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If the roles were reversed, the camp would be sued for millions. Never had that experience tbh, people were pretty chill with male teachers supervising. Obviously they didn't have their eyes stuck on us, but it was pretty common in sports clubs, at least from my own experience. It was always female teachers with girls and male teachers with boys, even if we did just know them by sight So I'm not sure if I can see the hypocrisy there. They just think this person isn't a man, hence the outrage. Th…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/09/24 02:21 AM
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I have to object to your use of the term « incel » If you want to call out misogyny, you shouldn't need to tie it with some sexual activity or the amount of affection someone can get. I know that you only used it because it's unfortunately a popular term, but that doesn't make it more appropriate especially when you're trying to talk against broad generalizations.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/09/24 02:10 AM
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Thanks a bunch, if it gets oriented politically then I greatly appreciate your approach👍
/r/MensRights31/08/24 03:41 PM
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Damn, literally just saying that your rape is ... less important somehow ? Sorry you had to deal with people like that. Even tho I haven't met such situations (and I'm lucky for that), I can still see some occurrences of the empathy gap, but it's just crazy how much it widens when you're facing shit that's THIS tough. It's literally as if you couldn't experience trauma, or that you could fix it by yourself therefore you shouldn't need help ... Idk, that genuinely irritates me how someone could b…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/08/24 01:18 AM
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You're missing the point. We know that, that's still not an answer.
/r/MensRights31/08/24 12:03 AM
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Have any data to share ? I could use a fun read
/r/MensRights31/08/24 12:01 AM
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We're literally talking about « same crime same background » and you're trying to say « more violent and gruesome crimes ». Also huge doubt that it's « beauty privilege », as women still make up for between 35 to 40% of the judges, so even if you're attempt at saying that « women judges would be more fair » was true, it still wouldn't be an excuse lol
/r/MensRights31/08/24 12:01 AM
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That's actually something I've never thought about it, so kudos to you for bringing awareness to new subjects even in our own circles ! I knew that therapy and overall « psychological health » was more tailored to women, I mention that because that's made me remember it as it's probably the thing that looked like it the most ... But it's also true that those concepts of « narcisistic pervert », psychopaths and sociopaths are really made to point « flaws » with men Rightfully so tho, when someone…
/r/MensRights30/08/24 12:47 PM
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The comments are actually wild
/r/MensRights30/08/24 10:07 AM
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I don't think that because Israel could claim that they are combatants (and it's not like they weren't already), then this would make it the next best thing to do. I still think it's absolutely wrong. At first I thought I could get the logic but actually...not really I mean, if it really was about shedding a light on civilian casualties, why then put aside a portion of them ? Thing is, we know it's to stir up empathy 🤷‍♂️, I think you're trying to see good faith on something that lacks any
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/08/24 10:01 AM
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but rather to shed a light on civilian casualties. Then why not use the word « civilian » ? The issue is that any man is counted as a combatant. I don't know if it's true or not (that they are combatants). I don't have much doubt that men there are more likely to fight, especially when they don't have anything to lose. The issue resides in the fact that men are immediately counted as combatants OR that even if they wear casual clothes, were buried under the rubble of their home, weren't holding …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/08/24 05:05 PM
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To play devils advocate, women and children are more vulnerable than men on average. Even then, there's doubt to have in this claim. Boys are conditioned to fight when they have nothing to lose, that's not just true for Gaza but for anywhere else. I also don't see how men are supposed to be less vulnerable to air strikes
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/08/24 04:55 PM
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That's why men are immediately counted as « combatants », sadly it's also true for young teenagers Most of them have nothing to lose, so even if it's true they were combatants, that doesn't make it any less important
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/08/24 04:52 PM
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Keanu Reeves, Bruce Lee, I like Ryan Gosling too
/r/MensRights29/08/24 04:16 PM
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Lots of answers to her first answer but also too many likes to my taste. Can you share the answer of the guy ? We can see he answered in the 2nd screen
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/08/24 01:52 AM
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The dude is literally saying that this is going to end up bad, and somehow still says that « it's possible » .... for some reason ??? Dude just KNOWS there's no reason it's going to end up « well », it's sick, he's just trying to convince himself he's not twisted
/r/MensRights26/08/24 11:44 PM
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There's a war, one which the Palestinians started with a brutal massacre Starting a war by deliberately targeting and massacring Israeli civilians doesn't put you in a great position to complain when your own civilians, not targeted, suffer. Lmao so I guess it's not almost a century-old conflict, it all started less than a year ago. Palestinian's cynical decisions to build schools and hospitals over military bases Pretty much everyone knows that this is an absolute lie. That was never true. So y…
/r/MensRights26/08/24 07:25 PM
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Pretty crazy that posts talking about state terrorism are getting downvoted. Can't say I'm surprised tho, it's a contentious topic and there are places where saying such things isn't well regarded.
/r/MensRights26/08/24 06:53 PM
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Yeah that makes perfect sense, you seem to understand what you've been through and that's a great show of maturity on your part. Makes me confident that you're not going to let that ruin the rest of your life. Hopefully someday it'll be different for people like you who have been through such situations. My guess is that people who are going to be parents in the next generations will already be a bit more aware and might help prevent some similar situations from happening. That's at least what w…
/r/MensRights24/08/24 01:24 AM
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Glad you're doing much better now. Sorry I don't really know what to add, I don't know how it feels to be in your shoes and I'm sad you had to go through all that, that shit sucks. I was a bit surprised to read that you first asked for forgiveness, but it actually makes sense, especially when literally everyone tells you that you are guilty. Wish you luck for what's next. Cheers.
/r/MensRights24/08/24 12:49 AM
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« flip it and the joke doesn't make sense anymore » I wonder what did he think the joke was to begin with
/r/MensRights24/08/24 12:22 AM
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Yeah, those « general » subreddits are garbage anyway Just focus on your own interests and then it becomes a nice place. Tired of dealing with anyone else's shit
/r/MensRights21/08/24 05:40 PM
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That's for sure, especially on Reddit But I still think it's something that we should try. Maybe on Wikipedia they could be more prone to value some « academic precision », because it's clear that this person does not have any and doesn't care about being truthful. Maybe that will not change anything, most likely won't, but I'd rather try than not I made a Wikipedia account, tried to talk about it because it's pretty ridiculous. And yeah the discussion is insane, it's going on since at least 202…
/r/MensRights21/08/24 05:34 PM
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That's just nuts how this guy is so serious about his thing. That should be locked and reviewed by an admin. Anyone reading through this could see the bias seeping through the words
/r/MensRights21/08/24 02:03 AM
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From my observation. You're just not listening then. So many times, I see people coming here, saying that « but it's other men » and always, it's the same answer : it doesn't fucking matter. It's a never ending cycle. And then when we say that it doesn't matter then it's just that we hate women lol Honestly I've seen this repeating so many times about these spaces, lurking here I was expecting so much worse. It's not « stating a fact » that is misandrist, it's how and when you're presenting that…
/r/MensRights21/08/24 01:33 AM
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That's exactly what I meant. I can see that it is contentious, but I genuinely don't understand why. I've always felt weird about some people jumping to the conclusion that some ethnicities should therefore be almost exclusively on some part of the political spectrum. Idk about the US but I know it's definitely there in France, black or Arab people just .... can't be right wing. And as much as I disagree with them, I feel that it's really dehumanizing to think that because you're an Arab or a bl…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/08/24 12:53 PM
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Probably, I don't know that person, I was talking about people I know personally.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/08/24 04:10 AM
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feminism without misandry doesn't exist They're right. Talking about the feminism we've always had. Maybe it's possible in theory ? Idk, but right now, it really was never « not misandrist »
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/08/24 03:24 AM
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LGBT+ status isn't a choice, they are sexualities and genders. Kinda is. It's a movement. Plenty of people who are gay/queer and don't recognize themselves as lgbt for many reasons, not to me to discuss why tho.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/08/24 03:22 AM
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Patriarchy isn't a thing, that's about it. It's supposed to be a system that benefits men to the detriment of women, and that's bollocks. Go outside and you'll see everyday that men and women complement each other in everyday relationships. If we were so much advantaged, then men wouldn't work the worst, least paid, most dangerous jobs, they wouldn't be disadvantaged in the job market, wouldn't fall so hard in school at every level, wouldn't be the main target of physical violence, so on and so …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/08/24 03:13 AM
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Maybe, but I still have no clue what they mean by that. If they think it's harmful or something, then maybe you should talk to them with empathy instead of making fun of them. People are used to being called bigots or whatever, truth is that there are so few people actually talking and giving answers to men. Who could have thought that making fun about them wouldn't be an answer lmao, it's no wake-up call. They're just interested in being validated by their peers, not to truly help others.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/08/24 03:48 PM
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Yeah they talk like a bunch of bots, nothing new really Nothing new under the sun. They're always talking without any empathy for lonely men. They talk as if there was no « loneliness epidemic », yeah sure it's always that's been completely made-up apparently. I do agree that men should also be taught how to deal with it, you can't really blame others for what happens in your life, that's not going to make things better. But considering some of the words that they've chosen and even given the an…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/08/24 03:41 PM
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It's especially pretty hypocritical Those who tend to use that insult, will say that people shouldn't base value on people based on the sex they get .... while insulting those who don't get any. Make it make sense ffs So now they'll say that incel just means misogynist .... but words still have meaning, there's a reason why they use incel instead of misogynist lol So they can say whatever they want, acts speak louder, and when you look at what words they chose to speak with, you can easily tell …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/08/24 03:13 PM
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You can't spit in the hand that feeds you 😶‍🌫️
/r/MensRights18/08/24 03:09 PM
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Why would you even lose your time there lol Also the « dangerous jobs are boys clubs, and women won't even get there because of the misogyny » Yeah, sure lmao. They live in such a different world. Now it's ultra masculine/sexist to understand that dangerous jobs are those where you are most likely to get sick, if not worse. « But there's a lot of women who work hard jobs » no one says otherwise tbh ... They just will not acknowledge what men are doing for society. Nothing will make them change t…
/r/MensRights18/08/24 03:15 AM
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If that's true then I'm relived. Would be nuts to have most people shitting on the guy for thinking about that stuff Some of the comments have absolutely no sympathy towards him, that's crazy. He's thinking about it 4 years later, that means it meant something to him and they just don't care. So if most people weren't like that, that's good
/r/MensRights18/08/24 02:53 AM
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Haha fr fr People getting on Maury show, running in tears with the camera guy running just behind them 🏃‍♂️‍➡️🎥🏃‍♀️‍➡️😭
/r/MensRights16/08/24 04:34 PM
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You are probably right, thanks for the reminder But still, it's the reaction that is infuriating. So I'm going to gaslight myself thinking that they are bots. I'll take the bluepill.
/r/MensRights16/08/24 04:32 PM
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If you get a vasectomy, don't forget to tell her tho ! I mean you wouldn't want to keep it a secret ... right ? Nah but seriously. Something like that needs to be told, not kept as a secret. But that's crazy how it does NOT go both ways.
/r/MensRights16/08/24 02:37 PM
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Why do they always want to keep secrets ? Just own it. I'm sure he would be understanding. Like yeah, obviously 2 months in the relationship, I bet he wasn't ready to be a father too. She made a choice and has to own it, wtf is this shit What's worse is the thread about the guy getting a vasectomy and not telling his wife. It's his body and his choice but this time, he's an ass because he didn't say it ... Did his wife have to be consulted this time ? What's so hard with talking to people like a…
/r/MensRights16/08/24 02:36 PM
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Tf is this trash lol « cold violence » 💀 It's just apathy. Maybe if you get yelled many times, at some point that's just naturally going to happen. Maybe then, it's also up to you to ask yourself the good questions : why are they silent ? What can you do to have them talk to you ? So many reasons that could put someone to silence, and this guy is talking about it as if it was « strategy », as if it was planned. Might be a « brain strategy », self-preservation thing. But if you push your partner …
/r/MensRights16/08/24 12:41 AM
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Less than 0.7% are criminals I think we already proved it
/r/MensRights16/08/24 12:20 AM
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And that's so sad actually, because they act as if it was mandatory. It's absolutely not. It's totally cultural, I hate the fact that it's even « recommended » Maybe back then they had reasons to believe that it would help with health, hygiene or whatever. It was centuries ago tho, most people just don't want to reconsider old stuff out of fear, even if it has no reason to exist today. I remember being taught in islamic school by young adults guys some things about how to be clean (for everyday'…
/r/MensRights16/08/24 12:13 AM
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Hey dude you forgot your pills Magic and mana exists lol, clearly a literal schyzo. Saw one like that on Tiktok, hopefully you're getting treated but please don't bother with strangers online and get your meds
/r/MensRights13/08/24 06:21 PM
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Yeah, it's not evidence, it's not supposed to be. But it's supposed to explain that people who went through it can genuinely think it's not rape, that their situation isn't bad. I guessed I could share just in case, but it's great that you already saw it Like sure they might not want to cry or anything, but their vision has been warped so much. As you said, absolutely insane. Unfortunately, I don't have answers or evidence either of what's causing this. I don't even know if an answer exists, or …
/r/MensRights12/08/24 06:40 PM
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That's just completely crazy. I've heard the opposite so many times. Well ... except for some feminists, I guess it's really convenient for them
/r/MensRights12/08/24 06:38 PM
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https://youtu.be/Ikd0ZYQoDko They think that because they just never experienced it. That's really about it. When you're a kid you think that having sex is cool and with a hot teacher ? Damn must be so cool !! I think porn damaged a lot of things, especially for teenagers. Some adults thinking that « they wish it would have happened to them » doesn't make it any better, their brain is rotten by porn too. I do think that men COULD be underestimating the amount of help they need. I mean that in th…
/r/MensRights12/08/24 06:05 PM
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Personally, it's more the « oh you should express yourself » but when you do, they never like it. It's « weak », it's a « turn-off » or an « ick ». At worst, what you can say to someone is being turned against you (and only women have done that to me) So when you're building coping mechanisms, you're then toxic because you're protecting yourself from what hurt you before ? Even tho it's really nothing but a natural reaction. When you're a child and discover that fire is hot, you never put your h…
/r/MensRights12/08/24 05:51 PM
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It's just seen as cool, they think they want it but they mostly suffer from it. For obvious reasons. They are fucking kids. Who cares if they think they want it, you are supposed to know what's better for them. Rape isn't « better » for boys, that's really about it and the fact that some are willing to challenge that is why we need Men's Rights.
/r/MensRights12/08/24 03:43 PM
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I guess that's on me if nobody got what I meant 😭
/r/PussyPassDenied12/08/24 03:38 PM
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Isn't it widely known that a vasectomy is NOT reversible ? Sometimes it CAN be reversed, but that's absolutely not a rule. It's a permanent operation and idk, I feel like you should know what you're doing to your body. Despite that, NTA at all. She still pushed that guy to do it and he probably did it out of love, even tho he was being ignorant about it and it's still his responsibility, I don't see why he should be forced to even have a friendly relationship with her.
/r/MensRights12/08/24 03:34 PM
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Felt "triggered" just some hours ago when some random guy on Reddit praised some celebrity that he was showing emotion when most of the people in the same field (football player) wouldn't because of "toxic masculinity" I hate that term with all my guts. I used to be so expressive and I literally got punished for being that, and now people are saying it's toxic to adopt coping mechanisms in order to protect myself. Thanks The Tinmen, as always your slides do not miss
/r/MensRights12/08/24 12:40 PM
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I can tell you if you want 🤷‍♂️
/r/PussyPassDenied12/08/24 03:03 AM
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I had absolutely 0 intention of pushing you to delete anything lol, just giving you my genuine insight instead of downvoting (btw, I didn't). Just wanted to explain what was the reaction coming from, it's really nothing more than that. I'm not responsible for anything else outside that. I feel that if you didn't care about internet points, you wouldn't even mention it, implying that I would be farming points is pretty weird ... as this would be such a bad strategy lol (woohoo I got one point) I …
/r/MensRights10/08/24 12:56 PM
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Students behave far better and both sexes prefer male teachers Click here for the source . Patriarchy !!!!! REEEEEEEEEEEEEEE Also, I know you're regular here, always with pretty cool comments 👋 😎
/r/MensRights09/08/24 10:53 PM
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IDK mate, look at how smart the average person is... half the people are umm, less smart. You might be right, but I'm also trying to convince myself in order to not feel too depressed. I used to take stupid shit too seriously, so that's my way to cope with it
/r/MensRights09/08/24 10:48 PM
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My question is should I report the previous domestic violence against me I mean .... Obviously yes ? You should have done that even earlier. Her getting physical should have been a warning, you should have started to collect proof and report her actions Wake up lol, who would ask themselves that question, let alone ask that on the internet ? « Hey guys, should I try to defend myself ? » Bro she's trying to ruin your life. Nobody is going to tell you to let her do whatever she wants. You should d…
/r/MensRights09/08/24 10:37 PM
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Look, if it's true then I'm sorry for you, but it's very hard to read, and also it's not a place to start a post by « woman here » Read the room please, and don't make it about yourself
/r/MensRights09/08/24 10:29 PM
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Well I can see where you are coming from, but in this case it's pretty simple : we don't give a shit At least ... I don't give enough of a shit to actually have an opinion on the matter. I'm just watching it like any drama. It's like watching 2 people clashing each other, just to see what comes next. Sure, court will decide who's guilty or not, but for now it's really just another drama. I don't think it will have an impact on men's rights, and I don't think I should side by Mr.Beast because he'…
/r/MensRights09/08/24 10:20 PM
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It depends on the agenda of who you're talking to Like in France TV, there were people saying shit like « ukrainian refugees can be an opportunity to have immigration of good quality », or « of course we have empathy because they're just like us, like ... they drive the same cars and stuff like that » So it'll just depend. Any normal human being would see people getting butchered around the world as a tragedy that shouldn't happen, and lament the fact that it feels like it could have been avoide…
/r/MensRights09/08/24 09:59 PM
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Fake article. I refuse to believe someone might be so fucking stupid, there's no way. Who could have thought this is a good idea ? It's probably written by an AI and then they threw the stupid bullshit about objectification and the bisexual thing too. It's out of place but that's for sure that the « author » of this shit wanted to say something. What a gift to the world really ...
/r/MensRights09/08/24 09:40 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V9O94UTDAJQ (this one is also funny : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=91i01oIAYiw) Answering anything remotely serious will not have a positive effect. Just fuck em. Don't care if it's insulting or not, it's not worth the hassle and they don't deserve any amount of respect. Honestly you could even bodyshame (I mean ... they started it anyway and I have no issue hitting lower if you started shit), the key is to be funny. That's what matters on Twitter : funny and i…
/r/MensRights09/08/24 02:23 PM
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I would be fine if they kept their gender role ... I guess ? But it's not like that anymore. So fuck off saying that « what's wrong with us », we haven't decided for that lol. At the very least if you are a conservative woman, ask yourself what have you done wrong, why weren't you able to turn the balance if your favor instead of doing like everyone else and blaming us for not being chivalrous anymore I'm fine with chivalry if it's reciprocated, and the moment it was taken as granted, it stopped…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/08/24 09:17 PM
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I've seen this stuff so many times They just don't realize that men can see things differently and if you challenge it, they don't understand why Never in their life they had to make a step towards understanding men, so when they do such a mistake they should know they are so out of touch I mean, come on. You really think we are so dumb we don't know what women are looking for in a man, for marriage ? You're telling your guy that he's not suited to have fun with you, it's just « serious business…
/r/MensRights08/08/24 02:29 PM
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For real lmao Trump got a ton of shit because he said some stupid shit about « grabbin pussy », now imagine doing it There's nothing wrong with have a nerve/immediate reaction when you get touched immediately. It's just stupidly crazy to think that you're getting on the defensive because a woman got slapped .... after grabbing someone's nuts. They're just too comfortable with that stuff and that's weird
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/08/24 09:42 AM
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I don't understand the last one at all. Like ... yeah, it's a sexual assault by the very definition. Only someone with too much water in the skull would challenge that fact. « Do these fools not hear themselves » the irony ... It's just full of dumb shit, that's fucking crazy Person slapped someone because they got assaulted, and now they're all like « oh but you're not a victim, look how much women suffer » I think people just aren't willing to give them a taste of their medicine. Remember ever…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/08/24 09:27 PM
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I feel like I've lost braincells, even the girl at the end « it's different kinds of trauma » yeah, trauma. One is physical ptsd if you are lucky you haven't lost a limb or your life, the other is .... well, still pretty sad but absolutely nothing compared to that Idk what I watched that. Idk why they are talking to stupid people like that, it's just good ragebait farm
/r/MensRights07/08/24 12:44 AM
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I don't think you understand the point. The thing is that misandry is so engrained, it became very easy to hate on men. Remember that back a few decades, slapping a woman's ass wasn't considered sexist or misogynist. It absolutely is easy to say some sexist shit against men for no apparent reason, medias all over the world are filled with that. I can understand what you mean tho, that most aren't seething when they think about men, sure. But I'd say that most people do not realize when they are …
/r/MensRights04/08/24 09:46 PM
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Ms. Aktysenko said about one in five men she encountered on Tinder were soldiers, but she has not chatted with any of them. “They’re brave, they’re heroes,” she said. “But given the situation, starting a relationship feels too risky.” You know what's more risky than starting a relationship with a soldier ?
/r/MensRights04/08/24 04:44 PM
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If you feel hate for women because of this sub and « feminist gets owned » videos, it's really a you-issue tho You're posting this as if anyone cared
/r/MensRights04/08/24 04:08 PM
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Yeah that sounds about right lol But what's concerning is using this term when it comes to relationships .... If you are thinking of your so or your relationship like it's a job and start using terms like that, you're doing it wrong, you're the one thinking that your apartment is a company you work in But that's also not surprising in the slightest. I've felt for a few years that people were talking about relationships as if they were mere transactions. That's sad as hell and if I see someone me…
/r/MensRights04/08/24 10:49 AM
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Good luck americans for your elections lmao, that's going to be a shitshow
/r/MensRights03/08/24 05:25 AM
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It's pretty weird how you're unable to see how misandrist it is « because it's positive » I mean, you know that saying stuff like « black people can run fast », or « asian people are good at maths » is still racist despite being positive, right ? You can be black and not a good runner, or asian and not good at maths, and it doesn't make you « less black » or « less asian » You're too focused on supposed « masculine traits = positive, feminine traits = negative ». Everyone agrees that feminine tr…
/r/MensRights03/08/24 05:20 AM
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I don't feel especially mad because politicians are basically « what we deserve », she wouldn't say that shit if it wasn't accepted So Trump should call her out of that bullshit, but I don't think he will because he's probably not against that way of thinking either Basically we're cooked on all political sides
/r/MensRights03/08/24 05:08 AM
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Same as you, never even heard it was coming from actual psychology But that's not really surprising, that's what happens with ideologues. They find a pretty cool term that seems to hold some relevancy and gnaw on it until there's nothing left
/r/MensRights03/08/24 05:04 AM
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Hahaha they're always seeing this as « labor », that's just crazy to see things that way Oh my, the burden, what a pity a guy is giving you flowers to share with a man you like in your life and you call that a « burden ». What a sad life you must have to see things that way, that's why the girl on the video responded that she will give it to her dad, and the others pathetic human beings stuck on their phones commented garbage like that I first felt some bit of anger when reading through that stu…
/r/MensRights02/08/24 07:02 PM
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Someone changing their mind on the internet is pretty unusual tbh, that's commendable of you 👍
/r/MensRights02/08/24 05:33 PM
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Yeah but she was raised as a girl, has female body parts ... So sure, the fact that she has masculine traits is quite abnormal but to me she's a woman. I do think it's unfair for her opponents tho. That might be sad, but I don't think she should be able to fight against women without that amount of testosterone
/r/MensRights02/08/24 05:08 PM
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Yeah I've seen a lot of that too I have someone like that in the family too. Won't go into details but damn .... I hope they don't regret their choice lol. I've seen a lot of people saying that when they « passed », they immediately saw a very huge change
/r/MensRights02/08/24 01:33 PM
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I can absolutely get behind that It seems that she has some « abnormality » despite her body being physically very like the one of a woman, but the amount of testosterone she has gives her an advantage over a woman with XX chromosomes But does it make her « not a woman » ? I don't think so, but I do agree it could be unfair for her to compete against women. Still not trans tho, so JK is still talking like a buffoon
/r/MensRights02/08/24 12:55 PM
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They do, they just hate them all. And since they're always validated about those garbage thoughts, they don't have any incentive to reflect
/r/MensRights02/08/24 11:22 AM
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Lmao and neither women she's referencing to are trans So she doesn't know shit about men's rights, and doesn't even know she's referring to a woman anyway. She's pathetic.
/r/MensRights02/08/24 11:20 AM
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Do « Mens rights » without the apostrophe works ?
/r/MensRights02/08/24 11:15 AM
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Haha you're so out of the loop, if only it was just that https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Blitzchung_controversy
/r/MensRights02/08/24 11:10 AM
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/r/MensRights02/08/24 11:08 AM
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What was the slogan that people would use on Twitter about students in medical school, asking what if they don't want to support a « specific lifestyle » ... ? Ah, yes : Get another career.
/r/MensRights02/08/24 10:04 AM
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Don't think it's the first time happening. I don't think brigading is common tho, but you know ... There's still this stigma against men's rights. That's bound to happen. I think you should just own it, doesn't seem like a very useful sub anyway
/r/MensRights01/08/24 01:54 PM
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They aren't interested in the fact that men's life also change when they get married lmao I don't think it's the majority of women who will think like that, but it's crazy to see that there are people spewing garbage like that and are getting validated. I mean, do we do that among ourselves ? Don't we call out bullshit when people say dumb stuff ? I know I've seen this on this sub. Doesn't matter if you're talking about men in a good way, if you're not doing it in a truthful manner, then it's st…
/r/MensRights01/08/24 01:14 PM
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Because a leftist point of view was lacking despite a lot of us being aware of men's issues. Men's rights isn't « too far gone » in my opinion, but it seems that there are more right wingers than left wingers. Basically, the issue we specifically have is that on the left, most don't think that men have issues at all. If there was more left wingers talking about stuff and right wingers felt the need to build their own spaces, that would be fine too
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/24 09:06 PM
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I don't have much respect for ethnostates that give less rights to some parts of the population, and it makes me doubt the so-called "democracy". Sure, on paper it's a democratic country. On paper everyone has the same rights. But it is the same in Turkey and Russia. And I have the same doubts about them. I mean, maybe I'd be more inclined to think they weren't just a terrorist state if Palestinians in East Jerusalem were considered citizens (and not just permanent residents, where they're basic…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/24 07:00 PM
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So these guys are literally rioting in favor of rape and torture And they're considered the more moral and civilized, lol
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/24 02:04 AM
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What the actual fuck. It's crazy that a person like that can even become a therapist. And they wonder why men don't go to therapy. That's just crazy, she basically just said that she doesn't believe you. Idk how she can expect to do her job properly, but I guess she doesn't care at all, it's just for the paycheck. Hope you're doing well and that you will be doing better in the future.
/r/MensRights31/07/24 01:53 AM
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We don't use tragedies. We use feminists trying to shut down men shelters, or signing petitions against documentaries about men's issues. Everything basically. If you don't want to be treated like an enemy, then don't act like one
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/24 05:16 PM
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I've been saying this for years, but my friends just can't grasp it. When someone said that ANY man is an oppressor because "that's the system," I immediately thought of my dad. He was born into a poor family in Morocco, studied hard, and despite being top-graded, he couldn't leave the working class due to lack of money. He faced discrimination, won a court case, and used the money to buy a house for his family in Morocco. Thinking of all that, it's absurd to label him an oppressor just because …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/24 05:14 PM
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We didn't hate women back then in fact we revered them in most cases In France, there's a discussion about « l'écriture inclusive ». Unlike English, French doesn't have a neutral gender like "they." In a group, you use the masculine form. Some teachers wrongly say, "when there's a boy in the group, masculine wins," but that's not the case. « Écriture inclusive » aims to add the « point médian ». For example, "policier" (policeman) and "policière" (policewoman) could be written as « Polici·er·ère…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/24 05:13 PM
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Remember guys, you can't talk about men's rights if you forget to mention that women are wonderful And when women talk about their stuff, you can't talk about yours, but they can deny your need for expression (the documentary about black men for example, the shelter for men in Naples, so on and so forth ...) Aren't they the same who are always saying that we should get out of gender roles ? This need to over-protect any woman always seemed hypocritical to me. I would have more respect for them i…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/07/24 08:21 PM
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When you talk about men they say « it's not just about you, just do your own stuff we don't have to fix your problems » and when you do stuff to fix your own problems they'll try to shut you down because you don't mention them. I'm not lying when I say that I feel like I'm going crazy, just leave us alone when we're trying to talk about our stuff for God's sake. I mean, I say « our stuff » but I'm not a black man and I'm not in the US but I would never argue that « omg it ignores the discriminat…
/r/MensRights28/07/24 04:39 PM
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Completely agree 👍 And I find the opposite absolutely disgusting too (I mean men talking about fucking a lot of women), so can't really say that there's a double standard, at least not for me I value companionship, you ever crossed an old couple holding their arms together ? I always found that so cute actually. Feels like they've been together for a long time and it's quite inspiring, I envy that stuff. Fucking tons of people is none of that, it's depravity, who would have envy for that. Do wha…
/r/MensRights28/07/24 04:30 PM
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Gotta multiply the affection sources. Someday I'm getting a cat, getting into the gym and maybe even in a sportsclub. We thrive in small communities where we share goals, that's where you can respect and get respect from people. Family is very valuable too, but if you don't have that chance or if it changes, you can still find affection somewhere else. And at that point, it doesn't matter if strangers will find you disposable, as people around you will enjoy being around you just as much as you …
/r/MensRights28/07/24 04:28 PM
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Basically, girl saying « oh look at me, I fuck tons of gigachads » is as pathetic as boy saying « oh look at me, I fuck tons of bitches » Maybe that's something you would say in middle or high school, even then, you're most likely going to be made fun of because you try to convince people you're getting laid Is that clearer? Sorry if I wasn't in the first place, I can have some trouble expressing myself, especially in English 😶‍🌫️
/r/MensRights28/07/24 04:24 PM
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I don't think they understand how pathetic it is to justify anything you say by « but I fuck, trust me I fuck a shit ton with handsome people, trust me » That doesn't bring anything to the conversation lol. I feel like boys get made fun of in high school for that therefore we already know growing up that it's not really the good look we're trying to project Well, in short : doesn't matter who you are. Doesn't even matter if this is (somehow) true, it's still pretty pathetic lol
/r/MensRights28/07/24 03:08 PM
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Yeah I'm not white either and it's at least on-par from my own experience And it's always very, very ironic when I see some women trying to explain to me how misandry is « fine because it doesn't do much harm » therefore it's not the same thing as racism. When I see people insulting men or people of my ethnicity for dumb reasons, I feel the same, there's no difference in my eyes : it's just pure ignorance and stupidity. I think I have more respect for racist people who actually own being racist.…
/r/MensRights26/07/24 03:00 AM
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Why should we ? Why aren't straight women playing video games ?
/r/MensRights24/07/24 11:24 PM
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In OPs case it's a moral judgement and ego We're literally talking about standards. It's about sexual attraction. You're just making stuff up so it appears that fat people wanting slim and athletic partners is not voluntary but chosing someone without a huge past is. Most men are like that, that's how it is. What's hypocritical is asking men to not fuck around while actually liking it, data shows that. Truth is that they want men to stop caring about someone's past even tho we don't choose that.…
/r/MensRights24/07/24 11:18 PM
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The thing is, we know that women are mostly more attracted by men who are womanizers anyway ... so sure, there's a bit of hypocrisy when asking for a woman with low BC when you have a high one, but I find it more hypocritical to call out the standards of someone you put your eyes on when you most likely don't even consider those with lower « experience » At the end of the day, it's your standard. Women on socials have been talking about their deluded standards for a while now and they're validat…
/r/MensRights24/07/24 11:12 PM
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Even as a muslim guy I just don't understand why you would support someone who was willingly involved with terrorism. Clearly it's not our of generosity but more because she looks fine and you know what some guys would be willing to do ... Huge doubts about her sincerity
/r/MensRights24/07/24 04:57 PM
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About the video, I guess the main point of the discussion is at 12 minutes, basically talking about how men would mostly express themselves differently and that in therapy there aren't any gender nuance. Even anonymously through a phone, men don't express themselves. They still can't be open even when they are aware of the fact that no one will know what's going on, and yet most people call it « shame » as if it was an issue that we created or are responsible for. It's most likely not shame, jus…
/r/MensRights24/07/24 04:12 AM
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https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8165839/ https://www.mentalhealth.org.uk/explore-mental-health/statistics/men-women-statistics https://www.reddit.com/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates/comments/xjjij2/we_need_to_give_men_the_depth_of_discussion_they/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JaAq_cMMlKE
/r/MensRights24/07/24 12:52 AM
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I mean, you're doing that since you're 12, and you live in Denmark which probably means it's completely different. And I'm in France so it's probably not as bad as the US either, but it's still clearly not « made » with men in mind. I had a behavioral therapy tho, so it was something else, but when I had to talk to psychologists I never felt like I could talk about whatever I want. Being open for the first time as an adult is completely different and your experience doesn't tell us if it's reall…
/r/MensRights23/07/24 10:11 PM
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I wrote a whole reply and he deleted it. Good, because that was the most ironic comment I've seen in a long time. Bro asked us all to adopt a more "objective stance" while unironically using the term "Palestinian Bollywood" (probably meant to say Pallywood, but I guess their skin colours are more or less the same, so that's what came to mind ....🤷‍♂️)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/07/24 09:29 PM
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I don't see why we should be angry at men who make women feel this way when you shouldn't feel this way to begin with, and that's what the whole debacle is about. The person commenting is almost getting that the percentage of actually dangerous men is so tiny they shouldn't be « afraid of all men », but they are still not even able to ask themselves « what do men think about that », instead they're just looking at men rejecting this and say « I don't understand, you should do that instead » We'v…
/r/MensRights23/07/24 08:53 PM
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This rhetoric is just a stupid slogan that isn't meant to do anything I've seen some girls IRL say shit like « we should educate men » Aren't you already ? Mothers and teachers ? Do you think that criminals and rapists don't already know that what they're doing is bad and that only education is lacking ? It's just stuff that's spewed by people who are legit brainwashed. As a slogan, it's absolutely not meant to accomplish anything but fuel hatred between men and women.
/r/MensRights23/07/24 12:45 PM
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Expected, coming from Menslib. I don't even agree with your stance. I disagree with the feminist stance, and I hate the term « toxic masculinity », I'm not even sure this exists. But you dare saying that « we shouldn't replace norms with other norms », and because through your post you MAY have basically told that's what feminists are doing, then you're not really a feminist therefore your post doesn't belong there ... According to some moderators, I guess. LWMA is just the best place to talk ab…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/07/24 01:45 PM
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Because they will use the same garbage rhetoric about how supposedly « women are put in position of power in times of crisis just to be judged much more harshly because they couldn't fix all the mistakes made by men » Just a way to justify the fact that they aren't inherently more competent. It's both funny and pathetic the lengths they will go. We can all see the same things. For example, in front of an incompetent CEO or president, they will not argue that in fact they are competent, they will…
/r/MensRights22/07/24 12:37 PM
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They all want that princess treatment lol Look, if I love my gal, I'll give her princess treatment .... But I'm expecting a prince treatment in return. You know that they like to say that it's just called « doing stuff for the person you love » while themselves don't do that, they just expect to receive
/r/MensRights21/07/24 03:45 AM
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If they say they are men, then it's misandry. This term is absolutely wrong lol. You're experiencing misandry yet you put trans in front of the term just to appear valid in front of people who you know are sensitive to lgbt and women's issues, but not men's. Just own it. You call yourself a man ? Then it's misandry, not whatever the fuck « transmisandry » is.
/r/MensRights20/07/24 01:55 PM
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Yeah but that's the issue I have with the phrasing « transmisandry » To me it's clearly a way to appear as valid in the eyes of people who think that misandry isn't real If we're saying that misandry is real and that these people are also experiencing it, then it should be called like that. If there are only trans people that can be heard, alright I'll take what I can get. But if they're starting to say that it's real for trans ppl and not for the rest of us ... 💀 Worse, I'm sure some will start…
/r/MensRights20/07/24 01:52 PM
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Funny that they had to add that second part on the question. They want you to say that you are going to be violent if you oppose feminism because you won't resist it intellectually or politically
/r/MensRights19/07/24 01:26 PM
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Don't they understand that we're both expected to help each other ? If you really want to not shame women leaving their sick husbands, then don't cry when men don't help you when you're getting robbed or something. What's tragic is how now neither wants to help each other, that's just crazy. It's perfectly normal to have expectations put onto each other. Does it mean we should be shamed when we fail to fulfill them ? I don't think so, it's normal to fail and from my own experience, that's why me…
/r/MensRights19/07/24 08:42 AM
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Honestly, all I ask is for misandry to not be hype But they hate men all the time and cry when they need someone, but nobody is coming for the rescue. It's a tragedy that they can't even realize it's their own doing. You prefer to shame all men each and every day for the wrongdoings of less than 0.7% of the whole male population and hate thinking that the vast majority of men need basic recognition for what they bring to society. Your loss 🤷‍♂️, now it's just for family and people we hold dear a…
/r/MensRights17/07/24 10:07 PM
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I mean, you're treated just like anyone else now so ... 🤷‍♂️ People aren't going to risk their lives for strangers 🤔 I do think people should help others when they're being assaulted, but that's when they outnumber the offender, otherwise ... good luck. You chose that btw, not us 😶‍🌫️ You insult men each and every day but still want them to help with your car, to carry heavy stuff, to be your bodyguard ... Ask yourself why they used to do all that but aren't anymore 🤐
/r/MensRights17/07/24 09:57 PM
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Yeah that's what pushed me into looking what was about « men » in general, as I used to call myself a feminist as it was basically the default stance to have. It was very clear when they just told me to « shut up and listen », you have no questions to ask lol, you just serve as an « ally » And as someone on the spectrum, it's just impossible for me to truly learn something if I don't deeply understand it. So I knew I had « learned » some of their rhetoric, but never challenged it or understood w…
/r/MensRights16/07/24 06:16 PM
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« over something not serious » Lmao you can't make that up I hope your wife took your side against her because damn. I wish stuff like this wouldn't slip away, it just sounds crazy to me that men aren't even allowed to cry when they see their kids for the first time
/r/MensRights16/07/24 01:29 AM
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They're always repeating the same sentences. « somehow always a man » gets regurgitated a lot. It's always the mindless dumb people that like those garbage slogans, they eat that each and everyday cuz it's simple, it sounds like any pop song, it stays in the head just the same and it makes them feel like they actually think. It's pathetic, I actually pity people who have so little inner thought. What's worse is that some of them try to convince themselves that these thoughts are their own. Well,…
/r/MensRights16/07/24 01:23 AM
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Disagree, that's how you get that shit normalized Just tell them to go fuck themselves. They are using the fact that 90% of crimes are commited by men (well, supposedly, I didn't verified that personally), but it's less much less than 1% among total men. Just answer that and tell them to go to hell, they don't need much more. They're too far gone but maybe someone reading through that shit will have a heavier brain and will see that her rhetoric is stupid
/r/MensRights16/07/24 01:18 AM
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So the guy you are answering to is a Nazi ? What's the point you're trying to make ?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/07/24 12:54 PM
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I'm just looking at the comments and I already know I don't want to watch that Even the first pinned comment is already saying that we're basically just « victim blaming marginalized people (women) », why should I watch an entire video that already entirely misses the point ? Even most comments under it are just saying « bro I feel so much better after leaving Twitter and I touched grass », so I guess that makes it better somehow ? People who are outside don't read dumb shit on Twitter ever and …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/07/24 12:52 PM
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On Android I use xManager. Basically a manager to install « cracked » Spotify It has the « free » quality tho, and no download (and since recently no lyrics either) but I'm absolutely fine with that And there's also Revanced YouTube Music that I use a lot too (if not more than Spotify) I've also used Spotube, you might give this one a shot especially if you have a long list of liked songs and playlists on Spotify. iirc, it's basically your spotify list but using YouTube's feed without ads and it…
/r/MensRights13/07/24 11:43 AM
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I feel exactly the same way. And it's very hard to talk about that among leftists because talking about men makes them feel bad about their feminism beliefs. I constantly feel like I need to walk on eggshells, so I never talk about that stuff. They just love to think that feminism = left, and no feminism = right, and it's very hard to bring more nuance into their beliefs.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/07/24 08:39 PM
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This is just crazy. I wonder if a human did read this, but I also have doubts that a bot would allow such comment We shouldn't let that slip, but I don't know what could be done about that. This is not acceptable, this is not about gender or anything. Someone saying that kind of shit should face consequences no matter who they are targeting, that just makes sense. What's crazy is how they're saying « what a terrible human being you are », the irony lmao Tbh it always kinda bugged me how people h…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/07/24 02:50 PM
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At first, I thought that maybe she wanted this to appear as a joke but secretly wanted to know, but her reaction is commendable, and I'm glad she respected your decision immediately. You are right to feel uncomfortable, obviously anyone could make shit up, and imagine if your GF had doubts about it being fake or not ? You obviously know her more than I do, so I'm just imagining stuff, but you get the idea, I believe. It's better to stay away from these spaces. As you said, it's very easy to abus…
/r/MensRights12/07/24 02:47 PM
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That explains a lot lol I remember this one video about the woman being mad at her husband because the kid was sleeping on his belly while he was playing video games. It's supposed to be her time off, yet she spends it filming her husband because he doesn't take care of the kid like she would. Mothers might also do that to their kids although to a lesser extent ? I know my own mother can seem a little bit frustrated when I do things differently than her. Sure, maybe in a less efficient way, but …
/r/MensRights12/07/24 02:02 PM
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Damn, this guy got balls Pretty funny how easy to see how sided this article is Also, again, giving percentages of the number of women in parliament, as if it had any importance. Also whining about the fact that women are paid less even tho they said right before that they working much less. Always funny how the concern is always around women having high positions. Don't you want more equality among construction workers, for example ?
/r/MensRights11/07/24 12:28 AM
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You seem like a genuine great guy. You've been through some tough stuff, idk how I would have been if I were in your place but you did wonderfully. Keep being great
/r/MensRights07/07/24 02:57 AM
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I prefer the « rather talk to a woman or a tree ? », unsurprisingly, most of them online were glad we would choose the tree
/r/MensRights03/07/24 09:14 PM
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Sounds about right, regular menslib experience
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/07/24 01:47 PM
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But are unable or unwilling to see how feminism has a big role in the problem. Are you talking about LWMA ? Cuz they absolutely are against feminism and completely reject the concept of patriarchy. Menslib is the opposite
/r/MensRights03/07/24 01:44 PM
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I had some issue with a specific mod in particular who deleted some of my posts even I admitted I phrased those poorly and apologized but besides that I never had any issue with people there. Honestly, it's even surprising to me how similar it is to MensRights But I can understand what you mean. I think they have a pretty clear « anti misogyny » rule, which is fair, but some of the mods or even some users could still be hurt by that, but not most from my own experience. They shouldn't feel the n…
/r/MensRights03/07/24 01:06 PM
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Yeah they really believe that we are so much privileged, anything that happens is our fault. I mean, the fact that they would say that arrogance is an answer to why boys and men would do worse at school ..... that's just crazy, I have no words for such non sense
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/07/24 01:23 AM
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They aren't interested in talking about anything that isn't through the lens of feminism. It needs the approval stamp basically, therefore is it really advocating for men if you need feminists' approval for your issue to be acknowledged ? That's now how we are going to be heard. They are so afraid to be seen as « adversaries of women » ... as if we were ?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/07/24 12:37 AM
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Do you still have doubts they aren't actually advocating for men's rights ?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/07/24 12:08 AM
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Yes he should. In my opinion, it's pretty simple : if any of you doesn't want to have it, then don't. And please do not listen to people, be it family or friends, who will try to take THEIR decision. The choice is yours and yours only. I've heard many women expressing how sad they were that they were so career focused on their youth, and forgot that they actually wanted to have kids. It's not all of them, of course, there are many women who are happy with their career too. What I mean is that on…
/r/MensRights02/07/24 01:52 PM
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Oh but that's already happening Men being overly represented in chess, piano, esport ? Systemic oppression Women being overly represented in gymnastic, violin, horseback riding ? Women are great !
/r/MensRights01/07/24 03:09 PM
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Pretty hard to put words on this but I'll try I personally know that I had to learn to « shut it » as women in general wouldn't understand what I was saying. I felt like most of them would listen to themselves first and foremost. One time I've had one saying to me that my « self deprecating jokes » (I was heavily suicidal at the time) were making her feel useless, and it just felt absolutely devastating. I was spontaneous, sure I can understand that it could make someone feel a bit weird, it's n…
/r/MensRights30/06/24 01:04 AM
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I don't only do that for women. It's because I know that feminists used to shit on men who « meant well » and that's not a good look. So I'd rather thank the few women who do mean well and want to be helpful AND telling them how to truly be helpful (that's important), rather than do it the feminist way
/r/MensRights29/06/24 12:48 AM
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Honestly there are some moments when I'm thinking that maybe we should have our phones recording audio all the time and the idea of "proving that you are not guilty" makes it pretty hard to not consider that dystopian idea
/r/MensRights28/06/24 06:07 PM
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Idk ... This kind of stuff rubs me the wrong way I know you mean well, but it still appears as tone-deaf. We just want you to listen to what we say, not you to say that « we have your support » whatever that means. We're kinda used to that, there are people who will say that « they support us » but they really don't. That's why saying this doesn't really do anything. It's like saying to women who are struggling that « I'm a man, and I support you ! You matter, we are all humans !! » I mean yeah …
/r/MensRights28/06/24 04:54 PM
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I'm sure she would have come back if she knew about the promotion Not a loss tbh, but yeah it's sad ... We can't share our feelings to those we love. A lot of them will tell you that they are willing to listen, but there's such a pit between what they think they can do, and what they actually do Honestly ? Seek companionship elsewhere. Sports club or whatever, heck even animals. Learn to deal with it by yourself. I feel like things are moving slowly but surely, and maybe one day we'll be able to…
/r/MensRights27/06/24 05:24 PM
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I'm not even sure sadness is accepted lol How many times I have heard that it's seen as « weird » ? Only men are fine with other men crying about serious stuff. I mean « fine » ... they aren't fine, they take it pretty seriously from my own experience. I've known some women being annoyed by that. Which seems crazy. Imagine a man expressing that « he's annoying his girlfriend cries so much », he would be rightfully called out
/r/MensRights27/06/24 04:25 PM
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I don't mean to minimize the toxic masculinity standards that boys face growing up Why is it always about « toxic masculinity » and why that's how is called a mother invalidating and playing with her young boy's emotions ? Shouldn't be that « toxic femininity » ?
/r/MensRights27/06/24 01:00 AM
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And then they wonder why men can't express their emotions lol. How can you have kids to learn how to express and control their emotions when they're being invalidated even in the most mundane situations ?
/r/MensRights27/06/24 12:54 AM
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“a feminist is just somebody who believes in equal rights” That's under the assumption that women are necessarily undervalued, have fewer rights, are oppressed etc .... which isn't necessarily true. The point of MRA is to say that men also have specific issues. People will often say that it's just a « backlash against feminism » because it just says that men aren't perpetrators of every wrong in the world. If you truly believe in « equal rights » then call yourself an egalitarian. Calling yourse…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/06/24 11:28 AM
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I love how basically anyone who's not american will always say the same thing about US politics lmao, it's always « their left isn't really left » That's why I don't even have any issue when I see one demonizing socialism or whatever. They always talk about it the same way they would have talked about communism during the cold war and that's ... actually funny as hell lol In only know Bernie Sanders who seems like a genuine left-wing guy and from what I've heard about him, he seems like a great …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/06/24 01:43 PM
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Even here, you see people saying that « the right uses them » And that depends. If you're talking about ultra conservatives who can't even imagine drafting women : even on the right, men's rights advocates know that this is bullshit If you're talking about all those people opening shitty bootcamps that are supposed to teach some lost men how to become « alpha males », that's also something else I dislike that phrasing because it doesn't mean anything. Each side is trying to use men to their adva…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/06/24 07:13 PM
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Biden ? Left wing ?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/06/24 06:49 PM
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And you aren’t obligated to take care of a child physically. Nobody ever is. but the other parent (whichever gender) can also come after them for child support. I mean, you can see the contradiction, right ? I know you added « physically » but the point I was making also contained the financial part. When I was talking about being able to back out, I meant BACK OUT. Asking for child support is already asking for responsibility. So again : we can be forced to fatherhood, we have responsibilities …
/r/MensRights20/06/24 01:13 AM
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TheTinMen can't miss. Always a pleasure to stumble on your slides and it's always very helpful. Keep up the great work, you're an inspiration and I might one day, take some inspiration and adapt those with french data so it's more relatable for people around me
/r/MensRights19/06/24 03:07 PM
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I don't really tolerate that shit honestly I don't cut off immediately, I just tell them that's not something they should say. If I can have some repartee on the moment, I say it without hesitation. If not, I just express that I am insulted/offended and it's not agreeable. It changes their tone right away most of the time because they probably don't mean to do harm, but it's not because they don't mean it that they don't perpetrate it. If they can't change and won't even listen to me, then I cut…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/06/24 11:15 PM
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Nah, your opinion is quite interesting actually, and I've made pretty much the same observation too. It's the same pattern that I was able to catch in some of the far-right spaces where I could lurk into. Honestly, just a few hours ago, I got jumped on by some leftists online because I had just a slight disagreement on some minor subject. They literally reacted the same way rightists would react when I also show a slight disagreement. It's something that apparently, some people do hate to see, b…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/06/24 11:05 PM
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Lmao that last one is actually goddamn funny. I hope I'll have the occasion to use it
/r/MensRights18/06/24 01:28 PM
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Not just that. It's « some people ». The fact that ruling people are men or women doesn't matter at all. Sure there are more men (but there are women, people should stop forgetting that) but that's explained by a multitude of reasons others than « society made it easier for them because they are men ». Therefore, patriarchy doesn't exist since it means that society is built in a way where gender doesn't matter. It's literally originally made up by some bourgeoises. Can't think of more privileged…
/r/MensRights18/06/24 01:17 PM
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« Feminists aren't the one who tell little boys that crying makes them pussies » Yes they are. Or maybe the male tears mug meme was a mandela effect ? And also yes, feminists throughout history absolutely did valorize war and men getting killed on the field. Saying otherwise shows a true lack of historical knowledge (like, not even thinking reading about it, lack of knowledge)
/r/MensRights18/06/24 01:09 PM
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Honestly, even on social media, just saying stuff like « maybe we shouldn't do that » would be a high gesture in my opinion But they don't. Because they are afraid they'll be cast away from their sorority. Caring more about how they look in their social group rather than doing what's fair. And some are telling me I should « develop empathy » towards people who have none for me ? Nah I'm done. You can fool me many times until a breaking point We aren't even against women's rights (and I mean real…
/r/MensRights18/06/24 01:08 PM
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The moment I'll see feminists calling out those who protest against men's shelters, or diminishing men's issues, I'll think about it. I have no issue conflating people who are silent against misandry and sexism, or any form of discrimination, with those who are open about it. If you just recently joined this sub, maybe you'll have to take the time to understand why are people thinking that way.
/r/MensRights17/06/24 08:43 PM
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We could have prevented the aggression to happen to begin with. Putin crossed the line, don't get me wrong, but the west absolutely has some responsibility over that situation too, and that's because ruling people across the world don't give a flying fuck about sending men to death. If they did, they wouldn't send their expired garbage equipment (they are literally giving stuff that can't pierce the russian tanks)
/r/MensRights17/06/24 02:36 PM
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If you wanna risk your life for some benefits, that's up to you. The issue is that these men don't have a choice when they are « offered that opportunity »
/r/MensRights17/06/24 02:34 PM
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Cuz they are throwing their expired equipment there, so they can sell their new stuff elsewhere It's mostly weapon manufacturers that are profiting from this
/r/MensRights17/06/24 02:31 PM
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What's irrelevant is pointing out that « assault on men is perpetrated by men » That's completely irrelevant. Literally less than 0.7% of men are criminals, and that's with a very generous guess. So it's completely stupid and irrelevant to say « oh, but men are perpetrators » when it's such a subset of the population. Not only that, women can assault too, but it's not reported for many different factors, and it wouldn't come to mind to anyone to conflate all women with them. What's being critici…
/r/MensRights17/06/24 02:23 PM
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The issue lies within the fact that their fear is absolutely irrational If they are afraid of every man they cross, they need to go to therapy. But we know it's not true. They aren't afraid of every man in their life, especially those they don't know even tho statistically, SA comes from people they know (but it would be weird to be more and more afraid of people the more you know them, right ?) Also pretty funny how it's always « we're talking about women's issues and it's always about men » I …
/r/MensRights17/06/24 02:12 PM
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Because that's completely irrelevant. You don't listen to what people are saying, you upvote shit that goes for your narrative, that's really the same thing.
/r/MensRights17/06/24 02:10 PM
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There is always that person saying this as if it was relevant We know there's a tiny subset of people doing bad shit. Doesn't make it a « men » issue, 99.99% of men shouldn't be conflated
/r/MensRights17/06/24 02:09 PM
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Pretty funny how I feel the exact same despite not being american. This sentiment literally transcends the oceans
/r/MensRights16/06/24 02:27 AM
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Well they know they are never going to be drafted, so most of them will never even think what it is to know you could be forced to learn how to kill one day That's just fucking weird how they hate men so much, they don't even want to admit they want them in the army. Or maybe they took us for granted. But that would have been pretty ridiculous to have them praise masculinity only when it comes to war, so at least that's coherent
/r/MensRights16/06/24 02:22 AM
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Honestly, I would tend to be pro-choice too, but I've always found the narrative that « men don't get to have a word » is pretty dangerous With the same person I mentioned on my previous post, she said the same when me and a bunch of friends talked about that specific issue one day. What would you do if your gf got pregnant, you didn't want the kid, but she wanted it ? Overall, pretty simple answer : I don't want it, therefore she takes her decision knowing that fact. So if she still does want i…
/r/MensRights16/06/24 12:01 AM
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That's completely right People like to say that they don't want gender roles ... Until there's a huge crisis. If it's war : women will happily go back to the kitchen and men will be forced to go to the meat grinder I've seen so many women openly saying that lmao, « oh no but physically we're so much worse so I'd rather go back making you sandwiches and laundry » yeah, sure, you would have 0 use in the army I guess, can't run can't pilot can't medic can't carry can't feed can't scout idk, thousan…
/r/MensRights15/06/24 11:27 PM
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Progressives are more shy about it, they'll just tell you « that's a men issue so fix it yourself » when you'll mention it So I guess they're good having men's help for their own issues but can't even consider that individually we can't do shit for something that no single political person cares about
/r/MensRights15/06/24 11:23 PM
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Lmao that 2nd image is so bs that's funny Basically they just threw some pejorative words on the left side and meliorative words on the right That doesn't mean anything. What's funny is that you could literally take whatever they say, with the same graph, just replace those few words. Instead of opposing « aggressive / cooperative », we could say « defensive / submitting » « skeptical / trusting » with « skeptical / naive » And the « egalitarian » lmao please, one could say that's because a lot …
/r/MensRights14/06/24 01:08 PM
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So basically in her article she's explaining that when MeToo exploded she felt concerned raising her own sons to not be « problematic ». So instead of thinking about what could be the best for them, she thought of what could be the best for the likes of her, because what she thinks is best = the best for everyone That's a pretty narcissistic way of thinking in my opinion. She got more concerned over them not being involved in the « manosphere » and « hatred » rather than what could help them be …
/r/MensRights14/06/24 01:45 AM
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That's because MGTOW do it for themselves, and there are so few of them. I don't think they have any demands on anyone other than to do what's best for them and to suggest to others that they should follow this path that they seem to like. If there were many more, I'm sure they would be taken more seriously over time. First by being called "incels" and misogynists (well ... they already are, but even more so), then maybe, slowly but surely, some would start to understand ... Or maybe I'm just da…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/06/24 09:40 PM
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I don't understand why you're saying in the comments that you are trying to understand how they think (fair enough), but the title says otherwise lol. Also what you put in bold in the end is kinda weird or probably worded poorly. My own conclusion is that feminism is basically allowed by men. We've been told all our life that women have it worse, women rights in history etc etc ... no « men's rights » because the rights of everyone are the rights of men ... right ? Then it was the theory of the …
/r/MensRights11/06/24 06:39 PM
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The idea of the patriarchy was something that was basically born from the extremist side, yet the « moderate » still took that from them. Most of who you'd call moderate will still throw arguments and numbers that the extremists do use too. Maybe they don't know the specifics, maybe they don't know what actually is behind the « only 3% of rapists are convicted » (just an example), but they're still using the same garbage rhetoric, therefore I don't see why I should make a difference
/r/MensRights11/06/24 06:18 PM
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I've just heard some people saying how they find the word female « demeaning ». It's not like it's the first word some people tried to « ban ». I know that while using it I don't mean ill. Some people say that it's « mostly used by incels who hate women » and that's wrong. That's just an argument completely made up to make it look bad to use it even tho there's no issue. I just hate how more than ever, there are a few people who are voicing how much they're scared of some words and people are li…
/r/MensRights09/06/24 09:43 PM
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They can be victims of themselves ... but that's the thing : « of themselves » is the key word. Who's going to face the consequences other than yourself ? You're an adult : deal with it
/r/MensRights09/06/24 12:48 PM
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That's not what I'm saying I'm saying that if female is a derogatory term, then by extension male is supposed to be derogatory as well I don't think either of these words are pejorative in any way. I'm trying to say that if they are hurt about the use of female while not having any issue with the use of the word male, it's because of their misandrist mentality. I don't think there one word that's more common than another, if anything if female is less common it's because it's been voiced that it…
/r/MensRights09/06/24 12:29 PM
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"White male privilege" If they think that « female » is a derogatory term, then it's easy to see how they could think male is derogatory as well, so I don't see why I should listen to people being mad when some use that word without ill intent, while they purposefully do it about men. We do choose to say that female is not insulting or pejorative instead of pushing for stopping the use of « male »
/r/MensRights08/06/24 09:12 PM
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however socially it's mostly used by incels to address women in hating posts. No it's not. That's something y'all just made the fuck up. It's fine saying male therefore it should be fine to say female too, it's really that simple.
/r/MensRights08/06/24 09:08 PM
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I can see you don't get it, but that's absolutely fine. Thing is, romance is portrayed pretty much everywhere, in any media possible. For someone who never experienced love (I mean in an intimate relationship), it's pretty easy to imagine what it could be like. You see happy people all the time, it's easy to think that someone loving you for who you are would feel good. That's something your mom or your friends can't really replace. And the love of an intimate partner can't really replace the lo…
/r/MensRights07/06/24 02:40 PM
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And they can both feel completely different. If you can't understand that, at least understand you can't get it. Having a romantic companionship can be completely different than companionship with friends, that sounds pretty obvious to me
/r/MensRights07/06/24 01:32 PM
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I agree 100% with your comment too. I can see what thread you are talking about. I did answered, basically saying « just be a friend and don't expect him to open up » as I felt like she wanted him to dump his feelings ... I mean he's 49, part of her post made me think she wanted to « fix him » lol. I guess a lot of answers came from the fact that it just feels nice to have a woman trying to understand her male friend ? I have to admit, I do feel pretty nice when I see women giving support to men…
/r/MensRights06/06/24 12:57 PM
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Yeah that's stupid, but the regular « feminist » that just regurgitates the dumbest argument and slogan would still say that « feminism is about equality », there such a gap between the militants and the « regular person who takes feminism as a basic stance », that's where we can convince people that « you know that men do lack rights and that arguing for that isn't anti-woman » It's pretty hard, I've tried doing that with some friends and I've been call a misogynist because I called feminists n…
/r/MensRights06/06/24 12:45 PM
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Don't worry, your comment didn't came as malicious at all and I can absolutely understand the tone, which is not harsh but definite. I'm also quite sensitive on the subject of men's mental health, and I agree with you that it's one of the most important subjects (if not the most important). It seems that everyone knows it's catastrophic and yet nothing is done. I've seen so many people say that "men don't go to therapy" as if it were their fault, as if there was no question of understanding why …
/r/MensRights06/06/24 12:32 PM
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Well, that's because siding with women can give some benefits I guess ?... At least I know some people who would say they're feminists just to appear nice to women instead of standing for what they truly believe ... Correction : they don't believe in anything really, so they just take whatever default stance. Women's rights getting as far as they did isn't just because they stood up for each other, it's also because a lot of men (if not most) are willing to side with them. Who can blame them rea…
/r/MensRights06/06/24 12:04 PM
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Seeing him as a human being and as a friend is already being a good friend. If he ever says something about his past or whatever, just don't use that against him and you'll be fine. He still might never open up about his feelings. I mean he's 49, he knows there are men's talks where people could relate. Even if you might give him empathy, you'll never be able to give him true comprehension. Which is fine really. Just be a good friend like you would be for anyone else and don't expect him to open…
/r/MensRights06/06/24 11:24 AM
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Pretty interesting what's happening in the comments : lots of people jumping on the conclusion that you're arguing about the PPD thing even tho that's not the point .... That makes me think that even here, a lot of people are just brainwired to protect women first and foremost. That's just how we are, pretty hard to go against that honestly. What's weird is instead of thinking that «maybe men do deserve to receive the same support», they immediately think «we shouldn't withdraw the support we gi…
/r/MensRights06/06/24 11:14 AM
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Thank for you comment. I didn't know men could experience PPD as I thought it was some kind of hormonal thing that could happen after giving birth. Which is demonstration of how a lot of stuff isn't made clear to men. I imagine that a lot of men could have went through PPD without understand it as is, instead of receiving proper support he would have just been told to man up and take care of his child. Reinforcing the idea that men need to be strong pretty much all the time.
/r/MensRights06/06/24 11:06 AM
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I see so much of that lmao Even when trans people says they noticed the difference of treatment between when they came out as man and when they were a woman. You instantly see the difference in how people actually look at the issue. I mean, if people are going to care more about the male condition because trans people are affected, at that point I'll take anything ... But that's still pretty sad.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/06/24 12:16 PM
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It's still pretty concerning how many dumb people there are. I've seen people saying « logically » when talking about women choosing bear. Like, a guy was saying that. When I questioned him about how is that « logical » he proceeded to tell me how « most crimes are commited by men », even tho it still represents less than 0.7% of the male population .... What can you do with people who think that this is logical ? I learn to live with that, every day. I wish I could ignore them easily.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/24 05:36 PM
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Typical How are women discouraged from getting into hard science ? In my entire life I've seen the opposite. People beg for women to go into science, or IT, or whatever. How are men less enclined to be rejected by his peers because of his interests ? I definitely was. I didn't like football, or stuff that other kids did. I was way too much into IT and video games (like very passionate) so I was with the other nerds. How isn't my worth not in my looks as an man ? I see that every day, in all ads.…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/24 04:44 PM
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Pretty crazy the title is « a critical view » It's literally just saying « they can do the worst, and we can't do nothing » Like seriously ? Men can forbid women from having contacts but women can't ? Well guess my ex manipulating me into cutting contacts with my best friend because she felt threatened by her, wasn't a woman ? When was it written ? It reads like a centuries old « book »
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/05/24 11:18 PM
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What I've said still applies : it's really not. But some will make things appear as if it's a religious law or something.
/r/MensRights15/05/24 10:22 PM
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Idk what you're trying to get by posting this here Doesn't matter if you're muslim, christian or whatever, it's about what you teach them. If you're a good father your daughter will not be a hoe, that's really about it. This MIGHT be harder here (and even then, that's debatable) because you can't control everything, obviously. Your children will have friends and basically anything will have some influence on them, that's why being a good parent is more important than ever. I mean, I know there a…
/r/MensRights14/05/24 08:21 PM
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That's a bit more complicated Basically, it's religious people that hold power who blur the line between religion's teachings and traditions. You can see that in countries like Saudi Arabia or UAE, full of rich people, SA bombing Yemen all the time, from afar you might think that they seem to believe what they preach, but it's very well known that behind closed doors they participate in the most depraved activities, stuff that any religious from whatever religion would find absolutely abhorrent.…
/r/MensRights14/05/24 08:15 PM
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Yeah I'm using a translator (deepl), even tho I modified this, it rolled back and I didn't noticed. Thanks for pointing this out I'll fix it
/r/MensRights13/05/24 07:08 PM
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It makes me so angry, it's a horrible story But I think you're getting too hung up on certain principles and it's working against you. Fighting for yourself and your children isn't about "exposing her", you probably think that because you know that it's going to affect her in a negative way and that all your life as a man, you've been taught that you have to defend your family (and therefore your children and your wife), and that's true ... when the wife isn't a danger to the rest of the family.…
/r/MensRights13/05/24 10:04 AM
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Pretty crazy how non-sensical this is lmao, this is wrong on so many levels
/r/EverydayMisandry13/05/24 09:47 AM
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« Oh I hate men but not really » yeah yeah, sure Now let's take a look at how famous feminists throughout history « hated men but not really » 🧐
/r/EverydayMisandry13/05/24 08:51 AM
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0.78% of them are criminals, even a fewer percentage of them do crimes on women. So no, they don't do that to them. Also there's no wage gap.
/r/EverydayMisandry10/05/24 04:56 PM
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Idk bro, I don't think ChatGPT is a great source. I have huge doubts on some of the quoted numbers. I also doubt there are more men killed by women than women killed by men.
/r/EverydayMisandry10/05/24 12:07 AM
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the vast majority of men couldn't vote anyway since you had to be own lands. People are really thinking that somehow, there was a law saying « everyone can vote ... except women »
/r/MensRights09/05/24 03:57 PM
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They know it's not rational but they still think it's « logical », that's just crazy Doesn't matter if they won't hear it, we still need to call out misandry, so good job you've done your part 👍
/r/EverydayMisandry09/05/24 03:50 PM
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Pretty weird how she keeps defending feminists but whatever, that's not the subject If you think that some women shouldn't have internet access until proven competent enough, I don't see why men shouldn't pass the same test. Misogynists and misandrists are both stupid as hell. In fact, discrimination is stupid as hell. Don't care if you have trauma or whatever, it's still illogical and it needs to be healed, not validated.
/r/EverydayMisandry08/05/24 11:30 PM
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They're just out of reality at this point Makes me think of the time I had some conversation on Threads with a woman who just said that basically, if men disappeared over night, then women would just fill the positions we left. I mean yeah sure, they would take all the trash, manage sewers and petrol stations, do security (oh, but you wouldn't need those because women are wonderful, right ?), networks administration and management, all the manual, electrical, plumber stuff ... Yeah, sure. Women …
/r/EverydayMisandry07/05/24 02:54 PM
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I hate the term « toxic feminist » really I mean, these wouldn't exist if feminists weren't justifying such stupid thoughts to begin with. Way too much time I've seen people justifying to me that « misandry is just an answer, sure it might be stupid but it's a necessary harm », so I don't understand why I would have to paint them with a different brush. If you allow/enable this, you're complicit.
/r/EverydayMisandry07/05/24 02:17 PM
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I swear it makes me mad when I think about it Some people just don't even care who they are making babies with
/r/EverydayMisandry06/05/24 08:37 PM
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Let's see how long until they notice
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/05/24 09:51 AM
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I've never heard people saying « find a woman to help you », when I got lost in the mall and couldn't find my dad I just walked back to the car and he told me I was smart
/r/EverydayMisandry03/05/24 09:43 AM
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Honestly considering the answers the post has, it's clearly misandry there's just no doubt about that
/r/EverydayMisandry03/05/24 09:21 AM
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Lmao the answers are just pathetic There's this one that says « I don't care because if they feel bad I then think about all the women they've hurt » like what the actual fuck lmao they are so far into their hatred they think the worst of people they don't even know. That's just actually crazy, if I were a therapist I would specialize in that, there's a whole market in here
/r/EverydayMisandry03/05/24 09:21 AM
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They are just stupid, they don't even understand the answer they've been given Yes we know you want to walk alone in the woods. But you can't. We know you want to walk alone in the street at night. But you can't. It's not OUR fault, we aren't doing anything to allow that to happen. We aren't advocating for cities to be more dangerous for anyone, nobody is. It's just crazy that they can't even understand something as simple as that
/r/EverydayMisandry01/05/24 03:19 PM
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Sometimes I do like to confront people about their bigotry. By ignoring this stuff we allow them to spread, I don't like that. That depends, if it's just a single comment out of nowhere, then I would call them out, if it's some people that are tweeting and supporting each other in their bullshit, yeah there's no use, you're just going to loose some braincells and a lot of time/hope for humanity. I see a lot more people calling this shit out anyway If you think about what you think, you're not go…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/05/24 01:37 AM
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Exactly lol But they will argue that racism and hating men isn't the same. I know, I've tried that argument and they just say « it's not the same thing » and try a lot of mental gymnastic in an attempt to make sense
/r/EverydayMisandry30/04/24 11:34 AM
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Especially when it's men that are mostly targeted by non sexual violence, especially by strangers
/r/EverydayMisandry29/04/24 09:23 PM
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Why should we listen to such unreasonable comments ? Would I be criticized for listening to a racist's feelings ? Maybe their personal story led them to have such thoughts but that doesn't make it right and I wouldn't be criticized for making fun of people being unreasonable even if they think they have reasons to be
/r/EverydayMisandry29/04/24 05:38 PM
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« it's offensive to me and should be to everyone here » Oh right, because who likes a guy who decides what other people should and shouldn't find offensive? The fact that they didn't even told the joke tells me it's just virtue signalling. Heck, probably never happened, he just wanted to say that he's an « ally »
/r/EverydayMisandry29/04/24 12:37 AM
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And they think we don't have to be aware of our surroundings ? My God how could one be THAT clueless about the world lmao She watched crime documentaries so that's why she thinks that all men are dangerous and that bears are less of a threat ? It's pretty hard to think they are being serious, it's just too stupid
/r/EverydayMisandry28/04/24 07:32 PM
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If he thinks he's trash, that's his problem
/r/EverydayMisandry27/04/24 08:24 PM
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Why was it removed ??
/r/EverydayMisandry27/04/24 11:24 AM
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I just thought that maybe she could have extracted it in some way idk, there's also a lot of ways to « have sex » that doesn't necessarily mean penetration. Idk, not too far fetched to think some women could be necrophiliacs. It just seems so crazy I really don't have any clue if it's fake or not, I think it could be either
/r/EverydayMisandry26/04/24 12:38 AM
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Isn't it possible to have sperm that's still « usable » from a dead body if it's « fresh » ?
/r/EverydayMisandry25/04/24 08:41 PM
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Sorry if you felt like I was putting words into your mouth, that wasn't my intent. I did broaden up the conversation as what you've said is something I'm accustomed to hear so I allowed myself to talk more freely about the subject, I did not make any suppositions about your own opinions. Sorry if I wasn't clear enough. You're right when I say « nobody says », that's just how I talk honestly. « Nobody reasonable » is a better way of saying it (I just say « nobody » because I assume it's obvious, …
/r/EverydayMisandry21/04/24 11:56 AM
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Don’t walk alone after dark. Don’t go down poorly lit streets. Don’t wear headphones. Don’t look down at your phone. Etc, etc. But that goes for men too. So I really don't see why people are talking about it as if safety was a women-only issue. Especially when it's men that make for the majority of victims of violence, especially by strangers. It's men that have higher risks to get murdered or mugged at night. But men have always been told that they have to defend themselves and that WE are resp…
/r/EverydayMisandry21/04/24 12:18 AM
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Let's go dude, I'm tired of seeing this bullshit take. They loooove this kind of sentence, easy to remember and because nobody wants to bother with this garbage they think they're right even tho it's always dumb. Honestly we should have something else in response, kinda like the drizzle drizzle thing. I hate that we would have to use something maybe as dumb as they do, but eh, still might work
/r/MensRights20/04/24 04:38 PM
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is that they still love men Nah bro, very huge doubt on that. You think they do because of what you've said and lived. Which can be true, of course. But does that mean they love men in general? I mean, they wouldn't say shit like that if they did. We should call out misandry when we see it, not make excuses for it. I also agree with your first comment, it's hypocritical. It's fine to try and understand what leads them there, of course, but it's not an end in itself, otherwise it's just rationali…
/r/MensRights20/04/24 04:35 PM
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« misandry is just a response to misogyny » is always so goddamn funny lmao. Yeah because one will never become misogynist because they've been abused by women, it's not « an answer to misandry » « misandry doesn't kill » is the same caliber
/r/MensRights20/04/24 04:25 PM
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Yeah but you see, it's because these people are obsessed with sex and see women as objects, it's still a women's issue and these people need to grow tf up and see women as people 🤡
/r/MensRights20/04/24 04:23 PM
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They're just disingenuine, as if somebody ever said that women should be put a curfew lol As if it was in anyway reasonable and realistically doable anyway
/r/EverydayMisandry20/04/24 04:21 PM
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You don't get mental health problems for a lack of it, you don't die for the lack of it. Sure you do lmao wtf people get depressed and kill themselves over the lack of companionship
/r/MensRights20/04/24 01:14 AM
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Yeah this one was pretty crazy. They said it's because there were schools around and stuff. Yeah I don't buy that bullshit lmao. You know, a shelter for homeless people, meaning they could have an opportunity to get a job and get back on their feet is somehow a threat to the neighborhood, sure ...
/r/EverydayMisandry19/04/24 09:29 PM
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That seems so out of touch From my experience, it always was on men to be better and be the catch. It's always been bad to tell women « to choose better ». Pretty crazy how these people are just completely into their own bubble, they can't even see how men actually behave because they don't know anyone beyond the surface.
/r/EverydayMisandry19/04/24 09:27 PM
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Idk, pretty hard to believe that one wouldn't die from a bear's attack And yes, I shouldn't be judged by the action of 0.01% of the population. Idk, that seems pretty normal
/r/EverydayMisandry19/04/24 09:25 PM
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It's always about how we can be allies to women but never about how they can be allies to men. I'm all for being an ally, for real, but why can't it be mutual ?
/r/EverydayMisandry19/04/24 04:53 PM
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I saw a guy talking about a video of him buying a full robotic sex doll as some kind of experiment, talking about consent and stuff And I was so angry at this comment that was so liked, and it was just some random woman saying how they feel like they're really see as an object because they made this robot Like, it's always all about them. Idk, the first thought I had was about the kind of person who would buy that thing. Who tf would spend TONS of money into a robot that will never express true …
/r/EverydayMisandry18/04/24 11:01 PM
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Yeah that's why I answered and asked you more clarifications instead of jumping to conclusions. And since english isn't my first language, sometimes it's pretty hard to understand people online, so thank you for clarifying, I definitely agree with what you meant
/r/MensRights17/04/24 06:42 PM
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Lmao tf are they on I guess .... I am rulling the world, wealth and politics ???? Pretty crazy how these people just made up their own world
/r/EverydayMisandry17/04/24 05:48 PM
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My comment is about how men only talk about it, and limply do anything. I don't think the people you're talking about are the same people actually spending time here. Especially the « ignoring their sons for their daughters ». The people you are describing seems like people who aren't familiar with the concept of men's rights at all. But in some way you're right to remind people that the first thing to do is to act yourself, but that doesn't mean that we shouldn't complain either. Even if we do …
/r/MensRights17/04/24 05:46 PM
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Usually people aren't blaming women, but feminism and the feminist rhetoric, that also means other men buying into it. Most men today don't even know what « rights » people here are asking for, or why men would complain. I can't really blame people for being cranky when they're called misogynists anytime they say a thing about feminism, or when casual misandry is .... well, casual. Thankfully I'm seeing people calling out misandry more than ever on social media. It gives me hope that this kind o…
/r/MensRights17/04/24 05:19 PM
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That's also why we're talking about that stuff here. We know some men do treat their boys worse than they treat their girls. I don't understand the point you're trying to make, it's nothing new that even men have more empathy towards girls/women and that parents would tend to protect their girls more than their boys. Does that mean we shouldn't discuss how to change that ?
/r/MensRights17/04/24 05:09 PM
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Lmao and now the guy got convinced that « damn, I guess the concept got hijacked by bad actors » wtf does it mean, it's still a real thing 😭
/r/EverydayMisandry17/04/24 02:36 PM
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Yeah I feel that. I literally had to learn how to repress my emotions because of that kind of stuff, thinking I was allowed to be myself
/r/EverydayMisandry17/04/24 02:33 PM
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And there are people who think that « if you're accused of rape and it happens to be wrong, then people just move on » yeah sure lol
/r/EverydayMisandry16/04/24 12:32 AM
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Pretty crazy that they really think that we're asking them to solve it for us lol Idk, when I hear about serious women's issues I have empathy, I try to understand and express support. I do think that maybe they can't do the same because when they say stuff like « educate men » they really expect us to « solve » the issue as if it was in any way shape or form possible, so they don't even realize that we aren't even asking them to solve anything, just expressing and asking for basic empathy. Well…
/r/EverydayMisandry15/04/24 02:31 PM
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Yeah that's what I thought too. Pretty weird choice of words but I still feel like it's disingenuous. But as you pointed out, OP's fail to point out why it is I've already seen a few other comments pointing this out and I'm glad everyone isn't just getting angry without checking what they're talking about. Useful anger is anger that knows what it's talking about
/r/MensRights15/04/24 02:26 PM
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You don't know what you're talking about lol, that's not even the subject
/r/MensRights15/04/24 01:33 AM
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Yeah but isn't the first slide wrong anyway ?
/r/MensRights14/04/24 11:57 PM
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First it's « incel » then « oh my IQ » then « retarded », what a show of maturity really I'm not sure you tried to have a conversation at all, can you really complain that people would react badly given your choice of words ? edit : Lmao I love it, bro just answers then block. You're 25 dude, be an adult and grow the fuck up.
/r/MensRights14/04/24 11:14 PM
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If they're waging a war, it's against feminists, that's a pretty big difference. But also you're completely avoiding the question. You're saying « it's men on men » then what ? What's your point ?
/r/MensRights14/04/24 11:12 PM
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Out of spite ? Can you really explain the « but it's other men » rhetoric ? Why does that make it less important ? What's crazy is talking about « room temperature IQ » but we're talking about the gender that's most likely victim of violence, and it's men. Sexual violence ? Women. It's really that simple. So the first slide is already wrong. I dislike how the post uses different slides and different stats and doesn't actually make a point, but you don't make any either.
/r/MensRights14/04/24 11:10 PM
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Yeah I had a guy saying the same shit to me, pretty crazy that even men would say that kind of shit They can't even think that « maybe I don't need to support everyone, maybe some claims are more believable than others » And even the first tweet is pretty crazy. No, people do not move on. If you're known as a rapist before it's proven wrong, most people will only ever hear the accusation. And that's when it's been proven WRONG, most false accusations can't be proven true, so you can be sure that…
/r/EverydayMisandry14/04/24 10:57 PM
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Education on average does reduce crime and places with high education rates have less rates of crime than less educated places Absolutely, but I think we'll agree that education is not just for men/boys, nor does it need to be taught exclusively by men. I absolutely believe in the power of education, we would all benefit from being collectively more educated. The question is what constitutes education. It never said it's men's responsibility to protect women, it just says it's their responsibili…
/r/MensRights14/04/24 12:40 AM
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Look, I have to accept life like this because if I didn't, I probably would have died. I can't expect anyone but me to look after my safety, that's an expectation inherent to my sex that you don't have. What you call "advocating for change" I call being delulu. There's no way that "educating men" will somehow reduce crime, only ideologues would think that. Also, most crime is already "men on men", does that mean that criminals are already avoiding women as targets? Those who want to rob/steal/ki…
/r/MensRights13/04/24 10:24 AM
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Yeah that was mostly an answer to « it's men's responsibility to not commit crimes on women » They don't even realize that a lot of them already do actually lol, but when they target men it's just « men on men so why should we care », it's like they are ONLY feminist therefore anything that doesn't revolve around women doesn't emit any spark of thought in their brain Criminals will commit crime and I don't expect them not to, maybe that's a better way to phrase it.
/r/MensRights13/04/24 10:09 AM
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it’s a response to people saying it’s a women’s responsibility to feel safe It's anyone's responsibility to feel safe. When I don't feel safe, I do something about it (I avoid spaces known to be unsafe, I grab my keys, I don't carry a lot of valuable stuff, I'm basically on guard). I don't expect others to not commit crime on me, That doesn't mean that it will never happen, obviously. But when somebody commits a crime I don't immediately accuse the parents, as I'm pretty sure that even if they r…
/r/MensRights13/04/24 09:32 AM
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I always love when someone says « we should educate men » oh yeah sure. About what ? Rape is bad ? Oh shit, it's true that I know people who forgot about that. Heck, even I forgot about it actually !!! Maybe people who actually commit crimes just need to be educated because they forgot that crime is bad ??
/r/MensRights13/04/24 09:30 AM
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Got circumcised when I was a baby for religious beliefs (I don't think that religion has anything to do with that, it's just dumb traditions that want men to not like sex too much because it could lead to depravity or some shit. Pretty weird of some would say that you can't have tattoos because « you can't modify the body God gave you » but cutting off your dick is fine) I wish I never had that honestly and I definitely won't do that to my kid.
/r/MensRights11/04/24 07:00 PM
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I have reached the point at which I can confidently pass judgment on it. When you think you do, you don't. (I acknowledge that the lack of male support systems in our society is egregious.) But you say that you have nothing against feminism. I mean, I'm not against women's rights either. But I don't support feminism because it actively work against men's rights. I don't expect them to do a damn thing, obviously feminism is about women, therefore we shouldn't expect anything from them. When they …
/r/MensRights09/04/24 07:23 PM
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Funny how she's specifically talking about looks. You don't even have to guess she's superficial, she just says it out loud.
/r/EverydayMisandry08/04/24 11:25 PM
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Honestly, that depends. If you're a hardcore leftist you're fine. If you're anything other than that, even moderate, you're done.
/r/EverydayMisandry08/04/24 11:23 PM
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Because they talk about them a little bit more, and in other ways than « you're weak, you have an ego, you need to behave differently, you are part of the problem, you need to shut up and listen » etc etc That's really about it honestly. People are just getting fed up by all that bullshit
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/04/24 11:03 PM
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I don't think they understand that we've been hearing them for decades now and that men do have things to say too But at that point, I'm starting to believe that these people just don't think that men are really humans therefore they don't mind that much. They are just between themselves, thinking about what men are without ever trying to listen to what men actually have to say. Pretty weird, I mean, if I wanna know what it is to be a woman, I'm not going to look for men to explain that to me
/r/EverydayMisandry08/04/24 11:02 PM
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She has none. It's just her way to justify how most domestic violence is mutual and how women perpetrate it almost as much as men do. She learned her own argument by heart and wrapped her mind thinking that was the truth and since they're a bunch doing the same thing then they're « fine ». Well, « fine » when you're not confronted to the harsh reality, or just people who don't think the same way
/r/EverydayMisandry06/04/24 10:49 PM
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It's quite funny how it's specifically talking about love and respect. Hate ? Anger ? Sadness ? Don't express those, we don't want that !!! At least they're honest, they aren't even trying to say that « men should express their emotions », they know what emotions they want and what we should keep for ourselves. People, you shouldn't use Google. I personally use Startpage but you can also use duckduckgo, pretty good too. Just anything that doesn't do garbage profiling and push politics on almost …
/r/MensRights06/04/24 05:08 AM
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The Patriarchy does exist (thankfully). No but the system isn’t designed to attack, torture, disenfranchise or destroy anyone (male or female). See, you said it yourself. Therefore the patriarchy explained by the feminist theory doesn't exist at all.
/r/EverydayMisandry05/04/24 04:16 PM
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Yeah but even then that's stupid as hell. It's supposed to be a system built by men at the expense of women, yet it would hurt us ?? If it does hurt us then it's not at the expense of women, therefore it's not a patriarchy and this concept just doesn't exist. The moment you use some kind of basic logic, that falls flat. But they believe it's true because they're many to believe it is.
/r/EverydayMisandry05/04/24 04:15 PM
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Yeah that's actually crazy, it seems that they just learned some flashcards and just repeat them whenever they can. Should be easy since it's always men that they have to blame. Unemployment ? Drought ? Probably men according to them
/r/EverydayMisandry05/04/24 04:20 AM
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Pretty funny how you're saying that my interpretation of what you've just said is the result of projection on my end while .... doing the exact same actually. I've never said we were doomed. Ever. In fact I think it's slowly getting better for us and I still hold hope. Actually very ironic how you would say that I'm the one holding nihilistic views when your first comment was .... praising a post that holds a nihilistic view I have never seen before that basically says that suicide isn't bad bec…
/r/MensRights05/04/24 04:19 AM
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What's the point really ? It's always the same shit over and over, they're spewing the same non sense and I'm getting tired of it. Do they really deserve a detailed answer ?
/r/EverydayMisandry05/04/24 03:26 AM
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Funny how one would feel smart talking about how a subreddit is an echo chamber while absolutely spewing nonsense about said subreddit You just don't know what you're talking about, you just made stuff up in order for your brain to feel fine not agreeing to what some are saying. Cognitive dissonance isn't comfortable. People don't like how that film portrays men as dumb and evil, and since you can't argue against it, you're just making stuff up about who they are so you don't have to think too m…
/r/MensRights05/04/24 03:21 AM
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You implied it. People don't care about how it was in the 1900s. They know it was worse. They know it was worse before our era, guess what ? It's just going to make it worse. How dare they feel so bad when they are actually lucky ? Guess it's just another reason to end it. That's basically how a suicidal person could think about what you would tell them if you were to make them a lecture about how bad it was then. You're right when you say that men don't have as much of a sense of purpose anymor…
/r/MensRights05/04/24 03:14 AM
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Can't believe someone actually said « suicide isn't bad » to try and justify that people ending their lives isn't actually a bad thing. Only a nihilist would hold such a dumb opinion People are being so miserable to the point they want to end it all and you'll just brush it off as « that's your choice » ? If you've ever been suicidal yourself or if you have genuinely interacted with one that felt like that you'd know it's not a fucking choice lmao. Nobody ends their life willingly, those who do …
/r/MensRights05/04/24 03:04 AM
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And we know when they're violent misandrists so I guess that makes it fair (?)
/r/EverydayMisandry03/04/24 11:25 PM
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You're both right. I'll just say that the issue we have is that we're trying to make reason out of people who genuinely hate us for being men, that's literally just about it. I wanted to make sense of that stuff, I wanted to understand. But there's no use in trying to understand irrational hate. As somebody who has faced racism, I can definitely tell you that I don't feel different when somebody hates me because I'm not white enough or a man, it's the exact same. They don't like the parallel, bu…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/04/24 10:08 PM
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So your point is that men are killing themselves because now they live much longer and knowing about the horrors of the past would make them feel less suicidal ? Oh yeah, the good old classic « eat your vegetables, there are starving children in Africa », that always worked, right ?
/r/MensRights03/04/24 09:57 PM
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Absolutely alarming yet I've heard people on tiktok saying « it's just a minority you probably don't know anyone who killed themselves now look at women's issues they are much more common » 💀 And this was a guy, privileged people will just take the most acceptable social stance and not the « right » one
/r/MensRights03/04/24 09:50 PM
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I hate that so much They talk about that stuff as if they were mere transactions, that makes me think that some of them might actually be literal psychopaths
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/04/24 09:44 PM
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Not the first time I've heard that kind of stuff sadly. I don't know how old you are but I've heard some stories of older gay men who said that they've been told that « they were maybe women » when they were teenagers because when you're effeminate you « aren't really a man » I guess ..... ? Thankfully I feel like it's getting better, slowly but surely. People are starting to call out misandry when they see it and that gives me hope.
/r/MensRights03/04/24 09:40 PM
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Basic human decency and having empathy is a « job » I guess I mean, I know they will say that lonely men (heck, even just « men ») have supposedly no empathy for them. Happily for them, they will probably never truly know how wrong they are
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/04/24 03:58 AM
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At one point I was like « would I be happier if I were a woman ? » but I came very fast to the conclusion that I'd rather learn to be comfortable as a man than convincing myself I'm something else despite all the support I could have had.
/r/MensRights03/04/24 12:47 AM
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Yeah that's the kind of over simplification that people love. « most criminals are men therefore I'm right to be afraid of men » as if there weren't more characteristics that could be used to pinpoint more accurately who seems potentially dangerous
/r/EverydayMisandry03/04/24 12:43 AM
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Is it really what she's saying tho ? From what I've seen she's basically saying that women should be empowered without emasculating and not strip us from our ability to protect and provide so that basically reads as « no gender rules for us but for you ». I haven't read the whole thing myself but idc that much about Shakira or her kids but I've seen people having that interpretation. Tho I commend her for actually caring about her sons and holding an opinion that obviously wouldn't get through a…
/r/EverydayMisandry03/04/24 12:42 AM
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That kind of irony will never stop to be funny
/r/EverydayMisandry02/04/24 05:27 PM
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Misandry doesn't kill ? I mean I'm pretty sure lots of people demonstrated that it does (and honestly it's also pretty easy to see, actually kind of discrimination can kill) but I guess we'll have to repeat it over and over until they get it
/r/EverydayMisandry02/04/24 05:27 PM
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It's always vagina and dicks, idk why they're always thinking about genitals all the time Also pretty funny they're beating up their frustration of expectations as adults. You know, me too I would have liked to be able to go back as a child where life was so much simpler, but I'm not blaming women for that I can't understand anything in the comments of the video, but I like the like ratio, only 3% lol you rarely see everyone agreeing on anything but there, it seems obvious to everyone how stupid…
/r/MensRights01/04/24 11:39 PM
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Idk why but I feel just so tired reading all that stuff Any sentence my eyes stumble upon is just wrong and dumb I mean, it shouldn't be that hard to understand that people don't want to be treated like garbage online by people they don't know. Doesn't matter if you don't really mean it or whatever. If you hate men you're sexist, that's really about it and I'm glad that men are more than ever aware of this being a problem : that's something you created. People claiming « kill all men » without s…
/r/EverydayMisandry01/04/24 07:12 PM
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Not necessarily. If it's aggregating a huge amount of data, and developed by hundreds or thousands of different persons with different backgrounds, and is just told to process this data and only this data then I don't see how it would be biased. I'm not even sure it would need to learn what a bias is, even then maybe it would be able to avoid that if it knows what it is.
/r/MensRights31/03/24 04:10 AM
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Being smart is being aware of your bias, therefore thinking while trying to hold any bias away as much as possible. Since we can't do that completely because of our human nature, the smartest AI will and should be one which doesn't have any. We're not asking for AI to be as smart as humans especially since it can be influenced by people with money/power/whatever, we're asking it to be smarter and factual because that's what would be useful to us for things greater than just administration jobs o…
/r/MensRights31/03/24 03:59 AM
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It was actually funny to see the google ai (forgot it's name) forcing diversity onto literally everything but only having an issue when it would generate diverse nazis Even asking jokes about men or women can be pretty hard. I did tried that tho : https://chat.lmsys.org/ and so far I've found that gpt4 turbo yields the best results. The jokes are actually « kinda » funny and it makes it for both men and women. I usually prompt « tell me a joke about men », compare results, then « tell me a joke …
/r/MensRights31/03/24 03:51 AM
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That's such a braindead take Also I guess that weapons, heck, even knifes or whatever object that can be used to hit don't exist at all
/r/EverydayMisandry31/03/24 03:03 AM
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Now I would not call myself a feminist either because male feminists are cringe (and also more likely to be sexual predators). I don't understand, are you just mentioning « male feminists » because you were talking about yourself not calling yourself a feminist or because you think that male feminists are more cringe ? Because that doesn't sit right with me. I don't think it's fair to say that men feminists are more cringe than women feminists, some would say it's even misandrist. We're pretty e…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/03/24 03:19 AM
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That's not a very smart way of thinking honestly. Because it's associated with Andrew Tate by some then you deem reasonable to call it cringe without even looking into what it's actually about ? By this logic, maybe the people who banned you from this subreddit because you have opinions that they associate with reactionaries are right then ? But you came here instead of questioning why you're a supposed reactionary. So you know it's wrong, that looks like a cognitive bias to me. Just a small hin…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/03/24 12:11 AM
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Yeah they seemingly do not know what anti-feminism actually is. They probably think it's basically anti-women's rights or something
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/03/24 09:17 PM
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It's like clockwork really. It's funny how they will talk about « anecdotal evidence » while talking about statistics that just don't apply here Because there are more men that apply for jobs they are underqualifiy doesn't mean that overall women are more qualified, that's a completely different thing. I don't like anecdotal evidence either, but I'd rather trust the experience of managers than some random person on Reddit throwing unsourced « statistic evidence » that doesn't even apply Companie…
/r/MensRights27/03/24 03:33 PM
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Takes minimal time to educate children about how to treat people decently ? Oh the irony I mean, the fact that they believe something that stupid is just telling. Clearly they need some more education, it's never too late and honestly, I think that for smart people it never stops.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/03/24 12:10 AM
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Anciones-Anguita said. “Especially because, despite references to the concept of sexual freedom, self-sexualization often responds to a patriarchal idea created based on the male ideology.” I'm not surprised, but I'm still getting disappointed each fucking time and I hate that. Is there a way to not feel like that ?
/r/MensRights26/03/24 02:40 AM
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There's a « funny » tweet saying that it's not about « poor little abused men » but it was a shelter for drug addicts ..... you're saying that homeless men could resort to drugs and in an effort to cure themselves from their addictions, a shelter could have been of huge help ? Naaaah ain't no way That's honestly disgusting how there are people who can just say shit like that proudly, not a drop of shame. But I'm glad that pretty much all the answers are calling out this bullshit. Since a few mon…
/r/MensRights26/03/24 01:29 AM
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Maybe listen to why people are saying this and THEN answer to that if you want to have a conversation. You're not saying anything here
/r/MensRights25/03/24 11:07 PM
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They don't have much likes. They're edgy and sas hell, let's not give these stupid bitches any attention, they don't deserve any. They're just spewing whatever brain rot they have up there because they know they couldn't say anything like that in real life, to any person.
/r/MensRights24/03/24 02:51 AM
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It's always pretty uncomfortable to answer that kind of questions when you feel targeted. I mean, lots of people could think they are good persons when maybe they aren't, maybe I'm one of those. Or maybe that if I was really good then I wouldn't have issues dating. So what's a good man really ? Cuz personally, I don't care that much about sex, it's pretty hard to put into words what I'm expecting from a relationship. I feel like I'm just a sensitive guy who just wants to love someone and to be l…
/r/MensRights24/03/24 02:47 AM
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Just young white men ? Not .... some men from deprived areas ? I mean it's nothing new that people from such areas are more likely to commit crimes but are these areas mainly inhabited by white people in Scotland ? Seems to me that they focused on that because they knew that not mentioning white people would have reflected badly on their agenda. They're basically taking their voters for idiots, that's so stupid It's pretty much the same everywhere in the west : extremism in all sorts of way is g…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/03/24 03:57 AM
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You people here actually think social security is going to help at all? What makes you think it wouldn't ? In my country it's a national treasure, it actually works great and neo-libs are trying so hard to kill it
/r/MensRights13/03/24 01:19 PM
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This line of thinking is just fucking stupid, Shapiro shouldn't be heard by anyone else Life expectancy is higher because there are jobs that are less taxing on your health, simple as that. Life expectancy ISN'T higher for people working the « worst » jobs, the very physical. Sometimes people can have huge issues with their back before their 40s if not before. So this stupid « life expectancy is higher therefore you shouldn't retire earlier » is dumb as hell. I can't wrap my mind about how many …
/r/MensRights13/03/24 01:14 PM
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Why would you call « toxic feminism » something that's literally true for ... literally all feminism, through all flavours, radical, liberal, whatever ? Feminism is about women. Cool for them, there's no « non-toxic feminism » that will be about men tho. As much as there are issues that are exclusive to you, there are some that are exclusive to us. Seems to me that you just want to convince yourself that patriarchy is a thing. Maybe it's not the patriarchy that's a « century old system with a fe…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/03/24 01:09 AM
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Yeah that bothered me too. I just don't understand why people would just ask for releasing women. I guess I just can't understand illogical hate, I don't understand why most people don't seem to have an issue with that tho
/r/MensRights12/03/24 01:01 AM
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the news media LOVES to talk about sexual assault because it gets people's attention. In that case I'm not too sure it's going to turn in his advantage. We know what happens when an adult woman « has sex » with an underage boy
/r/MensRights11/03/24 09:10 PM
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Can't it apply to the redpill thing too ? Or we just use blackpill because the redpill has been taken over by con-artists and podcasts ? It's just that I've heard so many stuff about both of these, the difference between both is not very clear in my head. Or maybe red is just about relationships between men and women ?
/r/MensRights11/03/24 08:10 PM
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Didn't know about the channel Rehab Room, I'll check that out. But yeah I do wonder what he means by « let the blackpill guide you », I've heard what some color pills mean but it's pretty hard for me to make it clear in my hand, at least clear enough for me to be able to explain with my own words
/r/MensRights11/03/24 08:01 PM
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Don't be a free agent in life. Let the bl*ckpill guide you. What do you mean by that ? How can it do that ? Genuine question in case some are wondering
/r/MensRights11/03/24 02:43 PM
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I've thought about some of it too. But my main issue at school was ADHD that I only knew I had very very recently (like a few weeks ago) The main issue I had in middle school tho was teachers (and basically every adult) saying that « boys are less mature than girls » and I don't know if that's true. Then I was in a ghetto. So the people weren't necessarily very well educated, they tended to be poor families. So yes, boys often got into a lot of mischief, but so did girls, even if less so. The pr…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/03/24 02:12 PM
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I don't think being under the influence of alcohol or weed should lower your sentence. And even if you think it should, I don't understand why you would think it's fine for a woman to not go to jail after stabbing 100 times her boyfriend, but not fine for this person to « only » spend 10 years in jail. Just don't be a hypocrite and say you hate men already. That'll make it easier, you won't have to justify your contradictions.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/03/24 12:30 AM
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Frankly, I could go on and on, but that's not the question. It's just that here again it's a story about women being celebrated and not men, so once again it leaves you with the feeling that we're not worth it. It just confirms the idea that men's lives are expendable. More than one suicide an hour in France, one every 30 minutes in England, 105 suicides a day in the US (it's not all men, but given that the majority are men, that's a lot). So I don't know, I don't think that just getting a messa…
/r/MensRights11/03/24 12:22 AM
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not just on international women's day And you think people aren't already trying to do that ? Now sure I don't think it's really relevant to talk about « what about men » when it's women's day, but you're basically saying it's men's fault that nobody cares about the day, which isn't necessarily true.
/r/MensRights10/03/24 07:56 PM
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1 : Not necessarily. The doctor isn't necessarily a man, and guess what, both parents decide if they want to have their kid circumcised or not. You're feeding people who say that women don't take accountability. 2 : Why do you even think that the gender of the perpetrator is even remotely relevant to the existence of the issue ? If men are getting murdered more, why do you think that the fact that they are murdered mostly by other men is even important to the point of using this « argument » as …
/r/MensRights10/03/24 07:54 PM
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I wouldn't argue that as a whole the patriarchy does overall benefit men in tangible ways. The basic principle of patriarchy is that it's a system that benefits men at the expense of women, a system made by men for men. Except that's not the case. As others have said, and as is becoming increasingly clear: there's no such thing as brotherhood. Just because we all live in a capitalist system in the West and men have certain advantages in society doesn't mean we're "overall" advantaged. Women also…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/03/24 11:24 PM
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Men have always been told to protect women during all their life. That's a part of why there's no in group bias. There's no « brotherhood »
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/03/24 10:39 PM
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I don't understand what's going on in this thread. What's so controversial ?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/03/24 05:08 AM
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2nd comment I see is immediately « hurts women equally » Not really surprised, but I'm still disappointed each fucking time
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/02/24 07:13 PM
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The methodology is just stupidly bad. Look, if you wanted to say that MAYBE not all feminists hate men, it's a discussion that could be worth having. But saying that feminists don't hate men more than nonfeminists ? It's obviously something that tries to reinsure feminists that they aren't truly hateful in their behavior so they can be sure that what they're doing right now is actually fine, using « studies » that none of them will check thoroughly So I'm pretty sure that a lot of women don't ac…
/r/MensRights22/02/24 02:12 PM
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I see that the website shown in the first screenshot actually has pretty much the same article for husbands yelling, so it's fair. Still no hotline thing tho. But you know, it's Google. I mean, why would you expect them doing something that wouldn't bring them GSP fund
/r/MensRights22/02/24 02:06 PM
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Looks like it went as expected
/r/MensRights17/02/24 02:35 PM
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Why it's always women writing those articles ? We need men to actually write those. It would be weird to have men writing articles about women's issues but some women just won't understand that as much as we can't understand what it's like to be a woman, they can't understand what it's like to be a man. Is it really that complicated ?
/r/MensRights14/02/24 05:03 PM
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I wanna see this shit with my own eyes, is there a source somewhere ?
/r/EverydayMisandry05/11/23 12:50 PM
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They are more toxic than normal men who feel lonely Oh for God's sake .... Your whole post just seem so out of touch, I just don't get why you feel the need to post that while lecturing about narcissists. The irony is crazy
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/10/23 10:50 AM
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You might want to check r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates, but there's no « middle ground » when it comes to discrimination really. Call yourself an egalitarian if you want, that's what I call myself. Down on the right collumn there's the r/FeMRADebates sub, actually this might be what you're looking for. I got to visit it a bit more often too, seems nice.
/r/MensRights07/10/23 07:11 PM
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You're more beautiful, you made efforts to be more in shape and your husband loves your even more for it. What the fuck is wrong there. I'm pretty sure that if he never changed his attitude, the person would have complained about him not acknowledging her efforts. It's obvious that she's now just deluding herself into not loving the guy so she can dump him whenever she has an occasion with someone else
/r/MensRights07/10/23 06:26 PM
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Israel is attacked by Palastine lol, it's funny you say that as if they were the invader. You know talking about palestine would have been a better example, as they're literally getting bombed, embargoed, throwing rocks and nurses getting shot by snipers, but yeah it's not the subject anyway. It's just that Palestine would have been a better example in every aspect if you wanted to talk about male disposability correctly. Tho I'll admit, sure women have to complete military service too, but they…
/r/MensRights07/10/23 01:54 PM
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That's what I've been saying for years Everytime they describe « the patriarchy » it's just capitalism that doesn't want to say it's name. So whenever it's coupled with anticapitalist stuff it's just actually so funny they can't even see how contradictory it is. It's just a mix of words and stuff they think are bad without any coherence
/r/MensRights07/10/23 01:44 PM
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It's not a perfect place, but it's good. I've had some trouble sometimes but it's still very fine.
/r/MensRights30/09/23 01:48 PM
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I don't understand the point you're trying to make. You say that it's wrong for them to treat all men like they're potential murderers while saying they're right because it's more scary. Yeah, I guess murder is more scary than rejection, sure. But in the context of dating ??? There's a rational fear of rejection, and being afraid that a guy could murder you is actually pretty fucked up. ​ ​ Also, rejection isn't the WORST thing that a man can be afraid of, far from that obviously. It plays into …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/09/23 01:50 AM
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Strength to you bro, sorry you've been through that fucked up shit.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/09/23 01:34 AM
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but isn't somehow using black people, who are actually marginalized in this country, as a cudgel? If you prefer to use arabs I give you the permission then. The point is still the same and I don't feel used in any way. Idk, I'm not « just an arab » nor a part of a community or anything, it's just a caracteristic of me, if it's more understandable to them and allows to make a paralel with racism I don't see why I should have an issue with that. Idk it's weird to me to feel « used » because of tha…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/09/23 01:29 AM
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Admittedly I don't have the answer but it feels like this is throwing minorities under the bus in a way. I don't understand why. I'm not even white and the argument seems fine to me. Literally means « racism bad » but if you wanna say « minorities » then it's the same thing really
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/09/23 01:23 AM
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Risk perception is very different for men and women, basically. It's been stated by countless studies for years now. I've seen some studies and complaints about how usually it's not really linked to gender theory or something, and it's actually kinda laughable. It's stated that this risk perception difference is true for literally the whole planet, yet it's american/western/liberal women that are the most afraid. The risk perception is fucked up, if you are really afraid of men in general you ar…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/09/23 01:20 AM
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Yeah but they'll say it's perpetrated by men so deal with it, it's « our » fault somehow
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/09/23 12:44 AM
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Fucking hell that was painful to watch, I hated it I also hate how the two men basically HAVE to « validate » their feelings everytime to not make things even more wrong. It's always like « oh yeah but women's issues are also bad for women » as if it was on topic. We still have a long way to go clearly. « Women have been oppressed for years » they can't even say that it's not important on the actual discussion. Are they talking to human beings ? Do they really need to be cuddled that much in ord…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/09/23 11:32 AM
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Why should I ? Sometimes I do feel like maybe I'm walking too close to a gal, or I've been behind her for a while and she might think about stuff, tho they don't seem to notice so I do think that most of the time it's just me overthinking stuff. And even if they do notice, I don't care. They'll have to think smart and understand that I'm just walking and being afraid because I'm a man is dumb. That's their problem, I'm done accomodating for stuff that's wrong. It's as dumb as crossing the street…
/r/MensRights26/09/23 04:15 PM
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Yeah people just don't realize that men spaces are ... actually freaking cool. People just don't wanna hear that as much as women can feel « free » between women, it's really the same thing for men
/r/MensRights26/09/23 04:07 PM
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If you were adults, I would say you could try helping her and such But you're just too young, of course you have no clue what you're doing. And I think you should reconsider this relationship before it goes too far too late. It's not because it's not her fault that she has to make you deal with the consequences. You're 16 for God's sake, it's not your wife.
/r/MensRights26/09/23 12:07 AM
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First, thanks a lot for being who you are. It always feels SO nice to have people like you around. I would say one of the many issues I have with women talking about men's issues is that they almost always talk with a feminist lens and just completely overrides the male perspective on their actual fucking issues. I could go even deeper into why it's a stupid paradox but there's no point doing this right now. It's just very silly and it just proves us right. That whenever men talk, people don't g…
/r/MensRights25/09/23 08:56 PM
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women and children die in war but not men ? ​ It's also very weird to see « a man » starting a war. They just see the « man » behind the function or the position. It's actually very misandrist and again, it's about making it a gender issue when it has no reason to be ​ ​ What's so funny is when they try to say that men start wars because of toxic masculinity lmao, as if it was out of pride or rivalry. What a way to over-simplify the start of a conflict between nations. It's crazy how they don't …
/r/MensRights24/09/23 02:27 AM
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People are saying « yeah it's reddit, it's the internet », I just hate how usually people tend to think that it's internet, it's not real life As if these dumbasses that tell you all that shit weren't actually people. I wish they weren't, but they are. And they hold the same garbage opinions in real life. ​ They just don't care about you. They don't care about what it is to be a man either. They care about them and people like them. There's no point trying to look for advice or any kind of help …
/r/MensRights24/09/23 02:25 AM
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I always wondered why would they think for a second that it would be fine for them to do that kind of fucked up shit when it's obvious to everyone that a man filming a woman in that exact situation « because she's hot » is fucked up. You would think that for people who are more likely to live these situations they would be more enclined to not ... do the same thing
/r/MensRights24/09/23 01:40 AM
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false notion that they were like the really extreme type that were deep into hatred towards women aka "incels". You're just talking about misogynists, not incels. Incel means involutary celibate, it doesn't necessarily means they hate women because they can't get a girlfriend. People like to use that as a derogatory term because you know, if you can get bitches then it must mean you're a garbage human being and deserve being lonely.
/r/MensRights24/09/23 01:37 AM
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They just like to say « male dominated » because it implies we pushed women away from it. Just another way to say that any space that has more men is bad and men in those spaces are bad, so that's why women aren't interested in those fields despite all the work that's being done to have more women in these. There's just no way to win. The only thing to do is to not do a damn thing. No funds or anything, women who are interested will be welcomed just like anyone else and that's it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/09/23 06:30 PM
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That's why the « patriarchy » theory is just bullshit. It's just a way to deflect it all on men and make gender the issue when it has nothing to do with it. It literally just describes the capitalistic system we live in while suppressing the whole capitalist features. Why would there be so many companies and people in power in favor of feminism if it wasn't just working sooooo well with the statut-quo. I really can't think of anything better than having men and women hating and blaming each othe…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/09/23 06:26 PM
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It's even worse than just « nothing has been done to push stereotypically female jobs », there's actually a real stigma about that stuff. Men just can't show affection to kids who aren't their own otherwise they're seen as creeps. So when you teach you're probably better being more distant. There were stories on this sub (or maybe other subs) about men who were called creeps by angry mothers even tho they genuinely did nothing wrong, they just like taking care of young kids and somehow this view…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/09/23 06:18 PM
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I can't offer you anything but my genuine sympathy Honestly if you don't think you can find love here, maybe consider finding it elsewhere ... That's what I'm thinking about too. Maybe the grass is greener somewhere else
/r/MensRights23/09/23 06:07 PM
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They like to think that men can't talk about their struggles because of other men ​ I had struggles talking about stuff about both men and women really, and guess what kind of men I can't talk about that kind of stuff ... It's pretty simple : People who know they aren't oppressors or perpetrators of any shit know if you aren't too and offer actual support to be a better human being rather than convince you that you are as bad as they are. Actually, the most supportive guys I've met where those w…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/09/23 12:50 PM
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Don't care. If I need it then I guess there must be some illegal way to do it. This shit is crazy
/r/MensRights18/09/23 04:59 PM
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Also, it’s only a matter of time, before people attracted to men and only men, will get hit with the “sexist” label. Oh it's on the rise. I've seen people demonizing hetero sexual men who aren't into women* with penises. That's just crazy.
/r/MensRights17/09/23 08:47 PM
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This looks like a genuinely perfect space for a boy to grow up in I wish I was told how to handle my feelings towards girls when I was young, how to ask out, or just some manual stuff. I see my father can literally build stuff but I'm unable to. Tho I'm way better with computers, but still, that would have been nice to have such skills. These people just don't understand that men sometimes also need men-only spaces. They think we don't because they don't see men as humans, they think we're simpl…
/r/MensRights17/09/23 08:43 PM
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Because that takes efforts she's not willing to make, it's better to complain to have others do the job for you.
/r/MensRights17/09/23 08:38 PM
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How the fuck can you look at this women, say she's vile politically, etc. and then still want to get with her? That's literally the same thing as some women who are somehow attracted to Andrew Tate despite what he's saying. It's not that they ignore what he's saying or that they like it (because they don't), it's because attraction is just something else. So maybe it's also up to them to realize that men and women do the exact same thing in that regard
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/09/23 06:56 PM
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I would be lying if I said I did not expected idiots to downvote, I guess I just had some light hope that people would understand limited skepticism in here but I guess that's not the right place. I can feel sorry only for the OP, not for those who are triggered because I prefer expressing a glimpse of skepticism when a story published on the Internet just seems crazy to me. I knew I could have said things differently to avoid reactions like that, but I also think it's important to be who you ar…
/r/MensRights14/09/23 04:33 PM
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I hope I didn't come across as rude when I said it might be fake. It's a learned behavior on my part, where I tended to take anything that could be said a bit seriously. And I really can't imagine how I would have felt if my own sisters had said things like that to me. I understand the profile, I totally agree with what you said and it's sad that she's like that. A good person would have consideration for her brother, you deserve it. Unfortunately we don't always get what we deserve, but I hope …
/r/MensRights13/09/23 10:41 PM
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I'm suspecting this post is fake, there's no way somebody could be that fucking stupid. There's being that stupid on the Internet, and there's having a brother with this issue and having a rotten brain SO limited you can't even question your own misconceptions. It literally happens in the family, someone supposedly close to her, yet she doesn't think more than that I'm sorry, but I just can't believe somebody could have a brain SO FUCKING limited while being to remember to breathe. Of course the…
/r/MensRights13/09/23 09:34 PM
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Supposedly, domestic violence only comes from men, even tho it's 50/50. So of course only boys need to learn about that stuff and men don't have anything to say on the matter. The regular « shut up and listen » you're supposed to eat every day
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/09/23 06:54 PM
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That's actually insane to be comfortable saying this out loud. People aren't not getting shamed enough to not say stupid sexist shit
/r/EverydayMisandry01/09/23 12:58 PM
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« Judge described it as 'the worst case of coercive control' she had ever seen » ​ And so she decides of that sentence ?????????? I just don't get it
/r/MensRights25/08/23 06:39 PM
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She's a pos, that's really about it. Nobody with a healthy mind would ever think talking like that if it was about a guy mourning the loss of his mother. Stay strong bud
/r/MensRights13/08/23 12:31 PM
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That's actually crazy A few years ago when my little sisters where too young to go back home from school alone, I used to come myself and I loved it really. It felt a bit like « training » somehow, for when I'll have my own kids. My mom couldn't due to health reasons, but when she was back, other mothers would tell her how her son took care of her daughters. And now I'm afraid I'm just going to be labeled as a creep because I enjoy making children smile. Even today I like smiling at them. For to…
/r/MensRights11/08/23 02:12 AM
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Well kudos to you. I'm trying to be less expressive because that always back fires. In fact, when I think about myself, I see I've changed SO much after just a few years
/r/MensRights08/08/23 01:33 PM
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Strength to you bro. I hope it works, that's a nice initiative. Stay safe
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/08/23 05:11 PM
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I've always felt like, when I'll have a son (hopefully), I'll teach him how to be smart. How to think by himself, how to apprehend the world around him. I'll say what I THINK, that he can use what I think as a base. That as a child he's under my responsibility but one day, him and I will be equals. And that no matter what his view on politics or anything, as long as he learns how to discuss about that stuff properly, like a smart guy, I'll be proud of him, even in disagreement. Now of course it'…
/r/MensRights07/08/23 10:55 AM
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That's crazy what happens in tech really. They really want to fight SO HARD against a stigma that doesn't exist. Women just aren't THAT interested in tech, and that's fine. It's not because tech people aren't welcoming or anything, I hope one day that these initiatives are just insulting to everyone involved
/r/MensRights07/08/23 10:49 AM
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They literally know how they are wrong and the repercussions of what they do, but because they know they are not alone, because they aren't shamed into changing (because it's pretty hype to hate men), they just won't change because it's hard and they have no impulse to do so
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/08/23 07:21 PM
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That's because the bourgeoisie was fed up with that bullshit at the time too. So pretty much the rulling class now. It's really not just « poor people rose up », sure they were detrimental when force was necessary like in La Bastille, but they never expected a revolution, even less to go that way. And nowadays it's not like we all agree on what the enemy is. Some think it's men, some think it's women, and I think that's done on purpose.
/r/MensRights02/08/23 12:20 PM
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I get triggered too ​ The worst thing is, even with all your story, some will still say « well, that's just toxic masculinity to have double standards !!! That backfired !!! », it's really just that easy
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/08/23 11:58 AM
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Honestly, that's genuinely how I feel. I feel more conservative than ever, and I'm glad I'm not the only one. And I totally agree with those who say that the left just went « further » and pushed us away. Being a leftist just seems like a whole other thing nowadays. I'm not going to go into the details or anything, but that's basically it. The left went even more left while demonizing men. And now people act surprised ? You know they'll say that men today are sexists and racists lol, nobody will…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/08/23 11:14 AM
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They definitely don't care. Just wanna see the difference in behavior, because some definitely do, and idk, I just have a weird fascination for people who are so miserable they come to hate people for their ethnicity or their sex. Some are even proud of calling themselves misandrists lol. They can't even see how it's really not smarter than being proudly racist or misogynist so I'm just curious of what's under the shell. I expect complete void but hey ... You never know.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/23 09:37 PM
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I've given a pretty long answer, I probably shouldn't have bothered as I know it will not be received very well but whatever. ​ Sometimes I do feel like making another account and talking as a woman, just to see how some of them would react, as I know for a fact that a lot of these people react VERY vehemently the moment they know you're a man. Sometimes I've been asked online if I was a man or a woman, but I never lied about it .... Maybe I should try, just to see.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/23 07:29 PM
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I just know my mother went with my little sisters, and they all liked it, especially my mother. Told me it's about « women's emancipation, and men's too ! » Asked my little sister what it was about, she couldn't clearly explain it to me but basically said it's « Barbie finds out her world is made by women but the other real world is ran by men and it makes her sad » So ..... Yeah I'm waiting for torrents. When I went to watch Oppenheimer with my brother, I remember there was this ad rolling, it …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/07/23 03:36 AM
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Genuinely fucking disgusting really. Not only in any country but ukraine specifically, right now ? For God's sake
/r/MensRights27/05/23 06:07 PM
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Feminists tried to push the dogma onto muslim women in afghanistan and countries like that, it didn't worked because most muslim women don't care. They see and know the responsabilities a man and husband has and they know theirs. I don't think western people realize that the western lifestyle isn't attractive to many people outside the west. So when you have feminists in afghanistan trying to tell you about equality and stuff when you have a husband who is bound by his religion to provide for yo…
/r/MensRights27/05/23 04:23 PM
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Honestly ? Idk I'm definitely not a feminist, I certainly « pro-men » but I also consider myself a leftist. Yep, we exist. We even have a subreddit. But yeah, in the whole « left sphere » we really can't show ourselves in broad daylight. I wouldn't say that the right is the default position for anyone seeking mens rights. It's just that the left really mostly do not tolerate that stuff and the right is kinda allowing it because there are more extreme people and very conservative, that push tradi…
/r/MensRights28/09/22 05:27 PM
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If we had something like that for everyone she wouldn't pass, but I guess that these people are never aware of their privileges until they lose them
/r/EverydayMisandry23/09/22 11:52 PM
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I know it would be true, maybe people should stop portraying everyone they disagree with as nazis, just in general. People just don't try to understand other people anymore (I say « anymore » but I don't know if they used to tho, it's just that with the state of the Internet today it doesn't surprise me too much that people are getting more radical)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/09/22 11:58 AM
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Not as much as they are trying to say. I would be fine if they were just saying that it's about women's rights, which it is. But maybe we could start to say that men's rights benefit women too, see how it goes. ​ Also allowed to show emotions ? I'm only allowed to show emotions around other trustworthy men. Women I've known couldn't handle my emotions and that's putting it VERY lightly, I don't think they understand men, they should know they can't understand us tho
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/09/22 11:45 PM
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I don't really think so, not in feminist spaces at least. And if you're arguing against somebody, it's better to just lay your stuff and disable notifications, leave it at that. If it peeks someone's interest they'll do the search, but you shouldn't go too far into that, it's really not very useful When you're trying to convince somebody, the best thing is the speech, debates are awful when it comes to actually convincing people. In debates, people will mostly agree with what they already agree …
/r/MensRights19/09/22 11:42 PM
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Why would it be ? I don't consider myself an MRA, I just call myself an egalitarian (or egalitarist, whatever). There are women lurking over here too. Unlike what some people who tell you, it's not about stripping women's rights or something, so you can do both really. Maybe a good read to begin is this classic ? https://archive.org/details/warren_farrell_the_myth_of_male_power_why_men_are_the_disposable_sex/mode/2up Might already give you some input about why almost everyone here cringes a bit …
/r/MensRights17/09/22 01:37 PM
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But then women will get angry when people say that they're looking for men with high status and stuff.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/09/22 06:16 PM
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But that ignores the fact that the "lack of compliments" from women is their own damn fault. Like women who like guys would compliment them, its just men tend to take that as solicitation so we often feel like just never doing that unless we are comfortable that they arent gonna wanna hop inside at the slightest show of validation. Lmao what the actual fuck ​ These people really haven't talked to men. When I say « talked » I mean something beyond superficial level. They don't know shit about men…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/09/22 06:15 PM
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and are only pretending to be ex-MRAs in order to give their "MRAs are misogynists" claim more weight. And to farm some karma on Reddit. Internet points are very important
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/09/22 09:08 AM
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You're doing good and you seem very aware so that's already something that a lot of teenagers cannot do. It's fine to think like that because a lot of older men are starting to get into that kind of stuff too, so it doesn't surprise me to see teenagers trying to grasp stuff around men's issues and stuff like that, it's about you after all. We are getting our ideas into the real world. Not as such as big scale as feminism. It's not as old, it's not about women, companies don't sell much with that…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/09/22 05:27 PM
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The ex-MRAs comments are somewhat funny to be honest It really does feel like caricatures. The « I changed my stance through self-development, they just hate feminism and it's easier to hate something that tangible instead of grasping complex issues » but don't realize that's exactly something that could be said about feminism lmao Because I suppose that patriarchy is a complex concept ? Also who told this guy that feminism was the root of almost all men's issues ? Never heard of anything like t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/09/22 05:03 PM
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I do agree. The « right wing » idea I kinda have is mostly because I have seen some people (in not very upvoted comments tho, I want to clarify) saying stuff like shit happens because of lost traditionnal values and family stuff. Really conservative and traditions talking. This is an opinion honestly and I have nothing against people who want to live « traditionaly », and I'm glad these opinions are respected over there because I just don't want these people to feel like it's unacceptable to thi…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/09/22 05:34 PM
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What a wholesome thread. Cheers to both of you. I hope to be as successful and happy as both of you, one day. If you have any useful resources or anything, that would be helpful (trying to get motivation to go to the gym more often and improve my dating life)
/r/MensRights11/09/22 04:02 PM
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Yeah, because deep down ... It's our fault :) Check your privileges mate, you inflicted that to yourself the day you were born :))))
/r/MensRights11/09/22 03:51 PM
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No. They don't give a fuck. Feminism is about women's rights, therefore they don't give a shit about men and you shouldn't expect them to.
/r/MensRights11/09/22 12:51 PM
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We do face systemic disadvantages, but most of them are created by men Stop, stop, stop « Men » isn't a class. « Women » isn't a class either. There are working men and women, middle class women and men, rich men and women, ultra rich women and men, etc etc There's no such thing as just « men ». It doesn't make any fucking sense to say « well rules were made by men », I didn't, you didn't, everyone here never agreed or made up those rules. All the people fighting to keep women from signing up fo…
/r/MensRights11/09/22 12:49 PM
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Someone didn't liked that comment, that's weird I thought that people here would prefer to have female rapists being sentenced the same as male rapists over here but somebody doesn't like that idea 🤡
/r/PussyPassDenied10/09/22 12:13 AM
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Some western countries should take example
/r/PussyPassDenied09/09/22 09:53 PM
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I don't agree with MRA on the common theme of their hatred of women Since it's the thing that you started with I wanted to mention that and try to change your mind. Sure there are people who are kinda biggoted but that's it, it's not about hating women over there, it's basically the same as here only right-wing people are allowed (I mean not that it's forbidden here but it's not a place really meant for right-wing ideas). I still prefer this sub tho, it's not perfect imho but it helped me feelin…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/09/22 09:44 PM
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People really should stop about this dumb rhetoric You don't like feminism now ? You probably wouldn't have liked it either back then Women couldn't vote back in the 1800s but only men who owned lands above a certain value were able to vote (and they had to draft, obviously) Then women who had lands were able to vote, then 1918 women and men were able to vote. But men still have to draft to be considered citizens and being able to vote :) It's not about « true gender equality », it's about women…
/r/PussyPassDenied09/09/22 07:27 PM
1

Look, if you aren't willing to make the effort and try to understand what's being said here (past some of the misoginistic comments that can happen, but are not tolerated here), what are you even doing here in the first place ? There are issues that men face just like women face issues that are exclusive to them. I guess you could have some empathy towards trans men who did realized it's not at all like you people try to portray manhood and how privileged we are supposed to be. Could give you a …
/r/MensRights12/08/22 05:12 PM
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the patriarchy hurts us all That thing doesn't exist tho. It's really just a way to hide actual class struggle and put every men on the opposite camp to have poor people fight other poor people. It's stupid af. You could argue that « traditional values hurt men as they aren't necessary anymore » (and I would tend to agree with you) but we aren't talking about a system anymore. What is hurting us, and is also hurting women, is just good old fashion capitalism baby, but you know .... it's better t…
/r/MensRights11/07/22 05:00 PM
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If you attract a lot of shit, usually you just know it, and you know that you are doing your best despite the shit that's going on. People who are good absolutely do not feel forced to say they're good, they just show and it seems obvious. When you say that you are a good person especially in this situation, it's because you know you look like a bad person, people have been telling you that, and because you can't look like a good person to someone's eyes, you're just saying it because you want t…
/r/MensRights11/07/22 04:57 PM
1

Strength to you gal
/r/MensRights11/07/22 04:45 PM
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Idk, in my mind it's pretty clear it's as bad, but I can understand what you mean. We have been told the opposite pretty much all the time, obviously it can be hard to really « get » it's not true
/r/MensRights11/07/22 04:39 PM
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Almost all my life I've been like « eh, it ain't that bad » but after some time, I think I would have prefered keeping it. It's very « dry » on the tip and I don't feel much. I've heard the cleaning thing and yeah ... I mean, you basically have to wash it just like you would wash the rest of your body. It's like not forgetting to wash behind your ears. It's not really an argument. In reality it's just like excision, it's so you don't have « too much » pleasure with sex, which is utter bullshit. …
/r/MensRights05/07/22 05:57 PM
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Honestly I'm fine with that But don't get too upset if it's not really equal then ? Or give 3 days to men and that's it
/r/MensRights11/05/22 10:13 PM
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I remember in my work-law classes, basically the teacher said that records could be used but also texts and stuff like that, basically everything you have could be used even tho it could be recorded with your phone recording in your pocket or something. But I'm in France, it might be different in the US, obviously
/r/PussyPassDenied08/05/22 12:09 AM
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Answer to the title : No. Right-wing people would rather push towards more traditionalism and stuff, and if they are fine with it, good to them, but I'd rather prefer being free and not being expected to follow a role that doesn't suit me. If they prefer having obligations, expectations set to them, best of luck to them. It's not for me tho.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/03/22 09:05 PM
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Lol so many people spewing shit about « muh incels » just because of an image saying somebody shouldn't do that. People got nerves
/r/PussyPassDenied27/03/22 12:58 PM
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There is no privilege used here. Thinking this is okay doing that is using privilege, and the fact that you don't even see the issue proves the point. You know there's a double standard, I would say denying somebody the ability to gain from that can be called a « pussypass denied »
/r/PussyPassDenied27/03/22 12:56 PM
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Does this really fit? Yes it does
/r/PussyPassDenied27/03/22 12:41 PM
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« woman do something bad, people point out the double standard and say this is bad => muh wahmen hate »
/r/PussyPassDenied27/03/22 12:41 PM
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Makes me think about that bias where usually when something happens, people don't do anything because they tell themselves that somebody else will intervene.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/03/22 05:04 PM
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Idk, in that situation I would at least consider calling the police or something ? I would hate myself for not even trying to do something. If I couldn't do too much without putting myself too much at risk, I would be fine but not doing absolutely anything ? Feels like excessive individualism to me
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/03/22 09:01 PM
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Not only does it not concern all species, but what you are doing is called the fallacy of appeal to nature. The human species has distinguished itself from all other species on the planet by being able to think and to question the established order. Just because there are species where males have to fight a duel to the death to impress a female does not mean that we should kill each other to seduce women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/03/22 09:15 PM
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Yeah the classic rhetoric of « it's just modern feminism, it didn't used to be that bad »
/r/MensRights13/03/22 11:12 AM
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You don't know anything about what you are talking about. All the analogies you've done are absolutely irrelevant. I've already wrote an answer so I won't bother writing another one. Educate yourself.
/r/MensRights05/03/22 12:50 AM
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Being such a horrid person that it makes you an incel (unless like someone is disabled or something) is just another insult to be used with others. So if you are involutarely celibate, you are a horrible person, huh I mean, I first thought you made a difference between « involutarely celibate » and « incel », but you said « unless like someone is disabled or something », meaning that it's fine for a disabled person to be an incel (meaning being misogynist and stuff) ...... But that doesn't make …
/r/MensRights04/03/22 10:33 PM
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I'm sorry but I don't get the point you are trying to make, I was just saying that people should stop using « incel » as an insult
/r/MensRights04/03/22 06:12 PM
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« watching prediction after prediction come true based on FDS principles » lmao that's what gets me, she's so much into FDS she's there to confirm her bias, he could have done literally anything and she still would have said that this confirms what she's been told at FDS. This is the exact definition of lack of critical thinking.
/r/MensRights04/03/22 06:01 PM
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Yep, people should stop using the term « incel » as an insult or something. It literally means unvoluntarely celibate, being celibate against your will doesn't necessarily mean you are a bad person. Call misogynists a mysogynist, no need for other terms
/r/MensRights04/03/22 05:59 PM
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Idk if you're a troll, but your account is new and very suspicious, we're advocating for men's rights, not for global misogyny
/r/MensRights04/03/22 02:42 PM
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Tbh if your girl dump you because she thinks she can do better, you can only do better
/r/PussyPassDenied04/03/22 02:31 PM
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Yeah honestly I felt very uncomfortable after a few minutes so I don't think I'm going to watch the entirety of it ....
/r/PussyPassDenied03/03/22 08:07 AM
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That's the kind of post where I dont really have something very useful to say but I still feel the need to say thank you for the post and I'm sorry about what happened to you, I'm glad you are doing fine now. I'm sure your boy will be fine and that you will be an awesome mother. I'm genuinely happy that you are what you are.
/r/MensRights27/02/22 09:25 PM
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My claim is that a hoard of Redditors shouldn't condemn her without all the facts and/or some basic empathy. Everyone here has basic empathy actually. You just forgot to have empathy for the guy who went 26 years in prison for no reason and you claim that people do not have empathy because they won't side with the woman who divorced to move on with her life (fair enough) but sued him to get some of the big money ? That actually says a lot. You are just staying there spewing bullshit and claiming…
/r/PussyPassDenied18/02/22 08:44 AM
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25 years later, her ex-husband is vindicated, and receives $6 million in compensation. Is it not fair for her to receive some compensation for all that pain and trauma she experienced due to no fault of her own? Absolutely fucking no. Man went to prison, somehow the wife is the victim. What the fuck. I mean, yeah sure she divorced because she thought her husband raped somebody and stuff, ok fine, but suing the guy for a part of his 6m$ ???? And you think that's fine because « muh trauma » ??????…
/r/PussyPassDenied18/02/22 08:41 AM
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The first line of the article is already a bit problematic to me tbh .... a joke of « no ill-intent » ? I mean idk, I find this at least a bit debatable, I find it a bit hard to believe that somebody would make this kind of jokes without an intent to provoke and make some people angry, she's just apologizing because it got out of hand, she clearly didn't read the room and when you miss the point like that, I find it very hard to think you weren't doing that on purpose. Also, what do they mean by…
/r/MensRights17/02/22 11:14 PM
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You are either a feminist or you have « internalized misogyny » and needs treatment or something, that's kinda insane
/r/MensRights17/02/22 10:36 AM
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I think that plays a pretty big part yeah, tho at least with the people around my age I've found that a lot more people would be "okay" with that, more than what I suspected, the thing is that very few know how to deal with other people releasing their emotions and prefer to avoid that (and as a guy who's pretty open about his feelings, at least way more than people I know, that's very hard to get through when people do that) It's only about education and harmful gender roles that teaches men th…
/r/MensRights15/02/22 10:44 PM
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What's the point they are trying to make ? They should be able to behave badly and get away with it because men supposedly are ?
/r/PussyPass15/02/22 06:05 PM
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Yeah I'm absolutely not denying biological factors and women will still probably outlive men by a tiny margin, that's not « biological discrimination » or anything like that. I just don't think that's enough to justify why we are missing that many years, we are so far behind women in terms of mental health, that's already something that needs to be improved. I don't even care too much about life expectancy, I just want people to have better mental health overall and men just happen to be particu…
/r/MensRights15/02/22 05:48 PM
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Those are obvious reasons yes, I was being a bit sarcastic. Obviously working dangerous jobs and stuff isn't being reckless. It was just a generalization from what we can sometimes hear (at least I did), people that are sometimes saying that men die more from car crashes, alcoohol, they are being too reckless or shit like that
/r/MensRights15/02/22 08:31 AM
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I don't exactly know which species but I guess that's because most males will have to fight and hunt ? Which isn't exactly what I'll call being « reckless » Of course my post was just a simplist generalisation from what we can hear sometimes, you get the point, there are reasons why men have lower life expectancy but it's not always something that shouldn't be fixed
/r/MensRights15/02/22 08:20 AM
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Imagine having a shorter life expectancy but also the need to work longer to retire But you know, men have lower life expectancy because they are reckless, that's it :)
/r/MensRights14/02/22 08:44 PM
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Totally. And honestly I'm kinda tired to see almost everyone saying that they are feminists, using a bunch of buzzwords to label themselves and show how they are so progressive and stuff. Most people are egalitarians, they want social justice and stuff, for both men and women, but somehow they all choose to call themselves feminists. My guess is that men will call themselves feminists because it just call for their « protective instinct » of some sort, cuz you know .... men need to protect women…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/02/22 01:36 PM
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Completely unrelated and has nothing to do with feminism. Literally anybody who's not in the political sphere could agree on that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/02/22 01:25 PM
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Then call yourself an egalitarian and stop messing around with stuff and people who work actively against equality. Simple. I could use a shit tons of definitions to define a shit ton of things, doesn't mean I'm right to do so. By calling yourself a feminist, even if you think that « you use another definition », you are still siding with people who are actively working against men, at some point it needs to stop, people need to stop calling themselves feminists because it's fancy, it is actuall…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/02/22 01:22 PM
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Not necessarily. Feminism does stuff and acts like it knows how men behave, how it is to be a man. Feminists activists don't know men. I don't have any issues with feminism « liberating » women, not at all. But it's very schyzophrenic when it comes to men. Sometimes they « care » (in their own way), most of the time they don't. I also have an issue with « good feminists », liberal feminists had to borrow concepts from radical feminists in order to stay relevant, because when you have rights and …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/02/22 01:14 PM
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Not everyone does claim that it's for everyone. Being a feminist means you believe in the concept of patriarchy and that as a man, you benefit from it. Go through menslib and see how it goes for them, everything about them is, first, a woman's issue, and a lot of drama has been going on recently since a lot of them managed to see that MAYBE, feminism doesn't really give a flying fuck about men and just want to do stuff their own way, seeking men allies to give them credibility.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/02/22 01:01 PM
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You really can't call yourself a feminist and advocating for men's rights tho. Call yourself an egalitarian, not a feminist
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/02/22 11:19 AM
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Yeah because I suppose that blocking is for girlz. Real men don't block.
/r/MensRights08/02/22 04:17 PM
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They don't care but they also loooove to say that they did more than movements like MRAs and stuff. ​ Like yeah, you did more, I actually agree. You did worse, but you did more.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/02/22 12:40 PM
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That's exactly that, they don't know SHIT, they act and say like they know how men behave between themselves and stuff, but they couldn't be farther from the truth. You can spot a woman who doesn't know shit about men from kilometers away The thing is they think that they know men because they obviously have male friends, or even lovers, so they must know men .... right ? It's basically saying that you can't be racist because you have black and arab friends ... so of course you know them, right …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/02/22 12:38 PM
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Lmao I swear to God I love when they say that « you can't consider yourself a leftist if you don't believe in the patriarchy » that's actually damn funny, for real There was a time I would just twist my mind to try to get this way of thinking, but now when I see that they think that even MensLib is becoming « bad » because stuff happened and people there may have become to think that some things aren't okay, they are mad If these people change their minds, they will do it overtime, after real wo…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/02/22 12:30 PM
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« I don't get the same pass as men, boys will be boys, If a guy wants to fuck anything that moves he's a player » Girl, shut the fuck up really, you don't know shit about how men behaves and think of these behaviors, go to therapy and stop blaming men for the shit you are going through.
/r/MensRights01/02/22 08:09 AM
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That's great to know, the « how can she slap me ? » resonates so hard and it's cool to see he's not known just for that
/r/MensRights31/01/22 09:29 AM
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Absolutely, fuck them, the guy just saying « bloody bastard » and white knighting is so fucking ridiculous
/r/MensRights31/01/22 09:29 AM
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What sub it was ??
/r/MensRights25/01/22 11:33 AM
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Yo, that's something, I'll send this everytime sometimes think that rape is cool or something, they won't dodge it if it's only 2 minutes
/r/MensRights24/01/22 11:07 AM
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Women have higher chance of being victim of a crime They aren't
/r/PussyPassDenied21/01/22 10:00 AM
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When walking alone by night, you are way more likely to get mugged and killed as a man, than getting raped as a woman This is not safe for anybody, saying that you should prioritize women is basically saying that men's lives don't matter, there's is literally no reason to prioritize « saving » women, they were perfectly right on prioritizing based on locations, not gender.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/01/22 10:00 AM
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It's 2022 and people are still spitting this bs rhetoric, damn .... Still got a lot of work to do
/r/PussyPassDenied21/01/22 09:40 AM
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Oh yeah, « actual feminists »
/r/PussyPassDenied21/01/22 09:39 AM
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Let's do the same about women lmao, would be funny to guess the consequences, right ?
/r/FeminismStopsWhen21/01/22 09:30 AM
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LMAO so now when people (and not just men) prove that women just aren't that much into STEM fields, that's just fake ? And you can just say that it's because men have power and they led women to think they aren't ? That just blew my mind
/r/FeminismStopsWhen18/01/22 07:56 PM
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I tend to agree but talking about « rules » or stuff like that does over-simplifies things. I don't think the problem was that « you shouldn't commit with crazy people » because ... well you don't always know when a gal is crazy. It may be the fact that she was 19 therefore way more immature. To me he was pretty stupid to have a relationship with such a young girl and playing with people's hearts is a dangerous thing and I say that to both men and women. I remember the story of an egirl who like…
/r/MensRights15/01/22 02:17 PM
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The comments on the article are absolutely disgusting
/r/MensRights14/01/22 08:53 PM
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Yeah I'm kinda surprised to see so many people not seeing the problem when saying something like that
/r/MensRights14/01/22 08:51 PM
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The important question is what should be done about it Sure, but that wasn't the question around the debate I had. I already said that we probably couldn't have an exact number but I still need to know if there is a possibility of narrowing a bit more in order to have a more precise prediction in order to stop them from thinking that it's so rare. In the end, it's not the most important, obviously, but that wasn't the question at the moment.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/01/22 10:37 PM
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Thank you for your comment, I'll check the video. I know that out of all the rape trials there was, only a few really got to actual conviction, I used this logic to basically tell them « well, if your logic is that it's rare because there only was 5% of confirmed crimes, then by this logic there is also only a tiny percent of actual rapes because only a tiny fraction leads to conviction » and then I concluded by saying it's all about ideology then because some would say that out of all the cases…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/01/22 04:35 PM
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Thanks a lot for your comments guys, it genuinely makes me think about how I could better talk about the subject next time I have the opportunity, I'll explore more but having different opinions was the thing I needed
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/01/22 09:49 AM
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What I meant is that I need to be sure of what I'm talking about in order to be more comfortable talking about this subject with friends. Honestly I felt pretty bad searching for stats to support my opinion, I felt like this was wrong and wouldn't help me to have a critical thinking, tho I thought that having different opinions in here would help me and so far it does
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/01/22 09:46 AM
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It's fine to have a dialogue, but what I mean by « shut up and listen » is to listen, then dialogue, you know ? Because as a man, I can sometimes feel that I am being heard, but not listened. And sometimes, agreeing that you can't understand', is enough to feel listened. https://youtu.be/3WMuzhQXJoY Here's the ted talk of Cassie Jaye who made the film « the red pill » about her meeting men's rights activists. There's a moment she talks about how she wasn't actually listening and it's very intere…
/r/MensRights12/01/22 12:58 PM
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That's not what a radfem is, that's a TERF. Radfems aren't necessarily TERFs. And sorry to say that but yes, radfems constitute the majority of feminists. Basically, all « branches » had to take into the radfem agenda in order to be relevant. Can you really say nowadays that a feminst who doesn't believe in patriarchy is a « true » feminist ? It's still something that was made by radfems. Marxist feminism still doesn't revolve around pure marxism and class struggles. It's basically radical femin…
/r/MensRights12/01/22 12:51 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tLWEr_kdXl4 I think this is the one you're talking about
/r/MensRights12/01/22 08:47 AM
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That's not only what convinced me that was an anti-male movement, it's also the fact that everyone borrowed from the radical feminist agenda. I've learned later that from it's begginning, it was an anti male thing but just that is already enough. They don't have any problem with people being misandrists, therefore it's easy to put them in the same basket, no remorse doing that. Silence is compliance, and being compliant to misandry makes you a misandrist, the same way compliance to misogyny make…
/r/MensRights12/01/22 08:44 AM
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That turn off its also a reflex of toxic masculinity, there is no hypocrisy. Its a phenomenom with mutiples aspects. When men cries, they are mostly judged by women, not by men. Out of everyone I know, the most emotional support they've got was from men, and the most harmful were women or men enemies. It's not rocket science that women can't grasp what it is to be a man and you coming and calling harmful women a « reflex of toxic masculinity » is something. Just stop doing that. You've been down…
/r/MensRights12/01/22 08:41 AM
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Women dont have hive mind Women do not as it's not a social clas but men do not either. Men do not a hive mind either. Rich men/women do, poor men/women, middle class men/women do, men's rights advocates do, feminists do. It all comes down to classes, which feminist tries to kill the concept of since it just think about men and women as if men and women were monoliths and would just say otherwise when it suits them.
/r/MensRights12/01/22 08:37 AM
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So basically, all bad people are bad because of masculinity So instead of calling it « toxicity » or « toxic feminity » when it comes to women, you still call it « toxic masculinity » ? Can't you see how dumb that sounds ? Are you doing woman-splaining ? Why would women be the most able to know what is toxic masculinity and what's not, despite you saying that it's perpetrated by everyone and everyone is suffering from it ? Wouldn't men know better about what happen to themselves and not women wh…
/r/MensRights12/01/22 08:35 AM
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There's no words to describe that honestly Oh actually there are : misandry and rape apologist
/r/MensRights10/01/22 09:26 AM
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"if you had more common sense" oh boy the irony If you had more common sense you would see the irony
/r/MensRights08/01/22 09:18 AM
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People have to stop with this god awful argument. Hey did you know that north korea is a popular republic ? Or that China is democratic since it has elections ? That's just beyond stupid. Acts speaks louder than words. I don't see how you could say that people who are blaming men for their own problems or starting trends of #KillAllMen or shit like that are actually for equality. Feminism was never about equality by the way, it was about women's rights, which is perfecty fine by itself. But clai…
/r/MensRights08/01/22 09:15 AM
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Because by labelling yourself as a feminist you agree that there is a patriarchy of some sort, which men's rights absolutely disagree with. The patriarchy theory is like, the huge fondation of feminism, you literally can't say you are both a feminist and a male rights advocate without being ignorant or hypocrite or schyzophrenic
/r/MensRights08/01/22 09:08 AM
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I see the same thing among a lot of gay men where they refer to other gay men as “bottoms” in a derogatory way. This is definitely rooted in misogyny as like you said Even gays are misogynists Well let them in their stupid theories that make no sense, they are really stuck in their echo chamber thinking they know how men works. Doing that about women would be call misogyny, rightfully so, but not the opposite .... They need to get educated.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen07/01/22 03:25 PM
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That's a very big generalization and deliberately overlooks the fact that more and more leftists are getting to know the movement (https://subredditstats.com/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates , the stats are far from impressive, I'd like to see it go faster, but it's obviously a long term struggle and I think it's going pretty well) Making shortcuts to basically say left = emotional reaction, right = facts, logic and pragmatism only, is just very very wrong, it's a meme. And I wasn't even talking about th…
/r/MensRights07/01/22 09:17 AM
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I do think they are, yes. They just don't know any better, I'm just the kind of guy who's not willing to keep things that way.
/r/MensRights07/01/22 08:38 AM
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I do agree, but we might see change in the future as there are more leftists getting on the subject, so that's great. Honestly even in this thread I can see some rightist BS and it bothers me to see all of this being tangled with men's rights, this makes it very easy for any leftist who does not have any clue about men's rights to mislabel the whole movement and idea of men's rights.
/r/MensRights07/01/22 01:45 AM
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if there wasn't a problem with men getting hired over equally or more qualified women then we wouldn't need the outreach for girls and women regarding STEM education and career guidance. It's funny how you felt the need to say that you are all for men's rights, yet you decide to spit the same bs feminist rhetoric we can see everywhere. It's basically the « Hey I'm not racist, but ; Hey not all men are trash, but » Honestly I've layed a bit of an explanation but I deleted it, if you really want t…
/r/MensRights07/01/22 01:15 AM
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After reading about it, I'm genuinely sickened by the behaviour of Jordanian men and I'm so sorry to every woman who has to live there. Nice misandry over there too, I'm sickened as a western men I have to live with such people
/r/FeminismStopsWhen05/01/22 06:53 PM
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You don't think you do, but you did. I'm not going to elaborate further since I'm pretty sure you won't listen anyway, but the lwma reddit could help if you are really interested in knowing more about that.
/r/MensRights05/01/22 01:11 PM
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You kinda sound like a misandrist biggot rn ngl, I would suggest to stop using incel in such a way if you want to be a better person
/r/MensRights05/01/22 06:05 AM
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Sure, that's a conversation worth having, but do you think everybody is able to think this way ? Most people will just fall back to their own bias, since they have more reasons to believe what women and feminism have to say about men than what men have to say about men, especially if you start to make sense. It's not rocket science that people will just start to call you an incel or search the word that isn't right when you are going against the flow just because they want to confirm what their …
/r/MensRights03/01/22 08:53 PM
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Feminism isn't supposed to be hating men anyway Yet it did throughout it's history, I still tend to put that aside for the sake of the discussion since repeating that it did and still does doesn't achieve anything. If you talk about women or men issues with someone, the topic of feminism will always be brought up because « feminism does talk about men problems », therefore you'll have to explain why you disagree
/r/MensRights03/01/22 05:18 PM
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Hence why feminism would blame stuff on men. It doesn't work too much when there is confrontation on some parts. It's pretty hard to convince people you are pro-women and pro-men but against feminism because you don't believe that « patriarchy » is a thing. To a lot of people, feminism = equality and starting to argue about that simple thing would cause them to stop because it just seems to complicated.
/r/MensRights03/01/22 04:14 PM
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Yep. I've seen so many people saying « duh why you are against women who just want equality ? » and you just can't convince them that feminism doesn't have the exclusivity of equality, that they aren't oppressed or shit like that. They are SO into women they will just eat whatever they'll say. And even if it's not that, they would better stick to the mainstream narrative instead of risking being labeled a sexist, misoginist, incel or whatever, and they'll do that happily since they'll be better …
/r/MensRights03/01/22 02:14 PM
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That's absolutely right. I remember once a guy in highschool poked me on my cheek with his hand and his nail was pointy, he told me something, just a single sentence, but then I slapped him, it wasn't too strong but it did a huge sound and I apologized so much after that because it really was instinct, it happened so fast. He pointed me with his nail and idk, nature I guess ? I'm not even the type to fight easily. I mean I can, but you have to push me, this time tho idk what happened to my refle…
/r/PussyPassDenied03/01/22 11:09 AM
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That's because men are expected to be stronger, to handle the protector role, therefore if you can't handle that then you are not really a man and you should feel bad, and yes feminists do take advantage of that, but they aren't the only culprits. Most other men do that advantage of that too (or are victims) but they aren't educated enough into that, there's something to do on that field. I try to do that on my level but it's so fucking hard and I feel like there's a lack of ressources to talk t…
/r/MensRights03/01/22 10:58 AM
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Internalized misandry, that's what it is
/r/PussyPass02/01/22 01:46 PM
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Gynocentrism at it's peak
/r/FeminismStopsWhen02/01/22 10:03 AM
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A hero
/r/PussyPassDenied29/12/21 02:34 PM
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Got banned from DankLeft because of some shitty meme that made fun of men and feminism, cuz you know, it's funny to picture things as innacurately as possible. They just don't give a fuck and it got me worried because it's obvious that the right do take advantage of that
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/12/21 04:55 PM
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I used to watch those, it's funny really, but it still should be watched with some awareness tho. I mean, Shapiro is praised in some of these videos, while sure it's funny to tell girls about what boy scouts are, but he's still a jackass nonetheless so yeah. But it's great for comedic purposes that's for sure.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen26/12/21 12:35 PM
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They just lost you because you told them the definition of misandry and sexism Because misandry is supposed to be bad and women are good, they are right if they fear men, then it can't be misandry, because misandry is hatred !! It's bad !! It's not her fault !! She can't be stupid, that's impossible !! Also I like the gal who's just there « huh the gal is obviously more educated even tho we can't argue against what you have to say therefore we'll just say that you are bad because we can't even c…
/r/MensRights26/12/21 12:33 PM
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Being in a relationship have both pros and cons, it's up to anybody to decide for themselves. I wouldn't fall into misogyny and say that it's all bad and that women are the worst, but I tend to have some resent against those who are too far into feminism. You just can't say anything to a militant, they won't listen because if you happen to shake a little bit their conceptions, everything around them falls apart. But it's engrained into mainstream women and most of them (well, maybe not most, but…
/r/MensRights25/12/21 08:44 PM
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Basically men ready to diminish themselves to push women higher, appear dumber and make her feel smarter so you know... You meet your ends. That's such a learned behavior I hate. The paradox is that women will praise these people because they worship women even if it's a learned behavior to meet their ends, then call people who are really not into diminishing neither themselves, men and women, incels and stuff. There's just no winning honestly. But I'll let people appear dumber than they are if …
/r/MensRights25/12/21 02:25 PM
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Just in case you needed a proof that feminism do not give a flying fuck about men issues and just want to pretend they are
/r/MensRights22/12/21 12:19 PM
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Well it matters in the sense where people usually tend listen what a person has to say instead of what they are saying, and we can absolutely see that people are giving more importance to what a random japanese woman has to say about western women than they would give any random white guy, even tho they could say the same. And when you want to convince as much people as you can, well ... gotta use what works the most.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen21/12/21 01:52 PM
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Well tbh, it could be written by a white guy, but they really use dumb arguments to « prove » it's not an actual japanese woman. Ironic since they claim men will believe anything they hear if they think that's true, while doing the exact same ...
/r/FeminismStopsWhen21/12/21 10:16 AM
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Lmaooo what the actual fuck is this justification about indiandankmemes About mensrights, yeah well nothing new, they'll keep saying this shit over and over again
/r/FeminismStopsWhen19/12/21 03:55 PM
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Feminists.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/12/21 06:26 PM
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That's it, you lost them, cognitive dissonance
/r/FeminismStopsWhen18/12/21 09:31 AM
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If you say anything that does not fall into the category of unmitigated misandry you receive an immediate ban Well I mean .... In this case, both subs are just filled with misandry at its full power But yeah I got banned from DankLeft because of some shit meme, tho each sub is it's own echo chamber, some are more opened than others and when it comes to feminism people tend to get triggered and really don't want to hear anything else that might come shake their assumptions
/r/FeminismStopsWhen17/12/21 08:52 PM
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I think the author wasn't talking about « same trip, same cars, etc » but more of a « realistic » thing, like a woman driving her car, a man driving his car, same length but not the same route, etc ... because otherwise it's very contradictory
/r/MensRights17/12/21 02:03 PM
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You literally just need to read the whole post again. ​ Women are much more likely than men to suffer a serious injury when they are involved in a crash, but much of the heightened risk is related to the types of vehicles women drive and the circumstances of their crashes, rather than physical differences, new research from the Insurance Institute for Highway Safety shows. Though men are involved in more fatal crashes than women, on a per-crash basis women are 20-28 percent more likely than men …
/r/MensRights17/12/21 02:01 PM
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I don't understand the conclusion. The data shown literally says otherwise. If you pick the exact same route, same car, same seat, same travel etc, women and men have the same chance.
/r/MensRights17/12/21 01:59 PM
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You conveniently forgot « which is something that will require more investigation » because they just don't have any fucking clue about that, and also the conclusion « However, when IIHS researchers limited the comparison to similar crashes, they found those discrepancies mostly disappeared and that crashworthiness improvements have benefited men and women more or less equally. » So feminists use this source to say that only men benefits, but the source says it's not, and you completely use the …
/r/MensRights17/12/21 01:50 PM
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Is this blaming? No.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/12/21 08:10 AM
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Well yeah it does, but it only adds, it's clearly not the only explanation.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/12/21 02:03 PM
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If we are shamed, then we are heard, just not the way we should be. The fact that a lot of men have internalized this stuff is also not helping.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/12/21 02:02 PM
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Yeah it really is a way to recruit men who thinks women still need to be defended or something
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/12/21 01:55 PM
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Thanks for the link. I've searched just a bit and stumbled on some links that seem to be a bit more precise (tho not perfect because I've literally searched for less than a minute for now) https://techcrunch.com/2009/11/18/okcupid-inbox-attractive/?guccounter=1&guce_referrer=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuc3RhcnRwYWdlLmNvbS8&guce_referrer_sig=AQAAAEhV2fAaf9QzJNumIqqVeVf_WMiwSLR8qRiO7NJZUruaNd1B9o11WeKzIe6Hsqf4xl8uhlEwmqDsTCsqmK_4nz9MA3j9BjU2LAlTU6sOnrdUnjCuZ55D8nMdxhMo41Q5sL-x_7eC_9_KPSaTXqYUPRrdfAykbu-kmSIXaK…
/r/FeminismStopsWhen15/12/21 03:46 PM
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I'm interested in this study, do you have any sources for that ?
/r/FeminismStopsWhen15/12/21 11:28 AM
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I don't know what sort of "privilege" or "validation" these men think we're getting from having more matches, when the majority of them are doing this They can't even begin to try to understand why men would do that. And she's there, and thinks that because she absolutely can choose whichever she wants, she's not privileged on the app ? She can't even think about why men are largely those who pay for those apps. Or just simple logic : why would you care to select profiles when you get 0 to few m…
/r/FeminismStopsWhen15/12/21 11:27 AM
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Feminists will claim that before, women had to do the chores and « emotional labor », so that was their way of maintaining the relationship, but idk about that honestly ... The thing is, I think one of the biggest obstacles and the one we may have the most « power » on are men. I think it's wrong to think that men can't also be culprit of perpetrating things that are that harmful to all other men. I see people claiming they just love women so much, they can't begin to understand how women aren't…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/12/21 09:01 AM
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like the fact that academic underperformance is because academic achievement is gay. Do some people really believe that ? That's the first time I've heard something like that and damn ..... I have no words
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/12/21 08:53 AM
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They are just soooo out of touch, or maybe just disappointed by some people they've met ? But coming up with such generalizations is so stupid. I literally know nobody who would cover a friend for that. Nobody likes that. Honestly ? I think that might be the opposite, women might cover their friends way more easily than men when it comes to cheating. Not saying that my own experience equals the truth .... But when each of your friend claims to know nobody who would condone that, I allow myself t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/12/21 08:52 AM
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I've met way more boys than girls, I was a shy guy at middle school, but the few times I had to hangout with girls I think I felt ... better ? Idk, I was just a calm dude and sometimes I just felt that girls of my age were more like me But when you grow up it just becomes way different because women don't understand men, it's really that simple. Men are expected to care about women and I think you heard something like « we can't understand women, that's impossible », but have they been told the …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/12/21 03:51 PM
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Maybe I would have done the same thing, idk, but when I discussed the topic I'm mostly the one who gives the arguments and the others just ... don't care too much. The thing is, when they are using dumb arguments, you should be able to tell them how stupid their argument is. Do you really think that men problems are because of other men doing that ? Because that's not. Sure, there are a lot of men who are culprits because they don't know any better, but saying it's only their fault is wrong. The…
/r/MensRights13/12/21 11:22 AM
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Yeah so basically have power and privileges that women and girls do not have (and they do not have privileges and power that we don't have as men), and we have to use them for them. Not for those in need, not for humans, but for women and girls. Ok ...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/12/21 10:34 AM
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You might want to open a topic on LeftWingMaleAdvocates, might be interesting. The thing is the conservative right mostly prefer to keep the traditional gender roles so yeah, might get some constructive input on the LWMA sub
/r/MensRights13/12/21 10:26 AM
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She isn't wrong about people who get into their conversations and make it about themselves or something, but she just don't get why people do this lmao They are SO out of touch, I keep getting amazed by how out of touch they are even tho I just know they are, idk if it'll get to a point where I'm not even surprised
/r/FeminismStopsWhen13/12/21 09:55 AM
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The point is that he is actually fucking stupid and repeating this dumb line because he feels like a smartass saying that. He just don't know shit about people who got raped by their teachers and at his age he would probably high five his kid if he said he did his teacher. He reminds me of that South Park episode where Kyle is « in love » with his teacher and almost everyone, even the police says « .... nice » when they see that she's hot
/r/MensRights11/12/21 06:23 PM
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No, you are fooling yourself if you think you aren't wrong on that one. We know we would probably like to do a hot teacher at that age, and some people did, but they felt horribly after that and it has actual huge consequences. But these kids blame themselves even tho they shouldn't because only an adult could know what those consequences would be and what they are inflincting on a teenager. So yeah, that's basically statutory rape .... notice the « rape » after « statutory » Also, I'm still pre…
/r/MensRights11/12/21 06:19 PM
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What the actual fuck. I've heard or read absolutely NOBODY saying or writing this. In 23 years or existence, in 2 languages, as the nerd I am lurking all over the net, I am absolutely astonished somebody made this up and nobody thought that it wasn't true. I've seen a shit ton of fucked up guys and I've never seen anybody close to saying something that fucking dumb because absolutely NO ONE feels like raping a woman because he does not have sex. That's actually crazy how somebody can be so out o…
/r/FeminismStopsWhen11/12/21 06:13 PM
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I don't like the "true feminist" thing cuz militants actually do a lot of harm, I still think people who call themselves feminists should just label themselves something else. I don't even call myself an mra or something, I call myself an egalitarian and that's enough. Nice message, but don't call yourself a true feminist, call yourself an egalitarian.
/r/MensRights10/12/21 04:50 AM
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Are they trying tho ?
/r/MensRights10/12/21 02:09 AM
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And they really think that's accurate, like what the fuck
/r/FeminismStopsWhen10/12/21 02:08 AM
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Double standards if fine when they do it and perfectly justifiable :)
/r/PussyPass09/12/21 06:06 PM
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Still completely wrong. They feel like the balance has changed and maybe now they are worse. Doesn't mean it always have been the case. Menslib still catter to feminism rhetoric, which men's rights and left wing males advocates disagree with. Feminism rhetoric claims that men's issues are born in the patriarchy and that men need to be deconstructed to be happy, the rest doesn't think they have to and being deconstructed doesn't resolve in fullfillment or.... Anything good really. Everyone split …
/r/MensRights08/12/21 11:47 AM
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Nice troll
/r/MensRights08/12/21 11:28 AM
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Absolutely not
/r/MensRights08/12/21 11:26 AM
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When you are dating that's fine I think. They are also judging your weight, your height, and probably other stuff. There shouldn't be any issue doing the same. But when it's just a friendly relationship .... I really don't care at all and I think that for those women, thinking that pretty much all men will always see their weight or imagine them in a « potential romantic/sexual thing » may actually be kinda misandrist on it's own. People just don't think about having sex with every woman or man …
/r/MensRights03/12/21 10:10 PM
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I mean yeah, I can understand that But it doesn't mean you would think about THEIR weight right on, you would most likely won't give a damn, what was on your mind was YOUR weight
/r/MensRights03/12/21 03:11 PM
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Somehow minding your own weight means you mind theirs. I really don't know what's wrong with them.
/r/MensRights02/12/21 08:15 AM
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They just really want to believe they are on the good side or something Yes, caring about women's issues and men's issues are not mutually exclusive, but when you are basically saying that men's problems are their fault ... I don't think you can say that you are caring. When they'll stop thinking about this stupid patriarchy stuff, maybe they'll be on point. For now they aren't.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen02/12/21 08:05 AM
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Do she get how stupid her comment is ?
/r/PussyPassDenied29/11/21 04:25 PM
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That's just blatant misandry. It's that simple. If you reverse genders, people would be right calling that misogyny.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen29/11/21 10:27 AM
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Damn the comments are just ..... Waow, they are just so delusional, did they ever talk to men before ? Maybe, but I'm 100% sure they don't understand shit They feel so entitled to their ex's money, that's actually crazy. Also, notice how she said « abandon their families after a breakup but become providers to new partners and new kids », meaning if you stop being a provider to your old partner, you are abandoning your family. So if she ever breaks up with you, she feel like she's entitled to yo…
/r/FeminismStopsWhen29/11/21 10:26 AM
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And people read that and they are like « yeah, it makes sense » I swear to God, thinking that men signs some kind of contract BS with the « patriarchy » is as stupid as thinking that jews control the world or something, maybe even more.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen29/11/21 10:20 AM
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Teaching men to respect women is a good initiative, but it will only have mediocre effects if they themselves are never respected. It creates a feeling of injustice that can make it easier to get provocated. That's what I've always said. Keep teaching men to respect women, for sure. But maybe it's time to teach women how to respect men.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen29/11/21 09:01 AM
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Eh ..... Can't really agree with that honestly ... Honestly prison doesn't seem to work that well. It's mostly about trying to keep away criminals from everyone but since you got to get them out someday (most of the time at least, obviously not talking about those who are emprisoned for life) and rehabiliation is neglicted, well then you don't really solve the problem ​ But yeah, I can't really empathize with « oh buh she has struggled in the prison environment » like .... yeah, most prisonners …
/r/PussyPassDenied18/11/21 10:10 AM
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I hate these people because they are really just so self centered. It's not that they don't know that all of what they are talking about affects men as well, and as hard, but they are just straight up ignoring that. Being against capitalism and feminist is just straight up non-sense. You're building hatred towards men, literally half of the global population, instead of building hatred towards rich people who are literally ruining humanity's future, and somehow you wan't to believe you are again…
/r/FeminismStopsWhen17/11/21 09:10 PM
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Idk too much, it makes me thing of the scene from The Office were Rayan would just say to Pam that he won't clean the microwave machine because he would fuck it up somehow and stuff, obviously he just won't do it. I guess that's what they are talking about ?? But how common is that ? How are they even talking about ? I think I've said to my bros and sis to refer to another one of my brothers because he knew something better than I do even tho I may could have helped (but he would still help bett…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/11/21 10:17 AM
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Got deleted, that's too bad ... Maybe they realized it was stupid ?
/r/FeminismStopsWhen16/11/21 07:45 AM
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What platforms ? I got banned of Twitter (and it was driving me crazy so I'm so fucking glad I got out of it) and now I'm spending time here but it's not that much better, if there are better platforms then I'll take it
/r/MensRights16/11/21 07:42 AM
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« men and caucasian people » Well fuck, I'm a minority and I'm a man, therefore I just can go fuck myself They just don't realize how stupid that rule is. To them it's like only white people are men
/r/MensRights16/11/21 07:40 AM
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It's still ridiculous as fuck, you're trying to make free karma to not be on a negative score lmao that's actually hilarious, and you haven't received shit, that makes it even more hilarious
/r/PussyPassDenied15/11/21 10:45 PM
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You wouldn't be here and posting some cringy shit if you weren't getting so mad, just get your shit together and try to build another scam that's a little more believable this time
/r/PussyPassDenied15/11/21 10:44 PM
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Lmao yeah sure
/r/PussyPassDenied15/11/21 10:44 PM
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Hahahahaha says the guy who's making posts to get free karma. You are just pathetic. Just delete this account and make another fake one at that point because that's just ridiculous
/r/PussyPassDenied15/11/21 09:09 PM
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And you got so mad he wouldn't give your money for your fake ass story If it was true you wouldn't get so fucking mad and you would just had stopped here. Instead you are just mad somebody won't give you free money because you aren't even good enough to open an onlyfans. You are just pathetic and sad, insulting a bunch of random people for reasons you just invented. If your story is true (tho I believe the opposite) then I have pity for your sister to have such a moronic sister to provide for he…
/r/PussyPassDenied15/11/21 09:08 PM
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I feel you, I think I'm in a similar situation. I don't wanna give too much about myself on the Internet but I think the main problem I have and that a lot of others have may be self-confidence. I used to think that it was an excuse or an easy argument because I've had a lot of people saying that I could have some self-confidence issues and all, to the point I've stopped believing it. There were points in time where I could feel like I was smarter or more handsome than others, or just « better »…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/11/21 11:28 AM
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If it gets to the point of self defense, that person deserves the right to defend themselves to the point where they feel safe I didn't reacted at that at first since I first answered the post on my phone while I was out and didn't noticed that particular sentence. I just don't see how can you think you would be right to punch her on the face if she throw pieces of cardboard at you. Is that what you call « getting to the point of self defense » ? Would you also be comfortable punching your wife …
/r/MensRights14/11/21 10:36 PM
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Damn, must be hard to work in these conditions especially where people can act like animals. Strength to you.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/11/21 10:21 PM
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The « incel » term is also thrown around A LOT just to basically virgin shame. People will tend to say that « oh but incel doesn't mean virgin » but come on ... I just don't see a difference anymore. I feel like they just use the term « incel » so they can blur the line and make it difficult for people to see what it actually does to use that And men happily use that because it validates them. They are sexually active, therefore they can't be incels and because they feel like they are on the wom…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/11/21 10:15 PM
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« by the pack » you mean by the whole group of girls or men who tend to act like they want to protect their gal or something ?
/r/PussyPassDenied14/11/21 09:55 PM
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Actually yes but it's funnier that way imo and it just works against the « it's about equality » thing
/r/FeminismStopsWhen14/11/21 09:39 PM
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Don't be silly, don't put words in my mouth. Reaction should be appropriate, you are still dealing with your wife, not a stranger that's trying to kill you (at least in most cases because obviously it's fine by me to slap her if she legit wants to kill you lol) If you want to ignore the fact that you'll mostly get fked up by the repercussions because you hit her despite the fact that she started by harassing you and throw things, that's your problem, but you know there are smarter ways to deal w…
/r/MensRights14/11/21 07:58 PM
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Yeah I've watched the full video and it is kind of hard ... He was wrong, I can understand why you would do that but it doesn't make it less wrong, he should have pushed her out of the room or something or use better words instead of just repeating the same « i'll be out soon » non-stop, maybe it would have worked differently But come on just don't push so damn hard on someone just because you want a reaction, it's never a good idea to push somebody to contain themselves because when it goes out…
/r/MensRights14/11/21 10:45 AM
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Honestly they just won't have a good reason to prevent that. If I were you I would just push even harder until they give some good reason, otherwise I would push them until they let me do what I want
/r/MensRights13/11/21 10:58 PM
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I usually see people complaining about vegans bringing up the topic everytime they have a chance. Couldn't have guessed I would see the opposite, that's actually really funny
/r/PussyPassDenied13/11/21 08:35 PM
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Well, even if you call yourself an egalitarian, you'll end up being called an incel everywhere else, so honestly I don't ask the question myself too much. I like this sub's name because at least it's obvious it's leftwing, therefore people will maybe hold up about thinking about misoginy and stuff when they stumble here (except idiots I guess)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/11/21 08:15 PM
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Thats a lie to be honest. A group with no leadership will always fall. Actually not totally. Anarchy worked pretty well in Catalona until stalinists grew power in Spain and one day they just decided to butcher them The thing with anarchy is that I'm not very sure it would work country-wide. But for a village or maybe even a city ? It absolutely did in the past. But I don't know how anarchists would organize defense tho. So far I don't think villages and small communities had to think too much ab…
/r/PussyPassDenied13/11/21 07:20 PM
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I'm not too much into communism myself and I'm absolutely not here to promote that, but I tend to think that's not because somebody says they are something that they really are. North Korea also do not even claims to be communist. They have they own « variant » (just to be sure they invented it) https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Juche?oldformat=true Also, communism should be democratic. That's why « pro-communist » people tend to gnash their teeth when people talk about the USSR, North Korea, China,…
/r/PussyPassDenied13/11/21 07:11 PM
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Doesn't matter if the word is used or not, it's all the same
/r/FeminismStopsWhen13/11/21 06:47 PM
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Well I guess maybe it was before because they actually had less rights but they just don't want to acknowledge that they mostly got what they want and to call for equality you need to take into account men-specific issues Some seems to think they are actually taking into account those issues. They are wrong.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen10/11/21 11:44 AM
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I've got no words for what you've been through. Yeah these rules are awful but feminism is about women and they don't want to hear about men because they just don't care. Sometimes, some will say they do, but they really don't. They won't give back the care you give to them. They think you owe them attention and you shouldn't expect them to at least try to care about you the same amount you care about them. I haven't been through shit like you, and I don't know anybody who's thinking about male …
/r/FeminismStopsWhen10/11/21 12:00 AM
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It's the idea that sticking up for men's issues somehow erases or denies that women have issues too Idk, it was never my case at least. The thing is that women have help, men do not. More than that, they are told they are problematic and responsible for their own problems, which is crazy when you think about it. As you said, feminism seems very outdated because it just pushes to hit on men for no reason really, I call it a perfect tool for capitalism. Feminism is just here to say that men are th…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/11/21 06:38 PM
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It's fine when they do it, and if you say they do it, they'll say that « feminism isn't monolithic », they really have an answer to everything that's actually amazing and funny, you can really guess everything they will answer
/r/FeminismStopsWhen09/11/21 06:22 PM
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Makes me want to vomit honestly Some calling her a « pick me », one seeing irony with a woman being an egalitarian (like .... whatever .....), I mean .... I'm getting exhausted honestly. But it's fine. I wouldn't expect much from these people anyway
/r/FeminismStopsWhen09/11/21 06:19 PM
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I don't know about that one. The stat doesn't say much to begin with, without any context it's hard to judge, something that the woman doesn't seem to do tho
/r/FeminismStopsWhen08/11/21 09:53 AM
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They must know what they are doing, and people still say feminism isn't against men ? I wonder what r/menslib has to say about that
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/11/21 09:49 AM
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Yeah that's exactly what I've been thinking. You could have some pretty good relationship with a black or arab guy, doesn't mean you can't be racist. People can tolerate racist shit because they know it most likely won't get them anywhere. And I'm pretty sure most men tolerate misandrist shit, even tho they shouldn't. It's very very similar.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen07/11/21 07:57 PM
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The top comment there is so damn funny, it really put a smile on my face cuz it just sounds so fucking stupid These people are just trying so fucking hard to understand how men opperates in social interactions but they are SO wrong it becomes funny. They want to feel like they understand men so hard without actually talking to some and considering their point of view because .... they hate them I guess ? I mean, I'm sure they'll say they don't hate men because they have men friends and stuff, bu…
/r/FeminismStopsWhen07/11/21 11:01 AM
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The worst thing may be that if you ever say that feminism just doesn't talk to men, you'll get told that you just can't handle not being in the center of the situation anymore, stuff like that , which is just bullshit.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen06/11/21 09:02 PM
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They do but since they really only hear themselves, they just can't see that they are trapped into some kind of echo chamber where they just can't hear anything but themselves
/r/FeminismStopsWhen05/11/21 03:17 PM
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Hello and thanks for the work of everyone involved, it's really great to see people getting involved in this kind of issues that sadly, often feel like they are simply ignored despite being really important and shaping our societies imo Question : Were you surprised by the results? Did you have any idea before you received these results and if so, were you right?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/21 03:41 PM
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You think North Korea is equivalent to Marxism ? Dude
/r/PussyPassDenied04/11/21 09:41 AM
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The « Are we really free ? » shit is actually so damn funny. YES girl, you are completely free. You live in the west, those women would hate you for being such a hypocrite. Somehow people here are responsible for things that happen there. It's just all about their political agenda. That's just reassuring to them, to think that there's an answer that a lot of people around them agrees on, whatever the issue is. Does it actually do anything ? Hell no lol
/r/FeminismStopsWhen04/11/21 08:21 AM
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Haha yeah they just do a bunch of mental tricks just so they can think they are in the « good side ». Maybe there's not good sides or anything like that, but they want to believe that so fucking hard, therefore you say that you and a lot of other people aren't and shouldn't be targeted for that ? Then it must be because you are misogynistic, or if you aren't, it's internalized, and the patriarchy told you to defend those people by going against women who just can't think that MAYBE, they are jus…
/r/FeminismStopsWhen04/11/21 08:18 AM
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Surely the fault of the patriarchy, something we created therefore we deserve it ​ ​ ​ ​ ​ Obviously /s, but you never know
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/11/21 01:29 PM
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On top of that, I think women are much more likely to blame their "gender situation" for the situation they are in instead of taking into account the circumstances when a man simply couldn't. A silly example that helped me realize this: some of my buddies and I often play Valorant. There's only one girl, she's not crazy but we don't care, we're having fun and that's it. At one point she makes a stupid move, I don't know what, but we try to understand what's going on in her head. It's something w…
/r/MensRights03/11/21 10:56 AM
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Well ... They can try to get violent if they want. Maybe then people will start to recognize how much of a fraud they are. Also they really don't want to start getting violent. They'll loose on that, if they don't know that then they are blind. They just can't do shit against people who were literally made to be more violent than them.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 09:52 AM
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I felt tired just reading her answers honestly. She just seems SO FUCKING DUMB it actually drains my energy, that's absolutely insane
/r/MensRights02/11/21 11:22 PM
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Lmao I still can't process how so many people saw that and just thought « yeah, this comment is right, it's really a realistic take on how things are », that's just so absurd
/r/FeminismStopsWhen02/11/21 11:14 PM
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Ain't so sure about that tho. I mean sure it's a good thing that they got vote, bank and stuff, but it wasn't just about that
/r/MensRights31/10/21 07:10 PM
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To me it's fine when it's fictional, but that's because I expect people to understand that it's not really possible in real life lmao. But yeah now that I think about it, maybe I'm just thinking too high of the average guy
/r/FeminismStopsWhen31/10/21 06:54 PM
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Feminists sees the « selling your body » as « using your arsenal » so yeah ... nothing surprising there. You can even see that in the comments of the post. It's sad really, they just can't put themselves out of their political agenda, they just can't understand why somebody would think a woman selling her body to others because it's the only thing they can offer, is not positive. Like ... All others women in the show were really great. This one was unlikable because she really had absolutely NOT…
/r/FeminismStopsWhen30/10/21 09:17 PM
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I hope you were able to put her in her place ? I would have said something like « I tell you my height you tell me your weight » and maybe she would have figured out that she also was a jerk ? Idk, I just want to make people sure they know why they were stupid they'll get better. Doesn't always work tho, some cling so hard to their stupidness
/r/FeminismStopsWhen28/10/21 09:40 PM
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Looks like you got no luck, 4 gals and none of them seem nice To me it does look like you really found some extreme cases, those are pretty rare but they exist. Do you live in the US ? Because I live in France and it could be different even tho it always does tend to look more like USA over time, I don't feel like feminism took a place as big as it does in the US ... not yet Anyway, that's pretty bad, don't hesitate to try to meet other people and just don't give a fuck about them. If I were you…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/10/21 08:27 PM
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I don't know a lot of them because I'm french, but 99% of the poets I know are french men I mean .... Yeah I could see how a gal could get a bit mad about how there are not many known women in poetry, but saying that men are getting weird about it or not talented ???? That's just bad faith, simple as that
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/10/21 08:11 PM
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In their minds, feminism = leftism. And a men movement is a « counter movement », therefore it's necessarily a rightist movement. It's just so stupid to think in such white and black scheme, but here we are .... It wouldn't even be considered a « rightist movement » if leftists were to take this seriously, a lot of people don't even know if they are rightist or leftist, but when even the leftist says that « you aren't a leftist because you aren't a feminist », well you just push them yourself on…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/10/21 11:51 AM
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I say exactly the same. It's almost like all boss around the world are just so dumb !! They could pay less if they were hiring only women !!
/r/MensRights26/10/21 10:07 AM
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Did you just ignore her teasing ? I mean... I would have tried to get in contact with the guy because that's damn awful. I would have liked to know that the gal I was marrying was someone like that
/r/PussyPassDenied26/10/21 09:57 AM
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Would have been a huge surprise otherwise
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/10/21 09:08 PM
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I'm not even there, I'm just watching a stupid video, yet I'm so fucking mad right now. What the fuck.
/r/AntiFeminists25/10/21 09:07 PM
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I'm not even there, I'm just watching a video, yet I'm so fucking mad at that, that's insane.
/r/PussyPass25/10/21 09:06 PM
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Yeah sure, so the gal is just pushing you, harrassing you, she just won't stop, she invites you to hit her because she thinks you won't do it, and you blame the guy for punching her because she didn't and the pain must be equal or some shit ? Fuck you dude. It's obvious he had too much and had to put everything in a single hit. Or maybe you think he should harass her and push her just like she did « so the hurting is equal » ? You don't even realize how stupid this is.
/r/AntiFeminists25/10/21 09:06 PM
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You still feel sorry for the aggressor. I've got a feeling you wouldn't have said a thing if the genders were reversed. Would you have said the same if the girl did smacked his head full force ? Or would you have said something like « damn she hits hard for a girl » or something ? Cuz I bet you would have. But since he's a boy, you expect him to be stronger than the girl. Nobody talked about « going nuclear » on someone too, so your comment is really there just to tamper a horrible situation. Th…
/r/AntiFeminists25/10/21 09:03 PM
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Thanks for your comment, you really put the words on what I thought on the subject but since I'm not too savvy enough on the matter for now, I couldn't When I was dealing with depression, my roles and what was expected of me as a young man played some role into my state but also and especially the lack of awareness from other people. It's pretty hard to see other people getting help without even asking when people hardly understand when you literally tell them you actually need help, and then yo…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/10/21 06:38 PM
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Yeah that's actually pretty sad, it's almost like they really feel like they are on a mission or something and either you get on the train or you get banned. I hate the « hive-mind » aspect of Reddit, I feel like there shouldn't be any upvotes or downvotes on political subjects What's sadder is that it's being made fun of by the rightists and I can't blame them honestly, it is actually funny but I don't like thinking that some people would just think that they are necessarily wrong because of th…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/10/21 06:36 PM
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Just received a message telling me I got banned lol. That's silly.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/10/21 04:15 PM
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Yeah that looks like a classic thing, at least I'm pretty sure I've heard that a lot, not just about couples and marriage, but it's just that people know what they are doing but don't know what others are doing. So it's pretty stupid to say that she's doing everything and he's not helping, but it's pretty much classic. I guess they are both doing what they can do but since they don't communicate that much, she can't understand how much he's working ? Well, there's « not understanding » and « not…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/10/21 03:42 PM
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When you google, you may want to use startpage or any equivalent for that matter, as Google may push stuff that wouldn't feel very « accurate », in the sense that maybe they'll push more « marriage good for men bad for women » content. I don't know if that's the case for that particular subject, but you know, just a tip .... ​ Tho I do disagree it necessarily makes men healthier. I mean, I'm sure when I'll get married I'll be happy as fuck cuz I guess that getting married to the one you love wou…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/10/21 03:37 PM
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Ikr, that's why I call them a great tool for capitalism. Better deviate the problems on half of the population instead of having people getting to know class struggle. Better put the blame on all men no matter how rich or poor they are.
/r/MensRights25/10/21 08:35 AM
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Not for patriarchy which doesn't exist
/r/MensRights24/10/21 10:14 PM
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I don't call that patriarchy, I call that oligarchy or capitalism
/r/MensRights24/10/21 03:50 PM
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That's just not how it works. Feminism is a social movement. It claims to acts for equality, but a lot of other movements do too. Does it mean you should support them ? No. There are multiple movements because they can't agree on how the end goal should be achieved. You just can't say that you are a feminist because you agree with the definition. Just say you are for equality, but you aren't a feminist if you don't agree to even the basic principles of the movement. Which is that the world is ba…
/r/PussyPassDenied21/10/21 10:23 PM
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Actions speaks louder than words. And so far they've done a lot of misandrist actions. The movement in itself is based around the idea that men are privileged the moment they are born, they see women disadvantages while completely dismissing men disadvantages. They seem to care about how few women there are in some domains of expertise and high positions, but do you think they care about how men constitute the vast majority and accidents and deaths in the workplace ? How there are 99% men on con…
/r/PussyPassDenied21/10/21 08:44 PM
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Don't talk about biology to them dude, they don't want to be reminded that nature can't bow to their made up rules
/r/FeminismStopsWhen21/10/21 08:14 PM
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Why are people just so eager to call themselves feminists ?? Because they really think that women still got it worse ? Because tbh I don't know if that's the case. I don't know who got it worse and that's not even important, but if people are for equality, they should call themselves egalitarians, it's that simple. You can say you are for equality, the truth is that by calling yourself a feminist « for equality » you are still only giving your attention to women. I mean, otherwise you would have…
/r/PussyPassDenied21/10/21 07:58 PM
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I mean .... Is it really badass tho ? They both look like shit people honestly Tho I have to say the « As a 16 year old often perceived as female, I hate the idea that men think about my body first when they see me » made me chuckle, I mean ... DUH, it's the first thing they see, literally. Not everyone will actively think about you tho, but those who will do will just think that you are beautiful or something, they won't necessarily think about how smart you are because they obviously don't hav…
/r/FeminismStopsWhen21/10/21 04:36 PM
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« Assigned female at birth » lol, thanks urbandictionnary, couldn't understand shit without it
/r/FeminismStopsWhen21/10/21 04:27 PM
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Most of the time, I could make my feelings known to other men and close friends. Obviously, not to everyone even tho I'm kind of an open guy when it comes to feelings, ain't no shame in expressing stuff and usually, if somebody says it's weird to cry or something, he'll be the one being seen as weird. Being sad, depressed and stuff, is usually seen as okay. I guess that's because a lot of men just know that and been through that. But I've become kinda reluctant to expressing feelings with women …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/10/21 11:34 AM
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"not become actual feminists" People should stop with this rhetoric. There's no such thing as an "actual feminist". Radical feminism is clearly in the majority, there's no doubt about that. The concept of patriarchy is born in radical feminism and liberal feminists had to embrace this concept in order to stay relevant Radical feminists aren't "not really feminists", they are truly feminists. They make the definitions and concepts all other feminists take inspiration from. People should finally a…
/r/FeminismStopsWhen01/10/21 07:11 AM
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Or use it as an argument to say that they aren't against men. Look, men are also victims of the problems we are talking about !! Just like she did ok the post.... Disgusting honestly
/r/FeminismStopsWhen01/10/21 07:04 AM
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I don't understand the point of this point tho ? I don't know this person so that's a genuine question. Is it because it's probably fake or because she « should have expected that » ?
/r/FeminismStopsWhen27/09/21 01:39 PM
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That could make a lot of sense actually, thanks for sharing your reflexion
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/09/21 09:51 AM
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Well, I read everything, you did handled that pretty good imo, I may would have done worse if I were you These peeps really need to modify the stories and reassure themselves they are right, it's really a big case of cognitive dissonance, hence why she shut herself totally down when you didn't agree with her. To me, such a case of cognitive dissonance is a clear sign of stupidity, especially when you are so much into it that you have to put up a fake Twitter post in order to receive some clout f…
/r/PussyPassDenied21/09/21 08:15 PM
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Haven't lived something like that, but reading your post, I don't feel like you are falling into a victim mentality. Of course you should be careful, but for now I don't think you are into that. I've heard some stories about men who were feeling things like that when they are in a very huge minority. Of course it's fine when there are a handle of boys/men around but when you are one or two ... it seems that it can be really weird I mean, you would expect some gals who should know about sexism to…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/09/21 03:03 PM
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Do you really need Reddit to tell you how toxic she is ? Because I'm sure you are smart enough to figure that out by yourself. It is BEYOND OBVIOUS. For your own sanity, stay away from her and do that as soon as possible
/r/MensRights21/09/21 09:09 AM
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Not sure it's the only parameter that we should consider, or else men would have lower retirement age since women live longer than us
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/09/21 08:47 PM
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Lmao, you are basically squating here and you want him to sleep on the couch while you stay on his bed ? It's just funny how some are really so entitled. You don't want to sleep with him, then you go away lmao, it's that simple
/r/PussyPassDenied20/09/21 03:47 PM
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It's not mutually exclusive but one is surpassing the other. To me, the « equality » thing of this story is just a way to make them swallow this a little bit better tho obviously the feminists just won't no matter what Obviously, if they were raising women's age to 65 ans men to 70, you would see a lot more people protesting because raising that much is stupid, people wouldn't talk too much about feminism because it's not about feminism then, it's also about men. I guess feminists could protest …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/09/21 07:44 PM
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Obviously they are, that's not even a surprise, but even in the article I don't see how equality between men and women is used as a reason to raise their retirement age. I had to read some french articles about the subject to be sure that it was made because the gvnt needed money + align it to men's. But the first reason is money, otherwise they would have lowered instead of raising. But yeah, the average in Europe is 65, tho saying it's not because of money is still wrong. Also, the protests ta…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/09/21 06:18 PM
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So why shouldn't it be the other way around ? Lowering the retirement age for men for it to be equal ?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/09/21 05:44 PM
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The title is kinda deceptive. It's because they age retirement is going up. I mean, sure they don't care if it matches the retirement age of men. Tho the title would be accurate if they were protesting against men's retirement age going down to 64
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/09/21 04:55 PM
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What the fuck are you on honestly. « Getting women from Afghanistan is fine because then you'll have more competition for your dick so feminists will be mad and not getting men will be fine because it will protect women. » Tho the moment you'll see how these other women will not give you any more attention than women did previously, you'll get bitchy about it all over again I mean waow. I won't bother to prove how wrong you are because you actually didn't prove anything either, I won't reverse t…
/r/FeminismStopsWhen19/09/21 04:08 PM
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Surely because refugees do have enough money to even compete in the land market, and they are the reason the prices are rising up, it's not like the prices weren't even going up before they came, duh
/r/FeminismStopsWhen19/09/21 04:06 PM
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One is not moderated enough while the other is moderated too much
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/09/21 09:03 AM
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Bro, you shouldn't feel weird about that. I mean, that was totally your decision, you don't have to be angry at yourself or anything. Men can't control their erection, that's just how things are. What would you say if a dude would rape a girl and say that she liked it because she was moist ? It would be fucked up. Well that's just the same here. ​ It's not because you really don't want to have sex that you can't have an erection. You are totally not wrong and she wasn't respecting your decision,…
/r/MensRights21/07/21 01:48 PM
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Don't worry, I totally did. I used to be a feminist too until I saw I had no place, I was fed stuff that I didn't even understand but thought it was good because « huh, must be good for equality then » . Tho feminists will tell me that I was just not comfortable with the fact that I was not « in the center anymore » but I really never was honestly, I live in the suburbs and I'm not even white, so I think I just got tired of hearing rich (white) girls telling me I am the problem in society when I…
/r/MensRights16/07/21 08:30 PM
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I do wonder how she was able to make up such a lie at 11. Like, it feels like she would have been pushed, or maybe I'm just not realizing how an 11 yo kid can really imagine what rape is Tho, she really claimed it was a lie when she was 21 ??? The fuck happened through highschool and stuff ? How tf could she live with that ? This is rape culture. Being accused of something you didn't and the guy who lied about that doesn't take shit ?? What the actual fuck. Honestly that's scary. I feel like it …
/r/MensRights16/07/21 08:47 AM
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Dude, no I mean, you'll find a shit ton of people here who will disagree with that. Now it's time to ask yourself why they do.
/r/MensRights16/07/21 08:43 AM
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9 hot is too high for her honestly Tho 11 crazy is accurate
/r/PussyPassDenied23/06/21 02:56 PM
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Either we are rightists in disguise or we are not leftist enough, honestly I don't know if there is something we can do about that Tho we should still keep an eye on that because we don't want those accusations to become even more mainstream, especially if it's coming from such people
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/05/21 11:13 AM
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It's funny because those people are those who will say « why cant I find a decent person to be in a relationship with ? » Well then how the fuck can you say these people are bad ? Because they can't get a relationship ? You obviously got into relationships with « bad people » according to you, so bad people can get girls and boys. Misogynists and misandrists can get into heterosexual relationships, it's not THAT hard. But if people complain about not being liked by the whole society, maybe it's …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/21 04:45 PM
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Yeah I mean, I liked the few women who were into « boys stuff » and who liked the same video games as me Seems unlikely to be picked on by other nerds but that's not impossible. Girl, boy .... It's the same thing. You will get picked on because you like unpopular stuff
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/21 04:37 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/mora71/i_keep_getting_asked_if_im_a_real_woman_and_it/gu61xna/ There's this one in response to the comment you linked It's funny how it's always men's fault. Transphobia ? ONLY EXISTS BECAUSE OF MISOGYNY, WOMEN CAN'T BE TRANSPHOBICS OR IF SHE IS, IT'S BECAUSE OF INTERNALIZED MISOGYNY, my god ....
/r/EverydayMisandry21/05/21 11:14 PM
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Yep, tho so far on « men's » subs, I have seen some misogynists comments and I don't remember anyone not being called out, it's always getting downvoted and responded. Hate on women is wrong, period. The vast majority knows that. I think I can safely say that almost everyone knows that feminism =/ women and that's very cool
/r/EverydayMisandry21/05/21 11:09 PM
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Always has been like that But it's ok, we hate feminists too
/r/EverydayMisandry21/05/21 11:03 PM
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Thanks for bringing awareness to that problem. I hope people understands it's not about « men are getting it worse », honestly idk if it is, but it's clear that men problems are getting pushed aside and it's not acceptable, every problem should be taken seriously.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/05/21 10:04 PM
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We should teach people to protect each other. That's it. There will be situations when a woman will be able to protect a man, others when it'll be the opposite, but gender shouldn't be a factor. I think it's better to use neutral words in this case. Isn't that the thing of egalitarianism anyway ?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/05/21 05:29 PM
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No, I didn't contradict myself. I specifically said that I'm not convinced. That's absolutely different. I said in all my posts that I was just wasn't convinced it was absolutely the same problem, with the same repercussions. I said I wasn't convinced, because guess what : I posted here because I also wanted to know and get some clues about what's going on around the world. So I don't need you to shame me because I'm trying to do just that. It's not that I am only concerned with "feminism misand…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/05/21 10:51 PM
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There's really nothing much to add. Menslib is just about pro feminists men who are okay to tell themselves they are their own problem. Well, I guess it can be true but only to an extent. If « women centers » always opposing men initiatives isn't a clue of something that could be institutionalized, idk what is. I guess menlibs is just ok thinking they'll solve all their problems with « self examination » and just drank the « get rid of masculinity » thing
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/05/21 08:03 AM
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You don't need to be on the defensive. I'm a mixed french moroccan man, I know things from both worlds, I ain't white and I face both racism and misandry. I don't consider north africa being in middle east but maybe that's mb ? (that's why I took afghanistan as an example but deleted my whole paragraph and instead linked a video. I'm from France and Maghreb is south so I would have said "south world" or africa but I can understand the confusion) You don't seem to understand what I was talking ab…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/05/21 12:21 AM
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You just like them because they consider themselves pro-feminist Well that's cool, but if you are an anti-feminist then yeah ... not necessarily a great place ESPECIALLY when you are called misogynist because of that lmao Tho yeah, I'll take a deeper look into it, maybe it's not that bad. But you have to understand that people here do despise feminism because it seems hypocrite, it seems to work against men, so yeah ... seeing a movement « for men » that says would work with feminism, could soun…
/r/AntiFeminists12/05/21 09:07 PM
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It was always about man-hating tho At least I did gave them rights (well, I'm not even sure if feminism did that honestly, but I'll give the benefit of the doubt and say they did)
/r/AntiFeminists12/05/21 08:58 PM
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What the actual fuck I'm actually trying to see in my mind in what scenario could a person think in their right mind that a boy, 15, getting raped, should have to pay for child support. At least we can agree with feminists that rape culture is a thing, but wtf is going on ?????
/r/MensRights12/05/21 08:54 PM
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Yeah I've seen the post. Honestly now it try to make fun of that instead of getting mad and sad about people hating men. People who hate women are absolutely crazy, but so do people who hate men. There's literally no reason to hate half the population of the planet, and usually the reasons these people use are really, really dumb. So yeah, it can be quite hard to manage that sometimes. I think I also lost some friends to that and some call me misogynist or something and honestly it hurts because…
/r/MensRights12/05/21 02:29 PM
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Hahaha honestly the comments are even more funny, that's crazy how they really think that's true They'll get crazy when they'll hear about MGTOW
/r/AntiFeminists12/05/21 02:19 PM
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Yeah but will she keep her reputation and career ?
/r/PussyPassDenied10/05/21 10:28 AM
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I'm tired of always having to type out 'not all men' Then don't say "men do (whatever)", it's just that simple girl Nobody is claiming it's not ok to talk about that, but you make me think about those people who would say that it's not a problem that rich people like Bill Gates give money to charity even if they do that for power and stuff, as long as they give money, like .... you're missing a big part of the point there The thing is that you are glad he does start a conversation like that beca…
/r/MensRights09/05/21 11:26 PM
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« I am not against the principle of feminism, being equality for all » You should tho Feminism isn't about equality for all. Doesn't matter what they say, actions speaks louder, and so far the history disprove that. The principle and fondation of feminism is about patriarchy being a thing, it's about men being oppressors and stuff like that. I don't understand how you could be a male advocate and agreeing with that
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/05/21 03:13 PM
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And that's totally what you had to do. I'm not sure of why people focus so much on helping women specifically, but at least you know that men also deserves help and that's already more than all the others. So yeah, tbh I think you should be at least a bit proud of yourself and your mates. It's not THAT much, but it's still way more than most people, don't be too harsh on yourself
/r/MensRights08/05/21 01:12 AM
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At least your group was able to see the problem It's really concerning to see how deep this stigma is ingrained into people's mind. I hope it'll be better someday
/r/MensRights08/05/21 12:21 AM
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Anarchism already worked before but fachists killed them, if they were enough to stand up by themselves, then there would still be anarchists societies today. I can't blame you for believing that humans can't be trusted, but they can. Western liberal capitalism pushed us to be way more cynical and pessimistic : huge problems in the world aren't getting solved because money rules everything and people who got power don't give a damn about things that will not make money. So we can't see any futur…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/05/21 10:18 PM
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I feel you girl. I mean, I'm a man, but I've been thinking a lot about that kind of stuff. What if I was really a misogynist and stuff. Because there are times where we feel so alone you can't help but ask yourself this kind of questions. Just remember why you are into this. It's not because you are a pick me, a misandrist or whatever ... it's because you truely want equality and you believe this is the right thing to do. You are already thinking in a way that those people will not, they are jus…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/05/21 08:21 AM
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Yeah, they will say that « it's just a side effect of the patriarchy men created » lmao Like yeah, we made a system that would benefit us, except sometimes it doesn't work, especially in education. So not only boys are getting lower grades in primary school, men are still dropping way more in college, meaning a lot of men won't have a good education. But somehow, it'll still benefit them. Nobody knows how, but it will.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/05/21 11:46 PM
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You could ask some radfems and they still would say that men are the root of the problem. There wouldn't be such things like "men are trash" or "kill all men" if nobody was claiming that.
/r/MensRights06/05/21 02:55 PM
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Imagine being hateful and a mod of a "anti hate" subreddit
/r/AntiFeminists06/05/21 10:59 AM
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Those that believe in the so called 'patriarchy' are the ones we are really combating And that's exactly the point, the patriarchy stuff is soooo engrained in the minds. We are at a point where feminists obviously think that patriarchy exists even if they are just not militants, not really into the movement, they are still way too sympathetic to the patriarchy narrative. So yeah I don't really give too much attention to the labels, to me a feminist is a feminist, they already believe in the patr…
/r/MensRights06/05/21 02:07 AM
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No need to try and brush people off. Not only we know men are blamed for a lot of stuff, we also deny the concept of patriarchy as a whole, which is supposedly a system defined and created by men to benefit men to oppress women, but women who also disagree with this concept are said to have « internalized misogyny » Also tell that to those who claims that men are trash or kill all men, tell them that men aren't the root of the problem, because obviously those kind of people think they are
/r/MensRights06/05/21 01:59 AM
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Yeah but the liberal feminism in medias can often still have the patriarchy narrative bs and I think it's quite hypocrite. It's totally taken from the radical feminist narrative and yet they claim they aren't as radical so it's good so yeah, idk Tho imo it means that medias just mix things up because it sells and it'll please both liberal and radical feminists, but to me liberal feminists not seeing a problem with the patriarchy stuff means that it's not such a big deal to mix them with the radi…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/05/21 01:50 AM
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No, you are mixing radical feminist and TERFs. Radical feminism is absolutely the main form of feminism today, TERFs tho are made fun of but they still exist
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/05/21 02:45 PM
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-fake
/r/AntiFeminists05/05/21 02:00 PM
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NTS ?
/r/AntiFeminists05/05/21 02:00 PM
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No, what I meant is would people start to doubt the whole "men are privileged" narrative or would they take the feminist narrative like "men do that because they can't stand having one disadvantage against women" I honestly don't know who have it worse and I don't think that's the most important
/r/PussyPassDenied05/05/21 09:50 AM
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Absolutely
/r/MensRights05/05/21 02:14 AM
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I don't understand the point you are trying to make. It was too early for them to draft at the time ? There's a whole world between shaming those who didn't fought and « it was too early for them to draft », is it still too early in 2021 ?
/r/PussyPassDenied05/05/21 01:36 AM
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Love mate .... It's just love. What could you do for love. I mean, I think I would ask some kind of prenup or something, but what if she doesnt want to and I don't see myself without her ? Maybe I would take the risk. Idk. It's just easy to talk about this kind of stuff when we aren't facing that in the moment. But yeah, paternity fraud scares the shit out of me
/r/MensRights05/05/21 01:27 AM
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I wonder how people would react if there was some kind of « movement » with men changing their « official » sex. What would people think ? Would people maybe think that women do get it better in some ways and that men aren't necessarily privileged ? Or will feminists take it as « men who trick the system because they can't think about having it worse than women ? » My pessimism side tend on the latter.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/05/21 12:05 AM
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Yeah the old rhetoric « the modern feminists are garbage but the genuine ones are good » like .... eh, things are sadly not that simple
/r/PussyPassDenied05/05/21 12:03 AM
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Yeah the old rhetoric « the modern feminists are garbage but the genuine ones are good » like .... eh, things are sadly not that simple
/r/PussyPassDenied05/05/21 12:03 AM
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« But 1st and most 2nd generation feminists it was entirely about being treated equal to men » Oh dude ... You'll be surprised
/r/PussyPassDenied04/05/21 11:58 PM
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Yeah sure, that's why they shamed men who didn't fought in WW1 in UK. They wanted to take their place
/r/PussyPassDenied04/05/21 11:57 PM
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That's why we say « commit suicide » and not « attempt »
/r/MensRights01/05/21 04:39 PM
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Yeah I mean there are « pickmes » and it's quite ridiculous imo, it's people that are like « yeah look at me I'm cool I like guy's stuff and shit », but it's like the word « incel » , it's thrown at everything for no reason and just to shame you for no real reason.
/r/AntiFeminists01/05/21 02:10 PM
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Yeah it makes sense, I also think like that but eh, when you are depressed ... You've got to take whatever will make you feel better. Yeah it would be better to have a woman to love you instead of a pet, but you play with the cards you were dealt. Women certainly do the same when they do not receive love from men, don't they ?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/04/21 10:44 AM
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I had a cat that came into the garden with 5 really incredibly cute little kittens. Never really used to animals, my little sisters were thrilled to see them and my mom too, she prepared a place for them in the shed. I was so surprised to see how well the cat adapted to our presence. She was so nice, she followed me easily and she seemed to like us. The little ones had their little character too but they were not even a month old and yet they had already adapted to our presence. And this is some…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/04/21 10:42 AM
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Healthiest way to cope until it backfires I guess But whatever they say, just do whatever you want, I just hope they won't be one of those who blame men because they can't find someone without """dating down"""
/r/AntiFeminists30/04/21 07:14 AM
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I don't think men love « sluts » considering dating, at least not when it's about a long lasting relationship. Men do take into account the number of relationships you had before too. If you had too many well ... it ain't good because it means that you are probably not going to get what you want (long lasting relationship). Not saying that it is impossible but it's unlikely. Outside of the « long lasting relationship » stuff, you may be right. Idk.
/r/AntiFeminists30/04/21 07:11 AM
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I'm not sure it's a great idea tho I mean, you can still be a leftist and not liking feminism. I think we are at a point with feminism where left or right doesn't really matter and thus, is not a reason to change your view on politics because of it
/r/AntiFeminists30/04/21 07:00 AM
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Yeah just those pictures aren't enough to convince people who aren't already, but go dig a little bit deeper and maybe you'll understand what antifeminists are talking about. Unlike you may think, it's not about « a bunch of misandrists wanting superiority over women »
/r/AntiFeminists26/04/21 02:52 AM
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Feminism is fight for women's rights, not « equality of genders ». That's the nuance.
/r/AntiFeminists26/04/21 12:17 AM
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You should correct the post, some comments demonstrated how she wasn't really the model. The woman who was actually the inspiration for the poster did actually worked for longer than a week. We can't do misinformation.
/r/AntiFeminists24/04/21 02:55 PM
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I don't know if we could say that it defines us as men, but we can't allow ourselves to stay factual because we aren't enough and we can't strike that low, we will not convince people if we do misinformation.
/r/AntiFeminists24/04/21 02:53 PM
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Thanks a lot for the correction. If I was the OP I would have deleted the thread or at least corrected it. We can't allow ourselves to do misinformation.
/r/AntiFeminists24/04/21 02:52 PM
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We aren't attacking feminists, we are responding to them. That's why this sub is called « anti-feminism », it's because men are constantly targeted by feminism and some people are tired of that. The core idea of feminism is that we live under a system called PATRIARCHY and that absolutely all men are opressors. Do you agree with that ? Because we don't. We are responding to stuff like that. We don't want to be accused of things we are not guilty of. Now how about telling them to focus on fixing …
/r/AntiFeminists24/04/21 02:47 PM
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Huh, ain't really sure about that one mate We can be equals but we are just poiting feminism hypocrisy, not women
/r/AntiFeminists24/04/21 02:46 PM
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It's funny to bring that into a « class issue » when feminism at it's root gets completely rid of the class issues when calling names on all men. It's actually very ironic. But we can see a bit deeper into how they are trying to manipulate the game, how they want to both « talk about men's issues » and avoid talking about men. Because you know ... women are in the best place to talk about women's issues ... and women are in the best place to talk about men's issues. Of course. Now it's time to t…
/r/MensRights23/04/21 08:45 PM
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They are right to find that offensive when someone does that to them. But why the fuck would they do the same ? They should know it's not only offensive, it's just false. It doesn't come close to reality. Yet they have such a lack of self-reflection that they still repeat the same thing they've faced. At that point I just call that being stupid.
/r/MensRights23/04/21 08:13 PM
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The accusations I have heard about the sub that accuses us are quite ... disturbing. That being said, I also don't think it's totally irrelevant to think about the question "why are they calling us out? Is it really worth the cost to give them reasons to challenge us? " The fact is, I think they will always find something to argue about, something worth attacking us and the cause for. That said, it's true that this doesn't mean we can say anything and not think about our external image. ​ It's t…
/r/MensRights23/04/21 02:37 PM
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Yeah sure I wasn't expecting you to know A LOT about that. I mean, I surely would want to distance myself from that, tho I just wanted to be sure if those accusations were serious. Some people already answered to me and yeah, it seems that it's definitely serious. No need to dig deeper.
/r/MensRights22/04/21 09:55 PM
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It really is :)
/r/MensRights22/04/21 08:28 PM
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Oh yeah, shit. If that's true then ... I just miss the words to describe that. Imagine managing a sub made to « callout hate » and using CP as « weapons », that's actually disgusting. I can't understand how a human being could do that and think they are on the good side.
/r/MensRights22/04/21 07:55 PM
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What's up with the CP thing ?? I've seen the accusation twice now. Didn't heard of this sub before but I just had to click to understand what they mean by « hate ». But the CP thing ? Is there any proof ?
/r/MensRights22/04/21 07:53 PM
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They aren't. It's not even a surprise tbf, they didn't waited for the 3rd wave to have some misandrists turds as leaders and figures. They had those right when it began. Just check the pinned threads on antifeminism sub.
/r/MensRights22/04/21 07:50 PM
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The thing is, the core idea of feminism is the existence of patriarchy and that absolutely all males benefit from it, which is untrue, therefore it doesn't really matter if a feminist doesn't think we are not all POS, she still think that we are privileged for no reason. So I guess we can't really be THAT wrong if we say that all feminists are wrong and this idea is bullshit, because the core foundation isn't accurate. Tho of course, we shouldn't really say that all feminists are POS. I think mo…
/r/MensRights22/04/21 07:49 PM
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Or you know, and you are a real piece of shit. Tho most aren't at that level, but there are too many.
/r/MensRights22/04/21 07:38 PM
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Is there any proof for the « how to spread CP » on discord ? Cuz this one is one hella of an accusation. Just need to be sure when it's related to CP honestly.
/r/MensRights22/04/21 07:36 PM
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Haha, in France some ecologists are also called like that, it's funny
/r/MensRights22/04/21 03:12 AM
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As always, the comments are both funny and pathetic. Tho I absolutely disagree with the title. You'll want to avoid the niceguy narrative, it's really not something good.
/r/AntiFeminists22/04/21 01:49 AM
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Yeah I agree, the « they can't see the decent guys » isn't a narrative I can agree with honestly ... Looks like a niceguy syndrome and it's really bad There's no need to get into such things. There's already much to point at, no need to be ridicule and talk like incels or nice guys.
/r/AntiFeminists22/04/21 01:46 AM
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I have no words too
/r/AntiFeminists22/04/21 01:41 AM
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Lol the comments on the FDS sub are soooo funny and pathetic It's awesome to see how many girls like that think they know men and how they see themselves as being such at high value just by being condescendant towards men. I see many, many more men being humble than women and don't say a single thing about it while there are whole subreddits bragging about stuff like « oh society pushes men to think better of themselves » (it's not even true), that's actually insane
/r/AntiFeminists22/04/21 01:39 AM
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I don't think people are blaming women for that. People are just saying that because women entered the work face, the wages fell because there were more workers available, and more competition between workers = lower wages to pay for businesses. It's exactly that, that allowed for businesses to lower the wages because they just had more choice. In the end, it's just capitalism, and we could say that : it's capitalism fault. It just favors the rich. It's not really something that women as individ…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/04/21 08:25 PM
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Hahaha I love all the nonsense they can come up with to try to make sense of it all. They forgot that they have to give birth in pain because of her? They really turn EVERYTHING around to make sure they don't have any responsibility, they're good huh.
/r/AntiFeminists21/04/21 03:04 PM
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Some did gave you some good advice (imo) so I just hope you'll follow those. No need to be passive agressive or something ... I think it's pretty good to start with just a simple talk and make understand how you feel. It's true that it's not very much, but you were still put aside for no apparent reason, if I were you I would have taken that very bad to be honest, so I can understand how you feel right now. Don't just let it go like that. Go talk to your supervisor, tell her how it made you feel…
/r/MensRights21/04/21 06:49 AM
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Yeah that's actually sad. It's very weird to follow a movement that says it encourages women to go to specific studies but then tell you not to go because there are too many men.... Quite a paradox imo It reminds me of a feminist commenting on a post on the MRA sub (iirc), people were talking about male circumcision and how it should be illegal just like female excision is illegal, also how it's about an inequality. And she came here, basically saying "well because it's legal for you, you do it …
/r/AntiFeminists21/04/21 06:09 AM
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I don't think they were serious when talking about this idea, but the idea behind just throwing that is beyond stupid imo Feminists talk about how they are used to hearing about "adapting their behavior in the face of men's violence" but what these morons don't understand is that the people who try to avoid this violence are not the same ones who propagate it. So the goal according to them was to highlight a "double standard", but well ... nobody understood it well because it's stupid. Always ta…
/r/AntiFeminists21/04/21 02:32 AM
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Something like "huh you retard, you can choose to be a feminist but you dont choose to be white or black" like the dude really got that mad over a little joke lol
/r/AntiFeminists20/04/21 04:49 PM
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You must be fucking dense Tho it's not surprising, giving the nickname you chose. Just go play with your shit and don't annoy me.
/r/AntiFeminists20/04/21 03:22 AM
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And not all feminists are crazy but enough I love when this bad rhetoric is used against them
/r/AntiFeminists20/04/21 02:17 AM
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and small dick energy
/r/AntiFeminists19/04/21 03:08 AM
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Because redpill is viewed as misogynist, and because it's the heart of the so-called "manosphere" and MRM is included in it, then it means that MRM must be misogynist ...... right ? Right ? The reality is way more nuanced and way more complex than that, but it's way easier to say « huh, it's misogynist, it's redpill, it's incel » or whatever to ease your mind. Tho I think those people didn't really met real incels, because I knew at least one and if they knew someone like that, they would loose …
/r/MensRights19/04/21 03:07 AM
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I think you should listen to the comments. Anyone would hate having anxiety over this. You did nothing wrong, she started something dumb, just take the measures to protect yourself.
/r/MensRights17/04/21 10:54 AM
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Huh, so it's the medias fault ? Not feminists who clearly don't call her out ? Interesting.... But not surprising at all Feminism is trendy, they just follow the flow, they won't question a feminist figure, it would make bad press. So yeah I'm mad at those medias that's for sure, but in the end it's capitalism baby, of course any company will follow trends and support feminism. Now, you saying it's basically their fault is saying a lot about how you manage feminism' responsibilities : by transfe…
/r/MensRights10/04/21 10:06 PM
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Stats proved that the wage gap is only of a few percents when you try to consider as much as factors as possible, the other percents could be explained, but yes it's very complex and quite impossible to do, but when you see that at most, the wage gap is actually around 2%, you consider it negligible. It's funny how you say "the nuance of the privileged" then that's why you are a feminist : you actively think that you are privileged. But believe me, if you are really privileged, it's really not b…
/r/MensRights10/04/21 10:02 PM
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Only in our favor ? Women who come here are either feminists, people who ask questions or do know what's going on I'm trying to deal with feminists as less as possible because it's always the same shit, but I've never seen anyone saying "you don't have your word to say, you are a woman and this is about men's problems" absolutely never. It's very common in feminism tho I only see people talking about equality. Once I've even seen some guy posting that women and men should have the same rights on…
/r/MensRights10/04/21 09:55 PM
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Id say peeps who are really not involved in the movement do think that, but the active militants do clearly know what they are doing, otherwise they wouldn't have a long history of fighting against men despite it being contradictory to their "equality" principle
/r/MensRights10/04/21 09:53 PM
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We're not achieving mutual goals, that's the thing. If you do agree that you are part of the problem just because you are a man, so be it, but if you want people to actively engage in feminism, then feminists will have to hear about what men have to say, which they do not, hence why there are other movements. Hating feminism might be a stupid distraction, but feminism is even more honestly. Feminism is just seen as good by everyone, so they can just lobby whatever they want and it'll be good. Ag…
/r/MensRights10/04/21 09:50 PM
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I used to consider myself a male feminist until some militants started to talk shit to me, calling me pro fem, saying I'm a perpetrator and stuff, just because I put a stop to them bullying a guy who said some stupid shit and threaten him to harass him everywhere After that I started to ask questions about the movement. Why the most active members of the movement do stupid shit like that ? Why they are so many ? By being a male feminist you agree to their narrative saying that you are a cause of…
/r/MensRights10/04/21 09:41 PM
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Stop showing your dick online like the freak you are and maybe ppl will start to take you seriously
/r/AntiFeminists10/04/21 09:10 PM
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I wish I didn't clicked on your profile to see if you were a man or not you fucking freak No it's not the truth, you are being dumb Don't click on this idiot's profile, he only posts his stupid dick, not even joking
/r/AntiFeminists10/04/21 09:08 PM
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" and fight for men’s problems too " Lmao you forgot the /j
/r/AntiFeminists10/04/21 06:47 PM
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Damn, that's nice to see that. I hope we'll have that in other countries too. Just spread positivity whenever it's about men or women
/r/MensRights10/04/21 01:47 PM
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Feminazism is total bs, it's a made up word to make people think that « not all feminists are like that » while in fact, either you aren't enough of a feminist to be kinda ignorant/naive about the subject therefore you are not very harmful, or you are a militant, you know what you are doing and then people call you feminazi because the amount of bs is obvious, but « feminazism » and feminism is exactly the same shit men's rights is an equality movement, it does allow women to talk. Feminism does…
/r/MensRights10/04/21 01:45 PM
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Dude, I feel about the same. Fuck'em
/r/MensRights10/04/21 02:01 AM
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Well, she's getting downvoted because she doesn't make plenty of sense and this analogy, while being a bit risqué, isn't a bad one. Just read some of the answers and you'd understand why.
/r/MensRights10/04/21 01:58 AM
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Maybe you won't say that her point wasn't accurate out of politeness, but I will say it : her point wasn't accurate and giving the fact that she don't even bother to answer to the actual great responses she already received (there's even one poiting out her logical fallacy, with some bit of intellectual honesty you know you have to face that), I don't think she want to change her mind. If she came here thinking she's right, she won't change her mind.
/r/MensRights10/04/21 01:50 AM
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What's funny about this concept of "patriarchy" is that it totally omits the principle of class struggle and just focuses on a simple confrontation between the genders. Do you really think that these "men" made these rules because they were men? Of course not. They were bourgeois who made rules so that they could keep power in a capitalist society. To do this, it was certainly necessary at the time to give less power to women, but today, since women have exactly the same labor force as men, they…
/r/MensRights10/04/21 01:34 AM
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where's the /j
/r/MensRights07/04/21 12:08 PM
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They recommended 40 judge gave her 35, her husband got 45 not equal but not a bad start. Judge also saw through the lack of remorse and the blame shifting she was trying to do to get a lighter sentence. Not exactly a pass. Quoting another comment If it's true then yeah, not really a pass but it's juuuuust a bit. It's a whole lot better than what we are used to tho EDIT : Seems like she had 6 charges and him only one, so yeah ... It's not as good as I thought.
/r/PussyPass28/03/21 10:39 PM
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Wait wait wait, wtf is that « male curfew » thing ? Do they really think about having men having a curfew but not women ???? What the actual fuck is that
/r/MensRights28/03/21 10:26 PM
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Are you fucking dense or what Twitter didn't made any OFFICIAL account for men, so yeah it's sexist, but honestly I don't blame then because they are following TRENDS, because it's a company. They won't face bad PR because they made a « TwitterMen » account, it's just that in today's society, « men can't face sexism ». I don't say it's worse for them, or it's as bad, but at least they are facing it from time to time, but in society men's problems are seen as a joke. That's it, end of story. How …
/r/MensRights28/03/21 07:11 PM
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What's wrong with you
/r/MensRights28/03/21 07:05 PM
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Yeah you just don't give a flying fuck about the subject and yet you are there, spilling non-sense and not listening to the arguments that are given to you. Whatever, I won't loose more time with you
/r/MensRights28/03/21 06:45 PM
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Oh so you are one of those who says that "feminism is about equality" lol It's just not. You don't know why I am pissed over feminism. No it's not just because "some" feminists seems to want to overpower men, it's not that simple. You are doing a strawman. Where did I said that the problem was solely on the fact that this account was only for women ? Because I didn't. In fact, it's not even a problem in itself, it's a symptom. If there's no TwitterMen account it's because Twitter as a company is…
/r/MensRights28/03/21 12:10 PM
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Now dude you are just being stupid. Having Twitter making an official account and having someone else making an unofficial one isn't the same, period. It's not that serious ? It actually is. It's just another symptom of how men are perceived in society, that's why people here are kinda angry about that. Simple as that.
/r/MensRights28/03/21 11:37 AM
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Honestly I feel bad when I read all these comments. All these people who don't know what they are talking about. Who don't see the problem... I'm getting tired. Too many men into feminist bs and think that "women need help and because we are more privileged than them just like they say then pro women = equality and those who say otherwise are wrong" like wow.... I hope things will change, but it will take a LOT of time
/r/MensRights28/03/21 01:07 AM
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Wtf is wrong with people having this answer lmao It's an OFFICIAL account. How the fuck making an unofficial one is the same. It just shows a lot
/r/MensRights28/03/21 01:02 AM
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Pro-women =/ equality tho Why would pro-women be about equality but not pro-men ? Answer : they both aren't.
/r/MensRights28/03/21 01:01 AM
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Tf are you saying dude It's just not available as a name. Nobody made one. But thinking that it should have been sexist trolls that were behind it is actually showing a lot...
/r/MensRights28/03/21 12:59 AM
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Yeah sure, cuz a random user making the account and Twitter admins making an official account is totally the same
/r/MensRights28/03/21 12:55 AM
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You know that it would have been made if they wanted to. They are just not doing it because they know they would receive some backlash and don't want to face it.
/r/MensRights28/03/21 12:53 AM
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See my other comment. Saying that Twitter doesn't prevent you is stupid and besides the point since they are only following trends.
/r/MensRights28/03/21 12:50 AM
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I'm talking about feminism and how you would get cancelled because you wanted to bring up men related problems, but the fact that you are just focusing on that one point is really showing a LOT. The thread was talking about shelters, I talked about shelters. It's obvious that Twitter is just following trends. So yeah Twitter wouldn't ban me for creating such an account, but that's absolutely besides the point because Twitter users and especially feminists would love to do the work, hence the exa…
/r/MensRights28/03/21 12:43 AM
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Well, a lot of ppl would just loose their mind because feminism yk even tho it wouldn't be wrong. But Twitter knows it wouldn't be well received so they don't do it. Just a PR thing
/r/MensRights28/03/21 12:39 AM
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Wtf do you think people can do about it except talking about it ? It's like the comment saying that "you just have to make one, just get hired by Twitter and make the account" like wtf ? Would you say the exact same if the gender were reversed ? I don't think so. You wouldn't have such a tirade about "just be the change you want to do" Like, why the UN would make an account for women and not for men ? You are not actually answering that because you know there is not an answer that wouldn't look …
/r/MensRights28/03/21 12:31 AM
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There's an account for women but not for men ? I mean, isn't that obvious ?? Basically women need support and « allies » but not men because you know, you are a perpetrator, an oppressor, you don't deserve support for anything. Ain't that hard to get it. I mean Twitter maybe doesn't want to « say » that but they basically are, IK it's just a PR thing but this is how things are
/r/MensRights27/03/21 06:55 PM
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how tf is that « having equality » ? I genuinely don't understand. There's a TwitterWomen account but not a TwitterMen, that's it that's the thing. There's no overthinking but what's the « having equality » thing you are talking about ? Equality with having support for women but not for men ? I don't think this accounts stuff is really important because in the end it's just a consequence of what's really happening and it will be fixed when men will be taken seriously but some reactions on this s…
/r/MensRights27/03/21 06:54 PM
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It's an official account tho ???? Doesn't make sense lmao I mean, honestly I don't really care about that, but just saying « well then just make one » when it's not up to us to do such a thing but twitter admins ... seems a bit stupid to me
/r/MensRights27/03/21 06:49 PM
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Nobody made one ? Maybe because they can't ? There are plenty of funding for these shelters because you know, it's a serious issue, but since men aren't taken seriously, well they are fucked, they must do that themselves and it's basically impossible if you are not rich. Erin Pizzey is known as the first woman who made a shelter for women in « the modern world ». She has been the target of death threats and boycots because her research basically said that most of the violence was reciprocal and …
/r/MensRights27/03/21 06:43 PM
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It's not really misogynist tho but yea ppl should support each other way more
/r/MensRights21/03/21 04:50 PM
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I would pick the PS5 even if I had already one, 500$ a night is just damn expensive and the girl is clearly not worth that much
/r/PussyPassDenied25/01/21 09:46 PM
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To these people, trans-men are actually betrayers. Simple as that. They'll be like "instead of fighting the opression with us, you go the easy way and join them" so are they allowed to exist ? I think not
/r/PussyPass19/01/21 08:51 PM
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Yeah it's just another level. I mean femcels can still fuck. Tho this ExtremelyBeige is trying to persuade people on this topic that femcel = incel with a vagina and nothing else
/r/PussyPass19/01/21 08:47 PM
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I mean, I know we are on r/pussypass but come on .... No need to say things like that. Just because you say that "it's the objective truth" doesn't mean that you shouldn't bring arguments to prove that you're right. In fact, you're completely wrong. It's just an aberration to say that all women are like this or like that. As absurd as saying that men are like this or like that. It's crazy when feminists spit on men with shitty generalities, it's just as crazy when men spit on women with shitty g…
/r/PussyPass16/01/21 11:14 PM
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« trades nudes for money » all this just to try not feeling like she is selling pictures of her to strangers
/r/PussyPassDenied13/01/21 02:06 PM
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My fucking god ... I can't believe he still lives. I guess that's good for him ? Idk, but she still got only 6 months for ruining his life. What the fuck is that.
/r/PussyPass04/01/21 03:28 PM
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I saw it live. It was incredible. The chick who keeps going into her delirium, in another tweet she was saying shit like "good luck with your hatred of women and the sex you don't have", the kind of chick that doesn't know anything else. The only value ... is sex. It's so sad.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/01/21 03:23 PM
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Well, I consider myself an anti feminist, at least a little bit, but this list isn't serious. You can't just cite just a lot of stuff, sometimes multiple times and act like it's an argument because it's not.
/r/PussyPass22/12/20 04:01 PM
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I hate to have to classify suffering that way, but there comes a time when feminists need to be reminded that they need to reconsider who they are addressing. Both men and women are affected by gender inequality, it's normal for feminist women to be more affected by women's inequality, I don't have a problem with that, but you have to stop blaming men all the time. What amazes me the most is that it's basically a more global problem, in my opinion it's a problem of capitalism. And capitalism doe…
/r/PussyPass22/12/20 11:39 AM
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Idk if it acknowledge the wage gap, it just makes fun of it with the quarantine context we live in, I does diverts expectations but it doesn't take part in the « there's a wage gap or not » discussion imho
/r/PussyPassDenied10/12/20 09:50 AM
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