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I don't think it's a "good look" for cis women to try and gatekeep femininity for trans women and shout us down to tell us what our motives and values are. Get off your high horse. What? because you got too much unwanted attention I can't enjoy any, or make jokes about it? Even when I'm legit talking about flirting and have never slept with a man? "MuSt Be A fEtIsH!!" You're ridiculous. I tried being a man for a long time, wasn't for me. You should listen to anyone when they tell you who they ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:50 PM
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Sounds like you have a lot of preconceived ideas about trans people, and you're taking something I said in kindness and somewhat flippantly and twisting it to fit that narrative rather than simply listening when I opened up a bit more about my experience. It's okay for everyone to be who they are and express themselves. I am cute and quirky, and sometimes I enjoy the attention that brings, but I don't give chasers the time of day. I'm just me, if you judge a whole group based on an individual th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:27 PM
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lol it was very tongue in cheek, just commiserating with the guy. I have practically zero sex drive on HRT and my transition really had nothing to do with my sexuality or kinks. It is sometimes flattering and cute now having guys make the advances, is all... Unless they are weirdos about it, which sadly they often are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:57 PM
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I was a total Red Pilled family man with the trad wife and kids before RP even existed. Met her at our private Christian High school, I owned a biz, she was the homemaker, whole nine yards. I'm a trans lesbian (maybe bi idk) art student with purple hair now :3
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:47 PM
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I felt like a teddy bear shaped ATM at times when I was a guy, being a sex object is honestly a nice change of pace :P
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:30 PM
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Nope, I don't think of it in those terms at all. I don't think it's immoral, just kinda dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:54 AM
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Stop using terms like SMV to raise whatever SMV is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:23 AM
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mhmm
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 02:15 AM
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I just find RP takes hilarious, that's why I'm here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 10:46 PM
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In my 40's and that is entirely opposite of my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:53 PM
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Are people REALLY thinking "from an evolutionary perspective, my/my partner's body is/is not ideal for child creation..." ? Because that seems really weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 12:28 PM
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Then don't enter a marriage contract, and maybe get a vasectomy if you're that worried about being on the hook for a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 12:51 AM
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I've been the breadwinner and I've been the one earning less in a relationship, but I can't answer your question because I never gave two shits what anyone thought of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 10:36 PM
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I'm always cautious. I might get scared of a man depending on the situation, but I don't feel fearful of men in general regardless of their age. As far as innocence I feel like it rarely lasts past adolescence.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 10:34 PM
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That makes absolutely no sense whatsoever. (Edit:) Because: Generalization and Stereotyping: OP assumes that women's unwillingness to be adventurous in bed is a widespread issue. Relationships and sexual preferences are highly individual. Making blanket statements about all women or even most women oversimplifies the complexity of sexual dynamics in relationships. Blaming Women: OP places the blame for men's porn use solely on women, suggesting that if women were more adventurous or accommodatin…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:11 PM
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Lesbian women would be more marginalized so less well off socioeconomically on average, so crime rate is higher. It's not that deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:10 PM
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and yet they always seem to be missing something... like the point that flew right by ya - basically they have no problems meeting women, they tend to have a hard time keeping women, or keeping them well. I'm a LTR gal so it's a turn off for me, and their wives too apparently. No judgement on girls looking for a fuckboy until they meet mr right, or guys that would rather spin plates, long as they are up front about it. Idk a lot of RP dudes I wanna ask (and sometimes do) if they even like women …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:21 AM
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I've spoken to some RP guys in depth privately and they all said basically that they had no trouble getting laid once they got fit and looksmaxxed or w/e, but were still lonely and hadn't found love or tradwife. I've also spoken to a number of RP guys who had a loving wife but still felt they were missing the sexy fun times and were looking to cheat... Regardless of what they are missing they usually take no accountability and blame their wives/exes/women at large, and it's a big turnoff lmao. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 01:15 AM
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TRP is PUA with a fresh coat of paint, and they use incels as a stick to the getting laid carrot they use to sell courses. It's a grift, they teach stuff that instills attitudes and beliefs that make their marks repellant to women, dooming them to a weird kind of emotional inceldom where they have no trouble getting dates or maybe even spinning plates, but nobody wants to be their housewife, have their babies and cook their dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 01:00 AM
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oh come off it, it's widely known that incel groups are steeped in TRP "ideology." Isn't that a core concept? That only the alpha chad sigmas get the girls so that's why you need to hit the gym? This is that logical inconsistency we're talkin about lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 04:49 PM
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If that's true it seems fair, I feel like RP guys often misrepresent TRP. Maybe that's because it's not really a coherent ideology so much as a hodge podge of self help, fitness, and quotes from stoics mixed into some far right Christian Nationalism so as to hide the bitter incely flavor of that bullshit with the few good truthy nuggets?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 04:43 PM
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Your post misses a crucial point: attention and dating opportunities do not equate to privilege if the overall experience is fraught with discomfort and negativity. Women may get approached more often, but the quality and safety of these interactions are significant concerns.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 11:41 AM
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Yeah that's the grift. Take a pound of fitness, season with stoicism, a dash of douchebag, pinch of patriarchy, and smother with extra entitlement. Get baked for 2-3 hours while watching Joe Rogan, viola! Now you can get laid but will repulse any woman once you open your mouth about the Roman Empire or things Hitler got right, actually. Be sure to buy next month's installment of Man Up University, where we kick each other in the balls between sets until our emotions are obliterated and we ascend…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 08:32 PM
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He's 6'3" and considered handsome yea lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 12:50 AM
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My parents met in a parking lot, my dad stole my mom's parking space and she flipped him off, then he apologized and asked if he could make it up to her by buying her dinner lol. I guess "you miss 100% of the shots you don't take," still stands but isn't all that specific or helpful for today's dating scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 09:01 PM
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depends which markers of masculinity I spose. Several of my bi friends are married to nerdy (D&D, cosplay, Marvel/Star Wars) yet masculine (muscular, bearded, outdoorsy) dudes. The one really non-conventional guy in the group dating a bi girl is bald, bearded, muscly and hairy... He just likes to wear dresses and makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:00 PM
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The bro doth protest too much, methinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:55 PM
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https://zawn.substack.com/p/does-the-red-pill-guy-get-the-girl
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 05:19 PM
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There's that nice sandy foundation of libertarianism, which itself is just an invitation for a patriarch's boot on your neck. Double-plus-good brother. Wear your fake masculinity and call it feminism. Like do you guys hear yourselves? No child support? No regulations? No government so no public services? Like really? That's your ideal society? Child labor and marriage, all good? No budget for public roads, we can all just mad max it I spose.. And that is one way to reduce healthcare costs, we ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:18 PM
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The radical feminist everyone. Y'all need Jesus Black Sabbath.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 11:54 AM
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No one is guaranteed to uphold anything, go far enough into any RP word salad and you find it's all sitting on sand. It's all so incredibly unmanly too, failing to take accountability for your actions personally by broadly blaming women's lib for your problems. El oh el.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 10:58 AM
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No wonder red pill = red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 10:43 AM
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speaking for myself I really do care what guys are feeling, when I ask them they usually tell me what they think instead lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 07:02 PM
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The red pill container thing is interesting, reminds me of Cooper in Mad Men "A man is whatever room he is in." idk about the conclusions you draw from it, though. I see men typically being more likely to "uphold the morality of elites regardless of consequences," and that's pretty much what red pill looks like to me. The study seems suspect. Of course people are influenced by their friends but all the divorces I've been near to including my own were about the circumstances of the marriage. If a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:56 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 12:00 PM
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the default was 50/50 in my case because I worked from home. The only reason women usually get full custody is they are usually working less or not at all in order to care for the kids. Family court cares about the best interest of the child, it gives basically 0 fucks about either parent. Who gets custody or more sympathy from the judge comes down to the individuals and their individual circumstances. Who pays what is determined by a spreadsheet. Source: married 10yrs, 3 kids, she never worked,…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 11:57 AM
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I'll take cognitive dissonance for $400, Alex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 11:43 AM
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Just maybe women actually do have bigger problems rn, being under direct attack by the GQP/MAGAt morons forcing girls to carry their rapist's babies to term, forcing the wage gap wider, fucking with coverage for BC... And men are more likely to be in a position to do something about it so idk, go to therapy if the mean girl man hating memes get to you. That's not what we should be focused on rn, we need all hands on deck to r/Defeat_Project_2025
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 09:00 PM
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Yeah I was pretty tongue in cheek with the implied "man up" in my first comment. The red pill crowd is largely right wing, misogynistic to the max, and pushing a fucked up version of their religion down all our throats, to all of our detriment. I like to remind guys sometimes that the patriarchy and rigid rules and regressive social norms hurt them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 08:48 PM
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Aha! Now you see the violence inherent in the system. This new battle of the sexes bullshit is ultimately a pointless distraction. It's about class and always has been.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 08:36 PM
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not to men maybe... lmfaooo see what I did there?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 08:23 PM
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We make great partners, but are too socially inept to court each other so it's up to normies to find us.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:44 PM
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All very logicool bro, but I used to be a man. The misandry isn't justified but it is understandable. It's equally understandable the way some men act, having felt what testosterone is like, but likewise that doesn't justify the behavior of the men being misogynistic. Also women are less likely to be violent in their man hating, so if you don't like it the manly thing to do would be not take it personal, just gnore it and do your own thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:43 PM
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