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Yes, this post is about misandry and about how this particular mentality of “it’s never my fault, my ex boyfriend made me crazy” is so prevalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 04:15 PM
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The only reason I stay is to protect them from her, cutting all ties is not even an option. I am male, we don’t get custody. Divorce laws are wildly unfair, doesn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 01:24 PM
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USA. Divorce just means I lose everything and she gets almost all my income until the kids graduate college.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 01:09 AM
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Agree completely. A marriage needs to be equitable and loving, and the dissolution when it no longer is should be much easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 12:10 AM
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No, you are flat out wrong. The loss of third space is something that has happened to everyone regardless of political affiliation, gender, and generation. Those places are being replaced by obnoxiously busy lives, working too many hours, too many jobs, and having very little free time in general. We have replaced them with “minimum viable product” of online interactions and discussions. We treat other people as the Fight Club single serving interaction in our echo chambers. Those we dont agree …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 10:04 PM
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OP was talking about marriage, not romantic relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 04:48 PM
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The third spaces for bachelors has largely been destroyed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 04:48 PM
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I agree with you that the contractual concept of marriage not needed. My personal belief, being in a marriage to an abusive and narcissistic woman, is that no one should ever get married. She hid who she was very well, and it wasn’t until later when there was no escape the mask completely came off. Now I am trapped in this hellscape with no way to leave. No one should be forced into this situation. The Evergreen nature of marriage contracts are pure horror. Does not matter the sex/gender of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 04:46 PM
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It will be 16 more years for me. It’s a bad deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 06:11 PM
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I agree, especially parts of identifying toxic and abusive behavior in a partner. I am guilty of this myself being in a toxic marriage with a narcissistic woman, and am now too deep to leave due to having kids with her. Had someone pulled me aside and given any talk about being happy and emotionally safe, and how it matters, never would have married her. Guys look past so many red flags as if it’s a requirement to be in any kinds if relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 04:51 PM
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I remember everyone just telling me to “use a condom and do whatever she wants”, slightly different versions from the adult males and females growing up. No one ever said anything about emotional satisfaction, asking for the other person to do things for you, or what a relationship should be. Only various “if you want it give her everything she wants and STFU”. I think this is part of the reason men pursue women more, we are never taught to have standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 12:51 PM
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OP is referring to dead/dying bedroom type situations where one partner decides that sex is no longer going to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 12:35 PM
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They have one valid point that I don’t understand, so going to ask you if that is ok. It’s about the complaining part. I do hear/read a lot of woman getting mad at LLM generated content and porn (not including the predatory stuff, we all should be against that) and it usually ends with “but I would never want a man who looks at that or uses toys anyways”. If those men are not desired and remove them from the dating pool, then why complain about LLM content and other toys for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 12:33 PM
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It’s not that they haven’t lowered their standards, it’s that a lot of them loudest, most obnoxious ones are spewing the dumbest shit possible. These girls had to ask to go to the bathroom six month ago and then we act like they are the archetype of all dating. I dated more people than I ever thought possible in community college. It’s a collection of young adults all mostly in a similar situation who are trying to get it together. My ugly ass had zero issues with “you want to get a coffee or so…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 12:55 PM
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Yeah. The reality is the “male loneliness epidemic” has always existed. If anything it’s better now because you can make online friends to hang out with and at least have people to talk with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:31 PM
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Government force men to pay child support and has for the last two decades. They imprison men for not being able to pay it. Women, though, they hardly ever have to pay it even when men have primary custody and even accounting for near equal ability to earn income. But please, keep complaining about 1950’s through 1980’s time like you are living it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:05 PM
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Women don’t do a majority of childcare. Or sick care. Or housework. Or fucking anything. And it is weird, wheatgrass_feetgrass. Almost like those surveys are all done in upper middle class white areas to continue the narrative! It’s almost like nothing you say is true. So when do you get a job with the current administration? RFK Jr would love to have someone with your logic skills on his side.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:03 PM
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When will women start paying men for that because it’s pretty close to a 50/50 split right now even though men usually work more hours. Maybe women can start paying their spouses for all that free time they take. Or is vacation and paid sick days only a benefit women get because men sure and shit never get days off. Could be dying of cancer and women will call it “manflu” and demand we clean the house while they stare at Facebook.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:01 PM
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I have known a few guys that do a hobo style life. They will work gig stuff and save up money, then just do nothing for a month and live in their car. I don’t understand it, but one of them explained how even though I work full time and make a good amount of money, we are both going to end up broke and in Medicare beds. It’s just that the government will steal everything I worked for first while he has nothing to take. And it oddly made sense to me. I would join him if not for my kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 10:59 PM
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Marriage as a permanent contractual obligation needs to end, especially in the current form where it only benefits the woman. The internet has allowed a magnifying glass to let young men see the reality. Assholes like Tate had tried to sprinkle their bullshit misogyny onto the discussion, but most young men see through it and still realize what a bum deal marriage is for them. You can’t even leave a marriage without financial ruin.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 10:54 PM
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Women don’t do any of that in modern marriage, so let’s stop that line of silliness right now. This isn’t the 50’s where women tended to the family. Everyone works, no one has time for all that, and women dismiss any illness a man has a manflu. Doesn’t matter if it’s stage four cancer or a 102F fever, they have manflu and should be going to work. Most women don’t care at all about their husband well being and it shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 10:39 PM
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It helps me identify the nepo babies in meetings and allows me to dismiss everything they say because it’s meaningless and useless for anything productive. They are always talentless clowns in middle management situations undeserving of their stations.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 10:27 PM
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It’s not even test taking to get into college, it’s test taking to optimize the results to get funding. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:46 PM
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Most dudes like this are just jackhammers. “Running out of compressed air in 30 seconds, hope you enjoyed the ride!”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:37 PM
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Yeah, OP is pretty laughable. I am about as attractive as a walrus but never had a girlfriend complain about what happened in the bedroom. It’s not even difficult as a man, just have an actual interest in your partner’s orgasm and a willingness/patience to commit with foreplay. A woman will let you know when it’s go time. Seems OP might not have ever gotten to that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:36 PM
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Based on the preponderance of evidence stated from the large sample size of guys I know who date. But you are one of those and not even worth talking to. You want a report from KPMG sized firm to reaffirm whatever belief you had. Sealion someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 03:09 PM
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I doubt there are any real statistics on this. There would be some on Tinder/other dating sites, but the accuracy of those stats is likely skewed. I wouldn’t know how to set up a grid analysis of the data, would need several data scientists on this one. But we all do know that dating apps are paid and are making things more toxic to keep people subscribed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 02:29 PM
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It’s because American soil has not seen a battlefield type war in over a century. Us soldiers go off, and not all of us came back. That is what it’s like for civilians. We have only been the occupying force, never occupied. When that day comes it will be a wake up call for a lot of folks. Except the ones who say they will resist will be on the side of the oppressors. The rural and GOP folks will all be turncoats and gladly help whatever force shows up “own the libs”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 01:08 PM
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Social media companies are not tech anymore, they are social manipulation systems. With everything from social media to ChatGPT and other LLM’s, they are not trying to make anyone’s life easier with a product, they are turning us all into a product.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 01:02 PM
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Also most single moms will never consider dating single dads, the one group of men who completely understands the kid dynamic. I suspect this is the real reason so many single moms can’t find someone, because their “someone” is a 32 year old nepo baby doctor with no children.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 07:11 PM
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“I don’t want bread! I want captain crunch!” - the kids
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:16 PM
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Marriage is not the only type of relationship. That’s the point. I suspect you have several buddies that you can chat with or just hang out with and expect nothing from them. Not all relationships fit the definition of a repugnant transaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 03:02 PM
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I was backing you up, didn’t mean to come across otherwise. Violence against others been just widely accepted in our society. I would be almost happy if it was just punished, but that doesn’t even happen. There is no effort to prevent or punish the behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:22 PM
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My wife stabbed me in the shoulder with a BBQ fork after being angry about having to unload the dishwasher. Cops just laughed at me and said I need to get her under control. There are hundreds of thousands of men who face violent and emotional abuse from their wives and nothing is ever done. Cops not doing their jobs affects us all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:02 PM
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Violence towards men is largely brushed off and accepted. Men killing men is just seen as something that happens. A wife can beat, stab, and strike her husband and the only thing that happens is police officers laugh at the husband. There are no shelters or safe places for men, and if a man leaves an abusive marriage they lose everything and future income. Violence against women is seen as horrific and society goes out of their way to protect them. All people should be given the same safeguards.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 11:58 AM
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That’s not true at all about relationships unless you are talking purely business. If you want to break it down to some purely conjecture brain chemical nuisance than yes, we talk to each other for dopamine. But at that point it’s so far gone that this argument is no longer even speaking of a human system, rather brain tissue. Relationships, platonic and romantic, have been about enjoying each other and life. The tinder/hinge phenomenon has amplified the shitty aspects of dating, but there has n…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 11:54 AM
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Didn’t women start getting married later during the Industrial Revolution as well when they could get clothing manufacturing jobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 02:45 AM
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“Yet men have no clue” “Men grew up watching porn” All gross generalizations, something the 4chan redpill clowns do. Your mentality is the same as them. You don’t like sex, that’s fine. It seems you are growing resentful of your partner who is asking you for sex. You either need to come to peace with it, attempt to enjoy it via the deep connection it can form, or allow him to go find someone who won’t resent him for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 03:07 PM
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This is dipping into some serious redpill ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:55 PM
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If it were that easy, humans would have died out a long time ago. Sex and love is tangled for most guys, but woven differently than women. We can bifurcate the two but prefer it as a package deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:54 PM
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I will share my personal story, and this happened a while in my 20’s. Was out for a drink with some army buddies when some girls approached us. They were oddly aggressive, and we just wanted to chill. One of them demanded my number, I told her was seeing someone, and she said “well now you are seeing me. So give me your number.” Told her no thanks, and she proceeded with the usual “what are you, gay?”, except it was the early 2000’s so replace that with the bundle of sticks word. We ate, left, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:47 AM
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Didn’t one of the dating apps do that and it was fairly successful? I remember reading about that, then it got bought and turned to trash like everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 09:21 PM
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I guess technically it is possible if you got close enough to the sun for about 0.000004 seconds.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 10:16 PM
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That one made me laugh out loud the first time I read it. Was in the army for ten years and even the dumbest grunt ever knew what a pussy was supposed to look like and “that mound, place…thing…stuff”.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 10:14 PM
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But therein lies the problem with the medical. A lot of times the other person does not see an issue, and instead they see it as their spouse’s problem for wanting sex and intimacy. “It’s your issue to deal with, not mine.”, but at the same time they don’t open up the marriage. And let’s be honest opening up a marriage is just the end anyways. Divorce is an option, but then you lose that time with your children.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 06:20 PM
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It’s not always that easy, because there are a lot of problems in a dead bedroom situation that are self centered and hormonal, and the other partner cannot fix. When that happens it’s about the partner who shut off the sex valve willingness to care about the other person’s desires in the marriage. For them, everything is fine. They no longer desire sex or their partner so having no sex is exactly perfect. Their partner/spouse likely still wants the have intimacy. No amount of doing chores and m…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:16 PM
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Yep. Thick or kind of chubby/curvy girl with a cute face is damn near perfection.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 12:14 AM
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Maybe five or six through my entire life. Have had interactions with hundreds of men across my life during my time in the army and currently. The thing is men are largely silenced on this topic by women. The idea that men are treated unfairly is completely ignored. Meanwhile, those that downvote are the same who say things like “man-flu”.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 07:05 PM
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There has been decades of objectification done by society at large - men are only valuable by the money they earn and women are only valuable by the sex they can give. I am glad the feminism had the moment to release women of the “you are more than just T&A”, but masculinity has yet to have that moment of how we are more than what we can make. Instead we have the Tate’s of the world making it even worse for young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 06:26 PM
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It’s the same mentality, I am afraid. Redpill XXchromosomes is almost entirely the same rhetoric, it’s anti-opposite sex. If you can’t see it then you are purposefully ignoring reality. It is hard when the normal married guys are talking against marriage. The college educated, working, somewhat successful people who have seen how awful marriage is. People like you try to lie over and over, how we all must be 4chan neck beard Andrew Tate worshippers, except we are not. People get married for the …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 05:24 PM
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You say that as I am snuggled in watching paw patrol with my daughters eating breakfast. Quite hilarious you don’t know how to read. Nothing was against women in anything I wrote. It’s about modern marriage and how there is nothing to gain on the side of men. Women are fine, dating is in a transitional shit state but we will all work through it. The problem is marriage is only beneficial for women in a heterosexual marriage. Men don’t gain anything and it changes the dynamic. Yes, there are smal…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 05:14 PM
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No, your assumptions are hilariously incorrect. I have been married for many years to a narcissistic woman who has gone completely off the “marriage is about me!!!” end due to the redpill women influences from places like xxchromosomes. I never had issues dating beyond my awkward teenage years, it’s quite funny you say that and throw around more assumptions. I also do the dishes, raise our kids, work 50 hours a week while she works part time, and do almost all the housework. When she has to lift…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:46 PM
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It’s really not, though. Women in modern marriage don’t provide any those things you say. There is no support, no comfort, “your money is our money, my money is my money”, and there is never support during sickness. Let’s not pretend like any of this happens and is the norm. Women don’t take care of their husbands and only see them as a tool to be used in modern marriage. Men get literally nothing from the institution.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 03:58 PM
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I went back to college after being in the army for a while. While there, made great friends with a 21 year old girl. She checked all the boxes me and seeing her smile and laugh was amazing. One day she just kind of throws herself at me and says how she has a lot of feelings for me, knows it can’t go anywhere, but says we should get naked together. I of course did the right thing and patted her on the head. And then immediately over the course of the next year we were constantly having sex, laugh…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 02:27 PM
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There was a porn star that got pulled over and the cop recognized her. It went south pretty quick and he sexually assaulted her. He was really sorry, though.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/01/25 04:09 AM
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There was a porn star that got pulled over and the cop recognized her. It went south pretty quick and her sexually assaulted her. He was really sorry, though.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/01/25 04:09 AM
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Real talk, what do you mean average men don’t make themselves available? A lot of the guys I know that are trying to date get tired of the rejection sim, but they still try. Most have given up with online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 02:23 AM
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A lot of people don’t really have an issue with love, but marriage. Nothing ruins a good relationship faster than a government defined contractual relationship that has no definitive time stamp for an end date.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 02:19 PM
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Your friends are likely disingenuous, which is quite common. It reminds me of women joking about sex with their friends while turning their relationship into a dead bedroom situation. Truth of it is, most married women don’t want their husband to have a hobby. They see it as wasted money. After 25+ years of talking to married men from four generations, realized this is the norm for women in marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 12:56 AM
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What’s wrong with a solo hobby? I write books, music, have a telescope and do astrophotography, play guitar, do triathlons, and do calligraphy. Why are those all boring?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 12:42 AM
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Eating isn’t a hobby, but a hobby doesn’t need to be crafty or making something. Reading is very much a hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 12:41 AM
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I know a lot of married women who fit this description. They despise anything that brings their husband happiness and instead believe they should be working for them or doing more things around the house. The kicker is most of these guys work 40-50 hours a week, do most of the housework, and take care of the kids more than their wives. Their wives hate them because they are not earning more money so they can do even less. This attitude is prolific in slightly upper middle class households.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 12:36 AM
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“I have a collections of human spines and…can’t believe another person ghosted me!”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 12:33 AM
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Another “all men” type comment. Very red pill. You have yet to make one sound argument that doesn’t read like a gender swapped Andrew Tate MAGA script.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 05:55 PM
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No, it’s not. And you are making some truly wonderful straw man jumps over that shark. It’s hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 05:30 PM
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I agree except the “that’s the main reason men aren’t happy now”. Women being able to earn money is not the primary source of all male woes. It goes well beyond that, and your statement is acting like all men are deriving some deep sadness because women have jobs. You should change your flair to redpill, because your statement is some deep redpill garbage no matter the gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 05:18 PM
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I don’t think people really get that dating has never been good. There was never a time when you casually walked down the street dressed like Dapper Dan, flipping a quarter, and the virgin flapper girls threw themselves at you. It’s always been bad in one form or another. Look at the classified section from 100 year old newspapers, it’s filled with people taking out ads for themselves to try and find someone. If your wife died and she didn’t have a younger sister to marry, you sold the girls to …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 03:37 PM
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I get what you are saying. Might not agree entirely, but for what it’s worth understand where you both are coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 11:51 PM
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Yeah man, I have kids as well and have built wealth but not in some Andrew Tate wannabe way that “build wealth” statements always imply. You won’t have a legacy. You aren’t a main character.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:16 PM
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And none of what he said is accurate. He is acting like every kid will go on to be some kind of super hero and there is some legacy that needs to be held. It’s hilarious when people go through life thinking they are some main character.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:14 PM
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You will be forgotten about it 100 years, you won’t have a legacy either. That is a stupid argument, not like you are some king or Einstein.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:06 PM
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That doesn’t matter at all. A woman with a good career is more likely to initiate divorce. And the man still loses the house, retirement accounts, kids, and most of his paychecks until the kids leave. There is zero reason a man ever has to get married. It provides no benefits, security, or gain. It does give a man the ability to lose everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:05 PM
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You might view it as a last ditch effort, but it won’t matter. Your wife can divorce you because she is bored and you have no say in the matter. You just end up losing your house, retirement accounts, and your paychecks because she got bored of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:02 PM
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No one thinks they are getting divorced when getting married, yet most marriages end that way. Do yourself a favor and never get married. As a man, you gain literally nothing in a marriage. Nothing. You lose so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:01 PM
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It’s not even a “I get cheated on” issue. A lot of divorces happen because the woman gets bored and angry that her life isn’t like some random woman on Facebook who married a trust fund baby and it’s your fault she has to do the chores that everyone in the family has to participate in rather than retire at 30 and live a life a leisure. The issue is not the relationship, it is entirely with contractual marriage. The entire institution should be abolished. It has served no purpose other than allow…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 04:59 PM
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Right, FFS. No bias in that study by an institution called “The Family Studies”. Certainly they wouldn’t ever manipulate the data and have ties to some right wing garbage. Stop trying to push an agenda, marriage does not benefit men. It used to, but not anymore. And it’s time we stop pretending. Groups like the one you cited HAVE to publish studies like that to try and convince men to get married because we can now finally talk to each other about what marriage actually is, and it’s allowing men…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:11 AM
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No, we really aren’t. I speak to a lot of them, and have known hundreds through my life. Maybe a handful were happy. If it were not for the kids and being able to see their kids, most of them would leave the marriage. If you remove having kids, almost all of them regret getting married. “Don’t get married” is the most common marriage advice men give each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 02:43 AM
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Men largely don’t have a choice. It’s speak up, voice concerns, and be single. Or keep quiet, suffer in silence, and have someone to occasionally sleep in the same bed as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 02:30 AM
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Yes, I know this better than most. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 10:40 PM
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Because most of us don’t have a choice. Most men don’t really have options when it comes to dating, only the small option of who might say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 10:34 PM
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If you think men are vocal about their needs and wants, and that anyone cares, you are sadly mistaken.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 10:34 PM
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We are not vocal about anything. Men will suffer through abusive, sexless relationships and not say a word. That is what most marriage is to men. We don’t gain anything from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 09:27 PM
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If psychological abuse was classified in a way that was asexual defining, it would show how almost every married man is abused in this fashion by their wife multiple times a month. They have to be careful.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/12/24 02:59 AM
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I agree with most of what you said, but men watch porn because we are not getting sexual satisfaction. Doesn’t matter sexual orientation or single/couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 04:37 PM
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Yeah, people can enjoy an art museum with needed to paint their own pictures. It hilarious how “I don’t sleep with my partner ever and expect him to never watch porn” people liken watching porn to actual cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 04:35 PM
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You are putting the cart before the horse. If a man is getting all the intimacy and sex he wants, there is no masturbation. I have had a few relationships like that and it was remarkably close emotionally and physically. However, it’s almost always the other side that slows down when the man doesn’t. So he is supposed to suffer to accommodate the 0.004% chance she might want to be intimate when she is ready? How is that fair at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 04:33 PM
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There was an article written somewhere that could never be repeated that said so!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 04:31 PM
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Science has also proven that in order to have a healthy prostate 3-5 orgasms should happen a week. So only gay men should have a healthy prostate? Doesn’t make much sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 04:30 PM
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It’s because 99.9996% of the time it’s always rejection. Doesn’t matter if you do all the laundry, dishes, chore porn, your own chores, and come home from work. You will be ready and looking at your wife/girlfriend like she is the hottest thing ever in her sweatpants and dirty t-shirt. “No, sorry, too busy doomscrolling on FB and Insta for the next five hours”.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 04:28 PM
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My absolute favorite was going to the hospital, and they asked “do you feel safe at home?” No Then they just laugh. I had one ER nurse look up and she checked the no box. I asked her if it matters. “Nope, you are a large man in a straight marriage. I have seen men stabbed by their wives and say no, and no one gives a shit. Sorry”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 06:37 AM
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Not really. My wife is both physically and emotionally abusive to me. She has struck me several times with pots and pans, and it was to the point my boss called the police. They told me to man up and deal with it (I am a fairly large guy and a combat veteran) so it was one of those “haha, what a bitch” moment. The female cop laughed the hardest. I chat with other guys, and situations like this are prolific. Nothing is ever done over it. There is no where for me to go, nothing for me to do. Women…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 06:31 AM
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And even more women are a greater negative to not only the household but the children and husband. But let’s ignore that and pretend that wives are some paragon of hope holding the household together and certainly not the majority of emotional and physical abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 06:16 AM
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I had a women call me the f bomb because we were talking about stitching up baby clothes and their stuffed animals. I said how I do this all the time and we even have a “stitch squad” of animals with their scars. Part of it was cathartic to my oldest daughter who has a scar on her face, but animals tear. Apparently that makes me less of a man. I learned to sew from an SF medic during a deployment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:24 AM
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There is nothing a man gains through marriage, which is why people are walking away from the whole idea. You are being intellectually dishonest with the trad wife comment. You know exactly what you meant by saying it, like I am some kind of Andrew Tate wives belong in the kitchen. Make no mistake, I have nothing against women. It’s marriage that should be abolished. Only women win.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 01:58 AM
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Any and all of them throughout my life whom I have expressed emotions to except my PTSD counselor at the VA. All of them. And every guy I know has similar stories of women mocking the outward expression of emotion, from laughing at them about a dog dying, to parents dying, to everything. Mom just died and cry to your wife? Nope, she is going to make fun of you AND use it against you when you don’t immediately cut the grass. You all can act like you don’t do it, but you do. Constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 01:45 AM
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Never have I insisted on a trad wife. Try again. This is what is amazing to me, and why men are starting to no longer care about marriage. I am left leaning to the point I packed up my daughters, took a different job, and we moved to a blue state to protect their rights. I have defended women’s rights in more protests than you, and yet here you are making fun assumptions because of pointing out inconsistencies that I am some Andrew Tate fool. Maybe try to lay off the ad hominem attacks and make …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 01:42 AM
1

Same as you going on the “logic” tangent.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 01:04 AM
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No, we really don’t. And no, that’s not true. We want to be treated as equals instead of as a wallet and a disposable chess piece on the board. However, very few wives act that way. Talk to men, like actually talk to them, and you will find out almost all of them face a slow burn of emotional abuse by their wives while working longer hours and still doing the difficult chores. Look at what happens when men lose their jobs. Their wives almost immediately file for divorce and take everything. We a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 01:02 AM
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Relationships in general. Most husbands face a constant slow burn of emotional abuse by their wives. We just complain to each other about it. If we treated our wives with the same levels of contempt it would be legal abuse and used against us.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 12:56 AM
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Fix the relationship. Yes, stay with the abuser and “fix” it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 12:50 AM
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Because there is next to zero percent chance this happens. Two guys I know very well have full custody of their children, and the only way they got it was because CPS got involved from the excessive beatings their mothers would subject them to on a regular basis. The school got involved. Neither mother pays child support. This was going on prior to the divorce, but that whole tender years precedent means that unless a mother is violently torturing a child they get custody. Men gain nothing out o…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 12:49 AM
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We are also told, mostly by women, that any and all feelings we have are unattractive, “testosterone”, or doesn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 12:45 AM
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I don’t know what norms you are used to, but no man is getting a maid, chef, regular sex, a planner, therapist, and nanny. Every single guy I work with, middle and upper middle class, does all that themselves. Our wives doomscroll on Facebook angry that we are only making 150k-200k and not going to Disneyworld every other weekend to get pictures like all the other people on Facebook. The reason guy don’t initiate divorce is because we lose our kids and all we worked for. Most wives contribute li…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 12:40 AM
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Before the popular “dating strategy” site went dark, they would often go into twoXchromosomes and fill the place with really vile comments. It’s gotten better, but alot of people still remember that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 11:10 PM
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I have a feeling the 4b movement, being as small as it is, is amplified by the disinformation machine to enrage young men even more. The women who sign on to the movement are doing something right for themselves and taking back power they see as lost. They likely have an open door and small echo chamber to support one another. It’s very much taking back the “my body, my choice” from the “your body, my choice” assholes. However, the idea of a group of women purposefully making the choice to reduc…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 01:14 PM
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Nonsense. I played Mortal Kombat in the arcade and promptly threw ice balls and uppercut everyone. All my buddies when “ooooooo, FINISH HIM!”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 01:11 AM
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Sometimes when a person posts on Reddit, it posts twice. No one really knows why. On some subs this can be seen as spam and can get you banned, so people will tell you “hey, double post”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 02:06 PM
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Got a double post on this one FYI.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 10:21 PM
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I remember going back to college after getting out of the army. Found myself a little friend and me and her had a fun fling for about a year. We always had unprotected sex (very smart of me /s) and the first time I felt so stupid and went and got an STD test at the college health clinic. Everyone there assumed I was gay, they didn’t even ask. The NP came in and asked if I was the pitcher or catcher. Not realizing what she was asking, told her I don’t play baseball. She laughed and said “no, I me…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 05:21 AM
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They were probably ultralight hiking weirdos. “You have more problems than me, don’t worry about it” - Dude mauled by a bear.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/10/23 03:05 PM
2

At 35? Is that a common issue? I am in my 40’s and while things have slowed down (it’s actually nice to be able to ignore horny’s opinion) never had to take viagra.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:34 PM
1

Did more women join recently?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:54 PM
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The medical term “geriatric pregnancy” has also entered the man-o-sphere debate. They act like women over 35 are ancient husks of a womb due to this term.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:54 PM
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You are the exception, by a massive margin. You need to understand that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:04 PM
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My experience is anecdotal to my friend group, but most women I know are very much not enjoying dating post 35. The issue is quality, not quantity. If we broadly define “dating” as having offers on the table, then yes they are doing great. But it’s the difference between saying “I am eating” when you meals are some all you can eat buffet with undercooked food or a nice meal at a steakhouse. Yeah, you can “eat”, but it’s going to make you wretch.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:56 PM
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Article is filled with half truths, especially about how men benefit from marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:52 PM
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I will help you out, because a lot of the answers skirt the issue. Something happens when people end a bad marriage, and it’s like a switch that gets flicked. Before then dating was fine, if you had someone that was nice, if not oh well. Once the switch is flipped a potential person has to sell the potential partner on no longer being single. Why they are looking for someone that checks all the boxes, because if you don’t meet all that criteria then staying single is just fine. I will use myself…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:44 PM
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I can count on one hand the amount of people I dated that had empathy while dating. Every relationship fell into the mold of “what can you keep offering me” and the “we want this” was always what she wanted. Even my current marriage is like that. It sucks because at this stage in my life there is enough inward reflection on life to realize those two women made me the happiest in my life, but at the time the situation didn’t work out (deployments tend to mess up relationships) and we split amicab…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:45 AM
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It’s TikTok, that’s not a credible source. I am about to pull some Milloomer stuff out my ass, but anyone can make shit up and throw it on TikTok.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:59 PM
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And using the backup of religion/Jesus wants you to have babies is no longer working.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:57 PM
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Bobobos society is an orgy, no idea what you are talking about. Chimps bang each other as well. The dominant male tries to keep all the ladies, but they frequently sneak off and bang the other dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 01:03 AM
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What I don’t get is why gyms are making exceptions to filming for these people. Back when I was a gym rat one of the few very important rules was no cameras and filming on the gym floor or showers. Since it is a private club requiring a membership there is an enforceable expectation of privacy. These people filming themselves and half the people in the gym is ridiculous.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/03/23 02:37 AM
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People put their motives into everyone. They might see work as just something to get money to have sex, but fail to see the bigger picture of what you eloquently stated - you want to sleep in a bed, eat food, and not be homeless, then you must get a job. I work to support myself and my kids. I got more education so we could have a better life. Even at my most obnoxious phases in life, it never occurred to me that the only reason for work (hunting) is to try and get laid. It was always about food…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:03 PM
4

Or more than likely a subscription model to unlock all the features.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:09 PM
7

This is like how when I meet my friends’ boyfriends and they are all 6’1”+, but somehow my five ten ass is the same height?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 11:07 PM
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I am one of those geriatric millennials, and if I met someone and hit it off with them and they later disclosed to me they were in GGG, zero fucks would be given. They were a predatory company finding drunk girls to sign a crappy boilerplate document to make money off showing their body. Same goes with OF, although my reasoning is different. That is about the lightest form of sex work a person can be involved with. If a girl is taking pictures and movies of herself to make some money, it doesn’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:25 PM
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She isn’t “good” crazy. She is “I got off so we are done” kind of crazy. Zero fucks about you.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/11/22 02:47 PM
5

More like the justice department didn’t want to pay for her birth.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/11/22 02:39 PM
4

You can sign a housing contract with another person outside of marriage. Marriage offers no advantages. What it does do is trap people and create an odd power dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 01:25 AM
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The happiest couples I know never got married. There is something about the permanence of marriage, and the constant power shift with the inability to leave that make it no longer relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 01:20 AM
1

70-80% of people admit to watching porn. The remainder lie about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:43 PM
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You can buy a lab grown diamond for 1/10th of the price that is that size. They get certified by the same diamond companies as well, and there is no material difference between the diamonds grown in a lab or from the earth.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/08/22 11:46 PM
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It doesn’t matter why it upsets him, that is the thing. Beginning a relationship with another human should not involve therapy to get over a bunch of issues, no matter what. If I date someone and find out they had a threeway, or come from an abusive house, or find out they wear so much makeup I don’t even know what they look like, or wipe standing up, if the first reaction is “just get over it, go to therapy”, then it’s a huge red flag. We don’t all have the same collection of what triggers our …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 10:19 PM
9

Faked his own death to escape her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/07/22 10:04 PM
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Yeah, this is far from the truth. My mother is a gaslighting piece of shit and set me up for continued failings with women my entire life. I thought I had met someone different, but then she also turned out to be a gaslighting piece of shit that showed her true self after we were married.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/07/22 03:13 AM
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Sasha Grey has embraced it and moved on. She doesn’t hide it, and her twitch stream can be somewhat entertaining. She doesn’t do ear licking or any of that other stuff, just hangs out and interviews people or plays games.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/06/22 02:19 AM
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She is an ugo. White Knights jump in to be the hero of the princess, not the fucking witch’s assistant that brings them eyeballs.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/01/22 03:06 PM
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It’s also not like he is Usain Bolt. Dude is probably in his late 50’s. His response time was pretty good.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/01/22 03:05 PM
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Politicians take pictures with people all the time. There are pictures with Gacy next to politicians, and I highly doubt any of them knew Gacy was killing kids. There is a stark difference between “can I get a picture with you?” and “let’s take a posed picture at this mutual rally you are paying a $10,000 plate to attend.”
/r/PussyPassDenied14/01/22 01:49 PM
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I know what you mean, but my comment was more about dudes lying about their height to get laid. Not mad at them, just think it’s funny.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/01/22 01:18 PM
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I am 5’11”, and by some odd quirk of science, most of the guys that are 6’2” dating my friends are the same height as me. It’s really crazy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/01/22 12:55 AM
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Precious metals are different as they have a much larger use in industrial settings. There are lots of high end, precision electrical components that use silver/gold/platinum/palladium. The precious material price is often set by commodity traders and industry demand, but the sculpting of the gold is what causes the spike in price from bar to setting.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/12/21 02:57 AM
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Mine both wanted to boys for the longest time. Their shit mother would scream at them, which of course made things worse. We finally had a talk about why they wanted to be boys, and it was because “boys get to play with dragons and be wizards. Girls can’t”. Was a combination of their mom and her shit sister/her kids doing the obnoxious 1920’s trad wife stuff. Which didn’t make sense because their mom is nothing traditional, just a huge bitch. That being said, we had to have a long discussion whi…
/r/PussyPassDenied09/12/21 01:29 AM
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Or someone in the family is connected and can pay a prison gang to carry out the justice that needs to happen since the courts fail you. Guaranteed if this was a rich person that got run over she would be looking at Murder 1 or 2 with an ACA charge. 25 years to life.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/11/21 01:53 PM
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Completely agree. Someone kills a father of two, they get 5-15 years in prison. Meanwhile, that entire family’s life is destroyed and the person who did the killing gets out and is free to live their life? Fuck no. The person who did the killing should never be allowed to live a moment of freedom again. No second chance, no parole. You are here forever, there is no hope. The other person is dead forever, why should they get to live at all.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/11/21 01:51 PM
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It wasn’t my proudest moment, but was in so much pain it came pouring out.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/11/21 06:24 AM
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I had to go to the hospital after my medical worker ex-wife gaslight me for four days about man-flu, saying there was nothing wrong with me and my “tummy ache” was from eating too much cheese. Turned out my bowels were almost torn open. When in processing, they asked me the “do you feel safe at home” series of questions. I told them how I am a man, and they won’t do a goddamn thing anyways even if my wife was stabbing me. The nurse just blinked and said she needed me to answer. I told her I am n…
/r/PussyPassDenied28/11/21 09:28 PM
5

As a necromancer, I possess the souls of hundreds of men, women, and a few dogs that were really friendly. Some of the men are of African descent, so maybe I qualify.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/10/21 12:21 PM
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You can do all the medical stuff with proper legal documentation. There is no more bonus for taxes in the USA. Has been gone for a while. Having kids outside marriage is easy. There is zero reason to get married.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/10/21 02:08 AM
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USA.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/10/21 11:11 AM
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No. Just make her ride the “It’s a Small World” ride for 24 hours straight.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/10/21 03:15 AM
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When my kids were both, I went to apply for the 50% paid paternity leave. HR told me “it’s only for women”. I asked if that was sexist, they told me “no, only the mother matter”. Was so glad to leave that job.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/10/21 03:14 AM
3

The knife hand is usually issued in the Army or Marine corps.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/10/21 09:26 PM
2

That makes sense. Prepare to go down the rabbit hole of “it doesn’t matter what country, money makes you immune to the lawl
/r/PussyPassDenied04/09/21 03:01 PM
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He didn’t mean “child” in terms of someone <18, but a child in the sense of an offspring. That being said, look up the Furuta case. It will help destroy your happiness.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/09/21 02:29 PM
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I dated someone whom had a sarcastic wit. It was fun for a while. Then I realized she meant every word and truly thought she was a witch and healing crystals work, and they she could see partly into the future. Left immediately and blocked everything before even starting my car.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/08/21 11:59 PM
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Look up “Affluenza” and you are in for a real treat. The pussy pass is nothing compared to the “daddy works for the oil company in Texas” pass.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/06/21 01:46 AM
3

I started watching twitch when WFH really kicked off. There are a few small streamers that were pretty cool, and it felt more like hanging out in the old AOL chat rooms just with someone playing a video game and talking. Was something to fill the background noise. Now I watch the sea lions play on their stream. That’s fun.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/06/21 04:05 AM
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Dudes have gotten banned for sitting in hot tubs with t-shirts and shorts, but these chicks don’t get in trouble. That seems to be the big issue. All the “simps are mad” and “incels stupid” stuff takes away from the big issue of Twitch not following its own TOS.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/06/21 03:58 AM
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Harambe was holding it all together.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/06/21 03:54 AM
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She got angry at a guy who prioritized his daughter. If this happened to me and a date had to end early (shit happens with kids, I get it) with the date getting angry at me over it, we would never talk again. Yeah, it was stupid over a cat, but if she thought she will take priority over his kid after one date she is a fool.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/21 05:42 PM
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That is also a shit existence. It’s not like the suburbs are some amazing place of opportunity and mental stimulation. It’s a hell hole of HOA’s, Karens everywhere, and obnoxious PTA’s with parents pushing flat earth and anti-vaccine propaganda along with the local churches wanting Sunday school to be taught M-F. The only people whom I know that are happy living by me either have grown kids that are gone, never had kids, or the people who had kids together and never got married.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/21 05:37 PM
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As a single dad, I would not exactly call it losing when single moms who only date childless men pick them. It’s like hearing about someone that you don’t care about stepping on a landline. “Oh no, anyways…”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/21 11:12 PM
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I hate this so much, but there is one massive loop-hole that has allowed me to outplay all of that diversity stuff and gain an advantage over them. It’s the ultimate trump card: the disabled combat veteran. Now, I am not walking around with limbs missing and am no Medal of Honor awardee, but I did my time and came back with my own set of issues. I played this card once when going back to college after getting out and the job market crashed. After applying for various scholarships and facing the …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/21 04:49 PM
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Or just join them and be the designated gringo on high risk shipments. “ICE, what’s up? We are just hanging out fishing. Want to join us? No really, we support you all and everything you do. Would offer you a beer, but I know you can’t drink it. Want some Fresca?”
/r/PussyPassDenied02/06/21 02:10 AM
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A lot of it will be cruelty and unmotherly behavior to the kids. Document everything. Kids pick up on all those little subtleties and turn them into their own with slight twists. One of my daughters keeps talking about moving out, how she is bored of our houses. She gets that because my horrible narc ex cannot be happy. She has a huge, nice house and non-stop complains about it. 1st world problems out the ass. Well, my daughter picks up on it. I do my best to show her perspective on all this and…
/r/PussyPassDenied31/05/21 07:06 AM
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A lot of times the depths of stupidity and narcissism are not known until several years after marriage. Narcissists LOVE marriage. It’s the most wonderful thing to happen in a relationship to them. They now have a partner trapped, and in order to leave it costs a huge sum of time, money, and emotional pain. In marriage a narcissist can be as awful as they want, demanding and horrible, and there is little anyone can do about it. It sucks because a narc will feign so much and act like a completely…
/r/PussyPassDenied30/05/21 11:41 PM
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What I find so odd, and this seems to really be consistent among co-workers, internet people, and friends, is that single moms won’t date single dads at all. As in not even giving them a chance. That is the one group of guys who would likely show some tolerance for their kids and probably not make a huge deal when a date gets called off because of some kid emergency. I realize why they don’t like single dads, can’t have competing broods fight for resources, but if you are looking for someone the…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/05/21 03:11 PM
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Of course, it’s an example. In my magical world only the guilty would be punished, not the innocent found guilty.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/05/21 03:23 AM
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I am good, thank you for that. Of all the things in life, this was one of the weirdest for me. Luckily all the tutoring we do was in the library where everyone can watch and no one could accuse me of anything.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/04/21 02:31 AM
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There is also a lot of stupidity with the whole “men will always take advantage” idea. I used to tutor math for some extra cash, had a teenage girl (I think 13?) as a student. She had some kind of disorder and she would get so angry with herself she would punch and slap herself. We made a deal that instead of that, she had to sit on her hands and put her head down (I had no idea what to do, didn’t want her hitting herself) while breathing. She ended up starting to work through some of her toughe…
/r/PussyPassDenied30/04/21 12:50 AM
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Had an army buddy who was the same way, he absolutely loved big girls. Not morbidly obese, but he just really likes fat girls with huge tits. Was his thing. Now, the thing about that is he got the absolute cream of the crop of the big girls. Last we chatted he has a couple kids, he works for his FIL, and they are ridiculously well off. His wife (met her once) is an exceptionally nice, kind, and educated person. However, she knows she is big and doesn’t pretend to be a 10/10.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/21 11:12 PM
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No fault was, at the time, a very good thing. It used to be you had to prove some reason to divorce that was usually religious in nature. Having a shitty, sexless spouse was not a reason. Neither was casually beating the other person. So people would persist in awful marriages with someone they hated for their entire life, with no way to end it. No fault allowed people to both say “yep, we are done”, and have that be it. No need to have some priest get involved, no need to savagely beat the othe…
/r/PussyPassDenied18/04/21 05:41 PM
11

Not unless there is a prenup. Marriage ending is treated like a business contract ending and there is an attempt to split all assets/debt 50/50. Doesn’t matter if you sucked a thousand dicks. Custody of children is a different matter, and a judge might see prolific cheating as reason to not award primary custody.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/04/21 03:49 PM
3

I have noticed this about doctors, and especially surgeons. When getting my graduate degree, I worked under an engineer making what he called third generation automation (first is regular factory robots, second is the current generation of advanced robots like the Da Vinci and some of the Boston Dynamics stuff) which involved extremely advanced response functions and sensor mapping. Without going the iamverysmart route, the idea was to make this massively complex simulation to push the limits on…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/04/21 02:55 PM
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There are a lot of nurses who are not chill, and use their job to circumvent any responsibility for a family. They leave it all up to the dad while they play "hero". They sign their kids up for all kinds of activities, then have to work every single practice time, or all the non-exciting things. Then magically, then dont have to work most games. For a lot of them, its the same hero type job that draws assholes to be cops. Again, not saying all cops/nurses are assholes, but that there is a certai…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/04/21 07:42 PM
2

FBI can still get you there. And who the hell would want to live in Kansas?
/r/PussyPassDenied02/04/21 08:46 PM
6

If you make off with 400m in crypto currency, just move to Spain or something and buy a town. Nothing a debt collector is going to do, and with that kind of money you just bribe some politicians to make overseas debt collection punishable by death.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/04/21 06:12 PM
6

Exactly. A decent call girl will give you a quick rub and tug and not even lead you on. Why these dudes give away so much money is beyond me.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/03/21 06:34 PM
0

Give them all and additional ACA and ten years in Max security prison. None of them ever deserve to be a part of society.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/03/21 03:30 PM
2

Even in my most insane days of being enlisted and having a 4th of July five day long weekend, we never acted like this. The driver was always sacred, as s/he was getting us away from whatever trouble we were in. “Please take us home, sir.”
/r/PussyPassDenied13/03/21 03:29 PM
58

Have to give you just under 35 so you can’t get benefits. Hurray!
/r/PussyPassDenied12/03/21 09:55 PM
23

There are also lots of single, divorced dads out there who are living their lives. They see the kids, talk to them as much as possible, and pursue their own interests. However, and this never made sense to me, single moms want absolutely nothing to do with single dads. You mention you are a father and it’s like you have a festering boil on the side of your face.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/21 02:12 PM
7

The thing is so few men can participate in the hookup game on tinder and the like of the apps. That tells me right away the guys they are going for all for a specific archetype of some male model who is also a doctor/lawyer, but it’s not their fault since those guys won’t commit. The <8/10 guys don’t get a second glance on the popular dating apps, which is fine. Have to accept the nature of those places and realize it’s not a place for everyone. There are also a lot of guys that, because of vari…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/02/21 05:22 PM
1

Some people like to be spanked.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/02/21 02:55 PM
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Tiger was awarded "Bro of the year" after taking out both the wife and MIL, allowing the husband to live a happy life of no nagging.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/02/21 04:15 PM
36

It really took off with the Jerry McGuire movie.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/01/21 06:21 PM
10

Lives together for close to three years, together for maybe five. People need to deal with unfun things that don’t bring you closer together in order to see what that person is really like.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/21 05:14 PM
20

I concede to several of your points, and absolutes should be avoided in conversations. I have a few friends that are in your situation where they genuinely love their wife and are loved and cared for. They have their ups and downs, but in the end of the day neither one feels regret about marrying the other even after having children. My own experiences with a truly awful and emotionally abusive spouse cloud my judgement. She hid her narcissism behind a veil which came off when the wedding bands …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/21 04:42 PM
38

I have attempted to share this in subtle ways, but there is no gain to marriage whatsoever. Everything you can do that is seen as positive in marriage can be done outside of a marriage. There is no need for a contract binding you together. Kids? Home ownership? Entering loans together? All can be done outside of marriage. What marriage does is socially lock you down to where you cannot simply leave when things get bad. Wife suddenly decides to show her true self as a raging narcissist and you ar…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/21 04:15 PM
8

He was good at throwing a ball. Red shirt the kids early so no one suspects anything. Then you have a 20 year old playing varsity football crushing people.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/01/21 05:30 PM
27

Not even Dexter would approve this one.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/01/21 06:24 PM
16

I like it when these types call themselves “dominant women”. No, you are a controlling, narcissistic bitch.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/21 02:47 AM
16

I dealt with this, and came to the conclusion there is no benefit in marriage. Absolutely none. You don’t need marriage to have children. If someone loves you and you need them (sickness and health), marriage won’t make them there for you. If they love you, they will help regardless of a slip of paper. You can buy a home with someone outside of marriage. You can buy a house with your buddy if you want, people do it all the time for rental properties. All marriage means is you can’t leave peacefu…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/12/20 02:53 PM
1

Sounds like The Adam’s Family.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/12/20 02:49 PM
16

That’s because it was a dude.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/12/20 05:37 AM
9

There is on pornhub. Goes as expected.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/12/20 02:35 PM
2

She likely does. Although lockdown/remote working has made HR’s job (in this case) very easy. Emails are logged, as are all Zoom/Teams meetings. It either happened or didn’t.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/11/20 05:22 PM
25

We had a woman who was like this. She would report jokes from children’s shows to HR as “offensive and sexist”. Eventually no one would even make small talk with her. We would have her involved in projects and it was 100% business, no one even talked about family or sports. She started going to HR about that, “no one will even talk with me!” HR at that point released a “these things are safe to talk about” list, and no one would engage her, so it went to more reporting. Her boss and HR got reall…
/r/PussyPassDenied29/11/20 03:41 PM
40

Trusts also have their own unique tax ID. If the trust is irrevocable, she will not get a thing)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/20 03:03 PM
8

That once every two year contribution of vagina is so worth half of everything you own.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/20 03:02 PM
149

Or with that magic Tesla ball.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/11/20 05:57 AM
1

Same story. Mine took off the masks and the intimacy ended within the first year. Things picked up, but all she wanted was to get pregnant. Then, it was back to the horrific narcissism and abuse. I know not all marriages are bad, but after what happened to me I don’t believe anyone should go down that path. There should always be a way to just leave someone when it gets bad, but when you are married there is so much legal BS to ending the relationship. The worst part to me is the kids. We all st…
/r/PussyPassDenied11/10/20 01:44 AM
3

ABET is the accrediting body for engineering. Most universities have this for their undergrad, but not always for master’s. This school didn’t have it (which is not uncommon) for master’s programs which allowed people with a bachelors to enroll. It was advised against, but in the end if people wish to part with their dollars so be it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/09/20 04:23 PM
20

I had to take gas dynamics for my master’s in ME. There were lots of people there that were art students, business majors, and a few other random things - the preponderance of students did have engineering degrees. The non-STEM folks were touting the new STEAM idea, and they thought a masters in engineering would be simple like an MBA. Out come the diff eq equation proofs to set up the “toolbox” equations to help solve the problems. “Excuse me, what is all that” They all failed, miserably, and w…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/09/20 01:46 AM
7

Anyone who says this should be avoided at all costs. I am not joking, never date a male/female who says this. It is indicative of narcissism, which is the absolute worst quality to have in a romantic partner. There is nothing that can make up for narcissistic tendencies. They will never care for you in a way you find fulfilling.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/09/20 02:56 AM
51

I have not escaped and never will since we have kids together. She goes about sabotaging everything possible within her realm. I want to say how I wish we had never met, but my kids mean everything to me. Now, if I could have my kids with someone else? That would be perfect.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/09/20 05:55 PM
126

There is also the matter of dating in your late 30/40/50’s, and realizing a lot of the women want you to have never lived prior to meeting them. They want you to have no kids, no family. Which leads into the next point, often you find out the women who are divorced are that way for a reason. Most of them (not all, I went on some dates with very nice women, we just were not compatible but still chat with a few) are toxic and narcissistic behemoths that see a man as nothing more than a pet to extr…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/09/20 04:38 PM
45

There is a realization that hits in your 30’s that living alone and the way you want it better than living with a bitchy woman that makes everyday miserable. Most of the guys I know who are older and single will never date again and instead pursue their own hobbies, interests, and spend time with their kids. Dating is not worth it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/09/20 03:17 PM
5

Where all the poison stuff is, they know this timeline sucks.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/09/20 06:59 AM
10

My ex was like this. She couldn’t deal with how much my job paid. It was never enough for her, and it was always beneath her in some way.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/08/20 03:54 AM
38

This is the start. Taking a paternity test that is non-legally binding won’t hurt anything, and it will give your an idea (and possible probable clause) to look deeper into whose child is this. Before a father signs a birth certificate, there should be a box that is checked “DNA Test Complete”, and if left unchecked then upon divorce paternity could be contested.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/20 02:50 PM
20

He was abusive, in that he wouldn’t let her starve herself while pregnant to make sure their kids did not come out with birth defects. Sounds like she is blaming him for post baby body.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/07/20 04:24 PM
2

At least at strip clubs someone physically touches you, and you see a real person. It’s still a crappy business transaction, but you have interaction with a person face to face. Now, people throw money at women on twitch and all they give is a “omg, you guys are so great. Thank you so much”.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/07/20 01:15 PM
9

It sadly is. As a single dad, I honestly gave up on ever dating again. It’s not worth the effort of hiring a babysitter, taking time away from the things I want to do, and to deal with another person. I have noticed that being a single dad is one of the most repulsive traits to have as a man. When I tried dating again, I assumed the single moms would be my best bet since they understand what it means to be a parent and that shit with kids can happen. Except none of them wanted someone with their…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/20 01:10 AM
18

Since she was married, we can safely assume her divorce (grown apart) meant she signed her husband up for the “once a year on your birthday and you can’t have it from me or anyone” club. Dude got sick of it, waited until the kids were grown, kept himself in shape, and dumped her for someone who will appreciate him. Meanwhile, she doesn’t understand why no one wants her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/05/20 02:05 PM
2

Sounds like Underworld. “The guy who turned me into a vampire is an asshole.” Now, I shoot everything in sight, time for chopping off heads.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/05/20 05:44 PM
8

A role model for a puppy mill breeder.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/20 01:16 AM
26

Green Giant!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/20 05:18 PM
5

You have lots of dirty talk ammo during sex. Should be a good time.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/04/20 11:58 AM
37

Does...does that mean I can laugh as well?
/r/PussyPassDenied21/04/20 11:57 AM
432

I was on a work trip in Mexico a week before things started to get bad. I would have been quarantined in a five star hotel on my job’s dime for 14 days had the timing been different. Instead, I am stuck in my own damn home. This sucks.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/03/20 12:41 AM
6

We can go have a beer.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/20 08:28 PM
11

Which I find humorous since a father with kids could accept a woman with kids since we get that sometimes families don’t work out.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/20 07:39 PM
135

I have noticed this for a while, but most single mothers will never date a single father. Doesn’t matter how successful he is. It’s odd to me because when I was going to start dating again, my kids seemed to be the huge deal breaker. Never mind I am an engineer, easy to get along with, and do triathlons. Since I had children, I am horrible to date. Honestly life is easier now that I gave up on all forms of dating. Focusing on my children and my own health is far more rewarding.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/20 11:32 AM
15

A big issue with single moms is that they refuse to date the one group that will look past their kid - single dads. Mine didn’t work out, and so I have my kids that mean a lot to me. Didn’t stop me from wanting to look elsewhere for someone. Single moms find out I have kids and it’s like I have dicks for eyes. I decided dating is not even worth it, easier and better to focus on myself and my kids.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/03/20 02:13 AM
83

They still play games. The game board just changes a bit.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/02/20 02:27 AM
62

That’s the entirety of their life’s resume.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/02/20 01:39 PM
21

He needed the marriage annulled. All that means is giving the Catholic Church their blood money to say “abra ca dabra - hasta la vista to this marriage”.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/01/20 04:26 AM
1

Relevant xkcd
/r/PussyPassDenied23/01/20 01:40 AM
2

As someone with multiple engineering licenses and master’s degrees, I have never said that and instead attempt to explain science in ways people understand. But then, I am not a top contributor to r/iamverysmart like you, either.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/01/20 05:07 PM
4

Now he is bleeding on me. Hit him harder!
/r/PussyPassDenied10/01/20 05:21 AM
9

Or they just told a really solid joke and you took a big drink.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/01/20 05:19 AM
8

They built glass cages and trapped themselves inside.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/12/19 02:31 AM
17

Don’t forget engineering. It’s a fairly climate controlled office job with horrendous deadlines, constant customer issues, and difficult mental work. Don’t see many women breaking into that role, either.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/12/19 02:29 AM
31

Mowing the grass was an excellent chore. It took me several hours and no one bothered me. I purposefully bought an old, large, loud mower that was easy to maintain.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/12/19 02:10 AM
12

I watched that over and over. We got the VHS from my grandpa’s dirty movie box and thought it was a porn. Turns out it was just a kick ass movie with sword fighting and evil magic.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/11/19 04:11 AM
23

He was high and walked into the wrong theater. Was too mentally trapped to leave, it was like a 90 minute shampoo commercial.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/11/19 03:47 AM
29

Red Sonya. Even Arnold was in it as a supporting character. Its a great 80's flick.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/11/19 03:46 AM
18

Red Sonya is an amazing 80's movie with a female lead and female villain.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/11/19 03:44 AM
18

Go to Disneyworld. You see such things every ten steps.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/11/19 03:26 AM
25

Her real crime was running with the scissors. Always walk.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/11/19 06:24 AM
6

They frequently do this at leather bars. Might be somewhat different, maybe.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/10/19 12:25 AM
20

I was wondering that as well. That place is fairly toxic and is nothing more than an r/redpill for women. They talk about taking advantage of people and how to be a generally toxic person. None of their dating advice is good for anyone except for shorting a relationship and being lonely throughout your life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/10/19 01:07 PM
18

I am not mocking you, but try to steer your mind away from “I am going to be making $X a year!”, and it keeps people from taking jobs. When I went to engineering school, other students would pass up entry level jobs because “I am going to be making $80,000 to start!”, and now they are years behind everyone else because the rest of us would gladly work for much lower to get the experience/licenses and advance in a career.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/19 12:37 PM
8

I only dress like a cop, not going to help you!
/r/PussyPassDenied07/10/19 02:28 PM
25

Groups will also use statistical bias to justify inconclusive results. There are some outlier stat methods that can have huge margins of error that are used in soft sciences. If these methods were used in science/engineering, they would immediately be dismissed.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/09/19 03:41 PM
37

Mine got mad at me once when she found out a sales engineer I worked with on a business trip was a 72 year old retired grandma working for our company part time. Glad the light at the end is coming for you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/19 03:33 PM
24

Hope the lawsuit is enough to break the backs of the school funding. Only way these bullshit rules will start to change.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/09/19 03:45 AM
42

Same for NCO/Officer training. Never counsel a female by yourself, and if you have to talk to your superior beforehand and record the entire event.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/08/19 09:17 PM
6

While I would never do that, I get why some people snap and do such things.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/08/19 01:40 AM
7

Were you after your parents left you at a fire station?
/r/PussyPassDenied27/08/19 12:39 AM
31

There goes my plan...
/r/PussyPassDenied26/08/19 11:48 PM
91

Is there an age limit? I have one that is really pissing me off.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/08/19 11:32 PM
3

She wasn’t under arrest, due process doesn’t begin until that point or if you are being detained beyond 24 hours. A lawyer would have just told her to keep her mouth shut and follow the officer’s instructions.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/08/19 01:56 AM
59

And destruction of public property with how hard she slammed her face against that poor concrete road.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/07/19 07:14 PM
14

Nothing like the smell of JP8 and shit in the morning to really wake you up.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/07/19 02:56 AM
18

I believe they are a great way to separate an idiot from their money.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/07/19 03:37 PM
25

It’s massive amounts of make up and finely honed ability to lie with her face.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/06/19 11:22 PM
2

To the corn crops, she does exactly this and is a hero.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/06/19 02:48 AM
29

My favorite part was “As a single mom you got your sexy back!” Perhaps if you would have tried to keep whatever sexy existed and be a decent partner, they would still have them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/06/19 03:45 PM
10

And the more involved you are with your own kids, the less attractive you become.
/r/MGTOW18/06/19 08:53 PM
15

I dated a girl who had two kids, if it was just me and her we probably would have been married. We really connected. But, she had two kids by two different dads. The kids (two boys) got along with me great. We played ball, wrestled, it was good fun. Then one day they started in with the “you are not my real dad, I don’t have to listen to you.” I told her that is my line, not going to tolerate that and she needs to figure out if I am going to be a dad to them and subsequently explain it (neither …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/19 08:50 PM
13

Jerry McGuire was the worst of them all.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/19 08:43 PM
23

German horror film.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/06/19 03:16 AM
6

I would rather he spend more time getting an engineering degree, a real paycheck, see what else is out there, and get rid of this trashcan situation.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/19 01:39 AM
2

Especially since at the finish line she will get bludgeoned with a wheelchair.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/05/19 09:15 PM
7

And now for the women’s curling event...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/05/19 09:14 PM
35

This is really the end of the entire argument and nothing else needs to be said. They are not married, and it’s not his kid. Dude did the right thing by leaving.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/19 10:50 PM
1

Doesn’t go into the alpha test and other inherently boring stat tests to determine correctness of distribution, etc.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/04/19 10:13 PM
17

I kind of like my close army buddy’s kids. It’s more of a “I would fight a bear to try and keep them safe” situation, but I don’t want to raise them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/04/19 07:22 PM
44

Apply this same reasoning to any crime, and it’s nothing more than victim blaming. Where are these people when hen-pecked husbands snap? “It’s also her fault for drinking a ruffied drink, she should have watched it closer”. Victim blaming is awful.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/04/19 06:48 PM
8

Six sigma is as close as one can get.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/19 02:18 AM
40

Not really. I work for a large engineering firm and we have several plants in Mexico. The local area is very fond of us visiting, police are protective (losing a the business of a multi billion dollar firm would bring a massive military strike to whomever was responsible) and the general atmosphere is welcoming. Provided you are not some conservative hillbilly Mexico is still a welcoming place to most Americans, especially those that benefit their economy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/19 03:54 PM
1

I attribute that to his age, and there is nothing wrong with it. Can’t expect him to write like Hemingway.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/18 01:13 PM
49

Or it would take me five minutes of effort to find a decent one, but I won’t do that. The earth should rotate around me and the parking spot will come to me.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 08:07 PM
90

She won’t have anyone to rationalize her choices. Most men in Japan do their own thing.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 08:01 PM
14

Men in particular have two sets of friends: 1) Utilitarian friends. These are the most common. The work buddies, the class friends, to a lesser extent Army buddies (those have a different, lifelong loyalty especially if you deployed together) and other 9-5 archetypes. Once the utility of the underlying relationship is lost, the friendship fades away. It happens, and it is not something to mourn. All of us here would likely go have a beer with the cool dude from work, but it won’t ever happen. 2)…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/18 02:12 PM
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