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–	Most young women who appear to hate men in social media, don't actually hate men. They LARP as misandrists because it's the cool thing to do nowadays. So it’s fine if it’s only a few guys who use you, alright lol To be clear most single women have casual sex outside of relationships for fun not specifically for 4B’s reasons, but if you subscribe to 4B’s core beliefs and still meet with men you’re no different from red pillers LARPers	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 05:57 PM
–	Most young women who appear to hate men in social media, don't actually hate men. They LARP as misandrists because it's the cool thing to do nowadays. Men supposedly benefit more from casual sex. Using your framing, a man using a woman as a fleshlight without commitment isn’t empowering Giving men easy access to sex is antithetical to the 4B movement. You literally said yourself it’s done to “stay away from men” lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 05:17 PM
–	Most young women who appear to hate men in social media, don't actually hate men. They LARP as misandrists because it's the cool thing to do nowadays. I didn’t say most single women are having a lot of casual sex; I said they’re still sexually active If you’re having casual sex or cuddling with men when you’re horny then you’re not swearing off men by definition. That’s not 4B	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 05:01 PM
–	Most young women who appear to hate men in social media, don't actually hate men. They LARP as misandrists because it's the cool thing to do nowadays. Single doesn’t mean you aren’t casually dating or having sex with men Most single women even now are sexually active (over 80% of non-abstinent women) which is not 4B. It’s not gonna change much in 2030 either	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 04:55 PM
–	Most young women who appear to hate men in social media, don't actually hate men. They LARP as misandrists because it's the cool thing to do nowadays. Agreed. Even the most man-hating feminists are still sexually active and want to date men (over 80% of non-abstinent women are sexually active) Most of the women you see online swearing off men are LARPing or part of a small minority	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 04:49 PM
2	Simps have ruined the dating world. Very true. I’ve noticed (usually single) women do the same thing when they call other women pick-me’s too, it’s really weird People don’t want to date people who treat them poorly or don’t bring peace, which I feel like should be obvious	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/26 04:37 PM
3	Simps have ruined the dating world. If that’s how you see men who ask to go 50/50 I think it says enough here Even manosphere dudes have more scientific evidence of their goofy red flag claims than this lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/26 04:00 PM
1	Simps have ruined the dating world. I don’t think there’s a logical connection between that and being an abusive partner. There’s a lot of traditional men who are abusive It’s like manosphere dudes who claim you need to date a submissive woman with low N count or else she’ll likely cheat and divorce you — there’s much better signs to look for if you’re genuinely concerned about that lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/26 03:46 PM
0	Simps have ruined the dating world. That’s a bit of a logical leap but you’re definitely entitled to your preferences I’m just saying you shouldn’t make a big deal about who pays beforehand. From my experience, both men and women who make a big deal about who pays tend to be very selfish or greedy partners I paid for the first dates when I was single, but if a woman told me she expected me to pay I wouldn’t see her again since she’ll likely be a bad partner	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/26 03:37 PM
0	Simps have ruined the dating world. I think you’re used to arguing with too many terminally online people. Nothing in his post suggests he’s saying to treat women like shit That’s like me inferring a women who says “know your worth and don’t settle” means she wants women to use and mistreat men, which is a little silly	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/26 03:28 PM
1	Simps have ruined the dating world. Mostly agree but you don’t have to say anything before hand, that’s really weird. I knew successful guys who just asked for separate checks when it came There were some entitled women who threw a fit and some who’s mood changed but most women who were genuinely interested women were receptive to it	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/26 03:24 PM
6	social competency is WAY more important than height to attract women Yeah this is very true. I’ve seen a ton of tall boring dudes get laid off height alone both on dating apps and in frats I’ve also seen short dudes be successful in real life but you have to work a lot harder and actually be funny/charming. Height isn’t everything but it makes things much easier	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/26 01:42 AM
1	I find that guys that don't try to befriend women (typically the nice guys) are the most boring, no wonder you don't get women I don’t get the point you’re making. It just sounds like he was interested in dating you. Not everybody wants to be friends first with people they’re interested in Unless you’re saying these guys are bad friends and only interested in sex instead of getting to know women, but since you’re semi-regularly hanging out with the dude I strongly doubt it’s the case here	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/26 01:37 AM
2	People need to listen to the people they've dated more than the internet, friends, the opposite gender or any other external source. While this is true, it’s also worth noting if you have a history of dating toxic people it’s worth doing self-reflecting	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/26 08:14 PM
2	One reason Gen Z has less sex is because alot of people are weird about sex. I’ve noticed GenZ women are more comfortable with Netflix and Chill dates than actual dates, it’s really weird Also the discussion and stats surrounding GenZ and sex are a bit misleading; it’s mainly GenZ men who’ve seen a large rise in sexlessness when you examine the data by gender. GenZ women have a bit of a dip in sexlessness but they’re still largely sexually active, they just have fewer partners than millennials Most women (even single) were rarely celibate from my experience, even if it’s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/26 08:06 PM
15	Women care about personality but only if they know you for some time Looks get you in the door, personality is what makes women stay If you’re attractive enough it can mitigate a bad personality. I think we’ve all known at least one shitty guy or woman who get a lot of leeway because they’re hot	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/26 07:55 PM
2	We are the same, but different (objectifying). Agreed. Sometimes women really want a date to work but it just doesn’t click, and sometimes you want to see where it goes with a woman but the sex is just bad. Or maybe the spark just fades over time I’ve cut things off after linking with women and I’ve been accused of this before, and I’m sure women have similar experiences of being accused of wanting a free meal. Feels really gross to be “obligated” to date somebody just because you’re having sex Of course there’s shitty men and women who do t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 07:00 PM
1	For the most part, the idea of "unpaid domestic labor" either doesn't exist or isn't relevant Stats consistently show men and women work roughly equal when accounting for total hours work and time spent on chores (which your article points out too) Issue with the ‘free time’ stat is it’s hard to account for because it’s very vague, even in the article. My partner likes doing makeup (which isn’t listed as under their leisure activity), and in that hour I could be in the gym which count towards that discrepancy I think it’s interesting and should be looked at more but it doesn’t give us an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 06:52 PM
4	Men are told to open up more. The only thing they open up about is women not fucking them. And then wonder why it's backfiring 🤦‍♂️ Yeah if he’s yelling or getting violent then that’s obviously not okay, but anger is just as valid emotional outlet as crying Unfortunately this circles back to the idea that we do want men to open up but they have to do it the right way and only with struggles that affect both genders. We have a very women-centric view of “opening up” and there’s nothing wrong with that perspective, but we should be open to more because men and women are different and express emotions differently in some ways	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/26 08:35 PM
3	Men are told to open up more. The only thing they open up about is women not fucking them. And then wonder why it's backfiring 🤦‍♂️ Where did I say women never get ignored by men they open up to? I said this is an aspect where a lot of women get dismissive or judgey when opening up to Same way I see some women say men aren’t great about certain female-centric topics like safety	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/26 08:26 PM
0	i think its unfair to demand women lower their standards around height We can’t control what we’re attracted to, otherwise you get into weird territories like sexuality being a choice	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/26 06:55 PM
2	i think its unfair to demand women lower their standards around height You shouldn’t date people you’re not attracted to. At the same time, if you set your standards so high that those men (or women) aren’t interested in you then I don’t feel very sympathetic either	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/26 06:48 PM
2	The red pill philosophy loses to a vibrator because a vibrator wont try to take your rights away. There’s more anti-trans rhetoric because there’s substantially more trans people than there were in the past. Roughly 3.3% of 13-17 year olds identify as trans, while 0.3% of people aged 35 and up do so. Just like there’s increased anti-immigration sentiments in European countries now compared to the past It’s on you to prove there’s a meaningful correlation, or there’s actions being taken to get to concentration camps, your sources did none of that. Old school racist remarks of calling black wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/26 06:29 PM
2	The red pill philosophy loses to a vibrator because a vibrator wont try to take your rights away. I think it’s obvious why you didn’t meaningfully respond to anything I wrote with any substance Again, minorities are more marginalized than cis white women and would be the first to go in your scenario. Yet black, Mexican or even Jewish folks aren’t concerned about this being a realistic outcome Your entire argument is “there was transphobia in WW2 and they were sent to camps, and there’s transphobia now so it’s gonna happen again” which I feel like I shouldn’t have to explain why that’s extrem…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/26 05:34 PM
3	The red pill philosophy loses to a vibrator because a vibrator wont try to take your rights away. They call Michelle Obama a man because of racist stereotypes regarding black women having “more masculine features.” It’s abhorrent but that’s all it is The fact that you’re extrapolating this racist caricature as them trying to legally label her as trans (which would have to be litigated) so they can put trans folks in death camps or something is exactly what I mean by catastrophizing “Ugly” cis women will not be put into concentration camps. I’m saying this as a minority who would be the first…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/26 05:17 PM
1	The red pill philosophy loses to a vibrator because a vibrator wont try to take your rights away. I’m a lot more understanding of trans folks catastrophizing (especially if you’re in a red state) but this thread is about cis women What anti-trans laws specifically have been implemented that negatively affects cis women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/26 04:58 PM
2	Most young women prefer bad boys, but they would almost never admit it Oh I agree. It’s easy to get laid as a shitty guy, but I always tell men that those women aren’t the type you want to seriously date This is less based on data, but from my experience those women are way more likely to cheat and have serious emotional baggage like the woman OP is describing	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/26 04:37 PM
8	Men are told to open up more. The only thing they open up about is women not fucking them. And then wonder why it's backfiring 🤦‍♂️ “Because those sorts of hateful arguments are the ones who are criticized. Not just “opening up”” OP is literally criticizing men for opening about a lack of physical intimacy haha TRP is goofy, but one of the few things they’re not wrong about is how women don’t care and often judge men for their lack of intimacy struggles because it’s rarely an issue for them (most single women are still sexually active) I have great female friends who I can open to with many things but as even the supposed pr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/26 04:31 PM
10	Most young women prefer bad boys, but they would almost never admit it It’s been fairly well documented that young women prefer “dark triad” traits, at least for short term relationships Most of them grow out of it after getting burned but a lot of young women do go through a bad boy phase	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/26 04:27 PM
3	Men are told to open up more. The only thing they open up about is women not fucking them. And then wonder why it's backfiring 🤦‍♂️ Why would you even use that as an example when the thread is about lacking physical intimacy (which women crave just as much)? If that’s how you interpret it, then it probably explains why guys don’t open up to women regardless those kind of struggles, to his point	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/26 04:13 PM
4	The red pill philosophy loses to a vibrator because a vibrator wont try to take your rights away. It’s the unfortunate symptom of catastrophizing, and a big reason liberal women tend to be far less happy than conservative women imo I strongly disagree with RvW being overturned, but a lot of people online are telling young women the US will soon turn into the Handmaid Tale. This fearmongering despite living in the safest period of history is not great	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/26 03:43 PM
13	The red pill philosophy loses to a vibrator because a vibrator wont try to take your rights away. Also most young men who are involuntarily celibate (the actual definition) tend to lean left Men becoming feminists isn’t going to meaningfully impact childless rates. You can argue men should support RvW on principle (which I do anyway), but this gaslighting that it’s actually in their best interest is a little goofy Women who weren’t gonna have sex or kids weren’t going to do it regardless	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/26 03:33 PM
0	Mongolia shows that traditional masculinity and relatively high gender equality can coexist. If you don’t think boys and girls are wired differently or that there aren’t different cultural and social pressure on both then we just don’t live in the same reality for this to be a productive discussion	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/26 10:24 PM
0	Mongolia shows that traditional masculinity and relatively high gender equality can coexist. Boys are wired differently from girls and there’s different social and cultural expectations placed on both Some of the traits associated with positive masculinity aren’t gendered but some are. Some are far more beneficial for young men than would be young women and will disproportionately affect them as a result	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/26 10:18 PM
1	Mongolia shows that traditional masculinity and relatively high gender equality can coexist. It’s not on me to prove a negative. You would need to establish there’s a manosphere culture over there to a similar degree like it is in the west There have been incels throughout all of human history in every part of the world so I’m sure some exist there, but that’s different from the manosphere culture we see today	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/26 09:43 PM
2	Mongolia shows that traditional masculinity and relatively high gender equality can coexist. Doesn’t seem like manosphere culture is even a thing in Mongolia, and the women there are apparently independent It’s likely a factor, but giving these directionless men structure by promoting positive masculinity is a good way to combat it and channel it productively. This mindset that it’s inevitable if women get equal rights is really silly to me	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/26 09:28 PM
2	Mongolia shows that traditional masculinity and relatively high gender equality can coexist. You’re asking a different question now, but promoting more positive masculinity is good for boys and young men. It’s a pivotal part of their growth Young men are falling into the manosphere in part because there’s a lack of healthy masculinity in our society that we naturally gravitate to, so they fall victim to that rabbit hole because it provides a twisted version of masculinity	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/26 09:13 PM
3	Mongolia shows that traditional masculinity and relatively high gender equality can coexist. You can adopt certain positive aspects of a country’s system without emulating them wholesale China is horrible, but I think there’s some positive takeaways the US can learn for example like their push for renewable energy	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/26 08:45 PM
2	My husband says most men only want one thing. Is he right? Yeah the constant ragebait content on this subreddit is tiring to read	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/26 09:45 PM
1	Women here keep doubting (or feigning ignorance) about the acceptability of virulent misandry in mainstream feminism, so here's a feminist YouTuber/Substacker/Podcaster who advocates forced vasectomies for young boys We don’t prosecute old women for trying to have kids so this gotcha doesn’t work I’m starting to think PPD doesn’t know how laws work	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 02:23 AM
0	Women here keep doubting (or feigning ignorance) about the acceptability of virulent misandry in mainstream feminism, so here's a feminist YouTuber/Substacker/Podcaster who advocates forced vasectomies for young boys But how do you prove malintent? Usually there’s an investigation, but you very rarely get arrested and thrown in jail unless there’s probable cause. Obviously it gets abused sometimes by corrupt prosecutors (not unique to women or intentional stillbirth charges) but that’s how our legal system works Knowing how awful this is for women to go through, I feel like it should be obvious why it’s gross to “joke” about mutilating boys. Especially since boys are already often mutilated here in the US fr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 11:21 PM
3	Why do many women find it unacceptable if a man has paid for sex in the past, but are fine with a man who has slept with hundreds of women through regular dating? I’ve seen a decent number of studies that show that men are perceived as more attractive when they’re around attractive women versus “mid” women. The wedding ring phenomenon is also well documented too That said, I do largely agree. Attractive, charismatic guys tend to get women because of those traits. And if you’re an ugly, weird loser, just being around an attractive woman or having a wedding ring won’t make women suddenly throw themselves at you It’s more like a modifier in my eyes. It helps…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 09:17 PM
-1	Women here keep doubting (or feigning ignorance) about the acceptability of virulent misandry in mainstream feminism, so here's a feminist YouTuber/Substacker/Podcaster who advocates forced vasectomies for young boys For the reason we charge people for two homicides or two counts of endangerment when third-trimester pregnant women are involved (which I agree with). Men who assault pregnant women resulting in a miscarriage also tend to get murder charges thrown in too (not always but very common) This law isn’t specifically targeting women — after 24 or so weeks we treat the baby as its own entity. Same reason why even most blue states don’t allow late abortions without a life-threatening reason Many laws “ca…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 08:57 PM
-3	Women here keep doubting (or feigning ignorance) about the acceptability of virulent misandry in mainstream feminism, so here's a feminist YouTuber/Substacker/Podcaster who advocates forced vasectomies for young boys I’m not sure what point you’re getting at in the context of this discussion — we did this before Roe v Wade too And I do think we should prosecute late negligent miscarriages/stillbirths. I don’t feel like this should be a controversial take regardless of your stance on abortion	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 08:14 PM
-6	Women here keep doubting (or feigning ignorance) about the acceptability of virulent misandry in mainstream feminism, so here's a feminist YouTuber/Substacker/Podcaster who advocates forced vasectomies for young boys You only get prosecuted for miscarriages if there’s bad intent involved (substance abuse, extreme carelessness). And pregnant women can (and have) gotten charged for negligent miscarriages in blue states too I’m pro-choice and think this was a horrible decision, but that’s not exactly true The manosphere is also talking about how women shouldn’t be allowed to vote. And the mainstream opinion is that folks like Nick Fuentes are wrong and terrible people, even when they say inflammatory stuff like…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 07:36 PM
5	Why do many women find it unacceptable if a man has paid for sex in the past, but are fine with a man who has slept with hundreds of women through regular dating? Studies consistently show women find men who hang around (specifically) attractive women and men with wedding rings more attractive Unwanted men is just an ick for women	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 06:48 PM
5	Why do many women find it unacceptable if a man has paid for sex in the past, but are fine with a man who has slept with hundreds of women through regular dating? Preselection gets an overstated in TRP (women dislike hoes just as much as men do), but it is very real It’s a huge ick for even the most sex-positive women because it’s seen as desperate and that you can’t get sex naturally	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 06:41 PM
-2	Women here keep doubting (or feigning ignorance) about the acceptability of virulent misandry in mainstream feminism, so here's a feminist YouTuber/Substacker/Podcaster who advocates forced vasectomies for young boys If a manosphere chud went on a tirade about how women should have their voting rights stripped away and abortion should be federally illegal then said, “tee hee, I’m joking” most women would not be as charitable For the record I don’t think this crazy feminist is some grand indictment against women any less than Nick Fuentes is against men, but what she’s saying is crazy and we don’t have to make excuses	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 06:23 PM
1	If you need to build or raise her interest she doesn’t like you I can understand this perspective actually. I think there’s definitely some women who are bad texters or just really shy but switch up when a date is scheduled (and I’ve experienced it too early on) From my experience, most women who are cold early tend to stay disinterested or were very flaky. When I was single I preferred to optimize but that’s a valid approach too. As long as she’s putting in effort by the first date it’s fine imo	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 02:50 PM
3	If you need to build or raise her interest she doesn’t like you I had most success with a “quality over quantity” approach in dating. You can match low enthusiasm women and probably get a few dates out of it, but I had enough matches where I could move on The quality of the women I dated and relationships were far higher from my experience	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 02:31 PM
5	If you think there’s inherent moral injustice in you not getting sex or relationships then you are entitled Agreed. I once mentioned I moved on from women if we didn’t have sex on the first 2-3 dates when I was single, and someone here told me I’m “not entitled to their bodies.” It was one of the goofiest interactions I’ve had lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 02:17 PM
8	If you need to build or raise her interest she doesn’t like you So stop dating people you are not actually mutually attracted to Yes, that’s what I said in my post lol Don’t date women you have to “convince” to like you	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 02:08 PM
11	If you need to build or raise her interest she doesn’t like you I don’t mean to be rude, but this is genuinely bad advice. Effort should be reciprocated, and you should not be putting uneven effort at the start regardless of gender. This is true for women chasing guys who put in the absolute bare minimum too Obviously you don’t have to create an excel spreadsheet to calculate it to be exactly 50/50, but most socially adjusted people can understand if effort is being reasonably reciprocated Match effort or find somebody else who meets you there	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 02:05 PM
4	If you need to build or raise her interest she doesn’t like you I don’t think I’ve ever seen this perspective before, but this is very true from my experience BPD, mentally unwell women will offer zero resistance too. They’ll throw themselves at a guy and use them as their own personal therapist Ideally you want somewhere in the middle where she lays healthy boundaries but doesn’t play hard to get either	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 02:00 PM
24	If you need to build or raise her interest she doesn’t like you This is good advice, but remember it goes both ways. Only put in effort for women who are also putting in effort Most guys don’t realize it, but if you talk with and date enough women you understand women will absolutely put in effort if they like you. Don’t date women you have to “convince” to like you	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 01:53 PM
2	Concept of Manosphere is intellectually dishonest and manipulative She regurgitates most of the rules in the FDS guidebook, but if you don’t consider her a FDS influencer in your mind then I guess they don’t exist	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/26 05:27 PM
3	Concept of Manosphere is intellectually dishonest and manipulative She gives toxic dating advice and makes lifestyle content about “manifesting” and other dark feminism nonsense She’s also a grifter like the manosphere guys too, but to his point she’s very clearly a feminist not a trad wife	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/26 04:54 PM
2	Concept of Manosphere is intellectually dishonest and manipulative TheWizardLiz has shy of 8 million followers on TikTok alone (for comparison, Andrew Tate has shy of 11 million followers on Twitter) and a lot of young women follow her advice She spreads similar toxic garbage like “men will always lie, cheat and look for better options” and teaches young women how to manipulate men like the manosphere does with women	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/26 04:37 PM
3	Red pill dating advice is incompatible with healthy long term relationships It’s true for most dating advice regardless of gender honestly. Most dating advice tells men and women to prioritize themselves and maximize their outcomes, but that will always be incompatible with healthy relationships since they should be equal partnerships I think TRP is a bit goofy but it’s not a meaningful critique specific to them. Women who are deep in the “pink pill” or “dark feminism” tend to be very toxic in relationships too	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/26 01:15 PM
–	How important is sex? After food, housing snd water, I would say physical intimacy is up there along with education for most people. Even the most man-hating, hairy armpit feminists are still somewhat sexually active with men (roughly 70% of non-abstinent young women if I recall) I think it’s fair to acknowledge it’s importance while also acknowledging the discussion isn’t comparable to stuff like housing and education because it’s not a commodity We can (and should) help people struggling with housing and education,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/26 01:04 AM
–	Why do men tend to be so mean to fat women? I have a bi friend (mainly dates women) and the stories he tells me are crazy It’s not homophobic in the “gay marriage should be banned” way but mostly “if he’s been with a man he’s probably a closet gay and probably has AIDS” even with a lot of progressive women	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/26 03:44 PM
1	Do young women (under 25) get attracted to old men in good shape? I doubt there’s many “giga Stacie’s” and especially “giga Chad’s” dating older men or older women I’m just saying if you’re attractive and don’t lead with money then you’ll have options. Definitely not most young men and women, but enough options if you wanted to date them for whatever reason	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/26 02:30 PM
1	Do young women (under 25) get attracted to old men in good shape? The woman dating the older guy for money and the woman dating the attractive older guy in their 30s are not the same people (usually). The sugar baby will leave if he’s not spending money on her, the other won’t The average man and woman in their 30s is fat, and men tend to start balding so it makes sense why data shows most young women aren’t interested in dating older men. Even if you’re in good shape it still won’t be most young women, but you’ll get a fair amount of attention I don’t know wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/26 02:18 PM
3	Do young women (under 25) get attracted to old men in good shape? For starters, a lot of young women don’t even want kids nowadays. And most normal young men and women aren’t obsessed with fertility like this subreddit I knew two young guys who dated older women, and those women’s eggs declining in their mid 30s were never a huge point for them	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/26 02:03 PM
4	Do young women (under 25) get attracted to old men in good shape? Depends how much older and if you’re attractive or not. If you’re an attractive guy in your mid 30s then you’ll have a decent number of young women interested in dating you If you’re a fat guy in your 50s, then 9/10 times they’ll only date you for your money Probably be better to ask older men with experience instead of this subreddit, which is filled with men in their 20s and women in their 40s lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/26 01:51 PM
–	Why do men tend to be so mean to fat women? For real, just go to literally any celebrity snark subreddit lmao Women are just as brutal as men when it comes to online attacks	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/26 01:29 PM
–	Why do men tend to be so mean to fat women? Whenever I see a woman influencer with mostly female audience who’s dating a short or heavier guy, I see comments flooded from women telling her she can do so much better and to dump him I don’t even disagree that women are judged more for being fat (men are judged more in different ways) but social media comments are toxic regardless of gender	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/26 01:17 PM
2	Yes, not all men, but also it happens frequently and randomly enough to keep your guard up Not sure what’s to debate here. There’s shitty men and women out there and I do encourage women to take safety precautions, and I doubt even TRP losers would disagree with that If you’re using it to justify hating a group of people then I think it’s pretty goofy, but it’s your life	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/26 03:15 PM
7	Why do you think women should change anything when they are not the ones complaining about dating? Dating really can be simplified to that tbh If you’re finding options you want then good for you, but if you’re not then improve yourself or lower your standards. Complaining that “there aren’t good men” or “women only chase top 10% guys” is pretty goofy	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/26 03:05 PM
1	Why do you think women should change anything when they are not the ones complaining about dating? There’s lots of guys complaining they can’t find good women, just not on this subreddit I do agree good men and women do get sniped off the dating market pretty fast (if they put themselves out there). From my experience, most of the men and women complaining aren’t as much as a catch as they think	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/26 02:58 PM
2	2 core problems with modern dating: no more clear rules, and expecting immediate “magic” attraction. Maybe look into actual data instead of ChatGPT. Roughly 1/3 of women have ever used dating apps — not concurrently or even consistently You’re only describing a subset of women who regularly use dating apps	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/26 10:26 PM
-2	2 core problems with modern dating: no more clear rules, and expecting immediate “magic” attraction. Women are indeed very picky on dating apps, but their standards are very reasonable in real life. The phenomenon you’re describing isn’t incorrect, it just isn’t widespread Most women are in relationships and are doing fine. You’re focusing on a minority of women who actively use dating apps	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/26 08:28 PM
1	Liberal/leftist women are the biggest hypocrites Didn’t AOC make fun of a guy because of his height? I don’t see how that’s different from Trump making that “piggy” comment to a reporter (which was also very shitty). Hasan’s said some pretty radical things too That said I don’t think progressive politicians hate men, they just ignore them. All of their policies are either directly benefiting women or benefit both genders, which isn’t bad but I don’t blame young men for feeling ignored by the Democratic base because of it There are definitely l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/26 04:38 PM
1	Why do women care about men slut-shaming them? we receive aura points if anything for sleeping around a lot Kinda. We get “aura points” by other men but not really by women. Despite what TRP says, women do not like fuck boys and they create entire communities (Tea, AWDTSG) to weed them out Likewise, women aren’t really judged for sleeping around by other women. Both get judged by the other gender, but I do think women are judged more explicitly though	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/26 07:56 PM
2	Why do women care about men slut-shaming them? Women slut shame men all the time, they’re just nowhere near as vocal about it Women want men who can sleep with most of the women in the room, not somebody who already has	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/26 07:47 PM
3	Being a provider male is simping I do think women are judged more for their looks while men are judged more for what they can provide And likewise, men don’t usually cheat or leave their wives even if their looks fade if they’re amazing to be around too. It’s not that men and women are shallow or it’s the only thing we care about, but it’s about choosing a loving partner that values you more for looks or what you can provide I value a partner that brings me peace and is somebody that I’m excited to go home and see a long day of…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/26 07:37 PM
6	Being a provider male is simping I do think there’s some truth to this. Women like to point out that men are quicker to divorce when their partners fall ill, but women are 2-3 times more likely to divorce their partner when they lose their job. We are definitely judged more for what we provide, but we’re not valued solely off that. There’s plenty of women who will show genuine love and compassion even if finances start to slip I can somewhat understand the perspective, but it’s a bit of a cynical view to think they’re only resp…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/26 04:40 PM
4	Men present a false narrative in dating Approaching relationships from a cost/benefit perspective is some of the most dehumanizing shit I’ve ever seen. Women who think like this are just the opposite side of the same coin as the manosphere. Any woman who approaches dating with this mindset is an immediate red flag and almost always have a transactional view of relationships	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/26 03:20 PM
10	Being a provider male is simping Agreed. If his wife respects and treats him well I don’t see the issue Men who provide for women they barely know or don’t respect them are losers though	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/26 03:14 PM
29	Having casual sex with men makes them respect you less and treat you worse I slept with most of my partners on the first or second date too. I’ve disqualified women for other unrelated reasons after having sex but never for that, I find that pretty odd Last I checked, over a third of couples have sex on the first date so this isn’t uncommon either lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/26 03:10 PM
1	Why exactly is women wanting money from men worse than men wanting sex with women Men have no agency sexually, no standards and few morals. Sure buddy lol I BET if we all had to show our faces, bodies and bank balance a lot of men here would not even cope because most of you are just not….it. I don’t mean to be rude but a lot of women here are fat, smoke, tacky tats, and have lots of disorders Don’t get me wrong lot of men here too are fat sexist losers too, but it’s really not the flex you think it is	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/26 12:34 AM
1	Why exactly is women wanting money from men worse than men wanting sex with women This sub is filled with loser incels and BPD women with lots of disorders— it’s not reflective of real life. And the overwhelmingly majority of men do not sleep with babies and animals so I’m not sure what point you’re trying to make with these examples Men are attracted to a lot more women than the inverse so they will have sex with far more women, but most men do not have sex with anything that moves If that’s your only experience with men then you should probably touch grass	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/26 07:04 PM
2	A lot of men would rather be with a woman who they know is using them than be single. I don’t agree with the idea that most women are users at all, but most studies indicate IPV rates are roughly the same among men and women. Women are more likely to suffer severe abuse but men hide it more out of shame The fact that DV rates are so high among lesbian relationships indicates it’s not as easy to spot in women as you’re suggesting. Women are a lot more socially intelligent than men which makes it easier to mask Either way this oppression Olympics doesn’t seem necessary to me. Men a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/26 03:19 PM
1	Men: would this be a dealbreaker for commitment? Yeah I don’t care about her being a virgin or not, but hooking up with celebrities is a pretty big red flag. It’s like men who pay for OF to chat with women who don’t care about them Feels like a huge lack of self-respect	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/26 02:16 PM
2	A lot of men would rather be with a woman who they know is using them than be single. I date women and I can say most women aren’t users. Some definitely are, and according to data it does seem to be increasing amongst young women but far from most And she’s right, if you’re always find yourself dating abusers (regardless of gender) it means it’s time for self-reflection. Some people internalize abusive behaviors as normal, some people find normal relationships too boring and want the thrill, and some people are just desperate and users can sniff it from a mile away	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/26 02:11 PM
2	Men dont being anything to the table What does your partner bring to the table then?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/26 01:20 PM
2	The best relationships are when the women likes him more Probably a hot take but I agree in the early dating phase. That doesn’t mean treat her badly or not show mutual interest, but from my experience the most long-lasting relationships starts from the women showing high initiial interest You should love each other the same and match it in a long term relationship though	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/26 01:18 PM
4	Why exactly is women wanting money from men worse than men wanting sex with women Hre’s a thing thk, they are not talking about having sex with men they like too. It’s a man they don’t find attractive Nobody enjoys having sex with people they don’t find attractive. The original comment was clearly referring to consensual sex If you go on a date, have a great time, and there’s solid chemistry so you go to his place to have sex — that’s mutually beneficial. I’m not sure where the confusion is lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/26 01:17 AM
0	Why exactly is women wanting money from men worse than men wanting sex with women That’s like me saying there’s no benefit to trashy reality TV shows like Love Is Blind just because I don’t like it lol You don’t like it and that’s fine, but evidently there are benefits for the women who do it. And I’m not talking about just hookups — 50% of women are open to sex on the first 3 dates Feels like I’m explaining this to a robot but yes, most women enjoy sex with men they like too	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/26 10:47 PM
-4	Why exactly is women wanting money from men worse than men wanting sex with women If sex is so bad for you, then don’t have it lol Plenty of women enjoy sex. You may not like it but it doesn’t take away from the fact that it’s mutually beneficial for both men and women	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/26 08:44 PM
5	Straight women’s homophobia toward men gets excused way too easily One ick is based on attraction, and one is based on sexuality. Despite what incels say, there’s nothing wrong with women being turned off by short guys because you can’t control who you’re physically attracted to I don’t fault guys who don’t date hoes or women who don’t date bi guys because its your preference, but I’m just saying if you find someone’s sexuality “icky” it usually speaks to something more For men, it can be some degree of slut shaming and for women it can be homophobia. Not alway…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/26 08:38 PM
3	Straight women’s homophobia toward men gets excused way too easily Lots of people online are miserable. Not too surprising tbh	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/26 07:48 PM
3	Straight women’s homophobia toward men gets excused way too easily If you state your preference without insulting someone else, no issue Not true. I got an angry DM from a woman saying my partner should leave me after I mentioned my preferences without insulting anybody lol Stuff like that ain’t uncommon. I’m sure it happens to women more, but women online absolutely get upset too	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/26 07:40 PM
2	Straight women’s homophobia toward men gets excused way too easily I don’t think it’s necessarily a gendered thing. Women online get pretty upset at preferences like body count, weight and especially body hair. Some BPD woman here even said I liked kids because of it lol Lots of people just get personally offended if you have a common preference that excludes them	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/26 07:31 PM
7	Why exactly is women wanting money from men worse than men wanting sex with women It’s a bit weird how women here say sex isn’t transactional and is shared between two people who like each other (which I agree with), then compare that that to something transactional. You have sex with somebody because you find them attractive, like their vibe or you’re just horny I do think using women for sex and using men for money are just as bad though. Women will say the former is worse because it happens to them more and men will say the latter is worse for the same reason	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/26 07:12 PM
2	Age gap relationships are a bad deal for women Women can be sexist, men deal with gender roles and older women can manipulate younger men with their experience too The older woman has more power like you said, and she can use it in a good way that allows a healthy partnership, but so can the older man. Not seeing how its gender specific	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/26 03:00 PM
4	Age gap relationships are a bad deal for women It’s well documented that women who’ve been sugar babies develop warped views of men and relationships I’m not a big fan of age gap relationships at all but you’re not helping your credibility here by flexing you dated older men for money	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/26 02:39 PM
4	Age gap relationships are a bad deal for women I’m glad I’m not the only one who noticed it. Feels like a huge self-report lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/26 02:31 PM
2	Straight women’s homophobia toward men gets excused way too easily Sounds like a silly stereotype. Most men don’t commit to bi women solely because they want a threesome lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/26 02:16 PM
5	Straight women’s homophobia toward men gets excused way too easily Most of them are physical traits, not immutably qualities like sexuality. I don’t date fat or hairy women because it means we’re incompatible, but why would a man sucking a dick or a woman eating out another woman in a past relationship affect your compatibility? Fwiw I don’t agree with the idea that progressive women finding bi guys icky means they’re homophobic, but there are some unfortunate implications. There’s a lot of dissonance when progressive women say sexual history doesn’t matter whi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/26 02:12 PM
-1	Instead of generalizing an entire gender, just admit you have a type and you’re annoyed with your type’s flaws. It’s not. Those BPD women you see on TikTok and Reddit complaining about emotionally unavailable men are just as guilty lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/26 12:12 AM
3	Instead of generalizing an entire gender, just admit you have a type and you’re annoyed with your type’s flaws. That’s too much introspection. Way easier to blame the other gender for your dating struggling	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/26 12:07 AM
-4	Would you be a Single Father Most pregnancies are due to failed contraceptives cuz people fuck up. Roughly 55-60% of unintended pregnancies involve no contraceptive. It’s largely people using the pull out method or from being drunk If there’s an accidental pregnancy, then you’re not using condoms properly or you missed days on the pill. Both are really hard to mess up It’s kinda hard to envision a scenario where I make a sting of bad decisions like this — constantly misusing contraceptives or not using it at all, not discus…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/26 11:51 PM
-2	Would you be a Single Father Contraceptives are 99.99% effective if used properly. The stories you hear of them “failing” are almost always human error. Most accidental pregnancies involves no contraceptives at all, and a large percentage of the folks who did had misused them or were inconsistent I had a friend who got pregnant in a red state. She drove a few hours north to a Planned Parenthood and got an abortion there. It’s a barrier of entry that I don’t think should be there, but it’s absolutely possible You kinda have …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/26 11:36 PM
4	To the women who think men only want sex. Did you ever think to just let us fuck🤔?? Men want sex early, but most men don’t want just sex. Women go through a vetting process and decide on sex, while men have sex then decide to vet her as a partner Statistically, men end up dating a little more than half of the women they have sex with so this idea isn’t reflective of men as a whole. From my experience, this comes from women who frequent dating apps or casual spaces like bars and raves where those kinds of men are common	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/26 11:06 PM
0	Would you be a Single Father This is a really weird scenario for two reasons. One, I don’t have unprotected sex during hookups and my partners always been on birth control or had an IUD. Second, it’s not really an analogous comparison because women have the choice for abortion while men don’t. In real life, the man would say he will not be raising the child and the woman will go through with the abortion I think this is a good thought experiment for men who aren’t already pro-choice though, but responsibilities with pregnan…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/26 10:53 PM
5	Forget the pills. The views expressed here represent a specific internet culture and don't reflect real life. Really? I find PPD to be young men in their 20s thinking they’ll be single forever arguing with married older women with no stake in the dating scene It’s actually kind of funny too	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/26 10:42 PM
2	We need to stop calling it a “male loneliness epidemic” Honestly yeah. The only people I see bringing it up are manosphere grifters or women weaponizing it such as “(this action I don’t like) is why there’s a male loneliness epidemic” According to data, women are doing marginally better but there’s still a big loneliness epidemic in general	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/26 05:40 PM
2	Womensplaining is alive and well I’ve literally only heard it once from my blue haired, septum pierced friend and even she said it as a joke and we laughed after lol Perhaps it’s just different social circles, but these phrases sound silly to most normal people off the internet	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/26 04:04 PM
1	Womensplaining is alive and well I agree “mansplaining” is definitely a thing, but some women do it too without realizing it. When I was younger I was a barista on an all-female team, and while they had good intentions, trust me they “womansplained” to me often lol My point is most normal people find the phrase silly not because it’s not valid, but because it’s a pointlessly gendered	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/26 03:24 PM
–	You told men to not approach you, so we listened. Most women on PPD are married or not looking to settle down. I don’t think they’re lying but they’re just not the demographic affected	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/26 03:11 PM
1	Womensplaining is alive and well I always found the “splaining” thing pretty dumb tbh People interjecting and giving their two cents because they think they know better has never been a gender thing	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/26 02:59 PM
5	Womensplaining is alive and well Then men come along and try to reverse that shit and it just doesn’t hit To be fair, neither did mansplaning outside of weird corners of the internet It’s more of an issue with terminally online folks thinking these derogatory gendered phrases will resonate with normal people	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/26 02:54 PM
3	It's not women who share top percent of men, it's the other way around Bingo. A lot of “single” women usually have a FWB or an ex they hit up instead of hooking up with a lot of different guys. Usually because it’s convenient and they vetted the guy already m Also from what I gather, it’s usually ugly and mid women who have the most casual sex anyway, not the “top percentage of women.” They’re a lot more selective	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/26 04:40 PM
1	LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD That’s interesting. I feel like 3% is unsustainable for regular hookups unless you’re bordering on model territory. I’m just thinking about the match percentage, conversion rate, and the vetting process If you’re traveling for a few weeks it’s a non-issue obviously, but I’m thinking more years. I had enough options where it was still fine, but after a year or so I started seeing more repeat profiles because there weren’t enough attractive women joining the apps in my area YMMV depending on how a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/26 07:40 AM
1	LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD You must be somewhere like LA or NYC to be swiping right 3% and still have plenty of options. I live in a metro area myself and I probably swiped 15% — still largely attractive women though Definitely agreed that attractive men aren’t running through average women. I usually had 1-2 FWBs at a time, but if our schedules didn’t align I did usually link up with average women off Tinder. Your experience might be different, but hooking up with attractive women on the same night/weekend is way harder …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/26 11:49 PM
0	LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD A lot of sugar daddies are unattractive and data regularly shows that sex work has very negative effects on your mental health and warps your view of the other gender. You can make more money for sure, but I’d rather be able to date and have sex with (almost) any woman I want any day of the week lmao Also, very attractive men can make very good money off gay men too	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/26 04:41 PM
2	People aren’t afraid of commitment in 2026, they’re afraid of bad commitment Who said the woman who the man doesn’t want to wed is great or the men the women are turning down aren’t great either? I think the point is both the man and women would be happy to commit to marriage or a relationship for the right person which makes them analogous I’ve been with women who I enjoyed dating but would absolutely not marry either. Not sure how that’s meaningfully different from women who pass on men until a great option comes along	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/26 02:54 PM
7	Are online gender wars just lower class men arguing with upper middle class women? This is very true. High quality women get sniped off apps fast and are uninstalling it less than a week after downloading them The women you still chronically on dating apps are there for a very good reason. That’s why I say most men should avoid apps	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/26 02:20 PM
1	People aren’t afraid of commitment in 2026, they’re afraid of bad commitment While I think people with genuine commitment issues obviously exist, this feels more like an exception to the rule tbh It could also be argued that the right woman didn’t show up at the time, but they met your standards as you matured and got older (not just a man thing either) I was kinda in the same boat when I was younger (huge glow up and was able to have sex with attractive women out of nowhere), and I had that high of wanting better but eventually I did meet a woman that made me want to se…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/26 02:14 PM
1	Bluepillers : Are You Aware Of The Various Contradictions Within BP? Depends what you mean by blue pill. A lot of manosphere dudes use blue pillers interchangeably with feminists and progressives, or it could just be normal people who don’t identify with TRP like me and just date normally I agree the “just respect women to be successful” crowd youre referring to are goofy, but that’s not reflective of most of the “blue pill”	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/26 09:37 PM
2	Why do you think women are hypergamous? Nobody in this chain is saying it’s inherently bad or shaming women for it lol Men and women value different things in a partner	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/26 09:16 PM
2	Why do you think women are hypergamous? What do you think hypergamy means?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/26 06:57 PM
2	Why do you think women are hypergamous? Well, by definition your particular attraction to strong men is sexual hypergamy. Men liking your physical features has nothing to do with hypergamy or selecting superior traits Not saying it’s inherently bad or as significant as TRP claims but it’s present	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/26 06:35 PM
2	Why do you think women are hypergamous? Men admire other strong men too, but they’re not attracted to them I think (generally speaking) men value their partners more for their looks. While looks definitely matter to women, they value certain qualities more in their partners than men do for women. As long as she’s hot she can be worse in every way and it hardly moves the needle, while women want men to be better than her in some capacity	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/26 06:20 PM
1	Men don't want the average women It’s just that red-pilled men believe most women won’t be, they’re just settling. Which is bizarre to be worried about because it’s incredibly easy to vet — you can’t fake genuine desire If she’s enthusiastically having lots of fun sex with you then you’re set. But if she always treats sex like a chore then she’s probably not that attracted to you	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/26 04:31 PM
4	Men don't want the average women From my experience, it’s mostly stuff like “risky” sex and threesomes that women lose interest as they get older (unless you’re into swinger culture lol). But for the most part, I do agree women don’t stop having fun in their 30s and TRP gets that wrong If she had fun with her exes and not you, it’s less about her age and more about her not being very attracted to you	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/26 03:55 PM
0	To all the men that struggle with dating. You have good intentions, but most of the men and women in this subreddit are neurotic and are looking for validation not to have their opinions changed	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/26 03:00 PM
1	Male abusers who are not physically intimidating, are more likely to get a strong reaction from the public. Gender definitely plays a role too — we obviously take men abuse more seriously than women abuse But I’m not sure if Chris Brown is the best example. He got a lot of heat when it happened (especially because it happened to a another celebrity), but it died down relatively fast. His concerts have been sold out and it’s packed with women throwing themselves at him since then. If Chris Brown was ugly and not as talented, I personally believe his career would’ve been destroyed	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/26 02:23 PM
1	Male abusers who are not physically intimidating, are more likely to get a strong reaction from the public. I don’t think it necessarily has to deal with being physically intimidating as much as it being pretty privilege and status. The dude being dogged on for abusing his wife is a lanky loser small streamer so it’s easy to have that attitude than say McGreggor There was that recent viral clip of some Mormon celebrity beating her husband and child with a metal chair, and people were treating with her kid gloves for the same reason — she’s conventionally attractive and popular	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/26 02:08 PM
5	Men don't want the average women The men you’re describing online and in this subreddit are young men in their early-mid 20s It makes perfect sense why a young man in their 20s do not want a woman in their 30s — it’s not average for their demographic	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/26 01:50 PM
14	Men don't want the average women Considering most women are in relationships (a huge chunk of them being overweight and over 30) so I’m not sure if this is reflective of reality	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/26 01:22 PM
3	No One Is Winning the Gender Wars I don’t particularly care for Breadtubers opinions unless she’s citing sources. What we do know is nearly a third of incels are on the spectrum (no surprise), incels are over 2.5 times more likely to be victims of bullying than the norm, and a disproportionate number of them do not have a male father figure in their lives I’m not excusing incels, but when talking with them it’s very clear they have a lot of emotional baggage and just weren’t taught right growing up. Then they get radicalized by …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/26 10:33 PM
9	No One Is Winning the Gender Wars Two things can be true at once. Shitty men who abuse women should be called out, and women and men shouldn’t vilify each other based on trauma A lot of incels and hardcore TRPs have trauma from their (usually single) mothers, and it doesn’t make their views of women okay either	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/26 09:53 PM
2	The amount of American women willing to have sex with a guy within 30 days is the same amount of American women willing to split a bill on the first date. Preferences don’t always translate to reality. Most women prefer for a guy to pay, but if the right guy pulls up and the date goes well she’ll bend the rule I always paid for first dates as general rule, but I knew plenty of guys who didn’t and they were very successful. More often than not, if paying is a prerequisite for a second date she’s either very traditional or she’s not that into you	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/26 06:20 PM
1	Women often give horrible dating advice The TikTok and IG reels I’m referring to were from young white women The point isn’t “bring back yearning” is mainstream or reflective or real life (just like 90% of the discussions here), she asked so I explained where it came from	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/26 01:48 AM
2	Good men don't push boundaries I don’t think I could have said it better myself. A lot of men here think women are going to make a false accusation and send them to jail just for saying shooting their shot, and a lot of women here have bizarre views of men and dating, as well and project their trauma onto topics involving women There’s a lot of unresolved trauma and that’s not for an internet debate to solve	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/26 11:36 PM
–	The Delusion from Manosphere guys, that only beautiful Women have good Dating Options, and the other Women just get pump and dumped is laughable. No they claim sex is easy but they say “locking up a good guy is hard” An average woman locking up an attractive man is hard. Idk about you but most women date roughly in their league — doctors dating mid waitresses is not a widespread thing In the real world, average women can get commitment from average guys with good qualities pretty easily like you said but I feel like it’s women who are talking about how hard it is to find a good guy if anything	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/26 08:23 PM
–	The Delusion from Manosphere guys, that only beautiful Women have good Dating Options, and the other Women just get pump and dumped is laughable. Not just that, the other person is able to push boundaries and ask for more. It’s way easier to replace them when they start feeling dissatisfied than the other way around Most relationships aren’t like that obviously, but the ones that are tend to be very dysfunctional from what I’ve seen	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/26 07:06 PM
–	The Delusion from Manosphere guys, that only beautiful Women have good Dating Options, and the other Women just get pump and dumped is laughable. To be fair, this dynamic is true for most relationships where there’s a very clear gap in attractiveness Those bigger women you see with shredded guys at the gym almost always treat them like kings, and ugly guys with attractive women are almost always whipped There’s a reason these people can’t find somebody in their league who will put up with their shit lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/26 06:51 PM
–	The Delusion from Manosphere guys, that only beautiful Women have good Dating Options, and the other Women just get pump and dumped is laughable. Do manosphere guys really say dating is hard as an average woman? I feel like I see the opposite But yeah, dating as an average woman is pretty easy	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/26 06:49 PM
1	Good men don't push boundaries I get the impression most of the people chiming in don’t actually have casual sex. “Pushing boundaries” is a little vague — is it making a move or respecting it when she says no? The former is goofy because men and women collectively agreed the man is the one who should initiate, and the latter shouldn’t be debated because no it means no	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/26 06:42 PM
2	LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD For sex, not commitment Attractive women do compete with attractive men for exclusivity on dating apps	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/26 06:34 PM
2	Women often give horrible dating advice Yes, most normal people do not follow manosphere or pink pill content in general. I just explained what OP is talking about and where it came from since you asked who’s saying it	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/26 06:26 PM
1	Women often give horrible dating advice I don’t know if I’d agree with “horrible” dating advice but you’re better off taking advice from men who navigates successful relationships, not just hookups Women can only speak for what works for them and their social circle which is hardly different from an echo chamber. It can be useful but I’d rather learn from a man who dates many different kind of women	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/26 06:22 PM
1	Women often give horrible dating advice You might not be around it, but saying like “yearners are earners” is fairly common saying in women dating spaces online. That goofy pink pill stuff is basically the women’s version of the manosphere and it’s just as bad for men	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/26 06:15 PM
4	Women often give horrible dating advice The best advice for men is to match energy and don’t waste your time on women who aren’t putting in effort You showed interested by initiating, then the ball is in her court and you act accordingly. In an ideal world, both men and women would be honest upfront but you kinda have to play the field a little bit	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/26 06:10 PM
–	Why are so many men here proponents of cold approach? It’s not viable if you’re going outside with the sole purpose of finding women. Most non-OLD couples meet through “rare circumstances” or mutual friends, not by cold approaching There’s plenty of ways you can naturally talk with women that’s not waiting for them to approach you. Hell, I had two small talk conversations with women just today	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/26 11:09 PM
–	Why are so many men here proponents of cold approach? One of my friends met his current girlfriend at a runner’s club just last year. They were paired up together, they talked, vibed well and now they’re dating. Another guy met his partner because she smiled at him when they locked eyes Not sure what’s confusing here, but these are not mutually exclusive	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/26 09:52 PM
–	Why are so many men here proponents of cold approach? https://www.timeout.com/usa/news/irl-dating-is-back-as-millennials-and-gen-z-ditch-dating-apps-061324 Speed dating and real life meet events have been increasingly popular	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/26 09:49 PM
–	Why are so many men here proponents of cold approach? Last I checked OLD has actually been declining over the last 2 years, at least among GenZ OLD fatigue seems to be increasingly common	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/26 09:06 PM
–	Why are so many men here proponents of cold approach? Hard to say for sure online, but it is socially acceptable to initiate at bars and clubs I don’t really consider it cold approaching in that context. The environment is always warm approaching unlike say, a woman walking down the street minding her own business	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/26 08:33 PM
–	Why are so many men here proponents of cold approach? Hit the gym, dress well, practice social skills (talking with women and make platonic friends) and expand your social circle Some men just won’t succeed on dating apps because of biological factors out of their control, but if you can’t get a single woman interested in you in real life then you’re doing something wrong or not actually putting yourself out there You see ugly women dating ugly men all the time, it can be done for sure	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/26 08:18 PM
–	Why are so many men here proponents of cold approach? Are a lot of men here really advocating for cold approaching? Because telling men to avoid dating apps for approaching women in real life doesn’t mean you’re suggesting cold approaching I think apps are useless for most men nowadays, but you can still approach women in real life if you’re putting yourself out there and looking for choosing signals	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/26 08:04 PM
2	Q4M: What is the real reason y'all want to go out for drinks? Best explanation I can think of is the goomba theory. I’m sure a lot of the women wary of man aren’t going to their houses, but I can say from experience there is definitely overlap to some degree That said, it’s still very bizarre we have a dating culture where Netflix and Chill is a normal first “date,” while going out for a real date is considered risky	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/26 02:10 AM
–	Is it possible that Gen Z /alpha men can do better with women than previous generations? If you’re a high quality man or woman and putting yourself out there (e.g. not just going to work, gym then doomscrolling) then you’ll find somebody. I don’t think that’s ever going to change If you’re average, especially as a man then luck plays a way bigger factor than it ever did. That said, I do believe we’ll see GenZ and Gen Alpha pair up more in their 30s and 40s The damage done to dating for young men and women seems to irreversible, at least for the foreseeable future	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/26 01:58 AM
1	Why is it that young women are so into kinky sex? I’d also imagine there’s a fair bit more men participating in the community (like with dating apps) which skews the profile even more I think the notion that every young woman nowadays wants to get tied up and spanked is a little exaggerated, but that’s probably not the best metric	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/26 09:21 PM
8	Why is it that young women are so into kinky sex? Because romance novels and smut affects women just as much as porn does for men, and there’s a huge increase in young women consuming that content	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/26 09:15 PM
6	Q4M: What is the real reason y'all want to go out for drinks? Being very attractive definitely plays a part, the halo effect is very real. I also think it’s a cultural shift too I’m not that attractive, but I was able to link up with women on Tinder when I was single. I’m a big foodie so I sometimes took them to a food spot when new items dropped after linking up, and the number of women who told me they never been on a real date was crazy Granted this was in our 20s, but the way we approach dating feels fundamentally broken	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/26 08:46 PM
18	Q4M: What is the real reason y'all want to go out for drinks? I will never understand how some women are comfortable going over to some guy’s place they barely know off Tinder to link, but are terrified of something as mundane as a date Maybe I’m just old but it feels very backwards to me	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/26 08:28 PM
9	LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD There’s more attractive women than there are attractive men, and women are a lot pickier so it makes sense Attractive men have their pick of the litter on dating apps	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/26 08:23 PM
1	Invest as little as possible early on I think it depends what that routine is My partner doesn’t wear makeup or dress as nice all the time as when we started dating, nor do we have sex almost everyday either and she put on a few pounds. I think it’d be a bit unreasonable to expect that longterm in a relationship People putting in less effort isn’t unique to men, but it depends what it is and whether it just slows down or stops altogether. If you stop taking your woman out to dates altogether that’s bad, but slowing it down to once o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/26 04:57 PM
3	Invest as little as possible early on Yeah I’m glad I’m out of the dating scene because it looks like a disaster, at least for young men and women Everybody trying to be as nonchalant as possible, and they have very traditional standards while not being traditional themselves. There’s still quality partners, but they get sniped off the dating market crazy fast	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/26 03:47 PM
2	Men should ask permission before asking sexually explicit questions Socially calibrated people do not ask for permission to ask sexual questions. Do people in this subreddit go outside lol You take into consideration if they’re okay with it or not through social cues. If I’m flirting back and forth with a woman, no socially adjusted man will gonna ask for permission because it comes off as unnatural Obviously if she’s not into it then you should stop immediately, but the sleazy men who don’t care aren’t going to be listening to this advice anyway	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/26 03:37 PM
2	It’s very important that men fight against paying on the first date That’s always been my motto It’s crazy to me that men are buying whole ass meals for women they don’t even know	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/26 05:17 PM
9	It’s very important that men fight against paying on the first date That’s why you always do cheap first dates. I took my partner to a cute ice cream spot on our first date and it was barely $10 The women who are demanding men take them to expensive first dates are looking for a foodie call or barely interested in them. Women date and sleep with men who do cheap first dates all the time	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/26 04:19 PM
2	Men created the “high maintenance woman” they complain about If most men statistically aren’t pumping and dumping women (men date most of the women they sleep with), then it indicates the incels you’re referring to are a minority by definition. And if you genuinely believe PPD men are largely reflective of real life, it might be time to touch grass anyway	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/26 02:43 PM
1	Men created the “high maintenance woman” they complain about Yes, and those incels you’re referring to online are a statistical minority of single men. Hence my point that most men do not pump and dump women Going by the average number of relationships, the average men ends up dating most of the women they sleep with. It’s possible they pump and dump 1-2 women for funsies, but it’s quite unlikely given the dating pattern	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/26 02:23 PM
2	Men created the “high maintenance woman” they complain about The average man has about 6ish partners in their lifetime. The men who are running through pumping and dumping women are a statistical minority Yes, I’m sure there’s some incels who would do the same If they had the opportunity, but most men just want a relationship That’s like me saying most women would want to be a sugar baby if they were attractive enough lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/26 01:56 PM
5	Men falsely claim that women lie about their preferences because they believe men are great. I actually agree on dating apps. A lot of men and women on there are in a relationship, and nearly half of women are only on there for validation or a foodie call, and most of the other half aren’t relationship material to put it lightly lol Dating apps are a cesspool and aren’t reflective of real life for either gender. Most people in real life are normal	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/26 01:40 PM
6	Men falsely claim that women lie about their preferences because they believe men are great. Depends what you mean by good Most men and women are not high quality partners, but most people aren’t bad people. If most of the men or women you’re dating are bad people, it might be time for some self-reflection People with rough childhoods tend to prefer toxic partners	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/26 01:27 PM
1	Men are in a desert and women are in swamp is misandry. There aren’t many high quality relationship quality men and women so I get why women say this. That said, this idea that men get less matches but the options they get are higher quality is really silly Most women do not have their shit together or they have a lot of baggage. I’m sure men are just as guilty, but high quality women get sniped off the dating market fast	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/26 07:29 PM
1	“Men want love too” until you explain that relationships should NOT be seen as the cost of sex. Discounting religious reasons, 70% of couples had sex within the first month Whether you like it or agree is entirely irrelevant, but it’s statistically the normal pace for couples who end up in relationships	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/26 05:38 PM
0	“Men want love too” until you explain that relationships should NOT be seen as the cost of sex. If you read the read of my post, I mention that it’s fine if you need months to know somebody before becoming physical with them It’s also fine if the man wants to date at a more normal pace	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/26 05:25 PM
7	“Men want love too” until you explain that relationships should NOT be seen as the cost of sex. I agree to an extent, especially with the “if he/she wanted to they would” mindset My issue is less with not being ready, but curving and not saying anything. At best it’s an indication of poor communication on their part, but for most women it means the sparks just isn’t there This all ties back to what OP said about men wanting to feel desired. I’ve taken it slow with a few women because they communicated their situations clearly with me, but if you don’t say anything it feels like she’s not i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/26 01:24 AM
–	Many women use sex as a reward in dating and relationships. I’ve always said foreplay and courting never ends even with marriage. If he’s not putting in effort then that’ll hurt her sex drive, and it goes both ways for men My partner is still as lustful as when we first started dating because of that	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/26 12:35 AM
12	“Men want love too” until you explain that relationships should NOT be seen as the cost of sex. aggressively accuses me of being a tease I don’t know how your dates go, but for most guys we just smile or apologize and go about the date as usual. After the date I’m not planing on seeing her again I was very shy and awkward when I first started dating so I get where you’re coming from, but it’s just not an excuse. When I was awkward but never explained myself, most women thought I was weird. When I briefly explained, “I’m gonna be honest with you, I’m new to dating so that might’ve came out …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/26 12:30 AM
15	“Men want love too” until you explain that relationships should NOT be seen as the cost of sex. It’s fine if you wanted to but you’re too nervous, but it’s on you to communicate that. If you’re genuine and your body language and vibes are congruent then most guys will understand But if I get curved for a hug or kiss and she doesn’t say anything then there won’t be a second date — most guys will take it as her not being interested Being awkward isn’t a good excuse and it’s on you to manage any social misunderstandings from it	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/26 12:00 AM
6	“Men want love too” until you explain that relationships should NOT be seen as the cost of sex. Speaking from experience, the women who need 5+ dates just want a friend first but won’t say it because they don’t know it or because it’ll turn off most guys Now there’s nothing inherently wrong with that, but there’s nothing wrong with men who want the normal dating experience either	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/26 08:21 PM
28	“Men want love too” until you explain that relationships should NOT be seen as the cost of sex. If it’s not for religious reasons and it’s been more than 3 dates and nothing is happening, the large majority of the time it’s due to a lack of romantic interest I’ve waited more than 3 dates for just two women, and it’s because they made me feel wanted and showed genuine desire the entire time. “Cuddle and kiss” can be enough, but if it’s being done to placate instead of actual enthusiasm it’s very easy to tell and will turn most men off To his point, if you’re going to make somebody wait long…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/26 07:07 PM
57	“Men want love too” until you explain that relationships should NOT be seen as the cost of sex. I don’t agree with the first part, but if a woman rejects a hug or even a kiss then she’s usually not interested And most men are definitely saying they want mutual effort and interest — it’s literally one of biggest complaints I see from young men in modern dating (especially on dating apps)	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/26 06:51 PM
3	The "Emotional Labor" Argument Is Wildly overplayed by women. No, women in this thread are explicitly saying they should be acknowledged for basic relationship duties like emotional labor. That’s entirely different from what you’re describing	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/26 06:04 PM
3	The "Emotional Labor" Argument Is Wildly overplayed by women. This is just truism and not saying anything substantive Men (and by extension single dads) make more money, work longer hours, and if they’re fighting custody for their child then they’re more likely to be better fathers than an average single mom due to selection bias It doesn’t mean men are inherently better at parenting than women, but the average single dad is better at parenting than your average single mom due to circumstances	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/26 05:59 PM
2	The "Emotional Labor" Argument Is Wildly overplayed by women. Not all single moms are working 50 hour work weeks without any support system	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/26 05:46 PM
1	The "Emotional Labor" Argument Is Wildly overplayed by women. He said he was raising them since they were 4 in another post No idea why it’s so hard for people here to understand the idea that parenting is easier for some people. Ignoring gender, I’ve known a few single moms who said parenting wasn’t that hard It was challenging for me and my partner, but everybody has unique circumstances and tolerance	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/26 05:29 PM
2	The "Emotional Labor" Argument Is Wildly overplayed by women. Weird how you guys see a single dad taking care of his kid and assume the mom “must have did all the hard work obviously” Reddit feminists really hold very regressive perspectives	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/26 05:09 PM
1	The "Emotional Labor" Argument Is Wildly overplayed by women. Not easy all the time, but parenting and emotional labor is definitely way easier for some more than others This thread is a really good indication of that	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/26 04:23 PM
-3	The "Emotional Labor" Argument Is Wildly overplayed by women. Honestly, it feels like a lot of these women just don’t like their partners based on what I read online. I’ve never considered the idea of comforting my partner as “labor” in any way Not to say that completely emotionally dumping on your partner all the time is healthy or it can’t manifest in negative ways of course, but that’s a separate discussion That’s like me asking for a medal or acknowledgment for not treating my partner like garbage or being faithful to her when I go out — it’s the bare …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/26 04:08 PM
5	The "Emotional Labor" Argument Is Wildly overplayed by women. In the US the diff between female job + home labor vs male is about 8 minutes per day. To be fair, when kids are involved the gap does increase to about an hour or two extra labor a week in women’s favor. Without kids, data consistently shows labor is relatively even when you factor in men work more hours than their partners When children are involved I think there is a discussion to be had, but when I see all these childless women online claiming their partners just game and watch tv all day I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/26 03:58 PM
–	Many women use sex as a reward in dating and relationships. You’re right, I meant the quote the person above you lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/26 03:13 PM
–	Many women use sex as a reward in dating and relationships. You’re not meeting the right woman. All the women I dated had crazy high sex drives, some even more than me A lot of men think this because they chase women who clearly aren’t interested in them and think it’s normal	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/26 01:20 PM
–	Many women use sex as a reward in dating and relationships. FWIW, this is true of FDS which openly advocates as much. There’s also entire communities on social media that encourage women to do this too. It’s pretty much the gender flipped version of the manosphere But this thread is also kinda pointless since it’s just a truism. Yeah a lot of women do use sex as a reward and they’re shitty people — just dump them and move on. It applies to women when they complain about men who don’t do chores or whatever and it applies here too	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/26 01:17 PM
8	"Dating for men is so easy. You have to be normal" Is one of the most cringe and false statements of all time Normal is boring. Definitely agree. There’s a lot of inoffensive but boring men out there and you’ll never stand out by just being nice You don’t have to be an asshole, but you gotta make women feel certain emotions to get their attention	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/26 01:04 PM
-2	Young Men's Perception Of What Responsible Masculinity Looks Like, And Women's Perception Of Men In General Are Distorted. I don’t really have any strong feelings if somebody on Reddit wants to avoid or hate men or not I’m just pointing out how categorizing an entire group of people as dangerous because of bad experiences is uh, usually not good	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/26 02:21 AM
-3	Young Men's Perception Of What Responsible Masculinity Looks Like, And Women's Perception Of Men In General Are Distorted. Stats show the overwhelming majority of men are not violent (less than 0.2%). Most violent crimes are done by repeat offenders going in and out of prison or probation Nothing wrong with being wary of men as a woman, and I’d probably even recommend it. Being wary is a lot different than being prejudiced against a group of people	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/26 02:06 AM
-2	Young Men's Perception Of What Responsible Masculinity Looks Like, And Women's Perception Of Men In General Are Distorted. The stats don’t show that black people are inherently more violent than any other ethnic group. This is true, but it’s also not addressing the point The argument isn’t that black people are inherently more violent, but it’s that racists use their experiences with black people to justify hateful rhetoric. Which to his point, is also being done here I actually think it’s fine to have negative personal opinions of men, women, or any race if you have constant bad experiences with them. You should no…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/26 01:51 AM
0	The feminist narrative of 30+ men’s preference for younger (18-25) women being due to their inability to get women their age is one of the most laughable things I’ve ever heard Most men and women on PPD do not have healthy views of the other gender — I wouldn’t put too much thought into it	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/26 09:33 PM
0	The feminist narrative of 30+ men’s preference for younger (18-25) women being due to their inability to get women their age is one of the most laughable things I’ve ever heard When I was a sophomore in college I was clean-shaven with no body hair, and I’ve had multiple women tell me that they didn’t want me to grow it out because they didn’t like hairy guys Clearly I dodged a bullet because according to the experts on PPD, all those women were secretly attracted to little boys lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/26 08:49 PM
–	The feminist narrative of 30+ men’s preference for younger (18-25) women being due to their inability to get women their age is one of the most laughable things I’ve ever heard It depends If your preference is 18 year old girls without body hair who talks in a baby voice and dresses like a child, then I would agree something more is there and your hard drive should probably be checked If your preference is 25 year old women without body hair but she’s normal, has a big ass or tits, has a job, and you believe it means they secretly want to prey on children then you’re very likely an idiot and spend too much time online Enough women have a preference for hairless men tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/26 08:09 PM
1	The feminist narrative of 30+ men’s preference for younger (18-25) women being due to their inability to get women their age is one of the most laughable things I’ve ever heard Kpop guys don’t look like children lol I didn’t say they look like children. The discussion was about having a preference for hairless men and women, which a lot of women do which you just acknowledged	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/26 07:48 PM
0	The feminist narrative of 30+ men’s preference for younger (18-25) women being due to their inability to get women their age is one of the most laughable things I’ve ever heard Kpop guys and clean-shaven boy bands guys are some of the most desired men in the world, especially among young women	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/26 07:39 PM
-1	The feminist narrative of 30+ men’s preference for younger (18-25) women being due to their inability to get women their age is one of the most laughable things I’ve ever heard Nearly 40% of women prefer a men with no beard. Some women enjoy the “boyish charm” look without wanting to sleep with little boys	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/26 07:34 PM
0	The feminist narrative of 30+ men’s preference for younger (18-25) women being due to their inability to get women their age is one of the most laughable things I’ve ever heard Yeah this isn’t a serious discussion lol Plenty of women like men without beards and having little body hair, it’s called a preference. I don’t think the women here likening it to wanting to sleep with children understand how warped this sounds to normal people	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/26 07:29 PM
–	The feminist narrative of 30+ men’s preference for younger (18-25) women being due to their inability to get women their age is one of the most laughable things I’ve ever heard It’s just a weird strawman. There are freaks that are attracted to children (from both genders), but they’re a statistical minority The reasons pedophiles are attracted to first graders can be different from why young women are attractive, and I’m surprised this has to be said	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/26 07:13 PM
0	“Sex is neccessary but insufficient” is a lie if you only want to talk about sex and physical “intimacy”. To each their own, but I don’t think you can “logic” your way into sexual compatibility by asking a lot of sex questions You can get a decent idea, but you don’t know how you’re gonna feel until it happens. I’ve been with enough women where the vibes where there and the “sexy talk” was fire but the spark just wasn’t there when it came down to it	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/26 01:03 AM
0	“Sex is neccessary but insufficient” is a lie if you only want to talk about sex and physical “intimacy”. What if a woman enjoys being gone down on, but the man she’s dating isn’t comfortable giving oral? Or she doesn’t like his size (too big or small)? Some women squirt everywhere, some women can’t do certain position, and some people are just really bad at sex I’m sure certain things can be discussed, but it doesn’t sound realistic in practice	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/26 12:11 AM
-1	“Sex is neccessary but insufficient” is a lie if you only want to talk about sex and physical “intimacy”. if you have great communication sex should be great. I don’t see how communication can fix sexual incompatibility If I really like a girl who does X but she’s not comfortable doing X, then our sex life won’t be great and it’ll lead to resentment down the line	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/26 11:49 PM
–	What do you actually want women to do? Exactly. Being cool and non-judgmental will dramatically increase your odds of escalating and her being honest about her past if it matters to you Easiest way is to just genuinely be non-judgmental about it and still try to be interested in her as a person. Whether she slept with one guy or 100 guys it doesn’t inherently make her a bad person. A lot of hoes are super chill honestly; maybe not compatible for a LTR but you can make a good friend or FWB out of it. Or even just a fun night if you ne…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/26 09:14 PM
3	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 If a woman finds you attractive or likes you she’ll always makes things easy. Maybe not jump you on the first date for some women, but escalation should go very smoothly	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/26 07:41 PM
1	‘emotional labor’ and ‘physical labor’ are more about partner selection and not gendered A lot of women on Reddit are neurodivergent in some way so I wouldn’t be surprised. I probably wouldn’t say 90%, but I’d wager a fair portion of these “weaponized incompetences” threads are leaving out details It’s the woman equivalent of “she never told me she was upset before filing for divorce.”	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/26 07:11 PM
5	Men’s vs women’s self help advice differences Eh, I somewhat agree in spirit but not entirely. Women’s “dating gurus” do not tell women they should lose weight or hit the gym, but rather give mindset lessons on how to approach and deal with men to find your perfect partner. It’s a little more nuanced than “you’re perfect” and reassurance Men’s dating advice involves attracting women while women’s advice is telling women how to approach dating and pick the right person because those are the hardest parts to navigate for them	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/26 05:11 PM
0	‘emotional labor’ and ‘physical labor’ are more about partner selection and not gendered Yeah that sounds like a miserable situation. Definitely sounds like she just wants control, especially if she’s demeaning you in front of her friends. Disrespect like that would’ve made me walk out fast It never got that bad with my ex fortunately — we agreed that we would do the chores we want done in a very specific way. If it got to the point where I was constantly being scolded for “not cleaning dishes the right way” then I probably would’ve checked out too There’s definitely some men who ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/26 04:58 PM
7	‘emotional labor’ and ‘physical labor’ are more about partner selection and not gendered “Doing chores wrong” is a classic lmao Clothes have to be folded a particular kind of way, dishes have to be done in a specific order, you have to cook food the way they’re used to etc. Some men are definitely genuine slobs, but I suspect a lot of complaints I see online are from very Type A women who want chores done their way so they end up doing them instead They don’t date other people who are as particular about cleaning because they know it’s not fun living with somebody like that	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/26 04:32 PM
1	‘emotional labor’ and ‘physical labor’ are more about partner selection and not gendered I’m not going to explain why generalizing an entire gender and being sexist is bad	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/26 03:54 PM
6	‘emotional labor’ and ‘physical labor’ are more about partner selection and not gendered Nobody is blaming women OP is saying they’re incompatible and should move on to somebody else who matches their frequency	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/26 03:29 PM
–	‘emotional labor’ and ‘physical labor’ are more about partner selection and not gendered Some of you guys really need to touch some grass	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/26 03:03 PM
3	‘emotional labor’ and ‘physical labor’ are more about partner selection and not gendered If you’re always picking manchildren or gold diggers it usually reflects more on you You’re free to go to the Red Pill route and blame an entire gender for it, but it’s not very productive	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/26 02:57 PM
2	‘emotional labor’ and ‘physical labor’ are more about partner selection and not gendered There’s literally a comment in this thread saying men are trash because of this lol Sexism is so normalized in this subreddit (from both men and women) that you can’t even see it	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/26 02:33 PM
0	‘emotional labor’ and ‘physical labor’ are more about partner selection and not gendered Blaming a whole gender because you picked somebody incompatible with you is goofy, whether it’s disparaging men or women I’ve had ex-partners who couldn’t cook or do certain basic adult tasks, and it’s just as silly to say “blame girls” over the fact that I didn’t pick the right person	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/26 02:29 PM
7	What do you actually want women to do? Honestly, it works with both men and women. If you create a fun, non-judgmental space and ask the right questions, most people will naturally open up to you or at the very least give you hints you can piece together Having good social skills works way better than just autistically asking their body count or whatever lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/26 06:39 AM
7	What do you actually want women to do? ”better you wouldn’t make me wait if I was a Chad.” I feel like most socially calibrated men know you have to create a non-judgmental space for her to open up. If you ask the right questions you’ll know her history through context clues, and whether you want to pursue a LTR or not I went on a lot of first dates when I was single and it always worked for me at least	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/26 01:10 AM
11	The things that progressive or blue pill women prefer in dating, are usually the things they hate about society in general. Only 30% of women are conservative, whereas 42% of young women identify as progressives so I’d be genuinely surprised if they weren’t decently represented in that stat YMMV, but I dated Bernie supporters back in college and a lot of them were fairly traditional in their preferences too	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/26 08:35 PM
2	The things that progressive or blue pill women prefer in dating, are usually the things they hate about society in general. Even then, how is that wrong? I’m not claiming it’s wrong, and neither is OP to my understanding Some people (particularly in certain online groups) conflate dating preferences with morality, which just isn’t true for either men or women	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/26 08:20 PM
-1	The things that progressive or blue pill women prefer in dating, are usually the things they hate about society in general. I believe people should be able to practice their religions. Doesn’t mean I have to be religious. I actually agree that we don’t have to match our beliefs in what we look for in a partner, but this a libertarian position specifically A better analogy would be a progressive believing nobody should be judged for sleeping around, but also avoids promiscuous partners in LTRs I don’t there’s anything inherently wrong with this either, but it’s an interesting thought experiment (which men sometimes do…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/26 08:11 PM
21	The things that progressive or blue pill women prefer in dating, are usually the things they hate about society in general. 63% of women reported they wouldn’t date a man who had any sexual experience with another man My experience talking with bi guys seems to line up with data too; lots of women get the ick	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/26 07:59 PM
1	Other than physical contact, there is no difference between a friendship and relationship. Agreed. I’ve had close FWBs and still have really good female friends but it’s just not the same connection as my partner Most people cannot love their friends the same way they love their husband or wife	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/26 03:12 PM
2	Why do men complain so much? Agreed. There’s kernels of truth into what the manosphere says about some aspects of dating being unfair to men, but complaining about it is antithetical to this extremely stoic caricature that they’re trying to represent Everybody complaints about dating and perceived unfairness and neither men or women should be singled out here	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/26 11:24 PM
8	Why do men complain so much? I’m glad I wasn’t the only one who noticed this. Almost feels like a parody lol I do think men complain more than they acknowledge, but a lot of women complain more than they recognize	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/26 10:59 PM
3	Why do men complain so much? Men complain for the same reasons that women complains — they feel something is unfair (women having much easier access to sex) and the justification isn’t really relevant to that feeling Take student loans for example — you see a lot of women complain about it online. It should be expected for you to pay off what you borrowed, but at the same time I can understand why they feel that way despite the justification	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/26 10:53 PM
2	What do you think Blue Pill is? I’d probably agree with the original definition from the PUA days, but the way manosphere and TRPs use blue pill is synonymous with woke and progressive folks	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/26 08:25 PM
6	What do you think Blue Pill is? Honestly yeah. Most people in real life don’t share the extreme viewpoints of some of the ‘blue pillers’ here when it comes to dating either, but they definitely don’t buy into TRP either By definition, I suppose it’s correct but the spectrum is so incredibly broad that it completely loses the intention behind its original meaning	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/26 05:06 PM
1	If it was about women being consistent with their sexual behavior, then it would make more sense for men to pursue women who makes everyone wait for sex. I have a partner and I don’t pretend that it inherently indicates my advice for young women is good I know from experience a lot of married men give bad advice too. It means something, but not much in itself	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/26 04:50 PM
2	If it was about women being consistent with their sexual behavior, then it would make more sense for men to pursue women who makes everyone wait for sex. Pretty much. The advice here is very clearly women-coded and will lead you to be taken advantage of. Just like some men are shitty, women have the potential to lie, cheat and take advantage of people just as much as men You absolutely should not put up with women who aren’t showing clear interest in you	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/26 04:43 PM
10	If it was about women being consistent with their sexual behavior, then it would make more sense for men to pursue women who makes everyone wait for sex. Studies actually indicate that less attractive women have higher number of partners than very attractive women, and I agree with this from my experience too Attractive women are usually very picky with who they sleep with, and are less likely to sleep with somebody to win them over. A lot of my heavier friends told me they slept with guys earlier than they wanted to back in college for that reason, which is a bit unfortunate There were some “easy” hot women back in my frat parties, but most of t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/26 04:26 PM
10	If it was about women being consistent with their sexual behavior, then it would make more sense for men to pursue women who makes everyone wait for sex. It’s true a lot of men here haven’t been in relationships, but it’s also true a lot of women here are in their 40s and have zero clue how dating works for men at a low-level Ain’t no way I’m giving my son dating advice I see from women on this subreddit lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/26 04:19 PM
9	If it was about women being consistent with their sexual behavior, then it would make more sense for men to pursue women who makes everyone wait for sex. It’s unfortunate to see women here having such warped views of men that the only reason they would want effort is because of sex	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/26 03:50 PM
13	Women have a much bigger problem accepting when a men is not dominant, then men accepting when a women is not submissive Feminine men and socially awkward men are judged more harshly than masculine women and socially awkward women as far as relationship roles are concerned. You’re also expected to take the initiative and lead as a man, whereas women can bounce between either Not blaming women for it or saying they’re bad people for It, but it’s just reality that women’s roles in dating are a lot more fluid than men’s for at least the last decade or so	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/26 04:40 PM
26	Women have a much bigger problem accepting when a men is not dominant, then men accepting when a women is not submissive Hard agree on women collectively not being as progressive as society makes us believe Even the most progressive, blue-haired, hairy armpit feminists love it when a man pays for dates. Women generally have a strong aversion to bisexual men, and they actually slut shame (both men and other women) more than men do. Not to mention voting habits I don’t think it negatively reflects badly on women or anything (these are just preferences after all), but it is interesting to see the difference in percep…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/26 03:34 PM
17	Women have a much bigger problem accepting when a men is not dominant, then men accepting when a women is not submissive Men’s roles don’t really restrict Men’s roles in relationships are absolutely socially and culturally restrictive lol Now it’s not as restrictive as say women in the 1950s, but women are far less restricted than men are in the modern era	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/26 03:26 PM
–	From a woman’s POV the disparity isn’t that “more men get murdered than women,” it’s that more men kill women than women kill men. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with being cautious around certain groups of people if you have bad experience with them. I’d probably even encourage it There’s a difference between being showing personal caution and publicly pushing narratives that men are violent. Take the manosphere for example — those dweebs clearly have negative experiences with women that shaped their viewpoints, but it’s not right for them to publicly call women hoes or gold diggers either	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/26 03:16 PM
1	Women’s standards are not high in the least how much of women’s discourse is them telling her to leave an ugly abusive man and the woman in question refusing. Is the woman in question ugly too? Because studies consistently show most men and women date within their own league Fwiw from being friends with women and having dated a lot when I was younger, I do agree women’s relationships standards really aren’t that high and some women do put up with a lot. The prerequisites to get there is a lot higher unless there’s alcohol involved and tho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/26 07:14 PM
–	Personality matters more than looks, but attraction still matters. I dated a lot of women on and off dating apps, and I can say this is a myth too Unattractive women have thousands of options on dating apps if they live in any metro area, and most women get hit on if they’re in social gatherings if they make themselves approachable and give signals Not to say they don’t have dating struggles, but when they say “no man wants me” I find that they’re either just not putting themselves out there or just being too selective and filtering out too many people	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/26 06:36 AM
–	Personality matters more than looks, but attraction still matters. Not agreeing with the personal attack, but to his point it sounds like you two are bigger and probably in the same league dating each other. You see unattractive men in relationships all the time in real life, but they’re usually dating more “homely” women When people say “looks matter most” they usually mean for example, a 9/10 woman usually won’t have a LTR with a 5/10 guy even if he has a great personality. Exceptions exist obviously, but data shows most people date within their league Both m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/26 06:23 AM
–	I am disgusted at the state of women's diets and health in general. Women, do you see this issue in men? You’re correct but it’s not really a women specific. Most young men and women can’t cook nowadays, and their diets are trash in different ways When I was single and I noticed this a lot when I went over to their place. Their cabinets were empty and the fridge was filled with just sweets, condiments and takeout leftovers lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/26 03:52 PM
1	"Manslamming" is just more gendering a non-gendered issue. I’m glad I’m not terminally online enough to know what this is before this thread, but I can confidently say you should avoid anybody who unironically uses the word manslamming and that their opinions are worth very little	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/26 03:47 PM
1	As a man, giving women you're interested in your number instead of asking for theirs is much better. Most women today won’t respond well to this at all. You and your social circle are not most women. From my experience with a lot of different women from many different social circles — it works pretty well. A lot of women in this thread share similar opinions too so I’m not sure what to tell you If you’re struggling to get even a single phone number then this isn’t some magical fix and I’m not saying it is. If you’re a sexless young man there’s a dozen steps to work on first before any dating ad…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/26 04:14 PM
-1	As a man, giving women you're interested in your number instead of asking for theirs is much better. It’s all a numbers game to most of you anyways. Ironic because I’m suggesting the literal opposite by filtering out some women to improve the overall quality. Numbers game is what the other guy is suggesting which I’m disagreeing with lol That said, if you’re a sexless 22 year old PPD young man don’t do this. This only works if you have some options and can be a little picky	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/26 03:50 PM
-1	As a man, giving women you're interested in your number instead of asking for theirs is much better. I have a partner so I don’t need it, but thank you	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/26 03:38 PM
-1	As a man, giving women you're interested in your number instead of asking for theirs is much better. But you are talking about a literal stranger. Uh, you realize women know if they’re interested within minutes of your interaction right? If you’re still cagey about whether to see me after that then I’m not interested, which is the point of doing this 99% of women are going to assume that if YOU are “genuinely interested” in them, then you will contact them first. No, you just have to initiate contact which shows interest. It’s a novel idea, but I want women to reciprocate interest back I don’t …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/26 03:28 PM
5	As a man, giving women you're interested in your number instead of asking for theirs is much better. A lot of men here have a defeatist mindset when approaching dating. They think being as available as possible and having no standards makes it easier to attract women when it does the literal opposite and makes their limited pool even worse Nothing repels women more than desperation, and women are great at sensing it	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/25 11:22 PM
2	As a man, giving women you're interested in your number instead of asking for theirs is much better. This only really works if you’re a hot dude tbh. You only have to be hot enough for her You’re not wrong that women won’t do it for most guys but that’s kinda the point — you want to weed out women who aren’t very interested	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/25 11:08 PM
0	As a man, giving women you're interested in your number instead of asking for theirs is much better. Ok she texts you but you’re on your way out with the guys. I don’t know how you text women, but her first text will be something basic like “hey it’s X.” If I’m out with someone I’ll respond when I get home and plan a time to link up then. I keep it pretty simple I never did spontaneous meets for either hookups or dates — I’m way too busy and organized for that. I ain’t ruining my schedule for some poom lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/25 08:38 PM
2	As a man, giving women you're interested in your number instead of asking for theirs is much better. You get her number. You text her. Then you do your own thing make your own plans. Again, you can live your life, hangout with friends and chat up other women after dropping your number too. I’m not sure what’s so hard to understand here Also setting a date on the first text is way too strong and will lead to her ghosting you if you only talked on a dating app. Even if you grab her number, don’t do this	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/25 08:18 PM
0	As a man, giving women you're interested in your number instead of asking for theirs is much better. ”I am sitting by my phone waiting” You realize this scenario happens regardless of who gives out their number first right? She still has to text you back If you’re desperately waiting by your phone it makes you look pathetic independent of any choice you make	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/25 07:56 PM
0	As a man, giving women you're interested in your number instead of asking for theirs is much better. hungry dogs go hunting Yes, men should take the initiative and show that initial interest. But there has to be some degree of reciprocity that’s not present in either of your analogies I’ve gotten more women off the app from asking their numbers, but the conversion rate between dating apps and actual dates or links were much higher after dropping my number	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/25 07:44 PM
5	As a man, giving women you're interested in your number instead of asking for theirs is much better. I’ve only done it a handful of times in real life, but it was very effective on dating apps from my experience If she enjoyed the interaction and your vibe then she’ll text your number (usually it’s just a basic “Hi it’s X from Tinder”). A lot of women use dating apps for validation or boredom so doing this weeds them out very well	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/25 07:27 PM
1	As a man, giving women you're interested in your number instead of asking for theirs is much better. Not a good analogy. Most people do not like salesman by default, but if a woman is genuinely interested in you then you shouldn’t have to “sell” yourself to her	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/25 07:24 PM
3	What's With the Sudden Increase in "Women Being Lead?" I know it gets clowned on when guys list ‘sex’ as a notable contribution to a relationship (which is valid), but it’s surprising how many women also believe this lol It’s probably effective for young sexless men on PPD, but probably not as much for guys with options who aren’t desperate for poom poom	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/25 07:19 PM
1	What's With the Sudden Increase in "Women Being Lead?" Pretty much, but I don’t think this is women genuinely embracing conservatism though. I saw a lot of wild women in college who suddenly marketing themselves as “traditional” on dating apps after graduating and struggling on the job market lol Even in these viral “soft girl” videos, they’re not actually pushing for conservative values outside of maybe celibacy. It’s just women LARPIng because of the horrible economy imo	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/25 07:09 PM
–	Women have given up on dating men The data isn’t fabricated. Most of those sexless men are just young men in their 20s who will likely find a partner in their 30s even if it’s a “beta bux” relationship And the large majority of women want relationships — don’t let asexual women on Reddit fool you. They’re just more likely to remain single than commit to a relationship they don’t feel is worth it	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/25 09:58 PM
–	Women have given up on dating men Another source shows that women cheat slightly more until their 30s, then flips by a slight margin in men’s favor and slightly Increases with age. However, the delta between men and women infidelity rates was only 2-8% until their twilight years I know women here complain about men cheating as if it’s some epidemic, but data shows the chance of women cheating isn’t all the different either. Grass is always greener and all that	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/25 09:19 PM
–	Women have given up on dating men Reddit isn’t reflective of reality. Also, the posts you see on relationship advice or this subreddit will skew towards complaints due its nature. Women in happy relationships aren’t complaining on Reddit Data consistently shows most women want relationships just like men do. It’s like how our perception of the number of sexless men in real life is massively skewed because of Reddit	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/25 09:11 PM
7	Why do we have a generation of "weak" men? Women have their equivalent it is hard and confusing there’s no debating it. Not much has changed for women compared to previous generations outside of being more involved in the workplace (and even that’s not required) Men this generation are in the middle of a huge cultural shift where the hyper-masculine fantasy isn’t as effective anymore and the “Goldilocks zone” between masculine and feminine is new ground, poorly defined and pretty thin margins between “toxic masculinity” and being “too fe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/25 09:19 PM
–	Why do men think there are so many good men I agree, especially when she said “generous.” Attractive, financially successful men aren’t quick to throw their money at most women — life isn’t a romance novel lol Most women I dated weren’t “bad people” either just not the high quality partner that I wanted for in a LTR. It’d be disingenuous to say they’re not good enough people, just not a good fit for me	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/25 06:24 PM
–	Why do men think there are so many good men One point isn’t statically significant While I agree pointing out that women cheating more until their 30s isn’t everything; there isn’t a statistical significant difference between both genders until their twilight years For 99% of the people posting on PPD this is a non-issue and women still cheat at similar rates	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/25 04:35 PM
–	Why do men think there are so many good men I’ve seen men drop a lot of money on fancy dates and dinners just for a hug, whereas the same woman would link up with another guy who bought her a Wendy’s 4 for 4 lol The bar has always been the floor for men they find really attractive, and men do this too	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/25 04:29 PM
–	Why do men think there are so many good men This is my takeaway too I think she’s right that most men don’t meet those standards (while being attractive too), but she’s ignoring that most women don’t meet the gender flipped standards either It’s hard finding high quality men and women because everybody wants them while not offering enough themselves	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/25 04:20 PM
3	A dating quietly rewards men for behaviors that would be labeled predatory or toxic if those same men openly wanted to do them This feels like confusing the idea of inconsistency with the idea of invalidity. I think you’re confusing my stance. I think is a valid argument, it just loses a lot of the moral significance from the particular person making it If they’re engaging in a similar behavior I can understand that sex trafficking is bad, but if it’s Diddy lecturing me about it then you just kinda scoff because the words are empty from that person, not because sex trafficking is suddenly less immoral in itself or that …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/25 01:38 AM
7	What's are alternatives to Red Pill? Yeah this is pretty much how most operate honestly. Most people in the real world aren’t “blue pill” or “red pill” they just have a set of guiding beliefs that they operate with A lot of the people here are “blue pill” but I disagree with them just as much as the goofy red pillers which indicates how useless it is to be part of these broad pill communities online	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/25 01:24 AM
7	A dating quietly rewards men for behaviors that would be labeled predatory or toxic if those same men openly wanted to do them Most of the critiques I see levied against the porn industry is about the well documented exploitation pipeline I think this is valid, but it loses most of its meaning because a lot of these same people also own iPhones, drink coffee and buy clothing from places where impoverished children are being exploited in sweatshops and deplorable living conditions. It feels like selective virtue signaling since the vast majority of Americans consume at least some product from a harmful industry or at lea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/25 12:59 AM
1	Men are more violent than women, not more abusive. Why exactly would one argue in any good faith that’s it’s on women to solve that? I’m not sure what you’re trying to say here Are you suggesting that addressing these communities wouldn’t benefit women and decrease female murder rate? Or you acknowledge that it would, but it should be only on men to solve it? While it’s true that these men ultimately leave their families, it ignores the fact that these women have autonomy over who they have unprotected sex (many having multiple BMs already). I’m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/25 12:33 AM
2	Do you think that conservatism will eventually die out since pretty much all women don't want to have sex with conservative men? From the data I’ve seen, sons from Republican parents largely vote Republican while daughters are closer to 50/50. Not sure how the numbers look with progressive birth rates tanking though I last saw that GenZ was trending conservative but that seems to have completely been erased after Trump got elected	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/25 04:50 PM
5	A dating quietly rewards men for behaviors that would be labeled predatory or toxic if those same men openly wanted to do them Agreed. It reflects badly on them and it’s not your job to placate every single woman you interact with	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/25 04:18 PM
6	A dating quietly rewards men for behaviors that would be labeled predatory or toxic if those same men openly wanted to do them Cops investigated, found no wrongdoing on his part and charged her for a felony for her criminal behavior instead You’re giving way too much power to these weirdos	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/25 03:09 PM
4	A dating quietly rewards men for behaviors that would be labeled predatory or toxic if those same men openly wanted to do them Cops aren’t terminally online weirdos, they’re not gonna do anything if you’re acting normal lol There are definitely unhinged women who think you touching her tit when consensually making out is rape or something, but they’re a minority and their trauma is not your problem	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/25 02:58 PM
22	A dating quietly rewards men for behaviors that would be labeled predatory or toxic if those same men openly wanted to do them Even the most sexually assertive, kink friendly women still want the man to make to initiate. As long as you read body language, be respectful, escalate one step at a time (not going from a kiss to shoving your hand down her pants), and back off when she says no when “pushing boundaries” then there’s not really a problem There’s some women who will be personally offended or whatever because you didn’t read her mind perfectly, but that’s not your problem	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/25 02:38 PM
1	Men are more violent than women, not more abusive. I suspect she wouldn’t have the same energy if a man co-opt breast cancer movement and funneled it into MRA shenanigans That’s also why you shouldn’t take posts on here very seriously	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/25 02:24 PM
1	When guys who say “I want to be TRULY desired” or “I want to be wanted for who I am, not what I can provide” they mean they want to worshipped. However men DO want to be desired for their genitals. Women want to be desired for their bodies for men they really like and find attractive too; everybody does. Very few men and women want to be desired solely for their genitals outside of maybe hookups (and most men and women aren’t involved in hookup culture) If you think this is a common belief among men you gotta touch some grass and not just talk to men on PPD or bars/clubs	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/25 08:29 PM
1	Men are more violent than women, not more abusive. Most women aren’t salivating over convicted felons but there is a percentage of women who do. Most women know they’re dangerous For the most part, these convicted felons come from broken homes where their abusive patterns are learned behaviors from their parents. Same for the women who date them It’s a nuanced topic but it’s easier for performative people to just blame men	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/25 05:49 PM
0	When guys who say “I want to be TRULY desired” or “I want to be wanted for who I am, not what I can provide” they mean they want to worshipped. Put on some muscle and develop a confident personality where you’re comfortable saying “no” to her sometimes and you’re set It’s easier said than done, but most men can do it	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/25 04:55 PM
2	When guys who say “I want to be TRULY desired” or “I want to be wanted for who I am, not what I can provide” they mean they want to worshipped. You’re not. You’ll be a “Chad” to somebody if you put yourself out there enough Issue is a lot of guys throw away money and settle with women who don’t do the bare minimum. It usually ends up with a dead bedroom, their wives suddenly complaining about chores despite nothing changing and a divorce	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/25 04:43 PM
-1	Men are more violent than women, not more abusive. I don’t think men or women should have to care about the others issue so you might be replying to the wrong guy here I’m just pointing out that you’re still a victim of violence even if you don’t end up with serious injuries with your original claim	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/25 03:16 PM
5	Men are more violent than women, not more abusive. That part is true. But that’s a little different from saying men aren’t considered victims too just because there’s fewer cases of serious injuries	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/25 03:01 PM
2	Men are more violent than women, not more abusive. A lot of this is just performative. Like manosphere dudes that complain about men’s issues but don’t do anything about it and just shame the other gender for it There’s roughly 1300 women killed by their partners in the US annually, and the vast majority are from men that are convicted felons and a large criminal history. People can use this data to take actionable steps if they actually cared Overwhelmingly majority of violent crime is done by repeat offenders and men from broken homes; both ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/25 02:59 PM
4	Men are more violent than women, not more abusive. No. Men are just as likely to be abused by their partners as well lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/25 02:52 PM
1	Would the semi egalitarian relationship model be something that would appeal to women? Most women don’t want a purely egalitarian relationship	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/25 02:29 PM
5	Men are more violent than women, not more abusive. I thought it was obvious that physical abusive rates were similar among men and women The amount of men you see getting hit by their woman in public alone is shocking and most people don’t even register it. If you ask most guys who had LTRs with women, most will have stories of their partners hitting them	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/25 02:26 PM
6	There are not enough conservative women for conservative men to date. I would be fine with dating someone more conservative than myself as long as they aren’t trump supporters Yeah this sentiment seems to be the norm I saw a survey that a surprising number were open to dating non-MAGA conservatives, but the vast majority wouldn’t date a MAGA guy. Men have almost always been more conservative than their partner, but MAGA seems to be a hard line for liberal women which I don’t blame them	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/25 12:53 AM
1	Some men predominately attract younger women without intending to We tend to infantilize women more than men	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/25 10:32 PM
1	Some men predominately attract younger women without intending to Kinda. It’s mainly women here thinking young women can’t vet men because of their experiences, and they just have warped opinions of men and think them taking advantage of women is a common mindset	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/25 09:05 PM
1	The truly romantically lonely women are rarely "happily single" The average Americans only travels once or twice a year if that. I don’t think most people can afford traveling as a “hobby,” especially young adults They did have little hobbies but most of them didn’t have an active social life outside of maybe hitting the bars downtown once or twice a month Young men and women in general are a lot less socially active compared to previous generations	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/25 06:46 PM
3	The truly romantically lonely women are rarely "happily single" Yeah that’s fair. I do think men and women tend to have more active social circles the older they get so it could be an age difference too	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/25 03:40 PM
2	Some men predominately attract younger women without intending to I don’t think there’s much of a difference past those college years and a few years of life experience honestly Too many people here have this weird fixation on age but most people in real life don’t really care from my experience	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/25 03:37 PM
4	The truly romantically lonely women are rarely "happily single" Most single women have active social lives I see this get repeated a lot but data pretty consistently shows young women are just as lonely as young men and the “friendship gap” between men and women is only 3-5% When I was single, most women I dated just went to work, maybe went to the gym, then watched Netflix or doomscrolled on TikTok or IG most days. Young folks are staying in much more than previous generations	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/25 03:20 PM
1	"Woman is killed every 10 minutes" is a meaningless number, and intimate-partner-homicide ≠ gender-based-violence or femicide or misogyny So, people know that immigrants kill fewer Americans than actual American citizens. Most conservatives believe immigrants do commit more crime so so this hurts whatever attempt at a point you’re trying to make. This topic gets asked literally monthly on AskConservatives and the vast majority of them deny it Again, and I’m gonna say this one last time so read this very slowly — believing violence against a particular demographic is more or less moral than others racial and gender groups is not no…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/25 03:00 PM
1	"Woman is killed every 10 minutes" is a meaningless number, and intimate-partner-homicide ≠ gender-based-violence or femicide or misogyny All this bluster and not a single piece of supporting evidence that anybody reading this can see. Like I said, it’s just terminally online leftists not understanding data as usual And (fortunately) most people in the real world don’t hold these opinions; they’re a lot more moderate	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/25 06:07 PM
2	The majority of criminals are not raised by single moms. That’s just propaganda to blame women for the actions of men. Yeah women think with their lizard brain just as much as men do. I started wrapping it up after a STD scare, but I think about 75% of the women were down to go raw and it went up to about 90% after the first few links and I barely knew these women lol I can admit I was very irresponsible, but I don’t know why women here pretend the women having unprotected sex are any better	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/25 03:34 PM
1	"Woman is killed every 10 minutes" is a meaningless number, and intimate-partner-homicide ≠ gender-based-violence or femicide or misogyny I say women are seen (accurately) as more innocent. You’ve failed to substantiate this in this discussion. You constantly appealing to popularity doesn’t indicate we care more because they’re more “innocent” just because you say so We have a long history of wanting to protect vulnerable groups. Boys hitting girls in school was considered taboo while girls hitting boys wasn’t, and it’s not for “moral” reasons. And in the judicial system, you’re more likely to get far harsher sentences for violenc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/25 03:16 PM
1	"Woman is killed every 10 minutes" is a meaningless number, and intimate-partner-homicide ≠ gender-based-violence or femicide or misogyny We care more about female murder victims because women are more vulnerable just like children and elderly, not because data indicates everyday women are being disproportionately murdered by their partners The only people I see that claim this are terminally online leftists that can’t justify the data with reasoning, as evident by this discussion	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/25 06:01 AM
1	The majority of criminals are not raised by single moms. That’s just propaganda to blame women for the actions of men. Deadbeat dads usually grew up in similar environments and lacked a positive male role model growing up but I’m sure you’d agree they’re still responsible for their decisions. I’m sympathetic in both cases, but ultimately it’s their personal responsibility to ensure the new life has the best possible opportunity And yes, I blame the deadbeat dad more	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/25 11:22 PM
1	The majority of criminals are not raised by single moms. That’s just propaganda to blame women for the actions of men. I actually agree. Men and women raised in broken homes tend to perpetuate that cycle and date other hurt people because it’s normal for them I think that’s a valid point, but I’m just not sold on the idea that it’s just a dice roll or anything	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/25 11:04 PM
3	The majority of criminals are not raised by single moms. That’s just propaganda to blame women for the actions of men. To match your argument, the data has to specifically show that considerably more married men say they want to be more involved with their children’s lives than unmarried men do. My argument specifically is that married men rarely turn into deadbeats (e.g. no involvement with the kids life) The married men in these studies already have children and involved in their lives, and they want to be more involved. By definition they are not deadbeats and is enough to substantiate my point. It inherently…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/25 06:24 PM
2	The majority of criminals are not raised by single moms. That’s just propaganda to blame women for the actions of men. Based on? There’s a lot of data that shows the large majority of married men want to be more involved with their children’s lives, despite what you might read from women on this subreddit The studies are out there if you actually care Most women aren’t getting pregnant from one night stands I didn’t say this was the case impulsive behavior Yes, some men and women do breakup families with shitty decisions but we’re talking about uninvolved men. Divorced and separated men can and still do see thei…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/25 05:05 PM
10	The majority of criminals are not raised by single moms. That’s just propaganda to blame women for the actions of men. You can’t just get to know someone and predict their behavior until the end of time. You can’t always predict somebody changing, but it’s fairly easy to predict whether a man is going to be a deadbeat or not Married men turning into deadbeats and abandoning their children is rare. Most deadbeats stems from casual encounters and short term relationships It should be obvious, but the chances of a man who invested years into the relationship, bought you a ring, planned for the kid and is enthusiast…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/25 04:55 PM
3	The majority of criminals are not raised by single moms. That’s just propaganda to blame women for the actions of men. Women are solely responsible for their own reckless behavior and equally responsible for the child, but I think deadbeat dads bare more responsibility for not being there yes Like I said, not a zero sum game	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/25 03:36 PM
7	The majority of criminals are not raised by single moms. That’s just propaganda to blame women for the actions of men. The simple answer is women love creampies and lack the self-restraint in the moment just like men You’d be very surprised by the amount of women who let guys hit it raw and without birth control lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/25 03:12 PM
2	The majority of criminals are not raised by single moms. That’s just propaganda to blame women for the actions of men. Women are not mind readers This doesn’t refute what I said You don’t have to be a mind reader to know it’s reckless behavior to make the conscious decision to have unprotected sex with a guy you barely know and keep it Again, I’m not absolving these men (they’re shitty people) but you can still acknowledge that some of these women made reckless decisions that played a role	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/25 02:59 PM
5	The majority of criminals are not raised by single moms. That’s just propaganda to blame women for the actions of men. Spouses are not legally responsible for the bad behavior of their partner. Married men abandoning their children is rare Most of the deadbeat dads come from casual encounters or short term relationships. Not that it absolves them from their shitty behavior, but it should also be acknowledged that it’s also very irresponsible to make the conscious decision to let guys who don’t want anything to do with kids bust inside you and keep the baby No idea why responsibility has to be a zero sum game whe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/25 02:26 PM
1	If you want exclusivity with a person, you should be willing to communicate that. that is different from you said It’s not, you just can’t read	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/25 02:10 PM
1	If you want exclusivity with a person, you should be willing to communicate that. All you said That adults resolve relationship conflict through words or breaking it off, not by “getting even” out of spite Sounds like that’s how you approach things and it says a lot	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/25 02:36 AM
1	"Woman is killed every 10 minutes" is a meaningless number, and intimate-partner-homicide ≠ gender-based-violence or femicide or misogyny I’m not equating the two, but coming from somebody claiming moral superiority it should be a meaningless distinction when it comes to sympathy I’m gonna take a wild guess and say you’ve never personally met them, but women that date gangbangers are usually involved in street life too	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 10:25 PM
2	If you want exclusivity with a person, you should be willing to communicate that. Why did you comment on the consequences is that he was treated how he treated her? I explain this in my first two posts	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 09:56 PM
1	If you want exclusivity with a person, you should be willing to communicate that. Since you won’t answer that, I’m just gonna keep making guesses. I think it’s really because you guys don’t like it when women are capable of humiliating men and showing that they are replicable in the dating market. I don’t think anybody except terminally online weirdos who spend their time trolling on PPD actually have this thought process	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 09:44 PM
1	"Woman is killed every 10 minutes" is a meaningless number, and intimate-partner-homicide ≠ gender-based-violence or femicide or misogyny attributing blame to women who most likely are not involved in crime If that’s your takeaway then you should read my posts again, more slowly I’ve stated my point pretty clearly nor do they blame women for their own murder My guy, you are the only person in this chain blaming people for their own murders lol. I’m sympathetic to men and women being murdered regardless of association with the crime life	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 09:38 PM
0	If you want exclusivity with a person, you should be willing to communicate that. Posting on your story to make somebody jealous so he asks for exclusivity instead of communicating you want a relationship or ending the situationship is drama, or immature at best Feels like that should be obvious to any well adjusted adult but maybe not PPD women lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 09:00 PM
3	If you want exclusivity with a person, you should be willing to communicate that. I explained it in my first post Read it again more slowly	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 08:38 PM
2	"Woman is killed every 10 minutes" is a meaningless number, and intimate-partner-homicide ≠ gender-based-violence or femicide or misogyny I’m sympathetic to both groups, but selectively deciding that the guy who pushes drugs and hangs out with gangbangers getting murdered “is facing consequences” while the woman with (likely) a criminal record and hangs out with gangbangers is “just existing” is disingenuous at best But it’s funny you call me extreme while justifying men with shitty upbringings getting murdered though	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 08:23 PM
3	If you want exclusivity with a person, you should be willing to communicate that. If anything, they’re both noncommittal, poor communicators. Yes, that’s exactly what I’m saying lol Again, I think the dude is a loser and probably more in the wrong here. I was just saying neither of them come out of this story looking good	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 07:57 PM
3	If you want exclusivity with a person, you should be willing to communicate that. Regardless of whether it was malicious or not for her to truth the favor, it was fair I didn’t bring it up because it wasn’t “fair,” but it’s just drama and being conflict avoidant Like I said, I agree the guy is probably a loser but if you thought it was a relationship and want it to be (which she evidently did since she accepted exclusivity right after), then just communicate it. If you feel betrayed and don’t want it anymore, then just end it Women will swear they’re better at communication t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 07:16 PM
1	Women should just cut off any access to intamcy till they get the result they want. 4B women aren’t a thing in the real world	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 06:43 PM
4	If you want exclusivity with a person, you should be willing to communicate that. “Consequences” would be breaking it off. Posting on your story to get a rise out of somebody instead of directly addressing conflict is very clearly drama	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 05:46 PM
1	If you want exclusivity with a person, you should be willing to communicate that. It does sound like she did it vindictively. Yeah the guy’s a loser, but she sounds like drama	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 05:19 PM
2	The bigger obstacles to male rights are simps and conservatives, not women Also as a college boy woman shame men for not being circumcised From my experience this is only from porn-brained women. It’s like the men who shame women for not always having a freshly shaven pussy or for having a bigger labia It happens, but it shouldn’t be a relevant factor in your decision imo	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 05:01 PM
1	The bigger obstacles to male rights are simps and conservatives, not women I don’t think you’re lying about your experiences or even discussing in bad faith here. Your individual experiences just aren’t reflective of the greater reality as a whole	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 04:33 PM
2	The bigger obstacles to male rights are simps and conservatives, not women Yeah I don’t know what she’s getting at here Erect circumcised genitals have a very noticeable scar	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 04:31 PM
2	The bigger obstacles to male rights are simps and conservatives, not women I can’t imagine this is common. If parents are drilling flawless hygiene into their children routine then they’re very likely teaching boys to clean their foreskin lol We don’t pull baby teeth or shave off boys and girls hairs just because some parents fail to teach their children hygiene habits	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 04:22 PM
1	Women should just cut off any access to intamcy till they get the result they want. The women who hookup or have situationships with attractive men but also don’t want a relationship aren’t complaining, no The women who do want something more out of it definitely are. I’m just pointing out how there is a group of women that are fine with casual arrangements like that	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 04:12 PM
1	If you don't want to be exclusivity with a person, then you don't really like them. I think most people know whether or not they see a future with the person within the first few dates and sex and that most people intuitively know this I believe the person avoiding the exclusivity talk does it because they think the other person will say no and shatter the illusion. If nothing is said, you still have plausible deniability	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 04:09 PM
1	Women should just cut off any access to intamcy till they get the result they want. I think there’s two groups of women here — one group is fine with just hooking up and another that wants more out of it I think a lot more young women are fine with situationships than folks here would admit, but it’s hard to tell because they’re not complaining about it online. But there’s definitely a vocal group of women that expect commitment just from sex, which just isn’t a thing in the modern dating era	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 04:03 PM
8	Women should just cut off any access to intamcy till they get the result they want. Pretty sure OP is a troll, but I have been noticing a recent trend on social media of women promoting abstinence and telling other women that casual sex is bad I’m sure conservatives are dancing with joy that more young women are adopting this mindset, but like you said I don’t think you can put the toothpaste back into the tube and completely return to this traditional mindset Desirable men having access to sex without any form of commitment or investment is just the norm	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 03:16 PM
4	The bigger obstacles to male rights are simps and conservatives, not women This must be how women feel when men talk their women-focused issues Watching women talk about male circumcision and selective service in this thread is certainly something lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 02:33 PM
8	Women should not date, sleep with, or in any way sexually validate men who are conservative/right-wing Idk where you got the idea that radical leftists have the monopoly on pussy Because a lot of women here are in echo chambers and saw a few viral clips of conservative men getting rejected on dating shows by leftists Even among the young left-leaning women, data shows women are only turned off by hard MAGA and are actually open to dating “normal” right-leaning men. This idea that women are gonna stop dating and hooking up with men they’re attracted to is such a terminally online idea lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 01:18 PM
9	The bigger obstacles to male rights are simps and conservatives, not women It’s unfortunate that so many adults in the US fall for this false narrative that circumcision is necessary because of a handful of cases	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 01:00 PM
8	The bigger obstacles to male rights are simps and conservatives, not women When you first register to vote as a male, you’re asked to sign up for selective service I guess technically you “can” vote without signing up for the draft but doing so is a crime and it explicitly says so	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 12:51 PM
2	"Woman is killed every 10 minutes" is a meaningless number, and intimate-partner-homicide ≠ gender-based-violence or femicide or misogyny I think you’re suggesting that women who date gangbangers are as culpable in their own murder as the gangbanges are I think you’re just being very selective of culpability so you can fixate on gender If being killed because you’re involved in crime is “consequences of your own actions” (which undermines how many of them are born into that life but let’s roll with it), then knowingly dating somebody actively involved in crime and likely participating is hardly different if you genuinely hold this…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 12:36 PM
2	"Woman is killed every 10 minutes" is a meaningless number, and intimate-partner-homicide ≠ gender-based-violence or femicide or misogyny Mens’ untimely deaths are often a consequence of their own actions Correct, most are killed specifically by the result of crime and gang violence I’m glad you mentioned crime because the significant majority of violent men that murder their partners are repeat offenders and have an extensive criminal record. The women being killed are often associated with the crime life to some extent too Your chances of being killed by your white colored husband with no criminal record in the US is almost none…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 04:54 AM
4	"Woman is killed every 10 minutes" is a meaningless number, and intimate-partner-homicide ≠ gender-based-violence or femicide or misogyny Yeah I have to agree. It’s the same identity politics but framed through minority men instead of white men from leftists It’s silly in both cases because immigrants actually commit less crime than US citizens, but the worst offenders are over represented in criminal organizations. Likewise; very few men commit violent crime and the one’s that do are almost always repeat offenders with criminal records (like a certain recent train incident). The chances of being killed by your white collared husb…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 12:29 AM
-2	Men have standards by default and criticize women for doing same thing he simply takes a shot whenever the opportunity arises. For hookups? I mostly agree Relationships? I don’t think so. Even on Tinder which is notorious for hookups; men surprisingly have a swipe rate of only 45% despite all the desperate guys 100% swiping right bogging it down I think there is a vocal minority of men who would date anything with a pulse, but most men are more selective even if those standards are lower than most women’s	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/25 05:34 PM
3	Men have standards by default and criticize women for doing same thing Physical attraction matters in LTRs. Man or woman, if you’re not attracted to your partner it’ll lead to resentment down the line I suspect you’re young and likely inexperienced (I could be wrong), but it’s something that absolutely matters	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/25 05:11 PM
10	Men have standards by default and criticize women for doing same thing Attraction is a spectrum. I can be attracted to a heavier woman and only call her over to Netflix and chill, have her pay for food, and drop her for any little mishap. Meanwhile, I can take a different more attractive woman out to fancy dinners and be a lot more lax with her. Those are selective standards, and I’m not saying that’s necessarily a bad thing either I don’t think we disagree in principle here and just phrasing, so I’m not sure what you’re getting at	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/25 04:59 PM
8	Men have standards by default and criticize women for doing same thing So your newsflash I didn’t say this was any revelation. It should be obvious that women have selective standards just like men do This is just a common discussion point when comparing men and women’s standards, and it’s a fair point so I brought it up	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/25 04:46 PM
6	Men have standards by default and criticize women for doing same thing When I was single I only dated short, petite women. I don’t care as much about finances as long as she’s within my tax bracket (which is true for most women in real life) but my partner actually makes more than me I’m not even some 6’4 “gigachad” or anything either. Most high interest women have similar standards for men too	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/25 04:36 PM
7	Men have standards by default and criticize women for doing same thing Women have “reasonable” standards for men they’re really attracted to, but it’s much higher for men who don’t meet the looks/charisma threshold But to be fair, it doesn’t sound like you’re arguing for in your OP. I do agree most men in real life have standards, even if they’re lower than women’s standards for most men	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/25 04:30 PM
7	Men have standards by default and criticize women for doing same thing Or at the gym. You see a lot of gym bros walking around with heavier women pretty frequently	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/25 04:09 PM
14	Men have standards by default and criticize women for doing same thing Kinda agree and disagree I actually agree men’s standards for relationships aren’t all that much lower than women’s standards for men they’re very attracted to. It gets overstated here because a lot of men in this subreddit are young and inexperienced, but most guys with options in real life absolutely have standards for women That said, women’s “reasonable” standard is usually reserved only for very few men	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/25 04:01 PM
7	"Woman is killed every 10 minutes" is a meaningless number, and intimate-partner-homicide ≠ gender-based-violence or femicide or misogyny You’re much more likely to be killed as a man than as a woman in general, which is still very unlikely because we’re in by far the safest time period in history for both men and women It’s just easier to sensationalize using relative numbers. The right does it with immigration crime and the left does it with men being violent	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/25 03:17 PM
8	"Woman is killed every 10 minutes" is a meaningless number, and intimate-partner-homicide ≠ gender-based-violence or femicide or misogyny You’re correct; it is across the world. The data includes places like Africa and other developing countries where women are treated like properly In the US, it’s about 3-4 women killed by their partners a day and roughly 1300 annually	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/25 03:10 PM
1	Why men still ask women on dates if they don't want to pay? I mean, there’s men in relationships with traditional women who also do most of the providing along with cooking and child care and are happy doing it lol In both cases if it works for you then that’s great, but I wouldn’t encourage most men and women to do that	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/25 04:29 AM
2	Why men still ask women on dates if they don't want to pay? men want women on average more, than women want men Ironically, this is a very strong argument for why you should only date and pay for women interested in you. You don’t have to “invest” in women who are high interest I’ve seen countless guys in frats bring home women with a 4x4 Wendy’s biggie bag, where other guys spend $60 on dinner just for a hug I get most guys can’t regularly do that, but it’s good advice to focus on women who actually want you not the one’s you have to pay and “prove” you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/25 06:22 PM
9	Why men still ask women on dates if they don't want to pay? This is my take too. If she’s traditional and you want that dynamic you should pay as the man. If she’s non-traditional and doesn’t play her role, then you should go 50/50 That said, even the most man-hating hairy armpit feminists still want men to pay so it’s a funny dynamic	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/25 06:06 PM
9	Forgiveness for past sins in dating Agreed. Man or woman — you’re not obligated to invest time into somebody and see if they’re healed from their baggage I’ve been on dates and heard certain things that made me peace out, and I’m sure there’s plenty of things a man can tell a woman that would make them feel the same	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/25 06:24 AM
0	The rise of unhealthy female gooners Every time I’ve ever checked a man’s phone, he was watching some freaky shit. If he has GBs of porn videos on his phone and showing it to you, then I’m gonna take a wild guess and say those weird men will more likely to be into weird stuff and not reflective of men as a whole lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/25 03:21 PM
-2	The rise of unhealthy female gooners I don’t think most womens complaint is that men masturbate and fantasize while doing so. Yes, a lot of women don’t like porn but erotica is also porn by strict definition Now I agree with the idea of constantly watching hardcore porn all the time can lead to having negative effects on your relationships and how you view women, but I’m gonna take a wild guess and say most men are not watching “barely legal teen gangbang with golden showers” all that often lol Likewise, consuming a lot of smut can…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/25 02:35 PM
2	The rise of unhealthy female gooners I don’t think “creepy porn consumer” has shifted much honestly. They’re weird but not that creepy imo I agree there’s a rise of women openly talking about their erotica, sex stories and gooning over hot male celebrities and it’s just as weird and uncomfortable when men do it with women and porn	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/25 02:27 PM
1	The rise of unhealthy female gooners A Britain study found that about half of the women surveyed read smut and the number is definitely increasing lol With that rise of female gooners, I think it’s fair to have the same discussion and complaints that women have with porn-brained men	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/25 02:20 PM
7	How can the gender- disparity in single rates among young people be explained? Probably a healthy mix of both You see a lot of the women on AWDTSG and adjacent groups post men after only a few dates as if they were exclusive Men tend to be a few years older than their partners so I’d imagine that’s where most of the disparity comes from though	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/25 05:46 AM
6	Dating apps are a reflection of reality for a majority of people. They do, but those women tend to be uggos too which is the point. “Uggos” tend to date uggos and attractive people tend to date attractive people	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/25 02:45 AM
3	Dating apps are a reflection of reality for a majority of people. Feel free to provide an example Judging by your posts thus far, I think this will be pointless endeavor	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/25 02:29 AM
3	Dating apps are a reflection of reality for a majority of people. Objectivity isn’t a spectrum Uh, it absolutely can absolutely be considered a spectrum is certain contexts. Just because you say it doesn’t mean it’s true lol You’re free to reject that framing if you’d like. Also, typing more doesn’t necessarily make your argument better. Concise is key	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/25 02:21 AM
4	Dating apps are a reflection of reality for a majority of people. It is unequivocally true in all circumstances. Hence why I explicitly said it’s not purely objective so I’m not sure what you’re arguing here If your issue is with the idea of partial objectivism on the topic (e.g. 99 people like one trait but one person dissenting means it loses any discussion of objectivity) then sure? That’s more of a pedantic argument than anything substantive	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/25 01:54 AM
11	Dating apps are a reflection of reality for a majority of people. An aggregation of subjective opinion doesn’t turn subjective opinion into objectivity. If 99% of the populace find facial symmetry attractive, but there’s one guy who’s only attracted to one armed, obese women with buck teeth — it’s silly to pretend said feature suddenly has zero objectivity when it comes to attractiveness	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/25 01:30 AM
9	Dating apps are a reflection of reality for a majority of people. men are far more like to judge themselves as much more desirable than they actually are Well that’s half of the conclusion — the studies I’ve seen concluded that men judge themselves and women as more desirable than they are I think a lot of guys in general have odd perceptions of attractiveness in general. I’ve seen guys call bombshells “mid” and rate actual mid women very highly, it’s weird	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/25 01:11 AM
10	Dating apps are a reflection of reality for a majority of people. Physical attractiveness isn’t 100% subjective; it’s a mix Obviously these studies aren’t entirely objective due to its inherent nature, but data shows women date men who most of the populace would independently agree are similarly attractive to them	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/25 12:51 AM
9	Dating apps are a reflection of reality for a majority of people. Women don’t think in terms of levels and there’s no such thing as looks match. Data pretty consistently shows most couples are similarly attractive. I don’t think women are necessarily consciously thinking of “leagues” when swiping, but evidently there’s a looks threshold for most women just like there is for men	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/25 12:38 AM
61	Dating apps are a reflection of reality for a majority of people. Dating apps are definitely becoming more of the norm and I agree a lot of people here (who tend to skew much older) don’t see to understand that That said, it’s still very true that you can be unsuccessful on dating apps but successful in real life. If you’re 5’10 then you’re just filtered out by the vast majority of women who set it to 6’0+, but in real life most women don’t care. I know enough guys who only got a few matches a week on Tinder but had crazy game in real life I don’t think women …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/25 11:29 PM
1	Location as a solution to dating gets a very bad rap because it’s put underneath the “Passport Bro” moniker, when you don’t have to go abroad A lot of those countries fetishize average white guys so you have a better chance there That said, if you have no prior success or experience with women then I wouldn’t recommend it. It can work, but you have to be able to vet women and feel comfortable around them or you risk them taking advantage of you People saying they only want to take advantage of foreigners are ignorant, but it is true that some passport bros lead with money and shoot way out of their league. That leads to very bad resul…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/25 11:18 PM
1	Location as a solution to dating gets a very bad rap because it’s put underneath the “Passport Bro” moniker, when you don’t have to go abroad I’ve realized most people in this subreddit are either here to troll or have their beliefs validated so there’s really no point in responding to these kinds of posts	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/25 01:10 AM
–	“He Used Me For My Body” makes no sense as an excuse The more I read shit like this the more I believe the “waiting for sex” strategy some women employ doesn’t weed out fuckboys at all Making men wait for sex has never been a good strategy on its own since fuckboys just play the numbers game and chat up other women in the meantime. I used to see it all the time with frat guys It’s good when used in conjunction with other vetting methods, but 90% of women’s dating advice online is unfortunately “make him wait” and “have him invest in you” which is …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/25 09:26 PM
–	“He Used Me For My Body” makes no sense as an excuse I doubt it’s as much as men lying to get laid, but data shows 1 in 3 GenZ women have gone on a date for free food at least once Granted it happens far less frequently as they get older (as does men lying for sex tbf), but I was surprised by how many women told me they went on dates with men they don’t like or flirt with guys at the bars for free drinks	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/25 09:17 PM
–	“He Used Me For My Body” makes no sense as an excuse Agreed. Women sometimes use men for a free wallet, and men sometimes use women for sex and they’re both really shitty people Ultimately it’s up to the individual to make smart choices with their money and body but I understand why they’d feel upset	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/25 09:13 PM
-1	Location as a solution to dating gets a very bad rap because it’s put underneath the “Passport Bro” moniker, when you don’t have to go abroad That’s why you should use discretion. If a model is matching with you when you can’t pull any women back home, then something is up Just match with average women and you’re fine; he didn’t pay for anything other than the drinks when they were going out and was pretty successful	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/25 06:36 AM
3	Location as a solution to dating gets a very bad rap because it’s put underneath the “Passport Bro” moniker, when you don’t have to go abroad Hot women live in trailer parks too. Are you really asking why they’re not looking for hot women in those redneck meth head trailer parks (poor red states have high obesity rates) instead of Asian countries where women are still pressured to be thin and still have high beauty standards lol I think some passport bros are losers, but you don’t need a PHD to reason this out	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/25 05:45 AM
1	Location as a solution to dating gets a very bad rap because it’s put underneath the “Passport Bro” moniker, when you don’t have to go abroad Have you traveled to any of these places? Just being average white guy gets you crazy motion from women over there My friend gets a handful of matches a week here, but he was getting hundreds of likes over there when he was visiting. Dude was getting the average women experience on Tinder lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/25 02:28 AM
4	Location as a solution to dating gets a very bad rap because it’s put underneath the “Passport Bro” moniker, when you don’t have to go abroad I don’t think most people in real life care if you meet your partner in a different country It gets a bad rep online because a lot of people here don’t touch grass, but also because there really is a vocal minority of passport bros wanting to exploit women Most don’t, but there’s an unfortunate stereotype that if you can’t date western women then there’s likely something wrong with you or you have bad intentions Honestly I haven’t seen a single good rebuttal why it’s inherently bad other than it…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/25 12:21 AM
3	The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worse Most men and women in real life likes the other gender and wants a relationship despite what you may read on the internet	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/25 01:22 AM
3	If a man with options will cheat because he can, a man with no options is only with you because he's desperate Data I’ve seen shows women cheat slightly more in their 20s, relatively equal in the 30s, and men cheat slightly more in their 40s. Even then, the delta is very minor (2-6%) until their 70s Women have more opportunities to cheat, but are also attracted to significantly less men than men are to women. Men also “benefit” from casual sex more than most women too. If women were as attracted to as many men and had anywhere close to the same rate of orgasms as men do for casual sex, I’m sure we’d see …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/25 09:26 PM
7	If a man with options will cheat because he can, a man with no options is only with you because he's desperate Asking men to be loyal to you as a partner is like asking a brick wall to move on its own. Data consistently shows women cheat just as much as men until their mid 40s so this isn’t really reflective of reality	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/25 06:26 PM
2	Women who hate on single moms usually are insecure and hate kids. That’s not love. Constructive criticism can be from a caring place There was a thread here not too long ago where women weren’t sympathetic to men who bust in women and getting stuck with a kid he didn’t want, which is valid I agreed that it’s very irresponsible for men to do that, and it’s equally irresponsible for women to let guys bust in them who don’t want anything to do with them or the baby. Accountability works both ways, not just one This should be a very lukewarm take for normal people	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/25 08:58 AM
2	Women who hate on single moms usually are insecure and hate kids. Judging a woman just because she’s single and mother comes off as insecurity. Regardless of how you feel about the topic, this has literally to do with the definition of insecurity lol Blaming a woman for choosing to keep a baby regardless of the father’s say so is not love. If you let a guy who had no intention of being there for the baby bust in you, then you didn’t make a great life decision. I don’t see how this is a hot take You can still do well in life, have a loving family, and I don’t t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/25 08:31 AM
2	Women who hate on single moms usually are insecure and hate kids. They can just believe she should’ve made better decisions in her life Yeah this is pretty much my stance too. There’s definitely a vocal minority of men online that do genuinely hate single moms, but the large majority of “hate” is just men not wanting to date them or thinking they made questionable choices	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/25 08:20 AM
–	The gender disparity in crime isn’t a conspiracy against men Why do you think there’s a fairly significant delta in judicial punishments for race and gender even with criminal histories and outside factors controlled about as much as possible? Sounds like you’re sort of fishing for a specific answer here	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/25 08:08 AM
–	The gender disparity in crime isn’t a conspiracy against men Same exact reason minorities get harsher sentences even with outside factors considered — bias due to being overrepresentation in the judicial system I feel like this is common knowledge	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/25 07:56 AM
6	The gender disparity in crime isn’t a conspiracy against men the blame is other men. I agree women aren’t to blame, but the responsibility definitely lies on the judicial system I’m not going to blame other minorities for the fact that we get profiled and receive harsher sentences for the same crimes, and it’s just as silly here tbh	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/25 12:00 AM
19	The gender disparity in crime isn’t a conspiracy against men I’m honestly surprised this is even a discussion in a gender focused subreddit at this point — I thought it was common knowledge that men are treated more harshly than women by the judicial system off gender alone	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/25 11:40 PM
2	No one will force you to pay for dates if you don't want to I’ve been on dates with a lot of progressive women — they were huge Bernie girlies back when he was still popular Never had one object to me paying, and their reactions when I say “I’ll take care of it” were always very positive	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/25 01:14 AM
3	Why do women advice men that if they want a great sex life, they should marry a promiscuous woman? Why does a man need to MARRY a promiscuous woman to benefit from her sexual experience and high libido? someone who has frequent adventurous sex is more likely to have frequent adventurous sex than someone who doesn’t. Having a lot of sex doesn’t necessarily mean you have adventurous sex, and having adventurous sex doesn’t necessarily mean you have great sex. And even if you have great, frequent sex that doesn’t necessarily mean it’ll carry over after marriage as the deadbedroom subreddit indicates Guys also tend to do all the work during hookups and casual sex so I don’t think the correlation is …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/25 04:29 PM
2	Why do women advice men that if they want a great sex life, they should marry a promiscuous woman? Why does a man need to MARRY a promiscuous woman to benefit from her sexual experience and high libido? Sluts are the ones who tend to just lay there. Glad this wasn’t just my experience lmao I agree on low BC women — this idea that just because they’re saving themselves for LTRs means they’re less likely to have a great sex life is untrue from my experience. I can see why people may think that but the correlation just isn’t there Meanwhile I’ve had a lot of bad sex with promiscuous women and there’s still a lot of dead bedrooms with them too. Having a lot of casual sex doesn’t mean you’re good at…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/25 03:52 PM
1	No one will force you to pay for dates if you don't want to They can tell their date “I don’t want women to take advantage of me financially so you can cover dinner”. I think they just say “separate checks please” lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/25 05:45 AM
1	No one will force you to pay for dates if you don't want to There was data shared that some women (1 in 3) have used men as a free meal ticket that you ignored. Most don’t like I said, but enough that men shouldn’t feel obligated If that bothers you then maybe you shouldn’t be on a debate subreddit. I’m not sure what to tell you	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/25 04:08 AM
1	No one will force you to pay for dates if you don't want to Same reason you and everybody else posts in this subreddit? I’m not sure what you’re getting at here	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/25 02:16 AM
1	No one will force you to pay for dates if you don't want to I’m partnered but thanks Doesn’t address anything in my post though	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/25 11:52 PM
2	No one will force you to pay for dates if you don't want to Even the most vocal, hairy armpit feminists still likes it when a man pays for the first date so I don’t think that’s true at all lol To be fair, I also don’t think it matters as much as men say if she’s genuinely really likes you either	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/25 09:49 PM
1	No one will force you to pay for dates if you don't want to This logic reminds me of men here saying if a woman sleeps with another guy on the first date but not you, it means she doesn’t like you as much lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/25 09:40 PM
7	Women accept men’s uncomfortable truths, while many men turn normal female behavior into a pathology There's definitely behaviors that can be insecure, but looking at social media it really seems like every preference or boundary men set for women is labeled as insecure nowadays Even then, there's nothing wrong with having insecurities. Women have a lot of insecurities too that manifest in their dating patterns as well — you just can't let them negatively impact the relationships while retaining your boundaries	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/25 05:11 PM
1	No one will force you to pay for dates if you don't want to because they have no money Yes, and they exploit younger men (their age) who are just as likely to have no money. I don’t see how being poor justifies the behavior of using others lol Edit: Obviously most women don’t do this, but the one’s who do are shitty and it happens enough that men should avoid dinner dates until she’s properly vetted	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/25 04:11 PM
2	No one will force you to pay for dates if you don't want to There was also a study I read recently that showed that 1 in 3 women have gone on a date just for free food. Granted it wasn’t always with bad intentions as the study noted I find that it’s mostly a thing with younger women, and that’s why i always tell men to avoid dinner or anything expensive for the first few dates	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/25 04:04 PM
2	No one will force you to pay for dates if you don't want to We’re only a couple hundred years removed from that. Again, women make just as much as the average guy so it has nothing to with financial reasons Women just generally appreciates when a man pays for her. Even the most man-hating, hairy armpit blue-haired feminist enjoys that early courting and there’s nothing wrong with admitting that I just don’t see why there’s so much obfuscation when it comes to this topic	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/25 03:50 PM
0	No one will force you to pay for dates if you don't want to The average woman already makes more than the average guy lmao Men paid for dates because women had little to no income and relied on them to get by and we’re pretty far removed from that time period If you want to be courted because that traditional experience feels nice just say that, you don’t have to make stuff up to justify it	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/25 03:29 PM
4	No one will force you to pay for dates if you don't want to I paid for dates out of my personal principle when I was single, but I know a lot of guys who were successful with women who almost never paid for dates. If she really likes you she wouldn’t care Imo it’s only unsuccessful men who feel this is required in the modern dating scene because they only go on dates with women who are already reasons to disqualify them	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/25 03:12 PM
7	People who claim “That word’s been so misused that it lost meaning” just dont like being criticized. How it is hateful to document exactly how little work men do and how little men contribute to women’s lives using data and statistics? The data consistently shows married women are the happiest demographic and most fulfilled (or a very close second to married men) so the statistics doesn’t seem to agree with you	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/25 01:03 AM
1	Is Don’t Worry Darling a redpiller’s dream? My partner dragged me to see the movie when it came out a few years ago and I still remember almost bursting out laughing at the reveal because it was so dumb As for the topic, most people will say no to the follow up but I think people who aren’t happy with their lives really would live in a perfect simulation if they truly had the opportunity	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/25 11:45 PM
1	Women are extremely hypocritical when it comes to friendships with men Yes, it’s better to end things early before it gets even more painful later. The deeper the feelings you develop, the worse off you’ll be How do you suggest somebody handles it? Just compartmentalizing it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/25 06:39 PM
1	Women are extremely hypocritical when it comes to friendships with men So…. Why did you befriend her in the first place? I always tell men to never be friends with women they’re romantically interested in so I don’t disagree with this. At the same time I’m aware that sometimes feelings just naturally develop and you can’t control it. Nobody’s the bad guy there and there doesn’t have to ill intent You even see a lot of women here say they’d feel uncomfortable if their guy friends were romantically interested in them (which I agree with) so it just makes sense to cut…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/25 06:03 PM
4	Women are extremely hypocritical when it comes to friendships with men I don’t get your question If she’s not interested in that intimate relationship then it’s not gonna happen and he’s not going to convince her	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/25 04:16 PM
2	Women are extremely hypocritical when it comes to friendships with men Outside of sex, what else do you want you don’t already have access to in the preexisting friendship? There’s a much deeper, intimate connection you can only get through a romantic relationship over friendship. I enjoy the company of my friends, but they can never reach that same level of connectivity as my partner The other guy gave good points but the big one is also exclusivity. If you really, really love somebody in a deep non-familial way, it hurts to see them with other people	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/25 04:10 PM
–	The stats on growing ideological divide between men and women shows men's ideals have relatively remained the same yet women are increasingly becoming radical, yet all the discussion is about "young men being radicalized"... exposes a clear agenda pushed by society Well I’m a liberal not a leftist, but I agree most people in real life are pretty reasonable about this topic. There is a very vocal crowd online and in prominent spaces that focuses on men being the oppressive class unfortunately	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/25 06:35 AM
4	You cannot fix problems which do not exist. Every hour I don’t spend on my career is one less hour that goes into my retirement and less advancement to my career You’re shifting the goalpost; read what I actually addressed more slowly My partner took time off from her successful career so I am sympathetic to the women who do, hence why I didn’t dispute it for this group of women That said, it’s worth noting not every woman is sacrificing their flourishing career — a lot of women work dead-end jobs so this is generalizing quite a lot more …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/25 05:16 AM
4	You cannot fix problems which do not exist. When I spend an hour on my career, that is more money in my pocket I don’t know if you’re married or have kids (doesn’t sound like it), but that’s absolutely not how it works for a healthy household Extra money goes to bills, retirement, vacation funds, college tuition etc. that benefits everybody Women are also much bigger consumers and spend more money than men, so this idea that married men are only working extra hard to pocket money sounds like a self-report more than anything	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/25 04:07 AM
2	You cannot fix problems which do not exist. I think you replied to the wrong person because I’m not sure what this has to do with my post	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/25 02:48 AM
4	You cannot fix problems which do not exist. She didn’t link the study but I’ve noticed a lot of these studies are a bit misleading By far the most common issue is comparing household chores after meeting a “full time” threshold instead of tallying up hours spent working and doing chores and comparing them. A man working 40 hours a week and 5 hours on chores will reflect far worse than a woman working 30 hours and spending 15 hours on chores based on these studies. And while the gap is closing, married men still consistently work more hour…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/25 01:31 AM
2	You cannot fix problems which do not exist. It’s very easy to tell if a person is going to be an absentee parent or not — man or woman Exceptions exist, but if the person is caring, enthusiastic, pulls their own weight and consistently shows up then it’s just very unlikely they’ll do a 180 the second the baby comes	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/25 01:21 AM
–	The stats on growing ideological divide between men and women shows men's ideals have relatively remained the same yet women are increasingly becoming radical, yet all the discussion is about "young men being radicalized"... exposes a clear agenda pushed by society Definitely agree. That’s why it’s weird that the left often chooses to demonize men instead of focusing only on class inequality Wealth is consistently shown to be by far the best predicator of outcome — more than height, gender or race	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 11:55 PM
4	Nothing is actually that hard to explain. "Hard to explain" is just code for "I have no argument" Agreed. I think there are phenomena that’s hard to explain like generally having a bad vibe of somebody, but specifically labeling somebody as “toxic” should have a clear explanation Could be because of prejudice or past experiences but there’s definitely something there	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 12:47 AM
11	As Gender Equality Grows, So Does Women's Prison Population ‘Defund the police’ reminds me of me of the man vs bear trend because of how atrocious the slogan is and how much it muddies the overall message and hurts the cause. Most people hearing that without all the additional context and qualifiers would (rightfully) call it extreme It also doesn’t help that there’s a lot of people who genuinely endorse it literally which obfuscates it even more	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/25 01:58 AM
4	Alot of people arent attractive nor rich enough for the attitude they have. Being a douchbag doesn’t make you a terrible person. You folks here really need go outside and touch grass	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/25 04:28 PM
7	Alot of people arent attractive nor rich enough for the attitude they have. If they’re willing to date terrible men Asshole =/= terrible person What I said is also backed by data which you conveniently ignored Then stop connecting it to being an asshole. I’m not directly connecting it — read my post again more slowly this time There’s qualities that assholes have that women find attractive that boring nice guys lack. You can be kind and have those qualities, but them being overlooked has nothing to do with them “secretly” being assholes just lacking the more attractive …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/25 02:24 PM
10	Alot of people arent attractive nor rich enough for the attitude they have. They’re overlooked because they aren’t attractive enough to overcome their “boring” personality. Well damn, I can’t argue with this lol Honestly I’ve seen a lot of busted guys pull women back in my frat days and some of them were huge douchebags. There’s way more nuance than PPD thinks when it comes to attraction and personality	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/25 04:14 AM
12	Alot of people arent attractive nor rich enough for the attitude they have. Good try, but the women in my company are more well adjusted than most of the women here There’s plenty of data that shows what women unconsciously look for in partners, including one linked in this very thread that shows niceness isn’t a top priority. It’s up to you whether to ignore the data or not — and you probably will Doesn’t mean you have to be a douchebag, but the qualities women find most attractive in men are much more likely to be in the confident fuckboy than the boring nice guy	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/25 03:21 AM
22	Alot of people arent attractive nor rich enough for the attitude they have. Meanwhile, the “good men” who are overlooked for the hot douchbag fuckboys are also selfish pricks that objectify women. Nah, they’re overlooked because they’re nice and boring while the “douchbag fuckboy” brings excitement to their lives. It’s basic psychology why their affection is a lot more meaningful than the guy who worships her without any effort and doesn’t push back against anything she says If you’re even reasonably attractive, I think most women know they can get a boring decent guy p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/25 03:06 AM
13	If misogynists want to create a fake narrative that number of women committing SA on men is higher or equal to men SA on women, then why don't men demand a seperate land away from women? Because women are very happy to have a land away from men. Maybe terminally online weirdos who don’t touch grass In the real world, women like men and men like women. We (overall) enjoy each other’s company so this is a silly suggestion	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/25 01:06 AM
–	Almost every academic article says men and women have higher sexual satisfaction in committed relationship vs ONS or short term encounter. Yet I do not believe it. Anecdotally, I’m on the fence when it comes to experimenting because I’ve seen a lot of both sides On one hand, I think a lot of women are more comfortable doing things with the longterm partner over a casual one. On another hand, a lot of young women experiment things with casual partners they wouldn’t do again. I knew women who had threesomes but wouldn’t even consider it in a LTR As far as overall satisfaction goes, it’s a no-brainer why sex is much better with somebody you love and knows wha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/25 12:49 AM
5	The lesbian divorce rate debunks a lot of the complaints wives have about their husbands Outside of sexual orientation (which has no relevance in the quality of a partner or relationship) I can’t think of one that’s been well researched Not sure if you’re trying to be funny or genuinely think gays and lesbians are different, better or worse than straight men or women	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/25 05:17 PM
3	The lesbian divorce rate debunks a lot of the complaints wives have about their husbands Unless lesbians are somehow fundamentally different from heterosexual couples, then we can compare their proportional data if there’s a high enough sample size (over 400,000 lesbian marriages in the US) But 99% if women have the same problems together 99% of women are not in unhappy relationships. Maybe for PPD and certain Reddit spaces but not in real life The percentage of women who hate their marriages aren’t dating other women; OP’s point is these women would likely have similar relationship…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/25 05:04 PM
3	Pick Me Girls are not respected by men. Women are not jealous of them. Pick me women sound like the gender flipped of simps then. Simps will denigrate their entire gender for a chance at poon, but it never works because they’re repulsive and have no self respect anyway Maybe they should date each other then lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/25 04:23 AM
21	"DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable. Yeah I don’t understand how women defending this lady are any better than the rape apologists who defend men that take advantage of drunk women lol After a certain point you have to look past the online gender war and callout shitty behavior for what it is	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/25 04:15 AM
4	"DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable. That’s a clear one for sure, but there’s a lot of minute differences in how men and women text that’s fairly easy to spot after a while	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/25 06:56 PM
8	"DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable. To be fair, a lot of the dating advice I see from women here are a little sus lol I do agree a lot of the guys here have questionable views and are a bit delusional (being black pilled and thinking you’ll forever be single in your 20s is just stupid), but they’re also young and dumb. I can’t imagine myself just laughing at a bunch of dumb women in their 20s tbh	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/25 06:25 PM
12	"DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable. I can never understand how feminists study all these intersectionality stuff and how sexism and gender imbalance is present in all fabrics of society, but still wonder why gender matters in topics like these	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/25 06:12 PM
7	"DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable. Men and women both uses certain phrases and argue differently enough that it’s easy to tell honestly when you have a certain level of experience	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/25 06:07 PM
15	"DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable. Why do you assume I care about the sexes being reversed? Well you gave the hardest steel man defense for her but was skeptical that the guy could order DD while drunk in another post so that’s why I’m asking That’s why I asked; do you think a man posting revenge porn with her name and address in a similar scenario?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/25 05:30 PM
23	"DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable. So just to be clear, according to your steel man defense you’re fine with a man posting a woman’s nudes online with her name and address in a similar scenario right? I get the feeling you wouldn’t be quite as generous and assume more ill intent	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/25 05:17 PM
29	"DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable. common for police to throw these cases out Okay, but the police didn’t even start the investigation yet because she sent it to TikTok literally hours after it happened In good faith, do you genuinely believe think this is the reason instead of her having bad intent by uploading the video with his name and address?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/25 05:02 PM
21	"DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable. it’s no wonder why victims rarely are believed Do you think this woman going viral for lying about SA and using it for clout is also making it harder for victims to be believed? False allegations are absolutely damaging to victims, hence why she should be denounced instead of having people misguidedly defending her	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/25 04:59 PM
57	"DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable. I get recording and sending it to the police, but why did she post it online with his name and address, and not wait until the investigation even begin? Sounds very clearly like malicious intent	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/25 04:51 PM
18	"DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable. he technically is a criminal The police already investigated and cleared him of everything — objectively he’s not a criminal. Being nude in your own home is not a crime, and given she was charged it seems she’s the only person that did something criminal here Yes, he was wrong for ordering but there’s no such thing as a perfect victim. It’s wrong to discredit women who are taken advantage of while drunk because she could have made better decisions, and it’s just as silly here	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/25 04:47 PM
9	"DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable. I don’t know about Reddit specifically, but this subreddit is mostly old women laughing at early 20 year old incels and losers and TwoX skews older too I think it’s good to keep these things in mind when you’re posting in these kinds of subreddits	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/25 04:26 PM
15	"DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable. There was a police investigation after 911 was called and it was found that the man was indeed drunk and passed out when she entered his home Sounds like he came home from a drunken bender, ordered DD, had a wank then passed out and woke up with his nudes, address and name all over the internet I doubt it’ll change who you believe but the facts are there	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/25 04:21 PM
1	Akaash Singh (or any rich guy) losing "half his wealth" in divorce It’s like women (and men, too) get rose-colored glasses on when looking at someone hot they want to date I think you hit the nail spot on for both genders. I’d imagine it’s even harder than the study suggests when you develop an emotional attachment to the person too That’s why I’m always very skeptical when I see so many women here say “shitty guys switch up and the signs were never there.” Most guys are absolutely not 24/7 method actors — like Akaash’s wife the signs were always there but peop…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/25 11:21 PM
4	Akaash Singh (or any rich guy) losing "half his wealth" in divorce To be fair, she’s definitely more attractive but I don’t think she’s “leagues” above him after he lost weight. If he had any sort of confidence and self esteem I can honestly see a couple like that in real life It’s not common or anything but you do see guys dating much more attractive women in the real world, and the guy is almost always confident. You can date somebody more attractive but you absolutely can’t be a doormat or the woman will have no respect or attraction to you But like you said…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/25 01:02 AM
17	Akaash Singh (or any rich guy) losing "half his wealth" in divorce Apparently his friends and mom hated her and warned him too. They spotted her as a leech and called it pretty early but he married her anyway Always trust your friends and especially your mom when it comes to women you date. Women know women way better than men do	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/25 04:23 PM
1	Akaash Singh (or any rich guy) losing "half his wealth" in divorce Both are pretty embarrassing but I agree Dude likely had a prenup with how much red pillers are obsessed with it, and she at least pretended to like him. This woman is openly disrespecting her partner for the entire internet to see and is holding him hostage because he can’t divorce her without loosing half his wealth to somebody who doesn’t work or has kids	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/25 04:20 PM
12	Akaash Singh (or any rich guy) losing "half his wealth" in divorce Red pill is goofy, but every now and then you see women like her who’s the exact type of woman TRP warns you about and I don’t blame dudes for being buying into it For some reason some women here only think guys switch up after a relationship, but women are even more insidious here honestly	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/25 04:11 PM
1	Akaash Singh (or any rich guy) losing "half his wealth" in divorce Red pill is goofy, but every now and then you see women like her who’s the exact type of woman TRP warns you about and I don’t blame dudes for being buying into it For some reason some women here only think guys switch up after a relationship, but women are even more insidious here honestly	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/25 04:11 PM
2	A lot of women start to sound like the very men they call toxic when defending their point — ironically. I think a lot of fathers make hyperbolic statements like that to (in their minds) protect their daughters. I mentioned the stereotype of fathers being crazy protective of their daughters which can be good, but it can also come out in toxic ways as it sounds like you unfortunately went through It’s very important to teach girls to be cautious but you shouldn’t teach them to outright fear them. It’s definitely something I plan to avoid in the future	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/25 02:46 AM
2	A lot of women start to sound like the very men they call toxic when defending their point — ironically. all men are rapists in waiting that I was small pray and men were inherently predators Does your dad posts here on PPD lol The exact wording sounds like a huge self-report I’m not gonna lie, but I’m aware a lot of women are told that men are dangerous from a young age. They’re smaller and weaker and you obviously want to protect them from the so it makes sense. I don’t even let my partner walk in the parking lot alone If your dad told you that all men are rapists and will prey on you that’s fine…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/25 02:19 AM
2	A lot of women genuinely don't recognize when they're being abusive toward men I also think women tend to be a bit more obvious in their emotional abuse? Really? I find it to be the exact opposite honestly Women are socially way smarter than men and are way better at manipulating men and their emotions in clever ways imo. Obviously men are capable of it too like you said but from what I observed, men are way more likely to yell or belittle women while women a lot more insidious and it’s even reflected in “pink pill” vs red pill dating content online But like you said, most…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/25 11:59 PM
7	Feminist opposition to legal paternal surrender/paper abortion is clearly not actually about the best interests of the child, since it disappears the moment that a woman is exercising paternal surrender on the man's behalf I actually agree, and that’s why I’m not sympathetic to a lot of single moms either tbh You’d be surprised at the number of women who let guys they barely know finish in them or don’t ask if the guy is clean (same with men). People are just wildly irresponsibly when it comes to sex	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/25 11:29 PM
3	A lot of women start to sound like the very men they call toxic when defending their point — ironically. ”once a man gets going, he can’t stop” I think men who say that tell are telling on themselves lol I agree that men tend to be very protective of women in their lives and tell them to be careful of men. The stereotype of fathers telling their daughters she can’t even kiss a boy until marriage is present for a reason; and honestly I’ll probably be that crazy protective father for my daughter too That said, “be cautious because there’s dangerous men” and “men are wild beasts that can’t control the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/25 09:01 PM
2	A lot of women genuinely don't recognize when they're being abusive toward men Honestly yeah. Despite so many women being victims of abuse it’s surprising to see so many of them not actually understanding it	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/25 07:15 PM
1	A lot of women start to sound like the very men they call toxic when defending their point — ironically. Also the gaslighting that “only bad men have a reason to dislike the comparison to a literal animal” lol Like you said, it’s just easier to farm engagement by making inflammatory statements instead of having a genuine discussion about women’s safety. You don’t have to put down the other gender to do that, but a lot of men and women online just really hate the other	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/25 04:40 PM
8	A lot of women start to sound like the very men they call toxic when defending their point — ironically. This is how I see it too. There was a point to be made here, but when you’re comparing an entire gender to savage animals I can see why it didn’t fly well It’s no different than RPs phrases like “she’s not yours it’s just your turn” that women take offense with. The message itself isn’t necessarily bad, but your slogan matters in messaging	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/25 02:02 PM
2	A lot of women genuinely don't recognize when they're being abusive toward men Did you read the article? That’s the global stat, with by far the highest rate being in Africa where women are mutilated and treated like property In the US it’s 1000 murders per 45,000,000 abuse victims. “A large amount of victims are killed” is an objectively wrong statement by every metric so it’s smart to drop this angle Would you rather be punched by a skinnyfat woman or by a man taller and stronger than you? The former obviously, but that has nothing to do with my point. Domestic abuse and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/25 01:12 PM
–	User flairs should include age Not sure if that’s a good rule. It’s been beaten to death at this point, but boomers criticizing younger generations for their work ethic is a good example. They’ll just roll their eyes when you tell them dynamics are different now Older people can definitely impart their wisdom of life advice and broad dating advice — a teenage girl crying that she’ll never find somebody after his first breakup is a good example. You’ve been there and you know she’ll move on. The boomer or person 20 years remov…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/25 12:52 AM
3	Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twenties And even less women care about going Dutch now compared to the 90s if she’s actually interested in you Never understood why so many guys think they have to pay for dates. If you want to go ahead, but you’re not losing out on anything	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 11:42 PM
0	A lot of women genuinely don't recognize when they're being abusive toward men a large amount of abuse victims are straight up physically killed No, a small percentage of abuse victims are killed by their partners. Roughly 1000 women a year are killed by their partners in the US, while studies indicate roughly 25% of women have experienced physical abuse (there’s 170 million adult women in the US) Your chances of being actually being murdered are statistically vanishingly low	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 10:48 PM
–	User flairs should include age The large majority of women here are childless according to the survey. And the average age of women here was roughly 40; which means it’s unlikely they have young adults And even in that small percentage, having kids doesn’t necessarily mean you understand the dating dynamics you observe. I’m did well in my early 20s but it’d be a bit delusional to pretend I know exactly what my future kids will go through when they were my age	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 06:04 PM
8	User flairs should include age Definitely works both ways No point in convincing a married 45 year old who’s far removed from the current scene and set in their ways, or an easily influenced 19 year old with no life experience	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 05:22 PM
–	If the chore gap is noteworthy, the income gap should be too. But women today aren’t really having children, so I’m really sure why it’s brought up. Most interestingly, it feels like it’s the women who don’t have or want children that’s complaining about the “chore gap” the most Studies indicates that without children and when men and women work the same number of hours — women only work 2.5 extra hours than men do. It’s only when there’s children introduced does it start to become unbalanced for women (and I think it’s a valid complaint there) Why women w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 05:16 PM
4	User flairs should include age That’s what I’ve gathered from this subreddit too It’s young virgin incel men with little life experience, and old married women far removed from the dating scene It’s kind of hilarious seeing these diametrically opposed groups interact, but it’s good to keep it in mind because the perspectives here suddenly make so much more sense	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 04:31 PM
5	MAGA is proof that men will stand up to feminists when they actually give a damn about issues, which clearly isnt men’s issues. If they’re voting for Trump for reasons other than feminism then they’re not “taking a stand” against feminism It’s one thing to say you can’t be a feminist and vote for Trump, but it’s another to say you’re inherently going against feminism by voting for him There’s pros and cons for each candidate. While I think Trump has far more cons than Harris and voted for her, I can also recognize people can value things differently. Women value abortion rights very highly since it directly affects them,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 04:19 PM
1	Would you as a woman swap women's dating app problems with men's? Data makes it clear you’re in a small minority here. I have the feeling you don’t swipe right on every (or even most) chubby short guy either so the percentage is even lower Meeting you halfway here, I’m not against “nichemaxxing” and I know guys who are successful doing that. Being fat and ugly is not a niche, and like I said we have data on this	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 01:37 PM
1	Would you as a woman swap women's dating app problems with men's? Agree to disagree, but the data (and every man that had a glow up) makes it pretty clear what women value on dating apps You’re just vastly understating how much women prioritize looks on dating apps; which makes sense given how dating is for women	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 01:23 PM
1	Would you as a woman swap women's dating app problems with men's? Probably because the men have more experience dating women than than one’s saying it	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 01:12 PM
4	Women fail to understand the sheer scale of emotional labor men perform for women. I have this same thought when I see the people here describe their dating experiences with men and women After a certain point, if you're consistently having experiences with awful people you should look what's in your shoe because most normal men and women aren't like this lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 05:18 AM
1	Would you as a woman swap women's dating app problems with men's? I think I could put together a profile that would attract women easily. Every woman says this, but data shows bios don’t matter. The best thing you can do (that you can control) is build muscle and show it off in a non-douchebag way, then you can be fun and interesting You can craft the most witty bio in the world and take cool pictures, but you still need to meet a looks threshold to get consistent matches	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/25 10:55 PM
1	Would you as a woman swap women's dating app problems with men's? I’ve noticed lot of guys have that issue, especially after glow ups I just stopped overthinking and enjoyed the company I had with the women and it just naturally worked for me; even “wanting” to want a relationship isn’t a good mindset imo. Everything just felt natural with my girl so I pulled the trigger with her, but if you don’t have that instinctive desire you shouldn’t force it either	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/25 09:38 PM
2	Would you as a woman swap women's dating app problems with men's? I know the feeling. When you start off as a 5 you want 7s, and when you improve yourself to a 7 you want 9s. When you can consistently date attractive women that feeling mattered to me less and less as I got older personally It’s relative to an extent in some areas, but my dating life was so much better after improving myself	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/25 09:19 PM
11	Women's Dating Rules Are Impossible and often Hypocritical There is no consistency Women are people and have wildly different emotions and reactions to people and their actions. You cant control that or figure out some secret cheat code, all you can do is what feels right for you. If she enjoys the energy you’re putting out she’ll make it easy for you	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/25 09:01 PM
3	Would you as a woman swap women's dating app problems with men's? I’m definitely no 6’4 “chad” or anything but I had decent enough success on dating apps so I’d say no Men occupy both extremes because you can easily get sex and relationships without much trouble if you’re on the upper end, but if you’re average or ugly it’s rough. Women can get sex and relationships fairly easily too, but I don’t think women are built for dating apps	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/25 08:56 PM
5	For many women, dating and relationships are basically a business where they try to make as much profit as possible. male loneliness epidemic It’s always funny how the supposed solution behind the ‘male loneliness epidemic’ (which isn’t a thing because women are just as lonely as men) is whatever’s convenient for women lol I personally pay for first dates for other reasons, speaking as somebody with plenty of experience, knows men with experience and actually dates women — this isn’t necessary if she’s into you unless you’re looking for a traditional relationship Feel free to take it or leave it, but it’s good…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/25 07:21 PM
1	Women need to drop their screen addiction and go outside. Women can just go in-and-out within a few weeks max This is a very good point actually. Data also shows that 50% of young women have used dating apps at some point, but the concurrent users is much much lower Most women in my social circles who used dating apps were only on them for a very brief period when they were single; they were sniped off the app very fast by decent enough guys Not to say women don’t have gross men in their DMs because they absolutely do, but the app is what you make of i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/25 06:50 PM
4	For many women, dating and relationships are basically a business where they try to make as much profit as possible. Total freeloader for a cup of coffee Nah, entitlement is the biggest ick and most guys who aren’t desperate feel the same way I went on a cute ice cream and cake date with my partner for our first date, and if she stared at my wallet expecting me to pay, then I would’ve paid for my own and left early. I know a lot of guys who will pay for it anyway but put women in the “sleep with but not date” box for things like that It’s not hard to do the absolute bare minimum and at least make it look like …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/25 04:58 PM
2	The single solution for women’s dating problems is being more active and asking men out. It’s harder to invest in multiple women then to not do so It’s really not if you have the finances. And if he doesn’t have his finances in order, he’s not going to be paying for nice dates often or gifts early on anyway Not saying it can’t work, but you’re making yourself more vulnerable to being a victim of love bombing if you’re not careful Like what? Not immediately having sex but most importantly just focusing on establishing a genuine connection Men can fake “investment” by taking her to a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/25 04:11 PM
3	For many women, dating and relationships are basically a business where they try to make as much profit as possible. If her favorite celebrity of her type told her to do “X”, would she take forever to text? Would she leave him on read? I remember somebody calling this the “Brad Pitt effect” many years ago and this mindset was probably the single biggest game changer when I was single. If you don’t have this self-respect and chase women who aren’t into you or respect you, then you can end up like the Akaash dude who went viral And to add onto this, I’ve dated a law school student that worked full time and even …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/25 03:53 PM
1	For many women, dating and relationships are basically a business where they try to make as much profit as possible. Agreed, people over complicate dating way too much. I see people posting their Tinder convos and asking what exact thing could he have said to prevent her from ghosting or losing interest but the fact is if she was high interest (and you’re not being a total creep) it wouldn’t be an issue. Guarantee there’s at least another man in her DMs that’s not jumping through hoops like that I don’t think women necessarily want to have sex with you on the first date (most would, but some don’t), but she wi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/25 02:22 PM
1	For many women, dating and relationships are basically a business where they try to make as much profit as possible. I don’t think women care about going Dutch nearly as much as guys claim, but it’s definitely not the dorm lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/25 02:14 PM
1	CMV: Married women die younger than never-married women not because "men bad," but because they loved deeply enough to die of a broken heart (which must be very common, given sex differences in life expectancy) Sure, here’s the guy you’re citing directly retracting his study: https://static1.squarespace.com/static/5ede14d10cd4933b1b584db1/5ef9e8827507867bc727f202/5ef9e88a7507867bc727f402/1593436298396/HEA-response.pdf?format=original An article that summarizes why his study is invalid in simple terms: https://www.vox.com/future-perfect/2019/6/4/18650969/married-women-miserable-fake-paul-dolan-happiness	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/25 10:53 AM
2	We are ignoring the reality of gender roles here on PPD women are still doing the lion's share of the housework and child rearing in two income households. Yes, women do a lot more housework and child care than men. Men also work more than women and are a lot less likely to work part time. If the wife works 30 hours and the husband works 40-45 hours a week it's still a dual income household, but the gap existing is justified so it doesn't tell us much in itself That data I've seen that actually tallied up work and household chores (not just give a va…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/25 05:05 AM
5	We are ignoring the reality of gender roles here on PPD I think there is a discussion to be had about men picking up more housework; while men do work more hours than women, women end up working about 2-3 extra hours of “work” for women per week including housework These discussions can’t be taken seriously with these absurd exaggerations about the gap though	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/25 01:09 AM
18	We are ignoring the reality of gender roles here on PPD Two income household is literally the default, every person I know has been splitting chores and bills with their partners. Data also indicates men are doing more housework than ever, to which the delta between men and women is only a handful of hours a week nowadays I have to believe these women complaining about men who do nothing but watch TV all day after work are talking about their grandparents predicament and not bout how things are nowadays	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/25 12:58 AM
0	The single solution for women’s dating problems is being more active and asking men out. I don’t think either should be “chasing” when dating. It depends how long you’ve been dating obviously, but early gifts tends to be a red flag from guys outside of maybe flowers It’s not really a woman thing either; anybody can leave you for somebody better at any point so it’s not worth stressing over in my eyes. If your relationship has a strong foundation and the love and effort put into is mutual then it’s all you can do Just because he’s “investing” in you doesn’t mean he’s not “investing” …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/25 12:13 AM
0	The single solution for women’s dating problems is being more active and asking men out. Require him to invest in you - pay for dates, show attention, bring you tokens and gifts. It’s always funny how women encourage other women to fall for the most basic love bombing tactics, then act surprised when the man inevitably cheat or lose interest	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 11:23 PM
1	The single solution for women’s dating problems is being more active and asking men out. The solution isn’t needed because most well adjusted women in real life don’t recurring problems with men cheating or being abuse. The horror stories you see online are usually rage bait or a vocal minority And it wouldn’t work anyway because most women are afraid of rejection. Women are also fine being single (or “single”) and just waiting for the right guy to approach her	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 11:08 PM
7	The single solution for women’s dating problems is being more active and asking men out. Ehh. There’s a good chance your local AWDTSG group has at least 100k members, and the Tea app was the #1 app for a long time Women have dating problems, but they don’t have problems getting dates or being approached	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 10:29 PM
1	Men should NOT be so forthcoming or honest about their intentions despite how much women claim they should From my experience, the women that only want relationships are very upfront about it in their bios or say so early on I can’t say much for dating in the 30s either, but at least for early-mid 20s I feel like it was implicitly assumed we’re just “feeling each other out” and open to anything in the early talking phase/linking up for the first time unless stated otherwise I also rarely got asked the classic “what are you looking for” question too, but I’m sure that changes too the older you get so …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 08:02 PM
-1	Men should NOT be so forthcoming or honest about their intentions despite how much women claim they should The distinction is important, and that’s specifically why I called it out Calling it amoral is fine (and I would agree), but coercion and rape is one of the worst things you can do to a person and flagrantly misusing it for ‘lying about your intentions’ is doing a disservice to actual victims and diminishing the impact of those words	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 07:48 PM
-2	Men should NOT be so forthcoming or honest about their intentions despite how much women claim they should lets not get petty and pedantic That’s literally what it is, which is entirely different from lying about what you’re looking for It’s obvious you just Google’d it without knowing what it meant and thought “deception” meant lying lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 07:33 PM
-2	Men should NOT be so forthcoming or honest about their intentions despite how much women claim they should Maybe you should do some reading Rape by deception is only applicable when the victim thinks they’re having sex with the person they consented to but is a different person entirely (e.g. switching up in a dark room) Even in the scenario where the man is outright lying about his intentions (which I disagree with) it 100% doesn’t apply, and misusing it like this is a bit gross to actual victims That’s like me saying I got coerced by a woman because she wore too much makeup and wasn’t who I expecte…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 07:18 PM
2	Men should NOT be so forthcoming or honest about their intentions despite how much women claim they should I doubt most men do, but I agree the ones that do it are wrong I’ve dated women where I genuinely wanted to see where things go but broke it off eventually, and most women interpret it as the man only wanting sex	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 07:05 PM
0	Men should NOT be so forthcoming or honest about their intentions despite how much women claim they should The analogy is a bit disingenuous because the overwhelming majority of most men don’t want a sugar baby relationship, while most women have at least a few casual partners throughout their lifetime. A closer analogy would be women not being upfront about wanting a traditional relationship, which is valid imo There’s a difference between not being crass and completely misrepresenting your intentions. If she explicitly only wants a relationship when you don’t or you’re lying that you want a relatio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 06:47 PM
–	Men should NOT be so forthcoming or honest about their intentions despite how much women claim they should coercion Some of y’all need to touch grass lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 06:26 PM
2	Men should NOT be so forthcoming or honest about their intentions despite how much women claim they should Definitely agree. Most socially calibrated men aren’t going to say “I just want to fuck” because it makes you look sleazy. It’s a huge turn off to most women even if they would be down for it. Coming on strong with your intentions too early can also make you look creepy and make women uncomfortable That said, I don’t think you should lie about having a future early with them. Lying is a bit different from not being forthcoming “Just going with the flow/Not trying to rush into anything” is fine i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 06:11 PM
2	CMV: Married women die younger than never-married women not because "men bad," but because they loved deeply enough to die of a broken heart (which must be very common, given sex differences in life expectancy) The Paul Dolan article is especially funny because his study including women who were cohabiting with their longterm boyfriends as “single” as long as they weren’t married. So couples who were married in everything but name were “single” and counted against marriage. There were other flaws but that was definitely the funniest There’s a reason that is the only study that gets cited for single women when this topic comes up in favor of far more recent studies (and more in quantity) that contradict…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 06:00 PM
3	CMV: Married women die younger than never-married women not because "men bad," but because they loved deeply enough to die of a broken heart (which must be very common, given sex differences in life expectancy) Agreed. The manosphere dudes online saying marriage is terrible for men are equally as delusional as these women and not reflective of reality either	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 05:44 PM
3	CMV: Married women die younger than never-married women not because "men bad," but because they loved deeply enough to die of a broken heart (which must be very common, given sex differences in life expectancy) The Paul Dolan article has been debunked for the many errors that was in his study and has not been replicated Just about every study outside of his found that married women are happier than single women	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 05:42 PM
2	CMV: Married women die younger than never-married women not because "men bad," but because they loved deeply enough to die of a broken heart (which must be very common, given sex differences in life expectancy) I was referring to more the desire to get married than flat marriage statistics, but they are linked for reasons you mentioned Most studies I’ve seen indicates anywhere from 65%-80% of women want to get married depending on their age (it was at like 90%+ in older generations), with younger women obviously being higher and older women being lower So most of the women you see online whining about how bad marriages are either a statistical minority, secretly want to get married or already married. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 05:34 PM
5	CMV: Married women die younger than never-married women not because "men bad," but because they loved deeply enough to die of a broken heart (which must be very common, given sex differences in life expectancy) Most women get married so obviously most women don’t think marriage is bad. I think this is one of the big reasons why you shouldn’t take online echo chambers seriously Most women I know in real life want to get married if they’re not already, and while the data is slightly trending down it still indicates most women want relationships and disagree with what’s being repeated here. Meanwhile, if you read certain subreddits, or see these articles blowing up that “heterofatalism is happening” or “h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 04:59 PM
2	CMV: Married women die younger than never-married women not because "men bad," but because they loved deeply enough to die of a broken heart (which must be very common, given sex differences in life expectancy) Obviously there’s some men and women like that who make their partner’s lives miserable and worse off, but data overwhelmingly shows married men and women are better off. I feel like it should be obvious to anybody with experience in happy relationships too I wouldn’t put too much stock into bitter people here	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 04:34 PM
3	CMV: Married women die younger than never-married women not because "men bad," but because they loved deeply enough to die of a broken heart (which must be very common, given sex differences in life expectancy) You’re right that the phenomenon of an old widow dying shortly after their partner is a thing (happens with both genders but occurs far more with women since they’re more likely to live longer than men), but the data I’ve seen suggests married women live longer even with that factored in Both married men and women live longer and tend to be happier than their single counterparts	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 04:23 PM
5	Women use ‘nice guys’ as a dumping ground for their projections And even when you’re experienced, there’ll still be times where you misread her body language and choosing signals because every woman is different. There’ll also be times where you might read it right, but the woman just likes being flirty and just doing it for fun Honestly, I don’t men should care too much about this topic or how random women perceive them. As long as you’re respectful and trying to learn, you’re golden	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 03:52 PM
–	In your experience, what body type has gotten you the most attention from conventionally attractive girls? Just like how a lot men don’t have a good understanding of makeup, a lot of women don’t have a good understanding of muscles What women call “muscular” is jacked, and what they call “too muscular” is #5 on the chart	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/25 02:45 PM
–	In your experience, what body type has gotten you the most attention from conventionally attractive girls? To clarify, when women say “super muscular” they usually mean those 6% body fat juiced up bodybuilders. Same deal when men say “no makeup is best” they mean light foundation, while women that cake themselves is for the female gaze Studies very consistently show women are more attracted to muscular men and that they’re able to have more sexual partners (shocker)	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/25 02:40 PM
2	A lot of women genuinely don't recognize when they're being abusive toward men Yeah I never understood the “physical difference” justification when it comes to men and women abuse Abuse isn’t so damaging because the bruises itself, it’s bad because of the psychological trauma it leaves on the victim	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/25 02:35 AM
21	A lot of women genuinely don't recognize when they're being abusive toward men To be fair, most abusers in general don’t recognize they’re abusers. If you asked a man who shoved his girlfriend when he’s mad or yelling at her, he’d say the same thing that women do when they shove or yell at their boyfriend, “I’m just voicing my frustrations” I know women here are gonna disagree for obvious reasons, but I have to agree we take women abuse a lot less seriously as we do with men’s abuse. The fact that we collectively take it less serious influences it on an individual basis. E…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/25 12:57 AM
8	In what situations would you classify a man as a "beta"? Your partner disrespecting you is a lot worse than a stranger doing so Not that you should let strangers flagrantly disrespect you either obviously, but it’s not really the same at all	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/25 08:15 PM
3	Men being the ones to initiate is not a failure of feminism Like 6-1 Where did you read this? It was reported that 4/5 of drafted Ukrainian men have attempted to flee earlier this week so that’s a little suspect or (most likely) very outdated from the start of the war Regardless of how you feel about the topic, Ukraine has consistently reported problems finding soldiers. If there was actually a 6-1 volunteer ratio with so many people willing to fight, I highly doubt they’d be so militant about conscription and keeping men in the country Edit: The most re…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/25 08:07 PM
8	Men being the ones to initiate is not a failure of feminism ”I don’t have fear because my family is at my back and so the only thing I want to do is be what’s between them and the Russians” This is propaganda. Most Ukrainian men are terrified of conscription and losing their lives My partner was born in Ukraine and she told me stories about men hiding, trying to flee (which is illegal) and families distraught over losing their sons. They absolutely do believe Russia is the enemy and at fault, but this western narrative that Ukrainians are happy to fight …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/25 07:54 PM
2	What's the point of sleeping with someone you aren't attracted to? https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/1948550619856308 Can’t wait for the benign excuses why this study should be invalidated because you disagree with it	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/25 05:47 PM
5	Its not “Alpha Fucks Beta Bucks” for women to change their priorities over time. Akaash and his wife weren’t actually part of the manosphere so this doesn’t apply to him to be fair, but I don’t really buy this explanation Most of the manosphere guys weren’t openly flaunting their relationships; they kept them secret before it was leaked because they were embarrassed because it made them look like losers Some of them are definitely grifters, but a lot of them genuinely believe what they’re saying and can’t maintain healthy relationships with high quality women because of it	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/25 05:24 PM
5	Its not “Alpha Fucks Beta Bucks” for women to change their priorities over time. Agreed. Man or women, having your partner talk about them getting their back blown out by multiple guys or him piping down lots of girls at frat parties is crazy disrespectful and humiliating even if it’s “a joke”	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/25 05:14 PM
4	Its not “Alpha Fucks Beta Bucks” for women to change their priorities over time. Fair enough, that’s a win for the manosphere then lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/25 05:06 PM
4	Its not “Alpha Fucks Beta Bucks” for women to change their priorities over time. I’ve noticed a trend of manosphere guys ending up in relationships with gold diggers, women who don’t respect them, sex workers, or single moms despite what they preach It’s probably the same reason that women end up in relationships with men who don’t respect them or put them down — insecurity and having warped views of relationships. She’s more attractive than him so I’m sure that plays a part too Nobody can say for sure obviously but that’s just my guess	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/25 04:58 PM
20	Its not “Alpha Fucks Beta Bucks” for women to change their priorities over time. I thought so too until I saw more clips; she constantly curves him when he tries to kiss her with a gross look on her face. You can’t fake body language like that Even if she’s playing it up, she may very well love him but she’s 100% not attracted to him	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/25 04:32 PM
38	Its not “Alpha Fucks Beta Bucks” for women to change their priorities over time. TRP is goofy but every now and then you see a guy like Akaash and his wife and I think, “damn, I don’t blame men for worrying and believing that stuff when they see shit like this” because she’s exactly what TRP warns men about lmao It’s a harsh lesson why you should only date women who’s attracted to you and why it’s better to be single than settle. Women nowadays got it right, but men need to step up too	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/25 04:19 PM
3	What's the point of sleeping with someone you aren't attracted to? Women (other than literal sex workers) don’t go on dates with men they actively dislike in order to get free meals. There was a study (granted it wasn’t a huge sample size) that found that 30% of the women surveyed went on at least one date with a man they weren’t interested in for free food It doesn’t have to be malice (“I’m gonna use this guy for money”) as much as “I’m bored and I wanna try this new restaurant so I’m gonna hit up this guy I’m not that interested in.” This doesn’t happen much …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/25 04:02 PM
1	The more we push the me too movement, the more men’s fears are substantiated of false reports for personal gain as the reward to do so is larger. As such you can never “believe all women”. You can’t do that with reputational damage. Reputational damage to his career and social life, not his dating life Granted it’s not common unless you’re a high profile figure or work in certain fields, but you absolutely should not be fired for an accusation without evidence. I feel like that should be obvious why to anybody who goes outside Not saying it’s easy to do, but that’s the ideal system Subjectively, I’d obviously be furious at somebody raping somebody close to me but that’s not how we…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/25 03:54 PM
1	The more we push the me too movement, the more men’s fears are substantiated of false reports for personal gain as the reward to do so is larger. As such you can never “believe all women”. You should take a deep breath and read my post again slowly. I answered your question	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/25 03:42 PM
1	The more we push the me too movement, the more men’s fears are substantiated of false reports for personal gain as the reward to do so is larger. As such you can never “believe all women”. I don’t believe in online witch-hunts without evidence. Sharing your story is fine, but there shouldn’t be reputational damage without evidence from an individual report Your system leads to more victims like the man in this story who had his nudes, name and address leaked, which is dangerous for obvious reasons	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/25 03:39 PM
1	Why do high-body-count women get the most offended when men prefer low body count? This is a distinction without a difference. One is prescribing moral judgment (I find this person disgusting for doing X) and the other isn’t (I naturally lost attraction to this person for doing X), which is why you used the former. Let’s not be dishonest here A person engaging in behaviors they find gross and icky… is still a hypocrite. I’m gonna say this one last time and you should read it slowly: they don’t find behavior gross. If they did, they would be morally judging them, which they’re …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/25 12:51 AM
1	Why do high-body-count women get the most offended when men prefer low body count? There’s a fundamental difference between finding behavior or qualities icky and the person itself as disgusting, which you conflated over and over as such here: If a woman finds people who have owned cats disgusting and refuses to date them even though she also used to own cats And that’s exactly why the height and behavior analogy was spot on — women find short men unattractive, not because they find them disgusting. You’re constantly prescribing moral judgment when it’s entirely irrelevant her…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/25 12:13 AM
1	Why do high-body-count women get the most offended when men prefer low body count? Sexual behavior is not a quality Behavior is absolutely a quality we’re naturally attracted to lol There’s behaviors I can demonstrate that’ll make me much more attractive to women and behaviors that’ll make them lose attraction to me If a woman finds people who have owned cats disgusting You keep calling it “disgusting” when I explicitly said that’s not the case. I don’t think you understand what I’m saying here	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/25 05:20 PM
2	Why do high-body-count women get the most offended when men prefer low body count? what’s causing the ick, then? Same answer as last time: we’re naturally attracted to certain physical features and qualities If you don’t want to use physical features as an analogy for whatever reason, we can use qualities that women are attracted to like confidence, charisma and leadership. Does that mean women are “judging” men who lack those things by passing on them (especially if they lack those qualities themselves)? Obviously not, and it’s equally as silly here There’s not always a deepe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/25 05:03 PM
5	The more we push the me too movement, the more men’s fears are substantiated of false reports for personal gain as the reward to do so is larger. As such you can never “believe all women”. She had those crazy eyes too and she seemed very “off” in her TikToks When you have enough experience with women you can spot crazy from a mile away. It’s the same sixth sense women have with creepy men and incels	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/25 04:52 PM
1	Why do high-body-count women get the most offended when men prefer low body count? one’s beliefs You’re really trying to force this narrative that the person not dating high N people believe they’re morally inferior or what the other person doing is wrong. It’s true for some people, but that’s not who I’m talking about Even in your analogy you’re using crack addicts judging other crack addicts, which says enough But she sure as shit can change her behavior so she isn’t a hypocrite. So just to be clear, if a former high N man stops sleeping around to “settle down” and only date…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/25 04:41 PM
–	Why do high-body-count women get the most offended when men prefer low body count? What you’re saying is no different from the classic ‘short women avoiding short guys is hypocritical’ claim lol You’ll argue it’s different being she’s short due to biology while the other man or woman engaged in hookup culture, but the reason the woman is attracted to taller men goes back to personal preference We can’t negotiate what we’re attracted to. I don’t think this is any morally worse than women preferring taller men. You can criticize men and women for it, but I don’t think it’s a mor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/25 04:23 PM
–	Why do high-body-count women get the most offended when men prefer low body count? But why do they have the visceral ick? I don’t think every ick that men and women have needs to have an explanation That is a moral judgment. It is not analogous to feeling drawn to certain features. My post was obviously not talking about men like Andrew Tate who sleep around while loudly shaming women and call them used goods Just quietly not dating men and women who give you the ick is not a moral judgment and not hypocritical; it’s exactly the same with women avoiding bi guys Not being attra…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/25 04:06 PM
–	Why do high-body-count women get the most offended when men prefer low body count? I think those are actually valid considerations (except maybe the raising another man’s child lol) if you’re a low N count man, but if you’re also a high N count man it’s a bit unreasonable I don’t think this is a gender thing either; women also make a lot of deflections why they wouldn’t date a bi guy too (STDs, cheating, might turn gay lol). Both genders can be a bit silly when it comes to these preference topics and should be more honest about it	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/25 02:54 PM
–	Why do high-body-count women get the most offended when men prefer low body count? That’s a valid feeling to have both ways. I don’t think you should be shamed for it either	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/25 02:26 PM
–	Why do high-body-count women get the most offended when men prefer low body count? By choosing to have sex with her but not to date her when he otherwise would, it is shaming the behavior. She’s not entitled to a relationship People who have casual sex don’t always want to date the person and it has nothing to do with “shaming” them. I can have a FWB but pass on dating her because she likes Drake — it doesn’t mean I’m “shaming” the behavior, just not compatible	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/25 02:18 PM
–	Why do high-body-count women get the most offended when men prefer low body count? That’s not hypocritical either. It only becomes hypocritical if he shames her for it or says she’s a bad person for it like some manosphere dudes do I brought up the classic example of women having the ick for bi guys for a reason	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/25 02:13 PM
–	Why do high-body-count women get the most offended when men prefer low body count? Some men just have a visceral ick to dating a high N count woman, and it doesn’t necessarily mean they’re judging them for it. It can be hypocritical, but not always Same reason why a lot of progressive and bi/pan women wouldn’t date a bi guy	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/25 01:36 PM
–	Why do high-body-count women get the most offended when men prefer low body count? Not wanting a low N count partner isn’t always about morals	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/25 01:28 PM
1	The more we push the me too movement, the more men’s fears are substantiated of false reports for personal gain as the reward to do so is larger. As such you can never “believe all women”. But somehow that gets left out of the conversation. Probably because it’s not true The most viewed videos on TikTok and the biggest Reddit threads in response to her first story were women defending her. This is easily verifiable to anybody reading this, so it’s likely confirmation bias on your part The response to her now is overwhelmingly negative after the investigation and charges were brought up, not when it first blew up	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/25 01:27 PM
2	The more we push the me too movement, the more men’s fears are substantiated of false reports for personal gain as the reward to do so is larger. As such you can never “believe all women”. Source? I obviously can’t post it but there is an uncensored version floating around. It’s fairly easy to find if you Google it and go on NSFW sites They have just as much reason to insist that order She posted a TikTok saying she was banned from DD days after her initial video. I don’t think she even claimed DD banned her first unless you have a source For arguments sake, if it’s true that DD banned her only after she posted the video would it change your perspective of the situation? It’s not …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 09:43 PM
2	The more we push the me too movement, the more men’s fears are substantiated of false reports for personal gain as the reward to do so is larger. As such you can never “believe all women”. She did censor the nudity even in her video. The original video was not blurred And you’re getting the timeline mixed up. She posted the video online then got banned by DoorDash for sharing personal information and content of their customers online — you can find their statement online going into detail This leads to another issue There’s no issue, just don’t share revenge porn lmao You can submit it to DoorDash and the police and let them handle it. The investigation didn’t even start before sh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 09:21 PM
2	The more we push the me too movement, the more men’s fears are substantiated of false reports for personal gain as the reward to do so is larger. As such you can never “believe all women”. But it still backs up my original point: when she first posted, people were jumping to attack her, with debate on both sides To be fair, I’m not saying she’s definitively guilty of opening the door either until her trial, but just that there’s more evidence than not. But honestly, that also doesn’t matter Even if we take the most charitable scenario that the door was open when she got there — you still cant whip out your phone and record them nude with their full name, address and post it online…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 09:04 PM
3	The more we push the me too movement, the more men’s fears are substantiated of false reports for personal gain as the reward to do so is larger. As such you can never “believe all women”. How do we know this is true? I see articles claiming it, but what is the source those articles used? It’s good to be skeptical about unverified claims, quotes or accusations without evidence According to the article from the journalist it’s from the police account. Edit: I can’t find the Ring footage. As far as I know he sent it directly to the police and it isn’t public. And if you’re going to sue it makes sense to keep things as private as possible, especially if you’re the victim There has be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 08:42 PM
4	The more we push the me too movement, the more men’s fears are substantiated of false reports for personal gain as the reward to do so is larger. As such you can never “believe all women”. AI The police obtained ring camera footage that hasn’t been released online yet so this is a big leap to assume this. Based on the video they have, they concluded she opened the door and it’s far more credible than the cut video she posted AI is also nowhere near advance enough to pass off as credible evidence lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 08:11 PM
4	The more we push the me too movement, the more men’s fears are substantiated of false reports for personal gain as the reward to do so is larger. As such you can never “believe all women”. Well I’m talking more about reputation, not necessarily about women choosing to date them or not The DoorDash victim’s full name was doxxed by the woman and his name will forever be linked to being a sexual assaulter even if the lady gets convicted. I don’t feel strongly about women choosing to date the person or not, but the person’s reputation shouldn’t be immediately ruined from an isolated claim without evidence I feel like it’s the best of both worlds	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 07:38 PM
7	The more we push the me too movement, the more men’s fears are substantiated of false reports for personal gain as the reward to do so is larger. As such you can never “believe all women”. it can obviously turn into a case where a man who genuinely is falsely accused gets ostracized Just like the victim in this DoorDash story. If he didn’t have ring camera footage to exonerate him the abuser would’ve gotten away with it and framed him It’s also true that men like Harvey Weinstein and Bill Cosby were able to face justice because of women openly sharing their stories It’s hard because you can cherry pick the good and the bad and make a conclusion you want off it. My middle ground is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 07:25 PM
5	The more we push the me too movement, the more men’s fears are substantiated of false reports for personal gain as the reward to do so is larger. As such you can never “believe all women”. What should happen in those cases? It’s inherently very difficult to prove, especially because most rapes don’t start off a random creep following a woman home like in the movies I have a few ideas on how we can do better at reducing cases, but if there’s no evidence and it can’t be proven without a reasonable doubt the person should be let go. I’d also push back against the “if the justice system fails we should turn to vigilantism” idea. It isn’t a healthy option and it’s a slippery slope that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 07:13 PM
0	The more we push the me too movement, the more men’s fears are substantiated of false reports for personal gain as the reward to do so is larger. As such you can never “believe all women”. Put less credence on allegations without evidence and improve the justice system so the filth who are guilty of SA are punished properly Right now the court of public opinion requires no evidence but is way too powerful, while the actual court that needs evidence is a little lacking in some areas	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 06:51 PM
13	The more we push the me too movement, the more men’s fears are substantiated of false reports for personal gain as the reward to do so is larger. As such you can never “believe all women”. I’m glad the DoorDash lady is getting charged. Reading the folks defending this crazy person were surreal Regardless of gender, opening somebody’s front door, doxing, and posting their nudes without consent is disgusting. It’d be gross if a man recorded a woman and it’s equally bad here. This wasn’t even a “MeToo” discussion as much as people need common sense	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 06:42 PM
1	I think all women would be happier single when you don’t have a response You should read it again more slowly. I addressed your post, it’s not an ad hominem. Lots of women are planning on joining me, because by 2030, Morgan Stanley predicts that about 45% of women between ages of 25 and 44 will be single. Incel men and undesirable, bitter women dropping out of the dating is a great thing. That number will obviously taper off and plateau, and men/women in relationships will still be the happiest demographic You say this like it’s a threa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 06:24 PM
4	What is your goal in dating? I started dating when I was 17; I just wanted a girlfriend to treat well, marry, and have kids with. After my first relationship the “magical aura” of women wore off and i had healthier, more realistic views of women and relationships I started hooking up a lot in college and after graduation until I met the sweetest girl in the world. I cut off all my FWBs and committed to her because good women like her are hard to find I think most guys have a similar mindset of “just having casual sex until …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 05:02 PM
2	I think all women would be happier single It’s almost as if men are just self-centered parasites literally sucking the lifeblood out of women. You don’t sound very happy being single lol Also, married women do consistently report being happier than single women. The one contradictory study that gets regularly cited is an outlier and has never been replicated Just because Reddit women find relationships miserable doesn’t mean most normal women do	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 04:22 PM
2	Men are delusional about how many bad men are out there I don’t think they’re incapable but they just really like the rush from love bombing Funny enough, even the most prominent red pill grifters like Tate and F&F use “lover boy” methods instead of being an asshole to women (despite what they tell men) because it’s just so effective. It was the easiest way to hookup with women back in my frat days too Doesn’t help that a lot of women’s advice endorses love bombing to show that he puts in “effort” despite it being the exact opposite lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 02:17 PM
1	CMV: common fantasies of the opposite sex ≠ unspoken truths Sometimes those fantasies can be unspoken desires and sometimes they aren’t If those fantasies are constant recurring desires then they are likely an unspoken truth to some degree	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 02:08 PM
3	Men are delusional about how many bad men are out there they turn up that attention just enough to stand out but not scare a woman off That’s called showing interest and it has nothing to do with love bombing lol. My partner showed high interest when we met but she didn’t love bomb me And most guys who love bomb are very overt about it. Women (especially young women) enjoy love bombing and it’s easy to do. If you know the signs it’s easy to avoid the vast majority of time	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 03:26 AM
2	Too many men see selfishness as normal masculine behavior and it results in loneliness (amongst other things). only 1/4 of the American people voted for Trump You realize this only substantiates his point, right? 1/4 voted for Trump, little less than 1/4 voted for Harris, and 1/2 of the country doesn’t feel strongly about either candidate. This means most young white women don’t care Reddit, social media and these online dating shows does skew far to the left so in this specific context it’s valid, but most white women in real life don’t care	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/25 02:21 PM
4	Men are delusional about how many bad men are out there Love bombing and genuine interest can look exactly the same Love bombing and genuine interest are diametrically opposed to each other. Showering a person you barely know with affection and gifts is not genuine; it indicates they have ulterior motives Sometimes love bombers may also feign genuine interest but they’re still a crimson red flag to avoid	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/25 06:59 AM
–	Does the child deep inside you still find women enchanting? Women are attracted to a small percentage of men, but I don’t think they’re all that much pickier than men when it comes to what they look for in a partner though I slept with enough attractive women to know a lot of them are messy and being in a relationship with them would be miserable. Physical attraction is important for sure, but it’s just surface level and only a small part of who you are	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/25 08:07 PM
–	Does the child deep inside you still find women enchanting? I grew out of that when I started dating women; you realize women really are just people. They eat, fart and sleep like everybody else and are just as flawed as men I can walk by an attractive woman and recognize she’s pretty but that’s it	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/25 07:38 PM
4	Men are delusional about how many bad men are out there Stop falling for lovebombing then Bingo. This should be said way louder Women know love bombing is bad, but I’ve noticed a lot of the advice women give other women is that poorly veiled love bombing is good lol A man spending money on you or blowing up your phone doesn’t mean he’s genuinely interested in you, but a lot of women are unfortunately not taught that or the dating advice they get is antithetical to that. Establishing a genuine connection takes time and effort, and a lot of people don’…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/25 07:31 PM
1	Is it true that men want monogamy and family more than women, or is that a false narrative here? This checks out. Men used to cheat a lot more than women before dating apps blew up, then women began cheating a lot more and equalized the gap lol Doesn’t mean having options always means they’ll cheat obviously or that you should be paranoid, but having a lot of good options will always give people the extra temptation to be unfaithful	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/25 07:18 PM
6	Why do you think women want to talk to men? This sounds like such a chronically online take lol I know Reddit is filled with socially introverted women, but most women in real life (nearly 80%) are fine with being approached in the right setting. Just be respectful about it	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/25 06:22 PM
–	How is a man the 'leader' in a relationship? Not marrying early or being financially dependent is good advice, but you can get that from women in healthy relationships too Just like how manosphere sometimes giving genuinely good advice doesn’t negate their warped views of relationships either	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/25 05:59 PM
–	How is a man the 'leader' in a relationship? Forming opinions on relationships from bitter women with failed/struggling relationships doesn’t sound like a good idea It’s the same trap guys fall for with the manosphere	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/25 05:47 PM
3	Why do you think women want to talk to men? This matches with my experiences. Most women are fine with being approached if you’re respectful about it	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/25 05:41 PM
3	Why do women not care about consent? Yeah, it’s not taken as seriously and you tend to get made fun or considered “less of a man” for it by women And to be fair, men aren’t innocent here either. We’re 100% guilty of not taking each other’s stories as seriously as women do with other women. It’s getting better, but “you’re so lucky dude” still isn’t an uncommon response	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/25 03:58 PM
2	The world does not cater to male sexuality. There’s definitely hardcore erotica that I’d call porn The ones with sporadic sex scenes but try to tell a story is probably not, but the ones where the premise is sexual and half of the book is graphic, detailed kinky sex is 100% porn no matter how female goners online try to spin it lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/25 03:27 PM
5	How is a man the 'leader' in a relationship? Most women haven’t been “typically” doing all of that by themselves since the 1950s lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/25 03:18 PM
3	How is a man the 'leader' in a relationship? I don’t know if you have kids, but education is a small part of what kids are taught. You need to instill morales, values and life lessons	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/25 03:07 PM
0	The world does not cater to male sexuality. I would argue that it’s not erotica. I’m not sure what you’re talking about specifically, but Barnes and Nobles explicitly has erotica lol Now, I actually agree romance novels are very broad and shouldn’t always get lumped in with erotica. A lot of women do consume erotica though (many of the best selling romance novels are erotica), and it doesn’t play into the narrative that we exclusively cater to male sexuality	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/25 01:15 PM
4	The world does not cater to male sexuality. I know this subreddit will pretend otherwise for obvious reasons, but erotica and a lot of romance novels are absolutely soft porn lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/25 01:06 PM
5	Why do women not care about consent? Most rapists are definitely men, but I feel sexual assault stats are a lot closer than people think Men getting groped or touched without their consent at clubs or raves is very common if you’re relatively attractive. You can’t really push them off or tell them off either since you’ll be the bad guy there	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/25 12:56 PM
3	The world does not cater to male sexuality. I wouldn’t say it’s rare at all, but I’ve noticed when women say this they’re either talking about media from decades ago, or the “sexualized woman” is just an attractive woman existing lol Also ignoring how men are being sexualized a lot more recently	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/25 12:42 PM
–	Women do give great advice when men actually listen….and dont lie about their intentions. This is the best post in this thread. Women know the qualities they find attractive but not how to develop them. If you ask most women detailed advice how to achieve a toned body, how to improve their social skills or how to pick up women it’s always very broad answers. We all know tall, muscular men with great social skills and a huge dick gets women, but how do we get there? And I’d ask a successful man over women any day To be fair, I don’t think men’s advice for women is that much better and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/25 12:23 AM
5	A womans lack of effort is not a sign for you to try harder. Nah, this ain’t it. I’ve seen men drop a lot of money on fancy dinner dates and invest so much time for nothing — only for her to go home with another guy who bought her a Wendy’s 4 for 4 bag Even if your persistence wins her over is it really worth it? Maybe for casual relationships maybe but never for anything longterm. I know I can’t take any woman like that seriously	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/25 12:00 AM
8	Q4M: what makes a woman not marriage material? Bad hygiene being so common with women was something I was honestly surprised about. I read that 40% of women don’t even shower daily lol A lot of attractive women are surprisingly stinky and really messy. Many men will overlook it at first, but it does become a huge turn off in a relationship	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/25 08:46 PM
3	This is the worst decade to be dating. It’s not really a false comparison. People have used “bad experiences” to justify prejudice against us all the time If you’ve been sexually assaulted by a man or had a lot of bad experiences with black people so you’re extra cautious I get it, as long as you’re not openly encouraging it or calling them dangerous	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/25 08:29 PM
2	This is the worst decade to be dating. Eh, if she’s keeping it to herself I get it and I wouldn’t call that man hating. It is a bit sexist but women are more vulnerable so being extra wary of men is understandable. My ex wasn’t man hating at all but she never wanted to leave the parking lot alone for similar reasons If she’s vocally expressing these sentiments and telling other women to do it because “men are dangerous” then I’d agree with you. My bar is probably higher than yours here	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/25 07:34 PM
4	This is the worst decade to be dating. I must be lucky because I rarely see these man-hating women outside of the internet lol There were some in college that I hooked up with, but even it was mostly light. Felt like most women grew out of it after college from my experience, and I’ve never seen them throughout my corporate career	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/25 07:23 PM
0	This is the worst decade to be dating. You’re conflating friendships with relationships My partner is my best friend now, but we weren’t best friends when we were dating. I know some people can’t date people unless they’re close friends, but for most people there’s an intimate element that you cant get with friendships. And best friends don’t always make a good fit for a relationship either	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/25 05:58 PM
1	This is the worst decade to be dating. I mean yeah, it’s weird if you look at it from a surface view lol I know men and women on this subreddit hates the other gender, but in real life they enjoy their company even if they don’t always want to be best friends with them	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/25 05:04 PM
1	This is the worst decade to be dating. Yet married men and women seem to always want to spend time with their gender segregated groups of friends. Guys usually get along with and have more in common with other guys, and women usually get along with and have more in common with other women. Just because I get along with guys more doesn’t mean you want to date them lol And I know this subreddit will think otherwise for obvious reasons, but it’s also a bit weird to have very close friends of the opposite gender when you’re married. I ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/25 04:52 PM
–	Women expanded their gender role to include what women traditionally do and what men traditionally do. A lot of men are rejected by society because they dont want to do anything The Millennial men who have reproduced are much more involved in childcare than any generation of men before then. You’re not wrong, but this isn’t entirely true either Married men are more involved in childcare than past generations. There’s a still a fatherless epidemic from men who pump and dump women or want nothing to do with their children who are still doing it. Shitty men still have no problems reproducing unfortunately I think the bar is definitely higher for relationships with women no…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/25 04:29 PM
1	Not wanting to date someone is not oppression How does a man being weird with you at work has anything to do with criticizing men’s standards lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/25 12:45 AM
–	Men have massive egos and because of this it clouds their judgment on dating dynamics. the women who are more likely to cheat are women who have FOMO from being less sexually experienced than others. If you know anything about cheaters, they’ll always blame anything convenient for their actions. If it wasn’t FOMO, it’d be because of something else that made them cheat so I’d take this with a grain of salt. It’s like when abusers say “if you didn’t do X, it wouldn’t have happened” A lack of character causes people to cheat and it has nothing to do with FOMO, and if she’s that much …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/25 12:18 AM
–	Men have massive egos and because of this it clouds their judgment on dating dynamics. My ex wore makeup at home often. She told me how she enjoys feeling pretty for herself even if nobody else see’s it, so there’s definitely women out there it applies to I’m not really buying it from the women who lounge around all the time in baggy tshirt, sweats and no makeup when nobody’s watching, but if it makes them feel better I’m all for it	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 11:57 PM
–	Men have massive egos and because of this it clouds their judgment on dating dynamics. Maybe, theres prob gray area with this example specifically. I agree men who wear stilts (usually) do it out of insecurity, but there’s no difference between that and women who wear push up bras or padded butts lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 11:49 PM
1	The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy. In my experience, the majority of men who successfully date younger men are pretty much just guys who like to go out a lot, at least, not in any hurry to have a family. That’s been my observation too; they’re the guys you see in their 30s and 40s at clubs and raves. I’m far removed from the scene now but it wasn’t uncommon to see. Most of their relationships were strictly casual or short term The 40 year old basement dwellers losers that target anxious, insecure Reddit women that’s being describ…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 09:25 PM
1	The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy. Nothing in my post is discounting anybody’s experience Incels have personal experiences with women which are equally valid, but it doesn’t change the fact that a lot of them express revenge fantasies Personal experiences are always valid, the conclusions you make from them aren’t	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 06:06 PM
1	The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy. Yeah they’re not beating the revenge fantasy allegations in this thread lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 05:46 PM
1	The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy. No, normally they don’t. If you lead with money like a loser, they do How exactly do you do that? Go on a chill first few dates (I did ice cream, hiking and coffee dates with my partner until the fifth one), go 50/50 sometimes, don’t do anything extravagant until you’re exclusive and she’s earned your trust I feel like it’s also very intuitive if a woman just wants your money if you’re socially calibrated and have experience	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 05:06 PM
9	When men say they cant be vulnerable, they mean they cant wallow in self pity 24/7 and get pity sex as treatment. Moderation in this subreddit is pretty bad lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 04:58 PM
1	The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy. Women use money in their own age group and toss them aside as well so I’m not sure the point you’re making here is lol Regardless of age group you have to be vetting women properly and not lead with money if you want something serious	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 04:55 PM
4	The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy. The backlash is also just from terminally online weirdos. I can say with 100% confidence nobody in their personal life actually cares lol Unless the gap is like 30 years, most people in the real world don’t care about age gap relationships	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 04:48 PM
14	The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy. Charlize Theron is 50 and she was bragging about hooking up with a guy in his mid 20s, and the same subreddit that was calling Leo a creep for years were yass queening her lol I don’t actually care about either since they’re all consenting adults, but there’s definitely a double standard when it comes to older men dating “helpless” young women and older women dating younger guys	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 04:34 PM
–	Women lie on men all the time and nothing happens to them Agreed. It’s a hard discussion to have because there are unfortunately a lot of women who are raped, and their assaulter rarely gets a harsh sentences (and that’s if they get convicted) so it feels very unfair to them. A lot of women feel the court of public opinion is necessary because of this, and while most women are honest there are still bad actors. For guys, you can have your life ruined with absolutely no evidence and all it takes is one scorned woman to do so and it can be really scary I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 04:27 PM
–	Women do care about men’s issues….. when it’s not sex related. The findings were that boys (and students of color) were punished harsher for the same level of disruptive behavior so I don’t know why you’re creating made-up scenarios to validate your beliefs. Same reason why men (and minorities) are sentenced longer than women for the same crimes The fact that your first assumption after hearing this is to blame boys instead of considering any institutionalized biases or underlying factors says enough	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/25 10:10 PM
–	Women do care about men’s issues….. when it’s not sex related. Boys are more likely to get punished than girls for the same problem behaviors so this surface-level analysis doesn’t track. It also doesn’t explain why the discrepancy is growing in the last few decades so your reasoning is insufficient regardless I do agree that single parent households is a contributing factor — boys suffer more from fatherlessness than girls do. Most boys (and girls) that go to juvie and get in the most trouble are from single mother households after all	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/25 09:13 PM
13	Women lie on men all the time and nothing happens to them I don’t think men should be afraid of being convicted for false charges because that is exceeding rare if you’re innocent, but it’s the false rumors that gets spread online and social circles without any proof that’s scary You can be on the other side of the country when she claims it happened, and while it would get thrown out in court it gets treated as gospel by public opinion. Never had a false accusation but I had a woman make up a malicious rumor because I ghosted her, and I realized you r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/25 08:21 PM
–	Women do care about men’s issues….. when it’s not sex related. Even if I grant you that (and I am inclined to believe boys are slightly more sexist now), the large majority of disciplinary behavior comes from fighting, attendance and drugs not rape jokes. Boys were punished more harshly for the same behavior as women, just like our justice system sentences men harsher sentences than we do for women The gap between boys and girls has also been persistent for at least two decades, long before Andrew Tate and the manosphere’s rise in 2021 so this factor is bei…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/25 08:00 PM
–	Women do care about men’s issues….. when it’s not sex related. Right after postulating how much she cares about men, she couldn’t even make it 2 posts in before saying these young boys need to pull themselves up from their boot straps and do better lol This subreddit is honestly a blast to scroll through in moderation	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/25 04:30 PM
–	Women do care about men’s issues….. when it’s not sex related. What’s different, is that girls are now surpassing boys. They are surpassing the original “bar” so to speak that was set by boys. Slight correction, boys are also doing slightly better than previous generations. Kids should be doing better than previous generations as we make academic advancements. Girls are just outpacing boys a lot more in that regard That said, I’m not sure how this is supposed to be a meaningful distinction for this conversation. One gender stagnating while the other is impr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/25 04:12 PM
–	Women do care about men’s issues….. when it’s not sex related. I can say with confidence the punishment gap isn’t because there’s an army of boys making rape jokes lmao. If you genuinely think this you should touch some grass And if we’re using anecdotes, my friend used to be an assistant teacher and she observed how girls were given verbal warnings far more than boys were for similar behavior, while boys were more likely to escalate	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/25 04:03 PM
–	Women do care about men’s issues….. when it’s not sex related. boys proportionately have behavioral problems Boys are also punished harsher than girls for disruptive behavior, which very likely plays a factor And if it was that simple, it doesn’t explain how the discrepancy has only really creeped up in the last decade or two	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/25 03:51 PM
–	Women do care about men’s issues….. when it’s not sex related. There was a thread here a while back that was about the discrepancy about boys and girls in school, and a lot of women here were dismissive, it’s the boys faults, or saying “that’s just how it’s meant to be” lol I do think women are empathetic if a man (she cares about) shares his struggles or personal trauma, but I don’t think most women actually care about men’s issues aside from maybe mental health recently To be fair, I don’t think men care much about women’s issues either. I don’t see why w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/25 03:42 PM
2	Men complain about being unsuccessful but then limit their pool in the most ridiculous way another extreme You should read my post again, more slowly I explicitly said you shouldn’t be an asshole or put zero effort into women. Most men who don’t get matches are not putting zero effort in. If shes not showing high interest from the start then shes not worth putting effort into As a man with plenty of experience with a ton of different women from OLD, i think I know how this works a little more than how one woman who uses OLD thinks lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/25 03:36 PM
2	Men complain about being unsuccessful but then limit their pool in the most ridiculous way The men limiting their pool by not putting effort. Effort is not what’s limiting these guys from getting dates lol I’ve seen countless examples of men spending a lot of money on dinners and investing in women barely interested in them only for them to link up with a different guy who bought them a Wendy’s 4x4 bag lmao I’m not saying do the absolute bare minimum or be an asshole, but if a woman likes you she’ll make it very easy. And if she doesn’t, I can say with confidence she’s not worth the e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/25 03:25 PM
1	Men complain about being unsuccessful but then limit their pool in the most ridiculous way Yeah, OLD is straight up not possible for a lot of man. It’s hard for women to understand this because you can get a ton of matches regardless of how busted you look — an average guy gets one match per week on dating apps The best advice is to push these men to date offline. It’s a lot harder, but some of those women who would’ve swiped left could be interested in real life and the quality tends to be much higher	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/25 03:15 PM
-1	The way women and BluePillers on here talk about "men" and what they have to offer women in relationships doesn’t make sense according to how women themselves idealize, seek, & rationalize romantic relationships. I agree with you that taking precautions before intimately inviting people in your life is important. I don’t blame women (or anybody) for being cautious around men or women they don’t know That’s a bit different than the “men should be assumed to be evil until proven otherwise” mindset that OP is discussing though	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/25 09:09 PM
10	The way women and BluePillers on here talk about "men" and what they have to offer women in relationships doesn’t make sense according to how women themselves idealize, seek, & rationalize romantic relationships. There’s a big difference between taking basic safety precautions in your everyday life and assuming every man and woman you meet is a violent killer or a gold digging hoe who wants to ruin your life lol I’m cautious of men (and women) I’m not familiar with because I know they could be dangerous, but I’m also cognizant of the fact that most people aren’t evil That said, I know everybody has their own experiences so I don’t blame them for being extra cautious and assuming the absolute worst of peo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/25 08:35 PM
2	Men will absolutely do things that do not benefit them. They want to turn the hot guy into something serious. I think this applies sometimes, but from my experience a lot of them are just down for a hookupwhile looking for something serious with somebody else Most women nowadays aren’t dumb enough to believe having sex with a hot guy will keep him hooked lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/25 08:00 PM
5	The way women and BluePillers on here talk about "men" and what they have to offer women in relationships doesn’t make sense according to how women themselves idealize, seek, & rationalize romantic relationships. It’s really no different than manosphere dudes saying women aren’t worth their time but choosing to pursue relationships with them — of course the woman they choose is the “good one” and not reflective of women as a whole Those guys are often criticized by women here but I’ve observed a lot of women here share a similar mindset to them I agree men definitely shouldn’t care about the “collective men” that women complain about. Your qualities might be the complaint of one woman but also be desired…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/25 07:51 PM
1	The hatred for womens romance novels is insanely stupid and hypocritical. Yeah I have to agree here. It’s really weird how the same women who demonize porn/men openly showing their interest in it will also openly flaunt their interest in softcore porn lol I don’t have “hatred” for romance novels (my partner reads them sometimes), but I look at said women the same way they look at gooners. It’s really weird but I’m not losing sleep over it	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/25 07:37 PM
5	How MAGA Hijacked The Manosphere! Young men are souring on Trump so it’s already happening, but the problem is young men still view the Democratic Party very unfavorably. If Trump somehow runs a third term it’ll likely go very poorly for him, but it doesn’t mean young men will start voting blue in general All Republicans need to do is run a reasonable center-right candidate in 2028 to get young men back, while Dems need to completely rebrand their image before 2028	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/25 12:34 AM
5	How MAGA Hijacked The Manosphere! The right hijacked the manosphere because the left doesn’t care about young men at all, so they took the opportunity to appeal to their insecurities by pretending like they and making them feel heard. It’s pretty straightforward Also I don’t think there’s an epidemic of former hoes turning to Jesus. I can say with 100% confidence it’s just a fringe internet phenomenon lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/25 09:11 PM
1	Emotionally immature men typically join the Manosphere. I thought this thread was made because you care about addressing the toxicity that goes on in social media and these toxic spaces, because you obviously can’t fix one without the other If you just want to complain about the men and the manosphere that’s valid and I won’t hold you lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/25 08:42 PM
4	Emotionally immature men typically join the Manosphere. The MANosphere Maybe I didn’t make it obvious enough; my point is this is a pointlessly gendered post because a very significant part of your post can be gender flipped. Women focused dating content is obscenely toxic and filled with emotionally immature people as well. There’s grifters that profit off misery to drive engagement	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/25 08:23 PM
2	Emotionally immature men typically join the Manosphere. It’s not really a gender thing. Most people who engage in these forms of content are people already struggling with the other gender and more likely to be already bitter and emotionally immature It’s a big reason why red pill and pink pill content on TikTok tends to be so toxic	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/25 08:08 PM
1	I'm questioning something I learned from the red pill. It's about red flags. it is a snapchat of their current relationship status Yes, and they should be roughly equal in theory. The fact that tatted women consistently report being engaged in casual relationships indicates they have a higher proclivity to doing so (which you acknowledged) The original poster said tatted women are more “loose” and you shouldn’t commit to them. And if you define loose as being more likely to engage in casual relationships then the data shows it Like I said, I don’t entirely agree with the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/25 07:51 PM
1	I'm questioning something I learned from the red pill. It's about red flags. the relationship status breakdown doesn’t really support your allegation either. I haven’t read the study, but your image shows tattooed women are indeed engaging in more casual relationships? Albeit not a significant degree but more likely like he said Granted, most women have at least 1 tattoo nowadays so I don’t think it’s the best indicator in itself like it was in the 80s; even innocent women get little tats now. I’d definitely like to see a study with lots of tats and weird piercings and s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/25 07:32 PM
3	Marriage doesn't make Men the happiest group because they are married No idea if you’ve done research on this topic (probably not), but women are more neurotic than men are. Men and women’s brains are wired differently with pros and cons for both, and women consistently shown to be more focused on tiny details compared to men. Hence my point about hours work not being a reliable metric Also the burden of proof that women actually do more tasks is on the person making the claim, not me	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/25 04:54 PM
4	Marriage doesn't make Men the happiest group because they are married Regardless of how you feel on this topic I’d have to agree Back in college I spent less time on my homework and assignments than my peers and still received high marks, but it doesn’t mean I did any less work than them Women are more neurotic about tasks than men are so it could very well be them taking more time to do the same tasks. It’s definitely interesting how we don’t have any (?) studies that breaks down household duties by assignment instead of hours work	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/25 02:12 PM
2	Men hate women who like bad men but don't care about those bad men. And that means they hate women not for "bad choices" but for not choosing them. Most people can’t put on a fake persona longterm — I can say with confidence most abusers aren’t the charming Ted Bundy archetype lol It’s a difficult discussion to have because you can’t just list out qualities to avoid and have it work 100% of the time — people aren’t as rigid. It really is a vibe thing that (I find) most well adjusted people intuitively have, but I can sympathize with those who don’t The well adjusted men and women in my life have little trouble finding decent enough women an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/25 05:53 PM
3	Men hate women who like bad men but don't care about those bad men. And that means they hate women not for "bad choices" but for not choosing them. Yeah, men who choose gold diggers are absolutely clowned on by other men. That’s probably the worst example you can use here lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/25 05:42 PM
1	Are the men better now or 10 years ago? Studies I've seen says that it's mutual between the genders, at least for GenZ Perception may be skewed from the vocal whiny men online whining about attention from women, but anecdotally and most studies seem to indicate there's not a big gap between the genders. Most just aren't whining about it	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/25 03:07 AM
3	Are the men better now or 10 years ago? Statistically, men are doing much more housework, involved in childcare and more empathetic now than they were 10 years ago so they're much better in that regard. That said, I think a lot more men now are losers so it's worse there tbh For better or worse, women's standards are a lot higher now so it might not feel that way	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/25 02:47 AM
2	Situationship is a term made up by women to make themselves feel better about being used for sex There’s definitely some wisdom that can be gleamed from older folks for sure, but you just can’t understand all the little nuances unless you actually experience it OLD has completely changed in the last decade from the early Tinder days to now. In 20 years, I’ll give my best dating advice to my children with my experience, but I’m also not delusional enough to pretend I understand everything lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/25 02:41 PM
0	Situationship is a term made up by women to make themselves feel better about being used for sex Here’s a crazy concept, maybe you and those red pill grifters are both out-of-touch with the younger generation and their language	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/25 11:56 PM
3	Situationship is a term made up by women to make themselves feel better about being used for sex My partner wanted us to be official on the 3rd date and it was refreshing to avoid all that uncertainty And I agree dating is a lot more complicated now. Doesn’t help that people are a lot more fearful of commitment and scared to communicate their feelings first I get the confusion for sure, but it’s still funny how men and women in their late 30s/40s who don’t use much if any social media think they know how the young generation uses language lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/25 11:51 PM
2	Situationship is a term made up by women to make themselves feel better about being used for sex Yes, the term was only colloquially coined a few years ago but the concept has been around forever From my experience, most people who actually talk and complain about situationships share a very similar definition. Only confusion seems to be from older people who only vaguely heard of it online To be clear, I’m not saying there aren’t some gray areas and every single situationship is the same, but most people share a very similar definition	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/25 11:11 PM
2	Situationship is a term made up by women to make themselves feel better about being used for sex If neither wanted or tried to date each other then it’s obviously a FWB; neither is stringing the other around. I’m not sure what’s so hard for people to understand Feelings sometimes surfacing during FWBs doesn’t change that	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/25 10:52 PM
3	Situationship is a term made up by women to make themselves feel better about being used for sex I already have a girlfriend and I don’t want to replace her or have two. I feel this could be a big reason People catch feelings from FWBs because they feel something more is there or developed since the arrangement was made, but if you’re already in a happy relationship it’s a different dynamic since there’s far less “uncertainly” involved Also I hear people in the poly scene are a lot less likely to catch feelings too but I could be wrong there	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/25 10:41 PM
11	Situationship is a term made up by women to make themselves feel better about being used for sex If you ever needed a reminder that the average PPD poster is in their late 30s-40s just look at this thread lmao Explaining the difference between FWBs and situationships feels like explaining to your mom why you can’t pause your online match as a kid	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/25 10:33 PM
10	Situationship is a term made up by women to make themselves feel better about being used for sex I was surprised by how many women told me they never got aftercare and how most guys just tossed them out after finishing You either be an asshole and feel bad, or be a good person and be accused of playing with their emotions lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/25 09:21 PM
12	Situationship is a term made up by women to make themselves feel better about being used for sex Man that last part is so real lol It felt like I had to be a fuckboy and selfish in bed for FWBs to work without feelings getting caught and it felt a little gross having to do that It doesn’t matter how transparent you are, some women (and men too) will always manage to rationalize FWBs as being something more in their heads	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/25 09:13 PM
1	What is your ideal partner like? My partner is pretty feminine. She’s puts a lot of effort into her appearance and is good at (most lol) of the traditionally feminine stuff, but she’s also assertive at work and her personal life She would need to enrich my life by bringing support, stability, good vibes, great sex, and just being somebody I can trust We actually didn’t have too many hobbies in common when we first met. I was more into physical activities and gaming and she liked fashion, concerts and artsy stuff but we’ve picke…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/25 08:58 PM
–	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 It really depends on the niche because some niches are much more attractive than others Being a pretty boy that sings, plays music and being a little in touch of with your feminine side is by far the best niche you can have as a man imo	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/25 08:34 PM
–	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 Yeah it’s unfortunate seeing so many careers ruined because they make bad decisions with women A lot of them are very young and getting swarm with attention and validation from models trying to use their money and influence. I feel women are taught from a young age to be wary of men taking advantage but these guys need a course like that too	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/25 02:11 PM
–	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 Pretty boys were always popular tbh I was in choir for a brief period and those guys were linking up with so many attractive women it was insane. They’re a little more niche but the women who do like it go feral for it from my experience	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/25 02:08 PM
5	Why do you guys insist that a woman's income and career doesn't matter, while also complaining about women "settling" for stable providers? There’s actually a lot of men who’d be down for a SAHD arrangement but most women don’t want that Men report wanting to spend more time with their children at historic highs so this isn’t the gotcha you think it is	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/25 01:59 PM
–	Women aren't going to drastically change their lifestyle so that someday you might want to marry them. Yes, there’s a big difference between a woman who has sex for fun recreationally and a woman who has sex transactionally and shares it with the public Not to say there aren’t a lot of promiscuous women with issues and trauma — promiscuity is linked to BPD and other antisocial personality disorders. There’s still just a lot of normal men and women that sleep around whereas sex workers almost universally have severe issues	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/25 04:45 PM
–	Women aren't going to drastically change their lifestyle so that someday you might want to marry them. But why does this part matter specifically? A lot of sex workers have severe mental illnesses and trauma that makes landing a good, healthy relationship hard. A lot of them develop warped feelings of men and relationships in general There’s a lot of normal women (and men) that can be good partners after sleeping around but sex workers are a different beast There’s also a lot of women who aren’t transparent about it I don’t disagree with you here. I don’t think most men and women care unless the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/25 04:05 PM
–	Women aren't going to drastically change their lifestyle so that someday you might want to marry them. I think women are definitely more independent for sure, but no matter what introverted Reddit folks tell you — most people still desire relationships. Relationship data for women and the rise of women’s dating groups paint a pretty objective picture here that a lot of women still want relationships Perhaps there’ll be a shift as the older generations phase out and the current generation gets older, but I honestly doubt the data will change dramatically	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/25 02:55 PM
–	Women aren't going to drastically change their lifestyle so that someday you might want to marry them. To be fair, Mia Khalifa has trouble locking down a man because she’s a mentally ill and a sex worker lol There’s a lot of women that slept around in college and didn’t have much trouble locking down a decent enough man, but those women are usually fairly attractive and a decent partner I used to sleep around a lot back in college and managed to date a high quality trad woman. Most people in the real world don’t care if you sleep around if you’re a high quality partner	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/25 02:43 PM
–	Memoir: Kamala Harris: I Lost Young Men to the Manosphere I don’t understand this logic in any way. Because you’re still misinterpreting what I’m saying Dems are and have always been safe politicians that won’t rock the boat. Trump, even in his first term created chaos. It didn’t manifest in the same crazy ways as this term because he didn’t have sycophants around him and they actually kept him in check Like I said I disagree with the idea, but if I’m someone who’s already struggling and feeling ignored in the Biden era and his VP now presidential nomi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/25 01:14 AM
–	Memoir: Kamala Harris: I Lost Young Men to the Manosphere Trump wasn’t a wildcard in 2024 You misunderstand what I mean by wildcard. Harris was a known quantity in every regard, especially once she said she was picking up where Biden left off If you struggled under the Biden admin it wouldn’t get any better under Harris. Meanwhile there’s a small percentage chance Trump does something insane and makes things better. I think it’s really silly logic, but I’ve heard this repeated a lot and I understand it to some extent She was not the lesser of two evils…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/25 11:24 PM
–	Memoir: Kamala Harris: I Lost Young Men to the Manosphere The worst effects of Covid and inflation happened under Biden so it’s perceived that way, yes It’s not Biden’s fault and it would’ve happened to literally any president, but we’re discussing the perception to average voters who aren’t deep into politics like presumably you and I	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/25 09:52 PM
–	Memoir: Kamala Harris: I Lost Young Men to the Manosphere Men were struggling under Trump A lot of people were doing very well under Trump pre-Covid during his first term It’s not because of him but rather inheriting an already booming economy from Obama, but that’s just untrue by nearly every objective metric	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/25 09:47 PM
–	Memoir: Kamala Harris: I Lost Young Men to the Manosphere I definitely agree men would be better off with Harris purely because one is neutral and the other is a net negative, but you’re looking at it a little too logically for an average voter Men were struggling under Biden and Harris didn’t differentiate herself from him. I think it’s goofy to think this way, but I can see the logic behind voting for the “wildcard” to possibly shake things up for the better People vote out of self-interest. Women voted for Harris because she directly appealed to the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/25 09:39 PM
–	Memoir: Kamala Harris: I Lost Young Men to the Manosphere Bad take, no group enjoys being demonized The fact that so many women (rightfully) hate the manosphere and their mean spirited rhetoric towards their gender is indicative of this. It would be crazy to expect women to vote for any kind of person like that in power Dems can push positive messaging while being inclusive of all genders and races equally	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/25 09:16 PM
1	The horde of women lusting over the full-frontal scene in House of Guinness proves that size does matter. just because you sleep with women that enjoy pain It should feel pleasurable way more than the tingle of pain. The other guy even provided data that a non-negligible amount of women genuinely enjoys the gentle cervix stimulation I’m describing The fact that you compared it to being punched in the gut indicates you’re clearly not part of that demographic, which is fine. You don’t speak for every woman though	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/25 09:06 PM
–	Memoir: Kamala Harris: I Lost Young Men to the Manosphere Young men in general are also cooling on Trump too so that’s good, but the bad news is they hate the Democratic Party even more I don’t think Dems are in anywhere near as bad of a position as people claim, but they’ll need to do pull some big image rebrands before 2028	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/25 09:03 PM
–	Memoir: Kamala Harris: I Lost Young Men to the Manosphere She didn’t lose them to the manosphere; the Dems just didn’t even try to win them over lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/25 08:50 PM
-2	The horde of women lusting over the full-frontal scene in House of Guinness proves that size does matter. A woman enjoying pain doesn’t mean it’s not painful? You should read my post again, more slowly. I said a lot of women enjoy the pleasure/pain sensation not that there’s no pain involved Comparing getting punched in the stomach to gentle cervix stimulation is certainly a choice	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/25 08:35 PM
–	The horde of women lusting over the full-frontal scene in House of Guinness proves that size does matter. but have multiple woman asked for it. Like explicitly and repeatedly. A few times during dirty talk with size queens, but I won’t lie and say it was super common or anything. Obviously I had more women explicitly asking for oral but I’m not saying you should skimp on that at all Like I said in another comment, “punching” her cervix is very bad. Gently prodding and massaging it sensually usually had pretty good reception from women afterwards	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/25 08:24 PM
1	The horde of women lusting over the full-frontal scene in House of Guinness proves that size does matter. Those women only having experience with men who don’t care about their pleasure shows more about themselves than the nature of men Yeah you can gleam a lot by the comments people make here. It’s pretty clear their only experience (if any) is with guys who just soullessly pound with little foreplay by the way they describe it And to be fair, I hear a lot of bigger guys are like that from women in my social circle and it does hurt them and is actually a shitty experience if you’re doing it like th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/25 08:14 PM
–	The horde of women lusting over the full-frontal scene in House of Guinness proves that size does matter. and not suck on their clit? I’m starting to question if people here are actually having sex because you can obviously do both lol Just because I enjoy penetration more doesn’t mean I don’t enjoy receiving oral sex too, it’s not one or the other	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/25 07:57 PM
–	The horde of women lusting over the full-frontal scene in House of Guinness proves that size does matter. You’re speaking solely from your own experience and I’m speaking from the experiences of multiple partners I’ve been with expressing their enjoyment when done right Just sounds like selection bias on your part	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/25 07:45 PM
–	The horde of women lusting over the full-frontal scene in House of Guinness proves that size does matter. It’s definitely interesting how women here criticize men here for speaking for their experiences (which is a valid complaint) while also speaking for men’s sexual experiences lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/25 06:22 PM
–	The horde of women lusting over the full-frontal scene in House of Guinness proves that size does matter. I’ve probably been with a quite a few more women than you have. Just because you don’t enjoy the pain/pleasure sensation (which is valid) doesn’t mean women in real life don’t	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/25 06:06 PM
–	The horde of women lusting over the full-frontal scene in House of Guinness proves that size does matter. I promise you a lot of women enjoyed having their cervix being poked lol If you’re jackhammering her cervix with it then it’ll obvious hurt more it feeling pleasurable, but if you’re being sensual and careful many of them love it	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/25 05:38 PM
–	The horde of women lusting over the full-frontal scene in House of Guinness proves that size does matter. I’m surprised this is still even a discussion tbh Take a look at any women’s group chat; if any of them are even remotely sexual active you’ll see them bragging about big dicks all the time Women love bigger guys, but being average isn’t a dealbreaker for most women either	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/25 05:35 PM
1	Do you think women's standard for a partner is bad? No, I said those aren’t high standards. Just because those aren’t high standards doesn’t mean they’re reasonable standards for every single man Depending on where you live and your age groups, those qualities aren’t high standards for a woman at all. At the same time, if I’m a 40 year old fat loser who still lives with his mom, that would be an unreasonable standard for me despite those qualities still not being a high standard for women	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/25 05:29 PM
3	The advice that “men need to stop showing interest in order to actually attract women” only works for certain top % men. It’s horrible advice and a catch 22 situation. how I like them and want to continue seeing them, it has resulted in poor outcomes - lack of interest. There’s a difference between showing no interest and coming on too strong. Women here will tell you otherwise for obvious reasons, but a lot of women don’t want a guy who yearns for her first or so early. She’ll give you obvious signs when she’s ready for it It’s unfortunate, but dating in the early stages works far better as a man if you’re a little distant instead of a little clingy. If she s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/25 04:27 PM
9	Does virgin-shaming exist? Yeah this is a good example. When people think of ‘virgin shaming’ they think it’s solely about making direct, mean comments. It happens sometimes, but with women it’s a lot more subtle and insidious like you’re describing — their attitude towards you just flips entirely and they lose the spark It’d be like if a woman told a man she had a past and he starts to give you a slow fade and loses interest. It’s not direct slut shaming but it’s very clearly present	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/25 02:13 PM
7	Does virgin-shaming exist? Funny enough, I was in a frat and played sports in college too so I know exactly the kind of men you’re talking about. I can only half-agree with this perspective though Most of them were normal but there were a vocal minority of guys who talked a lot of shit like you’re describing. These places have an intense dude bro culture that’s not really found anywhere else so it’s hardly reflective of men as a whole I’m sure you’re also aware there’s a lot of toxic women in sororities who frequent frat …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/25 02:05 PM
8	Men are cowards on abortion This is one of the many cases where people’s perspective are clouded by a minority of people on the internet Outside of staunch religious folks (which is exactly the same for both men and women) the only men against this are the vocal minority of sexless men you see online saying it to spite men. The vast majority of men are in favor of abortion	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/25 01:52 PM
2	Do you think women's standard for a partner is bad? Men think they get to be the judge and jury of what “reasonable” and “unreasonable standards” are. That’s not how that works. …You realize the person I responded to made her own judgment of what’s considered high standards for women right? You’re missing the point of this discussion You’re conflating reasonable standards and high standards. What’s considered “reasonable” standards is dependent on person-to-person, but what’s considered “high standard” is mostly static My post explicitly referenc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/25 02:21 AM
1	Female double standards regarding insecurity I think there’s a reasonable degree where it gets exhausting for any man, but I generally agree. Men have always been expected to reassure women tbh The viral “would you love me it I was a worm” question and all of its variations encapsulates it pretty well, and the fact that most men resonates with it and there not being any kind of gender flipped version speaks enough (And before the strawmans come I know it’s a silly question with an easy response, but think a little deeper by what we can gle…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/25 11:44 PM
1	Do you think women's standard for a partner is bad? Sure, some guys here think that but I don't think most women are raging hoes like some TRP figures claims. They definitely have access to casual sex but statistically most women have less than a handful of casual encounters in their lives You must live in a different area than I do because both young and old single women I know are dating and having hook ups and I know very, very few women who waited until their 40s to have kids. Most where I live if they didn’t fall pregnant in their late teens…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/25 10:57 PM
-1	Do you think women's standard for a partner is bad? Most women in the US are fat (so are men tbf) but most women absolutely are not fat in general lol. We don’t use absolute relativism for standards outside of genetic and economic outcomes Most women don’t sleep around, and most women don’t have kids until their 40s at earliest. Outside of being fat (40%~), a statistical majority of women meet these standards That’s like saying a woman wanting a 6’0 man inherently has high standards since that’s less than 20% of men. Or maybe you do think that, b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/25 10:32 PM
4	Do you think women's standard for a partner is bad? No, the way the post is being framed is those standards are genuinely high in the context of the first post First post is explicitly saying women shouldn’t be complaining when they have unreasonable standards such as “chasing top 10% of men” while the rebuttal was “then men shouldn’t be complaining about not getting thin, childless women who don’t sleep around” You can interpret it that way but it’s pretty obvious what’s being stated here	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/25 10:12 PM
7	Do you think women's standard for a partner is bad? I agree some men are equally guilty here with their standards, but are we really suggesting wanting a woman who’s not fat, no kids and isn’t a hoe is some kind of unreasonable high standard lmao Feels like the bare minimum for guys in my circle, but to each their own	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/25 09:43 PM
–	Men who ask a girl out asap are hated, men who start developing feelings after a full-fledged friendship are also hated and are seen as nothing but deceivers, so what's this goldilocks zone where the girl won't be put off by them? I agree men are easier to please, but honestly women are very easy to figure out when you get enough experience tbh The things that men have to do just requires much more effort than just food and sex, but the framework is pretty easy	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/25 08:43 PM
11	Do you think women's standard for a partner is bad? What makes men standards okay to have but women should change their standard? Nah, I received hate DMs by women here when I mentioned the standards I had when I was single so it’s not a gendered thing. Women have been pushing for a greater range of body standards and judging men for it for quite some time now. People in general want high standards for their gender but hate it when the other gender increases their standards But the answer to this topic has and will always been the same for me — m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/25 08:17 PM
–	Men who ask a girl out asap are hated, men who start developing feelings after a full-fledged friendship are also hated and are seen as nothing but deceivers, so what's this goldilocks zone where the girl won't be put off by them? Why should you care about what terminally online miserable women who probably don’t even like men thinks about you? Most normal women off the internet are indifferent at on this topic at beet I asked out women fairly quickly after getting choosing signals or matching with them on dating apps all the time and it worked out great. It’s not my style, but I know some guys who like the slow burn and that worked for them too Just do what feels natural — you’re not gonna get all (or nowhere near most) …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/25 08:07 PM
13	Would you date a very attractive girl who doesn't like sex? I think you guys are probably more concerned with showing off your partner than we are. Agreed. Didn’t realize until I expanded my social circle but every single woman I know (and my ex’s) who used dating apps always sends pictures of the guy they’re talking to in their girl’s group chat for approval first. You almost never see the inverse in guy’s group chats I do think a lot more guys care about appearance and their standards aren’t quite as low as they’re willing to admit, but they absolutely…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/25 05:21 PM
4	A woman ‘struggling to find a good man’ should not be a common issue. Yes, women have all this too but women MASK more. I agree with this. But masking mental disorders in public doesn’t make you a “good partner” at all because it all comes out in private at the end of the day Doesn’t matter how well your BPD girlfriend masks in public if she’s still neurotic when you get home; you’re still dealing with the same day-to-day issues	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/25 03:23 AM
8	A woman ‘struggling to find a good man’ should not be a common issue. Women actually commit DV just as much as men	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/25 03:18 AM
2	N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD For starters, most of these stories are glorified fan fiction and fantasies And even if they were true (because those types of people do exist), that’s just how people rationalize shitty behavior. If it wasn’t for “FOMO”, these women would’ve blamed a lack of attention from their partners or anything tangentially related and not being a terrible human being Breaking up with their partner to have fun I can understand, but if they were a shitty enough person to cheat on their partner they would’ve…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/25 02:55 AM
9	A woman ‘struggling to find a good man’ should not be a common issue. It does 100%. Men who complain about not getting a girlfriend and women who complain about “not finding a good man” are two sides of the same coin Most of the women in my social circle never struggled to find a decent enough guy when they actually started trying and put themselves out there. After a certain point I don’t think it’s just luck tbh	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/25 01:03 AM
0	”Women are freeloading and ungrateful” Your link doesn’t work but the gender ratio isn’t really relevant to the discussion. My point wasn’t that men are much less likely to live with their parents, as I never brought men up My point is that living with your parents is statistically common in certain age and wealth demographics Most of the people in this subreddit are in their late 30s/40s and (I suspect) living in major urban cities, so you are gonna see a lot of men and women living on their own	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/25 12:44 AM
3	”Women are freeloading and ungrateful” It depends on the age range and where you live. Statistically only 10% of young women (18-35) live alone and over 50% still live with their parents in the US If you’re around older women and live in affluent neighborhoods in metro cities then you’re going to be exposed to a lot more independent women	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/25 12:23 AM
2	Men cockblock each other more than you think. I don’t know if I’d take a meme Twitter account seriously Regardless, I don’t think one story online discredits anything I said You’re attracting anxiously attached women, not healthy women. Most of them were very healthy women actually. I think wanting a man to be clingy at the beginning is a bigger indicator she has baggage if anything imo I’ve dealt with women like that when I was younger and they always needed constant reassurance	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/25 09:57 PM
5	Men cockblock each other more than you think. I’m referring to the talking stage, not relationships. Most single guys struggling with dating come on way too strong early, but most women want the guy to match her energy since desperation is by far the single biggest turn off for women. When you’re both locked in together I agree a lot of women are into that though I can say from experience I had a lot more success with being a little distant instead of trying too hard, and most men will say the same thing. Too many guys just do it in an auti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/25 09:43 PM
4	Men cockblock each other more than you think. Unfortunately, being distant over clingy consistently yields much better results for men in the current dating scene. Especially for the younger generation Even a lot of women who claim they want their man clingy don’t actually like it when it happens	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/25 09:23 PM
1	Men cockblock each other more than you think. Huh? Knowing the cons of what?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/25 09:06 PM
4	Men cockblock each other more than you think. I actually agree men cockblock each other in other ways — mainly the men love to put other men down to look good for women That said, I don’t see anything wrong with discouraging men from getting plastic surgery, Botox, implants or leg lengthening or anything like that. You see women telling other women they don’t need BBLs, plastic surgery, Botox, breast implants or lip fillers when they express interest, which is also good	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/25 08:18 PM
–	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 My conclusion comes from the perspectives of my partners, experiences of women in my social circle in happy relationships and what I observe, not from my feelings as a man YMMV and it could be different for you and your friend group though	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/25 06:39 PM
–	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 I don’t think you have to engage in hookups to feel that initial spark. I know plenty of women in my social circle who very attracted to their partner but were never into hookups I think demisexual people obviously exist, but I don’t think women actually experience attraction differently than men. It’s just much harder for women to share that same feeling	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/25 06:19 PM
1	Male vs Female Mating Strategy Is Really Younger vs Older Mating Strategy There’s quite a lot of conservative countries that don’t chop off your hands or punish you for sleeping around, but fair enough And libido is a major factor in why younger people sleep around more. Do you disagree? You’re just restating the thesis, and I still disagree Most women have their highest libido in their 30s but they don’t sleep around despite there being no legal or social consequences. They still have that high sex drive but only want it in committed (or at least exclusive) relations…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/25 05:24 PM
1	Male vs Female Mating Strategy Is Really Younger vs Older Mating Strategy Libido has nothing to do with dating/sleeping around with lots of different people I’m not denying we’re hormonal when we’re young, but the concept of “having fun” in your 20s has only been around in the last 60ih years at most. We also know this because most women in the real world (especially GenZ) aren’t doing that The younger person in the conservative country will have a higher libido, but they’ll seek to do so in a committed relationship	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/25 04:53 PM
1	Male vs Female Mating Strategy Is Really Younger vs Older Mating Strategy Sleeping around with many different people in your 20s is obviously a cultural thing not attributed to hormones	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/25 04:39 PM
2	Why lie about the past to get into a relationship? If they can lie about this then they can lie about anything, including cheating. Trust is the foundation and is the default in any healthy relationship, but if you start doubting your partner then cracks start to form and it comes out in unhealthy ways Your analogy is off because of the intent behind it matters. There’s malicious and intentionally deceitful lies and “white lies.” If I specifically ask my partner something (like say her past) and she intentionally lies and says something untrue, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/25 04:37 PM
–	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 The vast majority of women definitely aren’t demisexual lol I do think women are much pickier so it’s harder to find a guy who brings out that visceral attraction though. A lot of women just “settle” with a guy who they do genuinely enjoy being with, but aren’t really attracted to and it comes out in dangerous ways later in the relationship	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/25 04:03 PM
9	Why lie about the past to get into a relationship? That said, if someone’s sexual past (irrespective of gender) bothers you even AFTER marriage, that’s something to examine. I think the issue is your partner lying to you. Even if I was the most sex positive person in the world I’d be very upset if my partner lied to me about that It’d be like if your husband lied to you about not hooking up with other women during the “talking phase” when asked. Sure, it doesn’t matter now but cracks in trust would start to form for most normal people and that’s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/25 03:18 PM
8	Why lie about the past to get into a relationship? To be fair, men lie about things that they know would be a turn off so they can enter relationships too. For both men and women it’s just selfishness, then they rationalize it later Basing the foundation of your relationship off a lie is always a bad idea but most people have a short-term mindset	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/25 03:06 PM
1	N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD There’s lots of good advice if you want to avoid hoes, but it should be within reason. Huge difference between “I don’t want to date somebody the whole bar has been with” and “I don’t want to date somebody who’s ever held hands with a guy” The former is fair and there’s a lot of normal women who’s only been with a handful of guys, but the latter is very unreasonable	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/25 02:56 PM
3	N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD A lot of the most confident, outspoken women I’ve linked up with turned out to be starfishes in bed, while I’ve had plenty of introverted women drain the soul of me lol Maybe other guys have wildly different experiences than myself, but I don’t think there’s correlation between confidence and skills in bed	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/25 02:13 PM
4	N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD It’s really not that hard to teach somebody to do it the way you like. Regardless of experience, every person has to learn how to do things the way their partner likes it My partner was inexperienced and she was pretty bad at first, but now she gives the best head I’ve ever had	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/25 02:08 PM
1	N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD I don’t agree with them, but I’m just saying it’s not the best advice for guys that do want that Women with warped views of men like that tend to have a lot of trauma and mental health issues, and that’s an even stronger correlation with infidelity than promiscuity	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/25 02:01 PM
–	Women actually agree with redpill ideals they just dislike the branding It’s a little funny how the male leads in romance novels are always these hyper-masculine and traditional men with very feminists views lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/25 01:18 PM
1	Men think they are more attractive than they really are I don’t think you’re following the discussion or actually looked into the survey, or both The results showed that the number of partners linearly increased up to 4 plates. Only a gym rat can bench 4 plates and reach the 16 partners he quoted, but the survey indicated average gym goers (looking at the max) have slightly more sex the national CDC average for men. And keep in mind that’s the lifetime average, whereas this is just their current numbers Regular gym goers have more sex than men who do…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/25 01:10 AM
2	Male vs Female Mating Strategy Is Really Younger vs Older Mating Strategy That’s fair. What’s considered a meaningful or meaningless value in a relationship is solely up to the individual	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/25 11:31 PM
2	Male vs Female Mating Strategy Is Really Younger vs Older Mating Strategy The analogy was to indicate that the “value” in question here is meaningless. My partner isn’t a carbon copy of me and there’s things I value that she doesn’t care about and vice versa, like horror movies	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/25 11:20 PM
2	Male vs Female Mating Strategy Is Really Younger vs Older Mating Strategy Sleeping around isn’t a “value” any less than one person traveling in their 20s while the other didn’t lol Even if he was actually promiscuous, there’s nothing wrong with still wanting someone who didn’t sleep around	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/25 11:10 PM
–	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 Scammers were never an issue for me since they’re pretty easy to spot, it’s the catfishing that was getting bad back when I was on the apps Some women use AI apps to edit their pictures, face and body. Went on a date one time and I swear she had a completely different face lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/25 10:02 PM
–	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 Sage advice. This was a game changer when I started doing this. It avoids catfishing and you save a lot of money on dates as a man Way too many times I showed up on a date and within 5 minutes I knew this wasn’t gonna work	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/25 09:48 PM
2	N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD I feel like anybody who says that is either projecting or just regurgitating it from someone else because I have literally never heard of this If she’s fantasizing about other men I think the relationship has bigger problems and her sexual history may not be a factor lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/25 09:42 PM
2	N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD I can say with confidence and experience that most of those “I hate men” women absolutely get around lol That said, most women are not promiscuous. You shouldn’t be specifically looking for low N count women, you should be asking how to avoid high N count women which is pretty easy	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/25 09:36 PM
6	Male vs Female Mating Strategy Is Really Younger vs Older Mating Strategy A lot of people don’t go crazy in college and most people are not having much casual sex Especially true in the last decade; most people are partying less, drinking less and having less sex in college Like I said, I thought most people did that because of my social circle, but data and talking to people outside my echo chamber tells a different story. Sleeping around in your 20s just isn’t the norm regardless of gender or whether you can or can’t	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/25 09:20 PM
5	Male vs Female Mating Strategy Is Really Younger vs Older Mating Strategy Most people in general don’t “sleep around” — most men and women only have a handful of casual encounters in their lives. This phenomena of wanting to rack up partners in your 20s is entirely cultural It might be just because of my field, but me and one other guy are literally the only two in the entire office who had fun back in college. Most people just don’t have that mindset	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/25 08:10 PM
21	Male vs Female Mating Strategy Is Really Younger vs Older Mating Strategy I disagree with it being a hormonal thing, but I do agree that most women who “settle down” in their 30s aren’t maliciously planning it like some red pillers claim Priorities just change as we get older. Sometimes you want companionship and sometimes you want to have that fun phase you missed out on when you were younger	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/25 07:02 PM
28	Male vs Female Mating Strategy Is Really Younger vs Older Mating Strategy There’s a lot of men and women who don’t “date as many people as they find attractive as they can” even if they can do it I knew plenty of men and women who could’ve dated around in their 20s but wanted to find their life partner, and I know a decent number of men and women in their 30s who just want fun	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/25 06:54 PM
–	Men think they are more attractive than they really are Most gym goers have a 9-5 and have a life outside the gym like everybody. They treat it as a hobby. You’re conflating bodybuilders or PTs with normal muscular men who just go to the gym and lift heavy For the record, a lot of gym goers are there because they were bullied when they were younger or do so out of insecurity/body dysmorphia. Not only are most of them not superficial, a lot of the people you see at your local gym are genuinely some of the nicest people you’ll meet You’re the only one …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/25 06:22 PM
3	Tinder and Instagram have the same results as Porn I’ve noticed this subreddit has a severe reading comprehension problem lately lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/25 05:37 PM
1	Tinder and Instagram have the same results as Porn I don’t see how encouraging women to view men as sacks of cash is any better but fair enough	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/25 05:27 PM
1	Tinder and Instagram have the same results as Porn Do you feel the same way about tradwife women pushing that lifestyle on young women and manosphere men pushing those expectations onto young men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/25 05:18 PM
3	Tinder and Instagram have the same results as Porn Clearly you haven’t watched any of the videos he’s describing These influencers aren’t telling women to achieve this “soft girl” lifestyle by grinding their asses off 60 hours a week, it’s by charming men and specifically choosing men who “aren’t dusty” (e.g. willing to spend on them). That’s literally that “sprinkle sprinkle” girl’s entire shtick	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/25 04:46 PM
–	Men think they are more attractive than they really are My point is that men that are gym rat tend to be more into hookup and superficial than the rest. This has the same energy as incels saying “attractive women who dress up and wear makeup tend to be sluttier and more superficial” lol There is no correlation with going to the gym/wanting to look better and being more superficial. Muscular men have higher partners because they have more opportunities with attractive women not because they’re somehow more desperate for poon	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/25 03:41 PM
10	You have two options - which one would you go for? Neither. One is a fuck buddy and the other is a glorified best friend If I had to pick one I’d probably pick the option 2 as a FWB but date around to find an actual good option	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/25 03:04 PM
–	Men think they are more attractive than they really are Yeah that male physique is achievable natty but it that takes years of hard work, starving yourself and being dehydrated to look like that. I only had that figure briefly when I was younger and it was a really bad experience Unfortunately a lot of young men are on gear nowadays so that figure isn’t nearly as rare as it was say 50 years ago and leads to that perception that you mentioned It’s no different from the men seeing women with BBLs and thinking normal women can get that just from squats …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/25 01:49 PM
–	Men think they are more attractive than they really are So you’re saying the strong correlation between muscles and sexual partners is because these men are sleeping with unattractive women now but weren’t before they became muscular? Just say you don’t like the data lol. Women will absolutely sleep with muscular men with shitty personalities	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/25 01:39 PM
–	Men think they are more attractive than they really are I used to work out with a few of my female friends, and they never wanted to work on bi/triceps because they think they’ll get “muscular arms” after lifting dumbbells a few times lol A great male physique inherently takes much more effort because there’s a lot more muscles groups involved with higher intensity	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/25 01:27 PM
–	Men think they are more attractive than they really are Oh yeah, there’s were definitely some unhinged women (and some men tbh) replying to that I don’t think a lot of those women actually believe she’s gorgeous, they’re just rushing to her defense. She could’ve looked like Lizzo and most of the replies wouldn’t change lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/25 05:58 AM
3	Ladies, why are men expected to carry your emotional baggage with no reciprocation? Listening to your partner vent is “emotional labor.” Yes, there’s good and bad ways of being an outlet but that’s entirely beside the point — men have always done this just as much as women Considering how dismissive you’ve been and automatically assume men are worse emotional outlets with no evidence that sounds like projection to me	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/25 05:27 AM
–	Men think they are more attractive than they really are Women say they don’t find muscles attractive Because this subreddit is filled with socially awkward, introverted women lol. Most women in real life like muscles Obviously women don’t care for that extra muscular juiced up 8% body fat physique, but having a toned body is probably the single biggest attraction boost you can actually work on outside of social skills	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/25 02:27 AM
3	Ladies, why are men expected to carry your emotional baggage with no reciprocation? Most women in my life are with very normal dudes. And it sounds like these normal dudes aren’t using their partners as their sole emotional outlet lol It’s almost like it wasn’t a gendered thing as much as an unstable partner issue. Just like men with substance abuse and anger issues, BPD and neurotic women are emotionally exhausting to be around too In most normal relationships, women yap far more than men do from my experience	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/25 01:54 AM
–	Men think they are more attractive than they really are Just looked into her. I think she looks fine, don’t know if I’d agree with her self “baddie” label at all though lol I was expecting something ragebaity but she was voicing her opinion pretty respectfully. She just thinks there’s not many guys she feels are attractive to her which is fine I can see why this fueled a gender war debate and spun off into something crazy but the lady herself doesn’t really deserve hate imo	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/25 12:25 AM
3	Men think they are more attractive than they really are Again, statistically the vast majority of couples are in the same league. If you’re seeing this huge flux of ugly men with attractive women as you claim then your perception is almost certainly skewed I’m not saying what I observe is anywhere close to a statistical majority, just that there are enough men dating unattractive women that we can observe	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/25 12:06 AM
–	Men think they are more attractive than they really are Not true. We all see fit men with fat women all the time at the gym — way more than the inverse. They usually treat their boyfriends like kings and put up with a lot more shit compared to their looksmatch That said, statistically most couples are within their league so it’s not a widespread occurrence	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/25 11:49 PM
–	Men think they are more attractive than they really are You’d be surprised at the number of women who wouldn’t mess with “Chad.” They definitely get the most sex, but a lot of average women recognize the potential baggage that comes with it and avoid them I’ve hooked up and dated enough 9s or “Stacy’s” and it’s no different	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/25 11:31 PM
–	Men think they are more attractive than they really are This is raw data coming directly from OKCupid not a study I agree this data shouldn’t be treated as gospel unless another dating app releases their own data as well, but these circumstances aren’t nearly as disqualifying as a study not being replicated simply because nobody has released their data since It’s maybe not something I’d use to substantiate my argument when writing a thesis, but for debating gender dynamics on Reddit it’s sufficient	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/25 11:12 PM
–	Men think they are more attractive than they really are I think it’s both I remember when the Tea app selfies were leaked and a lot of women came to their defense calling them pretty. Most of them were fat (average weight was like 195lbs from their DVs lol) and genuinely unattractive Likewise, when women showed some of the guys most of them were very average but men were calling them attractive and using it as proof that women only chase “Chads” which wasn’t true either Men and women both rate their own gender as more attractive than they really are	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/25 10:58 PM
–	What do you do to be a good partner? For my partner: being supportive, listening and communicating, doing little things for her, cooking and overall keeping the passion alive with cute dates and sexual tension. We both still have that same spark from when we first met to this day You don’t have to do anything explosive or make any grand gestures if she genuinely likes you	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/25 10:12 PM
1	Women keep men in a double bind - they act repulsed by men's horniness, and treat it like it's an advantage for men at the same time. The average man on Tinder gets 2-3 likes a week and 1 match a week. The average woman gets well over a hundred likes in a day I understand women’s perspective and why they’re extremely picky but there’s no need to make a false equivalency here — most men can’t be picky on dating apps even if they wanted to	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/25 09:46 PM
6	Women keep men in a double bind - they act repulsed by men's horniness, and treat it like it's an advantage for men at the same time. Women do have an endless supply of men, it’s just that most women aren’t attracted to the large majority of men If a woman gets 100 likes she’ll probably match with maybe 15 of them with women’s swipe data. A percentage of that is men swiping on everybody, looking to get their dick wet or won’t message her first. The actual number of men she’ll actively engage with is closer to 4 or 5 out of those 100 likes she gets Not to say women should be obligated to date men they’re not attracted to or thi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/25 07:34 PM
3	Ladies, why are men expected to carry your emotional baggage with no reciprocation? Married women are “only” 4% more likely to have friends compared to married men. There’s a sizable gap for single men and women but not married I hear your anecdotes, but for almost all the men in my life (including myself) their woman emotionally vent more than the inverse That said, if your social group is constantly dating men with anger issues and substance abuse it’s probably not reflective of men as a whole and just the type of men they like. Emotionally unstable people (including bipolar …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/25 07:19 PM
5	Ladies, why are men expected to carry your emotional baggage with no reciprocation? There’s some scientific basis that women do more overall labor when including chores and childcare, but there’s no basis to women taking care of men’s emotional and social needs more than the inverse If anything, there’s more evidence to the contrary since women speak twice as much as men do. Men have just always been expected to listen to their woman while men venting and expressing their feelings is a more recent phenomenon that women aren’t used to	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/25 06:38 PM
1	Ladies, why are men expected to carry your emotional baggage with no reciprocation? These are a small percentage of both men and women with these bizarre profiles. I won’t speak for men, but there’s a lot of women with these types of profiles on dating apps, especially when you filter for 30+ lol It could be the same for men, but I will say there’s a lot of hurt women on dating apps	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/25 06:35 PM
2	The average man is not below an average woman. There’s definitely a lot of women with inflated views of what they deserve, but I don’t see a problem with it tbh. They’ll either get the man they want or die alone That said, a lot of women do lower their physical standards as they get older it won’t be as bad	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/25 02:22 PM
2	Why Do Many Women Make Consent Sound Like A Turn Off? This is the best take I feel like socially calibrated men know that verbal consent is a turn off for most women and just know by body language, but emphasizing consent is still very important for… less socially inclined men who don’t quite get it	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/25 02:09 PM
10	Men want women to settle for them I agree it’s not great advice, but if you genuinely don’t like the vast majority of men then I’m not sure what advice can be good for you to be fair lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/25 07:06 PM
13	Men want women to settle for them Same advice I give incels: either lower your standards, work on yourself so you can be appealing to the men and women you want, or you can die alone I feel a lot of women (and men tbh) do end up lowering their physical standards as they get older so a lot of this gets sorted out with age imo	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/25 06:58 PM
15	Men want women to settle for them You don’t see it on this subreddit for obvious reasons, but there’s a lot of women in relationship advice subs that complain about not being able to find a man or not getting the commitment that they want To his point, there’s not much of a difference between them so it’s not really a gendered thing. At the end of the day, both men and women should just pursue people mutually interested in them but that seems to be an issue	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/25 06:46 PM
24	Men want women to settle for them Sage advice honestly Man or woman, if somebody is interested in you then they’ll make it obvious and easy for you. Those should be the type of people you pursue If you find that people who you perceive to be on “your level” aren’t interested in dating or committing to you, then it might be time to do some reevaluating and self-reflection	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/25 06:43 PM
1	People who don't like the fish analogy, are these ones better? Brother, there’s many, many, many reasons for giving pledges that doesn’t involve advice for getting poon. Frats are way more than just the parties lol Frats don’t give secret transcendental dating advice that nobody else knows anyway — there’s not a single piece of advice that’s not already available online for free. They’re great because they have somebody with experience mentor you, which is way better than raw information Not sure what other guys trying to pull women at parties has anything …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/25 03:55 PM
1	People who don't like the fish analogy, are these ones better? If you genuinely have frequent access to sex then you wouldn’t see other men as competition and try to sabotage them I know the type of men you’re referring to, and they rarely scored at the frat parties and absolutely would not be the guys I’d ask for dating advice	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/25 03:31 PM
1	People who don't like the fish analogy, are these ones better? because every one not in your crew is competition. As somebody who used to go to frat parties and had a lot of casual sex, I can say with 100% confidence very few heterosexual men that have frequent sex has this childish tribal mindset lol Nobody except incels and tryhards see’s other men as obstacles or “competition” when it comes to pulling women because there’s plenty of them around. That’s the mindset of desperate men	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/25 03:20 PM
1	People who don't like the fish analogy, are these ones better? If you ask a frat boy what works for them and an average woman, you’d get fairly different answers. How are you gonna say “this isn’t middle school” then say guys aren’t gonna give honest advice on how to pull women, like come on lol. Most guys are honest about what works for them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/25 03:05 PM
3	People who don't like the fish analogy, are these ones better? I never said they give purposely bad advice? I said most people give advice in their gender’s best interest that doesn’t give complete “power” to other gender. The dating advice I will give to my child will be different from the dating advice I give to my friends — and it’s not because I’m giving them “purposely bad advice” I never said women’s advice is meaningless for guys. I’m saying by far the best advice will come from guys who pull women and understand the intricacies of everything Women t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/25 02:33 PM
4	People who don't like the fish analogy, are these ones better? For a few reasons actually 1) Because people (both men and women) will give advice in their gender’s best interest. A man will never tell a woman to make them wait for sex, and a woman will never tell a guy he should be a little pushy and a bit of an asshole 2) Just because a woman interacts with men who fucks a lot, it doesn’t mean she understands every part that goes into it. I used to fuck a lot when I was single and I have a general framework of what women do, but even I don’t know every bit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/25 01:34 PM
3	People who don't like the fish analogy, are these ones better? Yes, they objectively do lol There’s a famous streamer named Asmongold who’s a Trumpie, very ugly, never touched a dumbbell in his life, horrible hygiene and literally lives with roaches. He opened his Snapchat and revealed he had literal dozens of internet models throwing themselves at him and sending him nudes Once you have enough clout you can sleep with a lot of attractive women off that alone	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/25 01:25 PM
8	Would you date a 35 year old woman who is otherwise your looksmatch? I caught that too. It’s honestly impressive how much you can tell somebody’s biases by the way they talk about each gender lol It’s like the guys who use “females” but refer to guys as “men” in the same posts — it’s so telling	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/25 01:19 PM
1	How do you prefer to be asked for consent to make out? A hug without consent is considered sexual assault in a lot of these kinds of surveys so I don’t see why we should care about these stats lol I guarantee you women in real life don’t care if you try to kiss them without asking if she already agreed to a date or y’all are flirting together at a bar — only terminally online weirdo women who hate men anyway are saying to verbally ask for consent Worst case she turns you down and you respectfully move on, but I promise she’s not gonna file a case ag…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/25 01:15 PM
11	Why Low-Attachment FWB/Companionship Can Be Healthier Than Traditional Relationships I never said avoiding emotional intimacy inherently means that; I’ve had FWBs who weren’t looking for anything serious for valid reasons at the time Those reasons were a little different from “I’ve never had a healthy relationship where we were able to be emotionally available with each other so I don’t see a purpose in them” It’s like an incel saying “I’ve had so many bad experiences with women and I’ve learned that men should avoid them and focus on themselves.” There’s valid reasons for men t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/25 09:31 PM
10	Why Low-Attachment FWB/Companionship Can Be Healthier Than Traditional Relationships I don’t know about traumatized, but anybody who says their healthiest relationships are when they “kept a healthy distance” with “little to no emotional attachment on the woman’s [my] side” screams they have warped views of romantic relationships from bad experiences I agree FWBs are better than a toxic relationship, but healthy relationships have none of the baggage you mentioned and are way more fulfilling	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/25 09:11 PM
1	why do men hate sluts so much, instead of just feeling neutral? Monogamous Long term relationships are no prize, especially for women LTRs aren’t “prizes” for anybody with options. I was happy being single with my old FWB, and I’m also happy now with my partner you’re not taking anything away from women Good for them? I don’t really care about how other people feel about their romantic prospects Most sluts have more than enough options anyway, especially if they’re attractive	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/25 08:51 PM
1	Women are not all attracted to a top percentage of “Chads”, here’s why: It does happen for sure, but statistically most couples are in the same league at least in the western dating scene I see yolked men with bigger women at the gym way more than the inverse, but it’s not reflective of reality at a larger scale either	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/25 06:52 PM
3	why do men hate sluts so much, instead of just feeling neutral? His profile literally says he’s trolling and rage baiting lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/25 10:56 PM
–	Men cockblock each other more than you think. Do you think trans men face anywhere near the same level of transphobia that trans women do?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/25 10:53 PM
1	why do men hate sluts so much, instead of just feeling neutral? women only hate being called sluts because men view it negatively. when has a woman ever complained about just being a slut the way men complain about being virgins We’re going in circles, I’ve already addressed this Men (and women) dislike promiscuous behavior, they don’t hate sluts as people. You said men not wanting to date sluts isn’t hatred in your OP men just made it up out of nowhere, even though they think of sluts neutrally? I can give you virgin being a personal frustration, but men ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/25 08:51 PM
1	why do men hate sluts so much, instead of just feeling neutral? You: Men calling women sluts even if they aren’t or they don’t know if they are means they have hatred of sluts Also you: Women calling men virgins or small dick even if they aren’t or they don’t know if they are only do so because they know men hate it, not out of genuine hatred If you acknowledge that most women hate being called sluts, this is a logical contradiction	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/25 08:17 PM
1	why do men hate sluts so much, instead of just feeling neutral? You can’t string together a logic argument without contradicting yourself every other comment so it’s for the best lol Ciao	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/25 08:04 PM
1	why do men hate sluts so much, instead of just feeling neutral? Okay, do you think most women hate being called sluts?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/25 07:48 PM
1	why do men hate sluts so much, instead of just feeling neutral? Most women in real life aren’t sluts and they view promiscuity negatively in men and other women. Some (not all) promiscuous women feel shame for it too I don’t know what world you live in, but most women in real life hate being called slurs even if they are one men calling a woman a slut even if she isn’t is proof that they don’t like sluts. But women insulting men they don’t like and saying they have small dicks or “small dick energy” even if they don’t isn’t proof that they don’t like that? Y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/25 07:40 PM
2	A world without men would be calmer, safer, and more harmonious Bingo. There will still be conflict, wars, wealth inequality and abuse — women will just take the place of men with our current societal structure I think there’d be less violent crime for sure and if that’s your only metric then fair game. Other than that, most of the world’s problems wouldn’t go away This idea that we’d achieve world peace and live in harmony if there was just women tells me some of y’all need to touch some grass and actually talk to women lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/25 06:20 PM
1	why do men hate sluts so much, instead of just feeling neutral? show how insults form based on the hatred of the person who made up the insult and not the person to insult is directed towards You literally just said women insulting men based on virginity, dick size or height doesn’t mean they actually have genuine hatred for virgins and little wiener men If you acknowledge that’s true for women when they use those insults towards men, then it’s just as true when men use them towards women	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/25 06:14 PM
–	why do men hate sluts so much, instead of just feeling neutral? Yeah the porn “gotcha” never made sense I love a good steak but I’d never date butcher either. As long as you’re reasonably respectful about it then it’s not hypocritical	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/25 06:07 PM
2	why do men hate sluts so much, instead of just feeling neutral? Nobody cares if you’re a slut at a societal level either. Unless you have a public OF attached to your name you’ll have the exact same opportunities as a virgin. There’s only personal judgment — which happens to men too Also I can’t believe I have to explain this, but the N word slur is different because of historical contexts from calling women sluts or “little dick energy.” One is deep rooted in racism and the other two are light insults you use for someone you don’t like	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/25 04:39 PM
–	why do men hate sluts so much, instead of just feeling neutral? it only hurts women because it’s already seen as a negative thing. Being a virgin, being short, or having a little wiener are seen as negative things too; that’s why men perceive them as insults But this is an entirely different position from your OP. Now I agree that being a slut is seen negatively when it comes to dating just like the aforementioned male qualities, but that’s different from hating them as an individual person like you’re stating in the OP Also, I don’t know why you’re comparin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/25 04:00 PM
8	"Women make it obvious if they're into you" they don't lol Women absolutely make it obvious they’re into you. Maybe not always having sex on the first date, but they’ll make plans and the experience crazy easy If you don’t see it, you’re probably bad at reading social cues or the women aren’t that interested in you	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/25 03:47 PM
–	why do men hate sluts so much, instead of just feeling neutral? Where are the stats that even support that? Openminded conducted a survey with 64,000 couples and found that the women initiated opening up the relationship a little over 2/3 of the time I’d wager most of these Reddit stories of men opening up their relationships and sharing “retellings” of hearing their wives in the other room with other men in detail are just fantasies im always hearing men coercing their wives to open a marriage up to “explore”. I hear women here say a lot of things that aren…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/25 03:32 PM
–	why do men hate sluts so much, instead of just feeling neutral? the insults the men use for women are based on something the man doesn’t like being. Women call men they don’t like virgins, small dick, tiny dick energy or incels. I don’t think most women hate male virgins or guys with small dicks, but they say it because they know it hurts men’s ego Equivocally, most men don’t hate women who are sluts but they call them that becomes it hurts women too	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/25 03:20 PM
–	why do men hate sluts so much, instead of just feeling neutral? It reminds me of plenty of Reddit stories of men wanting open relationships with their wife only to regret it later when the women herself enjoys it. Those weird stories always felt like revenge fantasy stories tbh Women initiate open relationships way more than men do (70/30~) so the hugely disproportionate number of stories feels like weird fantasies. Especially true with the weird number of details they use in them lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/25 03:13 PM
–	why do men hate sluts so much, instead of just feeling neutral? my premise was men using slurs Women use degrading names for men they don’t like all the time lol. Men definitely do it don’t get me wrong, but it’s not a gendered thing and in extreme examples, physical harm/killing Statistically men and women commit similar rates of DV. As far as violent crime is concerned, the overwhelmingly majority of men do not partake in it and the one’s that do almost always have a criminal record beforehand There are disproportionately more violence when it comes to pro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/25 03:02 PM
–	why do men hate sluts so much, instead of just feeling neutral? Agreed. I’m friends with hoes (mostly former hoes but I wouldn’t care if they still were), I just wouldn’t date them There’s lots of types of people both men and women would be friends with but just wouldn’t pursue a longterm relationship with	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/25 02:47 PM
4	Having tattoos, being a single mom have very little to do with your ability to attract a high value male Yeah, acting like Andrew Tate is the figurehead of TRP is no different than men who pretend Anita Sarkeesian is still the figurehead of modern feminism lol Goofballs like Tate and FnF are considered clowns even in most manosphere places. Shows how out-of-touch a lot of people who participate in these discussions are	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/25 01:38 PM
–	Why have red pill figures, slipped into irrelevancy? Pretty sure most of people here are in their late 30s and 40s There really is no point in having topical discussions of social media influencers with people here lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/25 09:19 PM
1	The Plummeting Birthrate Is Only Really Going To Only Affect Feminist Women. How did the current anti-child people get their ideology? Not from their parents obviously It’s probably too early to get solid data on this, but I’d be interested to see how many childfree folks come from liberal or progressive families vs not OP is phrasing his argument poorly, but I can see it being a culture thing for sure	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/25 09:15 PM
–	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 I’d probably make an exception for hardcore religious women but this is mostly true Most women will definitely hookup with a guy they really like on the first or second date	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/25 07:17 PM
1	If you're autistic, just lean into the aloofness and play the asshole game Unethical dating tip but it’s definitely true Weird guys are one of the biggest turn offs for women, even if you’re attractive. Too many autistic guys yap way too much; just say what you need at the very moment I don’t think it works well for healthy, longterm relationships but if you’re just looking for hookups or FWBs it’s really good advice	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/25 07:08 PM
3	A lot of you have really conflicting values. What are your core preferences? I got both with my partner; it doesn’t have to be conflicting A lot of women in real life have sex in the first few weeks of meeting their longterm partner and still have a low or average N count so I don’t know why we’re pretending they’re mutually exclusive I see people here use this as some sort of “gotcha” but it comes across as a self report more than anything	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/25 11:40 PM
–	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 Agreed. Pretty much every main guy in romance books is fawned over by other women, but the man only has eyes for the average looking main woman Red pill has a lot of nonsense but preselection is one of the few very true things to come out of it	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/25 11:27 PM
–	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 Crazy eyes? Thirst traps? Blue hair? Man, you can tell she’s a crimson red flag from a mile away. Hope they throw away the key for this loon	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/25 11:18 PM
4	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 I don’t necessarily think they’re virtue signaling, but to his point the opinions and experiences of women here on PPD aren’t reflective of reality at all. Most of the folks here are kinda introverted weirdos I’m here for the data and discussions, but I always take the anecdotes and opinions here of women (and men tbh) with a grain of salt	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/25 04:07 PM
3	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 https://bedbible.com/hookup-culture-statistics/ The sexual partners and romantic relationships comes from CDC data that’s readily available online You’re correct that most men have at least a few casual encounters too, maybe not here though. Most men and women here just don’t have sex from what I’ve seen I guess	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/25 03:55 PM
4	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 Engaging in hookup culture =/= “have had casual sex.” Hookup culture is different from just hooking up once or trying it out a few times The average lifetime number of sexual partners for women is 7 while the number of romantic partners is 2-3. Also 86% of college women report having at least one casual sex encounter so he’s not wrong Red pillers definitely exaggerate the number of women who engage in hookup culture, but young women aren’t puritans either. They’re definitely having a few casual …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/25 03:45 PM
3	The idea that women lose value by having sex with men incentivizes misandry I don’t think non-promiscuous men and women care about their partner having a hoe phase anywhere near as much as this subreddit thinks I’ve seen former hoes and man-whores end up with people who’ve only had a few past partners	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/25 03:16 AM
2	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 I read a study a while back that showed nearly 2/3 of women on Tinder reported being in a relationship Not all of them were cheating, but all of them were on there for attention and validation. Shit, I’ve known women on there who admitted to trolling men when they were bored It’s not as bad in real life but online dating is disaster for most men now	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/25 02:19 AM
1	Why do women hate the man when the man has moved on from them despite they are ghosting the man? I think this topic is a little out of your depth, but I’ll ask one last question in good faith I agree most people who ghost are walking away and never looking back, but can you at least understand how a person might use ghosting to play hard to get?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/25 02:07 AM
3	Why do women hate the man when the man has moved on from them despite they are ghosting the man? Ghosting someone isn’t playing hard to get. The FDS handbook literally has ghosting as a strategy. They’re not the first one’s to do that either Ghosting is usually what you described, but some women (and men) use ghosting to play hard to get. I can’t believe I have to explain these basic concepts lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/25 01:57 AM
4	Why do women hate the man when the man has moved on from them despite they are ghosting the man? As a woman, with women friends, colleagues, and acquaintances, I’d imagine I’d see or hear of a woman doing the aforementioned scenarios. I see this reasoning a lot here, and regardless of how you feel about this particular topic it doesn’t actually mean anything when discussing ideas and concepts from a societal perspective I’ve never seen, known, or heard of a man abusing a woman in real life, but the takeaway from that isn’t that women are lying about it or it doesn’t exist. I just don’t asso…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/25 01:49 AM
8	Why do women hate the man when the man has moved on from them despite they are ghosting the man? So it’s a made-up scenario because you personally never experienced this as a woman? Lmao Women ghosting men and expecting them to “put pressure” is not uncommon in dating as a straight man. Granted it doesn’t come from well adjusted women usually, but most men with dating experience have definitely come across this type of women before	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/25 01:27 AM
4	The idea that women lose value by having sex with men incentivizes misandry I don’t think anybody is promoted to sleep around a lot when looking at the collective social society, even men despite what people say here Just saying we don’t have to follow two different dichotomies and move to the other extreme	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/25 07:18 PM
4	The idea that women lose value by having sex with men incentivizes misandry it’s not about losing value as a person, member of society, employee, friend or whatever else. it’s about losing value as a single woman on the dating market first and foremost. I don’t disagree this happens, but in the context of this thread it’s not misogyny or incentives it And honestly, the frequency it happens gets way overstated. Most hoes (especially if they’re attractive) might get judged socially, but they don’t lose that many dating prospects If you’re busted and promiscuous it might g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/25 07:08 PM
1	Men who want casual sex, why women should want that? You never asked your partners what they liked about you? I don’t think men look for reassurance like that as much as women do in relationships. If she’s with me and shows me the love and care I want from her, then I don’t see why I should ask But if you’re struggling with dating, I do agree you should ask yourself why somebody would want to date you. This is true for both men and women for sure	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/25 06:56 PM
1	Men who want casual sex, why women should want that? I never deeply thought about what I brought to the table even when I was single. I was definitely no “Chad” but enough decent looking women liked me so I was probably doing something right Why those women were interested? I’m not sure, but these should be questions directed towards women I can only guess they thought I looked good and at least tolerated my personality	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/25 06:45 PM
1	Men who want casual sex, why women should want that? a woman I never lost sleep over some girl choosing somebody else over me. There’s plenty of attractive women with good qualities out there to pick from lol But I do know whining about it on Reddit and expecting the world to change for me isn’t the solution for sure	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/25 05:41 PM
2	Men who want casual sex, why women should want that? Not the majority yet, but young men are into skincare nowadays. What you’re saying is very out of touch for most men actively in the dating scene I don’t really care about ragebait social media content. It’s no different than those street manosphere interviews and it doesn’t tell us anything meaningful	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/25 05:23 PM
12	The idea that women lose value by having sex with men incentivizes misandry I agree with the idea that a woman “losing value” as a person is negative and shouldn’t be promoted. Not just with women either, men who sleep around shouldn’t be shamed either On the flip side, it doesn’t mean we have to promote sleeping around or attack men or women who aren’t interested in dating somebody who has a lot of sex	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/25 04:33 PM
7	Men who want casual sex, why women should want that? Hair products, makeup, clothing, good scents, etc. are not free Believe it or not men use hair products, buy clothes and wear nice cologne too; they just don’t complain about it nearly as much. Granted makeup is the only odd one out, but most women only “need” a light foundation, anything more is for other women I don’t care that women enjoy it when men pay for them, but there’s no reason to be disingenuous about it	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/25 03:39 PM
7	Men who want casual sex, why women should want that? Well I can answer but that’s not the point of the conversation. It’s exactly the point of the topic lol If you’re engaging in casual sex then there’s obviously parts of it you enjoy and the men offering you something that’s bringing you back to their place Think critically about what those things are, and you’ll have the answer to your question	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/25 02:56 PM
4	Men who want casual sex, why women should want that? i’m one of them If casual sex is as unpleasant and bad as you’re describing, then why do you engage in it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/25 02:51 PM
2	Men who want casual sex, why women should want that? Yeah this thread is so weird. A lot of women have casual sex and nobody is forcing them; some like it and some don’t If casual sex is so bad for you then don’t engage in it. Society isn’t gonna change to placate you This is no different than men who complain about having to pay for dates. Women here (rightfully) tell them to find somebody who meets their needs or just stop dating and it’s equally true here	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/25 02:25 PM
0	Men who want casual sex, why women should want that? The answer is the same when red pill dudes ask that I’m not here to convince anybody of my desirability. It’s cool if we vibe, but I’m not jumping through hoops or changing just for some poom poom lol This thread is flawed because the men having casual sex aren’t gonna change because they have enough options and are fine with being single. The desperate men willing to change every fiber of their being to please a woman aren’t having casual sex anyway You’re conflating two entirely different grou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/25 02:00 PM
1	Men who want casual sex, why women should want that? I’m asking what are you offering So “what do you bring to the table” lol I was able to have casual sex but I never had this silly mindset. The women that were interested did so because they thought I was hot and fun probably. Personally I don’t really know or care why women would want to Most men here don’t have casual sex and it has nothing to do with making a woman get off or not though	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/25 01:19 PM
1	Men who want casual sex, why women should want that? Are you asking why women have casual sex? They do it because they like being with hot guys and women like sex too	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/25 01:03 PM
-1	Men who want casual sex, why women should want that? Men who want casual sex, why women should want that? Because most women who have casual sex aren’t terminally online and bitter. They’re not gonna stop having sex to prove a point Or you can just stop having casual sex if you’re unfulfilled. It’s exactly like men who complain about having to pay for date, like nobody’s forcing you lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/25 12:31 PM
4	Women are just as creepy as men they just get away with it. You’re not wrong. I’ve had random women grab my biceps at nightclubs and raves and it’s really weird As far as the creepiness scale goes, I think men are more extreme for sure. Me and my guy friends have stories of creepy women but none as extreme as some of my female friends. But as far as “light creepiness” frequency goes I definitely agree women are just as bad as men	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/25 01:43 AM
2	I think women are worst in bed then men are You just gave me PTSD with this image LOL The women that do this and starfish are the one’s who talk themselves up and swear they’re the best in bed too	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/25 08:36 PM
8	I think women are worst in bed then men are Yeah I sometimes question if people here have actually had sex with some of these comments Men don’t just magically get off from putting it inside. We do the physical effort of thrusting, rhythm, changing positions, and sometimes picking her up If I’m doing all that and you’re just laying down moaning but not saying what gets you off, then of course there’s gonna be an orgasm gap Personally, I did go out of my way to ask what women liked even for casual sex. I wouldn’t fault other men for not go…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/25 07:02 PM
9	I think women are worst in bed then men are There would be no orgasm gap if what you are saying was true. It’s the opposite conclusion actually. There would be a minimal orgasm gap if women weren’t worse than men in bed Men orgasm because they do all the work to get there. Most women who don’t orgasms happens because they’re almost always pillow princess who just lay there and don’t communicate lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/25 06:55 PM
1	What are your views on the orgasm gap? Who is responsible for solving it? No, the stat is that 84% of bisexual women are in relationships with men. Granted it’s “only” 8 years old so it could theoretically be different with younger GenZ women, but I see no reason why it would be largely different other than to push an agenda Men are claiming en masse women don’t want to have sex and date them. What do incels have to do with this discussion lol I’m gonna take a wild guess and wager those sexless men saying that are different from the men hooking up with women. Those gu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/25 06:49 PM
3	If men are always expected to pay, why haven’t women accumulated more savings than men in western societies? I cooked but that was honestly more or less my setup before my partner moved in with me lol She added wall decorations, lots of furniture, plants, LED lights, and all sorts of other things. It’s nice but I’d honestly be just as content with my old setup	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/25 03:19 PM
5	What are your views on the orgasm gap? Who is responsible for solving it? Nobody’s forcing you to have sex with men. Some women also enjoy PIV experience believe it or not. It’s not a double standard, you’re just struggling with reading comprehension. I never said it’s women’s fault if a man can’t orgasm — it’s only her fault if she doesn’t listen or put effort in. And I literally said it applies to men who don’t listen to women’s needs too	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/25 12:20 PM
3	What are your views on the orgasm gap? Who is responsible for solving it? A man orgasms because he does all the work and effort to get there. If you’re a pillow princess that can’t communicate or use your finger/toys that’s on you for not putting the same effort in tbh	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/25 12:09 PM
7	Conservative men don't need to pretend to be liberal in order to get relationships. That's a ridiculous conspiracy theory. folded quickly because there were not enough women on them. I’m not sure what this is supposed to prove regardless of how you feel on the topic Most dating apps have at least a 3:1 male to female ratio. Dating apps have always a huge problem of having enough women (less than a third of women have ever even downloaded a dating app let alone actively use it), and the problem gets exacerbated when you’re limiting it to a particular group of people and the app isn’t part of the big 3 The Blk dating …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/25 01:51 AM
2	What are your views on the orgasm gap? Who is responsible for solving it? GenZ women are increasingly sleeping with other women Last I checked, 85% of bi women end up with a man so I strongly doubt the orgasm gap is why GenZ men and women are dating less and having less sex lol Even if that were true, I don’t think lazy women not willing to communicate or put in effort checking out of relationships is a bad thing	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/25 10:30 PM
2	What are your views on the orgasm gap? Who is responsible for solving it? You’re treating men and women as people who want to have PIV at the same rate. Don’t have sex with men you’re not interested in and your problem is solved. If having sex is such an inconvenience then don’t it. It’s not on men to put in extra effort because women don’t want sex as often as men I know this subreddit is filled with introverted asexual women but believe it or not, some women enjoy sex and want it just as much as men	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/25 09:52 PM
0	What are your views on the orgasm gap? Who is responsible for solving it? You only think its lazy because PIV sex get’s you off. No, I think it’s lazy because men do all the work to get themselves off while most women are pillow princesses and don’t communicate what they want I’ve been with enough women to know the excuses in this thread doesn’t fly. I’ve had women tell me what they want, use their fingers, bring their rose, among other things Most women just don’t want to communicate what they want because it “ruins the experience” and want the guy to do all the work…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/25 09:19 PM
2	What are your views on the orgasm gap? Who is responsible for solving it? it’s selfish for her to not want sex that doesn’t make her feel good I didn’t say that. Read my post again more slowly “Why would I have sex with anybody if they don’t do all the work to get me off” is just lazy and a little sad. Just use your words like an adult and communicate	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/25 08:57 PM
1	What are your views on the orgasm gap? Who is responsible for solving it? How does that relate to my post in any possible way? But no, men and women both have plenty of advantages in healthy relationships	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/25 08:38 PM
2	What are your views on the orgasm gap? Who is responsible for solving it? Nobody’s forcing you to engage in casual sex lol Men who barely know or care about you will obviously be less concerned about getting you off than a long term partner	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/25 08:13 PM
2	What are your views on the orgasm gap? Who is responsible for solving it? If a woman is responsible for her own organism, why would she have sex with a man. Man, if women here actually see sex in such a sad and selfish way it makes the options here make so much more sense If I had a condition where I couldn’t get off I’d still have sex with my partner and get her off. It’s even sillier here since nothing is stopping women from getting off except communicating or just not being a pillow princess lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/25 07:57 PM
2	What are your views on the orgasm gap? Who is responsible for solving it? To be fair, there’s definitely valid reasons why a woman isn’t in the mood. Just like women should communicate for their orgasms, men should communicate and ask why she’s feeling that way In both cases, if you’re communicating your needs and trying to work through it but nothing changes you should just move on	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/25 05:55 PM
5	What are your views on the orgasm gap? Who is responsible for solving it? If that’s how you interpreted it, I’m really not surprised why there’s an orgasm gap lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/25 05:35 PM
2	What are your views on the orgasm gap? Who is responsible for solving it? Pillow princes part needs to be said louder. I’ve been with a lot of women when I was younger, and I’d say at least 90% of them were straight up pillow princesses. I can count on maybe both hands then number of women that weren’t lol I usually made the effort to go out of my way to ask them what gets them off. Sometimes they needed a toy, sometimes they need a specific angle. It was nice of me (and got them coming back), but it’s their responsibility foremost Iirc the orgasm gap greatly diminish…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/25 05:33 PM
7	What are your views on the orgasm gap? Who is responsible for solving it? As a man, I’m responsible for finding a woman who meets my needs regardless of what they are If she’s being lazy or not doing her part, we would never say “both genders are responsible for this” but rather she’s at fault here, but I’m still responsible for finding somebody who meets my needs	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/25 05:22 PM
5	What are your views on the orgasm gap? Who is responsible for solving it? Would you agree that both parties have separate distinct roles in helping close the orgasm gap? I’m not sure how this is on men as a whole Maybe on an individual basis if the particular guy isn’t receptive of her, but it’s the job of the individual woman to communicate her needs like an adult or find somebody who will A lot of women just aren’t good at communicating and expect their partner to read their minds	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/25 05:12 PM
3	If men are always expected to pay, why haven’t women accumulated more savings than men in western societies? Because there’s little to no social stigma for women who rely financially on their families or partners This part is definitely true, especially when you realize single women spend 116% of their income compared to single men’s 98% as someone mentioned here I’ve noticed a lot of younger women spend frivolously on trips and products they can’t afford, then get bailed out by their parents.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/25 05:05 PM
29	If men are always expected to pay, why haven’t women accumulated more savings than men in western societies? It’s a bit of a meme, but men’s apartments are usually minimalist while women’s tend to be decorated and decked out. Gay relationships spend the least money and lesbian relationships spend the most money It’s well documented that women are much bigger consumers than men are. I’m sure most men who live with their woman are well aware of this lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/25 11:53 PM
3	Examining “domestic terrorism” through the lens of masculinity and conservative-mindedness. There seems to be an observable parallel. being intolerant of intolerance If you’re assuming somebody is hateful by basis of their political leaning alone, you’re by definition not tolerant I feel like that should be obvious regardless if it’s left or right	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/25 04:33 PM
1	Examining “domestic terrorism” through the lens of masculinity and conservative-mindedness. There seems to be an observable parallel. Research shows liberals are more emphatic to people and groups they care about, but they’re roughly just as intolerant to conservatives as conservatives are to liberals	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/25 04:00 PM
3	Men and women are referring to different things when they talk about attraction which causes all the confusion If you’re a 10 woman you’d have to be insanely unlikable to turn a guy off. You can tell a lot of men here haven’t experienced what I’m describing with comments like these. A lot of women can feel that just by looks bro You don’t have to take my word for it — people have done plenty of experiments using pictures of men supermodels with disgusting bios about women and children. Hoards of attractive women enthusiastically swiped right and showed that level of visceral attraction immediately Some w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/25 04:48 AM
0	Men and women are referring to different things when they talk about attraction which causes all the confusion Men feel visceral attraction in literally the exact same way That’s why differentiating them is redundant and is the point I’m making here. The only grand point she’s making is men feel visceral attraction to more women not that the attraction itself is any different	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/25 01:56 AM
0	How to hot women deal with breaking so many hearts? It’s definitely hard. Maybe it’s because a lot guys tend to be more emphatictic to women but it was never easy breaking women’s hearts I used to ghost and block them when I was a lot younger but I just got used to being honest and telling them I’m not interested. You obviously don’t owe them anything so you shouldn’t feel bad, but once you do it enough it gets a little better	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/25 01:52 AM
0	Men and women are referring to different things when they talk about attraction which causes all the confusion Usually by a combination of personality, social and physical traits the guy has	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/25 01:45 AM
2	N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD I mean, do you think that makes it perfectly okay? Yes I do. I’m not making it anybody else’s issue and it’s not even a problematic preference	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/25 11:50 PM
–	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 You’re not missing out on being a fuckboy Way too many STD tests and being anxious about pregnancies or baby trapping. Sex was fun sometimes but building yourself up is a million times better for yourself	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/25 11:35 PM
–	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 A lot of women here are the introverted, socially awkward types so you’re not gonna get good answers here The frat boy aesthetic is appealing to a lot of women because a lot of them are confident, socially calibrated and fun	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/25 11:23 PM
10	Men and women are referring to different things when they talk about attraction which causes all the confusion I’m saying most women don’t look at a most and immediately think he’s hot id like to sleep with or date. Most women don’t share that same way of thinking about most guys, but most women share that same way of thinking about the guys they’re attracted to Hence why that raw attraction is similar for both men and women. Only differentiating factor being men are attracted to more women but the emotions are the same	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/25 08:38 PM
23	Men and women are referring to different things when they talk about attraction which causes all the confusion Women absolutely have visceral emotions to men they’re attracted to lol It doesn’t necessarily mean they’ll jump them and have sex on the first date or anything, but women can have that same reaction When you look at most women’s ex boyfriends —they aren’t typically particularly attractive. Even the asssholes. Women regularly become enamored with guys who are regular looking. I don’t disagree with this, but whenever this topic comes up people ignore the fact that most of those women they’re desc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/25 06:49 PM
9	Why don't women like hearing a lot of men's attractiveness is outside of their control? Considering over a third of women in the US are obese and a lot of younger women aren’t socially calibrated (neither are a lot of young men tbf) I don’t think half of your list applies to most US women lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/25 01:20 PM
-1	Women are instructed to believed "all men bad" by other men I’m lucky I grew up with a sister who taught me to be wary of women Just like men know better than anybody how aggressive we can sometimes be, women know better than anybody how manipulative women can sometimes be. You gotta be careful no matter who you deal with	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/25 12:47 AM
3	Women are instructed to believed "all men bad" by other men Agreed. There’s some very dangerous men and women out there We all know men are more dangerous physically, but women are just as destructive in other ways	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/25 12:08 AM
0	It doesn't make sense for some people and society to still expect that men should be the providers in heterosexual relationships That’s not a world or society, those are individual examples I feel like it should be extremely obvious to anybody reading that, but I meant there won’t be a time where women are the overwhelming sole breadwinner like men were in say the 1950s	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/25 10:56 PM
-1	It doesn't make sense for some people and society to still expect that men should be the providers in heterosexual relationships Will it just play out in women changing their roles to become the main/single earner for a household, or just play out in less and less women getting into relationships and they start to out earn men more and more? We will never live a world where women are the sole breadwinner lol The gap between young men and young women will stagnant eventually and so will relationships. Women will just enter relationships later in life (which already seems to be the case) when men catch up	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/25 09:14 PM
5	N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD My post was months ago. I don’t care enough to dredge through hundreds of posts to find it You’re free to not believe me if you’d like Never seen a guy get pushback online after not saying something judgy or misogynistic first. Me inherently not wanting to date promiscuous women was considered misogynistic to them, which seems to be the point you’re missing here I’m sure you believe women here can get hate DMs for saying they wouldn’t date a bisexual guy even if they’re nice about it, so I’m a l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/25 02:59 AM
5	N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD But what is the context for that conversation? I don’t there’s any context which makes that justified if I’m saying it’s just my preference and we shouldn’t be disrespectful to promiscuous women Some women are just very judgmental about men’s preferences just like some men are with women. There’s even a front page thread here about a woman claiming men like bimbos and criticizing them for it lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/25 02:33 AM
3	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 If she doesn’t have a clear body pic or she takes pictures at weird angles to not show off her whole figure, 9.9/10 times she’s fat Just swipe left like I use to do instead of wasting time trying to figure it out	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/25 02:16 AM
5	N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD Well yeah, those manosphere guys shaming promiscuous women are wrong But I’ve also been shamed by women here multiple times for saying I wouldn’t date one either (and a few angry DMs saying I don’t deserve my partner for that lol) so I don’t think it’s a one-sided gender thing here There’s weird guys shaming women for it and there’s weird women shaming men just for having a preference	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/25 09:09 PM
1	How many are looking for a financially equal relationship? I’ve been on first dates with many women who claim they’re progressive and want 50/50 financially but still wanted men to pay for dates because it makes them feel good I’d wager most men who date a lot had at least a few experiences of this so I’m not sure why you’re acting like this is a novel concept lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/25 08:50 PM
2	Guys, Bimbos Aren’t Worth a Damn. That makes this clip even more ridiculous since these men aren’t rejecting her for looks so it has nothing to do with them being superficial lmao I think there is a point to be made how not being nonchalant is looked down upon a lot more with younger generations (and women are just as guilty here), but it’s definitely not a gendered thing	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/25 07:27 PM
3	Guys, Bimbos Aren’t Worth a Damn. This has the same energy as “women are overlooking good guys for assholes” lol This is not a thing outside of shallow TikTok game shows. Men and women just like dating attractive people not necessarily bimbos or assholes	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/25 07:11 PM
19	Guys, Bimbos Aren’t Worth a Damn. This is just women’s version of men’s red pill rage bait content lol These guys clearly just weren’t attracted to her so they weren’t interested. If an unattractive dude was rambling like that in a room full of women they’d be equally disinterested This short TikTok isn’t representative of anything it’s just slop like those street interviews with women	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/25 06:52 PM
–	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 Agreed, and it’s not necessarily even looks either for a lot of these guys either. Some of the guys that bring women back to their dorms were just slightly above average dudes too Women’s advice for men tends to be in their best interest and gives them more relative power (and men do the same for women tbf). Frat guys might tell you they’re successful by being a little pushy or make a few off-colored jokes or comments for example, but you’ll never catch a woman giving men that advice	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/25 05:56 PM
7	N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD I view this topic as the same way the vast majority of women view bisexual men — I would never date them but you shouldn’t shame them either Never understood why this topic is discussed so much. As long as you’re not an asshole about your preferences I don’t see the issue	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/25 05:47 PM
–	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 I think both genders should try to understand each other for sure, but sympathy when it comes to your sexless life is kinda weak ngl	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/25 05:41 PM
–	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 This subreddit makes a lot more sense when you realize most of the men (and women) here have daddy issues	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/25 05:36 PM
–	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 Yeah joining a frat was a crazy experience. It definitely changed my perception of women (and people in general honestly) for the better I’d definitely recommend socially awkward men to go to at least one or two frat parties	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/25 05:33 PM
2	Manly, masculine and high testosterone doesn't automatically translate to attractive to women. Oh yeah, I definitely agree I’d say it is slightly harder for women to loose weight because of biology, but other than that the ideal female physique is objectively much easier to obtain (and maintain) than the current ideal male physique	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/25 04:52 PM
4	Manly, masculine and high testosterone doesn't automatically translate to attractive to women. I used to be a huge gym rat and I always suggested my female friends work on arms more instead of just legs, back and cardio, but they were scared they’d magically get huge biceps and look “too muscular” from a few bi/tri exercises lol It’s one of the many areas where men and women are clueless when it comes to the other’s gender specific circumstances	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/25 04:47 PM
–	Dating, marriage and children are not worth it for family-oriented men. It’s hard because most quality women get sniped from the dating market crazy fast. Most of the women in my social circles were rarely single for long when they started looking I’m sure it’s the true for men to an extent as well, but I’m glad I don’t have to deal with it anymore	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/25 04:41 PM
1	People who are disgusted by only female promiscuity see men as inferior I think you’re underestimating the number of men who don’t care about a woman being promiscuous or not. Only ugly promiscuous women might struggle, but I promise you attractive hoes are not struggling to land a guy I’m friends with a few fairly attractive former hoes and they have no shortage of average guys lining up to wife them up I understand why the perception is there since most promiscuous men tend to be attractive and charming so they don’t struggle finding relationships	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/25 04:32 PM
1	People who are disgusted by only female promiscuity see men as inferior I disagree. That’s fair if you believe that, but most men in real life certainly don’t	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/25 04:18 PM
1	People who are disgusted by only female promiscuity see men as inferior Okay then how is being penetrated by “multiple penises” masculine? You’re putting words in my mouth, I never said that. But sleeping around is probably more masculine Getting passed around and sleeping with a lot of different men is one of the least feminine things you can do. If you think a guy getting bent over is “the least masculine thing you can do” you should be understanding by men being turned off by women doing “one of the least feminine things you can do” It’s just being logically cons…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/25 04:06 PM
3	People who are disgusted by only female promiscuity see men as inferior I never said being penetrated with a penis is masculine, but being penetrated by multiple different men and sleeping around definitely is not feminine behavior either how do you know these are the same people? Last I checked, over 75% of women said they’d never date a bisexual guy. It’s be a little disingenuous to pretend that huge number doesn’t include a fair chunk of progressive, sex positive women I also know progressive women who are grossed out by bisexual men in real life	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/25 03:51 PM
2	People who are disgusted by only female promiscuity see men as inferior Most women want masculine men and I think letting another man bend you over and fuck you is pretty much the least masculine thing you can do lol I can definitely understand this visceral reaction, but I don’t get how these same folks are judgmental about men being grossed out by women who get bent over and filled up by a lot of different men It’s not all that feminine either lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/25 03:40 PM
–	A man sleeping with high end escorts is the equivalent of a woman having casual sex with random men When I was single I approached casual sex similar to what you’re describing so we’re in agreement there. It’s a valid comparison for those kind of men, but I can also acknowledge that most men aren’t capable of casual sex, while any woman with a pulse can I definitely don’t think escorts are a valid comparison, but everything except the sex itself is fundamentally different	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/25 03:27 PM
12	People who are disgusted by only female promiscuity see men as inferior Men being screwed by a bunch of women is good or neutral. You’ve been spending too much time on the internet. Studies consistently show women are just as judgmental about men that sleep around than men are about women, if not slightly more so As for your question, it feels like both men and women are grossed out by the idea of their partner getting piped down by a lot of different men. It’s a big reason why women have such a large aversion to bisexual men	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/25 02:54 PM
–	A man sleeping with high end escorts is the equivalent of a woman having casual sex with random men I don’t agree with OP, but you’re only comparing outcome not the entire picture How men and women approach casual sex are fundamentally very different	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/25 02:52 PM
0	Most men have more to loose from socialism I’ll preface by saying nobody knows for sure what’ll happen in 40 years obviously, but housing pricing decreasing doesn’t trigger a recession in itself. It tends be a symptom of one but not the cause It’s always possible things can be worse in the future and unemployment can become an issue, but if conditions stay relatively similar to now I think housing will be a far less concern for the next generation	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/25 03:29 AM
-2	Most men have more to loose from socialism Your children probably aren’t gonna be able to afford a house. Housing market will probably be better in 40 years with less people having children since a lot more old people will die in their homes with nobody to pass it down too	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/25 03:05 AM
6	Should guys feel bad about being bad boys if women want that of them? If they’d be able to be a bad boy they’d already have done it Doubt it. Most incels have no spine when it comes to women A lot of people here think incels are assholes to women but I guarantee you most of them have never told a woman “no” in their lives lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/25 02:57 AM
4	How many dates should a woman wait to have sex, in your opinion? Assuming she comes up with this standard for all men she’s dating, and she wants to at least eventually end up in a serious relationship. It’s a hard to question to answer because women have different standards for how much they’re interested, and it also depends on how good the women is at vetting. Some women can spot red and green flags immediately, but it can take other women much, much longer Some women are also very sexual and might want to have early to test compatibility for future relati…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/25 07:27 PM
28	Why are men here surprised that women give attention to men they like? Yeah I genuinely don’t see the issue Men should stop wasting their time with low effort or uninterested women and women don’t get bothered by guys they’re not interested in. Sounds like a win-win for everybody	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/25 04:51 PM
8	Why Men’s Rights Often Don’t Get Taken Seriously But the question that matters is: what does the sexism towards men actually do? So just to be clear, you’re saying it’s okay to spread hatred and venom as long as long as it can’t physically affect the person? Man, some of the women here really are just as gross as the men they criticize. The lack of empathy here just proves my point show me the hated of women The tea app had women doxing men, sharing intimate details like dick size, saying unhinged things about men that you’d find on 4Chan, and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/25 10:56 PM
15	Why Men’s Rights Often Don’t Get Taken Seriously Implications always matter. Now it makes a lot more sense that you don’t believe misandry is a thing from the other thread since you don’t think women can be sexist to men lol Also the implications behind those words are exactly the same — to spread hatred and radicalize people. Women are no less susceptible this than men are Arguing for one-sided sexism because less than 1% of men are violent is just really goofy, full stop	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/25 08:28 PM
15	Why Men’s Rights Often Don’t Get Taken Seriously My partner was raised in Ukraine and she told me about a family friend literally being pulled from his home and was killed in battle. A few months later his wife and daughter managed to escape to Germany and are living fine enough off their programs It always makes me roll my eyes when women who claim they care about bodily autonomy while downplaying the draft	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/25 08:11 PM
9	The gender war epidemic It’s not worth it. Anybody that says “can you give me examples of misogyny or misandry” doesn’t believe it’s real and nothing will change their minds	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/25 02:28 PM
18	The gender war epidemic White women are also by far the biggest beneficiaries of affirmative action even in the current day lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/25 02:19 PM
4	The gender war epidemic If what I’m saying describes you then it not an altruistic way of thinking, sorry I’ve read the science, you’re misrepresenting the findings. Porn addiction can be bad for the brain but healthy porn usage consistently shows no longterm effects in men	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/25 04:32 AM
3	The gender war epidemic If the problem feminists had with porn actually was trafficking, they’d be doing a lot more to combat the actual trafficking instead of just saying how porn is the worse thing to have ever happened. Not to mention the vast majority of them have iPhones, drink coffee, and wear shoes that all came from borderline slave labor lol It was always about women just finding porn and their consumers gross	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/25 04:07 AM
3	The gender war epidemic What I want you to try to understand is why are feminists being brought up here? When did I mention feminists or feminism once in this thread? I think you need to read my posts again, slowly You have a problem with guys blaming feminism for the gender war and that’s not what I’m doing	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/25 02:34 AM
4	The gender war epidemic Maybe I didn’t make it clear enough, but you can’t come to any sort of resolution without understanding each other at the bare minimum As this very thread (and certain other communities) indicates, a lot of women don’t believe men face misandry. Both sides would have to acknowledge the other’s struggles to even begin to move past the gender war If your takeaway from my post was that only misandry exists or that women are the sole cause then I can’t help you lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/25 02:24 AM
7	The gender war epidemic Always hear about this #killallmen example, but curious if you’re ever peeped in on incel, redpill, or gamer bro chats Millions of private DMs were leaked on the Tea app were leaked some time ago, and there’s countless women saying pretty abhorrent things about men that wouldn’t be out of place on 4Chan There’s plenty of other smaller “pink pill” communities that spread hatred towards men. A lot of women only spaces have gotten just as toxic as men’s I’m not denying some of the communities you’r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/25 02:07 AM
20	The gender war epidemic Man, and here I almost thought women actually cared about bodily autonomy lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/25 01:53 AM
1	The gender war epidemic Are you asking me for examples of misandry online?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/25 01:49 AM
15	The gender war epidemic Do you mean you really took the whole “Kill All Men” thing to heart 10 years back? KillAllMen hitting the top of trending on Twitter a few years ago was obviously a very bad sign. I’d say the same if #RevokeThe19th hit trending Instead of downplaying sexism or telling men (or women) to suck it up, maybe we should be addressing why so many men and women are being radicalized online	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/25 01:02 AM
32	The gender war epidemic It’s a weird discussion to have because whenever men discuss their feelings of the increased animosity towards men and misandry in recent years, we’re always told it’s all in our heads. Somehow women understand what men are going through better than men lol Luckily the gender war epidemic is mainly an online phenomenon so far, but I’d be lying if I didn’t see more sexism and genuine hate creep up from both sides even in real life lately	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/25 12:49 AM
1	The reason women claim they have a worse dating life is cause they dated a HVM even if for a short time Married women with children report being less happy but more fulfilled than married women without children Intuitively, the data makes sense with marriage rates being at an all-time low. Happily married men and women will obviously be happier than being single, so most couples getting married now will naturally report higher happiness rates	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/25 05:58 PM
3	The reason women claim they have a worse dating life is cause they dated a HVM even if for a short time Your article is over 6 years old Recent GSS results from the last few years consistently show married women from ages 18-55 are the happiest demographic	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/25 05:17 PM
1	Do men believe that nice guys finish last ? I was asking if there was additional context because Tupac saying he was too nice doesn’t intrinsically mean he was being corny. There isn’t more to it so you did answer my question And for the record, pointing out how hood girlies expect you to be more rough with them only substantiates his point about nice guys lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/25 04:46 PM
1	Do men believe that nice guys finish last ? If you treat women like shit (not saying he does), treating them kindly would be considered “extra” especially in the 80s hood. It’s relative not absolute language I knew plenty of hood dudes (and women) who’d call you mad corny just for giving their girl flowers lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/25 04:26 PM
1	Do men believe that nice guys finish last ? Yes he was being “extra extra extra” and it was corny Huh? Is there any additional context I’m missing or is this just pure conjecture? I don’t disagree women hate overly nice guys since most women want a guy who can tell her no, but we don’t what level of niceness Tupac was showing them so filling in the blanks like this is kinda pointless	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/25 04:13 PM
1	Why are women allowed to be entitled and manipulative and transactional towards men they label as "nice guys"? Yeah it’s unfortunately a common thing, particularly with younger folks like you described I personally don’t have a huge problem with it when it comes to dating, mainly because I’m slightly traditional and want that in a partner so it’s only fair I uphold my part It’s when friends start expecting me to pay for them and it honestly makes me want to stop being friends with them (same for guy friends too). I’d imagine women get a similar gross feeling when their guy friends start making moves on t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/25 09:41 PM
1	Why are women allowed to be entitled and manipulative and transactional towards men they label as "nice guys"? I had a few friends that we use to take turns paying for each other As I’m sure you know, there’s a pretty big difference between that and looking at the other person expecting them to pay when the bill comes The former is good if both parties consent to It, but the latter is just entitlement	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/25 09:32 PM
6	There is no dating app data Probably not the exact same folks, but it’d be silly to pretend there’s not a decent overlap I know women who never swiped on the stereotypical “gigachads” because they thought they were probably assholes so it’s obviously not a strict rule. They still only swiped on conventionally attractive men with their own features and quirks So “same men” is probably wrong, but “mainly attractive men but not necessarily from the same pool” is a lot more accurate. Either way, dating apps are not the move fo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/25 03:49 PM
68	There is no dating app data I don’t know about 80/20 rule specifically, but dating app data does consistently show women are extremely selective about who they swipe on Even the Hinge CEO confirmed this in a podcast interview so I’m not sure how this is even debatable Women aren’t as picky in real life, but when it comes to dating apps specifically it’s pretty true	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/25 03:33 PM
1	Women have baggage because of men, wow things finally make sense Yeah it is the same honestly Women having trust issues because of their ex is no different than guys who try to “control” their girlfriend because his ex cheated on him I’m sympathetic to both, but it’s also not my problem. I know women feel the same way about those kind of guys so it’s weird this topic is so contentious	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/25 03:29 PM
1	Why are women allowed to be entitled and manipulative and transactional towards men they label as "nice guys"? Agreed, most guys with female friends have had at least a few experiences where the woman expected the man to pay for outings. It’s not something women here can understand since it’s not a gender expectation they ever deal with In those cases I just respectfully told her I’m not going to and if she got upset over it I just dropped her from my life. Maybe she labeled me as a “nice guy” to her friends but I don’t think we should care as guys	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/25 02:50 PM
6	Women have baggage because of men, wow things finally make sense I think there’s healthy and unhealthy ways to process baggage. It seems like one side in this discussion is interpreting the baggage as the woman having unresolved trust or intimacy issues from their ex and putting it on their next partner, while the other side is interpreting it as the woman learning from the experience in a healthy way and setting respectable boundaries I think everybody can agree the former is bad while the latter is good, and that a lot of people with baggage can fall into e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/25 02:43 PM
1	Threatening that you aren't going to marry isn't as scary as you think to women I don’t think you actually disagree with me. Well, I’ve already said your partner should add to your life so that concept has never been the point of contention That mindset can be healthy or be done in a negative, transactional way. If your partner makes it known you have to make their life better for it to work, it’s probably toxic. It should happen naturally I don’t think you even disagree with me here either. If you’re not actively, consciously thinking about it I don’t consider it a mindset…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/25 10:50 PM
2	Threatening that you aren't going to marry isn't as scary as you think to women Joy Bringing joy isn’t a tangible benefit and is not what OP is describing	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/25 10:27 PM
0	Threatening that you aren't going to marry isn't as scary as you think to women Where did OP say she says this to them? No, I said to avoid people who say this. How else would you know if someone you’re talking to has this mentality? She’s simply stating it’s a fair standard. It’s clearly a standard you also have.. I don’t know about you, but I don’t enter relationships with the mindset of “this person has to improve my life” or “being this woman’s husband is a privilege for her” lol I enter relationships thinking “I’m fine being single, but I want somebody I enjoy being ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/25 10:19 PM
1	Threatening that you aren't going to marry isn't as scary as you think to women Keeping score and advocating for yourself when you feel your partner isn’t doing their share are two mutually exclusive things Fairness and relatively equal share is good, but people entering a relationship with the expressed intent of “this person has to make my life tangibly better” tend to start bean counting off the bat There’s been times where my partner communicated with me she feels like something is unfair, and there’s been times where I told her I feel like there’s an uneven load. If ei…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/25 10:09 PM
2	Threatening that you aren't going to marry isn't as scary as you think to women Crazy how women here say men view relationships transactionally but also keep score lol Pink and red pill really are two sides of the same coin	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/25 08:02 PM
3	Threatening that you aren't going to marry isn't as scary as you think to women Yes, I add to my partner’s life and she adds to my life. I feel like it should be obvious to socially calibrated people, but that’s not something you ever say to your partner or actively think about If your friend went on a date and told you a guy said “I have a lot going on so you need to improve my life in a tangible way” you’d (rightfully) tell her to run. It’s a huge red flag for either gender and gives off a sense of entitlement	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/25 07:41 PM
-4	Threatening that you aren't going to marry isn't as scary as you think to women Guys, avoid women with this mentality. They view marriage as a business transaction and not a lifelong partnership. Agreed. If any woman told me “you have to improve my life” I’d leave her ass in a heartbeat lmao Let them stay single, there’s plenty of normal well adjusted women out there	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/25 07:12 PM
9	The left lost the culture war with young men due to overcorrecting for toxic masculinity Trump won by fairly thin margins in swing states Elections have been very close since 2016 and every advantage can completely swing it in either direction. If young men were voting Dems at the same high rates they were in the Obama era there’s a good chance Harris wins Not to say that’s the biggest or only factor, but in tight elections you need every advantage you can get	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/25 07:06 PM
28	The left lost the culture war with young men due to overcorrecting for toxic masculinity If you want to win, you should be trying to gain as many different demographics without alienating your core principles A lot of Republican values will inherently alienate young women, but you’re handicapping yourself by not appealing to young men Losing elections and political power just to dunk on young men online is a little goofy	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/25 06:48 PM
7	The left lost the culture war with young men due to overcorrecting for toxic masculinity Nah that energy from Newsom is definitely good, but you have to use it for momentum not solely run on it like Trump did in his 2016 campaign. Democrats are looked at very unfavorably right now, and breathing new life into the party is needed before you work on messaging So far Newsom is polling very well as a 2028 candidate, but it’s way too early for him to start pushing messaging to appeal to those working class swing state voters. Candidates don’t start that until a year before elections at e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/25 05:18 PM
12	The left lost the culture war with young men due to overcorrecting for toxic masculinity Newsom is channeling left MAGA energy on Twitter right now and it’s pretty hilarious ngl. He could be a pretty good candidate to re-energize the base, and he’s not nearly as crazy as leftists either I’ve always voted Dem all my life, but I’m at a point where I’m not really motivated to vote anymore if Trump is off the ballot honestly	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/25 05:00 PM
0	The left lost the culture war with young men due to overcorrecting for toxic masculinity There’s more to politics than healthcare lol It also depends which European countries specifically you’re talking about, but overall Bernie Sanders would absolutely be left in in most European political parties	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/25 04:51 PM
60	The left lost the culture war with young men due to overcorrecting for toxic masculinity but there is clearly a pretty quiet majority who do not feel like either end of the political spectrum has anything to offer them. Yeah this is mostly spot on Polls consistently show young men are being soured on Trump, but polls are also consistently showing that young men are simultaneously completely turned off from the Democratic Party. They’re very disillusioned by both sides There’s a huge opportunity to win over young men here, but Republicans only have run someone who isn’t a compete buf…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/25 04:45 PM
–	Maybe it wasn't cheating. Maybe the relationship didn't seem serious. I feel it’s only excusable with couples that started off casually as FWBs or hookups before it organically developed into something more If you’re actually going on dates with romantic prospects in mind it’s really gross. I couldn’t imagine calling over my ex-FWB and piping her down when I was in the talking phase with my current partner lol It just feels so disrespectful	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/25 02:45 PM
7	Most women dont desire assholes as boyfriends. Most people dont even want to be friends with assholes. Kinda have to agree I remember somebody linking a video of a man supposedly being an asshole to his woman, and it was literally just him being assertive and telling her no. Bro didn’t even raise his voice against her lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/25 03:29 AM
7	It’s not dating apps or feminism that have raised women’s standards—it’s the removal of pressure Because men aren’t interested in the same hobbies as women and joining their clubs it means they’re not trying? That’s a really weird take	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/25 03:16 AM
0	Do you think divorced women with children will be less of a red flag for men with declining birth and marriage rates? You need enough people to support the economy (young people spend far more than the elderly), enough people to take care of the elderly, and to pay into social security We also don’t know if AI will ever be capable of completely substituting low skilled jobs, and with fewer people AI innovation will slow down. Considering people 50-100 years ago overwhelmingly believed we’d be driving flying cars by now I don’t think that’s a safe assumption to make And even in the best case scenario that AI cou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/25 11:40 PM
1	Do you think divorced women with children will be less of a red flag for men with declining birth and marriage rates? I think every young person is valuable In the context of declining birth rates, it’s a quantity not quality necessity. It doesn’t matter how skilled your workers are if you don’t have enough people	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/25 09:48 PM
2	Do you think divorced women with children will be less of a red flag for men with declining birth and marriage rates? People worried about birth rates are saying we need a larger percentage of young to old ratio or our society will collapse in our current structure Taking care of somebody else’s child has no impact on the birth rate issue	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/25 09:25 PM
4	Do you think divorced women with children will be less of a red flag for men with declining birth and marriage rates? I’m not particularly worried about declining birth rates, but what does being worried about declining birth rates have literally anything to do with taking care of another man’s child lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/25 09:10 PM
1	Do you agree with Iliza Schlesinger's take on hateful undesirable saying that it's "natural selection"? Definitely. It sucks to hear, but most of the men and women I see checking out of the dating scene tend to be undesirable They always existed but social media just amplified their voices	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/25 09:03 PM
6	It’s not dating apps or feminism that have raised women’s standards—it’s the removal of pressure Art classes, bookclubs and most creative activities tend to be female dominated, bars, gyms and raves are split, but gyms, running groups, and most athletic activities with both genders tend to be male dominated GenZ men and women are going out a lot less across the board, but I don’t disagree women tend to proportionately go out more than men but the overall percentage is much lower than previous generations I think there’s enough people out there that most people can find their special someone…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/25 08:51 PM
18	It’s not dating apps or feminism that have raised women’s standards—it’s the removal of pressure To be fair there’s less men and women going outside and doing social activities. If there’s less house parties and fewer social events it’s gonna be harder to meet people A lot of GenZ women’s daily routine is going to work, doomscrolling on TikTok for hours and maybe hit the gym for a bit. Only way you can meet a lot of these women now is on dating apps. It’s definitely not impossible but I can emphasize with it	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/25 07:30 PM
–	Most incels are left wing That’s a weird thing to say He didn’t even say if the guy was actively or passively looking for sex. He could also be enjoying the single life and waiting for the perfect girl	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/25 12:47 AM
2	Almost every man is capable of being a top 10% man Almost every man isn’t capable of being a top 10% man. I do agree most men can theoretically looksmax and develop themselves into being appealing to a lot of women It takes a lot of time, resources and effort whereas some men are just born with it, but it’s possible	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/25 09:54 PM
7	Maybe it wasn't cheating. Maybe the relationship didn't seem serious. Later the guy finds out the gal was sleeping with other men while they were in the talking phase. Guy claims she cheated and breaks up with her. I don’t know about cheating necessarily, but that’s pretty gross tbh Imagine if your boyfriend was going home after your 3rd or 4th date and piping other women. Man or woman that’s really nasty, but maybe I’m just old fashioned	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/25 09:41 PM
10	Maybe it wasn't cheating. Maybe the relationship didn't seem serious. With women, I think this is the reason for the singleness discrepancy in the Pew research Pew research also concluded that less young women want serious relationships than young men so I’m not sure if this is the correct conclusion I agree you should confirm your relationship status and not assume anything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/25 09:12 PM
1	The “women are wonderful” perception sustains because of legitimate differences between how the genders interact with the world No But it can be, you just acknowledged there can be underlying social reasons I’m not arguing for or against it, I’m just pointing out it makes no logical sense to argue women’s negative perceptions are because of ingrained social biases but not for men lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/25 08:51 PM
1	The “women are wonderful” perception sustains because of legitimate differences between how the genders interact with the world I think the portrayal is baked in lived perception. Under your framing, the WAW effect in media can also based on lived perception and not reality like you’re pushing Boys are taught to never put their hands on girls and to treat women extra delicately from a young age and to “win” them over when they’re older, among other things If you believe women are portrayed as more emotional and incompetent possibly because of social reasons instead of reality, then naturally you’d agree the WAW exists po…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/25 08:29 PM
–	Expecting autistic men to mask and upgrade their entire lives, especially dating, while not even giving them a chance or ever trying to approach them is hypocritical and illiberal. What? You can absolutely be superficial about personality qualities just like looks If I wanted a stereotypical 1950s submissive housewife that doesn’t talk back that would be very superficial and shallow. Also this is a weird strawman anyway. NT men being more likely to date autistic women doesn’t mean they’re only dating them for their looks. It’s a really silly take	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/25 06:45 PM
1	The “women are wonderful” perception sustains because of legitimate differences between how the genders interact with the world I don’t think anything will change your mind and that’s fine Do you believe the common media portrayal of women being more emotional and less effective leaders than men are reflective of real life experiences too? I don’t for the reasons I explained, but just curious if you’re logically consistent	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/25 06:34 PM
–	Expecting autistic men to mask and upgrade their entire lives, especially dating, while not even giving them a chance or ever trying to approach them is hypocritical and illiberal. Wouldn’t the NT man not caring about her girl being autistic be less superficial here lol Women care just as much as men about looks when selecting a partner, but men aren’t nearly as picky with personality quirks. I don’t know I’d call that superficial though	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/25 06:22 PM
2	The “women are wonderful” perception sustains because of legitimate differences between how the genders interact with the world Where are you basing this from if not forums? I know this subreddit is filled with old and jaded folks, but young women definitely care a lot about the preferences of guys they’re interested in	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/25 05:46 PM
0	The “women are wonderful” perception sustains because of legitimate differences between how the genders interact with the world because it happens and is prevalent in real life. I just explained why it was prevalent, you just ignored it for your own interpretation It comes from outdated gender norms from a time where it was the man’s job to protect women and when women had to be the nurturing caregivers — hence why they were portrayed as the more virtuous gender in literature just like in real life at the time Men haven’t needed to protect and save women for decades now, but it’s still omnipresent in literature, movies a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/25 04:55 PM
2	The “women are wonderful” perception sustains because of legitimate differences between how the genders interact with the world Huh? You’re using the WAW perception to explain why people have a more visceral reaction to men doing the exact same crimes as women, and that feeds into the WAW perception You see where the issue is, right? Your logic is circular. Me disagreeing with you or not doesn’t break your loop	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/25 04:09 PM
8	The “women are wonderful” perception sustains because of legitimate differences between how the genders interact with the world That’s circular reasoning Why are we more bothered by men committing visceral acts like cheating and violence like abuse than women doing the same? You can’t use WAW to rationalize that perception while also using it as a contributing factor Here’s a comment You’re misinterpreting him a little but I’m not sure what’s the point of this. I disagree with him obviously, but I’ve had women tell me crazy stuff here like men can’t ever be trusted and women are the superior gender lol I don’t think this…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/25 03:59 PM
3	The “women are wonderful” perception sustains because of legitimate differences between how the genders interact with the world I’m not ignoring it. If you’re not disputing that this is almost omnipresent in media we consume from a young age, I’m not sure what’s the purpose of this discussion? It should be obvious that it’s the most prevalent factor Are you asking why women are portrayed as the better sex in media? Because that’s been present in literature dating back centuries, largely due to gender norms	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/25 03:49 PM
8	The “women are wonderful” perception sustains because of legitimate differences between how the genders interact with the world You’re not wrong, but to OP’s point it’s all about perception Statistically, women are just as abusive and cheat just as much as men when looking at raw data. However, If you asked 100 random people in real life (not in this sub) the vast majority will definitely say men are guilty far more than women The question is, where does this perception come from despite it not being true?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/25 03:45 PM
1	The “women are wonderful” perception sustains because of legitimate differences between how the genders interact with the world There’s probably a dozen of contributing factors and I don’t necessarily disagree some of these play a factor, but you’re ignoring the single and by far the most obvious factor: women are just portrayed as better and more “just” in everyday media We’ve all grown up watching and reading countless stories of men risking their lives to save women and gain their attention. I know women here will disagree with me for obvious reasons, but we’re also taught to specifically protect women from a young ag…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/25 03:32 PM
–	a man’s prime ends before a woman’s does Disagree, when I was single I got a lot of compliments from women on my huge arms all the time. It was almost always the first thing women noticed and liked about me I got more unsolicited compliments from other men, but women interested in me usually complimented my physique pretty often	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/25 03:22 PM
6	Gen Z men's life choices are the primary reason they're much more single than gen Z women; gen z women are finding equitable partners outside of heteronorms 1/3 of GenZ women are bisexual, but over 85% of bisexual women end up with a man I’m sure everybody knows, but most bisexual young women just want to cuddle and makeout with other women, not be in longterm relationships with them Women dating other women is not making up a substantive difference of the relationship gap	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/25 03:03 PM
1	Why do women do this? You realize there’s a massive spectrum between average guys and 6’3 chads right? An 8 can hook up with a bigger woman (4 or 5) because it’s less effort than hooking up with other 8s. Average or slightly above average guys can hookup with ugly or below average women I’m saying those ugly women/above average men pairings should be obvious too	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 09:57 PM
8	Wow, older women really are full of baggage I’ve noticed lot of men and women in this sub are introverted and not the best social skills so they don’t know how to make small talk like that and build off it I’m definitely no social butterfly but I can talk to my nieces and nephews, college students, and older folks pretty easy. You just have to understand conversation structure and have a genuine interest	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 08:21 PM
4	Was you actual world view really challenged here? I’ve had my mind changed on specific topics from both blue and red pillers, but not my overall world view in the slightest This subreddit is a huge echo chamber and a lot of the consensus opinions from both men and women here are (fortunately) not common in the real world I also don’t put effort trying to challenge people because the vast majority of men and women aren’t here to have their viewpoints challenged. No amount of data or reasoning will change their opinions	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 08:00 PM
0	Wow, older women really are full of baggage Never quite gone up to 40s, but from my experience with late 30s women were them either being single moms with a lot of baggage or well adjusted but just looking for casual sex with little in between	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 05:12 PM
2	Why do women do this? But for the most part, the majority of people are pretty well balanced when it comes to partner selection. I agree most couples are relatively balanced, and most studies agree with this His point is a man who’s an 8 probably wouldn’t settle down with a 5 or 6, but he’d probably hookup with one. When I used to go out a lot, I knew plenty of guys who hooked up with bigger or relativity less attractive women because it’s much easier than hooking up with a woman his own league. Sometimes you just wa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 05:04 PM
2	The RP concept of "She's not yours, its just your turn", is completely in line with the ideals BP/ Feminism pushes in society It’s not entirely wrong, but it just has the connotation that women will leave and cheat when it’s convenient. Some women are like that for sure but it’s not a good message to make Man vs bear is another good comparison where the message is somewhat valid (women have an extra layer of fear with men), but it gets twisted because it’s comparing men to wild animals. Some men are like that obviously, but neither are good messages to broadcast	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 04:45 PM
3	Gen Z men are significantly more single because Gen Z women are dating each other - it's not because of women going for top x% of men all in situationships or whatever else redpillers claim Also, over 80% of these same self-identified bisexual women end up with a man A quarter of GenZ women identify as bisexual, but the large majority of them are bi in that they like to kiss and makeout with other women, not enter longterm relationships with them Women dating other women aren’t making up a statistical significant percentage; that perspective is being skewed because of echo chambers like Reddit	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 01:01 AM
1	Let's be honest: men also have different rules for the women they're attracted to. I’m sure anybody who goes to the gym a lot sees those gym rats with bigger girls, and those girls treat those guys like kings lol So yeah, both men and women both have different rules for people they’re attracted to. It’s just a lot more present for women because they’re not attracted to a lot of men	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/25 07:26 PM
5	Why it's controversial when a man says "women are attracted to a small percentage of men" when women themselves agree with this statement in their spaces ? I don’t entirely disagree, but most goth girls aren’t going to date short, ugly, balding goth guys lol Just because women have a very specific type doesn’t mean they compromise on qualities they’re attracted to. It’s like gamer girls who say they’re into gamer guys, but the gamer guys are still relatively attractive independent of his hobby I don’t necessarily agree that women are only attracted to the top 20% of men though	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/25 07:13 PM
6	Why it's controversial when a man says "women are attracted to a small percentage of men" when women themselves agree with this statement in their spaces ? Yeah, women are pretty honest about swiping left or rejecting the large majority of men that approach them. There’s nothing wrong with that, it just kinda is what is This space is the only place I see women virtue signaling to prove a point for whatever reason	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/25 04:10 PM
10	Why it's controversial when a man says "women are attracted to a small percentage of men" when women themselves agree with this statement in their spaces ? It’s only a controversial claim on this subreddit and social media, most women in real life will admit they’re very picky	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/25 02:12 PM
4	Women using antidepressants more often than men doesn't mean they secretly want to be tradwives. Agreed. It obviously doesn’t mean women “secretly” want to be tradwives since there’s literally dozens of other factors, but I’ve only seen people here bring up the crazy high percentage of single women on antidepressants when someone says women are doing a lot better than men Both genders have their own struggles, and both are struggling and succeeding in different ways	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/25 02:09 PM
2	The overturning of Roe v Wade should have made women (particularly American women) more empathetic towards their male counterparts, not less what do men not get? Like I just explained, men and women have the same level of control until conception, but women get an extra mulligan to have nothing to do with the baby due to biology. Paper abortion would in theory level that out and make both genders much happier You keep trying to engage in this discussion from solely a biology/legal perspective which is not the point at all	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/25 01:59 PM
1	The overturning of Roe v Wade should have made women (particularly American women) more empathetic towards their male counterparts, not less both genders should have the right to control pregnancy so long as their body is involved. that’s kind of the whole basis for why abortion should be legal. You're conflating two different arguments being made here One is the legal argument; should abortion be protected since it's their body? I'd say yes, but every state has their own laws and interpret it differently. It has the extra unintended benefit for women since they have a lot more freedom since conception because of biology OP isn't mak…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/25 07:20 AM
2	The overturning of Roe v Wade should have made women (particularly American women) more empathetic towards their male counterparts, not less I’m all for paper abortions as long as the man also has to be sterilized as part of the paper abortion. The risk of minor complications for abortions in the US is 1%. The risk of major complications in the US is way less than 1% Sounds like your idea is solely to punish men instead of being implemented for any fairness lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/25 05:13 AM
0	The overturning of Roe v Wade should have made women (particularly American women) more empathetic towards their male counterparts, not less You know what, I’m convinced Maybe the pro-life folks are right after all with your simple, 100% effective solution for men and women to avoid pregnancy. Not like accidents ever happen anyway	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/25 02:25 AM
10	The overturning of Roe v Wade should have made women (particularly American women) more empathetic towards their male counterparts, not less I’m pro-choice, but it’s always funny how women here turn into staunch pro-lifers and use their exact arguments when paper abortions are discussed lol “Just be abstinent if you’re worried about pregnancy” applies to women just as much as it does men here	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/25 02:03 AM
0	There Is No "Friendzone", You Can Stop Pretending to be Friends At Any Time So why do women say “be her friend first?” I’ve only seen this from socially awkward women on Reddit lol I do think it’s good advice for men to have more female friends for sure, but you don’t have to be friends with the large majority of women before you date them Most women know if they want to date you or not within minutes of meeting you	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/25 07:54 PM
-3	Why do you say the redpill is misogynistic? Nobody voted for RvW to be overturned, we’re in by far the safest period of history and even the Red Pill aren’t advocating for murdering women so this is a really unhinged comment	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/25 07:19 PM
-2	Why do you say the redpill is misogynistic? My guy said “women are saying this 24/7”. Over a million leaked DMs from women on the Tea app were leaked some time ago, and there’s literal thousands of examples of women saying extremely spiteful rhetoric like this towards men There’s a lot of hateful women on the internet just like there’s a lot of hateful men. Not saying there aren’t sexist figures in TRP, but I’m not sure how this proves anything	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/25 06:33 PM
-5	Why do you say the redpill is misogynistic? Where? I literally had a woman here tell me a few days ago that men can’t be trusted because they’ll always cheat I’m very critical of the red pill but this is a silly point because there’s men and women with warped views of the other gender on both sides	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/25 06:19 PM
4	What opinion do you see other women commonly openly share, that you don’t agree with? It’s pretty amazing. I don’t have to communicate much tho. To be fair, I think there’s a fine line between communicating a lot and communicating nothing; the former screams incompatible to me But I never understood the appeal of that. It feels like another form of princess treatment (it seemed to be the type of women who pushed it), or is there another reason? Not shaming just genuinely curious	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/25 05:28 PM
5	What opinion do you see other women commonly openly share, that you don’t agree with? They’re saying they want a guy that magically knows exactly what they want without communicating If you’re communicating that’s a normal relationship, but that’s very explicitly what they’re not saying lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/25 05:20 PM
0	What opinion do you see other women commonly openly share, that you don’t agree with? Luckily the women in my social circle are normal and well adjusted so I’ve haven’t heard of that much in real life, but I don’t doubt it’s a thing The number of grown ass women on dating apps that gossip like children, can’t communicate, and play mind games were unbelievable. And to be fair, I’m sure a lot more men are like that too	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/25 02:10 PM
15	What opinion do you see other women commonly openly share, that you don’t agree with? I’ve noticed a lot more women pushing for the ideal man that “does what I want without having to communicate” or adopting the ‘if he wanted to he would’ mindset The vast majority of them I see online are chronically single, but it’s interesting to see nonetheless lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/25 01:56 PM
1	Q4M: be honest.. do you use the same lines to get laid as you do to win over someone you actually want to date? I feel like most people have a few standard jokes, stories and lines. Not even just for dating but in general Most of the time, what you say should be organic or it can come across as inauthentic	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/25 01:48 PM
4	We are being psyoped into caring about declining birth rates. Just because a problem doesn’t have an easy solution doesn’t magically make the problem nonexistent More tax incentives reserved for people have with children among other social benefits is a good start	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/25 10:08 PM
1	Q4W: How much money does a man need in order for it to factor into your attraction towards them? Is there a number that would overcome and “physical” issues for you? I’m sure there exists at least one woman in history that way but I’m sure if you ask literally any man who’d confidently say their girl is very attracted to him, they’d say no Any woman (or man) that really likes you will make it easy	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/25 09:38 PM
2	Q4W: How much money does a man need in order for it to factor into your attraction towards them? Is there a number that would overcome and “physical” issues for you? Nah, women don’t “demand” expensive gifts from men they feel very attracted to,	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/25 09:28 PM
8	Q4W: How much money does a man need in order for it to factor into your attraction towards them? Is there a number that would overcome and “physical” issues for you? I don’t think the women marrying ugly rich men were all that happy even in the past. They coped with it because they had to eat, but I don’t think they were attracted to them at all	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/25 08:39 PM
5	Q4W: How much money does a man need in order for it to factor into your attraction towards them? Is there a number that would overcome and “physical” issues for you? No amount of money can make up for a lack of physical attraction 55% of married men are the primary breadwinner and 29% make roughly the same as their wife. So statistically, the answer for most women is roughly the same for more for a LTR	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/25 08:27 PM
5	We need to stop comparing sex with money, these are not great trade offs to begin with. I’m not surprised women have caught up with men in cheating. The number of women with boyfriends I’ve seen cheat back in college dorms were honestly staggering I’d imagine social media played a big role in the “infidelity gap” being closed too	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/25 08:18 PM
1	Women give men their Audacity You can be lovable and still struggle to find a relationship. There’s virtuous men and women who are single so I’m not sure what you’re getting at with this	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/25 03:24 PM
2	Women give men their Audacity for that a man has to be lovable. And if he is he wouldn’t have an issue with relationship. This is a textbook example of just world fallacy lol You can be likable, go 50/50 on everything and women can still not be interested with how oversaturated the dating market is with those men	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/25 03:12 PM
8	Other then sex, there’s you get in a relationship that you cant get in a friendship. Agreed. If you genuinely love your partner, romantic love just hits way harder than friendship affection It’s a hard discussion to have because you either have that romantic feeling or you don’t, and a lot of women don’t with their partners	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/25 02:37 PM
5	Millionaire ‘regrets’ not marrying wealthy ex so she could ‘divorce him for money’ Agreed. Statistically, at least a few handful of the women you see virtue signaling in this sub are cheaters or abusers, but nobody will ever say they’re anything but a good person on the internet Same deal with the men here who say they’re good people being overlooked	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/25 02:27 PM
1	Women give men their Audacity What’s good in men you described? They love to go 50/50 which is just well not making her life harder, nor better. If you look at relationships purely from a transactional perspective, sure Now, if you actually love your partner and they don’t make your life any harder with chores or financial obligations, they will just make you day-to-day life happier. That’s a pretty big net positive	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/25 02:16 PM
7	Women give men their Audacity Sounds like a man doesn’t enjoy sex if he complains about all the work to be honest. This mindset is why so many women are godawful in bed lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/25 02:11 PM
1	If women’s “value-add” contribution is pregnancy, then it makes sense that men have to contribute a value-add too It’s way more expensive to hire a surrogate than to get sperm at a sperm bank Do you know why they’re more expensive? Because surrogate mothers carry and birth the child for this stranger. You’re paying for just the sperm, but for surrogate mothers you’re paying for the entire pregnancy as a 24/7 job service Okay and there are more men who produce sperm There’s roughly an equal number of men to women on this planet. But even if men far outnumbered women, if there’s 3 billion other women who can …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/25 02:05 PM
–	It is no more wrong for a woman to have a high body count than a man Most men don’t want to date hoes and most women don’t to date fuckboys so this isn’t surprising tbh	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/25 06:48 PM
–	It is no more wrong for a woman to have a high body count than a man Agreed. It’s genuinely bizarre how women here say they don’t have to justify their preferences to men here (which I agree with), yet men have to justify their preferences when it comes to body count or not wanting hairy women lol I used to have a fair bit of fun during my party days but I made a conscious effort to avoid promiscuous women after settling down. I found the perfect woman and I’m perfectly content with my decision	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/25 06:39 PM
4	No, women aren’t attracted to bad men. You’re just hearing about the breakups. There’s a difference between putting your best foot forward and rewriting entire facets of your personality If you’re a toxic asshole masquerading as a loving caring person there will always be moments where the mask slips. In the honeymoon period, it’s just much harder to see that in people you’re attracted to	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/25 04:38 PM
6	No, women aren’t attracted to bad men. You’re just hearing about the breakups. They’re caring, funny, ambitious, or otherwise appealing. It’s only over time that incompatibilities or toxic behaviors show up. Most men aren’t these machiavellian schemers. These qualities and traits were always present I agree most women aren’t necessarily attracted to bad men, but a lot of women will look past bad qualities in the honeymoon period if the man is attractive enough There’s a reason women are actually really good at sussing out bitter ugly men but not toxic attractive men, and i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/25 04:20 PM
6	The problem is not being likable AND not having good looks (and being broke). I hate Andrew Tate, but he’s pulled women way more attractive than at least 99% of the women here long before he got into the camgirl business lol They weren’t well adjusted women, but they absolutely loved his confidence and abrasiveness	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/25 04:02 PM
6	The problem is not being likable AND not having good looks (and being broke). I don’t think Will Ferrell is unattractive, but just because there’s ugly famous comedians it doesn’t contradict the idea. They could theoretically be even funnier if they were attractive so it’s a non-argument But generally, if a woman finds you attractive she’ll laugh at your jokes a lot more	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/25 03:48 PM
10	The problem is not being likable AND not having good looks (and being broke). You’re a lot funnier to women when you’re attractive	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/25 03:40 PM
1	If women’s “value-add” contribution is pregnancy, then it makes sense that men have to contribute a value-add too So you still acknowledge the point of the OP the women’s value on is already there No, I don’t think women get additional value just for being able to get pregnant. Or if there’s any added value it’s extremely minimal You can’t use the supply and demand argument for sperm banks while ignoring the fact that over 3 billion women can get pregnant If there’s a point system, good looks and financial stability would be worth a 200 points while being able to get pregnant might be worth 5 points (arbitr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/25 03:37 PM
5	Cheating is equally immoral no matter who does it, BUT men stand to suffer more when cheated on Just to give additional context Women are equally likely to cheat in their 20s, marginally less likely to cheat in their 30s, then men start gradually taking over into their 40s and later years	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/25 01:50 PM
2	Cheating is equally immoral no matter who does it, BUT men stand to suffer more when cheated on How many men are out there having secret families lol I’m not gonna pretend like paternity fraud is anywhere near as common as red pillers make it, but there’s obviously way more women cheating than men having secret families when the vast majority of men can barely afford one lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/25 01:45 PM
4	The problem is not being likable AND not having good looks (and being broke). Definitely agree. Men do this too — if you’re attractive enough a lot of your worse qualities will be ignored or perceived in a positive light I’m much better now, but when I was younger I was a lot less emotionally available and cocky but a lot of women described my red flag qualities as “mysterious” and “confident” There’s definitely ugly guys with great personalities but you have so much less leeway	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/25 01:41 PM
1	Where does the idea that "sex is not a reward" come from? I never understood why people here get so hung up on the word. The way it’s being in discussions is clearly that women have sex with guys that meet their standards and behavior I probably wouldn’t use reward to describe it but derailing the discussion because of semantics was always really goofy	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/25 01:30 PM
–	Where do men go to meet women? Gonna have to hard disagree with the people here saying the bars. It’s good for fun and improving your social skills, but you’re not gonna meet your wife there Some good options are volunteering, libraries or bookstores, malls and parks. Mutual friends works if you have a solid social circle	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/25 12:24 AM
2	People angry at the term “Emotional Labor” have never cared for people. If you’re unsatisfied with your relationship you have the right to sever it at any point, and if you don’t want sex you have the right to refuse at any point I don’t think it makes men or women “emotional” or any other buzzword to shame them	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/25 07:18 PM
1	People angry at the term “Emotional Labor” have never cared for people. ”You’re not owed commitment even though we entered a legal contract that we were?” Luckily, you can legally get that commitment nulled through a similar process! Nobody is entitled to a sex or commitment and they’re both equally unhinged to believe	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/25 06:52 PM
9	People angry at the term “Emotional Labor” have never cared for people. Yeah I’m pretty sure every single man who’s been in a relationship here can attest to doing at least a few of these things fairly regularly lol Just like women here say men don’t appreciate or recognize the emotional labor they put in, a lot of women evidently don’t either	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/25 06:40 PM
0	"You bring up the bad boys/Chad theme - just because you want to be bad and have sex!" - no, it's about the simple concept of justice Ignore what crazy people on the internet say If I have a son, I’m gonna tell him to avoid hoes and focus on women with positive virtues. No idea why I should care what the childless user Feminist_Ad_420 on Reddit tells me lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/25 03:57 PM
7	People angry at the term “Emotional Labor” have never cared for people. I never claimed you or Lilith in particular hated doing emotional labor. The disconnect comes from how we use the term because it’s extremely misused in spaces like this from its original study Emotional labor is normal in relationships, and both parties should provide it for each other (within reason, not being a therapist). If there’s no parity because one side is being dismissive of the other it’s bad, but that’s not how the word is used generally Again, what is the big complaint of men in th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/25 03:39 PM
23	People angry at the term “Emotional Labor” have never cared for people. Strange to reframe ‘acts of love’ into an unwanted burden. Negative language intended to discourage that behavior. Because a lot of these women don’t like men or their partners lol My partner shares her day and vents to me more than the other way around, but I love her and enjoy hearing about her day so I can’t imagine holding a grudge against her for that. A lot of women here genuinely don’t want to hear their man vent and it’s a little sad to hear I feel like it’s the bare minimum but it makes…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/25 02:24 PM
1	People angry at the term “Emotional Labor” have never cared for people. Yeah I’m not sure how people are missing the point this hard. It’s not that this specific question is hard but it’s reflective of the greater theme that men have been putting in emotional labor by reassuring their girlfriends with these general category of questions for a while lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/25 02:12 PM
9	People angry at the term “Emotional Labor” have never cared for people. If he’s not letting you share your feelings or being dismissive of you I think that’s fair — it’s hypocritical to expect emotional labor while not being open to doing so. Now, if don’t share your feelings because you don’t want to hear your partner venting for “parity” it tells me you probably don’t like your partner that much To his point, it’s funny how women here say men aren’t being honest or exaggerating when they say they have bad experiences sharing their feelings with women while also ad…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/25 01:54 PM
6	A lot of men who complain about attractive men being assholes and still getting laid are themselves bad men who wish they didn’t have to act like a good person in order to get laid. it’s just because they aren’t attractive enough to get attractive women? That’s half of it. Some men think that way, and some men don’t put themselves out there enough But to their point, if you’re attractive enough you can get laid while being an asshole with little engagement, but if you’re unattractive you do have to put a lot more effort Unattractive men being in relationships with unattractive women doesn’t really refute that idea. The better argument would be you can be ugly or an asshole …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/25 06:15 AM
3	A lot of men who complain about attractive men being assholes and still getting laid are themselves bad men who wish they didn’t have to act like a good person in order to get laid. Then why do plenty of women marry unattractive men? The vast majority of women marrying unattractive men tend to be unattractive themselves A lot of unattractive men don’t want to date unattractive women (and to be fair, most of them don’t want unattractive men either). Or if they’re fine with it, they can’t because they’re poorly socially calibrated and don’t put themselves out there enough But to his point which yours doesn’t contradict; attractive assholes can get laid easy while unattractive…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/25 05:48 AM