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what you're describing are risks a woman takes when moving in with a partner. not a reflection on either person's character i don't see it as a red flag, since it's doesn’t speak on anything regarding their character. everyone should live with their partner at least a year or two before marrying. but with certain conditions. neither should be financially reliant on each other. do not combine finances. both partners should be able to leave and been financially stable at any moment i had a bf i li…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 06:04 PM
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i think you may be right. it's especially true for women who grew up in toxic households. peace feels uncomfortable for them. that's why my mom couldn't be in a relationship that didn't involve fighting. and why i can't stay out of reddit debates 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:04 AM
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what abusive men have that you don't is manipulation also, everything you listed IS attractive. you just arent catching the right opportunity or you're chasing after the wrong type of women if they chose abusive men over you then you were chasing the wrong one. they're insecure guilible idiots like my mother
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:41 AM
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engaged. originally we split everything 50/50, sending money to whoever is paying a higher chunk of the bills. he pays the car note, car insurance, electricity, and internet. i pay the water/trash/sewage, natural gas, and mortgage. then he sends me money every month because i phsycially pay about 500$ more. however, utilities flucuate and bills such as car insurance increase. but getting the amount out of him every month is like pulling teeth. idk why. so we probably aren't paying 50/50 anymore.…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 01:51 PM
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youre spot on. and honestly ive found that women who find themselves thinking with their vagina are not right in the head. usually have a mood disorder or something that or maybe having an intense ovulation cycle 😂 i honestly i think that goes the same for guys (who arent in their raging hormones teens) as well
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:13 AM
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exactly, i would get harrassed on the way home from school, even walking around the corner from the bus would involve me getting harrassed by grown men. even the same ones who would see me every day. and none of them take no for an answer. they just keep pressuring, especially when they sense you're nervous. i looked young. i was in a gd school uniform. they damn well knew better. i was put in very uncomfortable and dangerous situations as a teen. looking back, im so very glad i never managed to…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:21 PM
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how is it irrational?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:02 PM
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you listed two extremes of users on dating apps. there are people who exist in-between. of course, that doesn't necessarily mean the in-between aren't psychos or sickos. idk what dating apps you used, but all the ones i used heavily focused on suggesting people who had shared interests. apps like tinder (unless it's changed since i last used it) focus on the first impressions of a profile or pic because they're more aimed towards causal hookups though i agree that the best way to find a partner …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:02 PM
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people do understand this but it's the most convenient way to meet people who are interested in dating. people still find partners on dating apps. I met my fiance on a dating app. i actually had to take a break from the apps due to how awful the experiences were. i was getting jaded and mentally exhausted. but i evenually got back on, went through the positive interactions i had, and reached back out to him to mert up. he was the only guy i decided to meet up with at that time. started dating ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 05:49 PM
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you dont have to date most men to knoe most men are trash. simply having terrible interacgions with them is enough. its a big part of why i refuse to work in-person customer service jobs anymore. and have you been a woman on dating sites? on that topic, men tend to complain about how unfair it is that women get many messages and matches.. while ingoring the fact that majority of those are trash. i would get msgs from 50-100 men a day and they were mostly men trying to throw money at me, increasi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:03 PM
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wtf are you on about??? you just did some crazy mental leaps there 😂 i never took credit for what other women dealt with in the past. women still have ridiculous expectations put on them today. just because those expectations have changed or evolved over the generations doesnt mean its wrong to mention that women have experienced excessive and, especially, ridiculous expectations being put on them for generations 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️💁‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 10:19 AM
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huh.. sorta like what women have been dealing with for generations 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 11:31 PM
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errr it depends on what they mean by "not with it" that the sexual experience is a let down and therefore wasn't worth being intimate with someone you're not dating? or that the sexual experience wasn't good enough to out weigh the risks (STDs, pregnancy with someone you're not committed to, the generals danger of being intimate with strangers, etc)?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 12:43 AM
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i would have sex with my partner more in general. idk if I'd increase my causal encounter s tho. there's bigger risks to doing that. disease. kidnapping. boundary crossing. rape. etc etc. not to mention risk of pregnancy with someone im not in a relationship with. especially now that I'd have to travel across the country to get an abortion and it's just down right mentally exhausting already, interacting with people in that way. I'd rather just get myself off in the comfort of my own home and be…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 10:14 AM
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except thats not what i did 🤦‍♀️💁‍♀️ i never told her that her experiences were wrong. i wasnt referring to her experiences. i was refering to her claim about our views being tainted
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:28 PM
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it is actually. keeping things is realistic perspective always helps. if you feel it doesnt help then you dont actually want help
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:20 PM
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lmao no but you are what the cool kids call retarded. im a woman who was explaining to another woman the part she is twisting and downplaying about our experiences. which is extremely comical that you are accusing a woman of mansplaining. way to completely miss the point i was making. did you even read to comprehend, or did you just read "thats not entirely true" and get triggered?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 09:34 AM
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holy shit.. can you not read?? you keep trying to turn this into “prove women are statistically the #1 victims of all violence,” but that was never the point being made. The question was why many women grow up wary of men. The answer is that many women repeatedly experience harmful or threatening behavior from men, beginning at very young ages. who is or is not more in danger is 100% irrelevant. if men choose to not be as wary of other men, that's their business. and im sure there are reasons fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 01:22 AM
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thats not entirely true.. "real life" is that women are having horrible, repeated experiences at the hands of men. with this day and age of high speed internet and social media, the only difference between your geenration and ours is that we are able to quickly, freely, and even anonymously share our experiences across the world. that means women are not only having these experiences, theyre also hearing aboit it occuring to other women, putting in perspective how awfully common it is. and to ad…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 01:07 AM
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yes. i said what i said. i can explain if you care to understand what i mean. i know people's immediate impression of “prejudice” is the common connotation of unfair, irrational judgment. but thats not what prejudice is at its core. prejudice can simply mean caution informed by experience. there is a distinction between irrational blanket hatred/stereotyping vs pattern recognition and risk assessment based on repeated experiences. for example, someone who was repeatedly bitten by dogs becoming c…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 12:20 AM
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no lmao that's not how that works. look, i totally understand wanting proof when someone shares negative experiences if i was making negative claims about a specific person by name, then absolutely ask for evidence. because that can directly affect that person being accused and we really shouldn't make judgements about a person based on mere hearsay but I'm not saying anything about anyone by name. and before you say it affects the image of men in general, each man can make their own individual …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 06:20 PM
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lmao what in tf are you expecting? do you have proof of every wrong you've experienced in your life? don't come at me with this bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 05:16 PM
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(edit: wierd af that this is getting downvoted when it is a prime example of the crazy shit women go thru) because of the fucked up shit weve been through. a now former friend turned out to be attempting to groom me. he targets vulnerable women and makes them feel like they cam rely on him as a friend. then when they are single and in a really bad friend, he tries to swoop in and rescue them like a prince charming, only to cheat on them and being emotionally and phsycially abusive. he was so man…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 01:57 AM
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likely due to the experience they had with men. thats my reason and most, if not all, of the women ik share that.detailed examples include: 1) when i was a kid, the boys in my neighborhood relentlessly picked on me. and, no, it wasn't because they liked me. my babysitter's son's bullied me as well. but even as a kid i knew where it stemed from. their abusive fathers/stepfathers who bullied them. i dont know what happened behind closed doors, but i saw enough to know it was bad. such as one boys …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 01:52 AM
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never thought of it that way lmao. I'm not on here a lot, so i only have the threads I've skimmed in the past as reference, but this subreddit seems to mostly have bitter gender wars with no real substance or conversation. so spending a lot or most of your time in here would, indeed, be embarrassing. no one with proper standards in life would be doing that 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 02:07 PM
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except, one, those are not the same metaphors.. dancing money means they are being made to perform as though they are entertainment and they being taken advantage of and two, he's not saying it directly to you. when a guy says they feel like a dancing money while trying date women, that doesn't automatically mean they feel that way about you specifically. i felt like a piece a meat while on dating sites but that doesn't mean every man i talked to made me feel that way
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 01:33 PM
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i bet she not even married 😂 or, if she is, he probably has grown to hate her or himself
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 01:27 PM
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that thing he does with his tongue 👀 oh and marriage ig
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 12:41 PM
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except it's not untrue? its rampant in the dating world. women openly talk about and brag about it on social media. as a woman, i personally dont do that. but that doesnt mean it doesnt happen. I'm not going to sit here and pretend its not a thing that men face in the dating world
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 09:15 PM
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i mean okay yea.. but if that's your take away , then you're completely missing the point behind why they feel like a dancing monkey
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 09:12 PM
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..wtf are you on about?? literally no where close to what i said nor my expressed logic simply having dated such a man doesnt make you sick in the head. what makes someone sick in the head is the fact that you want to date the man when you know he is a shitty person if you are tricked into thinking he is not that type of person, because he hides who he really is at first, then dating him does not in any way mean you want to date an abusive jerk it means you wanted to date the type of man you tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 09:13 PM
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what a wild logical fallacy you are throwing around.. and you dont even realize it... those women who visit these men in prison are not the same women who are tricked by these men there are sick women out there who like sic, twisted men. they are not the same women who claim to have been tricked. (except when they get caught covering for the man or caught commiting a crime together 😂)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 07:43 PM
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well.. it's been a wild side these 10 years 😂 i have crazier stories like a man (who was renting a room at my mom's bf's house) trying to solicit sex from me in exchange for money. when i was 15. and he later tried to sneak into the room i was sleeping in at night.. until he saw my mom was in there too, raising her head because he woke her or the regular at work who was 11 years older than me, trying to date me and then trying to entice me to take a trip to stay at his clients million dollar man…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 01:47 PM
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i think about this often. dating experience while in my 20s vs early 30s is vastly different in my 20s, i was exposed to a whole lot of toxic men from a wide age range. majority were after youth and beauty and did not respect the fact that (both on my profile and in chat) i explicitly stated i am not here for hookups. and don't get me started with the unrelenting guys who offer a higher amount of money every other day, trying to convince you to sell yourself to them i almost met up with guy who …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 11:58 AM
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You obviously don't like accepting the fact that you women are the ones picking crappy men and always have. uh, no. you obviously dont like accepting the fact that many women are deceived into thinking the shitty man is a decent man. Where do you think the saying 'girls like bad boys' came from silly. thats a sexist stereotype, SiLLy. not all women are out here are knowingly picking bad boys. why is it so hard for you to grasp that people are shitty and play the deception game. they wear a mask …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 11:28 PM
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my theory is that she believes the rhetoric but doesnt feels shes attractive enough to fit in the category of women who have a luxury of finding such men willing to do all that also, 4 years age difference doesnt put you i the "loser older man dating younger women" category. that age difference is still within reason
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 11:25 PM
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and the same goes for women in general. they dont like toxic men. they stay with toxic men out of lack of self respect
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 12:24 PM
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so first off, you're saying men choose toxic women because they're women and not because they're toxic. but then you turn around and claim men date toxic women because "that was the only woman they could get." so which is it? because if men are just taking whatever they can get, then toxicity is irrelevant to the equation. but if men do have choices and still pick toxic women, then clearly toxicity isn't some automatic dealbreaker like you're making it out to be. no one has to date anyone. we al…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 11:45 AM
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well damn there must be something wrong with my "biology" then 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:50 PM
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woman here, certainly not true for me. so, again, please explain where youre getting this generalizing claim from
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:48 PM
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For men, a woman being a good person significantly increases her attractiveness. lmao where in tf did you hear that? the ammount of men who like a toxic woman, and think a good perosn is boring, is astonishing. yall have got to stop slapping these dumb rules on genders it comes down to the individual. this is a people issue. some people have proper standards. some dont. period. If women genuinely value good men, why don’t they prioritize them from the start? Women often claim they want a good ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:47 PM
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because dating apps are the appropriate place to seek out a partner. not at work. not at the store. not at the gym. not at clubs unless you're looking for something likely toxic not everyone has access to blind date or speed dating events. not everyone wants to wants to go to "club events" or social events where you might meet someone with potential interest and grow things from there. not everyone has a decent friend circle or social life with they can meet new people and potential partners we'…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 12:13 PM
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when i was on daring apps, i would get flooded with at least a 100 msgs and/or likes a day, depending on the app. and i would try to look at every profile and read every message. many i didn't respond to because they were gross/sexual. but many others i did respond to just to feel them out before deciding who to focus more attention on. it was overwhelming and exhausting to weed through and was part of the reason i wanted to pursue dating less and less. the other reason was because of how pushy …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 09:20 PM
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i don't think she got the memo
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 02:05 PM
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um.. what?? i absolutely can handle my man's emotions. my bf is the one who cannot handle my emotions, let alone his own emotions. but, to his credit, he has gotten significantly better about it. idk about other women, but i lose respect for people in general when they have meltdowns, tantrums, over shit that just simply doesn't warrant such a reaction. thats the type of emotions i cannot handle and have little to no patience for, especially if I'm trying to have a necessary conversation like th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 07:54 PM
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How can you be rejected for something you aren’t asking for? good lord.. i can't beleive i actually have to take the time to explain this.. you're misunderstanding rejection as something that only happens when someone asks for something and is denied. the concept of rejection extends beyond explicit requests. it occurs any time someone or something is pushed away, excluded, or dismissed, whether or not a request has been made. opportunities can be withheld or denied, constituting rejection even …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 12:35 PM
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..you are really blowing it out of proportion. you are acting as though i feel scorned or terribly hurt. it is, by definition, rejection. that's simply a fact. acknowledging this fact doesn't mean I'm terribly hurt or "woe-is-me". but human nature is having your ego hurt, even in the slightest, by any type of rejection no matter how small. there's nothing wild about it. and if one is a mature person, you experience the feeling for a moment, acknowledge it, and then move on. it has zero to do wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 12:20 PM
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they are rejecting me tho. rejecting doesnt mean theyre rejecting me as a friend. you can reject someone in many different ways. that doesnt inherently mean you are rejecting them completely, rejecting in every way
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 01:40 AM
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no, it's not confusing at all. it's basic human ego to be insulted (even if it's only in the slightest) when rejected. just because you experience these feelings doesn't mean they rule you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 11:01 PM
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i dont know about other women, as i only have one close female friend and she seems to mostly be friends with gay guys.. but im very put off by guys (and girls) who try to be my friend when they obviously want me. makes me feel there's ulterior motive to them trying to be friends (because there is) which immediately destroys any trust in the friendship. that may or may not be due to my past experiences.. if my guy friends told me they werent interested in me in that way, i would (of course) be s…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 06:03 PM
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As a girl you can get by with not having your own place, I wouldn’t say. what do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:35 AM
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i stopped telling my dates i was living with my ex, because they would never believe me when i said we weren't fucking and that things were done-done. period. full stop. they all had horror stories about dating a girl who lied and was still with her ex in some way. i was letting him live with me because he had no where else to go. i remember coming down hard on him one night. told him he doesnt have to leave. he just has to keep my motherfucking name out his motherfucking mouth becauss he was a …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 01:58 AM
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you say "blah blah blah" and "more excuses" as though they're not value excuses 🧐 and if thats really how you feel then.. uhhh.. YEA, the issue it you, not them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:58 AM
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lmao uhhh NO he is not physically attractive. he is butt ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:30 AM
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pete davidson is considered charismatic by many. i dont see it. i cannot stand his stand up comedy. but maybe that just comes down to taste, personal preference. ik very little about the last two
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:35 AM
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you are shown their main pfp to swipe left or right on, as well as quick details like name, sex, age. you swipe up to see their profile and pics which includes a bio, interests, hobbies, q&a, etc etc. swipe down to go back to the main card to swipe right or left on. depending on the app, there may also be a button to msg them, like them, super like them, and whatevrr else lil add-ons theyve added
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 11:06 PM
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depending on what app i was using, it was mostly because i was hardly swiping and instead having to respond to 50+ ppl a day. other apps where you have to match to chat, a lot of guys in my area looked like they were methheads, crackheads, gang life, backwoods life, or no life. and my god.. the amount of guys holding a fish in their pfp 🙄 same thing for girls in my area. but instead of fish pics it was catfish pics with the gd mthrfcking snapchat filters. and boring conversations. so boring. and…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 11:00 PM
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8/15 but 2 are skeptical
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:06 PM
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does #4 and #5 count if the friend group bullies you? or if the friendship isnt genuine or well intentioned??
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:04 PM
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that's what reddit may be for you but that's not what its like for many other users who do hold genuine discussions on reddit. you'll never find that if you're always busy just taking a pissing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:57 AM
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I'm just posting whatever gets engagement whats the point of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:55 AM
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Every sentence of your previous comment was about you fyi ah yes because I'm my friend who hits the gym, right? and the other women who are turned off by all that? No it makes you someone who understands how probability, statistics and math works in large groups of people when trying to understand patterns of behavior generalizing a group has zero to do with probability, math, or statistics but everything to do with lazy judgmental thinking. not every human is extremely superficial in the way yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:50 AM
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it might astonish you that i never said nor even so much as implied that the world revolves around my experiences. and clearly these are not only my experiences. but with that aside, who or how many ppl experience this is irrelevant. that fact remains that what i shared is reality. it might also astonish you that the generalizing a whole group, whether it be men, women, or humans as a whole, makes you sound closed minded and stupid 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:32 AM
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So the answer is that it's better than nothing. its not tho 😂 told to lower their standards and be open to dating more types of women. dating trashy hoes is literally not what ppl mean when they say this
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:10 AM
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Hit the gym, agree and amplify when flirting, plan dates around alcohol, be touchy feely and escalate to sex asap It’s concrete actionable advice that gives results (i.e. helps men get laid) that shit has made dating apps toxic af. practically unusable. the amount of men who got terribly aggressive with me and belittling me for not being on par with that shit and not wanting to move that fast is insane. it was over 50% of the men i chatted with and, yes, i chatted with literally every guy who li…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:56 AM
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For example, they will point out that women say they want a man who treats them with respect and kindness and then they date abusive assholes or that women say that they want men to show their genuine selves and then they reject shy or insecure men and so on. i hate these arguments because they're illogical. one, being shy and insecure is NOT being your true self. that shit is hindering your true self. shy and insecure ppl are their trueselves around ppl they feel close with. shy and insecure is…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:43 AM
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exactly. everytike ppl ask about coming out to their family or others, im like.. why tho? you plan on dating them?? like unless its relevant to the conversation or relationship you're pursing, no one needs to know your sexuality. i dont think ppl realize how randomly blurting out your sexuality makes ppl uncomfortable. its not bc of your sexuality. its bc it feels like you're advertising something inappropriate for the setting or conversation i find that ppl who do this are abrasive and insecure…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 12:18 AM
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bi female here. i have no issue dating bi ppl, but i find i never get along with ppl who are openly bi. as in the brag about it or its like.. their identity? my ex (male) was super not into girl on girl acfion with someone he was dating. bit he was cool with it if it was just a fling he didnt know i was bi at the time and he was super put off when he later found out (after we broke up) and ripped on me for it. he is possessive and jealous. well.. was if. he now dates a bi girl 8 years later. say…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 12:05 AM
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thats not what the person you were responding to is saying. i think you responded to the wrong person
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 05:01 PM
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phsycial attraction is genuine. your physical attraction towards someone isnt fake. that is something you are feeling, for a fact. you dick is hard or your pussy is wet. your pulse is racing. you're physically attracted. many ppl would prefer that genuine attraction and free consent over paying for sex from someone whoay or may not be attracted to you. and with that aside, many ppl feel sexually attracted to someone not for their looks but for their personality. and it's their personality that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 03:42 PM
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genuine desire is being attracted to someone mentally and physically because of who they are. this is a thing that exists and idk why yall act like it doesn't. and i costs literally nothing. i never expect a man to spend anything on me. my rule for dates has always been: it doesnt have to cost anything. we can literally just go hang at a park and feed the fucking ducks. if we're hungry, we can each pay for our own stuff. get street tacos that are better and cheaper than American "Mexican" food. …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 02:22 PM
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you are literally implying in every comment that you expect him to solve these problems. and you even end this comment saying his answer is bullshit because it doesn't address op's concern when it actually does. you clearly are expecting him to solve a problem you sound terribly jealous
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:46 AM
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no it's a salty butthurt response. op asked why ppl are against paying for sex and the commenter gave an appropriate answer to the question. we were not asked to solve anyone's problems yet this dude is acting like the commenter is supposed to. and says he never said the commenter is supposed to solve anyone's problem but then literally says here that the commenter has given a bullshit answer because it doesn't solve op's issue. like make up your gd mind. just sounds jealous
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:44 AM
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i notice ppl take shit we say too personally here and make up in their rattled lil brains that we're somehow including them in our personal opinion or experience about something when we're literally only speaking for ourselves. this whole subreddit is wierd place and it's not because of the type of discussion topics
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:39 AM
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op asked why ppl are against paying for sex. this commenter gave his reason. a valid one you disparaged their answer by implying they were saying this was universal and that everyone can get what they want, not just what simply is available to them even if it's not what they want. your responses are bullshit because their answer was never about anyone but themselves and it not supposed to even be about anyone else. you are straight up ignoring the whole point of the question and answer. the comm…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:36 AM
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🤨 but the point stands.. you cannot buy genuine desire with any amount of money. only thing you'd be buying is their desire for your money
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:30 AM
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i came here to say something based on the title alone but got caught up reading the rest and now idr what i was going to say.. it's hard to disagree when it comes to thos particular story you described. but obviously not all men who are considered creeps are considered so simply because the women feels that way due to prejudice and paranoia. on a side note, it reminds me of a video i just saw earlier tonight where this lady described how she was alone with her baby at her car in the parking lot …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 03:05 AM
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You addressed exceptions but that doesn't take away from my point which is that you cannot label single moms as bad choice makers with a few exceptions when those exceptions are not a few and actually make up a larger percentage of single moms than your are implying P.S. you really think people have the time to reread all the rules for every subreddit they are on? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 03:16 PM
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i did read all the way down 🙄 you didn't read far enough down. And this isnt a rare, few and far between situation. So to just lump single moms as bad choice makers with a few exceptions just isnt reality try taking your own advice
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 03:07 PM
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They probably feel like a man that has something to offer would never date a single mom.. so if a man is saying a single mom, he must have nothing to offer. In reality, merely dating a single mom is not enough to red flag someone. The details of the relationship are important, because not all single moms have nothing to offer. Not all men are only down to father their own blood related children. I've seen single moms who run the whole household but make shitty decisions in men, financially suppo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 02:27 PM
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Obviously because there's more AI girlfriend than AI boyfriends, so probability says more shit is gonna happen with AI girlfriends
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 02:10 PM
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That's not a realistic solution. Many women have kids with someone they think is a good partner bit turns out they not a good father. Or they do a 180 once a baby is in the picture and start being a shitty partner. No red flags to be seen prior.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 12:55 PM
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What a stupid question.. Clearly it's because not all women want to be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 12:52 PM
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I hate these types of ignorant answers.. Not a single mom but I have seen first hand how many men do not show their true selves until after a baby is conceived. Either because the baby has created what they perserve as locking down the women or because the child is a stress factor that makes people show their ass and selfness. It is not always a reflection of the mother's ability to make good choices. Many men simply do a 180 with zero hints prior, to evem third parties, that they could be somet…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 12:09 PM
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I knew as soon as I saw the title that the comments would be full of explanations for why they, personally ,wouldn't date a single mom 🤦‍♀️ instead of actually amswerimg the question. I would love an answer to this question also
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 12:00 PM
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i would 100% choose jack black over channing tatum. came across an old video of him performing on a kids musical instrument and i was like "man.. what a god" you dont have to be an "ugly harpy" to want that ball of charisma. if you dont believe that or dont grasp that then you need to work on your mindset and view of the world because you are sitting here ignoring truths
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:00 AM
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if i dont feel safe around him, i dont want him. i need to feel like i can trust him. like he isnt going to his me or belittle me. i need to feel like i can be myself around him, be vulnerable. all that falls under "feeling safe around" someone. i dont need to feel like he can fight off someone for me, but i need to feel like he will fight with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:56 AM
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thats not a lot of muscle.. thats just built and lean. either one is fine with me. a lot of muscle is that bulky muscle men get from steroid use. i absolutely do not want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 12:38 AM
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This really just depends on how much the sugar daddy is paying. it absolutely does not depend for me. money does buy me. sometimes i wosh it dod because life surely would be so much easier if i could
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 02:27 PM
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sure i do 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:28 PM
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eh in this situation it applies more so these ppl who agree with op
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:09 PM
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Most average looking women could conceivable become a sugar babe false. most women in general are not mentally capable of being a sugar baby. not all woman can just superficially put their mental and physical energy into someone they have no real interest in. i personally could not do it. i would be exhausted from it in the first hour. being asl sugar baby isnt just about looking good. You either have to be extremely lucky or extremely attractive to become a male sugar babe. same goes for female…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 12:11 PM
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what is considered "attractive" varies from person to person. and some personal preferences trump things like bad teeth and crooked noses for many people
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:55 AM
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men certainly can and do. men can be sugar babies too. this isn't a gender issue. this is a type of person issue
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 12:27 AM
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sure but to be able to do so, i have to lose something in return, like my diginity and genuine happiness i would have to settle for someone i ultimately do not want.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 12:26 AM
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uh no. thats a huge difference. if you cannot comprehend that then you seriously need to work on your comprehension because that's concerning..
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 04:02 AM
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there should be no forgiveness for men of there's no forgiveness for women. the problem is yall don't take your time to actually get to know the other person and/or you allow yourself to be blind and in lust because you're lonely. how many fish are in the sea or your chances at catching one is irrelevant. you are making the choice to be with potentially the wrong person. that goes for both women and men. WE DO NOT HAVE TO BE IN RELATIONSHIPS. we do not have to be with another person in any type …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 01:25 AM
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He needs to regulate his emotions and get past it, and continue the friendship because that's what she wants. clearly that's not what the comment is saying 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ is because "thats what she wants" you're ruining your argument when you put words in ppl's mouth like that it was spelled out clear as fucking day.. because they value what we've built EDIT: i literally came to your post from the title with an open mind, ready to agree with you.. that is until i saw the flawed arguements you were…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 01:17 AM
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false. the issue of two timing has existed fpr ages. these guys date girls from different social cirlces and these guys are part or become part of, each social circle. girls dating from their social circle isnt going to prevent the two timing, because the guy isnt dating girls from her social circle in the first place..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:36 AM
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im sure ugly girls get approached too. lots of creeps out there who just want to get their dick wet and dont care who they stick it in. as for getting approached by non-creeps, i honestly do not know how common it is for ugly girls to get apprached by them. and i wouldnt say there are few attractive girls. maybe a lot of average looking girls but they get apprached a lot also.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 10:39 AM
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i heard every woman ik say they hate online dating but ive never heard a women irl say they wish men would approach them irl more.. unless they were ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 12:19 AM
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this is absolutely stupid. people like you who complain about this shit think that women exist just to date and should be approachable and wanting to approach at every moment, every day of their life. THERE IS MORE TO LIFE THAN DATING. regardless of your personality or looks, if woman is not interested in dating anyone, that includes you. and why would we want to approach anyone when we know how annoying and invasive it can feel to be approached by a stranger when we are just trying to exist
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 12:07 AM
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Who's expecting it from you -family -employers -customers -clients -some men with unrealistic expectations about how women should look why do you need to follow that expectation we dont necessarily need to, but depending on the industry we work in, it could affect our ability to make money. make our less sales because clients and customers will treat us different simply because we arent all "dolled" up in makeup despite still looking put together. and depending on our higher ups' personal feelin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 06:09 PM
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uh no.. they dont contradict each other.. just because we like doing something for ourselves doesn't mean that someone else should expect me to it all the time. i like getting a massage, having my nails painted, and having a drink while socializing. i dont do any of that stuff for anyone but me, just like makeup.. should anyone have expectations that i do any of those things every day, all the time?? someone expecting you to wear makeup means they are pushing theor personal beauty standards on y…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:58 AM
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well.. maybe because more and more women are focusing on self love and focusing on their needs they need to improve fulfilling and bettering themselves. also probably because less and less women, may even say people in general, feel the need to be with another person. they realize we don't actually need another person and that it is okay to be alone. in fact, it's healthy to be okay with being alone. feeling like finding a partner is a huge goal you must meet and need you must fulfill is not hea…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:14 AM
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Your bf mindset isn’t about you being great at sex, rather he feels that you aren’t there for the money i sure hope youre right
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 10:32 AM
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probably due to the type of loan you were getting to get because that's been mine and everyone i know experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 03:28 AM
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no.. they dont. which i covered by mentioning credit bureaus and loans. only loans, credit cards, and collections show up on credit reports but most credit bureaus and laons ignore collections that involve medical debt
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 01:18 AM
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i live in a very mixed area.. i have been exposed to all the racism. including racism towards white ppl. why are you making unfounded assumptions about ppl you know literally zero about.. im from a melting pot city in the usa. no a European country 🙄 how can you be so off the mark in everything you say, which you do so arrogantly go touch some grass and socialize more becaude if you dont realize that "ghetto" is commonly used indiscriminately today and has been for many years.. you live underca …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 12:52 AM
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except no one, not even most credit bureaus and loans give a shit about your medical debt. it's not really taken into consideration when looking at debt
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 12:40 AM
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my bf and i have had this discussion. he has a valuable skill so makes significantly more money than me. when we met i was working as a cashier/server, living by myself in my own apartment with no aid. he liked that. i made way less than him back then. actually scratch that. i had quit my job and was living off my savings when we met because covid made restuarant work unbearable even after things were going back to "normal". i was about to look for another job right before we started dating. he …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 12:39 AM
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well it certainly isn't tied to jewish ethnicity anymore. and in terms of semantics in 2023, no its not tied to race/ethnicity because it's actual definition refers to poor neighborhoods. which ppl of all races live in today
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 12:14 AM
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i agree but im pretty sure tue reason those guys got positove results is because they showed confidence and didnt care if they looked foolish. ppl, girls and guys, like confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 10:32 PM
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i expect 50/50 because our bills would still exist and be the same even if we didn't live together. bills arent charges based on your wages. however, when we were discussing finances while getting ready to buy a house, my bf offered to pay more than 50% of the bills after we buy a house, since i make much less than him and the bills were going to leave me with a lil over 200$ for groceries and savings each month.. we havent changed the ratio yet because im waiting until he pays off some of his d…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 03:54 AM
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expecting someone to treat you with favortism after you reject them is ridiculous and self centered. expecting them to treat you like they would anyone, like you're a normal person, even after you reject them is rational and fair. people fail to realize theres a difference
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 12:37 AM
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the fact they were sexually harrassed for the sake of just harrassing them doesnt prove femcel isnt a thing. just proves a lot of men are childish assholes who use sex and sexual content as a weapon
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 12:59 AM
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thats not even true. there are many women who are involuntarily celibate. being woman may make you automatically desirable but there are factors that can instantly negate that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:02 PM
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either sex can be friendzoned by, feel slighted by, and have horrible generalizing notions about the opposite sex. incels complain about not being good looking enough, being used for money, and having sexist expectations put on them. femcels complain about not being good lookong enough, having sexist expectations put on them, and being used for idk what because im assuming it isnt sex. i didnt realize this was a thing until someone mentioned it but looking but ive definitely come across femcels …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:10 PM
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theres a femcel reddit??? oh i must see this
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:05 PM
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a guy is a steamger after sex if you had sex too soon amd hardly know him. just because you had sex with someone doesnt mean you magically know them know. for example, a one night stand is still a stranger
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 10:15 AM
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it really does. when we have 100+ men msging us and to choose from, it is exhausting and we have to weed through them and we technically have a limited time to respond before you start getting rude msgs, which honestly inly helps with the weeding, or before they move on . ngl tho i always end up going back to some of the first guys i talked to. thats how i met my bf. its exhausting. lots of guys waste your time because they turn out to be assholes, and then you want to give up. give it a break f…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 10:10 AM
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mmm nope. the rise of andrew tate is due to the blind hatred ppl have for him. those who see this watch more of him. those who are too stupid to see it either hate him and make him more popular and more money through their hatred or they love him and feed their own misogyny that they were going to feed one way or another because bitter ppl, who love to hate, flock to echo chambers. there are so many false narratives about him and his podcasts including the ones he's a guest on. clips are taken o…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:27 AM
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i started removing snakes without any practice. as with everything, you have to start somewhere and you gotta do what you gotta do. removing a snake is way easier than removing a pitbull. so no i would not expect either of us to do that. ive been in that situation before. you call animal control. unless its a sweet pitbull. then you give it treats and pats and look for its owner on the nextdoor app
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 01:43 AM
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id never expect my bf to lay his life on the line unnecessarily for me but i sure af would be pissed if he ran because i sure af would NOT run unless its actually a battle we would lose. id hope he would stand and fight withe because i would never run if he was in danger. For example, no one’s going to give a woman today grief if she doesn’t want to cook every day. that is absolutely untrue. my brother's dad would give me and my mom grief anytime we didnt cook dinner. we would hear about it for …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 01:19 AM
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i call my bf not to kill but to remove a spider. my bf calls me to kill or remove snakes in the garden. im terrified of spiders and hes terrified of snakes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 01:11 AM
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Men are expected to lay their life on the line if someone breaks in to the house. actually its whoever is the strongest is the one expected to emdanger themself to protect the household. and typicallyits the man who is the strongest. pretty sure if the woman was the stronger one in the relationship, she'dbe risking herself. if we dont protect our homes, who will??? the police??? yea sure maybe if they had a time machine and could get here within a reasonable time. Men are expected to pay the maj…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 01:09 AM
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i never umderstood the whole "dont like other women's pics" notion. whether he physically likes theor pics or not doesnt change the fact that he does like the pics. getting upset about it is just being emotionally unstable and insecure. lying to yourself that we all like other ppl even if we're in a relationship. attractive is attractive. that doesnt turn off just because youre in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 11:14 AM
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as someone who has spent most of my life online or online, i completely agree. i knew i had to put myself out there in some way to find someone. you gotta weed through the assholes. theres always gonna be assholes and a lot of them. most of the good ppl are hiding away from all the assholes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 02:36 AM
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Most 25+ women seem to be either "alpha widows" or in a "long term" with that bearded guy in cargo shorts and will be for the next 10 years or so until half of them ends up back on the market as divorcees. ..its really wierd thar you think this is where most women above 25 years fall. most women ik over 25 do not fall into either of those categories.. except one and thats my bestfriend and i really do not want her marrying that bearded guy in cargo pants 😫
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 02:13 AM
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It's gross to think of my spouse having sex with many different men prior to me that sounds like a personal view, not a fact, and something you need to change your mindset about. It's humiliating to send my kid to school and let him/her get bullied for having "the slutty mom". why tf would kids know about an adult's past sex life??? its her past. youre describing a scenario where the mom is cheating or single and dating all the single dads (or married dads)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 06:11 PM
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how so?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:05 PM
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..but how does her number of past sex partners have to do with her ability to be a mother
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 02:36 PM
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ive seen the latter give women shit for not being a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:06 PM
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you.. you do realize marriage doesn't mean you have to have kids, right??
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 04:00 AM
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online dating is the worst. most of those people are single for a reason. i saw guys on dating apps who i saw on other dating apps years ago. the difference between me and them is that they never had a serious relationship in between. they probably showed every woman the same red flags they showed me. same thing with bars. no relationship worthy person is going to be commonly found in a bar unless you're down for that type of lifestyle and person.. but back to dating apps. i actually met my bf o…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 03:48 AM
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its the exact opposite in my american family. theyre obese and when they sawy mom gained weight they congratulated her, said it looked good on her. it didnt. not at all
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 07:41 PM
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ngl.. me and my bf have been looking for a girl to casually date either together or just me and i am really disgusted by the choices in my area. like the amount of people who just eat junk food and fried food is ridiculous. its gotten to the point where people in my area just breed uglied and uglier generations that are just born fat and troll lookong. somehow the guys are barely affected though. they could eat a house amd still be scrawny or they fat but bulky which women seem to really like ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 07:38 PM
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what are you even talking about.. i mention one negative thing about my relationship and you define it as miserable? that makes zero sense 🙄🤦‍♀️💁‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 12:52 AM
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this needs to be in the about section
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:37 AM
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i dated my highschool sweetheart for 6 years. we broke up and gave each other space for a year or so. we are still friends 7 years later and i recentlygot him a job at the same place i work but in different dept and have encouraged him to give a girl who has a crush on him a chance. (he has high standards). i am not attarcted to him. honestly, the more i grow, the less i am possibly attracted to him. theres a reason we broke up. idk how he feels about me though. i hope he has moved on. i still l…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:36 AM
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he is insecure and he is a dick sometimes. most ppl are a dick sometimes and most ppl are insecure. we dont sound awful. i just expressed one aspect of our relationship that happens to be negative. that doesnt mean our whole relationship is like that. why do you anti-couple people always sound so bitter and think that a relationship is supposed to be wonderful 100% of the time.. thats just unrealistic. nothing is great 100% of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 10:57 AM
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im too high to read all that. but in reference to the title, it is all too common that people loose their identity and individualism when they get in a relationship. people oleasers are especially vulnerable to this. but it is preventable. it's not like we lose our willpower once we enter a a relationship. all it takes is self awareness and mindfullness of the fact that we can easily fall into focusing on our partner and a boring routine. before my current relationship, i was on a hiatus. didn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:13 AM
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damn.. all these comments about how yall dont think women dont care about the size of the load.. i feel like a gd perv 👀😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 03:16 AM
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i think thats just your vanilla perspective 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 03:14 AM
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no fapping doesn't exactly increase your load. my bf never faps and his load is always small. it's actually disappointing that he doesn't fap because sometimes a girl just wants to lay there while her man faps over her. but yes. large loads are hot af. i think its less about vitality and more about the naughtiness of it and the fact that semen is associated with cumming which is associated with being turned on (obviously). similar to how guys think its hot when a girl squirts or is really wet
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 03:13 AM
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this is what happens when you live in your head too long
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 02:37 AM
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I will always think about the fact that this person is only attracted to me because I made a huge financial investment and took a huge risk to my health and wellbeing to look like this that may not be true. they could be attracted to you for other reasons. you can be attracted to someone, just not attracted enough to date them. people have a right to want to be romantically partnered with someone who meets their phsycially attractive standards. im sure you have your own standards
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 02:36 AM
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you are reaching so hard. you are comparing someone upset over criticism and thinking highly of themself to someone going out of their way to boast to someone who did not ask about their skills in bed either quit trying to move the goal post or fuck off somewhere else
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 12:54 AM
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they are modest actually.. they don't go around talking a bunch of shit about how good they are. you are confusing actually preforming one's skills with running one's mouth about supposed skills
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 12:28 AM
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i think the only context ive seen "you've never made a woman orgasm" as an insult to guys online is when the guy is showing how selfcentered and out of touch tuey are. women are so use to men flaunting about how they make women cum and how they can make us cum like they its a trophy (and honestly it is becaise it's hard thing to accomplish), but most if not all of those men are full of it. if youre good at something, you dont flaunt it. ppl typically do that when they jist want an ego boost or t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 01:00 PM
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woth enough? maybe so. but most men do not have "enough" to do whatever.. soooo.. that claim is obsolete in the context of this discussion. "with enough" doesnt equate to "always" winning in every situation. no where near close. it truly sounds like you need more self awareness and experience. its quite clear "absolute" does not mean what you think it means
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:54 AM
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that wasnt your point. you are picking and choosing what your point, choosing one that is convenient for you in the moment, ignoring the other aspects in the point you were juat making.. you cannot says there are various forms of power, like money and social networks and that yes they can beat each other.. yet turn around and act like phsycial pwer is the only power. the power of money or social networks thru beauty or grace is no different than a man having money or social networks thru whateve…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:50 AM
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you just keep contradicting yourself. you cannot say they can "always" enforce someones will and will "always have an effect" yet turn around amd say in "almost" every situation. those statements make no sense together. theyre contradictory. you need to take a step back and reevaluate your theory. maybe experience life some more because ive seen too many examples where money, physical power, and social networks have zero power in situations. there are too many various other things that drive ppl…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:41 AM
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your arguments make zero sense. there are traits that can help you obtain power, such as beauty and charisma, i agree.. but you try to explain all this as though men are inherently powerful. as though they inherently have money and social networks and phsycial power.. when, no, they do not. they, just like women, have to have a trait that helps them gain power. if beauty or grace can gain you power then that means women too can be powerful just the same as men can be. through traits they may or …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:21 AM
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but each of those can beat the other depending on scenario. and none of those hold hold power over let over other traits in all scenarios. they're not absolute.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:13 AM
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what is your definition of power and absolute power
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 02:22 AM
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as a woman, i can say this is not universally true. at the end of the day. i want someone who treats me right. typically when a man leads with the image of power, he's a douchebag even if he doesnt appear to be at first. its like a woman leading with looks. if you lead with power or looks, you probably have nothing else going for you, which would make you a bedazzled turd in disguise and would lead to a bitter, unfulfilled relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 02:21 AM
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how tf does dancing in one's free time equate to lacking responsibility??? you need to get your brain checked hun. take a step into reality
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:12 PM
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we dont need to learn anything except how to avoid idiotic pigs like you 👌 men have been getting away with classless shit for decades man are the ones who need to be taken down a peg
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:09 PM
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it about to be 2023. they damn well about to be able to. some politician made a gd sex tape amd released it as part of hos campaign.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:32 AM
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a higher standard of dancing??? uh no she should not be. she is a senator and dancing has zero reflection of her ability to do her job. you are being too extra if you think hogh standards need to be that far reaching
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:31 AM
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why do ppl rip on someone for being a normal human being and enoying their body, abilities, and freedom??? idk i wonder that myself everyday. i think most ppl are just bitter and miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:23 AM
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it works for certain types of people and only works long term if you have laid out specific rules to respect each other's needs, insecurites, and the foundation of each other's relationships. also, many poly ppl probably arent actually poly, they just think they are or want to be because it's fun and spicy and maybe they think it makes them edgy, sexy, scadalous, etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 05:19 PM
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about?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 10:36 AM
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... sex isn't the only method of cheating. plus you can cheat without receiving reciprocation from another person. so no. you cannot just claim it's women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 01:55 AM
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theres no way to even determine that since everyone has a different definition of cheating. plus cheatimg has nothing to do with your gender. it comes down to circumstances of the relationship and the type of person you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 12:03 AM
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i would be more inclined to have a child. right now i refuse to have children because ik i will not be capable or willing to care for a child. me and my bf both agreed we don't want children. but the difficulties and consequences of carrying a child is what will always keep me from having one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 09:34 PM
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whenever they display the slighest hint of frustration the thing is, it's not "the slightest hint" of frustration.. they're being entitled dicks. or, in many cases they are slightly frustration, but the issue with that is they should not even be frustrated at all over what they're frustrated by. like a girl declining to ride with him on the first date. or not responding to him within 10 minutes. working on your charisma will not make you more physically attractive false. it does make you more ph…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:07 PM
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I mean NEVER genuinely pretty women who engage in frivolous hook up culture. In my experience and my friends experiences it seems to overwhelmingly be average to below average, to slightly above average women who do so. this is true and i think about this a lot if you've seen what go on after comic con conventions.. there is soooo much wild hooking up and most of them are not attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 01:04 AM
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even that varies person to person. plenty of women don't give a shit how dangerous a man is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 11:01 PM
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idk i often think im first attracted by looks but then after a breakup i realize how ugly these guys are and I'm like why did they look so attractive to me when we were dating.. and then i started realizing that the more i like someone's personality, the more physically attractive i find them to be. but once i see their true colors.. if they're bad, i start to find them physically repulsive. that's why i find buff guys unattractive. every one I've gotten to know so far is an out of touch douche.…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 10:57 PM
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actually i have but that's not the same as basic grooming
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 11:18 AM
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actually it does create an illusion. a lil eyeliner creates a big difference. as does a lil blush or a lil mascara.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 05:06 AM
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wearing makeup and doing basic grooming are not the same. makeup creates an illusion. grooming yourself is like making your bed
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 04:35 AM
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as a bisexual woman, i think about this a lot. but I've seen au natural ladies who look stunning and aren't wearing makeup. i think it really all comes down to genes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 04:31 AM
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have you had women make you wait while sleeping fast with other men? if theyre making you wait while sleeping fast with someone else, im assuming that means they want to sleep with one person at a time during a time period and they're not as interested in you as they are in the other guy they're sleeping with. so you either stop being bitter about it and move on to someone else or stop being bitter about it and make yourself more her type if you want her so badly. no one is obligated to sleep wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 01:23 AM
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