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Generous with what or who? Not with the fork that's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 11:46 PM
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A *minor conversation" seems to vague as a description, it would be very rare (as weird too) from a minor conversation such as talking to your male grocery cashier that would end up in him asking her for sex. And yes many men would marry women to have access to sex as much as women who marry men to have access to a lifestyle that her alone or the men within their "league" can't provide her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 02:02 PM
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Well in that case maybe they should look to get into relationships with asexual people 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 03:19 AM
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Don't women also want to have sex with their partners (in this case men)?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 02:16 AM
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🤔 Would you say they are projecting how they feel onto redpillers? For many I would say that's the case. Tbh it's pretty cringe how some blue pillers will agree with the most insane and mentally deranged ideas, bash on others constantly while calling themselves "good people"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 09:37 PM
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Is it really suprising tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 09:20 PM
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Most women across all "qualities" are attracted to masculine men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 08:58 PM
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White knights doing white knight things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 08:31 PM
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Even most young women having a negative opinion of men is 10 times higher on the reason list of "Why over 60% of young gen z men are single" than "It's because they are dating each other" Especially considering how lesbian represent from 0.6 to 0.8% of the same sex couples in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 07:33 PM
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I waited so long to use this gif 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 05:38 PM
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Damn, so close to reaching wizard status I can almost feel it 😁👉🧙‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 04:06 PM
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No I haven't, last console I owned was the PS2 where I played both SoTC and ICO (yep, the game which had the same name as the team who made it)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 02:49 PM
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Would you steal the ancient sword, escape your village during the night, travel to the Forbidden Lands at the ends of the earth, and make a deal with Dormin -- knowing that you must defeat all 16 Colossi in order to resurrect your loved one? Hehe, I know that game 😁 A man of culture I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 02:07 PM
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Segundo
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 01:21 AM
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Water is ultra wet, the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 08:09 PM
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Because that's life 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 06:51 PM
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Don't think many women would see these above average men "high loyalty value" as the main reason as why they want them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 06:06 PM
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OOP needs to deal with her trauma instead of trying to get involved in what other two consenting adults are doing with their romantic life tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 03:58 PM
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No one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 03:22 PM
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I never used that "snowflake" term tho 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 10:33 PM
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You have to try better than that!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 10:16 PM
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Why if it's a she there are conditionals but if there's a he it always applies the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 09:11 PM
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So if we reverse the genders and say that women who are stay at home mothers are mooching his husband it also applies as well and they should be providing money as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 08:12 PM
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Don't forget apart from hold those men accountable you have to actively seek to change the behavior of those men!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 06:51 PM
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Do you went to the doctor?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 05:04 PM
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You're not any better though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 04:49 PM
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Short, balding (fortunately for me I'm not... Yet) and neurodivergent
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 04:47 PM
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Thanks. Even with what you said being true (which it is), for the struggling men it won't make a change that zendaya is taller and more attractive than tom holland especially when considering that they are the exceptions among celebrities which by themselves are exceptional people (most of them at least). It becomes even more silly when some people start to use these couples as an argument of why this "X trait doesn't matter, it's all about Z trait"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 04:27 PM
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OP slap all kinds of random traits and said "this is a strong woman"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 04:01 PM
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And what's supposed to change for struggling men who don't have the looks, or the talent to become actors, or the status? Exceptions do exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 03:18 PM
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Lets be honest, continuing a friendship with someone who you just declared your feeling and got rejected will most of the time be an awkward experience for both ends. It's not like you just got rejected and the feelings of said person went poof . Handling the rejection and end the friendship (if proper closure existed) as a result is a sign of being mature or having decent emotional intelligence And considering how most young women have a negative opinion of men the "we women want to be friends …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 02:54 PM
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There are significant overlaps though so it's not that much different as people may think it is, a guy who is extroverted and conventionally attractive will not have problems to attract extroverted or introverted women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 02:19 PM
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I mean, giving up it's a choice as valid as changing their approach or worldview and this is going by the assumption they didn't tried to change their approach, because granted probably a lot of these people have changed their approach at least once to no avail.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 01:56 PM
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Wait, I assumed you like those "if men struggle with dating it's because they are picky assholes" or those "this one man say something nasty therefore all men are the same" 🫤
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 09:40 PM
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For once yes, I agree with ya
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 08:39 PM
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Now we get to see radical misandry (or "pink pill") of men haters clashing with women haters and with something called "debate" as minor background. Enjoy!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 08:36 PM
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Afaik there are still TRP youtubers although with not as much infuence as those guys, it's pretty hard for a culture to die especially if they made it to the internet, borderline impossible. This place can't be called a RP vs bluepill debate if they allow micro cultures such as pink pill to exist in this place, feels like more like a generalized dating debate subreddit where most of these "pills" are allowed here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 08:18 PM
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Wut?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 08:08 PM
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I think this sub in general tends to attract people like incels, radical feminists and femcels.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:37 PM
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No one was discussing about human rights tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:31 PM
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Ah, preselection.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:05 PM
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No I don't think the "If you are not with me you are my enemy" works.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:00 PM
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Eh, people tend to overestimate the effectiveness of charisma and understimate the impact looks have on charisma, it's important yes, but not large enough to make a huge difference for most people. But what people anyways? The ones who stopped approaching women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:32 PM
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My theory is that many don't talk about it because most people don't face rejection on large enough amounts where the toll on their self esteem becomes enough to considering to stop doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 04:51 PM
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🤔 Probably the many women who see men who approach them as potential harassment and the desire for a sizeable part of women's population to not be approached has indeed made an effect and many men are afraid of approaching women to being perceived as one which, in this social media era where lot of folks will record strangers for 15 minutes of fame, may carry consequences bigger than just being publically embarrased. Then you have the degradation of overall social skills (which includes aspects …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 04:40 PM
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Ah yes, the average guy is for sure a know hollywood actor and 6ft duh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 03:39 PM
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Sims? I don't know if it has co-op tho. Minecraft can be very casual too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 02:47 PM
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Holy apex fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 01:11 PM
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It is related though, as this Chad guy didn't won the lottery because he got one a million chance out of luck. He got it because he's conventionally or close to be conventionally attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 12:56 PM
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Again, what any of that rambling you keep doing change what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 02:25 AM
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And how does that rambling change what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 02:20 AM
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You're right on one thing, they did won the lottery, the genetic lottery. It's no coincidence that most men who are able to get ons consistently are conventionally or close to be conventionally attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 01:59 AM
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Why would they? These type of double standards benefit them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 08:20 PM
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Classic double standards
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 07:53 PM
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Therapy is the thing you are probably looking for, it may prevent your back from breaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 07:13 PM
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Reminds me of those tiktoks about a woman who reacted over a guy thay she had been dating for years and live together that call her his "friend" Needless to say the reaction but huh, not good.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 07:10 PM
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I bet you watched ancient aliens and dont see it as racism right? I ask the same, what's relevant in this question?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 07:04 PM
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Haven't watched ancient aliens.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 06:44 PM
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No one said it's not though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 06:42 PM
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But most women don't really purse both though? I mean wasn't there data that most women aren't actually looking for casual sex? Unless you tell me that looks requirements are different, often for hookups it's higher, which if yes then it will prove the myth as valid 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 05:10 PM
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It's not different when this research it's used as an agenda to their extrapolations which more often than not end up being hateful ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 05:08 PM
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That's not an explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 05:06 PM
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"We find this one guy more attractive that's why we make him to wait to have sex while we have sex quickly with this other guy who we found less attractive than him" Explain this logic, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 04:52 PM
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Awful men are awful yes, the problem is the extrapolation onto all men or the entitlement of women of all men fixing the minority of men's behaviors. It's not that much different from inc word rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 04:21 PM
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I personally think we should start making men more uncomfortable too. With what women say here about men on a daily basis, I think we can say that women are already doing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 03:18 PM
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I wonder why a lot of women in this subreddit seems to automatically view men approaching women as harrasment 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 02:46 PM
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Both.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 02:42 PM
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I love this types of post of "I don't do this therefore everyone must do it the way I do" Reeks entiltement (which is ironic given that the post's main topic id entiltement)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 01:30 PM
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Yes, the neurotypical people on this sub seems to lack pretty much all what you described. But who are "they" anyways?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 03:54 PM
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So, a neurotypical person.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 03:28 PM
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Suuuuuuure
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 03:20 AM
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People do spam ragebaiting these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 03:18 AM
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True but imo being a high n-count woman is slightly more socially accepted
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 12:06 AM
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That guy dodged a bullet, may not even be a bullet but an entire nuke.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 10:50 PM
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Again, that's not me saying it. You're just arguing in bad faith accusing me for things I never said
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 08:22 PM
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That's not me saying it though? You straight up say. This is what you stated btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 08:21 PM
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How did that change a single thing I said? Or do you not like that I actually have seen people talk about the problem with autistic guys and nerds, especially other autistic nerds? No, people who are similar minded will have similar mindsets, if you met someone else who's also autistic and nerdy but has a different mindset I will have, a different mindset. Oh, so you define nerdy as being creeps who like weird stuff that involves children in disgusting inappropriate situations. Huge strawman and…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 06:33 PM
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Some women do chase men that only seem them as holes, they get mistreated and they extrapolate their experiences onto all men. I had never claim this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 06:30 PM
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ugly women doing that don’t fucking matter because you wouldn’t want their asses anyways So they do it and again, why would they date people like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 06:28 PM
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A person who are similar minded are gonna have similar mindsets. I don’t care that you don’t like the example. That’s a common criticism the nerd community gets. If they don't like nerdy people doing "nerdy" stuff then they don't like the nerdy community, even from the inside, those also don't like the community.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 06:24 PM
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I mean is understandable if they don't want people that degrade them 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 06:20 PM
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Quote it then.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 06:07 PM
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I never said only single moms mistreat men, a minority of bad women do which it may or way not include a lot of single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 05:18 PM
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Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 05:17 PM
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Not agreeing with you = \ = hateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 05:11 PM
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So she's an angry person, got it. One could say she's cruel because she's looking for bad examples to radicalize their users who follow her, which most of them are women. She's just calling bad men for being bad? That's what most people do on a daily basis in the nearby social circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 05:10 PM
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A minority of men do it yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 05:08 PM
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Ah, the person I was waiting for 😁 With how nerd culture is becoming popular, you’re gonna tell me he can’t find a nerdy woman? Cultures growing doesn't mean it's good or it improves your dating chances, looks and neurotypicallity are still the most important factors on any culture. If he’s not even getting a first date, chances are its his fault. Chances but then No, he’s a creep that’s why he can’t get a date. It must be his fault? Which way is it? He probably watches anime like Jobless Reinca…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 05:06 PM
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Ugly women degrade short men too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 04:57 PM
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In this sub? Most of them don't, specifically talking about "nerdy men" but thanks for proving my point Women assume all men have women willing to date them but they don't because they all want attractive women Again, a minority of those men who most likely are not getting dates. You are not disproving what I said. Oh look, another minority of men, btw she's making fun of those men's looks. There's no implications of that users passing from that experience which, unless you personally know about…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 04:56 PM
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She much likely like this in person too, rage sells very good, no one could make all this content constantly and behave differently irl. But assuming she's not for the sake of the argument: she keeps radicalizing young women by showing them isolated examples of bad men being bad What bitterness is to be seen in your post? Btw, not agreeing with your points = \ = being hateful or bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 04:35 PM
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Nerdy men here don't even get dates, see how you do use the same few examples as extrapolation onto all men? Most of those debates resolves in most men agreeing to pay for first dates, some men don't like it but most likely they struggle to get dates in the first place. A minority of men degrade ugly women too. Who was a victim of abuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 04:32 PM
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Anger is natural, basing your whole personality around it's not. Anyone would become angry if all they see are examples of bad people being bad and it will start doing hasty generalizations. That seems to be the problem with most modern young women: they only see angry woman being angry and bitter because they only see bad men and they become angry and bitter as a result, misery loves company 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 04:28 PM
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A radical woman doing what radical women do: radicalize other women. Literally the profile is called crazy angry asian.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 04:22 PM
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Women do it too, in this sub too, literally one of the posts not long ago was how nerdy men won't pick the "nerdy women who will treat him well" Not paying for first date = \ = expensive dates. Pretty much no men degrades short women though? Not even tall women. But glad we agree women do degrate short men 👍 Ah, the same comment responding to a woman to also did taunt men and use hasty generalizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 04:09 PM
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Taken out of context, once again Oh look, that comment was about another woman saying that all men see women as holes, who radicalizes women again? Ah yes, other women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 04:05 PM
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Unattractive women will tell men that attractive women are shallow and will cheat and treat them poorly while unattractive women won't cheat or treat them poorly. Women talk about how they want first expensive dates especially if men on the past take them to expensive places as first dates because "that's what real men do" Women simply not prefer short men and move on with their lives. Women actively degrade, insult and humiliate short men Women taunt men and call them gay or chopped Women assum…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 03:35 PM
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Niceguys™ rhetoric gets called out by women and men alike, rightfully so. Thus proving my point right.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 03:20 PM
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If destiny is to die alone, then so be it ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 02:52 PM
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What makes OP think that the nerdy girl won't treat him as bad well? It's a possibility too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 01:48 AM
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Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 07:53 PM
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A man who acts like an asshole is indeed, an asshole 😱 And that's me giving the benefit of the doubt since most of the context of that conversation is missing, which it proves that's mainly women who will see conversation a like that, take them out of context and say "see? this man is bad therefore all men are bad"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 07:13 PM
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Didn't you said the same a while ago? Only to come back again? Good for you though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 06:56 PM
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Wait, what happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 06:54 PM
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Who is being defensive? They are hasty generalizations, no feelings involved in calling it 🤷 It's mainly women radicalizing young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 06:18 PM
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Women cheat too like? Cheaters are gonna cheat this is not a problem men or women but people who cheat If men were truly cruel by nature the world will look very different of how it looks now. You started about housework and then completely changed the subject to only cleaninless, so which one is it? I never heard of a man getting angry because a woman over 30 likes them, it may happen somewhere but most of the time this belief is held on more by women rather than by men? To me it seems women ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 05:51 PM
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Ok? The post was talking on generalities not on a personal standpoint. Besides I don't think they will lose that much by you not trying to help them, still plenty of people that are willingly to do it 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 04:16 PM
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I meant they aren't entitled to advice in general even if they want it. Well generally no one is entilted to anything but they are allowed to ask for advice and people are entilted to what they do with their time and maybe their spend some of them giving those men advices.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 04:01 PM
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No one is saying you do though. Giving unsolicited advices or friendships is something you (or anyone for that matter) are willingly doing. Just stop giving unsolicited advices or friendships, literally it's that easy 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 03:53 PM
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That seems to be the common experience of women on social media regardless of them giving unsolicited advices or not 🤷 So no, it's not relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 03:49 PM
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Again, what it has to do with giving unsolicited advices? Giving unsolicited friendships it's not that much better either.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 03:46 PM
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Fair. But it does look confusing to look where your reply begins, at least on the mobile app 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 03:42 PM
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No one was asking for that either 🤷 Besides, what does "my friendship" has to do with giving unsolicited advices?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 03:41 PM
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Geniune question, why do you use " " instead of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 03:32 PM
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Women's fault, no one was asking for unsolicited advice 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 03:02 PM
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Most of those posts are not asking for dating advice though. "Certainly read" is an assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 02:10 PM
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Wut?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 02:05 PM
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Bro, pretty much no struggling men is asking women for advice, let alone reddit women. 99% of the time is unsolicited advice
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 01:51 PM
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I mean, your other comment was about how they are not succeeding not "they are not succeeding in pulling good women" 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 02:14 AM
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So, those men are succeeding then.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 01:43 AM
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A) False, women of all age groups are reducing their centring of men including older women, Grey divorces are on the rise and older women's cohabitation/communes by choice and most women who divorce choose not to remarry... Most older women are married or in relationships, most young women are in relationships, most older men are in relationships or married. No, the ones struggling are young men 63% of young gen Z men are currently single compared to 34% of young gen Z women. B) Men of power hel…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 01:26 AM
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Granted yes having a "bad personality" while being ugly doesn't help but the opposite doesn't help much either if we consider that A) most of these men who struggle are young B) most young women have a negative opinion of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 11:29 PM
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What makes up them the minority? Most people don't care enough to the point of obsession that's the difference. I just showed a video of guy who don’t want conservative women despite being conservative, so you’re not even arguing about what the post is saying. A video is not enough evidence, I want research data from a verified and trusted source.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 11:18 PM
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No one cares that stupid people are upset that multiple people call them stupid. Stop being stupid. Multiple peope being the minority is still, a minority, so yes, most people don't care. Liberal woman want liberal man. If you're not liberal, why complain about not getting liberal women? Thats stupid. And conservative men will want conservative women, it's not that hard to understand. We just went through this. Also, the example I gave. You pointed one when called out for multiple, where are the…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 07:31 PM
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Neither will do for middle class tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 07:20 PM
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If a conservative guy wants a liberal woman and then complaints liberal women want a liberal man, he is stupid. You literally did this two comments ago, especially once you realize the comment you quote on this was yet again, taken out of context. Either respond to the whole sentence or don't respond at all. Some of their complaints are stupid Such as? Calling out the stupid people is also human nature. Most of them do it once maybe twice and generally if it's a relative, very few people will go…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 07:11 PM
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If a conservative guy wants a liberal woman and then complaints liberal women want a liberal man, he is stupid. Different from saying that someone is stupid for not dating whatever party they vote. If a guy keeps having unrealistic standards for dating and then cry about his dating struggles, he's no better than a toddler who keeps putting their hand on the hot stove and crying about it every time. People complain about things all the time, it's just human behavior, women do this too 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 06:49 PM
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You just admitted that you think it’s justified to be assholes to people who give these people a reality check. Calling others stupid because they don't vote whatever party they vote and advocating to date women they are not attracted it's not a reality check, it's called being an asshole, assholes do deserve to be treated the same way yes. No one cares that stupid people hate being called stupid. They could always stop being stupid. Except no one is stupid for not voting for whatever these ones…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 05:27 PM
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You are as the birth rates are below replacement rate and most women who have access to money to life comfortably don't want to have kids. More money it's not gonna fix it, it may for some for not for most.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 04:29 PM
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Probably not gonna happen given the current social landscape, but I agree that the solution should be changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 04:28 PM
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I haven't said terrible things about women, besides, what does it has to do with what I said? Where and when in this conversation I had implied I wanted to be married? Or happily married?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 04:07 PM
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Who deserves poor treatment? The asshole, or the people who offended the asshole by giving him a reality check? The people who insults others by calling them stupid and assumes they are assholes because they may or may not struggle with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 03:48 PM
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I mean, you guys say that, but the fact is that most people who have what you want don’t bother interacting with people like you because they consider you not worth the trouble. Who said I wanted to be married? Or happily married? You are just making assumptions. But hey, I’m stuck in a town an hour away from my house while my teenage daughter works at a day camp, and it’s too rainy to go enjoy the outdoors today, so while I have nothing better to do, pointing out your self-contradictions is as …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 03:47 PM
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You are the exception, most women aren't having three kids, they are having none, maybe one in some cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 03:40 PM
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That's not what the article suggested neither will solve much as still, women when they tend to get more money they desire to have kids lowers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 03:39 PM
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Happily married people don't tend to lurk on incel adjacent subreddits (this one being the exception) and generally they don't to put the "happily" behind every sentence, like the saying goes: A lion doesn't have to tell anyone he's a lion
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 03:38 PM
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Fact: one solution is making children without a partner available to all genders so you double the number of people who can have a kid to throw into the grinder of modern capitalism It is already available, it's called IVF and using sperm banks but that's not the solution the article suggested. The article suggested as a solution to give women more money in hopes that they will maybe want to have kids and that may further marginalize men as a group which is contradictory because when women start…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 03:31 PM
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No, because they simply don't like them and the male characters tend to be pretty different, literally one character is called Reptile I bet there are some gore fighting games that appeal to women which are likely to be unpopular because they appeal to a very few % of the consumers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 03:23 PM
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No, most women simply don't like those type of violent gore videogames.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 03:05 PM
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Skin-tight clothing is more sexier than bikinis but people are not ready for that convo 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 02:55 PM
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The game who has mostly a male audience has their product appealing to them, paint me suprised 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 02:54 PM
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And I gave you a reason as to why these people deserve to be treated poorly, mind you that deserve doesn't mean act, as the action depends on the individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 02:51 PM
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calling these others assholes with no justifictation or stupid it's treating others poorly. But this is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 02:46 PM
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Let me repeat myself, you’re not justified in being an asshole just because you don’t like hearing that the women you find attractive don’t want you and that if you actually want someone to be with you, you have to lower your standards. No "you" on this one, I'm talking in generizations, if you feel attacked it's not my problem. And people are entilted to treat others poorly if they are being treated poorly, calling these others assholes with no justifictation or stupid it's treating others poor…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 02:39 PM
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See how you completely ignored the bigotry, the misogyny, the victim complex, and, the sense of entitlement Are those things in the room with us? So far I didn't saw any. No, you just got mad because people told them that their unrealistic expectations is why they’re single. Unrealistic expectations is one thing, demaning them to have lower standards to date women they are not attracted to is something completely different. Being an asshole because people told you that your standards aren’t real…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 02:33 PM
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Well, their leaders will be chilling in cush state jobs smoking weed all day yes. You have to use lies to sell them the idea, otherwise who else it's gonna be the casualties of revolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 01:43 PM
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It's kinda hard to respond back if you take things out of context and pulling strawman as a result. Being an asshole because you didn’t get what you want is not tolerated. That’s what you guys aren’t understanding. And again, people can act like assholes to others while not to others depending on these people actions, if these people actions are included of things like advocating for dating people they are not attracted to and to vote for things they may or may not vote for, then it's pretty und…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 01:38 PM
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You can act like asshole to some people without being one to others, and to be fair some people deserve to be treated that way if they are advocating for things like dating others they are not attracted to 🤷 Being bitter is an internal emotional while being an asshole is an outward action to others, words have definitions 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 01:02 PM
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They are not synonyms, you can be bitter without having to be an asshole. But if it's understandable if some people act like assholes to others that are advocating for them dating women they are not attracted to 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 12:18 PM
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Low birth rates was a major factor, the difference is we're not in the empire worlds anymore and the below replacement birth rates affect pretty much all first world and some in development countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 10:59 AM
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If anything you need to convince women to go for IVF since most of them still prefer the old fashioned way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 10:40 AM
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Tell that to OP who is advocating for men to date women they are not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 10:15 AM
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Bitter = / = asshole. Having standards is now being an asshole now?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 02:02 AM
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You are comparing two things that exist then.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 01:31 AM
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You can't compare something with another thing that is deemed as "not real" 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 01:13 AM
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Instead the may be bitter because they have to be with someone they are not attracted to. That's arguably worse, for women too as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 01:02 AM
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So, a yes, because that's such a good idea that has never end badly: dating people who you're not attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 12:51 AM
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Is "be realistic and stop being stupid" a code phrase for "have low standards and vote what I vote"?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 12:48 AM
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Of course, because no one has ever fall in love when they were teenagers and people stories about "end up marrying my highschool sweetheart" are lying because it's not real at all 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 10:10 PM
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Proved exactly what I said They chase men who see y'all like holes and extrapolate that onto all men. Lol, I'm betting your next advice is tell us to go for asexual men, that is 0.1 percent of population. Last time I checked most women are not asexual and enjoy sex as much as men, I hope y'all not really looking for asexual men to cheat on them, that would be bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 09:09 PM
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That's because y'all chase men who only see y'all as holes and you extrapolate that onto all men 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 08:59 PM
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The body count debate has been out for a while so perhaps men don't look only for "a hole" Btw that objectification is disgusting 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 08:51 PM
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Ah, ok 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 08:44 PM
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Daily reminder for the bros outhere: If she has been with 2 men in her life remain cautious but proceed, if she's been with 3 or more, bro.... run for your life!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 08:37 PM
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Wdym I realized it the day I was born 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 08:13 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 06:50 PM
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Declaring a non terrorist group as a threat doesn't mean the inverse (not declaring it) is allowing them to be dangerous, besides most incels are not violent, but no one had that mindset though, you just bringed up out of nowhere. BTW, Andrew Tate praised Romania because the country's corruption basically allowed him to live more like Epstein. Ok, what it has do with anything? Romania is the poor side of Europe, corruption is more noticeable in poor countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 06:49 PM
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They don't love the guys in their teens, they go out with them, they date them. 🤔 No women has ever dated to find love it seems, unless she's in her mid 20s? What women look for in their teens changes dramatically in their mid 20s. Status wise maybe, looks and personality wise it largely stays the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 06:22 PM
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First 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 05:22 PM
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Refering to men who struggle with dating that don't complain about struggling with, of course they won't talk about it, duh Again, why would anyone dislike that a reduced group of people who is obssesion is disguised as "calling out"? Literally, 99% don't care about them. America labeled incels a threat and have, presumably, a pedo and a rapist as a president. Americans have bigger problems to care about and certainly, most people don't care about incels 🤷.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 05:07 PM
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? I already told you, they talk about normal topics such as sports or the economy. Besides why would anyone be upset when mentally unwell people are obsessed with a certain demographics of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 04:15 PM
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So you don’t know if they’re lonely or not. They could be fine not dating. No one said they are lonely, you just invented that. What does that have to do with the fact that you keep insisting people on hate on lonely guys for no reason. Who said hate? But no, most normal and well adjusted people don't hate lonely guys simply because they don't care about them, they have more important things to do and to worry about. This pre assumption comes regardless of whether the person is actually an assho…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 03:58 PM
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That's the thing, they likely don't complain about dating but about normal stuff like the economy or politics. Not everyone has the time to be 12 hours a day whining about incels 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 03:43 PM
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Depends, are those struggling men sounding just like the incels? Making the same complaints? What complaints are these other struggling men making? It's doesn't disprove the fact that incels don't represent the whole population of struggling men as a whole. And from the whole "Society lied to me" complaints, it came from guys intentionally misunderstanding what they were told by others. If generalized pre assumption that if men struggle with dating it's because they are assholes but there do exi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 03:29 PM
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Yeah I bet they will miss the experience of being desired by a depressed dude. Can't have anything in life 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 02:59 PM
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OP seems that doesn't like when the assholes are being mentioned. Something to hide?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 12:47 PM
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🤔 They're trying to help themselves by keeping the simps from thinking "bad" thoughts. I don't know how much posting the same repeated content and obsession with a reduced group of men can help anyone who is mentally stable. More so when you realize that the group OP obsess with doesn't even simp for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 12:45 PM
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Unhealthy for the skin, can be unhealthy if the person has self esteem issues and it's not a form of natural beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 12:20 PM
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This is the thing Incels don't represent the whole population of struggling men as a whole Besides, only on .is you will found the most extreme incels. You don't need to know people to point out certain behaviors that contradict assumptions, like that one if you struggle in dating it's because you are an asshole. Also, what's an asshole anyways? What's your definition?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 10:27 PM
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I bet there is a study made about that, cite it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 10:03 PM
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Are these they in the room with us? Do they exist in enough numbers to make broad generalizations?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:22 PM
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No one takes a world super power seriously That's right, thanks for proving what I said 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:17 PM
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It is the most important factor. Most of you aren't exceptional enough for to attract shallow women . And who tell you that those men want shallow women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:16 PM
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Nope, just world fallacy is implying that dating is moral and if you are struggling with it means you are a bad person" No one said personality wasn't important, but it's still the most important factor for most people, sorry you have no way to disprove this 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:10 PM
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USA, Canada, UK, France, Netherlands, and New Zealand. Great, so most of those are generally not being taken seriously, some outright mocked from outsiders (USA, UK, France and sometimes Canada) lmao. See how quickly you changed the conversation because you're now forced to acknowledge the overlap? What overlap? There are no sources to sustain that claim 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:07 PM
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Natural beauty composes more than just youth, it's also about self acceptance and achieving healthy lifestyles, in the case of women for example not use makeup anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:01 PM
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You just proved that's what you want to believe. You ignored everything I wrote Nope, it's the common belief around people, but it's ironic the "ignoring everything I wrote" while doing the same, repeatedly btw. But most guys have none of those traits. You guys want to be exceptions without being exceptional. What is this circular logic btw? Should I apply the same and assume you are desperate to date struggling men (particullary incels)?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:58 PM
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Incels don't represent men who struggle with dating as a whole, congrats. You did both, broad generalizations and nadir fallacy. What countries declared incels as a threat? Are these countries being taken seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:55 PM
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I agree, but the general belief is that every single men who struggles with dating it's because they are assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:53 PM
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Nope, is what people use as a justification of "if you struggle with dating it's because you are an asshole" Which is why many of these men bring successful assholes as a counter argument. Unfortunately the "Dating and attraction are amoral until there are men who struggle with dating then for them it's moral" doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:52 PM
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Aesthetic style is different from natural beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:47 PM
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Also, you guys intentionally misunderstand how people get to that conclusion. Nope, they just apply just world fallacy. It's because there's a massive overlap between men who struggle with women and misogyny. [Citation needed] (Broad generalizations or nadir fallacy are not valid)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:45 PM
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That's true. Most guys dont give people a reason to put up with them being assholes. Yes, just world fallacy is very common among people, that doesn't make it right though. Most of you dont have pretty privilege. It's true but also irrelevant in this context, most people (this includes most men who struggle in dating) know dating and attraction are amoral and not a meritocracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:43 PM
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Their personality, creativity, individuality. Personality has a genetic component, creativity is at large also genetics (the talent aspect) and individuality needs the person to be naturally drawn to that which is..... 🤔 Also genetics Apart from the fact that none of those things are looks related, things like creativity and individuality are valued in contexts that are generally not attraction or dating We should actually embrace natural beauty, as it will oppose to things like mass cosmetic su…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:30 PM
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This applies to both genders not only muh men shallow And it doesn't ask my question, why should natural beauty be overrated?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:16 PM
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Natural beauty often signals good overall physical health and desirable genetic traits, why it would be overrated? More importantly? Why it should be overrated?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:03 PM
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If the general assumption is that the reason of men who struggle on dating it's because they are assholes then why would those men bring decent people who are successful at dating as a counter argument? It doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:11 PM
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Objectively it's still diminishing returns, unless you want to height mog him for some reason, which then it's up to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:59 PM
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You're in diminishing returns territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:56 PM
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My theory is that the men "who are assholes and succeed in dating" (actual bad men, not the extroverted disguised as "assholes" strawman) is a counter argument to the general assumption that if a man struggles with dating it's because they are assholes, dating and attraction being moralized so to speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:46 PM
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"Most good looking women" don't represent most women at all, besides women who are in relationships with unattractive men with money are in relationships with his money, not with him. It's still an advantage that considerably enough to offset their unique problems, yes some women will think you're a player (which it's mostly neutral depending on the individual) but most women will find being tall as a desirable trait, yes some men will invite you less because of "competitive" will men who are ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 05:39 PM
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Good thing it will never happen then 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 05:15 PM
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But most men aren't gonna ask 10 times a woman to have sex, not even 5. It’s a massive gender wide turn off and it’s one of the reasons younger women are abstaining from men and sex more. Interesting because the data shows that most straight women are in relationships and over 80% of young women have sex in the past year and this trend has been consistent. So no, women are not abstaining from sex or men more. If anything they are abstaining from men that have to ask 10 times to.... Oh wait, they…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 05:13 PM
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You seem to miss the memo. Women are not a monolith when it's not convenient for the argument
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 05:01 PM
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People rarely hear of someone who is tall feeling isolated because they are taller than most people, it's "unique" in the sense of being uncommon yes. People in general are insecure about something, not big deal tbh. Also im convinced most woman are insecure and date down on purpose as a form of control. Most women don't date down. Trust me woman will find a way to find a problem. It will happen regardless of how rich or attractive you are, people who want to create drama will in fact, create dr…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 04:57 PM
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So the way I described, which it's line with the general definition 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 04:46 PM
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No one said height is cheat code but it is a clear advantage in dating when paired with common traits such as being neurotypical.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 04:43 PM
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Generally those type of men who have mostly or only women's friends will be perceived from outside women to either the "gay friend" or a "player" Which will make your dating life significantly harder if it's the former and the latter can make dating harder depending on what type of relationship (being short or long term) those men are looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 04:29 PM
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I guess you are in the above average side of looks "scale"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 04:12 PM
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I mean, it generally works for guys who are 6'0ft because it's a generally desirable trait by women, perhaps you are the exception. But yes it's pretty much over for sub5 men 💀🥀
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 04:11 PM
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The difference is negligible, it generally won't turn a desirable man undesirable neither will turn a undesirable man desirable. For average people this factor is close to 0%, as most people are already friends with some woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 04:05 PM
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I will ignore the "heads i win tails you lose" posts you just made minutes ago. But anyways the "advantage" you get from being friends with women is minimal, most people have women's friends in their social circles, this includes men too so it becomes redudant. Those advices of "being fit, groom, etc" are pretty common nowadays so it's not women's secret knowledge (it has never been). Afaik preselection (which I assume it's the thing you mean by "more attractive by being seen with women") doesn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 03:42 PM
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We all love this "heads i win tails you lose" types of argument 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 03:11 PM
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My questions were about your reasoning of denying that other's users experiences and make assumptions, not about mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 03:05 PM
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Except it's not one, it's many of them, many enough to be a common (not universally accepted) belief.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:59 PM
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According to that user, personal anecdotes. Which it doesn't seem to include deny others experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:56 PM
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And what tells you that users doesn't also read feminist books? What tells you that users also doesn't leave their house? ("Doesn't agree with me" it's not a valid implication)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:52 PM
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I said common belief, not universally accepted belief 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:41 PM
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I specifically implied that those women were "feminist" and identify as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:36 PM
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Isn't it the "my money is mine and his money is ours" a common feminist belief? Sounds like traditionalism with a few more steps. Aren't also mainly feminist women complaining about the lack of masculine men? Which it seems also implying that they want a bodyguard too 🤔 Feminist and tradwives are the different sides of a same coin.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:17 PM
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You know you can just idk, leave?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 12:21 PM
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But those real men had real women back then 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 11:00 AM
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The average height for dutch women is 5'7 so it's impossible to have 50% of women over 5'9. It seems that according to statistics around 15-20% of dutch women are over 5'9, impressive compared to the 1-2% of american women but nowhere near 50%
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 10:56 AM
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Yo take delete that leaked GTA VII image or R* it's gonna find you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 03:43 AM
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As with all neurodivergent traits, you need to hide it and appear neurotypical because in the dating sense, most women are simply not attracted to ND men and some of them outright hate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 08:14 PM
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But the question is? Do you love yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 06:52 PM
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Rejection sucks amirite but all we doing is speculation Until you shoot your shoot you will never know 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 05:13 PM
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And what's the risk?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:59 PM
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I mean, do it and tell us the results ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:45 PM
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Kinda confusing, are straight women homophobic or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:09 PM
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Nah, only women do that 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 01:16 AM
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But not about being dumped tho 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 01:13 AM
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You won't see men complaining about it though 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 12:26 AM
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Effort at what?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 12:25 AM
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I already shower daily pal 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 07:43 PM
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In hell for who? Exacty? For the men they are already attracted to is already in hell
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 07:29 PM
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Afaik humans don't generate naturally good smell. Using cologne it's not the same as showering.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 07:17 PM
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Well yes, the "bar is in hell" for the man that she's already attracted too, that's why all of a sudden all men are bad except the ones who are partnered.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 07:08 PM
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If showering it's to be classified as "something to offer".....
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 07:02 PM
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Even your husband? Oh wait, I forgot that men who are partnered are the exception and only single men are the ones who don't shower, those women who complain their bfs or husbands about not showering? Never heard of them 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 06:54 PM
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Because most bluepillers here don't come to argue in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 05:22 PM
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Pretty much no one had that reaction, I will ask again. Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 04:29 PM
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Really? Where is the post?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 04:22 PM
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So, women already know ukraine is lost to Russia (despite the fact that it's not) so they decide to preemptly abandon their male relatives, kinda an asshole attitude too yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 04:16 PM
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Pretty interesting years coming for sure, as we all know generation replacement was been a very important part of societies to sustain economies. Mass immigration is only a short term solution that comes with it sets of problems, there has been some solutions being talked about like rising the age of retirement in EU so it's very likely even older generations will keep working to older ages but we'll see.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:29 PM
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This doesn't even apply to 95% of men since the study was about men who are sexually active.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 02:43 PM
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Username checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:15 AM
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Abandoning their males relatives too in the process, seems too selfish imo 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:31 PM
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Nope, their nature is to run off and flee from conflict, see Ukrainian women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:06 PM
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Water is wet comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 06:31 PM
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I'm 26 but I feel like 35. That enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 05:35 PM
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Except violence it's not a male exclusive trait but a human trait. Wouldn't say that peace can only be achieved through violence (for most people, violence is needed to stop violent people), but unfortunately you need the threat of violence to achieve peace. Are those screaming "not all men" in the room with us? Last time I checked most men are not violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 05:34 PM
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That's not how humans work though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 04:50 PM
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In feminist social circles maybe which are largely represented in the media.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 04:11 PM
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What can you expect when the media is basically all about how men bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 03:53 PM
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OP is trying to get undesirable men arrested or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 03:28 PM
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Tf is that autistic bs? "Just say out loud that you wanna have sex"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 03:14 PM
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As a matter in fact, reality does prove what I'm saying since most men don't commit crimes, nor rape, nor SA, it's a minority of men commiting most of the crimes Dude, America has the highest maternal mortality rates of all developed countries. FOH with your bullshit of “not so much.” Which is still is way better compared to how bad it was back then. Absolutely companies will start hiring people who make less money. The issue is that since women have been so underpaid that companies are using it…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 08:37 PM
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"He rejected me well he was ugly as shit anyways but I can't say that, instead I would say he's emotionally unavailable" Whatever floats her boat I guess 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 08:21 PM
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Me and most people here seems to be on their main accounts. And I don't use tiktok but thanks for tiktok I guess. Hi tiktok
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 08:13 PM
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11 days old account, yeah surely you find this sub on "accident" 😁 But true regardless, this place is a mind blowing in a bad way, please make yourself comfortable 😎👉🛋️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 08:00 PM
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Y'all complain regardless of how masculinity is perceived 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 07:56 PM
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Neither most gay men will die alone either but it is far more rare to see a gay man who gets no attention from men than a straight man not getting attention from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 07:42 PM
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Decent is neutral.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 07:38 PM
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Neither most, to the people who have prove to you they deserve it Most people aren't good, they are neutral.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 06:59 PM
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They have the lowest divorce rates and while yes it's not a guarantee it's significantly more easier for gay men than it is for straight men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 06:58 PM
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I'm yes 😎 Do you think we’ll both die single? You? Probably not as gay men have it arguably the easiest on the dating market. While I do bash males in a femcel fashion I do think struggling males and me have a lot in common. Except it's not, the main reasons why a lot of men who struggle in dating are a combination of factors like the current social and dating landscape (most young women having a negative opinion of men, social media, dating apps), lack of desirable looks (height, below average …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 06:52 PM
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For all of your men bashing, now gay men are able to detect your bad personality 🧐 Maybe just world theory is right, for some people 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 06:17 PM
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Biggest of skill issues I have ever seen, and they say karma doesn't exist 🤔 Congrats 🥳
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 06:13 PM
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Not all people deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 05:57 PM
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Exactly the reason why is it irrelevant: you are using a sample of two to make a point. Besides if we take "approach" as women throwing themselves at you then no, most men haven't been approached. Look, no one is saying that there aren't any men which women throw themselves at, it does happen, if the men is above average in looks (and I'm not talking about only things like style but also genetics, for example height) and/or the woman is extremely upfront however neither of those things are commo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 05:36 PM
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It's irrelevant to the topic since my point is not based of personal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 05:12 PM
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Not applied since I wasn't using any personal experience and you are just assuming no woman has every approached me make an argument. Nice try 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 04:58 PM
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No problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 04:54 PM
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No one said it was a myth It's ironic to claim this while assuming one's experience must be universal
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 04:51 PM
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Ok? Not really sure what are you trying to argue since no one here is wishing for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 04:40 PM
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There's not much to argue about if you really think that most "normal" men get basically women thrown themselves at them because "It happens to me" And no, it's indirect and vague because it's indirect and vague, whether it's good or bad is up to personal opinion, it just how things work.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 04:38 PM
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This doesn't disprove anything that I said though, women being extremely direct is uncommon, not only because most men don't have the looks but also because most women are not extremely direct. Second, their “vague signals” are almost always blatantly eye fucking you and smiling at you. You just have to learn what to look for. Still undirect and in most cases, vague.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 04:02 PM
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Hola
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 03:47 PM
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It doesn't happen for most men in the extent of "wanted to climb me like a fucking tree" it's generally way more subtle and indirect like that other user claimed: sending vague "signals"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 03:38 PM
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I mean, they are not being chosen anyways so why is it relevant?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 03:14 PM
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9/10 women will assume it's just for sex so 🤷 I guess it's the least worst poison.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 02:40 PM
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God forbid that user has preferences 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 02:34 PM
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It's just another "nice guys are not nice" post, how original.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 02:33 PM
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Likely it makes the vetting process more easier because women will approach the men they are actually attracted to. Y'all won't have to vet for looks anymore, only for personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 02:29 PM
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As it seems, it doesn't change that much and from a lot of men it seems to come from both, personal experience which is backed up by data
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 02:17 PM
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We protect ourselves around yall because you’re not safe. Yall did that to yourselves with the continued way you treat women. Most men are safe though, I'm not sure what type of men are refering to, perhaps you are mixing demographics of men together 🤔 Women engage in the riskiest things of all and most do it willingly. For one, pregnancy and childbirth. Pregnancy was risky in the middle ages, nowadays with modern medicine? Not so much. Men are paid more because of the patriarchy. “Women’s work”…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 12:44 PM
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Femcels taking incel culture, classic. Thing is, the OG meme is applicable to reality, while this one it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:03 PM
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The title is about guys with no friends, which I wouldn't define as "A lot" since according to data it's only like 10% but anyways. And the body of the post is how about men that don't have close friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 12:58 PM
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I can't man with these posts 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 12:52 PM
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Does TRP minime having and ugly face as a man? More reasons to only take the ◼️💊 seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 12:51 PM
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Men don't claim they have a superpower nearly as much as women though 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 12:55 AM
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So, women (neither men) can't detect for shit and only see obvious patterns as obvious (not so much as obvious since nowadays pretty much everyone who critizes women even on the midlyiest form is misogynistic), who would have thought 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 08:26 PM
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🤔 Maybe both can learn together to be less socially awkward
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:21 PM
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Plaaaaaaane 😁👉✈️ <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:20 PM
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No but I guess it does happen (as stupid as women claiming that they have this magic superpower), still it's not really comparable to the amount of women claiming that they have a personality detector superpower. Besides I don't think saying that "If she did X it means Z" is the same as "We can detect bad personalities in men"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:49 PM
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Hope you find your equally socially awkward match! Though through dating apps it's not gonna be easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:32 PM
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I have never saw a man claiming that, in fact it's so rare you are the first one to even mention that it happens, guess I'm not chronically online enough 🤷 Cosmetic operations that a lot of women go through are extremely easy to detect.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:23 PM
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What does some men being bitter, hateful and not seeing women as people has to with women saying that they have personality detectors superpowers? No one said it doesn't, in fact I said that sometimes it does, but largely it remains the same (especially looks wise) Anyway, they chose the most hateful interpretation of observed pattern. The irony of accusing men of this while doing exactly the same thing 🫢 And yet most men are agreeing with her (thanks for proving my point), besides you clearly i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:55 PM
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Bruh, is mainly women telling men that they have superpowers to detect bad personalities in men, very rarely the other way around 😐 What is found attractive very rarely changes based of casual sex, maybe regarding personality wise, looks wise it largely stays the same. And yes there's a component of women failing to secure commitment from the man they want, probably not the ones that are actively seeking for casual sex. Last post was a woman saying that dating is a meritocracy, the dating is a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:21 PM
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How can something that doesn't exist is outdated at the same time? If it is outdated that means it existed at some point 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 01:47 PM
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Every average guy thinks he deserves a pretty women Every guy thinks that he deserves a pretty women Which way?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 11:19 PM
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So most women want what most men already are, but most women still have a negative opinion about men and women still complain about men who don't do those things. Why do women complain about a group of men they are not interested? Wouldn't be more easy to just not date those minority of men? So many questions 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 11:03 PM
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In another life? Maybe who knows 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 10:09 PM
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Something something voting for rights and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 10:03 PM
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Minus LGBT people the rest most groups were already treated like such.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 10:01 PM
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It seems the "dating and attraction are a meritocracy" beliefs are still due this week too!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:53 PM
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Do you realize that we change society for those groups right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:51 PM
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I guess it's the latter then 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 08:33 PM
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🤔 I had been accused of being gay by my mother and sister in the past, probably it's more "undesirable men" rite of passage rather than a "straight man on the autistic spectrum" Or maybe it's the latter and I have the tism, guess we'll never know ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 08:23 PM
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A leased car is the worst decision since you own nothing at the end of it, which is why dealers promote leases...they sell you 60% of a car, get a whole car back in 3 years, and then turn around and sell the whole car "used" at 2/3 of original value financed at favorable terms with the interest rate marked up to a buyer. And how many people know this? More importantly how much women are applying this more compared to men? What comes along with playing videogames is tons of wasted time and energy…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 07:53 PM
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Not entilted to honesty or men making your intentions clear hun 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:17 PM
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You were so close to wizard status 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 05:17 PM
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Oh yes they know so much about credit most of them end up in debt and well yes, if you don't have a job it's not a good idea to get a car but that doesn't mean a car is a financially responsbile decision, especially if you lease it (in fact a leased cars it's not even yours). What comes along with playing videogames? More importantly what comes along with it that is significantly different over dating other people with other hobbies? I think we have a sample bias going around here 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 04:54 PM
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All OP's fault for choosing that job.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 04:41 PM
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At that point just put it in a bag and ditch it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:33 PM
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I mean, it seems y'all as equally as nasty so 🤷 Not my problema ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:25 PM
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Bro is mad because it has to work 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:18 PM
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Why would it be?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:17 PM
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I bet many of you have done this with a man you know once, so what's the problema?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 02:59 PM
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Very huh, entilted of them 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 05:20 AM
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Literally the post before this was exactly that. Whether you ignore it is another matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 12:05 AM
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Me neither, that's why I said that post is not as wet for women who believe that attraction is meritocracy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 12:01 AM
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Neither women saying that everyone can become attractive if they put the effort 🤷 And that's much more close to meritocracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 11:53 PM
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Water is wet post. Well, actually, not so wet for the women who think that everyone can become attractive if they put the effort 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 11:44 PM
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So they're doing nothing to stand out as well as not getting their account verified. I'm not the one saying that men don't put effort in their profiles and dating is presumably easy if you put the effort and verify your profile, I don't have nothing to prove, that's on you 🤷 Is that the guy who swiped on idk how much millions of women? Glad to say he doesn't represent the average men on dating apps, neither will most men swipe that much and why would you need to swipe on millions of women on you…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 10:21 PM
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I can't get a verified male account, you guys wont do it, and this has never been about getting matches. This is about feeling like a victim. This is putting more excuses since not verified accounts are visible to everyone regardless of said status being checked or not. Besides we live in 2026, you can use IA, you can use a random average guy photo on the internet, you can even ask a male inside your social circle. You have to ACTUALLY make a profile and not add in generic shit in it. Hell, alot…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 09:25 PM
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They deserve their adversity in dating because of their laziness. Last time I checked women keep complaining about their husband's and bf's laziness. So unless I missing something idk how this "deserved adversity" affects those men women are complaining about in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 09:11 PM
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If you guys were actually desperate for matches, you would put in the effort. But instead, you guys are lazy. Installing the app takes effort, making a profile takes effort, using good photos takes effort, the problem here treating date like meritocracy and if you don't get matches is because you don't put enough effort, world doesn't work like that especially because meritocracy has been disproved long time ago. And? Do you guys want results, or do you want something to bitch about? What's this…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 09:02 PM
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You know how many users have premium accounts in dating apps like tinder? Around 13% to 15% Saying that guys struggle with matches because they don't pay for premium is just another excuse, similar of that saying of dating apps are made to keep people single. Besides no, being a unpaid users won't make you invisible to the minority of premium users, that's yet another excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 08:47 PM
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Holy excuses! It's just a simple tinder experiment as an average (not "average" as prime Chico but truly average) guy. I see someone's worldview will get shattered too easily 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 07:26 PM
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Schizo post is back lets gooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 04:36 PM
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This also includes you 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 03:52 PM
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But no one said something about dating teens, this default resort to "date teens" argument is pretty weird, borderline projection, something to hide?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 03:44 PM
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Not even settling it seems, to get settled for which not only are different things but the latter is actually worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 03:43 PM
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I mean plenty of them, but not near enough I will say.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 02:00 PM
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Oh yeah "If no one wants you it's your fault" "Unless you have a birth defect you are not ugly" "If no one wants you it's because you don't shower and you're an asshole, I'm a good person btw"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:19 PM
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Use google hun.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:40 PM
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There are only women gyms though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:39 PM
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It proves he can view a woman who is not a relative purely in a platonic, non-sexual, non-romantic way. It proves he finds women interesting to talk to and hang out with in a non-sexual, non-romantic way. Why you wouldn't want the man a woman is dating to see her in a romantic, sexual way? Kinda defeats 70% of the purpose of dating. People falling in love with their friends exists ya know? It proves he respects women and his relationship with his girlfriend. Too black and white, you can befriend…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:52 PM
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What's the point to debate here? Men bad again? This happens on every country where a poor part of the population exists, so everywhere. It mostly applies to the poor however, since middle and upper class citizen are having less children and the results are shown in the lower than generational replacement birthrates. Afaik you need a woman and a man to make a children so both are equally responsible in this matter
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:42 PM
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For men is pretty much the same though
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 09:47 PM
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Both genders get judged for things they can't control.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 09:42 PM
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But women can become more desirable by improving their personalities (which considering how most have a negative opinion, it's pretty much neccesary) or getting money.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 09:37 PM
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It's pretty much obvious that it also includes the "I have to find her attractive", brining the "will you date X?" doesn't add value to the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 09:34 PM
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Ah, the classic entilted attitude of "I deserve the best and men need to improve themselves for me!" If you think about it they are reinforcing traditional gender roles and the "patriarchy" Also if you think about this put women in a monolith position because they all want the same. But let assume this happens right, that every men fullfills said standards, then what? Will women keep up? They will all become feminine, fit, pleaseant? You know that in this scenario the only thing that will set ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 08:25 PM
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What that has supposed to mean? It's women who complain about being lied or used for sex by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 08:16 PM
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Wait, this thing has been going on for, 8 years!?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 08:05 PM
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Dating (as with words) have a very limited set of meanings.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 05:13 PM
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Again, if dating is fair (according to OP) then lying and using doesn't exist, as a whole. My intentions here are irrelevant, trying to make it personal is not the move.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 04:46 PM
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If dating is fair no one can lie or use someone because they already know they are being lied or used 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 04:39 PM
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Excellent strawman, unfortunately (for you I mean) my comment was about how OP sees dating as "fair"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 04:35 PM
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First 😱😎
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 04:09 PM
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Yo, since dating is fair I don't want to see no woman complaining about being used for sex or being lied to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 03:49 PM
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It's only unfair when men do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 03:41 PM
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Well, it seems that having no sex is worse than having no sex for women too so 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 01:11 AM
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Yes, in the mind of the delusional people maybe. In reality not as to be able to reject someone they need to have options in the first place, since you claim they don't then they can't reject someone that's not interested in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 09:52 PM
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Weird, as it seems they will rather have bad sex than no sex and then complain later about muh orgasm gap
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 09:51 PM
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Most people have friends and family relatives, this includes most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 09:10 PM
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Is it only a guy thing though? I mean it's mostly women complaining about the orgasm gap and how they don't enjoy casual sex and how men are bad at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 09:00 PM
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Oh but there's a female loneliness epidemic, women report similar levels of loneliness, not being talked as much though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:11 PM
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Touched a nerve it seems 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:09 PM
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Somehow it's men's fault for not being good enough 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:29 PM
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Technically every single individual will want to mate at some point in ther lives and from both a biologically and psychologically standpoint it is a necessity. Those that don’t will die off and natural selection will continue. You either adapt or die You can't adapt to an enviornment where survival is already guaranteed becsuse there's simply no adaptation to do, the most valuables assets to have are the ones who have the highest mate success rate and those are genetics. That's why natural sele…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:18 PM
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Finding a mate is about survival, not only individually but also to ensure the survival of the species, so yes natural selection is about survival. If no one is coming near you, you are clearly not datable snd need to adapt yourself. We as a species don't apply natural selection anymore since like I said, we shape environment to ensure the survival of our species. If someone doesn't have any mating prospects is because his genetics traits have very little or none mating success rate thus through…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:26 PM
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Except it's not natural selection because natural selection favors traits that have higher survival chance on a certain environment but survival it's not needed anymore because humans shape the environment. Natural selection is a psyops trend which was started by a comedian to blame men for not being able to "adapt" when in reality unselected men are being filtered out because of sexual selection which filters based of traits that favor reproductive and mating success over survival. But of cours…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:55 PM
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It's irrelevant since the problem you mention was about women not saying men to "choose better" as much as the opposite not about critizing women for being with someone for money
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:22 PM
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Most of the times those men are being called out for getting played by those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:16 PM
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White knights already know this but they just ignore it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:15 PM
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You're comparing two different situations though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:01 PM
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In those type of posts is women saying that they should pick better women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:57 PM
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Does it suprise someone? I mean at this point we all know that most women are not attracted to short men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:54 PM
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And the evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:26 PM
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It's suprising the amount of people that are in debt nowadays, like if it was only for student debt then I get it because education important and all of that. But then you the reasons why so many people are in debt because they put themselves in that situation just to have the latest phone, or TV, or car at their homes while replacing completely functional phones, TV or cars.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:18 PM
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Don't forget also being entilted to men as a whole fixing the behavior of a minority of men 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:41 PM
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Idk but getting "subpar sex" wouldn't say is something valuable, unless for these women bad sex is better than no sex and if that's the case they need to stop whining about muh orgasm gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:59 PM
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Weird, women get nothing for casual sex but still engage on it, either a) they do get something but you don't wanna accept it b) too deep in a sunk cost fallacy and can't just quit now
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:39 PM
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Bad faith, on a bad faith "debate" subreddit? Never heard of it 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:16 AM
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It can't be both, either men reject those women or women reject those men in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:23 AM
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It seems to convenient isn't it? "Yes most women had a traumatic experience with men but they don't report it therefore men are bad" I guess we can apply the inverse as well "Yes most men had a traumatic experience with women but they don't report it therefore women are bad"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 11:39 PM
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1/3 have reported been SA'ed while in the US is less than 50%, so idk if the "most women have had a traumatic experience" is that much true.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:40 PM
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Except that most women who experiences traumatics experience where for men they choose, men who are being chosen are more likely to abuse or rape women. No one is saying shouldn't empatize, but gen z men should be blamed for not being selected either (neither women for that matter)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:32 PM
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The "manosphere" was more like a response to the general degradation of men's public image rather than something that was born out of nowhere because "men hate women" Besides I think it's very different putting your guard up which arguably is something most women already do to say things like "until it's no man then it's all men" or "men are rapists"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:20 PM
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A) The internet was not nearly as popular back then Millenials were young B) Neither was dating apps C) Neither women had a more generalized negative opinion of men compared to nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 09:14 PM
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So, what you actually saw was an average man "hating" on an average woman since the average person is fat. Btw Ur not sexless man if u filter out every woman of color heavier than a size 4. "You're sexless because you have high standards" They don’t even have anything to offer! No one is interested and they still run their damn mouths "You're sexless because no one wants you" Which way is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 05:40 PM
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"Personality matters more for unattractive or average looking women" but unattractive women tend to have more sexual partners than attractive women. The "women who are not Stacy care more about personality" statement is 🧢
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 04:48 PM
2

AOC recently made comments that she is against looksmaxxing because its creating body image issues among men The same woman who said on social media to this one conservative politician that he was "Angry because he's short" (despite the fact that iirc he's 5'10) and then went to apologize herself by saying that short men who followed her have "tall guy energy" is now against looksmaxxing because "body image issues among men" What a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:15 PM
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And when women does it's almost about how tall or attractive their man is, so?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 05:07 PM
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How any of what you just said has to do with harassment?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 04:20 PM
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TIL wanting to have sex with women is harassment. And people wonder why over 45% of young gen Z men have never ask out a women 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:41 PM
-2

Wait until you realize it that women are still being harassed by the same men.. Oh wait, by harass you meant being approached by below average men, my bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:32 PM
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But considering how hostile this thread is, most men aren’t good So most men aren't unhygienic but also good emough?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:42 AM
1

Plenty of women complaining about so the likehood of some of them being chads is quite high
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 11:06 PM
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And how that's gonna stop men from lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:46 PM
1

I'm confused, you want to humiliate men who lie with huh, "online gf experience"?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:43 PM
2

Great, "let's humiliate men who lie while keep sleeping with them, that will show them" 😂😂😂😂😂 You have a great sense of humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:39 PM
1

So you disprove your own example. Nice one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:36 PM
2

Oooof this is gonna be great 😂 What do you have in mind for those men who lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:36 PM
2

Well, women keep dating those men so why have it if not consequences arise from it? Better start reading psychology books or something, better yet, use those personality detectors y'all claim to have for something, zero excuses hun.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:32 PM
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I'm dismissing your claim about men in this sub representing men as a whole because it's simply not true. Furthermore I always started with the urine smell. Most women would be disgusted. Most women wouldn't date men from this sub even if their hygiene was on point so?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:29 PM
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For not wanting to become better at spotting lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:23 PM
1

And still one of the least used social media and this sub is one of the least popular ones, to say people here represent population as a whole is ignorance at best. B) We keep getting more extreme it seems and still irrelevant since the women that would be willing to date him is gonna be higher than the women willing to date men from this sub, nice try.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:22 PM
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To vet and screen? More like to keep dating them. Skill issue, not my problema amigo 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:15 PM
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A) Reddit is one of the least used social media worldwide and this sub is extremely niche. B) It's irrelevant, besides more women would date him under the influence of "I can fix him" than women willing to date men from this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:14 PM
2

"prove" Less accountability for table number 3 please 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:09 PM
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You can't change other's behaviors thus the only way is for women to become lie detectors. It shouldn't be hard since y'all claim you can detect (unselected) men's bad personalities from miles away so, do better 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:03 PM
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A) Men here don't represent most men, neither do most women for that matter. B) Most (single) women wouldn't date men here even if their hygiene was excellent. If women's choice are to be with men that have extremely poor hygiene or be alone then it's a skill issue on her part and they should improve themselves to become desirable to men who have better hygiene standards. In other words, git gud.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:01 PM
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Skill issue, learn to spot lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:58 PM
2

Lack of effort disguised as "body changes" 🫢
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:58 PM
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The main point of who? Most men do plenty of housework, the only ones to blame here are women for A) Lack of proper communication with their partners B) Not setting boundaries about the housework beforehand. C) Choosing those men in the first place. But that was not the main point btw you're just moving goalposts, nice one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:50 PM
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People can have very different definitions of "basic" hence the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:43 PM
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Depends on what consider "basic" Does basic means "don't smell like you don't shower" or "use very expensive cologne and shower three times a day using the most expensive products" Even then, if you are using said extreme examples to generalize men here as a whole then don't be suprised when some may act defensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:39 PM
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What men being defensive has to do with the extreme example you just used?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:03 PM
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"Women in their 20s don't get to experience the same as married women who're fed up" Proceeds to use an extreme example that resembles closer to women in their 20s that are dating rather than married women Nice one. Hygiene is important yes, but most women aren't gonna find themselves in such extreme scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:52 PM
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Is this misogyny here in the room with us?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:35 PM
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The easy way out it's to dismiss my lived experiences it seems 😐 Besides married or not is largely irrelevant since the starting point is whether they broke up with their partners given a lose of sexual attraction because a lack of cleanliness, or what only married people are valid in your worldview?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:29 PM
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Well what was that argument that I can't seem to find, oh here. Men in this sub don't represent the average young gen z men What not having jobs has to do with cleanliness?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 04:53 PM
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Seems that's not that common then.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 04:47 PM
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I haven't heard a single woman irl saying that they broke up with their partners because of a lose of sexual attraction because of poor hygiene and cleanliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 04:10 PM
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Very few of them, likely not attracted to their man in the first place looking to put banal excuses like "He doesn't clean as well as men that's why I don't have sex with him!"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:56 PM
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That's not saying that women's standards are too high, like 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:53 PM
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No, if what you say is the same as what I said that means it has very little to do with attraction. Women can complain about it, doesn't mean they lose attraction for their man neither has a large enough impact on initial attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:49 PM
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Where? Only thing I posted was about how women will say they will not date men who are not clean enough but then do it regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:47 PM
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Ok? Is pretty much the same that I just said 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:33 PM
1

Elite Dangerous if you like sci-fi space games
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:56 PM
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Lovely to see women mainly using black and white thinking, going into the extreme opposite and saying "See? This is why men struggle with dating because they are not clean enough lol" Just a classic PPD tuesday for ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:49 PM
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Of course, it's because men don't want to clean their houses /s
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:46 PM
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A "clean home" is subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:40 PM
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But if women don’t want to date them because of it, that’s the men’s faults for not improving themselves to be attractive enough to date. Then you see the plenty of women on social media complaining about their partners or men who are dating cleanliness habits. Cleanliness has very little do to with attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:37 PM
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That's not what simp means.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:42 PM
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And that's supposed to change? What exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:12 AM
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because you guys seem to think, walking into a room means a woman is going to instantly be overwhelmed with lust. Cool strawman, not gonna waste my time to try and refute this blatantly false statement. But they see being agreeable as a waste of time if theyre not getting laid nor do they have the social tact to understand what turns people off. The vast majority of people don’t want a person like that. Not the same demographic of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:57 PM
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Not all chads treat people like shit like 😐 Nice assumption you got there. Besides I haven't see many men (some did said that) on this sub saying that they want to treat people like shit with no consequences. A much more common sentiment is that they want feel sexually desired by the woman they are attracted to, which it would be a pretty common thing among people in general. Would you say this is chad treatment too?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:45 PM
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What does "act like Chad" means? Besides, doesn't change the fact that to most people looks are the most important aspect
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:31 PM
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Women like OP won't likely date men who struggle on dating regardless of whether they put the effort or not. So the goal is yet to be discovered.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:02 PM
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Is still the most important aspect though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 08:10 PM
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Classic
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:12 PM
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Classic women momento: "All men bad, except my boyfriend/husband tehee 🥰"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 04:51 PM
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It's pretty much implied "If women are so terrible why not just date men instead"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 04:13 PM
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It's a possibility yes. Though I think is still a very minor factor to take into consideration.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:35 PM
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Tbf only reading the tittle should have give enough hint of who OP is 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:03 PM
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Characther is also subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 02:05 PM
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Didn't prove anything, pointing out what truly matters most is not "refusing to growth"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 02:04 PM
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Your character is still the most important thing. To keep a relationships maybe, to even be into one in the first place looks is the most important factor. Honestly what they have been trying to say for years Who? Women? If yes then it's very likely that characters matters the most for the man they are already attracted to rendering the "character is the most important aspect" useless since it sits behind looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 01:46 PM
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Water is wet ahh post.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:31 PM
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Instructions unclear, I got drunk and then got kicked out by the bar because for trying to approach a woman and now I'm seeing a tiktok someone made about it go viral. Oops (hope I don't lose my job) 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 08:40 PM
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Miss the if somewhere you should be glad I'm here to correct it 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 06:59 PM
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No, you said "No one cares" Not "No ones cares if they shut up about it"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 06:43 PM
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That's not what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 06:33 PM
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No one cares, except the ones who have been doing posts about it for years 🫢
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 06:18 PM
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Stupid parts of communities are stupid, it happens in every community, shocker again 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 06:17 PM
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All obsessions can lead to death, so?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 05:49 PM
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I'm glad to tell you that he was not the only looksmaxxer influencer, shocker amirite 😱 Afaik most influencers are not injecting themselves with gold and I seriously doubt most of the looksmaxxing community is. But it seems you're keen to generalize the whole community as stupid based of a single influencer so I will not stop you, doesn't mean you're right though 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 05:02 PM
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I don't think looksmaxxers are injecting themselves with gold consistently, c'mon most of them are not that stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 04:52 PM
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Such an argument 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 04:43 PM
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Let's see how many people mention the looksmaxxer that died recently as an argument of idk, something. I will constantly update the comment. Currently: 3
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 04:34 PM
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Most women are ◼️💊'ed byd default and I will die on that hill. It's only bad and wrong when unselected men say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:57 PM
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Question Do by children and teenagers you mean actual childs or is actually women who are 18? Wait, this is another post of someone who mixes two different demographics of men together, nevermind.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:51 PM
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Ah yes, because adult women are not capable of not communicating how they about their sexual needs and desire to their partners because "sexual norms" 🫢
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:20 PM
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Are these men crying for women to change their standards in the room with us? Besides that's not even a comparison with agency, with accountability maybe. Can't even make it properly
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:37 PM
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Agency until it's time for who is the one who leads at sex (the main ones who are blamed for the orgasm gap are men), or until they are "forced" to date players because the rest of men are boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:23 PM
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Not even in sex women have agency it seems, nope it's all men. It was "women and accountability, name a more iconic duo" but now it's women, accountability and agency name a more iconic trio
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:18 PM
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Yeah, surely one single guy who is an exceptional rare case is surely enough to describe dating for the vast majority of people 😂 /s
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:14 PM
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Probably not even trans care about that clip anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:11 PM
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Bruh, imagine if someone ask OP "Who hurt you?" And the response is a youtube clip from a speed dating show from a year ago that's completely unrelated to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:44 PM
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He got unlucky and didn't find his equal who also likes fish, owns 33 and wears a sweater with "sit on my face" 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:28 PM
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Yes, a 8% gap is nothing and definitely not large enough to justify seeing shallowness as better for women. If anything only the minority of people who are fit have "earned" the "right" being shallow, most women are still fat, therefore they haven't earned shit lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:56 PM
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Wise choice
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:27 PM
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Weird, last time I check most young women are in relationships while most young men aren't, and it's not a 5% gap, over 63% of young men are single while this number is 34% for young women. Wouldn't be the inverse if men were more shallow?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:24 PM
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So being shallow is not bad, why we critize men for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:07 PM
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This article has the study
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:02 PM
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If men are more shallow how most men didn't reproduce throught history while most women did? How does men looks affect their chances to find a partners at a higher extent compared to women's? Why there are women calling for a "chopped male epidemic"?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:29 PM
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It's me (most of the time) 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 08:53 PM
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Women in general are less interested in politics than men, even when asked women for specific questions about politics women didn't show greater interest in politics , if more men are interested in politics then of course there would be more men in politics Nature "advantages" are not needed since we don't hunt for food anymore. Women's bodies on average allows them to live longer, by a significant margin of 5 years and yes, only the female population of the human species can get pregnant, just …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 08:33 PM
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I guess it's not easy to not make it a big deal when men are falling behind in a lot of areas because women are favored over them or because bias against men, most women have a negative opinion about men , men as whole blamed for the actions made by a minority of men yet men are somehow, "privileged" Take birth rates for examples, the media doesn't blame the economy or the impact of social media, mostly they blame men, in fact even studies are suggesting that, to fix birth rates we "need" to fur…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 06:26 PM
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Girls aren’t having a loneliness epidemic. Well, technically women report very similar % of loneliness as men so yes we could say that there's a "female loneliness epidemic" Like, you’d think men would have a leg up in terms of happiness, because testosterone is basically a recreational drug that makes a person more energetic, angry instead of sad, and put on muscle so easily; men are bigger, stronger, and don’t have to spend a quarter of their lives in pain. Actually, women's mental health is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 05:37 PM
1

So, basically no one is a good partner then.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 05:26 PM
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Hollywood is not an accurate representation of anything, at all. Idealized by how much women? Even if it was they were different times, you want men from the 50s, would you be a women from the 50s too?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 04:40 PM
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So you don't like real men, you like what hollywood shows you as men from the 50s which is not an accurate representation of how men were actually in the 50s.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:58 PM
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Femcels hate men as a whole, no femcel is "pointing out" incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:16 PM
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Well yes duh, of course some men when they say they can't attract women they meant women they desire It should be pretty obvious 😐 But ok use that show as evidence, I will use the plenty of women saying that "women can get a man by being a hiplet, short men can't still get women because they are short" as evidence, after all they are both still media ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:57 PM
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Well there are some differences, mainly one of them is that femcels do tend to have partners and sex while inc don't but they femcels seem to compensate it by being even more hateful and mentally degraded though 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:48 PM
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Female version of an inc word, though at this point they are much more hateful and further mentally degraded 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 09:41 PM
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I was gonna say borderline femcel post based on the title but then I read the post and the "borderline" went through the window lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 09:35 PM
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If don't know what to say it's better to just not say anything at all Huh, no. It is found masculine on men and feminine on women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 07:59 PM
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While still advocating for masculine traits such as being exciting, nice one. Which I have already stated, it doesn't work before most people dress the same and individualism by itself doesn't impact attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 05:20 PM
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Individuality? By appealing to a niche group? Doesn't seem very individualistic to me. Neurodivergent people are more likely to have niche interests, no? More likely yes, whether this will happen or not it's another story, also a lot of these interests form from childhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:45 PM
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Because they are not struggling because they "don't stand out", most of them struggle because they are short, or ugly, or neurodivergent. Besides, when you dress for a niche you don't stand out within people who dress the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:37 PM
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That's right, your social circle, which is clearly niche biased and represent a minority of the population. That's why advices like "just dress for niches" doesn't work for men who struggle in dating. Well, regardless it’s weird to just want to look the same as everyone else. Normies tend to believe the same of niches so it kinda equalizes (I guess)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:31 PM
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That's because women find offensive that other women dress the same as them and women don't like to look like others in special occasations. Outside of that, in most situations, most people dress the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:27 PM
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Are you saying women can’t be exciting? How very sexist. Huh, no. It is found masculine on men and feminine on women. “Blue denim jeans, white shirt and dyed blonde hair. So original” You must be American. Whether country I'm is irrelevant, "blue denim jeans, white shirt and dyed blonde hair" is a descriptive for what the average women wears and looks in a country. In the US is like that, in other countries will be different, but the idea is the same: most people wear and look the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:22 PM
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Height and jawline is irrelevant if you’re boring Most average people are boring, height and jawline are not irrelevant since they make it easier to find an equally boring woman. Women are incredibly diverse compared to men. Where on earth are you living that every woman has the same dress and same haircut? Women have a huge range of ways they can present themselves. Blue denim jeans, white shirt and dyed blonde hair. So original 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:12 PM
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If men diversified it would be better for everyone. Attraction can't be forced, can't force men to become a better option for a minority of women (who are still attracted to the same genetic features btw), it reeks entiltement. Besides even assuming this diversification does happen then niches won't be niches anymore, thus the very few unattractive men who gets date by being into a niche and dressing like one won't be getting dates anymore. Even then women would also need to diversificate too si…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:03 PM
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It has the highest chance to attract most women which are, more or less, attracted to that. Average is neutral, neither bad or good.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:53 PM
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It seems most of the times it goes like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:30 PM
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What? Where did all the yap about knowing "a guy who is ugly as shit in a relationships with a stacy all thanks to his personality" go? PD: She's not a Stacy at all, calling every women who is skinny a Stacy it's not it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:19 PM
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The bare minimum is mostly just don't look homeless. Extravagant clothes or styles won't significantly increase your perceived attractiveness as much as having the genetic traits that are desired by most women, to most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:04 PM
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It matters, very little compared with the things I just mentioned before.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 11:32 AM
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Height matters, face matters, neurotypicallity matters. Clothes will be in like, last to almost last place.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:52 PM
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The same physical traits that are universally desired by most women still overlap with these "niches" These traits that are often related to masculinity are still gonna be perceived as the most attractive regardless and we still don't count for the fact that you might not even like those niches.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:48 PM
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A man shouldn't desire family life as a main goal. Should have stopped right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:25 PM
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Impact? Yes. Equally impact? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 08:06 PM
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Even those many women who don't make relationships from the internet are still affected in some way or another from globalization made possible by social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:33 PM
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There's nothing anyone can give or say to make me want children. The world will thank you for that 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:30 PM
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So the myths were true then, after all it was women's fault 🤷 After all most mothers do the childcare (according to this subreddit) 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 02:49 PM
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Not suprised, porn is very disliked across women here and on the subreddit then tend to gather.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:33 PM
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Most men are not predators though, this should be common knowledge by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:24 PM
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One out of many, not a represenation of the whole. But to resume: I'm not saying the chances of finding introverted (or whatever women you want that's doesn't like bars) women at a bar is zero, I'm saying that the chance is low and there are higher chances to meet them in places where introverts to do their social activities which generally doesn't involve places like bars. Therefore the "Go to bars if you want to meet introverted women" is not a good advice, especially if the person receving sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:15 PM
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Hate to be that guy but you don't represent women as a whole, let alone nerdy women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:46 PM
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Bars are mostly people going out with their friends to have a time with their friends, whether they are to meet new people or not depends, some might, some might now. I mean to a bar you will do mostly cold approaching so the success chance is also rather low. Unironically you may have a higher chance to meet women in those social activities you like than meeting women in bars, most women who go to bars are the loud and extroverted type. Not bueno if you are the introverted and quiet type.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:33 PM
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First 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:15 PM
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Not arguments much so we resort to attacks? Expected. Anyways you seem to have missed the idea, I'm not saying there's a 1% chance of meeting women. What I'm saying was that if you for example don't like to go to bars and you will rather do any other social activity, then it's a better idea to try to find women doing said activity instead of forcing yourself to do things you don't like where the chances to meet women that enjoy the same things are lower. The chance of meeting an introverted wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:09 PM
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1%, even if it was 100 billion people, is still 1% The potential of going to bars means there's a chance of not 100% of women are going into bars, therefore "billions of people" arguments become worthless. Realistically you won't even meet 000.1% of one's country total population. Yeah, one also could go for a week and not meet anybody, one could also go and don't be found cute by anyone, a meteor could struck Earth and wipe all of us out, one could win the lottery tomorrow. Besides, the fact th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:55 PM
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I never said they don't do, making leaps and I see. But the chance of meeting an introverted women at a bar are as low as meeting extroverted women that like bars in small groups. Never zero, but low nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:17 PM
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Despite that it's 34% of young gen Z women are single, so the large disparity can't be explained with "they just go less to bars duh"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:15 PM
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That would be a choice yes, being introverted it's not. Because imo it’s one of many factors making dating harder for straight men No, as gen Z women also frequent bar less often. The factors why over 63% of young gen Z men are single are completely different from "it's because they don't go to bars duh" but we're not ready for this convo yet 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:02 PM
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You are doing leaps yourself, "Go to a bar" to "Stay at home not meet people" Anyways forcing yourself to go at a bar just because of the mere very low possibility of meeting women who also don't like to go to bars is a terrible idea. People are not predictable yes but the places their tend to go is a pretty good indicative of what they like, that's why the chance of finding introverted women on bars are low and why the chances of meeting extroverted women who likes parties at a social even comp…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:56 PM
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No, being introverted it's not a choice, extroversion or introversion are personality traits which have not only genetic components on it but also depend on your uprising. If we talk about gen Z, which are currently one of the generation which has the most men who struggle in dating, then gen Z as a whole generation not only goes less to bars and clubs and spend less on alcohol compared to other generations. Post sounds like boomers which will try to blame you for not being able to buy a house w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:00 PM
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Nah, you have to try better than that. Like way better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 03:41 PM
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Nah, we're too far down the rabbit hole to deny lookism, even OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 02:22 PM
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Watch out, next post it's gonna blame men for not be the standard male porn actor 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:53 PM
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That’s never gonna happen so you might as well get that out your brain immediately Actually it is happening, most people don't actually care about muh incels or muh redpillers. It's not a fact that they shouldn't, it's the fact that they aren't. Only a minority of people who are chronically online believe they are a problem and try to project onto society as a whole. Society has bigger problems to deal with than what a minority of unselected non violent men are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:27 PM
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Society is the one gaslighting people making sensasionalist media about a minority of unselected men being a problem, when the real problem which are men who are actually a problem are ignored. It's failing spectacularly since most people still don't care about incels or redpillers. people consider the red pill and incels the problem doesn’t mean we’re gonna consider it less. I have never saw my government talking about it, neither neighbouring countries, neither people when you go actually ejem…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:21 PM
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So porn is to blame now? What would be next? Videogames?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:07 PM
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But its a large minority. If incels and redpill didn’t become a massive problem in society, no one would care. A minority regardless which most people don't care about. Sensationalist fake media are made about them to generate fear upon members of society to devy them from real problems, I mean you should be able to notice the fake sensationalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:04 PM
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The meme factory is back boys 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:46 AM
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Wut
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:46 AM
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Me neither, they are too mentally ill, even for me. Besides at least 90% of them have bf's which is weird considering that most of them claim that no men wants them 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 12:06 AM
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That's not "men laugh when other men want to abuse wome " proof, more like proof that powerful people can do whatever they want. Mocked by who? I seen plenty of women being mocked by other women for choosing male dominated fields.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 12:05 AM
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Have you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 11:51 PM
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Who said something about thots with 15k being the average women? Who said something about gooning?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 11:11 PM
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I already posted the evidence, disliking others doesn't have to reach an extreme point, proven by the data. And no, most don't protect anyone, men laugh at other men saying they want to abuse womem. The law system was created to protect, guess who mostly the ones who take the cop jobs, or the military ones? Find me some evidence of that "men laugh at other men saying they want to abuse women", it has to be more than a tiktok with 100 likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:52 PM
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Except in countries like afganistan, where people are being opressed. In countries where men are not opressed, most likely neither are women. My country is on the top 10 most violent in the world, thanks to men, also on the top femicide statistics. Thanks to violent men, most men don't commit crimes. Barren extreme examples, on average women dislike men more than men dislike women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:43 PM
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Your best evidence is a country where the average people is being oppresed, both men and women? Really? The data I gave you is from the UK, a first world country You're free to believe what you want, the evidence shows another picture. Men commiting crimes are a minority, men preaching those crimes are also a minority and, while what happened to you is terrible and I'm sorry that you had the missfortune to had to deal with that, truth is that most men don't do all those things, neither do most w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:26 PM
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"Generalizations for them but not for me" I see I will break the stalemate with this poll that shows that most young women have a negative opinion of men while most young men have a positive opinion of women If men hated women so much and women hated men so little it will have been reflected on the data, to the suprise of no one, it's not. Isn't "short king' literally made to support short men? short men are now taking their hate on women who got nothing to do with their problems by calling them…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:59 PM
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Except we're talking about hating because of appearance not behavior. And yes there are equals, "chopped men's epidemic" is one, calling short men "manlet" or "short king" are also used as insults. The general hatred of autistic men by both NT and ND women. Whether you want to perceive them and not fall for "out of sight out of mind" it's another story
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:43 PM
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Just because women are "not making giants mobs to hate all men" doesn't mean they don't exist in a more subtle level. Even then things "chopped men epidemic" are rather very popular amongst women nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:20 PM
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Women's hate is also online and irl, your point being?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:11 PM
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No, they hate on ugly men who are not hollywood actors instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:02 PM
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Gen, which women hates on men for not having these? Assuming this means online, plenty of women shaming men who are ugly or short, in fact plenty of women calling that there's a "chopped men epidemic" Attributing negative moral values to unattractive men (or women) is also a form of hate. Have you ever been hated by women to bits for not having these in real life? Yes actually. But let's not get ahead, most people won't hate others because they don't fit beauty standards, people who hate others …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:52 PM
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I could have gone with the strong jawline or wide shoulders, or strong eye area but it's irrelevant which one was chosen since all of them are genetics. At this point we can say that women and men have equal beauty standards that are mostly around genetics, women are not the only ones who are affected by beauty standards anymore sis.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:39 PM
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Needs surgery or it's impossible to get unless you're born again In a man is natural You do realize they are the same thing right, like men being taller than average it's also genetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:31 PM
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I mean, most women play casual games like The Sims so, yeah not enough public to make games "for women"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:21 PM
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Very few women who wants +18 games, therefore less games developed for that public. Plenty of gooner romance books for women though
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 06:45 PM
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Proving OP point I see. But no, guys might say they like casual styles and no makeup, but their actions betray them. What people say being different from what people actually do is pretty common human behavior, a lot of women also say that they want a kind guy and see physical attractiveness as secondary while their actions betray them, but that was not OP's point though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 06:32 PM
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Damn it 😡 (Not) Disproven by a evidenceless twitter article
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 06:26 PM
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The fact that is still banned amuses me lol Still, didn't disprove anything, better luck next time 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 06:09 PM
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Cavill was and still is quite literally the hollywood beauty standard and Namjoon doesn't even appear in most top handsome men articles 😂 One twitter with no evidence behind doesn't disprove the ◼️💊 Neither does attempting to portray that guy as "a regular korean" Try harder next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 06:03 PM
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They like him better because he's prettyboy maxxed and BTS is way more popular than Cavill, he doesn't look like a regular korean at all. Besides both of them are still broadly considered attractive, who's one and second is pretty much irrelevant. It doesn't disprove the blackpill wrong though, both have looks who are far above average and looks are still the most important factor in attraction and dating. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:53 PM
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Quite literally a "It's all about his personality is just so happens that he's tall and handsome" moment The "but he just average" is top notch tho, peak TwoX delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:43 PM
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Prettyboy maxxed has been a common talking point in ◼️💊 Both still have features that are universally desired by most women. It's not the gotcha you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:38 PM
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No one wants to date a guy who is stupid Unless she's also stupid This is a contradiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:58 PM
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What it's done in fantasy doesn't reflect what all men find desirable in women 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:48 PM
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Can you read minds? Besides you are proving OP post by telling men what they actually like when they tell women what they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:39 PM
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Another strawman, third is a charm aimirite. But it seems you missed the contradiction in your own comment, let me do it for ya "No one wants a guy who's stupid unless she's stupid too"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:36 PM
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Oh look, another strawman 🙄 I was pointing out a contradiction you made.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:32 PM
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Is that the post where OOP was saying that tall and handsome were "average features" Classic TwoX post
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:27 PM
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The burden of selection has always been on women, even in those dark times where monogamy was enforced most women passed on their genes while most men don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:47 PM
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No one cares you guys want stupid women. Strawman. Besides it wouldn't be much true either since posts like these are kept being made.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:43 PM
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Afaik there was a study that shown that looks didn't affect women's dating propsects as much as men's looks, so idk how much true is the "looks are not enough for women", looks significantly change how things "charisma" are generally perceived, your looks mostly mark the difference between being perceived as charismatic or being obnoxious. But yes it's pointless in complain about women's standards when most of the traits are found attractive are outside of one's control, because even the "charis…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:22 PM
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Also, in terms of dating, no one wants a guy who’s that confident in being stupid unless she’s also that stupid. So, there are more than one then, therefore "no one" is already invalid in the same sentence, nice contradiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:50 PM
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So you admit to debate in bad faith, expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:41 PM
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Assuming this extreme scenario exists most women would choose to be alone
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:44 PM
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Why make a question when only the ones who fit OP worldview are gonna register? We all love black and white thinking btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:58 AM
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Well, we should stop society from moralizing dating then.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 01:34 AM
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Most people don't even care about men who struggle in dating let alone enough to call them assholes. Asume that everyoen who struggles in dating it's because they are assholes is a lazy way to find a justification while waiting for the topic to be changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 01:21 AM
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What is OP trying to argue? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 12:03 AM
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Those questions have nothing to do with what I just said. No one moralizes dating thinking of muh social consequences, dating gets moralized mostly out of just world thoery.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 12:01 AM
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People moralize dating regardless of the condition of people opening their mouth about their dating lives or not. That assumption will come regardless of the person as long as it claims said person is struggling in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 11:40 PM
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There was a study which showed that women mostly set their height preferences at 6ft, or the one for the swiped right for 20% of men which was done also by OKCupid. If anything there is more proof that most women don't find most men attractive that otherwise, even women in this subreddit agree with not finding most men as attractive, like.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 11:26 PM
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Oh, the same studies that shown how women swiped right on the 20% of men? Wouldn't say attracted though, more like resigned after not being selected by those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 09:52 PM
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That's the justification I was talking about. "You are single because you are a bad person" See? Thanks for proving my point 😁👍 Until dating stops being moralized around here then the succesful assholes shall keep being used as a counter argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 09:51 PM
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You’re pretending its “oh youre single, so I will asssume you are bad”. Its typically “wow, you have shown youre a bad person. Thats why you struggle.” Pretending what? It's what happens most of the time, people who moralize dating will assume that if you struggle with dating is because you're a bad person regardless if they know that person or not. "What reason do you give people to tolerate your nasty attitde? Do you have the same value he has?” This question won't lead anywhere if the conclus…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 08:47 PM
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The age gap on average is 3 years, so this "old men only want young women" and "old men find old women yucky" are both 🧢 Most men don’t find most women attractive. Neither does most women, but that's a topic for another time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 08:21 PM
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1-2% I guess after filtering bots, OF promoting accounts and general fake profiles. If not then it may be even less, probably <1%
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 08:18 PM
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Weird, last time I checked it was most young women who were in relationships and not most men 🤔 Men feel deeply victimized by having these women as their options. This seems more like projection, very rarely you will see men complaining about having average women as their options, in fact many would even be glad if their options were average women. But you do see way more common is women complaining about their options being average men while also claiming them lazy for not improving for them (p…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 08:06 PM
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Bruh, it would be pretty hard to find men who don't find those women unattractive. Besides 29.2 BMI is overweight, almost obese, is even more than the average of 26.2, but even then they still look pretty average, again, it would be very hard to find men who find them unattractive, let alone repulsive or the "worst body type"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 07:54 PM
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Sigh For the last time, most men who bring up "successful assholes" is to serve as a counter argument of "not being successful in dating= you're a bad person" not because they want to date women who date "succesful assholes", I mean some of them do but most of them don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 07:03 PM
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It doesn't have anything to do with the fact that simps neither
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:49 PM
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So, first definition then. Those simps are not getting a piece of cake.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 04:53 PM
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Women: cook, clean, do childcare, work and bring in income, stay relatively attractive and fit Explain then what type of women you were talking about. I understand that you believe that this is justified because these women are so fat and gross and unattractive. No one said that. I repeatedly say that most men find most women unattractive If this was true most young women wouldn't be in relationships while most young men are single and on average young women are also fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 04:51 PM
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What's fit according to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 04:42 PM
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The implications are clearly there, not only in these post but also some of your post made before.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 04:38 PM
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Are we refering to simps as guys who try to get woman's attention when she make it clear that she's not interested? Or "simps" as guys who try to court a woman when she had shown she's romantically interested in him? Because one doesn't get a piece of cake, the other does.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 04:37 PM
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Quite literally "For hot girls, for easy pussy, and for women with low personality standards"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 04:25 PM
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"But men will humiliate themselves and turn into jesters for female validation!” Correction: For hot girls, for easy pussy, and for women with low personality standards. "Attractive women bad and have bad personalities" #1 Either lowering their standards "Unattractive women good" #1 Second, what type of women are you looking for? If youre looking for a shallow, egostical, dysfunctional? "Attractive women bad" #2 But keep in mind, to have a woman with a decent personality "Unattractive women good…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 03:39 PM
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But you do apply "Attractive women bad, unattractive women good"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 03:26 PM
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True, I'm not trying that. What I'm doing is calling ™NiceGirls to everyone who applies the same rethoric but inversed "Attractive women bad, unattractive women good"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 03:16 PM
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™NiceGirl post alert
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 03:07 PM
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Not treated the same as biological women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:29 PM
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I don't think trans have it as easy as biological women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:08 PM
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Fat = \ = fit. Most women are indeed fat in the US yes, so are most men. You can't really claim that women are fit when reality shows otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 03:10 AM
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We have a big disagreement if you think that being fat is even remotely close to being fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:32 PM
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Most women don't even stay fit in the US, and having income, know how to clean are the bare minimum 🙄 What childcare? A lot of women don't have or a not planning to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 09:05 PM
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Very few women actually answered the question but most seem to be emotional about it 🤔 The problem with OP question in this subreddit is that women will assume that "What do you offer to me and men like me?" thus is likely the reason for the reactions. What OP should ask instead is "What do you have to offer for desirable men?"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 09:01 PM
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People say it's "bad" because unselected men have higher chances of being selected
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:33 PM
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Only a very few minority "get what they can get"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:12 PM
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Ok, that doesn't mean looks aren't still the most important factor though. It doesn't disprove the comment you quoted, in fact one could argue it proves said comment since both still need to tick the looks aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:36 PM
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😁 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:23 PM
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¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:09 PM
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From being the third most important aspect to be the almost second most important aspect 😱 Such an improvement, rare W for bluepillers 😎👉🟦💊
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 04:52 PM
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A normal one with average looking men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 04:50 PM
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TIL men without a backbone are simps and are resentful, does OP have any sources for that claim? Lack of backbone will very rarely stop men from either entering relationship or be attractive to women and it won't be the main reason for ugly men to not be able to attract women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:36 PM
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We literally don't feel anything unless there is some flirt. Last time I checked a lot of women wanted to fuck prime Chico by looking at him and he probably didn't flirt with all those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:27 PM
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Prejudice for what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:58 PM
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Reproduction is arguably the most important aspect of any species, it won't be outlawed and most members of societies don't expect their individuals to act against it, in fact most critize who try to go against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:55 PM
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Highly evolved animals but still animals which parts of nature like sexual selection still acts on humans as much as any other species.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:52 PM
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Except but we're talking about what people find attractive not about violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:36 PM
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We are still animals and we're still largely ruled by instincts, reproduction and what humans find attractive is still mostly dominated by lizard brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:34 PM
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Too bad but fear not. I will make it and will drink a beer honoring the fallen 😎🫴🍺
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:40 PM
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I need only +4 years to be one 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:27 PM
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Thanks I love myself too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 06:33 PM
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It's weird how, according to ™NiceGirls, it's only attractive women hating and bashing on men but then you look around and the women who are doing tiktoks about a "chopped male epidemic" are mostly ugly women 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 03:22 PM
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Is the "personal attack" here in the room with us?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:40 PM
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Rather ironic that OP used to be entilted to men as a whole fixing the actions of a few men now is pointing fingers at other men calling them entilted. Now yes, attraction can't be forced but the reason women don't find those men attractive are not because a lack of effort but this subreddit is not ready for that convo yet 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:08 AM
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Boring men for boring women, I don't see the problem here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:05 AM
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"Waaa me have it so bad men are privileged 😭" The post
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 11:11 PM
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then there’s something seriously wrong with him like a dogshit personality or he’s a creep. Despite the fact that it has never been valid and personality it's one of, if not the least important (not to be confused that it doesn't matter) factor to influence dating's prospects of most people, nowadays it's even less valid considering that most young women have a negative opinion of men Perhaps personality was not that important 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 07:21 PM
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I don't what that is but if it implies some degree of pleasure for men then yes, how dare those pesky men have something for themselves 😡
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 06:24 PM
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Unironically the people who wants to make things like going overseas to date illegal don't really care about women being exploited. They mostly care about men who will, otherwise not get selected in the west, having a chance to be selected elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 06:20 PM
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Since we're about it might as well ban porn, prostitution, OF, videogames, social media (for men), let men don't have anything at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 06:16 PM
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Yeah the humor is seriously lacking.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:17 PM
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So, it achieves nothing. Nice one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:16 PM
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Post mixing two completely demographics of men together #2155783197
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 01:41 AM
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Iirc there are plenty of subs where those women can hang out and have said deranged takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:35 PM
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Why the need to make it personal? Besides Oh if even those women aren't picking you, maybe....maybe...maybe you're a shitty dude?? Wouldn't say shitty, being not physically attractive enough, not being neurotypical or whatever reason for women to not pick someone aren't a moral failing (which is what "shitty" implies)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:21 PM
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Damn, so many videogames waiting to be played 😡🤜☀️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 06:59 PM
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The summer sales are a godsend amirite
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 06:51 PM
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Only when it fit my worldview you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:16 PM
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Better start improving then, BOY
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:54 PM
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We all love hasty generalizations here!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:52 PM
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Nope I will continue to challenge incels and their spread of hate against women. And that's gonna accomplish? What exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:39 PM
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I'm 26. Are u short ? or are you ugly? Both, now pair that with (very likely) neurodivergent parents. Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:24 PM
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I already made peace with it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:17 PM
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Yes but what I has to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:59 PM
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Sad? Sometimes maybe Wasting my time? Definitely but who doesn't waste their times anyways. NEET? Nah, that's a privilege only a very few can have and a curse for a lot. Fortunately I have a job so I can buy videogames
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:51 PM
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C'mon, post the youtube clip, we all know you want it to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:23 PM
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PPD who use said tactic are likely out of touch with reality and arguing in bad faith. The ironic part is that a lot of said users will likely use the same words in posts like those.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:18 PM
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The post sounds like "You have no sympathy because you don't want to fix my hasty generalizations I made about your gender"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:05 PM
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But one is a circlejerk response, the other is just a post.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:57 AM
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Classic PPD mods only delete those type posts when it's convenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:51 AM
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It seems women are super willing to 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:53 PM
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And your solution is to opress men instead? Both are equally terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 08:07 PM
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"Hey these men want to take our rights away!" Also women Wants the government to remove men's rights by ENFORCING the removal of their body autonomy Which is terrible for our genetics as a species, as the female should be the chooser. Women were always the chooser.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:57 PM
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🤔 One can't get women. The other one can't get Chad to commit to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:45 PM
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It makes a good idea for a videogame of a movie though, the character survives in a world where inkwells are persecuted for not being attractive enough for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:43 PM
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There's no threat, it's mostly irrational fear coming from people who spend too much time on their phones looking at propaganda.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:41 PM
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It’s one of the most popular videos to do on YouTube. Assuming you mean that clip then: A) That guy was not a ™NiceGuy B) Visualizations are largely irrelevant when plenty of people will see the same clip 200 times, they are largely skewed. C) Most people who call him out largely already forgot, more importantly they are not whining about his actions years later. D) He still got plenty of dating prospects after If the only women he seems to know are terrible people who like other terrible people…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:33 PM
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Call out = \ = whine. Most people may call out niceguys (in reality most people don't even care) but don't whine about them, they also don't pull the rhetoric of "Nice guys only want bad girls" like ™NiceGirls do, it's mostly ™NiceGirls adjacent who whine about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:23 PM
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No, I'm using it for people who whine about ™NiceGuys while using the same rhetoric, which are basically ™NiceGirls.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:46 PM
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So, for eternity then.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:39 PM
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™NiceGirls complaining about ™NiceGuys while using the same speeches is hypocrisy yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:27 PM
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™NiceGirl post alert 🚨
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:15 PM
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Truly beautiful women are as rare though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:37 PM
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Only "bald" is not enough to even be remotely close to guess your looksmatch. But most likely no, as women who are bald are less than 1% of the human population (quite literally hormones diff)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 06:20 PM
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A different haircut and she will be able to hide it very easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 06:08 PM
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Is "dumb" a key word for "I don't like the fact that they exist"? Plus most = \ = all I guess we can call everyone who complains about beauty standards dumb, also the ones who do plastic surgery, also a huge sizeable part of the feminism on social media. The thing is that they are certain traits who are broadly considered as attractive, like height.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 05:57 PM
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I mean it's largely based largely on beauty standards so. Unless you want to deny beauty standards as a concept too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 05:43 PM
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What's the difference between saying "Stacy" and saying conventionally attractive women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 05:41 PM
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Good thing they are a very loud minority
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 03:50 PM
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Ah... the tales of neurodivergent people trying to understand the unspoken social rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 03:44 PM
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As long as it works....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 03:41 PM
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TIL women don't cheat, what is that WAW effect salad 🙄 After all is mainly women who are seen as the gender who are happier single and not willing to settle (or "providing) for their looksmatch, not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:44 AM
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That seems like a interesting contradiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 08:24 PM
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And what makes you think DSM is more valid? Despite that the DSM doesn't recognize the overlapping between narcissism, psychopathy, and machiavellianism but it does recognize that those traits do exist Besides the theory was (afaik) never intented to use for diagnosis, to try and understand human behavior = \ = for diagnosis.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 08:22 PM
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Nope as I presented trusted sources made by reputable and well know universities. Asking gemini to make a convincing google answer it's not a source tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 07:09 PM
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I think the connection is rather silly but to answer your question. Is everyone just going to be living alone? It will likely get divided into people having roommates, living alone or living with their parents (pretty much how it is now), with young people increasingly having roommates or living with their parents and decreasingly living alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 07:05 PM
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It's not that hard, most people want to feel better to themselves even in when rejecting people and what other better method to assume that they are bad people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:50 PM
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I want to know how you asked google since if I use "Is dark triad nonsense?" The Dark Triad isn't complete "nonsense," but it's often misunderstood. While it’s a widely studied framework in personality psychology, it is not a clinical diagnostic tool (like the DSM-V). Instead, it serves as a spectrum to measure three specific, overlapping anti-social traits: narcissism, Machiavellianism, and psychopathy If anything is being debated more rather than researchers automatically assuming it's "non se…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:40 PM
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Literally from google? Like? The strawmans you pulled are astonishingly good though. But I would cite my sources sure Introduction to dark triad traits Dark Triads are signs to look out for them Here's another source As you may see, there are plenty of them. Now, where are your sources about dark triad being "made up nonsense"?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:30 PM
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OP was probably talking about dark triad traits, which are not "made up nonsense" The Dark Triad in psychology is a framework consisting of three distinct but overlapping personality traits: narcissism, Machiavellianism, and psychopathy. People who exhibit these traits are defined by a core lack of empathy, emotional coldness, and a willingness to exploit and manipulate others for personal gain
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:20 PM
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Nope, boss from videogames have better rewards, are more challenging and are more rewarding in general 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 05:12 PM
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"Unattractive women are not gonna ask you to pay for dates, it's attractive women who do" Or "Women who do tiktoks hating on ugly men are conventionally attractive" Or my favorite "Ugly women are be progressive and have lower looks standards while conventionally attractive women are conservative and shallow"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 04:08 PM
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Now it's time for women to approach men 😱❓
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:52 PM
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Some female users in this subreddit do be applying ™NiceGirl energy is giving me the ick 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:50 PM
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So you will limit your activity for eternity then Finally, we get some peace
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 02:31 PM
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Notice how you need to resort to below average men disguised as average men because in reality for the average men doesn't apply the "they see average women as failure and they think they deserve stacy" It doesn't even apply to below average men but this subreddit it's not ready for that convo 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 02:22 PM
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Bro, this government agents trying to get unselected men arrested are wild
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 02:17 PM
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Like predicting 9 o'clock at 8:30.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 02:16 PM
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Thats exactly what people are doing. Yeah, that's why we have such depressed young society. And basically plastic surgery isn't a house thing, you are not gonna get plastic surgery in South Korea and live there. If you can save for a surgery then you can save for a house in the slums of South Korea or Turkey. I am talking about causal not long term relationship. If you want sex like that then improve yourself. And long term doesn't have sex or I'm missing something? Any guy can get a long term r…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 02:13 PM
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A unique personality that is likeable goes a long way with all people, but you have to develop it. Well you need a certain component of genetics plus the right uprising to be able to develop one, both which one are outside of one's control. People focus too much on a "formula" instead of, let's call it, touching grass. I agree that focusing too much with it is a problem but OP is straight up denying that it exists which is what I disagree with. So many guys are stuck on that first difficult leve…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 02:09 PM
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So it is ™NiceGirls energy, got it 😁 Besides that why do you need to tell her? Unless y'all are getting married there's no point Uh, so lie to get your what you want, but I thought women didn't like to be lied and led on 🤔 (inb4 "all men lie anyways") Relationships with foundations based of lies will end up in disaster but I guess we don't care since we advice to basically double lie 🙄 You can easily get a cheaper one ( in safe also) countries where the dollar price is valued more ( which is eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 02:03 PM
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You need to stop caring about few women who care then duh Let me guess, the women who care are conventionally attractive while the ones who don't are unattractive. Typical ™NiceGirl energy 🙄 The same logic gets applied though, even after surgery their looksmatch will still choose the naturally more attractive guy if she has the chance, so it's largely pointless. Besides if we consider that a lot of the times below average people have average or below average incomes they will have a pretty hard …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 11:36 AM
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Has very little to do with what I said. Plus is different since, according to women, they do it for themselves, where as men will mostly do it to attract women. Plus men doing plastic surgery is very frowned upon by women (generally) Plus nah, I like myself naturally, ain't changing for no women. Plus most women who do plastic surgery look, huh, not so good.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 11:10 AM
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Which (true) average guys already know how to do, meaning the post is completely worthless
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 12:37 AM
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There’s 1 million just like you she can get a hotter guy who offers the same BS easy. 90% of the time she's gonna choose the hotter guy regardless of what amount of "work" the guys put into courting her (which is mostly done online nowadays). If anything those men fail not because "they don't put the work" but because women are choosing the guys who are hotter than the guys who are their looksmatch. That's just putting the blame on guys for not being good enough for their looksmatch while taking…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 08:05 PM
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I guess you have a source for that claim then Post it!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:58 PM
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We all have women who are intested in us but who we consider them undesirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 06:37 PM
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That sounds like clear communication and we can't have that in the big 2026..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 05:54 PM
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Genetics, formative years. The most important things are ones which are out of one's control, quite brutal tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 03:53 PM
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It is irrelevant if people are gonna extrapolate, generalize, and do anti men social propaganda It is relevant for those few people who don't do those things and offer actual solutions instead of saying "men are the problem"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 03:48 PM
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90% of the time ends up being "men are the problem" instead of "criminals are the problem" That conversation has become irrelevant and not very productive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 03:37 PM
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It is when it's extrapolated onto all men, which is something the media and people online have been doing for the past 20 years. Beliefs like "Until it's no man then it's all men" are irrational. Besides I’m pretty a bunch of dudes here regularly mention the “violent uprising” of incels and the withdrawal of women’s rights in the west as some sort of revenge fantasy. Most people claiming this violent uprising will happen and they should be wary are users from various generations who fall for eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 03:28 PM
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Extrapolating the very extreme cases of the minority men of men commiting those things onto all men is another reason yeah, on pair with the constant media vilifying men using vague terms like "Men commit most of the violence therefore men are the problem" Or how people use ER as a generalization of inc word despite the fact that he was also an extreme case. In any case is still an irrational fear which most people fall because most people are easily manipulated and lack critical thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 03:17 PM
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But socialization (like most things) have a formula, it's just that since most people are neurotypicals it doesn't get talked about it. Be neurotypical = understand the unspoken rules of socialization = succeed. Be neurodivergent = have to learn the unspoken rules of socialization and a component of luck = partially succeed, succeed, or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 02:09 PM
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Well I mean it would clearly contradict the mostly women ideals of them being "happier single", "more sociable than men" and "prefering her friends over having bf's" if the media started showing the stats about women reported pretty similar levels of loneliness, more suicidal attempts or equal degradation of social skills (don't forget about the higher anti depressants consumption and higher average screen time) Besides the media has been on about how all men are dangerous society has form the i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 02:00 PM
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Out of those two it only requires presence, "emotional intelligence" is a pseudoscience invented modern term.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:24 PM
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Did you expectef something else coming from the neurotic PPD female users?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:39 PM
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Ah yes the legendary 5'4 dude who has no problems banging women 😁 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:21 PM
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For women physically unattractive or socially awkward/neurodivergent men are worse than violent or abusive. That's why you have many "nice guys aren't nice" posts and very few (if any) "abusive guys who fake being nice aren't nice" posts
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:59 PM
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Wait, is this another "Nice guys are not nice at all" post? It is 😱 If people talked about toxic and abusive men as much as they do about ™Niceguys it's very likely the number of women falling for the first group of men will reduce drastically, just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:49 PM
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Classic
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 08:42 PM
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Uh, unfortunately I'm not over 10ft to roleplay as a bear 😔 Can't even bearmaxx, brutal stuff bro 😂👉☠️🐻❌
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 08:16 PM
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The ancient switch is called something like "lizard brain" which dominate humans for attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 08:03 PM
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People who rated themselves as more attractive were less willing to pay. Different from stating that unattractive women are more willing to pay, assuming the inverse applies because "why not" is ™NiceGirls mindset 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 07:57 PM
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Still doesn't change that there's 0 evidence about unattractive women being more willing to go dutch, so until then it will keep being ™NiceGirls discourse 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 07:40 PM
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Just become the bear bro!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 07:25 PM
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For once I actually agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 06:50 PM
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"Rated themselves" is not a valid way of measure attractiveness especially given how women perceive themselves and other as 10 most of the time. Even then still doesn't prove the inverse of unattractive women = more willing to pay. It all sounds like ™NiceGirls discourse to me 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 05:57 PM
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It's a (more extreme) form of improving 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 05:21 PM
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Better do the IMPROOOOVING sis. Gotta IMPROOOOVE
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 05:02 PM
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Iirc there are no studies showing that unattractive women are more likely to go dutch compared to attractive women so they are just mere assumptions made.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:59 PM
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Well the other option for them to improve to become desirable enough so the men they want would approach them but according to reddit that's misogynistic and it's all men's fault lol 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:40 PM
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Those women should approach then, we live in modern times 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:34 PM
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This sub doesn't represent the majority of the population of both genders, neither reddit as a whole does. The irony is telling btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:24 PM
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It's pretty ironic how people criticize when men use the "attractive men=bad, ugly men=good" (rightfully so) while simultaneously using the pretty much equal "ugly women=good, attractive women=bad" mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:14 PM
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Vast majority of men pay for dates. So why whine about men who don't want to?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:07 PM
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The ones with traits such as antisocial (different from asocial stop with the convenient misconception), narcissism, sociopath, psychopath, abusive, manipulative, felons, players, you name it. The kind of men some users here think it's men's job as a whole to correct the actions of men with those traits (pure entiltement if you ask me) If those men with said traits can't mask them forever then it's on women to draw the dates long enough to uncover those guys, no excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:08 PM
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Iirc there's no correlation between women having careers, being progressive and going dutch especially given how most women do still expect men to pay for dates. It was you implying that progressive women are less desirable but in the end depends on what kind of progressive women are we talking about, because if it's the men hating extreme feminist ones then bones to pick are A LOT.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:04 PM
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It's a shame really because it's extremely easy to refute her points 😁 Btw If you are that person then there is no way to hide it for a length of time. I guess women have no excuse to fall for bad men if they can't hide it for extended periods of times, just make your dates last longer bro! Skill issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:31 PM
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So progressive women are neither desirable or have plenty of men willing to fund her life 🤔 We all love black & white generalizations here!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:24 PM
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Women are as perfectly happy being single as MGTOW guys, besides idk how much "perfectly happy single" women will be in your scenario if they are pretty much forced to drop out from having relationships because the remaining men are married.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:47 AM
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So it's not psychological then, good.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 11:41 PM
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Is these "women" the same ones who are entilted to men as a whole to fix the actions of other men the preachers of the truth? If yes then that "truth" is very likely just extreme biased takes and likely will be judged as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 08:44 PM
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That's not because of psychology though, probably is more likely because of societal expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 08:27 PM
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Sounds like the standard Monday on PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 07:41 PM
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Since it's human psychology I guess it would have been well researched by now, post some evidence then.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 07:32 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 06:56 PM
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There's actually plenty: almost half women will be childless by 2030, birthrates are below replacement rate in most countries, young women prioritize their careers while most of them are not planning to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 05:07 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:11 PM
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How entilted has the modern women become that now not paying for dates is a sign of a moral failing lol. 8/10 bait
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:03 PM
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Men pay for dates and prove they can support the woman while she is pregnant and raising young children. Quite the leap especially if we consider that most women are not interested in having kids. Women get paid less than men. Not true at all and if it was companies would only hire women which is a massive privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:02 PM
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I mean never claim that those men don't exist but there are far more women with that persecution mindset but sure ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 12:00 AM
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Oh really? Where? Certainly not in this sub, certainly not in most subs either.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:48 PM
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Huh have you tried to be desirable to women? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:22 PM
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First 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:02 PM
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I have seen more women claiming that men want to repeal the 19th that actual men wanting to get rid of the 19th. Persecution complex pretty much, 19th it's not gonna get repealed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:58 PM
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They would have to worry about much more important things if an exctintion event of such magnitude happened, in that case there would be practially no one who don't reproduce, especially women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 12:30 PM
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First 😎 Edit: Moralizing dating was a mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 09:19 PM
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Well public opinion of men have been degraded regardless of those accusations so, maybe they weren't so wrong 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 09:03 PM
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Women in general (even without feminism) have been hating ugly men since the dawn of time yes but what I was talking about was the hate to men as a whole (which also includes ugly men)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:58 PM
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The last 15 years yes modern feminism has been more about despising men rather than women's rights and they have seen to do a pretty good job.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:53 PM
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Tbh I don't think the numbers for older women would be much better either. Besides I think modern feminism and media brainwashing has more to do with current women thoughts rather than "men's thoughts" since women's thoughts have also been present on the internet and young men also grew up with the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:47 PM
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Wut
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:30 PM
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i learned from a very young age that men do not like women Despite that most young men hold a positive opinion of women while for women it's the complete opposite 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:29 PM
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Such entilted attitute, her personality is the problem 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 03:22 PM
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Classic performative ragebaiter (while being bad at it, seriously how is someone bad at ragebaiting?) amirite
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:02 PM
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Young women despite young men in general, not only in the "context of relationships"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 04:57 PM
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Why you haven't already done it then if you are so sure about it? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 04:55 PM
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For all we know he could be the wingman of the other guy and large disparity in looks among male friends are not that rare. Assuming he's only going for those women like the other guy is just that, an assumption. A one made by people who like to conventiently ignore the main reasons why he could be a "struggling male" even within his own "league" Besides the comparison it's not even valid since average women can (for the most part) have casual encounters with men who are above them in looks, nex…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 04:50 PM
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Women in his league are also hypergamous tho
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 04:33 PM
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Honestly one the of the very few things that are truly equal (or very close to it) is the number of geniuely people who are good out there. Meaning that if they are no true good single men thus they are also no true good single women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 01:55 PM
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Since you made a post implying that being a slave is what makes women happy then I guess you are conservative right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 01:50 PM
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💯
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 01:09 PM
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Don't think most men who are single will be willing to be slaves to a stupid/incompetent women, also being stupid/incompetent brings even more liabilities. Besides even the "it works" is arguable, as coming to your house after job and seeing that you have to do all the chores in the house because your partner can't do it sounds miserable, no time to unwind, no time to hobbies. So no, it doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 01:07 PM
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"Just be a modern slave for stupid women bro!"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:59 PM
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Something is missing in the equation 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:44 PM
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True tho, AI will ruin gaming (and everything).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 09:09 PM
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People who come from an echo chamber clash with others who also come from an echo chamber? Paint me suprised 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 08:20 PM
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Seems to be a simple man 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 08:16 PM
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Solution is to not buy AAA games then, nowadays most of them are pretty mediocre anyways 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 08:12 PM
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It will never happen, at least not broadly enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:33 PM
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But you’re going to intentionally hide the fact he’s being a misogynistic jackass, which would actually cause people to talk shit about him. Nope, in fact the first time you posted that clip I pointed that yeah he's an asshole but you (conveniently) stopped responding after that 🤷 Besides even if some scenario people do "hide the fact" that won't stop others from either talking shit to him, not say anything at all or agree with him. Either way hasn't stopped him from getting dates though. For mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:12 PM
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Unfortunately not everyone has the required traits such as antisocial, genetics gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:42 PM
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But people do virgin shame yes, both men and women, justification for doing it depends on the individual though a lot of people will use the "it's just an asshole" argument when a lot of the times the other person is ugly or socially awkard which are not equal to being an asshole. Also yes people do tend to shrug off (more like they just don't care) when others are being assholes to others unless is to them or to anyone who is related to them but I feel like you just want to post that youtube cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:22 PM
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I don't think they can't get those shallow women because those men are not "shallow enough" but this subreddit is not ready for that convo yet 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:07 PM
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"Misogynistic" and "Victim complex" are mere assumption made to moralize dating and conventiently ignore the main reasons as why "unselected men" exists: poor looks and neurodivergency. Besides those guys who obsess with those women could easily argue that those women are the ones who see dating failure as a moral failure and preach good moral and personality values when the actions tell another story. So it's just as valid as your reason to obsess with those guys and you do the same so complain…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:58 PM
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I wonder the same OP: Why does OP obsess over unselected men? More especifically over a certain demographic of unselected men which it's broadly generalized based of a man who has been dead for more than a decade. Guess we'll never know ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:49 PM
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Don't american high school's teach that everyones behaves different based of the current environment they are?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:46 PM
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Quite literally the idea of hobbies is to "waste" (put in on quotes since unwind after your routine it's not time wasted) your time. If someone needs to do their chores while doing their hobbies it's mostly their fault for not setting their priorities right or they are not taking the rightful amount of time into unwind themselves, which is harmful for your mental health 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:31 PM
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Confirmation bias much, there are plenty of men who don't care about others seeing videogames as an "unattractive" hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:15 AM
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We're not that far from a society full of self serving and selfish people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:31 PM
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After seeing those comments posting those links which stated that more than half women see that dating has gotten worse. Could you really claim that dating has got any better? If anything it become slightly better for women compared to pre social media era. I mean yes women now have even higher access to near or in the top 20% men but most of them are not good enough to secure commitment from them, thus leading to the general thinking of dating becoming worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 05:28 PM
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Tbf I don't know if the ban for blocking other users is perma until they unblock those users or is a standard 3 day ban. In any cases yeah that user probably didn't won either, both of you lost, I win 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:08 PM
1

I only see someone proyecting themselves onto all men, guess who it is? 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:05 PM
3

So you admit to do the post under WAW effect, good.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:46 PM
2

Seems like you lost 😛
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:20 PM
4

WAW effect, the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:19 PM
4

The infantilization of women who consent to act in the porn industry does the same (if not more) damage to women that the damage the industry is claimed to do. I guess you have the same sentiment over big companies such as Apple who do shady practices over whole country population numbers of men and women too right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:05 PM
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Assuming that all of women who actually consent to it in the industry are not consenting to it is undermining women's agency you know that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:55 PM
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Is kinda of a huh, special media, some could be acting, some are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:53 PM
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And as I see you are pulling the same contradictions, some things never change huh ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:44 PM
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This applies in the inverse. How you know they are acting?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:42 PM
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A lot of people do jobs they don't enjoy because they need money, world is unfair. Tbh I don't know how much illegal trafficking has been done by the big companies ruling the porn industry, probably some very shady russian porn site has done it, maybe big companies too but big companies tend to do those very shady things even outside of the porn industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:41 PM
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This post is repeated from a while ago, and I bet it was for the same user as well. You can't fool me, boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:29 PM
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How dare undesirable men get to look at naked women or have attractive fictional female characters in their videogames 😡
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:24 PM
1

How so? Most women in the industry do it because they consent to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:22 PM
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A lot of porn nowadays is made by real couples so I doubt they are acting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:20 PM
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I hope someday women on this subreddit understand than biology differences between genders are not privileges
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:10 AM
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It's quite the stretch to claim such thing, besides how it can be a "lie" if according to you they won't be selected anyways 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:00 PM
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Yet another another one 😁 Besides I don't how much of a flex is that "they already prove they are desirable enough to reproduce" when throught most of the human's history most women have reproduced while most men didn't but ok ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:14 PM
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I mean you can maintain a healthy lifestyle while sometimes eat a burger and drink beer
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 08:54 PM
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The main purpose is to divide the genders because a divided population is easier to manipulate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 07:45 PM
1

Interesting how being healthy and having a healthy lifestyle has been reduced to diminituve terms such as "thinness" 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 07:37 PM
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Porn industry is one of those "too big to fail" industries and has probably enough power to severly limit how much can AI generated porn can go. Porn industry is not gonna die any time soon, at least in the near future.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 07:31 PM
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Great, another strawman 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 07:13 PM
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It's not a lie though. I use most of the time evidence, this time is not one of them since I was arguing the validity of using tiktok as "evidence". Especially if hasty generalizations comes as the sole conclusion of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 06:13 PM
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You seem to do since you A) Pulled a legendary strawman and B) You responded to my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 06:10 PM
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But it is, in fact it's so strong that women find men who are married or "taken" significantly more attractive than single men The effect seems to be the inverse for men whatever, as men tend to find less attractive women who are married or "taken" compared to single women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 05:42 PM
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Bruh 🤣 It's not like discord needs some engineer degree to use it like go and watch a youtube short or something
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 05:35 PM
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I don't think most guys shame women who work OF or porn. They just won't date someone who does those things. Most of the time it also applies to single mothers, but for some reason it seems that not wanting to date someone = shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 05:30 PM
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I will put in simple words so you can (hopefully) understand: Not The Same Demographics Of Men/Women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:30 PM
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Pre selection is a very strong evolutive trait isn't it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:48 PM
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Yes, bullies tend to have more mating success compared to non bullies or person who were bullied Whether of the causes of this is up to individual's conclusion but just to be clear about it, the just world fallacy where bullies get the "karma" later in life for their actions it's not true at all, well for most cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:51 PM
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Why? You already denied most of them anyways ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:43 PM
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I use mainly studies as evidence, so very little vagueness there. Tiktok is not evidence, that's why I put out on quotes with a 🫢 emoji.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:43 PM
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Tiktok = "Evidence" 🫢
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:39 PM
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Some people on this sub are obsessed with making equivalents out of everything when simply there isn't one. Seems they rarely go outside then 🤷 As if you actually go outside you will see these mostly "ugly women who have no options and are desperate" coupled up with men and in some cases even with soft looksmaxxed men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:27 PM
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There are multiple differences actually: one is probably neurotypical, naturally extroverted, naturally charismatic and probably have some conventional attractive traits such as tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 05:48 PM
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Corinna Kopf but iirc she's not an OF model anymore. But like that other user commented, the "average but attainable" looking is what mostly sells.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 05:43 PM
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Thanks for the insight captain obivous.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 04:13 PM
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Hasty generalizations, the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:54 PM
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🤔 May I advice therapy for OOP.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:51 PM
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Bro is about to get 😁👉◼️💊
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:29 AM
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Primero
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:17 PM
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No, but since you wanted evidence for the claim that ugly women tend to have more partners than other women now I want your evidence to sustian the claim that ugly women are more likely to be singe and desperate (which is also something similar you claimed in another comment), pronto!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:36 PM
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So yes, you (collectively) have the responsibility to negate that feeling. Sounds pretty entilted. Who else could even do that? The law, which is enforced to unsure that people live in a safer environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:33 PM
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🤔 And where is your evidence to claim that ugly women are more likely to be single and desperate for validation and relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:27 PM
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I wonder what the next excuse to deny the evidence will be this time 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:17 PM
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Clearly they do, just not the type of bullshit most people put up with. Or currently they are being manipulated, I guess we'll never know ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:00 PM
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You should also have included that ugly women tend to have more partners and sex than average or attractive women so arguably is even harder to date ugly women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:47 PM
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Past 67
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:39 PM
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Ironic how people that claim that ugly men can be just as bad people as other men (which is true) also tend to be the ones to assume that somehow ugly women are less shallow or that can't be as bad people as other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:35 PM
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Those will be the first ones to complain about gender roles being imposed to them btw
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:31 PM
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I actually have people around me tell me how awesome the person I am. And I’ve been more considerate of people‘s feelings now that I’ve ever been before. Yeah people who are around someone will tend to like that someone because they are like them, that doesn't mean any of them are good people. Most people already acknowledge this, it's pretty much common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:20 PM
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I mean, low effort post copied from another low effort post so they kinda neutralize each other ¯⁠\⁠⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠⁠/⁠¯
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:14 PM
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-OP strawmanning in the replies ✅ -Repeated post theme while bashing the same demographics of men ✅ -Posting the same youtube clip ✅ -The same user ✅ -Arguing against redpill while simultaneously using the same talking points ✅
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:48 PM
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It has always been the best way to succeed, even more now that money it's really a concern for most women anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:45 PM
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Women (in the west) have virtually no reason to make an uprising let alone a violent one (and no, not having kids is not an uprising)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:40 PM
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Most women find men who think they are alphas repulsive. True but traits that are perceived as feminine like the ones I described are mostly considered unattractive by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:52 PM
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So you want men to change to make themselves appealing to you despite being in the minority, sounds a bit huh, entilted.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:36 AM
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Most women who find those traits unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:30 AM
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Thanks I love myself too
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:29 AM
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Submissive and obedient are an ick to most women so why men should learn that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:26 AM
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But I will get a first date with your mom instead 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:11 PM
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I admire your mom. Any more questions?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:04 PM
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On average latin women are near the same height as american women and the height thing is similar as well with the difference that instead of 6" is 180 cm (which 5'10ish). Overall at 5'4 as a male yeah it's extremely hard and that's assuming he's neurotypical because if not then it's pretty much over.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:46 PM
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By realizing that the reason you will be single for life are for things outside of one's control but tbf some people may have an easier time digesting the idea than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:29 PM
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It never changes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:10 PM
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Babe wake up, the usual daily PPD rage bait repeated post is up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:34 PM
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I know you did but I like the quote.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:29 PM
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Most women do have brutal standards, I guess submissive is perceived as a feminine trait therefore women who are submissive are more feminine?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:17 PM
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Most women are not having kids so the "baby" argument is not valid anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:08 PM
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Privileges are invisible for those who have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 12:57 PM
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It's not a replacement but it's the closest LVM could probably get to a romantic connection. For some it will improve, for others it won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:36 AM
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Nah, that would create more problems than the ones it will try to solve. Stop attributing moral values with dating success seems something more feaseable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:34 AM
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Rejections are negative experiences, therefore they count, as negative ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:03 AM
2

What does "actual" means?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:44 AM
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Me neither ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:22 AM
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Challenges currently? None as I simply don't try to date anymore. Experiences lived? 100% rejection rate, so negative?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 12:13 AM
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Did you expected something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 11:37 PM
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This subreddit is peak neurodivergency and neuroticism, from both genders (though women are "winning" the battle)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 09:46 PM
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Because it's not Chad asking for sex it's those disgusting average and ugly men tehee 🥰🥰 (It's just a joke alright)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:35 PM
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It makes for a perfect AITA story given how fake it sounds, not even AI can do such art. 10/10 😎👉🏅
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:17 PM
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🤔 Maybe they should do something about their shitty lives then. I bet a lot of them are more miserable than the people they whine so much about.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 07:56 PM
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Damn
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 05:31 PM
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Well not exactly for repetitive posts, it was for witch hunting iirc. But a perma? Yeah not happening and you know it 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 03:54 PM
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And got banned for it btw
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 03:50 PM
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Ironic isn't it 😹
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 03:09 PM
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It should, granted the moderators are actually serious and competent.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 12:47 PM
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"Some women will do it but those messaging those guys are actually not women" So those "plenty of women" are real or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 02:22 AM
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Appearance, behavior and sociability.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 11:42 PM
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What this post has to do with dating or romantic relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 11:41 PM
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First time here?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 11:39 PM
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It was the other user who commented first and edited the comment 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 08:20 PM
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Ah this is the new arc of "men should just pay for sex" Kinda meh, 5/10
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 08:12 PM
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Like I said before, if women would post about abusers and cheaters as much as they do post about nice guys they would reduce the number of women falling for those guys significantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 08:11 PM
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Tbh struggling as a gay men is an even bigger skill issue than struggling as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 06:49 PM
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A bit sussy 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 05:46 PM
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Second
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 05:17 PM
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Barren the clear ragebait. The guy dodged a bullet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 05:09 PM
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See? You should learn one thing or two about how to make a good ragebait
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 05:07 PM
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Ah yes the classic going from "we women do this" to "not all women obviously" 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 02:54 PM
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There quite a lot of experiments made with attractive guy's pic with a criminal record getting large amount dates therefore the "women left swipe on bad men" is already not true You overestimate how much women will overlook a guy's red flag (for ex being a jerk) if she found him attractive, which it's also something that a lot of men also do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 02:35 PM
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Are we talking about how they value those things or they put those things above looks or neurotypicallity? Besides idk think watching 🌽 is a moral value, most men watch it, most women do it and yet most people are in relationships. And regarding the "depth" part, most people are not that deep, why that would be important for most people?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 12:56 PM
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Half baked bait, good enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 02:22 AM
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The funniest part is that most of them are either bi or gay so they make dating harder for themselves for no reason 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:11 PM
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Of course Monday can't really be a true Monday without it's daily bait post
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 07:57 PM
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"Boring" being a negative/positive quality is subjective, objectively is a neutral trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:27 PM
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Well that was I said a number higher than 5% 🤷 I think 10% seems realistic for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:18 PM
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But you need to get dates and relationships to be it "easier" though. Most women already get that by default and the vetting process is pretty much entirely up to her skills to do it (and don't forget that men also need to do some vetting too).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:16 PM
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I always thought that 20% was too optimistic, what about 10%? Maybe 8%? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:28 PM
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Inside their own delulu minds maybe, reality shows another picture though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:11 PM
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Women deny it because like you said it's actually less than 20%, we need a bit more of accuracy 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:07 PM
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We should also ban the "women are oppressed" too since in most devoped and in development countries womens are not being oppressed 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:50 AM
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Nothing would change if by instead of Chad they say conventionally attractive men, literally the same but shorter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:48 AM
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It's another low effort rage bait attempt.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:29 AM
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When the rule to repetivite posts with the same idea written differently? When the rule to disingenuous bad faith arguments?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:53 PM
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I will take things that had never happened for $500.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 09:26 PM
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"Men also chase the top % of women" is largely irrelevant when a lot of women self perceive themselves as above average and another lot self perceive themselves as said top %
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 08:18 PM
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Where? I never saw a post about females complaining about cheaters or abusers that was not female entiltement to get cheaters and abused problem fixed by other men 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:59 PM
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Oh, so y'all post about nice guys because you want the engagement out of it, y'all don't actually care about cheaters or abusers 🤔 Classic
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:53 PM
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If females would post about abusers and cheaters with the same enthusiasm they post about ™Niceguys the numbers of females falling for those first group of males would likely been reduced. Just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:19 PM
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I can only imagine if most of those people who are neurotypical are saying this about dating then how much worse do neurodivergents have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 05:24 PM
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The classic PPD saturday.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 02:43 PM
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How much cursed? YES
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 02:24 PM
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300 IQ btw
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 12:20 AM
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They don't have the power to do it and even if they had it I doubt they will do it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 07:08 PM
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Nice strawman besides I was refering to the articles no you 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:37 PM
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Clearly doesn't seem like it by the way the write about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:51 PM
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Mental health intervention because a lot of men are getting AI gf's?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:44 PM
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I swear if I see that short one more time ✊😤
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:30 PM
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Or someone who clearly has some sort of mental condition.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:19 AM
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You can find those too!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 10:21 PM
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You are falling for both confirmation and survivorship bias, nothing more to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:28 PM
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But most aren’t doing it consistently Proof of this? (Saying that "Oh well if they did most of them wouldn't be single" is not valid)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:01 PM
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Is 45% but regardless, most men still do ask out women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 08:56 PM
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There would always be both, out and within your control, whether the ones are within can outweight the ones that are out of your control is another story. In my case the ones that are out of my control outweight the ones that are within.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 08:44 PM
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Emotional reciprocity and being able to wash their own ass and many cant even hit that, rhe bar is in hell. There are enough experiences from women to tell that in general "just wipe your own ass" and "the bar is in hell" are mostly not true and is more likely a disingenuous argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 08:38 PM
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Not developing social skills is virtually impossible and most men do in fact ask women out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 08:35 PM
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The stats do show that most young women have a negative opinion of men while it's the opposite for men but I agree with you let them figure it out 🤫
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:57 PM
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Damn, me too 😁👉👴
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:43 PM
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Bruh 😐 Again, you overestimate how much those guy who go overseas go for extremely poor women in third world countries, the most common examples like Colombia or The Pillipines are in development countries Women who are not poor (according to the countries standards) will still likely to choose men who go overseas given that in general they are considered more attractive than the average local men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:55 PM
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Even in third world countries looks are the most important aspect, a guy who not local and below average in the US (which mostly converts him in above average in those countries) with money will still do better than a guy who is local, has money and is below average. You overestimate how much guys who go overseas will go for isolated villages or go to extremely poor countries to find women, those are only like extremely unattractive men with women, bottom of the barrel basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:36 PM
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Which I already stated Even if you take the power and money away he's still likely to do better than local men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:20 PM
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He's more attractive than other men around him, that's the difference. Even if you take the power and money away he's still likely to do better than local men, the "women prefer local men" is silly. I would put examples but it's not allowed on this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 05:53 PM
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He's better than the competition he has around him, yes nothing looks wise has changed but his location has. She likes her own men better, but they are just as impoverished as her. Yeah people like to believe how things should play out when in reality they play in another completely different way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 05:02 PM
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Repeating comments again I see 😺 My personal standpoint is irrelevant since as you can see by my previous comments, I prove that it works using your own scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 04:33 PM
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Suuuuure 😁 Still couldn't disprove that it doesn't work tho, sad 😺
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 04:13 PM
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Then redpill should be called manwhore pill Then redpill should be called manwhore pill instead as it's a misrepresentation "Copy my homework but don't make it obvious" 😺
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 04:10 PM
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There some studies made about the impact of just world fallacy on human's mental well being you should check them out, very interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 04:08 PM
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Irrelevant what it should be called and since you copy pasted from another comment you made I will assume you already conceded (that was easy) 😐👉0/10
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 04:04 PM
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Getting a gf and keeping them proves it works. Not just continual multidating forever. Doesn't work according to you, if the guy doing it wants casual multidating then it works for him Besides, the guy could also get a gf that's ok with him multidating and keep her, so it keeps working 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:58 PM
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It does though, mind you, according to your own hypothetical scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:55 PM
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Are these "not delusional" people here in the room with us? Are they mind readers? Why are they generalizing?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:53 PM
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But it works, the guy applies those red pill tactics and is now dating multiple women 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:49 PM
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Claimed by who?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:48 PM
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Skeptical for two consenting adults?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:45 PM
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Saw some of it on another subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:35 PM
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A below average man in the US is average or above average in Cambodia. So yeah chances she's interested in him are very high.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:30 PM
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They can keep whining about no (conventionally attractive) men wants them, but in peace this time 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:16 PM
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Ironic, most young women hold a negative opinion of men but it's men who have to change to fullfill a mostly never ending demand list which I bet most women don't even meet if said men also demanded a mostly never ending list, no wonder why over 45% of young gen z had never approached women 😁 The change we need to see is that 45% number rise to a 80% or something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:34 PM
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Still pretty high.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:56 PM
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You asked her out instead of just being friends with her That's not an issue, if a man sees a woman he's romantically attracted to he's gonna ask her out, if other man doesn't then they would be friends with her, as simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:07 PM
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It does, choices are either date men or be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:02 PM
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A man is attracted to women: presents himself and ask her out Woman: reject him Man: Walks away Woman: Why men can't be friends with me Sounds like women believe that are entilted to friendships 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:00 PM
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Not related, being sociable is the step you are talking about, not having female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:43 PM
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Point still stands though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:31 PM
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Even then they still have the choice: stop dating men and embrace being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:46 PM
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They have a choice, multiple of them in fact: date those men, date men who don't do it or remain single, if they choose the first therefore they like it, very simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:16 PM
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All men are assholes but women seem to love assholes, they got what they wanted, why complain then? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 02:29 PM
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Your sources provide the evidence that most men will eventually get into relationships and have sex not that they don't stuggle at dating. Both things can be true, most men can get into relationships and have sex and on average mem struggle more than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 02:25 PM
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Well, the study also proves that women love to be coerced into sex since a staggering 95% of guys have done it at least once in their lives therefore it pretty much implies a 95% of success rate ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:25 PM
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At least you admitted that feminism is mostly now about indeed how bad men are. Tbf seeing how most young women have a negative opinion of men nowadays I would say they did a pretty good job but sure blame men for the gender war thingy ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:27 AM
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"Gender war" started the moment feminism main focus stopped being about women's rights and start being about how bad men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:04 AM
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First problem here is people telling others what they should be doing with their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:30 PM
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Bro is failing on easy mode
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 03:43 PM
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One could say we already have something like that: it's called gender wars.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:30 PM
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Consider how most women nowadays hold a negative opinion of men yes they will probably
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:13 AM
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If they refuse to take them would they really have it in the first place? Out of sight out of mind. Besides if the "options" don't want them it's meaningless to claim they have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 08:45 PM
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I still fail to see the connection between an isolated guy's actions and the dating prospects (or lack of them) for the entire men's part of the subreddit. It's not even "You have no option because you're an asshole" anymore now is something like "If you didn't had any options you would think that guy was an asshole" Are you implying that men in this subreddit would have options if they were assholes 🤔? Weird I thought most women didn't liked assholes, I guess not true then 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 07:24 PM
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Eastern European countries are the least tourist destination for arguably the majority of people who will travel to Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:03 PM
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It sounds more of like an extroverted/socially anxious thing rather than a gender thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:52 PM
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Unless you travel to India or some other third world country then yes. But to places like Europe, US or some parts of Asia, then no.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:48 PM
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Most guys here don’t even think what he did was stupid. If guys actually had little no options, they would think he’s the dumbest motherfucker ever. But guys hwre don’t, so clearly having little to no dating options isnt a problem to guys. All of these makes so very little sense that honestly I don't even know how to answer to it. You are basically using that guy from the clip as a whole baseline of everyone in this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:26 PM
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So men here do not think having less dating options is a problem. Who said that? He ce, women do not understand what you guys are complaining about. Apart from the fact that I don't understand what are you trying to imply with the "He ce" Who's complaining? If anyting the thing that a lot of men are "complaining about" is that they don't have options, at all. Trying to use examples of guys who have options and are seemingly assholes to try and claim "You have less options because you are an assh…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:14 PM
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Would you want women to be with men who decided to "aim low?" No, as it will end as badly as with women settling with man they are not attracted to. A recipe for disaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:02 PM
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That guy not only didn't fuck his dating prospects for shit, he doesn't represent men as a whole. You miss that part.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:58 PM
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No, the 100 posts you made about friendships being basically the same as relationships and weirding out of why non asexual/aromantic people chase romantic relationships did it for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:57 PM
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Better alone than in bad company.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:45 PM
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And I will keep repeating this: That guy at the end still had plenty of options Also that show is the same one with the clip where all the women popped their ballon when a short guy entered only to ask for their ballons again once the guy starting talking about himself That guy not only didn't fuck his dating prospects for shit, he doesn't represent men as a whole
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:42 PM
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Most women Im friends with arent chadsexual and I doubt Im that special. You're self proclaimed asexual and aromantic, yes you are special , asexual and aromantic people count for a very minority of the population. Also it's very likely your friends are also aromantic and asexual. If true then it's irrelevant since they are not chasing relationships or actively dating, if not then it falls under the women who are not chadsexual so still doesn't make what that user said wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:39 PM
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Ah yes the classic "men have options they just refuse to date them" 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:31 PM
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Just don't be autistic and ugly, duh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:29 PM
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Ah so it's either they tell you or you assume it, so a lose-lose scenario, great.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:21 PM
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It's either one of the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 03:20 PM
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And how can you know that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 03:18 PM
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No experience or only negative experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 03:11 PM
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It's funny or it's sad? I think it's both sad and pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 03:07 PM
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I wouldn't say they "hate" men but most of them holds negative opinion about men but the line between negative opinion and hate is very thin.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:39 PM
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Most people are average but nowadays average is something that's broadly perceived as bad thanks to social media. So most women don't want to be reminded that they are average just as ugly women don't want to be reminded that they are ugly when ugly men approach them thus the negative opinions on the average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:37 PM
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Water is wet huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 01:49 PM
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It only proves the truth even further so.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 01:10 PM
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You're they shouldn't hear women until they decide clarify the "what we want in men" which is a morse code for "what we want in men we're already attracted to"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 12:41 AM
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A lot of women will say one thing and do the complete opposite, also a lot things what claim women want in men in 90% of the cases skip the part that is for the men they are already attract to If listening to women actually worked then men will listen to women 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:57 PM
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It's irrelevant, the question was not about the quality of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:50 PM
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Is a compliment actually, very few people actually can successfully rage bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 02:37 PM
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Bro even I can see is ragebait and I didn't make ragebait my entire personality. Do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 04:28 PM
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It has remained pretty consistent among blue pillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 04:21 PM
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Bro that tik tok is clearly satire like
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 04:18 PM
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Cool story bro but that has nothing to do with what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 04:16 PM
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Bluepill has become kinda interesting the recent years: we went from "Personality is all that matters" to "Looks are also important but personality is still the most important aspect" to "Unless you are deformed then looks are not important"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:29 PM
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Not what he said. Using strawman this early?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:25 PM
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Forget about it, to modern women men are privileged because they only perceive the top 1% of men as men. Which is ironic considering that is the top 1% of men who give women all the benefits to do better than men on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:20 PM
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Society is ableist, nothing new.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 02:21 PM
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Are those "birthing person" here in the room with us?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:08 PM
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What in the LARPer 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:55 PM
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Because it's kind of wild to believe that you unironically think that most married men as of right now could be the soil-earner of their household without the family falling into the situation I brought up in my first comment. Great, it's yet another strawman 😬 No one was talking about married men other than you. And this is without me even questioning why do you believe that most women would want to become a dependant... Well, traditional people are more likely to be married than non traditiona…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:31 PM
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[Citation needed]
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:02 PM
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The interesting part about it is "that means" is your mere interpretation of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:01 PM
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Excellent strawman, 10/10 👌 Unfortunately it's not the "outdated beliefs" I was talking about but more about that mostly women do seek a man who can be a provider economically (which requires for him to earn more than her as well) along side other things
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 05:54 PM
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Bruh but it's mainly women who cling onto those "outdated beliefs" like....
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 05:31 PM
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Dos (2)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 05:13 PM
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It doesn't need to be in the casual sex aspect, you see, there are plenty of women who dehumanize men who are either not attractive to them or to men that are unable to attract any women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 05:04 PM
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Time to step up and put more effort then 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:50 PM
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Brutal oofydoofy pill ☠️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:21 PM
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I assume this also applies to women who chase casual sex which by it's core implies that only sexual value matters 🤔 Therefore women also dehumanize men 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:14 PM
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Lucky for most people personality is something important when choosing a partner, you just got unlucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 09:08 PM
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Straight and biological women can do that sure and it holds relevancy. Non straight and non biological women can also do that but their opinions are irrelevant since they don't take part of straight dating dynamics, no one is saying they can't, but as they don't meet those two criterias then their opinions are irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:53 PM
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Except the one who tries to make that claim is deaf and blind, therefore it's opinion is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:42 PM
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