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Goddamn, I hope no man touches you with a 39 and a half foot pole if that is your mentality. The mental gymnastics it takes to achieve that is baffling.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:34 AM
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All sex today puts men in the submissive spot. She withdraws consent suddenly, she films you on tape and flames you on her social media, or worse, she lies about birth control and baby traps you. Whoever is the top or the bottom, makes no fucking difference, and women know this, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 07:06 AM
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You forgot the other half. You know why women don't think about men and don't approach men? They got dozens of DMs on social media from men and hundreds more if they are in a dating app. It isn't about attraction. It is personal validation for so many men online to be interested in them. That's no delusion. That is reading the playing field and choosing to quit the game because it is an unfair game. That is what men are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 06:08 AM
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Ask yourself how much social media impacts your dating expectations. Because now with global access, Photoshop, and fake followers, there are hundreds of men you see through a screen who you think are your perfect match. Do they? Shocker, most don't. Another shocker, if they did, they are imperfect people. Women, like you, get fed the lies of societal dating cliche dressed up as fact until y'all are almost 40 years old. It starts with the princess fantasies as kids that the perfect king will swe…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 06:06 AM
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You're really trying to miss the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 08:09 PM
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Do those impact it? For sure but even the initial courting system is fucked up and it's because women killed chivalry. That is where I blame the women for a lot of problems of today. Just see my post I put up here the other day. In general, privacy doesn't exist anymore in the digital media and there is no public trust between the genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:54 PM
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Louder for the idiots in the back! But all considered, this victim hood level of thinking is why interacting with 80% of all women is such a drag. Nothing is their fault. Nothing is their responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:14 PM
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Grifter. Fucking sound like one too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:36 PM
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Yeah, which dude though. They can't figure out which one
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:06 AM
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Okay, so you want to say I'm wrong and then what? I double down and you hope i make some sort of slip up to be made an example out of? That's frivolous, unproductive words on your part.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 11:58 PM
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This is called a "debate" flair, not "attack" flair. Pick a fight somewhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 11:10 PM
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What debate is that? There's nothing for me to even argue if you want to wrongfully assume where I draw my opinions from.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 11:07 PM
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https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10480918/ Women's preferences change based on what stage they are in their cycle. That's already clear data proving many of my points.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 10:50 PM
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You argue like a child. I'm surprised anyone engages with you in this sub if you want to throw red herrings and rhetorical questions that function as distractions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 10:36 PM
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Women can still be what I described above and still be equally good or bad people. Not knowing whether you want Stabucks or Dunkin is a lot different than not knowing which guy you want to falsely accuse of SA for social validation or not knowing which guy you want to use for a free meal. 2 very different categories on the spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 10:30 PM
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If the only men you attract have that tragic of character flaws, I think it requires a deeper look in the mirror.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 10:18 PM
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Just because you make an emotional juxtaposition doesn't mean the facts aren't true at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:55 PM
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What stops that is you don't have to tell people everything that is on your mind. Men learn that early on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:54 PM
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😆😆😆
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:26 PM
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I never said anything about psychologic impacts. That's another discussion for later. Are women inherently more neurotic than men? Yes but that deviation is small.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:26 PM
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Ehhhh fair. But economics aren't really a concern if you are both at similar status. Is it hypergamy if a woman making 70k marries a man earning 120? Yes but that is not a life changing difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:25 PM
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You're assuming I'm from the 80s? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:24 PM
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Is it wrong? We haven't had a mass genetic rearrangement since then so people do not overwhelmingly change.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:23 PM
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I'm not sure you caught my drift....but your opinion is technically correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:10 PM
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Your broad generalizations blind you to the realities of sex today and how men have to approach, carefully, with women and sexuality. We live in an era of false SA allegations and the ability for women to ruin the lives of men just with social media content.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 07:16 PM
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If your long term goal is short term mating (casual sex) based upon how you view commitment as a bottle neck then absolutely, meeting women online is generally the best way to do that. However, if you actually wanted a stable relationship, even someone to have kids with, meeting in person is significantly better because you are generally going to meet in an area where you frequently interact with the community. I have had a few people in my niche hobbies try to set me up with their friends/daugh…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:42 PM
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Out of probably 10 women I have been with, only ONE actually wanted more sex than I did. In fact, every relationship I have been in, getting fucked 3 times a week was hard to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:38 PM
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You're jumping to an illogical assumption based upon this idea that only men who have problems with women are low status. Most of your posts actually run this way and I franky do not understand why anyone tried to engage with you when you consistently make men public enemy #1.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:36 PM
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Well I was 9 months unemployed, looking for a job, and even if DEI was removed in the government sector, it has not been from the private sector. If I was a woman, I believe I would have gotten hired in half the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:09 PM
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Your argument is that if men even criticize women's decision making skills, we don't have sympathy. Plenty of men have sympathy but it doesn't remove moral responsibility off women. I have seen SO MANY women absolutely ruin their lives on their own accord from business to socially to dating. They chase that same guy over and over again after being warned by family and friends not to. She ends up a single mom at 25, baby daddy gone, and is now diminished goods when she tries to look for the next …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:07 PM
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This is a "steak too juicy" argument. Are you serious? This sounds more like cope than a legitimate argument. If I got a THIRD of the treatment women get in society, I would be so much farther ahead in my life but I am not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:58 PM
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2 years still going :) ... She was raised in a foreign country which I believe has an impact but we are happy still.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 04:22 AM
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Women are just extremely beautiful from an artistic perspective. I don't think the universe/God could have made a better match. Now, what I admire is how deeply socially aware they are. Almost like a paranoia that oftentimes is right. I think society did us wrong in that men and women have complementary skills to working in life. Instead, they did a great job at setting us up for infighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 05:23 PM
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The "programming" comes from the fact that our sexual desire operates very differently from women. If you are a man with a decent testosterone level, especially a high level and you have 2 working balls, the desire for sex is this strange, slow bleed 24/7 that gets worse the longer you ignore it. The people who patronize sex for men as a "bad programming", are mostly miserable women who don't understand how basic biology works.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 05:21 PM
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As long as women still try to enforce traditional dating norms in the feminism era, you will always find men who stay single because they view the financial burden as a barrier to entry to love. And in a reverse way, it is the ugliest form of an emotional prostitution. I say this as a man in a relationship so don't come at me with the apologetic shaming many of you women do. So yeah, being single when divorce rates are high, infidelity is high, and the world spits down upon you for showing any m…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 12:46 AM
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Plot twist but no woman is asexual. Not permanently unless they somehow had their ovaries removed and took hormone blockers. Every "asexual" woman I ever have met all have sexual urges but it is always tied to some sort of trauma they aren't willing to fix. Rather than seeing it as a way to physically bond in relationships whether they are lesbian, bi, or straight, they make it their whole identity. Every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 08:06 AM
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Women will say that they like a certain type to learn for social justice points. They want the opposite of almost everything they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 08:04 AM
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Research HCG and HMG then come talk to me later.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 05:13 PM
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Another "women won't take accountability" post. Hope you find the help you need. Welcome to egalitarian society. Feminism wanted this, so it means women get held responsible for their actions. And frankly, out of SEVERAL single moms I've met, maybe only 2 times was the guy to blame for. Women throw around the narcissist psychopath words like candy when they account for less than 1% of the whole population. Just reeks of cop out and can't take responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 05:11 PM
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Your opinion on this matter is irrelevant because you never had an organ structure capable of making sperm. You taking HRT is like adding gasoline to an engine that isn't even running.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 05:06 PM
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Both are responsible. At least with men, fertility treatments are much less expensive and easier to attain. You point the finger at us when 4 fingers are staring right back at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 04:59 PM
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They don't need to. Any man with some sense already knows this. Women are fucking expensive so you better know what you're in for. They either want to travel every month or they want 6 kids, or they got a makeup and shopping addiction that will make you blush at the credit card bill. Plus, women carry over 75% of all consumer debt. And I'm not judging. I'm into race cars and can drop 3 grand a month easily in racing. What frustrates me more than ever is this unspoken standard most women have tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 06:29 PM
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An honest woman? I need to go get a lottery ticket real fast. But in all honesty, if 80% of an entire gender finds only 20% of the other gender attractive, this is a failure in the family structure because wrong values are being taught. This is because of single parent households and a lack of father figures. Unlike what red pillers tell you, this is only a recent issue in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 06:25 PM
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This isn't about men. Trump won the popular vote by a large margin. It's women too so cut that out of your hate laced rhetoric. Second, this shows smart Republican policy to make it a states' issue because the Federal government has become too powerful. That's the way it was supposed to be. You have social issues tied into a power problem and you can't distinguish the difference. God bless Trump for overturning Roe v Wade and keeping it a state's issue. One of the best social issues he's ever ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 08:22 PM
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You're missing that this saying is a means to an end. The ONLY person's happiness you can guarantee as a man is your own. Live your own life, stop making females the center of it, and find how to live with yourself alone for a while. Once you do that, you will never be burdened by the presence of a quarreling woman interrupting your peace. You won't accept it, and it'll give you the right head space to choose the right one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 08:20 PM
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Ask my grandfather who got put in 80 grand of credit card debt when he divorced my grandmother. That was 1998? God knows that's like 180 grand today. That's some serious shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 08:18 PM
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A lot more recently than I used to. Which has actually been a nice change.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 03:56 PM
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Sometimes, you don't know that until things are serious, like living together or getting married. Women can say as much as they want that they'll be 50/50 but as soon as the bill comes up, they drag their feet.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 07:58 AM
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Well, your hypothesis is correct as alcohol use has gone down in America over the past 20 years, and except for a small blip from Tinder's introduction, teemage pregnancy and casual sex is down. I'd say you're correct. I'd also say there's handfuls of men who have declined casual sex due to fear of false rape allegations due to the woman being in a somewhat drunk or high state.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 07:54 AM
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I'm not disgusted or spiteful. I'm disappointed. MEN helped women earn the right to vote, work, own property, fair wages, etc, as all part of an egalitarian society. Today, we have scholarships, work-study programs, AND hiring practices that exclusively benefit women at the consequence of men's opportunities. Despite ALL THIS WORK, women shit on Western society, capitalism, and America, specifically in their conversations. It's encouraged by their groupthink mentality that mostly comes from the …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 07:49 AM
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Another "men ain't shit, Trump sucks" post. Jesus fuck, I almost never see a woman come up with a unique opinion. Ever. The groupthink behavior your gender values so much needs to be clinically studied. Debating you is a waste of time and breath if you're gonna speak like this with such blatant disrespect.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 07:28 AM
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It's surprisingly common. Because they fail to meet another man who meets their standards who is interested in them. This leads to their rejections over and over again until burn out. Eventually resorting to classic female tropes like the "men ain't shit" arguments when they're blind to potential matches of good men who aren't unbelievably rich or unbelievably good looking. In the meantime, the man they fell for never cared about her in the first place. She was one of a harem that the 1% man emo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 08:06 PM
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You are a smart lady! And I want to tell you congratulations as well for being very sensible in your approach to a major decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 02:01 AM
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Seen that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:16 AM
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Pattern recognition is both a mental path for good and negative concepts. And this is a subreddit that almost always discusses the negative sides of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:15 AM
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Cheating isn't the only thing that causes divorces. That's monolithic thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:14 AM
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To look at marriage as stability is absolutely arbitrary when one partner can download tinder and have someone to cheat with before the end of the week. Perhaps that day. And when divorces are handed out like candy, it actually only puts the man in the more unstable position.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:13 AM
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And do you carry the same opinion for women who embrace the mentality described in my post?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:23 PM
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Guess you never used google
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:03 PM
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As I said before but will tell you again. Because it's usually what the woman wants, and the men are trying to make the women happy. The fact that this is getting ignored by you just doesn't make any logical sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:02 PM
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When about 75% of all divorces are filed by the wife, it makes you wonder who really had the commitment to the marriage jn the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 03:59 PM
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First fair critique. Can I thank you, actually? Haha. Some of these commentors have been just absolutely disrespectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 03:58 PM
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Common law marriage wants to say otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 03:57 PM
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Personally, it is very interesting to me that Hispanic cultures have quincineras and have one of the lowest first-divorce rates (chances of whether or not they get divorced in the first place). It's also incredibly interesting how Hispanics are having the most amount of children compared to other comparisons within the USA. Do I think there's a correlation? Probably not. It's something within the culture itself where they tend to have more successful marriages. Could it be that they hold stronge…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 03:56 PM
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It isn't about letting men off the hook for marriage issues but how the first card to fall is how that women's views on their husband and his behavior once the marriage is official usually change dramtically and for the worse. This doesn't mean men don't have culpability, but his financial issues, poor communication skills, or whatever personal matter suddenly look far worse than they did before the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 03:50 PM
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I see what makes people happy and satisfied in life. Do you want me to comment about that? I can discuss that side all day, but this is Purple Pill Debate, which frequently revolves around emotional conflicts between the 2 sexes that cause strife.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 03:47 PM
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Doesn't help the attitude women have about it so glorifies it. Mix stupid with stupid, you get double stupid. But you're trying to remove accountability from the women, which is rather immature and reeks of bad faith in taking a fully nuanced approach to such a subject matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 03:46 PM
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It's funny nowadays that this type of advice is controversial, isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 03:41 PM
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You commented first! Plus, you tried to make this about a mental disability. I certainly wonder what the hell could be wrong with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 03:39 PM
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And gaslighting. Goddamn, you're on a role today.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 03:35 PM
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My grandparents, parents, and whole family have been divorced. Grew up around a very pro marriage Christian social attitude that glorified this kind of thinking. Myself, I have lived in 2 polar opposite sides of the country politically and geographically and traveled the world. You could just say you don't like it and move on with your day, but don't discredit me for observing the same behaviors of all kinds of women of all ages for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 03:34 PM
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Cool, try to shame me for a disorder I don't have rather than argue the point. You could have saved your breath and simply said "i'm offended". The bar is in hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 03:31 PM
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It's because most men don't understand how the family court system is so rigged against them. Until you explain it to them, then they grasp the concept, and it's usually eye-opening cause now they know what happened to their dad, uncle, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 03:30 PM
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I'm not saying men do, but I think a lot of men out their go through with a marriage because it's what their woman wants, and they want her to be happy. But they don't realize that they're digging their own grave once the woman realizes what is on the other side of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 03:28 PM
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I've had anxiety before. Trust me, I don't think you know what anxiety is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 03:26 PM
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Cool. You are an incredibly rare exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 03:20 PM
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Notice I never one time let men off the hook? The big takeaway here is that no relationship is perfect and problems exist. I've been dating someone for almost 2 years now, and I am reminded of the imperfections I work on every day. I see so many women who ignore long-term red flags who want to stick a ring on it and pretend all her problems will fly away and they don't. So, in that case, yeah, it's on the woman for poorly communicating her needs, but then it's the man for not taking the signs se…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 03:17 PM
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I usually see women wanting kids more than the men nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 03:12 PM
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Never in my life would I have ever thought pattern recognition would be called neuroticism. People are weird as fuck now. Like COVID made everyone take critical thinking and throw it away.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 03:11 PM
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That's the beginning. Cause it suddenly pulls the curtain off her views and changes almost every way they interact with their boyfriend turned husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 03:10 PM
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Majority of them, yes. Sometimes, they can round the corner of maturity and become a wife but it's never the focus.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 03:04 PM
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Damn, a woman getting the ick from a mentsl illness someone can't control. The bar is in hell. Get a life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 02:49 PM
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I've never once been scared to approach a woman, but I always monitor the risk to reward ratio. The last time an occasion like this stands out before I got in my current LTR, I had a friend from the gym who had me set up with this girl. She was a 26 year old Hispanic. Absolutely jacked and muscular. An absolute looker if that's the type you're into, but she barely spoke English and was posting very risque pictures on Instagram daily. She had 100k followers at the time and was getting another 2-5…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 02:46 PM
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The advice you listed above is misinterpreted. Don't get a hobby or join a social group for the SOLE purpose of meeting women. When you're actually being genuine and enjoying an activity, you're more likely to get a person interested. If you don't look engaged and seem socially aloof, it throws red flags for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 02:40 PM
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Yes, on a surface level, it's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 02:37 PM
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The moment you said "women bear the physical burden", I turned off the page. Any person out there who wants to talk about how women have it so much worse with kids needs to shut up. Cause that's an issue with God and not society. Ask God why he created men and women like this. Anyways, this victim card bullshit is rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 02:36 PM
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Women always desire a partner both taller than her but capable of producing higher income than her. Why fantasize about something you'll never get? Not only that, but in the very few couples I have seen where the woman makes substantially more money than the man, they frequently use it as power to manipulate him out of his own desires and needs. There also significantly less attracted to him as a result. Being an indentured servant to someone of that attitude is NOT appealing. I'd rather be sing…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:27 PM
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This question is a bit of a red herring to a greater issue, which is curtailing political beliefs to fit in social status classes. Both genders do this, but women do it far more than men do. Many women who think they're "liberal" are predominantly hardcore conservatives, but they don't believe so nor understand it simply because they don't get exposed to media that shows the fully story of how their belief systems play out in daily society.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:43 PM
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Have you ever seen how there are always cheating allegations with celebrities and high society people? And then you look at both of them and think, "Who could they cheat on who is an upgrade from that person?" My dad was never very present in my life. Divorced from my mom and driven out by the family court system. Spent his 30s at rock concerts partying with a handful of women then remarried in his 40s to an Italian Bombshell. I think it was another Brad Pitt Angelina Jolie cheating scandal on t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 06:26 PM
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-Why I desire sex so much or how it even works. They'll never understand because their hormones don't work like ours. Our hormone system is a pulsatile secretion making sex drive intense and a daily desire. -Why I physically cannot enjoy sitting down and watching movies/TV/soap operas. In particular, women seem to NEVER can understand why I think they're such a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 06:03 PM
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When you realize you can never make women happy, you achieve freedom. Women know other women and hate each other for it. This just at a reflection at a societal level of that. Mostly? It comes from the princess treatment ideals of social media mixed with a harsh shot of post modernist feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 02:31 AM
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Just read Tom Brady news from just this past week. Seen with Sofia Vergara, Irina Shayk, Gisele Bundchen and others. These are high level female celebrities that all could be with the same high level male. And that is just what is public.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 02:29 AM
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I appreciate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:34 PM
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On porn, no, i think it helped me overcome my sexual curiosities. And it could have been any dumb shit like what do naked huge boobs look like? Quick Google search. What does X ethnic type of body type look like naked? Quick Google search. I didn't need to court a woman or put that energy out publicly to find those answers. I think if I didn't encounter porn, I would have been WAY WEAKER to the sexual desire I had to women. The data proves it. Oddly enough, the more porn use has risen has mirror…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:19 AM
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Trust me, my type is....different to say the least. Good women and manipulative women all look very different both high and low in societal attractiveness. The conventionally "hot women" people look up to i have always found repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:08 AM
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Boy, you missed the point so hard that i'm surprised you have the knowledge to type a reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:06 AM
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You have to ask yourself the question of when you want to focus on doing things in life you enjoy and give you a purpose. Having this all negative, all power view of women only starts a downfall in other things. It all is correlated.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:55 PM
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It's interactions with sirens that make men red pill. Bad interactions in particular. Having patience with the red pillers actually allows them to transcend their own resentment of women. If you keep pushing them down, it will only strengthen their morale for the dogma.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:48 PM
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It's the same thing with you guys. The conspiracy of a constant negative feedback loop you can't find a way to crawl yourself out of. It's why nobody takes your group seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:47 PM
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Lack of character development. Truly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:43 PM
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The black pill only attracts men who feel that none of their bad experiences were at all their own fault. And it also provides a false justification for never improving their life or themselves. It isn't about positive or negative. It's an understanding of a locus of control we all possess. The black pill doesn't recognize that as being factual.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:38 PM
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It's a means to an end to move onto the next best thing. It's a way of mind mechanics where you discipline your own sexual urges to not get distracted and achieve true happiness doing what you truly want to do rather than being led and directed by your own genitalia.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:22 PM
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I had SEVERAL negative experiences with women. It was demoralizing, but I realized there was more to life and that the life I have is short enough as it is to not be so miserable all the time. Women shouldn't be the focus of your life, and I think too many men get stuck in that, even if they don't want to admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:18 PM
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I think it's naive and a bit short-sighted to call all red pillers as bad men. I WAS a red piller, but then I found a way to rise above my own problems with women. Accept fact as fact. Throw dogma in the trash for being dogma. The red piller issue is they can't distinguish between these, so they're stuck in their own victim mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:16 PM
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I've seen you post some wild shit but this has to be the worst. Good riddance to you, and I hope you find some help.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 07:27 PM
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You think of everything from a victim mentality and falsely equate gender dynamics to a zero sum and a winner take all. It doesn't work like that, and anybody who has been in a healthy relationship understands that. Now, as a man who would be considered a red pill by most, you know what I want? Land, my racecar, and to be left the hell alone except for my girlfriend (wife to be at this point) and our future children. Enough money to float everything and hopefully leave enough for the kids when i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 07:25 PM
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Translation: "I can't trust my man to fulfill his duties." Move on to the next guy, then!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 04:24 PM
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The question flair is "for men". Guess you can't read.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 07:01 AM
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My first serious relationship was 2 years long and a very intense one at that. We lived together through the covid pandemic, built skills together, and to a degree, our personalities. The split was hard and a shock. A generally strong relationship crumbled in weeks and blatant cheating was the nail in the coffin. I barely survived. Dragged myself out of that apartment to my parents' house. Took a summer off work and considered dropping out of college. I was miserable and incredibly melancholy. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 01:12 AM
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I love the concept of marriage. But practicality, I don't want the government being involved in my private relationship for VERY good reasons. Yet, you tell women this and they can't distinguish the difference. I don't condone men who would string a woman out that long but why not just be honest in the first place that you don't need an antiquated government contract to validate the status of your relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 01:04 AM
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No because the gay male community is fraught with cheating, polyamory, and general reckless behavior. I can say this because I have been around other gay men who say the same thing. Not that the same doesn't exist but it is broadcasted at such a level in that community that it turns me off.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:17 AM
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I'm a dating relativist in the essence that I think there are themes that generally ring true but every person has different desires that make them click with other people. But even in the standards conversation, no one EVER dives deep enough into why this standard exists for a person, no matter how normal or outlandish. So i can only go off my experiences and what I believe was tied to that. On a first date, i had a woman ask how much I make. First, how dare you. Two, i won't tell you. Three, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:52 PM
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She's nuts if she's not working and living on 10K of child support. Plus the fact she is trying to have kids at 47 is near impossible and considering her approach, probably is mentally unstable and has zero long term concerns about the future. This is horrifying from almost all angles.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:39 PM
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I'm in a very happy, 1 year relationship with my girlfriend, who is a foreign-born American citizen. (Not detailing what country for privacy). 3 years ago, i gave up on all hope of dating American women because of how much I have despised modern American women's dating norms. Spin plates with 5 dudes? Cool. Cheat on your man? It's his fault for not meeting your needs. He asks for a prenuptial? He's shallow and doesn't trust you. Don't like his parenting style? Force him out of the lives of your …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 02:25 AM
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"You're like a brother to me". -You don't have the physical prowess or the charm to make her wet so you're a convenient, dry backup whenever her bf cheats on her but after you finally land her once or twice, she disappears. "I'm fine." -I'm mad and I don't know why and i'm too crazy to even begin to explain my thoughts so I will just sit and pout all day, throwing a silent tantrum like a 5 year old. "He's just a friend." -She's spinning plates with you, him, and other dudes because she likes the…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 12:57 AM
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Two because there is a selfish aspect to love in that they want you spending most of your time in their presence and doing things for them. Respect means that they honor you as the person you show up as in their life and that the time you may offer them they consider strongly valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 07:28 PM
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There's no reward for being a good man. Work long hours to financially provide for your family? No, you're an absentee father. Sacrifice your goals and hobbies for your partner's goals and hobbies? You're a pushover. Put the woman first in the relationship and her protection? We call that misogyny now. A good man has a zero sum game in the perception of others. Considering many women fancy the next rapper and social media star of this generation, who frequently make derogatory remarks about wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 03:27 AM
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Any guy who has struggled to make a woman cum just has a skill issue. I am 6 for 6 in my life with the women i have been with. Batting 1.000
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 03:22 AM
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Well, you frame your question wrong by wrongly assuming the society is patriarchal and oppressive when it's not, but I'll continue. I'm into BDSM. A CNC kink takes insane trust from a man to a woman. Possibly years of time. Not only that, any sexual aggression is beaten out of the majority of men by age 16 via the school system and teachings of feminism. A CNC scene can tilt quickly from a fun experiment to a crime scene. And court systems wrongly assume male power over women is absolute in its …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 02:05 AM
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Same thing happens for men, too but nobody talks about it. You're a weirdo if you're a bachelor at 40, but you're also weird if you get married at 21 and have a kid by 23. Truthfully, everyone's judgements come from shallow reflections and, honestly, insecurities in themselves. The same red piller guy spewing BS that a 40 some year old can get a 21 year old girl probably is a 40 something year old that desires that but can't achieve it. Sorry, bro. You're not Chris Pratt. That wasn't in the card…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 01:35 AM
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Perhaps this is true as a base? But not entirely. I have slept with all different types of women. Conservstive, prissy types to wild, out of control, liberal types. I see some differences. If a woman is about an 8/10 or better and has been most of her life, she is the object because it's all she has known and is used to it. When you open up their world to kink and other things, it's like you can see their brain developing new connections and patterns. Their entire sexuality and map of arousal ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 01:26 AM
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I really don't know what your target is with this. Like a warning to women saying "Hey, don't sleep with dishonest men"? Or a critique on men? Anyways, i'm a male. From age 20 to 23, I did not want a commitment. I was a master's degree student, working to cover my bills, and if I got a lucky Friday night off, a casual partner was really really nice for what otherwise was a lonely life for the better part of 3 years. I always told them that I don't want a relationship. I don't want commitment. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:48 AM
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Pot calling the kettle black here. Women are the same way but they're either "quirky" or it's just their "star sign". You're picking emotionally immature, difficult to manage little boys as the example and applying a sweeping statement across all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 03:07 AM
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Lmfao. No. I don't want to be coming home to some lazy chick who gets mad at me when I change into a stringer and take my gym bag and head out to the gym. The only women who understand that 95% of the time are women who workout also.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 08:14 PM
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I do. Because I want to avoid conflict. If I meet a woman and she isn't into the gym, I'm out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 08:09 PM
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This type of attitude will land you in terrible relationship conflicts if you are not careful. I can have great chemistry with all different types of women but that chemistry is just a feeling, a fleeting sense of desire spurred by brain chemicals. That doesn't last forever, certainly in LTRs. My standards for women are pretty simple but can be rather nuanced. One thing i will not give up on is they have to be somewhat into working out. It's my hobby that keeps me in shape. I see so many couples…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 08:00 PM
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Pathetic. Yes, men have a sex drive stronger than women but also exercise stronger morale and control over their nature. I went about 2 years not fucking a single woman. I had opportunities but didn't because I didn't like my options. To think women can just hold sex on a stick to control men is silly and childish. I've dropped every chick who dared try that with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 03:44 AM
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That is such a lie and a red herring, I can't even fathom how you reached such a conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 03:25 AM
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I wonder why......maybe cause an antiquated government contract isn't needed for them to verify their commitment to the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 03:12 AM
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Federal Title 4D and 4E that almost forces the father to hand child custody to the mother by default in a divorce. Child support as well. Both titles should be abolished as well as the family court system abolished. Sweeping bans of male genital mutilation (aka circumcision). If they want it for religious purposes, fine but they have to be of age of consent. Mandate health insurance to FULLY cover testosterone replacement therapy (TRT) and fertility treatment for men. Testosterone levels in men …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 02:31 AM
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Lesbian divorce rate is about 80%, in hetero, it's 45%, and across gay men, it's about 10-20%. Are we still confused as to what gender is the most difficult to deal with in romantic relationships? To be honest, i have been really hesitant to post about it but i wonder how many gay men are not actually gay but understand they can have a practical, mutually beneficial from a relationship with a man and they go that route. Like the say goes, men's fantasy is pornography. A woman's fantasy is Disney…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:29 PM
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Yes and yes to both of your questions in the first paragraph.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:46 AM
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I think you took the wrong direction from my goal on this. It's not about lowering standards. It's about developing a rationale around a lifestyle that ultimately keeps both parties happy and healthy in a relationship. Is it a flaw i see in more women than men? Sure but this isn't a TRP rage bait "women are bad" post. Don't get me wrong. I have male friends who place WAY TOO MUCH emphasis that a woman is their only source of self perceived success and hapiness. Standards is different. That's mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:32 AM
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I think it applies to men and women simply because I see more men wanting to strike a healthy balance of not compromising self integrity and maintaining healthy relationships. I believe I see more women where they want to be their all and everything to their man, even in work and income situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:28 AM
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Precisely my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:16 AM
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Eh. I see your path but I think you confuse infatuation with love. Infatuation is really strong at the start of a relationship and still it exists in the long term, but it has peaks and troughs. When it troughs, you start seeing more qualities of the person across from you that you don't always gel with. Then this causes often a self centered initiative that creates resentment later.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:10 AM
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Well you used 2 personal examples which wasn't the direction I hoped for but I'll give you my own. My biggest hobby outside of working out is race cars. I love it. Gasoline and burning rubber just speaks to me. In race cars, the enjoyers are largely 95% male and it isn't a hobby you can necessarily enjoy by yourself. It would be a bad situation to where a woman i am dating expects me to give up the racing friends I have, then I wrongly expect her just to be into such a visceral hobby. We're aski…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:07 AM
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Cohesion is a good word. I'll run with that but I think many women underestimate the level of cohesion they seek. Maybe some men are fine with that but as mentioned earlier, masculine-feminine polarities often prevent that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 02:58 AM
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Well, aside from every relationship having different nuances, I speak of this as a general rule. I think a male needing validation is just a sign of insecurity or an inability to accept himself. Some people lie. Some people make excuses. I don't believe the argument i made nullifies that. By any means.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 02:56 AM
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Apologies, tried to write this out quick when the idea hit me at work. Haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:10 AM
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I sure as shit know female orgasm is real. When your girlfriend won't let go of your dick or the vibrator for an hour, you know what's up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 11:29 PM
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Correct answer here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 09:03 AM
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It's cool to hate on men because feminism believes they are undoing a human long stride against "patriarchy". That includes relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 09:02 AM
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Bullshit. It's that I'm not nearly as attractive to them as other men they have come across. If the attraction isn't parallel, I'm gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 04:06 PM
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They can because male sex drive is primarily on physical drive above anything. So if you're putting out and he's happy and feeling good and feels accepted by you, he can be loyal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 04:01 PM
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I am probably the best person to answer this than about 90% of people. As I have done both. The answer is monogamy. ENM is a nightmare. For every reason you can imagine. STIs, boundaries broken, emotional infinitely, sexual favoritism, female to male imbalances in the casual dating market, etc, the list goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:15 AM
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Yes but thank God. Trying to be single and date and hookup with girls is a fucking headache. It's a blessing for a relationship to be a little boring at times. Means we live well together and there's no drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 07:59 AM
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You're correct. There is no benefit. If I didn't want kids, hell, I likely wouldn't even date women. If I can get them to come over on a Friday night when my cock's a little lonely, great. Even paying for some sex work doesn't give me the ick like it used to. But, there is externalities. For one, signaling to your family and social circle you are both committed to each other. Two, things being much easier in a life or death situation to handle because you share the same last name. Three, it's a …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:06 PM
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You're falsely equating freedom to monogamy. Doesn't work like that. It's choices. We limit our own freedoms to the choices we make. Daily. Why do you work? What if you didn't show up? Then what do you do when your bank account is empty? Why do you come home at night? Get my drift? We restrict ourselves via choices and discipline. Same happens with relationships. You could fuck any brawd walking down the street. Why do you choose one? What keeps you with someone whenever you have a fight or argu…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 09:24 PM
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Yeah, bullshit. Physical attraction was the basis of our relationship. What got me interested in you as a man to a woman so you gain 200 lbs and become a whale, I'm NOT going to be into you and you've violated the covenants of a marriage as well. This is just a sorry copout for women who can't put the fork down. Work out and keep your calories down. Basic common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:45 PM
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You completely negated my point. Unless we revert to a monocultural dictatorship that enforced equity between genders, men and women cannot be equal and never will be. When it comes to modern-day feminism, it has achieved everything it aimed to do. Yet, there's still feminists out there, fighting about what is in the grand scheme, trivial bullshit. This time, though, their culture is all about man hating and really has been since the internet boom in 2012. Sorry, ladies. Men work the back breaki…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:06 PM
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All true. Every woman i have been with. Many of their complaints were me not being rough enough with them. I will offer a mild objection. Young women, teens and 20s, rarely accept how deranged their sexual mind is. They love it but don't know why and will detest it. It isn't until they get older and establish some autonomy in their life when they embrace it. Also, throw the two X chromosome subreddit in the trash. Full of miserable, angry women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:10 AM
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TLDR: It's a bad thing when a woman isn't into you in bed. Cool story, bro but I extend a better offer. What if you actually can meet someone who isn't unboundly controlled by her urges? If you meet someone who has that, you will deal with a bigger problem. Recklessly spending money. Recklessly pursuing short-term pleasure. That includes her reckless pursuit of sex with you and whomever she finds interesting. To have a woman undisciplined is a burden and while us horndog guys love a good time (a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:07 PM
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I have no reason to waste my time with someone who's mind is so trapped by feminism. That undoing has to come from yourself, not someone else. It would be like trying to perform an exorcism for me to go around and around with you on this subject matter. It's so easy to identify a feminist these days. The ideas of the movement serve almost as a demon in the soul. It skews your relationship to nature. It skews your ability to pair bond to men. It makes you absolutely miserable because you constant…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:27 PM
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Women have no problem dating far older men, even a decade plus older, long as their looks don't deteriorate much and their income is solid. You'll be damn shook with what you see today. Good buddy of mine is a serial player. Got a divorce and won't get married again. He's 34 ish and he has girls in their teens and 20s in his DMs cause he's in great shape and hasn't deteriorated in looks much. That's part of the mating games between humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:16 PM
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Your trivial comments speak for your own blindness.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:10 PM
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Save it. The world around you was largely built by men. The homes and apartments you live in. The roads you drive on. The police service that protects everyone. The electric company that delivers reliable power. Almost all male jobs that provide the basis for society. In a world today, feminism has solved everything it sought for and this idea of "patriarchy" doesn't exist. Men need the help now, and anyone who disagrees is an enemy of the mission and to be ignored. This isn't a flex. It's just …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:01 PM
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What's your point? The analogy works.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:55 PM
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No, you're missing the message. Feminists want all the privileges but none of the responsibilities. Until I see women campaigning to take blue-collar dangerous jobs from men, I'll never take feminism seriously, especially in this current era.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:53 PM
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They don't like virgin men because of economics. You have a product on a shelf. Why does the market not buy you? Even though this system works in a flawed matter, women like men who are also liked by other women. It's basically a stamp of approval from another woman that this guy is a good batch of apples. I'm making it overly simplistic but you get my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:11 PM
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I absolutely support women Entering the military draft Having genital circumcision performed at birth Receiving harsher sentences for the same crime Being the primary gender to be homeless Becoming the majority of workplace fatalities Oh wait, these are things men have to deal with. So tell me, does feminism fight to be equal with these? What the fuck does being equal to men mean anyways?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 11:02 PM
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Guess you don't understand almost anything can be put in a prenuptial. As digusting as it is, some add weight gain clauses.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 07:37 PM
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Not engaged. Just conversations with women about prenups.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 07:37 PM
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Same here. Sorry we both had to see that in our lives. I'm glad to know some are out there who are pro prenup. Haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 07:34 PM
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It would be a good thing because you can negotiate what that looks like. Maybe alimony for a period of time. Some agreement on child support. Paying child expenses. Ensuring the nom working partner gets some amount of wholly owned assets. And the term of "working" would also need to be discussed. Is that FTE? Is it part time? Is it business ownership? There's also considerations for job scarcity. Someone who is a nurse or MD who takes some years off can easily enter the job market and find work …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 07:30 PM
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I wasn't saying my case. I'm just pointing a couple examples some can relate to. How many times has a disenfranchised partner tried to get things in a divorce just to destroy them out of spite for the partner and were items the partner cared about? Or fighting financially over kids like they're toys. That can be all dictated in a prenuptial. Real estate too. Houses etc. That all becomes a fight easily. It's also a good behavior clause essentially. You're willing to be generous with the person wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 07:25 PM
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It's necessary because then divorce proceedings get overturned to the state and when has the government done anything well?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 07:18 PM
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It's not romantic but it's practical. Like insurance in case you get in a car accident.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 06:53 PM
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You're suggesting all of this as in it being a one way street when it's not. Self improvement always looks different. For some men, it isn't the gym, or "looksmaxing" nor anything likes this. For some guys, it's clean your damn house and work harder at your job. Because success and organization attracts women as well. For other guys, they've got all the pieces but just need to diet and exercise because they have body fat. If you're a man and you have a clear vision on how you want your life to l…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 05:19 PM
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I disagree. This might be a strategy for some women but they will resent the guy and eventually divorce him. Right back to where he was. Most of the time, women will continue to compete for the most attractive men deep into their 40s. Once they quit, they are usually out of their fertile window and just want a worker bee to keep around for themselves. They either have kids with an attractive, top level guy or don't have kids at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:18 PM
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You're falsely equating TRP dating standards with TRP parenthood standards and intentionally misconstrued their points about how the dating market works. I would suggest you recap them and draw the differences about how that plays into romantic relationships and having children.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 05:44 PM
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Yes, but you frame it as that this is an argument that women actually will accept any man, and what we're trying to say is that this is a net negative for society and for men. And in general, men aren't to blame for this. It's the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 05:32 PM
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Their standards aren't low. It's more unrealistic. Every single mother i met usually had kids with a guy she found to be insanely attractive, but personalities didn't mesh, and their means to provide weren't there. Suddenly, the kid comes and priorities change, and their lack of ability to mesh personally and lack of fiscal capabilities becomes a problem, and the woman usually calls it off with the man. I see it every time. The reason why a single mom gets judged so harshly (and rightfully so) i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 05:25 PM
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2nd comment but I think is worth mentioning. Men around me are fucking funny because they'll extrapolate a woman wanting nice purses and jewelry as being a gold digger but the 30K boat or 10k in hunting gear is just "water under the bridge". Give me a break. Both genders like to spend money on dumb shit so if you expect to marry a frugal woman, you better be frugal yourself. Same way around for people who are spenders by habit. I'm not afraid to tell my girlfriend i plan on dropping 20k for race…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 05:18 PM
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Low standards is an awfully washed and vague answer for single motherhood. Generally, single mothers come out of women choosing bad male partners and were probably told by their peer group he was a bad pick. Either just no emotionally intelligence or personal compatibility. When she gets sick of him, she takes him to the cleaners for child support and alimony then tries to get the same thing from another man. That's about 70% of all cases of single mothers i have seen. Made me sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 05:15 PM
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We are inherently driven by sex and all considered, more likely to cheat. Although given a lot of the conception power is held by the man and it is mostly a physiological drive, it can be argued that a man cheating isn't as bad as a woman cheating but if you get a side chick/random hoe pregnant, you're just an idiot. And i say this as a man who's monogamous. I don't cheat but I can understand why it happens because it typically comes out of him not getting any action in a relationship and the wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 05:11 PM
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I don't entirely agree with your sentiment but it is the zero sum game for almost radical TRPs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:39 AM
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Attraction does NOT equate to love. It correlates but isn't a match. You lean too dangerously on this and it's going to lead you down a deep hole with easy women who are insecure and will NOT make good partners. At all. People imprint on lovers in different ways and sex is not the pinnacle on the mountain for that. I feel somewhat bad for you because your writing makes me feel you never have had true attraction to a woman, especially in the early stages where just holding her hand for the first …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:33 AM
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Not really trying by any means, most of my sexual partners and women I've dated have been older than me. I don't know where it comes from nor do I find myself wanting to analyze on a social level why this is happening. I'm 24. My girlfriend is 28. She's been incredible to me for this past year we have been dating and that's all I'm focused on. The running joke I have is that I'm a 6'1", 230 lbs bodybuilder. I want to be pushing 260 lbs and my family has a lot of heart issues in my ancestry. I al…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 07:02 PM
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I think you're missing a greater picture which is short-term vs. long-term options. Men are inherently interested in sex more than women, so they are more willing to seek a short-term connection, even if they manipulate and play the woman. So women, primarily younger women, think because they have some level of attraction, there are all these men who want to date them, but it's actually a small handful who have more interest in them than just sexual pleasure. So the free market of dating makes t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 06:43 PM
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You hit it on the money, u/CreepyVictorianDolls.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 05:38 PM
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You point out these complaints against men failing to consider all the strategies women use to compile male friends. Generally, straight women who have straight male friends, they're friends with them because they check some of the boxes she has but not all. He's "the backup". Maybe he's a good earner and humorous with his personality but not physically attractive enough for her. Or flip the tables, he's wildly good looking but the poor musician type who just can't provide for her if she needed.…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 05:37 PM
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Did i say every sexual thought I've had was a woman's fault???? Where did I say that? I said it's corporation's fault for showing me the bullshit i see every day even though I am NOT a customer and despise Onlyfans. Your lack of understanding for capitalism and soft marketing is why you're so blind to it. You're marketed to all the time and don't even know it. Same thing for men but it looks different. And it's a lot more sexual. Get this car, you'll look sexy for a chick. Buy this workout progr…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 03:25 AM
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You can't train algorithms controlled by large companies that make millions by other companies that make millions to advertise to different groups on their platforms. That's just common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 02:54 AM
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Oh boy, raging feminist alert. I don't need to speak to you about these issues anymore if you think that twisted about human sexual dynamics. You want to talk about men's accountability in a world that praises women for NEVER taking responsibility. Ha. Pot calling the kettle black if I've ever seen it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 02:47 AM
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Let me ask you something because you indirectly attack me for the content shown on my instagram feed by your response. I am on reddit. It's "mostly" anonymous on here. What incentive do i have to lie? Especially on a debate subreddit where the truth is what sets you free. And if so many men can relate to my own comments about the algorithms, have you ever considered that might be the case? Particularly with onlyfans. Onlyfans is a WILDLY profitable company with almost no overhead cost. They make…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 02:39 AM
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There's one simple way to solve this. Put the fucking phone down. The algorithms in these social media apps set us up for failure by showing the most inflammatory content. The most inflammatory content wins. If I go on my Instagram and go on the search tab, it shows me onlyfans girls with gigantic tits everywhere. This is just for an example but somehow, the social media figured out i am a straight male who likes tits IN SPITE of the fact I don't follow any of these women nor do I go searching f…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 10:49 PM
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You're correct, every which way I tried to cross examine this post, it's right in how you think about it. It should be a warning to take seriously in society, but instead, much of these male spaces are mocked. It's setting us up for failure. Plus a loss of religion in most of the west. Plus a deep seated nihilism coming from some of our political figureheads. Plus a feeling of dread because we are ever advancing in our future. Plus an economic system that could collapse from runaway inflation, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 10:44 PM
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Ahhh, so here's the secret, friend. Meet people doing the things YOU love. Even if you're an introverted homeboy, find something to get you outside and moving about. Go hang out at a farmer's market, pickup some locally grown fruit and pasture raised meat. Talk to everyone, the vendors, just peeps going around. It's awesome. Get yourself in the gym. Everyone these days should be working out and lifting weights. Go during prime hours on weekdays from 4 to 7 pm with a bunch of people. You'll bump …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 06:17 PM
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There is no patriarchy by this notion. We have a largely unspoken matriarchy where some women are propagated to the top with the help of men AND women and the rest of society trying to chase them. In fact, patriarchy is probably something that should be squashed out of your vocabulary because it doesn't exist in Western civilization. Male genital mutilation is still legal (they call it a "circumcision" to make it not seem so bad), 68% of homeless are men, 96% of workplace deaths are men, and 76%…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:25 PM
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You're taking two different types of men and wrongly equating them as 1. Men generally focused on casual sex don't care about the woman's behavior around it. Doesn't matter if they're the town slut or an onlyfans model, even a stripper. Their care is pussy and that's it. No other commitment. Then there's men who's first priority with women isn't causal sex but serious dating. The same behaviors in question are a major turn off and not long term dating potential for them. I have seen men live in …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 10:38 AM
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Oh please. Give me a fucking break like there's anything we could possibly achieve to change that. You got to take that one up with God. And it's typically the male who has to figure out how to financially and ergonomically support the household post birth. Most men have a severe hardship with that but will NEVER say a word about it because it's people like you who wrongfully shame them. On behalf of every man who is a present father, go fuck yourself. Women typically want the kid first to begin…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 10:32 AM
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It's nice to be friends with a couple of bros, straight up roast each other, tell offensive jokes, and laugh about it without some broad nearby acting like she just witnessed a murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 06:43 PM
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And the father isn't supposed to help the mother in all of that? It's a big commitment on a present father as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 06:34 PM
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Or how about this? Remove the incentive for women to divorce men for an easy pay check. Every thought of that fucking idea?? You're going to break up what is supposed to be a lifelong commitment, nobody should get jack shit. Just who has their name to the title of each asset. That's it!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 12:20 AM
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My critique is using scientific evidence gives him a stronger case, not anecdotal evidence but i will be careful.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 05:02 PM
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You don't even need those examples to prove your point. Raw data shows this. Who goes to university more? Women at a staggering 2.4 million more enrolled than men in the United States. That margin is only growing and is probably at 60% women 40% men. Who benefits more from diversity standards? Women when there are multiple DEI and ESG standards that encourage companies to hire more women than men. It can literally affect a large corporation's stock value and rating. Even homelessness. It's mostl…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 04:27 PM
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It should go into a monitored account used strictly for the child's needs. Things like concert tickets, restaurants, hair saloons, and other things would trigger a freeze on the account. The freeze lasts 24 hours. After 3 freezes in the past 30 days, a retrial is held to discuss the need for child support and if it is legitimate or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 04:15 PM
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????????
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 04:27 AM
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Who voted them in there?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 04:27 AM
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I am no victim. I just avoid people who act like white men cause every problem they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 04:25 AM
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Lmao. You created an emotional fallacy that doesn't translate to reality. Have fun with that. I'm sure those types of delusions serve you splendidly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 04:18 AM
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My aunt had an image she created of me. An ideal. Women in relationship also do this to men. When women try to mold their partners into their ideal, it absolutely backfires because it typically ruins the very things they were attracted to them for. For my aunt, this ideal she had also backfired which created her resenting me. So...simple solution you can control is always be yourself. Don't change for people. And 2, actually accepting people for who they are is the better option. There's a sayin…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 04:06 AM
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No, this is in relation to a conversation with my aunt on dating. But the hatred comes when women change their men in relationships and they don't have the means of understanding how their wants in that moment result in whole changes of the attraction they once had to their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 03:59 AM
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When you see examples of this over and over again, it's easy to fill gaps. Just takes logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 03:58 AM
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It is unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 03:58 AM
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Created in her mind because she set an expectation silently that wasn't met. This happens most commonly in romantic relationships, hence my post but can also happen outside of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 03:48 AM
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She had a creation in her mind of who i was that was shattered and now she resents me for it. It's something women do all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 03:32 AM
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I don't have any animosity for women. Frankly I wouldn't want to be in their place because they gotta deal with all these fucking idiots telling them what to do in their life. Should I be a girl boss and focus on career? Do I need to find a husband to be a SAHM and have my kids? Do I need to be on birth control or not? Do I need to be vegan? Should I go to college? Am I a traitor if I don't support feminism? Are all men pigs or are there good men out there who want the best for me? Should I have…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 03:31 AM
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That can apply to anyone, lean or obese. Training is the magic in making a physique. And CICO is not the answer. You'll eventually crash your thyroid, gaining weight, while eating only 1500 calories. Have to have exercise to make the body function correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 03:21 AM
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I don't know what you want me to say. Congratulations on your genetics? Not everyone has the same gifts. I gotta workout daily at least for 90 minutes or else my physique melts like ice cream in summer heat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 03:07 AM
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My heart goes out to you, dude. Stay strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 03:06 AM
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Look if you want to talk about politics, send me a DM, I'm totally open to that and when women talk to me about politics and stop reading CNN headlines, they realize that the political side they fight against actually has a lot of things right and protects women to a degree that the left side of the aisle cannot. Many women don't realize that they enforce their own stigma they aim to destroy. If women wanted equality so bad, why do we still need DEI standards? And if the wage gap is so bad, why …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 03:05 AM
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It's about how women have an internal image they mold of the men in their lives. Somewhat unconsciously and in an imperfect manner. Either the actions they see of that man that shatter it or they try to change them and especially in relationships, it makes them resent you over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 02:58 AM
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Sure. And I did use abrasive examples to make an understanding of your actions TODAY set your course for the future. Free will, am i right? But to continue, the only fair compromise is to find a partner you share some sort of hobby with. Otherwise, it builds envy over time. In this dating market, that goal becomes harder and harder. I'm a lucky man with my current girlfriend. We both are bodybuilders.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 02:51 AM
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I didn't imply that either. You're putting words in my mouth. And to be honest, it's true because women feel they can criticize men far more in society than the other way around. You criticize a woman for ANYTHING, they become a professional victim about it 75% of the time. I feel terrible for any man that has to be a manager or boss for a female employee in the workplace because they can turn that into a harassment case with HR any second they want to. And for your information, I'm in my mid 20…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 02:49 AM
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You're intentionally misunderstanding my post to make points that fit your narrative. Me debating you over this would just be a waste of my breath and time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 02:43 AM
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I don't struggle to get laid, either bro. I'm in a relationship and happy but I discovered this key rule i now follow and decided to talk about. Self-awareness is when you realize it isn't worth sacrificing your ideal self to please others, even a lover and it's the true key to spiritual freedom. If you want to play the "I'm on your side" card to get in women's pants, that's your game but deep down, if you're going to call me, a stranger on the internet, a fascist without me telling you one sing…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 02:42 AM
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While I'll leave your points at be, let's be real here. Inflation is killing us. A dinner date with a movie and some late night drinks is about 150 dollars. Just soul suckingly expensive and it's all greedy profits causing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 02:38 AM
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That this situation often transpires beyond just dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 02:37 AM
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Amen. Emotional IQ is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 02:35 AM
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Barbie movie was a weak feminist joke at best and for your record, my age doesn't matter when i am delivering valid points in a debate. Your ageist retort has no effect on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 02:35 AM
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Fascist? LMMMMAAAOOOOOO. Liberals like you I know have lost the debate when you start playing the name calling game. Go cope somewhere else, bro. This isn't the subreddit to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 02:34 AM
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Truth is flexible and relative. We see this in religion. This is truth and facts and while I'm not trying to make this a philosophy battle, that's why I said it was "my truth".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 02:31 AM
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Calories doesn't mean anything if you're not working out. Source: Been a gym bro for 6 years. Muscle just doesn't grow from protein alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 02:30 AM
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Overwhelmingly uncommon
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 02:29 AM
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Her mold of me was not the truth and therefore she took offense. She created a version of me in her mind that wasn't the truth when she asked for clarification. More of an internal than external fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 02:29 AM
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You know, i actually accept this counter. Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 02:27 AM
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Isn't sexist. It's just observation. And at the end of the day, I'm an individualistic libertarian. I could care less how people live their lives whether male or female.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 01:27 AM
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I wouldn't say it's red pill because red pill focuses too much on a grading dogma of rating women and their potential.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 01:25 AM
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First priority is controlling your mental health. I feel more women i meet than don't do NOT have their mental health in check. Most commonly, unmanaged anxiety they try to find their answer to in the bottom of a bottle on the weekend, depression either about recent events, current results of your life, or failed promises, and certainly not last, a version of BPD. I call it "camera syndrome" for a lot of reasons. Essentially, you are not the person you act like when someone's watching. Secondly,…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 09:51 PM
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Liberal women absolutely cheat more. Source: I lived in both one of the most conservative and most liberal cities in America through my teens and 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 09:06 PM
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Kind of weird having come back to this subreddit years later on a different account but I'm somewhat an ex/reformed red piller. It came from an unbelievably bad dating life in childhood years. Falsely accused of rape at 14 then spiraled into deep confidence issues and an underwhelming ability to close the deal with other high school girls my age. In reality, I was fat, deeply insecure, stupid emotional and unable to control it, and a terrible stutter made me a nuisance for women to deal with. My…
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