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ok sure you win the oppression olympics, congrats. That what you wanted to hear?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 04:19 PM
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autistic women struggle less autistic women get fewer diagnoses and concessions "Why are men like this?"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 09:14 PM
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Because I hate myself and being here is effectively emotional self harm
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 09:06 PM
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Probably you got lucky and didn't realize it, so now you expect everyone to bootstraps themselves into the same success that you think you had to work hard for
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 04:34 PM
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I have a house and cash in the bank at 30 and it's not enough to even be worth gold digging me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 03:04 PM
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Generally agreed, but I'm sure the decline is specifically referring to rampant, unashamed hypergamy that absolutely was not around before tinder and the like existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 03:43 PM
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See how I specified they had to be clear goals? Try reading. When we no longer reflexively assume that traditionally feminine careers like nursing or social work are less valuable How is feminism tracking this? How will feminism know they have succeeded in this? How are they able to know if less of this is happening over time? You aren't, don't, and can't, because that's not a real goal, it's just something that sounds righteous. "I am going to lift this weight 100 times in 5 minutes." - real go…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 03:31 PM
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The decline is referring to the insane spike in female promiscuity brought on by social media, the internet, and whatever wave of feminism we're on. To redpillers 'enjoy the decline' means to fuck as many girls as you can who are in their ho phases before they hit the wall and stop being hot, become a single mom, or get used up. Yes that does make redpillers part of the problem, but why would they care? They get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 04:18 AM
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Really, that's the thing that got you to turn to insults? This is among the easiest feminist counterpoints any idiot can make. Feminism has no clear goals and no clear paths towards achieving those goals. Unless that's the whole point, so feminists always have something to complain about?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 04:04 AM
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"Feminism does nothing for men, men to blame." If feminism benefits men you can list one thing feminism has done for men which has been inconvenient to or of no benefit to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 03:55 AM
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Bull fucking shit, none of those are real things. What metrics are you using to track reflexive assumptions and accountability? That's just something you made up to sound good and not an actual goal. Goals are 'x% less of y by z date', not 'I want to feel less oppressed.'
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:39 AM
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If you're old enough for that then you've been around to witness feminism rack up win after win after win after win thanks in no small part due to a lack of pushback from this 'patriarchy' you're so scared of. Quick question for you, what is feminism's end goal? At what point will you go 'ok we're equal enough' and pack it in?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:26 AM
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Yeah, I was an undiagnosed autistic 10 year old shut-in in the mid 2000s with unrestricted internet access. It was either Tumblr or 4chan.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 11:51 PM
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I do. You realize that making friends is how you make friends, not how you get dates? My only "out" here is getting picked and that's never going to happen. Women who are choosers choose better.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 11:01 PM
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Autism + nowhere to meet anyone organically
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:48 PM
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Zero. I've been successfully conditioned into acting asexual around women, thanks feminism 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:44 PM
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Point on the doll where patriarchy touched you. We all know feminism loves dismissively saying "get help" while actively ensuring men don't and rigging the system just to be sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:22 PM
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Swing and a miss. If feminism never goes out of their way for men then they don't care about men. Oh sorry my mistake, feminism does go out of their way for men, except only in ways to bring them down. "Women first, men never."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 09:40 PM
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Because if feminism really was about equality and not just about elevating women, feminism would have done something, anything, one single thing for the sole benefit of men in the name of equality. I even added "or of no benefit to women" for you, should make it easier to answer. So stop avoiding the question now, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 08:41 PM
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Redpill's motto is 'enjoy the decline'
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 08:26 PM
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Name one thing that feminism has done to bring men up to be more equal to women that's been either inconvenient to or of no benefit to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 08:13 PM
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Name one thing that feminism has done to bring men up to be more equal to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 06:43 PM
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If only it were as easy as being asked to do housework. In reality it's getting screeched at over """"emotional labor""""
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 06:41 PM
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Feminism is "women first, men never." Name one thing feminism has done for men which has been inconvenient to or of no benefit to women. Knock it off with the "it's about equality" shit, nobody is buying that any more.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 06:37 PM
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Firefighters aren't saving people from burning buildings for crumbs of pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 06:22 PM
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This is the bluest blue pill statement I've literally ever seen. Just immediately assuming that I must be a woman hating, wife beating, slur spewing subhuman in order to get no matches with all that effort in my profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 03:42 PM
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I asked a yes or no question, if you think your advice is better than multiple professionals'. By extension, if any random woman's advice is. Don't read into it so hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 04:12 PM
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It only seems like luck to you because I bet you did nothing and waited around until someone good enough came along. Waiting at the finish line type shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 03:49 PM
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My OLD profile with professionally taken photos, $80 haircut, and clothes picked by a stylist gets maybe five matches a year. You think you know better than all of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 03:45 PM
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Just a bunch of normies whining about their minor setbacks. "I'm a bit sad that I gained 15 pounds :(" "I'm a bit sad that my boyfriend broke up with me :(" "I'm a bit sad that my friend moved away :(" "I'm a virgin at 30, have no friends, am barely tolerated by my family, and not a day goes by where I don't think about killing myself."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 04:57 PM
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All are either impossible to find, impossible to break into, the opposite of helpful, actually a right wing grift, or infiltrated by normies/trolls.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 04:36 PM
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online peer support lol ok. Like this sub, right? You realize that most of the problem is that 99% of the people offering 'do x y and z' solutions are Tate-tier grifters?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 06:27 PM
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ah yes, bootstraps but more words. Your flair is wrong, that's all blue
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:30 PM
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It's impossible to change if you don't know how. "Be more social" has the same ring to it as "just be happy if you're depressed"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:17 PM
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I tried therapy. Every one of them I begged and begged for proper socialization tools (diagnosed autist) and none of them could deliver. Know why men keep flocking to people like Tate and other hardcore redpillers? They're the only ones on the planet telling men who are struggling 'do x y and z.' Problem is 99% of them are grifters, so there are no options.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 08:34 PM
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This is the most accurately I've ever been called out on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:58 PM
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Therapy is actively harmful to men, try again
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:51 PM
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Get off that high horse, you're literally doing the exact thing he's talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 10:18 PM
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You're literally doing the thing he's talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 10:17 PM
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Who the fuck cares what people call it? Date who you want. Anything else is just retarded identity politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 09:59 PM
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Anyone who feels the need to use ridiculous beautifying camera filters
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 09:57 PM
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That's not a blackpill thing, that's an autism thing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:54 PM
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Forcing people to be asexual, because forcing people to be straight has historically worked so well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 08:20 PM
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Dems can be pro-women and pro-men. They're just afraid to be because so many people (like you) think being pro-men automatically means being anti-women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 07:33 PM
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Yes, the current day democratic party is blatantly fucking retarded and has actively worked towards alienating non-minority (and even a lot of minority) men by going all-in on feminism and identity politics. Republicans didn't need to do anything special to secure that vote, dems just shot themselves in the foot on that one. If/when that changes, and if/when the votes of young men ever start to matter enough to either party, then they'll start making promises and concessions. That's the only way…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 07:12 PM
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Just wait until men who can't get women become a majority and their vote starts mattering enough for the candidates to start doing something to secure it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:43 PM
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A 2/10 face isn't going to become a 10/10 face with a haircut and a 2/10 personality isn't going to become a 10/10 personality by learning to smile and do small talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 04:24 PM
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k, so he's a dickhead and cares less. Believe it or not people generally don't dream about becoming or aspire to be dickheads.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:39 AM
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people with disabilities Diagnosed autist, ama
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:30 PM
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This is just a longer way of saying that whoever cares less in a relationship has all the power.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:23 PM
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Fitting because women these days demand perfection
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 10:11 PM
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An attractive personality is like an attractive face, you have to be born with it. Charisma is innate and can't be taught or trained.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 10:08 PM
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Sick dodge
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 07:53 PM
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Lucky them that they found somewhere that actually cares about the success of autistic men. In the real world, nobody ever does.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 05:27 PM
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Right back to lying, then. I'll put the onus on you; what are some things that would be considered an "appropriate" display of a 2/10 man's sexuality? Hint: there are none. Women and feminism have made sure of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 05:23 PM
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https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5789215/ "Of the individuals with ASD, significantly more women (n=18; 46.2%) than men (n=9; 16.1%) were currently in a relationship" "Males with ASD were found ... to have a greater desire for sexual and romantic relationships" https://autismawarenesscentre.com/romance-autism-dating-possible-people-asd/ "just 32.1 percent of people with autism had had a partner and only 9 percent were married" extremely telling that they don't separate out the gender…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 05:02 PM
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Yes, I would love to be able to force women to accept that I'm straight instead of having them demand that I look, think, and behave asexually just because I'm undesirable. I understand that's too much to ask of most women to not hate a man for a trait he was born with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:49 PM
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attractive, non-autistic man ftfy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:17 PM
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The downside of 'men must be self actualized to date' mentality women have
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:11 PM
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So now you agree that women are the gatekeepers of sex, you just aren't admitting it out loud? Peak woman moment. Almost like women lie when the truth would make them look bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:08 PM
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"Your sexuality is fine it just has to be functionally invisible to me." aka doesn't want it to exist
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:00 PM
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Resorting to the dictionary, absolutely classic. Nice try, but women complain about 'ogling' if they get looked at for 3/4 of a second. Just depends on how ugly the guy is. Traditional femininity is a resource like any other to be utilized by men. So having another man staring at your gf is them at least thinking about stealing from you. That's why if you were being at all honest with me you'd agree that women are the gatekeepers of sex. Draw any conclusions you want. Women are the gatekeepers, …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:54 PM
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A relationship. Don't want a family and already have a car, house, fulfilling job, money to blow on hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:20 AM
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lol ok. Let them win, for all I care. They aren't the ones keeping me from the things I want the most right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:10 AM
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I know what women experience, I just don't care or empathize because they don't either for what I experience. And it needs to be a battle because nobody's going to hand you the things you want. You have to fight for everything constantly. The culture and gender wars are the only ones that matter because you or I as individuals can't fight the rich exploiters directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:35 AM
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The OP of this comment chain you rushed to defend said looking was bad. Not getting out of that one. And women are the proud and self-proclaimed gatekeepers of sex, no shit language like that is used. Sex is an achievement, something you earn, which you have to overcome some challenge or resistance for. Which is also why men hate others staring. You said it yourself, their wife, their gf. Possessive terms. All things that he worked hard for and needs to defend.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:25 AM
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Are you unironically trying to 'men bad' me? Your flair is wrong. And stop trying to fight on behalf of women when you know damn well not a single one will ever do the same for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:06 AM
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These goalposts have legs! First looking is bad, now looking is fine but staring is bad? The absolute state of women on this sub. Straight men hate male sexuality because they're straight. Incredible, truly unbelievable concept. Guys will literally lose their horny and turn off a porn video if the male actor is too visible or too loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:00 AM
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The closest I've experienced is that I've been lusted after by 2 gay guys before. It was pretty great, honestly. But if I tried the same things they tried on me on women I'd be scum.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:44 AM
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That is definitely not the point I was making and I think you know that. Do you think gay people holding hands in public is making their sexuality 'your problem', yes or no? The only way anyone answers yes is if they hate gay peoples' sexuality. And here you are answering yes to the exact same scenario, except instead of gay people it's straight men, and instead of holding hands it's the horrendous, irredeemable crime of... looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:37 AM
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I also remember you, you gave me $10 for a week of Tinder gold a while ago. Did you ever use my pictures on a profile like you said you would? Or did you find that it proved my point and just didn't admit it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:28 AM
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"I don't mind gays, just don't hold hands in public" energy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:25 AM
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Bluepill and making shit up, classic. More than four in ten (42%) of adults who have ever used an online dating site or app report that they have at some time been in a committed relationship with someone they met through such a dating site/app. Extremely telling as well that they only specify 'adults' and don't separate into men/women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 12:19 AM
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why are women forced to accept your sexuality Because the alternative is demanding that undesirable men be asexual
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 12:10 AM
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Who's asking for praise? I'm asking for consistency. If Chad stared she wouldn't mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 11:04 PM
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That pill's looking a lot redder all of a sudden, mr. bluepill
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 10:33 PM
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Immaculately spewed bluepill. What if it doesn't follow?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 10:04 PM
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Most real story award
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 09:53 PM
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If that were true women wouldn't endlessly complain about all the DMs they get
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 09:47 PM
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“Most men” do just fine on apps. Nobody thinks you're cool for lying on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 09:41 PM
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"Your sexuality is fine it just has to be functionally invisible to me." aka doesn't want it to exist
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 09:37 PM
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"don't be nice unless there is immediate tangible reward" woman moment
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:28 PM
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we have reached the crux of every bluepill woman on this sub: men must be self actualized to be considered
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 07:39 PM
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if you think it'll be enough. the turning point is when he first asks himself "i want a gf, how to get?" where would he get that answer from? if the answer is anything online then it's a game over
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 07:02 PM
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drop the hustle and get a girlfriend too bad the average man needs to already be self actualized to even be considered
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 06:39 PM
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I'm here trying to understand what the Internet is going to do to my teenage children. your one and only takeaway should be to not let the internet teach your (male) kids how to date, because that only ever leads to incels or tate heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 06:36 PM
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average autistic man experience
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 06:31 PM
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"I brought my brand new 800k lambo to Compton and left it unlocked with the keys in the ignition and can't believe that it got stolen." same energy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 07:46 AM
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lol no. On a macro level femininity is a resource to be used and the worst thing you can be is unavailable to be exploited, sure. On an individual level women are valued for who they are. How do men bond? Shared activities and achieving something together. Actions. How do women bond? Emotions and experiences. Who they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 11:41 PM
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obviously. If I stopped working, I wouldn't be friends with my coworkers any more. If I stopped playing dnd, I wouldn't be friends with my dnd group. I can't stop being family with people, but any person could have been born in my place and be valued just as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 08:43 PM
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I'm a man so I'm only valued by what I do and not who I am. That's true all the way up and down from individuals to corporations. Replace any man with a robot that does the same things and nobody would give a shit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 08:27 PM
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You're right, you could also have value as a corporate meat puppet that can't be replaced by a machine yet! Doesn't that make life worth living?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 08:12 PM
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Yes, we do. what's it like being attractive and/or charismatic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:04 PM
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It used to be a considered a psychological disorder if a slave wanted to escape. The people who make this shit up aren't on our side.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 04:43 PM
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i don't need rp for that, porn did just a fine job
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 08:33 PM
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the line isn't man/woman, the line is interested/not interested in fucking
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 08:31 PM
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except you do. feminists go nuclear 100% of the time when men try to co-opt or dismantle women spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:01 PM
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good ol bootstraps
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 09:44 PM
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Women: dismantle or co-opt all facets of traditional masculinity Also women: blame men for not knowing what masculinity is any more
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 09:06 PM
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It's nearly impossible to find yeah because you can't find it, you have to put the effort in to build it. women (yes, all women) never want to build relationships and instead opt for demanding immediate and constant perfection
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 07:37 PM
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all the resources are out there emphasis on "all". for every one legitimate source of help there are 50 andrew tates trying to outright scam you for money or give intentionally false info. and there's no way to tell them apart
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 07:11 PM
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redpillers just want to fuck women so yeah i'd hope that they want something else for their daughters
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 02:00 PM
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"(celebrity) is so hot except..." is super fucking common
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 01:47 PM
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she liked me for being shy and closed she actually liked you for being attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 01:40 PM
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"add me on snap gigaho420"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 01:17 PM
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I'm drawn to ugly hot men the absolute state of women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:16 PM
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if enough people agree then shaming women for it can be normalized. might course correct a little bit
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:13 PM
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ok. i'm not saying women have less choice now or saying it's a good or a bad thing, i'm saying that people are less happy now than ever before because all of the common moral guides (religion, patriotism, etc) are gone now. nor am i claiming that x or y should be the next moral guide or that any previous one was good and we should go back to it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 10:27 PM
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the 50s nuclear family wasn't a result of religious fundamentalism, it was a result of post ww2 patriotism and industrialization. christianity was optimized for the dark ages and feudal societies where 90% of the population had to farm.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 10:01 PM
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yeah no. if seeing a gay couple holding hands makes you seethe as hard as women do when an undesirable man looks at her body for a quarter second then you just don't want their sexuality to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 09:49 PM
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religion's purpose was to keep the rabble in line, not women. actually get over yourself, not everything is about how oppressed you are. i do agree that it was stupid and am glad it was gone, but it going away was the beginning of the end. everyone is significantly unhappier now than ever before in human history, so it can't be a coincidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 09:25 PM
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approaching as an undesirable is socially inappropriate. yes, that's the point. this is on the same level as "i don't mind gay people, i just don't want to see, interact with, or think about them!" aka you don't want gayness to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 09:19 PM
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organized religion worked for multiple millennia
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 08:58 PM
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in terms of raw happiness then fuck no. everyone is more miserable now than ever in terms of morality, i guess, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 08:54 PM
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who cares about the sexuality of men who are undesirable women do, because they're approached directly or indirectly by undesirables very frequently. i would care if granny is sexual if she tried hitting on me on a regular basis
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 08:24 PM
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it's not as complicated as you're making it. imagine your parents just decide to randomly start fucking in the living room in front of you every few days, that's the same feeling and level of disgust women get when an undesirable man approaches them. if you could snap your fingers and turn them asexual wouldn't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 06:52 PM
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because if ever at any point you're seen as undesirable by a woman then you have zero chance with her forever. women demand perfection always, there's a reason "women wait at the finish line" is such a meme phrase. it's true
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 01:50 AM
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sick dodge, feel like answering or just gonna give up?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 11:45 PM
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because women don't want undesirable men to level up, women want undesirable men to be asexual
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 11:30 PM
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yeah, so why are you trying to earn those brownie points with women that you know you'll never receive?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 11:28 PM
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super weird that you're defending feminism so hard when i guarantee they have never and will never do the same for you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 11:06 PM
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brother you aren't gonna unlock any secret info by asking women this. even if they had the perfect knowledge they wouldn't give it to you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 06:44 PM
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you don't need to bring back religion, just have to bring back shame
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 06:23 PM
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Doing your homework. With the internet, there is enough information available good joke. people going online for anything sex or relationship related only learn the wrong lessons because nobody is teaching the right ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 06:11 PM
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fair enough. the big gotcha here is now you can never say "men should hold each other accountable" without being a hypocrite. pretty big feminist talking point right there
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:23 PM
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ok. so is feminism to be held accountable for people who call themselves feminists or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 06:15 PM
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yeah, cause no other rights group has declared itself as being for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 05:03 PM
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damn, finally someone admits it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 07:24 PM
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do you have an onlyfans?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 07:21 PM
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dating is the purest form of free market, the only value of anything is what someone is willing to give up to have it. here objective value only exists at zero
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 07:15 PM
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yeah effort works, but even you said it can't move you more than a point or maybe two if you're lucky. you're also forgetting that women find effort unattractive, so you have to try your hardest while looking like you're effortlessly great
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:54 PM
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a top 20% personality is like a top 20% face, you have to be born with it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 10:49 PM
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women: "communication is key!" also women: "i get turned off if he asks what turns me on" make it make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 10:31 PM
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what do men want? I want to want someone and be wanted by them why should women care? good relationships are objectively better than being alone on both sides
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:32 PM
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read twox for five seconds and your tone will change
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:34 PM
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feminism doesn't hate men, feminism is just "women first, men never". pure indifference. extremely easy to prove, too; name one thing that feminism has done for men that has been inconvenient for or of no benefit to women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:33 PM
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having social skills cool, so only autists should be asexual. thanks for clarifying. not have an incredibly unhealthy obsession with it i dub thee the sole arbiter of what is and isn't excessive porn use. as your first decree what's your maximum weekly porn quota?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:34 PM
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who the fuck cares, it's already going down the drain. your flair is wrong btw, redpill 101 is "enjoy the decline" theres zero chance that whenever you see a cute girl the #1 thought in your head is "if i go and talk to her i become the reason society collapses"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:19 PM
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approaching women for sex is bad, porn is bad. so what, men should just be asexual if they aren't desirable enough? literally op's point
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 04:56 PM
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so then the only logical conclusion here is "don't listen to women or feminists."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 04:51 PM
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as many as you need to. their emotions aren't your responsibility
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 04:39 PM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Conscription_in_Switzerland#:~:text=On%20September%2022%2C%202013%2C%20a,conscription%20of%20men%20in%20Switzerland and that's why paternity tests should be done on a systemic and not individual level. do you have any idea how many tests are done on newborns? what's one more. women are the only ones who benefit from that lack of systemic testing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:55 PM
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idk. i already decided to be forever childfree long before this paternity debate became a thing so don't ask me why people have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 07:44 PM
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having a kid already erases most of your personal freedoms anyways so what's one more to throw on the pile. fuck em
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 06:50 PM
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let's abolish the draft, which is largely supported by feminists. women overwhelmingly voted to keep male-only conscription in place during a 2013 referendum in switzerland. south korea is a heavily feminist country and only barely started talking about it after BTS got sent away. they must find things where men are disadvantaged by society and then blame women for it women are the only ones who can ever benefit from paternity testing being taboo, and are the only ones who would ever complain ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 06:46 PM
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On the one hand, they believe that women are motivated to engage in paternity fraud. not even that, it's just a matter of who benefits from paternity tests being taboo. hint: never the man. nobody ever said "nooo it'll hurt the corporations' feelings to make discussing salary normalized"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 06:15 PM
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ok, the rest of the sixes then. working out and being successful are also required to be attractive. you unironically think that the body positivity movement had nothing to do with feminism and just popped up out of nowhere? it was completely 100% about body positivity for women and men were a complete afterthought, that's what defines it as feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:16 AM
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it's a gender role that feminism upholds because it's convenient for women. feminism sure as fuck already tried to police men's preferences with "healthy at every size" and "fat is beautiful", why not do the same for women? oh right, because feminism doesn't give a shit about men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 09:16 PM
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Men haven’t been historically oppressed since the literal dawn of time men have been not only expected but in a lot of cases required to go die for their country. it's still happening today; ukrainian men are persecuted if they attempt to leave the country.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 09:04 PM
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let's start with an easy one; height requirements to date a man are routinely defended by feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 08:55 PM
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yes, using your exact argument with a race flair instead of a gender flair is the easiest way to make you see that there are systemic inequalities at play. unless you don't think minorities face systemic inequality? how about this one then; "if more women wanted to be CEOs, then they should just be better at running businesses" that org you listed has under 10k follows across all socials.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 10:04 PM
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Sweden held a referendum in 2013 on whether or not to end their male only conscription. All ages of women voted majority to keep it and only older men voted majority to keep it. Young men were the only ones who majority voted against it. Korea (a heavily feminist country) only barely started talking about their male only conscription when BTS started to get sent away. Proof that male issues are only important when they affect women, eg losing their favorite boy band. "If more black people wanted…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 09:10 PM
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https://youtube.com/shorts/wJpSP2NYhnA?si=gnA2I2CS-4jGLUv6 the entire mental health system is built around talking about your problems. men are trained from the moment we can listen to not talk about our problems
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 07:53 PM
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yeah i'm sure. how equal is it that women have always lobbied to keep male-only military conscription in place, that male rape victims are regularly forced to pay child support to the woman who abused them, that the entire mental health system is built with women in mind first and men in mind second, and that women are getting more college degrees?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 07:40 PM
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feminism also made sure that the entire mental health system as it exists today is catered to accommodate women's problems more than men's
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 07:30 PM
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say it louder that feminism isn't about equality it's about revenge on the big bad scary penis havers
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 07:27 PM
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social skills can't be built because there's no consistent feedback loop. all people are different so responses to the same thing are effectively random. the same way roulette is not a skill, socialization is not a skill. an attractive personality is like an attractive face, you have to be born with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 06:02 PM
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all chick books are about an average girl taming the hot bad boy. twilight
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:51 PM
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tfw being miserable is so normal that happiness is too far outside your comfort zone
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:35 PM
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you: "Ignore the ideology that says only looks matter" also you, 3 sentences later: "Control your physique"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 06:27 PM
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you unironically think that the average man has a lot of casual hookups at age 27-30?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:49 AM
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ok. i believe you that it's soul crushing, but people are different, and even if it's just as soul crushing for me maybe i'll get something out of it that you didn't. fwiw your partner is in a relationship, and since 63% of men under 30 are single that automatically makes him above average. but sure, i'll dm you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:56 PM
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3 swipes a second = 333 seconds for 1k = just under 5 minutes. all that sounds like it makes sense but you're talking to someone who's been touch and affection starved for 29 years, something i bet you also have no frame of reference for. you can tell me it's soul crushing til you're blue in the mouth but i'd happily be someone's meal ticket if it meant holding someone's hand and walking around the mall while chatting for an hour. just to see what it was like. because never in my life have i bee…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:55 PM
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i don't use dating apps regularly, i only reopened tinder to prove my point here. if you want to paypal me 10 bucks for a week of tinder gold i'll spend 15 minutes a day to right swipe ~1,000 profiles for you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 10:01 PM
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careful. if full autonomy of your possessions (this includes bodily autonomy, as we've established) exists as well as the right to refuse harm, then going 90 in a school zone should be perfectly fine as long as you don't hit anyone. that's not fine though. so that leaves us without full autonomy and with right to refuse harm. so i'll ask again with that in mind, unfairness can be justified if fairness is harmful? obvious followup question, how can fairness ever be harmful?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 07:57 PM
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there we go. you're off bodily autonomy, now you're on the right to refuse harm. making progress. yes, people can and should be able to refuse harm. and with that we can get back to the original point. unfairness can be justified if fairness is harmful? obvious followup question, how can fairness ever be harmful?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 07:40 PM
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what % of western women millennial and younger would say "no I'm not a feminist" if asked?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 07:20 PM
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we aren't talking about women right now, we're talking about bodily autonomy. is "my body my choice" valid justification, yes or no? no, because your body is one of your possessions and it's already acceptable to be limited on what you can and can't do with your possessions. "my [thing] my choice" doesn't justify anything regardless of what you put in there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 07:17 PM
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my point is that bodily autonomy is a dogshit argument that is easily torn to shreds. so come up with a better justification for inequality because that aint it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:54 PM
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There’s no secret society of women u right because it's not secret, it's called feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:42 PM
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"I bought my car and it belongs to me, I should be able to drive 90 in a school zone" "I bought this printer, it's mine, I should be able to print as much US currency as I want" "This gun is my property, I should be able to do anything I want with it."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:40 PM
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nice fanfic. i'm saying exactly what the data says; autistic men are worse off romantically than autistic women, despite autists wanting romance more than nts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 04:48 PM
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i will at the end because it's a pain in the ass. they intentionally obfuscate that info, you have to specifically request your user data and they email it to you like 24 hours later
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 04:18 PM
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https://imgur.com/a/ZTSks6R day 1
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:38 PM
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i have 4, the top 3 are off screen. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5789215/ "Of the individuals with ASD, significantly more women (n=18; 46.2%) than men (n=9; 16.1%) were currently in a relationship" "Males with ASD were found ... to have a greater desire for sexual and romantic relationships" https://autismawarenesscentre.com/romance-autism-dating-possible-people-asd/ "just 32.1 percent of people with autism had had a partner and only 9 percent were married" extremely telling tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:22 AM
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lmao, not even a challenge. i'll right swipe all the profiles until i run out for a week. i even put my height in there. https://imgur.com/a/8VvlTh7 yes, i would drink bathwater if i was thirsty enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:30 PM
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"my boomer parent said to pull those bootstraps" uhuh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:05 PM
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And offers of sex don’t count these goalposts have legs! i say it absolutely does count, since i (and countless others) haven't ever been considered even to be used for a meal ticket. and even if i put it in my tinder bio or made a craigslist post "will take any girl out for free food" i still wouldn't get any attention
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:51 PM
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being passionate about something isn't attractive. being attractive is attractive. give me some photos of a so-called "invisible" woman and in an hour i can get more interest to her from the opposite gender than i have in my entire life in half an hour
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:57 PM
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you're obviously bullshitting because no woman would ever throw themselves at magic the gathering champs or top ranked call of duty players. imagine "you're the greatest in the world at this obscure playstation 1 game? fucking take me" loser women exist, they're just the bottom 20. loser men are bottom 80. it's not comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:26 PM
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what makes you think every man is top 20% at something? oh yeah right, cause you're a woman and the bottom 80 are invisible to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:13 PM
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top 20% overall has always been the definition of chad. that's how it can encompass types like overweight alcoholic frat boys who pull like crazy because they're charismatic as hell. elon is not a chad because women don't throw themselves at him. you don’t know what femme men I’m into it doesn't matter what type you're into. be into whatever type you want, like i said, all variations are allowed. bottom 80 are just invisible to you no matter what type they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:23 PM
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that's not what chad means. being a chad just means you're in the top 20% of men, all variations are allowed as long as that one criteria is met. so i'll say it again: you don't like feminine men, you like feminine men in the top 20%
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:53 PM
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yeah, no, aint gonna fall for this feminist gaslighting. words mean things. you can say that all day but every woman on earth would get uppity if they were told "I settled for you." this is the Lizzo situation all over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:28 PM
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"any outcome that isn't complete and absolute perfection is settling, even if the result is acceptable" woman moment
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:14 PM
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twinky chads* FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:12 PM
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Dating the least attractive person that you're still attracted to is not settling. Men do it all the time, women never do
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:20 PM
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yes they are. real stimulating discussion dude. why are you even bothering, actually
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 02:23 AM
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the point is that women are a feminist hivemind read that some more because you obviously didn't get it the first time. op made an assertion in the title and i'm proving it wrong. so are you, because you didn't say "no we aren't", you went straight to "so you hate feminism"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 02:18 AM
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the point is that women are a feminist hivemind
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 02:09 AM
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sick dodge. i'm literally answering the title of your post; women want feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 02:02 AM
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How many women millennial and younger would say "no i'm not a feminist" when asked?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 01:53 AM
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There is no "woman hivemind" What % of women millennial and younger would say "no i'm not a feminist" when asked?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 01:44 AM
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do you have any idea the mindblowingly high turnover rate for sales people?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 01:41 AM
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yeah not like "don't stick your dick in crazy" is dude advice 101 or anything
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 09:41 PM
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Most women in my experience really dislike the feeling of having to teach a guy what to do. And yet somehow it's also an ick to ask what she likes. Make it make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 07:31 PM
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not the laid part lmao. go to craigslist, make a post "i'll fuck the first person who asks, text for address" with a photo and your phone number. you could even skip the photo.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 06:50 PM
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I only talk to and am friends with decent women, ones who are already paired off because they're only on the market for a few weeks at a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 06:47 PM
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Modern women don't settle
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 05:35 PM
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bottom 20% women have the same experience as the bottom 80% of men. at least you can get laid for free at any time
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 05:23 PM
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you can have infinity good qualities, if they don't result in getting anything that you want then none of those qualities matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:09 AM
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bluepillers: "if you've never gotten any interest from a woman it's because you're delusional about being average" also bluepillers: "looks don't matter, cope harder."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:43 AM
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i wasn't aware that observations needed to be peer reviewed. do you not trust your eyes? did you need a room full of mathematicians to agree before you believed that 1+1=2? here's a bunch, i'm not doing the work for you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:37 AM
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absolute classic. "your data isn't real, only MY data is real!" i don't believe that you're on this sub and havent seen the okc match statistics that this is pulled from. multiple books have been written about it, go read them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 05:28 PM
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if that's true then aces and gays would be swarmed, which outright doesn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 05:26 PM
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if that's what women do then women don't approach. she's leaving the front door wide open for the man to walk through, the onus is still on him to actually approach. she's being completely passive. passive approach is an oxymoron.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 05:24 PM
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ol reliable there, proven. that was easy. what's next?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 05:22 PM
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there's no such thing as a leadership problem. it's a social movement, there was no CEO of feminism. it's an involvement problem. over 90% of western women millennial and younger would say they are feminists if asked, if men were asked if they were MRAs like 2/3 would probably go "what's that lol" someone already tried doing what feminism did to get ahead in the world by endlessly whining on social media, it was andrew tate. and you already know how that went
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 04:58 PM
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building a relationship vs expecting and demanding perfection
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 04:48 PM
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that's not an approach
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 04:47 PM
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this is retarded. women start noticing men with gfs because having a gf means he's been pre-approved by another woman
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 04:44 PM
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someone pull up the 80/20 stat. oh wait, i'm someone. if you aren't getting any attention you're in the bottom 80%. last i checked that's more than average
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 04:41 PM
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except it's wrong. women are gatekeepers. they never approach, what you think is "approaching" is actually just them leaving the front door wide open and inviting their man of choice through with no effort needed
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 04:35 PM
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lol ok. instead of spending all the effort proving you wrong again, why don't you tell everyone how exactly you interpreted the data you linked? i'll let your retardation speak for itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 02:43 PM
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2022 marriage data 2,089,646 total 1,430,227 never married, so 68% unmarried. 2005 marriage data 1,926,422 total, 920,870 never married, so 48% unmarried. Thanks for providing links, made it really easy to shut down your blatant fucking lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 11:10 PM
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don't forget "entitled"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 10:33 PM
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and how often do women have these feelings about totally unashamed abusers
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 10:28 PM
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Let's rephrase this line, my absolute favorite game Face it there are just fewer good quality men blacks than women whites.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 07:10 PM
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It's 100% her fault if she doesn't want to put any effort into building a healthy relationship and instead demands perfection immediately
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 07:08 PM
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it has everything to do with your comment because feminism and women already hold all men accountable for the actions of a few. i'm a man so it's my responsibility to prevent other men from raping, and my fault for not stopping them. i'm a man so it's my responsibility to manage the perceived threat level of a room because some women might be intimidated by my existence. i'm a man so it's my fault that all the powerful men turned the world into a dystopian capitalist hellscape. yet i can't hold …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 11:34 PM
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you guys started it. I'm a man so it's my responsibility to teach men not to rape, be aware of my privilege, and "be better". it is bullshit that feminists don't play by their own rules, i agree
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 11:07 PM
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there's no CEO of feminism dishing out "this statement is 100% Feminist(tm) approved" stamps, feminism is just team women. So whenever a woman who identifies as feminist, which we've established is almost all of them, she's acting on behalf of feminism. Women en masse have decided that approaching/looking is bad, and over 90% of women are feminist, so that's feminism's stance. take it up with them if you disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:52 PM
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extremely telling that you intentionally ignored my followup question. so i'll ask it again: feminism is for gender equality, yes or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 09:39 PM
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not some sort of feminist thing How many women millennial and younger would say "no im not a feminist" when asked?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 09:35 PM
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it's bad when it disregards the consent of the other person so when he flirts or looks at her without first reading her mind to see if she's already into him and will approve of those advances or not
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 08:53 PM
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is it? women and feminism already think male sexuality is bad unless he's been pre-approved by another woman or is a literal chad thundercock.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 07:13 PM
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i'm surprised you don't talk about it more too. i know for a fact every feminist on earth would cheer and celebrate if they could turn men asexual
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 06:46 PM
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two months ago after 3 seconds of googling followup question: feminism is for gender equality, yes or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 06:21 PM
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women have higher social value, men have higher professional value. feminism is trying its damndest to bring women up on both fronts while actively keeping men down socially. you disagree?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 05:49 PM
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go copy/paste your exact comment on every twox post whining about men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 05:40 PM
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you're 40, so back when you were doing those things there were tools and resources available to you that aren't any more.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 05:39 PM
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people keep talking about the 50s because they think it was easier to get what they want. but the vast majority of people millennial and younger understand that if you can't have things then you shouldn't want things, ergo going ace.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 05:10 PM
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Count up the number of charities dedicated to "awareness" that do nothing about actually solving problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:59 PM
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Those don't sound fun to most men lulwut? if an asexuality laser were invented tomorrow then like 80% of younger generations would take it in a heartbeat
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:52 PM
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you actually said that exact thing but with more words. id fall for the dude who just shows up, is chill, and has a good time literally; "not trying is good" I wish guys understood how intense and unsettling it can feel when a guy youve just met locks on to you literally; "trying is bad"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 11:06 PM
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aka "trying is unattractive, wanting things makes you a loser, if you aren't effortlessly attractive then don't fucking bother"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 10:50 PM
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Look up the prescription rates of SSRIs
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 10:43 PM
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majority of women happy lulwut
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 07:15 PM
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tell that to the majority of women who are demanding and requiring perfection right off the bat
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:11 PM
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your
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 06:09 AM
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i see, so the law is only good when it's directly benefiting you and as soon as it restricts something you go straight to reddit to whine about muh freedoms. at least do that on the tankie subreddits where you can at least get some updoots for unironically call taxation theft
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:57 PM
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so marriage is good for legal protections, but at-fault divorce is bad because of legal protections?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:32 PM
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if you can't tell then it objectively doesn't matter and so shouldn't be filtered for
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:17 PM
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"My sexuality is determined by round numbers" woman moment
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 05:00 PM
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"Getting robbed? Just say no! People legally cannot take your possessions without your consent." same energy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 04:33 PM
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grow to find you attractive bluepill moment
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 08:55 PM
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Feminism wanted dating to be this way from the onset
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 08:50 PM
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Male rape victims are regularly forced to pay child support by courts. Start there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 07:51 PM
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ok, then that decision is made on an individual level rather than a movement-wide level. Which do you think is more common?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 07:51 PM
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idgaf how happy you are. die happy. just pointing out the absurdity that you're doing the literal exact same thing that all the people you're calling subhumans are doing; shouting "die mad" and "kill yourself" to the opposite gender on PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 08:20 PM
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exactly. living proof that not everyone gets what they deserve
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:59 PM
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just be better then :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:43 PM
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Women can also judge this stuff for themselves yes, and in doing so only pick the top 20%. Remember the survey that made the rounds a while ago, the overwhelming vast majority of women would reject a man that only met 80% of her standards, and the inverse was true for men? With that in mind, why don't you explain why women are deciding to stay single en masse now and that wasn't the case say 20 years ago? Looking forward to your response because your blue pill flair makes me think you're going t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:17 PM
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Nobody is saying "date people you don't want", the actual message to women is "be okay with dating the least attractive person you still find attractive." Modern women treat dating like a gambling addiction, never accepting when they're up $500 a perfectly good partner because the next spin swipe will hit the giga jackpot be a perfect 10/10 chad willing to commit to your average ass. That's what needs to stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:32 PM
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Men behaviorally initiate more divorces "Statistics be damned, I'm going to make some shit up to have (thing) be all men's fault"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:04 PM
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No fault doesn't mean no reason. "I'm miserable and I hate you now" is a perfectly fine reason, that just also makes it your fault that the divorce is happening. Meaning you aren't entitled to half of his house and bank account.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:58 PM
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ah yes, reddit mods are the true and final arbiters of what is/isn't violent and hateful despite still allowing twox to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:54 PM
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Freedom is a responsibility, not an excuse to make you feel okay about ruining everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:29 PM
1

oof Maybe men blacks could try to be better. Maybe men jews could try to be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:26 PM
1

Women standards is what they genuinely desire. absolutely not. no women ever would be okay with dating the least attractive man that they still find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:22 PM
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Generally this means that infidelity clauses, which are part of prenups, get thrown out if the state is no fault divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:26 PM
1

Male rape victims are regularly forced to pay child support by courts
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:23 PM
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one flick away to complete transformation no, because it's a prisoner's dilemma. The only way to change it is for a critical mass of people on both sides to work against their own interests and enough defectors ruin the whole thing and put it back to square zero. If you clearly can't win the game, playing another one Is better you have described passport bro-ing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:09 PM
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average twox poster reply. there's actually no point in talking at you, feel free to reply one more time if you're that desperate for the last laugh though
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:01 PM
1

woman moment
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 02:57 PM
1

the feminist gaslighting literally never ends boys
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 06:38 AM
1

All age groups of women overwhelmingly voted to keep the male-only forced military service in Switzerland in 2013.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 06:29 AM
1

Switzerland held a vote in 2013 on whether or not to keep their mandatory male-only conscription, women overwhelmingly voted to keep it in place.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 06:28 AM
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Your body is the one thing that you get 100% control over. brain damaged take. your thoughts are the one thing you have complete control over, capitalism already has large claims on your body and your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 06:26 AM
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At-fault divorce means that if she cheats on you she doesn't get half of your house and bank account. So people who were or don't want to be divorce raped oppose it for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:25 PM
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this whole thing is an "i don't like the men that i pick" post. anyone reading do yourself a favor and ignore, there is nothing to be gained here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:05 PM
1

"I don't like what your facts are implying so I'll call it an anomaly." feminist moment
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:01 PM
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Only men 50+ who got theirs. All age groups of women voted to keep it, the only group who mainly voted against it was young men. Because of course. Want to talk about Korea instead? They're only just barely starting to think about ending the mandatory conscription because BTS might be getting shipped off soon. Read: Men dying in war against their will is only a problem if women lose their favorite celebrity pretty boys
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 06:30 PM
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My professionally taken photos with clothes from a stylist and an $80 haircut have gotten three matches in years of online dating across multiple platforms. Where are those goalposts moving to now?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 05:34 PM
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Switzerland has mandatory male-only conscription. Guess which gender overwhelmingly voted to NOT end it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 05:08 PM
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Of course feminism prioritizes womens issues Say it like it is, then. Say out loud to yourself; "I don't care about rape victims, I only care about women." "I don't care about domestic violence, I only care about women." "I don't care about abusive households, I only care about women." "I don't care about suicide, I only care about women." "I don't care about substance abuse, I only care about women."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:15 PM
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Men take responsibility so women are inherently irresponsible, is that the takeaway?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:05 PM
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Point out the lie
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:44 PM
1

The fact that we live in a late stage capitalist hellscape is a completely different conversation. Economics of the dating market and actual market rhyme, sure, but they're completely separate. Capitalism cares about only profit and not at all about social change. Know how I know? Corporations never lobbied for or against gay marriage, and now take a look and see how many rainbow'd logos you see this fine June. The closest argument you could make here is for politicians, but (when it comes to so…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 03:09 PM
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lol no. Social skills can't be improved because there's no consistent feedback loop. Every person is different so responses to the same thing are essentially random and therefore impossible to learn anything from.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 04:46 AM
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same social script as my grandfather You mean going off to ww2/korea/nam and probably dying for his country? Feminism still wants that to happen, since women overwhelmingly voted to keep the male-only mandatory conscription in Switzerland back in 2013. They're only just now starting to talk about ending in South Korea because BTS might be sent away soon, proof that feminism only cares about male issues when it affects them. Men dying? dgaf. Losing their favorite boy band? you bet your ass someth…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 04:42 AM
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Because feminism has explicitly and repeatedly said that it's for the benefit of everyone, that rights aren't a zero sum game, equality for all. Of course we know that's bullshit, so why are you trying so hard to defend and make excuses for them when you know for a fact they'll never do the same for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 01:08 AM
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good personality = charisma. that's it. an attractive personality is like an attractive face, top 20 only.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 01:02 AM
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so you brought it up just to brag, then? it would cost you nothing to make one post's worth of secret knowledge
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:02 PM
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I am socially active, just socially retarded too. There are no tools that exist for men to learn socialization from zero because, you guessed it, feminism made sure of it. If you know of one that is actually proven to work then I'm all ears.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 09:51 PM
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bluepill moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 09:45 PM
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I am the way that I am as a direct consequence of feminist bullshit being spoonfed to me for 10 years. Dunno why I'm not allowed to blame them for it. Why are you defending feminism so hard, anyway? No feminist will ever defend any male anything as hard as you're defending them right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 09:30 PM
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Feminism is the reason I started hating myself at 14, resulting in borderline autistic levels of social retardation lasting long into my adult life. What male friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 09:17 PM
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"I have the solution to all of your problems but I'm not giving it to you LOL get fucked" yeah okay
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 09:00 PM
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Name one thing that feminism has done for men which has been inconvenient for or of no benefit to women. If you're so gung-ho about pro feminism then it should be easy for you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:57 PM
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you've convinced me, where do I sign up
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:46 PM
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"You're manufacturing victimhood" 2 comments later "It's men's fault" You really can't make this shit up
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:40 PM
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I'm mostly trying to dig down and find why these groups don't work. If they worked they would be talked about more and be extremely accessible, right? But they aren't. I do not attend this guy’s support group You run it but aren't there? Extremely convenient dodge my friend
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:29 PM
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ok. Say I take that at face value, now what % of people who have graduated from your club actually end up laid/dated/married?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:17 PM
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not what i asked but go off i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:10 PM
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I run a men-only support group how much shit have you gotten from women for doing this
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:05 PM
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It's easy to be a saint in paradise. Congrats on being lucky enough to in life to never have needed/wanted anything badly enough that you'd be willing to pull others down for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 07:15 PM
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Yes. Men let feminism win by doing nothing about it. Whenever something comes up for specifically male happiness, feminism either screeches about the patriarchy or co-opts it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 09:06 PM
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Team women (feminism) should actually start delivering on their promises to care about male issues alongside female issues instead of just going "well feminism isn't for you, die mad"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 09:03 PM
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it makes me wary when anyone approaches because those encounters freak me out and make me feel uncomfortable -you, 1 comment ago
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 07:09 PM
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it makes me wary when anyone approaches because those encounters freak me out and make me feel uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 07:09 PM
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Man: "hey how's it going" You: "The attempt on my vagina has left me scarred and deformed"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 01:51 AM
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"I've built a large part of my identity and sexuality around the products of a multitrillion dollar company"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 01:42 AM
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Except when it is worth it and doesn't come back to bite you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:10 AM
1

it's easy to be a saint in paradise. Good on you for getting lucky enough in life that you've never wanted anything so bad that you'd be willing to lie for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 01:12 AM
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if honesty isn't rewarded then lying isn't immoral
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 12:44 AM
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Feminism doesn't have to hate men, all feminism is is 'women first, men never.' that's the reason the overwhelming vast majority of women are the same, it's because feminism is team women. that's all they are and all they ever will be. this is all extremely contrary to their 'let's bring everyone up together, rights aren't a zero sum game!' messaging. Again this is really easy to prove. list one thing that feminism has done which has been for the benefit of men which has been inconvenient to or …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 12:36 AM
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easily provable as false. How many women would say "no I'm not a feminist" if asked?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 10:56 PM
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you definitely got the genders reversed on that one
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 10:52 PM
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prisons of their own making lol no, feminism wanted this and they made it happen
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 10:36 PM
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you're making an incel argument. "she's only with him temporarily while riding the carousel on the side until she can get chad to commit"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:32 PM
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I’ll be enjoying myself partying every weekend until the end of summer. based on what I'm seeing you're spending way more time here. gl
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 10:38 PM
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make it clear subtly the absolute state of women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:45 PM
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you seem weirdly fixated on bars and clubs. So either you're over 40 and that's all you had back then, which I doubt because you're too mad and emoji spammy to be that old. Or you're one of those "you don't drink? so what do you do all day?" people. Got a challenge for you then, list 5 places that don't involve alcohol or drugs whre it's socially acceptable to pick up women. Also for the record, that ""article"" you linked is absolute dogshit. That account has hundreds of posts all looking like …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:47 AM
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What percentage of women mid 30s and under would say "no I'm not a feminist" when asked? Feminism is team women, that's all. Maybe in rural conservative shit holes no, literally everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 11:05 PM
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And has no basis in history. try literally any war. unless you're one of those unironic "women are the primary victims of war" people
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 10:58 PM
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yeah ok lemme just pull up ye olde stat of population %s and prison population %s
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 10:56 PM
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Feminism changes men to stop approaching? If all men stopped approaching women tomorrow, feminism would be celebrating for months straight. I guess the guys who do approach women didn't get the memo. Yes, some people have figured out that listening to what feminism has to say is the objectively incorrect course of action. bars, parties, lounges, night clubs, festivals, meetup groups, and all sorts of other social events should also shut down These places are actively being abandoned in droves
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 10:54 PM
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men that aren't like that you mean that aren't ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 10:50 PM
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Their lack of success is often just a reflection of their degenerative personalities Often, but not always?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 10:48 PM
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"cold approaching is abusive" what a take
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:04 PM
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replace "men" with "black people" or "jews" and see how that sounds
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:00 PM
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"radfems are right and men are shit" yeah thanks for telling on yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:58 PM
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If you do the above, it will happen naturally. and what if it doesn't. People don't always get what they earn and put the work in for
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:13 AM
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Man: "hey how's it going" Woman: "The attempt on my vagina has left me scarred"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 12:11 AM
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Nobody ends up here if "letting this happen naturally" worked for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 12:09 AM
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and you're bringing what, exactly? A 40 year old's opinion who's high value enough to pull someone in their 20s? extremely valuable mr. chad. People break up and get into new relationships all the time and at every age The minority of the time under 30. exactly 37% of the time in fact, since 63% are single. You guys always treat it as if there were no young guys in committed relationships AND this is against what they want The majority aren't. If singleness was what they wanted, andrew tate woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 01:54 AM
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"People who were dating before feminism, social media, and dating apps ruined everything are fine!" isn't the argument you think it is
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:11 AM
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lower their standards and force themselves to be with someone they are not attracted to When people say 'lower your standards' what they really mean is stop chad chasing by demanding perfection out of their partners. Be okay with dating the least attractive person you still find attractive. Modern women treat dating like gambling addicts, never stopping when they're ahead on a perfectly good partner because the next spin swipe will hit the ultra millions jackpot be a perfect 10/10 willing to com…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 05:27 AM
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You posted two contradictory sources thinking it was some kind of gotcha, the only retard here is the one who doesn't actually read the shit he posts. Lemme know when you actually read both those studies. Or don't and just reply one more time because I know people like you desperately need to get the last laugh in.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 04:15 AM
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Join the data pool. What percentage of men do you find attractive enough that you would give a signal to?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 01:05 AM
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This and your previous source actually contradict eachother. If this is the level of discourse you're operating at then I could probably convince you that the world is flat or vaccines cause autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 01:03 AM
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Not talking about relationships. That stat is 63% men millennial and younger are single, so plenty of room for you to not notice the single ones. Specifically men attractive enough for women to give a signal to is under 1%.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 01:02 AM
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self-reported 6 year old pre-covid data I bang your mom on a weekly basis. see how easy it is to lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 04:11 AM
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Sick dodge
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:14 PM
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Join the data pool. What percentage of men do you find attractive enough that you would give a signal to?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:13 PM
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And when given all those options, the only thing they want is the top %. Because feminism has also told women that shirking on even one standard is akin to settling and settling is just as bad as abuse. I can tell you're new here because you're repeating verbatim all the bluepill adages which can be broken down in three questions. How much self improvement is 'enough' self improvement to be worthy of consideration for a relationship? Can you comprehend a scenario where someone has done "enough" …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:07 PM
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Feminism gets the average bloke laid. Objectively false because 60% of millennial and younger men are not in relationships. Getting laid is the minority. It takes a few years of dedication to become a desirable man. Ah, yes. Men run the rat race of self improvement and women wait at the finish line to have their pick of the winners. Inspiring stuff. You’re basing your dates on what HE is going to do; you’re waiting for something to come to you. Then don't be passive. Go out there and take an act…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 10:43 PM
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u right. So what changed recently? Social media and tinder ruining women's expectations, sugar making everyone fatter, and feminism fucking everyone's heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:43 PM
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Ok, so? That still leaves out the overwhelming vast majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:01 PM
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Do you think that heterosexuality is becoming more and more undesirable Yes. I truly believe that over half of millennial and younger people would choose to be asexual if given the chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:50 PM
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Join the data pool. What percentage of men do you find attractive enough that you would give a signal to?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:46 PM
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The same way women think existing entitles them to a top 0.5% chad with the sixes?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:34 PM
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Why can’t people just go on dates with people they’re attracted to Because women find less than 1% of men attractive enough to give a signal to, and men are told that their sexuality is a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:17 PM
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"Don't bother women at [location], she's just there to do [activity]" If you asked every feminist if this is true or not they would all say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 07:55 PM
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All of my views on what women want out of partners are a result of them outright saying what they want. Shocker. Are they telling you something different? It'd make sense given the whole trans thing, the rules are different for you. Or do you mean the common bluepill adages? If so, there's an unspoken addendum to all of them, you have to be sure to add 'as long as you're attractive'
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 03:58 PM
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If you genuinely, unironically think that 60% of men are just frothing at the mouth for a gf to start abusing then you're retarded. No other word for it. what NOT to do talk to women, look at women, bother women, want women, view women in any sexual capacity. This is how feminism (ie women) tells men to behave. what women ARE into Height, muscles, salary, charisma, passion. Are you new here? This is like, day zero shit and gets proven as true on a near daily basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 03:29 AM
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You can relax with the 4 paragraphs of fanfiction. My take is that women are (to a ridiculous degree) more likely to be vulnerable around those presenting F than those presenting M. Vulnerability is step zero of a relationship. Men have to put significant effort into breaking down that wall and you get it down for free. Can't help but notice your fixation on 'normal' guys. Fun fact for you, 60% of guys in their 20s are single, so it's actually abnormal to be a man in a relationship. Almost like …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 02:25 AM
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Women are the gatekeepers of sex and relationships. Whatever excuse you come up with doesn't matter. Even if you woke up tomorrow in a world with guaranteed safe abortions and no violence feminism would come up with another justification for maintaining that lofty position over men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:02 PM
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Exactly my point. Dating for men is like a job interview, dating for women is like shopping.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 08:42 PM
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Long term, yes. In the short term, dating for men is almost exactly like a job interview.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 07:41 PM
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lol ok. Is that supposed to be some kind of sick own? Success on tinder requires literally only 1 thing and that's being attractive. You know that, so why bring it up?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 07:35 PM
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Being feminine makes you less threatening to women, meaning the first and biggest hurdle is passed for you with zero effort required. No shit that would make everything easier for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 07:21 PM
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If you think masking is bad, why don't you go share your reddit account with your boss?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 07:02 PM
1

Look at twox for five seconds
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 06:46 PM
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u right, he hasn't realized that dating is only like shopping for women. For men it's an infinite job interview.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 06:40 PM
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SMALL GUYS WHO LOOK AND ACT LIKE WOMEN AND WHO AREN'T EVEN INTO WOMEN I don't think you realize how easy this makes it for you. Women (yes, all women) have their guard up to 100% around men and maybe up 15% at max around other women. If you pass as female you're already 85% of the way there. I'm also ignoring the fact that lgb etc dating is borderline cartoonish compared to straight dating
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 06:29 PM
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Almost every man on PPD would have a partner if RP "alphas" would get off their backs and let them enjoy their lives in their own way. this is complete bs and you know it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 06:25 PM
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if you are unnattractive of course you shouldnt be hitting on people also known as "know your fucking place, subhuman"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 05:34 PM
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5% of psychs under the age of 30 are men. Psychs are less likely to probe for emotional or psychological suffering in men. Psychs are less likely to diagnose mental health illness for men. Even if diagnosed men are less likely to receive treatment or support. Explain how all of this is going to help men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 05:14 AM
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in order; no (as far as feminism is concerned), yes, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:23 AM
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ok. So you're denouncing 80/20 when for you it's 100/0?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:27 PM
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What survey would that be? It's not all self reported, I hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 06:50 PM
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Sure do, doesn't change my question though. What % of men do you give signals to?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 06:49 PM
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Join the data pool. What % of men do you find attractive enough to give a signal to?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 06:01 PM
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They don't pick closer to their league, they pick closer to their self-perceived league. Big difference. A majority of men out there are from previous generations. Millennial and younger women do not settle because feminism has told them that not having every standard met is just as bad as being abused
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 06:00 PM
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women go on the apps, get boyfriends, and leave Women that are on apps for their intended purpose and not validation or IG/OF shilling do that, yes. Are their new boyfriends the top.5 percent? Yes, and if they can't land one that top tier they go 'oh well, guess all men are shit' and check out of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 05:57 PM
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lol no they fucking aren't, they're only right swiping the top .5% like everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:20 PM
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Join the data pool, same question to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 03:41 PM
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My opinions will change a lot as soon as I find a woman I actually give a shit about and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 09:19 PM
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Yes, it's a reference to dating apps. My profiles have professionaly taken photos, clothes picked by a stylist, and an $80 haircut, and have gotten 1 conversation in 8 or so years. You're gonna have to try a lot harder with your next justification for the 80/20 rule. Very telling that you don't even try to dispute it, either. I answered your question, now answer mine. What % of men do you find attractive enough to give a signal to?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 09:11 PM
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"go to therapy" isn't the help you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 09:00 PM
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It's not about the majority being unattractive, it's about the majority being ranked below average. Do you know what average means?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 08:58 PM
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South Korea is only just barely starting to talk about ending the male-only conscription because BTS might be sent away soon. Read: The instant it starts affecting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 08:52 PM
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I'm basing my opinion on every single interaction with women I've had in my entire life. Want to be added to the pool? Tell me what % of men you find attractive enough to give a signal to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 08:39 PM
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Yes, dating is the closest thing the world will ever get to a true free market. In a free market the only value of anything is what someone is willing to give up to have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 08:34 PM
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Who decides who has “realistic, sensible” standards Statistics. Rating 80% as below average is a problem no matter how you look at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 08:29 PM
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Feminism instructs men to not speak to women, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 08:24 PM
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This is your brain overdosing on 'it is what it is'. Something changed to make it this way, why can't it unchange or change again?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 08:14 PM
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I guess I just really don't like being thought of as "less than" This is how the whole 'differently abled' and 'special' thing started, people who were unwilling or unable to reconcile that yes, they are in fact objectively less than in their abilities. everyone on earth just conflates 'abilities' with 'value as a person' as a result of the capitalist hellscape we all live in so here we are. not like it's going to change any time soon. good on you for your achievements. i have my own that i'm pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 07:56 PM
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fair enough. autism is preventing me from having normal interactions with other people, resulting in many obvious downstream problems. my head is unable to work fast enough socially to follow any sort of flow of conversation. It's an obstacle, not a road closure. hard disagree. that's literally what autism is - a mental disability. dis-able. By definition and literal structure of the word, unable to do something. Unable to walk, unable to see, unable hear, unable stand in the rain, etc. the whol…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 07:08 PM
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yes, diagnosed. one question for you; what goals/aspirations do you have right now that you're unable to achieve because of your autism?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:36 PM
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"it really doesn't take that much effort" woman flair checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:28 PM
1

Making friends is how you get friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:36 PM
1

The solution to picking abusers is to pick better. What this means in practice is vet for longer and don't fall for love bombing. This also counters everything from redpillers and/or PUAers. The solution to everything else is to stop chad chasing. Be more okay with entering a relationship with the least attractive person you still find attractive. Be okay with building a relationship instead of demanding perfection (aka tingles) right off the bat. All any successful relationship really needs is …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:14 PM
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Doesn't matter. It's a pretty simple proposition; are women's tingly feelings reliable, yes or no? Objectively no because of how pften they pick abusers. So why do women keep relying so heavily on those tingly feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:55 PM
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You can get off your high horse because that exact same statistic is 1 in 4 for men. The difference is that men always get (rightly) blamed for it for putting their dick in crazy. Women going "I just don't feel it with you" is not a valid excuse when those same feelings result in reliably picking abusers 1/3 of the time. You can't have "following your feelings is always best" and "following your feelings gets 1/3 of you abused" both be true at once.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:55 PM
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It doesn't even have to be drug dealers and felons. "Average and normal" women get tingles for the wrong people all the time, proven by 1 in 3 of them experiencing violence by a partner at some point in their lifetime. At what point should tingles stop being trusted? After 50%? Holding out for 100%?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:19 AM
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Your argument stops holding any water when you realize how many women feel 'chemistry' with drug dealers, felons, and literal serial killers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 11:49 PM
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Objective value exists at one point only: zero
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:21 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/media?url=https%3A%2F%2Fi.redd.it%2F72orou3xc1y21.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:18 PM
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The second I stopped needing women to be happy and fulfilled, I was never in lack of women. How's the chad life treating you? The rest of us have to fight and claw every step of the way no matter where our mentals are at
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 05:52 PM
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ah yes, bootstraps
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 08:48 PM
2

so are men and women just different? what the scarcity/abundance mindset does to people
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:34 PM
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Don't reject people for love bombing, just don't let love bombing distract you from obvious dealbreakers and red flags. If love bombing is genuine then everything is chocolate tulips.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:25 PM
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Ok, sure. Doesn't change my point though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:17 PM
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Pick better really means "vet for longer and don't fall for love bombing." Unless it's a pattern of like 5+ guys in a row, in which case yeah, pick better actually means pick better.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:12 PM
1

uhuh. All of my profiles have professionally taken photos of me with an $80 haircut and clothes chosen by a stylist, but go off I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 08:59 PM
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80% of men's profiles below average "You aren't a disgusting sub 5, it's just every single available metric that anyone uses to judge people indicates that you are!"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 04:59 PM
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It's more common than you think, and I bet you were doing that without even realizing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 09:34 PM
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"I have a thing for shy awkward guys" "What are you doing to get one?" "Ummm teehee nothing I guess waiting for one to approach me" This you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 07:41 PM
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Looking is rape -feminism, unironically
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 07:19 PM
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and you main mercy?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:40 PM
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there's definitely a difference between posting photos and actively trying to bait simps into giving you money
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:35 PM
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If you're a man and think 'look at all my cars bitches and money' songs are empowering you're equally as retarded as a woman who thinks 'my pussy is so awesome' songs are empowering.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:25 PM
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There is no "true" value. Dating is a free market, where the only value of anything is what people are willing to give up to have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 10:58 PM
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Forcing a first date would fix every single problem that exists with OLD
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:26 PM
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Force first dates and nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:02 PM
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You just made it an auto succeed. Not browsing and not accessing are two totally different things. I (and 90% of other people, I'd guess) only doom scroll when the mentals are already in the shitter. The difference between autistic sub 4s and normies is that normies actually would benefit from not doom scrolling because they have tools and resources to improve their situation which doom scrolling distracts them from. I don't, so it makes no difference. I know this because I was off reddit for mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 07:38 PM
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No cop-outs, I asked for 10. You said there's 'so many', right? Should be easy Following that I'd just watch TV all day. That isn't actionable advice, it's the opposite, you're telling me to do less.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 05:45 AM
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"Black people getting shot isn't your problem, whitey. It's not any of your business." Your take
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 07:06 AM
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"you're poor? get a better job" /r/wowthanksimcured/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 07:01 AM
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Good job actually raising your sons. Want to point out this line, though the younger men I know This is effectively the "global warming isnt real because it snowed today" and "world hunger isn't real because I ate today" take. If all 3 of your sons were techbro STEMlords you'd have a very different view.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:28 PM
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You strike me as being over 45, if I'm right then this doubly doesn't apply to you since you were dating before feminism and social media ruined everything
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:15 PM
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"I'm with you because it's better than being alone." Women saying this: empowering, not wanting to be settled for, you go gurl Men saying this: desperate, taking what they can get, any hole's a goal Effectively your take
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:59 PM
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If they didn't have to try while dating then they're chads and nothing said here applies to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:55 PM
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Women literally repeat that nonstop, what the absolute fuck are you talking about? "To date me you have to make my life better than if I were alone."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:42 PM
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So in order to be attractive enough to women without having to be a shithead, you have to already be married?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:31 PM
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All the men I personally know, do not have to do this stuff. What do they have to do, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:23 PM
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8 out of 10 people aged 18-24 report feeling lonely over half of days.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:06 PM
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correct, being in the top % is what defines chads as chads
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:56 PM
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But ALL women go after the same type! Stop saying this. RP doesn't claim that all women go for the same type, RP claims that all women go for the top %.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:46 PM
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Porn = free Hooker = $300/hr minimum for a decent time
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:34 PM
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There's so much you can do about it List ten things a sub 5 can do today to get measurable results.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:38 PM
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Admitting there's a problem is step zero to actually fucking fixing it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:30 PM
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That's why it's a delusional standard
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 02:20 AM
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there it is, the instant a feminist says 'entitlement' there's no point in continuing because you know the brainrot has set in too far. good luck with your sexism, feel free to reply one more time if you want the last laugh though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:21 PM
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Here's some milder examples then: Being free to own a car doesn't give you the right to speed. Being free to own a printer doesn't give you the right to print money. Being free to have a home garden doesn't give you the right to grow marijuana. what exactly are you asking of women? Stop chad chasing. Stop requiring perfection. Stop demanding every last little standard be met just because you're a woman. Be okay with dating the least attractive person you're still attracted to. Feminism and socia…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:15 PM
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Below average men are on the short end of systemic imbalances. What would you call it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:48 PM
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Freedom is a responsibility, not a right. Having the freedom to own guns doesn't give you the right to shoot people, and having the freedom to choose doesn't give you the right to reject people for an inch of height or what brand of phone they have. Yet here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:16 PM
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Feminism won 20 years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:55 PM
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Feminism: "Equality for everyone!" Also feminism: "If men can't adapt to the rules of society they deserve to be left behind. Be better." Now read that again but try replacing "men" with "black people" and see how it sounds
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:13 PM
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Ok, so if you agree the terms feminism and women are synonymous, then it was in fact feminism that upheavaled the dating world and ruined it for men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:04 PM
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be with a man who makes them miserable "My life would be miserable if I was with a man who was 5'11" instead of 6' or higher" "My life would be miserable if I was with a man who only messages 'hi' after we match" "My life would be miserable if I was with a man who used an Android instead of an iPhone" "My life would be miserable if I was with a man who was (insert zodiac sign here)"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:58 PM
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And how many women today would say "no I'm not a feminist" when asked? Feminism is team woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:43 PM
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Feminism: "Equality for everyone!" Also feminism: "Why are male issues our problem?"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 08:22 AM
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"I want a bf!" "What are you doing to get one?" "Ummm teehee nothing I guess rejecting the bottom 20% and waiting for the rest to approach." They deserve zero sympathy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 10:38 PM
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"I want a bf!" "What are you doing to get one?" "Ummm teehee nothing I guess rejecting the bottom 20% and waiting for the rest to approach." Zero fucking sympathy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 10:37 PM
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Men earning less than women, women most affected
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 10:28 PM
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If I had perfect control over my thoughts and emotions the way you're describing I'd turn myself asexual
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 10:07 PM
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I hate normies so the rp guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 08:25 AM
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k sure, so womem have dated up since forever and not just recently. This revalation changes nothing for us in the present.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 11:39 PM
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OP, apparently. This is his shitty hypothetical, not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 11:34 PM
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I'm agreeing with you that it's normal, but normal doesn't automatically mean good. In the case of the op, it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 11:29 PM
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Do you need me to literally spell out that walking through the suburbs at night is less dangerous than walking through gang territory at night? At this point you're actually intentionally missing the point, way to ruin a fun convo.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 11:26 PM
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I know you're trying to gotcha me but I don't know how. My point is literally the most basic form of cause and effect. If you don't like humidity don't move to florida. If you don't like the smell of alcohol and smoke don't go to a bar. If you don't like people trying to get with you wear more than pasties and fishnets. Not doing that isn't a guarantee, but at some point it actually is your own fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 11:13 PM
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uhuh. So it's normal in the way that being overweight in america is normal, smoking in the 50s was normal, and overprescribing opioids is normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 10:57 PM
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Car = woman Car value = attractiveness level Windows down keys in the ignition = dressing provocatively Stealing = looking, flirting, etc. 'picking' as op put it a few comments ago Compton = places with men/dangerous areas
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 10:36 PM
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Yes, extremely normal to spend your leisure time screaming at your TV, have a lucky piece of clothing you never wash, and spend every waking moment worrying about your fantasy football points. About as normal as religiously watching every upload of your favorite youtube guy. Literally a cult of personality. again, liking things is fine, but op presented it as their whole identity. See this entire sub dedicated to shitting on being that type of annoying fan of anything https://old.reddit.com/r/re…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 10:29 PM
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So if genocide is too much hate, and no hate is too little, what's the correct amount of hate for women to have towards men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 10:13 PM
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The overwhelming majority of women do not hate men that much that much lol k
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 09:14 PM
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If you leave your brand new 300k Ferrari in Compton with the windows down and the keys in the ignition you're literally asking for it to be stolen "What do the misconceptions of other people have to do with my car? Why am I responsible for their actions?" - you, probably
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 09:00 PM
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'war on christmas' energy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:46 PM
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A guy whose primary identity is "redpiller" or "antifeminist" is probably just as bad as a guy whose primary identity is "(team sport) fan" or "h3h3 watcher"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:35 PM
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nerdy, smart guys that skew alternative And what are you doing to get one of those?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:25 PM
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brother did your shift key have a stroke
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:20 PM
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You described a debate space
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:55 PM
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Go scroll twox comments for five minutes and count up how many say they'd gladly become cat ladies. For extreme easy mode count the upvotes on those comments too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:39 PM
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Women can happily live the entire rest of their lives without sex. That's what they keep saying, anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:55 PM
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lol no. Feminism is 'women first, men never' and always has been. And I can for sure prove this one; there are zero examples of feminism doing something for the benefit of men that would be inconvenient or of no benefit for women. It outright does not happen. And if men ask for it to happen the response is exactly the same every single time. "If you want that then start your own movement and do it yourself, male problems are not women's responsibility, toxic masculinity much?"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:36 PM
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Not like it's written down in the Feminist Bible(tm) but if every man became asexual overnight feminism would be celebrating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:32 PM
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That was the most charitable way I could interpret you bringing up birth rates. Feminism doesn't care about birth rates or the future of humanity or literally anything other than elevating women. Why don't you tell me where you were going with it if you want to be so stubborn about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 11:12 PM
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So feminism only tolerates male sexuality because some women want kids, is that where you're going with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:35 PM
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How do you think feminists would react if they woke up tomorrow to discover that every man on earth had become asexual overnight? The answer is 'celebrate.' If you can prove me wrong please do, since the acknowlegement of that fact is the biggest reason I'm here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:18 PM
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Feminism 101 is that male sexuality is bad unless already approved of by another woman. That includes ANY display of it, including asking someone out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:53 PM
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maybe not outright, but if everyone woke up tomorrow to discover that every man on earth had become asexual overnight, feminism would be screaming in celebration from every available rooftop.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:43 PM
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What active push? Some loud minority on social media? feminism is the majority of women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:24 PM
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which ones little thing called feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:49 PM
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Women are a monolith. How many millenial or younger weatern women do you think would say 'no I'm not a feminist' when asked?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 07:38 PM
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Wage stagnation. Inflation. Middle class shrinking. Wealth inequality. Cost of living increasing. These disproportionately affect men because women (on the low end) are still a significantly bigger portion of the stay at home parents and (on the high end) have the ability to check out of the real world and go be a sugar baby to a millionaire doctor if they're attractive enough
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 10:47 PM
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bluepillers really out here arguing that stealing is fine if you have a gf
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:46 AM
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nonsexually Nonsexually having sex? Or do you mean a nonsexual relationship? Those are called friendships and your sexuality doesn't apply. use them as a tool Are you trying to say that that a pure blooded lesbian would ride a guy just to get off? Or a straight guy would get fucked in the ass by a bear just to get off?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:46 AM
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Dildos are tools, dumb fuck. If that's unironically your takeaway from my comment then I hope you have covid or something cause that would at least explain the brain damage.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:55 PM
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Having high standards is the same as a gambler justifying their addiction. Doesn't matter how far ahead or behind you are, nothing is ever good enough because the next spin swipe will hit the ultra billions jackpot be a top .01% chad willing to commit. Anything less than that is settling, which is abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:43 PM
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If a tree falls and nobody hears it does it make a sound? If you're sexually attracted but don't have sex are you really sexually attracted? If you're not sexually attracted but have sex anyway are you really not sexually attracted? For all intents and purposes, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:32 PM
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What are shy guys doing to attract shy girls? Online dating. Theoretically the ideal place for it as all the normies are asking eachother out on social media and irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:27 PM
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Sexual attraction only matters in terms of sex. If you want sex and m or if is acceptable, or one isn't acceptable, then guess what. That's your orientation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:04 PM
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I'm going to assume you're female. Male brain works by "is this acceptable? yes? alright then." Women need perfection and a spark so acceptable isn't good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:29 PM
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If someone isn't repulsed by one then they're bi.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:18 PM
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Sex is affection manifested.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:14 PM
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Sex and relationships are the closest thing to a true free market the world will ever get, where the only value of anything is exactly what someone is willing to give up for it. No more no less.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:28 PM
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Personality isn't the same as charisma. Literally any personality can be successful with enough charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:23 PM
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So is "being a househusband" valuable in a relationship or is "getting poorer people to pay our bills" valuable in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:10 PM
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lol no. An attractive personality is like an attractive face, be born with it or don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:02 PM
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It's not a skill. Every person is different so socialising is more like throwing dice than practicing a skill. That can't be learned, charisma is innate. But that's beside the point, because making friends only gets you friends, not dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:44 PM
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Chad with glasses
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:36 PM
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Possible != helpful. Would you tell someone who's struggling to find a job 'just do some networking bro'? Probably yes, knowing bluepillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:34 PM
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Go out, get friends Throw therapy in there and you have the bootstraps trifecta
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:09 PM
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I might be able to actually help them your romantic life is doomed Can't make this shit up
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 06:56 PM
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Not op but affection (eg sex) is the only thing that separates a relationship from a friend or roommate
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 06:37 PM
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"I prefer shy quiet guys" "What are you doing to attract one?" "Ummm teehee nothing I guess waiting for one to approach me"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 06:32 PM
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Dating and relationships are the closest the world will ever get to a true free market.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 03:39 PM
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Humans are 40% accurate when determining if they're being flirted with
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:28 PM
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Most women I’d say have a policy of not dating men they’re not actually attracted to. Extremely wrong. Most women have a policy of "the best I can get, nothing less." Going for the least attractive person she still finds attractive is not an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:23 PM
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Cats. Women don't settle any more.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:19 PM
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If she made enough that I didn't have to work I'd do basically everything in my power to keep that relationship. That is literally the most value anyone can bring to a relationship so I'd be absolutely all in. If I'm making average wage and she makes 30k more then whatever. She'd use her money on my happiness and I'd use mine on hers with equitable contributions to bills and stuff.That's my realistically ideal relationship right there regardless of who makes more.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:51 AM
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I'm not happy it's happening, it's just a logical consequence of feminism and their 'women first, men never' attitude being the sole arbiter of social change for the past 20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 09:14 PM
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I'm really curious what on earth I'll feap and what I dared to sow. You already have. How many school shootings have you seen on the news? We're up to 271 of them this year, there's bound to have been a couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:35 PM
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this but unironically
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:14 PM
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Fine by me. I never believed in afbb, these days it seems more like 'alpha fucks, beta kills themselves after no human touch for 35 years'
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:09 PM
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Millennial and younger women don't settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:55 PM
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"Wow you're really good at brick laying, that's super hot." -zero people in the entire history of humanity
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:50 PM
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Dating is a free market. In that system the only value of anything is what someone is willing to give up for it. The more standards women are willing to give up in order to be with a man, the higher his value. If you need to be perfect you're low value. If you only have to exist you're high value. There is no other definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:37 PM
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Under 1/3 of autists ever have a relationship. 5% get married. At what point does it stop being 'learned' helplessness and start being 'actual' helplessness.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:26 PM
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Also my point. If/when synths do exist (unless they're brain uploads or something) they'll effectively be schrodinger's sapients, being machines when convenient and people otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 06:57 PM
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If it can choose to leave it wouldn't be a machine any more, it'd be a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 06:01 PM
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Correct, being a feminist is the default state for women. Women first and men never is the default state of feminism. What's that say about the average woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:52 PM
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yeah lemme just teleport to party land where parties grow on party trees. if you're socially retarded then you aren't finding or getting invited to anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:05 PM
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Whoever cares the least about a relationship has all the power. The only way woman cares more than the man is if he's a top % chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:52 PM
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Most are lost causes before they make it here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:44 PM
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assume that everyone has the same kind of mentality in regards to love and sex What % of western 18-30 year old women do you think would say "no I'm not a feminist" when asked?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:39 PM
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It's impossible to control women's behaviour in a relationship because 99% of the time women hold all the power in a relationship. It's shitty but not manipulation. If you don't lie on your resume you will always lose out to the person who does.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:27 PM
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Racial injustice is worse, but systemic inequality is systemic inequality. It doesn't have to be the worst to be a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 10:16 PM
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If you aren't a woman then why are you fighting women's battles for them? They'd never do the same for you. Look at Japan or South Korea instead if you want. They're both on a speeding train to over 50% of their younger generations becoming miserable world-hating incels. And I bet you think they were born that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:50 PM
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uhuh, so you just repeated yourself and go "lol u wrong." Peak woman moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:30 PM
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That's the worst argument I think I've ever heard in my entire life. "I stole $100 from you but it's fine! It's not like it was your life's savings or anything, get over it :)"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:14 PM
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What percentage of celibacy will it take for you to understand that there's systemic problems? We're already past 40, are you holding out for 60? 100? At what percentage of black people in prisons/poverty did it take for you to realize there were systemic problems? How big did the wage gap have to get? How many prescription painkiller overdoses, teen pregnancies, dollars in medical or credit card debt? You obviously just hate men, so I'm willing to bet you're unironically holding out for 100% ce…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:09 PM
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There doesn't need to be an "instruction manual" for severe systemic problems to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:26 PM
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So the only way getting screwed over isn't your fault is if your life gets ruined?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:16 PM
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just date and fuck who you want and not worry about others' opinions I see, how do you feel about passport bros and 40 year age gaps with teenagers then?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:59 PM
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lol ok. Let's take your argument to its logical conclusion, then. "Ban abortion, if you fuck up your life by getting pregnant it's your own fault." "Keep for profit prisons, if you fuck up your life by getting caught with weed it's your own fault." "Deregulate gambling, if you fuck up your life by losing everything it's your own fault." "Keep healthcare the way it is, if you fuck up your life by not washing your hands and getting sick it's your own fault." "Let's decriminalize and encourage scam…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:43 PM
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uhuh. How do you feel about women exploiting simps for money etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:41 AM
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If a woman is perfectly content with living her entire life in the fuck zone then I can't stop her. As long as she doesn't start bitching when she fails to get him to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:34 AM
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Did you escape from twox?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:31 AM
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If you really care that much about making men other than the one you're currently dating happy then the answer is to date within your league.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:30 AM
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It's only settling if you believe that you're entitled to more.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:46 PM
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ok? So what am I supposed to conclude from this, you won't date an autist in the future because other men will make fun of you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:39 PM
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Feminism: "Women deserve all the freedom and empowerment in the world to do what they want with their sex lives!" Also feminism: your comment
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:43 PM
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When men say "lower your standards" what they really mean is "stop chad chasing" and "be okay with dating the least attractive person that you're still attracted to." Women today are told that they deserve every standard to be met just by virtue of being women and that shirking on even one is settling and may as well be abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:39 PM
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Other countries
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:20 PM
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By your logic, showering is a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:05 PM
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Yes, in a perfect world the overlap between people who can get the job and the people who can do the job is 100%. We don't live in a perfect world.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:40 AM
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The reward for honesty is poverty. If you don't lie on your resume then you obviously don't want it enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:55 PM
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Do you think both genders are sexually liberated rn? lol no. Feminism tried their asses off to sexually liberate women and succeeded, now they can go fuck around and live their lives in a ho phase if they want. The male equivent of sexual liberation is a 60 year old dating an 18 year old or passport broing, which women hardcore shame men for still. Liberation goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:10 PM
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My smv/rmv value is zero and I go on dates I don't think you know what 'zero' means.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:21 PM
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You don't care that they're losers, you care that they're trying so hard and effort is unattractive. WAAC.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:40 PM
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Obviously it's easier to be attractive enough for one night than to be attractive enough forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:15 AM
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If it's a first date, nobody's in the wrong. If it's a relationship, the woman is in the wrong. If it's not a relationship at all, he's a simp. If it's a relationship and he knows the imbalance but stays anyway for a long period of time hoping it'll change, he's a straight moron.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:41 PM
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Make it make sense. When women intentionally take advantage of trad expectations by accepting all the value the man brings to the relationship and giving none back she is 100% in the wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:04 AM
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ok, $50 and then what? You walk in and hang out?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 07:51 PM
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It's a discussion. If you were done discussing then don't reply. If you aren't done discussing, discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:08 PM
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For real, the shit I’ve seen dudes do for Stacy Simping, this is called simping. It never works.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 04:36 PM
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you sure do like those one word answers, really are a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 04:26 PM
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Link and link. I aint gonna dox myself but all the rest in my city say something like 'call this number for info' or 'discussed at the door' aka if you have to ask you can't afford it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 04:20 PM
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"Average men can be desirable if they're above average." huh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 07:52 AM
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Body positivity was always about shaming men. The movement started in the mid 2000s tumblr era of feminism, which was exclusively about putting men down.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 07:47 AM
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All the scenes near me charge $500 at the door to men, women get in free.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 07:34 AM
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You're the woman that RP tells men to hunt for.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:47 PM
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Because women hate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:46 PM
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Feminism tried very hard to upheaval all of the established social rules surrounding relationships. Age gaps and passport bros are the result, that shit goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:39 PM
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If it really was a parasite then getting an abortion would be no more emotional than getting your hair cut.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:04 PM
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Women have their guard up to 100% whenever a man talks with them. When talking with other women it's more like 10-15% up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:01 PM
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Yes, and it's sad and disappointing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:30 PM
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I'm on team women with this one. The solution to 90% of women's dating problems is to pick better. But it's not only picking better, it's vetting for longer. For the type of relationship I want this is the ideal way to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:50 PM
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More like receiving unshakable proof that you as a man are never valued for who you are but only for what you can do for her is sad and disappointing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:02 PM
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An ever increasing number of men are being forced to explore their sexuality entirely through the lens of porn. Women want all men to be asexual unless pre-approved by another woman so this is seen as bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 10:32 PM
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if OP had phrased it as "I fucking hate men they make me so uncomfortable" I wouldn't have listened to him either
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 11:15 PM
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is your take really, unironically "incels don't exist because they can fuck animals"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 09:52 PM
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Being gay isn't a choice, lowering your standards is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 04:35 PM
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You wouldn't recognize it as chad chasing because it's literally the default state for single women nowadays. Let me put it another way; how many women do you know who would be okay with dating the least attractive person that they still found attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 04:38 AM
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aight. Chad chasing is a post-feminism phenomenon so I guess you wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:00 AM
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Amazing how we can read the exact same words but only you come to the wrong conclusion. Makes sense that you would side with the one whose every standard is a requirement and who calls all men culturally lazy, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 11:33 PM
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The title of the article: "Women are struggling to find men who make as much money as they do" So you didn't read it, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 11:17 PM
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ok, so when you say "we don't go for richer men" that was a blatant fucking lie. Very cool, thanks for clearing that one up. Either that or you completely missed the point because in your eyes men are always the enemy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 11:08 PM
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Did you even read the article? It's all about rich women whining that there aren't enough richer men to go around, because none of them want to date a less successful man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 11:03 PM
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Uhuh. What initially attracted you to your current partner enough to agree to a date? Bonus question, how old are you? I'm getting early 40s vibes, since it seems like your relationship views are plucked from 20 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:57 PM
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Honestly, we don't. "There are shortages of economically attractive men"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:50 PM
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Some women prefer older men. Chad in his 30s. Some women are cougars. Chad who's into milfs. We all have different ideas of what celebrities are attractive. Chad with global fame.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:41 PM
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The dating market is majority men, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 09:07 PM
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That's what passport bros do. OLD isn't a different market, it's a storefront.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 07:38 PM
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Yes it is. OLD is the closest we'll ever get to an honest to god free market, where the only value of anything is what someone is willing to give up for it. The market has decided that personality doesn't matter, if it did then the market would value it higher. If the market universally agrees that your value is nothing, what does that make your value?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 05:45 PM
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actionable advice on how to be passive complete oxymoron
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 05:31 PM
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k. I'm pretty sure you're some kind of bot that got trained exclusively on twox posts, absolutely no fun to debate with. good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 08:38 PM
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It has nothing to do with that and everything to do with women treating dating like a slot machine. Never stopping when they're ahead on a perfectly good partner because the next spin swipe will hit the jackpot be mr. perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:28 PM
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Fixing modern dating in 2 easy steps Women, stop chad chasing. Be ok with dating the least attractive person that you're still attracted to. Men, stop simping. Have some self respect by not putting pussy above all else.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 10:31 PM
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"In this world, you can either do things the easy way or the right way. You take a boat from here to New York, you gonna go around the horn like a gentleman or cut through the Panama Canal like some kind of democrat?" -you but unironically
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:55 PM
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Dating for men is like job hunting, dating for women is like shopping.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 07:52 PM
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An attractive personality is like an attractive face. Be born with it or don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 07:19 PM
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Stop calling it social skills. Skills can be learned, charisma is innate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 06:27 PM
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You'd be surprised, simp baiting is at least 50% of onlyfans and at least 80% of adult streaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 06:33 AM
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Ok then I'm a hot girl and I'll prove it to you with nudes and all I need is $500 in amazon gift cards to go to America and fuck you. If you fall for it you aren't a victim so dw.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:07 PM
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Correct. Adult men donating to ""sex workers"" who explicitly trick them into thinking they have a chance of getting with her are victims. It's one step removed of those russian mail order bride scams.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:05 PM
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"I could kick you in the balls or I could not. Your call." This is a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 10:54 PM
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It really is that easy to bait you, huh? One question is all it takes for you to start victim blaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 09:55 PM
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All sex work isn't created equal, a good 2/3 of what people call sex work is really just simp baiting. And yes, simp baiting is shame worthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 07:29 PM
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Women don't outright say that they want all men to be asexual, but if every man woke up tomorrow and was asexual they'd all celebrate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 07:26 PM
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Soap and deodorant. Pick someone who uses it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 07:34 PM
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Because if men had "must have x bust size minimum" as a steadfast requirement everyone would correctly ridicule him. Having preferences is one thing, but when every preference is a requirement (as is the case for modern women) then you deserve to get called out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 07:16 PM
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Plus for me things like scent are also important for my attraction Add "must have the correct natural smell" to women's list of ridiculous requirements.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:31 PM
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It doesn't depend on mood, being hetero is straight up a curse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 05:10 PM
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Read: "All men should just be asexual"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 04:25 PM
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Doesn't matter at all? Not even one bit? Absolutely not, because any personality can be attractive with enough charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 03:02 PM
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unless she's completely phoning it in for free food then she's obviously into you if she's repeatedly agreeing to go on dates
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 02:56 PM
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everyone knows the grapefruit method is where it's at
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 02:51 PM
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"Approaching in person is creepy." Read: "Men should all be asexual."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:02 PM
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Title question: Go back in time and prevent feminism from wrecking it in the first place. Post question: Give young men (starting at 15, minimum) real, actionable advice on dating so that there's less of a chance that they irrecoverably fuck up learning it on their own, which is how people become incels and Tate shills.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 07:55 PM
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$300 an hour minimum for a quality time. I have about a hundred better things to spend my money on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 07:52 PM
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Point to the exact chain of words I said that makes you think I'm even remotely talking about legislating desire. The point of a government dating app is about incentives; a dating app run by a for profit company only cares about short term profit maximization and nothing else, the government would want the happiness and continued reproduction of their population. Japan is on a speeding train to over half the younger population being miserable world-hating incels, you think those people make goo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 10:05 PM
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It was entirely for your own benefit for learning and to get me to pay you if you succeed. But whatever, stay clueless and poor and keep going "lol no i'm right i win byebye" if you're so happy doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 09:57 PM
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And if you really don't want to, someone else did it for you and condensed it into a zoomer-friendly 15 minute video https://youtu.be/DZTIbHIsIYw
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 08:22 PM
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Backing out of reality would mean suicide. Lots of people take that route, but I've made it in nearly every other area of life so I'm good. And I don't mean 'get me a date lol', it's just an experiment to show you how truly worthless an average man really is. The opposite of chadfishing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 08:04 PM
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Damn, are you really trying to hit me with the 'no u'? Been a while. Not sure what to tell you other than you're just clueless about how male dating works. I'll even give you some incentive to understand, I'll dm you my professionally taken photographs and if you can get a woman to agree to a date using them on any old platform I'll paypal you $100.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 07:12 PM
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lol what? Men are hardcore shamed for every single aspect of their sexuality by women unless they see another woman (gf etc) approving of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 06:16 PM
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If you actually read the whole thing instead of cherrypicked you'd know that men rated as average by women are already in the top minority. Pretty close to exactly 20%, actually
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 06:08 PM
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Go ahead and prove it wrong then if you're so confident
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 04:50 PM
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It absolutely can be proven. Red/blackpill boards circulate foreveralonewomen posts all the time of people there talking about how sex is a need (something I know you'd take issue with if a man said it) and how unfair it all is and how something needs to be done. My solution. If I was supreme dictator of the world, ban all social media and make a government dating app. What I actually expect to happen is that we'll eventually reach a critical mass and then some wacky shit will happen, see Japan …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 04:41 PM
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Give women a few generations to work out the kinks and figure out what they need, ffs. They already know; the top % of guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 03:16 PM
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Why are you getting so hung up on the exact percentages? Change it to 'a small minority' and the point is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 03:04 PM
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If it were reversed and women were the ones being screwed over your tone would change. But you genuinely do not care about men so here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 02:56 PM
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Tumblr is a dead site, first of all. The subreddit tumblrinaction summed it up pretty nicely if you can find archives, since it was banned. Here's an article talking about how that era was when feminism turned from activism into a brand and eventually into the default for women https://www.vice.com/en/article/ywaabw/vagenda-babenet-metoo-2010s-internet-feminism Here's one talking generally about the online environment then and feminism's place in it https://alicecorner.medium.com/the-problem-wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 04:59 PM
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anywhere else except online
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 02:05 PM
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Mid-late 2000s online feminism was all about it, think the peak of Tumblr. It about lines up with when most of the terminally online millennials were reaching sexual maturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 02:03 PM
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Ok, I'll give it a try as soon as I meet one single woman who does the same for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 02:58 PM
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I agree that men and women have shitty expectations and that feminism is purported to be the solution. When is it actually going to start doing any of those things for men though, because so far it hasn't, and whenever anyone asks it to it always replies "yikes sweaty, why do you always expect women to do things for you? toxic much?"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 03:27 AM
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Ok, so when you say "We've spent decades trying to help them" that's just a fucking lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 03:24 AM
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We've spent decades trying to help them. Name one thing that feminism has done explicitly for the benefit of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 10:59 PM
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🙄 No one is "actively lying" to men. Personality does matter. Being authentic does matter. And so do looks. Feminism has been screeching for literally 20 years that looks don't matter. Only now has the gaslighting slowed down. Except it hasn't, because now the paradigm has shifted into gaslighting men about how they actually haven't been told that looks don't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 10:55 PM
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Ugly enough to ruin his social + love life and get plastic surgery
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:18 PM
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it's a youtube video, not like it's gonna be goatse. It's called "being ugly: my experience", 20 minutes about how this ugly guy got abused by everyone around him and found a gf who made him walk 6 paces behind him in public, called him ugly every day, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 10:50 PM
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https://youtu.be/1n5nOEJtrYA I'm sure you've also seen the black ops 2 guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 10:40 PM
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If you're attractive but it doesn't get you anywhere, are you really attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 03:18 PM
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shy, introverted, quirky etc these are all social death sentences wtf are you saying
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 03:10 PM
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Yet so many women are. Congrats on beating your hetero curse.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:10 PM
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social skills Skills can be learned, charisma is innate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 05:00 PM
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Because nothing done on an individual level will change anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 06:35 AM
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You really, unironically have a twitter post as your source?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:27 AM
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When the solution is to wish upon a star for people to be better then the problem is systemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:38 PM
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Prove me wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:20 PM
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but because it aligns with their values I’m not going to let myself get manipulated because of a guy’s attractiveness Unless he's attractive enough. Unattractive men can get laid if they wanted to, That's literally what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:40 PM
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Nothing anyone says on this sub has anything to do with non straight dating. I've seen both and lgb etc dating is borderline cartoonish compared to straight dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:52 PM
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For the top 15-20% women approach them, are willing to compromise their standards for them, don't make them wait for sex, and in general make it as easy as possible for them to get what they want out of her. Average men still have a chance but have to fight tooth and nail every step of the way, and increasingly aren't finding the effort worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:43 PM
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If a guy is a chad all it means is that he's in the top 15-20% smv of all guys. That's it. Any variations are allowed as long as the one criteria is met.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 03:41 PM
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I'm into nerdy men Chad with glasses older 30 year old Chad skinny artsy guys Chad who paints regardless of height Chad that isn't 6'
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 03:24 PM
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I can wear my purple scarf in public without getting jumped. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:27 AM
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literally invisible Extremely wrong. All women are immediately given an SMV on sight by men. Men have to stand out, work for, and earn the right to be ranked. Even if they receive a bad rating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 05:36 AM
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To compensate, he was a chill dude, didn't spit game, none of that nonsense charismatic ftfy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:07 PM
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Speeding train to an over 50% autism rate
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 06:30 PM
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Yeah. Know what they call a good chiropractor? A physical therapist. Know what they call a good psychiatrist? Lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 06:05 PM
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Because therapists are just as bad as chiropractors but it's only acceptable to hate one of them because muh mental health
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 05:59 PM
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How you doin'?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 02:07 AM
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A list of 2 requirements vs a list of 150,000 requirements. Also 'less shallow' doesn't mean 'not shallow'
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 06:22 PM
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become funny/charismatic An attractive personality is like an attractive face, you have to be born with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 05:49 AM
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Prisoner's dilemma. Everyone has to collectively work against their own interests and enough defectors collapse the whole thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 06:51 AM
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I see lots of women with men This isn't the sick own you think it is. You're obviously a woman, meaning the majority of men are invisible to you. Your "everyday man" is a very small top percentage.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 10:55 PM
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Relationships and by extension your appearance are the purest form of the free market there is. In that system the only measure of value that matters (or exists at all, for that matter) is what other people say your value is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 11:54 PM
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Actually I understand why guys that date like that are miserable You got dates, so you don't understand
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 08:13 PM
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I just look at the girl and go “where are her guts?” Because she’s so skinny there's a real term for this, it's "who needs organs"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 04:31 PM
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As a man, dating is like a job interview. You'd never tell your employer you're autistic
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 06:56 AM
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Charisma > looks always, that's how. Unfortunately the story is the same either way, you have to be born with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 06:53 AM
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fyi you're asking reddit how to seduce women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 06:50 AM
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It's not an increase in the freedom of choice, it's a removal of all the rules of dating and making it a complete free for all. Who benefits in a dating/sexual free for all? Top 5% men and average women. Who removed all the rules? Women, via feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 09:28 PM
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Manhood isn't a burden, heterosexuality is a burden. Asking blackpillers to choose I'd estimate 90% of them would prefer to be ace over being a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 09:24 PM
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I have a preference for submissive and subservient men. What steps are you taking to get one?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 09:16 PM
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Vet longer and harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 09:06 PM
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Because looking may as well be sexual assault in 2023. Male sexuality is universally accepted to be a bad thing. Thanks feminism 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 10:40 PM
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Okay, so you're absolutely all in on the "just world" where worthy people get exactly what they deserve and anything else is a literal impossibility to the point where you can't even answer a hypothetical. Neat.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 10:37 PM
2

Not talking about a self evaluation. If you see someone who objectively meets those standards but is still alone, how would your worldview explain that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 10:26 PM
2

Being emotionally mature, being self aware, and self sufficient as an adult? being able to take accountability & communicating effectively? What would you say to a guy who meets all these standards and is still alone
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 10:13 PM
5

"I like shy quiet guys!" "What are you doing to find one?" "Umm teehee nothing I guess waiting for one to approach me." "Uhuh"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 10:11 PM
1

He specifically said that he was approached regularly, that only happens if something about you is extraordinary. Lots of people can date but only the top percentage get approached. Plus he literally said one comment later that he had a great physique.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 09:43 PM
1

Charisma has nothing to do with personality, charisma is all about how forceful and impactful your personality is. Any personality can be successful with enough charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 09:41 PM
1

Oh holy fuck you're right, I almost forgot that nothing ever happens as long as you specifically don't believe that it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 07:15 AM
0

No shit, nobody was disputing that. Except having an attractive personality is like having an attractive face, you have to be born with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 07:13 AM
-1

kay you clearly just want to talk about yourself and nothing else, gl
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 11:40 PM
6

Uhuh. So approaching isn't technically required in the same way bathing isn't technically required.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 11:07 PM
-4

Either you're severely undervaluing your appearance, or you're in the top 10-20% in something else you aren't telling us that makes you extraordinary enough to be approached. Probably charisma, if I had to guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 11:02 PM
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I had numerous girls hit me up. I’m not even good looking. Two incompatible statements
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 10:50 PM
1

Fixing it would need both sides to individually go against their own interests. Women ask men out, facing rejection and giving up all of their leverage, men stop asking women out, facing perpetual loneliness and sexlessness. It's a prisoner's dilemma and will never change without some kind of revolution/upheaval of the whole thing at once. And good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 10:48 PM
5

And then die alone!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 10:44 PM
2

The closest equivalent to this is boomers telling millennials 'just be confident go to college and get a degree, you'll easily find love get a good job that will make loads of money'. Only after graduating do you realize that they were absolutely, dead fucking wrong and your only value to anyone is your looks money charisma status work experience. Wouldn't you be pissed? If not, do you at least understand why all the $120k liberal arts degree holders might be pissed?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 10:30 PM
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RP is about taking your turn in line and moving on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 11:43 PM
1

Sometimes the victim is at fault. "I left my brand new 400k lambo in Compton with the windows down and the keys in the ignition and I can't believe it got stolen." "You're a fucking idiot." "Wowzers, victim blaming much? Stop being so morally reprehensible." Why's it different with relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 06:28 PM
2

All thanks to feminism 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 03:40 PM
2

At what point does "you're doing it wrong" stop and "you're fundamentally wrong" begin
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 12:12 AM
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Dating for men is a job interview. Would you ever admit to your employer that you're depressed or autistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 12:02 AM
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what would you say to people who are generally happy and content with all areas of their life except romantically?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 10:52 PM
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more like "gaslight yourself into thinking your happiness is elsewhere"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 10:26 PM
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tl;dr if you can't have things you shouldn't want things
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 09:34 PM
1

I don't care because I'm neither and have no skin in the game. Everyone should always do what they want as long as it doesn't screw anyone over and they aren't an insufferable asshole about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 10:41 PM
1

Ok, there shouldn't be any shame or consequence for that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 09:04 PM
0

So you're saying that more people would be perfectly okay with a 40 year age gap if they were 100% sure no manipulation was involved? I don't buy that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 08:53 PM
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Because they aren't different, both are consentual and lawful relationships. You can't say one is okay and not the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 08:49 PM
1

I don't want or expect one side to be better, I want them to be the same. Should the way people engage with relationships be shamed or not? One side definitively says 'no' for women advantaged relationships but 'yes' for male advantaged relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 08:45 PM
-1

Both are currently shamed, but that isn't the point. With how hard 'slut shaming bad' is being pushed, a 40 year age gap should be viewed the same way being a slut is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 08:42 PM
-1

And a girl fucking her 401st guy isn't doing it because they're a good match, she's doing it for easy sex. Same reasoning as the 60 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 08:33 PM
1

"Uhm, excuse me, I'm poor, not ugly" -poor women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:40 PM
8

"you can't be racist against whites" energy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:35 PM
2

As a straight man you're biologically hardwired to be disgusted by sex with a man. This take is implying that average women are biologically hardwired to be disgusted by sex with an average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 10:06 PM
1

Classic shitheaded take. You really believe that 'effort' is a panacea and anything is achievable if you try reeeeeal hard. Meanwhile women (yes, all women) have repeatedly demonstrated that the worst thing a man can do it not know his place at the bottom.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 10:02 PM
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Never. Bothering women may as well be abuse and if you view them in any sexual capacity then you deserve castration. According to the majority of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:09 PM
3

Calling it 'social skills' is dead wrong because skills can be learned. Charisma can't be learned, it's innate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:00 AM
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Attractive personality is like an attractive face, you need to be born with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:04 PM
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1, 3, and half of two have to do with charisma. An attractive personality is like an attractive face, it's something you're born with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 02:56 PM
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we mean go to spaces where women might also be welcome and interested lmao no you don't, if this convo was about anything else you'd say that joining a hobby only to meet women makes you a desperate loser, then something along the lines of "women can tell when you're just trying to get with them."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 02:54 PM
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Going by your logic everyone who attends school who isn't a complete outcast would have easy access to dates. That's not the case so there must be other factors. What could those other factors be, do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:13 AM
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Not necessarily saying that it's a power, just that it's a privilege. Approaching sucks, it's why women (even those who would be better off approaching) don't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 08:16 PM
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In that context "don't be a stranger" means "be Chad" and you know it. If I asked you to describe what it means to not be a stranger and pressed just a little bit you'd just describe a chad. Then yes, no shit women would express interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:50 PM
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You only don't think there's rules for dating because you're a woman and just have to exist. Some rules for men, in no particular order and by no means complete; If you see a woman you're interested in talk to her within 3 seconds, otherwise you'll start to overthink Have a roughly laid out plan before even meeting anyone; what will your first line be, what will you say/do if she has x reaction If your intent is to date, talk with them for the sole purpose of finding out if you'd like to get to …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:46 PM
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Growing up none of my male role models thought it was important to teach me how to date. Even a five minute conversation that boiled down to "go ask her out" would have really helped but was beyond them. I was ahead of the curve on being online a lot, and at the time (mid-late 2000s) it seemed like every woman online was a hardcore radfem. Lots of unironic "men are trash, kill all men" people which was obviously BS, but also a lot more dangerous rhetoric like "only assholes approach women" "maki…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:59 PM
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When was the last time you saw a woman approach a man in the same way men approach women, talking with him for the sole purpose of asking him out and then asking in a direct way? For hard mode, tell me the last time that happened when the man wasn't in the top 10-20%.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:41 PM
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Women don't want strange men. There's only one type of man women want enough for them to approach, and I think you know what type that is. Being a stranger has nothing to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:36 PM
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It was John Feminist, CEO of feminism. Wtf kind of question is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:28 PM
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You're a gatekeeper. Men knock on the door and you decide whether or not to let them in. Even when women ""approach"" they don't really, all they do is leave the gate wide open and signal a man through. Your metaphorical gate is the only tool women have in this regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:24 PM
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I can already tell you're wrong because feminism has directly impacted my dating prospects. You're doubly wrong because feminism also started the recent sexual liberation. Nobody but feminists were mad about slut shaming, and now because of them it's a sexual free for all where the divide between the haves and have-nots is getting bigger and bigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:14 PM
1

None of that is actionable because bluepill has no answers to someone who checks all those boxes but is still alone. Other than 'daw keep trying you'll maybe be successful eventually.'
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 07:19 AM
1

You only think so because feminism hasn't had a meaningful negative impact on your dating prospects.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 07:01 AM
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Yes it is, but it's because we're living in a world of ever increasingly solo and gender segregated hobbies. Remember we're talking about introverts here, even the most psychopathic introvert wouldn't ever find talking to someone fun. They do it because they have to. Also very telling that you've completely dropped the feminist portion of the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:40 PM
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Feminism blames men for everything, are you high? They also only don't care about male happiness so long as it doesn't involve women, when it does they instantly start screeching about entitlement. And I didn't say it was a good strategy for introverted men, I said it was the only strategy if OLD fails.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:23 PM
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Feminism has everything to do it. They want men to know their place at the bottom and never approach (in any context, not just the grocery store or whatever) without addressing the problem that the overwhelming vast majority of women never approach and never give clear signals. It absolutely sucks that people have to be uncomfortable, including introverted men who are forced to approach, but the reward for not shooting your shot is being alone forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:25 PM
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It's only a 'bully attitude' if you're doing it maliciously or don't take no for an answer. When you enter an interaction with that mentality the point isn't to stick it to whoever you're talking to, the point is to stick it to the feminists who made this social rule for the explicit purpose of keeping men down.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:28 PM
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Feminism has been saying for years that only assholes approach women. You don't want to be an asshole, so you don't approach women. Now only assholes approach women. This rhetoric has brainwashed everyone millenial and younger. Fuck them. Talk to who you want, nobody owes anyone else the absence of discomfort. Just have the enough self respect to go away when they make it clear that they think you're a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 07:46 AM
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You'll have to explain how you got to that conclusion. The end result is still 'no sex' regardless of if the woman says no or chad says no.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 05:06 PM
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The solution could also be for women to stop chasing chads for ONSes, but because we live in a sexually liberated world where the only rules are 'do what you want' then neither are ever going to happen. And as long as that remains the case then the divide between the haves and have-nots will only get bigger, and nothing will be fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 04:44 PM
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Then men should give their bodies to people they aren’t attracted to. Report back and let us know how “fair” that is. This is you two comments ago. Men do give their bodies to people they aren't attracted to. I'm reporting back that it isn't fair because women don't do the same. That's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 04:37 PM
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I don't give a fuck about body count, do what you want. Just saying that men do frequently give their bodies to people they aren't attracted to while women never (or are at least pressured never to) do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 04:28 PM
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It's common enough to have a term for it; charity dick. Every 8/10+ man who goes for ONSes has done it, usually when a fat girl has misleading pictures. You think a woman would ever do the same thing for an ugly guy? lol, nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 04:07 PM
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Nobody would. Is that the gotcha moment you were looking for? Feminism has lied to you your whole life about personality, accept it and carry on with that knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:36 PM
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referencing the redpill adage "dating for men is like a job interview, dating for women is like shopping"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 08:41 PM
1

I think you replied to the wrong person
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 08:13 PM
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"A lack of awareness is unattractive" or in other words "know your place you fucking subhuman."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 07:45 AM
2

None of these questions matter because you obviously think that giving up is never okay. Fell for the old relationship bootstraps meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:36 AM
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Voice and body, that's it. I know because those are the only two thresholds to cross for me to date a tgirl.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 11:55 PM
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I barely trust google assistant to set a fucking timer, why would I trust one with my dick and balls?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 11:51 PM
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In the time it took you to type that you could have installed tinder, taken one selfie, and gotten at least 2 matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 12:11 AM
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It takes a phone and 5 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 03:45 PM
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Men evolved to be bigger and stronger to Gonna stop you there. Evolution doesn't have an end goal, genes that can propagate do and the result is what it is. that were competition There's the rub. In your ideal neolithic fighter-less society, how does your tribe handle resource scarcity? Just fucking die? When 'just fucking die' is the answer, your species has failed and ceases to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:29 PM
2

"Barely attractive" is the wrong way of putting it, try "attractive enough." Men's looks criteria is "is this woman attractive enough" and women's looks criteria is "is this man the best that I can feasibly get to commit"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:25 PM
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That aint it at all. The entire problem is that women aren't ok with dating the least attractive man that they're still attracted to, always demanding mr. perfect and anything less is settling. Unlike other men who are totally fine with dating the least attractive woman they're still attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:14 PM
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with women who are mutually attracted there's the rub, isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:07 PM
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Yes. I'm not saying physically ugly guys don't get relationships, they just make up for it by having an attractive personality instead of an attractive body. Both of which you're born with and only have a very limited ability to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 03:01 PM
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Self acceptance doesn't mean fuck all to anyone but yourself. Finding a relationship isn't about yourself, it's about the person you're trying to attract. If you really, unironically think that 'being at peace with yourself' is going to have even the smallest amount of impact on someone's initial attraction towards you then you're probably the most delusional person in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:11 AM
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Confidence in your own being. Accepting who you are. Being at peace with yourself. Literally none of this matters and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 07:43 AM
2

When women try to set each other up with a guy the very first thing out of their mouth is "What does he do?" That's status and wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 07:37 AM
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You see plenty of highly unattractive men get women Completely fucking wrong, attractive personalities are just harder to spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 07:34 AM
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A major part of 'being a man' is the proper direction of anger. Getting mad at someone is sometimes the correct response, sometimes it isn't. If someone gets annoyed by a dead remote, a correct direction would be "fuck this fucking thing" and a wrong direction would be "fuck this remote and fuck you". Everyone gets angry. There's a difference between being angry in your presence and being angry at you. If you can't tell that difference and whether or not it's directed properly, that's a you prob…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 09:34 AM
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By going "I never engage with anger" you're effectively saying "my feelings about your anger override your anger" aka "my emotions are more important than yours"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 09:13 AM
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Bad take. It's obvious that you value your reaction to your partner's emotions way more highly than you value their actual emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 09:05 AM
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Enlighten the class what the 'correct' way to express anger is, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:49 AM
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Unlucky that personality doesn't matter 80% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 08:10 AM
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Working out is the one exception because it's seen as manly. Every other display of effort from men is an ick for women. Even think of yoga, which is basically working out but is disgustingly unattractive. Other examples: men wearing makeup, doing positive affirmations, peacocking, going to therapy. And here's a big one for you. It's a pretty common sentiment among women that asking what she likes in bed is a turn off. The only possible reason for that would be it comes off as trying too hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 08:44 PM
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It's not about getting more, it's about happiness. Women in general need external validation to be happy. Men's happiness is determined almost entirely by their success. Body positivity won't affect men's happiness because it won't affect their success.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 08:00 PM
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Men will never have a body positivity movement because it won't change anything for them. No other reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 09:24 AM
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Kind and empathetic people aren't attractive, attractive kind and empathetic people are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 09:10 AM
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"be yourself" aka "be a natural, effort is bad"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 09:06 AM
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so only natural-born chads should be allowed, anyone who has to work for it doesn't deserve it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 09:04 AM
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No? I've seen it elsewhere too. One of my programmer friends was really confused why I couldn't find a job right out of college when he had multiple offers lined up. He genuinely didn't seem to get that programming was one of the highest demand jobs literally in the entire country at the time. Same principle. And I don't hate myself, I hate that the game is rigged against me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 10:53 PM
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That's bullshit. Failures from socialization don't do anything to improve you because there is no feedback to learn from unlike every other skill on the planet. If you're socially aware enough to internally already know what you did wrong, then you're already charismatic and 90% of the work is done. Otherwise the only option is excruciating trial and error for literal years. Congrats on succeeding at the latter, but 99% of people don't have that in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 10:46 PM
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Gee I wonder who women directly ask out. Starts with a C, rhymes with glad. I'm not talking at all about the 15%ers because women throw the rules out when it comes to them. I'm talking about the default creepies who are guaranteed to die alone if they don't do any pursuing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 10:37 PM
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more women initiate than likely ever before in human history. lol no. The way women 'approach' in any context is by making it as easy as possible for the guy to approach her. It's still up to him to knock on the door, so to speak, no matter how wide open she leaves it. Anything else is, like you said, statistically insignificant. It's not even really about cold approaching. Unless you're asexual, getting a relationship requires flirting and such, and anything even remotely sexual is automaticall…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 04:06 PM
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Attractive personality is like an attractive face. You have it or you don't. Socializing is a skill, sure, but charisma is innate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:09 PM
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"I got mine, what's everyone else's problem?" Congrats on being born with enough charisma to get by. Realize what you're doing is equivalent to asking why everyone is so poor when you got handed a ten million dollar trust at age 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 08:39 AM
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They feel invisible/ignored as long as they remain passive. Stay in their place. In case you didn't know, men who want to find dates are required to take an active role if they don't want to be alone forever. An active role means flirting, approaching, that sort of thing. And since male sexuality is considered to be a negative character trait any display of it automatically makes them creepy unless they're attractive. No shit women aren't walking down the street thinking everyone's creepy, but w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 08:26 AM
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Ugly people's default perception is creepy. Attractive people's default perception is attractive. Yes, if you go above and beyond you can change that perception, but when it comes to most women, the default perception is all that really matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 07:12 AM
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Success with women is, like, THE most defining win condition for men since forever. For some that means sex and for some that means relationships. I hope that op was referring to the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:34 PM
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Straight men are repulsed by sex with men. This is what defines them as straight. If the straight man experience on grindr is the same as the straight woman experience on tinder, which you're claiming that it is, then women are repulsed by the overwhelming vast majority of their options.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:27 PM
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Not possible because men have only 'made it' if they're in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:13 PM
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You're saying 'go on grindr to see what it's like as a woman on OLD.' As a straight man I'm disgusted at the thought of having sex with another man. So if grindr is the woman's OLD experience, then women are literally nauseated at just the idea of being with 99% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:51 PM
1

You're implying that women are as repulsed by non-chads as straight men are to other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:40 PM
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No, but every straight man is repulsed by the idea of anal or oral with another man. It's what defines them as straight. By saying "go on grindr for the woman experience" you're heavily implying that that revulsion is part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 12:53 AM
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You're effectively saying that women are as repulsed by sex with non-chads as straight men are to sex with gay men. That true?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 11:54 PM
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Virgins aren't sexy, sexy virgins are sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 08:02 AM
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Nobody really means 'date unattractive people' when they say to lower your standards. What they actually mean is 'be okay with dating the least attractive person you still find attractive,' which women aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:38 AM
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