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The same thing could be said about women in non-sexual situations. They dont seem to know how to show empathy, decency, and civil towards men without it turning into blaming them for all of the world’s problems or relationship problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 12:09 PM
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I certainly wouldn't. It would be a waste of time. At the year point is when the serious talks of marriage should start, at least in terms of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 07:12 PM
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Nah, men understand it much more. Women do all that with the intent of scoring rich men to get access to their resources, while telling men that they should examine the value they bring for their own financial benefit. The women can dye their hair and cover it all up in makeup, but it doesn't change that. Women think that they should be able to just show up because they feel entitled to someone else's resources. A supermodel is someone actually on their level who has their own money and prestige…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 02:49 AM
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Nah, men understand it much more. Women do all that with the intent of scoring rich men to get access to their resources, while telling men that they should examine the value they bring for their own financial benefit. The women can dye their hair and cover it all up in makeup, but it doesn't change that. Women think that they should be able to just show up because they feel entitled to someone else's resources. A supermodel is someone actually on their level who has their own money and prestige…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 02:42 AM
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That's good that men are starting to not listen to what they're told to do. While I don't want them joining manosphere groups, doing so is better than getting their accounts vacuumed and used for free food. No, guys don't just 'ignore facts and make shit up'. That's just some work of fiction by people in denial or desperate to hide the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 02:14 PM
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Some of them have. The rest continue to date bad men and then come running to the next guy to clean up the mess the first guy created. Men will complain about the value men offer and still pursue men, as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 06:38 PM
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Outside of this sub, they do tolerate awfulness for sex or money. Guys on Reddit don't spend the money, but unfortunately, too many of my fellow men do. The other part isn't a lie at all. It's very apparent in our society.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 06:21 PM
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This is old news. Guys are constantly being told that they're the ones that need to examine the value they bring to the relationship, with women saying that they should basically be able to just 'show up'. It's not about the actual value, it's about looks. Charlie Sheen had people looking away from the bad things he did because he was good looking. Personality matters a lot... if you're already hot. Other men shouldn't be worrying about the value that they bring, because the value they hold only…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 05:43 PM
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The thing is, you could easily mirror this in the opposite gender. The type of women who complain about men's value ignore the very value that drives them to keep pursuing the same despite their obvious resentment: sex and money. They are willing to tolerate someone they don't like for sex and money, and wish men felt the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 05:40 PM
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There are countless videos of women acting like men are their personal atms and second fathers that need to raise them. 'They have to have six figures and pay my bills to even talk to me.'. Sounds like they're opportunists, to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:28 AM
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Regardless of gender, nobody owes you sex. Someone might have grown out of doing things that they did with other people. At the same time, if you're promised that you'll get equal treatment, but then have to pay for and plan everything, and work a lot harder to get the same or similar result, you should leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:01 PM
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I mean... if they're not desirable to people in the US, and they're supposedly not desirable to people in the other countries, do they just give up? The way I look at it, if they get their money up, and work on themselves a bit, they shouldn't just give up. I think there are plenty of success stories for interracial relationships across countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 10:13 PM
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I think that's something that happens a lot in the US, as well. It's why '6 figures' is mentioned so much in interviews with women when they're asked what they want. They basically seem to want a second dad/parent instead of someone they desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 10:08 PM
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You replied to me. Reported.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 11:49 PM
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You're calling someone a troll while having less than 800 karma on a 2 month old account. You don't define anyone's worth., that's all just delusions in your imagination that you've convinced yourself is real. Again, follow your own example and start with yourself. Fuck off. Reported. You also replied to me. I'm aware that this sub is moderated, and that you also fall under the rules of the sub. 'I've been warned'? Is that a threat? Big talk before blocking. You're going to do exactly nothing. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 11:45 PM
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I don't care what you were talking about. I'm only an irrelevant nobody in whatever fictional narrative spun out of your delusional imagination. You don't get to define the value of others. If you want people to fuck off, lead by the example you demand from others and fuck off
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 11:20 PM
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I've seen the same in reverse
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:53 PM
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So... surveillance of homes of mass amounts of private citizens to reach that conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:49 PM
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Yes, I requested lunch/coffee meetup with recruiters and leadership. It got me to six figures and people remember me during large work events.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:22 PM
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It wasn't a rant, nor was it irrelevant. However, if it makes you reel better to think so, do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:22 PM
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If women are saying that they're not missing out on anything of value, then the guy is already making the correct choice by in no way being involved in them while himself becoming successful, continuing to save money, and invest into his own future and his stock portfolio. That way, he defines his own value instead of some stranger who doesn't know him. or only would be interested when he's at the finish line. Mmost women I've seen who say that a man has 'nothing of value' are usually the broke …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:26 PM
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My brother-in-law did that and makes around $300k now, and is an executive. I did the same for every defense contractor in the city and make $110k. I also got a call for a higher paying position while on a call this morning because I sent resumes out to every major business in the city. I see women in this thread talking about guys needing to have their lives together while knocking them for doing what it takes to have their lives together. Better to be applying everywhere and increasing the per…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:15 PM
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I think a lot of people would disagree on that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:13 PM
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It's because it's a celebrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 08:17 PM
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Correct. For example: I'd be like 'there's this ice cream place I've walked by for a year on the way to other things. Can we go?' No, my ex and I went. 'I really want to go to this concert'. Oh, well my ex and I went, so it would be weird. Then, they'd want to talk about it for hours, and I'd miss out on cool stuff and feel like I had to ask their ex permission to do anything fun. Keep in mind, 99% of what I was asking was everyday occurrences. Many of those relationships either didn't end in se…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:51 AM
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Before I got married, for reasons unknown, I attracted women who seemed to want a 'do-over guy'. They'd make all sorts of promises, and then the baggage would be revealed like layers of an onion. It was always 'we can't go to this concert because ex memories, or can't go to this place...'. Same story for anything even remotely related to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:04 AM
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I've run into #2 a few times. Not even kinks, but basic experiences, but sexual and no. I'm married now, but before that, I seemed to attract women with baggage and/or wanted a 'do-over guy' but wanted to essentially punish me by not doing anything they did with their exes. I would immediately break up with them, because I didn't want to be put into a situation where I was always going to be second to baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:02 AM
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Yeah, and if they're not obligation to have discussions with them, they're not obligated to stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:56 AM
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I'm aware of the actual definition. However, the common use is the false version of the definition, which sucks. It's not just used against men, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 01:29 PM
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When people say 'agreeable', they don't mean 'pleasant and cooperative'. When they want someone 'agreeable' they mean gullible and easily falls to suggestion. There's a reason why people with npd are known for using the word 'agreeable'.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 12:09 PM
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Being agreeable in general is terrible. Marching to the beat of someone else's drum sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 02:25 AM
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The same reason women will degrade men after they've used up.their resources and jumed to the next guy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:07 PM
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Do separate tabs/checks... and then find the TikTok video about it the next morning
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 02:29 PM
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Also, free shopping sprees, and to use them for ego kibbles/attention and being an emotional sponge
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 02:28 PM
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If you want to be married, it means meeting someone in the middle with compromise and putting in the work. Sometimes, there will be disagreements or difficulties. You weather them and move forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 11:06 PM
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When someone asks a question, a question mark follows the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:59 PM
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Sounds like projection. You wish that I was a bot. Ad hominem attacks, fictional storytelling and projection don't work here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:55 PM
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I was under the impression that I get to decide what my thoughts are. Do you do this often?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:51 PM
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This sub isn't your fucking diary dude That's a lecture implying that he should pander to yours. I already showed you your own words.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:48 PM
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Men critique each other in order to make each other better. Women lift each other up... until they're competing in corporate or competing against a small amount of men whose resources they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:47 PM
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I wouldn't need to at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:46 PM
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I mean... this is a tiny bit hypocritical This sub isn't your fucking diary dude - is he supposed to pander to yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:46 PM
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This is true and she blocked you for it. That's hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:42 PM
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I know a few ugly guys, and it's not just that they're decent. It's that they're decent, extremely talented, and people are also desperate for their resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:41 PM
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Yeah, what sucks is that it happens to men and women. It's like when men go to out on dates and can see the desperation to secure their bank accounts, a free meal, or an emotional sponge orbiter. Being unattractive might make you undesirable to certain men but, for most, it’s a creepy, desperate, greedy, entitlement personality that is the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:39 PM
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Yeah, the 'haha you're fat' is the male equivalent of the lines from the playbook
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:37 PM
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It's weird in general to vent to women. Always vent to the other men in your life, because they'll lift you up. Venting to a woman is just a way to have it weaponized against you later. I also think that women shouldn't be going to men to vent, because men also shouldn't be responsible for being an emotional sponge.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:34 PM
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I'm curious as to whether he's actually ugly, or... he just has taste in a specific type of woman who tells him that he's ugly in order to convince him that he's beneath her for her own ego. I wouldn't say they're a sourpuss. That just sounds like name-calling, and doesn't make you sound much better. Maybe work on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:33 PM
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This thread just makes it seem like these behaviors and social occurrences are all done by men. Women do it just as much and sometimes even worse, especially to other women. Yet another ‘men bad,amirite?’ thread
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 11:34 AM
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Which is the same thing that women do. Some people are just terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 05:15 PM
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Nah, if you're into dick measuring contests, have at it. I was explaining a logical conclusion. If you don't like that conclusion, that's on you. They hit us first, and we hit back. That's on them. If you want to side with them on that, go for it. If you've got a thing for sucking off the government tit, have at it. I'm a contractor, so I indirectly work with them. However, you could technically say that since you use things that the government provides, that you also do what you blame me for do…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:33 AM
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Incorrect, the Fed also has played their role, and that's uncontestable fact. While your points are mostly correct, in terms of the economy and suffereing, the Fed has a major part in it, and are independent of the president.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 04:57 AM
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Correct. One of the most important things that you can pass along to young men is that men are in love, women are in business.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 02:50 AM
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It sounds like whatever fictional version of me you created took it personally, and then it was projected on The Fed takes a big part of the blame, not just the administration. I don't vote because Im not running yet. You can call it how you see it... as can I. As a defense contractor/analyst/veteran, pretending like this wasn't coming after Iran attacked us on the way through the Strair before imakes no sense. This was just a can getting kicked down the road, and the last three admins are to bl…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 06:05 PM
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Maybe for.prostitutes, but not for relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 05:58 PM
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I make six figures, and the dollar is being devalued and abandoned by many countries. The dollar doesn't go far much of anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:32 PM
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Or, what if those women treat me better because I treat them with kindness instead of buying into that lie that 'all women overseas are poor, helpless, and u educated'
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:18 PM
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Nah, just calling out the double standard. If you are into whataboutism, do you. It isn't ok for either. However, I believe in being allowed to bring up the double standard. If that bothers you, I am more than ok with that. I don't disagree with the second paragraph and already made that clear with my comment about power inbalances. However, it doesn't make the racist dog whistle of western women basically calling all women overseas poor and uneducated in order to also shame men into staying tra…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:09 PM
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Also, the OF and Tiktok influencer way!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:07 PM
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Breaking news! More at 11
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:06 PM
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That's not true. Environment plays a huge part in human growth
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:05 PM
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I don't see where the problem is. I married a woman from overseas and have been married for over a decade. The thinking that foreign women are better than hometown women tends to be true. From what Ive encountered in my travel to 19 countries, women overseas have been much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:04 PM
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As someone who married a person from overseas, I disagree. The standards are higher overseas. Essentially, it sounds like you're basically callimg the women overseas 'easier'. I pile that in with the western women who spread the lies about women overseas all being poor and uneducated, which is really just a racist dogwhistle. Most of the time, whenever I hear that 'women overseas are easier/have lower standards' it tends to be from townies without a passport
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 01:59 PM
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YouTubers say that for clicks
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 01:55 PM
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The thing is, the people having issue with 'passport bros' demeaning and disparaging women in their home countries won't have an issue with those same women doing the same demeaning and disparaging. Tbey get a special pass for it. While the money/power dynamic exists in the US as well. I am again St such things, whether the woman or man is in the better position. However, the assumption about women overseas that western women preach while trying to publicly shape men is I herently racist and wro…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 01:53 PM
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I disagree. With no libido, men would be busy with self-improvement and improving infrastructure. Not only that, but with no libido, men wouldn't likely fall for shing tactics meant to break men down and keep them under control, and OF would collapse
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 05:01 PM
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Not only that, but if they hate men, they shouldn't be allowed to use the infrastructure built by us. If we are bad, so are the buildings, the utilities, maintenance, airlines, internet, and everything else
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 03:26 PM
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Women still have to improve. Some are so desperately ruled by their greed they make it too easy. Their goals may be different, but if they are demanding specific changes, they should be able to live up to those same changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 03:24 PM
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This makes sense. Even as someone married for a while, I can't imagine dating in the last ten years. In six months, men can be targeted in their moments of weakness and lose everything that they were going to leave to their kids. People on Reddit try to participate in a massive cover up of the Urumova case, where a woman was given total power to remove multiple Constitutional Rights from him. Men are told to essentially become robotically stoic sociopaths who can only have emotions when they're …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 03:18 PM
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If men did that and started going childfree and women stopped relying on male bank accounts and the infrastructure and internet we built, things would be even
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 03:10 PM
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In terms of sex and/or pregnancy, yes. In terms of relationships, not so much. Yeah, men need to start getting educated from a young age that self-respect means finding ways to not give in to their baser instincts and they have more value than what is in their bank account. In terms everything else, women need men to build and maintain the infrastructure of society. Instead of a pledge of allegiance, boys need to be reminded that men are in love and women are in business, and the only way to cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 03:04 PM
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A guy should improve because he wants to, not because someone demands it of him. There is also no guarantee that the person demanding his improvement is actually improving themselves, and is just expecting more than they deserve
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 03:01 PM
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Under this logic, if you take interviews with women from a garbage podcast like Whatever, you could say that women don't ever want relationships, that men are in love, while women are in business. I've never given a crap about sample sizes of people on social media saying stupid stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 01:35 PM
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The problem with most of these studies is that: 1) impressionable people don't actually read the studies and just skim for parts that they think support their biases 2) people don't question the data models and/or examine who is doing the peer reviews 3) People don't consider the fact that they are based not on entire population, but a sample size. If you interview 10 people, and 5 people agree with an idea, that is 50%... of 10 people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 01:31 PM
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Nothing at all. He has a right to be friends with women. Unless people here subscribe to double standards, then he doesn't owe his women friends sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 09:09 PM
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Slut shaming is common. They call it 'being a fuckboy'. Men do deal with dangerous partners. However, we don't have our own domestic violence shelters, and the women are given light sentences, even when they commit horrific crimes. Giving birth is a choice (subtracting, of course, the children of rape/incest, and any combinations thereof). Anyone over 18 can legally date anyone over 18. That's a thing. Men don't just have to be fairly attractive, they need to make at least 100k (237k if you're A…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 07:41 PM
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I'm not really concerned about you think about what I think, though. If you wanna make up a fan fiction about projecting thoughts onto me, and spend your time and energy laughing while I make money, do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 07:24 PM
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Technically, you were being self-congratulatory while attempting to do so. If you wanna laugh at me, do so. I'll forget about you by tomorrow and continue to laugh all the way to the bank.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 07:20 PM
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Not at all, but if that's what you want to believe, you're certainly free to do so. Also, I was taught that only a specific type of person tries to laugh at their own stuff, especially when attempting to fulfill their own confirmation bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 07:16 PM
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I'm not Professor X or Jean Grey. I have no way to tell if you're bitter. You're going to have to figure that out for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 05:58 PM
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You can take time to get to know him, but if you're unsure after a month, you're not going to be sure at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 03:09 PM
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She does all that... with men she doesn't find attractive. If a woman finds a man attractive, she's going to do everything she can to get what she wants, which is the status, resources, sex, and visibility of being seen with the one she finds attractive. For the backup/orbiter/at-bat, she's gonna give the 'emotional connection' lecture while keeping him around for resources before she jumps to the guy she finds attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 01:57 PM
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If we're committing to stereotypes, women want a 6'5 millionaire already at the finish line to marry, divorce, and drain of his resources while still claiming that 'no good men exist'
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 01:55 PM
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Stereotypes also say that men are supposed to be unfeeling sociopaths who are protectors and provide resources in order to buy the love of women who would treat them like garbage if they didn't pay their way in.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 01:53 PM
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Agreed. After a bit, if she's still unsure, she shouldn't be dating, and should wait until she is sure, so that the guy doesn't have to put things on pause. People like to pretend that time is infinite, and it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 01:51 PM
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Women often do it for free food, free events, free shopping trips, free travel, to have someone at their beck and call to fix problems in their lives, to be an emotional tampon who sits and listens without her having to care about his feelings, etc. It makes sense if you live in the US and have learned the entire playbook. They also use guys for money for themselves, or to use to cover dates and keep around guys they do like who want the free ride in order to stick around.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 01:50 PM
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Correct. If a woman likes a man, she won't make him wait. She will be reaching out to him to see him, and then start pushing for third base. If a woman keeps you around and has you paying for dates and/or other stuff and you've been dating for months, you're an ATM that is helping her to save up for dates with the guy she really likes and wants to sleep with. Nobody is owed sex. Nobody is owed being put in the friendzone, turned into an orbiter/backup/at-bat guy/ATM guy paying for your dates wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 01:46 PM
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Simple: Women only complain about boys/men when they can't weaponize or monetize them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 02:09 PM
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Part of being a consultant is having a strong knowledge base of the industry as a whole, not just knowledge found inside of an office. So, in short... yes. Yes, a career carpenter can apply his knowledge. I didn't have experience in a white collar job, and neither did my friends. You don't get hired based on white collar experience, you get hired on your knowledge base in a competitive market, especially. There's a reason why most of the senior roles are going to well-rounded senior people who h…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:59 PM
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Considering that trades are super competitive, IT infrastructure is super saturated, data is super saturated, lots of men are in the medical field, and defense contractors are keeping our fighting force strong, I'd say a lot. You can use an outdated emoji, but it screams uninformed confirmation bias. PPD men are part of the workforce, regardless of whatever work of fiction you might have been told.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:52 PM
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Sounds like it gives them some incentive to change their conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:00 PM
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Society, at least, in the US, doesn't promote bonding. It's usually about men fulfilling the very long list of expectations that they're given. It's very transactional. Transaction always seems to come first. RP doesn't fall in the face of your hypothesis.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:59 PM
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If you are a career carpenter, you can shift to a consultant, ops manager, and many other white collar jobs. People assume the jobs don't exist because they're not aware of how to use their current skills to pivot into an adjacent role where the knowledge is available. I went from working logistics in a hangar bay in a warzone to sitting in front of a computer providing knowledge when they ask for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:57 PM
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I disagree with this statement. There are a ton of people in logistics/supply chain management that qualify for white collar/office jobs. They choose the more dangerous jobs because without those, supply chain doesn't happen, and they're invested in the greater good. There's work in IT that is considered white collar, but has to go out into the middle of dangerous areas to make sure that equipment is moving, or that it's running, etc. I'm assuming that the 20% number only includes partial data f…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:55 PM
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I read it, as well, and there is nothing relative to that in the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:47 PM
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Men also do a lot of necessary, invisible work simply because someone had to do it. Look at most of the worst cybersecurity stuff that came up, or in corporate work, where a massive amount of men die either at work, or from the lasting effects of having to work to be a provider. If the mothers were doing the majority of the work and taking leave regardless of conditions, that means that they didn't care about the conditions of their marriage and/or the conditions that they choose to raise their …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:37 PM
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I usually see the reverse in terms of any issues related to men. It's usually the same theme unless the op is a woman posting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:31 PM
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I think it's moreso likely that wherever you live has some societal differences. Most women aren't going to cover a man's wedding ring. He'd be shamed and called an abuser if he didn't buy his own ring. It sounds like 50/50 marriages are insanely common where you live, and not necessarily where other people live.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:29 PM
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This is the first I've heard of a woman offering to buy the man a ring, paying for half the dates, or contributing to the honeymoon fund. It sounds like wherever you live is different and should start teaching other places to be like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:28 PM
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I'm married. While I want to see people in successful relationships, people seem to get upset when I bring up that dating apps are basically just people farms, except that the people are just pieces of data that are farmed. I am happy to see them go under one at a time so that people are compelled to speak to one another irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:26 PM
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Which country is that? It definitely can't be the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:25 PM
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I definitely do. I also recognize men risking their lives to build the world that they are brought into.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:24 PM
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I think you are onto something. If that can be sped up, and humans worldwide are no longer allowed to have kids, it can solve the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 01:39 PM
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I would be ok with that. Figuring out a way to make everyone unable to have kids worldwide is the overall first step to reach the overall goal If we can accomplish that, we can finally solve the bigger problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 09:04 PM
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That would be a very good start. Either that, or find a way to teach it in school and in public. If we can find a way to accomplish that, we might be able to achieve the bigger goal. Looking at birth rates worldwide, it might actually be achieveable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 09:00 PM
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It isn't something I just discovered. Women are contributing to the greater good. I just need the government to do the right thing and make it illegal for people to have kids, and for anyone caught to be put up on charges
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 05:55 PM
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The only real.solution is for Congress to finally pass a law to make it illegal to get pregnant so that we can finally solve the greater issue
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 05:53 PM
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If it is that big of an issue that they only see as a job, then they have the choice not to have a child, completely solving the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 05:48 PM
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The difference is that giving birth, at least most of the time, is a choice. Stores sell contraception that can potentially prevent pregnancy. Abortion is still a thing in many major locations. If the person sees it just as a job, they can get another job, or adopt. The dangerous jobs that men do are to remain employed in the current economic climate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 05:43 PM
0

I remember working with women who said that they wanted equality while demanding that I lift all of the heavy things at the job.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 05:42 PM
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Not only homophobia, but racism, virgin shaming, and emotion shaming. What is even worse is that orbiters on Reddit will do mental gymnastics and jump through any hoops they can and say that they are perfect, infallible, helpless creatures, and anything bad they do must be the fault of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 02:01 PM
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Nah, your words, two comments ago, saying as such. I just repeated your words back to you to see how you'd react. That was your idea. Don't try to pin your words on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 01:38 AM
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If you think that women must be blamed for everything, remember, that came from you. If male victimhood is your thing, no need to project it onto me. Fathers can make mistakes, but so can mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 12:01 AM
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Personality is the last portion, though. Looks, status, wealth, job, network, then personality because gender roles are still required for men who achieve all that to raise the status of others who showed up at the finish line
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 10:03 PM
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Many fathers raise their children based on how they think it will keep the mother happy, and raise the kids at her behest. So in a way... yes, the boys are at the mercy of the mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 10:01 PM
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Yeah, but that's likely after they've climbed the looks, job, car, and money barriers. Even after that, we still have to see what the woman's real personality and looks are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 10:00 PM
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Ask permission? Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 04:18 PM
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Then it's basically just a one-sided meetup
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 01:51 AM
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Men already did. Modern medicine, modern infrastructure, the internet, cars, etc. Women contributed to many industries, but most of the world was built by men who are told to make it better, which we already did. Men contribute, are told that it's still not enough, and watch the porn women who see them as undesirable make for money, and play video games to zone out after building the world to make it better.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 07:42 PM
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Same could be said for women doing it to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 07:38 PM
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Sounds like they should divorce and he should find someone that is attracted to him. They would both be much better off. Sounds like she really just wanted a roommate that was legally bound to stay unless he divorced
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 01:46 PM
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The goal of a lot of the women here are to do the same
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 01:42 PM
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If someone commits fraud, why worry about it? lmaooooo op is wromg
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 08:57 PM
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Correct, and women don't get to decide that they are a good partner for the person they see as a good partner. As a guy, being alone is much less expensive. The men that get settled for likely bemoan it because they got conned
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 10:20 PM
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I am aware of what reading is. Not giving a duck certainly comes off to me as chill and unbothered to the ad hominem attacks and demands for conformity I see on Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 06:27 PM
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Men buy each other gifts, they just don't require praise or recognition for it. Plenty of women also don't step up to the plate if it's not in their circle of friends. A lot of people areflakes and bad friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 06:24 PM
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Why do you get to decide if someone else is mad and then project it onto them?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 06:19 PM
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I've also seen that in the opposite. Men listen to what is going on, offer a solution, then get yeed at for offering the solution which will solve the entire problem because they didn't 'just listen'. It is also easier to not fight, or figure out a plan for the man's solution to become his wife's idea so that something can get done. There are some men out there that can't handle criticism. However, a big problem that men encounter a simar issue, where men talk about stuff, then have to listen ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 06:16 PM
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Guys for that too, though. It is just showing up for people
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 06:08 PM
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She was appreciating the things he paid for, not the things he did or who he was. At no point did she talk about what he did for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:20 PM
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Correct. Most guys, regardless of their sexuality, seem to get the concept of: 'Women have guy friends for support, men have guy friends to get a break from being support'.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 02:56 PM
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It's 'my body, my choice', until they're shaming you for not sleeping around with tons of people. It then becomes an 'ick' because you'd rather do things in your own time and they can't control it. I waited till after 20 after being shamed by women, and I don't regret not giving them control of my ability to choose when.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 02:56 PM
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While they are a small percentage of claims, they still have a massive effect on how men are treated after accused. I don't think it's because of that. It's moreso because of many recent cases, such as the Urumova case, where women were given complete control over another person and allowed to turn off their Consitutional Rights on a whim. For those who aren't familiar, a male driver pulled his semi over to use the bathroom and get something from a convenience store. She had seen the guy from ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 02:47 PM
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I think that's changed recently. Men also just don't report it because women don't just cause pain, they break entire lives and destroy reputations. Point 2 is correct. There's recently been a massive uptick in women teachers who SA young male students. They have to worry about it, but it's usually while they're in school. The Urumova case, among with many like it, shows that we have a lot more to worry about when a woman can just remove a man's rights under the Constitution on a whim. It's also…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 02:37 PM
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Women are into men. They're into the .00001% oof the 1%.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 02:34 PM
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I would probably pick the gay guy for purposes of peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 02:33 PM
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Yeah, women love when they can emotionally dump on you and have you be there to shoulder all of their trauma, but don't see you as human or man enough to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 02:28 PM
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I don't think it's the bottom 10%. I think it's more like anything below 90%.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 04:31 PM
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That would be 1% of 1%, meaning that women would essentially be sharing the same 1% of the 1%, and that's if those men are even interested in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 04:26 PM
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Incorrect. Slaves were definitely not happy not having to think or make decisions. However, people now want to not think or make decisions, and to put it in control of billionaires. That's what they want. As someone who lost everything twice, then climbed out of it, I absolutely disagree. People beg for hierarchy and regularly sell out their own middle-class people for a high five from the rich, or from their manager at work, the same one who will also later be led out with a box. People even su…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 10:08 PM
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No, I'm grasping it just fine. However, those things being attractive will be used against them. If men were told that emotions were only ok in certain circumstances, the people benefitting from it would be super upset. Men are emotionally available and intelligent, but they're smart enough to keep their emotions within their frend groups and don't bring it home unless they're married. The general public wants them to express emotions in unhealthy ways, otherwise they wouldn't get paid and would…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 09:25 PM
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If sons were told that they were allowed to feel, that would greatly inconvenience women. Men are only told that it's ok to feel when it is for the benefit of those around them, or to remain stoic. People complain about narcissists/psychopaths/sociopaths while creating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 09:14 PM
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That wouldn't work at all. You already mentioned it a bit, but the more I think about it: The land they'd be running the bank on would be paved by men, the foundation for the building laid by men, the building built by men, the security system and vault built by men, and the network and internet access would be provided by men. The money the bank would be lending would likely come from mostly men until they establish both a clientele and financial backing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 09:12 PM
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People want poverty, though. That sounds horrible, but here's why: social media is a reflection into humans and their need for attention and to be better than others. If we solved poverty, people would be super upset about it, because it would be something that could put people on the path toward near-equal footing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 09:03 PM
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It is moreso that people who haven't and will never buy or play the games try to force conformity by demanding that an IP they have no interest in be completely altered to fit their agenda
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 03:20 PM
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Yeah, women literally get asked out on people farms like Tinder twice a second
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 02:56 PM
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It looks interesting. I don't like abuse of the criminal system. However, they should do a follow up that shows the fallout from both the women in the one you recommended that were innocent, and one that shows the fallout from the ones that lie
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 02:13 PM
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Dude, the Urumova case proved that womenitwrally have control over the pice andcan deprive men of Constitutional rights with no due process. If I remember correctly, many women who report SA do it to cover up cheating or out of retaliation, or on a whim. The Rollinf Stone story, as well as many other false reporting stories targeting entire frats backs this up
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 12:46 PM
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I think it moreso shows that you're attempting to project Eliot onto users on Reddit, which is... bizarre. It seems like a bad faith argument meant to shut down conversation by comparing op to some loony toon.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 11:56 PM
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Wouldn't point number one require data that backs up the fact that they're single? Who is 'we'? Are you not an individual? Why would someone who is a stranger to someone get to define what another stranger wants to do? Eliot Rodger was a nutjob and shouldn't be taken as the bar for things when he's an outlier among multiple lines of rich, successful people that have existed in history. Correct, some people can't be helped. However, comparing op to some absolute mass murderer is an obvious bad fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 11:55 PM
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This is proven by the women on Reddit who spew that 'them being out of the dating pool is a win for us' as I'd they're all models or South Korean girl group members.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 08:16 PM
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Women have an endless army of online men and irl men that give them non-stop compliments.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:41 PM
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I disagree. I think they're saying that they became what those people wanted, and then realized that those people had nothing to offer him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 04:13 AM
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The other thing is... if you become the person they want, and then it turns out that after fulfilling their demands, they have nothing to offer, it was a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 04:12 AM
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If she continually rejects guys and they don't all know it, that's not on them. They absolutely have a right to feel however they want to about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 06:42 PM
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I wouldn't so much say 'fake tough guy'. He was a fighter, and wasn't that bad at that. I don't like him, but I'll give him that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 01:42 AM
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Not at all. Were you just trying to show how right you are? Because if so, you did a poor job. Bravo. Not even a 101-level class.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 03:55 PM
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It's also rampant among women. Take a look at posts on Reddit as a whole. How many proclaim personal accountability and agency vs. Women have problems, and men are to blame for them? Womens' responsibility seems like a lost idea. Women blaming others for their problems happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 03:25 PM
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Same can be said for most women. It's a human problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 02:20 PM
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The 'just be yourself' is fake advice given by women. The real advice is: 'Just be yourself... if yourself doesn't suck, is rich, and will give a woman everything that she demands'.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 02:19 PM
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Sex workers on OF seem to hate the people paying for their stuff as well. It's a mess all around.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 02:01 PM
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After the Urumova case, it's dangerous for men to even walk on the street anymore. It proved that women can literally make up a story and have a man jailed for 30 days without any Constitutional rights. Why would men approach after learning that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 01:36 PM
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Yeah, can't turn a hoe into a housewife. During my younger, much more stupid days, I learned that the hard way. I got lucky to marry a builder.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 03:10 PM
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Not only do they not want thots/single moms/highschool graduates/sex workers, but they'd be actively sabotaging their own lifestyle by getting involved with them. My best friend is a millionaire who married a non-millionaire, but she ran her own business and was able to be successful without help. That was the only reason his other friends and family accepted her.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 03:07 PM
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It's hard to word this correctly, but I'll take a shot at it. With single parents, their number one priority is their kids. The second is themselves, then their job. By the time someone else tries to get involved in their life, they're already starting so low on the ladder that they're setting themselves up for a miserable life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 03:05 PM
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The only true advice for men seems to be: Be hot and have money and resources to be drained before the hypergamy begins OR be a doormat and have money and resources to be drained before the hypergamy begins
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:48 PM
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Of course. Women will deny it, but they have access to easily replace men using the people farms that have date-on-demand. The only way to fix it is for men to stop with the apps and work on themselves, and stop acting desperate on apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:38 PM
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I think the easiest way to do that is to not have a friendship under false pretenses and to also be prepared to walk away
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 05:24 PM
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Not at all. There are billions of people in the world. You can believe what ever you want. I am just saying that if you try to go the friend route while analyzing his worth, you will likely miss out on him because he knows that you aren't the only one. Fuck you guys are special sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 05:21 PM
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That is fine if you have no intentions of dating them. People that find them attractive will take them off your hands so you don't need to worry
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 05:17 PM
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By the time you've done that, someone else will realize his worth and scoop him up
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 05:17 PM
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This is very well put.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 05:15 PM
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I disagree. Women often like to share men that are not only attractive, but will also be at the finish line.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 02:54 PM
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Correct. However, that is not most men. For the others that do approach, they often shame them or falsely accuse them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 02:53 PM
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*When it's convenient
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 10:11 PM
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That includes that massive uptick in women teacher rapists who rape kids as of late.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 01:55 AM
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Filming someone and putting it up on social media falls under revenge porn laws in the U.S., does it not? Is that only something women get to use?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 01:55 AM
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They tend to get lighter sentences for the same crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 01:54 AM
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I believe over 60% are violent offenders, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 01:53 AM
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That likely wouldn't work in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 01:52 AM
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Likely by going overseas or dating in jurisdiction where women like Urumova can't deny people their Constitutional rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:07 PM
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I got married before the Urumova case. It's too dangerous for men to approach women now.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 02:56 PM
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Correct. It's a trick to put the same men that aren't the one percent being passed around by the same women into an infinite loop of shame zone. The only way to win is to realize that other men have been passing down the playbook that exposes all of the things they're telling you as lies and a setup. I've been happily married since realizing that I need to listen to my own gut and not the playbook that's thrown at me by other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 02:50 PM
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Where did that version come from? Didn't the police say that he was passed out?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 09:41 PM
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Unfortunately, the orbiters and white knights will hide it to protect women on here. The women on here will use the playbook: 'you're overreacting' 'you're being too sensitive' 'you're overthinking it' 'you're insecure' 'you're a misogynist' 'you're an incel' 'you're being childish' 'you're being ridiculous' 'you're misremembering' 'you're being dramatic'
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:32 AM
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I disagree. Women do it to each other, but when they have an audience, are in groups, are have the advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 01:12 AM
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The problem is, it creates people farms where they become just inventory numbers for women to access anytime they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:47 PM
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They don't have to. Why would they when they have literal thousands of men hitting them up every second on the people farms like Tinder? However, if your realized how much women will do to secure the bag with guys they don't even like, you'd never pursue a woman again.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:33 PM
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Yeah, many have irl orbiters/backup rosters/at bat bench guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 10:42 PM
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Most women have literal thousands of men a second, not a minute begging for dates on the people farms like Tinder. They don't experience rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 04:01 PM
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That's only if she won't miss the attention, free stuff, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 10:42 PM
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I don't agree. When women get friendzoned, they can log onto a people farm like Tinder and have their feelings validated and be given whatever they want at a moment's notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 10:41 PM
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Instagram is mostly a thirst trap now, and Tinder is a people farm. It's pretty horrifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 10:01 PM
2

Same could be said about misandrist rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 03:38 PM
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Yeah, I've even noticed the lengths that women will go to in order to shame men because they don't want men to have preferences. I hate passport bros. However, people seem to equate them with any other guy that goes overseas and gets married. Women want their preferences and want to vacuum the bank accounts and property of rich men while shaming any other men for not being stuck in relationships with their miserable friends. Women saying things like 'women overseas are uneducated'. That's been d…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 03:38 PM
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Like other people on this sub have said before: If you see how hard women try for men they like, you'll never chase a woman again.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 03:28 PM
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Here's the thing: let's reverse the genders and add the societal expectations: There’s also a toxic complaint circulating in some corners of the internet: the idea that men shouldn’t bother working unless the women are “rewarded” for dating them with luxury items and bank transfers. Let’s be clear, anyone's reward for work is money. The same way women get paid for their work. There is no covert clause that guarantees you a man's paycheck for holding down a relationship and him paying your bills.…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 06:16 PM
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I've been to 18 countries. Women in different geographic locations have the same, if not better because of societal differences and the value of traditional relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 11:24 PM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 11:22 PM
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I don't see myself as 'mid', but I used to lower my head to mistreatment and accepted being put into a lower place/made myself smaller to fit other egos. I stopped doing that recently and the results are amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 06:13 PM
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Not even attractive men being an abusive douche?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 06:03 PM
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I've been married for over a decade. The truth is simple: It's like /u/AggressiveRabbit1530 said in another thread. If you see how easy women make it for guys they truly desire, you will never chase a woman ever again. Like many others have said: For single guys, the juice ain't worth the squeeze. Nice guys don't even finish last, they don't finish at all. People hate to be told this, but you're either attractive, or you're forced to beg for something the attractive guy got easier. I know that w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 06:01 PM
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Why shooting yourself in the foot ? Like you are gonna punish a woman who likes you because of your insecurity and past traumas ? Like women punish guys by constantly talking about their ex, or negging him with 'a real man' or 'insert guy's name here does it this way'.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 05:54 PM
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Because of people farms like Tinder. The risk in marriage in the US is also massive for men when women have literal thousands of men contacting them every second online.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 09:46 PM
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I'm a guy and I agree. However, with the 'I get the ick' thing, I believe the count of icks from TikTok is now at 183, and includes 'men yawning at work', and 'men getting sprinkles on ice cream', so I no longer trust the idea of icks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:16 PM
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Same goes the other way around. Women who threaten not to marry men aren't as scary as they think. It's a lot cheaper by far for men to stay single. Just like women being single trumps everything a man can give her, it also trumps anything a woman could give him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:15 PM
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I'm ok with BC and women's right to vote. However, I view dating apps as what they are: people farms/databases.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 03:05 PM
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I agree with this. My parents had npd, my grandma had bpd, and my ex was a sociopath. I met a kid psycopath once, and what you're saying matches up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 06:38 PM
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Modeling in Asia, or in the US? It's hard to measure without knowing that. Also, are you saying that you are the only good looking person in your relationship? You've mentioned his hair, his height, and his job. Also, is it domestic M&A, or international?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 06:21 PM
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Why are you telling kids that they're spoiled princesses and you're sick of their crap?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 06:17 PM
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We'll have to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:46 PM
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I never said that using steroids is part of physical satisfaction and peace. I said that people pump iron for personal satisfaction and peace. You must have missed that part. I don't believe in shortcuts, especially steroids. If you somehow thought I did, that's very much a you thing. Good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:24 PM
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Because people keep wanting shortcuts. You do know that women also use steroids, right? Are they also in search of male validation? Some people are just lazy and want a shortcut.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:16 PM
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They've been working on that for decades
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:47 PM
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Bezos' ex-wife is super rich now due to her divorce, same as Melinda Gates.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 03:12 PM
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Nah, Beyonce would take him to the cleaners. Those adopted children came from a woman, usually one that chose to do that, and not really had to. There are obviously exceptions. Your points aren't really changing my mind at all. We're just at an impasse, and that's ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 02:57 PM
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That's not true, though. Many celebrities have divorced, and there's always a loser. Divorces can aim for equity, but they can get nasty and ugly. If one doesn't have a job, they are healthy and had the option to get a job, and that is a choice they made, as well. There needs to be more legal protections in place. If a woman doesn't want to give birth, she can adopt. There are plenty of children out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 02:46 PM
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The woman isn't required to have kids. Having kids is a choice, so she very much can choose not to go through those things. Fathers are seen as second-class citizens, while women get huge support systems. The only time his value increases due to ambition is when the woman is also ambitious and making money. Losing stuff in the divorce does count. I don't know who told you otherwise, but they misled you. Men have things they've worked hard to get, or things which have been passed down. It has not…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 01:00 PM
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A woman who offers companionship and love is a friend/roommate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:24 AM
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Many men don't pump iron for female validation. While some do, saying that most men do is a myth from people playing pass it down the lane. Many do it for personal satisfaction and peace. The rest just sounds like a random work of fiction, which is why it sounds bizarre.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:23 AM
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I've been married for a while. However, I was single for a while. I believe in what Keanu Reeves said about learning to be single and ok with yourself first. Women being targeted on the street has been increasing. However, there has been a massive increase in female teachers who SA their male students in the last few years, either reported, cases that are ongoing, convictions, etc. I'm all for the low birth rates globally. I think we should speed that up more. It's like Quark on Star Trek asked:…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:19 AM
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There are technically ways, but none that people would want to commit to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:13 AM
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It's sad to be personally and spiritually dependent on anyone's approval. We could solve the issue for boys at a young age, but it would take a lot of government approvals, school board approvals, and permission to make decisions on behalf of the parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:12 AM
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I've been married for years, and got lucky to find someone who desires me equally. However, I think in terms of the younger crowd, I think the good thing is that people can buy attention and validation without having to worry about the desire/apathy from people who just want them around in an uneven relationship. It's at least a good option to have for those single young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:06 AM
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This is why I think that boys should be taught at a young age to reign it back and focus on things like self-care, health, money, and building infrastructure. Teach them to be content on their own without needing that external locus of desire, and if and when it comes along, that's fine. If not, they'll have power and a pile of money, which can buy temporary desire without the one-sided game. I got lucky that my wife desires me as much, but like you implied, my situation is essentially 1/14,000,…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:04 AM
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Reading your comments as a passerby, I'm a bit concerned, honestly. Calling people npcs or not seeing them as human isn't the flex you might think it is. It comes off as pretty bad. I'm not saying the other person isn't wrong, because they are, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 04:52 AM
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I mean... there is a whole subreddit that refers to men as 'scrotes' and when men talk about bad things women do to them, they get the npd playbook 'you're overreacting' 'you're being too sensitive' 'you're overthinking it' 'you're insecure' 'you're a misogynist' 'you're an incel' 'you're being childish' 'you're being ridiculous' 'you're misremembering' 'you're being dramatic'
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 03:33 AM
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Also, look at the watch every now and then, scroll a bit, and an eye roll
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 02:24 AM
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Calling at 4am to ask you on a date, while then talking about their chances with other guys they like, or their exes. Asking me about my salary/savings/investments/large purchases on a first date. Talking about their ex too much and then saying that you must be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:45 AM
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I think people can also be comfortable with silence while enjoying the others' company. I had one girl say that asking her questions felt like an interview. Ever since, I don't ask questions, and let the silence hang comfortably while enjoying whatever we're doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:41 AM
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Agreed. The simple solution is to look disgusted to be there or bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:37 AM
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I've been married for a while. I thought the rule was never to contact a woman before 3-4 days, then to send a message reminding them of when you met, and saying 'it was nice meeting you, then texting a month later. That's what I used to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:34 AM
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This is absolutely correct. I also hope that people can reconcile that men can also sniff out undesirable traits in women, as well. My fellow men need to understand that they should be telling their male friends things, and not the women they're with, because the women will immediately go to their friends to weaponize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:32 AM
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There's a solution: Don't consider the future with someone, and move on to the next. Don't compliment them, because they shouldn't need external validation from their guy Don't do acts of service and let them serve themselves. Don't be useful at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:29 AM
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Lord Voldemort, or Lord Zedd now that he's resurrected?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:27 AM
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Been married 10 years. My wife cooks, but I don't expect it at all. I'm grown.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:27 AM
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If you're attractive, you don't have to be kind. I think they just say that as a performative measure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:18 AM
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Women appreciate kind men... as friends. Again, be hot and have money. That's all that matters. Personality means nothing unless you're outside of the US. Be nice to look at and have resources that can be used.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:17 AM
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I said it in another thread, that it's extremely simple: Be hot and have money/resources that women can use. That's all they care about. You could be a criminal, narcissist, sociopath, or other horrible thing. If you have good looks, money, and resources, that's all that matters. It's not your personality, because that doesn't matter unless you're not seen as being in those categories.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 06:35 PM
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Honestly, it's simple: Be hot and have money. How you act doesn't matter to women unless you're either not hot to them/don't have money. I've been married ten years. Women care about looks and the resources that you can provide, even if they are successful themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 06:33 PM
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There are women that do the same to their friends about their husbands and say that's normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:57 PM
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Or women whine about the plight of women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 05:11 PM
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There's a quote I came upon recently that I like: "Women seek friendships to get support. Men seek friendships to get a break from being support. The greatest gift men give each other is not having to do anything."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:50 PM
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It can be said the other way around, too. The difference is, men are publicly shamed for wanting to build a strong financial foundation while remaining alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:47 PM
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If there's someone outside losing it, or acting mentally off, I'd believe that there's something wrong with them. When I hear 'I could tell there was something wrong with him', I assume it's just more playbook quotes, and completely disregard it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:39 PM
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“Guys dont want sluts as girlfriends,” but also “if you ‘withold sex’, you clearly dont want him”. I think there's a massive difference between wanting your spouse to sleep with you and not wanting someone who sleeps with everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 08:41 PM
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If an old dude can pull hot women, then that's his 'league' according to the database, right? If he waits until he's got a money vault to start dating, that's fine. A dude can improve his looks and personality all he wants, but unless he's a celebrity, he's not gonna get by on that if he's broke in his 20's. I certainly don't like the idea of going to other countries to take advantage of people That sounds like a sugar daddy or parental type of relationship, but on a criminal level.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 08:37 PM
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So essentially, he shouldn't be employed and shouldn't be contributing to retirement money and investments? That sounds like shaming people for work hard and responsibly saving for the future. I don't see the value of being unemployed and having no plan for the future. I also certainly don't see how that makes someone an incel. If someone can set themselves up financially for the future while in their prime is absolutely fine. Those people complaining about it can see him as crusty, and he'll la…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 08:33 PM
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We'll have to disagree on all of that, which is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 05:56 PM
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'They can't speak English' 'They can't attend universities' 'They can't make decisions on who to date for themselves'. 'America has it better in every aspect compared to their culture'
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 05:35 PM
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My question is this: Where is the league database published, and who gets to set the rules for it? Why does one special interest group get to determine who is in someone's league? Sounds like far too much power to me. If someone is focusing only on their job for 30 years, I can't see why shaming someone for being employed for that long is incorrect or wrong. I don't see it as giving away his prime, so much as building a foundation for later in life. Honestly, if I saw someone job shaming, I'd as…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 05:33 PM
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I don't trust people that judge people based on their car. I agree that most people don't care. My best friend is rich. He owns two Porche 911s, is about to buy his third, but only drives his old, beat up Acura from like 1999. He thinks it's the greatest thing ever, and will drive it until it no longer functions. I'm one of a handful of people that knows he's rich. He wears flip flops, t-shirts, and is married with three kids. He's a cool guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 05:24 PM
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I think the same for those western women going to the DR, South Korea (koreaboos), Jamaica, and Africa. I always expect it to end the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 05:11 PM
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Does that count the female equivalent who go to the DR, South Korea, Jamaica, and Africa? In my book, it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 05:08 PM
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You're also a fucking creep if preying on economically successful men and boys makes you 'happy'.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 05:08 PM
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There are plenty of women in first world countries looking for successful men. However, successful men are usually already with successful women, and don't wanna mix with the middle class pick me type who don't understand fiscal responsibility and generational wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 05:07 PM
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I also hate the female equivalent in the DR, South Korea, Jamaica, and Africa.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 05:06 PM
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The economies of most countries are almost reliant on tourism. Many men from those countries come to the U.S. as well. Do they consider us when they come here and thirst after our women because they can't pull their own at home, over-saturating our market? The real answer to this question is something that I'm shocked to have to say: people aren't property. If people want to date other people, that's their choice. Men or women thinking that they have a claim over the love lives of other people i…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 05:04 PM
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I've seen people say this. However, after seeing 19 countries, I'm going to have to disagree that we have a better quality of life. I also make great money and am saying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 05:01 PM
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You can in the US. There are ways to retain the green card after divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 05:00 PM
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Another thing is this: There are countless videos on YouTube and TikTok of American women from the U.S. saying that Asian women can't speak English, and can't get a degree. If you ask these same women if they've actually ever been to Asia, they always say 'no'. Let's get something straight, I hate sexpats. White women are known for going to Jamaica, Dominican Republic, Mexico, South Korea, Africa, and plenty of other places to be sexpats, while hating on sexpats. If dudes wanna go overseas inste…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 04:59 PM
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I don't like Elon at all. However, if he's convincing that many people to invest that much money into what he's doing, he's obviously got some sort of social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 09:54 PM
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I've been married for just under a decade. You doing what you were doing is basically just being an emotional tampon. Sounds like you dodged a major nuclear strike.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 09:46 PM
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White women are known for doing that in Africa, the DR, Jamaica, and Korea. There are always scum that target poor people. Unfortunately, that's a way of life. There's also the opposite with golddiggers targeting rich people. Foreign men dating datughters of asian accountants, teachers, nurses, and office workers is super common in Viet Nam, China, Japan, and Korea at this point in time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 03:17 PM
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They're specifically saying that they're poor, impressionable and uneducated. They also say that they're incapable of speaking English, when many of them grow up are taught it in school. The women in these videos never claim to have actually been to those countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 03:14 PM
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I've been married to a Viet woman for ten years. I've also been around a ton of interracial marriages overseas, and from what I've seen, that's mostly just made up. It goes in the same box as when I see white women who haven't traveled outsaide the US say that most asian women overseas are 'poor, uneducated, and couldn't possibly speak English'. My aunt even tried to say the same stuff you did, and she turned out to be the one who was like that. There are also tons of videos, as well as women I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 06:05 AM
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I don't think they are thinking of them, though. If you watch a lot of the videos, it's almost always white women calling Asian women poor, impressionable, and uneducated, when it's the opposite. The power dynamics that they're making up don't really exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 05:24 AM
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OP, many Americans invest in foreign markets using the currency conversions, which almost destroyed overseas markets. They did that in order to take advantage of other countries' markets. Let's not pretend that those investors weren't men and women. I've been to 19 countries and half the states in the US, most of which weren't worth going to, and have a worse quality of living than many countries overseas, including developing nations. You're also conveniently leaving out Koreaboos and women tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 05:21 AM
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If guys want to make time for you, they will. Is there a reason you need to let your mom know where you are before you go places? If he's successful, he's likely not gonna have extra time to work around that.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/25 11:04 PM
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*you're
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 11:29 PM
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Just like women shouldn't listen and be that whole 'submissive, quiet, agreeable' thing, men shouldn't be the 'provider, protector, stoic sociopath that only emulates feelings when it's convenient'.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 10:58 PM
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It's not unhinged at all. If you're a good, nice person, you shouldn't have anything to worry about. If you're into making leaps, no need to project.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 08:43 PM
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I agree. I think that we should also go the next step: If everyone on the iOS and Google Play access store has nothing to hide and are good people, they should all be required to provide access to their phones and any types of accounts to anyone that asks. I should be able to log in to anyone's apps and devices and have a public database of every person in the US. If we can make it happen, we'll know that only the bad people won't submit their passwords and private information. Complete informat…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 08:17 PM
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Modern roles for meeeeee but not for theeeeeee 'I hate traditional gender roles... for women. Men are required to keep them'.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 02:57 PM
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Essentially, a second dad or an unpaid bodyguard
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 02:55 PM
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I'm happily married. However, I've seen friends in plenty of relationships that turn out to be empty and a waste of time. He can probably have his night with an escort and then go back to being productive in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 04:52 AM
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I'm happily married. However, I see what a lot of single friends are going through, and honestly, losing a little bit of money to an escort sounds a lot better than thinking about my single friends losing a lot of money to dating someone who brings nothing to the table and yet, still acts entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 04:49 AM
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This is true. There were numerous articles about divorces and near-endings to marriages caused by the effect of the Twilight books on fans.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 09:05 PM
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This is correct, and here's proof: https://www.buckscounty.gov/CivicAlerts.aspx?AID=1257 Women online and around society seem to have remained conveniently silent on this. It serves as absolute, undeniable, uncontestable proof that women have the same powers as ICE to have innocent men kidnapped and locked away without their Constitutional Rights. 'We want equal rights' No, they really don't. The Urumova case proves that they side with authoritarianism while claiming to hate groups like ICE and …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 09:04 PM
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I honestly rarely believe women when they call someone a 'bad man'. If they want to give me a name and let me look into the guy myself, and he turns out to be a scumbag, then that is what it is. There are tons of bad women and men out there, and that's not in any way to be denied. However, most of the time in my life, whenever I see a woman saying bad stuff about guys, I look into it, and it often turns out to be just a story they're spinning to save face. I see women complain about bad men, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 09:01 PM
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Every time i hear a man say 'I want a masculine man to...' all I hear is 'I want a copy of my dad, and you're supposed to provide that'.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 08:56 PM
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Women seem to want modern dynamics/values/roles for themselves, but traditional dynamics/values/roles for the people they're in relationships with. If a woman makes a big deal about being an independent person who wants to work and do other stuff, and expects you to pay more than your half, that's not really equal, is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 08:55 PM
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But what if that X-Man is Wolverine?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:22 PM
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Honestly, it sounds like nobody in the group, including you, values him for him. While you're supporting him, it's for your own benefit, and not for his. If you weren't interested, and you took that out of the equation, he's basically on his own.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:16 PM
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In that case, they can just eat separately and do something later. If I take someone out, they're a guest. If they want me to pay for myself, I can just buy my meal and eat separately before I go.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:50 PM
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If I was single? Yes. Yes. Yes. I see people using the 'strong and independent'. The problem I ran into before marriage was that 'strong and independent' didn't translate to 'strong and independent', and translated to 'combative'. If you're a mother of two, it may moreso be that guys prefer to have their own kids with a woman. If you feel that men are intimidated, I'd be questioning if you're a bit combative, or come on strong at times. This isn't me saying you are, just giving you food for thou…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:47 PM
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This doesn't make sense to me. The person that invites should pay, whether it's the guy or woman doing the inviting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:36 PM
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I thought she was joking, because we already had plans. Foolish me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 01:37 AM
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I think there's something to be considered from a logical perspective: Chlamydia and HPV can basically be like ghosts for multiple months. If you don't know how many people you've slept with recently, or the other way around, you won't realize the higher possibility of getting one of those two.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 06:19 PM
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I never said that they weren't. However, that doesn't change the fact that people using the sentences I mentioned are also narcissists.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 05:33 PM
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If boys spend their formative years in a dark room isolated from the world on the internet and can't function as adults in society, then... the parents and society are to blame. In creating the issue, being aware of its continuance, and doing nothing, the only reasonable conclusion would be that they are intentionally creating the issue for their own benefit. I wish there be an answer as to why this is. Why do parents and society want men to be isolated? Why do parents and society want them to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 05:21 PM
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Correct. There's something that helped me: Time on this Earth is limited, so live your way, and not how others want you to. They only want you to live that way because it benefits them, and not you. I trust my spouse and my best friend. I believe that humans are all born rotten, and that tiny percentage. including my spouse and best friend, work towards no longer being rotten. I don't accept people's standards because I operate under the assumption that those that create those standards will smi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 05:15 PM
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Sweden is the New Jersey of Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 05:03 PM
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I made the mistake of letting my date drive. On the way to a first date, a woman asked me to visit her ex's grave with her. Before I could even answer, she drove us to his grave site and cried for a bit while I stood there not knowing what to do. We went out later, but the whole day felt traumatic to me. Since then, I don't let people who aren't Uber drivers drive me anywhere, and refuse to date people with ex baggage, as well as trips to graveyards.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 04:58 PM
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I've been very happily married for a decade. With every post on threads like this, I ctrl+f for specific keywords/buzzwords and phrases. All of this is narcissist and misandrist playbook: 'you're overreacting' 'you're being too sensitive' 'you're overthinking it' 'you're insecure' 'you're a misogynist' 'you're an incel' 'you're being childish' 'you're being ridiculous' 'you're being dramatic' If a guy has an emotional reaction to bad experiences with women, that's not insecurity, that's trauma. …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 04:49 PM
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The problem with this logic is that there are also types of men like me. If a woman I just started dating thinks that she should be meeting, or even exposed to my friends or famiy right away, I see it as a massive red flag and signal it as potentially dangerous. Nobody deserves access to the people I care about until they've proven they're safe enough to be around. If a woman immediately started looking into where I work, I'd avoid her like the plague. If I found out that someone was searching t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:12 PM
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If she's making the HVM wait, he can just go to someone else while a person is making him wait. One of his many options will likely be someone who won't make him wait a really long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:04 PM
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You could say the same about women. People are fickle.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 03:02 AM
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I saw the follow-up to the video. He got some self-respect and eventually broke up with her. There are a lot of people on Reddit that would ask what he did to make her take control of the wheel and cause the crash and look for reasons to blame the guy, while putting her on a pedestal. Women like this do attract women because they're protected by society and social media. There have been tons of false accusations for men in the past few years, and even when they were proven false, society and soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:49 AM
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Not at all. I view 100% as a mirage sold on those people farming simulators like Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:47 AM
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I waited to get married until I had ditched my baggage. I don't like people that bring past problems into a new relationship. If you don't have your life together, work on that first.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:46 AM
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I've seen tons of women on Reddit celebrating this, because 'if these men don't reproduce, it thins out the gene pool and gives us the better options'. However, their narrative completely discounts the fact that the ones who want the gene pool thinned are often not worth a minute of the time of the 1% of the 1% that they feel they deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:40 AM
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If he loves her more than she loves him, and it's not equal, there's gonna be resentment. 300k salary? Basically, she wants to be a trophy wife. Wants to protect her even if divorce? WHAT She wants a simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 08:27 PM
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The thing is, op bringing it up will cause people to use the playbook to shut him up. Here are some excerpts: 'you're overreacting' 'you're being too sensitive' 'you're overthinking it' 'you're insecure' 'you're a misogynist' 'you're an incel' 'you're being childish' 'you're being ridiculous' 'you're being dramatic' Yeah, I've seen tons of videos saying that women string guys along and provide no warmth. 'If I just try harder, maybe, I'll win them over'. I've seen it happen to people in real lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 03:41 PM
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This is anecdotal, but most of the women I've met demand traditional roles from men, while demanding modern values for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 03:35 PM
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This is correct. I work and do all the laundry/dishes/cleaning/take out the trash out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 03:33 PM
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I respectfully disagree. I've been the guy to say A guy who stoically says "I don't have the best relationship with my parents. They kinda weren't there for me, and I had to figure a lot of stuff out on my own or with my friends". That's not me being open/vulnerable, it's just stating a point of fact so that it's not brought up again.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 04:58 PM
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Looking for a deep connection with an outgoing emotionally available man who is not afraid to show his vulnerable side. This is a trap. As soon as the dude shows emotions, she'll yell at him for not being stoic or a sociopath. She probably starts fights with people in public to try and get him involved at the risk of getting arrested in order for her to 'feel protected' and to see if he's a 'real man'. Has a really busy lifestyle and wants someone with the same. The guy is expected to make her l…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 04:53 PM
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Yes, I would. I would rather people get all of their worst stuff out in music, drawing, working out, or building cool stuff than committing violence towards others. It's like Mick Thompson from Slipknot said: 'I listen to the goriest black metal. If you listen to music and then go do screwed up stuff, you were already screwed up in the first place. That's not the fault of the music.'
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 11:29 PM
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I'm totally on board with equality, as well as civility and decency for everyone. However, music and working out are healthy ways to let out the most horrible parts of the human makeup/experience. I don't like her music, but it's not like a real life situation with misandry. It's just a song.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 09:34 PM
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I mean... it's the same for men, as well. If people are comfortable in their own skin, they don't need to be in a relationship. If you 'need' other people to be in a relationship, that says a lot about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 09:57 PM
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This is true. My ex quit drugs but still had all the same bad behaviors. She made me miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 04:12 PM
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I believe that people shouldn't be allowed to mod more than one sub. It's too much power over discourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 04:06 PM
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I think that could be up for debate considering how many of the recent mass casualty situations and shootings were done by people that were here on an expired visa.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 04:05 PM
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Nah, because the problem with bad women that do the same would still exist. Once both are dealt with, we'll have a starting point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 03:58 PM
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It would be for women. However, there would still be women traumatizing men, which has ramped up a lot since the pandemic ended.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 03:57 PM
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I'm not autistic. However, am I wrong in the thinking that part of what comes with it is the ability to read certain social queues, sensitivity to certain types of touch, light, sound, and intimate or pressure-filled situations? I would imagine that putting themselves into a situation they might get overwhelmed with, and with someone that might not be prepared or familiar with autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 04:57 AM
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Honestly, I think it signifies to men that the women that would find them undesirable may be themselves undesirable. Now that I'm happily married and far removed from that period, I realized that most of the people who judged me for it at the time were young and had already been sleeping around a lot, which I find undesirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 04:54 AM
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When I was younger, I lost mine to get rid of it and to be left alone about it. It was enjoyable, but I never understood the emergency or necessity in it that the women were stating it was. I'm married now, and enjoy it with my wife. However, I look down on women that shame guys for being virgins. Bodily autonomy shouldn't just be for one gender/sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 04:47 AM
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I'm married. If you want to spend every waking moment judging them instead of living your life, do that. It sounds like a sad existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 06:17 PM
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Nobody's rewriting history. Plenty of untrue things are 'well-documented' all over social media, as are plenty of things that don't actually matter to people in real life. People say that 'golddiggers' and similar types are 'well-documented, which would make them sound sad and needy. However, it's all just internet speculation, most of which doesn't apply outside of Reddit and YouTube. It sounds like a narrative was created that might make them look that way. People in this thread seem fine thus…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 09:45 PM
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I think that, considering I'm on the internet commenting on Reddit, there's a strong chance that I'd likely be aware of the internet, so I'll return the 'ummmmm'. Were they howling in pain and self-righteous indignation, or were they finding amusement at the ridiculousness of it. Since I'm not 13, I'm not really into emojis. If one dude is insulted by the analogy, then the grand total of people I'll see insulted by it comes to exactly one. I don't really need your help finding for anything, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 08:36 PM
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Men are hurt by it? I'm certainly not. I would shrug and go back to whatever I'm doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 08:06 PM
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I think a lot of men would choose the bear over women, as well. There was also.that woman vs. tree thing recently regarding which a ma would tell.tgeir feelings to
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 07:12 PM
1

To make it happen, I'd have to be handed unquestionable power. I wouldn't need a movement, just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:36 PM
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There's a solution that could make that happen, but it would require a massive change in societal parental laws via Supreme Court ruling.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:56 AM
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Would evidence count the restrictions included in false accusations and denial of Constitutional rights?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 04:52 PM
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I think that men sweep it under the rug, because we're fed the following sayings from women: 'you're overthinking it' 'you're being too sensitive' 'you're being dramatic' 'you're being insecure' 'what would the family think?' 'what will the neighbors think?' 'tyou're destroying the family' 'you're fragile' If guys stepped up to stand for what's right, they were often beaten down emotionally until they were completely silent. I don't like older guys dating women, or the guys that defend them. Thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 06:45 AM
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I think that there are plenty of women who also participated in that. During that time, mental health wasn't dealt with, and npd and borderline personality and its effects on children weren't being addressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 06:41 AM
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Same could be same for people with options. When people have tons of options, they value them less, and often take advantage of those people by keeping them around as atms and orbiters.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 06:31 PM
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Also have a job. It's an Avengers reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 06:11 PM
0

Where's my Infinity Gauntlet?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 05:49 PM
2

In some countries, like Japan, it will
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 05:48 PM
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That depends. If it's being used by women online against men, it's a strawman
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 05:35 PM
1

After the Urumova case, men have to be careful about how they approach women. Using an app that has time stamps and dates is safer
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 10:08 PM
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Not only that, but women don't have to worry about false accusations. Women can accuse someone out of boredom. If the diligence is done, the damage is still done. The man they accuse will likely have their Constitutional rights revoked, such as right to a jury of their peers, representation, the right to face their accuser. and the right to preponderance of evidence. If you don't believe me, ask the guy who sat in jail for 30 days without any of his rights based on someone's boredom: https://6ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 09:56 PM
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Well, the monster shouldn't have raped them underage boy in order to create a child to use it as a weapon to get money. A child shouldn't be forced into paying for a child when they didn't want the child. It seems like you're saying that you support underaged children who were sexually assaulted to have to pay for children they had no consent in conceiving. Forcing them to due that would force the assaulted children into poverty and lack, which was supposed to go against your statement. If the a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 01:38 AM
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Sure, everyone wants their children to have all of that. However, having to do so for a child that you never wanted or consented to conceiving doesn't really make your point look that good.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 01:30 AM
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I disagree. It's hard to criticize it without it turning into a big ordeal. Misandry and victim complexes are also toxic and many spaces are filled with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 09:48 PM
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Didn't the whole 'deal with it like a man' get passed from matriarchs to their sons, who taught it to their sons? It's toxic gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 09:45 PM
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They're not, though. Not only that, but female teachers that r-word their male students has had a massive increase and are only now seeing real punishment due to the trend. In universities, multiple ones have held fake court sessions where male students are presumed guilty, and not allowed to have representation, and the evidence is hidden. There was finally just a case where men are now allowed to sue their accuser. Accusers can now be sued for defamation. However, California is trying to make …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 09:42 PM
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Also, feminists remaining absolutely quiet regarding the massive increase of underage male students by women in the last few years, as well as them being forced to pay child support. Also, Title IX creating clown courts where men are found 'guilty' and their right to a fair trial, with representation and actual evidence isn't allowed. The universities help hide the evidence and kick people out based on what tends to be fabricated about 8/10 times.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 09:38 PM
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People do, though, then spread STDs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:24 PM
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You never find a relationship because you don't believe you can... because family, friends, people on Reddit, and other social media tell you that you can't, because 'insecurity/overly sensitive/overthink things', or whatever the other gaslighting phrases of the day is. You never find a relationship because you don't believe you can... because they're acting not trustworthy. You go on dates but they never progress to a stable relationship because of your lack of self-confidence or your partner i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:52 PM
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Or the third choice, choose someone who aligns with your values and morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 12:51 AM
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If they did, they'd be doing something about the large increase of the trending women teacher pedophiles in the classroom in the last few years.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 12:46 AM
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I’m pretty sure that isn’t what they are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 12:44 AM
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Nah, Kpop culture reinvented eating disorders
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:07 AM
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My wife didn't have much money, but she had no debt and a plan. She made us a ton of money in investments
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:26 AM
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You shouldn't, because they will try to take half of the business in the divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:54 AM
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Whenever I see someone use it, I assume they’re 13 and need to shut down conversation because whatever they’re saying holds no water.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 03:35 PM
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I see it on social media all.the time: 'body shaming fornthee, and not for me'
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 01:46 AM
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I'm aware. I consider Josh Hawley to be a threat to democracy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:30 AM
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The Duggars aren't traditional. They're from an extremist sect
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:20 AM
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I'm not super tall, but dstinf and getting married massively improved overseas. Things just wereore straightforward. While.hookuo culture exists still.overseas, it's not as prominent on people.who want relarionshios.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:26 PM
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I mean... I’d you really wanted to commit to the idea, you could add in any race or demographic to make yourself feel even better. Are you implying that that because they’re asian, they’re incapable of love and attraction?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:50 AM
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Undesirable and desirable… according to who?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 11:32 AM
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Women constantly call men trash and use them as atms and for free food. We build their infrastructure, they thank us by making false accusations… and they want us as friends? They have to prove that they’re safe first, just as guys are required to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:25 AM
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It’s still a concept in China. It’s known as ‘leftover women’.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 10:44 PM
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This is the case of women double standards. You don’t get to cut up baby boys, then pretend to be against mutilation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 11:52 PM
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Same for the largely increased trend of female teachers targeting our young boys as of for the last three years
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:57 AM
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Only if they’re part of the lgbt, black, and Latino groups. I believe Lindy Li, who was a donor and supporter, went to their fundraiser, where. They said that they don’t. Red those groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 10:10 PM
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Agreed. It’s like continuing to live a lie and be an enabler
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:33 AM
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Title IX does have something to do with trials. They used it as a weapon to hold sham trials. It took years, and judges have finally began to hold schools accountable in actual trials and punishing them for using fake trials to take away civil liberties.Judges have only interfered recently due to new precedent created by smaller level cases pulling all the evidence together to show a tend. If you missed that, that’s on you. Also, if you’re going to hang your hat on multiple fallacies, have proof…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 02:59 PM
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I understand the difference, but they didn’t. You do understand the difference, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:59 PM
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For sure. We are now in a non-committal society right now dominated by casual sex. Why not support it here for women and both parties to be happy with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:47 PM
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Most of this is women overseas. Right now, the battle being waged is for them to have the equality that women in the U.S. complain about having.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:40 PM
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Just fly to Viet Nam to have the procedure done and the rules no longer apply. You can be back in a few days. EZPZ
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:37 PM
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Yeah, but they’ll just stop dating average dudes per the usual and sharing the same group of guys with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:35 PM
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We also built society in general. We built the infrastructure, created democracy that women live under, and most modern tech was created by teams that were majority men-led. While there are female farmers, men are in the majority, same with running utility companies. We literally created a whole society for them and get called trash
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:34 PM
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It sounds to me like you’re trying to project what they support onto them and then trying to strawman it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:31 PM
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People are hunting men in schools. They used Title IX to remove men from schools and hold sham trials where guilt is assumed. Judges and male students have stated fighting back and winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:28 PM
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China repealed the One Child Policy years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:27 PM
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They already despise men and there’s ready and sexlessness and loneliness epidemic so there’s no real net loss. Women can fight for the same group of top guys, and the rest, whom they hate, can go somewhere else while the women here say ‘all men are trash’
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:25 PM
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It sounds like you’ve decided that they decided that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:23 PM
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That would usually happen anyway with false accusations and sham trials under Title IX, or from misandry and hyper gamy. Men have been losing them anyway. The solution is to marry elsewhere and build a support system somewhere else
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:22 PM
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I think you’re distorting the message into something different in order to judge it in a way that feels right to you. I got something different out of it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:15 PM
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I’m on board with antiDEI rules. I was targeted by DEI. They tried to get me for any minor infraction they could, including going the bathroom. I prefer merit hiring. Also , being forced to go to DEI brainwashing seminars in my free time was horrible. It was hours and hours of ‘man bad, only minorities except for Asian not good’.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:03 PM
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Undoetunaly, Biden tried to walk that back. Luckily, some protections are still there
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:01 PM
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Nope. I wasn’t concerned with with what Venom was doing going to do
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:31 AM
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They’re not American. You projected the MAGA support into them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:22 AM
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Women do the same thing. They use guys for their own interests and ruin their lives when compliance hits a low.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:19 AM
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Can you provide proof that they’re American and voted for specific things that take away women’s’ rights? If not, they shouldn’t have to own what you’re projecting into them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:16 AM
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Men die and are left destitute due to women not caring about them, as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:14 AM
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Wrf response is this? Sure it does. Universities attempted to use Title IX rules to hold sham trials and kick male students out of schools. The schools tried to claim that these were real trials, but were sound by real judges to have had no actual substance of a real trial and that they already had a pre-determined outcome. Most precincts may only hold you for 72 hours under suspicion, not 30 days. Let me state this again: men and women do not have equal rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 02:34 AM
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Men won’t have everything they want until sham trials at universities under Title IX are made illegal, and men are granted the right to face their accuser, have preponderance of evidence, right to a speedy trial, and to representation. Restore the Constitution and men will have what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 01:20 AM
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They don’t, though. Title IX has been proven to take away the rights to face one’s accuser, preponderance of evidence, representation, and a fair and speedy trial. Once that’s revoked or fixed to include removal of financial aid funding for schools that support sham college trials, that would be a start. Then, the same for trials like the man accused in PA who sat in jail for 30 days with no evidence, phone call, trial, face his accuser, or legal counsel. Once all that is fixed, and Constitution…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 01:10 AM
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Correct. If Condy ran, I’d vote for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 01:09 AM
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Kamala supporters brigaded and astroturfed subreddits and used phrases like ‘we don’t want your vote’. Congratulations, they sent the vote to the opposition to try and feed their own ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 01:08 AM
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I don’t get how people are baffled. People on Reddit literally spent the last year brigading, astroturfing, taking over popular subreddits and worshipping Kamala. They spent the last year banning dissenting opinions, blocking, muting, reporting and telling non-supporters that they were monsters, driving them to Trump while trying to feed their egos. They beat themselves this election. There was no surprise at all. I’ve been on multiple subs telling people this was coming and was silenced and I w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 01:07 AM
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Because she wasn’t Condy. If she was, she’d be president.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 01:04 AM
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Submissive isn't the right term. It's one that the grifters on YouTube use. Non-combative is better. My wife and I are equals, and occasionally have arguments, but she's not starting arguments for no purpose. Beat to your own drum as long as it includes doing your part to get the team where it needs to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:12 PM
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'Singles events' is code for 'women's get-togethers'. While at rare times, men show up, it's not often, from what I've heard. The top guys don't need to go, because they have parties in the Hamptons where other rich families show up to prevent class mixing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 06:16 PM
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That's only half the equation. They'd have to find another top 20% woman to fit the bill. The rest, according to your own math, would also be single, just like the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:45 PM
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Then the top 20% of females should mate with the top 20% of males. That means that unless you're in the top 20%, that would include you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:43 PM
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If you mean that the top 20% of women should reproduce with the top 20%, while letting the bloodlines of the rest disappear, then you might at least sound fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:42 PM
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There's also lots of stories on Reddit of trying to get single dads arrested for taking their kid to get groceries.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 03:02 PM
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Because of 2024 rules, they don't need to. According to the new 'sex positive' social media rules, you don't need to at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 06:42 PM
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Misandry also leads to broken families and workplaces, as well as suicide. Men are literally trained from birth in the US that feelings are weak unless they come when it's convenient. If you look at the increase in rapes of male students lately by female teachers, journalists seem to refuse to use the word 'rape' when a woman is the perpetrator. I hate the horrors done to women overseas. It's really heartbreaking. In the US, men are often here just to be used for emotional trauma dumping, money,…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 08:57 PM
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Not true. https://6abc.com/post/anjela-borisova-urumova-arrested-bucks-county-woman-admits/14848866/ He wasn't proven guilty. He literally went to jail for existing, wasn't allowed representation, a phone call, right to a speedy trial, to face his accuser, and preponderance of actual evidence didn't happen for 30 days, because she was a woman and was white.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 08:50 PM
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Personally, I think that while it did some good, it was used as a tool to extend Title IX powers to deny men rights to face their accused, representation, and the right to actual preponderance of evidence using fake trials at colleges where the verdict was already decided.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 08:48 PM
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This is why governments need to pass legislation banning loopholes used to circumvent or deny Constitutional rights for the accused. Start by giving people the right to face their accuser, preponderance of evidence, the right to one phone call if taken in, the right to remain silent, and a non-biased judge. Then, drop Title IX and require that public accusations come with evidence to back it up, along with a life sentence for each accusation disproven or with no evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 08:44 PM
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Most parents of false accusers have seen prior troubling behavior or views towards men though from their daughters. They choose to ignore it or excuse it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:52 AM
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Sometimes we're wrong. However, parents shouldn't trust an accuser at all, they should trust their kid, especially if it's in the US, where false accusations are both common and rampant at the moment. Stories like this are becoming normalized: https://6abc.com/post/anjela-borisova-urumova-arrested-bucks-county-woman-admits/14848866/ The normalization of denial of Constitutional rights, representation, preponderance of evidence, right to face one's accuser, and a fair trial needs to stop. Most ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:49 AM
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Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 05:42 PM
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That's fine, but I stand by what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 10:48 PM
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They do? Can't say I ever have. I usually donate them or send them back.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 10:47 PM
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Honestly, I'd love to see legislation passed requiring hospitals to not allow any signatures on the birth certificate until paternity has been verified.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 10:40 PM
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2) If you're a man and live at home with parents for any reason at all, it fundamentally turns women off. They don't like it and will reject you for it even if they live at home with parents too. *Unless you're asian and value family
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 10:11 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 02:26 PM
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Anjela Borisova Urumova, of Bristol Township was charged with: one count each of false alarm to an agency of public safety tampering with or fabricating physical evidence two counts of false reports three counts of unsworn falsification to authorities. Men, this is what you get for not even approaching. Since you can be put in jail and have your Constitutional rights to representation, facing your accuser, preponderance of evidence, and a speedy trial taken away at another private citizen's whim…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 04:29 PM
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After this https://www.fox29.com/news/woman-charged-for-lying-about-attempted-rape-kidnapping-in-bucks-county Fathers should be encouraging men to not make the first move and to have a legal plan ready just in case things go south for just existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 04:21 PM
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I dated a girl best friend years ago. Her ex had died over ten years ago, and on our first date, she asked to stop at his grave. I'm not here to be a therapist and carry trauma for people. Deal with your baggage instead of asking me to carry it for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 03:57 PM
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I've been married for almost 10 years. This is anecdotal, but being anything but yourself won't get you a good relationship. Basic kindness/decency is fine, but being extra kind to win over a woman that doesn't care isn't helping your cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 03:53 PM
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You can also go to outside events, or meet people at interest meetups or conventions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 03:51 PM
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Yeah, I see lots of comments in the other threads about meeting at a friend's wedding/event. Why would someone mess with their own friend circle? Don't shit where you eat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 03:48 PM
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I'm a guy, but regardless of gender, if someone has to tell me that they're nice, I assume the absolute worst/opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:11 PM
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American women were the only ones I've encountered that actively spread rumors to try and destroy my life and treat me like garbage. When I became successful, they got even angrier knowing that they would have to watch me keep adding cash to my account while they work dead-end poor people jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 12:12 AM
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I feel guilty that I work from home and procrastinate while on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 07:20 PM
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Yeah, I don't want the table, I want them to put their contribution onto it. They don't seem to get that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 10:19 PM
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I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:38 PM
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If women in his circle respect or approve of him, the person one is dating wouldn't know, because they wouldn't be involved in any way with his friends, and attempts to dig would be seen as having ulterior motives.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:22 PM
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Yeah, but at that point, she would have already had to go behind his back using social media and contacting his friends, which would be a definite red flag. I'm married now, but when I was single, I always compartmentalized the people I dated and my friends, because and kept my social media friends/followers hidden from people digging for dirt. If a person I was dating tried to judge my friend group based on little to no actual interaction, or on their perceived gender count, that's a massive re…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:20 PM
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Not only that, but less emotional baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 03:57 PM
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There's also the men that get falsely accused, emptied of resources by divorce courts, etc. Also, lots of women teachers raping students reported this year, as well as murdering or torturing kids. Pretending like it's only guys that are the issue is far from the truth. If you wanna talk about being afraid in public https://www.fox29.com/news/woman-charged-for-lying-about-attempted-rape-kidnapping-in-bucks-county I'm also pretty sure that men have been robbed and murdered before.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:38 PM
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Young men have sacrificed and enduring for too long. We created democracy, and are told that 'we're trash'. The only way to fix society is to give what women what they want, which is to take away all the stuff associated with the 'trash', including infrastructure, the internet, and all modern technology created by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:23 PM
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I definitely think it amplifies extreme behavior from narcissists.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:18 PM
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When they do that, American women say that they're looking for 'uneducated women' overseas, even though education is valued higher overseas.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:56 PM
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Or, they're attractive, but she is using them as an atm because she's a brokie who thinks too highly of herself. If she stops putting in effort, she's not attractive to me, and she becomes replaceable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:48 PM
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I was told by women that women find it degrading, so I assumed that they weren’t lying
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 08:50 PM
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If someone told me that they were falsely accused, I'd just say 'that's horrible. If you need to talk about it, I'm here.' and have us go about our day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 03:19 PM
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No evidence, no conviction? If it takes place in the US, it was likely made up to get him put in jail, especially if she's caucasian, and/or she's broke. https://www.fox29.com/news/bucks-county-womans-false-accusation-could-stop-sex-assault-victims-from-coming-forward-officials Rolling Stone https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/A_Rape_on_Campus Trevor Bauer, Matt Ariza, Brian Banks
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 02:37 PM
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Absolutely!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 02:05 PM
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Viet Nam!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 02:02 PM
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Most women I've dated want men that are already at the finish line so they can take credit and take advantage. I got lucky and found a builder, who wanted to build our life together.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 03:43 PM
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I was in an ltr, and we ended up married. I occasionally joke ' don't get married'. However, it's moreso because marriage is a lot of work and takes lots of compromise and communication that people are generally too selfish to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 06:35 PM
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When I was single, if I offered the date, I paid, but if it was just happenstance, we paid our own.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 06:25 PM
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You didn't ask me, but based on this: https://www.fox29.com/news/woman-charged-for-lying-about-attempted-rape-kidnapping-in-bucks-county Yes, absolutely. 31 days in jail, no access to lawyer, no right to face his accuser, no phone call, no due process, nothing. Women can literally take away your Constitutional Rights on a whim. Women are such drama queens. Something something 'lame nonsense'. I'm hoping you're joking. The answers are always the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 06:20 PM
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When I worked in person, I would do that, but get another department manager, an hr person, and have it recorded, while having Teams also create a transcription of the meeting, which would go into a dated folder.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 06:17 PM
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https://www.fox29.com/news/woman-charged-for-lying-about-attempted-rape-kidnapping-in-bucks-county Correct, and here's proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 06:16 PM
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People were ragging on him about it, but dude is right. I'm not gonna let someone shame me into giving up my freedom based on nonsense that people wanna bring into my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 06:15 PM
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And because just existing can ruin a man's life https://www.fox29.com/news/woman-charged-for-lying-about-attempted-rape-kidnapping-in-bucks-county
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 06:11 PM
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Here's another risk-averse one for you if you'd like: https://www.fox29.com/news/woman-charged-for-lying-about-attempted-rape-kidnapping-in-bucks-county
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 06:10 PM
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https://www.fox29.com/news/woman-charged-for-lying-about-attempted-rape-kidnapping-in-bucks-county Because of stuff like this. It's too risky, even when not actually approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 06:09 PM
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In the US, the cold approach is way too dangerous, especially after the Urumova case. She recognized a guy and his truck, and randomly accused him of horrible things out of boredom, and his Constitutional Rights were taken away for 31 days until she recanted when caught with evidence. If women here can take away freedom that easily, it's better to just go overseas where one can be safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 06:08 PM
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If women complain about not getting approached, make them explain this first: https://www.fox29.com/news/woman-charged-for-lying-about-attempted-rape-kidnapping-in-bucks-county If you want to approach women, just avoid the US, Canada and the UK in order to protect your freedom and rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 06:00 PM
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I think that used to be the case. Now, abundance is a tool. Women can use it to keep guys in a committed relationship, then replace them when they get bored, or things get hard, or they want more money and things, whatever. Us men only get peace when we find out that the key to getting it is to focus on time stewardship/time allotment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 06:07 PM
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If she doesn't ghost you, she's gonna end things.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:37 PM
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I think it's missing another part: With dating apps, women get thousands of likes and requests per minute, and have abundance mindset. Men don't need to have value because more are always available.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:36 PM
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I watched a few videos recently where it was said, and asian women responded. I'd have to hunt them down in my spare time. Covering up for infidelity. Again, I'd have to hunt down videos I've seen again. Because it reinfornces old gender roles and stereotypes while going against the freedom and independence of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:18 PM
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White women saying that all asian women that exist overseas are all poor and uneducated when asian women overseas spend much more time in school studying per day and tend to speak a higher band of English. Women covering up for their friends Women lying and stealing constitutional rights of men by abusing the law, ie this https://www.fox29.com/news/woman-charged-for-lying-about-attempted-rape-kidnapping-in-bucks-county Women calling men useless, while refusing to give up the technology and infra…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:43 PM
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You seem to think I was
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 01:46 PM
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Good, because I didn’t plan on giving it mine. The bear also doesn’t want a woman’s privates, either, so move along.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:00 PM
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No, they shouldn't. Just like women chose the bear, single men chose the tree.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:23 PM
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In most cities, the 'find a hobby' people don't account for traveling time. I'm not sitting in traffic forever to go to dinner with people or go do a hobby thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:23 PM
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The second time, she showed up drunk after flying out, and flew home the same day, literally three hours later. I was furious. They grounded me for anything they could, and extended it for sleeping with people I never slept with. I moved out shortly after, and got emancipated. I don't talk to those losers anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:52 PM
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A lot of women and their fans/orbiters/simps will excuse anything they do. There was a thread about a woman who killed multiple people drunk driving. People were like 'b-b-b-b-ut she was concussed, she didn't know what she's doing! It's not her fault!'
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:02 PM
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Had a women bully me and spread horrible rumors about me, even reiterating them recently. Got cheated on Got used by a lesbian. She used my events to dress up and secretly go see women and would disappear for a while Got dumped then she came back when I was successful On our first date, drove us to her ex's grave Negging, verbal abuse Tried to blame me for her friend cheating on me, then kicked me with kicked me with steel toe boots for standing up for myself Belittled me in front of people Spre…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 12:32 PM
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... or risk losing our resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 12:28 PM
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Correct, especially the broke ones. They compete for the rich ones while not knowing how to contribute to the lifestyle or having anything to offer them. They also don't get that rich dates rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 12:18 PM
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It's true. There was a thread about a young woman who was a drunk driver. Men and women were bending over backwards trying to say that she was a concussed victim because she killed multiple people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:53 AM
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Why should men have to hold each other responsible? Be grown and hold yourself responsible for things you do. I had someone try to pull the 'short man syndrome' thing for standing up for myself. I was like '...and you're suffering from too many meals syndrome'. If a woman is talking about your private life with her friends, she's trash, and there are women that aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:47 AM
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Singles events aren’t for men. They’re organized meetups for women, by women. If a guy shows up, men are intentionally meant to feel uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:20 PM
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No, it won't happen because middle class women want what the top-tier men's resources, even if it means sharing them or letting them do what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:23 PM
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If you're saying that middle class and below people are going to shame upper class men into things, you're mistaken. They'll just go for top-tier women and pretend like the middle class women that aim for them don't exist at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:22 PM
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It's a necessary risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 01:47 PM
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I'm not getting killed or catching charges to help a rando and try to feel like a hero. I'm not a policeman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:33 PM
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If someone intervenes, they could become dead, and you're not covering the costs, I'd assume.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:27 PM
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Yes, they should call the police and leave. No other help id owed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:26 PM
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Call the police and walk away. Intervening doesn't help.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:22 PM
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What we can is calling the cops. Getting involved and getting seriously injured or dying isn't going to help anyone. If there's a crime being committed somewhere in the world, people not involved aren't complicit. If they are, then the whole thing is a setup in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:19 PM
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You could sub a few words and make it They consider men as objects, stepping stones, and atms, that's why they want to use them for resources. Misandrists and hypergamous women here don't dream of a nice romantic relationship with a deep connection, they want to get their pussies wet and have resources, that's it. That's all they aspire to do
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:51 PM
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Now give men the opportunity to not sit next to moms on flights or be asked to trade seats
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:20 AM
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In almost every thread I see here, I always see variations of 'you're abandoning YOUR kid', and 'is it worth the damage you're going to do', when he's not the one doing it. It's the mom's fault, and the kid needs to toughen up and learn to live with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 01:00 AM
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According to women on Reddit, there are three ways of talking to men: 1) treating them as people 2) treating them as people you want to have sex with 3) treating them as people you want resources from
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 12:04 PM
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We aren’t forgetting at all
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:19 AM
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There are undereducated, poor people in the U.S. Most women in the U.S. stating that people overseas are doing worse often turn out to be worse students than those that I taught overseas, and have a lower grasp of both grammar and English speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:08 AM
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I think that shame is the second most powerful tool. Rolling Stone and other publications made it clear that false accusations and deprivation of Constitutional rights is the first weapon.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:05 AM
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Having taught English and Business English overseas, you're incorrect. You also come across as a bigot who is farming karma. My sixth and seventh grade students spoke better English and had a much stronger grasp of grammar than most American students that I've encountered.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:03 AM
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I ended up doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:02 AM
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That's true. I've had multiple cases where I've been told that I'm great to talk to and a great listener. Multiple times after giving my number, I received calls between 1 and 4am wanting to talk about their boyfriend issues. It was disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 06:16 PM
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While that could be true, it could also be the woman's attitude, victim complex, and judgemental assumptions. It's situational.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 11:37 PM
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I've been married, and disagree with this. When someone calls you 'marriage material', it means that you have qualities that are good enough for someone else. It's different form saying. "I could see myself spending the rest of my life with you". I also think that using second-hand anecdotes from people you know isn't really gonna convince people since they're not speaking on their own behalf with all of the context and thought processes. Calling the other guy 'genius' and/or being patronizing i…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 11:29 PM
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Why do you care what people think? I've never understood caring about what family thinks. I stack cash and do what I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 06:57 PM
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Where's the thing? I just see a random screenshot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 06:56 PM
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Why do people need to care if random strangers they'll never meet move on to different things in their lives? I don't care what people outside of my top five are doing. Whether anyone outside that circle does well or suffers horrible calamity, my life also goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 06:49 PM
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Some women are shallow and have unrealistic standards, just like men. They're not free from criticism, especially if there's ever been a moment in which they've complained in the entirety of their existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 06:47 PM
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Ngl, it doesn't sound like complaints of lazy men trying it sounds like societal issues that need to be fixed to create better balance between humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 06:43 PM
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If you're healthy, have a good career, and cash in the bank, you didn't waste your 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 06:39 PM
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Women can as well. They go to Africa, Jamaica, etc. They try in Korea, but it doesn't really work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 01:22 AM
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Didn't they drop the investigation due to lack of evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 01:22 AM
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It proves my point because they were the lower 80%, even a while after they started. Woz and Jobs did struggle. Bezos built Amazon from his house. The band Slipknot existed during Tinder and struggled to get to a place where they were able to continue, even after their records went gold. Your notes served you incorrectly. You think that I think that women should date men just because they have jobs. I implied that they won’t, they will call them trash, while utilizing the things they’ve created.…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:29 PM
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It's not an 'appealing lie', unless you're saying that it wasn't mostly men that created phones, the internet, ithe US government, nfrastructure, computers in general, etc. I'm not taking away credit because of a mutual characteristic. I'm aware that women in medicine and science played a part in certain aspects of it, but it's certainly been men leading the way in many aspects of things put into use in everyday life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:29 AM
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Steve Jobs was the bottom 80%. So was Woz. There are people who have created a ton of different types of hardware and software by first getting a business loan. Men who are in the bottom 80% create apps that women use, build roads that women use, fix air conditioning that they use, create buildings that they use, methods of irrigation, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:26 AM
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Women contribute to society, but it's men doing most of the jobs to build it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 01:30 AM
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Yeah, viewers don't seem to realize that K1 visas don't magically appear the next day. They hire actors/actresses to go the area on a tourist visa to film, then go home.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:18 PM
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I did. I also read the explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:14 PM
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The rate is up compared to a point in time, which was the pandemic. Over the long trend, it hasn't completely normalized, but it's getting there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:08 PM
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It doesn't appear to be a massive improvement, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:06 PM
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Isn't JD Vance married with kids? He is a weird one, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:00 PM
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I'm married, but I definitely see men being treated as disposable even though it's them building society and creating the technology that the people who hate them use. If they take the advice of women and leave, they'd take their skills and technology those women would realize that they screwed themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 06:57 PM
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Nothing. Women will still target that 20% they've decided aren't trash, while utilizing the resources and inventions built by the 80% they think are trash. The remainder at the top will either get taken advantage of by poor parasites who think they're worthy of that top tier, or the top tier of men will learn and stop dating down while continuing to date at their level. The 80% will continue to do the larger amount of society building while being hated for it by people using what they created. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 06:56 PM
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OF creators and Twitch streamers hide their boyfriends while putting their fans ahead of the men they're dating. They then take money from people they wouldn't be caught dead dating, while refusing to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 06:42 PM
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Yeah, they don't want someone that's slept with a ton of people. Ifsomeone makes you wait more than 3 months, they're not attracted to you. You can have had a small amount of sexual relationships and not force someone to wait forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:26 PM
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In the last week, I've seen the '80% of men are garbage' line online. I see it in person all the time at events.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:40 PM
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It's either that, or they are unlucky people with everything else going, but attract bad people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 10:06 PM
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Yes, you are. It's true that women keep men around as orbiters. I never said that justifies it. I just pointed out that the same thing happens. You're justifying it, then projecting it onto me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:21 PM
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Unless you're Professor X, then you don't know my thought process. You're making one up to argue with yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:14 PM
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I didn't say all of that. You created an argument in order for you to argue with yourself. I merely stated an observation. If you're into punishing women, no need to project.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:16 PM
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Women do it, too. They keep around orbiters, usually guys they know like them, and use them for free food, attention, and 4am phone calls to dump about some other guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 07:48 PM
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It's fine for them, but not a portion of the population that sticks to the ol' seeing title and resources as a measurement of themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:26 PM
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I'm also happily married bro. I also like the person who likes me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:24 PM
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You could say that about anyone including yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 05:38 PM
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Most women will tend to go for the same dude, even if they can’t have him permanently. They won’t have kids with him, but they’ll wanna be seen with him and get access to his resources and prestige from his title. The low birth rate is good, but I want them to speed it up times 100x
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 05:37 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 05:36 PM
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I disagree. If a dude watches porn, makes six figures, no student loans, no debt, and is comfortable with being on his own, it’s fine. I’m married now. However, your entire statement essentially hinges on shaming people who are comfortable being on their own and don’t need to date to feel whole or confident. Confidence is good, but only if it comes with world building. If a dude spends his feee time watching porn after putting in work and doesn’t date and lose what he has built, it’s Darwinism s…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 05:34 PM
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I think they’re also doing men a favor by removing resources and money from the dating pool. Seems like another form of good financial decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 05:23 PM
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There was a video a little while ago where most women in it said not to approach, and only one did. After the woman got arrested in PA recently, it's best not to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 06:25 PM
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You quite literally brought up some likely fake news thing you seem to hate looking for a reason to say they were fake. I read again, and stick with what I said. While those might be some cases, it looks like you're trying to make it as though those are the only ones, or that they're made up by the media. I think the cases that are reported are the ones reported in the news. Considering most of them aren't hot teachers, I'd say no, they're not bringing in ad money or clicks from due to looks. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 08:52 PM
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I don't know what the National Enquirer is. If you think it's sensationalist and fake, that's on you. It was you that said a few hundred cases of child sex abuse are making the news every day. I said there's an increasing trend as of late. If you think that's hilarious, or that the cases never happened because reasons, that's a you thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 08:36 PM
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Nah, I won't slow my roll, I'm already good. This is a public forum. That in no way addresses the recent increasing trend in the last few months. Your link leaves out cases from the last few months, doesn't show their data models, visualization for their trends, or explanations on how they've made recent female teacher cases un-happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 08:19 PM
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If she's often listening to songs that remind her of an ex
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:01 PM
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Me too, but what happened to the guy was horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:20 PM
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Correct. There's been a massive increase in sexual assaults from women this year, and the news has been flooded by children getting drowned or killed in the last few weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:52 PM
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After the guy who sat in jail for 31 days with no representation because someone admitted to falsely accusing him, people can assume the worst of most women as well. This is especially so with teachers, because of the increase of sexual assaults to young boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:51 PM
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Reimbursement, court fees covered, emotional damages, fraud charges
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 11:31 PM
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Not necessarily. Context would be necessary. When I was single, I wouldn't bring the people I dated around my friends, and didn't talk about my friends, simply because it wasn't her business.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:31 PM
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This definitely isn't true. Having a small group of friends that carry each other is much more of a telltale sign than keeping a big group of yes men or fake friends around to make some stranger think you're not 'socialized'.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:29 PM
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I'm short, but good looking, and make just under six figures. I've been married for many years, though. I'd prefer all that. Looks fade, but when money speaks, nobody checks the grammar.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 08:40 PM
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...and often they are broke and have nothing to offer the top 1%
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:17 PM
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I've been the 'recovery guy' before, twice. It doesn't work. After they feel 'fixed', they become impossible to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:12 PM
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If I was single at the time, I'd have stayed single. They're all garbage choices for my lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:10 PM
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I never said it was. I said 'be good to others'. A separate idea was that certain folks are teaching boys to be doormats. They were two separate ideas. I'm assuming you just skimmed my comment, and that's ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:04 PM
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Especially when it's not to improve their chances, and actually a tutorial on how to be taken advantage. They're teaching boys to become a doormat, which leads to becoming a victim and having your reputation destroyed. Here are some better lessons: Do the right thing. Be good to others. Work really, really hard. Get sleep. Drink water. Save your money. If a woman wants you to spend it on stupid stuff, she has poor people mentality, and is prepping to monkey branch after emptying your account by …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:39 PM
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I’m aware of the first point. No, my news selections are just fine. I stated that there has been an increase of cases as of the last few months. Stating otherwise is essentially revisionism. I’m aware of the links you sent. They’re not directly related to my comment, and are part of a separate discussion. The rest of what you had to say essentially becomes pointless to me when you started attempting to project a fictional narrative/beliefs onto me. I decide what I care about, not you. If you bel…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 05:35 PM
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Untrue. Foreign women want more money. Higher value on education, less on the 20s phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 08:35 PM
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The thread title shows that the op has no intention of being objective. Red pill is about being a better you and not being a doormat for others I could make up the same thread title in reverse and say that women don’t like red pill because they don’t eant to give up control of their husbands. It’s all made up
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:12 PM
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I feel like the difference is that if a man sexually assaults you, there's a higher likelihood that he'll actually be punished for it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 01:07 PM
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If you're referring to serious physical damage, sure. We've got people like GSK and Zodiac that ran amok for years. Women will target your entire life, like this: https://www.fox29.com/news/bucks-county-womans-false-accusation-could-stop-sex-assault-victims-from-coming-forward-officials I also worry about the increase in the female teacher assaults on our young male students as of late. I get that it's men that usually do this thing, and as a data guy, I don't get what's causing the changes, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:50 AM
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That's not necessarily true. Some people are just garbage and want o spread hate. I did compare that, and it's all still garbage humans. Blips on the radar still do damage. Anyone that pushes the button is garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:05 AM
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I feel like if women didn't care, they wouldn't participate in public shaming or passive aggressive comments about virgin men. I lost mine due to peer pressure from women. I don't think the dude was trying to be profound, but I do think he's on the money, considering the amount of 'men are tresh' or 'men are useless' type videos as of late.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:36 PM
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Of course. Most of them claim to be all about free speech, while trying to shut down anyone or any group deemed not approved.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:16 PM
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Most of this sub is just an echo chamber for women. Anytime men go against 'the message', they must be evil, abusive, incel nazis or Tate fans. Then,t he simps come to their rescue, especially if they claim to be caucasian. Also, /u/Psykotyrant is right about incels being mixed in with misogynists.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:13 PM
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Correct. All successful long-term marriages and no money problems
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 04:53 PM
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Not the guy you were talking to, but I think that depends. People target guys for money and status all the time. I got lucky in my marriage, but to say that it’s not like hunting for some is a bit disingenuous
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 04:46 PM
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I’ve been married for years and the comment about peace, food, ex etc is on the money Women ask their single friends stuff and then stand back and watch it destroy their relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 04:34 PM
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There are ways to tell. If all their friends are exes and everywhere you go, she’s dated dudes. I remember going on a first date and getting told ‘don’t worry, you have no competition. We’ve already had a turn’.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 12:29 PM
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Brings up their exes constantly to try and make people jealous. Has a bunch of kids by different dudes. You go out on a date and people tell you that everyone in the bar tells you not to worry because everyone has already had a turn. Every guy you run into with her is an ex She starts being toxic to you and says that it’s how all of her relationships went, so you need to comply. Posts relationship quotes on social media Has to get her ‘friend group’s’ opinion of your relationship, and it turns o…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 12:24 PM
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I think the problem is that we are given mixed signals. I had auto-play going on YouTube, and some ‘all men are trash’ video came on, where women even said short dudes should be erased, or that men should go extinct and bring no value and haven’t built any infrastructure . There are definitely scummy people who degrade women on here, but there are plenty of women who do the same. The problem is that people on social media love to show the worst parts of themselves for attention. I’m glad that no…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 09:48 PM
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You implied that if you don’t marry someone you are forced to marry and give away everything you’ve earned to people you never wanted in your life and live in poverty, that’s selfish. You’re not correct. If people earn money and don’t want a family, it isn’t cowardly to live in a marriage that you’ve arranged for them. It absolutely isn’t cowardly for someone to not want to raise your kids and give them all their money so you can live off of it while forcing them into poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 07:24 PM
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So what you’re actually saying is that you have to fake love and give away allo four money to a poor person that you don’t want to be in a relationship with. THAT is selfish
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 07:21 PM
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That’s often being called being sent home
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 01:01 PM
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I went through boot camp. Women got the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 10:35 PM
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Nah, I get paid for being an SME, plus compound interest and dividends, while getting to post on subs 'lmfao'.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:38 PM
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I stand corrected. I didn’t expect someone from the World Economic Forum to be on Reddit. What’s your name, so I can drop you and your team a line regarding where I can read your published papers? I’m ok admitting when I’m wrong. As far as the other countries, are you gonna start reaching out to their governments today with your findings to shut down food sales since they don’t meet regulatory standards? I guess the U.S. will have to start shipping food to other countries to make up the differen…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:19 PM
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The problem is the countless stories of men paying for their spouse’s college, only for them to leave for another man the day she graduates.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 01:11 PM
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Nah, I waited until then and have been happily married for almost a decade, and have stacks of cash in my accounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 01:07 PM
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The whole argument relies on no high value women existing and that whole idea of wealthy guys dating poor gold diggers. The entire problem isnsolved by dating someone at the same wealth bracket, which completely defeats your thesis.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 01:04 PM
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I see videos on this a lot. I feel like it’s a bit racist to assume that all women overseas are poor and uneducated, especially when most societies overseas prize education and work ethic far above American culture. I feel bad for anyone who gets taken advantage of, because that’s horrible, and know that there’s poverty everywhere. However, people deal with poverty in the same ways everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:53 PM
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I think it's difficult because people don't tend to know how to handle money and tend to buy stupid stuff. Compound interest, my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:44 AM
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I knew I had chosen right when my wife told me to use money to buy land instead of getting her nails done. She was like 'getting nails done is stupid and accomplished nothing'.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:43 AM
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Incorrect. Spending money on a house when Fed's not cutting rates till November isn't smart, and shouldn't be encouraged. I'm living in a city spending only 1300 for all bills and rent while getting that sweet compound interest once Fed rates drop.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:42 AM
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People that can't afford to buy a home on 80k are people with poor people mentality and low credit scores who buy stupid stuff instead. It's like people have never heard of compound interest, etfs, index funds, and savings accounts. Another thing to consider is that people are smart enough to wait for the Fed to cut rates starting in November before building or buying.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:39 AM
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I don't get why people pay for Doordash over Ubereats/Grubhub. You get better deals on everything but Doordash. Also, a good woman won't want more than one date a week, because she'll want to see you building for the future instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:35 AM
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That's not true at all. If you've got 80k annual, and you're spending less than 1/3 each paycheck with the rest getting compound interest, along with index funds and etfs, you're fine. The only way what you say is true is if he's financially irresponsible or picked a financially irresponsible woman. Whenever I see people say 'you can't do this with 80k and under', is because they're poor due to fiscal irresponsibility who spend money on stupid stuff. Guys who buy flowers tend to have poor people…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:31 AM
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That's not necessarily true. A middle manager making 80k with a million in net worth, with house and car paid off and a rental property will be, or one with a lot of saved money accruing compound interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:25 AM
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Him getting closer could be considered menacing. Hers would be assault and intent to harm, along with destruction of property, vandalism, and menacing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 10:36 PM
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Yes, it is. Intent to commit harm and in some states, is counted as assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 10:35 PM
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More than twice: destruction of property, vandalism, menacing, and intent to cause harm with a weapon
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 10:34 PM
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If she was handling the point of sale UI, she's partially to blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 10:33 PM
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The literal law also covers destruction of property, vandalism, menacing, and intent to cause harm with a weapon.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 10:32 PM
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Not the other person, but I did for 16 years. In pos systems, you can make changes and additions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 10:31 PM
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He demanded his change, because she overcharged him. You left that out. Both of them are shitty people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 10:29 PM
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She released the entire video on her Insta. They were both in the wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 10:28 PM
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You're intentionally leaving out parts to make her look good. She released the video on her Insta. She intentionally overcharged him. She started the whole thing, and he escalated, then she did. I wonder if she'd be overcharging people if they were the same skin color.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 10:28 PM
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Not only that, but she tried to overcharge him. The whole video was on her insta.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 10:26 PM
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I don't need you to. If you think otherwise, you think a little too highly of yourself. I get paid either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 10:16 PM
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Also, calling guys that won’t choose them ‘f-boys’
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:11 PM
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If they’re settling, then I hope the men they settle for realize they can find someone else who won’t settle for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:07 PM
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If you look at the OJP website, cross reference it with local, state, and nationwide news stories, independent studies done by the Child Advisory Board and Child Services, verified by court records or minor cases currently opened, it’s clear. I also created my own data model, because I like data vis to show trends over time related to certain subjects as practice for a portfolio. Between 2006-2015, it was a slow increase. However, within the last 9 months, the trend of increasing.cases has begun…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 09:35 PM
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An accusation that was unfounded. Loitering is essentially doing nothing, and there are plenty of statutes on that. If I have to spend time looking for statutes or researching data, that’s time that has value, and for that, I take direct deposit and transfers. On a related note, I have to say, I do really love when people end their sentences with ‘I’ll wait’. Knowing I have someone wait on me and be at my beck and call for less than pennies on the dollar is great. I’ll let you know if I come up …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:47 AM
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Correct, he was jailed for doing nothing. He did no approach and got jailed. Since that's the case, don't bother cold approaching, because doing nothing is already too risky. enough unless you go overseas. If you're against that, that's fine. We can agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:59 AM
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It does, but we can agree to disagree. You also left out the jail part. He didn't even interact. He was nearby and she decided that she didn't like him existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:39 AM
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The cold approach is good if you're not in the US. It's not worth spending a month in jail for saying hello, or not saying anything at all. There was a dude from PA near a woman recently, he didn't do anything, and sat in jail and had his rights to have representation and evidence, and wasn't allowed a phone call. After 31 days, he was released after she admitted that he did nothing wrong and she found him creepy. The cold approach in the US is basically asking for jail time and giving up your r…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:02 AM
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While I agree, the problem was that they took all of that out on the Asian community during the pandemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:32 PM
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I mean… it seems like all of that abuse from past generations is being returned via the increase of female teachers sa’ing young male students, or the woman who put the guy in jail for 31 days because he ‘looked creepy’. I hate bullies that punch down on others and don’t excuse the abuse to women at all. Overseas women certainly struggle with oppression. However, women have the power to deny men of constitutional rights based on accusing them of whatever they want. I don’t know enough about inte…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:30 PM
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You could say the same thing about women, otherwise, OF and sugar babies wouldn’t exist. Women also have negative actions and target the money of the top 1 percent of the 1 percent they think they deserve to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:23 PM
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I’m the opposite. I’ve been discriminated against by women many times, even at work once, to the point of having to get the City Council and DA in to defend me from a woman boss working for the city election. It happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:21 PM
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Probably just to have nice stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:16 PM
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I think a relationship based on compliance sounds one-sided and won’t last. I’ve been married for years, and it’s all about compromise and communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:11 PM
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This is correct. My wife gave me this talk when we first started dating and we’ve been married for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:09 PM
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I’m a married guy. If you have to push a guy for marriage, you were never seen as long-term material in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:08 PM
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As a a veteran, I don’t disagree. SA in the military is a problem. The thing they don’t tell civilians is that it’s actually a symptom of the root sickness. Because out governments are different, it’s not very fixable. The UCMJ needs to be amended again. The VA has rampant corruption and lots of terminations in the last few years. MEPS is corrupt and lets the wrong people through because of friendships, lack of caring, payoffs, and nepotism. Having a third party policing agency at MEPS would fix…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 05:23 PM
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That’s what people want, though. No more societal pressure for marriage or relationships and an increased desire to work causes that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:45 PM
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I’m the military, there are different jobs. Unequal danger is simply part of the job. The military is hostile towards everyone who joins. It’s a war machine. If women don’t want to be equal in the draft, that’s fine, as long as they own it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:43 PM
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It’s higher than in-veteran women as a veteran, whoever told you the military was safe lied to you. One of the links you showed discussed some of the steps being taken to rectify things. However, what’s even more horrible is that the SA is actually seen by the military as a symptom of a larger issue that likely won’t be addressed
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:51 AM
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The same can be said for women. Many want a guy after he’s already built his life and not while he’s building. They want the benefits to the finished product with the bank account and the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:31 AM
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The easy fix is for them to not have kids, work a job they like, and to not contribute while in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:30 AM
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They also have the right to remove constitutional rights, such as the right to remain silent, legal representation, and consideration of evidence and witnesses.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:25 AM
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Is t this just a study of a court system from one state? Are there others from the remaining states, and contrasting or compared studies that show the data from the others?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:22 AM
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Lesbians don’t value a vagina?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 06:15 PM
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I mean… I see multiple women murder kids this month, falsely accuse men and get arrested, and rape students. I cheered at their punishment because the justice system is finally punishing them. I hate those monsters. The rest of women are totally fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 06:10 PM
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The same thing happens to men in teaching. Men have been doing worse in both teaching, nursing, and as students.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 06:07 PM
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Men are constantly belittled at work, school, and in the home. The rest of what you said comes off as projection. The whole you projecting inadequacy onto someone makes it seem like a fake assumption created to fulfill a false narrative. As a passerby, it reminds me of cluster b bullies I used to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 06:03 PM
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Also, there were threads about drunk drivers killing the same amount of people. The comments said that the girl didn’t know what she was doing and should get sympathy because she might have a concussion even though people died. Then, Title IX denying constitutional rights to representation, examination of evidence, presumption of innocence, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 05:58 PM
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Sorry to hear that. Hopefully you have a place to live. Now that you’re free, treat yourself well and treat yourself. I hope you were able to replace your ski equipment and other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:12 AM
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Did you get any of your stuff back, or any money from it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 03:05 AM
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Big memories: My sister got to go to private school. She got drunk and destroyed her car and someone else’s and got a new car. She gave my og Xbox to her old bf. I was targeted by sjws who bullied me and made videos. I ended up exposing them for having alt nazi accounts.l and got their YouTube and X accounts banned. After I moved, my female bully tried to promise a guy she would hang out with him if he helped her to perpetuate a story that I had a school shooter list. She tried that again recent…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 02:46 AM
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What they do. People can think whatever they want, but if it’s not committed to action, they’re just thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 06:10 PM
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No, absolutely not. Wait until your guy friends get home and ask to talk, or get a therapist. Women use it as a weapon of or embarrassment and humiliation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 06:01 PM
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I like Ali Wong and Jenny Tian
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 05:50 PM
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The whole alpha/beta thing has been debunked several times over. Being weird is fine. It’s better than being anti-intellectual. I can’t imagine being offended by people studying and performing well in school.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 05:00 PM
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‘Stemlords’? The fact that you put down studying makes you seem like a dumb person who bullied smart kids, and doesn’t make you seem like the perfect person that you claim. People like you are the reason why the U.S. isn’t competitive on the world stage right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:59 PM
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If that's the case, I hope MAtch Group fails.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:09 PM
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Respectfully, I wasn't. As an analyst, correlation between things I see is something I've found interesting. I simply made an observation. Circlejerking would require me to have an interest in congratulating others, their continued existence, their communities, and/or their interests, as well as believing in groupthink/echo chambers similar to the politics subreddit. The only exception is when reaching a consensus based on data which has been validated, processed, analyzed, and confirmed to be c…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:20 PM
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From a non-biased data standpoint, this is correct. There's been a massive surge in female teachers assaulting students and getting community service and getting off for heinous crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:25 PM
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For anyone who tried to downvote it, there are now four pedo teachers this year, one of which is on the run.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 01:29 PM
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When women call a guy an asshole, it's also because it's someone who doesn't want them, so they try to make him look bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:04 PM
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If it is, everyone successful in the world has to be red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:24 PM
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Be yourself Show feelings Looks don't matter Hit the gym for other people to like the way you look instead of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:21 PM
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Improve at what? Most of my friends, as well as myself are in our 30s We are in better shape now, and have a ton more money and assets. If men don’t improve, there’s likely a reason behind it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:06 PM
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This doesn't even make sense. It's not a rage fantasy. They can have fun and want to get married. They're not entitled to it, though. You're implying all women are good people. I didn't even have to look hard for the reports. You only have to look hard if you ignore everything that shows up in the most basic of searches. Seeing the number of women teachers targeting kids shows that it's not rare at all. It may have been back in the 80s or 90s, but it certainly isn't now. It's only rare for peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 11:27 PM
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Except the way you worded it implied that people don't actually care about the relationships of others. Others includes celebrities. If you wanted them not to be included as people, or people in relationships, you should have worded it as such. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:32 PM
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It doesn't matter, people still obsess over their relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 12:57 PM
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I saw this happen in D4 of Viet Nam. I married a Vietnamese woman, but often saw boomer guys heading to the sex district on my commute to work. It was always the same ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:48 PM
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I saw that happen to someone at NYCC and surprised them with new food and walked away
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:39 PM
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Not true. There are a ton of videos of women crying and asking why they can't find someone. There are also Koreaboos and sex tourists in Ghana.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:38 PM
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You sound like those Chinese families that say the same thing to their 30+ year old female children. Also, 'our' dating market? Who is the 'our', and how much did they pay to buy it? Sounds elitist and a bit narcissistic. Also, one person thinking someone is unwanted doesn't make it true for an entire dating market. You keep using terms like 'we' and 'our', when it's really just your own opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:32 PM
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It's not projection. If you've worked in the corporate world, it's common in my industry to see women destroy each other to get ahead. Also, you're talking about projection while deciding what type of lifestyle people lead. White women are also sex tourists. It's just calling it what it is. Both genders are guilty of it. In a most basic sense, if someone shows that they don't care about a whole group of people, it should be seen as common sense to expect them not to care about another. It's cons…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:29 PM
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It's because women known as 'koreaboos' do so, as well as white female sex tourists in Ghana and Jamaica.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:25 PM
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I saw a bunch on Youtube/Tiktok. It's often white women saying that women overseas are all uneducated, poor, and incapable of making their own decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:19 PM
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It's the same problem with female koreaboos and African sex tourists.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:17 PM
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What about female koreaboos and the female sex tourists in Africa and Jamaica?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:08 PM
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So Travis and Taylor aren't in the news almost daily? We don't see millions of threads about Youtuber relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:05 PM
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I remember seeing lots of videos from white women saying that 'women overseas are uneducated' and are incapable of making their own decisions. Is that why they're being chosen to come here and take engineering jobs over locals?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:05 PM
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Nobody is pretending. Women do it for the same reasons. Women absolutely date men to manipulate them. Paternity fraud, using men as an atm to be the 'safe' guy after finishing their wild days, admitting to using guys for free food, etc. The women don't see them as autonomous boys. As a man in my 30's, a woman could lie and end my life easily. Women can take away our civil rights, and have a ton of times because they don't want their boyfriend to catch them cheating. Teenage females have groped m…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:55 PM
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Women sexually abuse children. There have been plenty of female teachers caught this year. Women also get let off for serious crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:48 AM
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So is female behavior. Have you seen the false accusation cases at universities nationwide? How about female rapist teachers?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:46 AM
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Same with men, especially if they are men from UNC
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:22 PM
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Women say they don’t need men. Maybe it will end with women being forced to take on all the infrastructure jobs, oil rig jobs, and realizing that they can’t maintain nfrastructure that most of them didn’t build.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:11 PM
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When they say that to you, ask of their gender participated in creating infrastructure and see what they say in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 10:17 PM
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I occasionally take on extra contracts for ‘play’ money. I went into a building and was followed to the bathroom by their HR/DEI executive. In a meeting, everyone had their phones on the table, and I was the one yelled at about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 03:01 PM
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White women do it as well. They’re called ‘koreaboos’. They do it in Africa as well. I lived in Asia recently and white worship is still huge. I’m already married, but I saw lots of scummy stuff. However, the ones that do work out are due to two people having ‘traditional’ values that align. Honestly, the nightmare relationships Ive seen there pale in comparison to the U.S. However, I do believe (as a U.S. citizen) that U.S. citizens should be banned from Thailand and Campuchia/Cambodia, because…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 02:52 PM
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They still do that in the twoxchromosomes subreddit, while asking why people hate that subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 02:49 PM
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Whenever I've seen women call men f-boys, it's because the guy is actually just someone who didn't want her. F-boys do exist, but I'm just speaking from what I've seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 05:41 PM
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My neighbor did this. We put a heater and a cat house in our garage for the local homeless cat. He cut out the eye of one and the leg of another.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 11:00 PM
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Women do the same thing. I recently saw multiple stories of women having private folders on their phones of conversations and sexting with friends. One I saw was of her bf’s brother, another was a guy’s best friend. If women didn’t want us to do it, they wouldn’t be teaching it to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:56 PM
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No, they weren’t gay. We are just friends that lift each other up. That’s what good friends do. If you have trouble believing that, you should seriously re-examine your group of friends. If it sounds like a sermon to you, that’s fine, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 02:31 PM
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Many people in my circles ran into it. Instead of falling for it, my friends all banded together to raise each other up and expel the sickness from our lives. The end result is that all of us are now extremely successful
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 01:43 PM
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It’s common in my circles. I know many more than three men that went through it. Between hypergamy and emasculation, men are now far more single than ever. Garbage dads not raising their kids are garbage people. Same with garbage moms
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 01:41 PM
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I think for men, you forgot getting emasculated and humiliated by the wife and her family/friends, and coming home to them cuddling with other dudes and having them and their friends try to convince you that it’s normal. While I got lucky, I see the common stories in my circles often.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:22 PM
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I think that’s subjective
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:01 PM
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I’ve always believed that these shows were created for both groups to cash in. It’s likely all staged for shorts or clips.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:58 PM
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I married an Asian woman. I’ve always believed that submissive was the term used mainly by people that haven’t been outside of the U.S. and are strongly jealous of Asian women. Asian wives handling the money and household is supported by the entire family. It’s not a big deal. I was more so shocked to be scrolling shorts and see TikTok and YouTube videos of Caucasian women calling Asian women uneducated and perpetually unemployed, when it’s often the other way around It made me happy to see the …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:04 PM
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I think the only exception I’ve seen is Randy Orton
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:59 PM
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Not true. Many millionaires I know wear clothes from Walmart and drive a Toyota Camry or old VW Golf
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 12:56 AM
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Because they don’t need to. They just show up for their date and don’t need to talk about money.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 12:32 AM
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No, because most wealthy people date within their own circles and don’t need to wonder what someone makes. They’re weeding out poor people or people who don’t know how to handle money.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 08:53 PM
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Sounds like they’re weeding out the bad options. If they’re holding onto their wealth, their status will remain just fine. Someone who flaunts wealth and is middle class is gonna end up poor
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 08:30 PM
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I’m the first few waves of feminism, feminists barely used the term, while focusing on creating equality between men and when professionally, personally, and socially. The current wave appears to throw away the goals of equality, while stressing ‘inclusion’ for classes and demographic s that claim to not show hate or be exclusive. This is done instead of continuing to push the original ideas, which has caused a backtrack in many areas of life and work
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 09:28 PM
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I think OG feminisms goals aren’t finished. The current wave doesn’t seem to care about those goals
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 09:03 PM
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People assume that because they’re jealous and bitter old crows who think that foreign women are all poor and uneducated.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 02:05 PM
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Why is it your brother’s fault that the guy died, and why is it bad that he took in someone who was forced into homelessness? If my sister took someone in at their lowest point, I’d find it endearing. You should tell your brother that you blame him for all of that and then go no contact.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 02:02 PM
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Nah, him calling himself that was just a made up story. It wasn’t in the post. He ran out of main cash, but still had his pension, and left her a house. Op also mentioned that it was a partnership that took work… like any normal marriage. You’re coming across as bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 01:59 PM
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Og feminists are. Current feminism is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 01:58 PM
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As a guy, I’m going to have to disagree. Guys hate modern feminism, and not og feminism. OG feminism was about equality at home, in the workplace, and society in general. Current feminism is about demonizing men. It sounds like they, according to the actual post, had a partnership, and that she even taught him how to cook her dishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 01:57 PM
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If someone’s recovering from trauma, they should get treatment or find a way to manage it before entering a relationship and punishing an innocent person with their baggage and incumbent biases.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 03:22 PM
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I just stumbled onto this thread. Eric Roth, the writer of the film, implied that Jenny died of AIDS. I believe she also mentions having a virus that doctors don’t have treatment for. If she was sleeping around before figuring that out, then it makes her kind of a bad person. While addicts have an illness, and they’re not always awful, they are capable of awful things. That’s my two cents. Happy Thanksgiving.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 01:23 AM
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Yeah, I even see it on Reddit. I've been happily married for a while, but see younger guys on here getting shamed for not sleeping around with women that aren't even interested in them in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:07 AM
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Do you keep them in the backyard, underneath the flowers, or by the tree with the tire swing?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:03 AM
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I think the problem is that if you don't obsess over your gpa in the last two years, the chances of being trapped with student loans for a lifetime go up exponentially. If they've got to navigate dating, but aren't buried in debt for a lifetime, it's a worthy trade-off. They've got the remainder of their life to figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:48 AM
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It depends how you look at it. If you get a good gpa and can score scholarships, you're saving yourself from a lot of difficulties later in life, such as being trapped by student loans.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:47 AM
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If they approach nicely, possibly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:43 PM
1

So… in a library open to all students, she owns the chair and has the right to tell him that he can or can’t sit in it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:28 PM
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It’s likely he will. Colleges abuse Title IX all the time, often ending up with the male student suing and winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:24 PM
1

I thought what they wanted was simple: 6'8, 255lbs, 600,000 annual salary, with 1 million and above in real estate holdings, a spousal trust fund, and no living family members.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:15 PM
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The whole alpha/beta thing is nothing more than a sham and a grift meant to get 13 year olds to convince their parents to give their cash to grifters under the guise of 'self-improvement'.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 05:05 PM
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It's not a shit test. That's a crock. If you aren't in a place where you can't handle yourself and being independent, how can you expect someone else to want to be with you? In a way, it's a type of emotional baggage. The idea is to spend time learning to be at peace with yourself and the world around you. Time alone gives you time to reflect on your life, and to make changes that will move you steps towards becoming more happy and successful. Once you've achieved that, you can handle being an e…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 05:00 PM
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I don't think it's the pill that's the problem. It's likely that one party stopped investing into the relationship and/or doing their part, and the person who got off the birth control figured it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 04:57 PM
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I don't think it's pointless. If you're funny/charismatic, it's certainly possible to change minds. When he was super young, Mick Foley married a model. She wasn't attracted to him, but fell for him because of his humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 04:56 PM
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I’m not the person you were talking to. However, Brady quite literally admitted that she waited until a very specific time to post the texts. I’d say that was calculated.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 12:11 PM
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Education certainly has something to do with it. If people aren't taught about red flags, they can make more informed decisions about who they date. Education doesn't only involve subject matter taught inside of classrooms at Stanford. There are social queues, situations, and types of personalities that people need to be taught about, which aren't often the subject matter found in classrooms. I'm surprised that your go-to reference involving Brock Turner is also one of our country's massive fail…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 12:37 AM
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This video doesn't go against anything that I said. I'm not speaking for people from other countries. I'm talking about people from my own. You'd actually have been able to come to that conclusion had you actually bothered to read what I said. This video in no way shows data that there aren't passport bros and other sex tourists who go overseas to take advantage of women from poor areas, or who didn't have the education that the people in your video (which I'd already seen and didn't need linked…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:56 PM
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Because they go to places where people are really poor and look for women to take advantage of, who don't know any better. It's different from finding someone online or in person and having an equal partnership. If pretty women would be taking advantage if they use it to get money or things from people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 10:40 PM
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There’s a difference between online dating with someone overseas and being a passport bro. If you’re a passport bro, you’re racially taking advantage of people and doing scummy stuff. If you want to date and marry someone overseas, that’s fine. Passport bird treat people like meat, and it’s horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 10:52 AM
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I hate abusive people as much as the next person. If he's abusive, she could have got an order of protection, restraining order, or some other form or legal protection. She admitted to waiting until the baby was born so that the person he's with 'could make their own decision'. If she was well-intentioned, she would have reached out to the person he's with as soon as they got together. Nobody's whining about her motive, they're just making observations. Picking and choosing which parts of the ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 11:33 PM
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He went into a relationship and tried to essentially change who she was. He went into it knowing that they were incompatible and then became upset at the expected result. In turn, he went from discussing his emotions and boundaries to becoming very controlling. In terms of the actual post, the timing of it is extremely suspect. Waiting until the guy starts a family to drop all of this reeks of bitterness, jealousy, and anger. If she didn't like the guy and felt that he was controlling, she was w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 11:02 PM
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I think there are a few things happening here. I don't get why he didn't realize they were incompatible and just end stuff in the 'dating phase' before becoming exclusive. Him being insecure and controlling both seem like large, but separate issues. It's sad that he's dealing with insecurity. However, he messed up by becoming controlling. I'm a guy and can see that as plain as day. I think that the specific timing of her leak, as well as her doing this publicly instead of privately, shows that m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 10:54 PM
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Why can't I criticize both at the same time?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 03:37 AM
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Jason Mamoa is sometimes someone with a dad bod. He was publicly shamed on Instagram by women after gaining weight. I looked at the profiles, and they were all extremely overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 07:50 PM
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The idea of men or women feeling entitled to friendship is messed up. Also, telling someone who caught feelings how to react and/or process those feelings sounds extremely controlling.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:44 PM
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They are managing and overcoming the discomfort, in their own way, and not yours. What you're really saying that is you're asking for them to manage and overcome it in a way that's beneficial to you, and that feels right to you and not to them. The way that you worded it sounds like shaming. Just because you do something doesn't mean that it should be the de facto standard. Live your life your way, and people will do the same. Just because the discomfort doesn't kill you doesn't mean that you sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:38 PM
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Nobody said anything about stuff being deep. That must have been a different conversation. If someone had a hoe phase, good for them. People can settle down afterward. However, it doesn’t lessen the possibility that for some, it either causes or gives the perception that they’re unable to commit. Also, I don’t know who this ‘y’all’ is. Are you under the perception that I’m Venom? I’m one person. If you don’t have consequences, that’s great. However, I’m sure that’s not the case for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:42 AM
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Having sex with that many people says that they’re perpetually single for a reason or have commitment issues, at least, imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:46 PM
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Her life sounds good.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:13 PM
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I think if the four of you have a special relationship, that’s fine with you. I think people in a relationship where it’s just two people have a right to feel uncomfortable by it. That’s not a problem. It’s a normal expression of boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:44 PM
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There were even multiple threads in another subreddit defending women staying in hotels with their male best friends. They were sleeping in the same bed and the bf got called insecure. It’s definitely being weaponized.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:41 PM
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This will be kind of long, so apologies. I do artist alleys around the US. I'm also going to format it a little bit strangely to separate ideas. Adin's church, which is basically like a Westboro group in my state, would attack people outside the doors of comic cons and mtg pre-releases in my city. I wanted to use fake-crazy to out-crazy them in order to protect congoers. I got bored and looked up my very ancient family history to see if I could find some religious nonsense to use. While I don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:55 PM
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I think you're mostly right. However, you got one tiny thing incorrect: You can actually make decent money playing MTG for a living. It's not always six figures, but if they're good at it, it's certainly possible. Everything else, I agree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:31 PM
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This is anecdotal, but I saw it happen the other day in the Fashion District. The approach was gross. The guy and his group walked up barking and telling the girl she looked good. People are loony sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:28 PM
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It's the same in my city. However, there's a funny way to deal with the religious zealouts (Adin's Church/West Boro types). My way worked and it was a great deal of fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:27 PM
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If a woman tests a guy, she's not really worth dating in the first place. If she has the desire to do something in hopes that it will make someone fall apart, she should do some serious introspection. I'd honestly never date someone like that. If you like someone, you don't treat them like that. I've seen many occurrences of what you mentioned in number two. That's also a major bullet for guys to dodge. Women claim that they hate lack of warmth and empathy while demanding men to be stoic and ess…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:25 PM
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I heard a woman ask this exact thing yesterday. It's hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:06 PM
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I usually assume that those types of stories aren't true. Usually, they're just a recorded video and then a statement that has no basis in fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:05 PM
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A lot of young people are capable of handling a lot more than older people. They're the next generation. If you're into smug postering, that's fine. No need to project that onto me. The pre-frontal cortex of the brain doesn't develop until the age of 25. I'm happy for your friend landing a leadership position. that doesn't really change my mind aout anything, though. I didn't know your friend, so him asking me to do anything whatsoever doesn't really apply here. I'm not projecting. I was simply …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:21 AM
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I believe that anyone under 25 is a child. It's not meant as disrespect. I'm aware that there are 18-25 year old sugar babies. To me, yes, they are children, and it bothers me at my core. We may disagree on that, and that's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:10 AM
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Yes, I worked many difficult jobs as a young man, including the military, as well as many other dangerous and difficult jobs. While your friend is likely very brave and strong, he, like me, was a child during that time. What I would find disrespecful is for someone to not give him a right to a childhood. It sounds like your friend either willingly chose, or was put into a very difficult situation where he had to live a life in a dangerous situation. For whatever his reasons were, he took a diffi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:05 AM
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I'm a guy. I see anyone under 25 as a child. That's not meant as an insult. They haven't hit their first quarter of life yet. They deserve to get to have their childhood and make their mistakes. I have no problem if people disagree on tha point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 11:50 PM
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Dating people is totally fine. The manosphere is like any other part of celebrity culture: it's toxic. However, as a society, we haven't addressed the root cause of what people makes men susceptible to it. However, I have seen plenty of scenarios with friends where women will settle for them because they're a 'provider' or 'stable'. It does happen. Also, I'm happy that your kid is still whole, and not like... 1/2 or 3/4. Yes, I have weird humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 07:29 PM
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That's good that you found someone that likes you. However, someone not wanting to be in a relationship with someone with a lot of sexual history doesn't make them disgusted by women who have sex. That's simply projection of a false narrative and a strawman. Best of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 07:22 PM
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Nah, that's just some narrative being projected onto me. I live a very blessed life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 04:18 AM
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Again- there's a difference between sharing and dumping your trauma onto someone. I'm a military vet. Would I expect myself to share it once and never again? Absolutely. Therapists exist. I don't expect people to be my therapist. Expecting people to move on from stuff isn't right. However, expecting someone to carry your trauma and have to live with it at the sacrifice of their own mental health isn't right either. I agree, expecting people to move on isn't fair. However, carrying someone else's…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 02:47 AM
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Sharing your day with someone isn't the same as trauma dumping. If you want to share your trauma, it's one thing to do it once. If it's a constant occurrence, it becomes trauma dumping. Men shouldn't be expected to be an emotional trauma sponge. If someone is constantly putting their trauma onto another person, that's not sharing, it's asking someone else to carry it. That has a lasting effect. They're told that it's bad growing up. Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 02:12 AM
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I'm aware of what the topic is. It's absolutely possible that them opening up can be the end of a relationship. Men can absolutely be liars, who are emotionally stunted and narcissistic and play the victim. However, women are just as capable of lying, manipulating, cheating, and suffering from narcissistic personality disorder. Men don't always know when a relationship ends because it's not always made clear, especially when women jump to the next guy without saying anything. Ghosting is a also …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 07:50 PM
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The same could be send about women. Women use crocodile tears and threats of fake accusations or taking the kids as a Hail Mary manipulation tactic to save the relationship when it's clear that it's over. So many men have bad experiences with women after they've opened up, or after the women have fucked up. Suddenly, they want to cry about their ex, that guy that 'they weren't interested in', or that women who ran Low Key Stonks losing money on NFTs. Most women have emotional intelligence, but z…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 06:21 PM
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Men and women try to use whatever they can to rationalize things. It's not just men doing it. I do think that men tend to rely on their spouse as their sole emotional support, when they shouldn't be doing it at all. Men get therapy, we just don't talk about it, because it's good not to. Most men I know who are in therapy don't tell the women in their life because they don't trust them not to gossip about it. A lot of men don't have the same opportunities as women to make friends. We don't open u…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 05:35 PM
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I think it depends on what the specific behavior and attitudes are. If a man is rotten in the face of being raised correctly, that's on him. If a man is rotten due to the way he was brought up, or a lack of family and support structure, I also blame the parents. What's that saying... 'the whim of the criminal mind dictates all purposeful harm in society. This includes heredity, environment, context, etc.'
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 05:16 PM
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I don't necessarily agree with this. I blame it on parents, the social support structure, and the kid being too lost to figure it out on their own. I don't blame the women who they approach, but I certainly blame the mother and father in the situation. I don't think it's just their problem. It depends on if their family failed to raise them correctly as well as themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 05:14 PM
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I don't know about whether they're ugly, because beauty is in the eye of the beholder. However, awkwardness is likely due to a lack of social interaction and a failure of the people around him. There's plenty of entitlement on the other side, but it's aimed at bank accounts and nice cars. I find that creepy and a special kind of ugliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 05:11 PM
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Men work hard, come home, and play video games or participate in another interest. The only people that would shame them for that are the type of people who are bought and paid for by companies, who sell out their own people and shame them for having interests outside of work. There's a non-spoken rule for every gender out there that you have to work to eat, and if you don't, you'll be easy prey to starvation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 04:45 PM
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I'll second this. The best thing to do at work is to do one's job and just stay away as far way from them as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:28 AM
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I saw op’s other thread. The gaslighting was fierce.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:37 PM
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I hate Tate. However, the video involved a co-star, and your statement was already debunked.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:06 PM
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This is probably the best comment in the whole thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 08:48 PM
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Last Father's Day, there were people on Twitter trying to say that they should get to have Father's Day because they are a single mom, or that fathers didn't deserve it. Giving men validation apparently takes an incredible amount of effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 01:15 AM
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That's pretty crazy to have made it ten years. I have an account that's around that age, but only 8 years. I don't use it anymore. I feel the need to start over every few years. I can't really explain it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 09:53 PM
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Speaking of passport bros: I wish there was a way to get something to the top without getting karma from it. There are Youtubers: FatandBroke LaoWhy86 SerpentZa They were passport bros. One is basically a rapist, one is a con, and one dug up bones in an asian country and forced his wife to watch. When she looked away, he screamed at her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:43 AM
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I agree with pretty much all of this. Also, it wasn't that I was taking it personally. It's more that I'm trying to spread the word. I generally worry about the permanent damage that LaoWhy86, FatandBroke, and SerpentZa will do in the long run. Also, I was just probing and asking questions. It's an old habit from teaching. When something's not clear, I try to dig a bit to gain clarity and understanding. I apologize if that came off as intrusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:41 AM
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I'm not trying to justify it. I'm saying that you were, in part, correct. However, I'm not a fan of generalizations. It happens a lot. However, there are a ton of successful, happily married international couples. I also don't believe that just because someone lives in a third world country, that they're all completely helpless people or unable to understand the decisions that they're making. I know for a fact of specific situations where you're correct, and it's often places where the local wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:34 AM
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Yeah, it's been awesome! I've been to 18 countries. I can only speak for my own experiences. However, from what I've noticed thus far, the whole 'weak and docile housewife' thing was gossip and rumors that were definitely not true. I think what happened is that people traveled to Japan and misconstrued people being helpful for them being weak and docile, and then essentially played 'pass it down the line' until it became a stereotype. I could be wrong, and am willing to admit if I am. My wife is…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:23 AM
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That's what happened for me. I married a wonderful Viet woman. She challenges me and makes me adapt and better myself. Honestly, if he's struggling, that's good if it fuels his fire. Otherwise, it's exactly what you said. When we started dating, my wife and I both made a plan that I would try to meet a specific milestone in order to handle our family business.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:18 AM
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For transparency, I have an international marriage. While in some cases, you can be correct, it's not always correct. What you've said is also used as a tool to keep men in unhappy marriages domestically. Just like the 'losers back home', there are also the 'manipulators back home' who want to manipulate people into bad relationships at home by shaming them for going abroad to find a higher quality person.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:16 AM
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I have an international marriage. It's work, but it's worth it. I dated a ton in the US, but didn't feel like I found anyone that was 'marriage material' who wanted a family and to be on the same, equal wavelength.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:13 AM
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Correct. My wife is Vietnamese, but she just acts like she always has since we started dating. She was already Americanized. I honestly didn't care either way, because she's super smart and teaches me stuff all the time. However the one thing you should remember is that even when they're partially assimilated, the important parts of the culture remain. America has been trying to commit to killing asian cultures, but they're failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:11 AM
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I wonder about something, though. If they need to stop telling the women that don't want them, who is providing the spreadsheet with the names of people that don't want them which would allow them to be informed? Also, I don't understand the whole 'threatening a party'. Do you mean that someone is walking into a party with a loaded weapon? Why did you not report them to the police? Mass shootings carry a heavy sentence now. The most recent one got 34 different life sentences. I married a Viet na…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:10 AM
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I'm a guy. I'm short, and never had interest in them. However, I like to do silly impressions while in the store sometimes, and decided to do an impersonation of the RDJ lifts moments from the first Iron Man. I have to say: lifts are painful af. I will never try them again, even for a funny moment. They hurt way more than I thought they would.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:03 AM
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Probably some neckbeard posing as the first girl to get Reddit karma and TikTok attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:00 AM
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I saw a comment that made a lot of sense to me the other day. It went something like 'women want men to be vulnerable for them and not to them'. They want guys to feel specific emotions 'at the right time'.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 10:54 PM
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The problem with this mentality is that it completely discounts actual investments and claims that someone's broke because they don't have on-hand liquid cash. That doesn't mean that they can't provide for a family at all. Just because someone doesn't want to waste $100 bucks on a meal doesn't mean they're bad off financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 10:34 PM
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That's because it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 10:30 PM
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The men aren't the ones determining that their money is what gives them romatntic value. However, f he had said value, why would he share that value, in turn, losing said thing that people say gives him value, especially with someone who may not even stick around? It sounds like the type of relationship to avoid. It's the whole someone who wants their partner to save so they can build later vs. someone who just wants a guy to spend money on them and has not a care in the world regarding long-ter…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 10:30 PM
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How does one get access to the financials and documentation of their partner's past relationships? Wouldn't that be illegal?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 10:25 PM
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That, or they peaked in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 07:25 AM
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Honestly, if I was still single and someone was concerned with that, I'd immediately assume that they peaked in high school. I don't care about their dating life before me, and I don't need to know who or why someone dating people in high school/college.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 07:25 AM
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I think that in high school and college, it's a massive distraction that can send one down the wrong path. The final years of high school, along with one's college years, pretty much determine one's chance at success early on in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 07:17 AM
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https://www.dictionary.com/browse/nonsensical
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 10:33 PM
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Correct. I have multiple jobs. However, because I'm good at what I do, I'm able to work smart, and not hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 10:27 PM
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I agree with what you said. I hate that they (Red Pill followers) change the intention behind why someone should work out. It should be for themselves and not to get a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 10:25 PM
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Honestly, most of what you just wrote is completely nonsensical. I honestly feel bad for you at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 10:21 PM
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I have to work a lot to get by? Who said that? However, if you don't like to work, no judgement here. Do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 10:18 PM
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I'm aware that the nickname 'Dick' is shorthand for the name 'Richard'. This is common knowledge. Also, I don't care about Harry's shirt. Harry isn't my concern in the least. Also, your last sentence was missing a common, and was a sentence fragment. Why would I 'farm' a sentence? What is a 'fall sentence'? You didn't capitalize the first letter of your second sentence. For example: 'you're's' is neither a word, nor a contraction. I don't need to 'sound clever'. You keep mentioning me 'sounding …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 10:17 PM
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I wouldn't know about 'bumping at the bottom'. I work full-time and part-time, and that's discounting my side hustles. If you're a fan of people 'bumping at the bottom', that's a you thing. No need to project. Also, I explained how autocorrect to you. I'm assuming you weren't able to understand that explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 10:13 PM
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You can call me whatever you want. However, the proof is all there. You make constant grammar and sentence structure mistakes. Also, you keep avoiding the fact that it was you that started this topic, and are now angry at it. If you're going to call someone names, be able to live up to the opposite. Since you've proven that you can't, all of the insults you've sent my way get rebounded right back to you. Also, just typing 'Dick' makes it a sentence fragment, or at least, would, if you had ended …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 10:10 PM
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It looks like you've made another mistake! I mentioned in one of my other responses to you that autocorrect exists, and that it is, by default, enabled on most phones. You would have realized that had you been able to keep up with this discussion. Again, the list of mistakes you've made thus far is staggering, and I'm having fun keeping count. You can sling insults until you're blue in the face, but you've proven time and again that you live up to the definitions of said insults. My argument is …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 10:07 PM
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I know a lot of words. However, you're the one who thought of the idea of using words to try to be clever. Since you're the one that thought up that fantasy, I'll let you answer that question. I wasn't going off topic at all. Did you really forget that you moved the goalposts, and decided that the very topic that you created was based around the foolish ideas of 'you're a moron' and 'you're and idiot'. If you were upset with the topics, you shouldn't have moved the goalposts and shifted the topi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 10:00 PM
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Again, calling someone an idiot isn't helping your argument. You once again started your sentence with 'you're' instead of 'your', while calling someone an idiot. Sit back and really think about that. All I have to do is sat back and watch while you make yourself look like a fool. My argument isn't 'I know you are but what am I'. My argument is simple: you're on a platform calling people things like 'moron' and 'idiot', while proving yourself uneducated. You can continue this discussion all you …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 09:50 PM
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The fact that you're trying to tell me that the use of basic grammar makes someone an idiot and a moron tells everyone in the comments exactly what they need to know about you. You're making up excuses for shortcomings. If you're going to use a specific ad hominem attack, you have better live up to the opposite of it. You typing quickly and loosely is an excuse. Also, you do realize that most phones come with autocorrect, that is by default, turned on, right? You can make up excuses, use ad homi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 09:47 PM
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Projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 09:29 PM
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No, I was able to figure out that you repeatedly said that you're arguing for one party to pay more. Then, you switched your argument to say that you'd be happy to pay halves, meaning equal halves, i.e. 50/50. You called me a moron because you essentially claim that the idea of power dynamics in a relationship is 'fake news', which it certainly isn't. I looked at my last message as I typed it. Are you capable of reading comprehension? Also, it's not 'a' reading comprehension. Look at your last m…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 09:29 PM
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No, but if you do, that's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 09:13 PM
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I believe that one person paying more (with the exception with a stay at home situation) creates potential issues with power dynamic in relationships. Because you disagree with me, I'm a moron? No, that's not how real life works. We call what you just did an ad hominem attack. I don't know about you, but I'm married. Minus Utah, having multiple wives is very much not legal. I'm glad that I just proved that you're just gaslighting and projecting your narrative onto others. Do you make up stories …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 09:11 PM
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I'm familiar with the difference between dating and exclusivity. My original point still stands. Even if they're just 'exclusive', I stand by my original point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 09:01 PM
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If we're both paying more in an equal amount, I'd be ok with it. Since you raised specific issues in the first place, it is, indeed, a you issue. I'm glad that you're more than happy to go halves. I've been arguing that it's the best thing to do thus far, and you've been arguing against it, and now you're changing course and then telling me that it's my problem. It is by definition a you problem. It's not 'living worse off' by living in a place that two people agree that they can equally afford.…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 09:00 PM
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If you're not legally married, you are in an exclusive relationship. However, doing so before marriage isn't always a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 08:58 PM
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It doesn't. Life is good. If you're interested in 'someone getting a better deal', that's a you thing. I'm more interested in both people getting an equal deal based on the equal work and finances that they put in.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 08:44 PM
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Just because you're dating someone or exclusive doesn't mean that you have to live together. Just because you're dating someone or exclusive doesn't mean that you're solely responsible for their finances. If you choose to live separately while dating or exclusive, that's not 'paying more for less'. It's retaining independence while waiting to see if there's long-term potential in the relationship. Also, for posterity, it's 'you're'. 'Your' is a possessive adjective, while 'you're' is a contracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 08:43 PM
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As do I. That doesn't change my previous statement in the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 08:27 PM
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I'm not saying that partners don't have specific obligations. However, until you're married, you don't have those types of financial obligations. It's ok in 2022 to live separately. It's totally fine to wait until both parties are on equal footing. There's a difference between helping someone and taking on more of a long-term obligation. If I was having financial difficulties, it's my job to fix that. Bringing baggage, especially financial baggage into a marriage is a recipe for absolute disaste…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 08:26 PM
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I'm willing to choose a less good place to live if it means both of us are on equal footing. If you consider that selfish, that's definitely a you problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 08:22 PM
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No, I'm not. You're trying to project me spinning my words onto me. I never said that whatever this 'bricky' is has a part to play. If they both pay equally, and contribute to things in the home evenly, they are equal. It is absolutely a good way to view an equal relationship. It prevents power imbalances. It has plenty to do with it, but that's being ignored by you. You using emojis isn't going to change that fact. The fantasy I was discussing was the one where you completely misconstrued what …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 08:03 PM
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Incorrect. You'd live in a place she can't afford so she can live in a place she can afford. Instead of joining together as best you can, you wait until you can find a place that is reasonable and within the budget of both. It's also weird how you're saying I'd be obligated to foot the bill for someone because of a situation that they chose. While you're dating, adults are allowed to live wherever they want. This whole thing about the more wealthy person footing the bill because reasons is idiot…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:55 PM
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I'm not viewing it as something from financial gain. I'm looking at it based on a foundation of equality. If two people are working, they should pick a place where they can both afford to pay half. Everyone pulls their weight. Equal treatment down the center. Whatever the difference in pay is goes to their individual accounts, or a joint account, based on their own preferences. What you're saying is that I'm saying I'll only be with them based on their income. You can be with someone and not liv…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:08 PM
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No, that's not what I'm saying. That's what you're saying I'm saying. If you're saying 'Dear god.' to something you came up with, you may want to spend time thinking about that. No, according to YOU the bricky just simply isn't pulling his weight enough. That's a you issue, not a me issue. If you have an issue with me saying that people should be viewed as equal partners, that's a you problem. If you live with someone and both decide to work, it should be up to the couple to buy a place that's w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:01 PM
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We're mostly on the same page. However, I believe that if one partner earns more, that there should still be an obligation to live in a place within the means of both people. While you seem to be the exception to the rule (which is great, do you), I would worry about a potential power imbalance in the situation for at least one person. While I don't think you're the type of person to laud it over someone, I can't say the same about others. Because I'm also frugal, I'd ask the person who made mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:53 PM
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Say your rent is $1000, and your total utilities are $200. Basically, you divide it evenly. The idea is to become a team, and live within both of your means. Just because someone has a lot of money doesn't mean that they have to use it. If a partner doesn't want to pay an equal amount of a place that they can both afford, they don't have to stay in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:35 PM
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It's not viewing them as a financial asset. It's viewing them as an equal partner. If one partner doesn't stick to the plan and pull their weight, the other has a right to be upset. If there's an agreement for one to stay at home, that's different. If the house was lost, that would be dependent on the situation. If they were supposed to contribute half of the mortgage and didn't, half the blame would go on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:16 PM
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I'm going to have to disagree with this. If they are both working, they should both contribute to the future of the couple. She shouldn't get to bank every dollar she makes while he's putting in all of the work towards their future. Why should he reduce her expenses? Even if he's rich, until they're married, they should split everything evenly. Why should one person have to grind along while the other does nothing?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:14 PM
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I think this is situational.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:12 PM
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Men are absolutely approached to do this. It's quite literally why the terms 'emotional tampon' and 'emotional sponge' exist. Everyone absolutely has an instinct to give advice in these situations. However, women give 'good common sense advice' based on what's for them and what will directly benefit them. Suppressing it when it isn't called for doesn't seem to be a thing that's actually happening. Don't pretend like it's something you can't get over rather than just refusing to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:14 PM
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Men are punching walls and women are falsely accusing men of stuff and doing lasting, permanent damage to them and their loved ones and then also say 'look what you made me do'.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 05:48 AM
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The thing is, maybe you would be doing those techniques. Other people wouldn't, because those would be beneficial to men, but not society.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 05:39 AM
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We like to think that because it's true. e. We're approached to essentially be an emotional sponge or tampon, and then use problem solving as a way to cope with it. It's literally built into men to solve problems because we don't want to deal with the emotional drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 05:34 AM
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I only come bearing my opinion. To me, the concept of 'the wall' is a fairy tale, just like most stuff related to dating that you find online. People like what they like and are the sum total of their experiences and belief systems.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 11:17 PM
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What? Lmao. That would be around 387 million people, no? Also, where are these rules published that say people can't do it, and where are the statistics that say that people aren't doing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:58 AM
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If she gives a chance to him after a long time, it means that things didn't work out with her Plans A or B, and so she looked for the 'safe' option. It only leads to disaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 11:55 PM
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If they're at a screen learning music theory, audio engineering, or programming, or using Rosetta Stone to learn a language, then a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 11:52 PM
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I already did, multiple times. I explained the key points, as did numerous people who have said the same exact thing. If you didn't get that already, that's not on me. Maybe re-read the comments in the comments section and then do some self reflection.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 11:15 PM
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You want me to re-post your entire post? Can I have your permission before I do that? Literally your entire post is a generalization based on three anecdotes that you provided.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 11:13 PM
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I did... by reading your post. My original point still stands. Also, like someone else said: all you've got to do is read your post history. Your judgement is askew and your bias completely informed your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 11:10 PM
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I don't know who they are. Was I supposed to?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:53 PM
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While the specific examples that you gave are bad, attempting to use those to create a blanket statement is disingenuous. This whole post reads like a call to arms to hate all men based on three examples of you meeting the worst kind of people. 'They're bad, so all men are!'. If the genders reversed, op wouldn't be putting up the same post.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:43 PM
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I don't believe in feeling insecure based on what other people are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:39 PM
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Honestly... it's ok to know what you want in a person you're going to give your time to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 09:54 PM
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While it would still be a problem, it would be far less of one if people realized one simple thing: People of modest means continue to elect and re-elect these people that don't care about them. There are absolutely important issues. However, A lot of these 'issues' are really just politicians and corporations lobbying to keep us divided and people perpetuating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 12:46 PM
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That's literally what most people do. Everyone is selfish, no matter how much they try to cover it up. It's the human condition. I'm not gonna put your needs over my need to feed myself and keep a roof over your head. If you can't stand my selfishness, I'll be ok with that while taking care of myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 06:46 PM
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What's wrong with caring about oneself and one's own needs? You make that sound like a horrible thing. It's literally every human that ever existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 06:02 PM
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Not sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:33 AM
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So if a guy doesn’t marry a local, he’s a bitter, pissy hating twat from the Manosphere that can’t possibly be in a happy relationship? I don’t buy that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:20 AM
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What’s sad is that there’s also the female equivalent on Reddit now, too. The FDS and twox communities exist now as well. It’s all just nastiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:19 AM
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The same thing can be said about American women, especially the ones that go to Kore, Vietnam, and Africa.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:16 AM
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No problem! I'll explain my way of thinking: Basically, a few things seem to have happened: She slept around or whatever, which is fine. Her body, girl lives her best life, it's fine. She decides she wants to change who she was in the past, and decides not to sleep around. Again, her body, girl lives her best life, again, it's fine. However, in creating her change, she strings someone else along who also has needs, and doesn't give him the same equal treatment that she gave other guys. While her…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 11:26 PM
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No, I'm not. People have their own stuff going on, and what will be is going to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 10:03 PM
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He's being mean. I care about what you think Please keep expressing yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:24 PM
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Keep standing your ground. Don't listen to him. Please keep talking and expressing yourself. He tries to shut down opinions he doesn't like by bullying people. It's a regular occurrence.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:17 PM
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I think this is fair. I think a lot of it likely stems from marketing campaigns and generations falling for them and passing down what they think is accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 05:08 PM
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No, my response isn't basically 'no you'. The response that you attempted to create for me is 'no you'. There's a difference. I suppose that's no more laughable than your original comment. There is absolutely projection on your part. I am making statements, and am not required to back up an opinion. Just because you decide that someone has no clue about something doesn't mean that they have less than zero understanding of a topic. You don't need to 'suppose' it's true. It is true. You having a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 05:01 PM
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So you're projecting again. Got it. I don't need to 'address' anything. I'm good. I'm not running around in circles at all. I've been very clear. If you're into running in circles, that's a you thing. No need to project. If I had a plan to make any proclamation about anything at all, I'm not required to pick up a historical source. In order to be entitled to any opinion at all, all I have to do is... exist, regardless of whatever requirements you may have come up with. You don't get to dictate h…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:40 PM
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My question is: better according to who?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:26 PM
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Correct, that was my reaction to you: what the hell are you talking about? You made a dumbass statement that is one of the common ones from the NPC standard response list, but you know less than nothing about what you're talking about. I'm not babbling about you projecting. You were projecting. If you have 'actual knowledge' about something in life, that's great! Good on you. I'd be concerned if you didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:21 PM
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If you're thinking stupid things that can't be a result of any knowledge level on anything, that's a you problem. No need to project your thoughts onto others.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:03 PM
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Not at all. If it's based on your deep and widespread knowledge of the primary historical sources of the time, and not at all a result of you accepting the cynical materialism that is all the rage these days like every other NPC, then that's a you thing. No need to project your thoughts onto others.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 03:53 PM
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It sounds like didn't just dodge a bullet, but pulled a full Matrix Neo.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 03:44 PM
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To quote another user on here, 'you didn't just dodge a bullet, you pulled a full Matrix Neo'.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 03:43 PM
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I was just reading through the comments. The women in this sub would be counted within the study that was cited. You also proved his point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 03:38 PM
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His girlfriend absolutely has a right to make the decisions about her own body. He also has the right to not stick around and be forced to pay the penance for something that didn't involve him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 03:32 PM
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In my opinion chivalry was never real. It was just a made up concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 02:37 PM
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Women also make the choice to get married, and should also take responsibility for it not working out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 02:35 PM
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For some reason. I read the thread title in Mr. Satan’s voice
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:15 PM
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It likely is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:29 PM
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Or are you creating a fantasy in your head about him creating a fantasy and then attempting to project it on him in an attempt to prop up your own ego?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:26 PM
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No, it's not realistic. People need to learn to be comfortable with themselves. Telling a demographic to be confident is hypocritical when you consider that men were told to not react to stimuli around them and internalize their emotions for the benefit of those that need them to react a specific way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 08:12 PM
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This question is kind of nonsensical. People have specific stuff that they're looking for in someone else. Sure, women have it easier in the dating pool. However, that's not really their fault, per se. However, there's this whole thing I see on Reddit where there's a push to build yourself based on the desires of some nameless, faceless person that you've never met. Put the work in because you want to be a better person physically and mentally. If you stumble onto someone you like during that ad…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:46 PM
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We met on a non-dating travel website. It wasn't like a 'Tinder' or 'eHarmony' type thing for dating. It's kind of like a foreign version of Meetup where you find people with common interests in travel to try and go to events or make friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:41 PM
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If you're in the US and never go out of the country, this is true. However, as someone who's traveled the world and back, short guys very much have a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:38 PM
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Respectfully, I disagree. I didn't use Tinder or go to parties and am happily married. Getting hobbies is good, but one shouldn't be getting hobbies as a way to satisfy someone else. Socializing is fine, but doing so with the intention of looking for a date is, in my opinion, kinda against what should happen naturally. I tell people to live their life and when you're in the middle of investing into yourself, you'll figure out what type of person fits into the life you've built for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:32 PM
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I only disagree with one part of this: Red pill's not the only thing teaching men to hide emotions. This goes back to basic family and societal expectations and social structures. Mothers and fathers ingrained it in their male kids for generations, because it's apparently what they expected/wanted. Unfortunately, it happens in dating as well. In the end, all it does is boils up and creates horrible stuff like school shootings and other types of crimes and then all the sudden, generations of indo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:23 PM
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I agree with the 'teaching social skills' part. However, being comfortable with yourself in any situation doesn't come from being around other people, it has to come from yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:16 PM
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I would imagine it would come down to money and putting time in the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:51 AM
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So like any person in existence regardless of gender. In my opinion, people are born rotten and have to work on it. When people get disinfranchised, they seem to give up and give in to their base nature because it's one of the few remaining options left.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:49 AM
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Yep! So far, two seasons with two different casts. There's a third season now with a third cast coming in the next few months. It has no business being that good. I hate to say it, but as someone who grew up with the original, the new one is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 04:48 PM
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I mostly agree with you. However, the Are You Afraid of the Dark reboot has no business being that good. It's the exception to the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 03:43 PM
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While I would agree with you if this embellishing were happening in real life, I'll have to disagree when it comes to Reddit. Most of these stories are written by people who are farming karma. While there are certainly exceptions, many are new accounts who never comment/respond to their own posts. Housework on Reddit needs to be done, but likely won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:19 AM
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I've never trusted stories that come out of girls or guys nights, either. They tend to be embellished, with little bits of truth sprinkled in to act as the basis for the story. Most of the stories I see on Reddit are nothing more than attempts at karma farming, and the users disappear if they don't get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 01:39 AM
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Incorrect. It has nothing to do with women having standards. Men aren't offended by people with standards unless they're someone from r/niceguys, or they're an abusive/narcissistic/emotionally manipulative, insecure person. Is FDS a threat to negging/abuse/manipulative men? Sure, maybe. However, their tactics are essentially to learn from them and use the same strategy on men in order for some sense of empowerment. Women are allowed to have standards. Women pretty much run most of the dating app…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 12:05 AM
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I was of the understanding that most of those stories were works of fiction written by new users to farm karma.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 11:55 PM
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They won't. She'll get like... a suspended sentence and let go after good behavior.
/r/MensRights08/10/21 06:32 PM
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If she has 'good behavior', the suspended sentence means she'll serve none of it.
/r/MensRights08/10/21 06:19 PM
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Honestly, I believe that red pill/black pill/blue pill/pink pill/mgtow/femaledatingstrategy is all just one group of people pulling the wool over peoples' eyes. In my opinion, they're trying to create or cash in on vulnerable, impressionable young people. They want you to watch their videos, and buy the courses or pamphlets before they 'tell you the secrets' or whatever. It's essentially one tier below an mlm/pyramid scheme.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 07:36 AM
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Most guys that are living life well are doing so because they have people around them that allow them to be weak at times. Those people lift them up and help them to become their best selves,. Having been allowed to be weak at times teaches empathy towards others, and increases respect for the self and for others. The type of parents (men and women) that expect men to be strong all day and night are essentially the kind that don't parent their male children, and contribute to them becoming schoo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 07:33 AM
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There are actually women who lift who are in the 1,000 lb. club, so yes, they can do what you asked of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:08 PM
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Men absolutely respect women for being blunt and honest. If you word it the way you chose to, that's fine. However, just calling someone 'husband material' or trying to let someone down in a way one might consider 'nice' can be deceptive. Soft flattery may sound nice, it's still patronizing/condescending, and tends to be to protect their own ego/perception from those around them. I promise, guys respect people in general that are straightforward, and are respectful enough to just say that they a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:31 PM
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I disagree. While that approach would be mean, it’s not rooted in dishonesty, and I’d respect it a ton more.The whole ‘nice way of rejecting’ isn’t nice. It’s essentially an ego/perception related lie to get themselves out of an awkward situation, and rarely has good intentions attached to it. ‘Not interested’ may not seem as nice, but it’s rooted in complete honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:17 PM
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Nah, I think this is just something from the movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:49 PM
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Because it’s patronizing and condescending, it is still being a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:32 PM
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Because some people think invisible internet points are important. It’s weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 04:14 PM
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And this comment is bizarre
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 08:27 AM
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Your admitted inability to understand it doesn’t make it nonsense.If you’re bitter, that’s a you problem. No need to project it into other people, especially when your own comments do the talking. Also, you’re not anyone’s boss here, so what people do and don’t do isn’t really up to you. Your comments read like a copypasta of all of the worst, most toxic stuff from from FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 08:18 AM
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Live up to your own expectations for others, and also... right back at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 08:07 AM
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I came to the discussion very late because I stumbled on it. The person you were talking to is just farming for karma and stuff to post. Just ignore them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 08:02 AM
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Games which the guys with self-respect will walk away from in order to find a higher value woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 07:58 AM
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We do have a choice, which is not participate while someone's trying to vet us.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 07:57 AM
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Nah, if you don't fuck before you want. Your body, your choice. However, if you string someone along and don't consider their needs and end things out of non-compatibility, then you absolutely are a fan of dead bedroom relationships filled with hatred and resentment. That's just nasty. The right thing to do would be to respect boundaries. However, that decision is yours to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 07:55 AM
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Absolutely this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 07:50 AM
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This is incorrect, unless you're a fan of dead bedroom relationships filled with hatred and resentment. The point that /u/DjangoUBlackBastard was really good, and you're essentially kind of gaslighting him into thinking he's a bad person that doesn't deserve a relationship because he wants physical intimacy before the three month mark. Wanting such things before the 3 month mark doesn't doesn't make him compatible with people who want relationships. That's absolutely absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 07:47 AM
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Essentially, by saying that you have men willing to wait, you're saying that you're essentially being manipulative and, in a way, turning sex into a weapon in order to control your potential relationships. If you don't want to have sex early on, that's fine. Your body, your choice. Honestly, those 'options' you've spoken about are essentially, by your admission, orbiters that you keep around, and it sounds like you're keeping them around for validation. Even if you can manipulate someone into wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 07:43 AM
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Nah, most men I know, including myself, will not wait as long as needed, unless they don't value themselves. The dudes having the dry spells are having those dry spells due to something they need to work on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 07:38 AM
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I don't think most guys would even wait 6 months. If she's making a guy wait that long, she's either not attracted to them, getting it from somewhere else, has libido issues, or a combination thereof. It's a red flag for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 07:35 AM
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I believe there's the opposite when guys get ghosted and find out they were given 'pity sex', at least according to another of the threads I read on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 07:31 AM
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The thing is, most people are raised by a man and a woman, which means that it's women that contribute to the environment which pushes their kids to kill and rape people. While there may not be a mass shooter or rapist from that subreddit, plenty of women in the real world who do that stuff exist. I've seen women get in trouble for contacting hitmen on the internet and the phone and brag about murdering their spouses, or get caught lying about it. Plenty of female teachers have also been caught …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 08:11 AM
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Before I was married, it was your age/2+9. It just felt more right.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 04:40 AM
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I agree, this is the best policy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 08:45 PM
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It's been said by experts/medical professionals that changes occur during and after pregnancy. However, the patients/mothers are informed of such things. Ergo, if you want kids, have them. If not, don't have them. Nothing else to see here, folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 08:38 PM
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I agree with the other person. It sounds like you surround yourself with a low caliber of people, otherwise, you wouldn't be experiencing these types of results.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:47 PM
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There's a difference between decency/civility that every human is entitled to, and respect. Respect is earned, and it's not just given. If a man is unable to have respect for someone, it's because they don't feel as though it was earned.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:45 PM
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It is true, though. While some guys may be creepy in their mannerisms and things they say, that doesn't discount the original point at all. The original point was correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:36 PM
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Seconded. I'll leave it at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:26 PM
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Basic decency and civility is different from respect. Everyone deserves basic decency and civility. However, respect is earned.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:20 PM
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You completely missed my point, and that's ok. Your source has nothing to do with what I said. You read the first part of the first sentence of my comment, and skipped the rest. That's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:50 PM
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It's not that parents didn't teach them how, but rather that they weren't supposed to have feelings, or were supposed to at the right time so that the right people can benefit from the kids they've conditioned becoming violent so that those parents can get tv time and monkey branch by someone feeling bad for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:37 PM
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There's no conspiracy theories here. I don't know who told you otherwise, but that's not a me problem. I've already said that women can be less violent. You either completely skipped my comment, or skimmed for the parts that you wanted to speak about. If you want to talk about underreporting murder, I'd like you to go down to your nearest precinct and ask them for a list of family numbers for their current cold cases. Feel free to call those families and say that it's hard to underreport on thos…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 06:53 PM
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That’s not completely correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 03:50 PM
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Not necessarily true. While women can be less violent, their violence often goes unreported. They also abuse the divorce court systems and can emotionally manipulate men in a way that’s just as bad as physical violence. The reason that there are more men violent offenders in jail is because there is a long line of precedent that shows them being given light sentences for equal crimes as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 03:50 PM
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Not necessarily true. While women can be less violent, their violence often goes unreported. They also abuse the divorce court systems and can emotionally manipulate men in a way that’s just as bad as physical violence. The reason that there are more men violent offenders in jail is because there is a long line of precedent that shows them being given light sentences for equal crimes as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 03:49 PM
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This story was fact checked and debunked already. While she could have faced three years, the case was adjourned due to non-appearance, and any punishment from that hasn't been stated publicly. Basically, this entire post has been debunked .https://www.thequint.com/news/webqoof/no-pakistani-singer-meesha-shafi-hasnt-been-sentenced-to-3-years-in-jail#read-more
/r/PussyPassDenied10/04/21 10:16 PM
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