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Not sure what I said that makes me a victim
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 04:18 AM
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No, because if the woman has not expressed a desire to get married to him, he has no way of knowing. So he should continue enjoying the relationship with love and sex for as long as he pleases. If she desires marriage with him, she needs to communicate that to him. This would literally solve all of her problems. Seriously, how are we supposed to take women seriously as presidents and CEOs, but we can't expect them to communicate their own basic wants like marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 09:43 PM
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Most people will have more than one relationship. Most of their relationships are not intended for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:56 PM
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Many people, possibly even most people, are in relationships right now with no intentions of marriage. It's generally understood (in Western culture, at least) that marriage is not on the table unless you discuss it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:24 PM
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No we were in mutual relationships. In what world does entering a relationship equal a commitment to marriage, unless marriage is previously discussed? You're not being serious
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:11 PM
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No. A relationship is just a relationship -- not marriage. You cannot assume a relationship is heading towards marriage unless you have a discussion about it first. Your friend should have told him she wanted to marry him one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:56 PM
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Dating someone and entering into an exclusive relationship with them is in no way a promise to marry them (or even consider marriage). Before my wife, I had several long-term relationships with women and I never even considered marrying any of them. We never discussed marriage. The only dick move is your friend assuming someone would marry her without even mentioning it. If she wanted marriage she should have asked for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:46 PM
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I mean it sounds like he was exclusive with her for a year? That's fairly serious. You shouldn't assume the person you're dating is intending to marry you. If she was expecting marriage from this guy, she should have been upfront about it and asked that. That's on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:04 PM
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It's very easy to stop dating men or women. Needing to make it part of your identity like that is just a cry for attention. That's why all the communities of women who claim to have "decentered men" spend all day screeching about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:06 PM
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Paterns of deception are relevant to criminal prosecutions, especially for fraud.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:06 AM
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No one said adultery was a crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:53 AM
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People leave evidence of their deception often and that is how fraud is usually proven. Having sex with multiple people without telling your partner already indicates a person with a pattern of deceptions. We convict people of fraud all the time without them signing a document saying "I 100% knowingly committed fraud"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:49 AM
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Uncertainty is not the same as deception. You don't really know what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:32 AM
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If she had uncertainty of him being the father and did not disclose such, that would be deceptive and could meet the bar for fraud legally, depending on the jurisdiction. Especially if there there were other lies and information withheld throughout the process, which there usually are. Courts are able to establish a pattern of deception.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:34 PM
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These two things are not even in the same ballpark. Men cannot do legal damage to a woman with a false accusation of paternity fraud, because the first thing the courts would do is order a paternity test, which would exonerate her. False accusations of rape can (and do) send men to prison for decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:46 PM
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If she has reason to suspect another man could be the father and hides it, that is fraudulent behavior. It also violates the man's consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:26 PM
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If a woman is sleeping with multiple men and conceives a child, she better be damn sure which one is the father before she dupes one of them into being a parent for the rest of his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:17 PM
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Fraud is a crime. A woman knowingly defrauding a male victim out of his time and resources and duping him into raising a child she conceived with another man... is fraud. A particularly emotionally harmful fraud at that. A false accusation of paternity fraud made in the privacy of your own home is not a crime. It's also worth pointing out that requesting a paternity test (and being confirmed the father) is not the same thing as a "false accusation." If a guy genuinely believes she committed pate…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:05 PM
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Men dange love; women dangle sex. Boohoo
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 08:43 PM
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It's not a real system. It's a boogeyman to be blamed when convenient. It also helps deflect from women's own accountability when they need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 07:37 PM
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But you think women are personally at fault for sucking at investing -- not society?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 07:04 PM
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Why don't women invest?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 05:25 PM
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No more pointless or boring than your engagement here. But have a good one
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:16 PM
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No but thanks for proving the point
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:45 PM
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So not women's fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:39 PM
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What's a major area where women are behind that is not society's fault, but is instead a result of women's own personal decisions/failures?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:08 PM
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You believe the wage gap is a result of women's own personal choices and not the fault of society?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:58 PM
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What's one major area where women are behind that you think is attributed to personal failings by women, and not the fault of society?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:31 PM
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Women's problems are society's fault. Men's problems are men's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:21 PM
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Women are constantly complaining about society and citing it as a source for all of their problems and faults.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:11 PM
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Is he, by any chance, much better looking than you or does he have rich parents?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:06 AM
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So you're both getting home at the same time, after a relatively similar level of stress, and he's just chilling while you make dinner and clean everything?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:26 AM
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But I do think the bulk of daily life — the labor and minutiae — is handled by me. Who works more hours per week, you or him? And whose job is more intense/stressful?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:21 AM
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Even if you work on it and get there eventually, it will never compare to the hookup guy who knocked her socks off immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 02:10 PM
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The hot, high status guys who get to be players and run through tons of women, breaking your little hearts like that, have no problem attracting women and feeling desired. This is a very small group of men. That is completely unrelated to my comment you quoted, which is about the average man, who gets virtually zero attention from women. And I wasn't whining about that, just stating a fact of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:41 AM
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Having sex with a woman you don't intend to marry isn't compromising your integrity, nor does it make one a pervert. Men's desire for (and pursuit of) sex is not a "way viewing the world," it just is. You should treat every non-committed sexual exchange like it could be your last with that person and have zero expectations out of it. You should ask yourself "do I really want to have sex right now for the sake of having sex? Or am I using my body to get something else I want? And if I am doing th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:37 AM
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“Bad boy” and it’s just a guy she found attractive You know who else she should find attractive...? It's also impossible to be used for sex, unless you view sex as somehow depleting your value as a woman or taking away your resources. You had a mutual sexual exchange. You both wanted it. You don't get to attach future conditions to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:40 PM
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I have no problem with women waiting for sex. I already told you I think they should do that. But... if you make your boyfriend wait for sex but let random bad boys hit immediately, you're going to run into problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:32 PM
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You can't attach future conditions onto a mutual sexual exchange. Anyone can decide they're done with you at any time (including after sex) for any reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:09 PM
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Evil sociopaths for accepting easy pussy offered to them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:19 PM
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Calling men disgusting monsters is a bit of a crybaby, dramatic way to put it. Men just desire sex more strongly than you can understand; and at the same time, having sex isn't a big deal to them. If you're going to treat sex like the biggest deal in the world where you must get something in return for it (or you were robbed!!), don't do it outside of commitment. It's really easy. If I were a woman I definitely wouldn't have sex before commitment. But it seems if the guy is hot or high status en…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:17 PM
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That's a risk women run when they try to use sex to secure commitment. Men literally desire sex more than anything else, and they will happily settle into place for a bit, if that place has easy sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:15 AM
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Because as long as she's moderately attractive, most men will not pass up easy sex without commitment, and will choose to keep enjoying it until he either get bored or a new woman comes along.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:44 AM
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All women in the world could stop wearing makeup tomorrow, and men would continue being just as interested in women as they were the day before. Makeup is not about what men like; it's about your intersexual competition with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:33 AM
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Men also work way more hours than women do on average. Women may be taking on the bulk of child care, but men are doing the bulk of the working still. Both parties are working hard, women just bitch way more.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 12:24 AM
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Most women don't feel validated from men wanting to fuck them alone. They're used to it, and even annoyed by it. Go tell a random woman you want to fuck her and she won't view it as a compliment or validating. Stop acting like you live on a different planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:58 PM
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The vast majority of men feel validated from sex because it's not something they usually have access to. It's reaffirming to them that they are attractive and worthy. There's nothing unusual about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:55 PM
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Women who seek validation from sex are usually mentally damaged in some way and engage in lots of risk seeking behavior. They are not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:32 PM
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Receiving zero physical desire from women doesn't make one an incel. A man can receive zero desire from women and still put in work to have sex. This is what most men do. Women on this very subreddit claim a tiny fraction of men they see in public are physically attractive to them. That's not porn brain or something I'm making up. You're fundamentally misunderstanding the difference between receiving physical desire and pursuing women to have sex. I'm not sure if this is a reading comprehension …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:04 PM
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An average looking man receives zero attention from women his entire life. "Getting laid" is not the same thing as receiving attention from women. That yada-yadas over a lot that happens in between receiving zero attention and having sex eventually. Wanting someone to find you handsome and desire you physically is not porn brain. It's a basic human need for validation. Are you ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 03:55 PM
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Most men are invisible to women. The majority of men report getting zero sexual interest from women. Women themselves back this up and usually claim maybe 1 to 2% of men they see in public are actually physically attractive to them. You're not really using critical thinking, and you're just jumping ahead to the conclusion you already want to arrive at. We are not talking about just having sex after pursuit, convincing, putting in work and offering other benefits like a relationship. We talking a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 03:45 PM
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Most men don't just "get laid." They have to pursue and convince a woman and usually have other things to offer. Only a tiny percentage of men are just desired by women when they walk down a hallway.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 03:12 PM
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It helps if you understand that men operate at a deficit of incoming physical desire, and women operate at a surplus of incoming physical desire. The majority of men are next-to-Invisible and get zero sexual attention from women. Whereas the majority of women get too much sexual attention from men starting from a very young age. This has created a world where men find being physically desired extremely validating, because it's such a rare thing for them to receive. Women, on the other hand, do n…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 03:02 PM
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Deceiving someone into raising and providing for another man's kid is materially worse than cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 12:44 AM
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That's not true and is a huge stereotype. Plenty of them have perfectly happy and healthy marriages. And plenty of men get scammed by American women, who initiate like 80% of divorces. Foreign women are not somehow worse or more scammy than American women. You're probably just a little racist. American men with foreign spouses have a much lower divorce rate than American men with American spouses.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 11:24 PM
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American men with foreign spouses have a much lower divorce rate than American men with American spouses.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 11:19 PM
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Lower divorce rates are a sign of happier couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 11:18 PM
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Lots of women talk about struggling with it and many women avoid casual sex bc of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:52 AM
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Fallacies don't cause bonding; hormones do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:51 AM
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Women release much higher levels with a stronger, longer-lasting effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:50 AM
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Women experience a much stronger oxytocin surge. And Men dopamine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 12:39 AM
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It has been studied and there is data. Research has shown that women strongly favored first borns and last borns. Women favoring last borns makes sense because of biological necessity and nature's priority of survival. Women's still so strongly favoring firstborns, on the other hand, is what's funny. Especially if the oldest is a daughter. That's probably because for almost all of human history, a first born son meant you were less likely to get your head smashed in by another tribe or mauled by…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:55 PM
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It's not uncommon for the first born to be loved the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:43 PM
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The bonding hormone specifically surges in women. The reward hormone surges in men. No to your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:41 PM
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It's from sex, specifically the surge of oxytocin women release when they have sex. Your body also releases a surge of oxytocin after giving birth, which is what makes you bond to your newborn. Men release dopamine after sex, which is the reward/achievement hormone. This simple biological difference explains so much about men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:36 PM
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All the answers to everything men and women argue about in this sub can be found in biology. But people are too married to the idea that they are such special, unique individuals to accept it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:29 PM
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That's just not reality. Getting overly attached after sex is a common thing women complain about and discuss struggling with. Men generally do not have that issue while navigating dating and casual sex It also lines up with the science, from all the studies that have shown women's bonding hormones surge after sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:23 PM
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Everyone has seen women get super attached and their behavior completely change after having sex one time with a guy. That's because women bond stronger from sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:20 PM
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Women definitely bond (stronger and faster) from sex. Women often get overly attached after sex. It's a common thing women struggle with and discuss frequently while navigating dating and casual sex. Men do not. Men can generally have casual sex pretty easily without any lingering attachment. Men get attached and bond to women in different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:12 PM
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Maybe that happens sometimes. But I've heard countless women diagnose men who didn't want them with personality disorders. I've never heard one admit she may not have been pretty/interesting enough, or that she was bad in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:39 AM
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Do not do the act if you cannot take the possible results. If we can apply this pro-life stance to men, we can also apply it to women. If you can't handle being a mother, do not have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 01:12 AM
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You can take it however you want. According to your logic, as it stands, consent to sex can also be consent to parenthood. Consent doesn't interface differently based on your genitals. So if that's how consent works, the pro-choice argument is completely destroyed and we can compel women to keep their babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 12:44 AM
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Consent to sex is either consent to sex alone or it is consent to sex + parenthood later on. You decide. If it's the latter, the entire pro-choice argument falls apart. Unless you do not believe consent matters? Or you are saying we should actively violate men's consent because pregnancy is hard for women That also destroys the pro-choice argument, because if we can violate men's consent for reasons you think matter, we can also violate women's consent for reasons other people think matter. I ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 12:32 AM
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Legally, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 09:51 PM
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Only parents can be compelled to write a check
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 08:45 PM
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Either consent to sex is also consent to parenthood or it is not. You can't have it both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:40 PM
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No, just because you repeat something doesn't make it true. You are applying completely different standards and accountability to men that you are not applying to women. The fundamental question that this boils down to is: Does consent to sex mean consent to other things (like parenthood) in the future or not? If so, that applies to both genders. You can't have it both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:16 PM
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No, parenthood is, according to your logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:12 PM
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Do women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:04 PM
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Nope. Either consent to sex is also consent to parenthood, or it is not consent to parenthood, for both genders. You can't apply different standards and accountability to women just because it's convenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 06:54 PM
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Exactly, men's consent is a laughing matter to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 06:50 PM
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I won't support your right to choose if you don't support mine. Either sex is consent to parenthood or it is not. And many more men are waking up to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 06:45 PM
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Not according to the logic you use, which says people need to be held accountable for their sexual decisions and the consequences of sex. If men can't opt out of fatherhood during pregnancy, neither can women opt out of motherhood, based on your logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 06:39 PM
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What about the child? Do you really think you should be allowed sex without adult consequences? If this is the case, should you be having sex? You're making the pro-life argument that is used against women, so I assume you do not support abortion rights? Women should face the adult consequences of sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 06:29 PM
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Adults have sex. Not children. If you cannot deal with the fact that one of the consequences of having sex can be reproduction you should not be having it. I agree. There's no reason to support abortion rights. If women cannot deal with the consequences of sex, they should just not have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 06:26 PM
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Sounds like you've given yourself all the virtuous justification you need to hide something you're insecure about.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:17 AM
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"It's none of your business" is better than lying
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:15 AM
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She's saying if you've had bad experiences being transparent with an ex about something, it's okay to lie to your next partner about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:35 AM
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It's just funny to see PPD endorse lying. Reddit is usually pretty against lying in relationships, but women have to have one challenging conversation about their past and suddenly lying is okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 12:46 AM
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Go it. So if a guy had a bad experience being transparent about something with his ex can just lie to the next girl about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 11:23 PM
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It's good that you're admitting you lie, and it's good that so many PPD women are endorsing your lying with upvotes. Men need to be aware of how often women lie about their history. And maybe he can just lie next time instead of having a difficult conversation with his girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:23 PM
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Oh so you decide what is and isn't okay to lie about in your relationships? And you decide that on your partner's behalf, without his consent?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:03 PM
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So I guess the takeaway for men here is that they should also lie to their girlfriends/wives about things that aren't convenient?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 09:49 PM
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Happens all the time. Women try something with their fwb/hookup boy and then later don't want to try it with their husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 09:34 PM
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No. Everyone knows women will go above and beyond sexually for a guy they really like. So when she's like, "hmm... I tried it with Brad already, but I don't wanna try it with you" it sends a certain message.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 09:26 PM
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It's normal for people to want to experiment and try new things with their partner. It's exciting. It's easy to see how a guy would get frustrated if his girl is constantly like "Nope, already tried that was Brad. Nope, already tried that one with Chris, I'm good."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 09:19 PM
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I'm not saying experimenting should be held against women. But can you not understand why specific situations like this would be frustrating for her boyfriend/husband? He's in love with his girl and he wants to experiment sexually with her but she's like "nope, already tried that with Brad; nope, already tried that with Steve." He's going to feel left out and like those guys got to have all the fun with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 09:14 PM
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The way he said it was a bit dramatic, but the reality is some men excite her more at the outset. Those men will see a completely different side of her, in terms of what she's feeling up for.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:07 AM
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People experiment, especially when they're younger. I'm just pointing out the reason this comes up often is because the girl has already done her experimenting with other men and got it out of her system... but her boyfriend/husband hasn't yet. I don't think it's that hard to grasp.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:44 AM
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Are you a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:48 AM
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Where did I say she was required? What is it with you blue pillers and responding to strawmen? It's just a common experience gap couples are having more and more these days, and the answer is usually not as black & white as "let's break up, babe, so I can go find someone who still wants to experiment"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:47 AM
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Or she felt the need to perform a little more for the last guy, because he was a bit out of her league
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:05 AM
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Or she already did all of her experimenting with other men and got that wild fun out of her system. But her boyfriend/husband hasn't really gotten to experiment yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:58 AM
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It's usually the man asking his girlfriend if she wants to try something, and she says she "doesn't do that anymore," or something alluding to the fact that she used to do it (or has in fact tried it) but would definitely not want to do it with him now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:52 AM
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Your chances of being killed on a first date, as a man or woman, are near zero. You're in "struck by lightning and win the lottery on the same day" territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:41 PM
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I don't know a single man who hasn't been groped in public either. So not really a gender thing is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:38 PM
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Why congratulations to me? It's not the case among my peer group. My wife stays at home with our two children by her own choice. She's currently taking them to the playground while I'm working on a fucking holiday. It's my absolute pleasure and I do not complain about it, but I fail to see how she's the one suffering or being oppressed in this situation lmao Most of my friends have a similar situation, a couple of them their wives also continue to work, and that works fine for them. I'm 36. The …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 04:27 PM
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No one has to do it. You don't even have to have kids. How are people supposed to believe women are "strong and independent" when you won't even take ownership of your own major life decisions, and instead blame them on invisible bogeymen?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 04:17 PM
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No because, generally, women themselves prefer to spend more time with their children, especially when the children are babies or very little. So long as the husband makes enough money, in most situations, women still prefer to be the one who goes part-time or stays at home. No one can "assume" what you yourself decide to do. You are in control of your actions, your work schedule and retain full accountability for such.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 04:06 PM
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That's because mothers tend to spend more time away from work and fathers tend to work even more hours than men without kids. People who work more hours are more likely to advance their careers. You can't have it both ways. If you want to spend more time with your children you're going to suffer career setbacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 03:32 PM
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They should be less neurotic and let themselves relax
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:06 PM
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The vast majority of sociology researchers/faculty are liberal women. Their minds are already made up before the research starts.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 03:53 AM
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Eh, not the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 12:19 PM
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There's tons of guys who like their girlfriends posting sexy pics online. There's even a lot of guys who think it's awesome when their gf does OF. Go be with one of those guys. You don't need to be with the wholesome family dude who wants to look at you like you're his angel.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:14 AM
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Are you saying when you're in a relationship, you like attention from other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:08 AM
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lol you get to have your little boundary but your partner doesn't get to have basic privacy. Sounds like a healthy situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:05 AM
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No. You don't get to pry for details about how your partner masterbates. That's creepy and controlling. If you can't handle male porn use, you are free to not date men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:27 AM
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It's not really your business. A lot of women on here don't even think they have to be honest about their sexual history with other men. You're not entitled to details about your partner's personal masturbation time. That's weirdly controlling. Every man I know watches porn to some extent. If you don't like porn, you're free to not date men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:25 AM
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You don't get to set a boundary around someone else's masturbation habits
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 12:06 AM
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So many words so little answer to the question
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 05:02 PM
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2-3 is more realistic for the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:48 PM
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The way a lot of women casually speak about men on women's subs would qualify as hate speech if it were about any other group of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 09:49 PM
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There's not a single man on the planet who wouldn't be happy getting special sexual treatment from his wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 12:20 AM
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She just thinks it's gross
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 12:10 AM
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I don't think there's anything wrong with asking, but demanding is wrong obviously. My point was your partner doing nice things for you makes you feel validated. That's not controversial, and doesn't necessarily mean anyone's insecure. But almost everyone I know is insecure to some degree. The only people I've known who feel no insecurity are sociopaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 09:13 PM
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Isn't a man doing something nice for you he's never done for another girl before validating? Even if you already knew his feelings for you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 09:05 PM
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I think for a lot of men, it just makes him feel good that he was the only one she was attracted enough to/trusted enough to try something.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 08:45 PM
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Men want to be treated special sexually, as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 08:42 PM
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We want to be treated special!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 07:39 PM
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Carrying your husband's children is obviously the biggest honor a woman can give a man. But the equivalent of what I'm talking about would be your husband being the only guy who got to have unprotected sex with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:57 PM
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It's probably because she was the only woman I dated who I would have wanted to carry my children.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:47 PM
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It was mostly about trust
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:39 PM
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A good example is my buddy and his wife. She used to swallow for all her exes but "doesn't do that anymore" ... you can see how he feels left out lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:06 PM
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Yeah, my wife is the only woman I ever finished inside of when she wanted me to. I explicitly avoided doing that with all of my exes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:59 PM
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If she genuinely wanted to and enjoyed it, it could be something we discuss. But I've genuinely never met a single woman who was actually into that. Doesn't seem to be a real, widespread thing. Very niche.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:48 PM
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I love hearing this. Good for your husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:30 PM
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Interesting. Don't know if I'd consider it a gift, but there are definitely sexual "acts of service" I do for my wife. They're definitely things I don't necessarily enjoy myself but I do for her because I like pleasing her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:26 PM
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Sorry I didn't mean to come off as deflective. And I appreciate the women giving honest answers here. For me personally there's probably nothing my wife could suggest that I'd say no to, within reason and safety. I think most of my male friends are the same, honestly. I definitely did certain things she wanted that I never did for women before. One example is finishing inside her when she wanted me to. I had never done that before to any of my exes. I was always very careful about explicitly not…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:21 PM
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I don't see it as something bad for women, nor did I frame it that way. It's just way more common, in my experience, to hear about a man wanting something that his wife thinks is kinda wild or gross than vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:02 PM
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That's amazing. Good for him/you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 03:52 PM
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Most men I know would try just about anything their wives wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 03:51 PM
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That's awesome! Good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 03:21 PM
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Most people who do sexual favors for their partners are not self-harming. You have got to learn how to have a normal conversation without being hyperbolic and extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 02:08 PM
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Again with the extremes. If it's extremely uncomfortable and painful why was she doing it all the time with her exes?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 01:59 PM
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No, but my wife only had sex one time before we met, so it's not really relevant to my situation. My buddy and his wife are a good example. She used to swallow for all her exes but "doesn't do that anymore" You can understand why he feels left out lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 01:49 PM
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Sounds incredibly low stakes for a married couple, either way
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:40 AM
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Looks mattering is a universal truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:34 AM
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They'll tell you "looks don't matter" while smearing makeup on their faces, getting lip filler, Botox injections, push-up bras, fake hair, fake nails, fake tans, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:08 AM
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Depends how averse, I guess. I'm averse to going to Home Goods. Your pathologizing the situation and taking it to such an extreme. People do things to please their partners sexually all the time, it's not a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 11:28 PM
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I think what's more common is when a woman is super attracted to a guy and really wants to keep him interested, she will expand the menu bit -- partially out of passion and partially out of a little desperation -- trying to impress him with something more explosive and sexy. So when you used to do That Thing all the time with your ex, and now you don't want to do it with your husband, it will make him feel like you desire him less than the other guy. Also sometimes it can come off like "I alread…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:48 PM
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If women would stop throwing themselves at the men on the top of the hierarchy, maybe men wouldn't care so much about hierarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:39 PM
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So now I've been married twenty years and there's plenty of A+ action and never even once a 69 But if your husband wanted to try it with you, you would be willing, right? Doesn't sound like he's asked for it, nor did you shoot him down -- that's the situation that bothers men, when you used to do it all the time with an ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:07 PM
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Sex is one of the most important parts of a relationship, so if your "best" has "absolutely nothing" to do with sex, you may not mesh well with male partners, whom it matters to a lot. That said, with regard to sex, I think I’d be willing to try pretty much anything with my husband, as long as it wasn’t legitimately physically dangerous or certain disrespectful sorts of humiliation. If I enjoyed it in the past, I would probably want to do it with my husband anyway. Sounds mostly reasonable. What…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:08 PM
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So you'll treat your husband the same as you treated your exes? You won't do anything special for him that you didn't do for them? Sounds more like an equal opportunity employer than a wife lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:04 PM
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Do you think you should treat your husband better than your exes?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:35 PM
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Sounds like an extreme strawman. The idea that men want special treatment compared to your ex shouldn't be so infuriating unless you see men as interchangeable and not really human.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:30 PM
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When men consent to sex with you, they are not consenting to anything beyond that. You cannot attach future conditions that have not occurred yet onto a shared sexual act. Women over exaggerate everything. The majority of guys are not lying to get sex. Most men aren't going to know for sure if they even want a relationship with you until after sex. What's usually happening is they've explored your body, your personality, tried you on for size and decided you're not it for them. That stings, I ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 02:31 PM
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Also, birthday parties were always a lesson in learning how to host others and pay attention to the emotional atmosphere and make sure everyone else was having fun and included. Whereas my brother and male friends got to just enjoy their party and the parents took care of the hosting. Sounds like your own neuroticism more than anything
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 11:50 PM
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It's actually nice to see a woman on here who seems to understand male sexual desire a bit. Lots of grasping at straws and pathologizing going on with PPD women about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 01:49 PM
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Such a fundamental misreading of the male dating experience. Most men are able to get like 3 dates a year if they're lucky. The average woman can easily line up a date a week. You need to stop assuming the male dating experience is anything like yours before projecting your little theory of "just not caring about compatibility" onto them. Men have way more invested in impressing her regardless of compatibility because he may not have another option for a very long time. Men aren't "ok with it," …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 01:43 PM
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Circumcision is really bad but it doesn’t have the severe health consequences that FGM does. I can link you an article on it if you don’t want to do your own research If a doctor here decided to perform FGM on a little girl but did it in a safe and sterile way, would you want him put in prison for the rest of his life? If so, why don't you want the same for doctors who do that to little boys? Do you still believe men have rights to their own bodies?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 12:34 AM
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I already told you that I’m against circumcision. You wrote that whole essay for no reason. You tried to downplay MGM as compared to FGM, when only one of these is a widespread, urgent problem in the United states. But with the rates of sexual assault against women, many women can’t just choose not to get pregnant. That’s an incredibly ignorant perspective. That's not supported by data. SA cases that result in pregnancy are very rare. The vast majority of women have a say in whether or not they …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:52 PM
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but let’s not pretend it’s as deadly or invasive as female genital mutilation. If the US decided to allow FGM as a widespread practice, as long as it was performed in sterile medical offices, would you find it less barbaric and more acceptable? I wouldn't. The majority of cases of FGM are actually fairly similar to MGM in terms of tissue removal. There are some more extreme cases of FGM, but that doesn't make the less extreme variant any more tolerable in our society. And at least FGM is extreme…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 01:57 PM
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Young women cheat more than young men. From your own source: "Among ever-married adults ages 18 to 29, women are slightly more likely than men to be guilty of infidelity (11% vs. 10%). But this gap quickly reverses among those ages 30 to 34 and grows wider in older age groups." Older women rarely cheat, while older men continue being horn dogs. You also have to point out that women are always going to lie on these surveys to preserve their own virtue. So the numbers are definitely deflated for w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 01:36 PM
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Men do not have rights to their own bodies in the US. Forced genital mutilation on non-consenting boys is legal, widespread and profitable. Doing that to little girls is extremely illegal and would get you life in prison. So whose bodies does society do a better job protecting? Men are also forced to register for the draft and can have their bodies marched into a meat grinder of human flesh against their will. Women have much more bodily autonomy than men. All you have to do is not get pregnant …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 01:14 PM
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No one stops women from talking about their issues. Women's issues have dominated the conversation for decades and continue to do so. Talking about men's issues is a relatively new phenomenon that's just getting started and still meets a lot of pushback. Women constantly screaming and demanding all of society's empathy has caused real, catastrophic harm to male victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:46 PM
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These issues are not symmetrical. Women's issues have been front and center in the culture, media and public policy for a long time now. We're only now just starting to address men's issues. Many states have found that, despite men committing suicide at a rate 4X higher than women, suicide prevention materials had almost entirely been aimed at women. That's being corrected now. There's been a hyper fixation on helping women, and a lack of focus on helping men. Hopefully we move towards a more ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 03:28 PM
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It's true. I've never been in a Reddit thread about men's issues where women didn't barge in and declare "women actually have this issue worse!!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:59 PM
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Women aren't criticized for beta buxing men. That's just their natural tendency and survival instincts at play. Men are criticized for accepting that role and being the cleanup boy for Mr Exciting who came before.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 12:49 AM
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It's always funny how women with no impulse control can never understand how having a low body count and liking/wanting sex are completely compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 12:42 AM
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And people use low IQ shaming language when they struggle making good arguments
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 12:15 AM
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DEI is not a meritocracy. Not in practice, in the real corporate world. I'm a hiring manager and my employer (F50, tech) uses the diverse slate initiative, which mandates that female candidates get interview slots, even if there are more qualified men in the applicant pool who would get them. Meritocracy would be giving the interview slots to the most qualified candidates in the applicant pool, regardless of them having a vagina or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 10:12 PM
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Pretty convenient how the "boundaries" never show up for the bad boy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 10:08 PM
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Call someone you disagree with an abuser, and wonder why no one believes you or takes you seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 09:35 PM
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What a dramatic thing to say
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 09:30 PM
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You're not all abuse victims. Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 08:08 PM
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watch out for eternal victimhood
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 05:55 PM
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I forgot all women are abuse victims
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 05:51 PM
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Pretty funny how as soon as women got a massive leg up from society through DEI they started bragging about how much money they make. Curious, what industries are you and him in?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 05:46 PM
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Ugh, I agree, these guys should know their place and just take what they get. She chose you, and that's all that matters! Who cares if the bad boy got to do whatever he wanted first? Just don't think about it. You're not the clean-up boy, you're her king! She just needed time to figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 05:00 PM
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You do realize that most men who are players and assholes do not present as players or assholes?! They 100% do. You just choose to ignore all the red flags because you think they're hot and want a shot at locking them down. Then when they decide sex with you isn't all that and they move on to the next girl, your feel feelz get hurt. Instead of taking accountability for your own stupid behavior, you tell yourself, "I had no way of knowing! Hm!" then rinse/repeat the cycle. Many such cases of wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 12:39 AM
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You see, this is where you lose all credibility, and no one will take you seriously. You can't pretend you live in a different planet just for the sake of your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 02:31 PM
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Women don't even find it icky, they're just bitter that it disadvantages them on the dating market. They've gotten so accustomed to society bending over backwards and baby proofing everything for their advantage and comfort. But the "time" disadvantage they have on the dating market isn't going anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 01:20 PM
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The vast majority of women in relationships where something bad happened to them saw absolutely zero red flags? Yeah... No one buys this. Why are you always so desperate to frame women as infantile little victims? It's antithetical to being "strong and capable." One of these days you're going to have to pick which one women are. We've seen way too many women ignore red flags when they think a guy is hot. We've seen way too many women go for the same exact type of guy as their previous failed rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 11:32 PM
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Most men I know would appreciate being told upfront.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 05:07 AM
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I think it's good for women to be upfront and open about that, because a lot of men may not be comfortable dating a woman with that type of trauma in her past, and it's better for both parties in that situation to be with someone more compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 02:23 AM
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But if mens' divorce rate with foreign women was higher you would also be using that data point to suggest the marriages are bad. They can't win with you. You'll take whatever information is available and just frame it to your preconceived bias. Because, like I said, you're pathologizing. You're not approaching this from a position of empathy or understanding. Define a lot? Are you saying the comments you see on social media are reflective of all men with foreign wives? The women on here always …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 07:41 PM
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That's not what the vast majority of men do. Most of them get married and live happy lives like everyone else, with good memories and children. You're pathologizing them. American men with foreign wives have a much lower divorce rate than American men with American women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 06:47 PM
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Women act super salty about it and use lots of shaming language. While simultaneously claiming they don't care. It's a pretty classic cope. They may not necessarily want to date the specific guy doing it, but they want to discourage their dating pool from going outside. They're resource guarding. "Only LOSERS prefer to date foreign women so make sure you continue dating western women, or you're also a LOSER" There are certainly some men who say shitty things about Western women and purity. But m…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 06:30 PM
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If the divorce rate was higher she would also use that as evidence of these marriages being bad. They are not bound by logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 03:02 PM
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Most western women are also plain or average. The majority are overweight. I think that's why women are so salty anytime this subject comes up -- it's tribalistic behavior/mate guarding their dating pool. Men in her dating pool having more external options dilutes her sexual power. Competition drives down the "price" women can command on the dating market. Women will try to shame anything men do that disadvantages their place in the world. That's all that's happening here. (Like you describing a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 01:53 PM
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American men married to foreign woman have a divorce rate of 25 to 30%, compared to American men married to American women @ 40 to 50%. The gap is real and significant. It also gets interesting when you sort by race. I was surprised to learn, for example, that white male-Asian female pairings have a much lower divorce rate than white male-white female pairings.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 02:26 AM
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Divorce rates of American men, living in America with a foreign spouse, are lower than American women/American men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 02:18 AM
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Are you also in the women subs calling out sexism against men?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 02:18 PM
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Anything can happen. Not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 01:08 PM
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Rich 50 year old women are always married to older men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 12:54 PM
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Theres rly only two things to say: 20 year old women also prefer men with plump skin and a tight body in their age range This isn't really true. Plenty of famous actors in their 50s have 20 year old girlfriends. When you introduce enough money and/or status into the equation, women don't care about age at all. Even at the less extreme end, plenty of moderately successful dudes in their 30s get girlfriends/wives in their twenties. Because women are attracted to their money and status. Any prefere…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 12:49 PM
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Women say men are immature as a gender all the time. Go to literally any of the mainstream women subs right now, and it's happening on the front page. (They're saying much worse about men, too, but for some reason get a pass.)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 12:42 PM
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You're not a feminist but you somehow always parrot their most brain drain takes on men. To answer your question, when gendered violence is disproportionate, this should tell you something about which groups are vulnerable to harm and from whom. The reasons over why this disparity exists is not important so much as the safety services created as a response. Such as Lyft allowing women to opt into women-only driver preferences. It doesn't really tell you anything about who's more vulnerable to ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 08:12 PM
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Nothing wrong with getting a bad vibe from someone. But don't generalize 99% of men based off the actions of violent criminals, a small group of people (made up of both men and women).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 07:58 PM
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Why does gendered violence need to be exactly proportional? Who gives a shit? This is the problem with feminist brain rot that makes you see people as caricatures and representatives of their respective class, rather than individuals. When you're talking about violent criminals, you're already talking about a very tiny portion of the population that is not reflective of the broader population in any way. 99% of men do not commit violent crime. You shouldn't let a tiny minority of men who do comm…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 05:34 PM
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It's very important to you but it's optional. Men aren't just choosing to prioritize sex more than women. Their stronger desire for sex drives their priorities (and pretty much everything else they do).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 05:25 PM
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That's because sex is just optional fun for women; but for men it's a strong enough desire to drive everything they do. This is why I laugh when women on here try to claim they're just as horny as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 01:50 PM
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It just goes to show that even a high female sex drive pales in comparison to an average male sex drive. Most men couldn't go without.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 01:40 PM
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Looks and charisma matter more for getting first dates than anything else. And hookups + FWBs
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 10:40 PM
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Why don't you blue pillers ever react with "so what" when talking about male preferences? When men prefer younger women, submissive women, foreign women, thin women, etc -- any popular male preference, and you all will write a screed against it. Where's the "so what" energy then?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 11:29 PM
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I think it's hard for you to understand as a woman and I don't mean that in a patronizing way. I think your biology comes with inherent maternal certainty so you don't have the anxieties and hormones about this wired into you. Is it really that easy for men to just walk away from children they raised? This question demonstrates such a huge misread of the situation and an inherent lack of empathy on your part. Whoever said anything about this situation is easy? Why would you assume it's easy? You…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 04:16 AM
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That's the problem. The best interest of the child should no longer be the responsibility of the defrauded man. That's between the mother, the father and the state.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 04:01 AM
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All of which is the mom's mess to deal with and clean up -- not the dad who was defrauded. It's only not black and white in the sense of it could be a difficult decision for the dad, and he may want to be involved with the child still. But what is black and white is that it should be the father's choice. You cannot force a victim of fraud to continue being victimized because the criminal wasn't able to clean up their own mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 03:51 AM
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There are no rules or regulations forcing you to have kids. No one gives a shit what you do, just try not to make it your entire personality. All your insecure chest beating trying to convince everyone you've made the right choice and that they should jump off the ledge with you isn't really helping your case. The only people who might be a little sad are your parents, if they want grandkids. But who gives a shit about your parents? They didn't sacrifice anything for you. You did everything on y…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 01:52 PM
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People talk about how much you will love your children, but they also undersell how much love your children will give back to you. The way our toddler loves us and looks at us is like nothing I've ever felt before. It's like you're their entire world.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 01:36 PM
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You smoked her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 01:31 PM
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I'll take boring over performative toughness anytime
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 10:22 PM
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I thought we covered the chest-beating part already
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 09:23 PM
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If only dismissive laughter helped your case
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 09:17 PM
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Insults and intensity rarely indicate insight.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 08:49 PM
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Really? The dramatic chest beating had me fooled
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 08:38 PM
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I'll try not to disturb your busy schedule of acting macho online.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 08:33 PM
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Whose work was I undermining?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 07:52 PM
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Do you think it's good that men bear the burden of all the most dangerous jobs, and almost all workplace deaths?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 07:48 PM
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Well that’s a job, no one forced you to stay Exactly. We should stop making a big deal about women preferring to work with children or in healthcare over STEM. No one's forcing them. Or does suddenly society shape and pressure people into certain jobs? Which one was it again?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 03:44 PM
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Risk from obese sperm is about +0–1% compared to baseline. Compare that to maternal obesity, which can raise risks like: Gestational diabetes: 2–4× higher Preeclampsia: 2–3× higher C-section rates: significantly higher Not the same ballpark if you have a grade school understanding of statistics. One of these things kills women, and one does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:19 AM
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No hookups *for average guys. Hookups from women are abundant and extremely available if you look a certain way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 12:52 AM
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Obese women are considered high risk pregnancies by doctors. Healthy women with obese husbands are not considered high risk pregnancies, because these two things are not even in the same ballpark in terms of risk. One is an acute medical risk to mom and baby. One is labeled a normal/healthy pregnancy by doctors. Feminists tripping over themselves to try and apply ideology to biology will never not be funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 12:46 AM
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I agree. He should know his place in the world and take what he gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 12:25 AM
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Lol different menus for different guys. Don't worry about all the things she did for hookup guy before you, boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 12:10 AM
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Lol what a hyperbolic/grade school understanding of the real world. It must be nice to see things so simplistic and black & white that you're able to generalize entire swaths the population so they fit nicely into the box that your low iq-pandering ideology tells you they should. Your seething application of regurgitated feminist shaming language does nothing more than draw attention to your lack of coherent, logical arguments against any of the points I have made.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 11:56 PM
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Lol there's that famous accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 10:58 PM
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What do you think are the biggest problems in society mostly caused by women?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 08:20 PM
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The only explanation they will ever accept is one that places the blame on society. If you call out any negative behavior by women, they will show up like Women PR and start wallpapering over it with a bunch of ways society has wronged them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 08:03 PM
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It's not extremely detrimental. The slightly increased risk from obese sperm is very modest compared to maternal factor like the mother being obese. Biology is not some silly feminist goal you have to try to equalize. It doesn't care that you want to fight a gender war.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 07:55 PM
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A lot of pregnancy complications in the US happen because American women are extremely fat. High obesity among women in the US is the main reason our maternal mortality rate is higher than our European peers. Obesity is one of the worst things for pregnancy and for those poor babies developing in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 06:52 PM
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A feminist-created program harming male victims of domestic violence is not significant? The most widely used DV intervention program in the country is not significant scale? I can give you many more examples. You asked, I gave you two, and you've already clearly shown you don't plan on engaging in good faith, or taking anything that harms men seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 05:07 PM
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The Duluth model was literally created by a prominent feminist. There are no diverse slate hiring initiatives to help men get jobs in teaching. What you describe is very different than direct action DEI hiring that happens in STEM to help women. You've been given examples that you couldn't refute, and now you're trying to move the goal posts. These examples show material harm in the form of job opportunity loss and male victims of violence. As for your point about Trump and DEI, a lot of compani…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 04:08 PM
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Can you legitimately tell me in what ways men’s lives today have become worse because of feminism? A couple examples: 1) The Duluth model was created by feminists and is the most widely used system for domestic violence intervention in the United States. It presumes the female partner is always the victim, and the male is always the perpetrator because of power dynamics. This means that when male victims of domestic violence call the police they are much more likely to be arrested themselves tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 02:45 PM
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You're not disagreeing with him, because he didn't say women aren't attractive beyond their twenties; just that women are most attractive in their twenties. An attractive woman in her thirties was almost always more attractive (to men) in her twenties. That doesn't mean she's not still hot in her thirties. She's just not at her peak. And in her forties she'll be even less hot to men. That's not a matter of how men "think," or "right and wrong" -- it's just what they're attracted to. They can't h…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 08:43 PM
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If you look at the stats: Women are least likely to kill those physically stronger than them (men). Women are more likely to kill other women than to kill men. Women are much more likely to kill children than to kill other women. And women are much more likely to kill babies than to kill any of the above categories. The smaller and more vulnerable the victim, the more likely their killer was a woman. Women are just as violent as men, they're just more cowardly and opportunistic. Men on the other…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 07:26 PM
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Obviously every woman in this sub is going to claim she's never done it. But maybe you have friends who do it, maybe you've observed other women doing it, and you can share your perspective on why it happens? Because it's very common to see women putting down their boyfriends or husbands in public. And not so much in the reverse. Not all women are loud and naggy about it, some women just have a general eye-role-y demeanor towards everything their partner says. Like they're just permanently annoy…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 09:10 PM
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"You're a low-grade prostitute but we all slept with you" is a pretty funny self-own by women in your language.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 06:20 PM
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I've never really seen it used in an insulting context. I've seen it used as a cope by women, like "He slept with me and didn't call me back. He's a manwhore." But when women gang up on a guy they don't like, you don't see them calling him a man whore -- they always reach for virgin, small dick (or short or bald, if applicable). This is how women reinforce what they actually think is a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:52 PM
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There are words for that in English, too -- like man whore or fuckboy. But that's not really relevant to this discussion, is it? Because those words are not used in the same insulting context words like virgin are for men. When a man offends women, they gang up on him and call him a virgin. They don't gang up on him and call him a man whore. Because women loudly make known which one of these is actually a negative to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:45 PM
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Women use this silly explanation to escape accountability for all the most common insults they hurl at men, like being short or having a small dick. Classic passive-aggressiveness, and a need to look virtuous. At least stand behind what you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:36 PM
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Then why don't women use "get lots of pussy" as an insult? Why do they use "gets no pussy" as an insult? By assigning a negative connotation to one of these, women reinforce that they see value in men through how much sex they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 04:49 PM
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Sorry that happened to you. Being a dishonest partner won't make your life any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 03:05 PM
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Probably linked to why you post about feeling sadness after sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 02:44 PM
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My partner knows everything about me, even the ugly parts. It's an amazing feeling to be accepted and loved by someone who truly knows you. Sucks you'll never experience that level of connection, but I give you props for being honest (in this forum)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 01:45 PM
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This is what men mean when we say "attraction"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 01:40 AM
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Hey blue head, are you equally okay with men having grooming preferences in women? Or is it suddenly problematic now?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 07:20 PM
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Not really. The maternal mortality rate in the US is 0.000186. It's extremely safe to give birth. Safer than walking on the side walk.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 04:41 AM
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Sorry I am regarded
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 03:13 PM
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Most women here certainly think they are partnered, but the man may agree with their assessment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 02:56 PM
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The vast, vast majority of women can't get pregnant at 50. The uterus-haver suggesting she can is the one talking out of her ass. Women in this thread link studies about sperm quality but misrepresent the data, as to compare it to the dangers + fertility decline of advanced meternal age. Which is a false equivalency. I.e. femenist social justice framing taking precedence over scientific fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 03:33 PM
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Or that he won't leave her as a single mother cuz she like what? Gets a little fat, changes after she gives birth and is "a totally different person than who I first met" Women initiate the vast majority of divorces. Women are much more likely to leave their husband for getting fat, or any other reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 03:21 PM
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A uterus is not required to understand basic probability. Do you also hope all the women in this thread talking about sperm quality have male reproductive organs? (Bc apparently we're not allowed to have opinions on the opposite gender's reproductive system).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 03:17 PM
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The decline is very modest, and not at all comparable to the massive fertility decline (and complications) women experience in their 30s. Most men in their late 30s, 40s have perfectly healthy children. You're talking about very small percentage increases, and it's mostly tied to health. A healthy 38 year old man will have much better sperm quality than an unhealthy 28 year old. Whereas a 38 year old woman is considered high risk medically. Telling men they should be concerned about their sperm …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 06:28 AM
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From your source: He compared the increased risks to buying lottery tickets. "If you buy two lottery tickets instead of one, your chances of winning double, so it's increased by 100 percent," he said. "But that's a relative increase. Because your chance of winning the lottery started very small, it's still unlikely that you're going to win the lottery. This is a very extreme example, but the same concept can be applied to how you think about these birth risks." An increased risk but a very tiny …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 06:00 AM
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Even when they show full front of female actors they are obscuring the genitals. It's harder to do that with men, and it's easier to hide female genitals in the shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:11 PM
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Why? They don’t show vaginas in movies, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 06:14 PM
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"Gender norms for thee; not for me"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 03:27 AM
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Some vaginas can be gross. That shouldn't be a controversial statement for you to hear (unless it touches a nerve). And questioning someone's sexuality over it is pretty silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 10:02 PM
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Some vaginas are actually disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 09:55 PM
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you want women promoting women to use men for resources and favors and leading them on to do so to extract what they can from men and don’t worry about whatever hearts get broken in the process? Women already do this. Modern women use men, grind them into dust and divorce them at insanely high rates. The only difference is society tells them it's perfectly okay to use men as a stepping stone, boss babe. Man may as well play the game too and get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 01:09 AM
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Can that man live with it weighing on his conscience? All of the women who use men as Beta Bucks seem to be able to do it for decades without it weighing on their conscience.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 12:24 AM
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Him being cautious of women with bad intentions is not doubting himself. It's being practical. And we also hope you don't weaponize your distrust of men in a misandrist way. Have a nice day!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 04:25 AM
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Curious what makes him not relationship material for you, and only FWB-worthy? Also why do you think he'll turn you down?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 05:17 AM
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More like, "don't worry about it, I swam downstream while you swim upstream." And DEI is not a cultural buzzword in academia, there are hard, structural policies in place, like diverse slate hiring, diversity targets, etc that have systematically benefited women at the expense of men. Many under the guise of "correcting historic imbalance" (by filtering out young men who never enjoyed any benefits of that imbalance). It's funny how women like yourself want to reap these systematic advantages wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 01:05 AM
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Nothing degrading about keeping your conversations transparent and grounded in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 11:55 PM
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You said earning more makes the men you date uncomfortable. I just told you some relevant context (concerning DEI hiring in academia that has given women a leg up) that may make your conversation less uncomfortable, and your earnings less intimidating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 09:28 PM
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No. Getting a big leg up just makes your high earnings less impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 08:13 PM
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I bet they'd feel less uncomfortable about you making more if you explained to them how aggressive and early DEI hiring in Psychology pushed men out an elevated women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:13 PM
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The question you asked after making an ad hominem attack?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 01:05 AM
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I did my best to warn girls I knew about him and steer them away. But they just couldn't help themselves lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:56 AM
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Funny, the biggest misogynist I ever knew ran through multiple women a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:07 AM
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It's ok to admit you struggle to understand without telling me what I personally implied.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 03:07 PM
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Or maybe lumping people together as a monolithic class and assigning collective blame is toddler-level application of critical thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 02:50 PM
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What bad things do women as a class do to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 02:28 PM
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But why? Why would what she did before you matter? The thought of 20 other men shooting their body fluid into her is disgusting to us. It's really that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 02:11 AM
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It 100% is. Diverse slate hiring is a widespread practice in the corporate world. Which industry do you work in? In tech, for example, female candidates are given a massive advantage in hiring.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 02:31 PM
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And there's a good chance you benefited from preferential hiring at his expense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 02:27 PM
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His taxes disproportionately benefit you more than him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 05:35 AM
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So the men in your life -- your father, brother(s), grandfather, boyfriend, uncles, cousins -- you think most of them are sexual predators?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:45 AM
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Do you think the majority of men commit SA?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:29 AM
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Maybe if women performed better they wouldn't be crying so much about guys losing interest after sex
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 07:53 PM
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When you're saying that women just laying there it's more of a tell than you think A tell that... a lot of women are lazy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 07:44 PM
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That has nothing to do with your point about women today finally having a choice. When you get proven wrong, do you also just pivot to a sob story? You have the same choice right now as you did when you met your former husband. There's no government or societal force making you get married. You being personally free from your ex-husband now has no bearing on societal change or any relation to women's current dating freedom, as you call it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 04:25 AM
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That's not the same as having no choice in who they married, which is what you claimed (wrongly). So why are you now pivoting to credit? Do you just make false claims then jump to another one when you get called on it? Women havehl had bank accounts since way before the 1970s. That is just when the Equal Credit Act was passed, which prevented Banks from discriminating against women. Sometimes married women who didn't work had trouble getting bank accounts. But lots of women have had bank account…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 04:17 AM
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Women today are not "finally" able to have a choice, they've been able to have a choice their entire lives. How can you have a freeing feeling from something you've never experienced? It's funny how women today take ownership of struggles they didn't even go through.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 04:13 AM
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In America, women have only been able to fully have choice over the last like... 40 something years for example. Before then, they often had no choice who they were married off to. Women absolutely had a choice in who they married. Women were not being forced and into arranged marriages in the 1970s, 60s, 50s, 40s, etc. They met men, dated and got married much the same as they do today. This feminist oppression narrative has really spun out of control. Are you really that naive?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 04:10 AM
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If you crossed paths with as many bears as you did men everyday, your life would be insanely unpredictable. You would have died a thousand times over by now. Bears are predictable to you because they're not a major part of your life, and they're generally not near you. That's 99% of the reason Bears don't harm you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 02:14 AM
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If any of this were true women wouldn't also be orgasming way less on their own than men do. But alas. The way we view sex is not male centered, it's reproduction centered. PIV takes precedent with humans because biologically it's the only way we reproduce. Everything else is just noise. Also, BJs aren't really relevant to this discussion because men would orgasm just as much with or without BJs. I think you overestimate the effort that a lot of women put into sex and just how eager they are to …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 03:41 PM
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A lot of women take up to 45 minutes to orgasm. Many women also report never even having an orgasm in their life, even on their own. When you compare this to men who can orgasm almost instantly, and for whom sex is an act of restraint and trying not to orgasm... ....it's really not surprising that one of these groups orgasms a lot more than the other. I don't see why it's discussed as like a social justice issue; it's just a function of women's bodies being different. Women should also probably …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 02:31 PM
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Are you meeting the majority of his standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 08:51 PM
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I've seen studies that suggest about 19% of homeless women are trafficked, which is very high, but nothing close to 100%. (Over inflating statistical claims is part of why no one takes you seriously anymore). And even if a smaller percentage of homeless men die, you're talking about a much larger population that percentage is applied to. There are so many more homeless men than homeless women. Homeless men are also much more likely to be victims of violent crime than homeless women. Both groups …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 08:42 PM
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Why are you so much more concerned about trafficked women than dying men, with respect to homelessness? Why doesn't society treat both of these problems with the same level of care, empathy and resources? And if way more women were dying from homelessness than men, you would be screaming about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 06:42 PM
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I think you're ignoring the context that young men today grew up in a society that constantly hammered into them that they were privileged and the girls around them were disadvantaged. (All the while the girls they were going to school with actually had an advantage in education.) This created a narrative in society that men didn't suffer specific problems as a gender, nor could they suffer as much as women do. It's how we've gotten to a place where women monopolize society's empathy, even for m…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 03:17 PM
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A very tiny minority of men even have the option of playing the field. Most men are single or very monogamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 11:48 PM
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After seeing dudes out of her league casually, she probably thought dating a guy actually in her league was "giving him a chance." Hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 02:09 PM
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Not new, nor did it just come out (over 25 years old). Doesn't make much of a difference, though, when your personal politics take priority over science.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 03:12 AM
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Hopefully you don't want kids since that research just came out that aging sperm is actually what causes developmental disabilities in fetuses. Advanced maternal age has a much greater impact on fetal development. Aging sperm can have an impact but it's not even in the same ballpark. This is just medical misinformation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 12:58 AM
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It's not an imaginary scenario. Many women admit to it in those linked threads (and probably many more don't admit to it).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 12:49 AM
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Men are grossed out by promiscuous women in general, prostitutes just being at the extreme end of that. The thought of lots of men shooting their body fluids into a girl you like is gross. That has nothing to do with stigma, that's just an instinctual revulsion men feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 08:11 PM
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The stigma can go away and men are still allowed to be grossed out at the thought of marrying one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 07:13 PM
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No one is entitled to be married. And one doesn't have to be willing to marry every person they sleep with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 04:23 PM
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Who cares if he wouldn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 03:21 PM
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Right but the plumber doesn't give her status or make her friends envious like a luxury handbag.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 10:21 PM
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A plumber can be just as dedicated, hardworking & goal oriented as a doctor, but women only get excited about one of these.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 07:46 PM
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When I met my wife, her career had absolutely nothing to do with my attraction to her. She could've worked at McDonald's or Microsoft, and I still would've wanted to marry her. This is not an insult to her or her intelligence; career is just not something I'm attracted to. It's the same for most men. You're assigning malice to it, because as a woman you don't understand it. Because you can't imagine yourself not caring about a guy's career. So if men say they don't care about it, they must he ly…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 07:41 PM
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If you had a strong sex drive (like men do) you wouldn't be fine with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 02:32 AM
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But how do you know he did do it? You don't. Why aren't you assuming he's innocent until proven otherwise? If some random man accused one of your girlfriends of a very serious crime but your girlfriend told you it wasn't true, would you believe her?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 10:35 PM
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DV victims should absolutely pick better. What would you tell them, continue picking the same and make no adjustments?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 01:02 AM
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All of them put me on a pedestal You don't think any of them saw you as easy and told you whatever you wanted to hear?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:32 AM
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All of those men knew it was only their turn with you -- you were temporary. I don't get why that is insulting to you? You said they were gentlemen and that's why -- they didn't get attached and put you on a pedestal. How it should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 12:43 AM
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Right, all the women in this sub are perfect and so are their friends. You've never said anything bad about strangers or couples you didn't know, and no one you know or associated with ever has. Your life is pure and cleansed of any negativity. You are all paragons of virtue.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 01:03 AM
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Anytime women say "men do x, men do y," and men respond saying not all men do that, women scream at them and accuse them of derailing the conversation. I thought we were allowed to speak in generalities to have discussion about common behavior we see? Or is that privilege only reserved for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 11:33 PM
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I understand, none of you here gossip.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 07:44 PM
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Even if you don't intentionally befriend shitty people, your friends can sometimes act shitty. They're not perfect, virtuous people, and that's normal. I've seen my friends gossip before but it doesn't mean they're bad people who need to be discarded from my otherwise perfect life. The reason the question is pointed at women is because women are the ones who swear up and down that personality is the most important thing to them online. Men are generally very upfront about how important looks are…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 07:43 PM
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You just went from saying something doesn't happen to saying it does happen and who cares. Which is it, boss?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 07:25 PM
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What? The world is super judgy. People are judging others all the time. Women themselves frequently complain about how judgy the world is to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 07:20 PM
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Everyone has to deal with shitty people in their life at various points. Maybe they live in your building, maybe you work with them, maybe they're a friend of a friend, maybe they're family... there are many situations where you won't have a choice. But navigating through that is part of being emotionally mature and living in reality... rather tham painting your life as a fake virtuous world where you're perfect and everyone around you is awesome at all times.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 07:18 PM
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You don't know any shitty people? What is this virtuous world you live in?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 07:04 PM
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In the text you quoted I mentioned women specifically in your group, not random women. What I've seen socially is women in my circle and how they've reacted. What I've seen online is primarily from some the bigger women subs, which happened to be pop culture chat or fauxmaoi. But you've continued to try to paint it as me obsessing over and watching random women. Trying to paint merely noticing something as an obsession is a shaming tactic used to make someone stop talking about. The reason you'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 06:53 PM
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I'm not talking about random women, I am talking about women in my own social group. You're arguing against something I never even said. Kind of a straw man. Social situations, beautiful women do stand out. And other women will look at what her partner looks like. It's very normal. But you seem intent on proving women are not capable of judging or noticing strangers lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 06:29 PM
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Women notice strangers and comment on them or react to them without fixating on them. I think the world you're suggesting (and a lot of women in this thread are suggesting) exists is a bit silly. We've all seen women gossip with each other and make funny faces with each other when they see things they don't like about people or couples. Especially out in social situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 06:10 PM
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What are you, Women PR? Those women and those subs aren't representative of women. Which women are representative of women, then? Just the ones you like?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 06:05 PM
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I kind of love this answer. Hadn't even considered that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:58 PM
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In the social context, are you saying you've never seen women gossip about or judge other couples? In the online context... Can you just do a quick search on Reddit of the question "what do women like in a man?" You'll see this question asked many times in all the women's subs, and all of the top answers are some version of personality matters the most, empathy, kindness, confidence. You'll not see a single upvoted answer from a woman saying looks matter the most. You'll almost never see looks m…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:51 PM
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Just to be clear: Are you saying you've never seen your girlfriends or other women you know gossip about / judge other couples? Feels like you're suggesting women are too busy to notice other couples. And if they do notice them it's only in the positive way. Does that sound like reality on this planet to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:40 PM
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You've never seen adult women act shallow or gossip and judge other couples?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:28 PM
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Do me a favor and just search "what do women look for in men" on Reddit. You'll see tons of threads in the women subs with thousands of comments. All of the most upvoted answers are some version of personality matters the most, kindness, empathy. You will not find a single upvoted answer saying "looks are the most important." Honestly looks are rarely if ever even mentioned as a factor by women. Are you really saying women on reddit, particularly the ones in women-centric subs, are concerned abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:26 PM
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The question is about women's behavior, not what you dislike about men on a forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:22 PM
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You've never seen women gossiping about and judging other couples? You never seen entire subreddits filled with women doing that?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:16 PM
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So it's mostly just virtue signaling?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:13 PM
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It doesn't bother me at all, I'm just curious about the inconsistency. Why does being asked make you so defensive/deflective?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 04:54 PM
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It's the exact definition of "personality matters most," because good personality can overcome a lack of other traits like physical attractiveness. I've never once seen a woman on this sub say she will happily choose a better looking man with a bad personality, because good looks make up for a lack of personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 04:53 PM
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And online. I've literally never seen women say "looks are the most important to me" a single time. Go look at all the ask women threads on the subject of "what's the most important thing you what in a man" etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 04:46 PM
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Then why do you always see women saying "personality is most important," but you never see other women saying "looks are the most important to me"?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 04:42 PM
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I agree women care about both. But women very frequently cite one as being much, much more important than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 04:27 PM
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This post is about eye catching women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 04:14 PM
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Nonsense. Lots of women claim all the time that personality is the most important factor, the number one factor, etc. Lots of women claim they may not even be initially attracted to a man or he may not be their type physically -- but a good personality can make him become attractive over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 04:09 PM
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Women notice other beautiful women when they enter a room.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 04:04 PM
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I'm talking about your own girlfriends. You see how they react.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 03:59 PM
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No. Women very frequently say personality is the most important thing to them. >What's really happening is that women don't find that man at all attractive, so they give a little side eye. That's it. Why side eye at all? Why not assume he's killing it in the personality category?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 03:54 PM
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This is actually a good point. "Sophisticated city girl with cool job falls for small town flannel guy whose good at fixing things" has become like crack to women. I guess its reflecting modern times/the growing number of career women. There's definitely some escapism of modern women craving traditional masculinity going on, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 02:22 PM
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First of all, humans are biologically hardwired to murder, eat sugar and fat, and reproduce. If you are attracted to anyone but an obese by modern standards woman, then you are going against your biological hardwiring. You obviously know nothing about biology or evolution. Men are attracted to healthy fertility cues. Obesity leads to birth complications and would act as a sign of poor fertility. (Having so many fat women is why America's maternal mortality rate is higher than European counterpar…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 12:47 AM
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That study is 20 years old. There are 3 much newer studies, one of which was based on PREPUBESCENT GIRLS. I’ve already mentioned this and this is why sex was ruled out. One of which is even under that study. That doesn't rule out sex, that just means there could be multiple sources for microchimerism, like a brother. Now, I know you don’t understand data. But when a study like that has a conclusion with many possibilities, it’s to open up further research into those possibilities. It DID NOT dec…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 08:05 PM
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It's so funny how hard women will attack and download this. You can tell they're desperate to prove it's not true/scared of what men would think.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 07:52 PM
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I linked to study above you showing that it occurs in 21% of women. And sexual intercourse is cited as one of the possible sources. But yes the most well-known well studied cause is the former presence of a male fetus. So, any woman who had an abortion could have fetal cells created with her previous partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 07:46 PM
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Conclusions: Male microchimerism was not infrequent in women without sons. Besides known pregnancies, other possible sources of male microchimerism include unrecognized spontaneous abortion, vanished male twin, an older brother transferred by the maternal circulation, or sexual intercourse. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/16084184/
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 07:41 PM
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Microchimerism is real and well studied. What the fuck are you talking about debunked...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 07:24 PM
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Yup. One guy had to work really hard for it. And the other got to smash, dash, and laugh it up with the homies.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 01:22 AM
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If you think the Democrats aren't grifters as well, I have another winning female candidate to sell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 04:23 PM
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No. I do not care about outliers. I'm generally speaking about men. Men have no problem hitting and quitting. Women have deep, deep problems with hitting and quitting -- and complain about it often. Women are projecting their own feelings about sex on to men. Men do not experience sex in this way. If women would accept the reality that men and women are different, they would stop getting so frustrated when they run into men who can easily have sex with them and never speak to them again.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 06:41 PM
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You made the claim that men who don't feel emotional from sex do not enjoy it and only want the status of another notch in their belt. The framing of your comment hinges on sex needing to be emotional to be enjoyable, which is a female perspective. Try having empathy for men and how they experience sex very differently than you. Rather than projecting your own female perspective on to them. You will get light years ahead of your current comprehension with this simple thought process. You are com…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 05:38 AM
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You would literally leave him if he didn't tell you what you wanted to hear. Because you're so incapable of empathy for men that you can't understand how they could possibly experience sex differently than you do. You've created your own fantasy. Enjoy. Stop saying I see the worst in men. Stop straw-manning. There's nothing bad about not feeling an emotional connection from sex. That is completely normal and okay for men. Again, stop projecting your feel feelz about sex onto us. Men can have a l…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 04:18 AM
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If a woman is open about wanting something serious and is explicit that she isn’t ok with casual sex or sex without commitment, the guy shouldn’t pretend or lie that he’s looking for the same thing with her. No. Because he's allowed to change his mind about what he wants with her at any time. If she doesn't want to have casual sex, she needs to refrain from having casual sex. If she has sex with a guy before they are in a committed relationship, she accepts all of the risk that comes with it, kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 04:03 AM
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He probably thought, "My wife has such a weird fixation on wanting men and women to experience sex the same way, even though they do not. Let me just tell her what she wants to hear so she shuts the fuck up and lets me relax with this beer and/or video game." If all men felt nothing, then I would not be with a single one of them. That's so dramatic. You project your emotions about sex onto men SO HARD, that you would stomp your feet and walk away. I wonder why your husband tells you what you wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 03:49 AM
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Sexual pleasure for men is not a complex emotion, more of a physical sensation. We are not feeling emotional, in a bonding/attachment way from sex. Not like you do, anyway. And stop with the straw-manning. I never said men are stoic or incapable of emotion. We are capable of emotion. We just do not feel emotional from sex the way you do -- and that's perfectly ok and normal. You should accept that instead of projecting your own feel feelz about sex onto men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 03:09 AM
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I agree, women should stop being such crybabies about getting "pump and dumped," and just move on from the dude. He's never going to settle for a relationship with a girl like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 12:01 AM
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And for some absolutely not. They want status and notch in their belt than sex. They don't even enjoy sex. Sex has no emotion for me, and I enjoy it every time. Emotion has almost nothing -- or very, very little -- to do with men's enjoyment of sex. You clearly know nothing about men. Spoken like a woman projecting her own feel feelz onto men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 11:39 PM
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Probably wants to have sex with one of you asap
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 02:13 AM
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salary: equal salaries for same position / context Women in the US already have this, even though men work way more hours and take less vacation time. no pressure for women to do more unpayed work Women are already free to not do more unpaid work. They are always free to not marry someone who doesn't do enough unpaid work.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 01:51 AM
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We don't hate them; we just don't want long-term companionship with them. Easy/meaningless sex on the other hand, is nbd.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 01:45 AM
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It's actually not a value judgment. A lot of men feel a physical revulsion. Kind of like an "ick" women get. When you hear a girl you like has slept with a lot of dudes, you get a sick feeling in the pit of your stomach. The only reason I can think women have such a hard time understanding this preference is because they've never felt this feeling themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 04:05 AM
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He said his partner works part-time. What is the assumption?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 11:26 PM
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If she's only working 4 hour days, she should be doing 4 hours of domestic work every day as well. And that's assuming her spouse only works 8 hour days.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 11:21 PM
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If he's full-time and she's part-time, that means there's a whole 2nd shift of unpaid labor she should be doing (instead of sitting on her ass), and doing it well. If he works 10 to 12 hours a day like I do, for example, that means her unpaid labor shift is going to get even longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 11:13 PM
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If one partner is doing the bulk of the paid work, the other partner needs to do the bulk of the unpaid work.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 10:37 PM
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Man wants their girlfriends/wifes to see them as sugar, not just broccoli. Equal/more sugar than she saw her hookups as.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 08:44 PM
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But at the end of the day, she's never going to look at broccoli (you) like she looks at a piece of cake.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 02:32 AM
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But i know that men exaggerate how horny they actually are, their desire for sex LOL women pretending to understand men is my favorite genre of this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 06:00 PM
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You have zero clue how strong the male sex drive is because you've convinced yourself men and women have equal drive. So you erroneously believe the male sex drive must be as (relatively) low as your own. Pretty typical that female delusion ruins your frame of reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 01:10 PM
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Didn't mean to bury the lede or anything: I hang out a lot in the advice subs, and a woman made pretty much this exact post a couple years back. It was probably closest to scenario B, where he didn't really check in. I remember the comments were pretty split, with a lot of men thinking it wasn't SA, and a lot of women thinking it was, in fact, SA. It's actually a fairly common question you see in the advice subs: A woman had a negative experience and she's unsure whether or not she was assaulted…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 08:33 PM
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And they'll act surprised when young men who gew up hearing stuff like this don't vote to support their abortion rights.
/r/MensRights20/09/25 07:25 PM
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To be clear, in scenarios A and B, you don't think the guy had full consent. Does that mean you think he should be reported/sent to prison as rapist? Or are these "blurry" complicated cases where an assault didn't take place, but consent wasn't given?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 02:24 AM
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That's actually a great question, and I'm glad you asked it. Could you weigh in on the following three scenarios? A. He did check in with her multiple times and asked if she was still enjoying it. She said yes because she was afraid of the large, imposing man on top of her and what he might do if she said she wasn't enjoying it. Did he have consent? B. He didn't check in at all. He assumed based off of her body language and her still participating that she was enjoying it. Did he have consent? C…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 10:33 PM
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Say she was afraid for her safety because he was a large, imposing man, and she had past trauma that made her fearful of large men. But he didn't do anything wrong or threaten her in any way. And she consented and went along with it because she was afraid. Did he have consent?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 10:02 PM
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So she can change her mind and take back consent later?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 09:51 PM
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What if she regrets it after the fact, though? What if at the time she consented but later on she feels taken advantage of?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 09:35 PM
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Do you honestly think that people walk into a police station and just ruin lives on a whim like going through a fast food drive-thru? Except lots of women have done just that. I was just reading about a dude who got out of prison after 6 YEARS because his accuser finally admitted she made the entire thing up over Facebook messages. Had she not slipped up, he would still be rotting in prison. Can you imagine spending 6 years in prison for a SA you didn't commit? You know how they treat people lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 07:52 PM
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Under/over 20?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 07:01 PM
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How many men have ignored your "No"s?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 06:59 PM
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Consent can be withdrawn at any time Even after the fact?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 06:56 PM
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But women gain nothing from admitting this to men, and it would cost them many simps/orbiters. All of the advice they give to men is aimed at benefiting women first and foremost. They would prefer men are confused and vulnerable in the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:22 PM
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But kind/respectful/etc is not what makes a man hot to you. That's how you'd like a hot man to treat you. (How you claim, anyway). Since so many of you complain about the men you sleep with not treating you with kindness/respect, why don't you try answering with what makes those guys so attractive to you in the first place? Try being introspective for once. You're being asked what makes a man hot but responding to a totally different question.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:10 PM
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Both men and women suffer horrible things every day because there are bad people in the world. You do not suffer because of your gender, though. Your gender grants you a leg up in society, extra resources, prioritized hiring & education, protection, empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 06:04 PM
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There has never been a gender war only war on women Nope And you should refrain from using that word because it minimizes things women today and our ancestors had to go through because of their gender. As a modern Western woman, you do not inherit or own the suffering or accomplishments of your ancestors. Everyone's ancestors suffered to some degree if you go back far enough. You are one of the most privileged people ever to live. Only one genders right to an education and income and freedom of …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:02 PM
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No. They like the appeal of the traditional American family lifestyle. Sometimes, they like that Western men are more egalitarian than men in their own culture, and they don't have to be servants to their in-laws. Foreigners who marry American men are coming for traditional marriage, not a wild party lifestyle. (I can understand why Western women might project what they would do in this situation, but different strokes). That's part of why American men married to foreign women have a much, much …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 01:07 PM
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It was 3ish years before we met, iirc
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:45 AM
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It was 1
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 01:51 AM
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I met at my wife when she was 25, and she had a very low n count. She wanted us to wait until marriage, but could only make it a month. Women like my wife aren't super rare (well, maybe they are in Western culture, the progressive side anyway). You're probably just not looking in the right places. Yes, you have to be desirable and have something going for you. But you don't have to be top 10% or anything to date a woman who carries herself with dignity and desires you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 01:17 AM
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The first one you kind of want the best combination of both. You don't want some hooker who has slept with 500 men just because she let you hit it on the first night. Conversely you don't want some low n count woman who will string you along for god knows what reason. A and B are not mutually exclusive. A low n count girl who sleeps with you fast is ideal. It shows she has true desire for you and is willing to break hard rules for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 11:53 PM
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Both A and B: Men with options want a girl with low n count + sleeps with him fast. He wants to be treated SPECIAL compared to other guys before. He wants to be the exception to your rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 11:48 PM
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They always cloak their behavior and put up smoke screens to sow confusion. They want their preferences and behavior to remain elusive and hard to pin down by men. They want men as confused, vulnerable and helpless on the dating market as possible, so they can sort you and run the table however they please. They don't want men clocking them and doing any of the sorting, because that is at odds with their mating strategy and threatens their asymmetrical advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 09:36 PM
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Again not true. Immigrant woman are more conservative than American/western women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:01 PM
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This is not true and a massive stereotype, often caused by racial bias. If you look at Asian immigrant women, for example, about 33% of them have an American husband. But Asian immigrant women have a higher median income than white women. They are also overrepresented in STEM fields (which white women claim they are "oppressed" out of). Immigrant women are generally harder working than American women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:01 PM
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"I'm not going to cheat on you when I go out, but if I do, it's your fault"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 06:43 PM
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It's very common on Reddit: Someone asks men what they look for in a girlfriend, and a lot of men will say they don't want to date a party girl who drinks/dances with other men all the time. Etc. Lots of women will jump down his throat and call him insecure, controlling, "you don't own your gf's body, she can touch any men she wants," etc, etc. But now in this thread, all the women are pretending they've never seen this happen. There's definitely some gaslighting going on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 06:15 PM
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Without a good reason to divert from your normal behavior, that tells me you made a risky, unusual decision based on nothing other than impulse. That means your behavior is erratic and unpredictable. Would you be a good partner? A good mother? All things men need to vet for. (And 10 minutes is obviously not enough time to confirm you were safe from STDs. And risky sexual compulsion in women is often a sign of things like childhood trauma or BPD) This is the type of behavior men may want to avoid…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 02:56 PM
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Even when adjusted for hours worked, the pay gap still exist. It's negligible, well within a margin of error. The 84 cents you cite is disingenuous and does not account for same work, same hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 11:57 PM
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That's not true. The "gender pay gap" is driven by women working way less hours, and also choosing to work in lower paying fields. When you adjust for hours worked and the same field, women earn virtually the same as men. And studies are now showing that women under 30 are actually earning more than men under 30. No doubt related to the preferential hiring and promotions they got through DEI programs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 11:01 PM
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So, if it was extreme, that means it was unusual/not normal behavior for you. There must have been a reason you broke with your normal behavior and took an extreme risk. What was it? There must have been something different about this man when compared to all of the other men you don't sleep with within 10 minutes of meeting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 08:17 PM
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So that's normal behavior for you? You do that often?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:38 PM
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What made him so valuable and worth it to you that you were willing to do such an unusual and risky thing -- sleeping with a man within 10 minutes of meeting him?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:31 PM
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Isn't that a funny thing to be upset about, though? Men have no say in what they're sexually attracted to. Physical attraction in animals is driven by fertility cues -- and women's fertility peaks around 22. It's just biology doing its thing to make sure the human race maximizes its chances of reproduction. That physical pull of men to fertility is a big part of why you and your family exist on this Earth today. Do you not think you have value as a partner outside of men being physically attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:07 PM
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No, I showed you that men work wayyy more hours than women. You said, "What about salaried people," who oftentimes work more hours than their paid 40-hour allotment? And I told you that even among salaried employees, salaried men work way more hours than salaried women. Doesn't matter how you adjust the comparison, men always work way more hours than women. Guess what happens even if you adjust it down to single childless men vs single childless women? Guess who works more? Men. It's always men.…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 06:24 PM
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"men tend to work more paid hours than women, averaging around 40.5 hours per week compared to women's 36.6 hours per week" per Bureau of Labor and statistics.).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 05:09 PM
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Because you should WANT to sleep with the person you're interested in MORE than you do the casual rando.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 02:20 PM
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But men love your personality as well. And the memory of how you looked in your 20s is the coolest thing to us and will last a lifetime. I guess if you look at your romantic relationships from a perspective of "ROI" (can't relate to that), yeah, maybe marriage isn't for you. Were you already against marriage before learning this? Or is men not being attracted to aging the main reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 01:35 PM
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Salaried men work way more hours than salaried women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 12:28 PM
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Women's reproductive system shuts down in later years, and men's doesn't. It makes sense men are the ones doing the cheating in later years.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 04:59 AM
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Do you expect the man you marry to be equally as physically attracted to you in your 60s as he was in your 20s?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 04:47 AM
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People get married because they want partnership and companionship. They don't get married because they expect their partner to find them equally as physically attractive in their 60s as they did in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 04:41 AM
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I'm curious, are you genuinely surprised by this? Did you believe men find women in their 60s equally as attractive as women in their 20s?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 04:34 AM
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"men tend to work more paid hours than women, averaging around 40.5 hours per week compared to women's 36.6 hours per week" per Bureau of Labor and statistics.). Pampered.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 01:38 AM
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I have two sons and dads everywhere at my oldest's games and practices. Maybe you live in a poor/low educated area. Because this doesn't match reality for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 01:37 AM
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Yes, good observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 06:44 PM
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Not by hours worked. Not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 06:44 PM
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You should have equal interest in uplifting boys as you do girls, because they are both just children. Everyone should be interested in uplifting children, regardless of gender. And that 47% of women do so much less work than their corresponding 47% of men. Congrats on doing the bare minimum to pay for yourself and get by, sweetheart.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 06:43 PM
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From your own source, "Just over half (55%) of marriages today have a husband who is the primary or sole breadwinner and 16% have a breadwinner wife." Men are disproportionately burdened by your pampered behinds. Also, "men tend to work more paid hours than women, averaging around 40.5 hours per week compared to women's 36.6 hours per week" per Bureau of Labor and statistics.). But it's not surprising you devalue mens' hard work for their families, just as the person I was replying to devalues t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 04:38 PM
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Do you know who runs my son's baseball team at school? The moms. Track? Moms. Women have way more time for this stuff because they work wayyy less hours than men, especially moms, many of whom have the privilege of not working. Stop pushing the gender expectation on to men that they have to earn more than you, and maybe they'll have more time to be present. And despite all that, every sports league I've been in has been ran by the men. So I'm not totally sure what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 01:31 PM
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Never said they were assholes. They just don't wanna be in a relationship with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 04:20 AM
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I don't get why women are such crybabies about getting pump and dumped by dudes out of their league. You still got some top tier dick, you just didn't get it for long. It's not all bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 10:27 PM
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Anytime women say anything shitty, it's always the algorithm or rage bait. Anytime men say anything shitty, it's very serious and reflective of what all men think.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 08:25 PM
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Most men I know genuinely do not like makeup. I also 100% think my wife is at her most beautiful when she's not wearing makeup. Women also say they "do this for themselves" so that's on you all. As far as nice teeth go, nothing beyond basic dental care is really needed. That fake, bright bleach whitening I see women do, I don't think that does anything for your attraction. And it's unhealthy for your teeth. That's just women feeding their own neurosis (similar to botox, lashes, tanning). Acne? A…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:15 PM
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It's just interesting, when I see women complain about their boyfriends, I never see other women treat them with such scrutiny. But all of a sudden, when men complain about something their partner did, you become an interrogator. It's almost like you have an inherent bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 01:52 PM
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No, it does not. That's an insane, midandrist thing to say. Plenty of confident and secure people commit violence against their partners. Insecurity is a normal emotion that men should be able to feel and express (like women can). By demonizing male insecurity this way, you are enforcing the patriarchy you claim to hate so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 01:27 PM
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When women tell you their boyfriends did something shitty to them, do you say "we don't really know what happened" and assume they are unreliable narrators?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 01:21 PM
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Working out, weight loss, dieting, American women...? makeup, clothes, shoes, jewelry, hair care, colour analysis, teeth whitening, skin care, botox, tanning, improving social skills, building confidence and charisma And the rest of these do absolutely nothing for men's attraction to you. This is just stuff you do for yourself and other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 01:01 PM
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Women 100% control reproduction. Without open legs, there is no fetus, ever. If a woman chooses to open her legs, she has made the decision to risk motherhood. Again, 100% under her control. Guess I'll remember that next time abortion is on the ballot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:23 AM
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That's really what you think? Do you even see men as human?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:29 AM
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There are lots of men suffering through no fault of their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:21 AM
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Why do women act so puzzled at the idea of treating men like human beings? When talking about men, you sound like compassion is this new concept you've never even heard of before.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 12:56 AM
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Most men aren't big criers, usually it's just sharing something they're depressed/upset/insecure about.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 10:43 PM
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Women don't get enough credit for being gross
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 06:26 PM
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However when my husband has a problem or depressive episode it isn’t a turn off. It’s not a turn on in the moment but it builds intimacy and closeness. I love that I am a safe space for my husband to land, he’s my best friend and I want to be there for him It's funny how all women on Reddit claim this, but most men have experienced the opposite from their girlfriends/wives. Some of you are definitely lying, and some of you are definitely lacking self-awareness about your behavior. Or it's just a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 04:20 PM
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This is why pity and attraction rarely coexist. Women may feel sorry for someone, but this feeling is mutual exclusive with desire. ** I am talking about women you.just met. I'm not saying that men can't be vulnerable with women they are already in a committed relationship with But this perfectly explains why so many women get turned off or break up with a dude after he's vulnerable/opens up with her. If feeling sorry for a new guy kills all desire -- obviously it would still have a negative eff…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 03:46 AM
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If you are not as conventionally hot as they were why would you expect it? They offered hottness. If you cannot offer hotness...you need to offer something else Well, props to you for at least admitting this is how it really is. A lot of women here will twitch out and trip over themselves, insisting that women do not have two different sets of rules for hookup material dude vs. husband material dude. Wanting your partner to have some level of attraction to you is reasonable. Wanting your partner…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 03:18 AM
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If you need a woman to look at you and think this is the hottest guy I’ve ever seen I want him right now…don’t you…need to be the hottest guy she’s ever seen? You're strawmanning and being hyperbolic. No one is saying you need to think he's the hottest dude ever. But if he's going to commit to you in a serious relationship/marriage, he wants to at least know you sexually desire him as much as you did the "hot guys" you slept with right away/with no effort from them. I honestly don't understand w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 02:31 AM
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Nothing is funnier than women pretending to understand men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 02:18 AM
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If women were "using men for sex," men would be extremely happy with that. But it's not happening. The average man is sex starved. You never hear men complain about being used for sex. On the other hand, "being used for sex" is the No. 1 complaint you hear from women in dating. The dating subs are littered with women complaining about how the men they date only want them for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 04:33 PM
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You can't dismiss biology, lol It's what we feel. Throughout history, the men who avoided promiscuous women were less likely to raise another man's child, and more likely to pass down their own genes -- including their preference against promiscuity in women. Men who preferred (or didn't mind) promiscuous women ended up raising other men's children and didn't pass down their genetic preference for promiscuous women. This all worked itself out before modern society. And human males are still runn…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 02:44 PM
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It may be logically irrelevant in modern society, but a man's instincts and evolved biology consider it very relevant. Do you understand how the body count preference works? When a man hears that a woman he's into has slept with a lot of dudes, he feels a physical form of disgust. It's like a revulsion in the pit of our stomach. We don't have control over it. That's why the preference is so persistent. Similar to "icks" that women get. I think it's hard for women to understand or empathize with …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 02:17 PM
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"Lots of good sex" lol Most of it is women getting pump and dumped, or not orgasming. And if it's irrelevant what outsiders think, these women should stop being such crybabies when men don't see them as relationship material.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 02:09 PM
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Body count preference is rooted in biology, for men to have paternal certainty.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 02:01 PM
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Why? Does it bother you that marriages to foreign women are more successful than marriages to American women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 08:06 PM
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An easily available statistic that shatters their cope illusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 05:28 PM
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A racial and sexist stereotype against WOC, brought to you by feminist blue pillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 05:26 PM
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That doesn't really happen at any material scale. American men with foreign spouses have a much, much lower divorce rate than American men who marry American women. It's actually American women who usually take men to the cleaners. And they perpetuate the myth that women from Asian countries are all evil gold diggers; when in reality, they're much more humble and loyal. American women are just being territorial over their dating pool. It's more beneficial for them if average men remain single + …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:55 PM
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Are you ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 03:47 PM
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90 days is a crunch. They should probably extend the K1 to a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 03:46 PM
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Only American women are entitled to a mutually beneficial relationship with a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 03:35 PM
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Absolutely. Lots of good looking/educated men from India would love to date an American woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 03:31 PM
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They're not. You just have a racist assumption about them based on what you see in the media. They're just regular women who have poor mate choices around them, and they'd like to have a safe, secure family life. But apparently, American women are the only ones who are entitled to this. American men married to foreign spouses who came on the K1 Visa are much less likely to be divorced than American men married to American women. You can look up the stats. These marriages are often much more lovi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 03:11 PM
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What if it was other way around? We import male workers so women can have better choices? Women would not want to date the vast majority of men who are willing to immigrate here. Because women do not like dating down to a lower socioeconomic status. Women would battle over the tiny percent of men who did want to immigrate here from wealthier countries like France. But they would be few and far between.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 03:07 PM
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Women from Asia, for example, are no more transactional than American women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 03:03 PM
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Who did you vote for in 24?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 05:16 AM
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DEI policies favor women at the expense of men. Gender-based affirmative action is still legal and very much being practiced. Women have been its biggest beneficiaries and men its biggest losers. The left fiercely defends these policies, and the right is trying to eliminate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 05:09 AM
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Would you tell women they only think men are terrible because of what they see on tiktok?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 05:00 AM
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But the young men who did vote and swing right were enough to elect trump. If you erase that swing to Trump (and reset the young male vote back to 2020 Biden percentage), Harris would have won the presidency. You're going to have to appease this group of people somehow in 2028, or enjoy your time with Vance lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:57 AM
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Empathy - the right doesn't promise empathy to anyone. So, while not offering empathy to men, the right at least isn't offering empathy to others and telling men everything is their own fault. Education - the right is working on removing DEI policies that favor women over men in education and employment. Misandry - doesn't exist on the right. Men are respected and even preferred over women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:28 AM
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I think the sub automatically deleted your link as spam.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 04:12 PM
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Link me in the comment so I can see why you got downvoted. Working out and dressing better is good advice, but most adults don't need to be told to shower. I'm willing to bet there was more to your comment than just earnest advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 02:28 PM
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I know one, and it's fine with me. What's cringe is how she brags about it ("younger guys are into me"), when they just see her as a last resort backup lay lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:29 AM
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The basis that no one should be forced to be a parent. Everyone should have a choice, men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 03:16 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 11:35 PM
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We are talking about after the mistake or bad decision has occurred. Just because someone makes a mistake or a bad decision, doesn't mean they should be forced to be a parent. Just because a young woman has unprotected sex, we shouldn't force her to be a mother for the rest of her life. Same goes for a young man. Just because he had unprotected sex doesn't mean you should have to be a father against his will.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 05:21 PM
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If a woman accidentally gets pregnant, and she decides she wants to keep the baby, the father has no say; she can force him to be the legal parent and have responsibility. If she decides to keep the kid against the man's wishes, that's fine, but it should be her choice and responsibility alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 04:20 PM
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Lol it takes two for that to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 04:26 AM
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Idk what to tell you. I'm not taking away anyone's rights. But you have to get your act together and build a coalition, or it looks like those rights are facing certain doom. The OP had a point. The left alienated young men and has been hemorrhaging votes. Gonna take grand gestures to win them back. I get that's tough for femenists to stomach, but sure sounds better than the alternative.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 02:49 AM
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Yeah, but that's not physical attraction. We're not talking about emotions. Maybe I've never been physically attracted to anyone ever then if thats your criteria. 🤷 lots of great sex though. You absolutely have. You've seen random men and thought, "oh, he's handsome." Every woman has.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 01:15 AM
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Interesting. But surely there are men you see, just walking through the mall or something, that you're attracted to, without having had sex? (However rarely.)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 11:57 PM
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Fascinating. So, in other words, your husband didn't "catch your eye." But for all straight women, there are men who do catch your eye and make you go, "oh, he's handsome." This is a better-looking class of men than the ones who start out in neutral. When men talk about physical attraction, this is what they're talking about. But women always want to skip to the next part where you get to know someone and build a connection. Men want their partner to see them as desirable in that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 06:21 PM
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How do you know he's a 4/10 to others, then? What traits or lack thereof make him such?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 06:05 PM
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How do you know he's a 4/10 to others, then? What traits or lack thereof make him such?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 06:05 PM
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You do rate people. You just rated your husband, but you used words instead of numbers. I'm not sure why women struggle so much with the concept of ratings. And I'm confused. Do you believe your husband is hot or average? I think my wife is hot, for example. Doesn't matter to me what others think.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 05:49 PM
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This just shows how insincere your attraction is and how little weight your words about it should be given. A 10 is fluid to you. Anyone can be a 10 (or not) when it's convenient for you. Therefore it holds no meaning. Real physical attraction is unflinching, and that's the part women refuse to talk about.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 05:44 PM
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You don't have to be a victim of shitty people It's your choice Same goes for women, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 04:54 PM
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You tell me. Being with someone you think is a 4/10 seems not normal to me, and pretty insulting. If it's such a horrible thing to say, it's a horrible thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 04:52 PM
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But you and other women on here are saying you're "not like other girls" and each woman's preferences are oh so unique and special. One woman's 4/10 can be another's 9/10, apparently. At the end of the day, you shouldn't be with someone you think is a 4/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 04:42 PM
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Attraction ratings are compared to a baseline average of 5/10, which is inclusive of both the average woman and the celebrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 04:40 PM
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So, in other words, you would be mad if you found out your partner thought you were a 4/10?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 04:17 PM
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Strawman. No one ever said 10/10. Most people would be reasonably insulted to know their partner thought they were a 4/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 04:16 PM
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You're going to need men's support back, if you want to keep it legal. Otherwise, good luck with 8 years of Vance. He has big plans for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 04:14 PM
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Wait, according to women in this thread, all of your preferences are so unique, special and "not like other girls," that one woman's 2/10 is another's 9/10. I’m a basic Becky. I’m attractive enough. I know my husband loves me and wants to sleep with me and vice versa. Why would I want to hurt myself by forcing him up admit I’m not a 10/10 in looks? So you'd be cool if your husband said you're a 4/10? Doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 03:52 PM
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You're also free to be honest and straightforward anytime.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 03:49 PM
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It will be, if you want abortion to remain legal going forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 03:12 PM
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A lot of men would if more women were honest about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 03:08 PM
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But the 20% I am personally attracted to is somewhat different than the 20% another woman is attracted to It's not nearly as different as you all say it is. At the end of the day, you're not super special/unique individuals, you're all part of the same species, running the same set of biological hardware -- and you conform to general trends of attraction. Tall, broad-shouldered men with handsome/angular faces tend to always be attractive to women, regardless of which room they walk into. You're …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 02:51 PM
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Because it's not 100% true. Yeah. I am attracted to certain men however its the whole package that matters to me. If your looks are a 4, but your kindness is a 10, and your personality is an 8, that is fine with me, vs. looks a 9, with kindness being a 2, and personality being a 5. Can you understand why a man wouldn't want to be with someone who thought he looked like a 4/10?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 02:46 PM
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No. Both genders deserve the right to change their mind about wanting to be parents after conception.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 02:40 PM
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Best defense against getting pregnant is condom + pulling out. Women don’t have to let men ejaculate inside of them. Even if you're on the pill: condom and pull out anyway. If he insists, insist more. If I was a woman and that afraid of being pregnant, it would definitely influence how I approached sex. Guess women don't need abortion?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:22 AM
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Well, don't get pregnant, I guess!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:16 AM
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When you have the risk of dying due to a lack of medical care The maternal mortality rate in the U.S. (for example) is 0.0186%. And that's really impressive when you consider how obese/overweight our female population is (and all the pregnancy/birth complications that come with that). Dying from pregnancy is extremely rare here, and it's super safe to give birth (safer than it's ever been in human history, thanks to modern medicine).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:02 AM
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Well, then you may have a point. It could be kind of a judgment. For me personally, it's just not an active judgment. I'm not really thinking about any body counts outside of a prospective partner. I guess if my buddy got a new girlfriend and I knew she had slept with the entire football team, I would probably think that sucks for him. It's not that I dislike her, it's just that I think he deserves better.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 07:35 PM
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I'm not sure if judge is the right word. Men just find it gross (like a physical revulsion, or an ick) and wouldn't want to date her or have her raise their children. I think it's like how women hate insecurity in men, even though it's a very common feeling for most men to experience. Just because a woman gets the ick/thinks insecure men are gross, does it mean she hates and judges all insecure men out there? I don't think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 07:22 PM
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These "general attitudes" come from men having a strong preference against high body count in women, and women not having the same preference against men. Men are just vocal about not wanting to date or marry high body count women. And women are not vocalizing the same, because most of them don't care. That's where the entire general attitude comes from. The entire thing is rooted in dating. You're just trying to find a way to complain about it without sounding salty.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 07:02 PM
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If you think it’s unfair then women collectively need to come together and stop dating slutty men. It will never happen. Because the men who can sleep with a lot of women and rack up said body count are the desirable ones who have some combo of handsome/tall/high status/rich/charisma. And women always prioritize these traits over body count. (Only exception would be super religious/fundamentalist girls.) They also prefer experienced men who know their way around the bedroom -- over shy, awkward,…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 06:55 PM
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Lol, you know you touched a nerve when Reddit Women derail to murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 02:48 PM
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It's how a lot of women cope. It's easier for her to label the guy as flawed in some way, rather than accept that she may not have been relationship material to him Reputation destruction is one of women's go-to coping mechanisms. When they're together, he's an "amazing man who treats her well." The second he dumps her, he's a "toxic/gaslighter/narcissist/sociopath/love bomber/abuser/etc." You see it all the time. It's easier for a woman to diagnose a guy with a personality disorder, or label hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 12:57 AM
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No, you just labeled them unattractive after they wouldn't commit to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 11:45 PM
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Influenced and brainwashed are very different things. Saying women are brainwashed places the blame for your own decisions entirely on external forces and dodges any accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 03:14 AM
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Are you a strong, independent women or uwu wittle brainwash victims who can't make your own decisions? Sorry, I forgot which one it is on Thursdays.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 06:26 PM
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You have a forceful personality, and you knee-jerk to shaming language pretty often. It wouldn't surprise me if you applied some pressure. But it also wouldn't surprise me if you didn't admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:01 PM
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Did you pressure your partner into it at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:20 PM
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Did you have to pressure your husband at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:32 PM
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Makes it sound like marriage actually benefits women more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:20 PM
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I think it’s a lot more than just one special day. They see their peers on Instagram hitting all those special marriage milestones as a couple -- wedding, buying a house, kids, anniversary, etc -- and getting showered with likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:10 PM
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Men not wanting to date them, or raise another man's kids for them, is not demonizing them. Are women demonizing broke men by not wanting to date them?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:23 AM
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They are disproportionately raising the most murderers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:20 AM
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As a man, I feel no shared sense of accountability or defensiveness on behalf of violent criminals just because they may also share the same genitals as me. I'm not one, and I dislike them. The question is, why do you feel a shared sense of accountability/defensiveness with single moms unless you yourself are one?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:07 AM
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When they tell you to "be nice," it's because they wish the man they're already fucking would be nice to them (and he's not). They're completely unwilling to be introspective of what traits made them want to fuck that guy in the first place, because telling you that doesn't benefit them, and all of their advice selfishly comes from a place of benefiting women, not men. Men are asking for advice on how to get from point A to point B. Women are giving advice on how to go from point B to point C (w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:15 PM
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There have been so many instances were men either dump their long-term girlfriend for nagging about wanting marriage and kids or the woman dumps him because she has given up hope after years of sacrificing for him and being ignored only for the man to marry another woman and have a kid on the way shortly after the breakup while the women who’s time he wasted is still starting over in the dating phase. It's because when men have easy access to sex, like a LTR, they get comfortable and will just k…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 07:01 PM
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Men can easily have kids well past 40, unlike women, so we feel less pressure to decide right away. It makes perfect sense, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:51 PM
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But are you fine paying taxes for dumb single moms who couldn't keep their legs closed?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:49 PM
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That's not true. The only reason women are paid less in the same field is because they work less hours. When you account for hours worked, the controlled pay gap is 99 cents on the dollar.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 07:15 PM
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Yes, they currently are. Working women are given preference over men through affirmative action in higher paying fields. This has artificially decreased the wage gap, even though men work way more hours and take less vacation time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:56 PM
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No, we're going back to "working women shouldn't be paid extra just because some women choose to stay in the kitchen, and we have to level out some arbitrary wage gap" bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:39 PM
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They won't be denied employment; they just won't get a leg up over men anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:25 AM
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100%. They will never win another election without young men supporting them. You just can't lose support among hispanics, blacks, working class/blue collar folks -- AND lose part of the youth vote. The left has historically always relied heavily on the youth vote. College-educated white women alone cannot carry them to victory. Doubling down on that base in 2024 backfired on them spectacularly. And I agree with you, it doesn't seem like they've learned anything yet. Back to my original point, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 04:17 PM
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Or we'll go back to balanced gender enrollment in college, and a bigger wage gap (more reflective of so many women working less hours and choosing to stay at home).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 03:19 PM
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Saying enough to smash the Democrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 08:03 PM
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Yougov polling has him more popular than Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 07:51 PM
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Reddit isn't going to be able to meme him away, just like it couldn't meme Kamala to victory.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 07:27 PM
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Guess we'll have to see if 8 years of Vance brings them to their senses or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 06:42 PM
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Incredibly well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 06:16 PM
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I think you're missing the point. These men are not voting explicitly to get rid of abortion. They're just not going to vote Democrat out of any obligation to help you with your abortion rights. They no longer care if that sucks for you, and they can't be shamed into helping you anymore. I can't really blame them, either. Who should they favor, Republicans who are removing DEI policies (which elevate women at the expense of men)? Or democrats who tell them they are all that is wrong with society…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 06:11 PM
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Top 5% dudes are pulling that average wayyyy up
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 06:05 PM
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Women make much, much worse posts about men in subs like twoX every day. This isn't even that bad. You're just being a crybaby. And when all you can respond with is shaming language, it just means you have no argument against the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 01:10 PM
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Lol men can't be mean about their preferences, but women can shame broke and short men all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 11:57 PM
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Most are obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 01:46 AM
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Can you give me an example of what they are saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 08:35 PM
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No one is saying it's a woman's fault if she has a bad date. But a lot of women ignore obvious red flags (and direct information a man tells them, "I'm not really looking for anything serious" etc) when he is hot, and then make themselves out to be victims who were manipulated into a situation they enthusiastically dove head first into. Rather than taking accountability for their own decisions, women point the finger at men as a collective and blame them. So now, I, a stranger, somehow have more…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 08:22 PM
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Exactly, she's basically complaining about having to treat men like human beings. She'd rather just get to shout/criticize/pick/neg and act generally unhinged 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 10:04 PM
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No one wished for biology to work this way. But there's no equivalency between a modest risk increase that men incur in their 40s and 50s -- and a dramatic risk increase women incur in their 30s + total fertility loss by 40s. You're comparing apples and oranges, saying men also need to have kids by 35. I think most people prefer to have kids by their thirties, but men have absolutely no issue having kids in their forties, if they still want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 02:31 PM
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Women should, because that's when their fertility plummets. But that's not the case for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 01:51 PM
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Every pregnancy risk for mommy (and baby) increases in her 30s, on top of fertility nose diving. By your logic, we should tell women to hurry up and only have kids in their twenties.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 01:43 PM
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In your social circles, do you see any negative behaviors women primary engage in (much more than men)?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:02 AM
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Not sure the "we" you're talking about, but there are a lot of blue pill women here who say a woman's sexual history shouldn't matter, and a man is awful for even asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 08:12 PM
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So if a man has a personal boundary that he doesn't want to date a woman who slept with a lot of men, that's fine as well? Or are personal boundaries related to another's sexual behavior only valid when women hold them?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 01:43 PM
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Do you think you're maybe projecting your own behavior on to others here? Because I know plenty of high libido/super horny people who keep their sexual activity limited to a handful of LTRs. In fact, I know a lot of women who don't like hookups, and only enjoy sex in a LTR. Them having a low body count doesn't mean they have a low libido lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 02:28 PM
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What are some negative traits you think women have a natural propensity for?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 08:08 PM
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Well said, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 01:57 PM
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Yup. Very succinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 07:12 PM
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You are saying that an average guy is more likely to want a LTR That means average guys have less attachment issues, are less toxic, have less self esteem issues, etc. I'm numbering all sorts of issues a person could have t No, it doesn't. Just because a hot guy doesn't want a relationship with you doesn't mean he has a personality disorder or any of the other shit you mention. It just means he didn't think you were good enough for a LTR. Someone not wanting to date you doesn't mean they're toxi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 01:22 AM
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If toxicity, attachment issues, personality, violence, promiscuity, cheating tendencies, narcissism, etc etc are not related to looks Why are you still insisting that they are? I never did. I never even mentioned any of these traits. You brought them into the conversation. And no, normal, average guys have hookups, casual sex, etc. Not in any meaningful way. The average guy may have one or two hookups his entire life if he's lucky. But mostly, he will have like 4 sex partners who were also his g…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 01:00 AM
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"Getting stuck in something casual" is also something that happens with average guys. No, it's not. At all. And average dudes would love getting stuck in some easy sex with zero commitment/obligations, but it's not happening for most of them. Being average doesn't mean that every guy is healthy, healed, and ready for a wholesome relationship. Average guys also cheat and have anxious attachment styles, some are violent, toxic, etc. Neither does being a hot guy. But the average guy is more likely …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 12:32 AM
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Because when women go after these men who are out of their league, the experience inevitably ends badly. They get stuck as something casual or end up being pump and dumped. And then when they complain, they disparage all men. They say "men are trash," when the vast majority of men are not even having casual sex. Meanwhile there are plenty of men in her league who would be happy to have a relationship with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 10:03 PM
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God forbid you have to take a shred of initiative lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 03:02 PM
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Action, and using your vote to apply pressure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:58 PM
1

Gotcha. So what's something a woman needs to be responsible for (outside of her own shit)?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:16 PM
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Gotcha. So, should a man only be responsible for his own shit as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:56 PM
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What's one thing you think women specifically need to take responsibility for?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:34 PM
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Are you married now? If so, how does your current partner stack up to your previous ones, in terms of attraction?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:54 PM
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The other thing is who I find attractive and who I would date aren't the same. Oh, that's interesting. Would you date someone you're not attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:02 PM
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What's one valid criticism of women (in general) you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 01:23 AM
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What if he used to cross dress all the time when he was younger but has since decided he doesn't like it anymore and stopped? Does he still have to tell her?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 03:04 AM
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Or tall guys. They're all somehow dating a 4'11 janitor with a micro who's super confident and doesn't care about her body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 06:39 PM
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But that would help men. We don't do that as a society. Didn't you get the memo?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:51 PM
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For not giving a fuck, women sure do get pissy about it on Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 04:20 AM
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Women also work way less hours than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 08:11 PM
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Colleges have been actively soliciting male applicants and lowering admissions standards for men in an effort to equalize their gender mix for more than 30 years. Source on this?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 09:18 PM
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The reality is you should be in awe of how low that rate is. How much more near-zero do you need it to be? 22/100k, compared to France, for example, at 8, is still shockingly low when you consider how obese, diabetic and drug addicted our country is. These are not super healthy women usually dying.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 02:35 AM
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Someone who doesn't understand how decimals and percentages work lol Is that girl math?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 02:22 AM
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A matenal mortality rate of 0.000223 in America is not "wildly dangerous."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 02:15 AM
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You're just not attractive enough to the men that you're into specifically. There are loads of unattractive men out there who would do anything for you. You would just never give them a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:38 AM
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And it's good for men to remember that absolutely none of this will stop women from voting as a block 100% in their own self-interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:38 PM
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I have a wife and two kids. So your low-IQ shaming words are meaningless, lol The sleep deprivation is overblown. People (mostly women) are just huge crybabies. It's pretty easy to get up at night when you don't have to DRIVE TO WORK in the morning. And it's pretty easy to get lots of naps when the baby, who your only job is to take care of, SLEEPS all day. I don't look down on mothers. I actually agree with you that it's (one of) the most important jobs. But let's not pretend it's so difdicult,…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 03:12 AM
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They did not all easily lose weight and get back to their perfect hourglass shape Yes, they did. Because they had to get off their asses and walk everywhere, every day. Fat societies are a relatively new phenomenon in human history.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 03:03 AM
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Idc how many hours a weeks you’re working, your breastfeeding wife likely works more than that I bet you don't. Money and labor is something you feel entitled to. Original question is how you expect your breastfeeding wife to maintain the household, take care of a newborn, and lose all the baby weight in the span of 6 months? Bro. Newborns sleep the majority of the day. Breastfeeding is something natural any idiot can do since literally the BEGINNING OF HUMANITY. Stop acting like it's such a uni…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 02:58 AM
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Like 90% of women throughout human history have given birth
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 02:46 AM
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I work 80 hour weeks. That's not one thing. It's many things. I do many things and pay many bills, not one. Was that girl math you were doing? I guess you'd be surprised to learn how many women will happily accept that role for the opportunity to be a SAHM, which most families can not afford to do anymore. And it sounds like you completely devalue the role and sacrifices of a provider. Do you think a magic fairy brings the paycheck every week? Modern women sound so spoiled.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 02:45 AM
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Almost all women throughout human history have done it. Even extremely stupid and/or lazy women pull it off. How fucking hard is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 02:32 AM
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Tell her she's getting too fat and should get back in shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 02:11 AM
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What should I do? Let her get fat, unealthy and say nothing?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 01:51 AM
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I'll pay all the bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 01:50 AM
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6 months is more than enough time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 01:43 AM
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Nope. So long as she works off that gut in a reasonable time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 01:19 AM
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Sounds like you're saying # not all women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 08:22 PM
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Calling them out for saying or doing anything that continues to parpituate a culture where infants are killed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 08:17 PM
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So what are you doing to hold them in accountable for this? What are you saying you're pregnant friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 08:07 PM
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2/3s for overall baby killing so, nowhere near 99% 80% is super high, though, right? Do you think we need to do a better job holding women accountable for this? What are you doing and saying to the women in your life to make sure they're accountable and not perpetuating this terrible behavior? Are you calling out you're pregnant friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 08:06 PM
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I was wrong. It's 80%. Eighty percent of homicides where the victim is under one year old are perpetrated by female killers. https://crimeandjusticeresearchalliance.org/rsrch/gender-and-homicide/#:~:text=weapon%20of%20choice.-,Two%2Dthirds%20of%20infanticides%20are%20perpetrated%20by%20women.,family%20members%20or%20intimate%20partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 08:01 PM
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So do you think we should do a better job holding women accountable for infanticine? Since they disproportionately committed?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:58 PM
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It was 80. Eighty percent of homicides where the victim is under one year old are perpetrated by female killers. https://crimeandjusticeresearchalliance.org/rsrch/gender-and-homicide/#:~:text=weapon%20of%20choice.-,Two%2Dthirds%20of%20infanticides%20are%20perpetrated%20by%20women.,family%20members%20or%20intimate%20partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:58 PM
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Again, who is primarily caring for the child in the first day and year of life ? There's literally no excuse for child murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:56 PM
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I was wrong (a little): Eighty percent of homicides where the victim is under one year old are perpetrated by female killers. https://crimeandjusticeresearchalliance.org/rsrch/gender-and-homicide/#:~:text=weapon%20of%20choice.-,Two%2Dthirds%20of%20infanticides%20are%20perpetrated%20by%20women.,family%20members%20or%20intimate%20partners. 99% is for neonaticide.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:54 PM
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You're right. I will change my comment. It's 80% for infanticide: Eighty percent of homicides where the victim is under one year old are perpetrated by female killers. https://crimeandjusticeresearchalliance.org/rsrch/gender-and-homicide/#:~:text=weapon%20of%20choice.-,Two%2Dthirds%20of%20infanticides%20are%20perpetrated%20by%20women.,family%20members%20or%20intimate%20partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:52 PM
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Nope. This source covers all children <1. Not just day of birth (which is almost exclusively committed by mothers).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:24 PM
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Pitbulls are so dangerous. You should be ashamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:21 PM
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https://www.cdc.gov/mmwr/volumes/69/wr/mm6939a1.htm
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:18 PM
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https://www.cdc.gov/mmwr/volumes/69/wr/mm6939a1.htm
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:17 PM
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We're not talking about abortion. Murder of born infants. https://www.cdc.gov/mmwr/volumes/69/wr/mm6939a1.htm
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:17 PM
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What about the stat that women commit 99% of infanticide? And the bulk of very young child murders? And on par with men for children overall? Basically, the more young and vulnerable the victim, the more likely their killer was a woman. Where it's the opposite for men, who are most likely to kill other adult men, followed by adult women, then children, and almost never babies. Kind of shows that women are just as evil if not more; they're just cowardly due to their physicality, and less likely t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:08 PM
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Everyone knows men are wayyy less likely to report.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 06:58 PM
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Women commit 99% of infanticide.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 06:56 PM
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Whatever, I'm just happy this country is about to bring back some female accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 01:27 AM
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I love women like you because you push men to vote correctly 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 01:19 AM
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You get a little slap on the wrist because uwu just a girl who didn't mean it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 01:14 AM
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Yup. You can call me a cuck, but if I called you an equally insulting word for a woman, I'd be banned from the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 06:51 PM
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Yeah, if women actually admit something is "fair," that means it's extremely biased in their favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 06:23 PM
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You tried. Some of these blue pill bros are just so in love with their own oppression. They've been indoctrinated past the point of being able to see men (and boys) as actual people who deserve basic compassion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:00 AM
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True. There are a lot of useful idiots out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:33 PM
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No matter what issue you suggest helping men with, you will face massive pushback from women. 4x higher suicide rate? Homelessness? Genital mutilation of little boys? "But what about FGM???? It's way worse!!!" Meanwhile, FGM is at least illegal in the West. And when you're talking about little babies having their genitals sliced (or burned) without any pain medicine, is it really even worth comparing which one is worse? How can you say for sure which one is more traumatizing for a child? It's al…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:15 PM
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A lot of women who aren't interested in casual sex will make exceptions for those men, hoping to angle for a LTR. Dating advice subs are littered with these women complaining that they feel used for sex, when these men inevitably don't commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 12:48 AM
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They are somehow selecting for men that don’t want long term relationships, in which case they need to review and revise their dating strategy. Be very careful suggesting any female accountability in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 12:37 AM
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This isn't 4B, though, which means no sex/marriage/dating/procreation with men. It’s more of a “I got your back, girls. Now how are we going to keep ourselves and each other safe, and learn how to add value to our lives while rejecting 60% of men”. This just sounds like you finally discovered how to live your life as an adult and actually use judgment..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:24 AM
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If the most you can hurt your opposition is by saying, "We're gonna stop fucking liberal men!" No wonder you keep losing elections and rights 😂 Good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:49 PM
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Lol, you forget that half of Trump's voters are women. Even in your silly, unprobable revenge fantasy, conservative women will still be getting married to men and having lots of babies. Liberal women are free to 4B themselves out of the gene pool anytime they want. But we both know it's nothing more than a revenge fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 11:19 PM
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I mean, in your silly feminist revenge fantasy, conservative women would still be marrying men and having lots of babies. So liberal women would just be erasing themselves (and their movement) from the gene pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:26 PM
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Go right ahead lol, plug your ears and walk away. Should work out great for women down the road.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:37 PM
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Then why can't the female driven Democratic party even mention a single men's issue they want to address? They can't even say we're going to divert a little funding to pop the hood on this 4X higher suicide rate? Even just to throw men a bone? It would be so easy for them to do. But they know the second they offer men a tiny hand up, their female base will start screaming at them. Women frequently devote their entire lives to their husbands and their sons. They live to please and help them. Men …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:28 PM
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Men have no desire to help women. And women have zero desire to help men. Both genders are completely self-interested. Men and women can either form a mutually beneficial coalition, or they can go to political war. Right now, it's sliding into war.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:35 PM
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Every prominent female politician, including AOC, tried to shame him and pummel him into silence for saying that. Then they marched right on to lose the election to Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:31 PM
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I don't think most men even want kids at that age. But if they do, at least they have the biological ability to do so. Women at that point are cooked.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 12:56 AM
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I mean, that's just part of getting older. Like how women develop vaginal dryness and lose elasticity as they age. But men have much more robust reproductive capacity as they age, compared to women. And they certainly don't face a biological clock, which is laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 01:19 AM
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The issue men have is not in regards to their fertility it’s in finding a partner. This is social pressure. Men have faced social pressure to have kids since the beginning of time. This is not a biological clock. Women face the same (even stronger) social pressures to have kids + a biological clock (which men do not face).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 01:08 AM
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The reason men don't have kids at 45 is because their wives are barren. (Most men are married by 40).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:54 AM
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If a woman is unable or unwilling to be a mother, it's her responsibility to a) have 0 sex; or b) ensure that a pregnancy can't happen during the sex that she has. Not doing so is anti-social.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:05 PM
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Why is Reddit full of crybaby women asking for advice after they got pump and dumped? If they'd "rather be alone" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:24 AM
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Better than you, apparently. "Most women would rather be alone than settle" doesn't play out in the data at all. Is that a cope to make you feel better about being single or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 12:42 AM
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Lol they're only fine being alone when they know they still have a lot of options. Once the options start getting limited, they get desperate. Most women still end up married by 40 in the uUS.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:20 PM
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There's nothing you can force anyone to do. But bringing awareness may help women think about the same mistakes they keep repeating over and over again. If women were a bit more realistic about their standards in their 20s, they wouldn't always end up settling for something that makes them so unhappy in their 30s. And then we can try to build a healthy society again.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 08:38 PM
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Men are also more likely to be the perpetrator of violent crimes though. And? Classic victim blaming. If I'm a victim of violent crime, my attacker having the same genitals as me doesn't make it any better. What a brain drain take.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:36 PM
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Famous accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 12:44 PM
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Lmao, you know nothing about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 12:40 AM
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Absolutely none of this answers my question. Can you read?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:57 PM
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Right, but with you framing violence as a problem that needs to specifically be addressed with the male population, I'm trying to show you another perspective. People always seem to overlook this when talking about gendered crime statistics. 99+% percent of men do not commit violent crime. You know what else is true? 99+% of women do not commit violent crime. Of the total US population, about 0.3% of people commit violent crime (and this is likely on the high end, not accounting for repeat offen…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:07 PM
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Do you really not understand how statistics work? You are specifying the gender % breakdown of criminals. I am asking you what percentage of men are criminals. Less than 1% of men commit violent offenses in the U.S.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:42 PM
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Nowhere in your post do you mention the percentage of the male population that commits violent crime. So I'll ask again if you know what that percent is?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:30 PM
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Do you not know the answer? The percentage of the male population committing violent crime?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:22 PM
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OP, what percent of men commit violent crime?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:22 AM
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Men are more likely to be victims precisely because they haven't been raised to view their safety as their personal responsibility. Women really are the best victim blamers. I'm hypervigilant every time I leave my house and walk my dog. I carry weapons, and I'm constantly observing my surroundings and mapping potential exits. This mindset increases 5X if my wife and child are with me. Most men I know are exactly the same. The women pushing strollers and walking little dogs in my neighborhood? No…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:27 PM
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personal safety Men are way more likely to be victims of violent crime. career, finances It's illegal for companies to discriminate against women, and women are 60% of college graduates. Female only career events/scholarships. Wage gap doesn't exist for the same jobs. advantages in dating or sex At least you agree you have these! Edit: You'd also be increasing your chances of homelessness, suicide and dying at work! But hey, at least doctors will be nicer to you or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 10:30 PM
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A man is allowed to change his mind about you at any point in the dating process. Doesn't mean he didn't have your consent. Scary thing to imply.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:46 AM
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A lot of women do not respond well to criticism or conversations about their own bad behavior. A man can bring emotional intelligence into the conversation and be met with drama or danger. (Men learn this quickly.) If the behavior is a dealbreaker, sometimes it's better to just end things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 11:47 PM
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Based on your above comment, doesn't sound like you're a very good judge of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 10:58 PM
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Or he learned something shitty about your personality. Women are good at acting normal the first couple weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 10:57 PM
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Lol you can always wait until marriage if you're that fragile.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 10:40 PM
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Until they have sex and then suddenly just disappear or change it up. Hiding their actual intentions because feelings develop and time was invested. A lot of women never seem to consider they just might be terrible in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 10:37 PM
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Glad to hear you are enforcing your boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:11 PM
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You need to walk when they don't listen. No exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:55 PM
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Why don't you just tell them when you match that you don't get physical until commitment?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:33 PM
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No one's asking you to organize anything. Just stop dismissing the issue outright.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:16 PM
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I'm not threatening anything. I'm just following the political climate to its logical conclusion here. You're the one in here dismissing men's issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:11 PM
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Well, all that lobbying and organizing seems to be working great for you on abortion. Guess you don't need men's help. So you can keep dismissing their problems and not worry about young men voting more and more conservative. That all sould work out pretty good for women down the road.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:06 PM
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Not your approval, just your help. I don't understand why women are so disgusted by the idea of men needing help? And I guess as a man, I shouldn't care or support your bodily autonomy issues? Because you don't care about my bodily autonomy. Sounds like a path to a great society here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:56 PM
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When men bring it up, women dismiss it by saying it's not that bad/there hasn't been a draft in 50 years...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:49 PM
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To get our drivers license, as young boys we have to sign a paper that says the government can forcefully march us to our death and use our bodies as bullet sponges. Regardless of how long it's been since the last draft, you don't see how that might spike a curiosity in men for war...?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:58 PM
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In order to get your drivers license as a young woman, the government makes you sign a contract that states, "in a time of urgent population decline, you will be forced to bear children for your country" Would it matter to you that there hasn't been a population crisis in a long time? Or would you be outraged?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:51 PM
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Maybe because we are forcefully conscripted in it? 🤷🏼‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 12:11 AM
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Any power imbalance that benefits women is totally fine, nothing to see here. But any power imbalance that benefits men must be called out and dismantled.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 05:48 PM
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Almost every dude I know is in a committed relationship or actively looking for one. Can't say I've met a "perma bachelor." Maybe you read too much Reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 08:36 PM
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Easier to believe in silly theories than to check one's own ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 03:09 PM
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"he's just mentally closed off" You really wanna believe this, and it helps assuage your ego. But lying to yourself is only hurting you in the long run and making you more likely to repeat the same mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 02:12 PM
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There are men who cheat on every woman they ever date, is that women’s fault too? No. Cheating and not committing are not the same thing. I agree there are reasons other than physical attractiveness that a guy will not commit (he doesn't see you as girlfriend material because of your past or how you live your life, etc) but to say he's blanket "not commitment ready" -- or it's just a "phase" of his life -- is a cope to make yourself feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 12:45 PM
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he has to be commitment minded in the first place otherwise he will just try to use her for sex despite her being attractive Saying he's not "commitment minded" is just a cope for him not being that into you. Just because a guy will use you for sex doesn't mean you're at his level of attractiveness. He's just not commitment minded for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 04:21 AM
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But still, in the event of a worst case scenario where I do happen to encounter a bear/strange man. I think I have a slightly higher chance of scaring the bear away by making a lot of noise. But in the worst case scenario, you at least have a fighting chance against a man. A man is at most 40% stronger than you. You can do real dmanage. A bear is like 5 to 7x your strength. There's nothing you can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:04 PM
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Can you stop trauma dumping all over this thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 11:58 PM
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For starters, when a guy tells you he doesn't want to be in a relationship with you, actually listen to that and believe what he says. That alone would solve like 60% of womens' posts on the dating advice sub, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 06:55 PM
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Open your ears for a start, practice active listening, and you'll be way ahead of most other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 06:26 PM
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For a shocking amount of women, any vetting at all would be good. I've had plenty of female friends who were told by the dude himself he didn't want a relationship with them. But they still pressed on anyways and got hurt. A lot of women out there are not even doing the bare minimum (taking a dude at his own words). Let alone doing any serious vetting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:21 PM
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You ask her (eventually). Sure, she could just lie, but it's pretty easy to tell. Also, if a woman is lying that early in a relationship, you're going to have much bigger problems anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:12 PM
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Assuming "body count" isn't a double-standard, it's going to reflect some pretty deeply-held beliefs and attitudes about sexuality and fidelity. It's also going to call into question whether a person is capable of/ready for commitment. No, it's not. Some people just find a high body count gross, and it's not that deep. "Not accepting you're wrong" is just a loaded way of saying that the communication is poor and that there are a lot of defensive barriers standing in the way of intimacy. With "DN…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:21 PM
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If a woman is dishonest that early in a relationship, dude is already in for way bigger problems anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:54 PM
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Trust. You have to take their word for it and hope they're not building a new relationship based on lies. But if they are lying, the truth has a way of rearing its head.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:46 PM
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Individual preference. You ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:42 PM
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Had an ex-girlfriend who was like that. She couldn't stand me being out with other people or enjoying my hobbies without her. I will never date an insecure person without their own hobbies again.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 01:27 AM
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It's super fucked up that people do that. Seems like it's one of the only times people on Reddit think it's ok to judge people based on their skin color.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 02:22 AM
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So why would we have such outdated laws when woman make up nearly 50% of the workforce now?
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