MermaidMommy80 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1096	How to spot a Deadbeat Dad	STAY WOKE	MermaidMommy80	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/04/22 05:06 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	How to spot a Deadbeat Dad Stay pressed 🤣🤣🤣	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/06/22 02:48 AM
2	Dealing with being purposefully celibate NSA = No Strings Attached	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/04/22 08:30 PM
19	Dealing with being purposefully celibate I haven’t had sex in three and a half years. Not since 2019. Mostly because during that time I was pregnant and then having to care for a new baby all by myself while working a full time job AND getting back on my feet with stable housing. So I literally had no time for dating and was too exhausted. My son is almost three now, and just yesterday it suddenly hit me that no one has touched me in three years and likely never will again because 99% of men are low value and just want to get laid, and…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/04/22 02:54 PM
65	How to spot a Deadbeat Dad It always makes me laugh when they pull that stunt. In order to lose custody of your kids, especially when you’re the mother, you’ve got to be a REEEAAALLLYY bad parent in order to lose custody. My ex threatened to take my son from me all the time (the same son he said he didn’t want), and someone at the courthouse laughed and said he would be pissing in the wind if he attempted that.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/04/22 06:20 PM
171	How to spot a Deadbeat Dad This is why I chose not to pursue child support, because I feared that the court would grant him custody even despite proof that he has been committing sex crimes. The family court system is a joke!!! And I totally know how you feel regarding the women after him. I went through the exact same thing myself. Even though I left him to escape his abuse, his next victim…er, girlfriend…insisted that he “kicked me and my bastard baby out” and that I was still in love with him and wanted him back. Obvio…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/04/22 06:10 PM
59	How to spot a Deadbeat Dad This is the reason why I didn’t seek out child support even though it would have helped me a lot. My ex is horrifically abusive, and I don’t trust him not to hurt my son in some way or at the very least expose him to some very very bad behavior. If I pursued child support, that would have established parental rights for him and opened the door to him getting some type of custody, and I don’t trust the courts not to give him 50/50 custody even with his documented history of abuse and violence. So…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/04/22 05:53 PM
112	How to spot a Deadbeat Dad Online court records are accessible to the public, so you can always check and see if a man has petitioned the court and how the case is going.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/04/22 05:50 PM
6	Old men and their entitlement to young women (specifically their wombs) are poisoning the dating market for professional women in their twenties. I don’t know why men are so hung up on the idea that women’s fertility plummets after age 25. It DOESN’T. Not even close. I had my first child at close to 39 and I had no problem conceiving him at all. In fact, almost all the women in my family had kids in their 40’s with no problems. Talk to your grandmothers and great-grandmothers who were alive back in the days before birth control and they’ll tell you countless stories of women having babies up into their 40’s (and sometimes 50’s) because th…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/04/22 06:24 PM
7	Old men and their entitlement to young women (specifically their wombs) are poisoning the dating market for professional women in their twenties. This is why I cackle whenever I hear incels rave with glee about “The Wall” that they claim every woman will hit at age 25 or so, because they are totally clueless about the fact that men have their own wall too, and it’s usually much harsher than women’s. Despite what they tell themselves, young girls don’t find fat bald old men attractive.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/04/22 05:40 PM
5	Old men and their entitlement to young women (specifically their wombs) are poisoning the dating market for professional women in their twenties. Yep pretty much. I had my first child at 38. If my ex hadn’t fathered him, I probably would have used a sperm bank. My ex was an abusive piece of shit whom j ended up leaving and he has nothing to do with our son whatsoever, so he might as well have been just a free sperm bank for me.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/04/22 05:26 PM
26	Is it just me, or is OLD getting even worse? I hate to tell you this, but many of the men you see on OLD sites are not single. They are in committed relationships, pretending to be single online, and looking to cheat. My ex was one of them.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/03/22 02:09 AM