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Try to make a move.
/r/seduction01/10/21 03:45 PM
1

No. You learn now. Personality is more important
/r/seduction26/09/21 09:23 PM
0

If you have no game, you won’t get anywhere. Looks matter for first impressions. Once they let you talk to them, you still have to talk to them
/r/seduction26/09/21 09:11 PM
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Idk. In my experience that might work for a little bit but they might lose interest when they find someone else to fuck
/r/seduction26/09/21 04:56 PM
0

Find a girl who lives on their own. If they live with their parents, dump them /s
/r/seduction25/09/21 10:22 PM
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Sex definitely elevates the relationship and shows you a side of a person a lot sooner that you otherwise won’t see
/r/seduction23/09/21 10:03 PM
1

She belongs to the streets. Can’t be trusted.
/r/seduction22/09/21 11:44 AM
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It’s hard. You have to go to the bar for some reason. Be it to watch some sport or just talk to whoever is next to you. Go there for the food
/r/seduction20/09/21 11:27 PM
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Damn yo. You could have hooked up with her that night
/r/seduction20/09/21 07:13 AM
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Unfortunately not me
/r/seduction19/09/21 07:33 PM
1

Sometimes girls aren’t feeling it to begin with so they give the one word response. If they find you attractive, they’ll open up to you. Other times, you have to be on your a-game to flirt with them hard core. Every girl is different. Shoot your shot. If they’re feeling it they won’t give one word responses.
/r/seduction16/09/21 11:18 AM
2

She probably shit tested you to see how you reacted to that situation. Here’s the way I see it. Yes, the woman is most likely dating around. But she is spending her most valuable time with you. It sucks that a girl you like is fucking around and flirting. But especially attractive women do this. There’s no reason for you to try and control someone you’re not in a relationship with. I’ve gone through this shit especially lately and it’s a hard pill to swallow but this is the way of the world for …
/r/seduction13/09/21 07:47 PM
5

Wow. Looking at you say all this makes me think you’re jealous of this dude. He has something you don’t. Instead of be envious, try to look at what you can emulate. Obviously it’s something about the way this dude carries himself that makes the girl like him. He’s probably confident and genuine
/r/seduction12/09/21 08:09 PM
2

Thanks for saying everything you did. That situation has still been tearing me up making me feel like I did something terribly wrong and if that didn’t happen we’d still be together. But saying what you did makes me feel at least a little better. Yeah I woke up in the middle of the night to get her Plan B and she told me a few days later she didn’t take it because it’s bad for the body and then she was worried she was pregnant when she didn’t get her period and said she “was going to take a few …
/r/seduction07/09/21 09:13 PM
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I’m not completely over my ex either. Shit sucks. She’s obviously moved on and I’m sitting here still missing her every day missing the time we spent together. I honestly feel like the best way to get over someone is to date other people (you don’t have to have sex with them but just talk to different people) and pick up new hobbies and put yourself out there so you’re not just sitting at home dwelling on things.
/r/seduction07/09/21 05:42 PM
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Tell a woman she is gorgeous to make her feel attractive/validated
/r/seduction07/09/21 02:31 PM
2

Def things I needed to hear. Thanks. I probably went overboard by saying they were gorgeous. The one girl complimented me on my looks a lot too so I mean I guess it wasn’t just me but I guess I overdid it. I’ll be more original with the next girl I date (if there is a next one). It sucks because I thought women needed that validation. It’s so confusing trying to make sure you make them feel special but also make sure they still have respect for you. It’s honestly such a mind fuck to me to keep a…
/r/seduction07/09/21 06:09 AM
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I guess I’m playing over situations in my head of two women I have dated recently and been intimate with. I wanted to make sure they knew I thought they looked pretty when they made themselves up/ put a lot of effort into their appearance or when they woke up the next morning at my house after we had been with each other. I feel like when I told them they looked gorgeous, both times they broke up with me. Maybe I should just not comment on their appearance from now on. But that’s difficult since…
/r/seduction07/09/21 05:37 AM
2

Does that go for someone you’re in a relationship with?
/r/seduction07/09/21 05:17 AM
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Yeah I think you’re right. Can’t overdo it
/r/seduction07/09/21 03:07 AM
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What if you just tell a girl she is gorgeous. Don’t women like it when you tell them they are pretty? Or is that even too far?
/r/seduction07/09/21 02:19 AM
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Eh I guess it was kinda big. We didn’t use a condom and she didn’t tell me to pull out (didn’t say anything). So I didn’t and long story short, she got pissed telling me I disrespected her and she ran away and didn’t want to talk to me anymore no matter how much I tried and apologized and tried to tell her it wouldn’t happen again. I think it’s def important to communicate what you’re ok with up front. I’m sorry you have had a hard time as well. Beauty is only skin deep and really doesn’t matter…
/r/seduction07/09/21 02:05 AM
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Idk. I’m biased because I’m a man but it is so fucking hard to try to find a relationship or even hook up and I put forth a shit ton of effort and talk to a lot of women. I’m a good looking guy and have a good job about to be 35. The last girl I found who was worth while we dated for two months. Had a misunderstanding in the bedroom and then she immediately ran away. Feel like a lot of times when I finally do find a woman and we have sex, they run away and then I’m never ever able to be confiden…
/r/seduction06/09/21 03:17 PM
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I felt pretty shitty fucking a girl with a boyfriend. She tried to fuck me a few other times when she was with different dudes and I said no. It doesn’t feel right to me. If you have no guilt or shame in doing it, go for it. But then you risk retaliation from the boyfriend. Ultimately if a girl is going to fuck around on their boyfriend, she’ll fuck around on you. They’re not happy and not mature enough to end things with whoever they are with. Shit like this makes me pessimistic on women.
/r/seduction06/09/21 03:06 PM
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Nah. He became a famous millionaire actor because he is good looking and a good actor. Notice height isn’t a part of the equation. The key is to become a man that is successful and confident at something and women will be attracted to you
/r/seduction29/08/21 01:50 PM
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Tom Cruise. That is all.
/r/seduction29/08/21 12:42 AM
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Dad bod
/r/seduction27/08/21 03:05 AM
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Dude. Wait until she’s 18
/r/seduction24/08/21 02:13 AM
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This can’t be true because the grammar is so bad
/r/seduction22/08/21 02:03 AM
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You say you want to kiss them.
/r/seduction20/08/21 04:52 PM
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You say “I want to kiss you”. Then you do it
/r/seduction20/08/21 04:49 PM
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Idk. Calling a girl out on an approach doesn’t sound like a good idea. I think you should have been more in the moment commenting about the situation and maybe asking them how long they were waiting. Either way yeah your friend was a cockblock.
/r/seduction08/08/21 04:18 PM
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The shitty part is you will never know exactly what kind of bullshit she was doing. Regardless, she wasn’t respecting you and you’ll find someone else who will. I just went through something very similar to you. It’s hard to tell yourself that when you have feelings for someone. Just gotta move on and unfortunately you won’t get the closure you want because those types of women lie and have no problem stabbing you in the back for their own gain.
/r/seduction06/08/21 08:02 PM
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This happens to me a lot. I always wonder if it’s because we didn’t fuck on the first date.
/r/seduction06/08/21 06:34 PM
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I think women look at that as a sign of lack of self respect and boundaries. Either that or they’re not feeling it as much as you or they don’t like themselves. I hear some people say never put the woman on a pedestal.
/r/seduction01/08/21 04:07 PM
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Man here. I’d prefer to wait to have sex with a woman (I’m decently attractive). It’s a shame there are so many people that seem to want to fuck on the first date. This notion still confuses me. I’m 34 and maybe i just completely missed the boat with having sex that early on (unfortunately not the most experienced there). I think a lot of women stop talking to me if they want to have sex on the first date and I don’t.
/r/seduction01/08/21 12:48 AM
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I def have female friends and have met women through them. I think it’s important to continue being friends with women who are mature enough to respect those boundaries and you actually have fun hanging out with them. If you don’t respect them and think they’re dumb and stupid and only good for a lay, then probably not the best to be friends with them.
/r/seduction30/07/21 02:00 PM
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It really is dude. I hate fucking on the first date. That’s just me. Some girls who I seem to get along are all about it. If we just have a passionate make out, they give me the eyes, but they always tell me they have to get up early, I end the date and say I want to see the again. When that happens, it seems like they just turn off everything. Like you can tell at first things are great after the date and they have the rush of feelings. Then a day goes by and they go completely cold. I’m assumi…
/r/seduction30/07/21 05:11 AM
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I’ve been realizing this with certain women. If they give you the signs they want to have sex and you don’t take it, they will never talk to you or want to see you again. You have to escalate as far as they let you.
/r/seduction30/07/21 01:33 AM
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That’s unfortunately how things are. Can either roll with it or just not
/r/seduction27/07/21 11:20 PM
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You’ve gotten past the hardest part. Now the woman will escalate the relationship
/r/seduction27/07/21 01:02 PM
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You gotta kiss when the moment is right and can’t force it. Even if a woman comes over your house and decides she probably wants to sleep with you, you still have to woo her. I’ve realized even when you give a girl a tour of your place and show them your bedroom, they get really nervous in there and don’t want you to make a move. They have to feel safe and comfortable. The last girl I had over, we talked and laughed for maybe an hour. I didn’t touch her or anything. Then I saw her just standing …
/r/seduction26/07/21 05:03 PM
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Been there done that. If a chick has a boyfriend, just move on
/r/seduction22/07/21 10:24 PM
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Fail
/r/seduction21/07/21 01:47 PM
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Haha! This happened to me back in Early March. Oof. She looked like her picture’s ugly Aunt. There was no way I was taking that home. I still paid for her dinner which was a cauliflower steak. Thankfully this doesn’t happen too much.
/r/seduction20/07/21 04:44 PM
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Ask her what’s she’s gonna do in the mean time . Joke around if she’s gonna watch the bachelor or learn to crochet with one hand. Idk. That’s what I would do lol. Do you
/r/seduction20/07/21 04:19 PM
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Bald chubby dude at 34 here. Women are totally into our type for boyfriend/hubs material. Dating has been way easier as I’ve gotten older
/r/seduction19/07/21 10:10 PM
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She wants validation
/r/seduction16/07/21 01:46 AM
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I get lots of matches in online dating with some pretty attractive women. That’s nothing compared to meeting them in person. I’d say 1% of matches I have had developed a connection between us. If you want more matches, just have pics of you doing things. Every one of my pics is either a dog licking my face, me lifting something heavy outside, fishing, shooting a gun, playing pool, or kayaking
/r/seduction16/07/21 01:41 AM
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It’s totally in your head. Just don’t watch porn or masturbate now that you have a girlfriend. You will perform better and better each time. Especially the more comfortable you get around each other
/r/seduction15/07/21 12:04 PM
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The girl or me? I don’t think the girl was either of those. She was damaged though unfortunately.
/r/seduction13/07/21 07:27 AM
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I think this was exactly what I needed to hear. This should be stickied
/r/seduction13/07/21 07:11 AM
1

I had a similar fling with a girl. Once I found out she was a freak in the sheets, it was a little disorienting for me. Like she definitely likes sex a lot. Has def had a lot of partners and is experienced and all that. Was too intimidating for me. Idk, If you’re a dude that gets a lot of pussy then maybe you have a different opinion of a woman that has a high sex drive. To me it just felt off. Like sex is too important to her and she’d end it once she got bored. She confided that she broke up w…
/r/seduction13/07/21 12:53 AM
1

You should say “where I come from, nerdy is a good thing. Most intelligent people are
/r/seduction12/07/21 10:45 PM
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This actually sounds like a great date. Good for you
/r/seduction12/07/21 03:16 AM
1

Let me ask you a question. If someone compliments you, do you accept the compliment or do you always feel like you need to return the compliment to the other person
/r/seduction11/07/21 03:30 PM
3

Don’t feel discouraged because of that. It happens. Think about if you just went up to someone randomly on the boardwalk asking for money. Or you go up to someone’s house trying to sell them aluminum siding. Some people will be nice. Some will shove the door in your face. Just laugh it off and believe in yourself
/r/seduction11/07/21 10:53 AM
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Thanks. Just said the exact same thing haha
/r/seduction11/07/21 01:24 AM
1

Eh I used to be that way. But not anymore. I think that feeling has a lot more to do with self esteem issues and not loving yourself enough. If you actually like that person and they like you, that’s the best feeling in the world.
/r/seduction11/07/21 01:23 AM
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Gotta get a little interest with a girl first. Talk about their life. Likes dislikes a little. Then you kinda shove the lets grab a drink in there. Otherwise they’ll get scared unless they’re crazy. You gotta wine and dine them via text a little before wining and dining them in person
/r/seduction09/07/21 04:45 PM
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Totally know exactly what you mean. I’ve been in the exact situation as you. think if a girl is really attracted to you, they’ll open up more. Otherwise, they have the stand-offish vibe. People call that women being in their masculine. I think there are definitely ways to get a woman more into her feminine where she’ll talk endlessly about got knows what. But a lot of the time, it just has to do if y’all have chemistry. Def don’t be too hard on yourself. Sometimes people aren’t compatible. It’s …
/r/seduction05/07/21 06:11 PM
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So I’m gonna counter with this. Did you actually feel a connection with them or did you just find them attractive or see them as a potential marriage material but didn’t actually feel anything for them? Since I’m back in dating I’m asking myself these questions. And I’m realizing, you know what, this girl seems ok but I’m not really having fun with HER. She’s not bringing value to me. I think there are def ways to up your game in developing a connection with any woman. But I also think there are…
/r/seduction05/07/21 02:39 PM
1

Coming from someone who fucked a few of their friends. Ask her to come over to watch a movie. Get drunk and let things happen. Then you’ll probably only fuck once, they’ll get distant and awkward. Eventually they won’t be a friend anymore. You’ll always want more. They don’t. Your ego hurts. You act differently around them now. Friendship goodbye. You changed the dynamic of the relationship. Most times, if you’re friends with a girl you have feelings for, either gotta get over the feelings or cu…
/r/seduction01/07/21 07:22 PM
1

Yeah bullshit. You played it fine. Could have just not responded too
/r/seduction27/06/21 10:32 AM
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Good for dude. Inspiring words and so true
/r/seduction26/06/21 10:46 PM
1

Haha truth
/r/seduction24/06/21 06:50 PM
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Girl down in the comments legit just said she finds height the most attractive quality about her bf! I know there are other things but that should be something to be proud about. I think the lesson here is, everyone has something that they’re not confident about. But from the outside, other people see all the great qualities that a person has which that person themself doesn’t see. This is because of poor self confidence and self love. If we just learn to love ourselves and be confident in our s…
/r/seduction24/06/21 02:28 PM
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How old are you? If you just get some confidence and take care of yourself by exercising and diet. You’ll be irresistible. So many women will giggle to each other about how tall men are “boyfriend material” without even talking to them.
/r/seduction24/06/21 11:04 AM
1

Congrats! Yeah definitely. If you actually notice something someone is doing and try to make convo that way, way better than just making small talk. I did that to a girl unintentionally when I saw her not wearing a mask. Then she opened up to me and I was dumb. Still shooting myself in the foot for not taking that further. Good job dude. This is inspiring!
/r/seduction23/06/21 04:28 PM
2

Thanks dude. Congrats to you on your engagement!
/r/seduction23/06/21 12:11 AM
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You’re definitely right! Been approaching women more. Getting rejected but have never done this before. Once someone says no the first time it’s really no big deal. Hesr so many women say they don’t get approached much
/r/seduction23/06/21 12:07 AM
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Thanks for saying this. This is what I have been thinking all along. Not every person is on a dating app. People HAVE to meet in other ways.
/r/seduction22/06/21 11:11 PM
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This should be stickied. Thank you
/r/seduction19/06/21 02:04 PM
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We live in a fucked up world for sure. Unfortunately the decent people out there are few and far between. But saying you appreciate someone through sex doesn’t seem like something ANY woman wants to hear. Do you read much books on that stuff. They’re the gate keepers of sex. And we as men aren’t entitled to just have it. We have to work for it, like every other thing in life. Men aren’t entitled to anything in life. It must be earned. And honestly, that work makes you happier in the long term
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 11:03 AM
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Jesus some really jaded negative people in this sub Reddit. Have fun being single
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 10:49 AM
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I’m confused... aren’t we talking about long term relationships and not one night stands? Nah not every woman is crazy high maintenance like that. Women who are relationship material are more your friend and you have to show them you care about them because they’re emotional. I def know the type of girl you’re talking about that though. They exist for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 01:04 AM
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You know why women aren’t in the mood? Because they don’t feel romanced. This is coming from a man. But women need to feel loved and special and understood if they’re gonna open up those pearly gates
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 12:27 AM
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Aren’t all women high n women? (Guessing apex fallacy exists both ways 😜)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 02:14 PM
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Everything is a man’s fault Spoiler alert: I’m a man
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 06:07 PM
2

I don’t think that’s right. I’m 34 and have no baggage. Just haven’t met the right person. I have hobbies and take care of myself, never been married. Have dated and been in a few relationships. You never know when you’re going to find love
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 12:32 AM
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Congratulations! You go!
/r/seduction07/04/21 09:38 AM
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Don’t be nervous dude. Just pick her up and see what happens be cool. And don’t think about jack squat other than having a good time. It’s your job to play off the signals she gives you.
/r/seduction07/04/21 02:08 AM
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She deletes her dating apps, stops texting you as frequently, posts pictures of her with another guy on IG, that kinda stuff. It’s tough but you can kinda gather it from sketchy behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 05:57 PM
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I’m glad to see someone who is a man whore say the same thing that you don’t want to be a second choice. Shit just happened to me and I decided to move on because she totally lied. Been wondering what I might do if she tries to reach back out when it doesn’t work out. Glad to know I’m not just letting my ego get to me. It’s hard to get this shit out of your mind but plenty of other skirt out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 05:53 PM
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Nah I wouldn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 05:40 PM
6

Glad you were able to have those experiences. It seems like it’s pretty normal to navigate through casual sex like you did. Yes I agree with you that it seems like there are more women who seem to have sex for validation/wanting to feel intimacy due to insecurity. That’s kind of a red flag to me as those kinds of people might do the same when you’re in a relationship with them. And ultimately. I find myself having all these feelings but I still don’t let it judge the women I want to date to a cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 12:42 PM
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This speaks to me hardcore. I honestly think deep down, I’m just jealous and frustrated how hard it is for me to get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 02:23 AM
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