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Oh my God man, I spoke with my best pal today and I have realized how my feelings were getting fucked, I think I was seeking intimacy and I found it in her and I decided to act like there was no problems and idealized her. I have some problems indeed and apparently she has problems too because she was literally down to have sex with me even though she's in a relationship, like, how the fuck can you go and fantasize about fucking any other guy while saying I love you and being intimate with a per…
/r/seduction20/06/24 05:30 AM
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Yeah, I have ADHD, which means I tend to be quite energetic and always on the go. Staying active helps me manage my thoughts and avoid getting caught in a negative spiral. Interestingly, I’ve been chatting with a girl who also has ADHD, and she shares a similar vivacity. We both have our unique quirks, so it works out real good lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 03:28 PM
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The trick is to be with another neurodivergent person.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 05:28 AM
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Just wanted to give you an update on this; Our conversations got intense, and we both confessed our feelings to each other. I’ve started to notice that she began feeling guilty because she was in a relationship, so I asked her out. I was very direct with her. ' She told me about her and her boyfriend, and how she knew they were not compatible, but she gave him a chance because they’ve been together for almost a decade. We spoke, and I made my ideas clear on where our relationship should go. I as…
/r/seduction16/06/24 10:40 PM
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Touch grass my man
/r/seduction16/06/24 10:26 PM
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ADHD will help you, lol. I have ADHD and I can fake create scenario in a second, a girl I'm talking to adores that side of me and sometimes she asks me to create fake shit, lol, and she just listens to me and laughs all the time. I mean, when you have dopamine shortage in your brain your brain will do anything to keep you fulfilled so you'll have an active mind, at least this is how my ADHD works lol.
/r/seduction12/06/24 07:09 PM
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This subreddit reflects what happens to humans when their DNA hasn’t evolved to receive constant dopamine boosts from artificial stimulants like social media. We’re deteriorating as a species.
/r/seduction24/05/24 07:38 PM
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Do you go out there? Are you socially available to be approached and are you in environments where you get to meet people organically? No one's coming to your doostep lol.
/r/seduction24/05/24 07:33 PM
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I concur 100%, flirted with a ginger in a bar once, she wanted my dick but I refused her for a concert, I still regret that decision lol.
/r/seduction24/05/24 07:32 PM
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I like loud spaces (neurodivergent as well) it overstimulates me and make the noises in my brain stay quite for a while, but I'm very selective of music, it has to be real good, I can't vibe with every music, I walked out of a lot of events.
/r/seduction23/05/24 09:09 PM
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Yes, I understand your point. However, my original comment was more about the aspect of finding fulfillment in relationships. When people start treating each other as objects, things begin to deteriorate. As you can see, even the original poster of the whole thread mentioned meeting 2-3 attractive girls who were potential partners, but he didn’t pursue them. Regarding the girl I’m currently involved with, it’s conceivable that she might have been a serial cheater since she’s involved with me now…
/r/seduction20/05/24 08:24 PM
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Well, she’s been in that relationship for so long that she didn’t feel anything different from what her boyfriend provided. Now, she’s experiencing something new with me, and it makes her feel good, alive, and refreshed. Since she’s quite inexperienced and has turned a new page in the book of life, she may not be satisfied and might go on a quest for exploration after me, or she might stay with me. I really don’t know, as I can’t control her, and I don’t currently think about our status in that …
/r/seduction20/05/24 05:46 PM
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I agree with you, just wanted to let u know my story.
/r/seduction13/05/24 09:04 AM
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I agree, it's just like being a high net worth individual, attainable but hard as hell.
/r/seduction13/05/24 09:03 AM
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I turned $5 into $1250 on a slot machine and felt nothing. (my first and last rodeo, lol) This realization hits hard, not just for women but for everything in life. Our current lifestyle really burns out the reward systems in our brains, and our DNA did not evolve for this. We can limit ourselves and train to live a fulfilling life, but it’s incredibly hard.
/r/seduction13/05/24 12:07 AM
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It’s a double-edged sword. I was talking to a girl right who is in a relationship with her childhood sweetheart; they’ve been together for nearly 10 years. It seems some things are lacking, so she’s finding comfort in me. We spent a full day together while her boyfriend was out with his pals, and he had no idea she was with me. I’ve thought about what I’m doing, as well as what she’s doing, and I felt terrible. But she’s allowing it to happen and isn’t setting boundaries. However, I have decided…
/r/seduction13/05/24 12:04 AM
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People often forget that NYC attracts highly competitive individuals. Tell me you’ve never been to the city without actually saying you’ve never been there.
/r/seduction12/05/24 11:58 PM
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Meh, human beings are wired to always seek the better option, which is why our current civilization exists. If everyone were content with the status quo, we wouldn’t have the life we have now. Highly successful people are rarely satisfied with the status quo. They may be well aware of what they have and be grateful for it, but feelings of emptiness and the nonsense of everything can kick in once in a while, putting them in an unhappy state. In my opinion, this isn’t necessarily bad; you have to …
/r/seduction12/05/24 11:57 PM
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Yeah, we call them psychopaths.
/r/seduction12/05/24 11:54 PM
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If I ever marry one day, I should be connected with that girl on such a level where my needs are fulfilled, whether they’re intellectual or physical, and the same for her. If we decide to say ‘screw you, world’ and go off the grid, just to stimulate each other’s minds while being present, she should be the one. This is my standard; I wonder if it’s too high.
/r/seduction12/05/24 11:53 PM
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Girls appreciate a guy who can create a conversation based on banter. It’s not just about flirting with her, but also giving her space to flirt back. It takes skill and experience, though.
/r/seduction12/05/24 11:43 PM
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Damn, I met a girl at the city docks about two years ago. We chatted for a bit, and she was very sweet. She really made the neurons in my brain jump like crazy, something that hasn’t happened to me since then. I couldn’t get her number because my friend, who was suffering from sleep deprivation at the time, was dragging me away, and I was also trying to take care of him. I still wonder what could have happened if I had gotten her number. It seems like you’ve had a natural conversation like that;…
/r/seduction12/05/24 11:42 PM
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Pleasure does not equals happiness. You learned that, take it as a growth potential.
/r/seduction12/05/24 11:38 PM
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Damn, I miss Chelsea, very lovely place to go for a walk.
/r/seduction12/05/24 11:36 PM
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I don't know why you're being downvoted, you have a point.
/r/seduction03/05/24 06:12 PM
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What defines Normal? What majority of people are doing? Have you noticed the way society functions lately? Why do you think this sub exists? Uploading your personal life so that bunch of fucking strangers can see you shouldn't be the norm.
/r/seduction03/05/24 06:12 PM
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Exactly, I prefer to have a small social circle of friends. I check on them by message or in person if we live in the same city, once a month. My very close friends can have my attention whenever they want, and even if I’m busy, I’ll make time for them. For business purposes, I do that on LinkedIn. For other acquaintances, I check in when I need something from them, and they do the same. We have a transactional relationship that benefits both parties. Other than that, I can’t spend my time check…
/r/seduction03/05/24 06:10 PM
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It's a Canadian thing, could also be considered for the West Coast of the US. But Canadians are very passive aggressive, you will never know where you stand with them.
/r/seduction03/05/24 06:05 PM
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That makes too much sense, this could be explained by the way brain's cognitive system works. Our brains are wired to conserve cognitive energy. This means we naturally prefer familiar routines, habits, and thoughts over new and unfamiliar ones because they require less mental effort. For example, relying on established patterns of thinking or behavior can save us from the mental work of processing new information or learning new skills. Emotional Economy: Similarly, we tend to conserve emotiona…
/r/seduction30/04/24 06:36 PM
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This works?
/r/seduction29/04/24 09:31 PM
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It’s a challenge to encounter individuals who truly value personalities like mine. Being somewhat of an anomaly, it’s refreshing to meet someone like you who enhances our lives. Your understanding and empathy towards the intentions behind our actions are a rare gift. It’s comforting to know there are those who can see beyond societal norms and the ‘default programming’ that many adhere to. I hold a deep appreciation for people like you as well.
/r/seduction24/04/24 04:54 AM
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Hit the twisty roads with a sports car.
/r/seduction24/04/24 03:32 AM
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Your opinion holds value to you alone, and if that’s the conclusion you’ve drawn from a mere sentence of mine without truly knowing me, you’re entitled to it. However, professionalism is my guiding principle. I treat people with respect, yet that doesn’t preclude me from being forthright. I prefer to be straightforward, particularly with new acquaintances. P.S Just to clarify, when I said ‘no need,’ I was referring to skipping the restroom break. I would, however, like to conclude with a sentenc…
/r/seduction23/04/24 06:30 PM
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Naah, no need. They’re just strangers. We had our fun, and that’s it—no need to overthink these things. As long as you maintain professionalism, it’s all fine, in my opinion, we need to change the way we pussyfoot in our society, it's just not efficient.
/r/seduction23/04/24 04:28 PM
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Indeed, the notion of personal debt is non-existent; we owe nothing to anyone. This isn’t to suggest that we should treat others poorly—far from it. It’s about maintaining professionalism and moving forward without lingering on interactions.
/r/seduction23/04/24 04:18 PM
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Absolutely, escalation is crucial. Women often harbor profound fantasies, and it’s not uncommon for even those in relationships to indulge in vivid daydreams. This is evident from the films they enjoy, which can be quite telling. With the right progression and timing—following a delightful evening of dining, playful banter, and light-hearted teasing—a mere romantic melody playing softly in the background can resonate deeply. Add a touch of champagne and a gentle embrace around the waist, coupled…
/r/seduction23/04/24 04:15 PM
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This bro saving a whole generation of guys out here, lol, salute.
/r/seduction23/04/24 03:45 AM
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I got downvoted for saying what you're saying, lol.
/r/seduction22/04/24 07:21 PM
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Exactly, lol, bro moved into a new place and is still stuck.
/r/seduction22/04/24 05:40 PM
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Based, where you located at? Down for a beer? I'll pay, lol.
/r/seduction22/04/24 05:11 PM
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Exactly, I have a close female friend. We talk every 5 weeks over the phone for hours, and occasionally exchange long texts. Sometimes I respond to her on the same day, while other times it might take me around 3-4 days. She follows a similar pattern. We’re not in a formal relationship, and we don’t owe each other anything. So, we’re simply enjoying what we have without pushing boundaries or assuming roles like husband and wife.
/r/seduction22/04/24 04:32 PM
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She doesn’t owe you anything, and you don’t owe her anything. Ask yourself why you’re so invested so much in the first place. Why do you need to receive a message from her? And why do you desire validation so much from a girl you’ve only gone out with twice? Focus on your own life, as this suggests there are some real voids that need to be filled.
/r/seduction22/04/24 04:30 PM
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Your deciphering abilities is spectacular.
/r/seduction16/04/24 11:16 PM
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It’s like executing startup ideas: yes, you might hit big with your first idea, but that’s a very rare occurrence. Instead, keep pursuing your ideas persistently. When you do eventually succeed, take a step back and savor the fruits of your efforts. But finding a genuine human connection that enriches life is akin to discovering wealth—it’s a rare event but doable imo.
/r/seduction16/04/24 03:53 PM
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Move on to the next, ignore em.
/r/seduction16/04/24 02:02 PM
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My neck hurt continuously for like 3-4 after my last visit to a D&B event. So yeah, I can imagine why you’re backing off, haha.
/r/seduction16/04/24 02:00 PM
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I’m a huge fan of house, techno, drum and bass, and jungle music. Environments like these not only allow me to meet fun, like-minded girls but also help me expand my social circle. I believe the trick is to have fun in environments where you’re already enjoying yourself. And yeah, I dance like there’s no tomorrow! I’ve even had people approach me and ask for drugs, even though I was completely sober—haha, maybe that’s just my ADHD brain going ‘brrrrrrrrrrrr.’
/r/seduction15/04/24 05:00 PM
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Someone fucked tho that's for sure.
/r/seduction15/04/24 01:34 PM
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Yeah, that's like an escort service, wtf, lol.
/r/seduction15/04/24 12:59 AM
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Reddit veteran over there, not giving anything in order not to get doxed, meanwhile me deleting my account every 2 months because I revealed a lot, maybe I should start doing what you're doing, lol.
/r/seduction15/04/24 12:58 AM
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Fuck
/r/seduction15/04/24 12:57 AM
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Indeed, my friend and I were enjoying some tunes when I decided to play a track featuring a vocalist with a distinctly feminine touch. Surprisingly, she wasn’t a fan. So, I switched it up to a song with a similar rhythm but led by a male voice, and she was all for it. It’s as if her instincts sprang into action, sensing a rival for my attention, which might have felt threatened. I can’t help but wonder if there’s an unconscious, evolutionary mechanism at play here. It’s quite fascinating, isn’t …
/r/seduction15/04/24 12:44 AM
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Just like job applications, or executing start up ideas that will lead to success, can't hit the bullseye without throwing some darts.
/r/seduction14/04/24 10:54 PM
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Taking a moment to step back and observe who checks in on you can be quite revealing. It’s a meaningful gesture when someone reaches out to see how you’re doing. This simple act can help you discern who truly values your presence in their lives. Consider this: if you make it a point to connect with someone monthly, it’s reasonable to anticipate a response by the fifth week. Their reply is more than just courtesy; it indicates they’ve been thinking of you. People often experience shifts in their …
/r/seduction14/04/24 10:18 PM
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Exactly, you gotta show the tip of the iceberg first.
/r/seduction14/04/24 10:17 PM
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Actions speak louder than words.
/r/seduction13/04/24 11:55 PM
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You're right, lol, actions always speak louder than words.
/r/seduction13/04/24 06:39 PM
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You literally confirmed his thoughts actually, lol, anyways haha, legit made me chuckle.
/r/seduction13/04/24 05:39 PM
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Interestingly, a woman once shared with me that when a man expresses his love for her, she’s open to giving him a chance. Over time, she might develop feelings and respond in kind. I’m not sure if she was hinting at something or just speaking platonically, but it seems there are women who operate like this. However, I’m of the opinion that such an approach may not reflect a mature mindset. After all, nobody is obligated to reciprocate feelings.
/r/seduction13/04/24 05:38 PM
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Based, some good analytical thinking behind those words with strong emotional intelligence, would love to have a pint of Guinness with you.
/r/seduction13/04/24 05:33 PM
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Man, maintaining long-term relationships can be tricky, right? If I’m really into someone, I make it a point to dedicate my time to them. To me, time is the most precious gift I can offer, especially if I see them as a potential life partner. But what’s the deal—are we supposed to just pussyfoot around until women decide their biological clocks are ticking and it’s time for kids so they come to us?? Lol
/r/seduction13/04/24 05:25 PM
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Why this is so true, aaaaah.
/r/seduction13/04/24 05:23 PM
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I had a pretty wild encounter at a bar once. I was visiting a major city by myself and decided to hit up a bar. There was this woman sitting at the far right end of the bar counter. Out of the blue, she moved over to sit beside me. I hadn’t even initiated a conversation, but she leaned in with her body like her bare back was touching my arms and started chatting with me, and one thing led to another. Women can be quite unpredictable, it’s hilarious, lmao. More recently, I was texting with someon…
/r/seduction13/04/24 05:19 PM
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In my view, complimenting a woman solely on her appearance can be somewhat misguided, especially if you’re not particularly confident in your own looks. Attractive women often receive such compliments, which may lead them to perceive you as someone who is only interested in their physical attributes and find you boring because you're just one of those guys that compliments her looks and approaches based only on that, I mean they already know we're approaching them for their looks but not admitti…
/r/seduction13/04/24 05:12 PM
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Indeed, pursuing personal goals can lead to unexpected benefits, such as meeting potential partners. For instance, if you aim to become an excellent swimmer, you would join swimming clubs and train regularly. This not only improves your skills but also expands your social circle. Such environments provide opportunities to connect with others who share similar interests. While this example focuses on swimming, countless other scenarios could illustrate the same point. It’s essential to recognize …
/r/seduction08/04/24 12:35 AM
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This is so fucking stupid, yikes, do girls like her actually exist? And they probably walk by when I'm out having fun? God, am I breathing the same air with those creatures? Why people are like this man, why tag other people along and not be direct, I swear some people have nothing worthy going on in their lives and they just create drama out of thin air to keep themselves occupied, jesus fucking christ.
/r/seduction07/04/24 04:13 AM
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That's so good, I'm jealous, any chance you're looking for partners in crime?
/r/seduction05/04/24 02:37 PM
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How does it feel to live off of blood diamond money?
/r/seduction04/04/24 06:24 PM
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"Hey there!! Your skin looks radiant in your picture, and it’s made me curious. Have you adopted a particular facial care routine that’s enhanced your skin’s appearance? If so what are you using? I wanna surprise my girlfriend!!!"
/r/seduction04/04/24 06:15 PM
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he's with the seagulls
/r/seduction02/04/24 07:11 PM
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he's dancing with 72 muslim virgin angels.
/r/seduction02/04/24 03:33 AM
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lol
/r/seduction02/04/24 03:33 AM
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how old are you, lol, wtf
/r/seduction02/04/24 02:58 AM
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You're on the backburner, GTFO ASAP!!!
/r/seduction02/04/24 02:53 AM
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lol
/r/seduction02/04/24 02:52 AM
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Absolutely, dude. If there aren’t any complicated things like family ties or work stuff in the way, then why not go for it? If it all works out, you’ll end up with an awesome girlfriend to have a great time with. If not, but she’s still cool to hang out, then you’ve got someone to enjoy life with while you keep an eye out for something more serious. And if she’s not into it and decides to bail, no sweat—just move on to meeting other girls. Nobody’s irreplaceable, right? Life’s too short, so just…
/r/seduction02/04/24 02:49 AM
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Is there really anything to lose by being upfront? If you tell her you’re interested in dating and want to see where things could go once you label what’s between you, what’s the worst that could happen? Are there complicated dynamics like family friendships or work relationships that could make things tricky?
/r/seduction02/04/24 02:47 AM
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I really don't understand this kind of girls, as bros, we should just stop giving them attention, there are really sweet girls out there that knows how to COMMUNICATE.
/r/seduction02/04/24 02:42 AM
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Totally, from what I’ve seen, if a girl hits you up at the end of the week to set up a date or a video chat, chances are she’s already had her fill of the usual stuff and already has a dick to jump on and sees you as a fresh thrill, haha. Especially if you’re the interesting type, she’ll pull out all the stops to keep you guessing—‘Are we flirting, or are we just friends?’ It’s like you’re her personal energy drink. And you know what? If you’ve got that charm that at least makes her keep you in …
/r/seduction02/04/24 02:41 AM
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Does she have a BF?
/r/seduction02/04/24 02:36 AM
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I recently had an amusing exchange with a friend where the conversation took a playful turn. We shared a few laughs and the topic shifted to whimsical ‘what-ifs.’ My friend expressed a desire for more frequent conversations, perhaps even daily, to share thoughts and seek advice. Despite the light-hearted nature of our chat, I missed the cue to move our discussions to a call, which led to an unexpected pause in our communication. Even though she wanted to talk a lot just because I didn't initiate…
/r/seduction02/04/24 02:33 AM
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Yeah, man, I get you. Why not put in the work to boost your own value, right? Live life to the fullest no matter what gets thrown your way. And doing it with someone special who’s got your back makes it all even better. Plus, let’s be real, the benefits of a good relationship while hustling, like stress-busting hookups, are totally worth it, haha.
/r/seduction02/04/24 02:25 AM
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For sure, dude. It’s like, if both our fams aren’t rolling in dough, and we hustle a bit, we could totally level up our lives. Making bank on something you don’t loathe is doable—you don’t have to be head over heels for it, just not hating it is cool enough. And I’m all in, bro, ready to pave the way for my other half to hit that goal.
/r/seduction02/04/24 02:23 AM
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Totally with you, bro. Gotta look at the big picture, you know? If a girl’s hustling for her own cash, it’s all good. It’s all about that grind and knowing what she’s after in life. Plus, just 'cause she’s all about her career doesn’t mean she can’t be all heart too. A dude who’s got game and a touch of charm can totally vibe with her softer side, which is pretty much what every girl’s looking for. They wanna feel free to be real and open up. From what I’ve seen, there are some real cuties out t…
/r/seduction02/04/24 02:20 AM
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People often overlook the fact that even if they possess the charm of Brad Pitt, they’ll remain single if they don’t immerse themselves in social environments where potential partners are present. It’s essential to treat socializing as a full-time endeavor. Ultimately, the effort is worthwhile. As social creatures inherently driven to connect, we may not all choose to reproduce, but engaging in intimate relationships and feeling validated by another person can be fulfilling. Such connections can…
/r/seduction01/04/24 03:53 PM
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That's so good. Which city are you located in? Chicago, Toronto, NYC?
/r/seduction01/04/24 03:45 PM
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I moved away from my family at 18, lol, it is what it is.
/r/seduction31/03/24 11:36 PM
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How long will this arrangement last? Have you looked into the cost of Airbnb or hotels in Toronto? Meeting once or twice a month might be manageable, but if the relationship becomes more serious and you desire daily intimacy, it could become impractical and costly. It may not be the best advice to rely on such temporary accommodations for frequent visits.
/r/seduction31/03/24 11:29 PM
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Adapt or die alone, my man killing it here, lol.
/r/seduction31/03/24 11:29 PM
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Hotels can really break the bank. While using a car might be an option, it’s not feasible every time. The best strategy might be to find a reliable roommate and increase social activities. It seems there’s no other way around it!
/r/seduction31/03/24 11:28 PM
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It’s inspiring to see someone bringing hope to those living in Toronto. It seems like every engaging and charming woman I encounter is already in a relationship. Nonetheless, this post is a breath of fresh air.
/r/seduction31/03/24 11:26 PM
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Doing that 4 times in a month in a city like Toronto would be very expensive, might as well rent a place, lol.
/r/seduction31/03/24 11:22 PM
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Also in Toronto and this hits home, what industry are you in?
/r/seduction31/03/24 11:21 PM
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Could you provide more details? Do you work in the industry, or were you simply intrigued and decided to attend the event? It seems that while there, you managed to network and exchange contact information. It’s often said that regardless of their relationship status, many women appreciate attention from men. If a man can captivate them, making time seem to stand still, they’re likely to want to keep him within their social circle. That explains your success. However, I’m curious, what initially…
/r/seduction31/03/24 11:19 PM
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