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Weird because Reddit is filled to the brim with black ladies who are militantly anti-white. Why would they date them. This isnt really true lol. You clearly havent been to any of their subs. Its almost the exact opposite. They seem to dislike black men the most on here actually I guess its because yt men are seen as a ticket into economic and social stability It could be that. Attraction also plays a role. But ive seen them get idealized as the best partners no matter what they do so idk what it…
/r/BlackPillScience27/07/25 04:58 PM
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Its from 2011 and is dead wrong lol
/r/BlackPillScience24/07/25 04:47 PM
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Thats what it is. They go for white men the most when given the option to on apps. But since those men dont reciprocate its seen as them being "loyal". It makes 0 sense to me
/r/BlackPillScience24/07/25 04:47 PM
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This is false lol. Recent data shows that they go for white men 1st on apps and go for black men the least. This was even backed up by that old OkCupid study. Like all other races of women they prefer white men the most https://www.reddit.com/r/BlackPillScience/s/AhaZCNYsgb I dont know why people keep pushing this lie
/r/BlackPillScience24/07/25 04:46 PM
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They still wouldnt care. Most of their hate/dislike toward white men is performative. There are many women on the left who criticize them relentlessly yet have a white bf/husband or idealize white men as the best partners. Its very common. Even women in my age group which are the ones who claim to care about this stuff the most still fawn over and pedestalize white men. This can be seen all over tiktok and social media in general
/r/BlackPillScience03/05/25 02:53 PM
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And this is directly from the book: <image>
/r/BlackPillScience02/05/25 08:41 PM
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"Almost every" is too charitable. Its all groups of women according to the source: <image>
/r/BlackPillScience02/05/25 08:41 PM
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They still arent dating younger men so this makes 0 sense. 63% of young men are single compared to 34% of young men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 05:16 AM
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63% of young men are single compared to 34% of young women. Who are the women with if not older men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 05:15 AM
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Who are the women dating then if 63 % of young men are single compared to young women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 05:14 AM
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If they arent going for men their age who are they going for? 63% of young men are single compared to 34% of young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 05:13 AM
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So who are the women dating then? 63% of young men are single compared to 34% of young women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 05:11 AM
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63% of young men are single compared to 34% of young women. Who are they young women with if not older men? Sharing could also be a possiblity
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 05:09 AM
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Theres no way that women in that 4 year age range can skew the data that much to cover for the remaining 7. It has to be being done at a larger scale than that. Either most are with older men or most are sharing guys. Women know when a relationship with a guy is causal or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 04:51 AM
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63% of young men are single compared to 34% of young women. Either women are sharing men or with older ones. Both of which they claim they dont do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 07:03 PM
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Yall like money more than yall like men. Clearly men in the age range arent preferred because very few young women are dating them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 06:59 PM
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Explain how 63% of young men are single compared to 34% of young women then. Who are the young women dating? The stats even show that young men are looking for relationships at a higher rate than women are. They claim they dont share men so what is the actual reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 06:57 PM
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Im bitter for believeing a study from a reputable source? Sure lol. Baseless insult as expected from a redditor. So lame You only see what you want to see lol. You saw the headline response and read nothing else. Thats talking about the maximum size. By your logic most studies are invalid
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 04:00 PM
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Yea because ghosts are comparable to data on relationships right? So disingenuous but I expect that from members of this sub. You clearly do care about the results because you denied everything I said since the beginning. You said it was from an echo chamber, I proved it wasnt, and you still are in denial lol. I dont care anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 03:46 PM
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Youre in denial lol. I know if the study showed more favorable data you would have 0 issue with it. People only do what you do when it doesnt fit a narrative. Why would a reputable professional organization known for research uses a sample size too small? You have to be joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 03:30 PM
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So by that logic no study is valid then. How many studies have sample sizes that big? Yet still many are used to make trends toward the general population. Its the results that people dont like. Even if millions were surveyed people will still find some way to discredit it. There is no manipulation going on. If the conlusion was that the numbers were equal no one would be picking it apart. The bias is clear
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 03:20 PM
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Why would a reputable group like that manipulate a study? People dont like the results so they are trying to discredit what the study says. Its reality for men my age. And the sample size is fine. A bigger test group is not needed. There are studies taken as fact with a fraction of the people used. The study is sound people just dont want it to be true
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 03:09 PM
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6,034 US adults
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 02:55 PM
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So studies have no value now? Can the not be used to see trends across the general population?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 02:54 PM
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There are literally stats out confirming what I am saying. 63% of young men are single compared to only 34% of young women. This isnt an echo chamber thing its real data. Most young men are single and most young women are not <image> And yea women can struggle but more often than not its easier for them to date because in most cases they have more options and do not have to approach or initiate thing with men romantically
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 02:48 PM
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Relationships arent exclusive to nice kind men either despite what women claim on here which is also what you hinted at earlier. The I hate everyone mentality is rare and is only really an issue if the guy is average looking or ugly. Most men struggle to get in relationships. Its very hard for us. Women only see the end product and think it was easy. Most men in my age group are single while most women in it are not. Its extremely hard to date nowadays I mean even a guy went to school with who i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 02:34 PM
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Im going off of what I have seen women say online/on this sub and in real life. Its not a sweeping generalization its true. A woman on her said and personality like that is worse than being a hateful, dishonest, and more negative traits and was agreeed with by many women. Women confirm almost all of the stuff said by men on here. Guys arent just making it up. Just because you dont personally agree doesnt mean its a lie It could just be that men that really struggle are just not nice people at al…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 02:20 PM
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Its literally an unattractive trait for men to have. Well average men anyway. You and your friends may be different but if give the option between an introvert and an extrovert who both have social skills the majority of women are picking the extroverted man
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 02:05 PM
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Almost all women go after that type of man. You have to be joking
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 01:49 PM
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No they do not. Almost all women of either category prefer extroverted men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 01:46 PM
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Eugenics
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 01:46 PM
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A big dick feels horrible when the person attached to it can’t get you wet. But if he can it was better I assume lol. Its so funny how the only way smaller can be better is if the bigger guy has some flaw. Women frame it like that because they know if all else was equal it wouldnt even be close
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 01:30 PM
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They have next to no standards in dating
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:31 AM
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Its only subjective for women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:30 AM
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You are an extreme outlier then. Just like with short height, next to no women prefer men of a fat build
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:30 AM
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It always just so happens lol. Cant take any comments like hers seriously. 0 self awareness
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:28 AM
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Most women are not dating a man tha height. The male average is also 5'9. Its not self inflicted. Women on this sub seem incapable of looking outside of their own experineces
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:26 AM
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With women it is. They are hyper pragmatic and calculating when it comes to relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:19 AM
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You are pandering to women here. Sad but expected. People on this sub will downplay their natural advantages till the end of time. The whole post is disiningenuous. Working on yourself isnt fixing any immutable trait which is what women mainly judge men on
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:18 AM
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Thats exactly what it is. Their rationalizations are insane
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:14 AM
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Men have to earn it because women dont actually like men like that. Its that simple. Theres no other explanation needed
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:12 AM
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Idk how but thats not what I meant. Talking about race on this sub that way is a bannable offense so I left it general. Like I said people dont want to talk about the real reasons those are the standards. Especially not on here where most people are white
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 01:43 PM
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I agree. What is so controversial about what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 01:34 PM
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Im projecting nothing. I literally never said its better. I dont know what you are on about
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:41 PM
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They will probably just dismiss it as rage bait and downplay it as usual. If it were a man saying this stuff about women though they would take it 100% serious lol. The logic makes 0 sense
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 04:14 AM
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The ugly hot look only applies to one group of men. It lt literally is not used for men outside of that. Same for the rodent hot thing. So most men can do that either
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 04:13 AM
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When women say "different types" it typically means a different variation of they same archetype of man
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 04:08 AM
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Many do. They say it themselves: https://imgur.com/a/VHRARRI
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 04:06 AM
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Many do feel that way: https://imgur.com/a/VHRARRI
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 03:51 AM
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Whenever I’ve seen this happen it’s always the red piller man saying something black and white that lacks any other nuance, and so women and anti-TRP men will try to correct it. Like for example when they say “women’s value comes from their looks.” It’s a super loaded statement. Ive literally seen it multiple times. And I mean the exact statement repeated But whenever blue pillers “say the same thing,” it’s usually more accurate because it’s packed with nuance like saying “women’s value in their…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 04:45 PM
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Thats not true though. Men argue with ther men all the time. Its rare you see that from women. When women disagree seems like yall just ignkore the commeng most times
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 04:41 PM
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It doesnt but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:09 PM
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Literally nothing suggests that. Poor troll attempt. Try again
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:07 PM
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True. Its extremely disingenous and I expect none of them to reply to my comment. Its typical of this sub. Things are only bad and rules are only enforced when men are the ones doing it or breaking them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:05 PM
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Can't say I've seen a lot of that, but I did see a lot of cases where if a woman said something she was immediately accused of lying or being contrarian, and any guys who agree with her are called white knights You must be new here then. They contradict themselves regularly. People see what they want to see. I bet no women here has seen it either Except when a woman actually agrees with redpill/incel talking points, then it's "Finally, a woman who speaks the truth!" :) If a man says it women her…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:58 AM
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They wouldnt have to be anything. Many would rather be single than compromise nowadays. They say it themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:54 AM
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Men literally have no option besides being single. Men are this was because of how picky women are. Even if men became more picky women would still be even more picky
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:52 AM
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I don’t know how to do the quote text thingy in my posts (I’m a boomer in a 26y/o body) but yes, women tend to have more interested parties because men are more interested in women than women are interested in men. And women only really like a very tiny amount of men. There is a big overlap too I know. Which creates its own fun little economic problem. It’s actually comparable to the college admission economic problem of a few years ago… too many students were applying to 10+ schools and driving…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:48 AM
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I think you as a man will observe women policing your beauty standards more, and I as a woman will observe men policing my beauty standards more. It’s just down to what perspective we’re seeing from Thats fair I guess. I feel like women ignore it from other wome though I made the conscious choice to stop shaving my body hair aside from… certain trimming… years ago. The amount of flak I get from men and women alike is nuts. The good news is, none of the people who don’t like my armpit hair have t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:36 AM
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Women contribute to these strict beauty standards for the same reason men uphold beauty standards for women. Women uphold the standards for women more than men do. Most men dont care about eyelashes or hipdips. There are a bunch of men into women of any body type. The same cannot be said for men. It’s a lack of empathy and a false belief that people exist to be attractive to them. People who are offended by those they deem unattractive are childish and egocentric. Just because someone isn’t thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:27 AM
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Reported
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:18 AM
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Men are now experiencing the kind of online ramping up of beauty standards that women were dealing with on the earlier Internet. So us girls know a thing or two about hating ourselves and having horrible body dysmorphia. Women know about it yet still contribute to it intentionally with men. Why? I cannot change your mind and make you believe that you are handsome or worthy loving, but I do want to offer that us young folks aren’t always as shallow as the internet portrays us to be. I’m 26 and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:17 AM
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Keep trolling. I hope you get banned
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:15 AM
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As I said before, telling that to anyone is homophobic. What arent you getting? Stop playing dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:11 AM
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You did. Stop backpedaling
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:07 AM
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Those are all probably older men and if they are younger they just got very lucky. Most young men arent even in a relationship according to a study I seen There isn’t one kind of attractive. I know online beauty standards are getting intense for men, but you don’t have to have a rippling six pack to be handsome. You are good enough! Beauty standards exist. There are different variations of certain molds that can be seen as attractive. Outside of that its not common for a man to be seen that way.…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:04 AM
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You implying its a choice is homophic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:54 AM
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They are looking for similar men. The only thing different is the mans style. The physical traits are almost always the same
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:51 AM
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No its not. Implying sexuality is a choice to a gay man or lesbian women is also homophobic. Like I said before this is known everywhere else except this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:49 AM
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I meant in men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:47 AM
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Nothing we're saying at all is relevant to the OP, but if you want to go on about how women aren't "helping" men that's what's truly irrelevant to anything. "Helping men" isn't the purpose of this sub, so it's completely unfair to judge women's behavior by that metric So you agree with me then. What was the point of your comment? I never said the purpose was to help men so I dont know what you are getting at. I said they dont and thats correct since thats not what the sub is for. We're not here …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:46 AM
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You're acting like a preference is the same thing as a dealbreaker. When most women say preference they really mean requirement If you usually prefer blondes, you can still fall in love with a brunette. That has 0 connection to height Honestly, I don't think "I'd rather not have too much of a height gap" is that unbelievable and absurd of a preference as you're making it out to be. It makes perfect sense to me. Its very unbeliveable. Its extremely common amongst women in my age group
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:44 AM
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I dont know how anything you wrote is relevant. I never said it was a self-help sub. This isnt truly a debate sub either. Any one with eyes can see that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:40 AM
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You literally implied that sexuality is a choice. Thats homophobic
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:38 AM
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The way youre trying to wiggle out of what I said is embarrsing. Even if he was bisexual my point still stands so I dont know what you are getting at
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:35 AM
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Because 9.5 out of 10 times it isnt true. You dated him so you clearly do get the appeal. If it was as much of an inconvenience as you claim you wouldnt have dated him
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:31 AM
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I literally said none of that. Stop trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:29 AM
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Its homophobic to assume that a man on a pilled sub reddit for heterosexual relationship dynamics is straight? Stop trolling. You sound ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:27 AM
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That literally changes nothing. Its clear what you meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:20 AM
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Is sexuality a choice or not? Thats literally seen as homophobic by many lgbt people. Only women and men on this sub in those groups seem to not get this. It has to be intentional at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:18 AM
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I wonder what the mods will do about this homophobic comment. I assume nothing. Women love saying this stuff on this sub and 0 gay/bi men or women on here will check them. I wonder why. I guess they only care when it comes from men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:07 AM
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They routinely give the worst advice and 9.9 times out of 10 they are a hardcore bluepiller.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:04 AM
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Women perceieve women differently and the dynamics are different too. Its not the same at all
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:03 AM
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I actually think LGBTQ people can enrich the debate because they get to see things from a different pov than heteronormative view That benefits no one who is straight and trying to date though
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:01 AM
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Are you perhaps unable to find a well-meaning woman in your life that you think the majority here are here to trolls and just want to watch men suffer(not trying to attack you)? I dont know what you are getting at here. I already have women of those type in my life. Most women here are nothing like that at all. If the type of men you mentioned were not on this sub there would be next to no women here because they specifically come here to interact with them. There are a bunch of people that come…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 09:53 AM
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You cannot possibly know that the majority of women here don’t care about men at all. To me, that’s like saying the majority of women hate men simply because they aren’t attracted to most guys. Its clear to see if you come here regularly. Thats not the same at all. Most literally come here to troll and get entertainment from the men who struggle here. There have been multiple posts asking that exact question. They may care about men in their family and men they date but for men in general I high…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 09:11 AM
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No they do not lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 08:21 AM
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Most here are trolls and contartians. I dont think they even believe the stuff they say
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 08:20 AM
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The majority of women here literally do not care about men at all. The women here band together, agree on almost everything, and have the same opinions because they do not want to prove the men here correct on various topics. Many are literally contrarians. If a man says it they will disageee. If the same thing is said by a woman they will agree
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 08:14 AM
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Its clear as day yet they will deny it till the end of time. It literally makes 0 sense
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 08:11 AM
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Of course there are women who only want the stereotypical super tall, muscular, strong jawline types, but I don't think it's true to say that women are any more of a hivemind than men are in this regard. Most women have this exact archetype as their ideal man with very little variation
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 08:11 AM
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A sexually dimporphic trait in the 95th+ percentile wasnt an attracting factor lol. I dont know how you expect people to believe this
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 08:09 AM
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Yea thats true. I wish the same to you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 03:27 AM
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Why though? I dont really get it honestly. I dont mean that in a bad way. Just curious I guess And thanks. Youre pretty nice
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 01:24 AM
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She shouldve said that right away instead of acting like she was against both groups equally. I shouldve known that though lol. The majority of women think the same way
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:48 AM
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True. This tends to happen a lot with traits they like vs dislike. They strongly oppose it when men do the same though
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:46 AM
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What is the difference between what you and I did lol. Did you not make an assumption that they are with older men? This is why I think you are a troll. I attributed nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:44 AM
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What is it with blue pillers and personal attacks lol Ok dumbass, why would they accept someone with annoying flaws when they don't have to and have no intent on dating that person long term? If its not for a long term relationships then things like looks can be a huge reason. Many women have claimed that they have hooked up with or were fwbs with men that they would never date due to them being hot Your example proves my point. When they are younger and are not looking for long term relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:43 AM
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Oh those men just don't have the standard of wanting a woman who has developed herself. They cant afford to have that. Any extra requirment a man has makes it was harder to date Women still need to do so if they want a long lasting actually mutually satisfying relationship with a man. The men who date the underdeveloped women just don't care about all that and the women don't know they should have that to give the men bc their youth and sex appeal is all the men look for. Once men want something…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:37 AM
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Thats literally one of the main conclusions men have made based on the data... What data am I not showing. This was literally used by many mainstream sources
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:36 AM
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So having a negative reaction to hate is not natural? What are you even saying lol. I literally showed you that women contribute greatly to the way men think. Idk how what you wrote is relevant at all. I dont have tiktok and dont consume the content. That link came from a post on this sub. Nice assumption though
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:24 AM
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You are attributing things to the data that the data doesn't provide. The data plainly states that young women are in relationships 2:1 to young men. That is all. At this point in research, you cannot draw any further conclusions about why the data shakes out this way definitively however. You can form a hypothesis, but without further research and testing, it's a wild goddamn guess You literally just mentioned women dating older men. Is that your feeling then? It's not trolling one bit to point…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:21 AM
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Its a natural reaction after getting told it does matter time and time again. Also stuff like this which women make themselves is a giant reason why men my age think that way: https://imgur.com/a/VHRARRI
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:16 AM
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Thats not my point. You swore off all short men, even the ones who arent like that, yet are still open to tall men even though both groups dislplayed behavior you dislike. Clearly the height itself is the biggest issue
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:11 AM
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Men are hung up on it because of the way women are about it. The majority of women are not dating a man their height or shorter. Idk why yall act like guys are making this stuff up in their heads. Its disingenous
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:00 AM
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Notice how you didnt say no more tall men though lol. Short men are a monolith to women while tall men are individuals
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 11:58 PM
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Short men are a monolith in the eyes of many women. They assume short men are like that by deafault and will swear off all short men after an experience with a bad one. You wil never hear women swear off tall men as whole no matter what one had done. They are seen as individuals
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 11:56 PM
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Women do not have to develop themselves. The stats show that. Women are dating young and men are not. So who are they even with? Its extremely detrimental for men. Experience in this area does come from dating. There are many women who dont even want to be a mans 1st gf. You are too optimistic
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 11:43 PM
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Youre being disingenous but I expect that with your flair color. Im misinterpreting nothing. I just said the facts. Youre in denial though. I guess stats only matter when they fit the narrative you want to push
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 11:37 PM
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Its not a plan. Its involuntary and they dont have a choice. Women do not want to date them. Young men seem to do that a lot and lose who they are. Very smart of them to focus on themselves instead before needing to validate someone else and improve their life. Gotta make yours great first. We actually value attention from womem so yes we put a lot of stock into that. Women do not think the same way apparently. Only men have to becomen great 1st to date. For women its optional Older men with 0 e…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 11:34 PM
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Yea youre trolling lol. The men dont have an option if the women dont want them. You were just saying young women dont have to date younger men. The data explains itself
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 11:20 PM
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Thats means nothing. The stats are out. There are way more single young men than there are single young women. Most young men are not dating https://preview.redd.it/5gv9wk0qy0fe1.png?width=620&format=png&auto=webp&s=c16b7cfaf99d2a30edd2bb70cc1ce9d6f7e3ce7b
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 11:18 PM
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I just showed you the facts lol. If only 34% of young women are single and 64% of men are a sizeable amount of young men will be single even if they pair up with the available women. You have to be trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 11:16 PM
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I never said I was mad. Young women openly claim they dont like older and that they dont share men either. Both seem to be lies
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 11:11 PM
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Thats irrelevant. Even if they wanted to it would be impossible. No matter what they do there will still be a large amount of men single
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 11:09 PM
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They claim "just be taller than me" but it rarely ever is just that. Most want a decent height gap or a man to be at least average height. Ive been rejected by women in person I was 2 to 3 inches taller than for being the same height as them. Most 5'4 women would not date a man my height and Im 5'6. Yea its possible but its way harder. I literally got nothing on apps. I dont use them anymore. You arent getting a date IRL unless you are attractive. My height is the exact opposite of that in the e…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 11:06 PM
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Most dont and very few do. Women say themselves that they would rather be single than be with a guy who is less than ideal. Very woman have the man described as their ideal. And if hes shorter than that its essentially 0. Its not as easy as just finding or looking for a woman who likes that. It doesnt work that way for men. For women looking for men sure
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 10:55 PM
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Its from pew research and they are a reputable source. Women arent dumb. They know exactly what a relationship is and isnt. Thats an excuse. Most men cannot get a situationship or a fwb. The data is true you just dont want to believe it so you downplay it. Its reality and shows where things are and where they are headed
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 10:54 PM
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63% of young women single compared to 34% of young women. Its real life. Yall on here are just in denial <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 10:46 PM
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Those are old couple. Thats has 0 relation to the younger generations
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 10:39 PM
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They look past it when its time to settle. Its clear to see
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 10:39 PM
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The majority of young men are single while the majority of young women are not. Yes it is difficult. Dont know why people come on here and lie
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 10:34 PM
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Women in this generation do not want those men. They say it themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 10:32 PM
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They will easily disregard the risks if the man is attractive so clearly they arent that important to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 10:27 PM
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Women can act almost anyway and still get a date. A masculine woman would have next to no issues in dating still probably do better than a regular man
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 10:25 PM
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Most young women are dating or in a relationship. Most young men are not. They are not in the same boat at all
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 10:24 PM
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Thats who they are marrying not dating. I just showed the single rates for young men and women. And thats mainly due to proximity anyway. Its already known what type of man women would pick if they had the option to choose. Apps show this and so does data. Its a lack of opportunity not a lack of desire in most cases
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 07:24 PM
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Once again dodging the question lol Women their age are all the things you mentioned and they still dont want the men who are on the same level as them. Why is that? Those same women date with ease while those young men struggle They’re more compatible with women who want to start families. As in women who want to settle
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 07:11 PM
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Which question? Who are the young women dating I already know why women choose average men as they age. Its because they settle. Guys dont go from unwanted to desireable once they hit 30 And most women get with average men. Yea eventually, as in marriage. This is not true for women my age group right now. The data is out
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 06:27 PM
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Its BS because it leads to a conclusion you dont like. Its impossible for an age range of 2 for women to impact ages 18-27 that strongly. Who are the men cheating on if the majority of them are single and have no relationship? And that still doesnt answer the question I asked
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 06:19 PM
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Because it isnt a big factor. Thats a fact. Im not using it weirdly at all. Its reality. There is literally no other explanation. I asked you for yours and you didnt answer. I wonder why
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 06:11 PM
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I laid out the facts and asked a question. One that no one seems to be able to answer on this sub. I implied nothing. The reality is they either are with older men or are sharing men, both of which are denied by young women. Situationships are relatively common nowadays among women yet people on this sub act like they arent a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 05:55 PM
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The majority of men in that age group are single and most men in general are average. So most men in that age group who are single are average. That literally is everage male age range of this sub if you check the survey data. Needing to define average is unnecessary
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 05:12 PM
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Most women are not attracted to average men so most would not care at all. Thats especially true for my age group where 63% of young men are single and only 34% of young women are. The age range is 18 to 29. Most young men are average so that tells you all you need to know. It doesnt have to be defined The average age gap is around 2 years and most women arent lesbian. So who are they even with? When those women get older or want to get married then those guys will be given a chance. They arent …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:10 PM
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Most dont want to date guys with any trama. Why would this be any different? They regularly tell guys to fix themselves before dating and that they dont want to be a mans therapist. There are probably more women who think that way than men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 10:11 PM
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You think a woman would want to date a man with a trauamatic past? They regularly tell men to fix themselves before dating. Why is this only an issue when men say it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 09:40 PM
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This sub is designed to radicalize. Mods make sure of that. Its never truly been a debate sub despite them making claims that it is
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:14 PM
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This is interesting because no one seems to care when it comes from women on here. Not even the gay people. I bet the poster youre replying to was a man
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:02 PM
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Lesbian also say that a wide range of women are attractive. Its all over their subs. So do gay men. Only straight women seem to have an issue with this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 04:03 PM
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I know
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:53 PM
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Most men are average. Just like most women are average. What are you even saying lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:42 PM
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Yet you are very blackpilled IRL. What you are saying literally makes no sense. Also interesting how you didnt answer the question
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:38 PM
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it's mentalcels who won't get this and make their looks the issue when it's mostly not. <image> Seems like your just a contrarian. So its about looks IRL but on here it isnt? 🤔 I suspect most people on here like you here are the same
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:10 PM
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Nothing about them makes sense lol. Literally a walking contradiction
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:07 PM
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If a man said the same would you call him out? I feel like you would
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 07:49 AM
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There are multiple women who suggest it and make statements like that. Gay as an insult or implying that a man is gay is not uncommon on here either
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 07:39 AM
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I know lol. It makes no sense on this topic to me though as he is gay. He agreed that saying sexuality is a choice is homophobic so I asked why he has no issue when some of women here say it. Im expecting no response
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 07:19 AM
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So why dont you have an issue with the women on this sub who say that to men here? I rarely seen any gay or bi men call it out in anywhere actually
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 07:13 AM
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Would you say suggesting/stating that sexuality is a choice is homophobic?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 07:10 AM
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How is generalizing a group based on the actions of a few not homophobic/biphobic? What is homophobia to you then?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 07:05 AM
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I don’t just diss short guys, the short guys sub is the only active incel sub right now and they happen to be short blaming it on shortness and I think it’s their personality, they happen to be short. Yes you do. Why are you even denying this? This sub has like 10 times more incel stuff than short guys so why dont you pull stuff from here? You go where you do intentionally and cherry pick posts on purpose. Like I said weird af If I found a dude who’s fat and short and is my match I’d marry him i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:59 AM
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As a gay man you know my body count is the size of a continent, you really think I’m not into short guys and virgin? I’ve popped more cherries than a baker who specialise in cherry pies. You having sex with short men means you like them? Does a man having sex with a fat women mean he likes fat women? Like be for real. Youre going against stuff you say yourself about men Why do diss the groups that you claim to like daily?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:50 AM
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I was just trying to strike a cord and rage bait the same way he did. Hes not even short and generalized all fat people. Rage bait is all you post. Why single out short men? I’m into short guys myself not every comment I make is literal. I highly doubt thats true and its very convenient. Every other comment you make is shitting on a group you claim to like? Yea right. Thats like saying the BMI guy on here is into women outside of his range despite him dissing them daily. No way you expect anyone…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:42 AM
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Thats true I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:13 AM
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They arent though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:38 AM
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They just a hateful person. The craziest thing about the post is that the original commenter talked about fat people in general and there where even men saying they liked fat women yet he still had to single out short men. I dont get it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:36 AM
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Most people on here are white so I highly doubt thats true
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:34 AM
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The comments are not dissing him, one of them were liked by the creator. They’re flirtatious because he’s short and cute. Same way men fetishize tall women. Thats not flirtatious and women dont fetishize short men. Get real lol. This is one of your worst spins yet Let me guess this stuff is flirting too? https://imgur.com/a/VHRARRI These guys are in a hole way too deep mentally to function. Yet youre obsessed with them and hate them. Weird af https://preview.redd.it/kmibmjp0q3ce1.jpeg?width=1080…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:22 AM
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i mean a guy like this, the shredded version, is not gonna struggle. A LOT of women will say no but a lot will also get their panties wet on a shredded anime like dude with a decent face. There are literally women shown dissing him. Im literally as fit as him maybe a bit leaner and get 0 attention. Stop projecting your feelings as a gay man onto women Its crazy that you go on that sub more than I do and Im actually short lol. I wonder why. And there are men there congratulating him. Odd how you …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:05 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 04:42 AM
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I based my judgment on his comment. From what he said, he is a social reject. Disliking a demographic that makes up half the world would suggest he is a social reject. He isnt though. Hes clearly successful with that demographic. Sure its not right to feel that way but it clearly has no impact on him Successful men who manage to attract women, even while harboring disdain for them, possess qualities that incels and social outcasts lack. I dont see how this goes back to incels and social outcasts…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 04:15 AM
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True lol. Some have to find some way to diss them in almost any situation even if the situation doesnt involve one
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:49 AM
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Hes mentioned having friends before. Social rejects dont have any. There are men who dislike women and are still successful with them despite what people on reddit like to believe
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:47 AM
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How did you get a gf as a misogynist? Does she not know that you dislike women? I dont get it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:01 AM
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This attitude is exactly why they end up as incels and social rejects. He had that attitude and ended up as neither lol. His gf clearly didnt care
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:00 AM
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Is this that music from that genre?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:58 AM
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I think a good amount of the hardcore bluepillers are just as bad as the men they criticize if not worse. They think they are more moral though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:57 AM
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Wow
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 11:49 PM
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Screamo or hardcore rock
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 11:46 PM
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This is true. It very weird now that you mention it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 10:28 PM
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Yea youre trolling. Im done
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 08:59 PM
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Nice deflection lol. I asked the question multiple ways and you ignored it everytime. Youve made 0 sense this entire conversation. You also ignored everything I just wrote. You messaged probably dont even make sense to you 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 08:41 PM
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Very ironic lol. And yes it literally was baseless. I literally told you why I made the post and you refuse to accept it as an answer. I also said that nothing is changing their minds. Idk what you are talking about. What is the point of this coversation? You were literally the only person on the entire daily who took issue with what I wrote and you sound foolish. Your comments make no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 08:30 PM
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Are you under the impression that I don't hate women? You accused me of of it baselessly. And you said it was "my cause". If it was also your cause why would you phrase the sentence like that? Your tryna flip it now. So weird All men hate women Insane lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 07:56 PM
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So its baseless as I expected and cannot be proven at all. You do realize that you are also a man right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 07:41 PM
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Thats news to me lol. Is there any proof of that or is it another baseless accusation?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 07:14 PM
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I don’t believe it anymore. If any man wants pussy just get drunk theory is law. Deluded lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 07:09 PM
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What cause? And it wasnt lol. Nothing will change their thought process. I literally just told you why I made the comment Again, which group out of the 3 do you belong to?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 07:08 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 07:05 PM
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Why would I seek comfort from the groups that rarely if ever combat what women? You cant be serious lol. Nothing stung about the comment. I saw it and posted a thought I had. The women on this sub say worse things daily
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 07:04 PM
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Ill take that as a yes. In what way am I reaching out to those groups? Did I ask them to respond to me? No. Did I pose a question for them to reply to? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 06:31 PM
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How am I an incel lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 06:29 PM
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So what was the point of your comment
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 06:11 PM
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No. Do you have an answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 06:06 PM
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My comment was pretty clear. Dont know where you got that from. Are you apart of one of the groups I mentioned?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 05:39 PM
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Im not an incel so no you cant lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 05:36 PM
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Stop projecting. "Femcels" are hilarious lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 05:32 PM
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I made my point in my initial comment. Dont know how it flipped to me being bothered by it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 05:28 PM
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Its always who cares when the content is made by a woman lol. Yall care about who is saying it not what is being said
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 05:21 PM
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Shes speaking on men in general
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 05:09 PM
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I wonder if the bluepilled and gay/bi men of this sub realize that they are included when women talk like this https://preview.redd.it/4wku188530ce1.jpeg?width=1049&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=53fc8595de963e070996db8b123b43d452ae587e
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 05:08 PM
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Men regularly lust over average women so that ruins your entire hypothetical
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 05:00 PM
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Ill take my chances on the 50/50
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 04:31 PM
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Most here are just contrarians and argue just to argue. If a woman made a post similar to this most would agree. They just dont like it when a man says it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 04:00 PM
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They are probably larping like the account you are replying to
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 03:54 PM
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Yes it is. Yet when its used towards straight men people have 0 issue with it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 03:48 PM
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Its common here. And again none of the multiple gay of bi people on this sub will say anything because its coming from people they agree with. One even got awarded. Mods dont care either
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 03:47 PM
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Lol. Do you think people are born that way? Does thinking that way now mean that I never had confidence or self esteem in my life? You developing the mindset is possible but me losing it isnt? You know that makes 0 sense. You had no response so you had to go look for something to reply with. Weird af but typical for users on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 03:41 PM
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My life is the test. Confidence from the wrong person is seen as unearned and arrogance by many. People cant telepathically sense your vibe. They can see how you look though and will make assumptions based off of that. Any one whose been to any level of schooling can see what the guys who get approached look like. What I wrote is only a controversial take on reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 03:18 PM
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Women arent approaching and hitting on a guy they dont know based on his "vibe". People have tendency to downplay their advantages on this sub to prove points. A mindset change isnt making a guy go from invisible to women coming after him. Looks do that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 02:01 PM
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Most young men are single while most young women arent. Times have changed I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 01:46 PM
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If women were hitting on you that means you are good looking. Positve reinforcement leads to more confidence. Your perspective is biased
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 01:40 PM
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They are just contrarians. When a man says it they will disagree but if its said by a women they will agree. It makes 0 sense
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 06:11 AM
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Thats true. Next to none. I was tallking about the approaching part though
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 06:06 AM
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There are also attractive men who think that way and they are often the ones women approach. That mentality doesnt seem to bother women who approach when its coming from those guys. I think a lack of attraction is one of the biggest reasons why women dont approach men. If guys looked better more would get approached
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 06:04 AM
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Seems like many think only women can develop feelings or grow attraction over time. What you wrote but flipped is exactly how things go for some women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 05:57 AM
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Most struggling men cant get a practice gf. Most women wouldnt give them a chance either way
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 05:27 AM
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The comment wasnt edited at all. Its identical to what I initially wrote lol. Youre the one adding paragraphs after you initially post the comment
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 10:48 PM
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Most women arent lesbian and yet most in the younger age groups are dating while most of the young men arent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 09:44 PM
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They can look better than they did before but that isnt making them better looking in the eyes of women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 06:55 PM
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You did lol. They asked why dont those guys look better and you said they dont do it because its easier not to. That directly implies a lack of effort
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 06:03 PM
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Nice edit lol And finally, I'm going to ask what even is your point here? My original comment wasn't trying to deny that there are physical features or traits that are generally considered sexually attractive, my point was that men act like anyone who isn't all of those very specific things is doomed to a life of unenthusiastic sex, and that if men aren't all of those things women won't ever truly love him. And if a woman has ever had sex with a "prime man" she is thusly rendered completely inca…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 05:56 PM
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You implied that a lack of effort is why they dont look better. Even if most men, who are average, put in maximum effort they still would be seen as unattractive by women in general
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 05:47 PM
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What you are doing is bad faith, and twisting women saying we aren't sexually attracted to most men into us thinking most men are ugly And then trying to justify your lying by saying "hurr durr the outcomes are the same" Im not twisting anything or lying. Its a common opinion held by women. Go on any social media platform and youll see it. Again just because you dont agree with it doesnt mean im lying lol "Trends on TikTok" are your algo, not representative of most wome They represent most women…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 05:44 PM
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Theres a genetic cap on self improvement. Acting like everyone can improve to become attractive is disingenuous. You know that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 05:21 PM
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No, you're not I am lol. You not agreeing with it doesnt mean its not a thing That's not how words are defined. Killing someone and dying of natural causes have the same outcome, guess there's no difference 🙄 Thats totally different. And like I said the outcome is still the exact same. Why are you equating someone dying to attraction and dating success? What I originally said was way for specific than general attributes I said thats the ideal for most women and you said no. I repeated the traits…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 05:20 PM
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Not being sexually attracted to most men is not calling them ugly Im going off of what women say themselves. Ugly and unattractive have the exact same dating outcomes so there really is no difference. No one is dating someone they think is unattractive/ugly No, it absolutely is not You really think a tall, fit, and wealthy man who fits that description isnt the ideal for most women? That literally describes a large amount of characters in women romance novels which is made specifically for them.…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 05:04 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/l5izxyj2wsbe1.jpeg?width=891&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d423e2a2a9ace838c255af9401a1a04110fae5a0
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:56 PM
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I got 87% wholesome lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:54 PM
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They want guys to be content with getting settled for. Thats the normie advie because thats what they do
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:51 PM
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They dont truly care about the topic they just dont want it done to themselves or the people they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:47 PM
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You dont see women saying they want tall men, fit men, or wealthy men? Cmon lol. You know what I meant
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:45 PM
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If the woman is not very attracted to the guy shes settling. Many also claim that most men are unattractive/ugly. So that plays into that line of thought The man doesnt have to be what you wrote but its clear thats the ideal for most women. They say it themselves. I dont know how yall expect guys to think when its pushed repeatedly and comes directly from women. Guys arent just making this stuff up out of nowhere. I
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:10 PM
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Women are the ones who promote it the most. You cant write off what other women say online just because you dont agree with it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:04 PM
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Hes already trying to cheat on her. Do you think anything would change if he got taller? Youll find someway to blame it on his height regardless as you hate short men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:02 PM
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Not suprising at all. Most women probably would agree with that statement
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:19 PM
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They want men other woman want. If you are desperate it signals other women dont want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:16 PM
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Him cheating on his gf is the chad experience? Do you read what you write?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:10 PM
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Literally every woman under that comnent yesterdat was agreeing. Stop projecting
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:09 PM
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Im telling you they are a woman larping lol. Their takes make 0 sense at all
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:06 PM
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No not most very few. He always had that facial structure he was just fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:03 PM
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I know its a big factor but I get why its a banned topic on here. I used to talk about it a lot but stopped. I dont get why some people deny how impactful it is. I guess its just ignorance
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:27 AM
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This line of thinking isnt that uncommon on this app and Ive even heard it IRL. A lot of it is built around stereotypes too. A while back some guy on here told me that I failed at being black because I wasnt smashing and killing it with women. Im certain he wasnt black knowing the demographics of this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 05:53 PM
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There is no such thing as too tall to a lot of women. Maybe most of the actually
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 05:28 PM
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Yes. Where im from prople call it beatings or discipline not spankings. Extension cords, a belt typically after or mid shower, got a phone thrown at me, shoes, and anything they could find tbh. Surefire way to make a kid anxious, paranoid, and people pleasing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 05:21 PM
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Classic lol. It got removed for no real reason too. They can find many regular looking normal men willing to take them out and converse kindly with them every day on apps. The truth is that they dont actually want those men despite claiming they do. Their struggles on old are self inflicted and this experiment showed that. Its exponentially easier for women. Not even close
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 02:14 PM
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Ive said this before and its true for them and the guys in relationship. If there were no struggling men here there would be next to none of those people on this sub. Theres a reason why they dont go to the normie dating subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 02:08 PM
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And the fact it’s used as a dismissal shows they’re losing the argument, arguing in bad faith and being insultingly homophobic because of that. I agree. Its very weird
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 06:14 AM
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Do you think women generally want experienced men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 02:40 AM
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Promiscuous women aren't interested in men with no sexual or limited sexual experiences. Most women think that way regardless of the amount of sexual experiences they have had themselves. I dont get what point you were trying to make
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 02:27 AM
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Its a common thing they say. Its also interesting how no gay person has checked them on it. I guess using it in that way is only a bad thing if it comes from someone they dislike/disagree with
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 01:05 AM
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I've noticed the opposite, at least from the people who talk about their daily lives. I notice that the people on here who frequently express negative opinions about the opposite sex usually are not happy with their lives and are unsuccessful with dating. I mean do you think that people who contantly whine online about "rAw sExUaL AtTrAcTiON" are happy with their dating lives? He never expressed issues with his dating life. Just that he doesnt want to be settled for via personality. Thats not ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 01:02 AM
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This is fair, and I think it’s because people have a difficult time feeling sympathetic or empathetic for others who reject the concept of change or who cling vocally to the harmful ideology they’ve been taught. I think they have no sympathy or empathy because men are the people doing it. I bet they have empathy for women who cling to stuff they were raises to do It makes 0 sense to be mad at someone for doing what they were raised to do. They should be mad at the people who raised them. That wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:56 AM
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Exactly. I never believed when they claimed that they want emotionally open men. They want guys who do/say all the right things at the right times like movie characters. Those are the same women who say that they dont want to do emotional labor in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 11:32 PM
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I agree. The majority want guys who are naturals and dont want men who struggle or have to learn. Many see it as a failure of some kind for guys go be in those situations. Its the same reason why they are so repulsed by male insecurity and other negative emotions men have despite them being natural human feelings. Many dont believe men are supposed to feel that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 10:52 PM
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I know the statistics. But us men have to do better, because even us men don't want male babysitters and male teachers for young kids. The majority of men dont do any of those things. Maybe people should stop assuming men are predators by default. Most men arent doing anything wrong. Men like women more than men like men. This is well known
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 09:39 PM
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That has 0 impact on a womans ability to get a long term partner though. Most guys wouldnt care that much
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 07:06 PM
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I agree. Yet many people will still blame men for not being able to change this as if its some super easy thing to do. They make it seem like its as simple as flipping a switch or something. It makes 0 sense to me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 06:59 PM
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I was never speaking on women as a whole. In my inital response I specifically mentioned that I was referring to women disagreeing in the comment section
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 06:58 PM
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They regularly get told to lower them if they want romantic success even though its been proven that they have lower standards than regular men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 06:20 PM
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Youre seeing what you want to see
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 06:17 PM
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Because they dont exist
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 06:13 PM
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Men, even inkwells, don't want women who are overweight. You should stop pushing this narrative lol . There are a bunch of men who prefer fat women. The average woman is also overweight and has little to no issue dating or finding men who think shes attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 06:12 PM
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My original comment was about the women under the post disagreeing about communicating in general. Idk why you took it personally and felt the need to reply about your idividual situation
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 06:09 PM
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I agree. Id say almost all of them want some variation of a fit man. The type of fit man is the only variation
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 05:54 PM
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Not true at all lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 05:52 PM
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A guys wife/partner is different from a stripper/sex worker. And there are guys who pay for everything in relationships. You think all of those women are 10/10s and super hot? Pretty privelege is real. Most women get it to a degree they just complain about the amount the recieve. Not that they dont get it at all. The vast majority of men will never experience it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 05:50 PM
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What people talk about on an anonymous subreddit has little correlation to their daily lives. Theres a reason why many of them are on alts. Do you really think hes bringing this stuff up IRL? Like be for real lol. He using the space as its intended. Hes talking about a pilled idea. That logic should be applied to people using this sub in general because its widely regarded as an incel sub. People only think that way toward concepts they dont like
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 05:47 PM
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It is though lol. Most men dont talk about topics like this and dont care that much. A bunch a women IRL do think a man not spending on her means he doesnt value her. Big difference. Ive said before that the pinkpill/FDS mentality is more common IRL than the manosphere stuff and I stand by it. There are more women with a watered down version of that mindset than there are pilled men I also find it funny how when guys on here talk about things they see among in general ppd women feel the need to …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 05:42 PM
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Do most men go to strip clubs and throw money at women? The same question applies to the onlyfans statement. I dont get why you are taking a minority of men and applying it to most men. And there are women of literally every body type making money on onlyfans so that point makes no sense lol. The average women user on only fans makes no money. That has nothing to do with how they look. Its about filling a niche Men are the ones paying for dates in most cases. So clearly the issue isnt that men a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 05:27 PM
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This sub revolves around dating lol. What else do you want him to talk about on here?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 05:17 PM
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but find it equally ridiculous to treat the average woman giving him attention like that. Maybe hes out of her league then. Guys simp for average looking women all the time. The same cant be said for women though
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 05:11 PM
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Thank you for proving my point lol. Women perpetuate the issue they complain about. Youll project your experience with some men on to the majority and the cycle will continue. Other women do the same
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 05:07 PM
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It doesnt take a month to learn or impliment the suggestions you talked about. So you were communicating to men who didnt care. Im talking about the women in the comments who were speaking generally about men which is what I was always talking about. Youre clearly confused lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 05:03 PM
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I agree. Some people here have to push that narrative to justify the negative feelings they have toward that group of men. Its the same reason why many here automatically assume a guy thats struggling is a bad person or has negative opinions on women. Thats just how they rationalize it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 04:32 PM
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It will never happen lol. The men they do condemn are virgin/inexperienced. They care more than men do in my opinion. I dont even think most men even care that much actually. I dont get why they have an issue with this topic when their mindset is not much different
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 04:17 PM
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Tough lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 04:05 PM
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Shes hot. I dont get the context of the original comment though and I dont know who she
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 03:56 PM
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Ive seen a few people on here say she was attractive. I guess they seen her in the past
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 03:50 PM
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Oh ok
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 03:44 PM
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Did you dox them?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 03:41 PM
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Every man I've ever met is somewhat insecure about his sexual performance. The men who actually care about my pleasure will make that clear immediately. The men who do not care will not change no matter how much I communicate because they don't care. I dont think most men are insecure to the degree. Maybe a bit but that goes for everyone. Like I said there are many women here saying they dont want to communicate at all and just want men to know. A guy could care and want to communicate and it wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 03:11 PM
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Do you think what you said applies to most men? Most guys arent porn addicts and I dont think most are that insecure either. The issue is that women here are saying they dont want to communicate even with ones who do care. Men arent mind readers and cant automatically know what a girl likes. Thats very unrealistic and seems to be a common mentality among women. They dont want to teach but expect guy to know. Then theyll blame the guy for not being able to please them despite saying nothing. What…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:57 PM
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True. Ill figure it out I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 07:58 AM
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maybe approach women at the gym? there it's guaranteed for them to see your body? Lol. Thats the last place women want to be approached. And my frame is no where near as impressive as other guys there most of which are taller than me so it probably wouldnt even stand out do you approach regurarly? No. I used to do it regulary but I dont any more. Its a waste of time
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 07:23 AM
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I have a great shoulder to hip ratio. I honestly think its overrated. I work out consistently and have good shoulders. None of it matters much. Once I put clothes on I look like a regular guy. I dont wear tight clothes 24/7
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 07:10 AM
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I work out consistently. My body objectively looks better than the average guy my height but I still feel like I look like shit. Maybe its just in my head. I dont know what weight ill look good at
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 06:53 AM
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Im 5'6. That does not apply to me. A skinny fit short guy looks like a kid. Lean + short does not mix well. Neither does bulky + short. I want to be somewhere in the middle.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 06:51 AM
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Thats on the high side of the healthy weight range for my height. Higher than that is overweight. The average guy being chubby doesnt mean Im on the smaller side. I assume most guys who work out are around average height so I expect them to weigh more than me as they are taller
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 06:36 AM
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Your probably like 5'4 or something lol. I had a girl I was visibly taller than say that we were the same height. Every girl wants to be tall now apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 05:19 AM
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😐 Why is almost every women on this sub tall? Seems like the average height is like 5'8 or something. Very weird
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 05:12 AM
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I'm not, I'm pretty objective and go off of the average man I see while out day to day. When is day average to below average I mean someone who is between a 4-5. Not standing out but not having a physical deformity ugly. Solidly average Violated how? And how are you sure it was your looks? It was good enough to get you the date no? Ive talked about it on here before. Got called tiny and multiple jokes were made about my height/body despite me being in way better shape than her as she was a bit c…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 05:02 AM
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I got INTP last time I took it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 04:32 AM
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I dont think it will change. I said the same 10 pounds ago and Im in the same situation now
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 04:05 AM
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Im 5'6 and 153
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 04:00 AM
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No woe-is-me but I feel like Ill never look big enough no matter how much weight I put on. Ive gained a bunch and still look frail in my eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 03:55 AM
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I've seen a couple guys pics here and what they say is they're so ugly it's done for, but when I open the pic I'm like wtf you're average or below average with room to improve. And they're almost always a 20 something. These days it's normal to not be having sex left and right. I just think that the panic and doomerism is a lil bit premature that's all. Idk maybe you are boosting their ratings. People on here tend to do that a bit. The same would probably happen if I showed a face pic. I posted …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 03:53 AM
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Its not popular at all. They dont want to communicate the get mad when guys cant read their minds and will blame men for not pleasing them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 01:24 AM
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There being worse situations doesnt mean that their sitiation isnt a bad one. That logic makes 0 sense. People only say toward issues and problems they dont take seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 01:21 AM
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Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 12:39 AM
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But I did get it Youre response shows you dont
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 12:35 AM
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Everyone got it but you. What need to be explained lol. Not my fault you dont get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 12:29 AM
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Because everyone else already saw my original thought and so far you have done nothing to disprove it. Sure lol. Keep telling yourself that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 12:26 AM
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No one else is getting it yet youre the only one replying acting confused lol. Makes perfect sense
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 12:22 AM
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I already clarified my original point. Go reread my comment if you still cant understand it. Youre the only one that too issue with it. If everyone else gets it but you what does that tell you? Go troll someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 12:09 AM
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No you said that. You only see what you want to And you still haven’t answered why. Ironic since you havent answered on I asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 12:04 AM
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Some guys dont have a potential to hit. Thats what you arent getting. They can max out and still be below average And I agree that it isnt over for late bloomers but its clear that statement is one many people here, regardless of their pill color or dating success, disagee with
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 12:02 AM
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Hes said they have it harder because they are overweight many times
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 12:02 AM
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The equivalent would be if Automatic Meaning were to acknowledge that fat women have it much harder in dating than fit women while also not maintaining attraction to the former. What I wrote is the equivalent. And he already does that. What he does now is the same thing she did toward men. If he wrote a paragraph saying similar things to what he did no one would believe that hes being serious
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:58 PM
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They come here because they struggle not to get mocked. You know that. So they should stop coming to a sub designed for them because of what others do? Odd how you have an issue with them and not the ones who come to laugh at the pain of others. You most likely belong to the 2nd group.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:50 PM
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So if BMI guy started making posts about liking overweight women or women above his set BMI range you would expect people to take him seriously and believe that hes genuine?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:45 PM
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But if this place exists only for some to “make fun of”, and those struggling dudes know this then why are they coming? The trolling never ends lol. I literally just explained why men come here. I dont think Ive ever seen a non-disingenuous comment from you actually
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:43 PM
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How can you give her the benefit of the doubt when you dont know her history here?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:35 PM
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You are. You always are actually You know exactly what I meant. Them knowing people come here to laugh at them and enjoy their struggles is irrelvant. Those men come to speak on the subject matter of the sub. If there were no struggling men here those people who take joy out of the issues of others would not be here. So like my original point said, that is the main reason why those people come here. If you cant address this dont reply
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:32 PM
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Do you ever stop trolling? Like what do you get out of responding this way? Seriously The guys come here because the struggle and want to discuss the topic of the sub. You know exactly what I meant. When you cant address a point you sidestep and play dumb. Very weird
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:19 PM
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You must be new here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:16 PM
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Shes been dissing short men on here for a long time. Idk why people think she suddenly had a change of heart. Shes a known troll/rage baiter
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:12 PM
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Youve regularly dissed short men on here in the past with 0 issue. I dont think anyone should take what you said seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:10 PM
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That is what the sub is for and about. I dont get why you are trying to rationalize/justify the actions of those people. Maybe its because you are one of them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:01 PM
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There were many blue pillers, women, and people in relationships agreeing the comments section. The person who made was not struggling either It's only over if you have a defeatist mindset. Thats not how life works lol. Movies maybe. You had potential, reached it, then found success. It doesnt work that way for everyone. Youre speaking idealistically
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 10:54 PM
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I knew you were gonna flip it to dodge the point lol. So predictable. So the people getting ego boosts and laughs from the struggles of others are fine but the ones here struggling with dating which is what the sub is based around should leave? Makes 0 sense
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 10:52 PM
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The post was about catching up romantically and socially. It specified recent college graduates and questioned if guys like that could ever pass as normal people. The person said its close to impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 09:48 PM
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The post was talking about late bloomer young men in general not just the ones on this sub. And why is it an issue when those men say the same thing themselves? Its literally a bannable offense and people here strongly oppose it. Seems like they agree with what is said but they dont like who is saying it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 09:44 PM
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There was a post on here saying that its basically over for young men who are late bloomers and many people agreed. So its not only an opinion held by those men. Its relatively popular on this sub despite what people claim
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 09:19 PM
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Why are women in the comments disagreeing with a post advocating for communication with a partner? I dont get it at all. These are some of the same women who complain about an orgasm gap too lol. So weird
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 08:10 PM
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These comment show the mentailty most women have on this subject. They dont want to teach or communicate. These same women will complain about the orgam gap. It literally makes 0 sense
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 07:35 PM
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If the people who we are supposed to get it from openly say they see us as less than and unattractive how do you expect guys to think? They see us a beneath other men and will write us off instantly due to height
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 06:38 PM
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Most of the red pillers here are old af. No one believes or watches that bs anymore. You really think anyone gets an ego boost from this? Yes. Many come here too look down on men they think are beneath them and for entertainment. This has been admitted many times before by people on here
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 06:33 PM
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They say stuff like that because they assign negative traits to tall men just for existing and negative ones to short men. They know that being short is a very negative trait for men to have and will insult men for it will yet turn around and blame all struggles short men struggles on insecurity not on our actual height. It makes 0 sense. Some of the most popular content on tiktok is dissing short men and people are still in denial of its impact. Thats why I dont even talk about it anymore. Most…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 06:28 PM
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The sub exists for pilled discussion. If there werent struggling young men and all the guys had dating success the majority of blue pillers and people like you would be gone. There would be no one to laugh at and get and ego boost from
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 06:27 PM
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Most dont actually care. The election showed that. If you disagree with them they become just as bad as the people they claim to be nothing like. I seen some threatening to deport other and straight up racism
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 06:12 PM
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A lot of yall get joy out of it and its the reason why yall are here. If this sub wasnt full of struggling men none of the people he mentioned would be here. Its the main reason why they come
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 06:08 PM
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Most people think its a "personality issue" and do not think its an actual issue dating wise or in any other area of life
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 06:04 PM
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But you are deserving of love. The majority of women disagree with this. We are instantly unattractive to most of them and many assign negative traits to us based on our height alone. A lot in my generation hate short men and praise tall men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 06:03 PM
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Shes probably lying and is a known troll. Shes taken shots at short men multiple times on here. She said before that she could never date a short guy again after dating a tall one
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 05:57 PM
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People regularly disagree with those statements stop lying Really dont think what I said is that controversial to the average layman That changes nothing. Most people agreeing with something doesnt mean its correct
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 06:12 AM
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He 100% is. One of the weirdest ones on here
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 05:33 AM
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When did I say that was ok? No sane person thinks that way. And none of that excuses what you wrote so idek why you brought that up
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 05:29 AM
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Disgusting comment. Not true at all
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 05:15 AM
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The only form of unconditional love that exist are from parent to child and from man to man think about it Neither part of this is true lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 11:49 PM
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Plus, you can reject someone for being physically unattractive and still be kind about their body. I think muscly guys are ugly, but I wouldn't shame them for it. There are other groups women have 0 issue shaming. And a lot of body positive people only support it for the group they are apart of. They have 0 issue with the shaming of others and may even take part in it themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 11:46 PM
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Ive heard that before but I dont really get it. Because why would they expect the guy to do start doing something he has never done in the past? Ive seen men and women with this mentality and I never understood it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:50 PM
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I agree 100% lol. Them coming here regularly despite being in relationships or dating says a lot. There are no normies on this sub. If they were men and struggled most would be just like the guys on here. Most guys would have a relationship too if they were women. Even the most disrepsectful and weird women on this sub have dated, are dating, or are married
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:13 PM
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I dont think most really care about that stuff. Because if they care that much they would have vetted for it My cousins husband cant cook anything, which she knew from the start and even joked about it, and now she often gets upset or irritated at having to do all the cooking. I dont think stuff like that is truly valued in men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:55 PM
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Yeah, I’m not saying it’s not harder — I’m sure it’s *much* harder. It’s just that if you’re short, you’re going to have to lookmaxx, learn exceptional game, and/or compensate in other ways. Also, you’ll probably need to ask out a lot more women before you “just get lucky” and have one that says yes. It’s not “over.” Looksmaxxing as a short man only puts us above other short men in the eyes of most women. We will still be non-options to many and seen as less atttactive than taller men who put in…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:13 AM
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Its not impossible to date if you are short but it is way harder and outliers do exist. If hes ugly and short then chances are that he is one of them and just got lucky. Cases like his getting propped up proves that it isnt a common thing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:51 AM
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Where did this even come from lol. Hes not even short
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:49 AM
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100% true. Thats the reason why most come here. If there was no rage bait, all the posts were high effort, and the mods cracked down on disingenuous replies this sub would become a ghost town. They dont really want stats or data either because they will dismiss them if they go against what they think is true. Like you said they love the ones they claim to hate and come here to interact and argue with them. This isnt really a debate sub
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 10:14 PM
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This exposed a lot to me. Nerdy, unkept, and disheveled white men dating attractive black women who fixed them up. Black men like that are invisible to women in general, let alone black women. The bar to be attractive as a white man is non-existent
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 04:57 PM
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People just like pushing narratives. They will look for stuff that confirms their beliefs and not seek after the things that challenge it. All the data shows that what people say on that topic is false yet people will never stop running with it. They have to hyper focus on a few athletes to prove a point because the vast majority of black men are with black women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 04:48 PM
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Black men are not "called out" on this sub I literally just said to leave this niche sub to see what I was talking about On the most recent looks post, there was a guy who helpfully broke down for me how there's a historical record of countries paying more light-skinned female slaves, which is obviously evidence that they're universally more attractive than us lowly dark-skinned negresses. This was in response to a comment I made about hair color, texture, and eye color Then not even a couple da…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 04:40 PM
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What does that say about black men? Guess they're all thugs People already think that. We are seen as a monolith
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 04:24 PM
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Weird af
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 04:23 PM
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I see tons of problems in that same group of black men but no one wants to talk about that, everyone just wants to talk about how awful black women are because it's the one group everyone can agreed on should be shat on You see what you want to see then. Black men always get called out. Especially on this app. Leave this niche sub and then youll see. We are even hated on the black ladies sub. The black men sub does nothing but support women though. I find that funny. There ares subs on here dedi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 04:22 PM
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Yall love throwing autistic around. Weird af
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 04:12 PM
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What is it about?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 06:00 AM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 02:44 AM
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Im already getting downvoted for that comment lol. Not too suprising. I never really cared about the pills tbh. None of them ever seemed relevant to me. I just focused on looking better
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 01:14 AM
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more men than women are open to something casual or more willing to tell people they want something serious but really don’t. Many men don’t mind being single at all if they have some kind of attention coming in. Men don’t rush to find love or get a relationship if they aren’t desperate 🤣🤣not saying that all men in a relationship are desperate buttttt a lot of guys choose the route of getting into a relationship for sex. Most men dont have some kind of attention coming. They arent staying single…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 11:39 PM
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A bunch here think that only very attractive women can act negatively or give a guy bad experiences. Its funny because when some men here say the same about attractive men women strongly deny it. It makes 0 sense
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 11:29 PM
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Most women are not dating that type of man and women say themselves that most men are ugly/unattractive. The majority of young men are also single. Idk what this is supposed to prove
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 11:25 PM
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Im black and I know. The range of acceptable masculinity for black men is very narrow. If you got too far outside of the norm people will start calling you gay, corny, or lame. The range for other groups is much wider. Most people on this sub are white so I dont expect them to get it or care
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 11:19 PM
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How is this being a victim? Im just proving my claim
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:34 PM
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Most men cannot elicit attraction from a broad audience and traits women find attractive are not common. Thats a fact lol. Despite both of those being true a 4 or 5 can be attractive to someone. I dont see how any of that is contradictory. I wasnt talking in absolutes Idk who them is
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:05 PM
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100% true but its hard for most of them to admit this. A lot of them really believe that they are better people or more moral because they are dating or have dating success If you tell us life is unfair then mean it. Many of them dont mean it. Same goes for redpillers. They will say life isnt fair then turn around and say that effort equals success. They jump back and forth between the two as if they arent contradictory. Thats why I dont take the majority of them seriously. Most are just contrar…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 06:51 PM
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Its not. I said I understand where those men are coming from. Not that I agree with them
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 06:46 PM
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They arent. They average age gap is 2 years. Younger women regularly say that they dont want older men. Lesbian and Bi women are a minority too so that isnt who most are with either
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 06:21 PM
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Crudely put, sub8 or death is a very common sentiment here I feel, and it doesn't simply intend to mean the abudance but rather the chance of ever finding someone. Women say that most men are unattractive/ugly. And its clear that the physical traits women find attractive in men are not common so I get where those people come from Well yes there's a point where no matter how appealing your behavior is, you won't be able to elicit attraction, at least from a very broad audience. Most men are at th…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 06:17 PM
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Its literally used as an insult and is another way of calling men gay or gay adjacent. This is very prevelant across social media. Here is an example of women talking about it: https://np.reddit.com/r/blackladies/s/eNgnxOKh3U Ive seen every group of women do it. This is just a recent post on it I found Youll downvote but wont reply. Weird lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:11 PM
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A bunch of women call men straight men gay or sassy for acting the exact same way. They are no different I actually find it interesting how gay/bi men will rarely call out women for homophobia or biphobia yet when the same is done by men they jump on it right away. I wonder what the rationalization is behind that because to me it makes 0 sense
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:09 PM
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The two men encouraging this arent virgins. Idk why thats the default insult
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:51 AM
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Youre lame af. Odd that mods dont care either. How is trolling a person in this state of mind ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:45 AM
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The person is a woman larping. Its clear as day lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:36 AM
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The mindset that is hateful and angry and that makes you so bitter that until all of the Stacy’s fall in line and love you, you’ll just complain on the internet that no one wants you and what an oppression it is against you. Im not hateful or angry lol. Dont know where that came from. Idk why you are projecting onto me. I never said anything about a stacy. Dont know why you are making stuff up. Are these high standards: https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/De7Onkg5du You must have me mixed…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 04:15 AM
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What mindset lol. You literally just generalized short men and propped up tall ones. You were aware of what you wrote because you typed it out with that intent. That was the subject of the 1st part I highlighted It absolutely is your mindset. Look at everything you just accused me of simply because I said it isn’t a lost cause and who cares about the women who will reject you for your height, when you can focus on women who won’t? But that’s not good enough is it. Until women prefer short men, Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 03:43 AM
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but if you read most posts here, a lot seem to be lining up with essential romantic life belonging exclusively to those who are 8+. What do you mean by this? I like supposing the best intentions from people and think they actually mean someone with low "popularity score" in terms of physical attractiveness (that's what I was referring to). It would be very interesting to witness a case of someone feeling disgust towards one other claim they fell in love with their personality. I think they mean …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 03:18 AM
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I agree. Its never been about rarity. The actual answer is well known but people hate admitting it. The rationalizations they make are funny though
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 03:03 AM
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Its not only reserved for people in the top attractiveness. A 5 or a 4 or lower can still be attractive to someone. But some people on here act like they would date someone they think is physically unattractive because of personality. And that I disagree with. I dont think popular opinion plays much of a role here
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 03:03 AM
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Why do men feel the need to lie about those trait to begin with? The reasoning behind the lies is the main source of insecurity. Not other men lying
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 07:06 PM
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Its your attraction not female attraction in general. And just as many disagree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:52 PM
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Yes it is. The app is literally forcing her to swipe. It's the same thing as going up to a girl at a bar, telling her nothing about you except your age, and giving her the ultimatum "Accept me or Reject Me". No it isnt. She consented to being shown those men when she signed up for the apps. Its literally what they join to do. There is 0 forcing there Except a lot of guys literally don't have a convo. They throw one lazy compliment out they're ("you're beautiful") and expect her to give her numbe…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:48 PM
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You said female attraction. You never specified that you were talking about yourself. Her post only applies to me who are already attractive to women. I just conversed with her about this
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:21 PM
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This has happened to me before lol. Idk if the mod was redpilled though
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:18 PM
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Smh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:16 PM
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How it works to you is not how it works to women in general. If I said that I value personality over looks so most men also value the same would you believe that most men think that way? I highly doubt it Again, some men (a rare few) are noticeably and immediately attractive. The majority of men who I’ve ultimately been attracted to were only attractive to me once I had an idea what they were like as people. To me, not being attracted to someone is not the same as me thinking someone is ugly. Al…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:12 PM
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The problem most men make is forcing a decision point on her end before building any kind of spark. That's essentially what online dating is and why it's so shitty. Using online dating is forcing women to do anything. They swipe left on men they arent into without any second thought A guy will see a girl he thinks is "hot", introduce himself, and ask her out. She's not going to feel spark from an introduction. By asking her out, he's forcing a decision. She's going to default to no because the r…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:08 PM
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Again, I do notice some men as being attractive, but they have to be exceptionally good looking. Did you have to learn about their personality traits for you to come to this conclusion? I highly doubt it Which I think is why you’re finding that dating apps aren’t great for “average” guys. Idk if there’s any data that says that women think most men are ugly. That is the reason why dating apps dont work for average guys. A post on this sub exposed this. Women think average men are ugly. Ask women …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:05 PM
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It is that most men are ugly to them. You can find posts all over this app and social media. There is also a post on this sub where women admit that they rarely see men who are good looking to them. Noticing that someone is attractive is a reaction. It doesnt take getting to know someone for that to trigger. If that was true women would never swipe on apps or find any good looking guys attractive until they talk with them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:56 PM
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Ive seen many women say the same. Im not retarded but ok The point is to find someone whose baseline litmus, you meet. Thats literally the hardest thing for men to do
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:52 PM
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Because women themselves say that physical attraction is non-negotiable. An ugly funny guy is not becoming more physically attractive to woman. In fact I seen a study that said women thought better looking men were funnier
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:35 PM
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Between two avg looking joes, the one with the aura will score more. Between avg looking joe and model looking chad who both have bomb aura, Chad will score more. I agree. I assume by aura you mean presentation based on the pictures you showed Between avg looking joes with bomb aura and model looking aspie-esque Chad, it’s a toss up! The Chad might initially attract women into his orbit more, but swaggy Joe might get the girls hooked more. I disagee lol. The halo effect is too strong. Him having…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:21 PM
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I never disagreed about top tier men and aura. Im talking about regular guys. If I had a professional pic like the one you linked I would still be considered aura-less and unattractive. You should have made your post about attractive and top tier men only then. Because all else is rarely ever equal normally. If you are only talking about men who already pass the looks threshold then I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:03 PM
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It's simply a fact. If you or anyone else had difficulty forming relationships in adolescence (implied by your stance) Where did I imply this lol the largest deciding factor of that would be poor social skills (potential lack of hygiene among other things), low self-esteem, and societal norms which would make the "nerd" think he deserves the "popular it girl" who he has nothing in common with and would have a horrible relationship with all while he ignores his equivalent the female "nerd". None …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:51 PM
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The halo effect lol. I dont know why people deny that it exists
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:44 PM
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Where I’m disagreeing with you is here: 1) the looks threshold for a woman to be aroused by you’d sexually isn’t as high as many guys here believe It is. How can you say that if women consider most men below it? Its clearly set above average and thats being generous 2) the “instant” female arousal trigger you’re thinking of was more aura based than not. Aura is just looks and/or status. Basically the halo effect. Ive never in my life seen a woman say a regular looking non-famous or non-popular g…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:43 PM
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Well for most women most men are put into the worst looking category. Many say themselves that most men are unattractive/ugly. Thats a no not a maybe. And most women are not getting with a guy they feel "maybe" about lookswise. He has to be physically attractive to them. And those best looking guys put into the yes category is probably the same for other women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:38 PM
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A lot of them are out of touch and have no connection to current dating for younger generations. Either they are projecting their own experiences or shitting on the younger guys for struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:34 PM
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There are women who have it triggered by guys they have never met before or interacted with. Apps also show this to be true also. Women claim they cant judge attractiveness from 2d pictures yet have 0 issue selecting the top 5% or so guys on apps. Its very hard to believe You saying that the guys looked cute supports what I am saying. If he isnt already attractive to the woman nothing else matters and no spark will be made. Most guys are ugly/unattractive to women so that explains a lot. Its cle…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:32 PM
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They still had the option to say no to the relationship. Its not blame its a fact. Personally attacking me isnt changing that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:29 PM
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Thats from 7 years ago. Fat women have more dating success than average men. This isnt a thing any more
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:20 PM
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Exactly. I do not understand what so many deny this. Everyone wants to be with someone they are physically attracted to. Thats required in a relationship. Everything else is optional
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:17 PM
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Most men dont pass the physical looks threshold. And there are men who trigger it instantly
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:16 PM
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Yes it is. Its more important that almost anything actually. There are many examples of this
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:09 PM
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Those women chose to date those men. There were probably guys in their age group who wanted them and they turned them down. This happens at every level of schooling. Underclassmen girls in HS dating seniors or older and underclass men women in college dating seniors or older
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:07 PM
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Exactly lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:02 PM
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Those men are assume to be more masculine by default though
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:01 PM
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If the guy is ugly his personality wont matter. Like people say on here looks gets you in the door but personality keeps you there. If you dont have the looks no door is opening
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:00 PM
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Its not complicated at all. Women paint it that way to seem more virtuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:59 PM
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There is no grey area. Its either a yes or a no. Either he is attractive or he isnt
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:58 PM
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If he doesnt have looks the door never opens. Most women see most men as unattractive so what do you think that means? Spark equals phsyical attraction. A woman will assign tons of positive traits to a man based on how he looks alone
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:56 PM
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They will never honestly answer
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:55 PM
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Having a face good enough to compensate for being short is extremely rare. Its not even worth talking about. So among regular men height comes 1st
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:51 PM
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I never said approaching and Women regularly show interest in guys The post was about approaching a woman. Some degenerate Women do what you were describing and some degenerate Men do what I was describing. They're both different expressions of the same behaviour Guys arent laughing at a women who approaches them. It rarely even happens so most would be receptive to it. Youre projecting There's even that pull a pig joke. Where a group of guys will challenge 1 to fuck a fat chick as a joke Never …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:45 PM
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They love guys that say all the right things though
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:39 PM
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Its not complex at all
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:38 PM
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Guys do the same shit. If a fat chick shows interest in a guy when he's with his friends there'll be a running joke about it What type of men are women openly showing interest in and approaching? And no this doesnt happen
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:36 PM
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Disadvantage sure but not the end all be all. And I think the mindset that you are essentially doomed will hurt you more than your actual height. Take it from someone who dates short and tall men. The difference is the confidence, not how attractive I found them. Short men will fight me for some perceived slight that I didn’t know I was doing. Tall men don’t do that. It’s okay to be insecure. But don’t take it out on other people. That’s all, find your people and you’ll be fine. My mindset is do…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:32 PM
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It happened all the time. I dont see that being a thing that continues. An inch or 2 sure but below that I highly doubt it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 04:43 PM
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They are
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 04:39 PM
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So when those women get older and ready to settle down they will lower their height standards? Sounds like Ill just end up being tolerated/put up with or settled for. Thats a nightmare And I find it hard to believe women in my age group would do that. Social media has ingrained into them that tall = good and short = bad. They would rather be single than do that This type of content goes viral daily with 100k to 1 million plus likes and gets 0 pushback. There are like 20 videos there. They wont c…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 08:39 AM
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My partner is 5’6” and I’m taller. I promise I’m not some special snowflake. Lots of women don’t take height that seriously, especially one that will still be at or slightly above most women. You are an outlier. The majority of women would not do what you did. I know those posts exist. And I could link a ton about huge boobs. There are women who like short men. Maybe don’t fetishize it the way boobs can be, but not some huge issue. Yet a bunch of women fetishize tall men. And for men its a prefe…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 08:35 AM
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Its not controversial at all on this sub. There are many posts of women agreeing and labeling out reasons as to why those men are repulsive romantically. Its a common insult used here too
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:29 AM
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Hard but not impossible. I know looking at the hottest and most confident around you can taint your worldview - but most people struggle with dating. I know its not impossible. And Im not looking at the hottest people though. I can look at an average guy and it will be clear where I am lacking. Im clearly below average because of height. If I was at least average height I would not think this way Dating is hard to begin with. Everyone is too short or too fat or too boring or too whatever for som…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:24 AM
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I'm curious what you look like tho, cause every person on here claims they're so unattractive but when I they send a pic they are average or slightly below with room for improvement. Im black, 5'6, have clear skin, I have a low taper and my hairs low at the moment. Im fit/lean but Im trying to gain weight. Im average facially at best
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:11 AM
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Because in my age group that line of thinking is very common. Finding a girl like that would be extremely hard to do. I would have to get lucky tbh. And like I said even among the women who say they dont care a taller man will still get chosen in most cases. Yes but you have to filter that 1% for women in my age group, women who live in my state/city, and women who think that I am attractive enough for them to date. The amount would drop dramatically after that. I think only a few women marry me…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 04:31 AM
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I think most are attracted to other women to some degree. And its pretty acceptable in the US. I think I seen something that said around 30% of them identify as lgbtq
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 02:14 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 01:48 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 01:44 AM
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Obviously they will make an exception for one inch but further below the range is often an instant no. Idk how old you are but women in my age group value it a lot and portray it as an undefeatable barrier.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 12:28 AM
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Im already in great shape. Idk how old you are but girls my age do not want to be approahed by unattractive men. Im not asocial either. All you did was work on your looks. Did you lead with money? No not being desperate, extroverts naturally go up to people and talk to them just to talk because they naturally enjoy that. If it leads to anything it depends but at least that door is now open or an opportunity. Ive seen this play out with other friends irl. For non extroverts it may seem like despe…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 10:23 PM
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Women are evaluating potential partners in a holistic way, and although a preference for height definitely exists, height as a hard dealbreaker certainly doesn’t. A 5’10” man who is desirable in a variety of other ways can compete just fine with an average 6’ man. A 5’4” man is going to have to compete more but it’s not this absolute deathblow that people describe it as. Most women have a height that they would not date below. So a hard deal breaker does exist. A 5'10 man would have 0 height rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 09:48 PM
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Every knows that we have to put in more effort. The issue is that the effort it only putting us ahead of other men in our category. Not ahead of men who were already seen as better than us by default. So what is it really doing if most women would never date a man in the 1st category regardless of what he does? Your appeal only raises slightly to the women who would consider you an option and those same women also consider taller man an option and they are more preferrable. So what chance do the…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 07:18 PM
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The mods took it down for no reason lol. It exposed a lot to me and is why I no longer believe women when they talk about how hard apps are for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 06:55 PM
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That's understandable, but I just don't want to hear "Im (short/bald/unattractive/whatever) so it's impossible for me to have sex". It's very much possible but like you said most men don't want to try. Looks do play a role I won't ever deny that but if you go up to a girl and she can tell you're not confident in yourself, that will shoot you in the foot just as much if not more. My friend is not the only one, I've seen other fat funny dudes on social media with attractive women because they know…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 06:36 PM
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Yes. But he still has 0 reason to be sure about himself regarding women. Your friend is delsuional and is an extreme outlier. You can use him to make a case for what other men should do. The vast majority will cannot develop, will not develop, and do not have that mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 06:16 PM
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They can be well in other areas and still get looked over for a taller man who as put in significantly less effort. Most women also have a height in mind that they would not date below
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 05:16 PM
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A women not caring about it doesnt mean she would date a short man. More often than not they still get with tall or average height men as they are open to every height so those 2 groups would still have an advantage over us. The phrase "I dont care about height just be taller than me" is a thing for a reason. In most cases it isnt true anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 05:14 PM
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Why wouldnt a man with his stats be unsure of himself? Hes objectively unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 04:59 PM
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Wow
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 03:28 AM
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Ngl youre actually funny lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 03:27 AM
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Brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 03:27 AM
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Exactly. For some men its not possible to change to the things women find attractive. Only a tiny amount of women truly like short men. People on this sub will tell you to ignore it and act like it isnt a disadvantage
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 07:56 PM
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No it’s because we have eyes and we see the specific type of women that get the attention from guys. Guys have a very skewed sense of beauty. Any women can get attention from men so that proves nothing. Women are the one with skewed senses. How it is possible that most men are ugly/unattractive when most are average? That alone shows what I am talking about Women put more effort into their appearance like invest in their hair, skin, body care, clothes, etc, but men can literally do the same. It …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:14 PM
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There is one, he's social and highly confident. Women are attracted to that. Hes very physically unatrractive though. Which is key part to romantic and sexual interactions with women It really is. Thinking back at all of the missed opportunities or times I fumbled, it was always due to poor social skills relative to others. I was always the quiet guy and nervous to go up to talk to people. When I did it was forced, and forcing it makes it awkward. I wholeheartedly believe that if you're a natura…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:03 PM
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So not all men but all women? This is why I have a hard time taking your arguments seriously because you have double standards. Only some men do this but all women do that. Oh, and a lot of men do care because it is enough to cause the game industry to suffer because they are catering to the woke instead of giving what men want which is beautiful and sexy women and the east is filling in that void because they have no woke culture like the west. I agree that even women like attractive female cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 04:56 PM
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They’re simply not as I said don’t let their desperation fool you. Men have insanely high beauty standards, that’s why they’re called visual creatures. This is 100% projection lol. Some women really cannot believe that men prefer thing out of the norm because they rarely do themselves. It is way easier for a woman to be considered attractive than it is for a man to be seen as attractive. Women also say that most men are unattractive/ugly Yet I see plenty of fat and short men in relationships so …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 04:40 PM
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They’re not. They’re accepting of height so I’ll give you that, but other than that they find the same type of women attractive. Look at the women who get the most attention from men on social media. They look the same. They are more accepting of almost every trait out side of beauty standards than women are. Like I said there are a bunch of guys into fat women, rail thin women, tall women, and I can go on and on. There are very few women into fat men or short men. The point is it’s more likely …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 03:55 PM
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Probably the same as men attracted to women. As I said men play a numbers game so that gives the illusion of men being more accepting of women. They’re not, they’re just more desperate. Men would swipe on a single digit of women if they could, they just don’t because they can’t afford to. Nah its way less. Men are more accepting of women. There are a bunch of men genuinely into almost any body type a woman can have. The same cant be said for womwn Yea sorry but we don’t know their intentions. If…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 07:27 AM
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I think most women have a height cutoff. Like one that they wouldnt date below
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:23 AM
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Not suprising. There was a study that said womens self-percieved attractiveness amplified their preferences for taller men. The funny thing is that there the comparison to overweight women isnt the same at all. There are a bunch of men into those women. The same cant be said for short men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:21 AM
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Its not the same at all. You should be asking how much men is she attracted to. Women swipe on a single digit percent of men on apps because they think most men are unattactive A deleted post on here showed how easy it was for an average looking women to get dates with average looking men who were kind, had good profiles, and were good at conversation. I think the experiment had 7 or more dates set up in 1 day. The only rebuttal the women on this sub had was that the men were ugly and that it wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 04:19 AM
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How is it different from men talking about the game industry being ruined because the female main character are being wokefied and avoiding conventionally attractive women? Men and women have preferences on what they considered as attractive but you acknowledge that men can make exceptions because you yourself as a man understand other men. Can you say the same about understanding women instead of projecting your own assumptions on them? Thats a chronically online thing. Most men dont care about…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 04:10 AM
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And be physically attractive. Thats more important than both things you mentioned. Youre also a woman. I dont think even you know how hard it is to get a match
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 03:43 AM
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Ive reported some women and nothing happened. I do think women report more though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 01:43 AM
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They are biased
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 01:43 AM
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I dont think a good amount of them truly prefer local brands. Thats just what they end up with because of proximity. If they had the option its not what they would pick. Its lack of opportunity not a lack of desire Those brands do have a wider appeal like you said but their designs arent necessarily better. The same design can be made 2 different brands and 1 will be valued more than another. That brand can also get away with shittier designs than others
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 01:40 AM
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The brand determines how the design is percieved
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 11:37 PM
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Its also weird how they are so rare yet so many woman have experiences with them. It makes 0 sense to me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 08:29 PM
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How do you know that? Are you searching kinks and fetishes aimed for woman as a man? Did you ask actual woman about it? Or was it other men telling you what women supposed to like? Why are you asking these disingenuous questions? You can look up right now on reddit and see women talking about height differences in romance books. Why would a man tell me that? Yet, you argued made up characters in romance novel are always tall men. So does this count as well as a fictional character showing women …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 08:06 PM
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Sorry to hear that. Ill pray for you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:03 PM
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Attraction is based on genetic and immune system compatibility and emotional compatibility. The first two are determined by visual health/fertility markers, shared traits (race/etc.), body odor, and kissing to exchange saliva. Thats my point though. If my immutable traits are not good enough how am I supposed to feel about that? If an attraction is one-sided then 99% of the time it’s still just an incompatibility from that person based on their genetic makeup. It is what it is and just nature, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 03:47 PM
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Lol guess you ignored the parts where I stated I know him and some of the girls he messed with personally. I was cool with his ex girl. There was one girl I messed with after he did, he showed me a pic of her tits before I even seen em and yeah they matched. I didnt ignore it he just seems like they type to lie about it. Like he has 0 positive traits. If you described him the way you did and said he never touched a woman in his life it wouldnt be hard to believe I'm black, as is he. Neither of u…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 03:34 PM
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Yes I believe him. I've known this guy for years. He sends me pics of the girls (some nudes as well) and text messages between them. A couple of the girls I know. He is also upfront about when he takes Ls, like this one single mom he's telling me about that he's been tyring to fuck for a while, even spends the night at his place sometimes but she hasn't let him hit. So I don't think he's the type to lie on his dick. You dont think an obese, balding, ugly guy is the type to lie about that? Id exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 09:34 AM
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I mean according to studies, average guys marrying have got the same average height or at max 2 inches more height as the average male height of the country and similar in the women as well What does that prove? Most common doesnt mean most desired https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886913000020 women are most satisfied when their partner was 21 cm taller, Thats 8 inches taller "The average height difference between men and women in the U.S is about 6 inches. With the nor…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 08:48 AM
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I didn't say anything about it being men exclusive. I was obviously including women with it. You say like any media that caters for men does not involve super attractive and busty woman. Have you seen most of the female protagonists in video games? The majority of it are women that are sexy and busty with beautiful face. So why are tall men not allowed for women's fantasy? Where did I say that it wasnt allowed? I was pointing out how media for woman has the exact same type of man. Yes it is simi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 08:36 AM
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Thats what Im getting at though. If I am no womans preference/type based on the ones I have attempted to talk to how can I not internalize that? Im clearly not good enough
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 07:59 AM
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Anecdotally I have a homeboy that is 5'6, obese, receding hairline, but just told me about some chick he had over that he fucked and made him breakfast just 4 days ago. And he still talks to his ex at the same time. You believe him? Thats sounds rediculous the way you described him What do you look like and what type of women are you going for? Im 5'6, fit/lean, black, l have clear skin, and a good haircut. I go for black and latina women as I live in a black/hispanic area. I do prefer black wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 07:47 AM
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Have you considered the fact men are more likely to express their kinks and fetishes compared to women? Do you accept the fact porn for men is much more visible than porn for women? So how can you say with certainty that these kind of women do not exist? Why is it that the term fetish is only used for preferences men have? Why do people deny that men can be genuinely into certain traits? Yea porn for men is more visual but you bringing that up supports what I am saying. Womens romance/sex books …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:38 AM
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Its literally an advantage. Thats not blackpilled its a fact
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:25 AM
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They are a bit nicer and easier to talk to imo
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:24 AM
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This is my whole point. They seem invisible because most women (and men) overlook average for the top percent. Average women arent getting overlooked though However in reality it doesn't matter because average is what most people can pull anyway. So you got these guys who count themselves out and not try, and say it's because of their looks. Real problem is that they are so reserved that they can't stand out like a naturally tall and good looking guy. Doesn't mean they're ugly, they just don't p…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:23 AM
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Yea but neutral/average isnt really seen as attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:22 AM
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So you would be with or have sex with an unattractive guy whose personality you like and makes you feel safe? Wouldnt his lack of looks be a turn off?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:21 AM
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Not being ugly doesnt mean they are attractive though. I agree that the context does matter
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 03:22 AM
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Atelier Reyza
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 03:18 AM
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"by the people they want to be seen by" <--- this is key. Also for the most part the issue isn't that these guys are hideously unattractive, I've seen some of these incels and they are average looking. The issue is that they are in their heads, socially awkward/weird, and/or extra shy/introverted. This is what kills them the most, not their looks. Possibly. Someone not being unattractive doesnt mean they are attractive though. Average isnt really what women are looking for. Even if they have dec…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 03:18 AM
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The women are seen and maybe even have bfs or have dated in the past. So its possible they were desired at one point. They just want to meet a standard that they deem to be most attractive. A lot of their standards are made by other women. For example I dont even know what hip dips are I think the men just want to be seen as attractive in general in order to get desired. Like I dont think there is a male version of hip dips
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 02:29 AM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 02:04 AM
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Ok I get that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:54 AM
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If the flaw is seen as a negative trait and does have an impact on things is it really dysmorphia? Like some of the stuff is rationally thought through
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:49 AM
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I dont think its the same tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:44 AM
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Thats insecurity not dysmorphia
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:41 AM
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According to who? Other men? How do you explain the fact fanservice targeting men involves slim and busty women? How does it make sense you would trust a man to know the preferences of women than women knowing their own preferences? Youre proving my point. There are things like that made for every body type of women. Go on twitter, tiktok, or any other major social media site. There is literally 0 made for short men. There are subs on here for every body type a woman can have It's as controversi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:41 AM
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Many people say this but do not like it if the rational/realistic conclusion you come to is that you will struggle/have it harder due to traits out of your control. I dont see how that gets rid of low self esteem. Even though its 100% logical they will call that line of thought delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:31 AM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:12 AM
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I dont even think women really care about it in rap. Many love rap music
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 12:38 AM
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Both are delusional and irrational. Yes a guy can struggle but that doesnt mean that he will never attract a partner. The vast majority of men cannot have any women they want. Both are baseless.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 12:36 AM
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How would you know this? You know men preferences as a man yourself but not women. You know women preferences from the vocal few and assume this is norm. What if I tell you woman assume men liking women with smaller boobs is as rare as you thinking women that likes short men which explains big boobs when it comes to fanservice? There is a knowledge gap between the two gender and filled in by extreme perception of the vocal minority. Are you serious? Men like a wider range of traits on women than…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 12:34 AM
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Then we aren't far off from one another and yet I am defiant from the expectations I need to be taller than a woman or a woman wouldn't date anyone below a certain height. It's about not trying to fit into expectations of some vocal minority because it's simply accepting the fact that humanity has diverse tastes. Just as there are men that likes smaller boobs despite the fact most men in general like it big, there are women that likes men within their own height or even shorter even if we are to…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 10:34 PM
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The do date men but those men are also hot. They think average men are ugly and swipe on 5% of men which shows how selective they are when they can pick any guy they want. No woman thinks shes dating out of her league. At least the guys who do admit it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 10:26 PM
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What is the average height? I am around 5'7 and I am confident with women even if I see myself as average because I know my capabilities and limitations. An average face does not catch attention but a compatible personality does. An average face does not repulse anyone so having romantic relationship with one is possible with the help of compatible personality. Comparing yourself with others is why people end up being insecure. Average height is 5'9 and Im 5'6. My life experiences and what I hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 09:58 PM
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Well then what can i tell, there are ugly or mid guys with attractive girls here. Maybe your place is different. How is above average salary minority lol, any guy that is having a normal office job will get that much in he's 30s. Average salary is around 60,000 from what I have seen. Thats not impressive to women. Making money outside of the average range is above averags. I rarely see hot girls with average/ugly men where Im at They just want a guy that's taller than them. Maybe not two or thre…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 09:54 PM
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How would you know it is the average? When people convinces you that the average is a super model, then you would obviously see yourself as ugly as an average. Besides, the point is about not comparing yourself to anyone in the first place. The average height is well known and I am below that. An average face is neutral and doesnt register negatively. I am average at best in the face. Everyone compares themselves to others Women are attracted to interesting men with at least average looks. If yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 09:33 PM
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That's because I was there many years ago. I genuinely believed I was ugly until I realized that I am just comparing myself with others. Once I accept I am myself I begin to see I have what it takes to attract another which resulted with me having my first relationship. It failed because I was too immature to properly care for a partner back then but it's proof that I am at the very least average looking and some would find me attractive. I am comparing myself to the average and not to good look…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 08:33 PM
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Do you know what an aura is? Yes objectively an ugly guy face is going to stay ugly, but with style. Good clothes, shaving he's face. Looking fit and cologne it's going to feel good to be around him Constrast that with a guy whose cute but smells bad and is wearing bad clothes. Who do you think people will interact with more? Never seen aura used on a guy who was ugly or wasnt famous/has status. Its just looks + fame Women are pickong the cute guy and will try to fix him up Bruh having more mone…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 08:10 PM
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He probably comparing himself to the average looking guy. If you look worse than that then yes you are ugly. If you have traits that are below average then thats what you are. I dont get why people on this sub act like guys are exaggerating how they look. We have no reason to lie Most people have average personalities and arent charismatic at all. They arent common. Someone cant snap their fingers and wake up one day like that. Its way harder to do than redditors make it seem
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 07:15 PM
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The solution they give on here is to be delusional and act like all the glaring physical flaws or disadvantages you have dont exist. It makes 0 sense. And on this sub that statement comes from people who blatantly try to downplay advantages they have to prove points. Its so weird
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 07:08 PM
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Yea but the guy is getting rejected regardless. Idk how people expect us not to take it personally. I feel like if I or the guy in general was better she would be into him. If she isnt single or gay I mean I know she doesnt know me. That just means that the traits I have or the ones that are immediately visible, the unchageable ones, werent good enough for her
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 07:01 PM
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Nice style does make an average guy decent looking and an ugly guy somewhat average. It literally increases your status up especially if you interact with people irl. Having a good cologne does have an effect, along with nicely ironed and fresh clothes. This is constrast to bad clothes and bad smelling. Its not making the guys you mentioned decent looking or average looking. His face will still be the same and women will still see him as ugly. Bad clothing can make a guy look worse but good clot…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 06:50 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 06:39 PM
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Men dont make friends with women based on how they look. There are unattractive women with male friends
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 06:38 PM
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They do. Ive never seen a guy refer to a woman as an NPC or get mad at a woman friend liking them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 06:36 PM
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If men put effort atleast they would be more attractive than what they do that is not washing their undies, not wearing nice clothes and smelling bad. Most men do not stink and most men have average style just like most women do. Nice style isnt making an ugly guy good looking And by famous I meant rich too, we always hear men leaving their hard and honest wife for a younger attractive girl. And while everyone cannot be famous, one can amass a lot of wealth as they older The majority of men aren…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 06:18 PM
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Not that, Gen Z is having less s x because they are more introverted than the previous generations along with risks of hooking up is more prevalent with internet That is true I guess I know guys go after their age range irl as well, but some of them when very famous go for younger. But hardly guys go after older women like in the internet, heck even you proved it that younger women are just a trend not accurate reality Very famous men are a tiny minority and doesnt really show much about average…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:34 PM
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They may be having less sex for the reasons listed by the original commenter. Not enough guys worth taking the risks for like she said. Guys go after women in their age range IRL. The obsession with younger women is an online thing. The average age gap is like 2 years And if a guy said what she said many women would disagree and say they are lying. Women see most men as ugly and only swipe on like 5% of guys on apps. Most young men are also single while most younf women arent. The line of thinki…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:25 PM
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Why do you think so many women agreed with her? You dont think its true for young women in gen-z? And if the conditions listed above are met I think many would want it. But since they are so rare they dont do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 02:23 PM
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Ok no problem. Happy holidays
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 06:55 AM
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But you know this isn’t personal or any judgment call. So long as people are treated well or at least politely unnoticed, we are all on the same plane Yea I know. There is no negative intent behind it We’ve talked about this and you’ve always been so in tune. Remarkably in tune even if a bit detached. You know how clever you are, and how cautious. Those are excellent traits, even if tempered by a governor you’ve yet to describe. None of this conversation applies to you. I dont think Im that clev…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 06:15 AM
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So? Most men aren’t “sexual beings” to most women, they are just generic humans deserving of basic respect. I know and I agree. I said the 1st half of this sentence in my original comment
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:01 AM
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Still a person deserving of respect even if not a potential dating prospect. Yea I know Same as married or attached women feel: he’s a human being, generic and neutral, equal to any woman or child. It’s not an insult or slight, no human being is required to think sexual thoughts about humans they aren’t interested in I dont think its an insult or a requirement. I do think it speaks on the attractiveness of most men in the eyes of women though. Because like I said above it extends to situations o…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:57 AM
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Wild lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:10 AM
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Would you put money on his books
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:00 AM
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Wasnt he also rich or from a super rich family?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:52 AM
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Kind of lame
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:46 AM
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Possibly. I just dont think that their sex drive is the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:10 AM
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I agree. Many of them, probably most actually, dont like it when men they arent interested in show attraction to them or express any form of their sexuality. They view those men as asexual beings. Ive seen women here refer to them as NPCs. When men like that try to break out of that mold they are repulsed or even offended. This explains why many get so upset at the idea of a male friend liking them so its clear that it extends beyond cat calling So you essentially arent a "man" in a romantic or …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 02:23 AM
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Yea youre trolling. Its on-brand actually
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 12:24 AM
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Since when was a different hair color and a height difference that is barely noticeable to the naked eye make a man not fit a womans ideal? They judge off of immutable traits. If he died his hair he would be her exact type
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 12:21 AM
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So 2 inches shorter and a change in hair color is supposed to represent a change from her type? They are essentailly the same guy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 12:18 AM
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You have to be trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 12:11 AM
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This happens regularly on this sub. A good amount of them are contarians. Ive seen something similar to what you wrote
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:34 PM
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It has to do with men most being ugly/unattractive in their eyes. I do not believe sex drive has any real factor. Men find a wide range of women attractive and for women that range for men is way more narrow. Women also find a wide range of women attractive as many claim that there are so many beautiful/attractive women and that they are more attractive than men. If their sex drive was raised they would just have more casual sex with the same minority of men they already have it with. And they d…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:23 PM
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Break up. Thats says a lot about her
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 10:24 PM
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I get that you’re saying they don’t count but what about the men who are letting themselves go? Do they not count as well? Yes it applies to them. Just like the women in that category also want to be desired I think that men desire companionship and not just by any woman. Sure they want to be desired physically but I also think that they want a woman that they desire physically. I think focusing on money over looks will get them a woman they desire. Men find a wide range of women attractive so f…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:37 PM
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What man wouldnt want to be seen as desireable by their partner? The extremely rich old men who are outliers dont count
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:24 PM
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So her personality made her go from meh to hot? You also never said you found her unattractive at the start either
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:23 PM
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You found her more attractive overall. Not physically. She looks the same as he did before. You just overlooked certain things because you liked her as a person
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:17 PM
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yes i found him physically attractive from the start but found him even more physically attractive over time. as i’ve already said and explained multiple times lol. When the phrase is typically said it implies that she didnt find the guy physically attractive at all. Not that she liked him and grew to like him more
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:14 PM
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There are just as much women if not more who let themselves go and arent in shape. The difference is that they can get a relationship and still be desired physically. A study showed that only 12% of men felt desired in relationships. I think women treating men that way has more to do with immutable traits than level of fitness If someone main focus is being with a woman who finds them physically attractive sure focus on looks. If she doesnt find him physically attractive shes settling. Its that …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:12 PM
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my attraction to my boyfriend grew over time despite me finding him attractive from the start. idk why this is so hard to believe. You found him very attractive right away but it grew over time? That makes 0 sense. You know that the statement I mentioned is specifically used for physical attraction right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:07 PM
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I cant believe that anymore. The comment above is from a woman and says that tons of women are open to it and there are a bunch of women agreeing. It also has 70+ upvotes. She laid out why they do not do it with average men and explained which type of men they do it with. So tons of women want it and the majority of men are not good enough to get it. What do you expect guys to think? Tinder has more men than women because men want women more than women want men. Its that simple. Most young men a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:02 PM
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I dont see how is thats relevant. Im literally going off of what Ive seen women say You didnt have to grow attraction with your bf so how do you know what they meant?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:00 PM
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Youre literally proving my point lol. The attraction for your bf was there right away. Attraction growing over time is essentially women convincing themselves to like a guy that they arent instantly attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:50 PM
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You said men in general. Not focusing on looks in not an option for most They are old af. They dont care about being desired or seen as attractive. No young person thinks that way
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:36 PM
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They say it can grow over time. If it has to grow that means it wasnt there initailly. Because even a minimal amount of attraction would count as it being there Youve never seen a woman say that she wasnt attracted to her bf at first then grew to like him? Ive seen it a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:36 PM
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Many women claim this is how it goes though
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:28 PM
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Why do people expect men to be content with being settled for? I really dont get it. Money is not compensating for a lack of physical attraction. Women themselves say that its non-negotiable. The majority of men will never get the amount of money needed to pull off what you said no matter how hard they work at it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:27 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:15 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:28 PM
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Good luck. I am too. Hope I find someone
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 04:48 PM
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They really are no different from the guys they dislike. Thats why I say there are no normies on this sub at all. The feelings are the same just directed at different people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 04:40 PM
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I think youll get one soon
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 04:35 PM
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Maybe its a trend. A bunch of women have similar bios on apps. Or maybe they actually want to date now. Idk
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 04:07 PM
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I dont think those women actually wanted dates. They may just regret how things went in the past. They clearly did have an issue with it in the moment. Like you said its pretty easy to get a guy to take them out on OLD. And if shes actually interested in you she probaly wont care about you double texting
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:51 PM
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This is well known. I dont think most guys underestimate this at all. His face isnt even visible either and they are still simping lol. Insane
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:46 PM
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Thank you for confirming that women have casual sex with the same few men. When men say it women here go crazy. But since its from a woman they all agree. Hilarious lol. They dont disagree with whats being said they just dont like who is saying it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:33 PM
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Youre like the 3rd person this week making stuff up and intentionally claiming I said stuff like that which is known to be against sub rules. Probably trying to get me banned. I was wondering why it came out of nowhere but it makes sense now. Im leaving soon so yall dont gotta worry lol Can you show me a recent comment of mine from the daily chat thats blackpilled? If its all I post it should be easy right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:22 AM
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Now this comment makes sense lol. Yall are weird af
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:08 AM
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The brown one far left, the one on the bottom, and the one with the orange ball in the middle
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 04:28 AM
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So its not real?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 04:06 AM
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Thats doesnt sound too bad. 5'8 is close to average height and 150 is a solid weight
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:11 AM
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Why does it happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 02:37 AM
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Idk the police there seem very lax. Its weird honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 02:32 AM
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That was so brutal. The said that the guy sat infront of her and watched too. I dont even know how someone could do that to another person. She wasnt screaming or anything so I dont think she was asleep either And why is nobody rolling her to the ground? Why are people walking? why is there a guy filming? A normal reaction would be to throw whatever coffee/water you have. This part was insane to me. They couldve at least tried to use their coats or something to try to put the fire out before it …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 02:15 AM
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Maybe those women already thought you were attractive. They dont have sex with men they arent physically attracted to. They value more than looks but looking good enough is mandatory. Not saying you are lying but I have seen many guys here downplay their looks/advantages to get points across.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 02:08 AM
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They will still have way more options than most guys their age. I dont think much will change for them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 02:06 AM
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Thats status is not the same and doesnt override the need to pass the looks threshold. The best dnd player or the best bowler do not have women on them for that. Thats isnt valued
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 01:27 AM
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I don't disagree with you on this at all. I just think the base level is much lower than most people think it is. A lot of average looking people think they're just hopeless, when there are so many people they'd be attracted to who would like them too. People like to claim its lower but there is nothing that proves that. Women regularly say that most men are unattractive. Most men are average so what do you expect guys to think? This is you self-reporting. I trust your judgement, but obviously y…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 07:50 PM
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Same to you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 07:29 PM
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Sounds like you two are a good match. Its great that you found someone who fits you so closely.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 07:19 PM
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weren’t you the one saying that women here are either outliers or virtue signaling? Yea. I said that most here are outliers and do not want to prove guys right in certain areas which is why many paint the picture that they are in perfect relationships. Do you think thats false? Most people in general arent in relationships like that and women here do not represent normal women in any way. Same goes for the men. When moshi left she made a similar point about the relationships here. Did you have a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 07:17 PM
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you want me to make a list for every comment of yours that i find annoying ? No. I would like to see a recent comment of mine that you think is negative, hopeless, or woe-is-me like ive told you before, if you had hobbies and actual interests id find you less annoying. not saying you have to alter anything to appease me, bc who cares what i think I literally do not interact with you. Youre acting like im responding to all your comments daily and spamming you or something lol. I do have hobbies a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:20 PM
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Was he also waiting for marriage? Or did he agree to do it because of you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:09 PM
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You're a man. I'm a man. I've admitted I can't really know because I'm not a woman. But even if I was a woman, women aren't a monolith. They don't all act and think in the same way, so even women can't generalize from their own experiences. Now, I haven't made any statements about what women are like, but you have. That's interesting to me. You said "most women aren't like that". You could be right, but how would you know you're right? You described demisexuality. A minority of the population is…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:05 PM
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Its funny how the daily is full of both yet somehow my comments are what stand out the most to you even though they apply to neither group. You still cant point out a recent comment from me in the daily that proves what you say is true but claim its all I post lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 05:55 PM
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I agree. But like I said people seem to be fine with hateful comments and rage bait but what I do is somehow worse than both. It makes 0 sense
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 05:39 PM
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The funny thing is that she was 10x worse than me. Nothing I post comes close to what she did
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 05:37 PM
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The thing is that I dont even post woe is me content lol. If I did I wouldve gotten a ban
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 05:24 PM
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The thing is I dont post rage bait or anything like that lol. She literally just doesnt like me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 05:22 PM
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every time i see your name it’s some negative hopeless shit and i find it annoying Literally false but ok lol. I wouldve got banned fot woe is me if that were true. You seem to have an issue with anything I post on here but have no issue with the rage baiters or trolls who are actually hateful lol. And im replying to the comments of others not making my own posts. Youll see what you want to I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 05:18 PM
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Seeing what? You couldve kept me blocked I literally said that I wasnt reporting it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 05:10 PM
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From what? I dont respond to your comments on here and I only made few yesterday
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 05:09 PM
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You may be demisexual then. Most women arent like that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 05:04 PM
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Im not petty lol. I think someone getting banned for that is a bit excessive
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 05:02 PM
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I get that and agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:58 PM
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He literally killed someone lol. And men arent the ones citing safety as a reason why they dont take certain actions in dating or date certain types of people. Women are. Yet over and over again we see them throw that standard away if the guy is good looking
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:52 PM
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It is but I dont really care enough to report it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:50 PM
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Thats true I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:44 PM
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What do I say thats so triggering to some people on here lol. I got blocked by 2 people I dont even interact with 😂. Its probably the same person on an alt actually Idk what set them off because all of my recent comments are tame. Should I start posting rage bait or being disrespectful? Those people seem to get a more positive reception
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:43 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:39 PM
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A woman isnt having sex with or dating a man she considers physically unattractive because he has a good personality. They say themselves that attraction is non-negotiable
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:38 PM
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Most men aren’t attractive enough to not have to do anything else for women to want to fuck them. Its not about not having to do anything else. Its about being considered for it at all. Most men arent even an option to women that way based off looks alone The second step is absolutely relevant, because people who meet others in hobby groups/social events do these things despite not being super hot. Being super hot isnt relevant though. Most women see most men as ugly. Those men arent getting to …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:31 PM
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Yes, you do have to pass a bar (the bar is not that high off apps) where the woman thinks you’re anywhere from “neutral” to “kind of cute” minimum How can it not be high if women think most men are unattractive? Women arent having sex with a man they arent attracted to The second step is irrelevant because most men cant get past the 1st
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:16 PM
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You say “if all it takes is a good looking guy, they must not value it”… as if looks are not a HUGE social value in our society/culture. I know it is. People on this sub and many in general regularly deny it though Men will cheat on their wives, throw away their marriages, spend 1000s on sex workers, just for the chance to be with attractive women. Women cheat too. Most also men never go to a sex worker. So how are they getting an attractive women if those things arent happening at any wide scal…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:14 PM
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Many get an ego boost out of coming here and find the struggles men have entertaining. If there were no stuggling men here there would be next to no women on this sub. If there were no women here discussions would still be had
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:03 PM
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I have no issue dating a chubby or overweight woman. I have been rejected by them though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:00 PM
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I'm going to take a stand for average men here and say that a lot of men considered "average" are very good-looking. I know guys who easily meet the criteria for "Hollywood good looks", but aren't considered hot because they don't have the status. So there's some nuance here. Status probably plays a bigger role in the perception of men's attractiveness than it does for women. You may think that about average men but many women do not agree. They say it themselves. Most will never have status so …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:54 PM
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I have 3 cousins ages 20 to 24 all partnered up. All 3 men are overweight, live with their parents and aren't really attractive. 2 of them have real bad social anxiety and it's not pleasant interacting with them. So how did they get a gf? They got lucky Im guessing? Because you dont describe them as being appealing at all. Im fit and have never dated and had 0 success on apps. Most young men are also single according to stats Ive seen You likely would not like the females though Why do you say t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:52 PM
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That only goes in couples with mismatched looks though Im not talking about couples though. I seen it said here toward men pretty regularly. It's not about being virtuous, Attractive people know they are extremely valuable and they get away with more so they act like it I agree. I dont get why its a common belief here that this doesnt apply to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:48 PM
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Yea they can work for average ment but they often dont. And I think women define average differently than men do. Im also assuming that you are in the older age groups because I know very few men my age who have success on apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:39 PM
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So the guys that women complain are pumping and dumping the or using them are the ones that truly care about them? You cant be serious lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:27 PM
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This is probably true
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:18 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:17 PM
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Ok I get that and agree. My fault for assuming. I responded that way because many people claim that men are the only ones who think about it that way and I think thats disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:17 PM
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Im responding to a comment that you wrote...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:09 PM
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There is no risk involved in that situation for men and thats what the comment you wrote was about. Its just a date. With women there are actual serious risks like safety or a pregnancy chance yet they throw these to the side for a good looking guy. The 2 arent comparable at all. A man can also make the money back. A woman cant undo physical damage done or reverse a pregnancy Humans are self-serving. We’re going to make choices that are advantageous to us. We’re going to take risks when the pote…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:08 PM
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Way too much. Its getting out of hand now actually
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 02:58 PM
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Even on that post there were short men who admitted to feeling the same way about ugly women and I've seen a similar pattern here and there Youre cherry picking as usual Men might not make TikToks about it, hell they probably have never come across this issue since women are usually the passive ones who don't approach But they still very much voice their dissatisfaction with their dating pool So what is the point of your post? I literally showed you an example of a woman doing exactly what the v…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 02:54 PM
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I find it funny that when men say more attractive men are more likely to do negative things women and some men strongly deny it but the opposite, which is that better looking women do more things seen as negative, is pushed regularly as a way to tell men to lower their standards. It literally makes 0 sense
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 02:44 PM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 02:43 PM
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Dont women frame it like that? Ive seen many say that men are supposed to make them orgasm as if its an activity they arent particiapting in like there is only one active party. I rarely see the phrase "help them orgasm" used which would imply that its more of a collective thing. Ive also seen a bunch say that they are making a guy wait or that its something a guy doesnt deserve or didnt earn yet. Thats implies a transaction Why am I getting downvoted lol. This line of thinking is not uncommon a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 02:43 PM
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Do you think fuckboy and players care about the women and take interest in her? I highly doubt it. Women will abandon all of those other requirements if the guy is good looking to them. One even said it in this sub. Its about the risks being worth taking. For an average guy they arent but for a hot guy they are
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 02:36 PM
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Tons of women are open to it with a tiny amount of men Then you’re factoring in danger/safety risks, which if the woman doesn’t know you will often cause some pause. Which often means if she’s going to throw caution to the wind, it’ll either be for a guy she finds attractive and knows well (vetted) or the scorching hot guy she can’t resist. If shes throwing caution to the wind so easily for the attractive guy do the risks or lack of pleasure during sex actually matter to them? Because if they di…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 02:33 PM
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Im talking about the women here. I dont see how thats relevant at all. What standard has to be lowered lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 02:25 PM
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Im saying the women being attracted enough to accpet the guys offer to go on a date. I dont see how thats a gotcha. I explained it there actually. They arent going on dates with men they arent attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 02:21 PM
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A lot of gay men have dysfunctional relationships, even gay men admit that as I have gay friends. This guy is probably no different. Why do man hating women and gay men get along? Cause they both have fucked up relationships with men. Look at incel tears sub. They encouraged incels commiting suicide. They project because they can't face the fact that they're the problem. Thats true You got so many angry middle aged ladies here yelling at clouds. Is that someone you should take seriously? Someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 02:15 PM
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Do all 300 million live in my state? My city? My town? I never understood that point lol. If you filter out for location and the woman being attracted enough to go on a date with a guy the numbers drop dramatically. So no it isnt plenty
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 02:11 PM
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No not plenty. Its a minority. I dont know why you are acting like there are tons of women who dont think that way. Its not common at all and is expected from a man by most women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 02:00 PM
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You side stepped my original comment that's what you think tho! i've seen your comments on other posts on this sub and it's always really hopeless. Ive said many times that its not impossible its just way harder. Its like yall want guys to be delusional like I said above. Then the same people will tell guys that they are going for women out of their league or stacy chasing if they struggle. Its trolling at this point. And you shit on short and average men daily yet expect them not to be doomers.…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 01:54 PM
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I live in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 01:43 PM
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What does he look like and was he also religious
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 01:28 PM
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bro you're way too young to be this blackpilled you need to stop it and try to see the other side for just a moment. What other side? Youre a rage baiter who trolls daily. Literally nothing about that comment was blackpilled i know i troll in here a lot but i understand your struggles but you also need to understand it's not 100% hopless and when you're this young with this mentality it's gonna be a self fulfilling prophecy. That literally has nothing to do with what I wrote. And I never said it…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 01:26 PM
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Redditors have to live in an alternate world lol. Splitting on dates is literally seen as a red flag by many women in my age group. There is no type that doesnt think this way and if they do its a very small minority. Most of the US isnt the same as the progressive areas yall live in despite what yall want to believe. The majority of women do not want to split And I find it funny that when men say more attractive men are more likely to do negative thing women strongly deny it but the opposite, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 01:20 PM
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I agree but thats literally all this person does. They post rage bait daily against groups of men they dislike and has openly admitted to projecting their experiences on to other men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 01:11 PM
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Shes getting married to a top football player who is a lock for the NFL and is a rising star who strongly defends her from all criticism. How isnt that salvageable lol. He clearly doesnt care. Like ive said before, having a high count has little to no impact on dating success for women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 01:07 PM
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That person doesnt care about anything like that. They would probably do the same and get joy out of it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 12:51 PM
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Keep projecting lol. And why make the post about short men? Literally proves my point. Nothing yall say applies to the men that you are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 12:50 PM
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Stop projecting your experiences on to other men. I find it odd how you have more of an issue with men who havent abused anyone because they possibly could than with the men actuallly doing the abuse. It literally makes 0 sense
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 12:44 PM
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Many of them, probably most actually, dont like it when men they arent interested in show attraction to them or express any form of their sexuality. Thats really all it is. Its almost like they view those men as asexual beings. When men like that try to break out of that mold its seen as offensive because that may mean they are ugly If the guy thought he had a chance with them. https://preview.redd.it/6qu7yw52gl8e1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3f523757b806ca75b0d3635775aa76f661638fc5 …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 12:42 PM
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I agree. And its funny how their posts are targeted at men who they arent attracted to or dont see as desireable. One already admitted this. Like if the guy is attractive all the stuff they say goes out the window and doesnt apply to them. Ill never take them or pinkpillers seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 12:40 PM
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Femcel Fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 12:23 PM
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I have seen that too. Ive also seen many women claim that their attraction to men is more wholistic than the attraction men have to women. So I think that those trait are considered and thought about. If they admitted that their attraction was just as impulsive as the one men have I think no one would care about this stuff. But because they are very pragmatic in terms of relationship formation and the way they view men things become confusing and even contradictory at times
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:22 AM
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I seen a woman on here say that its like shooting fish in a barrell once she figured out exactly what she was looking for on apps. And if they have a ton of options but none are attractive to them that says more about them than it does about the options. Like you said higher selectivity. At that point its not really harder. They just are way more picky. And like you said above once a guy has a postive trait like looks or even status for example the need for the other requirements become lower an…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:15 AM
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So is it really easier for a woman to find a man she is sufficiently attracted to, treats her well, makes her life better, etc. than it is for a man to find the equivalent? I dunno about that. Yea. Women have more options/chances to find a guy like that than men do. Especially with apps now where the men they are into are only a swipe away. They could even approach IRL if they wanted to and would be more successful than men are
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:05 AM
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i think it's more so women are oblivious to men's dating struggles, or the extent of them anyway. They arent oblivious lol. They know and dont care
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:01 AM
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The extent to which women are actively ignoring bad qualities because of their raw attraction to a guy (be it based on looks, charisma, dominance, or whatever) varies. Often, a lot of this is happening at the subconscious level. Men, ofc, do it to when they get sucked in by the pretty face and youthful beauty of a bad woman throwing sex at them. Yea some of it is subconsious but I dont think all or even most of it is. Some of those negative traits or behaviors are glaring red flags or potentiall…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 05:53 AM
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It was labelled a discussion and got removed for "being designed as a circle jerk and to induce rhetoric". I dont see how that applied there at all. I can dm you the archive link if you want it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 05:48 AM
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But part of the point is that women are not aiming at a certain pool of men because they are bad, but because they are attractive. This is true. My thing is that if they can overlook those negative things for a good looking man do they really matter to them at all? Or are they only in place for regular men who cant compensate for having them? Like those women who select those men know the guys are bad and do not care so clearly they mean nothing Yeah, a lot of women lack empathy for the male exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 05:37 AM
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I asked above do most men have options and you didnt respond lol. The answer is no. So if most men dont have options who do you think the women are focusing on according to your original comment? And there are more men who have empathy for the female experince than there are women who have empathy for the male experience. Women have next to none for us actually. And thats speaking generally. Your model doesnt seem accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:48 AM
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I dont get the logic behind judging men for something that they havent done yet or for something that they could do in dating. Seems like people have more of an issue with them than the ones who are actually behaving badly
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:37 AM
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A post on this sub that got taken down by mods for no reason exposed how easy it was for women to get dates with kind/normal men who were engaging in conversation on apps despite many claiming how challenging it is. The only rebuttal the women on here had was that the men were ugly despite them all being around average looking with solid profiles just like the woman used in it was and that it was a weird experiment. That said it all really. If that was claimed to be very hard by them but shown n…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:35 AM
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Do most men have options?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:56 AM
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Same. But I dont think women hate me just that they find me unattractive. Which is true. I dont have an issue communicating them though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 12:11 AM
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Very true. If I could go back to being unaware of everything I would
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 11:57 PM
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Ill never understand why people think that way
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 11:51 PM
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I would never talk about any of those things if I get a gf. Im pretty sure stuff like that gives a bunch of them the ick so there will probably be a loss of attraction among other stuff. I dont think they would want to hear about it anyway. Probably would be seen as emotional labor or something like that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 11:20 PM
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Tough but not that suprising
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 06:10 PM
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Women of any race can be colorist contrary to popular belief
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 06:09 PM
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Was it Denmo? The PUA guys have been cooked lol. He even has a horrible reputation on reddit with people who have interacted with him in the past at schools. Hes a grifter too
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 05:08 AM
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I dont think most guys care that much or even know who she is tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:39 AM
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I wouldnt ever respond and assume its a fake scam account. Nothing like that ever happens IRL. So no Im not dating her
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:28 AM
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Older people are way nicer and way easier to talk to. Its the same way at the place I volunteer at
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:26 AM
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Many women love rap music though. Why complain about something being hateful and still support it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:25 AM
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He's also a gay man from the middle east projecting his experiences with virgins unto straight male virgins in the west. Exactly. The 2 arent comparable atall It genuinely makes no fucking sense. He is quite the character. I honestly think its a woman larping
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:22 AM
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Women don't hide their n count and sexuality from partners they take seriously for no reason. It's not that necessarily that women with low n counts can't get married. It's that these women are downplaying their social past to attract these partners. Thats true I guess. They could be open with their past and still not struggle to date though. There are enough men who dont care that it would be a non issue The evidence isn't that high n women don't get married, it's that high n women are more lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:15 AM
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i know chad is just as bad but the virgins are the one complaining when they'd do just like chad given the chance. i've experienced it first hand. You dont know that they would do the same. You just want it to be true to push a narrative. How are you judging men based on something they have never done yet have 0 issue with the men who actually do it? It literally makes no sense. it just bugs me they wrong me when how to act right is just as easy and they never take that road even tho i've given …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 01:59 AM
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This is true. If you know this why do you shit on the men who actually struggle and are virgins
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 01:38 AM
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Thats not the key at all lol. Dont you go on a date a week
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 01:35 AM
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They are larping or come here for entertainment and to laugh at struggling guys. I do not get why someone in a great relationship would come here daily yet that what almost all women claim to be in
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 01:12 AM
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Is it not hypocritical for them to claim they dont do something then do it? You say women are just as bad but you only shit on and hate on men. I wonder why
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 01:12 AM
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True. Dont even know why I come here anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 11:26 PM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 11:26 PM
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I have provided you with a site to go to for evidence of what low SMV promiscuous have with regards to standards. If you’re unwilling to go and see that it is true, to believe that average and below average men get casual sex, and you would prefer to keep this “woe-is-me, I’ll never be Chad” attitude, then you will never be successful at losing your virginity. Where did I show an "I'll never be chad" attitude lol. Yall just make anything up on this sub. Do you think women on that extremely niche…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 11:15 PM
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As I said, promiscuous and lower SMV women usually have lower standards. No they do not. I do not know why people on here push this false narrative. The incels calling Margo Robbie mid are illustrating that their standards are very high. Studies show the exact opposite but ok lol. I guess men must find every woman attractive or else their standard are high lol. Maybe she just isnt their type I don’t need to be a man to know that whining on the internet never got anybody laid. Do you really think…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 10:37 PM
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Thanks but I dont have chadlite or even average potential due to traits out of my control. Ive already looksmaxxed and have seen 0 results. Its easy to be positive when it worked for you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 10:28 PM
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Most men have standards, even if they’re not being approached. There are lots of ugly and/or fat promiscuous women whose standards aren’t super high. Log onto Fetlife sometime and look at the people there; they’re mostly average or below average people having sex. Meanwhile there’s incels on this subreddit calling Margo Robbie ‘mid.’ Those women want the same type of men other women want. And why is calling a woman mid or average offensive? Dont people on here say that looks are subjective? Funn…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 10:12 PM
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Lemme ask you. If thats the case, why tf do you wanna be with those women? Why would you wanna work so hard for someone so delusional and gross? Why can't you try looksmaxxing for girls who will appreciate it and see where that brings you? Im looksmaxxing in general. Not for a specific type of girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 09:50 PM
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So face plays no role in someones attractiveness?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 09:48 PM
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Why are you changing your argument in every comment? All I said was that there is no way to know if he is average or not based off of a picture that doesnt show his face. And thats a fact
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 09:37 PM
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No Im not lol. You literally made that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 09:35 PM
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You dont know what she or he looks like
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 09:26 PM
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I think a lot of times virginal boys and men are in similar positions, where they could go and have sex with someone beneath their standards, just to get it out of the way. No lol. Men arent women. We arent rejecting girls who are interested in us and holding out for a super hot one Or even pay someone to “take” your virginity. If you’re not willing to do that, and you want it to be special and with someone you love and feel attracted to, you’re going to have to take a hard look at yourself and …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 09:25 PM
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What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 09:01 PM
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I dont think there is anything you could do that would get you banned. They would probably just give you a warning or something
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 08:56 PM
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Easy for you to say that as a woman because you know that you could lose it anytime you wanted to. The majority of women dont think that way about sex. Like you said most men dont care that much about it IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 08:55 PM
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Face doesn’t do much Know I know you are a troll. Just stop lil He’s clearly having sex with someone who is also husky. There is literally nothing that suggests that. Idk what is so clear about it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 08:49 PM
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Women with high counts get married and date with little to no issue. Like you said most men IRL dont care about body counts. Many women, on the other hand, would never be with a virgin or inexperienced man and consider them undateable. I find it weird how only women are talked to this way when its clear that a man having a count of 0 or a low one is way more impactful in dating than a woman having a high one
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 08:48 PM
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Youre actually insane lol. The average man isnt getting casual sex so how is he pumping and dumping a woman? And if a guys looksmatch is a stacy what does that make him? Also please respond to this: Lol. Are men the ones who say that most women are ugly or the ones who only swipe on 5% of women? I doubt you will though Plenty of users in here who are “suffering” actually had sex before and got laid but their issues are they didn’t get their looksmatch or hot girls. I don’t wanna name names but y…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 08:02 PM
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Ugly dudes are super rare actually, most guys I see can be fixed to a chadlite. And there are few below average dudes who do get laid because they had a damn good childhood and no trauma for just existing Delusional. Most men are ugly to women. The vast majority of men will never reach chadlite or even above average with maximum effort put in
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 07:59 PM
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So face isnt taken into consideration when judging someones rating now?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 07:54 PM
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It's a matter of confidence, sure. But it's a simple solution, but a complicated problem before the solution. Coming from a chadlite lol. Get real
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 07:47 PM
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Do the men on this sub represent men in the real world? Funny how you ignored everything else I wrote Women are right men do want attractive women and if they get “low value ones” they’re not happy so they aren’t suffering from “no woman” giving them attention they want hot women to give them attention and dismiss/discard the “ugly ones” that do. Do you think the average man is rejecting women interested in him and holding or for a really attractive one? Like be for real. I cant even take you se…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 07:42 PM
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Exactly lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 07:23 PM
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Why did you ignore what I wrote? The person claimed he was average and I said that there is no way to know that until his face is seen. Is that an incorrect statement? I never commented on the women being husky so try baiting someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 06:59 PM
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Men like that exist but I dont think its as common as people claim it is. What I have seen is women instruct a guy and get frustrated when he doesnt do what they want correctly. That is probably a part of the reason why many women are against dating or being with inexperienced or virgin men. Teaching is repulsive to many
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 06:56 PM
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They are a representative of men in general. Lol. This explains a lot of the stuff you write now. Does the same apply for the women here too? Does what I wrote mean that the average weight person cant be attractive facially? It literally says for fat people who call themselves ugly lol. Idk what you are trying to prove here
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 06:56 PM
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Are men on this sub the only men in the world? I seen know why your takes are the way they are. You really must believe that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 06:43 PM
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Yes a woman can have an average body and an above average face. That would make her above average overall. The average person is chubby/husky in case you didnt know
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 06:42 PM
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If its pushed as blame it will be recieved as a fault. Like I said almost every issue during sex is seen as the fault of the man. Many women also say they dont like communication or teaching during sex and that the man should just know as if its all intuitive. There was a recent post that proved this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 06:37 PM
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Do you know what his face looks like? Someone can be husky and still be above average facially. How can you make a claim that he is average overall?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 06:35 PM
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Men don’t suffer from male loneliness, they just want Stacy. Which is why no one has sympathy for men because no body care you can’t get the hottest girl in the room. Lol. Are men the ones who say that most women are ugly or the ones who only swipe on 5% of women? Get real. No one has sympathy because its men. That narrative of guys only want hot women is just women projecting. They admit it themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 06:29 PM
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What did I write that hints at me being upset? The comnenter above is a known troll and larper
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 06:27 PM
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There are a bunch of women who claim its very easy and simple to make a woman orgasm. Not being able to help a woman orgasm is seen as a failure for men. I dont know why people on here act like that isnt a thing. Thats why the orgasm gap stat is always thrown around. Actually almost every issue in sex is seen as the mans fault
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 06:24 PM
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She literally said in the comments he works out. And where did I say any of that? Stop making stuff up. Your using a faceless man to make a point when youve already acknowledged that looks are the most important thing on apps. You contradict yourself daily
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 06:22 PM
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You dont even know what he looks like
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 06:16 PM
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How do you know that hes average?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 06:11 PM
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Are you struggling? If not you arent interacting with them in that way
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 06:06 PM
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Most PPD women are very nice and somewhat empathetic to male suffering. Good joke lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 05:39 PM
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They arent lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 05:24 PM
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Most women on this sub are outliers and many here act the way the do because they dont want to prove the men here right on certain topics. Thats why almost all of them paints the picture that they are in a perfect relationship. You can go on normie subs or any other popular app and find women regularly saying/doing things that the ones here claim women never do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 05:13 PM
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And how would you know any of this? There are young women who dont want a realtionship. Most arent taking apps seriously either. Not wanting a relationship isnt immature either. Young wonen can be openly immature like how young men are but your bias will never let you admit it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 04:40 PM
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Yes women. The guy on the right looks the exaggerated chad image women commonly laugh at and make fun of. Maybe gay men would be into that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 04:38 PM
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Women already thought he was attractive though
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 04:02 PM
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You know young women are also immature right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 04:01 PM
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Shes their favorite lol. This is a rant but because its from her it wont get removed
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 03:11 PM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 05:38 AM
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Probably true. A regular looking guy talking like that would get unmatched or blocked instantly. He probably wouldnt have even gotten the chance to talk to her actually
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 04:30 AM
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What is it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 03:36 AM
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Why do women entertain and have convos with guys like that? I assume it was on an app. Seems like saying stuff like that is more likely to get a response than talking normally
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 03:05 AM
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Idk what you are talking about. Is this your alt or something
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 02:41 AM
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Much closer to average than whatever a "HTN" is. 5 is average. 6.5 is just slightly above average. 1.5 points above isnt slightly above average. You have to be trolling lol. Is 3.5 seen as slightly below average? Last I remember its seen as straight up unattractive lol Also, I mentioned my height on here and it's also average(5'9 barefoot). And I never lie about my height on the apps. So, you can't leave that part out knowing how many women have height preferences. 5'9 is a height thats is toler…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 01:15 AM
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A bunch do
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 01:03 AM
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I would say I'm a 6.5 facially. Like I said you arent average looking and you are aware or it. Thats considered HTN range by some. I dont see what you were trying to get at in your post. Probably just bragging
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 01:02 AM
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200 is insane
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 12:51 AM
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My point still stands
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 12:48 AM
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I dont get why people on this sub like to downplay themselves to prove a point. Makes 0 sense to me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 12:43 AM
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Yea Ive seen that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 07:13 PM
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That would be cool
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:51 PM
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No and she has potential. Ive never seen a truly ugly woman post on that sub
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:28 PM
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The thing is tho inceldom is different between men and women, women will still be femcels while also having sex and I’m no different, because our issue is getting commitment and quality guys not just sex. Femcels arent even a thing. Those 2 issues arent comparable at all. There is nothing involuntary about a "femcels" situation. The only "femcel" on this sub was a girl who didnt talk to men at all IRL and had never been on an app before. Her physical standards for men were sky high too. She was …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:20 PM
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Banned. I feel like if you got a bf you would still come here regularly
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 02:29 PM
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idk irl i'm very blackpilled it's just in here i'm more blue/pink Why or do you mean if i were straight i'd be even more sad? i don't think so i've had a lot of female friends before who did not know or can tell i'm gay so it's actually possible for me to get a gf or at least some female attention. The energy you give to straight/average/virgin/short men would be directed toward women in similar areas. Youre frustrated when you cant have sex and that would be amplified tenfold if you were straig…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 02:25 PM
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100% true. Its so clear to see lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:57 PM
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Someone already said that he got face reveals from some women on here
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:55 PM
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Ngl If you were straight you would probably be on hardcore incel forums
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:48 PM
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Most people here seem to be from in the suburbs or are the well off rich type who live in big cities. Ive said this before and a bunch of people replied yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:46 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:36 PM
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I socialized within my school but not with people outside of it. You have comments that say the exact opposite but ok I can still make claims if they’re factually correct You wouldnt know if they are correct or not. You have 0 experience on the subject
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 10:09 PM
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You lucked out and married someone you dated in highschool. I dont think you should be talking on dateability at all. Youve essentially never even dated which youve said yourself, and also said you didnt socialize in school. Youre clearly ignorant and shouldnt be giving advice or making claims like this at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:52 PM
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You did say that. You claimed the opposite then immediately contradicted yourself: Height is not a factor I consider, really. Do I really like a man who towers over me? Yeah, I’ll admit that I do! 5’8” is hardly “short” though in my opinion. You would still be a good deal taller than me! 5'8 is taller than you by a good amount so 6ft towers over you. You also say that you really like that. How can you really like a trait and claim it plays no role and that it isnt a factor? It clearly does
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:50 PM
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Ngl you may get banned for that. I straight up got told by a mod that my comments were being reported a lot. The vast majority of my comments break no rule yet I have gotten multiple bans. One of which had comments of mine that were altered and paraphrased to fit rule breaking criteria There are people mass reporting and literally waiting for you to mess up slighty so they can get you banned. Mods condone it too
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:48 PM
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In order for your comparison to make sense, the negative experiences would have to be directly correlated with him being tall, so the question is, which negative experiences would that be ? Why is it correlated to him being short and not just an insecure individual? Most short men arent insecure to that degree to ruin a relationship over it. And like I said above any negative or toxic behaviors a short man does in a relationship is tied to his height. Its called a napoleon complex or insecurity …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:17 PM
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Ok I get that. Its not really about there being someone better because there always is. Its more about being the type/preference of the person you are with. Like if I knew a girls physical type in men was the exact opposite of me I wouldnt date her. As long as I fit the general trend of what she is into I would be fine with that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:54 PM
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He just doesnt want to be settled for. Would you date someone who didnt prefer your body type but only tolerated or put up with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 08:27 AM
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is the bad experience related to his tallness? is it an actual issue among tall people? not to beat around the bush but insecurity is an issue among short guys specific to their height so yea it make sense what she did. Everyone is insecure about things yet the one women seem to hate the most is height insecurity. I wonder why. Maybe because its actually the trait they dislike. If a tall guy was insecure would they care? I doubt it. Youve openly hated on short men in the past so Im not suprised …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 08:21 AM
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i know it sound exclusionary but all is fair in love and war. she KNOWS not all short men are the same, i KNOW bi men are not the same. but the possible problems with dating them are just not worth the effort or time from out pov and it's not like we're excluding a good chunk of people, that's why i said it's reasonable standards. She dated 1 and generalized all just as a bunch of women do. Insane that you are defending this. Like I said before, if she had a negative experience with a tall man I…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 08:04 AM
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bro how are you not getting it? the problem she had with her ex was because he's short, and she want to avoid it by not dating short guys. short guys are like 15% of the men population so it's not like she has high standards by wanting average height. I dont care about the standards its the reasoning behind it. You arent getting it. I explained that clearly. for example, i prefer dating gay men than bi men, why? i had very bad experiences with bi men. are all bi men the same? no. i know that for…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 07:51 AM
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Yes I do see that. Do you? You seem to be supporting her comment which is doing just that. And idk what you are talking about in the rest of your reply
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 07:19 AM
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Shes literally assuming other short guys will be the exact same as the man she has dated by default. And like the other paragraph I wrote says, she sees short men as a monolith like a bunch of other women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:54 AM
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How come ? IF the guy is insecure because of his height, which she attributed it to, then it makes perfect sense as to why she wouldn't want to take a chance with another guy that may potentially have a Napoleon complex ? How come viewing a group as a monolith doesnt make sense? You cant be seriously asking that question. Tall guys aren't insecure because of their height. I didnt say they were. Any negative or toxic behavior done by a short man in a relationship is attributed to his height. If a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:25 AM
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Men who are at least 5'9 are fine. Once you are significantly below that is where issues truly begin. Im 5'6 and that is very clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:17 AM
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It is less important in real-life dating, It isnt actually. Especially once you are below average height. Its still an attractive trait to have and a switch literally does get flipped for many women once a man is below a certain height
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:58 AM
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All short men arent like that but she clearly thinks they are
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:48 AM
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So that one experience with short guy made you not want to date any short guy again? I doubt you would think the same about a negative experience you had with a tall one. Ive never in my life hear a woman say that actually. Short men are seen as a monlith but see tall men are seem as individuals. Its makes 0 sense to me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:48 AM
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Its a common trend for many people on this sub and its very disingenuous. Its a big reason why I stopped coming here for a while. I dont even know why I kept responding to him after that. No point in talking to people who are that way
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 07:14 PM
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It's that what you're saying is HIGHLY general. It doesn't give me enough information to convince me. All you're saying is that are so severe that they are the reason you haven't been able to date. You want me to just believe it? I already said that they do not have to be extremely severe to be deemed as unattractive Correct, because you won't share either. As you've said it's a banned topic, so I suppose I shouldn't talk about it either You could have spoken on the generally but you refused to.…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 04:48 PM
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It’s not. I’m discussing the reality that I’ve experienced, that it’s (very likely) not looks alone that holds you back. You know nothing about yet are claiming what my reality is like. How does that make sense at all? Youve dismissed everything I said to hold up your view of things Great! So as I’ve been saying, you’re not giving me any specific information. The fact that you won’t say leads me to assume that they must be quite minor. Its literally a banned topic on this sub which I already exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 04:04 PM
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I'll believe when I see it :) It's not about keeping my worldview intact, but you not going into specifics tells me all I need to know. Thats literally what its about Okay. Which ones apply to you? How badly are they affecting you? Ive already explained why I am not going into detail on it. Seems like you want to get me banned That you know about my life. We're both making assumptions here. It's not going to be solved with text. Is that what I said? No we both arent making assumptions. Youve mad…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:44 PM
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Yes. As I've said before, I don't believe that, outside of major disfigurements, that you (and other men) are being held back from dating solely because of your looks/immutable traits. Youll belive what you want to. What ever keeps your world view intact I guess You will not go into specifics about what those traits are, so I can only assume that they're actually quite minor (since we're allowed to assume now). The fact that you won't say tells me everything I need to know (right?) Youve been as…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:32 PM
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Many bluepillers and women strongly go against that when guys here say it. They regularly shit on men here for seeing things that way but once its said by a woman then they will agree. Thats why I cannot take many of them on here seriously The person also changed their flair from pink pill woman to red pill man. There are multiple people in the comments saying her and she for that reason
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:28 PM
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Sorry, yes, you said you have hobbies as well. Yes, it means nothing. It's incredibly general. It's the most broad strokes of broad strokes. It tells me absolutely nothing about you. 95% of people in the world have "a social circle and hobbies." What do you need to know about me? Thats literally means that I socialize and interact with people regularly. Youre rationalizations are hilarious Cool. I don't know what that looks like. I don't know what you consider "dressing well." I don't know what …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:21 PM
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I don’t believe that your looks are the only thing holding you back, no. That’s not to say I won’t believe anything you say. You haven’t really “said” anything other than you have friends and you’ve “looksmaxxed,” which is a meaningless term without specifics. I said I have friends, a social circle, and hobbies. That really means nothing? I looksmaxxed as in I am fit, dress well, have a good haircut, have clear skin, and an well groomed. Lets see how you spin this now You would have, maybe. We a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:06 PM
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Correct. Nothing you write could convince me. I’m happy to move to a medium perhaps where we could better be acquainted, but I’m assuming you won’t go for that. Why would I do that? You dont believe anything I say Ah, there you go assuming you know about my life. I didn’t say I have none, I said I asked you first. If you won’t share with me, why would I share with you? If it was immutable traits you would have said so like I did. You not answering says it all
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 02:58 PM
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Exactly lol. You have women and blue pillers in the commets agreeing and cheering her on yet when men say that women think the same way people call them hateful. They dont disagree with whats said they just dont like who is saying it. There are more women with a transactional view of relationships than there are men and its not even close. Guys are called shut in losers for thinking a combination of stats will help them succeed in dating yet when a women says the same its applauded and agreed wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 02:46 PM
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Want has nothing to do with it. I don’t believe it because I genuinely think you’re exaggerating how detrimental your features are. Im not but ok. You wouldnt believe me no matter what I write or say I have done I asked you first 😘 Exactly. You have none. Stop speaking on a topic you know nothing about. I already answered and said its immutable ones
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 02:40 PM
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Yes, I’m denying that your looks alone hold you back, because I have yet to meet anyone who has that issue. You’d have a very difficult time convincing me that your physical features are so severely bad that women discount you from the start. I don’t actually know what you’ve done or what you have. Ill never be able to convice you of something you dont want to believe. No point You also don’t have firsthand experience with my life but you have no trouble telling me what mine is like. Tit for tat…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 02:27 PM
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Yea it really is a waste of time talking about this stuff. A bunch of people are here are too disingenuous for any real conversation to be had. Someone who I think is a guy but is probably larping told me that the screenshots are unverifiable lol. Literally makes 0 sense. Nothing is real unless they agree with it Ive seen the stats on your 2nd paragraph too. People are literally in denial about the data lol. The funny thing is that if it came to the opposite conclusion they would be using it as …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 12:46 PM
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If I was a bad communicator why would I have friends and a social circle? Once again more baseless assumptions. Just stop You admit you know nothing yet deny what Im outright telling you what I have done and things that I have. Hilarious lol. Whatever Because how else am I going to learn, than by talking with someone who knows a bit more? Youre not trying to learn. Your telling someone who is actually in the situation that they are wrong when all you are saying is based off of speculation and wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 07:03 AM
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Correct! I don't. I only know my interaction with you, and I know how reality works. Based on what you're saying, I don't think the immutable features you have are what keeps you down. The demands that women have for these sorts of things aren't real, and the immutable traits you have can be outshone by a myriad of other qualities you can have. Youre interactions with me prove nothing. More redditor personality nonsense. There is nothing I could write that would make you acknowledge that immutab…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 04:27 AM
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Because no one takes it seriously and all issues around it get dismissed by insecurity. There are even short men who are in denial about stuff like this. People only take it seriously when its said by a third party like a woman or a guy who isnt short
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 04:22 AM
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Eh. They’re preference posts. They usually only come up when people are talking about what they’re attracted to. But they’re also hate. I def agree with that. But why would some one diss someone they dont prefer when talking about what they do prefer? I dont get it at all For the short men posts, I think they’re preference and hate too. But it’s more that men find it embarrassing or “not masculine” to express disapproval of short guy hate posts. Nah its not about masculinity. Most men genuinely …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 11:53 PM
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By saying "I might as well be one" you are equating yourself to one. I genuinely think you're downplaying yourself because I don't think immutable traits alone keep you at that level, nor do I think they are a primary factor Im not downplaying anything. You know nothing about me. I have friends, have a social circle, have hobbies, Im fit, and have looksmaxxed. I dont even know why Im saying this lol youll probably say Im not doing enough no matter what. There is nothing that could get some peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 11:49 PM
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I see those too. At least those get pushback and are seen as controversial by many. No one really cares about the stuff I posted. And I dont say that to downplay them because they are real issues, I just think the stuff done by women is taken less seriously And all of that including what you wrote arent preferences posts. Its straight up hate. I thought that people can say they like one thing with out dissing another thing but apparently its very hard for some. I hope tiktok gets banned tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 11:43 PM
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Obviously, I don't know you, but genuinely, from my heart, I do not believe you. Unless you have something crazy wild about you you're not a hideous monster. I do not believe that the physical traits you have make you anything out of the ordinary. I never said I was one I said I have the same results as one which is true. You dont have somsething crazy wild about you to be considered unattractive That's...literally equating yourself to a hideous monster, my friend. That's literally, not being hy…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 11:05 PM
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Many men, yourself included, will downplay themselves because they feel they don't meet this supposed list and will equate themselves to a "hideous monster," and that is a big part of what's holiding them back. Im not downplaying anything. Im accurately reflecting my reality. I didnt equate myself to a hideous monster either. I said that I might as well be one because my results are the same as one which is 0. Once again misrepresenting my words lol. Again you know nothing about me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 10:34 PM
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Its a regular thing on this sub and is why I stopped commenting here for a while. They dont even try to be unbaised. Its a waste of time debating with most people here
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 10:13 PM
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Please give the reasons like i gave That have the trait so how could they speak on how impactful it is lacking it? Its the same as a white person talking on race while not being exposed to any negative aspects of being non-white Now , no it's not , that's not how averages work, if even 70% of the times only the people taller than 5'9 would've been in relationships, then too the averages would've been much more than 5'9 because almost 50% of the girls are below 5'4 too What are you even talking a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 08:46 PM
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Yes. I am. I assumed since you replied to me you'd be staying on topic. Why did you reply to me if you wanted to talk about something different? We were just talking about the immutable traits being compensated for then you pivoted back to your list of demamds. How is that on topic? Your point being that since I'm tall I have an advantage? My point was already explained. People on this sub will downplay any adavantage they have to prove a point. Youve been doing it the entire conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 08:40 PM
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...okay? We're talking about the "demanded" traits of being big and tall and with model looks and strong and rich, and how average men can still get into relationships despite not having those traits. No you are. That was your list. You said that immutable traits can be compensated for and that has 0 connection to what you just wrote Nope. My glimpses into your personality are based off of the things you've written to me so far. I'm not saying I know who you are entirely as a person, I've admitt…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 08:24 PM
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I've never said too that it isn't important "at all" for "all women" , ofcourse it'd be important for a lot of women (maybe even most) and with varied choices as well , but again that's not even the major factor (which the statistics shows). Also i think the tall guys would be the most authentic one to tell you these because they are the ones who know what they experience. They would be the least qualified to talk on it actually All the other traits are as important , like again , see for yourse…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 08:20 PM
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Because the traits are being compensated by whatever the man has that makes the woman attracted to and stay with him. Shorter men, men without model looks, men with less than stellar hairlines, those are the immutable traits that are being compensated for by whatever else the man has to attract his partner. The fact that they're in a relationship despite not having the ideal bone structure is my point. A trait wouldnt have to be compensated for if its seen as attractive. Thats goes for physical …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:46 PM
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What do you mean you dont know what the context was lol its clear as day. I just showed you a link. But I see what type of commenter you are so Im not replying again. Very weird
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:42 PM
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Do you think they were edited or something? Youre joking right? Do the amount of likes, saves, and comments mean nothing? I didnt claim anything either but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:38 PM
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Did you click it? There are like 20 videos there. Ive never seen someone be more disingenuous is my life lol. You cant be serious
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:34 PM
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What about this stuff: https://imgur.com/a/VHRARRI The content goes viral daily and the comments are filled with women agreeing. Stuff like this from women is seen as jokes/rage bait but when its from men its taken 100% seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:32 PM
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No it doesnt. Content like this going viral daily with little to no pushback shows that what you said isnt true at all for women: https://imgur.com/a/VHRARRI And this stuf is way more common and popular than any of the things you listed
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:31 PM
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I don't, no, but it's exactly what makes my point valid. These average men don't meet the overall "demands" that seem to get touted as to what women want, and yet they're still attractive to the women they're in a relationship with. You made that list and said that immuatble traits can be compensated for. How does that relate to your point if they have nothing to compensate for? And the way you respond offers glimpses into your personality. In part, it's how you respond to things and engage with…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:23 PM
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You just said it happens all the time. It doesnt. Do you think that women find the average men they are with to be physically unattractive? I get glimpses of your personality through these exchanges. That's why I worded it the way I did, that your personality isn't coming through as positive, meaning the representation of yourself that you're putting off isn't great. It's purely in regard to what you've written here in this thread to me. There arent any glimpses. Im literally responding to what …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:56 PM
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They do all the time. Not true at all I guarantee you see yourself as far worse than others see you. However, in our discussions together, your personality isn't coming through as one that is very positive. No I dont. Im seeing myself accurately. You know literally nothing about my personality. We are on reddit on an extremely niche sub. Anything you claim to know about my personality is a baseless assumption You also mentioned tall, fit, big, tougher, and more masculine. So...kind of all pretty…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:48 PM
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Yes, to a point! Unless you're saying you're some hideous monster then they can absolutely compensate. They rarely do. And I might as well be one with my combination of traits. My results are the same as one Right, and then you said "Thats why you tried to downplay the [traits] that you aligned with earlier," implying that I'm strong and was just downplaying it. Was that the only trait I mentioned in that response? Odd how its the only one you are focused on How does describing your traits get y…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:23 PM
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...How do you figure? By "those other qualities" I'm talking about your personality, the way you carry yourself, your fitness, your dress, etc. Do you think those traits can compensate for a lack of physical attractiveness? I dont even know why Im asking you as you wouldnt even know. Im really confused as to why you are speaking on this topic at all actually. 0 self awareness I assume you're referring to the line where you said "Thats why you tried to downplay the ones that you aligned with earl…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 05:55 PM
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Clearly it bears repeating. There are many things that can attract a woman. Height, for some, is attractive. For many, it gets someone noticed, but it's usually not enough to actually get someone interested romantically. If you don't have it, you can also be attractive for a myriad of other qualities, to the point where your height doesn't matter. For most of them height is attractive and most very tall people get noticed. Like said before it makes you a more attractive romantic prospect. Those …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 05:39 PM
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Precisely. There are so many traits a person can have to make them appealing. The "demands" of rich/athletic/muscly are minor ones that are offset by a multitude of other things, including height, including personality, including skillsets, including hairline, including humor, including many many other things. You said this already and I responded to it. Im not repeating myself. Cool, then you've met a shallow woman. Thankfully, many other women aren't so shallow. Lol. Youre so out of touch its …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 05:08 PM
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Key word, "traits" As in there are multiple. You have one of them Yes, being tall gets me noticed, just like being funny gets someone noticed, just like having great hear gets someone noticed, just like having a cool skill gets someone noticed, just like being social gets someone noticed, etc etc etc. One of those traits isnt like the other and is unchageable. That same trait can make a women uninterested in a man because be is lacking in it before any conversation or interaction is had Just bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:37 PM
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Yes, I did change it, thank you. That was intentional. I changed the language to better suit the stance I'm making: that while height may get me noticed, it's not what really makes women actually romantically interested in me. Yes it is and it plays role. Its an attractive physical trait for men to have so yes women will take interest in it. A person with more attractive traits is a more desireable romantic prospect and would have more women interested in them than someone lacking the trait If g…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 03:52 PM
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It doesn't. Men notice my height too. Married couples notice my height. It's not what keeps women interested as a romantic prospect. I have other qualities that do that. Notice how you changed it from standing out as romatic prospect to keeping someone intersted as a romantic prospect. Very interesting lol. It 100% does make you stand out in that way. Ive already explained how. "You are big, people percieve tall men as tougher/more masculine by default, and if you go to the gym you are strong ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 03:14 PM
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They say it themselves. Ask the women here what percent of men they find attractive in their day to day lives and see what the answers are. It has been asked on this app many times before and the number is usually around single digits. There are many posts about this topic. Effort also has little to do with it. If men put in 10/10 effort most women would still see them as unatttactive. They judge men based off of immutable traits 1st.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 02:10 PM
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Right but you're responding to my comment that is refuting it. It's the topic at hand. Youre refuting a point you made yourself Which demands are those? Because so far you've listed strong/tough just for being tall, which I think is a bit silly. Is there anything else? Ive listed nothing. You listed those and I replied to them Why not? I'm genuinely asking. I don't know you, so I'm curious why that's not an option. Because of other traits out of my control. I cant get away with the stuff other m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:18 AM
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Well what you seem to mean goes against the original claim, that women demand a man hold these qualities of strong/rich/whatever. The "demands" I see are reasonable ones (have goals, be interesting, be kind). I never made that claim. You dont have to think about the "demands" that you fit by default. Thats why you tried to downplay the ones that you aligned with earlier. I get looked at over typical chad types all the time. I've been with women despite them making more than me, being (IMO) much …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:02 AM
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Its so annoying how they try to make stuff up or switch topics when they cant address a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 05:55 AM
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Stop trolling. What do you get out of responding this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 05:17 AM
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Again making claims that no one said. Weird
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 05:10 AM
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Thanks I appreciate it. I stopped coming here for a bit because there are people here like the ones you described. No point in even talking about this stuff anymore. Its not changing anything so its a waste of time
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 03:37 AM
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I never said it was the sole factor. I said that he will be seen as above average for those traits alone and its true. Im 5'6 so Im not listenting to any tall guy claim it isnt that important. None of those other traits are important once you are below a girls acceptable height range and Im under that for most women. And BTS is popular because of their status and niche.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 02:55 AM
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All this is to say, maturity is something you have to look for and you have to push for in yourself as well. I had to realize recently, I have to HONESTLY look at myself. I can't have a, rules for thee, and not for me mentality, that'll make ME unhappy in the end. Maturity isnt really valued at my age or where I live
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 02:33 AM
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You ignoring everything else but that line says it all lol Buddy I go to spin class twice a month. Surely if that’s all it takes you can beat that. I have already beat that. And where did I say thats all it takes? You keep making stuff up to respond to
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 01:47 AM
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No one said any of that. You did. There was no claim made by me either. I just asked a question which you didnt even answer lol Youre 6'6. At that height you have more leeway than average height and average looking men. If you are fit those 2 traits alone make you above average. You are big, people percieve tall men as tougher/more masculine by default, and if you go to the gym you are strong yet you claim you never were any of those things. Odd Its hilarious how people on this sub will downplay…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 12:57 AM
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The equivalent in dating is that a man on the lowest tier can usually get a lowest tier women, at least eventually. Even that takes some effort, which sucks. Just like you still have to show up at McDonald's to get that minimum wage paycheck. These women are not very physically attractive. Often overweight. Not much particularly interesting about them. Those women dont want those men. And the standards of those women are no lower than any others. I have already tried with those groups and failed…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 11:40 PM
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I get what you are saying but Im talking about having below average potential regarding physical attraction. You can try hard/put in a ton of effort and still end up below average. Hope seems like delusion at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:44 PM
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What if your potential is below average? Then what?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:16 PM
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How tall are you? The jokes on this sub write themselves I swear lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 09:47 PM
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Shes would reject me if I did
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 10:17 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/26jhg4g0rh6e1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=412d430270dbd85dd9ddddeef1833bccf34b7502
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 10:08 PM
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Heres a comment on a normie sub saying that with 2k upvotes: https://np.reddit.com/r/Fauxmoi/s/6bKe2ak3EH https://preview.redd.it/uq41s7yymh6e1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=db9a05c317014447723007a51d03a2f6c6e6dd21
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 09:45 PM
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Thats how most women think. Thats why them saying height isnt important means nothing to me as a short man. Because all it means is that they dont specifically prefer tall men. Funny enough a good amount of them end up with tall men anyway. There are examples of this on ppd. In most cases men below average height arent even an option to them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 09:19 PM
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Yea I seen that too. Being fit doesnt do much for short men as a bunch of women would pick a rail thin or even a skinny fat/chubby tall guy over us
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 07:52 PM
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100% true
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 07:49 PM
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True. Height is an amplifer for men. If I was taller I be consderable more physically attractive just off of that trait changing alone
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 07:43 PM
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<High n count women from a man’s pov is low value because she’s ran through and she might have kids where she has full custody of. For men a HVW is one he has that nobody else does. High count women get married and date with little to no issue so what are you talking about? Virgin and inexperienced men are seen as undateable. High n count men does suffer the same fate because men cannot be ran through, society encourages men to be “winning” the dating game and he’s desirable not ran through if h…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:27 PM
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Women dont care about character if the guy is hot
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:19 PM
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You didnt answer the question
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:17 PM
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They want men other women want and a bunch dislike teaching a man anything. They care more than men do actually
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:14 PM
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Women with high counts have baggage but men with high ones dont? Makes 0 sense
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:13 PM
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Youre more symptethic now though right lol. Nothings changed. You still hate the groups you did before
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:07 PM
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Someone said they liked my bookbag. Was the only one actually
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:47 AM
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Im not trying hard at all. Im going off of what Ive heard many women say like I said. The question has been asked multiple times on this sub and on reddit in general. And you can find women say they want experienced men everywhere. Social media exists. And where did I say every woman alive? I literally said most. Youre the one doing the most lol. Saying that they dont want to date someone isnt demonizing them. Thats a crazy reach Like it's ironic yall can engage in slut shaming and judging by th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 01:48 AM
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They do. Its seen as insecurity
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 11:31 PM
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Im suprised this sub hasnt been banned yet. And the mods dont do that much
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:09 PM
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Its posted by a woman its not gonna get removed lol. Rules dont seem to apply to them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:02 PM
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Highly doubt that. You dont go from being how you were to sympathetic in a month. No matter how much a guy improves youll probably say he isnt doing enough. Youve literally done it to me lol. Tried to find endless reasons for my lack of success despite me telling you that Ive done everything people here say to do
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:27 PM
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Im not misinterpreting anything lol. Im basing it off of your history here. Its litetally in line with everything youre known for. They only have an issue with who is saying certain things not what is said
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:23 PM
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Youve repeatedly pushed this narrative for months and you strongly dislike average men. Ive never seen a woman push back on anything you say. Like ever. This is the 1st time Ive ever seen you claim you dont agree with what you wrote and I honestly dont believe you. Like I said if I wrote half of the stuff you did they would be all over my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:17 PM
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No I dont. But if I said women go for hot men for those reason they would be a bunch of them disagreeing with me. Clearly they agree they just dont like when certain people say it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 03:38 PM
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It is not, only on this forum. It is meant for men doing basic things in a relationship but being celebrated like they are the best partner ever whereas it is just considered normal for women to do them ( as in cooking or childcare or hoovering) Yes it is regularly used. Its said to single guys and claim that the reason they are single is due to a lack of effort to make it seem like guys are lazy. They say things like having good hygience and being a good person or kind are what it takes to get …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:12 PM
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if guys could just do what women do and just go "okay im not gonna date her" instead of writing novels fantasizing about how awful it would be to date a girl who fucked 50 guys in excruciating detail... it'd be easier to take the virgin shaming more seriously. ​ It isnt taken seriously anywhere. Using this niche sub and the opinons men have here as a reason why people dont care about it IRL makes 0 sense. The majority of men arent writing anything or making any comments on it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 01:45 PM
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They dont actually care about shaming being done in general and most arent consistent at all on this. They just dont want it done to women but will do it to men with no hesitation. Thats why I canr take most of the women here complaining about it seriously. High count women date and get married with little to no issue. Virgin/inexperienced men are seen as undateable by many women for that trait alone
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 01:42 PM
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95% of guys her could say shes attractive and 1 guy calling her mid, not ugly, is supposed to prove something. Hilarious lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 01:38 PM
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Thats literally how its regularly used
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 01:35 PM
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It also gets told to men who are single and arent dating
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 01:34 PM
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There are way more femcel subs than incel subs on this app. Its not even close actually
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 01:32 PM
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His supporters wont stop supporting him. They said he considered bombing Manhattan. If he did it they would still be all over him
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 01:13 PM
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I genuinely dont think there is anything
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 01:09 PM
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Lets see if any women of blue piller here will disagree with this lol. I know for a fact if I said it they would be all over it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 01:05 PM
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Someone like that telling guys to improve and put in effort is hilarious lol. Cant even do it themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 01:02 PM
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Its a woman larping
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 12:59 PM
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Im 5'6. I dont think I can pull that off. I dont smoke either
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:38 AM
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Most criminals don't end up on national news mate unless they do something really fucked up, which this guy very very much did. Most murders are j x criminal shot y criminal over something stupid, or x guy shot his affair partner/wife, not really newsworthy m There are millions of people in cities and states right? Why wouldnt it have the same effect there? We should see it happening with criminal put on local news too by your logic And dating profiles arent relevant to what Im talking about at …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:31 AM
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We even have a short white duade in the sub who shoots himself in the foot every week on a date Really? Who? But yea being black and dating sucks unless you fall under one of like two general molds generally Ive said this on here multiple times before and I agree. This is well known IRL. A bunch of redditors will deny it though
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:30 AM
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Its clearly attractive enough for women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:10 AM
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You didnt address anything else I wrote. Why is that? And youre the one who brought up stuff men do to women online which played into the side stuff. You literally attempted to downplay what I brought up
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:07 AM
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I fail to see what's so attractive about that guy look-wise Hes white, has a good jawline, and has a head full of hair. Thats really all it takes to appeal to a bunch of women. People on here will deny it but its true. He looks like a guy you would see at a frat on a campus
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:03 AM
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Yea Im done ngl. Its obvious whats going on. Their rationalizations for this stuff are endless
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:57 AM
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The rationalizations are hilarious. They really are never ending lol. If he was average looking no one would know who he is. He literally blew up because of his looks. They show criminals on the news daily. You think those average looking guys are getting women thirsting over them and hitting them up in jail? Get real lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:56 AM
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No, I can't read your mind. I went by the words you used, which are words very frequently said on this very subreddit. Im saying the exact same thing I did in my 1st reply I didn't have to answer the question because the question is you just changing the topic. You think looks are all that matters, and "situation proves it perfectly," yet "women will strongly disagree" with men who say this. There was no topic change. Where did I claim looks are all that matters? I said that they will disagree w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:50 AM
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Can you expain why Wade Wilson, a racist who brutally killed 2 women, had tons of women thirsting over him online and 10s of thouhsand of them signing petitions about him? Was there a national sentiment there too?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:42 AM
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A bunch of women were signing a petition for Wade Wilson and he brutally killed 2 women and was a racist. All because they were attracted to him. So who knows what could happen Even on this sub some women who only speaks against men are also supporting him. The stuff the say only applies to men they arent attracted to. Once they think the guy is hot all the negative things they think about men dissapear
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:34 AM
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No he wouldnt lol. Be fr man. All the guys that women thirst over online who have done crime are above aversge looking. An average looking criminal would be invisible to them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:32 AM
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You know what I was referring to. And I didnt say that. I said that this situation proves the men who say it have merit to what they say. And it does You not answering the question says it all lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:24 AM
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If he was average looking do you think he would be getting the same reception from women? I highly doubt it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:20 AM
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Thats literally the only reason why he is getting all this attention from women. This comment says it all https://preview.redd.it/e1tdol46a56e1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=018755f4fd0e51b9a7e8d278b08d899273b953b0 I wonder what they are referring to here
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:12 AM
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Because they are attracted to him. Yet they will strongly disagree with the men who say that looks are all that matters. This situation proves it perfectly
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 03:55 AM
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But when guys here say its looks over everything people strongly deny it. This situation literally proves it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 03:38 AM
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Shes cut off
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 03:35 AM
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Well this is what I get when I search it. 3 positive posts and one neutral discussion about it from some NPC reading a reddit post. Most girls who are neutral or positive towards short guys aren't going to get guy defense posts on their FYP to engage with. The girls who are negative towards them will get anti-short posts on theirs though, because rage drives engagement. This is just social media literacy. You looking up short guys proves nothing though. There are tons of trend and hashtags dedic…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 03:34 AM
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The only difference between him and the men they dislike is that hes attractive to them. Says it all really
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 11:41 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 11:25 PM
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Some of them always find a way to take a shot at short men no matter what the situation is. He probably isnt even short
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:11 PM
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Im talking about platforms like tiktok and twitter. Reddit is very niche
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:50 PM
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Because its a woman saying it. They only really care if its coming from a man
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:37 PM
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Why are they trying to relate among us to what he did lol. Thats so crazy to me 🤣 In the game, called "Among Us," some players are secretly assigned to be killers in space who perform other tasks while trying to avoid suspicion from other players.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:32 PM
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Youre average height so some may make an exception. Thats not really a possibility for me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:28 PM
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It’s not cool to make fun of anyone for their sex lives because we all have a different relationship with our sexuality. Doesn’t matter your gender. I agree If you have an “unusual” n count, I don’t think it’s weird for some to wonder why (if you’re even disclosing it). Maybe it’s indicative of something negative, or maybe it’s not. In dating, I think people should get to know other on an individual basis and not make snap judgements about someone’s character when you know next to nothing about …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:28 PM
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This is true. A mans looksmatch on paper will almost always be seen as better looking than him IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:16 PM
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Oh goodness. I’d bet money most of those women have dated/would date someone shorter than the standard they express here. Possibly idk. This still shows what the ideal man is for them though. I dont think they would date a short man though I know you think half a million likes is a shit load, but this is TikTok, a global platform. You’re also dealing with algorithms that want to serve you this content because you engage with it the most. I’m sure you’ve commented on a lot of those posts. That is…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:07 PM
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That was literally 1 sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:05 PM
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Don’t you see how these spaces do the same thing to men that y’all do to women? Both sides are boosting the most insane points of the other side and assuming the ideology applies to all of them. They look for these takes from the most radical of the other ideology to blame the other side for all their problems. I do. I genuinely believe that this sub is designed to radicalize. The mods dont really care about hateful content either This sub is pretty niche and I was mainly talking about the more …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:57 PM
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Brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:43 PM
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Exactly. That age or younger is clearly the most optimal time to meet a parter. People telling guys to wait till they are 30 are the most annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:32 PM
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What’s the point of the last question? My assumption would be that most people date pretty much across the board, meaning neither up or down, just people who are in the same spaces as them and are similar Im just asking. I dont know the answer. Most people in general date across the board but most men are average and arent dating. So idk what it is. Could be older men but younger women say that they dont like them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:25 PM
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Possibly. In the heat of an argument she may bring it up as he could be insecure about it. If hes not good in bed she may end up resenting him for that too and just leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:23 PM
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I dont think most will care. They will disregard those things because hes attractive and did something they support. This popular comment says it all really https://preview.redd.it/4tnp4j70q16e1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b1f112807ed8018df9037a6928a53e7ec99a31fb
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:13 PM
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Yea I agree with that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:09 PM
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Let’s just grant that for sake of argument, then what? What do you expect women to do? Other clones of themselves? Lol, clearly then the only thing that would happen is that more men would die alone until the numbers balance themselves out again. I dont expect anything. I just dont understand why young men are getting blamed for it and told they are failing when no matter what we do and no matter how much effort we put in. A significant amount of us will still be single And who do you think the …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:08 PM
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They arent trying to talk guys into anything. They just want them to stop talking negatively about high count women and stop assigning negative traits to them. If find that funny because a bunch of women here do the exact same to inexperieced/virgin men. It makes 0 sense
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:00 PM
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Most women are not dating a virgin or inexperineced man. A high count women would have little to no issue getting dates or getting married though. Its night and day
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 03:49 PM
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Women expect more now because they can work, so either improve yourself or don’t date. Doesn’t matter either way. People will get wiped from the gene pool, and that’s inevitable. Even if young men improve themselves a significant amount will be unable to date. I explained this already. There arent enough single young women. It no where near as simple as you make it sound Maybe we’re moving towards a society where most people left are the top echelon of people, psychically, intellectually, social…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 03:47 PM
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Again, 63% of below 30 year olds?! Looking at the numbers you linked, that’s not to say 63% will be single indefinitely. In fact it shows that about half of them will probably end up in a relationship down the line. Those are older men and arent inline with where tge current generation of men is headed. How can a man with no relationship experience in his 20s find one in his 30s? Something doesnt just click at that age. The ones who struggled for their who 20s will continue to stuggle. I expect …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 03:33 PM
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True. Women make content like this which goes viral daily but if I repeat it or show it I get called an incel. It makes 0 sense. https://imgur.com/a/VHRARRI
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 03:16 PM
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Well if you’re not transparent with that, it becomes dishonest. You can’t say “63% of men are single”, because the real number is 32%. So you have to add “63% of men BETWEEN THIS AND THAT AGE are single”. I said young men in my initial comment. I think that was transparent. Thats also the age the study defines as young Well not everyone can win at life. Some people are born with illnesses that makes them die as kids etc. Some men will be way more unattractive than others, and in that case you ei…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 03:13 PM
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The vast majority of people here are from the US. Yes 32% overall but for my age group 18-29, which is the age group of most men on this sub, 63% of men are single. Even if we were to do everything people say a good amount would still be single and unable to date. There arent enough women for each guy to get 1 because most are already dating. Idk who they are with but they are with someone. Who are guys supposed to date? Most men in general arent redpilled yet next to no one seems to have empath…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:56 PM
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Many women judge men for being virgins/inexperienced. I dont get why people have an issue with one and not the other. Its especially weird because high body count women can date and get married with little to no issue. The men I described cannot
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:48 PM
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I dont think you would have empathy for them no matter what they did. Many here claim the same as you yet shit on struggling men no matter how much effort they put in. Ive experienced it myself Its from pew research: https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/02/08/for-valentines-day-5-facts-about-single-americans/ft_2023-02-08_facts-single-americans_01-png/ <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:45 PM
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I dont think you would have empathy for the anyway. Many here claim the same as you yet shit on struggling men no matter how much effort they put in. Ive experienced it myself Its from pew research: https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/02/08/for-valentines-day-5-facts-about-single-americans/ft_2023-02-08_facts-single-americans_01-png/ https://preview.redd.it/lpcxd5pw916e1.png?width=620&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fd7e0f0ad5b1092c95a29e9a99fce0d962cc5b48
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:43 PM
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Are you implying that 63% of young men are incels/redpillers? You cant be serious. Both groups are a tiny amount of men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:31 PM
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Most young men are single, 63%, so clearly it isnt "very easy"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:25 PM
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Thats why I do not get why people claim people who vote that way are "voting against their self-interest". Not everyone values the same things. They knew exactly what they were doing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:21 PM
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Where did he hint at any of this? And a large amount of women also voted for trump
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:14 PM
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I agree. I dont watch Tate and never did. Im also not radicalized. But the content that really rubbed me the wrong way was things made by women themselves. People here will downplay it but I think thats one of the biggest factors. Stuff like this for example: https://imgur.com/a/VHRARRI Videos which shit on and diss short get 100k to 1 million likes daily and get little to no pushback. Yet when I bring it up I get told it just rage bait or jokes. I know for a fact that if it was a man making con…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:13 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:34 PM
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I dont have the app anymore. I deleted it because of the popularity of such content. Its not worth using
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:30 PM
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https://imgur.com/a/VHRARRI I didnt make this but it does show what I am talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:38 AM
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The content I am talking about is made by women themselves for other women to see. They are full of women in the comment section agreeing and content like that goes viral daily. 100k to 1 million likes are regular numbers. I dont watch street interview content. If the opinions they give were only being propped up by a loud minority there would be counter content dismissing it as false. But no such content exists. The height tiktoks they make are a perfect example of this
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:48 AM
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I think it probably comes with age, growing up in the 90's online you just get numb to it at a certain point. There's only so many variations on a theme one can hear before you just start rolling your eyes. Black women are ugly, black men are thugs, neither of us know who our daddies are, yadda yadda yadda. I guess it's exposure therapy of sorts 🤣 Yea thats true I guess I ran out of energy for anger a longgggg ass time ago. They know it gets a reaction which is the whole point. It's fun to just …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:36 AM
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Its the sub that they are on. I think a good amount of women here and some men do not want to prove men here right in any area so they will avoid talking about the negative aspects of their relationships. Only a few do. The rest seem like they are in perfect relationships. Most people in general arent in a relationship like that yet thats the way a bunch of posters here present theirs
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:19 AM
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Do you think maybe your perception of this hateful content's popularity might possibly be affected by an algorithm's (mis)interpretation of what you seek out, engage with, and/or simply give attention to in the form of views? I dont use tiktok anymore. I deleted the app because of that. I do know that while I was there it was extremely popular and according to people I know the trends still continue and are even bigger now. Its well known I have screenshots of videos/content from the app How man…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:03 AM
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A man being better than he was before does not mean that he is now attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:50 AM
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Im suprised this sub wasnt banned for that stuff Im also black and I do not have that mindset yet. Idk maybe it comes with maturity. I wish I did though because I do get pretty sensitive about the topic honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:17 AM
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Likes, reposts, and amount of posts in the specific category
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:13 AM
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Youre a man trying to rate men based on what you think should be attractive to woman. They do not think that way at all. Idk why guys on here think getting fit is some cheat code
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:12 AM
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Honestly if you're a young guy like many men here and put in effort just from your youth and fitness you're automatically a 6. Delusional lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:07 AM
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Most cant
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:06 AM
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It was full of racists and insane stuff. Like 100x worse than it is right now. I wasnt here for one but you can still look back at some posts and comments that are up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:06 AM
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Any one can participate and respond to or make counter content to go against what is posted. The fact that it isnt done says it all. Its not a reddit sub or some niche forum no one knows about. In fact what Im talking about is some of the most popular content on the app
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:58 AM
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How much is a bunch? Do you think a media bubble doesn't exist where misandry is critiqued and criticized? Idk the exact number The bubble exists but its nothing compared to the opposite. It isnt taken seriously anyway Who is they? How many? What is the level of attention they get? Do we know if the content is being brigaded or simply reverberating inside it's own echo chamber (coughTwoXChromosomescough) and to what extent? Both men and women downplay it The content isnt being brigaded. There ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:56 AM
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Regardless of if I consume it or not it still exists. Content from regular women does 10 timesmore than stuff from grifters does to create division. Its extremely popular and gets little to no pushback
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:38 AM
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By a bunch of people on this sub, most reddit subs in general, people on most major social media platforms, and IRL They will downplay hateful content by women till the end of time
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:26 AM
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Most people dont care about grifters. The content that is the most hateful and disruptive comes from everyday regular people
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:25 AM
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How is a fit well groomed facially 5/10 guy the same as other 5/10 guys who are fat with bad skin and shit style? I already told you that immutable traits are what make the rating. He would still be a 5 in the face and a 5 overall no matter what he does. So he is still average looking. On paper hes above average but thats not how things work in the real world. The average guy you mentioned initially is not seen as average to women. Thats below average to them. A guy thats a 5 isnt attractive jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 03:52 AM
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Smh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 03:36 AM
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The average man is chubby and gives zero fucks about skincare or style. Anyone who goes to the gym regularly to achieve decent muscle tone, healthy BMI, and puts in effort with clothing or grooming is going to automatically have a huge edge. Ofc if every man did this then the standards would just go up again, but as it is currently with the sheer amount of fat schlubby men we're a long long way from that and basically it won't ever happen. No its not a huge edge at all and is honestly overrated.…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 03:28 AM
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The sub would be dead if they enforced that. Rage bait is what keeps it alive. The mods dont really care much about hateful content either
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 03:18 AM
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I think the vast majority of men, if they looksmax, can find at least a decent amount of women physically attracted to them. Most men have a potential thats in the average range. Thats literally their peak even if they max it out. A decent amount of women is a reach 99% of guys saying they struggle even with good personalities or sociability don't actually know what an attractive or even normal personality is. 63% of young men are single. Do you really believe most of the have a bad personality?…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 03:15 AM
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Does it have to be money related
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 03:05 AM
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This only goes one way. Not one person say this about women even though they consume the content at the same rate or even higher. If a woman posts something hateful toward men its seen as rage bait but if the man does the same to a woman its taken 100% serious. How does that make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:55 AM
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Why would getting spoiled turn you on
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:38 AM
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Wild lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:35 AM
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Its his face. They were thirsting over him before even seeing his body
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:30 AM
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Yea its on a normie sub The boomers here would be like "no one is shitting on men, you're imagining it", no you're just willfully retarded. They only act that way when its about men. If a man made a post about women they would take it 100% serious
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:21 AM
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I dont think him reading plays any major role tbh. I honestly doubt most girls care about a guy doing that at all actually
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:57 AM
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Do you think they are referencing the book review or how he looks <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:38 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:36 AM
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They arent attracted to him
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:31 AM
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They wouldnt be simping for him at all in your scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:26 AM
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You have to be trolling lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:29 AM
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Im 23. I dont make negative comments about women though and Im not redpilled. I think most guys here are in their early 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:28 AM
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Women dont want to see average looking men sexualized
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 08:52 PM
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Shes attractive but not a 10. Closer to an 8 maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 07:43 PM
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Looks AI generated
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 07:40 PM
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Where? Ive never heard of that. Im not denying that it happend though. I didnt say men were better. Women claim to like the exact opposite of men like that yet tons loved him The guy im talking about went viral on tiktok and had women making thirst edits of him. Articles were even written on their obsesion with him
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 07:39 PM
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Not really
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 07:31 PM
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They also simped over a racist who brutally killed 2 women and signed petitions for his release. One as 26k signuratures. Its not comparable at all lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 07:29 PM
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You know most men here are relatively young right? And how many men do you think would get pick by that women you described? Her standards are no lower than any other womans
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 07:18 PM
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What is incel content though? And is anything looks related considered to blackpill content? The no woe-is-me rule is still enforced in the daily chat so I dont see how the rules arent being skirted around
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:36 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:27 PM
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Those rules still apply in the daily chat even and if the person saying it isnt actively debating. I replied to a comment agreed with it and said something woe-is-me related and got a 30 day ban for it. What was disrupted there? So what Im understanding is that incels are allowed here as long as they arent black pilled? Because there is essentially no difference between the content otherwise. There really is no incel problem here then because the mods allow it all lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:24 PM
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Your answer was the most disingenuous out of every woman who replied lol. You saying most men smell like slobs said it all
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:03 PM
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What is the difference between the hateful content mods allow from redpillers and incel content? Both are sexist. And that still doesnt explain why woe-is-me is banned and seen as worse than content the mods know is hateful
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 05:58 PM
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Yea
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 05:52 PM
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Redpillers are more hateful yet mods have 0 issue with them than blackpillers lol Id love to hear how the mods rationalize a guy saying "its over for me" being worthy of a 30-day ban but genuinely hateful content that would be removed on literally any other sub being ok. It literally makes 0 sense
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 05:45 PM
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But on average women just put so much more into their look, so aesthetically they're just more interesting on average in a non-sexual context to look at. I dont really think its about effort. Because if you were to take an average woman with no make up and and an average man then dress them both very well 9 out of 10 people would say that the woman looks better
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 05:30 PM
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Most men do look like shit and smell like slobs. That’s the problem and why women rate men lower in attractiveness. Not true lol. The real reason is that almost any negative trait looks worse on women than it does on men. And thats a fact Also the standards to be and average women by society are a lot higher than to be an average man. If it was based on the scientific average that would be different but most people especially men here view thin, hot, wealthy celebrities as average/mid so compari…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 05:28 PM
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I meant about finding all of those women attractive. Even the lesbian woman here seems to be picky
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 05:11 PM
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Its dont think its about effort though. Like I said to someone above if you were to take a 5/10 woman with no make up and a 5/10 man both dressed well with clear skin 9 out of 10 people will say the woman looks better
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 05:02 PM
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Thats true I guess. A good amount of those lesbians probably arent being honest
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 05:00 PM
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You don’t hear about women at conventions or work that smell bad because they don’t shower or women having skid marks in their underwear. I Most men dont have these issues. Idk why women on this app act like most men they see on a daily basis smell like shit and look like slobs. And it has nothing to do with fashion either. If you took a 5/10 woman with no make up and a 5/10 man both dressed well with clear skin 9 out of 10 people will say the woman looks better
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 04:58 PM
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Yea Ive seen this a lot too
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 04:44 PM
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I doubt that there is one for women. That stuff is basically madatory for men in relationships. If he didnt do those things he wouldnt be in one. Most women will leave if they dont feel desired. I believe men are conditioned to be content with being settled for If a woman doesnt feel desired or wanted, people will say that the man doesnt appreciate them, is lazy, or that he finds them unattractive. When a man feels the same people say that he helps must not be helping around the house and probab…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 04:43 PM
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True lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 04:34 PM
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It would have 0 value to most if the price dropped
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 04:29 PM
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People say men are less picky because we are horny but if that was the case why do women also seem to be less picky when it comes to other women? They find a wide range of women attractive just like men do. This goes for straight women from what I have seen as they say so many women are attractive and lesbians too based off of what I have seen on their sub
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 04:28 PM
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I seen a study that said only 12% of men felt desired by the women they were with. The criteria was compliments, romantic touch, flirting, and initiating sex. Do you think a woman who was into and truly attracted to her partner would have any issue doing those things? Women settle way more and its not even close
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 04:27 PM
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I know. Men are attracted to a wide range of women so there is no need for us to have those rigid lists women do Maybe there would be fewer men settling or having placeholder GFs if they did reject women who don't meet their standards... More women settle more than men do so I find that part funny. Most men cant get a placeholder gf, will never have one, and most men my age are single. Men who can string women along like that are a minority yet it seems to happen to a decent amount of women. Its…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:58 PM
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Same. I have no reason to believe otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:45 PM
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The 1st one still shows they want above average so I dont get what your point is The first one's models don't even look like penises This is irrelevant. They knew what they were selecting for.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:43 PM
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I have. A checklist isnt that though. Most womens checklists include physical/superficial traits and I see standards more as morals/values. Men are not rejecting a woman because she doesnt fit the image he made up in his head. A woman would though
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:39 PM
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I wonder why that is lol. Height doesnt matter either if you ask them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:35 PM
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This study used haptic stimuli to allow assessment of women's size recall accuracy for the first time, as well as examine their preferences for erect penis sizes in different relationship contexts. Women (N = 75) selected amongst 33, 3D models. Women recalled model size accurately using this method
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:34 PM
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Not too suprising lol. If they do respond they will probably say it doesnt matter like they do with height. Its clear to see what is preferred IRL though
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:26 PM
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https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/26332467/ Women preferred a penis of slightly larger circumference and length for one-time (length = 6.4 inches/16.3 cm, circumference = 5.0 inches/12.7 cm) versus long-term (length = 6.3 inches/16.0 cm, circumference = 4.8 inches/12.2 cm) sexual partners. https://badgirlsbible.com/does-size-matter https://preview.redd.it/ukgrfnltbu5e1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=838804f214e1c7a9d36646dab4e10f9a6e9dc02e 2 inches longer than average for this one and bas…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:21 PM
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Thats exactly what it is lol. Ive never heard a man talk about a checklist in my life. If we like and are into the girl it goes from there
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:10 PM
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Youre a woman though. The shots you are taking are like a foot from the hoop or a free throw. For men its like a half/full court shot. Youre way more likely to succeed
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:08 PM
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Ive said this before. Women with checklists dont see men as people. They are just as boxes to tik off. Its way more common than whatever people claim men do yet no one will talk about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 02:46 PM
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Neither side likes young men. I dont know why people act like either cares or values us
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 02:05 PM
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Never
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 05:58 AM
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So shes aware of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 05:47 AM
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Yea my mom does this. She hints at it once in a while and that along with other things she does is pretty demoralizing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:57 AM
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I think my mom gave up on me ngl. Its good that yours still has some faith/hope for you. Its clear that she cares if she talks like that, even if its just to be nice
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 02:48 AM
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He seems pretty open about it so I assumed it shows IRL. And yea I know they cant pick up on most of the stuff they claim they can on here. It only seems to work on guys they arent attracted to lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 01:55 AM
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as much as I dislike/paranoid of women in general Does you hide this? Im trying to figure out how she didnt pick up on it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 01:46 AM
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It would be like living in a whole different world lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 01:20 AM
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You probably are to some men. I didnt mention tinder but you most likely have more guys who would want to date and would be genuinely into you than a guy would have
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 11:52 PM
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Im not jealous but I do want to be seen as attractive/desireable though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 11:23 PM
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This is 100% true and is what I find crazy about this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 10:44 PM
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Yea its pretty unfair man
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 10:42 PM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 09:51 PM
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Does the last part of her name rhyme with Showers? Yes. When you put it that way they are probably a man. Thats the only one though I've been lurking here a while, and there's a couple "blue pill men" that are probably women. I agree and Ive said this before. Its not even about them disagreeing either because all of them arent like that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 08:31 PM
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Most of them dont have consistent opinions and most are contrarians. Ive seen the one person make both arguments above. It literally makes 0 sense to me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 08:22 PM
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Yea I linked that post in my comment below. I dont take any of them seriously on here at all after that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 07:23 PM
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Women here agree on many topics and rarely debate eachother. Rarely any hot takes either and very few agree with the opinions men have on here and none promote them. Theres really only 1 woman user that I think could possibly be a man and I think they are just a woman trolling. They dont even try to hide contradictions they make and even play into them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 06:29 PM
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To make posts like this: https://np.reddit.com/r/GenZ/s/RXvlB8Nt8C Eventually, I started this account, trolling as a male redpilled redditor. I needed to confirm that I wasn't insane. They came to this sub btw
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 06:05 PM
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There are more women larping as men here than there are men larping as women. Its not even close actually
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 06:01 PM
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The majority of women here are married or dating. What reason would they have to come to and extremely niche pilled sub on reddit? If women werent here the sub would still go on. If men werent here it wouldnt exist and there would be 0 women talking about this stuff Men aren't here to be nice to women and to better understand women's perspective. The men are here to whine and complain. Their already on the floor. If this sub was full of men like that it would be a ghost town. Women come here spe…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 05:02 PM
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I don't care what the rejects here think. I do think it's highly entertaining to hear from boys with little to no experience who are younger than me, telling me what "men" care about. It's cute. It's amusing. It doesn't hold any weight in reality. Not suprising at all actually. Most women here probably have the same line of thought and Ive said this before. They come here to laugh at and troll men they look down on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 04:49 PM
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Men on a niche reddit sub caring about it represents most men I guess. Its obviously a pressing issue to you because you clearly do care and address it releatedly Saying they dont think about those men responds to nothing I wrote but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 04:32 PM
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Why do you think most women care about men being inexperienced or virgins? High count women get married and date with little to no issue while virgin men are unwanted by women. No women here seem to address this at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 02:44 PM
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Women care more than men do IRL. And the actual vibe is that virgin/inexperienced men are morally bankrupt. Questions to women on this sub prove this. Yall care about slutshaming but have nothing to say about virgin shaming. One is way more impactful on romantic prospects that the other
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 02:37 PM
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Now, I will give them something: I think women's body counts being lower on average than men's is also partly caused by slutshaming. It's not nearly the only or even the defining factor that contributes to this reality, but it's still one of the issues that's bugging a young woman's life and yes, it does have an impact. Doubt it. It has little to no impact IRL. Those women can date and get married with 0 issue. Most women IRL would never date or be with a virgin but women on here wont touch that…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 02:34 PM
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go forth and vent, my opinion does not need to matter. if it helps you, more power to you. i hope something positive falls into your life eventually. Dont think I should. If you feel this way then others probably do too. I was told by a mod that my comments frequently get reported despite me rarely breaking the actual rules so this partially explains why I guess. You dont seem like the type to do it and arent on that often so I dont think it was you. If I make one slight misstep I know im gettin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 02:26 PM
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I dont have anything to be positive about which is something I have mentioned before. Im not living a fun nice life like a bunch of people on here are. Ive said before that I use this sub as a place to vent and I dont direct it at anyone which is better than what a bunch of guys here do. however, i feel like you’re capable of being a very cool person, unfortunately i don’t think you really show that side of yourself often. i don’t think you’re a bad person at all. i wish you well, i just don’t l…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 07:50 AM
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Even if its happening more now than in the past years its still a minority overall. Its impact is overstated
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 03:32 AM
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True. They may be experimenting with other women but they arent dating them. That shouldnt impact the numbers much so I dont think its plays any significant role
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 03:22 AM
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So lame
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 01:57 AM
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Most guys are getting rejected even if they do approach I got tons of IOIs and stares from women, even ones who were there with dudes. I'm not particularly conventionally attractive. Doesnt make sense at all lol. They arent acting like that toward a guy that isnt attractive. Youve also had women approach you before I think
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 12:14 AM
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It is still a positive trait for a man to have and boosts attractiveness. I dont know any average height or short man that would be less attractive if he was taller but there are tall men who would be less attractive if they were shorter. Its an amplifier in my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 12:00 AM
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Being tall is still a positve trait for a man to have. I think the minimum height is closer to 5'8 or 5'9. 5'7 is visibly below average height. Being 6' isnt a requirement but it is ideal for many women and boosts a mans attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 11:47 PM
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Im in better shape and I have a better face. Im 5'6 though so Im prerry sure that drops my overall rating to below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 10:17 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 10:12 PM
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Am I right
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 10:09 PM
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You got good potential ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 10:09 PM
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I think thats a minority of men. And those men can want it as much as possible but its not gonna happen
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:44 PM
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If that guy in that picture was in good shape I dont think he would struggle much
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:38 PM
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A little bit. Youre not who I was talking about though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:33 PM
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If we should be mindful of male horniness and how it "makes it harder for them", men should be mindful of women's higher neuroticism. Most women dont care about this at all though. Men are expected to care if a woman is comfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:21 PM
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Men psychology is wired to hate women who don’t give them what they want. ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:19 PM
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My fault😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:17 PM
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Yes. It depends on the day. Some days they are chill and other days they are snapping at stuff I say. Its weird
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:16 PM
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Id say hes average looking
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:11 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 08:49 PM
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Most men make an average salary. I do not get why people act like thats something simple to change. Especially reaching the 6 figure mark. Being fit does next to nothing if other areas you have arent also desireable. Im 5'6 and fit/lean and it has had 0 positive impact on me. Stepping outside of your logic, based on responses of men here, many are saying they've met 0 to 2 of the qualities and still had women wanting them for dating and sexual relations. If was taller, at least average height, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 08:47 PM
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I doubt the bio is as big of a factor as women on this app claim. Some guy made a profile of a guy and put in the bio that he was a criminal who abused women and it got 800 matches in 48 hours. If they are truly attracted to the guy nothing else matters. I dont think they are rejecting a guy on apps they think is hot over something that minor looks are important and probably the first filter, but there are more boxes you have to check after that. Most men dont pass the looks filter so thats the …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 08:41 PM
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Its still a big advantage regardless of if you got positive comments from it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 08:41 PM
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I get that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 08:25 PM
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Yea and it is. I dont see how thats contradictory. You can like or be interested in someone and not date them. I never said it was common but its clearly a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 08:24 PM
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I did though And if you focus on the ones you can change and fix them then what? The immutable ones still exist. I know from personal experience Thats what I said Not focusing on something is not the same thing as ignoring it. I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 08:10 PM
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I just said I still try and I have put in effort into other areas. How is that giving up? I can be realistic and not give up. And why are you downvoting me?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:46 PM
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Its not but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:44 PM
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Where did I say that? I can acknowledge that the most important traits are out of my control while still trying
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:43 PM
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I think women swipe on 5 to 7% of men on apps so that comfirms it a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:43 PM
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I meant can change. I just edited it. And I explained why already
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:36 PM
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I think most men are conditioned to be content with being settled for so thats why it isnt a priority. The stuff you do clearly shows you like and desire your husband. If a woman I was dating/married to wasnt doing stuff like that I would just assume that she didnt like me that much
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:33 PM
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