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Of course women like that exist they just aren't anywhere near close to the majority. We are not asexual just because we don't want a bunch of random old guys touching us.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 06:30 PM
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The female traditional gender role is still very much expected in large portion of relationships, and studies back this up too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 09:21 PM
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No. A man who won't spend on you doesn't value or like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 01:45 PM
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Maybe he has a bad reputation from asking out so many women in the same place, and the women are now wary of him?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 08:47 PM
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Is the last paragraph how you seek out your female partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 08:43 PM
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It's up to each individual woman or man what they think of themselves what they'll accept, what they want, what they need etc. If paying for the first date isn't something you want, but it's something the woman wants then congratulations 2 incompatible people just avoided each other, and they can now continue on their search.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 06:28 PM
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Yes. And then hopefully they stay away from that demographic. A win win.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 03:21 PM
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Good people have to learn to speak the language of terrible people while maintaining their conscience.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 03:17 PM
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That's totally fine. 2 incompatible people have just missed each other. There are all kinds of people in the world, and people who align will meet or they won't. There's nothing wrong with your standard, or with mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 03:12 PM
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And that was the value proposition that you made. Potential access to women means more to you than lying about your feelings and paying. That was all your decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 11:56 PM
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I always thought it was a way to lower the demands of the women they don't want, but tolerate because of the benefits of being with any woman. Because with the women they're highly attracted to they do not have these conversations.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 11:51 PM
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And a woman who likes you will just as a man who likes a woman will invest. She'll be available when you text or call, she'll check in on you and make sure you are good. And if she doesn't, and she keeps asking for extravagant dates then you'll know that she's not into it for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 11:34 PM
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No, women don't want to be an interchangeable fleshlight getting used as a place holder because to be with a woman any woman holds immense benefits. As the poster said women know that when men are highly attracted to and actually like the woman they're pursuing coffee dates and 50/50 don't get mentioned. Women know further down the line when both parties are working and they're doing the bulk of the child care and taking care of the house that a man who didn't invest early certainly won't be inv…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 11:16 PM
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I'm glad for them. They deserve peace just as we all do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 11:08 PM
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Single>>>>>shitty partner. Any day of the week. Why would we let someone drain our life force for nothing in return instead just more work?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 11:07 PM
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My argument was never that I came so he cares about me. And a biological response due simply to stimulation has nothing to do with a man putting effort into making sure that his partner orgasms.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 11:03 PM
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I can't concede a nonsensical argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 09:52 PM
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These are facts, and there are studies that back this. When men are interested they invest in their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 09:20 PM
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Come on now you could have come up with a better argument than this. Yuck. Smh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 09:15 PM
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Or one could use toys, and actually locate the clitoris, yes let one's ego be the reason one's female partner gets diminished pleasure, and then wonder why she doesn't want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 05:15 PM
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Yes, by lying and manipulating, and then some men wonder why women are even more put off men. And then to top it off you all don't even make the sex you crave satisfying for the other party. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 01:33 PM
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The orgasm rates don't reflect that. Lesbians with less tools than straight men produce on average 30-50% more orgasms in their partners and that's for long term relationships. The orgasm rate for casual is at 20% for women and 90% for straight men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 02:33 AM
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Citation needed on pleasure for both.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 02:28 AM
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Women on average do not want sex in the same way that men want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 02:24 AM
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If it's not someone we actually want then it's not a loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 02:11 AM
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I say this with all due respect, but the mathematical equation you're forced to run due to your brain wiring is nothing like what those of us without it experience. And even logically speaking you can't convey that equation totally to another human, so while you think it's being fulfilled. It quite literally can't be. At best your partner is doing an approximation. Anticipating your every move also leaves no time for them to understand their own moves. There is only so much cognitive space.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 04:14 PM
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Because many don't like themselves, so it creates a cognitive dissonance when someone else does.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 09:42 AM
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Person who has no kids for $1,000, Alex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 08:59 AM
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It's not a role another human being could ever fulfill, and asking that of your partner is why many people don't want to be partners anymore. To be someone's purpose would be exhausting, and what about your own purpose?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 01:06 AM
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Oh no the other party wants to actually enjoy the sex too. The horror.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 08:25 AM
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Yes, if you have secret animosity towards the people you're supposed to love and support removing yourself from their life is the right thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 09:58 PM
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They're delusional. They actually think this behavior only exists in highly attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 02:42 PM
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It's so interesting how some men will balk at potentially being used for $30 dollars, but have no qualms about using people for their literal bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 01:21 PM
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They're chasing a void that will never be fulfilled, and they are blessing the women that could accidentally end up with them by maintaining this mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 09:31 PM
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This is pure delusion. The vast majority of us go after average men. ANY man can do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 09:49 PM
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Flowers cost 7.99 at Kroger women don't ask for enough in regards to the untold benefits they give to men. Your time and effort>>>>any monetary gift for the vast majority of women. A good portion of men just simply can't be bothered, but can coordinate with their friends a 16 week tournament, but a simple thing like 8 bucks for flowers for the person that blows them is out of the question lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 08:24 PM
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Yes, and then they wonder why more and more women won't take that risk. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 08:19 PM
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Exactly. Men will take any woman for sex, and not tell them that's all it will ever be. Having a man invest via effort or any other means we want is a way to ward this off.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 07:58 PM
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Trauma can happen to anyone at any time. What happens if it happens to their partner while they're dating? Do they just dip? That kind of mindset is risky long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 04:26 PM
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So, women are responsible for men lying to them because they aren't attracted to certain men?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 02:42 PM
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That's great, so what if a man can't get a woman in her 20s? Should he just lay down and die, or maybe he should speak with a professional to unpack the root of that obsession...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 07:56 PM
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I think intensive therapy would be better psychologically for someone who has thoughts like this about sex rather than celibacy, and I mean the thoughts top to bottom.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 07:22 PM
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This is sociopathic thinking, and it's why women are stepping away. And it also has a cost internally.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 03:20 PM
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What does men being indiscriminate have to do with women's sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 01:16 PM
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If we can pick partners solely of a specific racial demographic, and not be considered racist then why are we homophonic because we only want to date one demographic of sexuality?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 05:26 PM
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For the people that I mentioned who may be suffering from their own personality they are not likely "just" themselves. It's very likely that they have a history of trauma, and what has been installed into them, and then they output as their personality is a trauma response. This keeps them in the former suffering as well as it's offputting for the formation of relationship romantic or not. So, in that very limited space where I mentioned those that suffer from their own personality what I said w…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 06:17 PM
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A better personality? And the way many suffer in this space a better personality might serve them in ways that are way more beneficial than just attracting a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 06:00 PM
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I recently went on this journey. It's literally so beautiful, and everyone should get to be here one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 01:32 PM
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We're following the conclusion of your logic. If you don't like where your logic leads then maybe there's an issue with the logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 04:51 PM
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So, women should give up their freedom, so that men can have sex again? And some men wonder why women are terrified of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 04:33 PM
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Let's follow this logic to it's end. Let's say we go for the one that doesn't approach does he not gain confidence from this interaction? And as per your logic when a man gains this confidence he'll use it on other women, and so therefore we should just what avoid you all?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 04:09 PM
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Of the list you showed 3 is the one debatable one that you could debate about it being problematic, but the other ones are awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:50 PM
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Oh and the men who don't approach but are still interested are virtuous beings that don't want the woman to end up in their bed?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:40 PM
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Women could never be complicit with the fact that some men lie and manipulate to get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 02:24 AM
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There's still time to find happiness in this one
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 05:29 PM
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This mindset is disturbing, and why so many women are opting out. To lie and deceive to get what you want is a sickness.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 04:04 PM
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With casual sex resulting in 20% of women getting orgasms most of the women don't enjoy it. And did the men not enjoy the food he purchased?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 11:49 PM
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Disturbing mindset...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 10:26 PM
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The real narcissism is believing that someone should cater their life to you, and then resenting them when they don't, but wanting to maintain access, so you pretend. That aligns much more closely to clinical narcissism than anything you've presented.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 10:16 PM
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For point 1 those people wear their views on their sleeve they are easy to spot. Abusers however hide because they know that's the only way in.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:02 AM
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Are straight men not attracted to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 02:47 PM
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This is a major reason why some women are wary of men. You truly never know if they are going to turn out like this. That's why so many women are opting out. Because contrary to what the men here would believe it's not just Chad doing this. Regular, average, busted, short, tall, fat, etc any kind of man can do this, and you'll never know until he reveals his hand. Whereas for men a gold digger is apparent. It's known instantly. Truly sociopathic tendencies to look someone in the eye, and know th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:08 PM
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Lesbians seem to do it just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 08:46 PM
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No. 5 + 5 = 10 6 + 4 = 10 3 + 7 = 10 2 + 8 = 10 1 + 9 = 10 All equal. All different.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:30 PM
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You've defended lying to women in order to get sex from them...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:20 AM
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Women created an entire movement to get out from under men's control what do you mean there's more complaining now?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:19 AM
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Men's suicide rates definitely cloud that mental health picture...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:14 AM
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Exactly. And women will never know they're being used until they get ghosted. Gold diggers ask for funds, so those men know immediately when a woman is out to use them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:11 AM
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You wanting your partner to be female is a condition. You wanting your partner to have any kind of looks is a condition. Unconditional romantic love does not logically exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 08:14 PM
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Because they believe that unconditional love is real, but it's not. All romantic love has conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 08:06 PM
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Damn I'm 1 year away from being old? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 09:06 PM
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I never criticized anyone. I pointed out the fact that if a person presents a mask then that's what people will want, and if a person doesn't want to be expected to mask forever then they cannot present the mask. Your own personal feelings turned a simple discussion into something adversarial. You've insulted me, made awful claims about me, and still I am unrelenting because what I say is simply the truth. 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 09:03 PM
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This is Reddit, honey, and you replied to me I'm not going anywhere. I only offered the fact that I'm autistic because you quite literally said that I might call you a "r*tard" because I disagree with your opinion. I had to shut that delusion down.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 08:55 PM
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That's not what I said at all. If you could step outside of your emotions for a moment, and think logically and critically you might be able to see that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 08:42 PM
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You quite literally replied to me lol. The point being is that if a person masks (whether it's difficult to take off or not) to get into a relationship the mask is what someone will expect and want. If a person wants someone who wants who they are they will have to take off the mask, and people do because it's not something sustainable. So, again the options are mask, and feel hurt when people don't like what's underneath the mask, or unmask, and actually find the people that like what's underne…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 08:34 PM
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You do have the privilege to think that your perspective is so correct that you get to lash out at people and insult them for it. It is merely logical. If you mask to get into a relationship you will eventually have to unmask. There's a huge probability of the relationship breaking down because the person likes the mask and not the real you. It will absolutely cut down on your options if you don't mask at which point one will have to determine if the presence of a relationship in their life is w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:53 PM
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And you'd be wrong. I am autistic, and I know all about masking. And now that the mask is slipping my life couldn't be better. You are literally dooming yourself to people who won't like you when you mask. Mask at work not with the person you want to spend your life with. If they don't like it move along.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:29 PM
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You victim complexed so hard, love that you didn't realize that I too am ND. And I stand by everything I've said. Masking to get a partner will only have that partner turn away when you undoubtedly unmask in their presence, and who would want a partner that they have to mask for anyway? It's a self-fulfilling prophecy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:24 PM
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What is MD and other people?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:10 PM
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4 the man talks to you the entire way through while doing 2 all throughout.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:59 PM
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If you never had the mask up in the first place then no one would expect it. How are you going to get upset with someone for falling for the person that you pretended to be. That's on the pretender.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:07 PM
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Unfortunately the men who behave this way likely get the bulk of their self-esteem from external validation, so you rejecting them IS like you deeming them unworthy in their minds that is. Nothing can help them except relocating their locus of self-esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:47 PM
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Nothing like gossip on a Friday afternoon. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:33 PM
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And so once this man has gotten all the experience he needs from a woman who wanted him when no one else did she just gets discarded? And you're wondering why no one is clamoring to be in that position?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:27 PM
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No one is better than anyone, and internalizing that is probably a major driver of the distress. People simply don't want to do the hard work of relationships for people that they don't want to do that work for. The benefits don't outweigh the work, so singledom wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:14 PM
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And a gif like this is conveying things like spending quality time with your partner that doesn't include sex or doing equal amounts of chores. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:01 PM
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Or that man could take in the feedback, which he's undoubtedly classified as nagging, and implement real change, so that his partner wants to remain in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:59 PM
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The irony in you detailing sleeping with, but never gaining feelings for lesser attractive women, and then all that lamenting about how women won't do that for men is hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:51 PM
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So, because women don't want to approach men for dating they don't believe in the equality that allowed them things like the right to vote etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:10 PM
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Your eyes and ears take outside stimulus, and then run them through whatever is in your brain, and gives you the result. If you have grown up being bullied...told you are worthless, ugly, stupid, etc every interaction goes through that filter. Now, the girl who rejected you simply confirms that thought planted in you that you are ugly instead of simply being the random preference of a human being who could have anything going on (maybe she stumped her toe, maybe her grandma died, maybe her first…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:07 AM
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Only you are inside of you. No one else knows each and every one of your triggers, thoughts, insecurities etc. You can ask and receive guidance, but ultimately only YOU can do the work. And it's hard work. I mean quite literally the hardest thing you will ever do. But the other side is beautiful. Everyone deserves to get here, but the only person who can make the journey is the individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:00 AM
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THIS. It's not our fault, but it is our responsibility if we want to live better lives. No one is coming to save you. You have to do it. And you can. And you must. You deserve it. That's true for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:39 AM
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We only get one life. If those men or women think remaining single will bring them peace then what's wrong with their decision?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:49 AM
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Why would such a society be less effective at achieving "feats that glorify mankind"? Women would be free to study, wouldn't have their inventions and ideas stolen, and wouldn't be pushed out of entire industries.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:40 PM
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What many men want from women they don't need to like them to get, so what would they care about that for?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:50 PM
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Where did I say he did anything wrong? I applauded his honesty. It was just uncouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:38 PM
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Won't clean. Not good in bed. No longer helps financially. No romance thinks dates are too much effort. Why would anyone want a partner like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 05:16 PM
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Your own moral compass. The fact that your conscience would keep you awake at night? The fact that they literally have brain scans that show that people who derive pleasure from evil acts have their empathy centers turned off. If you want to love like that to get the things you want. No one can or will stop you, but would you be ok with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 11:07 PM
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Who are some people? The people actually attracted to the sex he belongs to are where the ratings should come from.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 07:31 PM
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We judge attractiveness by the face. If a person is fit, and still can't attract women it's because of the face.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:57 PM
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A date isn't a relationship. Adults who don't get sex definitely employ a 3 minute voice note about sex I'll agree with you there lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:29 PM
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A private begging and hilarious conversation yes it was. Also, as it has been pointed out the girl who got the message didn't post it her friend did. No info about the man has been posted. He's free to go on begging for sex he'll never get lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:26 PM
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This is interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:19 PM
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I don't agree with her being pressed. A dude leaving a voice note like that is odd and hilarious, so she posted it. Women get propositioned for sex a lot usually not in such a silly manner as this though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 11:34 PM
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I think she handled the rejection just fine. It was simply hilarious, so she posted it. And what is she supposed to be upset about? Some guy who would likely be trash in bed not wanting to continue on with her? He did her a favor. If only all men were this honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 11:26 PM
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Hmmm why do you think that is? Could it be that since time immemorial women haven't been safe? That offspring are especially vulnerable and need resources? That women are smaller in strength and size to men, and thus their safety is highly present in their minds?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:15 AM
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Happy cake day!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:11 AM
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Security is highly attractive to women. It makes women feel safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:11 AM
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That wasn't the hateful part it was your justification for it. Men should decenter women. Your mental health will improve, but the reason is not because of those evil succubus women it's because a life of only external validation is a turbulent often sad life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:23 PM
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Showing up as a foreigner in places like that is akin to flaunting your wealth. And the women in America don't care about height for wealthy men either. An American man who brings his average salary to Mexico has now just found himself in the top 1% of wealth. Of course he's getting women now. What's bad to acknowledge about that. You all simply don't have the financial leverage here to get what you want in other places.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 08:39 PM
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This means short/unattractive men can have a opportunity at a beautiful woman. The smoking gun always reveals itself. If the short/unnatractive men had the finances in the West that they will when (they take their average American salary that translates to wealthy in many other countries) going the passport bro route they too could have beautiful women right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 07:07 PM
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What does the young man's face look like? That is what people are judging for attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 04:11 PM
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It seems like men do. Stacy slaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:53 PM
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So, only men get to be attracted to the people they're dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:45 PM
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I always have to remind myself of the first part reading his statements because many are terrifying. Not making a personal jab at him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:06 AM
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If the topic is built on a faulty premise then how can anyone debate it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:26 AM
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No. I'm not the person who said that to you, so I couldn't begin to know why they said it. However, there is nothing wrong with wanting fit women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:25 AM
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Who can say that someone's standards are warped? This is our one life. If we want something from the people that will be in our lives and our bodies then that's what we want, and there's no issue with it. If people with these thoughts end up alone that's their price to bare. Relationships are WORK. Most people do not want to do that work for just anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:09 AM
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The lesbians seem to do a pretty good job with this...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:56 AM
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LOL I was just about to type something. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:54 AM
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The only delusion is thinking that someone should be able to control the free will of billions of people because they can't get sex at the frequency they would like with who they would like.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:20 PM
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Except what men think is their equal women do not agree with, and even with that being said study after study showcases that couples overwhelmingly choose partners of similar attractiveness to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:20 PM
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Abd yet when we say things like this to the men here you all balk. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:05 PM
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The tone may be harsh, but there's definitely some truth here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:43 PM
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Why would I change anything about myself for a man? If I have to change then we aren't compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:15 PM
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🤣 my argument is reality. This literally sounds like the musings of a man. The vast majority of women do not think like this. Firstly, most women would choose to be alone than enter into a partnership with someone they weren't attracted to, and studies back thi However, a significant minority of men would enter into a relationship with someone they weren't attracted to which is why this sounds purely like male projection. The vast majority of women do not want to have sex every single day becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:48 PM
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This is pure delusion lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:37 PM
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If a person is my partner then they are not mid to me. However, like most women my libido is connected to my emotions. When I am in an emotionally great place flirting and primed from my partner, and not resentful due to neglect I love sex, but even still it has its limit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 08:45 PM
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I don't want to have sex every day period.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 08:18 PM
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Once again Lilith says the hard truth that many don't want to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 01:58 AM
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Idk sex with men and a little transitioning to get access to all that's described here seems like an easy choice to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 11:24 PM
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Why don't men who believe this transition, and enjoy the spoils?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 10:32 PM
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They ironically don't consider people that they aren't attracted to options. Rules for thee not rules for me kind of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:29 PM
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And yet this forum and many others like it exist. The Red Pill exists because men know what women offer simply by existing near them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:28 PM
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It's not their fault, but it is their responsibility to heal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:45 PM
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They don't care. They get to touch the hot young thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 10:20 PM
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Every time I say this I get downvoted, but it's the absolute truth. They do the initial work then coast for the entirety of the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 07:30 PM
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This is lovely for you, but just because this is your mentality doesn't mean that it's everyone else's.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:41 AM
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"Situationship" the hormones and feelings are making up for the subpar sex. Overtime that decreases, and it becomes a chore if the sex continues to be subpar. Literally advocating against men doing better sexually, so that their partners can enjoy it too is an interesting take. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:40 PM
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Better as in getting to the finish line. Even men would be frustrated if they never got to finish during sex. Makes it a boring chore.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:19 PM
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That's what it means to live in society. Women do not have your sexual drive, and in fact it disturbs many women the relationship men have with sex (and that's just the tempered view we know you all don't say your wildest thoughts publicly). SO, if you want the desire of women you'll have to meet them where they are, or what you want will continue to evade you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:31 PM
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Aggressive attunement, so that you can balance your desires with the object of your desires. Like someone with ADHD. Their innate wiring will never change, so in order to function and achieve goals they must radically work with their neurobiology to do so. Men need to do the same for their sexual drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:22 PM
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They say the most vile disturbing things, and when we accurately point that out we get all the push back.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:12 PM
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We are reading a post where the OP is saying that any woman no matter how she looks or any other qualifier about her could get a man to take care of her. So, a grown man transitioning might not exactly be the most attractive woman, but you've agreed here that it doesn't matter. So, which is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:00 PM
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A few surgeries, and you've got your wish.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:37 PM
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I just don't get how they wouldn't try to get better at the thing they obsess over to entice their partners into doing it more.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:41 PM
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Yes, they would. Hospitals and medical staff are mandatory reporters. They have a duty to report people who may be a danger to themselves or others to law enforcement.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 08:13 PM
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Yes, at every doctor's appointment we are asked if we are a danger to ourselves or others.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:49 PM
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Couldn't men change their mentality instead, and they could have all the sex they want with other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 01:42 AM
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Exactly! And then they get on here, and devalue that, and wonder why women don't want to do that very real WORK for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 11:13 PM
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He said something like when will women take accountability for their behavior, and do you think if all women suddenly turned into frogs do you think men would want them. My response was a bit harsh in retrospect. So, I'll ammend it to possibly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 09:45 PM
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Yes, exactly. Every rejection becomes a verdict on their worth instead of just being seen as the random preferences of another individual. Desperation is visible, and signals a burden that no other human being could ever fulfill, so it's a turn off. Everything that you need is inside of you, and that self-assuredness is highly attractive. And more importantly than that it calms down the loneliness because you have someone who will never leave you when you have self-worth...yourself. When you ach…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 08:36 PM
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If those frogs had a vagina...probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 08:25 PM
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Autistic women have similar suicide rates to autistic men... It's also not the fault of women that men literally require nothing of their female partners. The access to sex is enough for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 08:08 PM
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The "privilege" comes from male behavior. Who else is responsible for male behavior except for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 07:56 PM
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The you was a general you. Desperation and a miserable personality are highly unattractive. Healing that would allow them to live happier lives, and get them closer to the partnership they say they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:07 PM
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And still it's the only option you have. Being miserable and desperate about it chases away the thing that you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 06:43 PM
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Reality. Which is why men desperately want to be in them, and women leave them the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 06:32 PM
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Women over reciprocate in relationships. Men pay for the first few dates then coast. The fact that men devalue what women bring to them in relationships, yet they desperately want it is why it will continue to evade them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 06:23 PM
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A sex toy and a friend group is more reliable and fruitful if this is what is being offered to a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 05:58 PM
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Peace aka utility.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 07:26 PM
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Who said that? What is being said is that someone who rushes into feelings is a red flag. People want to be known not just there because someone else is lonely. Real feelings take time. People need to slow down, and the person rushing might even find out that their feelings aren't what they actually think.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:32 PM
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They said too soon and too strong. Genuine feelings are born from knowing the other person, and that takes time. Manipulators are trying to hide things however, and they often rush.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:37 PM
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Sounds like a good thing that men are walking away then.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 08:33 AM
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It's not your fault, but it is your responsibility. No one can help you except for you, and you are worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:04 AM
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So you care more about your own ego than the pleasure and comfortability of your partner, and you wonder why they might be less inclined to do a sex act with you that can be incredibly painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 12:44 AM
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While they live their lives. I'm happy for you lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 07:56 PM
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It does. You don't want to read it because then your worldview might get challenged, so you have cutesy little trademarks instead lol. I get it cognitive dissonance is hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 07:51 PM
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If you're a passport bro you've got the solution why still focus on American women? The anger and bitterness are over the top. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 07:49 PM
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This is so ironic because it's actually men who do this. The studies for attractiveness showcase that women rate themselves less attractively than men rate them, and men rate themselves more attractively than women rate them. You should read the study in its entirety. It has a gem that I'll be making a post about that will literally blow minds lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 07:27 PM
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Study after study disagrees with your first statement. Women perform more domestic tasks than men even though most American women work. And of course American women won't do this for you. You all do not have the financial ability, but you still expect and get the domestic work. SO, you go to a country where you are effectively a wealthy man, and then you're surprised that the women comply. American women comply with wealthy American men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 07:25 PM
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This mindset is global. You simply have the funds to do it when you go to countries where your average American salary makes you a wealthy man. The irony. Men are the ones who want servants. They want domestic duties and emotional duties from women, and don't give that back close to any level. So, yes you're going to need to show up with a better incentive to get women to partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 07:20 PM
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The Effect of Attractiveness on Food Sharing Preferences in Human Mating Markets ~ 2011 People who rated themselves as more attractive were less willing to pay. Men preferred to pay for more attractive female dates. You were saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 05:08 PM
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There's nothing bad about a woman requiring a man to pay for the first date. The argument is actually highly attractive women have the leverage of not paying 50/50 because they are in high demand, so many in that category will not opt for 50/50. A lesser attractive woman has less leverage, and so might be more inclined to go dutch with you. Though either of any group can have any preference we're discussing likelihood. And the funniest thing is that studies show that when men are in the face of …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:44 PM
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Yes, I agree. Implementing her advice would require a lot of introspection and deep self-work, so they fall back on the easier route which is women as the scapegoat for all their issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:09 PM
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Because there are plenty of women out there that would happily go dutch with you. They simply don't meet the esthetic criteria, so men complain bitterly instead about what the women they are attracted to require in courtship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:57 PM
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And this is why so many men are single. It's a net negative experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:53 PM
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Something tells me that I'll enjoy it just fine, but you who is clearly in my position as well won't. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 10:20 PM
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Women do not get the better deal in partnering with men hence why they leave relationships with men at will. The juice isn't worth the squeeze.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 09:50 PM
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Except a huge portion of men don't provide that. That's why more women are staying single, and why women initiate most divorces. Dating a man is adding a load to your plate the women are simply trying to make sure it's even.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 09:38 PM
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I mean if being with someone offered me the chance of a higher salary, higher happiness in life, less loneliness, more sex, less depression than not I think I might worship them a bit. Especially when that person being with me gets much less of those benefits. Then go take them!!! Live your life with a partner that is compatible with you. There are men who love to pay. Do you think your preferences are the only ones? This is literally the point of dating. You and the women who want men to pay ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 09:17 PM
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If something is hilarious then I'm going to laugh. You're not insulting me, and yet you've called me ignorant, a fool, and a victim. Lmao. And yet we are right back to reality. If you don't want to pay for the first date then don't, and move on with your life. Just like I'll be doing after I chuckle one last good time after this "debate".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 08:54 PM
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When I was researching for this topic study after study showcased that men interested in long term partnership invest in their partners. Men are trying to create a buffer class of women that ask for nothing in a bid to get their needs met for hardly any investment. The studies also noted that the more attractive the woman the higher the investment. Men are not asking the women that they are highly attracted to on coffee dates, or to split the bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 08:49 PM
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Lol you all can keep trying to insult me, but the fact of the matter is that nothing that I've said here is illogical. It's backed by the lived experience of a huge portion of women, and it's also statistically relevant. You all can't debate period. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 08:27 PM
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As are you...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 08:21 PM
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Well if you're being... (not trying to get banned, but if you know about inference you know about implication) then don't be surprised when people call you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 08:15 PM
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That's your opinion. I'm going to let the people who date men navigate dating men however they see fit. Find the one that matches you, and move along.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 08:08 PM
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HE implied he was stupid. I simply agreed. Lmao and I see where you ignored him calling me ignorant. Typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 08:07 PM
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I'm not sure what domestic violence amongst lesbians has to do with women initiating breakups with straight men citing lack of commitment as their number one reason, but ok. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 08:02 PM
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Where did I insult anyone? You are projecting your feelings onto my words.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 07:20 PM
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Where is the entitlement? Is anyone forcing you? And women want a connection with a genuine man. Some prefer their genuine men to also be generous. Find one who doesn't require that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 07:20 PM
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Not sufficiently enough given that women initiate most breakups. Clearly there's a disconnect.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 07:09 PM
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Whatever the individual woman deems necessary. Whatever kind of investment she deems fit to determine seriousness of the man she is seeing. Again you don't have to do any of this. No one is forcing you to. Find the women who think like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:08 PM
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So, go into a relationship trying to change the person into what you actually want, and some people are surprised why many relationships don't last?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 11:25 PM
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The problem is that the vast majority of those suggestion ARE empathy, and they are intended to help you. There's an elephant in the room that we can't address, but I'll say it here. There is rampant mental illness all over this sub. When you get help for your problems. When you see externalizing blame for everything going on in your world instead of metaphorically grabbing your life by the balls and pulling is the only way out then you will be set free. But YOU have to do it. No one else can do…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 07:25 PM
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Yeah, opening up your relationships helps to let off some of that steam...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 07:12 PM
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Thank you. Your journey of finding a woman who gives you everything while you give her nothing is going to be amazing too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:37 PM
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No one is judging your worth because they don't want to date you. They are making sure that when they get into the depths of the relationship where they as the female portion of it will be statistically likely to contribute significantly more to the relationship than the male portion of the relationship that it evens out. They believe that a small financial investment, or whatever other investment they deem fit will make up for the immense labor that comes from partnering with a man. I addressed…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:09 PM
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Each individual woman has their own idea about the appropriate level of behavior that signals to them a man's seriousness. If the woman you want requires you to pay for the first date as her idea of gauging your seriousness, and you do not want to do that you are free to move along to another woman who does not require that. It's likely that you all disagree on major things, and wouldn't be right for each other. You have saved each other's time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:58 PM
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According to the survey and other studies, men gain companionship, support, emotional regulation, domestic work, access to regular sex, and a way to stave off loneliness when they partner with women. Easy to see why a large portion of men would then go on to commit to women they don't love or aren't attracted to they can still get all of those needs met with an unnatractive woman, and can't get them without any woman at all. Women want to avoid that at all costs, and act accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:44 PM
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And if men don't pay it means they don't desire the woman. Men pull out all of the stops for the women they are highly attracted to. Good deal. Two incompatible people just avoided each other, and now are free to continue on their search. Worked out well!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 08:00 AM
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Nothing that you mentioned is even close to the level of disadvantage that women face for the exact same issues, so if women want to weed out men who won't simply pay for a date to make sure they are serious they can and will continue to do so. You all can obsfugate, insult, and muddy the waters all you want to, but men who are serious about their partners INVEST. Study after study shoes this. Your dream girl comes up to you, and you're going to ask her on a 50/50 coffee date? Lol Lie to your mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 07:51 AM
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Exactly! Everyone gets to make their own choices, and you can call women prostitutes all you want. If your dream girl showed up you'd be clamoring to pay. Women know this, and act accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 07:42 AM
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I said the men cannot treat the women as good as the women treat themselves, and you all have a hard time understanding why someone wouldn't want that addition in their lives. Absolutely, single men's quality of life skyrockets with the addition of a woman, SO women want that same thing back from men. Someone that doesn't respect the work that a woman will put into the entirety of the relationship, and who is also so disturbed by dropping 50 bucks on said woman they want to improve their life ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 07:10 AM
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There are a few portions of your sentence I highly agree with, and it's definitely not the last word. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 06:40 AM
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Lol I'm talking on you all's behalf as men. Someone who views going dutch in that way is likely fundamentally incompatible with someone who views it a different way. And yes, both parties dodged a bullet. And free meal? 🤣 We spend more on ourselves. Men want to get into women's most intimate parts, and can't even treat women as good as they treat themselves? No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 06:37 AM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣 a man's time? Women risk getting used for sex which they are judge harshly for, pregnancy, disease, negative mental health, safety etc. when they date men. Your time means nothing men will do and say anything to get sex, so yes if you want to have a shot with the vast majority of women you're going to put some skin in the game. And this isn't even a fool proof method. Men will marry you and not even like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 06:07 AM
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Thems the breaks in life. Each and every single one of us gets to decide who we want to date, what we want them to do, and what we will tolerate. Having hatred of women usually doesn't make the list of things women want in men, and that my friend is highly logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 06:03 AM
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Entitlement is wanting to see someone when you don't meet their wants, needs, and boundaries. Move along to someone compatible. Do you want it to end now, or 10 years down the line when you've invested way more than a dinner, and you still find out you're incompatible?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 06:00 AM
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Who said it doesn't make you straight? I simply want a straight man as a straight woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 05:53 AM
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And just like you women are trying to avoid being used by making men invest to prove their seriousness. You do have a free choice you dropped the gold digger...seems like you dropped the low maintenance one too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 05:46 AM
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I'm glad for them. Taking agency over your own life is freeing and wonderful.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 05:44 AM
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Exactly! If a woman does not do the things you want you have now gotten one step closer to the woman who does. Or, you can go after incompatible partners and do the Pikachu face when it constantly and consistently ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:12 AM
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So the guy who doesn't pay isn't also trying to get sex? 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:07 AM
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So, again their choice? No one forced them, and so no one is being entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:04 AM
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You don't have to listen to the chickadees who complain about male preference, and men don't lol. A whole movement to make dating fat women a dating option for men, and even the lonely incel men won't touch a "land whale". This life is yours. You have agency. If you don't want something don't do it. If what you want gets farther away from you because you won't do certain actions then you might want to consider how much you actually want it. But even still it is all your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:02 AM
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Then don't date women who want that. But there are plenty of men who will happily pay for the first date, so as my good Slavic sister said, "There is nothing wrong with a man not choosing to pay for the first date I will simply choose the man who wants to." There's also nothing entitled about that as everyone has their choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 12:52 AM
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Yes, of course you can't debate the cold hard logic that men choose to "jester" for women because they don't like the alternative, and instead of taking accountability for those choices they scapegoat women instead. Women will continue to make men invest to determine seriousness in a world where a woman risks her safety, her dignity, her reproduction, etc, and a similar world where multiple studies have showcased that a large portion of men ~30% will use deception to obtain sex , and will commit…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 12:44 AM
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You don't have to do any of that. You simply just don't like the other option. No one is forcing you to do anything. If a woman does things that you don't like move on, but you say oh I'll be single for long periods of time. Oh well. The other option is you get with a woman you don't like that you feel you had to jester for, and it eventually ends because you don't like her. But there's something hidden in all that which makes you choose the option that enrages you. Simply put you all know that …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 12:23 AM
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Considering what men get out of the relationship if he is successful This needs to be discussed more. The way women basically carry the relationship from its inception to the end, and the benefits men get from that, and the fact that they complain so bitterly about the minimal they are expected to do even though they are desperate for women is a complete turn off. They know how much they want women and that essence, and yet they try to devalue it at every turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:59 PM
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Yup. What they provide is not worth the very real risk of being with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:51 PM
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Yes, male sexuality is often disturbing. The way you all obsess, talk, and think about sex is highly off-putting. The pressure around it is scary. And it has nothing to do with who is doing it. It's the way you all speak about it. The way there's a hidden demand whenever you're discussing it. It seems like a force.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:18 PM
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And this is why women fear men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:31 AM
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Ahh the old you won't fuck me, so I'm going to burn down society, and then those men wonder why no one wants them. It has nothing to do with looks. The vast majority of men everywhere will partner meaning that it truly is rare to for a man to be so unnatractive that you won't get a partner. It's the off-putting hateful personality that is visible that gets those men shunned. Try like the manipulors who are successful they can hide the hatred even if just for a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 02:22 AM
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Or we're straight women, and we want to date straight men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:22 AM
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Guaranteed he never tracked how many times he brought her to the finish line. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:10 PM
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Do you understand that statistics have their place, but they are often changed years later after further review, change with demographic, and often don't map back 100% to real world phenomenon?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:09 PM
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You do not get to decide what real desire is for women. Real desire is not what is portrayed in some dirty hotel room between 2 people getting paid to be there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:21 AM
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The op posits that women do not lust after average men. Even in this study you cited (which does not discuss the attractiveness of the participants) the men do admit that their partners lust after them even if it's not at the level that they desire. The ball is now in their court to communicate that with their partners, and if the issue isn't resolved to leave. I have a hint for 5 though. If the sex between and a man and a woman consistently does not end up in an orgasm for the woman she will co…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:14 AM
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So, you admit that the sex you have is bad because you don't have the ability or care to produce orgasms, yet you expect your partner to crave you like the paid ravenous often drugged up women in porn? And again men in those relationships (where most people are average) are having more sex than any other group of men, so they absolutely do experience lust from their partners. Women are not men. The way a lot of men approach sex is disturbing to women. If you want the sex drive of a man, and the …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:06 AM
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Do you have porn penis size? Stamina? Are you making your partner orgasm? Are you going down on your partner? The pressure that men put on sex is incredibly off-putting. Men can work on consistently making their partners orgasm, and then maybe they can start demanding more sex acts. But, as it stands most men haven't even mastered the ones they commonly do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:54 AM
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Who are you to tell women how they should express their sexuality? If the sex is satisfying and the romantic relationship is satisfying more women are definitely into doing those acts with their partners, but real life isn't a porno. Very few want to be constantly gagging on dick. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:45 AM
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Low self-esteem is not attractive. You cannot use people's opinions of you to prop up your self-esteem. The vast majority of all couples are average. Do you truly believe there is no lust involved in those relationships? That is illogical, and a cognitive distortion born from low self-esteem. It absolutely sucks to feel invisible, but no one can solve that lack except for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:10 AM
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Men have the exact same reproductive rights as women. They get to decide what to do with their bodies when they decided to ejaculate into a woman. From there the woman gets to decide what to do with her own body. The reason why no one will ever let you off financially for the children you create is that it's not the taxpayers problem that you decided to dump into the only known place in the universe that can create human life, and then acted surprised that a human life was made. Now, if we want …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:45 AM
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Yes, I know. Doing the deep self-work is hard. A scapegoat is easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:41 AM
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If you would all get the help that you need to repair your self-worth issues the life that you dream of would become available to you. But you all absolutely resent the thing that you want which makes what you want not want you even more. So, many of you look fine, but this cloud of delusion, anger, and bitterness is antithetical to a romantic relationship. Any relationship really. And the you is general here. I am not talking specifically about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:25 AM
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Men already don't do the things you listed which is why more and more women are becoming single every day. It's like you all don't get it. Lol. This is generalized, but many of the struggling men out there sound like absolute burdens. Who would want that? And then to further prove that women don't want that you go straight to harming women when you don't get what you want. Again this you is general.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:51 PM
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I have to admit that reading this elicits nothing but horror, but I read more about your condition, and you quite literally cannot help it, and thus I commend you for taking your partner into such consideration in that you told her exactly what was happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:23 PM
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There are hardly any men who are so repulsive that they can't find a partner. It's this cloud of sadness, anger, and bitterness that chases away anyone who could find you attractive or want to be with you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:24 PM
3

All the more reason to leave men alone. More women are as the veil gets lifted.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:41 AM
1

Yes, there are no upsides. Either it was good, yet this person doesn't care about you and doesn't want to see you again. Emotional damage. Or it's terrible, and a waste of time. You can take care of it yourself guaranteed to be good AND no negative emotions. It's a no brainer.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:01 AM
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So, either go with an emotionless robot or be lied to about love. This is why a lot of women don't want to date. Emotional intimacy IS the relationship. Women do not want to have sex in relationships where there is no emotional intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 05:37 AM
4

The preferences of others have nothing to do with your worth just like your preferences have nothing to do with the worth of the women you don't want to date. Your maladaptive strategies have convinced you that the fight is over before you ever even try because attacking yourself and externalizing your blame is easier to do than the deep self-work of healing. There are truly few men so repulsive that they wouldn't attract a partner, and the data shows that most men do have sex and partner. Yes, …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:08 AM
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Yes, I just pulled up the stats, and even in that age range it's about 50% for overweight or obese. You are in the league of whoever will accept you. If that's the bottom 10-20% what's the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:36 AM
5

Who wouldn't like a Live Long and Prosper!?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:25 AM
4

The average person male or female in the United States is fat, so yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:23 AM
3

So, you complain about dating someone on your level, but expect women to do so? And yes if your face is ugly as a man you are on par with a fat woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:21 AM
4

I'd give him the 🖖 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:20 AM
5

How do you all tell the people that are attracted to men what is an attractive man? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:18 AM
0

Your experience as a woman isn't the only experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:16 PM
0

Thanks for expanding my first sentence which lists the caveat of, "if you are using external validation to prop up your self-esteem". Yes, external validation matters, but it cannot be the totality, or even the majority of ones self-esteem, or it will always be fleeting and unstable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:07 PM
5

Someone who needs their self-esteem propped up by external validation in this manner will never be satisfied. Black hole of need that nothing can fill up except themselves which is incredibly hard, so it's understandable why most reject it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:44 AM
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100 years of every man not being guaranteed a wife, and look at what they devolve into. Meanwhile women since time immemorial were subjugated, and they simply asked for their rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 08:51 PM
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Men absolutely have emotions you're displaying them now. They have unfortunately been repressed due to societal conditioning, and that doesn't really go well for intimate relationahips that require access to emotions to thrive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 03:35 PM
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I'm sorry that this triggered you. No one was being cruel to you. It's not about 4b it's about women choosing less and less to partner because the emotional and other aspects are not coming through from the other side (the number 1 cause of divorce btw). In all this I never insulted you or men, so it's telling you immediately went there lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 01:09 AM
2

This forum wouldn't even exist if what I said wasn't true. Men know they need this which is why in just a mere 100 years of a guaranteed female presence taken away we see you all crashing out like this. The devaluation of what you all crave is precisely why more women are taking it away.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:38 AM
1

I said absolutely nothing like that. In fact I broadened my statement to anyone with low self-esteem. Anyone can have that though of course ugly people have had more negative experiences which might make the condition more likely. People with self-esteem issues should absolutely do the hard work to heal that before entering into relationships. Firstly, they chase away prospective partners with their often desperation and need for their partners to regulate them which no human can do. They are pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:06 PM
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So, that would just mean that given the opportunity they'd be more likely to take it? Further pointing out why no one should attempt a relationship with a partner with an external locus of self-worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:51 PM
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If you take credit for the good then you also have to take credit for the bad. And women pull their weight. Men couldn't do any of that without the vast underbelly of unpaid labor women do that carries society. If no one was at home to raise the children while men went off to work then how would society continue? Not to mention that women have worked for all of recorded human history and in the domestic sphere. You all devaluing the domestic sphere is why no one wants to do it for you, but you a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:38 PM
2

By vitality for life I mean what gives life color. Many men would be satisfied with a gaming chair and a bed, but women bring color to life. They bring whimsy, they bring experiences. They decorate the house for random holidays. They nurture. As far as power the common dynamic between men and women would leave a man to feel powerful in having another being defer to them. And for community women maintain social bonds which humans crave, and men do not do this as much?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:22 PM
1

I don't think anything would cause that. For all of human history women have been subjugated. Denied agency, traded like cattle, used for utility, and the female revolution didn't involve any of that it simply asked for a seat at the table. And then you look at the other side, and what they do when not even faced with a fraction of the abuse or time, and you see how they react it's so staggering.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:00 PM
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You know this exact same thing is what women say about ugly men right? But, we need to be more specific. This is the case for anyone with low self-esteem who uses external validation as the main prop to their self-esteem. Nothing will ever be enough until they relocate their locus of self-worth internally. This means they'll get the relationship that they say they crave, but they are hollowed out and empty inside, and thus they need more to fulfill them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:50 PM
1

Everything. That emotional depth that many of you lack because it's been repressed, vitality for life, community, power, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:04 PM
3

And when those previously undesired men get an abundance of options what is to stop them from behaving like the other men? You are saying that it is the abundance of options that causes that lack of care. So, women will sleep with the unnatractove men, and still not get the orgasm? So, that's why they choose the attractive one, or opt out of casual sex all together. As women can give themselves orgasms with ease with no risk of disease, violence, negative emotional feelings, social consequences,…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:00 PM
5

Yes, with billions of women in the world some are going to be open to casual sex. Most are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:58 PM
9

So, this perfectly demonstrates why women overwhelmingly don't want casual sex. Either way they get the short end of the stick. Better to take care of it yourself, and avoid all potential negative consequences the best of which will be shitty sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:34 PM
2

Gosh I was trying to find a way to articulate this. It needs to be sanitized of course for it to be accepted. But fundamentally men do not provide what women do in relationships, and as such they need to compensate for that. And I think they understand this too which is why they are so desperate for women in a way that women are not desperate for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:32 PM
3

A scapegoat is much easier psychologically than true introspection and self-actualization.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:09 AM
0

This is delusional beyond belief. I mean like one of the most delusional things ever written on reddit. The middle passage wipes any numbers you could conjure up. I mean delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 01:36 AM
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This is delusional beyond belief. I mean like one of the most delusional things ever written on reddit. The middle passage wipes any numbers you could conjure up. I mean delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 01:36 AM
3

If the sample is biased, and a sample of convenience where they got women coming from one working district plaza on one day then the sample is not representative of the statistical population.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:07 PM
3

Your N=29 sample studies are quite the challenge. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 01:55 PM
6

Male indiscriminateness is not the arbiter of heterosexuality. We could argue because you all have NO criteria that you don't even like women simply the act of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 01:38 PM
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Let's say you're correct. Women didn't have the right to vote in this country until 100 years ago. So, WHO would have been in charge of the societal norms around dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:02 PM
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Correction: Men are in lust.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 01:50 PM
3

This is nothing but the truth however it's up to the groups that were propped up by the elites to be their attack dogs in absentia to carry the torch.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 03:49 PM
3

They're both nasty honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:23 PM
5

What does a woman need a man for if he's not concerned with her orgasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 02:48 AM
1

A person living a life like this already has the armory. They live with it every day annihilating themselves inside, so to get relief they turn it outwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:49 PM
1

And that's not terrorism being mean to an already emotionally unstable woman, so that she'll give a person sex? That's the real terrorism.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:26 PM
6

No lol the test is a fresh full hot deuce from a sumo wrestler what's your answer now? 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 01:42 PM
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Exactly. I am 100% straight never will or wanted to do anything with a woman, but hell yeah I'm fucking a woman versus eating literal shit. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 02:21 AM
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Maybe they just wanted to orgasm for once...?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 01:38 AM
8

Isn't this what transactional people already do?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:56 PM
1

That is not the same as actively make the choice to lie, harm, and deceive, and the existence of things like that is also not an excuse for individuals to behave in that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:55 PM
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People can still keep trying to show them the way though. And I have no idea how my initial comment got unders yours lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:53 PM
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Isn't that what people with those mindsets already do? Sounds like a good match.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:40 PM
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Except you wouldn't be faking it you would be building it. No, it will never be like if you never had the trauma, but it can get to a place where your fear doesn't control you anymore. Your natural impulse wasn't passive/fearful/avoidant that was drilled into you from the mistreatment. You can root it out, and you have a responsibility to yourself to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 05:12 PM
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This is called learned helplessness, and it's easier than the deep and difficult work of reconstructing the self. But, it can and must be done, or you will continue to live in the prison you've unknowingly built for yourself from the cognitive distortions you created as a child to survive. You're safe now, or you must build that safety for yourself, so that the work can begin.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 04:35 PM
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Incentive structure is merely semantics for lack of morality. Most people would not lie, harm, and deceive to get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 12:41 PM
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CPTSD so many of us are suffering. Healing is available you have to seek it. It's not your fault, but thank goodness it's your responsibility because that means you can change and heal. You aren't a kid being bullied anymore. You're safe now, and if you're not you have to build that safe space inside of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 12:33 PM
1

This is similar to how men try to collectively lower the bar in dating so that the women they settle for they won't have to put in so much effort while reaping the benefits. Top tier women never have to worry abiut 50/50 or coffee dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:28 PM
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This logic doesn't hold. The relationship cannot be a net loss if the man is willing to do all those things to keep it. There is a benefit that he is receiving though clearly devaluing if he thinks his efforts are losses, yet still continues to put forth those efforts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 05:39 PM
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So because society "shames" you for your preferences you end up with someone you aren't attracted to, or your preferences don't prefer you, and you feel you're forced to settle outside of your preferences? And you're the victim in all this not the person you tricked into dating you so that you could procure benefits from them when you're not even attracted to them, and they have no clue about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:06 AM
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Yes, because unfortunately they are incredibly insecure, and partnering with a woman has become about validation of their worth. So, one woman isn't enough it's an insatiable hunger for an empty person.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:57 PM
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Submission flourishes in the presence of competent leadership. That's antithetical to someone whining about a filthy house they won't help to clean because they want their whistle wet. Yuck
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:06 PM
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And THIS is why women are so picky. What a hellish life partnered with someone like this. Being alone is much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:01 PM
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You literally said, "you don't experience it because you're not a man." Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:08 PM
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If that man can't cum on his own then he's experiencing a biological issue, and there is no fault. If 95% of straight women can bring themselves to orgasm, and then that number drops to 50% when they introduce a man into the bedroom, but remains 85% when they introduce a woman... Hmmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:05 PM
2

News at 8: Why are people having less sex? We've got an exposé!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:53 PM
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I bet. May you continue to succeed in that endeavor.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:51 PM
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Men and women must be entitled then because women have certainly experienced what you detailed in your first 2 paragraphs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:16 PM
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If a person chooses to eat a vagina that smells that choice is on that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:08 PM
1

It really is such a lazy argument when they do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:34 PM
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It's honestly so hilarious that men haven't even mastered the vagina hello orgasm gap, and they want to go try to conquer the butt. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:24 PM
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This is cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:27 PM
2

A lot of women would still be disturbed by simply sharing themselves with someone who wouldn't care if they lived or died tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:35 AM
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This entire thing was quite literally a beacon call of why a woman might fall into misandry. You are listing the ills of man quite clearly. If you want praise for the good then you take criticism for the bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:27 PM
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No, she isn't. She's describing what manipulators and bad people do. If you want to be a bad person to gain what you want go ahead, but no one is stopping you neither are they incentivizing you to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:21 PM
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You know nothing of my life, and I'm not going to share my story with you, but there are many women in your boat. If you want someone to care about you then you have to also care for others. But it took me rock bottom to gain this knowledge. I hope you don't need to go there. Life is hard. Choose the hard path of self-hatred or the hard path of self-love. One brings you closer to things you say you want, and the other keeps you trapped.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 11:31 PM
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NO. I'm telling you that your desire has another root, and if you heal that root the desire won't be so all encompassing. Right now love and connection is doing the work of validating you as a human and a man. But the only things that could ever validate you as a human or a man are inside of you, and you must cultivate them. If you don't even if you got into a relationship you would sabotage it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 11:13 PM
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That's not true. Your brain is incredible, and you can stop the loops that were conditioned into you. You have to choose it. It's incredibly hard, but so are most worthy things.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 11:02 PM
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Yes, it would hurt my self-esteem. It did hurt it. You are not the only person experiencing the things that you are going through. There's a world where you can come home to yourself, and not annihilate yourself with the opinions of others. Even if you never got a partner that framing would at least give you peace. And interestingly enough when you don't approach romance as oxygen, and you are secure in yourself you become more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 06:11 PM
1

I'm sorry that happened to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 05:46 PM
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To resent the thing that you want so desperately has to be an absolute mind fuck. If women are all of this WHY do you want them so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 06:09 PM
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These are your cognitive distortions talking. Someone wanting to use another person's body for their pleasure isn't being valued and it's not validating. Women worry about all of the things that you mention. Your pain is blinding you to reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 05:17 PM
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And you shouldn't. What does the fact that me a scared woman might be slightly more alert in my surroundings or choose a different route if faced with an unknown man that may or may not look scary have anything to do with you? Men take precautions against unknown men, and they have the chance to at least defend themselves, but women who have almost no chance shouldn't take similar precautions?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 03:57 PM
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What does someone's filter have to do with your worth as a person? Do you see how illogical it would be for anyone to base their self-esteem majorly or totally on external validation? Some random woman who you know nothing about maybe her ex who looked like you cheated, or her first love had your hair style, and so she doesn't choose you to date, and THAT means you're unworthy? If that were the case each of us would be bat shit crazy. The opinions of 8 billion and ever increasing others would ru…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:03 AM
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No. Not at all. We are all one. Even with everything I've said here today. But until we can get to that kind of thinking all we can do is plunker on, and keep fighting the good fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:49 PM
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Your pain is real, and this is learned helplessness. You have agency over your own life. What's more logical that you or anyone else is so unnatractive that they could never find a partner anywhere, or that in order for how they feel inside to match their reality a person behaves or thinks in ways that consciously and subconsciously affirm those thoughts? You are worthy no matter your height, wealth, etc. We all are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:46 PM
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I want to preface this by saying that I'm not attacking you. Taking a dramatic step by changing your gender points to some major psychological distress around this whole topic. Don't you think that addressing that versus taking extreme physical steps might be more beneficial?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 10:47 PM
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I thought the attractiveness of the woman didn't matter. That any woman has vastly more options than any man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 10:29 PM
4

I mean you do have that choice now...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 10:24 PM
4

To think subjugation without any chance for agency is having an easier life is a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 10:16 PM
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People do that all the time. If you are a member of the affected group all you can do is to continue to live your life. Don't justify your humanity to anyone. Not a scared woman or a racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 09:58 PM
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To resent the thing that a person wants so much, but no access to has to be awful psychological territory to be in. This is a general statement applied to this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 09:54 PM
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Exactly. And why do we have it now? Feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 07:05 PM
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So, if both are valid why wouldn't we go for the system where women get to choose to live like your female family members back then, or choose another way. That was the point. The choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 06:50 PM
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Even you hold this prejudice against other men. It's why you won't behave in certain ways around them. Self-preservation will always prevail.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 06:26 PM
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What I'm getting at is that maybe women are wary even approaching hateful of men not because of not being able to vote or own property 50 years ago, and maybe more to do with being 11, and harassed by old men as you walk to the corner store? Or being beaten by their boyfriends? Being called a bitch when they kindly reject men? Joining a male dominated field and being harassed to the point they leave it? Being followed? Being lied to about relationship intentions so that sex could be gained? And …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:28 PM
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I'm glad for your mother. Now, if mine had the exact opposite experience what does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:14 PM
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Really? Women don't experience any negative effects from men today? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:13 PM
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Couldn't women argue that men did that since recorded human history, so they're in the position that you describe men to be in?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:58 PM
1

How is this personal? There are literally comments here of men calling people names. Someone saying that all women are the same, and me countering that it is that person's choice in partner is me making things personal?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 05:00 PM
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Those are the women you are attracted to. Choose better.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 03:58 PM
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Using that Z score to make implications about the larger population is invalid because the beginning sample of 29 women taken in one location and setting is not random nor representative.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:31 PM
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Blanchard's Autogynephilia Theory: A Critique is the study you originally linked lol. Just an arsenal of academic studies about this topic, eh. Lol Also N=29 is hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:34 PM
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No. The emotional risks aren't worth it. Someone entering your body, and then never speaking to you again is not the business.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:09 PM
2

You never pointed out that 93% in that study you posted lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:05 PM
1

Herpes does not cause throat cancer whether it's oral or genital. It is HPV that is responsible for most throat, cervical, and penile cancers. And women can absolutely contract HPV which can lead to cancer from men except there is no test for men to show that they even have it. Also, over the course of a lifetime 80% of people will contract HPV.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:00 PM
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If you have to finish yourself off later there's no point in the sex. You could do that yourself at home guarantee pleasure with no risk to your reputation, health, or any negative emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:34 PM
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Yes, it's disgusting. And if men truly viewed it as an accomplishment one would think that would translate into better performances, yet still mostly awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:28 PM
2

No. She's not emotional enough for me. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 11:40 PM
3

Abnormally high standards according to whom? Who are you to dictate anyone's standards? You are just one guy on reddit as you say. We are all simply living our lives if you don't make the cut that's not some conspiracy against you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 08:29 PM
1

Good thing your whole reply to me was simply you reiterating that we treat the people we are attracted to differently. I'm glad that we can agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 08:14 PM
2

Yeah, so 46 percent of people 18-24 in the US are either obese or overweight. And that increases the older we get up to 70+%. Your preferences aren't as forgiving as you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 08:00 PM
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Everyone thinks like that even you hence why you dodged her question. We all want what we want. It is very unfortunate that some people end up unwanted, but no one is doing anything to anyone just because they don't want to be with them romantically.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 07:30 PM
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They should take heed to your signals about desperation. It's a huge beacon for predators.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 07:25 PM
1

You simply have to keep lighting the torch some will follow you out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 03:05 AM
1

Exactly it's a character and morality issue, and many men seem to have no issue behaving imorally to get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 09:53 PM
1

Mana
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 05:28 PM
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Do they inform their potential partners of this uncertainty? Of their ability to only form these long term potential bonds after sex? Of course not, and that is the issue. Men can keep doing whatever they want to do, and women will just keep becoming more wary. Who wants to risk pregnancy, disease, and the best possible outcome being a 20% chance of orgasm? The juice quite literally isn't worth the squeeze.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 02:48 PM
1

I think some trend towards being disagreeable as like a scorched earth kind of thing. Like they didn't want me, so now I'm going to make them feel it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 01:39 AM
7

And so you think the appropriate strategy to end this is to attack the other would be slaves and not the ones ruining all of our human experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 01:20 AM
3

Can you point to that passage? I searched for 93, and it didn't appear.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 12:35 AM
4

I just looked that up, and it said it meant a man aroused by imagining himself as being a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 11:26 PM
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I truly wish healing for all. There's so much suffering here, and everywhere. You deserve to be here. Keep fighting the good fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 10:52 PM
1

I would be positively giddy at this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 10:51 PM
4

Much like you all women do have a biological drive for partnership. So, we take what comes with that. Many men can still be pretty scary though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 10:44 PM
8

That's not the only scary thing about men at all though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 10:38 PM
1

Yes, and the female 50k will still date the male 50k.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 09:06 PM
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Exactly. So, when the 2 wants the 5 it's just like the waitress that wants the CEO.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 12:47 PM
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Some men's mindsets are so disturbing. 100 years of not having total control over the opposite sex, and they're planning slave and sex revolts. Why can't you all just use each other to satiate your appetites?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 08:28 PM
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Yes, I'm sure that cognitive distortion would make that psychological torture more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 04:58 PM
1

This right here is the danger of these ideologies. A young person's life hijacked by illogical coping mechanisms. This is so sad. You believe that you are unworthy due to your height. Your brain a powerful tool will do whatever it can to make what you feel inside match your reality. Making you behave in ways conciously and unconciously that affirm how you feel about yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 04:41 PM
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Of course Todd has no responsibility for his actions. He wants something, so he's justified to behave poorly to get it. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 04:54 AM
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Men's hypergamy IS attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 04:50 AM
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You are exactly right. Imagine the psychological devastation from faking it to finally get the relationship you want, but then your partner leaves when the real you and not the person they fell for inevitably comes out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 04:46 AM
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Life is unfair. The maladaptive coping strategies that you've built because you feel this lack is only further pushing potential partners away. When you finally do manage to get a partner you will sabotage it because of these coping strategies. People tell you to become whole alone first because then at least you will have yourself, and doing so is also highly attractive, and may open up the doors for you to find that partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 01:39 AM
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Dudes say stuff like this, and don't get banned, but we point out the logical consequences of their actions, and even use words like all to denote the generality of our statements, and we get banned and they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:08 PM
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So, just because I want something I can be angry at you for not giving it to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 11:52 PM
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And the women who have given non-assholes a chance, and been burned then what?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 05:59 PM
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Crippling low-self esteem and self-worth is the answer. They need it for validation of their existence not understanding that very attitude is repulsive, and a major driver of why no one wants to engage with them that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 10:39 PM
1

And you wonder why no one wants to go there with you all. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 09:31 AM
1

And more and more women will be repulsed from you all as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 09:30 AM
1

Maybe it's just female bodies that inspire that kind of lust?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 09:45 PM
1

If you have any caveat for human worth then none of us are worthy. To be here is to be worthy. A chance to explore, to turn it all around. This learned helplessness has you all trapped.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 07:25 PM
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I think what they're confused about is how the abusers get in. It's because they pick subsceptible targets, AND at first they turn on the sweetness, honey, and charm. The other men are off-putting from the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 06:51 PM
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Yes, all of you and the rest of us need healing. Your one human experience has been corrupted. Maladaptive coping strategies to make what you feel inside match what you see outside are keeping you trapped. Only you can free yourself. If you don't see the need to may the day come when you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:17 AM
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I disagree, and that's a recipe for disaster. What if you put in all the work, and nothing changes? You're just worthless? I reject that wholeheartedly, and anyone who feels that way may they receive healing. Trillions of synapses, star dust to humanity to the rock, your parents meeting even 30 seconds later, and there would be no you, and we could go on and on. Humanity is wondrous each and every one of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:00 AM
1

What is the alternative?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 01:46 AM
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If you love yourself and believe that you are worthy why would you not trend towards the highest form of yourself aka self-improvement? You said it yourself your approach won't guarantee a partner, and neither does mine, but right now John has no one not even the person always with him ie. himself. In my approach John will practice radical self-acceptance, he will understand that this life is his and he can do whatever he wants with it as he is his own witness, and the need for an outside witnes…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 11:42 PM
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Yes, it is a part of humanity. And what happens to some humans that don't feel like they're apart of humanity? They develop maladaptive coping strategies that further push them away from what they crave. Building up their self-worth, so that the absence of a partner is not an absence of that worth will be helpful to them, and make them more attractive as potential partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 11:39 PM
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Yeah, except for now he doesn't believe in himself and neither does anyone else. In your framework John would be hopeless he might as well just end it. In mine at least John has himself a stable identity not dependent on a job or a partner. Self-knowledge to know that to exist is to be worthy, and each day is another day to go out, and explore that. Or, we can go your way, and John can hate himself forever making him highly unnatractive and still farther from the thing that he wants. No, one eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 09:49 PM
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No, it isn't. No one is saying deny all external validation that would be nonsensical and impossible. What we are saying is that external validation can never be the majority or basis of your self-worth if you hope to ever have stsble self-worth. That comes from within. And what a lot of people who rely on external validation don't see is that you are placing a burden on other people when you use them for validation of your self-worth. No human can do that for you except for you. Even the people…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 09:09 PM
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What is the difference between a man and a human? If you give outside people the major power of propping up your self-worth you will always be unstable. You really think all that you are depends on the wants and the whims of another? Every single one of us is a miracle, and deserves to be here. May each and every one of us start to live like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 08:13 PM
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Was too seething to even spell check basic words, but men don't consider anger an emotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 09:58 PM
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Idk this reply seems pretty emotional to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 06:35 PM
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Using studies with N=25 that will get retracted in a few years does not make your more scientific than anyone else. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 06:33 PM
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It wasn't pathetic at all. These patterns were instilled in you from your many experience a lot which may have been negative. To match how you feel inside your brain points things out to you in reality to make them match. This was never your fault, but I'm so happy for your healing. You deserve it. We all do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 09:57 PM
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I'm glad that you understand that this is a maladaptive psychological issue, and therefore not the fault of any future partners or even yourself. That knowledge should give you the agency to open the prison door that you've unknowingly locked yourself in. You deserve to be free not cuckolded by imaginary men. You are enough that's something that you have to believe. No one else can do it for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 07:46 PM
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Lol indicted by a pedo administration for paying informants in major racist organizations. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 07:36 PM
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What was the deleted comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 07:04 AM
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Even $1 million wouldn't help you as you wouldn't escape the issue which are the maladaptive coping skills you gained to survive as a child that you are still using in adulthood which are causing you immense suffering. Someone expressing happiness in their own life isn't arrogance.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 10:38 PM
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I have brother and sister cats too, and they love each other and fuck each other up so much. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 10:27 PM
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No, he's talking about women's move for mass gainful employment. He's saying that men were forced to hire women, so women should be forced to be with partners they don't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 11:57 PM
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Learning I was autistic did much of that for me. I think shrooms need to be next. Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 11:15 PM
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What did it do for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:53 PM
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Men are human. Neglecting their emotions is probably a major cause of many of their ills.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:51 PM
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External locus of worth it will never be enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:12 PM
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🤣🤣🤣 Men absolutely use women for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 11:06 AM
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You didn't read my sentence well enough to understand. You said emotions have no place in debates about humans and their romantic lives. I wholly disagree. And men pretending that they are the rulers of logic, and not bothered by those pesky emotions should think again.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 12:25 AM
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What happens if women just plunker on as is? Will you finally be happy then? Or, will something else come along?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 11:23 PM
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Which was bigger? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:35 PM
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Just because women don't have indiscriminate lust like you doesn't mean that we are not heterosexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:12 PM
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Do men not vote? And if women were truly in charge would things like abortion be on the chopping block?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 08:54 PM
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An argument about humans devoid of emotion is nonsensical, and the root to many of you all's problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 08:38 PM
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You're not Chad. Just like Stacy would never have to deal with a coffee date.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 03:52 PM
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I don't agree with your assessment. It's too sweeping, generalizing, and the vast majority discusses things women don't have control over individually or collectively. I will say that when we are in pain we often look for a cause...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 03:36 PM
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How are women collectively harming men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 08:10 AM
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I would argue that most people have the morality base to not harm others to get their material interests. Otherwise crime would be much more rampant.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 12:22 AM
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As are the men that freely make their own decisions, or did someone force you to ejaculate into a vagina? You are however responsible for the child you helped to create when they are born. You used your bodily autonomy to decide where your semen would go, and women use their bodily autonomy to decide whatever medical procedures they want or don't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 11:42 PM
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Mental health is real. So, many people on this sub are suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 11:38 PM
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So, you regard women as enemies because they won't satisfy your lust? What does anything in that position have to do with women? It's your lust and compulsion responsible for all of your ills.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 11:36 PM
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Using your body to generate income to survive doesn't violate your bodily autonomy lol. You had full control of your body when you released your sperm as did the woman when she decides to abort or not. You support the child because you created it, and no one else. So, again where is my kidney?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 10:34 PM
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So cucks and crackheads are more fulfilled than the position you hold?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 09:58 PM
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All of his comments were purely logical. Hey, I need a kidney give me yours that's the world you are advocating for when you tear down bodily autonomy. If you don't want kids then don't leave your semen in the one place in the known universe where human life can be created.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 09:43 PM
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Men cuckhold themselves in their own minds before anyone else ever even gets the chance to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 02:23 AM
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For sure. Sex is like 5% of the relationship. It would be lovely.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 02:21 AM
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Semantics. If no one has sex with you, then you can't lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 02:11 AM
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So, presumably from your opinion we can guess that you never get any sex. Are you not a man because you can't perform your biological function?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 08:26 PM
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And you all wonder why no woman will touch you. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 07:19 PM
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Sorry other humans have rights, and get to decide who they sleep with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 07:17 PM
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You humiliate yourself in your own mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 07:05 PM
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Why would you want to humanize yourself to people you think are hateful? Date the young women. No one cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:17 PM
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Let's say this is true, and I'd agree. Men with resources, good physicality, height, etc are more attractive, yet men have made entire movements to shame women from wanting these partners. The message should go all around.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:12 PM
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No one is punishing you because they don't want to date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 06:18 PM
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And men don't test to see the boundaries of what they can get away with? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 08:59 PM
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Exactly men hate women based on their non-interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 08:14 PM
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This exact argument could be used for feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 08:01 PM
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Well, alienating the group of women most likely to give you a chance by basically telling them their sexual assaults were an ok price to pay doesn't seem to be working well for any of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 01:50 PM
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So, then it's safe to say that good men never existed in the west as they've always had their cake and the ability to eat it too?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 12:33 AM
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If he truly made them clear he wouldn't have deposited semen into only place in the known universe where a human child could be formed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 08:25 PM
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Because abusers are harming people. It is the responsibility of abused people to extricate themselves from the abuse, but the abuse isn't their fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 07:18 PM
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Not wanting to have a sexual relationship with a member of a group you support has nothing to do with your feelings of that group.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 09:54 PM
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You have eyes. You know when the trash is full and stinking, when the gnats are flying around the dishes, when the clothes stink, when there are stains everywhere. Jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 08:58 PM
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"Enjoyed by both of them" is doing a lot of heavy lifting in this sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 03:22 PM
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Basic human equality has nothing to do with sex and relationships. Women wanted access to jobs and equal protection under the law, and choice about their lives. And just because you don't want to have sex with someone doesn't mean you have a problem with the group they belong to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 05:15 PM
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Men with the most resources are most attractive to women, yet you've all made entire movements to shame women for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 05:08 PM
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The point was that women's performance is discussed often as those are common names and phrases you hear anywhere. You also can't get any less than not having an orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 11:04 AM
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Starfish, can't ride, teeth during head, too loose, odors etc. Those are common complaints. And with all that straight men still get to orgasm 95% of the time, and straight women as low as 40% in some studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 01:40 AM
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That's a terrible strategy for women. Recipe for some trash sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 07:08 PM
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Wage gap is the number one issue presented by feminism? And to make your point you eliminate the vast majority of the female pool? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 12:01 AM
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I think it's pretty narcissistic to believe that human empathy isn't a possibility, but then again given epigenitics that very might well be the case for those who think like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 11:00 PM
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What points did you give? That it's a privilege to women that men are so desperate to have sex with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 10:57 PM
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Men's thoughts regarding sex is nearly a pathology at this point. Women are living their lives. We do not care that you can't hand out your lackluster peen at will. For people so obsessed with sex you'd think you'd be better at it incentivizing more women to take that risk. That some random will cum all over us with basically no pleasure for us is not some privilege. If you think so go hit up gay men, and you could get the abundant amount of sex you desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 10:40 PM
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There were actually decent people at the time who did. It's understandable why you can't relate epigenetics and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 10:37 PM
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And you too can be subjugated in the coming lawlessness that will form, and the top men will take even more of the women. Wanting the world to burn because you can't dump your load anywhere you please is your prerogative. It still won't get you what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 10:00 PM
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You leaving is the honesty that she needs. There are consequences for poor behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 09:17 PM
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The public at large agreed with the institution of slavery for centuries. We've seen what makes you cheer why would we care about what makes you boo.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 08:44 PM
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Yes, "wokeness" is offensive to the core American identity built on racism, theft, murder, and exploitation. So much so that you'll suffer along with the rest of us to "own" the rest of us. Enjoy those gas and grocery prices lol, but hey you owned those woke folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 08:26 PM
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Let's see that minority support November 2026. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 08:09 PM
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How we look is not who we are, and if this is how men truly feel it's a greater incentive to never commit to a man. When the looks fade then the man's interest in the woman will.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 07:58 PM
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All I'm getting from this is that you 2 need to let us know if your respective companies are hiring? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 07:50 PM
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Than man in this scenario has placed himself a prison, and is looking for others to free him. You have to get out on your own. That sounded like a horrible partner, and any woman who could be corrupted against you from hearsay like that isn't a viable partner. Men get benefits from being in close proximity to women that override not being with them, so they put up with anything, and consider that the fault of women. No. You make your own choices, and you have your own agency. If you don't like s…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 07:36 PM
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Yeah, that's why the President of the United States depicting the only Black American president in the history of the country as a monkey just a month ago. Absolutely delusional mindset you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 07:24 PM
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It's hilarious that you don't get why no one wants to touch your junk when you would even float the idea of their human rights being violated because they refuse to touch your junk. Women should be in chains because men can't release their load at will. LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 07:23 PM
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53% of Americans couldn't come up with $1,000 in an emergency? All of those people are lazy?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 07:16 PM
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This is absolute delusion lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 07:10 PM
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Ok great given that this is a fact do you see why women might gather to take down groups that might encourage men to lean into this potential behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 06:23 AM
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What about men stating that they can use their physical prowess to take anything they want from women is not threatening?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 03:31 AM
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It might have something to do with all the other things you mentioned not advocating things like the Force Doctrine and the rolling back of women's rights to get more partners for lonely men. And of all the things you mentioned the major proponents for banning them are definitely women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 01:53 AM
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Yeah, so the extreme stigma against homosexuality has certainly caused many people male and female to repress those desires. We are merely suggesting that if dating women isn't working for you to maybe try men. If that's offensive to you then I'm sorry for that, but it doesn't change the fact that I'll continue to suggest it. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 12:58 AM
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Sexuality is fluid. Many of you might choose a different path if it weren't so stigmatized.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 11:26 PM
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No one is insulting you. We genuinely believe some of you would be much happier pursuing men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 08:50 PM
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Women are lucky to be free of the men who would want anything like the last 3 sentences. We wish you f Great fulfillment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 10:34 PM
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Yes, everyone should be taught that the major basis of their self-esteem must come from within, or they will be a prisoner to any and everyone outside of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 02:19 PM
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If you are making someone's environment so disgusting and intolerable with your lack of cleaning then they have every right to break up with you. If you know you are a slob go be with another slob. Compatability.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 12:07 PM
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Oh so you're not willing to try everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 12:01 PM
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Might I suggest you try gay men? You could all the things you desire. Unwanted sexual contact, and sexaul compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 11:58 AM
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You could find a woman too. You don't have to try to manipulate beautiful women from pursuing the men they're attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 11:39 AM
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I agree wholeheartedly. They don't seem to understand that their attitudes about things like this and adjacent areas is a huge portion of why they are single. They absolutely turn off their most viable potential partners in every way. Autistic men are highly off-putting to a huge portion of autistic women, so I just know that's even more so of neurotypical women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 04:46 PM
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This is literally a sick mindset. Abuse isn't something to be put up with just to have a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 04:32 PM
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You can use any mathematical slant that you want, but you quite literally said who was committing MOST of the anti-Asian hate crimes, and I corrected you. Also, hate crimes against white people are recorded. And minorities are overly familiar with being held accountable. Hence why Black people only make up only 13 percent of the population, but 55% of all exonerations.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 07:45 PM
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You and the poster who commented at you can look up the FBI Hate crime stats year after year white people top the list for Asian hate crimes. That the media wanted to paint a different picture doesn't change this fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 07:05 PM
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The utter delusion. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 07:04 PM
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No. What you all want is a pathology. People that cross their boundaries for others don't respect themselves. You want women to debate themselves for you, so that you can get a self-esteem boost.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 01:13 AM
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Bragging about being used for your money is something that you are more than welcome to do. No one is crying abiut that. I wouldn't even touch a 50 year old, and I'm in my 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 10:12 PM
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Those with this mindset would have 12 year old wives if they were considered legal adults. Eventually she won't approve either. Age gap relationships have the highest divorce rates of many different types of pairings.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 10:09 PM
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If I reply with my thoughts I'll be banned again for "personal attacks", but that poor teenager. God Bless her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 09:16 PM
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Yes, there are other ways you can become a desirable partner that don't have anything to do with your physicality as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 10:18 PM
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I understand the distinction he's trying to make, but who says that immutable vs. mutable characteristics gets to be the line drawn? We are all attracted to what we are attracted to. Let's bring up the Body Positivty Movement for the last 2 decades they've been pounding it into the media that fat women are a viable dating option for men, and still you see the vast majority of men still don't want fat partners. The whole point is that at the base is attraction. No one wants people they aren't att…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 10:17 PM
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Well, would you look at that you understand that in your PRIME you go for the best that you can get. Now why wouldn't that also apply to women? And if it's ok for you to do it why is it not ok for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 10:00 PM
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The common sense is that you are the one with the dilemma. Fat women and single mothers are simply living their lives. Maybe they get a partner or they don't, but that doesn't change anything for you. You get to reject people you aren't attracted to, and people that aren't attracted to you get to reject you too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 04:40 PM
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All that vitriol for women who did nothing to you except be in a condition that's unattractive to you, and you don't understand why no one wants you another category of unattractive? Do you want women to be crass like you, and tell you that they would never want to blow you because your facial structure is lacking? That they don't want to see your off-putting face on top of them every night? And women should tolerate that, but asking you to tolerate some blubber and a kid is out of the question?…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 04:21 PM
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So, again if the men can't do anything about it, and they understand that they don't want partners that are unattractive to them where is the disconnect for understanding why no one wants them? If you get to reject fat women (and you absolutely do) then people get to reject men that are ugly. Whether those factors are changeable or not are irrelevant. At the base no one wants a partner they're not attracted to (even unattractive people).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 04:09 PM
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That's the thing if we are talking about the US the average American adult male or female is overweight and/or obese. It's like 70+%, so if that's one of his limiting factors much like height he's excluding a huge portion of the population from his dating pool. Which is absolutely his right, but also his consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 04:05 PM
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So, again if your average man is physically unattractive then he should be able to understand that when he rejects someone because they are fat and unattractive to him that it's the same reason why people reject him as they aren't attracted to him. It's simply logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 03:58 PM
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PEOPLE. It's clear that men care about looks too. Otherwise the lonely with no options would rejoice at the fellow unattractive people willing to give them a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 03:53 PM
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Well would you look at that. The unattractive men seem to understand that they don't want unattractive women, but they can't seem to understand why women don't want unattractive men? Would you know that if you want a desirable partner you'd need something to desire too?!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 03:22 PM
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Men get to want desirable partners, but women don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 09:42 PM
3

No one is under anyone. This transactional view of life is the beginning and end to a good portion of your woes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 09:03 PM
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The way men talk about "undesirable women", and then balk at how undesirable men are talked about is so interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 07:43 PM
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Delusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 06:51 PM
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No and No.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 04:34 PM
2

Men hit on women who are on average orders of magnitude weaker than them. It's a parallel.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 06:31 PM
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You too can offer yourself up to an insatiable man to get by.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 12:00 AM
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The supplemental data that from the study you listed shows the overwhelming majority of cardiac, hypertension, etc cases occur after pregnancy while the drug deaths, homicides, and suicides occur during.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 11:52 PM
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Of course not a woman wouldn't physically intimidate you, but a big lumberjack gay man with a face of full sincerity who is much physically larger than you saying that would definitely give you pause.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 11:33 PM
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What a lovely life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 03:52 PM
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Pot meet kettle lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 07:28 PM
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https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-13894133/Unmasked-Monster-Avignons-accomplices-rape-fire-fighter-painter-worker-50-men-charged-assaulting-Gisele-Pelicot.html?ito=social-facebook_Australia&fbclid=IwdGRjcAQsxNtleHRuA2FlbQIxMQBzcnRjBmFwcF9pZAwzNTA2ODU1MzE3MjgAAR4QqqsDkTPHPdx1kx39PtQ61B2sTE0ARUv3BQuJQQ5y8S5u3-A9buANkaYCPQ_aem_1OB9-55LghfUftI88iz_ew, and I see you didn't address the discord. Tim Tebow concluded in his CSAM investigation that the average perpetrator was a married white male f…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:53 PM
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So all men? Gisele Pellicot was European. What were the demographics of that discord that had 70k men it bragging about and planning rapes?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:21 AM
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No, just merely showing you and anyone who thinks like you the probable cause of their relationship breakdown.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 05:59 PM
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Something tells me it was racial, but the data from the CDC showcases that Black men spend more time with their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 05:37 PM
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200% isn't you. If someone falls for 200%, and you go back to 100% then they'll leave you, and you won't have anyone anyway. What you will have is another data point that crushes your already low self-esteem (evidenced by you changing yourself to attract a partner which showcases that you fundamentally believe who you are won't attract anyone).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 05:34 PM
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"I was a stranger, and you did not invite me in."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 05:09 PM
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Lol so gender roles when it comes to keeping house are rigid, but those women still have to help you with your gender role of providing. You all want submissive providers and to have your cake and eat it too. Conservative women want providers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 04:25 PM
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"Religious man" Matthew 25:42-46 New International Version 42 For I was hungry and you gave me nothing to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me nothing to drink, 43 I was a stranger and you did not invite me in, I needed clothes and you did not clothe me, I was sick and in prison and you did not look after me.’ 44 “They also will answer, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry or thirsty or a stranger or needing clothes or sick or in prison, and did not help you?’ 45 “He will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 04:21 PM
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So, then don't give more than what you have ever. When you establish a routine people attach to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 04:17 PM
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Just like the women who invest physically early.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 04:15 PM
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I see what you did there lol. And they don't like it when the shoe is on the other foot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 04:14 PM
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Our existence
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 09:21 PM
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Exactly. Dream girl is not getting a damn coffee date. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 08:55 PM
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Mental illness. Smh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 09:58 PM
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This isn't true. Of course some external validation is needed, but if it's your core each new person you come across can change your self-concept. That's billions of different changes. That's not workable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 03:57 PM
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The you was general. If a woman exhibits behavior that you don't like have confidence in yourself and your potential to attract a different mate, and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 04:18 PM
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Then those aren't the women for you. Move on to the women who are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 03:51 PM
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Read the original reply, and then go ahead and copy pasta your nonsensical reply to it again lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 11:40 PM
2

Would we be having this conversation if instead of a baby it was HIV?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 11:26 PM
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Is that the foundation of the argument? Or are we saying that because the pregnancy is inside the woman's body that she has full control of that just like a male has full control over where they place things expelled from their body?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 10:54 PM
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And that would be exactly why I stated the age range of 18-24, but let's expand it 18-29 (though study after study converges on the lower age limit for highest level of male attraction) we now how 15.2% of the female population. What is 25% of 15.2%?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 10:40 PM
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I'm quite literally so serious. I'm trying to free you, and show you the way. The ultimate stability and home all produced from inside of you. Right now you are in a prison, and the rest of us are the spectators giving you your value, but the equation is wrong the value was always inside you, and it can never be taken away.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 09:44 PM
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Eons ago a star exploded, and the elements that make you were spewed into the universe. Every single ancestor you've ever had they had to meet and procreate at the exact moment they did to create you. And you just like every single other human being on the planet is worthy. Whether Rebecca or Stacy wants to have sex with you are not. It has nothing to do with you merely the preferences of Rebecca and Stacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 09:31 PM
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Yes, it is. Because if you were full your lack of sexual vitality would not be your ruination because as a human you are everything. Meaning that there are many pillars that make you valuable, and one being down or even all of them being down doesn't change that value. It was given to you when you were expelled from the stars. And not to mention that if your major source for validation is external people can feel that. It's a burden you place on others which is highly unattractive. By rerouting …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 09:20 PM
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Yeah, so that accounts for 9% of the female population. In normal distribution the highest numbers count for about 25% of the population. What is 25% of 9%?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 08:41 PM
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Is it? How many women are 18-24 in the 7.5-10 range of looks? That's pretty close to 3% or less.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 08:04 PM
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My point is that your sexuality is a tiny part of who you are. You have made it into such a giant egg because you don't have the stable basis of loving who you are, knowing your right to exist, etc despite, because, and outside of that. It all leads back to basic self-worth. What are the other alternatives? If a woman doesn't want to sleep with you then your only other option is coercion which would lead to the same bad feelings you get with a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 07:32 PM
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A human being ruled by external validation will by definition be unstable. By putting your internal self-worth in outside hands you have guaranteed that it changes with every new encounter. And having a home and good finances probably leads to the sex that you all say you crave so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 07:11 PM
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Why should someone incur an expense because YOU suggested that they should spend time with you in a monetized activity? No one is entitled to anything. If you don't want to pay find a partner who will pay. If she doesn't want to pay then she needs to find a partner that will. It takes all kinds.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 06:40 PM
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That's true. Not many are willing to suffer to stay in alignment with what they believe, but there are some of us who are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 06:10 PM
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Not very many at all. It's a calling.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 06:05 PM
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Self-fulfilling prophecy. This mindset would make you behave unconciously and conciously in ways that would make your reality match your world view. Desperation and self-loathing is a smell and a burden to those would encounter it. You must build up the relationship with the self, or you will never be able to master another. You are with you at all times, and just like everyone else on the planet because you exist you are worthy and you deserve to be here. Everything flows from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 04:50 PM
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Getting laid is the symptom. The root is deeper. It's why many of you won't just resort to prostitution the sex is merely the physical symptom of the psychological need. Even if that need is taken care of it often won't satisfy you because the psychological portion hasn't been addressed. And everything I described makes the psychology worse, so that you can only see the symptom and not the disease.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 04:40 PM
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A belief like that is surely a cognitive distortion. There are trained specialists that can help you break out of the prison you've unknowingly created in your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 04:26 PM
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The inverse was all of human recorded history minus the last 100 years. Vote against your own interests to spite women it doesn't matter. It's all a sham anyway conservatives and liberals fight on the main stage to keep you distracted meanwhile each and everyone of us is suffering, but hey my team won for 4 years. From the beginning of time society after society wealth and power have concentrated for a small few. The rest of us are literally their chess pieces. The chest pieces are too distracte…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 04:15 PM
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Then they were never your principles. Principles are held with or without reward. That's literally the whole point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 03:48 PM
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Their funniest one is when they go on and on for women liking men for their "immutable" characteristics while not even blinking an eye when they ask for young women who are attractive without makeup and many of the other things they ask for. But if a woman wants a tall man she's a demon.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 03:34 PM
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It's simply the elite playbook at it again. Prop up a certain class, so that they'll do the actual fight for them. You're not frustrated because you can't get laid. You're frustrated because you're 30, and if you can ever afford to buy a house it won't be for 10+ years. You're frustrated because your job demands exorbitant labor for low pay. You're frustrated because that low pay pays for less things. This frustration leads to you isolating yourself your ability to connect with other humans begi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 02:44 PM
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Absolutely. Which is why most women if they ever engaged with it stop doing so over time. They can actually orgasm and just stay at home. No risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 11:13 PM
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I'll concede this point, but would the OP? That's literally the premise of the argument that girls aren't taught these things, and they absolutely are. Extensively.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 10:32 PM
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From a woman's perspective women are taught how to treat their partners from birth, and men aren't at all. That's probably where the push back is coming from. It's a rejection of more gender roles that already get heavily pushed on us.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 10:23 PM
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Babes, I stopped engaging you when the insults came. I let you have it as you clearly need it. And my math is fine. I simply copied the abstract from the study you cited. Your conclusion made with zero evidence barely even warranted this reply from me. Toodles.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 12:13 AM
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Pathologizing what you are desire because you can't stop desiring it is not an indictment on the thing you desire. Women have vast inner worlds that you all are only blinded by tits, ass, and a pretty face is not any indication of the mass personality of women. The delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 07:17 PM
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There is truly so much mental illness on this sub and in the world. It's quite literally so sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 06:44 PM
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This is really sweet and lovely.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 05:56 PM
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Awww then I guess it's too bad as you say that men are controlled by their "small brain". Someone save the men! They have to put up with those vapid shallow women because they're shallow as well? 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:56 PM
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What are the alternatives?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 10:49 PM
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A person rejecting you does not mean that you are subhuman. That is a maladaptive cognitive distortion you've developed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 02:51 AM
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What happens when inevitably only a small percentage of you gain that status as you age? Do the rest of you just give up? Also, men above 40 lead to higher birth defects in children.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 09:10 PM
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Difference of perspective. You can torture yourself forever over things that won't change, or you can go live.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 05:26 PM
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How do you think men interact with women they aren't attracted to? Do you think it's the same, and if you acknowledge that it isn't what are you all even upset about? It sucks, but attractive people make and female alike are treated better by everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 05:04 PM
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I hope you're able to break free from your cognitive distortions one day...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 04:18 PM
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Yeah, that's exactly why autistic women (4-5x non-autistic women) and autistic men have similar suicides rates as each other because society has such great tolerance for autistic women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 01:02 PM
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Yeah. Because being a woman erases the difficulties of autism. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 12:53 PM
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You are autistic. It all starts from there. Re-examine your past. Step out of anything that caused you to hate yourself before, but is explained now with the diagnosis. Find your true self. The relationship you have with yourself is the most important relationship you will ever have. Love you. Then the other things you want may come or they may not, but you will be so full it won't matter. And ironically when you reach this place you become so much more attractive. Literally, decades of being tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 04:33 AM
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It's hard for sure, but at least now you have a blueprint, and you can try to find your own way. Online interactions allow us to meet more autistic people. We are only like 2% of the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 02:37 AM
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Who are you to determine that a woman is at the same attractiveness level as you? Also, it's the FACE that people are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 01:58 AM
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You have your opinion, and I have mine. My life is 1 million times better after being diagnosed with autism. Yes, it's a disability, but it's also my gift.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 01:54 AM
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This is crazy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 10:41 PM
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Good. So, then we should chuck you kiddy diddlers out of society since there's no cure for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 09:22 PM
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Yes, but do you even want to hang out with people who can only accept your mask? Meeting other autistic people has really opened doors for me. I hope you thrive in your future.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 08:32 PM
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Who are you telling? Lol I didn't get diagnosed until I was 33, and I'm 34 now. That's the thing though this "high-functioning" that people see comes at a horrible cost. You mask so much you don't know who you are vs. what's the mask. You appear "normal", so people expect things from you that you simply cannot do, or that take so much from you to do. And you have no clue why this is, so you think you're defective. NO, this is how we were born. I know so much makes sense when you look back on you…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 08:04 PM
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At this point the conversation isn't for you. It's for those who would read it, and be discouraged from seeking a formal diagnosis. He has already told you the barriers he's faced just to be seen. Rhetoric like this might discourage someone from trying to seek it all. And who cares if someone believes they're autistic, and it turns out they're not. The data shows that people that do the work to take diagnostic tests and seek out clinicians for an autism diagnosis overwhelmingly go on to be diagn…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 07:55 PM
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It will! There's so many resources out there. And if you've struggled with employment Vocational Rehab can hook you up with the things you need to sustain it including a competent therapist!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 07:44 PM
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Because it often comes with no reward, and sometimes even harm, but you soldier on anyway because it's the right thing to do, and who you are does the right thing as best as you can as must as you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 07:38 PM
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Yes, Mrs. Autism Detector Cop lmao, I am formally diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder. This is a topic you'll forget about in an hour. For the people your words may discourage this is something that has affected them their entire life. We all have our opinions, and that's fine, but you don't have to deliver them with such invalidation. What's entertainment for you is someone else's turmoil.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 07:34 PM
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Absolutely especially those of us who were unfortunate enough to reach adulthood without knowing. When you don't know why so many fundamental things that are easy for others, but so difficult for you that leads you to turn on yourself. Hopefully, it leads you to wonderful places knowing you are autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 07:26 PM
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Hey, please don't let that person discourage you. You know yourself. You know that you've felt like an alien your entire life. You know that finding out you were autistic gave you clarity that you've never known before. Congratulations!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 06:56 PM
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Me, and dozens more in our communities. And also, there are studies that showcase that 80+% of people who are motivated to seek diagnostic tests and then get evaluated for an autism diagnosis and actually go speak with clinicians go on to be diagnosed with autism. You are really harming people by trying to invalidate them because they don't have a formal diagnosis. This is a community that often struggles with things like consistent employment which would bar them from the health insurance and f…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 06:55 PM
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Your thoughts on autistic people, the prevalence, their wants, etc are truly misguided. And just because you know a few autistic people doesn't change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 06:31 PM
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Men don't have a responsibility to combat that at all, and I'd argue that more women would agree that they don't and haven't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 06:23 PM
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I hope you're able to break free from your cognitive distortions one day. You deserve to be free and to live. We all do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:46 PM
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Ummm men have been doing that forever...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 02:51 PM
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Heterogeneity Improves Speed and Accuracy in Social Networks - https://doi.org/10.1103/PhysRevLett.125.218302 Genetically-diverse crowds are wiser https://cris.tau.ac.il/en/publications/genetically-diverse-crowds-are-wiser/
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 01:41 PM
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Study after study shows that diverse groups come to conclusions faster and better than homogeneous groups. It takes all kinds, and everyone's perspective has value when you think of it in that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 12:35 PM
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60+% of the world's population is currently partnered. The reason why you're not in that majority percentage has nothing to do with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 04:48 PM
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An American woman is orders of magnitude more likely to be r!ped by an American male of her same race than an immigrant...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 04:08 PM
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Except there is one glaring problem in your analogy, and so then in your premise. Women didn't do anything to you. This is all of our first time on Earth, and we're all just trying to get by. Women are not conspiring to deny you the experiences that you want, so externalizing in this case is a maladaptive strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 01:55 PM
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Did you read the study you're citing? This is listed as the results... The percentage of 8-year-old children with profound autism among those with autism was 26.7%. Compared with children with non–profound autism, children with profound autism were more likely to be female, from racial and ethnic minority groups, of low socioeconomic status, born preterm or with low birth weight; have self-injurious behaviors; have seizure disorders; and have lower adaptive scores.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 06:45 PM
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Your existence is a gift not something you inflict on people. Heal your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 06:36 PM
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Semantics. The premise is that not knowing who the father of your child is would result in jail time which is just silly. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:43 AM
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Jail time for not knowing the father of your kid? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:23 AM
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Scary
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 11:02 PM
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And this mindset is why the world is unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 05:02 PM
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There have been other studies similar to the one that was retracted that show similar results to what it originally showed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 12:31 AM
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To anyone reading this it is a masterclass in how brainwashing for millenia can delude people into believing they are the arbiters of logic simply because of their genitalia. Balking at the logical conclusion of your own logic is hilarious. You have repeatedly called women names like privileged, unempathetic, and manipulative because we don't agree with you. You have repeatedly concluded that as an average male you do not have access to the casual sex you want to. Clearly you are unable to attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 10:16 PM
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Yes, your dilemma again you can continue to project your psychological issues onto me and other women, but I'm simply using words here. You are clearly frustrated with your lack of access to casual sex, so go pay for it. Problem solved. And we aren't dictating anything we're simply removing you all from the collective data pool. For people so obsessed with sex you'd think you'd all be better at it. 20% of your casual sex partners orgasm, and you think that's some incentive? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:38 PM
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😂 the things you all tell yourselves to cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 06:04 PM
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Charlie Sheen has HIV. That's who you want to emulate? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 04:45 PM
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Are you not personally attacking the people that you lie to in order to access their bodies? Why is your behavior logically presented an attack, and simply not a description of your behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 04:15 PM
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To you, and that's ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 03:09 PM
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Yes, all kinds of people do. If you can live a good life with a lack of integrity like that more power to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 02:59 PM
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Babes please. Lol. No one insulted you. I offered you a viable solution to your dilemma. Again read what you initially wrote. The premise you wrote was that women have access to casual sex and men don't, so it's akin to women drowning in food talking to the starving about how they hate their available food. Nowhere did you mention average men in that equation. And honestly it invalidates you all's logic. Don't you say that women only go for high level men, and deny access to average men for casu…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 12:43 AM
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So, attraction has nothing to do with it you simply don't care about the well being of random women, but you do all random men?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:27 PM
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The they was general, love. If it doesn't apply let it fly. Which is what we do when we go anywhere on the net, and see silly stats like that about millions of people when it's objectively only a few thousand guilty.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:23 PM
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Why aren't women given that same grace? Their femininity has to be so fully formed that they can help for a man's masculinity too? But masculinity gets to lead?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:01 PM
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That's how you view yourself. The context of the argument was that women have lackluster sex when men have nothing, yet you are telling women to be greatful for food that could extremely dissatisfy them at best and harm them at worst. Women have a 20% chance to orgasm, the possibility to be seriously injured, contracting an STI, reputation, etc. If you want casual sex that bad go pay someone for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 07:50 PM
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It's interesting that they never use that "per capita" nonsense when talking about sexual crimes against children.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:55 PM
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Yeah, so the data you linked says LIFETIME PARTNERS. It says nothing about if those were casual encounters or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:55 PM
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Because you're an awful person inside and out?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:44 PM
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But look at the logic you just presented. There will people who do both. How could anyone ever have a stable self-esteem if it was solely dictated by the passing opinions of the people around them? What if the person that called you arrogant isn't a reliable witness? Now, you've destroyed your sense of worth for a person that may not even be a good person, and who doesn't even remember the interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 04:50 PM
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She's treated like a "princess" because the leader of the free world doesn't want to be caught with his literal pants down in a situation involving harming children. Or was it not Trump's personal lawyer that visited her before she was moved to the cush life? 1 man died, and thousands of others remain free. The irony of your last sentence is hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 03:39 PM
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The only person in prison for a pedophile ring is a woman when hundreds possibly even thousands of men have been tied to the case for decades. Even you don't believe your shitty logic. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 03:36 PM
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The conclusions drawn don't even relate to the studies presented lol. Dunning Kruger in full effect here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 03:35 PM
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Yes, but take it further. No one should be basing their self-worth solely or majorly on external validation. That is a recipe for you to be unstable forever. Doesn't matter the gender or any other category.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 03:25 PM
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Can't even troll in peace anymore the average 6th grade reading level is so apparent. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 10:20 PM
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Orrr this is Reddit, and I'm having fun laughing at your nonsense and manipulation tactics. Or I'm crying depressed in my room because instead of having a boyfriend I'm devastated that he's too busy choking his chicken and this is major cope as I hang out with my cats all alone regretful of my youth with Chad. 🤣🤣🤣😭
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 10:15 PM
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You responded to a 5 day old comment that I forgot about, and I'll forget about this one. Man or woman what random people do is not something we spend any significant time thinking about. We have lives. No one cares about your stiff socks lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 09:57 PM
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Ladies, he caught us. They're fapping and won't want us anymore! 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 09:53 PM
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Babes disgust is an emotion, and if you think we live our lives bitter about you gooning away. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 08:24 PM
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You think women are emotional about you seeing poor women that are forced to give their bodies to nasty gross men so that they can survive? You think we're bitter because you rot your brains with porn? You think we care about you exploiting women in dire economic circumstances in foreign countries? It's quite literally disgusting and disturbing the depths that many of you would go to violating other humans so you can "release". So, yes, absolutely disgust.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 07:22 PM
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Self-fulfilling prophecy. You feel a certain way about yourself, and you act in ways that conciously and unconciously affirm that. Yes, it is a valid concern, but it's only the surface. If your foundation and your core was more solid it would fade to a footnote. And then ironically when you aren't making it your greatest focus that's when you become more attractive. And I'm not trying to trivialize what you are going through or dismiss you. How else do you think someone comes to these realizatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 09:22 PM
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Yes, people with traumatized backgrounds, low self-esteem, and other cognitive distortions would stick around for poor treatment like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 08:17 PM
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No, because no one wanting you is an absolute delusion, a cognitive distortion, and a mathematical impossibility, so it could never mean that something is wrong with you because it is patently false. What it means is that the people that you've sought out have been incompatible with you. What's more likely is that you've internalized rejections from childhood as your basis of self-worth, and you consciously and subconsciously place yourself in situations that affirm that negative worldview. That…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 07:42 PM
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Why would women being violently and physically held back make them look bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 05:03 PM
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Point out anywhere in my comment I said that you can't complain? You can complain about anything at any length that you want. You will be othered and ostracized though. If you don't care about that, and honestly you shouldn't if you are good with you then complain away. But if you actually want the solution to your problem, and peace for your mental health and internal world you would be wise to do a lot deeper diving into your learned helplessness. Because it's always deeper and there's always …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:49 PM
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The OP offered multiple scenarios each with complaints hence continuous. Because there is a solution available to anyone who feels they are lacking in sex, engaging a professional for their services. If that isn't enough then the root is deeper than lack of sex, and that's up to you to examine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:06 PM
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And this is the kind of "logic" that gets to rule our world. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:59 PM
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People don't like people who continuously complain about their problems without trying to solve it. Pay a prostitute and get it over with, and if that doesn't satisfy you then you need to look into why you need sex for validation, and solve the root of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:55 PM
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We don't care lol. The younger women l$$$ve you. And it's honestly quite cruel what you're doing to men. Hyping them up for a reality that is never coming. An average man of average salary struggling when he's young is not going to be raking it up as a 50 year old dating hot 20 year olds because they love him for him lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:51 PM
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Example #574848484 of why women everywhere are opting out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:34 PM
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The food is moldy and poisoned.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:28 PM
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All that emphasis on sex, and the vast majority of you still can't make women cum on a regular basis, so you aren't even showcasing that as an incentive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:11 PM
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This was really interesting to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:41 AM
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We're all good enough. That's the whole point. One day you'll understand this innately, and see that so many people in your past were just trying to help you. But alas the cave is deep. I'll keep shining the light from the other side though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 02:08 AM
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I have nothing to apologize for. I get it the acknowledgement of your humanity when you feel subhuman is hard, but it's what will ultimately free you. Peace be with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 01:57 AM
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You stain the profession. My goodness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 01:48 AM
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It's not condescending to tell you that your soul as is has value. It's an affront to your belief system which is why you took it as condescension.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 01:37 AM
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A recipe for being hostile too I see lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 10:15 PM
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So, then you reject yourself? You are who you are. That is a recipe for inner turmoil. You change yourself for the approval of others, but the mask eventually slips and they reject you anyway. Then you don't even have yourself to lean back on anymore because you've rejected yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 04:50 PM
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I hope that you're able to break free from the cognitive distortions presented in your last 2 sentences one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 04:48 PM
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Why do you want dates with people who don't like you for you? What kind of relationship could you possibly gain from that? And if you're successful in getting the dates when you pretend to be someone else aren't you fundamentally telling yourself that you are flawed and can't get the things you want? That's horrific for your mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 04:46 PM
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None of those things invoke jealous, bitterness, or envy, but disgust.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 11:59 PM
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Poor baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 07:28 AM
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Fertility begins at a girl's first period which can be as young as 8. There's a reason they had to enact laws about this...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:34 PM
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I mean you all just prove the point at every turn. Sick. So, a 12 year old with her period is fair game sans the law. Disturbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:32 PM
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I can literally smell the autism lol! Friendly fire!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 07:38 PM
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Exactly. Which is why if they ever got into the relationship they think will fix them it will crash and burn. They will be fundamentally asking their partner to perform impossible work that is their gift and responsibility to themselves to perform, and the relationship will break down, and it will further wither their self-esteem. They must fix their relationship with the self before they could ever have a successful relationship with another.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 06:00 PM
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It's not your fault at all. It is your responsibility though. And what a joy that you get to architect your own world.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 01:34 PM
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🤣🤣🤣 your demographic is the most violent on the planet. In all of recorded human history it is your group responsible for the most mass deaths, the most depraved of them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:16 PM
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What happens if you do find the one, and she treats you like this? Those are just the breaks of life? People men and women behaving like this is why no one is having a good time in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:07 PM
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Are you aware that a large percentage of studies are redacted and/or updated within 5 years if publication. Are you aware that just because a study says something that real world application may not always map 1:1 that's the nuance of life called living.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 09:51 PM
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Correct, a casual encounter where you may leave with an STD, pregnancy, and most likely no pleasure is not worth it full stop, so when women do engage in this risky behavior, and admittedly by the studies you all post here it is a minority of women who ever engage in it at all they often choose to incentivize this risk with a highly attractive partner. Versus regular relationship sex where you are orders of magnitude more likely to enjoy it, and better safeguard against the other risks there doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 09:48 PM
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Being settled for en masse because men can't get the women they're attracted to is not some advantage. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 09:35 PM
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That's not what I said lol, but you all can twist the conversation any way you want. There is incredible risk in casual sex for women hence they rarely engage in it, and if they do they often do so because of an incentive of a highly attractive partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 09:23 PM
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Yes, it is for many men hence why women won't risk casual sex with you especially if you don't at least have the incentive of being highly attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 09:09 PM
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"Mutually enjoyable" being used to describe an activity where 1 party is satisfied 90% of the time versus 20% for the other party is an interesting choice lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 07:50 PM
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The irony of saying something like this while being a fan of a movement that's literally just men complaining. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 10:46 PM
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Your logic won't keep you warm at night, but please cling to it for that tiny bit of buzz it gives you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 12:36 AM
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A sense of belonging with others who also have the same maladaptive approach to life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 07:56 PM
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Behold the prime example of maladaptive thinking that snippet discusses.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 07:40 PM
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When was it a healthy functional society?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 11:36 AM
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Help men because if not they'll rise up, and oppress you, and you can't see why no one wants to help you? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 05:36 AM
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How do you function in life so bitter. You never let up my fucking God. It's so sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 02:24 AM
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This is anti-humanity. Disturbing mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 02:56 PM
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Again you don't own suffering. There are women who have lived similar lives. And everything I've said is the pinnacle of modern psychology. Please do some actual research. And again if self-worth was majorly determined by the "pecking order" then all of us would have terrible self-esteem as most people are average to ugly simple people. The "pecking order" has nothing to do with human worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 10:00 AM
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Then a sane woman who desired those things would leave that man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 06:23 PM
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You understand that you don't have a monopoly on suffering right, and maybe people have experienced what you have, and they are now on the other side trying to reach a hand back to you? What happens if a person going through this stays chopped? They should be miserable forever? That's what your advice does for them. Mine opens up their world in ways they could never imagine. And your self-worth if it's majorly built on your newfound attractiveness is fragile and probably a great source of anxiet…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 06:08 PM
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Yes, rejection as a child can cause you to form cognitive distortions while your "mindset" is still forming, and then you will have this issue. But chopped or not if you don't heal this issue you will continue to suffer whether you become partnered or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 03:21 PM
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This is delusional. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:09 PM
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There is a world if you can open yourself up to it where all those things you don't have would be irrelevant because at least you would have yourself. And ironically that usually ends up in you becoming much more attractive to others, and even if not you'll have the self-worth to know who you are be content with that whether you ever get a romantic witness or not. The way you describe the situation desperation is surely around it, and people can sense that. You may be unconsciously placing yours…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:34 PM
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Except it's not the superficial criteria. It's your mindset. There's someone with objectively worse metrics out there than you thriving in a relationship. The cognitive distortions that you've built up over a lifetime of externalizing your self-worth are keeping you trapped. You actually believe that being in a fundamentally bad relationship is better than being alone because your self-worth is low.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:20 PM
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What are the quality of the relationships of those people?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 07:47 PM
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This isn't a gender issue. Male autistics are off-putting to non-autistics male and female alike.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 05:23 PM
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Laugh to keep from crying. It will be ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 03:45 AM
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No one is holding you hostage because they don't want to do a sexual activity. Leave. Instead coercing and pushing people into sexual acts they do not want to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 10:56 PM
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Forget the baby what if it was HIV we were discussing? Your point falls completely out of the window. You absolutely consented to the possibility of pregnancy. Unfortunately for you your life isn't on the line in regards to the pregnancy, so you have absolutely no say for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 10:28 PM
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It's simple the tax payer is not going to take on an additional burden because you decided to release your sperm into the only place in the knowm universe that can create human life. The mother has full control of the pregnancy solely because it's in her body and could endanger her health. Once the child is born both parties are held financially responsible. Not the rest of us which is why men will never be able to decouple themselves financially from their offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 08:31 PM
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Yes, it does if it's an activity that you do not want to do. The entire session would be tainted.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 08:20 PM
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That's the thing though. It's not about how you should feel. You do feel that way. There is quite literally no way to escape it. You can deny it. You may not even have conscious access to it to protect your psyche, but as we've been saying it's merely the logical conclusion. You can continue to erode yourself but please know it's the base of all the contentious feelings that you absolutely do feel even if you don't acknowledge them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 03:15 PM
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I'm a human. The psychology of the brain holds for all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 03:10 AM
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But you didn't actually get any validation. You had to fundamentally lie about who you are to get what you want. That's the opposite of validation, and certainly leads to negative mental effects. It means you fundamentally believe that who you are cannot get you the things you want i.e. self-hatred. Bitterness and resentment at the people you felt forced to manipulate to get what you want because they force you to come to terms with the awful person you know you are deep down.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 02:28 AM
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Autistic women are definitely forced to learn social cues more than autistic males, but even that's not perfect, and some ostracization will occur, and it is a heavy task for the autistic to do. Some of the ways you describe autistic male behavior can definitely fit, but you are demonizing them too harshly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 12:42 PM
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A 6'4 decently attractive Black male with issues it's 100% your personality lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 12:20 AM
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Love and commitment isn't a utility. That you see it that way is why you only get access to women who want real $$$utility$$$.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 11:18 PM
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Every partner you've had got the same amount of gifts, same level of commitment, exact same timeline? Of course not that would literally be impossible, and someone obsessing about things they couldn't possibly know, and letting them affect them mentally is insecurity at its finest.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 10:30 PM
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*Insecure people are bothered by this kind of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 10:26 PM
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That's how they maintain the cognitive dissonance in their had. They have to place themselves in situations that affirm their worldview.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 10:25 PM
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Every time I see any of you talk about IQ I want to see that Mensa test. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 10:20 PM
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And this is what women are talking about, and women absolutely know this which is why men go for the younger ones because experience is the best teacher. Most women know that men are only interested in the sexual parts of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 10:12 PM
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You've got to hand it to the red pill. The psychological manipulation is on point. If a woman wants commitment to engage in sex she's akin to a prostitute. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 10:08 PM
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I'd rather just abstain. The juice is barely worth the squeeze as is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 10:06 PM
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Because you don't like it. Full stop. And someone who actually loved you, and wasn't just keeping score with people in the past would understand that. And that's not to say that you have to go without the act find someone who is willing to do it and leave. But this is solely about the individual's insecurity. Love and partnership don't enter into the equation at any point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 11:23 AM
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You still have to take accountability for your part in it. If you don't you will continue to make the same mistakes, and punish people who aren't even doing the poor behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:12 AM
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You're trying to equate willingness to do particular sex acts with the amount of love a person has for their partner, and that is absolutely shaming people's ability to love, and coercing them into things they don't want to do. Are any sex acts painful for you? Uncomfortable? Can cause urinary and other issues? Of course not. If someone tried something in the past and hated it them not doing it in the future jas nothing to do with how they feel about their partner, and everything to do with how …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 01:56 AM
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And yet most of you all can't even manipulate an individual woman to be with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 10:14 PM
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They tjink you aren't a woman because quite frankly it's not common for women to make an expression like that about something like someone murdering their competition...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 10:13 PM
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That you would harm innocent people because you can't get sex like they can is precisely why you can't get sex like they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 10:12 PM
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Why doesn't the partner that wants an activity the other partner doesn't want want their partner to be sexually fulfilled?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 09:57 PM
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What kind of person can claim that they love someone if they try to shame them into doing something just because they did it before. If they don't like it they don't like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 09:53 PM
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That would be my advice to you, and then good treatment wouldn't be so rare that you could only get it from mid women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 05:38 PM
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And that's why women recommend to other women to not do it. Men don't take it as some oh I'm so grateful and love you for the good treatment. They take it as what they've always deserved, and now go look for a more attractive partner to get it from.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 05:16 PM
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There was a study shown that 80+% of self-disgnosed autistics went on to receive a diagnosis. It's not women's fault that for the longest time the only criteria was completely male centered.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 05:10 PM
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You don't even know what they get, and you still chase it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 05:07 PM
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The delusion has to stop lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 09:38 PM
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Lol "turning" misogynistic because people won't casually have sex with you, and then you wonder why they wont have sex with you 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 10:00 PM
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Lol bury your head in the sand as they gear up to put us all in techno feudal cities with AI surveillance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 09:40 PM
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There are quite literally several men that fall into each category described.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 09:17 PM
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Most domestic violence killings involve the use of a firearm, so again how does that keep women from killing men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 05:02 PM
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Beggars being choosers, and yet you can't see why some women don't want you. 😂 It's literally the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 06:55 PM
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Buy a prostitute. Simple and effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 05:20 PM
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Isn't that what you're doing now? If you become what you hate what are you even mad for?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 09:44 PM
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Teach us lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 09:43 PM
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We get less incels by breaking them out of their cognitive distortions which will then allow them to see that they are as important and as valuable as any other human being on Earth, and that's true whether they find a romantic witness or not. That all that had to align for them to be here in this moment means that they are worthy just like each and everyone of us is worthy. When their self-worth comes from within the loathing and the volatility will stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 09:20 PM
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This is horrific thinking. We are all one. My goodness.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 09:09 PM
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Some men are excellent a PIV, but most women don't orgasm that way, and those men are rarer anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 11:01 AM
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Taking care of your sick parents is such a sacrifice. Bless you for doing that for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 10:27 AM
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Everything can be used as an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 06:24 PM
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The propaganda and delusion. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 05:28 PM
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generally speaking, most women find attractive this is what she is debating because it's patently false. Are there some men who overlap with a large portion of women obviously, but she just ruled out men with blond hair and blue eyes which rules out a huge portion of white men the group that was rated the highest in you all's favorite OK cupid study. So, again women may have narrow preferences individually that overlap somewhat will all other women, but each individual woman has her own preferre…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 04:22 PM
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There's a morbidly obese woman out there today that would worship you and you'd never have to think about these gender topics again, but you aren't attracted to her hence you're upset with the actions of the people you're attracted to. Isn't that what you're denouncing here?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 04:08 PM
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Hi my fellow AuDHD sister. ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 12:55 AM
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They won't allow you to break through their cognitive distortions. They don't understand that when you think you are worthless you behave that way, and it's visible, and very unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:59 PM
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Lol do you think that with all the comfort creatures of this life and you're still failing that the collapse will be some kind of utopia for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:45 PM
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It's a very common misdiagnosis for autistic women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 10:00 PM
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Never. That's a human life, and I'd hate myself forever. If you're against something you're against that something. The circumstances don't change you. That's integrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 08:35 PM
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Yes, they are. You just don't consider them women because most of the ones who date them are broke and ugly too. The vast majority of people are partnered, and the vast majority of people are average to ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:25 AM
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Do men pick women based on their human decency and shared experience? That 50k a year man can absolutely find a woman she might just have a pot belly too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:52 AM
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We found a non-negligible and gendered association between health and union dissolution among couples aged 50–64. Couples in which the woman reported poor self-rated health or faced severe activity limitations, whereas the man maintained good health, exhibited a higher risk of silver splits (voluntary union dissolutions after age 50) compared to couples in good health. Conversely, the risk of silver splits did not change significantly when the man experienced poor self-rated health or activity l…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 05:50 AM
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You're a terrible "leftist" lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 05:16 AM
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Deceit and manipulation skew female? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 06:46 PM
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Then you already know the key. The prison is one of your own making. You internalized what didn't need to be internalized. Come out into the light.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 06:02 PM
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Lmao and then when women take this "philosophy" and inevitably get repeatedly pumped and dumped by the men who never wanted commitment at all only sex what are the women to do then when they've "hit the wall", have high body counts, and are discarded? No thanks lmao. High level manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 04:55 PM
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That is so sad. All that it took to align in the universe for you to be here, and you just want to give it all away. You're a miracle. We all are. It's time you start acting like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 04:35 PM
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Women could just say that your lack of selectivity is the antithesis of straight. In desperate situations you all will resort to each other and other living beings and objects. That's not the arbiter of straightness that's indiscriminate lust, and has nothing to do with women at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 04:21 PM
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Men continue to just talk. And women are listening, and it's why so many are walking away.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 01:26 AM
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100% pure truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 10:59 PM
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In the last year 20% of American women have used a dating app.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 05:44 PM
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No, it signals that the women that he pursued were not interested in him as a romantic partner. That has nothing to do with that individual man. Maybe someone was already partnered, having a bad day, heart broken, only attracted to artsy guys. If your self esteem is determined by 8 billion individual opinions no one would ever have stable self esteem. Your self-esteem must be majorly built on the fact that because you are a human here and alive today, because you do good works, believe in your p…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 01:35 AM
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Can we stand on your neck for 8+ minutes or?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 12:47 AM
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You only need one person who likes beef. Again just because it is the minority choice in any place has nothing to do with its value. In fact the reason that beef isn't consumed in India is because it is considered holy. Do you see how that perspective could change the "worth" of the beef? Yet, the beef didn't change. The beef is still there existing. If the value of the beef was determined only by outside forces we'd never know the value of it as people have differing opinions. What matters is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 12:45 AM
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Another person's assessment of you as anything even a potential romantic partner has nothing to do with your worth. Just because someone prefers pizza that means burgers have no value?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 10:49 PM
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There's only one miserable person in this conversation, and it's the one who has to brag on Reddit of all places, and yet STILL unsatisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 10:14 PM
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Women exist in each of those fields. And service workers are paid for their services, and they're valued for it. It's understandable that you want to be paid in vagina for simply existing as as a man, but that's over.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 10:09 PM
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You don't have to pay for a relationship. You have to have something attractive about you for one though. If you are average looking and below and want a highly attractive woman she's going to need something to be attracted to. Or you could choose differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 06:20 AM
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And if men had a chance at the highly attractive women they want without having to pay they'd have that. So, again if you are continuously choosing women who want you to pay that's your own issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 06:05 AM
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You already said most women are prostitutes. Lol why does your logic simply parrotted back to you make you balk?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:21 PM
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Unfortunately for your point if there are many women out there (and the data showcases this) that contribute a significant amount of financial resources to their relationships your world view of the general woman is incorrect, and only born from the women that you are attracted to i.e. it's your issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 03:35 PM
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Is that why you all are so angry? You can't even get "prostitutes". Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 03:17 PM
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So, if you only attract women that want to be paid for according to your logic you're the problem, correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 03:10 PM
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If men focused more on character rather than aesthetics like they tell women to do then they'd find appreciative and reciprocal partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 03:05 PM
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Women couldn't care less. Want whatever you want. We are all entitled to that. If it ends up with any of us being alone that is our life's consequence to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 02:06 AM
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Babes, if you're too lazy to research your racism I'm not going to help you lmao. The point being any woman would statistically be more accurate to fear men who look like her that she also knows other than anyone else. It's 70-80% intra-racial for rape and for murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 10:05 PM
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If intra-racial is the vast majority then logically what would the other category be?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:57 PM
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Women want all that in a man they are physically attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:52 PM
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Awww sweetie, did you not know that the vast majority of all rape and murder are intra-racial? Statistically if Sarah is going to be raped or murdered you will be the perpetrator and not Jamal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:46 PM
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Do they not get that doing that affirms their lack of self-worth subconsciously probably consciously too? Shedding who you are to get what you want has to be soul killing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:00 PM
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A conservative bragging about being dishonest, immoral, predatory, etc what else is new? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:58 PM
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That outfit was disgusting and disturbing for the event.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:36 PM
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Again as you were told repeatedly 1 study with 52 subjects exclusively in the category of children killed by their parents and caretakers is not some gotcha. Especially when female autistics are diagnosed less and much later in life. There are absolutely more autistic female children, but much like you're doing now they're unaccounted for. As far as you dismissing sexual assault hopefully that lack of empathy doesn't but you in the ass one day. You're not advocating fir autistic people by dismis…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 05:10 AM
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For sure. I don't know how long you've been diagnosed. But for me it's just a couple of month's and I'm in my 30s. I was bullied relentlessly from elementary hell all the way to college, and they want to downplay our lives and what we went through then turn around and ask for sympathy. It's baffling and disturbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 10:07 PM
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Ouch 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 09:16 PM
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Are you going to quote the male side of that research where men are mere percentage points away from women in every category of N count as women? Or does that pair bonding mess only apply to women despite what the data says?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 09:15 PM
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I definitely accidentally replied to you! 😂 Yes, absolutely they do not view women as fellow humans, and so they think that because some of us can get sex (comes with a lifetime abuse rate of 90% vs. 30% for non-autistic women) that we don't have struggles. Heck one of them told me on this forum, at least you won't be dead because of your issues talking about autistic male suicide rate what he nor anyone else ever looks at is that autistic women have a similar suicide rate as autistic men. We ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 09:10 PM
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I refreshed myself on the study, and nothing you said invalidates what I did. In fact it mathematically makes sense that every female user would be inundated with messages. The male population on a dating app is 80% male 20% female. If the male group is looking for women in their top 20% of attractiveness, and they only have 20% of the user base to choose from then of course everyone will be inundated with messages. Again not some kind of gotcha. And women rated 1 their messages drop of dramatic…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 08:06 PM
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Omg mamas I was not talking to you!!! I am sorry. I was talking to OP who was disgustingly rude to you. I didn't realize that it was you replying. My apologies. I was talking solely about him, and his lack of dating prospects, and the bitterness he spews at autistic women because of it. I am an autistic woman, and much of what you said resonates with me. Again my apologies.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 07:37 PM
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Why didn't you talk about the messages of 8-10? Lol the actual group I discussed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 07:35 PM
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I didn't call you stupid or ugly. I called your personality volatile. If you weren't so volatile your dating life would improve instantly. Stupid and ugly GOOD people find partners every day. No one would ever want to share an intimacy space with a personality like yours. It isn't safe or attractive. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 06:41 PM
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What's your advice for yourself? Nothing right? As nothing can improve your dating life. Happy rest of your life! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 05:56 PM
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The fact that you struggle in dating is deserved and a literal joy when you display such a disgusting personality like this. This is why women aren't attracted to you. The fact that you're autistic has nothing to do with it. Good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 05:30 PM
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If 75% of the US population is either overweight or obese perhaps it isn't that easy to control and 75% of men make less than 6 figures, and as for height that's a 10% difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 12:04 PM
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Umm men already do this lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 09:06 AM
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So because someone likes burgers instead of pizza that means that pizza is less than? To someone else pizza could be the most incredible thing. If 1 job rejects you does that mean you're a horrible worker, or just not a fit for that particular employer? Do you see how fickle it would be to base your self-worth on the preferences of outsiders? How would anyone be able to function if they took every different individual's opinion with different environments, backgrounds, nurturing, experiences, et…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 07:56 PM
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Someone rejecting you does not mean you are not "good enough for them". It has nothing to do with who you are and your worth as a person. Letting rejection dictate your self-worth is the bigger issue there, and surely bleeds into all aspects of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 07:25 PM
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The need to be needed is probably why a large portion of people's romantic lives are terrible. Placing that burden on another will eventually chase them away. People need to explore what is missing within themselves that they need another human to fill. Once you fill that for yourself the desperation is over. And funnily enough that's when you start to attract more partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 06:38 PM
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The point is that they're ALL ridiculous, and a case could be made to say that for anyone's standards, SO if that's the case what are we even talking about? Each and every one of us has standards that disqualify people. The people who complain do so because they don't meet the standard. Not meeting someone's standards or being disqualified is then wrongly perceived as a moral failing by the disqualified when it simply has nothing to do with them. A random woman not wanting you because of your he…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 06:15 PM
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The point is that YOU don't get to decide if someone's standards are ridiculous or not. We could just as logically say that if you are struggling for partners, and you hold a standard that eliminates 3 out of 4 women (YES, in the US everyone male and female approximately 3 out of 4 are overweight or obese) then YOUR standards are ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 06:05 PM
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The OK Cupid study they like to bring up where they get hardly any matches? They never mention the part that when they do get matches they only talk to the top 20% of attractive women that match with them. Much of what they say is pure projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 05:55 PM
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And the second part is absolutely true, and it's why the first part is wrong. Autistic women get absolutely no leeway. If you exhibit the behaviors that autistic boys do around non-autistic women you get bullied and shunned. Autistic men get to be themselves. Autistic women are forced to mask and hide.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 05:15 PM
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This is too logical for this subforum lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 05:09 PM
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The study you linked discussed 52 cases. Using it as some gotcha is disingenuous. This is what people are talking about. I get it empathy is hard, but here's some logic that you as a fellow autistic person might be able to understand. If you downplay someone else's struggles don't be surprised when they don't care about yours. This isn't the oppression Olympics. Just because autistic women can get dates (AND fun fact autistic women are at 90% for lifetime abuse stats while non-autistic women are…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 05:07 PM
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Not to mention that autism is less diagnosed in girls, so there are probably many autistic female children that were murdered, but unaccounted for.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 05:04 PM
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No. Absolutely not. Some people have issues so deep and complex that they would be an absolute burden to put on another untrained human. Talk to your partner about it? Of course. Have your partner help you navigate to healing? That's a professional's job and your own job as well. No one else can do it for you. Even the professional can only show you the path. You have to take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 01:03 PM
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And you respect women? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 10:00 PM
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Yeah no. Lol that's ridiculous. Through and through, and it shows you care nothing about women's safety, and ony your sexual gratification, and you all wonder why women don't want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:01 AM
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To each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 11:39 PM
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Why would the universe have to have a set of values for the miracle that is humanity to have inherent worth? Because we exist we are worthy. A star exploded eons ago, and the elements needed to create you were expelled into the universe. Then over billions of years the homo sapien came to be then your parent's parent's parent's parent's parent's parent's for as far back as humanity existed had to not only meet at the right time, but procreate at the exact moment for you to be here. So, fuck yes …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 10:46 PM
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Nonsense. All that had to align for the specific you to get here. You are a miracle. We all are. It's time you start living like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 06:18 PM
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Lol the thing majorly depressing wages has nothing to do with immigration, and more to do with the elites uncoupling productivity and wages. If productivity matched wages as they did 50 years ago then every US worker would have approximately 1 million more in lifetime earnings over that period. Where as immigration only suppresses certain fields with a yearly decrease in wage to those specific areas in an amount of ~$1000 per year where as the productivity wage uncoupling represents ~$24k (for e…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:37 PM
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I'm truly concerned for you. Your cognitive distortions are strong, and you are focusing all of your issues on one thing when there is a root that you need to address. When you address the root things will start to get better. You are a worthy human being simply because you exist. All else flows from this knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:23 PM
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Huge caveat. Every human being alive has inherent worth simply because we exist. What we do with that worth is up to us, and explains each of our varying paths.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:16 PM
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Tough cookie for them then. There are women who don't get dates or flowers seeing men send Chanel to women who won't even talk to them. Thems the breaks in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 01:32 AM
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😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 10:43 PM
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Wow would you look at that it's almost like women are human and each and every one of us want different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 10:40 PM
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Exactly your human life is meaningless because of money this hurts every single human. They won't shell out the money to make these needed jobs safe because we are all cattle easily replaceable. That's the enemy not people floundering in the same system as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 09:16 AM
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Children need their father with them every single day not just holidays... You are creating wounds they will deal with for the rest of their life, but hey at least you're happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 09:04 AM
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Poor kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 08:13 AM
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And funnily enough when you do this love tends to find you. Being desperate for things repels them. You are worthy whether you are partnered or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 08:11 AM
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Of course it won't be. We'll all be focused on survival which honestly might make desperate men more appealing for women. They'll need your resources to survive again. A win is a win right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 08:08 AM
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Probably, but why would you want a woman who saw you unglowed up and wasn't interested in you until after?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 08:05 AM
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Because it isn't about patriarchy. It isn't even about you being repulsive to women. It's about the human condition. But you need an enemy for your life's frustration. You're deep in the cave you can't even see the flicker of light. So, again I won't be wasting my time, and I hope you have a wonderful evening.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 11:07 PM
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And those thoughts are understandable, but again women know these risks in dating, so to hedge their bets they make sure they get a financial benefit, so that if they are played, cheated, etc they at least got some benefit. Now, if you want to discuss the validity of that strategy that's another discussion I'm just explaining why it happens. If you truthfully will never know what's coming to you from prospective partners at least make sure you've got something for you in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 10:48 PM
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If I thought you'd listen I'd give you what you need to at least start the journey to free yourself, but I'm not a fan of wasting my time. God bless you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 10:45 PM
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Do you think that non-paying men don't cheat? So, their logic is if cheating is a risk with anyone then why not get the best financially fit partner anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 10:38 PM
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Oh I stopped having a good faith argument with you long ago. All your positions are easily destroyed. It might help you too, but you're so smug and nasty I decided to mirror you. Lol just shooting the shit now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 10:21 PM
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That kills you doesn't it? The thing you consider so unvaluable yet desperately crave you can't even have when you are supposedly so valuable yourself. The cognitive dissonance has to be excruciating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 10:01 PM
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You can vote however you want. Only the top men will benefit in your fantasy, and they're already benefiting now getting you to vote against your own interests to own the libs and those pesky feminists. You're right he wouldn't be the husband I want, but it's still more than you can get now today. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 09:35 PM
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Nah, I think I'll continue to leech while men like you seethe. If I wanted a husband tomorrow I could have one as could any other woman on the planet. I'm going to go enjoy that privilege while the likes of you resorts to revenge fantasies on the net and gooning your life away. Good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 08:25 PM
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You wouldn't have built a single thing if your mother didn't nurture you and take care of you. It's obvious though that she did a poor job. It is the devaluation of that ESSENTIAL role that has made women shun it. And men didn't allow women to contribute to the world en masse since forever. In only 100 years of freedom and even before that women have made incredible discoveries for our world. The real villain is the one who would even think of oppressing another human for the simple fact that th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 07:32 PM
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Do you think in countries where women aren't even allowed to drive that female sexual pleasure is something sought after?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 04:11 AM
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If your partner has to finish themselves off most of the time when they have sex with you... then what do they need you or your sex for?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:53 AM
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If statistics required all that to be valid we might as well not study anything. I just did a quick search multiple studies have the same conclusions and the sample sizes for each study were in the thousands.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:51 AM
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Probably the one your mom was in when she conceived you. Without that train we wouldn't be reading these brilliant insights from you now. Thank her for me will you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:21 AM
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Yes, "normal" average typical indeed. I wouldn't give up my pattern recognition and high IQ for anything. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 02:54 AM
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Why do neurotypical people make questionable analogies, and then get upset when their poor logic is pointed out?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 02:35 AM
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Seeing as I'm not the only person that called you out lol perhaps it isn't about neurodivergence at all. Maybe it's simply the words that you say, and your point is moot anyway. Any woman is vastly more likely to be assaulted by someone of their own race anyway because most women know their attackers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 01:52 AM
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You are racist. Lol funnily enough you all never bring up crime stats about child sexual abuse, or the most depraved of known killers. Is that because those 2 groups match your demographic? And then if we get historical oh my. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 01:12 AM
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It's ok to be wrong you know. Lol Tick Tock ⏰️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 01:01 AM
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Why would he care to be informed when he can just spout his wrong viewpoints everywhere instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 11:58 PM
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Nope, they'll just choose being single. By 2030 45% of women will be single and childless. It all works out in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 11:13 PM
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Straight women orgasm 55% of the time, lesbians 85%, gay men 90%, and straight men 95% of the time. Dead bedrooms explained. Who tf would want a partner that would doom them to eternal sexual dissatisfaction?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 11:10 PM
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😂😂😂 "I've got a headache", "I'm not in the mood right now", etc I bet you hear those often lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 11:03 PM
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Whenever a guy talks about making multiple women orgasm easily I just cackle. Sure bud. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:16 PM
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So, let your partner be sexually frustrated forever because you're jealous of plastic? Your ego is more important than your partner's satisfaction? And you wonder why "not tonight".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:15 PM
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I see what you did with that last sentence. 😏 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:13 PM
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The lady doth protest too much... lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:12 PM
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Absolutely. It was insecurity and projection the moment you brought up the cowboy example. What a random woman prefers means nothing to someone fully secure and stable in themselves. They know and appreciate who they are, and they know that someone will reflect that back to them one day, AND that even if they don't ever get someone to reflect it back THEY know who they are, what they believe in, what they stand for, and their worth, and that's the greatest gift anyone could ever have. You certai…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 10:24 PM
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There's nothing logical about becoming emotional and hurling insults at people having calm discussions with you. Your temperament is on full display, and if something as innocuous as this conversation could pull you out of your character then I know real world interactions with women trigger you. Or worse yet it's simply that you have poor character, and you think lashing out and insulting people is acceptable in any context even low stakes debate. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:13 PM
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🤣🤣🤣 every heterosexual woman is attracted to men just not every single one of them. It's not some virtue that you all are attracted to most women, and honestly it's not even attraction at the middle and lower levels it's tolerance because they have something you desperately want.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 07:25 PM
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If this is how you approach any prospective partner then I see why you're tired... lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 01:40 PM
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I understood you just fine. You simply don't like the implications of your own logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 08:03 AM
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So, you get to like who you want (as you won't give up on someone who isn't into you to try to find someone who is), but women can't like who they want to like? How are you a good partner if you'll resort to lying to get what you want? There is no incentive to lie merely a lack of the good character you all claim to have. If a woman likes cowboys and you don't care anything about that what will you talk about? What will you do for fun? What will you do on the boring days? When she inevitably doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 11:54 PM
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It's absolutely too much to ask. Every single person male or female has their own thoughts wants or preferences. Some women prefer tough guys, some women prefer nerds. The preferences and likes of all women are irrelevant to you on your journey. You only need to know who you are, and to find the people that appreciate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 10:02 PM
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And you all wonder why women want nothing to do with you lol. The unattractive woman gets nothing from except you using her as a warm body, and you wonder why the attractive woman has nothing for you the unattractive man? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:07 AM
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That's exactly what we tell young girls, and have done so forever. Spinster, old maid, cat lady, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:09 PM
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Lol the gaslighting is literally hilarious. There was literally a thread on here a week or so ago about the Force Doctrine. And you all make this argument a lot on this sub. Women are not stupid, and we know what your thinly veiled threats mean. Feminism can't stop what? Men ducking out of society? That doesn't even logically make sense lol. Feminism can't stop men from "taking their power back" is what you all mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:02 PM
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As usual the old you won't fuck us, so we're going to enslave and rape you, and you wonder why women want nothing to do with you all. This future you all describe is brutal for everyone. All of the most beautiful and eligible women will go for the top men. All of the other women will resent you, and stealthily try to gain their autonomy back. No one will know peace. When you sleep you'll be worried about your slave slitting your throat. No coffee or meal will be consumed without worry. The manip…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:44 PM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 gosh I for one second would love to live in the delusion land that is the straight male world. I mean the pure utter delusion to believe that you alone have these "unique" pressures.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:35 PM
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Women do not orgasm way less than men on their own. Lol. It's 85-95% for women and 95-99% for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 05:15 PM
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Yeah, no. Lesbians orgasm at 85% that's on par wit straight men at 95% and gay men at 90%. Yet straight women at 60%. Women can get off other women just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 05:12 PM
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Don't you all continuously mention that by 2030 45% of women will be single and childless? This has nothing to do with lesbians, and simply the realization that many women are having that partnering with males isn't as much of a priority anymore. I mean why would it be. Who wants to be hassled for trash sex, no financial incentives anymore, romance is seen as an unrealistic expectation. You all just continuously price yourselves out of women's lives talking about hamburgers and steak when you al…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 05:09 PM
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Ok so be sexually dissatisfied and still beaten with men, or sexually satisfied and beaten with women? No wonder women are opting out. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:59 PM
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Yes, that's exactly what we're saying too. You are saying that men do not want to put in the effort to bring their partners to orgasm, so they choose masturbation instead. This as well as the partner obviously being dissatisfied with the sex would explain the infrequent sex. And it explains the orgasm gap, and why when women who get with other partners that actually care about them i.e. other women lol their orgasm rates shoot from 50% to 85%! Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:48 PM
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I think they're simply trying to understand what you're saying because if you're saying men master bate way more frequently than they have sex because they don't want to put in the effort to please their partners and just want to release then duh, and then of course the partner will want to have less sex because it's trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:24 PM
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That must be why so many of you feel so bad if your status is tied to how you sexually please women, and a huge portion of you are abysmal at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:19 PM
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Yeah, so the vast majority of women can bring themselves to orgasm on their own, and it isn't a 45 minute ordeal. Also, lesbians have orgasm rates of 85%, gay men 90%, and straight men 95% straight women are at 60%. There's a common denominator here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:17 PM
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Did he have partners before you? Does that not matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 02:48 PM
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Are we ignoring the socioeconomic status and mental health issues in that environment which would make what you see possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 03:01 AM
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It's an ambition for you have at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 01:52 PM
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This just isn't true. Productivity has doubled. Wages haven't moved for 50 years, and CEO pay has increased by 1300%. That is where the money went. And they convinced the peasants that it was the fault of the other peasants meanwhile if wages had kept on pace with productivity each American worker would have approximately 1 million more in lifetime earnings for that same time period.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 01:56 PM
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So piss on the floors is ok? If you have children or pets cleaning the home once a week leads to filth for most of the week.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 10:36 AM
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Getting what you say you want, and still miserable. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:51 PM
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Conservatives truly did take the elite bait. 😂😂😂 You will never be a billionaire crying about immigration when the elite class has stolen ~ 1 million in lifetime earnings from every US worker based on current productivity levels, and you all champion it on. Those damn immigrants and minorities. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:03 PM
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Self-fulfilling prophesy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:41 PM
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You need intensive therapy. Your cognitive distortions are ruining the one life you get.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:37 PM
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Who cares? Either way you would never be getting the hottest women. That isn't some moral failing on women especially if it's not some moral failing on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:32 PM
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"looks dont matter yoi cam be chubby and poor and date supermodels by being funny" No one ever said this, and it just points out how much you think looks matter in women. Why would a chubby poor man not go for a chubby poor woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:31 PM
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You're projecting so incredibly hard here. You have no clue what this woman "brings to the table" and women doing all of the housework and traditional female roles is still majorly taken up by women alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 10:27 PM
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No, you actually wouldn't. Smh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 07:42 PM
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Because they're actually getting tangible benefits out of the relationship emotional dissatisfaction or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 03:51 PM
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Um no lol. I am autistic as well. What non-autistic people do is of no importance to us. We live in totally different worlds.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:52 AM
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Fuck them. They've made fun of us forever. Simply an easy target.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 03:54 PM
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No, I'm arguing that the data is invalid because it compares populations one with robust data and the other with slight.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 04:34 PM
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So, your autistic experience as a man is correct, and should receive no pushback, but you summarily reject the experience of autistic women, and you wonder why they don't want to be around you? We get enough of that from non-austic people to get it from autistic men who are jealous because we are able to get into relationships that lead to a lifetime abuse rate of 90% 3x higher than non-autistic women. Men seek out autistic women to abuse them a large portion of the time. That is not an advantag…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 04:28 PM
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Autistic women have less social impairment because we are forced to mask and quell certain behaviors or face extreme ostracization, and they are diagnosed later. Using forum behavior from nearly 2 decades ago is also silly as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 03:21 PM
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If he quotes something with a 4 year sample size versus decades of data for the other sample size do you not think that would skew results?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 03:18 PM
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That's your insecurity only. No one thinks they're better than autistic men. And who says autistic males can't be abusive. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:50 PM
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Autistic women are at a 90% lifetime risk to be involved in abusive relationships vs 30% risk for non autistic women. It's not all sunshine and rainbows.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:50 PM
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What is this day of reckoning? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:28 PM
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This is 100% truth, and 9/10 you won't end up with what you changed yourself for anyway. So, you won't have that nor yourself. Bad strategy all around.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:23 PM
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The average age .... (2019) same sex marriage had been legal for 4 years at that time vs. straight marriage being available forever In comparison. Also the first 5-10 years of marriage are the most vulnerable for divorce, and that group is the only cohort you have available for same sex marriage evaluation ultimately skewing the data on his claims. You know if you all thought critically and logically instead of wanting your team to win we might get somewhere and people might be less confused. Lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 08:31 AM
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At the time of him posting this it was 4 years, so again what are you all talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 07:19 AM
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Weren't these women only allowed to marry 10 or so years ago? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 09:38 PM
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It's in the tax player's best interest why should we be burdened because you dumped your load in the only place in the known universe capable of creating human life? You wanted that kid. Pay up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 12:09 AM
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You are quite the volatile woman. Prayers to you. My comprehension is exceptional. I actually care about the truth, so I did research what you said, and you are correct, and I also saw news about schools switching back as they should. Bottom line people resort to crime because they have no viable life prospects. Intervention at the pre-school level has been proven to avert criminality. Every human on the planet deserves that foundation. Schools that get to pick and choose don't offer that. But y…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 05:14 AM
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Are the charter schools the best schools or do they have more funding like private, and the ability to remove underperforming students, and thus inflate their test scores whereas a public school has to take everyone the poor, the differently able, etc. I'm sorry I thought you all were Christians duty bound to help the least of you lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 12:34 AM
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If you actually cared about crime you'd do research and learn that the biggest deterrent to crime is the investment in schools, after-school programs, job training programs etc. Study after study shows that increased police presence does not deter crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 09:53 PM
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You all are the less attractive women. The hypocrisy and irony on this sub are hilarious. If you were a decently attractive man you wouldn't have to lie to get sex. Those women you don't want casual with because they're "less attractive" are your level maybe even higher than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:30 PM
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They're so illogical. Lol. They actually think if a woman had this done to her by an insanely hot guy she wouldn't also feel used?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:29 PM
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We know a good portion of you men don't care about being good people which is ironically why so many of you are absolutely miserable. What you put out into the world you get back.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:21 PM
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The irony of this entire post. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 12:03 AM
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Off topic, but it definitely was. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 11:37 PM
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Should you shit on yourself instead? What's wrong with having a positive worldview of yourself? Were these statements made to harm others, or simply affirm who said then?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 08:59 PM
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I'm not gatekeeping anything. Love is reciprocal. You haven't even begun to feel what it truly is until you give it freely, and it's also given back freely. What you did was an excercise in self-harm something that you do to yourself because you don't think you are worthy of anything else. Those are lies fed to you from external forces your entire life. You and only you have the power to build yourself up from the inside, so that whatever they did and whatever they will do will be irrelevant to …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 08:29 PM
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That isn't love, sweetheart. Love requires 2. You can love, but you have to let go of your resentment and affirm your worth internally. Nothing outside of you determines your worth. You are worthy because you exist. When you truly believe that you will place yourself in situations that affirm that. Now, you harm yourself consciously and unconsciously to make your reality align with your life's view.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 08:21 PM
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You all don't love women. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 08:16 PM
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That wasn't your fault or your choice, so yes you are absolutely still a virgin. Sorry that happened to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 08:14 PM
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100% truth. All that they say is pure projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 08:03 PM
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And you all wonder why your lives are shit. You aren't good people, and your internal and external world reflects that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 07:28 PM
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Women orgasm 20% of the time during casual sex vs men at 90% of the time. You all are absolutely delusional about what sex entails for women. The emotional side of it is arguably more important, and to have that violated while also not being satisfied physically is repulsive. You guys get to take super hot women out on dates, and enjoy their presence and company why are upset about that even if your ultimate goal of sex was denied?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 07:26 PM
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😂😂😂 that isn't for you. If you don't like it then don't engage with it. It's in no way comparable to you seeking someone out to lie to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 07:18 PM
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THIS is why women avoid you all. This is how a good portion of you operate. You truly don't consider the thoughts, needs, wants, and worth of other humans. They are simply a means to an end for you, and it's why you all get shunned. Interestingly enough when women try to do this to you you all come up with entire frame works and names to call out this behavior, red pill, gold digger, beta bucks. This is sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 07:14 PM
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It seems that you didn't understand the sub role at all. While detailing difficulties about it you downplay and trivialize them, and yet you don't seem to like it when people do that to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 04:22 PM
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How did the Doms do at being subs?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 03:52 PM
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🤣🤣🤣 your warped worldview isn't everyone else's reality. The cognitive distortions on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 02:10 PM
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What about the title would make anyone defensive? 😂 It was simply more dialogue about how you all are slave's to your libido and how those "boring vapid women" are your masters. Again you are the cause of all of your issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 02:01 PM
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It must suck not being able to acknowledge that you are the cause of all of your own issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 01:49 PM
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And yet wages have not increased which they should have massively with such a loss from the labor force if you all's position on immigration's effect on wages was to hold.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 11:29 PM
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Again, if you're positing that immigration is the sole or major cause for the lack of wage growth why have the wages never increased with a max exodus of immigrants? Funnily enough the same gender war that you all cling to is another tool like your anti-immigration stances that the elite have used to blind you to the absolute robbery of the last 50 years. Productivity has doubled. Wages have risen less than 20%, and CEO pay has risen more than 1,000%. Immigration is not the major or sole cause o…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 10:06 PM
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In 50 years the top have not given up any of the profit share to the workers. Are you saying that is due solely to immigration, and that if a huge portion of non-Americans left US soil that wages would increase? Why didn't this happen in 2007/2008 the largest exodus of immigrants pre 2025 and post 1970? Yet, profits skyrocketed at this time, and worker pay plateaued. We are seeing the same thing happen in 2025.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 09:13 PM
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That's lovely for you, and the several hundred million rest of us? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 06:34 PM
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You should read some scientific papers about the Dunning-Kruger, and how it affects men more than women. You are surely a prime example. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 06:26 PM
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Probably around the same time as those tax breaks for the wealthiest Americans when wages haven't increased in 50 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 06:08 PM
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😂😂😂 a conservative talking about the working class is hilarious. Has that wealth trickled down yet? It's only been 50+ years maybe we can try 50 more.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 06:00 PM
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So lie to get what you want then? No integrity?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 04:27 PM
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No, we actually wouldn't. Male sexuality is so weird. The things you'll do for it is disturbing. I'm not going to destroy another human being mentally so I can orgasm. Ewww
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 04:25 PM
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70% of US women are either overweight or obese. It was a business decision for the fashion industry to cater to the largest demographic in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 08:20 PM
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That's just so sad that you think this way. You have a plethora of history to choose from to be proud of, and you actually shun it for whiteness. Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 09:40 PM
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It's so sad that you think that being Asian makes you unattractive. White father?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 08:35 PM
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Oh no. I wasn't saying that women are doing this now with my "Like right now" statement lol. It was an affront to the Force Doctrine. Men are in charge now, and you've built the world to largely benefit you, and still you all are offing yourselves at astronomical rates. I'm saying that if it ever came to pass that women should and could use these extensive mental vulnerabilities that males possess to subjugate them. Then we'll all be in the prison together. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 06:21 PM
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It's evil, but so is the subjugation of women. But simply take advantage of the self-doubt, lack of worth, etc that many of you seem to possess, and mentally imprison you with it. Like right now. The world is the male's oyster yet across demographics you take your own lives at astronomical rates. And this is without a concerted effort it would be even greater with one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 05:48 PM
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Psychological subjugation sounds like a better and easier plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 04:42 PM
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Why are you running from the implications of the point? Why is the point being made at all if not some covert warning of what could happen? And if it could happen how can you also be surprised that women are wary of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 02:24 PM
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Given that women should do anything and everything they can to subvert male will.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 01:08 PM
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Absolutely not to all 3, and I have a gay brother who I love and support. I love and support everyone doesn't mean I have to let them inside of my body.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 02:58 AM
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Of course it isn't, but it's a massive undertaking that no one will go on if you don't also go on it for them. And someone truly empathetic would have no qualms with this. It's truly their default. The takers would though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 09:06 PM
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I don't know you, so my statement wasn't a personal attack against you simply what I think a large portion of women want. If you consistently find partners ungrateful for the gifts you provide then those women don't actually like you. Find the women that do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 09:04 PM
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I'm not giving dating advice. I'm giving you the tool to unlock what you want. The women are simply the natural consequence of that. I can't tell you the steps to take, only you can master you, but when you do, you'll see the irrelevance of your loneliness. In this new self-concept, you'll see new opportunities arise. A person who knows themselves deeply is highly attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 09:01 PM
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This again is quite literally delusion. You don't know me or what I've had to work to do. The fact that you can't accept that women have had the same reality as you is why you always be trapped in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 07:35 PM
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And you all wonder why you're so unsatisfied with such a transactional view of life. You literally get what you give..nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 07:34 PM
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I offer all of my empathy to you, but only if you can do the same for me. The only thing that you know about me is that I'm a woman. You don't know that I never sought anyone out, but they did me, and I ended up getting abused in every single relationship I've ever had. You would dismiss that as at least I got relationships, but at what cost if I'm essentially in the same position as you now except traumatized. The whole point of my advice is that it IS the solution. You could curate the greates…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 06:47 PM
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You have yourself. Your most important relationship. What if you change yourself, and you never find her, or you get her then you lose her because she doesn't like the real you which will eventually come out changes or not? Then you'll have nothing. But in a world of 8 billion it is a statistical impossibility that there won't be a subset of people out that match with who you are. The journey is to find them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 06:03 PM
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You could try being a good person that's a net positive to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 03:50 PM
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I'm more than willing to concede that I'm not great at all, but it changes nothing about the argument. If you are with someone that you think isn't great, but you continue to tell them that they are, but not do the things that you did in the beginning while remaining in the relationship WHY would someone do that? Because they get benefits from the relationship and therefore the goodness or badness of the partner is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 03:10 PM
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That's not true. The vast majority of women who masturbate can bring themselves to orgasm. It's only when partnered with men that this orgasm rate drops significantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 12:54 PM
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I can list varying studies all ranging from ~40-65% you simply listed the study with the highest one. We only use one source now? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 01:14 AM
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Those are the high end of the numbers. And why didn't you list the lesbian, gay male, and straight male stats. They would shed a light on what we're talking about. Respectively from that study it's 85% for lesbians, 90% for gay males, and 95% for straight males...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 12:56 AM
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Which is what you should have done all along. You want your tribe. The people who gel with your soul not who you pretend to be. Wearing a mask is soul crushing, and you often don't even get what you erased yourself for.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 12:52 AM
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How could it possibly be incel logic if they would never even get to that point? It's not vague at all. How we know they are lying is that their behavior changes, but the words they say are still the same as they were in the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 11:24 PM
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The irony that you can't see your obvious poor character that is glimmering to anyone who sees what you write is hilarious. You sound like a horrific transactional person.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 11:03 PM
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Why don't you choose better women if you are continuously getting unresponsiveness from the women you pursue? It's almost like you don't have a crystal ball, and can't predict the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 10:57 PM
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They never cared. They fake that they do that's the entire point. And it's why a huge portion of women are done. It's violating to realize that the person you care about isn't the person that they actually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 10:54 PM
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Most women don't orgasm during sex with straight men, so how will that ever help alleviate stress?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 10:52 PM
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Attentiveness, care, interest anything and some man can and probably has faked it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 10:50 PM
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Are you offering companionship if the person you're offering it to doesn't enjoy it? That's what it is. It feels like men simply want a warm body, and that's what women are running away from. You can't have who you really want, so you'll take this warm body. But what you don't see is that when you do that your attitude bleeds into all. It's why you forget birthdays and special plans, you don't want to go out, etc. It's a quiet misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 10:11 PM
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Exactly. They literally pretend to be who you want for 3 months, and then you get to meet the real them. A lot of us are emotionally invested at that point so it's like a whiplash fucks with your mind, and who would want to deal with that. It's honestly disturbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 10:04 PM
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Everything said here was highly logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 04:54 PM
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Are you trying to assert that women did NOT work the fields previously? Please do some research.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 09:38 PM
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Did they make more sense? Women were on the same field harvesting as the men and then also expected to do all domestic duties. It's untenable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 02:31 PM
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No, it actually isn't the logical conclusion. That's a cognitive distortion. It's not logical to assume that every human you will ever come into contact with will produce a negative experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 02:18 PM
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Her point is that for a woman the opportunity could present itself anywhere. It's down to the woman's character whether she does or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 12:11 AM
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Exactly! They're often single. Often looking for male approval, and never get it. A great anecdote is that Pearl manosphere lady. She panders hard, but she isn't attractive, so she gets left in the dust. Many men like a challenge. That's why some conservative men are trying to bag liberal women. It's no fun if they can't cage a wild bird.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 01:46 AM
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They don't complain about those women because they leave them in the dust. All that pandering, and still no positive male attention, or they wouldn't be pandering.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 01:44 AM
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Yes! This is absolutely what men need to do what we all should do to maintain high self-esteem. Self-esteem based mostly or solely on outside interactions creates for a voltage self-esteem. Self-esteem mostly rooted in your character, conduct, achievements, etc us much more stable as you have control.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 09:51 PM
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I see now you want a slave. Isn't it ironic though that you all summarily reject being in that position especially when you denounce gold diggers and dead bedrooms. Good luck to on your quest. If AGI ever comes hopefully the conduct with your companion was on the up and up...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:52 PM
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I don't think you're thinking through the psychological impacts of always knowing you'll beat the game, but if that gives you and people like you comfort then who are we to judge.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:16 PM
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I get that if it doesn't make logical sense that it's hard for those of us with autism, but the unreliability of human nature is probably one of its greatest strengths. It produces all of the flavors and colors of the world. The work is simply finding the flavors and colors that align with your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 01:52 PM
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People need to earn your vulnerability. If you give it away to anyone you will end up in this situation continously, OR worse with a predator looking for someone vulnerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 01:36 PM
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Human companionship should be ruled by logic and not emotions?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 01:33 PM
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I'm merely pointing out the hypocrisy. And the vast majority of American conservatives are Christians. As far as the hyperbole at the end I'll let you have that. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 02:06 AM
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Your own Bible diaagrees with you. Matthew 25:42-46 42 For I was hungry and you gave me nothing to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me nothing to drink, 43 I was a stranger and you did not invite me in, I needed clothes and you did not clothe me, I was sick and in prison and you did not look after me.’ 44 “They also will answer, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry or thirsty or a stranger or needing clothes or sick or in prison, and did not help you?’ 45 “He will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 12:36 AM
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We are. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 12:16 AM
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Life isn't an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 06:54 AM
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Who would hitch themselves to someone with this mentality? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 02:08 AM
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He better fucking cheat on me for 10 million and I get half wtf lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 01:06 PM
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Do you understand that if you don't shower 6 out of 7 days of the week that your home will probably smell like what you smell like the majority of the time? Your clothes are probably sour. And that smell can potentially linger even after a wash?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 09:53 PM
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The advice that you all really need is intensive therapy to root out your cognitive distortions, but you all don't want help you want pity.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 08:28 PM
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If you aren't already it sounds like this investment will make you a very rich man one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:33 PM
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We can't get you to care, but just know that it is your aggregate poor behavior as a group that fuels your misery. Why do you think women are so wary of men even regardless of the attraction barrier? Many of you have always been open to getting whatever you want the consequences to others be damned. Many women have woken up to this, and are stepping away.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:40 PM
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Are employees barred from investing?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:01 AM
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That's a wonderful thing. We're all human, and we are all worthy of happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:55 AM
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Love we don't care. Hell Chatgpt talks to us more kindly and romantically than a large portion of men. You remove the financial incentive of men, and you see how women have opted out. I truly hope you all are happy with your robot girlfriends. Then maybe you won't harm real life women in your desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:34 AM
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A market women created? If every single one of you is desperate for 80% of women that gives each and every woman an abundance of choice. Should women say yes to everyone interested of them? If they do you call them whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:04 AM
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Ok so we should have empathy for you using another human being to get your needs met? If that's the case why are you all always so upset about gold diggers, or becoming beta bucks. Our human needs need to be met regardless of the way in which we choose to meet them according to your logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:00 AM
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Except! for the fact that many of us know this. We've felt it. You honestly think you can hide that from your partner? Pining after women who would never want anything to do with you while you take for granted the one who actually does?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 12:58 AM
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"She'll do", and you all wonder why women shun you. You want a woman's utility, and nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 12:56 AM
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Sounds like a lucky wife and happy family.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 07:18 PM
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Even sluts aren't open to it in the crass manner that many men do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 05:00 PM
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You already said that if the story involves multiple people then you aren't going to follow it. That's not her communication style that's you not liking her subject matter of conversation. If you often think the things that she shares with you are of "little value" then I apologize earlier for misjudging her reaction which now seems more appropriate due to this possible pattern. She's in a relationship with someone that fundamentally doesn't care about what she wants to talk about. Do you all th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 10:19 PM
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"I don't have the mental bandwidth to follow along," does this mean that you aren't listening? Her behavior once the "offense" has occurred does seem disproportionate, but that's where we get into why did you choose this person as a partner? Something like this would have been evident from the beginning. Also, when you're not in the space to listen why not just say that, and leave it for a time when you are? I feel like most reasonable partners would accept that. Now if your partner isn't reason…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 07:43 PM
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That's your view of it. She could be seeing a pattern in the "incredibly straightforward statements" that you aren't privy to. But there's no reasonable way to discuss this without specifics.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 07:01 PM
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The impact of what you say can easily overshadow the intent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 06:47 PM
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Except for the fact that you aren't content, and you take it out on your partners whether you consciously know this or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 06:42 PM
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You might have a point if the gap still didn't persist in long term relationships, but it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 06:07 PM
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So you can only get a woman if she's desperate and in need?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 05:42 PM
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There's nothing "leftist" about you. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 05:40 PM
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That's literally what appears. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 05:26 PM
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Fair point. So you understand exactly why your 1978 rapist study was a problem. Throwing the median weight of all mammals at a statement about housecats is the same flawed logic as using a tiny outdated sample to refute a modern survey of all prisoners. If we were to take your 40 year old data as true then sexual assaulters would have to have a single mother hood rate 3x less than all other violent crime categories which are all in the lower 40s% range.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 12:20 AM
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If rape isn't a violent sexual crime then what is? Citing 40 year old data that only detailed 50 people vs 10 year old data that detailed the entire US prison population seems a little off. But ok lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 10:03 PM
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That study is from 1978 and had a sample size of 50 where as A Profile on Inmates is from 2016, and was a survey of the entire US prison system.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 09:44 PM
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So that's what 30% of men? What about the rest?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 09:33 PM
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True, but you have to understand that if you won't make concessions for how other people look it's absolutely delusional to expect them to do it for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 09:08 PM
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Privileged to be able to decide what to do with your own body. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 09:01 PM
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Can you cite your data on the 85% stat? The data I found shows that 39% of inmates for violent sexual crimes were raised with their mothers only. Profile on Inmates 2016
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 08:59 PM
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What does mutual desire look like to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 01:34 PM
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When their logic is applied to them they throw a fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 07:23 AM
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How low does the age go? Some people find 12 year Olds attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 07:19 AM
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Eventually you will get one if you don't foster the tools needed for a romantic relationship via your platonic ones you might doom it when it comes. A friend tells you something vulnerable you learn how to console them one day you'll use that skill on your partner etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 11:51 PM
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No, I meant any friends. The majority don't have a plethora of very close male friends either. Social interaction, empathy etc are all things that will make or break relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 11:38 PM
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Of course it won't replace it, but it will flex the muscle, so that when you do get into a relationship in can be a successful one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 10:40 PM
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Assholes feel good too, and you even have a prostate in your own to make you feel good too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 04:14 PM
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This is crazy. A teenager is years away from full brain development.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:39 PM
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In their most cited study to prove 80/20 they don't add that men who swipe on like 80% of women only respond to the top 20% of attractive women who respond to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:38 PM
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I understand the pushback because you have to be ready to accept it, but everything I have said is psychologically backed researched solutions that will allow you to actually feel better, and you aren't entitled to anything. What you get has nothing to do with the fact that you exist, and so you are worthy. You could never achieve anything in this life, and you are just as worthy as the person who accomplished everything. A canvas is fundamentally worthy because it exists. It has purpose just as…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 05:10 AM
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It absolutely was. If you were rejected constantly in childhood you probably developed some coping mechanisms that got you through that period, but now in adulthood they are harming you. Placing you in situations and with people, and making you act in ways that affirm your unworthiness. The solution is to build an internal castle of worth (incredibly difficult but fulfilling work). It will show you that the people who rejected you before have no bearing on your worth as a human. And once that wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:20 AM
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Sounds like you've got a mission to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:10 AM
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And this is how you all end up with women that don't like you, use you as solely utility, etc. You do absolutely no vetting of your potential partners outside of the physical.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:09 AM
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The funniest thing is that your unselectivity as men is fueling the infinite amount of options that women have. If more of you were pickier it would even out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:08 AM
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Intensive therapy to show you that you are trapped in your own cognitive distortions probably born from childhood. Healing is available to all. It's not your fault, but it is your responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:06 AM
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😂😂😂 you're a white dude. You don't know shit about strife. The world is your oyster, and still you all complain. You wouldn't last an hour as a woman or a Black person.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 10:24 PM
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You are the one with the victim mentality. Women are less likely to be diagnosed with autism even when they have it, and you started the argument lamenting about being a man and that women have it easier i.e. victim mentality. Then when faced with the logic that your position was factually incorrect, you attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 10:14 PM
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Who cares? If it's truly positive, and doesn't denigrate others, and actually helps you then do it. You think Black people and women didn't face opposition?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:37 PM
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Did you know that autistic women have suicide rates nearly identical to autistic men, and 4-5x the amount of non autistic women. Yet, you told me I should be thankful to be a woman as if the suicide rates aren't the same, but they are. So, according to your logic should you be thankful to be a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:07 PM
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All throughout. Let's not be obtuse. I'm not a man, but I would assume you would need what we all do. Radical self-love and acceptance. That doesn't mean that your desires, needs, and even wants will be met. It's simply a foundation that they can be a belief. And when you believe you often bring it to fruition. That would look like you unequivocally rejecting partners that asked you to erase yourself to have them. That would mean understanding that all of your whims not being met is to be human,…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 08:33 PM
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I get it. You won't be able to see it until you are ready. I am asking you to dismantle your core lifelong identity for your sanity. One day you will be. Hopefully I planted a seed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 08:12 PM
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You're missing the entire point. Women can be your allies, women can hold your hand, women can have more empathy for men than you have for yourselves, but we cannot do the work for you. We cannot build the movement for you. We cannot increase the empathy you have for yourselves and each other for you. It has to be you. And the fact that men are in power is irrelevant. It has to be you at the forefront because it is your issue. You will have female allies and you do, but it is your movement that …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 07:34 PM
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Of course not. We are all entitled to self-worth though because we are human. The fact that you deduce your human worthiness to potential connections to other humans doubting that possibility is a cognitive distortion and a mathematical improbability.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 07:23 PM
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Again your worth isn't about what you can get. It's about the fact that you are human, so you are worthy. You are worthy in your rejection and your triumph. You are worthy in your loneliness and closeness. You are worthy because of and despite your lack of eye contact socioeconomic status, insufficiently typical body language and manner of speech (hello fellow autist). The cognitive distortions created in your childhood have lead you to a path to unconsciously interact with and behave in ways th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 07:13 PM
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Withdrawal isn't the only logical reaction to rejection, and in fact it might be the most damaging one. The attitudes and systems we subconsciously created as children due to our environments and lack of understanding is trapping many of us in misery as adults. The people that rejected you as a child don't even remember it, but it's shaped your entire life, world and self view. The only way out is to synthesize your worth internally. Know that as a human your birthright is human connection. Know…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 06:41 PM
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