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| 1 | It is said that women are more emotional than men?If trans people taught me anything it is that everyone is different. Some guys on testosterone feel less and others feel more. Some say they cry all the time and others said they can‘t anymore. Same was true for women on estrogen. Turns out that emotions probably depend on a LOT more than the hormones you have. I have a hormone disorder myself leaving mine to fluctuate constantly and cause all kinds of weird symptoms that make natural cycles chaotic and unpredictable. Basically it‘s like low dos… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/07/26 08:24 AM |
| 2 | What do you think about the epidemic of male loneliness? Do you think it exists?Mass scale alienation is a natural effect of capitalism. It‘s called capitalist alienation. The patriarchy in it‘s generic state demands a nuclear family structure. One includes the working man aka the husband, the other used to be the unpayed breeder slave aka the woman to spell it out crudely. Now women have ofc gained human rights so women aren‘t reliant on male partners for survival. But dual incomes are still endorsed and rewarded by the system. The loneliness issue arises in my theory part… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/07/26 08:04 AM |
| 2 | Are there any communities for "ethical incels"I do wanna adress this honestly here and in good faith. If you‘re looking for a hookup, just don‘t try to market that as dating. This is one of the biggest issues imo. If you want to meet for „coochie“ you gotta let a woman know that is the goal. Otherwise your attempts will always read as manipulative. If a woman is already aware of the dangers of dating a stranger, you gotta put yourself in her shoes. If she meets with you and you are trying to coerce her into sleeping with you, that will look… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/07/26 05:41 AM |
| 2 | I shouldnt belive in redpill ? Okay then in what else ?The red pill has easy solutions to difficult problems because it uses women as a scapegoat for the patriarchy hitting back men in some aspects as the patriarchy establishes a fake hierarchy where there isn‘t any real equality in straight relationships. Causing a sort of gender divide that harms ppl in different ways. The issue however is that you need to realize that us women aren‘t vending machines. The biggest issue so many ppl that tend to be lured in by the red pill face is that they refuse … | /r/ExRedPill | 21/04/25 04:00 AM |
| 31 | The whole Incel and Redpill contradictionIt‘s not about this it‘s a thing they claim that in reality mostly translates to: „i want a defenseless, inexperienced young woman who i can manipulate into the perfect housewife for myself.“ And them usually aiming for career women that they wanna manipulate into dropping their career to become a brood mare for them is part of the whole thing. Religious women like they describe won‘t he appealing cause they are already groomed into this outdated genre of womanhood. There is no satisfying power … | /r/ExRedPill | 20/01/25 06:12 AM |
| 1 | I still believe in the red pill even though it's harmful.But I don't know what else to believe inYeah. Check out the video on that topic called „are the straights ok?“ by tara mooknee. It‘s basically a woman examining the concept from a lesbian/queer perspective and it‘s really informative honestly. Especially from the women‘s side. I think the biggest catalyst for this fatalism tho is gender alienation. Cause u know, the more men and women are segregated socially, the more awkward it gets when they do come together. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/01/25 02:45 PM |
| 2 | I still believe in the red pill even though it's harmful.But I don't know what else to believe inLiterally never. But I also don‘t seek out ppl in general cause I‘m not that into dating and like being by myself. But I get what you mean. The thing is tho that i think ppl struggle with this stuff mostly in straight spaces. Talking to women is always easier because there isn‘t this backlog of bs tied to it like it is with straight relationships. Same goes for dating trans guys or girls. So yes there is a big difference in general. Ppl also love to assume shit. When you do make the first move a… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/01/25 02:29 PM |
| 1 | I still believe in the red pill even though it's harmful.But I don't know what else to believe inI get what you mean. For the gender roles thing and also the social construct aspect, that stuff is hard to shake off especially cause the patriarchy if you relate it to the women‘s rights issue was really only dismantled on a legal level aka the domestic slavery aspect. I‘d always recommend anyone wanting to learn more about how the system has fucked up gender roles the book: „the second sex“ as it is a very deep examination of how gender roles have influenced society. It is very difficult tho … | /r/ExRedPill | 01/01/25 02:19 PM |
| 1 | I still believe in the red pill even though it's harmful.But I don't know what else to believe inThe biggest mistake yall make is acting as if women are somehow some divine creature you have to overpower or some unknowable alien hivemind that frustrates you as much as it gets you off. Women are human beings. I can‘t believe we have to say this over and over but apparently we have to. The issue is that women are not all alike. Because women are not a hivemind. Women can be dumb af and also smart af. Anything really. So you can‘t just generalize this stuff. And the red pill doesn‘t help you f… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/01/25 01:59 PM |
| 2 | I need helpLook, human relationships are really complex and especially when people change, they can drift apart. Add on top how gender inequality has messed up most straight relationship dynamics as well as how most relationship in our society are walzing literally all of the emotional labour from what we used to have, aka the villiage, over to just 1 individual and you get a very overloaded very fragile foundation. This is why so many relationships crumble. Aside from the factors like people just not real… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/01/25 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Things are not what I thought (Musings)I think one of the biggest issues these movements make is putting gender before humanity. Human beings are varied all across the board. This applies to any group. Be that women, ppl from different countries or Professions etc. As soon as you try to generalize one group of human beings into being all the same, you sre losing sight of reality. There is also a danger on top of that about thinking too highly of your own knowledge. A lot of red pillers seem to be convinced they are experts in underst… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/12/24 10:53 PM |
| 5 | Redpill is despair inducingThe problem all of these ppl don‘t understand is that human relationships are incredibly complex and difficult to handle and they do get more difficult the closer they are usually. These people wanna rationalize and simplify prior experiences so they can avoid pain but the reality is that if you want a relationship you have to be ok with the possibility of it being painful and it failing. Not to say ppl should accept mistreatment btw. Just that they need to understand that being close to people … | /r/ExRedPill | 04/09/24 08:25 AM |
| 6 | My Cousin (14) is an Andrew Tate fan, how do I show him the truth?Ask him if he even likes women and if he says yes then ask him why he‘d think any woman would want to be near him if he talks about them, real people, this way. Also another one that works in some cases is asking how he‘d feel if his sister or mom was lured in by a type like him to be abused and used like an object. If he‘d feel ok watching a man like tate treat women close to him that way too. Cause usually that also helps in realizing women are humans. In general though it is difficult cause t… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/09/24 08:14 AM |
| 1 | Ugly = CreepyLookism is a thing in capitalist societies in general it is far reaching beyond gender lines just manifesting differently. So it is important to not make generalizations here. What you see in the media or online is not real it is a fictionalized hyper reality. A subtle pressure put on you to sell you fixes for profit. That is why lookism exists to discriminate against ppl to encurage these fixes to actually be needed. U can see that pretty well when you look at how beauty trends have shifted fro… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/06/24 09:30 AM |
| 1 | How "good" do I have to be to find a girlfriend?What you need to ask is how can I set myself up to seek out relationships without constantly walking into red flags and disasters. Many ppl get into relationships. But those that last are different from those that don‘t. And u gotta figure out by trial and error what you want as well as what is good for you and what isn‘t. Everyone is different and compatability is tricky. And failure is part of the process. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/06/24 09:23 AM |
| 1 | Why is confidence so much more important than other good traits like humor, kindness,etc. when it comes to dating?Because confidence signals that you are healthy enough in yourself that you will not depend too terribly on others and become burdensome at least that‘s my theory. I‘m generally not a fan of animal comparisons but from a evolutionary perspective I‘d assume that it also ties into maturity. The less you depend on someone emotionally or physically the more mature you come off as and ppl seek that kind of stability out. But in general, i think that confidence in itself is just a thing that makes you… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/06/24 09:19 AM |
| 2 | That's the deal with using "Female"Female is usually used in the context of animals its a way for them to dehumanize women as just being brainless animals. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/06/24 09:14 AM |
| 1 | Reading r/nothowgirlswork , and r/twoxchromosomes subreddit makes me feel like shit and angry and I don’t know why.Sounds like you feel like you are these ppl they complain about deep down and that upset you feel probably is about you feeling bad about being seen as so ignorant and stuff. I guess if you are working on yourself it may also be self hate deluding you into thinking worse of yourself than you are. Dunno but could be. Try to think aboit wjy it makes u feel that way. Do a „why“ loop on yourself to figure out the root of this if u feel like it. Cause fundamentally, u should be able to laugh along wi… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/06/24 09:08 AM |
| 1 | Extremely fearful of relationships because of views instilled in me on the internetIf you‘ve ever heard of the hedgehogs dilemma u will know what this is. If u don‘t, it basically says that hedgehogs are cold in winter and with no fire making skills they need to cuddle up to one another but their spikes end up just hurting each other so they end up giving up and just freezing alone in the cold. What is meant by this is that if you want to be close to someone you have to be vulnerable and accept that you can get hurt and that you probably will get hurt too. But it is the only w… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/06/24 08:51 AM |
| 1 | I never really understood how common dating advice says you should accept being aloneThe reason ppl say this is cause abuser narc women or men prey on ppl that are desperate and dependant on validation. It‘s not about accepting to be alone forever its more about just learning to be on your own without being scared of your insecurity making you miserable when you are alone. I used to also think like u did but I get it now. The more stable you are within yourself the better. Cause if you are dependant on others ppl will use it against you. Cause they know you will ignore red flags… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/06/24 08:30 AM |
| 1 | When I pass women irlThen you need to work in yourself and put yourself first. Also i‘d tell u to get women friends also but first and foremost u need to learn to actually be confident in yourself before you jump into a relationship cause if you seek out other people to fill your feelings of inadequacy with approval or validation you‘ll never be whole. It starts with you. And part of that is both accepting that this is a problem and that you deserve better than to be your own worst bully. Cause u can‘t break up with… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/06/24 08:17 AM |
| 1 | I feel hopeless about myselfRed pill is a fundamentally flawed ideology that tries to blame a lot of things on women while fundamentally not understanding why the world is like it is. It‘d be a lot to get into all of this and how feminism and the patriarchial system has played into this causing this gender division although u can dm me for details if u want a rundown of that to better understand where this redpill thing spawns from but in general what u need to see is that first, you‘re really young. And you will not figur… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/06/24 07:56 AM |
| 1 | Why are men who disapprove of Redpill considered feminists?I mean in a way it makes sense if that‘s an indirect way of saying that the red pill is misogyny repacked I think. I mean they really do call themselves out don‘t they. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/03/24 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Can someone explain why red pill guys are successful with dating and hooking up?Well it‘s a mix of things really. Usually it‘s because they pay them. At least the „famous“ ones do. They pay only fans ppl or instagram women to come, sit there and be yelled at and stuff and then they get a hefty sum of money for it. And the other side is vulnerable women. They especially target 18 year olds. I think Tate was targeting even younger but dunno if that‘s true. And young women are often not mentally mature enough to know the danger of these men. But usually it‘s a vulnerable women… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/03/24 03:25 PM |
| 1 | How to stop weird and paranoid feelings about women? (No superficial advice, please)First things first, seek a therapist if you can. Second, this sounds a lot like an issue with lack of self worth. For that you have to dig where that comes from. There‘s good ways to tackle it by actively talking back to yourself. Catch yourself in negative self talk and fight it. Assert yourself in your own head. And if you feel weird about it, or think that you‘re silly to do it, that‘s part of that negative voice that doesn‘t want you to get better. It might sound s bit cruel but self asteem … | /r/ExRedPill | 21/03/24 03:14 PM |
| 1 | The truth about beauty and "ratings"It is legit so dumb. Literally all of it is signaling to other men. It isn‘t about what you‘re actually into. These ratings are there to approve of men dating the women based on some vague social standard. The reason even that the saying of „personality matters too“ being so often laughed at is really crazy cause if someone seeks companionship, you can‘t seek out someone purely based on looks. It makes you look like a really dumb vein idiot who has no idea about Social compatability. So it makes… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/12/23 05:39 AM |
| 1 | Are women really more valuable than men like the red pill guys make it out to be? And I feel insecure about my value.It is a complete lie. The truth is that Money is what most ppl care about. Doesn‘t matter what gender you are. If you‘re rich, you‘ll be coddled and constantly framed as a genious and a legend. If you‘re poor, you‘ll be treated like a failure. Even if you work 10 times as hard as the rich person. When they slack off, ppl call it „being a ceo and doing business.“ when a poor person slacks off usually from exhaustion, ppl look down on them. It‘s all social bias and brainwashing. And the only reaso… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/12/23 05:25 AM |
| 1 | I have severe erectile dysfunction at a young age. Am I doomed to loneliness?Definitely get your doc help with it especially if your taking other pills that may cause it. Secondly, it can be an issue but it really depends on what woman you‘re into. Also, you gotta stop thinking with your, you know what. What I mean by that is that your body ability isn‘t down to just 1 organ. Women get off every day by themselves without any penetration even in many cases. So It really isn‘t needed if you‘re creative with that. You do have other appendages. Don‘t forget that. And your ha… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/12/23 05:02 AM |
| 2 | The damage is doneIt‘s understandable you want to be rid of it but are drawn to debunking it. I think it‘s a natural result of that kind of break free of cults be that online or irl. Red pill is a financial cult fueled by far right and right wing wealthy ppl and the best way out is to sit with it and also not quit cold turkey. Check out channels like Hbomberguy (especially his older response vids) and also vaush. They do debunk a lot of redpill bs and I feel they could be a good outlet for that. Same with xanderh… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/12/23 04:42 AM |
| 7 | Women of r/exredpill what is the most important quality(ies), when it comes to men?Doesn‘t expect a new forever mom out of a partner. Is willing to listen and also learn. Treats women like human beings instead of mysterious aliens (we are the same species ppl!) is fair and reasonable and is also at least aware of the basics of gender issues. Cause if you live with someone and claim you love them, the least you can do is care about issues they might have and are unique to them. And lastly, do not patronize, do not treat a partner like your slave or toy, do not lie and decieve, … | /r/ExRedPill | 05/12/23 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Do lack of women make an incel or being an incel results in lack of womenBoth. Many of them are miserable cause the world becomes more and more alienated every year and they need a scapegoat for the societal political shitshow we live in so they blame women. Fact is that our world is isolating on purpose. Many ppl don‘t have relationships. And in hypercapitalist hellscapes like south korea the loneliness is even worse proving that the system kills human relationships. But men are not alone in this isolation. I mean there are social differences. Including ofc the emot… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/08/23 05:00 PM |
| 1 | I'm Alice Falling Down the Rabbit HoleCheck out the youtuber „Vaush“ his male advice videos and takes on red pill men and all that is genuinely great. And he might be a good source of a more healthy role model than the red pill grifters. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/08/23 04:51 PM |
| 2 | If incels are aware of how they look why do they want ”stayce”?I think they are hypocrites but also think they have no chance? I mean if‘s a lot of doomerism. Wjen you believe hard enough that all women dispise you, it‘ll become ur reality. I think thats a big part of it. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/08/23 04:47 PM |
| 3 | Why do women really get approached so much by men, online and irl?They only do this if the woman is conventionally attractive. And they do it because it‘s both socially accepted for men to make the first approach, as well as also entitlement to those women for some guys. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/23 02:22 AM |
| 0 | The red pill isn't even anymore about helping men, it is about trying to groom young men into being these artificially masculine uber-chadsTrust me. It‘s been like that since 2016 if not longer. It‘s a pipeline of grooming into right wing believes for the sake of the rich to profit. It‘s all connected. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/01/23 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Hey guys i am redpilled but wannna hear about other halfIt‘s a very dangerous game. Most of these red pill people just wanna manipulate and exploit you and they just happen to throw women under the bus because that works for them. I‘d recommend looking into creators like Vaush perhaps or Xanderhal. Both are guys that offer good counters to red pill ppl and also show you what the opposition is thinking. And Vaush also has good advice for young dudes in general. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/01/23 08:51 PM |
| 1 | What is the single most toxic or abusive piece of advice that Red Pill teaches its followers to do to women directly?Domestic abuse, SA, and also ofc being pe*o‘s. As well as ofc trafficking and stuff like that. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/01/23 08:44 PM |
| 1 | “Just start a business, bro”Desperation is profitable if you are rich and you get to sell others lies about your success to imply you totally didn‘t get there cause your daddy‘s rich or you got there through luck and exploitation of workers that had no other option. These ppl are all cold hearted capitalists and what they do best is selling lies and banking off of selling the idea that the little guy can make it if he‘s just working hard enough wich is also very clearly a way to indoctrinate workers to make them work hard … | /r/ExRedPill | 27/01/23 08:39 PM |
| 0 | Paris Jackson’s ‘lesbian Jesus’ film under fire as 272K people sign petition to stop Christianophobic movie’s releaseYou clearly do if you‘re citing an entire essay on how you‘re totally right and boasting on a sexist sub about being homophobic and getting upvoted for it. Your citations mention nothing about lesbians being in denial and actually into men anywhere yet you are assuming that‘s literally what this is about. Also yes queer people also want children (some not all ofc) so getting pregnant shouldn‘t be so shocking to you. I just can‘t stand this narrative you guys push about us filthy queers being act… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 05/07/20 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Paris Jackson’s ‘lesbian Jesus’ film under fire as 272K people sign petition to stop Christianophobic movie’s releaseThat‘s literally what i meant | /r/PussyPassDenied | 05/07/20 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Just why?As a feminist I can definitely say this is bait and that any feminist who‘d say that kind of bs must honestly be either a man hating terf aka second wave karens or a troll. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 04/07/20 03:57 AM |
| -1 | Paris Jackson’s ‘lesbian Jesus’ film under fire as 272K people sign petition to stop Christianophobic movie’s releaseWow looks like you‘re not a big fan of facts and logic but rather someone to marry himself to conspiracy theories desperately to justify why some woman are into other woman and therefor won‘t be interested in you. It‘s very unfortunate though. Pseudo science may fill the void in your shattered ego making you feel good about your situation but it can never actually stand up to actual facts or make you any less miserable in the long run. People who hate others usually aren‘t really liked by people… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 04/07/20 03:53 AM |
| 1 | Paris Jackson’s ‘lesbian Jesus’ film under fire as 272K people sign petition to stop Christianophobic movie’s releaseGod imagine thinking your gender is so great that lesbians are only lesbians because they hate your gender you‘re hella entitled my dude ppl don‘t chose who they love and don‘t love. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 04/07/20 03:45 AM |
| 1 | CRAZY GIRLFRIEND Has A MELTDOWN After her Boyfriend Hit Her BackSays the one reeeeeeing our because someone dared to make an argument for how your views on feminism might be a little off. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 16/09/19 03:27 PM |
| -2 | CRAZY GIRLFRIEND Has A MELTDOWN After her Boyfriend Hit Her BackThat‘s your argument? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 16/09/19 03:24 PM |
| -2 | CRAZY GIRLFRIEND Has A MELTDOWN After her Boyfriend Hit Her BackWhat exactly do you know about feminism and where do you get those news from? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 16/09/19 03:15 PM |
| 2 | CRAZY GIRLFRIEND Has A MELTDOWN After her Boyfriend Hit Her BackWhere did i say that i tolerate „it“? Did you even read my comment? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 16/09/19 03:14 PM |
| 1 | CRAZY GIRLFRIEND Has A MELTDOWN After her Boyfriend Hit Her BackReal feminists would not argue against self defense. Rules apply to all genders here. Feminists also acknowledge that outdated misogynistic stereotypes about each gender lead to discrimination on both ends. Gender roles are bs and lead to nothing but discrimination based on sex. The right or anti sjw‘s just cherrypick extreme examples of radical feminists that a normal feminist won‘t ever agree with and they mislead their audience to believe that‘s all that feminism is. No we don‘t hate men, yes… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 16/09/19 02:28 PM |
| -3 | CRAZY GIRLFRIEND Has A MELTDOWN After her Boyfriend Hit Her BackBecause sexist sterotypes of woman and men are bad for both sides. Outdated genderroles lead to misandry and misogyny and real feminists are aware and strictly against it. It‘s not only woman that suffer from the patriarchy. Everyone does. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 16/09/19 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Feminist is unaware of the fact that males and females need to coexist to procreate.Too bad that Morning wood isn’t seen as gross or disgusting and doesn’t involve cramps that are sometimes increadibly painful but you aren’t expected to show it or stay at home from work because of it not to mention the moodswings and staining your pants and being mocked for that and of top of that being a homeless woman with no access to hygene products cause they are seen as luxury items despite the fact that without them your clothes get ruined and you are prone to getting infections. Sure yo… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 12/09/19 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Single Mom [Comic]That‘s not even a thing tbh. | /r/MGTOW | 21/07/19 10:01 PM |
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