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Eh. Sometimes people need to experience things themselves. 🤷‍♀️ They can be hurt. And recognize the hurt they caused previously.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 04:36 AM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 02:33 AM
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Ya I just read and ignore. They are funny to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 12:46 AM
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Y'all ever get DMs from people here and just cackle at the absurdity? I especially love when some random stranger tries to throw my debt in my face like they got me. They try so hard to insult and it always falls flat.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 12:16 AM
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A generalization would be "most people go to sex clubs". HTH.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 10:53 PM
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I'm not dodging anything. Most people don't go to sex clubs. That's not a generalization.......
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 10:31 PM
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You seem to be pulling out one sentence and ignoring the context of the sentence before it. So you're the one not understanding a comment. The comment said nothing about general appeal. My comment said that thinking that women attending sex clubs is normal isn't realistic. Because most people don't attend sex clubs. Perhaps you should reread the whole comment instead of cherry picking a sentence and saying it doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 10:25 PM
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Lol. My guy, I don't think you correctly understood my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 10:19 PM
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Correct, a large portion of the population isn't attending kink sex parties. HTH.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 10:15 PM
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They only seem motivated by sex. And they fail to acknowledge the reality that women aren't largely motivated by sex with strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 09:13 PM
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I don't say anything about "appeal to a generality".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 08:57 PM
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That's cool for them. But plenty of straight men aren't interested in a bisexual woman. Regardless, idk why y'all expect people to act the exact same. It's weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 07:17 PM
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Idk why y'all are always surprised that different women want different things. Every time y'all are so confused that different women have different experiences. Maybe once y'all stop thinking of women as carbon copies you'll understand that one woman's experience isn't an authority or template for all women. Also....spending time in spaces with people who frequent kink parties or group sex is going to be seen as average when in reality, it's not a large portion of the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 06:39 PM
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Why are so many women reluctant to date bisexual men, including women who have no moral objection whatsoever to homosexuality or bisexuality? Straight women want to date straight men. Idk what's so confusing about this. Or why so many straight men bring it up here as some kind of gotcha. What even are "masculine standards"???
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 06:31 PM
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So women would be more "feministic", if they didn't do sex work? Women would be more "feministic", if they stopped saying, "if he wanted to, he would", to describe men who are actually into them vs men who just want to fuck them. Is that what you're implying? That women aren't feminine enough because they can choose to be sex workers and choose to reject men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 03:46 PM
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What does FAE mean? This sounds like that body horror with Alison Brie and her husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 03:51 AM
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My husband is the hottest guy I've ever seen. That's what love does. You seem them as the best of the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 02:00 AM
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No, I suggested living at the lower salary. And splitting 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 12:26 AM
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I'm not suggesting friends with women. I'm suggesting friends with other men. And maybe other forms of therapy. Men don't create tension alone. Tension requires two people. It's not something men create with a wink and the perfect line.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 11:42 PM
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What are the properties that make up a loving relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 11:37 PM
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Why? There's no difference to make up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 11:34 PM
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It's not really a skill. It either there or not. 🤷‍♀️ Yes, wanting to talk =/= date. But talking to someone ups the chances they might want to date you. It's not going to be consistent..because each interaction is going to be different. Dating isn't some ➡️↗️↕️↔️🔄🔃↘️⬇️ repeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 11:33 PM
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I'm not sure I agree. I think those ships that are still worth fighting to save are different than the ones that can't even float anymore. Sometimes relationships end.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 10:19 PM
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I think they should pay more or live at the lower person's salary.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 10:16 PM
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What are those particular skills? Please define them. Yes...hanging out with the boys is the exact same social skills for dating. Women are direct, just in a different way then men. If a woman is regularly finding ways to talk to you or be by you, she's interested. That doesn't require any skill other than paying attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 09:42 PM
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Please define "similar amount". Quantify it for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 09:39 PM
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People generally date within their socioeconomic brackets. Two teachers but one is at a Title 1 school vs private school. A blue collar and a nurse. Dating up could be $10,000. 🤷‍♀️ It's generally not that wide of a gap. Occasionally wide gaps occur and those couples should split by income or live at the lower income. Generally though, I think women today want to date men who can provide themselves a similar lifestyle to her. It's not just men anymore who need to provide. It can be a team effort…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 09:31 PM
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Yes, thank you for more details. Your cousin is still correct AND probably feels like she has that from him. Sadly. Her poor self-esteem doesn't conflict with her comments. Because I'm a woman, I want that and I have that. My husband is emotionally intelligent, kind, and sexy. The same is true for several posters here + people I know personally. Yes, one example can appear contradicting. But that doesn't mean the larger whole is contradicting. Because women do want men who are kind, emotionally …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 09:27 PM
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If someone doesn't have the social skills they should focus on making friends first. A relationship has potential with two people like each other and want to explore those feelings. Zero self awareness of "potential to attract someone" required. Geez. Y'all make things so much more complicated than they need to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 09:22 PM
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I believe in splitting based on income. So whoever earns more, pays more. Sometimes that me, sometimes that him. Idk what duties are more masculine than others. Car maintenance? If I hate doing car maintenance and he loves it, should I do it because otherwise it is gender roles? At a certain point it is less gender roles and more, "shit needs to get done, who is better at this?"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 09:14 PM
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The first one is accurate. Women approach often and regularly, but typically only warm or very hot connections. So the "work on yourself" is more "go out and do things for your own enjoyment and stop worrying so much about meeting someone and just meet people." So....I think a common thing is that people already know that attraction is key. So they don't say, "you must be hot bro", because it's fucking obvious. They'll will say, "women want men who care about us, not just about how hot we are", …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 09:10 PM
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Again, men and women ask each other out. Women do it all the time. All.the.time. They invite men they like to the game/party/club/outing/dinner/drinks/coffee, etc. If you know the person, asking someone out generally happens organically. It's not just on the dude. Y'all act like it's all on dudes. It's not. It's two people. Women are capable of making moves. And if she's not making moves.....maybe she's not that into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 09:00 PM
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Do you have an example of the bad advice and the contradictions?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 08:48 PM
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I don't know anyone who has dated someone who approached them. They've all met them through school, work, hobbies, etc. There wasn't some large approach that happened. They were in the same class and paired in a group. Or they worked together on a project and were introduced. Or they were introduced at a hobby. Most often people are introduced to someone. Approaching is rare. Idk why y'all act like it's the only way. It's not. It's not even a successful way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 08:46 PM
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Your nothing response was to my comment...... Feel free to comment specifically to the question instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 08:11 PM
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The same thing your comment to me had to do with the og q..... nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 08:07 PM
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And in my experience those men get rejected. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 07:48 PM
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That's okay if you don't believe me. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 06:34 PM
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False. Men approach beautiful women all the time because they think they have a chance. Signed, A beautiful woman
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 06:31 PM
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Great. I hate being cold approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 06:30 PM
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No. I wouldn't date someone who thought I was mid. I'm interested in the guy who thinks I'm the hottest, sexiest, prettiest, cutest, best looking woman ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 06:29 PM
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Personally, I'm not interested in the guy who is so nervous and intimidated by me. It tells me he might put women on pedestals. Or he lacks self confidence. Basically, it shows me he's got more insecurities than I'm willing to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 03:18 PM
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A promiscuous woman isn't going to be in the same space as the man with limited sexual experiences. And if he feels like a sucker because of his lack of experience, that's his own personal problem that he should work through. It's not her fault. Yes, rejection sucks. But that's life. Not everyone will like you or want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 03:14 PM
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Still no.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 03:07 PM
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No. I'm not interested in a one way relationship where I'm the only one contributing financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 05:47 AM
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A few? Seems like most men are in relationships. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 03:02 AM
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If it's so cheap or free why are there so many men here whining about paying for first dates or women rejecting them?;
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 02:34 AM
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If it's so cheap why are there so many men here complaining about the cost?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 12:16 AM
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Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 03:43 PM
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If a man doesn't want to pay for first dates DON'T. It's that simple. Y'all aren't obligated to pay. If she gets bothered by that, she's not compatible. When planning a first date, have the conversation about paying ahead of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 06:47 PM
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Usually because they are asking at inappropriate times. Or they are demanding that with zero care about what the woman wants. Like read the room Travis. Obviously she's not interested in sex right now. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 12:52 AM
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My final conclusion is that n count doesn't matter. What matters is if you can get over yourself to fall in love and build a relationship with someone you care deeply for. You don't need the exact same number of experiences. You don't need to have the exact experience that another man had. You just need to be present and figure out if you even like the woman. If you want to spend time with her, hear about her wishes, and share yours and grow together. Sex is great. Sex is important in relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 10:10 PM
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This is simply men saying they are single and women saying they aren't single.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 08:21 PM
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Y'all have such a low view of men. It's quite sad. By this logic, most men are egotistical assholes and should stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 10:48 PM
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I'd absolutely say something because they'd break marriage vows. Just break up. Or don't get married if you're doing it for sex. FFS.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 08:09 PM
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Again, I'm not comparing relationships. My standards are built on what I expect from a relationship. Not necessarily past experiences. All my boyfriends did X. Because that was an expectation. I didn't need to compare on past experiences because my standards vetted for the same expectations. I don't think burgers and relationships are the same. I don't come to the conclusion that is better or worse. The conclusions were always did it fit my standards or not. My standards and expectations are wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 05:41 PM
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I'm not comparing them against each other. 🤷‍♀️ We don't have to agree. You're welcome to compare whoever you want. I hope you can recognize that not everyone thinks the same as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 05:19 PM
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I'd laugh at a woman who made her man her purpose. Making someone else you're purpose is a recipe for disaster. It's peak low self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 04:14 PM
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I can't say I've needed to compare relationships to know which is "superior". I've never had to compare. 🤷‍♀️ If you compare that's great. But I hope you can recognize that not everyone thinks like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 04:12 PM
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So you believe that women don't do anything for their own enjoyment and that women need to be told what choices they should make by men. Noted. Thanks for sharing your beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 07:18 AM
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Makeup for the male gaze? The same male gaze that can't tell the difference between real and fake eyelashes? So women can't do something for their own self expression, it must be done for the enjoyment of men. And thus, you think it's impossible for women to make their own choices. 🙄 Lol. That's good to be the dumbest thing I've ever heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 06:55 AM
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It has to be some fetish thing with all the men cosplaying women in this sub. Makes me think of that Sam Rockwell scene in White Lotus.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 06:27 AM
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Yes, your "pi feminism" is a differing opinion. It's an opinion that fundamentally misunderstand feminism. What is "pop feminism" or "mystic feminism propagated by social media"? Do you have examples? Honestly, this seems like another thread upset that women don't all think the same. Men are allowed to have different opinions. But women are supposed to be the exact same.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 06:25 AM
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Are you saying that women having differing opinions is overrated? Are you suggesting that women all make the same choices otherwise it's overrated? Why does women making different choices bother you so much? Why should I make the same choices as my sister, my friend, my coworker, the grocery store cashier, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 04:24 AM
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Yes, getting married for access to sex is utterly pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 03:29 AM
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I understood your point. I disagree with your point. It's okay if you don't believe me. The occasion to compare the men I've had sex with has never occurred. I can't even think of a reason why they'd be compared. Makes zero sense to me. Combat experiences? How niche.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 02:33 AM
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If it was impossible I'd do it. The occasion doesn't arise. And I don't. So thus, it's possible to not compare your sexual partners. Sex isn't a fucking cheeseburger. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 02:25 AM
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She leaves parties early and that's your basis for them not having children? Basically you're just massively bothered that some people don't want kids. And thus you make up whack ass scenarios about these couples. Thanks for the laughs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 02:08 AM
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When you hear that some men feel this way, how does it make you feel? It makes me feel pity for those who can't find purpose outside of someone else. Does it make you feel satisfied or validated in some way or does it evoke a different reaction? Nope. I just continue on with my life. Maybe laugh a little at the ridiculousness.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 01:51 AM
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Ah.... you made an edit. That isn't weird.... Do you have another example? Because at this point it seems like you're just insulting childfree couples for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 01:49 AM
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Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 01:46 AM
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Lol. Or not everyone wants to be a parent. Why is that so difficult for y'all to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 01:45 AM
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Thank you!!! That's exactly what I was saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 01:22 AM
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Both.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 01:03 AM
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Ew. Gross. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 12:33 AM
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Pay what for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 12:06 AM
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Cool. I'm okay with you thinking that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 11:28 PM
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Sure, I guess complain about something you don't have to do. Makes perfect sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 10:41 PM
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Death of a loved one. Obviously Yes, sex doesn't just outright stop. There's always a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 10:38 PM
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"Nature of life" ie death, grief, sickness, etc. No shit. Sex doesn't just outright stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 10:24 PM
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So those men, need to grow up and start making choices and decisions for themselves. If they find it annoying, guess what, they don't have to do it. Amazing, isn't it! They can choose their own behavior and actions because they are in control of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 10:23 PM
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Sure you can work on those issues but the sex life is still impacted. They aren't saying don't work them and just never have sex again. They're saying that those things impacted sex frequency. It's normal for a relationship to have differing frequency over multiple decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 10:22 PM
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Expecting a sex life that doesn't ebb and flow with the nature of life is weird. The comment I replied to is about someone not having sex because whatever valid reason. I was replying to the concept of expecting the sex to never change over the course of a multi-decade relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 10:16 PM
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And lots of men are secure in themselves and their choices that they don't feel upset that some men don't pay for dates. Just as there's men who still want to be married despite some men getting divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 10:09 PM
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If a man can't afford a hooker, he can't afford a wife. 🤷‍♀️ I'm assuming that men who only value sex are pathetic individuals who have nothing of value themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 09:59 PM
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Yup. Very weird. Very weird to get married for sex. Especially because marriage doesn't guarantee sex. The only sex guarantee is with paid professionals. So y'all are better off paying for sex. Instead of getting into relationships and demanding sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 09:55 PM
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Weird to get married for sex. 🤷‍♀️ Also weird to marry someone and value sex over their emotional state.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 09:37 PM
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I mean, in what capacity have you seen this? Work, personal, online, etc. I'm curious to understand your perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 09:08 PM
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In what capacity?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 09:05 PM
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We're late 30s and the comments have basically stopped. Because now, I'm "too old". 🤣🤣 So you'll get there eventually. And yes, it would be nice if people could respect those who want to be childfree. From my experience, it seems like those who are childfree are the ones who have put the most thought into if they want kids or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 08:45 PM
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How many stay at home dad situations have you witnessed?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 08:33 PM
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I had the same problem as a woman. Men expecting me to change my mind. Definitely happens on both sides. Annoying that childfree people can't be taken seriously. And people assume they'll change their mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 08:29 PM
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Maybe stop thinking that a single reddit post is a representation of all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 07:55 PM
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I'm not upset or offended by your words. My man didn't pay off anything. My husband isn't the only source of income. So glad that's cleared up. I am perfect. ✨️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 07:44 PM
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Good thing I wasn't doing that. You're still benefiting from the efforts of women. Right now in this very moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 07:26 PM
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Awesome. 6/28 was 38 days ago. So kudos for finding outdated information. So proud of you! Materialism didn't create the debt. But I'm fine with you thinking that. I don't need to work on anything. But I appreciate the useless advice. Keep it up!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 07:25 PM
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Cool. It was an example of a successful childfree man. My point more so is: women shouldn’t cry about it on the Internet for sympathy points. Great. Take your own advice and stop crying about childfree women wanting childfree men. Or maybe idk, don't take it personally or care what someone says.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 07:21 PM
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And you enjoy the fruits of labour of women. Glad we've cleared that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 07:13 PM
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A man can be driven without wanting to be a parent. John Cena, Christopher Walken, Nick Offerman, Pedro Pascal, Andrew Garfield, Leo DiCaprio..... Those are all driven male celebrities without kids. And that's just off the top of my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 07:12 PM
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We realize it and don't date men who wants kids. then you’ll likely have to change who you’re looking for a dating partner, at least somewhat. Nope. No need to change what you're looking for. There's plenty of quality dudes who don't want to be a parent. guy who didn’t go to college and doesn’t make as much money but is still disciplined with money, health, etc Sure maybe that works for some people. That wouldn't work for other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 07:08 PM
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Lol. You'd think I'd have a better understanding of my own debt. But please, do tell me about my finances. Great. Am I supposed to care? I'm confused on why I should care that I'm the kind of woman who dated men who paid for dates. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 07:05 PM
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Huh? What are you talking about? I have way less than $10,000 of credit card debt. But I appreciate your commitment to sharing old information. Yes, I wouldn't be compatible with OP. That's wonderful. Perks of dating today. People can reject those who aren't compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 06:20 PM
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The issue is you do not get to dictate whatever process a woman decides to take to dating and her standards, boundaries and expectations regarding access to her. They try so hard to do this. They seem to think they know what's best for women and that women just need to get on board.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 05:15 PM
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Idk. I've always dated men who pay for first dates AND do housework. My husband paid for our first date. And he takes out the trash, cleans the bathrooms, does laundry, etc. I haven't cleaned a toilet or touched a trash can in almost 5 years. 🤣🤣🤣 If a man doesn't want to pay for a date. That's fine. Communicate that up front. If the women agrees, great, that's a win win. If she doesn't, she's not compatible, also a win win. Honestly, if y'all don't want to pay for dates don't. But don't be upset…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 05:08 PM
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Yes. Eta - I haven't been with an escort. But escorts do count.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 04:35 PM
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Everyone is comparing their sex partners? I don't believe that in the slightest. I don't think most people compare their sex partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 04:34 PM
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I had different standards for hookups and relationships. Having different standards =/= comparing people. It just means having different standards for different outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 04:33 PM
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Depends on the woman. Once y'all stop treating women as the exact same people and treating dating like a video game, you'll have better success. What bothers women is cold approaching and going straight to their appearance as if their appearance is all that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 04:31 PM
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It doesn't mean that to me either. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 04:19 PM
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Is there a reason you won't answer? It's a simple question. If there's 10 women, are you attracted to 8 of them? If there's 10 men, why do you expect a woman to be attracted to 8 of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 07:40 AM
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So you can't answer the question? It's a debate sub. Go on, get it a try and answer the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 07:32 AM
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Why do y'all expect women to be attracted to more than 20% of men? I'm genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 07:27 AM
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So who shamed your sexual performance?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 05:25 AM
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Excellent example of shaming women's sexual performance. Thank you for that excellent demonstration.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 05:24 AM
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That's cool for men if that don't have standards for who they date. Maybe if they cared about women's money they'd have better success.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 05:12 AM
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"Dead fish", "star fish", "smells like fish", etc. All phrases shaming women's sexual performances.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 05:10 AM
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Women face judgment for their sexual performance.....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 04:49 AM
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What harsh realities has society saved me from? I'm a woman. So I'm curious. little interest in questioning or challenging them Which ones should be challenged? Men paying for dates? That's hard to challenge when many men offer to pay for dates. 🤷‍♀️ Maybe there's something else you think should be questioned or challenged. I'd love to see your examples of norms/trends you think women should challenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 03:59 AM
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If you feel that way, I encourage you to lobby to change your region's Common Law Marriage. Be the change you wish to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 11:58 PM
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That's great. Still doesn't mean that Gaston is the only form of masculinity. Which was the point I made in my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 11:55 PM
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Lol. What??? If you like men in beards, just say that. Great. Go after the bimbos that Gaston rejects.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 11:42 PM
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Lol. No it's not social media. It's that women have chocies and can say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 10:29 PM
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It's okay if we don't agree. I'm a woman. I have a better understanding of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:41 PM
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Not at all. Yes, a 45 year old man is going to be mid to a <25 woman. Glad we agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:18 PM
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This is why context and nuance is important. Because yes, Ryan G is attractive. But to a young woman, he's going to be average because she's not interested in a man 20+ years older than her. Similar to how, yes, Tom and Tim are attractive. They are average to me because they are 10 years younger and I'm not interested in younger men. So in this context of calling Ryan "average", it's because he's old in their eyes. So he's not peak attractive to them. He's just average celebrity attractive. Not …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:00 PM
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People can be tough AND soft. It's not an either or.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 05:27 PM
0

What's false?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 05:20 PM
4

Huh? Can you explain how this works.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 05:13 PM
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I was taught a woman could be anything. A mom, an astronaut, not a mom, a wife, not a wife, a CEO, a doctor, whatever. Are you able to answer my questions?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 05:13 PM
3

So....a straight man?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 05:12 PM
3

What were men taught? Did they all go to the same place for these lessons? what your grandpa thought a maid should be idk. What? I don't know what you're trying to say here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 05:02 PM
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I didn't say they were hard to understand.I said that humans are complex. People are unique.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 04:53 PM
1

Yes, I am virtuous. Thank you for confirming!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 04:50 PM
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Ryan Gosling is 45. Tom & Tim are 30. So yes, Ryan is average because he's older and they aren't interested in some man 20+ years older than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 04:36 PM
1

What the heck is "traditional men"?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 04:27 PM
1

My height is quite literally the average height for a woman......
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 04:24 PM
1

Ooh....I see. You're getting all your information from reading content online. Makes sense. I was speaking as someone with relationship experience. Best of luck with your EQ.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 04:24 PM
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Who are they hookuping up with then? Other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 04:20 PM
4

5'8 isn't short. What in the made up nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 04:15 PM
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Because it's an example of how some men don't look at the full picture. They only focus on arms, chest, back, core, and ignore their legs. Thus missing the full picture. Similar to thinking that legs are only thighs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 04:14 PM
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A bunch of Johnny Bravo looking morons.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 04:12 PM
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Everything isn't performative. Suggesting that masculinity is a beard is performative. But that's about it. And yes, people are that complex. Men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 04:11 PM
2

So you don't have any examples of trauma dumping? Nothing you listed here is trauma dumping. Perhaps you don't understand the phrase, "trauma dumping". The word trauma implies its heavier content than an annoying coworker. So basically you think that women shouldn't even talk to their boyfriends. Got it. Another classic example of someone not understanding how relationships work.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 04:10 PM
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My gosh, there you go again. I don't think you're trying to win anyone's approval. I'm asking why you feel the need to add insults instead of just making your point. Men shouldn't waste their time with cold approaches either. And no, Bear wasn't a nice guy. He was a creep who ruined a young woman's life because he was obsessed with the idea of her. Ps there's an entire cultures that put milk in their tea. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 04:08 PM
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What specific archetype? And why do you think you should have a better experience than your friend? As Cardi B said, "broke boys don't deserve no pussy". But using dating apps for a hookup is a talent as old as MySpace.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 04:04 PM
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It's like them forgetting leg day all over again. They focus on masculinity as some kind of performance. If they perform masculinity in a specific way they will be swimming in pussy. As always, they approach everything like a video game.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 03:55 PM
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Masculinity comes in many shapes and forms. Men misunderstand maculinity and think they need to look like Gaston to be masculine. A beard isn't masculine. Makeup isn't feminine. Your 5'8 friend is masculine. And acting like he's not is why some men struggle and he gets laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 03:54 PM
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Lol. This is such nonsense. The man who wanted to marry me was absolutely the most attractive man in my orbit. And is the same case for my friends and family. Seems pointless to settle in a marriage. That just ruins everyone's lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 03:51 PM
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What the heck is "the dominant man"? Can you describe this man?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 03:49 PM
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I don't take it into consideration. I reject and move on. I don't give it a second thought. while internally his sexual attraction toward you doesn’t necessarily disappear right away (what I mean is the desire to have sex with you). Ick. Stay away from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 03:48 PM
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Gen Z is afraid of doing anything for fear of looking cringe. It's depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 03:45 PM
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Wait, you're saying that women with boyfriends cold approached you because you're tall? I'd love to hear about one of those stories. How it happened, what she said, etc. I'm so curious to hear about women like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 03:43 PM
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Women aren't going to cold approach a random man. And women aren't interested in men who insult their entire gender right off the bat. The point could be made without insulting women. But it seems y'all think that insulting and shaming women is going to result in them cold approaching. It won't. Women aren't interested in cold approaching men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 03:41 PM
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Do you have an example of women trauma dumping on their boyfriends? Or how women supposedly use their boyfriends as therapists? Or maybe an example of how women expect their bf to be their shoulder.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 03:37 PM
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What feminists are telling women that?? I've never seen a feminist say this. Where are they saying this??? If someone is seeking a sperm bank, I'm guessing they're in need of sperm. And they aren't looking for a relationship, just sperm from the sperm bank.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 03:34 AM
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Guy 2 has "nice guy syndrome". Guy 1 doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 01:56 AM
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They don't understand that they need to earn women's trust before they can be viewed in the light they want to be viewed in. I don't think they care to understand. They think that because they are horny and find a woman hot, that woman should jump for joy right onto his dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 01:45 AM
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I don't think they understand how conversations with women work. It seems like many of them don't actually converse with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 01:44 AM
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Women do love nice guys. It honestly sounds like y'all don't know how conversations work. Which honestly tracks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 01:42 AM
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He knows her more than Guy 2. You're not a woman, so I guess you can't really understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 01:28 AM
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They don't care about personality. They want "pretty and pleasant". They want a doormat they can walk over and demand sex from.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 12:53 AM
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No, they will not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 12:53 AM
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Agreed! Funny how the comments miss your points. And it seems those who miss the point are the single and struggling the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 12:52 AM
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Guy 1 is charming. Guy 2 is a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 12:51 AM
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As a woman, we want scenario 1. Not the guy who looks around and goes, "she'll do". Guy 2 is the worst scenario. And we immediately know he's not actually interested in the woman, just her woman body parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 12:51 AM
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Depends on who died. If someone wants to celebrate their divorce that's their perogative. Why on earth would I be bothered by someone celebrating their divorce? 🙄🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 12:32 AM
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I'm just following your logic, you're the big logical smart guy. So I'm just following your leadership. Keep it up man. You're solving so many problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 11:06 PM
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So schizophrenic isn't real. Good to know. I'm sure those with it will be thrilled to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 11:02 PM
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Birth is war on a woman's body. If it was a "bitch made problem", it wouldn't be a medical disorder. JFC. What a callous and ignorant statement on women, birth, and mental health. Using this logic, schizophrenia is a male made problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 10:54 PM
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Fun! Celebrate because it's better than wallowing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 10:45 PM
2

We used to play "ABC Game" and see how many men we could kiss in an evening. 🤣🤣🤣 Collect as many letters of the alphabet as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 10:31 PM
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If you live with your partner for the required time to be considered a Common Law Marriage, you're consenting. It's 2026, you can Google and get your region's laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 10:27 PM
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Except this doesn't happen in real life......
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 08:51 PM
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Women don't do their hair for your enjoyment. Erogenous zones are sexy by their very nature. So yes, this is very much a creepy post asking why women don't do their hair to turn you on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 07:22 PM
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So...... no privileges. Thank you for confirming.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 07:20 PM
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I'm a woman, who literally just said it with a straight face. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 07:18 PM
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Before when? What time period are you referring to? Go on dates with who? Men they aren't interested? Pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 07:17 PM
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Here where? Being cat called isn't a privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 07:11 PM
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Don't worry king, you're handsome! And you deserve high standards too. Stay pressed!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 07:08 PM
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So.... what's high???
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 06:15 PM
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You deserve the moon and the stars babe. Get some therapy because you deserve high standards. You're gorgeous! And don't let anyone tell you different. Especially a musty man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 06:09 PM
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Yes. Exact words and scenario. It matters what they said. And I'm willing to bet both boobs that they didn't say what y'all are claiming. I have empathy and I relate to men. I don't relate to men who lie. I don't have empathy for men who lie. Good luck out there. Certainly sounds like you need it!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 06:04 PM
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Yes, I'm are that women never welcome cat calling and a stupid meme doesn't prove anything. A meme that isn't even cat calling. 🙄 So you didn't go to college and don't work in corporate. Got it. No actual lived experiences. Just talking sideways and acting like you're correct. Noted. Also what solutions do women offer to homeless that men are against? Depends on the area. In my area, it's NIMBYS mostly made up of Boomer men who are blocking the building of affordable housing with wrap around ser…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 05:50 PM
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I went to college and work in corporate. My every need has never been catered. Perhaps you're mistaken what colleges and corporate world do. Have you gone to college or work in corporate? I don't know a single woman who welcomes being cat called. There's nothing appealing about being cat called. So.... Accountability for what? Not having every need catered? Men's problems are societies. But men are actively keeping other men homeless despite women advocating for solutions to homelessness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 05:39 PM
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Incorrect. It's not about influencing the feelings of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 05:08 PM
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It's very much an explanation. It's okay if you don't like the explanation. It's still an explanation. Have a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 05:07 PM
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Neither of them bother me. I'm not going Dutch on first dates. And I'm not waiting months for sex either. The joys of doing what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 05:06 PM
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You're incorrectly defining EQ. Feel free to check the definition and try again. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 05:05 PM
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We left barefoot many many times. 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 05:04 PM
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Where is this magical place that society caters to my every need???? Is there a store? Drive thru? So y'all think men would have it better if they were cat called? Y'all do realize that men are by and large the ones in charge regarding things like homelessness. Men are keeping other men homeless by their lack of action and their greed. But women have it better. 🙄 Seems like we all have it bad in a capitalist world that prioritizes greed over people. But alas it's easier to blame women. Than to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 05:02 PM
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Hookups vs relationships. HTH.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 04:54 PM
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Have you ever been to a club? Because I've never left a club and thought, "gee that was so great for my self esteem." I went to clubs to dance with my friends. 🤷‍♀️ We hated being approached by men. They always interrupted us.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 04:51 PM
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Great. So y'all can lobby together. Good luck. I look forward to seeing the results of y'all efforts.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 04:44 PM
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Ooh fun! I loved when PUA showed up in procedural dramas back in the early 2000s. Always fun to see it mocked even in silly cop/crime shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 04:28 PM
1

None. Because that's weird and creepy. But do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 04:20 PM
1

Please share your source.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 04:19 PM
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I had a feeling it was very PUA coded. So much of what they make up is out of their insecurities they aren't good enough. It would be sad if they didn't create such pathetic fan fiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 04:17 PM
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Women don't want to go on dates with men who are trying to get into a relationship with anyone. Women don't want to go on dates with men they aren't interested in. Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 04:14 PM
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If you don't want to validate the person you're in a relationship with, stay single. HTH.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 04:13 PM
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I wouldn't know because y'all never give examples. Y'all should be kind. But kindness alone isn't attracting anyone. Idk. I've got brain cells. I'm not the one who thinks kindness alone is attracting people. There's loads of good men out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 04:12 PM
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Idk the laws in your area. 🤷‍♀️ If you've got issues with the laws in your area, lobby to change them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 04:09 PM
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Still no examples. 🤷‍♀️ So there's nothing to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 04:07 PM
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Omg. Y'all need to stop being offended by content you read online. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 06:11 AM
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Huh? Is there something you're trying to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 06:11 AM
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I've said it before and I'll say it again. Y'all seem to misunderstand and think that women only look for kindness. The common thread here is zero examples and just vague statements.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 06:09 AM
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And pregnancy can be avoided through condoms, birth control, sterilization, etc. So...... don't move in with your girlfriend if you're so bothered about Common Law Marriage. Easier than a birth control pill or a vasectomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 06:07 AM
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I'm talking concrete numbers. Of course there's a time threshold. That's the whole point of a Common Law Marriage, it's determined after a specific timeline. Roommates aren't a committed relationship. They could have lived as roommates just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 03:40 AM
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Band shirts haven't gone out of style..... Huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 03:34 AM
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Ah I see your edit..... idk what the "dork ick" is. So no, I can't relate. I think most people dress bad. Doesn't give me the ick. Most people aren't that fashionable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 03:14 AM
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No. Those who are seeking to be offended will always find something that offends them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 03:13 AM
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What's red flags about liking a band from the 80s??? You gotta start at 1 to get to many.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 03:10 AM
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Yes, all it takes is ONE. That's the whole point. You can also tell just from her t-shirt that she is some weird likely neurodivergent girl Def Leopard t-shirt means she's "weird neurodivergent girl". 🙄 Wow. Thank you for explaining. I understand why there's a "lonely male epidemic".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 03:06 AM
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I wonder how many Canadians find it "an unjust law"??? Those aren't comparable either. One is literally a medical procedure. The other is splitting rent. Bffr.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 02:42 AM
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This is a debate sub...... so. If you're looking for advice maybe try another sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 02:19 AM
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Ya it honestly sounds like you'll misunderstood. Because women are indeed attracted to kind and good men. However that doesn't mean that those are the only qualities. Y'all seemed to have heard that and thought those were the only qualities that women look for. And that's y'alls bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 02:18 AM
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I'm not understanding what's desperate in this post. What's desperate about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 02:01 AM
2

Is a woman from Tumblr bad???
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 02:00 AM
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Why is he drawn like a child? Who makes these???
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 01:58 AM
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Lol. You're not forced upon move in. There's a time requirement and it must be continuous. Again, y'all aren't forced to live with your girlfriend. If the law is such an issue to you. Lobby against it. Sheesh. But clearly it's not an issue for any others.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 01:45 AM
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That is incorrect. There's a time requirement. Also, don't live with someone. Or move out of Canada. 🤷‍♀️ Like idk why y'all are so upset by options. You don't have to do this. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 01:36 AM
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I intentionally added it. And I'm sure many noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 01:22 AM
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No. More so, you only need to make a connection with one. I wasn't suggesting to approach every woman in the bar. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 01:21 AM
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To pool resources is living together. Both parties are putting in their resources for a shared home. Everything in 1 name and separate living isn't pooling resources. "Pooling" in this context means to share. Restaurant works will pool tips. Meaning they'll split the tips from that evening. HTH.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 12:45 AM
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Resources aren't pooled if they are in one name and no cohabitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 12:38 AM
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Does anyone know who started the myth that a woman having sex quickly with a man means he's more attractive than the men she waits to have sex??? I'd like to speak with that person. Because they lied.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 12:31 AM
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Psst living together is pooling resources. If you live separately with everything on your name isn't pooling resources. That's being.... what do y'all call it again..... oh....beta bux.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 12:14 AM
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Huh? You're not automatically married just because you live together. 🙄 Eta - look at your state laws. They're all different. Stop acting like y'all are forced to do something.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 11:51 PM
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Nobody is being forced to live with their partner. You do realize that different countries have different laws right? Right? What's a "common law marriage" is going to be different everywhere. Even in a America it's going to be dependent on state laws. So that means 50 different kinds of "common law marriage" laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 11:49 PM
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You are right though. My affirmation that women are earning more than men was not correct. Great. Thanks for confirming! I try to date (ask out) around 100 girls per year That explains that lack of answers or excuses. Nobody wants to date the guy trying to meet some quota.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 11:40 PM
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Cool. Which is why I said, "you're placing too much emphasis on the word great". I'm so glad we cleared that up. Have a great day.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 10:43 PM
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If that's how you view things. Great.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 10:38 PM
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Is "great" an incredible claim? Can't say I've ever heard that before. Pizza is great. Sex is great. The new Spiderman is great. Marriage is great. Coffee is great. Couches are great. There's no exceptions. Many things are great. It's not some magical term only applied in very few cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 10:35 PM
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Not really. You're trying to add something that's not there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 10:28 PM
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Great. As in great. That's it. 🤷‍♀️ Review your region's laws and make whatever choice makes sense for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 10:23 PM
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Ya that still doesn't make any sense. I'll consider that y'all have choices. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 10:22 PM
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I honestly don't understand what you're trying to say. Maybe try saying it a different way. There's no either or. So idk why you're trying to make one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 10:17 PM
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Huh? I don't understand what you're trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 10:13 PM
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Exactly!!! It's very normal and absolutely necessary. Especially as you grow into adulthood. My expectations for money were different at 19 and 29 and 39. Which makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 09:12 PM
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I highly doubt all those women said that. 🙄 Ah okay. This makes so much more sense now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 09:09 PM
1

So you've asked the women attracted to you why they were attracted to you? So never did they say, "kindness only". Again, it seems like y'all hear that and assume that it's kindness only. Which is pretty weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 09:03 PM
1

Is this supposed to communicate something?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 08:46 PM
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Cool, but that's not how misogyny works..... so. No. I'd like an itemized list of the so called. And you haven't been able to provide that. Not even a singular example. Not vauge comments about authority figures. society actively gaslights men (more like boys while they're young) saying that "being kind" is what will attract women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 08:37 PM
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Yes, it indeed does. Y'all don't believe it because y'all don't go outside. And that sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 08:35 PM
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Do you think those men didn't have sex before they met those high n count women? Y'all seem to act like these men are virgins running around trying to bed these slutty women. Also, what the heck is "high n count"? Can you quantify it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 08:33 PM
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Why would a woman desire the guy who doesn't care if they enjoy sex or not????
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 08:31 PM
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I wish these dudes spent more time outside. They seem to get all their information from the internet. Which is a highly curated space and assume that's reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 08:28 PM
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I swear these dudes just like to whine about anything and everything. They make these fantasies in their heads and get so emotional about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 08:27 PM
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Common law marriages are great. If you don't want to be in one, don't live with your partner. Idk why y'all whine about the choices that you don't have to make. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 08:23 PM
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Yup. If someone is complaining online about how hard ONSs are it's pretty obvious they don't socialize much. Because anyone who goes outside knows how easy it to get some strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 08:16 PM
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In truth, no. Men saying, "I don't care about her hobbies or career". Or "I just want her pretty and pleasant". Men are welcome to discuss a woman's character. But if they are misogynistic about it, that will be called out. Women care about looks in the same way they care about his hobbies, career, interests and him as a person. Looks isn't valued above something else. They are always valued the same. And yes, women want to date men who are kind and cute. It's not just kindness, which y'all seem…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 08:12 PM
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It's not. It's Sunday. Sunday Funday. Go outside. Grab your friends and go do something. Y'all aren't going to get ONS by hanging online.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 07:56 PM
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So that's different than the "authority figures" you mentioned earlier..... Women care about looks. But not in the same manner that men seem care about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 07:52 PM
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Lol. So no concrete examples. Just another made up scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 07:32 PM
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No loopholes. Just you moving goal posts. It's better to just acknowledge it. I wasn't bragging about those dudes. I was just saying that they also participate in ONS.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 07:28 PM
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Idk who you are to be talking about you......... Yes, men who are responsible are more attractive. It's not the money exactly. It's the means of being employed and able to take care of himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 07:23 PM
1

Ah. So you've moved the goal posts. I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 07:18 PM
2

It really seems like some men are bothered that women want to date men with money. I don't understand it. Maybe because I'm someone who started making my own money at 14. I guess if you don't have any money, you're going to be upset that not having money disqualifies you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 07:16 PM
1

Where is this happening? So I can stop by nephews from seeing it. Is it a specific show or something???
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 07:14 PM
1

I know I've personally fucked two.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 07:13 PM
2

Same. I haven't experienced any downsides. I had fun, met some great people, and it's only increased my standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 06:56 PM
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Because they treat dating like a video game to be won. They think once they figure out some cheat code they can have all kinds of sex without commitment. Idk why they always use OLD as the only means. It's weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 06:54 PM
-1

Again, y'all need to stop thinking that women act and think and want in the exact same. Some women will swipe. Some women won't. Doesn't mean the women who say, "those pics are douchey" are wrong. They are correct for themselves. Copy what works. Quickest way to disappointment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 06:43 PM
1

I'd love to see the data about women earning more than men on average. Do you have a source? In my experience, most adult women want to date other adults. In my experience most women I try to date don’t even make the effort of going on a first date. What? I'm not sure I understand what you're trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 06:14 PM
5

Again, you just need 1. Not the "overwhelming majority."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 05:51 PM
2

Now women get used and abused constantly by hot guys who treat them like toys. Those women are from abusive households. So they are more likely to be used and abused in romantic relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 05:41 PM
3

You don't need most. You need one. I live in a world where I've gone home with a random man at the end of the night.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 05:39 PM
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No, you don't. You just need to be outside and available. Y'all make things so much more difficult than they need to be. Go to a bar. Chat up women. They're called beer goggles for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 05:39 PM
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Yes!! My grandma sat me down too and told me that I didn't have to follow her path or my mom's. I'm almost 40, no kids, and a newlywed to a man who cooks and cleans (without being asked).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 05:37 PM
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So you're saying that men ultimately want to be used for their resources and that men not being used for their wallets is why dating is broken? So to fix dating, we need to use men for their wallets. Alright fellas, time to pay for that first date. No more 50/50. Y'all want to cover all women's expenses because otherwise dating is broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 05:33 PM
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Lol. This isn't true either. Y'all just make up stuff about the past to make yourselves feel better. Yup. People from abusive households often end up in abusive romantic relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 05:31 PM
2

Do you have an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 05:24 PM
1

The definition for EQ hasn't changed. EQ has always been about being able to recognize the emotions of others. The other words...... incel was coined by a woman. And still means someone who is involuntary celibate. If someone is an incel, stands to reason the opposing gender finds them repulsive. You're using "troll" incorrectly. Trolling was never just for newbs. It seems less like words change and more like people make up their own definitions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 05:22 PM
2

Is there a point here? Please go ahead and get to your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 05:04 PM
3

I'm just using your own logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 05:02 PM
2

No, they weren't. They were still very much in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:57 PM
3

What social norms have been dismantled?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:54 PM
0

Casual ONS really are reserved for those at the top. No they aren't. Y'all need to stop acting like casual sex is some Herculean effort. And no, a ONS isn't more of an achievement than a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:53 PM
5

That didn't answer my question. Can you answer the question?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:48 PM
6

Yes, he means sympathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:47 PM
4

Why should women have empathy for online strangers who aren't having as much sex as they want? Truly. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:39 PM
4

Ah...so you're short term fun. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:32 PM
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Do you have an example? Because again, expecting online strangers to have empathy because you're not getting as much sex as you want is weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:30 PM
4

Has very much to do with politics. I'm guessing you're a virgin who only wants ltr with another virgin. That makes sense. Good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:26 PM
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But it contradicts what you said. So you're incorrect. People do care about political views and that's why you have to lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:22 PM
5

If that was the case why would you need to lie about being progressive?????
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:18 PM
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Yes, empathy does go both ways. However, expecting empathy from online strangers because y'all can't get laid is weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:01 PM
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Here's the definition..... the ability to understand, use, and manage your own emotions while also recognizing and empathizing with the feelings of others So yes, part of EQ is reading the room aka "recognizing the feelings of others".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 03:29 PM
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EQ was coined the mid 1990s. At least 2 years before Gen Z was even born....... EQ means addressing your emotions not making them someone else's problem. Part of being in a relationship is validating your partner. If you don't validate her, why should she validate you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 03:23 PM
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I personally mean the dictionary definition: the ability to understand, use, and manage your own emotions while also recognizing and empathizing with the feelings of others So someone who doesn't punch walls because they lost a video game. Someone whose whole day isn't ruined because their sports team lost. Someone who can understand the bear vs man discourse. Someone who is empathetic to those who don't look or act like him. Basically a grown up with can manage his emotions and understand the e…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 03:21 PM
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There's nothing to comprehend. You can't answer my questions. You determine what you deserve. And you've already said that, you deserve whatever you can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 03:17 PM
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So you keep being intentionally vague. It makes zero sense. You can't answer the question. I know what I deserve because I don't lie to obtain it. So I hope you get the relationship you deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 03:12 PM
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"Sexual behavior" What does that even mean??? Certainly sounds like you're less focused on the actual person and just want sex. Ick. Yes, if you're lying, you're definitely not getting anything quality. I personally went for relationships that I deserve. I wasn't going to settle for "what you can get".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 03:02 PM
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Compatibility about what??? You're not acting. You're lying. If someone is lying to get the "truth", they don't deserve the truth. They deserve to be met with lying. Or as you call it, "acting".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 02:57 PM
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Why are you asking someone about their past on a first date? Ew. And why do you expect the truth when you're lying? Yuck. No wonder women are staying single. Better to stay single then go on dates with men who lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 02:51 PM
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These men giving out free food and resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 03:35 AM
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Huh? I can't say I've ever experienced that. Where are these men giving away free food and resources??
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 02:56 AM
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So are simps the men who like the women they are on dates with?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 02:02 AM
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Idk. Maybe. Maybe not. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 02:01 AM
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Not really. Especially after a certain age. This is why context matters instead of binary thinking. Humans are far more complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 01:47 AM
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We're going to sushi and then an exhibit opening.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 12:57 AM
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Y'all do. Because it's the weekend. And y'all should be outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 12:36 AM
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Yay!! They really are the best!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 12:35 AM
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My husband is taking me on a date tonight. And he's gonna pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 12:18 AM
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It's Saturday! Be the little promiscuous baddie your heart desires and go out and get laid!! Use protection and get another notch on that belt.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 12:11 AM
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Did you miss "Hoochie Daddy Shorts"? I swear. Y'all just make up stuff to get mad at. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 12:00 AM
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They didn't have interest in the first place. And just wanted a shag. HTH. Can we pack up PPD now? I think that pretty much covered everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 11:59 PM
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You keep saying "everyone" when it's literally just you. 🤣🤣🤣 Agreed. Your opinions of me won't make a difference. I'm so glad we cleared that up. Now, I'll wait for someone to actually call me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 11:56 PM
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What's hilarious is you. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 11:51 PM
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Is the someone in the room with us?? Because I'm still waiting for someone to call me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 11:50 PM
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Everyone? 2 people. Two people who took a question and turned into a claim that was never made. The jokes write themselves indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 11:23 PM
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Yup. That's what I said. But that doesn't match what you're claiming I did. Nice try though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 11:14 PM
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Not really. I don't feel insulted by your comments about women. So keep them coming.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 11:10 PM
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Nope. I didn't make that claim. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 11:05 PM
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Nope. Not rock solid. Glad we can agree. If you want to feel insulted by what someone said about men online, that's you're perogative.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 11:04 PM
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I can't say I've seen anyone claim that. But okay. Cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 10:50 PM
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Incorrect. Unless, you're looking to write bad jokes. Women can be bad. AND using online spaces as your proof will always be dumb. So yes, the jokes do write themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 10:46 PM
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Women can be bad. Anyone whose seen a Disney movie knows that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 10:29 PM
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Women can be bad. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 10:20 PM
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Women can be bad. No shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 10:19 PM
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I'm sincerely asking how you can confirm that they are women in an online space...... Or why you'd take a reddit sub seriously. But go off.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 09:52 PM
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How does an online space show what women are really like???
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 09:19 PM
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Right? That's what I'm wondering too. I'm pretty sure I'm older than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 08:59 PM
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Idk what "old guy" means..... but okay, cool. Yup, I literally just said that. So thank you for repeating.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 08:47 PM
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I watched Spaceballs for the first time and now I want to scream "virgin alert" to various threads or comments. I can't because of the rules. But I'll think it. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 08:33 PM
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I don't agree. I don't think most women think about virgins at all. It does seem like some men think about promiscuous women a lot more. Usually out of jealousy they aren't having as much sex or those women aren't choosing those men for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 08:32 PM
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In what context? What does "soft girl" have to do with body count?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 08:24 PM
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I mean, men initiate first and women respond. Your post seems upset at how women respond at the initiation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 06:38 PM
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reasoms they don't initiate Men initiate them first.....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 06:09 PM
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But the conversation should be directed at men. Not women. Men are doing these actions. It actually is men that y'all have a problem with. But refuse to call out men. Men get bothered by other men ruining their chances because they initiated first.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 05:52 PM
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There's no facts. Just hyperbolic statements. Uh no. Why would we be? Because they are the ones paying for dates, asking out women, etc. They are the ones setting the expectations. If Tina tells Brooke that Steve asked her out and paid for the date. Brooke is going to expect Tanner to ask her out and pay for the date. Because Steve did so, so why wouldn't Tanner. Y'all get bothered by women. Women are just responding to the actions of those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 04:56 PM
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I don't already know that. That's what you implied. That men who want to pay for dates and show their clear, direct intentions are "masochistic simps." That's what you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 04:44 PM
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How many women are in this very comment section saying they were attracted to men yet NEVER initiated? Initiated what? What's the context here?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 04:43 PM
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Lol. So if men don't agree with you, they are "masochistic simps"? Is that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 04:34 PM
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3-4 chances??? 🤣🤣🤣 I had like 6 boyfriends before 35. Life doesn't end at 35 or 40. JFC. Relationships ending isn't a failure. This is such childish thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 04:32 PM
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What's attractive is a man showing clear, direct, and intentional attention to me when the goal of courtship/relationship. Idk why y'all are mad at women. Seems like y'all should be mad at the men who show clear, direct, and intentional attention towards women with the goal of courtship/relationship. Why not make a post about the men who willingly pay for dates, ask women out, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 04:25 PM
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Vibes. 🧜🏻‍♀️ My husband telling me about how he and his friends dressed up for various occasions (birthdays, bachelor parties, etc) had me smitten. His personality on display in those stories made him even more attractive. You know that Tom Holland lip sync battle? Where he's doing Rihanna. That's his personality on display and it ups his attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 03:14 PM
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If you consider the garbage a success....sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 01:58 AM
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This is such a bizarre topic to me. Because what? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 12:43 AM
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Yup. Do you think those women are quality or trashy? Because.... life experience tells me those women are trashy and not quality. affects liberals more then conservatives I’ll add Oh I'd love to read your sources. Please do share.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 12:20 AM
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Nope. Still not missing the point. I don't agree with your point. I don't miss it. I see it, acknowledge it, and find it to be inaccurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 12:01 AM
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No, he doesn't. The Mr. Bad Personality is the one not succeeding.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 12:00 AM
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You're comment that I just replied to, was you making generalizations about women........
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 11:57 PM
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I'm not missing the point at all.....it's bunk personality. Not someone's jaw line, eye color or placement, the space between their nose and their lip. Or whatever whack ass shit the looksmax crowd pushes. Poor behavior lowers your chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 11:55 PM
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Agreed!! They seem to think that because they aren't abusive that women should be grateful and run toward them. However, as always they forget the most important thing... relationships are about liking the person you're in it with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 11:50 PM
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Because it's different women. Why do y'all expect women to act the exact same?????
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 11:46 PM
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Women wouldn't say it if these men didn't have stank ass personalities. It's said because it's true. Their personality made them unattractive. Personality is important. Personality is what keeps women in relationships. A man's blue eyes isn't enough to keep a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 11:41 PM
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Interesting... I wonder what the common denominator is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 10:19 PM
1

And yet what????
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 10:15 PM
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Lol. Friendship doesn't even require any effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 10:07 PM
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If someone sees sex as a reward....... they will always see everything as effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 09:53 PM
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Great, so go dig up your backyard with chopsticks. Dating takes effort. HTH.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 09:30 PM
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Dude....I literally just said there wasn't. 🙄 There's actions I wouldn't take because they don't make any sense. Like digging up my backyard.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 09:21 PM
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This is an excellent logical conclusion from OP. In mere minutes, a man's options has doubled!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 09:09 PM
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I can't think of a single thing that is more effort than it's worth. Anything I've done with effort, has brought back immense worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 09:08 PM
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Yup. They seem to think that women they consider ugly or fat or whatever should be willing to have sex with these men and be grateful that those men are interested in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 08:48 PM
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Lol. Ya the guy someone isn't interested will never be the choice. No matter how hard y'all want it to be. These women don't like men who prioritize sex. I don't know any women who prioritizes sex. 🤷 Sex workers don't prioritize it. They're just there for the money. They're able to cooperate just fine with people who don't expect anything then. Precisely. Maybe those men should stop expecting things from women who aren't interested in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 08:47 PM
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It's not an option if I'm not interested in that person. 🤷 It's an option if both parties are interested. Otherwise, it's not an option. Yes, I agree. It's very impolite to assume women don't experience sexual attraction because they find women beautiful. Great, if a man is prioritizing sex, he should seek a sex worker. Glad we've cleared that up. shows these women are being uncooperative There's no being in being cooperative with someone you're not interested in or someone who prioritizes sex. …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 08:36 PM
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One day I hope that men realize that a man you're not interested in isn't an option. A lot of them also think women are more beautiful than men, which indicates they can't relate to ever feeling sexual attraction. What in the made up nonsense? This makes zero sense. They're jaded/annoyed/pissed off at men for putting the priority on sex. Yes, because those men have made it clear that sex is the priority. Not her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 08:27 PM
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You provided the source. 🙄 You seem to be claiming that a man who had 1200 conversations and 1 date is good at having conversations. Lemme guess, you think the 1199 women are the problem. And they should have tried harder to have a conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 08:09 PM
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The 1200 conversations and 1 date is the information. Do you think someone who had 1200 conversations and 1 date is a winning conversationalist?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 08:05 PM
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Roman soldiers weren't virigins.....
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 07:42 PM
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Again..... idk what you're talking about. 🤷 Generally, most people just get another job. 🙄 But I understand that the men of PPD want to whine about anything and everything and then defend their whining with unhinged analogy. So according to you, OP, and the $1.25 guy, it's better to just stay a virgin. Got it. Let's make that the official slogan of PPD, "Be a virgin forever, don't go into pussy debt". Solved all the problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 07:39 PM
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You didn't explain anything. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 07:34 PM
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Huh? I honestly don't know what you're referring to. Do you have an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 07:31 PM
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Great. Why don't you stay a virgin until you're 83 and then become a dad. You've got it all figured out at 19. Kudos.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 07:25 PM
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His sperm is dust at 60. It's not producing quality sperm anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 07:19 PM
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No, he isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 07:15 PM
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You're better off making $1. Wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 07:13 PM
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They can indeed lying. Creeps and pedos lie all the time. Technically it doesn’t make sense for any man to want to date a post menopausal women since desire is subconsciously tired to reproduction. Technically, this doesn't make any sense as men's sperms gets worse with age. So a 60 year old man, should be with a post menopause woman because his sperm dust. JFC.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 07:13 PM
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But if I do it right now when I’m young and attractive with a woman my age that likes me and then try to get it again later with money, it isn’t the same thing. What are you talking about??? Once a man has sex with someone in that range, he’s always going to crave it back. So you're suggesting that my husband has been craving sex with a woman in her 20s because of biology? We meet in your 30s. But according to you, a 19 year old, my husband has been craving sex with someone else this whole time?…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 07:05 PM
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This is the best use of this gif!! I love Rip. Such a good man, Savanna.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 07:01 PM
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Yup. We're back to the skeletor look of the early 2000s. It's so disappointing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 06:53 PM
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Huh? Who are you talking about? 2 million swipes? Like swiping yes 2 million times and still not getting a date? Or swiping no 2 million times? Where are you seeing this discourse? Reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 06:44 PM
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So funny to me the responses I'll get in this sub for saying that I smoke weed or mircodose mushrooms. Some act as if I'm shooting up meth or something. 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 06:27 PM
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Specifically do you mean attractive to you or attractive in general? Or are those things the same in your mind? Both. And different things. Chris Hemsworth is attractive in general. I'm not attracted to him because I'm happily married and not looking at other men in that manner. I also see attraction as more than just looks. It's looks + personality + values that make me attracted to someone (when single). Someone can be attractive. But doesn't mean I'm attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 06:24 PM
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Covenants can be broken too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 04:58 AM
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I just microdose. So not too big of psychedelic effects. Feels similar to being stoned.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 02:45 AM
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Explains what??? Please be specific. I'm so curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 02:39 AM
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Another day, another dose of mushrooms. Gotta love the effects of growing your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 11:39 PM
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Even in 2005, you could send 100 applications and get 0 interviews. The point is.... the analogy doesn't quite work.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 09:22 PM
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No. I would think the job market is shit. And I'd encourage to attend networking events and to start building in person connections.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 09:05 PM
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Divorce is the penalty. Divorce comes with all kinds of penalties. NDAs and marriage can be both broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 08:41 PM
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What does someone look like who mogs him? Also, I'm so fascinated by Gen Z men bringing back the effeminate pretty boy look. While simultaneously pontificating about being masculine. It's funny to see the waif like men of 90s/early 2000s coming back. Really seems like a recession indicator.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 07:10 PM
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What's so hard to believe?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 06:05 PM
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Why do some people expect marriage to be this thing of unconditional love where no one can ever leave? Like....all contracts can be broken. Why should be marriage be some unbreakable contract? (Added to the new daily 😃)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 05:22 PM
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Why do some people expect marriage to be this thing of unconditional love where no one can ever leave? Like....all contracts can be broken. Why should be marriage be some unbreakable contract?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 05:10 PM
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Yes, because they hope for a threesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 04:08 PM
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Because relationships are far more than sex. Treating a relationship as solely an avenue for sex tells me that man is incredibly immature, pathetic, and doesn't value friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 03:28 PM
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The only reasonable reason a man courts a woman is because he wants to sleep with her. Great, that's pathetic for those men. And no wonder why women would choose to be single. I'm so glad we cleared that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 03:20 PM
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Are these conversations about bisexual men brought forth by actual bisexual men or straight men just looking for another way to vilify women? Generally, someone who is heterosexual, isn't interested in dating someone who is bisexual. That's it. They are just a straight person who wants to date another straight person. Not all bisexual men are these feminine icons anyway. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 03:08 PM
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I considered your argument and found it hilarious and a bit pathetic. Your argument doesn't make sense in the slightest. It's a just a teenage dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 03:04 PM
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If you want to date a woman old enough to be your mom, go for it. It's not "psychologically optimal" for me to care for a man 20 years older than me. 🙄 Dude, get off the internet, and go throw a house party of something. .
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 02:58 PM
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What a pathetic goal for those men. Sounds like those men don't value relationships and would be better off staying single. If they want regular sex they can pay for it or find it via hookups..
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 02:55 PM
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Half of them fail That's fine. Expecting a 100% pass rate is weird. Divorce sucks but thank goodness it's possible. People shouldn't be stuck in marriages. These kinds of posts read like y'all want to trap women in relationships so they can never leave. The alternative to marriage is not get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 02:53 PM
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I don't think men with options are in this sub. 🤷 Anyways..... The question I responded to was about posting here. And while yes, the discourse is about gender dynamics. My comment was specifically on why I post here and what elements of this sub I find fascinating. I could talk about gender dynamics and many other avenue. But here...this is an especially fascinating pocket of fhe internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 01:08 AM
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Aren't most the women here in ltr relationships/marriages? whereas their healthy counterparts don't : What do they do then? What of my healthy counterparts should I aspire to?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 12:46 AM
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I'm not looking for any meaningful conclusions. I don't expect them to occur in this format. It has no impact on me if they stay the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 12:41 AM
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To discuss gender dynamics. I'm fascinated by the binary thinking and the "mountain out of mole hills" conclusions. I'm fascinated by RP die hards and their egos about their knowledge despite a woman never sticking around them long. I'm fascinated by the misinterpretation of feminism. I'm fascinated by the idea that women shouldn't have a reason to engage here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 12:21 AM
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Right? Don't these men want the same things? Do they not want someone who doesn't need them and instead just wants them around because they like them? Can they not imagine all the fun and enjoyment that comes with hanging out with someone who is a true friend AND a lover?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:37 PM
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What fiction books have you read lately? There's so many books on my TBR but I love to add more. Here's a few of my recent reads: Tourist Season, The Phoenix Keeper, A Botanist Guide to Parties & Poison, The River Has Roots. I tend to favor a lot of historical fiction, mysteries, and witchy themes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:28 PM
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What do y'all think of bobs? The haircut?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:04 PM
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Your sn seems to contradict yourself because you responded to my comment. And your response implied that men are somehow better at showing their emotions. So...yes, I did see your sn and thought, "isn't that ironic".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:47 PM
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It's a debate sub. The comments are debating the argument brought forth by OP. So.... of course, people disagree with him. Disagreeing doesn't mean they aren't taking it well. It just means they disagree and responded as such in a debate sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:44 PM
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Feel free to start a thread and let's discuss it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:35 PM
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You've personally witnessed more than 5 different women throw drinks at men who rejected them? Or a man randomly getting verbally attacked by one of a woman’s friend when he approaches a girl in the friend group and not her. Do you have an example? And when the man reciprocates with the same energy that when women then say “he can’t handle rejection” Well, if he's rejected first and reciprocate with insults.... yes, he can't handle rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:22 PM
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I'm not watching some random YouTube video. Sounds like your only examples is scripted online content. Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:02 PM
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So what is he saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:58 PM
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How do they handle it far worse? I'd love to see an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:58 PM
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How frequently do women react like that? What are the numbers?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:57 PM
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You're telling me that you've personally witnessed more than 5 cases of women throwing a drink on a man after he rejected her? Because I highly doubt that. I worked in nightlife and still haven't seen that happen more than 5 times. I've seen women throw drinks at men. A lot. But they were always couples who came together and usually left together or chasing the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:55 PM
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Are you seriously comparing alcohol and acid? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:49 PM
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So you're saying that because a woman might say, "you're gay, you asshole", that is a far worse rejection that a man saying, "you fat bitch whore." Am I understanding that correctly?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:48 PM
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shows that women feel more negative emotions and feelings when being rejected Probably because women are better at their feelings and expressing them. 🤷 Idk how women can take it worse when they aren't throwing acid, shooting people, etc for being rejected. They just feel their rejected feelings and answer that honestly in a survey.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:40 PM
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That's great for the women who want that without commitment. Why do y'all think that every woman is going to want the exact same things? Every man doesn't want the exact same things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:13 PM
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Yes, I'm deflecting the opinions of an internet stranger. I'm so glad you've figured that out. Have a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:00 PM
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My husband is committed because he's not needed, he's wanted. I want him, he wants me. Thus we decided to build a life together. I'm not with him because I need sex or money or the trash taken out. I'm with him because he's hilarious, smart, adventurous, sexy, and I want to be around him doing anything and everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:59 PM
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Lol. Okay man whatever you say. Good luck with your romantic pursuits.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:56 PM
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Sorry you missed why I made the comment I did and decided that you somehow know better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:54 PM
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Ah...interesting, the classic, "I'm rubber your gule" approach. Sounds good.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:53 PM
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Wait, are you suggesting that I'm insecure because "traditional romance" wouldn't want me?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:48 PM
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So.... what does it say about me?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:45 PM
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There's been no conflict. Just you coming in late to a conversation that already happened and misunderstanding my comment. But go off kiddo.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:40 PM
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He's not gay. And the person that user was responding to isn't a lesbian. Glad we figured that out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:34 PM
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Bothered by what pal? Bothered by you disagreeing with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:27 PM
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Gifs aren't a hassle. 😂😂 Why do you think gifs are a hassle? What in the world. I'm happy to admit when I'm wrong. This isn't one of those times.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:23 PM
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I'm not bothered by you or your thoughts. :) Do whatever you want. If a woman finds your behavior insecure, that's a win win. You're not compatible and both can move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:20 PM
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I'll say it again, finding someone attractive =/= being attracted to them. Use your brain next time Yes, please take your own advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:16 PM
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Self awareness about what? There was no logic. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:08 PM
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Concerning yourself with what happened with Todd from 2022 is pretty insecure. But do whatever you'd like bro. Idk why you're searching for my approval. Do you. Idk why you felt the need to resurrect a week old thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:07 PM
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This coercion discourse really highlights how the men here actively do coercion tactics and don't see anything wrong with it. It's bonkers how much they'll twist themselves in knots to defend coercion tactics. It's like they view it as the only way they'll get laid. And then they probably go on and on about how it was "raw desire" because she gave into him after repeatedly saying "no".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:01 PM
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woman who was the casual lay of some guy This is the insecure bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 05:57 PM
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I don't get the insecurity behind it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 05:41 PM
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Nope. I was responding to your "get it?". Your first statement. HTH.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 05:39 PM
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No. I don't get it. 🤷 It sounds like someone upset by fan fiction they made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 05:34 PM
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Exactly. When I was single, I'd be going out and drinking in spaces with out slutty people. Hell, my friends and I played games to see how many dudes we could kiss in a night. 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 05:18 PM
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So....I fucked men while single. Or I'd be in a monogamous relationship, fucking that guy. more sexually adventurous or uninhibited period before settling into a long-term relationship. Literally just me being single. No "uninhibited period" just being single and having sex. Once y'all stop thinking that women can only be in relationships or sluts without relationships, you'll understand that there's all kinds of paths. I don't understand comparing sexual experiences. And when y'all stop compari…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 04:57 PM
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Ah that is very interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 03:40 PM
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Best I can gather is that some men want to be wanted for their paycheck so they can boss a woman around and say things like, "I worked all day, I can't be bothered to take out the trash, play with my kids, or wash the dishes." Tradmen reduce themselves to a paycheck and a bodyguard because that's exactly when they feel the most powerfully, successful piece of masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 03:37 PM
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Multiple centuries would disagree. As would rock/emo/goth, theater, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 05:50 AM
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So you're willingly going to believe something that isn't true because it takes sense to you to believe something that isn't true? Is that what you're saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 03:45 AM
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Just have a work buddy start calling you Joe, Tom, Tony, whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 11:37 PM
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If several women feel that way.....maybe the analogy was bunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 11:36 PM
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That toddler on his dad's bike is so dang cute! I don't want him to get his own bike. 😂🥹 I love parent content on Tiktok. Especially the big families, like 6+ kids. It's so joyful to watch. I love kids. They are so curious, smart, and the best teachers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 11:35 PM
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I don't agree with you. I grasp what you're saying. And I don't agree with it. So it seems like you're strategy is to say, I'm engaging in bad faith and dumb because I disagree with you. Anyway, good luck with your fishing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 11:10 PM
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How long do you think it takes to read????? "Plenty of fish in the sea" which implies there's always more people to meet. Not that dating is like fishing. Hey man, if you want to see women as fish and yourself as bait. Go off. Have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 11:00 PM
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Ah yes, the PPD classic, "you don't understand me, so you must be dumb". 🙄 Your concepts don't make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 10:49 PM
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Oh look you went back and edited to have the correct use of projection. Good job! Though, I'm married. So are you suggesting that I'm bitter because I don't agree with you and find the whole "looksmax" discourse to be ridiculously pathetic? You are presuming that I believe my own argument is bullshit? No. I believe you think your argument is correct. I believe that you view dating as you being the lure/bait and trying to catch women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 10:33 PM
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Fishing and dating aren't alike. 🙄 So....you're not using "projection" correctly. Do you want to try another tactic?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 10:28 PM
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It's not a phenomena though. You're acting like it's some great big conspiracy it's not. The explanation? Girls being girls. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 10:21 PM
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Certain women? Lol. You mean women with experience who don't fall for bullshit? Makes sense that some men don't listen. Catching fish and dating aren't the same thing in the slightest. Viewing it that way is why so many men are single and bitter. Projection of what exactly? Please be specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 10:02 PM
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Women in aggregate act very different from how women as individuals claim to behave. Why is this a surprise? Like....no shit. Women aren't fish. So that doesn't make any sense and really highlights my point. Y'all don't see women as people, y'all see them as fish to catch. And then wonder why it's not working.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 09:45 PM
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I didn't misunderstand. And no, she wouldn't be worse off.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 09:15 PM
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The reality of what is odd? It doesn't need to serve a purpose. And not a new thing. Has been a thing since forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 09:11 PM
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Probably. But they likely aren't attracted to most women. Can you not grasp the concept of acknowledging someone is attractive without being attracted to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 08:01 PM
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No. I think most women find most women attractive but aren't attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 07:55 PM
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Probably what you mentioned earlier. Another cosplayer.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 07:48 PM
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Yes, most women are attractive. Doesn't mean that she is attracted to them. It was an example of the difference between finding someone attractive and not being attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 07:20 PM
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So much of this discourse is men wanting women to act like them. It seems like some men think they are the default and everyone acts/thinks just like them. They refuse to accept what women say and act like they are more informed. It's fascinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 07:13 PM
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Yes, it's better to be single than in an unhappy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 07:04 PM
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Not at all. Someone can be attractive but I'm not attracted to them. I can recognize that Zendaya is attractive but I'm not attracted to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 07:04 PM
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It's literally the whole point. The universe where it's 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 06:02 PM
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Right??? There's so many in this sub. It's so funny. They still sound like men in their comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 06:00 PM
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In what context? We both can unlock the other's phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 05:59 PM
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Laughter because why is some random redditor outside my door, barefoot, in a thunderstorm???? Makes zero sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 05:58 PM
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Great..most men are ugly. And most women are beautiful. I can call women beautiful and not be attracted to them. You do know that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 05:43 PM
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If you think most men are attractive, you're probably a gay man. It's okay to be gay nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 05:38 PM
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Did you seriously just say that a c-section is a lack of "unconditional love"? 🙄🙄🙄 No babysitting?? JFC. What a horrible experience for the mom. No wonder women don't want children. Sheesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:06 PM
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They are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:04 PM
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They say "opposites attract" for a reason. I never really sought someone out because they were better at xyz than me. I think more in terms of how we compliment each other. And that often means, I have something he doesn't, and he has something I don't. Personally, if we were the exact same that would be pretty boring and stale. It's nice when there's differences because you can teach other and have fun together.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:03 PM
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The fact of the matter is that you were also likely being catfished by 1 or more of those 4. I don't think a catfish profile is evidence of anything other than someone lying. And because you can't follow through due to catfishing it doesn't prove anything. It might prove that dating apps are full of catfish, bots, and scammers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:01 PM
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I think that RP could learn a lot from this quote.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:12 AM
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Actually, when did I say demand? The first sentence in your OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:12 AM
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Great. If you feel the way, that's fantastic. I'm guessing it works really well for you. I hear "demand" and I picture a man who views dating as a transactional act. My husband, met me after I "hit the wall". But sure.... go off. If he's cheats, we divorce and that's a win win. and only have high standards. I don't know what you're referring to here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 01:46 AM
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The Webster Dictionary definition. Great. I hope you have these conversations when you're planning the second dates. It's not nice to demand anything. But I'm guessing this works out very well for you and you have many successful second dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 01:30 AM
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Yes. They'll complain about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 01:14 AM
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He looks like a regular dude. I don't really rate people. Doesn't make sense to me. I'm sure plenty of women find him attractive. Who is he? What's his significance?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 01:13 AM
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Definition of what? Great. Win win, if you don't want to date her again.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 01:11 AM
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Depends on the context. Wearing a white dress to a wedding is a faux pas and can be upsetting to the bride. A random woman who happens to be in the same outfit? Funny, cute, let's take a photo.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 12:58 AM
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Oh yes! I've been looking for a long black robe like Sue wears in The Substance.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 12:48 AM
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I have a long white nightgown that I love wearing. Makes me feel like a Victorian ghost. I love hiding in the closet or hovering behind my husband when he's video gaming. Especially when he's playing spooky games.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 12:40 AM
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We'd see them complain about the same things, ie raw attraction, desire, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 12:36 AM
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It baffles me how so many of these scenarios can be addressed with a conversation. Not to mention that this is never going to be a one size fits all. My husband didn't let me start paying until our 5th/7th date. I once bought a round of drinks and that was his concession. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:03 PM
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Yes, you're continuing to misunderstand lying for sex and being genuine about a compliment. Now, if you only called someone beautiful for the act of sex....that's a bit of coercion. HTH.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 10:42 PM
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Ladies, never go on a date with a man who demands something from you. True Dutch is you pay for yourself, they pay for themselves. People shouldn't date if they can't communicate their expectations without demands.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 10:38 PM
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I didn't claim anything. You're continuing to misunderstand the context. And that's not my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 10:29 PM
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Jumping to conclusions is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 10:27 PM
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Unfortunately, I don't do this for free. So I won't be responding to your grabs of my attention anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 10:27 PM
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And yet, they would jump at the opportunity to coerce someone into sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 10:25 PM
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Hey man, if you want to feel like you coerced someone, maybe you did. If you can't understand the nuance between a lie and genuine, that's not something I can fix. Good luck kiddo.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 10:24 PM
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The definition of coercion does not. If you can't tell the difference between lying to get sex = coercion and being genuine, that's something to work on. Unless you participated in this study, nobody was talking about you specifically. Or genuine scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 10:19 PM
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Ooh I know. I already said this. But thank you for confirming you get pleasure from my crumbs of attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 10:17 PM
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Sure, if you mean they are beautiful. If you don't....that's lying and a fucking weird thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 10:11 PM
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I think women need to start lying to men more for sex. "Yes, your dick is so big." "Yes, I'll go 50/50 with you." "Yes, I like sports." Just tell them what they want to hear, get off, and ghost. These men want to be pumped and dumped. Just hit it and quit, gals.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 10:10 PM
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I didn't see that listed. Can you quote what you're referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 10:07 PM
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Here you are again commenting on all my comments to get my attention. So sweet. I appreciate that you're such a big fan.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 10:07 PM
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I'm here to hear your first hand experiences as a woman. Are you able to engage in the debate you started?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 09:57 PM
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Not really. A study is still just a small portion. Theories can be theorized but that's it. And it's kinda worthless thing to study. 🤷 But if it's something you feel passionate about, you can conduct the study.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 09:54 PM
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Uh huh. Sure. 3 dudes on the internet think I'm getting "destroyed" because they want to feel better about coercing women into sex. By all means. Y'all 3 can think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 09:53 PM
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Lol. Okay. Thanks for your comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 09:52 PM
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They are described in the OP. Feel free to read that. HTH.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 09:49 PM
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Categorically they are. Yes, coercion is a spectrum. As laid out in the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 09:48 PM
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This sub.....Purple Pill Debate
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 09:39 PM
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Everyone is going to give a vague answer. Because how the fuck would anyone know????
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 09:38 PM
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Sitting on the basement floor waiting for the washer to finish before I do anything else. 🤣🤣🤣 The joys of activity paralysis.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 09:37 PM
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I consider 90% of PPD men to be pathetic/toxic/weird/entitled/rapey. Based solely on their posts here. Generally, I do think it's both. Some men are. Some men aren't. Some men were and aren't now. Some men aren't now but will be in the future. I think men have the opportunity to learn about coercion instead of defending it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 09:36 PM
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Hiking on a trail =/= middle of nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 08:09 PM
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50/50 isn't a shorthand for adjustments. Those demanding 50/50 aren't reasonable. That's the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 08:09 PM
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Huh? I'm not getting destroyed anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 07:04 PM
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yeah but again that's arbitrary IMHO And that's why the study was done. Thank for echoing the sentiments of the study.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 06:37 PM
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Why because you deem it isn’t so? That’s not how that works Great. That applies to you as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 06:35 PM
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In the middle of nowhere, the rational answer is the bear. The random man who unexpectedly appears in the middle of nowhere is sketchy as hell. Nope nope. I'll take death by bear. Not whatever the random man in the middle of nowhere has in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 06:34 PM
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A well paid escort or a guy who buys Women fancy clothes or takes her on vacation in exchange for her sleeping with him is not coerced The escort isn't. But a regular woman, who isn't a sex worker, that is coercion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 06:32 PM
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So masculinity is dirty, unwashed smelly men? Yuck. No wonder women are staying single.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 06:31 PM
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I think they live at home and are only responsible for their own bedrooms. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 06:27 PM
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It's not an accurate analogy. And you seem to be confused on what the man vs bear discourse was.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 06:26 PM
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Ah... yes, the incorrect assumptions you've made about me are an example of women. Yes, the roots of matriarchy. How wonderful.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 06:25 PM
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A musty smelly crisis because men never learned to shower or clean up after themselves. Explains so much honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 06:23 PM
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You keep going on and on about my reading comprehension when we've already established that your use of "cleaning" is for a very specific scenario. Yes, my husband pampers and takes care of me. Just as I pamper and take care of him. Fascinating conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 06:20 PM
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Fake nice guys are manipulative. Real nice guys are more than just nice. It would tell you the method needed. Women say the methods every day in this sub. They are ignored in favor of listening to other single men. Which makes zero sense. But I guess, y'all prefer to hear from men. Even if they are also single and unsuccessful.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 06:13 PM
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Still not coercion. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 06:10 PM
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I don't even know how this relates to the conversation.....
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 06:06 PM
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"Tits to the neck" was able shapewear. 🙄 It's okay if you're fooled by purple eyeshadow and shape wear. It's still not coercion. And comparing it is immature and really highlights the issue. Y'all refuse to acknowledge this happens, defend the behavior, and then blame women. It's so damn predictable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 06:05 PM
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Ah.... so you hear "cleaning" and turn it into this fan fiction. I see. You don't think of dishes and laundry as cleaning. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 06:03 PM
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If a man thinks that women naturally possess purple eye shadow or tits up to their neck...... he's got problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 06:01 PM
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I think y'all are misunderstanding how wealth is used as coercion. It's not "making it appear wealthier" like your makeup comparison. It's using money, that someone needs, as a means of coercion. HTH.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 06:00 PM
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This you sweetie pie? Cleaning is something that women insist on and as such since they are the ones that want it done they can do it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 05:51 PM
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It's not on the woman to end the friendship. It's on the man who wants more to end the friendship. Sheesh y'all see men as these incapable creatures who can't walk away from women who rejected them. Y'all really view men as pathetic but somehow worth applause. It's quite fascinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 05:51 PM
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Sweetie, I don't read minds. You said you didn't agree with cleaning. 🤷 I'm only going off what you write, sweetheart. Honey, I'll take relationship advice from people with actual relationship experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 05:45 PM
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The aversion that some men on this sub have to cleaning makes me wonder about their living environment. Makes me wonder if I'm just responding to a bunch of Pig Pens from Charlie Brown.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 05:30 PM
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The thread is limited to sex. If you'd like to start another discourse, start your own thread. And yes, everything outlined by OP fits within the definition of coercion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 05:18 PM
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Cooking is necessary 50 percent of the time. You're demanding a 50/50 relationship. That means you'll be responsible for cooking 50% of the time. Cleaning is something that women insist on and as such since they are the ones that want it done they can do it Great. So according to your 50/50 mandate, you'd be eating off dirty dishes and wearing dirty clothes. Because she's only going to do her 50%, not yours. This is what you wanted. Women taking their equal share. I don't subscribe to the nonsen…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 05:17 PM
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Why not stay on topic. These analogies aren't comparable. If you're lying to get sex, that's coercion. Glad we cleared that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 05:09 PM
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Fair share of what? So if it's 50/50, does this mean that you as the man will cook and clean 50 percent of the time? Notice how my breakdown wasn't gendered. Notice how you didn't actually define anything. Notice how you just jumped to insulting women for wanting to be in relationships with men who care about them? How many women have you lived with? How many relationships have you gone 50/50 and how long did they last?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 04:51 PM
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Lol. I'm an adult I don't need my husband to tell me what to do. What does 50/50 actually entail? Please enlighten me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 04:45 PM
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I don't understand what you're trying to say. I understand analogy just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 04:34 PM
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Nope. The reality that 50/50 isn't sustainable and that things change over time and relationships need to be flexible. Sometimes it's 80/20, sometimes 70/30, sometimes 50/50, sometimes 60/40, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 04:34 PM
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Except you seem to be taking it literally. Because what are you talking about????
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 04:31 PM
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Do you? Because fish don't fucking talk so the analogy is dumb to take literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 04:28 PM
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You can't repost links from this sub into this sub. It's a post from 10 hours ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 04:23 PM
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Scroll down. It's from 10 hours ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 04:23 PM
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Research women's effects with the drug. 🙄 You're suggesting that we shouldn't care about pregnancy because we don't want to be pregnant. I'm asking, for the third time, why do you think I personally need to be pregnant to care about pregnancy. You did indeed bring up how men have it worse. In every single comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 04:05 PM
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recommended dose remains low to protect women Thank you for proving our point. It wasn't researched for women. It was just "reduced". 🙄 Please answer my question. Why most I be pregnant to have an investment in pregnancy? In order to listen to women, you need to not bring up how men have it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:45 PM
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Said many yesterday, in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:42 PM
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Lol. Reads like the thread from yesterday. 🤣🤣 Classic!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:41 PM
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My husband is sleeping next to me as I scroll around the internet. He'll probably sleep another hour or two. Debating if I want to leave our warm bed to go smoke a joint. Or stay here and watch him sleep for another hour or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:40 PM
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50/50 = splitting every penny in half If you want a dual income household, just say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:32 PM
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As nature intended. Men say it's so hard to work and do chores. So why not just stay home and do the chores. Win win.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:32 PM
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How are you using "fun money" in this context? Are you agreeing that 50/50 isn't actually genuine?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:30 PM
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If a man tells me 50/50, why would I ever expect him to step up later? A man who wants 50/50 tells me he doesn't understand the realities of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:29 PM
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It is very much true. Just because these drugs exist doesn't mean they were developed with women's health in mind. They were developed for profit and reinforcing the beliefs that women over a size 6 are fat/obese, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:24 PM
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It's so silly. Because if you asked a fish, it's going to tell exactly what it likes to be caught. But some men seem to think they are experts on anything and everything, especially women. And it's usually the men with the least experience pontificating about what women want. Just look at RP. It's a bunch of losers, wannabes, and rejections talking bullshit about women because they have no women and women have zero interest being around them long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:05 PM
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Every single thing you listed is a coercion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:00 PM
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I love how he jumped around nitpicking everything said as if he's the final authority. And then insulted you be insinuating you hate yourself because you don't want kids. It's like a PPD roller coaster. And always ends in a baseless insult that sounds more like projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 02:58 PM
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I see no problems. I'm all for a declining birth rate. Opportunity for innovation. And people have choices. People aren't forced into parenthood. And that's good for everyone. Honestly, it seems less like men actually care about birthrates. And instead, are mad that can't just knock a woman over the head and take her back to his cave.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 02:56 PM
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Probably because we're told we're fat if we're a size 6. 🙄 But sure, it's all women's fault. Women exist in a vacuum.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 02:54 PM
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Small men =/= average size women. I'm very invested in pregnancy and I don't want kids. Do I need to want kids to be invested in the mortality rates of pregnancy? Sheesh. Where do you get your information? Because you seem remarkably invested in not understanding women's perspectives.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 02:52 PM
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Why do you suspect that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 05:07 AM
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I literally asked, "what your reasoning was for the probably." Because I was curious to understand your perspective. To me, her lack of interest was obvious, in that car scene. If she wanted to, she would. So I was curious your perspective. Sheesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 12:31 AM
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What's your reasoning for probably? It's my understanding, it was shot/acted in a way that can be ambiguous and interpreted either way. It wasn't outright interest. So...that's the question, did she or didn't she? And people will interpret it differently depending on their perspectives. It's quite lovely filmmaking. The best kind of horror has you wondering while also making poignant social commentary.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 12:14 AM
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Be honest to the men who don't understand that dating/fucking is about doing it with people you're attracted to? Idk...seems pretty obvious. But I guess some people need more hand holding in life. Eta - women aren't "breaking their rules" for men they aren't interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 11:10 PM
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The exception is she's attracted and likes that man. Again, why are you expecting women to "break their rules" for men they aren't interested in?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 11:00 PM
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There's nothing to be defensive over. 🤷 But that's an ironic statement given that your can't describe "better" treatment. Good luck with your fan fiction and imaginary women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:53 PM
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Better? Better in what context? Date, have sex?.... It’s also on the guy to recognize this too. It's 100% on the dude. Like it's so obvious that women are going to date the dudes they are attracted to. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:43 PM
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Huh? I don't even know what you're referring to. This seems wildly different than your first comment about a woman's "rules". What exactly are you trying to say is the solution? What exactly do you want women to do. Please be specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:39 PM
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So it's not really rules then...... Women aren't interested in those men. Why would they have sex on the first date or fuck the coworker when they aren't interested. It's not rules. It's not be interested in those men. but most of the time they say these things to men they don’t like all that much. You've answered your own question. They aren't interested in those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:35 PM
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What rules? Are you talking about the book, The Rules?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:24 PM
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So you can't share any of your own experiences? This is your debate, you're making checks you can't cash aka you can't back up the things you claim, even with your own experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:04 PM
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So share more about your experience. I'd love to hear a first hand example since you've experienced what you're describing. Can you share an anecdote, sweetheart?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:00 PM
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Because that's who makes up fan fiction. Just look at RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:51 PM
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Please tell us more about your experience. You're a woman, correct. So are you speaking from your experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:50 PM
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Lol. Incorrect. 🤣🤣🤣 It's 2026, people are marrying and getting into relationships with the person they are sexually attracted to. This reads like bitter RP nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:26 PM
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Incorrect! Idk who started this rumor but it was certainly a scorned man. The men I've had sex with the "quickest" were just there when the timing aligned. Not because they were so ridiculously hot that I had to fuck them right away. Because I was drunk, they were there, connection and chemistry occurred, and beer goggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:25 PM
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Are you saying that women who wait to have sex are choosing the wrong men?? And the right men are the ones they have sex with immediately??
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:21 PM
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Men seem to be influenced by boob size or dat ass and expect women to have the same attraction for their male parts. So much of the looksmax discussion is men being upset that women don't reduce men to the sum of their parts, the same way that men do to women. And they seem very jealous that men view women attractive based on their sexual attributes and women don't do the same. They ultimately want women to view them the same way as men. They think that there's nothing cooler than being desired …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:02 PM
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Huh? Who is saying anything on morality when it comes to virgins?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:30 PM
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Lol. Hey man, you've got all the answers. So idk why you're not having success.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:07 PM
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No. That's not enough. That's never been enough. Maybe for men who like men that is enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:05 PM
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I have no idea what "remained passive" in this context means. You seem to have more information that you aren't sharing. So it's hard to give accurate responses without all the information. My desire to have a relationship with my husband started because I liked spending time with him. Why? I guess, because of his actions. Ie spending time together not lurking in the shadows waiting for me to notice him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:00 PM
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Distant & reserved isn't having daily sex with you. 🙄 Also, this is you choosing someone specifically for sex. Sounds like this woman choose a man who wanted her for more than sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 06:47 PM
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Lol. No, that's not how it works. Idk all the details. I don't know these people. I do know that making sweeping generalizations about dating or genders from being rejected isn't helping anyone. Rejection hurts. But it doesn't mean there's some one size fits all solution. Dust off and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 06:38 PM
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Huh? Obviously, if she didn't know him, she wouldn't choose him. But that doesn't mean she'd choose you. It depends on if she likes the guy and wants to be in a relationship with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 06:34 PM
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She liked him. That's it. That's the answer. She likes him. Nothing to analyze. Nothing to reflect about women. Take the L and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 06:32 PM
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I don’t think he was necessarily better-looking, more interesting, or more compatible with her. It's not up to you. It's up to her. And she knows herself better than you. So....women will pick the person that makes sense for them. Women aren't picking their partners based on the approval of other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 06:16 PM
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Depends on the job and the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 11:55 PM
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They do in fact learn marketable skills. Leadership, negotiation, research, project management, time management, and more. There's no reason to suggest that SAHMs have no skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 11:25 PM
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Or..... get this, women don't agree on everything because they aren't monolith. There's no hive mind, they are individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 09:07 PM
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Women are part of Society. And thus women also participate in starting conversations, asking men over for..... coffee, and turning conversations flirty. HTH.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 08:55 PM
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Most people don't have rich parents. 🤷 No reason to think that women are somehow worse at something or more judgemental. We're our own worst enemies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 08:48 PM
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Have y'all never talked to someone at like a party or event? I'm struggling to understand because....I just socialize and conversation happens. 🤷 It's never that black and white. It's sometimes them, sometimes me. Again, depending on the scenario. If he's not near his place, I'll invite him back to mine. Idk. I asked my husband to get together for a work project...that ended in a different direction. 🤣 He asked me out for an official date shortly afterwards. So....we both kinda approached in dif…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 08:45 PM
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Depends on the situation. Sometimes it truly is random and both act at once. But again, this is warm connections.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 08:38 PM
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Awesome. People can save AND do things. It's not one or the other. Again, people have all kinds of resources. You don't know their expenses. Not everyone wants to own a home or have children. We have zero desire to buy a home. Or have children. Not saving isn't a gendered issue. Acting like it is foolish.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 08:36 PM
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Like a woman will sit in an air conditioned office built by men, working for a company owned and founded by a man, using software and a power grid built by men, to say “Why do we even need men?” Those men didn't invent or create those things in a vacuum with no women. Every single one of those could be traced back to a woman who was involved in some way. I wouldn’t be compatible with a blue collar woman off of that alone, but professional women tend to look down on these men and not even see the…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 08:31 PM
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Why do you assume that you can't travel and save? Why do you expect every woman to want to same things as you? If a woman wants to spend all her spare coin on traveling. That's awesome. She's my compatible for you. Why not focus on the women who do differently? Idk why people feel the need to judge other people's spending. People talk about money so differently. People who have money in savings but $1.73 in their checking will say they are broke. People who have the means will complain about spe…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 08:25 PM
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Why you are refusing to have conversations when you're socializing with friends? Just stay home.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 08:18 PM
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I'm asking about the link you shared and what of it's contents backed up your claims. This is your claim, it's on you to provide supporting evidence for your claims. How much is this bigger portion? And what are those categories? So many questions. I'd love to read your supporting evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 08:05 PM
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What in that research is backing up your claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 08:00 PM
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Yup. It comes down to them being upset that women spend money on themselves (clothes, healthcare, hobbies, etc). It's okay for them to spend money on their interests. But women are supposed to never do things for themselves. Everyday these dudes show why they are single. Who wants to date the guy that is going to judge and criticize my spending because I wanted a fun drink with my errands to the doctor's office, car dealership, Home Goods, and grocery store.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 07:51 PM
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Lol. 🤣🤣🤣 Y'all are so predictable. Anything to insult women. And yet somehow, women are buying houses because they're so fiscally irresponsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 07:45 PM
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Yes, they are so bothered by women spending money it's so weird. They act like because they are happy with a mattress on the floor, TV on a crate, and 1 towel that women should be the exact same. And if women aren't, they are harpy consumers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 07:35 PM
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But at least I'm not here telling people they don't mean what they say they mean. You are though. You're telling women what they mean when they're talking about "bad boys".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 07:32 PM
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I'd want my husband to hand over the money. And if my husband was physically assaulted I'd be worried about getting him care and remembering details to press charges. I'm not going to lose attraction because he was assaulted. Daqfurk.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 07:25 PM
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Again, that makes zero sense to expect the exact same timing. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 07:16 PM
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You're right, I don't understand men who make up their or own fan fiction about women instead of listening to women. Cracks me up. Luckily, it seems like women agree with me. And yes, leather wearing bad boys who ride motorcycles do exist. I've dated at least 3. 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 07:10 PM
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Idk. My husband is nice. He's also dominant. And he can be aggressive if the situation calls for it. Again, y'all think that niceness is a singular thing and people don't have any other emotions. The truth is people can be nice, dominant, aggressive and 16 other emotions in that day. Also, BDSM is an entire community, likely of nice people, who consent to sex with pain. Fifty Shades of Gray is 15 years old. Y'all need some updated sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 06:57 PM
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Yes, I'm well aware that men make up fan fiction and get upset by their own imagination. There's nothing to be wrong about. 🫣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 06:36 PM
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It does matter. Because men are getting their boxers in a twist or something they made up. Which is fucking hilarious and quite pathetic. Some men are so emotionally offended by the bad boy the made up their minds. It's pretty hilarious to me that men think their version of "bad boy" is accurate. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 06:04 PM
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Yes, men complaining about bad boys because they don't understand what women mean when they say, "bad boys". Women's view of bad boys is completely realistic. Because again, men are talking about criminals and women are talking about dudes who wear leather and ride motorcycles.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 05:56 PM
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That doesn't make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 05:38 PM
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Friendzone is made up. A situation can be left any at moment. So....again, y'all are like that Spongebob meme in handcuffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 05:37 PM
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My definition is what women view as "bad boys". It's real life. When women say, "bad boys" they aren't talking about evil men. They are talking about leather jacket wearing "bad boy".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 05:36 PM
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Not true. Again, it's not this complex strategy. Y'all make things so unnecessarily difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 04:57 PM
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Seriously! It just reinforces how much of RP is them making up fan fiction in their heads and thinking it's reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 04:37 PM
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I'll never understand the men who expect a one size fits all approach to sex. The idea that the sex had with Steve should be the exact same (timing, location, moves) as with Trevor. That sex is some act that is consistently applied to every lover. It's weird. Idk if it comes from lack of experience, insecurities, porn brain, or all of the above.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 04:26 PM
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Nah. If there's mutual romantic interest, the conversation adjust accordingly. Y'all are searching for some formula that can be applied again and again. That's not how people work. This is why friends are so important.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 04:07 PM
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Again, if you're friendly in places you visit regularly approaching doesn't really happen. Conversations happen naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 03:39 PM
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I don't want children. I don't view someone wanting children as something negative. Not wanting something in a partner doesn't automatically make that a negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 03:29 PM
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Right? Like, okay sure. 🤷 Yesterday, someone here called me a bum because I'm not working and my husband still does chores like taking out the trash and cleaning bathrooms. So let's add, "toxic" to the list too. 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 03:28 PM
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25 and 55 are different levels of grown adults though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 03:25 PM
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The issue I have with age gap is the power dynamics. I also find it fascinating how men here fight so hard to be respected by those who think age gap relationships are suspicious. What's toxic is caring so much what strangers think of your age gap relationship. Go forth and live your relationships. Who cares if strangers are laughing at you? Seriously. It's weird how often y'all want older women to applause or feel jealous. Older women aren't going to be jealous that someone they aren't interest…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 03:23 PM
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Incorrect. "Bad boys" are motorcycle driving, leather jacket wearing, anti authority type, etc. It's not literally a bad/evil person. No wonder men online have such issues with "bad boys", they are talking about a completely different scenario than what women are referring to when we say, "bad boy".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 03:19 PM
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I think expecting a one size fits all solution is the problem. Y'all always seem to focus on the cold approach. This is why friends and socializing are important. Because when you're out with friends or whatever, there's less approach pressure and more just hanging out/meeting people by nature of being outside. Instead, y'all want women to approach strangers they find attractive. Problem is, women aren't just interested in some random man because he's attractive. Honestly, if you want to feel sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 03:09 PM
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Again, context and nuance matters. Enough said.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 11:00 PM
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Nope. Just that my chronically online slice looks differently. And don't take internet comments personally. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 10:55 PM
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I can't recall any recent scenario. 🤷 I think you can find it if you search for it. But you can search for anything really.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 10:38 PM
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I've seen it on animal videos. Silly ones. 🤷 Maybe that's our different algorithms at play. It's not a common sentiment I see either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 10:24 PM
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Fast forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 10:15 PM
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The context in which it is told and the nuance around the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 10:11 PM
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Depends on the concert, venue, you, etc. But yes, it's a good place. Nothing is guaranteed though. Don't go somewhere with the explicit intention of being approached. Go to enjoy the concert and make connections. Have fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 09:23 PM
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Whew. Thank goodness we've concluded that you don't know the red flags and we're just making things up. My husband doesn't think I need to take out the trash or clean bathrooms because I'm not currently working. 🤷 He does dishes because he has hands and can wash or unload/load a dishwasher....again because he doesn't think that he should be exempt because he works. If that makes me a bum by your standards, that's fine. I'll happy accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 09:19 PM
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Same! Some originality would be great. So some creativity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 09:10 PM
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Both. 🤣🤣 I've seen you get them too. They always make me giggle. Granted, I'm an older sister so insults stopped having meaning when I was 12. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 09:03 PM
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You've made that point that you can't identify any of the red flags. You've made the point that you can't answer what you claim. To confirm, you can't back up this claim: I know that the signs you didn't even like him existed before he married but he did it anyways. I'm talking about the chore list when you're not working. That's literally what I just shared when I said, "today, tomorrow, Saturday, and Sunday". It's also literally what I said when I said, "we don't have a chore chart" and "it lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 09:01 PM
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So what red flags are you referring to? If you're gonna toss out insults back it up. Otherwise you just look foolish. . Depends on the day and the chore. We don't have a chore chart. He expects himself to contribute to the household chores. Today, my chores are floors, laundry, and dishes. He's got no chores today. Tomorrow his chores are trash cans and dishes. I'll have no chores tomorrow. Saturday, we both have chores to organize our closets. Sunday, I'll do laundry, he'll do the dishes and cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 08:40 PM
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I love sending my husband screenshots when he's insulted here. Always makes us laugh. Online insults will always be funny. Especially when you can tell someone tried really hard to be mean and it just falls short.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 08:34 PM
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In this situation, he's working, paying the bills AND chores Yup. Because he lives there too. An man isn't exempt from household chores because he has a job. Idk how I'm the useless bum when I contribute to household chores. 🤷 But sure. If that fits your narrative go off. I know that the signs you didn't even like him existed before he married but he did it anyways. Ooh what were the signs? I'm so curious to hear from your wisdom.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 08:27 PM
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Go in with the thought that it's campy and ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 08:24 PM
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Watching The Housemaid again. Way better the second time. Much more enjoyable. And you notice things you miss the first time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 08:16 PM
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Yup, if you're not contributing to the household chores and think that your income is the only thing you need to contribute...... that's peak loser behavior. Glad that's been cleared up. The only chores a full time worker should be doing is things you cannot do. Lmao. Working doesn't give someone an exception from chores. 🤣🤣🤣 No wonder so many men end up divorced or stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 08:14 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 07:58 PM
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Nah. The point is that men with jobs are capable of contributing to household chores. It seems like men who think that they are exempt from chores are the ones who end up single or divorced. Crazy. Even during moments when I'm not working, I'm still not responsible for all the household chores. Why? Because I didn't marry a useless loser. I married a man who contributes to the household regardless if he works or not. I married a masculine adult man. Thank goodness.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 07:57 PM
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Lol. My husband isn't exempt from household chores when I'm not working. He lives here too. Just because he works doesn't mean he's not also responsible for keeping the house clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 07:38 PM
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Why do you feel sorry for my husband? Because he works and does chores? Idk why y'all think that having a job means you're exempt from keeping your household clean. Yes, I do work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 07:20 PM
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Yes. It's a tool to hinder voting. If you disagree that's fine. This moves to a completely different conversation. A different context, if you will. Have a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 06:17 PM
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The Save Act. HTH.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 06:09 PM
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It's a threat that is actively happening within American politics. Saying, "I support women's rights and wrongs", on a Tiktok clip of Black Widow isn't the same context. It's like y'all don't understand "context" and just keep using the word back to me. It's weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 06:06 PM
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Huh? I don't know what you're referring to. There's no gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 05:43 PM
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You add your own tone. 🙄🤷 Ah, I'm bitter because I disagree with you. Makes sense. I'm not downvoting you. I'm not the only person in this sub who disagrees with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 05:39 PM
2

Do you have an example of this "shameless self-centeredness with no guardrails."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 05:35 PM
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I'm just matching your energy. You tried to insult my character by calling me "bitter", which you haven't been able to explain....... So... pot met kettle.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 05:22 PM
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It's not bad faith when someone disagrees with you. Still waiting to hear what I'm supposedly bitter about.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 05:06 PM
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You're valuing staying with the mom as worth $10k. That tells me all I need to know. Thank goodness I married a man who believes that his household contribution isn't dependent on his income. Best of luck. I hope you find the relationship dynamic you seek.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 04:52 PM
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She didn't say "all". She said, "women in general". See the difference? Bitter about what? My husband works and contributes to the household. Idk what there is to be bitter about. I don't see any truth to what you're saying. 🤷 I do see that it is your truth but I don't agree that all women or women in general act as you described.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 04:41 PM
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Yes, I don't take internet comments and memes personally. No, I don't see myself making a thread about it. I don't really see women taking memes seriously. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 04:38 PM
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Again, what happens at work was at work. Now, you're home and your home has responsibilities also. Regardless of what happens at work, the full trash can still needs to be taken out, the kids need a bath before bed, etc. What you're suggesting is taking advantage of the woman, who doesn't work and thus should be available to cater to your every whim. Yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 04:31 PM
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You do realize that you're anecdotal stories don't cancel out her anecdotal stories. You can't say her experience isn't real and your experience someone beats hers. I've been in relationships and know damn well that men can work AND contribute to household chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 04:15 PM
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It doesn't. You're suggesting to inflate your ego by having sex with someone you consider ugly. That seems like pathetic behavior to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 04:12 PM
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Again, this paints men as incapable of anything other than working 40 hour weeks. If you want to view men as weak beings incapable of caring for their own kids or loading a dishwasher, that's your perogative. I personally think men are capable of working AND changing a diaper AND running the vacuum over the floor. Your family cares if you live or die but you can't bother to care for them. You only care about showing up for the corporations that don't care. How masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 04:11 PM
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That still doesn't tell anyone how having sex with someone you're not attracted to helps with relationships...... Seems weird, rude, and distasteful to waste someone's time for sex to build up your ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 04:04 PM
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I don't need to critically evaluate feminism. I'm not the one misunderstanding feminism. Good luck out there!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 04:03 PM
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I did and still have questions. Are you able to answer my previous question?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 04:01 PM
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A man having a job doesn't excuse him from household chores or child rearing. Y'all act like having job is the hardest thing possible and that men are incapable of doing anything beyond going to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 04:01 PM
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How does casual sex with a person they find ugly help someone be less willing to stay/get into a bad relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 03:57 PM
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I can in fact use critical thinking skills whenever I want and call out others who aren't doing the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 03:57 PM
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How does having casual sex with someone you're not attracted to make someone better in relationships? Quite frankly, I'd find someone who had sex with people they found ugly to be quite pathetic and not worth a relationship with. Or even casual sex with. People who have sex with people they aren't attracted to have very different values than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 03:52 PM
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Do you have an example of the "self-centered and narcissistic" behavior? What "deep" topics do you want to discuss? Idk y'all act like men being single is having some negative impact on women. It's like y'all say, "men are staying single", like women are supposed to be shocked and go crawling back to the men they rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 03:50 PM
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What do you think women should be concerned about?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 03:46 PM
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Except women are the target of such comments. Idk maybe don't take internet comments from strangers as a personal attack on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 03:28 PM
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Incorrect. I've been chronically online since before adulthood..... Again, the context matters. I'm not suggesting everything is a joke. I'm suggesting the sayings shared in the OP are jokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 03:27 PM
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Again, different context and nuance.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 03:25 PM
3

Again, that's a different context.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 03:24 PM
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It's not a one-way street. It's critical thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 03:24 PM
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The context and nuance when it is said. Feminism isn't some thing with a clear leader. What one feminist does isn't a representation of all feminists. Ignoring the context and nuance of the quote you posted is just further proving my point. Context and nuance matters. Y'all taking Tiktok comments as a personal insult isn't because of Feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 06:17 AM
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That's a different context. And yes, that one I'd consider a slogan of the Me Too Movement. Which isn't feminism either. Feminism isn't some nebulous thing wondering what men think or don't think.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 05:35 AM
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I'm Millennial. And chronically online. So yes, I do have exposure. "Not all Men, but Always a Man"; "Man vs. Bear" Gallows humor often used in response to a man's violent (or non violent but still horrible) actions towards a woman. I see this commonly on the content I described. "Kill all Men". Gross behavior. I'd call this out as inappropriate. Though, I see men here complain about this one. I haven't seen it commonly, or really ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 05:32 AM
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Yes. Sometimes. And sometimes they are just poking fun at nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 05:18 AM
2

Those are different remarks. Again, context matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 04:52 AM
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Context and nuance matters. When someone says, "I support women's right and wrongs" on a Tiktok clip of Beth Dutton or whatever, it's not literal. It's a joke. It's silly online slang.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 04:43 AM
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Again, y'all are taking internet slang way too seriously. It has nothing to do with feminism. It's just silly nonsense. It's fun. It's joyful. It's not literal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 04:41 AM
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Literally just said, they aren't feminist slogans. 🙄 They are sarcastic comments about nonsense. As I said, stop taking internet jokes so damn literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 04:40 AM
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Those aren't feminist slogans. They are internet comments made in jest about nonsensical internet content. For the love of God, please stop taking social media content so damn literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 03:53 AM
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What's it about then?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 10:43 PM
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I disagree. I think most people marry their dream person. I don't think most people marrying someone they don't want. Why spend more time with someone you don't like?? Makes zero sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 10:34 PM
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You said, "men know this to be true". And I asked for examples. Do you have examples of "men know this to be true"? I didn't react. I'm not angry. I asked for examples in a debate sub. Can you share any examples? Idk man. I grew up on Ursula, Maleficent, and the Evil Queen. I'm well aware women can be toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 08:25 PM
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Yes. Men's advice for women seems to be "date/fuck the guy you're not attracted to and stop expecting men to actually like you or have any interest in you". I'd never ask a perpetually single man (or woman) for advice. I always asked the married couples for advice. And it's very easy to attract women. Some men just see actually liking someone as some kind of hurdle.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 08:16 PM
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I don't understand what you said. I'm not sure what you're asking. I said some women do and some women don't and some women are learning. It's not a math problem
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 08:13 PM
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How do men know it to be true? I'd love to hear some examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 08:09 PM
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It wasn't an argument. It was an ironic statement. Nothing to back track. That's great, if you don't want to use irony. I love irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 08:06 PM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 08:05 PM
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So excited Masters of the Universe is now streaming. Enjoyed it so much in theaters. Hollywood is really profiting off elder millennial/young gen x nostalgia.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 08:01 PM
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I see good people win all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:51 PM
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Some do. Some don't. Some are learning.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:51 PM
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That's not how irony works. And yes, you're repeating yourself because you don't understand irony. That's fine. Have a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:36 PM
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Of course, there's a subreddit on seduction. 🤣🤣🤣 omg. The musty corners of the internet continue to surprise me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:28 PM
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It's not a gotcha. It's an ironic statement. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:23 PM
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Sure but we've already proven it doesn't consistently work. You gave 1 example, yourself, which can't be verified.....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:22 PM
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Ooh goodie, another thread upset that women have standards. Why does it bother y'all so much that women want to be attracted to the men they date? Why does it bother y'all so much that women want to date men who are financially responsible? It seems like because some of y'all would date women you're not fully attracted to or don't have an income......that you expect women to act the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:20 PM
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My comment had nothing to do with being anti trans. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:11 PM
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A broken clock is right twice a day, doesn't mean it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:10 PM
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Cool for you. Doesn't make my point incorrect. Have a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:06 PM
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Had. It clearly doesn't work as no one seems to stick around for long. It's not scary. It's pitiful and pathetic. And mildly entertaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:01 PM
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Responding to what?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:00 PM
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Okay cool. Some women. Big whoop. My point still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:00 PM
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Stay on topic. First off, "blue pill" isn't real. It's just anything that isn't RP. If you don't see the irony. That's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:59 PM
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Tate was recently arrested because of what he's done to his "girlfriends". Myron is single. And recently dumped because of his inability to not cheat. Sneako is private Proving my point. 🤣🤣🤣 So thank you for proving my point. Have a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:43 PM
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Successful in romantic relationships. Which none of those you listed are. 🤷 So thank you for proving my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:32 PM
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Hey man, if you want to look under every rock before looking at yourself, that's your perogative.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:31 PM
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It's very wrong. 🤷 We would see all kinds of successful manosphere men if it was any kind of accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:22 PM
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Nope. Still no guarantee. I just said, "try different actions."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:12 PM
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An average woman can’t have casual sex with a high value man and expect an average man whom she makes wait for sex to be happy with that What? What exactly is the difference in the men? What makes one man high value and another man average? Women just need to treat all men whom they want to be potentially intimate with the same So I should be having sex in twin beds and cars because that's what I did at 19.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:07 PM
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If you're taking action and still not getting anything. Try different actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:02 PM
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So men are dehumanizing themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 05:59 PM
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Nope. That's not what I think. But I appreciate you being such a fan and hanging on my every word.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 05:58 PM
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Omg. This..... is.... You put all women on a pedestal because you were taught to honor and protect your own mother and your sister. I can't imagine someone who doesn't really like their wife to be a good husband. Seems like they initiated divorce because they didn't want to be married to someone who wasn't enamored with them. My goodness. What a wild read. Also, first graders can't flirt. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 05:57 PM
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It's all wrong. Every single theory, myth, rant. It's why the manosphere bros are single or divorced. They aren't selling relationship happiness. They are selling rage and snakeoil. If you want to defend and follow it..... that's your perogative. But it's dumb nonsense. Blue pill isn't real either. It's just anything that disagrees with RP. Both of which are taken from a movie written by transwomen. The irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 05:34 PM
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Let me be clear, manosphere content is wrong. And yes, some men fall down the manosphere hole because it's easier to blame women than acknowledge their lack of actions or how their actions are ruining their opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 05:23 PM
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I'm 5'4. Majority of men are taller than me. But sure, go off on your manosphere height rant. We've all heard it before.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 05:11 PM
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Relationships aren't guaranteed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 05:09 PM
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Lol. Your in charge of your own feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 05:09 PM
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Maybe stop looking at studies and get off line and interacting with real people. Stop believing manosphere nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:44 PM
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He's 2 apples tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:42 PM
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Here's a tip: do things for your own enjoyment. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:41 PM
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Everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:39 PM
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Idk who you are bub. I don't sit on your shoulder an observe your every move. How does what follow?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:39 PM
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That's great for your work. I can see why you have your bias. Can we acknowledge that your work isn't a representation of everything or everyone? Are you seriously asking how traveling works???? My guy, you have bigger issues if you don't understand traveling. Sheesh. No wonder there's a struggle. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:24 PM
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"Sparks" aren't created by one person. Believing that men are the only ones involved with sparks is manosphere content. Every reply to me has manosphere content. I do think there’s some disconnect in what women say they’re attracted to and what they actually are attracted to. More manosphere content. Again, not really something to claim without having actual experiences. Cold approaching is nonsense too. That's more manosphere content. I’m trying to take the right actions to attract more women. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:21 PM
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Ah, more manosphere beliefs. Nah, more men are single for believing in nonsense and acting like experts on something they have no experience with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:11 PM
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Not really. High school is high school. You go to school, you learn, you graduate. What is changing? People wanting more in life than just to get married and have babies by 23. Men are believing everything else but refusing to take accountability for their own actions. Social media has been around for nearly 30 years. Y'all can stop blaming social media now. It just reinforces my point that y'all refuse to take action and just believing nonsene that keeps you angry and alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:10 PM
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They lack nuance and context. And then whine that nobody wants to be around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:08 PM
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Ooh so you're responding to every single comment of mine. You really want my attention. That explains a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:07 PM
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It's going to differ couple to couple. Some meet at work, some meet at school, some meet through friends, some meet traveling, some meet through family, some meet online, etc. The opportunities are endless. If need ideas go watch a Hallmark movie. They are super fun meet cutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:07 PM
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It's not y'all looks that are repellent to women. It's the whole vibe of this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:05 PM
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Cool. That sounds about right for high school. I'm not saying anything about high schoolers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:04 PM
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You used it in every excuse back to me. So..... it does seem like you believe it. You're 23. Nothing has been proven. Other than you thought taking not actions would lead to dating success. Idk why you're focusing on marriage, at 23, when you've said you can't even get a date. Idk dude. Plan a trip with your friends. Go to a festival. Go do shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:03 PM
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I'm not going to call people who regularly interact with big crowds or people in a work capacity charismatic. Because they are putting on a mask. It's like calling a waitress or customer service person charismatic. They are just doing their job. He strikes me as very politician playing a part.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:00 PM
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Huh? I don't understand what you're referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:56 PM
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Stop listening to manosphere bullshit. Stop believing manosphere bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:55 PM
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Because it's not to be taken literally. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:53 PM
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At some point it becomes practivally impossible to meet people and let feelings develop naturally. No, it's not. It's pretty possible because it literally happens every single day. is it realy weird to see their desire as a reward Yes. Because dating isn't a competition. And viewing it as such is an action that leads to a lack of success.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:52 PM
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just them not making a strong romantic first impression on women. This doesn't make any sense. Believing nonsense like that is an action that is ruining opportunities. Bill Clinton Is 79 years old. He's not charismatic. He's a former politician. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:51 PM
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what are the actions to blame? Believing in manosphere content. Taking accountability for yourself instead of blaming others. Is there a point at which you'd agree that some people have legitimate struggles in modern dating world that are not results of their actions or personality? No. It all comes down to their actions or lack of action.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:47 PM
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Again, because of their own actions or lack of actions. In what you described, it's a lack of action. It's not women's fault. It is their own issues that they need to deal with and address. Women are advocating for men to fix their own issues instead of asking women to fix it for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:45 PM
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Nope. But if their automatic response is "looks" because of their believing manosphere content...... That's an example of their own actions causing issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:42 PM
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Again, these are different groups of women. They aren't the same women. I'm older and have learned through experience how to spot things. Not all women have the same experiences. Because they are younger or just didn't have the same experiences. Again, stop thinking that when 1 woman says something that's the same for every single woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:41 PM
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Here here. They seem to expect a woman to meet a man and never leave that man. They don't view women as whole beings with their own wants, desires, needs, etc. They view women as an extension of themselves. Like an extremity or piece of furniture. Then they blame women for their shortcomings. Get all emotional about women's standards. As if expecting an adult to be an adult is some kind of impossible standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:39 PM
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Yes, people can be single with hobbies, friends, fitness, hygiene, and a generally good character. However, when someone is single for a long time. Like many many years. It's obvious that person is single because of their own actions or lack of action. Men don't want to admit that their thoughts, beliefs, and actions are ruining their chances at relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:36 PM
2

How do you spot a promiscuous woman? Pretend we're people watching at the mall. You get a pretzel bite with every sighting I agree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 11:50 PM
1

Depends on how he feels about hanging out with a female friend one on one..... Friends come in all shapes and sizes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 08:08 PM
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They are the same just different fonts. 🤷 My husband is the first "athlete" I've dated. They are the same as "musicians" just different mediums.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 07:30 PM
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My husband works full-time and still has the mental acuity to know if we need more toilet paper or supplements or a food item. I can't imagine marrying a man who thinks that because he works he doesn't need to know what's going on in the household.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:03 PM
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No. I don't think so. And I think people who view it that way have never traveled and have a fundamental misunderstanding of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 05:31 PM
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Ew. I'd never even have sex with a man with multiple baby mamas. Yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:56 PM
1

Idk why y'all make the man in this scenario sound like such a loser. He's got a job so he's incapable of knowing if more diapers are needed for his own kids??? Damn. Y'all really seem men are these incapable humans who can't do anything other than work. They are such feeble minded men that they are so weak and incapable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 02:35 PM
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Got my workout done for the day. Now, time to pick a corner, cabinet, or cupboard for organizing. Maybe I'll do the bathroom cupboards. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 08:33 PM
1

I've never thought women were innocent. Women are capable of evil things too. Like.....have y'all never seen a Disney movie? Most the villains are women. Idk crime stats aren't collected to display women as innocent. They are collected to provide data on crime. Furthermore, y'all continue to ignore context and nuances that go into sentencing. Intent goes a long way in sentencing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 06:56 PM
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Everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:29 PM
1

No, it's because "adulthood" has different stages. A 42 yo and a 60 yo are in very different stages of adulthood. I think that's creepy too. 32 yo and 50 yo, also creepy. Again, adulthood is massive with multiple stages.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:29 PM
2

Ah...so you still don't understand my comment. Go it. Just say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:20 PM
3

No idea who or what this is or what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:15 PM
3

Who?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:11 PM
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Go ahead and read again, "the men I've had sex with". I've never had sex with an uncircumcised penis. My god.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:08 PM
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Brah, respectfully your comprehension sucks. I said, "less than 5". So check yourself before trying to go after someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:02 PM
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When I read men complaining here....I usually just laugh. Most of the time their complaints are caused by their own actions (or lack of action). It's like watching The 3 Stooges or something. Very slapstick comedy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 04:37 PM
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I had a lot of casual sex. Sometimes it was worth it. And sometimes it wasn't. The sometimes were rare. I never used OLD. I always picked up men at bars/clubs/parties. I found it easier in person because you could gauge interest, sexual talent, and safety. Granted, Gen Z men seem like selfish unprepared lovers. So I'd probably skip having sex with them too if I was a Gen Z woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 04:35 PM
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Really??? That's so strange to me. I think I've only seen a few uncircumcised. Like less than 5. If my back of the napkin math is correct, it's like 0.1% of the men I've had sex with are uncircumcised. Circumcision seems pretty common where I'm from.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 04:20 PM
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They want women to do the work for them. This thread is full of excuses. Same with when you ask why they can't have friends or travel. It's always some lame excuse
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 03:04 PM
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There's nothing to be sour about when losers are doing losery things. Age gaps will never been normalized. They'll always be met with judgment. Because the older party is a creepy weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 02:57 PM
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Yup. They can be rich and creepy weirdos. And yup, I already said my opinion doesn't matter. It's just my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 08:11 PM
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Sour grapes that I wasn't picked for an age gap relationship? What is there is be sour about?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 08:08 PM
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No shit there's blended families. 🙄 We're talking about age gaps. Stay on topic. I think it's weird. And yet people are in age gap relationships everywhere. I truly don't care. They have their whole lives without knowing my opinion. My opinion on this only matters to my dating choices. And sometimes friend choices. But....mostly my opinion of finding is fucking weird is just that. My opinion. At this point, we've gone back and forth enough to know that we disagree. There's nothing more to say. H…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 06:51 PM
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Power imbalances. As previously mentioned. Again, this is my opinion. I think it's weird and creepy. We don't have to agree. You don't see an issue. Cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 06:47 PM
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Yes. That is correct. Those are creepy weirdos. And I'd tell them such. 🤷 I wouldn't consider it aspirational. But y'all can. I'm gonna laugh at the creepy weirdos.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 06:37 PM
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They can have kids of a similar age. Though not likely because of the 15 year age difference. Chances are the older party's kids are adults to the other party preteens. One might indeed how more power because they've had 15 more years of work experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 06:34 PM
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Ugh. I hate it too! Just use a website. An app is completely unnecessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 06:11 PM
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I already shared some examples: careers and children. HTH. I'm treating it as more valuable insights than someone who isn't 40 and without experience of the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 06:08 PM
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Even though I've known 26 year old who owns businesses welcoming their second child halfway through their 15 year mortgage That's great. So in a very different place than their 43 year old future self with a paid off mortgage, a business, and kids in college. Thank you for your excellent example that illustrates the difference in life experiences between a 26 yo and a 43 yo old.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 06:07 PM
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The difference in life stages can create a power imbalance. Yes, we disagree. I'm so glad you've finally understood. I've answered your questions. I'm almost 40 and have had age gap relationships in the past. Perhaps my lived experiences gives me insights that yours doesn't. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 06:02 PM
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Money impacts everything dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 06:00 PM
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It doesn't make it moot because someone else had kids younger. 🤣🤣🤣 And yes, reaching a career peak in your 40s does indeed matter. Why? Different work loads. Different work expectations. The difference is the same. The life stages just look different.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:53 PM
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I literally said this like 3 times. So glad you finally caught up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:48 PM
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Oh I don't care. They can do whatever. I am laughing at the older person though. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:47 PM
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Nah. It's the money. Which impacts status, strength, confidence. It's the 40-something man will happily pay for a date and buy flowers. Meanwhile the Gen Z men are whining about having to pay for dates or buy flowers. Or whatever else the men in this sub whine about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:47 PM
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It is that weird. I have a different opinion than you. No authority. Just a different opinion. They're at very different stages. At 40, they could have a newborn or toddler. At 55, they could have college age or high schoolers. At 40, you're hitting your career peak. At 55, you're preparing for your career descent. I get that y'all are young and don't see the different stages of adulthood accurately.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:44 PM
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Do we? I'm not sure "we" do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:37 PM
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Yup. His money is attractive. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:36 PM
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55 yo and 40 yo is weird too. Also in very different stages of life. Yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:35 PM
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Money is the only reason. There's no other reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:31 PM
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They are adults are different life stages. Just like a jet and a commercial plane are different kinds of airplanes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:31 PM
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So what am I projecting??? I'm so curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:27 PM
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Holy life experience. 🤷 Stay mad. Y'all seem really pressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:19 PM
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It's always a sugar daddy thing. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:13 PM
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It's a real answer. It's okay if you don't like my answer. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:06 PM
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It's creepy and weird. 🤷 Yes, she's happy to use his resources until she gets bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:03 PM
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43 and 26 are two very different adults. Maybe you'll understand when you're older. Maybe not. Again, do whatever the fuck you want. It's weird to seek approval from strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:02 PM
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It's creepy and weird. And if that was my bestie, I'd tell her the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:59 PM
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Because 25 isn't 43. HTH. Maybe you'll understand when you're older. Maybe not. My stance is pretty clear. If you don't understand that's a comprehension issue that I can't help with. Again, if you want to be a creepy weirdo. Go forth. Have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:58 PM
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Yup. They know they are dating a creepy weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:51 PM
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I laugh at 43 year old men dating 26 year old women. Yup. Every single time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:50 PM
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I didn't dodge it. I answered it with my "it is specific to age". You know, the conversation at hand. Idk how old you are. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:46 PM
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Men limit themselves. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:44 PM
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Cool bro. Do whatever the fuck you want. I'll be over here laughing at the losers. It's peak entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:43 PM
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Because you're not 43. I get it. It's hard to understand when you're 25 and think you're so grown. But you're not. You're just starting out you're adult life. It is specifically about age. Look, y'all can do whatever the fuck you want. But a 15+ age gap will always be fucking weird and the older person is the creepy weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:42 PM
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Idk how many times I have to repeat, "The older person is the creepy weirdo".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:39 PM
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Nope. As my comment stated, a 43 yo and a 26 yo is creepy. The 43 yo has more life experiences and more just life than the 26 yo. The 43 yo is a creepy weirdo. Y'all want to be creepy weirdos. So go forth. Do so. Have fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:32 PM
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Okay.... let me repeat.... The older person is the creepy weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:30 PM
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Nope. Feel free to read again. If you don't understand, that's your own comprehension issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:25 PM
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Go ahead and reread my post. You seemed to have misunderstood my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:24 PM
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Go ahead and reread my comment again. The very first sentence gives it away.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:23 PM
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The older person is always the creep. Even women. A 26 year old will never have the same life experiences that a 43 year old has had. The older person is always the creepy weirdo. If y'all want to be creepy weirdos and date younger women, do so. I'll think you're a creepy weirdo but who cares. Do you boo. It's weird how often men here bring it up. It's like they know it's creepy but they want to do it anyway. So do it and stop talking about it. Eta - ooh my comment really upset the creepy weirdo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:18 PM
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Healthcare is "goofy as hell"??
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 07:26 AM
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You think your child's birthday can be forgotten? You think your child can miss important appointments, games, other kids birthday parties, etc. Wow...... but a lot of ya’ll just doing some extra shit that no one even asked for. Such as? I'm still waiting for an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 07:15 AM
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And you think that's something that can be ignored or forgotten? Important dates, can easily be forgotten or something that shouldn't be taken on?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 06:43 AM
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But he wants a servant in a wife. All from mom's basement?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 06:35 AM
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Can you? And why can't he get himself out of the basement?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 06:21 AM
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Why can't he take himself out of his mom's basement?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 06:17 AM
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I don't understand this thought process. So y'all only want relationships with women because women are supposed to cook and clean? .....
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 06:14 AM
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No. I wouldn't be willing to take a man out of his mom's basement.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 06:05 AM
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You seem to misunderstand the comment. The comment I'm responding to is about a relationship with a woman. The comment I'm responding to is about a man and woman being in a relationship who are great friends and care about each other who can spend time with each other doing things other than sex. Go back and reread the comment I was responding to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 06:03 AM
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Huh? I don't understand what you're trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:56 AM
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Better at what?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:51 AM
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What women are you referring to? Is there someone you're specifically referring to? Almost without exception, I do not know a married woman my age or younger who cooks, and they proudly proclaim it. So there's exceptions. Glad we cleared that up. What's your age? How many married women do you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:51 AM
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It's not hypocrisy. They don't have capacity for love. Because if they did then they'd be willing to cook and clean. They wouldn't be relying on a woman to do those things. Maybe they'll love a goldfish or a dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:45 AM
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the ability to be great friends who care about each other who can spend time with each other doing things other than sex This is the part that they don't get. And it's sad because that's the best part. Obviously sex is great but not that great in comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:23 AM
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Because otherwise, it confirms you care about my opinions. So every single time you respond to me, I'll know you're ultimately seeking my approval and care about my opinions. You want me to notice you because you care so much about my opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:19 AM
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My comment or OPs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:18 AM
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Great. Show that by not responding to my comments. I double dog dare you!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:15 AM
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Do you know what "managing family relationships" means? Like can you think of an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:11 AM
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Thank goodness we've established that. Please be sure to use that approach to future comments of mine. Go ahead and just skip on by.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:10 AM
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Someone who works in marketing or HR isn't trying to become a billionaire CEO. JFC. What a childish thought. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:07 AM
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Yes, and your example didn't change my point. 🤷 It's your opinion that it's foolish. I don't agree. So you trying to explain your opinion of thinking it's foolish, is kinda foolish. 🤣 Anyway, good luck with the opinions of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:06 AM
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You know the world operates on capitalism right? And doctors put more money in the pockets of billionaires? Lawyers put more money in the pockets of billionaires?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:04 AM
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And then backtracking because AI didn't work like that thought. 🤣🤣🤣 But sure, bub. Keep enjoying the benefits of those industries.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:01 AM
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I must have missed the handbook they pass out to wives. I didn't realize there was skills involved in being a wife. Where in my vows did it say anything about cooking or cleaning? Huh. I don't have any disdain for men. I do feel sorry for the men who think like OP. It's unfortunate they don't have capacity for love.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:00 AM
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You seem to have a false sense of superiority. You're generalizating an entire industry and it's fucking weird. They are in fact teaching the future, HR absolutely saves lives, they protect communities, and have real value that you benefit from everyday. Once you get off your high horse maybe you'll discover that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:56 AM
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Idk. It's a con. 🤷 We don't agree. You're not going to convince me to care about your opinion or the opinions of others who didn't like me at a convention.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:54 AM
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If someone wants to be anti family, they can. You're not the authority on what other people want to do with their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:51 AM
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They aren't BS. And companies are already discovering that AI isn't replacing them. Honestly, y'all come off incredibly ignorant dismissing industries you benefit from daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:51 AM
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With all due respect, they really are. Marketing, HR, and other white collar jobs are full of people with ambition.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:49 AM
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Sounds like someone who shouldn't care about the opinions of random strangers at a con. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:47 AM
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Marketing, human resources, and other "white collar cushy jobs" are of real value to society. Full stop. Mostly, those who want children are more than welcome to have them. should take a long reflection on why they feel that way. She doesn't want to. That's it. That's the reflection. I'm a wife. I don't want to be a mom. 🤷 I'll never understand why other men I've never met seem to have a problem with us not having kids. Weird things to worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:37 AM
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Nope. It's not a contradiction. Where do you see the contradiction? Please use a specific example. Paint a picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:29 AM
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No, those opinions don't. It's not practical to "measure your worth" based on others. Have your standards. Keep them high. Put yourself in places and opportunities to meet people who meet those standards. No use in letting the fears and insecurities of others who disagree with your standards ruin your opportunities. If I listened to the opinions of others, I'd never have moved to a fabulous city. A city where I ended up meeting my husband. If I listened to their opinions, I'd be bitter, living i…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:25 AM
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Dude idk what you're saying. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:20 AM
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Ya...the peanut gallery. Why would I take feedback from a potential partner who didn't make the cut???
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:12 AM
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Huh? It doesn't matter. Honestly, why listen to the peanut gallery?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 03:50 AM
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The topic of caring about the opinions of others regarding dating standards. People will have opinions about your dating standards. That's great. I don't think there's any reason to care about those opinions. If you care, that cool. Go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 03:19 AM
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Not a single preference has been listed. So even when asked, they can't directly answer. Idk why I expected more. 😕 That's on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 02:59 AM
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I'd argue it's useless to care what others think about your dating standards. Stay on topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 02:54 AM
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Personality isn't the only thing but it's certainly a priority.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 02:45 AM
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Huh? Stigmatized by who? Again, why care about the opinions of others?????? Y'all seem way too reliant on the peanut gallery.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 02:43 AM
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Sure but why listen to what someone else has to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 02:16 AM
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Huh? I honestly don't know what you're referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:57 AM
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Yes. It's very feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 12:12 AM
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Again, you said, "time, energy, and resources"..... And now, you've moved the goal posts to social media. 🤷 Seems like if you're spending time on energy on nonsense like blaming "social media", you're not gonna feel like you've had capacity to self improve. Dating is trying again and again and again. That's dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 09:16 PM
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What's embarrassing? That people think a size 6 is fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 08:49 PM
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RP didn't invent self improvement. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 08:36 PM
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I'm not assuming. Y'all are literally responding telling me how difficult it is for men to try. Social media isn't the problem. Y'all having excuses for everything is the problem. Y'all saying men don't have time, energy, or resources is the problem. The 2nd problem is still the first problem of not trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 08:35 PM
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I still only ever had moderate success in dating. What does moderate success mean? With all the stats you listed, are you saying you struggle to date someone you want to date? As in, you have women interested in you, but not the women you're interested in? The amount of effort you have to put in just to get someone to kinda like you feels disproportionate to the type of women you can realistically land. Do you have an example? Can you describe the effort? And if it’s all random, why put in the e…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 08:33 PM
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Women have also been told to self improve to have a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 08:28 PM
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Huh? Counts if you're a man. Honestly, these responses show exactly why y'all struggle. You'll refuse to do anything and just expect women to come running towards y'all just eager for a relationship with a rock.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 08:27 PM
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Like I said, make one small choice. And then another and then another. What that means is going to look different for everyone. But acting like you can't something, is why y'all will always struggle. If you want to be the victim go for it. Nobody wants to be in a relationship with someone who constantly acts like the victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 08:25 PM
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Excuses, excuses, excuses. Make time, even if it's 5 mins. Energy? Do it tired. Resources? YouTube, library, look for them. All things that can be adapted to fit the individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 08:12 PM
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Even having the idea that asking is acceptable is a deal breaker. This exactly. If someone asked me my weight, I'd end the conversation right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 05:50 PM
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What lies protect my feelings? Why does my partner need to know my weight? I've never known a man's weight. A man has never asked me my weight. Who is going around asking about abortions? I think debt only needs to be shared, if a couple is living together. And even then, I think plan and results is more important. Idk I can't think of any scenarios when I lied to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 05:26 PM
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logical choice happens to be for him to drop you for another woman, What's the logical choice here? Do you have an example. I'm not sure what you're referring to so I want to be clear. The fantasy is that one day he will. One day he will what? Ask her to start bringing in income? Ask for her support to explore a career pivot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 01:19 AM
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It's egocentric to look at singular thing and say, "see, I've got it 35% worse than you".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 12:26 AM
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No. I actually preferred men who had different tastes in music. I have a very broad music taste. My partner likes completely different music. And there's some overlap. Makes for fun road trips. We graduated high school the same year so we know a lot of the same Top 40 from those high school > college years.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 12:25 AM
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Risk is particularly high up on the list of priorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 12:13 AM
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If someone is on a date with you, they think you're attractive. All you need to do is be yourself and see if y'all vibe. You can't make anyone be anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 12:03 AM
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Women broadly don't have any reason to bear that risk. Implying that you think men's risk is so much more bigger and badder than women's. As if women couldn't possibly understand because it's just so big and bad and manly that poor little women wouldn't be able to grasp just how big a risk that these manly men take.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 12:02 AM
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Yes, I'd rather take my advice than listen to the idea that men are the only ones who face risk in romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 11:40 PM
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And I'm disagreeing with you. Glad we've cleared that up. Good luck to you. You sound like you've figured it all out so you should be swimming in your romantic success!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 11:38 PM
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I understand your point. I'm disagreeing with it. It's not broadly. It's a portion but not the majority. Building a relationship takes two people. A relationship is a risk two people take. The shitshows only occur if you're inappropriate. Most people just move and go about. Platonic relationships come in all forms. Again, women deal with rejection too. Women put effort into building a relationship. Women are there existing, just like men. It's weird to see men as the only gender capable of exper…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 11:30 PM
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I understand they are different. But the mechanics, the concepts are very similar. Especially when you consider the first dates that start from warm connections. People who already knew each other. Not all dates are from OLD. Yes, this is a debate sub. You gave a reason and I gave a counter to that reason. That is a debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 11:25 PM
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In what context? Most the men I dated or fucked I met through school, work, friends, etc. People who I'd already spoken with prior to any romantic initiating. So there wasn't really an expectation. Sometimes the guy asked. Sometimes I asked. I didn't really keep a tally. I don't agree with the manosphere talking point that men are the only ones expected to initiate. It limits the conversation to cold approaching or OLD only. It lacks nuances and contexts to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 11:04 PM
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I implore you to extrapolate on the challenges you're describing. I don't know what you're thinking. In debates, it's helpful to share examples or details so the other party can better engage.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 10:54 PM
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Because I didn't claim everyone in a relationship means they have good advice to give. So why did you make those statements that I did? It's very similar to going on a date while single. Conversation occurs, sharing of information and each other's life, time spent getting to know each other. Honestly, I feel like our first date never stopped. 🤷 But that wasn't every relationship. And that's what makes people over 35 worth listening to about dating. Because they've seen the good and the bad and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 10:54 PM
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Satisfying about doctor's having sex? Have you not heard of Grey's Anatomy? Or countless other shows, movies, etc of doctor's fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 10:50 PM
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This is exactly what I mean. Thank you for proving my point. I encourage you to look outside yourself and see the reality of similarities. Not the hyperbolic manosphere boogeyman. Dating is a challenge for everyone. Stop thinking it's just men. Roll up your sleeves and try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 10:48 PM
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Same obstacles. Y'all thinking that you're the only one to experience things is part of the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 10:44 PM
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More results.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 10:41 PM
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Being single and no experience doesn't mean you have good advice to give. Being single and having limited experience doesn't mean you have good advice to give. People who have been in a relationship for a long time are very in touch with relationships. People in long term relationships are still dating each other. Great. You can believe that. I don't think anyone my age is giving that advice because it's fucking obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 10:40 PM
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Dating isn't some niche concept. Your examples are so niche, half the words don't make sense. That's not how dating works. I still date my husband. You don't stop "the rigors" of dating because you're in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 10:37 PM
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They don't seem to understand that apps existed in the 2010s and even 2000s. They seem to be romanticizing the early 2000s. As if it was some kind of dating Utopia. But even 2000, we had the internet. We had social media in it's infancy. MySpace came out in 2003. Where we ranked our Top 8 friends. The way dudes complain today, they couldn't handle the ranking of MySpace. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 09:42 PM
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They're very much the same. I still use the "skills" I used in finding my partner as I do maintaining our relationship. What skills do you think are different?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 09:20 PM
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Exactly. Why wouldn't you take advice from someone who dated and found a relationship? Unless....you're just looking for advice on how to get quick sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 09:19 PM
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People who are 35 today, were 7 in 1998..... I was 12 in 1998. I wasn't dating in 1998. Based on the younger generation inability to do simple math, I feel very comfortable giving dating advice. As someone who dared for decades, I feel very comfortable giving dating advice. As someone who has had hookups, relationships, and everything in between, I feel very comfortable giving dating advice. But if y'all would prefer to listen to advice from single men who have limited results.....I mean that's …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 09:16 PM
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Lmao. My high school experience was great. I dated a lot, I had multiple boyfriends, I was on the dance team, I was in AP classes, I was popular, I went to parties, etc. By your logic, I had a world class high school experience. I'm just not going to live my life based on high school. Hilarious that someone studied this and kinda proved my point. People who are still obsessed with high school after high school are the only people who care. The rest of us, don't care about high school. Because so…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 08:39 PM
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Lol. High school? No way. What a limiting perspective. So many people thrive after high school. Looking back at my high school peers, I don't know what any of them are up to because it's been 20 years and nobody cares. What I remember from our 10 year, the hot jocks were divorced dads; the nerds were happily married; the quiet loser found himself at college; the unattractive ones found unattractive partners, etc. High school is the least important point for someone. Thinking like this is how you…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 08:18 PM
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Exactly. People change. Or they say they've changed and they actually haven't. But honestly choices are made. It's how you handle those choices when they turn into consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:46 PM
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I don't ever say it to my friends or whatever. I only say it to match the energy of some man whining online. Frankly, it's not as simple as people try and make it appear. There's a lot of nuances at play.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:44 PM
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No nerves touched. It's a debate sub. 🤣🤣 Y'all say shit and someone will respond. I have tattoos. But that's it's from that list.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:19 PM
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Lol. More like women are more likely to seek treatment for their mental health. Meanwhile men online think that BMI is an indicator of anything. And act like 27-29 BMI is 600 lbs. Instead of a normal healthy active body. And complaining about tattoos as if their opinions matter. But sure... the average woman is so bad. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:33 PM
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Precisely!! I think it's the womb envy that some men have that makes them think everyone wants to be a parent. If the Queen of England never wed and had children, why should I? I am married, 9 months ago. 🤣🤣 But we're childfree. No kiddos for us. Ever. Hooray!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:30 PM
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Great thing that women can have jobs too. Almost like those men created their own cage that could easily be solved by their wife working or making better decisions. Sounds like those men aren't logical or good decision makers. They should have thought about their well being before deciding to have multiple children on one income.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:17 PM
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That's great that 50% of women between 24-44 will be single and childless by 2030. Good for them. There's more to life than being in a relationship and having kids. Especially at 24 - 30. And yes, based on the replies about being asked to take out the trash, there is a shortage of quality men. Based on that, I'd guess that many of those single women are too good for those single, musty men who can't take out the trash. Eta - not everyone wants to be married or a parent. Expecting a 100% marriage…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:02 PM
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Women are "allowed" because they have their own bank accounts and jobs now. Because they have more autonomy. Not because of evolution. Do you seriously think that women never ever were attracted to men until 1972? Like.....
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:58 PM
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You're not explaining anything. Dating has always been a challenge. Dating has always been about finding the best partner for you. If you want an honest debate, let's acknowledge the lack of actions on lonely men. If you want an honest debate, let's hold those lonely men accountable for their lack of action. Women wanting to date men they are attracted to, who are interested in the woman as a person, isn't some major conspiracy against men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:50 PM
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The way women treat men they are attracted to and men they are friends with are not the same at all. No shit. I don't want to fuck my friends. Starter girlfriends happen in elementary school. Otherwise, it's just your first girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:48 PM
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I haven't missed your point. I don't agree your point. We aren't getting anywhere because y'all refuse to take your own actions and expect a woman to solve everything. It's so damn pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:45 PM
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Lmao. So.... get a fucking pet. Y'all don't want actual women. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:42 PM
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Honestly, lonely males continue to be lonely because they spend their time looking at data to find reasons to blame women. They are lonely because of their own inability to do anything with others. They are lonely because they spend all their time alone. They are the cause of their own loneliness. And it's easier to blame women than address their own lack of action.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:42 PM
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You're whole thread is that a woman is the solution. Bro. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:38 PM
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Excuses, excuses, and zero accountability. Everything is so hard for those men the only solution is for a woman to fix the issue. Damn. You're really selling these men as worthwhile romantic partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:33 PM
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Never suggested that friends were. I suggested that friends give opportunities. I suggested that not having friends is causing a lack of opportunities. You're not going to convince me that men who don't have friends and don't socialize aren't the cause of their own problems. Those men need to take accountability for their lack of actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:30 PM
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Jesus Fucking Christ. My friends don't offer me anything. What the actual fuck? Again, this is y'all making your own issues. No shit you can do it solo. That's why you have so friends!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:24 PM
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But what "certain experience" are you referring to if not sex? Can you answer? People have romantic experiences at all kinds of different ages. There's no singular path. JFC. Y'all make everything so damn difficult. Make friends. Hang out with friends. Socialize, travel, live life. Men who lack experience do so because they lack socializing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:20 PM
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Yes, you're talking about men needed imaginary girlfriends because they can't seem to have actual friends
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:15 PM
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So what "certain experience" are you referring to? All people never have experience at some point. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:14 PM
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Are you talking about 1920s or something? Because.....
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:13 PM
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"Starter" girlfriends happen in elementary school. If that didn't happen for you, that's okay. The next step is just "first girlfriend". And yes, women get crushed by boy behavior early in life and carry that hurt through life. Almost like being hurt isn't a gender specific thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:12 PM
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I asked multiple questions. Can you answer those? But there is a certain experience you can’t get unless a woman takes a chance with you. Sex?? You literally cannot comprehend a scenario you were never in. what scenario????
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:05 PM
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Do you have an example of what this looks like???
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:04 PM
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What exactly would this mystical angel do for these men over the course of a year? . Ask him to take out the trash? Sit idly next to him in silence as he games or watch anime? So only 1 year is enough to make someone well rounded???? are crushed by their own realities by the time they hit their mid twenties. What realities? Women don’t typically want to be the person that give men their first everything so they can fully develop What? I don't understand what you're trying to say here. women came…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:59 PM
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Nah. Just a minority of men. And best I can observe, those men who care about little things like stretch marks or cellulite are single and/or divorced and/or never been in a long term relationship and/or don't see woman as people but rather naked bodies that must be perfect for the duration of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:02 PM
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Exhibit A - Ozempic, GLP 1s being used by people of already healthy chic Exhibit B - "heroine chic" in the early 2000s, which is coming back radically in the late 2020s. Exhibit C - stretch marks can be caused by growth spurts. Not just weight gain.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:00 PM
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The 2010s were post the 2008 housing/economic/crisis. And wars. And evil corporations. Again, Gen Z isn't the first generation to have wars or economic crisis. Shows how little Gen Z knows about anything really. And how poorly they understand history and critical thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:26 PM
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Every time I see them say "jester" it reads like they don't want to have an actual conversation with women. They don't want to hear about their interests or hobbies or where she works or whatever. They just want to jump straight into sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:15 AM
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It's been a shit show. Gen Z isn't the first generation to date. 🙄 Eta - lol. Y'all don't want to start that. Because we can match that energy. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:10 AM
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How do you think I got a husband? I dated men. I dated lots of men before my husband. I'm far more qualified to talk about dating than dudes who haven't had any dates or can't get a relationship to stick.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:51 AM
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Those 2 things can be literally anything. You like space, she likes constellations. You like lighthouses, she likes traveling. You like video games, she likes puzzles. Whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:48 AM
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Idk who Phillip Glass is, but my husband is into Dune and I'm into Olivia Rodrigo and Bridgerton (not Love Island). Why do we need to have the exact same interests? So no, I don't get your point. You watch Love Island, she watches Dune (or falls asleep cuddling on you).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:41 AM
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One where it's been asked once or more times with zero action, acknowledgement, or counter (ie I'll do it after dinner). And then... the fact that it needs to be asked is a specific kind of household. Because there's plenty of households where an ask never has to be made to take out the trash. People who have lived with partners have an understanding of these dynamics. If you haven't lived with a romantic partner before, you're not likely to understand the dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:34 AM
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Again, this is going to depend on the household. This isn't a one size fits all concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:30 AM
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We're specifically talking about being asked to take out the trash. If you can't stay on topic, I will no longer engage. I'm not the kind of woman to marry a man who needs to be asked to take out the trash. Other women are free to do whatever the fuck they want. As demonstrated in the comments. Some women agree with me. Some women don't. Some women are fine with taking the trash out after dinner. OP asked for opinions from women. An ask isn't an order. Best of luck with your perspective on "asks…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:23 AM
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Idk why y'all expect women to think and act and do everything the same way. Some women will only date men who make more than them. Some women will date men who make equal or more. Some women will date men who make less than them. Some women will date men with no job. Some women will date men in prison. Some women will date women. Point is, what's a humiliation ritual for men is the manosphere. It's believing that other single men have any insights on romance or relationships. Manosphere can hard…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:17 AM
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Why on earth would she be asking? Please tell me the premise. Please go ahead and explain to me what exactly you think should be done here. Please share how you handle when your wife or girlfriend asks you to do something like take out the trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:09 AM
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What an incredibly interesting way to think about being asked to take out the trash because you didn't do it right the first time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:03 AM
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Not a comparable analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:56 AM
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New Titanic documentary has dropped. Guess I'm staying up a little later than usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:55 AM
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I've never had to ask my husband to take out the trash. And yes, because asking someone to take out the trash isn't an order. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:51 AM
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An order can be refused. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:44 AM
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Whale, bird, or snake sounds are my favorite.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:46 AM
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Nuance is relevant. It doesn't need to mention short term because the nuance implies it's short term. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:46 AM
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That's not a situationship though. If either don't want to be in a relationship, that's fuck buddies. If someone wants more. Or it's this weird ambiguous situation....that's a situationship. That's what the tweet is saying. A lack of nuance for all the many ways that romantic relationship happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:38 AM
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Seriously. And they act like such experts on women because of some podcast or Tiktok.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:36 AM
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I don't think about having sex with random men I see in public. i see attractive woman i can imagine sex with her. This makes me want to never step foot outside. How incredibly creepy that strange men are imagining having sex with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:23 AM
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I disagree. Not all situationships mean someone wants more. But lots of times a situationship occur because someone wants more. That's why it's a "situation" as opposed to a defined fling, fuck buddy, boyfriend, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:16 AM
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The original tweet agrees. The original tweet is referring to nuance.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:15 AM
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Yes. No shit. Situationships aren't long term. They are the ambiguous period that are short term because it either ends or becomes a relationship. If it's long term, it's a fuck buddy. An agreed upon arrangement. Again, nuance matters like the tweet was saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 11:28 PM
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Awesome. Your experiences haven't been my experiences. Almost like there's multiple experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 11:13 PM
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Respectfully, it's not an order for an adult to ask another adult in the shared household to take out the trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 11:01 PM
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If 1 party wants more and the other doesn't they are still in a situationship until it either ends or becomes an official relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 11:00 PM
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A situationship can have someone who is pushing for more. A situationship can have someone who isn't pushing for more. Like the tweet said, nuance. Meaning, what works for one person (push for more) might not work for the next person (not push). It's not nonsense. It's highlights the ignoring of nuance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:50 PM
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I keep trying to watch the new Little House on the Prairie..... But it's such an annoying story that even a reboot has me rolling my eyes. 🙄 I'd love to see a similar series that is original over this boring reboot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:46 PM
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You don't have to be religious to have the drive for a relationship. 🙄 Not all liberal women go to college. I swear, y'all have a misunderstanding of "liberal" and just apply it to anyone who didn't fit your expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:30 PM
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All the white frat guys I know are liberals. I don't know any conservative frat guys. I'm not sure that kind of environment attracts many conservative guys. Maybe depending on the frat and university location.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:05 PM
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For 95 % of women, intelligence per se is not attractive. Incorrect. Intelligence is very attractive for majority of women. Intelligence is more than just opinions on Kant or Nietzsche. 🙄 Intelligence alone isn't enough though. Very left leaning men are often not good looking This is a lie too. Idk why y'all think this. It makes zero sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:01 PM
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My husband was telling me a story about how his friend acted a fool at a party and he had to, walk away from a game of beer pong to take him home. And I said, "good, I'm glad he cock blocked you so that you could still meet me." 😆😆😆 Sometimes things don't work out so you can meet the person who things work out with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:32 PM
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300 women is a very tiny sample size. And you're likely to get a variety of responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:24 PM
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You checked off intellectual boxes but that's not enough..... Weird to assume that all women struggle because you weren't selected solely based on you're "intellect". Liberal men look and act masculine. Again, y'all need to stop with this binary thinking. Y'all think that men can either be hot/shitty partners or ugly/best partners. My husband is a very masculine liberal man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:22 PM
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Millennials has dating apps and social media. Gen X had dating apps and social media. Boomers had community and socializing. Political views have always been important. That's not new. Gender roles aren't necessary and completely made up. Hence why they are actively shifting and have been for many decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:07 PM
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I'm disgusted by any human who needs to be told to take out a full trash van.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:05 PM
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I don’t think that today’s lonely men get much chance to really socialize anymore. Because they refuse to socialize, they believe manosphere nonsense, they are bitter and angry, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:04 PM
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These guys really sell themselves as helpless.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 05:53 PM
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Not everyone went to parties. 🤷 Yup, you gotta put in the effort to get outside. That hasn't changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 05:45 PM
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Idk...probably not wanting to date a man who has to be asked to take out the trash. What do you think is keeping a woman from finding a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 05:43 PM
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What values should women compromise?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 05:27 PM
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Yes and no. I think online can make it easier to connect with people, have flexible work, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 05:26 PM
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Dating has always been hard. Gen Z just thinks they are the first generation to experience dating challenges. Especially the Gen Z who spend more time online than with other people in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 05:20 PM
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Okay. 🤷 You specifically brought up a specific person. I'm commenting on that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 05:17 PM
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Well, sounds like that man thought her ex deserved it and didn't feel like she'd do the same to him. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 05:05 PM
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Right, I know that. I don't know her dating history moving forward. Did she have many suitors? Idk. Doesn't seem that all different than women who go after serial killers or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 04:55 PM
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Did she have many suitors after that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 04:54 PM
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This is a great real time example of how different people find different things attractive. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 04:16 PM
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Asking someone to take out the trash, in the home you both live in, isn't an order. I don't even have to ask my husband. Because he's an adult who has eyes, nose, and hands. He's quite capable of taking out the trash without being asked. I wouldn't be in a relationship with someone who needs to be asked to take out the trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 04:07 PM
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I didn't say anything about a countdown or timer. I said, I agree that if asked, it should be done immediately. Honestly, having to ask in the first place is treating him like his mother. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 03:41 PM
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What was her past?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 03:03 PM
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The over inflated sense of self they feel they get from simply being a man. Some men think that their being a man means they can take credit for all of men's accomplishments despite having no accomplishments themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 03:02 PM
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He looked better before. People are turning into Handsome Squidward and it's not handsome at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 03:01 PM
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I agree with the, "expect it done now". If I'm asking someone to do something, I'm asking because I want it done immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:59 PM
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How would you know an ex is giving blow jobs in her next relationship??? I've had a lot of sex in my life. And I've never known the sex life of an ex after we ended things. Hell, I didn't know their sex life before either. If blowies are so important to you, don't get into a relationship with someone who doesn't want to give them. Again, y'all create your own drama. The drama must be intoxicating because y'all never seem to stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:53 PM
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Seriously. These guys really show why they are single and struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:48 PM
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I've never had to ask a man to take out the trash. I've only lived with men who do chores without asking. Because they have eyes and noses and can see the damn trash can is full and needs to be taken out. If I had to ask a grown man to take out the trash, that is a sign we aren't compatible and I'm dumping his ass. So...I guess, this answer to your question is, "if I have to ask, I'm not interested in that man."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:47 PM
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I'm talking about qualities that have traditionally been associated with masculinity, like taking initiative, being logical under pressure, accepting responsibility, being decisive, emotionally resilient, communicating directly, willingly accepting risk, thinking for yourself and so on. These aren't inherently masculine. Have you ever been outside? You realize that women hold all kinds of jobs that require them to do all of those things every single day. If a woman is interested in a man, she'll…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:45 PM
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Huh? Wait, you somehow think the one who was broken up with is better than the one she's with? Honestly, this is another example of y'all creating your own obstacles. Most "modern" women, get their heartbroken and move on. As do most people for that matter. This is just more made up nonsense that y'all keep falling for.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:36 PM
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What kind of work do you? Sounds like your work skews your perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:20 AM
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Who are these men you're asking every day? The men I observe seem to be happy, laughing, holding hands, smiling at each other, etc. The times I do have conversations, in person, with men in relationships they have nothing but positive things to say about their partner and their relationship. Sure, I see the few fights between couples. But that's uncommon.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:06 AM
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The everyday average man is doing just fine. I witness this all the time when I go to a mall, restaurant, amusement park, camp site, tourist trap, grocery store, etc. Literally any time I step outside, I see average men with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 11:34 PM
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They are all various peaks on the spectrum. Passport Bros go to places where the women already find women who look like them attractive And what do those men look like? Please describe or share a photo.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 10:46 PM
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That's weird because it's well known that those men aren't actually desired by the women. They were called "mail order brides" in pop culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 10:15 PM
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This doesn't sound high maintenance to me. Honestly, sounds pretty standard. But I'm not a car. And I've always bristled at the whole "maintenance" discourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 08:25 PM
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It's not that difficult. Some of y'all just make it difficult because of your own actions. Y'all bring it on yourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 08:23 PM
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Still waiting to see the good question. Maybe one day you'll think of one. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:27 PM
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Lol. Where was the good question????
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:18 PM
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Nothing to concede kiddo. You're big mad and in your feelings about being blocked. Nobody would have known, just you. But you felt the need to tell this sub because you're so hemotional about being blocked. Thanks for the giggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:12 PM
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Question for women. You're not a woman so you wouldn't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:11 PM
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No. A question isn't. You're complaining about being blocked. Doesn't seem mentally strong to me. Do you boo.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:06 PM
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Q4W: do you think it's easy to find sex? Why or why not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:02 PM
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The difference is rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 06:59 PM
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It's not childish to block someone. It is childish to go into a space and intentionally antagonize someone and then act all Pikachu shocked they blocked you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 06:58 PM
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Do you think OF was created with the intention of a woman using it to have sex with 1000 men in one day on camera???? I guarantee they had issues with the first time. And so they updated their terms. As businesses do. Just like McDonald's had to add "caution hot" to their coffee cups after being sued by someone. Standard business behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 06:56 PM
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Maybe they don't like being called "broads". I love the block button on social media. Idk why you expect to be disrespectful and not face consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 06:50 PM
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Rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 06:44 PM
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Ooh how fun!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 06:24 PM
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Lol. You made this post about all of us by posting. 😆😆 The sex industry exists because of men. Men enable the sex industry. Men created the sex industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 06:21 PM
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I'm also very low maintenance. 😆😆 Like a low maintenance car. Because women should be compared to cars. Sorry. Just high and laughing at the whole "high maintenance" "low maintenance" language that we use without realizing. Ooh what sports do you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 06:17 PM
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This explains the whole sub. They refuse to acknowledge context and nuances. They see one thing and turn that into some worldwide trend. It's so fucking bizarre. Really highlights the media literacy crisis.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 06:12 PM
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Seriously. I only learned of these people from this sub. And I'm chronically online.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 06:08 PM
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I'm not outraged by any of those people or the way they live their life. Feminism hasn't enabled the sex industry. The sex industry existed before feminism. 🙄 Again, this seems like a thread complaining that women dare choose to have sex on their terms. And that your solution is for men to determine when women have sex. It's weird how y'all bend and twist yourselves into knots to blame women and suggest that women are the cause of the sex industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 06:07 PM
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Wait..... she gave blow jobs for WORK and you're Pikachu shocked she doesn't want to do them anymore?? And why do y'all think one example of a woman is a representation of all women? Swear if this was a debate class, y'all would fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 06:02 PM
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