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| 3 | Approach anxiety. Yes I know…I once watched a fake TV show featuring a virgin guy. This guy wanted to get laid so he could show off to his mom and friends that he got laid. Something about this guy rubbed me the wrong way. As he tried talking to women, it was pretty obvious from the way he spoke that they were just means to an end (sex). I realized that I was doing this too, but less explicitly. I was attached to an outcome when approaching women and people in general (to become friends, get a girlfriend, phone number, sex … | /r/seduction | 10/03/24 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Men who don't have the desire/ability to financially provide, do you think you deserve a traditional, soft, and feminine woman?I would agree. Fortunately, you can just give yourself love and be kind and compassionate to yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Men who don't have the desire/ability to financially provide, do you think you deserve a traditional, soft, and feminine woman?Whether or not one believes in the inherent worth of individuals is a personal choice, but it may be in our best interests to believe we're worthy of love Copious amounts of research supports that receiving love and compassion can promote psychological and physical well-being, increase resilience to stress, and improve social relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Men who don't have the desire/ability to financially provide, do you think you deserve a traditional, soft, and feminine woman?We all deserve love and compassion, simply because we are human. No one is perfect, and we all make mistakes or fall short at times. However, that does not negate our worth as individuals, nor does it mean that we should be deprived of love and compassion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Men who don't have the desire/ability to financially provide, do you think you deserve a traditional, soft, and feminine woman?I understand that it may not always feel like it, but that doesn't change this reality. You are worthy of love and compassion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 08:02 PM |
| 3 | Men who don't have the desire/ability to financially provide, do you think you deserve a traditional, soft, and feminine woman?All of us are deserving of love and compassion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 09:23 PM |
| 6 | Practically no men are "obsessed" with sex, they just can't satisfy their healthy, normal desiresThe proof is in there, boss: anyone can see that it's true from day to day life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/23 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Men don't benefit from taking the red pill.A lot of it is processed in a way that reinforces harmful stereotypes because in other spaces, genuine calls for help and a sense of community is all written off as "misogyny, women hating, incel behavior etc." Instead of explaining why it's not helpful or accurate to refer to women as "females," or to take a one-size-fits-all approach to attraction, many progressive spaces just write ppl off as "it's all misogyny. These kids are malicious and hate women." Many young men genuinely struggle with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Men don't benefit from taking the red pill.It's important to understand and appreciate WHY the red pill exists. It's one of the few spaces that promotes the empowerment of men and encourages young men to discuss complex social issues without criticism It sucks that the community is heavily associated with misogyny and homophobia and promotes a narrow minded world view, but there really aren't many other safe spaces for men to discuss issues related to masculinity and men's experiences without judgment (other than like therapy) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Do the odds favour the average guy if he opts to date trans women instead of women?^ let them cook | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Do the odds favour the average guy if he opts to date trans women instead of women?Your feelings and experiences are valid because they are your own. You are the only one who knows how you feel and what you've experienced and none can take that away from you You have a right to feel the way that you do and it's important to accept and acknowledge your feelings | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Do the odds favour the average guy if he opts to date trans women instead of women?There's more to dating than hooking up on hookup apps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Do the odds favour the average guy if he opts to date trans women instead of women?I agree with you, though not many people are conscientious of this fact. Bi ppl face a lot of discrimination and that unique experience can reinforce the fact that everyone is their own unique person in them, especially compared to cis/het ppl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Do the odds favour the average guy if he opts to date trans women instead of women?It's still valid. Your experiences are genuine and real to you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 01:39 PM |
| – | Are you attracted to the instagram influencer look?Also, a lot of Instagram influencers like this don't even look like that in real life. It's a world of heavily edited photos, and playing with angles and lighting. That's partially why we don't really see women like that just walking about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 12:05 PM |
| 1 | Do the odds favour the average guy if he opts to date trans women instead of women?Your own personal experience is valid, even if it's not an accurate reflection of real world statistics | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 11:57 AM |
| 0 | Do the odds favour the average guy if he opts to date trans women instead of women?Being bi isn't a for sure way to stop objecting certain individuals. It can just help is all and I mentioned it because it was ironic to what op was saying. I'm not trying to religiously convert ppl to being bi | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Do the odds favour the average guy if he opts to date trans women instead of women?Trans people at greater risk of harassment and violence in their relationships and in spite of facing a lot of challenges with dating, they're usually more cautious about who they link up with for that reason They're definitely gonna be less likely to vibe with someone who constantly misgenders them or treats them differently from any other women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Do the odds favour the average guy if he opts to date trans women instead of women?Trans women are women, and if you're only considering dating one to increase your chances of getting laid, that mindset may actually have the opposite effect Though ironically, I think that the easiest way to get laid is to be bi, not because it gives you more options, but because you'll be more likely to treat people as human being and not care so much about what's in their pants | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 01:33 AM |
| – | The Definition of a High Value ManHeck yeah they do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 10:56 PM |
| 2 | The Definition of a High Value ManGonna have to agree here. Billionaires have godly rizz even if they're obese, racist, in debt and wear toupees | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 04:33 AM |
| 6 | If women desire to "date up", but are simultaneously "high value women", how does this affect relationship dynamics?It's the classic scenario where a fringe type of woman comes onto podcasts of rich men talking about how they should be able to date a rich man because they make a lot of money. The rich man who is too rich for that extra income to matter says that her making more money doesn't mean anything and if anything it turns men away. Rich guy says that being a high value woman means being young and skinny and that being a high value man means being rich In actuality, everyone is their own unique individ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Are men today too fixated on attracting women?It's kinda hard though because if you're a guy who wants a girlfriend, focusing mainly on getting into a relationship reeks of desperation, as seeking out a relationship shouldn't be the main focus of our life and self worth But then at the same time, if someone desires a relationship, it would make sense for them to seek one out from a logical standpoint | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 04:17 AM |
| 0 | The majority of younger women (18-24) are NOT attracted to old men 30+By that logic, being straight or any sexuality other than pansexual is shallow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 03:53 AM |
| 13 | The majority of younger women (18-24) are NOT attracted to old men 30+I don't think it's shallow to want to date someone who has their own place and a big boy job. Capitalism has normalized not being able to afford rent and living with parents | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 06:06 PM |
| -2 | Why are so many men against abortion given that most them just want casual sex?There's a lot of irony in your response | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 11:56 AM |
| 10 | Men who consider themselves ugly: Have you have luck with unattractive women?So what I've noticed is that age can play a big factor in terms of dating options. Each individual is different and has different preferences, but I've noticed that women typically want to date guys who are the same age as them or older and men typically want to date women the same age or younger It seems that for younger women, there is actually a lot of competition for them for that reason. 25 year old men are "competing" alongside men in their 30s for the same group of women in their early to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 05:17 AM |
| 9 | Hookup culture is great for women but bad for menIt can be. Different people have different needs and expectations as far as relationships go, There are plenty of guys out there who could be otherwise great partners but just won't stick around because sex can be an important part of the relationship, and they're not going to invest time into someone if they're not sure what the sex is like For guys who do stick around, maybe the sex is bad or the guy didn't really care for sex much in the first place or plenty of other factors. In that sense, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/23 06:46 AM |
| -3 | Why are women so blunt with rejecting shorter guys but with average guys there nicer about it?This doesn't really seem like an accurate assessment of women or men. On an individual level, this attitude varies a lot. Also it's important to consider that the club scene is a small slice of the population and an environment with heavy societal expectations and stereotypes at play Rejection sucks for everyone involved, and I imagine that misunderstandings and conflicts are more likely to happen when alcohol, loud music and lots of bodies pressed against each other are a thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/23 06:28 AM |
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