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No one would argue the pedos aren’t at fault. But it is sometimes also the parents fault. If you expose your children to pedos for selfish reasons you are responsible
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 02:32 PM
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It’s the parents fault when they only have selfish reasons for exposing their children to those situations. And it is narcissistic also.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 10:52 AM
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My issue is that parents have been aware of the evils in these industries for awhile and their instincts should have told them not to trust anyone. I would not even trust my child’s friends mom to supervise my child in a high risk situation (not that I would want my child in that situation to begin with). The parent only have selfish reasons to be posting their kids on social media. That doesn’t at all benefit their children. So it is their fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 10:04 AM
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Then there shouldn’t be a problem with social media posts of kids doing kid things, whether that’s acting or swimming at a birthday party. I recognize creeps exist I just know better than to believe it’s only men. Which is part of the reason why I accused you of fearmongering. Are you aware of the disgusting producer with the foot fetish who exposed actors to sexual situations? Some other nasty idiot who harmed an actor named Drake Bell? I’m aware of the problems with Disney/nickelodeon I recogn…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 09:47 AM
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Other than linked in social media isn’t necessary for healthy development it actually negatively impacts body image and mental health because of the use of filters. So it’s the opposite. It impairs healthy development and your experiences plus the way you fear men because of your experiences and what you likely saw on social media proves that. I want my kids prepared for the world not fearing the world with crippling anxieties. Kids should take self defense classes and be taught not to be silent…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 09:21 AM
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Well I’m sorry that happened to you. I do think that you taking him back the second time still indicates an unhealthy attachment to people that don’t care about you. I’d be worried of you repeating this mistake tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 07:37 AM
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Example: Hating me at the beginning; despite not even knowing me, which I couldn’t comprehend Crawling back to me for validation, saying they’ll never do that again The problem you can control is how desperate you were to get that person to like you when the red flags were apparent from the beginning. Learn to appreciate people who appreciate you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 07:02 AM
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You can’t keep peanut allergies private you have to disclose that information to avoid exposure at school, on planes and when dropping your kids off at friends. So it’s a real concern a lot of parents have navigating food allergy exposure. Your issue with her making an example out of her parenting as a resource for other parents is you making issues out of nothing which is a problem. That is all anyone wants to do anymore is create problems out of nothing. I read other responses and it appears s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:09 AM
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The difference is that social media has only negative effects and can affect every child because it’s easily accessible by everyone regardless of class. Being a child actor is a one in a million experience that can build skills and a resume. Which is more comparable to locking your child up until they’re 18 then simply not posting them on social media. There are similar negatives to social media but there are also life changing benefits to acting and singing. The Harry Potter actors all fondly r…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:06 AM
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We don’t need to lock up women until their 18. You expose your children to all kinds of criminal activity posting them online: identify theft, harassment, predation and it negatively affects mental health. So yes posting picture of your kids can indicate you simply don’t care about the risks especially if you’re aware of them. A lot of childhood stars are taken advantage of in the industry but I’ve seen interviews of some child stars who had protective good parents who prepared them for not only…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:40 AM
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People need to stop overusing the word narcissistic you have demonstrated bias and stupidity. She posted a story to be used as an example for parents to learn from. By this example she used her fame for good.. She recommended providing clear guidelines and giving three or four examples of foods that are safe to give to a child This article is actually a parenting resource to help other parents who have kids with allergies.. This advice was to help parents feel more comfortable raising their kids…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 02:16 AM
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Can you link an example? Or just describe an example of what you’re talking about? I’m against posting pictures of kids online as that is where predators lurk.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:31 AM
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This post is missing some context. Can you link a specific example maybe that led you to post this? Not a lot of people pay attention to famous peoples lives that closely to know what they are posting on social media. I also have no personal experience with observing people posting their pictures of their kids in a narcissistic manner..
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:30 AM
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No we threw food at each others doors
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 10:56 PM
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And I made myself clear to get creative and never have I suggested you throw food at people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:54 PM
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I don’t use slurs or shame people for their sexuality but I don’t support hook up culture. I don’t know how someone who participated in hook up culture can preach values to men they themselves don’t represent.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:52 PM
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Well then get creative. One time I met a guy because we were in the same apartment building because he threw bologna at my door and I saw him through my window so I threw eggs back at his door then he threw a watermelon at mine and this went on until we ran out of food. Well my perception of you is based off how you approach me. Ok well that is how it came off so I apologize for over reacting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 02:19 PM
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Nope I have been approached by men who didn’t comment on my appearance and yet their intentions were still clear. I felt more comfortable with them finding common ground with me (ex: noticing I’m purchasing the same movie ticket as them, noticing I’m also an Instacart shopper and noticing vegan items in my cart). I have also been approached by men who I found to be very attractive and my type physically and they still managed to make me uncomfortable. I’m not demonizing men’s sexuality I’m criti…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 12:43 PM
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I do agree with a lot of what you said especially the problem being cultural as people have prioritized themselves over everything. I have not considered men mimicking asshole behavior because they think it works but that doesn’t explain everything I have witnessed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 12:25 PM
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Well some men have said their relationships with women improved when they traveled abroad. If the goal is to find someone you will love and respect then I don’t see a problem with that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:50 AM
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I don’t support retaliation against men that is just the best explanation I have. Yes I’m aware men are ashamed of their sexuality and I observe toxic behavior from women on this subreddit I believe would contribute to that. However when I am holding men accountable for their behavior I’m told “some women deserve it.” So the escalation isn’t one sided.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:26 AM
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It’s not just the attractive men bragging about that I have been to college and I have seen and heard a lot of things..
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:22 AM
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society never allowed for a middle ground. Establish a connection without commenting on physical appearance until you’re more comfortable around each other. If a girl is wearing a nice dress, you CAN’T comment on it Commenting on personal style should be pretty safe I don’t know why your parents/whoever would tell you that. how do you want men to refer to women they’d only sleep with and not commit to? I don’t care to tone police men’s conversations I care about their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:13 AM
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I don’t support retaliation against men that is just the best explanation I have. Yes I’m aware men are ashamed of their sexuality and I observe toxic behavior from women on this subreddit I believe would contribute to that. However when I am holding men accountable for their behavior I’m told “some women deserve it.” So the escalation isn’t one sided.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:55 AM
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Not all men does not change the damage caused by men bragging about using women. Encouraging other men to do the same in their friend circles. Teaching/coaching them how to do these things. These behaviors are predatory and lack empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:34 AM
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The first part of my comment explained that I understand how women contributed to the problem. What you have done in yours is ignore men’s contributions which is something that is often done by men on this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:19 AM
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There never been a point in my life where a dude asked for my snap chat just to talk. They almost always request pictures which is why I deleted mine 7 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:17 AM
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I can understand how women may have contributed to that but men have been open about using women or putting them into categories such as “for fun” and “serious.” It makes sense for women to feel de-humanized by compliments coming from strangers when they can’t know your intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:10 AM
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Ok I was just wondering. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 09:06 AM
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I’m curious from your perspective why that is the case for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 08:54 AM
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I would be skeptical, mildly insulted and uncomfortable with someone commenting on my physical appearance the first time I meet them. Part of the reason is there is no longevity in a relationship where all you have is physical attraction so why bother? The other part of that is men have made it clear they put women into categories of casual or serious so women heard you. Being complimented has become dehumanizing when I can’t know your intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 07:58 AM
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Women who are open to being approached, how exactly would you like a guy to go about it? If I were single I’d want to be approached by men who notice something other than my appearance. For example I’m a vegan if a man who was vegan, vegetarian or interested in a plant based lifestyle approached me at the grocery store about items in my cart or with questions as an opener I’d be more receptive to that man. I can’t ever see myself entertaining a cold approach that is based of nothing but physical…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:55 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:17 AM
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Yeah I don’t debate irl, I understand how important peace is in a partnership and pick my battles.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 04:06 AM
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You should have done more research before posting. Even though you were likely trolling anyways. You failed to mention that you get approved for higher loans for better interest rates on a mortgage when married and that marriage provides stability statistically for children. Definitely two big points to hit or even know exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 04:00 AM
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Luckily we can just enforce paternity testing so that happens far less. Good talk I guess lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 11:16 AM
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It isn’t better for society that kids be raised by their non-biological parents though that’s just better for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 11:03 AM
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I ignored the don’t tell me what to do non-sense. Especially since you engaged with me, so expect a debate to ensue. And I do care enough about paternity fraud to believe it should be a crime. I’d prefer prevention over punishment but both are necessary for those that fall through the cracks. A paternity test isn’t remotely comparable to implanting something inside someone so I’m also ignoring that remark because it appears we both agree paternity tests shouldn’t be outlawed.. You’ve acknowledge…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 10:30 AM
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he would be thought of as crazy and completely untrusting not just by me, but pretty much everyone else. And see this is how we end up with paternity fraud. Because nobody cares about the lives of the children or men this impacts- which is pretty fucked up. My uncle was the child who was a victim of paternity fraud and it has ruined his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 10:15 AM
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If you live in the US he is allowed to test without your consent legally. You are creating an environment in which he would have to go behind your back and it makes you look untrustworthy. I’d rather my husband feel comfortable having these conversations with me by having a level head. You saying it’s not something you can get over- that isn’t true. You just have a defeatist attitude about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 09:59 AM
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There’s a lot of things that happen in society that isn’t our fault. That doesn’t absolve you of certain duties such as being subpoenaed to court as a witness. Or reporting your income to the government.. In fact you don’t even have to do anything to get a paternity test so it actually doesn’t even have to impact you at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 09:41 AM
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why it’s on the woman only to do the ‘right thing for society’ Because women are the ones committing paternity fraud???? LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 09:20 AM
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lol ok so random men in society have to incur the cost of all the bastard children so women don’t get their feelings hurt? I don’t want to believe that is what you just said but I think it is.. In fact I’m copying and pasting in case you delete this. Well the best thing for SOCIETY is to ban all paternity tests, and for men to want to raise anyone’s kids because there will be less single moms by circumstances and less fatherless children. Why is it the woman who is supposed to make the sacrifice…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 09:10 AM
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I actually understand women taking offense hurt feelings make sense to me. What I disagree with is how a lot of the women in this subreddit handle those feelings because I find it unhealthy. Turning hurt feelings into an ultimatum in this case is self centered because it impacts the child, the father and SOCIETY negatively.. I don’t understand why you’d have kids if your feelings were going to come before their well being. A sensible person recognizes when to put others before themselves. Blind …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 07:26 AM
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I’ll have to run this by my husband because he may have had a plan for our AKs I do think he wanted to modify them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 12:17 PM
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I just got it like the day before I posted haha so I haven’t shot it yet but would like too this weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 12:16 PM
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We can agree people shouldn’t get married to someone they don’t trust but the thing is we don’t plan on having doubts about people we love. My husband and I were both cheated on in the past and while we aren’t cheaters and never have been that does mess with your head. Instead of expecting blind devotion we actually attempt to give peace of mind to the other. My husband has told me early on he wanted a paternity test if he were to have kids and I will respect that. Even if he doesn’t request one…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 12:14 PM
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When I say I got it because of the election it’s not because I want war it’s because I have a feeling we will be in a civil war.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 12:00 PM
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Romanian WASR 10. I’m not super knowledgeable about them I got it because of the upcoming election/WW3 situation. I will be getting more guns probably a rifle and shotgun along with something more concealable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 11:59 AM
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If you shoot anyone even if the reason is valid you’d want to have insurance because you can still be sued into debt
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 10:43 AM
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I have an acquaintance shorter than your friend and he still gets laid because he has the confidence to approach women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:02 AM
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I have guns but I’m also taking mixed martial arts. I have an AK and a 9 MM.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:30 AM
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I wouldn’t do it without reasonable suspicion. The way we live our lives doesn’t produce those insecurities so likely it would never happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:56 AM
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Well I don’t believe your name is science and reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:48 AM
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Nah I was just joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:16 AM
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King this conversation is about dressing in a way that feels good and true to yourself. Dressing for the female gaze is how you get objectified which is why you should instead dress for the male gaze.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:09 AM
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Normalizing men in heels
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 06:53 AM
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I also pride myself on looking like 6’3 while I am 5’10. Nobody should be allowed to tell me Woman have normalized wearing heels why can’t men?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 06:24 AM
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Well that’s what tanning beds do to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 05:35 AM
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No she doesn’t she looks 45
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 05:31 AM
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I don’t fit the target demographic but I don’t expect anyone to risk their life to save me. I do think it’s perfectly reasonable however to expect someone to call for help on my behalf if they are in a safe location. It isn’t logical to risk yourself to save one other person. Someone who expects strangers to rescue them at their expense are narcissistic IMO because you’d have to believe your life was more valuable than others to think that way. Which would be why women ITT won’t expect men to re…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:49 AM
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I love how calling women females is unacceptable but calling us bitches is totally fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 07:10 AM
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The US prison systems are not one of the worst lmao. China is harvesting organs without anesthesia from their inmates plus having them do mandatory unpaid slave labor. Mexican prisons are more overcrowded/ smaller space plus offer no hygiene products you are only given meals. There’s a lot of prison systems worse than the US. Homeless people in the US sometimes go to jail on purpose so they can eat, have a bed and shower. Although I agree there is much room for improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 10:40 PM
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I honestly haven’t play many I just bought dead space to try it and it’s fun but it also gives me anxiety. I do think taking turns would be better so I could recover. Ty for the suggestion!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:28 PM
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There isn’t really a point it’s just for fun. We wouldn’t ever win any championships I am laughably bad and my husband is my built in teammate so we usually lose. Our friends have moved all over the country and so it helps us stay connected with people. I’m not sure how unfamiliar you are with games but I like a bit of everything. We play racing games (Forza and need for speed), Minecraft, league of legends, pokemon go, zombies, sonic and trying to play a horror game but it’s too scary so I’m st…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:10 AM
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Oh, well I was quite sheltered so I haven’t watched most movies that exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:22 AM
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I’m a gamer myself so I like other gamers. As long as I come first and he keeps up with his responsibilities I do not care. If I make dinner and it’s a fight to get him to eat with me. That’s an issue. If I tell him I need help with my car I expect him to drop the video games to help me. I am not going to argue about video games and my husband would never make me. However typically my husband and I are playing together so it also doesn’t impact our quality time either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:06 AM
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she goes full feminist on his ass. That game they have at Cracker Barrel is called peg or pegging? I can’t remember.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:49 AM
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The unfortunate reality is that some people just won’t be persuaded by logic or reason. I suggest some positive affirmations to cope with it “at least I’m not that retarded.”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:01 AM
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Do you hold your female friends accountable for how they treat good men in a relationship? Yup, my college roommate was cheating on her bf but we had the same room so I walked in and said “don’t you know she has a boyfriend?” He didn’t care and I wasn’t about to listen to that shit so I told him if he didn’t leave I was calling the RA. He left. Anyways the next day I was still upset that i was put in that situation when I’m coming home to sleep. It also bothered me seeing their relationship he w…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:05 AM
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Then maybe don’t virtue signal. You don’t even believe what you’re saying is the more ethical option but somehow I am the one who isn’t in my right mind? You can’t have this both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:07 PM
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Sacrificing other people for the happiness of one is unethical. You are making your decision in what I believe to be a selfish manner because you want to feel like a successful parent. I would rather have to face that I fucked up than have enabled someone to cause damage to other people that could fuck up their lives including the lives of the children he’d be creating and leaving behind who not only wouldn’t know who their father was but could potentially be born with STDs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 09:51 AM
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Jeffrey dahmer was satisfied with his life. Should I chose Jeffrey dahmer as son over Adam too?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 09:34 AM
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living a lonely and romantically/socially unsuccessful life So you did add that in. That is all. minus all the women who did fall for the “ethically🤓☝️” worst men In a hypothetical scenario. lol. You just are looking for an opportunity to shit on women I guess. Stay mad. instead I see a bunch of people lying to themselves for clout. Do you even know what clout is? There is no clout to be had here. You also aren’t debating in good faith per the rules of this subreddit. “You’re lying” is a low eff…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 09:30 AM
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Last I checked intelligence is related to mental development. Developing at different times has nothing to do with intelligence once they’ve reached maturity. Part of being an effective communicator is being a good receiver of information. You are assuming the worst possible outcome every time and it is affecting your ability to understand. That is a you problem. Yeah but we are referring to abusive partners here. You don’t get to ignore criminality statistics. This behavior is ridiculous. You c…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 09:07 AM
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The prompt doesn’t say suicidal you added that yourself. Women chose the man who isn’t damaging 100s of people - including the men married to those women who could be exposed to deadly STDs. Going with the option that imposes the least risk on society is the most ethical choice. You just don’t see it that way for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 08:50 AM
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That doesn’t mean they are less mature. Maturity refers to DEVELOPMENT. Women reach maturity QUICKER. Point out where I said women are more mature than men. But still more than men, why? Aren’t women supposed to choose better than men? Men commit violent crimes at higher rates than women. So naturally that would happen. Arrests: In 2019, men accounted for 78.9% of those arrested for violent crimes, and 88% of those arrested for murder and nonnegligent manslaughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 08:41 AM
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Maturity refers to development not intelligence. Women do develop quicker physically and mentally that isn’t a belief that’s scientific fact.. Girls’ brains develop up to ten years earlier than boys’. Girls’ brains optimize brain connectivity and remove neural networks between the ages of 10–12, while boys’ brains do this between 15–20 And majority of women aren’t choosing violent partners to begin with. According to the CDC, 1 in 4 women and 1 in 7 men will experience physical violence by their…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 08:17 AM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 06:38 AM
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Play stupid games win stupid prizes. He won’t get shit from his parents. I’ll take him out of the will and leave it all to his known baby mamas instead. He better pray I don’t find out he has STDs because I will tell the world so they can press charges on him. I will not stand by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 05:44 AM
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Who in their right mind would want a menace to society as their child?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:40 AM
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Ok to make this more fair: the other day a random man made an obvious pass at me to have sex. The reason that felt dehumanizing is because I think we all inherently understand that men are willing to have sex with more women than they are willing to have relationships with. There can be outlier situations like not being committed to an area but generally men who will fuck you and not commit it’s because you aren’t what they are looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:51 AM
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The OP asks do you think you set the bar higher or lower for your ex’s future chicks? It doesn’t ask do you know. Well without comparing myself to whoever they dated afterwards idk how I would come to any such conclusion that I raised or lowered anyone’s expectations. You aren’t “blindly guessing”. I mean, did you not know any of your ex’s? We were friends before dating Did they not expect anything of you? Well yeah these were young relationships there was no talk of expectations and I didn’t bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:45 AM
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Not sure why you included this information in your comment :/ Because how would I know what happened to them if I didn’t/don’t have contact? In other words, you don’t think you raised the bar for any of your ex’s future chicks. If I had to guess blindly I don’t think I lowered or raised the bar i think they already knew what they wanted…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 04:02 AM
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The person I was responding too is talking about using men in their OP and isn’t relationship material.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 03:25 AM
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I don’t/didn’t have contact with any of my exes. I happen to know one got married. His wife seems nice so I’m not sure he lowered or raised his standards. His standards were always high.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 03:22 AM
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There’s a man who asked for a date(He wants it casual) Because he knew you aren’t relationship material.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:06 AM
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The worst offender is Spain where they even have “women’s courts” - where only women can be victims and only men can be perpetrators. You don’t have to imagine how this is playing out in a world where we pretend to believe people can become the opposite sex because they say so. I had absolutely zero idea the “gender identity crisis” that is going on here was influencing the rest of the world. I had always just assumed yall were laughing at us for it. We have infected the world lol. Next trend is…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 08:02 AM
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That’s crazy this had to be said.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 06:21 AM
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You cannot be real. Women being fired for not putting out?? Blackmailing people for sexual favors?? Were you by chance shot in your frontal lobe?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 05:51 AM
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I appreciate that men made me feel protected and respected yesterday I was walking around a bad part of town to catch a Pokemon.. Ignoring I’m too adult to be doing that.. Anyways I was circled by this guy in his SUV 3 times and each time he would roll down his window and try and talk to me I didn’t actually understand what he was saying but then he asked me if I wear a thong/if he could see it. Realizing he has now circled me three times in a deserted area and bold enough to ask to see my under…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 05:01 AM
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It depends, there is almost always something that could have been done such as noticing red flags. Although I sympathize with people who are victims I also recognize that they are there for a reason unless they are the “perfect victim.”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 12:24 AM
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But you can at least try to avoid this situation entirely by having a conversation before your relationship was serious. I could maybe be convinced it should be hidden if this realization came too late but ideally couples should be on the same page. I don’t necessarily over sympathize with adults who claim they were manipulated unless there was a threat to their well being but if the concern was being screwed over in divorce court I may be understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 09:04 PM
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Well there are also reported cases that are based off bull shit. People tend to process information they are looking for and ignore evidence that is inconsistent with their beliefs. You constantly being on the lookout for abuse will result in regular people acting in ways that eventually “confirm” your bias. I think that stat could be intentionally inflated by liers but also unintentionally inflated by women who think men’s intentions are always bad because bigots say that men abusing women is c…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 08:52 PM
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Constant criticism of spending habits – Look out for phrases such as ‘Are you sure you really need that?’ or ‘You’re not really going to spend money on that, are you?’ Whilst these phrases may not be uncommon, if your partner is constantly criticising your spending, to the extent that they seem to want to control how you spend your money, this could be an early sign of abuse. Apparently my parents reminding me to be financially responsible and discouraging materialism were also financially abusi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 08:47 PM
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I agree that being resistant to settling concerns probably comes from a need to control. I would not advise trusting someone who expects blind devotion from a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 08:05 PM
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99% of DV cases there is financial abuse involved. Well this is fear mongering because most women are not selecting abusive partners to begin with. I can understand someone with PTSD having their guards up because their life experiences were unfortunately traumatic. When normal people who have never had those experiences and never will begin living in fear for no reason that is of itself a problem. We have seen that problem manifest itself when women in mass choose a bear over a man without real…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 09:58 AM
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I can understand that. I don’t recommend women be without employment typically but that has more to do with the economy, building skills (which would be important if things don’t work out) and providing for your children than it does not trusting your husband. I don’t believe fear mongering is healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 09:32 AM
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Predators wills seek out easy targets they absolutely won’t be preying on each other. However it’s best to know what behaviors to look out for. Benevolent people will have to educate themselves and change their tactics accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 08:27 AM
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Yes, a lot of women get offended by it but it’s best to communicate these boundaries up front, so the norm would be children being raised by their real fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 08:06 AM
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At best it will be constantly brought up whenever the man wants something or if he’s angry at you. “i pay for this and this” That is biased. There may be men that hold them money over you but that isn’t my experience. At best he will want to be a provider and a great husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:57 AM
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If you can’t even mention a paternity test to your wife you have 0 control in your relationship as evidenced by you acting behind her back you’ve basically admitted to yourself you’re a doormat. Like cool beans you get to make decisions when your wife doesn’t know about them. Lol I agree most women will get offended though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:47 AM
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I wasn’t offended nor attributed it to insecurity because my husband always wants to know the truth to everything and he wants to know he has the right information 100% of the time which is why he’s been as successful in his career as he has been. It’s doesn’t always stem from a place of insecurity. Children deserve to know who their real father is and some people hide the identity of the father because it benefits them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:08 AM
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Ideally the two would be on the same page.. My husband mentioned paternity testing probably within the first month or two of our relationship so I already know it’s coming. I do think having the conversation early helps people work it out more sensibly, it could also be a good way to weed out women. You don’t want someone who’s going to pull the “fine get the test but I want a divorce if you do,” card when you’ve just created a family together.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:28 AM
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Of course, you can potentially fuck up your partner’s finances, just like with any “regular” marriage. If you don’t intend to stay with the same person forever you shouldn’t be getting married if you’re a non-selfish person. You’re stealing away their opportunity to find love and potentially fucking up someone’s future just to have a roommate. And we aren’t talking about asexuals we are talking about people exploiting the system trying to get benefits when they don’t need to get married to have …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 08:44 PM
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You could motivate someone but I think you’d be better off going for someone who values commitment and is not holding views that they can leave “for any or no reason.” If someone doesn’t have those values in them they weren’t likely raised with those values.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 10:38 AM
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That isn’t how marriage was intended. You are exploiting a system for your benefit using it for unintended purposes and if you’d have to end the marriage for whatever reason you could potentially fuck up their life financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 10:16 AM
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Kids probably motivated people to work things out. The current attitudes plus no kids isn’t a great recipe for successful LTR’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 10:13 AM
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Because people are no longer interested in having children or LTR’s. LTR’s are hard and people have developed an attitude that they can leave for any reason or no reason. Which means they will leave whenever things get hard, which also means they will never put in the effort to make anything last. Sure you can leave for any reason or no reason but having that attitude sets you up for failure. That part I attribute to modern feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 10:03 AM
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I work for a non-profit and they care enough about their employees to have great insurance for a good price but they don’t extend that beyond what they have too. My husbands current job does allow me on his plan but his plan is more expensive monthly plus more money spent on prescriptions and ER visits. So me being on his is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 09:42 AM
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She didn’t like him. My husband told me he didn’t feel like he could open up to his past gfs so I feel special that he feels comfortable telling me everything. I do think there is a time and a place for expressing feelings and you definitely have to build rapport first otherwise it is weird. During our friendship my husband didn’t open up much to me nor I to him and that was about a year time. I moved in 1 month of dating and I remember my husband refusing to talk to me about his feelings for an…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 09:39 AM
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https://www.kff.org/faqs/faqs-health-insurance-marketplace-and-the-aca/im-married-i-work-full-time-for-a-large-employer-that-offers-me-health-benefits-but-wont-cover-spouses-is-that-allowed-can-my-spouse-apply-for-coverage-and-subsidies-in-the-marke/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 09:18 AM
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That isn’t a state thing. The Affordable Care Act only requires employers to provide insurance to their employees. Not their employees spouses.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 09:16 AM
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As usually applied under State laws, the term “fraud or dishonesty” encompasses such matters as larceny, theft, embezzlement, forgery, misappropriation, wrongful abstraction, wrongful conversion, willful misapplication or any other fraudulent or dishonest acts resulting in financial loss. I would have to have signed a document saying my husband was not eligible for any other insurance through employment and since he was I had to remove him from my insurance. This is widespread across the US I’m …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 09:01 AM
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No we wanted to decline his insurance and have us both on mine but because he works and is eligible for insurance from work he has to be on his own policy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 07:51 AM
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That is becoming common practice. Our policy at work was just changed 6 months ago and I had to remove my husband from my policy or risk being charged with fraud. This isn’t even funny because his medication went up in price by 1200%. A lot of people couldn’t afford that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 06:56 AM
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I have insurance through work and a lot of places are not allowing your spouse to be on your policy if you’re both working because you people are getting fake married.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 06:19 AM
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This is why we can no longer put our spouses on our health insurance policies.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 05:41 AM
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I haven’t noticed and I’m not even someone who gets approached a lot because in my house and when I’m not at home I like to be in nature. I was hiking in the mountains a couple weeks ago and I didn’t feel like men were avoiding me. 1 even complimented me but I smile at people and am friendly. Men won’t approach unless I’m by myself or with my mom which is how it works outside college.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 05:31 AM
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You didn’t say can, you were very clear and said “absolutely a toxic work environment”. I had faith you could use common sense to see I was making a generalization and that you provided an outlier situation that was outside that that doesn’t change that most porn is not between two people who love and trust each other. I don’t agree with you that there is a rule on how consenting people need to conduct themselves. We were talking about within a marriage so now you’re just taking my words out of …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 04:25 AM
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do you think that people in loving and committed relationship is and “absolutely toxic work environment” It can be because they have taken their intimate moments and turned them into a job. Intimacy is meant to be shared between two partners consensually adding in the money and necessity (we have to pay the bills) is what could/would create the toxic dynamic. You have now muddied the waters where consent used to be clear. who is creating the toxic work environment? Well they both had a part to p…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 09:02 PM
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porn created by husband and wives Making intimacy a job could lead to issues but having a porn partner does cut down on the transmission of STDs. There are porn sets where it’s treated with the same professionalism and standards as mainstream film and movie sets e.g. Holly Randall. People have still been exploited in those situations. do you agree with; treating them with disdain, I have done that because a lot of porn actresses I have met surprisingly lack a moral compass (advertising on websit…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 08:21 PM
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Do you believe the industry causes drug abuse and mental health problems that lead to suicide, or do you think that people with those issues go into the industry? Both. The porn industry absolutely creates a work environment that is toxic. I don’t believe in glorifying sex work in the way that the music industry does or how feminists have been doing it. I may be compassionate to people with less fortunate situations unless they don’t care about the harm they cause to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 10:33 AM
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Main argument 1. The means of its production are exploitative. It’s not even about the just human trafficking OF is a multi level marketing scheme. Everyone in porn has to accept the fact that they will get herpes for your entertainment. They also have high rates of substance abuse disorders. I wonder why considering the toxic environment they are working in with shitty home lives also. They have an increased risk of sexually transmitted disease (including HIV), domestic violence, and have about…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 10:19 AM
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I agree there aren’t enough people noticing what the music industry is doing to children’s minds. This song was popular on the radio and glorified human trafficking: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=mfYUtROIzDk And now suddenly everyone wants to be a sex worker despite that “profession” having high rates of drug abuse and suicide for women..
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 09:31 AM
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Well I’m not sure why it seems like it’d be obvious. I’m not necessarily saying looks are all men care about but it is a major factor so not sure why no one would mention it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:23 AM
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I’m not necessarily talking about women who are unattractive even the ones men would cold approach, unless the man was on the same page or just a really nice guy (and most were not) then it was a no. I didn’t really care about it much personally because it weeded out men I didn’t want anyways and I still managed to find men who were willing to wait plus get married. I’m just pointing out that I noticed I could have had more options if I were to behave differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:20 AM
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All my close college friends were religious and waiting for marriage and that is contradictory to all of our experiences the commenter you are talking I can relate on that part. Modesty isn’t rewarded by most men. It’s mostly just religious men who reward that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 12:23 AM
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Well yeah.. The main thing everyone’s mind is going to go too is related to being ugly. Although I’m not sure just being unattractive (a 4) is enough you’d have to probably be hideous. Fat is undesirable but my friend makes six figures as a sex worker and she is 400lbs. She was recently proposed to by one of her cucks so I’m not sure fat or having a promiscuous past is enough to struggle badly. Maybe if they didn’t have status like my friend then fatties would struggle (status=more exposure to p…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 10:47 PM
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That might be what she is experiencing. Did you know a lot of people struggle to date later on in their lives? I’m not sure why this is so unbelievable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 11:38 AM
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Well I’m sorry that happened. That is pretty cruel. What app was that on?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 11:37 AM
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It wasn’t hard but I was picky. I knew early on because I dated young what I was looking for so I rarely called anyone back. I had also had a lot of guy friends which gave me low risk dating experience which helped me filter. I was probably overly aggressive with my filtering but I don’t regret it at least I found what I wanted. I did have a negative experience my first relationship because he abused me but I couldn’t immediately get away from him because he pulled a gun on me. So I had to come …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 11:11 AM
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If you say you’ve been out of the game for 2 years for health reasons then why was your initial comment blaming men for not wanting women your age? I hope you have a full recovery from whatever you’re dealing with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 10:14 AM
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Well yes because acting childish is frowned upon generally as adults but celebrities get away with it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 11:10 AM
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According to the CDC, 1 in 4 women and 1 in 7 men will experience physical violence by their intimate partner at some point during their lifetimes. It’s not like the majority of women (75%) are choosing non-violent partners or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:00 AM
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Pete Davidson actually is handsome when his hair isn’t bleached and he wears normal clothes. Tattoos are not my thing. What’s unattractive is his behavior such as sticking his tongue out at the camera and making weird signs with his hands like he’s having a stroke.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 09:44 AM
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Yeah I have actually known pornographic content creators similar to amouranth also advertising to teens. I’d report her account and tell her that what she was doing was sick and the libtards (which is basically everybody) defended her behavior. She’d post about her “job” but be vague and say well you guys know I can’t talk about my work but then proceed to vague post about her work trying to avoid being banned. If you tell them they are supporting a Ponzi scheme recruiting women into porn which …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 09:20 AM
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Yeah.. I’m voting for Trump who will hopefully be criminalizing pornography. I doubt he will.. Hopefully he bans tik tok this time. I’m not concerned about the anyone’s gaze. If you’re in public people seeing you is kind of expected. I keep seeing posts about women’s clothing nowadays and when I’m in the real world I never see such extreme examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 09:10 AM
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I have criticized pornographic content and the creators so much that talking about it gives me a headache. I have known a couple pornstars (not huge ones but big enough to do it for a living) and they are rarely people that have a moral compass. For example one that I knew the most would “advertise” on a website that was 13+ get banned because I’d report her then she’d make a new account and come back. People would point out how wrong it was to her face also including me but she didn’t care- and…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:29 AM
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I’ve never had a one night stand nor had casual sex. I’m also getting downvoted
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:50 PM
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Well yeah attraction is important that goes without saying. But I don’t bully people because they aren’t attractive. I treat people with respect until you give me a reason not too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:59 PM
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Well by that definition I’d say my husband is an “alpha.”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:57 PM
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I don’t act you have to actually make me laugh. But if you’re obnoxious good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:54 PM
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Lol. Yes they had to be physically attractive typically 5-8. Height ranged from 5’7”-6’1”. I dated someone who was average face and 5’7” on the lower end for about two years in college. He was shredded though. Like I said he was the funny outgoing guy in his circle of friends. He also befriended all my friends easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:35 PM
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No I was introverted and the only way for anyone to gain my trust was to befriend me over long periods of time but I’d only develop feelings for the ones I really enjoyed spending my time with. They would have also have had to carry our conversations because of how I was. So I was quite difficult to pick up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:07 PM
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Mediocre personality in terms of what exactly? I will hear you out but I doubt it I’m quite picky, I’ve always dated men with the best personalities in the group. They were not always chads or had status but had some mixture that I was satisfied with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:40 PM
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I have never dated anyone with a shit personality lol. All my past relationships were the funny guys everyone liked and I was always treated with respect and kindness.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:26 PM
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That good to hear!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:25 PM
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Can you provide examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:53 PM
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Well everyone cares about looks to an extent. The sacrifices I would have made would be height and looks to an extent. I have had made such sacrifices in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:52 PM
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I met my husband on a video game and I remember he would just make me laugh. I’ve always described him as someone who could make friends with a bear. He had a lot of other qualities I was looking for but I was addicted to talking to him and being around him. Wondering what he looked like drove me mad. He ended up being a total package but I was prepared to make some sacrifices because I wanted to be around him everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:08 PM
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If he’s a HIGHLY evolved 😚deeply MASCULINE 💪🏻alpha male I… Would assume it’s fake confidence masking insecurity. I like men who are humble. I also don’t think women categorize men in terms of “alpha” and “beta” in their heads mostly because it’s cringe but also because it sounds toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:31 PM
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You’re about as alpha as a mall ninja.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 05:50 AM
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Same way guys figure out that looks and physical attraction matter a lot to women than they let on through the virtue signaling. Somehow I doubt if the roles were reversed men would figure out they’re delusional especially since (some) guys seem to assess their level based on what women they pull.. I already acknowledged that not all women deserve this. Those that are not trying to betabuxx Oh I don’t feel bad for what happens to gold diggers but I don’t think people trying to shoot their shot w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:34 AM
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How would someone know their level was 5 when they get attention from 9s? This attitude doesn’t just effect terrible women it effects women who are unsuspecting raised by shitty parents who’ve never had any guidance. Men keep not wanting to take their part in this which involves their willingness to lie to women and use them which just so happens to effect the population of women I work with everyday except they are teens getting trafficked by 30 year old men and of course they perceive themselv…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:52 PM
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I mean, most of the time the “safe” guy is in fact the backup plan. Like the studious STEM guy who has his shit together, Well you guys don’t have to give high body count women any attention but you do. Modesty is the hard route and no one wants to do anything hard. He provided a solution that mostly benefits men. This sounds like it benefit the more attractive men still not really a W. I think of you guys are in high numbers defending this behavior I don’t care about ya’lls dating issues anymor…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:22 PM
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I know it’s sarcasm that’s y I said lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:19 PM
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Let me know when you have anything to say that isn’t your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:48 AM
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lol.. She does a lot around the house she is a traditional women in that sense..
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:46 AM
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Women are less physically able than men which is why I bring up that people with disabilities are still deserving of basic human rights and protection. Women can be drafted to roles that logically make sense for the physical differences between us but that isn’t combat roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:43 AM
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Women can and should be drafted into combat roles, preferably in their own female only squadrons. I’ve already said why this is false. Until they do, their place in society as first class citizens alongside men remains undeserved and illegitimate. So people with disabilities don’t deserve to be first class citizens either?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:07 AM
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That depends. If I don’t find you attractive I am not going to care about how tall or fit you are. However I do not mind balding men as long as I like ur face. But I have dated men I wasn’t attracted too because they were fun to be around and even though that relationship didn’t work out we were really close and he was easily my best friend for years
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 10:43 AM
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There were also ability issues observed in the footage. The women were slower. I blame their incompetence on their trainers not on them being women. Nice try though. You can either do the job or you can’t and I don’t believe in pandering.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 10:32 AM
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Just like the secret service protecting Trump was just “fine.” I don’t trust your opinion because you seem woke but not necessarily awake.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 09:43 AM
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There are roles women can successfully serve in they are not roles that require the physical strength of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 09:32 AM
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It’s statistically abnormal since most people have sex for the first time at 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 09:27 AM
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Her husband says he’s tired. She is too shy to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 09:23 AM
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“Having a capable military is irrelevant.”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 09:21 AM
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You falsely assume safe men have boring personalities and are unattractive. Maybe you’re using the word safe as a replacement for “back up plan” but safe to me means he is trustworthy, reliable and kind- like actual traditional men typically are.. You want to hold women accountable for sleeping around but enable men to lie to women and use them. You don’t want solutions, you just want to complain. Men and women are just shallow about different things.. In my college friend group only 2 women wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 09:05 AM
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Except adding women to be drafted for combat roles won’t make logical sense when it’s never recommended for anyone to walk around all day lugging more than 10% of their body weight. Armor 15-20lbs+ weaponry means women would have to be overweight.. but you can’t be overweight and physically fit enough to carry extra weight lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:03 AM
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Is chasing away depression with medication healthy or ideal? No but it has probably saved lives. People should probably learn to accept themselves but nobody does that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 11:38 PM
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No on is chasing youth as a teenager or 20 year old.. Women have always been chasing youth and beauty to feel happy. What do you think make up and baboon ass lips are for? A chemical peel/bbl is comparable to exfoliating your skin. It’s much more realistic than the cosmetics surgeries the progressives are encouraging people to get in their “pursuit of happiness.” It actually encourages people to embrace their natural beauty more so than procedures that forever change your body and make you look …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 09:52 PM
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Whenever she wants, there are affordable options though if she isn’t happy with how she ages. I’m not necessarily pro-invasive cosmetic surgery (actually changing the way you look) to feel happy because once you go that route you are chasing perfection. Restoring youth to what you looked like 10 years ago is achievable beauty which I would consider to be a healthier pursuit. Although laser doesn’t work on dark skin tones so you’d have to be white..
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 05:04 PM
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I can’t say I get more or less interest because I’m not on a college campus anymore nor do I go out but I still get a lot of interest from men who look college aged and are fit as I found out hiking in the woods last week “post wall.” I get mistaken for being in my twenties or even being in college occasionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:52 AM
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There are non-invasive procedures that are inexpensive that take 10 years off your face, neck and chest as long as you’re fit you can look pretty good for your age.. If someone really wanted to attract men who wasn’t there are options for 2k or less. I’m not talking about Botox either. Chemical peels and BBL (broadband light laser treatments). “The wall.”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:31 AM
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That child would bang its head against your cervix like a heavy metal headbanger trying to get out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 06:11 AM
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No investigations take a lot of time because typically they collect evidence over the course of a long period of time to ensure a conviction. It’s not uncommon for them to take years.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:30 PM
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Yes it was newsworthy because new victims emerged, 35 in fact including 1 15 year old. Hating pedophiles, sex offenders and misogynists isn’t misandry. He’s admitted to skirting the laws in his interviews also. Everytime he gets called out he was conveniently just joking.. And if you guys don’t know how incriminating a paper trail is to defrauding women on their taxes when you have a known business in sex work it’s basically the same as having a murder victims blood on your shoes. You simply can…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:54 AM
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I didn’t say that person was me. I have lost friends for questioning them about their fidelity including my college roommate and even trying to inform them they have been cheated on. People cover for each other too much and I consider cheating abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 10:19 AM
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Do women judge other women who cheat? Women judge each other but friends tend to overlook their friends faults. She says that women have valid reasons to cheat whereas men only do it for selfish reasons. Some people weren’t dropped as a child they were thrown on the ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:51 AM
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Yep get a cat
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:06 AM
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He have to be what I typically went for otherwise: socially adjusted, lots of friends, Christian, funny and attractive which is unlikely to happen for someone whose never kissed anybody but I have dated men who were virgins before who met my standards. Not kissless virgins though.. Usually the men I dated were waiting for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:12 AM
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Someone once told me trust is forged in fire and I’d agree with that. How I have grown to trust men in the past was when they befriended me over long periods of time and proved their moral character. My husband earned my trust early on because he is a militant vegan. Proving you’re a good person is about living by your morals in a way I can see. Most other men just proved their moral character by sticking around and respecting the boundaries of friendship until I gave them a clear sign I was int…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 02:46 AM
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Men bragging about hooking up in general is a turn off for me, the fact that she’s 18 in high school is absolutely disgusting I expect men I am considering to be my husband to have restraint and respect for women. Bragging about fucking 18 years olds at 30 pretty much nails in your coffin you have neither of those qualities. You said we would be getting our ideal partners but my ideal partner wouldn’t do those things at 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:58 PM
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Public school is free, and our education system is better than it was. If you couldn’t afford to have kids our government would just pay you for it. That is why the poorest people end up having kids.. I have worked with a lot of women in low income households and they have told me sometimes not outright their strategy. Households with children also get priority for subsidized housing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 10:23 PM
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I know families with 7 kids on one blue collar income and these kids love their lives the cost really isn’t as bad as yall make it out to be. People are spending more money because no one wants to learn skills like baking their own bread or make soup from scratch you guys want things from cans and premade and that costs an arm and a leg and is never better than home made. That family doesn’t make it work buying everything they want they are smarter about how they spend their money, take their ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 08:52 PM
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They could make a horror film about this guys sperm producing human centipede spawn all over the world with the end goal of creating one big happy family.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 12:40 AM
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But then how would I know if my kids were my husbands? I gotta know which sucker is gunna pay these bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 12:13 AM
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Oh no..
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:22 PM
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I actually learned by watching crime shows from Europe (because I have watched all the American ones) that people in other countries are more willing to help/intervene. American survivors usually get passed up by 2-3 people before someone helps even when there’s no threat it’s just a bloody person needing assistance. It’s also very common for them to not even call the police and report an injured person.. I can understand being concerned for your safety but not calling the police for them blows …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 09:18 PM
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Trust is forged in fire. I’m stealing this. My notifications are all screwy so I am just now seeing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:02 PM
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I seriously doubt facts or a conviction would change your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:05 AM
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Your are overly hung up on defending the words a pedophile had to say. He bragged about defrauding those women on their taxes on his Twitter and was arrested shortly after that. So that is something he said. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 01:36 AM
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We could address the paper trail he left behind when he defrauded his sex trafficking victims on their taxes. How about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 01:23 AM
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I love how you defend your favorite sex offender with the biggest cope I have seen in my entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 01:20 AM
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Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 05:47 PM
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Everyone has some trauma from their past, and somebody who actually cares about you will be willing to work around it to a certain extent. My husband and I have actually both been cheated on so we are more sympathetic likely because we understand each other. Your instincts that someone who cares will provide comfort are correct. it’s laughable when women who’ve only known me for a few years expect me to trust them more than anything. FOH. There has to be proof of moral character over time. What’…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 05:46 PM
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I probably see the paternity test issue from a more rational standpoint because of my time spent in family court specifically the child support division where paternity testing is common due to the financial impact it can have on someone’s life. I am not attracted to the kind of person who blindly accepts information without question. My husband is the kind of person who questions everything and he discovers the truth. It’s easily the reason he’s successful in his career. I also don’t believe in…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:22 PM
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Mommie dearest and Cinderella. Men are the ones who bring up fatherless behavior usually to insult women. Whatever issues are considered “daddy issues” can easily be the result of abuse from either parent, and frankly partaking in casual sex isn’t a good predictor of past trauma.. Then abuse affects everyone differently so the psychological effects can vary widely. Lack of confidence, unhealthy attachment, hypersensitivity, lack of boundaries and trust are common. I worked in child protective se…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:51 AM
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Would that make you more concerned about body count than you currently are? No, it would have fed into insecurities I already had.. I feared being used I was already untrusting of people who had casual sex because one person was always treated like shit in the exchange or their heart was stomped on and I feared that happening to me. I was also told this but seeing it happen to people around you really makes that nightmare a reality. Navigating that world was my biggest fear second only to death.…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:36 PM
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And I’m aware that happens that is literally why I said that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:57 PM
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You’re arguing to argue. I gave my opinion in response to a question. wtf are you on??
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:46 PM
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I’m not naive that is my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:38 PM
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Why do I have to love a woman if she changed and gained 30/40+kg. You’re conflating love with sexual attraction.. If you suddenly don’t love someone because they are unattractive and nothing else changes then you were never in love you were in lust. However I don’t blame someone who is fit for wanting a partner to be fit or put effort into maintaining their figure. I even think weight gain can be a reasonable deal breaker but the way you’re describing it is that you’ve built up your “relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:05 AM
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Do you think it should be mandatory for a paternity test to be done at the birth of a child BEFORE the father decides to legally bind his responsibility to said child? Yes, that is actually what most people did in paternity court because the county I worked in wouldn’t set up child support without a paternity test unless the father waived his right to that paternity test.. that may be how it works in most states though.. However I don’t see the point in not establishing this at birth. Which coul…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:49 AM
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Hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:06 AM
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Extroverts are more resilient, outwardly kind and I feel more secure around them because they are expressive and communicative. I feel like I know what’s on their minds which puts me at peace because I don’t have to wonder about things that may cause me to feel insecure. It’s not that I have a fear of introverts but they are harder to read so naturally my preference is extroverts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:48 AM
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Hooking up implies there is only the intent to use someone for their body. There’s a variety of issues that make it predatory. The process of finding easy targets to use being the main concern. Also the nature of sex makes it easy for people to catch feelings for each other which may not be possible to return. Most adults know that sex is a bonding experience so I don’t see how treating people like sex dolls is moral. So yes hooking up in general is immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:21 PM
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This year I baked his favorite cake make his favorite meal and took him shopping for clothes because he needed a new work clothes for his new job which required him to dress up more. So I bought him 5 work shirts. I also dressed up, I did a goth baddie look that was Taylor Momsen inspired. I had a phase in highschool where I was gothish, he wanted to see it so I showed him. Usually I take him to a high end restaurant maybe bake something if we don’t get dessert there. Once we went to the arcade,…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:04 AM
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That depends on a lot of factors because obviously it can be predatory but if the intent is to find a wife who you are going to treat with respect and be a loving husband too then no. If your intent is to take advantage of things that are illegal in your own country like child marriage, or even just participating in hook up culture in other countries then yes I’d consider that predatory. Andres Tate comes to mind when I think about passport bros who are predatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 04:41 AM
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Pre-obesity I find most people attractive. That doesn’t necessarily mean I’ll have sex with them but they are attractive enough if we were compatible in other ways I’d consider them as a potential partner. Attractive enough to have sex with hasn’t happened to me I usually fantasize about non-sexual quality time that we’d spend together. I have met and had extremely attractive men interested in me but I typically wasn’t enthused. I only think about them, for example, when you asked me this questi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 04:19 AM
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Sex crime , exploitation, and porn addiction are horrible and completely separate from consensual sex work No it’s not lmao. Porn addiction is a negative consequence directly caused by sex work.. Exploitation of women and children is an unavoidable side effect of sex work and gives predators avenues to hide behind to accomplish their goals. Without porn streaming platforms sex trafficking children wouldn’t be as easy and it certainly wouldn’t be as profitable because guess what? I have reported …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 09:20 PM
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why Because I work with children who have been sex trafficked and they are monetized sometimes even unwillingly on platforms like OF, porn hub and other major platforms and sex workers are contributing to the demand by participating in those platforms. It’s part of the cycle that makes exploiting children and women easier. Pedophiles use sex positivity to groom children and the liberals have let this completely infect society, popular music that children are listening to glorifies sex work, it’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 08:27 PM
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You aren’t reducing your value to only being good for sex Nope a lot of sex workers make their job their identity not only do they reduce their value to being a body for work they usually do it irl. It’s almost like having sex with a bunch of other people isn’t healthy outside just the risk of STDs you lose sense of your value. I know a 400lb sex worker who thinks she is hot shit and can get married whenever she wants. She has yet to produce a relationship where she doesn’t get used, and the nar…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 08:15 PM
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It doesn’t. I know sex workers who are 400lbs. What skills do you think she has? She can hardly walk from point A to B.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 08:05 PM
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So is a plumbers value reduced to plumbing? A doctor reduced to medicine only? I have personally known several porn stars, doctors and plumbers and only one of those groups of people was filled with some of the dumbest human beings I have ever met. Even if a plumber or doctors value was reduced to their profession they’d still be a hell of a lot more valuable than sex workers.. Sex work creates unsafe platforms for women and children. It also gives men unrealistic expectations of sex. It ruins p…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 08:03 PM
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If your husband was in every other way the same, but had personality and morals of a violent criminal or serial killer, would you still gotten into and stayed in a relationship with him? lol no I’d be scared of him. He would also lack a lot of things that made him different than any man I had met which is why I wanted to marry him. charisma, game, postive social traits like kindness or honesty are irrelavent. What attracted me to my husband were those things. Especially his honesty, my husband w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 12:17 PM
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What exactly makes a pornstar unintelligent though? Where’s the intelligence in reducing your value to being only good for sex. Imagine having 0 skills outside being a series of holes for $4.99 a month and 0 identity outside of being a sexual deviant.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:57 AM
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You’re defending a sexist article. Your comment itself doesn’t have to be gendered it’s still you defending sexism. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 11:39 PM
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Elizabeth Holmes was non-violent and she caused massive damage on society.. I have already said it’d make sense to focus on decriminalizing some non-violent offenses you guys making it a gendered specific exemption is what’s retarded. Prison isn’t what damages those kids it’s their parents choices that lead to that outcome. Perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 08:02 PM
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I don’t use the report function that way. I believe there’s more value in leaving dumbass ideas visible when people challenge it so people who can’t think for themselves know that these ideas are nonsensical. I remember when I thought the progressives were intelligent now they are sheep and bigots.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:22 AM
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That doesn’t make you any less sexist and is incredibly naive. Some people can’t be reformed which is why you see a lot of repeat offenders. Recidivism statistics in the U.S. are bleak. A 2021 Bureau of Justice Statistics study found that 66% of people released from prison in 24 different states in 2008 were re-arrested within three years. At the decade mark, 82% had been re-arrested. https://www.success.com/recidivism-rates/#:~:text=Recidivism%20statistics%20in%20the%20U.S.,%25%20had%20been%20r…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:26 AM
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So are we just going to pretend women don’t murder and can’t be damaging to society?? “There’s so few angels of death we should just let them fly free.” vomits money🤑
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 03:59 AM
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Until you realize some of those children were abused by their mothers?? Accountability from the law shouldn’t be applied to any singular community of people outside of the lower functioning.. So unless you are implying that women are lower functioning it’s not a good argument at all, you know what would make more sense? Decriminalizing certain non-violent offenses for EVERYONE..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 03:42 AM
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Do you support no longer sending women to prison ? No..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 03:28 AM
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Having none would be a red flag to me. When men don’t entertain female friendships I assume they don’t value women as people. Having only female friends is kinda a red flag also but it’s more acceptable than having none. My husband has a lot of female friends but he only sees them once every couple years. I did feel intimidated by one of them because she seems to have unresolved feelings for him even though he rejected her I have requested she not be invited to things, including my wedding and m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 05:18 AM
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I think the most obvious definition of loyalty would be physical and emotional fidelity. Personally I think it goes deeper. Loyal people don’t entertain options outside of that relationship. They don’t do porn, escort, prostitute or keep friends who are romantically interested in them. Not to say men and women can’t be friends but if evidence arises that suggests one person has feelings or they talk negatively about your spouse I think continuing that friendship is shady. For example i ended a d…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 04:58 AM
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I wouldn’t find braces attractive. Sorry. You asked so I assume you want honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 05:47 AM
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If your concern is alimony and child support you shouldn’t be having kids with that person lol. That being said, children deserve the chance to be raised in a loving family where they are actually wanted. I’d hate to generalize but most women having kids out of wedlock weren’t religious or educated. You typically see it in the US in the poorer communities I speculate because of government incentives and child support. I’m not against child support but that seems to be the best way to make money …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 08:44 PM
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Is a man who is lovey-dovey/affectionate seen as feminine or unattractive? No you just described my husband. Most men are not as open with their feelings/affection and it’s something I liked about my husband that I noticed most men don’t do. Initially I do think my husband was reserved about telling me his feelings but overtime he got comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:58 AM
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Rape is most common on college campuses everywhere else isn’t common. Have I ever felt unsafe in an Uber? No. I also pay attention to where they are taking me. If they were taking me somewhere I didn’t recognize I’d call my husband or the police depending on the circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 03:52 AM
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I think I know the root cause behind the “men who hate their wives/gf” trend. Do you agree? Nope I touch grass. Lmao you’re starting to sound like those black pilled men no one takes seriously who posts here. The men I have met IRL who hate their wives hate them because their wives are crazy. What is more common is mismatched hobbies or ethics. Hate is a strong word for that scenario. Most people don’t know how to select a partner that is a good fit. Otherwise I’d see it more often. That is a se…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 03:38 AM
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Yes absolutely. People who go to college have a much easier time finding employment, keeping employment, are on average more intelligent and come from better families. It makes a difference in the quality of your partners for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 02:35 AM
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When I dated men who weren’t educated it was a mix of them not caring and them being intimidated by my career and education. It’s part of the reason my first relationship ended, there were other issues but frequent sources of contention were: he didn’t understand I had other things taking up my time or refused too. The second area of contention, he was not ambitious. When I say that I mean he did not even pursue a full time blue collar job. When he flunked out of college I had hope that he would…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:36 AM
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What could men offer as a bargaining chip that would convince you to change your ideology to some degree? Absolutely nothing. I have my standards, I know/knew they could be met. End of story. I did not change my standards for Olympic athletes, movie directors, or talented men working for our government. I turned all these men away and never regretted it. The funny thing is the men in this forum think having an impressive resume is all it takes. Not only is that not true I value other things more…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 08:33 AM
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And if someone gets seriously hurt you can be prosecuted despite consent given.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 11:43 PM
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If it doesn’t work and ends in a conviction 80% of the time then you are grasping at straws to be right. And judges favor women in court, this is known.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 11:38 PM
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How many cases were they actually found guilty comparatively? I highly doubt those cases have high win rates, especially for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 11:32 PM
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It is justified when we need people to defend our nation from inhumane treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 08:44 PM
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i just can’t comprehend the enormous amount of money we put into the military and the innovation and how they can’t figure this out Well I am not a scientist so I can’t address that. I only know what the armor weighs because i have friends and family in the military.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 08:36 PM
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It isn’t about equally distributing the burden at all. It’s about national security, so yes the best defenders of national security would be men in certain situations especially in roles that require physical strength.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 08:34 PM
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I would not say it makes financial sense but it does make logical sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 08:32 PM
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The intent for harm in boxing is protected by law and the opponents are typically similar in weight. They also have equipment to help prevent some harm. If someone asks you to choke them and you do then they file charges and have evidence you choked them (bruising) trying telling a jury that was consensual and see how that works out for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 08:31 PM
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Weak men are stronger than strong women on average so that point doesn’t stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 08:26 PM
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You can change the incentives there are endless possibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 08:25 PM
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Also I’m going to refer you to my other comment. Most armor is 20lbs then you still have to carry equipment (usually guns) and I am a fit high testosterone women and my day hiking pack is 20lbs. In order for women to carry 30lbs it is recommended we weight 150lbs which is overweight for most women and being overweight comes with physical incapabilities that would not make women good in combat. I have even had to watch my weight because even 15lbs renders me incapable of hiking and skiing in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 08:11 PM
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I’m going to double comment because I had to change the weight of my pack also the recommended weight for a day hiking trip is supposed to not be more than 10 percent of your body weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 08:02 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 08:01 PM
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you’re telling me we’re gonna turn away 50% of possible military people bc we can’t figure out how to make gear light enough? we spent 820 billion on the military just last year... not adding up. Ok so I go back packing and my pack is 20lbs (which is the maximum I can possibly carry and I’m fit) im also lighter than what would be the recommended size for carrying a backpack that heavy. the average woman without working out can lift 70lbs. But when you are walking for miles that 20lbs is a lot he…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 07:49 PM
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The government already incentivizes women to have children. It’s called tax breaks for married couples and parents. There is no force necessary. We could always incentivize immigration.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 07:43 PM
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Reducing combat roles to pressing buttons is insincere. There are plenty of OTHER combat roles that require physical strength. Why you chose to ignore that any other role would exist for the sack of your argument is ridiculous. Heck just the armor and the gear you’d have to carry around would further decrease a woman’s physical performance compared to men’s. Women over heat easier, we aren’t faster, we aren’t stronger, and carrying a body off the field should with all your armor and equipment on…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:04 PM
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Did I say that? No I did not. So idk why you are putting words into my mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:32 PM
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There are penalties for not going you can’t be forced to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 12:14 PM
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And the government already does this in the US btw, you get tax breaks for being a parent. Women who don’t get married/reproduce don’t get those tax incentives so. We are already equal there.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 12:12 PM
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Not by use of force but there could be some penalty to encourage giving birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 12:05 PM
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I didn’t take it to be about men, it just randomly reminded me of my friend and I was curious if you had the same experiences as her because mine are quite different than hers. It was for comparison purposes, it doesn’t sound like you have a non-American preference. Which helps me pinpoint some issues that my friend is likely having in her dating experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 07:36 AM
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The whole USA climate is depressing and sad. I have a friend who says the men in other countries are nicer and more traditional than Americans. I’m curious if you also have a preference for non-American men. I can’t say I share her experiences but she is dating today and I dated over 7 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 07:23 AM
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If you can’t name one positive thing she has done it doesn’t surprise me that you can’t even name one negative thing she’s done because you’ve just admitted your vote is blind anyways. Our founding fathers were scared of this exact situation and thank god they put in a system to protect us from peoples incompetence and complacency.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 07:08 AM
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Name one positive thing Kamala did as a VP.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:49 AM
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If me “not standing with women” is not standing for non-sense then that is a compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:37 AM
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“I know you know the truth but I’m going to keep lying.”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:36 AM
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I will never take anything you say seriously again.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:30 AM
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Contact sports isn’t equivalent because unintended harm isn’t abusive. treat (a person or an animal) with cruelty or violence, especially regularly or repeatedly. use (something) to bad effect or for a bad purpose; misuse. I have made my stance clear I am against people physically assaulting each other. Not only is it unethical it’s illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:28 AM
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I didn’t think you were a troll. So naturally, she sent him a money request for his half of the bill (from the last date). In response, he sent her the receipts from the first two dates. Absolutely petty and childish. But now I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:22 AM
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There is a reason we have laws preventing people from assaulting each other. The deterrent is jail time..
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:19 AM
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I don’t care who is enjoying it it’s abuse. Full stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:08 AM
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The government can incentivize immigration. Japan does. The only way this couldn’t happen is if everyone died in some catastrophe then maybe id agree that women should step up to re-populate.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:08 AM
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SERF’s claim porn is about abusing women. My main concern is the unintended consequence of porn is abuse. You don’t always know that the person behind the camera is: 1. There willingly and 2. An adult. I work with teenagers that are in recovery from that specific situation and the porn companies don’t take down the content despite me reporting it for months. These girls wear make up to look older, are trained to act older and don’t have bodies like teenagers. You wouldn’t know the difference. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:54 AM
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Who goes to yoga class and assumes people are there to look at their ass lol. There would have to be something seriously wrong with you in the head to be that paranoid about random people working out around you. Is the assumption that you have the best ass in the world that people can’t even go about their day because your ass is a bullseye for attention. And the dudes I have met who do yoga were some of the chillest people I have met. Yoga is advertised as a healthy coping skill for anxiety may…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:11 AM
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Immigration also solves the not enough people problem so you are just being sick. Women have also died in non-combat roles. There isn’t a replacement for men in combat roles that require a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:02 AM
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Anything that requires physical strength to excel at.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 12:53 AM
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Immigration also solves the not enough people problem. So we didn’t have to jump to forced childbirth plus people will be having kids just not radfems.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 12:52 AM
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You just compared a national security concern to sex trafficking congratulations. Which also makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 08:41 PM
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Women should not be drafted for combat roles. You can either do the job or you can’t and we shouldn’t be jeopardizing our countries safety just for inclusion purposes or because of “it’s not fair”. Careers that have physical strength requirements should have those requirements be universal. They could however be drafted in non-combat roles.. Like culinary specialist.. I’d like circumcision to be illegal. Paper abortions for rape victims. Paternity testing should be required prior to receiving an…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 04:04 AM
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For the feeble minded absolutely. The political violence that just took place demonstrates how easily people are influenced when they don’t have all their marbles. I would understand why a woman who lived through legitimate trauma is jaded. Being jaded because you live vicariously through other people OTI shows you really don’t think for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 03:27 AM
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Pretty much everyone called that guy out for trolling lol. It isn’t rational to assume Reddit trolls are a good representation of anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:28 AM
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Yeah lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 10:25 PM
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if its not oral it doesn’t count as trying imo, but i give oral often I’m not someone who gives oral at all. I don’t prefer oral because I find it stressful so that method is less likely to work on me. I end up feeling bad for them and I can’t get over my guilt. It’s really not my cup of tea. the orgasm gap in general tells me me men in general do not. I think there are likely a lot of factors that contribute to this, a lack of attentiveness/ selflessness for sure is a factor I’d throw into the …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 09:54 PM
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was it when he was going down on you? This has happened all kinds of ways. With toys, hands and oral. It’s a rare occurrence but it definitely happens once a year. I don’t drink either so it can’t be alcohol related. Like I said I estimate that this happens to me 1% of the time. He’s also aware when it happens and wants to correct it but if we’ve put in a certain amount of effort at some point I realize it isn’t going to happen so I tell him I don’t think it’s going to happen for me today. It’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 09:23 PM
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I have had it happen to myself on rare occasions and I didn’t know why. It could have been a head space thing I have never taken medication. I climaxed with that person 99% of the time I don’t blame them for whatever fluke happened. I am not in denial that there are men out there who care more about their pleasure than their partners but I also think some women don’t communicate their needs they just expect them to be met. So the blame would shift depending on the situation
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 09:07 PM
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Reciprocating is important but orgasms are not always possible. It is very circumstantial. Not everyone is experienced and may not recognize your reaction as an orgasm they may not recognize you didn’t have one either. That is why communication is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 08:48 PM
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Goodbye spittin cobra.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 08:16 AM
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Realistically both would struggle compared to their alternate reality extroverted self but since men do the approaching typically the woman would have it “easier” than the man in this case.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 08:13 AM
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I recognize your username because you keep posting about your anxiety related to aging. Ironically the more you stress out over the inevitable the more cortisol you will produce which ages you. You should probably go drink some camomile tea and go to bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 02:10 AM
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So what are you going to do with them? Encourage them to self improve. Telling them hateful bigoted narratives about how inferior they are probably isn’t going to be good for social cohesion It’s unreasonable to assume I do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:46 PM
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No, I’d rather condemn casual sex. Singleness encourages causal relationships which create chaos and are bad for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:14 PM
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What if she doesn’t even prefer guy friendships but mainly has guy friends because they are easier to handle?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:01 AM
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1: gift wise I bought my husband this ring https://www.mene.com/bands/gold/mene-wide-flat-band-gold I also cook daily (for my husband not necessarily for myself). I’m not answering this. Probably died for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:48 AM
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I think that depends on how wildly you misinterpret something. If your misinterpretation shocks a non-biased observer then I think that is on the person receiving the message.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:06 AM
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I forget exactly what was said but basically what I remember of the situation she misunderstood his intentions and called him creepy (to me) so I explained what I thought his real intentions were to her because I did not interpret what he said the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:29 AM
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Subjective. I have seen women call men creepy when they weren’t even being creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:01 AM
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I still think trolling is funny kinda like this thread but I’m debating in good faith cause I’m a nice person.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:00 AM
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In the RP and BP spaces, pretty much all of the rhetoric is purposefully inflammatory/hyperbolic- and in BP/BP-adjacent spaces, the vast majority of the “misogyny” and “hateful rhetoric” is simply saying edgy things for the sake of either shock value or ingroup signaling. You just described trolling. I wonder if you are as sympathetic to the women defending their bear over man choices.. I am not sympathetic to insane comparisons/rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 11:56 AM
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I agreed to sign a pre-nup to marry my husband. Why? Because I don’t plan on getting divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 04:04 AM
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Porn viewing is wrong, but so is the creation of that type of content because you are supporting industries that exploit people (including minors). There is illegal content on just about every platform available to view pornography.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:45 AM
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Since you said past history that’s forgivable. I’d ask about what made him quit though because I’d hope it’d be one of two reasons: 1. He had the common sense to not look at porn within our relationship 2. Realized pornography is the exploitation of women. Hopefully both.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:40 AM
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You are responsible for communicating your needs however if you have communicated clearly then the blame shifts to your partner. Also if they tried and it didn’t happen then I would blame nobody.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 09:40 PM
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James but I also can get jealous so I’m more accepting of people like that. As long as it isn’t “why are you wearing make up to work” insanity. “You’re 15 minutes late coming home who did you fuck?” I also don’t live my life in a manner that would naturally foster jealousy. I don’t enjoy clubbing, I like bringing my S/O everywhere, I dress modestly and I don’t really hang out with other guys by myself. Once a year maybe. That just how I naturally am I don’t even hang out with my gfs more than on…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 09:22 PM
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Yes but I am partial to extroverts. I am myself more introverted and extroverts compliment me better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 03:58 PM
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There are other reasons to vote for Trump outside of a porn ban (business incentives for keeping jobs here, lower taxes and policy changes keeping China from buying American homes contributing to inflation). It would be nice to get a win for women in at least one of the two categories I care about. Legalized abortion and pornography bans. I’m not really a modern feminist my concerns are about real women not being viewed as maids and pornstars by men and having access to relevant medical care.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 11:58 AM
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Well if he were going to ban porn. I’d vote for him. 😲
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 10:17 AM
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Nathan. I love going to watch live games. If he played soccer I’d play with him. I also ski and hike so we may have a lot of fun things to do together. I also love to travel. You described Michael as an asshole and I would constantly be in verbal alterations with Michael we would hate each other, he’d wish I’d poison him and I might do it. Then having a kid from a one night stand is impulsive and retarded. Luke is an introvert and I have never dated anyone who’s shy and I’m not open to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 09:57 AM
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I don’t disagree, but I certainly don’t think Trump is anti porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 08:42 AM
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Trump has sex with porn stars he isn’t going to ban porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 05:58 AM
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How do females detext high testosterone men? Blood test them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 05:53 AM
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American Men have Normalized dating multiple women to speed up the process of finding ‘the One’ That is what dating apps did.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 04:44 AM
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You being an outlier doesn’t negate what statistics show
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:06 PM
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I’m interested in all your love stories because romance is cute ❤️, but also I’m curious for what percentage of women on this sub a man’s actions and words were more important than his initial appearance. I meet my husband on a video game. We had mutual friends but I had never seen him in person. I knew the first time we talked he was different from any man I had met. Eventually we became Facebook friends and there was physical attraction (I was his type but he was also mine). I don’t give out m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:12 AM
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A man who has experienced variance will have the full picture of what he “mises out” 5, 7, 10 years into a marriage/LTR/whatever. While a man who has not will naturally wonder. This was the reasoning listed for why having 2 partners was bad for men and women actually. 2 and 3 had increased incidences of disloyalty as opposed to 4 for women and 5-6 for men so you are not completely wrong nor right. a woman with a low count who is very well satisfied by her experienced partner, will have fewer rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 07:25 PM
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All of this comment was based on nothing you know for certain.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 07:18 PM
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I do think however that sex addiction and avoidant attachment styles have a correlation with a higher number of partners, and that in turn leads to more infidelity. Bur correlation isn’t causation. But those are negative personality traits that would have an impact on one’s ability to be loyal which you have just attributed to being something people with larger previous partners would more often have than persons with less partners. Not everyone wants to deal with those qualities- I wouldn’t rec…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 11:17 AM
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That isn’t much fluctuating I don’t anticipate much fluctuation. I don’t advocate for 0 tolerance or lack of forgiveness but at some point you have to concede that beyond a certain number of past sexual partners that person had/has negative personality traits that lead them down that path for example using people for their bodies/assets or being highly insecure needing constant validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 10:13 AM
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Depends on what you’re comfortable with. Personally I’d not forgive anything past 10. If they bragged about having sex with women casually I take that as a sign they are willing to use someone selfishly (this is a dealbreaker for me). Them being able to turn down opportunity is also important (impulse control). If the causal sex they have had was a situation they were honest about with their FWB and they make it clear that it was mutually beneficial I would forgive that. When people don’t live b…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 09:19 AM
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No, statistically and from personal experience they do not. The number one predictor for infidelity in men and women is past sexual history. Women under 4 and men under 6 past sexual partners are more loyal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 08:48 AM
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Some virgins are not involuntarily celibate. I actually know adult male virgins who are involuntarily celibate irl and guess what? He is actually really nice. He has positive views on women and loves his mother. He makes me a better gamer and in return for his knowledge I rhyme his name with stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 08:34 AM
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I microwaved some ants once.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:40 AM
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”Don’t bring up marriage or kids, and don’t cook for him or you’ll seem desperate. Act mysterious, and lure him in. Trick him into committing to you” I don’t think I can change how my brain works to be this manipulative. Nor do I want too. I always mentioned marriage and kids in the beginning because if that wasn’t their end goal I’m wasting my time. I never regretted talking about this on first and second dates. I also think cooking is an important and basic life skill it doesn’t set you apart …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 04:56 AM
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He’s a keyboard warrior lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:51 AM
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Women who wear revealing clothing for “comfort” or because it “makes them feel good”, is that the truth? Heavy make up and the outfit you described would be for attention. It’s not comfortable to be in heavy make up or even tight fitted clothing but less clothing is more comfortable. Wearing something tight fitted may have some functionality such as influencer leggings/tanks tops/cat suits if you want to lose “weight” there via sweating. Keep in mind this is for losing water weight not actual fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:44 AM
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Dumbasses are always going to be the loudest community. Most people even if they dislike Trump respected his valor in the recent events. Not many people can get shot and think to fist pump in defiance the majority of people would be in shock.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:57 AM
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My husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:34 AM
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That is TRUMPS legacy there are movements started by moderate conservatives (the Lincoln project) that oppose Trump. I personally know a lot of conservatives that are pro-choice AND anti-Trump. I also stand by the 16-20 weeks limit since that is when parts of the brain begin developing that create a conscious experience. Also, Trump was very nearly assassinated by someone who identified as republican. There are absolutely people who oppose him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:21 AM
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I support people who are human and make mistakes but I do not see the point in supporting malice. I don’t think that is what feminism should be (or is) about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:11 AM
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If I were a single mom I would not want a man who wasn’t excited about my kid. I wouldn’t want to have to convince anyone to give me a shot because they were hesitant about my child. I’d actually want them to not bother me. That being said I think single moms can be green flags under certain circumstances. 1. They don’t talk shit about the father and 2. allow the father into the child’s life. If she left because the father was abusive that’d be a red flag because that is a safety concern. If som…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:41 PM
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While I can respect your honesty it is very morally inconsistent and hypocritical when you know you’ve ruined yourself to make the judgement that a woman in your position isn’t worthy of your forgiveness. You are not worthy of forgiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:11 AM
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I’m at -11 and all I did was build my husband. Age gap didn’t apply because within 5 years didn’t apply and 10 year age gap also didn’t apply.. So I had no idea what to do
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 09:43 PM
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Also Tate: “the mystery of fatherhood is that I’m around for 2 hours a month because I’m out conquering the world and come home with amazing stories.” Me: bitch you work from home you aren’t conquering shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 09:30 AM
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Probably regional but I lived in the Midwest and that was my type for the longest time. It stopped being my type when I went vegan. Now I like soy boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 08:57 AM
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So if a dude whose face is covered in acne and scaring who is short sleeps with a 6/10 and doesn’t commit her league is lower than him??? I couldn’t even stomach looking in his direction. Btw her husband is way more attractive than this dude and makes good money welding. It appears that wasn’t a reflection of her league at all..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:39 AM
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I correlated in to high standards in this case. But that is the only example I have of what men in this forum complain like it’s common amongst women I don’t believe it is because just about every friend I made in college is married except her. So clearly they had realistic standards at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:27 AM
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In the comment you responded too I literally sad I wasn’t saying being a virgin at 30 wasn’t a bad thing so you missed the mark. I’m hating on her standards because I think she is too shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:22 AM
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How is the sex different? Because it’s paid for. So sex with hookers is better? Try asking Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:26 PM
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I don’t think he’s trolling. It’s sad
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:18 PM
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That comment was random internet insanity at best. But if you think it made sense..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:15 PM
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It extremely abnormal to be a virgin at 30 not saying it’s a bad thing just that it isn’t something that happens often. Haha I’m not insinuating women at 30 are done for.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:30 PM
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I’ve noticed a pattern here, not just by you, but most women replying. Most women HERE IN THE COMMENTS see their relationships as two separate units under one roof and tend to be more interested how housework it affects them. Woman are more affected by men’s expectations of who does more housework. That is statistically proven. Unless I am given SAHM privileges housework is 50/50. That is how you move as a unit. Your proposal is people (men) not considering their S/O’s (women’s) want/needs of fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 11:04 AM
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This forum has so many terminally online posters I felt that had to be clarified.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:53 AM
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They weren’t always shooting out of their league is what I was saying. I didn’t insinuate they are terrible people for it even if that was happening. That is the commonly held belief of men in this forum that if men don’t commit then the women were shooting out of their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:39 AM
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At first I thought this comment came from a feminist lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:37 AM
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Yeah no that history teacher was way more nerdy. I hung out with him a couple times but he was always talking about history and trying to show me history movies.. it was kinda a turn off for me but she really liked him. I think he was her crush throughout college.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:35 AM
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Yeah I wasn’t super close with her but I noticed she had high standards. Cause the med student was one of my friends for a long time. At one point I considered dating him but we got into an argument and I never forgave him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:29 AM
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She provided no reason. The only thing I have to go off of is the fact she showed interest in a history teacher who was technically more attractive than the doctor and he reciprocated interest but ultimately he decided to pursue someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:08 AM
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Why would you just assume I don’t know the meaning of words. Lol Did I just get compared to hitler I am so confused. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 09:49 AM
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I’m glad your happy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 09:46 AM
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It could have been insecurity. I was shocked she said no myself but I wondered if that was why. However she also didn’t know him as well as I did. He was one of my best friend’s brothers so I happened to know his intentions were genuine she might not have known that. I don’t feel like she was used to receiving attention from men. She isn’t conventionally attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 07:47 AM
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You classically ignored the part of my comment that doesn’t support your claim. How about we throw you to the wolves and watch you figure out who isn’t lying about their interest in you and see if you figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 06:49 AM
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Do you think unattractive women exist? By unattractive I don’t mean in looks here; what I’m asking is whether there are any women who struggle to attract male attention. I know women who have struggled but if your definition of struggle is that they are involuntarily celibate. I can’t think of one. This includes burn victims with visible scaring on 80% of their body (in a long term committed relationship), women with facial deformities (married) and 30 year old virgins (too picky- I have seen th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:17 AM
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A high value woman is a married woman So women who are cheaters are high value women by your definition. what is the difference between having sex with a woman who isn’t looking for marriage and a woman who charges for sex? One is a hooker. Why do most of the ultra rich men choose women who charge for sex rather than those who are NOT striving for marriage? Because beautiful women are highly desired and can get away with being entitled. When people have the resources they want the best things th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:43 AM
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You moved the goal post.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:15 PM
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I'm comfortably in the 1% No one asked lol. And the rest of your reply you moved the goals posts from two working adults to a SAHM situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:57 PM
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You don’t dictate anything I do so there’s that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:13 PM
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I actually wondered what would happen if I replaced the man with a black man in the bear vs man question but the mods took it down for being a “shit post.” Whatever. I think it would show that is bigotry.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:52 PM
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Q4W: would you rather be alone in the woods with a bear or a black man? I wasn’t allowed to post the question in PPD because it was considered a shit post.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:36 PM
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Our income differences are irrelevant. Work load would be a better argument. You just want an excuse to not contribute.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:07 PM
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Nope, I work overtime and I pull my weight at home. Men can too. If working overtime is your choice and not a necessity that is what you choose to do with your free time. That isn’t women’s problem. Edit: how about you nickle and dime your wife for housework and report back to us with how that goes. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 12:58 PM
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Calling someone a cow is a middle school level insult. I’m not impressed. If they had been more creative it have been funny but that doesn’t make it not mean. For example, “I’d marry the balloona Lisa.” That is funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:19 AM
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Oh. Gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:06 AM
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I thought you couldn’t be more ridiculous and yet you have managed to lower my expectations. If he referred to her as a cow then that would make his negative views of her known. It’s not manipulative but that is mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 08:12 AM
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Sounds like a gaslighty way to justify being manipulative.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 07:56 AM
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So manipulation is just joking now lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 07:40 AM
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You don’t have to dump resources into friends that is simping. And ideally you’d be putting your efforts into a group of friends meaning multiple women at once. Idk how you guys don’t understand that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 06:53 AM
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That only works if the women you're hanging out with comprehend that introducing you to other people is a good thing. Lol I don’t understand how they wouldn’t comprehend that. Are they just afraid of men or something? Why do they think being introduced to new people is a bad thing? A lot of women my age think that dating within a friend group is gross. Did they say why they think it’s gross? Lol it was pretty normal in 2011-2015 for dating to occur within groups of friends. There were some chick…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 06:51 AM
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How would they use you if you weren’t giving them resources?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 06:45 AM
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This is the most random low effort bait I have ever seen in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:42 AM
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That is true
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:02 AM
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Well honestly I’m afraid I’d just assume they were memorized
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:04 AM
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Pick up lines have the opposite intended effect on me because they are too rehearsed. I want to talk to a real person. Edit: if by game you mean social skills outside of pick up lines then yes that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:59 AM
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I understand. My life experiences with people- especially bad parents being a former caseworker for the department of child services- have just created this hatred for people who have the preference for one gender over another for any reason. It is probably a personal bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:53 PM
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I think it’s important not to normalize hoping for one gender because there are people in real life who do this and they are always the worst kinds of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:45 PM
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Then why comment? Because it said: discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:39 PM
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I think more people should practice being happy with what they were given. Hoping for a gender can set you up for disappointment and I don’t think that would lead to the start of a healthy relationship with your future child so I refuse to have a preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:00 PM
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Those answers were in response to completely different questions. So you pretending the correlate doesn’t make sense. If a man makes a move then sure I would know but I have had guy friends that never indicated their interest was more than friendship so in that case I wouldn’t know because I never developed feeling for them so I didn’t make a move on them either. Also I have told you I didn’t use dating apps for the majority of the time I could have potentially dated anyone so there wouldn’t be …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:32 AM
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It's more common these things don't line up than do. How do you know? Then you're willfully oblivious Not really I feel like I usually know because most men shoot their shot if they are interested. So it’s not hard to figure out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:18 AM
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Also I didn’t use dating apps until sometime after college. So my only options for the majority of the time I was single had to come from friends. And I moved in with my husband at 24 so that was probably 1 year of my life using dating apps at most.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:09 AM
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And how many of them also would never fuck you? I wouldn’t know this because I don’t talk to my guy friends about my sexual experiences or ask them if they’d fuck me?? I know a couple had crushes at one point but I cut contact with men who I know have feelings for me if I am in a relationship. Guy friends don’t have girl friend status. That's partly my point. Most often, one or the other has an attraction, as evidenced by the number of times for you that it happened to be both parties. Ok.. But …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:07 AM
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I have plenty of guy friends I have never dated nor desired in that way. The fact that I dated mostly men I was friends with isn’t really evidence of women and men being incapable of friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:40 AM
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That is easy for you to say from the outside because you probably have more people around you that don’t believe the in the delusions. Even when I google search certain things most Americans accept as truth I struggle to find reputable resources because they are buried by a load of BS. In fact there are instances where I wouldn’t be able to find what I was really looking for unless I know of specific studies to pull up. That is how out of control it is. I have books that claim to have the cure t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:45 AM
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Ok, but propaganda is effective. Lol The majority of Americans eat foods that are illegal in other countries simply because it’s marketed as healthy in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:24 AM
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If that is the face of who is representing them then it would make sense for people to think that was a reflection of that group of people. I’m not calling you a lier I’m explaining why it’s believable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:59 AM
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Because the most popular influencers representing the red pill receive the most money from other men identifying as red pill also uphold the idea that female friendships are a waste of time/men and women can’t be friends
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:34 AM
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That isn’t true I was friends with some guys I dated for years beforehand including my husband. There were a variety of reasons I waited so long to date them, 1. believing I wasn’t good enough, 2. Not having your life together or 3. being in the military because I don’t want a partner who isn’t there/could die I will however date someone after service or once they are no longer in the military. Women have always had a lot of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:32 AM
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This sounds like your personal experience they don’t want to date you. Because I dated my friends almost exclusively.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:13 AM
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I can’t find much on google about him admittedly he has a decent following. I did find him criticizing FnF and promoting self love for men so at least there’s that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:12 AM
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Ok what is one influencer you consider to be an appropriate representation of the red pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:00 AM
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There's a few of us that do, but then we get flamed by angry women claiming No True Scotsman fallacy. Well before I say that those women are wrong let me take a look at who the most viewed leaders are in the manosphere. Unfortunately, Andrew Tate isn’t just the most popular he is the most googled name on the internet worldwide. And he is the worst example in that space out of them all. He also discourages female friendships. Another popular influencer mentioned on this forum is the whatever podc…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 04:57 AM
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Ok but there will be entire threads of flaired red pilled guys saying female friends are a waste of time and not one man flaired as a red piller corrects them. It is usually the blue pillers that encourage female friendships for social proofing, and in general just valuing women for more than sex. That’s just what I have noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 04:32 AM
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I have dated slobs before it is an automatic deal breaker for me. They often expect you to take care of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 04:09 AM
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That is how I met 7/8 of my boyfriends is mutual friends in social groups. But a lot of these red pill guys also say female friendships are a waste of time. I try to tell them it’s low risk and cost dating but they don’t listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:10 AM
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Oh shit
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:07 AM
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lol. I guess we are all free to dream big.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:01 AM
1

For the US
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:30 AM
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It’s a reliable sample size
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:30 AM
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No but I think a safe number would be 50
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:29 AM
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I have been on a considerable amount of first dates more than enough to create a reliable sample size.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:27 AM
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Not one woman would go for 3/4 of those men I’ll tell you that. The only viable one is Adam but he fishes so I wouldn’t date him. I don’t date men who rip sentient beings faces off for sport.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 10:39 PM
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They do. Considering I can think of one time a man didn’t pay for me on a first date- yes if they are interested they pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 10:28 PM
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Men who are interested pay. With men being willing to be manipulative I will not tolerate men who don’t pay and show they are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 10:22 PM
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Don’t get me wrong I consider myself a feminist but not necessarily a “modern feminist.” My traditional views regarding marriage stem from my religious background. My family are mostly Jehovah’s Witnesses however they were fairly liberal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 10:33 AM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:57 AM
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Well I disagree. Not every reason to get divorced is socially acceptable even if I think it should be legally permissible. The “he’s just a good guy” excuse is one made out of immaturity. Marriage isn’t for the fickle. You should feel bad for tearing apart your family. It isn’t healthy to be indifferent to the pain you’re causing others. Leaving your spouse for someone younger specifically for shallow reasons is similarly shameful. My uncle did this and has no relationship with his kids. He dese…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:50 AM
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You should consider taking the word feminist out of your flair and just putting the word misandrist in its place because you aren’t about expressing sentiments that women differentiate from doormats and prostitutes. You are actually just sexist. Edit: deleted comment: What good guy? Haven’t seen a good guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:36 AM
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Me in a rational state of mind: if I ever get a traumatic brain injury and I don’t give a fuck about anyone else other than myself even though it was not my fault I would not want my husband to remain married to me for me to ruin his life. Nope she made the right call too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:21 AM
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I don’t think I would ever be willing to get super married. It’s one thing to trust your spouse and another thing to be stupid about it. I’m all for signing prenups I will not enter any contracts I can’t escape from I will elaborate with a story. One of my friends parents had a great marriage for about 30 years. Everything was perfect then one day her husband got a traumatic brain injury that completely altered his personality. He began having sex with hookers, providing them with housing and se…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:01 AM
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That is hilarious you had people DMing you to not post here. No one paid them to be the hall monitors thats how committed they are. Whatever you are doing do it more.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 03:39 AM
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Except going to a strip club you know you will be manipulated for your money. That is what they are hired to do. Thinking your hot shit because you rewarded provocative behavior with your resources to get a disingenuous response out of them adds a layer of stupidity that doesn’t exist for women who are living in the real world and having to decipher which men are manipulating them versus actually interested in them. Then you want to blame women who have a hard time deciphering that men lie in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:09 PM
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Oh yes I was lucky my parents would have never disowned me. My Jehovah’s Witness family members send me letters to reach out but convert me but I’m not like shunned or anything so I’d say I go lucky in that respect. There are other unhealthy views they hold but I would say overall we were more liberal than what you described.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 10:06 AM
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Body count is the number one predictor of infidelity and for men with a body count over 6 the likelihood of being unfaithful begins to increase the higher the number. I think some low numbers like 2-3 also had a high likelihood but for the most part 1, 4-6 seem to be much safer. Also men who’ve rejected women’s advances because that signals they have a lot of discipline.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 09:49 AM
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I have had friends who would have died if abortion wasn’t legal in their state. Yes. The problem with abortion being illegal is that lawmakers are incapable of making medical decisions and write the laws trying to prevent medical abortions at all costs so you have to prove your dying scientifically which is a lot of times too late when we usually know ahead of time there will be complications. I also know of a lot of women who would have died without medical intervention that is very common actu…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 07:25 AM
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Wow. I also was raised Jehovah’s Witness however my family was more liberal with their views we eventually went to a non-denominational Christian church. I’m truly sorry that happened to you. I would not personally raise my kids inside of that kind of abusive religious environment. I really admire your courage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:37 AM
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My twenties was spent on college, social life (I made the majority of my friends in college) and then post college my career (I worked overtime). I moved in with my husband at 24. I was focused on finding a husband during my twenties but that was in between college and work. I dated a lot of people but ultimately no one met my standards so I was single the majority of that time. I did date someone for 2 years in college but he ended up not going down the path I thought he would. I met my husband…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:53 AM
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I went to Christian school and had a children’s bible
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:08 AM
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I don’t disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:08 AM
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women usually make it a Problem In Their RelationshipTM for the wrong reasons. I.e. it hurts their feefees. That isn’t a wrong reason because pornography consumption is infidelity. It destroys pair bonding and it is unhealthy. I would not even date someone who thought watching porn in a relationship was normal. It’s only chronically online reddit women that have the nerve to pretend it’s about bigger picture stuff like the industry being bad or “rewarding other girls.” No it’s not. Considering I…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:05 AM
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It’s actually a valid point because consuming pornography is you rewarding women for being provocative but of course you have a double standard for your partner. Your partner sees you rewarding provocative women and wants that validation from you but you don’t give her that because she is modest. I have no idea how you justify treating someone that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:01 AM
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My school had children’s bibles. Most bibles that children are giving are children’s bibles.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 06:07 AM
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It’s not just existing in the world it is being pushed into school libraries where the ages of the children make it very inappropriate content for that to be accessible to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 06:00 AM
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Being an adult I feel like is more related to keeping yourself alive. Like having a job, keeping up with hygiene and other basic survival skills like cooking. Independence would be like not relying on other people for the things that make you happy. This commonly references the lack of need for romantic partners. However I also think part of independence is having skills that enable you to not need the advices of other people to be successful or accomplish your goals. Independence is somewhere b…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 05:59 AM
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I never would have had access to that reading material in middle school. High school sure. We are talking as low as elementary school sexual content is available to children in their school libraries. Why is that content there if it isn’t for children to discover? Why is it there if people (liberals in particular) aren’t pushing for sex positivity, transgenderism and gay pride? It is absolutely being pushed onto kids and liberals are the ones behind this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 05:30 AM
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Who do you think is responsible for sexual content in school libraries? In January, The New York Times reported “Parents, activists, school board officials and lawmakers around the country are challenging books at a pace not seen in decades. The American Library Association said in a preliminary report that it received an ‘unprecedented’ 330 reports of book challenges, each of which can include multiple books, last fall.” It is being pushed onto children otherwise we would not be seeing a rise i…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 05:04 AM
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It’s not easy. A large portion of the population is not relationship material. Most people who I believe aren’t relationship material believe themselves to be a good partner but that isn’t the reality. I would go as far to say 80% of people I have met aren’t good romantic partners and I almost feel like I’m being generous with that percentage.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 04:06 AM
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From second article I sent: Indiana Parents of Carmel Clay Schools spoke up at a school board meeting regarding books with sexual content available to all kids–including Kindergartners. In an interview with a local television station, one dad said, “If I were to read it to you, you would not be able to air it because it would be against FCC obscenity laws.”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 03:36 PM
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https://www.fox5atlanta.com/news/cobb-county-schools-books-with-sexually-explicit-content-pulled.amp And there’s more https://www.defendyoungminds.com/post/shocking-sexual-content-school-books-plan-for-speaking-up
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 03:06 PM
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Doctors are not trained in nutrition, they are trained in medicine. Truer words have never been spoken. I had a friend who recently passed away at 29 from diabetes. The things she’d tell me her doctors recommended her to do were so uneducated I actually blame her doctors for her death. That situation was so tragically handled.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 02:53 PM
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You are a sick person who has no idea how to properly debate. I am not normalizing sex for children that is what the left does. Which party encourages sex positivity? I’ll give you a hint it isn’t the right.. This is projection and since you’ve pretty much displayed your incompetence I’m not sure facts would be enough to undo the propaganda you are blind enough to trust. Have a nice life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 02:34 PM
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I’m curious where you get your information? I mostly get mine from vegan documentaries and studies promoting veganism. So I’m interested where someone who isn’t vegan might find that information. I don’t talk to a lot of people who actually know what they are talking about in regards to health. Even doctors are ignorant about the things you’ve just said. My husband cured his heart disease eating Whole Foods. He hasn’t taken his medication in over 7 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 02:29 PM
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I just told you it is true because it is happening to kids I know. The school boards are fighting to put literotica in schools. You are a blind sheep in denial because you don’t want to face the reality you supported insanity. Sex positivity has leaked into every facet of life including the schools, the music our children listen too (which actually fetishizes sex trafficking) and it’s even all over the internet. The entire world laughs at American liberals.. You guys have 0 self awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 02:22 PM
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That is what the book claimed. About keto
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 02:06 PM
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The schools teach sex positivity to children! I have worked with the schools they are adding literotica to reading lists for 3rd graders. Literotica isn’t even healthy for adults it’s very porn adjacent in the damage it causes. AND WOKIES WANT OUR KIDS TO READ IT.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 02:03 PM
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You know that makes a lot of sense because I had a book that claimed to have the cure for diabetes, and 90% of illnessness we see in the US and now that book is banned. I have been suspicious of our healthcare system and food industry for the longest time and that is partially why my husband and I went vegan. Our meat isn’t legal in other countries because it’s so unhealthy the processing that we do to it the government is making us sick intentionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 01:58 PM
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And I happen to know schools are telling parents to lie to their kids about what they are teaching because I work with schools.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 01:55 PM
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They are teaching fetishes and before “no they aren’t.” Then why is my 12 year old nephew having sex with other 12 years old telling them to call her a man during when she NEVER had indicated any signs of transgenderism before?? Kids do things for attention and I have worked with kids for YEARS and every kid who’s had “transgenderism” grew out of it because they were doing it for attention not because they were genuinely mentally ill. It’s being fetishized it’s not be addressed in the same manne…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 01:54 PM
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I think internet will do that your kids for free. My husband is a brilliant IT guy, not your average It guy. We have already addressed the concern of the internet and he will have a solution. Actually "woke" "liberals" are also moving towards christian private schools because of their strict nature. Well, good thing I tutored children with disabilities I will put my teaching abilities to good use if I have too. However I’m confident that I can properly vet the school I send my kids too. Unfortun…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 01:45 PM
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I don’t necessarily look for 50/50 I look for consistency. For example I watched one episode of the whatever podcast which I think calling that a podcast is generous considering how incompetent Brian actually is. He misrepresents data or is too dumb to read because the number one predictor of infidelity in men and women is past sexual history and he constantly spouts off nonsense that “ITS DIFFERENT FOR MEN.” No it isn’t you’re just retarded. He can hold women accountable all he wants but the in…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 01:26 PM
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If I stayed home it wouldn’t be for my benefit it’d be for the kids. My husband wants our kids homeschooled and I’m happy to do that especially with the ways these schools are promoting gay sex and transgenderism to children. Our kids will not be exposed to that. I’d only consider Christian private school and hopefully Christian schools aren’t woke by the time I’m sending mine to school. And before the Wokies say children are not being influenced by these ideas they absolutely are I know childre…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 01:16 PM
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They can’t do my specific job. It would not just be an initial collapse it’d be unrecoverable. Those people are not going to be replaced in 25 years because people aren’t having children. We already have a nursing shortage due to the baby boomer situation. I had reviewed studies at one point that indicated patients had longer lives post operation when they have female surgeons as opposed to men but I cannot find it right now. However another problem that arises when we don’t have representation …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 12:38 PM
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I’m not a Tate supporter lol. So I won’t waste time dismantling all his arguments when I heard his take on fatherhood that was all I needed to hear and that was the first and only interview I have seen of Tate. I absolutely don’t need to hear more. I’d rather focus my time on studying theology, psychology and reducing my contributions to animal suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 12:06 PM
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He also normalized misogyny by calling it realism.. lol. He paints a picture that he’s out there “conquering the world” when he mainly works from home..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 11:53 AM
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Part of that is because he or his editors delete most negative comments and only leave the positive ones. That is a good point that didn’t cross my mind. I have noticed this happening on other platforms but usually these were on sales platforms like amazon I never thought an influencer would go to that length but it makes sense that’d be part of marketing himself. But having a large following just means one has charisma, not that you're an intelligent person I think you’d have to possess both qu…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 11:47 AM
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The fact that he is able to convince millions of people misogyny is realism? Lol. This sub is evidence he got through to a lot of people. His influence was incredibly powerful despite being used for bad things. I go to the comments of Andrew Tate interviews and you can’t find a single person saying anything negative about him that is how convinced he has people on the shit he says.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:48 AM
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Median income where I live is 35k. So most people are not in homes I imagine here
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 09:54 AM
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The problem I would have with him then is if he leaned into women more for views that makes him rather disingenuous. Also that kinda justifies the backlash he got for being biased against women. If someone asked the questions you described and there was no obvious asymmetrical treatment between the men and women, there wouldn’t be an argument for bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 09:49 AM
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I don’t know much about her admittedly. I just see shorts of her from time to time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 08:45 AM
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I mean the average price where I live is only $232k but that is still devastating for a single income family if they make 50k. It’s only livable on a 30 year loan with $46,000 down which is almost never recommended to have a loan for more than 15 years
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 08:10 AM
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Ok I will believe you because I don’t have evidence against you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 07:47 AM
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And even then a lot of men on this sub defended his innocence despite there being evidence he de-frauded those women on their taxes which proves the sex trafficking was real. It’s like showing them facts didn’t change their minds..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 07:45 AM
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Oh, I respect Candace Owens opinions. I never see the men in this sub mention her probably because she doesn’t do only fans.. IF ONLY THESE MEN REWARDED THE MODESTY THEY SEEK. I’ve only seen shorts but she always struck me as being beyond her time and witty. I don’t watch a lot of content adjacent to that though I’m more interested in psychology so I’ll watch sadia and dr K. But I adore sadia I respect her a lot and that is probably how I came across Candace Owens. Their content intercepts sligh…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 07:42 AM
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your sort of job has no real significance in infrastructure. Part of the significance of my job is witness protection. Having a lockdown facility where key witnesses for FBI cases are kept alive is imperative to combating trafficking. We can’t just put everyone in jail for their protection. If we allowed key witnesses to be killed we’d have lawlessness. And there have been young women turning up as TORSOS.. No hands, heads or identifying features. So you comparing my job to not being as importan…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 07:22 AM
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My own relationship is semi-traditional. My husband would agree with paternity testing, being a provider and getting pre-nups which are things we have talked about 7 years ago. A lot of people in this sub choose piss poor role models, which I think is evidence that this “movement” is a scam. I once called Andrew Tate an ugly menace to society and men in this sub were butt hurt to defend him. I don’t even deny Andrew Tate has a brilliant mind he just uses it for bad.. LOL. And most of what he say…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 06:59 AM
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In regards to the classic red pill I don’t necessarily disagree that women’s preferences can be generalized. I disagree with fatalistic thinking. Also having been in the dating market at one point I don’t believe everyone is relationship material. I believe people tend to be more forgiving of their own flaws and not so much other people’s. On a side note, women equally flooding the job market is a large part of why wages stagnanted. I’ll address this part first. Wage stagnation for the vast majo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 06:10 AM
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Ok so like actually inciting violence against women.. lol.. That’s exactly what I was hoping you wouldn’t say!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 05:04 AM
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What kind of punishments? I don’t believe in punishing your spouse but I’m trying to understand how insane this guy was.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:57 AM
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I’m not sure i understand the difference between classic red pill and whatever exists in this sub. However my general opinion of my observations is that given the state of the economy men can’t be providers in the US statistically so traditional marriages are outdated in the west. I’m referencing the fact that you have to pull 106k annually to own the average house in the US. If western women collectively decided “fuck feminism I’ll be submissive while you save me from this economy.” Western men…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:53 AM
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Haha, well that helps a tad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:37 AM
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Kevin Roshon Samuels (March 13, 1969 – May 5, 2022) was an American internet personality and image consultant. He rose to popularity in 2020 through his YouTube and Instagram live streams discussing modern society, gender issues, and relationships. Can you provide a clip or some context to describe this person? I don’t know this person nor what I am responding to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:05 AM
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No but I also don’t go places where people are usually dressing provocatively so that is hard to say. I have never seen someone dress so provocatively it bothered me but I guess if their genitals were hanging out/visible that would bother me but that also isn’t legal so that doesn’t really happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 10:10 PM
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Hidden competition among women? I would say largely no but there are some exceptions. I think women who are competitive like that (from my experience) have low quality options because they themselves are not seen as attractive by attractive men. I had one friend who I had to cut ties with for being manipulative and jealous. She would make up crazy stuff men supposedly said about me and when I’d confront the men they’d have a genuinely shocked reaction. They’d also inform me they’d been trying to…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 09:55 AM
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There’s a big difference between “the best someone can do” and who they choose. That is who he chose. if he had a problem with her behavior then he would have chosen differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 09:20 AM
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No, I plan to stay where my family is. I’d leave if it became unsafe due to war however I think plan A would be to relocate away from military target areas within my own country first then if things got scarier we’d leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 07:39 AM
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Maybe not automatically but the kinds of people who go clubbing typically aren’t opposed to having casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:16 AM
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She wasn’t assaulted. It’s called contact sports. Her teammates not fighting or doing whatever you think they should have done is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 10:23 PM
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This is cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 10:17 PM
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Ok, well it’s not the size nor the motion. It’s the way my nerves were distributed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 02:20 PM
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You’re example of women “hating” each other in sports doesn’t represent the picture your painting very well. As someone who did 4 sports competitively and watches professional games I’m not getting the vibes you’ve actually watched sports.. That level of aggression is common in sports.. Which you should know if you knew anything about sports..
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 02:03 PM
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I’m going to be the pessimist here and say most couples don’t have the ability to get through something this traumatic. That’s a hard question to answer but the solution isn’t to focus on a timeframe.. Their recovery journey should be the focus and you will have to put in the work to help facilitate that. You have to just be empathetic of your partner supportive of them and understand not to take their trust issues to heart- it has nothing to do with you it’s a trauma response. If you cannot do …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 08:04 AM
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He didn’t ask a personal question so her response was weirdly assumptious… Anyone could have answered this with something they are passionate about that they would have been willing to share.. is it weird to initiate a conversation the way he did- yes but i think his personality “flaw” (awkwardness) is more innocent than hers (entitlement). I think he dodged a bullet..
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 07:39 AM
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If you can’t cum from PIV then you have no choice but to die never having that kind of experience?? What kind of question is this? I don’t suddenly get to decide to rewire my nerves to make that shit happen so why would I even desire to set myself up for this disappointment over and over again with various partners? Also my husband can make me orgasm repeatedly sometimes lasting up to a minute he can only get 1 that isn’t that long I’m not necessarily jealous of y’all’s experience..
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 01:55 AM
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Nearly 1 in 3 adults (30.7%) are overweight. More than 2 in 5 adults (42.4%) have obesity. About 1 in 11 adults (9.2%) have severe obesity. https://www.niddk.nih.gov/health-information/health-statistics/overweight-obesity?dkrd=hispt0880 It isn’t just the women but yes it is bad.. Childhood obesity is also on the rise alongside with diabetes. Not defending passports bros but I don’t really care what they do. As many as 1 in 3 U.S. adults could have diabetes by 2050 if current trends continue, acc…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:24 AM
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Do y’all ever see a cute guy and feel hypnotized by him? No. I was however more lustful in high school. I’d have crushes on people I’d never talked too based off appearance and I’d do nothing about it. But once I got to know one of my crushes that made me realize things other than looks were more important because his personality frustrated me. He was way over confident. I found myself frustrated by just about everything he did looking back it could have been to impress me but had the complete o…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 02:19 AM
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I also am more attracted to my husband now than I was. We were both better looking objectively 7 years ago but because of pair bonding our attraction grew together. I thought he was cute then but damn am I in love now. Everytime I learned something new about him I loved him more.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 06:20 AM
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•He is attentive and bought me my updated favorite ice cream after I changed my favorite ice cream. Haha. •He puts up with my shenanigans. I’m kinda a woman driver and have 0 concept of where the front of my car ends so I hit the garage. Instead of getting mad he moved our trash can to protect the wall where I park. I wish I could say I have gotten better about this but I wake him up every morning when I get home from work hitting the trash can and he just accepts that this is his life now. •My …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:57 AM
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You have no way to prove this isn't most women's behavior. You have no way to prove that is most women’s behavior. Your bias is showing. I'd expect more of this behavior as women are left unchecked, as in women having more freedom and power they will ultimately perform these toxic things at higher levels. You could have had a valid point if you were talking about accountability but to bring in freedom AKA civil liberties as if they should only be enjoyed by one gender is absolutely nuts. You mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:18 AM
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understand that men are often as vulnerable as women. Oh so you can relate to the struggle that is opening water bottles.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 04:42 AM
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Oh, in the past I have reconnected with them sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 11:56 PM
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Someone you would sleep with has nothing to do with them being relationship material in today’s day and age. If youre in a relationship, how do you deal with them, how and how much do you interact with them (irl, social media or otherwise)? I don’t reach out. If I happen to see them I’m cordial but I don’t respond to texts/DMs. I actually don’t even read/open their messages. That’s how I deal with them. How aware are you of their potential interest in you and how do you deal with that? I’m aware…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 11:34 PM
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Happy for you though!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 09:11 PM
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Yeah I don’t think I could date that much older because I found men who were around 30 attractive when I was 23 and even then I’d have never went for someone who did not age well. I only dated 6.5 years older and I think that is my max.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 09:10 PM
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It isn’t that it’s necessarily better, most of my friends preferred men their own age. The men on this sub inflate the amount of women who are willing to date up in age most of the women I know who do this are gold diggers tbh. My husband doesn’t look his age but I prefer the brains of older generations they are more fun to talk to and more mature and I struggled to connect emotionally with people my own age. I think the men on this sub insinuate older men are more financially stable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 09:01 PM
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I cut off my guy friends I suspected had crushes on me because I’m married. Usually I give them more than one chance if it isn’t overt but if I have multiple instances of them showing interest in a non-friend manner than I will no longer be in touch with them. I do feel their interest went over my head when we were friends but when I met my husband their jealousy began showing. I have had to deal with harassment like not taking no for an answer and I publicly lit him up at the bar so he’d never …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 09:43 AM
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There absolutely could be if she didn’t find men in that age range attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 08:49 AM
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I never heard anyone say that about #10 before but I guess that makes sense. Although I would say that it is all subjective anyways because I have found men attractive that other people thought were not. I think most of us have a basic image in our head of what we find extremely attractive in a dream scenario. We probably don’t end up with that but if you met someone that seemed to almost perfectly reflect that then maybe they are your 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 08:33 AM
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I didn’t see the car. Look I have ADD I just saw the dude
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 08:19 AM
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I didn’t even say he is more attractive than her. LMAO you are such a white knight you are not even reading what I write because you are a keyboard warrior filled with rage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 08:01 AM
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Uh no? I am pretty sure if someone is pretty enough to be a model I’d expect them to be a 9-10. I guess some celebrities are not super attractive but they usually make the front cover for drama not beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 08:00 AM
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The point was that you believing a shitty car selfie was taken to signal status is insane. I didn’t see the car selfie photo so I just made that assumption. You actually are heated for no reason which is hilarious. You also are representing women in a way that makes us look bad and I don’t appreciate that. stats are not a matter of opinion. Your personal example is not a fact I called it a matter of opinion so that implies it isn’t a matter of fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:56 AM
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dude, if you think a lazy and shitty selfie inside completely normal ass car A lot of women take selfies in their car including myself. It not a matter of opinion its a matter of attraction. Ok well I find older men attractive so it is a matter of opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:43 AM
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I think we all view looks differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:36 AM
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You could just look at the pictures for yourself and determine your opinion on if you think she is an 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:30 AM
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I’m sorry I don’t think she was far more attractive than ALL of those men but I would agree on most of them in that sample. The golfer could have been attractive but the camera angle was from below and we know that isn’t a good camera angle. There were at least two men that were approximately as attractive as her I’d say 1-2 points under which I don’t think is a big deal.. And one of the attractive guys was really respectful to her answer of I don’t want to hike with someone I consider a strange…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:21 AM
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I think that the kind of rejection matters more than the amount. I didn’t approach men so when they stopped pursuing me I counted that as “rejection” however because it wasn’t a rejection of my appearance and instead a rejection of my personality/ me as a person it didn’t bother me because I have been on the other side enough to not take it personally. I’d want someone I’m compatible with and if they didn’t feel that way about me I’m glad they knew what they wanted. I think straight up rejection…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 04:52 AM
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I agree with your thesis but for different reasons. I’d attribute selectivity to easily accessible information because of the internet. Since the 90s we have seen an increase of screen time to the point we now have computers in our pockets. I don’t necessarily think women being selective is a bad thing when that selectivity isn’t shallow or unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 04:22 AM
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Idk I have met shy women with facial deformity who got married. Never say never. Her head is about a random of a shape as a potato and her husband makes good money. He is also ugly tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 10:28 AM
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I believe in showing people you love grace. For example my husband struggled to learn how to cook for years and I could not understand why. He would ask me 10 questions before putting a packet of instant oatmeal in the microwave lmao. 🤦🏼‍♀️Until it dawned on me that the way his brain works because of his field is that every action matters and one thing going wrong means something doesn’t work or severely fucks something up. So realizing that I told him, cooking is flexible you don’t have to get …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:14 AM
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Men will but I don’t ask out of principle because I don’t want my husband to resent the fact I don’t reciprocate. He offers sometimes and I’ll accept but it’s hard for me to enjoy being vulnerable because I’m a control freak so I do decline sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 04:07 AM
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Oh, we will all have financial worries here soon. The US is absolutely fucked, I’m anticipating a Finacial collapse as crazy as that sounds. But it is well known that money does increase happiness and reduce stress. If you enjoy life I’m sure that makes relationships easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 04:01 AM
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I’m aware of that. That won’t stop predators from scamming people tho. I have met those women who take advantage of the system they just remedy it by monkey branching to another man who’s richer. Funny enough this is what my two passports bro friends went through with their immigrant wives. I don’t think most women marry for money I just understand that those types exist because I have seen them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 03:57 AM
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I got my first break in 6 years from childcare thanks to divorce. Also didn’t have to clean up for him, or deal with his control I’m sorry you went through that. ”I think that marriage as an institution has been a little bit slow to catch up with expectations for gender equality,” I could agree with that. I ended a relationship because I knew it would be unequal even though I worked. He wanted me to move in with him but I refused and told him he needed to start cleaning and taking responsibility…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 03:47 AM
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About half of first marriages in the U.S. are likely to survive at least 20 years, according to government estimates. But for one demographic group, marriages last longer than most: College-educated women have an almost eight-in-ten chance of still being married after two decades. Not necessarily
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:23 PM
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Well I think if the goal is to decrease divorce then educated women seem to be statistically the best option. About half of first marriages in the U.S. are likely to survive at least 20 years, according to government estimates. But for one demographic group, marriages last longer than most: College-educated women have an almost eight-in-ten chance of still being married after two decades. https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2015/12/04/education-and-marriage/
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:02 PM
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Ok I have been looking at sources and it appears uneducated women are more likely to separate but are less likely to get married. So even though women initiated divorce rates go up the overall divorce rate going down does suggest women with education are less likely to divorce. About half of first marriages in the U.S. are likely to survive at least 20 years, according to government estimates. But for one demographic group, marriages last longer than most: College-educated women have an almost e…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 11:59 AM
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Sure, I still think it would be better to date an educated woman because overall that decreases the chances of divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 11:55 AM
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I’m just happy with whatever god gives me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 11:10 AM
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Well that isn’t verifiable without a source.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 11:06 AM
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I like the name Dean for a boy. My husband thinks it’s dorky but I feel like it’s a powerful name. As for a girl I love the name Rose and my grandmas name was Rosemary so I feel like it’s perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:35 AM
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According to the AAMFT, about 15% of married women and 25% of married men have had extramarital affairs. When emotional infidelity is included, these percentages increase by approximately 20%. Partly sure. I also think a lot of people get divorced for dumb reasons. For example I know someone who got divorced for sexual incompatibility, because her husband had been sexually abused and had some “weird” habits like showering after sex “like he did something dirty.” However she let it slip once that…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:27 AM
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I also believe uneducated people have less skills to work out problems and thus resort to “easy solutions.”So I’m not surprised they get divorced more frequently.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:11 AM
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That doesn’t align with the collection of data my link provides. As of 2021, the divorce rate was lowest among individuals with a bachelor’s degree or higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:10 AM
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We are going with 2. I’m very passionate about adopting so we will have one of our own and one adopted kid. We considered adopting a child from China but we may just take in a kid from the US and give them a better life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:46 AM
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Do you plan on doing it forever? No, my husband and I are trying to start our own family right now. I will work until I’m too pregnant then go on maturity leave and probably not return. I may offer to be on standby and come in 1-2 days a week but my priority will be my family.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:16 AM
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What made you want to get into it, if you don’t mind me asking? It was a pre-requisite to achieve my goals of working as a probation officer. However I was passionate about helping the kids. So I ended up staying until I met my husband. I left because that field was rather unsafe. I found myself without police escort and cell service frequently. Abusers tend to live in the country. My current job I wanted to work with kids admittedly I didn’t quite know what I was getting myself into. However I …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 08:45 AM
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That’s awful. I used to work for the department of child services. I now am a therapeutic support specialist working with teen survivors of sex trafficking. So yeah I have seen and heard a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 08:16 AM
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I work with disturbed populations of people so I can understand where you’re coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 08:00 AM
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Well surely you saw some happy couples too. I hope.. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 07:48 AM
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LOL. Well a 200k income household would be living quite well so they are probably just happy without many problems to argue about. So it kinda makes a lot of sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 07:21 AM
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That is interesting. I never heard that one before.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 07:03 AM
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I went into this with an open mind but I found a 2023 study that indicates those statistics are still relevant. A study by the American Sociological Association found that women initiate about 70% of divorces. https://www.grazianolaw.com/blog/divorce-statistics/#:~:text=A%20study%20by%20the%20American,initiate%20about%2070%25%20of%20divorces. There may be some argument that divorce isn’t largely financially motivated. But women are initiating most divorces. Research published by the American Soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 06:33 AM
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I’m sorry but that is hilarious because I don’t give oral and there are plenty of men out there who wouldn’t date someone who doesn’t give head. I have never once in my life considered that manipulation. I may have found it unfair but that is likely to due to my personal biases. At least I recognized that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:52 AM
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That is indicative of shallowness, and wouldn’t be healthy in relationships. It may not be directly comparing your parent but it could be comparison adjacent. It would still ignite insecurities in your partner. I am not a person who comments on people appearances unless they ask me specifically. That’s not something my husband does either. I have never overheard him express attraction for a celebrity and he hasn’t heard me gush over celebrities either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:21 AM
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Google searching shirtless pictures of men and ogling them is also an issue. Wandering eyes, comparing your partner and commenting on other people’s bodies is disrespectful. I feel like I have made it pretty clear how I would feel about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:41 PM
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In the animal rights movement, cruelty-free is a label for products or activities that do not harm or kill animals anywhere in the world. Products tested on animals or made from animals are not considered cruelty-free Whether or not other ingredients are ethically sourced, that is a different discussion most vegans would be interested in reducing harm and are usually aware of it. Kinda ridiculous coming from someone investing in animal rape for cheese though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 08:07 AM
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Kinda depends. If we are at a beach I might except that it may happen accidentally. Prolonged staring is definitely an issue. Google searching shirtless pictures of men and ogling them is also an issue. Unfortunately when a wandering eye isn’t so much accidental it can be a sign something isn’t right. Maybe there is a feeling they missed out or they lack attraction to their partner. Wandering eyes, comparing your partner and commenting on other people’s bodies is disrespectful. When you do that …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 04:31 AM
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No they defend men who have casual sex but shame women. Not defending cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 03:52 AM
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Is it a red flag if a woman says that none of her exes or guy's she has slept with treated her nice? As a general rule if they never speak positively about any of their exes it shows they had a chaotic break up and for that to happen a LOT is definitely a red flag. Either that person is narcissistic and never thinks they have done anything wrong or they are crazy and cause drama/crave drama. It is rarely the case that everyone they come into contact is actually the problem..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 03:24 AM
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Normally I just see men defending that behavior when it’s men. Even when I point it out men defend it. Edit: I believe you that is just my personal experience
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:55 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 01:24 PM
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There are plenty of married people who post here and you guys only seem to care when it’s women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 12:09 PM
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Yeah but single women might see me post online. So I will continue to shout into the void.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 11:57 AM
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The name "brute force" comes from attackers using excessively forceful attempts to gain access to user accounts. Despite being an old cyberattack method, brute force attacks are tried and tested and remain a popular tactic with hackers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 11:54 AM
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Except that TRP is anti-feminism. If it just critiqued some feminist ideology for being extreme I’d say that’s fair. But most red pillers are just the opposite extreme and thus problematic. RP men have told me that I have to be subservient to my husband even if he wants lasagna for dinner but I want to make spaghetti which is laughable. Also I should not seek to personally develop my character I should instead observe what traits my husband has the I enjoy and mimic his behavior. Lmao. Redpiller…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 11:46 AM
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That’s literally what I’m doing right now
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 11:36 AM
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lol that wasn’t very civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:49 AM
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I’m told men are really good at giving head
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:45 AM
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Men being shallow is a negative stereotype that the OP is perpetuating. So I stand by challenging his authenticity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:45 AM
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You don’t know what kind of person I am. My family does though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:39 AM
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Are you willingfully ignoring how the OP perpetuates negative stereotypes of men or?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:38 AM
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You are not the arbiter of right and wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:31 AM
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I’m not attacking his character I was challenging his authenticity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:28 AM
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My argument from the beginning was this post was likely disingenuous and he has been posting all over the site since in a manner that is consistent with my initial assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:23 AM
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Ok then so the red pill is just disingenuous because instead of presenting the research as it is they misrepresent it intentionally. Noted.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:21 AM
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Yeah and now he posting asking how to get his gf to become a baddie. What a great judge of character you are. LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:17 AM
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No his post history is relevant. Makes this post that seemed disingenuous from the start even more so. Dudes trolling all over the site.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:11 AM
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Ah ok
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:09 AM
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For what? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 09:17 AM
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Body count discussions are against the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 08:38 AM
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Ur tryna argue in bad faith because research pushes that women with high counts are red flags I didn’t say that at all. I was specifically talking about men because none of the men in this sub admit that the research confirms hedonism for both genders is the number one predictor of infidelity and for women the highest number is 4 men 6. So we aren’t much different in that sense.. Casually sex affects us all. You should acknowledge my point because u keep dodging it You were just degrading women …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 08:32 AM
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Why? Isn’t that what that subreddit is for?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 08:17 AM
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Him fucking girls doesn’t change anything Denying research is pretty ridiculous behavior but ok. He couldn’t get a girlfriend because he’s a bum, that’s just all it is Who? Successful men who make money fuck women everytime and they have a way easier time finding commitment Ok. You know I notice that u have been dodging the fact that “women don’t like slut and whore women”. I said this twice and u have not acknowledged it Is there a reason you want me to acknowledge this so bad? This is pretty l…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 08:16 AM
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Yeah, I was attractive enough to marry someone who met my all standards. You can live in some delusion that men wouldn’t be interested in me but that’s not my personal experience. I have met fuck boys who had told me no one would take them seriously because of their past. So I know I’m not the only one who feels that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 07:52 AM
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I’m sorry Mr. Hall Monitor!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 07:39 AM
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I have never met a fuckboi with an interesting personality. Lol. Having basic social skills isn’t interesting. They are just good looking (existing) and can have sex easily- it isn’t hard for them. Even if it was a challenge it’s a childish thing to celebrate “using people.” Usually people who have respect for themselves desire others who have similar values. I don’t have to trust people who are fucking around because they ARE more likely to cheat in a relationship. There is research backing thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 07:37 AM
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You should consider posting your picture in the looksmaxxing subreddit if you want genuine advice to improve your attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 07:11 AM
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You didn’t answer my question you’re just mad about my standards. Weird but ok.👌
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 07:07 AM
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I didn’t see that one haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 07:00 AM
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Past sexual history is the number one predictor of infidelity in men. Men with above 6 body counts are more likely to cheat. Why should we shame women but not men?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 06:55 AM
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“Is it normal to lose your desire for women as you get older?” “Does anyone miss being horny?” “Why are women so bad at giving head?” In case he deletes I’ll just leaves this here for educational purposes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 06:52 AM
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Your post history is suspicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 06:47 AM
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The problem isn’t with those standards but with the asymmetry, the men on this sub especially, apply them.. When the number one predictor of infidelity in men is ALSO past sexual history.. Do men on this sub ever mention that beyond 6 partners their odds of infidelity increase? No they conveniently don’t. Actually I have seen one man mention it ever. ONE.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 06:36 AM
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There’s a lot of men who should be ashamed for their body count standards, especially those who are morally inconsistent and de-humanize women by using them as blow up dolls. The problem is not with men’s standards but when these standards are asymmetrically applied .
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 06:26 AM
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Men who are trying to "woo" a woman (by working out, getting hobbies, dressing better, being charismatic/funny, getting rich, etc.) need to ask themselves if a girl would ever do that to get him. Minus the get funny part that is everything I did when I was single.. I actually worked out on a schedule, dressed up, and worked 12 hour days saving up for a house. Also I volunteered and had Friday/Saturdays free for date nights and going out to meet people. The funny thing about people is that when t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 05:33 AM
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Omg everybody in the sub is a wokie. No wonder childhood obesity is at an all time high. You guys want to normalize this shit. And drugs are not going to make her a healthy weight she would have to start eating healthy and 1/60th her normal portion sizes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 04:44 PM
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Why do you want the man to approach you? I wasn’t interested in strangers so that never crossed my mind to approach anyone. My focus was on people in my social circle. What can a guy do to increase his chances of being approached by women? Wear an orange T-shirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 07:17 AM
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https://youtu.be/FcyGITaz0F4
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 10:27 PM
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•Lives by his morals and is Christian. •Demonstrates discipline, chooses commitment over casual relationships. He doesn’t partake in hook up culture even when the opportunities present themselves. •Kids adore him and he enjoys making them smile. •Family oriented, chooses me over friends. Has a good relationship with his father and mother. Makes time for my family. •Is extroverted and has a positive outlook on life. •Is highly intelligent. A role model at work and in social settings.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 09:38 PM
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It’s not that high for men. Women was 4 and men 6. I have lost the study but it is commonly misunderstood that men escape consequences of hedonism more so than women and it’s not so much the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 09:12 PM
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Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:24 PM
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I agree I don’t choose friends over my partner. But we both have quite a few opposite sex friends. Hanging out with them without the other would be a rare event (1-2 times a year) but if it happened it wouldn’t be a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:22 PM
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I think my husband and I have everything worked out I’m not super concerned about what other people are doing. But if it works for them I’m happy for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:19 PM
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I wasn’t expecting complete silence. I was more so expecting asymmetry in his reply. That is funny though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:17 PM
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That is a similar situation here now that I think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:16 PM
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You're still you at work, you just have to follow certain rules that apply to the particular social situation. I don’t feel like myself I feel like an actor. It's narcissistic, toxic American culture that causes everyone to be maximum selfish. The reason Americans assume everyone else is selfish is because they are selfish and narcissistic due to their toxic culture. Most other cultures are more pro-social, and most people are to some degree altruistic, especially with people they love. Well I h…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 01:33 PM
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Haha, that is hilarious you suggest I look outside America for a traditional relationship because that reminds me of the passport bros. I’m already married and my husband isn’t like any American man I met previously so I’m pretty well taken care of and respected. But our relationship dynamic is more of a partnership. It works for us that’s all that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 01:19 PM
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I cannot even think of a situation that has happened in the last 7 years where we argued about who was the most knowledgeable on the subject because it’s usually pretty obvious when we discuss things who is the most capable of making the decision and we are both fine letting the other person lead. The idea that this isn’t workable isn’t relatable for me unless someone is a right fighter.. which is a character flaw that doesn’t work in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 01:14 PM
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He has not indicated he’s concerned about the kids as much as the house. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 12:33 PM
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Wow. Your wife is a good picker! I wish you both happiness in your life journey together! Thank you for being inspirational.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 11:54 AM
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You can follow someone and still have your own personality. I mean, does listening to your boss (who probably doesn't even like you) mean giving up your personality? I am not myself at work so yes I do give up my personality at work. I have to have a therapeutic relationship with my clients. That isn’t the relationship I want at home. Imagine that. So how would listening to someone who's totally in love with you and takes your desires into consideration every time they make a decision (husband /…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 11:15 AM
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Cute, but that is not what red pillers have told me so I was answering based off that. I was told to observe my husbands characteristics and mimic the ones I like instead of being my own person and that I have to defer to him even if it’s lasagna for dinner but I want to make spaghetti.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 10:56 AM
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Men can pair bond intensely. Pornography has ruined most men’s ability to pair bond. I am not sure the damage is repairable even. However you cannot take the things the red pill says at face value they represent men’s issues in the most extreme way possible. They misrepresent data to make women look worse in reality men are also ruined by having casual sex. They won’t talk about that though. There are men even on this sub who are not watching pornography, don’t have casual sex and take relations…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 09:56 AM
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What’s your stance on men having female friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 09:40 AM
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When I travel I stay in the US. So I can’t answer that. I have met immigrant women yes but they were less traditional than me and I don’t consider myself traditional soo.. I might be semi-traditional based on OPs summary but I have a career and in my career I am a leader. I have been in positions of authority in the past. My career has very much shaped my personality because I have had hard jobs most people couldn’t do. Will I support my husband in his career even if I sacrifice my own career to…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 08:50 AM
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US
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 08:13 AM
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I don’t think there is anything beautiful about expecting someone to follow your lead and never developing a personality. This is my biggest gripe with these traditional relationships. If we were all the same where is the fun in that? And suppressing emotions isn’t healthy people need an outlet and I’d rather be with someone who cry during animal shelter commercials then someone who never cry’s or expresses any vulnerability. Then we wonder why the suicide rate is higher for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 08:10 AM
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This is genius. I am glad I read this. I will actually be telling my husband this. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 07:51 AM
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You can actually be sure he’d be a good family man. Most people have nephews/nieces or friends with kids. You first pay attention to how he interacts with kids, does he make them laugh and smile? Do the kids seem to enjoy his presence, is he kind to them? What’s his relationship to his own family like? Does he visit them, call them? If not 🚩 Next, are you his priority? Look for signs. Would he’d rather go out to bars with his friends or stay home with you? If he chooses you then these pieces of …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 07:45 AM
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The biggest predictor of infidelity is past sexual history. You avoid people participating in casual sex. Men with body counts under 6 is what the research suggests make good long term partners..
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 07:37 AM
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Sheer clothing are not clothing they aren’t supposed to be stand alone pieces the entire marketing plot was to make women buy more clothes. They are not supposed to be worn as clothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 06:43 AM
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I think it takes more brains to be a decent weight than it does to stuff your face with junk food. I doubt she’s intelligent.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 06:32 AM
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I knew you were thinking about see through clothing Making shit up and claiming you can read minds. Schizo posting for the win. It's legal in the vast majority of the US. https://gotopless.org/topless-laws Further evidence you don't know what you're talking about. Where I live it isn’t legal. It is LITERALLY clothing. I'm done. No it’s not that is nudity- the opposite of clothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 06:25 AM
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It IS coverage. It covers her. It’s just sheer. You know I wasn’t talking about see through clothing. You are moving the goal post. That didn’t cover anything and is not coverage. That isn’t legal either so you definitely just showed me a porn fantasy. Give me a break. It’s not like you clicked the link so fast you didn't see the nsfw in time. I am at work and I would not have clicked that if I thought you weren’t showing me clothing. That is not clothing. to support my argument *strawman
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 06:03 AM
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That is not coverage. Here you are being willfully ignorant again. And you should really put the NSFW before the link my god. Why do you have numerous examples of you going out of your way to view these women that you then criticize for their clothing choices? Of you didn’t like it then why do you have these links on standby. I cannot believe you just showed me pornographic images as an example of what women are wearing. You accuse me of trolling but do this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 05:43 AM
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The second part of what I said that you cut out was: I know it’s happening because of what MEN say and do to me. So yes you are sexist, because you think women are responsible for MENS bad behaviors. So I was actually explicit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 05:28 AM
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Why can’t men ever be held accountable for how they chose to act it is women’s fault? This was your response A woman wearing shirt to show off her tits is not a mans fault. A woman wearing pants up her ass is not a mans fault. Take responsibility for the choices you make. This is insane reasoning. Maybe it was a misunderstanding and you didn’t read close enough but I said act which does imply more than words. So that is one reason why this conversation has escalated to this point
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:19 AM
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I’m speechless.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:05 AM
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Lmao. Well that wasn’t hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:54 AM
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I cannot believe you’re more concerned with your living space than the lack of stability cohabitation provides children. 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:52 AM
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It almost like people who want marriage don’t want to have to incentivize anyone to marry them because they just want people who want the same things as them? Crazy!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:47 AM
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At this point you are not debating in good faith. Ignoring studies is ridiculous behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:44 AM
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My husband and I wanted a house together before we were married and yes there are some barriers to unmarried people getting a house together. We had to get a house he could afford by himself if I were to leave him because cohabitation isn’t viewed as a stable relationship by the banks. If we were married at the time we would have gotten approved for a bigger loan and house.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:42 AM
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Cohabiting parents cannot provide children the stability a marriage can correct. kids born to married parents are twice as likely to still live with both parents at age 10, compared to their peers whose parents cohabited. https://read.dukeupress.edu/demography/article-abstract/52/5/1463/169462/Change-in-the-Stability-of-Marital-and-Cohabiting?redirectedFrom=fulltext
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:37 AM
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A woman wearing shirt to show off her tits is not a mans fault. A woman wearing pants up her ass is not a mans fault. Take responsibility for the choices you make. This is insane reasoning. Considering you’ve complained about women sexualizing themselves by wearing jeans which is something that is common almost everywhere and fitted clothing which means even turtle necks I have no idea how you have it justified in your head that anyone other than you is insane. If a woman showed her ankles in a …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:33 AM
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I got married for religious reasons and because I wanted my children to have consistency in their routines and stable caregivers which funny enough- married parents often provide. So?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:16 AM
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If you are this resistant to getting married why should anyone try to convince you too? Why do you care?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:07 AM
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But you're leaving out WHY I made reference to those. You made a point to say "I've still been sexualized even fully covered." So men are just perfect angels that never sexualize women dressing modestly. OK. Doesn't matter. You're probably lying How convenient for you to think that when the examples of women you’ve given are LITERAL INFLUENCERS and Models?? As if they represent all women. so your personal anecdotes don't disprove the generalities. Women wearing catsuits is your personal anecdote…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 11:51 PM
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catsuits You are giving extreme examples of clothing. Everything you’ve listed are not representative of what my friends, co-workers or family wears. I have never seen anything like that and you are being sexist acting like she is wearing things that belong in a sex store when your real problem is women’s bodies. And you solution is to blame women for not wearing potato sacks for something men are doing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 10:56 PM
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Which makes sense because usually women's jeans are worn much tighter and form fitting than men's jeans. You act like mens don’t wear tight jeans. They do, even straight guys nowadays have skinny jeans. Yeah women can wear full body catsuits but they’re still super form fitting. It’s not just "covered" but how someone is covered. Oh so a Halloween costume as an example. How many women are walking around in a cat suit this is a straw man. Nice. Yes but you just said "i don’t see a problem with th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 09:57 PM
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I’m understanding of how easy it is to gain weight in america because of the lack of education we have about eating healthy. It still takes awhile to gain that much weight. I’m not understanding of being damn near bed ridden that takes years to get to that point of a lack of doing anything about your situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 09:38 PM
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No they were being misandrist not misogynist. DW
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 09:09 AM
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Are people in Alabama really this desperate for attractive women? Surely there has to be something better: https://www.distractify.com/p/who-is-miss-alabama-2024#:~:text=In%20May%202024%2C%20plus%2Dsized,place%20in%20her%20home%20state. For the record I am pro-body positivity IF it’s no more than 25lbs overweight but this chick has a front butt.. The news coverage of this have me legit loling this cannot be reality. “She’s crushing her weight goals!” I feel like the news was being satirical and …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:40 AM
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Nice implies you are doormat to the people who don’t deserve it. Which causes misunderstandings and drama. Being kind is different because it implies you know the value of kindness and know when someone is undeserving of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:53 AM
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Do you ever view men as "good breeding material", and do you find it troublesome, or gross that men subconsciously see woman that way? That depends on the context. If you are basing your decision off mainly shallow desires then that is lower functioning. There are plenty of people that do that. If there are other factors taken into account that have to do with actual parenting then no- even though you worded that question in the most awkward way you could have thought of. I know that basically w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:45 AM
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There is an entire subreddit dedicated to sexualizing women wearing jeans.. I wouldn’t wear a sports bra in public but i don’t see a problem with those leggings. I have worn jeans and leggings w/ long sleeve fitted shirt that go up to my neck and I’ve still been sexualized even fully covered. The end result is the same when I am wearing “normal” clothes. Also that picture was taken at an angle to make her ass look bigger so this is really just body shaming at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:05 AM
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I got shit online for wearing leggings walking on a walking trail because my shirt didn’t cover my ass. More specifically on Reddit. So it’s hard for me to take these kinds of topics seriously. I have even had people say shit to me to my face. I have come to realize that because I am curvy anything tight fitted is perceived as sexy even if I’m fully covered in leggings and long sleeves (not even low cut) because it’s tight fitted.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:48 AM
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Is your problem with that statement because women are included in adults who behave that way? Because that was actually a gender neutral accusation. The thread is just about women in particular.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:32 AM
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Honestly, I realize adults are just like children. Just a bit more manipulative and delusional in a sense that they find ways to justify their insecurities, anger, sadness. You answered your own question.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:25 AM
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No offense but I have never met a passport bro I’d even want a chance with… I haven’t dated since 2017 though but even my husbands friends who do that have undesirable personalities.. Also I think you underestimate the lack of desirability AMERICANS face around the world it isn’t just western women American men are hated by everyone else also. Hilariously one of my girl friends who doesn’t even post on the internet has basically responded to American men the same way passport bros have to wester…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:00 AM
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Why are the pictures they post online relevant? Is it because they aren’t wearing burkas or what? Like I’m sorry I exist??
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:21 AM
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Literally my uncle. Then when he got too old he was divorced by her because of his “lack of energy.” He tore apart his family with 5 kids who want nothing to do with him to this day. My crystal ball says all of that was expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 08:24 AM
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Idk I had more attractive men than them trying to pursue relationships with me so it didn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 05:07 AM
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I was a virgin until I was 21 and even when I was 18-19 a lot of men viewed it as a red flag. From what I observed men who aren’t religious are not into modest women. Which was fine with me because I wanted a Christian man anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 04:30 AM
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Well if it’s involuntary there’s usually a reason behind it that could be a red flag, not necessarily that you are an unsafe person but that there is something undesirable about your character that makes you undatable maybe it’s fixable. I actually wonder if incels tend to have absent fathers..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 04:15 AM
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Not sure I qualify as a girls girl the hobbies I enjoy were male dominated and thus most of my friends are male. Do I open up about my feelings to them? No, i would with my gfs but i do not have many gfs. In a sense i may seek out support and comfort preferably from other women (but anymore that is my husband’s job). When it comes to doing what i love for fun the only women i invite are women from my fam who are also athletic enough to do what i like to do. My gfs have mostly been tomboys, athle…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:26 PM
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what does the ideal woman do in a relationship since we've moved away from gender roles? You do your part. If your part is dividing housework and bills then fine. Or stay home then you takeover the housework- btw this is still a partnership you provide labor and he provides money. Not some weird subservience fantasy TRP has tried to turn it into. Be supportive of each other, praise him when the opportunity arises or he needs it. Remind yourself why you love him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 10:02 AM
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Dam. That guy was actually attractive in a nerdy way. And he was ghosted by everyone?!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 06:06 AM
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Wow people are more likely to trust me to babysit their kids than a man (sometimes without my consent it’s just implied because I am a woman). What an honor.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 11:51 AM
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“The majority” -let me know when you are done over exaggerating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 10:32 AM
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Do you guys realize that women’s social privileges go away as soon as she gets a boyfriend? So the privilege is not real. She also will never have any social privileges if she is deemed unattractive by men. I have been friends with women men never paid attention too, or treated differently because she had an unattractive feature.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 09:54 AM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 09:17 AM
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Traumatized children are very much a problem if they are becoming menaces to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 08:46 AM
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And with literotica now being in schools and 54% children watching porn by 13 I don’t see how this gets better. I hear people talk about love and empathy for this or that... It's just empty self aggrandizing garbage. Yeah that is people. The same people that love animals justify killing 4 birds to eat 8 chicken wings.. They love animals the same way Jeffrey Dahmer loved men.. That isn’t very compassionate.. The people who really need help are right there and nobody does anything but fingerpoint …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 08:40 AM
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Luckily humans are capable of understanding their actions had negative consequences especially for their children when had out of wedlock. Children do not want their parents separated they desire a real family.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 10:11 PM
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I agree with most of what you said but I am vehemently against pornography for the same reasons I hate literotica. I won’t get into that in this thread though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 10:07 PM
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No it does not have more balanced and realistic content the men are always some chipendales fantasy. Lol. It is very damaging to women similarly to how porn is damaging to men in that it contributes to unrealistic expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 10:05 PM
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They could also be a jackass
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 11:58 AM
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Being obsessed with someone’s body parts who you don’t even know is shallow and objectifying. If you don’t establish connections with people first you are doing dating wrong. Chasing butterflies is how women get used.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 11:52 AM
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Oh no! I think I have met men who do intense calorie restrictions to maintain their abs before. It was concerning did not look healthy. A lot of gamers do that. Nutrients are important!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 11:46 AM
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As someone who reads women’s romance novels I’m not even sure most of them demonstrate a healthy way to fall in love. I delete a lot of books from my library within 5 pages because they are just soft literoctica hyperfocused on his “Greek god chiseled abs” before they even established an emotional connection. The only romance novel I read this year was love like water because everything is hyper sexualized now. And lust isn’t how meaningful relationships are formed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 11:08 AM
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I agree and some mens presentation of themselves becomes more attractive later in life. Whether it be a natural progression or different learned grooming skills that accentuate your features better.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 10:02 AM
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Ah that’s so cute!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 09:09 AM
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Idk if could be how your body distributes the weight or maybe your just very critical of yourself. But I’ve been in relationships with men who gained 30lbs and it don’t impact their face too much so I was still attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 08:58 AM
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Ok we look forward to meeting your sisters.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 08:54 AM
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I know I’m just trolling him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 08:52 AM
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No we are going to be best friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 08:48 AM
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No im going to text her and tell her you doxxed her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 08:44 AM
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Did you just dox somebody? How do you know I’m not crazy enough to text that chick right now? I can see her full number. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 08:42 AM
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Ok so we are on the same page there. I guess we just agree to disagree that above average unnatural fatness should be taken into account when giving ratings especially when obesity is a problem in a couple countries most of the world is not overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 08:08 AM
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It isn’t just what I deem important. Do you think people on average find fat attractive? It’s unnatural so it makes sense that people aren’t attracted to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 08:00 AM
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It does because nobody can expect that people will lower their standards of attractiveness because people on average are making poor dietary choices. It would take more than a years worth of bad decisions to go beyond being 30lbs overweight. That is plenty of time to notice something is off and that you need to make a change with your life. Rating systems are not meant to be fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 07:10 AM
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Ok but that half of the population ignored themselves so they are not a good representation of what people find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 06:46 AM
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The lowest quality of baits I have ever seen in my life. Getting mad over cheeseburgers really?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 06:43 AM
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I dont think that anybody should have to change standards of attractiveness because other people are not taking care of their bodies and I could easily forgive 25-30lbs overweight in rating I cannot forgive beyond that it begins distorting their facial features and that is something that was within their control.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 06:37 AM
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I think 4 is pretty accurate. Ed Sheeran has unfortunate genetics. He has fat baby cheeks and his hair looks like it belongs on a terrier. Younger Alex Rodriguez was a 9 but his most recent picture on google is looking 6ish probably because he is 48. Yes mens looks degrade as they age too. He isn’t looking like he used too that is undeniable. Do you think Britney Spears is still a 10 or has your opinion of her changed in the last 20+ years?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 05:54 AM
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I mean it is easy to settle on some preferences but for the most part that is what preferences aim to be, dealbreakers. Like I think most people generally are willing to settle on looks a tad and favor their less shallow preferences. Anyone who thinks about their long term happiness understands that connection is the most valuable aspect of the relationship. Which is the function of preferences, to maximize long term compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 04:01 AM
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You know what isn’t legal in other countries? American dairy Synthetic growth hormones rBGH and rBST: Harmful to cows and linked to increasing tumor development in humans. And poultry for containing arsenic!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 02:43 AM
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Not for dinner but I do like to dip those in peanut butter.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:05 AM
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Not my preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:02 AM
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Lol. A carcass on bread? No thanks, I’m ok on that. 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:52 AM
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See? They might think they’re relationship material, but you don’t think so. What am I supposed to see? That everyone seems to think they are relationship material even though they aren’t it’s a common delusion? Met plenty of women I don’t think are relationship material either, but they seem to think they are this phenomenon isn’t unique to one gender. Would you behave the same around a guy who you now KNOW that he’s attracted to you? I have clear boundaries with my friends. There isn’t a need …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:47 AM
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Dahl (yellow split pea and red lentil) and basmati rice. Recipe I followed: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=zmH6E5BtZ9I
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:27 AM
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I have had guy friends who I can honestly say are physically attractive but their personalities were not relationship material. Even when they pursued relationships with me I declined and we maintained our friendship. I imagine there are men out there with standards outside of physical attractiveness that can appreciate friendships with attractive women that they’d never date. My husband was one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 05:27 AM
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I do not think there is anything wrong with going to a night club once in awhile with your girlfriends I have been to help wing man my single girlfriends but I would not want my son with a chick who acts crazy at clubs or dress like she was shopping at the sex shop. Likewise I would not want my daughter acting desperate for male validation twerking or dressing like a stripper. Also people who go to dance clubs as a large part of their life are red flags unless they are professional swing dancers…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 03:44 AM
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I do not think the world would be better. The problems women faced with men being in power will exist in there exact opposite I imagine. For example heart transplants used to have better longevity outcomes for men because men were primarily the researchers and test subjects. If women held the power then I imagine men’s issues would likely be underrepresented. I’m against affirmative action for those similar reasons. I do not think gender/race based restrictions in government or hiring benefit so…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 02:56 AM
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In your experience ok I’m sorry that happened to you. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:53 AM
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If you breed enough cats yes eventually you will breed a bad one. You are talking about an exception not the rule. Women blind but you ignoring science like: Abused children have a higher likelihood of exhibiting aggressive behaviors and are more inclined toward bullying behaviors https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC9819395/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:41 AM
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Did you just blame the kids? LOL. I worked with their parents too it definitely falls back on the parents. Department of child services + mental health facility as a therapeutic support specialist. I have also volunteered at daycares but WHAT DO I KNOW?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:53 AM
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Earth is 4.5 billion years old. For the first billion years of Earth's existence, the formation of life was prevented by a fusillade of comet and asteroid impacts that rendered the Earth's surface too hot to allow the existence of sufficient quantities of water and carbon-based molecules. It appears that life first emerged at least 3.8 billion years ago, approximately 750 million years after Earth was formed. These events can’t be reproduced in a laboratory and it’s a matter of speculation as to…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:23 AM
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Who says you aren’t? 90% of people are actually doing just that with their seemingly “innocent” lifestyle choices. Examples of this being casual sex (spreading incurable STDs), and eating/wearing animal products so yeah you probably are setting the world on fire. Regardless I bet your parents grew up religious. The function of religion isn’t to be a parenting strategy, it is the pursuit of truth. Good parents will likely see their success in their offspring. The entire question of why do we need…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 09:14 AM
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I would agree with that but punishment teaches us the severity of our actions and in turn makes us think about other people. It is part of the process of learning. I stole as a teenager and could easily get away with it as an adult- sure it’s against the law but if you know you won’t get caught then nothing other than morality would stop me. Because I was punished as a teen I don’t steal even when I could because it causes greater harm onto society (inflation) than what good it does for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:59 AM
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The reason we need religion to teach morals is because parents notoriously fail at doing their jobs. I am saying because I have worked with kids for 9 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:42 AM
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LOL. Children are not born compassionate or understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:39 AM
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Anyone who is successful in dating isn’t online complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:25 AM
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Companionship, loyalty and I cook. I am actually quite the homemaker and have saved my husband a lot of money making things we used to have to buy. For example my husbands mayo used to be $8 (then he’d buy hummus $7) a jar so I made the flavor of hummus he liked at home and used the aquafaba from the chickpeas to make mayo. A can of chickpeas is $1 and is all I need to make both those. I’m also thrifty I bought dried kidney beans on sale for $15 and they have lasted us a year of me making chili …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 06:05 AM
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I hate this question. If someone doesn’t want kids then they are doing the right thing by not having them. Even if it is for selfish reasons. Children deserve to be born into loving homes where they are wanted. They do not deserve to feel unwanted with miserable parents that fuck them up. Stop pushing women to have children who do not want them. The flip side of this is I also hate that reply also. It is sad that motherhood has negative connotations of being an undesirable outcome when it can br…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:05 AM
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I don’t believe people should be nice because I equate niceness with bending over backwards for people. I prefer to encourage respectful assertiveness. I just do not believe people give respect to those who don’t know how to command it appropriately. Having been in positions of authority throughout much of my career I have had to have hard conversations with people and set firm boundaries with aggressive people for my own protection. You definitely have to balance being likable with being firm b…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:47 AM
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Mandatory mastectomies would reduce breast cancer by 99%. Women not being able to breastfeed would not benefit society. Also I don’t support bodily mutilation of any kind. ”Bettering society as a whole" is a terrible standard to measure policy success. And routinely the justification of tyrants to curtail individual rights and pit social groups one against another. No, Utilitarianism supports democracy. The claim is that the governments interests and the general populations interests will coinci…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:38 AM
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I work with teenagers who tend to have a lot of body issues being survivors of sex trafficking. A completely different population than the rest of the world. Yes I consider it unethical in that environment, they already don’t have a healthy self image. I don’t act the same way in the rest of the world amongst adults as I do with children. I am not negatively impacting the world because I put on tinted moisturizer with spf (which isn’t at all a foundation equivalent it is sheer coverage) and eye …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:32 PM
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Misandrist take. Totally expected from a North American female. If rape shield laws don’t hurt men equally as their non existence hurt women then your take is actually misogynistic. What else would I expect from someone who self identifies as a red piller. As I have stated, I’m not convinced their existence hurt those men’s case in your example because physical evidence existed to exonerate and her past sexual history isn’t evidence proving that crime happened or not. Imaging supporting somethin…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:12 PM
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I don’t gossip about my sex life. Online I may offer insight and use my past experiences even sexual ones as references but the only times I mention my sex life irl would be positively and it would serve an educational purpose and be as modest as possible for privacy. I have never disclosed anyone’s dick sizes to my friends and I never asked what someone’s dick size was. I don’t ask/don’t tell if people are good in bed. Except once when my ex went around trying to act cool lied about our sex lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:35 AM
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I would have happily dated a liberal man back in the day when people were not going insane but anymore there’s too much craziness that goes along with dating Wokies. My husband is conservative leaning and I am so happy that I am off the market and don’t have to worry about all the things you have to worry about with liberals nowadays. Back then it wasn’t political to go to church. It was not emotional abuse to tell your child “no you can’t get plastic surgery,” instead of teaching them to cope w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 09:49 AM
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I went to the movies with my mom and some guy approached to make small talk with me multiple times it did not amount to anything likely because I mentioned my husband. That was last summer. My lifestyle probably makes me very unapproachable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 05:29 AM
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Unrelated but I found it funny in the news they used her catfish pictures lol. https://amp.theguardian.com/uk-news/2023/mar/14/eleanor-williams-jailed-lying-rapes-trafficking She doesn’t look like that she looks like Mr potato head https://www.independent.co.uk/tv/news/eleanor-williams-rape-grooming-gangs-b2300515.html. She even has those ridiculous painted on eyebrows. Self inflicted wounds would be recognizable by doctors and police which is probably what lead to her ultimate 8 year prison sen…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 04:45 AM
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I did not say only women can change I have worded most of my replies gender neutrally for a reason. I do not believe abusers men and women change and become great partners- they may but I would rather put resources into people who deserve them. I have 0 sympathies for adults who break the laws and commit acts of violence on other people. I also would never encourage an abusive relationship to just seek therapy and hope they can change, I don’t even know what the fuck kind of thinking that is. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 02:10 AM
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Abusive people are harder to change because they often are not motivated to think about anyone but themselves. Some abusers change but it is unlikely they become non-abusive they just learn how to abuse legally (emotional/financial) or become more manipulative.. And they certainly won’t change for their victims. No one thinks abusers bare no responsibility for their actions, obviously which is why we have laws in place to put these people away. If he didn’t feel bad about holding a gun to your h…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:42 AM
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Do you also think that women who are raped deserved it for dressing provocatively and walking in the dark? Notice how I said none of that. Nice try though. some women seem to be attracted to terrible men. If you care about getting women out of domestic violence relationships then the first step is to help them understand how they got there in the first place. Ignoring red flags, educating them about toxicity/control and seeking out dark triad personality traits. Telling people they cannot change…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:07 AM
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Trouble is that women are never held accountable for their choices. I’d argue women are held accountable in real life and this is why we have to have rape shield laws. Because women would actually be held “accountable” inappropriately. I do however see a tendency in people who have past trauma to be re-victimized because they fail to recognize their preferences are for these dark triad personalities. So I always tell people if your relationship wasn’t healthy then use that as an example of what …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:03 AM
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My thoughts are that they are dating women who don’t respect them and are not properly vetting their women. This shouldn’t be happening everytime. It’s like when women date domestic abusers exclusively and instead of taking accountability for what wrong qualities they seek in a man that puts them in these positions they just blame men.. You are just blaming women for your poor decision making. Edit: evidence of red pilled insanity in these comments celebrating the day I die because I support rap…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 08:36 PM
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While we tend to mature to our adult faces by our twenties, some people may experience weight loss in their buccal pads going into their early 30s, as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 08:18 PM
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When you are younger people’s faces tend to be chubbier (or more round/baby faced) then become slimmer as they age.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 08:16 PM
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Not necessarily they’d have to be a certain level of overweight before you’d know but then there’s long sleeves. Also when people are younger their necks/faces don’t necessarily reveal being overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 07:36 PM
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I didn’t so no. Also the guys I matched with were varying in attractiveness. I wouldn’t say they were more or less. If I swiped on someone really attractive it was more for the compliment of knowing we matched I never actually met up with them. Knew they were a fuckboy anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 07:33 PM
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This can be reduced with a proper skin care routine not eliminated. Unless you have a lot of money to spend on medical appointments to discover the perfect routine for your skin if you have problematic skin. Then once you get your routine down skin changes as we age and the routines need to change so you have to do it all over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 11:55 AM
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If you are wearing it at the pool that is pretty telling that it is an insecurity making it comparable to make up. It is also occasionally done to hide being out of shape so when that happens that is similar to women’s insecurities about not wearing make up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 11:16 AM
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I can only speak for myself but the enjoyment i get from intercourse is not from a man’s penis it is from the connection being a combination of being emotional and physical plus giving him pleasure. Maybe other women can verify that this is their experience. I know there are women out there that do care but the ones who have been vocal about it to me were also never going to be faithful to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 10:09 AM
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Ok let us know when that works for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 09:42 AM
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I don’t think deleting apps is a good idea because some people manage it and it is part of casting a wide net. I do believe a lot of men won’t have success with them if my dating history with apps says anything. Men who valued me enough to be my friends for years were always preferred and who I dated 7/8 times I have been in serious relationships only 1 was from an app and all others from the app I saw once and ghosted except 1 guy whom I ghosted after the fourth date maybe third. Problem is whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 09:14 AM
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I am not sure that it would keep others from bullying you, people suck, but I do believe I have made certain individuals second guess saying shit to me which made it more effective than being a silent victim. As fucked up as it is people are not intimated by weakness it actually feeds their ego and eggs them on. The claim isn’t that it is 100% effective it is simply that I have found more success when people have to consider their feelings in the matter because clearly they won’t consider mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 08:43 AM
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Men wear loose fitted clothing to hide being out of shape even at the pool. Is that deceptive?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 08:12 AM
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The funny thing is I have actually been deceived by loose t-shirts only to find out they were hiding being out of shape. Did I consider it deceptive? Nope that thought never even crossed my mind. I also stopped caring past high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 08:07 AM
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I mean when you use an app to date seriously you’re a stranger and competing with not only other strangers.. But men she knows IRL. And if my experience with apps tells me anything it is that woman only use them when they have no options in real life.. Then when they have real life options they entertain those and delete the apps. Not sure how many men I went on dates with from the apps but I only saw 2 of them more than once and I had a strong preference for men I knew IRL because I knew there …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 06:46 AM
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Pay off my house. Then I’d buy a ford maverick. That should pretty much deplete 100k.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 06:19 AM
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Foundation cannot hide wrinkles. It actually makes wrinkles look worse because make up cakes and builds up around them lol. Once you develop wrinkles you may as well accept make up will only make you look worse. You need Botox to hide wrinkles.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 06:11 AM
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This question had me cackling. I’m not sure if this was sincere but dam it was funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 06:01 AM
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If someone says that about someone I do not know I am likely to believe them until evidence shows me otherwise because I have actually been on the receiving end of sexual assault complaints. I had to verify some and for the most part they end up having evidence.. it’s rare they are made up but if someone told me my brother or cousin did that I would not believe them. My husband? Absolutely would not believe them. My friends? Nope I actually did handle a situation where some girl lied about my fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 05:28 AM
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Ok how are we not pointing out that Elon abandoned his family and deserves whatever he gets? No one cares he got taken advantage of he abandoned 5 CHILDREN and a women who probably actually loved him for a 22 year old..
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 05:15 AM
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No I don’t think it’s deceptive because it’s visible to the naked eye. Unless you put a bag over your head we know you’re wearing it. However there are certain situations where I question whether it is ethical to wear make up that have nothing to do with men.. For example I work with teenage girls, I am a role model and I take that job very seriously . I have decided that I will no longer be wearing make up to work (began doing this 2 years ago). I may do my hair to look presentable but I focus …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 05:09 AM
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I don’t think most people are that aggressive but if that is your concern then maybe you know the people around you better than I do. I was more so imagining this was more likely to happen in a private situation where you could say it then leave immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:58 AM
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That is a hard one to overcome. I have actually been in a unique position of being small almost non-existent tittied until I was 17 then from there became big tittied and people just suck.. You can’t try to control that which you cannot which is other people’s opinions of you. They say two wrongs don’t make a right but I fully believe if someone body shames you then the best favor you can do for them is to inflict that same emotional pain onto them so maybe they don’t do that to someone else. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:49 AM
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I honestly think if someone body shames you then the best favor you can do for them is to dish what they gave back at them. Some people have to learn the hard way that isn’t cool. I know a lot of people say that isn’t right but I fully believe that not defending yourself makes the situation worse. They will go on and do that to other people or they get a taste of their own medicine and maybe think twice about what they say next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:24 AM
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If you aren’t turning each other on then your marriage is dead. You do bare responsibility in turning on your partner but I don’t think it should be a difficult task or that would be a sign that you’re not the problem there is something within your spouse that may be the problem. Unexpected compliments I find to more effective. Saying “good morning beautiful” every morning isn’t really going to make a difference when it happens on a schedule. That makes it seem disingenuous. However something mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 10:39 AM
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I can empathize with your feelings about circumcision and especially it being turned into product. I wouldn’t purchase any products that were not cruelty free especially for vanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 07:40 AM
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Second date I invited my (now) husband over my house for the night. He took me out to dinner but the next day I made breakfast and lunch. Cooking during the talking stage is pretty common for both genders really.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 07:25 AM
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That still doesn’t mean the cosmetic industry needs to be shut down, because that problem is solved by banning circumcision which would be a more direct approach to that problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 07:05 AM
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I am unconcerned about an uprising or providing porn replacements.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 05:38 AM
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Yes, it’s is your own fault for having sex with a minor even if they lied. John knows what a child looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 05:34 AM
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While I agree that using aborted fetuses in anti-aging creams is immoral because it creates a demand for abortions- which while I’m pro-choice isn’t something I want incentivized in that way. That doesn’t mean the entire cosmetic industry needs to be eliminated.. There is actually an easy solution to that, replace fetal cells with more mature cells. They could simply use proteins derived from postnatal placentas which are just as effective as fetal cells for anti aging products. My concern isn’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 05:33 AM
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I hate porn for many reasons. That is just my biggest one. I’m less concerned about the adults involved however the exploitation of women in general is something I am against. Porn depicts acting and often times not pleasurable acts for the women involved. It also doesn’t help young men navigate having a healthy sex life. I would never support hedonistic porn or deviant fetishes. Then there are the religious components also, I know most will not care. Porn takes away from intimacy that is suppos…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 10:05 AM
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Yes, that is my goal. I work in the meantime & contribute but as soon as I am either pregnant enough or am in labor I will call it quits on my career. I may consider working 2 days a week no more than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 07:29 AM
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Something that gets overlooked are that only fans and pornhub are profiting off minors and that content is often viewable for years before it gets taken down. You also wouldn’t know if you were masturbating to a kidnapped minor because they are trained to act like adults and use make up to look older. This is also why the “how low can we go” question bugs the absolute fuck out of me. The reason why traffickers go younger is because those girls will be monetized longer. I work with those kids eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 07:24 AM
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SMH.. If a man seems emotionally unavailable then I would assume it was because he wasn’t interested in me. That is kinda funny they blamed all men. I was always told that if a man was interested in me I’d know and there would be no questions or games. Their parents failed them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 05:40 AM
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Short term relationships are representative of what people want. It’s a reflection of their decisions and desires. I don’t find that to be accurate. When I have had friends sleeping with the better looking men including Olympic athletes they were also sleeping with dudes with cystic acne or overweight (sometimes both) it was more a desperation to be loved or desired I don’t think it mattered who the individual was. They were very lost and mentally unstable. Anyone who showed them kindness was th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 05:14 AM
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I would not even know where to find women talking about infanticide? I have never seen that in my life. If I saw that I would report it. I’m aware of the recent bear non-sense and I have already stated my piece many times but as I was saying yesterday the entire game of “lets make men feel so uncomfortable talking to us so they leave us alone” is not only hateful but embarrassing. I also think it is counterproductive because that would only make the good men want to avoid women. Men who are trul…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:51 AM
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I do not think short term relationships are representative of what people want. So I would not say that is an example of hypergamy. Men would sleep up if they could but men on here have outed themselves and said it is way easier to sleep down and that is what they do.. And even if this doesn’t apply to you anyone who sleeps with people knowing they aren’t interested in long term relationships is using that person and I have never done that personally because I knew it was fucked up even if I wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 10:23 PM
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Having the ability to reason is part of what would make a person good at giving advice the other factor would be life experience. Women know what they want more than men do, not sure how you could argue differently. That would be similarly ridiculous as me saying I know what men want more than you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 10:08 PM
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Giving advice is unrelated to physical strength, it is related too mental processing. Research clearly shows men are physically superior but that isn’t the case for IQ, were there is no significant difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 09:52 PM
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Because you invalidate an entire gender because of a bad experience or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 09:34 PM
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Therefore you’re biased. And my husband contributes his dating success to his mother. So some men do value women’s opinions and advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 09:11 PM
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Men on here constantly brag they will sleep down but not date down this isn’t a compliment.. It is worse to be used than for people to leave you alone. Lol men being willing to have sex with women they won’t date means absolutely nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 07:55 PM
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You are being invalidated for the things you say not your gender. Nope I’m constantly told on here women can’t give good advice, are incapable of rational thought and are children. It is definitely my gender. First of all, you are wrong. Women's preferences for tall men have been widely documented in numerous cross-cultural studies. Tall is a preference but it doesn’t automatically make your face attractive. The point is that men in relationships are not necessarily representative of average men…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 07:51 PM
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I'm not surprised that you feel this way. I know men dating literal models who are attractive but not enough to be models. I also know men dating OF chicks. And men in our friend circle make comments about some guys standards. It’s sad that in order to avoid being invalidated because of my gender I have to assure you men feel the same way . By that logic, you can't say men are dating up either. They could have been attractive high school or college athletes when they got together with their part…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 07:01 PM
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I don’t see men getting the short end of the stick. In my circle all the men date up in looks. Women who are obese were probably attractive at the time they got together so that isn’t a good measure for men being willing to date ugly chicks at the beginning. And a man who sticks around because he loves his partner even though they gained weight isn’t an injustice that is his decision. Men are also on average more overweight than women. I don’t go around rating men on their looks outside this for…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 06:18 PM
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Men in this forum what a sample size. Men in this forum talk about taking away women’s right to vote, abandoning morality and I have even seen murder and arson comments that nobody cared to address except for to say arson isn’t worth it you’ll just go to jail… As if that is the only reason to not commit arson against women you feel have wronged you and murder wasn’t even challenged.. You’re in a forum full of misogynists there opinions aren’t normal or even average.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:53 PM
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Men having to date women below them isn’t an injustice women do it all the time. 4/10 women and men are going to struggle to get with anyone I really only see ugly people getting with each other. I don’t ever see ugly people with average people. Also the men in this forum have rated some attractive celebrities as 4s so I’m not sure I’d trust most of you to fairly rate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:50 PM
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Not really both are still ugly so it’s not like anyone wanted them anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:22 PM
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What facts? You’re using your personal experience so that is anecdotal. And saying women don’t give good advice, is low hanging fruit. There isn’t a rebuttal when my gender is holding me back, and that is a convenient stance for you to take. It’s not like the majority of the men in this forum use that same tactic.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 12:12 PM
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Well then if you are just going to invalidate everything I say because of my gender this conversation wasn’t had in good faith. Great debate. 👏
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:48 AM
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It’s based of your delusions that women like assholes. What kind of relationship dynamic do you think will be created when you treat each other like shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:43 AM
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Hope you have fun with your toxic dysfunctional relationships. No one who is mentally sound is going to put up with you. And when the shit hits the fan it isn’t because of women it your own fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:39 AM
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Men don’t act like assholes at the beginning of the relationship. That comes later and is the DEALBREAKER. She was probably attracted to his charisma and looks. You guys cannot be this stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:36 AM
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My husband uses me as an excuse all the time. I feel bad but I have come to realize that he enjoys staying in with me more than going out with his dudes, that is his decision. He complains all they want to do is drink and they pressure him too so I don’t blame him. He said he was only doing that to meet chicks and he didn’t actually enjoy it. He goes out with friends without me rarely but he is always trying to drag me along so he has an excuse not to drink because then he just tells them he has…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 07:54 AM
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Aw thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:01 AM
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I acknowledge there is evidence suggesting hypergamy exists I just think that it is blown out of portion by other factors. Men on average are capable of more physically demanding jobs and get paid more on average so naturally more women would be dating up regardless if that was the intention or not. There are women who want kids and want a provider which is fine, so long as that isn’t the sole reason they commit to someone. I also acknowledge predators exist to exploit men, this isn’t new. The m…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:34 AM
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This chick got called out for being misandrist and ableist and now she is suddenly autistic and so is her father. Lol For the record I don’t care about people’s dating preferences, I am not 100% sure I could date someone who was autistic either, probably depends on the severity. It is just funny how these chips fell.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:23 AM
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Seek therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:21 AM
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That was a strong word but that doesn’t change the fact that you have ill intentions. This is not made to help men. I knew it from the OP and found the admission in the comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:53 AM
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OP in the comments: You are contaminated. You have talked to someone who is pathologically hopeless and would woop for joy if the world was about to end because it ends for all of you too. To that end , i want the newer generation to be totaly selfish and just exacerbate things to the point of vissible no return He isn’t here to help men, he is here to make you as undesirable as he out of jealousy.. This is your idol you’re upvoting lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:03 AM
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And it was upvoted. That goes to show the kinds of people that lurk these forums.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 01:27 AM
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He wont
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 01:22 AM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 07:16 PM
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You sounds just as delusional as those chicks who think all men like bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 08:00 AM
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LOL. There could be other definitions of “successful” that doesnt require dying. Regardless men are not assholes at the beginning of the relationship most know that is a turn off which is why men and women put on their best behavior at the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 07:15 AM
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You think men are assholes at the beginning of the relationship? That isn’t what likely even attracted her to that guy. It was probably charisma and looks.. I have dumped men for being dicks, it wasn’t attractive and it wasn’t part of why I liked them enough to enter a relationship. It was the dealbreaker. And I did not have sex with him either so he had to be in a non-sexual relationship with me while I figured him out. If you want toxic dysfunction by all means try it but don’t blame women whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:49 AM
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This isn’t a rational rebuttal so I’ll just rest my case.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:31 AM
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Why do you need to repeatedly make men feel like shit for talking to you lol… The bear thing was not a good look.. I’m actually embarrassed for all those who aren’t embarrassed about picking the bear.. "I know a bear's intentions," This is insanity. You do not know a wild animals intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:27 AM
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That relationship wasn’t successful it ENDED why do you idiots use unsuccessful relationships as blueprints.. if your definition of success is getting laid a couple times then you are childish. OP doesn’t seem like they are even interested in something casual they want something that will last. You do not give good advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:56 AM
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I do not need to focus on finding out if he’s a red piller. Like maybe some of you are dateable just not the majority if this forum is any representation and it likely is. I don’t think my dating strategies would change at all in this current market. I would keep my standards where they are already at. Focus on finding Christian men with college degrees that value me and don’t try push my boundaries until I’m ready. That is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 02:50 AM
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Omg warning other woman of what exactly? I legit just lol’d. This thread is hilarious. I didn’t actually think anyone would defend this. The OP is clearly composed of a bunch of stereotypes that were crafted in their head. I cannot.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 01:31 AM
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lol I like dudes in STEM they are my dad, bother and husband. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:38 PM
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Your opinion is invalid. I’ve been a social worker for 10 years and I have impacted more men’s lives positively than you could ever dream of doing. I shouldn’t have to defend myself from some dumbass who think they know me because they read a couple of my comments. Lol go touch grass
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:34 PM
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I have had to ignore a lot of your comments at my comments for being hopelessly misogynistic. I recognize you. My sympathies are not for anyone who is openly biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 07:38 PM
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I have the moral authority to say I won’t marry someone who watches porn. Which is what I did. Imagine that. 69% of men watch porn, so you are projecting your “needs” as being normal for others. They aren’t. You thinking men need 10/10 women to climax is a perfect example of how pornography causes sexual dysfunction in men, which includes needing an abnormal amount of stimulation. And this is coming from a someone (you) who identifies themselves as being aligned with a group of men who claim men…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 07:15 PM
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That is because you don’t know me and I doubt you notice anything positive women do. Have a nice life. 👋
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 07:03 PM
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You just made me terrified to eat anything lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 05:31 PM
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Ok this is misandry lol. How would you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:59 AM
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Well I’ll try not to be a gold fish next time lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:07 AM
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Well I thought it was only a partial message I didn’t know it was complete. That was funny though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:01 AM
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Omg I think I am. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 07:57 AM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 07:51 AM
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And yes it comes from a religious perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 05:57 AM
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lol. The only correct answer is “I was thinking about you.” I’m pretty sure anything else will upset me at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 05:47 AM
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So women he knows? That is way worse lmao. I would be jealous and very upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 05:39 AM
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Ok but that was to provoke thoughts about how much a woman’s height really matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 05:15 AM
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Well if he’s watching porn then yes because that is considered infidelity in my relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 05:14 AM
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No my sister got married but that was her only bf she ever had and they didn’t get together until after college. She was the lower end of a healthy weight. Men found my sister attractive but when I would ask them to be the wing woman they’d just be like “she is pretty but..” so I knew they weren’t interested in her. My cousin is blonde hair blue eyed maybe like 30lbs overweight. But she has never been married and she is about to be 40. She looks good for her age though. She doesn’t gain weight t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 05:10 AM
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I mean if you’re a 6ft woman you don’t have much of a choice but to date shorter than you. I doubt it’s ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:46 AM
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The men I have talked to about turning down women for being to tall admitted it was intimidating to date taller. Nice try tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:43 AM
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What other characteristics? We were specifically talking about height..
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:39 AM
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He better not be.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:38 AM
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No my favorite travel companions are in this order: my mom, my husband and my sister. That is all. I have travelled with friends before but I do not remember enjoying their company as much to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:10 AM
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Maybe this is a weird question but I’d ask what he was thinking about. But I don’t really care.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:57 AM
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Tall women do struggle to date it’s intimating for men to date tall women however unlikely it is for a woman to be tall enough repel men. I have cousins who are 6ft and my sister is 5’10”. I know men who have also rejected women for being too tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:51 AM
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Analysts say the opioid epidemic started with the overprescription of legal pain medications in the 1990s, but it has intensified in recent years due to influxes of cheap heroin, fentanyl, and other synthetic opioids supplied by foreign drug cartels. Like I said you are arguing from another time period. Doctors don’t prescribe it as frivolously as they did. Access intensified the epidemic. You are just hypersensitive on being correct. You need access to fuel an addiction rub some of your brain c…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:54 AM
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Polygamy doesn’t benefit women you are more likely to contract STDs than a man. Side chicks are not taken seriously you are a fuck toy.. You are not valued. He will not be a good father to his children because he is stepping out all the time which leaves the burden of childcare on women. Polyamory is an abomination to commitment the idea that it could benefit women is uniformed and disgusting. People who enter those kinds of situations are usually attention whores and don’t give a fuck about the…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:10 AM
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She actually might want to talk to her doctor. Unless she was putting cheese/bacon on her salads or eating things you don’t know about that is a health concern. Ranch is kinda fattening though I stick to vinaigrettes. I also never liked store bought ranch I don’t like heavy salad dressing in general. If I am eating salad I stick to Whole Foods so cheese/croutons/bacon wouldn’t be on any salad I ever make.. I stick to a nut, a fruit (usually dried) and chopped veggies. There isn’t a point in eati…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 12:11 AM
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It’s not just about calories, content matters. If I eat my daily calorie limit in carbs (even healthy ones) I won’t maintain my weight I will gain. You don’t even want to do most of your calories in carbs same issue. People think they have to have protein, carb, fruit and veggie with every meal because that is how we were taught to balance our diets when a fruit is a carb.. A protein can be from plants and we don’t need a 4 course meal every time we eat. Edit: we are also taught we need dairy fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:49 PM
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I’m not saying that both things can’t be true you are literally arguing from a different time period and I’m arguing from what’s happening today.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:40 PM
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Haha, yeah I wasn’t sure how to respond to this one. Maybe OP just needs a hobby!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:34 PM
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The fentanyl is coming in from Mexico, who is getting it from China.. Source: https://www.american.edu/cas/news/to-the-point-the-fentanyl-crisis.cfm
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 11:37 AM
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It is not a compliment to be needed nor should it given you stability in your relationship. Whatever you can provide then women could theoretically get those needs met elsewhere.. If you are wanted there is no replacement.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 10:27 AM
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It is not a compliment to be needed nor should it given you stability in your relationship. Whatever you can provide then women could theoretically get those needs met elsewhere.. If you are wanted there is no replacement.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 10:26 AM
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I have to actually agree with “most read.” I do not find agreeableness attractive it is actually a signal of unintelligence. I might care how the conflict is handled- be reasonable and pleasant. The majority of men on this forum resort to using insults when in disagreement which is also a sign of someone who is intellectually a lightweight… However I absolutely prefer men who have healthy levels of skepticism and individualism.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 10:17 AM
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Doctors are not handing out opiates like candy. That is coming from the illegal market. I worked security at a hospital and escorted people out for trying to get opiate prescriptions and being unruly those are definitely regulated. Most people are not even aware of how to eat healthy. Foods that are not healthful can be marketed as healthy. The US uses grains that are banned in other countries almost exclusively. A lot of popular food items in the US are not even legal in other countries. The go…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 10:00 AM
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That is prescribed and they are probably not going to give it out like candy. The only women I know who are being prescribed this are morbidly obese with health related problems. Even if they lost the weight they wouldn’t be competition without major surgery since they have gained weight to the point of causing permanent bodily damage/deformity. Doctors are not going to prescribe this to women who are 5lbs overweight. Doctors would also probably request their patients visit them every couple mon…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:16 AM
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How conditional is your love? I have avoided dating attractive men because of their GPA’s. It may not be a perfect system but if your getting straight D’s your probably a dumbass. School (including college) wasn’t that hard. I would say my love is pretty conditional. I don’t consider dating anyone without a college degree. I also would probably struggle to date anyone who consumes animal products despite being aware of the evils of farming but that’s probably irrelevant since 1% of the world is …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 08:55 AM
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So a misanthropic vegan? His bloodline would be over.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 08:29 AM
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Yeah that is because you guys have it all wrong. How to met girls 101: play Katarina in league of legends.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 08:25 AM
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I’m specifically talking about men pursuing 20 year age gaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:21 AM
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I’m sorry that happened to you. Can we not assume that because you were preyed upon by a 36 year old woman that all women in their 30s are similar? That is misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:16 AM
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As someone who’s been hit on by men 20 years older than her (even at multiple stages of my life) you guys are not hot to young women. You are actually creepy, delusional and sad. 10 years later my relationship status was hidden on my profile because I fiddled with my privacy settings and some 50 yr old messaged me and he really believes he is hot shit.. Men don’t factor in their own delusions. He aged like shit and looks like a grandpa with a six pack. I don’t see anyone finding him attractive. …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:04 AM
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I moved in with him and he said, “you having a job isn’t a requirement.” There was a lot of stuff he said before that that lead to me feeling that way but this is what I remember the most clearly because it happens everytime I have a bad day at work. Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 11:04 AM
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That is not sexual abuse it would be assault because he was blacked out. There isn’t a “remedy” he either decides to press charges or doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:39 AM
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Markets don’t exist unless someone is buying.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:14 AM
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I’m not complaining I’m pointing out that you telling me just ignore the beauty standards is not empathetic and would be bad dating advice if I asked for any.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:13 AM
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That is a straw man but ok bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:10 AM
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Referring back to body hair because I don’t do nor desire cosmetic surgery. Do yall know how peer pressure works? I struggle to ignore the preferences of the majority of men even if I think it’s dumb. That actually would impact my mental health because of the frequency men communicate their body hair preferences to women. It has been something I have been constantly reminded of since I was 13 by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:12 AM
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Oh, I didn’t mean universally. I do think mens pubic hair preferences tend to be a bit more individualized than leg and arm pit hair preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:49 AM
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People today also have more time to think about their preferences than they did 60 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:41 AM
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I remember when men used to talk about dick sucking lips (DSL) and now lip injections are an extremely common cosmetic surgery for pornstars to have. Demand creates the market.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:20 AM
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What do you mean “were”? So socialist countries now also prefer women who shave?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:09 AM
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If shaven women are who are preferred in dating/porn then yes. Edit: not all men just a large majority
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:07 AM
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The porn industry is successful because it excels at understanding and capitalizing off of men’s internal desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 07:57 AM
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Another reason to hate pornography. I could see how that could have been popularized by porn. I have never viewed pornography I learned of those preferences by men communicating them to me. So I never would have considered that. The porn industry is successful because it excels at understanding and capitalizing off of men’s internal desires though so it still is a reflection of men’s preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 07:54 AM
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I wish the men ITT would stop blaming their preferences on corporations. If there wasn’t a desire for shaven legs, vaginas and armpits then the demand wouldn’t exist and there would be no profit selling these products. Women are motivated to care about shaving because of how not doing so would impact our options. the photo of a woman without body hair was rated significantly more attractive than the one with body hair, with 95.2% of the participants choosing the hairless women. When it came to e…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 07:21 AM
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A career is absolutely an indicator of other qualities a man might have. Veterans have high rates of PTSD which is not a complication I want added into my life. Corrections officers have high rates of divorce and burn out (which has negative consequences within relationships). Sex workers have higher than normals rates of STDs. I care about occupation. I care most about receiving an education. I am also a college graduate. It is a protective factor against unemployment, securing retirement and f…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:49 AM
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What do you consider "exploitation" in the context of sexual/romantic relationships? the action or fact of treating someone unfairly in order to benefit from their work. Yes I copied this from dictionary.com When a western man pursues women from less developed countries, because he knows they're attracted to his background and income, is that "exploitation"? Why or why not? Assuming it is capable of being consensual by both individuals involved no. When women from a less developed country pursue…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:35 AM
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No. Unless we have talked for an extended period of time I likely wouldn’t even think about them. I usually had a lot going on in my life because I have always worked demanding jobs and I’m a workaholic. I have been guilty of dating people then accidentally falling off the face of the earth to focus on my career only to remember their existence a couple weeks later. By that time though it felt awkward to try and continue anything so I just didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:20 AM
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Rate this guys rizz out of 5: https://www.tiktok.com/@patricksandersq94/video/7321300380678360366
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 12:09 PM
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Sure anyone can fall victim to predators but it’s extremely unlikely someone who has a strong foundation would.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 06:08 AM
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I don’t believe pick up artistry would work on high value women and you’d be setting yourself up to have negative experiences with women trying to essentially “cheat” at the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 05:47 AM
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I’m not saying it doesn’t exist in America my point was it exists everywhere and if you fail to vet your women then that is a problem that has to be solved by self reflection.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:53 PM
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Everytime I say this I am told I’m just bitter and jealous and it’s like no I have passport bro friends and it ended poorly for them because they made the same mistakes they made here. If you lined up 100 guys to decide who the hottest women were they’d go for that one evertime and they never noticed their shitty personalities. They just went goo-goo eyes and all the red flags in the world couldn’t stop them from marrying these chicks even if all their guy friends thought it was a bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 03:17 AM
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I don’t really care about dating abroad it’s more so the attitude that somehow their failures with women will be fixed if they run from their problems. If you suck at vetting women because you are going for a much better catch than yourself for example a 7 man going for 9s&10s then get cheated on don’t blame all women because you batted out of your league and lost. Those problems follow you wherever you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 02:58 AM
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I’ll never been an adult to my parents they have always babied me. It’s frustrating sometimes. At work I get mistaken for being one of the kids by people who don’t know me until I open my mouth. However people who know me will ask for my advice on various things or look to me to take the lead handling crises at work. I don’t think I’m assumed to be competent by most people initially though. I’m beyond 30. I feel at least people who know me treated me like a competent adult probably around 22 whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 02:18 AM
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I’m vegan anyways. Can’t eat there. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 01:39 AM
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I’d risk it with another human regardless.. the bear comparison is pretty dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 11:42 PM
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Still gross because it isn’t risk free.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:03 AM
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Men are not defined by what comes out of their mouths. You are. Actions are the only thing that matters No they are not most women want your actions and words to reflect the man they think you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:44 AM
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I have never been bothered by a bear but I take a lot of precautions no food, no perfume and nothing with a scent comes with me when I’m camping or hiking if there are bears around. I also have bear spray just in case. I’m less scared of a mountain lion because bears don’t kill you first they eat you alive! Throw a mountain lion in a flock of sheep and it will kill and eat one. But a bear will kill the whole flock aimlessly! They don’t typically hunt but if there’s a food shortage they are omniv…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:25 AM
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No I’m deeply terrified of bears. They are the one animal I have nightmares about because I go out into the forest/mountains a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:01 AM
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Well I would think harboring a secret crush would be a terrible move but some people are just too shy to overcome that. It’s gross because of how prevalent STDs and STI’s are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 12:22 AM
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it comes out closer to 3% What percent of those do you think are celebrities? Regardless of the internal drivers, what you choose to show to the world is a façade; it's done for fear of judgment. Your examples of women doing this are 1 straw man (cosmetic surgery which is only available to the top 3% of women) and something that women do in plain sight (make up). Your third example given that women don’t communicate their feelings make it sound like they didn’t have those feelings or you barely …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 09:47 PM
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No that sounds really weird to me. I don’t like either of those options. Sex all the time is desperate and indicative of mental health issues. Sex once a month consistently doesn’t communicate desire or enthusiasm to your partner. I don’t recommend either of these women. Balance is healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 10:51 AM
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You are describing the dynamic of an abusive relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 09:36 AM
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Oh, well then I guess this was a who let me on the internet moment. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 08:10 AM
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I don’t understand? What W?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 08:04 AM
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Ok the average men you chose were much older than tate. By like 10 years. Like im sure they were much more attractive when they weren’t someone’s grandpa. Their weights looked fine to me I don’t really care about 25-30lbs overweight I do care about looking obese. Tate looks way different in that picture than he does now.. maybe it was the camera angle but maybe he aged bad idk. How he looked in the past doesn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:47 AM
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Your body and height don’t matter if your face is effed up. I didn’t know he was a boxer but I don’t really care. When determining attractiveness your face is more important than your body. He is a butter face.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:32 AM
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Well I wouldn’t know I don’t watch porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:08 AM
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Tate isn’t average he is a 4 on a good day. Like cool he works out, his ears are huge, he has crazy eyes and he is bald. I watched one interview with him and he was artfully manipulative. He makes me uncomfortable from a screen. he is a menace to society and looks the part.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:06 AM
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I’m going off their physical features. If Tate wasn’t famous he’d get no ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:50 AM
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Andrew Tate is as ugly as sin. He has crazy eyes and is bald and his facial features are just wild. Myron is the most attractive of the three. Would I date any of these men given the chance? No they have insufferable personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:42 AM
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Holy fuck what?!?! Lmfao. Dam she’s so average you’d never even expect that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:35 AM
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Brian is more attractive than pearl, of course he wouldn’t date her. Myron is way out of her league more so than Brian. I’m just going off their physical features. I think Tate is ugly and looks wise the only one in her league but he’s a sociopath so he wouldn’t pursue anyone in his league. Pearl is pretty average so suggesting above average men date her isnt reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:26 AM
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Yeah but they won’t know what happens once you are both in person. I can only imagine how this app would turn out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:01 AM
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That is escorting. If I go back to before my marriage I would not have considered this because of many reasons: 1. it exploits peoples loneliness, 2. minors are often trafficked using similar apps and websites, sex work is evil, 3. Sex work is dangerous, 4. Last reason sex work ruins peoples careers. Once you do sex work you are essentially stuck doing it because no one will hire you and this particularly affects women who suffer from greater negative stigma associated with sex work than men. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 03:41 AM
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Option #2 there isn’t a point in having a partner who is never home. Option #1 he doesn’t sound compatible with the second she is just arm candy. Option #2 body count of 30 is ridiculous. The first option sounds just like a sex slave and then the second doesn’t even sound interested.. neither.. What kind of hypothetical even is this? Option #2 family is more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 03:08 AM
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Idk when I think back I had friends who were fucking everyone and they repelled a lot of guys though I am sure if it was their behavior or their looks. They were admittedly not the best looking women. But their dudes would complain about them behind their backs a lot and sometimes the complaint was modesty
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:30 PM
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No expectations of sex, also you get to know people deeply overtime and if they aren’t right for you there is no messy break up. I maintained lots of friendships in college with men. I had a gym buddy, soccer buddies, drinking buddies and study buddies hahaha. This helped me figure out which ones I wanted to date without all the drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:28 PM
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The problem with the casual dating scene is men who partake in it also criticize women’s body counts which is morally inconsistent. You want your cake and to eat it too. Maybe not you specifically but the men in this sub are proof that women should get commitment before having sex. A lot of people don’t see a problem with using people anymore. I would go a step further and advise women that friendship is low risk dating. If men are going to lie, fuck and judge them then that is more reason for w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 11:43 AM
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That's if you count children and pensioners and that's only botox, Why would you count children? but even then, my main retort would be what percentage of men do you think are red pilled? I don’t care to speculate I know the man I married isn’t. He doesn’t even know what the red pill is. I know for a fact women think and talk about sex a lot more than they let on during the formative stages of a relationship. Women very much put on a façade of being demure before they get comfortable with someon…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:51 AM
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Believe what you want but I married someone who was vegan, which if you don’t know that goes beyond diet and is more comparable to being an animal rights activist. It’s not something he did/does for me it is for the animals. He was confidently himself. I knew immediately he was vegan before he even knew I was and that hasn’t changed in 8 years. His personality was how it was the first day I met him. People who have foresight and want LTR’s understand why it’s best to be yourself. I don’t have to…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:37 AM
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Being confidently ourselves is called being uncouth. That would mean a world of slobs, assholes, arrogant pricks, and inconsiderate swine. I want to know what I’m signing up for. Also, I wouldn’t date anyone who acted like any of those things. You guys know this, that would be why the recommendation would be to hide. We will not hide our actions. So any woman who truly wants to know a man can simply do the work and pay attention to his behavior, and what he does. That takes time and I don’t thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:25 AM
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As for women hiding their body count, I would think you should be honest about your past but the thing is men are also dishonest about themselves and their past.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:12 AM
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What percentage of women do you think get plastic surgery? Women hiding behind a demure facade? Really? Do you even date? As for the make up thing, that is visible to the naked eye. Considering something that is in plain sight a lie is a rather far reach. You would know if someone was wearing it if it isn’t your preference go for women who don’t wear it. Make up also cannot hide deformity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:10 AM
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Yet you came back for me a week later. I’m in your head rent free.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:34 AM
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No, I think yall should just be confidently yourselves. People deserve to know the truth about their partners to make informed decisions on whether to include you in their lives. I have found that the truth always come out one way or another it’s inevitable, why hide? I don’t know what purpose disassociating with women at work has, I didn’t know that was part of the red pill bull shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:24 AM
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Literally a week later to come up with a low IQ response. Congrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 03:40 AM
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I’m glad you posted so the red pillers can see how their words hurt their children. Well done guys, you are breaking apart your own families with your misogyny. 👏👏👏 However, for what it’s worth I doubt your father thinks any of that about you or your siblings. If you have felt he was a good father until this point that means he was a good father to you, good parents aren’t perfect. His hatred probably stems from dating not his family, he could be going through something and having really unhealt…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:53 PM
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I think I’d rather be sexually assaulted than live in a world like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 05:45 PM
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So we did separate men and women’s sports by gender glad we established that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 12:39 PM
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So you don’t understand why men and women’s sports were separated to protect women and you don’t have brain damage?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 12:23 PM
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Omg thank you so much for understanding and pushing back against the libtards! Not many people are brave enough to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 12:04 PM
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Found the social justice warrior. It isn’t transphobic for men and women to want spaces for actual men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 11:57 AM
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You can thank the Wokies for that. GenDErlEsS SpOrTs hur durr. Maybe try not being woke or supporting insanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 10:36 AM
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A stable relationship that you cheat on her in and won’t marry her? Lol. Do you know that the opposite of the word stable is fickleness which means changeability, especially as regards one's loyalties or affections. You haven’t described a stabile relationship at all. You are lying to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 01:13 AM
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“Nobody loves me and I’m proud!” Why do you sound like a single mother whose sperm donor resorted to living in a tent in the woods to avoid paying child support?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 12:53 AM
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When I dated 7 years ago yes this was the expectation
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 12:25 AM
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Ok, then you are not loved and I can see why. Women who love their husbands care about being enough for them. You are self centered I can’t imagine why you’d be unloveable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 12:24 AM
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The fact that you think a man cheating on your own daughter isn’t a big deal shows you idiots have 0 sympathy for women’s feeling or regards to our sexual health. A man risked your daughter health to have some fun and it’s just whatever to you?? You’d be a shit father. I hope that isn’t your reality because I’d feel sorry for your children.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 12:14 AM
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Wow. I can’t believe you just shit on my car. I have a 2018 corolla. WTH.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:22 PM
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Omg no Jake if you read this don’t lead with your money that is awful advice. You will attract predators. Dont tell them your salary!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:03 PM
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Fake it until you make it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 07:40 PM
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He can’t present nervous that is definitely a turn off. He needs to present confidently and lead courtship to get better results in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 07:37 PM
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Someone hurt you so now you are lobbying to get other to hurt people with you? How are you not the narcissist in this situation? Narcissists seek control of everything and everyone around them. They love to be able to manipulate other people's feelings because controlling others helps them get what they want. Narcissists are experts at using words and actions to make others feel bad about themselves or even to be angry at someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 07:36 PM
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What are his social skills like? Is he boring or can he crack jokes?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 07:28 PM
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What I find interesting when comparing my parents to my husbands is both my husbands parents divorced when he was 0 and neither one of them recovered from the divorce they are absolutely miserable. I will just leave it at that instead of airing out dirty laundry. My parents are living a great life, they travel together, my dad home makes ice cream now and golfs with his friends. They very much had their ups and downs but they grew together. My husbands grandma also stayed with her husband and is…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 07:09 PM
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Ok. Well I have left men I was interested in because I am not going to play the game of “does he enthusiastically like me or not.” Other men are willing to step up and have these conversations. I found out later he had a crush on me for years. If I had known that I would have taken him more seriously. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 06:04 PM
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Imagine missing out on your crush for years because you try to act cool instead of behaving like an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:56 PM
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They’re going to lead them in a direction that gives power to the opposite sex Oh, this worded my experience perfectly. I had a lot of guy friends in college and even men who had nothing going for them would try to persuade me from dating options better than them they’d find something negative to say about that person and turn it into bragging about some quality they “have” then conveniently they start acting accordingly. The advice was essentially “date me” and was useless. They were trying to …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 01:42 PM
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Men do not give good dating advice to women. Mens dating advice is heavily biased on how he feels about that particular woman. Men who like me had nasty things to say about my husband or any of my love interests and tried to paint themselves in a better light even when they are way below my husband/interests in every way. The only advice I have essentially received from men is to date someone like them, even jobless losers will give that advice. So men’s dating advice for women is useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 01:32 PM
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He’s definitely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 12:03 PM
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I can’t think of anyone who gave me good dating advice except my parents. Yall suck at giving advice. What knowledge my parents didn’t give me I figured out on my own and I feel like I have a good idea of what someone’s intentions are. To me if they talked about sex immediately it was obvious they were a fuckboy. I thought it was common sense they’d probably cheat if they had a high body count (before I knew of the research done on predictors of infidelity). I avoided men who would take any oppo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 11:59 AM
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No, my husband is a gamer and he is awesome. My experience with gamer men has been different I have a lot of gamer friends who aren’t misogynists.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 11:39 AM
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I consider it the man’s role.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 11:34 AM
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I don’t think there has to be an exclusivity conversation if there was a wanna be my bf/gf question and an agreement to that then typically in my culture that implies exclusivity unless otherwise stated the relationship would be open/poly. I struggle to date multiple people unless I am not interested in anyone and I’m just going on first dates. Once I establish I want to see someone again I focus on them until I don’t see that going anywhere then I move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 11:32 AM
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I don’t think the situation you’re describing sounds like a “plan b” situation it sounds more like trading up.. Being the back up plan would indicate you are less desirable than the current partner and you are only a viable option if their current option falls through. Personally I would never be someone’s back burner bitch. I also dont trust people who start things before they finish.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 12:46 AM
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oh no I’d never try to emasculate my husband and manipulate him. That is definitely not normal. Like I have said things out of ignorance that hurt his feelings but he recognized my intent wasn’t there and was able to communicate with me about what was said and why it was offensive so I could undo the damage and sincerely apologize. I actually had a friend whose wife outlined how she manipulated him because she thought I needed a course on manipulation 101 and I was like “I don’t treat my man tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 12:07 AM
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No, she was painfully shy and I was pretty much her only friend. I was a very shy individual but she was on another level. She would cry in social situations unless I was there. I was very worried about how she’d function in life but she got therapy and was able to at least get through a job interview. She would even cry if the teachers talked to her, I guess you could say it was severe social anxiety so she tended to latch onto anyone who showed interest like they were her entire life even if t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 08:37 PM
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What? The question was why do women stay in things kinds of relationships. The answer was low self worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 08:10 PM
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I actually had a female friend in that situation except it was way worse. He refused to say he loved her for 9 months and gave more attractive women (who would have never looked at him) more attention than he gave her, his gf! He had attractive female friends, and he didn’t realize those women were all out of his league. I met him and all his friends.. He was a fat slob and had a friend who was doing OF she even had a bf who was clearly in her league. But he kept on putting this woman who would …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 06:41 PM
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I did not get aggressive, I called for attention to the situation and asked to be moved. I do not regret how I handled that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 01:58 PM
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Some kids grow up to be like their parents, but that isn’t always the case. Some kids learn from their parents mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 01:50 PM
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No, people told me to just ignore it. I wasn’t going to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 01:21 PM
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And I taught his son what happens to men when they harass women. 🤷🏼‍♀️ I feel so bad for that kid imagine that being your role model.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 12:28 PM
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The only times I have embarrassed men I rejected is if they began harassing me. Once I was visiting my sister and we went to a bar, i got approached by a man with his kid, he tried to use his kid as leverage to get me to talk to him. I told him I was married, and I didn’t have my ring on because I was traveling. He said “I’m just trying to teach my son how to talk to women. You can’t even take some of your time out to help me teach him.” “I want to talk to my sister. That is what I came here to …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 12:12 PM
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How likely are you to believe someone who says they've been raped? What factors would influence your judgement? I have worked in casework and in a mental health facility with women and I have rarely received reports I could not validate. Women also get falsely accused of rape/sexual assault btw. The type of person who will falsely accuse someone will falsely accuse anyone if they see a benefit to it. I tend to not believe people who become defensive/avoidant when I seek evidence because those pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 12:03 PM
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You have come up with some weird women want to be hunted fantasy from social media. Then you attribute biological mating strategies to women not being equal.. I learned to throw a bone to the men I like. I will not take the lead in courtship, because men who want me will.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 11:36 AM
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I find the enjoyment part hard to believe because drunk sex is so awful, imagine being desensitized and unable to climax. That is drunk sex in a nutshell. High libido makes a lot of sense though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 04:28 AM
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The fact that alcohol/drugs can alter your cognition and decision-making does not mean that you are considered to be without agency while intoxicated. The lowered inhibitions side effect is widely blown out of proportion. I had a drinking problem in college and I did not have sex with anyone and they certainly tried. Even if I had sexual desire for them and they were making a move I still said no. It is used as an excuse far too often. I think if you have strong enough commitment to something as…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 11:30 AM
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Legally the lie would have to exert more coercion than your example. “I’m a doctor, and you have cancer. My sperm cures cancer so we have to have sex.” Simply lying about your profession isn’t illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 11:16 AM
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Well either way the answer is no.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:28 PM
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You can’t answer a simple question. Are men who don’t want object in their ass low libido and high sexual disgust? Or does your abusive take only apply to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:04 PM
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Sexual desire is instinctual but being taught sex is penetrative causes confusion that likely contributes to women giving up on self pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 01:48 PM
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You don’t get to shift the goal post now. Your low IQ world view this entire time was that if people are uncomfortable performing certain sex acts then they are low libido and high sexual disgust. How you do mental gymnastics to avoid accountability for shaming people in this manner is incredible. I just pointed out that applying your logic to men who were uncomfortable performing certain sex acts is abusive and you are gaslighting because you don’t want to admit from the beginning you were actu…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 01:45 PM
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“I don’t shame women for being uncomfortable performing certain sex acts” proceeds to do just that and laugh about it psychotically. You sound like an abuser do you also shame your husband when he’s uncomfortable taking objects up his asshole?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:35 PM
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Thinking that you can be sexually compatible with anybody in any relationship is a lie that low libido, low sexual interest people tell themselves to make them feel better. If I claimed you had high sexual disgust and low libido because you don’t want to do anal, that is the equivalent of how crazy you sound. Don’t pretend like everyone else is okay with the same. People do a lot of things they want to do they don’t need to do and justify it even if it’s morally reprehensible. If oral sex takes …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 11:53 AM
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Sorry but she wasn’t unable to break her patterns she was unwilling.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 10:23 AM
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The sad thing is it’s real. Women working at bars have even tried putting their drinks on my husbands bill when he didn’t offer to buy them a drink and when he challenged his bill they threatened to call the police if he didn’t pay so he paid the bill and left. He has been treated really badly and he’s the nicest man I ever met so it blows my mind. He is the type who could make friends with a bear. 🐻
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 10:21 AM
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What you’re referring to is actually a pattern of abusive relationships. These relationships masquerade as intense and devoted but they pull the rug at the correct times to keep you around. Hot then cold.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 10:07 AM
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Probably their standards being so high, and their ability to get away with abuse. I say this because my husband had really bad experiences dating women and knowing him these women were definitely the problem. Imagine turning down an attractive, high value man, who is hilarious, calm, lives by his morals because he won’t tell you how much money he makes. I just can’t comprehend how these women thought they were better than him. Or these women cheated on him, or they broke up with him to pursue so…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 10:03 AM
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When people talk about chemistry I just think of this being the same thing as attraction because of the chemicals my brain is supposed to emit if I like someone and the answer to that is no I don’t date people who I am not attracted too. Unless chemistry means something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 09:37 AM
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do abusers respect their victims No.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 09:33 AM
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It isn’t immediately obvious from sex education how women climax, and nobody talks about it. So the assumption was that I couldn’t do it without a man even if I wanted to. We were taught sex was PIV and a lot of women don’t climax that way so even the one time I tried it failed and I didn’t try again because I thought I needed a man to relieve that feeling. It turned into me just going to the gym or playing soccer until those inclinations passed. I also grew up in the 90s so maybe a different ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 09:28 AM
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There is instructive porn, research, books and all kinds of resources to help couples keep their sex lives satisfying. Only a 304 would need a sex god the first time they got together..
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:48 AM
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But never getting your dick sucked by your wife would be a huge disappointment to a lot of men, which is my entire point. That’s what men online say irl that was never my experience… If my value was being a series of holes I wouldn’t be in that relationship. it’s not fair to expect everyone to Russian roulette their sex lives by waiting until marriage to have sex. An extreme assumption. No one is asking them to play Russian roulette. If a man indicated there was a problem with my timeline which …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:43 AM
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7 years in a month and still not dead.. Never died.. Your world view is tragic and I feel sorry that you believe you won’t be enough without performing fellatio. My husband doesn’t deserve you insulting his character.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 09:52 PM
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You thinking sexual compatibility is perfection is delusional. Compatibility is satisfactory, perfection is unattainable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 09:41 PM
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I don’t think your point was proven at all. We’ve been together 7 years next month and that was discussed a long time ago and it’s not a deal breaker for him. Being sexually compatible isn’t about perfection it’s about being satisfactory.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 08:23 PM
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Coming from a feminist?! You should be ashamed of yourself for shaming women for not being comfortable doing certain sex acts. The men I have dated have been more understanding than you. 7 years next month.. You can lie to yourself and think we aren’t compatible but pretty sure I would know better than you. Mad weird how more women on Reddit have shamed me for what I choose not to do with my body than men IRL ever would.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 08:13 PM
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Don't you think this is actually more of a social construct? The release of oxytocin during sex is scientifically why it is a bonding experience. It absolutely isn’t a social construct. The term afterglow comes from the feeling you get 48 hours after sex. We know scientifically having sex is important for having healthy relationships because it bonds you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:15 AM
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I can’t relate to the idea of the first time being unremarkable. It isn’t a lie, many men and woman become attached to their first partners that is why taking someone’s virginity is frowned upon if you aren’t interested in them. I believe everyone intrinsically knows sex is a pair bonding experience which is why many people get upset over the “spin plates” idiocracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:51 AM
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I would question how they felt about their first partner and their mindset going into it. I didn’t have the unremarkable experience. I cannot relate to that at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:46 AM
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I don’t see oral as super important.. I would chose a great relationship over oral. My husband also likes oral but I am not capable of it and he is happy regardless. A lot of people recognize good relationships are more rare than one aspect of sex. Every single thing can be communicated ahead of time to ensure that even if compatibility isn’t initially present it can be achieved over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:44 AM
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You can and should have that conversation of frequency expectations. There are plenty of dead bedroom situations that happen after marriage as well so I don’t see how that would prevent anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:39 AM
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I have been with a man who had a small penis. I don’t see a problem there. If we were more compatible it would not have mattered.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:38 AM
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If they don’t want to be teachers there are men who feel the same way. They can have each other. I disagree with: If you are a man then no .Most women by your age would have lots of experience . experienced women are some of the worst relationship that can happen. The second my problem is more so with the notion that hyper sexual women are worse than men they are both awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:36 AM
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This is fair, the skew is slightly less prominent in men, but still quite heavily there, Sure, I think the cut off number for men was 8 partners and women 4 then the likelihood of being unfaithful after that number increased significantly. I could agree with that statement. and it is dangerous and stupid for women to assume a man who has slept around a lot will easily settle down with one woman 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:31 AM
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What? That is not what I was talking about but that isn’t anything communication and research can’t achieve. Porn doesn’t rectify inexperience.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 06:46 AM
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You can also get an understanding of sexual compatibility through communication without doing it. You can talk about your preferred frequency, and even kinks without having sex. You do not need to have premarital sex to understand you’re compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 05:38 AM
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Needing someone to act more erotic to achieve sexual satisfaction is not a benefit of porn that is a negative because now sex becomes disingenuous. Needing more arousal to become stimulated is a sign of sexual dysfunction not improved sexual satisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 05:36 AM
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Sex is just one aspect of expressing love through physical touch. I hope you then would then agree that women could hold men to those same standards. I do believe that demonstrates lack of patience that would not be desirable in relationships. Having to instruct someone how you like something done is part of being compassionate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 05:31 AM
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If they value your happiness, have a strong emotional connection to you and seek knowledge to be the best person they can be that will not happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 05:24 AM
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I think your argument applies to as I have said instructive porn not what we see in 90% of pornography that doesn’t actually seek to help men navigate healthy sexual relationships. Pornography just isn’t designed to educate men on romance in the same way actions movies are not educational tools for learning self defense. It is meant to be nothing more than erotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 05:22 AM
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Too many people don't communicate at all, or communicate poorly. I agree but knowing this beforehand helps you navigate the world of dating/relationships. The first conflict pay attention to how it’s handled because that shows you how easy they are to talk too. I believe your parents are an important influence for success in romantic relationships. Receiving their input frequently is important. But sexual compatibility? No, that's not possible in any relationship. This is one of the lies the "wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 05:18 AM
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If both people set the others happiness and satisfaction as a priority previous sexual experiences are not necessary. There are now plenty of resources to help guide people to achieve sexual satisfaction together. Having a dick-blow-a-thon or bone-a-thon isn’t necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 05:06 AM
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The number one predictor of infidelity in both sexes is past sexual history and the fact that you misrepresent the data to paint women in a negative light demonstrates your bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 04:57 AM
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Your first time will be the most intense bonding experience of your life and I think it is wise to wait for marriage. Sexual compatibility is important but this can be achieved with communication and through research. Sexual compatibility is possible in any relationship so there isn’t a need to have more than one partner. I did not wait for marriage but there is nothing I learned from my previous partners that lead to me having a good sex life with my husband. If your partner is the kind to prio…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 04:53 AM
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That may be the women you attract but that is not the vast majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 04:46 AM
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If you didn’t have sex in the 90s and before it’s nearly impossible to understand the benefits from online porn being widespread. Sex isn’t better because of pornography it’s better because of the research that was done to help women understand their bodies. This is more an argument for instructive porn not the majority of the content that we have that encourages violence, degrading acts, and nonsensical sexual relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 04:32 AM
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I work with child sex trafficking victims and something not a lot of people know is that they have content online on the major pornography streaming platforms up for years before we can get the content taken down- OF and porn hub are both guilty of this. The porn industries are evil and they are profiting off of child sex trafficking. You could have masturbated to a minor and not even known because they teach those women to do their make up to look older and act older. Sometimes they didn’t even…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 04:21 AM
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If you’re talking about erotica like fifty shades of grey I’d agree with you. That is very porn adjacent and I do not read or watch porn for moral and religious reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 04:18 AM
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What do I like about men in general? Usually if a man sees me struggling even if I don’t know him he will help me. Last Christmas a man paid for my groceries randomly with 0 expectations, I had the money but he was just passing on a kind act. My husband is very loving, supportive and lives by his morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:49 PM
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If someone feels more unsafe around humans than bears they are retarded so I wouldn’t worry about what they think.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:03 AM
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I’m not complaining I’m correcting a statement that was made out of ignorance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:28 AM
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I said it didn’t impact attraction you have failed at reading comprehension. I said that five comments ago..
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:27 AM
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You have a bad attitude. You’re actually the one refusing to understand my point. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:49 PM
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You are still missing the points of reference by continuing to refer to only one half of the comparison. How many shy girls do you know who have or have not been asked out? How would I know this? I was shy I wasn’t out there making friends with other shy people we would never be compatible. I only had one shy friend and we had the same experience in HS despite men thinking we were attractive. It wasn’t a lack of attraction issue I got interest from attractive men just not asked out and I was tal…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:32 PM
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That is untrue, I have been a shy woman and I wasn’t dating at all I had to learn social skills. No one asks you out if they think you’re uninterested.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:54 PM
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A woman could be as insecure as possible and still get plenty of dates That was what was said. You aren’t get plenty of dates as a shy person. I have been on both sides of the coin, and there is a big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:01 AM
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I was responding to a commenter not the post
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:47 AM
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I agree men will still find shy women attractive but saying it isn’t an impediment for women in dating is untrue. Men who are interested in you will stop pursuing thinking you are not keen. Then if you are genuinely shy you will likely not have the courage or social skills to fix that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:19 AM
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I can’t speak for that commenter but in my family masturbation was treated as a sin. My dads side were Jehovah’s Witnesses and my mothers side were Baptist. So it isn’t something I did because of that belief until I started to part away from strict Christianity and adopted more “modern” views.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:10 AM
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You guys say this but shyness does impact your options as a woman. It may not end your bloodline but a lot of people mistake shyness as lack of interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:57 AM
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I already don’t have to worry about any of that but I initiate sex usually during my period/ovulation I become feral. So maybe a week and half I may want to have sex daily but outside of that time period I am not very sexually motivated. I probably still want to do it once a week. If I had sex (or talked about it) recently I tend think about it more and if not I think about it less. Another commenter pointed this out and I find it to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:42 AM
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Why do women complain about men or the patriarchy on first / second dates with men? LMAO I can’t relate to that specifically. I admittedly bring up other weird conversation topics on the first date. I’ll ask men I don’t even know if they see themselves having kids one day on the first date. I don’t see a point in seeing someone if our futures are not compatible. I actually took it a step further and ask them how they feel about adopting kids. Haha Would you say most women do things like this or …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:32 AM
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Many other animals, especially mammals, also display an aversion to cannibalism. I was merely pointing out the moral inconsistency of claiming humans are not fundamentally different from animals meanwhile your actions suggest you believe animals are beneath you since it’s likely you buy cheese which makes you an animal rape investor for pleasure. I'm not saying you should accept it, but you shouldn't be surprised either when men are less invested in children than you are. You aren’t giving an ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 10:52 AM
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Why do people, especially women, have such a hard-time accepting that humans are also animals? Humans are not fundamentally different from any other animal Unrelated but from a vegan perspective it’s comical that the carnists would also make this argument. For instance, women are horrified when men abandon their kids, but for the vast majority of human existence paternity was never certain. So how far are we going back exactly? Like the Homo sapiens lineage began approximately 550,000-750,000 ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:11 AM
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You sound just as delusional as those women who go around screeching about how men like bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:41 AM
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Oh my god. I am always so shocked at what women are willing to put up with in relationships. I am so proud of myself that I was never willing to wait around for anyone to figure it out. If I even sensed hesitation on anything I wanted (commitment marriage, kids, or living together ect) that was the last day they saw me. The women at my work were talking about how their men ignore their calls/texts occasionally as if that is normal and I couldn’t even relate to that because if I am getting ignore…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:27 AM
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Women: How do you reconcile the “women aren’t a hive mind” claim with feminist collectivism? There are different flavors of feminism. And certain intersectionality’s such as veganism and transgenderism are controversial topics among feminists.. Also there are two main groups of feminists and subgroups that are mostly irrelevant due to lack of support. •Liberal feminism: seeks equality of men and women through political and legal reform within a liberal democratic framework, without radically alt…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:04 AM
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I don’t know why you think I have to conceal my history. I did not partake in casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 09:14 PM
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color me shocked that women want to dismantle any laws that might threaten the pussy cartel My issue is with casual sex not the laws. I don’t care what people do with their bodies but I won’t date anyone who partakes in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 08:55 PM
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As you should it goes nicely with your flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 09:22 AM
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I would rather date a virgin than anyone who has fucked a sex worker. I see it as no different than sharing STDs like a bag of chips.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 08:05 AM
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I’m glad you are so confidently yourself so women will know how unBEARable you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:54 AM
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The post is really just to tell women that it's OK to settle and they don't have to struggle It more so seems like you’re encouraging women to view relationships as transactional.. Which is really weird. and end up some bitter broke dried up postwall woman that's basically invisible So you think that women have no value outside of sex. Got it. This was a disturbing way to announce you’re a misogynist. Did you know some men choose to stay with their women even if they aren’t having sex with them?…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:37 AM
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It kinda sounds like your concern is finding someone you share your goals with and the economic situation. It’s possible but it is not probable unless two parents are working. Or one that makes really good money. And there are financial incentives for adopting children and there is a shortage of foster homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 06:18 AM
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The day after he asked me to be his gf haha. I mean we were pretty good friends for about a year (this was fast for me but he wasn’t like any other man I ever met so I had a lot of trust in him). I think the majority of that time we were interested in each other his hesitation was ruining our friendship and losing me forever and mine was thinking he was too good to be true. lol I needed time to determine if it was all an act to impress me or if that was how he really was, once I determined that …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 02:25 AM
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OP said he’s 30
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:34 PM
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Ok well I am not that hip.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:31 PM
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You assume I had sex with them. I think the kids would call this an L+ ratio when you lose and embarrass yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:36 AM
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lol. I was never discriminated against for being a virgin at work. No one at work even knew that. I never discussed my virginity in professional settings.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:07 AM
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As much as I hated being single I was choosing to be single over settling for anything less than what I wanted. I couldn’t afford to live a luxurious life and you could not have convinced me to settle for anyone I didn’t want. Even wanting kids isn’t enough reason to settle because me personally I wanted someone that would be an exceptional father and I would have sacrificed my dream of having a family if it meant having kids with someone I did not have complete faith in. I also was not going to…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:00 AM
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I would have enthusiastically swiped on my husband. We met through mutual friends while playing a video game (league of legends). So I didn’t know what he looked like when I first met him but we ended up on the same team in a custom match and we talked a lot during that match. We connected pretty much immediately. We were both passionate about animal activism and environmentalism so we ended up adding each other on Facebook and his Facebook pictures were very attractive. We ended up playing toge…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 09:05 AM
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I do think physique matters but not more than personality. I have dated the 6ft dudes with 6 packs and lean guys that never worked out and enjoyed the relationship more because of their personality.. My real preference is sense of humor. Nothing beats it. It’s why I married my husband. Every crush I have ever had on a guy was a combination of humor and looks. I never developed feelings for someone who was just attractive to look at.. They had to have the personality type I prefer.. I prefer a so…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 08:32 AM
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That is going to be a big thing for a lot of women tbh. I also hate social media I have it just don’t use it. I think it is something you may want to consider as a single person since it’s another way to market yourself to other singles.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 08:06 AM
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I don’t agree with the consumption of pornography nor do I like the porn industry because I find it exploitative. It would be a concern and I may consider pulling my child from that school. I do not want my children having sex worker role models. The best case scenario is the teacher acts appropriately and is an awesome teacher but my kids find out about her OF and then grow curious about the content. They could also go the other way and think sex work is easy money. I do not want them aspiring …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:08 AM
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I meant room temperature IQ in kelvin which is between 293.15 - 298.15
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 09:53 PM
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Oh my bad
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 09:49 PM
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Being concerned about my survival makes me a pick me now? Room temperature IQ alert!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 09:43 PM
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There’s probably a specific type of woman you’re going for if you have multiple events with the same outcomes. Those relationships sounded horrible, but you really need to start stepping away from people who remind you of your ex and giving other kinds of people a chance. Maybe try going for someone who comes from a family that isn’t broken or anyone who needs to be fixed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 07:07 AM
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There’s nothing wrong with not wanting to talk about veganism with people. I can understand how that would burn someone out. That’s cool you’re vegan though I rarely met them outside of the vegan specific subreddits.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:45 AM
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I consider myself semi-traditional but the entire live off only your husband thing is not very realistic anymore that is why these women have side hustles. Congrats though their husbands allowed them to pursue ventures that they are passionate about. Personally I am kinda doing the same thing I took a pay cut but I am working at a non-profit organization and working with teens which I love and I would not be able to do this without him. It’s a much more enjoyable and safer environment for me tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 05:53 AM
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Is rape culture real? Yeah it’s called the dairy and factory farming industry. And its supporters are animal rape investors.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 05:34 AM
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Ideally I want the most useful person, which would probably be the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 09:18 AM
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I have never dated a fat jobless man but the reason they do it is because of low self esteem and these relationships are providing something they lack. I had a friend who cheated on her husband who was fit, 6ft and making 6 figures with some college dropout who got fired for telling his supervisor to fuck off. He was ripped not fat but his face was ugly 4/10 compared to her husband who was like 6/10. I never understood that one she said she thought she was in love then the 4/10 guy told her she …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:33 AM
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These should go: •Whoever gets to the door first should open it and pass it along instead of standing there. •holding in feelings so as to not burden me or shelter me. I don’t mind seeing men be vulnerable because it humanizes you and makes me feel safer around you. Also I want to know what’s going on in his life/head (not that this has been an issue for me I think most of the men I have dated have learned to be comfortable opening up to me). •The expectation that men should lead and make the to…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:21 AM
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The only thing that could change the situation is a mass conversion to Islam. Which is my general advice to men who aren't particularly religious. This is exactly the shit I am talking about you aren’t focused on mens rights you are focused on radical anti-feminism. Holy shit. My friend is a passport bro and there were so many red flags before he married his wife we all were like wtf why would you marry her?! She had him asking his friends to marry her for citizenship then decided he would do it…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:31 PM
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Ok TRP isn’t about men’s rights ist anti feminism so of course you’d have a bunch of people trying to shut that down.. I do not encourage the red pill nor support radicalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:10 PM
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Have yall ever considered being actual mens rights activists instead of posting on Reddit? What would happen if you put half the amount of effort into pushing mandatory paternity testing in places it actually would make a difference. I would actually vote in favor of default paternity testing having worked in child protective services and paternity court. Edit: Example below of a man who isn’t focused on actual men’s rights but radical anit-feminism. If you were really about men’s rights your co…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:56 AM
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No shit someone who is in a space where porn is on all the time is not going to get excited by seeing more porn. You just cherry picked that study.. The truth about porn site is another religious backed BS site. Studies on pornography often show a decrease in marital quality. Not just the one I showed you. What do you mean by "almost perfectly"? I work with teens between 12-17 who are sex trafficked and a lot of them have made sex videos that were released on popular porn sites such as porn hub …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 09:09 AM
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Ok well there are plenty of reasons to not watch porn that are not related to religion and have scientific research indicating it is harmful. So you’re actually a science denier. •Internet pornography use may decrease reward sensitivity, leading to increased habituation and tolerance as well as the need for greater stimulation to become sexually aroused. The first being related to sexual dysfunction. •When a user has conditioned his sexual arousal to Internet pornography, sex with desired real p…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:17 AM
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Yeah I have a controversial take on this. I only date Americans.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:01 AM
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To meet people I may pursue a relationship with. I moved away after college and I did not want to date anyone at work. I also wasn’t interested in anyone at my church. I was unwilling to settle. Ended up meeting my husband through mutual friends. Occasionally I would reconnect with friends and lose interest in the apps but when i decided i was no longer interested in them I’d go back to the apps. This was 2015-2018.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:53 AM
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It actually is not a feminism thing lmao. It’s this RP manosphere bull shit that has brought this up. Every podcast talks about it.. This has always been the case for religious people however. I have mentioned that when I was a virgin for religious reasons it was a dealbreaker for some men to the point where I actually think dating would have been easier if I weren’t. I know from experience men don’t prefer virginity even if they find you attractive. I was told by many men (on this sub) that I m…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:40 AM
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I don’t care as long as I get priority que in the women’s restroom. I have used the mens bathroom in emergencies but this was only if it was a single stall and had a lock on the door. Otherwise I leave the mens restroom alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:14 AM
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That is a cultural difference, and I am capable of being understanding. My husband and do plan to go. I obviously won’t be flirting casually though because that doesn’t align with my culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:41 AM
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This pastor that explains in the best way my thoughts on sexual experiences outside marriage, and these concepts can be applied to pornography as well. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=jL1l9ZtGC2w
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:35 AM
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whatever happened in your past to be like this is not "normal" Growing up in Jehovah’s Witness family isn’t normal? My brother was grounded for watching porn my father was against it and so am I. Porn ruins your ability to pair bond with your partner and our connection is something that we want to maximize. I think having 2-3 instances of insecurity in 7 years is pretty normal. If you are unwilling to show your partner your social media messages, phone or computer to ease their anxiety then 1. y…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:58 AM
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Holy shit you're psychotic. You have asked 0 questions about the circumstances that lead to me behaving this way and have assumed I am disconnected from reality. I have also indicated that the password exchange is mutual. Having no secrets is a mutual agreement. It’s 100% consensual and has omitted the need for some conflicts and we were both grateful for this. I am unconcerned about your personal feelings regarding the conditions of our marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:36 AM
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That tutorial was for PC I use a different one for his phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:06 AM
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Am I the only one who thinks casual flirting is reprehensible behavior? I would never allow myself to be in a relationship where this was normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:52 AM
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What’s funny?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:25 AM
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https://www.wikihow.com/Recover-Deleted-History-in-Windows#:~:text=Seeing%20Lost%20Browser%20and%20Internet,software%2C%20or%20your%20browser%20settings. I would know.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:48 AM
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