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| 1 | I've been doing pickup for almost 15 years and now I feel convinced that its a scam and/or a waste of time?Sounds like you’re autism-pilled | /r/seduction | 16/06/26 04:39 PM |
| 1 | I've been doing pickup for almost 15 years and now I feel convinced that its a scam and/or a waste of time?When a girl wears headphones, 9 times out of 10 that means she doesn’t want to be bothered. Yes you could still approach but most of the time you have to be so charming and be so interesting or really hit it off that she is willing to drop what she’s looking at on her phone. Guys do get arrested, or at least banned from places. Doesn’t happen often but it has been happening more in the past few years than in the past TikTok has become a massive toxic echo chamber for young women. Just Watch it f… | /r/seduction | 16/06/26 03:47 PM |
| 1 | I've been doing pickup for almost 15 years and now I feel convinced that its a scam and/or a waste of time?Your upbringing has a lot to do with it too. | /r/seduction | 16/06/26 03:39 PM |
| 1 | I've been doing pickup for almost 15 years and now I feel convinced that its a scam and/or a waste of time?See it’s not that cut and dry anymore. In order to get good at conversing nowadays, you have to optimize your life to where conversing is a huge part of it, such as having a job as a bartender or a medical sales person or a realtor. If you’re a work from home software engineer who puts in 12-15 hours of work everyday, it’s going to be really difficult especially when we live in a day and age where everyone else is very walled off and glued to their phones and laptops and have their headphones in | /r/seduction | 16/06/26 01:05 PM |
| 1 | I've been doing pickup for almost 15 years and now I feel convinced that its a scam and/or a waste of time?Going out meeting women isn’t that cut and dry. The goal posts have been moved way farther from where they were 15 years ago. It has gotten to the point where more and more men, including those who had no problems getting women in the past, are giving up on pursuing women. Also most guys in the fitness industry do gear but they’re never honest about it | /r/seduction | 16/06/26 12:59 PM |
| 2 | I've been doing pickup for almost 15 years and now I feel convinced that its a scam and/or a waste of time?Ok just to give a few examples: -Women are WAY more walled off when they’re out and about at coffee shops, etc. They always have their headphones on and their face glued to a phone or laptop. Even when they’re out with friends, when the friend goes to the bathroom the first thing the girl does is get on her phone and stays there -Society has become way more anti-men and doing stuff like cold approach is way riskier to the point where you could get arrested in some places like in the UK or just 6… | /r/seduction | 16/06/26 12:39 PM |
| 1 | I've been doing pickup for almost 15 years and now I feel convinced that its a scam and/or a waste of time?About the “bad smell” effect, the threshold for what women find awkward/creepy or gives them the ick is much lower than it was 20 years ago. I think things would be a lot easier if women gave men constructive feedback from time to time but they never will because people are either too chickenshit or they really don’t want people to succeed/thrive. Sometimes it’s something as minuscule as your accent or how big your ears are in proportion to your nose. Also one thing no one in pickup ever points … | /r/seduction | 16/06/26 12:24 PM |
| 1 | If You’re Not Approaching At Least 70-100 Women A Week You Have No Room To Complain….I’m going to guess this is a troll/parody post. | /r/seduction | 16/06/26 11:54 AM |
| 1 | If You’re Not Approaching At Least 70-100 Women A Week You Have No Room To Complain….You sound like a boomer who’s out of touch with reality | /r/seduction | 16/06/26 03:11 AM |
| 0 | I've been doing pickup for almost 15 years and now I feel convinced that its a scam and/or a waste of time?You really can’t tell? | /r/seduction | 16/06/26 12:51 AM |
| 2 | I've been doing pickup for almost 15 years and now I feel convinced that its a scam and/or a waste of time?He’s talking about child support/alimony | /r/seduction | 15/06/26 06:55 PM |
| 6 | I've been doing pickup for almost 15 years and now I feel convinced that its a scam and/or a waste of time?Yes it is a scam, and that’s becoming more apparent with pickup coaches pretending it’s still 2005 and not 2026 | /r/seduction | 15/06/26 06:52 PM |
| 1 | The problem with most advice here is that knowledge isn't the bottleneck. It's motivation to actually act on what you know you should be doing. And most advice doesn't address how to generate motivation, or if it does, does so ineffectively. So most advice sucks. But, anyway, here's a new idea.Well I mean I’m sure a lot of guys do heroin in order to approach | /r/seduction | 15/06/26 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Stop autistically analysing every interaction with mathematical precision.Isn’t that what pickup is all about? | /r/seduction | 15/06/26 03:49 PM |
| 9 | “He who hesitates, Masturbates”See, approaching should not be difficult at all unless maybe you have a deep seated anxiety just around talking to people in general. But somehow we got to this point where it has become extremely difficult for most men. We live in a time where western society is very anti-male, especially very anti-white male, and men approaching women for any reason let alone asking them out is heavily discouraged. A lot of women especially Gen Z age are indoctrinated by terrible role models including their an… | /r/seduction | 15/06/26 12:14 PM |
| 1 | “He who hesitates, Masturbates”You have to do what the cult tells you to do or you’ll be ostracized | /r/seduction | 15/06/26 11:52 AM |
| 1 | “He who hesitates, Masturbates”Same here | /r/seduction | 15/06/26 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Why is persistence and chasing such a bad thing?Honestly why do you want a woman that doesn’t want you back? All you’re doing is feeding her ego and you’re receiving nothing in return | /r/seduction | 14/06/26 08:15 PM |
| 1 | I want to learn how to talk to women and be charmingNot to mention a lot of them are staged | /r/seduction | 14/06/26 07:57 PM |
| 7 | I want to learn how to talk to women and be charmingBecome a bartender Seriously though, I can tell you right now, a lot of the issue is not you. Just watch random TikTok’s of women in their car talking about men and you’ll probably never want to approach again. | /r/seduction | 14/06/26 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Getting Back Into Cold Approach. Does It Get Easier?When I was in middle and high school, the most popular guys among the ladies were 5 foot tall Spanish and Italian kids. | /r/seduction | 13/06/26 05:59 PM |
| 0 | Getting Back Into Cold Approach. Does It Get Easier?Women don’t give a shit about height; that’s narrative that men just push and women just run with it. You can be tall and handsome and still get shat on | /r/seduction | 13/06/26 05:41 PM |
| 2 | Getting Back Into Cold Approach. Does It Get Easier?Cold approach is waaaaaaay harder than it needs to be. You should at least be able to go up to the vast majority of women and have a nice conversation, but the problem is a good majority of women in the US don’t like being approached in public and many will act disgraceful even if you come up with good intentions and are nice and polite. You can’t even talk about this either without a bunch of people saying “well you must have had it coming”, like it’s your fault that the girl is acting disgrace… | /r/seduction | 13/06/26 05:39 PM |
| 11 | What are the biggest factors that stop you from cold approaching?Some of them are dating at least 5 guys at the same time | /r/seduction | 12/06/26 03:49 PM |
| 4 | What are the biggest factors that stop you from cold approaching?It has become a humiliation ritual for men. A lot of women nowadays act disgraceful towards men who are just being polite and want to have a conversation. TikTok really accelerated this. | /r/seduction | 12/06/26 03:43 PM |
| 0 | Do you think of having sex with attracting opposite Gender as you see for the First time?Porn brain | /r/seduction | 12/06/26 12:19 PM |
| 1 | So seduction isn’t real it’s a numbers game?Some people have it easier than others. I keep hearing “it’s a skill”, but your upbringing significantly impacts how easy or how difficult it is to build that skill. Guys who have been rejected and shamed since childhood don’t deal with rejection nearly as well as a guy who had great parents, a lot of friends, played a bunch of sports, etc | /r/seduction | 10/06/26 12:01 PM |
| 2 | "You're so sweet but..." after dates and hookupsWomen have too many options | /r/seduction | 10/06/26 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Why Approaching Women in Real Life is a CheatcodeMost girls in cafes, at least in the US, wear headphones the entire time and have their faces glued to their laptops and phones | /r/seduction | 08/06/26 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Why Approaching Women in Real Life is a CheatcodeThe height thing is just an internet trope. Never been true | /r/seduction | 08/06/26 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Why Approaching Women in Real Life is a CheatcodeI dunno, I guess I like the discussions. I used to be a part of the seduction community and really liked following guys like Zan Perrion years ago. Funny thing is I also follow the McDonald’s Reddit page even though I haven’t eaten at McDonald’s in years - I guess I’m just there to watch its downfall. I’m in my 40s now and concluded things aren’t going to get any better for me especially considering the state of the world where everyone is angry and miserable, especially Gen Z and I feel like it… | /r/seduction | 08/06/26 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Why Approaching Women in Real Life is a CheatcodeIf I don’t ask then I go about my day as normal and no harm no foul. Maybe I don’t win big, but I don’t get my shit wrecked either. I have no desire to be in a relationship and I’m sick of being gaslit by other guys who make me think my value is directly proportional to how much female validation I get or whether I’m in a relationship or not or what my body count is, and im glad more and more guys are waking up to this especially since most of the time they’re met with downright disrespect for e… | /r/seduction | 08/06/26 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Why Approaching Women in Real Life is a CheatcodeBecause a lot of them are raised to hate and disrespect men and humiliate them in public if one approaches them | /r/seduction | 08/06/26 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Why Approaching Women in Real Life is a CheatcodeI hate approaching and do it very rarely anymore. American Society shuns men who approach. It would be way WAY easier if other guys were approaching where I go or even some guys, but honestly no guys approach whatsoever unless maybe under the influence of alcohol. Some women also feel the need to make rejection a humiliation ritual, and that’s something I don’t deal with at all because I have a history of growing up with shit being thrown at my face. | /r/seduction | 08/06/26 09:01 PM |
| 18 | Why Approaching Women in Real Life is a CheatcodeProblem is a lot of Gen Z women don’t like being approached especially by older guys. They constantly walk around with their headphones in like they’re permanently attached | /r/seduction | 04/06/26 07:41 PM |
| 4 | What made Dennis Rodman so attractive to high status women?Wasn’t he one of the girls in the 90s Macarena music video? | /r/seduction | 01/06/26 01:15 AM |
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