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| 1 | Other then sex, there’s you get in a relationship that you cant get in a friendship.I agree with you. Sexual attraction isn't enough. People just default to romantic relationships because they don't want to deal with the oscillation of sexual desire. "Just root it in one person, and we'll say we're best friends too!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 01:03 AM |
| 1 | I'd rather be a man finding a girlfriend than a woman finding a boyfriend.No. You could be the male equivalent of Helen of Troy, and women are not going to constantly hand you their number and ask you out on dates. They might stare the shit out of you, physically bump into you, ask you random questions/start random small talk, etc., but that's not how men "approach" women. Women did not "approach" a young Paul Newman the way men would "approach" a young Sharon Stone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 11:41 PM |
| 2 | Are all those top men really refusing to settle and playing women?is interested in a relationship That's a big if. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 02:41 AM |
| 1 | “Men want to be truly desired” is just code for “I want to be treated like a Sex God”.Which is too bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 01:46 AM |
| – | Men need to wake up, women were never truly attracted to you like you thoughtYou don't even need that caveat. If you take Vittoria Ceretti (top model dating DiCaprio right now) and put her in an environment where the men don't recognize her, in a random job - retail or whatever; the men will clock her beauty as a fact on the ground, and attention and activity will ramp up in her presence to almost insane degrees. You take her male equivalent (Clement Chabernaud, Ryan Taylor, whoever) and put him in a completely mundane working environment, he's just a hot guy, even if he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 11:32 PM |
| – | Men need to wake up, women were never truly attracted to you like you thoughtOver a long period of time, probably not. At any given point in their life? Not sure about that. You don't think there are supermodels who worked in fast food or at a cafe in their early 20s? And imagine this pre-internet too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 11:25 PM |
| – | Everything with most relationships is transactional and true love can only be unconditional and non transactionalYour partner is a way-station for something more valuable? That's hardly romantic to me. I'm not saying don't love your kids, but to assert you can't love your wife with the same intensity as you do your daughter is - to me - an admission of the relationship being mere convenience. You shouldn't even have children if the idea of loving them more than your partner wouldn't put you in an existential tailspin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Everything with most relationships is transactional and true love can only be unconditional and non transactionalMany men on this sub expect their future gf/wife to love them like a mother loves a son and that is just not possible. Same as a man could not love his wife with the same intensity as he loves his daughter. I don't really understand the point of romantic relationships that lead to procreation, if this is actually the case. On some level your spouse is a mistake and a holdover for the transfer of your interest to your children? That makes you a biological cog in a machine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 10:31 PM |
| -4 | Responsive desire is not sincere and is completely transactional, unlike spontaneous desire.Men being hornier doesn’t make their desire more honest. Yes, it does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Can a man ever become as attractive to women as women are in the eyes of men?I'm not disputing much of what you're saying. It's the degree of it. There have been men who look like Mathias Lauridsen that never came close to being a male model because they had other promising vocational options early on and women weren't as hyper-fixated on male beauty to the point of their daily lives being disrupted by people's reactions to them. It's why you'll hear good-looking famous dudes say it was crazy the difference in attention from women overnight, despite them looking the same… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/25 07:39 PM |
| – | women did not shoot themselves in the foot by complaining about getting approachedif i was a guy looking for a relationship id be more likely to find one in a religious setting if i was religious, at university, or through friends and family. ....why? Doesn't that severely and arbitrarily limit the pool of potential partners? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/25 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Question for Women: What are the barriers that stop women from just taking the initiative and asking guys out on a date that they clearly like or have a crush on?It sounds to me based on your frame of thinking that you must only support people who you feel sexually and romantically attracted to. ...what? I'm lost. I don't honestly understand what you're even trying to say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 11:47 PM |
| 2 | Question for Women: What are the barriers that stop women from just taking the initiative and asking guys out on a date that they clearly like or have a crush on?No. I look down on men who preach equality and desire something else, same with women. You want to obfuscate inconsistency. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Can a man ever become as attractive to women as women are in the eyes of men?My point is more that 90s Monica Bellucci working at a McDonalds in Kentucky would have men circling around in utter bafflement about why she's even there. Why isn't she on a bus to NYC/LA trying to be an actress or model? A man, no matter what he looks like, doesn't get that response from women, even if a unicorn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 11:04 PM |
| 2 | Question for Women: What are the barriers that stop women from just taking the initiative and asking guys out on a date that they clearly like or have a crush on?An inability to reconcile personal preferences with pledged philosophies is a personal problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 10:55 PM |
| 3 | Question for Women: What are the barriers that stop women from just taking the initiative and asking guys out on a date that they clearly like or have a crush on?Arbitrary distinction. It's like a man claiming he's unopposed to women having the same salary at his position, but preferring his wife who works full-time cook and clean for him. There's something off about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Women don't approach men because of other women.Amazingly disingenuous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 12:58 AM |
| 8 | Women don't approach men because of other women.Most men don't like approaching women and would never do it if the women they wanted to fuck would always approach them... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Men live life on easy modeThe male ejaculation cycle is the equivalent of the female menstruation cycle. Nature mandates a loss of energy and centeredness with women monthly, but men play the strings themselves and can experience depths of emptiness and energy deficits women can't imagine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 02:31 AM |
| 1 | If the roles were reversed and women were held to the same dating standards as men they would be just as hateful and bitterI agree J-Lo and Ben wasn't a good example. But I think the situation is legitimate. Would Sandra Bullock marry a random cute male bartender who was nice? I don't think so. Even if the male was way below her socio-economically, he'd have to be in the same industry or something and interact with her daily to grow her affection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Women tell that men don't approach women because they're scared.I don't believe that. The number of car accidents that aren't even reported because "no big deal" is a considerable metric. If you consider how much people are on the road, how many more people are on the road every second, I don't buy that plane travel is safer. It's just scarcer. And when things go wrong, you're way more likely to die. Everytime a car stalls out on a major freeway is like a passenger jet plummeting into the sea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Can a man ever become as attractive to women as women are in the eyes of men?I think the difference is a Jeff Bezos type can walk into a restaurant and see a random hostess who looks like Barbara Palvin or Lily Donaldson and become smitten and seriously pursue her. A random waiter who looks like Sean O'Pry or Tyson Beckford will have women staring agape at him everywhere, but so much less will happen versus what would in a beautiful woman's case. A decent looking 45 year old female billionaire isn't going to walk in and start courting him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/25 11:45 PM |
| 1 | If the roles were reversed and women were held to the same dating standards as men they would be just as hateful and bitterMatt Damon and his wife is a prime example. Matthew McConaughey and his wife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/25 11:22 PM |
| 1 | If the roles were reversed and women were held to the same dating standards as men they would be just as hateful and bitterTo be fair, Braff is rich from Scrubs money. If Braff was a tour guide or something, it'd be a different story. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/25 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: What is worse selling sex or buying sex?Meanwhile, sex workers are not hurting anyone else by providing their services ??? What? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/25 01:28 AM |
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