Because you’re annoying them before the conversation has even started. How bad at you at social signals that wearing headphones doesn’t scream “I don’t want to talk to anyone right now’ to you?
With the redpill, women are both scheming master manipulators out to steal your money, and also dumb as a sack of hammers that need to be told how to think. There’s no winning for women.
Because if you did, and actually looked at couples you see - not just the women you find hot - you’d see there is a huge number of people out there who don’t fit into your neat little boxes.
Sweetie, you’re just feeling like a regular teenager. Most of us got this out of our systems by listening to goth or emo music and writing terrible poetry.
Redpill nonsense will just make you feel worse about your self and be bitter and hateful to everyone. You’ll end up alone and the only other people that will be able stand you for more than five minutes are other miserable redpill fools. Do you want to be a crab in a bucket? Because that’s your future if you keep down this path.
I honestly have never met a woman who would flat out refuse to date short men. And honestly, who would want to be with someone shallower than a puddle? I sure wouldn’t. You want someone that still takes your breath away when they’re grey and wrinkly and saggy all over.
You need to realise women are people. If you hang around people who only care about money and status, that’s all the kind of people you’re going to meet. So maybe look at what you value and the kind of people you interact with.
Then why, when a man murders his partner, do all his mates say that he’s such a great guy that would never do anything like this? They’ve clearly not seen any red flags.
WTF, why on earth would that be a red flag? Most people, man or woman, have a little celeb crush or two. The vast majority of people are normal and understand that it’s a harmless crush. Because yeah, Tom Hiddleston is really gonna dump his wife and kid to live in Australia with an IT consultant in his mid 40s.
Why would you want to marry and have kids with someone you’re not attracted to? Why would you spend years and years with a spouse you can barely tolerate? Think it through.
If you’re still at uni, it might be worth joining some enby or LGBTQ ally groups who would appreciate your style more. Keep in mind that they would not be very receptive to RP views about women, though.
Then save up. Move in with housemates. Move to a lower COL area. You can’t complain about not being able to meet women when you are living where are there no women to meet. So shit or get off the pot.
It depends on the situation. At a bar or some sort of social situation is more than fine. It becomes a problem when the woman in question is doing her job, wearing headphones or just trying to get something done that it’s a problem.
It’s going to bite you in the arse when you show to a date and you’re clearly not 6ft. They’ll think if you lie about something so inconsequential, what else are you lying about?
Not so much financial stability, but they’ve got their shit together - they most likely don’t live with their parents, or in a share house, they know how to cook and clean etc
No, it’s advice for everyone. You have to be able to be happy with your own life before adding a partner to it. While I love spending time with my husband, I also enjoy spending time apart.
Some people just seem ‘off’, or give you a sketchy vibe from the get go. Some people ignore these red flags, or don’t even notice them. Some people are incredibly charismatic and are manipulative. In other words, women are not are a hive mind and are people, just like you and me.
You’re still a teenager! Some people are late bloomers or still figuring themselves out at your age. Just keep working on your friendships and having fun.
I dunno about you, but I want more out of a partner than just, ‘stick him in a corner so he brightens up the whole place’. That’s fine for a hookup, if that’s what you want, but not for a relationship.
Why would she settle? As you said above, she doesn’t need to have a husband any more. I think you’re also discounting the amount of women who would rather stay single that be a man who doesn’t enhance her life.
That all the women know about. Which is quite clearly not happening in real life. Don’t forget that 80/20 is also born out of OLD, whose userbase is over 80% men.
I imagine if you also said you were an 18 year old virgin with blonde hair and big boobs you would be flooded with thirsty men. Some people are shallow, men and women.
What do you think of the statement that all men want 18 year old blondes with big tits? Would you say that is a generalisation? Would you say every man you know wants the same kind of woman?
A person’s value is only as high or as low as you decide it is. Like, Elon Musk is a bazillionaire, but in my opinion, he’s a shitty, low value person. My FIL is a pensioner, and to me, is a very high value person who adds a lot of joy to my life.
They’re not right now. Don’t let it get to you. It sounds like you’re way too invested in what people on the internet think of you. I mean, I get it. I’m gay, if I spent time in more conservative spaces, I’d be concerned that these people all seem to believe I’m making kids trans and abusing them simply by existing. But I know that isn’t true and I curate my own online experience. You can do the same.
That’s because they’re off doing their own thing and not pissing and moaning about women in the internet. Pre COVID I ran the Cooking for One or Two classes at the local Men’s Shed, and a lot of these guys were widowers, recently retired or divorced empty nesters, and just wanted to make some friends and learn how to do things for themselves.
You think women don’t swear? How old are you? What do you mean by ‘showing respect’? Women should think about how some witless chump might get turned on by looking at her? Newsflash, matey: men used to get the horn looking at ankles. If you are wearing a shirt with a footy team on it, does this mean everyone gets to tackle you? Because you made me think about football.
Because if men are hired and paid more, it’s strictly on merit. When women are hired and paid more, it’s affirmative action or she slept with someone to get it. ETA: I think a few people missed the /s
I certainly am an arsehole. But since you didn’t answer those questions and are actively seeking RP advice, you obviously don’t have the best opinion on women. And whatever it is you’re currently doing clearly isn’t working, by your admission. Are you going to shoot your own foot next and claim I made you do it? You’re allergic to introspection.
I asked you questions you didn't answer. I can't assist you if I know nothing about you, or your situation. But have fun being lonely, kid. I'm sure your lovely attitude will make women throw themselves at you.
How do you talk to women? How do you treat women? Do you accept a rejection with grace? Do you think a no can be a yes? Do you think you deserve sex, or a girlfriend?
Not an exaggeration, but 'literally everything' doesn't tell me anything. Were you diagnosed with a terminal disease? Lose your house? Your license? Have you been in prison? Have you been convicted of any crimes?
Dude. You made a comment in a place where you knew it wasn’t wanted, needed or even an answer to the OP. Now you’re complaining that you didn’t get the response you wanted. That’s total alpha behaviour, keep it up, king. The Red Pill is totally working! Everyone respects you! Hell, if you weren’t over a screen, you could totally bang me!
How is ‘committed’ relationship defined as in the survey? I would say there’s a few more women saying they are, while their partner doesn’t. It also doesn’t account for younger women exploring their sexuality. How many of these women are with other women?
You thought about a come back for over a week and this is the zinger you came up with? “This is the one,” you cackle to yourself in the dark. “It’s taken me eight days to craft this comment, but this will devastate him and show who the real alpha is!”
I’d definitely give a guy like Leo and his 19 year old date the side eye if I was sitting next to them at a dinner party. It would skeeve me out a lot. But I never will, so my thoughts on the subject are as meaningful as a fart in a hurricane.
I grew up in Ireland. In the 80s and 90s. Great fucking time and place to be gay. That's not the reason. The reason is if I have to put a fuckton of effort into keeping someone interested, they're not that interested. If they're not enthusiastically responding to spending time with me, I'm cutting them loose. It's not because it's another man, it's because I have standards and refuse to date someone that isn't as in to me as I am into them. .
Yes, it's soooooo easy to be gay. People for sure don't wish you dead and beat the shit out of you and demonise you as a pedo. I spent years wishing I was straight. I could charm women easily; they flocked to me. Still do, I get hit on by women at the supermarket. Still didn't stop me getting some nerve damage from a well placed kick in 'Faggot Bashing'. You're believe being gay is all about getting easy sex. Frankly, you have a lot to fucking learn. No offense.
Why are women supposed to loyal to a man they haven't even met yet? How do you know you're compatible with this future husband if you've never been in a relationship before, and don't know what your likes or dislikes are, or how to navigate problems or hiccups? How is she supposed to meet this man if she never has a relationship with any man before she meets him?
That's very much American puritan culture at work. Most other western countries don't do that stuff. They ask each other out, go 50/50 and have the first few dates at a bar or cafe. Fuck off with this going out to a pricey restaurant for a first date. Unless that restaurant is Nandos, because even if it's a terrible date, you still got to eat Nandos.
The people who care about you WILL care and encourage you to get help. No shit, the average person on the street doesn’t care that tried to off yourself. BUT, and this is the hurdle in which many men fail - you have to WANT help, ASK for it and GET that help! It does get better, but you have to reach out and tell people that you need help. Ask me how I know.
You can’t make a baby without an egg and a sperm. Unless the woman was lying about being on the pill, it’s an accident with no one to blame if you used protection and still got pregnant. Unfortunately, until men can carry fetus’s, it is entirely the woman’s choice as to whether she wants to carry it to term or not. And that’s how it should be.
Dude really made up a whole backstory and dating life for some woman on Reddit, just so you can come here and say ‘woman bad, am I right?’ That is not normal behaviour.
You said, "Women can bare children". Based on your criteria, women who cannot have children are not women. Either expand your criteria or admit that you are wrong.
Maybe the movement can restore its reputation, but you’re going to have to clean house to do it. It’s like the swastika - it’s original meaning has been taken over and damaged beyond repair.
I’m repeating what has been said to me and what I’ve noticed. The he man woman haters may be the minority - but they’re the vocal minority and have tarnished the whole brand.
If men actually want custody, they get it about 70% of the time. The sad thing is, most fathers don’t want primary custody. That’s the thing that needs to change first.
There are a lot of older men that are widowed or divorced and pretty much are MGTOW, but wouldn’t be caught dead calling themselves that, because they don’t hate women, and that very loud part of online MGTOW communities turns them straight off it.
Who started those foundations? Women. Why don’t you start a foundation for men’s health if your own? I’m involved in Men’s Sheds and MPHE. What are you doing besides not going your own way?
It definitely is a form of misogyny; it’s the belief that women are acting hysterically, saying things are more painful than they actually are etc It means that women’s health problems are not taken as seriously as men’s. The woman is just exaggerating. This can lead to misdiagnosis and poor health outcomes.
A great suit will work for a lot of women, as well! It shows you take pride in your appearance. Also, a lot of women I know are into forearms - that seems to be pretty common.
You can say ‘nope’ all you want, it doesn’t change reality. It doesn’t change how averages actually work. You’ve overrated yourself. You are below average.
And who is doing the assaulting? MEN! So men should be MORE careful around men they don’t know, not women being less cautious. I’d even argue that there are more men being assaulted BECAUSE they are less cautious.
You won’t be having sex every hour of every day, so instead of spinning plates and spamming everyone, find someone that you genuinely enjoy spending time with and enhances your life.
That won’t ever replace real, human partnerships based on love and attraction. Prostitution is the world’s oldest profession, and should have replaced marriage as men could fuck without marrying. That didn’t work, did it?
I never said you were an incel, and I'm not making it personal. I'm asking you questions about how this toxic belief system is working for you. You are parroting ridiculous incel talking points, though. Are you part of the top 20%? Do you have a harem? All those women OK with that?
Answer my question first: how is believing this bullshit working out for you? Or are you just wallowing in self pity while complaining on the internet?
OK, leaving off how incredibly offensive that is, how is believing in this bullshit working out for you? Are you picking up lots of women? In a loving relationship? Do you flirt with people?
I did. Just because a few women were stupid enough to willingly have children with literal Nazis, doesn’t erase the long history of occupying forces raping the locals.
That's one guy. One. Lots of people also find the villains in movies more attractive - Loki and Killmonger, for example - but it doesn't mean they want to date them.
I always hated, "Would you still love me if I had no legs?" because of course I wouldn't. I'd be out that door, and the thing is, you wouldn't be following me.
Bars are often dark, and as noted in this very thread, people in these videos were often recorded without their consent and didn’t sign any release forms.
This sounds like revenge fantasy material. Most people who side eye relationships with massive age gaps feel that way because they've been the younger person in a massive age gap relationship.
People want the best they can get. If that means they end up alone and they're okay with that, that's their choice. If they're content to settle, that's also their choice.
And I would! But some bald men aren’t gonna like that very much. There’s a story in the Bible about some kids making fun of a bald guy, so God sends three bears to kill all the kids in the town for it.
It really is just the same BS you’ll find in a second hand self help book or in Cosmo, just dressed up to sound manly. Then you have the ones that serve it up with a huge side dish of misogyny and act like that’s your main course.
You’re wrong. Women aren’t the ones asking for state mandated girlfriends, wanting to go on sex tours in SE Asia and shooting people because they can’t get a partner.
Yes, slut is an insult; it’s meant to be demeaning and insulting. You could just as easily say promiscuous, or even ‘sleeps with more people that I am personally comfortable with’ without the insults.
Yes, it is silly. Only a very small percentage of women for a small amount of time will make bank on OnlyFans. I would say the majority make very little for a lot of work, never mind women who would never start because they know people wouldn’t be interested.
Because the books go on and on about how tall Reacher is. It’s like one of his main defining features. It’s like how there would be articles written if Tyrion Lannister was played by Stephen Merchant.
It does if you're just pretending to be their friend to get into their pants. Most people are unaware that the person they consider a friend wants to fuck them and are blindsided by it. If you know they are interested and you're using them, that is shitty, too.
Yes, but this is about the men who don’t act like you. Men who pretend to be a woman’s friend and then ask her out, then pull away when she says no. Which he is perfectly entitled to do, but it makes a shitty friend.
Don’t talk to your male co worker, don’t wear that item of clothing, don’t do this, don’t do that, because it makes me feel jealous or that you don’t love me.
The point about plastic surgery is that you’re not really meant to notice a small tweak here and there. If you get a nose job and everyone is talking about your nose job, it wasn’t a very good procedure.
And yet the majority of women who have had physically and sexually abusive men in their lives are still open to having happy, fulfilling relationships with other men. They don’t go around blaming men as a whole for the actions of one. Of course there are women who do go that route, but many more men have one bad experience with a woman and hate them all.
I don’t know what kind of shitty relationships you’ve had to compare your exes to your current partner badly. If you’d rather be with an ex, break up and go back to them.
It used to. It used to also include women. Incel is more of a mindset than anything else, and the term has been co opted by horrible men. It's like the swastika, it's been so misused and corrupted that it can't come back from that to it's original meaning.
A virgin is a virgin. An incel is a hateful, misogynistic manchild who thinks having sex will solve all his problems, and is angry that women won't fuck him.
I don't believe women - or anyone - actively hate men with autism or asperger's - they just don't want to date these men with zero social skills. I'd say it's indifference.
How often did you invite people to a party or clubbing? Did you ever organise a get together? You can't complain that no one ever invites you anywhere when you never invite them anywhere.
I love how they describe women as both literal children who have to be told how to act and behave, and also as master manipulators who can get anyone to do their vile bidding. I often tell them I'm the ultimate in Going My Own Way. I'm married to another man; there are zero women involved!
Exactly, they’re completely unrealistic. No one over the age of 12 thinks they’re a blueprint for life. I think the only ‘simp’ Prince would be the Beast, and let’s face it, Belle is the only woman he actually has met since he became a beast.
You asked for Disney Princesses where they end up with womanisers or broke men. I’m not passing any judgement, just pointing out that that is a common trope.
Aladdin and Tangled immediately spring to mind. The dude with the reindeer in Frozen is literally raised by trolls and has little money. Naveen is a prince, but is broke. Belle likely has Stockholm Syndrome. Total hottie Shang was already have funny feelings about Ping before he knew she was Mulan, who at that point is under his command, so this doesn't say anything good about his decision making skills.
Clearly; have you thought about publishing fiction? I mean, clearly you are used to writing things you’ve made up, so maybe you have a YA novel in you.
What a fantastic argument, you’ve changed my mind! The way you weaved poetry into your refutations was sheer pleasure to read; a picture painted so clearly in the mind’s eye, one could hardly believe it was mere words on the screen!
No, no one should settle. But they should accept that they most likely won't find someone they want, and make peace with that. I mean that for both genders.
The fuck are you on about? The chance the average western dude will ever see active combat without choosing to enlist is slim to none. By your logic, women should be getting all the benefits for having children.
Wait, it was in his shitty Bang Iceland book as well: “While walking to my place, I realized how drunk she was. In America, having sex with her would have been rape, since she couldn’t legally give her consent. It didn’t help matters that I was relatively sober, but I can’t say I cared or even hesitated. I won’t rationalize my actions, but having sex is what I do.” And this lovely tidbit from Bang Ukraine: “I was fucking her from behind, getting to the end in the way I normally did, when all of …
I admit I got the context wrong, it was in a blog post: https://amp.smh.com.au/national/return-of-kings-founder-daryush-roosh-valizadeh-admits-to-what-could-be-considered-rape-in-deleted-post-20160209-gmpuan.html
Because Roosh V is a gross, disgusting mound of cat litter disguised as a human being and no one should be listening to a single word that comes out of his ridiculous mouth.
He said in one his repugnant “Bang” books, that if he did what he’d just done in the US, he would have been arrested for rape. He doesn’t say what exactly he did, but it obviously wasn’t with consent.
I say this most sincerely and without malice: this is a problem of our own making. And by 'our', I mean, 'men'. We did this. Why are you blaming women?
But not everyone woman feels the need to procreate, just like every man doesn't. Making blanket statements that are clearly wrong does your argument no favours.
Dude, if you're in a relationship, you both need to share the load. Just like it's not fair for the man to have the burden of earning 100% of the money, it's not fair on the woman to have to do 100% of literally everything else.
The US is the only country where Scouts are gendered. Every other country got rid of that years ago. And it wasn't because of women wanting to be let in that Boy Scouts is dying - it's because of the rampant pedophilia.
Work full time, care 100% for kids, do 100% of chores, housework and cooking, do 100% of housework for your in-laws... Women may have wanted the first one, but not all the rest. They would expect to go 50-50, as they should.
You think women aren't told from day one from their fathers, brothers, grandfathers, uncles and male cousins to watch out for men? We really are our own worst enemies.
I have been on dates with objectively very handsome men. They become very ugly when they say something like, one date did when I mentioned I was watching an anime, "Ugh, I hate Asians!"
Prostitution is legal where I live. No one has a problem with it. Feminists are more likely to be pro legalised prostitution because it's much safer for the workers to be in a brothel than it is to be a streetwalker.
It depends on if they are constantly complaining about it, while not taking any suggestions from anyone or dismissing their advice outright. That doesn't just apply to dating though, it applies to any problem. Sometimes you just gotta tell them you don't care anymore.
There's a difference between the Nanna Porn books and the erotic fan fiction women write for themselves and others. Just check out A03 for all your women authored kinky erotica needs.
This makes no sense. How are you being a mind reader by saying what you actually mean? This has nothing to do with women's expectations. This is you not putting your point across. I think you mean you want women to be mind readers.
And I disagree with your assessment. You obviously have a hateboner for the term, which is your right, but it's not my fault you take a descriptor for damaging male behaviour so personally.
But those are different things. 'Masculine norms' aren't 'toxic masculinity'. A masculine norm isn't punching your mate when he says he likes your tie, but it is toxic masculinity. It's not hard to understand unless you want it to mean 'man bad'.
Jesus Christ, a woman isn't thinking about your validation when she doesn't want to have sex with you. I promise you, that does not ever cross her mind.
They get angry that you're sleeping with someone who isn't him. That's basically what it all boils down to - some other guy is having sex, and he's not.
That's what I'm saying - he won't tell us what he said that upset people so much, so we can't say it's due to him being autistic or not. I think what he's said is the most important part of the why.
But that's the thing - this dude might be saying some truly offensive things; we don't know what he's saying that makes people not want to be around him after he says them. He might be blaming his autism on getting away with saying horrible things - we don't know. And that's my point.
What were your 'quirky' mannerisms? What were you saying or doing that caused people to leave en masse? I think that's a big part that you're not telling us. But yeah, no one wants to fuck Chris Chan, in other headlines, the Pope is Catholic.
MLMs are just evil and I do feel sorry for the hopeful housewives that get sucked into it by the upline. The oil ones are particularly overpriced and insidious.
I'm in my 40s, I don't do TikTok or Snapchat or whatever. I now know how my Mam feels when I try to explain, over the phone, how to delete a post off Facebook. It almost seems quicker to take a flight back to Ireland, do it for her, and fly back here.
What? I don't know anyone that thinks he's anything but a dickhead with more money than sense. It's patently obvious he's a grifter and any talk of him is usually followed by, "Who the hell is taking this eejit seriously?"
Elliot Page is a grown man formerly known as Ellen Page. Peterson was asked by Twitter to take his tweet down and he said, without hyperbole, that he would rather die. I love how you say you are such a fantastic debater and would 'destroy' me but you have such a convenient excuse not to! Funny, that.
I do laugh a lot! I'm a pretty happy guy. That's another thing I don't go along with. The constant redefining of normal verbiage. You may as well start disagreeing with the moon if that upsets you. Language and it's usage change. Gay used to mean happy, remember that? Saying 'Oh my god' would once get you jailed for blasphemy. Yet, racist Biden promised to elect a "woman of color" to the SCOTUS. So, how tf does Biden know he actually fulfilled his promise when KJB doesn't even know if she is one…
LOL, you should sell some of those tickets you have on yourself and make some money! homophobic /ˌhɒməˈfəʊbɪk,ˌhəʊməˈfəʊbɪk/ Learn to pronounce adjective adjective: homophobic having or showing a dislike of or prejudice against gay people. "homophobic remarks"
Well, I have been active in men's spaces, like volunteering for RSLs as an advocate and running Cooking for One or Two at Men's Sheds. My husband is ex-ADF and I have mental health issues, so I see the need to advocate for men's mental health and suicide awareness and prevention. I think these are two areas in which men really need to step up for ourselves and each other, and the vast majority of us just won't. I thought the MRA/Manosphere would be interested in grass roots activism in these are…
I'm not angry at all. Peterson may be remembered, but it won't be in any way flattering to him or his followers. That's still not the discussion you were so desperate to get back to. Why do you believe Peterson is NOT a grifter?
What's that got to do with Dr Lobster's resignation? Here's an article, written by him, where he says he resigned: https://nationalpost.com/opinion/jordan-peterson-why-i-am-no-longer-a-tenured-professor-at-the-university-of-toronto He was not fired for not respecting pronouns or any other bullshit reason.
He resigned his research only professorship because he didn't want to adhere to pesky things like "ethics panels". It had nothing to do with using pronouns.
As a gay man, the manosphere is actively repulsive. They say they care about all men, but what they mean is "straight white men". It's entirely too focused on women and sex. While there are some areas where men do need our voices to be heard, the manosphere is silent, unless there is a woman to blame for it. They want the same power of feminist groups, but do nothing to actually achieve those goals. They want to have the end results of say, breast cancer awareness and fundraising groups, but hav…
You know you can do all those things with a partner, right? Why the hell would you put so much stock in the opinion of someone you don't even know and might not even exist? You put yourself in this position, buddy and now you want everyone to feel sorry for you.
For a minute or two, then it's back to reality with no friends or loved ones, sitting in the dark, while you eat your microwave meal in the glow of your screen, searching for another small dopamine hit, thinking, "This will show those uppity womenfolk!". I'd pity you if I felt you in any way were deserving of anything but sheer scorn.
I don't know or care about your sex life, but if you want to use that as a very lame excuse to be a complete arsewipe on the internet, go right ahead. It isn't going to make you any less lonely.
I would say to anyone that thinks making a living off of OF or Twitch should go try it and then come back and tell everyone just how easy it was for them to quit their job and do it full time. In the end, any of these jobs require a huge amount of luck for it to be in any way profitable. Like actors and pop stars, we only hear about the 1% that make it.
Looking at porn, looking at other men, celebrity crushes, etc, that's all fine. If he's messaging them? No. That is over the line. If you want to be with someone else, have the decency to break up with me first.
No, it's because they offer nothing, do nothing and try nothing, and think women should be lining up to suck their dicks. You never see men with their shit together talking like you.
Also what one person thinks is hot is not what another person thinks is hot. Why do they think boybands have the different 'types' in a group? Because the girl who's favourite is Justin Timberlake doesn't have the same tastes as the girl who's favourite is Chris Kirkpatrick. ETA: I should point out those examples are from NSYNC at their peak, which was over 20 years ago. My favourite was, unsurprisingly, Lance.
How old are you? Most women go through an astrology phase in their teens are just think it's fun after about 21. If you go after teenagers, guess what? They're immature.
You are vastly overestimating how much the police and courts care about rape and sexual assault. You can have video of being raped and the rapist will still get away with it.
House prices in my country are ridiculous, and renting is becoming more expensive every day. People are reluctant to have children when they can't afford a place to live.
Men: Who knows how a woman's mind works? Women: Well, if you'd just listen to us... Men: A mystery for the ages! Women: But we're telling you... Men: We may never know.
We don't have a dishwasher, so we handwash. I'll start to do the washing up and he'll bring out a whole kitchen's worth of bowls and plates and mugs from his office, and most of them have crap stuck to them and some mugs even have a small species growing in the bottom. It's a small thing, but I fucking hate it so much! RINSE YOUR FUCKING SHIT.
And it's like, do you think happy couples never argue? I love my husband so much, and he is the absolute light of my life, but he still does stupid things sometimes that make me want to punch him in his stupid face. And I'm sure he feels the same way about me.
YES, oh my god, YES IT IS. Young men can be terrible about basic hygiene. Young straight men are even worse. Try looking at a young guy's bedsheets six months after he's moved out of home for the first time.
Americans are just weird about their guns. I'm sure it seems normal to them, but as someone who's lived in a number of countries, the US are just really, really odd about guns.
I’m fine with the MGTOW who actually DO GTOW and are very happy with their lives doing whatever it is they are happy with. But the ones on Reddit just can’t stop talking about women, and how they are all evil harpies out to destroy all men and steal their everything. Just go your own way already! No one cares! You do you!
Despite what is popularly touted here, looks most certainly ARE objective to an extent and if average women are told they are “kweens” and deserve top tier men then ABOVE average men at LEAST deserve their equivalency submitted 16 hours ago by Hoosker-Doos Men are constantly reminded that “women are not a hive mind” yet they consistently demonstrate the exact opposite when it comes to mate selection - they are heavily influenced by their peers and base their opinions of men on what their friends…
Dude, you need to log off Reddit, and esp PPD and go speak to people in the real world. Interact with real women and not just post every single day about how awesome you are and how women have formed some sort of secret cabal where they all agreed to not date you.
Like when you see guy after guy hitting on women who have a quite obvious engagement or even wedding rings on. Like, what did you think was going to happen?
First of all, don't refer to other people as 'scraps'. And second of all, no one is holding a gun to your head forcing you to date anyone. If you don't think these women are up to your standards, don't date them.
When men do get off their bums and make spaces, they do really well out of it. Check out the Men's Shed initiative. Before COVID, I used to run the Cooking for One or Two programs at one of the bigger ones. A few of the older blokes would side eye me at first for being gay, but they really got into it! It makes me really happy to see these guys who couldn't even make a salad before texting me pictures of the dishes they make on their own, and they're so proud of themselves! It's wonderful.
The OP just wanted to angry up your blood instead of thinking and realising women's hospitals are, by and large, for pregnancy related things. Like you wouldn't go to a OB/GYN to ask about your headache, a man OR woman wouldn't go to the Mercy about a broken toe.
Relax, it just means they specialise in women's health, usually reproductive. The one nearest me is: "Mercy Hospital for Women, is based in Heidelberg adjacent to the Austin Hospital. The hospital offers obstetric, gynaecological and neonatal services and has one of only four neonatal intensive care units in Victoria." Men are welcome to come there and practice there, but I doubt too many guys are there for a gyno check up.
They're not 'female only', they just tend to specialise in women's health, like the Mercy: "Mercy Hospital for Women, is based in Heidelberg adjacent to the Austin Hospital. The hospital offers obstetric, gynaecological and neonatal services and has one of only four neonatal intensive care units in Victoria." Men are in no way banned from going or practicing there.
I just hate guys who pester for blow jobs constantly and don't return the favour, or on the rare times they do, complain about their jaw hurting and have no enthusiasm.
Because these guys don't actually care about physical or sexual violence against men. All they want to do is screech 'woman bad' and not actually help anyone.
Well, I wasn't telling you to lower your standards in the first place, so don't put that shit on me. That woman deserves better than someone who admits he's not attracted to her and doesn't seem to even like her as a person.
Jesus Christ, what a fatalist attitude. "I'll never be the best, so I won't even try!" You're like the kid who isn't Jimi Hendrix's ghost in the first guitar lesson, throws a tantrum and never touches the guitar again.
That is pretty much a USA problem only. No other country does this, a first date is usually a cafe or bar, and you pay your own way. Going out to a fancy restaurant on a first date is just weird.
There is, but they don't have a name for it and don't make a reddit that includes constantly posting about women. I know lots of men that are pretty much MGTOW, but they would be horrified if you lumped them in with the self proclaimed MGTOWs online.