aspirationalsoul Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	How would you message a girl you hit it off in the club to go out again?	Logistics	aspirationalsoul	/r/seduction	31/10/21 01:11 AM

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1	Seduction and tricks don't work on women who aren't interested. Women who are interested don't need Seduction. Holy shit this is so accurate.	/r/seduction	03/08/23 12:44 AM
19	Girls asking me to buy drinks in clubs Love this	/r/seduction	10/07/23 05:33 PM
11	I got laid! Relaxed and having a good time.	/r/seduction	03/07/23 12:21 AM
6	Second date - initially goes well but at the club she gets drunk as hell and starts grinding on other dudes Only problem is how do you make them only do that with you 😭	/r/seduction	14/10/22 09:04 PM
2	Second date - initially goes well but at the club she gets drunk as hell and starts grinding on other dudes Their view was less about what you’re into and more on why it’s bad bc other guys will hit on your girl etc.	/r/seduction	14/10/22 08:36 PM
16	Second date - initially goes well but at the club she gets drunk as hell and starts grinding on other dudes I think so too. A lot of guys on here who seem to disagree.	/r/seduction	14/10/22 08:29 PM
8	Second date - initially goes well but at the club she gets drunk as hell and starts grinding on other dudes It’s annoying bc personally I’m so drawn to those girls, I love how freaky and intense they are, but I’ve had the exact same experience as OP…	/r/seduction	14/10/22 08:28 PM
1	[deleted by user] It’s a good shout, especially as someone into Arab girls. Only problem is I don’t like Hookah lmao	/r/seduction	29/07/22 12:16 AM
2	Is hookup culture really accessible to teetotalers? Damn you are one attractive guy, and I say that as a straight guy lmao	/r/seduction	09/06/22 02:29 AM
1	Nothing hurts more than clicking extremely well with a woman, but lacking dating skills to drive it in a sexual direction Very well said.	/r/seduction	09/06/22 02:11 AM
1	Nothing hurts more than clicking extremely well with a woman, but lacking dating skills to drive it in a sexual direction This hit deep. Thanks for the advice.	/r/seduction	09/06/22 02:09 AM
2	What is your opinion on the phrase: "She is not yours, its just your turn" The worst thing is when she gets approached when you’re out with her, and you don’t trust her completely.	/r/seduction	24/04/22 03:35 AM
2	Amazing conversationalist, bad at seduction. And if she's being strung along by some other guy, you'll see this dynamic on steroids, as you become her emotional affair, while she goes through the melodrama of chasing some guy who's on/off and ultimately just not that into her. She'll send you mixed signals, drain you dry of attention, and act like you're on drugs if you want her to ditch the tool, stop fooling around, and get with you. this is so weirdly familiar. dated a girl who i was super into. she had a guy friend she was really close…	/r/seduction	20/04/22 11:42 PM
3	Cold approaching is really insane Haha nice, man. In a similar situation myself, hence why I’m back on this sub aha.	/r/seduction	17/04/22 03:04 AM
5	Cold approaching is really insane That’s fair enough man, hope it went well.	/r/seduction	17/04/22 02:58 AM
0	Cold approaching is really insane Congrats on the approach OP, sounds like it went really well and I know how hard it can be to do. But I have a few concerns as an amateur to this. Is it not important to build up some kind of rapport and talk to her a bit first before immediately inviting her on a date. I don’t think anyone has any incentive to go out with some random person they spoke to for 60 seconds. I certainly wouldn’t. I think it’s really important to build a connection and not make it feel like she’s the 50th person you’…	/r/seduction	17/04/22 02:56 AM
75	Cold approaching is really insane Not trying to be a dick, but house/college parties are a different ballgame. There’s already an element of familIarity, mutual friends, and everyone talks to everyone there. I take cold-approaching to mean outside of safe environments like this. Approaching a girl at say a coffee shop is very different to at your friends party.	/r/seduction	17/04/22 02:53 AM
151	Cold approaching is really insane I don’t know I wouldn’t say house parties are cold approaching.	/r/seduction	17/04/22 02:47 AM
1	Approaching women at the gym? Really? Most girls really keep to themselves and seem very standoffish.	/r/seduction	14/04/22 03:28 AM
2	what is good dive bar attire That’s awesome man, super happy for you.	/r/seduction	11/04/22 03:52 AM
2	what is good dive bar attire Damn bro. What’s happening with you now?	/r/seduction	09/04/22 03:20 AM
2	[deleted by user] Fast and hot is my favourite thing. I miss that ferocious intensity a lot. I wonder why it never seems to last though.	/r/seduction	09/04/22 03:15 AM
1	10 Months of Successful Dating in New York City: A Summary and Analysis I have the same problem. I’m just above average in the looks department, but my type is that 11/10 Instagram model who’s had $$$ of work done lmao.	/r/seduction	07/04/22 03:12 AM
1	How do you guys even talk to superficial bimbos? Yeah I think that’s the other route, unfortunately I’m a student atm	/r/seduction	03/04/22 03:27 PM
2	How do you guys even talk to superficial bimbos? I think that’s a really good point on gauging they’re interests as opposed to talking about my own. Most hot girls are fine actually. The ones I’m referring to are a very specific type - plastic, bimbo, overdone make up. Like part of me feels like I won’t be able to relate to them in conversation, despite being in unbelievably attracted to them. My experience with this type of girl is very limited as I seldom see many where I am.	/r/seduction	27/03/22 12:44 AM
1	How do you guys even talk to superficial bimbos? This is just what not to do, not what to do. I have a similar dilemma to OP where I can meet girls that I think are really hot, but they’re obviously not looking for an intellectual conversation. However, my approach is normally to build rapport through conversation. When I’m probably not going to have much in common with them, I’m not sure how to go about it.	/r/seduction	27/03/22 12:30 AM
1	[deleted by user] I completely agree. I generally only approach at clubs/bars because it’s socially acceptable there - girls go there to meet guys too. Curious though, what do you mean by places where single people go to have fun? Are you talking meetup-esque things?	/r/seduction	27/03/22 12:21 AM
1	How do you guys even talk to superficial bimbos? This is something that I actually struggle with. I’m really attracted to plastic, bimbo girls, but I’m not necessarily what they’d be attracted to. I’m 5’6”, skinny and of Arab/Indian descent. So I wonder just how much of a chance I really have at going for someone who’s a 10/10 Instagram model you know? I mean I’m happy to try but the opportunity doesn’t come up too often either to be honest.	/r/seduction	27/03/22 12:19 AM
1	How do you guys even talk to superficial bimbos? So how exactly do you then?	/r/seduction	26/03/22 11:54 PM
3	[deleted by user] Ahhh 2. really makes sense to be honest. Pretty disheartening though aha.	/r/seduction	21/12/21 08:47 PM
5	[deleted by user] Why does this happen??	/r/seduction	21/12/21 08:20 PM
1	[deleted by user] Point 8 is so interesting to me. Why do you think it makes such a big difference? Had something go a bit sour after mentioning this, despite the fact that she told me she came 4 times.	/r/seduction	21/12/21 08:18 PM
1	How do you guys approach girls and flirt in nightclubs? I agree, compliments are a much better way to gauge interest.	/r/seduction	27/11/21 03:29 PM
30	Can I ask for casual sex? What the fuck is wrong with people on here seriously	/r/seduction	06/11/21 04:15 PM
70	I made out with a stranger I’ve definitely started to get hooked. And it feels insatiable. I want to go out like every night now.	/r/seduction	04/11/21 04:16 AM
43	I made out with a stranger This is so fucking true. Drinking actually showed me how to pick up girls, and now I can do it without.	/r/seduction	04/11/21 04:16 AM
2	Girls grind on me on the club Fucking love it.	/r/seduction	31/10/21 04:11 AM
1	Apart from paying for the services of an escort, what's a good plan of action for an average looking guy to lose his virginity? Would love to hear what your fit is for a night out. I actually put up a post on MFA about exactly this.	/r/seduction	31/10/21 03:31 AM
1	My Wierd and Funny Experience Cold-approaching Girls :/ When you say learn, what do you mean, like just watching his videos or something more?	/r/seduction	31/10/21 03:11 AM
1	[FR] Solo Night game with my intent-anxiety and isolation-anxiety The part about how you kept getting pairs of girls to dance with you is hilarious. You could get upping the sexual intensity and going for both of them at the same time. Your dance moves must be pretty fucking good if girls are complimenting them! Also, what is the Julian trick for the arm around the neck?	/r/seduction	31/10/21 02:59 AM
2	[FR] Night game near pull, I don't deserve to get laid if I keep fvcking sets up Solid FR dude, you got the hardest bits down for sure, just the small things that got you. Finally opened this shortie from inside of this table of all girls, and holy fuck was she hot pulled her out with the hand of god, isolated to the more empty part of the dance floor, it was ON, she straight up looks like a stripper, doll up face, fake eyelashes, tight body, her dance moves are full-blown stripper dance. This is literally my exact type, fuck. Doll face with big fake lips and eyelashes. Ughh…	/r/seduction	31/10/21 02:55 AM
1	[deleted by user] This is a great question, wish there was more discussion. Definitely intense eye contact in my experience, for a good few minutes.	/r/seduction	31/10/21 02:50 AM
1	How would you message a girl you hit it off in the club to go out again? It's the opposite for me - my text game is shit but in person my game is pretty decent - that's why I need advice on it. I don't want to call her and come off too strong tbh, want it to be more casual	/r/seduction	31/10/21 01:30 AM