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You can't have these convos irl without bringing the mood down or looking socially inept. I came here for scientific understanding and now shooting the shit to bring some people's mood up. Maybe this makes no sense to those who are individualistic. There's a good chance I might bounce soon since some can't be helped. Perhaps I'll keep in contact elsewhere with a select few.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:50 AM
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I think the whole tradition of bachelor/ette parties is weird and counterproductive
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:26 AM
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Are you a time traveler? Those are long gone unless you mean the crossover?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:30 PM
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rare bloblikeseacreature W
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:14 PM
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Natalie is a 9 that's all I know
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:19 PM
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I may have to start gaming again and bully you on Rust with my legion of 16 yr old screeching teens to fix your sleep (no I won't, I've never played survival games)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 09:59 PM
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Idc for the opinions of trolls online.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 09:50 PM
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lacrosse player. Say less
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 09:31 PM
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Doing what?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 09:08 PM
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I'm just imagining a bunch of pill popping men having sons in the future and unironically naming them this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 08:47 PM
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You are one of the dudes I believe in fyi
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 08:15 PM
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Sure, but I'm checking their ID
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 07:44 PM
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They want to fuck him instead
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 07:42 PM
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If I'm honest, I don't think most cels here are going to make it because they just rinse and repeat their excuses or say some ignorant shit. There's like a few dudes I believe in tho
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 07:41 PM
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I agree but it depends where your baseline is. I think some demographics trend certain ways and could definitely do with a lot more humbleness. If you start humble you need some arrogance.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 07:30 PM
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Black hair on top
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 07:03 PM
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Dad's that get horned up at the idea of protecting their daughter by intimidating will be eternally cringe. Leads to shit like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 05:49 PM
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Yeah. I played it for a few years. Nicest devs, community, has the highest female playerbase last I checked.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 07:12 AM
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POV: when your investment manager is also a philosopher
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 07:04 AM
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I learned what that was when I read your comments. "What is she yapping about now?"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:51 AM
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She meant the bear
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:31 AM
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Speaking of, why is the hivemind page a picture of female clones? Checkmate
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 03:03 AM
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Is it banned? When people say it I think of myself like an alien ayy. It's kind of funny
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:29 AM
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I'll give it a pass because 21
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:55 AM
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Is that a joke tho? It's just calling someone a sloot or someone who gives head a lot depending on context
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:50 AM
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give me a gen z joke : l
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:28 AM
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I remember ending up on lipstickalley when I was young. I didn't know it was a femcel forum until recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:20 AM
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Ever since coming here, the first 10 seconds of this song will never be the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:15 AM
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I wanted to mention that one time. Thought I’d get jumped by ppd women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 11:10 PM
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I disagree only because you didn’t write female privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 11:06 PM
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Erm all my relationships look like this and I see it all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 10:54 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 10:20 PM
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super slut for super simp around date 4 or 5 Those hoop earrings are revoked
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 09:17 PM
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no but bbws are
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:55 PM
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He can't even breathe out of water and he's getting more girls than me. It's over
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:48 PM
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Yeah, not what they once were but there's still WoW, FFXIV, Maplestory, Lost Ark. I know a lot of people use FFXIV to chat and just decorate their houses, play minigames etc. I've met some people irl before.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:36 PM
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risking raiding with coworkers is definitely a choice. That's work drama waiting to blow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:21 PM
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3am
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:15 PM
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smh they should've played MMOs if they want a full time job. The guild drama and the simps for women (especially if taken) are always a treat. Imagine surviving in real life and then logging on to survive
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:12 PM
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Maybe if you didn't play at ungodly hours they wouldn't be all 16 yr untcays
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:50 PM
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There's only one solution. Wrestle him
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:45 PM
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son
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:40 PM
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no u
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:38 PM
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I'd play it at the next big family holiday with the relatives and everything
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:37 PM
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I'd ask them why but to soothe their conscience. It's why idc about the phone checking bs. Everything should be open and so if they are the type to check they'll see it once or twice then trust you forever. To me trust is earned not given, just like respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:33 PM
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They usually wear necklaces, rings, bracelets. Lots of designer, chrome hearts, VCA in particular. Guys used to wear earrings but it fell out for a while. I still do tho
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:16 AM
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It's actually insane. I thought after yesterday's lull it was over.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:01 AM
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My mum is exactly like this so if she said something I'd consider it but ultimately I'm the far more critical one the girl has to worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:58 AM
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All animals. Idc if it's a cat, dog, frog or a snake, I'll give them a kiss. I love owls tho I don't have any specific creators but anyone I follow is on Asian socials. I'll link something similar from pinterest. They're from Chinese socials. 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:40 AM
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Muay thai, bodybuilding, motorcycles/cars, fashion, love animals to death style from China/Korea/Japan - so streetwear/minimalism A bit of everything, came because I like to understand the reasons why I succeed. Saw women actually participate here and it was good at first. Now it's a bad faith shitshow so I just hang around to make jokes. Conflagrant, chill, observant Anti drug, I run off endorphin highs
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:41 AM
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Um akshually there was a guy in the DV thread yesterday that said it's easy to restrain a woman with a knife because he's a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:03 AM
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If I see a man in an alley and a bear in one I'm taking the man in the alley. I get what the women are saying and I do help people feel at ease at night, man or woman but all the arguments are still stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 12:56 AM
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That's not a 10 for me but it is the current trend. Your description is accurate but with bigger breasts and butt.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 12:18 AM
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I agree. I feel bad for you everyday when you make good threads lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 12:04 AM
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She's not a bodybuilder. She's a fitness model. You know, lift for 3 years, not shredded and now I'm famous type. It's barely different to an OF girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 08:27 PM
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Pho is better imo if you're sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 08:10 PM
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It's kinda crazy that happens tbh. Couldn't be me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 07:37 PM
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That guy on Rust is not getting his just desserts. Give it up
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:15 PM
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That guy is going to start a podcast
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 05:49 PM
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I'm probably to the right of the dog's head
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:50 PM
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ngl I still remember my cow milking experience as a kid. Squishy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:20 PM
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I actually thought of this while the discourse happened but they’d probably get pissy 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:54 AM
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If she rushed and not bluffing yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:46 AM
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If she rushed and not bluffing yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:46 AM
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lmao m m maybach music
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:49 AM
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Kendrick and BBL drizzy firing back to back
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:01 AM
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What if they're just undercover PPD men who know your type
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:42 AM
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Those are similar to mine. I find 2 is true because the disrespect starts long before the cheating. I'm typically not a fan of blaming the one without a backbone for getting run over rather than the perp fixing themselves. However it is their responsibility to defend themselves. Would you date someone who resolved these trust issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:38 AM
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I’m sarcastic half the time I’m here 😎. I get where you’re coming from but I’m curious about your reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:08 AM
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It’s over for nice guys. Judged even for being a victim 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:47 AM
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I usually carry everything. I won’t next time though. I’ll tell her Eulen thought it was weird 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:42 AM
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Yeah surprisingly good for a game adaptation. If you’ve played the series you’ll enjoy it more but not required
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 01:56 AM
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Is there a reason apart from their appearance that draws you to yaoi/BL?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 10:27 PM
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Jeez...they're all terrible. I'll take my chances with the Fujoshi, see if I can convert her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 10:15 PM
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What colour is the planet?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 09:09 PM
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This guys got a girl
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 09:04 PM
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inb4 the heightcels say it's because they're 9 feet tall
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:55 PM
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delicious???
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:50 PM
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bbl drizzy gyatt
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:28 PM
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No, you could've kissed your man
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 07:57 PM
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I agree, it usually adds nothing to the story otherwise I have no issue. Their only existence for me is making it awks with the parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 07:01 PM
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Me personally, I wouldn't take that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:52 PM
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Nah humans are humans. About every person has run into one person who fucked their life up. It's like a character building rite of passage.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:50 PM
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rip hannah's next bf
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:30 PM
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How I see PPD main sub
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:17 PM
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This is like the time I told a girl I save cats for a living and she believed it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 05:47 PM
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How long have you mfs been on here istg
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 05:03 PM
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2
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 04:30 PM
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b b b but sheila the life savers could be predators too~~ I'm taking my chances with the shark
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:16 AM
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He's also 5'9 apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 04:55 AM
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Tall. Only a bit more than I am like 6'1-3. Anymore and it's inconvenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 04:41 AM
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Good job Leek
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 04:12 AM
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I gotchu bro
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:01 AM
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They're just doing it make men mad and get upset when it doesn't. Someone's downvoting my comments because I turned out to actually be virtuous and good with women. Doesn't fit the narrative that we're all misogynist. Talk about treating people as a monolith huh lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:56 AM
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Not at all. I just laugh at it. It's essentially "Ok Susan".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:45 AM
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Wrath probably
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:36 AM
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Some do, some don't. Same goes for women. If you're talking about me specifically, if you could look over my entire life it'd be an "oop" moment
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:58 PM
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It's because women typically avoid direct conflict with each other and fight in more underhanded ways. Disrupting that has social consequences. When they do fight though
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:49 PM
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fuuuuuck missed opportunity
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:19 PM
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rare non horny Ainsley comment
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:12 PM
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My wife. If it's really bad I'll just cover it with my clothes/blanket.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:29 PM
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They always ask what would the bear do but not how is the bear
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:44 PM
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She's blessed us with her presence again. Hail Excomen the wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:36 PM
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You do seem like the type to vainly look at yourself. Me too
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:16 PM
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Same, I usually go sweatpants. I don't like them for working out, I've tried different ones. The only good thing is visibility and looking double cheeked up on a Thursday making the girls jelly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:41 PM
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They also do RDLs in my face. Help my poor virgin eyes poopgirl
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:31 PM
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Honestly I don't believe them. They just want to look good and part of what we perceive as looking good is what others think. All our fashion, hygiene etc. I wear leggings too sometimes on leg days just to see my legs. They aren't comfortable. Also people look at my crotch too much, even the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:05 PM
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bad taste, I would've slapped that bitch. I gotchu
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:59 PM
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Was it the nongshin ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:49 PM
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Lol exactly the same as yours. It's been rare to find that for women. Usually in reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:25 PM
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I knew it. How adorable
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:13 PM
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that'll be $5
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:07 PM
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my head canon of you is Boo from monsters inc
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 02:16 PM
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Inb4 leek says BUMBLE IS DEAD
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 02:14 PM
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Bear. I can live through rape. Come back and kill it. Can't if I'm eaten.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:57 AM
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They just want to be chosen out of many to feel special. It doesn't even have to be true. Just sell the story. Less is more. Go forth young padawan.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:21 AM
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Nah. I would've roasted her in a fun way and still land
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:33 AM
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as you should king
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:30 AM
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They didn't even know Korea existed until recently and now they're experts. The femcels here can fuck off out of Asian issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 02:47 AM
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5 for a few hours then 9
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 01:05 AM
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like when cardi b said "I don't cook I don't clean"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 11:32 PM
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This is how I imagine it goes down. https://www.youtube.com/shorts/XRppGK2rNuY
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 11:20 PM
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I never said 24/7, I'm not that naive haha but on the forums yeah. I'd give you a fat hug.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 11:01 PM
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Me. It's my "red flag" that's never steered me wrong except the times I stopped listening to it. Just like I judge you badger, for being one of the most wholesome women on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:20 PM
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Essentially, yes. I believe situationship is a terminology that shouldn't exist because the majority of cases it's being pumped and dumped. If not you're just single and dating around. There's a nebulous grey zone whereby both parties are exclusive but there's no label and they both want to be official yet they're afraid. That's a real situationship aka zoomer "it's complicated" but it's so rarely the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:38 PM
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Just hop on Tren and use the same excuse
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:25 PM
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Do people really define pump and dump as a one and done? I've seen it a few times now. I use it as an umbrella term for "used" rather than take it so literally. If I get with a girl I have no intention of being with and she wants a relationship and I string her along for 4 months for sex then dump her. That's still pump and dump. It doesn't matter if it was a "situationship" or a "relationship"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:19 PM
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I just like reading the women in the comments upset
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:49 PM
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I'm a level 100 mafia boss so surfing it is
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:22 PM
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There's only one correct answer. Walk through with your new gf
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:15 PM
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All your takes have been consistent in your beliefs. Here's a clap
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:31 PM
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Wouldn't be someone I'd end up with but I guess you're getting at jealousy. It'd be obvious she would end up with someone else even monogamously. Likely she'd assume the same of me in reverse. It's a bit unrealistic to expect someone to be single for the rest of their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:21 PM
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true if they chose man you'd be a betabux and it's over anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:30 PM
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no no no yes (she must have demonstrated ride or die with me before). High barometer when it comes to me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:27 PM
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I told you heightflation is real
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:44 PM
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If the polar bear watches
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:43 PM
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she floats
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:42 PM
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lmfaooo, gottem
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:31 PM
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Q4M: wyr be alone in the arctic with the coco cola polar bear who's just been fired or an obese woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:27 PM
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true bestie
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:13 PM
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They're actually clowns. When it comes to relationships Reddit has done a net negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:07 PM
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damn I would've been your friend (no I wouldn't)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:00 PM
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Could you be low on Vitamin D? You said you've been a hermit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:57 PM
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brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:51 PM
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Yes and no
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:55 PM
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Where did they say this?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:34 PM
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Sigma
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:27 AM
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Satan. He seems chill.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:14 AM
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Are you a fellow enjoyer?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:04 AM
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It's a meme. They're not evil it's that they're womanizers. They'll likely chuckle at it. Jokes aside I've been in this situation but for an actual relationship. Her friends could never pull her out of the on and off cycle. They said "you deserve more" just like you. I came along and painted a vivid picture of what her future would look like continuing on this path. Every second she wasted by not ripping the bandaid off now. I wouldn't accept ifs and buts. It was fear based motivation to get ove…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:19 AM
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Filipino guys got that toxic rizz. Well known in the Asian community
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 01:57 AM
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America is wild. That show is just...ugh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 01:33 AM
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Jaded would be proud
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 01:29 AM
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latter
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 10:01 PM
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Don't ruin my fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:48 PM
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lmao ok so the caricatures. Have you seen Cody Ko's frat boy impression? Gets me creased
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:05 PM
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It's like once in a blue moon where I'm from. Big city. Maybe I'm just not where the retired people are
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:52 PM
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An underrated and rare sight that makes me feel good is an elderly couple out together, linking arms. It's illegal to be that wholesome
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:46 PM
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Can you describe what Chad means to you or do you mean the alpha stereotype?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:36 PM
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Fat kid. At least he's trying
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:59 PM
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No. But there are some people I would pat the heads of, like a big bro
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:45 PM
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Hall monitor
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:42 PM
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You don't understand, they're looksmatched
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:56 PM
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If they remade it for this time period, I'm just imagining how ridiculous those scenes would be when they're flexing on each other with their business cards. Complete with zoomer brain rot terminology.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:26 PM
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Good morning my gym rats
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 11:43 PM
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Yeah they had Derrick Jaxn. That blew up
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:58 PM
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Me and those women would get along well because those are some of my favourite franchises. I think GenZ/a are lucky in that a lot of women game now. Before, it was basically 0 unless I was talking to a woman from Asia proper. FFXIV's JP server which I was on is like half women. Solas was baldmaxxed. Bruh.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:02 PM
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haha I meant skullgirls players say what I was replying to. I don't even game anymore but I'll make time for my favourite SP franchises. Guys should definitely play Valo though. High population of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:48 PM
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-skullgirls player
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:20 PM
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Atp Chad is going to be the new monster to tell scary children's stories
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 08:54 PM
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They can't be helped bro. I've tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 08:11 PM
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A different angle even if the gender ratio is poor. Imagine being the only guy that showers at a smash tourney. Easy hoes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 07:18 PM
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Start working out my man. You won't say this anymore when you're in a room of wine mums. They're scary
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 07:00 PM
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How did you respond?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:55 PM
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Women like to spank dudes with fat asses. Especially if it mogs theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:53 PM
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Why does that happen? It was a gif of Ross' teeth in that episode of friends
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:34 PM
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5'11+ women are great. I'm trying to climb trees in my free time
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:09 PM
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I'll make sure I gift you with the pleasure of axe body spray
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:20 PM
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based
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:27 PM
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All of the above. It was mainly because I didn't take it seriously and it was a way to filter people I deemed shallow. It didn't change much in the end, because the quality of people irl was way better. Girls on apps be crazy *Alexa play Toxic by RealestK*
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:16 PM
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6'6.6" and the world is your oyster
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:45 PM
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When I used apps I used to say I was shorter than I was. They can't tell the difference so I agree, most guys should lie only because other guys are so women assume you are too. In fact I downplayed everything about myself lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:43 PM
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Yeah it's not a big deal because even without the ethnicity filter I'm sure people filter manually regardless. I'm curious whether women are actually reasonable with the height filter though. I read there was like an "ELO" system. Idk if it's true. So it would make sense your rating would go down over time. I mean up. I think it's a pro. Big believer in paralysis analysis.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:50 PM
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(tho does introduce 1-2 new ones) just two very small ones teehee
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:36 PM
2

flair checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:38 AM
1

Really? You're the only one I've found. It's even rarer for men. I've always known I'm a bit different so I wasn't surprised by my result
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:29 AM
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Time to show her your personality
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:04 AM
1

I am the son. Also infj
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:03 AM
1

she's my type (for white women) but unfortunately batshit insane
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:43 AM
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Get well soon
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:39 AM
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i'm fucking dying
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:32 AM
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Yeah some women aren't so different sorry ladies. I throw on some Tay tay while I read them to set the mood.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:18 AM
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Exactly! I think if people had an extroverted friend to drag them out more they'll realize they're not as anti social as they thought. I need a week too. Do you end up reminiscing about it throughout the week because it's rare too? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 12:19 AM
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I think it's what the whole world rewards even in work. Just make sure you're not exchanging shy/socially awkward for introvert. I'm an introvert. In the sense that I get tired of socializing quickly and need/prefer my own time. During the time I'm locked in I can be the life of the party. It's also a muscle though. If you get comfortable staying home you'll suck. I used to always say no to outings, now I always say yes unless I have a good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 12:08 AM
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With all 11 herbs and spices, sorry buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 11:40 PM
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What are you eating it with? That sounds so good
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 10:20 PM
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He doesn't like bunnings sausage sizzles so no. Sorry I don't make the rules
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 10:19 PM
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Let's be real. They've always been like that. There's always an area of the house that looks like a bull ran through Sephora
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 08:55 PM
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I want a pet Dolphin but he'd probably steal my girls
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 08:49 PM
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It's too early to be this wholesome
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 07:48 PM
1

Why is Anthony Davis catching strays
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 07:42 PM
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Especially yours
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 07:39 PM
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Q4W: How does it feel knowing guys naturally have nicer eyebrows and eyelashes than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 07:01 PM
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Trying to get a little spicy I see
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:40 PM
1

Actually they count as 2 each
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:28 PM
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Preaaaaach
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:15 PM
1

Was it you that posted that table with the way men and women test each other? It was scarily accurate because it's done subconsciously. I want to save it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:08 PM
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We don't have those here. Cocktails are nicer but the alcohol taste sneaks in. I mainly stick to soju, vodka and beer. I'd rather have some chocolate milk sue me lol. I only drink to get tipsy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 05:56 PM
2

the memes write themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 05:40 PM
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It's why proximity based attraction worked so well. People were getting hooked up everywhere because the standards and comparison wasn't so bad. You're around 4 hot guys, you fail, there's 10 average guys, you're likely marrying one of them without being inundated with choice. I never heard so many people call people "mid" until IG. The local 9 is now a 7 and a 7 a 5. It wasn't only ugly people that noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 05:26 PM
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This is my thing with young women. Have they learned yet. Some never do. Those sparks transform into peacefulness, but some misinterpret that as lost attraction. Those sparks come and go due to life. It's not totally lost but within that refractory period people leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 05:12 PM
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That's a bop. I like prfct and Mona Lisa on that album
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:44 PM
1

Give me her bangers. I'm mainly an rnb, rap guy so I liked honeymoon fades.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:24 PM
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I tried to RP as a young suburban woman by listening to Sabrina Carpenter, but couldn't do it. I let down the girlies
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:52 PM
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Alcohol is meant to taste nice?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:31 PM
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Yep. It'll be similar culprits like alcohol venues, sometimes family when young but a bigger one ime is women in power. School, work etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:28 PM
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I think humans are just kinda trash tbh. It just has to do with the individuals. I've been around locker room talk, I've been around girl talk because women trust me. They say some abhorrent shit that makes me do a slow head turn to one other individual that translates to "that's fucked".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:24 PM
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Calling us dumb :(
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:20 PM
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Don't you think dating apps turned people into your last comment? That's the trend I noticed before and after IG, OLD popped off. People are so bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:19 PM
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wtf I just saw what houseonanotherplanet was referencing with the downsides of pretty privilege. In a similar vain to my baby one from yesterday I'll say another way men know if they're attractive or not is you've been sexually assaulted by women. Dark but true.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:08 PM
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You just unlocked a core memory of mine
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:02 AM
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You got time to turn your life around. You're young.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:42 AM
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The Dr Robotnik
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:41 AM
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oooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:13 AM
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You're 22 cmon man
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:55 AM
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:(
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:53 AM
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EJ and EK were cool so alpha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:18 AM
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You're in
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 11:07 PM
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Using her looks to get free shit at the fish and chip shop from the simp
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 11:02 PM
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Is it a wagon?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 10:19 PM
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Yes, and seconding flashy cars and convertibles. If you ever get cars you know "women" like they'll be even more into it. Miata is cheapest thing that fits this. It's not like she'll like you because you got a nice car. It's the same thing as being a good dancer or something. A bonus.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 10:15 PM
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Definitely not. There's even some shame built into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:35 PM
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Correct, me neither
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:18 PM
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Correct. Like I said in the other comment I don't want to get into it, but this will change as time goes and already has shifted. I had a very different experience growing up fortunately being "Chad" of the school but I from what I gather America has worse racial dynamics so I try to help those guys out with low self esteem. Are you Asian btw? How do you know so much about us?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:47 PM
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I'm also Asian. I'll just say it's better to stay out of it. The history is too long to explain. The guys are right and there's A LOT of women who agree. It's mainly a diaspora issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:19 PM
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"S...tier"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:06 PM
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What colour was her hair?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:19 PM
2

POV: me going to the main threads
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:15 PM
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I wanted to post Jotaro as the average 17 yr old Japanese man
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:10 PM
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married for the sake of having children
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:23 PM
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If it's Winnie the Pooh I'm chilling. If it's not we need a discovery channel episode on "women" who chose the bear
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:19 PM
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How come? I used to dislike kids/babies but they grew on me when I got older
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:31 PM
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You know how guys don't know how to tell if they're attractive? Babies stare at you, underrated strat. True story
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:54 PM
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I'm telling your mum
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:33 PM
1

That first paragraph is eerily similar to every anime I've watched
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:32 PM
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put poop on it and I'm in
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:30 PM
2

You are. You're a B on the tier list maybe A
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 02:56 PM
2

Did you ever see that short period where men photoshopped the fish holding them instead? That was a good one
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:55 PM
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Me and I'm relatively new. Too many threads start out with an agenda making sweeping generalizations and then continue in bad faith in the comments. E.g. What do you think men are asking for in terms of equality? They're looking for slaves, they think not having sex is misandry! omg truuueee *circle jerk, ignore actual good rebuttals, rehash routine in another thread*. It'd be fine if it was 2 people not half the thread. Even if I don't always agree at least represent the other side properly. Fm…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:41 PM
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She's pretty and fits the American standard to a T, like a Bratz Doll. I think because of the surgery (?) she fits it in an uncanny way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:21 AM
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Sure man, I know you rocking the 4s, 12 and 13s to rub it in
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:06 AM
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What did you say when they did it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:55 AM
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You’re a Stacy aren’t you? The poor guys 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:45 AM
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mental leek out here putting dudes on blast for trying to relate to her but just awkward
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:37 AM
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Acting like she just finished playing FFX. "This is my story" head ass
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:57 AM
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Keep this up and you're going up on the tier list
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:53 AM
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It's nice but are we glossing over the fact it was $150 USD? For a cut like that he's going in every 3 weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:29 AM
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lol that's clearly not the case if you see people in relationships or just go to the club for 1 night. I'll just assume you're joking
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 09:47 PM
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When I say fetish I mean like she ain't accepting nothing less but 6'0/6'1 plus or at least a 7 inch difference with a HARD stance. She might even pull a ruler out on you. Women either don't care or prefer taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 09:44 PM
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It's because they haven't seen his face. Remember Covid? When people were wearing masks everyone became "hotter" and then girls started memeing about mask fishing because they fill in the blanks in their mind. There's tall guys who aren't getting play even in the Tinder subreddit due to their face. Height is a good advantage but after 5'10 ish it really ain't that big a deal outside of height fetishists or girls who are 5'10+.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 09:39 PM
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You know what's gay? Caring what they think
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 09:18 PM
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I've had this but she didn't pull out my chair or need to open my door so my answer is yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 09:15 PM
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Is Five Guys really that good? Gotta take out a loan to eat it in Australia so it better be worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 09:02 PM
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mogged
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 07:23 PM
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I'm confused. I think this is what a lot of guys are asking for isn't it? The venting is more like America pretends it's France in this context but it's really kind of conservative but also not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 06:23 PM
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Isn't bone pressed the official measurement to negate bodyfat differences?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 06:05 PM
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How do I get it to think cute pomeranians piss me off
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 05:56 PM
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I feel like it was a few years ago but it got really big recently. I'll just chalk it up to TikTok or something. There's some good tips there sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 05:44 PM
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That's why they like prone bone so much
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 05:13 PM
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"Sorry my dog is on fire"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:31 PM
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Look up their "useless husbands". You'll get a laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:05 PM
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You also get those mewing reps in
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:53 PM
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There's nothing to debate. I agree. ok to say some really offensive shit to me. This was confusing. If anything, right after is when they should be most careful. You've just been injected with PNC.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 01:45 PM
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ducks are kinda demons. iykyk
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 12:43 AM
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I don’t think you can understate the effects of constant messaging despite what your eyes see. Propaganda works for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 11:17 PM
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Lmao I always think of that scene but no I don’t flex
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 11:14 PM
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Does looking in the mirror when you're having sex count?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:04 PM
1

Male manipulator
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:55 PM
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agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:54 PM
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2nd time this was posted and we're still ignoring the "gay men" for women? What's the story behind that? I would've expected the equivalent from men "turning lesbians straight" type thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:47 PM
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All men would be more attractive in vibrams
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:12 PM
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Do you also not wash your hair for days? It depends on genetics of the woman but it can be several days to a week before washing with shampoo
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:32 PM
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I think you may have run into a girl who's on the tail end of her hair wash cycle. I tease them about it all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:13 PM
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Burping, calling me daddy, twerking, wasted/vomiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:09 PM
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I know, it's ridiculous. A lot of women who are increasingly online (like everyone else) are getting radicalized. I read a comment from a 18 yr old who said her sister and mum had internalized misogyny because they said a certain actress was ugly. Tons of upvotes and people agreeing. I'm a firm believer that women who aren't feminists are only so because of those lunatics.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 12:15 PM
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This is the answer. As much as I shit on both genders when necessary and defend women who may need it, progressive etc when you interact in online spaces like these, the radicals do a very poor job of empathy and representing their gender. A lot of the time the people like me somewhere in the middle left just get shit from both sides but particularly from women because they're reactionary to a lot of triggers. Even from a good faith position you achieve the same as a misogynist who called her a …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 11:26 AM
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I was going to write that then thought it was the forbidden word my bad
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 11:03 AM
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I'll be honest, lots of places eat things people consider "weird". I think it's just people being pussies. I looked up dogs and even humans and why we don't. Mainly due to health and disease.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 12:53 AM
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You know what's the real redpill? How humans treat different creatures based on how cute they are. Raccoons took a bit of an L though. So close.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 12:06 AM
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a thot gay bear
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:32 PM
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The more cleavage or butt you try to show off. I think you should provide some example photos if you want to find the line. Bodycons and sheers don't have to be extremely sexual but they definitely can be made that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:30 PM
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what is this blue balling?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:48 PM
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Yeah. If I don't stare at her while she's sleeping because she gives me peace I know I don't love her. That doesn't happen right away.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:30 PM
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Already done, and in my culture normal at least more so.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 07:19 PM
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He's better in body, her in face but marginally. Splitting hairs
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 07:13 PM
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Of course. I dress up everywhere I go, even to get groceries. Not the gym though, I can turn up to that in a garbage bag.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 07:08 PM
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No I'm fine both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 07:02 PM
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Depends on age, but I'm somewhere around <10.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:55 PM
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Never. If we are all a culmination of what we look like plus our intangible attributes, then all we need to do is pass a threshold. I'm sure in some ways I'm better others ways I'm worse or just provide a different experience. Her desire and passion would be judged by her behaviour to me. It'd be more important to me how many, and the nature of the relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:36 PM
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But isn't meeting a partner's sexual needs, also about empathy?... It can be that, duty or genuine desire but it has to come from within free from outside influence to not be manipulative. That's consent. When does "not being in the mood" becomes manipulative or not?... Same as above. I'm not sure where the confusion is. In the OP she is allowed to say no for any reason because it's her body. He is allowed to feel frustrated but if he started whining, stonewalling then asked her again he's manip…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:51 PM
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expect him to behave normally if he's frustrated? The idea is you shouldn't feel that but empathy for her real reason when it's sparingly. If we're assuming suddenly she started doing it and it continued for weeks+ then it's a reasonable instinctive reaction before you talk. If a couple fights... If it's after a fight she's not being manipulative. She just isn't in the mood. Are you suggesting they fought over not washing dishes for example? Thus it's manipulative to get him to do it so they don…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:45 PM
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It's ok to feel bad about the "rejection" (which could have nothing to do with him) but he shouldn't show it outwardly. It's essentially punishing her for saying no which may coerce her to give in against her real desire. Same in reverse which women tend to ignore but that's a different conversation. I think the only time people should be "allowed" to negatively react is when it's happened so much there clearly needs to be a talk because something is up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:04 PM
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Can I also say if they ask for a break? Please simps, don't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:17 PM
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wth, broootal
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:03 PM
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I can't believe so many people have an issue with raw fish. That means you can't enjoy sashimi and sushi. o7
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:00 PM
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Depends on if it suits the woman. If she's pale then black, ginger. Don't care about eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:35 PM
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Probably the best woman on PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 12:41 PM
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I've said the same thing too. If it's so bad they'd switch en masse. Make the money and we stay at home but they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:58 AM
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Unpaid internships should be illegal fr
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 12:21 AM
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That's surprising. You said you're a longtime gym rat. I find a lot of women who weren't into muscles suddenly like it in their man after lifting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 12:08 AM
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Why can't you just be both a pretty boy and buff? I'm both and it works. You attract people into niches and everything in between. Remember when wonho trended on tiktok? Idk maybe some of you are from the deep South where it doesn't fly or something
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:58 PM
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edgyny coming in with the interesting explanations once again. It is true I felt that and I feel less of a "protective" instinct with tall women despite my preference for them in attraction. Good food for thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 10:35 PM
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Clothes off it turns out I cared more than I thought. Clothes on I like how flat chested women look. Elegant if they dress well. Also you're not RP anymore D:
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:29 PM
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I told you my height before which isn't crazy but even meeting girls who are 5'2, 5'1 makes me start thinking of a daughter. The height guys who enable these women weird me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:24 PM
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I'd fuck the MIL
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:15 PM
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Because women socialize more whether with each other or because men hit on them young. I will say though the gap has decreased a lot for young women. I never encountered a woman I'd label socially awkward until >2019. I blame tech and people staying indoors.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:26 PM
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Yes, I've seen them admit this before. It's related to wanting a family and time is ticking or financial security. Idk if the husband pretends he doesn't see it because you can tell when a woman really loves you like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:21 PM
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Would've worked if he said please
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 04:18 PM
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I go to a male only gym
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:32 PM
2

How many slices did you eat? Pay up
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:13 PM
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You might like fairy bread
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 02:45 PM
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Be outcome independent. That's how you get better.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 02:06 PM
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oof, that is exactly how it goes down every time tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:52 PM
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I thought a handful would pick him then remembered this is PPD. I think irl most don't care about his n count and he's the type most women ignore red flags for. Also is your bro no.2?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:46 PM
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That's the GI usually plus decent fibre. I think rice tastes far better plus it's used to compliment a variety of food but potatoes are great too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:28 PM
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I knew it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:56 PM
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Not that they can't eat rice more so they don't prefer it. Well at least that would be the implication behind the racist Asian rice jokes back in the day. I'm usually thinking of Americans, British, Australian.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:55 PM
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What do hwite people eat for carbs if they act like they don't eat rice? Genuinely curious what your parents cook when you were young or otherwise. Give me some regular example dishes too. I got a good idea what most people eat at home but Anglos.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:37 PM
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laila_06 or something. She was sorta unhinged monster lily. Kinda entertaining
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:29 PM
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edit: It's interesting but unsurprising that it's just flat out rejection of all 3 or tends to be no ranking at all so you can't see priorities. It's either completely in or out. Men's one was more interesting so far
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:37 AM
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What happened to Laila? Did she get shot by the mods again?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 10:58 AM
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<image> Did everyone gets the same questions about waking up on a train, villages, caves, cats, birds? Some questions were confusing edit: ngl these are pretty accurate for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:36 AM
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I agree. A lot of people lack empathy/intelligence to see beyond themselves. A common one I judge people on is the assumption that if you voice a concern about something, you must be suffering from it. Complain about capitalism? Must be poor. Discuss solutions about hypergamy? Maidenless. I was going to give her unique advice on how to explain it to her man until she started masking off about men then I deleted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:02 AM
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Her question wasn't just about herself. "...unreasonable for a woman" followed by speaking about women. You for whatever reason made it about yourself then only her which had nothing to do with what I said but I entertained it. The example about SAHD was to explain a macro trend on expectations from women which exists on a spectrum not her specifically. The premise of her argument is that she will be temporarily taking a financial hit because she has to take care of the children so wants to date…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:39 PM
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A man obviously. If women legit mean bear. Ok. Go do it then. I pay attention to what people do not what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:53 PM
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No. What I'm addressing is the most common argument that you can find in the OP. "Men aren't taking care of the child, household duties blah blah which is why I want him to earn more" I address that by saying "Even if he did you wouldn't want it but you're pretending like you do to mask the fact that you just won't come out and say I want more money". This has nothing to do with women like yourself who think no one should hold that role. To make it clear these same women I'm addressing would be …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:53 PM
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There's a decent number of women that constantly post, where the man hating undercurrent comes through. Same names every time, ignoring the argument, bringing up some strawman, "but men also do-". You can't criticize both with them. Only men. I just ignore what they have to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:38 PM
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Charlotte from SATC find the perfect man who checks off all of her boxes in the earlier part of the series. As the series progresses, she lowers her standards gave up her career after marrying her first husband. She divorced him and received his Park Avenue apartment as her settlement. She eventually remarried her seemingly less-than-perfect, but good hearted divorce lawyer, Harry Goldenblatt.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:07 PM
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Charlotte from SATC find the perfect man who checks off all of her boxes in the earlier part of the series. As the series progresses, she lowers her standards gave up her career after marrying her first husband. She divorced him and received his Park Avenue apartment as her settlement. She eventually remarried her seemingly less-than-perfect, but good hearted divorce lawyer, Harry Goldenblatt.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:02 PM
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In terms of fashion big breasted women are like built men. Silhouette ruined, you look trashy in certain cuts so you have to avoid. You know the dresses that show side boob. Flat women look the best in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:08 PM
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With this list, I'm assuming you don't eat a lot of Japanese or Chinese food. That's a huge L
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:50 PM
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I knew it. 0 points. I've eaten all of that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:41 PM
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Sure, never said you couldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 02:54 PM
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I don't believe deep down those are the real reasons for most women. When they're both wealthy enough, she'll still act that way for LTR. I'm talking 250k to her 300k+. In reverse many men are happy to date women who earn a decent amount less whether that's same economic class or one below. Not quite as drastic as the RP example of a doctor dating a Mcdonald's worker. If men said, "I'll raise the children and you go work. I'll sacrifice my career progression until they grow up", we'd get stigmat…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 02:23 PM
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3>1>2
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 12:59 PM
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Kiss home ownership goodbye
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 12:38 PM
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I was not expecting that HAHAHA
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 12:15 PM
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They just need to be unconditioned out of thinking men will automatically say yes because they're sexual beasts and therefore if they don't you're ugly. This difference is most highlighted when your gf denies sex and it's ok but when you do it she whines and pouts until you give in.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 11:58 AM
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What's the dog pill? I've said it before but what I mean is that I'll always love her dog more than her
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 11:32 AM
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Revel in the cybertruck L
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 08:12 PM
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Must buy her a picnic Kelly
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 06:38 PM
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Wth. Still bad idea but obviously 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 06:34 PM
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Middle
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 01:56 PM
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Extreme helplessness, gossiping behind someone's back, materialism (there's liking nice things which happen to be expensive and liking expensive things), if she ever says "A man is this". The latter 3 get a visceral reaction from me. I never think of them the same after.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 01:24 PM
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The implication of this question lies on the false foundation that it is jealousy of being compared which is what some women assume. That isn't the reason (for a lot of us). I am the "Chadly" guy and it comes down to what I think it says about her mental health, decision making, expenditure of her time etc. I cross reference other behaviours before I make a judgement. To demonstrate a woman with a body count of 6 from serious relationships is different from 6 ONS which is also better than 2 orgi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 09:58 AM
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You're looping. You're not even reading. The answers to your questions are already there because I already knew what you were going to say. I answer one point and you make a strawman and argue a completely different scenario with reductive claims like that's all men are good for. An expectation does pay the mortgage because he's required to have the money and use it. I've seen you do this with multiple other people since this conversation so I'm not bothering anymore. You're the exact stereotype…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 04:36 PM
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You should've dipped after the first comment. Cmon bro I believe in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:59 PM
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Based? I had to do a double take on your flair
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 01:42 PM
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Too many recipes on tiktok turn out to be a disappointment. All show.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 12:10 PM
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If I'm understanding you right, it's essentially the push-pull, hot-cold dynamic in action. I also think that's it's two different kinds of women but the ones like this are more common especially when young. It's why I still play these games. I was "forced" to. It's a proxy for desirability. Sometimes it's not based on reality but perception. It's like how a woman would meet a guy and she says "You must be a player" based on nothing but his face. In this situation, while I will never recommend d…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:39 AM
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Don't say that. We're all gonna make it!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:56 AM
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Yeah it is cope. I know girls from Korea. They're dating or got boyfriends. 4B is fringe. Their version of chad is some guy who looks like he stepped out of a manhwa/yaoi as the CEO daddy in a supercar. They're rolling around gangnam and they're not short on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:45 AM
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Agreed with everything but especially: There's also a heavy dose of race fetishism (the countries are almost always either Asian or, occasionally, Latin American). That's the biggest problem because what usually happens is everything a "western woman" does can be done over there but they don't point that out since it ain't the real reason they're there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 08:47 AM
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You're gonna be a chad
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 07:42 AM
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It's a double standard. I've sat around women that said guys like this are losers while their rent was being paid for by mum and another was unemployed at the time. Thank god for being part of a culture where it's normal until you get married to leave even though I left beforehand. As I always say, men should shine the mirror back at her. Don't give up your double standards and gender expectations until she lets go of hers. Plus, get a damn hotel. If it can be normal in Korea it can be normal ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 07:29 AM
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Everything from taking care of the household plus children to splitting household duties and work as the breadwinner. Looks like they're getting irate already lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 07:17 AM
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I'm going to have to agree here. Ideally it's split properly according to individual circumstances but I digress. Your point is true coming from a guy that has done that in my teens and adulthood. If it was harder, women should want to switch with us but they don't. Lots of SAHD still get shit on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 06:48 AM
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Something that impresses me about some women is when they ignore a blue check.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 04:28 AM
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In my culture it is kinda the default. Since I'm in Aus though I will explicitly say we're dating exclusively if I'm interested. No agree, me walk. Hasn't failed yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 04:12 AM
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It could also be life has repeatedly beat these guys down and now negative attributes manifest and are constantly reinforced. I like to think it's a contribution from all these factors
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 04:07 AM
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I've never heard this one before. It makes a lot of sense. Thanks for sharing!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 04:01 AM
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You've encapsulated perfectly how I've envisioned it in my mind especially things she thinks is "dumb" making her flip on you like a switch and the idea of you having a bank. I think for the latter I do this to women as well but not for vulnerability. I do believe there's women who have the capacity to be as supportive but the ratio seems unfavourable so far unless it's in a platonic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:52 AM
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If earning more and paying more is a participation trophy would it be ok then to say women sharing household duties is a participation trophy? I doubt you'd be happy. bullshit In 29% of marriages today, both spouses earn about the same amount of money. Just over half (55%) of marriages today have a husband who is the primary or sole breadwinner and 16% have a breadwinner wife. Majority of Americans say that society values men’s contributions at work more than their contributions at home. Only 7%…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:22 AM
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If she was going through a bad month like that, would you also lose attraction and leave or stick around?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 10:15 AM
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Is that something you've experienced with men or your friends have? If accurate that's a shame. For me personally yes. My life was quite different and I had to mature fast. I began supporting people with depression and all sorts of issues as a adolescent/teen. As an adult I looked after a bed ridden woman who went through a traumatic event who wouldn't speak for 4 weeks. I perhaps am an outlier so I wanted to ask other people here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 10:10 AM
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Keep in mind you're speaking to a man who's always had more female friends and I know the issue with men supporting other men's emotions already. That's an entirely different story. The focus of my question is not to address the disparity in emotional support groups. It was essentially, in the event something horrible, overwhelming and built up was dumped on them, women don't want to "deal with it" as you've said. I'm trying to find out if men were put in that position of pent up emotions dumped…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 09:50 AM
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Usually some form of left leaning woman. I just align more with open minded people even if we disagree. No ignorant statements out of left field. Conservative women ime tend to like performative masculinity. She could have a masculine man who has quiet confidence but she perceives that as weak. She wants the loud, boisterous guy who tries to convince everyone he's the man. Think George St Pierre vs Sean Strickland.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 09:24 AM
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I'm asking if the roles were reversed would men also dip or be more supportive based on you and what you see other men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:36 AM
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Q4M: Often we say there are women out there who don't wan't to see their man be too vulnerable or emotional otherwise they lose attraction and leave. Do you think this is true for yourself and men in general or do you think we have a much higher tolerance? e.g. You have a 1 month depressive rut. She dips but in reverse you'd stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:29 AM
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Clothes look better on flat, thin, tall people. You're a walking clothes hanger. Because face is king
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:16 AM
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Agreed. Doesn't have to be to that degree but some modesty is nice. One time at the gym there's this girl on the treadmill in front of me that I noticed while I was resting from my set, looking around. Her booty shorts (loose) was so short half her cheek was out. As I see men walk into the room, my eyes dart into theirs to see if they're going to look. These guys, especially the old ones weren't even slick with it. Big pervs lmao smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:47 AM
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Give her a belly rub for me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:34 AM
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Provisioning doesn't just mean pay in full it can mean most and lots of women still expect most or men to earn more. This usually means going into a relationship a man can expect anything from 60:40 - 80:20. Lots of men don't date for this reason because they take a bigger financial hit coming out of even non-marital relationships. It's a lot of pressure. You feel that men are expected to do half the household work and also do handyman work? And they have to earn more even when dating childfree …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 03:56 AM
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Both. Actual feminists that study it so people defer to them when discussing social issues, dating woes, declining birth rates. Of course this ends up affecting the cultural zeitgeist and the views of normal women. Would you not agree society as a whole but especially women defaults to leaning pro feminism + progressiveness? That's what they label themselves and that's who most people will interact with. A feminist like one you originally described is far ahead in understanding of many women who…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 03:27 AM
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Men...stand up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:46 PM
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Where are you from? Sounds like Sweden or something where most would actually insist and get upset. I've never paid , neither in dates that resulted in hookups/fwbs,nor in the ones that resulted in relationships. My man, me too. The whole point is that if she's into you she isn't making you jump through hoops. I'm sure if you're trying to sleep with the entire city it's more difficult but the principle is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:23 PM
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As far as I'm used to seeing it used, it means something akin to the standard 50s nuclear family providing through a job and all the associated gender norms. No felling trees, no hunting boars with bows. Yes is that really hard to believe? No matter the pill or political affiliation we've all experienced it. I've known female friends, acquaintances like this, all my married mates had this arrangement before and after kids. We can't all be insane and fringe. In the latest thread on PPD about reve…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 05:24 PM
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Lol you don't know me. You're just arguing in bad faith which was what I suspected from the beginning because you can't stop with the ad homs. The fact trad to you means from centuries ago and not what everyone typically means in modern society is telling. Then you bring up dragons and completely side stepped my entire argument about image and reality. Then you further go on to argue an entirely different scenario than the one presented which was two progressives who share the household duties a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 03:15 PM
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I knew you would say that. It doesn't contradict. It's shared but he is still expected to make more, sometimes significantly so and certainly not a lot less. Even in scenarios where survival is not an issue and she simply makes 250k but he makes 150k he will pay most expenses (dates, bills etc) or he doesn't earn enough for her to date to start. The only reason it even became shared was because of wage stagnation and women wanting to compete in the work force which was progression for women on t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 02:16 PM
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It's hard for me to wrap my head around her needing to explicitly do it alone if I'm game. I'd be wondering if the issue was with me. Of course your scenario explains she wants it just because so I'm assuming it doesn't. I'd be fine with it I guess but confused since I've never been in that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 01:24 PM
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How realistic is this scenario? I've never heard it before. Usually the sex is bad or the libido doesn't match.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 01:06 PM
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Did you escalate or flirt with her at all when you had the chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 12:30 PM
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Huh you missed the point. Tech making everything easier is irrelevant. Their role in home making is now shared with their man because a single income home is no longer feasible for most people today. However what is a man's traditional role? Provision, protection, leadership. His role is not switched to a woman's, it's not shared with a woman's either he is beholden to what was always expected of men on top of now sharing her duties.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 12:13 PM
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LOL. I remember yeeaars ago a guy posted a thread on askwomen about how to talk to women on a date or something to that effect because he seems to not have very similar interests. They said to ask her questions about topics she might enjoy more rather than "sports or stocks". Thread ended. I made a thread right after that asking them to elaborate on what types of questions or topics do women enjoy more? Mod got upset and deleted it. Insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:30 AM
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I remember watching that Jubilee (?) vid about cheater vs cheated ons and the prompt was something like "Would you date someone who has cheated before?" Then it showed the results of the viewer poll. It was almost an even split iirc. Fucking humans istg.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 06:13 AM
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You just noticed the elephant in the room people won't address? Shine the mirror back at her until society changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 05:51 AM
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Han So Hee is my top but Ryu ain't ugly be real. He just ain't near the top of what Korea offers but women don't care for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:11 AM
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Height is maybe 2nd. Face has ALWAYS been king.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 03:55 AM
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No thanks I'd rather look younger. Sunscreen everyday people even if it's cloudy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 03:52 AM
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It sure does. My only issue is that the women who actually know that are few. If you talk to bloopers, left leaning men dating similar women which make up the societal norm now, you'll notice a trend that she can be divorced from her role but he's expected to maintain his. In places where western feminism has taken root abroad you'll get ladies who just freeze up when you mention it's meant to alleviate men from patriarchal expectations too. That of course is going to rub men the wrong way, espe…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 03:32 AM
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it's meant to be masculine to neotenous but they're all over the place
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 08:06 PM
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Ngl I'm rooting for her
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 07:43 PM
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Guys like that need to try to make it in pro sports or it's just worse than being something reasonable imo. So many things become an inconvenience.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 07:21 PM
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You hear women say things like women are more attractive than men on average. Maybe true before most men started putting some minimum effort in their appearance. Now? Without makeup, false eyelashes it's pretty even.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 07:09 PM
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Whatever she likes that earns good money.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:20 PM
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Imo it's better to be a mix of both and maybe even lean towards the mum. Aren't most heartthrobs and models pretty boys?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:08 PM
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I concur bootyhunter
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 04:56 PM
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Women do have an out in that scenario. Do what that brother did or slightly "better" earning than a nanny and date for looks/personality. Whether it's biological or social it's their own fault for not overcoming it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 03:13 PM
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That's interesting. Even ones done well where it looks "natural" to the untrained eye? Stuff that a lot of influencers get like nose, eyes, jaw? The intent behind my 2nd question was more about whether men were concerned about what their children would look like, morals against PS for vanity in general, or concerns over self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 01:41 PM
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A traditional woman doesn't exist unless you're wealthy which is a very small % of men. It'll be the same as the old days except she also has a job and you'll share household duties and child rearing. So yes it is code for wanting their life provided for because they should be smart enough to know it's not too realistic these days depending on lifestyle/kids. As for Chinese specific customs, the girls can ask for it if they fulfil their role that came with it. Issue is they're picking and choosi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 10:04 AM
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Q4M: If you got cash and you felt you "needed" it for attraction would you do plastic surgery? Seems like society has accepted it so why, why not? Do you have a plastic surgery limit on a girl for LTR/wife material?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 08:45 AM
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VirtuousLiberalMaiden
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 07:34 AM
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That's right. Men are now allowed to do what women have been doing for ages. It's a good thing because so few men ever get compliments. I've been lifting for a long time now and I think it came from gym culture becoming more mainstream past the tail end of gen M. More often you used to hear that it was gay in broader society but guys would say "You're looking massive". That's leaked out so guys are supporting and complimenting one another in other ways. I still laugh at the joke "There's nothing…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 07:30 AM
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I agree but I guess you're making your own separate point or maybe you think she's doing that? It's the same as people body shaming those they dislike while being against it in principle. Disliking someone is the control and that's when most people struggle to be morally consistent. What I was talking about is guys making homosexual advances as jokes towards other but they're both straight. E.g. Guy on the daily thread asked how to practice kissing as he has a date coming and a guy responded "Wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:45 AM
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Are you guys old? Like X/Boomer? A lot of the homophobic sentiments I get from some women here seem to be from older women. What your husband and you are likely seeing are younger men "gay baiting" which is relatively new. They're completely straight and think it's funny to joke about being gay because they're comfortable in their masculinity. Some actual gay men have taken issue with this for the precise reason that they're straight but making a joke of their sexuality just in a non hostile way…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:07 AM
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Are you from the Netherlands? You must be an amazonian
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:44 AM
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My man! I bet you don't appreciate fine dining just like me for that reason
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:42 AM
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Yeah that's true, I've got my eye out. I shouldn't have said all are women it's actually only a handful of standouts and maybe a few less men. Sometimes you get dangerously close to losing yourself in them. Don't do it Laila!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 08:55 AM
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It does to certain women. They will rave on about it to the point it makes me uncomfortable. It makes me feel bad for actual average to short men. I'm 5'11 for instance. At this height most women don't really care. I know guys lie because they get insecure due to society. I actually lie downwards to see people's reaction and it matters. I'm a bit of an anomaly man on these boards if it wasn't obvious. I'm Asian myself. I'm still taller than a lot of white men here in Aus. Amongst the younger pop…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 08:30 AM
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I meant her saying 5'11 is still average. It'd depend where you're from, but it certainly is a little above. I'm assuming she's also from Aus like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 08:12 AM
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5’9 to 5’11 would be that much of a tangible difference. average male height It's over. Heightflation is real
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 06:13 AM
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REAL
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:42 AM
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I'm the woman respecter around these parts but is it a coincidence that, all these examples plus the ones I've noticed are all women? Scary~
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:41 AM
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You're the target demographic for those tiktoks where the guy sexually assaults his food while cooking aren't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:39 AM
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Are you nominating yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:32 AM
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When they don't know what to eat
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:57 AM
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Except for grandma. Shoutout grandma
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:44 AM
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Just marry a gymbro who only eats for macros not presentation or taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:41 AM
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After today, I'm convinced most of the cool people on PPD are on the daily thread. The others are unhinged opportunists who're two sides of the same coin.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:34 AM
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I've been saying this for a hot minute. Both genders problems and double standards exist because they enable them. A lot of the issues aren't inherently gendered but they're made to be due to socialization of gender norms. However in cases where men (attractive) get the privilege of women they act in very selfish ways outside of a select minority (sorry I don't have faith in humanity). This isn't changing without a huge reform. That's why I empathize with the disenfranchised men because their la…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:52 AM
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Have you introspected about why you are like that? I have also experienced what you describe. I get similar feelings towards intelligent, bold, assertive "business woman" types that most RPers hate. In my mind I've only surmised it's because I like the dominance tug of war and winning because I'm not submissive and quite anti authoritarian. It's not like "submissive" girls are wrong. They're just...normal?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:12 AM
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poppin poppin my collar
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:01 PM
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Pretend she died and never mention her again.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:56 PM
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Bro rolled a 3 on charisma and failed the check. Should've been born a half elf
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:23 PM
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Q4M: Do you ever get aroused when your gf/wife/some girl gets angry? Like everything just blurs and your eyes glaze over as you're staring at her? I don't mean a civil conversation, she's actually irate.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:10 PM
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Remember they don't teach AA history in Murica. They're just privileged /s
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 12:58 PM
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Own and ride horses More official racing and track riding. I'm into cars and motorcycles Owl sanctuary they're my spirit animal Mandate TRT to make trtgymbro proud
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 05:35 AM
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Nah I hate this. They just starfish and drunk (any drugs) girls turn me off especially if I'm sober. I'd rather the male version of this where you hit the gym, your test temporarily spikes and you bust through the door, metamorphosed into a caveman, she turns like a deer in headlights in the middle of watching a murder doc (women be watching some weird shit), and you throw her on the bed. Consensually of course :)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 05:25 AM
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you caught me
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 05:08 AM
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My grandma has that bowl
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:30 AM
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Is it a coincidence that the reality stone is red?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 12:51 AM
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hahaha nah I'm just joking around and acting extra. I'm chill.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 12:35 AM
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You'll get no disagreement from me there brother
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 11:31 AM
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She created 10 new red pillers
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 10:57 AM
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I will back up what the other guy is saying. These people are getting comfortable online. Covid really screwed people. I'll have people add me on socials, attractive women, hell even men, mums. Not the people you'd think are socially awkward. They'll say something similar like wanting to hang out, it's been a long time since making friends. I'm super down for anything When it's go time they get cold feet. They think friends just pop out of thin air.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 08:48 AM
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My local grocery store removed cinnamon bun and mint Oreos to make room for Easter chocolate
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 08:18 AM
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courageous and unique or not caring what others think Awesome basically
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 07:31 AM
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oof this BASED woman just jumped out like the kool aid man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 07:14 AM
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Yup, the best girls were like this. It's not even gender exclusive. I have a friend that does use it to hookup but he also told me sometimes he just uses it for validation with no plans of meeting any of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 07:09 AM
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Wouldn't even bother. I don't even now. I'm the rather sleep with my girl 20 times a week than 20 new girls a week type of guy. Far from libido issue. I'm at 100% "close" but no doubt if I was doing what people are doing here it wouldn't be. I remember juggling a few girls and I felt mentally exhausted, like a second job. Plus I'm morally consistent there, I can't really respect randoms like that. If I bothered to get the n count to 500 I'm pretty sure my mind is going to blur the good girls fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 11:07 PM
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This is exactly what I'm thinking about with height obsessed women who are usually 5'2.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 03:48 AM
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No. Even if it's true she will reject you for acting like it and you will if you keep thinking it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 01:16 AM
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Who would you pick? I think it's Nat.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 09:03 AM
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real
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 08:57 AM
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Grade "D" ain't no way hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:57 AM
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Are you an animal?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:46 AM
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Either that or in a relationship. Hookups don't necessarily make you better. If anything the frequent complaints are it sucks and you don't learn much because you're likely tipsy. You could even be "doing it right" but girls prefer different things. There's a lot men can improve in the confines of a relationship (without being judged) and experimenting with stuff you've read even if the idea of that isn't sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:44 AM
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What are you looking for? People at the club don't have the best reputation for long term. It's always been that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:30 AM
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What if he loves animals more than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:23 AM
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Women have this dominance fetish not me. Ask them. I pause and cringe when it's come out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 01:33 AM
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So in my life I've either had split or majority female friends. I'll say with women it's because they think you have an ulterior motive or that they also don't believe in M:F platonic relationships. Female friends as a man is super underrated for many reasons. If you live in abundance and don't want an N count of 500 or whatever it's easy to see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 01:09 AM
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First thought when you heard it. Excited for who? That's your answer
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 12:51 AM
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I agree there isn't pushback. That's mainly men's fault. Men and women who talk about trying to get this to change are a minority. Men need to be convinced first that they'd be happier if it changed rather than double downing to reach 20% chad status and failing is the first hurdle.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 11:46 PM
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Tell us something we don't know. We are expected to be competent. Women were also socialized under patriarchy so we are held to rigid standards of masculinity. Those truly progressive and egalitarian about this are the minority but they are out there. They usually aren't young immature girls though that's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 11:26 PM
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Yeah me (not a model but I definitely have pretty privilege). I don't do it anymore for 2 main reasons. I never thought of them like that before or during, only when asked after. I was a genuine personality man. Main reason: They get insecure that you're going to cheat on them. I'd kms before I cheat or help someone else do it. They won't believe it because most men aren't like this. It's why I know women like to be the more attractive one that puts more effort into their appearance. Realizing t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 09:17 AM
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It's insecure but it's a valid emotion because she reasonably caused it. People acting like it's inherently an unreasonable emotion are wrong. If I'm at the VS after party and hot models are throwing it back around me and I'm not removing myself I'm going to expect my girl to be insecure. Same deal here. Women comfortable making comments like this do it more than once.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 07:04 AM
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Depends how short. I'd take everything but leg lengthening because the risk for complication is too high. I know short dudes who can find a girl np so if you facially look like a Chad you'd be gucci.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 06:33 AM
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I agree with Eulen in that it entirely depends. Also Asian grew up abroad so most didn't do the live in in-laws however just having that extra community is such a great thing and helpful. For reasons, that isn't the case anymore. None of the younger kids will really know their relatives, cousins, no sense of community and celebrations. I used to babysit and live for weeks as a young teen with my aunt and uncle and I was like their son before their son. I saw how stressed they were. It just depen…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:36 AM
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They're picking 2 duh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:56 AM
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Park walking their dog, Pilates, gym after work which is usually 5pm (commercial not some bodybuilding dungeon), at a bar/club, at home watching grey's anatomy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 07:12 AM
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The definition of preselection involves both. Does it not? The vetting and being chosen because of it happens at the same time. So other women subconsciously choose a man other women have vetted and will choose. One phenomenon that I've experienced (evo psych has a paper on this if you believe in it- I only believe some) that would go against simply being "chosen" as enough is if you've ever hung out with female friends that aren't conventionally attractive and then ones who are. The difference …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:30 AM
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I agree. It would be a disservice to the partner to have "settled" for them. However just as an observer I do honestly believe standards have got out of hand for things that really don't matter. People would likely realize they'd be happy if they just gave it a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:50 AM
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I respect them everyday
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:28 AM
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Both sides have their own biases. Men at night are dangerous is true. Same with the approach. Men are cheaters and fuckbois doesn't apply to me so I'm not offended, it's just venting. I know you're not arguing severity of consequences but just date women who align with you. The women I've dated fit that criteria. I have experienced that some of the women who are against those boundaries change their tune once the man they're dating is more attractive than them which is why some deliberately avoi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:24 AM
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Genuine good faith question. I'm not RP btw. Do you really find that to be the case? From what I observe men are more than happy for women to earn more than them but women typically aren't. We got all those funny tiktoks of men happily playing house husband if their hypothetical wife was the breadwinner. Despite that there's still a large negative social stigma to SAHD even in progressive countries. If there's some men that do feel emasculated can you really blame them? Men are expected to earn …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:53 AM
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It's MGTOW for women. I have girl friends from SK (I'm also Asian). This whole movement is far from the majority and the decline in birth rates has much more to do with money. Property is expensive there, all the good jobs are in Seoul (in a country of 51m), competition is high, people spend money they don't have on luxury because of status and the fact they don't foresee owning property in Seoul at any reasonable timeframe outside of marrying rich. I don't think much will change if it came to A…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:14 AM
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Still this strategy is explicitly performance based. It’s not as confusing and random as looking for true love. And you can work and improve yourself without worrying about everything becoming conditional on performance. Because you already understand everything is based on your performance/physique/attractiveness That is exactly how I've come to terms with it. As I said if I didn't perform then there's nothing to like about me that they couldn't find in someone else. A woman who loved me would …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 12:38 AM
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Since there's no studies it's just all anecdotal. In my experience it's leaned towards there being a correlation but i'm also usually looking for other accompanying attributes like mental health issues, personality before I make a judgement. I see them like tattoos or any other appearance or behaviour. You are different from what is "normal" so that must say something about your personality if you're willing to go against the grain. It's not necessarily the item itself. For example we judge men …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 11:38 PM
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Aren't you overcomplicating it? I see it all as diminishing returns, there's a baseline level of everything you must meet. You're asking what gives you access to relationships or sex the easiest but maintaining it is entirely different. Access is by far sexuality as you call it and personality maintains it. It's the old adage looks get you in the door, personality keeps you in. You're getting stuck in the idea of "paying for love" but all your attributes and the things you've done to obtain it r…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 11:15 PM
3

Mint choc is the best flavour of ice cream
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 02:14 AM
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He's saying you need to be top 5% of male attractiveness for women to accept you approaching. He wonders what other people think the % is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 12:55 AM
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You still finished? My lord. o7
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 11:18 PM
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Push and pull as "cold and hot" games This one. Did any of you ever consider more mild forms of it like making sure you don't text too much to not appear too eager or you have nothing to do? I'm not sure that asking for small favors Maybe the terminology is wrong, but the idea of it. It seems us men like doing those things. What would you think of a girl in my example pretending to be drunk so you'd take her home because she intended to sleep with you? Manipulation or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 09:18 PM
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Q4W: Do you actually believe push pull in the developing stages of a relationship is toxic like Psych says or a "necessary" game for attraction? Same premise but weaponized incompetence where you "need" a guys help but not really. Pretending you're drunk being the most egregious example.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 10:29 AM
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In your scenario there's no other proposition. If he's forced to buy love he might as well go younger and more attractive. He's hoping she actually likes him for him of course. About the other commenter talking about an alternative form of attraction in sugar relationships, I'm not sure if that is most common. I just know of the girls I know who did partake in it, when they were with me they didn't say nice things about those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 08:38 AM
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Isn't the moralistic judgement from considering it nasty and reckless? I have a more nuanced stance on this based on my lived experience but I do understand people these days like to think it says nothing or everything about you. I think the truth is it sometimes does which comes with knowing the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 08:20 AM
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I agree with almost everything you said. I had a feeling it was from Chris' channel. My only disagreement is I believe that the bitterness comes down to the fact we've worked to break gender roles but not for men. This is especially true of certain demographics. People forget both men and women were socialized under patriarchy. The problem is the majority of men and to a lesser but still substantial amount of women expect men to uphold gender normative behaviours. There's no fight for change her…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 07:44 AM
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I think the way i see it is like racists. They'll never be gone and they'll always be crazy but we do our best to mitigate or ignore and partner up with people who aren't lunatics. That's the real us vs them. Non crazy men and women vs the crazies. You unsurprisingly run into some pleasant people that way, who woulda thought?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 06:37 AM
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this came out of nowhere it became funny
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 11:53 PM
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When you meet a woman that is really into you. There's no mistake. There's no paragraphs overanalyzing and rationalizing her behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 11:37 PM
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It's just pre selection. If it's worse now it's only because dating and finding people who are serious is even harder than before. As a niche there are some women who get off on being chosen over the taken woman. It also exists sometimes when multiple women are competing for you when single. She'll leave you soon after proving her point though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 11:23 PM
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Car. It's like a man cave. Except you get to drive around.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 09:21 AM
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Honestly, a lot of the complaints about some kind of double standard are just enabled by men. Yeah I said it. If you're 6'5 why not date the 6' girl? Idc about height but if I had to sit there and build a bear an attractive woman I'd pick taller over shorter. Like a VS model.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 09:11 AM
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This is exactly how I interpret it so my pet peeve is that situationship became a descriptor. It shouldn't exist regardless of which gender is "fuck zoned". If it's the rarer commitment issues you are just single with commitment issues. If you're not intending to commit it's FWB. The only reason for a separate label would be if it was common knowledge it still meant you were exclusive but trying to get together aka the boomer, "it's complicated" relationship status.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:46 PM
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What’s interesting is that from what I’ve oberseved, men with a lot of women friends tend to usually have women falling all over them. Even if they aren’t like, Gigachad lol I believe in mate choice copying even if he's already attractive. It's something I observed myself as a boy even if research isn't conclusive. I think what worked for me is that I am buff with masculine hobbies so I'm stereotyped but it's a pleasant surprise when I turn out the opposite personality wise. I agree, those men e…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 09:42 PM
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Most can't remain purely platonic and have ulterior motives as you can see in the comments. I'm a man but an outlier in that aspect but women know this. Only reason I have more female friends is because the toxically masculine men (dickheads, love to start fights, make ignorant remarks) grate me. Given enough time, it will come to blows. It's also interesting to hear different perspectives from each other. What "box" a woman is in is immediate. If I'm intending to date her and it doesn't work ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 07:31 PM
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