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A lot of RP advice is autistically coded so that its point gets across. This advice stems from the fact that women find so few men desirable and that men’s attention/supplication normally requires little to no effort to receive for women. Therefore… If a woman is dealing with a guy who she believes is THE guy: A) she’s going to work way harder and have actual incentive to keep him happy/around/satisfied, which is much more diluted if it’s an average guy. B) he’s going to have far more leeway and…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 11:00 AM
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Oh boy, you don’t get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 10:48 AM
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Why is it that it’s impossible to understand that men’s basis for prioritizing sex is a product of their base biology?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 10:45 AM
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So you think sex positivity is bad/weird?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 10:43 AM
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RP is apolitical.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 10:38 AM
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Women choose who impregnates them, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 06:40 PM

If anything, this seems to affirm that a lot of what women espouse is pointless. Myself and the guys in my network had way more success bucking this stuff than adhering to it. Women want, in some way shape or form, a man they can’t control despite their best efforts. It’s what keeps them trying their best.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 10:30 AM
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I mean, if someone can con someone out of loads of cash using their sexuality, that would trump It.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 09:32 PM
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Then they wouldn’t frame it as predatory. Both sides of the equation have a substantial amount of power in that regard
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:23 PM
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Just one find of a litany of them. https://www.gq.com/story/dating-apps-are-leaving-511-men-behind
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:23 PM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:15 PM
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I’d say this is 100% perception. Much like when an older dude is with a younger woman people conveniently forget the overwhelming influence of youth and sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:15 PM
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They do. Income, size, strength, competence. This stuff is proven time and time again.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:14 PM
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Then why do women inherently seek them out?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:45 PM
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You realize this strikes both ways, right? Ideally, both folks feel like they’d be losing something major, hence the value of said relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:44 PM
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Way to muddy up a back and forth by zagging to incest. Do you really think that’s what we were talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 11:03 PM
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Please don’t take this personally, but all of that psycho babble is over analyzing what most people can see is plainly true. The majority of the world operates underneath the socio sexual hierarchy that is a product of our biology. Nothing more, nothing less. Trying to make the “well society” argument doesn’t work because it still all falls under the same umbrella. But here, I’ll concede you this. Men would treat women, under such circumstances, likely under utilitarian guidelines. As in, what o…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:24 PM
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Because you do stuff for them. As I stated 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:20 PM
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That’s completely untrue. Throughout my career there have been a litany of women, both peers and superiors, who have become (of their own volition) quasi secretaries who will take care of things for me/bring me things unsolicited in order to get my attention who I had absolutely no interest in.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 05:53 PM
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I think separating women from their sexuality is impossible for straight men. You don’t have to like it, but it’s part of the machine. Similar to how performance/competence/status is kind of inseparable for men when it comes to how women see them. It doesn’t mean you have to prioritize it or acknowledge it, but it’s there (if you get my drift).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 05:50 PM
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We need to figure out if pron is objectifying to women or empowering because not even they can make up their own minds about this. The fact is, women will gladly use their sexuality to get what they want when it serves them. Not sure how acknowledging that is hyper sexualizing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 05:01 PM
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I think this sentiment is fine and can be extended to areas like the workplace. Ignore and avoid women where they aren’t adding value.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:06 PM
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I’d argue that men are kind of taught the wrong thing, whether it’s by their single mothers or what they “think is right”. The fact is, if you’re on a date with a woman you need to assume she’s rooting for you to succeed. Push for rejection. Initiate physical touch (not sexual, but playful) early and often, make it known what you’re about, and then you can save a lot of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 11:30 AM
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It’s not a great recipe for long term success. If you take the compound probability view of it, the more variables you add, the lower the likelihood of success. This would be quite the variable to add in to an already disrupted market.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 11:28 AM

Eh, it’s rare to see one where the guy isn’t a few ranks above.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 03:42 PM

Booze skews this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 03:20 PM

The media and culture slop women eat up and prop up affirms this time and time again, as well. Basically endless bouts of a mid striking gold
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 03:19 PM

Patriarchy is the default so it’s not really much to debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 03:19 PM
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Today I learned that biology isn’t science. Great! 😆 😂 😂 for real?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 03:06 PM
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Here’s what happens in reality: Woman “ideally” wants man to be of equal support and use man steps in to help and support woman does not allow it and becomes overbearing and controlling woman does not let man intervene and becomes overbearing of sufficient use Then: “omg muh mental load and why am I so overburdened” In some senses, I agree with you. Men need to tell women to stfu, deal, and just step in. Another example of women only being and acting as shitty as you let them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 03:05 PM
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Nature and biology 100% are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 02:58 PM
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As I said, as someone that has more experience than just about any man I’ve met IRL, that shit is tame compared to what’s out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:21 PM

This is pretty much textbook conflation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 12:42 PM
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Tell that to the smut industry…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 12:39 PM
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Women hate porn because it, in SOME ways, gives men an insight as to the amount of desire they could be getting. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, I’ve done enough with enough different women (and the vast majority of them looked like a modest “good girl” in public) that makes porn look tame as shit to know the whole “porn is unrealistic” take is a joke. Also, fyi, sex is the glue that holds relationships together. Kind of hard to stay mad at someone you can’t help yourself around, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 12:28 PM
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He’s a Rollo Tomassi knock off
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:25 AM
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It depends. If it’s a woman who’s never had sex because the chance hasn’t come about or the right person, then sure. But a lot of virgins, especially into older age, have had a fucked up view of sex that’s likely going to negatively impact longevity. Not saying it’s a for sure thing, but it’s something to be cautious over.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:24 AM
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It’s the last bastion of nagging women have left (other than a guy’s hobbies) because it’s a goalpost they can continuously move. I know a guy that showed the actual time and list breakdown of what they both did after continuous nagging from her. Her response was “why would you even track something like that?” The irony was lost upon her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:22 AM
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Clearly you’ve never heard of wife goggles. If a woman stays pleasant, available, and doesn’t pull the pin on the fat grenade (as evidenced by the most recent glp-1 study), she has a very good chance of having a great relationship. Also, this constant fear mongering that me regress in terms of their values or standards once they are in an LTR is beyond antiquated. Catch up to the modern world.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:09 AM
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“Men should just know” Welcome to the gynocentric social order folks. Men work more total hours for the family than women do. That’s the fact of the matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:53 AM
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Nature
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:50 AM
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Are you anti-science?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:50 AM
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Take it up with your fellow women if you’re unhappy they feel that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:37 PM
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I appreciate the story, point stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:35 PM
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That’s a poor guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:35 PM
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Women are designed for infants and young children, men for when they are more able bodied and have more relative autonomy. I don’t make the rules. Ideally, each person will serve their purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:35 PM
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No, the dynamic where the woman has the overwhelming share of the housework. Those days are long gone and mostly a work of fiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:42 PM
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Clearly not “someone” if I’m saying women in plural.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:41 PM

So now I have to give you a social life too so you can wake up? Classic!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:38 PM
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I’d urge you to touch some grass in the states.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:37 PM
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I owned them, dawg. Don’t get your bottoms in a bunch that you failed 😝
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:36 PM
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Go to a city and you’ll hear middle class mids spouting it off who are hardline feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:36 PM

Women bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:34 PM
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Well the logic doesn’t hold. Big fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:17 PM
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I’ve heard it from American women solely.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:16 PM

It’s funny how women throw around “bangmaid” on here as though it’s some kind of own. Honestly seems like a dope title.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:15 PM

Big Genghis fan, I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:14 PM

Women prefer their demon mutant grape novels.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:12 PM
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The classic line is “his money is my money and my money is my money” from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:10 PM
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So they say…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:09 PM
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So women’s self reports that are available to both parties don’t work for you? Oh boy 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:09 PM
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Because women are notorious for sharing their earnings 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 06:38 PM
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https://x.com/bradwilcoxifs/status/2064947328767938876?s=46&t=-QVWH5TYqCMz34HCmPLO-Q Time to wake up to modernity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 06:36 PM
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What you state at the end rarely happens today.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 06:35 PM

Bang maid is a pretty dope title
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 06:31 PM
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Don’t look to me, look at the flood of women’s own self reports on social media sticking a camera in front of their face.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 06:03 PM
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It could be, and likely is, true
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:32 PM
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Your singular experience is an n of 1
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:32 PM
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It’s questioning the premise
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:50 PM
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Your sample size of 1 doesn’t really mean a whole lot. No offense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:50 PM
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Uh, you definitely can. Two parties involved. Both stand something to gain.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:49 PM
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That’s cool, but that’s not really evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:40 PM
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It’s a genuine reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:39 PM
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So it’s self inflicted
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:31 PM
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The target audience gets to determine the value, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:29 PM
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Do you understand ought vs is?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:28 PM
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That’s not a dismissal 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:28 PM
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The vast majority don’t. It’s a strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:31 PM
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But he did engage
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:31 PM
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Women see it as empowering, have you not heard?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:31 PM
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The “protector and provider” schtick is and has been dead unless all parties agree to revert back to the 1950s and no one is doing that. So it’s a moot point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:18 PM
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He does. A lot of this is neuroticism run amuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:17 PM
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Women have declared that society dead in the name of egalitarianism so now it is their own problem. Can’t have it both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:11 PM
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It doesn’t negate his point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:08 PM
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https://ifstudies.org/blog/a-cluttered-home-causes-more-stress-for-women-than-men There are tons of other resources that have the same conclusion I can post too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:07 PM
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They’re bad faith dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:59 PM
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This is one of the better displays of a false equivalency that I’ve ever seen. And did I say everything? Homes are not difficult to keep in order. This is classic catastrophism at play. This shit is easy. But, to use your nut allergy analogy, if I have one I’m not going to go to the nut factory to have a good time. Likewise, don’t choose someone who doesn’t either mirror your standards or you can’t separate duties with appropriately. Barring clinical depression, people’s standards of cleanliness…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:58 PM
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Thank god we live in a time where machines (see: roomba) and purchasing decisions (buy less shit) and third world cheap labor can solve all these issues for us! Not to mention, if you have kids they love doing tasks and accomplishing things for you! But, we could also attribute this to introspection and as I’ve said in other posts, the person who cares about something more should take de facto ownership over it. If I like the dishes done a certain way, that’s now my task because I am the picky o…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:36 PM
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My wife is a sample size of 1 and I’m well versed in the fact she’s not your average woman, otherwise I would not have chosen her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:20 PM
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Listening to women talk about their dating experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:09 PM
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In relationships, the person who cares about something more should be given the autonomy over it. It’s what makes the most sense. There are biological reasons men find clutter to be less of an issue than women from brain wiring to trait neuroticism, but it’s only in gynocentric times that we’ve allowed women to be the authority in this stuff. The obsession to have homes and live in spaces that look like no one lives there is retarded. Beyond this, most of the “weaponized incompetence” talk is si…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:06 PM
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I’m now married with a family. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:22 PM
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I will tell you this, being incredibly fuckable as a man changes almost all of your experiences with women, exponentially for the better. Once you see it for yourself with a myriad of different women who want different things and still fight tooth and nail for time with you, you realize all of the hoops you had to jump through before with other women were figments of your imagination. To your last point, that happens all the time. Women will physically leave bums they will have the best sex of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:21 PM
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I have a large network of men and women irl that I interact with. Touching grass can provide the same feedback.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:16 PM
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This has been debunked now time and time again. Most of women’s “labor” today resides in their minds regarding having to do anything at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:15 PM
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Men and women aren’t the same dawg If you saw the losers many attractive women have banged before, they’d become way less desirable to you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:14 PM
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An impromptu trip would probably give you just as much info. Men aren’t this forward thinking as you make it out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:13 PM
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I think the issue with this is that women are the demo who move for the shared space more often than not to get a discount on rent.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:11 PM
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To the latter point, you’d know this from living apart and seeing how he keeps his space. I’ve said this many times, but women would be well served to match with a man who has lived alone for a while. That way it’s almost a given he can cook, clean, keep a space, laundry, etc if they are that worried about it. It’s incredibly rare for someone’s standard of cleanliness to decline other than in cases of clinical depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:10 PM
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Most women do in order to hurt their former spouse. I’d say that’s just as bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:06 PM
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You must not frequent this sub much…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:05 PM
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So it’s irrelevant because it contradicts your point. Shocking!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:12 AM
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Fair point, but men are easy to please because they appreciate women as a sex. Be pleasant, be available, and don’t be obese. There ya go! As a matter of fact, that last one is so important that a recent glp 1 study showed that an absurdly high number of women who took them ended up partnered within the next year I believe. It ain’t hard, ladies!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:12 AM
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There’s no “should” here. It’s about consistency. Especially if they value honesty and transparency. I am willing to and have shared anything women want to know about my past. It’s only ever served as a bonus for me, despite how women say that men with experience are bad (go figure). Also, dating and sex history is 100% important because it’s going to provide valuable insight as to what to expect/how you are seen by the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:08 AM
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This is shifting the goalpost.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:05 AM
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I think they’d omit the information. Hell, even the way women describe past experiences with men gets retconned as soon as they need to settle down. hookups become not serious enough to mention, situationships become relationships because it sounds like she developed some relationship skills, and all of them ended because “men bad”.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 10:15 PM
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Wise words. But as I said to the other poster, what I posit provides men actionable agency in dating which is not allowed 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 10:13 PM

Women don’t have situationships for the same reason men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 10:12 PM

I think most would agree that’s almost as delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:48 PM
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None of this is lying or changing who you are. Giving someone the MOST good faith by being open to them until you aren’t isn’t deceitful at all. Otherwise, every ick story you’ve ever heard from a woman is tantamount to manipulation and lying by your standards. Every person is allowed to at some point say “hey, this was nice but I’m actually not cool with this anymore”. It’s called being an adult. Frankly, if we are about openness and honesty, people should have no problem with this because peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:44 PM

You’d be amazed how often women “agree” to this and then a few months later act like you rug pulled her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:22 PM
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I’d actually say it’s as favorable of an opportunity men can possibly give women by being confident in them and that they might match what they are looking for. That’s dating, dude 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:18 PM
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Then explain to me this innumerable amount of women who are bamboozled by guys who won’t commit to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:17 PM
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Then I’d agree, but I’d say you’re naive in terms of how honest most women are about their experiences. As I’ve been told, verbatim, by countless women I’ve known intimately who were more than willing to be transparent and honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:13 PM
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The reason I’m getting downvoted and no valid pushback has been levied is because women understand that they need to be as covert as possibly, otherwise without that they’d be at a major disadvantage. Which is funny when they say they want openness and honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:58 PM
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It’s not faking. It’s giving someone the space to outwardly open and honest, and then making a decision from there. Your post implies women are inherently deceitful btw, or else they’d just flat out tell you it all from the jump.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:57 PM

Got up to 6 at one point. So women are liars? I mean, sure, I’m good with that take.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:51 PM
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Sure thing! Doesn’t play out that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:50 PM
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“Husband material” embodied.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 01:52 PM
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Fellas, this is why being as non judgmental and welcoming as possible early on is key so you figure out what they are about. Then act accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 01:51 PM

It’s not really open, these women were exclusive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 01:02 PM

Tech has opened the world of men to women. Before, it was far more localized. Hypergamy is contextual. A good comp is the hot woman at work for men. She could be as mid as they come, but if the rest are wildebeests then the perception changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:42 PM

This is all contingent on modern tech.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:29 PM
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I disagree based on the discourse today. I see a lot of late 20s early 30s lamenting the fact men they are dating or wanna date love the party life so much still.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 04:11 PM
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Girls just wanna have fun, Lil
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 04:10 PM
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Dude, I’m talking about pre industrial evolution. Big headed babies theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:35 PM
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I have a lot of friends that work in the industry so a lot of bars and after hours clubs. Not a drug guy, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:34 PM
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By this definition, most women are bad women in your estimation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:33 PM
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Polarity would like a word with you. Were some just as wild as I? Sure. But about 70% were pretty modest women up until meeting me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:17 PM
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Laws of nature did a lot of this pre magical tech
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:36 PM
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My wife was at her sister’s bachelorette for a few days this past weekend with her mom and aunts, so it was myself and my 6 month old son together for 3 days. During that time, I didn’t text her really at all other than a pic here or there. Overall, the weekend was awesome and we had a great time. Few fusses here and there but he’s a baby, what ya gonna do. She gets home and the very next day on my ride to work three texts about him being fussy with breakfast. Truly funny stuff 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:34 PM
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Women literally reward those guys the most. I was a major degenerate on my off time when I was in my later 20s. Funny enough, that’s the time I had the most women (who varied INCREDIBLY in terms of age, personality, status) who were willing to sign up and date me while I was openly non exclusive. So, maybe reward different behavior? Idk what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:28 PM
0

Being a quasi psycho is some of the best game out there
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:27 PM
2

I think it acknowledges the nature of reality, which would imply that reality is inherently conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:14 PM

The person they cohabitate with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:46 PM

The UK
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:45 PM
1

This would imply that there are “good women” who treat everyone well no matter the stimuli and “bad women” who treat everyone bad no matter the stimuli. Sure, there are differences in terms of looks, upbringing, demo, career, but the operating system is pretty much the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:33 PM

The fact that the law may begin to legislate that unmarried folks have to split assets is beyond a tell that women’s goal is to police any and all sexuality of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:31 PM
1

I’m all for it!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:28 PM

That kind of shows that marriage is pointless, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:28 PM

This is great and all until you realize that this standard for “peace” changes over time and indiscriminately. That’s my entire point. A woman could enthusiastically say “yes I’ll always want sex with my husband, duh” and then boom menopause happens and her hormones turn her into a different person. This is why a lot of communication is bullshit. Especially in the “affirm everything women say and do” era we are in where a guy being like “wtf this isn’t what we agreed to” would be seen as the bad…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:40 PM
-2

I’d say it’s responsible for medical purposes, such as genetic testing too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:34 PM

Women want to act like they are not slaves to their biology. Try to talk to a woman about PMS/their cycle, menopause, or getting on HRT to fix some of those issues. They act like you murdered their puppy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:38 PM
-2

It’s not a personal attack. It’s an observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:36 PM
-1

This gives the totality of responsibility for pregnancy and getting pregnant to women. Oh boy. Nice argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:36 PM
-3

You are, unknowingly, proving my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:32 PM

He sounds retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:32 PM
0

Doesn’t absolute trust entail absolute transparency?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:31 PM
0

How is this all that different than the government giving women the okay to merc their kids under the guise of “well if we legalize it then we don’t have to feel that bad about nuking the kid”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:31 PM
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Well, let’s take these one at a time: women are more prone to group think and manipulation than men. A lot of your post falls into the propaganda machine women have swallowed hook, line, and sinker in a world (specifically, first world) that is safer than ever in recorded history. the line of thinking of your points regarding danger women experience falls under the umbrella of women and men being inherently unequal. I’m all for embracing these viewpoints if we will then also adopt the requisite,…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:16 AM

It seems the reason this is even controversial today is that we live in a world obsessed with “redefining” everything, especially women in order to maximize both ends of hypergamy. Marriage is 100% a romantic endeavor and commitment, which entails sex. How do I know this? Because fidelity is stressed so harshly. No sex = no fidelity to protect. It’s pretty simple. And I can almost guarantee sex was a major facet of these relationships at some point for both folks (hopefully so) which only enhanc…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:58 AM
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No, that’s how human beings, good and bad, operate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:48 AM
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In an ideal world, this is true. But the current environment gives much of the relational power to women, therefore enabling worse behavior naturally on their end.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 08:51 PM
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I didn’t say that at all
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 08:49 PM
2

It does actually since behavior is a big indicator of good v bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 08:49 PM
6

I never said they didn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:29 PM
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Did I say my only dealings with women have been bad? 😂 what? I’ve encountered some who acted up more than others, but without fail the intentional withdrawal of my attention upon such behavior always resulted in a course correction on their end.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:10 PM
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You’re kind of affirming my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:08 PM

I do, but I think folks (primarily women and men raised as defective women) are increasingly incapable of hearing unflattering information without having an emotional reaction to it as opposed to simply taking the information for what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:20 PM
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Define a “good woman”. My experience is women will act as shitty as you permit them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:16 PM
1

That is an outlier scenario today. You cannot prove otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 12:12 AM
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No guy would prefer to end up there. A better way to look at it would be how the woman failed her half of the relationship for her husband to consider that a viable option then, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 12:11 AM
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Men are still doing more overall work.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 12:10 AM
1

I think being honest with people about the net real of their choices is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 12:09 AM
1

I gave you the sorted data, wanna actually engage with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:25 PM
1

Based
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:24 PM
1

It’s a fact
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:24 PM
1

It’s something the Canadian government encourages, so are they wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:23 PM
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Places like married red pill wouldn’t exist if women in those marriages helped cultivate a relationship and environment that didn’t result in men having to seek alternative solutions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 05:38 PM
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I’m just giving a glimpse into the future of women who choose such a life. No hate at all, I’m just not delusional. Everything has a cost.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 05:36 PM
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There’s no hate, it’s just the nature of reality. Creating life is the most beautiful and unique thing possible and women hold that capacity. It’s a wonderful thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 05:35 PM
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Show me these facts
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:46 PM
2

That’s actually incredibly untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:32 PM
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I’m not really concerned with the third world dude
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:28 PM
2

https://x.com/lymanstoneky/status/2066564887820554424?s=46&t=-QVWH5TYqCMz34HCmPLO-Q
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:27 PM
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I’d say this is an evolution problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:08 PM
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That’s the likely fate of the ballooning population of single, childless women as they beg the patriarchy to help them out. Until then, it’s corporate indentured servitude for them. Some life, eh? But hey, I guess the eggs Benny at brunch is worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:04 PM
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I think we can acknowledge we don’t live in the 1950s anymore. Metrics are showing men do more overall work than women today. The complaint from women is more of a skill issue than anything else
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:01 PM
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Most metrics are actually showing men are doing more overall work now than women. So I guess it’s inverted.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:00 PM
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You didn’t understand my post. She’s going to get old and get thrown into some state run facility, likely will get the Canada treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:35 PM
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Yeah, I don’t really buy that anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:34 PM

Enjoy your state sanctioned self deletion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:43 AM
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Holy bad faith
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:43 AM
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This is why manufactured outrage works so well. You meet them where they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:58 AM
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Women routinely divorce men they begin to outearn. I don’t make the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:57 AM
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It would just make you a pretty typical woman I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:57 AM

The opportunity is equal. Not taking it is a skill issue. And these are homes where both parents work. Split duties. I’d also say if you have no interest in hanging out with your spouse, that’s also a personal failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:55 AM

The underlying message here is that unfamiliarity breeds attraction, which would signal to men they should be less present, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:54 AM
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Read the posts. It’s tongue in cheek.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:53 AM

This paints men in a much better light.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:38 AM

Dude, I said it goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:38 AM
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Fair. Likely why it’s good to wait a few years to see what’s behind the mask.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 11:28 PM
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Who is they?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 11:08 PM
1

Seems accurate. These guys also tend to rely a lot on logic when arguing with their wives. A recipe for disaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 11:08 PM
1

Fair, but I know these guys pretty well. One such example was we went out as couples for a guy’s birthday. My now wife didn’t know him or his wife super well. His wife was so ambivalent about being there my wife thought another woman there was actually his spouse. Fucking odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 10:34 PM
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😂 fair enough!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 10:32 PM
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Honest, good faith question for all: There are numerous married guys I know who are very active fathers who get shit from their wives every time they want to do something, from going to the gym, to golfing, to going out for drinks. These same guys will encourage their wives to either come out with them or go do things on their own (which is a display of fairness both ways) and the majority decline. wtf is up with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 10:25 PM
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Pretty spot on assessment. Some of these comments are borderline horrific. Almost a self own that they raised their kids poorly and rather than acknowledging it wanna nuke them from existence. One comment stating how they are upset their kids will never be grateful enough for what they did from them. It’s like holy fuck dude. Also, these people forget that unless you want the state basically torturing you the last 15-20 years of your life, raising a good kid/kids is insurance against that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 09:07 PM
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It’s better to work off the system and abuse it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 08:13 PM
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Isn’t that a tell that you aren’t capable of choosing a good man?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 08:13 PM
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Get ready to hear the rinse and repeat narrative our current culture slop has pushed down their throats. And any woman who speaks fondly of having kids will be shit on or passed aside as being lazy because it makes the others look bad. The more I listen to modern women talk about this stuff, the more it makes sense why things were the way they were. Society (human flourishing) can only exist within the duties humans have to future humans. Women are highly averse to this when they are in a coddle…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 08:13 PM
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Fucking bleak. Shows how the culture influences folks like osmosis.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 08:10 PM
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I lived in an up and coming part of a major city for about 8 years. I have a lot of friends who work in the industry so I would frequent local bars and restaurants, social gatherings quite a bit. One such example was I was out watching a playoff game with buddies and there was a group of Brazilians there. One of them came up to me and said their friend thought I was cute, she was a smokeshow. I thought they were fucking with me, but went over anyways to see what was up. They were, in fact, not f…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 02:09 PM
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This is rooted in biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 01:22 PM
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In this case, it’s being used to dissuade from the factual implications of what is occurring
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 01:21 PM
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A lot of guys would be well served to figure out if their dead bedrooms are a result of if it’s their wife that’s not wanting to fuck them or if it’s any woman that’s not wanting to fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 12:05 PM
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I think revenge for the sake of revenge is okay. Using it to solve some other validation problem, not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 12:02 PM

This is actually a pretty good point and it’s why most of the men who came into my network, despite wanting LTRs, were nowhere near ready for them. Men, in particular, need to have their shit together, not in the boring sense, but in the “this is my life, these are the things I enjoy, this is where I’m going.” It may not seem congruous, but it’s akin to the “what do you want for dinner” BS men deal with. It’s better to be able to lead and have a vision for you life so that if (as many women do) …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 12:00 PM

Oh, idk, murder 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 11:54 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 11:54 AM
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Dude, good luck. The “burdens” of third world work when abundance and technology have made it such that children can do it will never cease in the minds of women because it’s one of the last Trump cards they have left to play. All of the newest data coming out shows men are just as involved or more, and the levels of cape (think o instead of a) are off the charts. They need the victimhood complex to justify the corporate indentured servitude many of them willingly signed up for.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 11:54 AM

Again, you mistake stigma for something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 10:38 AM
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Should mercing a kid be? 😂 that ain’t stigma
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 10:07 PM
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Well, that’s a pretty scenario mate. Apologies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 09:21 PM
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I think its immorality is something separate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 09:20 PM
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36, 0, I’m married Yet despite wearing my ring, I still get approached. Particularly at the gym. Odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 08:32 PM
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Gotta get her on HRT.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 08:31 PM
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They are celebrated 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 08:09 PM
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It’s rare a man is going to do both of those things. Crying has little to no utility, so if he chooses that course of action then he’s unlikely to do the latter and take anything meaningful away or understand his emotions. He’ll just emote to emote (which is what women do).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:04 PM
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I honestly am not even sure you’re familiar enough with your own argument based on this. You have been critical of the successful dynamic I’ve highlighted (aka, hating on parents in this case). Not sure what’s not to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 06:57 PM
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If I’m getting what I want, which is getting laid and a better life, what does any of that have to do with validation? Just because you define it that way doesn’t make it so 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 06:54 PM
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I know of very few men who went route A and got laid as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 06:53 PM
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Because that’s not how life usually works.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 06:52 PM
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It’s not about validation, it’s about outcomes. Take a scenario where a man is sad. option A: he cries to his wife about his problems. option B: he understands why he is sad and uses this as fuel to change his life/circumstances. Which one is more likely to get him laid and establish a better life?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 02:08 PM
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Seems I’ve struck a nerve. Just going off of your precise verbiage. Still odd to hate on parents who have optimized their itinerary and schedule to both have fun and limit the workload. Sounds like envy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 02:06 PM
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That would be great if that liberation was actually rewarded by women, but it’s not. When men attempt to emote like women, that’s how you get a school shooter.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:42 PM
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A lot of this current crisis is a result of the decades long effort to acculturate men as defective women. Therefore, men do buy into the “we suffer in silence” mantra and those who do choose to emote like women end up doing crazy stuff like self deletion, targeting a school, or becoming a transformer. Men are better attuned to understand their emotions and channel them into action rather than yapping about them like women. The latter has zero/negative utility while the former actual builds a fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:49 PM
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This seems to be a goalpost that’s moved depending on the victimhood narrative being preached. I hear women say that men’s beauty standards are too much all the time. Yet they have none at all at the same time? Huh? The fact is, men are the more romantic sex and are much more accepting of women because that’s our biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 02:20 AM
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Yeah, this sounds like pure neuroticism and disliking your children. Sad stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 02:16 AM
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They have to say that to toe the political correctness one and make sure they get published.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 08:45 PM
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They are pretty significant https://x.com/degenrolf/status/2061672503517258031?s=46&t=-QVWH5TYqCMz34HCmPLO-Q
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:36 PM
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This is precisely what I’m talking about. Fictionalizing catastrophe. Super woman coded. FYI, these are summer months I’m describing right now so both kids are home. Not everyday is a carbon copy, but I’ve spent days with him and his kids. It’s super chill. Mopping, vacuuming, and laundry aren’t daily activities 😂 what world do you live in or how messy are you? And as I said, the mom’s job is low stress. It’s marketing for a small business, she doesn’t even have to work if she doesn’t want to. H…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:50 PM
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https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3149680/
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:44 PM
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Spending time with your kids should be fun. And what I’m talking about is SAHM doing nothing after the dad gets home, which is more common than you’d like to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:22 PM
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Women self report it. Don’t hate the player. It’s also scientifically proven women rank far higher in trait neuroticism
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 12:54 PM
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Dude, everyone contributes at home today to some degree. SAHM routinely throw the kids at the husband the second he comes home from work and go off to do other stuff. Touch some grass, talk to some folks. Housework is not hard. It’s why third worlders come to modernized countries to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 12:53 PM
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Third worlder work is not hard. Hence its moniker. You women envision everything as some crisis when it’s really “run the dishwasher”. Get over yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 10:54 AM
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The major tasks like meal prep and the morning routine are finished. Of course you have to keep them occupied, the park, swim club, learning activities, etc., but that stuff is fun if you’re an involved parent and give a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 10:53 AM
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No one fully does all the housework, even SAHM for sure don’t, but let’s be honest, women create more work than is necessary. It’s their nature. They self report as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 10:51 AM
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I have an infant, dawg.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 10:50 AM
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Neither do SAHM by this metric because they can’t finance their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:44 PM
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Neither of those things are a big deal for a mature adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:43 PM
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I have a 6 month old. I’d put my record as a dad up against anyone. It ain’t hard. Again, just observations, no value judgements.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:43 PM
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3 and 6 for the one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:41 PM
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They meal prep so most of that is done, their kids are super neat (raised well) and contribute to chores, but their wives have jobs that aren’t that serious and are home by 3/4 who assist with things at home. Mind you, these guys have already earned a ton of money and can live of their investments in their late 30s/early 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:54 PM
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If you can’t make sense of your own arguments implications, I’m not sure what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:50 PM
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You know you can train kids to be neat, clean up after themselves, dish washers exist, they can complete chores with you, run around outside, play with toys, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:50 PM
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It’s not if you’re an organized parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:47 PM
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They aren’t insults. They are observations. Their kids are put to work and knew how to perform third worlder tasks by 4. Homes that are clean and organized don’t need much when the kids have been raised correct and know how to maintain order. They meal prep for the week but cooking is not time consuming if you are actually skilled (I have an infant and cook all the time). Both have wives who work but are moreso hobby jobs that aren’t super serious, so it’s zero added stress. The one who still co…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:47 PM
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Welcome to the neurotic mind of women, ladies and gents. I have two buddies who are SAHD because they either early retired or consult and have a very limited role now with the company they were with. These guys live the dream. Most stuff is done by 11 am, after that it’s the park/learning activities/fun stuff. Women create work/ don’t finish tasks and let them pile up and then call it “more work”. No, you’re just bad at knocking out the tasks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:19 AM
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Many women cosplay as the shitty versions of the men they want and then get big mad that men don’t want that. It’s odd. I think you’re wrong in that women will only act as shitty as you allow them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:00 AM
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That’s what you implied dude
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 09:58 AM
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I use data and women’s behavior as my metric. I think that’s better than my feels.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 09:58 AM
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Women’s voice has zero merit. Cool! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 10:00 PM
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I have a lot of respect for you and I appreciate you sharing. Again, you seem to very much be the outlier and not the norm. I’m a later millennial and while I’ve had a ton of success dating and now married with a family (I am anti marriage and my wife is well aware of this but I realize it’s the best deal for kids), but I have a large network of guys I consult (not to mention the acquaintances I’ve had over the years) and some of the shit is fucking stark out there in terms of how I’ve seen youn…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 09:03 PM
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It’s not an opinion, I simply listen to women and watch what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 08:29 PM
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A lot of women’s rationale for divorce comes down to “I’m not haaaaaaappy” when in reality they aren’t even happy people to begin with. Nuking the fam and sacrificing your kids lives in the process often doesn’t change that, but to admit that would be catastrophic so they have to put up a front.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 08:08 PM
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A lot of this stuff disappears when men and women realize they are fundamentally different and to meet each other where you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 08:05 PM
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Those correlate with modernity and changes in how crime can be tracked and monitored too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 05:51 PM
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Yes, they go berserk usually. Lots of booze and SSRIs. Cats too
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 05:51 PM
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Not get married or have kids in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 05:50 PM
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Divorce is everywhere dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 05:50 PM
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Making your experience the only valuable piece of information in your decision making process. Very woman coded
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 05:50 PM
1

Ever heard of mature adults?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:50 PM
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I think I’ve been pretty clear. The amount of divorce porn in modern media shows women that it’s a glamorous chance to level up. Most believe it and then massively regret it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:49 PM
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Because boys and girls have innate proclivities from the jump.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:47 PM
1

Sure, but that’s not the point. Majority of young women start out skewed liberal when young. Those same women that get married and have kids move right.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:46 PM
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The two lies people are sold that don’t make much sense to me are: Sexual compatibility (almost everyone is to some degree and especially if you had kids and dated a while this is kind of a bullshit excuse) Inability to get along. The most childish of the bunch. Anyone can get along. It’s a matter of willingness.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:43 PM
1

The data held even with this past election. You could argue age only adds to my point of them attaining more wisdom and real world knowledge. Having kids and being married seem to be the real dagger though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:41 PM
0

Women have the ability to express unfettered hypergamy by a culture that feeds them the idea that their sexuality and value are evergreen. They believe it until it doesn’t work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:39 PM
-2

People retcon decisions so they don’t seem stupid after the fact? Get outta here!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:36 PM
2

Thanks for doing the meme. And women are far more susceptible to social contagion. Your experience actually helps my point in that regard. But also I said have kids and be married.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:35 PM
1

Step parents abuse kids at an exponentially high rate. Another reason parents need to grow up and figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:34 PM
3

This ain’t the 1950s. Men are shut ins today.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:33 PM
2

That’s a failure on the parents end to be adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:33 PM
1

https://ifstudies.org/blog/new-study-finds-lasting-effects-of-divorce-on-kids Yeah it’s bigger than that 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:33 PM
2

I’m talking about when raising kids. And I have no issue with child free folks, but I think they need to be more heavily taxed/need a bigger societal net contribution.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:32 PM
0

Women divorce for literally the dumbest, tik tok brained reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:30 PM
1

No fault. It’s in the name.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:00 PM
-1

Women and their kids fair far worse post divorce, per women in this sub. So if you want your kids to suffer, go for it!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:00 PM
1

Most of this comes from the fact the family unit has already been fractured prior to these things occurring. A strong mother and father with a healthy, loving, romantic (aka can’t get enough of each other) relationship has a powerful influence on demonstrating to children they know what they are talking about. Most families now (thanks to cultural influences) operate under the guise that everyone is fucked up. That’s an awful foundation to build upon.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:59 PM
1

Because it helps to realize the world doesn’t operate on utopian ideals and there are stark gender differences worth adhering to for proper development.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:56 PM
0

No fault divorce kinda disproves that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:55 PM
-10

They are notorious for impulsively bad decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:55 PM
1

The political leanings of women with kids and married versus those with neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:52 PM
-9

Women are strongly tied to whatever the predominant cultural influence is surrounding them (see: how divorce permeates like a virus in women friend groups aka crabs in a bucket). Kids or no kids doesn’t change that proclivity. However a lot of data does show that kids and a family is a powerful influence in bringing women back to reality, even the most radicalized ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:23 PM
1

This is a lot of fear mongering and kind of calling women idiots. Frankly, your post almost feels like a call for fathers to determine who their daughter dates given that you believe they have such little capacity to reliably pick a good father for their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:20 PM
1

I mean, I think we can all agree single moms are fucking idiots. That’s not my point. They truly believe big daddy government is a better option.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 08:19 AM
1

Women determine if a child is born on today’s world. Men do not. Any other interpretation is either ignorance or bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 10:21 PM
1

Hasn’t been my experience! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 09:09 PM
1

It’s basic science. Blame our maker for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 09:09 PM
1

I’d say procreating with a man that you know is unreliable (which, let’s be honest, is the case the MAJORITY of the time. See: any inner city) when no child is born that a woman doesn’t deem so is far worse than the “men walk away” argument. The latter doesn’t exist without the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:51 PM
1

So if we can’t financially prop up women’s relatively fake existence, they fall apart? Ooookay then 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:49 PM
1

Context matters no? This ain’t the 1950s. But, let’s look at it this way. 1950s: women little autonomy, women miserable 2026: women most autonomy ever in recorded history, even more miserable (per self reported data) Sounds like a woman problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:43 PM
1

I agree, but I have found the exact opposite experience with women. They will take no agency and be flummoxed at any notion that something is off.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:42 PM

In a marriage, yes they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:41 PM

True. Holding someone’s fidelity hostage is probably more accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 11:07 AM

Unilaterally removing intimacy from a relationship is equivalent to cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 11:05 AM
1

What a non sequitur 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 11:02 AM

Buzzfeed has been known as fake slop for over a decade now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 11:02 AM
1

Again, I’m not sure what the issue is here. It’s an easy fix if someone actually wants it fixed. HRT would help with others areas of their lives like mood and energy too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 11:00 AM
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Women have autonomy, you know 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 10:59 AM
0

So you take HRT until then, easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:13 PM
2

Women marry men they don’t, then they pay the consequences. Almost half of relationships I’d say. Sad stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:12 PM
0

That’s a convenient reframe.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:11 PM
2

Sure, barring a crazy circumstance. Neither should do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:11 PM
-4

First one sounds like men behaving as defective women. Second sounds like what many women I know describe sex as too. Third one may be crass but women describe their past sexual experiences (even consensual ones) as traumas, so I guess it’s not a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:09 PM
2

You won’t bring back anything if they’ve unilaterally turned you down for good. Or is your presumption That getting it elsewhere would turn around their desire? Because that? I have seen work quite a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:07 PM
1

Marriage complicates that due to the predatory nature of the law.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:06 PM
1

Sure, get her hormonal replacement therapy. Works wonders.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:06 PM
1

Women use SSRIs and booze to mask their sadness with the life they picked. Women could choose to be whatever they wanted and they chose a defective man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:05 PM
2

Men do more work overall than women including the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:05 PM
1

A) that’s not data B) they are in that sub because they sucked beforehand. Likely didnt get their shit together and wanted some validation. I’ve seen it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:04 PM
1

“Don’t be with a man who is educated about the law and marriage contract” I feel like that says way more about you than I.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:03 PM
1

Covenant means marriage without the state. If you’re truly in love, why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:03 PM
1

Feelz over realz is your response? Okay then.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:02 PM
1

I have friends who work in family law and are high profile. I’d take their word and experience over your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:59 PM
1

There’s literal data (self reported by women) that verify what I’m sayin.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:58 PM
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Again, in terms of pregnancy, I’m not talking about obscure events. Those times are few and far between. I have a child younger than one now. We’ve navigated it out fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:57 PM
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They should update the laws so that they match the current standard then. There’s nothing wrong with a covenant marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:56 PM
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Therapy and talking don’t change desire Also, I’m not talking about end of bell curve events.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:10 PM
0

The tax break convo is antiquated. It’s government protection for women to fuck over men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:01 PM
-1

Taking sex off the table unilaterally is equally atrocious.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:00 PM
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The funny thing is, put women on testosterone and they start saying how they have no idea how men go about their days feeling the way they do. And that’s still with a fraction of what men function with in them 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:49 PM

I’m talking about ethnicity lady
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:44 PM
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The problem here is that freedom, in general, is a privilege we are all so lucky to be inundated in that we cannot imagine true survival. In your scenario, you assume that these folks will get old and die. You’re going to need offspring and as many as possible to care for the older aging parents and continue on whatever is established. The overall point being, in order for human flourishing to occur you actually need humans. If you believe in modern science and evolution, you’d know that a lot o…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:43 PM
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Hypergamy, pretty simple. Sperm is cheap, eggs are expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:38 PM
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Buzzfeed is a really unreliable publication.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:37 PM
-1

Gonna be unpopular, but I feel similarly with fidelity. The person you’re with decides sex isn’t for them anymore? Cool, don’t talk about it, go do your thing, you don’t owe them an explanation or to let them know. Before you say it’s different, this all falls under the umbrella of “honesty” and how people pick and choose about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:36 PM
-1

Care to share the overwhelming demos that bother you a lot? Jk, we know 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:34 PM
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More women are mentally ill than likely ever in recorded history (they also heavily skew liberal in that demographic). Anyways, that said a woman who is with an RP dude likely won’t know it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:24 PM
1

So it’s unknowable. How insightful
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:23 PM
1

Data?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:23 PM
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The data is out on this, those are antiquated beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:22 PM
1

So modern marriage is nonsensical? Cool! Just be together then.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:22 PM
1

True true
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:21 PM
0

That’s not marriage 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:43 PM
0

Negative; those have lots of bangin and clangin!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:43 PM
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Women actively choose who they marry and fuck for the rest of their lives and still mess up that choice because they don’t wanna fuck their husbands (again, who THEY PICKED). Make it make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:43 PM
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Unfortunately, that’s kind of what modern marriage has become anyways, except women don’t even want the sex part anymore 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:00 PM
1

men do more overall work as it stands
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:51 PM
3

men do more overall work as it stands
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:50 PM
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You sound like you’re pretty bad at picking men. Anyways, guys are gonna adhere to what women like because that’s what they claim they want. So should men listen to women or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:45 PM
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Women are far more evolutionarily inclined to go with the flow and adhere to whatever the consensus, however changing, is. This happened during WW2 in Europe where women gladly shacked up with SS soldiers. Just because you don’t like it doesn’t make it less true.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:43 PM
1

If following science is trad, then spot on!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:38 AM
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The women who fought back , both of tribes and warbrides alike, were excommunicated and/or killed likely along with their offspring. They were genetic dead ends. Boss babe media has done a good job of making it seem like this wasn’t the case 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 10:42 PM

There’s feminist, in the literal sense, where women can choose what they wanna do and live with the consequences (sounds like grandma), and there’s feminist in the modernized sense which is just cracked out gynocentrism.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 10:32 PM

I’m telling you that women, instinctually, do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 10:30 PM

Because feminism told women the could be anything, and they chose the unkempt, unskilled, drunk, boomer esque dads they’d been indoctrinated about. It’s honestly a weird contortion of women’s envy of men and it being the true basis of feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 08:08 PM
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It’s almost like that was the majority that matter then since the rest were killed along with their lineage 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 08:06 PM

They want to keep the man they love nourished in all regards. The same woman also took me out and paid for an expensive dinner, so by any means necessary 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 08:05 PM
1

Stated vs revealed preference strikes again
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 08:04 PM

I’m not even trad dude. Prime example. Years ago a hot young woman started working with me. Started bringing me coffee, lunch, leftovers, helping me out, all unprovoked. When the relationship I was in at the time ended, she got my number from another coworker and revealed all kinds of crazy thoughts about me. So… yah.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 07:32 PM
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Definitely not 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 07:30 PM
1

That’s not how desire works.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 07:15 PM

Can’t let these young dudes get slaughtered out there. It’s also entertaining. I have a pretty large network of guys in my own life who I assist/have assisted, but this is for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 07:11 PM

Most young women today are defective versions of what they envision men to be. Unkempt, unskilled slobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 07:09 PM

More proof that women’s brains are cooked. Women will show love through nurturing and acts. They almost can’t help themselves. Women who don’t get this are showing they’ve never actually experienced love for a man. Sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 07:08 PM
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By fucking and reproducing with the men who took over 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 07:04 PM
1

That’s a sliding scale, by women’s behavioral definition then.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 07:03 PM
1

Women will fuck men on the first date who have done nothing for them. Remind me, what effort are we talking about here?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:44 PM
1

Look up the war brides dynamic and I think you’ll get a pretty clear cut answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:42 PM

Women only behave as shitty as you let them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:48 PM
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Observing the process changes the process. I don’t think you need to address shit. I think you can give yourself the freedom to love on your very pregnant wife without concern about losing frame. I mean, if you do love and her and want to show it, who gives a shit? You’re getting what you want. Just be ready for when the next storm comes.
/r/askMRP16/06/26 12:29 PM
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You right, but also, look where you’re posting 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:32 AM
3

You gotta know who to follow. It’s not all location India if you’re careful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:15 AM
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The veracity with which wives don’t want to fuck their husbands in this current X battle verifiably proves how they knowingly marry unfuckable guys. What a self own.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:36 PM
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For sure. Only being a dick because I’ve been there. Wife was a few months pregnant with our first, huge shit storm appeared out of nowhere with her saying the craziest things. Like a jackass, I engaged thinking I could somehow manipulate the situation and took it personally. Took a few days to blow over, but realized where I had fucked up. Couple months later, similar shit happens, add in she was very pregnant and feeling like shit about her body and things are ready to pop off. I softened it u…
/r/askMRP15/06/26 11:13 PM
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She’s being emotional. Her feelings aren’t real. As a matter of fact, her hormones have her saying anything and everything on a whim. You taking it seriously will only validate them for her. Not only that, but when she is regulated and can look back and see she was being fucking crazy she’ll see that you weren’t able to handle and lead her out of it, which actually will give her stupid ass behavior staying power. So what she hurt your fee fees. Be the adult in the relationship when she needs you…
/r/askMRP15/06/26 09:38 PM
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This is gold.
/r/askMRP15/06/26 09:33 PM
2

This is why I moved away at 18 and built my life elsewhere. Can’t light yourself on fire to keep others warm.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 08:26 PM
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Add “right now” to anything she says, jackass. You can’t handle your woman getting emotional when she’s about to pop and has been watching your kid for you alone? Okay bro. I’m not saying be a bitch, but you’re acting like one.
/r/askMRP15/06/26 08:24 PM
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So…. Your wife is super pregnant with a 1 year old, she’s been alone with the kid for some time, and you can’t bring yourself to provide comfort the absolute singular time it’s necessary? Sure, dread away. NGMI.
/r/askMRP15/06/26 08:05 PM
1

See, that’s healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 09:26 PM
2

A reason you didn’t list is for men to see that porn can be pretty tame in comparison to a random girl that really wants you. Basically, you get a real look at desire versus the negotiated desire most men settle for not knowing the difference between.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 08:45 PM
1

Welcome to Hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 08:44 PM
0

I think many women are unable to differentiate between a man legitimately saying no to her and the rage baiting you speak of.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 08:43 PM
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I think there’s a difference between flirting in a bantering way versus legitimate rage baiting. That said, rage baiting would be being a pushover.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 08:42 PM
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The only quasi examples of this I’ve seen in real life are: A) wife is already cheating, explains the dynamic well B) the man is way more attractive than the wife so she needs to navigate the gap. C) you get a glimpse into the woman’s life who is claiming this and see that she’s really just a cold hearted bitch whose husband would never be able to satisfy her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 08:41 PM
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You do realize that there are very conventionally attractive men who are married or in relationships that are dead bedrooms as we speak, correct? Do you know why that is? Because they BEHAVE unattractively. Everyone can maximize what they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 08:38 PM

Not really the physical part, but there’s one woman in particular I dated who I thought a lot of. She was a beautiful mid, as the kids say today, great heart, good family, could play the piano really well and sing (I also play/write music, and sing), similar profession, all that shit. Was really reserved but once we were alone she pretty much said “what are you waiting for” and it was on. Here was the catch. Her pussy tasted like ground beef. It wasn’t awful, it wasn’t enough to completely turn …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 01:06 PM
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What I’ve found time and time again is that women are turned on (or at least enjoy) a guy who is not a coward and won’t be afraid to push boundaries with her. Now I know this will open the stampede of folks that will take the narrative all the way to things like abuse, which I’m clearly not talking about, but women enjoy a bit of indignation. It’s why they love the drama content, whether it be books, tv, movies, social media, they do. Yet if you ask them point blank, they’ll try to deny it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 01:01 PM
0

These scenarios are incredibly rare and usually folklore of women concocting or buying into the divorce porn that’s rampant around.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 12:59 PM
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Take the two relationship scenarios below: scenario A: the man adheres to all of his woman’s needs being very aware of her emotions and never causing fights. They get along and are “happy” but in an incredibly mild sense that there are never any glaring problems since the man is sure not to trigger any. They have sex roughly once a month and it’s very run of the mill. scenario b: the man understands his woman’s needs but is willing and able to say no when necessary, even if it pisses her off or …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 11:33 AM
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Because there’s a dominance element to sex they both psychologically and physically crave.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 11:19 AM
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Actually, this kind of affirms it, because if you met your ideal guy he’d be the outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 11:17 AM
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You can sit there and say “no shit” but the lion’s share of people don’t behave this way and it’s why subs like this exist. I’ll be clearer. It was made obvious that I was fun while having my shit together, but also didn’t need them. Women will go a long way if they feel as though they have something worth working for.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 02:00 AM
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Those aren’t superficial, in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 01:58 AM
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Well, for starters, my encapsulation of being happily married would be that my wife is getting what she wants too, which she is. LTRs are game on hard mode so prior to getting married (also worth noting I’m anti marriage, my wife is well aware, but I was willing to give it a go one time and it’s the best way to raise kids) there were definitely things I had to overcome, but the fact is at the end of the day there is one leader in the relationship whether you want to acknowledge it or not and wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 11:10 PM
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Then why do men choose women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 07:43 PM
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It’s not my fault that women never upgrade from an adolescent social skillset.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 07:37 PM
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This is more obfuscating. You can do everything a woman tells you to and still not win, because observing the process changes the process. They want a guy to “just get it”. Listening to her is a part of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 04:21 PM
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Of which I’m a huge fan.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 03:37 PM
6

Be attractive, don’t be unattractive. To put it succinctly. Works wonders.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 03:36 PM
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I am happily married with a family and have a life where I do the things I wanna do 😂 tell me, how have I lost?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 03:36 PM
0

Biology, lady. Stronger genetics that are likely to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 02:24 PM
5

That’s not all though, right? It’s the “everything is unknowable and different “ argument women use to shield from uncomfortable info about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 02:24 PM
2

Biology does what it’s going to do. A lot of women actually love dangerous men, so you tell me 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 02:18 PM
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Some wanted kids and marriage but were willing to try and wait it out with me, others didn’t but then wanted to try to lock me down numerous times. Women’s preferences will generally flow towards the man they want most nearest to them. I don’t make the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 02:15 PM
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If a man loses a woman they always state he should’ve been nicer and more adherent to their needs. I’d get off Reddit and navigate the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 02:13 PM
3

Women say men are dangerous all the time. I agree with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 02:12 PM
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It stinks, but you’re right. By the time I even found out what “red pill content” was, I already knew because I had figured it out through trial, error, and a ton of replication of success. Women have to shit test over it because they don’t want to risk a dude who’s actually a bitch playing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 02:11 PM
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“You didn’t listen right!” Kinda proof positive it’s bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 02:09 PM
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This is a common retort to the argument that fails when you consider: they were different ages spanning 25 years differing backgrounds differing cultures differing values differing height and body type differing interests Yet operated relatively the same at the end of the day to specific stimuli and (since many new about one another because I was open about being non exclusive) would say they were vastly different from each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 02:08 PM
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I’m not talking about singular experiences though. I’m talking about replicate-able ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 02:05 PM
4

Women say men are dangerous all the time. I agree with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 02:04 PM
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Women do this odd thing where they take an observation they don’t like and try to discredit it through some of the most retarded, hyperbolic scenarios imaginable. Your argument is similar to saying you can’t call men more dangerous than women because you haven’t met every man. Let’s not be obtuse here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 02:03 PM
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Get through 50, and you still realize they aren’t all that different.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:28 PM
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Honest question: If I listened to women, and ended up with brutal results… But then stopped listening to them, and had incredible success and happiness… Which one should I trust?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:27 PM
1

Women, by and large, only do that today because their god, big daddy government, they know will look after them. So again, this masculinized behavior is derived from… say it with me… the availability of men to help them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:22 PM
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All of this “fighting” is them enlisting men to do things for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:24 PM

It’s how you get legitimate authoritarianism, not the fake fear mongering shit talked about today.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:31 AM
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I just told you I have no value judgement on it 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 07:47 PM
1

Women do what women do. I don’t look at it as good or bad. It just “is”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 07:27 PM
1

There’s no value judgement
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:25 PM
1

I just got done telling you there are two sides to hypergamy, which you conveniently ignored. We also don’t know shit about your sister. Maybe she’s fucking crazy? Who knows. Again, if they aren’t together then he wasn’t her ideal. Case closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 12:18 AM
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So a strawman? Every woman’s ideal is different, but it’s also context and environment dependent. I’m also weary of anyone going around parading out their “not unhappiness” for show. Again, the relationship failing shows he wasn’t her ideal, or at least was until he wasn’t. That’s really all there is to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 10:41 PM
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The fact you don’t see the connection makes your understanding of your own argument lacking.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 09:41 PM
1

You said she didn’t choose her ideal good man, or else they’d still be together.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 09:40 PM
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Few things: after hooking up with plenty of women they will easily let their guard down (especially if you’re intentionally non judgmental to figure out what the are about) and you will hear the goofy ass reasons they disqualify men as nauseam. The 2/3rds rule is effective for guys because a woman that wants to get with you won’t mess around about it. negging basically means banter and game. No one is straight up slut shaming a woman on date in hopes of getting laid. Back handed compliments and …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 04:05 PM
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You realize that hypergamy is not hard and fast rule that applies equally to everyone, correct? There are factors beyond looks, money, and status like game and frame. Also the woman’s past factors in a lot!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 03:57 PM
1

This is great in the sense that it basically nullifies all victimhood complaints of women then. Great stuff!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 03:56 PM
1

What action do women take? 😂 other than crying/whining/or fucking over it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 09:38 AM
0

Didn’t last, did it? You also said asshole. Don’t play games, you gave a bad example, you can own it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 09:37 AM
1

I moreso meant that sexually appealing men are almost automatically deemed good by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 09:36 AM
1

I did. Your saying parents are equivalent to strangers when it comes to care for their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 09:34 AM
1

I don’t even need to be religious to know it’s bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:04 PM
1

Doesn’t sound ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:04 PM
1

It’s embedded into the argument
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:03 PM
7

Subjectivity is doing a lot of heavy lifting for you here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 10:54 AM
2

They statistically produce the most normal folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 10:53 AM
2

Most people who have families share similar values.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 10:52 AM
1

Parents caring about their kids more than strangers is a made up theory. Allllrighty
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 10:52 AM
2

The “nothing is knowable” argument tends to only come out when there is no argument to be made. People often don’t change all that much, women possibly a bit more because of their weakness for propaganda, but by and large what I said holds. As a matter of fact, it was supporting your comment about how people are able to last in LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:40 AM
4

Weird people hate normal folks. News at 11.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:38 AM
1

It’s actually a deadly sin.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:37 AM
2

I see an autobot, and I get autobot behavior. Right on cue. FYI, this kind of stuff is the reason gays pissed away a huge bankroll of good faith they were provided 10-15 years ago. You’re not really helping them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:37 AM

Isn’t this because patriarchy is the default, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:32 AM

Once you see that women would rather you be an asshole to her than confused about how to handle their behavior, there’s no going back.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:32 AM
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I think you might have that backwards 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:30 AM
3

If a woman married her ideal, things tend to go pretty swimmingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:29 AM
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Well, they typically do. It just, quite conveniently, seems to happen around the same time for a lot of women when it looks like the chips are down and they are ready to give a good guy a chance. And I say this as the opposite of that dude who saw the wilder side of women for years. You listen to them talk, describe these guys, then you later see them marry them, you begin to piece it together. And yet, happy ending and all, they are still stalking my social media. Go figure!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:28 AM
1

Do you just make up theories as you go? Who hurt you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:25 AM
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Few things: common sense changes to family law to correspond to how times have changed are long overdue. As it stands now, marriage is an unconscionable contract for men, but both men and women want families and marriage is statistically the best way to have decent one. So that needs shifted. women were told they could be whatever they wanted and they chose to become defective men. Seems like envy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:24 AM
1

She literally described it as causing a lot of damage
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:10 AM
1

Yeah, she seems to be doing incredible and making the best decisions!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 02:09 AM
1

I’ll leave you with this, there’s a reason why there’s certain things that are labeled as “fatherless behavior” exist. Do with that what you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 02:08 AM
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You must not even know what the post I’m responding to initially is then.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:57 PM
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Saying that a family has an influence on who someone dates is not = to an arranged marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:57 PM
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Saying that parents can never do anything wrong ever is the standard you wanna use is the epitome of bad faith. That’s not even the argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:56 PM
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I think they could go a long way towards keeping bad people away. Frankly, the parents of both parties should be familiar with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 09:23 PM
1

Nice strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 09:22 PM

I think both parents should have a right to the info.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 09:21 PM
1

Oh I do, and it’s usually a result of multi generational family breakdowns. It’s why a healthy, two parent home is the biggest leg up any kid could possibly have.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:58 PM

Yeah, you don’t understand how men bond.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:56 PM
1

Yeah, that must be why stories like the ones we are responding to here are commonplace when that’s the case 😂 and
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:54 PM
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You’re using outliers to try to disprove a general rule. You’re bad at this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:53 PM

By this metric, all women should be cool signing prenups because she should just trust him. And in this case, you know, fathering a child, the consequences are far more severe. But again, this should all be done anyways as a requirement for the birth certificate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:53 PM

This is basically marketing for the government knowing better for someone’s kids than their parents. Can’t make this shit up. Though I do agree with you about a subset of modern parents being loony, I mean look at how many turn their kids into transformers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:51 PM
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Read what she said and how she described it, doesn’t sound good eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:47 PM

That’s a goalpost move
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:47 PM

lol not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:38 PM
0

Men and women are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:38 PM
1

I’m talking about parents having a pretty vital say in the values of the person their child wants to date. This is common sense if you give even two fucks about your kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:37 PM
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It’s happened, but the fact is equality means we don’t have to agree with each others way of being.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:36 PM
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You’re obsessed with hating men, you say it practically verbatim. What is it supposed to be called?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:36 PM
1

Parents are kind of a big deal, as are families, in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:35 PM

You’re right, he should be smart and do the dna test on the DL.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:08 PM
1

So misandry, got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:06 PM
1

Yeah and anecdotes don’t beat out general rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:06 PM
1

You’re right, the people who might become a part of your family or be an intimate part of your child’s life mean nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 04:59 PM
1

So parents are useless to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 04:58 PM
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No kid is perfect, which is why they need guidance.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 04:21 PM
1

I think that might be projection
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 04:21 PM
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So parents being involved in their kids lives is bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 04:15 PM
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Their duty isn’t a romantic one at all. It entails a lot of effort and strife.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:57 PM
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Great, I’d say that’s better than the experience the woman is lamenting in her post.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:57 PM
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Because of the influx of third worlders? That makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:56 PM
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Anger drives men to action. As I said before.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:55 PM
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Yeah, I’m not really concerned with third worlders dude. I’m talking about modernized society.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:55 PM
1

Explain what “often” means?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:54 PM
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She’s acknowledging she was wayward.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:54 PM
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You’re kind of proving my point they need guidance
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:53 PM
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I’m speaking in the context of modernized society.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:33 PM
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Uh, 18 is adulthood in most of the modern world.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:32 PM
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Your right, women deserve no protection or care at all. Especially when they’re kids. What a thought process 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:31 PM
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I’m saying you want the autonomy while also saying you have none, tongue in cheek. And when we are talking about literal kids here, why wouldn’t parents have a say?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:24 PM
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Family’s that give a shit about their kids normally prevent this kind of thing from happening. Acting like it’s normal actually adds ammo to the society being super fucked up narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:23 PM
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What a weird way to view the world. No autonomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:21 PM
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You’re either lying or consume outlier media. Especially in Canada, which is going to shit quicker than the ones in the middle of the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:20 PM
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What are you even talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:19 PM
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They are more reliable than strangers, by and large.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:19 PM
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Thanks for the non sequitur.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:19 PM
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That’s your framing, not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:18 PM
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That’s the exact problem, which the poster is clearly highlighting 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:18 PM
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Parents would be far more involved in who got together/dated. Which should already be the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:18 PM
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Women usually channel it through neuroticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:17 PM
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Which is why the base family foundation is so important, which I wouldn’t be shocked if your mom had issues with too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:16 PM
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Kinda my point. Again, sorry to hear you went through that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:16 PM
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Or… she doesn’t go with that guy in the first place because there are mothers to help vet said dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 12:42 PM
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Those still aren’t serious relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 12:41 PM
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Makes a lot of sense you’d compare to that specific culture 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 12:41 PM
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Makes a lot of sense. Again, sorry to hear that. My family sucks dick as well, but you choose what to make of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 12:40 PM
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Playa play!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 12:40 PM
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You did read the duration of these “relationships” when she was a teen right? That shit ain’t long. At all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:10 AM
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That wasn’t even my point. And I assumed you’d go that route, and that’s fine because you lived it, but normally there would be other folks vetting these guys (namely, your father or parents) prior to all of this and sex not being something you do so early on. Especially at that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:09 AM
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Society and culture has done nothing but reinforce the opposite for decades now. If anything, it’s women biological imperatives that are natural keeping them engaged in trying to fight through it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:03 AM
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The more you hear stories like these, the more it makes sense promiscuity was shamed out of most of society. That’s not an attack on you, btw. Sorry to hear you went through that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:01 AM
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Would “indiscriminate dick taker” be better for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:00 AM
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Yep, literally had it happen in my comment on this thread. They are incapable of parsing information from what they intentionally misconstrue as personal attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 09:59 AM
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There are more than enough gays who constantly hate and lament the “heteronormativity” of society, so welcome to equality ladies
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 09:58 AM
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No comment on the replication crisis deeming much of that data null and void eh? And we are talking likelihood distributions here. It’s not impossible for a woman to have a high n count and decent relationships skills, but it’s quite unlikely. To your last point, treating it as some obscure unknowable thing is a way to obfuscate the point. If their behavior regarding sex is consistent, then fine, but it’s often not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 08:39 PM
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Having boundaries is shaming now? Whamen
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 08:36 PM
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You are correct
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 08:35 PM
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I’ve seen women do this far more than men. FYI, saying that you wouldn’t want to date a ran through woman isn’t slut shaming, but just about any observation of women suffices for that today.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 01:51 PM
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In my friend group, I think we’ve all taken turns being the lovable jackass. Congrats on of understanding men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 01:50 PM
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I’m almost positive the first “incel” to ever incel was a guy who posted something just a tad bit too harsh while also funny about women. Funny how that works, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 01:45 PM
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Those people must be dirty as fuck 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 01:37 PM
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That’s a lot of verbal diarrhea that doesn’t address the point. And higher body count correlates to less neuroticism? Do you/have you dated a lot of women? No wonder we are in the midst of a replication crisis with clearly wrong data sets like that 😂 As nonsensical as the post is, I’m glad you made it because if highlights even more cognitive dissonance amongst women. Sex is incredibly easy for women to attain. I think anyone arguing that might need a chromosome check. So to have a high n count …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 01:36 PM
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A woman with a high body count has shown she can’t keep a man around. That is a clear demonstration of a lack of relationship skills. I didn’t say you needed to be a zero, fyi.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 01:14 AM
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It’s related in that all women definitely are not simply interchangeable and things such as their past 100% matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:52 AM
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This is why things that affect women’s relationship skills like bodycount are so important.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:35 PM
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I think the rule is for the socially retarded folk. But pushing messages along to get to a first meet ASAP was also always a solid move.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:34 PM
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Like a lot of RP advice, it’s designed to reach the top of the tism spectrum of dummies. Basically, you’re right in a perfect world, but you also have to account for: some men literally cannot stop themselves, so giving a less than equal amount makes it a bit clearer. a lot of women still treat equal energy early on as clingy despite it not being so. a woman going out of her way to message you a lot early on is about as clear of a runway to you being good as it’s gonna get for you not to waste y…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 02:02 PM
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I think it’s less that and moreso that a lot of women with the way the attention distribution is set up women default to seeing a lot of men who don’t really give too many shits about them as a display of higher value.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 01:45 PM
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You give women back 2/3rds of the communication she gives you, especially early on. Avoids appearing clingy/overinvested/ kind of an anti early ick defense. But also, you should have better shit to do than text this woman nonstop.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 01:44 PM
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So you can’t address it? Thanks for wasting my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 01:43 PM
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There’s a reason the 2/3rds rule is so effective early on, especially when you’re trying to gauge the desire of the woman you’re talking to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 12:38 PM
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I told you what my point was, you’re not going to just make it up now 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 12:37 PM
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You’re right. Taking hormones have no effect on us at all! Oooookay!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 12:32 AM
1

Do you not understand what “deep clean” means?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:32 PM
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That’s a great time to go back to work, preferably a low stress job with flexible hours where pay isn’t all that important to the home, or maintain the home and do some side hustle since women will buy pretty much anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:32 PM
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Point A: regular sex is an entailment and reasonable expectation in any romantic relationship. Especially marriage. Otherwise fidelity means nothing. Point B (your point); men are marrying for a fuckfest.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:04 PM
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That’s what is meant by nurturing. For when the kids are up to maybe 5. After that? Extremely diminishing returns. Again, the communities I’m reference have pretty clearly demonstrated this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:02 PM
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You recognize the difference between deep clean and routine maintenance, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:01 PM
1

So now you are goalpost moving
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:37 PM
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I can pay someone to deep clean my home for $150 right now. That ain’t rich dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:36 PM
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Babies, dawg…. Babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:35 PM
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Sex is an entailment of marriage otherwise fidelity wouldn’t matter. It’s a kindergarten problem to solve.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:03 PM
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DEI has pushed people into those roles. I’m well aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:02 PM

It wouldn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:01 PM
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Great, the outlier proves the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:01 PM
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Third world work ain’t expensive 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:01 PM
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It’s pretty rare. We’ve seen in mass from specific communities in the inner city in the US how women being the primary raisers and leaders of men turns out. Ain’t so good
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:01 PM
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Where’s the family?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:00 PM

The differences are a pretty big deal https://x.com/degenrolf/status/2061672503517258031?s=46&t=-QVWH5TYqCMz34HCmPLO-Q
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:47 PM
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That’s not the best strategy and I’ll tell you why. For many years I dated multiple women non-exclusively who were all aware of each other. Every. Single. Time they would push to be committed despite knowing what I was about from the jump.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:38 PM
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That has a deadline because women will inevitably want a larger commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:19 PM

Great idea to pass the time until you find someone you actually wanna be with. Make sure you date non exclusively.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:11 AM

If a guy takes care of himself, no one cares because he can pass for being younger. It’s that women assume it’s a slob in his 40s kidnapping some 20 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:11 AM

Unfortunately, your average dude has met many of this exact woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:10 AM
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I think women are amazing nurturers and truly the ones who can get things right both with small children and mentoring other women for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:07 AM
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Not really sure what that has to do with what I posted at all. FWIW, I have a pretty amazing history with women. Have and have had a ton in my life. Many of which who would not leave me the fuck alone even when I tried to amicably part ways 😂 so I guess that would suck if that were me, but here we are. Women are great. I think they just have a distaste for truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 10:51 AM
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I’d argue that a committed relationship would be just as silly under your own guidelines, but it’s still what people want. And sex is a part of that, and a big one, no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:23 AM
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Women are largely in charge of how the mating and dating game plays out since they are the primary selectors. Getting mad at men for playing the game is quite an interesting take.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:22 AM
1

It’s much more complicated than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 08:36 AM
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Not really. Third worlders can do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:39 AM
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Anything worth it in life requires sacrifice. If you enjoy family, I don’t see the issue. If you hate it, then more power to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:38 AM
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Shopping is a hobby, kids are in school or outsourced to daycare most of the time, people’s cleanliness standards rarely decline aside from clinical depression so if you marry a slob that’s on you, and “domestic management” is completely made up. Again, women are naturally more attuned to many of these things. No one asked them to girlboss. Play stupid games win stupid prizes. And even all that aside, men are STILL almost outclassing them when you actually list out the non biased data (women alw…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:12 AM
1

That’s not really a good faith response. The second half of people’s lives are longer than they think. Enjoy the soylent green.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:10 AM
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People who don’t usually is a result of how that mother treated them and/or their father and after a long, hard internal battle had to turn away. And no, they don’t. Maybe when it’s a newborn, but all the data today controverts that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:57 PM
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You also understand women like sex too and would, in a common sense world, marry a man they wanna fuck into perpetuity?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:54 PM

So is dying alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:53 PM
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A major point of marriage is sex, lady. It’s kind of the big covenant. But hey, if sex is no big deal the. neither is fidelity. That’s the road you are forced to go down.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:59 PM
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Most of our culture perpetuates the narrative that women consistently deserve more and the best. They also see women (albeit celebrities) who are relatively tame attaining similar things and think “why not me?” I don’t like to treat women like children, but it’s shit like that and how they respond to actually being honest with them that almost makes it seem like they want to be patronized.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:58 PM
1

Alpha fucks, beta bucks contains the alpha part all you ladies want to ignore because of the picture it paints. Physical attributes, genetics, social proof, pre selection. Theres a whole other half of the dynamic you completely ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:55 PM
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As a woman, I’d assume you know better than this. Many factors like HBC, FOMO, children, turning 30, etc. will facilitate women to have “attraction” for men normally not really in their realm of thought for romantic purposes because they make necessity a virtue. It’s a great explanation for why after the 2.5 kids the bedroom dies even with men doing more than ever before in history.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:52 PM
1

The Obsession movie meme breaking containment and going viral has united more random dudes who experience the same crazy behavior women assure us is just “those bad women” than I have ever seen before. Holy shit 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:47 PM
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Baseline for women is barely any attraction for men. Add in HBC and SSRIs, and a guy better be damn sure a woman is about him from the jump.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:46 PM
1

Hypergamy extends beyond wealth and status.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:45 PM
0

I don’t even need experience for this, analyze the history of Hunter/gatherer tribes we evolved from and you find many of the base instincts very much present today but manifested differently because technology has evolved infinitely quicker than we have to attune to it. It’s not even a negative reading of women, it’s just the reality of the world we live in. And not for nothing, I’ve had tons and continue to have tons of really good experiences with women. If anything, those only validate it fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:44 PM

Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:42 PM

I think it’s great you have gay friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:42 PM
4

Patriarchy is inevitable though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:40 PM

States versus revealed preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:21 PM
1

Hitchens Thoroughly enjoy even rewatching it sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:15 PM
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That’s a you problem if that’s how you wanna take it. The first woman every man loves is their mother and that ain’t sexual, so we can quit that nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:11 PM

Quite the framing 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:10 PM

I’d say, by and large, encouraging men to be more emotional has been an epic fail. It’s not for them. Women can keep the market on having to endlessly emote everything. Because you’re right, they are harmless and whimsical
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:10 PM
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I’d say it’s about getting into a relationship with a woman who is convinced the dude is the peak choice, which does not happen all that often and is far more important for women to feel than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:09 PM
2

Women and men are different 😂 for the upteenth time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:36 PM
1

Christopher Hitches (RIP) is someone I’m a big fan of despite him being a staunch feminist. He was part of a round table on cspan that can still be found on YouTube from the 90s with some women, and one thing he said I thought was pretty prophetic. It was basically that feminists needed to be careful because peddling victimhood as a means to get what they want would mean that eventually men would aim to do the same. Well, here we fucking are. Also, not for nothing, but the women on that panel we…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:36 PM
-1

History and evolution are intertwined. Are you being intentionally obtuse or do you really not get that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:28 PM
1

You realize the weird, specialized anecdotes don’t scale on normal terms, correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:28 PM
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This isn’t the 1950s. That world hasn’t existed for a really long time. Men have been nothing but encouraged to be defective women for 3-4 decades now. Men kill themselves/become school shooters because they become these emotional people and discover no one, especially women, give a fuck. Understanding your emotions and having control > being emotional FYI self deletion is an emotional action
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:20 PM
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Not a history buff, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:16 PM
0

Feminism was about women having equal choice… Up until a woman chooses something they don’t like.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:15 PM

Pre selection is important. Having a wife and kids is even better if you have your shit together. Women literally won’t leave you alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:13 PM
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I think men are pissed because women are praised just for existing, yet want equality which would mean men would get praised for just existing. But women don’t want to do that. It’s no shock folks ain’t happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:12 PM
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This is funny considering women think KOing their kids is a good thing when there is 0 incentive for it when it directly plays a part in society ceasing to exist, which means no societal flourishing. Seems like women are easily manipulated.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:10 PM
1

Yes, women who were brought in, by men. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:08 PM
1

Well, wish ya the best!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:08 PM
1

To believe in evolution is to believe in force doctrine. Do you believe in evolution?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:46 PM
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Did I speak in absolutes? Also, simply being in a relationship is a pretty low bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:43 PM
1

Hypergamy isn’t solely based on wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:42 PM
0

Agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:41 PM
0

Women don’t act upon the world, it acts upon them. Don’t believe me? Listen to them rant. Men use it as a facilitator for action on their own end. Women use it to get others to do it for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:42 PM
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Any woman who champions reproductive rights is outrightly stating women are the holders of all reproduction. It’s an entailment. Try to understand your argument better.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:36 PM
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I didn’t say they don’t understand it, in general. I said they don’t understand it in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:35 PM
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Egalitarians, such as yourself, still believe in government systems. Which the “equal” folks still rely on for all of their rights. It’s inescapable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:34 PM
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It’s not great.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:33 PM
1

Great non sequitur
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:33 PM
1

Are we talking about the medical field, lady?I said social sciences.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:25 PM
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I’m saying that’s not relevant in the context in which we are discussing anger. What aren’t you getting?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:24 PM
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They actually are not the selectors.But keep being obtuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:18 PM
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Nope, everything else they acquire via men’s generosity. Force doctrine. I don’t make the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:17 PM
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That’s not really relevant to the convo dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:16 PM
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You said there’s no value judgments, but then want to use a value judgement (equality). It’s nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:13 PM
1

Cool story.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:12 PM
0

That’s not even close to an equivalent comparison of what you laid down 😂 you’re not so great at this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:06 PM
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Mighty reliant on men, yes. Their greatest strengths are sexual power and reproduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:05 PM
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I never said men weren’t emotional, the fact is that our emotions function differently than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:04 PM
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No, they don’t. Women have full control over reproduction. We aren’t in the 1950s.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:04 PM
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You said it’s a mask for another emotion, which means it’s not real.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:03 PM
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My ancestors did which is why I’m even here 😂 and what a dumb, irrelevant question. Biology is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:02 PM
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So you complained and men, through action, changed it for you. Cool!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:00 PM
1

I deal adolescents on a regular basis. The parenting is a major problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:56 PM
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It’s almost like you could just answer the question
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:52 PM
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Most social sciences are corrupt and unreliable. Even familiar with the replication crisis?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:49 PM
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I told you how 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:49 PM
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No, I’m giving the logical extension of your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:48 PM
1

It’s already been made bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:47 PM
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Sounds like you’re a common sense person. I’m speaking to the vast swath of people and ever growing amount of them who are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:47 PM
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Cool, so being dead is as good as being alive. And your stuff being mine is better than you having it. Let’s run it!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:46 PM
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So a comprehension failure then.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:45 PM
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Pretty much and women usually utilize men to get that said thing done (same shit happening today as in the past) through sex, reproduction, and through social manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:45 PM
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Is survival an advantage? If yes, then that’s the answer to the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:43 PM
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That’s a value judgement too. So if everything is a value judgement, then nothing is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:43 PM
1

Was I talking about dogs?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:42 PM
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So now anger isn’t real? Ooookay.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:41 PM
0

Outliers prove a general norm. And nice hyperbole. Irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:24 PM
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That’s great you are so optimistic, but fostering “you go girl-ism” like these dads do does entail what I said. It’s under the empowerment umbrella.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:23 PM
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So a random ass example you made up renders it functionally useless? Okay. Question, if an attacker comes after a family, is it the man’s responsibility to protect them? Yes or no? Or does it not matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:22 PM
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So your argument is all things are value judgements? That’s self defeating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:21 PM
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Reading comprehension fail, per usual. Tootles!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:10 PM
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😂 okay then.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:09 PM
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You’re the one giving a value judgment here, not I.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:09 PM
1

Give them strategies to vet men appropriately, be careful who they allow access to them, and how to determine a man of worth that will most likely end up leading their lives in the future. The same men/fathers that do exactly what I’m responding to are also cool with their daughters being slutted out when the time comes under the guise of “independence”. Fucking weird ass behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:09 PM
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Cool story, Hansel. Not really sure what that has to do with anything but happy for you/sorry that happened to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:06 PM
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Oh I’m aware, but a) I’m trying to be honest and b) it will be fun/funny
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:05 PM
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Anger is energy. What an insightful response. Almost a non sequitur
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:04 PM
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The habit you’ve espoused? Most definitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:04 PM
1

Might may not make right, but might makes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:03 PM
0

Survival instincts are biological dude. Men and women accomplish them differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:02 PM
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Women don’t act upon the world, it acts upon them. Don’t believe me? Listen to them rant.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:37 PM
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Women don’t act upon the world, it acts upon them. Don’t believe me? Listen to them rant.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:37 PM
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Again, I don’t watch that stuff. What I do see is absurd behaviors from fathers toward their daughters who have clearly been shelved by the wife. Again, gross stuff. But keep up with that habit of yours 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:36 PM
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There’s a way to do that without doing what was posited. Men should protect themselves from other men too. Pretty basic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:35 PM
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Men understand that hierarchies are necessary to get things done because it benefits the overall system. It’s no different than any organization that’s successful. The folks most proficient at certain tasks get more responsibility and authority because they have merited it. Women don’t view things this way because they just are. Their whole goal is move up hierarchies through others and not their own doing because it not only solidifies their value but protects them within whatever “tribe” keepi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:34 PM
-1

Anger is a motivator for action.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:23 PM
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Idk why you watch so much (especially of that nature) that you’d think so, but do you!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:22 PM
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Men and women’s innate biological proclivities.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:22 PM
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Changing what I said now, very predictable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:21 PM
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Our biology hasn’t changed dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:12 PM
1

Uhhh what.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:11 PM
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Being this obtuse about it is weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:11 PM
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Don’t blame me for the weirdness of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:04 PM
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I suggest you check our Bear Grylls The Island series where women tried that out and see what happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:04 PM
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Anger has a different function for men than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:03 PM
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Men’s emotions and processes are simply different than women and that’s hard for women to understand. One such one being anger and its utility.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 02:52 PM
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Hierarchy is what makes the world work. It’s a privilege to believe otherwise. Also, most men who condition their daughters this way have a borderline incestuous desire to win them over because it replaces the often unrequited love they receive from that child’s mother. Once you see it, you can’t unsee it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 02:51 PM
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The way I’m treated being a tall, jacked guy pales in comparison to how I was treated prior. Women don’t even conceptualize it. The machine just does what it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:40 PM
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So you gave up.
/r/askMRP03/06/26 09:44 AM
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Since women have 100% control over who fathers kids, that largely comes down to a skill issue. Completely skipped over the authority part of my post, did ya? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:34 AM
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Most of the time this comes down to immutable traits where women correlate them with better perceived behavior, such as a taller guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:32 AM

The guidelines for what constituted SA were incredibly ambiguous, including things like unwanted touch that was incidental. So, that’s gonna muddy the waters a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:30 AM
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You realize the metrics by which the SA data was gathered was severely flawed, correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:41 PM
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True, a very fair point 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:39 PM
-1

Women parrot the sexual empowerment narrative. Wouldn’t it be common sense for a guy to be wary of the ones who don’t fully utilize it to be with them? Especially early on?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:55 PM
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It’s because casual sex is what usually lays the groundwork for formal relationships today and solves the equation for if a woman desires him early on. This ain’t rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:54 PM

I’m not a fan of men acting as defective women anymore than you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:20 PM

Hey, I agree that men today have largely become defective women being inundated in the gynocentricism we all live and breathe. And the people that parrot that the most are women to men, so says a lot huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:18 PM

Que?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:42 PM

This post is awesome and lowkey self aware of precisely how men and women are different. normal man: biologically programmed to love the features of a woman’s body. woman: knowing how susceptible she is to manipulating, marketing, and trends, as a woman, she suspects that men MUST operate the same as her and it can’t possibly be something innate, but something that can be changed. Most of the gender war, ladies and gents.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 03:12 PM
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I think many men want kids, the issue is that the culture has stripped almost any and all authority that comes with being a good father (especially to boys) away and left them still holding the bag of the responsibility of whatever happens. Making dads into defective moms hasn’t been ideal either. A great example is how many smart people have been fucking duped to the point where you can’t say that mothers are more important for babies and infants than fathers are, or that fathers are more impor…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 03:07 PM
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She’s saying to become what women claim they want. If I solely pretend and mimic behaviors that are going to get me what I want, that’s called manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:19 PM
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“f men were actually dealing with a lack of options, they would do things that would make them more liked across as many women as possible so then they can end up choosing out of those women that like them.” So men should become better manipulators? Lowkey based!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:47 AM

The “no reason” is sex. He begins to realize she’s not all that desirous of him and it won’t get better. Usually happens a few years into an early LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:46 AM

I mean, it doesn’t negate my point though. And the guys who do what your OP implies will have a good chunk of women throw themselves at them once they hit 35ish. It’s just a matter of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:05 PM

Sex and reproduction are covertly the some of the largest power plays in the game. They just gaslight the shit out of men so that they forget that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:38 PM

The majority of men in America are overweight. Stats fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:37 PM
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It’s funny that women use this traditional boogeyman caricature when they still expect men to fulfill traditional roles amongst other duties. Spoiler: no one asks women to be girlbosses or earn the same amount of money as men other than themselves and the hive mind. Making decisions and then outsourcing the blame to others is a childish look.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:36 PM

The issue most fat women (and I guess fats, in general) is that they are awful at tracking calories. Especially from liquids.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 09:50 AM
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Wouldn’t it be prudent of women to show that they are good for things other than sex? Because they don’t do a great job of that, especially today.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 09:44 AM
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Yah, she doesn’t take it well. Then again, I can understand. Her losing out on sex with me would kinda suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 09:42 AM
1

So women who are mad men won’t marry them are also in the wrong because they want to be seen as wife material? Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 09:41 AM
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Women do this thing, especially when they’re bored, of causing a bunch of drama over something stupid because it fills their current need for indignation. So, you beat them to the punch.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 09:41 AM
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Hormonal birth control strikes again
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 08:06 PM
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On one hand, those screenshots of Reddit posts where a guy says his wife has told him she’s done having sex for good seem 100% fake. On the other hand, any woman who feels confident enough to straight up say that to their husband is likely with an unfuckable guy. Knowing he wouldn’t do shit about it. Hmmm…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 08:06 PM
2

I mean, men optimize everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 07:09 PM
2

Women already come with that in the factory setting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:35 PM
0

I see the fear mongering works on folks still. KOing your kids shouldn’t be a popular thing, yet here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:34 PM
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Yeah, but the issue is that one is a very common issue in modernity (women not desiring man enough) and one is not (women being used as bamgmaids). This ain’t the 1950s. Men are more involved than ever before.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:15 PM
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I didn’t say anything was a sure thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:14 PM
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Yeah, if you’re fat, dumb, an addict, or old. Otherwise, women with far less than we have today figured it out time and time again. Also, I completely agree women should choose who gets to father kids far wiser than they do now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:14 PM
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While true, I think a lot of this comes down to hormonal birth control completely duping countless women into fucking and reproducing with the wrong guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:12 PM
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Not really since women’s standards for men are far higher overall and they select for different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:12 PM
1

See: almost every complaint about housework ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 05:10 PM
1

Manufacture outrage. Basically, be the drug dealer on your terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 05:08 PM
0

Why are corporate women obsessed with meetings?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 05:06 PM
2

I know, truth is rough sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 05:06 PM
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This ain’t the 1950s. If a woman gets with a dude she doesn’t like fucking, that’s 100% her fault. If she enters a relationship where she does more than she’s comfortable with, again her fault. This monster died a long time ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 05:04 PM
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I will help anyone as long as they demonstrate actual initiative to wanna change. But that ain’t most folks. Most are perpetual victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 05:03 PM
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As a married dude with a family who is staunchly anti-marriage the way things are done today, there are definitely ways to game the system to increase your likelihood of having the best outcome possible. Namely: ensuring she has genuine desire for you, basically making sure she is dickmatized. If you have experience, you’ll know, but otherwise you should date a while to figure this out. fuck up a little bit (preferably on purpose) and see if she takes up for you. give few to no fucks (your kids …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 04:19 PM
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I think anyone who’s been through a lot of shit and come out the other side successfully likely falls into this category. I know I have a pretty low tolerance for nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 04:10 PM
1

True of pretty much every married non gay man. Edit: whose wife didn’t pull the pin on the fat grenade
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:51 PM
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Because the issue is about desire. There’s rarely doubt if a man finds a woman with he’s with fuckable. That’s 100% not the case in the other direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:42 PM
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Only people who don’t understand the differing desire dynamics between men and women can ever think this goofy shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:28 PM
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No, she’s laced with enriched uranium 😂 these fucking people. Women are emotional, who woulda thunk!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:25 PM
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Lumping your case in with the majority who do it for the love of the game is the majority of the problem here. But whamen gonna whamen.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:24 PM
1

I have a family 😂 nice c o p e though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:23 PM
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You must seek out this shit, men are largely at the mercy of women when it comes to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:23 PM
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We aren’t in the 1950s, lady. If you aren’t obese or an addict or an old head, you’ll be just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:22 PM
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Got it. I’m cool with them merc’ing their own kids, I just want the acknowledgment from them as to what they did as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:08 PM
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What world/spaces do you inhabit? Most of mine are around things that are pleasurable for both of us. As an aside, all women who wanted choked/gagged out/restrained all asked me for it without my discussion of any of them being things I’m into, and while I did it because I’m a team player I had to get comfortable with it (also seeing how much they were into it surprised me when I was younger) in order to enjoy it for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:07 PM

I think they can do it but there’s a permanent record of sorts for it. It’s not really healthcare other than cope, because they have to work so hard to lump it in with actual life threatening issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:04 PM
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Because more women than ever read weird smut and argue men are porn brained. Massive hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:05 PM

I was speaking generally. I agree that people shouldn’t force others to do things that make them uncomfortable, whether in the bedroom or out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:48 PM

Most people don’t change. And especially not in the opposite direction (the only caveat here is clinical depression). What that means is the cleanliness of a person you initially meet will rarely go in the reverse direction. What I think happens is women don’t consider it at all until they have to. Which is something they 100% should be more aware of.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:50 PM

Couple things: 1) it’s funny to hear women who read books about guzzling Minotaur cum complaining about kinks. 2) I think folks exploring fantasies together can be fun. Women, in my experience, tend to find a lot of excitement in that, but also it’s only if the dude was their first choice. 3) if she’s never been into it, then I’d say I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:48 PM

I think that seeing sex as an entailment of a relationship is moreso common sense than entitlement, but do you boo.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:43 PM

It’s not. Women specifically create and foster that dynamic because it’s a goalpost that is almost unreachable and constantly movable. She is stressed for reason x or he becomes too beta? Chores have the ultimate plausible deniability. Give him more and more and when he does them? Say they weren’t done “right”. How do I know this to be the case? I’ve talked with men who actually tracked it and showed their wives/SOs that they were actually outclassing them in that department. You know what the r…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:42 PM

Guess what? That’s most relationships, even when the woman claims it’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:27 PM

I’ve dealt with quite a number of women, and regardless of their age, demo, background, career, upbringing, most of their behavior made porn look prudish. I don’t find the expectations of most men to be all that outlandish at all. It’s just a fact of concealed desire that women are hesitant to share because it would show they don’t deem most men worthy of their best.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:24 PM

Anyone who really believes that chores or housework gets a guy more sex who wasn’t already gonna get laid anyways is either a woman who’s never been dickmatized or a guy that’s never done it to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:16 PM

Most folks on here are staunchly anti sex. It’s odd
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:15 PM
1

I’d say it’s been fetishized since men basically have to work to accomplish anything else they want in life anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:15 PM
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I don’t know, I reward my wife with sex when she’s especially killing it. The few times I’ve turned her down have been nuclear meltdowns, so pretty sure she sees it as something she stands to gain a lot out of.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:14 PM

So either you or you both got fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:59 AM

It’s the glue for any romantic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:59 AM
0

We’ve literally been doing that for a couple decades now and it’s made shit infinitely worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 06:55 PM
1

Hard disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 12:58 PM
1

It’s not incel terminology.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 09:21 PM

I’ve been introduced to the phrase “foidian slip” and I cannot stop fucking laughing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:36 PM
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The only reason for this that makes actual sense is because women demonstrate actual love and desire through service.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:35 PM
1

False binary
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:37 PM
2

Holy shit that was meant to be a joke 😂 “Skill issue” means you aren’t operating at a good enough level to get the things you want out of life. So all of these things you complain about? It’s because you haven’t bettered yourself to achieve them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 12:21 AM
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Is English your second language?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:11 PM
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They aren’t in the room 😂 ever heard of a monitor?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 06:37 PM
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We’ve broken in our couch quite a bit. Again, skill issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:33 PM
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I have an almost 5 month old. I can assure you, my wife couldn’t wait for that 6 week mark to hit and we still go out and do things together without him while the grandparents get some quality time. Sad state of affairs for ya. As an aside I still play music, hit the gym, play golf. Sounds like a skill issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:39 AM
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Mommy and daddy issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:23 AM
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The big problem is that HBC has duped more women than we will likely ever know. Combine it’s ambiguous effects on desire, hormones, and the FOMO of a woman nearing 30 and it begins to make sense that having kids is post nut clarity for women once their hormones reset for maybe the first time since their teens that they fucked up and reproduced with an unfuckable loser. Happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:22 AM
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100%. One of the women in my rotation back in the day was a doctor who was about 14 years my senior. Amazing times. Also fully understood the nature of things, would pay for me to get tested (I was always safe but it was a CYA for her I guess) because she knew I was with other women actively. Great for any young up and coming dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:51 AM
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Oh I’d be out 😆 but I’d make things appear as normal as possible for as long as possible until I could get my ducks in a row and leave her with as little leverage as possible. Have a lot of friends in legal with a lot of connections. She’d be fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:17 AM
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The are easier to nab for a quick fun time if you are in shape. Hell, they’ll even pay for a ton of your shit without you even asking. Pretty sweet until you find a woman you really wanna date.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:10 AM

There was never a disagreement there, just relevance to what was being talked about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 10:32 PM

Women’s main cards are manipulation. Listen to what any of them say they want versus what they choose and they are almost always at odds.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 10:31 PM

“I said I’d break up with him to see if he’d actually fight for me.”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 10:30 PM

You speak about character, but a man of character would also be principled. And if that’s the case, then if someone, say a woman, challenged those principles he’d had to… and stay with me here… DISAGREE to remain a man of character. You use a lot of container words to tip toe around “men should just shut up and do what women say”. Also, it’s clear you don’t date women (and that’s fine) because you continuously have no idea what you are talking about in terms of what it’s like to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 09:34 AM

Pretty much. When I was single I had a few examples both via cold approach and via apps where I pretty much verified the vibe wasn’t gonna work for me once it seemed as though they were out, and each time they either challenged me on it (so tried to fix the vibe themselves) or kind of admitted they were just seeing how I’d react. Ended up hooking up with all of them so 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 09:31 AM

That’s all when and good until you’ve dealt with the mind games women put out there from the jump as a pre req to even dating them 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 09:27 AM
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It’s not even related. Are you that dense?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 03:14 PM
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It’s one of the most absurd false equivalencies I’ve seen in a long time, and that’s saying a lot. Nice try on the reach, but stay on topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 08:36 AM
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Two things here: Wutaboutdamendo is still a non sequitur. Men are more violent than women, so nothing groundbreaking here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:06 AM
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So a non sequitur now. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 10:12 PM
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Biology trumps most of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 08:28 PM
2

Women’s standards change due to biology. That is a constant. You know, science and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:08 PM
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Those differences DON’T CHANGE THE UNDERLYING MODUS OPERANDI
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 05:19 PM

I’m not sure I’ve seen a bigger self own by women in these comments than them acknowledging that their lives are so easy that they can afford to NOT deal with people who won’t bend over backwards for them. What a privilege 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 03:02 PM
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A goalpost move to RACISM. Good lord 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 03:01 PM
0

You still don’t seem to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 03:00 PM
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What I’m saying is their morals mean not a whole lot 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 02:47 PM
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That’s fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 02:47 PM
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Women define that effort very differently based upon the genuine desire they have for the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 01:58 PM
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We’re talking past each other here. ALL women fall into the category I described. It’s a matter of where the guy falls in her power rankings. So sure, a man needs to have self awareness. What you’re describing are simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 01:45 PM
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I didn’t say zero, did I? There’s likely an equation of sorts that figures money earned and laboriousness of said job that should factor in, but most people know this as a matter of common sense. Fact is, distribution of chores should never be objectively equal because there’s no such thing, nor should it be a mix. A separation (barring outlier events) works best. Everyone minds their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 01:24 PM
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The issue is that most women “core values/beliefs” are free flowing. I’ve dated super libs and made the killing kids joke to their face to laughs harder than my buddies who were willing to trade it all to be number one. Their beliefs are only as strong as the main character in the room.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 01:19 PM
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So you passed the test then. Congrats on finding your guy. FYI a man that’s works all the time is doing so precisely so that the inverse of his work time isn’t more work time. Most people understand that. Unless you are talking about a task specific to him like building something or the lawn or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 12:53 PM
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Well any woman who says they wants kids while also parroting that has an inner conflict to sort out for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 12:52 PM
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Gym, playing/creating music, golf, hiking. The number of women I’ve seen personally get mad at their guys for going to the gym is pretty staggering. Truly low life behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 12:51 PM
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Women who complain about men’s hobbies are telling on themselves. They don’t desire the guy they are with enough otherwise they wouldn’t give a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:34 AM
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Agreed. Celebrating KOing kids is a good thing to figure out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:33 AM
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What is made up? Age of first marriage alone corroborates my observation, and that’s an objective data point lady. Don’t be sad you got owned. Be emotionally secure!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:29 AM
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“ But I rarely hear them talk about the less glamorous parts of fatherhood: emotional consistency, patience, sacrifice, showing up during tantrums, sickness, boredom, conflict, or the day-to-day labor of raising children. That part often seems implicitly delegated to the mother.” Two things: A) the men who are successful, in general, have discipline. Most of these things fall under that umbrella. And not for nothing, the man has to be emotionally regulated enough to have dodged the feminist bull…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:27 AM
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I just explained to you how women change as a pattern 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:21 AM
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To the second paragraph point, AWALT until they hit 30 and rent’s due (could be you?) And simps are men who do exactly what you describe they should do, bend over backwards for women. Fun fact, most of these dudes are STILL invisible to women, even their own wives….
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:12 AM
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“Lillth discovers the longhouse” “If men just did everything women asked, things would be great!” Lady, the simp epidemic is largely how we got here. Disagreeableness, if it’s even on the rise at all, comes from men seeing it actually works (can testify to this) and that being a doormat does not. Also doesn’t help that every woman that goes on Call Her Daddy nowadays self reports that the disagreeable men in their lives got the rawest version of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:02 AM
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^ proof the psyop worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 10:17 AM
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If they are lame and fat they likely are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 01:38 AM
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The fact they don’t even understand their own view of people doesn’t go beyond “muh preference” is pretty telling for someone that is so concerned about shitty people 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 12:20 PM
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Your view of human beings as monoliths is either completely ignorant or utterly delusional. I’d also have to ask you what you find to be good versus bad, but I’m sure you don’t have a definition beyond “muh preference” which is actually FAR more shitty than understanding the good and bad people come with and making the best of it. But as another poster said, life and humans operate on incentives. Being disagreeable doesn’t automatically equal bad. Some of the most disagreeable people you’ll meet…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 12:19 PM

Marriage is a legal contract, kind of entailed 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 12:15 PM

The legal system clearly benefits one party.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 11:08 AM

They can almost undoubtedly make the decision unilaterally. I’d become more familiar with the legal weaponry at their disposal to make that happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 09:20 AM
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And trapped in a limbo of misery. Poor dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 08:47 AM

So…. What women do now?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 08:46 AM

Highly unlikely with the way the family courts are skewed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 08:45 AM

Depends on the situation, but after they get a little older they all develop at least a little anti slut defense you just have to work through a little bit. Basically, it’s plausible deniability.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 08:45 AM
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You clearly have never grown up or been in a dangerous neighborhood for any length of time. Men don’t have the privilege women do of causing a ruckus and having the shield of “but I’m a woman” to protect them. This also is kind of a peak woman post because it fails to see that men are in search of utility. There are a ton of people I’m not huge fans of but they have expertise in areas I value and we figure out a way to go along to get along. That’s called being an adult. But thanks for showing t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 08:41 AM
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Sounds like women have no agency in your world. Wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:25 AM
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As a man who has gotten and still gets (even in front of my wife, which is annoying at times) a lot of attention, I can tell you it is absolutely not common for men at all to experience. I have a pretty extensive network of both friends and guys I’ll help out and I’ve yet to see another one experience even close to the level that I have. Also, understanding women does not = seeing them as non human. Like wtf 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 10:55 AM
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Sounds like a projection of your own insecurity surrounding your own family dynamic. Sorry to hear that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 10:52 AM
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Was one of the major green flags when my wife was trying to lock me down at that time. It’s a life superpower.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 10:50 AM
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Can also depend on where she’s at in her cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 10:48 AM
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Wutaboutdamendo mode activated!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 10:46 AM
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Gonna be honest, most women I’ve met/dated/considered being with had values that were all performative. They basically all ended up molding into mine, especially the ones that wanted to lock me down.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 10:45 AM
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Did you ever stop to realize that these figures were culled out of society intentionally?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 10:43 AM
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Women define that themselves as women who will sleep with anyone and everyone. And great guess, but my post history on here speaks for itself. Out of the game now but ram rotations for a long time as a single guy spanning ages, demos, careers, etc. Pretty reliable subset of feedback.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 11:12 PM
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Women claim to not be whores, so this directly correlates to the people they’ve slept with. Also, women will refer to any of their couple months flings as exes in order to make it sound more serious than it was. Again; sounds like you don’t know women very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 10:36 PM
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Listen to any woman’s rant about her exes and they speak about the “trauma” and “narcissists” and yada yada yada. Sounds like your finger ain’t really on the pulse.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 06:38 PM
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Women self report this as being trauma ad nauseam
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 05:43 PM
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Could definitely be the case
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:22 PM
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Way to miss the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:21 PM
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A truth I’ve moreso thought women can’t handle is that racking up bodies gives them almost irreversible trauma. Not what you cited.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:08 PM
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Biology ain’t fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 12:24 PM
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Testosterone
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 12:24 PM
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Explain why women throw themselves at men they state themselves they are severely unequal to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 12:14 AM
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I mean, it’s their decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 12:12 AM
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It’s because that is the end result of feminism. Men for fun and desirous love when young, other men to be put to work for committal love down the road.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 02:36 PM
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They blew out their pussies with the Epileptic 10000 model.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 02:34 PM
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Naturals meet some of the worst fates I’ve ever seen. Been there. We’ll be here when the other shoe drops, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 02:33 PM
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Of course. Single mothers aren’t looking for love, they are looking for help.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 04:32 PM
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Men are willing to simp and be the dad who stepped up. That is moreso a byproduct of single mothers having outlandish expectations for what they deserve in the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 02:28 PM
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Men remarry at a far greater rate than women, so the data doesn’t really parse out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 01:25 PM

A willingness to be self deluded at your own expense. At least that’s what it is for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:05 AM

Women are always serving someone/something. If it’s “themselves”, that’s usually code for big daddy government.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:03 AM

Sounds like a gay relationship. Not one between a man and woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:00 AM
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Hormonal birth control, age, and FOMO obscure a lot of attraction cues for women. Having kids is post nut clarity for them because, for a substantially large percentage of them, it’s the first time their hormones will come back to baseline in years, even decades if they are mid 30s. That’s when they realize they are with an unfuckable guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 05:59 AM
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From having sex? That’s just women who SELF REPORT it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 05:56 AM
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What does that have to do with what I said? Men don’t describe their past lays as traumas like women do 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 09:56 PM
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I’m talking about women and their traumas, lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 08:48 PM

Cool, not relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:31 PM

This is a distortion of the argument. It’s not to say to find someone with zero issues ever, but it’s to say that people who have led lives that result in less of it are likely better bets.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 01:57 PM

It’s for them to deal with and overcome if they want to participate in a healthy adult relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 01:56 PM

Who said that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 01:56 PM

Some are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 01:56 PM

Who made that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 01:22 PM

None that affect me to this day. Being resilient and facing your personal problems is called being an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 01:22 PM

Can’t let perfect be the enemy of searching for a good bet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 01:22 PM

Per whatever definition you choose to cook up, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:54 PM

Which is why less (not none) is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:53 PM

It’s been a regular occurrence on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:53 PM

Most RP dudes you’d never even know were RP… 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:21 PM

Gotta bulk
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:20 PM

I think women need to figure out if trauma is a good thing or bad thing. In a closed thread, I said that it’s best to steer away from a woman with a lot of past trauma because it will get brought into the relationship. This woman seemed to find that incomprehensible. Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:20 PM

Yes, but you’ll never really know so just pay attention and you’ll sus out the general truth for yourself. Women describe their past encounters with men as traumas. Therefore, less trauma = better relationship potentiality. Not hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 09:08 AM
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Agreed!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:31 AM
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Women will and do state that the precise description of a woman you cited is, in fact, a pick me. I encounter it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 11:43 PM
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Under NORMAL circumstances 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 11:42 PM
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You’re getting got by them Indian accounts…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 09:11 PM
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I think you need to listen to your women counterparts a bit more then…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 09:10 PM
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At this point I’d say about 1.5 standard deviations worth of folks because people are being allowed/indoctrinated to become bigger weirdos. And for what it’s worth, the lack of queer people 100% justifies people not really caring about you at all. That’s called being treated equally bub.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 11:07 AM

There 100% is. Mathematically it can be defined.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 11:42 PM
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I’m not talking about weirdos. For normal people, romance in a relationship entails sex. Don’t be obtuse about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 09:35 PM
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A healthy sex life is an entailment of a healthy romantic relationship. One that should benefit BOTH parties. It’s funny that people wanna say AF/BB is bullshit yet still act as though once monogamy and exclusivity occur sex is somehow some big issue. Kind of demonstrates the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:58 PM
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Women say they want to be understood at a deep level, but tell anyone you know your wife’s cycle like the back of your hand and they suddenly pull the “not like that!” 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 09:26 PM
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Diversity is our strength.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 09:03 PM

Not in the crass way it’s being described here. You can do anything except bore a woman. Leave things even keeled for too long and they will find some drama to insert into your life. That’s why, much like a controlled burn, it’s good to overreact intentionally about stuff sometimes and then reign it back in so you kind of beat them to the punch and help to regulate things while it’s in your control. That’s not really playing hero, but it’s moreso a workaround for women’s nature especially in an …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 10:25 AM

I mean, speak for yourself but it seems as though you’ve never been with a woman who would do WHATEVER it takes to have you dick her down. It’s pretty amazing. As a bigger, muscular dude, I can tell you for 100% certainty you are dead ass wrong about the body thing 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 10:22 PM
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Agreed. It would do men a world of good to become as manipulative as possible seeing as how that’s the requisite result of becoming incredibly socially savvy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 10:15 PM

Sports reporter has 6 year long affair with prominent coach who she named her first son after and constantly raved about on social media, while belittling her husband openly on tv and social media nonstop. And her husband is the typical caring dude being described.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 10:47 PM

Pretty typical stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 10:45 PM

https://thelibertyline.com/2026/04/24/dianna-russini-and-mike-vrabels-saga/
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 09:27 PM

It’s what I’ve seen time and time again.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 08:26 PM

Google is a great tool. Biggest sports scandal in a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 08:26 PM

This presupposes men and women are the same. Not the case. Now an attention whore? Sure. But a pick me woman tends to be after a very specific dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 07:30 PM

Depends. Any woman who even likes the company of men is labeled a pick me these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 07:29 PM

Their ladies are quite happy too getting dicked down by the boss/colleagues when they’re away on business. See: Diana Russini
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 07:29 PM
2

Marriage is a contract, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:08 PM
1

Find a former player with their shit together who wants a family. This way you have some confirmation that: he’s good with women and is familiar with their BS at times. lesser likelihood of intimacy issues lesser likelihood of cheating because he has dealt with a lot of women and chose her to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 01:28 PM
2

People like to ignore elements of history that don’t align with the outcomes they want. Look at many revolutions and the underlying social dynamics of them (the Arab spring, for example) and you will see enough disenfranchisement amongst men where it’s kinda obvious that would be the outcome. Women don’t care about this though because a) those men are invisible to them and b) any form of appeasing them would be “oppression” by their standards. Socially enforced monogamy was as good as we were go…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 01:00 PM
9

It very much is, but women take any criticism or analysis of those decisions that doesn’t blow smoke up their ass as something tantamount to abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 12:54 PM
0

Imagine having kids and saying “can’t imagine I need to keep them alive, sounds miserable”. Very much the same attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 12:53 PM
1

You date enough women and pay attention, it’s not hard to deduce. Pay attention to when their period hits and when it’s going to, a ton of their behavior makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 12:52 PM
4

What a weird framing. Anyways, by the time I discovered what RP was I had already been living that way for some time and it correlated to the best experiences I could have ever possibly imagined spanning a lot of women regardless of their age, background, career, etc. First and foremost, I wanted a family and a stable home for my children. That requires (per the data) a loving mother and father that are married and can give the highlights and care that each parent specializes in. Moreover, I act…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 04:41 PM
0

The most women answer imaginable 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 04:23 PM
1

As someone who had one, albeit pretty loose, you don’t find one. They find you 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:36 PM
1

I’m just explaining the way it goes and the way women are, in general. For example, assuming a church girl (especially today) is actually solid in her convictions and not atoning for some seriously fucked up behavior in her youth (which is the growing majority today) does a man absolutely zero favors. So adhering to your advice is an awful idea because you’re asking men to typecast women rather than seeing them as moldable to their given situation, which they are. As an aside, I had a soft harem…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 12:56 PM
1

What if I told you that the “type” most women gravitate toward being is 100% related to the man most within their gravitational pull at the moment? For example, almost every woman for point #2 is down for a night of fun and the ole “I swear I never do this” given the right circumstances. I’d actually argue you’re belittling women by insisting that it can’t be the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 10:39 AM

It’s 100% location dependent, but if you’re in a metro area you can actually leverage this tremendously in your favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 10:34 AM
1

No. Next question.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 02:15 PM
-2

Women control reproduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 02:15 PM

You’re right, listening to them is really stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 02:14 PM
1

So it’s a part of our toxic feminist culture that’s not in theirs yet, good to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 01:21 PM
1

https://ifstudies.org/blog/can-sharing-a-last-name-save-your-marriage-it-depends
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 09:57 PM
1

Ooookay buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 09:56 PM
2

I’d suppose you understand the point I’m making as even evidenced by yourself. A woman not taking the name is, in fact, most likely an indicator of an already present issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 08:32 PM
1

Imagine thinking that talking to your kids about your own sex life is anywhere acceptable or healthy 😂 wtf is wrong with you dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 08:31 PM
0

There’s actually data on this that non-shared last names after marriage lead to more and quicker divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 06:46 PM
1

Again, huh? 😂 being a sexually successful guy is very different. Guess you haven’t gotten the memo. Shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 06:45 PM
1

My wife and kid are pretty awesome. We do family dinner at the in laws and they are great. I have a pretty big network of guys who I could call if shit hit the fan. I’d say I’m good.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 03:01 PM
0

Women: trying to acquire agency through the means of having none.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 10:28 AM
1

I’m pretty pleased with the life I’ve led 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 10:27 AM

I’m not super online, but this sykkuno situation is some of the funniest shit I’ve seen in a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 10:24 AM
-1

They are responsible for more fashion trends than you are clearly aware of.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 10:00 PM

Tone police is here weeeee ooooo weeee oooo What does my mother have to do with women’s empowering choices?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 09:59 PM
0

There’s currently major discourse on X as to why sex isn’t important to a relationship in the slightest coming from women. You sure it’s the guys that are the issue here?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 06:42 PM
-4

Only by content pushed by gays and other women subversively.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 06:40 PM
1

Sounds like they could just talk about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 06:39 PM
2

When a guy wins at the game, women still gotta try and drag him back down. Funny stuff. I’m incredibly shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 06:39 PM

Where did I write that? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 06:38 PM
3

Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 01:08 PM
1

That’s all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 12:59 PM
2

What you find to be “your league” is likely categorically skewed by social media and the hottest guy who threw it in you for a night. I’ve been the guy to do so, can be a life ruined.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 12:58 PM
1

Aka “why won’t men solve my problems for me”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 12:57 PM
3

It is, they are just too delusional to see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 12:57 PM
38

“Where have all the good men gone?” “Where are the economically attractive men?” Tons of mainstream articles written by women in major publications time and time again. So not sure what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 11:06 AM
1

I’m talking about what I’m talking about lady 😂 try to keep up. You mixing and matching shit isn’t good for your brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 11:04 AM
1

I was the one who retorted first… oh man you lookin silly now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 01:57 AM
1

Yes, I did. They flaunt them, make sure the other girlies see them to provoke conversation about it, and then use that as a means to status flex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 07:09 PM
1

I explained to you how the bag example works all the time in girlworld. Sorry you didn’t like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 06:44 PM
1

To prove it’s not subjective you’d have to establish that it cannot be perceived any other way than what you believe is being portrayed. Which isn’t possible. Which proves my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 06:21 PM

It’s not a form of superiority though, it’s a descriptor
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 06:20 PM
7

Ever heard the pejorative of “simp” or “incel”? RP does a good job highlighting the extreme amount of power women yield via sex and reproduction and how men screw up their lives worshiping that. So not sure what you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 12:39 PM
3

I think you’d be shocked how many RP guys just live their lives and don’t talk about it… at all. I say this as a dude who discovered most RP principals through experience and massive success before I even knew what the space was. When I found it, my reaction was basically “no shit”. The issue is that it takes far more work and a destruction of all covert contracts to see through as opposed to just watching some online content.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 12:08 PM
0

All women have to do is be pleasant, don’t get fat, and stay sexually interested and a guy will move heaven and earth for you. Apparently, this is an impossible ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 12:03 PM
1

Pretty amazing for sure. It also shatters the idea of too much individuality amongst women in that regard. It happened with enough women that were very much different that there’s no going back to thinking “well, she’s just not like that”. They ALL are for the right dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 10:46 AM
1

I suppose but that’s also why RPs focus is the man fixing himself. Majority of women only act as shitty as you let them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 10:32 AM
1

Adults are responsible for their own esteem and what they respond to sexually. Unless you want chaperones for women or something????
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 10:04 AM
1

Seems like it’s subjective then!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 09:59 AM
1

Marriage was seen as a duty back then, it cut both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 10:44 PM
1

That sounds like a convenient excuse for “he makes me wet”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 10:43 PM

Many women do it to display status and mog other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 10:43 PM

Toxic is purely in the eyes of the beholder.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 06:44 PM
3

You basically said women’s flimsy esteem determines the man they’ll go with and that they can’t be around bad men or they’ll gravitate to them. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 09:38 PM
3

That’s the implication
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 09:16 PM
6

Your post is tantamount to saying women need chaperones or else they will gravitate to those exact men. So you’re kind of confirming the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:26 PM
3

You are letting a lot of words run roughshod here. Force meant survival and many women are drawn to that evolutionarily. See: the war brides dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 12:53 PM
1

What morality?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 12:51 PM
2

I have some bad news for you…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 12:50 PM
5

And you know this how?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 12:50 PM
3

So the whole “just go out and talk to women” bit is actually bullshit then? Thanks for admitting it? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 11:13 AM
4

So they learn this even sooner?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 08:37 PM
-1

Obesity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 12:05 PM
4

I just told you how they get there. The women they date.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 12:05 PM
5

You don’t need to go on social media. Date 10 women, try conventional approaches, watch them fail, and you have another dude that’s gonna start asking some questions. It’s the reality of the game today.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 11:12 AM
-8

So what? Every boss babe I’ve fucked with in my time is susceptible to the same game as other women, you just need to subtly fracture their egos just enough and you’re golden. Do I prefer this? No, but it’s the world women chose.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 11:07 AM
-2

Yep, toxic boys for life 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 11:06 AM
1

People deciding on roles they want is okay, you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 11:05 AM
1

You ever heard of makeup sex? Holy goalpost move. It’s like when women say chores and sex are related. They aren’t, and if they are then he was never THAT guy to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 08:55 PM
1

It’s not even a flex, it’s common sense. If I have a rough day and am not feeling my best, but my wife decides she wants to give me a bj, then I’m going be pretty damn happy afterwards 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 03:24 PM
1

Enjoying sex is creepy. Alrighty
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 01:05 PM

I’ve fucked when unhappy and fucked a lot of unhappy people, so I beg to differ. If anything, being unhappy should be some incentive to fuck and become happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 12:53 AM

It makes more sense when you realize that withholding sex and continuous denials are akin to cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 11:44 PM

Could explain why they choose to bare knuckle box so often.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 11:10 PM
1

I’m not into anal, but I’m a taller muscular guy and many of these women asked me to do certain things to them because they had never been with a guy like me. I’d also say converting so many into first time squirters (which made for some funny/adorable moments) and then these women wanting to have sex in random places and explore things for the first time with me over and over again kinda made the enthusiasm you see in porn pretty blah.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 10:04 PM
0

They are invisible because they, most of the time, don’t exist. Women thrive off of indignation and seek to create it in its absence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 06:50 PM
1

As long as the people look young, no one cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 06:49 PM
1

That’s a sign they reproduced with the wrong dude… yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 06:41 PM
1

Where did I say kinks?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 06:40 PM
0

You choose those folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 06:40 PM

There was a lot of them, spanned ages, demos, careers, upbringings. Just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 06:39 PM

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/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 09:46 PM
5

Idk, everyday I hear more and more from women that makes it clearer and clearer why RP stuff is going mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 08:46 PM
1

I’d say situationships are the friendzone inverted. No tricking involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 08:44 PM
1

Men have the burden of performance. The best thing a woman can be is excited to be there and enthusiastic because that’s where their A game will come from. You gotta bring it out in her though. Women who hate porn realize it creates an impossible standard only if they’re with a dude they don’t desire all that much. The shit I’ve done and stumbled upon makes most porn look tame.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 08:43 PM
1

Voting to let violent folks with antithetical cultures redefine demos, not being a part of continuing a society that has enabled their freedom and choice, supporting policies that will lead to violent uprisings, self selecting for soft haremdom. Take your pick. Kind of extreme to me, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 08:39 PM

True, gotta pass the time somehow
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 08:35 PM

Many of the women I was rotating at one point self categorized as the one you’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 08:35 PM
0

Men and women’s concepts of desire, much like love, are very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 09:17 AM
0

Until a certain tier of guy comes around…. You right.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 09:14 AM
1

Simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 09:13 AM
1

How is it impossible? Women could just set a standard, en masse, and hold to it. The problem is that banging a guy quick is their best weapon in intrasexual competition to attempt to keep a guy around.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 09:10 AM
1

I just meant it’s their perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 10:07 PM
1

Do I need to really do that to prove what I just said?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 10:03 PM
6

Most relationships start with a hookup at some point during the feeling out phase. It’s just a matter of wait time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 03:46 AM
1

A) they settled, got the shit they wanted, pack it in B) hormonal fuck ups from menopause
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 03:44 AM
1

There are different forms of attraction. What you’re describing is the “attraction” when she needs a reliable dude who can give her a wedding and fulfill her FOMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 10:37 PM
1

By that estimation anyone who eats food also has ED and can be filed under the same umbrella because if you don’t eat food you die and can’t get it up. I’ll state this again, NON-OUTLIER SCENARIOS. Men who take viagra or women who get on test want to fuck. I’m talking about cases where people opt out just cuz.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 10:36 PM
1

ED does not logically connect to what I’m speaking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 08:45 PM
1

100%
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 08:44 PM
1

And I’d say good on ya, but you have no idea how many times I’ve asked that same question to women in here and they say no while listing endless reasons for wanting to keep their past intact.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 08:09 PM
1

https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s12110-006-1010-2 Women lose attraction to their partners faster due to familiarity than men. Coolidge effect 100% has to do with getting it up again immediately after finishing. It’s where the term came from. You haven’t heard the story at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 08:08 PM
1

If you could trade the time you spent dating otherwise prior to meeting your husband in exchange for more time with him, would you take it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 08:03 PM
0

Welp, good luck! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 08:02 PM
0

The Coolidge effect is in regards to multiple partners in the same session. Please understand stuff if you’re going to cite it 😂 good lord.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 06:42 PM
1

I’ve lived in a major city known for crime my whole life. It’s called being street smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 06:40 PM
1

You gonna answer my question or just avoid it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 06:39 PM
1

People must infer for they doth not understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 06:38 PM
1

It’s a mega fail on the husbands part to have his wife in such an environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:42 PM
1

You really need everything explained to you, don’t you? Primarily experiences typically trump secondary experiences of a similar nature. With sex and women, this is 100% the case because emotion is tied so much more to sex for them than it is for men. People are p hacking their asses off because the data gives them the ick, but science is science. Let me ask, are you married or in a relationship? If so, (and if not, imagine it) would you undo the things you did before you met them if it meant yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:42 PM
1

You must fraternize with men who aren’t about what they say. She definitely wasn’t a fan at first but has seen the shit I talk about play out enough in her circles and guys I work with in my network that she knows better now. If anything, I’ve become a softy nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:32 PM
1

FYI, studies confirm birth order very much matters to parents, like it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:30 PM
1

Agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:28 PM
-2

You know what, I’ve changed my mind. The fact they were even around the homeless is a fail on the husbands part.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:28 PM
1

Classic woman non response. See, you’re making it worse! 😂 stop perpetuating the stereotypes!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:27 PM
1

Sex and having a child are the same to you? Ooookay.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:26 PM
0

Cutting off sex is akin to cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:25 PM
0

Wanting her to be more mindful of her surroundings is common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:24 PM
1

My wife knows exactly my viewpoints as posted on here and knows I’m anti marriage (at least the way it’s done now with the state involved, covenant marriages seem fine to me). It’s funny because we’ll encounter acquaintances and like clockwork I can predict what will happen with a relationship or what one of the women will do. She’s not a mental weakling and understands individuals versus group pattern behavior. I don’t view all women the same way, but there are pretty clear patterns of behavior…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:24 PM
1

Well, you see, men have this thing called a penis and women have these things called vaginas. In other news, women have a risk of gestating a child and men do not. As a result of these differences, amongst many others, the act of sex is very different for men and women, including how it impacts their brain chemistry. Talk about being anti science 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:19 PM
0

We could apply that logic to cheating as well. “Saying “stop cheating” isn’t direct. Why not figure out why they are cheating in the first place!”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:17 PM
1

Saying it’s no big deal is the issue I’m acknowledging.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:16 PM
2

Acknowledging reality can be really hard sometimes. Thank god I’m an adult and can parse it for myself. Most men suck too, but I don’t date men so I couldn’t care less.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:14 PM
1

So you acknowledge it’s a non sequitur on your end then?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:13 PM
2

Most homeless get there for very repetitive and obvious reasons. But continuing to prove my point is a great move!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:12 PM
1

Sex is different for men and women. This is basic science.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:12 PM
0

I’d say trying to initiate over and over again is pretty direct communication. You’re treating women like idiots. Interesting move.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:11 PM
1

You understand that the events we undergo as humans impacts our neural connections and how we operate moving forward, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:11 PM
0

Thanks for your opinion, but her and I both beg to differ 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:17 PM
1

It’s the first thing it states lol 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:16 PM
-1

So using viagra in the same as being immediately postpartum? You infer it, not I 😂 oh boy that’s a new one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:16 PM
3

Boyfriend does common sense thing to preserve safety and has awareness. Woman is clumsy “oh noe big dealz”. Uses outlier scenario as some norm. I’ve lived in some pretty hood parts of cities. It’s the “don’t know where they are “ homeless you need to worry about the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:15 PM
1

That’s the average guy. Not some fringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:14 PM
1

Yep, and the rates at which they impact each are vastly different.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:13 PM
1

Not at the same rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:13 PM
1

My family is pretty rad, dude
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:13 PM
0

Gotta be honest, having to talk about being denied over and over again after months is akin to a humiliation ritual. No one is that dumb. Or maybe you’re insinuating people are? Anyways, you can’t talk your way into desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:12 PM
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