anothermanwithaplan Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
24	The BBC in the UK is misandrist. It ignores all male issues and has become a feminist organisation. Every issue is reported from a female perspective. For example they rarely report on females who make false allegations of rape. Don’t even get me started on the BBC, we’re far past the time it needs the tv licence opportunity that it’s squandering to be revoked. Programming is stagnant and outdated, nothing new. News, journalism, reporting, is full of omissions, censorship and oopsie style lies. The entire organisation needs to be fumigated.	/r/MensRights	09/07/26 12:41 PM
1	Do we live in a actual patriarchy? It’s not a dumb question, let’s figure it out together. What is your understanding of what a patriarchy is?	/r/MensRights	05/07/26 10:30 AM
1	How do you feel about the mockery when a guy is hit in the sack? I never understood this, I never found people falling funny either or laughing at people being hurt in general.	/r/MensRights	05/07/26 10:25 AM
11	Am i missing something? You’re right, and it’s important to reset the narrative otherwise we keep going in this direction. They are now actively doing the things they were accusing men of doing, which largely wasn’t happening. Make them feel like the sexist, bigot, offensive one that they are, use their same treatment back on them and walk away.	/r/MensRights	26/06/26 12:04 PM
10	Hii I'm a a lifelong Feminist looking to gain a greater understanding of the concerns men have and how we can work together. I was thinking of starting a groupchat so I can hear your experiences? Imogen, the most impact you can make to both women’s causes and men’s causes is by understanding that they shouldn’t be resolved in isolation. The best for everyone is when we’re all on the same side. Tensions, emotions, beliefs and opinions run high and these prevent us from reaching the overall goals we ultimately all agree on. The problem isn’t the big picture, the problem is that we get stuck in the weeds and end up squabbling over silly things instead of focusing on the things that matter. …	/r/MensRights	22/06/26 09:58 AM
2	"Men want sex women want love" my girlfriend said There’s a lot going on here. Addiction is an issue in and of itself, regardless of the “fix”. People that have an addiction disorder need support around them to get help and stay on track, it doesn’t matter if it’s porn, drugs, gambling or anything else. Both men and women are visual creatures, but not always in the same way, usually men need to see it, and women need to believe it. Men want to see something in front of them whereas women like to have an imagination. Looks get attention, persona…	/r/MensRights	03/10/25 11:05 PM
9	Amazing Gents, you know and I know the sort of women talking like this are not the sort of women with valued opinions, they’re not the sort of women you want in your lives and they’re not the sort of women that you want to be around. I agree with you, the narrative, dialogue, and support from those likeminded in the screenshots, is absolutely disgusting and deplorable. Always remember this: you, me and everyone else is better than them, they are miserable, they are lost and they are bitter. Their proble…	/r/MensRights	20/09/25 05:25 PM
1	as a man- What do you think causes the most emotional pain for men? Asking this question is honestly one of the best things you can do for someone. The most difficult part of managing emotional pain, issues, concerns, etc. is feeling safe to talk about something. Generally, men don’t get asked this question enough and if/when they do there’s no real support or care with it. I’m not saying this is the case every time, but it’s something we’re all too familiar with. Care is important for men as well.	/r/MensRights	19/12/24 11:12 PM
12	Woman asks to split the bill, is offended and rude when man splits the bill This is exactly 100% it. Back then it was a compliment to be wined and dined. Today, it’s your turn on the roster to “provide”.	/r/MensRights	14/12/24 02:58 PM
3	Why does this sub need to prove that they dont hate women when feminist subs never do vice versa? I don’t browse the history around here I only pop in and out if I see anything interesting come through the feed so correct me if I’m wrong. I have never seen a hate post here. Generally, the posts are about men being overlooked or women making farfetched accusations, and these things being pointed out. And other topical themes. None of which represent or imply hate towards women, if anything it’s talking on topic for the sub. However, if you take a look at any of the posts that make it big over…	/r/MensRights	10/12/24 03:46 PM
3	4B movement is pathetic I agree with you because you’re correct. Let me offer some peace of mind: any radical beliefs or opinions by young women with no life, relationship or world experience shouldn’t be given this sort of attention. In other words, the women who believe this, are the type of women you don’t want in your life anyway. So we haven’t lost anything, but now we know the ones to avoid because they’re making it loud and clear. How far do you think they’re going to get before it all crumbles around them? Late…	/r/MensRights	12/11/24 11:17 PM
1	All this crap about “WoMeN’s RiGhTs” but Kamala+Liz Cheney will get all our sons, brothers, fathers etc…involved in endless wars You understand that in every comment you’ve made here, you’ve either assumed or fabricated information. Have a read from the start again and come back to me when you’re up to speed.	/r/MensRights	06/11/24 04:21 PM
1	All this crap about “WoMeN’s RiGhTs” but Kamala+Liz Cheney will get all our sons, brothers, fathers etc…involved in endless wars So you’re only here as a nuisance?	/r/MensRights	06/11/24 08:39 AM
2	All this crap about “WoMeN’s RiGhTs” but Kamala+Liz Cheney will get all our sons, brothers, fathers etc…involved in endless wars I’m in! Let’s do it together!	/r/MensRights	05/11/24 05:33 PM
20	All this crap about “WoMeN’s RiGhTs” but Kamala+Liz Cheney will get all our sons, brothers, fathers etc…involved in endless wars This is precisely what it’s come to. I’d like to see some campaigning about putting them in the action and on the front lines.	/r/MensRights	05/11/24 03:21 PM
9	Apprently an old friend no longer wishes to have anything to do with me because I’m a man. Honestly infuriating. Bad experience = all men are bad type of women aren’t worth the battery it cost you for that conversation.	/r/MensRights	02/11/24 12:44 AM
10	Look at how blatant it is. They're not even trying to hide it. I agree it’s disgusting that this is somehow idolised. If they didn’t have double standards they wouldn’t have any. But, a silver lining if I may, these are also the exact women who will never have a successful relationship or amount to anything, if you can find peace in that then you’re already better than they are.	/r/MensRights	01/11/24 04:01 PM
4	The SuicideWatch subreddit is incredibly misandristic and victim blaming You’re absolutely right. I wouldn’t be surprised if they’ve had a number of official warnings already to put something like that, but do the mods over there do anything unbiased at all? It’s not easy to find the official route to report a sub but it is possible.	/r/MensRights	30/09/24 01:37 PM
6	The SuicideWatch subreddit is incredibly misandristic and victim blaming Very interesting, it’s not cringe to you when it comes from their side though? That’s empowering is it?	/r/MensRights	30/09/24 01:13 PM
11	The SuicideWatch subreddit is incredibly misandristic and victim blaming The thing that really winds me up, honestly, is the complete stupidity and nonsense they’re posting about over there. If it was reasonable and rational posts and replies I’d be like ok have your say have your moment. But everything over there can be resolved or ended fast by either taking action or taking accountability. It seems those feminists need a man or two to get them back on track ;)	/r/MensRights	30/09/24 12:54 PM
88	The SuicideWatch subreddit is incredibly misandristic and victim blaming They don’t like it when it happens to them, which is also mostly by other women. But then they show how much they don’t like it by taking it out on men. Who we all know go through actual hardships. Another example, in those AITAH subs there were two identical posts a while back but the roles switched between them. In the one where the woman was the higher earner everyone was saying he’s slowing you down, you need to do better, you shouldn’t have to do anything for him. In the one where the male …	/r/MensRights	30/09/24 11:00 AM
6	A female stranger thought i was hitting on her and now i feel depressed Mate you absolutely didn’t do anything wrong. Keep doing what you’re doing, the problem is made up in her own head. Also, it’s important to remember that the majority of help or advice subs on Reddit are basically full of males and females with no knowledge of the issue they are talking about or life experience in general and are building their social norms off of the tiktok videos they watch all day. So you end up with people virtue signalling to others like themselves for the karma, it doesn’t…	/r/MensRights	30/09/24 10:34 AM
4	I would love for American feminists to go to my home country in Syria and see what true oppression is. The reality is in the west women are not crying about oppression or whatever, because cmon, there isn’t any is there…!? It’s a facade. They’re crying over inconvenience and wanting everything handed over on a silver platter. Things that men have to fight and strive for, they see it and want it because why should he have it and not me. One day in the shoes of someone experiencing actual oppression, actual struggle, actual pain, will have their heads spinning. Sadly, they don’t have the awareness …	/r/MensRights	28/09/24 11:35 AM
11	I asked a radical feminist about whether she had ever been SA'd to try and better the conversation, sh starting DM'ing me and did this: Most of them make up stories because their day isn’t complete if they’re not a victim of something. You can’t take women for their word any more. The funny part is, her reaction is very common, this is what they all turn into when they don’t get their way for long enough.	/r/MensRights	27/09/24 04:18 PM
7	As a man who has been falsely accused of SA/RP on a women, it's incredible how much privilege they have I don’t know what the procedures are in Brazil, but if we look at general options: Contact the education board Speak to a solicitor Go to the news channels, papers and magazines In your position I can understand you want this to be left behind and forgotten about, have things go back to normal and feel that everything is ok again. But, if you have the fight in you to take this on, I guarantee you every one of your friends and all of us in this sub are behind you. Make sure you secure that CCTV f…	/r/MensRights	24/09/24 02:07 PM
1	“Men will fuck anything” is actually good We’re visual creatures and we’re being shamed for choosing based on what we see and like. That should not be tolerated. It’s like trying to train a chicken not to peck for seeds, or a cow not to eat grass. The thing I like about “men will fuck anything” is that the ones saying it are also the ones that’ll use absolutely any item nearby as a sexual device. Again, showing that they have no self awareness and are only out to cause problems. Men will fuck anything	/r/MensRights	07/09/24 08:06 AM
18	Traditional gender norms for men, but not women I agree and fighting it, or reasoning with it or even discussing it will always make you seem like the bad guy. My favourite part of all this, is that men, rightly so, are no longer settling, no longer putting up with it, no longer accepting it. We have so much thrown at us we forget we still have the ultimate decision. And it’s the best of them all. Gentlemen, you win by walking away. Let them stir in their own mess. If you want a traditional partner, if you want an untraditional partner, whate…	/r/MensRights	06/09/24 10:29 PM
11	Where to begin? Men want the same thing women want, respect, love and loyalty. Also, I’m going to tell you the truth, neither of you are going to resolve anything for men or women by bringing issues into your relationship. Support the causes you want, but keep these things away from the relationship if you want it to succeed, that goes for both of you.	/r/MensRights	04/09/24 10:13 PM
11	Because work in Japan is SO easy (repost without names) Gentlemen, I do my fair share of the housework as I’m sure many of you do, and on some days I do all of it to speed things up, in addition to all the repairs and maintenance tasks. It is a lot of things, including boring, unpleasant and time consuming, however it is essential. And I can assure you, that what it is not is backbreaking or some nonsense about “the patriarchy”. If they want to go to work instead, I say go for it. You’re all invited over to mine, bring your PlayStations and kids, we’…	/r/MensRights	04/09/24 02:57 PM
2	Why don't we just let women create a womens-only country so they understand why men are important? Then it’ll be our fault that we let them do it. If they can’t see it for themselves at this point, there’s no need to prove or demonstrate anything further. The ones that feel that way will fizzle out eventually, no one is going to settle down with that sort of mess.	/r/MensRights	01/09/24 11:02 PM
19	Women and their “shit tests” You’ve hit the nail on the head. What they are doing is emotional and mental abuse, it is manipulation, and it is because most of the time they are bored and looking for something to fight about. As men, they are using one of our greatest strengths against us, we like to resolve and that’s what we do in this situation, but that is actually the wrong way to approach it. These “tests” should be treated as aggression, no need to even acknowledge it, simply walk away. Because as you rightly said you…	/r/MensRights	29/08/24 10:59 AM
4	This is a big reason relationships are failing and people aren’t getting married anymore This is fatherless behaviour, plain and simple. It will continue to rise, because the number of fatherless families is at its highest and growing. Marriage isn’t worth it to men, because an increasing number of women are being taught values that are not compatible with what men want. Then divorce is a reward for the same women, who are also the problem, as some sort of punishment for the man. It’s long overdue for better.	/r/MensRights	27/08/24 02:27 PM
2	Do feminists really not care about facts or do they just expect to be taken seriously? They think that whatever they think up or make up automatically becomes fact because they said it out loud. Combine that with they only see what they want to see, whether it’s there or not. And then you realise there’s actually no point getting into a conversation with them or taking anything they have to say seriously.	/r/MensRights	26/08/24 12:19 PM
2	I don’t think I want to call myself a feminist anymore The journey you’ve been through to make it here is not completed by enough people unfortunately. You are entirely right in what you’ve seen and realised for yourself. Feminism has changed from being a voice for improvement to a crusade against men, and this is not being addressed, somehow it’s being applauded. Most young women with a minor inconvenience or unpleasant experience are falling for brainwashing, the easy way out, the ‘nothing is my fault’ option, the ‘men are to blame for everything …	/r/MensRights	22/08/24 12:15 PM
9	Fell out with friends over the stupid bear thing If they mean rapists then that’s the word they should use. You don’t generalise then get mad when people don’t understand. You’re also discussing this with a biased group who are following a narrative instead of their own critical thinking. Turn the question back to them, let’s try it out ;)	/r/MensRights	17/08/24 07:59 PM
2	Because a few people do bad things, the entire group is responsible. It’s almost as if Farida D hasn’t got a clue what she’s talking about.	/r/MensRights	15/08/24 09:52 PM
2	I commented this on r/twoxchromosones Exactly, and if I may agree and add one item to what you’re saying. These lot aren’t actually in two way communication, they’re simply spewing whatever nonsense that makes them feel justified.	/r/MensRights	14/08/24 06:22 PM
1	What myths exist in feminist circles about the men's rights movement? Generally with them lot they’ve spiralled out of whatever good intentions they had going in, into some sort of crusade. Usually, because one minor thing happened to them, and collectively as a group they’ve made a mountain out of a molehill. And not one of them has any sense to say, hang on, are we going about this the right way. And then from there, as you correctly mention OP, they start circumventing reality with myths, fantasies and exaggerations that they all immediately get on board with w…	/r/MensRights	11/08/24 12:19 PM
8	“I HATE MEN” Having zero self awareness and zero accountability for oneself, leads down this route. The vast majority of the problems we encounter on a day to day basis can be resolved by taking accountability or taking action. This is what separates the men from everyone else. Statements such as the one in the title are enough to tell you everything you need to know about the person who said it.	/r/MensRights	09/08/24 08:57 PM
2	Calling men who you disagree with "Weird" is A Toxic Femininity This is absolutely accurate! There’s another trend on the rise as well, hear me out. A while back while I was renting in a shared house, one of the guys came home after a date, eyes welled up borderline about to breakdown. After settling things down, he talked us through what happened, it turns out the date itself went absolutely great, they got on, they had a great time. However, there was a pair of women sitting near them in the bar that kept eavesdropping, then, as they were leaving those sam…	/r/MensRights	03/08/24 02:34 PM
3	How to convince my husband not to circumcise our baby boy? By the sounds of it, he’s not having a rational argument. Is he not happy with the name that was chosen and he’s trying to get some say in this way? Unfortunately, you won’t be able to reason with logic and rationale here, as based on your post he feels that he’s not being involved enough. Instead, talk to him about why he feels he has to emphasise that it’s his son too. From there navigate to why he feels circumcision is essential. Uncover what’s really bothering him and how you can meet in the…	/r/MensRights	28/07/24 01:20 PM
5	Why women protect guilty women ? There’s types of women that simply support anything and everything other women do. It doesn’t matter how fantastic or great, or how pathetic or disgusting. The difference is however, that the former is the type of people you want to be a part of and the latter are the most toxic and vile human beings you will come across. From the outside anyone can see this plain and simple. But how do you go about holding up a mirror to someone who has no self awareness.	/r/MensRights	27/07/24 01:02 PM
25	I feel attacked and offended by one of my best female friends. I consider “you can’t … because you’re a man”, as a form of aggression. This is not something I’d expect from a normal person during any conversation. Usually I would say try and straighten things out with your friend, but after you explained that she doubled down and is accusing you of all this nonsense, while trying to be the victim, is she really a friend? Like what’s going on with her, is she mentally ok? Has she always been like this? Be careful around people that say these sort of things, …	/r/MensRights	06/07/24 10:16 PM
1	Any other more muscular dudes ever get inappropriately touched? I get a good feel up usually on shoulders, arms or my sides. I wouldn’t say it’s inappropriate, until they get really handsy, which has happened twice. Like if I was trying to get someone’s attention, I’d go for a shoulder or arm or elbow with a tap, nothing more. But yeah, full on chest grab is crazy!	/r/MensRights	06/07/24 12:12 PM
2	Can someone make a rational argument to hate a whole entire gender? It’s important to clarify that not all women, in fact very far from it, subscribe to this sort of hate. At the end of the day it is sexism, but the mental gymnastics they use tells them it’s justified. It usually stems from preventable or avoidable issues that they keep walking into forming a pattern they can’t get out of so instead of evolving they blame men, then that turns to hate. The shortcut version to hate also includes indoctrination. Your best course of action is to stay clear of anyone…	/r/MensRights	25/04/24 08:19 AM
57	What real leverage does a guy have in modern relationships? This really is the right answer. No forgiveness, no hearing it out, no working it out. When enough is enough, your greatest power is to just up and leave and stay gone. One of the biggest problems in all of this is the “simps”. Free attention or “paypigs” on demand, with no self respect, these lot are one of the worst things to happen to single men. They are throwing away our advantage and leverage while making everyone look bad at the same time. It’s pathetic, disgraceful and it’s completely ru…	/r/MensRights	23/04/24 05:47 PM
5	Feminism has completely destroyed relationships how do we fix it? The ‘man-hating’ feminists are a write-off, don’t even bother engaging, as soon as you notice it, abandon ship. The ‘women are better than men’ feminists are hard work. The ‘confused but following other women feminists’ aren’t so bad, they usually get wrapped up with indoctrination that they don’t necessarily agree with but do the whole blindly sticking together thing. Back when I was still dating, I ended up on a date with a feminist that hid it really well, we had about a week of chit chat bef…	/r/MensRights	19/04/24 03:31 PM