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RANTPostcardtoalake/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 05:50 AM
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I replied to this with a vigilante justice comment that got reported. But seriously - the cops largely do NOTHING about this. There has to be a better way. I was brainstorming, not recruiting. Damn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 04:12 AM
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So accurate it’s terrifying. Is that a TIM that requested the tapes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 07:07 PM
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This is magic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 05:47 AM
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I was told from an older uncle figure cop that “black women love their sons and raise their daughters.” That stuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 05:44 AM
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Hoteps yo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 05:43 AM
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Lesbian seconding this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 05:42 AM
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They sure don’t!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 02:55 PM
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Oh my god what assholes. Thanks for the info. Wow. Collect disability money too it sounds like, not just sympathy. Damn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 02:54 PM
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The gay men I know are pretty damn misogynistic. They’re not unlike straight men in that area. Fashion designers shaming our bodies if we’re not a size 0. They have massive body judgment a lot of the time and love having women be their “hags.” It’s like many of them collect women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 02:49 AM
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Why did they give him up? PTSD?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 02:45 AM
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Exactly! And fat men are not shamed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 02:44 AM
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Words I’m writing in the notes section of my Birth father’s phone so that I DON’T CALL HIM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 07:55 PM
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Is he even human?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 02:04 PM
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She really casted well - these guys really capture the real guys' mannerisms, especially Nev's creepiness. And the lies on both sides, and how this show has always been and then after 1 season full on devolved into Jerry Springer/ WorldStar "Oh my god I'm going on an airplane?!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 04:04 AM
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Right?! Such douche bags. The only thing that made me keep watching it were the people who had atrocious childhoods, and I could relate. But purposely hurting a stranger is not okay, unless they are the abuser or were a party to the abuse, like people who knew of the abuse and were silent? Those people can go fucking die. There are way better places to see people recover from developmental childhood abuse and trauma than Nyc rich boys making mo way off of their pain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 11:46 PM
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Thank you. In my psychology of “gender” (shoulda been sex but they didn’t wanna give off the wrong idea for the scrote that can’t bother to read a class description) we read a read male assumptions. I read several published articles that showed that a man incorrectly assumes a woman is interested in him about 85% of the time, and with women it’s like 5-10% if even that. I would definitely say men are clueless and lack self-awareness. There was also the famous study when they had random women ask…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 11:36 PM
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Yeah, I couldn’t stand to watch it anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 04:15 PM
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Oh I’d believe it. He seems like a huge POS asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 04:14 PM
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For sure! He has a ton of creepiness, yet charisma, but manipulative. And something else very wrong with him, or else why would he fall in love with someone via Catfishing? I know a woman who got catfished in prison (as an inmate) by a guy named cookie. It’s on her blog - she was in the SDS, and the only poor one in the bunch while the rest got off on bail because they were rich kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 04:11 PM
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Thanks! Palate cleanser much needed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 04:04 PM
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It’s alright, I wanna learn and am brand new to this. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 04:02 PM
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Does/has anyone else have female “friends” who do this too?! I had so many. It’s was gross and terrifying to be used by so many women. I was in NYC she I met most of them, but that explains a lot. I hate that city and how little it prioritizes friendships, and how women there use other women as stand-ins for men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 07:51 PM
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I think of her as a predator’s prey who does not yet know how to deal with this piece of crap that you threw away, who is now preying on this uneducated woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 07:48 PM
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On word, women are leaving Russia and the former Soviet Union (Ukraine and Poland) in droves. Aren’t they like #1 for mail order brides? I mean stereotypes exist for a reason - it’s pretty damn true about Russian women being mystical and elusive and intelligent and Russian men being gross patriarchal and paternalistic trash. You’re absolutely 100% right about Russian scrotes treating women like shit bc it’s their turf, and they’ve been taught to demand to be treated like gods instead of the tras…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 05:50 AM
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I know so many Russian immigrant women whose husbands finished their PhDs and the women were supposed to finish upon coming to the US but they never did. Because of having kids and shitty husbands who didn’t do any child rearing (unless drinking a lot, yelling, and throwing kids into plaster walls counts). I know of so many bitter and angry Russian women. Because Russian men are largely trash (I’m from Russia). In Moscow women have to wear skirts and heels to work while so many men look like the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 08:32 PM
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I remember seeing him and I could imagine him turning into an obese and weirdly squinty eyed 50 year old guy. And his hair was awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 08:24 PM
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Yeah I only knew them bc I was attending Uni, as they were as well - in a major Ohio city. I’ve never seen so much segregation, NYC was close though. Their parents live in tiny towns or the burbs or farms. Yeah their famous food was Skyline Chili, where chili goes on everything. They’re overrated though. But surprisingly to many, that city has the best Indian food I have ever eaten in the US. They also had a wonderful coffee shop culture. I wanna go back to visit but don’t wanna erase beautiful …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 03:57 AM
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I don’t know if this is the right sub for this but I’m dreading when my breasts stop “standing up on their own.” I gained a ton of weight from pain meds after 4 surgeries for 2 stage-4 illnesses and can’t get off the pain meds to go back to a size 2 and to being a B cup. I ran track for HA and college and now my health is shot after all the meds, surgeries, and bed rest due to pain. It happened when my ex broke up with me - she was also my therapist. I tried to sue but no luck. I know this is ps…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 03:20 AM
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Ya think? It's many women's reason for even existing. So terrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 03:00 AM
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Had a roommate like this. She saw all women as vapid, cruel, and obsessed with tearing other women down. Granted, this was Ohio, where every woman I knew was supposed to be married by high school or college, even though this was 2012. The culture of that was so creepy. She was a woman, but women in Ohio had very different ideas of what is important and different values from mine. They lived in deep denial of so many things. I've never been asked about the weather so many times. Meanwhile, this g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 02:59 AM
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I love your username and your comment, keep on keepin on. Fuck men and their melodrama. Useless scrotes can’t handle anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 06:29 PM
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Yup, right?! Every city has its unique weirdness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 03:53 PM
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That’s one super NVM damn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 03:52 PM
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This is my obstacle with people who have addiction issues. They often cannot form healthy attachments (at least not in NYC AA, but New Orleans AA was better). It’s crazy how AA culture differs from place to place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 12:50 AM
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My biological father went on a trip when my bio-mother gave birth bc he was “so stressed out.” His bio-dad did the same pathetic ass loser move when my birth dad was born. Both left teenage mothers to cope for themselves, and when my brother came along, I babysat him after school for YEARS until my birth dad decided to come back, that POS. I will say, though, raising my baby bro was one of the best things I have ever done. I just wish that we had completely different parents. Completely differen…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 10:51 PM
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OMG I know so many AA babies. When I lived in NYC so many famous people’s kids were in AA, as were their parents (or they should have been). I’ve also never met a woman who is in AA and has not been sexually abused in some way. and WORD, it is so hard to just be as a woman, without extra shit piled on, and more “other”-ness like we have/most of us have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 03:49 PM
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I agree with you about passing genes down; these mutations are tied to older men and their old ass sperm, as well as many other factors. The truth is, I’ve been fucked over by autistic spectrum people a lot because most of them don’t read social cues and don’t seem to care about a human being the way they care about animals, or other stuff. They’re often robotic in the sense that they can’t seem to form healthy attachments and that very much includes screwing people over because they don’t under…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 02:37 AM
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Why not?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 04:02 PM
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Wow you just described my dad Or as I call him, my “biological father.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 04:00 PM
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God, this even applies to having male friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 04:57 AM
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That’s literally exactly it. I mean these scrote assholes have an enormous history of starting riots and burning cars to get their enormous and completely irrational rage out over, GET THIS, a game where men dedicate all their need to for male bonding & touch, and their latent homosexuality. Can you imagine what they’d say if women did this? I mean you know what happens when it’s largely black men, but scrotes get away with insane shit with not even probation after getting their rage out on peop…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 10:52 PM
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I worked in law enforcement for years before I became mostly ACAB, and the highest DV day in the US is almost always the night of the fucking Super Bowl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 02:32 AM
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They’ve been doing takeout this whole time and undertipping while objectifying us and making our already hard jobs rife with sexual harassment and fucking unbearable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 04:46 PM
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Selfish pieces of shit. At this point the whole “men are the most dangerous thing to women” is not even replaced by COVID, but rather amplified by COVID.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 04:42 PM
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Despite loving this sub and being a lez, it still boggles me daily how much this applies to women and to how many ex-gfs I have had who have acted this way. Especially the narcissistic ones. I’m learning so much from y’all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 05:05 AM
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I love how so many of these comments can be used to describe a shitty friendship or relationship of any kind too. I’m learning so much here, thank you FDS women! I see how much I even settle with friends, though OFC I had an ex who did so much of what is written around me on this post. Thank y’all for the (much needed) education and support!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 10:25 AM
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Oh my god that’s so true. Thank you!! How do I stop attracting toxic people though? By trusting my gut and not settling/not being a pickmeisha? By going for being who reciprocate my friendship? Who treat me well? When I got sick, everyone except for 2-3 people threw me out like garbage. That’s how bad my picker antennae is for good people. And I always end up with people who don’t interact like me. I’m an immigrant, touchy feely, rambunctious and show love and laughs lot and I get stuck with peo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 04:42 AM
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YES, hardcore yes to this. I wish there was a lesbian or women-relationships sub in this sub or that as a flair. Every group on Reddit that has tried that has ends up being shut down by men calling women slurs and they demand to be included. It’s sad how groups like “Actual Lesbians” are not even run by women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 01:18 AM
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What is FDS stance on soulmates...I can’t find the answer on mobile. But I believe in non-romantic soulmates, so...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 01:15 AM
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Oh boy, both of those sound like my worst nightmare. Deadbeat relationship vs. multiple animals to fill the hole of lack of genuine human connection. That’s a lose lose to me. But I don’t feel a connection to cats or dogs. If I could have a Koala, I feel like it could work, but at the end of the day, nothing replaces a healthy human being for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 01:13 AM
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Do you get scared that you’ll never meet new, better people? That’s my big fear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 01:10 AM
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I have this happening with a close friend and her wife - they are both afraid of real emotional discussion and live in denial and I just can’t do it anymore. They’re also a couple that got married, works from home together, are on roller derby together, and are together 99% of the time. My friend’s personality has become swallowed by her wife’s and it’s so sad. Because I want to talk to her about this and yet I know she won’t be ready for this talk and will throw me out as a friend. She lives in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 01:09 AM
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I’ve never been able to have real friendships (with true emotional connection and healthy attachment) with people who jump from person to person bc they are unable to process emotions and they don’t attach to people well. They see people as disposable and are incapable of dealing with and feeling the huge emotions that come after a breakup, like grief and self-doubt and sadness. Usually they self-numb, take it out on others and I just can’t ever have real conversations or connection with them. T…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 01:03 AM
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I’m a dyke but this forums helps me a lot bc women can be dicks and narcs too. I was raised to settle for crap and your forum is teaching me so much. Mainly, that I deserve much better than what I have been settling for and will never settle for again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 04:40 AM
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I’m a dyke but this forums helps me a lot bc women can be dicks and narcs too. I was raised to settle for crap and your forum is teaching me so much. Mainly, that I deserve much better than what I have been settling for and will never settle for again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 04:35 AM
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YES, I live that daily. I hate those assholes so much and am jealous of others who can live with infinitely more ease.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 06:50 PM
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They abused me growing up (including incest from multiple biological family members), so I’ve never loved them and they always said i was a mistake (they had me as teens). In their mind they think I’m making it up (they “don’t remember” the abuse that i told them about as a kid and a teen and they dismissed it as normal behavior then, but now they just deny it ever happened). And they deny their abuse like as though I’m imagining things. But I love old films and saw gaslight and read up on it an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 08:03 AM
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This happened with 99% of my former friends when I go sick with 4 surgeries in 14 months to relieve a stage 4 illness. 99% of my "friends" ghosted me, and I've been trying to start my life all over all alone. It's been 3 years and i'm just now getting used to not being in bed all day. It has been unbearable. I have no faith in human goodness anymore. I have no clue why his happened. It's brutal. Sick scrotes are the worst, and most whiniest assholes when they're sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 05:06 AM
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I adore this! Yeah, most men didn’t bother to learn to self care and are entitled assholes from childhood anyways (as a former teacher it was so gross teaching boys like this). So when they have a shit personality, rage, and entitlement, and are looking gross bc they don’t wanna have to make a damn effort, they show their true colors. I had a roommate who is like this. His apostle is Bernie. His complete lack of self-awareness yet total self-obsession are revolting. He thinks things should just …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 10:05 AM
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Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 03:54 PM
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OMG thank you!!! This is the nicest thing anyone has said to me on the internet :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 04:51 AM
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Ain’t that the truth!!! The NE ground zero of patriarchal power, it felt like. Men get away with EVERYTHING there. And it’s accepted. So revolting. It’s the most patriarchal city I’ve lived in, right there with Moscow. Except in Moscow I’m treated well, and in NYC I get catcalled, creeped on, etc we all know how fucking LONG that list is. In Moscow the job postings openly list salaries, with the women’s ALWAYS listed as much less. Their fucking female police officers have to wear skirts as part …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 04:39 AM
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What’s OLD?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 04:31 AM
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Yeah. And more often than not, I eventually would find out their parents had sexually abused them, these huge public figures were pedophile child molesters. And the kids would still take their money/“allowance” (no joke, they really called it that, like they’re 10) instead of breaking free. I knew women ages 19 to 59 who never HAD to work and could therefore have great careers and go do extra (paid for by Daddy, and it was always Daddy) school bc they didn’t have to work 3 jobs like the rest of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 07:45 AM
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NYC has so many people pretending to be someone they’re not. It was such a ridiculous place to live.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 06:31 AM
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When I lived in NYC it was rich young women seeking “real life experiences” and trying to have a “hard/dark life” and most of them were wannabe writers. Ugh. I had a roommate whose father is a very famous musician, and and she did sugar baby shit (almost all Hassid guys) and lived in a poor squat house, even though she’s not hard up for money in the least (she always pretend that she was, as rich people tend to do. BARF). I hate that I financially helped so many of these rich extremely privilege…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 01:59 AM
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Well that was a terrifying read. Does he keep her chained in the basement?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 01:43 AM
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Same!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 02:48 PM
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So true! I’d say they should ban this. Not go all 1984 but I’d be much happier with a matriarchy that wouldn’t allow this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 08:12 PM
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YES!! If only those privileged oppressors felt the pressure that society puts on us, life could be better. Old men with young kids is so disturbing (imagine creepy David Letterman, who’s almost 200 years old at this point and a sexually invasive interviewer, raising a child. That shouldn’t be allowed). I remember reading in grad school about a significant correlation with older male speed and schizophrenia and mutations occurring. Plus if age-appropriate Dads are rarely any good, the older ones …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 10:29 PM
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Just threw up a little reading that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 09:58 PM
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FDSers....don’t deny reality. Well, no wonder people hate us. Denial of reality is how most people handle life. And it’s pathetic when you consider that despite my trauma history I don’t deny life, but people with easier lives do. It makes me lose respect for a person once I realize how much they live in denial. I once thought reality denial was a rich people thing, but being a poor immigrant from a formerly poor country showed me that denial as a survival strategy is more or less used to at lea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 09:23 PM
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Lesbianism is actually really hard tbh; you’re also living in a world not built for you, but to a greater extent, plus a lot of extra shit. “Lesbian loneliness” is an online term I saw recently and it’s very relatable bc some lesbians will sleep with LVM, even though it’s not what they want, but to them it’s better than nothing/no touch :(.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 09:38 AM
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Wow, no wonder you have no friends and no one likes you. You showed your true colors right there, as a horrible excuse for A human being. People tend not to like to be treated as second class citizens by privileged misogynistic men who are entitled probable rapists.
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