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Yeah I mean idk your body count but for me around 40 or so girls even the novelty of hookups lose their luster. Once you’ve slept with enough women you’ve sort of slept with them all.
/r/BlackPillScience03/07/25 03:03 PM
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Could be a novelty thing. In all of my relationships my interest in sex has dwindled (but not disappeared) before her and my test last time I tested was at 975 ng/dl total and 23.4 pg/ml free which are both high end of normal range (total is actually outside of the range) for my lab.
/r/BlackPillScience03/07/25 02:19 PM
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It’s the hubris of modern liberalism
/r/BlackPillScience25/06/25 04:47 PM
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Generalizations are fine. The reality is most men and women across a population are going to act/behave in similar manners to other people from their gender and understanding those generalization helps us navigate new relationships better. I think over-generalizing and assuming stereotypes apply 100% of the time is a problem that doesn't help anyone, which is what I think you're really alluding to, but I think there are plenty of instances where generalizing is perfectly fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 12:08 AM
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Was a long time ago and I could be wrong but I feel like I remember one study posted here that suggested that facial attractiveness in men was more of a signal that his body handles testosterone well than anything else.
/r/BlackPillScience27/05/25 09:10 PM
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This is why I don’t listen to any “study” on women’s sexual preferences/behavior that’s just a survey.
/r/BlackPillScience19/05/25 02:53 PM
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I feel like 90% of the research posted on this sub is very “yeah no fucking shit” to anyone who actually gets outside and experiences life.
/r/BlackPillScience09/05/25 03:17 PM
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Any study that relies on “self-reporting” from women belongs right in the trash.
/r/BlackPillScience26/04/25 03:28 PM
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Where my girlfriend lives in the Czech Republic I hardly see any tattoos on females. I have a girlfriend from Slovakia (very similar country but even more conservative) and didn't notice a single woman outside of Bratislava and Košice (the two biggest cities) with a tattoo. Even in the big cities it was still far more uncommon than in the US where I'd say at least 60% of women have at least one.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/24 12:57 AM
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This guy was literally talking about murdering women according to OP. The second he finally realizes this chick is using him he’s gonna snap and hurt people or himself. I highly doubt he goes through this sort of progression.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/24 06:10 AM
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Lol man the point of improving yourself isn’t to “stick it” to that girl who ignored you in high school, it’s simply to live a better life. I had my 10 year not that long ago and ended up hooking up with a girl who didn’t give me the time of day back in high school but honestly I don’t blame her. I was an insecure and overweight loner why should she have? I didn’t care at all about that. We caught up, had some chemistry, hooked up, and that was it.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/24 04:38 AM
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Human nature. I got upgraded to business class on the last international flight I took and now flying coach absolutely fucking sucks in comparison when I didn't really used to mind it. Once you've fucked a few 8s/9s it will be legitimately difficult to get hard and/or finish with a 6.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/24 01:25 AM
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Why does shit like this even need to be studied. Anyone with eyes and ears and more than 3.5 seconds of life experience should know this.
/r/BlackPillScience10/01/24 03:36 AM
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None of this refutes anything I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 11:49 PM
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When women are actively choosing partners that are below them in whatever metric, that doesn’t mean they couldn’t get someone higher. Hypothetically no but women are very pragmatic. A 28 y/o single mom is going to have to eventually realize that the overweight 5'8 dude with the receding hairline but stable accounting job is going to be her only realistic meal ticket for her kid. Sure he's not like the guys she used to fuck back in college but realistically she can't wait around forever hoping a …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 05:42 PM
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I am convinced that without a draft, should a genuine threat to our nation or any other nation arise, men and women will happily volunteer to prevent that outside force by any and every means possible based on their skills and strengths. The idea we must bend men to the will of our nation indicates to me that we don't believe we're either doing real justice on the world stage or defending our homeland. Men who weren't drafted signed up for WW2. We needed a draft for a lot of other wars, gee I wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 05:34 PM
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It's ok, I wouldn't expect 95% of redditors or westerners to have any shred of an idea of what it actually means to have a country, society, civilization, people, etc...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 05:31 PM
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Wars can happen very suddenly and you need a draft to mobilize as many men as fast as possible to defend it. Ukraine would've been dead in the water without a draft. You can't give everyone the time to mull around and decide when they're gonna sign up when you're being invaded. Part of the social contract is understanding that as a male it is your responsibility to defend and die for your tribe if necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 07:45 AM
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Prices going up in supply and demand shocks is just the market finding a new equilibrium to decide who gets the new limited supply in the shock (those who are willing to pay more for it).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 07:41 AM
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Exactly. The reality of monogamy is that it's a compromise. The top 20% of men forgo their hypergynous nature to maintain social order, and women forgo their hypergamous nature so they aren't stuck raising kids alone. It's why women overwhelmingly vote left. They want to fuck chad, have his baby, and then have the state raise it and pay for it. They fail to realize that in order for that last part to occur, that bottom of 80% of men need to be productive, and their only incentive to be productiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 07:39 AM
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That doesn't mean the hypergamous nature is going away though, there's just less opportunity to actually date up. Women's nature is to still date up, there are simply less men who are "up" so some settle and some just check out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 07:32 AM
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Any country needs to be able to defend itself If you don't have males to fight and defend your country you don't actually have a country
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 07:30 AM
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this will dissipate as it has been. It's not really dissipating though. People are just getting into relationships less.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 06:18 AM
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The draft is an abomination The draft is not an abomination. Any country needs to be able to defend itself and sending women to fight and die in war is one of the stupidest things a population can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 06:16 AM
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Ukraine is a legit hyper-corrupt shithole but because of the war everyone seemed to forget that. I'm not saying they deserved it because they didn't but Ukraine actually fucking sucks and because of it the women do too. The sweet spot IMO are the Visegrad countries (Czechia, Slovakia, Poland, and Hungary). Eastern enough to not be completely fucked by western bullshit, but western enough to not be dirt poor shitholes. My dad is from one of these countries and I've gone back multiple times and li…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/23 08:07 AM
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DNA testing has revealed that 20-40 % of the father listed in birth certificate is not the real father Cuckolding happens but you literally just made that statistic up.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/23 10:19 PM
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I'm a right leaning guy (wouldn't say "conservative" though) and until recently used to live in a very liberal city (think like of Portland, Seattle, SF, etc...) and it never really seemed to matter. Some almost even seemed to be amused or turned on by it in a "bad-boy" kind of way (being a republican is a huge no-no where I lived) but most didn't really seem to care at all. 90% of women's political leanings between the ages of 18-28 are purely performative. Most young, attractive women aren't a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:58 AM
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I remember one time I was hanging out with this girl I'd somewhat recently met on hinge who "didn't really like giving head" (which is code for not liking giving you head) and I was showing her something on my phone when a another girl I was seeing randomly sent me a nude. She pried a bit but I kind of just played it off. The next morning the girl I was with wakes me up with a blowjob and makes me breakfast in bed. Another time I'm at a college bar with a group of friends including a girl I'd ho…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/23 07:03 PM
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There's a positive correlation between a man's body count and his attractiveness, while for women there's a negative one I agree with the man part, but is there any evidence to suggest that there is a negative correlation for women? In my personal experience I've noticed that there is definitely a significant positive correlation for men but very little correlation at all for women. Unless you mean "attractive" from an RMV perspective in which case I'd agree.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/23 08:37 PM
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Studies indicate that both men and women express similar levels of reluctance to get involved with someone... Key word here is express which means these studies are essentially worthless. This is my main problem with so much social science research in general. It's essentially a bunch of surveys that attempt to draw conclusions on behavior. Of course a woman is going to say she doesn't want to date a man-whore but the reality is the type of guy who lets say has a high body count is most likely g…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/23 08:32 PM
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Lmao this reads like oneitis cope. "Guys like I totally don't like this girl and could easily be fucking 4 other girls in 3 seconds but like help me keep sleeping with her". Exes are ok for the occasional one-night stand or few week fling every couple of years or so but consistently plating them right after a breakup is just dumb. Dump her and move on and if in a year or two she hits you up wanting to hook up then maybe hook up a couple of times and call it good.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/23 06:58 PM
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This guy has admitted to behaving inappropriately so isn't really the best example imo...a better one would be Trevor Bauer.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 07:18 PM
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If your goal is just to be lean muscular 4 sets of bicep isolation is fine if you're hitting compound pull exercises 2x/week as well. I have decent biceps and will do maybe 4-6 sets per week on biceps alone (I find them boring) but hit plenty of pullups and row variations with different grip variations as well and they aren't lacking.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/23 12:51 AM
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The problem with attention whores is no matter how valuable you are they will get bored and need that attention from someone else at some point. It's just not worth the time and effort.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/23 12:44 AM
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Yeah lol, if you're an average nobody they're just going to continue ignoring you.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/23 07:13 AM
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Your first three points are like three of the first things TRP tells you to work on. Also anyone who spent actual time on the TRP forum pre tik-tok would know that it has literally nothing to do with misogyny or hating women, but rather understanding the differences between men and women and using that to your advantage in dating whether that being securing FWBs, ONSs, or LTRs,.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:26 AM
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Even TRP acknowledges this is only true for high value men, but average guys are in no way gatekeeping relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:06 PM
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DHT is a byproduct of Testosterone and generally the less testosterone someone has, the less DHT they will as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:03 PM
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He's probably noticing that of the types of people capable of affording to vacation at a resort, them men look more similar than the women which doesn't surprise me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:01 PM
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He's a low IQ brainlet applying the apex fallacy to describe the historical experience of the average man when the reality is society has never once "catered" to the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:07 PM
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I mean this has literally already been happening in the west for awhile now and it's getting worse. Women liked men better when they were higher T.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:54 PM
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He probably means like 5'10-6'1 which would be a fair amount He also works at a resort which is selecting for wealthier and attractive people on average. Not really a good sample imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:44 PM
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Nah this sub is like 95% strawmen (from both sides) and I find my experiences with women in real life pretty much never align with what women claim to be like on this sub. It used to be better about 5 years ago but now it's full of people asking obviously loaded or leading questions, with people answering the exact opposite of what we all know is actually commonly experienced IRL and 15 year old redpillers reeeing about women. It's entertaining sometimes but not quite as engaging as it used to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:24 AM
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I've casually dated quite a few "bi" women (I put that in quotes because I question if some of them were actually bi or just saying it) and literally every single one of them has said they'd never date a bi man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:20 AM
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Men don't leave sick wives, they leave fat wives. As they should.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 11:41 PM
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you're 29, making 75K which is a good salary outside of SF/NYC Ehh even in cities like Seattle, Boston, DC, San Diego, etc.. 75k at 29 isn't a good salary
/r/TheRedPill29/09/23 10:00 PM
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I mean this just sounds like Miami or LA.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/23 06:35 PM
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Like I said I've literally never met a woman in my entire life that actually uses reddit. At most I've heard comments like "Oh I think my brother uses that", but this form of social media is not nearly as popular with women as it is with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:07 PM
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Most guys with physical labor jobs don't get those kinds of physiques because they don't progressively overload.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:05 PM
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I think what's happening is that we're failing as a society at instilling the values and traits necessary in people to form, appreciate, and maintain lasting and fulfilling relationships, and that's really the lense that the more traditionally conservative vocally anti-divorce crowd is viewing the issue through. The problem is if two people have gotten themselves into a bad relationship, they're still probably better off splitting up anyways, regardless of whether or not society failed to mold t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:37 AM
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First off I'm convinced that a sizable amount of the "women" on here are men larping. Second, of the women on here many are likely either on the autism spectrum or disproportionately masculine in their demeanor compared to the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:19 AM
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I think even bluepilled guys understand that physical attraction matters they just don't realize to what degree it matters. It's wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyy more important than men are led to believe. I'm fortunate enough to have an attractive face, long wavy hair with a perfect hairline, and a 6 pack in my late 20s and casual sex when I want it how I want it is so fucking easy to get compared to when I was even just 20lbs heavier than I am now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:13 AM
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You're also on reddit. You're an outlier. I've literally never met a single woman IRL that uses reddit but about half of the men I know at least casually browse reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:10 AM
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As a man who used to be pudgy, you definitely don't need to be Arnold Schwarzenneger but a 12-15% body fat physique with no love handles, lightly visible abs, and some arm and shoulder definition is 100% a must if you want to routinely sleep with attractive women. The difference in interest and attention is night and day. I feel like that's what women really mean when they say "muscles don't matter". Like yeah most don't want roided out bodybuilders, but they don't realize that what they actuall…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 10:06 PM
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The killer btw was not a native briton and comes from a culture where violence against women is acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 04:54 PM
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you are either a 6'5" Chad with a six pack or you may as well give up ever smelling a pussy Lol, saw a post on 4chan awhile back in all caps that was like "UNLESS YOU'RE AN 11/10 TERACHAD IT'S LITERALLY OVER AND YOU SHOULD ROPE", annd then was a screenshot of one tiktok of a girl who had some semi-unreasonable "icks". Granted the OP was likely just trolling but the comment section made it very clear why these terminally online chuds remain terminally online chuds.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:30 AM
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I've literally never encountered a situation with a girl where she refused to be emotionally vulnerable at some point outside of one night stands. Even in casual relationships it happens at some point. I can't even fathom what that would look like. I guess it would be a deal-breaker because it would be so weird I would think something is wrong with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:24 AM
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I mean am I looking for a 19 year old virgin? No. But do I want to marry a girl who got gangbanged at frat parties in college and has a bodycount in the 70s? Also no. I would also probably rather be with a girl with some past sexual experience who I felt I was very compatible with over a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:20 AM
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Except median household wages haven't really gone up enough to counter this. What happened was men were making X, now men and women are making like .56X. All it invited was more stress, children being raised by strangers instead of their own mothers, more dead bedrooms, more divorce, more depression, more anxiety, and less overall life satisfaction and happiness than people 70-80 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:19 AM
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He means that our grandfathers would work 60hrs/week but wouldn't come home to a house that had gone to hell because women didn't have to go to work. Nowadays, you'll work 60hrs/week for shittier pay (relatively) because of the downwards pressure on wages from doubling the supply of labor and your wife/gf also has to work 60 hrs/week and you both come home to a house that is a mess. Essentially it's a worse situation for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:06 AM
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Except your claim is literally wrong. More relationships are trending towards neither being the sole/primary breadwinner but the percentage of woman being the sole/primary breadwinner has decreased over the last 10 years. So no, women haven't been out-earning at an increasing rate over the last 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:59 AM
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So ALL women are collectively lying about their experience with men and somehow women also do more household labour and childcare even if their husband is unemployed? Any "study" where you ask people to self-report data is only useful in drawing the conclusion that this is what people perceive about themselves. Perceptions are different from reality. Nope, women still work more. In marriages where both work full time those "studies" come to this conclusion however in the aggregate many married w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:36 PM
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The stats from "studies" that are essentially surveys of what people self-report (ie. garbage). Not to mention that most of those studies find that men work more overall if you count work done outside of the home.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:26 PM
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No they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:56 PM
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Literally all of those "studies" are based on self-reported feelings of women (essentially they belong in the trash). There isn't a single one that blindly observes the behaviors of couples and tries to have a neutral third party determine reality. And even if we were to take them at face value, many suggest that men still work more overall if we take into account time spent at their jobs as men tend to work more hours than women. Growing up my own mother complained constantly about all the shit…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:45 PM
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She literally strawmanned the worst imaginable scenario her entire post. Flip the genders and she'd be labeled an incel. My father and most men I know are absolutely nothing like she described in her post. She's just bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:35 PM
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It's so weird but that's why I find it entertaining at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:07 AM
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My experience as a dude with a bodycount ~60 does not track whatsoever with what women claim to like in this sub which I find particularly amusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:51 AM
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Most of the men and women on this sub clearly harbor a lot of resentment for the opposite gender. A lot of "all men are rapists or ok with rape" because men think you shouldn't immediately presume guilt when an accusation is levied against someone and a lot of "women are delusional whores" because they'd prefer to date attractive men from the men on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:49 AM
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Then stop rewarding that behavior in men😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:46 AM
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Honestly I don't think you should. Save some poor man the misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:41 AM
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I think the reason for the increase in things like abortion and single motherhood has more to do with the fact that as western societies have become more "egalitarian" women's standards have shifted more towards what makes a fun and exciting partner vs a stable and loving one. So they're "high" for short-term partners, but dogshit for long-term ones. It's why in the past and in hardcore conservative societies, fathers had a lot more say in who their daughters dated because young women especially…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:28 AM
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In an ideal world no one wants their partner to come with baggage or past trauma they clearly haven't dealt with. I think the difference is women would rather risk the man coming with baggage if it means he has experience but men would rather be with an inexperienced woman and not risk baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 04:09 AM
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The 70s was not a decade of economic boom. It was a decade marked by stagflation, essentially what the pandemic has done to the current economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:48 PM
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You don't have to agree with it but the logic is that men and women aren't the same and don't want/value the same things in a relationship. Women primarily value resource security from their partner and men primarily value loyalty/fidelity since they don't get pregnant. The first three things you mentioned represent a greater threat to what men value but don't really represent a threat to what women primarily value. The last one also just really isn't even true at least in the redpill space wher…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 08:19 PM
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I think what comes off as anger towards women is really anger towards the general feeling of being gaslit and lied to about what women are truly attracted to that a lot of men experience. A lot of men are also upset over the cultural shift towards casual sex because a casual sex culture is a net negative for 90% of men. They may barely if at all get to participate and then maybe some day get to settle with a girl who comes with the baggage of having dated tons of men who didn't give a shit about…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:15 PM
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Yeah other studies have shown that IQ and financial success strongly correlate up to an IQ of about 120 and then the correlation becomes much weaker after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 08:56 PM
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Swap the "g" in "regarded" for a t and that's what he means to say. Just can't actually spell it out otherwise the reddit gestapo will sniff it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 06:06 PM
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I think what's true is lets say you take a man and a woman in their 30s who have both maintained their looks as best they can via diet, exercise, etc, and both worked hard in their 20's to set themselves up with a good career and professional and social network...the man will have an easier time dating. Now if that man was a loser in his late teens and 20s and did nothing to improve himself and is still a loser in his 30s, if anything it will be harder because he's fallen so far behind and misse…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:57 PM
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The average IQ of a CEO is ~120 which makes them fairly smarter than the average person but definitely not a genius and CEO is one of those positions you will not do well in if you lack social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:45 PM
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Drugs are for losers
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:29 AM
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Lol you've clearly never lived in a frat
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:29 AM
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Same it benefited my life in so many ways and was exactly what I needed at that age. That being said it's not for everyone and I wouldn't do it at every school.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:07 AM
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I mean yeah he probably did, the point is the why didn't matter and the women didn't care about it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 09:18 PM
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Ehh some are some aren't. A lot of the stereotypes about frats are exaggerated. It also depends on what school you go to. Greek culture at an academically inclined university on the west coast or northeast is going to be a lot different than at a party school in the midwest or south. At the end of the day my experience taught me that frat culture is really just party culture in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 08:40 PM
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Men are held more accountable for the roles that nature designed them to be better at fulfilling (resource provision and protection) and women are held more accountable for the roles that nature designed them to be better at fulfilling (child rearing). Why we try and fight a losing battle to change this is beyond me. We're not beating nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 08:37 PM
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I mean legally he still would be on the hook for child support at the very least. Whether or not your mom pursued that is a different story but men cannot legally walk out on their children and provide 0 support whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 08:31 PM
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Go search for threads in the askmen and askwomen subs asking cheaters why they did and the tone of responses are mostly that of regret and personal shame from men and "he deserved it" for one reason or another from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 08:22 PM
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I think it's a stretch to say women are "cheered" for cheating, even on a site like reddit which is very gynocentric, cheaters in general are treated like scum, but there's definitely less emphasis placed on her choices as an individual. Women are more likely to be given the benefit of the doubt that some external factor drove them to do it than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 08:21 PM
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But I personally know average/blah looking guys who get girls just by being non needy, cool and social. I mean this guy still fucked A LOT of new girls, he just didn't get much repeat business if that makes sense. Looks 100% matter to get your foot in the door more than anything else imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:39 PM
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There was a guy in my frat back in the day who was 6'4, lean muscular, good looking face, etc. Honestly looked like an abercrombie model. He had no issue getting interest from women but he could never seem to keep them interested. It finally made sense after I'd hooked up with this girl who I was under the impression that he'd only hooked up with like once or twice before as that's what he was telling all of us...well turns out they'd been hooking up regularly and she was losing interest because…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:00 PM
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It's common but in my anecdote the other three actually didn't have boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:42 PM
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https://parade.com/1241264/alexandra-hurtado/matt-damon-wife-luciana-barroso/ Yeah she was a bartender in Miami with a daughter when they met in 2003... dude had good will hunting, saving private ryan, and the first bourne movie under his belt by then.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 05:34 AM
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This thread is gonna garner a lot of people claiming most college rape is false accusations and a lot claiming the opposite. I was in a frat for 4 years, served on my frat's exec council for 2, served on IFC for awhile, and was fairly well connected across the greek system. Unfortunately a lot of both happens. Anecdotally I knew of 4 men who were falsely accused with legit evidence proving their innocence, and of 3 women who I believe were legitimately raped. My best advice is only go to parties…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:13 AM
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When I was in college I knew of 4 separate men who were falsely accused of rape with legit evidence proving their innocence. The most egregious was a snapchat video of the girl literally on top of the guy riding him hard, moaning, saying his name, etc...every clear sign she was very into it and she still accused him of rape a couple days later when her bf heard rumors that she'd hooked up with a guy. Luckily for the falsley accused dude someone had the video and sent it to her and she backed off…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:07 AM
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Men tend to marry within their socioeconomic bracket because of proximity and nothing else, the difference is men would be willing to marry below their own for the right girl and the opposite is almost never true for women. Hell Matt Damon married a cocktail waitress with a kid from a previous marriage by the time he was already an A-list actor.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 11:53 PM
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I would say so in the sense that we have very clearly defined roles in our relationship that align with what traditionally masculine and feminine roles are. Even if we disagree on something (which is rare for us) she generally defers to my judgment. She is 100% the type of girl not just redpillers but most men would consider "wifey material". She's pretty, somewhat shy, barely drinks alcohol and has never done drugs, doesn't really party, is incredibly feminine, sexual experience is limited to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 09:08 PM
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Yeah mostly. About a 3yr age gap, different nationality but similar ethnicity (she's western slavic and I'm half western slavic, half nordic), similar religious beliefs (agnostic), intelligence I'd say is fairly similar although she thinks I'm a lot smarter than her. Socioeconomic background is hard to say because I'm American and she's from central Europe. For height she's 164cm and I'm 180 (5'4 and 5'11 in freedom units).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 06:06 PM
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Back in the day they used more innuendo and were less overt with the messaging but the underlying message was essentially the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 05:07 PM
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The highest N-count woman I've ever known (self-admitted body count of at least 150) was probably a solid 40-50lbs overweight, and the highest n-count dude I know is 6'3, ripped, and has modeled. The idea that it's fair at all to compare men's and women's n-counts is laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:37 PM
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I completely agree but that goes for looks in general. Your height, muscularity, face, sense of style, etc only help you get the foot in the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 06:54 PM
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I mean yeah you don't need to be arnold schwarzanegger from Conan the barbarian big, but a lean muscular physique goes a long way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 06:31 PM
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I mean there are instincts to select males with high amounts of physical strength but physical strength is pointless if you're mentally weak. Sure physical strength isn't as relevant in a technologically advanced society for day to day existence but the instincts in women to select for it aren't gone and probably never will go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:58 PM
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I was in an uber once and the driver was an older Korean immigrant. One of my buddies was drunk and rambling about some girl problems and the driver was like "You need stop talking like this. Women want men not just strong body but even stronger mind". It was honestly hilarious how she just called him out like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:37 PM
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I agree, women aren't generally ever really "single" the way men are, so trying to make comparisons isn't all that useful. The other issue is most of the "studies" on this are just surveys asking people how they feel. It should come as a shock to no one with more than 14 minutes of life experience that women lie to themselves all of the time. Hell people lie to themselves all of the time especially when coping with not having something in their lives they actually want, but women especially comp…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 04:32 PM
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Yeah the commenter just posted a bunch of cope non-sense and is missing the forest for the trees.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:04 PM
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I agree. Humans are animals of condition and will repeat behaviors that are rewarded. In my personal experience I never had an easier time in my life getting laid than when I was an arrogant, douchey frat boy. I wasn't outright mean or insulting to women, but back then I showed very little regard for how my actions were affecting the women I was sleeping with and only cared about myself...and in general they loved it. Looking back it was actually kind of ridiculous the shit I was able to get awa…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 07:05 PM
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People are not routinely going around calling 5'11 people "tall" in the US. I'm 5'11 and no one has ever called me tall except in Asia and Mexico. Americans generally do not consider 5'11 "tall". Being taller than most women doesn't matter because women aren't comparing you to other women, they're comparing you to other men and 5'11 isn't wildly far off from average and there are still a significant portion of men around your height or taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:10 PM
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I mostly disagree, part of what makes you attractive as a man is just knowing what to do without having to be told. You should have the experience to know to try different things, gauge her reaction, and adapt accordingly to what she likes. Women aren't going to get off when they have to coach the guy through sex or constantly point out that they don't like what he's doing. The best and hottest sex I've had is when I just go for it, pick up on the fact that she's enjoying what I'm doing, and kee…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 06:41 PM
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Women 100% keep around male friends as backup options without consciously realizing it. That's why whenever these threads pop up they get flooded with women saying "bUt mUh gUy FrIenDs pLatOnIc", like yeah...for now. Hell this happened in my friend group last year. This girl was dating guy A who decides out of the blue he's gonna take an offer for some temporary job in colorado and will be gone for at least a year so they break up. A few weeks later I hear rumors that she's into me and then she …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:38 PM
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My point is that very few people actually consider 5'11 "tall". Like yes it's technically taller than average but the vast majority of people aren't going to look at a 5'11 guy and say he's tall. "Tall" doesn't usually even get used to describe someone until they're like 6'1+. 5'9-5'11 is that range where you're not short but you're not tall either.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:18 PM
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5'11 is definitely in the "average" range where people don't think of you as "Tall"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 06:03 AM
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Yeah I'm sure. Pretty much the entire focus around women's delusional standards in the manosphere community is around women who are nothing special themselves demanding men who are. They're calling out those women as delusional. No one is going to say that a woman like Jenna Ortega wanting to date a tall rich dude would be delusional considering she's young, pretty, and famous with no known "past". They're saying a tatted up, BBL'd, lip filler to the max 6 with an onlyfans wanting a high value g…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 11:58 PM
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They're criticizing below average girls with those standards, no redpiller or blackpiller is going to say it's ridiculous for an 8 to only want to date her looksmatch, but an overweight 4 demanding a 6'+ wealthy man is probably delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 11:46 PM
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Well yeah you can't just say "sex is a bodily function like pooping" because it's not. You can go your entire life without having it, and don't technically need it to survive. Sex is an act you choose to engage in that uses your body. The type of disgust someone experiences imagining someone taking a shit vs. having sex is entirely different. Trying to say that thinking about your partner having sex with someone else is the same type of internal disgust as thinking about them taking a shit is ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 11:23 PM
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You're comparing involuntary bodily functions to a voluntary one though. It's a false equivalency.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:16 AM
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I mean if one does it surely there’s a point to it (in your view) Humans use "shame" all the time. It's only efficacious when the majority of people are in on the shaming and most people on this particular issue don't care enough either way. And no I really don’t think there is a point. But I’m here so might as well play it out, easier than unaliving If there's no point to humanity and the human experience, then there's no point to arguing how human society should live it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 01:17 AM
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So those things don’t work. Why would some random man that has merch of him in a diaper shaming me encourage me to have children any further? Has the opposite effect. I never argued the efficacy of shaming. Why is the propagation of the human race necessary? This is pointless to argue. If you don't believe the human race is necessary then why are you here arguing? What's the point of experiencing anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 01:09 AM
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They're not explicitly promoting "become an influencer like me", you're just saying that some people will want to. Your issue is with being an influencer in general. You're moving the goalposts. My original point is that being a social media influencer who's message is pro single and child free is objectively bad on all fronts for society and that the opposite at the very least encourages a behavior that continues the existence of the human species.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 01:01 AM
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The message of "have kids and a family" is positive, not "showcase your life on social media"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 12:52 AM
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like good free medical care, free childcare, extended parental leave etc, instead of trying to convince and coerce women, who by their own volition would not become pregnant? There's pretty much 0 correlation with any of that and birthrates. Plenty of countries that offer that have similar or even lower birthrates than the US. It's entirely a cultural issue. What is not selfish about having kids only because your society expects you to, and you only do it so you can continue to participate in so…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 12:51 AM
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I think society would in general would be much better if people posted on social media a lot less.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:58 PM
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I don't think just getting dates itself is really the issue and why spaces like TRP exist...it's that more and more men are not getting what they want out of it. Men who are drawn to TRP aren't just simply looking for a girlfriend, they want to be lustfully desired by many women and date on their terms. They want women that go crazy about them, do what they want in bed, are enthusiastic about being with them, etc. For averageish guys it's not exceptionally hard to find a date, it's just that it'…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:36 PM
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Lol you just got blackpilled but I have some objections: The lesson is, you can't turn yourself into the hot guy. Not necessarily. If you have an objectively bad facial bone structure then yeah, but if you have potential and your problem is weight for example then there likely are things you can do to become hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:33 PM
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I don't know who that is. I would say that if someone is cherry-picking the negative or stressful aspects of parenthood and showcasing them in a way designed to discourage people to have kids, then that's bad for the future. My overall point is that pretty much anyone showcasing their life on social media is likely a narcissist or coping with something, the difference being that one spreads an objectively bad message, the other spreads an objectively good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:29 PM
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Mommy bloggers are mostly also doing it for validation, it's social media after-all. The difference is encouraging people to have kids and start families isn't objectively bad for the future like encouraging people to be single and childless.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:24 PM
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Most responses you're going to receive is going to be some form of "Cuz single bitter men" which is partially true but there's some truth to the other side as well. A lot of these women are coping with the fact that they weren't desirable to the men that they desired in their youth and didn't end up with a husband and kids so they post about how great their life is on social media to receive external validation that it is. People who are truly content with their lives don't need to showcase it o…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:59 PM
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I mean yeah for you but for others it is, and as a man my experience has generally been that the more a girl is into me the more open and willing she is to be sexually adventurous, often times not even at my request.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:48 PM
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This also doesn't necessarily mean that if a girl refuses anal, threesomes, bjs, ect that she doesn't desire you, everyone has their limits I literally acknowledged it's not always the case. My point is as a man once you go from being average/moderately attractive to very attractive and start sleeping with more women you notice a pattern that women are in general more enthusiastic about being sexually adventurous with you. I myself have been with women who have given every other signal otherwise…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:39 PM
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Lol because it's not generally men refusing sex acts they used to do in the past with other girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:53 PM
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My point is even if someone says those are the reasons you can't be 100% certain it's true and even if their reason seems "acceptable" or whatever you don't know what' going on in their head. Look I agree that you can never actually know someone's body count for sure and I'd honestly agree that asking for it or getting hung up on it is a waste of time or energy, my argument is that caring about body count in of itself isn't born of "insecurity" like many argue and that it's not necessarily irrat…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:47 PM
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The point is the individual's reason for a low or high body count doesn't really matter because a) we can never truly know what's going on in someone else's head and b) can never really know if someone has truthfully divulged all the information about their past. As humans one of the most fundamental heuristics we operate by is that the best predictor of someone's future behavior is their past behavior. It's why you would never hire someone convicted of child abuse to run a daycare center. Sure …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:05 PM
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Yeah I edited it meant "isn't" lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:52 PM
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As redpill as I am, I’m not expecting a woman to engage in a sex act she finds uncomfortable. The point isn't getting women to engage in sex acts she finds uncomfortable, its that all of the sudden those sex acts that we're commonly told are "uncomfortable" stop being uncomfortable and are instead fun, exciting, and a regular part of sex when a woman lustfully desires you. Over time you notice a pattern that the more attractive you are the more likely a woman is going to give you head every time…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:47 PM
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I think that's what bluepillers miss about the real "goal" of TRP. The guys drawn to TRP aren't there because they simply want a girlfriend, they want women who are lustfully attracted to them and respect them. Plenty of "bluepillers" are able to get a girlfriend but are in unsatisfying relationships where the sex is infrequent, she rarely if ever gives head, refuses to try anal etc and that's what they really don't want. They want the girl that's willing to do anything in bed whenever he wants.…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:30 PM
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All women are good for is sex, as that is all men want from a woman. Therefore, no women are special, because all they offer is sex and every woman can offer sex That's not fundamental to TRP. TRP simply informs you about the realities of intersexual dynamics and gives you tools to navigate the dating world to achieve your dating goals. Sure there are redpillers with this mindset but it's not a fundamental "tenet" of TRP. Plenty of redpillers also want successful LTRs and it's necessary to under…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:20 PM
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That's because Tik Tok is a tool of the CCP specifically designed to rot the brains of American youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 01:32 AM
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My mom always said "There's a half truth to every joke"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 01:22 AM
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I know a girl who got her nudes leaked online in college by some asshole and she got a corporate job just fine. Teaching I'll concede would probably be hard to land a job though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 01:19 AM
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lmao what? Was Jennifer Lawrence's life ruined when her nudes were leaked? Kim Kardashian literally became famous from a sex tape being leaked.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:59 PM
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Yeah population collapse in developed nations. Societys like South Korea are already past the point of no return and the west is not that far behind them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 05:32 AM
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Exactly. As a man I can take one look at a woman and know within a half-second whether or not other men want to fuck her. Even an otherwise good looking guy could be "unfuckable" to women for any number of reasons. Doesn't really work that way for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 11:22 PM
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It can be any number of things, the point is you can't try and logic/rationalize your way into her pants because attraction doesn't work like that. Yes logically speaking, a dead bedroom doesn't bode well for a marriage, but you can't simply point that out and expect to fix it. You also can't really just ask her "why aren't you sleeping with me" because the reality is she probably doesn't even consciously know and even if she did likely wouldn't just tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 10:49 PM
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You're missing the point. The OP was about a woman saying "If no one else wanted him why should I". The implication is that regardless of how attractive she might find him otherwise, the fact that the "herd" has not wanted him means something must be wrong and now he's undesirable to her. She's letting the herds opinion of someone determine how attractive he is rather than his raw traits/characteristics. The same isn't as true for men in that men are more likely to let a woman's raw traits/chara…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 10:11 PM
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His point is that the group's opinion of someone is less important to attraction for men than it is women, not that there aren't universal standards of attraction for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 09:44 PM
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"Dread" is one of the most misunderstood concepts in redpill and OGs will tell you that if you're at a point where you have to use active dread your relationship is probably over. "Passive dread" is what you want to achieve and it's not something that you shouldn't even be actively focused on. It exists because you've built yourself into an interesting and attractive man who by the way he carries himself makes it clear that if the relationship no longer satisfies his needs, he will leave. It doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 05:48 PM
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It can actually be low or "mismatched" but I think most people on reddit claiming libido mismatch are really just coping with the fact that their partner isn't that strongly attracted to them. Go to the dead beadrooms sub and it becomes painfully obvious why their wives don't want to sleep with them. They get complacent, her sex drive dips, they wonder why so they start supplicating her which they don't realize only makes her lose respect for you. Then redditards say shit like "you need to have …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:54 PM
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Most women on reddit are men larping but the actual women especially on a sub like this are probably autistic and masculine and not at all representative of the average woman out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:18 AM
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Lmao you're not going to get honest answers or anything representative of what you're likely to experience in real life on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 06:05 AM
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Do you think that’s a bad thing? Yes and no. The idea that she should have enough skills to be self-sufficient should she need to be is fine, the problem is the messaging is often packaged as " you're better off being independent rather than finding a partner and relying on each other". Yes they do. Two and a half men comes to mind Two and a half men constantly makes charlie look like a drunk and lonely loser who just happened to luck his way into money with catchy jingles and only lives a playb…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:10 PM
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I would say that for every article celebrating motherhood there's 5 discussing the wonders of being child-free.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 06:51 PM
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Media over the last 20 or so but especially over the last 5-10 years has increasingly pushed the idea that careers are more important than having kids/a family for women, that its ok to wait until your 30s to have kids despite that not really being an optimal time of your life biologically speaking to start a family, that having kids is a burden (look at Emily Blunt's character in the recent film Oppenheimer). Hell the fact that the barbie movie is the highest grossing film this year should be e…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 06:48 PM
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100% although I doubt anything I could say would change your perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:53 PM
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I think the reality is that most women actually do want to have kids and what redpillers are pointing out is that modern society is trying to convince women that they don't which down the road results in many of them being miserable. That's not to say that redpill content creators don't exaggerate this problem but it is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:49 PM
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I think what happens is women just post a lot more about every aspect of their lives compared to men. Most men I know will maybe post 1-3x per year if that on their personal social media accounts and the ones with girlfriends will usually do it after like a big trip or something that they took with their girlfriend. Their girlfriend on the other hand is more likely to post 1-3x per month for all sorts of shit so the rate seems lower. I wouldn't say most women I know though completely hide their …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 09:26 PM
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Semantics...the point which you're ignoring is that redpill exists to acknowledge the realities of intersexual dynamics, mating, attraction, etc. and adjust your dating strategies accordingly. There's nothing inherently misogynistic about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 05:01 AM
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There definitely are some spiteful and hateful men within the redpill movement but that word, like most definitions co-opted by the radical left, has largely lost it's meaning. I don't think for example that acknowledging that hypergamy exists and adjusting your mating strategies makes you a misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:35 AM
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Most people in the anger phase of redpill are upset that they have essentially been gaslit and lied to their entire lives by society at large about what is actually attractive to them. They aren't mad that traditional masculinity is attractive, they're mad that they've been told it's toxic and then come to find out when they reach sexual maturity that women tend to prefer it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:28 AM
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Yeah I pretty much agree, but even then you'll see women complaining about DiCaprio dating 22-25 year olds which IMO isn't really that predatory. If he was dating 18-19 year olds well into his 40s then yeah I'd agree it's a bit sus but a 22-25 year old woman deciding to date the biggest movie star of the past 30 years knows full well why she's doing it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 10:17 PM
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Lying and manipulation to get what you want isn't "coercive". Coercion is when you use force or threats to harm someone in some way to get what you want. Telling a girl you're interested in something serious and then ghosting 2 months later because you never were in the first place while deceitful, isn't coercive. Telling her that you'll spread her nudes online if she doesn't sleep with you or do whatever it is you want would be an example of coercion.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 10:13 PM
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It doesn't fully develop (in men btw) until ~25 but it's most of the way there by ~21. That's why I personally think a 24 year old dating an 18 year old is arguably a worse age gap relationship someone in their 30s dating a 22 year old. Those years from 18-22 are fairly pivotal development years compared to 22-25.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 09:21 PM
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There have been so many articles saying that women live longer when they are unmarried and dont have kids. Those are mostly untrue. A few years ago there was a popular study by Paul Dolan going around the internet that people regurgitated claiming that single women were happier, except it was later found out that he was basing this claim off of a survey whose results he misinterpreted in the first place. Most research on the topic actually supports the conclusion that both men and women tend to …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:27 PM
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I think what happens is when a man performs poorly in bed a lot of women jump to the conclusion it's because he doesn't care when in reality he likely does care, he just doesn't realize he's performing poorly and most women won't tell him he is for a multitude of reasons. That's not to say that some men out there don't care, but it's not the majority. I think it's just a perspective issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:15 PM
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Straight up. The vast majority of poor people in the US have access to public schools and the vast majority of public schools teach the basics of sex ed even in le evil red states. Do these people actually think theses teenagers getting pregnant have no idea what a condom is in 2023? It's an attitude/mindset issue, not a lack of education issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 10:02 PM
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High body count woman are repulsive whores. High body count men are attractive studs. Fine with it and makes sense. Female virgins are virtuous wife material. Male virgins are socially inept weirdo’s. Yep. If you're a man and still a virgin (unless by choice which if we're being honest is almost never the case) you most likely are either a socially inept weirdo or incredibly ugly and you don't deserve pussy. A man’s money is theirs. A woman’s money is hers. That's fine. Males are supposed to pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 06:14 AM
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I actually agree with most of your points and I don't envy women either, but my overall point is that put very simply the overarching privilege of being a woman is the generally the burden of performance isn't placed at your feet to nearly the same degree it would be a mans. Sure men may generally be rewarded and regarded for their successes than women, but they're also dropped harder and forgotten faster after their failures. Around 70-80% of homeless people are men yet we have homeless shelter…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:08 PM
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the way in which many men don’t completely respect you and the harsh criticism that women extend to one another Most women don't respect most men either, this isn't a unique experience to women. And have you heard the way women talk about men? In my experience it's just as demeaning if not worse than the way men talk about women. Your comment just reinforces my point that while society especially over the last 30 years has highlighted struggles unique to women, it basically ignores the fact that…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:51 PM
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I think the main issue boils down to female solipsism. Women in general have far less empathy for men than men have for women by design. From an evolutionary standpoint it doesn't benefit them to feel empathy for a man struggling because at the end of the day she has the survival of her offspring to worry about. The problem with feminism is they might correctly (albeit the often exaggerate) point out an issue that is specific to women but they try and frame it like only women have issues and tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:37 PM
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Well yeah, it's almost like nature designed men and women to be different and trying to build a perfectly egalitarian society is one of the most regarded things we've tried to accomplish in modern history.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:22 PM
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The wealthiest societies on earth are predominantly white societies so it's no surprise that most millionaires and billionaires are white. It's also no surprise that more men are millionaires and billionaires than women because men on average have are much more likely to have the drive and passion to be hyper-productive. It's like people love to conveniently ignore the naturally dimorphic characteristics between men and women when evaluating outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:20 PM
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What's hilarious is the board of Mattel is literally 5 women and 7 men yet in the movie it's portrayed as all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:11 PM
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Taking risks is apart of that grind. I work in M&A consulting and am around these types all of the time and you just don't see the passion for a career from women nearly as often as you do from men. By 30, most women want to focus on their families and will either leave the workforce entirely or leave the hustle and bustle of M&A for a more stable, predictable, and less demanding 9-5. These women are usually also in long term relationships with bankers, PE guys, lawyers, Tech bros, etc so it's n…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:01 AM
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I highly doubt it. Most women by the time they reach 30 have much less interest in prioritizing a career over family life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:55 AM
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Women aren't "oppressed" in the west, the myth persists because of the apex fallacy. Yes the average woman is doing better than the average man, but the top 20% of men are doing better than the average woman and the top 20% of women which is why people believe "oppression" is real. They see that most CEOs are men and assume it's because of "le oppression" while conveniently ignoring that fact that it's usually only men who are actually willing to grind hard enough to ever become a CEO.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:33 AM
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I'm 5'10.5" which is right on the edge of being able to lie about being 6' and getting away with it. On dating apps now I just say I'm 5'10 and to be honest I haven't noticed a difference in the quality or number of matches. Hell a couple of times I've been on dates and the girl said she expected me to be shorter. I do have a funny story from a few years ago when I first downloaded hinge. A buddy told me to just lie and say 6' because I was close enough that in shoes no one would really be able …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 04:44 PM
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I'm American but half Slovak with family there and have spent a fair amount of time in Central/Eastern Europe as a result and can say with 100% confidence that on average they are much more traditional and pleasant to date than women in America. Doesn't mean all western women suck and all Eastern European women are the perfect tradwife but hypothetically if I had to marry one of two women and all I knew about them was that one was from the US and the other from Slovakia, I'd pick the Slovak girl…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:18 AM
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100k when we were growing up is the new 200k and even then it's not like a woman is going to look past everything just because you make 200k. Especially in coastal cities if you want to comfortably raise a family of 4 on your salary alone on what would've been a middle class lifestyle in the 90s-mid00s, you need to make at least $250k/yr.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 05:28 PM
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I have a similar story. Dad was also an immigrant but from an ex soviet satellite state and my mom came from a lower middle class American family. I went to a highly regarded state school, got a degree in finance, networked well in school to land a consulting job and was making 6 figures by 24, currently making ~130k/yr. Most people I know in that comp range you mentioned had somewhat similar friends. They didn't come from generational wealth or get lucky really, just normal American kids who di…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 05:25 PM
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I think your perception of people in their 20s who make over 100k is a bit wrong. Sure some of those people exist but most are just dudes who went to good colleges, majored in something high demand and useful like STEM, finance/accounting, etc. and networked well into a good job. Of course you're going to have the handful of dudes who got lucky dropshipping or in crypto, but I wouldn't say the guy who studied his ass off to get a computer science degree and got a job making 150k out of college a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:38 PM
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They are exemptions to the rule. All of the data suggests that women on average do not prefer shorter men. Doesn't mean its a reason to give up entirely or that there will never be a short guy with a girlfriend, but to act like a short man's struggles with dating have nothing to do with height is disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 10:10 PM
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I mean sure that doesn't help, but it's ignoring the fact that being 5'7 is going to be a straight up disqualifier for A LOT of women. I've had friends that short who are perfectly normal dudes get brutally rejected by women in front of people just for being short. One buddy of mine who is 5'6 literally had a girl laugh in his face because of it at a bar. Yeah guys who are like 5'9-5'11 and complaining about height are probably suffering from something else but chalking up really short dudes' la…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:46 PM
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Yeah I was going to say reddit goes the extreme in the opposite direction acting like if someone is poor then it's 100% the fault of some external factor they have no control over lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:30 PM
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My point is that your height isn't a limiting factor, if you're not having success with women it's due to something else. For a man who is 5'8, it might be the only reason he's getting rejected in certain instances.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:23 PM
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I've always said women aren't loyal to the man, but loyal to the way he makes her feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:11 PM
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I think the point is, take two guys who are of equal facial attractiveness but maybe both unkempt and overweight and have both of them spend 6 months getting in shape, refreshing their style, getting a proper haircut, etc. the return on investment is going to be greater for a guy who is 6'3 vs say 5'8, However I'd argue that once a guy is ~5'10-5'11, other things like facial attractiveness, social skills, style, etc. start to matter more than each incremental unit of height.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:08 PM
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My mom would always say "there's a half-truth to every joke" growing up, point being often times jokes are only funny because they address an uncomfortable truth in a humorous manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:07 PM
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Most men who are "upset" aren't really upset at the fact they're not viewed as long-term prospects, its the other way around. They're upset that women don't view them as the type of men she's willing to have hot, fun, short-term casual sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:05 PM
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I somewhat agree but there's some nuance to it. I was in a frat in college and there were guys who got laid often and guys who didn't get laid that often who had attitudes similar to the way you described. The guys that slept around the most (every frat had a group of like 3-5 who got LAID), usually had at least three of the following four characteristics: tall, handsome, very fit, charismatic. The key is, you can't be an autistic weirdo who talks directly to girls like this and expect to have m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 11:01 PM
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Yeah at the end of the day you can never know what exactly is going on inside someone else's head. I'm sure there are some women out there who could have higher body counts then go on to be completely happy in a long term relationship and make a good wife but the data suggests that is less likely for whatever reason. At the end of the day it's a riskier bet to make and if you're a man with options who wants a stable LTR to raise a child with, it doesn't make sense to choose a high n-count woman.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/23 08:43 PM
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Honestly that could be it but I don't even live in an area of the US that is particularly fat. Could also be bias because I've always had a thing for the Eastern European look. Košice is dope though.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/23 02:08 AM
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My point is they say they're getting no male attention but they probably actually are from guys they just don't give a shit about so it doesn't even register in their minds that they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:50 AM
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Fundamentally nature struck a balance where the tragedy of male sexuality is most men will go their entire lives having far less sex than they could ever hope for, and the tragedy of female sexuality is they'll actually most likely have more sex they could hope for in the sense that every man that doesn't work out was a much greater waste of time/effort for her than him due to a woman's reduced fertility window compared to men. I think you're right in that this duality will lead to some men bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:23 PM
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I’ve heard a lot of women say they feel invisible and get no male attention at all They're probably not getting attention from the guys they would want attention from. I do think you bring up a good point overall though that just how attractive a woman is will affect a man's arousal/interest. A lot of men would not be interested in going to dinner with a woman regardless of her attractiveness level, because many men only want “Netflix and Chill” type “dates” and aren’t willing to take women on r…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:20 PM
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I can't tell you how many times I've hooked up with a girl after a hinge/tinder date who said something like "I almost didn't do this because you looked like kind of a fuckboy in your profile". It's definitely a compliment because it essentially means "You give off hot bad boy energy"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 06:39 PM
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It doesn't matter though from a dating perspective. If you're looking for an LTR to raise children with for example, it doesn't matter if she was always destined to be a whore and that's why she has a high body count, or if each body further turned her into a whore...the end product is the same. All you need to know is that high body count means there's a higher likelihood she won't be a good long term option.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/23 04:05 PM
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Yeah there's definitely more bullshit on average that comes with American girls but women are still women. I'd say the main difference in preferences I noticed are that American women place more emphasis on a man being hot and fun, whereas Slovak girls place more emphasis on him being smart and not a pussy. American girls tend to be uglier though, dunno what it is. Totally agree. It's not like every girl walking around in Slovakia is a bombshell but I was just there visiting last month and it fe…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/23 06:53 AM
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I grew up in the US but am half Slovak and my current LTR is actually from Slovakia so I have a decent perspective on the differences between women in the US vs that part of the world and how it affects TRP. At the end of the day, women are ultimately attracted to and motivated by the same things. TRP applies whether or not I'm dating an American girl or a Slovak girl. The main difference is Slovak women didn't grow up in a culture that actively teaches them to hate men, so they dress and behave…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/23 11:35 PM
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I mean that's what those apps do over time. Introduce a feature for free and once people are hooked hide it behind a paywall in hopes someone will pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 09:08 PM
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I mean a woman with a 6' preference might go as low as 5'10 but is very unlikely to go much lower than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 09:07 PM
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They want to but the reality is men are more willing to make concessions than women are but that's really just a feature of supply and demand being that men demand sex far more than women do so they'll make concessions. The argument of this thread is basically that by not making more concessions women could be losing out on otherwise compatible partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 09:06 PM
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Read the OP's comment A healthy, self-actualized man is deeply in touch with his emotions. Because understanding his emotions gives him the power to control them. A man should be able to understand the things he's feeling so that he can manage them and navigate acceptable courses of action. The men we see in prisons are men who cannot manage their emotions and allow them to dictate their actions. As men, rightly or not, we are held to a higher standard of behavior and we can't allow our feelings…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 05:40 PM
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While what you're saying is true, what OP is referring to is what women really mean when they say "men need to be more in touch with their emotions" which is "men need to handle their emotions like women" which I'd agree is horrible advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:20 PM
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I assume men are capable of the same thing, seeing a woman who is pretty, but not their cup of tea. We may not want to date them but generally speaking if a woman is objectively physically attractive we would like to fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:45 AM
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"Female women" lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 12:39 AM
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getting tax breaks This is only really true when one earner is making significantly more than the other. So for some it can be the case, but if your incomes are relatively close it's not gonna make much of a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 03:41 AM
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Not a woman but when I was a teenager I was chubby and out of shape and the best advice my mom gave me was "You're a smart, funny, and handsome guy, but when a girl is running her hands up your shirt she wants to feel a flat stomach and pecs, not love handles and tits". I eventually got seriously into lifting weights and it improved my interactions with women quite a bit. I wasn't socially awkward, I had a decent sense of style, had friends, and wasn't even ugly, the last piece I was really miss…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 07:37 PM
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Apart from that I’m rather dead than to be with someone who doesn’t considers me a human being There are plenty of people I consider to be shorter, weaker, slower, dumber, and less resourceful than I am...doesn't mean they aren't human and aren't deserving of being treated like a human. You're the one making the false equivalency. but so far I’ve survived pretty good without a strong men. Weird. ...In a modern society designed by men with infrastructure designed, built, and maintained by men 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:59 PM
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I live in very liberal city in the US, I just assume any woman I'm seeing is at the very least talking to anywhere from 3-5 men and maybe sleeping with some of them. I never ask and frankly don't give a shit. I wrap it up, get drunk, fuck them, and leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:55 PM
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Why would anyone want to be with someone who doesn’t see them as an equal human being? Because nature has determined that the best route for survival for women is to attach themselves to men that are superior to them in almost every way imaginable. They want men who are taller, stronger, faster, smarter, and more resourceful than themselves. By nature's design they desire men who are not equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:48 PM
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Women have to use shame and guilt as tactics to manipulate men because of the size/strength difference. In the 10+ years I've been in the dating, casual sex, and relationship scene, it's clear to me that when a woman says a guy is an "asshole" he's usually not as bad as she makes him sound. It's usually code for him not giving her exactly what she wants. Women will also re-write history in their heads to fit whatever narrative they want. A few months back I was casually seeing this girl and deci…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:41 PM
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They did so because they were invaded. Stalin had literally signed a non-aggression pac with the Nazis two years earlier. Also can't forget that would've been impossible without lend-lease from you guessed it...the United States.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 05:38 AM
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Because if you were homeless and didn't work you went to prison...It's so fucking sad to see spoiled western kids become tankies and defend the shithole that was the USSR. You have no fucking idea how now nice you have it and just how fucking awful soviet oppression was.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 05:36 AM
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My father grew up in a soviet satellite-state...do not trust ANYTHING published by the USSR or any of it's former sattelite states. It's basically guaranteed to be complete BS. Second, no women were not "independent" and they did not make up 50% of engineers, that's another tankie revision of what life in those countries was actually like. Women were encouraged to be "trad". There was absolutely nothing redeemable about the USSR. It was a shithole and horribly oppressive. Maybe you could argue t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:40 AM
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I think a very fair critique of today's redpill movement is they say stuff like "women want to be submissive to a high value guy" which I'd agree is generally true, but they often do a poor job of describing what that actually means/looks like. It doesn't mean you treat your women like a lap dog you bark orders at and punish every time she doesn't follow one. It doesn't mean that you never ask her for her opinions, or never consider how your actions will affect her, quite the opposite actually. …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 12:46 AM
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Right like when redpillers say "A millionaire would date a barista", like yeah it can happen, hell Matt Damon's wife was a waitress when they met, but it usually doesn't. I don't think a lot realize that one of the more subtle reasons women wanted access to white collar careers is because it surrounds them with higher quality men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:22 AM
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Men and women, within certain cultures, are absolutely on group average near enough(within 10%) of being the same with what they're looking for, how they're going about getting it, etc. No they're not, that's just a straight up lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:14 AM
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They're not a different species but they are a different sex and acting like men and women on average have exactly the same sociosexual tendencies is acting in bad faith. Women on average are far less likely than men to want to engage in casual sex, and on average are going to have similar standards for casual sex partners that they would for a long term partner. This doesn't mean the opposite never happens it's just not the tendency. I swear this sub can be so dense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:09 AM
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Lmao it's not a made-up concept, what he's saying isn't even a controversial take. You're the one living in 🤡 world.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:04 AM
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On average though that's not the case. There are outliers, but women's standards for men they have casual sex with and men they have relationships with are a lot more similar than they are for men who have very little to no standards for casual partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:00 AM
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I think there's a degree of truth to this but it sometimes gets exaggerated. It's not like she's completely dry for the guy but he's probably the type of guy she only blows occasionally, wouldn't try anal for, would need toys/a vibrator to cum with, etc. She has enough attraction that she's not repulsed by the thought of him but he probably doesn't excite her like the ripped, cocky, coked out, frat boys she used to fuck around with in college, or the handsome and mysterious foreigner she dated f…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:57 AM
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Any "study" that relies on self-reported data and tries to draw any conclusion other than "this is what people say about themselves" is hot garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:04 AM
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Yeah my point is whenever I see the "5'9 is average" cope, if you're talking to a white guy who's probably mostly around other white people and mostly interested in white women, 5'9 is short. Especially considering that statistically white women are the least likely to date outside of their own race.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 12:04 AM
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Race also matters as people tend to date within their race. The average US height is 5'9 but among white men its 5'10.5, hispanics is like 5'6-5'7, asians are around 5'7, blacks are 5'9 I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 09:18 PM
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Which is funny because in western Europe where its 180cm (5'10.85) the average height is greater than in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 09:15 PM
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I've never understood that. I'm 5'10.5 and my ex was 5'9 but in heels was taller than me and I never gave a shit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 09:14 PM
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In redpill speak the term you're looking for would be "plate" which is a girl you pretty much only use for sex. An FWB you might actually go on the occasional date with, grab drinks, spend the night, etc but you're not that committed (see each other a few times per month) and don't do other couple shit like go on trips or buy each other gifts etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 05:30 AM
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But the way we pretend that women are already complete models and men are the ones who are slacking is insane. I think this really hits the nail on the head. I consider myself a pretty well put together guy in that I'm in my mid 20s with a 6 figure job, have an extensive social circle, am fit, handsome, have hobbies outside of work, am fairly well traveled etc, and while I don't struggle to find dates or attract women, I definitely struggle to find women who offer anything outside of their looks…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 06:40 PM
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A lot of the late 90s and early 2000s comedies, rom-coms, etc featured the common trope of the girl dating the jerk who leaves him for the "good guy".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 06:28 PM
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My experience is that promiscuous women are generally somewhat above average but are rarely the most attractive. Girls you would probably rate a 6 or 7 out of 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:25 PM
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This is the biggest cope I routinely see on this sub. I'm a man with a body count in the 50s and have been honest every time a woman has asked. Sure some have been upset by it but not once has a woman ever ended things or cared for more than a day over it. The current girl I'm dating is a traditional socially conservative girl from Eastern Europe who has had 2 boyfriends before me and even she didn't care when I told her, her response was just "makes sense all Americans are such sluts" lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:24 PM
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That's why I said "It's not exactly rational". There are plenty of logical reasons why you might get ignored by a server but the brain isn't always rational.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 12:47 AM
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Cope harder. Never once did I say yell at a waiter. I said that that in her head she's perceiving you as the type of person who isn't respected if even a waiter ignores you and that it's not even rational because there could be any number of reasons for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:13 PM
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"experts" LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 03:34 PM
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Bingo. Only a man that doesn't have somewhat of a presence and doesn't command respect gets ignored by a waiter. It's not exactly rational all the time but that's the subconscious reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 03:29 PM
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I feel like the "ick" only really happens when she wasn't that into him in the first place and is just looking for a more definite reason to get rid of him. A girl isn't going to drop the love of her life because a waiter ignored him once, but a guy she's been seeing for a month that she isn't that sure about anyways? Yeah maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 03:27 PM
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More likely to downplay the experiences of others since they themselves do not have to experience it. In other words, saying sexism and homophobia aren’t actual problems. Women are FAR less likely to acknowledge the experiences of men than the reverse. More likely to be violent or aggressive True. More likely to not have emotional restraint More likely to respond with physical violence when experiencing anger specifically but women in general have horrible emotional restraint, its just less like…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 04:36 PM
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I mentioned in a different comment but I have similar "stats" to OP and it's not that I struggle to find dates or interested women, its that it's a struggle to find women that I see any long term potential with and actually like. When I was in Central and Eastern Europe the women were simply better than American women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 01:33 PM
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100% agree. I have somewhat similar stats to you (mid 20s, 5'11, 175lbs, 6 figure consulting job, white, generally considered handsome). I recently spent an extended period of time on sabbatical in my father's home country of Slovakia and the women there are just better than American women. They're definitely more attractive on average, less likely to be overweight, more feminine, and generally more pleasant to be around. I've never even struggled to get dates or hook ups in the US but damn it j…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 01:31 PM
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No it's not. Nature is harsh and you only have the luxury of caring about it thanks to the comforts modern technology affords you. You think your great great great grandfather had the time to worry about whether or not girls were considering his mental health? No because he was busy making sure your great great great grandmother and his children had enough food to survive. A series of unpredictable weather phenomenon or disasters could wipe away the modern comforts you enjoy in the blink of an e…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 01:10 PM
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Men need to stop giving a shit about whether or not women care about our mental health. My mental health is my fucking problem why in the hell would I care what girls think about it. It's not like I really care about their's anyways I just want to fuck. Make friends, lift weights, and be useful. That alone will cure depression in 99% of males. Getting upset that women don't care about your fee fees won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 01:54 AM
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In my experience women's ego's tend to be more fragile than men's, their egos just don't get tested nearly as often and we perceive a man with a fragile ego as presenting a greater threat because of the size/strength difference so we focus on it more.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 03:00 PM
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Women who don't care at all is pretty much non-existent but women who only care that he's a few inches taller is actually the majority IMO. I'm 5'11 and my height has only ever held me back a couple of times on dating apps but never IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:36 PM
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Some girls actually like skinny but no girls like 4'9...sorry man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:34 PM
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It's hard to say. I'm 5'11 and my best friend is 6'5 and I'd say I've actually done slightly better than him when it comes to dating but both of us still have relatively high body counts (I'm ~50 and he's ~40 I think). We're similar levels of physically fit but he's a bit less social than I am and I'd say I have a better looking face than he does although he's not an ugly guy by any means. I however have never met a guy who's 5'7 or below who "pulls", I only ever hear people on the internet clai…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:25 PM
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You can't make a housewife out of a 304 While true I'd encourage you to stop watching Fresh n fit as it's mostly garbage "redpill" content. That being said, I completely agree with your take. You don't wife up a social media e-thot and then get shocked when she e-thots.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/23 11:33 PM
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I think it depends on how short. A guy who's 5'10 but with a handsome face, good social status/skills, and a fit body is probably going to have an easier time dating than a guy who is 6'2 but skinny, somewhat awkward, and an average face but if that same 5'10 guy was 5'7 then I would argue he probably wouldn't. Once you're around 5'9-5'10 each incremental inch of height starts to matter less compared to those other factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:37 PM
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This guy works in hospitality and acted unprofessionally. Like sure she might be overreacting a bit but it's still incredibly unprofessional to use the word rape in this context. I don't think this is the great injustice you're making it out to be. Anyone who isn't an absolute ret**d would know that.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/23 05:07 PM
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I was having this discussion with my girlfriend from Slovakia who was saying she has an neighbor who went to Thailand and got a wife after his wife divorced him but what stood out to me was my girlfriend was upset with the Thai woman for taking advantage of her lonely neighbor. The idea that he was taking advantage of the Thai woman didn't even cross her mind. I told her that in the US women would say he's taking advantage of her and she said "oh please that woman knows exactly what she's doing"…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:43 PM
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What is female nature then according to you? It's in her nature to be hypergamous as well as pick a safe and stable option particularly for long term mating. A man who checks out is sending signals that he may not actually be that stable so when another man enters the picture she's interested but isn't ready to jump ship (monkey branch in redpill speak) until she's pretty damn certain the new branch won't snap. So in the interim she finds a way to rationalize cheating on the current male because…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:30 PM
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I view it as being prepared for the realities of nature. Of course cheating isn't a morally justifiable action but some women who otherwise seem like fine people will do it and find a way to justify it regardless of the circumstances. Sure I could go on the internet and try and convince women that their mindset is toxic but the reality is women are pretty much hardwired to justify their behavior in any scenario and the ones that do take accountability are RARE.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:40 PM
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I quite literally do not. I'm simply saying that as a man that understands female nature I'm not surprised at all that some men get cheated on after they check out of a relationship. I fully agree the the morally correct action would be to end the relationship if your needs aren't being met and A LOT of women will not do that...but I also understand that because of women's nature I would expect some amount of women to not do that. I'm basically saying that I have less sympathy for someone who ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:16 PM
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I didn't say the man checking out was a justification, just that often times when women cheat it's not on a doting partner as the post suggests.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:10 PM
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Women do not cheat on assholes with good men. Women cheat on good men with assholes. I think the real redpill is that women are capable of cheating on good men with assholes and often do... but that being said, I do think they will often cheat when their emotional needs aren't being met. I've seen men completely check out of the relationship and get cheated on and then act surprised when I'm like dude you checked out a long time ago no shit. I'll also say that when I've seen women cheat on the g…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:53 AM
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Through a language learning app actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 07:24 PM
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I was pretty successful with it from 21-25, but got bored at 26 and haven't had any dating apps installed on my phone in a year. Then I took a sabbatical at work and went to Europe for awhile and met and fell in love with a girl from Slovakia which kinda sucks because she doesn't wanna live in the US and I don't wanna move to Europe because I have too good of a career here in the US. So I guess it's time to install hinge again...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 04:02 AM
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It's hard to describe as it's really more of an energy they give off but some more discernible things I noticed were that they were less loud, they tend to swear much less, tend to dress nicer and in a more feminine manner (especially in Slovakia) regardless of what they're doing/where they're going, they tended to be more interested in traditionally feminine hobbies like gardening, baking, sewing, etc, they were much more receptive to being complimented on their beauty, less likely to hold the …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 10:57 PM
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I didn't passport bro on purpose but I spent an extended amount of time in the Central European Visegrad countries on sabbatical and it kind of made me understand where passport bros are coming from. The women in those countries were just more feminine and generally more pleasant to date than American women. That's not to say all of them were better than every American woman I've dated but the general trend was noticeable. I now have a girlfriend who's originally from Slovakia and she's the kind…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 09:04 PM
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"Oh your anecdote I asked for doesn't confirm my bias...well fuck you then"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:50 PM
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First time having a discussion on reddit I see lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:39 PM
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Spot on. Doing something nice for a girl who is already doing something nice for you or is reciprocating is totally different. OP barely knew this girl and started showering her with gifts lol.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/23 07:20 PM
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The concept that anyone's history doesn't matter is fucking dumb as rocks. Why run background checks? Submit resumes for job applications? Hell why keep records of anything? The past doesn't matter right???? Of course no sane person would argue we should do away with any of that in society because we as humans fundamentally understand that someone's past behavior is the best predictor of their future behavior. If a girl has fucked 50 dudes I don't give a shit whether or not I'm the best she's ha…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/23 04:31 AM
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You just invalidated your entire argument. You do know that muscles don't magically evaporate the second you get off gear? The guy does not have an easily attainable level of musculature. If it was that easy to get that muscular nobody would bother with gear. ​Your gains from gear DO go away if you stop cycling and relatively quickly. You have absolutely 0 idea what you're talking about. Let me ask you this, do you look like Momoa? No, I didn't think so. I actually do have a physique that's pret…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:55 PM
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Speaking as a guy who works out more than that and has been doing it longer than 5 year I've been working out 4-5x/week for 8 years now, I know very well what I'm talking about. If you can't achieve Momoa's physique in that picture in 5 years of lifting then i don't know what to tell you man other than you might not know what you're doing as well as you think you do. It's very attainable with good diet and a solid 45 min-1hr workout 4x/week in ~2-3 years. I know he takes gear for Aquaman, but no…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:05 PM
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it also doesn't mean I can't have other plates while she's here It's your first date in 7 years that you awkwardly fumbled through and you're already talking about "other plates" lol. Don't get too ahead of yourself. Just brush this off, hit her up in a couple days and if she's not interested then she's not interested. Move on and try with the next girl.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/23 01:14 AM
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It doesn't matter whether or not it's correlation or causation when applying the heuristic to dating though. All that matters is whether or not the risk of the relationship failing is higher with a higher n-count girl which it is. It doesn't matter if it's because the high n-count made it worse or if she was just fucked to begin with.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/23 12:19 AM
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If you lift 4x/week for 45 mins-1hr per day you can EASILY maintain the physique Momoa has in that picture. The Average American male works ~44hrs/week...they have time for that they just choose not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 11:58 PM
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Eh I dumped an actual wife material LTR at 21 because I felt I'd missed out on sleeping around from 19-20 and then from 21-26 slept around a bunch with about a year of exclusivity to one girl in there and it's really not fulfilling. I finally met another girl about 7 months ago who is the first woman I've come across since that first LTR that also has legitimate wife material potential...and she lives in fucking Slovakia lol so that probably ain't gonna happen. Point is legit long term capable w…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/23 11:39 PM
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The average monthly income on onlyfans is ~$180/month I believe, and even then only like the top 5% make enough to really be considered a living with the top .1% making shit like 250k/month.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/23 12:53 AM
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Travel nurse in of itself is a massive red flag. I used to hook up with a couple casually and they're constantly fucking new dudes in the different locations they travel to. Can be a good bit of fun but not LTR material whatsoever.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/23 12:52 AM
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Yeah I tried a foursome once with a buddy and two girls back in college and neither of us were able to get hard. It was just way too much of a turnoff having another guy in the room.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 08:51 PM
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Nah nothing like that, she was just incredibly erratic and every now and again would hit me up either crying or very excited about something. Shit was weird and honestly I hope she's doing ok but I had to remove myself from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 09:41 AM
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Lol so anyone who does content that might ever have a positive impact on men is now a redpill content creator?🤡🤡🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 12:34 AM
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I believe it's mostly due to biological factors that women tend to sleep more but I mostly agree that my main problem with these "who does more work studies" is it's self reported so IMO it's mostly garbage. ANY study on behavior that isn't blind observation where the participants either don't know they're being observed or at least why they're being observed belongs in the trash. Growing up my mom used to always complain that my dad never did enough yet both my sister and I remember him working…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 12:13 AM
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I went from making 87k to 120k about a year ago and my life didn't change much, granted I live in a HCOL city but your lifestyle is not radically different at those income levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 12:02 AM
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I make ~120k/yr right now and casually dated a sugar baby for awhile who made ~160-200k/yr essentially just going on dates with rich men. Sex was fire and she would take me out to nice steakhouses every now and again and pay but my god she was unstable and I eventually cut her off after she got mad that I denied an offer for money to have a threesome with one of her daddies.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 12:01 AM
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My experience has been that pre-selection is definitely real. My last ex even admitted in front of our friends that she gained interest in me after seeing me on one occasion at a bar flirting with another attractive woman, and on a separate occasion at a different bar where a different attractive girl was crying over me (we were "breaking up" that night). She even admitted that all of her friends told her the second occasion was a massive red flag but that she didn't care because she was so curi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 11:42 PM
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I can tell OP has little to no experience dating. Redpill in some ways is taking the game that women play on men and flipping it on them. I have never dated a single woman that didn't try to manipulate and/or play games in some way at some point in the relationship. Now the degree and frequency to which they do will vary a lot by person but the way in which they do is generally very similar across the board.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 08:10 PM
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"this is how you trick women into sex!" Dude that's not redpill at all. If you fundamentally change who you are in order to be more attractive you aren't "tricking" anyone, you simply became more attractive. There's nothing about "hit the gym, expand your social circle, have a good career, and become better at flirting" that's a "trick".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 08:08 PM
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The reality of nature is that most women will go through life having much more sex than they actually want and most men will go through life having far less. The duality exists to optimize birth rates. Accept it and get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:23 PM
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AskTRP had gone to shit before it left reddit IMO. Every other post was basically "Dumped my ex 3 days ago have already added 100lbs to my lifts, started 9 businesses, and added 7 girls to my rotation but like how do I plate my ex?" lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 11:03 PM
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To be fair, they have brought some intelligent women on before but it's still 95% not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 11:01 PM
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That's my main gripe with FnF. Like ok yeah if I believed only miami club thots existed then I'd hate all women too but those girls are nowhere close the being representative of the average woman out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 11:00 PM
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If FnF are not redpill, what are they? They're grifters who latched onto a trend in order to grift. but in my opinion that is quite BB leaning and certainly not classic RP Lol no it's not, it was one of the core concepts of the sidebar of the redpill sub back in the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:56 AM
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Lol no its not. Redpill and PUA are not the same thing. I've been following the redpill sub since it started ~2012. Not being able to negotiate attraction doesn't mean you do nothing in your life to level up your attractiveness. It means that if a woman clearly indicates she's not attracted to you, you shouldn't waste your time trying to convince her that she should be. Instead you move onto other women and use the experience as an opportunity to reflect. It's why podcasts like FnF are fucking s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 07:31 PM
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One of the most important lessons taught by OG redpill IMO was that you can't negotiate attraction. If a woman is not attracted to you she simply isn't and it's a waste of your time and hers to try and convince her she should be. Doesn't matter if "on paper" you should be her type or whatever. While there is a degree of objectivity to attractiveness on a macro scale, on a micro scale its pretty subjective and there's no way you're gonna logic your way into the pussy so just move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 04:38 PM
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I've never met a woman that didn't create 95% of the problems her "eMoTiOnAl lAboR" needed to address lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 08:20 PM
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It's why I just don't ask. It's come up before twice in my past only after she asked mine first and both times after volunteering hers, she either later trickle truthed or I found out she just lied.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 03:02 PM
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Eh that's not as true for women and the data would back it up. They tend to have similar standards for short and long term relationships. It's men who have very little standard for short term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 02:59 PM
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think that their issues apply to most men. Lol bro most men do not live in frats or are any of those types you listed. Like you I also spent 4 years of my college life in a frat and they are not representative whatsoever of the experience of average men. There was never an easier time in my life to get laid than in a frat. Instant social status boost, access to lots of slutty women, and booze is a recipe for an easy lay. Maintaining or finding circles like that outside of college or after colleg…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:03 PM
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Every single successful major society throughout recorded history has placed an emphasis on female fidelity for a reason. When males aren't certain that an offspring of a woman is theirs, they often lose interest in raising it and there is no one male to hold accountable as paternity is uncertain. This historically has led to societal instability as more and more children are raised without fathers and women have less resources available to them to support the offspring. In the modern era where …
/r/TheRedPill07/05/23 05:32 AM
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Men do so much better in life in a stable family with a wife and children as that is biologically and socially wanted. Men also feel needed in this type of arrangement that gives him purpose. That's only because the majority of men are not actually attractive enough to live a polygynous lifestyle. Of course you're going to be happier with a girlfriend if you're the type of guy who might go 2 years at a time without getting laid vs the type of guy who at most may only go 2 months without sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 12:07 AM
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Have been considering fin but have heard this can happen, did it come back after you stopped?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 12:00 AM
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I know what you mean. My experience with modern dating is I'm far less likely to get a second date if I don't at least make a move on the first date. Doesn't mean sex actually has to occur, but the majority of women seem to want you to at least try.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 04:19 PM
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Yeah the first comment is literally blaming men for having no standards which is based and taking actual accountability. I miss old TRP sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 03:38 AM
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While there are obviously things that are similar across all women I've found what makes it truly difficult to be great in bed as a man is you can fuck two girls almost the same way and one will love it while the other may hate it. You have to be really good at reading her body language and general energy and adjusting your performance based on what you're reading. However my personal hot take is that ~80% of what makes a guy great in bed or not is what she actually thinks/feels about you. The h…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 03:06 AM
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Mine was the exact opposite. When I discovered redpill on reddit back in 2015 I was already having success with women and just felt like I had finally found some people who also knew what was up and were actually saying out loud what I had been noticing worked with women. To be fair, redpill today as it exists on social media is A LOT different than what it was back then. It's definitely gotten a lot more cringe. Hell the redpill circles online back then used to shit on dudes all the time who we…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 07:19 PM
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Men criticize our bodies, our sex life, how we dress, what we post online etc. Yet women dont judge random men on these things We're like 3 sentences into your novel and I can already tell you live under a rock. Get off reddit, go outside, and live.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 09:50 PM
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I think it's more like in every other facet of society we are willing to accept that dangerous people/situations exist and it's reasonable to expect everyone to take some level of precaution in their personal lives to avoid them. If not, why else would we lock our doors, wear seatbelts, avoid the sketchy part of town at night, etc... If I as a man went on a weeks long vacation with my doors unlocked and wide open and came back to find my house had been robbed I'd receive very little sympathy and…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 06:49 PM
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My family took a lot of road trips when I was a kid and the idea that my mom owned nothing isn't true, however my dad owned pretty much what OP detailed in his post. A couple of times our car actually did break down (late 90's fords lol) and in one of the instances I distinctly remember my dad fixing it himself, and the other my dad called a tow truck to a shop that had it fixed a day or two later. In the latter case my dad was on top of getting us a hotel while we waited for the car to be fixed…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 05:46 PM
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This is because about 75% of women report love for their affair partner which is the exact opposite of what you want if you believe in the dual-mating hypothesis. Women reporting "love" doesn't negate the dual mating strategy whatsoever, in fact it's exactly what I'd expect them to report about their affair partner. The vast majority of married women do not actually "love" their husbands, he's just stable and tolerable to be around. Women are not designed by nature to love most men, but they are…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:21 PM
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Overpopulation is a fucking myth
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 03:55 PM
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Birth rates are below replacement level in western nations. There hasn't been a single civilization in history that has survived birth rates at current levels the west has. If we don't reverse course very soon then there is no ability to focus on creating a better and safer world because we will have no society left.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 06:10 AM
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It's not even about growth we're not reproducing enough to hit replacement levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 06:07 AM
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Birth rates are already low as shit in the west and we're about to suffer a population collapse in 50 years. We should absolutely be shaming people for not having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 04:35 AM
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All an insecurity is, is a reaction to a perceived threat. Another man literally inside of your girl is a threat to your paternity. Sneako reacted how most men likely would who don't actively have a cuckolding fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:29 AM
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You asked why it would still break him and I answered. Technically Sneako was behaving immoral in the first place by ever cheating on his girlfriends but instinct doesn't give a shit about right vs. wrong. Morality is a construct of man, in nature there is no right vs wrong. All Sneako's hindbrain saw was his girl getting railed and it told him to not be ok with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:02 AM
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It's an innate instinct in men to protect paternity. Seeing a woman you've invested in getting railed by another dude will trigger that reaction in the vast majority of men regardless of whether or not that same man is fucking other women. No matter how many men a woman sleeps with, if she gets pregnant it's hers but the reverse isn't true for men which is why modern society constantly trying to apply the same standards for men and women is stupid as fuck. Men and women are not the same and neve…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 10:09 PM
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Same most of those girls are a solid 2 points lower than where they're ranked in that photo.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 05:58 PM
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Yeah and McKenzie Bezos became the richest woman in America by divorcing Jeff. She literally had the greatest incentive to leave. They were idiots for ever getting legally married.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:47 PM
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Women only really "don't care" if the man is a truly exception multi-millionaire who is elevating her quality of life 100x beyond what she could on her own. Even then they still don't like being cheated on, they're just way more willing to tolerate it. Redpillers who think women like being cheated on are really delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 11:22 PM
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Divorce rape While I agree the internet exaggerates the prevalence of this occurring, it's not as uncommon as you're making it sound. My dad's best friend is a divorce attorney and while it's not the most typical outcome it does happen fairly often. Age gaps Agree the internet over-blows it. Drunk hookups Again while some circles on the internet act like it happens every other drunk hookup, I knew 4 guys personally who were verifiably falsely accused of rape after drunk hookups in college. It ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 11:42 PM
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Men and women both I'd say. But men seem to want relationships more than women anecdotally while women seem to be more likely to not be actively looks for a relationship while also not having sex. I think what it boils down to is men are more willing to settle for less than ideal relationships if it means they get frequent access to sex. The average man will take a girl he's not really compatible with, with a past that bothers him, etc if it means he gets laid because the average man often has n…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:19 PM
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Again I'll speak from personal experience, but I think generally men don't view other women as a threat. At the end of the day, another woman doesn't have a penis and can't satisfy a woman the way a man can. In my conversations with bi women on the topic they've basically expressed the same sentiment. Most of them have basically said something along the lines that while men are more likely to be bad at sex, the ones that are the best are generally more satisfying in bed then the women that are t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:32 PM
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I've dated (casually and seriously) quite a few "bi" women and almost all of them have told me they think bi-sexual men are gross and I think it's because they do not like the idea of their man being dominated by another man. I remember one girl was telling me a story about how her mom was dating a guy who was a closeted bi-sexual and found out after 4 years that he was secretly meeting up with other men for casual sex. The part that really stuck out to me though when she was describing the stor…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:10 PM
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Lol this was my mom to a tee. Would constantly complain about how hard and how much work being a STAHM was even though my dad worked 50hrs/week to support a family of four on his income alone, and still did most of the yardwork on weekends, built two sheds, re-built our deck, porch, etc. He would also take me to all my sporting events and practices growing up. Yet that was never enough for my mom she would still complain he didn't do enough even though both my sister and I noticed him taking on …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 07:30 PM
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While roughly 50% of marriages end in divorce only ~30% of people who have ever been married will get divorced because the 50% stat is skewed by people who get multiple divorces. So ultimately 70% of individual women who get married will stay married.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 06:55 AM
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There was a misleading study that came out a few years ago that the internet ran with where some academic misinterpreted a set of data and incorrectly concluded that women were happier single than married. While I think it's true that single women are probably on average happier being single than men, the research has shown that both married women and men are happier overall than single people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 06:51 AM
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I notice the opposite. This sub seems way more blue than redpilled to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 06:47 AM
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The red-pill and other manosphere adjacent movements exist in response to a lot of extreme non-sense from normies not admitting the realities of intersexual dynamics or just ignoring them. Men and women are not the same and have different goals, desires, and needs from a relationship with the opposite sex. Mainstream dating advice is also mostly geared for women and it doesn't teach women how to be good partners but rather how they can maximize what they receive from men. Movements like the redp…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:52 PM
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Not everyone who is red-pill resents women (although I won't deny that a lot if not most do). When I was more red-pilled (black pilled now) women would've never known because a) I was never ret***ed enough to bring it up and b) I never actually hated or resented women. I also discovered TRP after I was already having success with women and most of the information I read on the subreddit was mostly just re-affirming what I had already been experiencing. I think the the red-pill movement actually …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:55 AM
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I work in finance consulting and am around a lot of these high status bankers, partners, lawyers etc and you're right that they generally only marry women in their social/economic class. I think the point redpillers try to make is that if you picked one girl from that man's class and one below it but the one from a lower class was hotter, way sweeter, much more feminine, etc...most men would prefer the woman from the lower class. The reason this doesn't actually happen that much is because those…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:13 PM
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The current mainstream redpill is essentially just "hustle culture" that's been re-packaged as redpill and has been co-opted by grifters. Podcasts like fresh and fit are a good example of this imo. All they do is bring bimbo miami only-fans girls and club thots on their podcast which OG redpill would have told you to avoid anyways. The fact that they're trying to make a "point" by pointing out the obvious is silly as hell. Not only that but most of these grifters "solution" is to just chase clou…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:54 PM
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The current mainstream redpill is very different from redpill on this site even just 3-5 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:36 PM
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You personally didn't and I don't think it's fair that the OP attacked you for it but I think he's pointing out the generally socially accepted attitude in the west which is that its very ok for women to disparage a man for being a neckbeard loser living in mommy's basement, but it's not ok at all for a man to disparage a woman for having a slutty past. I don't think it's generally good to do either and OP is angry and got triggered by your comment but he's not exactly wrong in the sense that we…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 06:59 PM
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Not sure what pic you're referring to but in the video linked in the post I wouldn't say a single girl on that panel is above a 7 and most look 5-6.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 10:18 PM
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Well yeah I never said that men expecting a tradwife virgin aren't delusional as well. The delusion is simply thinking that's actually gonna happen for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 07:34 PM
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I'd agree and would also say it's delusional to set your standards geared at people who are 8s when you yourself are a 5 which I think is the point redpillers are making with the female delusion calculator. A lot of women who are themselves average or not much above it are demanding commitment from men who are significantly above it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 07:02 PM
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I mean the female delusion calculator doesn't have a looks filter either, I just think their percentages tend to be lower because women have an income requirement as well as a much more restrictive height requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 06:55 PM
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Lol I know that. My point was having standards that narrow the pool down to 12.96% of women isn't delusional lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 06:44 PM
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Not married No children Any race Between 5'2 to 5'10 Not overweight or obese Any income 12.96%. Do I think I'm deluded? Well I'm a mid 20s male, ~6', income of 120k/yr, am fit and workout 5 days per week so no. Honestly the big difference maker between the men's and women's is most men won't have an income requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 04:47 PM
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As a man when I say 6 I mean kind of cute but not hot. So yeah technically "attractive" but on the very low end of the attractiveness spectrum. 8+ is "hot".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:36 PM
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I'm sorry but if you think the girls on fresh and fit are attractive you have low standards bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:43 PM
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Lol redpillers act as if every woman in America was writing letters to Ted Bundy. Like ok some women are insane but who the fuck cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:39 PM
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Idk about you but most of the women they bring on that show are not very attractive IMO. Mostly 5's and 6's littered with tattoos that have had tons of work done and it's obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:57 AM
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I'd agree that women don't like most men but the ones they do like they really fucking like. This reads as someone who's never actually been lusted over or desired by a woman. I don't say that to denigrate OP, just pointing out that women can be very in love with a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:23 AM
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That's my point though I make $120k/yr USD so a 20EUR ticket for a 3hr+ train ride is nothing to me but to a girl from Eastern Slovakia where people make 600EUR/month that's a lot for a train ticket lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 05:00 PM
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I spent the most time in Czechia and Slovakia but my experience dating was quite the opposite. The women seemed to be put off by flashy displays of wealth and seemed to care much more about intelligence and how much I was willing to invest in them. Although at nightclubs and such I did notice that the men seemed to be much more "flashy" than at clubs in America. Also, I wouldn't say that American women are necessarily more "materialistic" but seem to be much more arbitrary in their pickiness if …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 01:31 AM
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Life experience really. I think a lot of what redpill says about intersexual dynamics is fundamentally correct but the idea that you can overcome shitty natural looks with game is pretty misguided. Game only matters once you're already at a base level of physical attractiveness, a large part of which is just your face. I've never been a socially awkward person, but nothing made more of a difference in my dating life than leaning out and my face masculinizing as I matured through the later stages…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 05:03 PM
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I was literally getting groped by women on the streets and half the time they weren't even prostitutes. Being white and from America is an advantage enough but even more so if you're good looking as well. It's just a completely different animal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 04:37 AM
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I've posted some stories about my experiences rotating women on here and other subs in the past and I've gotten DMs from guys asking me to coach them on how to do it but never hate mail.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 01:22 AM
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Idk man, I went recently with a group of guys and the guys in our group who get virtually no action in the US were hooking up with pretty attractive girls in Thailand. Just being white and from the US is a major advantage there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 01:15 AM
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I'm a 26M and one of the women I'm currently casually seeing is a 30F. She is fit and attractive but I wouldn't date her seriously. Partially because of her age but mostly because I don't think she'd make a great girlfriend. One of the other girls I'm seeing is a 24F and to be honest her age does make her a more attractive long term prospect but the main reason I consider her more of a long term prospect is because she has a much sweeter personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 07:33 AM
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Possible yes but requires significantly more attention and planning to your diet because plant proteins generally aren't complete. It's much easier to just eat a pound of chicken breast and have a scoop of whey a day and not even have to think about it.
/r/BlackPillScience02/03/23 01:53 AM
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There's no point in trying to understand them. One of my problems with the whole redpill movement is dudes try way too hard to logic their way into pussy and it's just dumb because things like attraction, lust, and desire aren't really based in pure logic for either sex but especially women. As long as you know that you need to be very fit, not socially inept, and not a doormat you'll mostly be fine with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:30 AM
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All that said, even if you have absolutely unwavering boundaries, women on average don’t. This has generally been my experience as someone who went from being not hot to hot between ages 17-21. When you're a legitimately hot (8/10+) guy the vast majority of women drop any and all boundaries for you. I can't even count how many girls have told me my tinder profile looked like I was a fuckboy, or they heard I was a fuckboy etc in a way to try and denigrate me...like ok you're still here fucking me…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:16 AM
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I mean ideally yes, but plenty will choose a good looking high status guy who isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 02:01 AM
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I think the point is most women would rather take a well above average guy with regards to looks and status that isn't very loving and caring over an average guy that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 12:07 AM
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Considering that women have more and more freedom That's why.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 05:01 AM
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Does this just continue until the utter collapse of society Yes. Every major civilization throughout history has collapsed and the west is at the beginning of it's collapse.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:51 AM
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I agree that in the grand scheme of things, n-count by itself isn't a good enough metric to automatically disqualify a girl unless it's something really high like over 50. But a girl who is let's say 25 and has a count of 15? Idk, if she's attracted to me, treats me well, has a great personality, and no other red flags I wouldn't throw that away over body count alone. Now if she already has some other yellow flags and I found out her count is higher I might give it more consideration.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:25 AM
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TRP as it stands now is pretty shit (talking like fresh n' fit and other social media "redpill" gurus), but he's not wrong in that OG TRP was about recognizing that the world has changed and adapting to play it to your advantage. A popular slogan back in the day was "ride the decline" which is basically a recognition that western civilization in particular is in decline but instead of getting angry or trying to "fix" it, you should just accept it for what it is and try to maximize your life's ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:21 AM
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Why not stay in the city? I don't really like my current city but if I was with someone I really loved I don't think I'd move. Also I'm not trying to be a dick just genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 09:18 PM
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Why aren't you with him then?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 04:09 AM
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My point is until it's happened to you it's hard for a lot of people to understand what it actually feels like until it's happened to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 06:58 PM
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Many religious practices originated because of the conditions of the time. Circumcision to this day does lower STD rates and infections in third world countries without first world sanitation resources and access to things like condoms for example. Jews and muslims don't eat pork because back in the day pork was one of the least sanitary meats to eat and there was no good way to store it prior to refrigeration and freezing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 06:49 AM
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This is easily the most autistic sub on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 10:38 PM
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There actually is evidence. https://www.ncjrs.gov/txtfiles/dnaevid.txt - 25% of primary suspects excluded by forensic DNA testing. https://archive.org/details/sim_archives-of-sexual-behavior_1994_23_contents - 41% of allegations found to be false
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 05:09 PM
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Also on the false accusations, they're not nearly as "niche" as people think. People love to throw around the "only 2-10% of accusations are false" stat but that's an FBI statistic on accusations that have been proven false in a court of law. By that same logic I could claim that only 5% of rape allegations are actually true because convictions only occur in about 5% of cases. I disagree on your take about Amber Herd though. At first yes, but after the case pretty much everyone was on Depp's sid…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:42 AM
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I'm not arguing that I have a right to control or even want to control a woman's decisions. Simply that I will judge them. The problem is that women want to be free from judgement for their past decisions. They want to spend their 20s fucking every guy possible then expect the man they settle with to just be fine with it. You are free to do that if you want and I won't tell you that you can't, but I will judge it and simply choose to not take you seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 05:43 PM
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My point was who it is she's choosing doesn't really matter. We only care if she did more for that guy because its a solid indicator she doesn't find you as attractive and you should probably just leave the relationship or not invest much into it. The anger isn't placed at the woman (or shouldn't be), you should just leave her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 05:24 PM
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What really irritates men is the thought that she gave sexual access to another man for a lot less effort than he had to put in. I and most men I know don't really care if a girl has slept with men on the first date in the past if she also did for us. We won't really care if she's done things like anal or threesomes in the past if she also continues to do that for us. It's when she's done more for less for another guy that will really turn us off.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 05:13 PM
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Why does who they've chosen in the past matter? ... I am interested in past relationships to the degree that I want to know any trauma or bad experiences they've had that may cause conflict between us in a current relationship You just answered your own question. Every single higher body count girl I've casually dated always reveals some bullshit she's dealing with internally because of exes. I have yet to meet a single higher body count woman (talking like over 20) that isn't a mess emotionally…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 05:09 PM
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Because women and men need each other to survive lol. Most resources in the world are produced/procured by men because like or not nature designed men to be better at it. If women completely cut themselves off from men, men would basically lose all motivation to produce for them. If a society of just women had to compete for resources against men they would lose. The male advantages in strength and aggression would be too much to overcome for a society of just women. Nature is cruel. It designed…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 07:37 AM
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I wouldn't trust 98% of research coming out of social science academia today.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:20 AM
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Cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 07:56 AM
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It was one study a few years back from Paul Dolan where he drew questionable conclusions and the internet ran with it as truth despite pretty much all other research on the topic finding married individuals with kids experiencing greater overall life satisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 07:48 AM
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What's funny is that in more gender egalitarian countries less women tend to be in stem professions because news flash...they generally don't like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:44 AM
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Tate is an extreme reaction to extreme non-sense. Most of the mainstream advice or dialogue on dating, relationships, and masculinity is straight up horrible and often just anti-male so it's no surprise we're seeing a rise in pissed off dejected young males, and grifters like Tate coming in to capitalize on it. Maybe if the left would tone it down with the anti-male rhetoric the Tates of the world wouldn't be that popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:41 AM
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My take is that on average both men and women are horrible at understanding the other side's preferences, concerns, etc. when it comes to dating and relationships. You hear redpillers all the time talk about how many options women have without realizing that from their perspective 95% of those options are garbage. It'd be like going to a Mcdonald's with 100 options on the menu and 95 of them are some slight variation of the filet o' fish. No thanks. On the flipside, women often think all men wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 09:58 PM
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Yeah a capitalist is going to decide market to based on who is going to buy it. Boys don't like trucks because capitalists told them to. Capitalists market trucks to boys because that's who's interested in them. Ironically it's also capitalism that has allowed for feminism and the deconstruction of gender roles. Imagine convincing half the population that the other half is evil and wants to oppress them and that they'll be more fulfilled and "liberated" working for a corporation from 9-5 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 07:43 AM
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Except it literally is. Billy (on average) will like tonka trucks because his brain is designed by nature to be more interested in things, whereas sally's brain (on average) is far more interested in people. It's why’d young boys tend to prefer playing with things like trucks and legos, and young girls tend to prefer playing with dolls and stuffed animals. Gender roles weren't determined arbitrarily. They evolved over time because of our inherent physiological differences between the sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 07:23 AM
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Gender roles aren't silly. They make a fuck ton of sense in a species as sexually dimorphic as humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 04:54 AM
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Arguing gender roles are silly in a species as sexually dimorphic as humans is silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 04:29 AM
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They were both cringe as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 05:44 PM
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Apparently in interview with a vampire he had them dig small trenches in scenes where he was walking alongside Brad Pitt because he didn't want to appear that much shorter and Pitt is all of 5'11.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:20 PM
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I still generally believe that when you're trying to make conclusions related to human behavior the only actual way to do it is observe it without the subjects knowing they're being observed.
/r/BlackPillScience11/10/22 10:58 PM
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Any "study" that is just a survey belongs in the trash.
/r/BlackPillScience11/10/22 05:59 PM
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I think what women actually don't like about Tate spreading these ideas, is that their easy-to-manipulate averageish boyfriend will think he deserves to start acting like Tate when he doesn't. I also think Tate trolls a decent amount and is playing a bit of a caricature of himself but all he's really pointing out is that the game is different for high status men which is true. And let's be real...15 year olds going around calling themselves Alpha males is a) not Alpha in the slightest, and b) cr…
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