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Long, nicely shaped nails make hands look more feminine. As a general rule, Feminine things are almost never practical with the exception of adding to ones SMV. I don’t wear fake nails, but I keep mine as long as I can and nicely shaped w a gel mani. It’s not uncomfortable but it does limit me during activities such as rock climbing and Olympic lifting. (Or in your case, guitar) Men aren’t typically observant enough to have an opinion on pretty nails per se, but they will perceive you to be more…
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 09:35 PM
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It’s a type of polish and it feels exactly the same. It doesn’t chip as easily but needs to be soaked off w acetone.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 04:46 PM
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On the topic of #1 I’d also prescribe some exercise / lifting. It will boost your appetite and put those extra cals toward some sexy, feminine muscles!
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 04:12 PM
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Hm.... I’ve always been pretty girly and into fitness. I do think RPW motivates me to stick to the “grind” of self improvement more completely. Things like diet, sleep hygiene, school/work routines are easier to keep up when you have a likeminded, positive, support group to keep you focused.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 03:58 PM
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No one is in disagreement, here. Let the granola-loving women have their granola jokes!
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 02:49 PM
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If I know u/zegiknie, she was literally just taking an opportunity to flex on her feminine granola-making skills. Sounds delicious!!!!
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 02:12 PM
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I love this but “the kinda shit I take a picture of and put an instragram” got. Me. Lmao.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 02:08 PM
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I feel so much more feminine in turtle neck sweaters or shirts rather than crew necks. Drape a delicate necklace over that and it’s very pretty in a sophisticated way. leather or shearling gloves instead of knitted/sporty are very demure. I like a little heel on my boots as long as there is no snow. A winter jacket with a longer silhouette looks less sporty and will make you look longer. Jackets that hit below the knee are actually very trendy right now and they’re very warm! A heavy jacket that…
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 02:01 PM
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Just a quick tip but for make-up, find a beauty guru on YouTube of a similar age and skin tone / hair color and watch their tutorials. Not only do they give good beauty advice, they tend to be very feminine so if you lack feminine friends it can be very inspiring. Also when getting my hair cut, I bring in pictures featuring models w a similar color and texture as mine (similar hair colors tend to be a similar texture but not always). It makes it easier for the stylist to give me something as clo…
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 01:26 PM
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No I get it, it’s just not hard For Me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 01:20 PM
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That’s fine, live and let live.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 12:37 AM
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As it should!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 06:29 PM
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Lots of women are irrational narcissists. As are men. It’s wishful thinking to assume otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 04:55 PM
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I guess we should all stay away from psychotic women :p
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 02:11 PM
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Gen z, the body of an 18 yr old, the cynicism of a 30 yr old cat lady. Thanks feminism!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 01:53 PM
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how could anyone blame a girl for a dumbass who waits three whole years.... that’s rejection, bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 01:50 PM
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No (rational) women do this. Red pill women who keep n-counts low won’t waste pussy on a man they’re not into. Everyone waits. Blue pill women fuck when they wanna fuck. No one waits. Psychotic women are the only ones who will conflate the two to boost their egos and degrade their partners and you should stay away from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 01:47 PM
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Women who attach easily will no longer perceive compatibility objectively after they have sex, especially w an attractive man who has the “halo effect” on his side. She will want to love him. Women who are self aware about this and disciplined will do their best to hold this off so they can asses compatibility and save both parties some grief. Self awareness, delaying gratification and discipline are positive qualities in an potential LTR. I’d also like to add that many mature women (like, 25+) …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 01:21 PM
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In the cases where this is true men could easily mitigate this power imbalance by: Putting effort into being more attractive Putting effort into touching the clitoris.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 01:00 PM
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A strong willed woman will hold off longer than a weak one despite the level of attraction. Assuming the man wants a real relationship, isn’t a certain amount of resolve in a woman important for making sure she won’t cheat on him with the next hot piece?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 12:48 PM
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I wouldn’t really care if I’d had sex with an anti vaxxer, I’d just fix the problem (dump him) and move on like I do with any other honest mistake. I don’t take on the qualities of people I have sex w just because I’m a woman. I can grow attached but I’m still my own person. I’m not “stained” and it’s not heavy if you don’t carry it. Anyone who cant see who you are through your past mistakes is not worth dating and most of us have committed acts (some mistakes some not) much worse than be vulner…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 12:38 PM
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imo sex is a fast track to knowing a lot of things about him. If he respects me, if he’s attentive, if he’s hygienic, if we have chemistry....lots of qualities I vet for. I don’t really want to spend months figuring that shit out while he’s on his “best behavior” to get some pussy. My time is a much more valuable resource than some purity myth (& its never been a deal breaker w the men I date). Personally, I don’t attach easily and heartbreak doesn’t scare me. I use protection and have never had…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 03:30 AM
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lol dignity
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 03:18 AM
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I don’t think it’s worse than any other white lie tbh but lies do have a way of making even the most devoted partners feel very alone in their relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 12:58 AM
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I’m not saying lying is right, Im not saying sleeping around is right. I’m saying the current attitude encourages lying about it because the consequences are for the most part, exclusively positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 12:49 AM
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women would lie less if men wouldn’t arbitrarily judge something they experience basically no detectible or even mildly predictable effects from
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 12:38 AM
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honestly nothing I do w my captain ever feels degrading because he’s amazing like that :) feel lucky that way
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/19 12:34 AM
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If I liked him a lot and his reasons I’d cream myself and If I didn’t I’d maybe get bored after awhile
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 10:15 PM
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Meow! 💄
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/19 08:46 PM
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I don’t go both ways ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 01:31 AM
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It was extremely rude of him and you have a right to feel hurt! Your bfs brother is a prick, but if you’re not around him much it’s better to just let him grow out of it. There’s nothing wrong w telling your BF you’d rather not hang around him if he’s going to upset you. (Edit: Maybe not immediately but if he keeps saying out of pocket things regularly.) Less drama, which everyone wants.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/19 12:55 AM
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He thought he was being rude to his brother which is totally normal because brothers are absolute numb nuts to each other. Now that they’re adults and both in committed relationships, making immature jokes is one way to feel like they’re not losing their carefree youth/freedom. He probably didn’t realize it would hurt you because 1. It was “a joke” and 2. it wasn’t meant for you, therefore you “shouldn’t” be offended. (I know, preposterous...) Your BF didn’t stand up for you because it would hav…
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/19 12:46 AM
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I agree that “how hold fighting stick” is a pretty condescending way of referring to the women who devote their lives to being good people, but I don’t think there’s anything wrong with simplicity. Don’t feel the need to overcomplicate RPW just because someone on another subreddit made a rude remark. Not surprisingly, this subreddit is the soft place to land in the Reddit-RP landscape. I love that this is a positive, reassuring place. I’d hate for that to go away so that we can “be more like the…
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/19 01:24 PM
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Ugh, yes, that would indeed qualify as unethical. Once again, Ethical non monogamy is predicated on BOTH parties being upfront about their intentions so that both have the opportunity to make an informed decision about what they are about to engage in. That INCLUDES whether or not a relationship will be assumed after sex.....though a NON IDIOT could infer that a woman who explicitly identifies as “non-monogamous” is not looking for an exclusive relationship in the first place. Ok I’m actually go…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 12:57 AM
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Ok let me spell it out for you - If you want to have casual sex it is both savvy and ethical to be upfront about that BEFOREHAND. it is called covering dat ass! You see this thing called feminism happened, so whether you like it or not, casual sex poses a risk for you too, now, via #metoo. If you don’t like it, tough titties. You’re being forced by feminists to treat women ethically because clearly without it you wouldn’t bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 12:39 AM
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You’re not obligated, dude. It’s just smart. Which u r not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 12:14 AM
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All this melodrama because you don’t want to tell a girl before you fuck her that you don’t want a relationship... ......Okay. You’ve thoroughly emasculated yourself. Please stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 12:03 AM
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I agree that lifting is good and sexy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 11:50 PM
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Well a hundred people attend the party every month half of them are men and the total membership is in the thousands. I’ve been to 5 and all the men are LAMES and they have the time of their lives.... The US is going sex positive blue pill and it’s my belief that the men who are getting in on this early are getting the spoils. SJW girls wanna live out their porno fantasies so they can be #slutever but only wanna do it in “feminist” settings they can tweet to their friends about and the Chads hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 11:45 PM
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lmao bro you’re a dumbass
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 11:30 PM
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Have fun getting me too’d :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 11:26 PM
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Right, and in a partnership in which both parties subscribe to ethical non monogamy, the woman does not expect a relationship after having casual sex either. I am not advocating any covert contracts, which is what TRP men take advantage of in order to plate women, undermining their agency. Ethical non monogamy is an explicit contract, and as I explained, it’s one that allows you to have a lot more fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 11:21 PM
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I’m not a feminist so I actually don’t subscribe to blindly assuming all women have agency 100% of the time when in the company of the bigger stronger and less emotionally vulnerable sex. However, what I see in TRP specifically is a calculated targeting of vulnerable women, or “don’t tell a plate she’s a plate” which is lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 11:09 PM
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If you think that tricking drunk girls into ONS and then ghosting is mysterious and exciting then yes, I do disparage that. It’s mean. Some of us get our kicks by spitroasting a girl w purple hair while another one plays with herself while waiting her turn. No one is trashed, no one cries after. To each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 10:54 PM
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Yes, ethical non monogamy is predicated on the idea that each party is honest about their intent. It also saves you a lot of hassle because 1. No one is buying anyone dinner 2. No one assumes commitment. Joining a “club” for non monogamous people is not the only ethical way to get laid, the question posed implies that OP wants to get A LOT of sex QUICKLY, and joining a community will do just that. And to address your last point, If you “can get casual sex” already and find that exciting, why eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 10:39 PM
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Um yeah I’d recommend anyone who wants to sleep around do it ethically... in the case of a woman I would stress it even more because those spaces are designed to be safer for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 10:19 PM
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I honestly wish it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 10:06 PM
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I second this. If you are even a mildly good looking man you will get a double blowjob in a matter of months. Edit: I know a guy who has had sex w over a 120 women in the past 2 years. He’s a dog walker, about 5’4”, a ginger, has a committed submissive GF and wears cargo shorts and Abercrombie fierce cologne. He hosts trivia at a monthly orgy attended by over a 100 people. The real pill is that deep blue pill gets nerds heeeeeellllllaaaa laid because perfectly good looking women are dying to out…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 09:14 PM
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join an ethically non monogamous community. if that’s “too lame” for you, you’re being slutty for the wrong reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 09:04 PM
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This thread is cute and makes me happy
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/19 07:32 PM
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I agree you don’t. I’m simply offering supporting evidence... I hope you feel smart for pointing this out, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 03:37 PM
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Oh Yay more manipulative men.... ! What a wonderful selection I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 02:59 PM
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I agree the term father figure is a little icky and incestuous but I’ll take a father over a child as my partner any day of the week.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 02:13 PM
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I agree. This is why the women at RPW often advise against reading TRP or dating TRP men. RP theory is great. But even TRP will concede that constant redditing is the opposite of RP masculinity. And what self respecting woman (the kind who watches her n-count etc) can trust a man who gloats about taking advantage of broken women so he can feel “abundance” That’s pitiful and repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 02:00 PM
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RISD students aren’t admitted or held to any standard based on their intelligence. If you had name dropped literally any other school I wouldn’t have said anything because yes I am petty. There are hot girls at Brown and they are ditsy and mostly sheltered by vastly privileged upbringings (like RISD) but admittedly academically talented.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 02:35 AM
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when your dad tells you to clean your shit he’s teaching you to be a man. when your mom tells you, she’s a naggy bitch. (And emasculating you)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 10:07 PM
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especially if you live in a rental, which many couples do. All these tasks are handled by the landlord.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 08:54 PM
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You know a handful of RISD girls and I know at least a hundred, pretty well. Hot women are typically dumb because they’re allowed to be, and RISD is no exception because students are held to a lower academic standard than community college.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 07:25 PM
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RISD is an atypically expensive school offering very little in the way of scholarships and aid. Tuition alone is over 30k. Art supplies are notoriously costly. It adds up. Most graduates move to cities w extremely high cost of living (NY / LA) for the art scene that require 2 jobs WITHOUT student loans or the cost of renting a studio to make actual art in. Could you work yourself to death to accommodate all this? I mean, sure.... but I wouldn’t call it smart. EDIT: and I haven’t even started on …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 06:57 PM
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Full time waitressing, barista, or min wage art handling or PA assistant (jobs that don’t require a degree) are 100% the rule unless you’re an animator, architect or designer... those girls aren’t the ones people refer to when they talk about hot RISD girls, though. The smart hot ones do sex work. Going 100s of thousands of dollars into debt so you can learn to paint simply is not smart. Not sure how you can argue w that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 06:35 PM
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lmao screeching about How Hideous another woman is to anyone who will listen is exactly what I’d consider cunty womanese but to each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 05:46 PM
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I think most men who value STEM intelligence would consider women who graduate from a school with no math or science courses to be pretty dumb. And Plenty of RISD girls go on to be strippers and waitresses.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 05:45 PM
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you repeating over and over on this post that Amy is hideous is starting to make you look insecure. Are you upset that a woman uglier than you could possibly be “unfairly” construed as more attractive? Because that is how you are coming across.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 05:25 PM
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RISD girls are dumb as hell, FYI.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 05:08 PM
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Oh my god you’re not a scientist you have no authority to make these claims also why do you care.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 01:38 PM
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Female, and no. Sexual compatibility is important to me. I also don’t think you really know a man until you have sex with him.... the nicest person in the world is a man who hasn’t, but wants to fuck you. If he’s still kind and interested in you afterward, that’s an actually good guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 11:29 PM
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stop being silly and ask him yourself. No don’t say “why did you date such a hag” say, “so, what did you like about _____, she doesn’t seem like your usual type?” not only will you discover the actual truth, you will be getting to know HIM and what he values as well! much better than agonizing over the assessments of strangers, imo.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/19 10:29 PM
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Why is whiteness considered beautiful even to those who have never seen one in real life? What factors contribute to white people being wealthier on the whole? And since you seem to acknowledge the existence of white Privilege, how is that privilege created? Through the oppression of others or simple biological superiority? Answer those questions before lecturing me any further. And please stop insulting me it has yet to prove anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 09:27 PM
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The examples you posited point to many of the effects of racism without bothering to understand the motivations. More over, using generalizations based on race to determine how you perceive and treat individuals you do not know is still racism, regardless of how factual those observations may be on a wider scale. aaand That’s the extent of my brain usage for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 07:35 PM
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A lot of people, men and women included, do! People who prioritize ego over compromise /growth do not make good partners.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/19 06:01 PM
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Yes please make a reading list and post it here thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/19 04:50 PM
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Your inability to acknowledge the validity of every other woman’s advice in this thread but your own is blue pilling me. You are actively trying to blue pill OP. Please stop.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/19 04:43 PM
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Sorry I’m RP so “wild women” are the exceptions, not the rule. Take it from me, I am one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 04:40 PM
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Read literally any other comment on this post.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/19 04:38 PM
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.... the fact that this awful “advice” came from an RP man has me stunned. You’re advising her to embody everything RP hates about women.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/19 04:12 PM
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Do you have girl friends? First thing, text them. Ask for help. A real friend will come to your house and help you clean and get your shit together.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/19 03:44 PM
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Hey! I’ve been pretty wild too. There are wild high value men out there. Find one :) For me, the easiest way to do this was to be frank from day 1. Your past actions have consequences and that means your selection is justifiably limited. That’s not an excuse to manipulate people or lie to them so you can have your cake (sleep around) and eat it too (marry a trad). You’ll get a lot of rejections. That’s life.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/19 03:20 PM
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Finally a smart person
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 03:11 PM
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Gay men hook up constantly and compulsively. Lesbians move in on the second date. Case closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 02:56 PM
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Personally I think both women and men have embraced Individualism and Narcissism to the point where they are all quite cynical about the value anyone brings them. Technology can for the most part get both men’s (ex: sexual / porn) and women’s (emotional validation / social media) needs met on a routine basis. Women and men can protect and provide for themselves and even bear and raise children without the opposite sex. The only need that can’t be replaced is the actual act of sex, and this is wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 02:54 PM
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This is racism, you just don’t mind being racist. Own it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 02:25 PM
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I completely agree
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 02:13 PM
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It just wasn’t sorry lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 02:09 PM
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According to RP marriage isn’t good for men, they don’t want to marry us in the first place. They can get pussy from women who ride the CC. Therefore there shouldn’t be a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 01:59 PM
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I didn’t say it was “correct” it’s not productive to place blame on them, though. They want to get married they just have no idea how and there’s not much media incentive to convince them to stop CCing because a dating scene full of men and women who want to get laid and can’t commit is good for business.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 01:55 PM
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You really think no 20 year old women are singing / relating to one of Beyoncé’s most popular songs because you called it overrated? Clearly there is no point in talking to someone so incapable of seeing outside their own ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 01:14 PM
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One thing I didn’t realize was a deal breaker was a man who doesn’t get defensive and throw a fit when you point out that he’s wrong. If he’s an engineer and I’m a school teacher and I share my opinion on early childhood education, he shouldn’t steam roll it with uninformed opinions just because he has “a smart person job” I date nerds so I’ve encountered this a lot. I have to run circles around them logically in an argument for my expertise to be trusted in a subject he has no experience or int…
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/19 12:48 PM
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You could have easily switched the genders in this entire post and it would still be 100% true. AFAIK young men have been encouraged to “sew their wild oats” and “play the field” since the beginning the time. Modern women mimic this behavior as a defense mechanism against rejection and to earn men’s respect. But it still isn’t even entirely the norm....Where is the famous male pop star singing “if you like it then you should have put a ring on it” 1000 times while every man in the club sings alo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 12:23 PM
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I don’t really see the point of this exercise, to explain how to apologize and own up to mistakes in an RP fashion? It’s clear that the speaker is in the wrong in every example.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/19 04:13 PM
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The female imperative isn’t just to bear their own children. It’s to nurture in general. Older women who are no longer fertile were still traditionally expected to look after children in their communities up until recently. (And still do in other countries) You could adopt. You could be a godparent. You could be a volunteer mentor with children or adults. Volunteer with animals or in a community garden. Share your wisdom! Edit: realizing now you asked specifically in the context of finding a mar…
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/19 12:28 PM
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lol savage
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/19 12:21 PM
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That’s literally never how racism has worked.... And while you could make a case for white people preferring white women as garden variety xenophobia, a natural preference for white women across all races has to be motivated by something.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 12:07 PM
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“The perception that Asian men don’t treat women well” .... any asian man will tell you this is a perfect example of racism against him. It doesn’t really matter how much truth their is to a racial bias. If you’re relying on it to make preemptive judgements about individual people, that is racist. It’s not the worst type of racism, Sure. But call a spade a spade.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 11:57 AM
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I was being facetious. It's called racially motivated prejudice. Aka Racism.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 01:39 AM
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she's just salty cause she's white and she wants to believe her night cream actually does anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 01:37 AM
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Hm, what is that thing called when people prefer white people over every other race for almost no logical reason.... I wonder...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 01:24 AM
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Yeah and of course the people who are paid to look hot will invest a lot more effort and money to stay that way. Whoopie shaved her eyebrows off! She doesn't give a fuck! At best she's an exception, but If you're going to pit someone against the 1 white model who has aged well, try iman, or tyra banks, naomi campbell. Whitney houston was a literal crackhead with gorgeous skin! At least pick another model...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 01:23 AM
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Whoopie goldberg was never hot, dumb ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 12:34 AM
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Latina don’t... patina? Too niche???
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 10:38 PM
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This is partly because Redditors are white and therefore they only like and refer to white women. White women are the only ones who typically hit a wall as early as 30. Caucasian skin is generally more dry, thinner and much more prone to sun damage, which makes their faces look prematurely weathered. South and East Asian, black, Latino women, basically everyone but caucasians reach the wall much later.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 10:10 PM
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Thanks to technology, beauty can now be bought. Start hustling if you really want it. That may seem bleak but it’s an option.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/19 09:44 PM
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When I said awkward, I only meant in the physical sense. Im not at all advising anyone be timid or dorky. That isn’t charisma. The guy I’m describing is a character actor, not a leading man. Hes not chiseled, but he’s not disfigured or obese, he takes reasonably good care of himself, has hobbies, friends, and most importantly, he knows what he is and what he’s working with in a way that comes off as self aware, not self conscious. Now, how does a character actor typically go from supporting role…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 09:31 PM
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Yes but there’s a right and wrong way to go about this, and it’s entirely dependent on appealing to “white” values. For example, If you’re Chinese, you play up the beautiful parts of your culture that white people are OK with, not the fact that you think dog tastes good. That may endear you to a few really adventurous exceptions, but it won’t maximize your appeal.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/19 08:37 PM
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I’m only passive when it comes to things I don’t want to do anyway. I am capable, but it is a relief not to be expected to micromanage 100% of the responsibilities of life. My partner and I divide and conquer according to our strengths, which happen to line up with traditional gender roles. I’m not ashamed of that. Shrug.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/19 07:17 PM
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This is so true and why tinder does not work for me. I’d also like to add that the men who attract me in real life are not typically very photogenic. They’d never make the top 20% on tinder. A pretty face is nice, but if I’m able to observe a man in his element, that’s when I begin to want him and form a crush. If all I get to judge are pictures, I’m forced to judge based on the physical, despite the physical being a lower priority of mine. I show up to a date w a great looking guy, but in a vac…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 05:05 PM
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Then you’re way ahead :)
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/19 02:17 AM
2

That girl is probably 70% good genes, 20% diet and 10% exercise. Let’s be clear, you will probably never look like her. But you can look amazing regardless. I don’t want to have write an entire program but basically HIIT / plyometrics (there are a million free apps and YouTube videos) + weight training the lower body. My favorite lower body exercises (find videos) are lunges, step ups, banded fire hydrants, banded hip thrusts, banded side steps, single leg dumbbell deadlifts... Bulgarian split s…
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/19 12:27 AM
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Since you seem to have missed all my points, all I’m saying is be an Ayesha Curry, not a Blac Chyna or Cardi B and you’ll have a much wider selection of high value men to choose from of all ethnicities.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/19 11:32 PM
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So..... women should just commit to fucking a guy and tolerate not being loved, indefinitely? This man is 30 years old, wants her to uproot her life, place herself in his frame and can’t even say three words to make her feel any security in that. The time frame isn’t the part that concerns me in the least. This is red pill Women, meaning RP ideology is applied strategically to get our needs met in mutually beneficial relationships. You’re proposing she diminish her boundaries so she can be taken…
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/19 06:55 PM
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You can go to the gym but stick with cardio and/or beginner exercises using body weight (body weight squats are a thing!) bands, machines, or light dumbbell or kettlebell exercises (20# ea or under will still give a great workout) until you have a mentor. Ask for pointers from gym attendants even on the easy stuff. In my experience, especially as a woman, squatting is not something you can learn from a video. But it’s also not essential for building the body in your post.... so why risk an injur…
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/19 06:26 PM
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This is a PC answer but SMV isn’t really about re-framing people’s preferences for the benefit of ones ego. You could say the same thing about being overweight. The difference here is your race is something you can’t change so most would not recommend fretting over it. I am not white either, and for some people that does lower my SMV because the western concept of beauty is generally fashioned after a white standard. There are a few things you can do to be “more white” and theoretically increase…
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/19 06:00 PM
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Your dad is smart! Either one can be really good for shy people, they are real “crafts” and so much more than just exercise. Martial arts will develop character and poise which is so important for turning teenagers into confident adults.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/19 05:41 PM
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“Think of him like a woman who likes her new BF but isn't ready to go all the way yet, reacting to a BF who suddenly demands it.” Uh... pretty sure if a man chased a 30 yr old woman for even 3 months and she told him sex may never be on the table he’d be advised by blue and red pill alike to move on. Especially if she had plans to eventually move in together.... That just seems manipulative and like a very one sided relationship. FYI You’re choosing to leave out a lot of factors to make excuses …
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/19 05:32 PM
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Speech... is a very important “action” when conducting relationships with women. You’re better off internalizing that now.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/19 05:18 PM
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If I could go back in time, I’d take up either martial arts or dance as a teenager. Both teach discipline, body awareness, flexibility, endurance and explosive cardio, and strength training that will translate to any sport and teach a practical skill that can be applied in real life. Yoga is great but it won’t do anything to make you look like that swimwear model. Weightlifting will make you strong but can be boring and unsustainable to a teenager. The optimal fitness routine is one you LOVE, bu…
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/19 03:55 PM
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Um, no don’t just go to the gym and do squats unless you can invest in a personal trainer to teach you proper form. Some of the worst training habits start w teenagers in the weight room and they become increasing costly, physically and financially to undo as an adult.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/19 03:38 PM
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Complaining about complaining when there’s a downvote button = yes I’m in the right place, this is def rp Women.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/19 09:51 PM
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Physical attraction. Both partners should be a comparable level of attractiveness w similar (sexual) interests to ensure both want to have sex with each other. You shouldn’t have to pity fuck your partner. Don’t commit to a lifetime of sex w a guy because he’s nice. You absolutely have to want him. “Draining” is 1 of the major responsibilities of a RPW, so if sex feels like an obligation from early on, you’re in for a long, abrasive ride that’s bound to leave you feeling bored at best and at wor…
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/19 09:26 PM
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You can tell yourself you’re gonna take him back in 2 years, but you should treat this as a real break up. Block his number for at least 3-6 mo. Date other guys who actually want you, and before you know it Prince Charming will have turned back into a frog. You won’t miss him. And you shouldn’t. He’s putting your entire future together on the line for some mediocre pussy. Either he’s smug as hell thinking you won’t find someone better than him, or he’s a total dumbass, take your pick. A good guy…
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/19 05:29 PM
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So, offering myself up as what I think will come off as an 'extreme' example.... I'm in my late twenties and I've had sex with almost 30 people. In the circles I run in, being a sex god is preferable to a low n-count, and generally, experience = skill/confidence. Virgins, for better or worse, are a red flag, and if you live in a city (esp coastal), you will encounter this mindset in the majority of educated men. My n-count has not limited me from relationships with any men regardless of their n-…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/19 07:41 PM
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Delete this, low effort.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/19 10:21 PM
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I think you’re spot on. Personally, however, I think it’s actually well within ones right to lie or at least omit anything you’re not ready to divulge if asked. When you’re ready, just own up to hiding it until the time was right. A reasonable person should be able to accommodate that without taking it personally.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/19 07:20 PM
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Search “French girl style” on Pinterest - It’s practical, feminine, and elegant, so it might inspire you! The frame you described would be perfect for it. Try a braid or ponytail tied w small scarf (thrifted) over the hair band, swapping converse for flat booties or ballet flats, and delicate, any-occasion jewelry with your casual outfits. Wide neck or v neck shirts are also a nice upgrade from the standard t shirt and flatter a small bust.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/19 07:05 PM
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You said yourself that you can’t and therefore shouldn’t do this. Open v Closed relationships are a deal breaker akin to Children v Childfree. Move on. Choosing “love” when it makes you feel like shit is degrading. You deserve happiness just as much as he does, medical condition or not.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/19 06:34 PM
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You’re being used. He’s weak, so he’ll use you for emotional support until his break up, then he’ll find someone new and you won’t hear from him again 🤷🏻‍♀️ you’re playing the role of beta orbiter, honestly.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/19 09:59 PM
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Is there anything specific your boyfriend has asked you to do that he’d like? Its hard to say if he’s being “reasonable” or not when we don’t know what he’s actually asking for. It seems like you’re jumping to conclusions, and if you already work out, eat well, and have good hygiene, he may just want you to wear your hair down a few times a week. Or maybe he doesn’t give a shit about hair and wants to see you in a dress? (Dresses are super low maintenance!) Every mans taste is different, what’s …
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/19 09:41 PM
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So True! It’s certainly never too late. Though I’d actually recommend crappy furniture / clothing for the duration of college.... and instead of paying off debt, don’t take it on!
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/19 07:02 PM
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I’ll get probably downvoted for this but I’d say the “anger phase” among women is easily misandrist-feminism. Take MGTOW (a particularly bitter branch of RP), substitute M for F and you basically have the separatist movement of second wave feminism, aka catalyst of “misandry” entering the modern mainstream. Consequences of misandry / the female anger phase may include general promiscuity, consciously capitalizing on ones beauty or sexuality (sex work or explicit, conscious branch swinging), swea…
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/19 06:32 PM
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IMO 24 is the perfect age to “start getting your shit together” Develop a training / exercise regimen if you haven’t already. Cooking + learning the art of meal prep Dating, learning what you like and dislike in a partner rather than trying to lock one down.You have some time! Becoming financially literate. Build an emergency fund, pay down any debt or invest. Maintaining the friendships that meant something to you in college. Wear sunscreen + cleansing/moisturizing Replace any childish or cheap…
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/19 01:29 PM
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Yes! I didn’t explicitly state that I should have wrote BEFORE freaking out but that’s what I plan on doing, in the future too. and yes, def vent to your gfs granted they give sound advice and will de-escalate / give perspective rather than enable the hamstering.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/19 12:52 AM
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First off, I’m so sorry you’re going through this!!!! I too was recently in a very stressful bind, felt out of control, couldn’t get the support I wanted from my boyfriend, aaaand picked a fight with him to counter those feelings. Sure, I had some valid points, but the way I went about expressing them completely backfired and upset us both. So I wrote him 4 letters. The 1st was pure insanity tantrum. The 2nd was better. The 3rd was better than that. The 4th was what I actually needed to say, (in…
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/19 12:01 AM
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Yes, I totally feel for my friends who would be snapped up in a heartbeat if they were men. They’re funny, hardworking and successful, strong and kind. They’ve followed feminism by the book and not a single man (especially the ones w comparable social/career status) seem to care. It’s a product of the times and I sympathize. We were told we should strive to be equal to earn respect and a great love would follow. It’s not always welcome in my circles, but I just try to be as frank as possible abo…
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/19 07:24 PM
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Were doing a staycation in a hotel downtown this weekend! Rates are cheap because it’s off-season, so we got the champagne package and everything. Definitely my most over-the-top v-day yet and were both excited. Yes its a commercial holiday but I find Valentine’s Day to be a beacon of cheer during my least favorite month. It’s also motivating me to really stick to my training and diet so I can feel my best in the lingerie I have planned. It’s a win win :) Last year I was single so I made a steak…
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/19 03:47 PM
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I have thick dark hair and laser hair removal in the bikini area has changed my life. I used to get really painful ingrowns, razor burn, and blemishes. I hated shaving and waxing was even worse. (Waxing is a scam imo, a painful one) Now I don’t have to do any of that and my boyfriend loves it. Even 1 treatment drastically thinned my hair follicles and made them less prone to ingrowns. I have only done my treatments through Groupon and it’s much more affordable than waxing. Don’t ever pay full pr…
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/19 03:19 PM
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this is really needlessly judgmental. It’s none of your business to criticize, invite criticism, or ask a happy couple to defend what works for them.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/19 05:36 PM
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just going out on a nice date, something where I get to dress up for him :) that’s a win-win for both of us. Many restaurants do a special, prix-fixe menu for Valentine’s Day which is fun. we could just stay in but we’ve been Netflix and chilling all winter, and I like to use “events” like this not only to switch things up but to motivate me to take care good care of myself. That v-day lingerie I have planned can be unforgiving, and I feel so much more confident when I’ve been training consisten…
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/19 10:04 PM
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