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I’m 30 and have date women 21-25 but honestly it’s not worth it besides the quick fling. Most of them are insanely immature and want your full attention at all times. Mind you I have a full time career and they still have a part time job, go to school or both but they can’t comprehend the fact that I can’t be texting them or seeing them 24/7. They get upset pretty easily at almost everything. Cool vibes tho
/r/seduction27/02/26 06:30 AM
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If you’re average then you’re already better than some guys beneath you lol just make something else about you above average like your physique or personality. Stop having such a negative mindset too. Go out there and meet girls.
/r/seduction10/02/26 09:47 PM
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You need to work on your self-esteem. It’s so low you don’t believe a women can find you attractive enough to flirt with you. Only thing to do is believe in yourself and that it is possible that women find you attractive. I’ve been there and it’s a process but you just have to talk yourself into believing it.
/r/seduction17/01/26 01:37 AM
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Too much work, too many games and not worth it but I would just reply with a normal text like “hey how have you been?” Wouldn’t even mention that I’m busy it screams that you’re intentionally not replying in order to get a rise from her
/r/seduction16/01/26 03:06 AM
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Yeah but I don’t realize it until I get home and I’m laying in bed
/r/seduction06/01/26 08:53 PM
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How come you don’t ask him to be your wingman? Or just do your own thing when you’re out with friends?
/r/seduction22/12/25 01:07 AM
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It becomes easier and easier to find confidence within yourself. However, I feel like I personally stopped caring about dating as I got more focused on my career and personal growth.
/r/seduction16/12/25 02:40 AM
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Which is valid but that means you’re putting women on a pedestal. You’re making them seem like they’re better than you when in reality they’re just like you. They laugh, they cry, they shit and pee. You’re in your head too much because you’re talking to them and you’re already thinking you’re going to get rejected. What helped me was talking to them as I would my friends with a bit of bantering and compliments mixed in. Get the thought of every women you talk too has to lead to something, just b…
/r/seduction18/11/25 04:25 AM
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What exactly are you afraid of?
/r/seduction18/11/25 02:38 AM
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Dude I was in a 5 year relationship from 23-28 and I’m currently still in my ho phase lol just because you turn 30 doesn’t mean you need to stop having fun. I’ve had a more enjoyable experience now than I did when I was 20-23. I feel more confident and I have my own place and adult money. So it seems easier to find that confidence within myself.
/r/seduction18/11/25 01:54 AM
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There’s nothing to change your mind on if you already have your mind set on your answer lol you keep saying “most women” when in reality you don’t know that it’s just “most women” you’ve slept with. We can’t help or give you our opinions because you gave us no data (where you live, how many women, your tactics etc. ) in my personal experience I have build value with women through just getting to know them and being friends and just being upfront about keeping things casual until them or I find s…
/r/seduction18/11/25 12:39 AM
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Honestly, this guy is right. How many guys at these shows asked for her info? Dozens of them. You have to stand out somehow and create some kind of connection with the girl. You’ve been out the game for 7 years, there’s a learning curve and you can’t just jump into drowning in women by DM’ing them.
/r/seduction10/11/25 05:02 AM
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Surprisingly a lot of guys are in the same boat as you. I was, people assumed since I was tall and had curly hair that i was drowning in it but I was not lol until I actually started talking to women. Take it as a compliment but also try to get out there and talk to women or use this to at least calm your nerves about approaching women that you’re going to be successful with them
/r/seduction10/11/25 12:51 AM
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At the club, there was a group of 3 girls. Went up to the one I wanted and asked her who her friend was. She gave me a weird look and I asked her who she was and somehow that worked, I was also a little tipsy so my thought process was out the window
/r/seduction04/11/25 12:21 AM
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In my experience women usually end up making constant eye contact throughout the workout and end up inching closer as time goes up but I think it’s safer if they start talking to you like asking for tips or if I’m waiting for a piece of equipment but the gym is usually a no go for me. I like my gym too much to ruin it by approaching a woman there
/r/seduction23/10/25 02:38 AM
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This lowkey a goated response
/r/seduction19/10/25 09:32 PM
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None. You just do it. If you rely on courses or books you tend to become robotic or try to fit a scheme into every conversation or interaction instead of just flowing through it.
/r/seduction19/10/25 06:45 PM
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Dawg whoever your coach is they gotta be trolling lol
/r/seduction17/10/25 01:43 PM
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Go touch grass bro 😭😭🙏
/r/seduction17/10/25 03:38 AM
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We need more context tbh If you focus on one thing to get more girls yeah it isn’t going to go so great, if you’re main focus is doing things to get more girls then it isn’t going to go so great that's
/r/seduction15/10/25 01:48 AM
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Eye contact, attraction, leading, a bit of banter and a bit of light touching (this helps me the most)
/r/seduction08/10/25 07:54 PM
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Glow up started after a break up but usually women try and get close, they compliment or just seem interested in small ways. Eye contact and smiling are a pretty big thing. They tend to be more touchy too But too me it sounds you’re already attractive? If you get laid effortlessly that means you’re already ahead of most. And the women that seem to ignore you is just a regular thing not everyone is going to find everyone attractive and that’s ok
/r/seduction08/10/25 07:50 PM
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The problem is that you’re focusing on theory too much rather than natural instinct. You’re overthinking every situation and trying to fit it within this theory or guideline you’re following.
/r/seduction08/10/25 02:37 AM
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Just keep her as a friend or keep her around. Dont burn the bridge if nothing has happened yet. Just match her energy. As to why her energy has changed, it could be personal or it could be related to you or someone else entered the picture but no need to tread on that. And don’t give people an ultimatum like ever, puts them in a weird spot and usually doesn’t lead to what you want.
/r/seduction08/10/25 12:12 AM
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I would just drop her honestly. No reason to keep her around after the disrespect. Especially if there’s another guy involved. Next time on first dates take her out for coffee or a small lunch or at least budget yourself “nothing over 100” and you’ll be fine. It’s a lesson learned and many guys learn it later than sooner. You’re all good my guy. Plenty out there.
/r/seduction07/10/25 11:30 PM
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You know what helped me? Treating women like my guy friends. (Well not too the full extent lol) Learning that they’re really not that different besides the obvious. I legit just ask them The same questions I ask my friends, I ask them even if they sound dumb. I landed a date recently because I asked a girl what her favorite thanksgiving food was in the middle of July. She laughed and we hit it off. You’re also in your head too much and overthinking the conversation. You’re probably thinking what…
/r/seduction04/10/25 12:37 AM
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A follow back has started some good times with them lol roughly 1,500 to 475ish so not too bad. But to answer your question will it help? In a way yes since it’ll open them up to following you back but you still have to put in effort to get them. For example I did gym content for a bit so I would usually invite them for a workout or something gym related then escalate from there. 10K is a little bit in today’s world. To get easy lays you’ll probably have to reach like 800k to 1mill or more. Howe…
/r/seduction03/10/25 03:41 AM
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Not really tbh i think it just helps to get a follow back from them if you have a higher follower to following ratio. I think they like the fact that I don’t follow any IG models or any girl that doesnt follow me back
/r/seduction03/10/25 02:43 AM
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So yeah u answered your own question lol
/r/seduction01/10/25 09:11 PM
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You just gotta go for it and test the waters. If you send some signals back and she reciprocates then she’s most likely interested.
/r/seduction01/10/25 08:38 PM
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Yes and no. If you’re not entirely focused on it you’ll get more chances at getting laid because you’re not as needy or desperate but with those chances you need to put some effort in.
/r/seduction01/10/25 08:37 PM
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Yes for example I’m in a coed soccer league and I have met some incredible women there. Just join clubs you’re interested in that way you can have at least one similar interest with them.
/r/seduction29/09/25 09:28 PM
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Get a hobby Join club for hobby Meet women Use friends to introduce you to women. Worst case they become your friends and they can introduce you to more women. If you’re too shy or overthink too much about cold approaching this is the best way. This is how I’ve met most of the women I’ve dated.
/r/seduction29/09/25 08:32 PM
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Ehhh you’re way overthinking this. It’s the girls birthday weekend and she wants to spend some time with her friends, you know the ones she’s known longer. If she still including you in those plans then the interest is still there and you’re not being put in no “role” you should just roll with it and mingle with her friends if that’s too much then adjust the plans or let her go. You’ll be fine
/r/seduction24/09/25 02:57 AM
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Your mindset seems like you’re giving up before even starting a conversation. You’re putting too much thought during the conversation instead of letting it flow freely. I used to have that problem where I would be talking to someone and while they’re trying to tell me some interesting information about them I’m in my head thinking where and how im going to lead the conversation next thing you know I already missed half of what they said and im panicking internally on how im going to correct it. …
/r/seduction24/09/25 02:47 AM
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You’re not avoiding it tho. You’re there already. You don’t even know what to do without looking like a creep lol
/r/seduction23/09/25 11:08 PM
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I think every gf I’ve had or dated or made into a “buddy” has started platonically at first and one thing leads to another then boom! The foundation is there it’s up to you to enhance it.
/r/seduction23/09/25 10:48 PM
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lol buddy you are in for quite the surprise when everything breaks down if you continue to entertain
/r/seduction23/09/25 03:15 AM
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We in the same boat then except you’re being actively creepy and wasting energy not getting nothing lol 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/seduction23/09/25 02:19 AM
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Dawg take the L since we all know here you’re the only one that does not get any form of women, which is fine. Keep working at not being creepy and you’ll get there eventually 👍
/r/seduction23/09/25 02:07 AM
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Yes because clearly you haven’t been with one 😭 go out there And get one but don’t do none of this creepy shit please
/r/seduction22/09/25 06:37 AM
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Is there more to this story? Why are they calling you a freak? And why are they calling you unattractive? How was your first experience with them ? Seems that it may be deeper than just physical. Regardless don’t let their words define who you are. Maybe it’s time to find a different social circle
/r/seduction22/09/25 01:05 AM
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Dude you’re overthinking this. Don’t push her into a wall plz lol just make her laugh and have fun with her and the arousal will come naturally
/r/seduction22/09/25 01:02 AM
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Before anything, you have to decide if you’re willing to possibly lose her as a friend, if not then you’ll be stuck in the friendzone and being her emotional buddy while someone else swoops in and takes her away while you stay liking her from afar for years to come
/r/seduction22/09/25 12:58 AM
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I agree with this. You need to be in the present instead of thinking of what might happen. You might fall into a self fulfilling prophecy if you think this way. You say she makes you feel good in the moment, then focus on what that feeling is like even when you’re by yourself instead of being afraid of what might happen in the future. You’re likeable, and you’re worth every joy of happiness you bring out in someone and someone brings out of you. Live in the moment. Don’t doubt and sabotage
/r/seduction21/09/25 06:43 PM
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That you need to play all these games and jump through all these hoops to get a girl. Game is basically a pseudoscience when it all Boils down to confidence and how you present yourself. Be confident, don’t be awkward, don’t be desperate and you’ll get a handful of women. Maybe not all the ones you want but you’ll pull some amazing ones and some that you thought you’d never pull by just being confident and funny.
/r/seduction21/09/25 06:08 PM
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Honestly seems like she likes the attention you give her through text, especially since she’s not willing to move things around and see you. It seems like you like her though and you’re willing to get your time wasted just for that reason. You have to set boundaries and maybe not close the door fully but at least stop replying so fast and not pay attention to her as often. It’s generally not worth it however. A lot of guys make the mistake of taking the bread crumbs women leave and try to make s…
/r/seduction18/09/25 08:04 AM
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Seems like she has some attachment issues going on and other issues due to her blocking every guy. She has supremely high standards that no one can reach, probably uses this as some safety/coping mechanism. Not worth it, probably won’t text back unless you do. Seems like the type that wants to be begged for and chased. Don’t beat yourself up for it
/r/seduction18/09/25 07:56 AM
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Mf created cold kissing
/r/seduction14/09/25 08:48 PM
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You weren’t direct. You left her alone. In that environment a girl isn’t going to wait for you, just gotta go for it
/r/seduction08/09/25 11:04 PM
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It can be multiple things. You can be the back up option. You might be making yourself to available to them so they feel like they can keep you in that spot just in case. They might like the attention you’re giving them but not you. You might not be asking them out correctly or something. Either way we need more context. For now, cut them off and stop chasing them at least you’re out there trying to
/r/seduction08/09/25 10:52 PM
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In your post it’s says that you yourself reject the way you look. You don’t mention a women rejecting you because of your height. You don’t mention that others call you a manlet. It’s yourself that’s thinking negatively and letting something out of your control get to you. Own it and be confident.
/r/seduction08/09/25 04:26 AM
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Every generation has mean women dawg you just have to go out there and own it. Be confident
/r/seduction08/09/25 04:23 AM
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If this not a troll then the problem is your confidence and your desperation. You haven’t truly worked on yourself if the reason has been to get women to sleep with you. You spent all this money to maximize your potential but that’s just a waste since it’s not coming from a sincere place. And honestly you shouldn’t have jumped right into dating after a breakup especially if you guys were in the fiancé stage. When I broke up with my GF of 4 years I took a 3-5 month break to get myself situated an…
/r/seduction08/09/25 02:45 AM
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Seems like you’re trying to hard and trying to force yourself to have fun. Nothing is physically wrong with you Just let loose and stop looking at what others are doing and you start doing. You’re thinking too much in an environment that doesn’t require much thinking. Get on the dance floor and start vibing by yourself or with friends and see who gravitates to you
/r/seduction08/09/25 01:49 AM
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Depends on the dynamic honestly. Opening up and being vulnerable she probably won’t mind Begging for her to come back to you or crying because yall broke up? Probably a 10 or more. Every girl I’ve talked to has said they got the ick when a guy has cried begging for them. They hold on to it forever in a negative way
/r/seduction03/09/25 11:34 PM
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Confidence is usually the main key. Style and looks just help. However, there’s a bare minimum you can’t look like you do heroine and live under the bridge and get women. You have to put some effort into how you look. But yes if you’re confident people usually tend to gravitate towards you and open up.
/r/seduction03/09/25 04:33 AM
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Yes accidentally at a rave and once through a friend so I don’t know if that counts. Fun and they’re nice but can get extremely tedious with how crazy they are. Would not date one tbh
/r/seduction23/08/25 09:27 PM
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Yeah, most girls I’ve dated have ranged from 21-27. A lot of them do like older guys, you will bump into one or two that aren’t but that’s their choice and you keep it moving.
/r/seduction17/08/25 08:44 PM
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Keep being yourself. It’s obviously working. You just gotta escalate a little quicker. Tease her and flirt with her more, break the touch barrier and start seeing how she reacts to you doing all this.
/r/seduction06/02/25 10:39 PM
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If you play it right, forever tbh. I’ve had some FWB that have turned into great friends afterwards and every now and then we hook up again. However, most of them do tend to stop talking to you as soon as they find someone else or get a BF. Which is completely fine and you should respect their boundaries and that’s the key to keeping them forever.
/r/seduction03/02/25 04:35 AM
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How old are you? Depending on the age, maybe you hint at wanting to be serious too soon. Also, you’re not escalating quickly which might make it seem like you’re not interested. Maybe that’s why they seem to friendzone you before you get to friendzone them. Either way need a deeper analysis and you need to find a pattern where things start to lose steam. I still think you need to slow down on the serious talks and just have fun with dating.
/r/seduction03/02/25 04:29 AM
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I’ve realized it’s more about the vibes you give off. Yeah looks matter but if you’re chill, have your shit together and aren’t creepy. Women will want to talk to you. Now, you should still groom yourself and workout but physical attributes isn’t everything. A lot of women I’ve dated have said they ended up liking me because I was nice and funny and made them feel safe and comfortable. Just be nice to them with the occasional teasing and flirting and things will happen. Don’t let them walk all o…
/r/seduction30/01/25 11:49 AM
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Keep going until you become a regular. Once they notice your determination, focus, and hard work they'll start showing signs of interest. However, dont try to talk to them while they're working out. Do it on the way in or on the way or even while they're waiting for a squat rack or machine.
/r/seduction14/08/21 05:32 AM
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Just start talking to other girls or you have to realize there are billions of other girls out there for you. OR you can actually talk to this girl and see how she is. Maybe you won't like the way she is and you'll forget about her. Maybe you'll hit it off. You'll be alright though. It happens.
/r/seduction07/07/21 08:49 PM
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Working out helps you get confidence. Confidence helps you approach women. Approaching women helps you get women.
/r/seduction03/02/20 02:30 AM
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