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| 4 | For guys in the early to mid 30's, how has dating changed in the last 10-12 years? Good and badI'm 35M now and women were far more approachable 10 years ago than they are now. However, I've had more luck with online dating now that I'm in my 30s. I had the reverse of that back in my 20s. But yeah, most women have their walls 50ft high in public, which makes it damn near impossible to say even a simple hello | /r/seduction | 26/07/24 05:22 AM |
| 2 | Grocery store pickup attemptWooo!! Nice job mate!! | /r/seduction | 28/06/23 03:09 AM |
| 5 | Autism Spectrum success stories?Yeah bro I'm awkward as fuck and I'm not even on the spectrum (I think). I'd appreciate some tips | /r/seduction | 20/10/22 08:47 AM |
| 2 | Has any guy here been for coaching and did you find it beneficial?No such thing exists. Women are people and they each have their own unique and wonderful (and also shitty) personalities. You got to love each and every woman as who they are and what they bring to your life. You must love the women you pursue for who they are and try and see the good in not just women but people. It changes your mindset and gives you that positive vibe women look for. This does not mean you put them on a pedestal or excuse bad behaviour. What you're looking for is your "why", a… | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 02:50 PM |
| 2 | Has any guy here been for coaching and did you find it beneficial?I was not afraid to compliment when the time was right. I was upfront about my intentions, including sex and sexual flirting. I matched her energy and I figured out what her comfort levels were. It helped we both had similar senses of humour, I find that having similar tastes in both music AND humour is key. I'm a natural dom both in and out of the bedroom and I sensed she was a natural sub. After sex she told me she's a strong feminist and she does not usually let guys talk to her the way I did… | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 01:20 PM |
| 2 | Has any guy here been for coaching and did you find it beneficial?Yeah I've had coaching. It was good. Gave me some good techniques but most of all it opened my eyes to what was possible. It's actually easy to approach, especially if you're in a good mood. Girls feel that vibe and want to be a part of it. Always go in with a good relaxed and positive mindset. If you're gonna do it in a noisy bar or club go in with golden retriever energy who's just about to go for a walk. Got a massive boost in my confidence and I lost my virginity afterwards. The girl who I l… | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 03:12 PM |
| -1 | How do you make the first approach at the gymAll you have to do is non-verbally point to a machine, ask if she's using it (when she's done) and then give a thumbs up and friendly smile when she says no (makes sure you got your headphones/earphones in). Then you IGNORE her completely and do your workout. And I mean completely. Just be in the zone; don't even give her the side eye. Then when you look her way again and notice her looking at you cos she's hella confused/intrigued as to why you didn't try to hit on her. Give her a friendly smil… | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Am I Undateable/Unf**kable?Hit the gym. Plain and simple. It makes everything 10x easier cos humans are visual creatures. People lied to you if they told you women don't like looks. By people I mean feminism. Trust me they're just as shallow, if not more than we are | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 07:30 AM |
| 2 | Cold approach is ineffectiveIn terms of your sales clients....have you tried sleeping with them...? 😜 | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 06:33 AM |
| 2 | How to prep my (m29) place for a woman coming over?Get a couch dude haha! TV's optional but a couch is a great spot to make out before the bedroom | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 02:53 AM |
| 1 | How to not let rejection bother you?If you're after a relationship, you only need to win once | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 01:25 AM |
| 1 | How do I tell my best friend, I don't want to take him with me when approaching/ meeting women?Be upfront and honest with your friend. If he's a good guy he'll understand | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 04:17 AM |
| 1 | how do you get more matches on tinderBe a girl, or good looking, or both | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Do men genuinely want to improve their dating lives?It's kind of hard to put in the effort when you keep getting told that the game is rigged in favour of women. From dating right into marriage or divorce. I personally feel like it's a lose-lose situation if you don't find a unicorn of a woman who has a 1950s mindset (but like a contemporary version of that). The problem is that men have ALWAYS been taught how to treat a woman but never the other way around. If we want changes to occur in any significant way then that's what needs to change first | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 01:55 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Hit the gym, buy clothes that show off your figure. Find make up contouring tutorials on YouTube to make yourself look older. Avoid going overboard cos to you don't want to de-age yourself by 10 years when you take your make up off and the dude freaks out lol | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 02:36 AM |
| 1 | What differences are there between dating or hooking up when you are in your 20’s compared to when you are in your 30’s?Haha probably not over the counter. They're not legal in most countries | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 05:16 AM |
| 1 | What differences are there between dating or hooking up when you are in your 20’s compared to when you are in your 30’s?Psilocybin mushrooms | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 05:13 AM |
| 3 | What differences are there between dating or hooking up when you are in your 20’s compared to when you are in your 30’s?Wait are you always on shrooms when you're out on the town or did you try it a few times and then it changed your perspective? I'd hate to use it as a crutch to get myself out there | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Information overload…Buy The Flow from Dan Bacon on The Modern Man website. Comes as an online pdf and audio book versions | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 04:17 AM |
| 2 | I Have RSD Juliens Inflied VideosYeah! I'd love it. Thanks bro | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 07:22 AM |
| 1 | Is it bad I'm only learning game to get laidNope, men gotta learn the game to get laid. Sex ain't handed to us like it is to women. We gotta earn it. | /r/seduction | 30/06/21 02:17 AM |
| 1 | So I went on 5 dates todayWhat city dude?? I'd love to be able to that! Over a week though, that marathon sounds exhausting | /r/seduction | 30/06/21 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Update: Just lost my virginityWell done my man!!! Same sort of thing happened to me, except when I told her I was a virgin she cried cos she thought it was her fault that I couldn't be 100% honest (she was totally sold on my personality). We talked it out and I suggested we lay in bed naked and just relax with each other. Lo and behold the relaxed mood shifted everything and got rid of my nervousness and we smashed for 5hrs total. She called me back the next day to tell me she couldn't walk. Felt like a king | /r/seduction | 02/08/20 12:53 PM |
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