archanodoid Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
–	What are your guys views on "entitlement" of sex in marriage? You missed an extremely important part of the argument. the /s	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/24 06:05 PM
13	Are men who do not want to commit to relationships simply risk-averse? Marriage was a lifelong commitment. Not anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/24 11:49 AM
8	Everything about the current dating scene makes it far more likely for sexually successful men to become unempathetic and leave women emotionally hurt Always with the "Not all X are Y" Just speak in quantities, "Maybe 3 in 10 X do Y", otherwise all I can think about is "The exception proves the rule"	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/23 11:04 PM
–	Why should men enter relationships when any woman has to power to legally easily ruin you life forever? Yes, it signifies failure, lack of resilience and not enough discipline to work on the problems of a relationship that is supposed to last for a lifetime.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/23 10:10 PM
6	Q4M: a woman being a bad ass... Turn on? Or turn off? Certain subsets of women have neck rings that elongate their necks. Just because in one culture an action is celebrated does not mean in another it also will be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/23 03:11 PM
–	"No one owes you anything" is another battle women are going to lose The other side was insulted, so perfect 🤩👸💅	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/23 12:44 PM
–	Almost half of the women having a plan B and the 80/20 rule are the legit reasons for a guy to have self-esteem issues and women shouldn't complain about it as they are the reason behind it. He is so bad faith goddamn.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/23 04:59 PM
–	CMV: As a society there's almost nothing we can do to help lonely men Sure. 1. A profile of single Americans \| Pew Research Center Have a good day	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/23 05:03 PM
–	CMV: As a society there's almost nothing we can do to help lonely men It is not a personal problem if 63% of young men are having that same issue, is it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/23 04:40 PM
–	Should female Influencers be allowed to film in gyms? Until people with cameras go to that climbing gym.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/23 05:15 AM
13	Young men have a dysmorphia epidemic, not a loneliness epidemic It is quite weird that new accounts get directed to that subreddit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 06:34 PM
4	Observing how my male and female friends adapt to reality as we age. Yeah, dude sounds unhinged, triggered by something so unimportant, weird.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/23 10:17 AM
2	Never-married single moms, even if they are good moms, took a very selfish decision I will not marry, precisely because divorce is so easy. Why enter a contract that can be easily broken and would destroy my life if broken? High risk-low reward. I would love to marry someone, but as a smart person these conditions make that inviable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/23 11:43 PM
2	Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why? What evil and malefic motives did they have? Where they literally Hitler for showing you their hobbies?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/23 11:55 PM
4	Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why? Until that value is lost...	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/23 11:54 PM
23	Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why? Why does anything good a man does have to be framed as something negative or self-interested.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/23 11:52 PM
4	Women get resentful from splitting half the costs with their partners when he leaves your ass for a younger cheaper partner. 70% of divorces are initiated by women, so the opposite of what you say.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/23 01:54 PM
27	Q4M: Would you date a mediocre woman? What is so bad about this? Somebody average, just like the rest of the world. She is just a human being, so am I, why would I demand the world from her and for her to be the best at X.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/23 11:17 PM
3	Would you rather have sex with a fat 20yr old or a fit 50 yr old? My god you are just like the meme, trying to turn me white on your mind to make me the villain. If you mean from argentina, no soy de ahí.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 01:24 AM
9	Would you rather have sex with a fat 20yr old or a fit 50 yr old? I am from Latin America, and they are absolutely not. I guess maybe because we have better food from where I am from, but those pictures would be very overweight in my country.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/23 02:48 PM
16	Dude ghosts girl after first date what can we learn from this? Happens really often tbh	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 12:24 AM
0	The principles of the manosphere are based on a just-world fallacy No silly, he is saying they are single at 45+ because of the casual sex. I thought the point he was making was obvious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/23 02:19 PM
–	CMV: Maine legalizing the selling of sex, but criminalizing the buying of it is another example of institutionalized misandry. It is as illegal for the homeless as it is for the rich to sleep under the bridge.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 01:29 AM
1	Women DO LIKE nice guys who treat them right - but men don't understand female language - CMV Sorry, it came from this. I guess I forgot the /s	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/23 11:56 PM
–	Red(pillers)copers are obsessed with claiming women are dying alone and unhappy, but its men who are doomed. purely just a revenge fantasy grift for men dying alone to cope with. Only 6% of men do most of the crime, so it is like punishing all black people for the crimes only 13% of the population make. Extract: "The percentage of men who commit crime varies depending on the type of crime. For example, in 2019, 85% of arrests for murder were of men, while 63% of arrests for robbery were of men. However, it is estimated that about 6% of men commit at least one violent crime during their lifetime. This means that a very small minority of men are responsible for a disprop…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/23 02:28 AM
9	Men create all the things, women create all the people. Both genders are fundamentally necessary and go through struggles to give their contribution. Men who don't appreciate the contribution of women are fundamentally divorced from the realities of life. Ad hominem, no argument given, just attacks to the person. Please give counterarguments.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/23 01:42 PM
1	Marriage is not worth it for women who do not marry rich I work really hard turning this oxygen into carbon dioxide all day, every day, without rest. What do you mean it is something my body does naturally?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/23 02:33 AM
1	Debates without numbers are pretty pointless I agree, they are not only pretty, but also beautiful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/23 08:17 PM
3	What are some things men & women commonly say while dating that actually mean something else? BMI 15 is severely underweight	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/23 06:00 PM
1	What are your thoughts on the research consensus being that women initiate domestic violence significantly more than men Oh so it is like being racially challenged, but with gender.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 04:51 PM
5	The Red Pill will become mainstream because the gender divide has become impossible to ignore So only 40 to 70 years? Now that is a relief.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/23 12:28 PM
7	SOME men in your league will try to use you. But if you only go for men above your league, ALL OF THEM WILL Damn that was easy	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/23 09:03 PM
1	Now that we live in an era where women work and make their own money, why is a man's money/career still so important for women? I could do more for her, introduce her to my life, my hobbies, make her have fun, etc. But first, if she underestimates the hours I work daily, every week, every year. The effort I had to put into an excellent profession. The blood, sweat and tears I had to put to build my life to accommodate someone else, then I do not wish to be with her. Of course I would do much more for someone I love, but if she does not value what I bring, then she can go.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/23 03:20 PM
4	Now that we live in an era where women work and make their own money, why is a man's money/career still so important for women? Cook, clean our house, be there for me, eventually become a family, not be an extra source of stress (I have enough of that on my job). The most important thing for me is to not be an angry bitch boss or whatever, not conflictive, etc. I already have too much conflict in my life. If she can do that for me, I will do everything else, I will be the stability that is needed, am I asking for too much?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/23 02:55 PM
6	Now that we live in an era where women work and make their own money, why is a man's money/career still so important for women? As a man, I do not care honestly, she could make minimum wage or have no wage at all, but as I am well off that does not matter to me at all. Maybe later in my life it could matter, but I doubt it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/23 02:34 PM
14	CMV: Approaching Tons of Women as a strategy to not be alone will always work Nobody has 15 minutes, 5 minutes per approach? Goddamn do you even wipe when you shit or does it take too much time?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/23 08:02 PM
9	The job search is the same experience as the dating market The height of the job.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/23 12:22 AM
1	Women are attracted to qualities that allow her to do less Yeah, I have seen the "OMG he does not deserve this" directed at stay at home dads.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/23 10:48 AM
7	Women are attracted to qualities that allow her to do less We actually just aren't attracted to qualities that make us into slaves at home ???	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/23 10:07 PM
1	The current dating situation is the result of women's free sexuality Strong encouragement of marriage (while removing no-fault divorce, and making divorce much more difficult) and monogamy, with strong shaming to promiscuity, like the olden days.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/23 11:05 PM
1	Passport Bros prove that Women’s Hypergamy isn’t the issue but the fact that some men can’t do the same. Yeah, probably short, balding men with a good income. Literal hell right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/23 03:49 PM
3	Things that women support the most are about avoiding the responsibility that women being equal imply 50% of the population is male, so 50% of the population has something to say about that, besides that, a mandatory blood test for the newborn can help with many things that are better to be discovered early. There is no reason that a bit of that blood cannot be used for a mass-produced, cheap dna test.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/23 01:30 AM
11	Most young men are single. Most young women are not. Why? There was a reason why meeting her father as a young boyfriend was important, there could be severe consequences if the father disapproved of the relationships. There were even stories of fathers and brothers secretly killing those bad boys due to them trying to hook up with their daughters, that does not occur anymore, obviously.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/23 08:38 PM
1	What do you think about the lonely but successfull men who get a fwb with money instead of getting married? Just in case you are acting sarcastic. https://twitter.com/pewresearch/status/1623352132375302144 Ages 18-29 63% of men single vs 34% of women single.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/23 12:14 PM
0	Men and women not owing stuff to each other. Men are obligated to stay, they are prisoners in their own country. Some can be brave, sure. What about those that do not wish to suffer war and its consequences?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/23 06:01 PM
6	Most women would rather have a placeholder boyfriend than be single https://twitter.com/pewresearch/status/1623352132375302144 Ages 18-29 63% of men single vs 34% of women single.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/23 07:19 PM
-1	What is the equivalent of the 666 rule (6 feet, 6 figures, 6 pack) for women? Because she will not put effort	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 10:33 PM
1	Men depend more on women personally; women depend more on men institutionaly men are the majority of individuals experiencing homelessness (70 percent) followed by women (29 percent). source: https://endhomelessness.org/demographic-data-project-gender-and-individual-homelessness/	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 01:09 PM
2	Our ancestors did not get laid for centuries, we threw sh*t at each other and waged tribal warfare in the African savannah until someone figured out that guaranteeing everyone a wife thought monogamy would mean every man has a reason to cooperate and maintain society, this now has been broken Damn, what a way to shatter my worldview. To think Americans rape more than Indians, now that was unexpected.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/23 06:59 PM
0	Society will never be corrected, it's too late. You... have 13 karma...	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/23 01:05 AM
1	women on reddit: "WomEn dOn't tHinK 80% oF meN aRE uNAtTRactIVE, THAT's a myTH peRpEtUATeD BY iNCelS oN REDDIt tO mAKe wOMen lOOK baD. eVeN tHeN, iT oNlY apPliEs tO oNliNE dATinG." - also women on reddit: "Carefully" done in paint /s	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/23 12:48 AM
14	Fuuuuck single mothers! "I don't even understand the point of this cope most women aren't single mothers" The rate of single motherhood has increased 10 fold since 1950 to 2022 1950: a bit less than 5% 2022: 40.5%	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/23 12:13 AM
2	Male science/philosophy vs female emotions. China 6.2%, Japan 4.3%, US 36.2%. 6 to 8 times the difference. There are more asian countries but I do not have time to put all of them, research them yourself and do not misinform.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/22 03:43 PM
1	Start a family with fat girl or marry a single mom? you missed the /s	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/22 02:26 PM
-1	Has evolutionary psychology got any application or use for modern dating and relationships? I think polyamory if widely accepted can be very damaging to society, so it should be discouraged even if it is natural. Same as, there are plenty naturally psychopathic (1%) and/or sociopathic (4%) people, yet they should be restricted from acting on those tendencies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/22 02:12 PM
8	Q4M—Why don’t you just opt out? Oh yeah, "I am suicidal, so I will go fight in a war thousand of kilometers away for people I do not even know the language on". Dude...	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/22 12:45 PM
0	Where do you recommend meeting women? Grocery Store	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/22 10:10 PM
2	Can youmake a case for or against promiscuity? Honestly? I would not marry. Could not trust her to be a plus to my life/a good mother.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/22 04:09 PM
1	Age gap discourse will never not be interesting because it's the best topic for exposing hypocrisy from all sorts of angles The 21 year old in that example, yeah. A 50 year old, not so much. So no, not all women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/22 02:13 AM
8	Sure women want the top 20% of men but is it really that hard to be in that 20 percent of men? ~70% are obese/ overweight Yes, but 33% is MUCH lower than 70%, so the main premise of your argument is compromised.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 06:00 PM
1	Male cognitive dissonance has not taken over this sub Damn that was an interesting point, well explained.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 12:11 PM
2	I think it's OK to hide icky history. But only if we can really keep it a secret. Supply and demand. You are able to be picky because you have a ton of options, you are in demand. He cannot do that because he is not on demand. You will find someone in a much quicker fashion if you wish. He has to put work/time/effort in. Hence why he said "Being alone for a couple of years".	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/22 01:37 AM
9	The average guy should not be frustrated at the selective nature of average Woman as he would act no differently if the tables where turned. By that logic, what population is the most likely to be homeless, have the worst job and be in poverty? You are only looking the upper social stratum while ignoring the lower social stratum.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 03:17 PM
6	If women cannot be aroused by men with traits beyond their control, which is deemed unfair, then what is the solution? Labor, duh. You think China became the most powerful country in the world because "they do business good"? It is because of their population. You calling for genocide of 10% of men kinda irks me, like wtf, so much hate in this sub.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/22 02:47 AM
1	Evolutionary Psychology Please stop being so aggro and attack his idea.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/22 04:08 PM
1	When it comes to men's fortunes in dating.....the few, CONSTANTLY ruin it for the many...... That... Same argument can be used by racists for black people... "I guess women should be more picky around black people and be ready to protect themselves against them." See how that sounds? Incredibly racist, but it's ok to say this about men but not against black people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 10:30 AM
1	When it comes to men's fortunes in dating.....the few, CONSTANTLY ruin it for the many...... Responding to your first paragraph, I differentiated between violent crime rate and crime rate. That is statistically true and a weapon racists use to bash black people, using the same logic you use to bash men. Also, you keep calling me racist. Soy latino por la mierda, que te crees llamándome racista cuando pertenezco a la raza que sufre de racismo por los gringos. I use this argument because I am familiar with it, and I am trying to disarm it with the same logic I would disarm a racist. I do …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 02:15 AM
3	When it comes to men's fortunes in dating.....the few, CONSTANTLY ruin it for the many...... Yeah, feels like a clear gaslighting attempt.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 02:04 AM
1	When it comes to men's fortunes in dating.....the few, CONSTANTLY ruin it for the many...... So in your first paragraph you talk about how you need to be guarded from all men because a few of them are bad and you do not know how. Tell me how that example can be differentiated from black people and violent crime. The second example would still not differentiate between black people and all men, other than the percentages are exagerated. With respect with your last paragraph, you are right, black people have the highest violent crime rate, not just crime rates. But to correlate this even …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 01:06 AM
1	When it comes to men's fortunes in dating.....the few, CONSTANTLY ruin it for the many...... Can this not be applied to race? You say all men are bad because some of them are bad. Black people have the highest crime rate in america, you could use the same logic you applied to males here, but it would be incredibly racist. Why can you do it with one group and not the other?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 12:09 AM
2	"Just find someone who prefers you" doesn't work as advice for men. There are far more unpreferred men than women who prefer them. I guess insoles? they could try that I guess	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/22 01:43 AM
4	A lot of marriages end in divorce and women are often filing for it - but in many of the cases: is it so wrong? Finally a valid argument. I cannot stop reading "who cares if she takes a million from me, I can make it back, its just material stuff bro". This is a breath of fresh air.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/22 04:46 PM
1	What happens when people "give up"? Yes, but those people use different statistical data for their arguments, which can be inferred to work on the whole population. I just want to see good faith arguments and learn, I do not care for one team or the other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/22 10:38 AM
2	What happens when people "give up"? You might be affected by survivorship bias. You cannot see the total sample size, you can only see those that comment. The commenters vs spectators can be a ratio of 1:2, 1:10, 1:100000, etc. You can only react to the comments here, but not to the entire sample size.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/22 02:39 AM
2	What are the reasons groups for males and boys always seem to end up eventually infiltrated by women and girls? I think a correct comparison would be a roided dude entering a natty sport (football, wrestling, swimming, whatever).	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/22 12:26 PM
1	What are the reasons groups for males and boys always seem to end up eventually infiltrated by women and girls? I would not include Afghanistan as an example, that place is a hellhole due to geopolitical reasons. It would be like including Ethiopia as an example for dating in modern times. It could fit in a niche case, but not in this argument.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/22 12:20 PM
8	The "reward" for successfully implementing red pill You missed the second part of the second paragraph "with a certain destination of choice". Please try to be good faith.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 04:52 PM
15	The "reward" for successfully implementing red pill I interpret it as information/knowledge brings freedom. Freedom to choose a certain path with a certain destination of choice instead of going in blind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 04:33 PM
1	Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman. I see, then if I understand correctly this sheet shows only which side (older vs younger) of the relationship is more likely to engage in violence taking in account age disparity. This does not show % of violence vs age differential, meaning that it does not help to answer the original question "what age differential brings more abuse" Thanks for the heads up, if I got something wrong I apologize.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 10:31 AM
3	Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman. Edit: I read the data incorrectly, where it does not show what I thought at first, so I will remove my conclusion to not bring misinformation. https://www.researchgate.net/figure/Relative-Age-of-Victim-and-Offender-by-Age-Discrepancy-Intimate-Partner-Homicides-in_tbl2_8100312 Thanks for the link u/funlightmandarin	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 10:03 AM
6	Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman. It was shown before on this thread that it was not found on different research and medical sites, not finding the source of those claims. Plus, criticizing claims and the interpretation of sources is one of the tools of debate to reach a conclusion. I truly wish to learn, not just pay games, I swear I am good faith on this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 09:36 AM
6	Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman. You have talked about statistical evidence multiple times in this thread as the basis of your thesis, while your argument was weaker than u/parahacker. Show us that evidence or your argument crumbles.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 09:28 AM
2	Men need to stop justifying why they don't want to date women with high body counts Seems like a winnable argument but would need a lot of energy discussing the matter, checking if sources are valid, etc. I do not have enough knowledge in the subject so I will abstain. Thanks for explaining.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/22 07:28 PM
2	Men need to stop justifying why they don't want to date women with high body counts I am honestly curious, how would that argument be countered? I truly do not have an answer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/22 07:23 PM
4	Watching porn is the same as cheating That is not the argument, that is just a strawman. Please try to be good faith.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 03:06 PM
2	Pros Vs Cons of Marriage Mega-Thread I agree with your first and second paragraph. The third is illogical I believe. "If you lay down pros and cons for something big as a house/boat/car/career and want to be convinced you shouldn't get whatever " If it's something important and life-changing you should inform yourself, debate, see different opinions on multiple sources etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/22 07:18 PM
–	Is a girl resting her hands on a guy's thighs supposed to be a sexual advance? The real question would be, how to proceed?	/r/seduction	13/02/22 11:57 PM
2	So I am dating this girl for three days now and I really like her and I think she likes me as well. However, in the third day, she confessed her admiration to me and her words changed to more endearing ones like "my love", "darling", "baby", "I love you" etc. By don't do it you mean cut ties? Don't reciprocate in endearing terms?	/r/seduction	09/09/21 03:49 PM
5	Those day game feels Chile, saddest place in LatinoAmérica	/r/seduction	23/08/20 12:46 PM
10	Those day game feels In my country you do not talk to strangers. I have only seen that like 4 times in my life. Girls become very smiley when you tell them they look beautiful tho, but the anxiety is incredibly big.	/r/seduction	23/08/20 03:26 AM