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DiscussionRIPGeorgeHarrison/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 08:55 PM
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Man I missed this daily chat. Why are they so dead compared to a year and a half ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 05:36 AM
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I don’t think you are arguing with someone of sound mind sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 11:29 PM
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I think thats a totally reasonable outlook on things to have. That being said, these posts don't seem to be saying this sentiment at all. All of these posts just come down to people saying "because I get periods and pregnant, you need to have x, y, z qualities" and somehow its usually never being a helpful, courteous person. Some of these posts are even more like "I get periods and get pregnant, therefore it's impossible for men to ever do enough for me". I just struggle to believe this is how n…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 01:37 AM
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I’m convinced these posts about how women need to use the fact that they get pregnant and have periods as leverage to justify men needing to do a bunch of other unrelated shit are made by women that are either asexual or haven’t realized they aren’t heterosexual yet at all. I don’t think normal women that actually like men think like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 11:46 PM
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“No one’s ever gotten to like someone after knowing them”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:21 AM
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The whole thing was obviously a way for people that hate men to virtue signal about how much they hate men. It wasnt any deeper or more interesting than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 12:57 AM
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A lot of them and redpillers in general don’t believe women have actually strong beliefs and will bend over for anyone who turns them on. They like the idea of swaying some turbo liberal chick away from her steadfast beliefs with their dick basically, or maybe not change her belief but will bed him anyways because she can’t resist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 03:20 PM
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Probably not
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 05:33 AM
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Yeah, what people don't get about wine is that most people with a lot of practice can at least learn what the different ones taste like by heart and why, even if to people that dont' drink it often it all tastes the same. Some people will never get the hang of it, but on the other extreme some people really are able to taste which country and climate and vineyard they came from.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 04:03 AM
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Then the person that’s angry can leave if it’s so important to them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 07:27 AM
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Unless u know u fucked up, the person who is pissed should sleep on the couch if they really don't feel like sleeping next to their partner. The idea of forcing someone to sleep somewhere else because I am mad is just absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 02:59 AM
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No argument there, considering a lot of red pillers just use it as a guide to manipulate women/make them more pliable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 05:26 AM
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You don’t deserve better.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 04:21 AM
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This is some deep Pentecostal shit. edit: I didn't even read the part where you mentioned Pentecostal churches before commenting LMAOOOOO
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:54 AM
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I forgot to mention but I tried measuring myself using the stretch method to see if it was any different than measuring a full erection and it was at most 1/4 of an inch less, but probably more like 1/8 of an inch less (I can’t remember the exact erect length, lol). So I guess you can bin that part of the theory
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:13 PM
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Middle income people are more thoughtful about having kids, and will worry about their financial situation in regards to it, while poor people are generally stupid and put no thought into major life changing decisions at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 05:28 AM
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If people think their orgasm is their own responsibility, you and your partner might as well just sit on opposite sides of the room and watch each other beat off. Sounds really fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:05 AM
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How are you supposed to know if it’s one sided until you confess? Or maybe the other person will see them in a bee light if the know how they feel? Sorry but a lot of women are really shit at giving signals sometimes especially to close friends because they are also worried about changing the dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 06:22 AM
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You are right, it’s not cool to assume the worst in men who confess feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 06:03 AM
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Some people do good stuff and some do bad stuff. What’s the point of caring who does more of which? Just try to surround yourself with more people who do good rather than bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:46 AM
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You know, this is a funny aspect of the book I’ve never heard Reddit go after it for.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:36 AM
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Balding guy says he’s worried about how it might affect dating: “why would you want to date someone who is so shallow as to care about your hair loss? Just embrace who you are :)” Balding guy says women are shallow for rejecting him for his hair: “people are allowed to have preferences and date who they want, there’s nothing shallow about that, I’m sure you standards are too high if you are struggling” (Replace balding with any other source of male insecurity if you like)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:33 AM
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The real pension fraud that happens there is claiming a relative is still alive to collect benefits on his behalf. A specific individual claiming to be over 100 for pension fraud is much harder since they’ve had accurate record keeping for longer than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 11:37 PM
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To be clear, it doesn’t have to be this man, I just needed a visual.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 01:47 AM
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<image> Q4W: would you date a man with long hair?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 01:45 AM
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If you are talking about her, a lot of people reported her story incorrectly.. She stopped eating and drinking because she was under constant surveillance and hospitalized for previous attempts at her life and it was the only way she could end her life. She was initially put into an induced coma to be fed through a tube, but the second time it happened, her family decided to respect her wishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 10:01 PM
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I think she actually did end up intentionally starving herself to death
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 09:50 PM
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I meant that it’s common even though it’s not a majority. My bad
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 08:06 PM
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Idk I think you are using some really contrived logic to defend this idea that an average bear is actually less dangerous than a random male human. Especially since this whole question is about what is safer to run into in the woods.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 02:27 AM
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I’ve encountered hundreds if not thousands of people hiking in the woods, and have never felt threatened by any of them. I don’t really care what the average person is capable of because my experience tells me it’s almost certainly never going to be bad, and even if the bear most likely isn’t going to attack me, I think my luck would run out if I ran into bears as often as I did people hiking
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 11:40 PM
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Was this post about married couples where one partner is a SAHM (something that is actually pretty common if not a majority of households) or average married couples?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 11:34 PM
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Caimans which are in the alligator family are found in central and South America as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 11:30 PM
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I need to point out, the trope of a wife that doesn’t let his husband have any fun has existed for decades at this point. Otherwise though I do agree when men get married, in the aggregate will see their social life shrink much more than women will.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:59 PM
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The people this advice is targeted to are so outside of the norm the advice is useless, and like the equivalent of telling a broke guy who wants to be a millionaire that they should step outside their houses. Obviously they will have to leave their house if they want gainful employment but everyone knows that has to happen lol. It would just be advice given to make the giver feel superior
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 03:32 AM
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Incelexit is just full of inceltears users that have become aware that they might be terrible people so they came up with a front to pretend they are actually empathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 03:21 AM
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Respect to all you guys trying to save your hair, but I see why so many bald dudes say to just shave it if the anxiety never seems to stop otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 03:18 AM
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I think I just found the my first white hair, on the corner of my chin. I’m officially old and past my prime. I think I’m gonna go coffin shopping when I get home.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 03:14 AM
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This is completely untrue. How come there are so many deadbeats out there have kids/baby mamas? Not saying this is an aspirational lifestyle at all, but clearly most broke people can date and and have a family if they manage their expectations for who they attract.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:35 AM
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Why do so many people on reddit say sharing hobbies isn’t that important? Do Reddit couples just never do anything together? It feels like a conspiracy on behalf of Redditors to convince normal people to date redditors whose only hobby is reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:01 AM
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I’m never going to forget how humiliating of a experience it was trying and failing to get a new job when I badly needed to ditch my the one I had. This was 7 years ago when everyone insisted the economy was strong, yet all I got was one grocery store blowing me off, another actually wanting me to take a personality test as part of the application (which I did do but never heard back from them), and another place actually telling me they weren’t going to even give me a chance because they “could…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:53 PM
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I doubt anyone would deny it works, on many women at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:00 AM
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I think people just wanted to be accepted for who they are in totality, not do and provide nothing and still be loved for it (well a lot of guys here probably want the later, but I’m trying to be fair here)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 02:18 AM
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Assault and battery of women actually is common unfortunately and it almost always happens at the hands of an intimate partner or family member, not a stranger who was told no. Which is what 95% of the posts on the sub are about because the actual thing the sub was created for happens so rarely.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 02:10 AM
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I love that there is a whole sub for something evidently so common they only get one actual post about said things happening every two weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 01:43 AM
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I think it’s far far more common that dead bedrooms arise from one person losing attraction to their partner or never really having it to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:32 PM
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Q4W: Whats so bad about being a guys first? I know you don't want to teach him but what is really so bad about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 04:42 PM
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Someone who is basically obsessed with being as strong as possible, even to the point of being obese for the extra muscle that can come with it. Like Kyriakos Grizzly and a tbh a fair number of pro wrestlers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 12:50 AM
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Sorry but it is in fact over, you will NEVER be a bloatlord.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 12:45 AM
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Regarding hard to get, a woman here (who is also a mod) basically said she and other women do it because they think it’s fun to make guys try harder, but also to try set the tone of the relationship (make it one where the guy is putting in more effort). Is this second part something you would agree with?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 05:24 AM
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That’s well enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 02:44 AM
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The entire comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 01:15 AM
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You got to be better than him m8
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:54 PM
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Sorry you felt I was insulting you the other day, I was more talking about my own experience. But I do generally believe being an odd guy is worse for your dating prospects than being unattractive guy because women just don’t compromise on that much. My best success has not come from unattractive people but other odd balls that could better appreciate my personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 11:00 PM
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This is the actually the only quote I remember from watching Naruto a lot when I was young.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 06:30 PM
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Depends on how quickly you move on after learning this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:59 PM
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Fat chicks might be more open to dating a fat guy, they aren’t going to be more open to dating someone who is autistic or just plain weird
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:58 PM
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Yep. One of the biggest Internet versus real life discrepancies I've seen is how every time a guy asks if size matters he immediately gets pacified with 50 women saying size doesn't matter as an across the board statement. And yet every single woman I've ever talked about size with in real life has appreciated at least average or slightly above average. Size has definitely contributed to one of my relationships ending, but that was more because he wasn't willing to try other things to get me off…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:35 PM
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Gloomette is a qt3.14 this is slanderous.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 04:11 AM
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Self reflect on your comment formatting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 01:31 AM
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I would like to ask what do you make of women that say their partners use them as a therapist?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 01:30 AM
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Iv’e never heard a reasonable explanation for how men talking about their problems to their girlfriend is using them as a therapist, but why women on average doing the same but way worse, is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 11:47 PM
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I can agree with that second point, especially since a lot of dicksize paranoia is just mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 06:03 AM
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How can redditors not get that it can hit a guy hard in his masculinity to hear that his dick is too small to satisfy his girlfriend? Even if he is great at eating her out! It's like they are completely disconnected from normal human emotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 05:39 AM
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Tbh, the verdict is still out for my hair, it doesn’t look really any different from what it did about 6 months ago. But I’m going to try and not care so much, because it isn’t the worst thing ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:23 AM
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Damn, that’s pretty powerful. I didn’t even know that was possible by 26.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 10:55 PM
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Honestly not well, and the scraggly facial hair I do grow seems to compliment my long hair better 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 10:53 PM
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I don’t think im going bald, but after months of paranoia I think I’ve accepted I could be happy even if I were https://preview.redd.it/l7dxdan6fzud1.jpeg?width=1920&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=057d5193caf6d44a528e1ad040deae8cb5b53610
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 08:44 PM
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Maybe not exactly the same, but same lyrics at least
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:32 AM
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If the Beatles were a band today releasing the same music they did 60 years ago, inceltears would think they were a problematic incel band.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:22 AM
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Maybe stop lecturing straight men about why they suck then?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 01:29 AM
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I don’t think it’s purely recessive/dominant in a simple sense. My moms eyes are brown. Both her parents eyes were a variety of brown. My dads are blue. I got my dads eye color
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:32 AM
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I don’t think that’s true
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 09:39 PM
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I don't think I've played anything in months and I was at a friends house when I did, and before that it was also probably months and also at the same friends house.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 07:50 AM
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Being a mentalcel is the truest form inceldom.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 07:40 AM
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Wouldn't new borns and younger children be even more likely to be living with both parents than older children?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 07:22 AM
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Thats a terrible excuse for one, and second, most kids are in the custody of both parents so you are going to have to search a little harder for a more coherent sounding excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:28 AM
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Fucked up like how women are more likely to kill their own children under the age of 9?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 12:53 AM
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If she lives at home too: "well one of us needs to live away from home, how can we ever get some privacy?" If she has her own place and you don't: "why should I date someone that live at home? I'm just going date men on my level". I can't complain too much about it. Had I chose to try and make it in a place of my own, I wouldn't be able to afford a lot of great experiences, I would be driving a shitbox way more likely to break down, and I wouldn't be save up nearly as much money as I have, but t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 03:55 AM
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I don’t think it works that way, he knowingly set a trap that he knew would cause some harm to the target. That he didn’t intend to kill someone isn’t going to dismiss manslaughter charges.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 04:51 PM
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God bless the FOIA, except when it’s someone requesting MY information 😡
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 11:06 PM
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Everything there is written top down too, trying to justify the asshole title they come up with (or vice versa)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 03:35 PM
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I was thinking this was gonna be some super arrogant profile demanding insane things, but he just seems like a nice enough person who was dealt a terrible hand. I don’t like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 06:46 AM
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I agree with this completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:14 AM
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/r/ femcelgrippysockjail
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 10:57 PM
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Remembering that time someone told me doing laundry is doing 2-4 hours worth or chores because you should count the the washing machine and drier is running as time you spent doing laundry (when clearly you have no need to be attending to it for that time). I’m starting to wonder if this mindset is part of why women report spending more time on chores than men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 08:54 PM
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This is confirming some theories I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 11:46 PM
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I just happened across average Redditors ™️ discussing dating. My day was going so well and now it is ruined😓
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 12:50 AM
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I'm really proud of myself today, I'm getting a lot better at ignoring rage bait here (intentional and unintentional for that matter).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 04:59 AM
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The work never ends fellas 😮‍💨
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:53 PM
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In a big picture this is mostly true, but if your only talking about looks, some people here definitely are better than average
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 10:45 PM
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My honest opinion is that the being “willing to teach me the languages he speaks” is the most absurd requirement on the list unless you new he just helps you practice lessons you are already taking. It’s just a lot more involved that you probably realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 06:51 PM
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Stop looking at men online.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:02 AM
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Uh huh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:01 AM
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I just don’t read it, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 11:09 PM
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They want to be the one who was good enough to domesticate the lone wolf.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:32 PM
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This is a pretty old account though
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:01 AM
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I remember back when the nastiest of insults and even telling them to do you know what wasn’t against site rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 08:40 PM
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I actually kinda like planning out vacations in advance and building excitement for it over the next few months.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:02 AM
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My blues eyes make me squint on cloudy days sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:47 AM
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So much for being alone is best when your options suck options 🤪
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 08:12 PM
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Do you guys know who he was originally?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:00 PM
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This i is a why it’s better to make a few strong points than many pints of potentially dubious quality
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 04:43 PM
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Not going well with your gf is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:45 AM
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Maybe your just not interesting and the CTE is making it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:36 PM
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I’ve never read a comment of yours and not thought the few seconds it took were a complete waste.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:32 PM
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I walk fast too, I guess I’m just going out of my way to avoid it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:11 PM
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Is this something guys actually do? I’ve never had a date fall behind but if they did I would probably notice immediately and stop walking
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:49 PM
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This is a top 10 soyjak
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:40 PM
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Lots of women slut shame other women, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:38 PM
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Good luck. To be fair, my job really helps me do this regularly so I have an advantage in hitting high step counts every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:16 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/ar8up3j26xod1.png?width=1170&format=png&auto=webp&s=f285bffc1d2ca1346fe85e494ed842504d1a4f8f Thought I would be higher but I’m slacking a bit today.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:45 AM
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Isn’t there a window in a woman’s cycle where it’s completely impossible to get pregnant? Not actually sure how that method works
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 09:57 PM
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I don't think she would be my oneitis anymore after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:38 AM
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I'm sorry if I insulted you a bit but it's just... that particular thing is not something I dwell on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 04:50 AM
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I don't see the relevance of this but yeah?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 04:27 AM
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This is so weird to me, I've never in my life been one to dwell on this shit before, even when I've known for a fact it was happening. I just have no emotional reaction to the "other" person when someone I like is taken. This isn't to say I don't feel heart broken, it just all my thoughts are around the actual person I'm interested in. Thinking about your oneitis getting railed is cuckold behavior honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 04:21 AM
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How about taking their license away permanently?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 03:30 AM
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80% of people that think they have a 7 inch dick are lying or wrong and for people who claim to have 8 inches it over 95%.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 10:39 PM
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She’s also doing what a lot of guys here say they want women to do (I.e not spin plates/message 50 people at once).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 10:25 PM
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Most guys here are not dumb enough to say literally everyone will do. And there are a lot of women who aren’t as obese as that woman is or single moms (totally tangential I know but many of them have even higher standards because low standards (or at least prioritizing the wrong things) got them into their mess and now they need to consider their kids).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 07:56 AM
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Bruh, unless those roommates stone cold gay (which tbf, I think it’s more likely than not that they are), then they are not platonic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:45 PM
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Don’t listen to everyone OP. I think this trend is sick and perverse as well. In fact I want you to tell me where these women are so I can go up to them and give them a piece of my mind in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:18 PM
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She would like me fine because I wasn’t vulnerable Around her or only in ways that appeased her sensibilities
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:35 AM
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Ask the huge number of men that have had this experience
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:34 AM
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If people are just passing through and not modifying or taking from the property, I don’t care I the slightest of someone camps on someone else’s private forest.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 01:01 AM
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I hate the idea of involving other people in my relationships and being intimate with others in a relationship. It’s got no appeal to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:47 PM
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The thought of indulging a hypothetical partner in this fetish makes me sick to my stomach.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:39 PM
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Afterwards Im just gonna think old vinegar tastes like pussy and will probably like that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:23 AM
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I don't get what can be so off-putting about it man. No different than putting your tongue in her mouth at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:31 AM
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A couple of people have recommended a few combinations for best effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:22 AM
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I refuse to click the "got it" when I get the message that a post is too old to downvote/upvote. The message annoys me and I don't want to "get it"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:22 AM
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Thanks, and at that I'll let my possibly gay homies know there is hope for them to not have to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:01 AM
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Sorry you feel that way, but I am starving. Famished even. And there is only one thing that can satiate me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:58 AM
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Getting late here, so I'm going to share something). As a kinda blackpilled virgin, my deepest, darkest, sexual fantasy I have is... <span class="md-spoiler-text">that I really want to eat a girl out. Not some random whore I should clarify, but a girl I actually love. I don't know it just seems really hot to eat pussy. That is all</span>
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:51 AM
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I would like them, they're the one that wouldn't truly like me (but at least they would like me for matching the dumb caricature they have what a man ought to be).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:24 AM
1

The experiences of a few of my friends indicates there can be an inherent boost to self confidence from getting your first relationship. Big shocker I know but a lot of people buy this narrative that it will always be unhealthy because they didn’t learn to be happy on their own or some nonsense like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 09:28 PM
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The mental calculation men are making is that maintains the facade forever is better than waiting it out for a unicorn and going through a series of failed relationships until they find someone possibly well later than they would like.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 09:18 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/zriq57ftcgnd1.jpeg?width=540&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=645376bbe304f378a9c2dbe06580351fccf7ef20
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 09:08 PM
1

When I was in Aus last, bumble used feet and inches, but when I had a layover in fiji and opened it out of curiosity, it was using centimeters. I regret not checking to see if it automatically converted my height.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 12:49 AM
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Reading people discussing sugaring makes me retch.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:14 PM
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It’s no surprise traditional women are going to dislike it. I think the reason everyone else openly trashing this have some cognitive dissonance, know they are hypocrite but just want an easy life (gender roles start and end when they are convenient for me), or have had a bad experience dating make feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:48 PM
2

I realize I made a mistake here, I will use pictures next time
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 10:37 PM
1

Q4W: would you rather date someone with an average non gym going physique, who is somehow as strong as a peaked 200 lb bodybuilder (for this questions purpose just assume his body breaks human physiology), or date someone who looks like a natural peak 200 lb bodybuilder, but is only as strong as your average Joe who doesn’t workout?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 10:12 PM
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There is a pretty wide table of behaviors that can under this category, and some aren’t a big deal. You don’t mean actually cheating do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:10 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/a6ili7iarumd1.jpeg?width=511&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=32798a912b68caa9cf121134900b7c9235129fc0
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:30 PM
1

Why not ecology? There are absolutely jobs you can get in the environmental/ecology complex, especially if you are willing to grind doing field work for a few seasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:27 PM
1

Why is tik tok so aggressive about trying to get me to download its app?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 07:51 PM
2

I totally agree it’s gross when people say they should date 18 year olds to make up for it. But I think some are just making the argument that it’s over because they are missed out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 06:37 PM
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Really, I don’t think it’s pedophilic, but rather a really strong FOMO especially since they might not get any kind of love into the future. But I’ve also never agreed it’s that important either. I’ve always said too, missing out on teen love is like a tenth as bad as missing out on teen love and college dating in terms of what your prospects are for finding a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 06:23 PM
3

What did Icy do?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:46 PM
7

I think those women sleeping with them are the actual losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 10:33 AM
5

I didn’t look like my father when I was 11 minutes old.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 10:30 AM
1

He’ll get what’s coming to him eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:36 AM
3

Looking through old threads, Iv'e noticed there are a lot of stupid, annoying people that have stopped using this sub in the last year. I guess I forget because so many new ones constantly turn up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:33 AM
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I forget sometimes how many stupid, unbearable people that used to be regulars have stopped using the sub in the last year. Thanks for making everyone's experience better, people I cannot name.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:31 AM
4

I didn’t expect anything to fall into my lap. I expected it to not be impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 12:53 AM
5

Demisexuality sounds like being a normal well adjusted person tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:31 AM
2

I don’t see what that really proves tbh. Just sounds like something they thought they could use to throw in your face
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:43 AM
2

Im not Indian so it's not personally offensive to me, but it just bothers me a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 04:10 PM
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Im mostly sad at all the insanely racist shit it's now acceptable to say about Indians online.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 05:29 AM
1

It sound like… he would suggest lying until you have some experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:27 AM
1

What do you think causes some unattractive people to hit above weight and some good looking people to not hit consistently hit below it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 12:09 AM
1

I love Australian accents so much, even on women. Especially on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 09:28 PM
1

This dudes entire bit is to convince people here they are ugly, just ignore him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 09:27 PM
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They get shit on no matter what, and redditors read way too much into posts to find out why the OP is actually a POS.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:14 AM
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It’s insulting coming from someone that would never date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:54 PM
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Anyone that calls themsleves an empath is a douche. I mean some people are highly empathetic but call yourself an empath is a big red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 02:07 AM
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The woman I most distinctly remember pursing me have had some form of intellectual disability
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 02:06 AM
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It’s not nearly as noticeable in my opinion as you would think, but you can also run them off with a towel or knife
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 03:02 AM
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I honestly can’t be bothered and just eat them with the skins on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 02:58 AM
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Oh no not ban evasion
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 10:20 PM
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They should unban her immediately
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 10:17 PM
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I mean most of the women I end up liking are not absurdly beautiful, (at least I don’t think they are to the average person, they were beautiful to me). But if someone’s overweight I’m just saying that attraction isn’t going to develop, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 10:06 PM
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Relatable except I still have standards
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:29 PM
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They should have been conscripted with the men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:32 AM
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Maybe having a comfortable life is a better way to look at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 02:17 AM
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I love a sunburnt country
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 08:36 PM
2

You partly inspired my comment honestly cause you seem really down about this whole thing now. But also my own experience. I try to be mindful about what I say now because know there are a lot of teens browsing this place. As for you, and I know what I say probably can’t reach you, I think you are worth a lot more than your weight. I really mean it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 08:30 PM
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I think a lot of people don’t realize how much the things they say even jokingly might be affecting some people. It’s ironic because a lot of the same people take everything else said here really personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 06:38 PM
1

Literally me after my next bulk concludes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 03:45 PM
1

I frequently get over 30,000 on days I work 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:03 PM
1

The last time I went to a bar, it was turned out to be a metal bar that had some people blasting live music. It wasn’t even intentional just the closest to my work place.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:55 PM
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It’s really obvious that they want women to be attracted to more people. I think it’s just willful misunderstanding
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:47 AM
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Growing up during the internet never stopped my bullies 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:45 AM
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The people lonely today would go outside and make friends instead. And nerdy people still ended up making friends and marrying anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 02:26 AM
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This is just a rationalization women have for an already existing preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:49 PM
1

This activates the almonds
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:25 AM
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Her asking to be reimbursed is what's petty, the guys response is hilarious and throws the absurdity of her request back in her face.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:33 AM
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I'll care about her getting reimbursed as soon as I get reimbursed for all my first dates I paid for that went nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:28 AM
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Nothing could prepare me for what his comment was actually going to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:59 AM
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Gloomette
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:23 AM
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My biggest advantage is my face, and I don't want to share that on my main (and not on my alt either with this now).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:13 AM
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I guess I like that I'm pretty intelligent.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:06 AM
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It might be helpful for some people that really need to watch their fat intake, and want an even denser source of protein than milk already is I guess. Other than that, it's more useful as an ingredient in other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:03 PM
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I don't even really agree with the premise, but responses like this are so meaningless. The question is "is it immature" and I think people can broadly agree many behaviors and thoughts are immature. The question isn't if someone has a right to those thoughts, and never has been.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:45 PM
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That’s very unkind to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:41 AM
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Were they super dark? They might be Sudanese
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 08:34 PM
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Maybe a good sign I should be here less.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 03:21 AM
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First?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 03:03 AM
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I never treat people like shit because I don’t want to be that person. The way I’ve been treated poorly by women inspires me to be better than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 02:57 AM
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Most people immigrating don’t make that much and will never make that much, let alone the millions that can’t escape their country.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 02:05 AM
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I think that was very sweet and relatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 09:07 PM
2

That guy doesn’t make me feel bad so much as completely revolted.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 08:42 PM
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I think a lot of people here genuinely just like making other people feel like shit. That’s the only reason they use this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 07:49 PM
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No wonder parents are so stressed these days. They volunteer themselves to do everything for their kids make sure they are always watching them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:38 PM
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I am never posting identifying information on reddit again, lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:18 PM
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Bout to take a part time job at McDonald’s so I can go ring shopping.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 04:30 PM
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None of you are my bestfriend. Yes exactly. We don't want to hear it. Now stop with this foolishness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:00 AM
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The Walmart thing is only ever said on the internet by random people that don’t know who they are talking to looks like
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 10:00 PM
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He should stop being a cumbrian.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 03:58 PM
1

I remembering reading a post there from a woman who was furious with her husband because she found out he had been watching porn in the delivery room while she was in labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 02:44 PM
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Guess thats another way I'm a bit odd. Not that I'm trying to speed run it, but I am already pretty sure I want to have kids at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:01 AM
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Good point, I forgot about that part of my question
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 05:54 AM
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Good point, I forgot about that part of my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 05:49 AM
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I guess this answers my question about guys who say they want kids on their profile
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 05:05 AM
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Reposting since I posted this just before yesterdays thread closed: To women using dating apps or who have used dating apps, looking for men in their 20’s… how what percent of men in their 20’s profiles say they want kids (vs “don’t want”, “not sure”, and even “open to kids”). Follow up, are these guys mostly conservative or at least seem conservative? I have a feeling men on apps wanting kids is a lot less common than I thought before reading some comments in a related post.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 01:18 AM
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Interesting. I’ve always done that just because it’s my honest opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 12:11 AM
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Do women truly love the idea of changing diapers, cleaning up messes, and putting up with tantrums over the same stupid ass shit every day either?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 11:06 PM
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To women using dating apps or who have used dating apps, looking for men in their 20’s… how what percent of men in their 20’s profiles say they want kids (vs “don’t want”, “not sure”, and even “open to kids”). Follow up, are these guys mostly conservative or at least seem conservative? I have a feeling men on apps wanting kids is a lot less common than I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 11:03 PM
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The look that kid is making kills me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:58 PM
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You know when I'm happy and satisfied with my life, the one thing I always do is constantly tell people who didn't ask ( primarily on obscure internet forums), how happy and satisfied I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 05:38 AM
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I really like this and there is definitely an equivalent for men here. People say men that struggle with dating should always just try dating in their league, but if a guys problem is being awkward and weird, it doesn't matter how low he tries to go. Like, its easy to see how obese people end up dating other obese people because that is their league, but there is no way this will ever translate into an obese woman dating an average or even about average guys that are autistic and off putting bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 05:35 AM
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Path of least resistance
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:11 AM
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What’s so bad about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:18 AM
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Incoherent
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 11:30 PM
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Interesting how basically everyone that says pills are dumb are just a variant of blue pill. I mean I get why, but that’s not fooling anyone here like it might elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 11:20 PM
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It’s always a little interesting when you see a girls dad, and you can see the semblance. This is a whole different level though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 07:42 PM
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I haven't noticed this in a while, but also haven't been paying close attention
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 07:55 AM
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My honest reaction to all women now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 11:17 PM
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Ive thought this before when things fell out with other people, but I think I mean it when I say I’m going full MGTOW for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:39 PM
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I serious don’t see the logic in avoiding marriage if you are going to have kids. It’s so much easier for one partner to leave you with the kid, or do the opposite and run out on you with it, and I’m starting to think maybe that’s the people who push for this arrangement want to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 06:41 AM
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The commenters give away any pretense of knowing what they are talking about when they say some guy isn’t an incel if he doesn’t hate women, and suggest the problem is demanding sex on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 11:17 PM
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I’ve had two hike first dates, one of which was proposed by the woman. I don’t think it’s that thoughtless to suggest it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 11:46 PM
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My biggest regret by far with dating is not starting earlier. University is a great time to try dating and a great excuse to be living at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:07 PM
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Thats TERF twitter for you. I think they were a lot less common on old twitter because they would always get banned for saying anti-trans shit (they didn't care about them saying men are evil/deserve to die) but now they can say what they want without repercussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:15 AM
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If I was married to someone 20+ years before her death, I don’t think I could ever get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:07 AM
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What you described is again being concerned with what is sloppy seconds.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:54 AM
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Being overly concerned about being sloppy seconds instead of seeing where life takes you seems pretty contrary to being a "chill, content, and positive person" you think we should strive to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:53 AM
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Most people make posts about dating struggles at really low points. Redditors then extrapolate what they post to be how they are all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 04:53 AM
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Why are Redditors so convinced they can tell what someone’s problem in dating is from one post? It’s funny also they always default to, “your bad personality and opinions on women definitely shines through in your day to day interactions.” When I was at my most blackpilled point about 2 years ago I was still that guy everyone wonders why is single.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:45 AM
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I think it’s just not having much experience dating at all, and hyping herself out of it with her pessimistic outlook on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:14 AM
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More important than any of this, if someone is not letting you collect your stuff after a break up, you can usually involve the police. There are a few people here who will I believe will think it’s bitch behavior but their opinion doesn’t matter. This idea that an ex withholding your someone of your stuff is just sometimes how it is, needs to die.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:05 AM
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I'm sure a lot of guys who got cheated on were positive they were in a relationship with someone who would never ever cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 06:52 AM
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Well, met someone for whom it was kind of a dealbreaker and I think I have a bad impression already.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 06:28 PM
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I started drinking socially around New Years because I thought it could help me socially, and it possibly costed me a chance with a great woman who doesn’t drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 05:25 PM
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A bigger guy is probably going to hit harder if he snaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:35 PM
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Smarter people are way more likely to overanalyze themselves and be critical of their own good characteristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:15 AM
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It's nigh time women also start dating really short men to minimize their chance of being seriously abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:12 AM
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At least that guy has some confidence. A timid good looking guy even if he does try to approach consistently through multiple means is going to get turned away by anyone he approaches until either he changes, or he runes into an odd ball woman who is wired differently. Who in all likelihood will be average, but could also be be well above (or below) average too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:11 AM
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You're original comment is not wrong, but this fact is really the sound of the door slamming shut in a lot of people's faces, so it's hard to accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 06:55 AM
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A guy can look above average, well above average even, but if they kind of weird and awkward they get almost nothing. This is what is missed when people talk about your level. Being a weird person doesn't put you in the league of people that are fat, unattractive, total losers, etc, you don't even have a league.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 06:48 AM
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okay, I thought she was widowed really shortly after... I already answered, but Ill say it again, if I was in my 30's thats fine, thats a lot of my options now, and as long as she still wants more kids I should be open minded.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 06:15 AM
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She's in her early 30's widowed in her mid 20's, and her kid is less than 2?? 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 05:03 AM
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If was older with my life more in order, and she was definitely planning on having more kids, then sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 05:02 AM
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Maybe we just want some women to not also be total assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 03:36 PM
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Evo psych has to be the dumbest field ever because it's too easy to make up whatever theory you want to explain whatever behavior you observe. Even though that behavior might not actually be real. No wonder so many pseudointellectuals like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 03:25 PM
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I really like how your one of the few people that have actually lived a pretty full life here and can always shatter a lot of peoples delusions with your personal experience. Not being sarcastic, I mean it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 02:24 AM
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If a woman needs to be babied like that to feel soft and feminine I don’t give a shit how she feels. She should learn how to feel soft and feminine without being a total freeloader. do I feel emasculated when going 50/50 No my masculinity is not that fragile
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:59 PM
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It’s true but also obfuscated by the fact women drive less miles by men, which is something insurance want us to do anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:41 PM
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I think the inceltears need to contort themselves into ridiculous points of view like “looks don’t matter at all” and “moral character is correlated with sexual success” because they mentally can’t admit they are right about anything. It’s especially kinda funny because of how many of them are male virgins anyways .
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:37 PM
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Most sex workers end up hating men because of all the gross pieces of shit they deal with. I don’t feel like trying to work and change their mind about my gender
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 02:10 AM
1

Sure, as long as it’s up to you to choose the criteria I’m sure it sounds like a good idea to punish people like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 10:37 PM
1

Hey at least the next 4 months will be based and dramapilled
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 10:17 PM
2

Seriously, if Switzerland is anything like every other continental European country I've been too the women must be beautiful. I've never been anywhere else where even the young women working at like an airport bakery or checking your train ticket were consistently beautiful, but it seemed like a recurring thing in Europe (not including the UK and Ireland, lol).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 04:21 PM
1

It’s all nonsense anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 07:37 AM
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the more women that get screwed over the harder it’s going to be for men moving forward. I give this as much a chance of happening as I do men collectively not falling for catfishing anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:45 AM
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No, all these people named after english nouns or adjectives that are have never been used as names until the last 25 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:34 AM
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He inspired that, but don't take it too personally. I think he's just a bullshitter, he's probably not been in a fire fight and probably isn't even in the military, and is just 4 letter c-wording about his own lack of desirability to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:29 AM
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I think people here just don't like that autism is a really good excuse for not having romantic or sexual success, and is also something that can't be controlled. People here want it to be your fault that you suck at dating, but if you have a condition that really makes it difficult like that, it really goes against this narrative. So people just say really dumb and often unkind things about people with autism here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:16 AM
1

"You deserve nothing and you can't even complain about it."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:12 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:23 PM
6

I swipe left on people that have stupid names on dating apps all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 08:22 PM
2

Really it’s only people I know from the discord, and I would feel weird mentioning them in comment, but I can dm them if you want
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 12:06 AM
1

I heard she’s actually cute from a few people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 09:46 PM
6

I know of at least 2 couples that have met through the broader ppd verse, but there are probably more.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 09:44 PM
1

Profound.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 09:34 PM
1

Link to the test you used?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 09:03 PM
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I don’t get it, I’m like a magnet to these women on apps. Not trying to put them down, but it feels strange when the only thing remotely alty about me is I have long hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 05:29 PM
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I’m almost certain that if you have kids while unmarried and the woman leaves, it will be harder for the guy to get some form of custody or visitation than if he was married
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:05 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/x38euzxlvr7d1.jpeg?width=761&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e43fc72dd9d1955a456283f6d47c8e4f8edeada2
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:46 PM
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I'm gonna take what I said a step further and say that most young people probably don't even regularly go to nightclubs every weekend, so obviously it's not the main way to meet people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:40 AM
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Yeah your right, you should just do stuff you don’t enjoy for the joy of chaining yourself to a partner who has completely different interests than you and wants a totally different lifestyle. Is this really what they should do?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:01 AM
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There’s got to be a better way for introverts to meet other people than just doing something they don’t like.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:30 AM
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Should have just dumped it on her head after the second or third swipe from her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:08 AM
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To be clear… did you start holding the knife right after the first mistake?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:59 PM
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It’s not just romcoms, a lot older dudes say they had to ask their wife to be many times to get a yes. Not saying it’s a valid strategy today, but it clearly worked in the past for some guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:49 PM
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I disagree, I think at least 75% of men are in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 01:46 AM
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Imagine if a woman with a very active social life, in order to find a husband, had to replace all their time hanging out with friends and going clubbing with browsing reddit and playing World of Warcraft. For the next 5 years. This is what it's like for the average neckbeard incel
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 01:45 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/6jfgug9y117d1.jpeg?width=500&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=47c02dbb2517ecaccdcd57a69e4770deeb0894fa
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:34 AM
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I think it just comes down to gender expectations in regards to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:15 AM
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I’m beginning to think there might actually be a conspiracy amongst these all these pink pill type gurus to try and keep young women single. All their advise just comes down to be as uninvolved as possible and reject people constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 03:42 AM
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You either want to forcefem your man or have him dominate you. No I’m betweens
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 03:11 AM
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Seeing the kind of guys shitting on therapy and what their lives looks like has me more convinced it’s a good idea for a lot of men .
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 03:10 AM
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I still want jaded to come back
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 01:05 AM
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They should date me because I’m not a used up man whore
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 11:04 PM
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I’m gonna bring this up in discussion with women immediately before dropping how many relationships I’ve had.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:53 PM
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Buddy, if this article is biased because of that, then yours showing the size has changed shouldn’t be trusted either for pretty much the sane reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:44 PM
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Evidently amongst studies that measure stretched flaccid penises, the average is 5.11 inches while amongst studies that measure erect it is 5.36 inches Doesn’t sound very significant of a difference but I’m going to do a test when I get home. Don’t know why I’m putting so much effort into firing someone here’s humiliation fetish, but I’m curious now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:06 PM
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I dont believe they say that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 09:40 PM
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I don’t think you can substantiate that those studies are biased to make people feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:55 PM
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I would try really hard if I knew it would work. I don’t feel attached to it in a personal way, but at finding myself watching it anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:51 PM
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I have lady friends that are attractive that I’m not into for various reasons. But you can’t always help if feelings develop.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:41 PM
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I think this is pretty well discussed and agree. A good friend might even understand if you need to spend some time apart to get over them. I less often hear people discuss this aspect that some friends always end up getting cut after marriage and kids. So that’s another way to look at it. If you are worried about never seeing her (or him) again, firstly you probably only feel this strongly because you are in a state of limmerence towards them. And second, opening up is probably the only thing t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 05:59 PM
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Guys if you are worried about losing a friend because of confessing to her, remember the upside is possibly finding your life partner while the downside is losing a friend who, even if you were really close to, is likely going to drift away eventually when she starts a family anyways. This is not a reason to not use any tact, but just remember this is the mental calculus you should be considering.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 05:48 PM
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I've learned you should never fight curly hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:51 AM
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I think there is a lot of truth that most people either mimic it, OR try to do the opposite. I've never heard that everyone just mimics what their parents do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 03:45 AM
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My conspiracy theory is that gloomette (if she’s not overweight) is actually really cute, but doesn’t know it cause her peers don’t appreciate blck qveens.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 12:31 AM
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Literally me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 07:08 PM
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some women find that behavior cute. at first. I actually agree. There is probably someone out there that will appreciate them who is normal, they just need to look. I think this is something people miss about the dating market. Issues of knowing your league for many people are actually probably knowing where to look for your love.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 04:44 AM
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I think it's possible for the actions of many people to doing things that are completely fine, and fair, to lead to results that are sad or even tragic. I could come up with a lot of examples of this. Some person dying alone being sad, doesn't make people that don't want to date them suddenly wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 04:40 AM
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I can see obese women and single moms considering overweight less attractive men for this reason. I can't see them rationalizing a choice of dating someone who is just an uncomfortable awkward mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 04:33 AM
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Even meeting organically, they are just going to get totally passed over I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 04:31 AM
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Do people actually think obese women or single moms are actually any more pen to dating low value men, especially if the guys problem is being super awkward in a way that is a turn off?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 04:27 AM
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How does an ugly woman make your life worse but not an ugly man? I never said the later. It's sad when women can't find any options that won't lower their quality of life either. Now answer me why you included crazy as one of those things? How is it actually a reasonable suggestion for lonely people to date others the will ruin their lives? I feel like I'm not getting your points at all because we are focusing on two completely different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 04:25 AM
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Because those will make their life worse? I already laid out why I think all those actions are bad. Maybe not being ugly. But surely you can see his dating some crazy is a terrible choice. They shouldn’t even be in the game. You guys really think some people just shouldn’t have basic standards at all
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 04:07 AM
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Well maybe I meant empathy then.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 03:51 AM
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I don't want to go "well akhtually" here, but there is a lot of variation in islamic law. Afghanistan is a good example of a country that relies only on Shariah law to inform itself, and we can see how well thats going, but it's basically the only one that uses solely islamic law, and most countries used a mixed system. since you bring up Syria, they have secular courts to carry out criminal law, while private law is done by various religious courts. Christians don't have to use islamic courts t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 03:50 AM
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Thats kind of cold. I have sympathy for people who can't find someone who meets some basic standards, to the point where dating their options would make their life worse, including all the one's you listed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 03:35 AM
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I mean it feels bad knowing some dude who is good probably is going to die alone
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 03:25 AM
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I actually kind of relate to not being attracted to many people and think that’s probably a big part of why I’m single.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 03:04 AM
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Because no one cares if either group talks about it like a societal issue because it doesn’t mean anything that deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:46 AM
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And how many women complain about there some how being literally no good guys to date?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:43 AM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:41 AM
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I’m going to add also, just because a guy vents, or complains, or even lashes out verbally once in a blue moon, does not make him not a good guy. There is a saying “trying the patience of a saint” and this is exactly that. This sub isn’t so guilty of it, but a lot of the dating subs are, and they blame men who are always posting there at a low point, and judge them based on that and relate their lack of success to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:25 AM
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Responding to someone’s old comment here: I think to a lot of women, it’s really uncomfortable to see that a guy that you are t into is good, and then realize the sane reason you arent into him is why no one else is. No matter how unappealing he is, it feels wrong if he is a good person, and no matter how good a person it is, you aren’t being attracted to him. So when a guy like this inevitably complains about his lot, it’s easy to point and say “this is why you are single, work on it”. It break…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:21 AM
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I think I know who you are talking about and this user does not consider herself normal, in her defense/
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 01:46 AM
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Also autistic men could mean the world to someone by doing good for the community/society in general. There is no need to limit yourself to only doing good and having meaning in a relationship. Why not just do good for your community by proving good quality work in an in-demand job/trade and by donating your time to charity? This is unintentionally the most brutal thing I've ever read on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 06:08 PM
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I wasn’t alive during the Rwandan genocide, but I thought it was a fairly major news story during the few months it happened (even though there was no American intervention). Maybe one of the boomers here could answer this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 04:23 PM
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Downvoted for speaking the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 06:19 AM
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I stand by some of mine, and am pleasantly surprised by others at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 06:15 AM
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All but one of the dates I've gotten off of apps have been with bumble. It might be worth a try and could actually be better for you unless you got some tism rizm.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 05:35 AM
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The most petty thing I do on reddit, is I like to sort by controversial the profiles of people that annoy me and see their biggest L's on this site. I don't care if it's pathetic, sue me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 05:30 AM
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I know if you are a federal employee it is law that you get 12 weeks of paid parental leave but of course most people don’t work for the feds.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:51 AM
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A lot of them I think are social and cultural conservatives for superficial reasons but economically pretty left wing. Even at that, the conservatism is mostly related to women and issues that affect women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 11:35 PM
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I think it’s well known around here that Paul Dolan (who is responsible for much of this narrative) and his research can be tossed, but for any one that missed it, read here
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 06:31 PM
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I think this is because many underweight people have nutritional issues cutting their lives short. I mean, my grandma with Crohns was underweight and it definitely wasn’t doing her any favors
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 05:41 PM
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They are being a lot more selfish
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 04:17 AM
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That’s basically the same thing as this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 03:16 AM
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I’ve been reading some threads from women contemplating being single mothers by choice and almost all the discussion centers around how hard it will be for them rather than what the experience for the child will be. It’s just assumed ahead of time that will not be a problem. Really convincing me more these are too self centered to be good parents in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:05 AM
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I don’t expect anything, but I would take being treated from a utilitarian perspective. It would make me feel like a king and I get food from it. I would then try to come up with something other way to treat this prospective partner for next time, if everything is still going good
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:29 AM
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You are taking this a little too seriously. Who doesn’t want to be treated occasionally?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 11:53 PM
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I'll buy that breastmilk is better than formula, but I'm guessing it doesn't matter if you deliver breastmilk via bottle or well.. breast.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 01:48 AM
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I'm not sure which angle this is from, but personally if I had kids I would try to work out a 50/50 deal, which I hope would be best for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:39 PM
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What would your ideal man look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:19 AM
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Is this what you want your man to look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:33 AM
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The male scrotum is homologous to the female labia.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 05:28 PM
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R you the same person who talked about how their mom said don’t come home until you have a gf?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:34 AM
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I’m going to clarify my comment a little bit. When I said the way someone women here talk about Kate bloomer men was harsh, I don’t have a problem with women here saying they don’t want them. I dislike all the rationalizations some of you here (not all. Most of you don’t do this in fact) come up with for why they will never get what they want in dating. It doesn’t feel any different than incels saying single, 30+ women will end up miserable spinsters
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 12:59 AM
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If your a late bloomer (like me) me then I’m sorry but it’s just not going to be easy. The truth is, you are going to have to work hard to get anything, especially what you want. And no matter how much you try, people along the way (at least here) are going to say you just aren’t doing enough and clearly arent trying as hard as they did, when they aren’t even playing the same game. The process of making mistakes and learning through dating, they had the benefit of doing with other people who wer…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 09:31 PM
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The way some women here talk about late bloomer men here is deranged. They want there to be nothing left for them, or for at best their only options to be morbidly obese or single moms.l that have closed up shop. Maybe it’s just a revenge fantasy thing, but what’s the point of that fantasy at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 09:26 PM
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There is something really low down and sad about someone talking about, or really making any kind of allusion to haters that exist solely on an internet form.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 07:37 AM
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I don’t think it’s really a nitpick if her experience of about one years didn’t make her suicidal almost two decades later.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:41 PM
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Idc
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 02:02 AM
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“THIS WILL ALWAYS HE: POSTS WITH AFFIRNATIVE CLAIMS ABD LOSDED QUESTIONS GET MARKED WITH “DEBATE” POST FLAIR ” https://preview.redd.it/jyk0eyndho2d1.jpeg?width=721&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=604d24c0acfee7a4f216894437430e70ae435a15
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 02:01 AM
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No that’s uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 01:54 AM
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It's probably not nearly as common as random women seeing that and assuming the dad is molesting his daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:13 AM
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The women on this sub who have never been in a relationship and are convinced about how terrible dating will turn out for them is slowly starting to balance out the incels here. I'm not calling anyone out in particular, but I see all of you 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:08 AM
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Be extremely supportive and pick up a lot of slack during pregnancy and during her recovery. I figure by dating someone who actually wants kids I can avoid this kind of score keeping.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 07:24 AM
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Do you actually subscribe to a reality where most women are in a relationship with men they find unattractive and have sex with unwillingly, or is this a hypothetical scenario to respond to what men here say?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:38 AM
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I think FDS/pink pill attracts a lot of black women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:42 AM
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“If you don’t like whatever blue pill slop gets posted here, then you suck”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 01:48 AM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:27 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/syu42lnawo1d1.jpeg?width=680&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=69f9ba9d45cf4043ec1579e0b381b794ff051281
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:20 AM
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I want injectadrenochrome/jaded interaction back
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 11:37 PM
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I just don’t think there are that many scenarios where the husband wants it more but the wife files the paperwork. Maybe in most of those cases of the women filing it is a mutual thing, but it’s just an unfounded assumption that men are too lazy to file
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 11:34 PM
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https://youtu.be/qgaRVvAKoqQ?si=4uPEAY15uZjB4-xU
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 03:16 PM
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Two incomes is better then one fellas. Make sure your woman has two jobs. Or find another woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 09:43 PM
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First.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 09:40 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/4v5xkyozcg1d1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a93ec2fdc7d9b983bc3e23c2f2816773bf5518e5
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 09:38 PM
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Idk man. I was trying to book some flights and was a bit shocked at the costs and read this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:54 PM
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Flights are expensive in general right now for a variety of reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 03:15 PM
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I’m simply dying to find someone not interested in traveling at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 03:02 PM
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I don't know what collecting sticks means, but really learning about the psychology of releasing anger this way has convinced me that letting loose is probably the worst thing to do when you are angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 07:33 AM
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Not even guaranteed once per week honestly. Most of my friends and there friends are all single men or coupled women anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 03:11 AM
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Congrats man. That’s literally never happened to me on tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 11:49 PM
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This guy sounds like a dick and I’m sorry she had a bad 8 months. On the other hand, saying it was bad because he has Asperger’s (which she admits is just her suspicion) and because of that she will never date someone with Asperger’s is really missing the forest for the trees . The obvious conclusion should be to not give a total ass that many chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:06 PM
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What exactly to you is sad about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 02:45 AM
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You should prove your claim is correct tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 02:42 AM
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I had to do yard work all morning!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 11:07 PM
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How will “a girlfriend won’t fix you” cels respond to this? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 10:21 PM
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Some of the stupid ass names I see on dating profiles has me doing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 07:44 AM
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Pretend you love it so much that it can’t not be sarcastic
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 08:59 PM
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Sure, I can agree with all that, but literally not one though?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 05:42 AM
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Yeah people really underestimate how polarized society is if they don't get around enough. It's a whole different universe in some parts of the country.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:26 AM
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I am shocked to see that not one dude said they felt very confident in their body. Kind of sad tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:04 AM
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I am shocked to see that not one dude said they felt very confident in their body.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:02 AM
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Being a gay cuckold sounds so funny to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 01:29 AM
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Women really be like “Did I just write the song of the summer?” and it’s just a song about wanting the most generic rich gigachad imaginable 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 11:21 PM
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I get complimented in real life way too often to get as few likes as I do on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 11:10 PM
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What happened to your gf?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 08:55 PM
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I’m monstrously socially inept.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 08:46 PM
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I see what you are saying. That just makes me wonder though, would someone in the fields you listed who had a hard scrabble past to get where they are be more compatible in your eyes?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:22 PM
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Why do people always downvote the daily thread? lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:36 PM
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I'm going to be honest, I seriously doubt the majority of attacks from strangers anywhere in the world result in a homicide. Where did you read this, for men or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:43 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/w0qgg7837b0d1.png?width=720&format=png&auto=webp&s=873b8eb0bd0ab6faccd9a3cfbdc15ec9eced12d8
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:12 AM
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Respectfully, I have trouble believing you are bad looking enough to justify being so disenchanted about dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:55 AM
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I partly agree, but I think it has a lot more to do with men thinking it smart to go right to the source and ask women what they want so they can then give what they were told to women they are interested. There are a few reasons it doesn’t work out, but that’s my theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:51 AM
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Yeah, and there are other pretty straight forward things you can control that will make it an even lower chance (like I know if I never cheat, that lowers the chance of divorce. I can’t help what my partner does but I know if I avoid that, it lowers my chance of being divorced)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:07 PM
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To offer a different perspective here, a lot of flirting for many people Involves teasing and putting down the other party, to see how they respond. I have no idea what the convo looked like exactly or what she was thinking, and you don't have to engage with anyone that makes you feel bad, but she might not have meant to hurt your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:16 PM
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I’ve never heard anyone saying about “average kings”. Just sayin
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 03:25 PM
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But they don’t know the heinous damage that a bear can inflict on them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 02:05 AM
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Yeah I would just rather not be attacked at all . Only deranged people are thinking about the moral implications of whether the bear or human is worse because if it’s free will . Frankly this isn’t why women are choosing the bear anyways , they are choosing the bear because they’ve literally never been on hikes before or else they would know encountering men is completely routine and normal
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 01:54 AM
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There is literally no difference in what is more horrific to me based on the intentions of the two, and at least the human isn’t going to be eating me while I’m alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 01:34 AM
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Men are only more “dangerous” than bears on paper because their are vastly vastly more interactions between two people than between bears and people every day. Don’t be ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 01:25 AM
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Reddit really showing it’s dominated by fat cuckolds by constantly banning her
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:11 AM
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I actually liked this feature of the app as a guy and bumble is by far my best app. I think it's because women messaging first is sort of a second round of filtering out people that aren't that interested in me. I'm also not sure who everyone here is swiping on, because for me it's about a 50% chance if I get "hey" or something unique more unique (at least asking about my day). Another thing I've noticed is I'm not alone in it being my best app, but a lot of other people say it's their worst by …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 09:13 PM
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Because you get a chance to actually talk to them before and leave an impression that way rather than leave it entirely to looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 09:02 PM
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You’re really telling on yourself with this comment. Frankly this burn down the house attitude is almost identical to what incels are except it’s getting mad over actual criminal behavior of some women being pointed out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:30 AM
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It’s the exact opposite, there is almost no point to use the app anymore. You might as well just download tinder and get more swipes per day
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:57 PM
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Pretty much every bear is more dangerous than every man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:38 PM
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It makes me think a lot of people are schizophrenics.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:32 PM
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I think it’s seen that men are supposed to be emotionally unphased by that while women are socially allowed to be way more sensitive to hurt feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:56 PM
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Women are literally the kkk.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:00 PM
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It’s worrying how many people think yelling and screaming are always a part of relationships and that’s just how it is. Both the people that scream and the ones that put up with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:48 AM
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All humans have inherent worth, and I agree it’s rude and mean to say these people are worthless. But when it comes to dating, it’s entirely up to men she meets if it’s a problem. If it’s not great, if it is, I don’t think it’s unfair if guys don’t like her past. It’s not anymore unfair then women taking issue with a jabs lack of experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:34 PM
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I get that sometimes, but the tone really is what sets it bad. Recounting my own experience the nicest way someone put it was “anyone that makes you feel like shit is dead ass regarded”. I actually liked that because at the time someone I really liked had just ghosted me. I dislike the most when some people think I’m literally joking. Appreciate the kind words too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:41 AM
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I genuinely find all this really repellent. Im pretty inexperienced but even me choking a woman seems like it would be a complete turnoff (I could probably handle spanking and hair pulling).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:30 AM
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Hey I’m thankful for the one advantage I do have, but I would need to be a lot more attractive to ride on it alone. And ride I do have isn’t much help frankly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:18 AM
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What percent of women age 18-30 you all reckon actually like being choked, spanked, getting their hair pulled etc.?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:08 AM
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I swear there is a narrative being pushed that porn is making men act aggressive or even violent at sex, when women like that way more than men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 12:53 AM
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Not privilege, but there are two things that come to kind, as an above average guy. Firstly, People think I’m fucking with them if I bring up that I struggle to date. Secondly, I’m starting to presume also that people assume I have something seriously wrong with for my lack of experience. Which tbf probably is true, but I get the feeling its assumed to be something sinister about me, rather than just that I’m awkward, anxious, and kind of autistic which should be on display already. I think that…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:49 PM
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My dad giving me specific situational advice in socialization actually helped me quite a lot when I was in middle school in making friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:14 PM
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Someone here a few weeks ago was trying to tell me that no one even says friendship is a substitute for romantic love, even though I see it constantly as in this post. I hate to use the term gaslighting but it really feels like that happens a lot here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 10:17 PM
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The venn diagram of people who genuinely should not date because of their mental/personality issues, and the people people who actually are refraining from dating because of above issues, is 2 circles
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:03 PM
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If they did then maybe they would have actually chosen the man, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:14 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:09 PM
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Saving all this man or bear dialogue for the next time women in this sub claim they actually like men and don’t hate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:32 PM
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Good to hear, sometimes things just work out like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 07:11 AM
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Sounds like they were the company they deserve. Hope the marriage was good, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 06:33 AM
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People enjoy things the most when their skill level matches the difficulty of the task, especially they are doing a highly difficult task they are skilled at. For the guys here that are struggling to date, they are doing something that is way harder than what their skill set is, so of course they would be happier if it was easier, especially since a lot of them are a lost cause when it come to gaining any real skill at dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 02:41 AM
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I'd rather they procreate than the people you represent in court do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 02:25 AM
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It’s an observed paradox in criminology that people more paranoid of crime like the elderly, and women etc., are less likely to actually be a target of most crimes (though women are more likely to be violently raped, it’s just almost certainly not going to happen while walking late at night)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:27 AM
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Being sexless is so revolting to women they want the government to track and imprison them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 11:25 PM
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They've gotten annoyed with it so I've stopped. I was being excessive to be fair, but I've always gotten the impression that people would rather hear about any other problem you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 09:08 PM
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And it's getting worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 09:05 PM
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I can believe it from older people who have really been through the emotional ringer. It just sounds like horseshit from someone under the age of 30 who has also never married.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 09:04 PM
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Would any of these people who says they would still be happy if they were single for the rest of their life feel the same if an all knowing being told them they would in fact be single until they die? I feel like this is a sentiment only exists in the heads of people that know they can get a relationship again fairly easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 08:26 PM
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What would in your opinion be a case where advising someone to go to a retirement home or homeless shelter to date would be acceptable advise?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 07:40 PM
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I think the gap to really empathize with someone who has been alone their whole life or is just too much for most normal people. They will never get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:59 AM
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I honestly just can’t read these stories without chalking it up to the halo effect. Maybe I’m just being a prick, but I’ve seen too many stories about how every traditionally undesirable guy sucks because of his personality, while every jock and frat bro is secretly an angel
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 05:28 PM
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It’s an opinion I’ve heard expressed a lot (if people didn’t genuinely believe it, they wouldn’t say get male friends as a solution to romantic loneliness), and she has a lot of other dumb hallmark opinions these other people have. I don’t need to read into it too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 02:28 AM
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Agree to disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 01:48 AM
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This is fake. Source: they claim to know many successful poly couples
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 09:17 PM
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The person you posted thinks that. It’s actually a pretty common sentiment repeated here or elsewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 09:15 PM
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Anyone who thinks male friends are a substitute for romantic success is kidding themselves. Both are important but only delusional people think the former will alleviate the later
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 07:29 PM
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Friend zone is a specific situation in which love is unrequited
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:59 PM
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If you both live with parents: “I can’t date someone living with their parents. Where can we go to get some privacy?” If only you live with your parents: “ why should I date someone living with their parents. It’s childish and totally beneath me. They should just date other on their level and date other women living with their parents”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:34 AM
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And it was almost certainly also true that you were likely to live into your 60’s if you made it past infancy during that time period as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 01:01 AM
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I have some major doubts that was true during the industrial era which is really the least believable part of OPs claim. It bears repeating that the low lifespans of the past in large part were due to very high infant mortality and a man by age 15 was likely to live to 50-60 throughout most of history
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 01:00 AM
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Status and money can obviously help, but even without it he would still clean up. For him it’s just the difference green dating hotties no one has heard of and dating Michael Jackson’s daughter
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 01:43 AM
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I honestly like wine the most, though I havent had a proper cocktail yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 09:10 PM
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You are literally completely incoherent, maybe don't use reddit when you've been drinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:42 AM
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This woman is just obnoxious and this only got published because (and sadly a lot of people really don’t seem to realize this), ragebait gets engagement.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:32 AM
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We all might understand now if you actually speak coherently.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:26 AM
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This is why I'm currently accepting applications for breadwinner wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 12:57 AM
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This sub is going down the shitter
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:18 PM
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After having a date that ended abruptly on a really sour note because a paying miscommunication, I refuse to date broke women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:17 PM
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Creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:35 AM
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Quite incredibly how all this equity over equality is just stuff that benefits women and downplays men’s issues. And it’s pretty distasteful to hand wave away mens much higher suicide rate by claiming a lot of it is from auto erotic asphyxiation or attempting to avoid criminal punishment or make people feel bad as revenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 08:02 AM
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I just don’t believe there are more than minor differences in rights and opportunities between men and women in the western world. No doubt there are serious issues in other parts if the world and that it’s a real fight for the rights of women in those countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 08:01 AM
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One of the problems with this is that I’m pretty sure it assumes every feature is independent of eachother which isn’t true.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:00 PM
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Why would you not want them to go to public schools?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 11:48 PM
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Nobody needs to go to a private highschool. This is absurd
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:37 AM
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I knew I would regret not using Tik Tok
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:45 PM
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Why do guys need to do physical work to be treated like men? say this as someone who’s almost entire working experience has been physically demanding jobs, I don’t get why someone as long as they are bringing in cash should be treated differently if they are in an office or construction site. Unless I am missing something here
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:46 PM
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Death Valley.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 08:16 PM
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I think atlas is back, but I’m not sharing what I’m convinced her account is 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:57 AM
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Finding the my kind of mentally deranged (intelligent opinionated schizo) is really hard though
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:53 AM
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A lot of people are actually agreeing with that and saying you do need to be exceptional to date. But if you open by saying you need to be exceptional to date they will tell you that you need to visit le Walmart. When you actually notice how little effort people put into thinking consistent, it’s really eye opening .
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:51 AM
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Okay, I half agree with the first paragraph but the last sentence I disagree with the last statement. I think phrasing it as “taking the lead” in general would come off really weird to most people. Otherwise the suggestion women should ask men out really is going to be received extremely differently depending on the context it’s brought up in.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:38 AM
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Wow, that’s really unique and interesting that you don’t like to work and would prefer doing nothing all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 02:26 AM
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Lol, and if you don’t find getting drunk and going to clubs fun at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 12:18 AM
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I’ve thought about this before, I think some tall women genuinely think their height entitles them to some 6’5 bf which they also want to win some unspoken competition with other women .
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 11:57 PM
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There are women who say they like taller guys because it makes them feel small (to be fair I’ve seen men say the inverse). I feel that is even more irrational
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 09:52 PM
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Unfortunate, but sometimes thats just how the... cookie crumbles. 🥁
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 09:17 PM
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Switch to wine so you and others can pretend your habit is healthier.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 04:56 PM
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This got me googling and I found this. But chronic heavy drinking can prime certain metabolic processes and, in effect, train the body to waste the seven calories a gram that alcohol ordinarily provides. For example, weight gain was negligible in alcoholics who were given 2,000 calories of alcohol daily on top of the 2,500 calories from foods they consumed to maintain their weight. But when the same number of additional calories were fed as chocolate, a steady weight gain resulted. LMFAO, fuckin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 04:48 PM
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It might just be their personal experience to be fair, but it is odd. The way people are saying we can go years without seeing each other and reconnect like it's been yesterday as if it's a flaw and not a feature... I would love to see my friends more often, but surely that is a measure of depth compared versus trading new friends out every week.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 03:24 PM
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It's just trendy in some circles to say male friendships are allow shallow and meaningless. I don't even know what the purposes of it is, maybe it's just part of a men suck narrative they have, maybe it's part of narrative that loneliness can be solved by having better friends. etc. I swear people were saying the opposite about male friendship just 5 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 03:04 PM
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OP
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:57 AM
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Congratulations, your issues have clear cut solutions which can be easily figured out and executed. I mean that might not even be all that true for her. This person has had issues dating for years and nothing seems to change according to them. If they were a little more self aware, they might be able to realize why some people see self improvement as futile especially when it's really easy to spend a lot of time improving the wrong things.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:55 AM
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The quality of bait in this sub is plummeting
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 10:49 PM
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Iv’e never felt much sympathy for these gay and lesbian people that marry the opposite sex and later come out (barring people in countries where there is a serious risk to their lives if they don’t conform). I mean it must suck feeling like you need to lie, but it just seems so callous to try and drag someone else into your lie like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:30 PM
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That will be my cousin and his wife eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 09:34 PM
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When this topic comes up all I can think of is that one sperm bank that did not accept splooge from red heads
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 07:46 PM
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How did you come up with the first number?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 04:58 AM
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I hate Anna Slatz.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:28 PM
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People will say this same thing on a one off post made in various dating advise subreddits though. I think it’s clear this gets overplayed a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 09:27 PM
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This is a reasonable take, and I agree the work doesn’t stop. I certainly think all parents should take part in child rearing. The one thing I want to counter this with is that work from home would not be such a big perk if it wasn’t preferable to most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 04:28 AM
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No I’m not, and I’be seen what it’s like to be a stay at home parent with my own eyes. 40 hours of looking after an infant isn’t as time consuming or tough as 40 hours of working a normal job. Not saying a working parent shouldn’t help out the stay at home one, but it’s just not the same and you have a lot more freedom and the comfort of your own home at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 03:17 AM
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Okay, so you basically agree with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 02:38 AM
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Being the stay at home parent comes with breaks in between responsibilities. It’s not exactly continuously working
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 02:36 AM
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Agree. Turning down a time, without suggesting an alternative is to me one of the strongest indicators someone isn’t interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 08:30 PM
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Looks like this will go unanswered, but it's probably obvious to anyone with eyes, that the point of playing hard to get is that they think it's fun to make men have to try harder, and maybe they even hope it will set the tone of the relationship. Not actually about increasing the chances of dating some guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 07:11 AM
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Is the point just to make them try harder because it's fun, or to increase the chances of dating them?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 07:05 AM
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Is “dating market” a phrase people even use outside of internet. Asking cause I don’t talk much about dating outside of the apps, but even then I’ve never heard it used before and feel like if used in conversation it would be met by most people with confusion and maybe a little suspicion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 06:22 PM
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Don't listen to this idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 07:11 AM
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Your bodyweight can fluctuate wildly day to day, even if you are weighing yourself at the same time due to differences in glycogen storage, dehydration, full or empty stomach, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:39 PM
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At what point do you consider it ghosting instead of, "they just stopped responding"? I think you have to at least have a date scheduled and before it happens they stop responding so it's effectively cancelled. Otherwise if you haven't had a date, you can't really call it ghosting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 06:58 AM
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Wood chippers are so fun to use
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 05:13 AM
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I forget how valuable someone who is a good listener is because it’s so rare to find someone who is. I’m mostly interested stupid bullshit no one cares about, so finding someone willing to listen and who isn’t clearly blowing me off when they respond really feels nice
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:24 AM
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Yeah, I think I would bail. I might try to meet the “bereaved” first and see how they feel about it, but that’s sus.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 12:19 AM
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I need to know the circumstances around these deaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 12:12 AM
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I think the mentality of these men is just completely foreign to me. There are certainly women with supporting, but I think it’s a point of pride for these guys to have a girlfriend who doesn’t need need to work, so to him he is not getting the short end of the stock. Some of these women might be making a substantial amount off of social media too I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 05:22 PM
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The Wall Street Journal had an article on this stupid fucking stay at home girlfriend trend and I wanted to pull my hair out. I just don’t get why? Why are there men bankrolling their girl’s lifestyle like this? I swear the first of these videos I saw was satirical, and I think most is just engagement bait
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:07 PM
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This account is just bait
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 01:15 AM
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My luck is so beyond bad, I will have something that can be used as blackmail against me somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 07:48 AM
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Just my luck
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 01:43 AM
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If I was in this situation I would assume it was a plot to blackmail me somehow tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 12:50 AM
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America is just extremely paternalistic about it’s welfare. I believe the viewpoint behind that is it’s seen as a waste of money if you are poor to buy precooked food when you can cook for yourself for cheaper
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 05:44 PM
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You should at least be able to buy more essentials than just food with them. Fun fact, if you ever heard that the Netherlands gives disabled people money earmarked for prostitutes for some philosophical reason about how everyone deserves love, that’s just a half truth. The reality is that people can buy whatever they want with their welfare or disability money, including their legal prostitution services
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 05:42 PM
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I’m confused, are you intentionally going to kebab shops for their burgers? If so why?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 05:37 PM
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Any bets on what the topic of the week will be next week?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:12 AM
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The right answer is to deflect in a clever way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 03:05 AM
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It’s a classic female trap question. Either your honest and make her mad or you lie and she gets mad for lying. This is on the same level as “does this dress make me look fat?”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 03:04 AM
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Replace the flinching with loud shrieking
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 01:33 AM
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Fuck me, it’s been 10 years already?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 01:28 AM
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I also have ADHD.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:44 AM
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I’ve been banned from aside from the usual suspects been here will get you banned from, I’ve been r/enoughsandersspam for trolling them (I deserved it, but then again so did they), and Justiceserved for commenting in a no no sub (I was arguing with them!)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:38 AM
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Love the low key implication there ban comes with that you shouldn’t be allowed to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:36 AM
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“Basic social skills aren’t enough” “Ummm, so you just think they don’t matter at all?” They always need to make a comical straw man
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:34 AM
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Also that advice is terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:16 PM
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Hinge has been relatively unlucky for me, but I am working with that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:16 PM
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I was perfectly clear, so maybe just reread it until you get it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:02 PM
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I despise the sub, but it’s generally correct that a normal social circle is what is needed. It is way, way, easier said than done though and there are a lot of other points that go in there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:02 PM
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If sex is the hold up, it’s better just to lie until it’s not a lie anymore. Much harder to fix is having no dating or relationship experience. The effects of that is going to permeate how you behave and your general comfortability through the whole process of dating and it usually shows. And it turns out buying intimacy is way more expensive than buying sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 07:56 PM
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Can bumble just give me a good match already? It’s like this app doesn’t know I’m trying to get over someone who lives on a different continent.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 06:53 PM
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Because women will almost always (somewhat rightfully) see it as a red flag and an increasingly bigger one as you get older. It’s not impossible to overcome, but you will have to be some amount more exceptional (likely in the social skills department) than a normal person everything else being equal to burry that flag. When in reality you will likely be more socially awkward than average for the same reason you are a late bloomer. And as you get older increasingly less people want to be someone’…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 06:38 PM
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They are way less common, and a lot would not want to be some guy’s first either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 06:22 PM
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With enough TRT and tren, that’s all you will want. Maybe he is competing for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 06:05 PM
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The same passivity that stops them from speaking to women is the biggest barrier to them committing violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 04:50 PM
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Words have no meaning anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:07 AM
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Definitely, and when I went to a different group focused on employment instead (also for one time, since I figured I would just take the advice), the people seemed a lot more my speed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 07:09 AM
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The only time I went to one of those, I only went to one session because I was by far the least autistic person there and I actually left wondering if I had a legitimate diagnosis.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 06:56 AM
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I used to be hopeful and would have been happy for him ascending, had he not immediately took a 180 in his personality and started acting like an arrogant douche after he got laid. I wish him the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 06:50 AM
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I used to like that guy until he started immediately acted extremely arrogant the first time he got laid. I wish him the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 06:47 AM
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Why is it that whenever I see someone doing something dumb with apple vision pro it's in Utah?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 05:17 AM
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/r/methwithoutcommunism
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 03:04 AM
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This movie was an unusually large part of my childhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 01:05 AM
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I'm intentionally trying to run out of bumble profiles in my area. I technically did it with tinder once, but that was just an error of the app, and when I switched to women 35-50 and then switched back, I suddenly had new profiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 01:04 AM
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🤨 If you choose to pretend every happy marriage is actually just tolerable at best, and that every bad marriage is in fact bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 12:49 AM
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What she’s saying sounds almost identical to what a lot of guys here say.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 11:11 PM
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Thats one of my more favorite red pill delusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 07:25 AM
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Maybe being no gf isn't so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 07:23 AM
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TFW She made twice as much money as him, never began
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 01:56 AM
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Q4A: Favorite song for when you are heartbroken, or maybe just down when it comes to dating? For me it's always going to be Black by Pearl Jam. Even though it's never the same situation as he's singing about, it always hits the feels.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 11:10 PM
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I think thats a red herring in that guys that have a lot of followers on instagram tend to have a vibrant social life with a lot of things going on, and otherwise seem like fun people to be around to most people. But I also know a few guys that seldom post on instagram, and some that don't even have any social media at all with no issues dating (whether or not you count
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 08:03 PM
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I think thats the tail wagging the dog in that guys that have a lot of followers on instagram tend to have a vibrant social life with a lot of things going on, and otherwise seem like fun people to be around to most people. But I also know a few guys that seldom post on instagram, and some that don't even have any social media at all with no issues dating (whether or not you count dating apps). They still have fun lives and and are out and about meeting people the old way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 08:01 PM
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Minor victory: I have finally found a picture of my hair part from almost 9 years ago, and can now say conclusively that my hair is not thinning. It has just always been very fine textured, so my scalp is rather visible where my hair parts
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:50 PM
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According to Google, the average man you can meet on the street can deadlift 285 pounds. That sounds way too high for anyone that doesn't go to the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 06:57 PM
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Hey at least you’re trying
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 05:22 PM
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Being anti-feminist is a red flag to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 05:13 PM
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Terrible. I guess it would cut down the likes, but that filters for people that are weird enough to actually do the survey. I just opened it out of curiosity and swiped left.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:55 PM
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I'm so truecel if the opportunity ever finally presented itself, I would die of a heart attack from excitement on the spot. It's literally impossible for me to ascend. It never began.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:09 AM
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My last good match told me how a lot of guys were just trying to hook up, even though she was looking for a relationship. And a lot of people were bad conversationalists especially ones interested in similar things as her. So I guess thats the catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 06:16 AM
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I found my second profile in two days basically asking guys to apply to be her date. The first one was someone linking a google survey to fill out, and the one today was one linking their "dating email" (wtf is that even? Lmfao). I hope this didn't just suddenly become a phenomenon in the two weeks I was abroad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:44 AM
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Actual, pretty good and fair. Flattering even
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:15 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/qmkt2ivrs1lc1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=500ab5ffab5db1dcc02b8a01f4b0ccbc5b1fa99a
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 03:33 AM
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When I got bit by a leech recently it was painless, it just bled like a motherfucker
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 03:31 AM
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Don’t despair guys, if women here say this place has made them more wary of men, just know it’s another problem for Billy beta that chad won’t even know about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:51 AM
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Realistically it’s like >1% of women doing porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 01:42 AM
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If your in stand outs I think you get swamped with roses (because that’s the only way they can send a like to your profile)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 11:53 PM
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Why would you be friends with someone that is weird?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 11:50 PM
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Not sure why he would hate them, but all those profiles I see in my standouts for over a year I just assume are a type of women difficult to please and aren’t worth throwing my likes after. (Barring a few exceptions, one regular in my stand outs is 6’3 for instance and I figure that makes dating difficult. But then again she is in the stand outs so she probably has a pretty popular profile 🤷)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 11:40 PM
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Figure you just have to let it bite your arm and use that as leverage to start pummeling it with your other arm. It would be pretty difficult to kill though in any fight with just your hands
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 10:45 PM
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A fair number of them aren’t single. A lot of people on dating apps are not single in fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 10:43 PM
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They certainly are their own worst enemy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 09:35 PM
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Fat is lost all around the body which is why you can’t spot lose fat. So I do believe this would work, as long as the body fat percentage remains the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 09:32 PM
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They changed it again?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 09:31 PM
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I find it incredibly shocking but pleasantly surprising any time a woman feels empathy for lonely men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 09:27 PM
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Extreme powerlifting even if you are natty is a good example of where fitness and health aren’t the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 06:59 PM
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Planning simple, basic dates have never lead to any being cancelled on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 06:30 PM
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There are definitely a lot of women out there that abuse men, violently even.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 05:52 PM
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Don’r dwell on why she did it. You probably won’t get an answer and if you do, there’s a good chance it will be a lie. Really sucks when you think you might have made an actual mistake that could repeat itself later, but it’s sort of just how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 05:40 PM
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So by your parameters it would have to be someone telling a specific user to shower?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 12:41 AM
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Its a generic piece of advice they hand because they assume its a common problem for anyone struggling with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 10:43 PM
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I was just in Australia and all the heights on bumble were in feet in inches interestingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 09:13 PM
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Ive had one woman say cheating with a man would piss her off more (she specifically said Piss her off), which actually prompted this question.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:48 AM
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What would hurt you more ladies, your man cheating on you with another man, or with a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:37 AM
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If you want to see what happens when you remove female willingness from the equation, look at the gay hook up scene and how high their body counts get. It sounds obvious, but really think how easy sex would be if every guy on earth was interested in other men and you just had to find another guy attracted to you. Average guy swipes right on half of profiles so you do the math.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 12:23 AM
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it's not an "accusation" he had a fair trial and was found guilty and convicted It was an accusation until he had a trial which is what presumption of innocence is about. then bring up an example of a woman saying she doesn't wanna date men bc of a man who was exonerated Why do you think I was talking about men getting dates? People lose their jobs, friends, and family over this. so do you not know he was convicted or what are you talking about? men today are defending danny, after his convictio…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:20 PM
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This is a strange comment. I don't think that many men lost dates for defending him (or rather his right to a trial). Most reasonable people also, can see how destructive criminal accusations can be to the lives of the accused regardless of innocence, and that even being totally cleared of charges will never totally fix this devastation. Was anyone actually saying that his right to the presumption of innocence meant his victim should not have pressed charges?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:51 PM
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5'7 is about as far from the mean as a male 6'0 (in America) so that is where I draw the line at tall for women. Thats my logical answer at least, personally it doesn't feel like a woman is that tall until about 5'9.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:52 PM
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A lot of flirting is just playfully teasing about the right thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:47 PM
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File this under you know its flirting when you see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:36 PM
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There is no floor to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:28 AM
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IIRC you were saying something negative about cuckolds and cuckoldry? Shameful that the truth is punished on this website.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:19 AM
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Damn. I'm already trying to be on my best behavior because I was suspended temporarily for calling someone a loser once, and I think I've burned through my last warning some other time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:17 AM
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What was their gimmick?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:11 AM
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Second this, this guy is just wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 03:38 AM
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Hey, that's your cue that still have a chance 😹😹😹
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 03:28 AM
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I’m just glad I actually got some work experience doing field work since getting hired for you first season is often the hardest step
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:22 PM
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I can't describe the rage I feel looking looking for environmental science related jobs and seeing these bullshit "environmental technician" jobs that have nothing to do with my degree pollute my search results.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:46 PM
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Thats the thing, for an average height, average frame guy to be above 200 pounds and shredded is almost impossible without PEDs . If you are a 250 pound guy, and start working out, you're maximum at that weight will still look a bit flabby, but thats still way better than if you hadn't worked out at all. I only bring this up because some people even caution against working out to be more attractive, and I think that is insane when its the one thing most guys can change a lot without surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:33 PM
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I hear a lot of people discuss what the ideal body male body type for attracting women is, and a lot of people (including women) give wildly different answers, so can we all just agree that as long as you aren't doing steroids it is practically impossible to make yourself less attractive to women by working out too much? Especially if you baseline is being sedentary?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:41 PM
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No, that is not me. I am 26 and I am 6' -1" thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:08 AM
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It should be noted that most nations with high fertility rates are desperate to get them lower and historically many have even acted extremely coercively or forcibly in achieving their goals. There are exceptions to this such as Romania's dictatorship under Nicolae Ceaușescu where abortion was banned and contraception heavily restricted. Most countries trying to increase their rate, are fall into the low fertility democratic category and necessarily rely on incentives to do this. Interestingly I…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 09:02 AM
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Ur good stupid she was bad stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:44 AM
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Knowledge of family planning and access to resources for it, plus women becoming more educated correlates much more strongly with low birth rates than general feminist attitudes (see Iran for an extreme example). There probably is a correlation between how feminist a society is and how better it is about the above I listed. Edit: If anyone thinks I was saying family planning is a bad thing, I'm not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:42 AM
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I would love it if more women approached and it does have to do with me wanting to be approached. There, I said it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:35 AM
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5’11 white guy with long blonde curly hair. I’ve been told I look like a grunge musician when I posted face before
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:12 AM
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There is a lot disagreeable with this post but firstly, financially it makes sense for everyone to try and climb economically as much as possible, man or woman. In practice women do it way more though which is why this is brought up, and I would hope most people are dating for reasons other than finances. Anyways logical as it is, and men should absolutely be wary of this and to what extent their partners loyalty is affected by financial matters. If you want I be proudly hypergamous go ahead, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:01 AM
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I think they just want queen treatment. It’s basically the FDS mindset, which teaches women to put in the bare minimum to only attract men that will put far more effort than them into the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 02:41 PM
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Reread my comment, I said I wouldn’t be interested in dating someone that was extremely insistent on never approaching as a rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 02:35 PM
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Gottem
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 02:30 PM
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Idc
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 02:25 PM
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I certainly don’t think anyone should chase, which is kind of the point I was getting at.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 02:22 PM
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Not saying I never approach, but I wouldn’t want to date any who was extremely insistent on never approaching ever. A lot of you ladies saying this have really weird expectations for your relationships and what your man needs to do for you anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 12:41 PM
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I didn’t realize I was actually good looking until I posted my face online
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 12:19 PM
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People in general definitely get more warning to be wary of men than women. Even if men are obviously more likely to be dangerous, the effect I think is that men are shocked to see how terrible women can be and in the ways it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 12:15 PM
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That’s a good question since it’s not the main complaint of guys with dating with dating issues that are wondering wtf happened with being nice going wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 12:01 PM
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What went wrong in the conclusion, taking the advice at face value? Listening to it at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:53 AM
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Idk I only really felt compelled to stare at women I was crushing on
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:04 AM
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Maybe instead of thinking of it as “lowering your standards” think of it as “broadening your options”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 02:32 PM
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In the context of the comment you responded to mentioning men being non-committal, it relates extremely well
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:02 PM
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Maybe they should try therapy and showering if every guy they like is non-committal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:39 AM
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You shouldn’t trust my common knowledge actually and neither should I trust yours. You shouldn’t trust common knowledge at all inherently. Much common knowledge is based on fact but a lot also is based on data that has not been interpreted at all, filtered through extremely biased people. I can’t fault people for believing it, but there is absolutely a best way to arrive at the truth and that involves collecting rigorous data and analyzing it through the right frameworks. I don’t trust social me…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:00 PM
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No it didn’t actually, what in this article indicates that more research was done? People sharing their stories on social media isn’t research. And that article from the Guardian for evidence cites another from the Guardian that cites the exact same article that was retracted! If you want to see what the republished one said here it is. It concludes that only in cases of heart condition is there a gender disparity. And this can be a good example of p hacking too since if you break your study sub…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:16 PM
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Well, you might be interested to know that the study showing men are more likely to leave their sick partners was retracted after a fatal error in study design was corrected and their was no statistical difference found. Or do you you think appealing to common knowledge is the best way to arrive at the truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:41 PM
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You are being disingenuous when you share all these stats, but then dismiss the ones that show men are not more likely to leave women in the case of their partners and instead cite support groups for in this case that happens (something likely that has to do with women more likely forming support groups in general). As for married women not living as long as single women that is incorrect. The data shows that married women live no longer or shorter than single women, and that generally married w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:15 PM
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I remember last year I matched with a lady on about the 3rd of February probably and she never responded. That is she didn’t until it was just before 5:00 PM on valentines day. I guess it fell through with about 10 other people she actually wanted plans with for that day more, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 11:32 AM
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Nothing ever lasts. We’re all dying eventually. Ashes to ashes dust to dust.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 11:26 AM
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My mom has at times been shockingly dismissive unless my distress was overwhelmingly apparent.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 11:24 AM
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People are too anxious and self conscious to be themselves so they need to drink to act that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:58 AM
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It’s one if a few things I look at. Not everyone who talks to me is interested, but I’m going to assume someone who is interested will try to talk
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:56 AM
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Glad to see someone just say it. 90% of people complaining about liberal arts degrees couldn’t define what they are, let alone do it accurately and just think it’s where you learn to be a liberal
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:00 AM
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Well maybe you have a little work to do, because first you have to learn to think like a normal person who doesn't see that as a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 02:21 AM
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You could improve by being a less mean spirited person.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 02:07 AM
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I’m finally getting invited to parties and other events to hang out and almost all the women are in relationships. I don’t know how the math works because way more guys I meet through this aren’t dating anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 09:30 PM
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There is a weird thing in America where teens have to skirt their parents rules about having sex at their age, then they grow up to be pissy about their teens having sex like they did. I think it’s ridiculous and it’s probably better that it happen at home than who know’s where. The only reason I would not allow it is because other kids parent will most likely not allow it. I would still encourage my kids not to though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:50 AM
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Because we suck and should be avoided.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:30 AM
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That’s your right to think that way but the saying “A society grows great when old men plant trees in whose shade they shall never sit” really resonates with me. Certainly this doesn’t matter that much but I can’t be further away from that mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:27 AM
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🤨You don’t think it’s worth caring about the future at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 11:43 PM
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I’m sorry to say but we are all like this unfortunately. Most of us are worse in fact. You should avoid getting involved with any man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 11:40 PM
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A lot of people are subscribed from when it was a default (maybe it still is)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 10:30 PM
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If I were a judge , personally that would go into the “she’s crazy and shouldn’t have the kids” box
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 10:27 PM
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Your math is terrible and ignores how abuse works. Most child abuse happens within the family so you can mostly disregard people doing childcare work. And it’s a major stretch to make that men would be abusing more children if they were staying home, since abuse is a crime that the same individuals are doing for a period of time itself. It’s not a crime of opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:52 AM
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News flash, the rich and successful guys you date after you’ve made it will trade your ass in just as quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:46 AM
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It was wrong of me to say I hate poor minorities. I meant I hate Poor Minorities! Poor Minorities is a category I made up that includes only poor minorities who complain about poverty or racism. No, wait! I can be even more charitable! A poor minority is only a Poor Minority if their compaints about poverty and racism come from a sense of entitlement. Which I get to decide after listening to them for two seconds. And If they don’t realize that they’re doing something wrong, then they’re automati…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 08:08 PM
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What if your type is bogan?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 03:36 AM
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What does that have to do with what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:09 AM
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I'm saying there are other factors that show women behind this that would refute the idea that women are disposable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:19 AM
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Surveys show more men want to remarry after divorce than women which I think explains that trend. This is in addition to the fact that about 70% of divorces are initiated by the woman. . I’m not sure how these stats would fit into your narrative but I’m interested to hear what you have to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 11:28 PM
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It’s definitely not a death sentence and I would encourage autistic men and women who want to be social to not give up. But it really is tough when you learn social skills a lot slower than other people and so much of socialization is built on things you learned earlier in life
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 11:10 PM
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A lot of people here say the most absurd things about what autism is like and how it works. I think these people don’t like that it’s a good excuse and not a personal failure to have no dating success, so they desperately try to come up with rationalizations for why it is in fact a personal failure..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 10:56 PM
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Are you personally autistic by chance? Because I’m telling you this ostracizing begins extremely early and doesn’t get better for a lot of reasons. And never suffering consequences for autistic behavior, isn’t one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 10:53 PM
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Yeah and it’s sound advice to calm down if you are upset. That mean it’s not rude and dismissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 10:49 PM
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What does the gender of an autistic person have to do with getting your feelings hurt?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 10:47 PM
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How is it excused if they get socially ostracized for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 10:43 PM
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I think there is probably a lot more people lying about being happy in their relationship than the existence of the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:35 AM
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100% boring and awkward personality. Not to sound arrogant, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 10:15 PM
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Lettuce . I actually ate a whole head of lettuce over two days recently as I try to cut weight
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 02:01 AM
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I think what’s a lot more common rich old men going for 18 year olds is men in their mid 30’s to early 40’s who were busy building their career dating women between 24 and 29 so they can have kids and a few year honeymoon period before jumping into that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 11:39 PM
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I think she deserves her freedom, but there is something extremely injust that the person she got to kill her mom is going to rot until he dies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 06:21 AM
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Thanks for the advice. It's definitely not over, but it's hard to not feel like I'm running trying to run up an escalator sometimes if that makes sense. I do meet a lot more people these days but I'm honestly shocked at how uncommon single women are in all my social circles. Honestly, was kind of in a shitty mood when I started this convo, so forgive me. .
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 06:11 AM
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26
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:49 AM
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If it was pure inexperience, hiding this fact would be enough. If I was just trying to hook up, I would have no problem lying about this. But I'm really trying to date more seriously and truthfully I'm a pretty bad liar. But the problem is in a lack of skills, is it? I believe that is what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:39 AM
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It's a reflection of behavior I guess. And what do you think the solution to that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:33 AM
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If I could completely unfuck my past, I would. But there is no amount of therapy or anything else that will give me a time machine to do that. And the end result is no experience, and because of that I'm going to be seen a certain way by most people no matter what until that is fixed. I see what you are getting at, you want to make me see it's not actually the lack of experience but something else related, but really at the end of the day it is the lack of experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:25 AM
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The root problem is being inexperienced. I'm trying to work on it, but it's like squeezing blood from a rock and I'm not getting any younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:07 AM
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Yeah… and it really hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:02 AM
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Not him, but it's the expectation of having some experience that increases exponentially with age thats really a killer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 04:39 AM
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Nothing we do will ever be enough for people like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 04:37 AM
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You know I’ve never considered it a chore at all to be a supportive person to friends and family who were down. Even if it was a bit of a long rough steak. It certainly doesn’t feel close to anything I would consider labor at all. I really can’t get into the empathize with these people going on about how much “emotional labor” they do for their partner because he is sad sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 10:06 PM
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I suppose it depends on what rules you are talking about, but the whole process for bandwidth allocation is pretty important and without it our use of the electromagnetic spectrum would not be as reliable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:43 AM
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How exactly are they like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:24 AM
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A story in 2 parts
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:09 PM
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No that’s women that love making their partner feel insecure when they make more than them, because they feel they are doing his job when that happens. Not saying there aren't men that do this too, but its' probably more common in relationships when women make more than when men make more.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:44 PM
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I agree it should be brought up early, but I think people don’t know how to do it in a way that doesn’t sound weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 12:38 AM
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If she wants children still. It's not exactly a representative sample, but the single moms I see on dating apps are 50/50 on whether they want more kids or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 05:32 AM
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Most people want to have their own children, and most people don’t plan on dealing with a child in the relationship right out of the gate. It’s really that simple. I have to disagree that single moms are less picky as a rule as well. It might be true for some but many are even more picky because it was a lack of caution that led to them having that child in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 12:16 AM
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I never consider this before but now that I think about it, it explains just how many weird names I see on dating apps but never in real life. Not sure what you consider significant but it’s really confused me some days. I’ve definitely seen people spoofing their location before. The most annoying thing about that is that it’s always an only fans promotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 07:26 PM
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Try and support her through the pregnancy, but if it continues for a few months after giving. Birth have an honest conversation about what is going on. If the answer seems to be there is no reason for the change make it clear that it’s not going to continue
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:17 PM
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I’ve heard both from Reddit (that it’s not important or even good to not share hobbies/ you should have them in common) so much I don’t know what to believe. I’m logically inclined to think that sharing hobbies is important, but I hear the other sentiment so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 07:54 PM
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As low as 2 kids depending on his moral convictions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 11:16 PM
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You would have to be working part time or less for a career woman I think
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 11:12 PM
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I dont think every video of someone complaining about their life is fake. I don’t even know who this is, but I’ve been shown probably a hundred different things with this same idea by now from people here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 10:52 PM
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I’ve been guilty before for sure. In my defense, a lot of you could be getting your points across with a lot less text.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 11:44 PM
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Why are your friends with low value males that can’t pay for dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 12:21 AM
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9/10 times I see some of these posts that are supposed to show just how much prettier makeup makes someone/ demonstrate that men can’t tell when women wear make up… I honestly think they look just as good with or without it, and it’s usually not too hard to tell
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:29 PM
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Okay, so you just aren't that bright.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 04:21 AM
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What’s with the obsession of the 19-21 bmi range? I thought healthy was 18.5-24.5
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:52 AM
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This really depends. I think almost every guy has some range they are comfortable with. Most have a limit of not taller than them (though this has almost no effect on their options since even more women have the inverse standard). Beyond that though I don’t think most guys have a problem dating women up to a foot shorter than them. A lot have preferences for talker or shorter but that can be highly negotiable for most.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 10:09 PM
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Based. I Love tall women, and I’m only a little above average
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 10:05 PM
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I would just buy a book on it, and do some research to make it reputable. I don't think you will be able to get out of reading for this one, but I know there has to be some really good books on the topic if you look.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:33 AM
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I'm serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:44 AM
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You got him there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:42 AM
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Well, even without the /s, in any other crowd it would be easy to tell, but there are actually people here that think it’s better when men cheat, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:31 AM
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It’s really hard to tell on this sub sometimes so forgive me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:17 AM
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The ability to marry people outside of your financial bracket is almost always a one way street in favor of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:15 AM
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Disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:08 AM
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I guess I know why 17 year olds aren’t allowed to vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:07 AM
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You’re not wrong, but you aren’t any better than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 10:40 PM
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I can see this topic is really important to you, but you don’t need to be a dick about it for a misunderstanding,
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 10:37 PM
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Well I regret apologizing to you, you clearly didn’t deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 10:27 PM
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Maybe you should have a better attitude towards my question dined clearly a lot of people can’t understand what the fuck you are actually talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 10:19 PM
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I see now your more trying to discuss this so I apologize for my snark, but can you not see how ridiculous an idea it is that just because are stronger, that there are a lot of reasons they can’t fight back? This is exactly like questioning why a woman didn’t even try to fight when she was raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:56 PM
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Yes. Your brain is 0. Glad you can recognize this
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:51 PM
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Yeah men should just beat the shit out of a woman assaulting or coercing him. This couldn’t possibly have unintended consequences. So many brilliant and novel ideas we get on this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:29 PM
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This is a really gross post.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:28 PM
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Then maybe she will realize her deal is objectively good
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:19 PM
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Despite his condition he was always a very sexual person, and even had an affair while married to his first wife (she was also having an affair for that matter). He was of course completely passive for his sexual encounters
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 01:18 AM
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Can’t wait till his account gets suspended (again). Don’t even care if that’s a joke, for other reasons too this person is a douche.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:29 AM
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Be as successful as you can, and don’t give them the time of day when they come crawling back. Or make them beg if you feel like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:00 AM
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What do they think fossils actually are?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:58 PM
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Your actual wrists are only going to grow minimally from your tendons getting thicker. There is virtually no muscle at the actual wrist (with the exception of the small pronator quadratus muscle). If you max out gains for your forearm though you shouldn't worry too much about your forearm size.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:38 PM
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When I use the apps, as a guy I get asked a lot what my snap is. It’s just how some people message eachother
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:12 AM
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I heard some Mediterranean countries it’s more common, but i can’t confirm that, and really your mileage will vary a lot depending on what kind of person you are
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:10 AM
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I disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 11:59 PM
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Hpv isn’t herpes and there is no herpes vaccine yet. I haven’t heard of any studies showing HPV vaccine has protective benefits against the herpes simplex virus but I could be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:46 PM
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In a day in age when men no longer need to fight other physically for resources, why would women choosing taller men be good for the benefit of the human race when being taller is correlated with increased risk for a number or health issues, and overall live shorter lives than shorter people? I ask this specifically because someone made a post yesterday saying some men shouldn't reproduce and women choosing taller men is bettering humanity. I don't actually agree with this eugenicist crap at all…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 07:30 PM
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This idea really misses the mark and applies modern standards of thought to the Middle Ages. People joined the clergy for all kinds for reasons, most way more common than just being an incel. Among them were a want to serve god and guarantee a spot in heaven, to gain influence, and to do something that was seen by everyone as extremely honorable. Keep in mind also that a lot of clergy married throughout the Middle Ages, against the wishes of the Catholic Church.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 11:57 PM
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At least for height it’s just because with short women being chosen, women end up being carriers for our genetic refuse (at least what they would consider to be genetic garbage)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 11:50 PM
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Have you seen the people women choose to reproduce with? If you are going to argue some people men shouldn’t reproduce to advance the species, surely you have to acknowledge with all the women picking dead beats, drug dealers, violent people, stock swindlers etc, that they aren’t great at driving our evolution?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 11:48 PM
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Your comment is a total misrepresentation of that post and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:49 AM
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I think the real question is if you should try to shoot above your leaguer.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 02:49 AM
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Look, if people have to experience one or the other long enough they will forget how bad the other option is. I don’t think it’s much more complicated than that. I also have to object to point. If someone can’t leave a relationship because they are terrified, how can you possibly know they prefer it to be alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 02:49 AM
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I mean I do t think I could cut my patents off forever, but that is pretty good of yours. I would definitely make them wait to meet her.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 01:05 AM
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If real, take this as an invitation to be really petty with them in the future when you do get one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 11:43 PM
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I will excuse it in this situation. I just think it’s fucked up she got a mentally challenged person to do it and he will be in prison for life, while she gets to be free.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 09:43 PM
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This is broadly true about most groups. The elderly are more paranoid about crime even though they are less likely to be victimized than other age groups. I think a lot of it comes down to real differences as well as perceived differences in helplessness if you were to be victimized.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 09:30 PM
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Hard pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 09:25 PM
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Is this some meta joke where you pretend this person isn’t being sarcastic and get angry at them?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:57 PM
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At least you can splash around in the ocean if the sun is bearing down on you out at sea.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:49 PM
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No your business decides how many they will give you paid an unpaid off for the occasion. The government often sets a minimum companies have to provide to their employees in some countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:45 PM
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Is doing a job you don’t like supposed to be enjoyable
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:44 PM
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My mom growing up had really high standards for how clean the house should be. On one hand I appreciate that the house was the cleanest of any of my friends, but on the the other it caused way too much stress when the expectations weren’t met. So I buy that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 12:08 AM
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I would have hoped one of the things apps would be good is for connecting people with similar odd interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:05 PM
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If her only options are short and not a loser, or attractive people that will mistreat her, she might at least learn to be happy single if she goes to therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:14 AM
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She should go to therapy to figure out why she thinks like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:10 AM
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Men being settled far far more common than getting a relationship by cajoling a woman into dating someone they aren't attracted to. Edit: I don't think you are being bad faith, but you seem to really misunderstand what exactly men here are worried about and the nuance that goes into this particular fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:58 AM
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What is that "activity" exactly? Trying to date at all when you are undesirable?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:54 AM
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Yeah the deadbeats some women keep dating could be a lot worse. They could be someone capable of holding down a job and not making her cry once a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:53 AM
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No one has ever struggled to date before.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:51 AM
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I don't think this makes her the only honest person in this thread, but we know damn well everyone else who has done this before is sitting this thread out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:38 AM
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They aren't asking women to date people they aren't attracted to, they are wondering why tf their standards never include them, especially when those same standards evidently do include lots of people that are way worse than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:33 AM
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Way I see it, calling autistic people lazy for not socializing enough is like chiding a 70 year old for not being in good shape. Sure he could workout enough to be in good shape, enough to look fairly good even. But the effort is way more than for a 20 year old, it hurts way more to do it, and even if he does it religiously he will never be as fit as a 20 year old who puts in less effort. And can you really blame the 70 year old for not wanting to try? Even though he laments the feebleness of hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:20 AM
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Way I see it, calling autistic people lazy for not socializing enough is like chiding a 70 year old for not being in good shape. Sure he could workout enough to be in good shape, enough to look fairly good even. But the effort is way more than for a 20 year old, it hurts way more to do it, and even if he does it religiously he will never be as fit as a 20 year old who puts in less effort. And can you really blame the 70 year old for not wanting to try? Even though he laments the feebleness of hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:57 AM
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Way I see it, calling autistic people lazy for not socializing enough is like chiding a 70 year old for not being in good shape. Sure he could workout enough to be in good shape, enough to look fairly good even. But the effort is way more than for a 20 year old, it hurts way more to do it, and even if he does it religiously he will never be as fit as a 20 year old. And can you really blame the 70 year old for not wanting to try? Even though he laments the feebleness of his old age to people who …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:54 AM
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That happens for every big meme tbf
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:03 AM
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I’ll be a little fair and point out most Redditors post a couple times a week or month at most. That wouldn’t be bad. An obsessive Redditor though… 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:03 AM
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“It’s okay if you struggle with dating now, if you just be the sweet dependable guy you will eventually find someone for you :)”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 02:23 AM
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Firstly talk about an edge case. Secondly, If you are that exceptional in Samoa why you have a problem dating other people that exceptional in Samoa? Do you think k the fit women there are going to be into the average heavy weights on the islands? A lot of Samoan men who are overweight have that power lifter build going on so they might get more mileage then most people with their weight, but still like normally attracts like.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 11:38 PM
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I think a non overweight partner for someone who is also not overweight and is active is pretty darn reasonable to ask for. As for what is average the obesity rate for people m, in addition to your age bracket you need to also consider where you live. My state is one of the least obese in the nation, and what is see is an even lower rare since I live in a city, in an more affluent part of town. So my actual peers probably aren’t overweight on average
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 09:31 PM
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Do you count time waiting for the washer and drier get done as time spent doing chores?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:11 PM
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I can and I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 03:19 PM
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Laundry literally took me 30 minutes at most yesterday and it I only have to do it once a week for just myself, not even running a full load here. Unless you are washing by hand it can’t possibly be that much, even with kids
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 07:57 AM
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I run into a lot more single women on dating apps than in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 12:28 AM
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Women liking rough sex more than men would be the more accurate generalization anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 12:12 AM
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To be fair to these people, I think these people mean they won’t be able to feel love for their future partner if they hook up too much, and love is obviously a crucial part of what we feel in a pair bond, and what keeps us together. But again, I don’t think these people really understand what pair bonding is and are misusing the term a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:19 AM
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Im not sure how this relates to my comment at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:07 AM
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Pair bonding is just the process of pairing off with another mate and being exclusive. It’s basically a scientific way to say “being a couple” that you can apply to animals as well. It doesn’t have to have any woo woo connotation to it, and those that think it does don’t understand the very scientific term and what it means
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:52 AM
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You really shouldn’t pay for the premium versions of these apps. Fundamentally i don’t believe they actually improve your chances much, and some say it actually in the long run will make your chances worse on the app. In short if you have a problem with luck dating apps, there are many ways to fix it, and paying for the premium will be way less helpful. I only bought premium bumble once for a week, because I saw a really good profile and accidentally swiped left and was so sick of that happening…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:05 PM
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It’s almost kafkaesque the way these people want guys to keep trying and failing without the option of quitting. I might be misreading what the comment was saying tbf.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:14 PM
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True, but so was the original article.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:01 PM
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No I just completely disagree that women do everything around the house all the time. I think it’s really over exaggerated and overstated for a lot of reasons. Of course their are a lot of dead beat dads, but there are a lot of dead beat moms too and that never gets talked about even though I’ve seen it with my own eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 12:08 AM
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All I’m saying is some of these women that say they change all the diapers must think their baby poops only twice a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 12:03 AM
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The way you phrase it basically confirms you and women that think like you mentally filter out and minimize all the stuff their husbands do around the house so that they can feel like they are doing more stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 10:49 PM
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Lots of make household labor is even more unnoticed
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 10:17 PM
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Sorry I had to type on my phone a bit quickly to make that comment, but it wasn’t my concern that some smarmy foreigner was going to question my English skills to show off that they know a second language. .
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 03:01 AM
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Don’t even pretend that the threshold for special treatment for men is any where close to where it is for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 02:18 AM
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Yes. Is it yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 02:13 AM
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The dating pool is not that bad. Maybe the poop of men asking people that out but there are plenty of good men out their. Don’t this this subreddit rot your developing brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 12:07 AM
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I don’t think female emancipation is the biggest factor in fertility decline. Iran is far from an emancipated place for women and it’s fertility rate is lower than America’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:48 PM
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Sounds exhausting
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:32 AM
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That’s not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:48 AM
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It feels like gaslighting when women insist I (as a guy) can't tell when they are wearing any. It's really not that hard to tell unless it's very subtle.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:45 AM
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Not sure what I was expecting from checking out /r/breakups, but that place is something
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 03:27 AM
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Don't even date at that point honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 03:15 AM
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If the risk is smaller it is in fact not just as real
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:46 AM
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I thought I did previously, but it looks like I didn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:10 PM
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Act really passive aggressive about the income difference, use it as leverage against me in arguments, decision making etc, and act with a general lack of respect towards me. Again I think it would be great to date someone making more money, but you have to filter out people that would act like this
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 05:00 PM
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Oh please, this person is telling us to our face what kind of person she is and you’re trying to come up with excuses for why it’s actually the match makers fault. If anything she has an imperative to make the match maker sound like an asshole and she couldn’t even manage that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:10 AM
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Why would she quit her job?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:05 AM
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I’m not intimidated by her income, I’m scared shitless of how she (in particular how she) would treat me for it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:03 AM
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He wasn’t just engaging in bigamy, he was banging married mens wives. It’s even been alleged that he would send men in his congregation on proselytizing missions and seduce their wives in their absence. Dude was a scoundrel
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 07:57 AM
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Taller absolutely. Not sure about the rest though I’m combination.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 07:54 AM
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Thats a much bigger risk for gay men and lesbian women dating bisexuals than for straight people dating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 03:05 AM
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I have to say, men getting dumped by their middle age wife for her best friend because they made the mistake of not being as homophobic as women are, is an even more ridiculous revenge fantasy than what some men here say the wall is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:53 AM
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Yeah because it’s a good point, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 12:56 AM
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It might have gone differently if he said the ex was very racist, but the way everyone else is sharing their story of dating people they knew were abusers of psychopaths in defense of her tells me it would be the same regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 10:31 PM
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Tribal Afghanistan.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 03:36 PM
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Certainly, but part of the issue is these guys sometimes were putting what should have been a bad foot forward, but it wasn’t seen as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 04:23 AM
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I really take for granted how nice it is that I'm not a jealous and envious person, at least in love. That sounds exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 06:18 AM
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Iv'e just noticed Injectadrenochrome is suspended again. Reddit is the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 07:57 AM
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I remember seeing my brother physically getting picked on and the kid running off and my brother crying. I think my first response was to comfort my brother but I don’t remember if I even did that, and part of me really regrets not chasing the kid and kicked his ass. He was a few grades above my brother but I was in middle school and it might have stopped it from happening again.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 01:45 AM
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Did you or did you not drop them down the shaft?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 06:01 PM
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It's kind of a drag reading these women lecture all men for the behavior of the douchebags they've hooked up with or dated.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:52 AM
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How tf do men just not need make up like women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 02:59 AM
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The first part happened, but the statement about when it became controversial is untrue, and I say this as someone that is pretty pro-choice. Abortion historically in America a was legal until the “quickening” when the babies movements could be felt since it was believed the fetus was not yet alive or had a soul. However starting in the early 1800’s more states started to outlaw abortion, as it was realized by physicians and scientists that the quickening didn’t have any bearing on the fetus act…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 10:49 PM
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I mean that relationship was not going to last the moment she got pregnant, unless she miscarried or the baby needed to be aborted.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 10:40 PM
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Q4All. It especially women: Are there foreign languages that a guy knowing would make him less desireable or interesting?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 09:12 PM
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At this point the bigger gaslight isn’t even the original lie, but the denial that nobody says literally all you need is a kind personality
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:11 AM
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The only time I ever hear about women having deeper more meaningful friendships than men is when the topic of lonely men comes up. Otherwise, Iv'e commonly heard many women wish their friendships could be more drama free and chill like men's are (not necessarily agreeing this is true all the time).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:55 PM
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On a slightly different note, women telling men here that they have deeper and more meaningful friendships that men do is a laughable crock of shit. Not saying women can’t be great friends and men can’t be terrible ones, but they can’t be serious when they say it. IN almost any context outside of these internet fights, you find women saying they wish their friendships were more drama free like men's.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 04:52 AM
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You don’t make money smoking it, you make money snorting it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 02:16 AM
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That’s sweet
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:26 PM
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Just report them to the mods since it’s against the rules and makes using the sub harder
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:24 PM
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That’s like a lesser form of trying to baby trap someone the way I see it. Pretty unfair to a sweet innocent animal and the receiver who is being guilted to keep it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:23 PM
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This is Extremely dependent on what they actually believe for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 10:06 PM
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He just looks short on stage in comparison to Krist Novoselic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 08:31 PM
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I agree with that too about the power thing, and I think couples should try to match each others energy, but my experience really confirms this thing about doing too much. Growing up my mom had really tough standards of cleanliness growing up. My house was cleaner than anyone else I knew, and while I appreciate that, my moms expectations and her reaction when they were not met caused everyone a lot of unnecessary stress.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:23 PM
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Okay I see you are starting from the perspective that because women give birth, 50/50 is never fair. I can kind of see what you mean but, pregnancy can easily be factored into going 50/50z. I think it’s perfectly fair for a man to offer a lot of support and do more than his share of chores while a woman is pregnant and while she is recovering, and if possible to take 3 months of leave or whatever he is entitled to from his work or government, to make it easier on the wife (let this go through th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:12 PM
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Why should a man pay most of the bills if you are both working?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:04 PM
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I count marriage sort of differently. I’m mostly referring to problems lonely people who have trouble keeping people around or interested (or finding interest at all had). And cheating is pretty universally hated Reddit (as it is elsewhere)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 09:37 PM
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Its really strange how reddit and redditors are very reserved about giving sympathy to guys sharing their dating struggles, especially since its something that is so universally felt by men at least at some point in their lives. reddit can give a lot of unquestioning sympathy to pretty much everything else, but personal posts from men about dating problems are often going to get picked apart and psychoanalyzed by weirdos trying to find out why it's all your fault and you deserve it. I think this…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 05:12 PM
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They should try fixing a put together but low confidence guy instead for a change. It might work a lot better even though it doesn’t fit a romantic ideal they have about taming someone rough around the edges
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:43 PM
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Young men thinking on their own by listening to YouTubers for their opinions. This is what thinking on your own is these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 09:57 PM
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You couldn’t pay me to date someone who thinks like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 07:41 AM
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Strange, I thought you told men didn’t actually like tall women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 07:15 AM
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Terrible, even incorrect opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 07:12 AM
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I feel like this could have been written by me at your age, with the weight, height and even marathon running being identical to me. But honestly, even putting on weight and moved to weight lifting after really bad ITBS, the lack of interest hasn’t changed (yet). Maybe this won’t apply to you, but In hind sight there were definitely people that found me attractive, but I had no social life and was really awkward. If I could have gone back, I would have tried being more outgoing first before body…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 07:11 AM
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It’s happened here before, believe it’s or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 06:50 AM
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I would rather just trust my vaccination than ever use something so corny looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 06:48 AM
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Sphinx cats aren’t always totally hairless. Especially the tails might have some hair. My cat sits for this family sometimes who has two sphinxes. One is completely hairless except for scraggly hair on the tail. The other has really short hair. So short you can see all the folds of its skin still, but it feels very different from the other when you pet her
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:20 AM
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Might be getting the name wrong, but she had the same reindeer looking reddit avatar, and what you’ve said sounds very similar to things she would say.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:25 PM
1

Did ice ordinary make a new account?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 06:38 AM
1

Bitterness is natural for a lot of people given their circumstances. Maybe it’s annoying but I don’t get why people act like bitterness (and self pity for that matter) are the worst things in the world s person could be
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:50 PM
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Lot of it is all cap. They still want the benefits of relationships. Subconsciously, it will affect their decision making
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:55 AM
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Many will drag some other poor, low confidence guy who doesn’t know he can do better, into their life who will have the displeasure of being with them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:42 AM
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Thought this post seemed absurd even for this sub, and it all clicked when I saw who OP was
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:40 AM
1

Bill Burr has said that when he was on the market, he was terrible at picking up chicks in clubs but was really good at getting numbers from chicks riding the subway. I guess everyone has their talents
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:35 PM
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No, that’s idiotic. Who doesn’t want a partner making a quarter million a year? She can get in line with everyone else. Maybe her looks will make it a lot easier but she isn’t entitled to anyone making any amount of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:32 PM
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Serious advice for guys that want to intervene in a domestic right in front of them. There is a very high chance it will turn into a two-one fight with you against the abuser and his partner. And when I say very high chance, I don’t even mean something like 10% or 20% where it probably won’t happen but still might so it’s risky. I mean it’s like a coin flip whether this happens or not
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 09:35 PM
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It’s not super hard to work seasonally at Costco, but being kept on afterwards is more challenging
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:00 AM
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I think there is a lot of ground between her and Stacy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 06:15 PM
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They only constantly try to remind us that the patriarchy actually hurts everyone and is responsible for a lot of men’s issues too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:04 AM
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You could spend literally every waking hour flirting and socializing until your lower jaw fell off and if after that you didn’t have success, people here would ask why you haven’t learned sign language yet. I think your problem is probably fixable, but people here really don’t understand what it’s like to struggle socially, or they will pretend their extremely normal process of learning how to socialize (one that everyone goes through growing up) that involves some awkwardness makes them an expe…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:02 AM
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Yeah. The other side of this idea that men are jealous or insecure of their partners success, is that women often resent that their partners are not fulfilling their role m when they earn less than them, and that women often see making lots of money as a means to an end to find someone who makes even more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:43 PM
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At least for some guys that’s putting the cart before the horse
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:35 PM
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I hear the term a lot, used more in lower class setting but certainly not exclusively. Baby daddy too for that matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 07:29 PM
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Sounds like OP just doesn’t care much about love. Projection is common on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 08:00 AM
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That’s you in this chat tbf
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 07:57 AM
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I’m not eleven sure what not looking means since most women wait to be asked out anyways? I don’t think most women who would say they “aren’t looking” are refusing all dates and hookups because they love being single but just going with the flows. But what do I know
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 07:06 AM
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I know that’s what you think the problem is, and that men only care about sex, you’ve said as much elsewhere. But if you out aside your thoughts on it already, it’s not hard to see it there are way more problems with being a late late bloomer.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:53 AM
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Way easier said than done, and that goes for women too in the same situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:08 AM
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Seeing a prostitute to fix being a virgin is possibly some of the worst dating advise I can imagine. It solves almost none of the actual problems with being a mid twenties virgin while creating even more you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:53 PM
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Not wrong, but people advise it as solution to people to feel less heartache over no gf
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:29 PM
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Loneliness from not having friends vs not a partner feel very different. How is the advice to just get friends supposed to fix the latter? Do women really perceive them as completely the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:18 PM
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Clam jamming
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:12 PM
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Probably dead average for america
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:36 AM
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Americans just like free shit. We are actually addicted to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:43 AM
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Qveen shit
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:38 AM
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That first thing is really weird lol. But I think some gay guys sometimes get turned on by fucking straight men, and you know it possibly works once in a blue moon
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:25 AM
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I’ve read a lot about how polygamy works in. In practice, it seems really gross and normally bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:24 AM
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I'm sorry, but people can't make something happen for you if it relies upon another third party (potential gf) having to do something for you (be your gf). There is no guarantee to make someone your gf. How can you say people don't care when you are asking for something that doesn't exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:44 PM
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There were 2 studies I found on this. One sort of came to that conclusion, the other one also did, but the results had to be pulled because they made a mistake where they counted people who dropped out of the study as having broke up. After correcting for that they found virtually no difference between the two.. So you have one study saying it happens and another saying it doesn't. Take what you will from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:33 PM
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On your end, it might not be the same, but the difference in the headspace of someone posting about how miserable they are, and someone posting about how they are going to do an hero... might be almost the same if not identical sometimes. It might behoove some people to try to be a little more mindful of the people you are laughing at.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:30 PM
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Getting a little tired of people saying a man wrote all these negative stories. It confirms everything people say about the sub that 2x gobbles up these stories all the time and says exactly what you would expect them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:20 PM
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Sure. Sounds almost of sweet actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:25 AM
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Two really imprint questions. First, can we do the deed (possibly not a deal breaker)? and for the really important one... Can we be together after I die?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:11 AM
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It helps me kill the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:09 AM
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If one persons needs don’t change but the other changes to not want to fulfill them at all, it’s perfectly reasonable to split up if nothing else works, kids or no kids. This is ignoring that I don’t think it’s actually that common for them to charge for literally no reason at all other than growing older. But even if it was, I won’t blame anyone for wanting to get out if their partner is no longer get attracted to them. A lot of these relationships will have other serious problems along the way…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 02:21 AM
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What are they doing exactly in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 12:32 AM
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It’s pretty normal for women to vent for their partners and not want help, even if it’s about the saner high over and over a lysine. Is that not emotional immaturity? I think this is a large part about what is confusing guys, that many women do this but hate even a fraction of it in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:01 PM
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That’s not one’s actual voice though and it’s likea lot of strain to maintain it low. Not really like singing I don’t think.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:33 PM
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Is this lipstick alley? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:15 PM
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Oh come on, be a good sis and help your brother to be fruitful and multiply
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:14 AM
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I don’t condone acting like that, but i don’t think it’s hard to see why the positivity can be grating if you know it doesn’t mean anything
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:11 AM
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The physician assisted suicide was long after that to be fair, but she did get severely depressed and blamed the difference in her experience on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:04 AM
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Major doubt on that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:31 PM
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They got their own problems to deal with
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:59 PM
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There are a few especially if you include the discord
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:57 PM
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Can they really be considered to be bringing more to the table then? To men that think that way at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:57 PM
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If there is one thing happy people tend to do all the time, it's remind everyone else around them about how happy they are, often unsolicited.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:10 PM
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It's really shocking how people can't even admit this exists, especially since women just complain about the same things over and over again, all week long... but guys can't even let their guard down once.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:05 PM
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He did nothing wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:52 PM
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A lot of ppl here say men need to accept that women’s sexual proclivities can change and a woman who used to hook up every weekend is now different and wants to wait 6 months to have sex. So bring it up with then.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:48 PM
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Individual neighborhoods don’t always have stable age dynamics. People get old, and young people aren’t moving in.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 05:23 PM
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In that case, this must be the juicero of dating apps. It can’t work at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:22 AM
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it’s going to give women more control over their dating prospects Bruh, how much more control can women have over their prospects on dating apps. I mean I guess this is one way, but seriously? 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:19 AM
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Those are the jobs I primarily work, and I’ve not seen it happen
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:16 AM
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Eww, people are gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:49 PM
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I’ve never seen anyone get fired for getting pregnant ever. Though I mostly worked at large companies (not necessarily good one through) where everything is above board. Have you actually spent much time in the work force yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:00 AM
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I’m sorry but you have been banned from dating. You will now be an inkwell for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:58 AM
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Don’t most schools have resource officers for this kind of nonsense (among other things)?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:56 AM
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I’m kind of shocked at how many people need alcohol to act fun and uninhibited. I used to think I was really uninhibited until I realized this about people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 08:03 PM
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While my abstaining certainly ain’t helping my chances, a lot of incels are pretty hardcore alcoholics. It isn’t as simple as just drink, but in a social setting, and a lot of people are successful without using that venue to meet people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 08:00 PM
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A large number of men and women are variously damaged in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 07:57 PM
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It’s not super underrated, but I see people talk about the deadlift as though it’s only a strength exercise, when that doesn’t make any sense. It’s also probably the best exercise for the large lower back muscles, and forearms which can be hard to work out (not to mention it will build glutes, quads, and traps).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:17 AM
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Adultery should not just be legal it should be mandatory
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:04 PM
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I think mirrors are more accurate because they better imitate our binocular vision while cameras do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:50 AM
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Yes about them being women, though a fair number of app users are married men (and women). They just need the occasional flirt to feel good, or they might just be on the fence about cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:08 AM
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Iv’e personally gotten dates on the apps, but there are people I have matched with who I feel likely haven’t met anyone on the app
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:06 AM
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There are studies that show a significant percent of people on dating apps aren’t even really that interested in dating, or have no intention to date at all. There are a few reasons this could be, but I think two of the biggest are people just sort of like the attention. I think also some of the women on the apps for years have a lot of hang up around commitment or entering relationships in general
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 06:32 PM
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You did nothing wrong the second time
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:41 AM
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It’s a classic ppd female strategy to make sex as a whole sound like some disgusting, uncivilized act that in one comment, then pretend they actually like sex in another depending on what argument they are trying to make
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:36 AM
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If they need everything to be paid to give you their time, I don’t think they were very interested to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:05 PM
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You know what, I think I actually have heard this a few times, at least that personality is more important and could make up for bad looks. I feel like I’ve heard that expressed a lot actually
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 06:44 AM
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lol, I actually get Vyvanse legally every month but I need that shit. Regularly skipping it just so I can give it away is definitely not worth it all things considered.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:37 PM
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A lot of the women here who truly think all men suck have a terrible relation with the male gender because they are addicted to dating shitheads and refuse to admit it or realize it. I don’t care if people are going to disagree with me, it’s just true.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:26 AM
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Yeah, in a humility contest of everyone on this sub, I’m pretty sure I would come in third place.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:17 PM
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Time to start deadlifting son
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:12 PM
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Being too perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:07 PM
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Because there is no where else for them to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 03:26 AM
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So can tradesmen
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 03:23 AM
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Not so much the misogyny, but the conclusion that girls don't want short guys... comes from the experience of short guys trying to date, especially since many of them are going into dating with less confidence from the previous 15, 16 years of being treated differently for being short. Obviously not every short guy will struggle, but at the end of the day, people aren't born with low confidence, or with misogynisitc ideas. It's developed early on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:49 AM
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That is a huge goal post shift. How is not the standard of not being overweight the same thing as looking like a porn star?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:57 AM
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The whole "women hate me cause I'm short" or "women are all stuck up and liars" is why exactly why you aren't succeeding with women. You got the order of events backwards on how this happens dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:50 AM
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I see people that heavy who have to be close to that age every day at my job. Really, you don’t think there are any people at 300 lb age 69 and over? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:45 AM
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Definitely not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:34 AM
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I’ve said several times before on their sub, that woman love the idea of men that are projects, but only if that means trying to domesticate a “bad boy” (can refer to someone who is just a player to full on criminals as long as they didn’t rape or murder someone), not make good guy more confident. And at that, the fantasy is that he chooses to change because this he loves his woman so much, he literally can’t help but be better under her influence, so it’s not even really a real project.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:53 PM
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Coconut rhinoceros beetle larvae, very nutritious 😋😋😋
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 10:28 PM
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Certainly an overreaction to block someone for just being wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:20 PM
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You have to voice you dissatisfaction with dating in an extremely particular way if you don’t want to get dog pilled by these people. Even very well written posts about you mr dating problems on this site will get people trying to psychoanalyze you based on the few paragraphs you wrote to explain why it’s all your fault and why you are a piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 01:13 AM
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I would rather die a virgin and not even see another woman for the rest of my life than be either person in his relationship. Or be with anyone that would date chrischan.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 06:46 AM
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Maybe like 1/10 of the men I see out in public dress like you describe and half of them are doing it for work or church
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 12:57 AM
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It’s reasonable to gain some weight when you get pregnant, but some people I know after getting pregnant and having their first kid were like 100 lbs heavier and didn’t loose any weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:27 PM
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I looked at them and they don’t make any sense or are a huge stretch.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:04 PM
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I’m agnostic on the existence of an afterlife, but I feel like this could be turned around and thought of as “no matter what, we are all heading to the same place”. At least that’s helped me come to terms with the inevitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 08:15 PM
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Explain how someone that died in their sleep doesn’t die alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 08:10 PM
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I’m sorry but this doesn’t explain anything aside, and I’m even more convinced it’s a completely idiotic and valid statement to make that completely misses the point of people not wanting to die alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:28 PM
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Can someone explain what “everyone dies alone” means when it’s so obviously not true in the literal sense, and many people die in their sleep in their own home, or in a hospital not long after being visited by family?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:23 PM
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My grandmother was 80 and 5 years younger than my grandfather when she went to sleep and had a massive stroke she never woke up from. “Always” is way too strong of a statement
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:02 PM
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Men can only approach women that look old.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:10 PM
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I think people in college are going to be pretty understanding of someone being totally inexperienced at that point. After you graduate though you are really running behind, an d more people will see it as a red flag. Exceptions apply of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:25 PM
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Yeah I’m living that right now and it sucks. This isn’t even just the juice not being worth the squeeze, it’s like trying to squeeze blood from a stone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:22 PM
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Missing out on college dating and teen/high school dating is many times worse than just missing out on teen dating
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:11 PM
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I agree. The other side is always really sweet to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 04:36 PM
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I remember in one of the posts asking guys about their experiences opening up to their girlfriends, and a lot of people were saying to those guys that they dodged a bullet to guys who said their girlfriend lost attraction soon after and broke up. Seriously, some of the people getting the dodged a bullet were dating 2, 3, even 6 years. They didn't dodge a bullet, they took a bullet right in the chest.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 04:23 PM
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In any other context aside from the one where you people try to win arguments here, trying to be friends with women with the intention of dating them would be considered slimy, nice guy behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 03:25 AM
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Bumble has been my best by far. I’ve gotten one date out of binge, but 0 out of tinder so I agree it’s the worst that being said.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:01 PM
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I try hard if I’m helping strangers or customers to put a smile on my face and not burden them with my actual emotions if they are negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:58 AM
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I don’t mean to sound dismissive, but I hope you are feeling okay right now .
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:50 AM
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The only lazy immigrant latinos I met were working in fast food, but that is generally where a lot of extremely people end up working. The better one's (most of them) just end up working in construction or in traditional restaurants (or any number of other businesses).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:41 AM
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Yeah as long as it’s you who gets to decide who votes it probably sounds like a good idea to restrict everyone else, doesn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:22 AM
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I can’t look into the moss heads, but I would guess it’s because frank discussion about being short would inevitably get the sub banned for inkwell cone t.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:04 AM
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People re going to deny this, but there were always a huge number of posts on the sub that were basically guides on how to emotionally abuse your girlfriend to make her more pliable. I don’t think this is the only thing you can take away from the sub, but clearly a lot of people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:01 AM
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Missed you babe
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:46 PM
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For someone reason people will deny how important it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:26 PM
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I song which animals are most closely related to us as a basis for natural human behavior isn’t going to be accurate. Gibbons which are the next closest related animals to us after the great apes mate for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:00 AM
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I was never cool and someone gave me an invite into one of their spin off servers. For what it’s worse, I mostly just use it as a test audience for memes I’m worried are too trash to post in the main one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:55 AM
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Some fine top down writing 👩‍🍳😘
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:52 AM
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I dont think an equal number of men and women want to be CEO’s either
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:54 PM
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How long were Gisele Bundchen and Tom Brady married?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:39 PM
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A large amount of chronic back pain I believe is related to deconditioned/atrophied back muscles after being sedentary from previous back injuries.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:30 PM
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Giraffe and I don’t have a least favorite
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:25 PM
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If you wouldn’t enter a one sided cuckold relationship, you are a volcel.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:11 PM
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Is there a good way to bring that up without making it sound like I’m totally broke?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:57 PM
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I think a lot of people will end up meeting someone before that happens tbh. And often not after they realize they can be happy alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:55 PM
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Straight from the twox horses mouth. What I like about this one is that she is so close to realizing these women are outliers and for whatever reason, they are just unlucky. But instead she decides men today must be even worse than the ones who grew up 60 years ago and were more sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:22 PM
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I read this sub/Reddit often and I almost cry when young women report this. I'm just into my 60s and most guys from my generation were not like this. (Not saying they didn't have their own issues! But it was more the generation we lived in.) I am quite surprised women haven't just started communes. 5-8 women renting out a big house, living their lives, raising their kids WITHOUT men (except for sperm donation) entirely. It would be SO nice! Amy could watch Beth's kids while she works, Camille ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:10 PM
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It’s the backlash to the dawning realization that we don’t actually need them. It’s making their insecurities worse, and men with low emotional IQs and little ability to self-examine react by trying to assert more control. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:24 PM
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It's just a way women try to make them seem like the better person for being hypergamous,
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:26 AM
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For me, it's annoying having only first dates where the expectation living in America is that I have to pay for that when I'm not going to see them again, for no other reason than I'm definitely not seeing them again if I don't. If I was in a relationship and paying for everything, I would talk about it, and if nothing changed just find someone else. But how can I even have a relationship without having a first date? I mean the last person I went out with was a nurse, and she probably made twice…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:16 AM
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I mean the ego of women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 01:31 AM
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Are you a ruralcel?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 12:26 AM
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I see what you are looking for now. Having the visual stimuli right in front of you without having to imagine anything makes it easier to get off. And there is a lot to cater to whatever you want, from the mundane to the… not mundane
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 12:25 AM
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Since this sub seems to have adopted you, my advise is to talk to your teacher about how to make it up. That could buy you more time and leniency if they think you are sincere.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:43 PM
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Talk to you teacher about how to fix this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:40 PM
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People just like it and feel like something they like is under attack. Why not just also ban television while we are at it since no one really needs it to be entertained and it makes people dumber. What does television bring to the table that is so significant?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:39 PM
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How tall are of I may ask? I’ve heard of you are tall it gets complimented a lot, but I’m 5’11 and have not experienced this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:33 PM
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Nice long hair really is a multiplier for men. I know a lot of women won’t date for my hair (and they aren’t women I would be interested in either normally), but at the same time it is by far most complimented feature.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 09:43 PM
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If good looking men struggle, they probably have something wrong with them or the way they go about it. Could be terrible shyness or social anxiety, being in the wrong crowd, having a bad reputation, etc. but it’s not because of ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 09:40 PM
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There are many things wrong with this video, so I will just say that, a good cardio regime is healthier than any amount of weight training you can do if you want to have a long life where you be mobile and active for decades longer than your peers. And I say this as an avid weightlifter
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:24 PM
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I would think AI girlfriends would reduce supply of men for actual women, and though it’s mostly people they wouldn’t want to begin with I could see it having an effect if it was widespread. Huge if though, I don’t think they will be very popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 10:21 PM
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If some woman really thought she was doing me a favor by responding to my messages (because she had so many others she could be entertaining), the rest can have her honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:19 PM
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“Wow, did you really just use a choice of words I personally find gross and offensive online? No wonder you struggle with women.”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:17 PM
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You know I’ve never really understood that some people need to date others that have X feature to feel a certain way about themselves. I know a lot of women also like taller guys because makes them feel feminine, and some guys like short women because they feel masculine. To me as a guy, I know in my head that if I date someone a certain height, it won’t actually make me taller or shorter. I will still be 5’11 either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 04:52 PM
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Therapy works for women because they are an emotional mess. Have you talked to any of the people here before? You guys aren't the picture of emotional stability regardless of whether or not all your problems are internal or external. Therapy works excellently for them because their problems are simply emotional imbalances. They already have a great life; they just need someone to reassure them of it. I don't think you really understand what therapy is like then. it's fine if you don't want to go…
/r/AllPillDebate30/09/23 03:59 AM
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Your probably only one of like 3 women who comment there, if some of the other people here were active over there they would have an aneurysm
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 03:40 AM
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This probably won’t sound like a compliment, but you arent even bad, by relative or absolute measures. There are a lot of women (and men) that are worse here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 02:43 AM
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We’re witnessing live as women create more hoops for beta to jump through that chad won’t even know were there.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:24 AM
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here you go. Maybe you wouldn’t consider this to be rape if it happened to a man… but I would hope you would apply that same standard if it happened to a woman then.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 11:12 PM
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I wonder how these women would feel if their hypothetical son or younger brother was the target of a sexual predator like that. Probably wouldn’t seem so funny to them anymore I imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 11:07 PM
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So you have the kids being forced to do something against their nature by sitting still in their classroom... so why do most kids not get diagnosed with it then, if the condition can be explained entirely by this?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:06 AM
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I wonder if these people realize someone can meet all these "standards" (really all but the last thing are more of wishlist items) and still be a terrible fit for them. I think people like this have an idea of how their love should unfold in their head and have turned that into a standard themselves. They might think they can't be happy with someone who doesn't meet all or even only just a few of them, or that it would be better to be single than not date someone who doesn't meet them all, but i…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:24 AM
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It’s in the title
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:53 AM
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Note to myself, if I ever make a post again here, read it up and down multiple times to make sure I’m being as inoffensive as possible, because if I’m not I will never get my question actually answered, not in good faith at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:54 AM
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I agree, these women should be more logical
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:06 AM
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That really depends on where they are starting at and what you definition of “few” is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:24 PM
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I just dont think the presumes you raised is why domestic violence normally happens. The possessiveness is often an unfounded anxiety and isn’t very rational.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:00 PM
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My mom doesn't even know what my name is a quarter of the time, let alone my birthday.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:33 AM
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They like it way more than men do. I think most men would rather not even bother with the dichotomy of sub vs dom, rough vs passionate etc. and would rather just fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:39 AM
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In general, pointed questions that might make people look shallow are giving to have a election bias with who answers. Furthermore complicated by the fact they may be leaving out information. Which is why, to give and example, everytime you see a thread asking i of woman are okay dating shorter men, suddenly every lady answering has a 4’6 husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:26 AM
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The chores aren’t even that hard and the kid is at school for half of the day after the age of 5. I’m really lost on what is so hard about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:03 AM
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Sounds more like a difference between how men and women feel if anything, but I doubt that is the full explanation. Otherwise I don't think happy women would be dating much at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:21 PM
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I have never ever felt like my friend circle even came close to scratching the same itch as that lack of romantic companionship bothers me with. Is this normal, or are those “needs” if you will totally interchangeable to most people?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:29 AM
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I can only hear someone tell me about how their marriage is definitely happy and better than anything I will get in my life before I wonder if they doth protest too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:53 AM
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Many of these guys being chosen don’t know anything about either 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:40 PM
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Why are you intentionally being so obtuse? Is this just a defense mechanism you have to avoid admitting your absurd, pessimistic and even hateful world view isn't based on reality? Maybe tinder just attracts a lot of people that really want to try and cheat. Maybe a lot of those people are in varying levels of open relationship and there is no foul there. Maybe some of them forgot to delete the app. Maybe a lot of women are also on the apps with the intention to cheat. A lot of these points coul…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 07:08 AM
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Just be yourself not yourself bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:09 AM
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I would believe it more if you actually answered the question
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:04 AM
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I disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:03 AM
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One theory I have, that I’m not sure if anyone else brought up: I think the internet has become a substitute for proper socialization. It’s really easy to mask how awkward you are in real life online so it’s easier to fit in. Before the internet people would have to sink or swim, and most of the people who struggle today would eventually swim. For the sinkers the internet is I think has been a fantastic for people to fulfill some social needs, maybe even helping them to fit in IRL better, but fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:50 PM
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How do you tell a guy who’s got a fetish from someone who just likes tall women? I feel there is a pretty blurry line here separating the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:43 PM
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6’0 is 8 inches over the mean height for women in America. Going under for ken would be 5’1. While I get most men would not prefer a 6’0 women, which do you really think will be overall more desirable to the opposite gender, a 5’1 man, or a 6’0 woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:25 PM
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It’s like that post about why wouldn’t women date misogynistic jocks of the less attractive nerds feel the same way. How would these women even know what those nerds are like if they aren’t even giving them the time of day? And I thought it was better to be alone than date a misogynistic douche at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:09 PM
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Having been around a lot of autistic people and falling into that camp myself, I’m convinced asexuality is a lot more common amongst autistic people than the general populace. What I wonder though is if a lot of people on the spectrum ended up there because they never got to explore their sexualities, and basically feel this way about sex because they don’t know what they are missing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:06 PM
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The way I see it, overweight women and single moms aren't even in a league because we aren't playing the same game, in the same way that a woman with no job and hundreds of thousands in debt wouldn't be in he same league. Dating these people would be worse than being single. I'm just not ready to be a parent yet and don't have the responsibility for that, and an overweight person in addition to not being attractive to me at all, is someone I wouldn't be able to share a lot of my favorite activit…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:44 AM
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i see a lot of these things and all it ever seems to come down is "it's the patriarchy's fault that men are suffering", or "it's the patriarchy's fault that women can't stand unmasucline behavior from their partners". Which is almost just circular logic
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:23 AM
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"Everyone dies alone" is a dumb and facile thing to say, and only even true if you look choose to interpret things in a completely literal way. My one grandma died from an accident in her condo and no one knew until a day or two later, after having almost no visitors for a year (this was for a lot of reasons, and wasn't really anyone's fault), and being unmarried for over 30 years. My other grandma had a massive stroke in the middle of the night and though she wasn't aware, she was taken off lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:11 PM
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Do you want a gold medal or something? I’m sure your non existent wife is really ecstatic over you wanting her to go to a woman’s only gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:12 AM
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I hope she doesn’t get a woman’s only gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:09 AM
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The average height of men in America at 19 years of age is 5 foot 9.4 inches. If they included old people it would be even lower. It seems bizarre to exclude immigrants at that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:02 AM
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The women they think they deserve ignore them, not the women on their level. The market determines your value, if you can't find someone you want who wants you, you're trying to date out of your league. You can see ugly/short/broke dudes with girlfriends all the time going to common places like Walmart, their girls are just equally undesirable. I'm pretty sure you aren't saying this but I need to be sure... Do you think this is only from people who are unattractive not trying to date their equal…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:17 AM
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I think if someone is in good health and has taken care of themselves, or doesn’t have any kids, it is completely reasonable to want to date someone else that has no respect for their own body, or who is a single parent. If someone was complaining that only people they could get dates with were people over $50,000 in debt when they were financially responsibly, I wouldn’t be chiding them for complaining about their own league.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 01:03 AM
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Lol. What is the sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:22 AM
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Is that because they are a virgin, or is it because of their inability to attract women by normal means?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:08 AM
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Why isn’t she making plans that involve him?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:08 AM
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