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I HAVE NOW BEEN 2ND PLACE 3 TIMES IN A ROW AAAHHH
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 12:19 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 12:18 AM
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I recently stumbled upon leaked extra footage of Tate's arrest https://www.instagram.com/reels/Dbjv03_oJYc/
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 11:48 PM
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My sister in Christ, I majored in comp sci and the guys here were/are absolutely hoeless. The guys that actually got girls were the ones in majors that lead to low-paying jobs (linguistics and social sciences n stuff) cause they were full of girls
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 11:15 PM
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LOL I relate, it was the exact same for me. My mom also ended up just buying me the couch. I ended up using it as a sort of wardrope and just threw clothes on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 11:11 PM
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Oh true both of these thing happen to me I just got used to it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 06:11 PM
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Why do you think so? Personally always much preferred it over alternatives like Spotify
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 06:02 PM
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Remember guys Women's issues with men are systemic and societal issues. 'Sexist double standards' require big campaigns and the cooperation of everyone to solve. Men's issues with women however, they are individual and to solve on an individual level. You don't like that many women impose a sexist double standard on you? Just choose to associate with different women. Free market baby
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 05:22 PM
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Yeah I noticed that too. Probably on purpose
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 02:16 PM
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I was confused by this picture (and the people in the background) way too long before I realized it's AI-generated lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 02:11 PM
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Lmao a big mainstream German news channel made a post about misogynists, incels and how to detect them on the internet https://www.instagram.com/p/Dbpf66ClXj4/ Apparently the 💯-emoji is an incel dogwhistle and a reference to the 80 / 20 rule 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 02:02 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 11:22 PM
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u2
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 09:42 PM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/DbdnjcIO-v_/ What women put up with to be in Chad's rotation :(
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 09:41 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:44 PM
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Again how is it surprising that people break their rules and standards for very good looking people?! Why would they break them for you if you are average? Integrity
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 08:09 AM
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Most comments are not saying that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:55 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 10:19 PM
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seven-year situationship
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 06:57 PM
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Brvtal male dual-mating strategy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 06:53 PM
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Yeah one could select 'high' even if they have just been one long LTR. I'm just attempting to find a good proxy for n count that doesn't sound terribly weird. Not a native English speaker so if you have a better idea lmk
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 03:49 PM
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I concede it's vague but so are a lot of prompts on the apps like political stance is a lot more complex than just 'liberal' and 'conservative', it's just supposed to be a rough eyeball to gauge compatibility quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 03:48 PM
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Realistically most people are just going to select Medium no matter their experience
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 03:42 PM
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Man4Bear: You rather woods in the with alone or woman with in would the question?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 02:57 PM
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Q4All: What would you think about popular dating apps introducing a new prompt/filter for this topic since it apparently matters to some people? "Body count" would be too crass of course but it could be named 'dating experience' on your profile and you could select 'Low' 'Medium' 'High'
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 02:49 PM
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Is she bothering you king?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 12:11 PM
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Nice Girl (tm) detected in the wild 📸
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 11:45 AM
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Looks fake, but if it's real kudos to her for being honest and giving actionable advice. Almost all girls will put the guy on a timer (usually longer than 1 date though) and if he doesn't make a move in the timeframe then they'll just ghost or give a bullshit rejection reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 11:32 AM
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Q4Woods: Would you rather be inhabited by bears or by humans who keep getting lost inside you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 12:57 AM
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Not necessarily and despite your flair I'm not suggesting that you do this, but there absolutely is a kind of person in this subreddit who attempts to ragebait with it, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 09:44 PM
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For relationships you need to meet a lot more criteria and go on multiple dates. For a relationship you need to meet 'stable partner'-criteria such as good job, educated, having hobbies, manners, being friendly etc. However, the 'sex appeal'-threshold (in both looks and behavior) you need to pass is lower for a relationship. For ONS those things don't matter much and you can be a complete loser, you only need sex appeal. On paper it might look like there are "more" criteria to meet for a relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 09:27 PM
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Women's naivete on the matter is cute. You were never in the position where you had to seduce a woman while being man so how would you even know I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 08:52 PM
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It's not general social skills even, you have to be proficient in a specific subset of social skills to get ONS as a man. It's quite different from befriending people platonically
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 08:37 PM
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You are correct if we look at simping as an isolated variable there was probably more simping expected from men back in the day. However there are other variables that changed in the timeframe that make the remaining simping that is still expected seem even more unreasonable still
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:53 PM
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I didn't imply that you did
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 03:03 PM
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Yeah. Somehow their stuff weasels its way into my feed often when I'm on YT shorts
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 02:35 PM
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PPD women whenever the topic of paying for dates comes up
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 12:31 PM
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That's a pretty crazy leap from just simply suggesting maybe men shouldn't simp as much...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 11:27 AM
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The crazy harsh punishment of... checks notes suggesting that working independent adults pay for their own food that they themselves eat..yeah this will probably get rejected at the next patriarchy council meeting I attend, it might be a little bit too evil after all
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 11:26 AM
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who demand more and aren’t even nice to you? if they actively make your life worse? I've never suggested anything like that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 11:23 AM
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I'm referring to the very early stages of dating (like before or during the first date) before any kind of relationship is established
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 11:22 AM
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I'm referring to the very early stages of dating (like before or during the first date) before any kind of relationship is established
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 11:22 AM
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I'm referring to the very early stages of dating (like before or during the first date) before any kind of relationship is established
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 11:22 AM
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Women would get swarmed with 2463688 DMs if they posted themself. So they just browse the sub and pick and DM guys from the catalogue they like. It works out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 11:16 AM
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Yeah this is also one of the biggest reasons I dislike paying on for her on a date, from the opposite perspective. I want the woman to go the next steps with me because she likes me and thinks I'm cool and not because she feels she owes me something
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 11:04 AM
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In an actual relationship, sure. That's not what we're talking about though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 02:06 AM
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Yeah it's a prisoner's dilemma. If all men collectively raised their standards and stopped giving out attention freely, all men would benefit. But every man individually is always in every case better off being as much of a simp as he wants to. So this is never going to work out since men are just too thirsty and selfish. (I'm still trying to do my part though.)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 01:58 AM
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I don't like being outright sexist but this whole post is a vertified woman moment
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 01:53 AM
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I've read in pick-up spaces that having a pet can be a real game changer for getting a girl to go home with you, even if it's just fish or sth, just for the plausible deniability. "Want to come with me and see my dog/cat/fish?" sounds a lot better than just "wanna come over to my place?"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 10:49 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 08:27 PM
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20 is so young
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 07:36 PM
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Oooffff
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 07:32 PM
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At what age does it become yikes in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 07:31 PM
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His takes are a mix of brvtal trvth nvkes and strange ragebaits
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 07:31 PM
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which can if course be easily changed No. Arguably more difficult to change on a significant level than appearance
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 05:38 PM
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And water is wet. The height neurosis some redditors here have embarassing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 05:25 PM
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Why would men who only want to pump and dump be any less inclined to pursue?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 04:49 PM
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Noo, I just like Stacies
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 04:16 PM
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I should change my flair again it's too confusing ig
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 04:14 PM
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Wtf no
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 04:11 PM
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This is an interesting point and something I've been wondering myself. We already know that women are unreliable narrators when it comes to their attraction dynamics. I am a man and I can not look into a woman's head so I can never be 100% certain of the truth, we can only conjecture. Personally I believe when they say they actually find it attractive when a man proactively approaches them they are probably saying the truth. Such a thing as 'responsive desire' does seem to exist. On the other ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 04:07 PM
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That's all true and I wasn't arguing against that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 03:22 PM
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avg iq people have about 3-5% of the functional intelligence of a 130iq engineer. Lol that's bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 03:21 PM
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Some interesting stuff in there: Less is more on your profile: Short bios outperform long ones by 73%. Not listing your job beats listing it by 39% I always knew this. I give as little info about myself as possible in my Tinder profile. Anything you write about yourself will be "used against you" as a reason to swipe left by women. Women's match rates INCREASE with age — peaking at 40-44 (55.36%). Men peak at 18-21 and decline. I wonder why that's the case (for real) Cuffing season is a myth — m…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 03:19 PM
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I don't think it's intelligence itself they select against here. Moreso stereotypes and vibes Bartender: fun and extroverted Software engineer: nerdy and introverted There are also attractive high iq professions like entrepeneur and doctor and unattractive low iq professions like factory worker
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 03:15 PM
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Yeahh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 01:20 PM
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But that's because male and female sexuality and attraction just work differently and not due to an objective discrepancy in looks/beauty. Unleash male sexuality on other males (gay men) and you have the same effect of average and velow average guys lusted over
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 12:21 PM
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Why would you keep dating him if he isn't hot
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 11:19 AM
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Maybe the kids are alright after all
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 11:17 AM
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Do you live in the US?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 11:16 AM
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Yeah I will after my lunch break
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 12:44 PM
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https://www.np.reddit.com/r/SipsTea/s/zl1b3Zb6vE Q4W: would you break up with this guy? Q4M: what would you have done?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 12:00 PM
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I think you replied to the wrong comment
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 12:01 AM
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You're a bad, dishonest person if you do that. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 11:58 PM
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Yeah for sure us Europeans don't have this college culture where age 18-22 is THE designated age-span for it. Most of my friends from school are still enrolled in university in some way in their mid-20s and most of us aren't slackers. It's just pretty normal to start later, work on the side and take longer or return for a second degree or a master's after gathering some work experience
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 11:56 PM
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Those are non-issues for me tbh I just miss having real free time and real money
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 11:46 PM
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Was exactly the same for me. But I'm still relatively young so I just quit my job and went back to uni for a Master's degree. And now...I lowkey miss just working full-time again lol...grass is greener and everything
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 11:36 PM
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Ah right that's fair then
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 09:14 PM
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I think it's this one
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 05:15 PM
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While I don't believe that personality alone can explain a complete lack of a dating life It easily can.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 03:41 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 11:38 AM
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Probably cause he likes her 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 11:26 AM
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through the texts you’re sending I think his point is that he's not even getting to the point where he can send out texts
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 12:33 AM
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She is a Stacy tbf but he is a Chad among Chads
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 10:31 PM
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this morning That's nothing tbh. If it makes you feel better I sometimes take more than 24h to text back a girl I'm very interested in. Doesn't necessarily mean anything but if you don't want to put up with that that's also understandable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 10:29 PM
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What if he's been with 0?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 08:26 PM
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Me too
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 07:26 PM
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Nah he mogs her
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 06:57 PM
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Trvke
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 11:02 AM
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Your comment is ambiguous and non-specific enough to branch out a bit especially when you include ststements like "There's no such tension in female sexuality.".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 01:30 AM
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It's a non-sequitur to my comment. No
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 01:16 AM
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Sure sure but it's a very fitting equivalent and answer in any space where the discussion topic isn't artificially constrained to looks so I still felt like pointing this out. It's also not like men really want this either, they'd certainly prefer her looks wouldn't change during pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 11:32 PM
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There's no such tension in female sexuality. Finding a man sexually attractive doesn't inspire in me a desire to turn him into a sad aged tired sack. The female pendant of this is discussed a lot in red pill spaces though it's not really about appearance but personality and behavior. (I don't really know how much truth there is in this but they claim that) women like to take and tame a risk-taking, exciting, wild and free, maybe to some extent player bad boy and then "beta-fy" him and morph him …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 11:12 PM
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I like it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 11:04 PM
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6'7 is honestly negative returns territory
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:05 PM
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This debate is always the exact same: Some bluepiller will come along like "Ackchually guys it's not the asshole-ness that women like, instead it's [those traits tied to/correlated with being an asshole]" Like okay??? I already knew this, I'm not stupid. But how does this make anything better? The reality is, assholes exist, they exhibit typical asshole behaviour and women will pick them in spite of or even because if it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:27 AM
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Goes hard, I could make 'stacysexual' my new flair
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:18 AM
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The mere fact he commented in "r/ truepslrateme" is enough information 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 01:59 AM
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Idc about these kinds of posts, it's probably some AI-generated fake engagement-/ragebait. But the comments always get me. Those are (probably) real people 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 01:49 AM
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>but according to how the men on this sub think men should be considered attractive (autistically broken down into a bunch of numbers and colors) then clearly he fits the requirements. Depends on who you ask I guess but not really tbh. Height is like 20% of male physical attractiveness and iris colour maybe 3%? Facial bone structure and facial harmony are the most important factors and that's where he has too many flaws to be considered above average
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 10:28 PM
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Some women, to some extend, sometimes...? I can not give a clear yes or no answer to that obviously but I just don't think the idea that assholes do not exactly struggle with women is completely produced out of thin air by jealous men. Especially when we have many studies stuggesting that bullies/criminals/men with dark triad traits are less likely to be long-time celibate/single/virgin than the average male.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 10:22 PM
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I think it depends on the sport. If they just have to mechanically execute one motion like the sprinting or jumping olympic disciplines then yeah, they were just blessed with good genetics and trained really hard. Not that interesting. Team sports and combat-based sports pro athletes though can have some more interesting perspectives on mindset and stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 10:11 PM
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> Do they think these men go up to women and are like “sup bitch wanna fuck” or something like that? No, I think the point is they are assholes to other people
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 10:02 PM
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I wouldn't ever give up phone privacy. I don't expect to view her phone either
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 07:11 PM
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His eyes look creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 06:51 PM
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This has probably been discussed before but I'm curious what you guys are going to respond anyway Which gender do you think has, as whole, narrower, more specific looks-standards for the other?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 11:33 AM
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Do you match with everyone who swipes on you? Yeah I blind swiped right every time How many of these matches resulted in meeting up? Tbh I was not in a place to date and just did this out of boredom. I messaged maybe 10 women and 2-3 of them were interesting but they ghosted me at some point. But I want to delete and reinstall my profile now after having hit this milestone and then actually be intentional about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 11:29 AM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 11:11 AM
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Now time to delete my profile and do it all over again
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 09:03 AM
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How long was the contact pause?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 08:50 AM
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Finally reached 100 matches on Tinder. Only took me a couple months
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 08:45 AM
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Yeah exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:05 PM
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I don't like this tbh because the first date is most likely to be the last. It's the most important "vibe-check". With each additional date the likelihood that you will keep dating increases by a lot. So if you as a man pay for the first date and then she dips (which will often be the case), you drew the short stick which defeats the entire purpose of this. I think my ideal would be 50/50 on the first date only, then alternate after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:05 PM
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ITT: women feeling entitled to men's friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 10:31 PM
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Yeah same. Imo food delivery is only okay in a social setting when you're chilling with friends and want to eat pizza but even then I usually try to get them to pick it up as take-out. We humans are built to hunt and collect our food.😤
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 07:25 PM
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just say you're enjoying getting to know her You're generally right about this, but usually guys with this predicament are already wayyyyy past the "getting to know each other" stage
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 07:20 PM
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Why would I prioritize anyone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 05:44 PM
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Imo both the 3.5s are rated too harshly
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:56 PM
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💀
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:55 PM
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What do women gain by deliberately hiding this fact? If they actually deliberately hide it (which I doubt honesrly) I guess they would hope that it incentivizes men of both groups to follow their rules. If attractive men were straight up told the rules don't apply to them then they just wouldn't follow them. And if unattractive men were told the truth they might stop following them if they perceive it be unfair and humiliating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:48 PM
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Long hair looks cool if you can pull it off
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:39 PM
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He's never beating the allegations
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:31 PM
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Not surprised tbh, I keep telling ppl that height is overrated
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:31 PM
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So that the hero is relatable obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:29 PM
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The arch-mage 🧙‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:28 PM
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God I hope that's bait
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:19 PM
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Why
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 01:29 PM
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3
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 01:28 PM
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Agree
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 11:13 AM
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Yeah it's not necessarily about money although traditionally money and status are highly correlated. Either way, my broader point is hypergamy is about a specific kind of value and not generally just applicable to other kinds of mate value like physical attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 07:45 PM
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Wikipedia should not be trusted blindly as a reputable source. That article was edited just a couple days ago and does not seem to be of high quality to me. Here are some definition from web dicionaries: https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/hypergamy https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/hypergamy https://www.oxfordreference.com/display/10.1093/oi/authority.20110803095953889
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 07:33 PM
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I think that definition is wrong, redpillers parroted this stuff so much all over the internet that they make AI hallucinate lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 07:07 PM
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Originally it only meant dating up in terms of social standing (class/income/caste). Manosphere midwits bastardized the term into some tautological "women like men who are attractive". Like if she chose a man that is not equal or below her in every possible attribute then she in some form "hypergamous". It means nothing anymore really
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 06:52 PM
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Then just scratch the world 'violently' from my statement
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 05:10 PM
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You don't get to decide what matters to other people
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 05:09 PM
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I've heard this argument before and it doesn't make sense to me. Short-term minded men can just approach you themselves right now. Nobody's stopping them. Who approaches shouldn't matter here. Just say no to short-term. Vet them and make them go on dates with you, just like you would if they approached you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 07:13 AM
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Ok I agree it's unethical but in a similar way to cheating in a relationship, it's not an actual crime. I think the issues with your argument are Not paying a prostitute isn't rape imo, rather something like fraud. Reminds of the position some people have that uncompensated labor is slavery. I disagree because nobody violently forced/coerced them to do the labor in the first place (that would constitute slavery/rape), they just withhold the reward after the fact. Non-contractual/not-materialisti…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 10:04 PM
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You're completely correct and I would even argue there are benefits to a social norm where women are the ones to approach (less unwanted advances, less harassment, scary approaches from the more physically imposing gender etc.) but it's not gonna change anyway anytime so it's whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 09:05 PM
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Can't tell if you're serious
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 08:58 PM
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Prolly bait
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 08:56 PM
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probably getting married and having kids Nope, the left one is the looksmaxxer (Connor Murphy) who injected himself with gold and died recently
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 07:17 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 11:26 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 11:25 AM
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You are actually spot-on here
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 11:22 AM
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That's actually so true. Your major and its gender distribution makes a huge difference for getting a gf in college. I've talked/got to know to more girls in 2 elective philosophy classes than during my entire bachelor's in comp sci 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 07:28 AM
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Do you like horror games in general?? Tbh I've never really played/tried them. But I've been wanting to dip my toes into the genre for a while and try some of its "classics". Another series I'm interested in is Resident Evil but I don't I'm not sure which game to start with here either
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 05:44 AM
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He is nicer with his response than I would've been
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 05:31 AM
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Silent Hill 1 or 2 and did you play the original? I was thinking of picking up the Silent Hill 2 Remake but I keep reading comments the original version is better lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 05:27 AM
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Yeah I agree, I do enjoy browsing the ugly women sub much more than the inkie sub. Sometimes they'll have an interesting perspective or an original thought, inkies are incapable at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 10:54 PM
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TikTok or Instagram
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 08:41 PM
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Looks like a jock, is a nerd
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 02:51 PM
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Tattoos
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 09:30 AM
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Women could just watch women's sports and they'd be equally popular 🤷‍♂️ But they are not that interested either
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 08:42 PM
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Thank you for your honesty 🙏 And yeah the 'fun mode' is probably another contributing factor
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 08:40 PM
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Completely disagree, musicians rank way higher in the female gaze
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 07:52 PM
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Or we can choose to close Tiktok and not get riled up over some broad's dumb engagement bait yapping
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 07:50 PM
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That's a fair but in my experience the correlation between money and travelling is not that strong. For instance, here in Europe you can do completely free and paid-for exchange semesters with partner universities within the EU. They have a reputation for being mostly about partying and other "sinful" activities rather than serious academics. Another cheap option that exists here is work-and-travel. And besides that if you are okay with the backpacker lifestyle and staying at cheap hostels (whic…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 07:36 PM
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I think openness to new experience (as a general trait) is already a pretty established personality trait in psychology.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:57 PM
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Double text but before you do that wait a week or so
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:43 PM
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I don't completely disagree, men tend to get more emotional than women about certain things, but I still think world cup players is among the worst possible examples you could've chosen. For someone to qualify as "emotional" to a degree it's worth pointing out, they'd have to get emotional about trivial things. Not their entire life's goals and effort being at stakes. The Zidane incident was so exceptional that it's a meme 20 years later and probably more well-known than anything else about the …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:39 PM
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"over a game" is crazy reductive. Pro sports and especially the football world cup is one of the most highly competitive, highest stakes environments of our age. They have worked hard their entire lives for this moment and winning or losing potentially decides over life-long fame and wealth. It's very expected behaviour. I would agree though if you made this point about hardcore football fans who get overly emotional over their team's losses they have no actual stakes in.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:10 PM
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>openness to experience Yeah that's what I thought too, openness to experience is probably consistent across domains: if you enjoy the novelty of exploring new countries, you likely also enjoy meeting new people and yes also new sexual experiences. Not even saying that's a bad trait, openness is linked to higher intelligence too, it's just that correlations exist. Another (unrelated point) thing is that I vaguely remember some study found that women tend to more promiscuous in unfamiliar social …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 04:32 PM
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(As this topic was brought up in the today's daily..) Do you think frequent travelling/going on vacations (as a single person) is correlated with promiscuity and n count? Couldn't find any studies on this but personally I think yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 04:15 PM
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The girls work full time whist studying. The boys just work and do as little shifts as possible. Part of it here is probably that women just study easier majors that leave you with more time for working. Liberal arts vs STEM..
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:50 PM
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I just checked, generally men and women attend the gym in similar/the same rates so it's not that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:48 PM
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>”i spilt my water bottle, I can’t get in the gym, I cant log into my account, my membership has defaulted (ran out of money) have you had this handed into lost property” The spilled water bottle yeah I understand they can just clean it up themself but the rest are totally normal reasonable things to bring up to the staff. Like did you write this post cause you're mad you actually have to work at your job
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:14 PM
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Yeah. I was looking for it too, didn't even know if they use reddit and only had few infos to go off of. Absolute elite stalker/detective skills from me 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 08:33 AM
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Yeah that's exactly what I thought when I read the book, it's basically red-pill ideas but written in more family-friendy language and with a lot of blue pill fluff inbetween ig to not get cancelled
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 11:06 PM
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I'm not insecure about my appearance but my haters would be able to find out my identity etc. It's scary what's possible with reverse-image searches nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 09:27 PM
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Yeah I've read it and felt like if you're an average, neurotypical guy that's basically all the dating advice you'll ever need
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 06:46 PM
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Airports, expensive districts in big European cities
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 06:44 PM
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Interesting I'll check it out later. I have read his other book "Models" and thought it was quite good.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 03:54 PM
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https://youtu.be/KcfvVjShe_U?is=P11w2JC9TK8GWipy @1:59 Turns out my favourite gender/dating issues pop scientist actually supports my own pet theory: women will announce minimum height standards merely as a form of status signaling "I have high standards therefore I am desirable". Undersocialized, autistic inkwells can not pick up on the nuance of non-literal communication with hidden intentions and get upset about height standards on social media that don't really exist in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 02:31 PM
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Doesn't strike me as a feminist topic but sounds good to me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:23 PM
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I wish I picked up some shitty minimum wage job like other kids just for the sake of "character building" as I was sheltered and shy. But I was too lazy, my parents didn't encourage me in this regard and I had no need for the money anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:13 PM
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Kinda wish I started earlier tho
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 12:47 PM
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education reforms What kind of reforms if I may ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 12:46 PM
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First internship 18, first part-time job with a salary 21, first big boy professional fulltime job 23/24 (I think I was 23 when I signed the contract but started working a couple weeks later after I turned 24)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 12:31 PM
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I used to not care about feminism and be neutral about it and after debating on PPD I still don't care about feminism but started to actually dislike it. Turns out MRAs were always right in that it really is a female supremacy movement in a society that already favors women (either that or they're not sending their best).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 12:03 PM
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Comments trying to shame you into settling smh, never settle king 👑
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 11:29 AM
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It really is
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 11:29 PM
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Damn true I keep forgetting he's fucking 80 years old. But even with that mind, the average player of the Spanish team is like 5'11..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 11:26 PM
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So I guess Donald Trump was heightfrauding crazy the entire time? Almost the entire Spanish team was heightmogging him at the award ceremony. Bro is NOT 6'3 🌹😭
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:48 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 02:57 PM
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If you can't remember then it's not low-ish lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 02:56 PM
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That's all true, and I've been that guy myself unfortunately, but my statement is still correct. Once you finally know you have no chance you should the drop the contact quickly for both your and her sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 12:47 PM
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What is particularly strange is the common occurrence of men ending friendships with women when they let them know that they don’t like them romantically/sexually. That is not strange, it's the right thing to do
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:53 AM
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If you were to put everyone in America on TRM, the average rating would be like a 3.5 I think. Yeah that's what I think too but it doesn't make sense. Average should be 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 12:36 PM
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It's not really about attraction, most face ratings are done by straight men on other straight men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 12:35 PM
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Yeah I'm jestering, I just wanted to draw attention to this video (and YT channel in general) cause I think it's high-quality and interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 08:27 PM
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Them: "Bonesmashing doesn't work" Ok then explain this: https://youtu.be/LJYmX9Extck?si=7Ss75IuVo9kAT-SJ
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:39 PM
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https://youtu.be/3WntbB2xFoQ?si=rVq_cbMzJZKDpA4B Joever for us blonde men 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:24 PM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:08 PM
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An issue I have with these "objective face rating"-communities is that they are inconsistent in accounting for age. A big reason the TRM subreddit tends to earn so much derision from normies is that it compares young people to their peers in their age group. An average 20 years old young woman is very attractive and most men/people would intuitively rate her a 7 or 8 on the "normie scale". Then they see TRM rates her a 5 (as other 20 years old women are the reference point and she is just averag…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:46 PM
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Doesn't seem like that to me honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:33 PM
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They're never getting back the time they wasted in prison
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:14 PM
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That goes for every punishment, not just death penalty. I do not think imprisoning someone innocent for life is much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:12 PM
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It's funny how it's lore-accurate that Handsome Squidward became handsome through bone smashing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 03:42 PM
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Even if I'm on here almost every day, writing a couple low effort comments takes like 5-15 minutes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:53 PM
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I'm the Goat fr
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 10:02 PM
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>The ending was good until he dies, it'd been hilarious if they lived obsessed with each other forever. Nooo why did I click on this spoiler I was interested in watching the movie >Also don't forget to show tits and naked women, that was crucial for the plot Ok I guess I'm gonna watch it anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 05:13 PM
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Crazy to read this as a European
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 05:07 PM
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Yeah there's no way lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:12 AM
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This is you, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:02 AM
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Ok and? What are you trying to argue now? Paternity fraud is not real fraud because birth certificate is technically classified as a record (ok so what, still a legal document subject to fraud)? The initial topic of discussion (that you proposed) already took the legitimacy of paternity fraud as a given axiom. You are derailing this convo to no end and I have neither time nor interest to take your engagement bait. Bye
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:58 AM
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Birth certificate
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:45 AM
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And?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:43 AM
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...in the context of violating a legal contract or document. Which is not given if I ask for a paternity test.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:40 AM
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Of course I do not actually because I am not a legislator lol. But we are talking about hypotheticals, in particular you are responding to a hypothetical with another hypothetical in which I AM a legislator and can dictate the general severity of a punishment for a crime. Of course I do get to express that I want adjust parameters in the hypothetical. And besides that, "concealment of relevant information" as well as being "reckless to the statement's truth" do fall under the umbrella of fraud i…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:31 AM
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> Implies there is not adequate height Ok das stimmt und ist nicht, was ich ausdrücken wollte. Sry
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 11:11 PM
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Any reasonable definition of paternity fraud would account for that case and punish it just the same. Imagine you and me make a deal and agree that I sell you my old Playstation 4 for 100€. Now I go to my storage and pick up one of my 50 sealed cardboard boxes at random and give it to you in exchange for the money. There is a 1/50 chance it contains the Playstation but the other 49 boxes just contain worthless rubbish the same weight as the Playstation so I don't know which is the correct one. U…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:55 PM
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Others have pointed it out already but your error is thinking that asking for a paternity test is the same as legally accusing someone of a crime. It is not. It will likely damage the relationship or lead to a break-up. That's not the same as legal punishment though. Now if he were to actually legally to accuse her of paternity fraud in attempt to get reparation payments (in a reality where such a thing exists (and that I would find favourable)) then sure he should be punished heavily. But that …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:41 PM
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Yeah I think you're spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:32 PM
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I'm not a native English speaker, what's your problem with the word adequate here?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:59 PM
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They definitely were
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:55 PM
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I agree. There was a thread about paternity fraud here recently and I was genuinely shocked how there were almost no women in the comments that considered it a severe crime deserving heavy punishment. But yeah there are also some "woman issues" where I really really try to but can't bring myself to care for them because the scenarios are so divorced from my own lived reality. There really might be some insourmountable empathy gaps on some issues
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:43 PM
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The 6 feet threshold is a meme
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:21 PM
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His car, his fuel, his problem. And they're not dating srsly/committed anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:20 PM
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I'm all for splitting the bill on dinner dates, but this seems pretty ridiculous to me Edit: Actually I retract my statement a little bit. For the first 2 "sessions" she still shouldn't have to pay him back but for any following ones I think it's very fair for him to ask to split the costs. If she doesn't like they're both free to end the arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:13 PM
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Not the point. Height is not indicative of favourable personality traits in a relationship And since OP said > If living with a man, by default, is an incredibly bad deal and likely to get you screwed over, it's only logical to look for traits that indicate that you'll be less likely to be screwed over. It's very valid to point that out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 05:53 PM
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> Average is a perfect candidate for LL because going from short to average does not change anything. Wrong. The jump from short to average height is much more significant than the jump from average to tall height, both in terms of general respect and especially with regards to attraction from women. Height is like a logarithmic curve where the taller you are the more the diminishing the returns become
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 05:37 PM
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There is this one guy who is sort of a microcelebrity in German looksmaxxing spaces though many of his viewers are basically hate-watching his content and there has even been a documentary made about him. He used to be 171cm(5'7) tall which tbf is noticably below average height here in Germany. He did a first leg-lengthening surgery and then turned out be 182cm(5'11). That is a perfectly average, adequate height and if his goal was to just "not be short" he could've stopped right there. But nope…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 05:21 PM
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Lmao true
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 04:50 PM
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I still think the n count comparison is mostly valid but I agree the youth preference is a better one
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:06 AM
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Prelimary I will say that even if that were true it wouldn't matter imo because the crux of the matter is whether a preference for a trait in a partner is valid even if you yourself don't possess this trait. Who cares if the trait in question or the preference for it is dimorphic or not or shaped by genetics or by society, like why does it matter here that they're in different "categories"? > inb4 evo psych analysis The "evo psych analysis" is very simple, straightforward and strong. As a male m…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 08:11 PM
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Those are all arbitrary constraints that don't matter imo. The common thread is someone/a gender has a preference for a trait which they themself do not possess and don't need to possess because the preference for trait (rather than the trait itself) is dimorphic. Getting mad at a short woman preferring tall men imo would be more like getting mad at a thick stocky man preferring women with small waists and long legs. That’s the best comparison I can think of. Another one (which is actually a rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 06:16 PM
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n count is not a sexually dimorphic trait in the same way height is. so it’s not really the best comparison. Seems like an arbitrary constraint that doesn't matter for the comparison. Now that I think of it, a better objection to the comparison would be that height is a genetic trait that's mostly aesthetics while n count difference might indicate a difference in values and lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 06:07 PM
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Yeah it's probably a factor. As mentioned in the article it's correlated with autism and depression. I have this issue too but not nearly to the degree in the given example. Like sometimes I'll give a short answer and then I'm internally like 'Oh shit they probably want me to expand on that and not just the literal answer' and I'll elaborate later with a delay of 1-2 seconds
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 02:32 PM
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What do you think about high n count men preferring low n count women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 12:40 PM
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Watched it for the first time recently and surprisingly it was more entertaining than I expected
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 12:35 AM
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Cropped out most of the funny punchline :/
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 09:38 PM
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I think for Hinge that works well, for Tinder and Bumble not so much
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 09:37 PM
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Males aren’t lonely enough and it’s their own fault and personality that they’re lonely and they keep proving it themselves Different demographics/subset of men. The kind of men who get matches and first dates off dating apps and apparently have the abundance to be cocky like that are not the ones who are lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:55 PM
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Any other tennis enthusiasts here? Do you think Zverev has a chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:06 PM
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This is the issue with women's terrible "dating tips" spawned from their incredible in-group bias and irrational lean towards harm-aversion. They would rather have 99 well-meaning but careful guys completely blow their chances by acting too 'beta' just to prevent the 1 in 100 scenario of a guy being too pushy and making a woman uncomfortable. They don't seem to understand that the kind of guy who is pushy in not the kind of guy who will be on the internet reading their shitty advice, let alone a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:25 PM
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"May I have permission to gently touch your upper arm next time we have a laugh, M'lady"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:04 PM
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Ask for consent. Yes there are ways to make it romantic or sexy. Breaking the touch barrier should only be done with consent. Do you mean explicit verbal consent or contextual body language consent?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:57 PM
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I agree, I touched on this another comment here, very light blonde (or red) hair can turn your eyebrows invisible which is def suboptimal esp. as a man
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:54 PM
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Sounds great
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 11:20 AM
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Damn all that yapping and she doesn't even have an interesting type, just standard tall, dark, handsome 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 11:00 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:07 AM
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The voice memo was certainly a bad move and untactful but calling it 'coercion' is insane like how difficult is it to just say no and block him 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:51 AM
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Would him being blond/blue really make a difference in his popularity? No. My initial comment was a bit tongue in cheek anyway. It's already well-established in communities concerned with facial aesthetics that coloring doesn't matter much and is just the icing on the cake if you're already attractive all around (and in case of men, dark hair is even favourable cause it correlates with dark, prominent eyebrows)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:45 AM
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Funny you say that, someone on YT made a short analysis on how Haaland would be handsome if he were black https://m.youtube.com/shorts/CwSNLluJuzc
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:22 AM
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1
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:18 AM
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One thing I would teach my hypothetical daughters or sisters is that men will absolutely entertain women they are not attracted to. These men use these women as placeholders and extract labor, favors, sex, or just ego-boosting. The first thing women need to learn is if a guy they are seeing truly likes them. Because men will fake attraction and then discard women. This is something most people still fail to comprehend, especially women. Women believe that just because a guy is using them as a bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 08:57 PM
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You will succeed
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 08:03 PM
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Nah I do like him, he's one of the reasons I'm cheering for Norway to win the WC. And I even find his looks cool, he looks like a caricature because he has such an unusual combination of facial features and there were many funny made about that. He's still objectively ugly though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 07:02 PM
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Erling Haaland is proof you can be tall, blue-eyed, blonde, jacked and still chopped af <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 04:39 PM
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This has been discussed before but yeah Ithink you're mostly spot on
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 11:03 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:16 AM
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I agree. Lowkey get the ick whenever I read "looking for a serious relationship" in a dating bio app because it implies they had "unserious" relationships in past. Like why would you specifically stress this point beyond selecting 'looking for long-term' in the profile
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:49 AM
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I suppose for most of human history women didn't have much of a job besides child bearing so there was no reason to select for anything besides physical traits important for that. No social or political power so no reason to select for other traits like charisma. But idrk either, it's a bit of a mystery to me too
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 08:37 PM
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When I'm stressed my teeth hurt lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 08:28 PM
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A meme that was probably created by a high n count performative femcel
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 08:28 PM
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Even with mammals species there are many examples of male peacocking, gorillas, lions, deers etc. And i wonder why I think humans are more monogamous and lean towards 1:1 pairings rather than a 'winner takes it all'-scenario where one male gets all the females. The selection pressure is more equalized between males and females, they both have to try to find a good long-term mate so less pressure on males specifically to look good. And also, humans are a more advanced species so our personality, …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 08:25 PM
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> I wonder if humans were most similar to birds, it would be the males who would have to dress up to try impressing women. It's not just birds, in almost any animal species the males are the ones to peacock and try to one-up each other with their looks while the females are dull looking. Humans are very unique in this regard
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 05:29 PM
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So I guess according to bluepillers now there is NO way to EVER find out someone's body count or even estimate it, there are NO clues whatsoever, NOBODY asks about it and even if they did you could always just LIE which is totally OKAY. Cool 😐 Shut down this thread I guess there is nothing to discuss
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:14 PM
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It's probably not something that most men would ask directly I guess, rather they would look for clues, hear what stories you or friends have to tell and make inferences from that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 10:39 PM
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My post is about women, not men. And small town where everyone knows each other is one extreme. Usually there will be some overlap in social circle, you will get to know each other's friends, see what stories they have to tell about the past etc...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 10:37 PM
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> you can just make up a number Euphemism for lying to your partner
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 10:34 PM
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Once you meet a real person with BPD you'll realize it's real 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:56 PM
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Q4Men who care about body count + her past sexual behavior in general: What is a formerly slutty women who has a high n count and wants to "repent for her sins" actually supposed to do? Like imagine she had promiscuous phase where she slept quickly with many men and now wants to settle down but (in this imaginary scenario) realizes that no good man wants to take her anymore because they are put off by her sluttiness. Because I often sense this rather grim sentiment that once a woman has accumula…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:54 PM
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Yeah I remember some study that was once posted here (I will prolly not find it again) A sample of men (mostly their looks) were evaluated in different metrics by both a male and a female test group. These evaluations were later, amongst other things, put into relation with their real sexual/romantic outcomes (how many partners they had, how happy their relationship is, sth like that) The thing that correlated the most with the men's actual sexual/romantic success were the other men's evaluation…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:35 PM
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Ohh I knew someone of this type once. I give it a 80% chance this girl has BPD
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:27 PM
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Yeah I have a mysterious hater too I think
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:24 PM
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I wouldn't date someone I'd hook up with. Well why not, if I may ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:42 PM
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Truly, women do not ever hold men to standards they don't subject themselves to 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:36 PM
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I don't disagree with anything you wrote here. If anything you reinforced my point. Men definitely have "casual only" and "LTR material" categories as well and I'm sure that's very frustrating for women, just in a different (kinda the opposite) way. But I felt the comment I replied to was implying that they are same, which I wanted to point out is not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:25 PM
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Why 'easy sex', you can vet him the same over the course of multiple dates just like the guy who approached you first
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:50 PM
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But there's another problem. A man will most likely say yes to a woman approaching. That doesn't mean he really likes her, it's just an opportunity for sex. When a guy pursues a woman and she says yes, it's more likely she's really interested. I'd much rather be told no than a fake yes I'd actually wager it's the other way around. The kind of man who approaches many women is likely a fuckboy (the kind of guy who looks for sex opportunistically). Even if most men who do approach do so with genuin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:47 PM
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It seems like they understand when men do this. But can't seem to fathom when women do the same. Men don't do this though. They would hook up with any woman they want a relationship with
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:36 PM
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Yeah I don't need an ipad
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:28 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:26 PM
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But you just told us 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:57 PM
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True story, I was the wine bottle
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:55 PM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 03:58 PM
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Because they operate under a consistent ethical framework that is detached from personal wants
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 03:52 PM
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You see women aren't shy around the men they truly desire. They aren't waiting for him to approach and they certainly aren't going to wait for another woman to approach him which is exactly why they persue him first. Which is my first reason as to why approaching a woman means it's already over. Because if you didn't already demonstrate your value as soon as she saw you and that made her feel she had to make the first move you are already at a deficit in her eyes. Because she felt no urgency to …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 03:11 PM
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Is that a praying mantis
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 12:42 PM
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I disagreed with the title, but then I basically agreed with almost everything in the post. In the end it comes down to your level of inhibition. Inhibition-level is like a subset of social skills. Good social skills require an adjusted level of inhibition to make people around you feel comfortable. Both too high and too low inhibition are bad and will probably make other people uncomfortable, in the case of high inhibition, bored. Now when it comes to attracting women as a man, too low inhibiti…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 12:23 PM
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REAL
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:23 AM
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she busy lil bro
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 06:29 PM
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Have you never heard of Otome games?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 06:15 PM
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Haaland is the proof you can be tall, blue-eyed, blonde, jacked and still ugly as sin
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:36 PM
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Love him. Norway is the only country left in the WC I'd cheer for
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:18 PM
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glitch—it’s This environment isn't malicious; it’s just the natural order finally reasserting itself at maximum capacity. Not even trying to conceal it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:26 PM
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How do these interactions ("what is your height?") happen? Every popular dating app on the market allows you (and nudges you) to put your height in your profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:27 PM
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No offense but I feel like every 'short story' you've ever posted here is fake lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:46 PM
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If you're homeless just a buy a house ahh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:43 PM
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the girl who made a racist adjacent ad that she refused to apolagize for Ngl for many men that's likely part of the appeal
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 09:02 PM
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3
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 06:23 PM
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Nowhere in your scenario did the man violate or fraud a legal contract. He did not sign "I do not cheat/have never cheated". It's irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 02:34 AM
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That's an insane level of dishonest reduction. Now I guess historic or current dictators and warmongers are innocent because all they ever physically did was give some speeches and sign some laws but perhaps they never personally held a gun and shot a person so the genoicides they caused are merely "effects" they can't be held accountable for.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 01:23 AM
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Not the same and you know it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 01:13 AM
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The way you are wording it is that if a woman get pregnant and she had multiple Partners automatically she needs to disclose. That’s a double standard. Yes it's a double standard and it's a good double standard because a child was created!!! She wouldn't have to disclose her cheating if no child was created. Wtf am I reading
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 01:08 AM
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They are regulated by the government in this case. A birth certficate is a legal document. If the man abandoned the child he would have been forced to pay child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 12:16 AM
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Also want to add, some people in this thread are arguing about whether or not and under which conditions this is technically fraud. It's an interesting discussion I guess but ultimately doesn't matter imo. I believe OP wanted to talk about how to punish the offense a mother commits when she declares a man the father of her child without knowing for sure he is the father (irrespective of whether she knows for sure he is not the father or just not being sure when she had sex with multiple men in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 12:00 AM
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Full restitution, fine, compensation (also to the real father and the child). Taken together would most likely condemn her to poverty for the rest of her life trying to rid of the heavy dept. If she doesn't pay, jail of course. I also like the idea of putting her in some registry. Edit: Also upon reading the comments I would definitely extend the legal definition of paternity fraud to also include cases where the mother was just not 100% certain it's the legal (but not actually) father's child. …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 11:28 PM
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You outdid yourself with this one
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 10:40 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:38 PM
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Oh wait...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 04:08 PM
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First
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 04:08 PM
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Same. 17 minutes streak already 💪
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 03:40 PM
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Nope, please revise it and submit again
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:32 PM
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https://www.np.reddit.com/r/Funnymemes/s/6MCA75TTbs
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 11:51 AM
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It's an accurate number for births in general too, the global average is at 3,7%, according to the most popular study in the field that I could find anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 03:20 AM
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An additional point is that the threat of punishment disincentivizes people in the future to commit the crime in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 03:09 AM
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Get a dick rammed in your ass and come back here telling me getting lied to is just as bad… I've probably sustained regular physical injuries in my life that were more painful and damaging to my body than some run of the mill rape. What actually makes rape such heinous crime is the trauma and emotional scarring it inflicts out of very selfish motives
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 03:05 AM
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Ngl the child is probably better off as an orphan anyway if the alternative is the lying whore of a mother with a lack of moral compass
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:47 AM
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Paternity fraud happens in about 1% to 4% of all cases. a problem that rarely happens How can you write this earnestly, that's an INCREDIBLE amount in a country of millions
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:44 AM
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I think an argument could be made that paternity fraud is especially heinous because, in a way, it's a mini genocide of his line. I agree, the potential opportunity costs are incredible. You can absolutely draw comparisons to murder in severity, imo. Kill a 70 yo man, ok whatever, he already lived a full life and only had like 10 years left anyway. Commit paternity fraud on a 30 yo man, keep it up for 20 years, and you basically destroyed his life. He will likely not be able to find a new wife a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:37 AM
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Well then then maybe don't commit paternity fraud if you don't want to make your child an orphan
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:09 AM
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Sounds based
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:07 AM
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Ok you guys convinced me, I just asked her 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:39 PM
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Kinda hetero bro
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:46 PM
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That's fair, 5ft 7 is probably my ideal height for a girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:42 PM
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Depends a bit on how attractive the matches are but it's a good sign
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:05 PM
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Is going to a museum too fancy for a first date with a girl I only know from Hinge?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 06:32 PM
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I see. Wouldn't say that's machild or degenerate behaviour though, especially in your 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:36 PM
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How can you look at this image and reach the conclusion that it's his looks that are the 'problem' 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:26 PM
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I'm not sure what you're trying to say
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:19 PM
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About to get banned a second time for ban evasion probably, godspeed dude
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:15 PM
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It's only Friday
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:03 PM
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Sure dude
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:02 PM
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Woah how did you find my Insta
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:02 PM
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What do you mean by degenerate?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:33 PM
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I feel like you're mixing up different kinds personality traits you don't like to create a bogeyman when that constellation probably rarely exists that way in reality. Why would a guy that's just shy or struggles with decision also necessarily be simp-y or resentful? A shy guy would probably be less prone to simp cause that's behaviour he likely finds embarassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:28 PM
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Real
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:32 AM
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Lmaoo she finally texted me back just now 😅 good timing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:51 PM
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Alright that's a good point, I will be patient for now
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:32 PM
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Should I double text her and instead of being wishy-washy make a clear suggestion for a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:15 PM
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My most promising Hinge match has not responded to my last message for 24 hours where I insinuated that I'd like to meet her. Sadness...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 08:27 PM
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Agree to disagree on the cheating, I'll not bother with statistics and stuff here cause it's off-topic anyway and like you said the difference isn't big I mean the way I phrased it is pretty crass and harsh but you have bluepilled guys here who responded something similar - women will be more likely to already see it as a real relationship in the early stages while the men don't (and often never will)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:06 PM
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(men cheat more) (They don't, especially not in the relevant age brackets here) The existence of the new term "situationship" My guess is these women delude themselves and declare it as a real relationship when asked to soothe their ego
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:51 PM
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I don't even disagree with the title but that story sounds made up and even if true is anecdotal
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:28 PM
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Not to be a party pooper but that does not take into account significant recent trends of the last decade such as social media-induced brainrot and social alienation
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:16 PM
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Guy says hes single Why would he do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:58 PM
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Reposting this from the old daily thread for those who haven't seen it because I believe it's interesting to discuss Germany's biggest news broadcast just today published a new statistic about singledom in Germany: in every age bracket, up to 40 years old, male singles outnumber female singles by about 50%. I dare all bluepillers to try and explain this. Neither the fact that young men slightly outnumber young women (by ~5-8%) in Germany nor that some lesbian women might date each other are remo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:47 PM
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Actually men and women often define being in a relationship differently. I mean something like that probably genuinely is the explanation
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:47 PM
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Interesting how it completely reverts at older age (if I understand it right). Brootal age pill
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:18 PM
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For those interested I just did some research: We do have more young women than young men in Germany - in the 20-29 age bracket women outnumber men by ~8%, in the 30-39 age bracket by ~5%. About 10% of Germans identify as homo- or bisexual (with more gay men than lesbian women) In the comment section of the news article, these are cited as explanations for the gender disparity but neither are sufficient to explain it. "Women just date older men" also doesn't make sense because the trend is almos…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:04 PM
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Wake up babe, new official statistic about singledom in Germany by the biggest German newscast dropped and there consistently are 50% more single men than single women in every age bracket up to 40yo <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:38 PM
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If I have seen Supergirl? Be more specific bro, there are 4.15 billion of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 11:25 AM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 10:15 AM
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Obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 10:15 AM
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Men really want sex but sex is not what makes them attach to a woman. Meanwhile, women don't care as much about about sex but sex is what makes them attach to a man. That's how you get 'situationships' where the woman is getting strung along. The reverse is true for emotional connection which is what women value more but what maked men attach to a woman. That's how you get 'friendzone' scenarios. Ironically, both men and woman fall in love/bond through giving the other party what they want. In a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:29 PM
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Well the dinner is lighter on calories than I would've expected given the story
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 08:13 PM
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Yeah but so what, it's only "thoughtcrime"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:43 PM
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It's about the shape. Indentation vs smooth curve
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 10:58 AM
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Used to skeptic but I like AI more and more
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 10:37 AM
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🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 09:07 AM
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Straight son or virgin daughter?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 09:06 AM
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Now that Germany and Japan are out I don't even know who to support anymore in the WC 🫠
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 09:44 PM
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I just don't agree with consequentialist ethics tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:18 PM
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asked?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:07 PM
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A lot of men don't like female sexuality either
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:04 PM
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Finally my body type (6) getting some love 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 06:07 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:42 PM
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2
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 01:21 PM
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Good for you 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 01:00 PM
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But that's an extreme outlier. Not representative for average people who are somewhere in the spectrum of average looks (which most struggling males are in as well). I could now also claim that personality is the most important thing because Tourette syndrom or a severe intellectual disability make it difficult to find a relationship...it doesn't affect the average person and doesn't make much sense. And besides that even bluepillers concede looks arecthe most important thing in online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:57 PM
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Wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:46 PM
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Lowkey agree, I've always maintained a lot of struggling men would benefit if women were actually truly hypergamous
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:01 AM
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Should I get up in 5 hours to improve my sleep schedule and attend an important lecture or get a full nights sleep?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:20 AM
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On the upside this spares us from getting humiliated by France in the next round
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:32 PM
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Penalty shootout Germany vs Paraguay 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:16 PM
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No fucking way
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:55 PM
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Yess I just love being a knight in armor in a medieval dark fantasy setting. I also like that the souls games give you freedom in how to approach the game
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:15 PM
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Nah just the combat, the movement, the setting, all of it wasn't really my thing. Like I can even see it's an objectively good game, just not my cup of tea. Maybe I'll pick it uo again some time
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:03 PM
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Love the dark souls games but somehow Sekiro didn't click for me, I didn't finish it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:46 PM
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He has a great eye area, hairline, chin.. would mog her if he lost weight
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:29 PM
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Asian chud 😄
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:27 PM
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Lost my place on the podium to the dickpiller guy it's joever
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:23 PM
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Put a crumpled old sock at the back of each shoe, that should be enough. If you plan to bring her back to your place, make sure to set up vantage points in advance
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:24 AM
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Resisting the urge to reply to basically every main page post that they should just touch grass and enjoy the nice weather
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:12 AM
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Dunno I think it's completely fine and to be expected they treat male friends differently
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:05 AM
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I am skinny but somehow have a naturally broad neck (not so much that it looks unproportional though). Very thankful to whatever gene is responsible for that 🙏 I also think light makeup and eyebrow dye are good ROI looksmaxxes but I'm too proud do that stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:33 PM
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until prostitution is federally/nationally legalized and we have a healthy ecosystem for women to be promiscuous. Neither of these points solve the inkwell problem and one could easily argue they make it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:20 PM
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My final cope
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:20 PM
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Height doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:21 PM
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38% I just reponded 'Mildly' to almost every question
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:30 PM
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Can't wait for the Chad-KGB to ring at my door and ask me uncomfortable questions about my sexual activity and if they find out I'm a virgin I will be sent to the inkwell gulags
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:16 PM
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Yes. In a way it might even better if you don't know the lore. The movie mostly just takes the backroom aesthetics and then makes its own thing. But there are references to the lore too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:51 PM
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Yeah women have high in group bias and solidarity and men don't. It is known.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 01:57 PM
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It's alright, I totally know a woman who has hip dips and still found a boyfriend. Just gotta be confident and have a good personality
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 01:30 PM
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The Backrooms movie was surprisingly good
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 01:21 PM
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I kinda think we shouldn't really just call people unattractive in general like that. Praising attractiveness is one thing, the opposite is just rude and uncalled for most of the time especially if it's about attributes they have no control over
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 01:00 PM
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Lowkey girls with hips dips are kinda cute but more in a 'friend' or 'fwb' kind of way, I just couldn't see myself dating one long-term because at some point their hipolean complex is prolly going to act up. Just a personal boundary of mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 12:56 PM
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high extroversion
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:53 AM
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Nah they probably have hiplet syndrome and are super insecure 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:49 PM
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Whether or not the behaviour is conscious is unrelated to whether or not it's rewarding
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:02 PM
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I think Becky is just average
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:35 PM
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But we don't virtue signal and pretend to either
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:58 PM
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Yeah the same topics and ralking points get recycled and reposted every week
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:52 PM
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Based, those pathetic simps deserve it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:50 PM
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I dare you to ask him
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:48 PM
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As a bait-connoisseur, I wonder what is your opinion on the legendary "my son is a hateful incel and I can't defend him anymore" post?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 12:17 PM
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You know what's up
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 12:08 PM
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No, I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:22 AM
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Yeah that's true, I meant moreso if you want to get with any specific individual woman, analyzing and optimizing your interactions with her specifically will not get you very far
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:02 AM
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3
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:29 AM
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see birds of paradise, penguins with their cute ass pebbles and rocks, and big cats. They don't display boldness in their mating dance, they display competence and physical prowess. I don't think approach anxiety is a thing in tiny bird brains lol so, why should women not want acts of boldness? Boldness and confidence is literally one of THE most desirable traits and what drives attraction and interest. That's tautological. "Boldness is desirable cause it's desirable." Cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:28 AM
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Literally any other desirable trait besides boldness?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:15 AM
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Yeah this is something I've been thinking about (mostly in the context of a man missing or not responding to a subtle hint and the woman then immediately giving up and thinking he's not interested which is a common occurence) Basically those few bold, confident men act as ambassadors for the entire male gender and they skew women's perception of man. They will lead them to think that "Oh I guess if a man is interested in me he will be super red-blooded and pursue me boldly and aggressively. If h…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:12 AM
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Other positive traits could outweight it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 09:54 AM
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This is true and one of the harsher lessons I've had to learn. You can absolutely analyze dating trends on a broad, societal level, but on the individual level it's all very random and vibes-based.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 09:48 AM
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The lack of the information will probably already be suspicious to them though. Reminds me of how I intentionally never put my college GPA in my CV/applications cause it sucks 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 10:27 PM
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Yeah that could make a difference. Being short is probably more detrimental than being tall is beneficial
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 10:05 PM
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Yeah I think height might be more significant irl when she sees how your height compares to other men live. But online, women will look at your pics and decide if they find you cute; if no -> left swipe, if yes -> look through your profile and if it's interesting enough -> right swipe The scenario of "Oh he's chopped but I'm gonna right swipe anyway cause he's tall!" is just not a thing that happens. And neither is "Oh he's really cute but I'm gonna left swipe cause he's only average height!" Ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 10:03 PM
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Oh yeah almost forgot to report back my heightfrauding on dating app-experiment results (listing my height as way taller than I actually am 5'11 -> 6'4) In line with my initial hypothesis, it made no difference in how many matches I got, how engaging they were to chat with me etc. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 09:50 PM
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replacing a commonly undesired male attribute with a female one Have they come up with any interesting equivalents besides the old height vs weight thing (which isn't even a reasonable one) ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 09:00 PM
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Yeah pretty much. It's not that tattoos and gym are super attractive (although they are to an extent) but moreso the kind of person that is attractive is also just the kind of person that goes to the gym and gets tattoos. The correlation is the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 07:35 PM
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You're not even wrong tho honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 04:14 PM
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> refuse to get tattoos 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 04:07 PM
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3/4
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:07 PM
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Yeah but would you make it your main occupation to earn money with
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 12:00 AM
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Whether following one's passion is the right move is one of the most crucial question I've had to face in my life so far. I chose not to, but there's always the 'what if'
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 12:00 AM
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No, I like being a guy. If I were born a woman, I would probably like being a woman. Really this is impossible to answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 08:22 PM
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Ok I get it, but I don't agree. I think many young men today look down the exact same behaviours and dynamics that were seen under a different light a couple generations ago. Back then men used to "beg" women the same way
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 02:28 PM
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How does that lead to the phenomenon I described?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 02:21 PM
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Yeah but those that "refuse to" to whatever extent are more numerous than ever before and the data is very clear on that. And also the simp, cuck, jester etc. meme terms are popular even outside of terminally online shut-in spaces, even my friends who have girlfriends know of them and make references.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 02:20 PM
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The jester meme got me thinking. The fact it became so popular showcases something greater. A couple decades ago, being given the chance to court a woman was considered an honor for men. Men who were not very good-looking were proud to woo a woman with their wit and personality and self-sacrifice. But nowadays it's seen as a humiliation ritual. More young men than ever absolutely refuse to approach a woman in public. More men want to go 50:50 and not pay for everything on dates. (Younger) Men ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:53 PM
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trvth nuke
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:35 PM
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26, 0
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:23 PM
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I have been on dating apps for a while and developed a feeling for what kind of conversational patterns work and are expected by women and which aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:43 PM
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I need to jester to generate her interest in the first place. Unlike men, women are rarely immediately intersted in someone just based on looks
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:42 PM
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Location of the picture
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:35 PM
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We exchanged 4 messages in total, isn't that a bit too early? And unfortunately I already have plans that occupy the whole weekend (and don't involve her)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:00 AM
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Matched with an attractive and seemingly interesting girl on Hinge. Asked her a question regarding one of her pictures as the opener, she responded enthusiastically. Asked her a follow-up question and she responded short, abruptly. I already have enough experience with dating apps to know that if I ask her a third question, she will unmatch me. 3 strikes and you're out! I now have only one chance to perform my role as the male in the human mating dance to direct the "conversation" to a new, diff…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:30 AM
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Imo intelligence is effectively neither very attractive nor unattractive to women. It gets completely drown out by other traits that actually matter. I've always felt I have the best most flirty vibe with women whenever I'm drunk which I feel like lowers my IQ by 30 points but it makes me confident and low-inhib which is what actually matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 10:28 PM
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Q4Bears: Would you rather be alone in the woods with a male or female human?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 08:03 PM
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Hell yeah snakes are so cool
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 11:12 PM
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Yeah but he loses out to the fat smelly ogre who gets the girl
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 11:09 PM
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I got a 30 day ban for it once, be careful
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 11:07 PM
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Yeah that's what I think
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 11:03 PM
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Well nobody can dictate societal trends just by themself, most go by 'live and let live' in their own life and stick to their personal preferences. I definitely concede there are some pilled men who spread "anti slut" propanda though. But, in the recent threads on the topic there were some upvoted comments by women that basically said "If you as a man intend to not pay and go 50:50 on a date you should tell the woman before the date" which to me indicates they want to keep this dating rule so un…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 11:03 PM
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I'm aware they're not perfectly equivalents but they do share one significant commonality which is what I'm getting at.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:45 PM
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>Like what does one have to do with the other? Both are one-sided gendered expectations/standards in heterosexual dating. Women in thread keep crying that women are judged for high n count while men are celebrated for it. They think it's an unfair double standard and society should move away from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:33 PM
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Question for women (and men?) who are in favour of the social expectation of men paying for dates but against the social expectation of women being low count (and judged + considered unattractive if they aren't): How does this make sense? How is it not hypocritical? The reason I'm bringing this up is because the arguments posited in recent threads to back up the social expectation of men paying for dates, in my opinion, can be used to justify any one-sides gendered expectation: - "If he pays it …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:57 PM
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If a woman has a high n count in college, she still has a high n count after college 🚶‍♂️‍➡️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 12:35 PM
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It's not her question that's the issue, they are actually taking the piss out of the guy's simp response
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 12:32 PM
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Don't all dating apps just display one's height in the profile? I'm always confused when people ask or tell each other their height on dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 12:29 PM
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>90% of the guys here pissed off about not having casual sex are also uncomfortable with hugging relatives. Loll I feel called out
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 12:26 PM
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What does?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 12:09 PM
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I would say that. Filter out all women above my reasonable age range, then all women who are obese and then all women who are totally not my type and you have about ~10% left.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 11:42 PM
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I can't tell if you're serious
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 11:36 PM
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True PPD males wouldn't pay for their date's coffee
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 06:40 PM
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>he's 5'9 i think, 5'11 is the average for europe Inaccurate, but doesn't matter cause height is overrated anyway >yeah but his mouth would generally turn a woman off ? Well that wasn't the case back in Miami. But I don't know to what extent that is to be attributed to paid actors tbh >women can lose attraction if you aren't a decent human being. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:50 PM
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>he’s cold approaching I think he's basically always cold-approaching
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:34 PM
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I think his looks are Chad-level in the US and moderately above average in EU
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:24 PM
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First recorded instance of an AI bro turning on his brain forming a thought by himself
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:07 PM
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So apparently Clavicular is traveling atm and really struggling to pick up girls in European cities 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:03 PM
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I don't even really get what the issue is, maybe I am autistic. His answers are too short and uninspired? 90%+ of all convos on dating apps are like this
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:06 AM
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>flagship phone and around 300 dollars bro
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 02:28 PM
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I believe the concept of dating advice, as we men understand it, doesn't really exist in the female reality and social matrix (which is one the reasons they're so bad at giving it)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 02:26 PM
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I agree with you, in fact I wrote a sort of analysis on the topic a while ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 10:06 PM
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That's a good way to put it, I've been thinking something similar. There are forums/subreddits about loneliness and depression and whenever a women joined these spaces and said sth like "I feel so lonely, I only have my boyfriend :(" the men would often be absolutely outraged about that and how she dared to associate with them because it's just unfathomable to us men that someone with a partner would feel lonely but to women that's just barely the "baseline"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 06:28 PM
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Got rage-baited by the mainstream dating advice subreddit again. Time to mute it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 11:53 AM
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Another commenter mentioned it already but definitely the alcohol thing. The only reason it's permissible to buy and societally accepted is tradition/cause it's already established. If a substance like it were to be discovered today, there would be no way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 11:44 AM
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I wonder how it will look like in 5+ years when Gen Z reaches their 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 11:39 AM
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It works insofar as it boosts you if you have been severely neglecting it in the past. Getting in shape, getting rid of acne, getting a good haircut can make a huge difference. But if you're already a healthy person who looks after themself it will have very diminishing returns, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 11:27 AM
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80%+, I think most are good people deep down, even if they might be a bit rough around the edges Also 80%+, this depends on age, I wouldn't fault a 20-something year old for fooling around and trying stuff, but I know few genuine NEETS. Most have a job or study towards a goal. The share of men with their shit together is probably lower here, you have to be slacking somewhere to be terminally online on reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 11:20 AM
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(Probably just a bad pic though)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:40 PM
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Looksminimizing 🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:40 PM
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The weird drama some people here get involved in smh I'm really trying to ragebait at times but I only had someone from this subreddit DM me ONCE and it was just another guy who actually agreed with me on a point I made
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 11:29 PM
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> You ever thought about looking for a Spanish, Portuguese, or Italian wife? You'd be considered tall in their countries. Nah because as explained in my original comment I don't see myself at a disadvantage being average height. Never been to Amsterdam but I think they should be even taller. Iirc they are a whole 4cm taller than Germans on average (184 vs 180cm).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:43 PM
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Nooo Delete her number and all socials if you have to
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:32 PM
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If I had no pride or shame and getting women was my #1 priority in life I would be drunk 24/7
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:27 PM
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It really does seem like you pay an attractiveness "tax" when you try to date women online. I've talked about this with other men and it seems pretty consistent that the average women interested in us online is ~2 points less attractive on the decile scale than our "true match" that might be interested in us irl. I think online dating is naturally advantageous for men because it's more low effort and allows us to skip making a first move (approaching) which would be challenging and intimidating …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:22 PM
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>I wonder if there is a height difference between Northern and Southern Germany. Yeah there is, good point. I live in North Germany and the people here are tall (Hamburg, Hanover...). As mentioned I am 1,82m and I feel average height here and if I strictly compare myself to other young, ethnically German men maybe even a bit below average. But back when I lived in East Germany (Saxony) I felt above average. It's probably similar in Southern Germany though I haven't been there in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:58 PM
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trvth nvke
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:27 PM
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Goomba fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:19 PM
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You know there is a whole spectrum of attractiveness ranging from giga stacy to beluga whale
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 08:21 PM
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looksmatch =/= SMV- or RMV match
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 06:41 PM
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Fr, not being able to "figure out" or having to "learn" Discord is crazy. This must be some generational or 'nerd vs non-nerd' gap
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 06:37 PM
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I've done this too
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 06:26 PM
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Completely disagree, there a lot of people in the "maybe-zone/sort of attractive-zone" for me and frrom what I've heard that's even more so the case for women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 05:29 PM
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It's not stated though. On reddit I see Tinder screenshots of women's dating profiles where they write in their bio "don't swipe if you're under 6ft". I have never seen anything like that here in Germany
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:13 AM
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Match with a bunch of cute girls, then leave them all on read and never reply. Hell yeah dude
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:02 AM
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All I need is a bed, desk and bookshelf
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 08:59 AM
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>He’s French, I’m American Average height then. Neither tall nor short. (Above average in Thailand though)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:10 AM
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Agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:07 AM
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Really depends on the location
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:05 AM
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This is the kind of hypothetical that's impossible to answer because while I can imagine myself in any scenario I can not imagine myself being anyone but myself. As soon as you "alter my DNA" to have different preferences you lost me. I have no idea how a woman truly feels inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 04:59 PM
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I already told you the story about the girl who invited me to her place for coffee on the 4th date where I declined. That was the most obvious fumble in my life. There is another one I sometimes think about: I was on a spontaneous Tinder date with a girl who was 'looking for short-term' (it was one of my only 3 Tinder dates in my life) when I was visiting another city and had a free day. She showed me around in the city and we got along really well and then in the evening we even decided to have…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 02:59 PM
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In my experience not really, where did you hear/get that from? I've seen maybe a couple social media posts where women talk about the 1,80m threshold but it seemed like obvious engagement bait to me and as if they just copied some American talking points. For what it's worth I myself am just above 1,80m (1,82) and I see guys more than 2cm shorter than me with cute girlfriends on university campus all the time. And even if you were right, 1,80m is just average height in Germany while the 6 feet s…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 02:52 PM
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Hm, with 1,72m you are starting to approach the 'noticeably below average height'-range (in Germany). I guess it's to be expected that some women might reject you for that. But in the US it seems they are absolutely obsessed with the "6 feet"-threshold which is then basically required be considered of attractive height. We don't really have an equivalent of that in Germany. I think once you pass the 'not noticeably below average height'-threshold at like ~1,75m and above (sorry) I think you are …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 02:19 PM
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> I feel like he was trying to create that more distinct look That's strange, looksmaxxers are obsessed with the modelesque pretty boy look and usually point out prominent noses as a flaw in my experience. But I think the whole thing was PR stunt anyway so Clav can finally say "I'm such an exxtreme looksmaxxer, I even undergo beauty surgeries!" while doing the most inconsequential, risk-free normie operation in rhinoplasty. (not saying that he should do more ofc)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 10:33 PM
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Isn't it usually the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 10:23 PM
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Anyone else here from Europe feel like Americans are oddly obsessed with height? Like they overemphasize its importance for male attractiveness in the gender/dating discurse? I'll be honest, if I hadn't been sucked into American internet forums from a young age, I probably wouldn't even have 'found out' about height being apparently important in dating until much later in life. For instance, I have never seen a dating app profile from a woman here in Germany that said sth like "must be X height"…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 10:12 PM
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Wait I'm dumb, I didn't realize you were responding to a comment
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 08:56 PM
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I think their stance is basically - in an ideal world, if I could make a societal shift happen, I would want women to be less "slutty" and have lower n counts generally (because I want to date low n count women and this would give me more options to choose from) - however, since in the actual reality we live in women already have higher n counts, and I can presuppose that any woman I meet has been"slutty" with other men I will expect her to be "slutty" with me too So basically in an ideal scenar…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 03:23 PM
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Not sure what the exact context is here, but it's rude because you're accusing these men of not being hygenic. Like if I told a woman to lose weight that'd be seen as rude (even if I might have had well-meaning intentions) because I implied that she's fat
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 03:12 PM
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I love when bugs land on me. So cute
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:28 AM
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3
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 07:23 PM
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Ye I've always maintained the real black pill is that personality does matter more than looks, but the personality traits that are important are similarly immutable as your looks. Low extroversion and high neuroticism are stable throughout life, so are anxiety/avoidant/schizoid personality disorders and ofc. autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:49 PM
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Real shit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:44 PM
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But Nordic countries have a lot of inkwells too. I remember e.g. Sweden was a top 5 country in the demographics of the most popular inkwell forum at some point
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:24 PM
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It's not a guarantee, many guys in looksmaxxing/incel-adjacent spaces are absolutely good-gooking but have body dismorphia and deep insecurity. See Clav
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 11:23 AM
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Mixing in innocuous traits with malicious ones to make them all appear equally bad woahh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 11:20 AM
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I think hairdressers are pretty safe from AI though
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 11:17 AM
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One of the great tragedies of our time
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:16 PM
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Sounds cool but birds of a feather flock together. I've never heard or seen a friend of mine say/do anything like that for me to have any reason to intervene.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 07:08 PM
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I’m 22, which feels too old to be a student. It really isn't
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 06:54 PM
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4 :(
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 06:23 PM
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Would it be some subreddit rule violation if I called this story out as fake?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 04:47 PM
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Toads are crazy, I've observed them trying to hump old cans, other kinds of rubbish and members of visibly amphibian species at the local pond
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 04:10 PM
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Her account isn't deleted, lmaoo I think she just blocked you 💔
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:07 PM
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Smh they should be looking for a caregiver, not a boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 12:04 PM
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BF/SB Becky fucks (pumped and dumped, no commitmemt), Stacy gets the bucks (in commitment) Male dual mating strategy is brootal
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 10:11 AM
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Not really, male dual mating strategy is Madonna/Whore
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 10:31 PM
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Obviously lol, I'm just saying with my pictures you wouldn't be able to tell I think. The pictures are mostly me in nature or only showing me from my waist up and stuff like that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 10:10 PM
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I think it translates to 6'4 in the imperial system, it's realistic where I live. My actual height is 5'11.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 08:12 PM
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So true when I read "But he completely turned her down" I sat up from my chair and started cheering and raising my victory fist. Such a thrilling hype moment from the MC.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 06:52 PM
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I'm bored and changed my height on all dating apps from my actual height to being super tall. Let's see what happen; my hypothesis: it won't make a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 06:30 PM
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I'm bored and changed my height on all dating apps from my actual height to being super tall. Let's see what happen; my hypothesis: it won't make a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 06:28 PM
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I agree but also really tall people tend to look lanky. For proportions imo there's a sweet spot at around 5'11-6'2 (180-190cm)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 11:53 AM
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I believe it to a degree
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:43 AM
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Big height gaps are unaesthetic
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:42 AM
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Another similarity to point out here is that both job interviews and "relationship interviews" primarily assess your interview skills and not 'job-' or 'relationship skills'. One is supposed to be the proxy for other, but it's not perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:10 AM
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I've been thinking about this as well. It's the same thing with the #metoo-movement. The only men who listen to this stuff are agreeable, respectful men who would never hurt a fly anyway. Their "don't bother or annoy women"-mindset is now at a level where thry might not even do the necessary steps for completing mating ritual anymore (approaching, flirting,...). We see in the rise of sexless men without relationships. They were effectively removed from the dating pool. Meanwhile, the anti-social…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 08:58 AM
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Not every low inhibition guy is direspectful obviously, but almost every disrespectful guy will be low inhibition
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 08:41 AM
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Is this from some tv show
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 12:58 AM
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I don't believe it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 12:56 AM
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Yeah I know. But to someone who is very blue-pilled it's quite unintuitive. With how much women publicly complain about abuse in relationships and whatnot one would think they'd be more risk-averse in their partner selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:29 PM
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It's valid and yeah it can be a negative quality depending on how you see it but you could also argue it's a kind of neutral or at least harmless trait because it's at least not actively harmful. So sometimes men will be a bit bewildered because a lot of women will choose a guy with actively harmful qualities over a guy who is boring but at least harmless/neutral.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:23 PM
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https://youtu.be/V5hRmFKIWT8?is=1zyGjd-WuaJ0tFgh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:55 AM
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It's not about what they like, it's about what they find attractive and respond to
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:47 AM
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Cope and just world fallacy. Being confident is the biggest booster to your attractiveness, even if it's completely unwarranted. "education" "critical thinking skills" lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:36 AM
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Happened to me. Cease all contact with her immediately before it gets too bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:34 AM
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> The only way for this to work is if she approach but still make him work for it to prove his interest in here, at this point this guy will bolt. Yeah I've never understood this argument from women regarding why they won't approach first- "If I approach him first then he will just take the free sex and leave, even if he doen't like me that much! Only if he approaches me first I can be sure he actually likes me!" Like what "free sex", literally just vet him the same way and make him jump through…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 09:52 PM
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Currently probabably HIM - Join me in Death
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 07:49 PM
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Yeah I've heard of guys putting a wrong, shorter height on purpose
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 08:09 PM
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Nah I just think you are overplaying how easy it supposedly is for highly attractive men to hook up with a highly attractive woman (and by highly attractive I don't just mean 'young & skinny' but equal level of modelesque facial aesthetics) as well underplaying how willing those guys are to aim lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:11 PM
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Seems logically consistent, although I still disagree generally.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:23 PM
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And how do you explain that you yourself (supposedly) have such abundance of options in your own attractiveness range while the average guy does not (assuming the gender ratio is equally skewed across all attractiveness levels)?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:33 PM
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There's no reason for him to ever pick an option who's not attractive. Exploit the attractiveness-gap for higher quantity, easy lays. Women of your own attractiveness level will probably expect you to be a jester and wine and dine them. I think a lot of guys want to skip that and are just looking for easy, casual stuff. Also, the maths isn't really working out. You claim that: People on dating apps match assortatively based on their attractiveness and men only pursue women in their league or abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:47 PM
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Yeah I hope she is joking. You never know om Twitter
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 11:54 AM
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Not really, unless there is some layer of irony I'm missing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 11:49 AM
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No, generally they don't. Here's my experience. Based on my downloaded tinder data, I swiped right Bro what, are you making a general statement based on your own swiping behaviour? You do know that men on Tinder, on average, have a 50% swipe right rate right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 09:51 AM
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No as another commenter pointed out, it's actually mostly women who use this term. It's not something lonely say often
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:56 PM
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tolerable, pays well, minimal human contact, and non physical. Those are my criteria as well and unfortunately all of these kinda jobs are very susceptible to AI replacement and offshoring
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:54 PM
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First off, chill. It's not that serious. Height is not the most important variable for women's partner choice, not even close. A more interesting question to ask e.g. would be, why there are still introverted or shy men(?) Secondly, genetic variability just exists. Men today are already much taller than ~200 years ago. They're not short, they are shortER than taller men today. The only way to get rid of "short" men then would be to get rid of genetic variability so that every man has the exact s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:30 PM
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Reminder: the overwhelming, vast majority of abuse towards women is committed by sexhavers that were previously chosen as sex partners, and not by sexlessers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:18 PM
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Yea
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 11:56 PM
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I agree with this. It's an issue I've had with some looksmaxxer/incel-adjacent-types. Feminine and masculine beauty are just different (although there is definitely overlap too). Here is another example of a bad faith comparison I remember. This sort of eye area just does not look good on a male but okay on women. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 08:22 PM
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My single friends haven't sworn off women but they aren't actively looking either (afaik) 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:31 PM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/DY7zzKZI3cr/ It's joever
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:31 PM
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Even for those instances where they didn't display obvious public displays of affection, what's the probably distribution like if 1 boy and 1 girl of the same age attend an event? 5% they're siblings, 15% they're just friends, 80% they're dating. It doesn't matter that there were maybe some false positives, I saw more than enough of these couples
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 01:48 PM
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Yeah it's some womanese bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 11:18 AM
1

It's obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:55 AM
2

My conjecture: men retain the exact same symmetrical bell curve pattern for other men, women's ratings are mirrored on the Y axis if there was one in the middle, so basically very favorable ratings
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 09:37 PM
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Are you suggesting that strangers and other people should determine someone's attractiveness? Not a question of should, they factually do determine their attractiveness. Are people not allowed to have confidence in their own appearance They are allowed to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 09:26 PM
3

People with visual perception
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 09:17 PM
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They're prolly not a 10
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 09:15 PM
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Delusional but I don't really care
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 09:10 PM
3

I attended an anime convention today (yeah I know I know) and I saw an incredible amount neckbeard-type guys walking around with cute girlfriends who totally "mogged" them imo. I was very surprised by this. All very anecdotal of course but this just might show the power of nichemaxxing. And weebmaxxing isn't too bad cause anime is a more mainstream edgy hobby now and especially cosplay is something girls like cause it's artsy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 08:36 PM
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Cavill, Pattinson, Mikkelsen, Cruise should be higher, Gosling should be lower imo
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 08:23 PM
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Ngl I don't find her attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 08:16 PM
1

Recent trend though, there are still many more MTFs in the general population rn
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 06:27 PM
1

Germany, ~2 times as a side dish
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 06:14 PM
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2
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 06:12 PM
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There are more MtFs than FtMs. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC7906237
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 06:10 PM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/DYomruQT8jw/ Brootal Twilight pill
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 08:18 AM
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1
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 05:12 PM
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It's not a moral failing but neither is it a reasonable strategy for avoiding abusive behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 10:38 AM
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"Looking for long-term, open to short term"(or vice-versa) Yeah you will probably not be considered for long-term by men on dating apps 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 10:34 AM
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It's inherently ambiguous. I believe "both sides" utilize this ambiguity and flip-flop between the two meanings of "good" when it suits them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 08:08 AM
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Idk on one hand I totally agree, on the other it's one of the things that makes life worth living
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:43 AM
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It theory yeah, in practise here no because you're building up for the same kind of argument
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:03 PM
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I think that the refusal to even engage with and discuss a study that opposes your worldview just because the data might be not representative is even more indicative of being biased. You are allowed to know the full context and you are correct in that many studies indeed skew the truth(, often with some kind of sampling bias). But the straight-up refusal to even entertain data points that don't favor one's worldview even just for the sake of argument is imo quite lame and a bit lazy and uncreat…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 05:42 PM
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So ig the answer to my second question is indeed yes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 05:05 PM
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No? We could just presuppose that the information/data is correct and have a discussion under that framework. 'Why is the data the way it is?', that was the question being asked. But apparently you don't want to do that, you want to attack the data's credibility straight up. That's what I was pointing out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 05:02 PM
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So ig the answer to my second question is indeed yes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:52 PM
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we don’t even know what methods were used to come to this conclusion Why does that matter? Or was your first instinct to just attack the study's credibility?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:40 PM
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I'm continually confused by it because my mother tongue literally does not have an equivalent word for "entitled". There is "to want something". Like e.g. "I wish I had a bugatti. The world would be a better place for me if I had a bugatti. However, nobody is obligated to gift me a bugatti". And then there is "I am legally owed something." Like "I paid for the Bugatti and if my contractor doesn't provide it then the state monopoly of violence should 100% enforce it." I guess the word 'entitled' …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:33 PM
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Get out of here Chad 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:42 PM
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Every picture I've seen of the judge is in the 3/4 fraud angle. Clav would mog him in a fair comparison
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:06 PM
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Real
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 06:25 PM
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It's been pointed out before but women saying they don't like muscles is the equivalent of men saying they don't like makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 06:02 PM
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incel subreddit in disguise. 😭 Dunno I once got a 30 day ban for posting the most milquetoast, tame stuff that was apparently considered too """""incel"""""
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:33 PM
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Logically obviously yes, but if you have to negotiate about sex acts and stuff there are probably bigger issues and you might want to just break up
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:27 PM
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It's a human problem not just a male problem. Yeah but for women it doesn't affect their dating outcomes much which is what this sub is about
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:14 PM
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Trvth nuke
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:20 AM
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It's true honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:53 AM
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I don't know how credible this is cause I've heard this mostly from some "pickup guru/red pill bro"-kinda guys but it's a kind of story I've come across often: A guy manages to pick up a girl or have a successful first date with her, brings her back home to his place to hook up. Now she notices his apartment and furniture is really expensive. She asks what he does for living and the guy reveals he has some sort of high-status job like entrepreneur or dentist. And then in that moment she complete…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:33 PM
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3
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:12 PM
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Lmaoo
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:08 AM
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however a year later i found him on grindr and we did end up having sex. Now that's a plot twist i didn't expect ☠️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:54 AM
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did you really say that? 💀 whyyyy Cause I really don't like coffee smh. I also thought that her (from what she told me) annyoing roommate would be there too and I didn' really want to meet her -I forgot that she told me earlier that her roommate was out of the house that day accidental date Are you sure that's to be declared a date in that case😅 while i'm sitting there at 2am actually drinking coffee Realistically that would've happened for me too, probs would've been too shy to make a move or w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:28 AM
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Yes. Probably when I was on a 4th date with a girl, we spent the afternoon together exploring some spots in the city, then it got dark and she asked "Wanna go back to my place for a cup of coffee?" And I responded sth like "Nah I don't like coffee, I'm just gonna drive home"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:12 AM
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Slept badly, then consumed absolutely copious amounts of energy drinks, on my way to the gym right now, I will either put in the performance of my life or I'll just fucking die of a spontaneous heart attack but either way it'll be lit 🔥🔥🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:48 PM
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Oh actually didn't know that, ty
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:27 PM
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that dips in and out from time to time 🧚‍♀️ top 1% commenter
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:25 PM
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True Adam is basically the highest position on their looks scale, there can only be one true Adam and he's the gold standard for men's beauty. Some incels/looksmaxxers are obsessed with the search for the true Adam lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:26 PM
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The idea of Chad historically precedes the other levels on the looks scale (which is also only a niche thing in some looksmaxxing/incel spaces anyway)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:18 PM
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I mean idk but it doesn't seem like sth that would be physically pleasurable in itself (compared to alternative ways of stimulation) for either of them. To me it seems like the participants are moreso taking enjoyment in the power dynamic of dominance & submission. So it does seem quite kinky to me. Then in the last decades people became pornbrained so the practise of oral became more common.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:14 PM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:04 PM
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It isn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:54 PM
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No idea, probably said sth weird/icky/boring idk how would I know since our communication stopped abruptly
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 08:49 PM
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Today I saw the cute girl who unmatched me on Hinge in the gym again. She was with a guy who I assume is the guy she's actually dating now. Now the thing is, I absolutely mog him; I'm taller, more handsome, better body.. Not sure what to make of this...black pill disproven I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 08:13 PM
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I feel like a ton of people here have fenced dog syndrome and wouldn't be barking so fervently in person For sure haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 03:20 PM
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There is a looks threshold, there’s always been a looks threshold, and that’s why the red pill was always meant for “average” men and above, not straight up ugly men. that if you did not have the right jaw/eyes/forehead/wrist/cheekbones/etc., it was just over. No other amount of flirting, game, status could make up Huh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:48 PM
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Who determines Like who decides I do 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:45 PM
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Somehere in the average joe range, depending on how charitable I am to myself. I think the biggest flaw here is that all attributes are weighted equally(, but e.g. in my opinion facial aesthetics and inhibitness are much more importamt than everything else)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:41 PM
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Real
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 08:01 PM
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So I guess (some) women will now just straight up agree with inkwell ideology to own the inkwells? "Genetic determinism? Highly asymmetric dating market? Yeah it's all real and always has been! Suck it!"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 07:50 PM
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Hard to say but I lean towards disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 07:47 PM
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Try nichemaxxing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 02:09 PM
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I would cut her off immediately
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:13 PM
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If she wasn't fat they might be
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 10:56 PM
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Cope. Going to the gym has been found to the number one habit that correlates with being sexually active
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 10:55 PM
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So the options are three strict categories of "ordinary," "conventionally attractive," No, there is a continuous spectrum from most unattractive to most attractive. Why a random college campus? It's a simplified example to illustrate my statement about percentiles from the first paragraph. It's supposed to be generalized to society at large. What determines a "representative sample?" That the uni campus isn't home to disproportionally ugly women and disproportionally handsome men (or vice-versa)…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:50 PM
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man that offers literally nothing of value to her do you? Do you really think social comptetency is the only value a man can bring into a romantic relationship with a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:01 PM
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A looksmatch is just that, a looksmatch. It's not the same thing as SMV, RMV or league which are concepts that many ppl mix up. A woman in the Xth percentile of attractiveness (compared to other women in the same age bracket) is the looksmatch of a man in Xth percentile of the male attractiveness-scale. Take 100 girls and 100 guys from a random college campus. Make sure they are a representative sample. Make it so that the two groups stand in a line ranked in order of physical attractiveness. Pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 01:55 PM
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Agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:26 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:09 PM
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I specified under the assumption/framework that n count matters. Her RMV decreased (to other men).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 11:46 AM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 11:41 AM
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Nope. My own dick is fine. Other men's dicks elicit a disgust reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 11:41 AM
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I've read this kind of argument before and if anything I'll have to admit it's kinda clever in an evil way. As the OP comment pointed out, if the dominant ideology doesn't match reality, some sort of make-believe justification is always required. And the idea of the mythical "nice guy(tm)" is absolutely perfect for that cause it's an unfalsifiable, self-fulfiling tautology: If a man dares to point out that "actually in my experience I notice no positive correlation between pro-social behaviour a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:59 PM
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a transactional motivation and entitlement That's uncharitable framing of completely normal, reasonable behaviour. Romantically successful men will also court a women and give her special attention but pull back the moment they realize their romantic intentions are not reciprocated.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 03:59 PM
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Perfectly said.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 12:17 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 12:27 AM
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This is so absurd I struggle to put myself in that position but I see what you're trying to do with this and I applaud your creativity coming up with this scenario lol. I'm pretty sure everyone would find her "excuse" reasonable and not take issue with it with regards to "equal treatment" and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:51 PM
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No you don't
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:16 PM
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He did hard drugs
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:14 PM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:34 PM
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Q4M who care about body count: Be completely honest, if you were dealing with a bisexual woman, would you care about her female past lovers the same way as male post lovers?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:57 PM
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It's wrong to say that men generally "age like fine wine" (they don't) but it's also wrong to say men's attractiveness is affected by age the same way a women's is. It's nuanced and the truth is somewhere inbetween. As an absolute statement it's a cope and a revenge fantasy but there is an element of truth to it. There is A LOT of variance in how well people age so pointing to individual examples doesn't mean anything. But if you were to map attractiveness relative to age, I believe a general tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:33 PM
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Dunno
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:59 AM
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The comment by leosandlattes? But she doesn't talk about "internal strength"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:21 AM
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Can you explain what 'internal strength' entails?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:12 AM
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Very much dependent on what my child's talents and interests are. Nursing is a very very safe bet though. Society is getting older and older where I live (or in most of the west)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:36 AM
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-20 cents (yeah, I'd pay for the milk. I like milk.)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:29 AM
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I agree fully with your post and I think it's an understandable and reasonable position. I also believe that scenario 2 probably doesn't happen too often (and if it did how would you even know?). Not sure why it even sparked such a debate. So with that in mind, I think it's strange that almost all women in these threads argue back against it so fervently...it seems a bit...suspicious...as if you were really poking an uncomfortable spot Like aren't women usually the ones who put so much emphasis …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:03 AM
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Dafuq
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 07:37 PM
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Yeah but for this hypothetical I do know or at least can be reasonably certain
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 07:36 PM
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Personally no but I'd want them to have the same willingness to suffer as for their previous partner
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:55 PM
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That's why I spwcified 'for no good reason'.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:36 PM
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Your partner cheated on you but never told you and you never found out. You're still in a relationship with them. So I guess them being faithful isn't important to you...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:10 PM
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Refer to my very first comment in this chain
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:59 PM
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No, if the treatment itself is bad that's a dealbreaker too. Both conditions need to be fulfilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:51 PM
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No, if the treatment itself is bad that's a dealbreaker too. Both conditions need to be fulfilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:51 PM
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I want my treatment to be equal or superior compared to previous partners. To some extent, that is more important than the actual treatment itself. Idk why that's so hard to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:46 PM
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she did piss play because her partners asked for it and not the other way around. But you said in a previous comment that she also liked it? I as well as other ppl have already explained why it matters. Don't to repeat it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:39 PM
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I mean I am not going to do that, but hypothetically yeah that's a way to find out. But the fact that she didn't enthusiastically suggested piss play herself is also already a cue.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:28 PM
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Doesn't matter, it's all hypothetical. Realistically I'd never find out unless she or one of her ex partners told me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:23 PM
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Nah I think more like ignorance is bliss and giving people the benefit of the doubt. But if it somehow were to come out she gave previous partners preferential treatment it's a dealbreaker. (Probably many men view n count the same way). Like you probably also don't meticulously research every potential partner's criminal record but if it does come out they've been to prison for a heavy crime it's a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:18 PM
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What if receiving preferential or equal treatment from my partner is a need of mine?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:01 PM
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Some women here sometimes say things like "huh so you want to have sex with many women and you want them to sleep with you early and easily but wouldn't this make them 'easy' and hoes and the very thing you/men dislike?" So I want to reiterate: dating is a zero-sum game, there is no silver bullet, and my dating goals are naturally in conflict with those of women and especially those of other men. Under the assumption that n count matters, if I ("general me" if that makes sense) sleep with many w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:43 PM
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Just say no
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:51 PM
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It's very abstract and impersonal, not like anyone is disrespecting me specifically and I get the same treatment as 99% of non-rich ppl. There's also absolutely nothing I can do about it anyway so I'd just be wasting time and energy if I were to "riot".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:11 PM
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> It’s insulting knowing that a partner was willing to treat someone else better regardless of what one’s own needs are. Yeah this is the crux of the issue and I agree. For many people keeping this notion of fairness and self-respect/pride matters more for one's mental well-being than some actual traits/actions of their partner. Like if I were dining at a restaurant and the guy at the table next to me had to pay less for the same food and also got an extra coke and dessert for free for no good r…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:47 PM
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> But fairness makes me happy and keeps my needs met. Yeah this is the crux of the issue and I agree. For many people keeping this notion of fairness and self-respect/pride matters more for one's mental well-being than some actual traits/actions of their partner. Like if I were dining at a restaurant and the guy at the table next to me had to pay less for the same food and also got an extra coke and dessert for free for no good reason then I would be mad EVEN IF I wouldn't have liked sugery food…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:46 PM
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No, I disagree. I think most people have a natural, healthy sense of self-respect and pride.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:19 PM
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If you’ve never seen Hinge prompts or Tinder/Bumble bios talking about men’s heights you were probably on the app for only 5 minutes. Never, I swear, and I've been using dating apps for 2 years on and off. But I'm also not from the US. I feel like this height craze isn't really a thing here in Europe
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:11 PM
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Real
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 10:17 AM
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I have never ever seen a woman write sth about height in her dating app prompt/bio and I've been on apps for a long time. But now that I think about it I only read the profiles of women after I matched with them. And considering I'm not super tall those women probs just filter themselves out lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:16 AM
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I notice the opposite 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:13 AM
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Does it count if someone else replied to the 2nd comment earlier? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:27 AM
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Just world fallacy galore the thread
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 07:27 PM
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I don't really talk to women in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 07:12 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 07:08 PM
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Hinge is the one dating app that does it right and severely limits the amount of likes men can send out (I think it's 8 a day), thus forcing them to be more selective. On Tinder and Bumble all women will receive an incredbile amount of likes cause men swipe indescriminately.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 05:47 PM
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💯💯💯
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 06:14 PM
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Top 10 conversations that never happened
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 06:02 PM
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Isn't it usually the other way around and the broke students who were performative commies in university switch up real fast once they receive their first real paycheck
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:48 PM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/DXaSpkjj_3V/ Anyone wanna comment on this? I'm not 100% sure what her issue is and whether she seeks agreement or rather polarity/differing opinions. Personally I just don't feel strongly about a lot of things and I have a rather flat affect and I don't want to just fake opinions/emotions either for the sake of it. I also feel like a bit like if I were too chalant and enthusiastic on a date, I'd give off "gay bestie" vibes and risk being friendzoned but maybe this …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:23 PM
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This is one of the few issues where even I as a very "pilled" man will always agree. The use of this language genuinely seems quite misogynist to me and there is no good excuse for it. I don't like how culturally accepted it is. But I will also say that a lot of women don't seem to mind this language and even seem to enjoy the fantasy of being ruined/humiliated/whatever by a high-value man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:09 PM
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You get it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 07:52 PM
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None of these are representative of the average struggling man or incel whatsoever 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:39 PM
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Incels don't interact with women in the first place, their degree of agreeableness doesn't matter anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 05:40 PM
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It's funny cause I would've said the exact opposite. I think a common issue among struggling men is they're too agreeable
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 04:45 PM
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males to be taller and stronger than females, like virtually all sexually dimorphic animals are. *mammals. With insects, spiders, reptiles, amphibia and many more the females are bigger
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 01:59 AM
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The height thing is women having anxiety about how they compare to other women. The heights of their male partners are just an easy and visible things to compare. That's my theory as well, I think height isn't nearly as important for "raw, primal physical attraction" as it's made out to be, I think your face and probably even your body type/muscles (and obviously personality) are more important but women just lovee flexxing on other women by flaunting their high market value partners. And height…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 01:55 AM
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Posting that as 2nd is some big aura loss
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 10:45 PM
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No way you got triggered by this low effort joke comment
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 06:15 PM
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Duo
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 09:13 PM
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It's tautological and useless. It is literally impossible for me to not "be myself".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 10:41 AM
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Am I ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:15 PM
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2
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:12 PM
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Brootal blackpill screenshot poster guy is finally back!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 03:10 PM
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Except I'm not smart just weird and awkward😎
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 02:36 PM
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Yess
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 11:35 AM
1

Same 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 11:24 AM
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Yeah this one is pretty good
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 09:24 PM
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Atm probably Quetzalcoatlus. Modern illustrations of it look like straight out of a nightmare.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 08:01 PM
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1
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 07:10 PM
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There's this cute Italian exchange student who I talked to once and who I lowkey have a crush on in one of my classes. Today we coincidentally arrived at/in front of our lecture room at almost the exact same time. Internally I'm already like "very nice I'm going to hold the door open for her and say hi and maybe we'll have some smalltalk and sit next to each other" I pull on the handle and the door doesn't open. It's locked. I look at her confused and she points out I'm at the wrong door and the…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 06:04 PM
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Lower attractiveness standards, higher standards for virtuous and favorable personality traits
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 05:11 PM
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They want men who are attractive "naturally". PUA/red pill is like deception and a revolt against nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 01:33 PM
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Yeah I've noticed this as well it's sorta categorized in my mind as classic boomer advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 09:58 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 06:16 PM
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I've read the comment chain you're refering to. The crux of issue, as well as I can explain it as a non-native speaker, is that dating (in a general sense) =/= dating (with a specific person being the object in the sentence). Same word, slightly different meaning. If I go on a first date with 100 women then I am dating but I am also not dating anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:42 AM
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Actually nvm I misread the comment
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 10:16 PM
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What about skinny guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 10:13 PM
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Medium-ugly Becky
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 04:28 PM
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profiles that say they are into long term and not casual Imagine actually reading that stuff while swiping. Couldn't be me(n)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 04:08 PM
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In contrast to men, women's attractiviness standards fir casual or higher
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 04:06 PM
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Just checked, but isn't Bumble the only dating app that allows to send pictures? That would make it impossible to receive a dick pic on Tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 03:53 PM
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It depends on how close they they are behind me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 03:49 PM
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Yeah I agree those are some good points that would actually constitute a type
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 12:16 PM
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most people would prefer to date someone they find hot. Of course but imo that's baseline/standard preference that almost all people of that gender share and not indicatice of a "type". Like I would never say that my type is young, slim+curvy, pretty women cause that's just a useless statement. A type would be something that is neutral or devisive rather than universally recognized as attractive in my opinion. E.g. thick, healthy hair is standard preference but prefering it long or short on a pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:54 AM
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Yeah, in a lot of movies too. Seems to be an American thing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 10:31 AM
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In case anyone was wondering (probably not) I canceled the tennis date with Stacy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 10:22 AM
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In my opinion the moral panic around 'negging'' is completely overblown. The entirety of PUA/red pill is basically about teaching socially stunted lowkey autistic men to emulate the behaviours that socially adept attractive men just do naturally. They use snappy edgy language to appeal and sell their courses or whatever better. So "light flirty banter" becomes "negging". Women in their usual solipsism regarding men don't even realize that men who are bad at flirting even exist. If a men were int…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 10:17 AM
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Yes. Likely one of the main drivers of the sexlessness/loneliness-whatever epidemic
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 09:56 AM
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I like how whenever the topic of "type" comes up most people just start describing a conventionally attractive person of the opposite sex 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 09:44 AM
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Don't think so honestly but what do I know
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 09:40 AM
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Heterosexual men project how their own sexuality works onto women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 09:36 AM
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No, even for short term flings physical attraction isn't enough for women. It's necessary but not sufficient
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 09:35 AM
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Women tell men to "be real" not as genuine dating advice but to weed out the undesirables
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 06:43 PM
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Older generation is COOKED
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 01:03 PM
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What do people mean when they say "medium-ugly"?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 10:39 AM
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*10,000
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 12:22 AM
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What does the type usually entail? Like how specific are women here?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 12:18 AM
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Q4W: How would you feel if your partner told you "Noo yours is just perfect, the tight ones hurt me anyway!"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 12:30 PM
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Yeah it makes sense that personality is more important than looks except the cases where looks are more important than personality. Quantitatively it's more important in more cases so for short I'll just call it more important. You get the point.. But that "personality" does not mean morals or prosociality, it means having a personality that is either sexy or useful Agree. And good analysis on the last part it really does feel like controlled opposition sometimes cause it's mostly women or mains…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 12:21 PM
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I don't find citing extreme outliers super convincing. For the people somewhere in the spectrum of average, personality IS more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 11:50 AM
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Hypergamy in the original sense means seeking mates above one's own "social caste" e.g. you're middle class and hyperfocus on seeking an upper class mate. Women do not really do this and most people just pair up assortatively within their own social league. The manosphere then bastardized the term to also apply to other qualities like looks and it morphed into some weird tautology "women find attractive men more attractive". Like yeah no shit. In most relationships the man earns more than the wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 10:52 AM
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If you had to quantify, how much would you say paying improves your results? How many more matches (%)?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 09:57 AM
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My top 3 most bluepilled takes: Women aren't actually hypergamous (in the true sense of the word) Male loneliness epidemic isn't a thing Personality is wayy more important than looks
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 09:48 AM
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All the feminist anti-patriarchy women morphing back into tradwives in this thread 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 09:45 AM
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You're right, I've noticed this as well with heightpilled inkwells: She dated short guys in the past, now has a tall boyfriend -> "woah so she does prefer tall guys after all!" She dated tall guys in the past, now has a short bf -> "woah so after having fun with tall Chads she is settling for a short beta!" Can't win.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 09:23 AM
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Not into mbti (anymore) but INTP
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 11:58 PM
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2
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 02:13 PM
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It just is
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 11:01 AM
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It's icky
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 11:00 AM
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She's so pretty why does she have to be restarted 💔
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 10:40 AM
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Dating apps are the only avenue through which I find new women to date, however I honestly wouldn't want a girlfriend that uses dating apps 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 10:38 AM
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Truueeeee
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 10:34 AM
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Don't we have a weekly for that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 10:29 AM
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Entirely depends on how you define 'free' and 'will' but personally, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 10:29 PM
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Still better than being too shy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 09:13 PM
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Nah I'm safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 08:19 PM
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On a scale of 1-10, how pathetic is drinking cheap beer right before going to a date or social event to give yourself a buzz, cause you'd be too socially anxious and inhibited sober?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 08:08 PM
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Relatable
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 08:01 PM
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I love this guy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 05:13 PM
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Hell nahh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:07 PM
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Oh I honestly kind of forgot that one. But I'll keep it mind this time...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:50 PM
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For a moment I was like "hey why does the data graph just stop at 2018?" 💀💀💀
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:49 PM
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From the instagram-reel? Honestly, no, not really :/
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:21 PM
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I am strongly attracted to her. The issue is I have doubts we are compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:17 PM
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Yeah had that happen to me once or twice as well. Probably fumbled the text convo in a way I don't even understand. Though if she only stopped responding yesterday in your case there might still be hope. But in my case now this girl who wants to meet up is actually looking for long-term (despite her profile being quite thirst-trap-y) so I lowkey feel like I'm leading her on in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 04:56 PM
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Wtf. So this Stacy I matched with on Hinge actually agreed to go on a date and play tennis with me (on monday). I feel so bad. I only liked her profile cause she's really pretty and only replied to her texts cause I was bored and had no more interesting matches. She's really nice but realistically she is way too normie for me and we probably have nothing in common (except liking tennis). I only asked to meet up cause I was wondering if she'd say yes. She is way too receptive to me, it's weird. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 04:32 PM
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How would you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 11:36 AM
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Not sure what this has to do with the post. Most people here are not agreeable lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 11:15 AM
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That’s just me tho, I lose attraction at passivity. It's quite common, I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:21 AM
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Sorry to hear that. I've learned my supportive parents are really not something I should take for granted.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 10:28 PM
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I thought it's normal 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 06:58 PM
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My mom told/tells me regularly that I'm handsome or tall or muscular (I'm not lol). It doesn't affect my confidence much either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 06:52 PM
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Should've paid attention to my flair
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 05:31 PM
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I would for sure vote red in any case lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 05:22 PM
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Yes but your vote could also be the potential lynchpin that could tip the favour so that blue wins which leads to an INCREDIBLE amount of utility. I'm not doing the math on that but just intuitively I think it depends on what you expect the rest of the population to vote. Majority red? Sure, vote red yourself to not die in vain and keep the utility of your own life. Expect it to be somewhat close like in the screenshot you posted? Better vote blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 05:05 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 04:40 PM
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Voting red and voting blue would both lead to the same outcome (everyone's survival) as universal maxims. In this case, yes, due to how this specific scenario is set up and only under the assumption that everyone follows their duty to vote red. But it's about the general maxim that is generalizable and applicable to more scenarios and in general, a universal maxim that gives people the duty to act in a way to ensure population survival is preferable to most people. Also, certain utilitarian view…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 04:40 PM
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"I ought never to act except in such a way that I could also will that my maxim should become a universal law." -> a maxim that universally leads people to vote blue would be a preferable to one that universally leads people to vote red -> therefore vote blue "People ought to act in a way that maximizes aggregate utility in a society" -> in this case voting blue increses likelihood of more people surviving while red doesn't -> therefore vote blue to maximize (likelihood of high) utility
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 04:11 PM
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The thing is that it seems women's attractiveness standards for casual relations appear to be higher than for comitted ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:53 PM
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but there's no defensible moral framework that should lead a consistent mind to vote blue I'm pretty sure both Kantian deontology as well as pretty much any form of consequentialism/utilitarianism would decisively lean to vote blue
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:46 PM
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quite frankly anyone voting 2 deserves natural selection But ironically on a species or societal level, the group where most vote red select themselves out and the one with higher cohesion wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:43 PM
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Fuck him and absorb his body count by law transitivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:12 PM
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Thank you to the anonymous person who gifts me and my comments dumb reddit awards today, you a real homie
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:00 PM
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Honestly no, but I feel stressed when we actually do match cause I feel pressured to keep up the 'wittiness' I displayed in my first text
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:57 PM
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(I'm one of them 😔)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:35 PM
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Men who respond to prompts on Bumble and Hinge:
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:35 PM
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Yeah I definitely get that. For me the counterexample is my brother and his girlfriend. He is almost just as brainrotted as me and the memes we send each other probably put us on some watchlists lol but his girlfriend is a total normie and they have been together for years and have a great vibe & relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:21 PM
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I'm really unsure personally. Idk if I need someone who has the same autism and brainrot as me or someone who counters and offsets it. There are (dis-)advantages to both. And I have had good vibes with girls of either side of the spectrum in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:11 PM
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Q4M: Would you prefer your girlfriend to be internet-brainrotted like you, knowing about manosphere, edgy humor, conspiracies etc, or be a pure, innocent normie?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:42 PM
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They're prolly gooning to the attention they receive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 09:27 AM
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Cool but not worth the tradeoffs
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 07:46 PM
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Worse
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 07:36 PM
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No need to, she is already perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 07:25 PM
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Good responses
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 03:19 PM
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I think male friendships are generally very "activity-based". Studying, working, sports, gaming etc. I couldn't imagine being friends with someone I have nothing in common with, personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 01:09 PM
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Brootal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 12:14 AM
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I've always been confused about this as well. There are some obvious examples of very high or very low status, but they apply to verryyy few people and almost all men are just regular citizens, especially in today's society where we don't communities where everyone recognizes each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 10:06 PM
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Variance exists
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 06:36 PM
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"What the fuck are you talking about?" (My hypothetical response as someone who could probably write a Phd-thesis in manospherology)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 06:32 PM
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I've read stories with very different outcomes from men who did this - for some it apparently really was just some mental block they had and after overcoming it with a prostitute they become players and quicky rack up a high body count naturally or find a girlfriend soon after - for some it worsens their depression because the experience reinforced they can only gain a woman's affection by paying for it - for some it doesn't change anything and they just feel the same after - some become addicte…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 06:23 PM
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Tennis is so fun. You guys should take the Tennis pill 🎾
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 01:26 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 01:26 PM
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That would be my intuitive answer as well
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 09:15 PM
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I swear I had this reel in my feed yesterday or so
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 07:40 PM
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Yeahh that was my line of thought, for the next step that's a no-brainer first date suggestion hehe especially if our schedules seem to overlap anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 07:11 PM
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I mean her profile says that she goes to the gym and our university only has one, so it was kinda was obvious that she'd go to this one anyway Was thinking of texting sth like that I think it's admirable of her to spend her saturdsy evening working out lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 07:06 PM
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I don't know her irl, I just saw her. Wasn't bold enough to strike up a conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 06:53 PM
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"It just happened"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 06:41 PM
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I'm pretty sure I saw one of my Hinge matches at the uni gym earlier today. Should I tell her or is that weird/creepy?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 06:39 PM
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Top 5 least favourite words in ppd debates: entitled owe(d) projecting deserve(ing) insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 04:35 PM
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😳😳😳
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 12:22 PM
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Yeah I'm naturally high-inhib and it's brutal. On my dates last year I often tried to make them involve alcohol, not in a predatory "I need to losen the girl up"-way, but because I need it for myself to low-inhibmaxx 🫠
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 11:41 AM
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I don't care either way, but if this behavioural pattern is not a thing in wolves then you could just find a new poster animal e.g. gorillas that actually has hierarchical societies
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 11:36 AM
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It's called apex fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 11:04 AM
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Me as a software dev opening my merge requests right before I leave so I can work on my senior's feedback the next day 😇
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 06:49 PM
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That sub is so lame, imagine having nothing better to do than to focus on your victim mentality over being average height of all things
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 06:26 PM
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Fighting games are probably the absolute worst genre to find women to play with/who are into lol. These kinds of games are just 100% male appeal/gaze
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 06:22 PM
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Remake p sure
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:24 PM
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Silent Hill 2 is on Steam sale, should I buy it? I have no idea what it's about and it's only on my wishlist cause I like listening to the OST on youtube lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:10 PM
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Ok today I will actually bless you guys with a high IQ analysis. It's something that's been on my mind for a while: I think that an underrated cause and perhaps the main contributung factor for creating and exacerbating the angst amongst young men regarding women that drives them towards into incel- or generally bad misogynistic headspaces is women's widely-spread and uncontested "desirability signaling" on social media. Let me explain; when a woman posts sth like - "ugggh I hate getting approac…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 09:58 AM
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They'll stop responding at some point and I'll die a virgin anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 09:17 AM
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It exists and other users here already explained it really well. One thing I would add is that I believe there is only one realistic way to get out of the friendzone which is to completely break off all contact with the woman and then reintroduce yourself to her a couple years later. A sufficiently long time period inbetween might make it possible overwrite the first impression and start anew. But moving from friendzoned->lover directly is probably almost impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 09:16 AM
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Opened Hinge again after a month of inactivity and I quickly matched with 2 Stacies in 2 days. One of them even responded in length to my lame nerdy opener about how she should install Linux on her laptop. This evil app is trrying to reel me back in. I'm not falling for it!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 08:38 AM
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Honestly there is no way in hell a straight women talks like this. I don't think even a fat Becky would be this openly thirsty for Chad. "What are you wearing" like wtf no woman would ever write this. This is unlike anything I've ever seen even in "Chadfishing"-experiments. If anything this is a gay man catfishing with a female profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 06:13 PM
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I think that's two gay men chatting
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:44 PM
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Yeah ik. Women actually prefer dark, brown hair
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:13 PM
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Truerateme and I believe that's just a rumor, I've yet to see evidence that the mods actually said that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 01:34 PM
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Idek how to respond to that, you are basically denying the first axiom of the gender war. How did you even find this place?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 01:02 PM
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Degree yes, employed no (but will change next month 😭)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 12:23 PM
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What do you think about the truerateme sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 12:21 PM
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Not a bad guess, 80% of delivery guys here in Germany are arabs
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 12:18 AM
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🎶Women seem wicked when you're unwanted🎶
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 12:16 AM
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Love is an illusion created by the floral industry to sell bouquets.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 12:15 AM
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Well, I can't view it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:59 PM
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If the implication here is racism then keep in mind that just pointing out beauty standards is first and foremost descriptive and not normative. There has been a mainstream article about looksmaxxing published here in Germany recently and all the normies were freaking out about it as if looksmaxxers were literally Nazis 2.0 for inventing a hierarchy of human phenotypes, putting at the top of which the tall, white, blue-eyed man with European facial structure. The point that looksmaxxers do not a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:56 PM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:07 PM
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They're anti or pro depending on how it fits into their argument
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:58 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:56 PM
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At least they invited you 🫠
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:07 PM
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I'm not exactly saying this is wrong but we have expanded the definition of tribe many many times over the course of history. America is your tribe, right? But America is 300 million people— you don't actually care about them, right? Just you and yours. Would it actually change your priorities if America was the size of north america, and included canada and mexico? What about both americas? (I'm not American so idk) There are levels to this. It depends on how much I relate to them and see them …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 01:29 PM
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No matter how much leftists try to deny it, I think humans are just by nature tribal and proprietary. Fighting for your home country will probably always more enticing for the average man than fighting some abstract idea of 'human rights' that some elites came up with
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:44 PM
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"ChatGPT please generate me an engagement bait to trigger frustrated, argumentative men on the internet"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:10 PM
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Oh hell yeah I'd actually be so down for it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 11:40 AM
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Now we see men whining about draft and having no desire to protect their homeland. Protecting the country is one thing, giving your life to serve corrupt pedo elites and bomb the Middle East is another 😶
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 11:30 AM
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Ok but why are there no "Are we dating the same woman?" Facebook groups created by men?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:13 AM
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To our defense. many recipes you find on the internet are just bad and lowball the amount of flour one should use
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 09:11 PM
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Lmaoo reminds of my own first attempts at cooking/baking alone when I first moved into my own place. "Why tf is it sticking to my hands so much???" Good times
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 09:10 PM
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Asking questions is beta behaviour, instead, make statements. PUAs would call it "cold reads"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 02:46 PM
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Men are very open to uncomitted sexual relations (ONS, FWB, "situationship") with women below their attractiveness-match which then creates a distortion in the in the "market".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 02:33 PM
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It's even worse than that, women are basically the exact opposite of men in this regard and have a "pre-nut clarity" but often become enarmoured with a guy AFTER sex which affects them differently on a hormonal level.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 02:27 PM
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*aunt
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 10:37 AM
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I wish 😩😩
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 10:15 AM
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I've finally received a j*b offer
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:56 AM
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So you want to gleefully jab at online men you don't like and tell them they're too ugly for casual sex, but at the same time keep the backdoor open for the women-are-wonderful-narrative that they have deep, individual instead of shallow, superficial, narrow preferences? There is a contradiction. Can't have your cake and eat it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 09:52 PM
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Same as the other guy, but I prefer button-down shirts. And sometimes I even put on a belt like the distinguished gentleman I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 08:54 PM
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but reality is, most people struggle to lower their standards. That goes for attractive men with attractive options too. The entire reason the red pill, the black pill and this subreddit exist and we are even having this conversation right now is because that is famously not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:10 PM
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I don't want you to expose the guy here but I do wonder if it's a regular poster or just a lurker and what is his pill-inclination? It'd be so funny for the more hardcore pills to have a simpy-y traiter amongst their ranks lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 01:18 PM
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There’s one man who does this to all the women (iykyk) Don't expose me here 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 01:05 PM
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You are correct, but your blindspot is that e.g. if I were a 5 so that 5/10 girls are in my league and if I now were to somehow improve my looks and become an 8 (which is impossible mind you but just for the sake of argument) then I could go back to the 5/10 girls and have a much easier time with them than 5/10 guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 12:26 PM
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The inkwell one I think
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 12:18 PM
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Them being insufferable is the cause for the homophobia 🤓
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 12:10 PM
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I'm not going to keep responding. I think my point is very clear obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 11:05 AM
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So you think all homicide should be treated exactly the same? No Do you think there should be a distinction of degrees? Such as first, second, manslaughter, etc? Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 01:12 AM
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Idk I felt like his energy was so different
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 12:38 AM
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Watch his interview on the Adam Friedland Show, it's more lighthearted and really funny at times
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 12:27 AM
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You don’t think using terms to distinguish things is important? Depends on the context. In court, no. Homicide is homicide. Is it ageist to specify infanticide? Is it classist to specify regicide If the legal punishment differs from regular homicide, yes it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 12:13 AM
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Yeah. It's sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 12:08 AM
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Clav's interview on 60 minutes is so uncanny. In his previous interviews with other people he was confident, funny, opinionated and unapologetically autistic. Now he looks kinda emotionless or scared even, defeated, low-energy. Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 12:02 AM
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Yeah this excuse is crazy to me. Standards of living are higher than ever before in history
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 11:05 PM
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> So because women require their own terms and laws they aren’t people? Why not just use the terms murder or homicide which already are established terms and are applicable to adult humans of either gender? 'Femicide' implies it's a different thing. I find this discriminatory language to have troublesome implications. > androcide That'd be the systematic murder of males (a kind of "gendered genoicide"), which actually does have a historic background as it was used as a method of threat eliminati…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 10:51 PM
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Ok interesting. Probably an unusual preference though
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 11:45 AM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 11:29 AM
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What do you dislike about this physique?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 11:26 AM
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Femicide is such a stupid Orwellian fake word, it's kinda funny in a horsehoof-theory way - Far-right extremists 🤝 Far-left extremists: "Women aren't people. They require their own terms and laws"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 11:24 AM
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It's biological of course. Avoid procreating with defective genes at all costs. Of course that sounds pretty brutal so they make up bullshit reasons about how it's "unsafe" or whatever. Also the fact that men would be willing to "help" women in that position is not a real showcase of their selfless altruism lol. Better gender-reversed equivalency would be men's willingness to date a struggling single mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 11:05 AM
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No, most men don't care. In fact, if other men don't want her, that's ideal cause they'll be less inclined to steal her away from you. It just so happens that what men find attractive tends to cluster.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 10:53 AM
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No way in hell
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 02:24 AM
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Might've been me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 02:06 AM
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I think he already looks a bit above average, 5.5/10. Worst feature : flared ears, Best feature: eyebrows. Other features are unremarkable. I watched that documentary a while ago and iirc he even referred to himself as a 'mentalcel' implying looks aren't his issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 10:49 PM
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Ngl still sounds more bearable than having to train in absolute silence without "BBR BRR PATAPIM THEME SONG PHONK[BASS-BOOSTED]" to hype you up
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 06:11 PM
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At the gym and just realized I forgot my earbuds. It's over.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 05:43 PM
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Then no man would ever date because everyone starts off as a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 05:39 PM
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I see, I am level 26 as well. But in that case I don't think we get to call ourselves wizard yet. Rather wizard apprentice or sth
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 05:36 PM
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Are you lvl. 26 or 30 + 26?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 05:32 PM
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Wrong thread and also that's not true
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 05:30 PM
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Looks should be a multiplier
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 05:30 PM
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Sounds fake
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 12:22 PM
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jk
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 11:08 AM
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Wish it existed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 11:08 AM
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Wide-set eyes, small nose, full lips, small chin, thin eyebrows, thin neck -> woman
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 01:50 AM
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It wasn't "random," it was literally the starting point of my comment. You don't get to come along and call it "random," it was integral to my point which is disproving the incoherent narratives of the men on this sub There's no "general trend" of attractive men abusing average women, because most abuse happens within committed relationships and most average women cannot get committed relationships with Chad. My example is the general trend. The people whose position you are arguing against prob…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 01:27 AM
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The idea that women let men get away with abuse if hot and don't if not is completely negated by literally all observations of the real world and statistics. There are a lot of real reasons why women stay with abusive men that have already been observed and studied. "He was too hot" isn't one of them. There are tons of dead women - girlfriends, fiances, and wives who didn't have hot partners. Literally the only way any relationship ends is with a breakup or death, so I don't understand why men t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 06:17 PM
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I was actually making similar considerations when I had to choose a university for my Master's degree. Ultimately it was between two unis in North vs South Germany respectively. North Germans are noticably taller and more likely to have blue eyes due to influence of Nordic genes. The uni here also has a technical focus so the gender ratio is skewed. So ultimately I'd be competing with more attractive men for fewer women. I went for the Northern uni anyway for unrelated reasons but under the aspe…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 04:05 PM
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Yo what's the chad sub,?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 12:26 PM
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Bro where the logic here ? It’s clearly more men who would find having a druggie partner more enticing because there’s more men who are druggies than woman who are and again men are more risk adverse than women are. Where is the logic here? Because men are more often druggies, they more often prefer druggies in their female partners? Not how it works. Heterosexual attraction is based on polarity. Men are tall and muscular, but they do not wish for tall and muscular women as partners, but women d…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 02:40 AM
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What do you mean you "don't see" that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 02:09 AM
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You generalized women as loving druggies that’s only a minority of chicks bro. Played it up for humerous effect, as most comments posted here. Would you generalize men as loving druggies ? Because there’s more men who would be willing to get into a relationship with a female drug addict than the other way around. Men just have lower standards generally and take what they can get, you would be hard-pressed to find any negative attribute in a partner that men are less willing to put up with than w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 02:05 AM
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Money Fame Women And I think he won some martial arts competitions before he got famous but idk the details
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:56 AM
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I don't like him either but he is objectively successful in many avenues of human and especially male competition
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:51 AM
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Is there a difference between negging and just playful banter?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:50 AM
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Can't be, I only write smart comments
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:48 AM
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Cool story, why are you stalking my comments
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:38 AM
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My conjecture as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 11:20 PM
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They weren't even together. Right, I misunderstood that in the article, I thought they broke up after the incident. (But as another commenter pointed, an easy gotcha now is that the woman might've detected the man's troublesome tendencies before and did therefore not let him get away with red flags (which she might have if he were Chad).) But also, I actually think it's understandable that you'd be angry at your ex if you found out they cheated on you, even if it's in the past and you already br…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 11:18 PM
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If I’m paying for my meal/coffee/ whatever on a date it means I didn’t see a relationship happening and I don’t want the guy to think he has a chance. Oh no, is this a common thing women think/do?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 10:58 PM
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Lowkey I actually agree in some sense. But I'm just kinda generally against the cultural tradition of the man paying. It's not really that more attractive women are actually more likely to expect the man to pay if there is an attractiveness-gap but I rather think that men themselves are probably more likely to feel the need to pay if they consider the woman very attractive and worth their investment. And so if you feel an unsually high need to impress or prove yourself to your date, you might be…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 10:57 PM
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Maybe intrasexual competition to discourage other women to get with a high-quality mate and to still secure him as backup?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 08:35 PM
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Anyone know what the evo psych theory reason is for why women feel such a need to smear their ex bf?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 08:33 PM
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Hmm that guy had one exceptionally violent outbreak over an exceptional situation/infidelity (not endorsing his behaviour ofc) and then the woman broke up with him and that's it, but there is no information on previous abuse. The point is moreso that tall handsome bad boy chad gets away with continuous abuse over a long-term situation-/relationship that the woman does not break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 08:30 PM
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I was trying to insinuate that absolutely noone is following this rule
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 08:11 PM
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downvoting is against the rules. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 08:07 PM
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Depends on the drug
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 03:49 PM
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Better than the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 12:34 PM
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Took you long enough to figure out gj
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 10:05 AM
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Women love druggies. "I can fix him". Valid maxxing-strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 03:08 PM
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His short moment of fame is fading and he needs to commit to more and more extreme stuff to stay relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 07:24 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 08:06 PM
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Yes. For most men, 90% of the ROI is achieved with getting lean and good grooming (basic ass normie advice). 'Looksmaxxing' yields very diminishing returns.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 08:03 PM
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This guy got a date off Tinder implied he has had sexual relations with other women before Case in point, he's not one of those guys who are never given a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 07:45 PM
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If you're talking about me in the air that's a video of me jumping rope. Alright that's probably fine, nevermind then. You want to avoid disqualifying yourself. Any info you give can be "used against you" and lead an ultra selective woman to swipe left on you. You should probably get rid of the romantic notion of only trying to appeal to women who'd be a perfect match for you. Every like you receive, even if you don't like them back, will lead the algorithm to boost your profile and consequently…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 07:18 PM
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Decent profile. I'd remove one of the joke pictures (either one) and add another of you doing an activity or being social. In the personal info section, I suggest removing half of it. Giving too much info is a common mistake many men make and it counterintuitively works against them. Age, ocupation, height, that's it. Mayyybe hometown and political affiliation. Anything else is bloat and provides women arbitrary reasons to reject you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 06:58 PM
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Hmm anything in particular that makes you think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 06:37 PM
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Yes, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 04:43 PM
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Good post and I agree with you OP. This is a topic that's been on my mind for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 03:48 PM
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Yeah that's kinda the thing with incels, they only focus on the extreme ends of the spectrum of physical attractiveness. For maybe the bottom 3% and top 3%, personality doesn't matter much, but for everyone inbetween it does and is the main determining factor (though personality isn't abt being a piece of shit or a good person, that doesn't matter for dating). They are basing their entire ideology on a false dichtomoy of ugly men vs chads when in fact most men (including most incels) are somewhe…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 03:17 PM
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i don't remember men i've talked to. And sometime went on a date with.... insane
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 02:35 PM
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Several honestly, but well I don't know if it would've worked realistically. It's all just potential so I try not be too sad abt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 01:42 PM
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Women are absolutely terrible at compartmentalizing/differentiating different male demographics sometimes. I spend some time on the 'female' side of Instagram reels and a lot if it is just women complaining their last situationship didn't commit to them and hurt them. And then in the comment section there will be highly upvoted comments like "men deserve male loneliness epidemic" "males aren't lonely enough". Like how do they not realize the chads they're getting played by are not the men who ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 12:16 PM
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AvPD is legitimately brutal. I can't think of any condition that would be more of hindrance in attracting women than this disorder. Not even being super short, ugly, autistic etc. is as bad imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 11:50 AM
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I'd rather not risk ruining my mood (and that of anyone reading it) by writing this restsrted story out. I will say though that I can't even really be mad this happened to me and I lowkey deserved it. I did not behave in attractive ways on the date, and also I should've chosen better in the first place and not went out with a mentally ill cunt. So I at least I got some character development out of it. 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 11:12 AM
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Good for you and I don't doubt your experiences. It's true that men are famously less picky, at least for casual stuff. But this discussion isn't about men vs. women, it's about the difference of young vs. old. So my question to you would be, how does your (perceived) attractiveness/SMV now compare to how it was in your early 20s? If you had to quantify it, are you still 100% as attractive to men as you were back then? Or only 75%? 50%?... I believe the relative drop in SMV that comes with aging…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 11:03 AM
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Was on a date with a girl and she went home with another man that day
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 10:11 AM
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It doesn't matter who technically ages more rapidly because the discussion is about subjective attractiveness and not objective facial aesthetics. And men discriminate much, MUCH more harshly against visible signs of aging than women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 10:03 AM
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I see you are subtly trying to make the point that age affects women's and men's attractiveness equally. But it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 07:29 AM
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Why are men so obsessed over thus one thing? It's the only phyical trait for the which the following combination of attributes holds true: 1) objectively quantifiable - facial attractiveness is more important than height, but you can't objectively quantify it the same way, for instance someone's 4/10 might be another person's 7/10, subjectivity exists to some degree. Although objectively attractive facial features more or less exist and "looksmaxxers" do a decent job at quantifying them, you can…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 10:31 PM
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The other options are just looking for casual with varying degrees of honesty. Haha fair enough. But many relationship-minded women still do match me even though I personally selected sth. more ambiguous. Another thing is that only selecting "long-term" might completely dispel casual women and idk if that's worth the trade-off.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 10:17 PM
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Maybe for Stacy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 08:14 PM
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According to that study she cites flirting constitutes 'rape' because she wouldn't have consented if you didn't rizz her like wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 06:25 PM
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I think almost all men are looking for the same thing on dating-apps which is short-term with Becky and long-term with a Stacy. So no option would technically be dishonest, it all depends. But yeah if you're attractive you have better chances of getting away with "looking for short-term".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 06:18 PM
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I feel like the face doesn't match the body somehow
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 06:15 PM
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Brootal
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 06:10 PM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 05:34 PM
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I think by receiving any roses at all I'm prolly doing better than the avg male, but idk the stats on this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 04:10 PM
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Quirky synonym for beta provider
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 04:06 PM
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What do you think is the best option to select as a man on dating apps at "looking for X..." to get the most amount of (attractive) matches? Most dating apps have "casual", "casual, but open to long-term", "long-term, but open to casual", "long-term" and "don't know yet what I'm looking for" as options.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 04:03 PM
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I'm aware I wasn't asked but what traits or behaviors make a woman "a cum bucket not worth emotional investment" Being less attractive than the other options.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 03:42 PM
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Yeah I agree, I always feel cringe and simpy when I use the weekly free rose on Hinge. But it's free so why not. I myself have receceived 2 roses on Hinge and 1 superlike on Tinder from women in my entire time on dating apps. None of them were attractive and convo was even drier/died on faster than usual. Maybe they just misclicked.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 03:13 PM
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told her whatever she wanted to hear" I guess with this every man that has ever lived is a rapist
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 02:26 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/vt235tqsfrug1.jpeg?width=960&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fe3e4075fc41fc81378e9fe0535337dd52f228cd
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 01:19 PM
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Am I sexist if I don't want to date men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 01:17 PM
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The line gets drawn very arbitrarily imo
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 12:31 PM
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Gotta be more careful not to post "black pill" stuff here 😶‍🌫️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 12:29 PM
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I hath returned
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 12:27 PM
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It's reminscient of an older meta where you'd a infiltrate a closed psych ward to get with the BPD baddies
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 11:14 PM
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Thank you. I comment some "incel" stuff too but it's important to not go off the deep end. A bit of humerous mockery is a good way to ensure just that and some pillers with their ridiculous antics make themselves a very easy target lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 06:02 PM
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<image> Relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 03:49 PM
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I know about that part of the study and I simply do not believe it which is part of the reason I think the whole thing stands on very shaky grounds and I just do not trust it very much
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 03:42 PM
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high iq intellectual prolific Dickpiller
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 03:04 PM
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Ignorance is bliss
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 01:43 PM
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You're not wrong. The looksmaxxing-thing has evolved to a point where the main goal doesn't even appear to be impressing women but to rank up in the male social hierarchy by mogging other men. Getting women is just a metric for your success but not the endgoal itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 01:22 PM
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Taking a fleeting look at this data, yes, that would indeed appear to mostly invalidate my point. The og comment that I responded to didn't, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 01:16 PM
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The only words I didn't understand are limball and gearmaxxing, otherwise, same
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 12:58 PM
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It certainly is. I'd hope so, at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 12:55 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 12:30 PM
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"I was hanging out with my platonic guy friend and we were listening to music and this song reminded me of my ex so joked that this is good make-out music but then he tried to kiss me wtffff I think he really overstepped some major boundaries here am I overreacting?" will probably get an equal amount of upvotes and agreement 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 12:26 PM
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Most 30 year old men today are in relationships (and that percentage is trending upwards slightly). Good for them ig, I don't doubt that. I believe the og comment was making a reference to this famous study about how 2/3 of young men <30 are single. My point is just it's not super convincing to say "oh but the older people are just fine and coupled up, so todays gen Z will be too" cause it's fundamentally a different demographic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 10:43 AM
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It's kinda disappointing and lame that the old "Women rate 80% of men below average and men rate women in a perfect Gaussian distribution"-OKCupid study has apparently never been replicated or disproven. To this day people argue and debate using the same 10+ years old small sample size survey. We need new data! I know there's data on e.g. Tinder swipe behaviour or whatever but it's just not the same as giving out rating scores.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 01:12 AM
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Yeahhh but not the degree of current gen Z come on Also you said 30+ years olds, that includes way more, way older people
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 12:45 AM
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To play devil's advocate, they're from a previous generation that grew up and coupled up without dating apps, internet etc. Let's see what the statistics for 30+ folks looks like in 10, 20 years
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 12:30 AM
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One of my favourite definitions of love is that one's own personal happiness becomes entangled with another person
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 12:28 AM
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Yeah that's what I thought 😆 The overton-window on this sub shifted to a point where red pill is basically assumed true and merely its details are discussed
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 09:55 PM
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Real
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 09:14 PM
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Women cause there are less of them here so they represent an even smaller and probably more deviant fringe minority. Depends a bit on the subreddit though ofc
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:52 PM
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The most boring basic ass bland colour. It's only 1 step above white and grey.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:47 PM
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That's a good mindset to have
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 04:01 PM
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Y'all wouldn't be able to handle me winning the mogging contest
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 02:57 PM
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This anxiety is not directly logical but instinctual. We don't see a promiscuous woman and consciously think "damn she might be pregnant by another man and trick me into raising it, better back off" (even though it's the underlying reason evolutionarily) we instead just feel "ew gross, promiscuous women give me the ick". Almost all our preferences are archaic and unga bunga, don't act like you have the moral high ground. Women like tall and muscular men even though we don't have to fight sabre t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 12:56 PM
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Female reddit avatars going back in forth in disagreement is a really rare sight, like a once a month-occurence lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 11:07 PM
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I've always imagined that gay guys must be amazing at giving handjob cause of their first-hand (lol) experience
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 10:56 PM
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Ah I thought the new one was preferable
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 07:40 PM
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Men do it just as much
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 07:37 PM
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Just give your brother your old MacBook, keep the new one for yourself 😶
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 07:37 PM
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Why do you think so?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 06:39 PM
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I have a degree in comp sci and I will just develop the app myself with the help of Claude Code 💪 I just need their funding and advertising
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 04:38 PM
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I just browsed the Hinge subreddit (as it's the only popular dating app where this behaviour is possible with paying premium) a little bit to confirm my suspicions and it seems I was right – Many women DO passively wait for likes on Hinge and only accept/reject their suitors. Their desire to be chosen by a proactive man extends to the virtual world of dating apps. If you want your own likes, pay for my premium 🤑 But I get the point, it's against women's interest, superficially at least. I need g…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 04:31 PM
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And they were effective and well thought out like most government programs? Of course not
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 04:19 PM
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But the givernments of some Asian countries already did and do take measures to combat decling birthrates 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 04:05 PM
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I don't disagree. But what I wrote is a thought-expirement rather than a business plan. Maybe it's a government-funded project to help combat declining birthrates 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 03:58 PM
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I conjecture many women who use Hinge don't proactively send out likes either but evaluate and accept/reject the ones they receive (Hinge is the one app where they're visible without having Premium). I dunno though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 03:55 PM
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Yeah I mean you and the men you seek out are probably just not the target demographic of this app
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 03:51 PM
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Yeah probably :p Of course I'd word it differently in my marketing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 03:50 PM
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I mean I'm not trying to fix the entire dating market holistically, of course not everyone is going to use my app; moreso I want to create a little microcosm where the market is "fixed". Stacies and especially Chads would have ZERO incentive to use my app they will always achieve better results with the already established apps. The app is targeted at average, relationship-minded people. looking for their match if it actually suggests people who are compatible instead of pushing popular profiles…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 03:49 PM
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Fair. The idea is optimized for matching happy couples, not for making money. I could make the app exclusive and pay-to-use or have the mentioned paid premium option. Realistically it won't be successful because men prefer the dopamine spike of sending out many likes hoping for a hit and women prefer the dopamine spike of receiving many likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 03:23 PM
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I've been thinking about how to design a dating-app that is more pleasant to use for both genders and organically creates more looksmatched, realistic couples that actually want to date each other. The issue with the existing apps that we need to combat is that they allow both genders to freely exercise their own sexual strategy to the extreme: women and their hyperselective "sniper"-approach and men and their underselective "shotgun"-approach. When they are both allowed to do this, it will lead…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 03:13 PM
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First internship at 18 First alibi fake job for my CV as a tutor at 21 First job for actually earning money at 24(/23 when I signed the contract)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 08:57 PM
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going fully no-contact I'd recommend that, from personal experience
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 05:51 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 05:47 PM
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It's a basic flirting technique...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 03:16 PM
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Engagement bait
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 08:26 AM
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https://m.youtube.com/shorts/wxjdq4Vw3m0
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 08:24 AM
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If you live somewhere where dating apps are commonly used, yeah they're not too bad of an approximate. If you get a decent amount of likes/matches you're above average. If not, well... Since women are "looks-hypergamous" on dating apps you're ~2 points higher on the decile looks scale than the average woman you match with
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 08:18 AM
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First one
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 08:20 PM
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Nah you shrink with age
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 06:50 PM
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Yeah that's bs. One can absolutely be physically attracted to objectively mid or even below looking people
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 12:16 PM
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I was joking, didn't mean to be mean-spirited
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 01:46 AM
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Large is worse. David Gandy has so many flaws and he somehow still looks godlike
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 12:10 AM
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Being fat is actually fitphobic. Fat people should do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 12:08 AM
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Yeah there are two associations that kinda overlap. Stacy the popular partygirl and Becky the boring girl next door. But also that Stacy is just the attractive girl and Becky looks mid/average. I think the latter one is the more popular one at this point, in my opinion anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 09:26 PM
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At least the comments are based
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 09:09 PM
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True, your comment even has my upvote. The idea was probably in my subconscious because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 07:49 PM
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That’s why I use Hinge, because it isn’t location-based and you can set your location wherever you want. Ohh interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 07:30 PM
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Yeah there is truth to this. Workers from poorer countries accept less pay and drive the wages down. Overall efficiency and human prosperity increased if you look at the entirety of humanity holistically, but the local population of richer countries suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 07:26 PM
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Do you get significantly worse results if you set it to your actual location?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 07:20 PM
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Gonna one-up you, this was my personal peak on Bumble a couple months ago. I felt like such a Chad for a while <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 07:01 PM
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Male dual mating strategy – Becky fucks, Stacy gets the bucks (to clarify, what I meant is Stacy gets commitment, Becky doesn't)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 06:41 PM
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Well yeah it's true. If you "enable" a woman to vent freely without filter about her life issues, you're putting yourself in friendzone-territory really quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 04:38 PM
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Yes you identified the male dual-mating strategy - Stacy bucks, Becky fucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 03:45 PM
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Yeah for sure. Invisible men are like 90%
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 01:15 PM
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In that case, yes, invisible women definitely exist
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 12:54 PM
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