a turnoff. Though also usually goes both ways, women usually have lowered libido during pregnancy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 04:03 PM
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'Peak Rizz', as zoomers nowadays will say
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 03:27 PM
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- Bottom 0.22% of height in the USA https://www.gigacalculator.com/calculators/height-percentile-calculator.php - Autistic: 4% of men - Black: 13% of Americans - Poor: Bottom 55% of black Americans I think going by how they seemingly self describe? https://news.gallup.com/poll/645281/steady-americans-identify-middle-class.aspx Top 0.0006% level of unlucky (assuming independent variables apart from between race and income), yeah my condolences to this hypothetical guy. #1 advice would be learning…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 03:20 PM
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I think on less popular threads the vote counts are less loopsided, but on the ones who blow up it's always red/black at the top even while being debate threads, you can check for yourself those 6 threads, and noting that [deleted] comments at the top are usually deleted due to the no circlejerking rule
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 12:42 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 12:14 PM
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Kashmir is rightly ours and was given to us by it former ruler. Fast googling regarding Junagadh and Hyderabad reveals how consistent India's thoughts regarding rulers' decisions are lol Again, Pakistan fights for a righteous cause doing whatever's necessary yet people like you shit on them, why, just for trivial stuff like supporting and training Islamist terrorists? why is the world like this 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 07:10 AM
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It's so sad how Pakistan gets so unfairly demonized they just want to liberate the people of Kashmir...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 06:43 AM
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I do not legitimately believe having to hide from your gf that you piss in sinks is some sort of injustice lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 05:07 AM
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"women demand you need experience to get an entry level job" "why do women want men with experience???" "why is my dating pool all leftovers and divorcees? Why are all the quality people already paired up???" "men are supposed to age like wine, how come dating 18 yo girls was easier when I was 20 than now when I'm 30 and Officially Finished Building Myself™???" Never goes well
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 09:10 PM
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"You were supposed to have it all figured out by middle school if you aren't stupid" I won't call you stupid, but I do think you were likely sheltered and didn't interact or socialize much with other boys who pursued women + trial and error yourself. Because yes, that's pretty much the process by which people learn this stuff early on in teenagehood. I'll honestly say that the idea of a man getting to 18 in the environment I personally live and still not knowing about looks-money-status-game is …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 07:24 PM
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Also in the anglosphere, look up https://www.tiktok.com/@wyszkay Yeah, pretty much anything that gets perceived as feminine or "weak" by someone has been probably seen as an ick by some woman. I even remember someone seeing sleeping as an ick
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 07:14 PM
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in h/s as a naive clueless lost kid everyone just told me to be nice and caring and be a good guy and be a feminist ally and all that. Who did you receive this advice from, barring internet and female family members?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 07:08 PM
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I've already posted this in the past, but what do you refer to by "media mouthpieces and authors of widespread sociopolitical narrative-fueled articles"? And regarding generic platitudes, why do the ones regarding dating require any further apology from the advice giver than generic platitudes regarding any other area? Are you consistent in how you assign blame for people taking such kind of advice as gospel and to heart generally?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 07:04 PM
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Wtf you made me ask ChatGPT to look for those studies and I found this one about whether women prefer getting cheated on with women or with femboys 🤣 https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/34191231/ It showed me one about actual gay vs hetero cheating but it actually seems less conclusive than I thought, a sizeable percentage of women (35%) do prefer getting cheated on with men, more than I thought https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/30983395/
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 03:47 PM
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And/or the aforementioned sexual trauma issues get in the way of enjoyable sex. Because that's what psychologically induced vaginismus points towards, unsolved sexual hangups. Also, spin the situation and imagine yourself as a man with a micropenis so that your partner can't enjoy vaginal sex with you - that also does a number on your sexual ego and libido that can further spiral. Generally, a lot of people have difficulty enjoying sex if they fear they're a bad lay or that their partner is not …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 03:31 PM
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The primary concern would be to compare if his wife would be the same with tampons or those balls for pelvic floor exercises, which afaik are still a problem for women with vaginismus. And thinking that maybe good dick can cure vaginismus is a sort of arrogance kinda on the same level as good dick being able to cure/overcome sexual trauma, honestly first time I read about this concept that if she gets super turned on she can "forget" about the trauma and get cured Honestly never heard anyone eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 03:13 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/6h6d5lmwc4sf1.jpeg?width=640&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a729da67e822bfc1f80e3423bea7a01584a96fd3 And yet women still claim they want men to "open up" and "be vulnerable" 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 03:05 PM
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Wtf? I had no idea that "she wouldn't have vaginismus if I was chad" was a thing. First time I hear about this insecurity lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:59 PM
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Brb gonna make a post supporting France's law on paternity tests and accusing men who disagree of being insecure deadbeat fathers
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 09:11 PM
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Been a while since somebody made a paternity tests post. Somebody should get to it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 08:57 PM
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$3 on all the stats, probably taking $1 from Face to put it into loyalty
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 08:52 PM
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She's asking you if you ever slept with someone you don't see any possibility of things evolving into a relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 08:24 PM
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I don't see how you don't catch my comment. Assume a society has: 10 hot men 10 hot women 10 ugly men 10 ugly women Now, what will be the consequences of one of the 10 hot women pairing with one of the 10 ugly men? What's going to happen in response to there being 10 hot men but only 9 untaken hot women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 08:05 PM
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Don't you think both genders' attractiveness follow an approximately normal distribution? Do you believe in the OKCupid graph? <image> And do you think the order is: stacy dates moneymaxxed billy -> chad has to settle for average woman -> average men have to settle for Becky? I'm merely using hot and ugly to mean comparatively with each other, not in absolute terms
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 07:49 PM
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Then I reiterate my comment: If there's hot women dating rich ugly men, then there's broke hot men dating ugly women, and both will happen in equal quantities. Yet you said that hot women dating rich ugly men is more common
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 07:43 PM
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Damn if an average man dates his looksmatch that means he's aiming below his league? Brootal
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 07:34 PM
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To me, it’s more unbelievable that more unattractive women are with attractive men. Not so obvious when you yourself are talking about attractive people dating unattractive people not being unbelievable?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 07:34 PM
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But if there's a bunch of unattractive men with attractive women, then who are the attractive men pairing with? Do you believe to there be a surplus of attractive women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 07:04 PM
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But assuming men and women have the same distributions of attractiveness, then your idea doesn't logically hold. If there's a high quantity of ugly moneymaxxed men with hot women, then that means there's now a bunch of broke hot men for whom there's no hot woman, even though we all know broke Chad should be able to still pull. Billy/Stacy couples should be as common as Chad/Becky couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 07:03 PM
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Coddling an insecure partner is truly emotional labor tbf (know nothing about this guy or the context)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 05:44 PM
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#Confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 05:41 PM
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That is done by creeps and incels and are less than 10% who are a bane on our existence. ut most countries have people like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 05:37 PM
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Pretty sure north american women very heavily stereotype south asian men as creepy, way more than other cultures. Can't comment about it since I'm not from there, but it's the vibe I get from these forums
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 05:04 PM
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Isn't it true that India is very gender segregated and that thus Indian men tend to have terrible game from lack of practice? I thought the "bobs and vagene" thing became a meme for a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 04:50 PM
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Hell, I think men hating women their culture and looking to women of other cultures is a global incel feature generally. Pretty sure a narrative in east Asian incels is that their women are entitled gold digging hypergamous couch potatoes, whereas western women actually put effort into their relationships and treat their men well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 04:41 PM
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The ppl who claim that 'society lied to me about what women are into', pretty sure they all fall into some of the following Sheltered Little socializing Little socializing with women beyond surface level interactions Little socializing with men who socialize with women Consume and take wish fulfillment male fantasy media at face value. Knowing nothing about female-aimed media Take uplifting feel-good comments or advice at face value Straight up bad analytical skills (e.g. the autistic guy a few …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 08:13 AM
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I think if OP is in a 'autist-phobic' enough environment? Women who date autistic men might be considered losers for dating what's considered an undesirable autistic man. Have seen this phenomenon with physical attractiveness too, especially men dating conventionally ugly women on the downlow, not letting his social circle know because he fears getting picked on for that. But I think yeah there's likely more factors that lead to people being embarrassed to date/be seen in public with OP than bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 07:04 AM
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On a semi-related note I find surprising that searching for PPD on r/subredditdrama returns almost nothing. I would've expected this would be a massive karma farm for that sub
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 06:34 PM
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Don't you think you could get something if you sufficiently lowered your standards? e.g. an ugly alpha widowed fattie that settles for you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 06:08 PM
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Bro you routinely post about women being unable to get a satisfying bf
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 05:42 PM
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It's probably more than loser I'm assuming she's more like mentally ill or asexual spectrum or something. It's not that hard to get a bf
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 05:15 PM
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Honestly an observation I've made is that even though on one hand having no money is loser-ish/unattractive, on the other hand being a NEET gives you a lottt of free time for women. And some women are into that kind of relationship where the guy has all the time in the world for her. Heard this from guys talking about how their dating lives where like when unemployed vs when not unemployed
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 09:52 AM
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I imagine you doing this but in reverse <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 09:46 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 09:33 AM
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When you spot a new attractive woman, you will want to see if you’ve still got it. you will have an abundance mindset when it’s come to women and no single woman will ever be on a pedestal. These two statements are contradictory. Why do you want to see if you've still got it if you do truly have an abundance mindset? This seems like the viewpoint of an insecure person. will make it harder for you to have a healthy long term relationship When you’re a low value male, you may commit out of worry y…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 02:22 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/shortguys/comments/1nmut5j/rshortguys_and_the_largest_group_is_59_or_taller/ https://preview.redd.it/dj339mz8ihrf1.png?width=896&format=png&auto=webp&s=09533f58828ceea8c89fab80ee62a0f3690ab511 Priors: confirmed
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 10:14 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/7cv7037xbhrf1.jpeg?width=400&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=48b9828115387f72cd42385e4a929c9fdb19959f
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 09:39 AM
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I think there's ways to turn the mod files into a local mod untied from Steam and then unsubscribe from the workshop to stay with that old version, though not sure how
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 10:16 PM
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Don't worry it'll give you an opportunity to start a new campaign and learn how to respect women with Schleicher
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 10:06 PM
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Looking into it I think I linked a fake AI slop article lol and that the figure I quoted was pulled from this https://roast.dating/blog/tinder-statistics which is also a suspect source. RIP The best bet to get the median matches per week would be pulling what I think is the more reliable number of matches per day for men on average (seemingly 1.37 according to 2022 Tinder Insights)? And try to get data on how high performing are top men on Tinder in comparison to average men (think there's prob …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 05:03 PM
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I imagine it's probably some bizarrely misinterpreted data about Tinder user retention, in that what it's actually talking about is people deleting apps? Else the numbers barely make sense unless you go full 80/20. Tinder is 75/25 male/female, 36% of women "succeed at getting love", while only 1.8% of men do. Meaning that by napkin math those "succeeders" are in chad harem relationships of one guy with like 7 women. The linked source for that piece of data seems to be https://www.yearinswipe.com…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 04:44 PM
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I imagine you've read this piece but I feel compelled to share it: https://slatestarcodex.com/2014/09/30/i-can-tolerate-anything-except-the-outgroup/ I think these “tribes” will turn out to be even stronger categories than politics. Harvard might skew 80-20 in terms of Democrats vs. Republicans, 90-10 in terms of liberals vs. conservatives, but maybe 99-1 in terms of Blues vs. Reds. Yeah, it's noteworthy to talk about differences in American culture that go beyond mere exact political affiliatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 04:29 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 04:23 PM
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Conservatives are 90%+ of parents <image> https://edition.cnn.com/election/2024/exit-polls/national-results/general/president/0
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 04:21 PM
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Yeah in my area sex workers/onlyfans bots are a thing. Convos per week tbh I think is relatively rare for men to be juggling multiple convos per week simultaneously - though at the same time when the subject comes up I think male OLDers usually most of the time have some thing going
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 04:17 PM
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https://www.irocketx.com/change-location/tinder-statistics/ 52% of men get less than one match per day, while 13% get less than one per week. Anecdotically I also believe average is more like a handful a week
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 03:57 PM
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Have read a bunch of these takes by billys/beckys who evolved into chads/stacies (both genders), both agree in being bitter at other people's superficiality and how other people's treatment of them changed. In short yes, these people have baggage compared to "natural" chads/stacies that I imagine makes them sometimes more unpleasant to be in a relationship with
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 03:35 PM
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60% is on the very high end of estimates on the subject https://archive.is/6BuDb
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 03:30 PM
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The MGT guys are the true believers who actually go there to play MGT. Board game guys go there not because they were into board games but because they're tolerable enough as a nerdy-ish activity they can try to make some normie-ish friends with (My preconception)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 01:48 PM
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Never been to one of those but my preconception was that the attenders would be basically single 'male redditors' that read the Reddit advice of attending board game nights to widen their social circle and maybe get a gf. Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 01:40 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 01:28 PM
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If I was married to my previous partner (I assume so), then my answer would almost definitely be Yes because monkey branching while married is bad manners. That one's easy. If I wasn't, I think my answer would be similar anyway taking into account I grieved 5 years, and if she pressures much further I'd see it as a red flag for heavy insecurity that's gonna make for a difficult relationship no matter what I respond
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 01:26 PM
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the reverse of "There are no good men anymore", "men suck", "men are trash", "I'd only date a woman who made X amount", .etc We're talking about complaining about other people's preferences, not about general bashing or having unreasonable standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 01:16 PM
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Never heard any of your bros complain about this stuff but instead have heard women doing so?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 12:37 PM
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Me packing to Russia to poach alpha widower military wives
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 10:43 AM
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Hard agree
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 10:41 AM
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In that quote I'm not explaining at any moment how did I come to agree with looks-money-status-game. I'm instead explaining why I believe those but still self-describe as bluepill. But if you ask me how to acquire beliefs then yes, the ideal that I aim to follow is scientific method.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 10:40 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/gz59p86wfarf1.jpeg?width=2000&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8becaa2622106526f03c05978e94bdd07a4d5580 This + Unironically
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 10:29 AM
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That's a better metric yes. But even then, we can also inspect at which speed it's actually declining https://preview.redd.it/z7nder7yearf1.png?width=1127&format=png&auto=webp&s=b3578b39a0baeedfd5923610e66d5bd62d65c42d In 2000 (before the internet allegedly ruined dating) the rate was 52.8%, the 2024 figure was 47.1%
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 10:25 AM
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"Reports" aren't actually finding this, the author of that claim (Paul Dolan) later retracted that statement after finding errors in his research, and pretty much every other study and literature in the subject finds people are more often happier married than single. Which is almost tautological, as in today's age people usually don't marry if they don't believe it'll lead to higher happiness
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 10:17 AM
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In no part of my comment I implied that I form opinions based on vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 10:03 AM
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Here's to seeing the Chinese army getting BTFO'd at Taiwan sometime within this century
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 07:57 AM
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Military parades make me think of Napoleonic line infantry warfare, back in an era where soldiers coordinating with each other like in a parade was a relevant skill. Not a bad holdover
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 07:45 AM
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Leaving aside comparisons between men and women rather than absolute fear, the science does say that women are on average more neurotic than men actually. And with Reddit women in particular... I mean this is Reddit, this place definitely ain't less neurotic than the average
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 07:41 AM
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Personal opinion but hookup joints, as in the way I assume you and other people I read who recommend bars men it, are not significantly different from OLD. I honestly vouch for the concept that women in IRL are usually less picky than in dating apps, but apart from that, vast majority of complaints about OLD also apply to hook up joints. The way through which to date through social circles is to have a fairly active social life with a core group or at least multiple groups that you're a part of,…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 06:45 AM
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[One tribe's] preferences are considered morality [by the members of its tribe]. While [the other tribe's] preferences are considered evil [by the former]. That's more or less it. To the extent to which double standards about standards happen, it's very much two-way and people generally like having standards while simultaneously fighting against other people's preferences that exclude them. See: men's thoughts about women's preferences for height, money, guys better than her/"hypergamy", neuroty…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 06:34 AM
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The Collective West's cultural imperialism can't come to the east soon enough 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 09:27 PM
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I love that comic artist. Same one who dropped this banger <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 09:01 PM
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You ain't ready for Assassin's Creed Shadows discourse. Or looking further back the netflix anime adaptations with black characters now that I remember. Those were also fun popcorn
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 08:44 PM
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The real 80/20 was women sharing black Israelites all along
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 08:41 PM
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<image> This but it's a good thing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 08:26 PM
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I think you misinterpreted my comment What I meant is that I think u/Desperate-Exit7423 incorrectly believes those points 1, 2 and 3 of my previous comment, so I'm sharing a story that would dispute those beliefs
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:35 PM
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I mostly agree with your analysis. My comment was more about the concept of standard AFBB paranoia. I hold the impression many users here insecure about AFB think that: There are no signs, or they're hard to find. Everything might be going seemingly well but then the instant you get married and she can withdraw the pussy then BOOM, dead bedroom. No way to predict this could happen. Women with low sexual experience are the best bet to avoid getting deadbedroomed. Because if a woman has ever hooke…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:07 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 06:24 PM
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Edit your top post to View of the reality through my biases -> confirmation trough other men in the echo chambers I frequent -> backing up with studys that I both cherrypick and interpret in such a way that they fit my preconceived narrative FTFY, you're welcome
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 06:10 PM
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I've seen multiple leftie groups using that autism announcement meme. Ppl no longer give a shit that using autism as an insult is ableism. Wokeism is dead
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 06:06 PM
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But you write: not only does the study you linked explicitly state in its conclusion that it fails to establish whether Dark Triad personality itself is attractive You should know what I talked about: "does their attractiveness reside in female choice, or in their capacity to persuade and manipulate?" I really doubt your point is that DT men can do things like chameleon and morph themselves into what's attractive to women, rather being attracted to DT itself. And again, all 3 studies talk about …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 05:52 PM
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Tried back when it ran but still felt like an overrate. Tried too a convoluted series of steps to make regular ChatGPT rate correctly, still an overrate. Or maybe I'm sleeper chad idk
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 05:16 PM
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