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| 3 | 28 M, never had the patience or I guess the skillset for online dating. Gave up on that and haven't used it for like 2 years. I am looking to start approaching IRL as I know I will get better results in person | JinkleBank | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 05:26 AM |
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| 5 | should I only approach girls that give clear iois?people get so caught up with this must have / dont have IOIs to start with. pointless shit that doesnt matter. you might not have an IOI to start with but OH WoW you said hi and now you're getting IOI. and you can just as easily abort if you're getting a blank or any kind of unwelcome vibe, its literally so easy there is zero counter logic to not approaching all. do em all for fucks sake | /r/seduction | 02/10/22 04:02 AM |
| 16 | In your experience what are the key Do's and Don'ts1) its pickup, not standup (comedy). generally better to be somewhat serious in the first moments, and she finds out youre hilarious later. you can say some funny observation of her as an opener 2) dont dive deep into any one particular subject at first, try to hit lots of different ones faster to see what you have in common 3) don't go too long without telling her what you do / telling her about your life, she wont know you otherwise. try not to make it sound boring while doing this 4) if she g… | /r/seduction | 27/09/22 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Why do women say they don't like players yet they feel attracted to guys with options and a lot of experience in bed?Sure, the point is if asked they are gonna say they dont even if they do | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Why do women say they don't like players yet they feel attracted to guys with options and a lot of experience in bed?They like guys that have options. 'Player' is just one of many terms for a guy with options, but it has negative connotations | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 04:01 PM |
| 2 | Why do women say they don't like players yet they feel attracted to guys with options and a lot of experience in bed?Makes sense. Id just roast them mofe tbh. Anytime you havent done any bragging at all and they start: 'ohhh big pimp? damn we have some hardcore girls with priorities on the block this afternoon lol' and have a good laugh to yourself | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 02:02 PM |
| 5 | Why do women say they don't like players yet they feel attracted to guys with options and a lot of experience in bed?Also, after reading your post, you shouldn't be going out of your way to tell them you have options, that just comes off as tryhard, just dont bring it up at all. Dont mention anything about your count or anything. If they ask, just laugh and tell em you dont keep track | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 07:44 AM |
| 2 | Why do women say they don't like players yet they feel attracted to guys with options and a lot of experience in bed?They worry that they will be labelled as shallow, or worse, a whore. But mostly shallow | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 07:41 AM |
| 23 | Why do women say they don't like players yet they feel attracted to guys with options and a lot of experience in bed?They say they don't like players because it doesn't help them to say they do. | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 12:28 AM |
| 1 | The Argument Against Cold Approach1/4 of the girls you wanna sleep with are potentially available. Shes standing right fucking there, at the coffee shop, and walking past you daily. ...Nah...nah lets talk to robots and girls that already have boyfriends who are looking for sugar daddies with money we don't have, and compliments. | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 01:41 PM |
| 6 | How do you personally word it when you are asking a girl on a date?Well, you seem pretty charming. I guess we're going to have to investigate if we hate eachother more in person. Let's get coffee tomorrow! (already knowing her schedule) | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 01:31 PM |
| 6 | How do you personally word it when you are asking a girl on a date?“high value” and “I’m doing shit if you’re coming with me or not” type of bullshit uh, shit works | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 01:24 PM |
| 2 | DM'd a girl, I am on delivered for 2 days...Lets go down the list of possibilities, analytically and methodically... lesbian married she has a boyfriend her phone's broken her phone's dead her phone's dead, as well as broken she's feeling conflicted she's a conflicted, married lesbian with butterfingers who's technologically inept | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 02:12 AM |
| 1 | 28 M, never had the patience or I guess the skillset for online dating. Gave up on that and haven't used it for like 2 years. I am looking to start approaching IRL as I know I will get better results in personThats some good perspective man thanks. Just ask about her until eventually I get to talk about myself. I prefer not to ask too many questions though, I prefer to go with statements like 'oh you look like a student', it makes the convo a bit more interesting and takes work off her responding | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 05:45 AM |
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