TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

YasuotheChosenOne Archive

View 2 posts and 6,204 comments by YasuotheChosenOne on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
16

DiscussionYasuotheChosenOne/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 10:22 PM
0

DiscussionYasuotheChosenOne/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 02:39 AM
Showing the 1,000 most recent of 6,204 comments.
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
1

And? If you think porn prevents one from being good at sex I got some bad news for you lol. And porn isn’t the same as real world feedback, so if dudes think they’re competent, it’s because women are gassing up bad dick. I didn’t say to fuck the ugliest. I said to vet for sexual competence, not just a tall lean white guy. And you realize you have no ability to reproduce without sperm! Your magical birthing powers are locked behind a sperm shaped key. And pushing out pathetic men is women’s faili…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 10:59 PM
1

Way to assume men are competent lovers bwahahhah I did not, but they’re certainly more competent than women, since they actually understand the assignment; enjoy the sex. Many women just…. Are there, and expect you to do everything. If the sex was good, it’s because of him, and if the sex is bad, it’s also because of him. Many women take no control over their own sexual needs. They don’t vet for men who want to get them off, who love eating pussy or lots of foreplay. Ya’ll just pick whoever is c…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 10:22 PM
1

You cum less often with randoms, but you cum way more often with competent lovers. Inexperienced take. I don’t agree with it because it’s not true. Women are multi orgasmic. Men love prostitutes because sex. Relationship prostitutes absorb resources but aren’t guaranteed to put out. It’s the worst of both worlds lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:40 AM
3

Exactly. Except the pussy isn’t even guaranteed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 07:19 AM
1

Naw this is nonsense. Sex is mutual. If you aren’t getting mutual satisfaction out of sex, but are entertaining the relationship because of the other perks, you are most definitely just a prostitute. Only women seem to date men they don’t want to fuck because of other qualities he has. Ya’ll are silly, and it’s no surprise you divorce so often (married for money + sex life is trash = bail at slightest inconvenience).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 07:18 AM
1

Men want sex. Sluts just give it up easier, and “bad girls” are more likely to be sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 08:31 PM
-1

Killing stuff is beneficial though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 08:22 PM
7

I mean, it kind of is the way you (and many women) seem to think physical fitness works. Almost like ya’ll are simply LARPing as being physically active.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:38 AM
1

So they always brought “more to the table” but this is because women de facto bring more to the table as sex is costlier for them than it is for men. It was, but times have changed. Sex is now basically “cost free”, and women are definitely taking advantage of that. Yea that’s stupid. That’s like a woman saying “Chad bought her roses and flowers, he married her why not me?” Um because he’s out of your league hun. I disagree. Remember sex is free now so the value of pussy is down, though it’s bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:59 PM
10

It aint called “getting lucky” for no reason lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 06:55 AM
7

You’re saying men have to increase their effort. But that’s not what is happening men are offering less like they want sex on date 3 but they also want to split the dates. The fact that they even think buying a woman three dates should equal sex is so absurd. That’s literally as crazy as some random average woman wanting Chad to marry her. Men are offering less because women are offering less of what men want. Many women having the mindset that they shouldn’t have to do anything when it comes to…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 05:17 AM
–

Lol first you gotta find a woman emotionally mature and aware enough to have an open discussion. Many can’t. It devolves quickly into emotional mud slinging, and once she feels slighted, good luck fixing that. I’ve lost plenty of women trying to discuss things openly. It’s way more effective to just do whatever I want, and if she’s still there then she’s still there 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:05 AM
–

Naw ya’ll are attributing to much intent and malice to the average guy. More than likely, post nut clarity hit him like a wall and he realized he doesn’t actually like you. I say this here often but it’s really the only way to be sure if a dude actually likes you. He needs to be drained of all sexual desire for you, and in that moment, you’ll see it. If his instincts are to get his shit and bail, he doesn’t like you, but if he’s down to kick it with you even when he doesn’t wanna fuck you, he li…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:01 AM
0

Naw everyone is 100% manipulative. That doesn’t mean it’s for nefarious purposes though Putting your best foot forward is manipulation, but it’s also sound advice when socializing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:07 PM
11

More like they learned sex from having sex. You act like women are these bastions of sexual competency. Many women literally do nothing in the sheets. They showed up, so they’re parts done. Others will give some “meh” head and then call it good. I definitely agree men should let women find their groove, but it would behoove men to learn how to stay within that groove. That requires control and awareness. Especially as she reaches climax, many women lose control of themselves, and it’ll be up to …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:38 AM
1

I’d say women with big boobs/good figures and slightly above average faces probably have the highest “attainability:attractiveness” ratio, Above average women are the most desired for LTRs, but they still don’t feel as attainable as average women. Average woman is that goldilocks zone for casual sex, so they get hit on the most. They also make up the vast majority of “starter GFs”. but hot women in general get far more interest than average. Oh no doubt far more interest (especially online) but …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:48 AM
1

You’d be getting attention for looking weird, not sexual attention. Unless, or course, you’re thiccer than a snickers with a naturally cute face. Then you’d get sexual attention in whatever, but certainly not as much as if your ass was hanging out and your titties were pushed up on full display
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:14 AM
1

Average women are the least likely to dress modestly, as they are literally 30 minutes of makeup away from looking above average
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:12 AM
5

Lol literally today, in 2024, most people are fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:47 PM
0

Average women get hit on the most because they have the highest “attainability : attractiveness” ratio. Hot women get the most attention, but the least direct approaches. So makes sense. Guys are very aware of how they stack up relatively in the SMV. They tend to avoid approaching women deemed “too hot”, assuming they’re already taken or wouldn’t be interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:45 PM
1

Body cam or it didn’t happen. Walk around in full makeup, bra, thong and high heels vs no makeup, a burlap sac, sweat pants and crocs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:41 PM
0

Highly concentrated on those thighs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:31 PM
0

Naw the scared one’s should be locked up for their own protection. Let the people brave enough to face reality continue to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:22 PM
1

As all sci-fi novels show, in a society where humanity has eliminated risk, we manufacture it. Guaranteed in a world free of rape, there’d be rape simulators.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:20 PM
1

No, it’s definitely not. What’s love to you then? None of that is what being in a relationship is for. It’s not about attention or basic social interaction, the people who think that are damaged emotionally. It’s a very odd description that really tells a lot about your perspective and how shallow you view relationships and their worth. I’m not saying relationships are only about attention and basic interactions, but to say these things aren’t crucial to relationships is weird. You ain’t getting…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:43 AM
1

I don’t disagree. Most people seem to get burned once before the shields go up. Still, that first time hits hard and fast, because loving people is easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:30 AM
1

Where did you read “just be yourself”? Im saying if you let yourself, you can fall in love easily. Just pay attention to yourself. Most people are emotionally guarded, and will lie to themselves about how they feel to protect themselves from getting hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:21 PM
1

If you open yourself up, you’ll easily fall in love with the people you like. That’s not love, that’s infatuation. Love is just sustained infatuation. We’ve had this debate countless times bro. I don’t keep track lol. It’s not. It is. You aren’t alone right? You don’t isolate yourself from humans right? You have relationships, right? Wow, self-own much 🤣 I’ll bite, how so?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:11 PM
0

Naw love isn’t rare. The issue is people think love is rare, when really it’s common and easy to find. Why do you think people are so guarded of their emotions/hearts? If you open yourself up, you’ll easily fall in love with the people you like. People just put up walls and facades to appear more mature and sophisticated and “idgaf”, when really they do, they’re just damaged and don’t know any better. Like seriously no one really believes being single is better than a fulfilling relationships. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:15 AM
3

Just sounds like nonsense people made up cause they’re haters “Dudes going after the baddies have issues 🤪” First off who doesn’t have issues? Everyone’s fucked. The people acting like they aren’t are simply further along the socio-path. The only weird thing is why people still question why Dicaprio is, and is able too, fuck young attractive women. It’s not gonna work ladies. If a man gets rich and famous enough, he’s fucking young baddies. And if a woman was young and hot enough, she’d fuck old…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:36 AM
1

It’s not, but even if it was? Who’s gonna question a dude who just fucked a 10? Ya’ll are goofy fucking the hottest women on earth would make any man want to brag to their bros 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:35 AM
4

That’s literally not how being gay works at all. This is just another shaming tactic by women. It’s always either small dick, no pussy, or gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 06:30 AM
1

Fucking 10s is gay bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 04:06 AM
1

If it benefits her then yes. We see this with bullies too. Dudes who treat others like shit, but are nice to her, are attractive, despite the fact that one day they’re very likely to turn that aggression towards her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 11:30 PM
1

Lol really? You don’t think women prefer men who give them preferential treatment?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 10:55 PM
–

I just realized, I don’t think I’ve ever heard a man use the excuse “she changed” 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:57 PM
–

Two average people working together can be exceptional. The issue here is that somewhere along the way, we forgot that dating/relationships are about cooperation, and not entirely about looks and money. And yes, I’m pointing the finger at women here since as you said men are more willing to run the race together while women seem to be standing at the finish line waiting for winners.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 05:37 AM
1

No, but I’ve eaten a popsicle. Surprise! The ones that are thinner are much easier to suck on than ones that aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 02:56 AM
1

The difficulty in sucking a dick lies purely in the size of the dick relative to your mouth. The difficulty in eating pussy is that it’s attached to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 12:20 AM
2

Look I’m not gonna argue with you on how to suck a dick. All I’m saying is that men have a “clitoris” too and much the same as women you aint gonna make dude cum unless you stimulate it. Whatever variation of head that your man likes, it involves stimulating the glans. Same as whatever way a woman likes having her pussy ate, it will involve the clitoris.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 12:06 AM
2

Sucking dick is “hard” because ya’ll watch to much porn. Deep throating is completely unnecessary. All the “feel good” parts of the dick are in the glans, especially the underside. Focus all your mouths attention on the glans, use your hands to stroke the shaft, use your other hand to play with his balls. Profit. All that extra shit is just fluff that only feels good because the glans are still in your mouth the whole time. I don’t even care about head, but women always assume dudes want it, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 11:55 PM
1

She’s 100% doing it for him lmao Lying about enjoying sex is 100% about her. If she was doing it for him, she’d be honest, and they’d work together on improving. You stroke people’s egos when you want to manipulate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 11:40 PM
–

“Disgusted” - Dreamville
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 11:16 PM
-8

So that no one else drinks from it? If I leave a drink unattended I have to air drink it from then on and it’s annoying spilling liquor/anything down my beard lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 09:25 PM
4

It could though. The vast majority of men’s biggest issue is simply being out of shape. Leaning out and bulking up would do wonders for any man of any age’s dating prospects.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 12:15 AM
–

Lol yeah that’s what I was saying but guess I worded poorly. Basically sucking dick is easy cause it’s not complicated, eating pussy is hard because it requires more finesse. But if you got experience with both you have a better perspective than me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 10:23 PM
–

I’ve never sucked a dick, so I wouldn’t know, but it seems fairly straight forward. I think a lot of women are also porn sick so they think sucking a dick requires a bunch of over the top shit and constant deep throating (which feels meh at best). Literally the best head technique is just sucking on the tip (glans)of the dick while stroking the shaft/playing with the balls. Eating pussy (imo) requires a bit more finesse.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 10:07 PM
–

Speak for yourself. My jaw feels like it’s doing wind sprints and my tongue hurts later. Also my tongue frenulum thing slides inbetween my bottom front teeth and gets sliced up pretty good. All while I’m focusing on how she’s responding to whatever pattern I’m trying to lock in on. Trying to get my tongue steady while she’s shaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 09:58 PM
1

Dick size makes some women orgasm. I’ve met plenty of women who cum insanely hard from having dick pressing up against the cervix area (there are erogenous zones deep in the vagina). People complain that women don’t take control of their own orgasms, and that they passively lie their expecting their partners to just know how/where to fuck them to get them off. Many many many women treat sex like they do every other aspect of dating/courting /sex: passively. They wait for the man to make a move a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 09:52 PM
–

It’s all manipulation. The makeup and perfume you put on before the date to make him think you’re more attractive and smell good is manipulation too! Laughing at jokes you don’t get/like. Going to places you don’t care about going to(pizza/jazz), feigning interest in his interests, it’s all manipulation. Everyone everywhere is constantly manipulating themselves to fit in
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 09:29 PM
4

Bruh wealthy bachelors have nothing on single mom’s lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 10:11 AM
2

women Succubi
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 03:49 AM
-8

Not to downplay the situation but, many men wouldn’t dare turn down their GFs/Wives sexual advances, knowing full well she’ll likely take it personally, even if he’s not in the mood. It’s often glossed over (because women wanting to slee with you is never framed as a negative), but women definitely disregard men’s consent too. Many believing men are always in the mood and that they (women) are completely irresistible and beyond rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 02:12 AM
–

From men noticing women’s exes and casual partners tend to look surprisingly different than their husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 01:21 PM
–

Naw porn is to much, just go full slut mode. Seriously, ya’ll so scared of being labeled sluts. Just embrace it. Men aint finna do shit but roll over and accept it cause we tryna fuck too. It’s nonsense ya’ll haven’t freed the damn pussy yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 01:10 PM
–

No, though they don’t seem to struggle getting the ring 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 01:04 PM
–

Better to be the fuckboi who gets married if you’re gonna go that route.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:17 AM
–

Lol bruh 😂😂😂. Women will absolutely marry a dude they aren’t sexually attracted to because of his fatherly/provisions qualities. Being a husband or a BF means nothing. It also doesn’t mean she isn’t in love with or attracted to her SO but… Look at who women chose to fuck casually/fantasize about/masturbate to! Those are the men they want to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:10 AM
-1

Naw. Few men would prefer porn over real women, except those of us who get laid regularly enough to occasionally want to bust a nut without having to worry about someone else’s needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:15 AM
1

Men thinking with their dicks has never been a viable excuse. Women thinking with their pussies isn’t either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 08:49 AM
–

They literally are we have plenty of literature to back it up. You can’t tell me every man is abusive (we know there not) so there’s no way to math out how every single women has been in an abusive relationship without admitting that perhaps those types of men are simply more alluring.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:27 AM
1

Yes, women are less capable of inflicting serious damage, yet and still they try more often to do so. All this shows is that if women were stronger, they’d simply do more and more damage. Being weak is not a virtue. The vast majority of the times I’ve seen women get yeeted by men, she was literally asking for it. Like, you gonna yell in my face, smack me in the head, clap at me, be aggressive? You asking to get laid out. If she was a man she’d get laid out, but because she’s a woman I just gotta…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:25 AM
–

So then why are the most sexually successful men the abuse ones? Why are violent, aggressive men so much more viscerally attractive to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 03:17 AM
0

Lol, what’s your stat for the first point? https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1854883/
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 11:13 PM
0

Women are watching a shit ton of porn themselves. And even if they aren’t, IMO, they’re doing something worse; using vibrators. A man with “deathgrip” or not being to get off because he’s “porn sick” is hardly an issue. Just means he won’t cum to soon and can clap cheeks endlessly. Get him some viagra/Cialis and he’s good to go. A woman with “deathgrip” or “porn sick” won’t cum at all and will blame it on men for being bad in bed. She’ll need her vibrator to get off and is only sexually attracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 09:57 PM
3

Bruh is this /s? Starving women into compliance? Jesus christ if men wanted to subjugate women they wouldn’t starve them out, they’d just strong arm them. It’s 2024 if men were biologically wired to subjugate women, and those men were more likely to reproduce, then how do women have any autonomy today? Why would men support feminism, and give women rights anywhere when they apparently are evolved to hate women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 09:51 PM
1

The popular belief is already that a lot of men are not good. Which only lends credence to women being “lazy”. If women were enacting common sense ways to avoid bad men, they’d have a higher opinion of men because their experiences with them would be more positive. But the opposite happens. Women latch onto “bad men” ,and then when shit inevitably hits the fan, they point fingers at all the good men. And the real “contrary to popular belief” is that women suck just as much as men and we’re both …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 09:10 PM
2

My point is that your common sense ways to mitigate harm are sound, and should easily weed out the majority of bad actors. So if women are taking this measures, how is it that they so commonly “get sick”? Obviously, they’re “being lazy”.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 12:42 PM
1

But clearly they aren’t. Women are constantly “getting sick” and we can see this in the way they bitch about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 12:02 PM
1

Okay so then what’s the problem? Are most women just lazy?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:47 AM
-1

Avoiding men would require hyper vigilance, similar to constantly washing your hands to avoid getting sick. Both can easily be accomplished but require intentional effort. Intentional effort is exhaustive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:39 AM
1

Apparently not? If it was, why would it even be a concern?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:24 AM
1

So you don’t find your husband attractive? And if he’s the tallest man you’ve been with, then you literally married the tallest man you’ve been with. Not to mention, there are plenty of places where the average height is <5’6” so technically your husband could be tall locally 🤷🏾‍♂️ Which hivemind am I parroting? Where have you ever heard someone question the n-count required to assume most dick is bad? And speaking of, what’s your n-count. You say your husband was the first to try to get you off…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 12:24 AM
4

Don’t do it. She sounds like she’ll make things exceptionally complicated for you at work if things escalate. There’s also a chance she’s just bread-crumbing you, and the moment you make a move she’ll cry foul (I’ve literally had this happen with a girl I worked with before and as you imagine despite having texts to prove it, I was blamed, shamed, and eventually fired). The best kind of women to fuck with at work are the low key ones. She’s beyond extra. Stalker class. Your treading a thin line …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:50 PM
1

Because then you’ll have to maintain a state of hyper awareness which is both stressful and exhausting. Eventually your guard will drop, and you’ll be easy pickings
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:27 PM
2

Well, no one said you had to. You commented on your own. But just out of curiosity, what can’t you take serious? You think above average guys with good dick don’t exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 12:13 AM
2

This makes no sense and never has. If men didn’t care about women’s orgasms, then why would women fake them? Obviously men care. Our dicks and sexual prowess are connected to our egos. Being bad in bed is not something any man strives for (or even believes he is). Not to mention, getting laid is hard work. To go through all that effort just to not care if the sex is any good doesn’t math out. Literally never met a man who brags about being bad in bed. And speaking of math, 99%? How many dicks ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 09:58 PM
-1

No, just my own experiences and theories as an above average guy with really good dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 09:05 PM
1

All dicks bad and all pussies the same 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 09:00 PM
16

Naw women definitely like good dick but it comes second to looks/money/status. My guess is because good dick isn’t something that gets her any social points like the other 3 do. Besides, she can always just lie about her sex life. Having an attractive BF is more impressive than good dick to other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:11 PM
34

Oh man faking orgasms is the greatest disservice women provide. Literally training dudes to be bad in bed. Mind boggling lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:55 AM
1

Men already lower there standards and fat single mom’s are not struggling for that exact reason
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 02:55 AM
1

They don’t need to. All they need to change is their expectations. There’s groups of people shitting on literally everyone. Yes, certain groups (like obese women) are easy targets, and consider less attractive to a large group of men, but there’s still endless amounts of men who love a big girl. Older women still get love. Ugly faced women just wear makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 01:01 AM
1

I said largely immutable, because looks are always at the top of anyones list, and there’s not much you can do about your face/height/bone structure. Literally every size and shape of women has men who desire it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 12:02 AM
1

Yes but only men are required to have one or be labeled a scrub/loser and locked out of dating. Women can be homeless and still crush it romantically.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 11:49 PM
2

Because men’s standards rarely involve immutable qualities in women. There will be tons of women who fit the standards of the majority of men, because the bar isn’t all that high for women. Obviously each man is unique but it pretty much comes down to the classic “bang maid” that women despise so much. Despite that though, it’s easy as fuck to be 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:55 PM
2

Men value women for mutable characteristics with low bars while women value men for largely immutable characteristics with high bars. For instance being pleasant and average looking is enough for a many woman to be very successful romantically. Meanwhile a dude must be above average in many ways before dating gets easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:53 PM
3

How can you confidently say that? By being confident. You don’t even know me. It’s not about you, but about the state of average men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:47 PM
2

That’s a weird way to look at it. What I meant is basically having no standards. Oh I thought you meant you didn’t like men who had standards at all. Yes there’s plenty of desperate dudes who will take whatever is thrown their way but the majority of dudes (even thirsty ones) still have standards on who the vagina they’re after is connected too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:43 PM
0

this mentality is exactly what we hate the most. A sentiment that has always baffled me, but perhaps because I am man. Women hate what men value in them, and try desperately to separate themselves from those expectations, all the while heavily pursing men who conform to their own expectations. Worst of all, it’s working. As narcissistic as it may be, women are somehow both punishing men for not being what they want, and for expecting women to be, well… anything 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 11:40 AM
6

Lol no you don’t 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 06:57 AM
-2

Women do add value but the value men seek is something all women can provide. The value women seek must be cultivated meticulously.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 06:52 AM
6

It’s just how gender roles/expectations work despite people seemingly being stupid about it. Same as women wanting financial security in a man. Doesn’t matter if it’s “unfair” or whatever, if women want that, men have no choice but to get money or struggle with women. Similarly, women who don’t/refuse to provide value in the way men want will struggle dating. If men want mommy bang maids well… women become bang maids for the men they find attractive so 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:06 PM
10

IME, women slip into that role on their own. It’s how many women show “value”; by playing mother/housekeeper.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 09:59 PM
8

They still charge it to the game though. Plenty of women believe their effort should be compensated, while also claiming they don’t do it for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:56 AM
1

Ambien does the math but I prefer cialis over viagra.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:53 AM
5

MO to me is just multiple in a session. If you have sex for an hr and cum once every 30 minutes, that’s multi orgasmic. As opposed to men where they often need at least a couple hours to recover, if not a full day. That’s unfortunate, though not uncommon. I’ve met plenty of women who were the same, though once they experienced having multiples, it became a lot easier for them to have them. Almost like they just had to “unlock” the potential for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 02:35 AM
4

Interesting, since I’ve never (maybe like 1 or 2 times) met a woman who couldn’t. I have a theory that women who can are simply more likely to seek out casual sex, which could be skewing my results.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 02:12 AM
5

So most women are multi orgasmic, but only a minority ever experience it? Idk 15% sounds small but my experience may be unique 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 02:03 AM
4

There can be conversations about lack of communication and fear or anxiety on the part of the women where it leads to not orgasming from sex. True, but open communication of one’s needs often increase your odds of getting off. But that’s not the point of the conversation. The other poster made the claim “men don’t care if women orgasm” and another said “sex has low pay off for women bc they don’t cum”. Both statements of which are false. Of course men care if women orgasm why else would women fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 01:10 AM
2

Lol if you can’t manage both you’re doing it wrong 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 12:36 AM
2

Right, and you use that survey to extrapolate that most men are bad in bed. The truth is way more complicated. Women are less comfortable/open with men and will have sex they don’t really want to have for whatever reasons. They also are less likely to be assertive with their needs with men. Women have some fear of hurting a man’s ego, and so will pretend instead of voicing their needs. All these things can lead to poor sex for her while the man feels he’s putting in work. The survey also ignores…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 12:34 AM
3

I guess? I only watch porn of women masturbating so I guess I can’t say.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:59 PM
3

They weren’t cumming with some men. The men they did cum with, they were having multiple orgasms.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:52 PM
–

If you know then why are you fucking them? And you don’t want to hurt the feelings of someone who doesn’t care about yours? Why can’t ya’ll be that nice to the dudes you reject? Why not just let them fuck you since you don’t wanna hurt their feelings? Point being, fuck those dudes. It’s frustrating cause I literally tell women straight up I want to make them cum and it doesn’t benefit me. Ya’ll still go for the guys who don’t give a fuck lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:51 PM
1

Ehh yes and no you don’t, since true ugly is statically uncommon. You likely just see average people you think are unattractive in relationships all the time, which is fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:48 PM
3

The orgasm gap was about at least one orgasm during sex. Hence misrepresented. Women have less orgasm per sexual encounter, but multiple orgasms when they orgasm! It’s simply a matter of finding the dude who has the capacity to get you off. Once you find him, the quality of your sex lives far exceeds anything men are capable of achieving. Women cum so hard and so much it’s almost better than cumming myself. I’d rather see her cum multiple times than myself cum once 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:44 PM
3

I think it’s more so that there’s a man willing to fuck any woman, which extrapolated across the whole gender equals “men will fuck anything”. For women there are absolutely men they’d collectively never touch, and as such are completely locked out of sex (aside paying for it). This makes it seem like men have no standards (because ugly women can get laid) and women have high standards (because ugly men can’t get laid).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:31 PM
–

I don’t understand, how do they think she should enjoy it? I mean, if she’s enjoying it she’s enjoying it right? I agree though each woman is “unique” and one must learn/adjust to her bodies needs (which is a lot of the fun of sex… at least for me anyway lol). Hmm okay I’ve definitely seen this, but also even in more experienced women. We really need to get past these patriarchal ideals of sex and women so that they can feel more comfy getting fucked. I definitely feel a lot of women hold back f…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:07 PM
4

The orgasm gap is misrepresented. Women are multi orgasmic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:58 PM
–

A lot of women are saying the men don’t even care about their pleasure so why would men get frustrated if they don’t care? She has nothing to lose by communicating her needs (so long as she doesn’t do it in an insulting way). Saying “do this” or “right there” or “like that” isn’t going to ruin the mood. Or hell, just take control of your own pleasure. Reach down and rub the clit if he’s ignoring it. Bring a vibrator. Set sexual boundaries (I don’t have sex with guys who don’t eat pussy), or just…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:45 PM
–

If you fake it how do you know they don’t care? In fact, if they didn’t care, why did you even fake it in the first place?!? Dude doesn’t care right? So why put more effort into pretending to enjoy it instead of voicing your issues or just kicking him out??? Why instead do you choose to reinforce bad habits/sex and then just send him out with his ego bolstered to go fuck other women? Ya’ll females are goofy as fuck 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:37 PM
–

We have so much evidence and literature showing that effed up men do better sexually. It’s not victim blaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:33 PM
–

Lol and how many men have you fucked to make this assessment? 🤔 How do you feel about men who are overt in their desire to make you orgasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:30 PM
–

And how do you know this? Are men literally telling you they do not care about your pleasure, and just want to use you for a quick nut? Do you think such a strategy would work for any man who isn’t Chad tier? Do you think the common man, who has to grind for even a chance at pussy, would intentionally be a bad lover, just because? Math aint mathin. Too much work to get laid to intentionally disregard your partner’s pleasure unless you already have an abundance of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:25 PM
–

Exactly this. Women approach sex with the mindset that it’ll be subpar and that it’s basically something they give to men. With this kind of mentality it’s no surprise women struggle to orgasm. Even crazier (as you said) how could you know you aren’t going to cum? How could you know that the sex will most likely be subpar if you haven’t fucked? Either women’s n-counts are higher than they let on (meaning they have the experience to rightfully assume most sex is subpar), or the hivemind strikes a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:22 PM
3

No one said uncomfortable. Personally, I just don’t wanna see dick in my porn. I don’t care about some dude grunting and plowing his way through some pussy. All I want to see is her masturbating to orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 04:34 AM
1

Using terms like “fragile masculinity” is a red flag too Hetero women watching lesbian porn is basic. Hetero men aren’t watching gay porn. There is no grey area here either you like dick or you don’t. And women are notoriously icked out by bi-sexual men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 12:07 AM
4

Naw that’s more like in-group bias which men don’t really have. Like yeah we respect each other but more so in the sense that other men are potential threats and walking around being an asshole is a surefire way to get your ass kicked. For the most part dudes don’t give two-fucks about other random dudes 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 11:27 PM
1

Conversely, male privilege is knowing that all (most) sex will be at least good enough, while women have no way of vetting for good dick, and that every sexual encounter is a gamble
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 11:23 PM
5

Afraid of liking dick? Do you avoid unattractive men because you’re afraid of liking ugly? I don’t like dicks period. Im not afraid of them, I just don’t want to watch other men fuck. Feels cuckish.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 11:18 PM
7

Unresolved? I personally do not enjoy watching another man fuck some women lol. I much rather watch a women fuck herself 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 11:08 PM
2

What stats am I twisting? It’s literally right there in the study 🤔 And I don’t care if women out earn men. In fact please do so we can hurry up and make SAHDs the norm. Working sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 10:50 AM
1

Taste? How do you specifically vet for partners who are poor communicators in bed? And it’s literally common knowledge amongst dudes fucking women. The number of women who don’t even know how to get themselves off is staggering. I’m not surprised you don’t know since you likely don’t fuck women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 10:48 AM
1

1/3? Cap. 1/3 of marriages are egalitarian with the dude making slightly more, and half have a male breadwinner, leaving ~16% of women out earning their husbands with only a fraction of them being the sole breadwinners https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2023/04/13/in-a-growing-share-of-u-s-marriages-husbands-and-wives-earn-about-the-same/
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 09:26 AM
1

Lol making excuses when it’s literally common knowledge that women are notoriously poor communicators in bed and see sex as something they give to men/men do to them. Whole swaths of women have the mindset that just showing up is enough. Again, maybe try fucking more women 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 09:18 AM
1

To be fair, my n-count is triple digits. Again, it’s too consistent. Idk how many women you’ve slept with but… yeah I’ma have to go with my own anecdotes. And honestly it doesn’t bother me either way. I kind of like when a girl does nothing, since all I want is to see how many times I can make her cum. I’ll get mine if I want no matter what she does so I’d rather her just relax and bust as many nuts as possible lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 08:05 AM
1

All kinds. Seems to be a pretty consistent mindset that the quality of sex depends on the man, and that the women is just basically there experiencing it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 04:19 AM
3

Exactly. I don’t expect women to do shit in bed, and as such, got really good at figuring out what individual women like. I guess when you fumble around in the dark long enough, you eventually learn to “see”.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:14 AM
1

I didn’t say they do nothing, but after a little head or riding most women are spent and just wanna get fucked 🤷🏾‍♂️😂 Hasn’t been my experience, but perhaps having a big dick makes a difference. I’m starting to think my sexual experience with women is akin to walking around as a Chad. Where every women claims most sex is meh and they rarely cum, my experience is handing out orgasms easily and leaving women sleeping in puddles 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 09:51 PM
–

I mean are we talking pheromone stink or like haven’t washed properly stink? The former I feel is common, even if people don’t want to admit it. Panty sniffing is “weird” but it’s all about them pheromones, not the smell of urine/shit. My GF likes to cuddle with my sweaty gym shirt 🤷🏾‍♂️ Now are there dudes into the smell of nasty unwashed flesh? Sure, but definitely outliers lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 08:38 AM
1

Bruh, she wants to cum just like every other woman, and she’ll get there just like every other women too; consistent stimulation of the genitals. It’s literally no more work than fucking any other random woman. Many have no clue what they want or how they like it. The majority of their sexual experiences are with a vibrator or some incompetent lover. 90% of sex is the dude taking control anyway so while her experience helps, in the end whether the sex is good will be on him. She’s just gonna end…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:52 AM
–

Decently sized sample. Lots of variety. All races and sizes. Virgins and sluts. Doesn’t seem to matter 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:34 AM
–

Yes of course but anytime someone says “jackhammer” online ya’ll all have this same rigid assumption of what is meant, yet literally never have I encounter a women who didn’t enjoy getting her cheeks clapped 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:13 AM
–

Only real offense is smelling really bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:11 AM
–

Bench press em 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:10 AM
–

You’re mistake was assuming I have sex to get myself off, when actually I have sex to get her off. I wouldn’t advocate for, or, utilize the “jackhammer” technique if it was not effective. Any speed/force will feel good for me so what I want is irrelevant 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:56 AM
–

I mean yeah you still gotta get them in the sheets, and there’s more to sex than just pure fitness, but certainly you have a massive leg up on the majority of dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 01:56 AM
–

You all say that online. Ya’ll got porn brain or something. In real life, getting fucked hard for a sustained period of time in a position you like is enjoyable, so long as you aren’t going too deep or too hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 01:55 AM
–

Men, the truth is, if you’ve ever been fit, it becomes abundantly clear why women would pursue those types of men sexually. 90% of sex is dude putting in work (which is why women can get away with being out of shape), and if you’re out of shape/weak, well, you aint finna be able to fuck her good and hard. Seriously imagine the type of force a dude can put into sex when he can squat/dealift multiples of her bodyweight. And god help you if you skip your cardio. Trust me I know cardio is ass. Runni…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 01:27 AM
1

Yes but it doesn’t “feel good” in a vacuum. Even alone on lockdown, it wasn’t like you’d never met another human before, or didn’t have concepts of beauty; what’s attractive or not (both culturally and to you). Emulating personal and/or cultural ideals of beauty will make you feel good because it’s socially validating. You don’t need others around to know this once you’ve experienced it. You’ll simply imagine in your minds eye the attention you’ll receive, and “feel good” about dressing up. Agai…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 08:21 AM
7

I could agree women are doing it for their own enjoyment if everything they did didn’t specifically enhance their looks. It’s not like women are painting on clown faces and wearing burlap sacs. And the lengths many go to certainly could not be “for themselves”. Humans are lazy. I guarantee the vast majority of women wish they could feel secure never having to wear makeup/dress up. Just imagine what you’d do in a vacuum. If there were no other humans, would you dress up still? The answer is no, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:37 AM
2

My GF does them herself at home. Takes em off every couple of days.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 12:36 PM
1

Yeah but beards aren’t the same. For one it doesn’t universally make dudes faces more attractive. Tons of women don’t like beards, or even think they’re deceptive (go figure lol). Extensions can be removed and applied. Beards, not so much. The equivalent would be more like drawing on a hairline or something
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 10:01 AM
1

And many do have sparse lashes. Certainly not as lush as extensions make them. I don’t even know what it is about them that’s attractive. So weird. And I can’t think of any little tricks like that guys can pull to improve their face game. Seems for dudes it’s all bone structure
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:45 AM
1

Eyelash extensions have a massive impact on a women’s looks and ya’ll are bummy asf for denying it. On god men should start asking for before/after pics 😂 Prove you as cute without makeup girl!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:34 AM
2

I find assholery to be quite effective. Of course the trick is to be a playful asshole instead of a blatant piece of shit asshole lol. I guess technically the piece of shit guy still finds success though. Women are weird. I remember my nice guy days and it still baffles me but whatever lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:30 AM
2

Because converting a girl whose not attracted to you into one that is (red light into a green light) is a massive undertaking. Your personality; your game has to be so on point, idk if it can even be done in a vacuum it usually requires some degree of social proof and a shit ton of rizz. 99% of the time if a girl is not sexual attracted to you then even considering sex with you gives her the ick. Overcoming the ick is tough. Kudos to those who try 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:29 AM
2

Because “vibe” is the feel/aura you give off through your personality, and personality comes second to looks. It’s just unlikely that it’s any kind of “psychological blockage” that’s preventing a man from dating successfully. You know how women like to say the bar is on the floor for men? Well it is… for attractive men. If you’re +7 as a dude dating is pretty easy regardless of your personality. You may not be able to maintain relationships for long term but you’ll definitely get lots of women w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 11:48 PM
2

None of this matters if you’re attractive. Emo Chad slays even though he’s a sad boy and cuts himself or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 10:57 PM
2

Confidence comes from real world results. Delusion is believing in imaginary results. A touch of delusion is healthy. It precludes confidence in a lot of ways, but real confidence requires actual verifiable results. Being confident in your ability to succeed, without ever having actually succeeded, is delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 10:47 PM
1

Depends how attractive you are 😏😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 10:21 PM
4

Why cap. Character don’t mean shit if you ain’t attractive enough. Not like women are giving “good guys” a shot just cause they’re good guys. Looks matter above all else. Bout time we all just admit we’re shallow and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:52 PM
-1

The most common reason for divorce is financial. Women have higher abuse rates and similar rates of cheating in relationships so 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:20 AM
2

Yes she’s overreacting. If she was afraid of his aggressive behavior it would’ve came up in their relationship at some point, and she wouldn’t have told him she was cheating, she would’ve just ghosted.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:42 AM
26

Anxiety aka sexual tension.
/r/BlackPillScience11/07/24 12:13 AM
5

but it highly raises the probability of manipulation and abuse when the guy is older and can tear down their self esteem and charm their way into their pants it's disgusting How? This is nonsense. The older dude is working against the same issues as the younger dude. The only real advantage older dudes have is more $$$/being established. How does he manipulate her? What can he possibly do? Offer her money? Seriously think about it. Charm his way into her pants? You mean like every other guy has …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 08:28 AM
0

I know, but it doesn’t matter. It’s much complicated for men to have multiple orgasms (many do not want you fucking with their prostate no matter how good it’s suppose to feel). Women are naturally multi orgasmic. They have no refractory period. You don’t need to do anything weird. They can experience orgasms in multiple different ways repeatedly without making her uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 09:50 PM
1

I mean it’s not actually the nerves “deadening.” I didn’t mean the nerves died but that they’d acclimate to the higher intensities. They desensitize. The issue is when he literally can’t orgasm from PIV or without porn or without some other extreme action. But it’s not an issue when she can’t cum without extreme vibrations? No one wants to feel like porn is more important to their partner than they are. Or that you can’t please your partner period. Of course and men feel the same. Women watch to…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 10:35 PM
1

Convince? Look, sleep with more women. The vast majority treat sex passively; as something that happens to them. Women would cum a lot more if they were more assertive with their needs. It’s literally rare for a woman to try to get herself off during sex. Ya’ll just leave it all up to the man to figure out, and then blame him if he can’t. Worse, many don’t even know how to get themselves off consistently, yet still place blame like dude should’ve known already
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 10:11 PM
-2

It might help if women didn’t act like live blowup dolls in bed. Communicate. Participate. And maybe know how to get yourself off so that it’s not a complete guessing game in the sheets. Also, maybe set some boundaries. Like, don’t have sex with men who don’t eat the pussy 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 01:35 PM
-2

Im talking specifically about the “orgasm gap”. “Who cares” because it’s not real. You forgot the rest of the math When you do cum, ya’ll gettin +2 orgasms 50% x 2 = 1 = who cares 🤷🏾‍♂️ Really it’s just that men can cum easier. Women take more work to get off but can cum more times. The trade off is way more than fair. I’d trade with women in a heart beat. And I love making women cum. Literally no point to sex if she doesn’t cum.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 01:22 PM
-1

Lol how did you come to that conclusion? 😂 I’ve fucked a lot of different women and if there has ever been a gap, it’s been in women’s favor. At minimum ya’ll are 3:1 favorites. Talk about one-sided lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 01:03 PM
1

Meh, it’s not offensive anymore because I understand how it is for women sexually. Ya’ll aren’t use to fucking someone who’s actually competent in bed. I’m sure some women have faked it with me, but I’m assured of my sexual prowess. Real confidence comes from real world feedback.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 12:52 PM
0

Yes I’ve met many women like you and your friends but you all cum in the end. Like seriously I’ve had a lot of experience fucking with women who couldn’t even get themselves off. Usually it’s mostly mental, but also can require a competent partner. Not even to brag but my n-count is ~160ish at this point. Can’t even remember the last women who I couldn’t eventually get off repeatedly 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 09:17 AM
-2

I don’t disagree except for the most hardened of masturbators. For most, a few days/weeks off will reset their nerve endings, that said, what do you mean nerves don’t work like that? If you subject nerve endings to consistent stimulation, they deaden. Why would that not be the same for the clitoris, a massive bundle of nerves? Also, I don’t even understand how male death grip is an issue. Surely dude lasting too long is better than not long enough. Worst case he just has to finish with his hands…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 07:58 AM
-1

Cap. Women don’t have a refractory time like men do. Some women do need a slight cool down but are ready to go again in minutes. Dudes need hours to recover, if not a full day. Literally never met a woman who couldn’t cum multiple times. It’s always either she’s never orgasmed (yet), or she’s multiorgasmic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:59 AM
-1

So? Most people don’t want stuff in their ass so it’s irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:56 AM
-4

Ah yes squeezing a dick too hard can cause men to not be able to cum from normal vagina sensations, but vibrating the clitoris at speeds far beyond human capabilities has no effect on the clitoris 🙄🙄🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:45 AM
-7

Not to mention everyones competing against her vibrator, which can be a daunting task. Also, women aren’t ready to have the talk about how maybe hugging the vibrator all their lives might make it harder for them to orgasm organically.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:29 AM
-2

I don’t take it seriously because ya’ll are multi orgasmic. Who cares if you only cum 50% of the time with a random encounter. When you do cum, ya’ll getting +2 orgasms a session, and when you find someone who can make you cum, you cum in the majority of sessions. Orgasm gap is a myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:26 AM
1

That’s called grooming, and it is indeed natural. And growing it willy nilly will still change your looks. Looking clean cut is a relatively new “style”. The scruffy caveman look I’m sure was much more popular amongst the ladies in the times where everyone was hairy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 10:18 PM
1

See you know the truth. Cute faced fat girls slay lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 09:28 PM
1

What if it was subtle; “designed to look natural”. Like wearing a full upper body corset.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 09:26 PM
1

I disagree with facial hair being equal since facial hair is natural. If men did nothing their faces would grow hair. If women did nothing their pores don’t excrete makeup 🤷🏾‍♂️ I do agree facial can changes a man’s face, but certain not to the degree or the freedom of makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 09:25 PM
1

Fair. Masculine face could still be an ugly face.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 09:52 AM
1

I think the crucial part though is that men’s faces peak at lower body fat %. So there’s a good chance Mr. Handsome face is lean (or at least not fat). Meeks was lean.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 09:50 AM
4

Men don’t care about makeup itself, they simply see the results. No one questions what style of art something is, they just appreciate the completed work. The intricacies that go into making the art are large irrelevant to the observer. They simply admire the completed work. Of course no man is going to complain if you take off the makeup right before he’s about to fuck you. Most dudes are not gonna bail at that point. He’s got a sure thing. Did anyone even read the link? Face makes no appreciab…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 09:49 AM
1

I don’t agree I feel it, really, but it makes sense. A handsome face has no advantages especially when compared to strength/muscularity, which of course things like height/proportions will affect (muscle inserts and shit).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 07:53 AM
-1

Yup. My GFs slowly being poisoned. It’s unfortunate, but what can you do. She doesn’t even realize it. It’s like she’s going through the Redpill rage lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 07:39 AM
-2

To lazy to make a post since I know I’ll abandon it. If someone else wants to expand on this, please feel free. Any, the claim at hand: The sexual equivalent to women wearing makeup is men wearing muscle suits. Yes, you heard right. Makeup is extremely effective for women *because the number one feature men find attractive on women is their face.** A fat girl with a cute face will easily find commitment. An ugly girl with a hot body will get used for sex. It’s the opposite for women. *The number…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 07:31 AM
1

I can’t find the more legit study showing bullies/felons have more sexual success. I’ve seen it posted here a few times but I don’t wanna link one of these journals/blogs the popped up after a hasty google search. The correlation is real though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 11:22 PM
1

We’re talking specifically attracted to someone for being a felon. Men are simply attracted to women in general. Being a criminal is not a compelling reason for men. It is for women. We know and see this play out constantly. We know bullies, felons, aggressive/violent men have more sexual partners and more kids because they’re aggressive/violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 05:24 PM
1

That’s called pump n dumping, which is not spinning plates. The goal of plate spinning isn’t to break as many as possible, it’s to keep them spinning. The analogy is actually pretty perfect because much like actual plate spinning, trying to spin to many plates at once is foolish, often resulting in dropping them all. Hence the difference between someone who intentionally drops plates (pumpndump) and someone who spins them (casual dating). Idk anyone who plates a woman he doesn’t like. Often plat…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 03:35 AM
2

A very small minority of women “date with abundance.” I think k some orbiters might think they have a chance with a girl who has told him specifically “I just see you as a friend.” But it’s not like she considers them as potential partners. Abundance is the confidence that comes from having options. It doesn’t matter if she doesn’t consider them potential partners, they’re still potential options. And it isn’t just “casual dating” or they’d call it “casual dating.” Don’t be obtuse. What do you c…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 01:04 AM
1

Hybristophilia is much more common in women than men. To say “men do it too” is a bit disingenuos in this case since Gypsy Rose (and really any other female criminals) probably had no shortage of suitors prior to whatever crime they committed. The dudes trying to fuck them are trying to fuck out of attraction to them, not to the fact they’re criminals. Being a felon on its own literally boosts the sexual attraction women feel towards a man. It’s like a status symbol. I know, girls are weird, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:04 PM
2

Lol no, it’s just another way to say casual dating. It’s not different than how women date, in fact, I personally learned of this from women. I think a lot of guys start out thinking dating is a 1:1 thing, but date enough women and learn that many have multiple contingency plans, and are drowning in abundance
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 10:53 PM
1

Casual dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 10:52 PM
3

Nothing will stop uncomfortable situations and it’s stupid to even consider trying to stop them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 10:39 PM
-5

I’d say most abuse is unintentional. Also, women are statistically more likely to be abusive than men in relationships so…. Especially if they man is perceived as beneath her. She’ll shit on dude all day and no one will bat an eye
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:12 AM
2

Are we talking true 50/50? Or that 50/50 where dude makes 2x her income but they split the bills but he pays for damn near everything else and she complains about “unpaid labor” and shit? Even we talking full 50/50 that means combined their spending power is doubled, and if she has the looks advantage over him then it’s very likely he’s doing whatever to keep her happy. So she likely gets a more loyal simp who she can abuse, exploit, cheat on, gaslight, and then leave for a more attractive partn…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:50 AM
8

Seriously it’s brutal. They can claim any interaction is creepy and it’s seen as valid because “creepy” is such a nebulous term.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 04:38 AM
9

Women calling unattractive men creepy is such a power move. Well played ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 03:22 AM
4

Humblebrag
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 11:07 PM
3

7/10 aint exactly regular. Easily attractive enough for the majority of men even +8s (and he says she’s ~7.5-8)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 03:22 AM
5

No phones and no driving with less than 6hrs of sleep or if you’ve been awake longer than 24hrs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 08:58 PM
1

That’s literally the opposite of effort. Allowing someone to abuse you is passivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 06:35 AM
3

Any day now. Probably after the first female president 😏😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 04:55 AM
1

wanting sex isn't bad What about pretending you don’t to manipulate someone’s opinion of you so they’ll commit? i know men want sex, i don't know whether they only want sex Often, neither do they. Still, just don’t fuck them till you’re comfy and it doesn’t matter. how do you think a man would react if you said you didn't want to be physical until you were boyfriend/girlfriend/monogamous? thats like months into dating... Lol this system was in place for centuries and men went along with it just …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 01:32 AM
1

or do you think women are perfect lie detectors and catch every lie? You don’t need to be. You already know what they want. The question is what do you want. If you want an LTR, you either make men commit first, or you fuck guys casually until one of them decides he likes your vibe and pussy and commits. Either are viable strategies but in both cases the dude wants to fuck you. So his lies are meaningless. for me, i had this assumption of, well every guy can't be a liar so if i met 10 liars in a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 11:53 PM
1

the number of men who are lying to you is 100% So then how are ya’ll (women in general) getting deceived? If I knew 100% of women wanted to use me for money I’d just never spend money on women who aren’t giving me pussy 🤷🏾‍♂️ 100% of men who show interest want to fuck you so just don’t give up the pussy until you get what you want. Their lies will amount to nothing because ultimately you already know what their goal is; to fuck you. All you have to do is wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 11:37 PM
0

Oh I know, it’s just the gaslighting from average women that irritates me. “Money don’t matter cause I got my own” nonsense. I’d take the over on a woman making less than her man every time. Triply so if she’s a dime.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 01:19 AM
5

Literally the only thing women gaining financial freedom did was… increase men’s requirements for financial provisioning while also making it harder to achieve those goals. I will say, to some women’s credit, a decent minority are seemingly okay with financially egalitarian relationships (though men still spend more on their spouse than vice versa), but overwhelmingly (and recently seemingly more common) women are “chasing that bag”.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 12:38 AM
10

Seriously, just look at the cosmetic industry. Definitely doesn’t scream “high self esteem” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 12:25 AM
2

Who said only? My next sentence was literally “especially if he vibes with the women it’s connected to”. Like yeah obviously if you want an LTR, a dude who only wants to fuck you isn’t what you want, but you certainly want a dude who wants to fuck you enthusiastically. Would you prefer the opposite (just to play extremes here)? A man who loves you for you but finds sex with you to be unpleasant?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 12:16 AM
1

I don’t make the rules. I’ve tried being the nice chubby friend who never pushed boundaries. Works well for getting LTRs with women who aren’t physically attracted to you. Great way to get cheated on. Interestingly enough, as I became more confident in myself, and more physically attractive, women started pursuing me. I became the guy women were cheating with. So, yeah, I agree it’s gross. Double gross even, but ya’ll love it so 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 11:09 PM
1

Never. Im too attractive to pay for pussy with money (excluding dates), but I’m not foolish enough to think if I wasn’t this handsome, witty and confident, I could not partake in the sexual market place.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 09:20 PM
2

Right they need men to be honest and “themselves” so they can judge you fully, while they hide behind makeup and “not being like that” so men can’t judge them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 09:10 PM
1

I feel bad for the women who are around you. Cap. Shut it down. If sex wasn’t transactional then women would just hand it out to whoever wanted it like men do. Instead, ya’ll trade it for stuff. So yeah, whether you realize or not you see sex as transactional too; as a reward you give to deserving men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 09:08 PM
3

Then you assume you have bad pussy cause I assure you dudes are not leaving good pussy. Especially if he vibes with the women it’s connected to. That’s literally the basis of an LTR right there alone. As I tell women having sex with a dude simply speed-runs the process. If you think slowly manipulating him emotionally/financially is gonna improve sexual compatibility I got some bad news for you. At best you’ll end up with a simp with no options, at worst, he’ll still leave anyway, just with more…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 09:04 PM
0

Exactly. So stop playing stupid games and just be the slut you are or are not. It’s not like sluts struggle to find LTRs. Plenty of men love and will LTR sluts it’s nothing. And honestly the real turn off isn’t being a slut, it’s acting like on in public. A “lady in the streets” is what men want. The sloppy slutty girl who everyone knows and has taken a shot at is not. In the end, it simply comes down to female misogyny. Sexually forward women “fuck up the game” for other women because they give…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 08:47 PM
4

Rejection is a legit primordial fear, but men don’t fear rejection, they fear the humiliation of not being sexually successful. Rejection is women’s primordial fear, for being rejected within a group was akin to death.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 08:27 PM
1

At this point, it’s pretty much concluded that women would behave just like men if they were in our position. This is honestly not a gendered thing. We have plenty of stats backing up women being violent and rapey just like men, they just lack the means and the drive. Why else would the majority of women’s victims be kids. The majority of men’s victims are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 09:24 PM
4

They want the benefits men provide without any of the downsides. A lofty dream. Dudes have been imagining the same for centuries. But just like the sexual revolution didn’t go the way men hoped, I don’t think men will just build a utopia for women and leave them to their devices 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 08:42 PM
3

Being lean improves your face, and makes you look taller. Shave your head if your hairlines receding and grow a beard if you can. The bald head, lean/yoked look is attractive to many women. Im rockin it myself. It’s a polarizing look too so it kind of filters women on its own. The women into you are really into you and the one’s who aren’t are repulsed completely lol. Your body is completely relevant and you’re a fool to think otherwise. Women love strong arms and broad shoulders. A nice back an…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:04 AM
1

It doesn’t matter. If you’re an average guy, your biggest concern should be becoming above average. Nothing else matters. Ignore women completely. Don’t socialize. Just stack paper and hit the gym. Women are exponentially more receptive to dudes as your attractiveness increases. Being fitted and lean will have more ROI than years of socializing and cold approaching as an average dude. Seriously. Just completely remove this question from your mind. You’ll realize how futile it is to concern yours…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:12 PM
1

Lol yeah good luck with that. How many other male mammals in the animal kingdom just wait around for the females to make a move? Males are proactive by nature. 99% of men would die alone if they waited for women to make a move lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 08:30 PM
1

Losing weight without lifting is a sure fire way to end up skinny fat which is a special hell unto itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:47 PM
1

Again that’s true but it’s certainly not a bad sign for approaching. If you only ever approached women who smiled at you when you made eye contact you’d be fine. You obviously still catch Ls but you’d be better off than approaching women who were grimacing at you 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:45 PM
1

Lol I agree but if you’re gonna approach women, them smiling at you certainly isn’t a bad sign.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:36 PM
0

To be fair, only an dumbass would be concerned with failing an STD test. If you’re raw dogging randoms you’re a clown and deserve to get caught up. Ladies too. If you’re letting randoms nut inside you you’re a female clown and deserve to get caught up too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 03:40 AM
–

Being good at sex for women often implies eating the pussy. Again if women just made that a standard (must eat to enter) then a lot more dudes would probably eat pussy. Although… I can already see women abusing this by having dudes eat her pussy and then not putting out. Adding more fuel to the sexual assault fire
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 02:59 AM
1

Looks, money and status.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 09:58 PM
1

I think it’s because it garners them no social benefits. The only way others know you’re getting good dick is if you brag or they ask, other wise it’s “hidden”. The big 3 (LMS) all speak for themselves. It’s also why I think women are fascinated with height. If dudes walked around with their dicks out, women’s preference for big dicks would simply be common sense (instead of “it’s about how you use it”)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:58 PM
2

Ehh yes and no. IOIs are just positive body language. Even the most blatant of IOIs should be considered with context (are you in a strip club or a grocery store?).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:53 PM
1

Body language isn’t gonna tell you if a man can fuck well or eat pussy though. It’ll really only show that he moves confidently or not
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:12 PM
1

And she can easily force you to prove it by saying she doesn’t fuck dudes who don’t eat her pussy first. So now, you can’t get inside her until your prove your oral skills 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:11 PM
3

Honestly. Idk, but after millions of years, you’d think ya’ll would come up with something if you actually cared. I for one make it very easy for women. I express my fetish for making women cum. How I hate orgasming if she hasn’t. How much I enjoy eating pussy, or how big my dick is, or that I’m multi-orgasmic. Nope. Has literally negative effect on the majority of women, often causing women who were originally interested to lose interest. That said, I still say it. The way I see it, I can’t fuc…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 07:48 PM
1

Yup. Idk why women don’t vet for sexual compatibility 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 07:18 PM
1

Cap.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 07:15 PM
2

I think they’re implying women can fuck each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 07:14 PM
0

So basically porn raises men’s standards. Same as social media raising women’s. So we could call that a draw, expect women also watch porn, and masturbate with machines that exceed human capacities. Here’s a hard truth: Women can get “death grip” too. So perhaps, just perhaps, and decent chunk of women struggle to orgasm with a partner because they’re use to fucking machines 🤷🏾‍♂️ So, fairs fair. Neither of us can get the other off because we’re both real.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 08:11 AM
–

I agree. I’m also a Millennial and remember pre-cellphone life, wall mounted corded phones, and dial-up internet where you were constantly getting knocked off the modem by said phone. But yeah it’s crazy how things have changed. How much faster communication has gotten, and how it’s allowed us all to basically speed run through relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:25 PM
5

Lol naw talkin your way out is just too easy, but for sure a lot of guys are idiots 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:18 PM
8

Seriously. Im grateful for every woman who finds me attractive 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:12 PM
7

On paper sure. In reality it’s not as readily obvious. Especially if we’re talking about actual Chads here. These dudes often don’t need to do/say anything 🤷🏾‍♂️ Meanwhile Average Joe with swag is grinding… hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:11 PM
10

Bruh, I got a Chad friend and it’s like… you can’t even be mad at this dude he’s such a good person. Hella frustrating cause he’s tall and handsome too 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:03 PM
12

A lot harder to talk yourself out of pussy when you’re attractive but I agree dudes definitely do that shit alot. Hell I do it constantly. I can’t help it and always come off as arrogant which often rubs people wrong 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:59 PM
8

You don’t have to be model tier. Above average is good enough. But certainly one can be physically meh but have an attractive personality that compensates. Not as easy as just being physically attractive though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:49 PM
1

If you a woman with straight male friends play a prank on these guy call them at 3am and ask if they want to come over I bet that they will always say yes!!! I mean to be fair, this would likely work on most men. I’ve basically fucked all of my girl friends. The truth being that, men don’t just make friendships with random women on purpose. You either become friends through other friends/social events/work, because you guys dated/fucked, or you’re an orbiter. Dude has no reason to approach a ran…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:47 PM
29

If she thinks you’re physically attractive, you’re always funny as hell 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:41 PM
1

Agreed, but those things are still easier to do than whatever 6/6/6 nonsense. So it’s more work, but at a lower difficulty. Like trying to level up by only killing really low level monsters.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:33 PM
2

Sounds about right 🤷🏾‍♂️ I’d seen some study that said the gap was decreasing, and that young women actually cheated more.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:30 PM
7

This, but seriously. I wonder if it's because our brains allow us to fill in the missing pieces with an idealized version of who the person really is. Undoubtably. Similar to why romance novels/erotic fiction are sooo much more popular amongst women. Even in real life, a huge part of being successful as men is maintaining some kind of image. Women often need a good “story”. For instance, passport bros. They’re gross because they are traveling in search of pussy, but if they were just traveling a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:29 PM
3

Hmmm fair point actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:21 PM
0

What does the data show? Women cheat slightly less than men do last I checked.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:19 PM
4

The average man has a higher chance of securing an LTR, than he does of securing consistent casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:18 PM
1

Lol no doubt, though apparently women cheat at similar rates as men. I think women just tend to be better at hiding it. I remember reading a study once that women tend to cheat with men who are far away, while men tend to cheat with women in close proximity. In other words. Men seem to cheat out of convenience, while women cheat out of opportunity (upgrade/branch swing). But if we include emotional cheating, I’d say women cheat a little more. Especially since the advent of internet/social media.…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 09:58 PM
2

Women prefer using social media for cheating than dating apps. Makes sense, seeing as a dating app is a specific thing (for dating/hooking up) where as social media “isn’t meant for that”.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 09:35 PM
10

You wanna reel women in? Make them all insecure asf and then sell them products to “fix” it (makeup).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 09:34 PM
4

Ehh I gotta disagree. You see plenty of average dudes in LTRs but they ain’t ever taking women home from the club/bar. It’s just easier for dudes to slide into LTRs than into casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:48 PM
0

I mean sure some guys may feel like that but that’s something for them to work through. TRP is not about hating women or being jealous that others can get them. It’s about getting on the level where you can get them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:15 PM
-1

If the behaviors only attract women with baggage, then TRP can’t be damaging baggage-less women. Which then begs the question: who is damaging all the women? The truth is, it doesn’t matter who. Everyone gets damaged. Young men are just as prone to damaging women as older men. Young women are just as prone to damaging men as older women. It doesn’t matter. Just cause a dude is RP doesn’t mean he wants to damage you. Just because dude is just a normal guy doesn’t mean he won’t ruin your life. Peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 06:38 PM
-3

RP dudes do not care if you’re a slut or whatever. You giving up the pussy has no negative barring on his opinion of you. Sex was the goal. Shitting on the women who give it up is not conducive to getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 06:34 PM
0

You’re absolutely wrong. Again, the behaviors of the common person are not driving anything. It is literally corporations and propaganda. And I’m not bitter nor a nihilist. Im a realist. I have plenty of purpose and meaning in my life. Tons of loved ones I help and support. I just don’t give a fuck about randoms. I care about myself and my own. That’s literally all I can do 🤷🏾‍♂️ And if everyone did that. If everyone selfishly pursued their own fulfillment, and lives their best lives, then the p…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:02 AM
1

No one’s stopping you from living a miserable life so that future generations can potentially be better off. Do you bro. I’ll stick to being selfish; uplifting my friends and family and not giving a fuck about anyone else but me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 03:59 AM
0

I never said nothing matters though. My life is full of purpose and meaning. Im just not gonna waste my time living life on poverty mode so future generations can be better off. I got one life to live. Ima spend it enriching myself and my loved ones. If everyone else did the same, we’d be good. Benevolent selfishness.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 03:42 AM
–

Many women are trash at making their men feel desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 07:28 PM
-1

The world isn’t going to shit because of anything the common man does to anyone. The arrogance needed to believe you have any value or sway in reality is immense. The average person aint shit and there actions aint shit. You wanna solve some problems, take it up with the corporations speed running us through global warming. The world is shit because people can literally see shit burning down. Our oceans. Our air. Our land. Our governments. Our people. It’s not nihilism, it’s realism. I aint finn…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 07:17 PM
-3

Because it’s an extremely emotional event. Any dude who watches their wife shit out their child is gonna be traumatized lol. Not to mention the radical change in relationship dynamic. Going from #1 to #2 is a rough transition for many. But truthfully, idk 🤷🏾‍♂️ but PPD in men is real and completely ignored by everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 07:06 PM
-6

And that’s your right, but some of us would rather get laid and enjoy ourselves. We all gonna die eventually, you can’t take your pride and self respect with you. You’re gonna shit/piss on yourself, become worm food, and be lost to history just like everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 06:58 PM
-5

Or maybe he’s suffering from PPD and needs help 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 06:48 PM
-5

Wait, how does divorcing give her a break? Assuming she gets custody, wouldn’t her workload be the same, if not increase, since she just lost what was likely the breadwinner of her relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 06:40 PM
22

The difference is in if you’re attractive or not
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 08:10 AM
5

Ehhh it’s stagnated though. Since 2012, it’s actually been going down. https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2023/04/13/in-a-growing-share-of-u-s-marriages-husbands-and-wives-earn-about-the-same/
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 05:21 PM
0

I know why men don’t. Because the risks of being killed in a car accident are statistically low (despite being a common way to die). But if women are so concerned with “small probability, extremely high impact” events, why do they drive?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 01:28 AM
0

So then why don’t all women have thick thighs and calves from riding bikes everywhere? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:49 PM
2

Bruh, it’s literally called Make up, as in “make up a better version of your facial features to appear more attractive than you are”. It’s text book deception. That said, it’s not like men don’t appreciate makeup, but call a spade and spade ladies get off your high horse. Like, ya’ll even created the term “rape by deception” for men who claimed they were wealthier or wore lifts and a toupee to sleep with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 11:53 AM
1

Clown logic. If it grows naturally from your body it’s called grooming. If it’s applied to the body it’s called cosmetics. Get your shit together.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 11:44 AM
5

Frustrating how women downplay makeup and it’s derivatives. My GF recently started wearing fake lashes. The difference is staggering with nothing else but just putting the lashes on. Now, I realize tons of women wear fake lashes. I never noticed, but now that I see it, it’s insane. My girl obviously looks good without the lashes but that extra length/fullness really makes the eyes pop and ya’ll just act like it makes no difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:02 AM
1

Enjoying sex doesn’t mean I like restraint. I’m not bound by social sexual morals like you. And all of my LTRs were with casual partners. If you vibe and the sex is good, dudes don’t just leave. Relationships built around sexual compatibility are nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 10:56 PM
1

It’s not cheating if you aren’t exclusive, and even then, it’s nothing to “commit” just to get the pussy. If you’d rather waste your time than your body be my guest. Seems a lot easier to just date guys you want to fuck 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 10:40 PM
1

It’s not, and women already do it. Tons of relationships start out as casual sex. Again, sex just expedites the dating process. If the sex is good and the vibe is right dude is gonna stick around. If not then he bails. No need to waste 3-6 months just to get the same results 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 10:37 PM
1

Nonsense. You think dudes can’t just wait you out? If he has no options, what else is he gonna do? And if he has options, he can just fuck with other women on the side. It literally makes no difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 06:46 PM
1

No. I’m saying it will expedite the dating process. If you prefer to spend months/years weeding your way through your options be my guest, but if you’re even slightly attractive and enthusiastic in bed I find it hard to believe you’ll struggle finding commitment 🤷🏾‍♂️ Yes, you’ll end up fucking more guys but you shouldn’t be fuckin with dudes you aren’t attracted to anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 06:40 PM
7

I just don’t understand why men would care about something women don’t care about. If women truly did not care about small dicks then they should reflect that sentiment no? So why do men not feel that way? Growing up dudes never competed over dick size. No one cared about dick size. Even in porn, yeah there’s big dicks, but who cares? It’s like height. Growing up as a kid, no boy is thinking the tall guys are popular because they’re tall. No one thinks that shit matters until someone makes them …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:44 AM
3

?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 10:57 PM
5

Well, certainly that casts doubt on OPs story but it definitely happens. I got a couple of chad-lite/chad friends and they easily fuck their way through all the ladies around us. Though I have first hand experience at “poisoning the well” too, where you get rejected by to many girls in a group and the rest reject you retroactively (hive mind effect). So, I believe it’s possible, but I also don’t really care if their story is real. Easier just to assume people are being honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 10:44 PM
2

Yes, many tenets of TRP are applicable to LTRs. The point is it’s not specifically about them. It’s more so about STRs and understand how to get them consistently.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 10:05 PM
1

Oh of course. A lot of it is applicable, but still, TRP directly advices against LTRs (marriage).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 10:04 PM
8

Why not? I’ve slept with the majority of my female friends 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 09:43 PM
5

What facts are men denying? We’re pretty open and honest about our sexualities 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 09:30 PM
-1

TRP isn’t even about LTRs bro 😂 It advises against marriage. A man who’s attractive and can consistently get laid casually (like the man in OOP) doesn’t need to get married. He can get everything and more from women without having to pay any real costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 09:24 PM
12

Wha? This has to be bait lol. You got a 41 minimum list da fuck?! And the salient factor in all this is that if men collectively “stepped up”, then so would women’s expectations. Just look at how you guys are spiraling out in the beauty industry. Enough is never enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 06:34 AM
4

Bruh. Theres no way your missing this. No one believes action movies are real because we exist in reality. No one thinks video games are real because it’s not reflective of reality. Women emulate porn in real life! You say porn is not real and then we fuck you and it’s like “choke me till I pass out” 😒 Oh and just for reference the only porn I watch is women masturbating alone, which, is very real lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:16 AM
5

That’s not what I’m saying. Im saying if women don’t want men to believe porn is real, then perhaps women should stop emulating porn stuff IRL. Like, I never cared for the more violent, choking/bdsm/cnc stuff, but it’s so commonly desire amongst women that I had to develop a taste for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:10 AM
8

The point is why harp on about how porn isn’t real when IRL women spend a considerable amount of effort to replicate that not realness? It makes no sense to expect men to not be affected while simultaneous emulating the very thing you try to convince men isn’t real. It’s like some kind of reverse gaslighting? Or normal gaslighting? IDK, it’s weird though. Ya’ll always trying to play on both sides of the fence.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:48 AM
1

Cause I like flowers. Though it’d definitely feel cringey if my GF showed up to the gym with flowers lol. It wasn’t suppose to be a romantic gesture. Paying her is simply pragmatic. Why waste time fighting over whose turn it is to wash dishes when she’s happy with this solution 🤷🏾‍♂️ If I wanna be romantic, I buy her flowers or leave her little notes or drawings. Send her texts/call her to ask about her day. Gifts. Date nights etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:11 PM
1

No I realize it’s a thing I just don’t understand it. Again, if cleaning is such a big deal just hire a maid. They’re dirt cheap and if you’re both working it’s literally nothing. Hell even on 1 income it’s affordable. I mean it’s not like women are clamoring for broke dudes 🤷🏾‍♂️ My GF does the majority of cleaning (I tidy/pick up, but she does the deep cleaning). I give her $100 a week and that’s that. Fighting over chores is just silly. As for that story, yeah definitely I could see that. You…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 10:41 PM
1

The way my girl puts it is she’s “a boss” but likes spending my money 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 10:32 PM
1

Later means later. You don’t have to wash the dishes just cause they’re in the sink. That doesn’t mean they aren’t considerate in other ways. For instance, women seem to lack all romantic capacities. From dates to sex, ya’ll are just passive participants. No consideration for men, that perhaps they’d like to get gifts and be showered with affection. Complimented. Wined, dined, and fucked. Nope. The whole mating dance is on dude. Washing the dishes is a small price to pay 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 10:21 PM
1

Ehh that’s a bit of a stretch. Dishes are hardly reflective of how considerate someone is overall. I feel throwing dishes in the sink for later is pretty standard behavior 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 09:21 PM
-2

Yes it does. If you both working full time then you can afford a damn maid.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 08:30 PM
–

Thicc women are drowning in options. Straight flooded. You see a fat ass? Every dude within the vicinity seen that ass. They’re in crazy high demand (especially slim thicc women) so it just is what it is. Just keep spittin. Keep approaching the types of women you want and you’ll find success eventually. I absolutely love me a bottom heavy woman so I understand your pain lol. Skinny and fat hoes everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:40 PM
–

The most common is “he’ll just use me for easy sex” as if giving up the pussy is the prerequisite for approaching men lol It’s more like the men they’d approach would be the ones they’d give the pussy up for free to
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:19 PM
16

No source, just anecdotal, but are their sources to the contrary? Hypergamy has been unleashed in full force and unmitigated. Women still uphold the patriarchy. And no it’s not internalized misogyny. The patriarchy benefits women. What feminism sought was to simply allow women to side step the negative aspects of the patriarchy while still benefitting from it. Yes, we’re all slaves in capitalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:16 PM
21

For women or society? For women you’d be good enough so long as you’re better than her. In feminism you need to be better than everyone else too. For society you’re never good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:43 PM
14

Excellent clap back.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:32 PM
1

Oh no for sure it’s manipulation, but dating is immoral. I don’t fault women for taking advantage of their advantages, just realize men and women are typically at different ends of the spectrum. Men want to be assured of your attraction, so they push for sex quickly. Women want to be assured of your commitment. So they pump the brakes on sex to make sure dude is invested in her. They main issue here is simply that men are consistent (they’d fuck every women quickly if they could) while women mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 09:41 AM
1

there is no issue with having sex too soon because there is no relationship that can possibly be ruined. Girl logic. Having sex to soon does not ruin relationships. Literally it just weeds out the dudes who only want sex faster. The downside being that you have to fuck with them. But… A guy who’s only interested in sex is not going to wait that long or is not going to be able to fool me into thinking he loves me. He might fool me for a few days, not a few months. This is false. If a girl is maki…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 06:37 AM
1

No, what I’m saying is it doesn’t matter either way. If dude likes you, he’s not gonna stop liking you because you wanna fuck. Making dudes wait is advantageous to women, but it’s pure manipulation. You want dude to invest financially/emotionally first, just in case the sex is no good. That way, he’ll feel bad about leaving a girl who’s personality he likes, just cause the sex is meh. Further, she gets all the rewards of dating, so even if he does leave at least she got “payment” first. Having s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:58 AM
3

Exactly. And then on top of that people seem to think it’s impossible to recover from those poor choices. I mean yeah some of them will really fuck you (like hard drugs and sleep deprivation), but you can definitely get back into a healthy lifestyle at basically any age and recover years, even decades of vitality. Sleep, exercise, and diet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:12 AM
2

Just cause the have the options doesn’t mean the exercise them. Again, good dick is scarce. Many women are content with 1 source of good dick. They aren’t men. Women care less about quantity/variety and more about quality If they tell me they aren’t fucking others, and I have given them no reason to feel like they should lie, why should I believe they’re lying? I don’t care either way and they know this. Im not saying women don’t “spin plates”, they’re just less inclined to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:46 AM
1

Im not saying women aren’t “spinning plates”. I’m saying women are more likely to only be fucking with one dude whose fuckin with multiple women. I’ve had many fuck buddies who’re basically celibate year round except for fuckin with me occasionally. I guess they could be lying but it’s not like I care if they are fuckin someone else 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 12:46 AM
1

Some, yes. Plenty of women aren’t interested in fucking multiple people themselves but accept that they aren’t in a committed relationship with the dude they’re casually fuckin with. Though obviously, one should just assume your casual partners are fucking other people for sanities sake lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 10:17 PM
1

Some do 🤷🏾‍♂️ Technically (literally) TRP advocates for openness with your “plates”. I keep shit real. I’ll let the women I’m fuckin know I’m fuckin other people. You lose more girls but the ones the stick around are the better options. Hell many don’t even care. Tons of girls just looking for 1 good dick they can fuck with occasionally until they find a serious relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 10:10 PM
2

Your natural inclination is animalistic and we all must literally be trained and “socialized” to fight those urges. You eat, you shit, you fuck, just like every other animal everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:56 PM
2

Honestly, the truth in these situations is usually that the pussy just wasn’t good or he was never that into you. No guy is dropping a fun girl he vibes with, who enthusiastically fucked him “too soon”, and had good pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:52 PM
16

Bro cardio and sleep. 30 isn’t even close to old. Wake me when I’m 60.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:45 PM
1

IRL looks easily make or break you. Online women constantly complain that men are damaged by porn and have unrealistic expectations for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 07:12 AM
2

I said women, not you. We’re talking in general. And I’m just replying to your comment lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:13 AM
2

Yeah, but they still want their partner to be attractive to them. The misunderstanding is that women think “attractive to men” means baddie tier insta-model, when really it means “not obese or disfigured”, which even then… 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:07 AM
–

So you deny the multi billion dollar industry that is vibrating silicone? Held up predominately by women? We got women falling in love with AI chatbots. Women are gonna be fuckin AI boyfriends too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 02:52 AM
5

Yea and I look 22, tf? He can’t tell between a woman his age and a woman 18-22? 😭Yeah no. So then you look like a fully matured adult. Men should care about more than physical attraction at their grown age. It’s embarrassing when they can’t. Why? Because that’s what you (women) want? We all want people who think we look good but if that’s all a guy can see he’s just a loser to me tbh. No one only cares about looks, but they’re crucial. No man would even interact with you if they weren’t attracte…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:35 PM
1

Bruh women have been fucking software (“hardware” 😏) for decades get of your high horse 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 09:46 PM
1

No, this is nonsense. Men want sex. Your body will always matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 09:38 PM
5

for being 22 He doesn’t know your age, just your looks. You being 22 is just a coincidence. Men don’t care how old you are (just be over 18). All that matters is you’re attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 09:37 PM
1

Hey, good for you bro 👍🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 09:31 PM
1

As opposed to what? Cynical and rigid? “Experienced” and jaded?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 09:16 PM
1

I wouldn’t say they primarily benefit women, but it doesn’t feel like it’s out of selflessness. I mean, why not just give out free pussy if ya’ll are so selfless? Men want pussy more than they want head.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 09:08 PM
-1

How do you know? Women are pretty good at keeping shit on the DL 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 01:04 AM
-1

Yes but enough of them do. Just date women. Many are most definitely dating/fucking other dudes on the side while staying open to something more serious. And I’m not saying this is wrong, in fact I think it’s the more prudent way to approach dating. I just think it’s way more common for dudes to fall into the 1:1 dating trap because of a lack of options, whereas women naturally spin plates
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 12:54 AM
3

It’s less about treating a 10 like a 10 and more about treating a 10 like a 10 in front of your partner that’s a 2 while also treating them like a 0. Seems particularly unique of women to shit on their man in the presence of better men 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 12:44 AM
1

Felt this. As a fellow “worst fucking man”, well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 12:42 AM
0

Naw honestly I’ve never seen a man dunk on his girl in public the way some women do. The blatant disrespect, men don’t seem to take it to that level ever. Not saying it never happens but the average man doesn’t even command the power to attempt it, but any random average girl could. I’ve certainly had women throw me under the bus in front of another guy. Absolutely brutal lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 12:40 AM
1

Yup. If a girl I’m out with starts flirting with some dude I’ll just start flirting with some girl. Hell, maybe I’ll come over and start flirting with him too 🤷🏾‍♂️😂 In the end flirting not that big a deal and even if it is you don’t ever show it. Just go on like nothing happened. Might even still get the pussy at the end of the night. Then just ghost or get over it. Plenty of other options.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 12:31 AM
2

Spinning plates is literally how women date. It behooves men to do the same, for approaching dating as a 1:1 thing is foolhardy. Abundance good. Oneitis and simpery bad. Blah blah blah.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 12:28 AM
–

A man of culture. I honestly don’t even expect women to do shit in bed except maybe give head (which I don’t even really care for). I rather eat that pussy, and when it comes to actually fucking, most women just… get fucked 🤷🏾‍♂️ I actually prefer the starfish now. I’d rather she just lay there and moan too. I’ll toss her around as I see fit and she can get rag dolled like the good little starfish she is 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 10:55 AM
–

Interestingly, the age of consent is 16 pretty much everywhere 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 10:22 AM
2

Which is why I cold approach 😏😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:30 AM
1

A generation? Lol I was born in the 90s. This is an ongoing thing. And I’ve had many GFs and casual partners. Compliments even from women who find you attractive are rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:01 PM
1

Incentivize? Just raise your kids better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 10:36 PM
1

As if women don’t assume the dude complimenting her wants to fuck? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 10:32 PM
–

I mean… it simply could be that men make better actors, athletes, musicians and writers than women. I mean just look at women’s sports. All that needs to happen is women rally fully behind and support the leagues, but they prefer men’s 🤷🏾‍♂️ Women aren’t watchin male centered things for men’s sake. They just like watching men do shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:55 PM
1

Lol no it just doesn’t sound like women to suck dick for men’s sake, especially casual hook ups 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 02:49 AM
1

I don’t think it’s selfless. I think many women simply enjoy sucking dick. I’m the same with eating pussy. I simply enjoy it. I don’t eat pussy for her I eat it because pleasuring women is immensely satisfying. If women wanna be selfless they should give out more free pussy lol. I do agree that men are more selfish though. Doesn’t change the fact that as soon as she meets a competent lover she’s cummin out her boots, and sounds like you know exactly what I’m talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 01:16 AM
1

so there's the orgasm gap Lol yeah, in women’s favor. Ya’ll cum way more than I ever could. Best I’ve managed is basically edging 😂 i'm saying men are selfish, not that they are intentionally bad Agreed. Being a bad lover is definitely selfish, intentional or not. this wouldn't affect the ratio of men going down on women vs women going down on men as hygiene and other problems exist with both genders. Honestly, I never understood why women are so willing to suck dick. IME, it seems women would r…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 12:55 AM
1

so, in general, every woman you make cum, you make cum multiples times every single time you make her cum? No, every woman I make cum, I can make cum multiple times. Though sometimes you just go for the quick 1:1. and what percent of times men have sex do you believe men do this extra effort? More often than not. I don’t subscribe to men intentionally being bad in bed. There are confounding factors that women ignore (like if your pussy looks gross, I aint eating it, or if you smell bad). I think…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:40 PM
1

do you think it is common for women to have sex with a man and not cum at all? Yes. orgasming at all Random google search says 40% of the time for casual, 65% in relationships 2) having multiple orgasms? About the same % as above. At least IME, if a girl cums once, she’ll cum again. do you think women just spontaneously have multiple orgasms? or do you think its the result of men doing oral sex or some kind of extra effort not related to PIV sex? Some women are definitely “blessed” to cum at the…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:06 PM
1

Yeah, from self reports, from women. The “gap” itself is a myth. Watch the math: Women report orgasming 40-65% of the time, while for men it’s 95%. But even though men cum 95% of the time, it’s only once. She’ll cum 40% of the time, but she cums multiple times when she does! Experiencing 2.5 orgasms in a session is nothing for women. AND women’s orgasms are stronger and last longer than men’s. I’ve had women who just get stuck in the orgasm and will keep cumming as long as you keep stimulating h…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:25 PM
–

I don’t even know why anyone pushes back against it. Hair traps hella sweat and bacteria. It literally makes you smell more. I shave my pits and trim my pubes because otherwise I get extra musty.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:13 AM
1

What?! Parents are 100% responsible for their kids fitness and health. Obesity is not ruled by genetics and it’s a poor excuse. Make your kids participate in physical activity daily and don’t let them eat garbage and sit around all day. This should be basic shit yet somehow childhood obesity is rampant. I seriously pray you don’t keep this “after they pop out it’s to late 🤷🏾‍♂️” and “parents aren’t responsible for their kids fitness” energy if/when you have kids 🤦🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:33 AM
9

Less info on what, exactly? And how does her learning these things with someone else beneficial to me? Is more standards better? There’s always a power imbalance. The simplest one being sex. I know women like to act like their sexuality vs men’s isn’t a power imbalance but ya’ll sure do love to exploit the shit out of it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:26 AM
6

That I like women who are fun and not jaded?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:01 AM
6

You’re wrong most dudes don’t want to pump and dump. There are all kinds of reasons a dude decides not to fuck you again but I assure you he still wants pussy, just not yours (anymore). Your average guy does not have the options to just pump and dump women. It takes way too long to secure even one girl, why would he just dump her? Truth is, just like men, many of ya’ll are trash. The biggest difference is that men will see if the pussy is any good first, while women will just ghost.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 12:55 AM
4

Honestly the best type. Obviously bad actors ruin a lot of people’s innocence but those who still have that light in them make excellent companions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 12:48 AM
1

Uh, if mom’s fat/gaining weight then most likely she’s eating too much/doing too little which absolutely bleeds over into the kids life. Childhood obesity is rampant as fuck and to say there’s no correlation between a child and their parent’s weight is silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 12:34 AM
1

Sounds like you don’t know how women work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 11:07 PM
1

As soon as she finds a man who can make her cum, whatever “gap” there was will be quickly closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 10:34 PM
-2

Orgasm gap is a myth ya’ll are multi orgasmic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 08:02 PM
2

Who? Maybe inexperienced dudes. Lying to get laid just spirals out overtime. Much better to tell women you’re just interested casually and let them choose up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 07:53 PM
1

Well sure. You don’t find success cold approaching by just bulldozing your way through interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 07:23 PM
1

So then you have no experience and thus, are talking nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 11:49 AM
11

Definitely both, but men are upfront with the fact that looks are crucial. Only women seem to virtue signal about all this personality stuff. Personality only matters after crossing the looks threshold.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 09:34 AM
2

Lol nonsense. Just bad luck on your part 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:58 AM
13

Shhh. Hormones aren’t real we’re all fully functioning humans we’re above such animalistic impulses.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:49 AM
0

The issue is that you come in close, physical contact with men constantly, every day, all the time, and are still alive to type this nonsense. Had you spent even a day that close, to that many bears, you’d be dead 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 11:04 PM
1

People don’t usually make up imaginary slights just for the heck of it. Something clearly triggered his imaginings if everything was fine prior.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 11:09 PM
1

Victim blaming is a bad look.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 10:27 PM
2

Statistically, the man is making more in a marriage. Statistically, the woman is getting the kids in the divorce (by default). So no, divorce isn’t 50/50, and is exactly why women initiate most of them. Depends. Are they simply being neurotic? Or does she legit treat him poorly? Abusive women are not to be downplayed. The gaslighting. The “it’s in your imagination”ing is very real and insidious as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 08:48 PM
1

If you’re married you don’t “just break up”, and since he’s betabuxxing, guess whose gettin paid out in the divorce 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 08:12 PM
4

Cap lol. One can be interested in gender nonsense and get pussy. They aren’t mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 08:07 PM
6

Lol same. I’ll say something like “Oh shit me too! Can’t afford to have another organ harvested” and then show her the big scar on my abdomen. Then after some questions I’ll tell her I have more that maybe she’ll see if she’s lucky 😉 Works every time lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 07:48 PM
–

Source? https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC9106334/ Status isn’t being rich They are closely intertwined. Many women don’t care for abs and forearms. Sure some like chest and shoulders. It doesn’t matter. If you look strong/fit you’ll attractive the most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 07:11 PM
10

Society slowly getting blackpilled? Lol the natural progression
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 11:05 PM
1

Highest correlation is the appearance of strength. Famous dude gets pussy like rich dudes. Status does not illicit “genuine desire”. Forearms and abs illicit genuine desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 10:25 PM
1

Oh no doubt I’m sure pre-shoe era was brutal on feet, still socks/shoes definitely disconnect humans from the earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 01:14 AM
1

You’re not understanding me. I’m not saying he should have say in what she does with her body, he should have a say in what he does with his. Paying child support means he has to work, earn money, and pay it. That’s his bodily autonomy being violated. Why is that not considered? She’s free to decide to keep the baby or not. He’s free to support it or not. Just as nature intended 👍🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:45 PM
3

Lol lots of us are accidents. Definitely happens. But no she has no fallopian tubes. Not sure if sperm could find a way up there without direct fertilization
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:43 PM
2

Yeah Im not here to change the world. I simply don’t cum inside of women raw and sidestep all this nonsense. Actually, I do cum inside of my GF, but she can’t get pregnant so 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:30 PM
1

I understand why she has say over the abortion. Her body her choice. My point is that her choice, with her body, was to let dude cum inside her. That fetus/baby is half his DNA. He should have a say regardless of where it’s growing, but since he has no say over her body, he should have say over his own; which would be providing for said baby. His bodily autonomy is being violated being forced to provide for a child he didn’t want. Just like she would be if forced to have an abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:29 PM
1

It’s cathartic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:24 PM
2

The reality is that men don’t have to raise any of the kids they father. Nature has already long since decided that men are free to fuck and impregnate as many women as possible and not have to raise any of them. So if you let a dude cum inside you, that’s 100% on you. It’s your burden and you know this. It’s why women fight so vehemently to make men responsible. Because naturally they aren’t, and ya’ll got sour grapes over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:10 PM
2

The reality is that men don’t have to raise any of the kids they father. Nature has already long since decided that men are free to fuck and impregnate as many women as possible and not have to raise any of them. So if you let a dude cum inside you, that’s 100% on you. It’s your burden and you know this. It’s why women fight so vehemently to make men responsible. Because naturally they aren’t, and ya’ll got sour grapes over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:10 PM
-2

No shit. Dude is obviously a clown for busting a nut inside her raw. Two to tango all the way, so then why does she have unilateral descision making power over abortion? Ya’ll are quick to put blame and responsibility on men when it comes to making the baby but after that he has no recourse. It makes no sense. We both made the baby, we both decide if we’re going to have the baby. The baby is inside her so he can’t make her abort, so to be fair, he can just relinquish paternal rights. She can sti…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:06 PM
-6

Men cause pregnancy? Bruh you don’t wanna do this math. Women conveniently seem to forget that they’re only able to get pregnant 7 days a month and have ~30% chance of getting pregnant during that week. That means *women are going out and getting fucked raw during the only couple of days they’re even able to get pregnant. Seriously, track your cycle, and you don’t even need birth control. It’s brain dead to avoid getting pregnant. If we were honest, 100% of the fault of getting pregnant should b…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 08:26 PM
-6

Because aside rape men literally can’t cum inside a woman without her consent. We both made the kid, I decide to bail, you decide to keep it, that’s on you, not us. Abort you goofy hoes stop having the kid just so you can bitch about having a “dead beat baby dad”. It’s not worth whatever social points you think it is
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:55 PM
1

Lol you better date women before making such a bold statement about them. Similar to how men don’t know how men really act when alone, women don’t know how women act. You really think men are all complaining about the same shit just to gas each other up? There’s no victimhood badge for dudes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:48 PM
18

Because old men should know better and young women are victims of circumstance. Clearly women into older men were abused and men into younger women are predators 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:43 PM
-1

compared to 1 in three Swear last week it was 1 in 4. Dudes out here putting in work 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:34 AM
6

True. Hell just not getting enough sleep severely affects cognitive ability. No more sleepy sex I guess 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:29 AM
–

Honestly walking in grass barefoot is such a soothing feeling, but also alien. Crazy to think we were once always barefoot. Now, my toes rarely see the sun, let a lone the ground 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 12:34 AM
5

Morals are nonsense. At the end of the day, you don’t want bad outcomes, so you play nice and hope others follow suit. When you gain enough power to avoid those bad outcomes morals fall away. They literally mean nothing. They’re simply shackles for the common person.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 11:44 PM
–

It’s weird, because it’s an uncommon age gap, but that shouldn’t matter. People are gonna judge you no matter what you do. Fuck em. What really matters is making sure he’s serious about you and communicating your expectations. Make sure you’re both on the same page working toward the same goals. Also, hopefully he doesn’t already have kids lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:29 AM
–

Silly question. There is no right or wrong answer. When you find a man that you’re attracted to and vibe with, you’re probably not gonna care about his age 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 08:43 AM
1

Same boat. Hell even went bald and it only made me look more handsome/distinguished. I’m also way more confident and give way less fucks about women’s nonsense which, conveniently, is attractive to them 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:45 PM
1

Ah, you must believe LTRs should last forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:54 AM
1

3 serious long term (+4 years) including my current.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:39 AM
0

Because the number 1 predictor of sexual success in men is the appearance of strength, not how well he can navigate social interactions. And for women, it’s her face. We know men place high value on looks, only some women try to cap like personality is key. Coincidentally, tall ripped dudes all seem to have great personalities 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:07 PM
1

Who knows what a society of Bonobos would look like. If women’s sexuality wasn’t shamed and restricted Im sure we’d see a lot more horny women. It wasn’t that long ago that women were considered the hornier ones. Hysterically so.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:06 PM
-1

No what I’m saying is that relationships are easy to get and maintain for me. I know how to keep my woman happy. It’s not hard. Im not saying I’m jumping in and out of em lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:58 PM
1

Lol go off bro. Again it has no baring on my reality 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:47 PM
1

Yes but the dudes are doing it because they can’t get pussy. The girls are doing it for other reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:42 PM
1

and decided that ugly bitches wearing makeup is a simple cause of all sorts of negatives and difficulties and that it's all women's fault. I don’t believe I said nor implied this. I only blame women because no one forces you to where makeup. It’s not a law. Ya’ll enforce makeup on yourselves. Y'all insist that women wear makeup only for men, and not for any other of the many reasons women say they wear makeup, but now you're also insisting that men don't want women to look a certain way and have…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:38 PM
2

Yeah only when it doesn’t benefit them. Women are not complaining about being able to freely bitch online from the safety of their homes that countless lives sacrificed to make happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:53 PM
1

Again, I don’t dislike women. Im very respectful of, and empathetic toward, but I’m also real, and talk plenty of shit. And I don’t hang out with people I don’t like so 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:52 PM
1

I agree, though sometimes I feel it’s not that they’re less horny, just less driven for sex. I know many girls who haven’t had sex in a long time, but are masturbating multiple times a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:49 PM
1

Cap. No man is telling women to wear makeup. No man is demanding that women maintain some level of looks. These are choices you make and men simply react to them. If there were less “baddies” around men would just fuck with the lesser baddies. It’d change nothing. Ya’ll think men’s perceptions are warped but IRL it’s not the dudes who are delusional 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:43 PM
-2

Whether you believe me or not has not effect on my reality. And this isn’t scorn nor contempt. Merely observations. Maybe try spending more time around women 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:42 PM
1

But you are though. Women get horny for and fuck men constantly. IYKYK 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:38 PM
0

Yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:36 PM
0

Care to point out the delusion? Are you saying that nothing would change if every woman suddenly dropped 1-2 points in the face? If so, why wear makeup at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:35 PM
-5

Lol you would be wrong. I don’t have dating issues. Im in bed with my GF right now. In fact, I’ve always found getting/maintaining LTRs to be easy. My GF also doesn’t wear makeup. I don’t personally even have a problem with makeup, but it is certainly a huge advantage for women, especially when you consider that the most attractive part of a woman to men is her face! It’d be like if dudes just walked around in muscle suits.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:32 PM
0

I am operating from the assumption. Idk where you are where you’re often seeing average dudes with dimes. I rarely see dimes off top, let a lone with an average guy. Not saying it doesn’t happen (I work in an extremely social environment and see all kinds of couples) but often people are fairly looks matched.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:30 PM
-1

No change? Men already see average women as attractive. Average women benefit the most from makeup so without it they’d just be average. Chad’s would just fuck less women (because all the “7s” dropped back down to 5-6s), and average men would have more options as the inflated egos of basic bitches comes back down to reality. Ideally at least. Since makeup exists already it’d take a long time for the current women to die off and be replaced by new generations raised without the insecurities of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:25 PM
0

That’s not how it would work. Women’s expectations for who’s obtainable would readjust. They wouldn’t feel they deserve more attractive men because those men would interact with her less. Like if you grew up in a village where all the men looked like potatoes you’d be attract to Mr. Potato head.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:12 PM
2

If words worked we’d use them. The only way to get some things is to take it from others. You may not like war but most of us are reaping those benefits unquestionably.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:09 PM
1

Does that include prison rape stats and women raping men stats?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:04 PM
3

They literally aren’t. Women are walking around half naked everywhere just fine. The vast majority of their wears designed to accentuate their femininity and attract men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:02 PM
–

I see what you’re saying, but I think that’s kind of a different beast. People definitely can feel insecure about shit they should be confident about because of what society tells them. If you’re fit, you’re in better shape than the majority of people. You can be confident in that because it’s a fact. But if you’re more concerned with being the strongest/biggest then yeah you probably gonna use PEDs and have body dysmorphia. I agree women don’t care how much you lift. It’s all about how you look…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:23 PM
–

Towards what? Towards life. Are you joking? Being fit is a fucking super power. Walk around with a strong pair of legs and back and tell me you don’t feel good as fuck. And you think the ladies won’t notice? Trust me they’re checkin out a tight butt and arms on dudes. And yeah social success feels amazing in it’s own way, but it’ll be easier to find success if you’re fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:59 AM
–

It just depends on your starting point. If the majority of your interactions with women are poor, you should just focus on the gym and stacking paper. Socializing will probably burn more bridges than it builds. Better off just watching funny movies or something to build a repertoire of comebacks and jokes. If you’re at least somewhat successful with women already then sure; go out, socialize, kick it with friends, join hobbies etc. Even still, lifting will have the highest ROI. Nothing builds co…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:05 AM
–

Perception is reality. It’s vastly easier to be perceived as charismatic/funny when you’re physically attractive; even when you aren’t charismatic/funny. It’s worth waaaaaaaaaaaaay more to just get in shape than it is to try and work on your charisma/humor. In fact, it’ll be even harder to build if you’re unattractive. Just lift. Work on personality after you’re attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:12 AM
2

Exactly. Why worry about dudes only wanting sex when they can’t fuck you if you don’t let them! You have nothing to waste. Everything is on your terms as the woman. It’s literally your game to lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:27 PM
1

So then don’t have sex with them? Make dude invest financially and emotionally first if you’re so afraid of getting pumped and dumped. He’ll get bored and move on, or backburner you and put in less effort. Either way, time will weed out the majority of “players” See this is how I know women are clowns. Such an easy solution to their dating “problems” only shows many of ya’ll are trying to lock men down with sex, and getting jaded when he takes the free pussy and bails. What could men do if women…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:06 PM
3

The issue is most men won’t know if he likes a woman until after he fucks her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:57 PM
1

I’ve pointed this out to people before too. Woman gets caught up fuckin some dude and cries rape to avoid consequences. It’s the easy W. Worse case scenario for her is a slap on the wrist, and full support from her community, regardless of the outcome. Meanwhile dude is literally fighting for his life. The social damage irreparable. The potential jail time unrecoverable. And of course, the stain on his criminal record. That kind of accusation haunts you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:50 PM
13

Only if they didn’t normally wear a tux. If you wear makeup regularly, you don’t get points for wearing makeup on our date.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 01:35 AM
–

Certainly helps, but also hiking is enjoyable. Now shits gonna get realllll awkward on the trails. Dudes better start investing in bear costumes I guess 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 05:32 AM
–

Lol this shit may actually ruin hiking 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:28 AM
1

I agree many with tattoos are kind, but the look of tattoos gives people more of an edge. Take a nerdy white boy and tat him up and he’ll have better results with women. Is what it is 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 06:23 AM
2

Sexual Market Value aka how sexy you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 12:44 AM
3

Almost literally the only men attacking women are the ones you know already. The men you fuck are the guys most likely to harm you. Yet women aren’t all celibate, and criminals/violent men are still crushing it. To this day one of the easiest ways for a man to increase his SMV is to get tattoos. I’m starting to think women are picking the bear for some kind of ravishment fantasy 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 11:03 PM
1

Well yeah obviously that’s creepy lol Spoken like someone who’s never tried cold approaching. It’s basically like performing for an audience. It can be stressful having a bunch of people in earshot. If you bomb and get rejected, it can be humiliating as fuck, and some women will play into that by being loud and rude about it. Ooooh okay I see the miscommunication here. You thought I meant an isolated woman when I said lone. See, most normal men already are cautious when approaching a lone woman,…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 01:17 AM
1

So approaching a woman walking around by herself in public is “isolating” her? 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 12:10 AM
1

Everyone wants attention and validation, and a man’s desire for it will be lower than women’s on average. Literally a huge component of fucking women is making her feel desired and special (desiring only her vs desiring any women). Im a cold approacher. Lone women are just easier to approach. In a group you have to spit game to everyone at once. You can’t just walk up and start talking to her only like you would if she was by herself. Not to mention if the others in the group don’t like you they…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 11:18 PM
31

Honestly the fact that men are bigger and stronger yet women are more aggressive toward men simply shows women feel entitled to violence against men. Likely rooted in some kind of “revenge fantasy”, I’ve never known a man who felt hitting women was okay, but women seem to feel hitting men is acceptable 🤷🏾‍♂️ If women truly feared men violence against them should be minimal, not greater than right? Would you rather punch a bear or a man? 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 11:09 PM
1

Where are men saying they want to be alone in the woods with a woman? It’s a hypothetical. Why would that thought even cross your mind? Very strange. It’s a random encounter with a man or a bear. The odds of a random man being in the fraction of men who kills/rapes women is orders of magnitude lower than a random bear disemboweling you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 10:42 PM
1

Lol I mean at least you’re consistent in your trolling. Even ramping it up. Bravo.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 10:07 PM
1

Lol ya’ll are free to have opinions just like others are free to criticize them. Lol had it been one long paragraph you would’ve complained it was one long paragraph. Complaining about grammatics online is low tier trolling lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 09:55 PM
2

They would absolutely ask why you were alone in the woods fuckin around with bears 😂😂😂 I find it incredibly condescending that women believe their actions are above questioning. As if shit just happens to them and they’re just innocently existing in a vacuum. Does bad shit happen? Absolutely, but you know why scores of people aren’t eaten by bears? Because they know to stay the fuck out of the woods!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 09:01 PM
1

Stop this lie it’s nonsense women are brutally honest when they want to be and are bot afraid of randoms. If they were then stringing dudes they aren’t interested in along wouldn’t be a thing because it’s vastly more dangerous than just rejecting a guy. That or ya’ll just have really low EQ. Honestly at this point I’m leaning toward the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 07:35 PM
–

Goldilocks would be more apt. She sleeps in all their beds after all 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:29 AM
-2

But what if the outfit you wore specifically attracted wild animals and you knew that? Like, if you got mauled by a bear alone in the woods vs mauled by a bear alone in the woods running around in a suit made of dear carcasses? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 11:28 PM
–

Judging others for breaking social expectations is basic math.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:00 PM
–

Obviously her value as a human has nothing to do with how many dicks’s she taken… But as an LTR prospect, that’s on the men/women interested in her to decide. People will absolutely judge you for your lifestyle no matter if you’re a saint or a slut. Pick a path and walk it. Accept that if you pick a path that’s socially unacceptable, that people are going to talk shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:29 PM
1

Why would you have to chase unmoving targets? I meant nothing other than LTRs when I said relationships and clarified it as such. TRP focuses on casual sex, not LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 12:26 AM
–

When I say relationships, I’m talking LTRs. TRP specifically says LTRs are a poor idea in this day and age, but there’s obviously plenty of overlap between getting casual sex and getting LTRs. I believe “Married Red Pill” is specific to managing LTRs though I’ve never read any of their material.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 11:56 PM
–

Of course
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 11:28 PM
–

The Redpill isn’t about the subjugation of women. The Redpill isn’t even about relationships per se. It’s about sexual dynamics and self improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 09:51 PM
1

Once you start looking like a man (late 20s) you have the options to date younger and older women. In your early 20s a lot of men still look like boys and even if they’re physically more attractive many older women won’t consider you for anything serious. So as a man you hit that stride in your early 30s basically all women from 18-50 are viable options
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:48 AM
2

They do prefer older men though. You even say so in your OP(average 2-4 years older). Middle school girls want a highschool BF. Highschool girls fuck Seniors, dudes with cars/jobs, College guys. College girls are fuckin graduates. Educated women fuck educated men. Wealthy women fuck wealthy men. The majority of marriages has a male breadwinner. To claim women don’t care is delusional. They may not care for casual sex (being broke can limit fun activities and may make it hard to have sex if neith…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:17 AM
0

Naw dating pool definitely expands greatly with age if you’re even slightly attractive as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:13 AM
–

Lol so if you had multiple suitors, you’d pursue them all with equal enthusiasm? Since you don’t rank them, that’d make them all equal?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 06:31 PM
0

No more so than cleavage 😏😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 06:15 PM
2

Lol yeah I wouldn’t know 🤷🏾‍♂️😂 But a list of +4 things you apply to your face is gonna sound like a lot more than “minimal” to most guys who probably apply nothing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:43 AM
-3

Lol yeah you say this is minimal but it definitely sounds like a full face routine 😂 Not to mention I’m sure the difference is subtle, but really makes your face pop. Like outlining a drawing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 12:55 AM
2

And some of us can grow gloriously full/thick beards. It’s just meant to be 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 12:47 AM
5

Their not friends, they’re “friendsly”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:03 PM
–

That’s a huge plus. Confidence spills into all other aspects of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:15 PM
–

Sure, but it’d definitely boost your confidence into the sky 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:59 PM
4

No one seriously thinks Ariana Grande is average except edge lords online. Wanna see average? Take a stroll through your local Walmart or equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 08:41 PM
2

a weak 6 I like to call it a “soft/hard 6”. Soft 6 = she’s a 6 naturally. Hard 6 = she’s trying. Makeup, hair, fitted; she’s a 6
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 08:38 PM
1

In this sub. Within the context of dating, single mom’s are often poor choices for child free men. It just is what it is. But IRL, men don’t care. If you see a woman with a kid no one questions if she has a man. She’s treated like a woman with a kid, which is respectfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:46 AM
1

No, I’m saying because women birth children, there is a lot of bonding that goes on both physically/emotionally. So it’s rare for a women to abandon their children intentionally. Men are also biological unrestricted by birth, and can freely abandon their children. So ending up a single father is kind of an anomaly, since it requires both the mom leaving and the father staying.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:37 AM
1

this would be true for lots of guys but then also lots of guys don’t actually care or like doing things like gifts, dates etc they say “dancing like a monkey” in suggestion to this. I believe this is cap on men’s part. Men love spoiling women. It’s their natural inclination. It feels good. But spoiling a woman who doesn’t spoil you is “simping” and men are desperate not to look like simps. As such, many opt to not even try to be nice to women. They’re afraid to look like “dancing monkies”, but w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 11:25 PM
1

I mean, they kind of are. Mom bailing is definitely worse than dad bailing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:30 PM
1

Expect that in relationships where women outearn men the men are more likely to cheat or feel emasculated. Sure, but the women are also more likely to have been shitting on this dude the whole time. If you make more than your man and he feels emasculated by it I’m sure there are plenty of ways you could alleviate his insecurities, but women aren’t very kind when it comes to men’s insecurities. Many men also still like the idea of being the head of the household and having control f the wife’s ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:30 PM
1

There’s a kind of respect earned from being a mother, and even more so as a single mother with a dead beat baby daddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:19 PM
2

Sure, but I don’t think men want to raise kids alone. They don’t gain anything from it like women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:18 PM
1

If women truly wanted partners, then most of these dating woes would evaporate. They’d be cooperating with men, instead of antagonizing. Anyone dating women knows the “partnership” is hardly what they actually desire (obviously not all women, but good luck finding that piece of hay in the needle stack). They want the benefits of being men while still being treated like women. Women are walking away because they believe men aren’t good enough, and they believe men aren’t good enough, not because …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:14 PM
0

Because everything is about sex. Again, men already surpass women in every metric. Improving financially, physically would only bolster women’s standards. We need to knee cap women, not men, because women are the ones who need a power imbalance to feel attracted. Men don’t give a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:58 PM
1

It is not. Sex drive is what makes men pursue women. If dudes behaved more like women sexually we’d just die off from passivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:44 PM
-1

Because then we’d all die off unless artifical wombs are created. As much as women bitch about it, if men did not pursue them so vehemently, we’d probably still be living in the trees somewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:43 PM
-2

But improved men would still want sex more than unimproved women, which would lead to the same dynamic except just with more, attractive men. Above average dudes are already fucking/dating average women. The average man already makes more than his wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:07 PM
9

Lol Panda bears are incredibly aggressive. Black bears a better choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 08:16 PM
-5

If all men improve, so do women’s standards. If all men became Gods, women would desire super God. Solely improving men is not the solution because women being shitty is part of the problem. Women aren’t getting any better in the ways men appreciate and making men more attractive would only further fuel their egoism. The only way back would be to push for marriages again. Shame premartial sex, out of wedlock kids, adultery etc. Get enough women on the bus and they’ll all get on it. Men will get …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 08:10 PM
7

Dudes biggest fear is that he catches a case/gets “metoo’d” and ends up in a social ditch.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 08:41 AM
1

That depends. Does it matter that dudes go to certain places/events specifically looking for women? Then no it doesn’t matter that women go to school to be within proximity of higher status men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 03:15 AM
0

Same. I didn’t choose the red pill. Dealing with women led me there. You go on enough dates and eat enough Ls and anyone would start to question why.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 05:41 PM
1

Yeah I said not exactly proud of. Im not ashamed of it but it doesn’t really mean anything to me personally. It’s just a fact 🤷🏾‍♂️ Lol trust me there are many times I’m wondering why some girl is fuckin with me 😂 Idk if that was meant to be an insult but actually I’ve always been excellent at LTRs. Though I aint getting married until I decide to start a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:03 AM
1

Lol don’t trip I get STD tests multiple times of year and it’s not like I’m fuckin crack heads unprotected. Never even had a cold sore. But I understand. It is what it is. Having a triple digit n isn’t exactly something I’m proud of. Most of it was racked up in a 1 year span when I was briefly locally famous lol. Honestly astounding what a little fame will do for a dudes SMV
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 05:08 AM
1

Only if it strokes your ego. Are acts of service not ego stroking to those who appreciate them? Hmm maybe I am stretching that definition a bit. I feel like being able to tell people my girl cooks and cleans for me if I want “fluffs” me up 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 02:34 AM
0

You’re welcome
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 02:18 AM
0

I see it as making him feel like a man. Having a woman who’s doing “wifey” things for you is definitely ego stroking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 01:59 AM
1

Lol I was pretty liberal with the “a”s 😂 Just gonna have to agree to disagree. Men require less work to be happy 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 01:57 AM
-5

That all falls under “stroking his ego”. Many men indeed love being catered too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 01:12 AM
1

I don’t think men are flat or one dimensional. I’m saying they’re easier to keep happy in a relationship. There’s simply more expected of men to keep a woman sated in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 01:07 AM
1

Make me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 12:50 AM
2

Again, means nothing, and I have nachos now so 🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 12:22 AM
2

Im not making anything a competition I am stating a fact. Men have a much short list of “requirements” to be sated in a relationship than women. Full stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 12:22 AM
2

Nope, I read it all, but god damn 25 years? That’s rough.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 12:20 AM
2

Oh no my credibility with internet strangers 😩 Ya’ll have no bearing on my reality. Even if you don’t believe me or whatever, I’m still laying here in bed typing this while my girl puts all this damn food in our bed cause she just made dinner 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 12:20 AM
0

I didn’t say there’s no emotional labor, I said men are simply easier to please. This isn’t some controversial thing I know you ladies know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 12:17 AM
-2

Lol is there a “nothowmenwork” subreddit? 😂 Besides, I know how to deal with women and am quite successful fucking ya’ll so 😛
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 12:14 AM
5

Cause I’m confident enough to be able to give compliments without worrying about stroking someone else’s ego. Also, flirting is fun, and practice makes perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 12:10 AM
-8

I agree, and women have a mountain of requirements to keep them happy. Dudes are simple: stroke their egos, and fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 12:05 AM
0

Lol and why were you with this dude for any amount?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 12:03 AM
2

As friends? Plenty. Dudes don’t ask for much shit a text every few months and drinks once a year and it’s like nothings changed lol. Romantically… zero, but it ain’t hard to stroke the male ego. Women only struggle because of their own egos.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 12:02 AM
-16

Because men have to deal with his women’s emotions. Waaaaaaaaaaaaay more emotional labor keeping your women happy than it is keeping your man happy. Of course, no one talks about that 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 11:50 PM
6

It literally is and you all know it since the vast majority of men that you encounter do not harm you or even give a fuck about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 07:38 AM
1

There is a wide gap between affectionate support and being taken for granted as a servant or a “mommy” No there’s not. They’re both exactly the same except in one case the man is appreciative and reciprocates, whereas in the other he’s lazy and complacent. No, most women do not express love by picking up after themselves or their partner.. You say this, but it has not been my experience. Women are quick to start doing things to ease their man’s burden, like cooking and cleaning. Though perhaps t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:12 AM
0

Yeah I’m not them. I can get dates and sex but it’s been a ride getting to the point I’m at now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:04 AM
2

Im not denying reality. It is simply a fact. Please do google shirtless pics of BTS members. They are ripped and lean. No one would think they are weak by any stretch of the imagination. Facial features are low on the list of importance when it comes to a man’s attractiveness. Sure, asian women like softer facial features, but dude is still gonna be tall and lean. And Im in a relationship already for many years now. I’ve never had issues getting or maintaining relationships 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:50 AM
1

I mean, I also have a really big dick if that helps 🤷🏾‍♂️😂 Also, I wasn’t bragging.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:38 AM
2

Actually they do and if you actually interviewed women in Asia you would find out that men like that are literally their type. Fit, rich, famous, and white skinned? No surprise. Did you know being married is actually way less stressful and more fulfilling being a cheap man-whore? You should think about it. 😉 Lol I’m actually relationship oriented, but apparently my natural self just kind of leads to sex with women 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:33 AM
5

Hahaha naw bro straight up I just love eating pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:21 AM
5

They’re a world famous boy band! They don’t even exist in the “real world”. Meanwhile in the real world, my n-count is in the low triple digits.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:09 AM
2

Sauce: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC9106334/ *Face game had minimal effect on mating success for men (for the “face matters” team)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:01 AM
2

But again, strength is attractive. In fact it’s the number 1 predictor of sexual success in men. So basically you’re asking men to give up any chance of being attractive to women in exchange for women feeling safer. It’s a massive L for both sides and would lead us to extinction.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 11:51 PM
6

Well since it’s such a small group of men committing the majority of crimes, it is annoying to be lumped in with them, but IRL it’s mostly a non attractive man’s issues so 🤷🏾‍♂️ For the average and up dudes it’s just a matter of not doing/saying creepy things and you’re good.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 11:47 PM
-3

I agree, that was a bit of a stretch in logic, but it is the default mode women assume in a relationship, despite “not wanting to do it”. Which is why I responding to your comment of women not wanting to act like their partners mom, even though that’s how most women express love for their partners; by taking care of them 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 11:43 PM
3

Sure, but what I’m saying is it’s not his strength that sets off her alarm bells, it’s his behavior. The average woman is not living in fear of every man she encounters despite them all being stronger than her, but strange men doing strange things are definitely disconcerting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 11:38 PM
8

Look, I understand their fears, even if statistically unlikely, a .1% chance of being raped or murdered feels like a lot. Especially with the way it’s so common place in media (especially women’s media). Even still it’ll mostly be a man’s behavior, and not his strength, that’s of concern. In fact, strong looking dudes are very attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 11:14 PM
10

Uh because women shit on weak men. Do you not know women? They would absolutely be the “men” of today if they were the stronger ones. Hell, even as the weaker ones they try to be men still. If everything was the same except men were suddenly weaker women would enslave us lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 10:47 PM
0

And I’m saying it’s dumb women say they don’t want X, and then go out and make X happen on their own. You don’t want your man to treat you like his mom? Then stop treating him like your son! Stop doing his laundry. Stop picking up his stuff. Stop whatever you think you’re doing that makes him a kid. Stop enabling him. Or accept that maybe, just maybe, this is a role you take on yourself and perpetuate on your own. Have any of you ever met a man who ask you to mommy him outside of some fetish? Se…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 10:39 PM
18

Lol whine? 😂 Men aren’t labeled rapists/murders because of their stature. It’s mostly just fear mongering and sour grapes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 10:36 PM
-1

Then stop doing it? Are these dudes approaching you saying they want a mommy? Or do when just pick up the mommy role on their own and then grow resentful? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 10:06 PM
33

Hell no. So I can watch my options and potential shrivel up? So I can get abused/bullied by women? Like seriously women shit on dudes now you really think things would be better if men were weaker than them?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 10:03 PM
3

I’d agree if it was like she invited you over only to eat the pussy and then leave. But if you’re fuckin then it doesn’t matter if she’s not really attracted to you because that means she’s compromising her standards to get something out of you with sex. Which means you’re getting pussy 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 07:42 PM
5

No. Nothing wrong with pleasing a woman so long as you’re doing it because you want to. If you’re doing it because you hope it’ll make her like you more or some other supplicating reason then yeah, that’s bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 09:01 AM
14

Who cares. Ima eat that pussy because I want to, not because she wants me to. Her enjoying herself is merely a consequence of me enjoying eating her pussy 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:23 AM
3

And they can’t even do that without men. Sperm has value 👍🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 08:19 PM
2

Hoe is short for whore which is a prostitute. A hoe is a person who has sex for stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 11:48 AM
2

We don’t call it a transaction to have a fun time with our friends, do we? We don’t call it that because it’s crass. It still is what it is, and you acknowledge that Even though there is some give and take. Your friends aren’t your friends just because. You’re “worth” having around/knowing. They benefit from interacting with you; from “transacting” with you. But If you became a nuisance, your value as a friend would drop and people would stop interacting with you; refusing the “transactions of f…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 11:21 AM
7

Lol compensate? Look I harbor no illusions here. Women are crushing it. They’re comfy and complacent. I imagine they’ll continue to ramp up the madness simply because they can. No, but they already do that. Women complain that men don’t appreciate all the “work” they put into dating/attracting men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 11:06 AM
23

Not when dealing with women. Most interactions are going to end in the early stages, before she has to put it any real work. If dude can never get past those early stages than he’s gonna be doing a lot for little pay off
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:38 AM
–

It’s a fallacy in logic, but not when considering human behavior. Emotion kicks in before logic, so it makes sense that some people simply don’t dig deeper (or in the brain’s case, climb higher) than their feels.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 09:13 PM
–

If they were we wouldn’t have this many sexless dudes 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:57 PM
–

More logical doesn’t mean devoid of emotions (which are illogical). Men just have a propensity to math things out where women have a propensity to feel things out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:54 PM
1

Lol I mourn your sex life. My GF cums multiple times before I even pull out the dick and she cums from penetration alone 😎👍🏾 I know it’s tough out there. How can you know who has good dick or not 🤷🏾‍♂️ Good luck to you out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:18 AM
–

Well obviously you shouldn’t be fucking dudes you aren’t attracted to. And yeah many do not cum from penetration but many do. Plus there’s lots of way to play with a clitoris. And even if she “requires” toys to get off, most women still deeply enjoy the feeling of being filled with dick. Not to mention the more sensual/passionate aspects of sex. Your vibrators not gonna whisper how good your tight pussy feels in your ear, or gaze deeply into your eyes and kiss you passionately. It’s not gonna pl…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:14 AM
–

Yes, really. Especially the women who aren’t suffering from “death grip”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:47 AM
–

The streets of course
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:39 AM
–

Sex toys are a convenience, but not as good as real pussy. Just like how women prefer actually getting fucked to vibrating silicone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:38 AM
–

Happier single than with the wrong man. They still want a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:34 AM
3

To me the Red pill is simply a “tool kit” providing the necessary information to help one improve their results with women and life in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 08:47 PM
3

Now im confused. Are you saying you intentionally misrepresented TRP? What you believe and if you’re Red pilled doesn’t really matter. Just strange how people who don’t know shit are the dominant voice in what TRP “is”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 08:32 PM
3

You’re talking about the grifters, not TRP. TRP isn’t gassing dudes up or blaming others. It blames you for your own outcomes, and that you need to improve if you want better results.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 08:11 PM
5

My GF knows we aint getting married or having kids too 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:48 PM
3

Free the boobs! Succumb to gravities pull!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 09:01 PM
–

Face game needs to be at least average. Ugly/deformed face is definitely gonna hurt results lol. But certainly getting fit will have significant ROI (for your face, too)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 08:55 PM
–

They complain first because they tried before knowing they weren’t good enough as is. Then they take whatever pill and get bitter that being themselves isn’t enough. Then they put in the work and get even more bitter because they were always short and/or had a stupid face lol And those are heavy Ls walking the path that basically ends with celibacy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 08:20 PM
1

Yes it can and it does. First off truly ugly people are outliers so let’s ignore them. The majority of people are plain; average. Average face. Average body. For men this means overweight with a pudgy face. Nothing ruins a mans facial aesthetics like body fat. It makes their faces look soft and weak. Leaning out is that 1-2 punch because not only does it sculpts the body, it also sculpts the face. A plain face will look much better when leaned out and angular. Looking weak is absolutely a death …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 09:37 PM
2

I agree, but they can start at almost any age and the results will increase their dating pool significantly
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:45 PM
1

Appearance of strength is the number one predicator of sexual success in men. What makes a dude look strong? Thick forearms and upper arms (not like Arnold but still solid) and abs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:43 PM
1

Oh I’m aware. Though again fucking them early will usually expedite the “does he actually like me?” process 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:41 PM
–

Just doin my part to keep the plebs informed 😁✌🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:15 PM
1

what you said is mostly true but too many generalizations and sweeping assumptions- many men have horribly aged faces or bodies despite working out and many women do in fact care about this and not just money Well yes obviously this is in general, but realize much more of women’s looks depend on her face, and much more of men’s depends on their body. Men rate face as the most attractive part on a woman, while for women it’s arms/chest on men (appearance of strength). Acquiring wealth wont always…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:07 PM
–

Lol TRP isn’t even about dating women (although you can if you want). The goal is simply to be attractive to them. It doesn’t aim to shame women into not being sluts. In fact, RP dudes love sluts. Why wouldn’t they? Sluts give out free pussy 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:22 PM
0

Lol the difference is that bars/clubs are sexually charged. Insane how women act like they aren’t open to sexual advances when dressed half naked and drinking out with their friends. Seriously get off your high horse unless you’re there with your man we all know what’s up. Or at the very least you know why the dudes are there and you are specifically putting yourself in an environment where horny drunk men will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 06:12 AM
34

Society doesn’t hate old women, you just slowly become irrelevant, like most men have always been. The reason it seems men are “allowed” to age is because the things women find attractive in men can still be cultivated in their old age. They can still hit the gym and get lean, build confidence, status, and stack paper. All of these things will give them access to younger and more attractive women. Conversely, women can’t really improve an aging face without extreme (and often botched) measures. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:37 AM
1

Fuck her as often and as much as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 03:16 AM
6

But still some good ones. And it’s not like you have to sleep with them to know if they’re good or not (though it may expedite the whole process). In the mean time you still get the benefits of being validated and desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:52 AM
14

An abundance of options to pick from. And yes I realize the reality of women’s abundance is a lot of poor options, but this is what I meant when I said “women take it for granted”. There are still good options amongst the bad. Amazing options even. For dudes it’s the same shit, just with a fraction of the options. We’re both at different ends of the extremes; women are dying of thirst in an ocean and men are dying of thirst in a desert.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 11:25 PM
–

The one’s who can most definitely date like women, and it’s highly recommend to do so at any level. Abundance is a beautiful thing that I think a lot of women take for granted, but the average man will be like “woah wtf?!”. That feeling of knowing not only that you have more options waiting, but also being able to easily acquire more options, is akin to a superpower. It’s a very… satisfying kind of feeling, and that boosts confidence, which in turn makes you more attractive and gives even more o…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:38 PM
1

Not necessarily. It’s not as if makeup makes women behave insecurely. Makeup actually boosts confidence, so you could say that men prefer confident women, and that women use makeup to pretend to be more confident than they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:01 AM
0

Bad choice or not as long as it’s an offer, and not an ultimatum, the L is on you (the one who accepts the offer).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:11 AM
1

Naw they just want sex with hot guys. Age literally means nothing if you’re old but look young and hot you’re fuckin 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:09 AM
1

Straw! OP never said old. Never said 50. Every. Single. Time. Someone erects this strawman. Older men. Women prefer older men in general. Whether that’s 1 year or 20 years. No one thinks 20 yr olds want to fuck +50 yr olds .
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:08 AM
4

Idk about most, but it is frustrating how people seem to gloss over the simple fact that people will do a lot of shameful stuff for money/fame. It’s literally no surprise that shit tons of people are exchanging sexual favors for stuff. A lot of these cases seem like sour grapes “I sucked his dick and he didn’t give me the part? Rape.”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:35 AM
1

To this day I don’t think any of Cosby’s cases have been proven, but as Chappelle said, it looks bad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:32 AM
1

Disagree. Ultimately men choose who to pursue, women simply accept/reject advances. If dude doesn’t make a move nothing will happen, regardless of if she would have rejected him or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 10:20 PM
2

Really? You’ve heard a man say he specifically pursues women who are crazy? 😏 She’s hot. She’s fun. Her being crazy is simply tolerated. It might make things more exciting but I assure you he aint in it for the times when shit hits the fan.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 10:11 PM
1

Yeah she’s “fun” in an outgoing kind of way but it’s not really a strict requirement on any dudes list. Boring women can easily get the dick too, they just tend to stay home and shit. No man (in general) is fucking crazy because she’s crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 05:59 AM
23

Because no one cares. Men don’t deny the truth; that they’ll put up with a crazy bitch in order to fuck her, but that’s despite her personality, not because. Are there men who enjoy emotional abuse? Sure, but 9.9/10 if a dudes fucking with a crazy bitch it’s because she has a vagina. Men like vaginas who stroke their ego. It’s basic girl game 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:04 AM
–

Lol I’m sorry for your loss 😔😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 08:46 PM
–

Stop you? Idk about OC but a lot of us are fuckin and enjoying watching everything spinout lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 08:32 PM
6

Lol she’ll want to be around you often. Make excuses to be near you. Listen intently and laugh at your nonsense. Smiley. Touchy. She will make it easier for you to hit on her and ask her out. She will be surprisingly available. Overall, she’ll make it easier for you, not harder. If she’s playing weird games or being ambiguous in her intent/desires then she either doesn’t like you much or she’s got some trauma. But yes asking him out directly would work too. Complimenting his fish wouldn’t hurt e…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:13 PM
7

Obviously there are varying levels but for men’s sake the only one that matters is blatant interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 08:57 PM
5

Woah. Men lie up and women lie down. So is it rape if a dude embellishes his sexual conquests? Is it rape if she downplays hers? This is strange because you never see or hear a women complain about how she found out her man was lying about being a virgin after they got married or something… yet their are plenty of posts of dudes finding out their wife/fiance lied about being a virgin to get the ring 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 08:22 PM
1

Whatever that woman requires for a relationship to exist. Usually financial and emotional provisioning. And yes some women are ballers but the vast majority are not and even the ballers aren’t too keen on dating men who make substantially less than they do further shrinking their options (which is counter to men where money greatly increases their options)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 07:54 PM
1

But what are the results that would benefit her with men? Honest question. TRT for men increases pretty much everything that makes a man sexually attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 05:06 AM
1

For every dude that wouldn’t fuck a fat woman there is a man who will. I personally would rather fuck a fat girl than a skinny girl. I like my woman thicc and I’d rather her be thicc and fat than skinny and slim 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 05:05 AM
3

That’s mostly for casual sex though, which we all know women will never run out of options for, but what about men willing to provide for her or support her emotionally? Women’s options for LTRs definitely dwindle, while an attract man can continue to dip into the younger generations… imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 05:04 AM
1

Does that not happen though? Im in my early 30s and a few of my female friends are indeed starting to worry about settling down.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 05:00 AM
3

Oh no doubt. In fact now that you mention it dudes can also hop on TRT too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 01:02 AM
1

Of course some guys do. But they’re easily foiled by not having sex with them. so you have experience with this? or what are you basing this on? Lol of course. I don’t need to be interested in your life to fuck you. But I just vet for women who feel similarly 🤷🏾‍♂️ it is way more likely he wants sex than it is that he has a wholesome (love) reason for approaching you I mean yeah it’d be weird if a dude felt love for someone he doesn’t know. But lust is readily felt. only when hotter women are ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 10:49 PM
2

That sex is important to women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 10:30 PM
2

Yes women can exercise but the results will be minimal. Why? Because most of women’s looks is in her face. Face game consistently goes down with age and not much you can do about it except makeup and botox and shit. For men though, it’s mostly about the body. Yes face matters too but getting lean does great things to men’s faces. Plus, being lean does great things to their bodies. The ROI is significantly higher in men’s case and they can do it at basically any age. Remember women are already ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 10:30 PM
2

Of course not lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 10:20 PM
1

words have meanings Often multiple. Teasing is playful. Insults are hurtful. There’s overlap, but within the context of our discussion, teasing is playful. Insults have intent to hurt behind them. Teasing does not. thats literally an explicit compliment? how is that teasing? Because she literally has a big ass. She’s crazy stupid thicc. A girl with an ass that fat is 100% taking pride in how big it is and I called it “cute” and “little”. Get it? 😏 And I’m not saying explicit compliments don’t wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 10:18 PM
11

Lies. She doesn’t even need to stay active or take care of herself 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 09:06 PM
2

I always figured “the wall” was simply women’s declining fertility. I got a few single female friends in their 30s who are concerned with or giving up on ever having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 09:05 PM
2

Cardio. Super easy to gain cardiovascular strength. Any dude at anytime can start and stick to a routine and be in decent shape in a year or 2. This is the biggest advantage older men have over older women (and fertility) because you can’t reverse age your face, but you can exercise your body.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 09:00 PM
3

Yo women are still wanting to get their cheeks clapped into old age. Nursing homes are prime examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:45 PM
1

i've had men literally flirt with me by saying "that's because you're a woman" when i say something is confusing insults exist whether you "feel" them or not and if you don't, they say "its just a joke" "don't be so uptight" "you must be a feminist" "get a sense of humor bitch" Again, teasing is not insulting. Stop comparing them. Yes you can be insulted and teased. The goal is not to Insult her. If you have to say “it’s a joke” then your joke wasn’t calibrated enough (or you’re a douchebag). Ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:38 PM
1

i feel like he does not want to fuck me (or wants to fuck me but not care for me) when a guy insults as a way of flirting Teasing is not insulting. If she’s feeling insulted you’re doing it wrong (or she just doesn’t like you). She should be laughing and joking with you too which is bad because??? Overt compliments often are not taken well from strange men to women. Gotta “come at her from the side” so to speak. and distance themselves if they aren’t. Even women who were or would’ve been interes…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 01:50 AM
4

People are reporting less sex, but that’s not what it looks like out on the streets. Perhaps I’m just getting more attractive but seems every woman is fucking or receptive to being fucked. They just keep a lot of that shit on the DL 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:00 PM
2

He’s gay. The compliments are accepted because their’s no risk he wants to fuck you. Complimenting women as a straight man often backfires. They’ll quickly assume you’re interested and distance themselves if they aren’t. Better to just playfully talk shit if you’re trying to befriend them 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:50 PM
2

I disagree though. I have waaaay more female friends than male 🤷🏾‍♂️ IME most women simply love fun charismatic men who talk shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:11 PM
6

Yes. There was a whole big thing for the last few years about not enough “economically attractive” men. It’s nonsense that women don’t care about provisioning there standards have literally only gone up with their own income.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 08:52 AM
2

Good for you. “We” simply wouldn’t get along. Nothing wrong with that. I find an easy way to gauge a women’s interest is if she’s receptive to teasing. Certainly with this method you’re gonna disqualify the girl’s who simply don’t like being teased at all but it’s no loss for either party in this case 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 02:02 AM
2

Lol why because they can’t take a joke or be teased? I agree women who take themselves too serious are gonna struggle more with dating. No one likes a “banter nazi” who gets easily offended over benign comments/jokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 11:15 PM
1

It’s because the difference between their made up selves and their natural selves is often drastic. Drastic enough that when they show up in their normal state that they look sick/pale. It’s a them problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 10:24 PM
1

Naw real love exists it’s just crazy hard to find it genuinely. Especially after say 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 07:36 AM
2

Oh I know real love exists. I’ve been in love a few times and currently do love my own GF… but I’m no fool to believe what we have is common. We’re basically high school sweethearts. Our relationship is a team. When I’m broke, she covers the bills, and when I’m up, I pay for everything and spoil her. It’s all love. We got that “reciprocal simping” action going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 07:35 AM
18

Bruh you can be nice to women and still talk shit. I highly recommend you learn to intertwine being a dick with being a genuinely nice person. It will give you more of an “edge” and greatly improves flirting/cold approaching. Women are use to people eggshelling around them. Dudes who can keep it real without sounding insecure/bitter are more attractive. Nice dudes with no edge just come off as simpy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 11:19 PM
6

Right, so money problems being widely known as a leading cause of divorce means that this isn’t atypical female behavior. It’s not reserved for escorts. From the male perspective, women’s dating strategy is basically prostitution. They do not tend to give pussy away for free like men do dick. Men are sluts. Women are prostitutes 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 11:09 PM
5

They're using you, unless you don't mind being used and not wanted for who you are. Once the money stops, they leave. 🏃‍♂️ 🏃‍♀️ How is this any different for your typical woman in a relationship? If a man loses his income the countdown to relationship denotation begins.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:40 PM
3

Well shit, that’s good to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:25 PM
3

As I keep saying money is King when it comes to LTRs with women. If you’re attractive and broke you can fuck but you’ll struggle with LTRs with looks matched women. If your paper’s stacked but you’re average in looks you’ll get LTRs but casually you’ll struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 09:55 PM
3

IQ and income both correlate negatively with having kids so 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 09:43 PM
5

Reciprocial simping is the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 04:41 PM
-2

Only if you lack confidence in yourself. Once you build that real world confidence getting rejected is just the cost of doing business, but her not being interested in you will have no effect on your confidence because it doesn’t change anything about you. For instance I have a lot of confidence and my sexual skills and her rejecting isn’t gonna make my dick any less big or my cunnilingus any less proficient 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 04:38 AM
1

You don’t just develop social skills now, it takes time. Young as in of legal age? Then cap. Young women like tall lean guys just like the rest of you. If dude at 20 was chubby and at 30 is lean he’ll get love from young women easily. Money doesn’t get panties wet but it opens doors to experiences that do. And experience definitely get panties wet so 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 11:12 PM
0

That’s not the RP argument. The argument is simply that the things women find attractive in a man are developed slowly over time (aside being born with Chad looks). Confidence, wealth, experience, physical stature; all are developed over time. A 20 yr old man may be more youthfully attractive, but by 30 he’ll have more money, and more experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 10:23 PM
-7

Obviously there is a difference. The arguement is that women go for older men, not old men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 09:15 PM
-5

More straw. Who said anything about <30 women with 50> men? What about all those women in their 20s dating dudes in their +30s?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 09:14 PM
–

Older is older why do you guys throw out this strawman every time? The average is older, which means the majority is older. Stop the c*pe.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 08:53 PM
1

Was it a date? Thought it was just a reaction video 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 11:28 AM
1

What do you mean? I don’t know if this is rage bait or not. Could be, but we’ve hit a point where everyone says everything online is fake which simply derails discussion. Who cares really. Most of this shit is based on actual “issues” between men and women. Even if they staged it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 11:10 AM
1

Lol sure but that’s less fun 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 06:02 AM
8

This isn’t about what’s better or worse imo. We don’t know about their relationship but off top it looks disrespectful to make such comments in front of your man. We don’t, that’s why I said I’m willing to bet. Simply experience as a man. Women don’t tend to give overt compliments to non-Chad like characters. In fact it’s pretty much taboo to stroke the male ego in female-land. This coming from a slightly above average dude with a big dick. I rarely get compliments on it unless I specifically fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:07 AM
8

She’s oogling it. Does she oogle her BFs dick too? I’m willing to bet she’s never said anything like that about his dick before. And she definitely saved that away in her “spank bank” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 10:19 PM
5

Surprisingly, all dudes and zero push back from the ladies 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 10:13 PM
8

This all always comes down to avoiding settling, but if you want a relationship and simply can’t find what you want, then you’re settling for being single. It’s interesting how settling down use to be a good thing, and now has become some kind of competition between women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:49 AM
7

Could they? Were women just running in groups like gazelle and men were just hiding in the bushes waiting to ambush them? Wouldn’t other men stop them? Jealousy is an evolved trait so it’s not like dudes would just take turns passing around the women right? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 11:48 PM
2

Most people don’t make perfect LTR partners. There are tons of people who make good partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:08 AM
2

Because first hand experience trumps the anecdotal experience especially when it comes to relationships. “Looking around” would barely glean the depths of human relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 03:44 AM
2

The hidden sweet spot (not the one under the tongue)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 09:08 PM
5

How could you know this as a virgin? How many people had you dated to come to this conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 09:04 PM
2

From my perspective a lot of the ‘manosphere’ content perpetuates these ideas that women are an object for a man to possess. Completely normal and extremely neurotic of women to get offended by this kind of nonsense. For instance, say you hire a plumber. The plumber is a man, but do you see him as only a man? No, you also see him as an object, a tool to fix your toilet. But just because you see him as an “object” doesn’t mean you don’t also see them as a person, too. Objectification and possessi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:01 PM
3

The manosphere isn’t about hating women 🤷🏾‍♂️ So why does feminism get a pass but the manosphere doesn’t? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:21 PM
7

They aren’t, but it’s shit like that that prevents these movements from gaining traction.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 08:43 PM
0

So then feminism is misandrist?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 08:42 PM
6

8-9 wins for sex. 6-7 with money wins for LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 09:17 AM
8

If she’s interested in you, it literally doesn’t matter if she’s at work or working out. Just be respectful about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 09:35 PM
0

Fat tax. They’re a drain on the medical system, use more resources, take up more space, need special accommodations, etc etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 08:54 PM
1

Lol no. Believe it or not I actually love women, but dating them can be frustrating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 12:22 PM
1

Not carrying about random kids is not a red flag, and is much better than people who simply use kids to further their own agendas.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 10:27 PM
1

No I don’t care about the kids either really 🤷🏾‍♂️ Guess I was just being pedantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 10:15 PM
1

I actually don’t really care. Like I said from the jump my only point was that dude didn’t send the video to the kid. Seemed everyone was really stretching that women’s story to imply the kid was the target when they were simply collateral damage. I feel like many people have shit on their phones they don’t want kids to see, not to mention porn and a lot of sexual youtube content is readily available.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 09:26 PM
1

In designated areas where kids are very likely to be (schools, playgrounds etc) then no, but I see it like drug addicts in the streets. You don’t wanna see that shit; random person tweekin out or slumped over on the ground, but it is what it is. Just avoid them and keep it movin.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 09:06 PM
1

Jerking off in the streets is a bit more aggressive than sending someone a video of you jerking off, but overall yes my standards are the same. If you wanna walk around with you balls out do your thing 🤷🏾‍♂️ Obviously businesses and establishments should still have the right to deny service to you if you’re naked but if you’re just outside in public go off
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 08:27 PM
1

Hmmmm….. Well, not really. Something feels wrong about it but I can’t really poke holes in the logic. It makes sense that you shouldn’t send sexual content to people without their consent… but it feels like a freedom of speech/expression violation if that makes sense. Like, I don’t want your DPs but I respect your right to send them 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 12:35 PM
1

Because intent matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 12:23 PM
1

But you actually can’t disregard consent while also claiming to understand its purpose, because the purpose of consent is to ensure that all parties involved in a sexual situation are enthusiastically and deliberately choosing to be in that situation—because if they aren’t, there can be traumatic consequences. I don’t disagree. My argument has only been that the video was not intended for the kid, regardless of consent. I understand there should have been no video sent in the first place though,…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 12:20 PM
1

Well there’s verbal consent (yes means yes) and non-verbal consent (actions/behavior/body language giving you the green light). But I don’t think consent matters here. People can freely send you shit if they have your number. This is why the block feature exists 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 11:37 AM
1

To send that video to the owner of the phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 11:28 AM
0

Not really, because regardless of consent, his intent was not to send the video to a child. The fact a child saw it is merely coincidental. If dude intentionally got a child’s number and sent them that video, then yeah they should burn.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 11:12 AM
0

Fortunately, most men wouldn’t send a video of themselves masturbating to people in their social circle. It’s literally social suicide lol. Takes a special kind of stupid to do something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 11:03 AM
-2

You implied he was defending the action of sending the video to a kid “Ugh, he only jerked off in front of one little kid, it’s fine!” The kid just happened to have the phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 10:58 AM
-5

The video wasn’t sent to the kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 10:47 AM
1

You think dudes are just born hating women? It’s learned just like it is for women through bad experiences. Don’t forget women are at the top for child abuse so it stands to reason many boys first experiences with a women are poor 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 12:52 AM
5

Some women? Sheesh come on at least argue in good faith. The majority of women (and to a lesser extent, men) use social media. And no Im not mad. I’m attractive 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 07:43 PM
-4

Trauma bonding. If I pushed a human baby out of my dick I’d probably take responsibility for it too 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 11:53 AM
-7

Lol have you tried dating women? Dealing with them can definitely make you psychotic 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 11:43 AM
3

Local Chads. Not all the Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 11:35 AM
-8

Intimate partners means the men women select for. We have tons of evidence showing that women are attracted to dangerous men and that the majority of men aren’t murders.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 10:25 AM
-6

If a woman would abuse her child then how do you think she would treat her man?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 10:22 AM
-1

And women didn’t have access to all of the Chads. Both men and women were more realistic about their options and what was consider attractive, but I believe what were seeing today is the effects of social media, especially on women’s expectations. Social media has poisoned the well by exposing people to the best versions of themselves. Worse so for women because they actually have access to better versions of men (even if just for sex), and because it ramps female competition up to 11. Social me…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 04:56 AM
1

And median income for all husbands according to the survey is 65000. And the median earnings for wives was $35k. Comparatively, hubbies a “high earner”. I have no idea where these are from, but the median earnings for men are From a hasty google search lol But as far as marriages: https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2023/04/13/in-a-growing-share-of-u-s-marriages-husbands-and-wives-earn-about-the-same/#:~:text=Across%20all%20opposite%2Dsex%20marriages,earned%20a%20median%20of%20%2465%2C000.…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 09:38 PM
0

Median incomes: 25: $40k 35: $53k 45: $55k 55: $61k 65: $60k Median income for breadwinning men is $90k ($30k for the women). Median income for egalitarian couples is $60k (each).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 09:08 PM
0

Call it whatever you want, it still shows a clear pattern that men with more money (or who are projected to make more money in the future) are more likely to get married. Money is king for LTRs
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 08:55 PM
0

Ehhh. Majority of marriages has a male breadwinner earning a median wage 3x his spouses (majority being 55%). Median wage in egalitarian is marriages (29% of marriages) is ~60k (each) So… majority of dudes getting married are decently above median wage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 08:23 PM
11

It’s the same with dick size and money. Why would men be concerned about these things when dealing with women if women didn’t actually care about them? Yes, individual women may not care, but the collective certainly does lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 08:41 AM
1

Exactly. If dude is out of her league or she really likes him she won’t play hard to get, she’ll make things as easy as possible for him to escalate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:33 AM
2

Well fortunately this is a fairly niche corner of the web but I’m saying it lol. These guys already know it’s part of why some of them are salty. Women can be sluts and still find relationship success. Meanwhile dudes struggling just to get a first date. Feels cruel, especially if you’ve been seriously trying and aren’t a bad guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 12:57 AM
0

Cause they’re haters and they aint gettin no pussy 😂 Seriously the only bad kind of sluts are prostitutes and the openly known slut (as in, multiple other men within his social circle have also fucked with her or she’s in porn/OF).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 12:53 AM
1

There are dudes repulsed by sluts and dudes who love them. Slutty women are not struggling to find commitment, except for in cases where their reputations have been burned down, and even the, ex-porn stars get married all the time. OF creators have BFs and spouses. For every man who dislikes sluts, there’s someone who loves them 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 12:23 AM
2

There are plenty of men who LTR the women they sleep with casually. If dude is talking shit maybe he just didn’t like you very much. If the pussy was good and the vibe is right, you being easy won’t matter. Sluts (who maintain the “lady in the streets”) do not struggle to find commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 12:11 AM
2

Fair enough lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 08:47 PM
2

The women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 08:46 PM
4

It’d work either way though. Being direct or being coy, either way dudes goal is to fuck you and he has no choice but to keep pursuing to get there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 08:42 PM
4

False. You’re only an easy slut if dudes getting his dick sucked before even knowing your name. If dudes clapping cheeks at the end of a first/second date, he’s just thinking you really like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 08:41 PM
5

Do you think those men would have dropped those women if instead they had been more direct with their desire? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 08:35 PM
1

Oh I was sooooo open and friendly and cute and flirtatious and "Oooh you're not like other GiRlS" and all I got was a buncha simps and negging to show for it. Lol I didn’t say finding the perfect guy was easy, but come on they can’t all be saying that shit 😂 I'd know, I've witnessed many such instances where women "settled". Not good. Nothing wrong with settling unless you’re constantly comparing. Everyone has flaws. If he treats you good and you’re attracted to him sexually, it’s not gonna get …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 09:10 AM
2

This isn’t unique to women. I definitely said people. This attack vector is simply more common amongst women. And I’m not sure what you’re trying to say no one can decide how anyone else feels.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 08:48 AM
1

I don’t disagree and fundamentally I don’t think any other man would either. If anyone should reproduce, it’s Chads. But someone has to raise those kids and the best person for that is the father so leave the Chads for Stacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 05:19 AM
1

Love is easy to find if you’re actually open to it. Bruh women have been pushing out babies forever. You live in a time where pregnancy couldn’t be easier get that nonsense outta here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 05:15 AM
2

Whether something is an unwarranted worry is not for you to decide.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 05:13 AM
5

Hey, Im right there with you. I love my woman shaped like a pear. Bottom heavy asf. And not just ass I like her thighs and calves thick too. I don’t mind some belly. My GF was 160 when we got together and has slowly gotten over +200. She hates it and honestly, she’s definitely too big but man she’s so much fun to grab and fuck. Makes for excellent cuddling too. Only real downside to crazy thickness is it can make eating the pussy harder to eat without suffocating 😂 Though being squished between …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 11:00 PM
3

True but no matter where she store the fat, she’d still be obese if she has too much of it, and she definitely wouldn’t want someone calling her obese, even if it is what it is. But disrespect is subjective so I guess maybe she’d take pride in her obesity because it’s all in her ass and not in her gut and face 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 10:47 PM
4

The gross part might be subjective, but the fat part not so much. Body fat % is a better measure for the individual and if you’re over say 35% body then you are undoubtably obese. Pointing that out overtly is still generally considered disrespectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 10:09 PM
5

Lol sure it can. Telling an obese person they’re fat and gross may be true, but it’s still disrespectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 09:58 PM
4

Because they’re still human? Which means emotions hit before logic 🤷🏾‍♂️ Just because I understand and accept that I’m bald, doesn’t mean it doesn’t still sting when someone intentionally points it out to try and hurt me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 09:29 PM
6

Probably because people (especially women) use “insecurities” as an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 09:23 PM
6

Lol and? Everyone has insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 09:12 PM
1

Nonsense. Nature exists and its influences on all living things is real. God/Christianity are human constructs. “We exist because our parents had sex” is not some wild claim. If you don’t believe that idk what to tell ya 🤷🏾‍♂️ My belief system is tethered to reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 08:07 PM
0

No it doesn’t. Again, nature doesn’t give a fuck what you want. We exist because we’re driven to survive and reproduce. Im not saying it’s right or wrong. It just is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 06:39 AM
1

No I don’t think it’s a problem with society, but there are pressures pushing people away from having kids, when normally they probably would have. Lol yeah I agree we don’t need women constantly pregnant, but I doubt we’re at a point where truly not wanting kids is the norm. We’re literally evolved to pass down our genes 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:51 AM
-1

I’m saying people who say they don’t want kids usually just don’t feel having kids is a smart move, not that they literally have an aversion to having kids. Are their people who don’t want kids period? Of course. Are they the average person? No. We wouldn’t be here today if we were driven not to reproduce. Many people change their minds about children as they age.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 01:31 AM
-6

I said it sounds like coping because our biological imperative as humans is to reproduce. Not wanting kids as a human is not typical, and is usually indicative of sociological issues 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 01:01 AM
-7

IDK why they’d care about individual people not reproducing. Likely stems from jealously/insecurities, but reproducing is literally our biological imperative. Nature doesn’t care about all the noise, it’s goal is to pass down genes and we are here and alive today because our ancestors successfully did so. Everyone before us passed on their genes so it makes sense that we (being a byproduct of successful mating over millennia) would have the desire to propagate successfully too. People (especiall…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 12:44 AM
1

Hmm makes sense. Basically warm approaching vs cold approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 12:17 PM
2

I have no reason to doubt your experiences, but I aint seen it 🤷🏾‍♂️ Go to a bar or a club and the hot girls spend the whole night with their friends then bounce. Lots of dudes looking her way but no one normal looking making a move. Actually easier to approach hot girls in public places like shops or activities. Still don’t see it happening though… but I do see weird lookin dudes with cuties so it must be happening somewhere lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 11:44 AM
1

This is literally false. Online men shoot their shot at the baddies, but in real life attractive women are approached the least. Average women get the most attention by far. Average dudes do not have the balls to hit on hot women and Chad’s fuck with average/above average women for the easy lay.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 11:23 AM
1

She can value herself and enjoy casual sex at the same time. Not being in a relationship isn’t abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 11:05 AM
1

Which you use to accumulate damage anyway. Might as well get damaged by someone with money and experience 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 07:10 AM
3

I never understood this “ugly people are invisible” thing. They’re not. Ugly people stand out in a crowd like a beautiful person would. Average people would be invisible since they’re the common person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:26 AM
1

Meh, some people would rather be near the birds, than spend their life wishing they could fly. Many women are content living their lives and occasionally getting fucked by attractive dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:21 AM
2

That’s only online though. In real life men stay in there lane. You never see the ugly awkward guy trying to spit game to the hottie sitting the center of her group of friends. It’s slightly frustrating how people have extrapolated that men shoot out of their league because of anonymity online. No shit they do, but in the real world IG model level girls exude way to much “dread”.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:18 AM
3

Lol I’ve seen the women they fuck. And not using a condom isn’t “one-upmanship”. It’s actually pretty stupid lol 1 has 2 baby momma’s and the other has 3
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 07:19 PM
2

Colloquially known as abundance. It’s actually easily understandable the way women behave if you’ve ever experienced true abundance. It’s a legit social adavantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 12:07 AM
–

If you’re actually average, just self improve. Truly average guys can become above average simply by hitting the gym. If you’re actually below average, god help you. Monk mode may be the only way without resorting to extreme measures.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 06:55 AM
1

Yes “dark sercets”. Women watch the majority of violent, rapey porn. Their sexuality is still taboo to openly express (slut shaming), and many are still sexually repressed. I eagerly await the day the pussy is set free. No more “for the streets”. We’re all in the streets together. I don’t think it’s over exaggerated. Again, women are still socialized not to be sexual. We’re going through a whole paradigm shift around women’s sexuality right now. It’s silly to pretend that women don’t like dick a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 06:52 AM
1

If we’re together on vacations, go to the same place, share the same hotel, how tf will they hide that from me? Lol fair, but I assume you don’t all vacation together every time 🤷🏾‍♂️ Plus female friends aren’t as secretive as you think. I didn’t mean they were secretive because they’re women, but because they’re human. It’s easier to share dark secrets with strangers or, like online, anonymity. Okay.. that’s completely different than sleeping with random men lol are you serious? Lol sorry guess…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 01:02 AM
1

That’s why I said it’s not all women, but it’s not some rare event. A big misunderstanding between people is thinking that just cause your friends you “know” them. It’s just as likely that your friends simply don’t tell you, because the vibe in your group is that you guys don’t do that. As if people don’t hide shit from each other. I’ve fucked tons of women who seemed like they “weren’t the type” only to find out they’re masturbating multiple times a day in private to keep their libido in check.…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 09:46 PM
3

I mean to be fair, if you actually have many female friends/fuck women, you’d know that they do indeed go on vacations and fuck random locals (obviously not all women, but it’s not some rare event) As a redpill guy I don’t see anything wrong with women having fun or even enjoying their sexuality. As far as I’m concerned, no redpill guy would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 04:20 AM
–

Lol when did I see they were obsessed? I said they love dick but obviously not just any dick. Most women have a dick they enjoy fucking consistently. I agree they prefer FWB > random hook ups but that doesn’t mean they aint out there getting fucked. No need to be prudish women are sexual beings too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:04 PM
–

Men slut shaming is a form of simping.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:52 PM
–

Bro cap! You seriously see women getting constantly disrespected in real life? Everywhere I got I see men being considerate of women. Holding doors. Saying excuse me. Being polite. Dudes being openly rude are legit outliers. Online everyone talks shit so it’s not representative.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:24 AM
1

16% of married women breadwin. Stop the cap.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 10:16 PM
1

Be real, if a woman took your advice and blew a guy she just met to see if he liked her or not, you'd mock and humiliate her. I never said fucking him right away. Presumably you’ve at least gone out on one date and you aren’t dating men you aren’t physically attracted to. she'll end up blowing like 30+ guys and get zero orgasms, risk STDs, get mocked and disrespected by men… There’s a difference between a discerning slut and an indiscriminate one. Sexually open women with standards are loved by …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:01 AM
2

Lol cause they’re lazy? I often ask the same thing. Apparently, a lot of women just have a collection of nudes they take “for themselves”. Just massive albums of selfies and nudes because of narcissism lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 09:51 PM
5

women get less orgasms, risk more, could get pregnant, and lose value and respect according to the redpill by having sex. They lose value for LTRs, but TRP isn’t about LTRs it’s about casual sex so sluts are appreciated. A lot of men love to shame, disrespect, dehumanize and humiliate women who have a lot of sex. That’s mostly women let’s be real. The only guys truly condemning sluts are dudes lock out of casual sex and religious guys. Most other badmouthing from men is just shit talking and pos…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 10:45 AM
2

A Red pill guy’s stance on high n count women should be something like “I wouldn’t LTR her, but otherwise don’t care and enjoy promiscuous women”. Like, any guy who wants casual has to accept that means women will be fucking other guys too. If you can’t accept that you probably aren’t redpilled
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 10:33 AM
1

Yes. They’re giving out “free” pussy 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:45 AM
1

Yes I think certain human actions are best controlled for the benefit of society. Reproduction should be one of them though I admit it’d be tough since it’s a human right. But for societies sake yeah some of us straight up shouldn’t reproduce. In 100 years maybe only 10% of the population will be “unwanted” and we can easily just give those people some kind of “sorry your genetics are trash” stipend.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:14 AM
6

Maybe stop approaching sex as something you give to men and start having sex because since you must be attracted otherwise why did you accept his offer to go out? If he’s an icky creep why are you even with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 05:35 AM
2

You realize that “forced to marry” was uncommon even where practiced. Women definitely had a say in who they married and most societies women had rights. They weren’t just slaves despite being “property”. No the point is ya’ll make it sound like everything was roses for men and hell for women, when really it was hell for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:57 AM
0

You mean should it be controlled by men. No. I mean should it be controlled by society. And if we were to impose some sort of control at society level on who gets to procreate and who doesn't why should it take the form of subjugating half the population rather than just the minority of men deemed unworthy? Well there’d also be a roughly equal percentage of women deemed unworthy. We’d be subjugating say the bottom 40% of each gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:54 AM
–

Cap. Women’s sexual attractions aren’t that diverse. If a dude is attractive to “bad girls” I guarantee he’s attractive to “good girls” too. The only difference being “good girls” would be more concerned with their image of being associated with a “bad boy”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 12:25 AM
–

Being an asshole literally only attracted more women of all kinds. Good girls, bad girls, educated, rich, poor etc. It’s pure c0pe that only “certain types” of women are attracted to jerks. At this point we can say women in general are attracted to them 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 12:16 AM
8

That’a because they try to find out by getting dude to invest emotionally/financially first. It’s easy to fake caring about a woman when you wanna fuck her, but good luck trying to fake caring while lying next to her after you just bused that nut. That post nut clarity will reveal his true colors. You don’t even have to fuck him just get good at hand jobs/blow jobs. Jack dude off then see if he wants to kick it. If he says he has to go then there’s your answer lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 12:12 AM
0

If we’re being real, women are the gateway to future generations. Morally, should that be controlled? Should women, the gender the literally births people, be allowed to just fuck whoever all willy-nilly? And we as a society simply clean up the mess after? Logically, it makes complete sense to control women. Letting them freely fuck felons and degenerates probably isn’t good for society long term… but also morally women should have the right to choose. It’s an interesting conundrum. Women hold a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 12:07 AM
6

You wanna know if a guy is into you? Fuck him. Then see how he behaves drained of all desire to fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 11:49 PM
4

I think his point is that not every woman from the past was some young hot virgin model forced to marry some ugly troll man. Most likely, she too was an ugly troll and the pairing was matched. It’s unlikely a serf or peasant was marrying baddies 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 10:44 PM
–

Obsession? Lol maybe those acting out some kind of revenge fantasy. It’s just awareness to avoid getting played. Mostly because around that time is when women start shifting priorities from “Alpha fucks” to “Beta bucks”. TRP isn’t even about having kids or LTRs anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 09:47 AM
–

Yeah that’s not a Redpill belief but nice try 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:59 AM
–

Bruh tons of us never even knew are dads so it’s not even that serious. The number of old men reproducing is less than the number of single moms/absent fathers lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:58 AM
1

Depends on your goals. If your dating for an LTR than it’ll help when you finally get that first date. Would suck a lot to fumble to ball cause you fumbled the bag. If you just tryna fuck then it means nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:50 AM
1

Sure if by dating you mean getting to know women, but when it comes to an LTR, money is crucial.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 03:53 AM
0

thats... what patriarchy teaches men tho Does it? i remember a very famous pastor holding up his bible and saying that a man isn't a man if there's a noise downstairs at night and he isn't the one who goes to investigate. Insane that women could take men risking their lives for them as an insult. I don’t know many dudes who would rather their girl risk her life for them. Even if she a well trained officer of something, it’s highly unlikely she could take a full grown man. I’d much rather have he…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 01:51 AM
1

yes, you let them have their way Yes, exactly. It’s only really an issue when the dominate person doesn’t know how to take a more submissive role when their partner is more competent on a matter. But this comes down to socialization. Men learn pretty quickly that being submissive/cooperative doesn’t work very well with a lot of women. If they don’t make moves and dominate the interactions then nothing ever happens or progresses. its unsurprising women are not interested in living their lives thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 12:36 AM
3

if you were raised to be cooperative, it would cost you a lot to partner with someone who was raised to dominate others, Only if you can’t put your ego aside. I’d argue this person just isn’t actually cooperative. If they were, they’d know how to work with someone who’s dominate. It’s the ego. Women are being socialized not to accept the cooperative complementary role so they feel some type of way working with a man who’s more dominate… but if you’re submissive/cooperative, you’re ultimately goi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 11:02 PM
1

Yes I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:06 AM
5

Naw it’s irrelevant. The odds of being born autistic are extremely low. Going from a 1/36 chance to a 1/24 chance means statistically you’d have to have 24 children to get 1 with autism. Roll them dice 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:26 AM
1

I can’t see them without their makeup so I can only judge on what I see. It’s definitely possible I was overrating the girls faces, though their bodies were solid. The dudes had the “gamer” look. Their style and fit was off. Body language was poor. Shy even. Like they were dragged there by their girls and were just following her around meekly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:03 AM
2

Exactly what Im implying and literally that simple. Obviously she doesn’t want to be violenced but part of the fun from riding a shark is that it may bite you too 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:48 AM
4

Becky? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 02:27 AM
3

Literally the first thing on their list of “business” would be what to do with the only man on the island 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 02:11 AM
2

Risk of violence literally increases ones odds of hooking up though 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 02:03 AM
6

I’d certainly be curious as to why I was excluded, but I wouldn’t turn down the chance to hang out with the hot girls years later lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 01:49 AM
3

Sure but many are still enjoying casual sex while they look (not that theirs anything wrong with that). I’ve fucked with women who apparently hadn’t had sex in years and would just wait around for months for me to fuck with them again. They just weren’t really interested in sex but occasionally got that itch and had their own specific dude they’d go to to scratch it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 12:50 AM
6

That or younger women. It’s just the woman his own age he’ll struggle with until his late 20s/early 30s. I have realized though that as I get more attractive to women, the effects are noticeable from the top down. That is, older women start to notice and hit on me first as I get more attractive. Younger women hit on me last.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 12:37 AM
1

Hahaha well yeah something like that would definitely come off as nasty. I wouldn’t tell a girl I wanted to eat her pussy until I was getting a clear vibe that she wanted to fuck with me. And then of course you gotta say it with some tact so you don’t come off as cringe/gross. Social skills/awareness needs to be a bit higher than “let me lick your pussy 😛” 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 12:04 AM
2

Lol okay yeah I can see that 😂 Hahaha yeah most 19 yr olds don’t have a curfew, and both of them are working Graveyard shifts with me so 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 12:01 AM
3

Lol you have no clue what you’re talking about. You’re making assumptions based clearly on being online too much. I do quite well with women. Have tons of female friends. My best friend is a girl and I’m laying in bed next to my GF of 7 yrs right now 😂 Im close to my moms too. Just because I “locker talk” online doesn’t mean I hate women or something. Ima black man. We have our own way of talking about women/slang that may sound gross to other women but so does the way women talk about men to wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:56 PM
2

I been here for years sayin the same shit it aint changed. And whether you believe me or not literally means nothing. Do I need to believe you are a woman who dates women? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:47 PM
3

Yeah no dude trying to get pussy is saying that to a woman wtf? We’re having discussions online, not trying to attract women 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:45 PM
3

Lol you know nothing of niggas they just dap you up. See IRL no one cares about age unless they to young. If she down then she down 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:37 PM
6

Lol do you not hang around women? They talk just like men do in private company stop playin 😂 It’s like how women online are up in arms over “females” yet in real life ya’ll call each other females and bitches 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:36 PM
1

Ehhh usually. I work in an extremely social environment (basically a “club”) and I see plenty of basic looking dudes with objectively cuter women. That said, there’s more to relationships than just looks. Men can compensate better with height and money too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:16 PM
1

We’re speaking about adults I assumed. Of course when you’re child or teenager it’s totally different. Agreed. Also, plenty of women date dudes their same age/same education/same income level. Not everyone is dating “up”, or most people wouldn’t be marrying the opposite sex version of themselves. Most people are basic and marry someone basic. 55% of marriages has a male breadwinner earning a median income 3x higher than his spouses so… 🤷🏾‍♂️ In my 20’s and have no friends who prefer bald men but…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:08 PM
3

Lol I mean, I got 2 19 yr olds at my job tryna fuck with me. Know a 21 yr old girl who wants my kid too (she might be 22 now actually). Keeps the ego boosted but I got a GF and I don’t want those problems 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:02 PM
2

Sure. Never met a Chad who wasn’t drowning in pussy if he wanted 🤷🏾‍♂️ But they lean toward older Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:48 PM
6

Minimal? Depends on where they at. Is 16 with 18 minimal? What about 19 with 21? A Junior with a graduate? Freshmen withe a Junior? Obviously as you get older it matters less but at a young age 2 years can make a big difference. And again, I said more established, not fully. Mr. 17 with a car is only 2 years off dude who’s 15, but Mr. 15 can’t drive or even work 🤷🏾‍♂️ Lol yes I’m aware. I was just explaining why hypergamy can be frustrating if you’re not the kind of guy women pursue hypergamousl…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:46 PM
7

Bruh, 2 years older is still older! No one said women are fucking old men. Why you guys strawman this argument like this every time is so weird. Women are fucking older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:37 PM
4

Sisyphus cope? 😂 No one’s complaining about the effort. Just stating the facts. We all know women care nothing for the process and only want the finished result. We all know men are very forgiving of women. Wow no shit people get older? Wife goggles are real?! No way! Who would have guessed that people get attached to those they love 😳🙄 Yeah don’t worry Im not afraid of beta this or alpha that. I pick up “little weights” because the alternative is being small and weak and frail in my old age (pl…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:23 PM
4

Lol and men who are attractive have to literally move mountains to achieve it (seriously you know how much weight you have to move to build a sexually attractive physique?) Much more work than just being porn tall and leggy, not eating food, doing coke, and having plastic surgery 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:04 PM
5

A good amount of women look like feet to. They just have more convenient ways of hiding it (makeup + male thirst).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:45 PM
13

Because being a young man in your 20s who can’t get pussy because all the girls are fucking older more established guys is frustrating as fuck!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:44 PM
1

Monogamy is not mutually exclusive with being in a relationship nor does it mean waiting until marriage to have sex. But it does mean you aren’t having sex outside of a relationship. You’re looking for 1 person at a time to be with. You can be monogamous and single. You can be monogamous, single, and have had sex in the the past. You can be monogamous and in a relationship with someone to whom you are not married. You can be monogamous and never have interest in getting married, regardless of yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:28 PM
1

How? If women were monogamous, there’d be no other women for men to cheat with unless a woman specifically decides to cheat herself. All women would be waiting for marriage to have sex so unless dude invest in and committed to her fully, he aint getting in the panties.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:50 AM
1

All motives are selfish. Humans never do things “just because”. As has been pointed out even being nice makes you feel good. You get dopamine hits from it. It’s selfishly inclined. If being nice made you sad you wouldn’t do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 11:36 PM
3

Men can’t sleep with as many as possible if women are monogamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 06:48 AM
3

Sure but that’s not the typical mentality amongst women. Broke dudes who cook are not crushing it 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 03:12 AM
3

I agree. Men’s problem is that we incentivize women to do whatever. Even the boss bitches we don’t really like we’ll still fuck. She may struggle to find LTRs but it’s mostly because of her own standards (as you say, poor positioning). Seems both sides are incentivizing traits they don’t want in a partner, and then getting upset when all of their options have traits they don’t want.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 02:51 AM
4

Damn congrats. I got no kids yet, but one day probably lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 02:35 AM
4

It’s not that it’s unattractive, it’s just viewed as unattractive by women. Men are incentivized to provide so of course not providing seems like an unattractive option. Women control the narrative on what men pursue. If women were fawning over broke dudes who cooked and clean you better believe dudes would be “maidmaxxing”, but they don’t. The majority of married men are breadwinning. More money gives access to badder bitches. This seems to just be the way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 01:56 AM
7

Shit hopefully the trend picks up. Working sucks I’d rather clean and raise kids 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:21 PM
3

Naw kisses from mom. Trauma from pops.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 06:04 AM
2

So essentially the combined effort of the mother and father is to slowly anesthetize their children to trauma by fucking with them and then kissing it better.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:44 AM
3

So… trauma? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 03:12 AM
1

Sure I could google it, but wtf is an nlog? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 01:54 AM
3

What’s a father? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 01:35 AM
1

No. Attractiveness is crucial because it improves all other stats peripherally. The halo effect is a real life hack. If you struggle with women then getting you looks together is step one. Gym, diet, fit etc. If you’re average and you “looksmax”, you’ll do great with women. Money, game/personality are mostly multipliers on top of looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 01:24 AM
2

When you say just be attractive, is that monetarily, physically, or both and what level if attractiveness? Physically. Money is simply a key to gain access to more stuff that can be used to attract women, but is not sexually attractive to women. Once you get into the +7 SMV you’ll be able to attract any level of women. Hypothetically, someone is successful in his field and makes 6 figures. Goes to some more exclusive places and can pull some women due to his ability to provide. Is that the pinna…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 01:04 AM
2

Yes and no. Redpill is just: be attractive, and don’t be unattractive. There’s no morality to it. No right or wrong. If you use it to abuse women, TRP does not care. If you use it to become the greatest husband ever, TRP does not care. It’s just a “toolkit”. What people do with it is their own business. The crazies just dudes stuck in the rage and below average men. People who haven’t fully accepted the truth or feel the need to call women out and dudes TRP was never designed for. See TRP was me…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 12:10 AM
3

TRP is not about LTRs. It in fact recommends against them. A man who can attract and fuck women can get everything he wants from women without having to commit. Now, that doesn’t mean you can’t get into an LTR if you want (I’m in one personally), and a lot of the core parts of TRP will benefit you in LTRs, but it’s more work for arguably less sex and variety. It’s really up to the man, but the goal is to be able to have those options available. To cultivate abundance. The average dude is basical…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 11:48 PM
3

Then they aren’t Redpilled or they got weird ass goals. Whole point of TRP is to be able to attract women/get laid so I guess you could use it to hook up with virgins but literally TRP does not care. Enjoy the decline and all that jazz. Get money and fuck bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 11:37 PM
2

No. Redpill would say he’s a cuck if he was trying to LTR her, but fucking her without having to pay or commit is the gold standard 👍🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:46 PM
2

I didn’t say I’m acting on it, just that I could.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:53 PM
2

Hmm it’s hard for me to explain, but I can feel it. The vibe is right.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:57 AM
2

One way sexual tension gives off an awkward, cringe kind of vibe, but certainly one of those girls is just being friendly. But the other one is definitely down.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:30 AM
1

Lol you’ll get there bro keep grinding. I got 6 yrs on you so there’s still hope
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 08:33 AM
2

Well one of them is clearly hitting on me directly. She introduced her self on day 1 and constantly is teasing/flirting with me. The other one went out of her way to introduce her self and blushes around me. Haven’t talked to her much she seems shy but when a girl wants you it’s pretty clear if you pay attention. The vibe in the air is full of sexual tension.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 08:32 AM
1

Lol no problems if there’s not problems right? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 08:24 AM
1

Lol right 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 08:23 AM
1

I got 2 19 yr old girls at my new job trying to fuck. Not saying this as a brag just that it seems strange since Im finding it easier to pick up young girls as I get older. So very tempting. They’re both cute as hell… but my GF wouldn’t be too happy about it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 07:18 AM
4

Hmm idk I think those guys are just being haters. Calling a woman ugly/fat is like callin a dude short/bald.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 07:05 AM
3

Lol some of us can get younger women despite being here. This shit is interesting and you can’t really discuss it openly. Plus not like attractive dudes don’t have problems with women too. There’s levels to this shit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:35 AM
2

Lol falling off as in less popular now days 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:25 AM
0

Getting a first date means it’s your game to lose. Much better than not even being in the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 03:28 AM
8

Yet hot men with shit personalities crush it. Being more attractive will automatically make your personality seem better. Just be attractive is literally all that matters for men to be successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:34 AM
3

Naw try reading the sidebar and stop listening to grifters. Ya’ll have no idea what TRP is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:33 AM
2

Seriously all my boys stay fresh. What dude doesn’t understand that smelling like ass and being musty repels women? This is something any dude would easily observe interacting with any human.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:29 AM
0

The tightest girls just needed to be fully wet/lubed up. Vaginas push out babies for christ sake there’s no dick that’s too thick. Only length is ever an issue and as I keep saying you just don’t put all of it inside her. If you got 8” and she can only take 5” then you just only put 4.5” inside her 🤷🏾‍♂️ Gotta be able to gauge depth and then only max out at the spot. Trying to put more than that in will just hurt her or worse, make her bleed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 03:54 AM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 11:12 PM
3

Because they lack the looks/vibe required to attract women casually, and women select for men with money for LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 11:08 PM
1

I mean if I felt someone go to snatch my hat my first reflex might be to swing back at whoever it is 🤷🏾‍♂️ But fair running up on her after the fact and hitting won’t go over well, even if justifiable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:59 PM
1

Idk? Maybe she’s inciting the guy to anger. Doing a “haha what are you gonna do about it 🖕🏾” dance 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:58 PM
1

Yeah. Thought that was clear by the “I know it’s probably not…” part 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:56 PM
2

Yeah bro just run up and snatch her pursue and throw it over your shoulder and start strutting around like a model. She’ll totally think it’s fun/flirty 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 09:05 AM
0

Snatching someone’s hat off their head is assault is it not? Like imagine it was a cop and you just ran up and snatched their hat off their head.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:47 AM
1

Taking someones hat is easily disrespectful. Let’s be real, most guys wearing hats in a club are probably trying to hide the scalp. It’ll probably be more aggravating to see some girl snatch your hat and run off with it. Not to mention, you shouldn’t be putting your hands on anyone anyway. Just gender flip it. We already know how it’d go for most dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:42 AM
1

It wasn’t suppose to it was just nonsense math. The study says 30% of suspicious men, not all, so if we want it to be 30% of all men, we just need more suspicious men 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:16 AM
1

Lol yeah I know
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:12 AM
2

Lol I know. It was nonsense math.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:11 AM
5

Only if that authenticity and confidence is tempered against reality. If everyone hates your authentic self, and sees you confidence as arrogance, you should probably do some reflecting and self improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 06:42 AM
-3

No, I realize that only 30% of suspicious men were right. That could be only 4% of the population, but if 100% of the population was suspicious, than 30% of them would be right.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 06:38 AM
1

30% of suspicious men were right, but it’s not 30% of all men, it’s 30% of suspicious men(so maybe only 10% of men are suspicious). So, if 100% of men were suspicious, then 30% of them would be right.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 06:36 AM
0

It’d be like saying 30% of people who suspected they had a cold, really have covid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 06:29 AM
4

Sure if you wanna be attractive to more woman, but just being hot will be more than enough. You’d drown in pussy before your personality ever mattered.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:46 AM
10

Which is notoriously poor advice lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:37 AM
-1

I know it’s probably not, but technically this could still mean 30% of men are not the father. If 30% of the 100% of men who suspected they weren’t the father, weren’t the father, then if 100% of men suspected they weren’t the father, it’d follow that 30% of them would indeed not be the father.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:29 AM
1

Yes lol. If you’re cumming you aint gonna be upset about it. And the senstive part on the dick is the glans so it’s inside you no matter how long the dick 🤷🏾‍♂️ It is unfortunate not being able to “clap” the cheeks since your pelvis can’t reach her… but what choice does big dick have? Most of ya’ll can’t fit more than 6-7”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 10:46 PM
5

Because it’s a known and observable phenomena? Why not ask dudes in those vacation sights if they have an easy time fuckin vacationing women. The answer will be yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 09:38 PM
1

No, you’re being obtuse if you think a dude with a 10” dick needs to stuff all of it inside of you! Dude could use only half his length, or however much she can take without discomfort. He has a range of depths he can utilize.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 09:37 PM
1

“So big that it hurts” is either girth or he’s ramming the cervix. Im decently girthy but not so much that she can’t even fit it in her mouth. Lengthwise I’m +8” and can easily bottom out in the majority of women so I can definitely hurt them if I’m not careful. But since I don’t like causing pain, I’m careful 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 09:08 PM
0

Lol my n-count is triple digits and I’ve never seen it. Unless we’re talking extreme amounts of girth then “she can take it”, she just might not be able to fit all of it inside her which again, just means you don’t use all of your dick. Simple. They love being filled to the brim every single one of them so long as you don’t hurt them (ramming the cervix).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 09:06 PM
4

I don’t disagree. Mums the word when it comes to casual for sure, but if a women is fucking local dudes casually then I’d bet money she’s fuckin foreign dudes on vacation too 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 09:01 PM
3

Sure you can do it at home but it’s a risk to your reputation. You can only fuck so many dudes in your area before people start connecting dots. So you travel to some place where no one knows you and live out your sexual fantasies. Then you come back home and talk about the museums and the sights and how you definitely weren’t out there to hookup 😉😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 07:49 PM
2

Lol naw women love dick they just try to get it in ways that avoids ruining their rep. So they go on “girl’s trips” to places where no one knows them so they can slut it up with impunity and then come back with their reps still intact. Swear it’s like some of ya’ll don’t fuck women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 07:48 PM
0

Lol and what Im saying is they can all take big dick and have literally never had a girl complain, even the ones that struggled to fit me girth wise. Length is only really an issue in some positions but for the most part it’s as simple as not bottoming out inside her. They all like it deep. What they don’t all like is having their cervix rammed. So again, just stop short and you’re good.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 07:45 PM
3

I don’t beat myself up how did you get that? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 07:36 PM
–

I MYSELF HAVE STRONG FEMININE ENERGY Pussy don’t want pussy bro. Try being a dick 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:29 AM
8

It’s not less common women just call it “going on a vacation”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 10:29 AM
2

Sexiness does not exist in a vacuum. Just because you think you’re sexy means nothing if reality doesn’t validate it. The reason a girl can put something sexy on and feel sexy is because whatever she’s wearing has been validated as a sexy look. Women aint painting clown faces on and saying it’s sexy. They’re doing things that men explicitly find sexy already. Literally just an ego trip. Women need constant validation of their looks or they spiral into depression. Dudes don’t need it because most…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 09:17 AM
1

It’s the same for women. Sexiness doesn’t exist in a vacuum. It requires observers to validate. Wearing it by yourself is like a killer revisiting a murder site. They’re just trying to relive the experience of being desired
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 09:11 AM
-1

Nothing about your anatomy needs to change dude just needs to stop shoving all of his dick into girls who can’t take it 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:09 AM
-2

Honestly, fair. I still attract fairly young women, but it’s really not much more different with older women. Many still have never experienced multiple orgasms from their partners or at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:48 AM
2

Lol bro there are so many women out there who believe they can’t cum. Or believe they can’t cum with a partner or without toys. I’ve had to baby step many women into multiple orgasms. Hell just saying you can consistently give women orgasms is met with resistance. They don’t believe it’s possible because it’s not their experience, and it’s surprisingly common.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:35 AM
4

“Bigger than that” checking in. Sounds like a skill issue. Gotta gauge how much dick she can take before you start clappin away. Ramming the cervix hurts, but I’ve never met a women who didn’t love the feeling of being completely filled with dick 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:05 AM
–

This is asinine. Obesity is a relatively new phenomena. For all of human history dudes were either skinny or ripped unless rich, then they could be fat. I stands to reason that women evolved attractive towards displays of fitness.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:36 AM
1

No it’s literally just what women select for. Men who can provide have greater access to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 12:38 AM
2

2100 members I stand by that never lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:47 PM
3

Ah I took universally as “attractive to women everywhere” not “attractive to every single woman”. Still, leanness and wealth are pretty strong contenders for universally attractive. I think many women would agree if they were completely honest. I think women’s porn habits are a very strong indicator of what’s attractive and it’s never fat or short men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:34 PM
8

It doesn’t matter about universal attractiveness, only what’s attractive in general. Most men use a “shotgun” approach to dating so being attractive to women in general wins. Tall(er), lean, decent income, and social. Everything else is just noise. Women’s porn is not even half as diverse as men’s. All their erotica is variations of the same guy. There is no short, fat, poor men with good hearts porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:24 PM
1

challenging my logic would be questioning whether the conclusion follows necessarily from the premise Math is logic. If the math aint mathin then somethings illogical 🤷🏾‍♂️ so men are predators who have no free will? Yes. No one has free. We are completely controlled by how are experiences shaped us and our hormone response to stimuli. Our pursuit of pleasure and are avoidance of suffering. Humans are animals. they should be in cages then. The same could be said of women. because i want to cuddl…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:48 PM
1

i just explained what logic means and you say "right" but then continue to misuse it Im challenging your logic. The misuse is irrelevant since I’m sure you understand me. Don’t try to derail now. are you saying men can't stop themselves? kinda telling isn't it? No what’s telling is that women know. Ya’ll are taught about boys/men from a young age and yet you still, constantly, walk into the lions dead and wonder why it went wrong. The fuck you cuddling with a dude you aint tryna fuck? Leading hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:25 PM
1

logic isn't about whether something is true or false, its about whether you make a good argument, i.e. whether the conclusion follows necessarily from the premises Right and your premises were that men were begging their way into fucking women raw. My premises are that she consented and got fucked. You can’t tell me that being raped is the more logical conclusion than simply consenting. Especially with how easily many women just let you fuck them raw. Hell most of them don’t even bring condoms. …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:10 PM
1

well yeah if i assume all my made up premises are correct i can make any logical argument i want You keep using the word logic but you’re implying these men are raping. It logically makes more sense that these women are consenting to being fucked raw and not being raped. Since when is begging ever intimidating?! It’s literally the opposite of intimidation. to men because women are smaller and less aggressive than you ya'll never picture travis kelce on top of you Because he wouldn’t be alone and…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:43 PM
–

I honestly can’t tell you. Gotta keep shit fresh, organic. Gotta know how to think on your feet. My answer would depend on how she asked her question and what’s led up to that moment. Most girls aren’t actually looking for an exact number so just accuse her of being jealous for asking or something. Or just tell her your number fuck it, it doesn’t really matter 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:45 AM
–

Yup. Show, don’t tell. Women don’t care how many women you’ve slept with, only that you have the capacity to attract women, and if you’re attractive then, well… you’ll attract women 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:19 AM
3

Damn. A keeper. I’m anti toys myself as well. I like to give the orgasms myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 03:13 AM
2

My anecdotal experience agrees, and really it just makes sense. In fact, if you’re a guy, try masturbating with a vibrator. Just put it on frenulum (underside of the glans that connects to the foreskin). It’s basically the male clitoris. The next time you have sex a bet you’ll notice you last longer. I know I do 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 01:24 AM
2

I honestly wouldn’t know though I haven’t seen much fat short poor guy porn for women 🤷🏾‍♂️ I know men’s porn is crazy diverse from baddies to obese+pregnant women sitting on balloons 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 01:03 AM
3

Oh no doubt. Surprising a girl by trying to choke her out won’t go well with the majority of them lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 01:02 AM
1

All kinds of ED exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 11:52 PM
12

Or how about their high powered vibrator making them unable to cum from normal human touch 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 11:47 PM
1

More cap. The average man could still get hard for average women even when masturbating to 1-100 looks. Sex and masturbation are not the same and a real flesh and blood woman expressing sexual interest in you is much more satisfying than rubbing one out. Pretty much every single man (even Chads) watch porn and yet the casual sex game is alive and well. Single moms abound. People still dating and getting fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 11:46 PM
8

I mean if you have enough casual sex you’d assume most women do in fact enjoy it, and then if you look into women’s porn preferences… well there’s an awful lot of rough sex, gangbangs, rape, etc. More so than what men watch so 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 11:40 PM
6

Cap.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 11:38 PM
2

Strap ons? 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 10:31 PM
3

you'd have to show the logic The logic is women hold the power sexually. The vast majority of men are not rapists. Ergo, if he’s fucking her raw, she’s aware and consented. Simple. no his begging feels intimidating and women go into freeze/fawn response Since when is begging ever intimidating?! It’s literally the opposite of intimidation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 10:30 PM
2

Not hard. Women are quite receptive to other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 10:26 PM
5

Lol you need more experience fucking women then 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 10:18 PM
4

You do realize the simpler of the “Ockham’s razor” is that *women are ultimatuming men into fucking them raw under threat of not being able to fuck them at all.” Seriously who do you think such tactics would be more effective on? A man begging is a turn off. It’s way more likely to lead to the end of the interaction, not into getting what he wants (unprotected sex). But if she told him if he doesn’t fuck her raw he can’t fuck her…. Yeah that sounds like it would be a much more effective strategy…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 10:14 PM
3

That’s for the courts to decide. In the mean time, even slightly above average guys like me have plenty of women offering to let me hit it raw. I could only imagine what it’s like for a true Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 09:53 PM
5

Math. Ya’ll act like babies just fall out the sky. On your most fertile day you have like 40% odds of getting pregnant (scaling slowly up from 0 and then crashing quickly). Literally the 5 days leading up to ovulation, ovulation day, and the day after is all you got (~7 days). Dude would have to be a pretty good shot to get her pregnant on the first try. So more than likely she had sex with him multiple times. So what? He begged her to fuck raw everytime they had sex? She had no perception of he…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 09:49 PM
3

I mean sure I know dudes who’ve never worn a condom and they are very successful with women 🤷🏾‍♂️ The key is they could never legally fuck women without a condom unless they consented.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 09:30 PM
4

I am him. Clearly (him as in I and not Yasuo 😂)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 09:28 PM
0

The human condition is suffering. We all suffer women aren’t unique in this regard. And if you think men couldn’t easily lock up women you’re a fool.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 04:30 AM
11

Casually I’m rarely asked to use a condom, and when I pull one out, they often proclaim it’s all good cause they on BC. There are shit tons of single mom’s so obviously condoms do suck more. Begging simply can’t account for the amount of unplanned pregnancies. The only way it’s possible is if women are letting men hit it raw. Like seriously statistically it should be damn near impossible to get pregnant. Ya’ll are only fertile 7 days a month so that means specifically on those 7 days women are h…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 03:57 AM
-1

How do you think your ancestors did it? When an invading group came and killed all the men and burned down the village, many women chose rape over death. It’s terrible to say but women have literally evolved mechanisms to cope with rape. Very likely women would simply fold and then over the generations better men would rise up and given women rights again and the cycle repeats.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 01:54 AM
16

Yeah I feel slowly condom use is falling off. I have 2 “Chad” friends who’ve never used a condom, and use tinder like a buffet (and they’re fuckin +7s). When I was a kid we all made sure we had condoms. Made sure to stay strapped up. You got bagged on for fuckin women raw it was seen as stupid and risky (unless it was your GF)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 12:10 AM
25

Lol really? You think Chad is begging to fuck raw? It’s like ya’ll don’t have casual sex. OOP is right most women don’t come prepared and don’t care. If she thinks you’re sexy she’ll risk letting you cum inside her
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 09:28 PM
1

https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2023/04/13/in-a-growing-share-of-u-s-marriages-husbands-and-wives-earn-about-the-same/
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:43 AM
1

And the vast majorities of marriages have a male breadwinner (meaning he’s making at least 60% of the income). Median is 3x their spouses. So yeah she’s working full time but dude is bringing in at least 50% more than her. Wash the dishes 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:40 AM
3

“Logically”, sexual relations are a social issue. If one gender can freely have access to sex while the other cannot, is that not inequality?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 12:22 AM
2

There’s a difference between being attracted to someone and being physically attracted to them. Plenty of dudes are attractive LTR prospects without actually being physically attractive. Lots of women will accept a dude who doesn’t get her wet but has money and father skills (beta bucks). They can easily just cheat on the side and if caught they’ll just blame dude for not washing the dishes or something
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 01:05 AM
2

I mean, it’s not that ludicrous. Women are quite adamant about the vast majority of men being unattractive, and yet most people end up in LTRs. No way all these women are finding and dating/marrying that small fraction of men who spark true arousal in them. In fact, we already know this to be true. AF/BB is an observable phenomena. One that a lot of women will openly admit too, and one easily noticeable when comparing who women fuck casually with who they end up dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 01:01 AM
9

I understand, but like you said telling them later is just a manipulation tactic. What’s dude gonna say after you tell him? Probably something about how he didn’t know and you should’ve said something. Then you keep the ruse by blaming him for not being assertive. Now he thinking maybe he’s still got the green light and makes a move on you (“Well, how bout we grab a drink then?”) And boom, the fly is in the spider’s web. At this point you could accept the offer or reject him and drink up the val…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 09:52 PM
11

Yup. And it’s even backed by plausible deniability. Things like this are part of why I became Red Pilled. Female tactics are fascinating. Where as men tend to be more direct, women set little pit falls and let you walk into them, and then pretend they didn’t do it on purpose lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 09:41 PM
2

Lol not saying they’re fuckin but a lot of dudes feel “safe” about gay men around their girl when there are in fact gay men who will fuck women. Same as lesbians who occasionally get dicked down.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 09:47 AM
-2

Lol just a heads up but some “gay” men are really bi and just play it up but still fuck women occasionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:36 AM
1

to men i guess Yes. Men think the men women let fuck them raw off minimal investment are viewed as high value to women. any guy they have sex with, yes, thats a risk of sex idk why you would have sex with someone and not want their cum inside you lol thats like... what sexual attraction is and generally women don't have sex with someone they aren't sexually attracted to Lol honestly didn’t expect you to be so candid but exactly my point. If she felt he was average or low value she would not want…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 12:56 AM
0

He’s high value because he can fuck women raw. You really think women just risk getting pregnant by any random guy? Or that men have any say in whether he doesn’t use a condom? Lol Hell do you think just any random guy can consistently get ONS???
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 12:30 AM
1

If a women lets you fuck her raw she sees you as high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 12:26 AM
5

Shit at least they think you have one. I’m black and actually have a big dick yet women never believe and are astonished when I actually pull out a big dick. Maybe it’s cause I’m “only” 5’11 😏😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 09:23 PM
–

It’s the sweet spot for women because 7s have the most options. She’s attractive, but not so attractive as to feel unobtainable/high maintenance.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 09:20 PM
0

Of course men love average women. Love is more about that emotional connection. Hotness really starts at an 8. I’m talking undeniably attractive people. Head turning.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 01:27 AM
1

This is a bluepilled take.The ROI on physical attractiveness gains is too great to ignore. Your words will reach more people the more attractive you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 03:53 AM
2

The majority of people are overweight so yeah, top priority. No one said you couldn’t talk yourself out of pussy, but holding a conversation isn’t a massive hurdle. The confidence gained from being more physically attractive will make it much easier to interact with others and work on your Game. Use the halo effect to your advantage. Mr Average well dressed would only do better by being more physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 11:23 PM
1

No. Girls like arms, chest and abs. If your face is at least average getting leaner/fitter will do wonders for how well women perceive your abilities to flirt/listen/pass shit tests. When a girl is attracted to you she’ll make it easier for you to hit on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 09:17 PM
2

Fair. And like another poster said the effort required to get into shape will affect your personality. It not only strengthens the body but the mind too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 09:14 PM
5

Those men were below average to start. TRP specifically goes over this but you really need to be at least average to have a shot. Going from average to above is night and day. Going from below to average is basically the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 03:50 AM
53

Which is why hitting the gym/getting in shape is the number 1 advice for improving dating prospects. Fixing your personality in any appreciable way is a massive undertaking and once stress tested, usually falls back to your original self. Improving your looks will improve your personality in that people will assume your personalities better because you’re more attractive. You can be the same shitty/boring person you always were but suddenly people will act like you’re much more interesting and s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 11:49 PM
1

Spin it however you like but you’re not disagreeing with me here. You need money. Period. How much will depend on how much money she has. You better at least be on her level or your relationship is a sinking ship. Women want to be provided for! They want their own money, and not have to spend it because their man pays for shit. They’ll deny it, but again, the majority of marriages has a male breadwinner, with a median wage of 3x that of his spouses. Facts are facts bro. Women aint handin out fre…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 11:44 PM
2

By fuck with I mean date. Looks are king for casual sex, but money is king for LTRs. Lol you must be young. If you think you aint finna/expected provide in an LTR you’re naive. Women don’t look for guys who make as much or more than her so that he won’t provide 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 10:44 PM
2

I never said only. I said they just don’t fuck with dudes without money. You’re cappin or being obtuse. Are there women out there who will provide for a broke man? Yes. Are they even close to the norm? No. Hell, look at marriages stats. Between male breadwinners, female breadwinners, and equal relationships, there are more breadwinning husbands than the other two categories combine. As Kayne said, “Aint saying she a gold digger, but she aint messin with no broke niggas.”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 10:01 PM
3

So then you’re not dating women with a lot of money either or you’re underselling yourself. If you make $30k you aint dating a woman makin $50k easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:37 PM
3

Then you should know better. Unless you were a teenager, or very attractive, it’s unlikely you got into those relationships while being broke/poor 🤷🏾‍♂️ Dating women without money is not viable for average dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:34 PM
4

Lol as I said, I’ve gotten off on tons of tickets. Though the blunt in the ashtray is hot. Got arrested 1 time for the smell of weed in my car and that was it. No more smoking in the car. It was a lady cop too. She was hatin 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:31 PM
3

I mean sure it’s not full proof. Sometimes you’re just fucked but you can easily talk your way out of mild speeding tickets.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:24 PM
3

Have you been in an LTR before?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:23 PM
5

It’s all about the finesse. I get out of tickets constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:17 PM
1

Well imo as a guy, the hotter the girl is relative to the dude the less he feels he can keep her, but certainly if he manages to fuck her he’ll keep trying to fuck her. He may mot try to LTR her though
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 08:50 PM
1

Lol true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 08:47 PM
1

I didn’t blame anyone. It just is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 08:17 AM
1

Sex for sex isn’t an “exchange”. Neither party loses or gains anything. They cancel out. The average guy does not have access to this kind of “free love”. They must pay. They must compensate with money or status or whatever. That pure raw lust women show toward men they’re truly attracted to is something many men will never experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 08:07 AM
4

Tell me I’m wrong. Tell me women hand out pussy for free like men do. Sex for sex. You can’t. Women exchange sex. Listen to how a lot of women approach sex; as something they give to men. Why aren’t wealthy women scooping up broke men? Why aren’t beautiful women fuckin with broke men? I honestly don’t say it to be offensive though I realize the word prostitute is inflammatory. Conversely men are sluts; we have sex just for sexes sake. If you had a sliding scale between Full on prostitute to Full…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 07:07 AM
1

7s aren’t hot but they’re firmly in the “cute” zone. That’s the sweet spot to men for LTRs but a little too much work for casual. Good chance if a dude manages to fuck a +7 casually he’ll try to keep her lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:41 AM
2

Yes. Women are prostitutes. They claim otherwise, but we can clearly see what happens as a women gets hotter; the men she fucks with get exponentially wealthier. Thus it becomes an impossible task for an average man to fuck true 9s and 10s. She’s undoubtably fucking millionares/billionares/high status men. As such, her pool of viable candidates is minuscule.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:29 AM
0

Don’t they already support them though? Aren’t there all kinds of government/financial programs for single parents?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 01:22 AM
12

Average women have the most casual sex/offers. The amount goes down as you approach both ends of the SMV (ugly and hot women have the least).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 01:16 AM
2

I’m currently reading Why Does He Do That? And although I’m only 200 pages in, I believe both those myths are already addressed. Males in heterosexual relationships have the highest rate for abuse. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1854883/ Women are more abusive in non-reciprocally violent relationships. Otherwise, abuse is equal. Other myth is that it’s systematic. Shouldn’t someone who was abused have more compassion for the vulnerable? Do better. (The whole accountability thing) T…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:54 AM
1

To give as many women multiple orgasms as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 11:20 PM
3

Elites didn’t force men to treat the women in their lives like shit. Bruh not every woman was in an abusive relationship and in fact women are just as if not more abusive than men (we have the stats to show this today). It’s pure revisionist nonsense that every woman in times past was beaten and shackled to the stove. We know for a fact many women ran the shit outta their households. And while it’s not an excuse, realize that abuse is passed down. Im sure those men were being shit on left and ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 10:06 PM
–

TRP isn’t about marriage or having kids. It’s pretty much the opposite; fuck bitches and get money 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 09:29 PM
–

It wasn’t men it was elites. Some of which were women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 09:08 PM
1

This is a perfect example of why correlation does not equal causation. The average age gap between husbands and wives is 4 to 5 years. Okay so women do date older men (which we men know but women continue to deny). Which lends credence to the explanation that young men (20-29) are twice as likely to be single because young women (20-29) are dating men in the +30 bracket. Probably a good amount of Chad sharing going on too. Men are typically the breadwinners because men on average make more money…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 12:33 PM
–

We’re switching from Wolves to Lions lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 11:36 AM
1

It’s the same shit with marriage statistics. Women claim they don’t do X (marry for money) and yet the majority of marriages (55%) has a male breadwinner. Meaning he makes at least 60% of the household income with a median wage 3x that of his spouse. Guess who’s more likely to have more money? Older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 11:34 AM
1

Lol naw heterosexual women are not interested in other women 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 11:28 AM
2

Sauce: https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/02/08/for-valentines-day-5-facts-about-single-americans/
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 11:26 AM
1

63% of young women are in relationships vs 34% of young men. The common explanation for this is that they’re dating older men. Because the other explanation is that a lot of them are fucking the same guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 11:18 AM
-1

C*pe. It’s literally the only way people can explain why twice as many young women aren’t single. That or accept they’re all sharing the same young Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 11:09 AM
–

If anything it’d get bigger. People have clearly never heard of Jelqing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 11:04 AM
–

Fairs fair. If you can’t play the game you can at least heckle the players from the stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 11:01 AM
7

Im 5’11. I was a linemen. Wasn’t professional or anything but I ate and lifted big and so I got big. A lot leaner now but when I get fat I just get big. When a normal guy who has no muscle gets fat they just get fat. Muscle + fat = big (the one girls like) No muscle + fat = fat (the one that’s common and not attractive)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 03:14 AM
5

Lol you’re describing a type of man that is not common and in a lot of cases unachievable. Shoulder width and height are genetic. You’re talking about a man who use to be fit but got fat. Like an ex lineman. Notice how there is no fat guy porn for women. No popular erotica with a fat male lead.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 03:01 AM
1

Again, there’s 2 of you, so it’s only $100 a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 12:14 AM
1

Lol no I meant both people put up $25-$50 to get a maid. Maids are +$25/hr not a week lol. $100 will get you 2-4 hours of professional cleaning. Way more than enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 11:54 PM
1

Right, and we’re talking about households (dual incomes). The problem isn’t that men or women can’t clean their own homes, it’s that when men and women cohabitate, women tend to do more of the chores. Whether because dude just never cleans, or she cleans obsessively, instead of collapsing an otherwise good relationship, why not just put up $25-$50/wk for a maid? Surface clean each day then once a week have the maid come through and clean. Maids are professional cleaners. They’re way more efficie…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 11:24 PM
3

Who said women were naturally chaste? They just aren’t as horny as men. Women aren’t choosy to avoid STDs, they’re choosy because they have the options to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 11:13 PM
9

You safe guard the women because they are the vector point for pregnancy and STDs. If women were as horny as men average dudes would be getting fucked instead of her vibrator while she waits on Chad to rotate back to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:40 PM
14

The vast majority of women will no do this for me FTFY 👍🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:34 PM
5

Bad metaphor since genies are subservient. They’ll get back in the bottle if “we” tell them too 🤷🏾‍♂️ Cat’s definitely out of the bag though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:27 PM
1

The cost of maid services? They’re not expensive. I think people just think they are because they’re often portrayed as something only wealthy people have in media. They’re actually very accessible for the average person.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:09 PM
2

Because they’re females. Men care less about personality flaws if they’re getting pussy. Though obvious a poor idea for LTRs, it is what it is. It has nothing to do with them being felons. They just have vaginas.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 10:31 AM
1

Im aware of economic norms. Maids are not too expensive for the average household income. Poor people are not average. The average household is not in poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:28 AM
-1

I don’t have the will power to give a fuck about every random person, and neither do you so don’t try to high road me here. Unless you’re donating to charity and volunteering at homeless shelters, you’re likely no better than me. Worse, if you simply pay lip service to the blight of others. At least I got the balls enough to keep it real and tell them to get their shit together. It’s never too late to start making quality decisions in life. One of those being not imploding relationships over cho…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:19 AM
-1

Minimum wage is $15/hr here. That’s $60k combine. Get a maid, and maybe don’t have kids if you’re poor 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:58 AM
3

Fair for childcare. Dudes seem to underestimate the requirements of early childcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:57 AM
1

I have minimal sympathy. There are men who cook, clean, and manage childcare; pick those niggas. You have ample time to learn how this dude lives his life before you move in and have kids together. If you wait until the kids pop out to learn if he actually can cook, and haven’t once been in this dudes living space, or discussed childcare, then tough.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:50 AM
-4

Median household income in my area is $90k. Average is $120k. Average cost of a maid is $25-$70/hr. I give my girl $300/mon and she’s happy. Im finna start given her $500 a month for her birthday and she’s gonna shit bricks 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:42 AM
0

Disagree. Just cause people are poor at planning doesn’t mean it’s hard. For instance I work grave and my GF works day. Im home in the mornings, we’re both home in the afternoon, and she’s home at night. Plus, it pays to have family/friends and trusted neighbors willing to help out. Keep those connections strong before having kids and you’re good 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:35 AM
4

Much much cheaper and less stressful. Though FWB can have high standards, they have minimal expectations for men. Just show up, kick it, fuck, and bail. All the good shit and the only bad is that eventually she’ll either want more or find some guy who offers her more. But again if you have the capacity to get FWB you just find another (or have multiple on rotation). Stay on good terms and your old FWBs will come back if their relationships fail too. I got hoes I been fuckin with since highschool…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:00 AM
2

Disagree. I just pay my girl to do the chores. Much simpler than all this “who cleans more 🤪” nonsense. The whole chores thing baffles me just get a fuckin maid people ya’ll got 2 incomes you can afford it. Fighting over fuckin socks and dishes is ridiculous lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 12:54 AM
5

FWB are better if you’re “that guy” but LTRs are the way for the majority of men. FWB guy has the options and choices to freely fuckzone women and could easily fall into in LTR if he wanted. A lot of women in FWB are just hoping dude decides to LTR her so it’s a pretty kush position to be in as a dude. LTRs responsibilities/expectations multiply significantly. If you were never the FWB guy, then LTRs are almost always a heavy compromise on the dudes part, and she’ll know it. If you aren’t attrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 12:48 AM
2

Sauce: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8024691/#:~:text=The%20Halo%20effect%20(HE)%20is,Nisbett%20and%20Wilson%2C%201977).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 10:27 PM
3

A cognitive bias in which our impression of a person (how they look) colors who we believe they are. Attractive people are attributed positive character aspects based solely on how they look (he’s hot, so he must be a good person). Conversely the “horn effect” attributes negative aspects to unattractive people (he’s ugly, so he must be a misogynist).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 09:16 PM
3

My experience as well. It’s insane, but I tell dudes (especially white men) if you want more success with women, get tattoos.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 08:59 PM
2

Halo effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 08:57 PM
–

A choice in having the kid or not if she “accidentally” gets pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 04:05 AM
–

It’d be 50/50 if men had a choice. The men who want to be father’s are in their children’s lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 03:07 AM
–

It’d only be fair if women acted in good faith. The fact the we all just kind of pretend women aren’t intentionally weaponizing children and reproduction is mildly infuriating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 03:05 AM
-1

Men want new pussy very quickly after getting a girl (no matter how good the sex is) and they don’t like admitting it because it’s unpleasant. This makes it hard for girls to get validation from sex. Men want sex quickly because it’s important. Sexual compatibility is crucial and it’s a bitch to get emotionally and financially invested in bad pussy or a women whose not sexual attracted to you. This of course is in direct conflict with women’s desire to secure emotional and financial investment f…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 12:34 AM
2

I agree. Things are much different than they were in 2007. Good times dating back then. Women were a lot more receptive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:46 AM
1

The odds of getting pregnant from precum is very low. Hell, the odds of getting pregnant in general are very low.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 02:41 AM
2

Well yeah flirting and boundaries are crucial.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 02:16 AM
7

It’s 70% not 80% for non-reciprocal violence. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1854883/ Full disclosure: the studies from 2007.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 12:33 AM
2

The method is sound, it’s the execution that’s the problem lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 12:06 AM
4

Female autonomy is not an issue for TRP/PUA. The whole point is to get good or stfu, with the disclaimer that if you’re not at least average in looks, you’re fucked without heavily compensating. Women being fully autonomous is great for the men who can compete. Much easier to get no strings attached pussy and “spin plates”.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 11:44 PM
1

Humans prime motivators are pleasure and the avoidance of suffering. Fear of death prevents stagnation. The pursuit of pleasure leads to reproduction. There are no higher callings than these in humans and they’re selfish in nature. Reproducing is selfish. As you say, you are forcing life unto another. Conversely, the living cling to life, and the only way to live is by consuming other lives. Again, selfish. Yet if it means out survival, we’d even eat each other if it came too it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 10:38 AM
1

Then humans are inherently evil, because selfishness is at the core of all our beings. Otherwise, the smart thing would be for most of humanity to stop reproducing and die off so the Chads and Stacy’s and smart people can push our genetics to higher heights. But we cling to life, despite the massive amount of suffering. We fear death because we want to survive. It’s selfishness incarnate. And it’s beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 06:35 AM
1

Because it matched my own experiences well and explained a lot of the noise I was dealing with with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 04:41 AM
1

Haha yeah and what a shit show that is. He struggles to hold down a job and owes backpay.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 04:34 AM
1

Oh yeah no doubt her income is very useful. Yeah kids not mine. Funny I have no clue where her money goes. I don’t manage it. I just pay for shit so she doesn’t have to lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 04:13 AM
1

South of Tacoma. Closer to Olympia.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 03:57 AM
1

Maybe I would. Like I said it’s just how I feel. My girl works so Idk how it’d actually be, but even when she was broke and struggling it was nothing paying for everything. She’s not boujee or anything so that helps a lot. Her son found video games young and that was a wrap. A new xbox every 5 yrs and he’s good lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 01:32 AM
1

She has a kid. Live in the PNW. Rents $1300. Idk I mean she’s always worked but I never felt like I needed her money for anything. Im not saying we’d be living lavish but we both grew up poor so we know how to stretch money.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 12:48 AM
-1

Im making $70k. Could easily make it work.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 12:21 AM
4

Yes she is her house hold income increased by 250%! Him simply matching what she was paying in rent would afford her a significantly better place. Again, this is relatively. Clearly she’s not ballin or living the life of luxury, but relative to making $20k, $50k is luxurious.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:25 AM
6

Compared to only making $20k alone they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:33 AM
7

Depends. If you mean in the absolute term then no, but relatively, being with a man who grosses a minimum 150% of your income is nothing to sneeze at. You’ll be living a lifestyle way above what you could’ve alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:57 AM
5

Ehhh not according to marriage stats (Idk how much longer till new data comes out, but definitely gettin some mileage outta these stats) 55% of marriages the man bread wins (makes at least 60% of the house hold income). The median income being 3x higher than their wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:46 AM
5

Lol no falling in love is easy is fuck you just have to be willing. The problem is most people are hurt and jaded from allowing themselves to fall in love before and much rather cut ties early than risk getting hurt again.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:27 AM
22

(or society primes us to see women as more sexually appealing than men through advertising and media, which is another deeper discussion) I also believe social media raises women’s perception of what’s normal. Similar to how people claim men’s raised from watching porn, social media is porn for women. They use it for attention, validation, and sliding into DMs is easy. They having such easy access to all the attractive men in the area makes it seem like they’re what’s average, and real average m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:25 AM
4

Dual incomes are worth it. The average person isn’t even breaking $40k/yr.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 11:54 PM
17

Paying with his looks only adds more credence to the value of guy 1. Guy 2 is paying with his looks too, they just aren’t enough. He doesn’t have enough value for her to just fuck with him on the merit of his looks alone. He must compensate. If guy 1 decided to even consider LTRing her guy 2 would be dropped.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 10:56 PM
2

Easier to manipulate into what?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 09:17 PM
3

So men are forced into parenthood/child support based on women’s whims? Tax payers already pick up the tab and men pay most of the taxes 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 12:16 AM
11

Seriously. Women act like dudes out here Jedi mind tricking them, and yet 100% of men’s “tricks” can easily be foiled by just not giving up the pussy! Literally every man’s “scheme” is to fuck so just don’t do it until you’ve got the ring or whatever you want first. Absolutely insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 10:02 PM
1

Agreed. The Jackhammer is more of a finishing move. Definitely shouldn’t be used off top lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 09:57 PM
-5

This is asinine. Being fucked hard and fast definitely is pleasurable for women. The ole Jackhammer is quite effective, especially if you’re actually wielding a decently sized hammer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 09:52 PM
0

Yup. They have no way of knowing who’s actually a competent lover. I tried for years to find a way to express overtly my sexual competence to no avail. Short of walking around with women I already fucked and having them vouch for me, women just follow the tingles. It’s no surprise the common narrative amongst women is “most men suck in bed”. .
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 09:48 PM
1

Lol 10 minutes is more than enough time 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:04 AM
6

On God I always befriend that weird guy everyone avoids. Doesn’t take much just acknowledge his existence occasionally. Don’t need to be besties or anything just don’t be like everyone else who treats them like shit lol. Haven’t had to find out if my due diligence is worth the effort but… I certainly aint finna fuck around lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:26 PM
1

So just eat less calories (pizza). Don’t forget building muscle lowers your body fat % too. Roids allows you to build lean mass while cutting so getting to lower bf % is easier. Natty’s have to sacrifice on each end. When the build muscle, they’ gain fat, and when they lose fat, they’ll lose muscle. You can mitigate the loss with lots of protein and heavy lifting but again, roids guy just has to take roids and he’ll still outdo natty guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:45 AM
1

Lol actually though… It makes it easier to burn fat and build muscle. Dude sitting on the couch eating pizza and taking roids will have better gains than dude hitting the gym regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 09:55 AM
4

Not to mention (at least according to pornhub) women view gangbang content slightly more than men do so 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 06:26 AM
2

Steroids are rampant in all professional sports. You have to realize these people are at the pinnacle of athleticism. At that point, anyone on steriods will have a massive advantage, so everyone’s on them. Prisoners dilemma type of deal. And as OP said the tests are easy to pass with proper cycling. They got professional trainers who know all the tricks and techniques.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 01:51 AM
1

The latter is 100% preferred but yoked dudes still get the pussy so it doesn’t really matter. And the dude fuckin around 2-3 times a week at 10% bf just might be on roids too. 10% Bf isn’t easy to maintain.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 01:42 AM
1

Im saying if we live in Patriarchy, it’s because that form was successful. I don’t actually think we’re in a Patriarchy. Feels more like an Oligarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 08:44 PM
0

Lol idk it’s not something I’m personally worried about. I just meant more so if you needed to investigate someone, going through their social media seems less extreme than hiring a PI, though the PI would likely get better results so 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:10 AM
1

By going through all their shit. A lot of people have a pretty extensive social media presence. Their pics, their friends, who they follow etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:02 AM
1

Most people in the us get nothing/very little from the divorce and most people just split assets that the both bought. Right, and in the majority of marriages men bring more. The majority of divorces women initiate 🤷🏾‍♂️ Patriarchy was seen as successful because no one complained, in reality, the ones that would have complained had no voice. “Patriarchy” was seen as successful because it was. People have complained constantly and things have changed, albeit slowly. Personally, western men compla…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 05:59 AM
2

No. 29% of marriages are egalitarian. So 84% of marriages the man makes more or equal, supporting what men keep saying; women want men who make as much or more than themselves. As women make more money, they’re less likely to get married or have kids. Their dating pools size correlates negatively with their wealth/status/achievements/looks etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:50 AM
1

50% of women are being substantially provided for by their husbands yet 50% of marriages end. Money doesn’t cut it anymore. What does cut it? Women divorce for any reason. My boss had a joke she loved to tell “You know why women divorce so much? Because it’s $worth$ it”. I think more emphasis needs to be made on compatibility if the goal is long term and lasting relationships. If men tell us all they want is youth and fertility…well…we cannot give that to you forever. I agree. For whatever reaso…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:55 AM
3

Hmmm okay definitely fair when considering the upper echelons. It’s definitely a different lifestyle/upbringing and I’m sure reputation/status matters a lot more to them. But if we’re talking a normal dude raised poor to middle class who’s making +$100k then I don’ think that nigga cares. As long as she’s not a complete crackhead she’s got a shot to significantly improve her lifestyle. Hell, just look at marriage stats (wait, have we played this game before? 🤔😂), 55% of marriages have a male bre…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:53 PM
2

Neither do women, actually. Ya’ll have already shown you can work through your pregnancy, give birth and go right back to work. Who cooks and cleans should be up to the couple but all I know is I make 2x what my GF makes and she does all the cleaning/most of the cooking. I buy all the take out/eating out costs, and slide her a couple hundred a month for cleaning. If it ever became a problem (6 years no issue) I’d just hire a maid. She got a job we can split the cost 🤷🏾‍♂️😂 I disagree if a woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:41 PM
3

Lol oh no I’m not saying women want millionaires, but they want men who make at least around what she does, preferably more. If she makes $60k, you better be makin atleast $50k. The reverse is not the same men will take a poor women and just live happily being poor with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:21 PM
2

Yes, but it’s idealistic. You’re going to struggle dating severely as a man without money/provisioning. No way around that. And while women may deny it, it’s easy to see. The attractiveness of a man’s women correlates heavily with his wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:53 PM
1

Yeah idk. The way he manages his relationships sounds insane but again he’s apparently got the 10 yr long LTR so something must he working right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:44 PM
1

Oh I know. I think down in South America right? Definitely a weird set up but if it’s working for him 🤷🏾‍♂️ Maybe the PI is the move. Im more of the “blind trust” type and just believe in people until the fuck me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:24 PM
1

I’d say most women could easily argue self defense for killing any random man. You’d likely still catch the L, but it’d probably get reduced to an l.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:18 PM
–

This is a great way to put it. In fact being stuck in traffic should be especially humbling to those who believe the world bends to their will.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:08 PM
4

Right just sift through their social media for free 👌🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:56 PM
0

Not that big a deal. As if people don’t cyber stalk people they’re interested in to learn more about them 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:55 PM
–

Socially. Sex is a whole different game.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:25 AM
–

IME dominant women become submissive around even more dominant men they’re attracted too. Some dominant women even manage to “play both sides” and can reign in the dominance and play the submissive role for their SO.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:55 PM
–

They aint ready for this. Women are still collectively going through “red pill rage”.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:58 AM
1

Yeah you most likely overinflate women’s sexual interest in you probably by around a factor of 2-3x Confidence wise yeah I assume most women are already interested in me, but realistically I know that’s not the case. There are easy ways to check if a women’s interested in you I’m 6’3, 190lbs, and 16-18% bf. Pretty face. Nice stats. The easy +7. Idk might have to agree to disagree bro IMO if she receptive she’s willing. Only ego and circumstance stands in your way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 03:36 AM
4

I agree with the stats that it is probably about a fifth to a quarter of women who have had casual sex. Be realistic how attractive are you? I got a decent face, atheltic build but overweight. When I’m leaner, it’s as if every woman is single. Even taken women act as if they’re single around me. Conversations easily turn sexual, even without meaning too. I’d say at my natural peak I’m ~7.5 and even at that level I feel like I could fuck any woman. I could only imagine what it’d be like to be a t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 02:57 AM
1

Really? Crazy. You’d think men would actually want to be good and getting you (women) off. They probably just can’t put that ego aside. Gotta be open and receptive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 10:12 PM
1

If you can cum then any man can make you cum just teach that nigga! Pussies aren’t rubix cubes dudes just lack the experience/skill necessary and women reinforce poor behavior in men because they refuse to hand-hold. Either he knows how to make her cum or she fakes it, pats him on the back and ghosts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 10:01 PM
1

If women vetted for sexual prowess? Yeah Im sure they’d cum a lot more. Hell if they just reached down and played with themselves during sex they’d cum everytime 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:52 PM
1

Yo eating ass is this huge thing right now I refuse to believe more men eat ass than pussy. Lots and lots of men enjoy eating pussy it shouldn’t be hard to vet for em. Maybe order s drink with cherries snd then tell dude you’ll fuck him if he can tie a not out of the stem 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:52 PM
3

As someone who is in one of those groups, Fair. I have no real insight on how the groups operate. I’ve just heard it’s a lot of shit talking and smearing exes/awkward dates. Definitely could be location dependent I think there is an argument both ways. Makes sense. I respect people who couldn't do it. I guess it makes sense from women’s perspective since ya’ll are generally pursued. Gotta sift through your suitors. Where as for men, we have the luxury of pursing women we want, so it’s more likel…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:45 PM
1

Yes and Im saying perhaps hypothetical women should place more importance on the quality of sex a man provides and instead of how tall, handsome, and wealthy he is 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:15 PM
9

Well, there is the “are we dating the same man” groups. IMO, I don’t think men are criticized anymore than women, but I do think dating multiple people is something that comes more “naturally” to women. Women’s “drama” is over the dilemma of her choices. Deciding between multiple suitors pinning after her. Men’s is the flip side of women’s. It’s from the perspective of one of the dudes pinning after her, focusing on her only and pouring all his resources into getting her. I personally grew up th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:09 PM
1

sure in a hypothetical relationship most women never experience Yeah idk. Maybe vet for pussy eating skills before you LTR him 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:50 PM
1

There’s no orgasm gap. 🤭 ok does that make sense that anyone would lie about it. It’s literally all women ever talk about. The “gap” lies in casual sex. In LTRs women come more. That’s my point, you think I tell men IRL it feels like nothing? No I think you and most women would lie. Which is why you go by actions, not words. There is zero chance you are saying “hi you are not close to a gf type. I don’t want anything more other than to use you for sex” you would have zero girls. 100% this is me😂…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:37 AM
2

i dont think i've ever had a sexual partner i didn't go down on This is the crux of the orgasm myth. Women cum less in random casual encounters because men are less willing to go down on strangers. Women on the other hand seem to have no problem sucking random dicks 🤷🏾‍♂️ And that’s not shade. God bless the effort , but it explains why women don’t cum as much during casual; men aren’t taking the steps necessary to get her there because eating random pussy is gross (likely stemming from a touch o…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:45 PM
1

So there’s a big orgasm gap, most women don’t cum from penetration, you’re aware that dick feels like nothing for women (I bet this is the first time you’re hearing this so you’re saying it cautiously lol) and yet you magically found the women who do all of it. There’s no orgasm gap (women cum less per individual encounter but waaay more with repeat customers). Most women can cum from penetration. And no, I’ve heard (only online) some women say dick feels like nothing. I’ve haven’t come across o…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:09 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter