EzraNL Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Dealing with loss of time with kids Well that is not my problem.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/09/25 01:41 PM
1	Dealing with loss of time with kids People downvote you but it’s the truth once you get used to it it’s not that bad. It sucks but I see my ex as an expensive baby sitter now. I make it crazy fun for them when they are with me	/r/Divorce_Men	02/09/25 12:50 PM
3	Does anyone else find it difficult to want to have sex due to their spouse’s infidelity? It is best to be very stoic and strong willed because otherwise you will give in to weaknesses and low self esteem. Being stronger then those “revenge” urges makes you come out stronger and grow instead of staying petty with other woman. Never forget you always can go to a hooker in your past marriage as wel 10 year from now. They always there waiting if needed. Fix yourself first then when you lost that anger and spite enjoy life and do whatever pleases you because then you truly do it for your…	/r/Divorce_Men	01/09/25 10:16 AM
11	My wife is whoring around It’s a good wake up call, you are not worth any less to her, your life is yours and she did not bring anything of value IF you valued your own life as top priority at all times. Love yourself love your life the rest is secondary. Go to town spend some money on hookers get it out of your system and after the divorce is done you go engage in relationships again. Till then you work on yourself your own future your finances your body your self esteem it’s your life you need to give the best for your…	/r/Divorce_Men	01/09/25 09:30 AM
1	The mid life, divorced man and women’s perception Woman jump from feeling to feeling. Once you recognise that you will never give them your full commitment anymore. Enjoy living in the moment. Always put yourself number one. Do what ever you like and enjoy. She either follows you or does not. In the end it should not matter as you had fun in that moment and you in the end always have to live with yourself so just do whatever you want enjoy your life for yourself not someone else	/r/Divorce_Men	01/09/25 08:44 AM
5	Please check in on your friends going through a divorce. None of my “friends” checked on me . I only keep them around now for hobby related stuff but never really get get close with them anymore. They are aquintences now. A divorce will make you see the truth	/r/Divorce_Men	01/09/25 08:21 AM
9	Oneitis is a Mathematical Fallacy. The Cure is Overwhelming Data. Goood! I actually see someone now. And the thing is thanks to the red pill and a bunch of books. I now recognise the behaviour and red flags. She love bombs me, she talks to me whenever she has stress or issues at work or financially through out the day. But as soon as her friends invite her for a drink or dinner she disappears I finally recognise the redflags of being a tool to her and the love bombing is just a way to manipulate my feelings for her own security on various levels. Since I have …	/r/TheRedPill	20/08/25 08:38 PM
2	Women don’t Care About Your Struggles I figured it out the hard way after a 14 year marriage. No women ever going to get anything for nothing anymore. I still love and fall in love but I won’t give any financial aid etc anymore, I have my own house and car etc it stays mine and my kids.	/r/TheRedPill	12/08/25 06:00 PM
48	The Second She Feels Safe, She Leaves You. Life should always surround yourself as number one. When you figure this out you do not need any of these type of games. Just always keep your door open for her to leave as soon as you fed up with her, she shows red flags, becomes cold, no longer gives you that good sex anymore. Just be selfish	/r/TheRedPill	12/08/25 05:57 PM