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Abundance mentality
/r/seduction06/09/25 02:14 AM
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Branchswinging
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/12/21 05:18 PM
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The cyberpunks of the crypto movement have opened the door to change the system
/r/askTRP24/02/21 10:01 PM
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Message: admiration and respect are what should be sought from females. A disciplined mind is fertile ground to obtain both
/r/TheRedPill01/07/20 04:06 AM
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Excellent synopsis of male mating strategy and female reaction to it
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/20 10:46 AM
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“.. in July 2019, Steele’s ex-husband contacted deputies about the allegations again. He had been present during the April 2018 interview and said he knew a lot about the alleged sexual activities. He said Steele admitted to engaging in sex with the underage boys but in the earlier interview, he was more concerned about saving their marriage than telling investigators the truth.” Ouch “(The victim) told me he knew several of his friends had sex with her too but didn’t know anyone else besides (t…
/r/PussyPassDenied17/06/20 04:50 PM
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Word of the Pandemic • Equanimity (n.) (1) Evenness of mind or temper; calmness or firmness, especially under conditions adapted to excite great emotions; a state of resistance to elation, depression, anger, etc. (2) composure.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/20 07:03 PM
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Basically welcome to insect world. Males are drones and only a few ever mate (serve a colony purpose). Females, aren’t just a few queens to colonize, but many available workers (who probably won’t actually reproduce given harsher climate for child-rearing).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 04:12 AM
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Shout out to TFM and Bitchute
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/08/19 06:49 PM
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Used to be www.chateauheartiste.com on Wordpress, but it got taken down. It’s tag line was: Where pretty lies perish. It was dripping with red pill truisms and I’ve yet to find a better, single source.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/19 04:42 PM
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I second Jordan Petersen. He can give you tools to deal with the emotional turmoil you are experiencing.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 01:11 AM
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Excellent selections. I'll add, The Republic, Nicomachean Ethics, Fear and Trembling, and The Myth of Sisyphus
/r/askTRP24/06/19 04:31 AM
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Pick back up on neglected hobbies and self-care. While you may be older, you never stop growing. Seek to do things on your bucket-list that heretofore where not feasible. Glad you choose to share and not keep it bottled up, you are certainly NOT ALONE. "Man cannot remake himself without suffering, for he is both the marble and the sculptor" Alexis Carrel
/r/MGTOW24/06/19 04:05 AM
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And then it can create an identity crisis with too much success.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/18 05:21 AM
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Loved. "True status doesn't need to flex. It is known."
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 02:16 AM
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Like the other guys said, this will come with time. Females are just obeying their nature, as you are with yours. Knowledge will help and experience plays well for a man - as many women will tell you they find both attractive. As for the hurt, let it motivate you to keep seeking education and bettering yourself. One day you'll look with impunity, as young women flock to you, without knowing why. But you will. And then you'll have your picks of the litter.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 04:51 AM
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How is man measured? His legacy. I'd argue quality (experiences, women, friends) over quantity. Same with accomplishments and so on. Thanks for the years of teaching - it's helped me significantly coping with young adulthood and becoming a man. Likewise the measure of a good teacher is not just how many students he influences, but the quality of the message. When those quality students become influential themselves, you've really "changed the world." A legacy.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 03:21 AM
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Turn the game off for a while. The skill remains. When you want to return, you be surprised at easily it slips back on. Like a well-worn baseball glove.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 12:04 PM
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Search for "Lying Eyes" by the Eagles. A favorite song of mine. I think you'll understand more, that song was written for your situation. Chin up, focus on you, and keep taking care of yourself. If a schlub like this guy you describe can marry a 9 at his age and physique, imagine what you'll be able to do.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 11:05 AM
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Yep, couldn't have said it better.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 08:05 AM
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This.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 06:59 AM
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I feel you man. Honestly, I think you saved yourself more grief by hard-avoidance.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 05:02 PM
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Getting propositioned by married women sucks. Moral dilemmas are created, if you have that sense anymore. Not to mention possibly unhinged husbands.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 07:38 AM
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I'm not sure if instagram-preselection would have a noticeable effect. You should explore the possibility though.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 12:17 AM
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Welcome to the school of hard knocks!
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 06:23 PM
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And chemically speaking, your body is going through a type of withdrawl process. She who was once your drug is now out of you life, much like quitting an addictive habit cold-turkey. Win the war of attrition and let your body adjust to the new norm without her. Painful, but much better to accept a hard truth than to hold out with false hope.
/r/askTRP26/12/16 03:14 PM
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Have to keep the fees under a thermometer
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 03:06 AM
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Like AylaCatpaw is suggesting: tell her about it. If it's hard to say because you don't want to look weak, speak through some 'male virtues' like strength, desire, and/or pride. Tell her you feel for her in a powerful, jealous way. And that she'd look nice wrapped around your.. arm. Try not to feel awkward or apologic, since there is nothing to be ashamed of. Make your sentences short declaratory statements. That should make it easier. Edit: name
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 03:03 AM
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80/20 rule with vulnerability. Expose it for a brief flash. Let her see that you're human and not some emotionless robot. While a woman pitying you makes her drier than a desert, a woman connecting on an emotional level makes her body lubricate. You have to open up a little for any real romance to happen, for either of you.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 03:50 AM
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Flip the script. Next time you say: 'I'm waiting for love to find me.' When girl(s) ask about your romantic life. Even if she doesn't swoon on the spot, she'll be thinking about you or what you meant later. Because women are generally pursued, playing coy gets them riled up. Remember, a female's sex organ is her brain. Make that melt into her pussy. Innuendo is your friend. And Both sexes like sexy cat-and-mouse games.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/16 06:03 AM
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This is but one contradiction added to the pile. And why you never take dating advice from women.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 07:44 PM
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"I feel like a homeless guy with a job.”
/r/MGTOW16/10/16 06:45 AM
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Couldn't agree more! It's for this type of girl that all the game you practiced pays off. She'll likely have a better system of values, and a lower n-count. On a related point: getting out of your comfort zone (i.e. dance recital, or some-such event) is a goldmine. Went to my club's pool, which is super family friendly, and met a true-to-form HB9.5. The kind of girl that makes old men wish for their younger days. We chatted. She took me to meet her milf mom and the 3 of us chatted the whole day.…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/16 06:32 AM
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He was a red-piller (probably MGTOW), way before it's time. Philosophy, ftw -> "With girls, Nature has had, in view what is called in a dramatic sense, a “striking effect,” for she endows them for a few years with a richness of beauty and a, fullness of charm at the expense of the rest of their lives; so that they may during these years ensnare the fantasy of a man to such a degree as to make him rush into taking the honourable care of them, in some kind of form, for a lifetime—a step which woul…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 07:41 AM
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All women, mother's included, want men of value
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 06:26 AM
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Tribe mentality. We are being attacked by another tribe and manipulative fuck (mf) decides to turncoat. If we end up winning anyway, mf is as good as dead. Or in another context, mf is beta orbiting tribe leader's female. Decides the only way to score is to rape her. If he's caught in the act, again probably dead.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 04:39 AM
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Invest in the sex-bot industry as we watch marriage implode. The red pill profit sharing program.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 04:31 AM
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Well of course. The market is at play for sex transactions, even if those non-redpillers don't want to admit it. Tradeoffs.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 04:26 AM
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I didn't even know that was possible. Good on you for trying the research for us.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 04:18 AM
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Well from a judicial point of view, if we catch one of the manipulative fucks in the act, we (used to) eliminate him from the gene pool. For a serious enough offense of course.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 04:16 AM
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Exactly. The state incentivized divorce. Just look what it's done to the black family during the same time frame! Whites are just 30 years slow.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 12:30 AM
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Lol, I'm glad you are one of us, I responded to your comment on that post too. Yeah, the truth is butt-hurting the front page right now.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 12:26 AM
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For reference https://youtu.be/4F4qzPbcFiA
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 03:38 AM
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I've been listening to this song a lot lately (not for just the melody, which kicks ass) but to drive the point home. "Waiting in Vain"
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 06:23 PM
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For more good sources, search: Chateau Heartiste.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 04:38 AM
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I think the FDA recommends 9 grams or thereabouts.
/r/askTRP16/06/16 05:11 AM
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In my case it was #2. No explanation given, not even a courtesy "fuck you" she just straight-up ghosted me. Sounds like you're in a similar situation. Don't look for closure, cause you aren't going to find it. It's hard to swallow how females can just turn off emotionally after appearing to be invested. But the broken record repeats - AWALT. Just jump back on another horse, cowboy!
/r/askTRP20/05/16 10:04 AM
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Smack her on the ass occasionally. If possible make her feel small and protected. Impress her with your wit, charm, and humor. Or a display of strength. If possible show her that you value yourself highly and the high standards you set go towards women.
/r/seduction03/02/16 08:10 AM
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I understand what you're saying. Don't worry with the culture, the main mainstream is for suckers anyway. Do not be afraid to be a man. This is what generates wetness in women.
/r/seduction03/02/16 08:04 AM
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You need to be willing to walk. It's the ultimate power move. And it will signal to her that you aren't to be an orbiter. Do not go into the relationship with the, "I'll take what she gives me" mentality. It should be more like, "I'll take what I want, and she'll love it".
/r/askTRP01/02/16 07:30 AM
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Playing up the sexual dimorphism is attractive. The tease/coaxing also carries feminine charm. I'd also recommend a bit of eye contact and playing with your hair (let him see you do it). Both are signals we look for.
/r/seduction01/02/16 06:55 AM
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Just remember to keep an aura of dominance and maturity. It does give you a leg up being older as a man, but you can even the odds when you're younger by establishing a strong masculine presence. You may get shit tested about it, but maintain frame.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 06:29 AM
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Sees feminist at party (gym? No, I lie, haha) Walk up and deliver something along the lines of: "Hello, my name is FarfromaHero40, but you can call me Patricharcy for the evening; been ruling great apes since before Australopithicus. This is space is not safe, sexual dimorphism has made it so we aren't equal, and yes, I am the bad guy in every movie you've seen."
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 07:23 AM
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I think for the best advice and deriving conclusions from plausible scenarios, consult a family law attorney. Just a consultation at this point. Pose it as a hypothetical. "If I were to go about divorcing my wife, how would I proceed?" Explore the grounds on which to file divorce, i.e., fault or no fault. Also a much more reliable figure to your question of alimony will be ascertained.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 06:01 AM
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Besides, a good abdominal wall is something that they want to brush up against during sex. Can increase the amount of stimulation to the clitoris. Just like we love watching bouncy asses, I have a feeling they like firm body.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 05:27 AM
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Negs! Playful negs. Example: "You've got a nice smile...except I believe your wine or lipstick has made your teeth red!" (Even if it isnt true, takes her off the pedestal) Or alternatively: "If you were getting some new ink/tattoo where would it be? (Dont give her time to answer) Your lower back? - You tramp"
/r/seduction07/01/16 05:02 AM
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The Thomas Crowne Affair. And of course I mean the Steve McQueen version.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 02:38 AM
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Ahh, good point. Yes, pay more attention to her actions, not words. And true, working to hard appears desperate. I've taken to talking openly with plates or potential plates about my harem. I don't really give much of a fuck if one walks away, because harem is waiting.
/r/askTRP23/12/15 05:09 AM
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5 minutes of your powerful alpha is better for her than 5 years of beta bf.
/r/askTRP23/12/15 05:02 AM
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Feeling too jaded for a&a? I find the shock value is appealing, occasionally.
/r/askTRP23/12/15 01:55 AM
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Alternatively. Agree and amplify. Tell her it is that way. Then list things you'd like her to do as incentive 'to be more invested'. Work her to your favor. Even if it turns out you lose her on this, it is because you're too high value to get more involved
/r/askTRP21/12/15 05:39 AM
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TRP journey thus far
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 07:21 PM
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Actually, of the great Ape societies, 4/5 are patriarchal in nature. Us humans, chimpanzees, gorillas, and orangutans (if you care to count orangs, they are pretty solitary). The outlier is the bonobo - in which the females DO run society. However as a general rule, female mate-selection determines the direction and evolution of the species. Sexual dimorphism accounts for some of this.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 06:39 PM
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Welcome newcomer, /u/nightdepartures1. Your journey will be long, and, perhaps it will make you more angry and bitter. But it will be the truth. With time & understanding, hopefully the anger will dissipate and you will learn AWALT. And remember, as many here are also recovering Betas, to continue with the daily dose of red pills. It is the fucking antidote. edit/ In answer, time to walk from this waking-nightmare. Think of it as training a dog. She (the dog) has already conditioned herself to 1…
/r/askTRP13/07/15 07:29 PM
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Females don't want agency. It would make them actually act responsibly, not like a victim or child (can't have that). The good thing for us is, we have a hard-wired bullshit detector in-between our ears (i.e. a logically-based brain). It is always your choice to walk and escape cockamamie manipulation.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 07:09 PM
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As a positive alternative to the word anxiety, think about it in terms of anticipation or eagerness.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 03:33 PM
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"Who is least invested holds the power. Always be less invested. Everything listed above will increase her investment in you. So if you are actually really interested in a chick, you better make sure you have this applied or it will go down in flames." Precisely. Maintain alpha aloofness as much as the situation will allow. Game is about you chasing your best self and her chasing you because of it.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 03:38 PM
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This^ - I've noticed that some of the most competent females in my workplace actually shun higher positions, because it comes with too much responsibility. I think something we are missing from this discussion is how inherently risk-averse female nature is, when compared to the average male.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 02:59 PM
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But that's exactly the point where guys who haven't had much experience go wrong. Remember these aren't just people, these are beautiful women we are attracted to. The ones that blue-pill men (beta/white knights) would immediately put on a pedestal. The beauty can be paralyzing to a would-be suitor. That's why it's helpful to think about it in a different light.
/r/seduction12/05/15 02:21 AM
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Sage advice, OP. For those of us looking to hone our game, this is invaluable. This game can be fun, once you learn the (generally speaking) hidden rules that guide human social interaction. Illuminate more of the map.
/r/seduction12/05/15 02:15 AM
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That's where some good routines and canned lines really help. Think of it like a comedian's act. He gets really good at breaking the tension in a crowd with a tried-and-true opener. The show then progesses how the comedian dictates from that point forward. It will give you the confidence to go open. With that, even barreling through a set leaves you with a better feeling than no approach at all. Even flat rejection. You start getting a "feel" for certain topics to talk about after awhile. Some g…
/r/seduction12/05/15 01:50 AM
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