Levelupmama Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
527	Tbh I read “someone who can take my sarcasm” on dating apps as “imma be an asshole to you. Accept that” Is it just me?	DISCUSSION	Levelupmama	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/08/20 01:59 PM
455	Ashamed to say I’ve been there. Got the dummy prize of “wow he’s spending $60 on me so this can be more pleasurable” and the “I’m a dumb pick me tshirt” lol grateful for this message and FDS, merry Christmas.	DISCUSSION	Levelupmama	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/12/20 01:01 PM
401	Fds has my block finger strong. Even asking annoys me.	LEVEL UP	Levelupmama	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/08/20 05:22 PM
245	Mood. She found out her husband was cheating, left and worked 3 jobs to raise 5 kids alone. Never remarried.	QUEEN SH*T	Levelupmama	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/12/20 11:56 PM
242	How do we avoid men that we gotta one day throw in the trash? Is vetting enough? Part of me worries about the breadwinner thing for this reason.	STRATEGY	Levelupmama	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/09/20 10:16 AM
193	Ladies! Use your female/pretty privilege!	STRATEGY	Levelupmama	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/09/20 12:33 PM
193	Gag.	NAH, SIS	Levelupmama	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/10/20 04:50 PM
192	If there’s anything they ALWAYS have, it’s the audacity. When I was pregnant my child’s father told me “if you get those deep stretch marks, I’m leaving you” (he made it to be a “joke”)	MALE DEPRAVITY	Levelupmama	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/11/20 11:20 AM
189	I ignored high sex drive. Men are so annoying. I bet he can’t “find” these things bc he’s an asshole. Idk why men pretend to ask for simple qualities most women have.	ROAST-A-SCROTE	Levelupmama	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/08/20 12:17 PM
117	Am I bugging or is this a real thing? The first thing I thought was “sounds rapey to me” I’ve had this happen to me, but idk how the person could really be sleeping. A lot of folks in the comments agree that it’s a thing.	DISCUSSION	Levelupmama	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/12/20 12:11 PM
115	Is this still pick me behavior? Roast me if necessary lol I still have a little “I can change his mind” only like 2 guys I spoke to said marriage straight out.	SEEKING ADVICE	Levelupmama	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/08/20 01:00 PM
113	Men are dumb and annoying. I feel like calling it quits. Which dating apps do y’all like best?	NICE FOR WHAT?	Levelupmama	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/08/20 06:23 PM
113	I wish all this shit I posted was fake OLD is making me feel exasperated lmao	ROAST-A-SCROTE	Levelupmama	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/08/20 11:56 PM
102	Ok I’m really hanging up OLD. I unmatched after this. I’m almost 31 and want to be married. What age range do y’all search? Wait, I said I’m quitting OLD lol	SEEKING ADVICE	Levelupmama	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/08/20 05:32 PM
98	This is what dating men is like lol see how shallow I found out that was after I got just a little deeper? It’s like a bait and switch. (Lid for scale)	FDS HUMOR	Levelupmama	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/08/20 09:29 AM
95	Thanks to you and the handbook I’m not screaming HI IM A SINGLE MOM LIVING AT HOME WHO WANTS MARRIAGE AND KIDS! Helps me weed out the losers. I am the prize.	LEVEL UP	Levelupmama	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/08/20 01:31 PM
83	Remember when I asked how to do FWB with that hot doctor? This winded up in my DMs (from a man who calls himself a former incel ofc)	DISCUSSION	Levelupmama	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/08/20 03:45 PM
52	I don’t like to blame women, but can I just place this here as basic shit (LVM/NVM/LVF) related?	NAH, SIS	Levelupmama	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/08/20 10:43 AM
48	What do you do when a man is late?	SEEKING ADVICE	Levelupmama	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/08/20 01:41 PM
34	Single mom wants to level up	SEEKING ADVICE	Levelupmama	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/07/20 09:55 AM
30	I kinda like a guy but he has less earning potential than me.	SEEKING ADVICE	Levelupmama	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/08/20 12:36 PM
24	My kid asked Alexa to play ABC rock and somehow trading places by usher came on and 🤢🤮lol	FDS HUMOR	Levelupmama	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/08/20 12:44 PM
22	How not to do 50/50?	DISCUSSION	Levelupmama	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/08/20 08:03 PM
20	My guy friend who’s a proclaimed feminist sent me this. He’s been very nice in the past, but FDS is the reason I blocked him. I don’t want anyone in my circle with this shit mindset.	#KickHimOut2020	Levelupmama	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/10/20 01:40 PM
18	When and how do you tell a guy you’re a mom?	SEEKING ADVICE	Levelupmama	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/08/20 05:44 PM
16	He’s a pharmacist. I work in healthcare too. And he expects me to come out of my bonnet for coffee or drinks. A meal is only like $60 and I dont even order extra stuff. (App, dessert) Even if I did. Unmatch...	NICE FOR WHAT?	Levelupmama	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/11/20 11:37 AM
10	Y’all are so spot on. I used to feel guilty when I unmatched or unworthy when I got unmatched. Now I unmatch all the time. Lol for good reason that I would’ve ignored before	ROAST-A-SCROTE	Levelupmama	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/20 12:54 PM
3	For anyone doing fwb	SEEKING ADVICE	Levelupmama	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/08/20 07:49 PM
1	What do you say to/think about when men say you need to be equal to the man you want to attract.	DISCUSSION	Levelupmama	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/10/20 01:07 PM
1	They’re. So. Fucking. Annoying. Meanwhile I feel mean for being like what do you want? I’m getting dressed up and getting a sitter just to see if I like you? Every low effort date I’ve had has been a fail.	NICE FOR WHAT?	Levelupmama	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/10/20 05:14 PM
1	Just when I was gonna cut him off. He better be for real.	FDS HUMOR	Levelupmama	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/11/20 01:47 AM
1	Persian doctor: me: a single black mom	LEVEL UP	Levelupmama	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/08/20 06:44 PM
1	Am I bugging or is this a real thing? The first thing I thought was “sounds rapey to me” I’ve had this happen to me, but idk how the person could really be sleeping. A lot of folks in the comments agree that it’s a thing.	DISCUSSION	Levelupmama	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/12/20 12:09 PM
1	You don’t necessarily have to say thank you for not cheating. But say thank you for not cheating.	MALE DEPRAVITY	Levelupmama	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/11/20 10:26 PM
1	Ladies wtf is this and how do I respond? Is this dangling the carrot? When and how do you ask what a guy wants? I always get some derivative of this.	SEEKING ADVICE	Levelupmama	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/08/20 04:27 PM
1	Even my dreams are FDS cautionary tales.	MALE DEPRAVITY	Levelupmama	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/12/20 12:37 PM
0	How do we avoid men that we gotta one day throw in the trash? Is vetting enough? Part of me worries about the breadwinner thing for this reason.	DISCUSSION	Levelupmama	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/09/20 12:39 PM