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Question For MenFalse-Purple3882/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 07:10 PM
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It is a false narrative. Women aren’t the ones who feel entitled to people who look better than them. That’s men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 09:29 PM
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I don’t see the point in “retrying” when it didn’t work the first time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:23 PM
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?? So you’re just not listening to a single word I’ve said. I literally told you when I was actively looking it was unsuccessful. You aren’t listening.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:44 PM
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I’m so tired of this false narrative that women only try to match with men more attractive than them. I literally swiped right on nearly everyone when I was using old. Even men I wasn’t attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:43 PM
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I still exist. The argument was “women” don’t have dating issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:40 PM
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I did do something about it?? What are you not understanding. I stated I tried apps. They didn’t work when I tried them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 10:44 AM
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You don’t need to meet every single man to ever exist to observe a pattern of behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 10:16 AM
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You’re nitpicking
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 10:16 AM
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Tbh I’m not really trying to meet people currently. I’m lonely but I’m focused more on some personal matters at the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 09:25 AM
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if it’s a prominent attitude throughout the state it is no longer a neighborhood issue
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 09:24 AM
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I’m in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 09:07 AM
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You haven’t been debating anything this entire time. And again, this issue isn’t confined to the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 09:06 AM
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Wym the only reliable way?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:52 AM
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neighborhood It’s not exactly a neighborhood issue 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:51 AM
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I tried back when I had a profile. It didn’t work. That’s what I’m telling you. I live in the US. Al is a state
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:49 AM
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I have literally heard men try to push the idea women are meant to be subservient to them yes 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:41 AM
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Fair enough. And I haven’t been back on apps since my relationship ended. I’d get few matches and most of them would abruptly stop speaking to me. I had a fully fleshed out bio and tried to be appealing but it just didn’t work. I don’t see why I’d be shadow banned. And I live in AL.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:35 AM
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It’s not just the internet 💀 and the opinions men state online also aren’t divorced from who men are irl
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:30 AM
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It’s based off of what men themselves say. If it’s unreliable to what men actually think then that is the fault of men 🤷🏻‍♀️ also I don’t hate men. I just don’t have a delusional view of them. I don’t “seek content to reaffirm man hating views” either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:17 AM
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Men are outright hateful and hostile to women they don’t personally find attractive. You see it in the vitriolic statements they make about fat women and single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:11 AM
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since yall insist you have them and I am in a generous mood If you wanted an actual response then why did you make this statement. what are they Similar to what men claim to have. No one is interested, no approaches, no matches etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:07 AM
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Why is any acknowledgment of reality bitter and vindictive now 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:03 AM
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Ah yes the pipeline to mythical man hating
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:00 AM
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It’s not about emotional regulation 💀 you’re objectively wrong and arrogant about it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:48 AM
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You weren’t arguing in good faith at all Again you haven’t proven anything at all
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:46 AM
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not revisionist you haven’t disproven anything
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:44 AM
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The RAF wasn’t explicitly feminist and the suffragettes didn’t attack people for being male 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:43 AM
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Feminism isn’t a terrorist organization. Feminism never bombed boys schools, never married male children off to old women, and never barred men from having jobs or a meaningful existence. Unlike what men have done to women for the entirety of human history.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:37 AM
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Women have never used entire political systems to harm men. Women have never barred men from getting an education on the basis they are male. Women have never created terrorist organizations or religions centered around abusing men and robbing them of basic rights and freedoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:34 AM
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It’s weird how m*n are so insistent about claiming my perspective must be because I’m ran through or made bad choices. I’ve only had sex with one man. My opinion is based off what men themselves openly admit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:31 AM
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It isn’t though. Misogyny isn’t a new concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:29 AM
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I have had a dating profile. It was generally unsuccessful
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:28 AM
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Nothing I said in my comment was a matter of opinion. It was an objective statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:13 AM
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Projection. It’s just objectively true.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:13 AM
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internal hate Broad conclusion based on nothing factual. your personality Attempt to make a conversation about society in general about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 06:47 AM
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The city I live near doesn’t even have 500,000 people
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:59 AM
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That’s an outrageously high number.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:56 AM
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The majority of ‘feminist’ subs on Reddit are ran by men. Take your complaints up with the council of scrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:50 AM
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Where are you pulling those numbers from? They’re not based on actual stats. It’s just entirely your assumption as to women’s options. I don’t think I’ve even met 10 men in one year. It’s insane to argue the average woman meets 50 men per year to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:45 AM
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Men have hated women for the entirety of human history and you’re acting as if the concept is new. Emerging into adulthood as a woman is literally shaped heavily by the realization that all the men you once admired hate you because you’re female.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:39 AM
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what’s low quality Men who view women as flashlights. Which is 90% of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:19 AM
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Hookups are inherently less valuable to women 💀 Women are not small men. Women do not have the same reproductive role as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:15 AM
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All men do is lie and push their personal subjective opinions as objective universal reality 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:13 AM
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Either way, what he’s saying just isn’t rooted in reality
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:10 AM
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I think they’re just narcissistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:09 AM
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It objectively is incorrect. And based on your own nonsensical idea of what the female experience is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:07 AM
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The majority of you see women that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:03 AM
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This is nonsense lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:03 AM
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I’ve never been approached my entire life. Stop pushing your weird rose colored view of female existence as objective reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:02 AM
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Men only say this nonsense because you can’t comprehend how dehumanizing it is to be treated like a fuck hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:01 AM
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The vast overwhelming majority of men do in fact view women that way and it’s evident in the way you all speak about us. Stop coping by claiming it’s just Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:00 AM
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It’s expressed here everyday. Idk what this revisionism is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 01:57 AM
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That rate is shit and the entire point of sex is orgasm. Why should women engage in sex where they aren’t reaching orgasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 01:56 AM
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Women feel used after engaging in sex that they hated and was entirely male centered. Women not enjoying sexual encounters with selfish men isn’t some moral failing on women’s part.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 01:51 AM
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They’re also completely unable to grasp that hot women aren’t the only ones that exist. I’m not attractive and my dating experience is nothing like what he describes the “female dating experience”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 01:49 AM
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This is just your own bias. I’ve had extreme difficulty dating. I’m nearing 30 and only have ever had one relationship. Men have never approached me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 01:47 AM
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not false who was even talking about inseminators
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 05:24 PM
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Not false Men never accept accountability for anything males do
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 05:09 PM
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MeN pRoTeCt There’s literally numerous incidents of them raping their own kids, stfu.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 05:09 PM
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It’s literally evident throughout this entire subreddit. You all perpetually mald about any criticism of men at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 05:00 PM
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Ik what a generalization is. Most of you objectively do have a men are wonderful bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 04:53 PM
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The fact you enact violence against your own daughters proves you lack honor and integrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 04:52 PM
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My standards aren’t inflated. They’re based on the average man in my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 04:51 PM
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It might be the global average but it certainly isn’t the average in western nations which was what he made this post about. I otherwise agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 04:51 PM
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I misread your comment as saying she should use “some men”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 12:15 PM
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LMAO no, no they don’t. The sex that has shown time and time again they will desecrate the most sacred bonds to satisfy their demented and immoral sexual urges does not have “honor, principles, and integrity”.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 12:08 PM
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None of this comment is based in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 12:05 PM
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Why do you object to the criticism that many of the men here are emotionally volatile and illogical?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 12:05 PM
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They’re proving your point with these comments. Men do not like being held accountable for anything. Every time women point out something that a significant amount of them do they default to blaming women for it. Men are hypersensitive people who are allergic to criticism from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 12:03 PM
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Why? Men don’t put “some” in the title when making generalizations about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 12:00 PM
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Because he isn’t? There is no country in which a bald fat man is in the same league as an attractive 30yo woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 05:28 AM
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? What relevance does this have to me? A 5’8 man will never be tall to me because the country I was raised in has a higher average height than 5’8 for men. A man making 50k a year will never be rich to me because 50k is average for the country I was raised in. Idc if that hypothetical man then has more options in another, poorer country.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 05:18 AM
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If I live in the US then why would I give a shit what the average height of a man in China or India is??
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 05:10 AM
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People look at the average in their country because it is the figure that is relevant to them. Has nothing to do with being “spoiled”. You’re being illogical.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 05:06 AM
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Going to see scream 7 this weekend and am anticipating it to be terrible. Wish me luck ig
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 05:03 AM
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Why does the average in india matter at all when you made the title of this post about women in the “developed world”.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 04:56 AM
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I mean he also thinks the average male height is 5’7 when that’s literally below average and considered short.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 03:37 AM
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Your last paragraph proves you have no point and that this is just nonsense. A bald fat man isn’t in the same league as an attractive 30yo woman. Also the average income and average height you have listed are both incorrect. Unless you’re living somewhere like india I don’t see how either of those figures would be correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 03:36 AM
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People saying words online isn’t traumatic. You’re behaving like a literal child
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 08:32 PM
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What trauma??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:39 PM
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Men have called me far worse both on this sub and on the discord. So stop being a crybaby.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 06:38 PM
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incorrect, oversensitive
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 04:20 PM
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women are predominantly submissive leaning Male propaganda
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 01:41 PM
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The narrative you’re attempting to push is very distinctly that women are inherently submissive and that women who deviate from this are an aberration of female normality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 11:47 AM
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teehee no women like femdom
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 11:40 AM
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rare Lmao. No. And I had a full bio with okay pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 11:39 AM
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Men overinflate the amount of matches women get dramatically. I’ve only gotten around 200 matches total from an app I’ve been on for three years.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 08:45 AM
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She’s objectively above average too. So this is just more of the “all men are gay” pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 08:43 AM
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That woman is above average first of all so it’s crazy you’re trying to ‘humble’ her by implying she got with a man more attractive than her from OLD. Second of all the scenario you’re talking about almost never happens. The vast majority of women don’t even want a man who is more attractive than them. It would be embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 08:41 AM
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This is a relatively new thing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 08:37 AM
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Women who are projecting their preferences onto all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 08:36 AM
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No he isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 08:36 AM
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and you have no proof of this fantasy that all women want to be submissive doormats
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 08:35 AM
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marriage has historically functioned as affirmative action for men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:07 AM
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Opinions aren’t facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:05 AM
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I don’t need therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:04 AM
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This is just you being dramatic yet again.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 09:37 PM
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slur Yes bc “scrote” is totally on par with the vile shit men say about women everyday lmao. You’re so dramatic. complain about those men It’s almost like that’s exactly what I was doing and you had an issue with it. because you said hide your history Yes? Because if men are going to use it to emotionally manipulate and otherwise coerce women into having sex they don’t want then yes it’s objectively better for women to lie. your personality is rancid Internet man who knows nothing about me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 09:14 PM
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The worth of something can be objectively measured.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:59 PM
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are they Yes. Stating they want women to engage in sex they don’t like bc “if she really was attracted to me she would” is emotionally manipulative garbage. your personality is more repulsive than your sexual history can ever be Why are you assuming what my “sExUaL hIsToRy” even is? Or that you know anything about me from this brief interaction?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:57 PM
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male centered nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:55 PM
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Again. Women don’t react to that information by demanding he perform certain sex acts or “YOU ARENT ATTRACTED TO ME REEEEE”. Which is exactly how you scrotes are reacting to women’s previous sexual history.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:50 PM
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You people are seriously embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:39 PM
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No. Being fine with being mommybangmaid doormat isn’t or at least shouldn’t be normal. Being ok with mediocre sex in which the man doesn’t even reciprocate shouldn’t be normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:37 PM
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You and all these other women are pathetic. That is if this isn’t a scrote larping. getting on your knees… without physical reciprocity So you settle for subpar sex and think this is normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:36 PM
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I believe the arrangement is designed explicitly to screw women over 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:34 PM
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women aren’t acting rapey by demanding you engage in sex you hate
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:33 PM
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often coerced yes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:31 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:54 PM
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You’re proving the entire point of this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:53 PM
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Doesn’t mean she has mutually enjoyable sex
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:52 PM
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No, I made my comment before that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:51 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:38 PM
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No. And you thinking that simply means you want some low self esteem woman to manipulate and use for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:33 PM
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I’ve never had casual sex. The idea repulses me. I haven’t seen many women happy with engaging in it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:31 PM
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I don’t understand why this is directed at men when women also have difficulty with online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:28 PM
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That doesn’t mean it’s worth it. It means they don’t want to be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:27 PM
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what kind of derangement is this
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:26 PM
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This isn’t remotely true.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:25 PM
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you are obsessively fixated on this topic
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:25 PM
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women desperate to be in a relationship will tolerate you stringing them along, more news at 11
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:21 PM
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the benefits of a good relationship outweigh the negatives for men maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:20 PM
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Fwb is a scam for women. Like pyramid schemes or splitting the bill 50/50. expecting demanding boyfriend stuff Yes how dare women expect a bare minimum of the men they have sex with at least pretending to like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:17 PM
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Your entire argument is essentially that women are never allowed to decide they don’t like something.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:12 PM
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Why are you conflating attraction with will engage in sex she hates to appease me And why do you find that desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 03:02 PM
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Yes how many men. How many is she ‘allowed’ to hookup with before having to spend the rest of her life engaging in sex she hates I would assume if she does it she enjoys it People do things they don’t enjoy all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 02:40 PM
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Then where are you drawing the line. And why is it acceptable to expect her to have sex she doesn’t enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 02:32 PM
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A proper partner WANTS to try all of that stuff with their current partner Proving her point again.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 02:31 PM
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You literally are saying exactly what she describes. I’m not misrepresenting anything. This is exactly what you’re saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 02:20 PM
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You literally describe expecting women to tolerate sex they hate. you shouldn’t get serious with her unless she hooks up with you Your words btw. You think women are obligated to continue having sex they don’t like in hopes of getting commitment bc “well she did a hookup once reeee”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 02:19 PM
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Sex without orgasm is both redundant and automatically horrible. Idt you comprehend her point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 02:16 PM
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So you admit you manipulate women into fucking you by not stating your true intentions and think women who fall for your shit should spend their entire lives having sex they hate with repulsive fail males like you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 02:12 PM
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So you want women to have sex they hate. And you don’t see an issue with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 02:09 PM
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This is why women should never under any circumstance discuss previous sexual experience with current male romantic partners. Males are incredibly manipulative and think we owe them anything and everything we did for a previous partner regardless of whether we enjoy it or not. It’s sociopathic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 02:06 PM
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It literally is you expecting women to tolerate sex they likely don’t enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 02:05 PM
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You’re literally doing exactly what she describes in the post. You think men are entitled to hookups from any woman that has done them once before. Regardless of how she actually views hookups and whether or not she even enjoys them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 02:04 PM
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Most women don’t really care about this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 10:06 PM
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It’s not really a date unless it’s a dinner thing. And these people you’re describing seem to not date with a specific goal in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 10:02 PM
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I think you’re defining stranger differently and you also have a bizarre timeline for when these things occur. I didn’t even meet my ex in person until after we had been talking for about a month. Three dates is like two months of knowing the person. That’s plenty of time to decide on commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 07:23 PM
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I mean it’s weird to me to not have a definitive answer by that point. If it’s the third date I’ve likely been seeing them for two months.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:01 PM
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It’s strange to me that you’d go on three dates with someone and exclusivity is still undetermined.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 01:17 PM
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I think you people are just dating wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 12:44 PM
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Are you able to type “straight” correctly
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 10:35 AM
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No. People seek out those who are compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 07:59 AM
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You’re just oversensitive
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 07:57 AM
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Not wanting to have sex with random men isn’t being sex repressed
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 07:57 AM
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Someone you’ve gone on three dates with isn’t a stranger, unless you’re dating wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 07:51 AM
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That’s a committed relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 07:50 AM
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Ironically I think this is more precise than the original.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 07:50 AM
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I have an issue with the conflation of promiscuity & sex positivity in your post. Also some of these scenarios don’t exactly make sense with where you’ve placed them in the hierarchy. people who sleep with someone off online dating within a few hours of meeting them This is flawed because in these scenarios, the amount of time people spend talking before they meet varies significantly between individuals. I talked with someone for about a month before meeting him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 07:48 AM
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This doesn’t address anything I actually said. You’re just monologuing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 07:44 AM
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I think most men don’t actually want a relationship. They just desire sex and view a relationship as something they begrudgingly do to have sex. They seem to resent having to perform any ‘loving’ or ‘considerate’ behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 08:23 PM
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idt there’s any way to ‘stop’ it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 10:06 AM
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Men started it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 09:57 AM
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It doesn’t matter what skills you develop if you’re fundamentally not what most people are looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 05:18 AM
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This is only really possible if you live in a liberal area.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 05:16 AM
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It’s hard when you aren’t compatible with most people. You end up not reaching certain milestones socially.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 05:13 AM
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Rp men do hate women. That’s just reality. They despise the female sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 05:04 AM
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Feminism has always been for female liberation. It’s not for men. because men and women antagonized each other so much No. Men antagonized women. For centuries.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 05:01 AM
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No. That isn’t remotely close to what I said. I said the facts flat out do not match your claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 12:08 AM
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I largely agree with your first paragraph about how individuals are enmeshed with their perspective cultures and that shapes what they view and accept as a norm. I disagree with your statement regarding misogyny. All misogyny is rooted in a hatred of women. I think you could reasonably claim all sexism against women isn’t rooted in a hatred of women, but sexism is much more broad. The urge to protect women isn’t really the product of a gender bias specifically and not all men have it. I’d argue …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 11:27 PM
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No it’s just factually incorrect. It’s utterly delusional to believe rapists wouldn’t significantly skew male even if you include that data point. You simply aren’t living in reality. Inclusion of that data point isn’t going to flip the sex discrepancy or change sex differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 11:17 PM
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Redpill nonsense isn’t rooted in any science, it’s rooted in misogyny. Specifically the “women are incapable of intellectual thought and love being abused” kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 11:16 PM
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And that point is factually incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 09:54 PM
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She’s rejecting your ridiculous claim that what the women say here is generally comparable to the men. I mean you assholes literally call us “plates”. We can’t even refer to you as “scrotes” because it gets removed as soon as it’s reported. Men get on this sub every day saying women are worthless, women’s rights should be taken away, women are nothing more than objects for men to stick things into, women are intellectually inferior, etc and you think women rightfully having a negative reaction t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 06:28 PM
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women are evil, unjust and irrational for disliking men proceeds to write long winded comments about how women shouldn’t have basic rights, how women being beaten is funny, how women love being abused yeah I just have no idea why women hate men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 06:20 PM
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Men severely overestimate the degree to which sex shapes personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 05:31 PM
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Abuse is inherent to the porn industry A video of actual people engaging in sex acts isn’t the same as words on a page
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 05:25 PM
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Books are not porn. This claim relies on a purposeful distortion of romance books being comparable to porn videos. They aren’t the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 04:45 PM
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? So you just ignored the part you’re quoting?? I said very clearly that even including those men remain the majority of rapists. That’s an objective fact. You do not get to obfuscate reality because it hurts your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 04:44 PM
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I have a male victim complex and know nothing about your life but must conclude it’s easy because I’m a moron Uh huh. Also me pointing out reality and disagreeing with male nonsense isn’t “saying nothing”.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 04:42 PM
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No. Lmao. This is delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 04:41 PM
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No, I’d either agree or disagree with the way in which he’s defining it. But the fact that neither you nor any of the other men incessantly complaining about me asking for clarification can articulate what you find so ‘toxic’ about women just tells me you don’t have a legitimate complaint.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 04:40 PM
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He’s not specifying what he’s defining as toxic
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 04:36 PM
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so you deny the fact that for all of human history men have specifically subjugated women because of their sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 04:36 PM
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I addressed what could be addressed. If he’s not willing to specify how he is defining it then why do you expect us to blindly agree there is an issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 08:35 AM
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No they haven’t 💀And even if they were, why does what they’re told matter more than what they do in practice? And this also wasn’t even what I was discussing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 03:04 AM
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What relevance does any of this emotional rambling have to my comment? You want to talk about those things? Fine: - Misandry isn’t a real problem; majority of women are male centered - Defamation and “gossip” aren’t sexed - Paternity fraud is rare - False allegations are less common than actual rape - Baby trapping is literally a tactic used by male abusers so the idea it’s only ever been women doing this is false - Rape is defined as unwanted & forced intercourse. And even with that comprehensi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 03:02 AM
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No it’s because men are allowed to exist in their natural state, women are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 02:57 AM
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No I’m not going to entertain this “women are evil” circlejerk you and other men are wanting.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 02:56 AM
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No. It’s a relevant question as to what he’s defining as toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 10:03 PM
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I’m not op, I was generally agreeing with your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:36 PM
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Both of which can either be described as for themselves or for others. One of them explicitly is for others. And you’re still arguing that there isn’t any pattern to why women shave, that the majority of women just so happen to like being hairless from the neck down. That seems logical to you??
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:33 PM
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I’m not saying it’s the same as being rude. I’m saying it’s accepted behavior in men but framed as rude and unwelcoming in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:31 PM
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Again. Why then do the majority of women shave and the majority of men don’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:30 PM
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If they don’t experience it then why do the majority of women shave while the majority of men don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:29 PM
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I’m not wrong. You are blatantly disregarding societal influences as to why someone would shave. As well as the sex discrepancy between who shaves and who doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:28 PM
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Your previous comment explicitly was denying the existence of social factors that encourage shaving
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:25 PM
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I don’t agree. Bluntness or being straightforward is accepted as a default setting in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:24 PM
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So you deny the objective reality that humans are a social species and that we live in societies that influence our behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:23 PM
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The phrase “it’s extremely rare that they [women] understand that examples are meant to show the spirit of your meaning” has an undertone indicative of a low opinion of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:21 PM
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You’re claiming even still in this comment that I don’t comprehend the concept of individuality because I said some choices women make are driven by social appeasement.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:20 PM
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No, you’re choosing to ignore the existence is systems and how they drive behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:18 PM
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I mean women who are blunt or straightforward often get labeled ‘rude’. So do women who are “too” opinionated and women who openly criticize people or concepts “too much” are “miserable”.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:17 PM
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Tbh it seems like from this reply you’re condescending to them and that’s why they aren’t receptive to whatever point you’re making in those conversations
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:15 PM
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It is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:14 PM
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Noticing patterns isn’t “thinking for everyone”. Bodybuilders and gay men are small fractions of the male population, the latter do not even uniformly prefer hairless men. ‘Bears’ exist for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:14 PM
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You can’t answer the question but yet you felt comfortable dictating to me that social appeasement can’t possibly be a factor as to why women are shaving
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:12 PM
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Well the thing is what women should or shouldn’t say in certain social groups is dictated by the specific dynamics of that particular group. Men sometimes criticize women for not critiquing other women in mixed sex spaces but that’s often intentional to avoid men dogpiling or weaponizing that criticism to be sexist. There’s also an element of women being expected to be “nice” as well as general conformity that kind of contributes to the self censoring women do. I think it’s reasonable for anyone…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:11 PM
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No. I’m asking you why you think women shave if not for themselves or for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:06 PM
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Why is it normalized. Why would they feel it looks better when men conveniently don’t feel men look better hairless. Also even the reasons you present fall into the categories of for themselves or for others. Wanting to appeal to normalcy is something you do both for yourself so you fit in, and to appease society. Doing something because you think it looks better is also in a similar bracket.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:05 PM
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Your original point was “I thought women didn’t dress for attention” which is generally a rebuttal women make to men acting like they have a right to harass them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:02 PM
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That’s fair but it should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:01 PM
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You’re going to get people who say it doesn’t happen all the time regardless of how you structure your argument. I think the best thing to do at that point is reframe and ask them about the nature of that specific situation. That prevents purposeful deflecting or them talking about something more broad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:00 PM
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I’m asking you for an explanation as to why women shave and who benefits from women shaving. You have yet to answer that question. It’s either for themselves for whatever reason or it’s for someone else. It’s not a coincidence that the majority of women remove their body hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:58 PM
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And that’s an irrational framework.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:56 PM
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I read what you wrote. It’s an illogical conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:54 PM
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A lot of times men use “toxic” as a pejorative to say “she’s doing this thing I don’t like that has nothing to do with me and should stop that”.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:52 PM
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You don’t even specify what is supposedly so toxic about these women, you just vaguely allude to “manipulation” and “entitlement”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:51 PM
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Observing reality is “having a victim mentality” now? Why are you so against critical thinking and basic social analysis. Women certainly aren’t shaving their entire bodies or subjecting themselves to waxing because it’s fun. So why are they doing it and who benefits from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:48 PM
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This is illogical. I can say women wearing revealing clothes dress to appeal to the male gaze without saying or believing those women want to be sexually harassed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:46 PM
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Yes. Women famously only have sex with men who remain in a suit the whole time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:44 PM
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Or maybe men are respected in a way women aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:37 PM
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I wonder why you think socially influenced choices don’t exist and that every choice a woman makes is automatically empowering and for herself
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:35 PM
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And was she treated the same as female politicians who didn’t do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:31 PM
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Maybe you shouldn’t tell any women they’re defective because they don’t like being harmed during sex. You’re a misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:30 PM
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You wrote this whole paragraph with emotional language calling me insufferable because I basically said “no women don’t shave their whole body for funsies”. Why is the most basic statement about reality a problem to you people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:29 PM
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finding anything wrong with society is vIcToMhOoD mkay.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:28 PM
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Are you all just dating women that don’t like you? “nobody” making you feel desirable is just odd if you have a dating history
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:27 PM
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It’s not. The ‘bEnEfItS’ you’re talking about are exclusively “men are more attracted to them”.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:25 PM
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Men don’t really care what appeals to the female gaze which is why most of them look the way they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:23 PM
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some women like this also if you don’t like this is bc you’re a defective prude
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:22 PM
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Self hating women are the only ones turned on by being mistreated. I’m not a prude just because I don’t desire to be physically harmed or degraded during sex but the fact you think that is extremely telling of the kind of person you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:22 PM
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This isn’t a valid point. Women say that in response to males sexually harassing them. That’s a separate issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:21 PM
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Did she wear makeup? Did she dress in a specific way? It’s like you people are allergic to critical thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:19 PM
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This isn’t a valid point nor is it true. Shaving your entire body isn’t a “minor inconvenience”. And no men in porn aren’t devoid of body hair. Stop lying to suit your own narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:18 PM
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No I didn’t. Women do not watch porn as often nor do they tend to watch porn that specifically dehumanizes men. Second of all people who have a problem with men watching porn also have a problem with women watching it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:15 PM
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So you’re continuing with this disingenuous act. Ok. I’m done.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 10:19 AM
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you hallucinated that claim in your last paragraph as it’s not supported by anything I’ve said
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 10:15 AM
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Literally look at the average woman in porn. Or the average woman in general. They shave for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 10:14 AM
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If you actively prefer women with body hair you deviate from the norm. That’s just reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 10:00 AM
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Men don’t stop existing just because they aren’t the majority in her office. Also if you find dresses so comfortable you have the ‘freedom’ to wear them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:59 AM
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I’m not engaging in whatever little game you’re playing. Men preferring women without body hair is a very evident reality. You’re not engaging honestly if you’re disputing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:55 AM
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It’s not baseless
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:54 AM
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Other women who are catering to the male gaze and expecting her to 💀I haven’t engaged with it because I disagree with the premise. Women being ornamental isn’t some privilege we have over you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:53 AM
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Men being hyper sensitive to criticism isn’t proof I hate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:51 AM
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It’s not 2 different women You’re pulling that out your ass
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:51 AM
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doesn’t result in obviously negative consequences I’d say being reduced to a thing for men to prod at is negative yes. women who aren’t straight or who detest men like you I don’t hate men. reeee that’s illegal It’s not about them being legally mandatory. It’s about social expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:48 AM
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it’s not an expectation people have bothered my wife about her not shaving the expectation for women to center their lives around what men find sexually appealing is so significant that this one woman was carrying a razor to WORK
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:45 AM
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No it’s literally reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:27 AM
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You’re being ignorant. The entire reason it’s become a widespread practice is because men ‘prefer’ it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:26 AM
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I find it hard to believe nobody at work has said anything to her about that. But regardless, her wearing a dress to work doesn’t mean anything. I don’t see how women benefit from the expectation to be ornamental.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:24 AM
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The vast majority of women shave and once again the female body being reduced to an object for men to stick things in isn’t a privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:19 AM
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It’s literally done explicitly to appeal to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:17 AM
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You’re pretending to not understand what I’m talking about when you literally admitted this was a thing in a previous comment. You even mention it in this comment. Hairless women are unnatural and actively catering to the male gaze. The fact women can be “displayed” once again isn’t empowerment. It’s a product of the view that women are merely things for men to use.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:05 AM
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Oh look another man who doesn’t know what feminism is. Fun. There are different kinds of feminism They don’t all agree on everything Women wanting a life outside of MommyBangMaid ™️ isn’t an intrusion on ‘male spaces’ Majority of women don’t even consider themselves feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:02 AM
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It literally does happen. The fact the majority of women waste their time shaving proves this does happen. They only do this because they’re subjected to social ridicule when they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:00 AM
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They still cater to the male gaze. Largely anyway. As I said, women who don’t exist but they’re socially penalized
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:59 AM
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Women are frequently penalized socially for not catering to the male gaze. The idea they aren’t is incongruent with reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:55 AM
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Being leered at by gross perverts isn’t “better” for our wellbeing. Wearing mini skirts in the dead of winter isn’t better for our wellbeing. Being socialized to believe your existence is purely ornamental isn’t a privilege. You only think it is because for some bizarre reason many men actively want to be sexualized
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:52 AM
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Why do you males always reply like this with the implication this was some universal opinion among women? There have always been many women who don’t believe that catering to men is ‘eMpOwErInG’
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:49 AM
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I read it just fine the first time. “can” in and of itself frames this as a personal freedom when it isn’t one. The ‘freedom’ to objectify and debase yourself for male entertainment is grotesque
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:43 AM
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Nice way of saying women wear revealing clothes because it benefits men, and men dress in a way that benefits men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:37 AM
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they can display themselves in this way The fact you and so many other men view this as a privilege demonstrates a complete lack of understanding of the female experience. It’s like it doesn’t occur to you all that women don’t like being objects at all. Not once did you mention that. Or how repulsive it feels to come to the realization that the people who interact with women romantically and sexually often don’t view them as people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:36 AM
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Porn is disliked & criticized by many women explicitly because it degrades and dehumanizes women. There’s not a double standard here. women are encouraged to wear revealing clothing To appeal to the male gaze. It’s weird you’re trying to reframe that as ‘empowering’.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:32 AM
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What’s wrong with my response? I don’t agree with the notion that dating is easy for women or that women treat men particularly bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 03:56 AM
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How is it problematic to reject someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 02:29 AM
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Also not what I said. I said in the context of sex men are the oppressor class. This is basic reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 01:53 AM
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You’re not paraphrasing, you’re outright lying about what I said. While you’ve admitted you don’t take misogyny and female oppression seriously. You are a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 01:51 AM
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Not necessarily but I do think it’s inconsiderate to you for them to say those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 01:51 AM
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I don’t think those people actually hate men but I don’t think it’s generally good praxis to make jokes like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 01:47 AM
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So this is garbage based on you erasing the existence of misogyny and the oppression of women as if the trump regime isn’t misogynistic. You simply do not view misogyny and the injustice women experience as mattering at all because it doesn’t happen to you. Thanks for admitting it I guess. This conversation is over, you simply hate women and seek to frame the injustice we experience as being nonexistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 01:41 AM
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Well your statement is kind of vague as is, you didn’t elaborate much.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 01:39 AM
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That’s not what I said. Your lack of reading comprehension isn’t my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 01:38 AM
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The dynamics within heterosexual relationships consistently and overwhelmingly favor men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 12:48 AM
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No. My position is it isn’t comparable to a white person being racist to black people because black people haven’t systematically oppressed white people. Men have in fact systematically oppressed women. If you wanted an actual equivalent comparison you could’ve mentioned black people who say they hate white people. But you didn’t do that. Precisely because you know your argument would fall apart. I didn’t say women were born victims or are incapable of being criticized. I said misogyny exists as…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 12:46 AM
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You do not. And it’s evident from your comments you don’t grasp what it means. I also didn’t say sex was what defined a person as good or bad. I said men are the oppressor class concerning sex, not women. Which is a basic fact. hinges on the belief that a persons sex is their preeminent future Incorrect. and the basis of whether they are good or bad Incorrect. you’re sexist and your beliefs harm women Incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 12:42 AM
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It’s relatively common for men to believe that to be female is to be submissive or intellectually inferior. The dominant narrative, even in western societies, as to why there are fewer women in STEM is that women lack the intellectual capacity for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 12:11 AM
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Again. You’re deliberately ignoring the existence of misogyny and the systemic nature of it to make this comparison. Women are not the oppressor class in reference to sex dynamics. Men are the oppressor class in reference to sex dynamics. If anything it is men not women who are comparable to nazis or the kkk in this analogy. I don’t think you even understand what radical feminism is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 12:09 AM
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The average man holds misogynistic beliefs. According to your logic he would be incapable of caring about women. Would you agree he isn’t capable?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 11:54 PM
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It’s not comparable at all. Once again you’re erasing relevant historical context. You’re purposefully positioning men as the oppressed when that hasn’t at all been the reality in terms of sex dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 11:53 PM
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This isn’t comparable at all. You’re completely erasing the systemic history of misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 11:47 PM
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So if you’re being logically consistent you’d agree then that the average man simply cannot care about women?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 11:43 PM
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Majority of women described as hating men simply engage in basic feminist analysis. I think there’s an issue of gender bias in these discussions where the bar to consider a woman a misandrist is extremely low but a man could literally assault women and men would claim he’s not misogynistic. Your original question isn’t really answerable due to this dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 11:39 PM
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It’s not a “few”. It’s every instance of men speaking on this
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 11:51 PM
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Men posting online are “people”.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 09:05 PM
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?? There’s literally countless videos of men online saying this
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 08:20 PM
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You should try having empathy for women first instead of demanding something you don’t reciprocate
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 08:10 PM
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I didn’t vote based on “reddit news”. Both articles I linked proved my point. He was found liable in civil court.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 08:08 PM
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I’d rather be disposable than a “worthless hole” 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 08:01 PM
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It’s not a misrepresentation, it’s an accurate interpretation because you’re reaching for straws to excuse it and pretending it’s better than being called trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:59 PM
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I wasn’t wrong. And again. It doesn’t matter that it doesn’t mean exactly the same thing as guilty. “liable” is enough to determine he’s misogynistic and violent at the very least
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:57 PM
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You think that bc you’re a man and therefore you’ll never be seen as subhuman the way women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:56 PM
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It’s more dehumanizing to be equated to a sex toy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:48 PM
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You’re making excuses for the vitriol men direct at women. Calling women worthless holes is totally acceptable to you but yet a generic insult such as calling someone trash is ‘too far’
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:47 PM
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Excuses for scrotery
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:40 PM
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I’ve repeatedly said I view it as a waste of life. That sentiment in particular isn’t new. It’s not meaningful to me and it objectively puts them in a financially vulnerable position. “It’s not a waste to them” So? It’s still objectively a bad decision. You are arrogant. You haven’t “destroyed” anything. You’ve demonstrated you’re incapable of comprehending anything you read because I had to tell you three times that feminism isn’t about ‘choice’. And you still replied with nonsense about how I’…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:38 PM
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What is it with factually incorrect men perpetually being arrogant?? I know what the term means. It’s not irrelevant because it’s objectively what occurs. It’s not a change of subject either because it’s the end result of the subject being discussed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:34 PM
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There is no hypocrisy and you’re the one arguing based in your pathetic little feelings. I have told you numerous times that feminism is about female liberation and you still keep idiotically replying with asinine rebuttals about how if a woman chooses something I must consider it a feminist choice or else I’m a hypocrite and anti feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:32 PM
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zero examples reee I was literally called that on one of the discords. Second of all a prominent passport scrote in the main ppd discord literally refers to women as “holes”. So try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:31 PM
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?? Are you incapable of understanding that a personal observation doesn’t require a peer reviewed study to be made?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:30 PM
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There is no double standard. Saying someone is trash is a generic insult that really means nothing because it doesn’t even exist as an attack on their identity. Labeling women “worthless holes” attacks our anatomy and frames us as merely a thing that exists for men to masturbate into
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:29 PM
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It’s not a personal anecdote. It’s a literal observable pattern of behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:28 PM
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Males, especially “red pill ones”, including passport scrotes do it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:27 PM
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This is mental gymnastics to defend men viewing women as worthless. Truly women should stop having children with you people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:25 PM
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https://www.foxnews.com/politics/new-york-jury-finds-donald-trump-sexually-abused-e-jean-carroll-civil-suit “was found liable for sexual abuse” https://apnews.com/article/trump-rape-carroll-trial-fe68259a4b98bb3947d42af9ec83d7db “liable for sexual abuse”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:23 PM
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Oh this is hilarious. He’s saying I’m anti feminist bc I said it’s not a worthwhile pursuit while he’s saying this
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:19 PM
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Ik what the phrase means. I’m saying it’s objectively what would occur
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:18 PM
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It doesn’t matter if it was your intention or not. The phrase is religious in nature. As it implies the body is merely a ‘vessel’ and not actually YOU. I don’t exist to give people peace of mind either so why should that mean anything to me? And no. That paragraph shows you are clearly incapable of grasping basic concepts. I have told you three times now that feminism isn’t about ‘choice’ or some vague notion of equality. It’s very specifically about female liberation. The idea that every choice…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:17 PM
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Yes it is. And the fact you even ask that proves my point entirely. The vitriol you males direct at women is somehow acceptable but women thinking men are trash after centuries of them brutalizing us is somehow ‘radical’
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:57 PM
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everyone is a vessel Yeah no. You can have your own feelings not your own facts. Viewing the body as a “vessel” is religious nonsense. Also this whole second paragraph shows you struggle to comprehend very simple concepts. I didn’t say only women can criticize feminism. I didn’t say being a feminist means you can’t criticize me. I said feminism is about female liberation, not “choice” and that the ‘hypocrisy’ you’re perceiving doesn’t exist precisely because feminism isn’t about “choice”. I’m no…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:56 PM
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You literally used the term “sexual assault” as something one can be sued for. If he was found liable for sexual assault or sexual battery because he raped a woman then colloquially people would say he was found liable for rape. Once again you’re spineless and pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:41 PM
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Again this is factually incorrect. You have a distorted perception of what we mean by gender abolitionism. We aren’t referring to sex. Sex is an immutable characteristic. And idk what it is with men perpetually arguing about things they know nothing about, but my flair literally says radfem. I don’t care if something is perceived as “anti trans”. The entire concept of gender identity worships gender roles and expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:37 PM
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by peace of mind I mean not worrying about making money ?? You make zero fucking sense. Women have to work and my commentary was explicitly critiquing the expectation for women to be sahms anyway. Are you incapable of actually reading what you’re replying to? female “vessels” Women are people not “vessels” you deranged loser. it’s funny how feminists- It’s funny how people who have no grasp of what feminism actually is about make idiotic statements about feminism claiming it’s contradictory beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:34 PM
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Again this just shows how delusional most men are to women’s actual lives. Women absolutely categorically cannot “be whatever they want and still find men who will love them”. And “lust” means nothing. It has no value.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:27 PM
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It’s objectively what would occur
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:25 PM
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It’s not a deflection. The origin of the problem is men. Women didn’t create circumcision nor the religions that promote it. And the fact that western european countries generally don’t circumcise directly contradicts your delusional idea that circumcision is cased by the evil feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:24 PM
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It’s not an opinion. Literally look at what men themselves say about the lack of women in STEM
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:22 PM
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It’s not a lie. Women want actual friendships with men and it’s ruined because men just view women as things rather than people. Also you’re proving my point that you all hate women in this reply. I mean you literally admit that you can not fathom women being multidimensional and having hobbies or interests outside of being a mommybangmaid. It literally doesn’t occur to you that most women have interests that don’t pertain to children or men at all. It’s as if you can’t grasp that women are actu…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:17 PM
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It’s not. Men are just highly deluded and have a rosy view of life as a woman. None of you seem to grasp that women who are ostracized exist at all. Men are cruel to women they don’t find attractive. This absolutely is the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:13 PM
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I think you simply don’t comprehend what “gender abolitionism” refers to because you’re describing it incorrectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:11 PM
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This condescending reply was unnecessary. I’m very well aware civil court isn’t criminal. The fact of the matter is he was found liable. Men aren’t going to hate you any less just because you’re spineless and kiss ass. Again if you were attacked by a man, they’d respond saying you deserved it. Stop pretending men are generally good people
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:10 PM
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peace of mind Lmao. No woman dating men has ‘peace of mind’ the fuck are you on. if you want to be rich make the money on your own This rebuttal is odd given the fact I just said women should have jobs instead of wasting their lives being sahms.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:08 PM
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how it reads is of zero concern to the guy ok and how males interpret women wanting legitimate friendships is of no concern to women so what actually is the point of this conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 11:06 AM
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Literally reality
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 11:04 AM
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I just told you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 11:03 AM
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You can’t give me a single study showing feminists specifically circumcise their kids. This is all your feelings. The only one deflecting is you. Circumcision wouldn’t even be a thing if men hadn’t made it one
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 08:43 AM
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Men don’t really want meaningful relationships from that, it just seems like they want sex
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 08:14 AM
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I think the difference is women actually want meaningful relationships with men they do that to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:52 AM
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Men are very cruel to women they don’t find sexually appealing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:01 AM
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It’s exactly what you said
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:00 AM
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Western women don’t call men “worthless holes” nor do they go abroad to take advantage of poor men. Apparently you don’t grasp the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:49 AM
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reeee women should waste their lives away being a sahm bangmaid and WITHOUT compensation or else they’re gold diggers You males really don’t think before you say any of this shit do you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:41 AM
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So you’re basically whining that women aren’t content to be stuck at home doing nothing meaningful with their lives? The narcissism is astounding.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:38 AM
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This is a distortion. The issue isn’t society ‘forcing women to be more liberal’. The issue is women have the burden of splitting finances 50/50 on top of the traditional roles they’re still expected to do because men are largely lazy and selfish. Women complain about men seeking out women 15-20+ years older than them because it’s predatory. Women don’t complain men “care about bodies”, women complain that men care about sex to the exclusion of all else. You’re labeling women refusing to accept …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:30 AM
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Again you’re acting like women are uniquely terrible when the typical male response to this would likely just be to ridicule her and then distance themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:16 AM
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They view them as ugly and the friendship becomes awkward
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:43 AM
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I didn’t say men don’t reject women. My stance is actually that they reject them unless they just want to use them for sex. The feelings aren’t really reciprocated. So in effect what men do in these situations is actually worse
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:21 AM
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I said the majority of feminists I’ve known are against circumcision. I did not say feminism itself has a position on this. Abrahamic religions do endorse circumcision, that’s just a fact. I don’t have the time nor the patience for the rest of your bad faith arguing so I’ll leave it at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 04:37 AM
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Look at any and every man ever who has publicly spoken about why STEM has few women. The narrative is “women just aren’t interested in anything of value”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 04:35 AM
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This is an entire lie lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 04:34 AM
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I really don’t think it’s likely. Again I’ve been in this situation and I know it won’t be reciprocated so I just do the responsible thing and ignore it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 04:34 AM
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Yes he was in civil court
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 04:33 AM
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They would use them for sex and then reject them for a relationship bc “she’s fat/ugly/etc”. How is that more morally sound
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 04:32 AM
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I’m literally a woman. Why are you attempting to dictate to me what I do or don’t find off putting. Women feel betrayed when the whole ‘friendship’ was just a guise to fuck them. And no. Men don’t find it creepy because males are just oh so empathetic and altruistic, they don’t find it creepy because they want sex and will often take it from anyone offering.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 04:30 AM
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I would be just factually speaking. There is no level of isolation on earth worse than being a socially stunted, introverted, socially inept woman. Men like this at least have male friends. Second of all men aren’t told from birth until the day they die that they’re intellectually inferior to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 04:27 AM
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Maybe mra scrotes wouldn’t be protested against if they didn’t perpetually promote rape and call women subhuman
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 04:25 AM
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This revenge fantasy you have is just that. I’ve only ever been with one man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 04:24 AM
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We are telling you it does not read as if you’re interested in her as a person at all. It reads as if you want sex
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 04:22 AM
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It’s the way it’s done that’s an issue
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 04:21 AM
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“not a requirement” Doesn’t equate to “not endorsed”. mothers I’m not seeing where in that first link it says anything about mothers specifically. It does explicitly state that over 70% of parents opting for circumcision gave “hygiene/medical” reasons meaning that likely they weren’t properly informed by medical professionals. Your second study you linked had less than 300 participants so how is that even statistically relevant? feminists in germany Circumcisions in European nations are practica…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:54 PM
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I mean I don’t think that’s accurate. If he developed feelings after the friendship began then I don’t think anyone would find that off putting. Also with women ‘doing the same thing’, men for some reason don’t seem alarmed by their friends doing this so maybe that’s why
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:33 PM
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The president of the US literally was found liable for rape in civil court. You can not be this stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:28 PM
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Well I wouldn’t be friends with someone who is loud and obnoxious and wouldn’t date anyone like that either. But yes it would be rare for an undesirable woman to have that reciprocated
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:26 PM
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Loud and obnoxious are personality characteristics. If she were loud and obnoxious she wouldn’t be a friend. It’s weird to frame women’s physical preferences as shallow but men’s as not. By placing “loud and obnoxious” next to fat and ugly you’re framing men’s preferences as more legitimate
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:11 PM
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Islam isn’t the only form of religious misogyny you idiot. Misogyny is embedded in christian doctrine too. wahh muh circumcision A: Men invented that, men can fix it. B: Since when have men ever cared about violence against women and girls? A man could rape a woman and set her on fire and you know what these males will do in response? They’ll run to twitter saying she deserved it and she was asking for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:10 PM
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Why are you making this about me. I’m not the one who perceives women as inferior and lacking in human qualities
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:04 PM
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My point is it isn’t really any different from men. People tend to be biased in favor of people who they think are attractive. It’s just an unfortunate reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:02 PM
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like what The same things you perceive men as having? You all tell on yourselves with these responses, you just don’t view women as human ig
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:00 PM
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Majority of modern ones probably don’t but again, that’s a modern change. I was talking about the history. It’s disingenuous to claim circumcision is upheld by women when the entire reason it began was religious doctrine invented by men. strong and independent feminist single mother who gets her son circumcised First of all this is a meme character you’ve invented in your own brain. That’s not an actual person. Single mothers are overwhelmingly male centric and frankly not any kind of feminist. …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:00 PM
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women know, men don’t No I think if they know their friend they would have some idea if it would be reciprocal. Also as a woman who has liked a male friend, I really don’t believe this claim that men would “very likely” reciprocate. Just bc he’s friends with her doesn’t mean he views her in that context. She could be ugly as you mentioned or fat or otherwise ‘undesirable’ to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:56 PM
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Women have a lot more to them than sex, men are just shallow and have for forever only cared about sex
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:53 PM
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Even if true though, does that matter? Because would a man still be friends with a woman who had unreciprocated romantic feelings for him? I don’t think he would. Especially if he’s not attracted to her
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:51 PM
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🤷🏻‍♀️ It’s evident that’s all men want from their actions
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:47 PM
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Circumcision wasn’t invented and proliferated predominantly for aesthetics, it was done predominantly for religion. Which yes men created. So yes it is mens fault. Abrahamic religions don’t even allow women to be ‘head’ figures of churches/mosques/etc but you want to claim a problem created by these religions is somehow the fault of women? You’re biased or stupid, pick one
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:46 PM
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women are more loving than men 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:45 PM
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who wants more than sex doubtful
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:44 PM
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Radical in this context means the ‘root’ as in the root of women’s oppression. You’re using a definition of ‘radical’ that doesn’t actually apply here. The issue is your passive aggressive insistence that centering men is ‘feminism’ and that feminists should focus on men rather than on women and girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:43 PM
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Circumcision is motivated by regressive religious nonsense which was created by and for men. So try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:40 PM
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It depends on if the friendship only happened because they were romantically interested in her. It comes off like the friendship itself was sort of a lie. Also I think people should know their friends well enough to know whether or not their feelings would be reciprocated.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:38 PM
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things that benefit men also benefit women Yeah no they typically don’t. Watering down feminism and making it male centric instead of doing work regarding women doesn’t help women at all. grow a heart Do men care when female children are mistreated?? Because they definitely don’t seem to, especially not “redpill” males. Circumcision is a male problem. Men expecting women to do the work on their behalf is lazy and entitled. Caring about other people is all well and good but there is not and has n…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 01:57 PM
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No. Men all only want sex. Everything else they say and do is merely a polite veneer over their sexual motivations. Men admit this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 01:55 PM
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Men aren’t romantic and never have been. The “romance” any of them demonstrate is artificial and designed explicitly to convince women to have sex with them under false pretenses.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 01:42 PM
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All men only want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 01:35 PM
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Men aren’t romantic, they just want sex
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 01:33 PM
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Women are the only romantics. Women largely desire to love and be loved. Men simply desire to use you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 01:28 PM
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Denying the existence of misogyny as a problem in america isn’t “acknowledging objective reality”. You’re spineless and male centered
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:44 PM
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There is zero benefit to being female. Nobody genuinely cares about women’s feelings, that never actually happens. It’s like you people think women’s lives are a fucking fairytale.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:33 PM
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And yet every comment from the men shows you all think only hot, extroverted, socially adept women exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:30 PM
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There’s zero benefit to existing as female
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:28 PM
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They’re entirely deluded as to what lives of ugly, socially awkward, very introverted, or otherwise ‘undesirable’ women actually look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:25 PM
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More delusions
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:24 PM
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The dominant narrative, even in western society, regarding the lack of women in STEM is literally that women are too stupid to gravitate to those careers. So yes women are treated as inferior
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:22 PM
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You males are so disconnected from reality. There is zero social grace afforded to socially awkward and introverted women. We are a pariah to everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:20 PM
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Where are you morons getting this idea that anyone has ever genuinely cared about women’s feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:18 PM
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What negatives
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:15 PM
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Again. Why can’t you lazy fucks do your own activism and stop demanding feminists do it for you. Males don’t care about any women’s issues, so why do you all feel so grossly entitled to demand we care about yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:13 PM
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Why is it feminists responsibility to do men’s work for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:12 PM
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Circumcision is supported by men. Take it up with your male counterparts and quit pretending to care about injustice when you embrace an ideology that says women are subhuman
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:10 PM
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Kissing men’s ass won’t make them respect you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:09 PM
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This is such a distortion of reality holy shit
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:07 PM
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Yes? I feel like being socially stunted and awkward is an easier experience for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:05 PM
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It would be great if you and everyone else born male would quit appointing yourselves as the authority on the female experience. You fundamentally don’t possess the same experience and your nonsense about people supposedly being nicer to us is just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 11:49 AM
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It’s not hypocritical. You’re just incapable of interpreting it correctly. Wanting men to stop promoting violence against a demographic I belong to also isn’t “self centered”. You’re the one being self centered when you proclaim that your desire for rape fetish porn is more important than the safety of the public.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 06:07 AM
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It directly disproves your claim that male fetishes are censored at all. but not only women read novels Yes. I’m sure there’s romance novels that appeal to men if they desire to read the genre.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 06:04 AM
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Male fetishes are not censored nor scrutinized. The very platform we are having this discussion on allows males to openly fantasize about raping women in gross porn subs like “women are things” that dehumanize women. And unattractive men are the default in pornography. Media specifically made for a female audience also often shows shitty men women are expected to pretend are great. And gaming as a hobby doesn’t belong to men either 💀 there are women who play video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 09:00 AM
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This isn’t ‘hot’. This is a behavior of men I find to be incredibly irritating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 08:57 AM
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Don’t hate men. What makes your linked study more reliable than any other
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 08:55 AM
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Why are you under the impression I think smut books that promote violence against women are ok? I have never once said that. It’s not a double standard. You’re the one inventing that in your own head.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 08:53 AM
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Framing women as agreeing with misogynistic conservatives bc we don’t agree with media that promotes violence against women is manipulative and disingenuous
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 08:52 AM
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He accused me of being lazy and entitled because I asked for proof of a claim HE made. He’s just irrational
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 08:50 AM
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YOU made a claim. Acting like it’s entitled or lazy of me to ask you to support YOUR claim is highly irrational. I haven’t seen it. I don’t watch mainstream news. None of my responses have been in bad faith but judging by another commenter pointing out flaws with what you’re arguing compared to what you linked, you are. Quit forced teaming same sex attracted people like myself with your male supremacist pornified media bullshit. Gay media being censored isn’t a justification for why content prom…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 01:24 PM
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He literally admits he’s fine with media that promotes violence against women and thinks such media could ever be ‘ethical’, all the while he incessantly whines on the internet about “WONT SOMEONE PLEASE DO SOMETHING ABOUT WOMENS GOD AWFUL ROMANCE NOVELS”. Because men can promote raping and murdering women bc “free speech bro” but women can’t have terribly written romance stories with some weird medium ugly character as their love interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 01:18 PM
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I’m against removing media that promotes violence against women even if that’s literally all that group was doing Yeah no you’re a male supremacist sack of shit. Keep trying to pretend you’re the one in the right though and the evil feminazis want to violate your first amendment rights. Not like it’s totally a lie and we’ve heard it all before from men just like you. Oh wait, it is and we have.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 01:14 PM
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I was going to read the article he linked but now that you’ve said that nvm 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 01:11 PM
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Again this is still presenting it as inherent or some kind of default norm
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 02:10 AM
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this happened but I won’t show proof of it occurring and just expect you to blindly believe me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 01:14 AM
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I don’t think it’s possible for a man to genuinely respect or appreciate a self hating woman who allows him to treat her like shit
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 12:11 AM
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Value can be objectively measured. Men who go for pickme women objectively have no value as partners. And no, men marry women they don’t love all the time. this depends on who you select as a partner Yes and pickme women select shitty men who don’t love nor respect them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 11:13 PM
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I’ve never even heard of this, you probably made it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 11:11 PM
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I’m sick of being expected to accept this narrative that this is a natural part of female sexuality and I’m abnormal for rejecting it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 11:09 PM
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This is entirely baseless. I don’t fantasize about harming men. I want to be left alone. But yes men have made it abundantly clear from the grotesque porn you all watch to your continued support of pornhub that you hate women and your sexual fantasies are motivated by a desire to harm us. And no it wasn’t an “assumption”. It was what you were communicating with the framing you used. That doesn’t refute my point at all. Some women tolerating male centered practices or even promoting them doesn’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 01:40 PM
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Don’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 01:10 PM
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I’m sorry, I thought you were the person who originally posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 01:09 PM
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Again rejecting misogynistic narratives isn’t misogyny and it’s manipulative as hell to claim that. Throughout this entire comment thread you’ve spoken about submissive kinks and rape kinks as if they’re inherent to female sexuality. You literally stated “I’ve met more women who were submissive than not” in one of your comments to justify the way you’ve been framing this. And once again, no. I never said selfish. And I never said “all” of women’s fantasies are motivated by that. I get the distin…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 01:05 PM
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what question
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 12:57 PM
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Your title literally says “female sexuality”, try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 12:52 PM
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You don’t respect women at all. You define our sexuality as inherently submissive and have the audacity to call me misogynistic for rejecting that narrative. ik how your kind thinks So you inserted something I objectively did not say based on your own bias. reeeeee why do some women sexualize it There’s a vulnerability aspect to it that appeals to some women 🤷🏻‍♀️ And no, this isn’t a neutral discussion. This is a misogynistic discussion in which males like you once again push the narrative that…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 12:44 PM
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I don’t care what pathetic self hating women you’ve met that let you treat them like worthless garbage. I am not them and they do not represent me or the majority of women. It is true, you’re talking about this as if it’s inherent to female sexuality and you continue doing so in this same fucking reply. I didn’t use the word selfish. I said femdom caters to male desires, wants, and narratives just as much as “maledom” does. The entire reason it’s even sexual for some men is because they perceive…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 12:32 PM
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You literally imply it with “female sexuality” as if this is inherent to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 12:15 PM
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Those men are all ugly. The fuck is this derangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 12:10 PM
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No. “maledom” also caters to male wants, desires, and narratives. “Female sexuality is inherently submissive” is a male supremacist narrative “maledom” props up perpetually. No, you didn’t respond adequately to that point. You didn’t acknowledge the fact you and other men are talking about this as if it’s inherent to female sexuality and as if this is representative of most women. There is no selfishness in the ‘female’ fantasies you described and I reject the notion they’re inherently part of f…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 12:08 PM
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Femdom still largely caters to male wants, desires, and narratives Women don’t benefit from being subjected to this abusive behavior at all and it’s irritating it’s constantly framed as an inherent part of female sexuality It’s not irrational nor is it hatred to dislike or criticize the sexual dynamics within heterosexual relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 11:10 AM
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Someone who isn’t bald is objectively always going to be more attractive than someone who is 🤷🏻‍♀️ deal with it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 11:08 AM
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You’re literally promoting the idea women all like violent and degrading sex while attempting to shame me for imaginary misandry. Your hypocrisy is astounding. Moreover you make the asinine claim the women are the ones benefiting from that abusive arrangement. Also pity for what 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 08:14 AM
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The truth is men bald at 30 and as a bisexual I know this very fact makes women more attractive than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 08:12 AM
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I don’t want “surprise” nor “rough” sex. I’m tired of this being spoken about like it’s an inherent aspect of female sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 08:11 AM
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Maybe not all tbf but certainly all of the ones parroting this nonsense about nearly all women having a gross rape kink
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 05:34 AM
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I replied to the only part of the comment that was worth replying to. No bald male will ever be more attractive than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 05:32 AM
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women age worse Scrotes go bald at 30 and have the nerve to say things as delusional as this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 05:16 AM
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Are you genuinely attempting to argue that the dynamics between men and women aren’t shaped by systemic structures
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 05:14 AM
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And the dynamics within heterosexual relationships are literally built upon centuries of misogyny and male propaganda designed to indoctrinate female children from birth to believe that they must have a man to be happy and they have to enjoy being shoved into a submissive role
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 05:13 AM
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this behavior got them what they wanted It got them disrespected by a zero value man who doesn’t love them and is frankly not likely capable of being loving. Pickme women get cheated on as soon as they age out of the demographic men find more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 05:06 AM
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Ah yes demanding sexual submission and forcing deranged violent kinks upon women isn’t bad or inherently misogynistic, just “different”.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 05:01 AM
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Yes male sexuality is disgusting, particularly where you filth demand sexual submission and then have the utter gall to frame it as female narcissism. When the reality is it’s degrading, dehumanizing, and serves zero benefit to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 05:00 AM
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This study only had 355 participants. Just admit you’re a pro rape bastard and leave it at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 04:59 AM
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the studies don’t paint an accurate picture but my subjective dick gargling opinion does reeeee
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 04:57 AM
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verbal abuse choking and slapping Those literally are socially accepted behaviors within sex in modern american society. Because men’s precious porn has normalized that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 04:57 AM
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male preferences have been shamed for decades This literally never happens in any meaningful way. The entire world is deeply male centric to the point male preferences in literally anything and everything are treated as objective universal facts rather than personal opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 04:54 AM
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Cnc is literally the sexual fetishization of rape and is inherently anti female.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 04:52 AM
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A study of only 355 women, doesn’t specify what they even asked to obtain that result, and was probably made by deranged pro rape males like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 04:50 AM
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He doesn’t have a source bc he’s making it up to justify men’s sexual violence towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 04:48 AM
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Cnc is a kink the majority of women share No we absolutely categorically do not. You are a liar, a male propagandist, and promoting rape. I’m so sick of you scrotes forcing your deranged rape fetish onto women by claiming we all really love it. Go to hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 04:47 AM
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Men think everything revolves around them and their grotesque alaskan bull worm like appendages.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 04:45 AM
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just say you’re gay and go lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 04:43 AM
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Again with the projection. The homepage of every mainstream porn site and the business practices of those sites have zero relevance to an individuals search history. Their homepages are based on the most popular videos. Which are nearly universally videos promoting violence against women. Pornhub, one of the biggest porn sites, was literally caught allowing videos of literal rapes to stay up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 04:43 AM
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Those aren’t “women’s preferences” It’s a small minority of women you disgusting fuckwits choose to listen to over all other women because it reinforces your preexisting beliefs about women. It’s a rebuttal to this act you males do of pretending you’re so virtuous when in fact your ‘fantasies’ are depraved and nearly always involve violence against women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 04:40 AM
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Ah yes because gross rape kinks are an inherent part of female sexuality and whatever is promoted in female smut is totally more depraved than the noble male fetishes of: “having sex with my step daughter” “ai generated child pornography” “worthless hole gets raped” “women are things” “anal gangbang destroys dumb cunt whore” etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 04:38 AM
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That’s not what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 09:51 PM
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So you’re arguing sexual dimorphism is imaginary.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 09:50 PM
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He’s clearly far more into other men than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 05:11 AM
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I like a very specific genre of man both in terms of personality and appearance. I’ve been more willing to budge on the latter when I was looking for relationships but never the former. Men who don’t fit what I’m looking for are just sort of invisible to me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 05:08 AM
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It’s comparable to porn imo. And no.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 05:05 AM
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oh so patriarchal The US elected trump for a second term and has a secretary of defense who agrees with religious nutcases who say women shouldn’t have the right to vote. The US is a misogynistic and sexist country, you no longer get to dispute that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 05:03 AM
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Not because men somehow care about it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 05:01 AM
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Who said anything about looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 05:01 AM
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what are you talking about The general tendency of men to perceive their subjective opinions as a universal truth in arguments pertaining to gender dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 05:00 AM
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Where are you even getting that 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 03:33 AM
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It’s not really the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 08:55 PM
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This is delusional and yes, it has zero factual basis. It isn’t even congruent with reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 08:54 PM
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i’m just a defective woman Then what was this supposed to mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 08:54 PM
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Men don’t have to be all exact clones for there to be observable patterns. if your partner that you trust Why are you assuming I’d trust this hypothetical man
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:11 PM
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your partner that you can trust This is delusional. Men aren’t trustworthy. And no, the answer is men view it as sexual. That’s why it’s a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:02 PM
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anti change, do nothing for others This has zero factual basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:01 PM
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You’re a male centered woman I guess because you’re defending pornhub’s continued existence and pretending the tea app was worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:00 PM
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No because men perceive that as sexual
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 06:59 PM
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that’s not the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 06:58 PM
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It absolutely isn’t radical. Men don’t care about the sexual abuse of women at all. Men don’t care about revenge porn. Pornhub was caught hosting videos of actual rapes and males like you still defend the existence of the site. Also when did I say I wasn’t for making it illegal? Oh right, I didn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 06:26 PM
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No. I’m saying women have a different perspective and this opinion that you can’t platonically cuddle with anyone is very male centric and porn brained.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 06:24 PM
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Lot of words for no, pornhub was not taken down despite hosting videos of literal rape Also yes, their primary focus is to see porn. Porn which is an industry rife with misogyny and the abuse of women. Why is it perfectly acceptable for men to view porn which dehumanizes, degrades and abuses women? Why is it perfectly acceptable for men to view said porn on a website that was caught hosting videos of actual rapes and sex trafficking? Why is it that men have a right to be angry about women saying…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 06:22 PM
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This isn’t the question men seem to think it is. Women have an aversion to doing that with men because men make everything sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 06:17 PM
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Women aren’t responsible for the majority of violent crime
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 05:57 PM
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It’s not sexual just because men say so. Men are not the default. The male perspective isn’t the default human perspective. They would be against it because men make it some weird sex thing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 05:54 PM
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there is no such thing as platonic cuddling But women do this with female friends all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 05:49 PM
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The average person every where knows what pornhub is. Pornhub hosted videos of women literally being raped and sex trafficked. Has pornhub been taken down? Are any of the males acting indignant over the concept of the tea app boycotting pornhub? No right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 05:48 PM
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It’s not paranoid, men repeatedly expose themselves as unsafe people
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 05:46 PM
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Revenge porn is an extremely popular practice amongst males
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 05:45 PM
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It’s not radical. Men don’t care about revenge porn sites. That’s just reality. Therefore men malding about women on the tea app is massively hypocritical. The tea app was also literally made by a man with the purpose of ‘exposing’ women anyway. So what does it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 05:44 PM
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Men always tell women to choose better but get mad when better isn’t them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 05:41 PM
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I don’t really like cuddling, many people don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 05:34 PM
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This is just male solipsism
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 05:33 PM
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I was about 22 when I finally realized you can’t treat men the same as your female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 05:31 PM
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I’ve cuddled platonically with female friends. Men just sexualize everything so it feels impossible to have a normal friendship with them if you’re a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 05:29 PM
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This is solely because men have to make everything sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 05:28 PM
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So I have some issues with this idea. I don’t entirely agree that people have only their own subjective lens from which they see the world. Other things you see and observe are filtered through that lens, but there’s still some level of connection with the perspectives of other people. Also I don’t think it’s accurate to necessarily say that a specific conclusion is either rational or subjective. It can be both, even in instances where it’s not technically true.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 03:22 AM
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I don’t agree that everyone necessarily shares that same starting point. Some people are more focused on hard data while some others take a more nuanced approach to understanding human interactions and how everyone functions within society. Regardless, the issue is with presenting a subjective opinion as if it were a fact as much as the existence gravity or the earth being round. Essentially it’s the same issue that leads many to thinking that sociology isn’t a real science. Because it’s work th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 01:46 AM
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I don’t agree that everyone necessarily shares that same starting point. Some people are more focused on hard data while some others take a more nuanced approach to understanding human interactions and how everyone functions within society. Regardless, the issue is with presenting a subjective opinion as if it were a fact as much as the existence gravity or the earth being round.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 01:46 AM
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I think people may use their subjective anecdotal experiences and extrapolate that into broader conclusions about the human experience. But due to a subjective starting point, it’s common for those conclusions to be flawed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 01:23 AM
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I’m talking about men explicitly stating a subjective opinion and claiming it’s an objective universal truth that I must agree with. This isn’t specifically about red pill nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 12:04 AM
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are you disputing the idea that the manosphere represents a significant proportion of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 09:53 PM
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It alters the interpretation. Your interpretation of what I say about me living with endometriosis will inevitably be radically different from that of a woman without endometriosis. It is what it is. Again what you’re saying is tantamount to arguing that sexual dimorphism simply doesn’t exist
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 09:18 PM
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? According to what exactly? You’re assuming they wanted to be dependent.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 09:16 PM
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Again. Sex matters. The way you interpret things will inevitably be through a male lens.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 09:16 PM
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No, I’m saying enough believe that to establish a clear pattern.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 09:15 PM
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I haven’t lied about what was said. You’re a manipulative misogynist pushing the male supremacist lie that women are inherently submissive and that femaleness necessitates being a pathetic doormat with zero free choice in life. You’re a repulsive and manipulative individual who is a danger to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 05:21 PM
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Conscientiousness doesn’t make someone “submissive”. This is you interpreting the data wrong to push a misogynistic lie that harms women. Quit being manipulative and claiming that me pushing back on your misogyny is misogynistic itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 05:16 PM
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It’s misogynistic to argue women are inherently submissive
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 05:12 PM
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I didn’t misconstrue anything. You’re both supporting a male supremacist talking point to the detriment of all women. And you have the nerve to act indignant because I pointed it out. You’re vile.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 05:05 PM
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I have an issue with violent misogynists like you conflating “conscientious” with submissive because you want to push a male supremacist lie to harm women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:57 PM
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You’re a disgusting pig. And sociology isn’t a real science either. Women aren’t “submissive” just because malicious hateful males like you insist upon pushing that male supremacist lie so you can have an excuse to abuse and mistreat us
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:52 PM
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Men wanting to repeal women’s right to vote isn’t just a “mEaN tHiNg”, quit downplaying misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:50 PM
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Women aren’t submissive to begin with 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:46 PM
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I literally cited examples of men in power being misogynistic that you claimed were just “mEaN tHiNgS”. Because you’re disingenuous. And frankly you’re a violent misogynist because you push that “wahmen submissive” rhetoric. You’re disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:45 PM
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I literally did speak about it. You refused to address it as being a problem with both the president and vice president.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:44 PM
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women are more submissive than men So you’re a misogynist. That’s literally all this means. You’re propping up male supremacist beliefs. And it is a negative trait. Men like you are pretending it’s inherently female explicitly because you think it gives you license to treat us like shit. Liberal men do the same thing because they think it gives them license to force degrading and abusive sex acts onto us.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:42 PM
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It’s not just one or two men. It’s enough to establish a pattern of behavior. My life is fine, I’d appreciate it if you’d stop personally attacking me and stay on topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:39 PM
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You literally were manipulative earlier 💀 And I’ve already talked about one of the issues currently affecting american women. You clearly know misogyny exists so why are you pretending otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:38 PM
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Understanding something in the abstract doesn’t equate to actually experiencing it. What is difficult about this concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:36 PM
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They’re calling women submissive. And so are you now. There is zero meaningful difference between “wahmen lean more submissive on the dominance/submission sPeCtRuM” and “women are inherently submissive”. It’s the same misogynistic narrative being pushed. It’s harmful, hateful, and male supremacist. I’m sick of seeing it everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:35 PM
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not happening
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:34 PM
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men can’t love Isn’t a false statement, it’s my perception based on men’s own words. men think their opinions are objective fact Isn’t a false statement, it’s my observation based on the fact multiple men have presented their subjective opinions to me then claimed they are facts and I’m being unreasonable for disagreeing. This is an extremely prevalent theme anywhere in which gender dynamics are discussed
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:33 PM
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Male lens. The lens through which you see the world, as altered by your maleness. And for the hundredth time, no, men don’t have to be a monolith for there to be an observable pattern or even such a thing as a male lens. you’re seeing things through a radfem lens I interpret the world through a female lens. So? Still doesn’t change the fact that you’ll never fully understand the female experience. Idk why you’re even arguing about this. provide an example You wouldn’t get what it actually feels …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:30 PM
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there aren’t limits on women This is just simply untrue. But sure continue pretending the country that elected a misogynistic rapist for president is more “misandrist” than it is misogynistic
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:23 PM
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It’s the objective truth based on what men themselves say. Or are you saying men are liars?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:21 PM
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What are you even speaking about? You’re mad I didn’t agree with your nonsensical “aCkShUlLy ItS oNlY wOmEn WhO fOrCe MiSoGyNiStIc StAnDaRdS”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:15 PM
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They can be explained. They can never be fully understood.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:13 PM
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What exactly are you defining as anti man rhetoric. You have yet to define it. And yes, acknowledging the reality of what men say and believe makes it easier to not engage with them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:13 PM
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I literally showed the attitudes of men in office and the fact roe was overturned but ok. Keep being disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:11 PM
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You literally referred to women as “submissive”.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:11 PM
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Idc if you listen, I already addressed that. You’re still a man. Whatever women even tell you is still filtered through a male lens. You cannot seem to comprehend this, for whatever reason. I know more about the female experience than you ever will simply because you aren’t female and never will be. No, it wouldn’t be a failure on my part to explain it. I don’t know what you’re not getting about the simple reality that you will never experience life through a female body and therefore will alway…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:09 PM
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anti man rhetoric which is what exactly helps nobody It helps women disengage from harmful relationships in which they clearly aren’t respected
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:03 PM
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You’re literally taking a study that shows women are less likely to start conflict and describing it in the most negative male supremacist manner possible. Less likely to start conflict doesn’t equate to submissive doormat like men desperately want it to. I’m tired of this hateful narrative you all push.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:01 PM
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You’re once again ignoring the fact that misogyny has institutional support. How unsurprising. wHaT aBoUt MaJoR mEdIa Fox, the dailywire etc Who is in office is more important than some random article mEaN tHiNgS Men advocating for robbing women of rights isn’t just a “mEaN tHiNg” but thx for showing your anti female bias yet again. I suppose trump being a rapist who was credibly accused by his ex wife in her book is also just a ‘mEaN tHiNg’. Women dying because of roe being overturned and women…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:59 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/evadlyw1aekf1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=de39f1016e3acf5bb4c967f39de4f91e8ed354e5 You claimed this in response to a screenshot that literally showed two feminist subs. Which you’re erroneously labeling “hate subs” because the very concept of female advocacy offends you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:54 PM
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once you have the numbers which never actually happens
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:52 PM
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It’s not a logical leap. You implied it with your statement in that screenshot and several men have outright stated it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:49 PM
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I didn’t cut out any context. That is your reply to that specific screenshot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:49 PM
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This hasn’t been my experience. And why would I take anything on a reality tv show seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:46 PM
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They’re aggressive and don’t “politely” ask for things. I’m not denying that studies exist, I’m saying you and other men interpret them incorrectly to suit a male supremacist agenda. The idea that women are inherently submissive is toxic and misogynistic. It has harmful ramifications.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:45 PM
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Men don’t need to be a monolith for there to be observable patterns It doesn’t matter how “good” an explanation is, it’s not the same as actually having that experience It doesn’t matter what I explain. Men will never grasp what endometriosis does to someone beyond a basic medical understanding. They don’t relate to the experience, they don’t have the experience, they have little comprehension of what actually living with it is like I also find it very telling that nobody would ever have the hub…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:40 PM
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They do demand. That’s what they tend to do. It’s a pattern. I never said women’s communication style is bad It’s heavily implied throughout this post. it’s not even a stereotype It’s a stereotype propped up by flawed interpretations of studies that are clearly meant to reinforce anti female, male supremacist ideas. Women aren’t “naturally more submissive”, that’s a load of crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:37 PM
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His whole argument is flawed because: a: men don’t listen to women b: listening to someone doesn’t mean you understand their experience I can talk about my experiences all I want to. My father will never actually understand what it’s like to live with endometriosis.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:33 PM
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there are men who have more knowledge about women’s experiences than some individual woman This is quite possibly the most delusional and arrogant statement I’ve ever seen a man make. You know nothing whatsoever about the female experience and you never will. Because you aren’t female. Get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:31 PM
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Interested in using her for sex, not interested in her as a person or dating her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:29 PM
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Where are these women exactly? Because I’ve had one relationship and it took forever to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:28 PM
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Men generally think their subjective opinions are objective universal truths, that their angry meltdowns are rational analysis, and that they have more authority to speak on the female experience than women. This is a pervasive theme anywhere in which both sexes discuss gender dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:27 PM
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Nope. You’re the one who is wrong. But you’re a typical “man perfect man do no wrong” npc so it’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:23 PM
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It literally is the dominant narrative. He resonates with half the population. pointing out misogynistic conservatives are prominent features in american government is bigotry because I, random man says so Okay. the conversation you keep avoiding I’m not avoiding anything. I consider misandry to be an imaginary problem and that conclusion is completely supported by you labeling women not liking penetration or women abstaining from sex with men as “hatred”. “Misandry” according to you is when wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:22 PM
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It literally is the dominant narrative. He resonates with half the population. pointing out misogynistic conservatives are prominent features in american government is bigotry because I, random man says so Okay. the conversation you keep avoiding I’m not avoiding anything. I consider misandry to be an imaginary problem and that conclusion is completely supported by you labeling women not liking penetration or women abstaining from sex with men as “hatred”. “Misandry” according to you is when wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:22 PM
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well you’re wrong 🤷🏻‍♀️ be happy with that I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:18 PM
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It’s not logical leaps nor is it a false accusation. https://preview.redd.it/5ix7do193ekf1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f1bce433533d58388e8e9c608d9f2b47cef322b6 “each of those are hate subs” in response to a screenshot that only even has one feminist sub (which is focused on disengaging from men) is clearly irrational and means you either didn’t read it or you outright lied. So which is it? What exactly is the “point of the conversation” because all you have done is lie about me partic…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:17 PM
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I literally gave you an example of the literal vice president of the United States subscribing to this idea. You rather conveniently didn’t acknowledge it. The US president, vice president, and the secretary of defense all adhere to this idea and you’re demanding I pretend it isn’t a prominent feature of american society.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:14 PM
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Disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:11 PM
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They aren’t hate subs Your wording clearly implies that r/relationship_advice , r/ugly , r/LoriPaige , r/insaneprolife , r/vaginismus, r/TrueUnpopularOpinion , and r/raisedbyborderlines are all “hate subs”. You clearly are disingenuous at best or an outright liar at worst. You have an issue with feminism and therefore label r/4bmovement a hate sub. Because “how dare those uppity women tell men no, women don’t have the right to reject sex with men”. Which is echoed rather clearly in you labeling …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:10 PM
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It is the dominant narrative. It’s literally observable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:03 PM
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Again with your lies: https://preview.redd.it/tyss1yyl0ekf1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2ea1dce929c64b8088af2ddd0d7a5a6ad604e70e each of those are hate subs Literally implies the subs in the screenshot are hate subs. I didn’t leave anything out either, there’s a feminist sub in both screenshots to my recollection. I didn’t screenshot the entire list because as far as I’m aware, reddit still only allows one image posted per comment. You’re the one being manipulative here. Also no, I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:03 PM
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I didn’t lie. You said in a previous comment “those are all hate subs” in response to a screenshot including relationship advice, lori page, and vaginismus subreddits. It’s as if you didn’t actually read anything within the screenshot and just wanted to construct this fallacious argument I am part of hate subs. (because that’s exactly what happened, don’t lie) Matter of fact before you delete or deceptively edit the comment in question: https://preview.redd.it/pu09s08b0ekf1.jpeg?width=828&format…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:59 PM
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I didn’t lie. You said in a previous comment “those are all hate subs” in response to a screenshot including relationship advice, lori page, and vaginismus subreddits
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:57 PM
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It’s the dominant narrative throughout society that a woman must ‘accomplish’ motherhood and marriage to be considered successful. The US literally has a vice president who attacked “cHiLdLeSs CaT lAdIeS” nonstop, essentially claiming childfree and childless women contribute nothing of value to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:56 PM
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Literally none of those subs are about hating anyone. Your bias is showing. Especially considering the fact you idiotically labeled vaginismus a hate sub 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:50 PM
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How would you know what women in your country are taught, you’re a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:44 PM
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Relationship advice is a hate sub? A subreddit for women disengaging in heterosexual relationships is a hate sub? A subreddit for people of either sex to lament on their self image issues is a hate sub? A sub dedicated to a missing girl who was found to be murdered by her father is a hate sub? A subreddit about pro life people being unreasonable is a hate sub? A subreddit dedicated to women who find vaginal sex painful is a hate sub? A sub dedicated to people coping with being raised by mentally…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:43 PM
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None of these are hate subs. Quit deflecting from the original point. How is it a logical leap? Also nothing you have shared has been “facts”. It’s all your subjective opinion. There’s also nothing “manipulative” about it. Anyone can go to my profile and see the subs I’ve been on. None are “hate subs” unless you’re deranged and believe women are obligated to give men sex. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:26 PM
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Criticism isn’t misandry The last feminist subs remaining on this hell site aren’t “hate subs” “hate subs” lmao <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:17 PM
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Criticism isn’t misandry The last feminist subs remaining on this hell site aren’t “hate subs”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:13 PM
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Don’t hate men How is it a big logical leap?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:09 PM
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I didn’t ascribe fault to anyone But yes, men are partially responsible
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:08 PM
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How were they not gaining financial independence.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:52 PM
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ask your grandmother no not like that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:51 PM
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The common line of thinking goes: Women today have financial independence and free choice, and they are deciding not to settle, therefore women in the past were just settling to survive and were thus unhappy. Its a huge assumption Not really, no. There is no reason women would’ve been ‘happy’ while stuck in marriages that were abusive at worst and degrading at best. especially women (who are more emotional and make decisions based on vibes) This is based off what exactly? Like if we asked our gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:49 PM
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No. I’m very opposite of that, I don’t really perceive people flirting with me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:43 PM
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They also exhibited bias that women’s communication is apparently the default standard when in any relationship both communication style should be considered equally What “communication”? Men don’t “communicate”, they just demand things. Plenty of studies show how submissive traits are more common in women than dominant traits compared to men due to less testosterone So while complaining about imaginary misandry, you’re being blatantly misogynistic and pushing the “wahmen submissive” myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:41 PM
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Because women are gaslit from birth by society as a whole to view marriage and motherhood as the pinnacle of female achievement and believe their life means nothing without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:24 PM
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I said deluded not “stupid”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 12:09 AM
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there was nothing of value to reply to, you’re literally deluded
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 05:28 AM
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you’re so profoundly delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 10:04 PM
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I don’t have male friends
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 09:14 PM
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Men don’t love women at all. They want sex. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 09:13 PM
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The proof is misogynistic morons like ben shapiro literally citing women essentially being incapable of intellectual thought as the reason there’s less of us in STEM. they’re not saying they’re too stupid, they’re saying they’re not interested Same picture 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 09:12 PM
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Ignoring the fact this is directly related to male behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 09:10 PM
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“never had a real struggle” I literally live with a chronic illness and was raised by my grandparents but sure jan
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 10:14 AM
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proof The dominant narrative in present day western society is literally that the lack of women in STEM fields is simply because women are too stupid to be interested in science or math.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 10:13 AM
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“misinterpret” How can you misinterpret a direct quote 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 10:12 AM
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Women aren’t men. Love men so much? Go fuck men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 10:10 AM
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Level of realism to the standard is relevant in evaluating whether it’s fair or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 10:09 AM
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Back when I was looking I’d filter out people who: seemed like they drank or smoked to an excess, were materialistic, not interested in anything serious, posed with guns/money/dead animals for photos, just stuff like that. I didn’t really care much about specific income or if they were living at home, just what their future plans were
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 04:12 AM
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how is it detached from reality when it’s often what women who engage in casual sex complain about
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:53 AM
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I have fairly reasonable standards but men would complain about those too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:52 AM
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Ons are as I described
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:17 AM
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I live in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:11 AM
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yes I am
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:05 AM
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I’m saying the women I spoke to were/are average. And I’m not saying they get literally none, they’re just not preferred and not getting the level of attention men assume.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:05 AM
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No, it’s based on what I’ve observed for mid women, based on the ones I’ve spoken to. I’m below average. Men seem to only be interested in women if they’re hot
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:54 AM
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🤷🏻‍♀️ I’m just saying from my own experience, if you’re not hot men just don’t really show interest in you. I’ve had one relationship and it’s only because I met him through an app and I texted him a lot in the beginning to develop a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:49 AM
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You’re way off lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:47 AM
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This is untrue. They approach attractive women. Not mid women and certainly not ugly ones. I’ve never been approached by men in that context.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:46 AM
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this hasn’t been my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:35 AM
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You claim they receive a level of attention they simply don’t. Ugly women especially don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:26 AM
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they don’t get the attention you claim
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:56 AM
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I’m talking about sex as it is practiced
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:55 AM
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Links to what?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:26 AM
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There is no “projection” here. It’s pointing out an established pattern.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:23 AM
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You’re certainly attempting to silence me by trying to shame me as “misandrist” because you don’t like women speaking out against men’s harmful behavior towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:18 AM
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Nobody promoted abusing men. Stop with your gaslighting nonsense and reply to what was actually stated.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:14 AM
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<image> Ill leave you with this since this is what you’re doing rn
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:07 AM
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Yes men frequently say that here All men are like this, not just imaginary “chad” Your passionate about silencing women and branding them misandrists for pointing out the existence of misogyny My father frequently complains nonstop about his wife, the nature of his complaints demonstrating he doesn’t even like her as a person, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:06 AM
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You are such a melodramatic child. Yes it is a reality men use women for sex and don’t desire an actual meaningful connection with us, based off what they say out of their own fucking mouths. Women speaking about how men treat women isn’t “bullying”. And your weird revenge fantasy is just that, a delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:55 AM
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Criticism isn’t hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:44 AM
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It’s evident from what men themselves say.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:43 AM
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Women didn’t historically rob men of dignity and rights just to whine about the modern man resenting them. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:43 AM
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You’re not right and I literally had a woman in this comment section replying to me complaining about “terfs”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:42 AM
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I don’t hate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:42 AM
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You called her a bully because of what she pointed out as a pattern in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:24 AM
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I find it interesting how when women and girls weren’t doing as well in education it was “women just too stupid to be interested in math and science because of their dumb femoid brains”. But now that boys and men are struggling it’s “the education system is failing males” from the exact same people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:22 AM
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It’s evident from what men themselves say
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:19 AM
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You’re blind. There was literally an argument between me and another woman when you initially wrote this crap. I pointed it out and you refused to acknowledge it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:18 AM
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Women are “bullies” now for pointing out what men have been saying all along: that they don’t love women, don’t have the capacity to, and simply want to use us as sex toys
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:15 AM
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Men so badly want love but are incapable of showing it for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:14 AM
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Maybe not all, but the ones complaining about the “male loneliness epidemic” are usually like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:11 AM
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I empathize with men like that and can somewhat relate. I think they struggle primarily because they’re expected to initiate those interactions. That being said, it’s debatable the percentage of men here who are like that, and personally I assume they’re not the majority of men making these posts/comments whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:10 AM
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No, not at all. But frankly the way men act towards women provokes that reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:07 AM
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chad is a caricature of what men think women are attracted to and something many men have grown a homoerotic fixation on
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:05 AM
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Well I’m not a sex worker and I fully agree with her point that men are sex obsessed. So come up with a better argument
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:03 AM
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you talk about this resentment as if men did nothing to provoke it, it’s disingenuous
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:02 AM
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Women aren’t “harder to pleasure”. Men just simply don’t care if sex is enjoyable for women. Which is why mens constant obsession with sex is self centered and annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:00 AM
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we aren’t saying women should go for men they don’t like Except that’s the point most of you make 95% of the time. when 80% of women go for 20% of men it creates resentment When men have historically robbed women of rights and dignity, when men constantly use their physical advantages over women as “proof” of their superiority, when men pretend aforementioned advantages no longer exist whenever it’s convenient to forget them, when men use women for sex and will lie to get sex, when men make it c…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 11:56 PM
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It is in reality what most men are whining about. They don’t really desire an actual emotional connection with anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 11:49 PM
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men using your body to masturbate into isn’t something that will make you happier or healthier
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 11:47 PM
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It’s inherently meaningless
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 11:46 PM
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Every woman isn’t a radfem, stop with your scrotal delusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 11:44 PM
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It’s also just delusional because he’s comparing a desire for actual love to wanting to use women for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 11:44 PM
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Most men are sex obsessed, it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 11:42 PM
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Talking to real people is directly what leads to this conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 11:41 PM
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No? I was literally disagreeing with another woman while you made this asinine argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 11:38 PM
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This isn’t reflected in reality. I don’t get approached by anyone as a woman who doesn’t often wear makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 11:38 PM
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It’s literally what I’ve observed and experienced. Men don’t really like women who eschew social norms.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 11:36 PM
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That just guarantees you’ll get a man who doesn’t even like you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 11:35 PM
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The vast majority of males to ever exist will always be taller than their female counterparts. That isn’t an unrealistic standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 11:34 PM
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no man would ask you on a date to begin with if you dressed like that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 04:50 PM
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I mean my ex would literally mention when I wasn’t wearing it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 04:21 PM
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A lot of men say this but I don’t think they actually mean it. There was a noticeable difference when I wore makeup compared to when I didn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 04:02 PM
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No it’s not a different issue. And yes, the average western male literally is like this. “communication” won’t fix anything because men lie to secure access to sex all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:28 PM
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Not nearly as rigid ones, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:26 PM
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🤷🏻‍♀️ It’s a reality that men use women for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:26 PM
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It is though, based off what men themselves say. I don’t believe I need therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:05 PM
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I think millions of women are more willing to accept a comforting lie than a hurtful reality, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:04 PM
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This is inaccurate. If she showed up putting in as little effort into her appearance as the average man, you’d be disgusted
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:02 PM
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It’s realistic. I don’t see how it’s condescending
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:02 PM
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No, that’s just simply all men. Doesn’t have to do with whether the attraction is mutual or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:55 PM
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Unusual tbf
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:17 PM
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It’s not “below her standards”, she’s talking about men who just want to use you to masturbate into
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:16 PM
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What do you mean like “what”? Men have preferences that exclude women who don’t perform femininity, ugly women, fat women, weird women, etc and they’re very vocal about it. You impose certain standards for women as a collective but then feign ignorance when women point it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:11 PM
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Women disagree with other women here all the time. You choose to be blind to it because it doesn’t suit your narrative
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:05 PM
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They have very little grasp of how mid and ugly women are treated both generally and in the context of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:03 PM
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And yet you wouldn’t date the woman if she didn’t look like that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:02 PM
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wild interpretation
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:01 PM
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It’s an accurate statement for the vast majority of heterosexual arrangements. Men are simply shallow people and seldom ever have any appreciation for women’s qualities as people. Our existence in their minds begins and ends with “sex thing”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:59 PM
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Men are unwilling to equally split anything other than financial matters. Why should women split a damn thing if we’re still expected to do everything else? The man you describe in your last example is literally the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:53 PM
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We haven’t “moved away” from gender roles. Women are still expected to have kids and do a disproportionate amount of childcare and household chores. Why should women also split the check on top of that? Also what is this delusion that women just have thousands of matches on apps? Men really have no comprehension of what life is like for average or ugly women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:51 PM
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Those women are happy because they believe in an illusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:48 PM
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Since when are men ever nice to women at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:46 PM
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There’s not really anything positive about marriage for women beyond maybe tax benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:44 PM
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Women don’t really think of men in the context of population percentages like this when you’re referring to who is or isn’t attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 10:41 PM
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I don’t agree with you that it’s a small number of women who think like that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 10:40 PM
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No this is just delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 09:31 PM
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idk why you think only the ones getting plastic surgery feel this way
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 09:31 PM
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Vast majority are women, and yes it’s directly related to most women not thinking they’re attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 09:24 PM
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Yes it’s possible women have a warped view of attractiveness. But that’s not really related to OPs claims because he’s falsely claiming women view themselves as attractive when that’s generally not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 09:23 PM
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Yes you literally are. I mentioned the vitriol directed at “terfs” just for you to falsely claim “it’s not as bad as what they say about trans people” and for you to state “I’m not that worried about it”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 09:03 PM
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Because despite the fact that most women actually hate themselves and spend our entire lives trying to appease society by altering our appearances in whatever way that is possible, this isn’t enough for males and they seek to make women even more miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 09:01 PM
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Men are profoundly fucking stupid. If women “believed they were pretty” they wouldn’t be so over represented in plastic surgery patients
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 08:59 PM
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You’re contradicting yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:04 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:03 PM
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So you think it’s acceptable to send women rape threats for stating that our lived experience is connected to our female sex and that no male can actually understand our experience? You’re vile.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:28 PM
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Women do disagree here 💀I literally have an idiot libfem woman defending the vitriol I stated “terfs” get when I was explicitly referring to people feeling entitled to send us rape threats.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:27 PM
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No, you’re not concerned with the concept of fairness as it relates to men and women at all. You want everything to be as male centric as possible. Rp ideology is one that is committed to screwing over women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:26 PM
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Stating a male isn’t a woman isn’t hatred I’m literally referring to you self centered assholes feeling entitled to send us rape threats you moron
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:23 PM
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He’s not extreme. Most men are like this to some extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:11 PM
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It’s not just rp men. Men as a whole don’t view women as people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:10 PM
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He hates women and therefore shouldn’t date them. Most men are like this but are either selfish or lacking in self awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:06 PM
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Men don’t offer women “love”. You simply offer the illusion of it. You don’t actually love women. You love sex to the point of deifying it. Men don’t protect women, understand women, nor truly commit to them either. The affection and veneer of kindness males offer is simply to maintain the lie that they “love” women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:05 PM
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Rp isn’t concerned with fairness at all. That’s laughably ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:02 PM
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This is melodramatic nonsense. Nobody outside of pill spaces even knows what a “warm approach” is. They just approach women they know. That is the norm. OLD is for people who struggle socially. And I don’t believe men are really all that concerned with “bothering women in public” enough to avoid cold approaches, unless they’re particularly awkward or shy in which case they weren’t going to do it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:52 PM
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This is a profound delusion. Most women hate themselves, they categorically do not view themselves as more attractive than they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:48 PM
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Their endless reeing about cellulite is just further proof they hate the female form. Most women will have cellulite. It doesn’t matter how small she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:47 PM
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I was more depressed while in a relationship, so the idea women are more depressed while single isn’t supported by anything I’ve seen in my reality. Women complain about males dating women far too young for them because it’s creepy and predatory, has nothing to do with the jealousy you’re imagining “men are expected to meet more-“ No. I don’t know where males are even getting this lie. Women’s standards are the lowest they’ve ever been in the entire history of human civilization. “men told to lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:45 PM
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Those rules are in place because: A) Reddit B) Men will deliberately ask questions in bad faith to create division among women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:37 PM
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The vitriol that’s socially accepted when directed at “terfs” is insane and disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:36 PM
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women don’t confront each others worldviews in a meaningful way The only reason you believe this is because like so many men, you don’t understand female social dynamics. There’s a lot of things I disagree with other women on. There’s just venues in which you discuss that and ones in which you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:34 PM
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This is all anecdotal from your “uncle” we’re just expected to blindly believe exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:30 PM
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Why are men obsessed with penises? Why do you all have to make post after post about it? It’s weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:29 PM
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I don’t really relate to excluding certain people from my dating pool based on a lack of social skills. It just isn’t something I prioritize or care about with men or women. It might be because I’ve struggled socially myself, but I just don’t value that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:22 PM
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I don’t understand what here needs clarification. It’s evident from the way men talk about women in forums like this that they hate us.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:19 PM
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I just don’t really relate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 10:23 AM
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In reality most men don’t split chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 09:54 AM
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Kind of. But also don’t really understand why women would care about that outside of maybe being concerned about unsatisfying or painful sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 09:53 AM
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That definition is a bit inaccurate and is used just to make feminism more palatable to men. It’s about female liberation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 08:48 AM
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modern feminism Because modern feminism is entirely libfem 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 08:47 AM
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I’ve become completely disillusioned with men. The man you describe wouldn’t actually split household chores, regardless of what he says.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 08:46 AM
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I’m confused as to why there’s been an influx of questions here explicitly relating to older male virgins. It’s an odd thing to be focused on and I personally don’t see the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 08:22 AM
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I don’t think it’s that women aren’t sexual beings. I think our sexuality just doesn’t mirror men’s. But it’s hard to say what our sexuality truly would’ve been without the repression it was historically met with. I don’t think there’s any demographic in which women’s sexuality is fully accepted honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 08:18 AM
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The entire world is male specific. There’s entire countries women can’t go to because men are so hostile towards women. Every mainstream, organized religion uses the ideology of male supremacy in its doctrine. This is utterly delusional. You want more male centric spaces? You can create them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 08:11 AM
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It’s not really “a virgin man”. But the behavior of men has further radicalized me and made me have a rather depressing view on relationships. I want to be happy and build connections with other people but it just seems unrealistic at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 08:04 AM
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I think it’s an apt descriptor of a couple of recent posts here. Love your name btw
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:21 AM
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Will y’all please stop posting here to have interactive porn
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 03:28 AM
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? The source is literally the entirety of human history and the study of sexual dimorphism in apes. The only one getting mad at facts is you 💀 you’re literally denying the existence of human biology and sexual dimorphism itself
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 12:49 AM
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doesn’t happen without single mothers This is an outright lie. Regardless of socioeconomic background, males are always inherently more violent and aggressive than their female counterparts. You’re being anti scientific because you’re a whiny bitch who can’t accept the reality of male nature. fathers teach them how to channel their aggression No they don’t lmao. they do raise them No, they don’t. Those kids are raised by their grandparents the majority of the time. And no, mothers don’t abandon …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 11:40 PM
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we hold them accountable Do me a favor, go look at who the president of the US is then get back to me. Calling them atypical is objective. You’re being whiny and annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 11:34 PM
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my argument is that single mothers bring up boys to be criminals Yea, and my argument is men are naturally more inclined to be criminals than women 💀 Something you’ve repeatedly failed to address and have deflected from. Males are inherently more aggressive and violent than females, this is an established pattern in apes. You want me to believe men are some mythical exception to the sexual dimorphism in apes because of your own hubris. insulting to every parent including single fathers As I’ve r…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 10:40 AM
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No. It’s objective. Either something is atypical or it isn’t. We don’t default to calling male criminals atypical because men are the majority of violent criminals.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 10:35 AM
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Imagine calling mens literal crime stats and the scientific observations of male apes “feelings”. You’re such a liar. I don’t “need help”. You’re literally creating the false narrative men are great fathers when most of you are garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 06:54 AM
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Y’all let us You’re telling on yourself. and we’re the ones who lack empathy Considering you just said women “let” rape and misogyny happen, yes, yes you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 06:00 AM
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we held women’s hand for all of eternity Oh this is hilarious. No what you did for all of eternity is sexually brutalize women and girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 05:13 AM
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? It’s not a meaningless claim. It directly speaks to male nature. proof Oh so you’re one of those scrotes who expect me to believe that the human male is some mythical exception to how sexual dimorphism appears in apes. You’re not. Get over yourself. source for single fathers not raising their kids My own fucking eyeballs?? Why do you think so many children with single fathers are raised by their grandparents? Why do you think the evil step mother trope exists? It’s literally because men don’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 01:49 AM
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It’s not. And it’s projection because you’re projecting mens lack of empathy for the opposite sex onto women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 01:43 AM
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Yes? What’s the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 01:43 AM
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But it’s an objective fact that these aren’t typical women. Majority of violent crime is committed by men. That’s relevant context. It’s necessary to understand their specific pathology and prevent that imo
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 01:42 AM
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you have told men to kill themselves ? Where are you getting this? I don’t think I’ve literally ever done this on reddit 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 01:40 AM
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children of single fathers The data you keep mentioning is entirely irrelevant to the fact: Males are inherently violent to begin with Single fathers don’t typically raise their kids anyway You’ve yet to address either of these two facts. And no it’s not just “my” father. My experience was literally the default experience of children with single fathers. Most men are lazy and don’t want to do the work that parenting entails.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 05:47 PM
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just from their presence What fucking presence? I keep telling you they’re not the ones raising those kids majority of the time and you keep responding with irrelevant shit. Not just anecdotal, it’s literally an established pattern You’ve provided no proof of that “data” That “data” says literally nothing about who is actually raising those kids day to day That “data” also says nothing else about the lives of those kids
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 05:07 PM
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“Single” Fathers don’t bring up their children at all, they get their parents to do it. This is a very simple sentence and yet you’ve struggled to grasp it. your deadbeat father My father is the average “single” father. Most of you are shit parents and push your responsibilities off onto your own parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:58 PM
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? No Im blaming “single” fathers for pushing off their parental responsibilities onto their parents. And then you all pretend men are “good fathers” when the truth is most of your kids are raised by someone else. No, I’m not wrong. It doesn’t matter if it increases with single motherhood. The point I’m making is men are inherently violent to begin with. terminal brain feminism I literally just told your brain rotted self that I had a single father and knew other women who had one. Consistently t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:47 PM
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terminal misandry No, just reality. Seen it happen and lived it so I’m not buying this “man perfect parents” narrative you scrotes try to spin. with the help of their single moms No? Men are more likely to commit crime than women regardless of his background. not at all Yes actually because that’s what this entire comment demonstrates. most men want to bond with their kids No. Most men “want” kids the way children want a dog. They don’t want any of the responsibilities that come with being a par…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:36 PM
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Men are more likely to be criminals, period. Why are males so allergic to accountability that you can’t even hold deadbeat dads responsible for their inability to raise their kids? Vast majority of “single” dads push their kids off to their own parents to raise
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:00 PM
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It’s not “one” bad experience, it’s a series which forms a clear pattern Quit being so disingenuous. Men are the ones who invented the “gender wars”. Women criticizing you isn’t equivalent to racism.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:53 PM
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? There’s nothing I need to defend. The assertion you’re making is stupid and has no basis in reality. And what I said isn’t deflecting at all. Men like you whine non stop about “wahh you’re just saying man bad” but refuse to admit it’s men who have created that reputation for themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:51 PM
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Men once again deflecting from their crime stats with irrelevant but but wahmen say mean words
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:50 PM
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It’s you and your bias. Men do this everyday on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:13 PM
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These aren’t typical women Women are framed as victims in reference to gender based violence because we typically are
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:02 PM
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? All this shows is that men are sex pests
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:46 PM
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Yes? This is a dumb question.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:45 PM
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What is it with men conceptualizing sex as a form of welfare women owe you? If I’m not interested that’s not going to magically change because he has money 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:42 PM
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This is utter delusion. Males are really completely blind to the female experience that you make the dumbest most inaccurate statements regarding it as humanly possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:40 PM
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Funny how you males never seem to apply this in your limited understanding of women. The more I’ve spoken to men, the more I’ve grown convinced the majority of you are simply incapable of empathizing with women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:39 PM
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biggest gaslighting campaign in history No, that would be men screeching about imaginary misandry and insisting men aren’t inherently more violent and dangerous than women despite all data proving otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:38 PM
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biggest gaslighting campaign in history No, that would be men screeching about imaginary misandry and insisting men aren’t inherently more violent and dangerous than women despite all data proving otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:38 PM
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biggest gaslighting campaign in history No, that would be men screeching about imaginary misandry and insisting men aren’t inherently more violent and dangerous than women despite all data proving otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:37 PM
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Your projection is expected but remains inaccurate
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:36 PM
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There seems to be a widespread belief among conservatives and men that feminism has “ruined women”. With the recent election it has only gotten worse, every man labels feminists “man haters” now. But the idea that radical feminist content creators can simply convince women of something that doesn’t resonate with their personal experiences is incredibly foolish. Any idea to the contrary is insulting and condescending. See, feminism and “misandry” both were started and sustained by male behavior. …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:35 PM
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I had a hard time grappling with being attracted to women when I was a kid due to how specific sects of christianity treat or speak about same sex attracted people. When I entered into my first relationship with a man, I had a harder time expressing what I wanted or liked or didn’t like relating to sex than what I think would’ve been natural. I often wonder who I would’ve been without the specific experiences I had as a child, or the cultural and religious influences surrounding me when I was a …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:29 AM
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? I’m not avoiding any point. There’s nothing in society creating this personal boundary. It’s a rational reaction to being accused of cheating and paternity fraud.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 11:25 PM
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I’m not saying you have to justify it to anyone. It’s just strange to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 09:58 PM
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Still weird and invasive to me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 09:44 PM
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It doesn’t matter what the social expectations are because the very comparison is fallacious. You’re conflating personal boundaries with social expectations. Those aren’t the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 09:44 PM
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? I don’t see how this wasn’t engaging. I addressed what you said. And you also entirely misinterpreted the second paragraph anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 08:47 PM
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It’s just bizarre to me that there are people who are fine with no concept of privacy existing within their relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 08:45 PM
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Literally all of those subs except the latter two are general. They’re not fixated on a specific body part.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 08:44 PM
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What does this have to do with anything I just said? Men aren’t held to hardly any standards anymore. They’re not expected to offer commitment or pay for anything. Those barriers that were traditionally there are now gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 08:42 PM
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What social standard? We’re talking about interpersonal relationships. That comparison you’re making makes zero sense in this context. A woman leaving after her bf/husband asked for a paternity test isn’t an example of a “social standard”. It’s a personal boundary. And you’re complaining because you think you get to dictate what reaction a woman can and can’t have to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 08:41 PM
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Nope. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 08:39 PM
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No. The fact you’re malding over what reaction a hypothetical woman has to this proves you simply don’t want to deal with the natural consequences of your actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 08:38 PM
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No because women are less likely to commit crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 08:38 PM
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? That’s literally not what I’m discussing at all. It’s not even remotely close.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 12:47 PM
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It’s not about “should”. It’s about does. Realistically idt you can claim mens propensity to commit crime doesn’t affect sentencing disparities.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 12:42 PM
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? It’s not a joke. I literally mean you all sound like obsessive homosexuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 12:40 PM
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What point are you making at all. Because all you’ve argued is that somehow women aren’t entitled to leave a relationship if he asks for a paternity test.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 12:40 PM
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chad “chad” is just some concept of a “perfect” man that men like you have a homoerotic obsession with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 12:19 PM
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It’s not mocking to point out the obsessive fixation is weird and annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 11:53 AM
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I’ve never gotten an abortion. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 11:09 AM
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No it isn’t. And frankly you weren’t born female so you’d know nothing about life as a socially ostracized female.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 09:54 AM
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every single one of you making the tone deaf argument that women and girls magically have a support network that fell from the fucking sky 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 09:51 AM
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Women who don’t create social support don’t benefit from it 💀 It’s as if you people have never once spoken to women who are socially ostracized
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 09:50 AM
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? You think female infants have strong social support? What delusion is this? And no. The why isn’t irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 09:49 AM
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They’re heated responses because you’re insulting women’s character 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 09:46 AM
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This is the real crux of the issue. They want women to tolerate men spitting in our faces and do so after having a kid for them. They can’t handle the natural consequences of their asshole behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 09:45 AM
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No, you males just label anything you don’t understand as rooted in “ego” because you’re severely lacking in empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 09:44 AM
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as if every man who asks for a dna test is spitting in the face of their child’s mother Because they are 💀You are factually attacking her character. why the outrage Because she just permanently ruined her body and altered her life pushing out a kid for some ungrateful worthless sack of shit that thinks nothing of accusing her of being a cheating whore and a bad mother? Are you braindead?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 09:42 AM
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Men seem to think you don’t have to accept the consequences of your actions. Asking for a paternity test comes with the consequence of ending the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 09:35 AM
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This is just insanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 09:31 AM
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I don’t know nor care. Asking for or seeking a paternity test marks the end of the relationship for most women. I think this post is simply rooted in the fact men don’t want to accept the consequences of getting that test done. You don’t get to dictate the way the mother reacts to your insulting behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 09:30 AM
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They wouldn’t align because men don’t like assertive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 09:21 AM
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Higher likelihood to get custody isn’t even true, men get custody when they bother to ask. We have stronger social support because WE create it Theres less pressure to contribute financially because you’re expected to do literally everything else We don’t and shouldn’t have to be drafted because we don’t reap the physical benefits of having been born male if there even are lighter sentences for the same crimes you can’t prove mens higher propensity to commit violent crime doesn’t factor in
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 09:20 AM
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Don’t work well in a relationship you personally would want
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 07:39 AM
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I have kids Meaning if you and your wife didn’t work you’d be a single dad
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 07:39 AM
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I didn’t mention specific sex acts I explicitly stated women can be interested in less conventional sex I’m addressing the fact that men are pushy and inevitably will cause less assertive women to give in to things they don’t like
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:32 AM
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Limerence doesn’t necessarily denote violence. I was never violent or ill intended with any of the LOs I had. It’s just you act in ways that are creepy to others and if you’re not self aware it can be harmful.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:06 AM
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Men do this all the time. You didn’t provide any sources or facts either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:39 AM
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Because generally speaking the other person doesn’t actually have any interest in you beyond something surface level. Doesn’t feel like they actually want to know you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:32 AM
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Women view it as creepy and stalking adjacent. Even women who tend to have limerence or had in the past. Men seem to mostly view it as a compliment of sorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:31 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:30 AM
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dark recesses of the female mind 😂 this is delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:28 AM
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a culture that worships abortion I live in a red state 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:28 AM
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You really believe he made this post with a complete innocuous purpose in mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:40 AM
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attention Every time this discussion occurs men point out meaningless things. woo hoo women get comments from random strangers online (even though men also get that)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:33 AM
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why are you fap farming? this is disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:31 AM
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Women also reply to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:28 AM
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You’re talking about men replying with pseudo sympathetic statements because they really actually want nudes. It’s devoid of anything meaningful.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:25 AM
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women are seen and heard what fucking fantasy world are you living in
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:19 AM
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There is zero meaningful benefit to being born female
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:17 AM
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You can keep your mythical “female” privilege and go fuck yourself. All I’ve ever wanted in life is to truly connect with others and find someone who actually sees me and loves me. All of which I will never achieve because I was born female. And men are never interested in actually connecting with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:15 AM
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I had a discussion with men about the subject of limerence. They literally don’t seem to conceptualize these things the same at all. They think it’s flattering usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:13 AM
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No, they aren’t. Men are no longer required to give commitment prior to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:08 AM
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So now we’re nitpicking which insecurities are fine to complain about. Which means your initial argument about “we should let people vent about their insecurities” was disingenuous
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 12:30 AM
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You’re interpreting everything I say in the most hostile way possible so you can whine and complain nonstop. This convo is over
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 12:21 AM
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There’s no genetic difference that would cause the disparity you’re speaking of. There is a literal biological difference between men and women that men love to ignore whenever it’s convenient for their narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 12:13 AM
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Idt most women are envisioning something particularly expensive when we say dinner date. Just a restaurant you sit down to eat at that isn’t a fast food place.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 12:09 AM
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Several. Next
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 12:05 AM
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I think women perceive that as part of character or at least an incompatibility. Because the argument is if he doesn’t pay for dates then he likely doesn’t like you. And I think women often end up with men who don’t really like them because those particular men just don’t want to be alone. Which eventually results in the women being treated poorly
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 12:00 AM
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I’m in my 20s. This narrative that women who criticize age gaps must all be bitter middle aged women has no basis in reality. It’s made so they can feel better about having sex with women young enough to be their daughters
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:58 PM
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You wrote this post to justify why you’re not a disgusting perv? Reddit isn’t your personal journal. And no. Women mean exactly what they say by “when I got older I realized how creepy it was”.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:57 PM
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Observable patterns exist, get over it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:55 PM
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I’m not talking about crossed eyes or lazy eyes 💀 That is an actual medical problem that often manifests in decreased quality of vision. I’m talking about the bone structure. I perceive my eyes as not being symmetrical with one another. The point was I don’t inject this into every single conversation the way men weirdly obsess over penis
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:53 PM
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It’s weird to be so fixated on it you inject it into every conversation. And no I don’t believe there is a subreddit where women mope all day about not having huge breasts. At most you have r/ugly which has both ugly women and men talking about their experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:51 PM
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So you’re a single dad complaining about single moms on reddit 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:45 PM
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Your preferences are fuckable and does what I say That’s why it’s degrading.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:44 PM
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men don’t find boss bitches attractive We’re very aware men don’t find women with their own opinions and mindset attractive. You all say it all day everyday unprompted on this subreddit and your manosphere podcasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:43 PM
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most successful people are very self involved, very disagreeable, competitive and not loyal at all Where’s your proof for the last point? And do you describe successful men the same way?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:40 PM
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I think the truth of the matter is men don’t appreciate us or see us as people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:39 PM
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a good woman is a good woman regardless of her educational or career background Which means you’re likely defining good woman simply as “sexually attractive”.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:37 PM
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Why do men act like you’re the only people ever to be insecure? As if you have a monopoly on feeling undesirable? I have body image issues. I’m not posting about how I sincerely think my eyes are uneven 24/7. I’m not making an entire subreddit centered around it. I’m not making a community called r/obliqueeyeballs. I don’t turn every single conversation I have into complaining about my asymmetrical eyes. You’re making yourselves insufferable to be around by centering literally everything around …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:35 PM
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You’ve yet to disprove my point. Women’s standards for sex are generally abysmally low.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:28 PM
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Standards regarding a man’s character are much lower. Men no longer have to pay for dates, they no longer have to offer commitment, they aren’t held to practically any obligations in modern dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:27 PM
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Feminism isn’t supposed to be palatable to men. Libfems did that and now present day ‘feminism’ no longer serves women. simply seeking fairness It’s hard to believe men are concerned about fairness given the history. As far as resentment goes, misogyny happened first. “Misandry” is solely reactive in nature. most men aren’t going to fulfill the emotional script expected of us I literally just would like men to stop talking about how they believe women are inferior subhumans 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:25 PM
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The standards for what makes a man attractive are far lower
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:23 PM
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I don’t find normie men attractive so if you thought you were going to get a gotcha here you’re mistaken.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:22 PM
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You’re completely disregarding coercion as an issue. Also who said anything at all about sluts?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:22 PM
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Men post about this more than women do. And it goes far beyond just posting about insecurities. Men just have a bizarre fixation on penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:21 PM
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It’s not mocking. I’m not even talking about mens insecurity. I’m talking about this constant obsessive posting about dick. It’s weird and reads as gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:20 PM
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You didn’t present an actual argument
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:19 PM
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?? I’m not taking about men being insecure about their dicks. I’m talking about mens propensity to speak about penis and have entire posts dedicated to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:18 PM
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there was nothing to debate
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:21 AM
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No I say this because literally not a single woman I’ve ever met has this constant fixation on penis. It reads as gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:19 AM
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Women don’t conceptualize and categorize our attraction to others in this manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:53 AM
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This just seems like you briefly read something about 4B. The term decentering in this context means to deconstruct the idea that you need a relationship to feel whole. It’s exploring the same concept as the book, “In Search of The Magical Other”. It’s good advice for anyone to follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:52 AM
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Why are men obsessed with penises? I have never even met a straight woman this fixated on dick. It’s bizarre and homoerotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:48 AM
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The sexual dynamics between men and women in modern western nations benefits all men by making women’s standards for sex the lowest they’ve ever been in human history.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:46 AM
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I wouldn’t say it’s perfect. It’s that modern dating caters to male sexuality. At least within the context of most western societies. women are kinkier than ever before This is a product of pornography warping people’s minds early in adolescence. Not a natural product of women being sexually liberated. Women can be interested in less conventional sex. But modern western societies push certain sex acts as the norm, therefore creating a social paradigm in which women who don’t do those things are …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:45 AM
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This is a water is wet statement. This isn’t a revolutionary idea. The only people who need to hear this are men who won’t really listen anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:40 AM
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If that doesn’t apply to you then say that I did. You didn’t listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:32 AM
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I’m assertive online. Men generally recoil at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:31 AM
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No. You’re basing this off the assumption that all women are extroverted. Every other day is fine. Complaining you didn’t get extensive messages one day is annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 09:26 PM
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means days without responses, 2-3 compliments per date You all are exhausting and emotionally draining.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:21 PM
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So we’re literally back to you did in fact shift blame. And you still have yet to explain why this happens to all women who do this. You want to pretend every single one of them just “picked wrong” because men can’t be held accountable for their behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:19 PM
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No I’m fixated on your phrasing because it was dismissive and condescending and the fact you keep denying the obvious passive aggressive context you were using it in is annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:17 PM
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The context in which you used it was dismissive 💀 There was literally no other purpose for you to use that phrasing. And you’re still proving my point with your stupid assumptions. I didn’t have “idealistic” expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:16 PM
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It’s literally evident in your behavior and the things you say about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:56 PM
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It is in fact manipulative to pretend a phrase often used in a dismissive manner doesn’t have negative connotations yes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:55 PM
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He’s thoroughly delusional. He insists his opinions rooted in his own bias must be “logical” and any response from women must be emotionally driven. He’s also disingenuous and tried to claim the phrase “fairytale ending” wasn’t meant to be dismissive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:54 PM
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I didn’t shift blame You literally said “the problem is who you’re choosing”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:53 PM
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I’m not “pretending” anything. Your language literally was the problem. You’ve completely misinterpreted what I said about that relationship and continue to frame it in this bizarre dismissive way. It is about what benefits women. I’ve explicitly stated numerous times I don’t feel this benefits women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:51 PM
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no they don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:47 PM
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what men define as romantic love maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:46 PM
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I’m asking you to explain how exactly all women are getting the same results because you wanted to shift blame for mens behavior onto me. You’ve yet to answer this question. I’ve also repeatedly explained to you why you not being a woman matters. It’s because you’re attempting to dictate to women what does and doesn’t work for us
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:40 PM
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You keep using emotive language to describe something that was a matter of fact statement. And yes I fixated on the phrase you used because it clearly indicates your own bias as it pertains to this conversation. a shorthand for romantic idealism And why exactly did you assume the issue was the relationship didn’t line up with some fictitious “romantic idealism” It is manipulative for you to claim that was a neutral phrase when it clearly wasn’t and when men use it in a derogatory manner. I’m not…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:38 PM
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who you’re choosing Then explain why, in graphic detail, how exactly this is happening to all women who do this. that’s not reality According to who? You don’t know what dating men is like as a woman so why do you arrogantly presume to know what our reality is?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:30 PM
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You are attempting to dictate to women what does and doesn’t work for us You’re being a disingenuous liar by pretending my issue with your statement is a lack of agreement My issue with your statement was the dismissive language you used which I explicitly stated Nothing you’ve said throughout the entire course of this conversation has been logical; it’s just been “I should be able to tell women what does and doesn’t work for them based on my flawed understanding of what dating is like as a woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:27 PM
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Once again. The action youre idiotically demanding women take results in us being used for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:22 PM
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No. You have a bizarre obsession with labeling anything women do that you personally don’t understand as “ego”. You’re not speaking on behavior. You’re trying to dictate to women what does and doesn’t work for us. You literally were dismissive 💀 The phrase you used is factually dismissive. You didn’t address it “logically” at all. You made an incorrect assumption about what the issue even was, rooted in your own bias. You were dismissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:21 PM
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There is nothing illogical about what I said. You’re whining on the internet about women not mimicking male behavior. Your central complaint is literally about women not approaching men. An action which literally would lead to women being used as fleshlights if they did it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:18 PM
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How do you not comprehend that “being settled for” is an issue directly relating to security and stability. It’s not deflecting. You categorically don’t understand what it’s like to date men as a woman and you never will. Therefore, no. You can’t dictate to women what does and doesn’t work as if you understand anything from our perspective. You got called an ignorant fuck because that’s what your dismissive ass “you didn’t get a fairytale ending” was giving.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:14 PM
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super proactive texting me, constantly complimented me would get very little attention
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:47 PM
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Yes you objectively are attempting to guilt women into signing on to being perma fleshlights for random men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:43 PM
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That’s not about ego. It’s about security. It literally is about practicality. telling me I can’t speak on dating dynamics because I’m a man No. I very specifically stated what would you, as a MAN know about what would be a good strategy for women looking for a partner. Doesn’t get a fairytale ending and gives up You’re being condescending at this point and you aren’t worth engaging with. Me not getting a “fairytale ending” wasn’t the problem you ignorant fuck. if your approach didn’t work adjus…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:40 PM
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No. Because you’re presenting this false dichotomy as if there is a demographic of men for which this isn’t true. All men have those same expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:20 AM
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The meaning of my statement is very clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:19 AM
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Men always expect something in return. Have you ever dated men?? also think women should be submissive This is all men. Yes, even the ones who gripe about having to pay for dinner or insist on splitting everything 50/50 financially. Also where are you getting this idea that women believe men to be altruistic? We know you aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 05:38 AM
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I’m saying the ones who are and don’t believe in trad gender roles should pursue more The issue with this is, like I said in another comment, equality in heterosexual relationships only exists as far as it can benefit men. So why should I split bills evenly for a man who still will leave me if he doesn’t get sex when he wants, still won’t do his share of household chores, and still views me as beneath him? I’m getting literally no benefit in that scenario. Additionally, approaching men as a woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 05:34 AM
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Liberal men still don’t split anything other than financial responsibilities most of the time. Politics of the individual are entirely irrelevant in this context. Heterosexual dating dynamics still reinforce gender roles & expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 05:30 AM
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it’s a valid concern but not a reason to avoid it Are you serious? avoiding initiative because some men might waste your time Yes. I refuse to be someone’s fleshlight. And I refuse to allow you or anybody else to guilt me into feeling bad about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 05:08 AM
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Men say this, but the truth is they don’t like assertive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 05:06 AM
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Idt it’s conservative for me to say heterosexual relationships still reinforce gendered roles and expectations that are harmful to women and therefore why should I split the check when men still hold me to those standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 05:05 AM
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most women don’t describe themselves as feminists most women aren’t feminist even by principles the issue with this “gotcha” men always pull is that, gender roles are still reinforced in heterosexual relationships regardless because men think “equality” in relationships solely extends to paying bills
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 05:03 AM
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There is literally no other species of animals in which the natural order has been so warped by social intervention. Females in other species of animals aren’t culturally gaslit into giving males they don’t like a chance. Men have warped the natural order so much via patriarchy that you’ve become entirely unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 05:01 AM
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You’re so blind to women’s actual experiences that it literally doesn’t occur to you that some women don’t want to be around you 24/7 regardless of how much they might be interested in you romantically. This is why men are exhausting to date or socialize with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:58 AM
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It has nothing to do with “ego”. Approaching him increases the chances of you getting someone who just settled for you. not just bad luck but bad strategy What would you, as a man, know about what would be good strategy for women looking for a partner? You’re not a woman. It’s irritating when men presume to know how women should operate our dating lives. message first, have realistic standards Aside from what I’ve already addressed about this being ridiculous, women already do this. I did this. …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:56 AM
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Not a single man who attempts to argue with me about the validity of Marilyn Frye’s words here ever provide a reason as to why it is untrue. What she said is a readily observable reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:17 PM
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Men already thought this. There is no “encouraging” them to think this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:15 PM
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When women say sex is objectifying it’s abundantly clear we’re not claiming sex is naturally terrible. We’re explicitly referring to male behavior regarding sex. Fact of the matter is most men only conceptualize women as something for them to do sexual things to and they’ve made this abundantly clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:26 AM
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Men can say “choose better” all you want. What most of you really mean is “choose losers”.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:10 AM
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It’s just delusion. They don’t love us, they don’t even like us. They have no real appreciation of us at all. Our existence in their minds begins and ends with “sex thing”. To quote Marilyn Frye: To say that straight men are heterosexual is only to say that they engage in sex (fucking exclusively with the other sex, i.e., women). All or almost all of that which pertains to love, most straight men reserve exclusively for other men. The people whom they admire, respect, adore, revere, honor, whom …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:14 AM
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I have zero interest in being a perma fleshlight just because I might be infertile. None of you people think before you post anything here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:02 AM
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To say that straight men are heterosexual is only to say that they engage in sex (fucking exclusively with the other sex, i.e., women). All or almost all of that which pertains to love, most straight men reserve exclusively for other men. The people whom they admire, respect, adore, revere, honor, whom they imitate, idolize, and form profound attachments to, whom they are willing to teach and from whom they are willing to learn, and whose respect, admiration, recognition, honor, reverence and lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:31 AM
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women can and have always expressed their desires This isn’t factually correct. Historically women weren’t allowed to, present day men complain about it and shame women out of doing it. That ‘song’ you’re manipulatively referencing was literally meant as a joke, nothing more. men’s standards are villainized Where exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:29 AM
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What are you rambling about
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:23 AM
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Yes because women rejecting the oppressive nature of artificial femininity and heterosexual relationships is totally the same as men whining about how they can’t get virginal brides to wait on them hand and foot anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 12:52 AM
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Men being physically stronger than women has literally nothing to do with men being inherently more violent. And that lesbian study you’re referencing didn’t define lesbian, and included women who had been explicitly abused by men. Quit lying and deflecting blame for mens violent nature. Women aren’t and never have been “equally as violent”.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 12:50 AM
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I don’t give a damn, I’m not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 12:48 AM
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misandry is normalized Get back to me when women are mass raping men and have created entire religious systems to subjugate the male sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 12:47 AM
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Majority of scrotes do actually agree with rapist & trafficker andrew tate and it’s evident from their behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 12:46 AM
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No you have it backwards. Those female influencers exist solely because men worship literal rapists like andrew tate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 12:46 AM
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It’s really ridiculous how you males say this shit and constantly frame yourselves in the “gender wars” you created. Men say far worse things about women everyday in front of their sisters and daughters with no repercussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 12:45 AM
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if not totally pro men they label it toxic It’s really just this. Men think women who don’t kiss their ass must hate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 12:43 AM
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this sub is anti male content The men here promote taking women’s right to vote and violence against women on a regular basis. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 12:40 AM
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That’s literally not the same thing 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 12:38 AM
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This is a ridiculous comparison that really showcases how much men lack empathy for women. You think a literal rapist & sex trafficker and someone who literally abused his pregnant wife are equivalent to women making jokes about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 12:37 AM
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This isn’t factually correct. Men are the majority of pedophiles, and when you actually account for the fact women are around children more than men, men are disproportionately responsible for physical abuse of children
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 12:30 AM
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regardless of frequency why does it happen
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 12:29 AM
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I don’t give a shit what is or isn’t good for men. That’s their business. Leave women alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:46 PM
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It’s not equality when males are allowed to dictate what is and isn’t good for women. Fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:39 PM
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No. Women have more authority than men ever will to decide what’s positive for women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:34 PM
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it doesn’t have much basis in fact Then why do men purposefully try to ruin women’s success and why do men constantly disparage women’s education/career
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:32 PM
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This is an outright lie lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:26 PM
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My parents weren’t boomers. But no a happy boomer marriage essentially doesn’t exist. Women just pretend their happy because they’ve been taught their happiness doesn’t matter. I reject the idea that marriage has been nothing but a shit deal for women You can be delusional all you want. Doesn’t change facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:21 PM
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women have encouraged men to be less selfish and more positive And yet men remain as selfish as they’ve always been. men are shamed for expressing preferences This literally doesn’t ever happen. What happens is men say vile shit or state their ‘preference’ in the most disrespectful way possible. It’s not enough for you scrotian morons to simply state “I prefer fit women”, you have to go on entire tirades talking about how you hate “fat bitches”.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:19 PM
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majority of people who owe back child support are still scrotes, get over it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:15 PM
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It’s literally said because men started this bullshit of blaming abused women. Y’all lack accountability as always.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:14 PM
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Bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:13 PM
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Men advocating for us to be raped, beaten, or have our right to vote taken away is totally fine. Women saying men are misogynistic trash is evil misandry and how dare you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:12 PM
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There are men on this subreddit who literally promote violence against women and you think women simply acknowledging mens overwhelming tendency to be violent & self centered is worse? Every day men prove they don’t empathize with women and never did.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:11 PM
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custodial fathers As if the majority of men have any interest in raising their kids lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:10 PM
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what? men are inherently violent and your crime stats prove so
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:09 PM
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They always want to make this false equivalence because the reality of male nature hurts their feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:07 PM
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other men who care about those women’s wellbeing “protector” men are a myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:06 PM
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Men also do leave their wives the minute they develop a terminal illness so quit lying
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:05 PM
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Child support isn’t even relevant, most men don’t love their kids unconditionally and it shows through their behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:04 PM
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I have the same authority No you don’t. You’re literally a man. The hyper fem doormat caricature you scrotes made of women is anything but positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:59 PM
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He doesn’t? He doesn’t appreciate my grandmother who raised me either. You morons always make this assumption that every woman complaining about men had a perfect life and it’s annoying. happily married boomers That doesn’t exist
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:58 PM
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Because most men are very male centered. Heterosexual sex is largely centered around piv despite the fact most women don’t orgasm from it and some women find it painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:57 PM
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This doesn’t disprove what I’m saying at all. Men do in fact treat sex as something for themselves rather than something they do with women. I never said it’s irrelevant to the woman’s pleasure. I said men largely don’t care about the woman’s pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:55 PM
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no objective facts aren’t racist that joke is considered racist because it’s weaponized by racists constantly pretending males are equivalent to black people just proves you’re pathetic and have a victim complex Males are the oppressor class in relation to sex. They’re not the ones being oppressed Quit being disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:53 PM
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feminist nonsense No one is more under appreciated than wives and mothers lmao. It is oppressive because men are ungrateful fucks as always.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:50 PM
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Funny because women have never truly been appreciated by males during any time period of human civilization. But sure we should feel bad because women are finally opting out of dating assholes who do nothing for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:49 PM
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That caricature of women isn’t positive 💀 men will make up any lie to suit their argument
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:47 PM
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What male is actually paying all of the bills in the current year? That’s not a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:46 PM
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They define femininity in the most regressive way possible then accuse women of being misogynistic when we criticize the concept or reject it entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:46 PM
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women don’t like male centered sex
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 09:35 AM
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No. It’s based off what generally occurs. Sex within heterosexual relationships tends to be extremely male centric
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 09:27 AM
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If there’s less women committing the crime then less women will be charged
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 09:18 AM
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I mean this in the least rude way possible but how does that contradict what I’m saying at all? ED affected your ability to enjoy sex as a man. Has no relevance to the fact sex is generally male centric in het relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 09:15 AM
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I’m talking about what generally occurs. Why do men have a pattern of assuming you’re talking about yourself when you’re talking about an objective pattern
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 09:14 AM
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Braindead misogynistic take. compete in spaces that were never designed with them in mind Because males think they’re the default human and that assumption has reflected those spaces you’re referring to. Not because the “wahmen stupid and only useful for breeding” idea you’re pushing. Motherhood is by itself just another obstacle women have. There isn’t anything “powerful” about motherhood. It’s an arduous process. the solution to declining birth rates is for women to waste their lives being sin…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 06:16 AM
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I’m not talking about that extreme of an example. I’m talking about women just engaging in sex they don’t like.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 01:30 AM
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You act like the size difference between men and women has no effect on how comfortable a woman feels to say she doesn’t like something. This attitude is delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 12:36 AM
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No your replies are based entirely off of feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 12:35 AM
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You’re reaching
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 12:34 AM
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you’re denying something that has no logical basis to be denied No this is literally projection. You’re denying the nature of men and pushing the false narrative of “wahmen just as bad” despite nothing in reality being indicative of that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 09:10 PM
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You’ve yet to explain how objective facts are misandrist now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 08:42 PM
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it’s not about capability it’s about willingness, sex is largely viewed as being for men with women’s desires being secondary if ever met at all
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 08:38 PM
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both of them were provided with sex The reality of how this actually plays out is the woman gets a mediocre to horrible experience. That’s not an equivalent exchange.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 08:35 PM
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criticism of males isn’t misandry acknowledgement of male pattern violence isn’t misandry speculating on whether or not I’m happy is entirely irrelevant and proves my point, not yours
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 08:34 PM
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Sure. While getting sex that provides her with nothing. So not all men is effectively just a male marketing technique
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 08:32 PM
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What are you talking about? You are deflecting. The one thing that nearly all rapists have in common isn’t race. It’s sex. And you’re demanding women pretend that difference doesn’t exist because it makes you uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 08:27 PM
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This isn’t realistic. Most women don’t enjoy heterosexual sex. It’s heavily male centered.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 08:25 PM
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? how is that at all relevant to this? Men really have to insert their desire to use women as fleshlights into every possible conversation solely for the purpose of gleefully disturbing women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 08:25 PM
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and the woman ignored that which would be fixed if women stopped believing in the “not all men” nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 08:23 PM
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So you agree then that “not all men” is a pernicious lie? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 08:21 PM
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That is what it literally means though. The issue is most women don’t enjoy sex with men because sex within heterosexual partnerships is specifically set up to benefit males.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 08:19 PM
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No, they wouldn’t. Because women aren’t men. This argument is just a product of projecting men’s specific violent tendencies onto women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 08:16 PM
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Look at you deflecting from the root of the problem which is males.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 08:15 PM
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You’re being delusional. Majority of rapists are and have always been males. Your personal experience doesn’t change that. This is just men attempting to deflect from the fact they are the majority of rapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 07:32 PM
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No when a man rapes a female child the news refers to her as a “underaged woman” to obfuscate the fact the man is a rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 07:24 PM
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So? American men constantly insist the rapes of teenage girls aren’t rapes and perpetually refer to those girls as “underaged women”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 07:23 PM
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Because women committing rape is uncommon to begin with. Men just don’t want to acknowledge that reality because it makes them look bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 07:22 PM
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He’s attempting to obfuscate the issue of male violence by doing the “wahmen rape too” argument. Which is just delusional because women don’t commit rape at the rate men do and never have. Men just want to avoid acknowledging their own behavior as always
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 07:21 PM
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Majority of rapists have always been men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 07:18 PM
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I’ve literally looked up the definition. The actual law doesn’t dictate it can only occur via penetration. The issue is the FBI only counts penetrative rape in rape statistics. Non penetrative rape still exists as a crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 07:18 PM
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due process What does this have to do with the UK giving notoriously light sentences to literal pedophiles? lenient based on what metric Morality. anything to back up this claim Literally listen to anything men say about women. You as a group don’t view us as people. You view us as things to possess muh point was if you trust the police force I don’t. but would you call the police if you- No. Gun ownership is legal in my state thx.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 05:22 PM
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ree men punish other men for rape rarely often are lenient in sentencing mostly because they perceive female relatives and partners as something they “own” and therefore perceive rape as a defacement of property
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 03:37 PM
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Where did I say “my life sucks” can you quote that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 03:36 PM
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You’re disgusting. I “reached puberty” at 8 years old. You’re promoting pedophilia and ought to be ashamed of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 03:35 PM
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No. You asked me to define separatism, not the 4B movement. Separatism in general isn’t anti birth, not giving birth is just a natural conclusion of separatism. so that’s your answer No. I said it’s what some feminists have proposed as a solution. segregation Women no longer associating with men isn’t on par with the jim crow era. Quit acting dumb. it’s a stupid idea It’s not for YOU anyway. throw away their romantic bonds with men Separatism is for women who believe romantic bonds with men are …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 02:25 PM
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There’s a subset of radical feminists that believe the only way forward is female separatism. That is, not dating, having sex with, or marrying men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 01:04 PM
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Many women have proposed separatism as a solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 11:33 AM
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That men as a whole are the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 11:27 AM
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feminism is defined by feminists as equality of the sexes It’s very frustrating that men forget there’s different subsets of feminists whenever it’s convenient for them to do so. Many feminists don’t define feminism this way. Radical feminists explicitly don’t. This is a watered down definition that simply enables males to derail feminist discussions. feminists don’t believe in equality No, feminists simply aren’t concerned with issues impacting men. Because feminism is for women. women have som…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 11:27 AM
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You are having a whiny meltdown. Because you don’t like what a woman said on the internet. I’m a black man And? How is that relevant? You benefit from misogyny as a man. Your willingness to defend misogyny but recoil at any criticism of males is because you’re a man. And you’re the one who brought up “men like me” as if you’re an exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 11:09 AM
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? I didn’t vote for trump but nice try. men like me What you think because you’re a minority you don’t benefit from misogyny? You do. Every male does to varying degrees. Women can’t even discuss the issue openly because men are hyper sensitive and have a complete meltdown like you just did when we talk about the reality of male behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 11:03 AM
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No, it doesn’t. Men are inherently aggressive and violent. The fact most men aren’t rapists doesn’t disprove this. It simply proves that laws and social conventions somewhat curb male behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 10:56 AM
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Yes you do. It is fact, not opinion, that males are inherently more violent and aggressive than females. Nothing I’ve said this entire conversation with you is feelings based. You’re projecting because you don’t like the truth being stated. You’re claiming it’s misandry to not believe this myth that sexual dimorphism in primates skipped human males. I didn’t say all men are rapists. That’s your flawed interpretation because you want to whine about the truth. It’s funny men like you prop up misog…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 10:55 AM
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Idt men’s weird fetishes are a result of a higher libido. Women just don’t have the same ones as men. The heterosexual female equivalent of a foot fetish would be women obsessed with hand/forearm pics.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 10:51 AM
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Because men do objectify and degrade women. Majority of men don’t respect women nor appreciate women as whole people. no man will claim to feel objectified or degraded Because: Women (as a whole) appreciate men as people Your career is something you actually work for Women aren’t making countless podcasts centered around telling men how they “don’t care about your career or education” or any traits that make one who they are The framing of this question is also wrong. I don’t view sexual attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 10:49 AM
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Idk why you’re incapable of grasping the fact that “men are inherently aggressive and violent” in no way contradicts “most men aren’t rapists”. This entire second paragraph is simply you making excuses as to why human males must be the mythical exception to how sexual dimorphism presents in primates because you find the truth hurtful.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 10:40 AM
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I said largely. Some men also empathize with women. The fact that not every single male on earth is a rapist doesn’t disprove the statement “It is mens nature to be violent & aggressive” nor the statement “men are inherently more sexually predacious than women”. what evidence do you have that this is men’s nature Statistics regarding male violence, the behavior/ temperament of male primates compared to females of the same species, the extensive history of men enshrining patriarchal ideas into cu…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 08:18 AM
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You’re being obtuse. What prevents men from committing rape is largely fear of reprisal. As outlined above.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 07:12 AM
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The nature of men quite literally is to be violent and aggressive. Men are literally more sexually predacious than women. That doesn’t mean we’re saying “every man on earth? RAPIST”. Secondly people avoid negative natural inclinations all the time. Some men care about laws and maintaining some level of order in society. Some men empathize with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 06:57 AM
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No, she’s accurately describing the nature of men. The nature which has been well documented throughout the entirety of human history. What you’re doing right now is attempting to frame her argument as illegitimate because of your own feelings regarding it. Not because it’s factually flawed or based on opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 06:48 AM
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You’re just showing your own bias here. You whined about leo being “misandrist” when rp itself is misogynistic. Again why is misogyny ok but stating basic facts about the nature of males is wrong? Why do human males believe themselves to be the exception to how sexual dimorphism in primates appears?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 06:45 AM
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So you admit that men complaining about misandry is typically a defensive reaction with no basis then?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 06:39 AM
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How is this not an admission of her being right? Stating it’s a consequence of “women’s preference” is a fallacious argument. Regardless, you’re literally admitting in your second sentence that men are pushy. Stating boundaries are “highly subject” is an admission men push them. Stating being the one to initiate “implies probing women’s boundaries” is another admission that men are pushy. but that’s a SOCIAL game ew just no
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 06:36 AM
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Why is it that misogynistic statements are always framed as “observable facts” but actual facts about men are always labeled “misandry”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 06:32 AM
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right none of the details and context The details and context is that men as a sex class explicitly sought to oppress women as a sex class. That this dynamic benefited all males to the detriment of all females. The history and the “reasons” are literally: Patriarchy began with the urbanization of Mesopotamia One of the driving factors is men’s womb envy That’s it. 75% of voters Not female voters specifically. I’m glad we can agree on that, but that’s still a statement from a mainstream publicly …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 06:28 AM
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Post has since been deleted but the title statement I think is more nuanced. It is a fact that women are far less likely to be sexually abusive. That being said, yes there are a subset of women who don’t interpret their behaviors as harmful when they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 06:14 AM
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No, but christianity itself is a problem. Similarly, men themselves are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 06:13 AM
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men are marginalized by women in many areas Not really no. per men taking away women’s right to vote This whole paragraph nitpicks and derails. It doesn’t matter that literally every man on earth at the time didn’t explicitly vote to keep women from voting. It’s also irrelevant that specific demographics of males weren’t allowed the vote because once again that wasn’t taken from them because of their SEX. Do you have any sources at all supporting women in switzerland voting to keep the draft? Wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:20 AM
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Female imperative would be much broader than the male one I would think. Because it’s relative to reproductive roles. If I’d have to describe it in specific terms I’d say women are concerned with community harmony and finding what they believe to be the best man to have kids with. why would far less women have violent misandrist kinks Because as previously stated, men are inherently more violent than women. do you believe society props up male on female violence I believe male violence against w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:44 AM
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is there a female imperative Yes. Do you believe women don’t or can’t have violent misandrist kinks Different because: far less women would have them size difference between the sexes dictate that physical altercation with a female aggressor and a male victim would result in less damage not propped up by society Misogyny is ingrained in society. Men’s entitlement to the female body is ingrained into society. Even harmless ‘femdom’ kinks are generally mocked in the public sphere. Nobody is endors…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:43 AM
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My guess would be hobby meet ups but most people don’t go to those.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:30 PM
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If you’re specifically on a dating app then no you don’t have to ask if the other person is interested in you romantically. That’s implied.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:36 PM
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Sex negative is just code for feminism that criticizes misogynistic kinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:25 PM
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Why must feminism focus on males. Get your own movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:24 PM
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No. Trans men are female.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:23 PM
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I don’t care if there is or isn’t a male loneliness epidemic. Men don’t care about women’s mental health and in fact lonely women are openly mocked throughout society. So I’m simply tired of being expected to care about men being lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:22 PM
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There’s dating apps. Men don’t have to ask either
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 05:46 PM
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Feminism is for females. “considering mens feelings to not alienate them” is quite literally centering in this context. Because feminism isn’t for men to begin with. It shouldn’t matter that one feels alienated from a political movement not meant for them. This is like saying white people feel alienated from blm. Or heterosexuals feel alienated from lgbt rights campaigns. No, it’s not just my interpretation. There is no logical reason to defend those concepts as a woman unless they’re explicitly…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 05:44 PM
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That link doesn’t demonstrate that men are half of rape victims. It demonstrates that sexual assault of men is higher than previously reported and that the majority of sexual assaults of inmates are against men. Neither of those comments were in dispute. No. Not in “some circumstances”. The power dynamics between the sexes explicitly favor men. I didn’t erase male victims. I pointed out they’re typically attacked by other men. And no lmao. Public opinion doesn’t favor female victims. They’re tre…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 05:27 PM
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If it requires you to take additional steps it’s not clear. You’re wanting women to just assume any random man would be interested
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 05:19 PM
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I resorted to apps because I’m not social enough to find a partner in traditional avenues.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:52 PM
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No. Options are CLEAR available choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:47 PM
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Options: clear possibilities of romantic partners Your argument relies entirely on assuming a man existing is enough for the possibility to be clear. It isn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:46 PM
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Men factually aren’t half of rape victims Power dynamics between the sexes do favor men Men are victims of violent crime, excluding rape, more often but men are also the perpetrators of nearly all violent crime those things are ignored by feminism Because feminism is a political movement for WOMEN AND GIRLS. I’ll ask once again why every other demographic gets their own movements focused on themselves but women must center males in everything. Are the mra scrotes addressing women’s issues? No th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:44 PM
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You got the response you deserved. You can’t present an actual logical argument. You’re obsessed with the concept of women being lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:37 PM
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Changing the definition of feminism to obfuscate the purpose of feminism to make feminism more palatable to males is in fact centering men. I’m very capable of understanding it No you aren’t and you proved so with your idiotic replies claiming I was “blaming this on men”. That’s not what I said nor is it what pandering means. The feminist movement isn’t a hive mind. Idk why I have to explain to you every single time we discuss anything that no actually all feminists aren’t in agreement on certai…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:31 PM
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I accused you of being manipulative because your response clearly was. You literally made a false claim stating I refused to define feminism when you didn’t even ask for a definition
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:17 PM
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No you’re honestly just coming off stupid. tantamount to mini rape Ok you’re being testerical and simply can’t be taken seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:16 PM
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Yes? Because you’re claiming the average woman has tons of options. We don’t. Once again, has nothing to do with laziness and everything to do with not wanting to be used for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:15 PM
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I didn’t derail anything. I pointed out you’re delusional and drastically overestimate the amount of “options” women have.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:57 PM
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I think the conflation exists because the majority of people seek to pathologize people who are different from the accepted norm. The accepted norm appears to be extroverts in a lot of places. Maybe this isn’t the case in some european countries or in like Japan. But it’s definitely true for the US and I’d imagine to some extent latin american countries because they seem to be more extroverted
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:55 PM
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It’s not lazy or entitled at all. It’s simply an observation based on male behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:53 PM
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an assumption So also just as meaningless. And no that’s not what feminism states. That’s your flawed interpretation. The point isn’t that a woman could never have any power in any situation. The point is power dynamics between the sexes favor men. soft power This isn’t a thing. This is an utterly stupid phrase. Either you have power or you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:50 PM
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Not in this comment thread I didn’t see where you did. I also defined it in the comment you’re replying to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:46 PM
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I read it. I thought it was stupid. It has nothing to do with being “lazy”. The rationale from other women is if you have to approach him he simply doesn’t like you. As for me I don’t approach anyone. I generally want to be left alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:45 PM
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You didn’t ask me to define it. Quit being manipulative. Feminism is the liberation of the female sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:42 PM
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Why do I need to “invite an approach”? The very notion of this is stupid. Either approach or don’t. Also you’re entirely off base with your mantra bitching about women. I didn’t “spend time learning how to give invites” because I find that stupid and I also don’t notice nor care for many social norms. Has nothing to do with this caricature you’ve created that “doesn’t want to learn any skills wahhh”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:41 PM
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No it’s pandering to men precisely because it’s only used to make their feminism more palatable to men. Feminism is and always was for women until libfems gave men the audacity to make it about them. Literally every other demographic is entitled to have their own movements be about them. But men demand feminism center males. I don’t know why you’re incapable of understanding the phrase pandering to men. It’s incredibly simple yet you’ve moronically conflated it with “oh so you’re saying this is …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:35 PM
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My perspective might be heavily shaped by being from the United States, but society is heavily centered around extroverts with them essentially being deemed the ‘default’. Extroverts have no concept of you just wanting to be left alone. You’re seen as defective or told you’re lying or that you simply express love wrong because you don’t want someone else around you constantly all day every day. It’s especially worse if you’re female because some idiots think women are ‘supposed’ to be bubbly and…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:29 PM
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Once again this is your feelings based interpretation of everything I said, not something I actually said. This behavior you both are demonstrating of feigning offense at how my statements make you feel and responding based off that rather than the content of what I said is effeminate and incredibly annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:22 PM
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Once again. That definition of feminism is flawed, I explained exactly why it’s flawed, and I wish people would stop fucking using it. How is describing it as pandering to men or watered down feminism not disagreeing with another group of feminists? It explicitly is. you blame men for all issues in society Citation needed. Pointing out libfems pander to men isn’t “blaming men”.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:20 PM
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I think it’s flipped. But anyway I think the amount of men interested in their female friends is very exaggerated. The closest thing I have to male friends are online and I can say with absolute certainty none of them would ever be interested in me in that context.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:18 PM
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They truly don’t get it. I don’t really get approached by anyone in a romantic context. They’ve brainwashed themselves into believing all women get thousands of men approaching them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:13 PM
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No you’re literally just delusional. I rarely if ever have men approach me in public. demonstrating they’re interested in being approached And how exactly would someone even do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:12 PM
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You repeatedly bring up conservative women in several of your comments to me as if this is supposed to disprove what I’m saying. I never said women themselves can’t be misogynistic. Conservative women often are and liberal women often are just in a distinctly way. I said it’s a watered down definition of feminism not equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:07 AM
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I don’t see why it would be performative in the context of online forums.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 05:23 AM
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Men vocalize their feelings about women all the time. It’s just in a distinctly negative way. I rarely ever see them say something positive about women as a group. Whenever they say something positive about an individual woman it’s usually in juxtaposition to how they see women as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 05:10 AM
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I don’t really believe men simply enjoy women’s company after viewing how many of them speak about women. Those men would be the exception not the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 05:01 AM
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Cool. Not what the comment I replied to says.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:59 AM
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The question is flawed to begin with. Men don’t fall in love with their female friends. They just want to fuck them. That’s not the same thing. If you do get feelings for a friend, it’s often better to just let it die off anyway instead of ruining the friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:28 AM
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introverted women are just ugly Saving this for when the scrote cabal claims introverted women aren’t stigmatized.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:24 AM
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Again men overestimate the amount of attention attractive or mid women receive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:21 AM
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And your alternative for women who have difficulty dating through traditional means is what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:20 AM
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unlimited options Men drastically overestimate the amount of ‘options’ women have. You sign up for dating apps as a woman because you’re unable to find someone through traditional means.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:20 AM
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