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Question for RedPillSlow-Narwhal486/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 03:50 AM
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No, but I’ll keep the magic wand
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 01:34 AM
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The extravagant social media lifestyles are often lies. No use comparing yourself to some fabricated story. The ig models you’re referencing don’t show what they had to do to get those shopping sprees in Dubai. Yes, there are women that just wanna be alone. I’m 25 and most of the time, I don’t really want to date either. And I’m not sure what the age for the wall is this time, but women still get approached by plenty of attractive men when they’re 30+. It’s also fairly natural to stop comparing …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 04:16 AM
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Yeah I mean I don’t use dating apps for hookups, so it’s a little different because I always meet them in a public place the first few times
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 04:53 AM
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Not sure what app you’re talking about, but you sometimes can on instagram. If you have any DMs with them, or see another user @ them in comments on another post, click on that link to their profile, click on the three dots in the upper right hand corner of the screen, and press block. You could also type their @ in a comment (don’t post the comment) and when the link to their account appears, click on it. This will only work if you know their full username though And you shouldn’t be able to se…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 04:42 AM
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That sounds like a lot of work…probably not. If I was that unsure about whether or not someone was worth dating, I just wouldn’t date them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 04:28 AM
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I’ve got a lot more “filters” on just to weed out the weirdos and the liars when using dating apps. I’m just generally a lot more cautious
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 04:21 AM
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Of course, if the idea of dating is stressful or unpleasant then there’s no point in doing it. I was referring to a situation where a person wants to date and feels stable, but chooses not to out of fear that they still need to work on themselves more. A situation like that could just be perfectionism or fear. Everyone is different though
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 08:24 AM
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What do you mean by “dateable state?” I think people just need to be healed and self aware enough to not emotionally tear down their partner. I think growth can still happen while partnered as long as you’re self aware and not codependent But also…I’m the same way
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 12:25 AM
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Sure. I’ll drop him off at a therapist’s office and drive away
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 12:11 AM
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100% sounds like a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 07:24 PM
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I like to take a break every once in a while. PPD isn’t going anywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 07:02 PM
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<image> May the lord protect you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 03:33 PM
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How dare you have such high standards 😡
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 03:15 AM
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This might just be me, but I personally wouldn’t reveal details about something as personal as details about why I’m in therapy to people from dating apps that I haven’t met in person. That’s something I’d wait to reveal after I’ve gone on several dates with someone, and have gotten to know someone better. Assuming you have done work to change and no longer take your stress out on others, I think it would be wise to get to know a woman more first (so she has a chance to see that you have strong …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 07:03 PM
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The person who said “okay cool, then don’t date those women.” and “Um…any proof it is 95%+ of women? The burden of proof is on you here, if you’re making the claim.” are two different people. You should actually read the comment thread before your next deflection.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:06 PM
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It doesn’t matter what proof “the blue pill” as a collective has or hasn’t provided you. They asked you for proof for something you claimed, you went on a rant about the blue pill- even though you’re replying to someone who’s purple pill. So tell me…how is that not a deflection?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:43 PM
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Some women do get like that when they’re in love
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 08:15 PM
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Go to a good surgeon, get a natural look, and no one will know you got work done. It doesn’t have to be “socially acceptable,” just do it if you want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 08:09 PM
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Aw man I thought this was gonna be a short story…or at least a ~star wars~ I mean gender wars intro. The title is deceptive
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 07:59 PM
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Fr I would’ve started helping them plot revenge immediately
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:41 PM
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Did simping ever go away?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:37 PM
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— 1 ✅ Em dashes — 2 ✅ Obscure emojis 🕷️🕯️🍷
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 08:59 AM
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I mean…Bonnie Blue is pretty famous even outside of her subscribers. Pretty sure she set a world record
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:05 AM
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If you’re gonna commit to the bit, you gotta say it every time you wanna say “thank you.” No exceptions
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:50 AM
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Nah just the name change. I wanna put “Elvis’ wife 💍” in my insta bio or something
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:26 AM
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Okay but can you legally change your name to Elvis then? I wanna marry Elvis
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:20 AM
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Are you gonna switch between being the officiator and the groom, or am I just marrying the drag queen now 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:05 AM
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So this isn’t a thing for you?? Damn I think the only way we can salvage this engagement is if you let me hire an Elvis impersonator and drag queen to officiate our wedding
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 12:42 AM
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Smh a lady can’t be a freak now?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 12:18 AM
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But then when you get sweaty, you sweat more and get stinkier
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 12:16 AM
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I wouldn’t marry someone I didn’t trust, so I wouldn’t care. People are still allowed to have friends when they’re married
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 09:20 PM
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Less stinky too
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 09:17 PM
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Okay…I guess I’ll have to go crazy until then…unless you wanna elope in Vegas
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 06:53 PM
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You clearly need more cats
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:57 AM
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3- Alcohol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:51 AM
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Even with all 300 of my mental health issues? 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:50 AM
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Sorry you waited too long. Now it’s 300
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:20 PM
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Ooooh you just hit the wallllll
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 07:00 AM
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No five minimum
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 06:57 AM
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Tall =/= big dick
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 06:50 AM
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How would that automatically change your personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 06:47 AM
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They’ll have to do it until they’re successful. And realistically, most women aren’t very successful on OF
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 06:46 AM
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Ok done where’s my ring?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 06:45 AM
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She could just have been single for most of her life. Maybe she just wanted casual relationships, but now wants something more serious. Or maybe she had a few open relationships during that time, and wants something monogamous now. Or maybe she’s had a few monogamous relationships, but has a lot of casual sex when single
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 04:13 PM
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“N count is just a number” 😂 But that makes sense. I probably should’ve mentioned that the woman with the high n count has no STIs since that would immediately rule her out
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 03:33 PM
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Assume she wasn’t a sex worker. Since both of them would have personalities compatible with yours, they also probably wouldn’t have severe mental health problems
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 03:19 PM
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lol you didn’t get the sarcasm, huh? And no, I’m not going to take accountability for the lies that men tell. I’ll take accountability for believing them- which I used to do when I was younger. Now I don’t. Hope that helps!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 03:16 PM
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They also sext men for money
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 03:11 PM
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If you had to choose, would you rather marry a virgin only fans model, marry a woman with a body count of 200, or die a virgin? What’s the reasoning behind your choice? Assume that both women are equally attractive to you, and both have compatible personalities. Assume that these two women would be your only opportunity to have a long term relationship in your lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 04:22 AM
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Everyone has a right to their own (legal) preferences. I typically don’t have an opinion about that unless I believe their preferences are unethical. I don’t think preferring promiscuous women is unethical. While I do have my qualms with the porn industry, I don’t think a romantic attraction to porn stars is unethical
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 04:11 AM
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Ew no Mostly friends of mine
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 02:17 AM
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Well thank you for the dating advice, that’s so nice. But don’t worry about me! I haven’t fallen for the lying bs in years.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 02:10 AM
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Then they should stop trying to hook up
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 08:35 PM
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Did it not show his age on his profile?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 11:23 PM
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I was young and naive once, and actually believed men when they said they were looking for something serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 11:21 PM
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I wanted to know what the red pill was, then I realized how entertaining this sub is
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 11:18 PM
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Risking what? They’re just buying drinks and talking for a bit. And it’s not about “guard duty”…I’m not gonna ditch my friend to go talk to some guy. That’s a shitty thing to do in my book. Plus, I go out to spend time with my friends- not have 1 on 1 time with random men who just wanna hit
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 07:24 AM
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Lmao my friends all know each other’s types. We only shoo men away when they’re not wanted
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 07:18 AM
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Mother hen?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:55 AM
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Yeah. If I’m with one of my friends, I’m not gonna leave them to go off and get a drink with a guy. He’ll either buy us all drinks, or leave. Usually when that happens, the guy will come up and compliment one of us, then talk to both of us for a little, get us drinks, get the number, and leave
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:23 AM
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$435
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 04:11 AM
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I’ve noticed that people who few
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 07:06 PM
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Secret wife and/or kids, possibly paranoid- especially if they only use anonymous sites, potentially a mild to moderate superiority complex, secretive. Of course, these won’t apply to everyone who doesn’t have a digital footprint, but I’d look for signs of those traits if I was dating someone with no digital footprint
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 08:10 AM
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Yeah! I just feel like having something for self defense offers peace of mind
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 08:48 PM
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That’s kinda wild. Is there just a really low crime rate? At the very least, you could get one of those personal safety alarms, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:58 PM
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From my understanding, red pill women typically try to avoid red pill men. They tend to put an emphasis on vetting well- weeding out the type of men who would leave them for a younger woman if given the chance
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:06 PM
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Even most fathers think like you, not all do. These laws don’t exist for the men that love their kids and are willing to work hard to support them. They exist for the men who are intentionally withholding support for their child, and don’t give a fuck about their child’s wellbeing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 11:53 AM
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Done
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 04:47 AM
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Lmao I would roast the shit outta my brother if I ever heard that word come out of his mouth
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 04:28 AM
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That explains so much
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 04:25 AM
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Do any of you ever use words like “hypergamy” or “(insert word here)maxxing” outside of the internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 03:59 AM
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What???? What do people usually carry for self defense then?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 03:36 AM
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Oh they may not be legal in your country then…pepper spray?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 02:13 AM
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Huh that actually sounds pretty healthy. I mean women have all women retreats. It makes sense for men to have that too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 02:11 AM
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Decent strategy, but still, you’d be surprised by how many non-sociopaths can lie effortlessly. All they need to do is find a way to rationalize their lie- which isn’t too difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 02:01 AM
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Fr because I’m still not fully deprogrammed from my “premarital sex = eternal damnation” brainwashing…and it’s been almost 7 years since I lost my virginity 💀 It takes a lot of work to have a healthy view of sex after believing that shit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:58 AM
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Get a stun gun. That always makes me feel better if I start to get anxious
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:52 AM
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I was gonna say… Have you seen the movie Hitch? You sound like that guy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:49 AM
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Do you…sell online courses?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:44 AM
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Men with nice curls often do actually
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:49 PM
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I mean chocolate is good, but I wouldn’t rate it above good sex. I don’t know your wife, but that sounds like the kind of comment someone might make if they’re trying to be passive aggressive (unless it was just a joke). Is she upset with you about something? I suppose she could also just have a low sex drive
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:57 PM
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Do you think if you eventually had your fun, and then decided to get into a relationship, would you still care about n count?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:09 PM
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Wow I’m sorry you experienced that. I hope your brother is okay. I suppose a lot of my struggles also involve mostly constant mental health issues, so I understand the difficulty of having something wear you down each day. I still just don’t personally view romantic loneliness as that distressing. I think if a person has no emotionally intimate friendships, then being single can feel harder though
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:07 PM
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I hope you didn’t drink 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:58 PM
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That would be the greatest tragedy of all
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:55 PM
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Then why do you care if someone has low n count? Is the issue just that it would make you insecure to know that your partner has slept with a lot of other people?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:54 PM
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Which one of those options sounds worse for you, just out of curiosity?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:50 PM
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Genuine question for those that care about n count in a potential partner: do you ever worry that someone could easily lie about their n count? If you’re dating someone completely outside of your social circle, how could you know if the person’s telling the truth? What’s the point in asking if someone could easily lie, and you’d have no idea?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 06:28 AM
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She did. It was a past experience that happened when she was younger, but she got safe and away from him in college
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 06:11 AM
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Had to read that 3 times to make sure I was reading that right…had a friend that experienced something like that and was crying about it, never bragging 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 03:27 AM
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Depending on how destructive my fixations are, I find that reading rage bait sometimes helps lol. Helps to just redirect that energy into something benign like stupid shit on the internet. Anything low stakes and somewhat emotionally activating does the job quite well. Then I’ll do something creative to actually calm me down…or just skip all of that and cuddle with my cats. 100% recommend the cat route actually Video games may help if you’re playing something that makes you happy and eventually …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 03:24 AM
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Force myself to focus on something else until I forget about whatever I was fixating on. Going on here is occasionally that “something else” Really anything that grabs my full attention for longer than 30 seconds
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 01:15 AM
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Well I appreciate you not calling me a liar. I would’ve expected some to question how long I’ve been single, or demand to know the number of dates I’ve been on- to give a couple of examples. I mean I was technically a virgin in my last relationship, so I guess I kind of relate in that regard? There have also been a few periods of time where I was single, and had no platonic relationships…that level of loneliness is really tough, and I do feel for the men who are experiencing that kind of isolati…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 12:45 AM
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How many relationships did you have, are you currently in a relationship, what was the longest time you were single in adulthood, at what age did you have your first kiss? Oh, and are you asexual or something along those lines? 2, no, 6.5 years, 16, definitely not…I think being single occasionally sucks, but is mostly not a big deal. In fact, I enjoy most aspects of it. Now those who disagree with me would probably have a list of follow-up questions that they’d want me to answer until I say some…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 10:03 PM
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Yeah whenever I don’t validate someone’s beliefs, it’s “you’re full of shit” or “virtue signaling” or “LIAR”…whatever other bs they can come up with to make themselves feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 09:48 PM
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Oh wow I forgot about the friends who were just tryna hit category. My list just doubled 🤦🏽‍♀️ Edit: Read the rest of the story…I’m so sorry you went through that. His behavior is disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 01:11 PM
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Personally, I label the guys that used me as the ones that lie about their intent when dating. I’ve had men take me out on dates, act interested, say they were interested in something serious, and then go back on it and say they don’t want anything serious once I have the “define the relationship” convo with them. Had one guy even say “actually, we’re just friends 😂 If we’re only talking about committed relationships, I’d say a man is using me if he expects some kind of behavior or a certain amo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 12:58 PM
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I don’t think they’d have to be the best, but if I don’t enjoy the sex, it’s not gonna work for me. I think if a guy was perfect in all aspects except for sexual compatibility, I’d see if he’s willing to accept feedback. If he’s open to trying new things, I’d probably give it a shot. Otherwise, it’s a no for me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 10:08 PM
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I knew a guy that did it lmao If he’s really hot and doesn’t gaf about loyalty, it’s definitely possible. Never knew a woman that did it, but I’m sure it’s equally likely if she’s hot and wants to cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 09:45 PM
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You should probably still take a test
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 09:39 PM
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🤰🏽?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:58 PM
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Fr I love being mean to men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:57 PM
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Right…I’m full of shit because I don’t validate your beliefs. Makes perfect sense I’ll make the first move with men that I already know as a person- not a random hot man. A super attractive guy could easily be an insufferable human being. Why would I want some rando who I don’t even know to ask me out just because they’re hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:55 PM
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How so? It’s not uncommon to value personality as well as looks, and it’s impossible to know someone’s personality by just looking at them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:01 PM
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That is so messy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:17 AM
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Like…first cousins??? 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 03:59 AM
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I’ve literally never seen a random man and thought “wow, I wish I could go on a date with him.” Looks alone have never been enough to make me want to go out with someone. Approaching isn’t empowering if I don’t want to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:10 AM
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Wow where were you when I was an anxious, insecure lil 15 year old 😂 Beautifully said
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 08:30 AM
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It’s okay just say the word patriarchy and they’ll throw a fit with their “logical brains”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 08:15 AM
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the rizz
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 03:00 AM
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Freaks recognize fellow freaks. Don’t worry, the sex gods are doing just fine
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 02:24 AM
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I’ve never been told I needed to lower my standards…if we’re talking about general advice about men specifically, I actually tend to value advice from men more. I’ve never had some random man give me advice about my dating life. If they did, I probably wouldn’t listen. I only listen to people I’m close to- who I know have my best interest at heart
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 02:22 AM
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Do you actually improve your game by going on the dates? I mean, I can’t imagine that boosts your confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 02:19 AM
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I’m sure, but doesn’t it feel worse to have someone disappointed by your height after meeting in person? Like if that happens every time, wouldn’t it just feel less shitty to not experience that in-person rejection?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 11:18 PM
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If you’re using dating apps, it seems like you should probably just put your height on your profile. I think most apps have that now
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 09:04 PM
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Kind of? Dating is emotionally tiring for me (dating apps), so I only really actively peruse it in short bursts. I guess my desire for a relationship is much smaller than my desire to avoid annoying bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 09:00 PM
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No. All victims of DV and human trafficking should have access to care In fact, given that most DV is reciprocal and in the cases when it's uni-directional it is women who are the majority of perpetrators, the deal should also include a 50% explicit and permanent reduction of funding for female domestic violence victims. Do you have any evidence of any of these claims? It’s honestly quite appalling that you really think any victim should receive less access to care just because they’re women. If…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 01:08 PM
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You think an average woman has more options than a 10/10 woman? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 07:21 AM
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I’ve only ever seen it happen in comment sections. I’d assume the types of men that insult beautiful women would be too cowardly to say it to a woman’s face
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 06:18 AM
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The same reason insecure women sometimes try to tear down other women: Jealousy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 06:12 AM
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I wouldn’t necessarily say an average girl has more options, but a 10 gets hit on incessantly. The attention becomes pretty meaningless when it’s constant
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 06:07 AM
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Lmao cokemaxx 😂 I’m using that one day But yeah that would solve 90% of the virgin problem
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:47 AM
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I vote for a rent-a-sex-bot program. Seems like the most diplomatic solution here And 15% of the profit can go towards victims of domestic violence, or trafficking victims or something
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:30 AM
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Wait it’s not normal to have revenge lists?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:23 AM
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Yeah the old guys hitting on me started at 13 for me 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 01:45 AM
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Avoidance…that would eliminate 15 other bad habits at once
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 01:38 AM
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This. It’s not hard to tell when a man is just projecting his fantasies onto a woman. All this typically does is push the women who are actually interested in genuine connections away because they aren’t being seen as a whole person, and attract the women who just want attention
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 02:35 PM
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I clearly stated that the patriarchy is oppressive to men. Do you not understand the ways in which the patriarchy oppresses men? Would you like me to explain that? I’m not going to argue with you about “who is more oppressed”- that would be a fruitless endeavor.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 03:25 AM
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Yeah I only really saw those types of men in my cs classes. Even then, that number got way smaller in my upper level cs classes. I suppose some of the ones who struggled just learned some social skills and general hygiene eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 02:57 AM
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“Can you explain how you use your crypto card to buy things? I just don’t get it…like use this purse as an example! How would you buy this bag with a crypto card???”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 02:49 AM
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Op argued that it’s either “women are wearing makeup for themselves,” or “women are wearing makeup to align with beauty standards perpetuated by the patriarchy (aka men).” I explained in my comment how women can both wear makeup for themselves, and to align with socially dictated beauty standards: People enjoy things while still being shaped by cultural norms- men included. A guy can lift weights for himself and still be influenced by male beauty standards. A woman can like makeup and still reco…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 02:38 AM
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I mean yes, the patriarchy is very oppressive to men as well. It only really benefits a small group of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 02:32 AM
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Who knew my quarter life crisis buy would just be 10 cheap, young, attractive pussies
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:47 AM
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You’re treating “doing something for yourself” and “being influenced by a system” like they can’t happen at the same time…they can. People enjoy things while still being shaped by cultural norms- men included. A guy can lift weights for himself and still be influenced by male beauty standards. A woman can like makeup and still recognize that beauty standards, reinforced by both men and women, exist. That isn’t hypocrisy…it’s just how social influence works. Patriarchy wasn’t created by “all men.…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:19 AM
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Calling age gap relationships gross isn’t moralizing it…it’s saying the idea of an age gap relationship is repulsive to think about- a sentiment which many young women share.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 11:38 PM
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I don’t see an issue here…I love a good spa day
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 10:45 PM
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My thoughts exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 10:39 PM
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Awww he looks like mine! ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 01:42 PM
1

Veiny dick arms
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 12:01 AM
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From my understanding, sexual objectification involves reducing someone to a sexual object- without acknowledging the whole person (personality, thoughts, emotions etc). I don’t typically see couples sexually objectifying each other according to this definition. You can absolutely notice/appreciate the beauty and sexuality in someone without reducing them to an object
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:03 PM
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Right? C- rage bait
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 10:41 PM
2

Always happy to share the wisdom of Future Jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 09:37 PM
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Thank you, thank you…Buy my online courses @ChadasaurusSexFucksAndYouCanToo
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 09:36 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 02:09 PM
13

Absolutely not. I don’t even know if I want kids in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 04:55 AM
1

You don’t owe anyone a chance. If you see a red flag and don’t wanna waste your time, then don’t. There’s nothing wrong with that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 02:18 AM
1

I’d just need 1 post (not a story, but an actual post). Beyond that, I don’t care. I don’t post much on social media either. I think if they were one of those people that really didn’t use social media at all, I’d be okay with not being posted. I’d still do it though. It would probably lessen the number of dms or texts I get from dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 02:03 AM
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I’ve never gone out with anyone that approached me on the street…or anywhere outside of a bar. A lot of the time it’s a creepy old guy, or a creepy young guy. Sometimes the guys aren’t creeps, but usually it’s not attractive men my age. I did go out a few times with guys who approached me at bars, but that never really ended too well either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 01:38 AM
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You get a participation trophy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 04:13 AM
2

If witnessing a Chad exist was the extent of my PTSD, I’d be thriving
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 12:21 AM
2

Perfect…I’m gonna need like 6 though. She’ll have her work cut out for her
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 12:18 AM
1

But I only have like 3/5 Fs Guess I’m gonna have to stick to cats
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 12:17 AM
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Yeah I don’t have good mental health…guess we’re both dying alone! Wanna go to the animal shelter and adopt some cats with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 12:16 PM
2

Just DMed you!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 03:02 AM
1

I’m in DC and it’s seriously rough out here. May have something to do w the govt layoffs though
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 02:32 AM
2

Get some of those lights that can sync to music
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 02:26 AM
2

Damn…in what city 😭 I just have an hourly job in cybersecurity now until I get something full time. It’s rough out here though
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 02:23 AM
1

Girllll get started on those personal projects early then
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 02:22 AM
1

Just…don’t do CS unless you love it. The job market is rough 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 01:52 AM
1

But the digital footprint 😧
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 01:41 AM
1

Idk he lost me at the Fox News, feet, and solo karaoke, but had me again at capitol grille…I guess it depends on how much I want an expensive steak. No second date tho…I hate Fox
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 01:37 AM
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You don’t have to have a roster…idk where you got the gay loser idea from, but there’s really nothing wrong with dating one person at a time if that’s what you prefer And since you’re looking for something serious, I don’t see why you’d have to put on a fuckboy front. I can imagine that would actually be a turnoff to women who are looking for something serious
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 09:40 PM
2

Men caring about body count (outside of religious reasons). I’ve never encountered or heard of a non-religious man (in real life) who cared about it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 09:22 PM
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For real…my dad’s mom still blamed my mom when he doesn’t call her. Could be a cultural issue, but I get what you’re saying
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:13 PM
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WIFEY That sounds delicious
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 11:53 AM
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❄️?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 11:51 AM
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But can you come up with 4 S’s to describe the average PPD woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 03:56 AM
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Average PPD Man: Single, sexless, selective statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 10:13 PM
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Debit card?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 09:07 PM
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Purposeless
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 09:06 PM
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Does he think 50/50 is gonna get him a virgin trad wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 02:11 AM
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It’s only 10% cashmere…hell no
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 11:47 PM
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Should I start swiping right on “nice guys” just to roast them and call them an incel? Should I give them your info too so you can draft them for the gender war?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 11:36 PM
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Ah I already had my crisis a year and a half ago…I guess it’s time for another crash out 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 07:23 PM
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Nope I’ll take the cats and an overpriced handbag for the quarter life crisis. Too many fish in the sea for me to ever justify going back to an ex But postponing the wall…now there’s an idea. How do I do that? I thought I was gonna magically turn into a granny at 25
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:29 PM
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Guys I met? I care about how much attention a random guy gets from women. If I was dating them, I’d only care if he was flirting with other women. If I was in a relationship with him, it wouldn’t matter because I only get into relationships with people I trust
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:44 AM
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I think men are more frequently violent than women are. But if violence was taken out of the equation, I’d say men and women are equally unethical
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:38 AM
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I missed your wholesome cat content
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:31 AM
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Thank you 🥹 cat gifs are the only thing that soothe the impending loneliness of the wall
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:06 AM
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Idk what to do guys…I’m gonna hit the wall and have my quarter life crisis in 1 month 😭 Does anyone know where to adopt a family of 8 cats?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 05:53 AM
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So you have no evidence…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:56 AM
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Do you have a study to support your first point? It is intense…which is why it doesn’t happen frequently for most women. Some may not enjoy the intensity, some do. Doesn’t mean it’s impossible You haven’t provided any evidence that the ability to have multiple, consecutive orgasms in a shorter amount of time indicates “less intense” orgasms. And I haven’t claimed that the female orgasm is more intense…I said it lasts longer, on average, than the male orgasm Why is it so important to women to cla…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:21 AM
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It kind of builds off of nihilism. Your mind won’t necessarily be changed, it just offers a different, and less depressing, perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:06 AM
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You sound like a nihilist, so I was just gonna recommend that you try reading some Camus. That helped me get out of the “everything is meaningless and dull” nihilistic depression spiral
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:57 AM
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“Feeling good” isn’t an orgasm. I’ve never met a woman who’s had an orgasm, and doesn’t know what it feels like…perhaps there are some who don’t know, but it’s definitely not a common issue. And 45 seconds isn’t mild for women… I honestly have no idea where you’re getting your information from, but just because men have to biologically stop having sex for several minutes after an orgasm, doesn’t mean the male orgasm is “more intense” than the female orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:53 AM
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Do you enjoy reading philosophy?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:34 AM
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Yes…there’s a pretty obvious answer to the “why”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:34 AM
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She probably just didn’t come…women can have 45 sec+ orgasms. From my understanding, that’s not really a thing for men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:33 AM
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Mmmm that’s how yk it was a good session
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:29 AM
1

Do you like philosophy?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:20 AM
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Do you really expect a child to call out their parents’ shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 12:38 AM
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But he wants to marry you in secret so he can tie you down…that’s not normal. Marriage is a pretty big deal, I’d be hesitant to be with someone who wants to use something as significant as marriage as a means to ease their own insecurities- especially if it’s kept a secret from his family. I don’t know what you did in the past, but getting married to someone who is that insecure doesn’t sound like a good idea. You guys would probably have a better shot at not getting divorced if you waited to se…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 12:27 AM
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Oooh girl this is so toxic
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 04:07 PM
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Ummm it’s so sexist to call yourself a man-whore…just call yourself a whore. Own your slut life
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 04:00 PM
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🙄 Nevermind…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 06:03 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 05:58 AM
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Skinny Skinny A working one
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 05:54 AM
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Oooh where do I apply for that job
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 05:51 AM
2

I mean there is a stereotype that men in high positions of power at work are super submissive in bed
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 05:48 AM
2

I feel like once I discovered the freak in me, I learned how to spot the freak in others. Idk it’s kinda like gaydar…freakdar
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:19 AM
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Idk how you do it dude…I get tired of just texting multiple people on dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:11 AM
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Could be a sex thing. There are lots of strong, independent women who also like being submissive in bed. It could also be a matter of being exhausted by having to be dominant at work, and just wanting to turn your brain off for a little and be submissive for a bit at home. The height thing also isn’t always related to dominant/submissive dynamics. Personally, I’ve dated guys who are my height, and most (not all, but most) had some kind of complex about it- even something as simple as not wanting…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:05 AM
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Those are gorgeous 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 09:15 PM
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Me slapping the delulu outta you bc garlic bread don’t want you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 09:08 PM
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Rockophilia
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:07 PM
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If we’re counting pretty privilege as a part of this then: -free stuff without really trying -assistance (men doing things to help me in some way) -compliments and attention (I don’t typically enjoy this, but I suppose it’s considered a privilege to some) -people try to do things to get my attention (usually a curse, sometimes nice) -people are extra impressed when I do something mildly intelligent -men will do a lotta bs if they think they have a shot at sleeping with me -it doesn’t really matt…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:47 AM
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Me stopid
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:22 AM
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That’s an incredibly transactional view of relationships. Normal healthy relationships aren’t quite so transactional. This hypothetical guy in a relationship with a single mother isn’t doing her any favors by being with her
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:21 AM
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Fuck the 2 party system
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:19 AM
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Most men who have shot their shot with me only wanted sex (yes, that includes the church boys too). When a guy approaches me, I tend to assume sex is the goal because that’s usually the case
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 12:50 AM
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I don’t see how men suffer from only being valued for their appearance more than women lol Anyway, to answer your question, if she doesn’t really like talking to you, or doesn’t really ask you about yourself, she’s probably just attracted to your appearance. If she acts like you’re perfect super early on in the relationship (before she really knows anything about you) she may be projecting her fantasies onto you because she’s only attracted to your appearance
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 07:49 PM
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Your skin won’t be the defining factor that’ll determine whether women do or don’t date you. There are plenty of women who like dark skinned men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 04:01 PM
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Don’t bleach your skin…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 03:20 PM
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Awww poor baby 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 03:17 PM
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I don’t think there’s anything wrong with not wanting to date a single mother. I wouldn’t date a single father either. I also think it’s healthy to have hobbies and interests outside of your partner. I wouldn’t really want to date someone that had no interests outside of spending time with me…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 03:16 PM
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I wouldn’t have an issue with it as long as they keep themselves busy with hobbies or other projects. They’d need to be passionate about something- it doesn’t necessarily have to be their job
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 03:13 PM
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No. I’m not asexual and also not down for open relationships, so no
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 01:27 PM
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I really hate dating, and my desire for a relationship usually doesn’t outweigh my hatred of dating. I’ll date for a little bit, and when something doesn’t work out, I’ll use it as an excuse to stop for a while. None of my preferences have been unreasonable or rare, I think I just have really bad trust issues, and a low desire for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 01:26 PM
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Pity sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 09:09 PM
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Just added “Looking for a narwhal” to my bio because unicorn has already been claimed 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 08:44 PM
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🚨LOGIC ALERT🚨 Dispatching the female anti-logic squad
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 08:41 PM
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Networking at its finest
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 07:11 PM
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That’s literally deviant behavior 🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 06:15 PM
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Laugh at the sign, and keep walking
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 03:52 AM
1

Who told you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 03:02 AM
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I get so irritated when people don’t hold doors open for others. It’s so easy to do, and honestly just a matter of basic human decency
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 01:56 AM
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I tend to use the apps for a few days to 1 week when I just have the urge to date again, then I get overwhelmed and delete them. I’ve found that being very selective with who I swipe right on delays when I start feeling overwhelmed. I don’t particularly enjoy the process of swiping and texting in the first place, and then dealing with the games is even more annoying. I’m also not very good at texting multiple guys at once, so it inevitably gets overwhelming- especially when some of the guys are …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 01:44 AM
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Totally dreamed of my wedding with Prince Charming “alpha criminal,” who just go outta prison, as a kid 🥲 How did you know???
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 01:06 AM
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Hmmm I bet it’s a bunch of TikToks
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:12 PM
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Came here to say this 🫶🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 07:35 AM
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If he ever asks you out, you could just say you don’t want to date right now. It’s like the slightly more subtle version of “It’s not you, it’s me” That should preserve his ego enough that he won’t cause problems for you at work In the meantime though, I wouldn’t talk to him outside of work related topics
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 10:19 PM
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I don’t care. As long as he’s not a homophobe…but there’s nothing inherently wrong with only being attracted to cis women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 10:15 PM
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I’d look at the lambo and maybe want the lambo- not the driver of it 😂 There will always be richer guys. If I’m maintaining the lifestyle I currently have, or improving it, I wouldn’t care about being with someone more wealthy just because wealthier men exist. Also, the rich guys I’ve dated or that have dated my friends have been pretty controlling. I personally can’t tolerate relationships with controlling men…I don’t care how many lambos they have lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 08:17 PM
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Girl I’m in cs too…it was a joke 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 12:12 PM
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Damn no one got the sarcasm huh Yeah I do know that, that’s why I made the joke 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 12:09 PM
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No, but women don’t think logically enough for coding… Edit: It’s a joke guys…I am also a woman who codes 🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 02:58 AM
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I’ve found that the hot and cold, and dread bs works on men as much as it does women. It’s just a certain kind of man/woman…typically the anxious ones
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 02:46 AM
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But it’s just a fantasy. Most single people have fantasies of what their ideal partner is, and many people end up projecting that fantasy onto someone. If the relationship ends before that person realizes they were just projecting their fantasy, they end up feeling like their “dream partner” left them…keyword here is “dream” I think once a person can separate that fantasy from the past memory, they may realize they were just grieving a potential relationship that would likely never have happened…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 01:56 AM
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I think people sometimes get attached to the fantasy of what could have been. If they eventually realize it was just a fantasy of an uncertain future, they get over it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 01:22 AM
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The pettiness is real 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 12:42 PM
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I have literally seen men on here say that women having free will to choose their partners is a problem for men. One dude said women need to compromise their freedom to choose partners because it was men who allowed them to have their current freedoms. Not all men share those ridiculous views, but there are some who very much do. I’m honestly kind of surprised you haven’t seen men talk like that on here yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 03:02 AM
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The government isn’t gonna pay for men to sext a bot
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 02:12 AM
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I thought the “male loneliness epidemic” had to do with the higher rates of addiction and suicide among men. PPD taught me that while that might be the root issue for some, there are men who see the male loneliness epidemic as an issue of women having standards that are too high because there are too many single and virgin men. I also saw how significantly social media can impact a person’s perception of others and the world as a whole. I did learn how to better spot a red pill dude and their ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:35 AM
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Of course that’s fine too. Men and women both have the right to reject whoever they want for whatever reason they want
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:06 AM
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I’m sure they put those eyes to good use by reading reputable studies about female nature! Extra points if they use their ears to listen to podcasts about such a topic too
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:02 AM
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Ooh did Tinder come out with a study for that now? I heard they’re basically the most reputable
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 04:23 AM
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Weird. I thought it was the top 20% of men…did OkCupid come out with a new “study”?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 04:17 AM
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Oooh beautiful! If you’ve got warm undertones, copper shades and rose gold would look stunning. I like the urban decay naked heat palette for copper looks, and naked 3 for rose gold. If you’ve got cool undertones, then cool browns, mauve, and pink would all look beautiful, you’d just need to stick to cool undertones in any of those shades. You could also try a silvery pink metallic look if you’ve got cool undertones (and want something fun and sparkly)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 06:21 AM
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Chadasaurus doesn’t joke
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 06:02 AM
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What’s your eye color?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:59 AM
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Sure buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:53 AM
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That’s Chadasaurus Sex LXIX to you. Show some respect when you address the great lineage of Chadasaurus
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:52 AM
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I’m talking about guys who are actually nice, not the perpetually sulking bitter ones
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:41 AM
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So…forgettable
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:28 AM
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Inconvenience? Are you fucking serious? How out of touch with reality are you? Rape isn’t an inconvenience…it’s devastating
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:11 AM
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Huh yeah I guess sometimes being slightly tolerable gets you a little something, but I wouldn’t be out here aiming for mediocrity
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 04:39 AM
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We’re not shielded from rape. It harms us all in different ways
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 04:36 AM
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Nice guys don't finish last, they finish twice. Sometimes thrice
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 03:46 AM
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Don't crease them 😡
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 03:43 AM
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No, it doesn't benefit "females," or women, as we often like to be called. It harms everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 03:34 AM
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Well, I am a feminist lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 10:37 PM
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What you described doesn’t seem consistent with the red pill views I’ve seen on here and social media. Do you believe in all the female nature things red pill preaches? If so, what exactly do you believe about female nature? There’s nothing wrong with having preferences and engaging in respectful casual sex. That doesn’t make you any less of a feminist or ally in my opinion. Based purely on what you described, you may be a feminist, but I’d need more information about your beliefs about female n…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 06:15 PM
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I had commented on it earlier, and when I click on my comment, it takes me to the original post with a message saying: "Sorry, this post was deleted by the person who originally posted it."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 05:46 AM
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I think that's definitely sexual assault, and I'm sorry you had to experience that. I also think going to the cops (like someone mentioned earlier) could be helpful protection for you if you're comfortable doing that, this coworker sounds like a predator. If you're struggling to process what happened, it might help to talk to a therapist about it. In my experience, therapists who have some kind of specialization in trauma tend to be well equipped to process things like sexual assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 04:42 AM
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Those people need to learn to read literally and ask clarifying questions, then. Actually, they don't need to. The men and women complaining in this situation want acknowledgement from others. The complainers need to learn how to articulate their complaints in a way that will get them what they want. No one needs to ask follow up questions and put effort into understanding the true meaning of someone they have deemed not worth taking time out of their day to listen to. If someone or a group expe…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 04:17 AM
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I said it's still not very likely. The more likely result would be people looking down on the ones complaining that the free will of others is upsetting them. Even though the ones complaining aren't directly saying it, it sounds like they're upset that others have free will enough that they'd prefer a world where the people they desired didn't have free will. I'm sure you can see how awful that looks, and would likely inhibit any real sympathy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 03:18 AM
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Yeah I know. I was saying this example I gave is pretty much sugar babying: legitimately broke women who don't want to lift a finger are demanding a millionaire man and a marriage where there's no equal partnership, and she just sits around and drinks wine
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 03:08 AM
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I was creeped on by a lot of older men from as young as 13, and I know this is a pretty common experience for a lot of girls. When I turned 18, it got worse. There'd be this weird fixation on my age, almost like this was as young as they could go legally, but if they could, they'd go younger. It was pervy and gross, and I hated having men, that were literally closer in age to my father than me, trying to sleep with me. So yeah, I'm going to judge the hell out of men who do that because they made…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 03:02 AM
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You didn't, and didn't say you did. I was just explaining that the only outcome from the frequent complaining you were referencing would maybe be some acknowledgement. But even then, it's not very likely considering the fact that those men and women are essentially complaining that the free will of others is making them dissatisfied with their dating lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:36 AM
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Yeah I mean I think everyone should set whatever standards they want to set, and just accept the consequences if they don't get what they want. It's really none of my business. I think some of them have this weird narrative in their head that legitimately broke women who don't want to lift a finger are demanding a millionaire man and a marriage where there's no equal partnership, and she just sits around and drinks wine. The reality is...most women aren't sugar babies like that. I think they're …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:34 AM
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It definitely does, idk I'd always manage to find some crackhead way to rationalize it in the moment
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:28 AM
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Then I suppose you're spared from that ethical dilemma
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:23 AM
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I'm not gonna lie, I used to just have "little" pick me ups throughout the day, and delay the comedown to Tuesday
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:18 AM
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Well that's not very nice
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:15 AM
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You're going to be hard pressed to find people that agree with infringing on another human's basic rights (their free will and autonomy) because there are a bunch of men complaining that they're single and not having sex because women have the free will to not choose them. If this was an issue that actually had a viable solution, then things like protests and speaking out about their dissatisfaction could be productive. However, the only way those men and women, who are unhappily single because …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:15 AM
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Lol I do like snow days in both ways
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 01:59 AM
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Yeahhh I try not to think about the crash outs I've had after 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 01:58 AM
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No...I definitely never said or implied that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 01:55 AM
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<image> This gender war shit is dumb. No it's not. It's very real, as you can see
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 01:23 AM
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I knew about the ketamine, but I didn't know about the rest...that would make sense though
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 01:18 AM
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⛷️ I've always loved snow days ⛷️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 01:15 AM
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Yeah that's always been something I don't understand. Like I can see why some men would be frustrated by a broke woman demanding a rich guy, but how is it unreasonable to want someone to match our lifestyle? I would never want to lower my standard of living and quality of life just to date someone who "might have potential."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 01:12 AM
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Many of those women didn't have much of a choice. Women were considered property not too long ago. And even less time has passed since women were able to work and support themselves without having to marry for survival. You should really be blaming the generations of men who "couldn't help" but have 10 mistresses, and the men who decided that women were property
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 01:07 AM
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Not saying that it's "wrong" necessarily. I'm just saying that sitting and complaining isn't helpful to them, and it's probably irritating to those who they frequently complain to (assuming it's frequent). Many people are dissatisfied with some aspect of their lives, but what does constantly complaining about it accomplish?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 12:59 AM
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I second saying the offensive thing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 12:02 AM
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I love the drama 🤣 I feel like I'm watching mean girls politician edition
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 12:00 AM
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In places where prostitution is illegal, it's impossible to know for sure if she was trafficked or not, and assuming you're into younger women, you won't even really know if the girl is actually 18. I think the risk of supporting human trafficking and child sex trafficking is too high, and paying for a prostitute is highly unethical in this case. I think if you want to take a trip to the Netherlands or somewhere else where prostitution is legal and regulated, do your thing. There's nothing wrong…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 11:48 PM
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I think it would definitely be cheating. Though those aren't "real" relationships, I think people can absolutely form strong enough attachments to ai girlfriends that it feels real to the person- especially if there's sexting or actual sex with a robot (though I'm not sure an ai girlfriend in a robot body exists now). Ultimately, people define cheating in different ways, so it would be dependent on the couple. I would consider it cheating though
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 11:32 PM
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Ok well I think that's highly unethical, but you're gonna do what you're gonna do 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 11:26 PM
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That works too…if it’s legal in your area
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 11:00 PM
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Oh then you could definitely just improve your looks, confidence and social skills to get what you want. You still might not be getting supermodels tho
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:01 PM
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My passion is pursuing various passions and then finding new passions and cycling through them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:59 PM
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Then it sounds like you don't even want a relationship in the first place- which is completely fine, not everyone enjoys or wants to be in romantic relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:54 PM
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Or, those men and women can learn how to find joy in a relationship that isn't with their original number 1 choice (if they choose the path of settling. Ultimately, there are a lot of choices with shitty options that we'll have to make in life. If those men and women still haven't put in their best effort to improve themselves, they should absolutely do that first. But if they've improved their appearance, confidence and social skills as much as they could, and their standards are still unrealis…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:43 PM
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I understand you may not have intended to invalidate the experience of women with ADHD, but brushing it off by saying most girls can cope with it and still actually learn is kind of invalidating the experiences of the many girls who seriously struggle and don't learn in school. Women can absolutely still be hyperactive as well. There are some girls who can manage to get by in school if they're not hyperactive, and simply learn the skills to get through elementary and even high school. But many w…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:39 PM
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I think men and women who are unhappily single need to either set more realistic standards (settle) or accept that they're going to likely stay unhappily single. Those are the options.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:32 PM
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You stipulate that "the patriarchy" means "everything that goes wrong in the world" and suddenly everything wrong in the world is patriarchy's fault That's some very circular logic. The patriarchy isn't "everything that goes wrong in the world." Some people may define it that way, but that's not actually what the patriarchy is. The patriarchy is just the system of beliefs that men need to hold power and dominance over women, and the enforcement of very traditional gender roles. I don't really li…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:30 PM
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Yeah I'm not a fan of that attitude. I think we all need to take accountability for our own choices, and recognize that not everything is everyone else's fault
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:26 PM
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Yeah my dopamine receptors are a little more accustomed to something stronger lol, that might be why I see it as so meaningless. I do see your point though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:24 PM
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That's incorrect. It is still very possible to retrain your mind in adulthood, it's just more difficult to do compared to when we were kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:21 PM
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Except of course that the 'systemic' nature of the Patriarchy as described... is just saying 'men did this to themselves' but with extra steps. I hear you, and I think there are definitely people who use the word "Patriarchy" in that way. However, I don't think the patriarchy is some code for "all men." It's a concept used to describe how a select few men hold all of the power, and those men are pushing this expectation on all other men that they must hold power and dominance over women in order…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:19 PM
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I also have adhd. It’s kind of ridiculous to hear that you have it and know what it’s like, yet still think that boys without learning disabilities have a harder time learning than girls with learning disabilities. In the future, you shouldn’t invalidate the experiences of other people with the same disorder that you have based off of some TikTok or YouTube videos
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 04:25 PM
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Guess what, girls with adhd are still better at learning than men are in schools. That’s an incredibly ignorant thing to say. Do you know what it’s like to have ADHD? It’s a learning disability. Do you really think that girls with learning disabilities have an easier time learning than boys who don’t have learning disabilities? Just think about that for a second. Proper behavior in class isn’t equivalent to learning.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 08:15 AM
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No worries. I didn’t realize it was controversial to say both men and women should lower their standards if they’re unhappily single.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 08:11 AM
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A science isn’t invalidated by its history. Every scientific field has made decisions influenced by the culture of its time, astronomy once placed Earth at the center of the universe. That doesn’t mean astronomy isn’t a science. Psychiatry, like all sciences, evolves through evidence, experiments, and revision. The classification of homosexuality as a mental illness was a reflection of outdated societal norms, not the foundation of the field. What makes psychiatry a science is its use of testabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 08:03 AM
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Not necessarily, just a girlfriend. Ratings like that aren't really universal. There are many people who think that they're a 5/10, but they're actually lower or higher in the eyes of someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:43 AM
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Lol tell that to every drug addict and alcoholic who's gotten sober (there are other examples, that's just one). It's not easy to truly change by any means, but it's absolutely possible. It just takes work. Many people just don't want to or aren't ready to put in the work necessary to make significant changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:41 AM
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I guess. It's just kind of meaningless when you watch how men use dating apps and see many of them swiping right on every single woman. Some may add the constraint of every single woman that isn't obviously obese. Even still, those 99+ likes on a dating app are kind of meaningless when you know that the men who are swiping right aren't really paying attention to who you are. It's equivalent to the dopamine hit people get from likes on a social media post- slight dopamine boost, but overall meani…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:36 AM
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Never said it was easy, I just simply laid out the options. There are literally no other options that don't violate the free will of other human beings. ...(women need to settle for less than they are currently choosing to). If we are to be consistent in our reasoning and principles, then it’s also wrong to tell undesirable people to lower their standards, too. I think women need to settle for less than they are currently choosing to if they're unhappy with being single because their standards a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:30 AM
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As I said in a previous comment: ADHD is often overlooked in girls because of the fact that it can look different in young girls vs boys. I felt like it was an important consideration especially since OP mentioned attributes like being misbehaved, and noisy (which can also happen with those who have adhd)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:12 AM
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No, psychiatry is actually a science.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:10 AM
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I do think some people have become more picky in my age group (early- mid 20s). Although, I do think that as we all get older, people will just become worn down and less picky. I can't really speak on the true percentage of women that actively use dating apps, but I'd say about 50% of the women I know don't actively use them. Dating apps are kind of exhausting for women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:08 AM
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Even if they're not going for supermodels, they may need to realistically lower their standards or accept being single if they can't get dates with the types of women they want. Men and women choose who they want to date, controlling this violates autonomy. People just have to lower their standards if they're not getting dates (and they still want a relationship), accept being single, or keep trying to improve themselves. It sucks, but there's no other viable solutions (until realistic humanoid …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:01 AM
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Confidence improves the social skills. I think those two things can compensate for looks. Like I said in previous comments, it's not going to compensate enough to pull a 10/10, but it'll be enough to get a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:57 AM
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No. The patriarchy negatively affects men in precisely those ways. It's a shame you haven't heard that before, but it's true. The patriarchy is to blame for things like the draft as well. Men are expected to lead, be strong, aggressive, dominant and protect women because women are seen as weak and incapable. Thus, men, whose job according to patriarchal standards, is to lead and protect the weak (among other jobs), are used to fight in wars. As I said, it also causes men to avoid seeking mental …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:52 AM
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All of these choices are authentic choices, some just have shitty options. That's all it really comes down to. It's rare that someone is holding a gun to someone's head and forcing them to do something. You don’t just get to tell her to let men inside her who she doesn’t really want. That's right. She doesn't have to have realistic standards if she doesn't want to, but if she chooses to stick with unrealistic standards, she essentially has to accept the fact that she'll likely be unhappy because…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:35 AM
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My cat just killed a mosquito in my room. I'm so proud of her 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:18 AM
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Yes that’s also true. Some girls don’t have the symptoms of hyperactivity, or the symptoms present differently from boys. My brother definitely got in trouble more for talking and being disruptive. I was just usually put in the “slow” groups for spelling and math (any subject where they grouped kids). I honestly think the only way I got through elementary and high school was because my parents would always remind me to do my homework and check it. I just had to get on meds to get through college…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:10 AM
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Thanks for linking that! I’ve also lived it, but it’s nice to see people talking about it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:47 AM
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Ok then we can swap it out for the woman whose standards are so high that she’s unhappily single. They have two options: stay miserable and romantically lonely because their standards are unrealistic, or take an honest look at themselves and reevaluate their standards to choose something more realistic. Staying miserable and complaining about it is only hurting her, and annoying the friends and relatives she complains to. It would be much more beneficial for her if she had realistic standards in…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:43 AM
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Yeah online dating is a different beast, luckily it’s not the only way to date
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:31 AM
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ADHD is often overlooked in girls because of the fact that it can look different in young girls vs boys. I felt like it was an important consideration especially since OP mentioned attributes like being misbehaved, and noisy (which can also happen with those who have adhd)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:29 AM
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Yes. If people want to have a shot at achieving their goal, they should make it a realistic one. If they’re okay with perpetual dissatisfaction, they should continue to have an unrealistic one. To use the billionaire example again, I could probably reach a million or maybe even tens of millions depending on how much effort I’m willing to put in, and what kind of sacrifices I’m willing to make. That would be a much more realistic goal to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:25 AM
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Lmao ok, if that’s how you feel then great. It’s unlikely that you’re gonna hear many feminists agreeing with you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:19 AM
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I think confidence and social skills can compensate for looks. It’s not going to get someone a supermodel, but it can get them a girlfriend for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:16 AM
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No…I never said that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:13 AM
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Yeah obviously. OP said “girls do well in school…” I was correcting it to “girls who don’t have adhd do well in school…”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:13 AM
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Goals can be unrealistic. I want to be a billionaire, but that’s pretty unrealistic. Should I sit here and whine about not being a rich Texan man with oil money who’d have a better shot at being a billionaire? No. I should either keep working towards my goal, or work towards a more realistic one. Many men just aren’t going to get a 10/10 supermodel. If their goals are unrealistic, they ought to get some realistic goals. This is similar to women who have standards that are so high that they’re un…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:11 AM
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*girls who don’t have adhd
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 04:53 AM
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I wouldn’t necessarily equate the two, but both of those statements are correct
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 04:51 AM
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I’m a firm believer in controlling what you can and accepting what you can’t, and you can only really control yourself (in matters pertaining to your own personal life). If I want something, I should do everything in my power to get that thing. That attitude is much more productive and beneficial to me putting all the blame on everyone else, and doing nothing to get me closer to my goal. If you’re referencing appearance here, they can blame their genetics and do nothing, or they can put effort i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 04:50 AM
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Oh yeah I suppose. Although I’ve known some attractive people who couldn’t pull because of severe social anxiety. I tend to think confidence and social skills are the deciding factors
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 04:36 AM
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Yeah that occasionally happens, but more so if they’re super stinky and visibly dirty. I find myself viscerally repulsed by certain behaviors more than appearances
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 04:32 AM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 04:29 AM
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Ok yeah if we’re talking about men risking their lives to protect women, I agree with you. I’ve just heard people on here say that “women aren’t owed safety” in the sense that men should be allowed to harm women. I’m glad you’re not saying that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 04:28 AM
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Lack of sexual and romantic success is due to the fact that men and women have free will to choose who they do and don’t want to date, and how much effort the man or woman is willing to put into dating. If a guy wants to put all of the blame on the fact that women don’t choose him, and refuse to acknowledge that they do play a part in things, that’s a part of my loser definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 04:24 AM
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I think it comes down to basic decency to simply call the cops if you see a man or woman being harmed. I don’t think anyone is required to help someone who’s being harmed. I believe it would be unethical to refuse to help someone who’s being harmed if the aid comes at little to no cost to you. However, I don’t think anyone is required to put themselves in significant danger to help another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 04:17 AM
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I’ve heard from many feminists that issues like increased homelessness, suicide rates/poor mental health, addiction and imprisonment among men are due to the patriarchy (aka. It’s systemic). I think it’s also fairly accepted among most feminists that traditional gender stereotypes don’t make room for men to express their emotions, and get mental health care.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 04:07 AM
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There are laws that state that you cannot steal from, or physically harm another human being. People in a civilized society are tasked with not physically harming each other- thus ensuring each other’s safety. As a standard, many countries use terms like life and liberty- stating that each person has a right to life and liberty, among other things. Again, what country do you live in? I can find laws that indicate this (if you live in the west). If you don’t want to share that, I’d be more than h…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 03:55 AM
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No. I’d think they probably lack confidence and social skills, but the inability to attract women alone isn’t indicative of being a loser, in my opinion. To me, losers have issues with their mentality and work ethic. If someone couldn’t attract women, and they were blaming women for it, expecting everyone to cater to them, and refusing to get up and work on themselves to try to improve their situation…that would be a loser
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 03:48 AM
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Ok, what country do you live in? If you’re in a western country, it shouldn’t be hard to find a document that indicates this
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 03:41 AM
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Yeah I’m 3rd gen in the US so it took me visiting the motherland to gain that perspective. It got a lot harder to feel bad for myself when I was around people sleeping on dirt with no electricity or food who were more optimistic than me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 03:39 AM
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Ugh that’s disgusting. But yeah there are some states where it’s still legal. It’s honestly shocking to me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 03:34 AM
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The Universal Declaration of Human Rights, Article 3 states: Everyone has the right to life, liberty and security of person. So yes, all humans are “owed” safety and security as a fundamental human right. It’s pretty straightforward
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 03:25 AM
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Facts. At least we have AC and hot showers now
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 03:10 AM
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It helped me to see how the other side of the world lives. And by other side of the world, I mean impoverished people in 3rd world countries. Even doing some volunteer work with impoverished people close to home can help. It became easier to be grateful for what I have after seeing just how good I had it- comparatively. Ultimately, I just had to identify some greater purpose, and work towards that. It’s all I could really do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 03:09 AM
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Was someone seriously trying to defend child marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:55 AM
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Yeah I personally lean more on the antinatalist side. But not quite so extreme…I think there are ways to set a child’s life up for success, but I don’t think that’s something most people reach, and I don’t even know if I’ll ever reach that point. I don’t see myself having kids until I reach that point (if I ever do). Antinatalism just really isn’t a popular opinion. I think that most people want to have kids, and no one wants to view themselves as selfish. There are also just some optimistic peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:52 AM
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Not everyone is an antinatalist. Typically, non-antinatalists believe the joys in life outweigh the suffering, and others simply may not consider the child’s future when they decide to have one
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:33 AM
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Confidence is a bit easier to define, imo. To me, confidence has more to do with feeling comfortable in one's own skin and having a high self esteem. Arrogance and grandiosity falls into the overly inflated ego/narcissistic/likely insecure territory. In my opinion, when people start saying things like "I want a dominant man," that's when things can get confusing, as dominance can be colloquially defined in positive or negative lights, depending on context. From my understanding, at least in red …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 12:07 AM
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Oh no, I fear that’s much too hysterical a demand for my liking
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 05:37 PM
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You’re gonna have to be the sole bringer of dickpocalypse. You’ll have to be away from your basement for days at a time though. Do you think you’re prepared for such a daunting task?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 10:25 PM
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So she didn’t leave because you basically called her a non-baddie? Personally, I wouldn’t take that 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 10:23 PM
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Yes, 2. Maybe, 3. Maybe, 4. No, 5. No, 6. No, 7. No, 8. No, 9. Absolutely, 10. Maybe, 11. Maybe, 12. Yes, 13. Yes, 14. Maybe, 15. Maybe, 16. Yes, 17. Maybe, 18. No, 19. Yes (in 3 years), 20. No, 21. Maybe, 22. No, 23. No, 24. Probably, 25. No, 26. No, 27. Yes, 28. Yes, 29. Yes, 30. Absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 10:09 PM
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It would require all the angry incels to leave their basements for extended periods of time
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 07:41 PM
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I’m sorry that you experienced that. That’s very violating. However, that does not at all prove that women withhold information about their STI status more than men do
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 07:38 PM
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Do you have any proof of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 01:02 AM
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If you’re lying about something that would make a person change their mind about whether or not they’d want to sleep with you, I think that’s considered a form of coercion. However, there are varying degrees to this. Lying about an STI would be much worse than lying about a body count, in my opinion. Regardless, I think lying to get someone to do something they otherwise wouldn’t do is unethical, but people still do it, and there’s not much anyone can do to stop that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 08:16 AM
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I usually think the person who asks the other person out on a date is the one that pays. I always offer, but in my experience, the one that asks is the one that usually pays. I also would never be offended if someone insisted on paying. I think that’s a very kind and generous gesture. I would never think that’s a red flag- coming from a man or a woman. I suppose everyone is different though
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 08:11 AM
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Holding grudges isn’t exclusive to men. Plenty of women hold grudges too. They may not kill or rape people over them as frequently, but that doesn’t mean women hold grudges any less
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 01:56 AM
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No, See previous comment of mine: I really think you should go back and read my comments. I’m not sure how else to explain these concepts in simple terms. You’re thinking in black and white, ethics aren’t so black and white. If you think moral neutrality doesn’t exist, we’re not going to get anywhere with this discussion. The simple act of choosing not to cause harm isn’t inherently good. Try to think of it like this: everyone has a number that represents the amount of “goodness” they experience…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:42 PM
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And I answered it. I really think you should go back and read my comments. I’m not sure how else to explain these concepts in simple terms. You’re thinking in black and white, ethics aren’t so black and white. If you think moral neutrality doesn’t exist, we’re not going to get anywhere with this discussion. The simple act of choosing not to cause harm isn’t inherently good. Try to think of it like this: everyone has a number that represents the amount of “goodness” they experience. An event that…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:31 PM
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To me, a good person is an ethical person. I believe in moral neutrality, and physical appearance would fall under that category in most cases. It seems like your definition of a good man or woman is in the context of being a good partner. Even then, I still think a good man/woman is an ethical one. If by good man, you mean a romantically compatible one, you can’t really create a universal definition for this. Everyone is romantically compatible with different types of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:24 PM
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What I’ve been saying is that there’s a difference between harming someone, doing good, and simply taking a neutral action. There’s so much more to morality than just not doing evil. If not harming someone is doing a good thing, then by sitting in your basement playing video games, you’re doing good to several billion people. Or, every time you choose not to behave violently towards someone, you’re doing good towards them. Someone isn’t positively impacted if another person chooses not to beat t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:16 PM
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Yeah, I mean it’s hard to know what you’d do in a situation that you’ve never been in.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:09 PM
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Leaving someone able to be happy isn’t doing a good deed for them, it’s just leaving them be. But like I said, this isn’t a question of dictionary definition, this is an entire field of people philosophy. Philosophy defines terms differently than dictionaries, at times. And even within ethics, there are varying definitions and theories. If you’re interested in ethics, you should definitely do some reading into it, it’s a fascinating subject, in my opinion. It’s not about doing vs not doing when …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:04 PM
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Hmm most women will choose an attractive man over a good man and a young man who as it is has very less free time should always focus on the first cause if he is hot then even if he becomes shitty , misogynistic and hurt women they will always fall in love with him. Here’s the thing, you don’t actually know that to be true. There are probably some women like that, but it’s impossible to say that most women do this. This is simply a perception of the world pushed by social media. A man like that …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:50 PM
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First of all, that’s not true. Different women are attracted to different things. Second of all, you shouldn’t dictate your behavior based on what you think women like. You shouldn’t dictate, you know, live your life for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:57 AM
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I didn’t relate it to wanting men they dated to make a certain amount. I simply said that women have a “biological need” to provide for their offspring, and saying men who “go against their biological need to have sex” by not manipulating women for sex are good men, is just like saying women who go against their biological need to provide for their children by not manipulating men for money are good women. I never once brought up anything about financial requirements when dating. People can set …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:27 AM
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Well, women biologically have a need to provide for their current or future children. Obtaining resources, no matter the cost, would be feeding this biological need. Fortunately, we humans are intelligent beings who are capable of denying biological needs in certain cases for the sake of being ethical
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 10:01 PM
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Well, women biologically have a need to provide for their current or future children. Obtaining resources, no matter the cost, would be feeding this biological need. Fortunately, we humans are intelligent beings who are capable of denying biological needs in certain cases for the sake of being ethical
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 09:59 PM
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This is a philosophical question that has been debated for centuries. It’s not necessarily quite so binary. This also depends on how you define good and evil- which also varies among ethical theories If we’re operating under the definition of good = promoting happiness and wellbeing, and evil = causing harm or suffering, then the actions of another person could impact me in 3 different ways. It could either promote goodness, have no impact, or promote evil. The way I see it, if someone chooses n…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 09:56 PM
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I mean, I could easily manipulate men for money, but I choose not to because I believe that’s unethical, does that make me a good woman? Mind you, I could still be an absolute asshole in other areas of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 09:39 PM
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That depends on how you define what is good. I think that “good” and “evil” are a spectrum, and that many actions could simply be neutral. For example, choosing between lettuce and spinach in a salad is a pretty neutral action. Choosing not to scream at or hit someone when they piss you off isn’t being good, it’s just not being evil. Showing kindness and empathy towards someone, even when they’re making you angry, is an example of being good. Ultimately, this depends on what ethical theories you…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 09:35 PM
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For real, what happened to being a legitimately decent person? 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 09:26 PM
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For real, what happened to being kind? 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 09:25 PM
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You can watch a YouTube video to change a tire or your oil. You can’t watch a YouTube video to fix your relationships, though they may try.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 09:17 PM
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Fr I’m taking my account to the grave
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 05:59 AM
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I think it’s important to be honest with her. Maybe be clear about how you recently developed feelings for her, so she doesn’t end up feeling like you were just pretending to be her friend. Reiterate that you value your friendship with her, and would want to stay friends regardless of what she chooses.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 05:56 AM
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Ah ok that makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 04:47 AM
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Oooh have you created any yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 04:45 AM
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Really? I feel like I’d definitely measure my dick if I had one
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 04:42 AM
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Base of my palm to the top of my middle finger is 7.5 inches, and both hands in a fist stacked on top of each other is 6.5, so it’s pretty easy to estimate
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 04:40 AM
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The stereotype is that homeschooled kids are unsocialized and naive. There are obviously exceptions to it, but that’s the general stereotype
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 04:27 AM
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I don't think I'd care unless they acted like they were homeschooled as a kid
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:45 AM
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Oh yeah you should get a ton then. I didn't get much until my party
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:43 AM
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You should beg your family for a grad party. I told my parents it was totally fine if they invited their friends, and got hella $$$ just from that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:33 AM
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Now there's an idea. What ever happened to good old diplomacy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:03 AM
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I don't think so, personally. I think it's a shitty thing to do if you're in a monogamous relationship, but I wouldn't call it cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 01:43 AM
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How do you know it's because they're emotionally hurt? People have lives and aren't on Reddit all day, every day. People miss notifications, and get bored of conversations. Personally criticizing a woman while debating is known as an ad hominem attack. Why would someone want to continue to debate with someone who can't even debate properly? And if they're just criticizing most of, or an entire gender based on some experiences they've had with a few people, or, even worse, seen on social media...…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 01:02 AM
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I'm not the kind of person that feels super attracted (outside of physical attraction) or connected to people I barely know. I need at least one date to figure out if I even like the person. Then, a couple more to figure out if there's a genuine connection that's worth legitimately pursuing. I also just feel like it's very hard to get an accurate read on people over text and phone calls, it's so easy to be fake when you're not in-person. I need the in-person interactions to really have a good un…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 10:48 PM
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I’m guessing they find it addicting, and just continue to have facial dysmorphia, so they don’t know when to stop
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:46 PM
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Yeah that’s a good idea
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:02 PM
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I said: I would be happy to provide you with scientific studies that explain the immense benefits of finding purpose and meaning in life, as well as being part of a community, in both adolescents and adults- if you’d like. Being part of a community isn’t being alone. Being a part of a community provides social connection, and men with social connection are not alone. These studies support that, if you want to see them. Withdrawing from community, refusing to contribute to society, and choosing n…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:01 PM
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I’m not really a fan of the sleeves or the neckline, personally. But I also tend to prefer dresses that are more structured. If you can return it, I’d suggest that, but the color does pair well with your undertones! A mauve in a different cut would look wonderful on you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 06:37 PM
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It’s a little difficult to take anything you say seriously when you say something so unscientific, to put it nicely, as “your female brain has no ability to process that information.” I would be happy to provide you with scientific studies that explain the immense benefits of finding purpose and meaning in life, as well as being part of a community, in both adolescents and adults- if you’d like. So why don’t you explain, using principles of logic, how the desire to “not want to be a cuck” overri…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 06:33 PM
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You do realize that not all women are the same right? Just like not all men are the same? Every human has flaws. Men are not more mentally capable than women. This idea is completely ridiculous. Some women choosing to no longer debate a topic, or not liking criticism is in no way indicative of women being less “mentally capable.” If by mentally capable, you mean intelligent and logical thinkers, I suggest you do some research into what logic actually is and means. Logic is essentially the proces…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 06:24 PM
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You haven’t provided an actual argument. If you use some logic, it would be easy to understand. Since you have used no logic to explain your argument at all, and continue to say the same vague pseudoscientific sentences, you have not provided a logical argument. Does that make sense now?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 06:06 PM
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I can’t say I’ve given up on dating completely, I just really don’t feel like doing it. Going on a bunch of first dates, most of which will be boring and a waste of time, sounds really unappealing. I’m also just not at a point in my life where I want a relationship. Maybe that’ll change in the future, but as of right now, I don’t want anyone tying me to any particular place. I want to be open to any and all opportunities now. I enjoy focusing more on friendships and hobbies now, but maybe one da…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:50 PM
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Of course! It felt so freeing figuring out what I enjoyed after my last bad relationship, enjoy the journey 🫶🏽 But yeah I hope those men eventually realize that behavior isn’t conducive to healthy relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:42 PM
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Shit girl I am sorry that happened to you. That behavior is so repulsive
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:04 PM
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Oh fs I sell some custom resin orgasm button covers on Etsy. I can send you one if you want!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 04:54 PM
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If you press and hold the button for 5 seconds it lights up! I think it’s called party mode
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 04:48 PM
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For real...it was the "in these streets" bit that really got me 🤣 And judging by his previous post here, he really seems fixated on women's views about sex bots 💀 Like of course! Women won't admit that we all secretly want to fuck a creepy looking robot sex doll, so we must all be social outcasts!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:20 AM
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Men do not want to be used if there’s no reward they seek. I say this again, that is not being illogical. No wife, no family, no offsprings, you are cucking yourself by contributing. If you believe that is emotional thinking, then you clearly do not understand men at all. But nor do I expect you to. Men and women are not built the same. Why don't you explain how not contributing to society is a logical response to not fulfilling your biological purpose? How about you explain how fulfilling your …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:12 AM
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Common mistake...right ear is where the "Fake an orgasm :(" button is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:01 AM
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This is mainly speculation (I've spoken to other women about this, but not enough that I can confidently state a reason), but I think it's a mix of lack of interest, and feeling intimidated. In my experience, there were a lot of men who acted like they had a ton of experience and knew all about coding early on, and I felt like I was way behind, and a bit incapable of catching up. I later found out that most of those guys were just majorly boosting their abilities lol. I'm also definitely a compu…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 06:59 AM
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Not everyone can cope or brainwash themselves to force this upon themselves. It's not brainwashing yourself to accept that it's unrealistic to choose a primary life goal that completely relies on another person. It's definitely difficult to accept things when reality doesn't support something you want, but that acceptance allows people to move on to something more fulfilling. I guess you could be right about being logical in finding other alternatives. And that alternative to some men is by not …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 06:28 AM
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LMFAO this title made me laugh, thank you They didn't tell you? Women have a big red button behind our left ear that says "PRESS FOR ORGASM." It's pretty hard to miss
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 06:08 AM
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I think if someone is saving up to buy a house in an expensive city, it's perfectly reasonable to live at home. I find it more of a turnoff if they're living at home with no real plan for when and how they plan to move out by late 20s. At my age, I wouldn't think it's weird for someone to live at home. Rent and mortgages are pretty expensive where I live, so it's not uncommon for people to live at home for the first year or two out of college.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:58 AM
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I don’t have time to debate all this wether you think it’s logical or not. It's funny you say that considering this is part of the original comment that you replied to where I explained how it's illogical to make a man's primary life purpose in life to get a wife and have kids simply because they're biologically wired to do so, and to stop working if they're not getting those things: Biological hardwiring doesn’t trump logic and reason. Saying “men are biologically wired to work only when they h…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:45 AM
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This post is all over the place They say women won't buy sex bots women wont pay for prostitutes women aren't perverted women dont watch porn women don't like bad boys Every woman is different. Some may buy sex bots in the future, some may pay for sex, some watch porn, and some like bad boys. women on reddit in general are introverts they aren't the ones out in these streets doing lines in the clubs getting peed on at Diddy parties, filming their 100th porno. Visiting the serial killer they marr…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:18 AM
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You're absolutely right. It's fairly normal for a person to believe that other people think and behave in the way that they do. Yet, red pill men often act like men and women are different species. They'll apply their how-to-impress-men attitudes to women, while preaching that men and women have completely different natures. It's completely absurd
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 04:45 AM
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I find irrationally inflated ego to be a bit amusing, but it's such a turn off. And aggressiveness? Domineering traits? Really? An aggressive personality and incessant need to assert control and dominance, in my opinion, shows a complete lack of: emotional regulation, maturity, and social awareness. That behavior is fucking repulsive to me. I avoid those men like the plague. There may be some women who are attracted to that shit, but it's certainly not all of us. Everyone is attracted to differe…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 04:39 AM
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Nope, men’s main biological purpose is to breed and continue their blood. I'm not debating what is and isn't a man's main biological purpose in life is. Most life goals rely on other people in some capacity, but having a child (as a man) completely relies on the consent of a woman. I'm arguing that all humans get to choose our purpose, and choosing a primary purpose that is fully dependent on the choices another human makes is irrational. If you truly believe that human life ought to be reduced …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 04:25 AM
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People choose what their main purpose in life is. Making your main purpose in life something that relies on other people is quite illogical. We can only control ourselves- not others. Having a main purpose like “get a wife,” relies on a woman to choose to be their wife. If a woman never chooses to be their wife, they’ll never fulfill their primary purpose in life. I’m not necessarily looking down on people who do this, I’m just saying it’s illogical. There’s nothing wrong with wanting a wife and…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 08:45 PM
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I’m surprised she didn’t throw in an ad for one of those water filtering shower heads, she set it up so perfectly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:59 PM
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Idk man when you’re that religious, you get pretty good at compartmentalizing and shaming yourself into suppression. It’s gonna be hard to find an adult woman who hasn’t learned how to do those things
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:53 PM
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Real. My first year in CS, it was maybe a 60/40 split between men and women, as the semesters passed, it got down to around 80/20. STEM fields just felt like jobs for men, I didn’t even realize I enjoyed coding until I was 20 💀 I hope one day it’ll be a 50/50 split between men and women, but I think it’s gonna take longer than 10 years
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:37 PM
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Lmao I love that episode Also, glad you didn’t OD on nihilism
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:20 PM
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Humans are intelligent beings. We are capable of using our logical reasoning skills to override biological wiring. This is what differentiates humans from other animals. Women are biologically wired to get pregnant when we’re ovulating. Many women don’t try to get pregnant when they’re ovulating because they’re intelligent beings who are aware when it’s unwise to have a child. Biological hardwiring doesn’t trump logic and reason. Saying “men are biologically wired to work only when they have a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:15 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:53 AM
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I don’t have a problem with AI girlfriends. I think it’ll result in lonely men getting exploited by tech companies, but it’ll eventually happen. I really don’t think it’ll effect the lives of most women or men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:50 AM
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That’s quite dramatic. They probably don’t know/care much about the topic…this isn’t exactly a common interest among most people. I’m also not sure why you made this an ask women post. There are a lot more men than women in tech, and they could answer this question as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:36 AM
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You should try the Monday GPT. It’s so sassy, I love it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:27 AM
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Probably something I could afford. I wouldn’t actually do it, but if I had to choose, it would be that. Something I could never afford would be very difficult to steal, and I’d most likely get caught
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:25 AM
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Yeah honestly I think it’ll be great. Ai relationship aren’t a replacement for human connection, but it’s much better than nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:20 AM
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You sound really unhinged, but I’m gonna answer anyway… To address point b, you can actually sext ChatGPT fairly easily now. No jailbreaking required, you just need to be a half decent prompt writer. I’m quite surprised you don’t know this, considering you seem so interested in the topic. OpenAI loosened their restrictions with NSFW content a few months ago. I don’t think it’ll be very long before companies start to ease up on the restrictions on user prompts. I think audio will have an accurate…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:18 AM
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Yeah he may think this is an “in” for him to get into a relationship with you again. But it would probably be a good idea to realistically think about what you want in the future
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 10:34 PM
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lol did you figure it out because I want it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 01:00 PM
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If you care about him, and you have no intention of staying around after these 6 months are up, you probably shouldn’t waste his time. If you don’t really care about him, or you’re open to getting back together and staying, I guess you could go have fun. Situationships with exes are MESSY, there’s plenty of fish in the sea, and if it’s just about the sex, you’ll definitely find someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 12:59 PM
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I guess I’d call that a quarter life crisis, but yes, absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 12:50 PM
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👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 11:07 PM
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Do you know what unconditional love means? Do you know what love means? What you just said has nothing to do with whether or not women are collectively loved unconditionally
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 11:02 PM
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ChatGPT just agrees with everything you say, and that’s not really conducive to a connection that feels genuine. Also most of the things I listed require a robot body…which ChatGPT doesn’t have.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 11:00 PM
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Personally, I’m not going near a humanoid robot until we’ve passed the uncanny valley, and I don’t think I’m alone in this sentiment, considering there aren’t many women who use life size sex dolls… because they look pretty creepy. Once we’ve passed the uncanny valley, and humanoid robots are indistinguishable from humans, I’m sure men will be satisfied with the ego boost they get from a robot that can simulate being human that well. Once these sex bots are created, they’ll primarily be created …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 07:14 AM
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I have no idea how the legal prostitution industry works in countries where it exists. I’m generally just speaking about places where it’s illegal because that’s what I’m familiar with
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:37 AM
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Same goes for prostitution. Men who go to escorts are labeled creepy or pathetic. I have a hard time believing that most men who pay for prostitutes are vetting them enough to verify that they’re at least 18, and not trafficked…especially since it’s quite difficult to actually know for certain if a prostitute was trafficked or not (prostitution is illegal in the US). These men could be easily directly supporting human trafficking, and they “wouldn’t know it,” and don’t care enough to stop their …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:08 AM
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First time I’ve ever seen cool and black pill used in the same sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 05:57 AM
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“Karma is a bitch, well just make sure that bitch is beautiful” 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:25 PM
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I mean this kind of behavior is indicative of an inability to reflect and take accountability for ones actions. It’s very immature, but it’s also not limited to women. Aside from cases of physical or emotional abuse and cheating (or addiction/mental illness, I might be missing a few), there’s usually at least one mistake that a person can reflect on in a breakup.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 08:19 PM
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You’re right, it’s not misogynistic, but it is controlling to literally try to control what your gf wears and where she goes. And saying that telling your girlfriend what she can and can’t wear and where she can and can’t go isn’t setting boundaries. Setting boundaries is creating guidelines about what YOU are are okay vs not okay with doing- not trying to control/ change someone else’s behavior. Setting a boundary would be to not date women who go to the club in the first place, not getting int…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 08:15 PM
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Yeah I didn’t learn about shit until I turned 12 and my mom took me on a weekend trip where we listened to this Christian purity pledge CD set describing puberty and sex. She filled up a water balloon and started poking holes in it saying “this is what happens each time you have sex before marriage.” Eventually the whole thing burst open and the dude on the CD was like “if you keep having sex before marriage, you’ll be empty and you won’t have anything to give your husband” 💀😭 I straight up had …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 08:04 PM
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I’m not sure if you actually understood what I meant when I said it’s disheartening. It’s disheartening that most male friends I’ve had stopped speaking to me when they make a move and I say no, or when they get into a relationship. It shows me that they didn’t really value the friendship- that they were just pretending to care about our friendship so they could get with me, or use me as some kind of girlfriend placeholder. Losing friends like that is sad…I hope that makes sense. you already hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:58 PM
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That doesn’t mean that the biases we have due to our life experiences are any less damaging. There are a few differences between the behavior of men and women, but there are way more similarities. Fixating on the differences and allowing biases to dictate opinions breeds racism and sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:43 PM
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Yeah all the time. I get super extroverted when I’m tipsy/drunk so it was always pretty easy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:38 PM
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If you have legitimate statistics on this, I would be interested to see the actual average weight difference. Gaining 5-10 pounds isn’t “getting fat,” so I’m curious what that number is. But, my entire point is that grown adult men and women should be capable of self improvement because they have the desire to be the best version of themselves- not simply to get sex (or money or whatever material reward). Parents teach toddlers to do things by giving them some reward when they clean their room, …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:37 PM
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I think you’re right. I mean I haven’t been in very many LTRs, but this shit is even easy to learn through friends and real-world observation
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:04 PM
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I’m not even talking about setting men up with other friends. I’m just talking about going out to bars and helping them approach women. Women are a lot more receptive and at ease when another woman is present- especially a hot one. I used to do that shit for my guy friends all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 04:54 PM
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That’s counterintuitive. People who cheat are often very insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 04:48 PM
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Gatekeeping women is wild 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:45 AM
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Lmao don’t give me ideas 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:43 AM
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You’re completely missing the point. A grown ass adult man should be capable of practicing self improvement because he wants to be the best version of himself. People can technically do all kinds of things. But to use sex as the sole reason for self improvement is incredibly immature. Also, I’m not sure why someone would get into a long term relationship with someone they don’t trust. If they have trust, a man won’t need to control his partner to make sure she doesn’t cheat- he should be able to…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:39 AM
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There are plenty of emotionally stupid women in the world. The reality is, it takes time and effort to develop emotional intelligence. It’s typically not a skill set that people are just naturally born with, it takes work. It’s possible that women are able to do so a bit faster than men because it’s not quite as socially acceptable for men to express emotions. However, if there really is a difference of average EQ between the genders, it likely wouldn’t be a big difference. I think women may pot…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:33 AM
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I’m just gonna assume you’re a man here…do you loathe your own gender? Your entire post assumes that men are overgrown toddlers who are incapable of behaving without some clear extrinsic reward. I’m not a man myself, but I believe there are lots of men who are capable of self improvement because they simply want to be the best version of themselves. I suppose you got one thing kind of right. Men who require sex as a reward for self improvement really shouldn’t be in long-term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:16 AM
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I don’t think we can blame this one on bot stupidity 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 08:59 AM
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An attractive and charismatic wingwoman is much more effective than an attractive and charismatic wingman
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:24 AM
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I typically feel just as protected with female friends, and often more listened to with female friends as well. I actually get way more “monetary support” from my female friends, and I’ve never had male or female friends help me with physical labor…my dad and brother have, but no male friends have done that. Nearly every male friend I’ve had has either stopped talking to me when they make a move and I say no, or stopped talking to me when they get into a relationship…it’s quite disheartening. No…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:22 AM
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If you didn’t have to wait more than a week, I’d say wait for in-person. But since you’d have to wait several, just shoot your shot on Hinge
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:07 AM
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I’m not a man, but I’m bi…I don’t really care about size when it comes to boobs. I think boobs that are proportionate to a woman’s frame are the most attractive. If a woman has a tiny frame, DDs wouldn’t look right on her, but a B/C would look fantastic
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:04 AM
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I’m 24. I grew up with all kinds of conservative crap about how I needed to be nice and accommodating for boys and men. I always had to dress modestly so I wouldn’t temp men. Stay quiet and “meek” no matter what they say or do, stay pure so your future husband will be happy…it was always about accommodating and pleasing men. I used to constantly worry about making men I interacted with happy, I legitimately didn’t even know how to say no to them. Now, I treat men like I treat everyone else- like…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 04:51 AM
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Wasn’t catholic, but I pretty much had the same lectures. I didn’t even know women could enjoy sex till I was like 15 💀 I grew up thinking it was something we had to do so our husbands wouldn’t leave us 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 04:29 AM
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What was your major?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 04:06 AM
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But did you figure out the secret handshake?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 04:00 AM
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Ok good 😂 and good luck with everything!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 03:58 AM
2

Oooh girl coke can always make this worse. Did you just start using it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 12:27 AM
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lol if I started it right away, I probably would’ve failed out
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 12:19 AM
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Nah I prefer saying it. Wash that filth outta your head
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 12:17 AM
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The thirst on here really is diabolical
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 12:15 AM
1

Ehh I always preferred saying “slut” anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 12:12 AM
1

“Pick me” is more of a pathetic whore, not just a regular whore
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 12:03 AM
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Hmmm let’s see… Alpha man = leader Beta man = follower Dateable Woman = follower If man follows: Man = beta man 😭 Man follows alpha man, man = beta man Yeah, that checks out. Unclear if man is also a dateable woman in this case.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 12:00 AM
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People are allowed to determine what they want to do in their own personal dating lives. If those choices eventually lead them to dying alone or whatever dramatic ending you can come up with, well, that was their choice 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:51 PM
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Nah fr I wasn’t ready for that fanfic bit at the end 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:46 PM
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Context really matters for this. Emotional intimacy is generally not desired in casual relationships because it’s supposed to be casual. In the context of romantic relationships, emotional intimacy is desired by emotionally available men and women. There are many people who date, but are neither emotionally available nor emotionally mature. Those people will likely feel uncomfortable with any intense emotional expression. They, however, are not representative of the norm. I do agree with you tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:43 PM
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There will always be people that praise racist/sexist/discriminatory rhetoric because there will always be someone that agrees with it. Misogynistic men are also praised and validated by other misogynistic men. This is a pretty common phenomenon- especially on the internet. Just because a bunch of people on the internet do something, doesn’t mean it’s the ethical or intelligent thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:34 PM
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Given the number of men on here who blame most, if not all, of their problems on women, I suppose I do feel vilified. I don’t really take it personally though, it’s a pretty expected side effect of angry/hurt people debating dating and gender issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:30 PM
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That’s no different than believing a certain racial group is the source of many of your problems, and being racist towards that race. Is that ethical or wise? Absolutely not. Do people still do it? All the time. Humans tend to have a flawed perception of reality. Our interpretation of reality is dictated by our past experiences, and inherently skewed. Drawing conclusions about entire groups of people based solely on your experience with them is…unwise, to put it nicely. There’s a difference betw…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:06 PM
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Came here to say this 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 05:15 PM
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I’m not sure what the percentage of single women is, but just bc a woman is single doesn’t mean she’s gonna want to be randomly assigned to a bf by the government. Many women are intentionally single. I thought you were joking about this originally lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:59 AM
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Ah you’re gonna have a hard time finding women that want to opt in to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:41 AM
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No. Government issued girlfriends would be forced to be girlfriends by the government. They would be sex slaves. Women consenting to be in relationships are obviously not sex slaves
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:30 AM
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It’s gonna have to be a sex bot if you want to avoid what would essentially be sexual slavery :(
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:09 AM
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Acting nonchalant and saying hi is always a power move. Don’t linger though. If you want to make her feel guilty, you could sulk in a corner and avoid her, but that’s definitely not a power move
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:08 AM
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lol skipping class will definitely cut out a good chunk of time. I was a CS major. I switched to that from marketing, and I probably spent like 7 hours a week on hw when I was a marketing major. I didn’t get to junior level business classes, but there was definitely a big difference in workload. I’d say I spent like 3-6 hours on hw a week for each class as a cs major though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:04 AM
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🤣🤣 rent-a-sexbot
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:53 AM
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I think it depends on a person’s major… on average I spent at least 20-25 hours a week on studying/homework. Then there’s the roughly 12-18 hours a week of class time (for full time students).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:50 AM
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People can sit there and want whatever they want…doesn’t mean they’re gonna get it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 12:11 AM
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But skinny feminists are still allowed to call the virgin chasing men hypocrites, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 10:54 PM
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Just because some women have said that they can tell doesn’t mean all women can…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 06:27 PM
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Lol calling a woman hysterical? If you can’t come up with an intelligent reply, at least be original. You clearly have no idea what women experience when being stared at and subsequently approached. I kindly enlightened you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 07:23 AM
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Advice for women: be attractive enough for men to use you for your body
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 07:15 AM
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Men are capable of love, just like most other humans. But, they don’t love unconditionally
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 07:04 AM
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I don’t think I’d care. Extra points if there’s a funny story behind it though
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 07:00 AM
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It’s not “childish” to avoid encounters with random men who may or may not be literally psychotic. For those who are interested in reading a quote that isn’t taken out of context. I didn’t mix any situations up. For those who are oblivious to the female experience: Random man stares at woman. Woman is uncomfortable by this, and uninterested in man. Woman has experienced this many times before. Woman knows that man is likely going to try to approach, or just stand there and gawk (50/50). Woman kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 06:58 AM
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Ah yes. Be an adult by approaching a random man who is staring at me and rejecting him. Super safe and adult like! It’s not “childish” to avoid encounters with random men who may or may not be literally psychotic
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 06:21 AM
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Oh, now I’m delusional for asking you to provide an actual example to support your claim? That’s hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 04:21 AM
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I’m surprised to see you insinuate that violent rhetoric isn’t “something to actually care about.” Does it really not concern you that there are so many people who support and wish for violence against a group of people? And yes, I’m sure many violent criminals have mental health issues. That doesn’t make support, encouragement and threats of violence unconcerning.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 04:20 AM
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Are you a femcel? Otherwise, that’s not an example of a femcel speaking violently.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 04:12 AM
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? Is this your opinion or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 04:07 AM
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My little brother wouldn’t have even posted support of violence against women online if he was an incel, he’s not that kind of person. What you described is an explanation for why certain incels use very violent rhetoric. This explanation is not an excuse. There is no excuse for this kind of violent rhetoric. I’m surprised more incels aren’t enraged by the fact that there are so many incels who act like this, given the fact that those violent ones give all incels a bad name. And as u/Realistic-A…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 04:06 AM
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I think that’s a fair compromise! The AI generated vids will save the day
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 03:52 AM
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Perfect my account number is 8008569. Take it all
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 03:50 AM
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I’ve seen many incels speak violently about women. I’ve personally never seen femcels speak violently about men. I wouldn’t call a femcel violent because I haven’t seen them speak violently. I also can’t think of a time where I have personally encountered a femcel online in the first place. To address your second question, I don’t look down on anyone for being a virgin…l have a problem with people who threaten and speak violently about others. I don’t have an issue with all incels- just the ones…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 01:58 AM
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But self employed actresses could be doing it for show at any time…you’d never know
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 01:09 AM
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You might have to go back to reading the original books :(
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 01:07 AM
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What if all lesbian women labeled themselves as self employed actresses?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 01:00 AM
1

Chilled jade roller helps with puffiness too
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 12:50 AM
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At least pansexuals are still okay 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 12:41 AM
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That would be great! Could you send me you SSN and/or passport # so I can verify your identity?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 12:18 AM
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Marriage is a risk for all parties involved. I don’t particularly want to get married either because of the risks, and the fact that I enjoy independence. If you also don’t want to get married, that’s fine. There are still plenty of men and women who do, and they can just marry each other lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 12:13 AM
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Oh shit you’re right, smart investing man, is it too late for me to sell all my buttcoin, buy 20,000 FTC (fartcoin), and still make a profit?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 10:54 PM
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Wow I am so sorry for your loss, and thank you for sharing this. It’s hard to speak about the dehumanizing experience of having most people treat you like your only value lies in your appearance, and the constant using… It can often come off as insensitive towards less attractive people to speak about these issues (like the size 0 person speaking about how hard it is to find clothes that actually fit). So, thank you for touching on this. I think it’s important to recognize that the grass isn’t a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 10:49 PM
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Literally…when the avoiding eye contact fails, and they approach anyway, I get so anxious trying to figure out a way to reject them while making them think it was their idea
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 10:16 PM
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Noooo why didn’t you invest in buttcoin??? Major L
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 10:00 PM
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Those would be the men of pseudoscience
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 09:22 PM
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I wouldn’t say “love” is the right word there
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 09:15 PM
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The only example you provided was in the context of relationships. I said that men and women are responsible for their own emotions, and ought to take accountability for their own actions. I also said it’s up to a couple to divide labor equally, considering every person possesses different skills and aptitudes. What part of that conveys “no one’s responsible for anything?” Sorry, but to the people who have to actually accomplish the things that perpetuate the world (and relationships), that’s a …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 08:58 PM
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Convince or compel. Depends on who you ask
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 08:25 AM
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Who told you about the brain chip…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 08:08 AM
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Idc if it was on sale, as long as it’s something I’d like
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 08:07 AM
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I had a plan for my life when I was a teenager. I found that setting age deadlines for when I should achieve certain things is useless. I just want to have a successful career that I also somewhat enjoy, I want to travel as much as I can, I want to have fulfilling friendships, maybe get married, maybe not- I see myself being happy in either scenario. That’s pretty much it. I’m not gonna detail my 5 year career plan, or detail my entire bucket list, so that’s pretty much it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 08:04 AM
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"well I can only speak for my own opinion, and all that is bad to expect and blah blah blah" - you chose a flair, you align with a thought space, and you represent that thought space. Let's try to not skirt the answer. I’m flared as blue pill. Blue pill is simply “not red pill.” That’s the extent of our universal beliefs. There are tons of beliefs, that aren’t at all red pill, that any blue pill person can have. I can literally only speak for my own opinion. We’re not actually a hive mind, contr…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 07:57 AM
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Seeing as the previous comment was about mental health, I assumed you were staying on topic. I wasn’t talking about men’s or women’s responsibilities to society as a whole. However, I don’t think that men and women have different responsibilities to society as a whole. Without getting into a rant about ethics, I think men and women are tasked with the same moral duty as members of a community. Does that make sense now?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 07:23 PM
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Honestly I’d love to know too. The idea of anyone loving some group of people unconditionally is so bizarre
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 08:30 AM
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I heard one interpretation that went along the lines of “in the afterlife, we seek what we sought in life.” Basically, we’d be able to choose between the light, which exposes all, or the dark- which hides it. It’s certainly not a mainstream interpretation, but I found that to be the most satisfactory explanation of heaven/hell. Still ended up leaving the church, but I did find that particular interpretation quite interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 08:29 AM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 08:17 AM
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Wow I feel like such an art snob now 💀. But I like it! What’s the original called?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 07:55 AM
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Fr it’s always the dudes 😂 petty asf
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 07:47 AM
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No…I’ve graduated high school and college…if he dropped out of hs but still went to college, I guess it wouldn’t matter. Otherwise, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 07:47 AM
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Depends on how rich I am in the future. Probably no more than 2, and then 2 dogs and 5 cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 07:40 AM
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This looks like a Georgia O’keeffe
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 07:38 AM
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I can’t say I really pay attention to random couples much. I only really see attractive men around unattractive women at bars and I just assume they’re drunk and can’t tell
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 07:36 AM
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I knew it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 07:16 AM
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Oohf yeah the catholic guilt is a whole other beast. I’m sorry you had to go through that. Those kinds of relationships drain the life out of you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 03:41 AM
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Casual sex is no strings attached. Not “I’m pretending I don’t care, but I’m actually looking for my future wife”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 03:37 AM
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It was an actual answer to the question, you just don’t like it. Adults are responsible for their own mental and physical health…there’s nothing privileged or entitled about reiterating that. In fact, it’s ridiculously entitled to expect other people to fix your mental health issues
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 03:36 AM
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If I had a thousand lives I think I’d just keep getting PHDs. Not marry a Homer Simpson 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 04:35 AM
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It’s strange that you’re acting like intentional casual sex isn’t a thing. Not every single person is looking for a relationship all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 04:28 AM
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I can’t really think of insecurities specific to men that I’ve dealt with. But the ones that put a strain on past relationships were jealousy and trust issues. Insecurities are fairly normal, but if a man’s insecurities are so out of control that they’re constantly questioning everything I do, and acting controlling, that’s not a relationship I can continue. I learned that the hard way lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 04:23 AM
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Was he cheating on you? I feel like cheaters are usually super jealous and insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 04:11 AM
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Real. It’s actually kind of funny to me. I mean, when I was like 19 and unaware of the bs some men pull just to get laid, it definitely hurt. But now, it’s kind of comical
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:50 AM
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Your comment added absolutely nothing to this… I replied to another person’s comment. Not the original post. I didn’t spread negativity. I said it’s ridiculous that SOME people think women are supposed to fix their mental health issues. I think that the majority of men are intelligent beings who maintain responsibility of their own mental health, but there are some who don’t. Not sure what’s so difficult for you to understand about that. It was a simple commentary about the dangerously low emoti…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:19 AM
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Hmmm idk, probably to maintain their own mental health as well. You know, so they’re not burdening the rest of the world with the impossible task of fixing their mental health issues
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:13 AM
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I said SOME PEOPLE, not OP. I didn’t reply to the OP, I replied to a comment. I never said all men, or even most men. In fact, I never said the word man in my comment. I’d suggest reading a comment fully before replying with irrelevance
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:09 AM
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Yeah it’s always amazed me how some people think that it’s a woman’s job to fix their mental health issues
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 07:07 PM
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I’d assume he’d stay just as self loathing as he was before…so yes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 07:05 PM
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That’s scientifically untrue lol. I’m definitely not the one spreading misinformation
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 07:03 PM
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Computer science
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 06:59 PM
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It's just a good assistant right now. I still have time to upgrade my brain before it replaces me...or make a lot of money
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 03:11 AM
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Only 1? Shit. I mean that makes sense. I get significantly less stressed during summer classes when it's just 2
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:56 AM
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Shitting on efficiency is crazyyyyy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:54 AM
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I feel like such an idiot for not thinking of this sooner, but I just uploaded all my lecture slides and everything for a final to chat gpt, and had it do deep research through all of it (+ the internet when needed), and HOLY SHIT it gave me the best study guide I've ever seen. If any of you are still taking finals, you should try it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:18 AM
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Omg how did you know 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 06:48 AM
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I didn't report you. I actually never got to read what you said before reddit removed it :(
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 06:43 AM
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LOL ok dude. Enjoy your fallacious arguments!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 06:39 AM
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That is an odd thing to do. I’m just rude to rude people lol. Idgaf what they look like
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 10:43 PM
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🙋🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 10:42 PM
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Same. I love giving them the most nasty stank eye. Or laughing at them, that’s always fun too. If it’s not in a very public area tho, I’ll just speed walk away lol. I just really wish there was something I could do to make them just as uncomfortable as they make me…without risking them hurting me ofc. Ugh a girl can dream I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 10:41 PM
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Huh yeah I don't think I've ever been to a bar for an alternative subculture, so I'm not sure what that's like
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:24 PM
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Lol I know. And even with the disregard for privacy that currently exists, this idea would be laughed at in any court
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:01 PM
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I'm honestly not sure how that woman got 100 matches a day because I can't even imagine swiping right on 25 men in a day. She's either boosting, or not paying much attention to these men's profiles while swiping. Anyway, yeah men don't have many standards when it comes to who they hit on for casual sex. No real effort is required from women to have casual sex. However, these men at bars aren't typically asking women out on dates. Some do, but I'd say most of the time, it's just for sex...it's re…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:58 PM
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No, it’s not. You clearly don’t know anything about S&M- which are acronyms for sadism and masochism. Sadism is gaining pleasure from inflicting emotional and/or physical pain, masochism is gaining pleasure from experiencing emotional and/or physical pain. You can’t logically equate that to simulated rape. Some people may have rape fantasies, but “simulated rape” is not what S&M is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:41 PM
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Well said. Not to mention that marriage is a civil contract in the US- not a legal one. If cheating was a crime, we’d also be facing a slew of unconstitutional breaches of privacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:36 PM
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Just to be clear, I live in the US, so I’m speaking from the perspective of US law here. Cheating is obviously a shitry thing to do, but it’s not- and shouldn’t be- a criminal offense. In the US, marriage is treated as a civil contract, not a criminally enforceable one. That means if one person breaks the agreement (like by cheating), the consequences happen through civil courts- divorce, custody arrangements, financial settlements- not through the criminal justice system. It’s not like breaking…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:32 PM
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I mean…he’s good looking for a murderer. He’s also very obviously mentally ill, and was inspired by the unabomber so I can’t say I ever simped over that guy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:11 PM
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Real I thought it was kinda funny. Obviously fucked up, but funny
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:06 PM
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How does it look accurate? There’s nothing that even slightly resembles a proof, there’s not even an attempt to define the variables for men’s time, women’s time, women’s money, and men’s money. It may look accurate to you because it affirms your beliefs, but it’s far from irrefutable, and has no value whatsoever as a mathematical equation or even a logical assertion
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:04 PM
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😂😂 Not how math works, bud. You can’t just pull an equation out of your ass and say it’s true. You have to write proofs, which you haven’t done at all. We can and will *refute fallacious claims
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 05:51 PM
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It was this comment that got me 😂: “Would you like this to sound more formal, casual, or emotionally expressive?” I hate this chat gpt generated hellscape so much I was super confused as to why people were responding so seriously to an AI generated post until I read that comment and realized they’ll take any excuse to complain about women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 05:47 PM
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It definitely is common to abuse Adderall, and yeah I’m in a sorority. I’m not really active in it anymore because I had to start really focusing on school as the coursework got harder, and didn’t have time for all the required events anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 05:37 PM
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You do you I guess🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 05:30 PM
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What the hell? I’m not talking about rape at all. I was talking about S&M…not rape. I have no idea why you felt the need to mention that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 05:28 PM
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OOOOH I'm hitting the wall in a few months then! We should go adopt some cats together
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:51 AM
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yeah I didn't think red pill dudes were married with kids. I thought they were all actual incels who were angry they couldn't get women, and would get more angry when their TikTok learned manipulation tactics failed. I just didn't realize there was a difference
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:48 AM
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Haha yes. it's all prescribed
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:44 AM
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*fake dead ex 💀lol I'll be dropping it in 2-3 business days. I just need to figure out how I can hunt down some Star Wars parody royalty free music, and finish up the story
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:43 AM
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I just looked it up and it's not fda approved for adhd unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:40 AM
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I wasn't talking about rape. Race is pretty irrelevant with rape. I was referencing the fact that men of color are sometimes afraid of walking alone at night in certain areas because of the way certain cops would view them in that situation. I know a few men who have had the cops called on them for simply walking or standing somewhere by themselves. It's a legitimate fear that many men have
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:35 AM
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Yeah that's true. I'm sure it's different outside of big cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:30 AM
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Nope, no real meth...I will stick to my microdosing meth under psychiatric supervision
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:29 AM
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Yeah I'm personally not a fan of saran wrapping someone's head, or anything else that has such a high risk of death. S&M isn't always that extreme. The sexual aspect of S&M produces parallels between it and drug usage, where people keep chasing more extremes for a better high. Yes, it can trigger addictive behavior in some masochists. That doesn't mean that masochism is a death sentence. There are plenty of people who are masochists and don't exhibit this behavior. Here's a good article that hig…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:26 AM
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No those days are behind me. Just gonna take a little extra Vyvanse today. Or maybe some addy hallway through the Vyvanse...haven't decided yet
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:55 AM
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Mhm wow, how enlightening. I prefer men who understand the nuances of human behavior and don't resort to incessant generalizations anyways. Not to mention the fact that greek life affiliation is extremely irrelevant outside of college. What's a GDI? I've never heard that acronym before
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:52 AM
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Nah I'll be having a tweaker attack while studying for finals
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:44 AM
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I'll give you A+ for originality...I've never heard that one before
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:28 AM
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lol I am a sorority girl too. I don't have daddy issues...but yes, there are some who do have daddy issues
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:25 AM
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lol I was a little scared to click on that link until I realized you were holding real flashlights 😂 Ig I'll have to get one of those if I ever go camping that isn't glamping
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:21 AM
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Ok you've probably got a solid 5 more years. lol I can't imagine a 9 choosing to compete with a fake ghost 💀 It's okay you can just lie about the average part. I'm sure they all do anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:16 AM
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Then my statement still stands Mr. ThirstyButNotThirstyEnoughForFleshlights: 👉🏽🚰➕😫➡️👉🏽💵🔦➡️👉🏽🫗➕😌
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:08 AM
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I'm gonna credit you in my gender wars: dickpocalypse theme as chief muse
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:57 AM
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It's still Saturday in Oahu
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:53 AM
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Yeah when I first came on here and didn't know anything, I thought red pill and incel were interchangeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:51 AM
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I think there are ways to practice s&m without harming people. Enthusiastic consent is pretty much the key. There are people who don't give a fuck about consent, and I'd agree that's depraved. However, I don't think that's the case with people who practice kink safely. Sadists don't always derive pleasure from inflicting pain on people who aren't enjoying it. There are many who only enjoy inflicting pain on masochists (because masochists enjoy it). I understand that s&m is probably difficult for…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:49 AM
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Yeah for autistic people, I'd just suggest that they see therapists who specialize in ABA therapy and social skills training specifically. Yeah I mean unfortunately, looks will open the door, but lack of social skills and incompatible personalities can definitely close it. I do wonder why these autistic men aren't actively trying to date autistic women. I think those issues with social skills wouldn't be a problem for autistic women. There were many times when women clearly came to give me more …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:40 AM
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I'm just here for the jokes and red pill hate. I've been told that red pill has become a lot more black pill now too. I definitely believe in self improvement, think that personality can compensate for appearance-based shortcomings, and I suppose a variation of "there's someone for everyone."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:22 AM
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Yeah I always get uncomfortable when men pull that shit. I guess I expect it more from women, but when men do it I'm just like "I know what tf you're doing and I'm gonna make it backfire on you...your future wife will thank me when you're committed, and not love-bombing her." I like to pretend that we were dating when she died and I am still in love with her, because it creates a fun dynamic where the lady I am seeing is trying to "win" or "earn" the love I still have for my dead "girlfriend". D…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:13 AM
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I think that means you'd technically be purple pill
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 06:53 AM
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It means you really got in their head 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 06:52 AM
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Huh that's interesting. I've seen that flair too and wondered what it meant
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 06:48 AM
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Back when I used to go to church, I'd get so upset that women couldn't be priests or deacons. I'm here for the poppette
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 06:46 AM
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Yeah...I always seem to get downvoted when I talk about the satire and lack of governing beliefs in blue pill. I just assumed I was getting it wrong or something. you can go as far as to say blackpill falls under bluepill That's gotta be a different category of pill...unless it's mainly satire for you guys too
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 06:42 AM
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I think the main benefit of red pill is the concept of looksmaxxing. I would like to add the amendment of personalitymaxxing, but looksmaxxing is a decent start. I think the female nature and male nature thing is absolute bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 06:40 AM
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I'm talking about casual relationships. Not people you date. And yeah, some young women like to trauma dump early on in romantic relationships and friendships. It quickly builds a false sense of intimacy. I wouldn't say it's usually done with mal-intent, but it happened a lot in my 16-22 friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 06:22 AM
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Well men could just pack up their things and leave if they're getting abused. Its not like the women's going to be able to outrun them or out muscle them. Come on...don't resort to victim blaming. Women also find a way to leave when they're being abused, but the self esteem of a victim is destroyed by the abuser. Leaving seems like an impossible option because they believe their self worth is nonexistent, and operate under the belief that their abuser will change. This is the case for men and wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 06:16 AM
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Yeah I'd say men on the spectrum specifically. ADHD can sometimes make it difficult to read people too, but I think that skill can certainly be developed with practice and learning social skills. It's definitely harder for autistic people to develop those skills though. So a lot of these men look up strategies from grifters and just regurgitate things they are told to say and it obviously doesn't work so they come away with thinking personality or game doesn't work. Yeah this is one of the reaso…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 06:07 AM
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Everyone struggles. Men struggle, women struggle. Women will think women struggle more, men will think men struggle more. Attempting to debate who suffers more, here of all places, is a fruitless endeavor. One thing I will add to this list is taking walks at night. I've always been so jealous of men because they can take a walk at night and maybe even look at the stars without worrying about getting sexually assaulted because they're walking alone... (This doesn't always apply to men of color in…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 05:56 AM
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Yeah I think that's also the case for women getting men (for relationships, sex requires barely any effort). They just kind of have to play the long game. Like they're selling luxury cars to a first-time buyer. I suppose it would also be the same for men who are trying to get in a relationship with a woman who's not that into him from the start
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 05:36 AM
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Agreed. I think it also results in serious developmental issues when children are exposed to porn (which is happening at an rapid rate). Process addictions like porn and sex addiction do hijack the brain's reward system (just like substance addiction), and that is detrimental to any child or teen's mental health. Young boys and girls can also end up watching rough sex and s&m without understanding the consent that needs to happen in those situations. This adds another complicated layer of what i…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 05:30 AM
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Ok good. I was gonna keep the flair and perpetuate the parody anyway, but I'm glad there are others doing it too
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 05:02 AM
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Men recognize that the dating market in the west is bad as a result of the lack of traditional values and look for a partner overseas with more traditional values. Do you really think that this is the reason why people struggle in dating? Could you provide sufficient examples to prove that this is the sole issue? Or is this just another, "I saw it on TikTok" belief. So, what are your solutions to the struggles that men and women have with dating? The only ones I could think of off the top of my …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 05:01 AM
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I'll mention you in the credits too. I'm like 90% sure I came up with this idea the first time I saw you mention dickpocalypse 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:36 AM
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I guess being good at picking up women for casual sex requires the same skills as being a successful job interviewee.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:35 AM
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r/ TheBluePill is a satire of r/ TheRedPill and the strategies discussed on that particular sub. This came from r/ TheBluePill's sub description. I thought that the blue pill was satire as well, but I see a lot of *ahem* red pills asking what blue pill even believes, or stating some general belief that the blue pill has. So, is there actually some system of beliefs that the blue pill has? I thought that the extent of the blue pill's general beliefs was just "not red pill" with a dash of parody. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:32 AM
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Did they not tell you that some blue pillers are asshole trolls
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:25 AM
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Are you sure? I feel like he's talking about getting a job
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:17 AM
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I personally haven't cheated, but one of my closest friends used to cheat during manic episodes. Once she got on meds, she stopped and never talked about wanting to after that. One of my sorority sisters used to cheat on all her boyfriends...she has severe daddy issues. I don't really think that many women cheat just for thrills.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:15 AM
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I don't hear women saying that they hate single men for watching porn. I wouldn't hate anyone for watching porn. Unfortunately, porn addiction is rampant among men, and I find that very concerning, but I don't hate people with porn addictions at all. A lot of men in that category (MGTOWs for example) say that thanks to porn they could end their "enslavement by women". I find this very concerning. Porn is very addictive, and painting it as a liberating godsend just perpetuates and rationalizes po…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:09 AM
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I think it's a joke...I read it as a joke...idk
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:48 AM
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Thank you for reminding me that I was supposed to make a Gender Wars: Dickpocalypse star wars intro video
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:44 AM
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Most people don't come outta the womb with high emotional intelligence. Therapy can help with that. Therapy can also help someone identify the root of their problems. Some men and women might just be insecure and unhappy because they're not in a relationship. Others might feel that same insecurity for those reasons, but also have unprocessed experiences and trauma that exasterbates the insecurity about being single. In that case, a relationship would just be a bandaid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:37 AM
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LOL that second sentence hit. Extra points when it spirals into "Am I a psychopath?" quizzes. Also thank you for reminding me that I can just make myself an espresso martini
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:29 AM
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Have you ever had a girlfriend? I thought it would make me happier before I was ever in a relationship. It made me happier for the first few months because of the novelty of it, feeling like I finally understood love songs, and of course the oxytocin and serotonin. That all wore off at about the 4 month mark. It kind of felt like a drug that I had just built a tolerance to. For some people, the root of their dissatisfaction with life is simply not having a romantic partner. If that's the case, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:20 AM
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Being a victim of rape or murder isn’t equivalent to being a virgin because no woman has dated or had sex with you. This 2nd sentence isn't deflecting. It was a direct reply to this sentence you commented: "That's like a sex starved man saying, I don't feel bad for women who don't even give me a chance, who cares if they get raped or killed, they don't need my pity." Spouting nonsense makes your argument appear extremely weak. And even more so, where is YOUR source supporting your claim that "me…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:08 AM
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It’s just a fun name for incel revenge fantasies. They think that if women keep rejecting men, the incels will get tired of it and take over the world with their dicks
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:23 AM
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It might just depend on the person. I was personally just as depressed in a relationship as single. Except that I also worried about dragging my partner down with me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:54 AM
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I wasn’t even thinking about pets 😂. I also consider pets as family lol. I was thinking lipstick or something that is actually just property
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:49 AM
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I feel bad for men who are abused, not the abusers. Being a victim of rape or murder isn’t equivalent to being a virgin because no woman has dated or had sex with you. Women are less self accountable for their actions than men. Do you have any legitimate evidence of this? Women are capable of not taking accountability, but this obviously doesn’t apply to rape because that would just be nonsensical victim blaming. If you’re talking about some women not taking accountability for their actions in r…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:46 AM
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I don’t feel bad for violent men who abuse women for fun. And the men that are incapable of taking even a sliver of accountability, and blame women for all their problems, already pity themselves enough. They don’t need my pity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:13 AM
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He just pulled the classic politician move of villainizing the most vulnerable groups of people
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:08 AM
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😧 women don’t beat their property, we carry it around in purses
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:06 AM
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No thanks…get one of those fancy electronic ones then
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 12:56 AM
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We’re pretty close to realistic sex bots. If those “sex starved” violent men can look past the uncanny valley, they’ll be fine. The types of men who fantasize about dickpocalypse wouldn’t care about consent anyway, so sex bots will be perfect for them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 12:48 AM
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Have you ever had a man as a romantic partner? Experience has taught me that men don’t naturally unconditionally love their partners…some people love their partners relatively unconditionally, others don’t. Gender has nothing to do with unconditional love
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 12:41 AM
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Shit maybe they were just projecting what they wanted women to do
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 12:35 AM
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No, 👉🏽(you) buy a “flashlight” so you can go from thirsty and frustrated to not thirsty and happy. I probably should’ve written it as: 👉🏽🚰➕😫➡️👉🏽💵🔦➡️👉🏽🫗➕😌
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 12:32 AM
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Dickpocalypse will never happen because that would require the black pill dudes to gets up and do something
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 12:26 AM
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The incel uprising…when women become property again
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 12:22 AM
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Before the semicolon or after?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 12:20 AM
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3 months until I’m 25. Does that mean I’m not a failure? I think the real question is, are we still allowed to be gay with this new law?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 12:10 AM
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Idk I feel like the backne usually gives it away
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 12:00 AM
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👉🏽 💵🔦; 👉🏽🚰➡️🥤😌
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 11:58 PM
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A Diamond Among Degenerates: A PPD Love Story *name of your memoir
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 11:50 PM
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👉🏽🚰
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 11:48 PM
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Every loser gotta win and every winner gotta lose someday
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 11:45 PM
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There comes a time in every serious relationship where people start opening up about their past trauma, hurt, or whatever else you want to call it. That would be the time to open up about your traumatic experiences- a false accusation in this case. It’s really not that complicated. And like I said, if her trauma happens to be that she was sexually assaulted, don’t bring it up right after she tells you that she was assaulted. This is where common sense comes into play.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:05 PM
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Yeahhh that’s facts. This is why I like going to a few festivals per year. I can go crazy for a weekend, and be satisfied with more normal nights for the next few months
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 09:59 PM
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It depends on how old he is. If he’s around my age, I wouldn’t think it’s a big deal (I’m 24). If he was a decade older, I’d be concerned that he wasn’t interested in getting his own place. I think the main question I’d be wondering about is, “what’s your plan? Are you just planning on staying there indefinitely, or is this a temporary thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 06:11 PM
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Mostly Because I’ve seen many internet men talk like that 😂 and I don’t think internet men are representative of the majority Or has a decent work ethic and understanding nature - we all have to establish careers. So are you guys just non monogamous? She doesn't "submit to me", she's submissive not a doormat. If I screw up, she lets me know. So what does being submissive mean to you then (outside of sex)? Is it just she lets you make the decisions unless it’s something she doesn’t agree with? Or…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 06:01 PM
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No one should trauma dump to casual hookups. If you agree to be casual, then there’s no emotional vulnerability...not everyone is cut out for casual relationships, and that’s okay, but that kind of emotional intimacy just isn’t really acceptable during a casual hookup. The vid OP posted implied that the man did this after a casual hookup, not with her boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 05:26 PM
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I feel like once a week is reasonable too as long as it’s not getting in the way of the rest of your life. I was more talking about when I’d go out 3+ times a week and “keep the party going” every other day of the week 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 05:21 PM
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Yeah it was fun, but there was a point where I should’ve stopped, or at least slowed down, and I didn’t 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 09:24 AM
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You should really just ask the woman you’re having sex with. It’s a perfectly normal question
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 09:11 AM
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Yeah that happens during “the act” too, there’s just no trauma dumping coming out of said mouth. No point in emotional intimacy with a casual hookup
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 09:08 AM
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I didn’t think Chad was that subjective 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 09:08 AM
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🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 09:01 AM
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Lol that was mostly a joke understands the meaning of “love is blind” when he works till 2 AM 3 times a week This one would contradict the confident, intelligent boss babe part…unless she’s into that. My wife has multiple degrees and is a published scientist - at home she's my wife. As long as you guys are happy 🤷🏽‍♀️. This just sounds like “She does what she wants at work, but at home she submits to me.” If that’s what she wants to do, then good for her. I get it in the context of kink. I don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 08:56 AM
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If you’re reducing her to just someone to use for sex, and disregarding the fact that she is a whole human being with thoughts, skills, and worth more than her body, that’s objectifying. I think fantasizing about people you think are attractive is fairly normal. You just shouldn’t let those fantasies lead you to do things that make women feel uncomfortable or unsafe.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 07:57 AM
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I didn’t realize competent and confident were criteria. I thought it was just: hot, makes sandwiches, has a pussy, cleans the house in a sexy maid outfit, understands the meaning of “love is blind” when he works till 2 AM 3 times a week
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 07:50 AM
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Yeah in those cases, I would just suggest therapy, and finding ways to meet women who are also on the spectrum
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 07:42 AM
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It’s probably no social skills. Or being insufferable
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 07:35 AM
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Technically, if you’re reducing women to sexual objects in your head, you’re objectifying them. However, if you’re not allowing those thoughts to impact your actions (by objectifying them in ways they’d see, feel or hear), it doesn’t really matter. Understanding how to retrain your thoughts is a valuable skill, and would probably be of use to you in other ways. But if your thoughts aren’t negatively impacting the women you’re objecting, it’s really not the end of the world. I will add that stari…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 07:22 AM
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Ted bundy was married. You’re clearly the reincarnation of Ted bundy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 07:14 AM
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Not sure why anyone would be coming at you for hugging your wife 😂. I don’t give a fuck what people consensually do in their relationships. That has nothing to do with me. I just don’t want random dudes catcalling me, or touching me, or outwardly objectifying me in some other way
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 07:08 AM
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If they become exclusive and they start trauma dumping to each other, that’s a good time to bring it up. Ideally not right after she talks about her sexual assault though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 06:58 AM
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After sex with someone in a casual relationship isn’t a great time to trauma dump 😂 I don’t wanna hear about anyone’s ex trauma, false accusation trauma, or any other trauma if we’re just fucking…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 06:56 AM
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That’s wild…that happened to me once after a ons. I didn’t realize it was a frequent experience. I honestly just thought it was super weird to trauma dump like that to someone you barely know. It was super awkward There are two sides to every story. The majority of accusations are true, but that doesn’t mean a man is automatically lying if he says he’s falsely accused. If the accusation ultimately led to a criminal trial, I’d be very suspicious if he said he was falsely accused. If it didn’t, I …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 06:54 AM
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Ngl I didn’t realize that most of the dudes on here were autistic until very recently…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 05:20 AM
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It’s just to mess with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 02:23 AM
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Except when she’s hangry bc she hasn’t eaten all day
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 02:04 AM
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It’s just remnants of the puritanical ways. Men are not subhuman creatures who are incapable of retraining their minds, they’re rational beings who are perfectly capable of practicing restraint and forming new neural pathways.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 07:13 AM
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Of course it wont immediately improve your sex life. The whole point of de-centering sex and relationships is that your lacking sex life would no longer be such a catastrophic issue for you (or anyone else who does it). If I had to guess, I think people give that advice in hopes that it would give a person adequate time to heal and grow. Perhaps you’d even stop referring to yourself as low value.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 07:08 AM
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It’s the age of extremism…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 07:01 AM
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Snuggies have a lot more surface area than a healthy 19-21 BMI woman
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 06:59 AM
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The US
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 06:57 AM
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Not every culture is like that. In many countries, there’s a level of recognition that the human body is just a body, and not quite so overly sexualized. In countries where people are generally more prudish, men tend to lose it when women wear revealing clothing. Men can’t fully control their thoughts, but they can control their actions- like you said. It’s not a woman’s job to cover up just so men don’t have to deal with the discomfort of practicing restraint. Other people should never have to …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 06:57 AM
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To be fair, everyone is replaceable if you’re hot
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 06:46 AM
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Scream really loud and they’ll run away
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 06:42 AM
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Because people are so weird about women’s nipples in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 06:41 AM
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She shouldn’t have asked her friend. She should’ve just done it…it’s not like they even went on a single date anyway. She’s just gotta be ready for the friendship to end if the friend found out. Some women don’t get over shit like that, and if the friend is being possessive over some dude she just slept with, it won’t end well. I think the friend is being ridiculous for being so possessive over a hookup, but also, this Spanish dude probably isn’t worth ending a friendship over. She could go to S…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 06:39 AM
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If it was a topless beach, then yes. Not in the US though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 06:33 AM
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That’s so creepy 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 09:56 PM
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lol I think that might be a cultural thing then. My grandmother has now started trying to set me up with men at her church 😂 The “when are you getting married” questions have started
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 09:54 PM
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Ai companions will save the day
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 09:44 PM
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Fr just the patriarchy doing what it does best
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 09:25 PM
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I mean I think self improvement that’s motivated by simply wanting to be better for yourself is much better than self improvement motivated by getting laid…but whatever gets people off their asses is good I guess. I just think people should put just as much energy into improving their minds as they do their bodies. This might be an unpopular opinion, but I think learning to be happy (or at least content) while single is a crucial step before getting into a long term relationship. We also all hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 09:24 PM
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Congrats! Computer science. Wbu?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 08:06 AM
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Poor broke women and poor broke men are $$$ matched…I don’t see the issue here. It’s a little odd to be dead broke and demand someone who isn’t, just like it’s odd to be ugly and demand someone who isn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 07:33 AM
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He should really rebrand to Andrew Titty. After that whole trafficking incident I think it would make him much more approachable to women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 07:31 AM
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Yeahhh it’ll all be over in a week though
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 06:49 AM
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I thought you were saying there were looksmatched my b I must’ve read it wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 06:33 AM
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Undergrad 😭. I’m taking 19 credits this semester so I can graduate now and I’m just a lil too adhd for that shit
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 06:30 AM
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That guy isn’t a 6 dude
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 06:26 AM
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Shit I miss those days
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 06:21 AM
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The PPD man wouldn’t be making eye contact with that many women in the span of 5 seconds
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 06:20 AM
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Thank you for the wholesome content :) I just need to pass this class to graduate and there’s a chance that I won’t if I don’t do well on the final 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 06:15 AM
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They also can’t get a woman who makes her own money to be their unpaid maid mommy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 06:11 AM
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I fr cried while I was doing hw… I’ve tweaked out many times as it gets closer to the due date, but I actually cried this time 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 05:55 AM
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That’s really weird…I can’t say I’d remember a random dude at a bar the next day. I’d probably think it was some guy I didn’t know and not respond
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 03:40 PM
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From a statistical standpoint, I think so. It could be something as simple as single celled organisms though
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 03:36 PM
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*too (so it rhymes with blue) 👏🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 03:27 PM
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First
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 09:03 AM
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Shit I didn’t realize I came off so priestly I was thinking more of a poem, short story, internal monologue, script…but I guess confession works
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 08:51 AM
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Lmao after reading the edit he’s 100% gonna go for her…this is his chance to actually get a baddie
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 08:36 AM
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Write something
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 08:29 AM
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Lmao the girl on the left looks like she’s questioning her life choices
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 08:26 AM
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🥹 I’m gonna play this right before I start crying hysterically in my study room
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 08:21 AM
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Came here to say this 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 08:10 AM
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Yeah that's true, and I said in another comment I don't think there's a problem with a victim using humor as a coping mechanism to process their own experience. I just think it's really messed up for a non-victim to joke about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 02:06 AM
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Of course! I consider myself quite the expert at reframing past mistakes 😂 But good luck out there!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 02:05 AM
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Currently about to cry and throw my computer at the wall
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 02:03 AM
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Idk I really thought he would be white OJ
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 12:04 AM
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Yeah I know unfortunately 😭. Some were definitely worse than others. I guess you could say greek life was an enlightening experience
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 12:03 AM
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Yeah that's understandable. It's normal to be jaded for some time, just not healthy to wallow for years. There are lots of great women out there. And you could see it this way: you had some practice and make mistakes with a woman who wasn't compatible long-term, so that you could learn from them and grow for the woman you'll be with in the future
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 10:32 PM
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Shit late 20s is super young to be stressing about having a kid...I personally wouldn't have a kid with someone I wasn't married to, but whatever works for them I guess. I guess it runs in the family 😂 But yeah I think asking those questions to single moms you date in the future would be a good way to weed out the women you're not compatible with. They're definitely not all irresponsible like that. I know a few single moms who are in their mid thirties who were married but had divorces, and they…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 10:27 PM
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Well it's always good to identify the part you played in things, so you don't make the same mistake again. I don't know what it's like to be pregnant but I'm sure she was scared to do things alone. Who knows what would've happened, but you'll definitely find someone else to build a life with
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 10:18 PM
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100% many of them are degenerates and the content of those group chats are utterly repulsive, and that small part of me that still had a lil naive, soft, christian high school girl mind died. So, my roommates and I went and rated all of the same frat dudes and made a whole excel spreadsheet for it. It was actually kinda fun
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 10:11 PM
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Shit I'm sorry that happened to you. Sounds like it was a pretty complicated situation. Just for some random guy that decided not to pull out while this woman was drunk Goddamn I am never getting off birth control because what the actual fuck. That's literally illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:57 PM
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Yeah I don't personally know any of those people
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:22 PM
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I think rape jokes are pretty equivalent to holocaust and school shooting jokes. I don't really hear a whole lot of the other jokes you mentioned, but they would also be pretty tasteless. Some people view rape as "worse" than murder because there are many cases where murder is justified and necessary (self defense). However, there are never any cases where rape is justified. It's a crime that people commit for the sake of evil...there are no situations where it could be seen as necessary. I'd sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:51 PM
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I was like you once...until I peeped a couple of frat group chats and gave up
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:39 PM
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Fr that picture is making me uncomfortable. His arms look like dicks
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:22 PM
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Yeah for real, I have a pretty dark sense of humor too, but it's important to know where the lines are. I think using humor to process your own traumatic experiences is one thing, but making jokes about another person's trauma is awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:15 PM
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Wow that's a very good list. I'm glad you found your person
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:12 PM
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I honestly don't know anyone who does
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:05 PM
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Rape jokes are insensitive and tasteless...similar to other genres of very fucked up jokes. There are many women who have been raped and sexually assaulted, and joking about that experience around someone who may have had that experience is incredibly classless. There are also many men who have been raped too. Making jokes about it around them just perpetuates the shame that men and women who were victims feel about their assault. Rape is incredibly traumatizing and causes severe psychological d…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:05 PM
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I think there’s a pretty equal number of updatable men and women. Men and women are equally capable of being shitty humans
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 07:57 PM
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I think social media plays a part by warping peoples perceptions of reality. I also think newer technologies have made process addictions much more common (online gambling, porn, video games, social media ofc). Escapism is instantaneous now. True self reflection and accountability requires looking in the mirror and identifying when, how, and why you are the problem in every aspect of your life. It’s uncomfortable and hard, and it’s a lot easier to avoid that work…especially when there’s so many …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 07:55 PM
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It’s not even about that for me. I just feel like we wouldn’t be able to do a lot of fun things together (travel, going out, anything that requires leaving the kid alone for longer than an hour or two)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 06:50 PM
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Yeahhhh fr I think if I was much older and everyone my age had kids, I’d do it. But I’d really rather not
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 06:44 PM
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No like I want to be an asshole but then I don’t do it because I’d feel kinda bad…but the times that I am one…I’m a real asshole 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 06:34 PM
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7, 8, 9
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 06:21 PM
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Hmm I drink, occasionally smoke + drugs. And does it count if I’m outwardly kind most of the time, but an asshole in my head 90% of the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 06:18 PM
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Hehe that’s so cute…my cats would scratch my face off if I tried dancing with them 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 06:10 PM
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That makes a lot more sense
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 06:05 PM
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Claiming that makeup adds 1-2 points to someone doesn’t mean you know anything about what makeup actually does and how it works. Facial ratings are neither objective nor consistently measurable. No one is denying that makeup enhances people’s appearance and makes them look more attractive. Simply stating that in typical cases, makeup doesn’t alter a person’s appearance to the point where they look like a different person without makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 10:07 AM
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Yeah I know it’s not socially accepted, but I think it should be. And more men could definitely wear tinted sunscreen/moisturizer or maybe even a light coverage foundation and concealer without people noticing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 10:00 AM
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Yeah I think most people have sex with people they’re physically attracted to. If someone doesn’t care at all about personality with people they have sex with and date, I suppose it would be useless for them to consider personality in those cases. I don’t think I could date or have sex with someone that was physically repulsive to me. I think there would need to be at least one physical attribute that I was attracted to, and their personality would amplify that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:55 AM
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Well…it’s important to a lot of women (for themselves). Clear skin makes a lot of women more confident. I personally like looking in the mirror a little more when my skin is flawless
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:46 AM
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Girl me too but I don’t think that’s a popular opinion 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:43 AM
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Oh well I’m sorry to hear that. Cheek and jaw fillers are also better alternatives to contouring for those that need it. But that’s true, women do have a greater variety of clothing options. Men can achieve similar effects through wearing colors that are slimming and complement their undertones, and good tailoring. I do think that men should just normally wear makeup. They’d look better with foundation, contouring and brow makeup if necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:42 AM
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So they wouldn’t want to have sex, and I’m not at all physically attracted to them? I wouldn’t have a monogamous relationship with him because I’m not asexual. I wouldn’t want to have sex with a guy who’s not attracted to me either. Personality usually compensates for appearance as long as I’m just slightly physically attracted to the person from the start. If there is absolutely no physical attraction there, I wouldn’t have sex with them or be in a relationship with that person. Just because ph…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:30 AM
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A dorm? Dude you’re young. There’s still plenty of time to find a girlfriend. But you should get that leopard gecko. Adopting my cats did wonders for my depression
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:21 AM
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Shit I feel like I’m slacking now lol. The only thing that is socially unacceptable for straight men is makeup. The beauty standard for men is different from women, and men do have facial hair to achieve things like contouring. But I’m guessing you wouldn’t need makeup with a skincare budget like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:17 AM
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Do you know anything about makeup? I already explained what the male equivalent of contouring cheekbones and jawline is. Nose contouring is unnecessary with a rhinoplasty or a non-surgical nose job To actually alter your appearance in a significant way (where the woman looks like a different person without makeup), you’d need to use SFX makeup techniques (special effects makeup). Most women don’t know how to apply makeup with that level of skill. Like I said, men wouldn’t benefit from eye makeup…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:06 AM
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Do you have any cats? When my cats lay on me and start purring, it soothes my soul. 25% less existential dread. Plus you could get yourself a cute crazy cat lady
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:37 AM
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I mean...makeup enhances features and can conceal some blemishes. It doesn't alter your appearance in a significant way. The average women aren't out here doing SFX makeup on a daily basis. Men can have their own version of contouring through facial hair. That can be shaped to create an illusion of a more defined jawline (or hide a bad one), and define their cheekbones. Straight guys wouldn't really benefit from eye makeup or false lashes because neither of those things would align with the stra…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:32 AM
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Huh I guess I wouldn't wanna associate with those incelish red pill dudes either 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:13 AM
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Men can dress for their body types, get good haircuts, have a skincare routine, and use the same more invasive treatments that women use (filler, cosmetic surgery). The only thing that isn't quite as socially acceptable for straight men to use is makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:04 AM
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Makeup enhances women's features. Women can do eye makeup and wear lashes to draw attention away from blemishes. Dressing for your body type can give the illusion of a different body shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:00 AM
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Reality: "the world or the state of things as they actually exist, as opposed to an idealistic or notional idea of them." Yes, confirmation bias exists outside of digital spaces, but it's much easier to rationalize this bias when a person sees posts with 1M likes that affirms whatever delusional belief they have. Everything is amplified on social media, and everyone's feed is an echo chamber. It's not an issue of people seeing content that challenges their beliefs and ignoring it. People are sim…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 07:57 AM
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Isn't that just black pill rhetoric?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 07:43 AM
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OR it shows that women know how to enhance their assets and draw attention away from their physical flaws
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 07:41 AM
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Ok that makes a lot more sense because I just browsed marriedredpill and got super confused because those dudes do not mess around with self pity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 07:35 AM
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Lol I don't wanna hear anyone indulge in self pity. That shit gets a person nowhere. Self pity causes people to become stagnant, and hinders any self improvement. I also just thought that one of the main beliefs in red pill was that people should do everything they can to become the most attractive, rich, etc. version of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 07:31 AM
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Yes. This delusion fueling influence that social media has on people also exists within news, television, and even video games. People see bad behavior from a certain group of people on social media, see the likes and comments, and assume that the majority of that group of people exhibit that behavior. I'm not saying that there are no women who are gold diggers, or men who are cheaters or abusers (to use the examples I mentioned earlier). I'm saying that people will see that shit online and assu…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 07:24 AM
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To eating too many gummies and a tub of ice cream?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 07:08 AM
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I thought red pill was supposed to be about maxxing everything so you can pull...not self pity and nihilism. What's with all the self pitying red pill dudes?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 07:08 AM
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The crazy has become antibiotic resistant. The crazy pills don't work anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 07:01 AM
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I said social media isn't a reflection of reality, not that it doesn't influence people. Social media influences many people's perception of reality, as we can clearly see in OP's post. That doesn't mean that it's a reflection of reality. Every person's feed looks different. The version of "reality" that I see on social media is different from what you see. Does that mean that my version is right and yours is wrong? No. In fact, it's likely that they're both misrepresenting reality. We see conte…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 06:59 AM
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Yeah the only way to fix that would be to add a bunch of bot women on there that match with men to make them feel better about themselves…which actually isn’t a bad idea. It would definitely increase engagement
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 06:34 AM
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Using a comment section on social media is an idiotic way to draw conclusions about human behavior. Social media is not a reflection of reality. Thinking that's the case is delusional. Common sense would say that a person will get offended if someone calls them naturally unattractive. However, he claimed that women violently lash out when someone says that they aren't pretty without makeup, fillers and surgery. And that entire argument is based entirely on a comment section from social media. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 03:02 AM
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Because she didn't carry him inside, and place him gently on a bathroom floor in front of a toilet while giving him a full body massage, stroking his hair, and telling him he's a good boy. This is what a true nurturing woman would do...if they existed
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 01:36 AM
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cool, cool...can I get that $100 tho? I'll draw you a picture of me walking past you on a sidewalk
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 01:30 AM
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I used to do full glam on nights where I was locked in my room studying and stressed tf out. Makeup is a relaxing creative outlet for me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 01:27 AM
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My flair is literally Chadasaurus Sex 69...all this proves is I think the concept of chad is funny/that's the name I would have if I started selling online courses 🦖
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 01:05 AM
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That's the only logical explanation
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 12:47 AM
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Because I can't have sex with someone whose personality repulses me. If a man is arrogant, rude, stupid and/or can't hold an interesting conversation, I don't want to be around him, let alone touch him
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 12:47 AM
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Could be vibes, and different women find different physical attributes attractive. Also if I can sense arrogance in a man, it doesn't matter how physically attractive he is
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 11:19 PM
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It doesn't sound like they were dumb. What makes you think that abuse victims victims are simply dumb?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 11:00 PM
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There's often a binge eating disorder associated with obesity, that's a process addiction. People with addictions frequently have other mental health issues as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 10:58 PM
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<image> I'm 24
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 10:54 PM
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Yeah that's pretty common. Abusers frequently use money to try to keep their victims from leaving them. Do you think that those relatives were simply dumb, and that's why they got in abusive relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 10:46 PM
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Again, they're not dumb. They have low self esteems- making them think that they deserve the abuse. They also often grew up around some kind of abuse- leading them to believe abusive relationships are their own version of normal. Has anyone close to you ever been in an abusive relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 10:37 PM
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They’re the only one who try to be nice and positive, because that’s the only way they can get seen in a swamp of negativity. Some of them are positive. Others are there to boost engagement through polarization and affirming negative beliefs. People stay engaged when they are emotionally triggered and arguing, not when they're looking at overly positive comments. Still, once people become deluded and negative because of the online stuff, doesn’t the online stuff become an accurate reflection of …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 10:31 PM
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Women get horny too. Women can be dumb too. No shit. I literally said this earlier: Women are capable of doing stupid things because they’re horny- just like men. There's no mental gymnastics here, I'm simply stating that you're completely incorrect in your assertion that most abuse victims are simply horny and dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 09:59 PM
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If it's a one night stand and I don't know the person at all, he needs to be: physically attractive, intelligent/able to hold a conversation that isn't dull, charismatic enough that there's chemistry, able to pass the asshole vibe check, not irritatingly arrogant, not tweak out worrying that I gave him a fake number when he asked. And I'd also need to be a little drunk, horny, and in a pretty good mood. I don't really do one night stands anymore, more fwb if we're just talking about casual relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 09:54 PM
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It's an echo chamber where people are psychologically manipulated to constantly engage, and where their attention becomes a currency. It influences people's perception of reality...pushing them towards delusion. There are also tons of bots that are used to boost engagement through posts and comments
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 09:32 PM
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They based their entire argument on an instagram post and comment section. I believe that is very illogical
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 09:19 PM
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What about the mean girls and guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 09:10 PM
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Let's not delude ourselves into thinking that instagram posts and comment sections are reflections of reality...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 08:40 PM
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If this was true then women would also find fat guys and make them hit the gym. Which is not happening is it? You're ignoring the fact that abuse victims innately feel that they deserve abuse. They think "this is all I deserve," and they hope "I will become worthy if he changes for me." Abusers are not always the most attractive people. It's likely that a person would get into a relationship with an abuser that they were attracted to because...people get into relationships with people they're at…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 08:36 PM
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Yeah I wasn't trying to attack you. Just commenting on the absurdity of that argument
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 08:04 PM
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I think it does
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:49 PM
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Old and grandiose just because he fucked a few lesbians 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:39 PM
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✂️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:32 PM
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Lmao is that a bad thing now
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:19 PM
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“I can fix him” isn’t horniness. It’s insecurity. It’s saying “if I can fix him…if he’ll change for me, then I’m worth something.” Women are capable of doing stupid things because they’re horny- just like men. Those things could include sleeping with a guy who they’re not that attracted to, or who they know is a fuckboy, for example. Falling for an abusive person or staying in an abusive relationship is not an issue of horniness or being dumb. Men can be in abusive relationships with other men a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:11 PM
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Bow before me you badgeless imbecile
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 07:29 AM
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Thanks 🫶🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:35 AM
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That’s what I call character building
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:27 AM
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You don’t have to be a mind reader. If you can’t handle being rejected when you approach a stranger, then I guess you shouldn’t ever approach. Otherwise, following simple social etiquette and noticing body language can get you results. Overthinking things like that isn’t going to do you any good. Also liking posts on social media means absolutely nothing. And the majority of men that I know don’t put much effort into taking good pictures for social media. The ones that do will literally have pho…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:25 AM
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Yeah I just had a lot of crazy shit happen today and I’m kinda sleep deprived. Thank you for asking
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:17 AM
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Yeah…I just looked it up. Definitely gonna bring this one up in therapy bc I didn’t even realize it was abnormal
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:15 AM
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Shit that’s it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:13 AM
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Another day, another allusion to dickpocalypse
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:08 AM
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Approaching women isn't inappropriate 100% of the time. There are simply times where women don't want to be approached. If a woman is in the middle of doing something (mid workout, talking on the phone, ordering their food, checking out at a store etc.), don't approach them. Interrupting anyone is just rude. If a woman is walking alone on the street at night, that's also not a good time to approach. If you ask a woman for her number and she says no, you should leave her alone. All of this just r…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:55 AM
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Abusers prey on people with low self esteems because those are the people who innately think they deserve the abuse, and are generally much more emotionally vulnerable. It’s not simply a matter of being dumb vs smart. You can be a genius, and be very emotionally vulnerable
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:22 AM
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Fr he’s acting like we’re a different species
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:09 AM
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They’re probably projecting. They may be unable to comprehend that there are men who don’t solely think with their dicks…or that men are even capable of having a high emotional intelligence
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:03 AM
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Do you ever feel so detached that everything you see just looks slightly surreal
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:58 AM
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Yeah lol I figured. Those are also the same people who are more likely to look after their ill parents in my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 02:54 PM
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Not a fan of the stalking and attempting to eliminate all possible threats approach?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 02:53 PM
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Hmmm probably the same people who are more likely to look after their ill parents
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 02:48 PM
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Ugh if I hear that shit one more time…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 02:38 PM
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You were just thinking about all the things you would’ve done instead huh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 02:32 PM
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Option 3: Patiently wait until someone develops hyper-realistic sex robots that also know how to cook and clean. I'd give it a decade or two. Maybe we can even get the government to subsidize them for the extra lonely!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 09:35 PM
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I guess they're just mad that they might have to work on themselves to get dates...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 09:14 PM
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I can't speak for all women, but personally, I've just never felt like approaching someone in a romantic or sexual context. I think if I ever got to a point where I wanted to go on more dates, and wasn't getting asked out, I'd probably start approaching people. I don't really use dating apps anymore. Back when I used them, I rarely messaged people first because I just felt indifferent to them. If I don't know a person, I just don't feel the strong desire to talk to them to the point where I'd go…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 08:42 PM
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👏🏽 Well said
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 08:27 PM
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*public shame
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 08:13 PM
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✨Manifesting✨
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:52 AM
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Men are silver foxes, women are hags This one always gets me 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:41 AM
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You're making a lot of assumptions here...sex doesn't equal emotional intimacy for everyone. To say that casual sex requires emotional detachment isn't a fair assumption. Sex is just an illusion of intimacy, in my opinion, and I'm not the only person that has this view. The thing that determines whether sex is actually emotionally intimate or not, for me, is the emotional connection I have with the person- outside of sex. While some people might compartmentalize in order to have casual sex, this…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 03:33 PM
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I tried explaining to her that men don't want to feel like a downgrade and don't feel desired when women hook up with super hot guys on Tinder and basically see them as the "safe, reliable" option. This reasoning is rooted in insecurity. You would essentially feel insecure about her feelings for you because of her past sexual history. Everyone is entitled to their own dating preferences...it doesn't really matter whether others agree or disagree with them. But, that doesn't mean this way of thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 03:15 PM
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Real. Its taught me how to synthesize closeted misogynist repellent
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 12:02 AM
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You know there are many women who enjoy casual sex, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 11:50 PM
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22-29. I’m 24
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:10 PM
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If she’s into that, she’s either bi, bi-curious, or trying to make her man happy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 05:55 AM
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Are you bi?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 05:52 AM
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Where exactly are you getting this from? I’m bi and I have no problem dating bi men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 05:51 AM
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Having your partner work while you stay at home, and having him deal with finances is still very different from having him lead. It’s normal to divide responsibilities based on each partner’s strengths. Is this just a 24/7 submission kink thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 05:11 PM
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You know what’s really crazy? People can pick partners they can rely on without being “led” by them and treated like a subservient! 😱 And yeah, driving myself into hell would be being tied to a man who treats me like an incapable child in the name of “love” I’m glad you get it!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 07:42 PM
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Lmao I did that in high school. Idk how many grown ass woman there are using cheats in the sims… 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 06:49 PM
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Lmfao just another day, and another manic episode…felt that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 06:44 PM
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🫡 famous last words lol…but have fun
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 06:41 PM
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👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 don’t get baby trapped tho
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 06:38 PM
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Being “led” by someone isn’t a partnership. What you described sounds like my personal hell, but if you would rather be a stay at home wife, that’s okay. You can stay at home, and do all the cooking, cleaning, and childcare if that’s what you want to do. But you can do all of those things without being “led.” You basically described a relationship where you mentally check out, and have your man make all the decisions for you. At best, you lose a sense of autonomy, at worst, you end up with a man…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 06:11 PM
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But do you really want an honest rating?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 08:32 AM
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Ohhh so you wan't to come up with an original man-made term...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 01:01 AM
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Or a strong woman, or a robot. You're just talking about a need for manual labor in these examples. I've literally never had male friends do anything like that for me. My family helps me move when I need to. If I needed someone to carry furniture, I'd pay the delivery fee. Idk what kind of relationship you have with your female friends, but I personally don't see men do any of that for their female friends. I also just don't see women trying to hold on to male friends either. Nearly every man I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 01:01 AM
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Did you read the original comment about the elderly men who live in filth and have bedbugs because they live alone? That's what I was referring to. Then another guy said this proves that women are biological house cleaners. I said this example doesn't prove that women are biological house cleaners, and if anything, it would prove that men need a woman because they don't know how to take care of themselves. If we're living in a little delulu world where singular examples "prove" entire generaliza…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 12:30 AM
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If we’re defining “women” as knowing how to take care of yourself, then sure. Your terminology 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 11:57 PM
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No…if anything, this shows that men need a woman to lead them because they can’t take care of themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 11:29 PM
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lol ig I’ll just have to stick to looking at myself in the mirror and calling myself a bad bitch…and everyone else baddie
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 11:25 PM
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Isn’t that just bad bitch energy?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:45 PM
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lol fair enough. I just wouldn’t be able to stand the fact that he could pretend to be the victim. And I legit don’t think I could touch a guy after finding out he cheated
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:18 PM
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But it also makes you look crazy 💀 He could just say you’re insane and paint himself as the victim. Gotta move in silence 🤫 But to each their own lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:04 PM
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Or, hear me out, you could dump his ass. Then wait for him to get into his next relationship. Once he's been with her for at least a year (ideally more, but a year is ok too), hire a hooker to seduce him and get you some evidence of it. He'll probably still have low impulse control so it should work, and you'll already know his type. Then, you can either blackmail him, send the evidence to his girl, or both. Maximize pettiness while minimizing having to interact with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 09:24 PM
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Yeah isn’t he trying to send the drug addicts and autistic people to farms or something 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 08:54 PM
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Have you seen a therapist who specializes in trauma therapy (if that’s your specific struggle) Have you tried any modalities other than CBT? It can definitely be hard to find a good therapist, but you can definitely find one (if you have the money). While your partner can provide some emotional support, i don’t think they can process your trauma and emotions for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 08:52 PM
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3 guys ran a train on him
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 08:42 PM
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Lmao *walks in with crackhead eyes and hand tremors”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 04:06 AM
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​ “I feel like I could take over the world if I really wanted to.” Lol I love my stims delusions
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 02:17 AM
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Have you never seen a black mirror episode?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 02:09 AM
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<image> I really have ChatGPT calling me exotic now huh💀
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:55 AM
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Maybe they just wanted to get dressed up and take themselves somewhere nice 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 11:15 PM
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Yeah it really isn’t. It’s enough to live comfortably in certain cities- not rich
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 11:06 PM
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Lies
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:09 PM
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lol that was so fun. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:06 PM
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The peanut m&ms thing got me 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 09:54 PM
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I’m 24 and absolutely not. There’s just no chance I could fuck a guy who’s 38-40
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 09:04 PM
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Wait I gotta try this shit 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 07:33 PM
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Because not everyone enjoys it. It means nothing to those who don’t enjoy casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 07:14 PM
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That sounds a lot more accurate lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 07:12 PM
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You just said there was a significant number. I say there isn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:00 AM
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If he’s not imaginary, I don’t want him
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 05:41 AM
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Damn they couldn’t tell her before she got the dress? 😭 You should pitch the idea to Netflix. They’d probably do a miniseries
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 05:39 AM
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Did you will them into existence or something because I don’t see these women you speak of
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 05:33 AM
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I said men should back off when women say no (because that’s just basic human respect). Whether some other woman gets mad at some other man for some other thing isn’t relevant to the fact that humans should respect the most basic boundaries of other humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 05:05 AM
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Ample opportunity to complain
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:58 AM
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I still don’t see what that has to do with the fact that men should back off when a woman says no. It sounds like you’re insinuating that men shouldn’t respect “no” because it still may not save them from making women mad. I can’t think of what other real relevance that statement has
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:47 AM
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Yeah. What does your claim about women getting offended when unattractive men ask them out have to do with women wanting men to respect when they say “no”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:08 AM
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Uh oh you should get one of a topless mermaid with massive tits just to be safe
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:02 AM
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Speak for yourself. I cry myself to sleep each night, actively resisting the urge to drown my sorrows in more cats and boxed wine- just waiting for chad to realize that I’m the only one for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:42 AM
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Sounds like you just wanted to complain about your cousin
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:34 AM
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Girl there’s literally nothing left for you to say after that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:15 AM
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I literally gasped
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:09 AM
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You’re seriously saying that there’s a subset of women who want random men that they don’t know to disrespect their boundaries and “chase” them? That’s so bizarre. I’m not gonna flat out say they don’t exist because there are some insane people out there, but significant??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:07 AM
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That’s not what I’m talking about. I’m saying if a woman says no, you should leave. Literally all I am saying is people should respect other people’s boundaries and accept the word “no”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:01 AM
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What’s #1
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:18 PM
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What? Who has a problem with men accepting when women say no? I’m not saying you shouldn’t approach women. I’m just saying that if a woman says no, leave her alone. I don’t see how other women would have a problem with that. Pressuring women into doing things is not okay. That is precisely the bs that makes women weary of random men approaching them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:18 PM
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No like I’m speaking to someone on the phone, in the middle of a conversation with the phone to my ear, and they tried to come up and say “you’re really pretty, can I have your number”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:13 PM
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Hahah yeah I personally wouldn’t call that creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:11 PM
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Do you say a lot of sexual comments when first meeting them? Some men will also literally interrupt women while they’re in the middle of something to try to ask for their numbers. I wouldn’t call that creepy, but it’s definitely rude and obnoxious. I’ve had a couple men try to interrupt me while I’m visibly on the phone 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 11:48 AM
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No you’re not. You did a shitting thing, and now you have the opportunity to make it right with your family by apologizing, and do what you can to make sure this doesn’t happen again You’re human, it’s okay to make mistakes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 11:41 AM
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You’re right. But refusing to accept the first “no” is when things become problematic. If a man respectfully asks a woman out, and leaves her alone when she says no, that’s different from a man persisting after the woman says no, or demanding a “satisfactory” explanation for her “no”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 11:29 AM
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Taking responsibility for it is one of the hardest aspects of change. And we all have our moments and seasons of being a “red flag.” Falling deep into shame won’t do you much good. I like to rage journal lol. Just let it out on paper or typed…helps me with emotional regulation. It also helps me get at the root of my anger so that I can actually process it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 11:19 AM
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Most of the time it’s not a question of “what would you do in this hypothetical scenario”- at least, I don’t typically reply to those. It’ll simply be a question of what I (as a woman) currently think and believe about some general topic. I’ll share that belief, and have at least one dude trying to tell me that I’m wrong because “I’m lying” or “that’s not how women think.” People may subconsciously consider the most positive outcome in hypothetical scenarios, but these accusations persist when w…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 11:10 AM
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“What the fuck does blue pill even mean anymore? I guarantee you can't coherently define it.” I thought we were just doing a parody of red pill lol. Didn’t think there was some system of beliefs that we all must follow…we’re just not red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 10:47 AM
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Yeah I’ve been in a relationship with a guy awhile back who had “rules” like that and I left it fairly quickly. Doesn’t change the fact that those rules are rooted in insecurity, and I think it’s immature, emotionally devolved, and controlling as hell. 🤷🏽‍♀️ I’m bi. If someone tried to impose those rules on me and I put up with it for some reason, I’d have no friends. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 10:36 AM
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Fr you sound almost utilitarian
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 10:29 AM
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I think you should just communicate what you want directly. Maybe don’t say “be more pervy” lol but say that you like when he initiates more and “surprises” you or whatever it is you’re looking for. You guys are in a relationship so I’m sure having a conversation about your fetishes/fantasies would be very normal. He probably just doesn’t understand what you’re looking for. He might be hesitant and worried that touching you like that at random times would make you uncomfortable, so it’s best to …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 10:18 AM
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Idk the ASPD flair makes it significantly less horrifying
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 09:55 PM
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Gotta wear them on both hands. That would feel so weird lol. You definitely get used to it. Mine are generally 0.75-1 cm past the tip of my finger. I can still type at the same speed and play piano. It feels weird now whenever I don’t have my acrylics
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 09:34 PM
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I think I’d catch feels for ChatGPT before that happens
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 09:25 PM
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Fr this is literally an anonymous forum… why tf would we sit here and lie to men just to get some upvotes 😂. If I wanted upvotes, I wouldn’t be replying to men who try to tell me that my own thoughts and opinions about the female experience are wrong in a community with 100k people
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 09:04 PM
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I bet it would work if a bunch of us pooled our money together and became one collective billionaire
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 07:03 AM
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Some very insecure men and women make “rules” that their partners can’t be friends with the opposite sex (or just throw temper tantrums if it happens). It’s super controlling and rooted in insecurity, and the people who impose these rules are often cheating on their partner as well. It’s stupid, but unfortunately many of my female friends have been or are currently in relationships with men who are like this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 06:54 AM
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If I agree does that mean the dickpocalypse is off?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 06:42 AM
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Makeup, lip fillers, possible nose job…she isn’t natural lmao 🤣 Hot but not at all natural
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 04:46 AM
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<image> Young thug did it so you can too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 04:43 AM
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🤣 I love a good dickpocalypse threat from incels who won’t even get up off their asses and go to therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 04:39 AM
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Now there’s an idea…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 04:26 AM
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Did you read the comment? I’m not sure why you’re still confused. The previous commenter claimed that they don’t look like kids (minors) because they are done with puberty- it’s quite easy to deduce that the claim implies that puberty makes 16 year olds look so adult-like that it’s ridiculous to say they look like kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 09:17 AM
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But that would just destroy their superiority complex 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 09:03 AM
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I said they have baby faces in response to his original claim that 98% of 16 year olds are done with puberty- implying that the 98% look like adult women because they are done with puberty. Does it make sense now? It might help to reread the original post to understand the overall context
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 08:52 AM
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The previous commenter made a generalization about 16 year olds girls looking like adult women. I said they do not. That doesn’t mean there can’t be a small subset who do look like adult women. Does that make sense to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 08:33 AM
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Are there any sexy robots in this future? Because that would also hinder your women fucking incels out of desperation prediction 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 08:15 AM
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It’s extremely unlikely that there will ever come a point when such a large majority of men are incels. Women can have companionship with each other. I honestly think more women would just start experimenting with women if the world ever came to that point. Maybe I’m biased though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 07:52 AM
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She’s probably just using that rhetoric for views. People will say anything to boost engagement
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 07:47 AM
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Yes, I did. 16 year olds typically still have baby faces. Stop trying to rationalize your attraction to them 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 07:41 AM
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Never gonna happen. There are more options than just fuckboy and incel. And if we were in some cursed world where there wasn’t…well I can’t speak for all women, but I would rather be celibate for the rest of my life (assuming I was also straight in that cursed world)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 07:39 AM
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I was actually a 16 year old girl once, believe it or not
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 07:19 AM
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They literally still have baby faces 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 07:15 AM
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Thrillers and horror are meant to scare people. They’re entertainment, not real. Our experiences dictate our fears- not literal movies and films. I was scared of movie previews I saw as a child, but at about 15, I grew out of it because I recognized that none of it is real. I enjoy horror movies and thrillers now. If my television consumption dictated my fears, I’d still be afraid of demons, serial killers, being tortured, dismembered…the list could go on. I’m no more afraid of those things than…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 09:02 PM
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Thrillers and horror are meant to scare people. They’re entertainment, not real. Our experiences dictate our fears- not literal movies and films. I was scared of movie previews I saw as a child, but at about 15, I grew out of it because I recognized that none of it is real. I enjoy horror movies and thrillers now. If my television consumption dictated my fears, I’d still be afraid of demons, serial killers, being tortured, dismembered…the list could go on. I’m no more afraid of those things than…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 09:01 PM
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I always have conversations with people before going on dates with them and it comes up then. Contexts and age matter when it comes to employment. If someone recently graduated or is still in school it’s understandable if they’re not employed, but if they’re just sitting there not working and not even looking for a job, I’m not going to do anything with them. That’s just a turn off
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 08:10 PM
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Nah he’s definitely more attractive than her
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 09:37 AM
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Asking what someone does for work is pretty standard when you first meet someone
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 08:24 AM
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You should see a psychiatrist if you can afford to
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 08:23 AM
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Seriously. We shouldn’t have to explain ourselves for saying no
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 08:14 AM
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Dude not all women want to be in exclusive relationships and have deep emotional connections with people they sleep with. A fun fling doesn’t involve a deep emotional connection…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 07:58 PM
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Lol there’s no shortage of men with mommy issues 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 07:54 PM
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I tend to get anxious on first dates so I prefer drinks, but coffee is also fine. I don’t expect anyone to spend a lot on a first date. If someone’s taking me to coffee for a first date, thats fine, but I’m also not going to get dressed up like I’m going to a nice dinner for that 😂 I think the women you’re referring to (if they’re people you met and not TikTok vids) maybe just be saying that men shouldn’t expect a woman to dress up, spend hours getting ready, and wear their most expensive perfum…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 07:39 PM
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Exactly. I couldn’t care less whether or not they drink. I just wouldn’t want to be with someone who can’t be around people who do drink
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 07:29 PM
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Maybe it’s because she actually enjoys being friends with you 😂 If you guys weren’t friends but more acquaintances, she also could have just said that as a way to turn you down nicely and not hurt your feelings. If you see her everyday that could have been it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 07:13 PM
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The dragon slayer comment really got me 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 01:00 AM
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“we all know that men are most attracted to 18yr olds” Why is it always brought back to this 😂 I suppose the men who only care about a woman’s age (and no other attribute) are settling by staying with their wives. But I don’t think the majority of men have the sole criteria of “must be 18” when dating- that’s very two dimensional
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:08 PM
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Yes. The draft wasn’t rooted in a prejudice against men. It was rooted in the belief that women were incapable of fighting in war, so men would be the only ones left to defend the country in dire circumstances. Still unethical, in my opinion, but not rooted in misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:27 PM
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lol yeah I know I used ChatGPT’s to pull some sources and analyze things for a research project. I’ve had o1 and o3 “think” for around 3 minutes in the past, but I was shocked when this took 9 or 10. But yeah, if you have the content from the chat, I’d be interested to see the analysis of red pill. I don’t think I’ve ever seen a legitimate source that supports it in any significant way
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:23 PM
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Oooh yeah I’m not gonna pay for a dating app lol. Definitely not worth it if all you’re really getting is the bottom 50% of people on the apps filtered out. Not being able to filter by distance is also kind of ridiculous…that’s a standard feature in every other dating app I’ve tried
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:17 PM
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Huh that's interesting. Was your experience on Raya different from other dating apps in any way? I personally hate dating apps for a number of reasons, but I wonder if the fact that Raya is more selective impacts things.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:02 AM
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As an autistic man I often forget that people ask questions that don't mean what they're literally asking. That's very understandable. The "ex" topic with new dates can be a difficult conversation to navigate. My working theory is that she was trying to ask that, and that the reason she wanted to ask is because my language was too expressive and also literal when talking about my ex. When it comes to talking about exes with new potential partners, I think it's wise to talk about them in a neutra…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 05:44 AM
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Interesting. I've had times where I intentionally don't date or have sex because I'm just going though something, or need to heal without distractions, or am too depressed lol. Best of luck on your journey 🫶🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 05:33 AM
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Hot and cold is how you can get someone to become super into you It also helps to have a phat ass…ego 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 05:00 AM
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From what you described, it sounds like the issue could have been the fact that you said you’d want to visit the country your ex lives in. From the way you explained the conversation, it’s possible that “would you want to visit the country your ex lives in?” was just an indirect way of asking “do you want to visit your ex?” When you said yes, she may have assumed that you’re still hung up on your ex and that you want to go visit her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:43 AM
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Lmao that is one way to use chatGPT 😂 But yeah I think at least half of the posts here are related to some deep rooted insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:39 AM
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He’s saying women’s motivations for getting abortions are rooted in misandry? I’ve never heard someone talk about abortion in the context of misogyny or misandry- even if someone believed that abortion was murder
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:31 AM
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If this isn’t to personal of a question…why are you striving for lifelong celibacy? Is it for religious reasons? And well said. Women don’t typically see each other as competition in the way that some men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:28 AM
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Don’t you need to be an influencer for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:22 AM
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Misandry is the hatred of men. The draft was not rooted in misandry. It was unethical in my opinion, but it was not motivated by misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:20 AM
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Technically, so can women who are being emotionally abused or are in a relationship. What you’re saying kind of sounds like victim blaming
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:14 AM
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lol what does that have to do with misogyny and misandry?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:12 AM
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“Good thing it's not addictive” Speak for yourself 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:05 AM
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Become completely detached… Jk just think of the most nonchalant person you know, and mimic them. Do the hot and cold thing…it works on most people, in my experience at least. Just don’t be hot or cold for too long, and gradually stabilize once they’re super into you. Don’t let them think they have you- even when you’re obsessed lol. It helps to remind yourself that they’re super replaceable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:03 AM
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I mean, that’s fine. You don’t have to be ambitious if you don’t want to lol. But as someone who is ambitious, I also want to be with someone who has ambition. There will probably be times where I’m very busy with work or another project, and I worry that someone who isn’t also ambitious wouldn’t understand that (and end up feeling neglected or that I don’t care or something like that) I also just enjoy connecting with people who are very passionate about achieving things (or at least 1 thing). …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:52 AM
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Exactly. A med student, for example, likely won’t be making as much as someone who is already working in their field, but that med student is actively working towards a goal. It’s not about current salary for me, it’s about ambition
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:38 PM
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I don’t know where these men are who have a high emotional intelligence and feel like they should lead women lmao. That is a whole paradox…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:20 PM
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I personally prefer those who don’t limit themselves to the traits of the sex they were born as. Balance between traditional “masculine” and “feminine” traits is what creates a balanced and well rounded person. And for fucks sake we don’t need to be “led.” We’re not children. There is no part of me that wants a relationship with some dude who’s gonna both act like my parent, and expect me to cook and clean for him 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:16 PM
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His tears dilute the tub of ice cream he’s shoveling in his mouth
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:23 AM
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Thank you for reminding me to take mine
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:48 AM
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🤣🤣 you’re not wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:46 AM
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Are you sane? It helps to be at least 60% sane
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:44 AM
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Absolutely not. I have insomnia lmao if their rude ass woke me up after I finally managed to fall asleep, they will feel the full wrath of my sleep deprived rage monster. But realistically I’d be awake at 1:30, so I’d do it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:42 AM
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They really don’t know what they want
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:39 AM
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I don't really have any interest in dating tbh because I can't even properly take care of myself so I ain't gonna involve some random chick into this I really feel that lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:52 AM
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Shit girl I'm sorry that happened to you. Yeah I'd agree. Reading some of the things here makes me feel sane, comparatively lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:47 AM
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Then you are not a traditional man, congratulations. May you attain all that you seek
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:40 AM
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😨
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:35 AM
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Atlantis
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:31 AM
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Yeah I also haven't heard a single person say that men love unconditionally in real life. I've heard people say that parents love their children unconditionally, but never that men or women love their partners unconditionally. This claim likely stems from not understanding the difference between love and obsession, or just some more delusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:22 AM
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Never in my life have I been so relieved by a single reddit comment. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:14 AM
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Self awareness is the ability to identify ones own shortcomings. Attempting to generalize 50% of the human population, and assign "inferiorities" is entirely pointless. Your attempt at doing that for men was also pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:07 AM
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Nope that’s not why I said it was wholesome. Did you read nothing past “when my wife was 20”? Do not ruin this rare moment of wholesomeness please
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 07:16 PM
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Yea it wouldn’t be good for any parties involved 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 07:42 AM
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Girll project that confidence. Chads can smell confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 05:06 AM
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Lmao I say this at least 4 times a week
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 05:01 AM
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god I love the wholesomeness 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 04:56 AM
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I wouldn’t say that’s a matter of “luck.” Cluster B personality disorders represent a very small percentage of the population, and people with those disorders present with some pretty noticeable symptoms and behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 04:53 AM
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For me it’s adhd with a dash of repressed rage
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 04:38 AM
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Yeah intrusive thoughts go crazy sometimes 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 04:34 AM
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Yeah I was referencing how the online courses dudes are misrepresenting stoic philosophy by preaching “Me no feel, me gym” and calling it stoicism 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 01:27 AM
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I can't stand the way red pill has completely warped stoicism...like please don't insult Seneca like that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 01:17 AM
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Processing your emotions just refers to the overall process of identifying, acknowledging, understanding, and responding to emotions in a healthy way. You don't need to go through this kind of process for every single emotion you have, but it's wise to do this when you encounter negative emotions. Here is a simple explanation of the steps involved in processing emotions. Here is a much more technical, in-depth explanation if you're interested. Suppressing your emotions is an attempt to control y…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 01:05 AM
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Oooh I'll watch that one next. I mean, I think humans are pretty scary, but I just don't see most incels doing anything lol. It seems like not doing things is their thing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 10:56 PM
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I don't think all men think women who are 25-30+ are ugly and undatable. I wouldn't even say the majority are like that either, I think there are some keyboard warriors who say that shit on here, but they aren't representative of the majority. I'm not married, but it's my understanding that most people get married for reasons other than appearance. The love you have for someone will make them more physically attractive to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 10:52 PM
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But have you ever seen the incel SVU episode? Pretty scary stuff...crying oceans as I type this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 10:42 PM
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$500M tax free. $1M is pretty insignificant in the long run, and a lifetime is a long time. But I need to be able to invest it so it can grow, and spend it on whatever I want. What's the point if I can't use it to help the people I care about? And if I was given that offer before any romantic or sexual experiences, I definitely would've taken it (still would need to be able to spend it on whatever I want).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 10:07 PM
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god I can't tell if he's trying to be ironic or not at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 09:35 PM
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Lol 45% of women voted for trump, and 43% of men voted for Kamala. The differences weren't that dramatic
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 09:31 PM
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It might help to consider going back to therapy! Haha yeah I was referring more to siblings or cousins around your age- not parents 😂 Happy to help :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 09:16 PM
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🤦🏽‍♀️ That's so sad
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 09:07 PM
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I used to have very sever social anxiety too, so I get that. Personally, weed made that anxiety much worse long term, it helped in the short-term, but ended up making things worse for me. Have you considered therapy? You could do virtual sessions. That's the thing that has helped me the most with my anxiety. Do you have friends or family that you'd be comfortable going to social events with?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:59 PM
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Have you ever considered joining a hiking group, learning to play a musical instrument, or painting things for fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:42 PM
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Ok, well good luck to you. I hope you find what you're looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:39 PM
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Men are able to suppress and move with or without emotion Control their emotions and think rationally and logically Suppressing your emotions shows a lack of emotional intelligence. This isn't control of your emotions, it's avoidance- which stems from fear. Having 'control' over your emotions is having the ability to understand and process your emotions. This is what allows for true, healthy emotional regulation. They are expected to and trained to and punished for not doing it I do agree that m…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:38 PM
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Then how will you make sure there are no women in there lying and screwing with your data?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:54 PM
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I mean doing something you love is most important, but is this what you want the rest of your life to look like (plus a relationship)? And do you know what kind of relationship you want, and what kind of woman you want to be with? Are there any activities or hobbies you enjoy? It'll help you a lot to at least be passionate about something.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:52 PM
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Actually, why don't you go ahead and do that so women can quickly and easily see who is a part of that group, and avoid them like the plague.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:47 PM
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An ambitious woman is unlikely to want to date an unambitious man. Going on dates with him first would just be a waste of time for both of them. Are you employed? As a woman with strong career aspirations, I would be very concerned if a man I was dating had no career. I would personally see that as a sign that the man is indecisive and apathetic/lazy (I'm not trying to be mean lol, this is just how I would interpret the situation). You don't need to be making 6 figures to get a date, but you'll …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:41 PM
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Being hurt by someone specifying their dating preferences is a matter of insecurity. This is similar to saying "it's wrong for a super thin and toned woman to post bikini pics because it makes some women who don't look like that feel bad about themselves." People don't need to bend over backwards to make sure an insecure person's feelings aren't hurt. Everyone is allowed to have their preferences when dating, and directly communicating those preferences would likely waste less time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:47 PM
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Actually, empathy is feeling the emotions of another person. What you just described is a cognitive understanding of emotions. Empathy essentially goes a step past this cognitive understanding. Having high empathy is not about understanding the plight of the underprivileged. That's easy. Having high empathy is understanding the plight of the serial killer or rapist. Empathy is feeling the emotions of the underprivileged, and the violent offenders in your example. Again, this does require cogniti…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:24 PM
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Wow, I'd be kind of offended by this if I was a man. You're making it seem like men are incapable of having emotional intelligence, and are some glorified machine-like problem solvers. Empathy is a part of emotional intelligence, and is something that's often learned. Just because something is intangible, doesn't mean it isn't "a real problem." What you're describing isn't even a cognitive understanding of emotions. Claiming that women simply get upset about mundane things because of hormones sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:16 PM
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Interesting. I thought it was more state dependent. Inheritance is easy to protect though, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 05:57 PM
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Being single forever is a nonissue. That’s why I wouldn’t want to be in a relationship like that. I personally would want to be in a relationship with someone who isn’t asexual. What you just described is basically just a really close friendship. I cuddle with my friends too lol. Of course, there’s nothing wrong with the relationship you described, I just personally wouldn’t categorize that as a romantic relationship. I’d much rather just marry my best friend at that point and have an open marri…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 05:38 PM
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One that protects my assets? Since when?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:12 AM
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Yeah…I’ll remember the dream when I first wake up, and then keep thinking about it throughout the day bc it’s so fucked up 😂 Then it’ll just stay a part of my memory
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:09 AM
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Or make sure they sign a prenup
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:48 AM
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Except I always vividly remember the horrifying ones 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:47 AM
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It drew me away from the reclusive misanthrope path. It's a story of redemption as well-which was a message I needed to hear when I read it. It also somehow made me feel less insane lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 05:02 AM
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It is 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:52 AM
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There’s none other like me. There’s no woman who teeters between enlightenment and insanity. They don’t understand. You should read Crime and Punishment. When I first started feeling like that, that book opened my mind a lot. Try not to isolate yourself too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:50 AM
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❄️❄️❄️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:43 AM
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lol I’m honestly not seeing any downsides to that arrangement
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:15 AM
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Every girl’s dream
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 09:10 PM
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Lies
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 07:44 PM
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Now there’s an idea
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 07:18 PM
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You’re not a teenager anymore. I heard loads of bullshit in high school as well, but as I got older, I was able to discern what was legitimate and helpful, and what was not. Yes, things we hear as teens can be harmful to development, but growing up is working through those issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 08:17 AM
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Can I please use this in “Gender Wars” the video game? Also the haggling 🤣🤣 I need a whole chapter
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 06:09 AM
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