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Tell her to go on a yoga retreat and insist it be a long one. She has her new life and it doesn’t include you
/r/Divorce_Men14/06/25 10:43 AM
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She is lost cause. I would be angry. Call a lawyer now. She will not mediate and same will cut you from kids. Take the kids to a park if you need to talk to them. Get a pizza or something.
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/25 11:10 PM
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Have you talked to a therapist. What about couples therapist? Maybe it is something you two can work through. But it takes two to bend to make things better. But often that fails too. But since you have three kids you should explore this if not already. I would not sign a lease until you are more settled. You have time. Don’t rush
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/25 10:56 PM
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You need to have your own meeting with the kids. You are Dad and entitled to it. Tell them that you love them and you are there for them if they ask. Make sure to see each of them twice a week. If she can’t agree to that. Get a lawyer now. I assume you moved out. Probably shouldn’t done that, but probably cannot stand being under same roof
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/25 06:55 PM
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Yes, exhaust all avenues. Separation will suck
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/25 12:11 AM
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I would make sure you get some help too, with a male therapist/LCSW, this situation can lead to a lot of anger and resentment. If you can't resolve in next few years - have an exit plan. both of you have to be accountable to make it work. it will be painful no matter what if not resolved. kid can sense the discord.
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/24 01:25 AM
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